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9

yeah it's really shit isn't it. if I would have more things covered, I would need to pay more each month - which makes no sense to me! I'd rather pay it out of my pocked when I need it...which isn't normally more than once a year than giving away more money each month that I need for food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:54 PM
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“What do you do for fun?” sounds like he wants to know how "wild" you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:35 PM
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I always wondered why birth for other mammals seems much easier and effortless. a horse could give birth in the wild all alone but a human needs to rush to a hospital and suffer all day and get drugged and stitched together...I always thought there must be something wrong and unnatural about it. Thanks for posting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:33 PM
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interesting, thanks! It never occurred to me that the word ODEON was in it! I also googled the old logo with the foot, gross! Do we know if Dan Schneider was already there when that Logo was designed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:07 PM
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How about the same in tracking the social damage footprint agreed! it sickens me that LVM get to decide what good art, music and movies are...not even talking about those pathetic award shows or charts, but they have their slimy fingers in the whole production process - there's almost no mainstream artist or director who can release something before it gets approved and adjusted by a 100 scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:00 PM
5

Nickelodeon’s name hints at this bygone era what does Nickelodeon mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:50 PM
5

ugh! how does the approval process work? do they also review your credit score?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:40 PM
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exactly, it's so frustrating! the gyno, dentist and optician/contact lenses are my only regular health-related costs a year, I never get sick to the point I have to visit a doctor, and they won't pay that while I pay them $300 every fucking month, so they can pay off the bills of scrotes who don't take care of their health!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:35 PM
8

can you get a credit loan through crypto? god knows these scrotes were overdrawing their credit cards while having an empty bank account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:31 PM
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they let their relationships suffer because porn is too important to let go for them just think about the fact that these are LVM who aren't even able to plan a real date and keep giving empty promises - but now they are suddenly able to rise to the occasion like knights in shining armor for there precious porn - LOL, how pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:29 PM
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yes this. and just think about the fact that these are all LVM who can't put their words into action with anyone they try to date and won't even pay for a proper dinner...look how quick they are at taking action to find a solution to keep throwing their money at porn! unbelievable. if they are that convinced that this is a great company and site that should exist - why don't we just release all the names of scrotes supporting it?! now that's revenge porn for ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:27 PM
5

if they only were so quick at leveling up and would put this effort into making the world better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:21 PM
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lucky you! healthcare is mandatory in my country (Europe) and I pay hundreds a month, they won't pay a cent for contraception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:17 PM
7

exactly what I was going to say! if this is the only way it'll go, then I'll call that natural selection and best thing that could happen to this planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:55 PM
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and pay around $500 with no help from health insurance to get your arm sliced open to replace that foreign object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:51 PM
7

this is why I hate shipping celeb couples, you never know what goes on behind closed doors - no matter how cool or perfect they seem together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:07 AM
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I applaud her for speaking out and being an example and reminder that it can literally happen to anyone, no matter how strong, popular, famous or rich someone is. In fact, many abusers seek out women with such qualities to tear them down, be it draining their financial resources or jealousy over their success. What FKA Twigs said about him getting angry about her liking an artist he didn't agree with and fighting all night definitely makes me think he sought her out because she is this unique, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:06 AM
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agreed, he always rubbed me the wrong way somehow. I don't even watch any of his movies, something about his appearance irks me. And his "artist" antics were never even quirky, just annoying and pretentious...just imagine a woman doing that, she would be called the next Britney or Amanda Bynes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:35 AM
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reminds me of this story: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/youtuber-arrested-after-pregnant-girlfriend-23110461
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:33 AM
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it really can/does happen to ANYONE, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:30 AM
45

it's that "my demons" non apology. ​ ...time to call the exorcist my dear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:29 AM
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i liked the presenters delivery, how she straight-up used the word "sickos" and all around no-bullshit, can't be bothered to beat around the bush attitude! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:20 AM
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"barely any" are still TOO MANY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:07 AM
