| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 19 | No, a woman from a 3rd world country will not put up with your stink! (An anecdote)Huge difference for me too! My roots I have to avoid with direct contact with conditioner (otherwise they get greasy looking after a day) I let some watered down conditioner briefly rinse through it. But my ends, nope! I rinse less carefully. My poor, bleached ends are thirstier than a married man on Tinder! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Life is a lot less stressful nowI always wondered how men don’t feel stupid when you block them and then find a new method of contacting you. I would feel so embarrassed if I was blocked and couldn’t fathom trying to find new ways to harass someone who clearly isn’t interested. It’s baffling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:20 PM |
| 7 | Just a short list of demands from a cross-eyed man. Must be seXualLy oPeN.I just spit out my coffee I laughed so hard at this 😂 Preach, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 9 | Just a short list of demands from a cross-eyed man. Must be seXualLy oPeN.I just spit out my coffee I laughed so hard at this 😂 Preach, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 25 | I’ve never seen a more accurate depiction of marriage before this one... It’s funny (but depressing), because it’s true! 😂I feel women with a modest income can sometimes think marriage is more beneficial in their circumstance, due to the idea of now having two incomes. Now if the modest income allows her to have the standard of living she desires then that’s different. Modest is a subjective term and will be different to everyone. I don’t feel “leveling up” necessarily implies a high level corporate job or a specific tax bracket, it’s more about being a position where you can afford the lifestyle you desire comfort… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:24 AM |
| 39 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏No matter how “mature” a female is for her age, it will never truly be equal in an age gap relationship, due to him having more life experiences. Men prey on significantly younger women because they have less life experiences and are more likely to still be naive to men’s bullshit bc they haven’t been through it 20 times before. If they pursued woman their own age they know there’s a higher probability that she has the life experiences that have taught her the realities of the male gender. Me at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:17 AM |
| 14 | The 👏🏽 fucking 👏🏽 message 👏🏽As a mother of three little boys, I refuse to use physical violence as a means of discipline. These early years are formative and the foundation of their core belief system. There’s enough shitty men in this world already. I need to do my part to raise little men who know violence does not equate to love. That unless it’s a “hell yeah” it’s a “hell no”, when it comes to consent. My boys adore me more than anything and I can only hope that as I share my horrible experiences with men (age appropri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:33 PM |
| 27 | “A successful, smart women’s not gonna want to be with a bum...that's the REALITY” - facts!Oh no doubt, his TikTok seems to be themed around “how to pick up girls”. The message was accurate, just not from the best messenger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:20 AM |
| 8 | My desi aunt and uncle are looking for a daughter in law. Sign up with the name of the woman you hate.Never forget when this Desi guy told me he wanted to role play next time. I’m very open minded and he was an extremely generous partner so I was down. I asked what he had in mind. He told me let’s play doctor. So playfully said I’d love to play patient and seduce his hot doctor self. This man literally says, “no, I wanted to pretend to rape you. I thought it would be a fun role play”. I was dumbfounded. The fact he’s an actual MD only makes it worse. Needless to say, did not happen. My stupid pi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:32 AM |
| 12 | Is it just me or do ugly men just generally treat you horribly or worse?It’s the unseasoned spaghetti for me. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:12 AM |
| 8 | Never againThis man literally messaged me three days in a row without me giving a single response. He eventually flat out asks why I’m ignoring him and canceling plans. I finally respond with a thoughtful, well written response explaining why I was turned off (we only had a few FaceTime calls and I just didn’t feel a natural chemistry there and while he texts frequently, it’s very surface level and awkward). His response....”whatevs”. I tell him that’s exactly the issue, no communication, he’s impossible t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 8 | Nothing but factsThe poly sub has so many posts of men agreeing to polyamory then the female has zero issue finding dates while he can’t find one himself. Backfires. Not all poly men are garbage humans BUT I do think garbage men use poly as an excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 11 | That’s why you don’t give wifey benefits without the title of WIFE! Raw...smdh 🤦♀️The poster definitely meant it as satire. My title was bc it’s still so very pathetically accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:59 AM |
