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| 5 | Is it bad to tell a girl you’re talking to from tinder that you went out on another tinder date?It's totally acceptable but no one wants to hear about it. | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Is it bad to tell a girl you’re talking to from tinder that you went out on another tinder date?You don't have to lie "sorry tied up tonight" "I have plans" "meeting someone for coffee". | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Ex-wife of 4 years cheats. I realize how much of a loser I am with woman.From OP's post it doesn't sound like she traded sex for coke. Rather she did coke with the guy and then had sex with him. Doing coke and fucking other dudes is not cool. But not nearly as bad as selling her body for coke which implies she has a really serious drug problem. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Ex-wife of 4 years cheats. I realize how much of a loser I am with woman.Everyone here is saying dump her - and maybe they are right. But we really don't know anything about your life or your relationship. Two kids are involved and divorce is going to be brutal. I don't know where you live, but usually the laws are pretty favourable to the wife and you're going to get fucked. The result is that she takes your kids, your house, and half your paycheck. Now you are broke living in a shitty apartment without your kids and trying to start over. Before you go through with … | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 11:35 PM |
| 12 | What went wrong here? Really bummed because this girl was absolutely gorgeousWe've all been there. Dating is learning experience. Now send her a dick pick and maybe you can still save this. Just do a half chub. Don't want to come off too aggressive. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 03:09 AM |
| 30 | What went wrong here? Really bummed because this girl was absolutely gorgeousThat big message has so much cringe. "We should grab drinks. What's your schedule like?" | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I feel so bad, my good friend just ”stole” my crushThat sucks OP. It happens to everybody. Next time you know to make your move quickly instead of waiting. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | A clear indicator of why online dating is terribleYou can't get angry or take it personal if a girl stops texting you or flakes. At this point your a complete stranger -one of a dozen guys she is probably talking to. Don't take it personally. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Maximize your appearance before trying to become the Gandalf of social skillsThese videos make me angry. Like the who hell is going to spend 20 minutes listening to these guys umm and ughh their way through the most basic life advice? | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Simple But Hard To Accept Life Hack To Improve Your Dating LifeSo married people? | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend has finally told me "it's probably best we don't talk anymore"...Has she every actually said she has really strong sexual or romantic feelings for you? Not "I care deeply for you" but "I don't trust myself around you because I want to fuck your brains out". The more you share the more it looks like you are misinterpreting friendship (which includes discussing things like art and philosophy) with romantic interest. Just because you share her interest in art doesn't mean you are satisfying her in ways her boyfriend can't. A lot of people have interests their si… | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Girl with boyfriend has finally told me "it's probably best we don't talk anymore"...But OP came along. When I read that line I can't help but believe OP belongs over r/niceguys and that he is really misreading the situation, mistaking kindness and friendship for romantic affection. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 01:51 PM |
| 6 | Girl with boyfriend has finally told me "it's probably best we don't talk anymore"...What can you offer her that her boyfriend can't? Why is she still with him? | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 12:24 PM |
| 2 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?He should not feel embarrassed because he is doing nothing wrong. If anything the girl should be embarrassed by escalating from coffee to dinner and then inviting her friend. That is not only rude it's very odd behavior. I agree with all of this but I am working from the assumption that OP is a pretty awkward dude and that she is manipulative. OP shouldn't feel embarrassed, but he will, if only because she makes him feel embarrassed. If he were a more confident dude then sure go to dinner. But t… | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?OP how do you know this girl? How long have you known her for? How old are each of you? Tell us a bit about yourself and the girl. | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 08:22 PM |
| 12 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?Telling the waiter this up front seems so out of place and strange - it's going to make OP look really weird, but more importantly he's going to feel really embarassed. She'll also probably use this as an excuse to cover up her shitty behaviour by telling OP she kind of liked him, but he's acting weird and rude, and that she doesn't want to eat with him or date him. OP will go home and cry in his pillow. | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 08:17 PM |
| 23 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?OP shouldn't put himself in that situation. When the bill comes and she starts flirting and/or insisting it actually is a date, or that she could see herself dating OP, he's going to end up awkwardly paying for the meal. I mean he made this post after all (No offense OP). Why go on the date at all? I know we don't know the whole situation and maybe I'm completely misreading OP and this girls intentions, but it sounds like she wants a free meal and also that she will be able to control and frame … | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 3 months into new job, I asked the boss for a raisecongrats on the raise! Ballsy as fuck to request it after 3 months. They must really value you. I can't really picture an environment where the jokes about getting a raise don't seem tacky, but then again I'm not there. Did you ask for a specific amount (percentage?) or did you just say you wanted a raise? Did you get the amount you wanted? | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 04:12 AM |
| 3 | How to Tell A Story Like Matthew McConaughey — Classic Charm [VIDEO ESSAY]4 minutes in. This is kind of brutal. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 03:27 AM |
| 0 | I recently watched The Red Pill. As a male who had an abusive girlfriend in college, this quote really struck a nerve.Yes. It's the stupidest quote and I still wonder how it didn't get cut from the movie. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/17 03:17 AM |
| 86 | I recently watched The Red Pill. As a male who had an abusive girlfriend in college, this quote really struck a nerve.This beautifully explains the cognitive dissonance going on. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/17 03:15 AM |
| 26 | “The Future is Female”: The Bleak Outlook for Male Employment and EducationIt's pretty shocking that no one seems to be talking about the fact that men's educational achievements are severely behind those of women. From all the talk about getting more women into STEM and scholarship's that are only for Woman, you would think it were the other way around. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/17 05:55 PM |
| 10 | How do you meet up with a girl that only likes you because you're an asshole to her?"don't ask stupid questions" "just do it" "I'm bored and need someone to entertain me" "come over at 8. Bring beer" | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 06:25 AM |
| 14 | How to initiate sexting from this text messageDick pic. If she is into you even a little she will find it charming and playful. But don't be too aggressive. Best to go with a half chub. | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Best response to girls saying "You are really handsome/beautiful/gorgeous etc." ?I agree. If she's saying that it really doesn't matter. Thank you is good enough. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Some OkCupid tips I've learned over the yearsSome of the best advice I have seen regarding okcupid. | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 07:10 PM |
| -5 | The way my parents raised me is preventing me from being able to get a girlfriend. I'm in desperate need to fundamentally change my personality, but I don't know how to.Stop blaming your parents for your lack of social skills. That is on you. Own it and deal with it. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 04:03 PM |
| 1 | The Myth of The Heartless PlayerDid we read the same link? Because that was fucking brutal. | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Tip: Find a bar or restaurant that has attractive female waitresses/bartenders, become a regular there and get to know the staff, and take your dates there.That sounds like a lot of work and scheming. I mean, great if your favourite nearby spot happens to have attractive and friendly girls, but going out of your way to establish a relationship with waitresses at a bar so you can bring girls there and hope one of the waitresses will be in is just...it's too much. | /r/seduction | 01/03/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Feminists... have all taken extreme measures to protect their 'right' not to be offended. -- Alan DershowitzYou see if you allow censorship based on personal feelings then you have to allow anyone to censor, otherwise you're a hypocrite. Which means others are free to censor you if they don't like what you say. This is where you misconstrue Grapeban's argument (censorship based on personal feelings) and extrapolate his reasoning (which you've mischaracterized) to reach an extreme conclusion that is not warranted by his view. You rephrased Grapeban's argument to be censoring based on personal feelings … | /r/MensRights | 05/01/15 08:17 PM |
| -2 | This is the type of insanity we are fighting againstI don't think it's fair to say this person's views are even remotely representative of those who are against Men's Rights. Even they would think she is batshit crazy. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 09:36 PM |
| 9 | This is the kind of crap that pops up on my facebook news feed - sorry if this is a repostGuys, Remember some people are retarded. Don't lump this in with people who have well thought out and rational views that differ from this subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/14 01:59 AM |