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this is why I hate labels, it keeps people inside a box and from critical thinking and individual opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:02 AM
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the doc is not just about that, it's also just following her life and there's a funny little LVM side-story haha! I read she wasn't actually planning to talk about her camp trauma, it just happened cause she kept having nightmares during the time they were filming and the crew encouraged her to talk about it. And not to forget her trauma regarding that "sex-tape"! it's so awful looking back. I was too young back then to realize HOW YOUNG SHE WAS when that happend! The media treated her so badly,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:00 AM
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I've seen so many famous women I like reposing this and commenting as if it's the worst news ever and a conspiracy against women being able to earn their money... why would a sexworker even want to put their content on a site where there's so many third-party content by professional production companies that are more difficult to compete with. (not to even mention the abusive content). I really don't get how it's even lucrative for them. there are sites just for cam girls where there's a proper …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:55 AM
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it's worth watching! it's for free on her Youtube channel. It's hard to sum it up but the big thing she revealed was that her parents staged a kidnapping and sent her to a bootcamp where kids were supposed to be taught discipline but got beaten, drugged etc. she's now advocating against those camps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:20 AM
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yeah a hybrid sounds good! i wouldn’t mind going in 1-2 x a week but every day is useless and crippling my productivity! oh my workplace isn’t as bad as i probably made it sound! we are allowed to have headphones in and all that, but there’s always this sense of being “watched” even if nobody ever said something and you have nothing to hide! i just feel more free now and i’m no longer dreading mondays. my coworkers are mostly fun but there are some annoying ones i now no longer have to deal with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:30 AM
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same! i don’t want to go back to work in the office. i’m thinking if it goes back, i’ll demand to keep working from home, offer to be flexible - appear for meetings etc. and otherwise look for a new job that offers me that. my office is nearby, but i still wasted so much time getting ready and stressing being on time in the mornings, leaving my flat a mess until having to spend the evenings cleaning - that’s not a lifestyle! i’m also so much more productive and motivated now! no more distraction…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:47 AM
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My ex happens to go to the same gym as me. that sounds like my worst anxiety! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:53 PM
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do you smile or act cold?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:05 PM
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i’m kinda torn about this. won’t it be more satisfying to him seeing how much power he still holds over you? i totally get how that would be more satisfying, but i wonder if it’s better to let him wonder why you are so happy and how you could possibly be over him and not care! 😂 (even if it’s not true).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:56 PM
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you still shoot arrows like an elven princess so that’s badass! remember a man in your position would never confess to “sucking and losing 8 arrows” they would act as if they are frigging Legolas! 🤣 own it! i’m sure you’ll get better at it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:59 AM
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OT but you sound badass! 🏹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:03 AM
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so sorry to hear! what ended up happening after?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:43 PM
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should have known the red-flag of him telling me „i remember what you told me, i‘m not like other guys who don‘t listen“ was valid enough to take seriously instead of brushing it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:42 PM
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“wish you luck though”. only line i don’t agree with! why would i waste my wishes on a LVM? 🧞‍♀️ love the fairy aesthetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:17 PM
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the fear in her voice is giving me chills! also FUCK those commenters who are defending this creep by giving him the benefit of the doubt by potential mental illness. would you say the same about The Night Stalker, Richard Ramirez who believed open doors were an invitation and worshipped Satan?! Was he mentally ill? Yes. Did he have a bad childhood? Yes. Should he have been locked away or even killed the first night he broke into a home to rape and murder women in order protect many more lifes? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:07 PM
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my week has been made reading these news! maybe there is hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:32 PM
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well on a more serious note - it looks like she used a straightening iron to get it very smooth and shiny and curl the ends (you can use a straightening iron to do curls). she also has dark hair and used good lightening, which helps to bring out shine. if you want something more permanent - look into Keratin treatments. nutrition of course also helps to get more shiny and tick hair! good fats like oil and nuts make healthy hair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:13 PM
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our hair is like a tree bark, a time capsule. it reflects our nutrition, envoirement and harmonal changes (stress)! not to mention we have more time and energy to focus and pamper ourselves when we’re man-free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:20 PM
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stay single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:58 AM
