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Choose Life. Choose a job. Choose a career. Choose a family. Choose a fucking big television, choose washing machines, cars, compact disc players and electrical tin openers. Choose good health, low cholesterol, and dental insurance. Choose fixed interest mortage repayments. Choose a starter home. Choose your friends. Choose leisurewear and matching luggage. Choose a three-piece suite on hire purchase in a range of fucking fabrics. Choose DIY and wondering who the fuck you are on a Sunday morning…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 07:45 PM
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But how is your statement relevant to the topic at hand? Equality of opportunity is not at odds with accepting that the genders are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 07:37 PM
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Because it's simply a false statement, no two ways about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 03:11 PM
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Yeah I think it does. There's no real mainstream masculine identity and if you try and seek one out through this wonderful portal of knowledge we have here you'll be bombarded with articles on how evil masculinity is. Here's a debate on this issue featuring Milo who's better at putting this kind of shit into words than I am. It's only 15 mins and it's worth a watch if you're interested in this issue. To be honest though I do think there are similar issues with feminine identities too. You do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:51 AM
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I'll tell you one thing: spitters are quitters.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:38 AM
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Sounds like a regular Friday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:28 AM
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There isn't one. There's one for general violence against women (and one for men) but not DV specifically. It just redirected me to the main DV article, but that one's written in a fairly gender neutral manner and it says: Domestic violence affects men, women and children. In the United States, 35.6% of women and 28.5% of men have experienced some form of domestic violence (including rape, physical violence, or stalking) by an intimate partner in their lifetime.[3] Globally, however, a wife or f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:11 AM
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Common law marriage is a whole other extremely fucked up issue in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:05 AM
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It also says: Whereas women who experience domestic violence are openly encouraged to report it to the authorities, it has been argued that men who experience such violence often encounter pressure against reporting, with those that do facing social stigma regarding their perceived lack of machismo and other denigrations of their masculinity.[1]:6[2] Additionally, intimate partner violence (IPV) against men is generally less recognized by society than IPV against women, which can act as a furthe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 10:27 PM
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if Domestic violence against men page got deleted https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_against_men ???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:59 PM
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If there are no children involved the laws are surprisingly equal to be honest. The trouble arises when a child is involved, this is how the woman gets an advantage. But /u/TempestTcup said "didn't have kids" so she's likely correct she'd have to pay him support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:39 PM
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good clay makes strong pots, men are the potters Saved. Such a way with words as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:37 PM
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Divorce stats are not as dire as people make them out to be. I'm not sure what the stats are where you live but here in the UK they're pretty fucking dire honestly. 42% of marriages in the UK end in divorce. there are a lot of legal benefits. What are they? I'm guessing you're in the US so I'm curious what extra rights marriage gets you over there aside from the tax breaks (which the UK gives to cohabiting couples too). we will be sure to figure out the logistics before we get in too deep but ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:33 PM
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From what I've been both IRL and online, the guys who obsess over sex strongly are the guys not having much of it, while the guys who don't care much either way are the ones who don't have trouble getting it when they want it. Abundance mentality is a good thing. It's very healthy. But no one is having abundance mentality unless they have experience to build it. That's the division I think we're seeing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 06:32 PM
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As it happens I just made a post about exactly this in another thread. If you're having a kid with someone I understand the reason you may want to get married - to provide a stable environment for the child and all that. I don't necessarily agree with that view because I don't believe parents who stay together begrudgingly are really better than parents who are separated, but nonetheless I understand why some people think otherwise. Also the extra risks are minimal - you're already on the hook f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 06:23 PM
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Yeah very easy to have a social life and meet new people in literally any city over here in the UK too. The people ITT saying they feel like they need to be in a couple to have a social life are just making me depressed. There's ways of meeting people that aren't being a middle class family of four in a house with a picket fence so you can have the neighbours over once a month for tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 06:09 PM
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OP specified "family life" so yes of course I'm basing my premise on children. DINK is a good model but I don't see the point of marriage in that setup. Pretty much the only real argument that can possibly be made for why marriage has any utility is that it helps provide a stable environment for children. I don't necessarily buy into that argument with the divorce stats as they are and because, although the idea is it makes it more likely the couple will stay together for the kid, I don't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 06:05 PM
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Damn that's shitty, hope you gave that doc a piece of your mind. I think my gf has the hormonal one. She got given an injection that hurt for a couple of days anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 02:44 PM
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Mate if a woman came on here posting this she'd get identical advice from me. If you are attracted to someone, make the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 02:42 PM
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That article makes me very happy that in the meantime my girlfriend has an IUD. And yeah I looked it up and it's not too expensive, it's around £500 which is a gazillion times cheaper than child support. I'm trying to get a better job right now though because money is tight. Once I have that extra disposable income it is one of the first things on my list. Once I get it out the way I'll be so much more chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 02:30 PM
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Yeah I can't wait for the weight that'll be taken off my shoulders when I finally get it done. The NHS has similar rules, they don't like doing it if you have no kids and especially if you're young, but a private doctor will do whatever you want if you can pay up so I'll probably end up going that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 02:15 PM
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Hold the phone. I can include playing with a pair of titties and going no further in my N count? Shit, I can double that baby. Thanks, teenage me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 02:05 PM
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Vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:52 PM
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Honestly I don't give a flying fuck, just as long as they understand if they wear provocative clothing they can expect extra attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:45 PM
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A classic combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:20 PM
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I'm just answering OP's question. I don't care if you get married, but for me it's a massive risk not worth taking so I'm not doing it. The hedonistic alternative sounds much more fun and ironically it's probably cheaper than a wife, kids, house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:08 PM
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You can't just tell girls to act a certain way because it helps you. That's not how life works. Drink a few beers or have a line of coke or something then go up to that girl and ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 11:55 AM
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Well I'd have to look at the text of the law to see if it does make consensual power dynamics illegal or not, but knowing our nanny state I'd assume it does not care so my dynamic probably is illegal. In that case yeah it kinda does make it hotter because of taboo. To quote Frankie Boyle: "I vote we re-criminalise homosexuality so I can feel dirty when I do it."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 11:48 AM
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No need to be so dramatic. The police will not knock down your door because you post on MRP/RPW. You know BDSM is illegal in the UK too and case law has ruled it as such since the 80's because you cannot consent to physical harm as far as the law is concerned. See Operation Spanner. Indeed you could easily argue this law further criminalises BDSM too because now the psychological side is also on shaky legal ground. Still there's a massive BDSM scene in the UK and I've not been arrested for indul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 11:38 AM
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Lol my master/slave relationship is now officially illegal. That just makes it hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 11:12 AM
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Hey RP are the ones against marriage lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 10:14 AM
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Confidence does not come only from women being attracted to you. Confidence can come from many other internal and external sources. Simply exercising daily can make you more confident even before the physical improvements are noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 09:58 AM
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The primary advantage is money. It's something that effects every aspect of your life and you simply have much less of it if you have kids because kids are fucking expensive. The average cost to bring up one child to the age of 18 is £250,000 and that does not include university. Most people have at least two kids. That's £500,000 before uni. If I don't have a family I have more money to spend on myself and I can buy a Lamborghini. Yes that's related to sex and social life. Getting sex is a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 09:47 AM
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The old series is very very dry honestly. I really want to like it but I've just not been able to get into it. Each story is drawn out over like four episodes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 09:39 AM
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And has OP even read any Doctor Who fanfic? It's very clear many fans the show obviously want there to be romance going on. The American fangirls in particular seem to only watch Doctor Who because they crush on The Doctor, although I'm sure fewer are doing that with Peter Capaldi. He's a fucking excellent Doctor though. P.S. Donna sucks fite me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 09:36 AM
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Were you wearing a hockey mask and holding a chainsaw?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 09:33 AM
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That's kinda what happens in most relationships anyway. P.S. holy late reply Batman!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 10:45 AM
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The meaning of life is whatever you want it to be. TRP is not literally a religion, it doesn't dictate the meaning of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 07:15 PM
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When did people (both genders) become so mean and hateful? Outside the internet most people aren't. Don't think internet gender wars are indicative of real world gender relations. In the old days, sex was called making love. People have always fucked for fun. Always. You're looking at the past through rose tinted glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 07:12 PM
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Not fat is the obvious one as you can see. I like "scene girls" too, they're cute. Tattoos and piercings and shit are what I'm all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 07:10 PM
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So was I.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:56 PM
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Actually knowing someone in real life is the bare minimum I need to feel any sort of empathy. Simply telling me what their favourite song is does nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:55 PM
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Tor is not a VPN, completely different system. But Tor allows you access hidden services because those sites make themselves accessible only from within the Tor network. They don't have a regular domain name but rather they have a hash followed by ".onion", for example https://facebookcorewwwi.onion/ will take you to Facebook. You can think of it as logging into a separate internet, that's pretty much what it is when you access darknet sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:54 PM
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Tor is a US project but the nodes are all run independently. Personally I do not recommend Tor for day to day browsing because while it does mask your activity from your ISP it also has a big weakness and that's the exit nodes. Those are the servers that direct your traffic onto the regular internet so they see your traffic unencrypted. Because anyone can set one up, anyone running enough exit nodes can monitor activity on the Tor network (and the FBI have invested in doing just this) and if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 04:35 PM
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Using a VPN with servers in Switzerland. A proper setup will get you an encrypted tunnel to the Swiss server using 4096 bit AES over OpenVPN. That's pretty much impossible to break with current technology and in any case the ISPs keeping records for the snooper's charter won't try. In layman's terms, instead of all your internet browsing going directly through your ISP, an encrypted connection to a server abroad is set up and that server is used as a middleman for all your traffic. So your ISP o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 04:12 PM
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I'm not gonna defend literally everything posted on TRP. As I said before I think the ECs post a lot of crap. But that doesn't stop any of what I said to you from being true. Especially when it sounds like you get your view of TRP purely from the cherrypicked submissions to TBP. We're going around in circles here so there's probably no point continuing. Neither of us will change the other's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 04:03 PM
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It's because you're apart of the red pill. Sigh, this is exactly my point. You're employing circular logic. Red pill is a hate group so everyone in it hates women. Why does everyone in red pill hate women? Because red pill is a hate group. Emotions emotions...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 03:44 PM
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The term "hate group" in and of itself is an emotional judgement. Labelling every single person who uses a particular internet board a "member of a hate group" doubly so. RP ideology is just observations. Some of the users get too angry but the basic ideology behind it is based on logic. You are free to disagree with the logical process and theories but I maintain that labelling the users the way you do is a pure emotional reaction. I mean you just claimed I hate women because I think dread game…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 03:36 PM
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You seem emotionally driven here so there's not much point in further debate. If you want to hold the belief that anyone subscribing to TRP ideas hates women go ahead. It is an emotional, not rational, view though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 03:27 PM
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It sounds to me like you've got a preconceived idea of what you want RPers to be so now you're just looking for confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 03:12 PM
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If I say I agree that dread game is a good strategy and having a dominant personality is a good thing for maintaining a relationship and being attractive as a straight man, do I now hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 03:00 PM
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I would say I subscribe to much of RP philosophy, but yet many of the ECs post absolute crap. I can generalize that everyone on /r/squaredcircle likes pro wrestling. I can generalize that everyone on /r/pokemon likes Pokemon. But it's likely everyone will have a different view on who is the best wrestler or what their favourite Pokemon game is. And I can safely say that everyone who posts in a hate group against women is a misogynist. You are coming to a conclusion before you even read the mater…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 02:55 PM
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I agree 100%. In the EU they actually did rule the insurance thing as sexist. Women have to pay the same rates as men now. Personally I think that's stupid. If women present a lower risk to the insurance companies they should be able to adjust their prices to reflect this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 02:40 PM
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I post on a lot of communities full of people with wildly varying opinions to me. PPD is an example, but you might counter it doesn't count as it's a debate community. But even on communities with more of a unifying idea or interest, people will have very different views of the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 02:38 PM
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"keeping us safe from terrorists" It's ridiculous how many people actually believe this line too. Everyone knows the government is monitoring the internet and that includes terrorists and criminals. All increased blanket surveillance does is drive these people further underground. It's so easy to just fire up the Tor Browser even my gran could do it. It's also easy to use a secure messaging app on your phone. Yeah they can put backdoors in WhatsApp if they want but who is expecting an app owned …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 02:06 PM
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You are being deliberately obtuse. If you specifically ask someone to be your boyfriend or girlfriend the exclusivity is implied, but this is not the same as simply dating someone. If the rule is ambiguous, then no one is going to say you were behaving immoral. Precisely my point. I think a lot of what people think is "questionable" in RP theory is morally ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 01:16 PM
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Do you think that it is required to explicitly state this for cheating to occur? If you are just dating then yes. A lot of people out in the world do, that's not just me. disagree on what the default rules are in our society. It seems we've just done the same thing, though, and not even on an RP specific issue. People do indeed have differing views on whether you're automatically exclusive or not if you're dating someone. That suggests to me these rules are not universal at all, but instead go b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:24 PM
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The Telegraph article seems to be claiming men just have a higher body temperature even when not wearing suits: The men around us are all pretty much jacket-free. In fact, most of them have their shirt sleeves rolled up and religiously maintain that the temperature is ‘fine’. Honestly though trying to actually get a logical argument from this nonsense is as pointless as trying to get an actual plot from a porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:21 PM
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Lol you're doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:19 PM
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Hahahaha. Luv u.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:02 PM
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Should be common sense that if it's cold outside you wrap up warmer than usual, it's not rocket surgery and it's not like they don't make suits for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:01 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:00 PM
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it only tracks website visited not what happens when you go onto it This is technological limitation when monitoring SSL'd sites anyway. If the URL of the site starts with "https" anyone monitoring your connection knows what site you're on but they don't know what you're doing on it. They could find out if they cracked the encrypted traffic or used a MITM attack with a fake cert but that'd require a targeted attack on you specifically. That's not what's happening here. OP, if you are worried abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:58 AM
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All my internet activity is tunnelled through Switzerland. Fuck the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:52 AM
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The original article is actually from the Washington Post. It was subsequently reported on by Jezebel, the Telegraph, and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:49 AM
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You're making up a definition to fit your purposes. Put "ad hominem" into Google and this is the definition it gives you: (of an argument or reaction) directed against a person rather than the position they are maintaining. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:45 AM
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Is this post true?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:42 AM
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https://archive.is/z9uLj
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:25 AM
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Ad hominem is when you attack the person instead of their argument. Which is what you did. I take that to mean you cannot actually argue what I said. You people may be good at circlejerking but your debating skills are terrible (see, I can do it too).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:22 AM
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r/fuckfeminists Disappointed this isn't a porn sub :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:19 AM
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Ah bringing out the ad homs again are we? Of course. The easy option when you have no argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:18 AM
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Do you agree not to have sex with other men? What you mean like asking the person you're dating if you're exclusive or not? Because that's pretty standard in dating. Do you agree not to pour spiders on my face while I sleep? You mean you're not meant to that? Shit... But okay, exactly what basic rules do you think TRP is breaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:16 AM
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Also, even though throughout this thread they're trying to say TRP's generalisations are wrong, they often try to use outliners to combat TRP's generalisations. For example if I were to say "women like men who are dominant" you'd quickly a bloop response saying "my sister's dad's friend's hamster knows a 10/10 girl who goes out with a shy awkward guy so there!" Ignoring the fact that, even if true, that's still an outliner compared to the general trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:10 AM
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So you think you can accurately judge the way someone acts in real life by internet forum they visit? I think that is quite a big leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:05 AM
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"You can only make generalisations if I approve of them."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:02 AM
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Now this is meta. Also shoutout to /r/TBPcore for mocking /r/TRPcore ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 10:56 AM
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Lol this kind of rhetoric literally makes me laugh out loud. "Someone who has a favourite song is having their feels hurt guys!" I get what you're trying to do, the idea is you're humanising this imaginary person so we get all empathetic and feel sorry for them, but it's just cringeworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 10:43 AM
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Physical violence is, if anything, the very opposite of successful psychological manipulation. I don't see the connection you are attempting to draw between the two here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 10:40 AM
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The question is faulty at its premise because no one who is truly DT is going to give a flying fuck about morality at all. That's the whole point of the DT. I'd wager most people on TRP are not actually DT, and I'm sure you'd agree, but in that case the question does not apply to them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 10:37 AM
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TBP and TRP disagree about what the covert rules are. So those "covert rules" can't be objective then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 10:33 AM
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Glad you like it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 08:19 PM
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It's actually amoral and isn't full of anger phasers. Everything TRP should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 07:25 PM
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I read the objectivist site you sent me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 04:18 PM
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I feel a very basic level of emotion but it's very shallow. Emotion doesn't come into questions like we're discussing here for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 03:13 PM
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When I read other people's comments, I am drawn towards those comments which are candid. I am much more interested in reading what people actually think and feel rather than what they ought to think or feel. Me too. The way I see it, if you're just a username on Reddit there's no reason to lie the same way you often have to IRL. I like being frank with my views here and talking with others who are the same. I will add H.L. Mencken to my list, thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 03:11 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 02:56 PM