| -2 | Feminists... have all taken extreme measures to protect their 'right' not to be offended. -- Alan DershowitzLook man, I'm (more or less) on your side of this argument, but your response is incredibly patronizing, condescending, and dismissive to a valid point. You're misconstruing his argument and making unreasonable extrapolations to the logic behind his view. STRAW MAN. Merry Christmas! | /r/MensRights | 25/12/14 06:58 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First date. At last, after 3 flakes with very young and beautifull girl(She 17, me 22). No K-close, tried Kino. Didn't have time to escalate( 1 hour date). She complains that people were looking at us.He is not looking to date her, just use her for experiments. Totally different. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 11:27 PM |
| 5 | [FR] First date. At last, after 3 flakes with very young and beautifull girl(She 17, me 22). No K-close, tried Kino. Didn't have time to escalate( 1 hour date). She complains that people were looking at us.Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Most 17 year old girl's are not comfortable discussing anal sex with an (older) guy they just met. But it's also the quickest way to tell a girl you watch obscene amounts of porn and have limited experience with woman, so good communication skills. : P Making the conversation overtly sexual so quickly is generally a classless and horrible idea. thought she might be a good material for experiments( I don't wanna hurt her feelings). What does this mean… | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 11:17 PM |
| 7 | [FR] First date. At last, after 3 flakes with very young and beautifull girl(She 17, me 22). No K-close, tried Kino. Didn't have time to escalate( 1 hour date). She complains that people were looking at us.we talked about almost everything and sexual things like anal. She is 17. Even if she's not 17. It's a first date. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The contrast between what is acceptable depending on which sex it's coming from really bums me outSome people will reframe an issue when its a man instead of a woman or vice versa. But you don't have to accept that frame. Personally though, in some of these situations I think gender does make a difference. For instance, the woman making jokes about wanting to rape chris brown. The idea of a random woman physically overpower chris brown and making him have sex with her is not something that seems possible. Because it's not really considered possible it becomes a joke. The idea of a strange ma… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/14 03:35 AM |
| 12 | Toronto’s first ‘men’s centre’ aware it might ruffle feathers, but insists it isn’t a simple ‘men’s rights association’I don't know anything about that but I really like his answers. He does a great job explaining the centre. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/14 04:13 AM |
| -6 | Everything You Know About the Friend Zone is WRONGI find this post to be pretty offensive to woman, especially the part about woman who grew up without a positive male role model. And a co-worker does not make a woman your companion. Really though, I find this post to be offensive to science. I mean this type of stuff might be the softest science there is, but your theory seems to be based completely on 2-3 personal experiences. Congrats on hooking up with your co-worker though. | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 01:54 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with someone hitting on your girl while your not there?If your girl is attractive, she's going to get hit on. True, and all the more reason she needs to learn to set boundaries and stand up for the relationship. Staying loyal and committed is about avoiding that beach with Jeff and his friends in the first place more than it's about avoiding jeff's penis in her mouth shortly afterwards. One can be avoided, the other probably not. | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Feminists highjack what should be a Mental Health issue.Gotta say I was on the other side but this discussion swayed me. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/14 10:40 AM |
| 6 | The "male entitlement" argument is bullshit.To be fair I think a lot of this is just the circles you role with. I don't know any men who feel entitled to woman, but I have heard dozens of stories from female friends and been eye witness to, men who become extremely hostile when they are rejected by a woman. Just like some woman get hostile when rejected, some men do it to. Bottom line, some people are assholes. I would also so that there are a lot of relationships that go the other way. I've been in relationships where the woman I'm datin… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/14 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same time...you are not in high school???? | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | My Criminal Justice teacher insists that legally, a man cannot be raped, and that it is merely "sexual assault" when the victims is male.Yes, but every state gets VAWA dollars for handling sexual assault, and if they're not recognizing protected victim classes, including males, it can be a money problem for them. Sorry I don't understand your point. If a state is not recognizing this protected victim class of males in its definition of rape it would not need any money or funding for such prosecutions, as male could not be legally raped according to the states law. Male rapes could not be prosecuted. I don't know anything about th… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/14 09:07 PM |
| 1 | My Criminal Justice teacher insists that legally, a man cannot be raped, and that it is merely "sexual assault" when the victims is male.You mean the definition in your states criminal code is ambiguous? That is very possible. If you reproduce it here I may be able to help. I iz a lawyer. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/14 08:52 PM |
| 2 | My Criminal Justice teacher insists that legally, a man cannot be raped, and that it is merely "sexual assault" when the victims is male.OP if you want to check this find the criminal code for your state (it might be called penal code or something else in your state). In there you shall find the crime of rape and its legal definition. You should know how to check the criminal laws in your state cause law is cool. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/14 04:05 AM |
| 3 | My Criminal Justice teacher insists that legally, a man cannot be raped, and that it is merely "sexual assault" when the victims is male.FBI''s definition of rape is not the same as the criminal code which legally defines rape and sexual assault. Each state has one. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/14 04:02 AM |
| 5 | [FR] First date. Lost a bet and now I can't touch her for a month. Please give me your advice!why would either of you make that bet when you are just getting to know each other? I mean you are going to welch, but it seems silly. | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 02:54 AM |
| -3 | Apparently wanting to go dutch on a first date makes you a horrible person worthy of public ridicule and shaming.I disagree. This is the one time it makes sense for a man to pay. Once they are in a relationship they become equal partners and everything should be 50/50. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 11:38 PM |
| 1 | After 18 years and $250,000 I am finally done with child support.Congrats. One piece of advice, don't bad mouth your ex-wife to your kids. Regardless of how much she deserves it they will just lose respect for you both and feel shitty. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/14 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Single Mother Families are Hotbed of Child Abuse: ResearchI wrote up a response that I don't see how this changes things, but I guess it does a bit. This is evidence that the predisposition of the courts to grant full custody to the mom may often not be in the best interests of the child. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 07:05 PM |
| 2 | In feminist Betty Friedan's 1963 book "The Feminine Mystique", she claimed that women "who grow up wanting to be 'just a housewife,' are in as much danger as the millions who walked to their own death in the concentration camps."Agree 100%. There are nut job feminists and nut job mens rights activists. Pointing them out doesn't really do anything. Anyone who is worth engaging would think her statement is absurd. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/13 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Canadian Lawyer lies in blog about Shared Parenting Laws in Australia, then censors my comments when I call him on it. Help needed!Some of the comments posted appear rather uncivil and attack his character and motivations right from the get go. I am not surprised he sensored comments and think he was completely right to. It's one thing to disagree with him and question his evidence, but you can't and shouldn't expect a private blog to leave up comments that attack the character of the author. Not saying those are your comments that are insulting the author but some of them look like they might be. If you don't agree with so… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/13 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Getting divorced turns men into slavesYour boyfriend makes $1100 a month? Sorry for the jackass comment but isn't that less than minimum wage? | /r/MensRights | 19/12/13 06:46 AM |
| -2 | So much for Toxic Masculinity. Every act of kindness in this video is by a man.the video was very much meh, but the music is incredibly beautiful and moving. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/13 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Women Don't Earn Less Than MenRE: Younger woman have more earning power than men. I also think reverse sexism plays a part here. Social norms that favoured men 20-40 years ago combined with the career choices of men and women who started work back then have resulted in much of senior management being male dominated. And now it looks like a lot of businesses are reverse discriminating in an effort to make their businesses more gender even. And they only applauded for it. I also think young woman whose looks are average and ab… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/13 07:15 PM |