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that sounds like something to discuss with your exorcist, my dear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:29 AM
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i once went to this wine tasting course and the female sommelier told us how in restaurants the waiter always automatically hands the wine card to the man at the table, it also happens to her with her boyfriend - even tho she's the professional wine-expert. she said it's sexism but also because women often instantly confess that they don't really know anything about wine and will ask the waiter to suggest something, the men just act as if they know and will do the tasting without feeling like a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:58 PM
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at work we once found this co-workers Tinder profile, he claimed in his bio that he went to this acclaimed and incredibly expensive business school in another country, i remembered him telling me how he once APPLIED there. so even getting a rejection letter is an experience they can add to their CV i guess. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:50 PM
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🐻 and 🦁 instantly come to mind when you think “small animals” also insects like 🐝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:35 AM
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i used to think “dadbod” was a thing from the gay/bear community. can’t believe any woman thinks it’s acceptable/desirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:03 AM
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I can't believe he has a whole ass DOLL. so creepy! of course he's intimidated by her large, girthy, veiny dildos while he's playing with dolls! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:30 AM
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Dildo's are usually larger than the pitifully sized average penis which triggers them immensely. This is true. I once watched a report where sextoy manufacturers explained the reason why many women's toys look cutesy and shaped like dolphins or rabbits is to not intimidate men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:28 AM
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how do you manage to genuinely forgive instead of just saying/thinking it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:15 AM
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I don't want to be your cigarette I don't want to be your ashtray I don't want to be your door mat Don't want to be ignored All o' sudden you're not into me And maybe it's not deliberate And I know you never asked me I just gotta put it out there I don't put myself out there Usually I stay tucked away 'Cause I was a loner until I met you And I let you in after all the persuasion Mind games, manipulations That's why I'd rather be a loner Yeah I'd rather be alone I don't even want to know ya I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:41 PM
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I'm curious how this relates to porn? Can you elaborate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:29 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:24 PM
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I see, thanks. Why did OP stress "when even men like him..." is he problematic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:02 PM
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who is Bill Maher?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:37 PM
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swiping does communicate that you are after something while meeting organically is more neutral this is the reason OLD isn't for me. I'm not into meeting them if they already got the idea that I'm "looking for someone", it makes me feel uncomfortable and in a weird place - especially when I'm not sure about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:08 AM
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yeah he wasn't the cause since she ended up being diagnosed with an actual mental illness. (which is another topic, lots of people had a problem with how it was depicted but that's another topic). but since the shows revolves around her being the "Crazy Girlfriend" I wished the premise was her not actually being "crazy" and just those LVM in her life and societies' teachings making her crazy or making her look that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:38 PM
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I like to think Rachel put that line in there to piss off straight men™ since they hate gays and it's funny to show them how we actually prefer being around gay man then around them. (and for the fact that she has a large gay audience). The show is not perfect, but it was so refreshing to watch! I personally didn't like how her "craziness" and obsession with Josh ended up being an actual mental illness! I would have preferred if they just showed how the craziness was simply a result of LVM const…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:25 PM
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yeah a lot of them often are misogynistic. and a lot of women treat them like puppies instead of actual people. but the reason women and gay men often end up bonding is because we are both marginalized groups oppressed by straight men. friendships with gay men also have that level of trust/intimacy you could never have/ want with a straight male friend. women also tend to like them cause they can enjoy their male energy and can find them attractive without fear. I like to think Rachel put that l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:21 PM
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right! we wish we were left alone! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:19 AM
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i bet he will post on reddit complaining about how she disappeared with HIS baby and how he has a SAY in having an abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:51 AM
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this sounds too embarrassingly familiar. 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:39 AM
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haha yeah sometimes it annoys me that I have all these useless memories about every conversation I've had in my life it seems, but luckily it comes in handy with men and their lies! another instance I remember with this guy is: when we first met, we went to this bar, and I remember him saying how nice this bar is and how he needs to remember to come back with friends sometime. years later when he showed his true LVM face and stopped caring, he was remembering our first date and how "horrible tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:06 AM