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I always enjoy your comments, you're an intellectual but you're level headed rather than the holier-than-thou attitude many well read people often display. The only thing I've really read on this subject is The Satanic Bible by Anton LaVey which is the first "religious" text that actually spoke to me. As LaVey himself said, Satanists are born not made, and indeed when I read that book I just found myself nodding along to 90% of it because it reflected what I was already doing in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 02:44 PM
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Again, I don't disagree with that you're saying. I'm only saying this kind of emotion need not be brought into RP discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 02:41 PM
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How does spinning plates equate to sociopathy? Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 02:29 PM
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In day to day life sure, we all have some form of moral system. But when discussing theories online you need not apply your morals to that information. That's what TRP aims to do but I think the anger clouds it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 02:24 PM
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You're right, but TRP would not be the place to discuss how great divorce rape is because it's about strategy for men. If women wanna make their own board to discuss that then cool. TRP for men. But honestly I do agree TRP in general has a problem with too much moralising. That's a big reason /r/TRPcore was made. It aims to discuss without the anger not to make it more palatable to bloops but because I think the anger too often clouds the message and true amorality should be the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 02:02 PM
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Morality is a very personal thing, it's subjective rather than objective as some BPers would have you believe. As far as I'm concerned, to use the old cliché, it's a dog eat dog world and everyone is out for themselves. To remain ignorant of this and act like everyone is my friend would only be a disadvantage. It's how people become easily manipulated doormats. But I'm not malicious. I'm just a hedonist. That's why I don't care about "being remembered" or "leaving a legacy" and it's also why I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 01:44 PM
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2016 will be the year of /r/TRPcore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 01:25 PM
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That is interesting, perhaps that's how our amoral personality types come about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 01:20 PM
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It's easier to change yourself than it is to change others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 01:17 PM
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Hell if selling small amounts of drugs to friends counts I'm a bad boy criminal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 01:14 PM
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/r/MensLib too. Enjoy listening to their advice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 11:32 AM
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I'll be fair to you because Reddit's search function is terrible, but this is like the most commonly asked question here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 11:25 AM
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Oh good, one of these threads again. There's not been one of these for like two whole days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 11:14 AM
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He said he's working class. Not as abnormal as you'd think. My mum knew people who robbed banks when she was a teenager. Was just normal to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 11:08 AM
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Do you believe having a criminal history has the potential to diminish one's potential to have a long term relationship? Why or why not? No. Ted Bundy got hundreds of love letters a day and married one of his fangirls in court. The same is true for literally every single other notorious criminal. Anyone on death row will be getting love letters too, I would bet you everything I own. I honestly think the same applies to women too, there's just far fewer notorious female criminals in the first pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 11:02 AM
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I wouldn't be the Xan Man without kilos of it in my bag eh? I've definitely learned her tricks, I just kinda use them on autopilot, don't really know any other way of socialising and really there's no other way to talk to my mum without getting caught up in the mind games so I had to learn it. She bragged to me about it and everything so it wasn't exactly subtle. She literally gave me step by step tips on emotional blackmail once when I was about 10. She was proud of herself. Yeah pretty fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 01:07 AM
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5 4 5 5 4 6 None of those is really my type but none are really ugly either. All hanging around the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 12:56 AM
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Except for 4 and 8 my mum did all of those to varying degrees. She had a fucked up childhood so I'm not exactly surprised she developed fucked up personality traits as coping mechanisms. That's how these things work. I wouldn't call my mum an abusive anything though. I looked up to her as a kid and in some ways I still do. I learnt how to manipulate people from her too. She taught me the darker side of human psychology early on, I was never naive. My dad never really talked much and still doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 12:12 AM
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Do you think that this kind of scenes would have been accepted nowaday No, that's why such scenes are not in the modern James Bond films. and it is a good thing? Well it's a good thing hitting women isn't acceptable of course, but then again I think fiction should be allowed to show things that're unacceptable in real life. There was also scenes in older james bond where you could see female breast with tits uncensored (which it is now of course). James Bond these days is something you can take …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 10:26 PM
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Lol women can't survive as well as men on the show and it proves it's "super unfair." Well I guess that's a correct assessment if you're referring to biology. Good recap of the show she's referring to for anyone who doesn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 04:38 PM
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Culture difference I guess. Not a shocker US loves weapons more than the UK. But you saying they all know how to build a fire and hunt and fish etc too? It does seem unusual someone living in a major city would take the time to learn those skills these days and I'd argue it's not the norm. Not that I necessarily disagree with OP either, because if you're living in the wild physical strength has very real utility and men have more of it. But I do think most men these days don't know survival skil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 04:34 PM
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Are the guys you know specifically involved in criminal activity? I know we both know some dodgy people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 04:15 PM
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A white knight is a guy who licks a girl's boots because he's desperate to fuck her. A superhero is a vigilante who fights crime. I mean sure, sometimes the superhero will save a girl, but that's because they save everyone. I don't see how that's like a white knight who is just a victim of the women are wonderful effect. To answer your question: If a guy literally protected a girl from bodily harm, would that be enough to win her favor? It would depend on the situation. If a guy fought off some …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 04:13 PM
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Can't make a fire, don't carry knives, don't hunt or fish, and I literally know no one who does. Well, strictly speaking I do know a few people who carry knives but only because they're criminals and most men aren't criminals. If you live in a city the odds are you can't do any of that hunting and fishing shit and most people don't keep weapons on them unless they have a specific reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 04:04 PM
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a population group you think is oppressed in the USA None, that's kind of my point. It's a first world country. No group is singled out and "oppressed." Poor people are disadvantaged just like anywhere else but aside from that I cannot see any valid argument for calling any group of people living in a first world country "oppressed." There are some US government policies I believe are oppressive, e.g. NSA surveillance, but they target the entire population.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 04:00 PM
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Honestly I've been RP for a good while now, I only call myself purple because I don't want to associate with the embarrassment that is TRP. Solid theory, shitty community.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 10:55 AM
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Like other people have already stated, TRP does not have any viable claim of exclusive ownership for RP ideas. Referring to different reading material as TRP does not mean they're not RP ideas. Not sharing mods with TRP does not mean they're not RP ideas. Disagreeing with TRP's ECs does not mean they're not RP ideas. /u/MorpheusGodOfDreams summed it up already. The core RP idea is simply that men and women are different. We go from there and use the same RP ideas and observations on the differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 08:52 PM
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RPS did not make TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 08:26 PM
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If only the lawmakers actually followed that instead of making more and more new laws that intrude into our personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:08 PM
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But I was breaking off a pilot and a TSA agent so I can fly with drugs when I want! :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:52 PM
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Well yeah as I said, if it makes you happy I can't really argue. It's your life, do what brings you meaning personally. To me embracing the lack of meaning in life gives me a sense of power because I know nothing really matters and I can do whatever the fuck I like. I indulge in hedonism in my short insignificant blip of a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:50 PM
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Manic-Pixie-Dream-Girl who is immune to 'Game' and only responds to sensitive, artsy neurotic guys who aren't afraid to be vulnerable, etc. The nerdy scene in general fucking loves this delusion. Buying into it for way too long set me back a bit in my teens honestly. Luckily I snapped out of it afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:26 PM
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Hey if it makes you happy believe what you want. All I'm saying is nothing that matters while your alive will matter when you're dead, it's literally impossible. It doesn't matter if what you value during life is family or money or cocaine. When you're dead you cannot experience absolutely anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:18 PM
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Ultimately yeah. Your brain gives things meaning, your brain also stops working when you die. Just enjoy shit while you're alive instead of trying to find meaning. Nothing matters when you're in the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:08 PM
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For the reasons I stated in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:01 PM
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Why does any of that matter if you're dead? You're not around to give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:01 PM
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I'd argue your profession sustains you more than anything else. All the love in the world won't make your life better if you're living on the street. Relationships are nice, obviously, but they ultimately matter as little as everything else you do. When you're dead your relationships won't matter because you're not alive anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 07:31 PM
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Why thank you. I'm inclined to agree. I am pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 03:13 PM
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She knows how to party too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 02:16 PM
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That's exactly what the RPW comment is saying. It's childish behaviour and it's the opposite of submission. You literally just agreed with RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:50 PM
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You're not wrong really. I actually find PPD to be a better place to discuss red pill than TRP itself for this reason. That's also why I made /r/TRPcore which I hope takes off. For rational discussion of the theories with no anger allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:49 PM
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Is taking a guy home with you a sexual situation? Yes. He may think that this is an invite for sex while she might have only thought about drinking something and hanging out. If a guy wants to take you home after a date, or he wants to go to your place, or whatever, he wants sex. Period. If you agree to that after the date, I'd say you're entering into a situation where the motive is obviously sexual. If you go home with a guy and don't expect him to hit on you, frankly you are naive. Simply goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:45 PM
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That analogy is faulty. In reality it'd be more like me handing out free iPhones to people then complaining they took them because I didn't explicitly say they could. If you're already in a sexual situation with someone and you let them escalate it without objection then how is that rape? You expecting the guy to be a psychic?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 12:48 PM
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Indeed, you can't negotiate desire. The same way as I can't just force myself to get it up for fatties, even the ultra-progressive feminists can't force themselves to want unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 12:32 PM
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Yeah but at the same time, plenty of people get away with using MDMA and that number is so large the police generally do not bother doing people for possession unless they literally have nothing better to do. If a behaviour becomes normalised then any law against it will pretty much be irrelevant. To me, if I'm asked if something is illegal, I take the question to mean can you get away with it. Taking MDMA is not legal but odds are, yes, you will get away with it. To relate this to sex and relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 12:24 PM
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She flipped out over him not controlling her spending and emailed him angry things while he was at work, but it's okay because she respects him and he can take it. She rationalizes that she flipped out because she's submissive. Why that not a valid criticism? You realise not every single bad thing said about women is unjustified right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 12:09 PM
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From the top comment thread: Not gonna lie, that would make me uncomfortable as hell. People spousewhining to members of the opposite sex is a bad idea. I don't discuss marital dissatisfaction with men other than my husband. He wouldn't "vent" to another female either. Maybe this is hamstery, but that would concern me more than the sport team situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:33 AM
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I agree with that you're saying about apathy. I think it's what happens when people focus too much on the negative behaviours exposed and too little on the self-improvement advice provided. But this again is the behaviour of the users, not the fault of the underlying theory. It's important to separate the two. I agree with a large portion of the underlying RP theory but the TRP userbase is full of angry morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:21 AM
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The core of the idea TRP puts forward is that men are more capable of being attracted to multiple women than women are at being attracted to multiple men. This relates to the double standards wrt promiscuity and hypergamy vs. polygyny. I think it's is an interesting topic that should be discussed more. I might do a thread about it. Anyway, I accept the premise I outlined above. I think it's easier for a man to be attracted to multiple women and still retain equal attraction to all of them than i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:15 AM
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I just posted a link to that thread in my other reply. The top comment on that post was from a woman who did control the finances in her relationship and actually recommended OP give her SO a small amount of spending money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:54 AM
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I'm probably at odds with TRP here but I have actually found that women who sleep around a lot are in the minority. I don't think it's something most women do because it's not something they tend to enjoy. As for "so what?", she can do what she likes, I just won't get into a serious relationship with her if she's had 36 sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:52 AM
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Surely you can provide me with examples then. I just provided examples from RPW for my argument in response to another comment of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:50 AM
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Okay, now let me show you why I think you're wrong. Example 1. OP worries about her husband not stepping up. Top upvoted reply: I would love to hear an alternate opinion from someone more experienced, but my gut reaction upon reading your situation was that not every man is a worthy captain. He has been doing the same thing for 10 years while you, by your account, have been supportive, loving, and giving him plenty of room to lead and change your situation. Do you see any realistic indication th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:49 AM
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That's not really answering my question. Can you answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:36 AM
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I think Steve Jobs increased quality of life for many including myself. His company makes good laptops and smartphones and without Apple we'd probably still be using BlackBerries. Yuck. Steve Jobs as a person was a complete asshole though. He was horrible to virtually everyone he worked with and even his own family. You could also say politicians have increased the quality of life of many through some of their policies. Even the National Socialist Party had policies that helped some people. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:32 AM
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What makes you think this? Don't just say "because they're terpers", can I see RPW posts that reflect this attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:23 AM
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Make a post and see. I'm pretty sure I'm right. They constantly tell women to leave if their captain isn't up to his duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:22 AM
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Ease of access isn't the only reason TRP judges it differently though. In fact it's a minor one compared to the differences in male and female sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:21 AM
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It's a metaphor. /r/seduction was already taken and the quality has dropped quite a lot in recent years. I think that's partly the reason TRP was made in the first place but I could be wrong there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:52 AM
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Exactly what makes RPW dangerous to women in a way that presents a risk not inherent in any other traditional relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:51 AM
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Again you fall back on your caricature of TRP to form your opinions. RPW is pretty clear that if the woman is better than the man at a certain task she should ideally be the one in charge of it, and if the man not allowing this is damaging their relationship or their finances or whatever she should leave him. For example if the guy is an ex-gambler while the woman is an accountant, we can all agree she should probably do the finances. RPW would agree too. If you were to go on there now and make …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:49 AM
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Ehh... TRP has its own view of reality it wants to uphold too. Both sides do this. There's nothing inherently wrong with this, everyone has views on things that influence the way they see the world. No point denying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:42 AM
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But don't you see how ridiculous that is? Judge it by the content, not by the name. If you agree with the core of RPW anyway, which is a traditional relationship dynamic, why are you shitting on them so heavily because of their name?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:39 AM
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You make the mistake of thinking TRP judges male and female partner counts by an identical metric. Which they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:33 AM
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If you don't actually let the person you're with know you want them to stop I have a hard time believing it's rape to be honest. I would not say silence is consent as such, but if you're already in a sexual situation then not saying no is effectively giving permission for it to continue yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:31 AM
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And much like Rohypnol, also an effective sleeping medication, GHB was only ever used in a small number of rape cases. The most common date rape drug is still legal and sold openly pretty much everywhere. You guessed it, it's alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:27 AM
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Bloops actually reading red pill? Lol. All they need is their circlejerk satire sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:16 AM
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I like how the only reason RPW is hated is because it has "red pill" in the name. This comment is a good demonstration. If it was called /r/traditionalrelationships instead I bet it wouldn't get even half the flack.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:13 AM
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This applies to captain first mate too. If the first mate happens to know more about a certain thing they will probably have more input.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:09 AM
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And I bet you for 99% of the men making those jokes they don't actually mean "I hate women". They mean "I am frustrated about sexism" or "I am angry about being taken advantage of in my relationships" or "I am tired of getting hateful comments from people on my blog posts." Change two words and now it's a defence of TRP haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:05 AM
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Comment is on point. If they were really "oppressed" they wouldn't be able to publish this shite. Although it's just clickbait and Vice is just a 3edgy5me Buzzfeed anyway, why is OP holding it up like something that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:02 AM
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So nothing, really. Your brain is just programmed to release lots of serotonin and dopamine when you find a girl you can bang. I'm guessing you're not 14 so stop with the song lyrics lol. I agree with your original post up until the point where you try to make human relationships sound like some kind of magic that actually matters when the rest of your existence doesn't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 08:58 AM
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He didn't need to go out chasing women, his money and status did it for him. He had a net worth of £500m.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 10:19 PM
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You think someone would do that? Just go on the internet and tell lies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 07:06 PM
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Eh that girl likely believes there's some chance of that happening. After all he obviously finds her attractive enough to fuck her. The guy paying a hooker knows she wouldn't be on his dick if it wasn't for the money. I don't think that's comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 06:19 PM
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One of my best friends is an escort, sometimes she is paid just for her company but it's fairly rare, the vast majority of her clients are only after one thing. You're right they make you feel wanted, that's why GFE is a thing, but be real, the guys know that's only an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 06:07 PM
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TRP is full of anger and that does indeed cloud the message of amorality and logical objectivity. The theories behind it are not inherently emotional though, it's the users who moralise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 05:43 PM
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How's that relevant to my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 05:39 PM
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http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/events/c-plus-equality-c
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 03:05 PM
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The bloke who said that is a self-made millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 02:48 PM
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If men needed the level of emotion you're talking about to enjoy sex, hookers would be out of business.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 02:13 PM
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MDMA is just amphetamine that releases serotonin, it's as likely to kill you as Adderall which is not very. Use a sensible dose and only take it every few months and it's very safe. Anyways I agree, nerdy women are usually awkward like the nerdy men so it's not that men ignore them, it's just that they're introverted and not likely to be socialising much in the first place. Also, if a girl is just sitting there quietly it's intimidating, you feel like you're bothering her if you talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 01:56 PM
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Lol you're getting downvoted for stating facts, I love it. If someone tells me they have acid am I breaking the law by not telling the police? CWM's trolling is obvious and it's funny people are eating it up. He's a dickhead but a good troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 12:51 PM