| -1 | Being a male and a friendly male puts his arm around you over your shoulders.It's feels like you purposely misinterpreted my post, and then chose to post unnecessary and inflammatory insults. It just shows that you have friends. Really man? Look what thread you're posting in. I don't think much about alpha and beta, but given the question asked, I'm offering my two cents. | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Being a male and a friendly male puts his arm around you over your shoulders.It depends a bit on the situation. I don't think guys do it intending to hurt your game. I used to do this all the time and honestly thought I was helping my buddies by making them appear to have good friends and be social, or I'd just do it because we are buddies and its an act of friendship. But as others have explained in this thread, when someone does this to you they seem more alpha and you more beta. It's not a terrible thing to do, but know when a random guy or even a buddy does this to y… | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach my former high school's Vice Principal? (SERIOUS and more details inside)Ahahaha | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 01:09 PM |
| 2 | STOP WORRYING: Most women are not Gold Diggers!Really great post. My ambition, career, and success are all things I really value about myself, and I want a woman who values them the same. I also have a fear of being seen as a meal ticket. | /r/seduction | 15/11/13 03:00 PM |
| 1 | So video games are a misogynist haven, eh?Ya some feminists do and its a ridiculous claim. It really doesn't seem like a point worth fighting. Or if it does, there are so many more fertile grounds to argue for the existence of mens rights (family law courts, real events of men being raped, homelessness, suicide rates, domestic violence). | /r/MensRights | 15/11/13 12:52 PM |
| 1 | "Dear Men: You Are Already Good Enough" a nice break from all the strife.that is a beautiful article. I shed a couple of man tears. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/13 04:45 AM |
| 2 | So video games are a misogynist haven, eh?These kind of posts bother me. It is unfair to expect an advocate of any group to be aware of and comment on every offensive thing published. Video games cater heavily to a male audience. Tomb raider is a much more popular game and is also a better example to argue for someone who is trying to change the status quo. Someone can be for equality and still selectively choose to focus their efforts on women, especially in video games, where the audience heavily caters to men (as they should, its mos… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/13 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Judge Margaret Chan tossed the case yesterday, saying that while she lauded Lozito’s bravery, cops did not have a specific charge of saving him from The Butcher of Brighton Beach. In other words, cops don't have to protect men.I find these posts infuriating. Nothing in this decision suggests bias towards men. There is also clear precedent that police have no duty to protect specific persons. This post insulting to the real issues men face. But what really irks me is the dishonest reasoning Of OP. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/13 07:21 PM |
| 10 | CNN feminist says infidelity is a form of abuse ... but only if men do it: "... he admits to his latest sexual offense against her, what it really is: spousal abuse."I read that whole article for the part where she says it's only abuse if men do it. And I gotta say, fuck you OP. Fuck you and your house of lies. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 03:28 AM |
| 6 | My advice for online dating profilesI'm pretty happy with my success online, and I strongly disagree with the be as funny as you can part. Funny is great, but I think woman value sincerity a lot more. A profile that is just joke after joke gives the impression of a person who can't have a serious conversation. I've tried out various profiles and for me anyways, a more sincere profile works much better. I save the whimsy and humour for the messages. edit to add: read your first messages below. They are very similar to what I send. | /r/seduction | 12/06/13 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Teachers union supports compulsory boy-humiliation class: "As educators, teachers are in an ideal position to challenge sexism and gender stereotyping, helping girls and young women to feel confidentOP, your title is very misleading. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Saw radical feminism for the first time yesterday...Now, if i took my life experiences and used that as a platform to extract revenge against women, So, yes, when someone says, "I'm a feminist" I read, "I'm a child", when someone says, "I need feminism" I hear, "But daaaaaad!". And every time some poptart comes in here and tells us feminism cares about men, or identifies as a feminist all I can think is how they give cover and legitimacy to a group of idelogical terrorists who relish in victimizing men because, at some point in their lives, they … | /r/MensRights | 15/02/13 02:54 AM |
| 5 | I'm ignorant? (He deleted the whole thing moments later)I think this is a ridiculous reaction. While it is widely known that heart disease is a serious (if not the most serious) health concern for men, it is generally not regarded as such for woman. Speaking about heart disease in general as is usually done runs the risk that woman will continue failing to recognizing the serious risk heart disease poses for them. Until I read that that facebook post I did not know heart disease was the number one health risk to woman. In fact I will probably bring t… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/13 02:30 AM |
| 7 | I believe this is somewhat related to this sub, especially with the excessive pollution of modern new age tumblr feminism.So what? Just about no one has done what Ms. Ali has. I've never heard of Rebecca Watson but when you compare anyone to Ayaan Hirsi Ali in the arena of Woman's rights, well, they'e gonna have a bad time. This post leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I feel the post isn't criticizing Watson based on the substance of her "activism", but on the fact that she hasn't won a medal for it. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 02:30 AM |
| 0 | Can't believe I had this conversation.If she is being sexist it is entirely understandable. Fearing a strange man walk behind you at night doesn't mean you think all men are rapists. It's called being safe. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/13 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Has Amanda Marcotte become stupider?I found the article almost unreadable and dishonest in its analysis. I don't know anything about Amanda Marcotte or her writings. Maybe all the charges levied against her in this article are true. I would still hate this article for the way it is written. Am I alone here? | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Girls comes over. We start making out. Says I creeped her out. What do you do here?Ya I think my assumptions played a big part of it. I always try to act respectfully with woman. But sometimes when I think a girl is promiscuous and down for casual sex, I can act in such a way as to almost assume the sex is gonna happen. And then I kind of rush the buildup. As if to say by action, "look, we both know why we're here. Let's just get to it". And I think that can make her feel like I don't respect her as person. I'm slowly learning that when it comes to casual sex, it's even more i… | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Start taking cold showers, especially if you have AADo you have any articles (preferably scientific) that talk about "overcoming the flinch"? This is the benefit I am most interested in and also the one I'm most skeptical about. I imagine the flinch from the cold water is completely unrelated to the flinch from something non-physical. Like a difficult conversation with your girlfriend or boss. Or if there is any reduced flinch, the benefit would be gone within a few hours. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 08:56 PM |
| 1 | How Rape Laws Remove the Presumption of Innocence - In Washington state, juries receive the following instruction: “The burden is on the defendant to prove by a preponderance of the evidence that the sexual intercourse was consensual.” I'm shocked! Is this true? Not a violation of US constitution?Ya your right. A lot of times these other types of crimes will not produce evidence. And when there is no evidence you will get away with it. And so many people do! This is why stores spend piles of money on undercover security guards and video cameras. So they can catch you and have the evidence to prosecute you. For rape, without the reverse burden of proof most perpetrators would get away with it. And unlike shoplifting, there is little the victims can realistically do to make sure they will … | /r/MensRights | 24/11/12 06:31 PM |
| 2 | How Rape Laws Remove the Presumption of Innocence - In Washington state, juries receive the following instruction: “The burden is on the defendant to prove by a preponderance of the evidence that the sexual intercourse was consensual.” I'm shocked! Is this true? Not a violation of US constitution?Ya I didn't make the law. I think the difference with these other crimes is that the actions that constitue these other crimes are far less ambiguous. If you gave someone drugs for money you are drug dealing. If you punch someone, that's assault. Furthermore these types of crimes produce a variety of evidence: Witnesses, physical property (drugs, weapons, money), phone calls, and so on. And the victims tend to preserve evidence and seek police intervention immediately. And even for these crimes … | /r/MensRights | 23/11/12 04:08 AM |
| 7 | How Rape Laws Remove the Presumption of Innocence - In Washington state, juries receive the following instruction: “The burden is on the defendant to prove by a preponderance of the evidence that the sexual intercourse was consensual.” I'm shocked! Is this true? Not a violation of US constitution?We have the same thing Canada. We actually covered this in first year law. I'm a bit hazy but I tried to write out the court's analysis as I remember it. It's all basically contained in the last 2 paragraphs under part 4) Proportionality. So in Canada, our constitutional rights are not absolute, but guaranteed subject to "reasonable limits prescribed by law as can be demonstrably justified in a free and democratic society." I believe in the U.S. your constitutional rights are guaranteed without … | /r/MensRights | 23/11/12 12:43 AM |
| 1 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.This agrees 100% with my own experience. My little cousin is 13 right now. His eyeballs are continuously rolled. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.I'm not sure it is possible to eliminate all irony. But I think we can reduce it. I think our ego comes more into play when we are afraid of getting hurt or insulted (and then we rely on irony). And we can speak of living non-ironically. We are not ironic all the time. Sometimes I am very sincere. Usually with people I trust and feel close to. These are the most meaningful conversations. And this is when I like myself best. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 07:33 PM |