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Link to her channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:21 AM
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that guy was definitely obsessed with feeling popular, getting validation and having lots of friends and being seen as cool! so it makes sense. thanks for helping me tick off the box ✅ on that mystery. one step closer to enlightenment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:59 PM
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him saying "have some wine etc." reminded me of how this LVM asked me to take a 2 hour train trip at night 🚆🌙 to go to his place, 👉👌 and even had the AUDACITY to tell me to bring my own wine if I wanted to drink some! 🤡🍷 he claimed he didn't like wine, but I have an elephant brain 🐘🧠🧐 and remember distinctively how in the beginning, when he tried to romance me, after he learned that I love red wine, he fantasized about drinking wine with me and even sent me a pic of a fancy bottle! it's scary ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:57 PM
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love how she replaced "sex on your couch" with "disappointment on your couch" in the subtitles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:44 PM
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I used to be so assertive in all aspects of my life except my dating life. I feel you. I also felt uncomfortable with those advances but thought it was "normal" and I was just "difficult" and also didn't want to look prudish. So glad I found FDS and got the confirmation that this shit is not normal and shouldn't be accepted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:43 PM
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what was he hiding? especially since it was "just" a FWB?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:17 PM
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More like time to LEAVE and never look back. Why waste time “putting on detective hat” and fishing for info about his exes? Life shouldn’t feel like a mystery novel. I agree! But I think it could help her to move on if she could actually see proof, since she's so deep into doubting HERSELF. She should make a fake FB account and add him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:16 PM
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she should make a fake FB account with and add him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:14 PM
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weird Facebook groups?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:12 PM
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Emma Watson is acting like she has been living in a different universe from other women. well she is. she became rich as a child and been privileged ever since. she does not know what it's like to compete with men in an office environment or a normal job like that or other places where regular peasants like us have to deal with LVM and don't have the privilege of "being someone". she also comes form a wealthy family, both her parents are lawyers...been divorced since she was 5 years old and her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:07 PM
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well people that knew her from back then in Oxford said she's always been a big bully and it only got worse when she got famous. you could boil it down to jealousy, but there's also been recent reports. I remember reading about how she has this house on the countryside and complained about her neighbors and their animals making nosie - on the countyside, DUH! and threatening to buy their land. entitled twat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:03 PM
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rumor has it that she's a bully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:37 PM
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the funny thing is that I made such a list when I first met him, sadly I chose to ignore it. the fact that I felt the need to make such a list before even going further with him should have been a bad sign already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:33 PM
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yeah can you believe it's being seen as a feminist rap song? just because they mention the word "wet ass pussy" once in a while, completely overlooking the fact that it's still a song about pleasuring a man, telling him to chocke and deep-throat them...no sane woman actually fantasizes about these things they are still objectifying themselves and gathering to men - if they want to be rebellious and do something new, they should rap about a MANS BODY and objectifying THEM to the point that it's m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:59 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:33 PM
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it blows my mind when i get reminded that even women like Christina were once naive and fell for LVM. it makes me feel better but there’s really no escaping them, is there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:26 PM
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yes Christina & Lil’ Kim were great, this is what an “empowered” song is like, not garbage like WAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:24 PM
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you would think they would look into a mirror once in a while, since they are so obsessed with looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:21 AM
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besides the cringe message, just look at his profile photo: on his phone, hiding his eyes behind sunglasses, crotch in focus...🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:51 AM
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yeah good point. I'd like to hear from people if they share the passcode with their partner?! lol can you imagine how LVM celebrated when fingerprint/Face ID was invented!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:20 PM
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haha no we don't! It just fucks with my mind STILL. Oh that's interesting to think about...I could see him being addicted to validation/popularity. I always found it strange how active he was on social media, I don't know any men who take selfies that often and share everything they are up to on a daily basis...back then I saw it as an advantage for me cause I was able to see what he's like when I met him and always knew what he's doing...but it's definitely unusual. I also think since he was a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:19 PM