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I'm imagining the Pope playing his Xbox shouting "420 blaze it faggot!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 09:24 AM
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He needs some serious therapy. Maybe medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 09:18 AM
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the plates thing is doing that, but purposely keeping them in the dark about what else you're doing. No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 09:15 AM
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I always like using this Felix Dennis quote in these discussions: “Let’s get real. I mean, you know, if you had millions of pounds, and you could be in love with half a dozen beautiful women at the same time, and they were happy with that arrangement, would you? Or would you like to be married and have children? Choose!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 09:11 AM
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It's not really newsworthy for some crazy girl with whatever personality disorder to attract guys. /r/BPD and its related subs have examples I guess. If you want an extreme example like a serial killer look into Joanna Dennehy. She had many male accomplices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 11:13 PM
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You've not provided a citation for your original claim most women are attracted to serious criminals. I provided as much evidence as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 10:57 PM
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That's little to do with niceness and more to do with sluttiness. I can't really argue with that because I agree there's nothing wrong with not wanting to have a serious relationship with a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 10:33 PM
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Well there's way fewer female serial killers in the first place. Men are however very easily attracted to women who display signs of being emotionally unstable, I think that's pretty much the male equivalent. How many guys do you know who have stories about psycho ex-girlfriends? Probably at least a few. Hybristophilia is focused on serious criminal activity specifically so it doesn't come under that scope, but I think the same basic drives are involved, which is just being attracted to someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 10:24 PM
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One of my ex's went out with a 50 year old after we broke up and she was hot as fuck, thin blonde girl into all sorts of kinky shit, but she was also absolutely batshit insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 09:46 PM
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It's true that being a dominant asshole gets you further with women than many care to admit. However, it's also true that being nice has its place too, at least it does if you're in an LTR. You can't just be ultra dom 24/7. Sometimes you have to cheer her up or talk about things with her. As the more sensible RP often say, you need a mix of alpha and beta traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 07:31 PM
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Ted Bundy, too, had hundreds of love letters a day. Good old hybristophilia!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 07:29 PM
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Happens to both men and women to the same degree. When I was at uni it's true there was a certain group of guys who went out on the pull often, but it was also only a certain group of girls who joined in on that. I'd say at least half of both males and females were looking for relationships over ONS even if they were fairly casual. The others stayed in more and partied less. More of the girls I lived with at halls stayed in frequently compared to the guys. Also, the slutty girls who did particip…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 07:14 PM
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I'll invite you, it's private right now but I've got a few people interested and we're gonna put it on public soon. Edit: fuck it, since there's so much interest I made it public. Come play at /r/TRPcore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:45 PM
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Working on it. Well, it's done, I just need some people to post things on it before I open it up to the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:23 PM
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This is what happens when you read the Daily Mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:10 PM
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Freedom from Selective Service Your post refers to the first world in general but this only applies to the US. No other first world country has anything like this. Anyway, I get where you're coming from but in most aspects of life I doubt your gender makes much difference. The one thing I will say is people feel more empathy for women in general, but I'm not sure what practical advantages that'd afford me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:00 PM
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My gf is the one who approached me and well you know what our relationship is like. I think you're making the mistake of inferring too much purely from who approaches who in your OP here. Just because a woman approaches a man does not mean she will act masculine throughout the whole process. Usually this does not happen. But even if it does, like others said the first date does not set the tone for the entire relationship. There's still plenty more chances for the man who show how many he is and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 02:28 PM
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My girlfriend sure loves being treated like a sex toy so I dunno what to tell ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 01:13 PM
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Elliot Rodgers isn't notorious because of "misogyny", he's notorious because he actually went out and killed people (mostly men, actually) due to his severe mental illness (he was seeing therapists and psychiatrists who warned he was unstable).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 01:10 PM
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If you're open to polyamory I'll make you part of my harem dragoness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 09:28 AM
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The second definition of solipsism is being selfish. It's in the dictionary. https://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 08:50 PM
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Eh it's a topic that's been flogged to death in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 08:30 PM
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Well I mean the men who raped the women took the first offensive action in this scenario, and they're the only ones who actually harmed other human beings (no, a fetus is not a human being) so they're the baddies. The reason for the action does not matter, the action is still the same. In fact I agree 100% with /u/ianturpiesmoustache that the human race dying out wouldn't be a bad thing anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 10:09 AM
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/r/offmychest?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 12:59 AM
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Yeah TBP is SRS... I still think SRS is way worse than TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 12:57 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 12:46 AM
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What the people who make these claims seem to forget is most people are not out in the real world talking about gender politics. It does not fucking matter what your views on it are, most people are not gonna ask or care. The only things that matter are how good you look and how much charisma you have. If you present yourself well it doesn't matter if you're a genuine misogynist. If you're fat and awkward it doesn't matter if you're a hardcore feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 02:21 PM
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Nope. I've rejected girls hitting on me because I didn't find them attractive. I'd rather wank than fuck an unattractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 12:03 AM
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Fuck that would have been a better name.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 09:02 PM
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This is what I'm saying... let's say someone is still learning about TRP but they don't go through anger phase, they may want a place that doesn't require you already swallowed the pill, but isn't 90% full of people in the anger phase. That's what we're making. I would never have bothered to learn about RP from the TRP sub. It's so full of extreme anger it rips away any legitimacy of the messages. I only learnt about it because of the moderates in PPD. The idea is to make a sub focused on those …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 08:33 PM
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Makes perfect sense. You could be beta or otherwise ignorant of red pill concepts without going through the anger phase while learning about them. I sure did. Why should I get angry about that shit? I have no reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 08:27 PM
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Eh depends on the girl. When I was a socially awkward teen I banged a surprising number of attractive shy girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 02:47 PM
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Shy girls like shy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 02:39 PM
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That's because of alcohol's GABAergic effects. This is why I fucking love weed + benzos. Soooo fucking relaxing, you melt into the sofa man. Opiates and pregabalin mix very well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 11:01 AM
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If certain information is only reported by untrustworthy media outlets and cannot be found in the more reputable ones it's probably bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 10:56 AM
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You can swallow the pill without going through the anger phase, it's not compulsory for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 10:49 AM
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I looked at that one, it's a decent sub, but limited in scope by being focused only on people who've already swallowed the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 02:49 PM
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So you admit that women don't in fact shoulder more responsibility once the baby is actually born? Cool, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 02:47 PM
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Good therapy is expensive here too. The NHS just shovels SSRIs at everyone. Very difficult to get CBT on the NHS and when they do give it to you they do it very poorly. You need to use private healthcare to get good mental health treatment unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 02:46 PM
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I never said it was enlightening or "special." This is a debate sub so obviously you don't need to agree with TRP at all to be here. I'm just saying if you want to debate why TRP as a whole thinks a certain way, make sure that thought at least has a basis in the sidebar material. Simply saying "I saw a few comments in TRP that said this thing, why do red pillers all think this thing?" is a poor basis for debate. It's like saying "I saw a man wearing a blue jacket, why does every single man alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 12:07 AM
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I don't disagree man. And I'm not condemning anyone. But I've always been of the opinion that a separate space for discussing TRP specifically for people outside the anger phase would be an interesting concept. I think the reason TRP is so bloody intense is because the majority of active users seem to be anger phasers. This is what leads to the moralising Atlas refers to, among other issues. And I've noticed a lot of the endorsed/vanguards/etc will write as if they're still in the anger phase ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 11:53 PM
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Oh come on, /u/nomdplume is right you've been on PPD too long to pull this one. A large subreddit like TRP is always gonna be full of morons. Just because someone posts something in TRP doesn't automatically mean it's a belief shared by all RPers. The TRP "canon" if you will is the links on the sidebar. You don't need that spelled out to you really. If you want to debate core TRP theory reference the sidebar. If you want to debate what people say on the TRP sub, understand that anyone can commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 11:40 PM
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Me and Atlas and a few others are setting something up wrt this. TRP claims to be amoral but they have no issue with moral panic like the OP refers to just as long as the "anger phase" excuse is pulled out. The anger phase may be a legit thing some guys have to go through, but it doubtlessly lowers the quality of TRP especially when endorsed contributors encourage it. Anyway, watch this space.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 11:30 PM
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What I do believe is that the legal compulsion to contribute financially should be linked to access to the child. And unless there is some extremely good reason to the contrary, or both parties agree otherwise, some form of joint custody would be ideal. I agree with this, if both parents were happy with that arrangement I'd allow it under my system too. You are absolutely correct that children born into broken homes start at a disadvantage. Yep. The primary cause of this is not women having chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 08:19 PM
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Anyone with half a brain could tell you what I'm telling you. The fact you're saying things like this strongly suggests emotional investment. You can't ask the state to essentially compel women to have abortions because the man doesn't feel like supporting the child. I don't think you should be able to ask the state to compel men to pay for a child they don't want, yet here we are. Both parties have to take equal responsibility for that. If you truly believe this you should be on my side. Right …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:42 PM
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I'm NOT balancing the prescription cost for any meds against paying the mortgage or heating or food. Hey now, be fair. I have to pay £8.20 for my prescriptions. I could buy half the food from a Gregg's with that. Although, on the other hand, once I take my meds I won't need to eat anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:26 PM
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It's just one of those few markets where other solutions work better than basic capitalist/free market principles. Indeed. Any business operating in a market dealing with an essential service is going to abuse the shit out of their position given half the chance. This is no surprise, look at British Gas and BT. Bunch of cunts the lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:18 PM
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You keep using the word 'unwanted', you've yet to acceptably define what 'unwanted' is. If a child is 'unwanted' by the father, it automatically becomes 'unwanted', but the mother should get no say in this even if she does want it? If the mother doesn't want the child, it's unwanted. If the father doesn't want the child, it's unwanted. Difference is the mother gets a say in if the pregnancy happens or not, but father does not get a say for his side. My father had nothing to do with me from a cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:09 PM
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You're right about current society but never say never. Think about society 50 years ago vs. society today. Things change drastically over time and 50 years isn't even really that long. In fact feminists may even be my ally on this one. If they stick around to push the "strong independent woman who don't need no man" stuff further I can imagine that swinging things further may way for this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 05:39 PM
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Apparently being blunt and no nonsense isn't a good characteristic for female friends to have. Depends. If those friends are male they'll likely see it as a plus. If they're female not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 05:34 PM
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Yep. The NHS is good for many things but mental health is absolutely not one of them. They are abysmal for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 05:18 PM
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The insurance model that dominates US healthcare is the reason for this too. A perfect example is a pharmacy. Let's say I have a pharmacy and obviously I want to make the most profit I can from it. The easiest way to do that is to charge as much as I can for my drugs. Normally this would drive most customers away as my product is the same as the other guy's down the road. Except the big rich insurance companies pay for my customer's drugs. I know they have deep pockets so I can charge silly pric…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 05:04 PM
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Then she's making the active decision to keep the kid and the onus is on her to take care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:47 PM
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By implementing what you're advocating, you're removing all sense of responsibility from any man at any time I'm simply restoring balance of responsibility. Right now a woman can get pregnant with an unwanted child and choose to abort it, or she can choose to keep it and have the father support her even if he doesn't want a child. The woman is not held responsible at all. My idea is simply that the woman has the choice to have a child or abort it and the man has a the choice to be a parent to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:44 PM
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I just don't like obvious xenophobic rhetoric and the notion that "all foreigners have to be barred or deported". I don't agree with that either. Neither does UKIP though. That's a big strawman. The policy is to create a points system for immigration like Australia has. There is also no UKIP policy which says "deport all the immigrants." It's almost as if, like I suspected, the most vocal opponents of UKIP got all their information about UKIP policies from the Guardian. Any legitimate points he …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:24 PM
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For sure. I'm not one of those people who believes feminism is some kind of illuminati pulling all the strings. The world is more complex than that. Although, the whole hysteria about abortion is only really a thing in the US because of the strong Christian views in mainstream society. I'm in the UK which is a very atheist country these days. Most people are not religious and abortion is not a big political issue here. Honestly I think my main opponent pushing this view over here would not so mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:56 PM
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Lol I dunno how you can agree the current economy is fucked while at the same time support completely open borders. I don't agree 100% with all of UKIP's policies and certainly some members of the party are loons, but if you listen to what Farage said in the debates before the election instead of reading the Guardian's coverage of them, you'd realise instead of being some racist boogeyman he actually makes very solid points, namely that letting people from poorer countries come in and out the UK…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:51 PM
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What precisely is it you think would cause a disaster? Because all I see you doing is dodging my arguments to make vague emotional statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:44 PM
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My solution is the one others have mentioned ITT. A system where the man can sign away both parental rights and obligations. Once he does this he has no right to even see that child again, he forfeits it completely. He must do this within a short time frame after he is aware of the pregnancy and one he's made up his mind he can't change it - meaning he can't agree to pay child support for a year then decide to fuck off. Once he makes his choice he must stick to it. This way, the legal system inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:39 PM
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You're focusing too much on the woman's feeeels. Notice I'm not talking about the man's feels either. I'm talking about what's best for the child. I don't give a shit how miserable either of the parents are. In our current system, the mother is fully facilitated by the state to have a child only she wants and force the reluctant dad to pay for it. But note my objection here is not based on the father losing money, it is based on the fact the mother is willingly bringing that child into a poor en…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:30 PM
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combining the most positive aspects of capitalism and socialism We're already doing this here in the UK but shit's still fucked up. There's many reasons you can point to but I think a lot of it is down to the government being shit (and both major parties are just as bad) when it comes to managing the economy and the fact we're in the EU, which means many of the unskilled jobs people need to get a foot on the ladder are instead going to EU citizens from Poland who will live here for a few years s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:25 PM
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If I can just make an adjustment or two to your comment: So every single time a woman gets pregnant and can't afford to raise the child and the father of the child says "I don't want the child", in those specific circumstances, it should be aborted? And the man should have no financial responsibility for supporting the child if he did not consent to its birth and is willing to give up any parental rights to it in any way? Yes, absolutely. Let's focus on the child in this situation, okay. The mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:19 PM
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Was talking about this while off my face with some mates a while back. I'd probably end up being a scene girl. I find them sexy now so I imagine that'd be my style as a woman. As for what I'd actually be doing I'd like to do the same as I am now, which is general computer shit. Mostly because it's what I'm skilled at and I find it hard to think of a version of myself that wouldn't be technically skilled. It wouldn't really be "me" then. I imagine I'd be a more creative person though. Maybe I'd d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:54 PM
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The mother should be incentivised to abort the child she is not able to actually take care of, yes. If you can't feed 'em, don't breed 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:49 PM
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If there was no child support system perhaps the mother would think twice before having a child in that situation in the first place. Why do you think you should be able to bring a child into a shitty home life with one parent who did not want it and will always feel resentful and another who will struggle to look after the kid on her own even with the extra money coming in? Forget about the father for a minute, consider the child in this situation and keep in mind it's the mother who has chosen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:48 PM
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Me and I assume others like me are men who advocate not having kids unless they're sure they can look after them. When we're talking about not wishing to be on the hook for child support we're referring to situations involving accidental pregnancy where the child was birthed without our consent. In those cases absolutely I agree we should not be subsidising the single mother's lifestyle. Not only does this harm the father, but it harms the child. Having a child against the will of one parent is …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:37 PM
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Yeah so what you happen to want them to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 01:53 PM
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I don't know why but I had it in my head horticulture meant making food, like being a chef in a restaurant kinda thing. Yeah that sounds nice and chill. Not sure if it'd really make much money but it sounds like something cool to keep yourself busy if it's only a side job. Speaking of side jobs, might as well vent here I'm annoyed being a driver here costs so much money. In the US it's so cheap to just buy a car and be a driver for Uber or similar. Over here the costs are so high you don't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:32 PM
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Precisely. So we should not have a system that encourages this, which is pretty much what the law does now. We want to discourage this behaviour. Not just to make sure the dad isn't scammed but to make sure the kid isn't put through that hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:21 PM
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See for me I hate having to speak to people all day, stresses me out. A job where I'm working on computers all day long is absolutely perfect. I'm very good at doing it too, especially with my lovely Vyvanse prescription. I get the boss asking me why I'm not eating and I realise I've been working on this computer for 5 hours already and everyone else is going to lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:19 PM
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Well when it comes to retail jobs you get a lot of what I said a few comments back. Kids working for under min wage or adults on workfare. But as well as the trades, IT is another one that has industry specific qualifications and values experience, that's what I'm working to get into right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:10 PM
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I'm in London so perhaps my experience is different, but most of the jobs here certainly are office work and they all want degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 11:34 AM
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It's really not true, its dependent on the industry. This is true, and as you point out the trades are a good example of an industry specific qualification being all that's required. But in our economy these days most people will end up in office jobs or the service industry, it's not exactly like we have factories everywhere. And more often than not, if you want to get into any office you absolutely need a degree. you can do a fake "apprenticeship" and get paid below minimum wage but only if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 10:44 AM
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Working age population includes people in their 40's, 50's, even 60's these days. People joining the workforce today are simply expected to get a degree in order to get any job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 10:27 AM
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This is the kind of nuance a lot of men here don't get when cold approaching comes up. It's not black and white, it depends entirely on the situation. Some situations are simply more social environments than others. No one wants to be bothered while they're walking down the street but if they're at a party they're much more open.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 10:21 AM