| 7 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.I think your points are great, especially the ones about irony being a defense for the ego, and every self help author suggesting the same thing as the author is dead on. But I don't think they really rebut the idea that it is better to live non-ironically. Living with irony, so to speak, really dilutes the sincerity of our words and actions, with the result that we connect with others on a shallower level. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Woman denied haircut at barbershop. Claims its a human rights issue.If you look at the report you notice that she filed the complaint herself. That is because she doesn't stand a chance, and no lawyer would represent her. It might be illegal or unethical for them to do so. -soon to be lawyer. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/12 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I live in a part of California where any domestic violence call *will result in the arrest and prosecution of the male party* regardless of the facts surrounding the incident. As a result, I am in a domestic violence class to avoid harsh penalties. AMA.That arrest policy must be unconstitutional. Surprised no one has challenged it. Or maybe they have? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/12 07:33 PM |
| 2 | costumes that help you with seduction/get laidSpeedo's + Cat ears = slutty cat. And I have a sweet meow. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Married dude reluctant to attack lately. Advice?I don't understand, you think the problem is that you come off as too awesome, and then these woman want to date you as opposed to just sleeping with you? | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 06:17 AM |
| 1 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateI don't know what I was expecting, but that was disappointing. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 05:51 AM |
| 1 | 12 Products That Make Me Feel AttractiveThis post is nothing more than a bunch of shameless plugs. "Acuvue Advanced Plus Contacts" - These make you feel more attractive? Why not just say contact lenses? Same goes for just about everything else on the list. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 06:43 AM |
| 37 | I told her: "Come over to my place... No funny business though, seriously." F-closeLet's see. You pick her up on the bus. She messages you out of the blue after 2 weeks silence. Then she agrees to come over to your place on a Friday night just to hang out with you alone. Ya it was definitely the line. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Simple way I started picking up girls on FBI know it's the internet, but you have to assume the people you are talking to have a modicum of common sense, at least until proven otherwise. Look at our conversation. You interpet every one of my posts in the most absurd way possible. For example, When I say: Girls appreciate discretion just as much as guys do. I don't understand how you can interpret this to mean I am advocating only hitting on girls in private. Likewise, when I say privacy is preferable, how is this taken as an absolute rul… | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Simple way I started picking up girls on FBIt's not about ONLY hitting on girls in private. Privacy is just preferable. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Simple way I started picking up girls on FBI think this is very cheesy, but with the right girl/context it's pretty damn swell. Don't know why you are getting so much shit for it. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Simple way I started picking up girls on FBHe is hitting on her. Girls appreciate discretion just as much as guys do. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 02:51 PM |
| 1 | 5 things I would have told myself 3 years ago.Before any of this stuff I used to push myself and wasn't that shy. I would approach girls. I figured there was no way I was gonna get laid by asking girls stupid questions. And I did ok. Then I started with this stuff. I started to believe I could get laid with stupid questions (but I just needed some tweaks). And so I regressed a lot. And lost most of my success. I wasted a lot of time because I thought asking a girl the time put me closer to success than walking up to a girl and buying her a … | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 05:49 PM |
| 0 | 5 things I would have told myself 3 years ago.Great post. I especially like points 2 and 3. For a very long time I'd go out and ask girls the time or some other stupid question, then leave 3 minutes later patting myself on the back. Thinking I was making progress. Just a waste. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Paradox of casual sex and not hurting herI made a similar post a while ago about how I feel sex always has commitment strings attached. I think the bottom line is your rejecting them. And it doesn't matter how honest and upfront you are, or how you try to spin it. Rejection hurts. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Does amazing NSA sex with one girl, make her friends she tells about it want to bang you too?DAFUQ? | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 04:52 PM |
| 18 | Hm, a national tragedy, how can I make this about ME?I've never met a woman that would get upset if I didn't open the door for her. Not even the slightest. But I have dated many women who swoon when I do it. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Life isn't a movie.I get to live my life free of the delusion that films are real and that images of actors are worth emulating. You live in a delusion, unable to discriminate between fiction and reality. You lose. I agree. trying to emulate actors or images from a movie is a bad idea. I have said this from the beginning. I'm done arguing. The only thing I've learned from this conversation is that you are a really bad film student. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Life isn't a movie.The only thing your last comment does is prove you are an extraordinary tool. Everything you mentioned about professional cinematographers, editors and the like is common knowledge and does nothing to change my point. And you still misused the concept willing suspension of disbelief. The amount of film experience and knowledge you have is irrelevant. There is no way you can really win this argument, because my point is simply that SOME movies display characters or conversations that are like rea… | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Life isn't a movie.It's like the only movies you've ever seen are spiderman and Ocean's 11. You also fail to understand the concept of suspension of disbelief. Read over the article you linked. I can very well distinguish between reality and film. But many (often less mainstream) films are raw and gritty and have conversations and characters intended to reflect the human condition. Some get it wrong. Others are pretty good. Again these movies are a lot less mainstream but they are out there. Check out the movie Fr… | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 06:26 AM |
| 4 | Life isn't a movie.I generally agree that trying to emulate someone from a movie is a bad idea, but some movies are very much like real life. I base this on the fact that there are tens of thousands of movies, many of which are dedicated to emulating reality. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 01:53 AM |
| 1 | FYI-There is a strong dichotomy between what seddit and woman think is attractive.It was in response to my other post here. More specifically, I see posts like this that seem to be strongly supported by the community. And I think this attitude and the belief that showing anything less than King Kong Alpha isn't always the way to go. I'm not saying it's usually not the way to go. Just that sometimes it's a mistake to discard a girl because she didn't text back. | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 07:48 AM |
| 2 | FYI-There is a strong dichotomy between what seddit and woman think is attractive.You didn't really call me out, but I agree with everything you said in your post (which is why I hang out here occasionally). The point of my post was simply that there are some woman out there who will not find attractive the attitudes this community generally subscribes to. Looking at my OP now I reget my title. It should have read "FYI-There is a strong dichotomy between what seddit and SOME woman think is attractive." | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 07:41 AM |
| 4 | FYI-There is a strong dichotomy between what seddit and woman think is attractive.If this post was true, and there was a dichotomy, then everyone in PUA would drop their tactics in a heartbeat and use whatever DOES work.... This is flawed logic. The validity of my post and success with woman brought on by participation in this community do not stand in opposition. Participation in this community may bring increased success despite teaching it's members a flawed perspective. Participation may increase success by increasing confidence and experience, developing PUA skills, teac… | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 07:31 AM |
| 3 | What are your hail mary texts or plays?From the story it sounds like you were never rejected, and might have blown your chances by preemptively rejecting her. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 11:39 PM |
| 2 | FYI-There is a strong dichotomy between what seddit and woman think is attractive.Your summary of seddit is very stereotypical and inaccurate. It says more about your attitudes than ours. What does it say about my attitudes? As I stated in my OP, I don't visit this forum often, and I am just going by the few posts I have read. There is a well known discrepancy between what women say they find attractive, and what they actually go for in men. Agreed. However, regarding the women I referenced, they are not speaking about what they think girls find attractive. They are telling m… | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 10:28 PM |
| 0 | FYI-There is a strong dichotomy between what seddit and woman think is attractive.I posted this in response to the different advice I received from my females friend and seddit over here. The issue was a girl not replying to me asking her for drinks. I'd say that's still pick up. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 10:21 PM |
| -6 | Girl stops texting after I ask her for drinks. What do I do?No I only say it to the secretaries at work (and I do it with serious and professional demeanour). I'm their boss so they can't get mad at me. It's all good man. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 07:23 AM |