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I love true crime, but I have to agree. Unless the doc is trying to gather more proof/witness reports, like Unresolved Mysteries, it's just entertainment. There are many interesting cases with a story worth telling. But the market of docs on murdered women is oversaturated. I'm not familiar with this case, but I'm assuming there's no takeaway besides getting the viewers to theorize if the husband did it or not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:00 PM
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yeah it's his explanation that still fucks with my head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:51 PM
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Thanks for your input. I can completely understand what you mean by gaining your power back! I think since you felt walked over in the relationship, if you stayed silent once again, you would have probably still have that monologue in your head, wishing you could tell all these things to his face. You took the chance to get it all out and won't ever not stand up for yourself again! he wanted me to just quietly fade away so that he could preserve some illusion of being a decent man. what a great …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:43 PM
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fifteen years younger than us 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:04 PM
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if you send a text you risk that being shown around to his friends and yours like “I don’t know what she’s talking about she’s crazy”. He’s not going to show anyone screenshots that reveal him to be an ass. great point!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:03 PM
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well there's no way to have proof unless you recorded what you heard or saw. but if you heard/saw something, there's most likely going to be texts between them too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:01 PM
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let him wonder how you found out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:45 PM
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good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:33 PM
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Thanks for the award! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:32 PM
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that's a good point actually!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:31 PM
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yeah I know this of course, I just don't understand it from the mens perspective - oftentimes they will leave or cheat on a HVW with a LVW that doesn't even look as beautiful. I guess their ego just can't deal with being with a beautiful, desired woman...deep down they know they won't live up and/or assume she must be cheating on him anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:37 PM
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I agree they are not worth the engergy and would do it this way shall something like this ever happen to me - but I can't help but wonder if it's just making it easier for them. Like they got to cheat + didn't have to deal with breaking up or an angry gf. Or is it actually frustrating for them not being able to contact us and get the drama?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:33 PM
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I couldn't help but notice how gorgeous she is, I peeked her her Insta aswell (same handle) and she looks like a fitness model. Men like to think they would be happy with a women that look like her, but just imagine how many times she must have been cheated on to come up with this strategy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:05 PM
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by hendsbeeamyx on TikTok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:58 PM
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Thank you. Yes I agree OLD isn't an option. I always say "who am I to take time out of my day to look at men?!" we should get paid to be on there and spend hours to swipe through all the bald, gross ones until someone acceptable comes up. Men have said themselves that they just swipe yes on any woman and judge if they are into her AFTER they matched. So women are the ones investing actual time on the apps. I also suspect that I may never meet somebody. Sometimes I'm ok with it, sometimes not. I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:05 PM
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Your points are interesting, I thought about them and I really don't think they apply to me personally. You were taught that there is intrinsic value in being beautiful and you internalized it. Just because no one else sees it doesn't mean the fulfillment you get out of it doesn't ultimately stem from the expectations you grew up absorbing Men aren't the only ones who like to look at pretty things. What about lesbians, what about asexual women? I'm literally a visual artist, and I like to have m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:22 PM
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Who says beauty only exists to attract men? Men aren't the only ones who like to look at pretty things. What about lesbians, what about asexual women? I'm literally a visual artist, and I like to have my surroundings visually pleasing and according to my tastes, including myself! Many men criticize my bold makeup or hair color, if I was doing it for them, I would have changed based off of the feedback of the majority. Maybe that's your narrative, that's okay, we're all different - women don't ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:59 PM
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I obviously can't say for sure but I never thad the impression. When I lurked 2 years later I saw he was into "straight edge" and turned vegan and into working out. My impression was that altho he put this "I give no fucks" facade on, he has identity issues and is easily impressionable and influenced by the people around him and desperate to be seen as cool and popular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:38 PM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:28 PM
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I disagree that it's impossible to just do it for yourself. I haven't dated anyone in 5 years and shave at least once a week. Even in quarantine and you can't tell me that anyone saw my pickly legs during that. I even started doing laser hair removal to cut down on that time cause I hate doing it but I love the feeling of bare skin! I love beauty and cosmetics and it's a hobby I like to spend time on, even if nobody sees it. (I don't even have social media at the moment, so literally NOBODY sees…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:58 AM