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Why go to university at all if you never intend to get a good job? Because you're competing with people who have degrees just to get a job in Tesco. I know someone who has a master's degree in physics and he works in a pub. A degree isn't something special that gets you a good job, it's something basic you're expected to have before you can get even a shitty one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 10:10 AM
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Yeah but most of them don't bother changing themselves and just want to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 10:07 AM
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it's just jealous girls putting others down to make themselves look better in comparison. That's exactly what /u/MorpheusGodOfDreams said, you just worded it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 10:00 AM
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Poll reveals a bleak picture of loneliness, low pay, unhappiness and bouts of mental illness as a generation feels it has no one to turn to Don't see how this is specific to women. As the quote says, the whole generation is fucking screwed. High unemployment and high rents and house prices don't make an easy landscape for success and happiness, who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:48 AM
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Pretty much this. I don't know or care how much makeup a woman is wearing vast majority of the time. Only if she's very visibly caking it on or doing it badly or whatever is it something I notice. Other than that it doesn't really cross my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:46 AM
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Fuck no, if all women looked like Kim Kardashian I'd just switch to fucking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:41 AM
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Srsly that's just some Freudian shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:33 AM
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Everyone cares more about themselves than others, we're just not meant to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:16 AM
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"Real men step up and do whatever women want them to." Kek.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:14 AM
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Well now you're just contradicting yourself because you said: Women shoulder way more responsibility for the child. Which must mean these women have much less time to work because they're busy looking after their kids. Make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:08 AM
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Have you read much TRP? Because I don't think anyone there is getting away with that kind of bitching. They wouldn't stand for it. As long as they justify it with "the anger phase" they can get away with bitching on TRP all they like. The first is just plain thirsty. He is/hasn't ever gotten sex/enough sex. The same way a freezing man thinks a fire is the greatest thing in the world or a hungry man thinks a feast is the greatest thing in the world, an incel thinks pussy is the greatest thing in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:06 AM
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They're not unfriendly as such, just anti-social in public. If you need to ask for directions people will generally be helpful. You're just not meant to start conversations with randoms. Which is probably why people checked the girl out but didn't talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:55 PM
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The video you linked is cheating for performing this experiment in London. The only people who talk to strangers in London are drunk and this was filmed in the middle of the day. Any Brit should know this. You don't talk to strangers in London, it's just not proper. You can tut if the situation is especially dire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 08:03 PM
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none of them are starving. You genuinely think no homeless people are starving? Are you for real? what do you do for these men? I donate to homeless charities. Usually tinned food and old clothes I don't use anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 07:57 PM
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I don't think anyone actually fits this one dimensional stereotype. Many on TRP seem to. Especially those who bill themselves as incel. Literally basing their identity around the fact they've not gotten laid yet. And most of them, instead of learning to improve, simply complain about how unfair everything is. There are so many top rated posts on TRP say exactly that you shouldn't make getting laid your top priority. Most of them don't actually do that. Not surprising when the sub is specifically…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 07:56 PM
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You really think how people act in the high school is the same as how they act in adult life? Dunno about you but if I was to see a guy naked (usually happens if I'm scrolling through some porn site and a dick pic pops up) I don't give a shit. If someone else was there we'd laugh. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 07:51 PM
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Look at that hamster go!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:30 PM
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in current american society we don't let people starve. Yeah you do, you have a massive amount of homeless people living on the streets. Most of them are men though so you probably don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:22 PM
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Men shoulder way more financial responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 03:52 PM
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As I said in response to your other thread, I'm not necessarily against tax money being used to ease the burden of child support. However, if we imagine LPS went into law overnight with no extra tax money, would that not help society? Women are fully aware in this case that if the man does not want a kid and she chooses to bring it into the world anyway, the cost will have to come out of her pocket. She likely won't be able to afford it so she'll reconsider being a single mum. Why good for socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:12 PM
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TIL that BC is infallible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:07 PM
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My gender flipped version has exactly as much merit as your original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:06 PM
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Half the country disagrees with you A lot of your country also supports Donald Trump. Many Americans are idiots. Just because there is a large number of idiots doesn't make them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:04 PM
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I challenged your view about this in another comment but you ignored me so here it is again: A measure to prevent this [women forcing men to pay for kids they don't want] would not only help the dads but help society too since it would discourage giving birth to unwanted children who are more likely to have bad upbringings and become criminals etc. Surely you agree with this, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:02 PM
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Individual freedom is good for everyone and should be held as the most important factor in government policy imo. I never said I was against parental support either. I am however against forced parental support, where a parent (usually the dad) is forced to pay for a kid he never wanted in the first place. A measure to prevent this would not only help the dads but help society too since it would discourage giving birth to unwanted children who are more likely to have bad upbringings and become c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 01:31 PM
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In my country this already happens via benefits and tax credits but there's still child support. Doesn't seem anywhere near as bad as the situation in the US though. It's likely if the US did the same thing we do in the UK they'd at the very least be able to ease the burden of child support. So yeah I'm for that. The LPS thing would be ideal but seems unlikely to get enough mainstream support to become law in our current society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 01:29 PM
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If you're not IVing tiger blood you're beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 01:22 PM
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I think if the father is also willing to surrender all rights he has to the child and is willing to never see it again he shouldn't be made to pay child support. You might say this is a bad environment for the child etc and you wouldn't be wrong, but mummy should have thought of that before giving birth to a kid the dad never wanted. That was never going to end well under any circumstances. Trust me I know someone who's parents did not want them... they did not have a good childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 01:16 PM
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No. Why am I dating a girl who's fucking other guys? Even if she's an ex-porn star, I don't wanna be on PornHub one day and see my girlfriend getting fucked other guys, no thx.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 10:15 AM
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Dear women of PPD, The last time I checked, it takes two people to make a baby. PENIS + VAGINA = BABY. It turns out reproduction is the reason for sex. Who knew? YOU KNEW. Every time you have sex with a man, you should consider the possibility of pregnancy. No birth control is 100% effective. Instead of blaming the man who's sperm is in YOUR ovaries from YOUR vagina that YOU WILLINGLY LET HIM PUT HIS PENIS IN, how about you accept responsibility for what you did. You all sound like the mothers o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:55 AM
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when you were having unprotected sex with her TIL that BC is infallible and no woman has ever lied about being on the pill...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:46 AM
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I don't see where it's saying AWALT, it's talking about a specific situation, not saying it's something all women will do to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:38 AM
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It's not like it's really a massive taboo, that's why the phrase "devil's threeway" is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:27 AM
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Internalised misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:09 AM
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This is another great one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:07 AM
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It's literally a reference to a comedy song. Chill fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 01:05 AM
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Depends what their real problem is honestly. And that'll be very different from individual to individual. If the problem is low self-esteem and being overweight then for sure lifting will help that massively. If the problem is some deeper emotional issues then nothing in TRP will help. If they're unlucky enough to have a legit physical deformity then they're pretty much fucked no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 12:49 AM
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It's not gay if it's in a threeway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:59 PM
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Yep I was talking about that with someone the other day. TRP is putting the pussy on the pedestal big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:54 PM
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Not blaming them, I'm just saying their efforts would be better directed elsewhere if their goal is to actually fix their predicament.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:30 PM
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And if you literally can't have sex at all I don't think it's too crazy to suggest there's some kind of deeper problem going on. No one remains a permavirgin for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:10 PM
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Interesting, my experience is much the opposite. They want someone to look up to. So you just act generally dominant with that fancy frame holding dark triad shit and throw in a bit of the old dread game now and then and they love ya. You need to be able to poke around the individual girl's head too though. One size does not fit all. You need to find out exactly what she's looking for and let her know you're it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:07 PM
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TRP works very well on insecure women. Urm, or so I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:59 PM
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look me in the pixel and tell me honestly. Glorious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:45 PM
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Obviously no one is putting their health, livelihood or personal safety at significant risk just to put their penis in a vagina. Well you say that... for some reason when it's a man who gets "angry and depressed" after a lifetime of sexual and romantic rejection from women, he's supposed to suck it up and stop wanting women so much. Not at all. I got nothing against a guy making effort to get more sex if that's what'll make him happy. I don't care. I'm not some puritan. But you're missing my poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:38 PM
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If you're referring to the incels they absolutely have deeper problems they should be focusing on that go way above lack of sex and require more than PUA and lifting to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:35 PM
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There's nothing wrong with it at all in a general sense. But often on TRP and sometimes in PPD too you see guys who put sex above everything else to an extent that's actually detrimental to their happiness. They base their identity and self-esteem on how much pussy they bang, and when they strike out they feel angry and depressed. Those are the people who need to step back and gain some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 08:08 PM
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For most women they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:39 PM
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I disagree women care so much about material resources in the first place. Sure some do, but not a significant enough number to make it a generalisation. Only a minority of women are gold diggers. "Holding frame" as TRP puts it matters a fuckload more than how much money you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 06:52 PM
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If he's got his shit together long term he might be fine. I am British btw but I don't really follow football. I'm just going by the numbers. Most celebrity marriages fail. Most celebrity relationships in general fail. If it were me I'd do what Dennis did. I still think Neville has taken much more of a risk than he would have if he also did what Dennis did. But you mention wanting kids and indeed if having kids if important to you then you need to take risks to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 06:11 PM
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Sure there's a difference. I'm not denying it. But trying to say male attraction is somehow more "love for them as human beings" than what women do is ridiculous. Human beings are all shallow fuckers, we just judge people by different shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:55 PM
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I don't think anyone would argue the urge to have sex isn't biological. Only that you don't need to let your biological desires rule over your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:44 PM
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I can't argue with your experiences, of course, but I will argue that they are not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:40 PM
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I don't think that is sensible. I think if his wife married him because of his money and status then the relationship will deteriorate when his career does. And footballers in particular have notoriously short careers. If you are rich and famous your best tactic to screw around as much as you can. At least then you don't have to deal with the impending divorce settlement. Felix Dennis had the right idea: Felix Dennis has never been married. He has no children. Though he does support a number of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:40 PM
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None of that says to me "women don't like attractive men." It's just rehashing the whole "nice guys" and "be yourself" crap. Snapping out of that mindset is important, but come on, everyone knows women like attractive men and that's not politically incorrect to say. The only debate here is what constitutes attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:31 PM
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This makes no sense. Man and women just demonstrate value in different ways. No man has "pure" sexual attraction to a woman. He's attracted because she dresses well and wears makeup. And in our modern society he may very well be turned off if she acts like a helpless "damsel in distress" because that's just being high maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:28 PM
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Then why do girls get turned on from calling me daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:24 PM
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no one ever told you that women don't really want hot, attractive men. I was constantly told that Really? I mean I get the whole thing about being told to "just be yourself" fucking up your personal development on a psychological level, but who claims that women don't like attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:22 PM
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Do you really envy them for this? Let's say you had a shitload of money and you were famous for being an actor or footballer or whatever. Sure, you could get all the girls you want just because you have money and fame, and this is an ideal position to be in if your desire is for ONS because hey, why should you care if those girls really like you as long as they fuck you? But if you want a relationship, well it's bad news to fall back only on money and status for that. Especially if you go as far…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:15 PM
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People will forget about it the moment it drops out the mainstream media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 04:55 PM
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SJWs didn't exist in mainstream society five years ago and won't exist there five years in the future. There will still be niche groups online but that's it. We've got to the point where even the pandering media is sick of their whining and their opposition has become louder and more extreme in response. SJWs will be entirely irrelevant in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 04:44 PM
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You keep making threads focusing specifically on celebrities. This is such a different world to the one us mere mortals live in that there's barely any useful knowledge to extract from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 04:37 PM
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He's likely going to grow up in a world that will try to shame him for being male if "feminism" continues to gain momentum. Nah. By the time he's old enough for it to matter the SJW fad will be long dead. It's already past its peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 04:32 PM
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Now that I can respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 02:20 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6eIOAnkAXjc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 02:01 PM
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Then why make laws to expand its scope? Why not scrap it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 01:57 PM
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Seriously for a country that calls itself "the land of the free" they sure are fond of laws that allow them to conscript people into the military. Expanding that from just men to women too is going the wrong direction. It should be killed off altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 01:48 PM
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Does your dog shit test you? Well, actually yes. That's why training them properly and making sure they know you're the boss is important. And it's also why there is a whole industry based around helping people learn how to do that properly. Not cats though. Cats don't give a fuck. And how is it related in how you would pass a shit test from a women? It's not. Because people and dogs are different. But that doesn't mean the basic underlying behaviour isn't related. Dogs have noses. Humans have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 01:25 PM
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I don't see why disagreement on specifics within the TRP camp is seen as some kind of mind-blowing hypocrisy, when you have similar disagreements in politics and feminism and this is actually encouraged for healthy debate. Only Bluepillers seem obsessed with the idea that TRP having internal disagreements of interpretation is somehow a bad thing. This is a very good point. The more sensible RPers put an emphasis on TRP being a "take what's useful to you and leave the rest" philosophy. Which is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 01:21 PM
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Meh most people are average in attractiveness, that's what average means. So at that point you gotta make yourself stand out somehow. Being all confident and different in some way does that perfectly. Make yourself the centre of attention somehow, make people interested in you, and let that do the work for you. None of this requires status. Like I said I'm poor as fuck. I have minus status. Never hindered me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 01:33 AM
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There's certainly a massive overlap. The biggest group on FetLife is called "Kinky and Nerdy."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:47 AM
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Your bfs are ultra beta bux. I feel sorry for them but I commend you for sorting out that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:42 AM
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I hear TRP is affiliated with the hacker 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:30 AM
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Nope. Not super sexy either but I'm decent looking. As long as you're not super fat and ugly all you need to do is go to a party and take drugs, aka /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin's advice. It works. You don't need status if you got charisma even if it's not "real."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:09 AM
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Polygamy mofo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:06 AM
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I am poor as fuck, I got pretty much zero status, but I can still get girls just from acting confident and making sure I look decent. I've done this too many times for it to just be a fluke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:58 PM
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Don't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:39 PM
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Nice idea in theory but not very realistic in terms of implementation. The best advice is what TRP already says: don't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:37 PM
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We did this at my school. Made up three different groups with colours, I think blues were stupid and reds were smart and yellows were in the middle or something like that. I was in the middle one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:14 PM
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Prenups usually aren't legally binding tbh. But yeah I think this isn't a bad idea. An agreement within a personal relationship doesn't have to be legally binding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:03 PM
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Does not paying for your date's meals improve you relationship? Yeah it drives away gold diggers. The article in the OP is typical tabloid nonsense for sure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 12:45 PM
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For relationships of course personality matters. Does anyone argue otherwise? For casual sex it matters much less as long as you can put yourself out there and act confident and smooth enough for the night. Alcohol helps if this does not come naturally to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 11:40 PM
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I think what you mean is that rich people don't worry about bills. They just pay them or automate them without even checking how much they are. Yes this is what I mean. I was saying rich people don't take time to worry about money and whether they have it or not. They don't sit down counting pennies. Likewise, if you get laid often, you don't sit around thinking about how to spend your life pursuing the goal of getting laid. Red pill game's a bit like that, actually. They just do their work, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 11:34 PM
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Obviously it's not detailed enough to count as actual advice. But it's not incorrect either. Keep in mind it does not specify only physical attractiveness. I've heard someone break it down as step 1 referring to lifting, hobbies etc and step 2 referring to making sure you're well groomed etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 11:29 PM
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Projecting what, specifically? Their desperation for sex. Sex is like money: if you have it, you don't think about it. Yet they think all men are basing their whole lives around it like they are. I've heard people say that if doctors were paid like nurses, nobody would become a doctor. Do you really think this is true? I think different people would become doctors and our perception of doctors would be different (obviously it wouldn't be considered high status anymore) but there'd still be plent…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 11:19 PM
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UK had a female prime minister. Is the country magically super-ultra-feminist as a result? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 11:16 PM
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Sure but it still has a massive emphasis on "plate spinning" and one of their big mottos is "don't marry" - LTRs are not exactly the primary goal of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 11:03 PM
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But then all they're doing is projecting. They are desperate for sex so they come for help, that's expected. But by saying men in general wouldn't do shit without sex as a motivator is just projecting themselves onto all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 10:59 PM
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Can you elaborate on why you think the opposite? I hate seeing submissions like this in PPD where there's only a title and no actual post. Doesn't give much to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 09:48 PM