| 13 | That’s why you don’t give wifey benefits without the title of WIFE! Raw...smdh 🤦♀️Definitely satire, yet sadly accurately nevertheless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:57 AM |
| 12 | Truth ✨I think we should petition the oxford dictionary to update the definition of straight-male. Make it a compound word. Straight men are a breed all of their own, afterall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 3 | This is my favourite quote!Wait, some men actually use kindness and not just negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 7 | "how to talk to a woman who is wearing headphones" - don'tThe worst part is I always have “pass through” mode on at the gym or in public bc I’m terrified if I miss a cat call that a man would have the audacity to physically touch me to get my attention. I would like to avoid going to prison for assault charges. It’s pathetic how being a women in today’s world means feeling on high alert around scrotes 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 11 | Truth ✨You know he’s a bum when you play the game of “life” and he still doesn’t choose to get an education. Like have you not learned anything from your dead end job you complain incessantly about. It’s a no from me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Men not getting you is not on you.Omg, this fits my current situation perfectly. Really was trying to give this man the benefit of the doubt. But he’s just absolutely illiterate. He spelled passionate as “passioned” and says things like “y u playin”. He said he enjoys reading yet couldn’t name his favorite author. Idc how successful your career is, how attractive you are, or even who you are! Literacy is and a general level of education matters!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 56 | Meanwhile, he’s still active on OLD, and *trying* to sleep with other women.I love when a guys says, “but I’m not seeing anyone else so you shouldn’t either”. Well see the difference here is opportunity. You have no opportunities to go on dates with anyone else but you would if given the opportunity. That is not the same thing as choosing to exclusivity date me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | A girl had my back todayI left an abusive marriage years ago. He’s now serving 11 years for the abuse committed. Prior to his arrest, there were public incidents that occurred. Abuse only gets worse, never better. It may start in private but eventually will become out of control, regardless of surroundings. I can not tell you my absolute shock by how many men will see a women being beaten and put their head down and walk by. Grown ass men. Men twice the size of my ex. Every single man, every single time, did nothing. O… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Cracks me up EVERY time.This is very true! I always held the Asian men I’ve met (especially Desi men) in high regard. Very respectful, took great care of themselves, never behaved like the pigs American men often act like. Then I realized I’m only meeting the 1%. The “best of the best”. Mostly doctors, a couple were in tech fields, but at a higher level. It’s sad how impressed I was by a man caring about interior decorating and not having a dumpster pit of a bachelor’s pad. If even a few things were out of place they’d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020So well written! I will never understand why men think FDS women hate the male species. I love MEN, I just hate behavior of little boys in an aging body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 16 | Men "Going their own way" etc, why are you stalking us so intensely? FDS went private for a short amount of time and all these LVM have nothing to do other than stalking us. May I suggest therapy? Why are you so obsessed with us?Incel stands for INVOLUNTARY celibate. Part of me would love to show these men what men women in FDS actually look like. Sadly I know I’d be doxxed and it wouldn’t make a difference anyways. We’re voluntarily celibate bc men don’t know how to treat us like human beings. Being attractive makes men feel entitled to using you like a human blow up doll, regardless of how educated or emotionally intelligent you are. The scrotes can believe what they want, it won’t change reality. Attractive, high val… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 5 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.Yet women are hyper aware of any of our own self-perceived “shortcomings” and constantly feel the need to make up for them and improve. It’s always the lowest of LVM that feel entitled to their dream girl and have expectations they themselves could never meet. Make it make sense!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 75 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...And what’s really sad is that the very few men who actually do care about a woman’s sexual satisfaction, have often had girls faking orgasms for so long that they truly are clueless as to what women want/need sexually. I refuse to have sex that is not equally beneficial to myself. Otherwise I am being USED as a blow up doll. There is nothing empowering about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:23 PM |
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