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I wouldn't compliment any man out of politeness. I only do it if I'm genuinely impressed about something. I often notice men at work finishing for compliments...I wouldn't give them any for that exact reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:27 AM
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I agree! I discovered FDS recently and at first it was a bit depressing cause I had to re-process lots of experiences that brought up terrible feelings. It helped me to get a bit of clarity on unresolved situations and I feel like I'm starting to heal finally. I love the community here cause giving support and not judging each other goes without saying! I could also never say some of the things we say or discuss here IRL without having to over-explain myself, be misunderstood/judged...which make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:23 AM
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didn't he talk about watching porn on Jimmy Kimmel, after Jimmy asked what it's like to have a daughter now, meaning how his respect of women has changed, and Kanye went from briefly talking about his daughter straight to talking passionately about to his favorite porn categories?! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:12 AM
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It's true that it's a choice, I saw a guy I dated go down that path. When I met him he has a good job, education, was studying and had intellectual hobbies/interests and dressed well. He then quit his job/studies. Took on random jobs that were below his skills and didn't last long. He also started to change his friend circle from lifelong friendships to LVM people. His appearance declined, he used to be someone who loved to go shopping for clothes and he turned into someone who walked around in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:09 AM
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wow!!! I'm glad his friends took your side! Amazing! Cheers to that! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:34 AM
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I think as adults we are always expected to be able to see it "from the other side" and be empathic instead of reactionary. If you complain about someone, another person would say "They didn't mean it this way" and will try to rationalize it in some way. I think people who end relationships because of one wrongdoing are seen as overemotional/dramatic and childish for not being able to talk it out. While I think it's important to be empathic, I agree with you that the empathy should come from the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:31 AM
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oh I thought it was a sub by men! got it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:07 AM
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could anyone post the link to this scene?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:05 AM
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I just commented I'm saving this to send to a coworker who expects me to come up with slogans for him. Yes I'm better than him but it's not my job, it's his and he gets paid better than me while I'm also helping him?! 🤡 He also uses manipulative comments like you mentioned, thinking he can trick me into it by giving compliments or saying that's teamwork and making me look bad if I don't. I'm mostly just doing it cause it takes me just 1 minute and I just want to get it over with instead of argui…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:04 AM
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god knows he would have never even bothered to read the whole thing before handing it in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:59 AM
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so lazy he couldn't even come up with his own allegations, he ended up using the ones against him! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:58 AM
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saving this to send to my coworker next time he expects me to help him come up with texts, even tho writing isn't part of my job at all. he always pulls the "but you're better at it/thats' teamwork blah". sometimes I end up doing it cause it takes me just 1 minute and it's easier than to argue with him, but I want to apply FDS to my work so I shouldn't help a man who earns more than me, especially if he uses manipulative arguments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:56 AM
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i forgot they could still downvote while lurking...explains some of my downvotes I got lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:50 AM
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really?! eww...their not doing themselves any favors, don't they. if it looks like a duck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:50 AM
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Hey, When you use the word sexual activity to describe a 34 year old man raping a 5 year old child, you're diminishing the immorality, horror and criminal act of the true meaning to what you describe as sexual activity. (intercourse between two consenting adults). Language is important and actual victims of rape probably don't appreciate it when you claim they had sex with their rapist. Just food for thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:48 AM
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I'm glad your cousin took it seriously was able to give good advice and that you discovered FSD in time to not get sucked in a second time! Not gonna lie, I always wished for that guy to contact me again and try to get back, just so I can reject/block him. I think it would help me getting the power back after all the shit he pulled off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:16 AM
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and she spent money to look like this. "you could spend almost nothing on me" but let me spend money for getting my hair cut and died, manicure, pedicure, waxing, cosmetics and nice lingerie! 🤡 ...and not to forget she's most likely the one spending money on protection!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:53 PM