| -6 | Girl stops texting after I ask her for drinks. What do I do?Have you even talked to a woman? Like ever? | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Girl stops texting after I ask her for drinks. What do I do?Please, please keep that attitude. This is why this subreddit is scum. Thanks, and I couldn't agree with you more. It's nice to know not everyone in this forum is a woman hating asshole. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Girl stops texting after I ask her for drinks. What do I do?Can't believe this got down voted so heavily. This makes me sad. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 06:51 AM |
| 4 | Girl stops texting after I ask her for drinks. What do I do?I believe I'm "worth it", but I don't think a woman is a bitch just because she doesn't see my value (based on 2 hours at party no less), or does not value what I have to offer. No one has to apologize for what they find attractive. And if that isn't me, then hey, no worries. There are plenty of woman out there who will/do. And I wish all of them the best. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Girl stops texting after I ask her for drinks. What do I do?It's my standard opening at the bar. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl stops texting after I ask her for drinks. What do I do?Haha I really like this. I am going to use this as my new hail mary. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 06:45 AM |
| -4 | Girl stops texting after I ask her for drinks. What do I do?Fuck that bitch n move on. Whoa! Name calling is really unnecessary. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 01:53 AM |
| 3 | How to hold a conversation??? I unknowingly say the wrong thing and push people awaywhen having a conversation, what should be going through my head (inner game).. whats normal? Sometimes when I have a conversation I have a strong inner monologue where I'm thinking about what the best/appropriate thing to say is. This usually occurs when I'm nervous. I rarely or never connect with people when this happens. The less my mouth and brain diverge the more I enjoy myself and the more I am able to connect with the person I am talking to. If all my jokes are only funny to me, how do I … | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Do women find intelligence attractive?Definitely yes. It is not debatable that intelligence is an attractive quality in men. How woman respond to intellectual conversation, obscure facts, and the value of intelligence compared to other desirable qualities are different questions altogether. These are the questions you are asking. This post is a good example of intelligence not being attractive. I have used my superior brain to point out the poor construction of your question. But because I have undermined your intelligence without a… | /r/seduction | 15/05/12 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Excerpt from a letter to two female "friends."I'm sorry your friends abandoned you. That's a shitty thing to do. You don't consider cars to be a positive change? Ambulances, Firetrucks, Police Cars; being able to see friends and family with ease; making the distribution of food and medicine possible. Really? Yes, men committed the atrocities. But the arguments of feminists would have you believe that women were free of any culpability for shaping the competitive male patriarchy that led to them, and, further, that the 'liberation' of women … | /r/MensRights | 07/05/12 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Excerpt from a letter to two female "friends."Sometimes people need support and encouragement. Other times they need honesty. This is the latter. Sorry if I hurt your feelings. I should have been more considerate. But when I see posts like yours it becomes very hard to be polite. The same way it's hard not to show outrage when someone goes on a rant against the Jews or immigrants or black people. edit to respond to your edit: I read your comments and understood them perfectly. It is common for woman to feel conflicted about their attraction… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/12 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Prime example of women viewing men as a utility.I disagree entirely. I am not a manly man but I like girly girls. Why? I'm short, hate sports, can't fix anything, and am all around not that macho. But a girl girl makes me feel manly. It's a great feeling. I suspect the author likes manly men for the same reason. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/12 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Excerpt from a letter to two female "friends."Why are you sending this letter to them? It is horribly misogynistic and filled with self pity. You hate woman (and your friends) for finding alpha male type guys attractive. Do you find fat chicks attractive? Do you ever stop and think that it's not fair with all the attractive chicks getting attention? I don't hate women; but it's difficult to take them very seriously, just as it must have been difficult to take seriously the stunted morals and intellects of the newly freed slaves of African d… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/12 09:21 PM |
| 7 | I have never been so disgusted by blatant misandryI forget a comma (now fixed). I meant to say "sexual discrimination, family law, and accusations of sexual assault." Or: how I learnt to get away with rape. No doubt giving men information about their legal rights will make it harder for the school and claimants of sexual assault to take administrative and legal action against them respectively. This is the most likely reason the school opposes it. But allowing people to use the justice system as it was intended- to know their full legal rights … | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 06:51 PM |
| 18 | I have never been so disgusted by blatant misandryI'm shocked. This video is disgusting. One thing I don't understand, why is there an argument about proclaiming a purpose before the center's creation?. Why is either side arguing about this? To the university it should be obvious the space is meant to advocate for men's rights and give support to men about men's issues (sexual discrimination, family law, accusations of sexual assault). To those requesting a men's space, it should be easy enough to proclaim a purpose if asked by the university. … | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Still a virgin at 19Sex is just one of many milestones on the road to becoming an adult. I think being self sustaining is by the most important, along with having others depend on you (kids). Is your job part time or full time? What is it? Do you live with your parents? Are you going to college? Tell us more about you. The thing about your families reputation sounds ridiculous (no offense). A few generations ago everyone got married at a young age. Especially those that didn't go to college. Times have changed. The… | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 02:15 AM |
| 2 | So..my EX can get away with vandalism..Get as must documentation you can of the incident. Write her or email her a letter describing the incident and the evidence that she was bragging about it. Tell her to stay away from you and your physical property. Do not swear or make baseless threats. Just tell her to stop, and that if you if she continues to take actions to harass or defame you, or vandalize your property that you will press charges and file a claim in small court seeking restitution. It is important to do this so that if she… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/12 10:11 PM |
| 11 | Some texting tips compiled after 100 sets of number closing.That all seems like basic standard advice... I guess I was hoping for something a little less basic. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Cock-blocked by a Date Rapist [FR]From the article on your website it seems like he wasn't so much targeting the girl as trying to protect her from being your target. If she was absolutely wasted, well, that just makes it more likely he was trying to protect her from you. Bringing her wasted state to the attention of others, including her best friend does not seem like an action consistent with date rape. In fact it pretty much eliminates any chance of him date raping her, because 1) if he does sleep with her that night there is… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Missouri legal definition of rape needs to be expanded. Missouri definition implies rape can only be committed by men against women and also excludes statutory rape, rape with an object and forced anal or oral sex.Rather than expanding the definition of rape itself, I think the criminal code should be expanded to have sections that deal with these types of offences, as well as for lesser offences (the exception being forced anal). It's sad to say, but whenever I hear of someone being charged or convicted of something like sexual assault I don't think much of it. Because the charge is so unspecific and I've heard of cases where people are charged/convicted because of very minor things (such as inappropriat… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/12 10:06 PM |
| 5 | Cock-blocked by a Date Rapist [FR]There is nothing in the story that indicates the other guy is a date rapist. What made you come to that conclusion? | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Cosmo: Play rape is fun and you should totally try it!Well ya, play rape is fun. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/12 09:09 AM |
| 2 | How does one transition to a threesome with sisters?I see what your saying, but when your twin sister is fucking you with a strap on you got some issues. | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 12:52 AM |
| 1 | How does one transition to a threesome with sisters?haha HOLY SHIT! When I wrote that these were the twins that came to mind. That is some fucked up shit! I take it all back. OP get them to make out and make sure to have a strap on handy. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 10:45 AM |
| 7 | How does one transition to a threesome with sisters?I absolutely love the title. It's like incestual threesomes are so common there is a standard procedure for initiating them. | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 10:10 PM |