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I dunno who's alt you are but this is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 09:46 PM
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I think asking a RPW for male dating advice is stupid simply because RPW has pretty much the opposite goal of male orientated groups like TRP. RPW = how to get married to the right guy. TRP/seduction/whatever = how to have a lot of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 09:42 PM
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I'm not trying to say they're forcing me to adopt their views. The whole point of this sub is to question beliefs. I want to know why they act like they do in this respect since it's opposed to one of their core ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 09:39 PM
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Don't see why you have to do either. Seems healthier to be motivated because you want a good life for yourself rather than making pussy the driving force behind your actions. And I'm using the general you, btw, not targeting anything at you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 07:23 PM
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You're putting yourself below a whole gender if you work your ass off for women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 06:48 PM
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I don't see much distinction between working your ass off so one woman will notice you and working your ass off so all women will notice you. The former is slightly worse than the latter but they're still on the same spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 06:24 PM
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Again this only works if you assume the only reason any male does anything is for pussy. I thought TRP was against putting the pussy on a pedestal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 05:14 PM
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Why? If anything, a hypothetical version of myself who doesn't care about sex or relationships would be able to spend even more time on both making money and using that money for luxuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 04:34 PM
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Well I mean if you have a superpower that means girls can't turn down sex from you then you can probably do that. Also I just remembered a power like this exists in Misfits, a girl had it at first but she sold it and some bloke bought it later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 04:21 PM
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I've only ever had one girlfriend but we never got physical. It was an open relationship and she had a lot of suitors. Gee I wonder why he got called a cuck...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 10:49 AM
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Sounds like a very non-literal statement taken out of context, most likely to discuss the reward/incentivizing aspect of TRP. None of the manosphere thinks men will do shit if there's no reward in it for them. They do very often quote whatever comedian it is who said if men didn't care about women they'd live in boxes instead of houses. I've never understood this POV myself, I think that's complete bullshit. But in encouraging that view they're just saying the only reason men bother to achieve a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 10:45 AM
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So how would you live your life? Fuck a lot of bitches. And since no one knows it's a power if I draw attention I'll write a few self-help books, do a few motivational seminars, rake in the $$$. Would you ever get married? Fuck no. How many women would you have sex with? All the ones I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 10:34 AM
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Can confirm that doing drugs at a party will get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 10:30 AM
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LaVeyan Satanism is very RP. I've posted quotes from LaVey on here before and they got a positive response from RPers. There's parts of the Satanic Bible they wouldn't like though. It encourages freedom of sexual expression which is at odds with hating on the "cock carousel" for example. Then again I don't like the part that tells you not to do drugs but I do it anyway and still consider myself a LaVeyan Satanist in other respects. It's not like there's anyone to punish you for only taking the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 10:25 AM
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Then you can say "that's not true because your logic is faulty." Then you can go on to explain why. But the fact remains that simply saying "that's sexist" is still an appeal to emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 05:29 PM
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"I asked people on a debate forum to challenge my view and they're not all agreeing with me."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 09:51 AM
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But as dakru said, you could just cut to the chase and say "that's not true." It seems like calling it "sexist" instead is merely an appeal to emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 09:43 AM
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This isn't exactly unique lol. Anyway my girlfriend is the same and it's good otherwise she wouldn't be into all that weird fucked up shit everyone else looks down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 09:39 AM
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Having emotions in general is what I see as a weakness. I'd prefer to only have a very limited scope of emotion where I feel just enough to motivate me to actually get up and work but that's it. I'd be a more stable and successful person this way. As it happens I swing between either not feeling anything including lack of motivation (80%) or feeling every emotion at once (20%) and that's just erratic and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 12:25 AM
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both individuals are able to call each other out I keep hearing these exact words from people putting this type of argument forward. No, I categorically do not want my partner to "call me out." It's a relationship, not a Tumblr. I also posit that it is literally impossible to have any kind of human relationship without a power dynamic. When you talk to your boss, your parents, your teachers, whatever, there's a power dynamic. Romantic relationships are not magical fairy dust. The same rules appl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 12:02 AM
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I do this in general day to day life anyway and always have done because of how I was raised, I don't need to put on any kind of "act." Neither of my parents ever showed any emotion 90% of the time as I grew up so I just emulated that. As far as I'm concerned emotion = weakness in anyone regardless of their gender and I'm certainly not out to make myself weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:56 PM
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Sure, if you're physically unattractive that doesn't change if you have money. But money absolutely adds to your level of attractiveness regardless. There's a reason the guy in 50SOG was a billionaire CEO not a burger flipper. Now could you argue you have more natural dominance if you can make a girl fall for you without having to rely on money and status? Sure. But it's still true money adds to whatever existing attractiveness you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:49 PM
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And what do you say to the bondage parts that take away all her powers that other people have drawn attention to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:55 PM
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Seriously? No, I'm quite obviously being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:54 PM
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I rejected sex from two girls before. I didn't find them attractive, one of them was drunk, both were massive sluts and generally people I found annoying and didn't enjoy the company of. I'd rather wank then get high and watch Netflix (which I did) than fuck a girl I'm not actually attracted to in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 07:46 PM
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Law 38. Think as you like but behave like others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:57 PM
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This is true, if you feel like something is right it's a difficult thing to have that view changed by logic. Doesn't mean I have to accept it as right myself or that I can't challenge that view though. I'll continue to view parents to pressure their kids in this way as selfish arseholes regardless of their reasons or morals. Luckily my parents don't play this angle with me. They like to drop hints about me having kids, which I just brush off until they get the bloody hint, but I've not got much …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:23 PM
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hey don't KNOW thats why they are doing it. The genes don;t tell them WHY they built that instinct in So? I thought the whole reason humans are meant to be better than the other animals is because we are not driven purely by instinct. We have the intelligence to think for ourselves. It's a cop out to say "yes XYZ is bad selfish behaviour, but it's genetic so it's okay." Well, I'd agree it's certainly negative on the son/daughter... But it's also entirely natural behaviour on the part of the moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 05:49 PM
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It's a matter of perspective I guess. I would argue it's negatively selfish because if they actually want kids and think having kids will enhance their lives they'll make that decision themselves. Trying to pressure them into it because you want grandkids is a shitty move in my eyes. And I mean often you do get parents who proper try to guilt their kids into this shit. They make them feel like they're somehow obligated to provide grandkids. There's no way that's anything but negative. The footba…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 05:11 PM
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Holy shit that's fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 05:06 PM
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As always you make a good point in a rational manner, TGP. You're probably not wrong. Thing is, that doesn't actually make the behaviour itself any less selfish regardless. You're still trying to influence someone else's life in a very major way for your own benefit. Emotionally/biologically driven or not, the action is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 04:39 PM
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Those people don't need their parents pressuring them into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 04:36 PM
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But why encourage weeaboos to reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 04:19 PM
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because they want to be grandparents. Many people brought this up in the other thread too. If this is true it's selfish as fuck. Pushing your kids to make a big decision that causes stress and puts them on the hook for 18+ years just so you can have grandkids. Fuck dat. As I've said in another PPD thread recently, misery loves company. "I had to go through the stress of having kids so you do too!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 04:15 PM
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Marriage isn't necessarily a provider role, certainly not in 2015. If you want to know why marriage is pushed, it's simply because it was the norm when your mum grew up. I think /u/wub1234's explanation of all that is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:41 AM
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Exactly. As RP points out, generalisations can be useful. However, you shouldn't treat those generalisations like they're absolutes, that will only harm your psyche. There's plenty of good women out there. But you gotta go out and find 'em. If you give up before you start you will never do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:39 AM
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If we're gonna try and pin societal shifts on comic books then I posit that the increase of girls with daddy issues came about because of Harley Quinn. Makes just as much sense as linking Wonder Woman to feminism and they're both deliberately very sexy. QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:56 AM
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Are you saying first wave feminism succeeded because of a comic book?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:52 AM
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Sexual fantasies and the fantasy of what you want your ideal self to be are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:50 AM
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You'll have to expand on this question some more. Why do you think mothers drive their sons into provider roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:49 AM
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Exactly. OP starts with the premise that economic free markets are somehow fair balanced systems. This is quite obviously nonsense so the whole comparison falls down from the start. Whoever has more money wins in a free market capitalist system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:24 AM
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I'm just going off the impression I get from PPD, obviously I can't do anything more than that. You stopped making long ranting posts and seemed like you going in the right direction at one point but now you're back at it. I dunno. How is your actual mood? It seems pretty low and you seem to be obsessing over the same anxieties as you did before. I'm not a doctor though, don't take what I'm saying as medical advice, it's just observations and personal experience with the same type of medication …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:21 AM
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Eh they are real but I agree it's not something you should think about too much. I've been with girls way hotter than me, couldn't do that if I didn't bother going after them because I was worried about being out of their league or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 05:35 PM
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Okay, I'll bite. How does not having a monogamous relationship make you selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:23 PM
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This is just justification. "Yeah it happened to almost half of all these other tossers, but I'm special. It'll never happen to me! No sir!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 11:51 AM
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Sure. But spurting out RP theory is a waste of your time and their time regardless. They want to know about you not what you read online from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:25 AM
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Yeah I'm the same, as long as they're well behaved I don't mind. To be fair though most of the raging I see in the CF sub is about kids who are badly behaved and have shitty parents who don't know how to actually parent. Rarely do I see a broad statement about how all kids are horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:24 AM
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To be fair you don't exactly get a choice on the NHS. You're lucky if you see any therapist at all and in my experience they're not so good. However Xenmas could definitely do himself a favour by not spouting TRP shit in a therapy session. Also he seems to have gotten worse again since starting medication from what I can see, but that's SSRIs for you. Absolute shite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:18 AM
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Because the fact you go on about it all the time and make posts like this shows you're very obviously anxious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:15 AM
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Every time the kids do some shit: "you'll be dealing with this one day." See this is exactly the reason CF people get pissed off, everyone. I don't even bring the subject up. But when you get bombarded with this shit from so many people, even (especially) your family, when they know you don't want kids it gets annoying after the 537th time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:03 AM
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Baby boomers already ruined the entire fucking economy... but best not get started on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:00 AM
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They're too busy achieving stuff and they actually think about having kids before doing it because it's a big decision. At least that's what's eluded to in the opening scene of Idiocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 12:56 AM
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It's like when a junkie offers you a shot of heroin. Just say no!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 12:47 AM
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Nope. But that's the kind of personal decision people won't make based on rational risk analysis anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 11:24 PM
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You can't put all the blame on idiots. At the same time as the divorce rate is so high, marriage rates are also declining. It's obvious a significant number of people are realising marriage isn't worth the bother. Especially when under UK law you get 99% of the same benefits from cohabitation anyway, but with much less risk. It's a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:58 PM
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This is a correct description. TBP should therefore stop calling themselves "satire." Just admit they're there to mock people with opposing views. No shame in that anyway, it's what makes up the majority of all internet comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:53 PM
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Man if I knew you IRL I'd drop acid with you and sort all your shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:42 PM
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only a minority of marriages end in divorce. 42% in the UK which is where OP lives. A minority sure, but still not good odds. I think not marrying is a good idea. Doesn't mean you're doomed to sexual and romantic forever though. You can have casual and long term relationships without marriage and kids. You can also find the cheat code in the R/SMV by finding some crazy codependent girl who feels like she needs you to live... but now I'm just giving away my secrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:38 PM
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Honestly don't blame you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:33 PM
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Did she file a police report? Nope. Just decided to tweet that shit one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:32 PM
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Especially since this is James Deen, like fucking hell, guy gets paid grands specifically to fuck hot girls and must have thousands of female fangirls who would beg to jump on his cock. If someone wants me to believe this guy is a rapist I'm gonna need to see a conviction in a court of law.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:24 PM
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Yeah I had a female best friend a few years back. We still keep in contact but we're not best friends now like we used to be. She's a lesbian so there was never any real sexual tension going on. We just chatted shit and chilled like friends do. Eventually faded away like friends do. That's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:15 PM
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/u/MoneyOverSluts made a comment about the race shit in this thread lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:08 PM
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Misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 09:55 PM
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few people are as socially brave as they make out online Yeah but the alcohol will pretty much make this a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 01:06 AM
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Me too man I'm in my early 20's and I found a girl who is pretty much the closest to perfect for me I think exists (I have a very specific type of relationship I want, makes it difficult to find someone compatible) and I've been with her for two years now. But that's down to pure dumb luck, plain and simple. If I hadn't met her I doubt I'd be bothering with LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:55 PM
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They're not, man. Mine wasn't. But he was a bloke himself so he may have been more sympathetic to that side of things than a female therapist. At one point he asked me about relationships since it's not something that came up yet and I just said I couldn't be arsed with them at the time because dealing with women is too stressful and he said that's understandable and as long as you're happy like that it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:48 PM
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Well what they're after is traditionalism. Personally I don't want kids and I don't want to have to financially support my gf either. However, if you do want a traditional lifestyle RPW is a good resource and I see no reason to hate on it. Obviously if that's not what you're into, it won't give you what you're looking for. Although, that said, much like any information/advice resource you can take useful parts from it even if you don't agree with everything there. For example if you're in a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:39 PM
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Yeah but a bisexual male can just hit up the gay scene and very easily have casual sex regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 01:09 PM
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OK to gain 100 lb as long as you duty-starfish nightly. RPW wouldn't actually say this though. They'd encourage you to reconsider the relationship if the guy isn't looking after himself. One thing I do find weird in RPW is they're really against allowing members to vent about their SO's in there. They just say "don't bitch about your boyfriend/husband." I get the idea behind it is to consider what they can do to change their behaviour because they can't control what their SO does, but everyone's…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 12:58 PM
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Once you're in the US it's something you can just speak to your regular GP about so it's worth doing ASAP since this has been going on for 10 years. And you're welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 12:52 PM
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I'm no psychiatrist but it sounds a lot like he could have ADHD. As in what you've described is literally a textbook case. He should speak to a doctor about it. If he does have ADHD then getting on the right medication will sort out his problems pretty much instantly. Very easy to get diagnosed and have meds prescribed in the US too, not sure about Argentina though.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/15 10:21 PM
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You're smart to not bother with social media. I'm moving towards that direction myself nowadays. I don't use FB, Twitter, Tumblr, or FetLife anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 10:05 PM
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Yeah generally speaking RPW looks at men who sleep around in the same way TRP looks at women who sleep around - not relationship material. It's just this matters less to TRP since the main goal is usually not an LTR, but to RPW an LTR usually is the main goal. So the approaches are very different. Take some time to read around /r/redpillwomen and you'll pick up pretty quickly what it's all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:47 PM
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RPW has a very different goal to TRP. RPW is all about traditional relationships rather than sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:42 PM
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Tumblr is the meeting ground for radical feminists nowadays. Even if you go on a blog not dedicated to feminism you'll find radfem posts on it 9/10 times. The only exception to this I've seen is the porn blogs, they're usually safe, although the camwhore ones in particular are often SJWs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:40 PM
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Dating sites are a mug's game if you're a bloke it's true. I never used a dating site. I met girls on sites like Twitter, Tumblr, FetLife, etc. Although Tumblr is a risky one these days for obvious reasons. Back when I used it there was no noticeable SJW presence on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:25 PM
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Yeah I believe the vast majority of women want to be submissive in a relationship. People hate on this because it's politically incorrect but everything I've observed has shown it to be true. Even in the ultra-liberal "gender neutral" BDSM community the vast majority of the women choose the submissive role.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:13 PM
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Okay, I will concede one exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:10 PM
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As long as you're at at least an average level of attractiveness you can date just fine. Sure women have it easier, but fretting over that and pitying yourself is pointless and doesn't help you. Also the internet makes it easier for guys too. At least it made it much easier for me to find girls who were interested. As an awkward teenager I wasn't exactly a playboy. But online it's much easier to socialise and I met up with a ridiculously out my league girl and lost my virginity to her at 17 beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:08 PM
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That's hardly common even among radfems. Probably that guy is severely mentally ill too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:46 PM
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Yep I agree. That's why the MGTOW subreddit and forums are full of spergs. The more sensible MGTOWs aren't the ones who feel the need to visit MGTOW forums in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:45 PM
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This Dan Bilzerian guy just looks like another "social media personality" from a quick google, and he's only internet famous because his dad was rich. I see no reason to look up to him. Hugh Hefner is a self-made entrepreneur. I hold a great deal of respect for those. I don't think his lifestyle is really what every man should aspire to, but aspiring to be self-made and successful so you can live the lifestyle you wish is admirable in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 10:59 PM
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Don't be. It's the internet. People act like assholes because we're only usernames on here. Never become emotionally invested in an internet argument, and that includes the obvious trolling that user is targeting at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 10:30 PM
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On a wider political scale what we're seeing is the politically correct leftie crowd steadily growing over the past few years to become the norm, and as it gets more and more ubiquitous those who disagree with it become more and more radicalised to the opposite side of the spectrum. Look at the growth of right wing parties in Europe right now for a real world example. People have become sick of the left and have been pulled into the far right as a result. One extreme to the other. I see the exac…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 10:19 PM
3