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I just don't understand why their "true" face is like this when they KNOW what kindness is like and how to be that way, they put in the effort to act like this 90% of the day, why not just be like this? I can see putting on a face for people that can help you in some ways - like work related things etc. but he was so kind to every random person he just met and treated them like family altho he didn't get anything out of it besides feeling popular I guess. Meanwhile he expected affection, attenti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:31 PM
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I still don't understand it...he would still request pictures and nudes of me, but he passed on the chance to see me IRL and have sex with me. We know LVM will avoid spending quality time, but he called off dates where he knew we would hookup! He also always called it off literally last minute, after I spent the whole day getting ready and he was hanging out with his workmates, keeping me hanging whether he would be available or not - then decide to stay with them instead. I know he wasn't lying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:56 PM
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he said yes to the watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:17 PM
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reading your title, i thought this can’t be real and i’m seeing so many comments saying they experienced it first hand like...🥴😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:14 PM
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could you please link me the vid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:47 PM
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gotta love how it’s worded as the men just coming to take her. if women would say this about a man, they would never say “any of his ex-girlfriends could come back and have a chance with him”. we would say he still has feelings and could go back to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:45 PM
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oh i’m sorry, i read his tone wrong in the subtitles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:37 PM
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really? i thought it was like 10‘000.- Edit: why the downvotes? It was my legit assumption from what I heard. Many Youtubers make those figures and I heard OF too. I thought you could also calculate based off their follower count and monthly fee/number of posts. I'm interested in the math behind the other commenter, how it ended up just being 100.-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:32 PM
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at least he acknowledges he‘s too old for her. ...he should also realize he’s too old to flirt with her and see her nudes. 🤮 also, most of the times it‘s an assistant doing all the messaging for the girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:29 PM
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men should just watch women speak on this stopic instead of pathetic pickup „artists“.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:26 PM
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the truth finally came out how did it come out? Congrats btw, it must feel amazing to see that unfold! Cheers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:20 PM
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I used to think the way he acted towards his friends was the real face, and the way he was towards me (selfish, rude) was my fault for not doing/saying the right things. He's very popular and has tons of friends, so It's hard to imagine the face he's putting on for hundreds of people is the mask instead of what he was showing me. But I guess a clown also puts on a mask to perform for hundreds of people. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:17 PM
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chatting up the waitress while you didn’t chat me up means you are more interested in your image wow! I never thought about it that way. I dated a guy who was very popular, lots of friends, many female friends too and liked by everyone he met...so I always thought I was doing something wrong cause he never treated me this nicely, he always showered his friends with gifts and gave them all his time. He never gave me anything, he was selfish with me, claimed to be too busy to see me. He even blew …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:06 PM
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Thanks for your input. Getting interest from other people isn't my problem tho, it's the contrary - many people would be interested but it's rare I find anyone interesting or even attractive. I also need to have things in common to have a connection with someone. I know haven't been trying to meet new people or been very social the past years...I thought this year I would be ready but then Covid happend haha oh well.. I don't want to try OLD Apps but I'm going back to social media after a long h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:38 PM
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no I haven‘t! which i think plays a part in not being able to get over it. yeah it‘s a huge mindfuck my head still tries to make sense of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:48 PM
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i thought about trying it! i‘m not from the US so i‘ll have to see how popular it is here. Thank you! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:39 PM
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I loved reading your post! I have been struggling with self care lately, I've been feeling depressed and it's making me lazy, I never skip on my skincare routine or tidying up - but I haven't had the energy to really pamper myself like I used to, which makes me sad. My self-care lately has consisted of staying in bed as long as possible. It felt needed and I'm glad I had the chance to but I'm starting to feel the negative effects...especially since it's getting so dark early now. I have been str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:25 AM
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thank you for your public service! ignoring is easier, but predators like this need to be called out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:15 AM
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running to the point your body's pain outweighs your mind. Then absolutely spoiling yourself. not OP but I'm going to take your advice starting tomorrow! that person hasn't been in my life since 6 years but he's still on my mind...I thought I was over him but anxiety makes him creep back and makes everything worse. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:13 AM