| 4 | How does one transition to a threesome with sisters?"Yeah just be super cool. Don't force it to happen. Talk about it while drinking as a matter of fact. Like you have threesomes all the time and incest is normal." Ahahaha that cracked me up. I think if you are going to make this happen it has to be both of them giving you their attention. Trying to get them to kiss each other (and more) will probably not work because incest is gross. But maybe try getting them to massage each other and talk about the craziest things they have done. Think about i… | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Lost my job, still have to pay child support even though my ex is getting a $15k boob-job, makes 60k a year and still lives at home and I'm a full-time student.I find myself disagreeing with mens rights on most topics, but the inherent injustice in the child support system is absolutely disgusting. The system appears to be stuck antiquated notions of gender from the 1950's. I wonder if it's because of our common law system - where previous cases set precedent that future cases must follow. Or maybe that women are much better at organizing and lobbying. Either way it's disgusting. Sorry to hear what your going through OP. This is actually one of the les… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/12 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, I've written a manual on sex, dating, how to get women, how not to be a "Nice Guy" and much more. I just published it on Kindle. It's free Monday, then Friday and Saturday. Help me get the word out.Then you will die alone! Alright I'm off to uppercut some puppies. And get laaaaaid. | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 11:20 PM |
| 5 | [FR] HB7 trips the fuck out during seduction phase and sprints out of hotel room; I got a new pair of high heelsDid you drink the same stuff as her? It sounds like she thought she might have been drugged and thought to get the hell away from you. Your wing sounds super creepy. | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 07:23 AM |
| 11 | Hey guys, I've written a manual on sex, dating, how to get women, how not to be a "Nice Guy" and much more. I just published it on Kindle. It's free Monday, then Friday and Saturday. Help me get the word out.Having browsed the book it looks like the target audience is boys 12-14 who live in sexually repressed communities. The lack of any references or diagrams for the statistics and anatomy respectfully will make it a poor source for those who might want to use it. Realistically any book like this on sex ed is probably unsellable with wikipedia and other quality free sources. I know the book is more about how to be good at sex and get girls, so maybe that's why the intro seems so...unpleasant? I thi… | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 12:57 AM |
| -1 | Hey guys, I've written a manual on sex, dating, how to get women, how not to be a "Nice Guy" and much more. I just published it on Kindle. It's free Monday, then Friday and Saturday. Help me get the word out.Ditto. | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 12:50 AM |
| -4 | Does your Ex-Wife Have a Golden Uterus Complex? 15 Characteristics of the Golden Uterus | Shrink4MenI can't believe this author is a doctor. This article is incredibly unprofessional. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/12 08:23 PM |
| 0 | If you are a Feminist, and you've come here to tell us that "RadFems don't represent Feminism" please read this.That analogy is really flawed. You've taken war - prolonged organized conflict organized at the state level, and translated it to simple murder of males. This simplification obfuscates the complexity of war. First, it equates soldiers dying in battle to murder, which it is not. Second, it does not take into account the complex effects on civilians (economic, political, social +everything else), and third a male politician in the United States or Canada is in a very different social climate. Wome… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/11 02:05 AM |
| -1 | If you are a Feminist, and you've come here to tell us that "RadFems don't represent Feminism" please read this.Thanks for the response. It looks you are taking Ms. Clintons words in the worst possible way imaginable. It should be born in mind she is speaking to a female audience who have dealt with a lot (war, domestic violence). Her point about women being primary victims of war looks to be an attempt to validate the struggles these woman have faced. It is a valid attempt to recognize they go through a lot. I also think it is arguably true depending on how you interpret it. If you are considering civili… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/11 12:32 AM |
| 9 | If you are a Feminist, and you've come here to tell us that "RadFems don't represent Feminism" please read this.OP, Your post is the kind of comment I associate with radial mens rights activists. The poor logic of your post offends me. So much so that I prepared this massive response. Hillary Clinton. What is the context in which she said this? Was she giving a speech to a veterans hospital run by woman? Was she speaking to rape victims in the congo? Where is the rest of the speech? Politicians tailor their speech to their audience. Even in the worst context you are being unfair and attributing thoughts a… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/11 06:31 PM |
| 3 | "if men behaved like women, the courts would be idle and the prisons empty." Seriously?I don't know about the U.S. system but I have experience working in domestic abuse in Canada. I legally represented a women charged with assaulting her husband (legal aid). She was accused of jumping on his back and punching him. Dude was 6 feet she was about 5'3'' and 100 pounds. The courts try and prosecute abuse perpetrated by women. But yes, I do agree the justice system is far more lenient when it comes to woman. Voluntary? OK that's not fair. Maybe in some situations she can up and leave. … | /r/MensRights | 27/11/11 10:38 AM |
| 2 | "if men behaved like women, the courts would be idle and the prisons empty." Seriously?Zyk0s, I agree, however I think there are very few people who actually see it that way. Those that do are not rational. I think the reason it may appear this way is that the media/tv/other sources selectively expose us to the viewpoint that is the least controversial/politically correct as people are the most willing to accept it. You just can't say women are worse because they are genetically worse. I find it really tiring as well. But it also bothers me when I wander by mensrights and see ever… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/11 10:27 AM |
| 5 | "if men behaved like women, the courts would be idle and the prisons empty." Seriously?Of course not. I don't see how it's relevant though. ExistentialEnso accuses feminists of 1) applying gender determinism to men (e.g. men are inherently more violent), and 2) flipping out when similar stereotypes are applied to women (If men behaved like women there would be twice as many dead kids now). In raging against the feminists who irrationally hold men responsible for all of societies ills, I see a lot of mensrights applying the same shitty reasoning. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/11 10:10 AM |
| -5 | "if men behaved like women, the courts would be idle and the prisons empty." Seriously?Shocked at the responses. Men are definitely responsible for the vast majority of violent crimes. I don't really see how you guys can argue that. Men and woman are different. Sometimes men come out on top. This is not one of those times. What I think we can all be annoyed at is the gender blaming. But again that cuts both ways. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/11 06:33 AM |
| 1 | "if men behaved like women, the courts would be idle and the prisons empty." Seriously?That is what makes the rest of these comments so shocking. Everyone here is doing the same thing. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/11 06:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Bus pickup with a girl from DubaiI was trying to point out that you post was a little ridiculous. You come on here telling us how perfect you were and then ask us what went wrong. Tell us what areas you think might have been wrong. Also the "I like to photograph woman" thing sounds like it would come off creepy, even without mentioning the naked thing. Combine that with Dubai being more conservative (this is an assumption, I've never been) and it would be really creepy/pushy. Also, was she a lot more attractive than you? That m… | /r/seduction | 02/11/11 08:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Bus pickup with a girl from DubaiI was trying to point out that you post was a little ridiculous. You tell us how perfect you were and then ask us what went wrong. Makes it really difficult to critique and discuss. It would help more if you tell us what areas you think might have been wrong. I will try anyways. "I like to photograph woman" thing sounds like it would come off creepy, even without mentioning the naked thing. Combine that with Dubai being more conservative (this is an assumption, I've never been) and it would be r… | /r/seduction | 02/11/11 08:22 AM |
| 1 | How would this go over if the little boy were a girl and the person on the bag was a scantily clad model?I would think it was a little inappropriate. But you do see why there should be a different reaction right? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/11 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Wife of 12 years sent me to jail, now what? (from r/relationships)Wait so she wouldn't apologize for the affair? Jesus this woman sounds insane. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/11 11:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Bus pickup with a girl from DubaiI read your FR like this: "Guys I was super charming and played it perfectly, but she wouldn't give me her numer. What went wrong?" | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Being called CreepyMy brother always says "once your labelled creepy you're done". Sometimes he would be competing for a girl and would try to attach to attach the label. E.g. after a meal with chicken -"What's with the way he keeps licking his fingers. Man that guys creepy". Of course it has to be said right. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 06:45 AM |
| 12 | Text game, married woman, am I doing it right?Using your kids to have an affair is fucking low. I never thought I had a problem with sleeping with married woman (never had the chance yet), but this really bothers me. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 09:19 AM |
| 0 | Female paedophile babysitter, 20, arrested again after she raped a second 14-year-old boy. (Bouchard was also arrested three months ago for raping another 14-year-old who she babysat early in 2011 and plied with alcohol and marijuana allegedly supplied by her mother.)I know there is a double standard, but really, this girl is attractive. At 14 all I thought about was having sex with a girl like that. I think consent was likely (even if he could not fully appreciate it). The victim will not face the same stigma a girl in his situation would. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/11 07:23 PM |
