Never again

SHEEKOtm · 2020-09-07T08:15:10+00:00

I felt this on an existential level

CuriousBubbleMilkTea · 2020-09-07T12:49:06+00:00

Oh that jackass has a name and it's me 😔

We broke up before our anniversary, and I still begged him to stay. I sent him animation video that I created to gift him. And also a long ass letter about my feelings for him.

And then crickets.

The clown is me 🤡 the whole circus is me 🤡

And I still can't forgive myself until today.

BasieSkanks · 2020-09-07T08:13:37+00:00

😂

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-07T11:35:44+00:00

Oof. That literally happened today, and I feel like its because I made things weird by asking yesterday what he thought about me...

LittleBitchyBanana · 2020-09-07T08:39:54+00:00

🤡 - this is all I have to say

hvwthrowaway · 2020-09-07T16:18:27+00:00

me constantly asking for confirmation if our planned date is still happening and not getting a response until he gets back with a lame excuse on the day of, after I already prepped myself runway-ready in case he confirms. only for him to sext me days later and expecting me to take a 2-hour train ride at night.

Charlottecello · 2020-09-07T13:33:53+00:00

This. is. me. :')

Rough-Tree · 2020-09-07T13:46:12+00:00

It's just this need to be proactive, to do something and show that you care. But people don't forget how much they love/like you. And if it's in their head, then you literally can't do anything to affect the outcome.

hvwthrowaway · 2020-09-07T15:19:09+00:00

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KY0203 · 2020-09-07T23:03:54+00:00

This man literally messaged me three days in a row without me giving a single response.

He eventually flat out asks why I’m ignoring him and canceling plans. I finally respond with a thoughtful, well written response explaining why I was turned off (we only had a few FaceTime calls and I just didn’t feel a natural chemistry there and while he texts frequently, it’s very surface level and awkward). His response....”whatevs”. I tell him that’s exactly the issue, no communication, he’s impossible to build a connection with. He then ignores ME, after he spent days snapping, texting, and video calling me trying to get me to respond. Made zero sense to ignore me after all that. Next morning he texts, “so when imma see you” 🤦‍♀️

The audacity. You do not ignore me after I finally do respond to you.

The best part though, he’s an athlete (matched on Tinder and I had no clue who he was until later on, we’ve FaceTimed and he messaged me from his verified IG so I’m positive it’s him). He can have his pick of the pick meisha’s. Chasing a regular girl seemed odd to me. I’m attractive and educated but nothing “special”, in that regard. Then I realized, it’s bc I’m not chasing him and acting desperate. He’s not used to a girl turning him down. It drives him crazy! Men want a woman who isn’t easy, they like the challenge. I’m still not giving in but the entire experience was eye opening. The old me would have been flattered and acted thirsty, in turn, he’d likely have blown ME off for someone else. The new me knows her worth and doesn’t care who you are, my expectations do not lower. When you behave like you know you’re high value, men become much more curious about you.

We tell THEM what our value is and set the bar, not the other way around!

2020-09-07T15:37:17+00:00

I would add don’t text a LVM first again who WILL always answer your text, but with bad intent . . .

43rdaccount · 2020-09-07T20:12:30+00:00

yo real talk that scene was so scary to me as a kid

Title	Never again
Author	pozzalovah
Upvotes	582
Comments	39
Date	September 7, 2020 8:05 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/io3j5m/never_again/
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