Go to TRP and turn off the CSS. Scroll down below the sidebar and it says "created by pk_atheist".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 10:00 PM
1

Feminists supported alcohol prohibition? Can I see some links to this? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:45 PM
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Redpillschool who CREATED your sub I'm a nitpicky twat so I feel the need to point out RPS didn't create TRP. /u/pk_atheist did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:41 PM
1

No but for real even the most extreme white knight isn't literally castrating themselves, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:38 PM
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If you're unattractive or less attractive then dating will be a struggle for you unless you compensate somehow Even this depends on exactly why you're unattractive. Honestly the vast majority of unattractive guys have fixable problems. Usually they're either fat (and/or have general bad hygiene, fashion sense, etc) or socially anxious or both. With enough work these are issues that can be sorted without having to rely only on status. It's only a tiny minority of guys who have problems which cann…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:32 PM
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Agreed with your post. No one really cares about shy nerds except other shy nerds; it's our job to take care of our own. I like this too. Yes I know some will read it and see it as harsh, but the honesty should be praised vs all the feminists who pay lipservice to caring about men while showing no action.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:25 PM
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You guys are pros at patronisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:17 PM
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OP clarifies he's only talking about the more extreme male feminists in his post: type I: your average garden-variety feminist, still functioning more or less as a normal person. Not really the topic of this discussion, except when they start to slip towards type II. type II: They hate themselves for being men. They see their most natural sexual and romantic urges/wishes as a sign of "oppressive entitlement".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:16 PM
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My pet theory is that they're on the same scale as the incels and MGTOWs, they just deal with their situation differently. Both will have had a history of being unsuccessful socially, particularly in the dating game. The MGTOW type gets sick of this and decides to simply live his life without bothering. The incel lets this social failure get to him to such an extent that he bases his identity around not being able to get laid. The male feminist (the radical extremist ones, or type II as OP terms…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:08 PM
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Even if they're friends with their slaves, pay them wages and have them live like normal human beings Urm, if you pay someone wages they're not a slave. Also comparing a subreddit to the KKK is bloody ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 07:43 PM
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Feminism seemed like a movement that was needed in the past to get the vote etc, but didn't seem relevant anymore to me. I found out on reddit that misogyny is a thing, though, so I was wrong. So the mere existence of an objectionable internet forum is your basis for believing in feminism? I mean, I'd understand where you're coming from if you were talking about a mainstream ideology, but TRP is a small strange corner of the internet in the grand scale of things. Most people don't even know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 07:37 PM
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Purple Male INTJ I guess I'd say moderate RP since I agree with some of the less extreme elements, hence being purple, but RPers hate when I criticise the extremism on the TRP sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 07:24 PM
1