| 6 | Got with a girl, but I just met her friend who I like even more. Halp.Have you ever had a threesome? There is no way that is happening anytime soon for OP (not with these two girls). First girl slept with him, and likes him. She is emotionally invested in him. She will be feeling rejected, betrayed, and unattractive when she learns OP has picked her friend over her. TL;DR Woman are people and have feelings. | /r/seduction | 17/09/11 09:20 PM |
| 2 | When dating, is it a big deal that she have a job, car, college education, and place of her own?ExpendableOne, Your argument rife with problems and we both know it. Walking across 20 people a day is not the same as getting messages from 20 people wishing to court you. Women are on dating sites to find someone, often because they are busy in real life. They are not their to be polite and owe you nothing. Dating is a free market and even the nicest girl is going to go for the best she can get. By listing their minimum requirements they save themselves from sorting through dozens of message a… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/11 08:27 PM |
| 55 | When dating, is it a big deal that she have a job, car, college education, and place of her own?Dating is a free market. They're just asking for what the market tells them they are worth (as indicated by what they get). The double standard exists because we (men) place far more value in looks then career success and independence. Overweight and unattractive women aren't as picky. But when they message you, I bet you delete them or send them a polite "you seem great but no thanks" message. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/11 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Banging His GFStrage. You just got out of prison and you are the white knight. What did you go in for? what are you doing now? | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Banging His GFSounds like she's a terrible gf. I have no advice for you but best of luck. I hope everything works out for you. | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Banging His GFOnly read the the TL; DR. I don't know what's going on. | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Am I being sexist toward my own gender?He should let her make her own choices, but still look out for her like any friend would. This is a girl who is inexperienced with boys and alcohol and may not appreciate the risks around her. And this riskier subculture she is seeking out is alcohol + socializing. That is just normal adult socializing. It's not like she's going to sex clubs. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/11 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Am I being sexist toward my own gender?Look at it this way. A 16 year old boy goes to a party. Gets drunk and loses his virginity. Wakes up next to a girl whose name he doesn't remember. Fuck, he just had the best day of his life. (read: 9/10 16 year old boys will feel this way). A 16 year old GIRL goes to a party. She gets drunk and blah blah blah wakes up next to a guy whose name she doesn't remember. Some might be ok or even happy with it. Most would be devastated. THE SEXES ARE DIFFERENT | /r/MensRights | 18/06/11 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Am I being sexist toward my own gender?No. You should look after friends. Guys are horny and devious. While the vast majority will act ethically, why take the risk? | /r/MensRights | 17/06/11 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Man defeats play by ex-wife to make him look bad in custody battleI hate to be a nit but I really dislike the author's "woman are usually so much smarter than stupid horny men". | /r/MensRights | 17/06/11 04:07 AM |
| 1 | [LR] From OKC to the bedroom, okc messages includedI am sure it was an awesome date, but the text messages are sooo awkward. Or maybe you are both just that perfect for each other. | /r/seduction | 03/06/11 02:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Received an IM on OkCupid; Had her in my bed 2 hours later. Breaking down how I did it.I also thought it was terrible. It lacked humour and passion. And what is with the hat pic? You look like a really good looking guy, but the hat pic is kind of creepy. | /r/seduction | 02/06/11 04:29 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Received an IM on OkCupid; Had her in my bed 2 hours later. Breaking down how I did it.That is some solid IM game right there. Ya she wanted you, but you made it happen. Everyone keeps saying it wasn't that great. Well fuck. Show me one of these fantastic text conversations that makes OP's look so dull. | /r/seduction | 02/06/11 04:19 AM |
| 4 | The AFC Anthem, who will stand up to her? us! [PUAs]I don't like how this song blames the girl for his self harming behaviour. Or is that why it's the AFC anthem? | /r/seduction | 21/05/11 03:40 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Finally broke the friend barrier!I swooned when I read the kiss in the rain. And I'm a man. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 06:47 AM |
| 2 | The Pussification of Men... The World According to Nice Guys.Absolutely agree. I see way to many of these posts in seddit. I guess that's how the community gets it's confidence up. | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 12:45 AM |
| 25 | The Pussification of Men... The World According to Nice Guys.I object to your assertion that nice guys are deceitful liars. That is bullshit. These girls you befriended you genuinely cared for and were a true friend (until you realized you couldn't be). I know this because I was a nice guy to. Nice guys ARE NICE GUYS who just lack confidence and/or don't understand what women want. Of course maybe some are cold, calculating schemers with no shred of sincerity, but that isn't the norm. And I don't think the norm is buying her gifts and listening to her whi… | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 12:43 AM |
| 9 | If you meet another PUA in field, don't be an asshole.I think the idea is to not be an asshole to anyone including AFCs. Other guys can help you. And this is double true when there is no lack of women. | /r/seduction | 10/04/11 10:54 PM |
| 3 | [FR] F-close, 3 year celibacy over, and uh-ohIt's normal for girls to really like a guy when the date goes well (and vice versa), but love? When a girl falls in love with you after one date its because she is a little unstable, not because you were too charming. Of course it sounds like you mean she just really likes you. Ok that is enough being a nit. Congrats on breaking the dry spell! It's amazing how much something like that can affect your love life. | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 08:46 PM |
| 6 | I'm now in my 8th month of an unplanned pregnancy and the father has informed me he no longer wants to be involved in the child's life. I'm so overwhelmed and confused I don't know what to do.I'm shocked no one said call a lawyer. I'm all for Mens rights, but this seems preposterous. This guy insisted on you having the child and said he would financially and emotionally support you. He is just as responsible for you. Even if you feel bad about it, get on that now. It may be much harder to get financial support in the future and you and the baby may really regret this act of kindness. Remember, he promised to support you and the baby and be there for you. Fuck him. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Walmart managerial Male to Female ratio matches the national average and have a strict anti-discrimination policy. Yet they are getting sued for not having equal results.Wall mart can have match the national average and still have branches that have discriminatory policy. I remember an article where the managers said (or were accused of saying) things like "a womens place is in the home. We can't promote you (woman) because men have actual careers" | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Do you pay on the first date?For under 25, either is acceptable. What matters is how you explain your choice, and how she reacts. If she makes a big deal of either she's retarded. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/11 03:01 AM |
| 1 | My Dating RulesWow great list. Not often I say that. This forum is filled with a lot of poor advice cough cough Karma be damned cough | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 02:43 AM |
| 2 | My Dating RulesWow great list. I think there is a lot of poor advice on this forum but I agree with every one of those rules. They are all fundamental and unambiguous. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 02:40 AM |
| 2 | If every male reading this takes 5 seconds right now to check for Testicular cancer, we will probably save some lives.I check every so often and just about every time I am convinced I have a lump but it's just the "wire" I'm feeling. Last time I even got a CT scan done. Scary! | /r/MensRights | 13/02/11 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Opener ideas?The point of the experiment is that guys are much more willing to go out with a stranger than a girl is. It's not really an opening line. It's asking someone out in the plainest language possible. Also where did you hear it as a class experiment with glass/green sweater? The experiment as I've read it involved a guy/girl being asked out while waiting to volunteer in a psychology experiment. Sorry I know this isn't really relevant to your post. I don't mean to be an asshole. Sometimes it just hap… | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I just heard my ex-girlfriend being banged by another guy. Help me. Give me strength.That sucks. I know that women are often faithless and interchangeable, but this is my first stark experience with the cruel infidelity and complete moral vacuum that can be a woman. You are far to young to be this jaded. And what infidelity? | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Is not getting laid in 2 years a sign of a problem?I've been in the same place as you. I still go through dry spells. By far the biggest barrier is not making an actual effort. I am talking about girls you hit on with the intention of sleeping with/dating. Going to the gym, reading PUA routines, or going up to girls with the intention of talking for 5 minutes before you eject; that is all bullshit. Getting into the game and being a PUA often makes the problem worse. Guys convince themselves that they are not ready to pursue anyone until they rea… | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 04:40 AM |
| 1 | From one alpha to another...I get the impression that at a party, you would try to turn everything into an argument be very condescending to just about everyone else because you consider them beta and you alpha. | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Opener ideas?That's a good line to leave. I've definitely heard it before. Still a good line though. But where is the opener? Shouldn't that be right where you start blah blah blah. The "I've only got a couple of minutes" is just styles qualifier from the game. Am I missing something? | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Bar with Med StudentsOK, so Med students - independent, intelligent ladies/gents who like to be in control of situations; and due to costs and time involved in studying medicine are usually from wealthy families and therefore quite self-confident. Since the studious and timid amongst them will probably only go out on a Friday after class, this means the ones in the bar on Saturday night will be girls that are fairly open, are self-assured enough to not be overly bothered with the stigmas of society and with whom you… | /r/seduction | 30/11/10 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Are we facing a Feminist Shari'ah?I think you've been hanging around in MensRights way to much. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/10 12:23 AM |
| 2 | EuroMillions winner must pay portion of winnings to ex-wife 10 YEARS AFTER DIVORCE | The Sun |NewsThe law's the law. It was his screw up Maybe he could've technically avoided this with a better lawyer, that changes nothing. The whole point is that the law, which as you say so eloquently stated is in fact the law, is absolutely retarded and unjust when it comes to divorce. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/10 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Always seem to make the move at the wrong time...Lots of touching before, and when you want to kiss her start looking at her mouth then her eyes, then mouth then eyes. Keep repeating while slowing down your speech or trail off until you stop talking. If she is into you (especially if you have made physical contact) she will move in for the kiss. | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 02:36 AM |
| 8 | Serious question, why don't white girls like my online profile?I hate your profile. Not that it's bad, it was kind of like my first profile. It just seems like a profile girls would hate (like they hated my original). It's basically one big joke. I found I got a lot better action after I changed it to "I've done all these cool things and now I'm doing this other cool and ambitious thing" | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 09:03 AM |
| 2 | I just deleted 200GB of pornI'm in the same boat as you beanzor. About two weeks ago I deleted all of my porn. It took me years to acquire my collection. Over 300 gigs. It was a great decision. And my life has improved noticeably since then. My romantic life has improved dramatically (though I wonder how much of that is really connected to this) and I have a lot more free time! My original plan was to stop masturbating to porn altogether. That hasn't happened. But I have cut down my wanking time dramatically and now might … | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 02:31 AM |
| -2 | So far both my male and female friends have all found this video disturbing. Who on earth thinks this is funny?Not disturbing. A little funny. The girl is kind of cute. And I am really digging this song. Screw you guys. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/10 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesAlso, if you consider the audience this book is probably aimed at (late 20's and beyond, who are dating men 30-40+), the pay thing I think makes a little more sense. Assuming she is going for a guy with a good job, and they are older, they have probably both grown up with the norm that the guy pays being much stronger. | /r/seduction | 10/11/10 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesAlex, That is not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about when you have a girl over on the first or second date, and she doesn't want to have sex and you try and make her feel bad so she fucks you. Part of it may be that you are making her want it more/have less hang ups, but there is a lot of pressure applied. This is more an issue for people dating younger girls (18-19) who are less experienced and sex is a bigger deal. | /r/seduction | 10/11/10 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesShe got herself married didn't she? And it's an unfair comparison. Unlike guys practicing game, she only has one guy to prove herself with. Not very fair. Judging her on this is like judging an entire PUA master based on one approach. If he didn't succeed does that mean he doesn't know what he's talking about? Of course not. There are extraneous factors you can't control no matter how good you are. She might just naturally be a bitch. Would you want to be married to a woman who wrote a book on h… | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesSo your saying it's fine in theory, it's just bad advice? Even if you don't agree with some of it, most it seems pretty straight forward (be elusive, be easy to live with, don't fuck him right away). | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesYes, the game is all about being a great guy. Is everyone forgetting there are detailed strategies on how to break past her anti-slut defence. That freezing out a girl, that is cutting off affection and acting cold when you don't get sex, is considered a standard move. That is not about being a great guy. That is about pushing a girl past her comfort zone to get laid. Not saying all of the game is like this, but a large part of it is definitely not being a good guy. | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesWithout reading the rules I feel it's safe to say they don't impose the idea that all women should want a husband or that casual sex is bad. The idea behind the book is how to get a husband if you want one. Nothing wrong there. Same with the 3rd date rule. That is not about casual sex being wrong. It is about trying to make yourself more valuable, something I think does work. | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesIt seems like a lot of the criticism here is that these woman haven't obsessed over the subject to an incredibly unhealthy level where social interaction becomes superficial, automatic and unnatural. Yay them. | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesThat's exactly it though. There is a struggle for commitment between these girls and guys. Eventually the girls would win though, because PUA guys would realize they won't get laid unless they do commit. The PUA mentality only works when there are woman who will have sex without commitment. | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesExecutex, I'm sure you would happily fuck her. And then come on seddit and report about how you fucked her, and how your rollodex of floozies is now up to 4 women, and how it's very tough to juggle all of them and how you would like some advice. My interest in girls goes up the more I have to work for them. Don't know why but it does. Say one of these girls met someone from seddit, and he was super charming and awesome with his PUA stuff. He's also seeing multiple woman (because that's what guys… | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesAgreed. Guys who think woman are terrible for trying to use some psychology/tactics on them, have such a double standard I can't even wrap my head around it. | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesPeople trying to learn the game are doing it to get more or better quality women. When guys start having more success they are going to want to explore their new options and fuck a lot of chicks. So I think the game is predisposed to sleeping around. And as much as you say "I want something more than just sex" I bet that is followed with "Part of the search is dating and sleeping with as many attractive women as I can find in the hopes that one is attractive enough for me. And even if I know she… | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesNeither of the authors of The Rules have any credentials in such a field, not even remotely close to having any credentials. This is hilarious. The PUA masters you guys follow don't have any credentials other than hitting on lots of women. Likewise the authors of the rules got themselves married. They have the experience of their whole dating life before that. | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 11:41 PM |
| 11 | Women get their own man-gaming tips from magazinesWhy are they retarded feminists? They are doing the same thing as PUA guys, but on a much less ridiculous level. | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 12:42 AM |
| 1 | I want to have my cake and eat it to.I haven't. I'm guessing they are all under 20 though. Confirm/deny? | /r/seduction | 05/11/10 10:37 PM |
| 1 | I want to have my cake and eat it to.I thought about my post a bit more. I also talked to my brother who has ridiculous game. He has three fuck buddies with NSA right now. So anyways. 1) Text sporadically, no more than 2 times a week. Take a long time to respond to texts. This really creates a strong casual vibe. 2) If you text daily or often, then monogamy may be implied or expected, and you have to bring it up before sex. She may be fine with you sleeping with other people, but if you tell her point blank "I don't want a relation… | /r/seduction | 05/11/10 10:06 PM |
| 1 | I find whenever I try and "turn on the charm" the opposite happens.Throwaway, It was very clear what you meant. I was mocking you. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Your average 19 year old virginDon't use deception to get chicks. Give yourself some respect. Ya you won't get laid as much, but believe it or not there are some things more important than getting laid. Wikchi, I was in the same boat as you and lost my virginity 20. At the time it seemed like such a big deal, but really it's not. If people are really giving you a hard time about it then just lie and say you had a one night stand, or better yet just say you'd rather keep your romantic life private. | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 01:47 AM |
| 1 | I find whenever I try and "turn on the charm" the opposite happens.Thanks for the kind words Throwaway! I am! | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 01:23 AM |
| 37 | How to Properly Approach at the Beach. Field Tested.does this mean you have to swim 2k per approach? | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 07:28 AM |
| 9 | Jennifer Aniston Says Dads Are RedundantThe author of that article is such a douche. His tone is so uncalled for and he misquotes or misunderstands the context and content of her statements. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/10 08:08 AM |
| 1 | What should I have done?From your story it sounds like she just wanted to fuck this guy more. Was he significantly better looking? Sometimes you can play it perfectly and shit doesn't work out. And it sounds like both you and her knew what was up and she was kind of a bitch. | /r/seduction | 11/07/10 08:43 PM |
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