Reading dem 48 Laws are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:39 PM
1

Fair enough, I wish you luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 01:10 PM
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Of course, I just can't help but think a sense of humour is something that's pretty difficult to actually teach someone who does not have such a thing naturally. It's easy to recite lines from a book, but developing an actual sense of humour is a whole other kettle of fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 12:55 PM
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I'm not sure you can learn to be funny just from reading a book, but still it's a good thing to try and build up anyway. I remember this bit from one of the Suicide Squad comics where the Joker talks about how making people laugh gives you power over them, but I can't be assed to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 12:51 PM
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In a bar, six guys just crowded round me and started shouting at me, calling me a rapist, a misogynist, and threatening me. It's a sad world when South Park is literally predicting the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 12:36 PM
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"Think as you like but behave like others."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 12:31 PM
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The cancer is growing more and more in the UK too, no longer is this just a US thing. That's bloody scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 12:19 PM
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Sure, I used to be blue (as in not red) but reading PPD made me purple because I realised there's some sensible ideas behind the massive pile of shit that is the main TRP sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 11:18 AM
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Social media is cancer. I recommend getting the fuck off of it and not wasting your time worrying about this bullshit. Who gets the most likes on Facebook means absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 03:36 PM
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As a man who wants to remain childless I'm glad they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 03:21 PM
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Haha cheers. FUCK THE POLICE, I GOT KILOS IN MY BAG!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 03:11 PM
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Yeah everyone knows pretty girls get life on easy mode, this isn't some mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 10:34 PM
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Depends how fragile your ego is doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 03:50 PM
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To be fair if you're only looking for ONS that guy isn't wrong. It doesn't really matter if you're shit in bed if you only fuck the girl once. That said you still have a valid point wrt pretty much any other scenario, especially since TRP claims to be dispensing relationship advice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:12 PM
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Yep, a lot of people here seem to be forgetting that dominance is very psychological and the bedroom is no exception. It's not enough to just have low body fat. Physical attraction doesn't automatically make you dominant. If sexual dominance is your aim you have to know how to get into the girl's head and give her some reason to actually submit to you. Strange that the RPers ITT are dodging this completely and reverting to "just lift bro."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:06 PM
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I agree with the theorising bit (that's why I'm here) but I don't agree everyone here isn't in a relationship. Most seem to be in some kind of relationship from what I can tell. But yeah most people are here to wax philosophical about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 01:00 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 12:52 PM
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The minority does not represent the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 10:01 AM
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Why? She's right. As a guy I wouldn't find it much of an ego boost if a fat ugly chick hit on me either. If it's someone you're not attracted to it doesn't really mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 09:58 AM
2

That's some damn cheap labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 09:53 AM
2

Gotta get past the LM-baaah. I'll see myself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 09:19 AM
2

Fuck yeah violet wands that's the shit I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 09:13 AM
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Nope. Give me the 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 09:10 AM
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Drug dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 12:55 AM
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Lol I'm not new, anyone who hangs around the IRC enough can look at what I'm saying and know who I am. I just change accounts often. Nothing much more interesting to say about my mother really. She's good at manipulating people. It helped her get through life and make money. She both used those skills on me and taught me those skills. I like to think I'm better off for it but there's mixed feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 12:48 AM
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Do I have mummy issues? Eh maybe, depends on exactly what that means. Does everyone who I'm talking about (manipulators) have mummy issues? I doubt it, but I would guess they grew up in an environment where someone was being manipulative yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 12:45 AM
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I know her job. She's a manager. I could tell you where she works but then that'd be doxxing my mum. I'm sorry, this situation inspires both awe and a sense of 'that's fucked up' in me, and rarely do I get that combination. Same mixed feelings here man trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 12:43 AM
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Some kind of manager, I honestly don't know the exact details, just that she makes people do what she wants and gets paid a lot. The important bit is she pretty much acted the same at home as I imagine she did at work. She never showed any emotion and everything she said and did was like some kind of plot to make someone act the way she wanted. I learnt to pick up on the tactics she used, she even explained to me how to make people feel bad for not doing what I wanted when I was about 12. I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 11:30 PM
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By being in an environment rife with manipulation you just pick it up. I learnt it all as a kid because my mum is manipulative as fuck. She's also got a successful career.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 11:18 PM
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Not about women specifically, but doing well in the business world is highly correlated with good manipulation skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 11:14 PM
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Not enough motorcycles, Atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 10:39 PM
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/u/disposable_pants admits as such here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 08:15 PM
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She literally said manipulation isn't bad because every time you want someone else to take a course of action, it's normal to manipulate them. I was brought up on the same rule. It's true in my experience. Main difference is some people know how to manipulate consciously and others don't. But everyone does it to some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 07:42 PM
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Fair enough. Always good to have an amicable ending to these things. My view is actually very simple though. And it's just that people respect others for being self-made, and disrespect others who live off the wealth of other people. That's a general rule that extends throughout all of society. Doesn't matter if it's between parents and children or spouses or the government. People don't respect leaches. I didn't make that rule and I'm not saying I like it either, it's just the society we live i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:52 PM
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If what she does adds value, then it can be monetized K so let's go back to the analogy of being unemployed and living with your parents since it's pretty much the same thing. If you do housework you're still not doing a job and earning money. No you're still living off your parents. Pretty much everyone would agree with that. Same principle applies here the way I see it. If in this scenario the husband is the only one earning money, the wife wouldn't even have a house to clean if it wasn't for …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:42 PM
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When did I say that? All I said is if the woman stays at home she is not earning any money. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:10 PM
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No, staying at home with parents isn't a marriage partnership. Makes just as much sense as far as the claim about earning money goes though. if you don't like it, don't get married and maintain a separate residence from your SO to keep your assets completely unmingled. I'm not getting married. I will cohabitate with my gf though (no common law marriage in my country).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:02 PM
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Didn't you get the memo? Strangers on the internet with made up theories know your friends much better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 05:52 PM
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both people are earning half, no matter which one is going off to work every day and which one is being supportive That makes no sense. That's like saying staying at home with your parents while unemployed counts as earning half the household income as long as you're supportive of them. If you do the work then you earn the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 05:40 PM
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Yeah it's called an escort agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 05:37 PM
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The woman, whether working in the home or out, is contributing her half to the partnership. Depends if she earns as much as her husband. Why in the world isn't she entitled to what comes as a result? Well, did she actually earn it? they are not "his", they are jointly owned assets. This kind of ridiculousness is a perfect example of exactly why marriage is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 05:13 PM
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I encounter this all the time because I am a good debater, and most of the population cannot debate with me. /r/iamverysmart
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 05:10 PM
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I see staying home as a risk. Love my husband and all, but what if? In divorce, women are often left much worse off economically than their husbands. And from the guy's side he's also at risk of losing more of his assets, paying alimony etc in the event of a divorce too. Just a bad idea all round.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:32 PM
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"Everyone else is pumping out shit-tier clickbait so we are too."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 05:48 PM
0

Exactly, so you admit it's just more bullshit clickbait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 05:37 PM
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About half of men in the BDSM scene are subs so yeah. The real question is why is there such a lack of female doms? There are plenty of sub guys out there but very few dominant women to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 12:13 PM
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Baldness can make you look more attractive if you can pull it off. Not many can pull it off though. You need the right face for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 11:55 AM
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If someone wants to commit a crime and thinks they can get away with it then they will do it. It's just the ones who are smart enough to get away with it aren't the ones who end up on the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 11:53 AM
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Yeah unfortunately (actually pretty fortunately depending how you look at it) my gf isn't on Reddit so I had to answer on her behalf. I can assure you I'm telling the truth tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 11:26 AM
1

Why not write the second one then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 11:25 AM
2

Yes this is called desperation and fear of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 11:25 AM
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If you ask a question like "do women like [deviant sex act]?" but exclude women who are into deviant sex acts you're pretty much only gonna get negative answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 11:16 PM
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So no? Lonely guys are more desperate and so are willing to drop their standards. Doesn't mean they actually pair bond any better. Source: just as good as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 10:44 PM
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Got a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:47 PM
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Okay then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:36 PM
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Devil's advocate: if this is the real reason, why don't those women stick with the man they love and help them through their issues instead of dumping them at the first sign of trouble? Idk it's just if my gf was having trouble with depression or addiction my first response would be to support her not dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:34 PM
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If you think thirst is the same as love then sure. It isn't, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:30 PM
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No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:29 PM
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TRP is pretty US-centric yeah. Pretty much the biggest issue discussed in pill subs is hookup culture and whether or not casual sex is difficult to obtain or if it's a big deal when it happens. It's hard for me to relate to most of this because the impression I get from TRP is that sleeping around carries way more of a serious taboo in the US than it does in the UK. Or if such a taboo exists here, I've certainly never seen it. In my experience unless you're super fat or literally have zero socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:27 PM
1

Fibre optic cables use either lasers or LEDs to send information using light. But what you're asking is about how the exchange handles data, and honestly I don't know because that's not something I have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:01 PM
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The internet layer checks if any other data is going through the cables before it sends its own data out. If collision happens anyway then it sets a random delay before it tries to send the data again. Because the delay is random another collision shouldn't occur. But this isn't really a big deal because it only applies to the ethernet cables which make up your LAN. The fibre optic cables that make up the actual backbone of the internet are much more complex than ethernet and their setup is much…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 07:40 PM
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Never said I was a man or that you were a woman ;) if you wouldn't mind explaining? You've lucked out on this because I took Vyvanse today. TCP/IP is a networking standard applicable to the internet. The layers just describe different stages of the data processing and transmission. There are only four layers compared to seven for OSI (which deals mainly with communication within a LAN rather than to the internet). The four TCP/IP layers are the application layer, transport layer, internet layer,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 06:39 PM
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Pssh you claim to be sapiosexual yet you don't even wait to hear my explanation of each layer in the TCP/IP stack.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 06:01 PM
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Sigh, see what I mean about this argument being pointless? Look, most people who are just trying to check out what TRP is won't read every single link in the sidebar when they're only curious. They will skim what people on the sub are saying and then decide if they want to become a part of that community. What I'm saying is TRP is purposefully pushing this 3edgy5me content right in front of new users instead of the more sensible stuff that may very well make the basis for the ideas. In doing thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 05:36 PM
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TRP's whole premise is teaching you how to please women. And yes that's true no matter how many times you call it self-improvement. It's all about the pussy. So, if you go to a sub which makes that claim, and someone on that sub with a fancy "vanguard" flair says "women literally want to be raped", it's not exactly hard to understand why people would come away with the "pro-rape" impression of TRP. TGP was talking about something on the IRC yesterday which I think is very relevant here. TRP is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 05:19 PM
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You're moving the goalposts by conflating happiness with contentment. But okay, if we're asking if casual sex can lead to contentment I'd say sure. If someone doesn't desire commitment but does desire a sexual release, they're likely content with causal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 05:13 PM
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Point is you can't argue "oh we didn't really mean it like that" when he states very clearly that he did. There's no ambiguity here. In any case, leaving that argument aside (because it'll just go around in circles) it's not exactly difficult to work out why someone would see posts like that on TRP then come away with the impression it's a community that's just a little bit iffy wrt rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 05:12 PM
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Yeah and people do not walk around happy all the time. Those who appear to be constantly cheerful are either on drugs or faking it because they got deeper problems. Most of the time we don't really feel any particular emotion strongly, we just go about our lives doing what we gotta do. We're happy in the in-between parts where we do things we like, whether it's casual sex or collecting stamps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 05:09 PM
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Literally the first paragraph of the post says "the title is literal."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 04:53 PM
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I find it interesting how that thread is about RPW but most of the comments are only attacking TRP. I know this is slightly off-topic wrt you main point, OP, but it seems people really have to stretch themselves to find anything objectionable in RPW beyond "that looks like it comes from a 1950's black and white movie amirite?" To address your main point here, a lot of the comments are obviously hyperbolic (as are criticisms of feminism on other threads etc) but they don't come out of nowhere. Fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 04:37 PM
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In the short term, sure. It's pleasure seeking behaviour and pleasure makes you happy. In the long term the pleasure decreases just like developing a tolerance to a drug and now it stops making you happy and just becomes a boring chore each time you do it. Then again I think the same is true of relationships. Time passes, shit eventually gets boring. That's why you get half of marriages ending in divorces and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 04:21 PM
1

So China has less debt, more industry, more export revenue, and a lower unemployment rate. America even has 13% more of its population below poverty line compared to China.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 11:09 AM
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Yeah manufacturing is weak bullshit, that's why the USA has a much better economy than China... oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 01:22 AM
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people popularly enjoy creating backlash to nonexistent problems This is like the entire basis for third wave feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 12:50 AM
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Bby I'll install Gentoo on your laptop for our first date, that'll really get the juices flowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 12:46 AM
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That's a stereotype that only exists on Reddit. Go out into the real world and most people own games consoles. The gaming industry is literally more profitable than the movie and music industries combined. That doesn't come from a few nerds. That comes from a massive mainstream market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 11:58 PM
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Games aren't even nerdy anymore, that's why. If anything it's weirder not to play games. I got an Xbox to fit in more because people thought it was weird I didn't have one. Same goes for a lot of other typically nerdy hobbies. Why do you think there's so many blockbuster films based on comic books recently? So much of the shit that used to be looked down on is now just mainstream and isn't even something that most people even think of as being strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 11:53 PM
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I've never fit the stereotype on this one. I go to my GP when something strange happens which I think needs medical attention. Doctors can also give you plenty of good drugs legally. I never understood guys who have big painful looking wounds acting all tough like "nah it doesn't hurt" when they could go to the doctor and get opiates. That said, I can see why others would be discouraged because I've seen a lot of shitty GPs in my time. Now I have a good one I'm holding onto and I refuse to see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 11:16 PM
1

Actually this is true come to think of it. There's even people aged 50+ on Okc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 10:24 PM
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This. It's some /r/iamverysmart bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 03:48 PM
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When you're older(like 50 years old) you can't get laid unless you're super rick or something. Never said I'm anti-LTR, only anti-marriage. If you're still single at 50 then well that's what escorts are for. Even stats show that married people tend to live longer. Correlation isn't causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 03:36 PM
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If you're single, you have motivation to keep yourself as desirable as possible so you can keep getting laid. If you're in a relationship but not married, you have motivation to keep yourself as desirable as possible else your SO will dump you. If you're married, then you have no motivation to keep being better, instead you can get lazy and know there's a legally binding contract keeping your SO there and getting out of it would be a much bigger pain the ass than a simple breakup. Seems to me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 03:12 PM
2

Also not a bad solution to help you change your approach to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:52 PM
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Seen both many times and no I don't think they're gender specific. We all put on rose tinted glasses when it comes to our SO's. Not to mention that many people are so scared of being alone that they will stay with someone even if they know it's not working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 11:32 AM
2

If my main focus was just getting as much sex as possible like TRP mostly seems to be then of course. Gay guys can very easily get sex whenever they like. And they don't have to deal with women to get it. Perfection itself in the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 11:35 PM
2

A fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 06:34 PM
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It was an LTR apparently, not separate people. The case itself is complex as fuck tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 06:33 PM
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Computer shit, everything from Arch Linux to custom building my own PCs. Mostly interested in getting to bottom of how everything actually works. Recently picked up an interest in comics, especially Suicide Squad since I'm hyped for the film and my mates are into comics already so thought I'd join in. Would be lying if I said I didn't like the odd benzo here and there either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 03:19 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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