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I find myself creeping on social media for him. Any advice on how to stop doing this shit? I know how you feel! I used to stalk compulsively, and in my case it was even more damaging to see him with he girl he dumped me for, posting everything they're doing (some things were even TMI/NSFW). 🤮 While was dreaming of having him contact me! 💀 At first I disabled him from my feed, so his new posts wouldn't show up - that didn't work cause I still kept going to his profile multiple times a day to cree…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:40 AM
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this experience has committed me to working pro bono on custody/DV issues. that's amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:21 AM
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I think a the majority of people never take time to focus on themselves, they are always social - never isolate to self-reflect and learn being alone by themselves (just look at the effects of quarantine!). Most of them are always in dating rotations too, so it's advice they would give themselves/other friends. You already have all this insight and have no problems being alone, so their advice doesn't apply to you. Just ignore it - you know yourself better to know what's right! Btw I feel you, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:19 AM
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I think he wanted to insinuate that some of your pics are heavily edited or old, he wonders which version you look like in real life. No sane person would ever say that..not even supermodels look like models in every casual pic! this guy is dumb and obsessed with looks. I also agree with the other comments he was probably negging to see how far you would go to "prove" that you are pretty and make you insecure towards him. I'm sure he can't even take a decent picture of himself smh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:00 AM
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was it the Jennifer Fairgate EP? It was really unnecessary to compare your looks to the beauty standards, his joke would could have been funny if he took an American supermodel, like Cindy Crawford and said "she's ugly over there". He could have also rescued himself by saying he compared you because you are the most beautiful American woman...I think the way he reacted is really worse than the dark joke, he can't accept that he said something wrong/hurtful. His response should have been to apolo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:55 AM
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demand explanations they should ask HIM what he did. 🤡 we love to see it! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:45 AM
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Even without your ED history, it would have been extremely rude and uncalled for! it's not even a funny or clever joke! that he even suggested to lose weight and "not eating" as a means to lose weight is gross. I don't get why he could have just forgotten about a traumatic disorder you just told him about...even if your convo about food was unrelated - an empathic person would be considerate and careful to not say anything inappropriate/triggering. Again, even without your past ED, pointing out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:41 AM
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women-led podcasts btw I've been enjoying Katherine Ryans podcast lately, very FDS! https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/katherine-ryan-telling-everybody-everything/id1507148315
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:28 AM
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sounds divine! love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:26 AM
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this is me lately! I woke up today feeling sad and anxious about my failed situationship form SIX YEARS ago! :( I think seasonal depression is partly to blame. You can message me if you wanna talk! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:23 AM
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❤️✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:19 AM
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I don't think it's realistic/true that he only cried twice. He's either a psychopath or thinks that not crying means strength, something to be proud of. Both options are bad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:18 AM
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oh my god! that's horrible! I hope you can move out soon! ❤️ let him decompose next to his phone on the grimy mattress like the trash he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:04 AM
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One guy noted that he like that because then he wouldn't get "attached" to the woman. what's polyAMOROUS about this? there's no love/relationship without attachment. The other guy, divorced, talked about how great it was for his marriage. it was so great he got a divorce! 😂 he sounds more like a swinger! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:01 AM
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I agree with the other commenter that you should wait what he comes up with (if anything). I think it'll be a good indicator to see how much effort he is willing to put in! One thing I want to advise on is to not invest too much into texting, it can create a false sense of intimacy quickly with very low effort. (especially when you're stuck at home feeling bored/alone!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:57 AM
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must have been a payday and his bills for rent and Onlyfans didn't go through yet! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:49 AM
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when he said he wanted to ask me something I legit braces myself for a dick pic or sex request I would have expected that too! I hope he won't disappoint and that his concerns about rebounds are legit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:47 AM
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manipulative porn-sick cheater focus on this whenever he pops into your mind with the qualities that make you care about him. it also sounds like he wouldn't check in on you, so he's definitely not worth it - no matter what happens! check in on yourself! 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:44 AM
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That sounds amazing! You will more likely be able to fulfill your dreams if they don't depend on another person! (especially one, you haven't found yet!) I also don't see the point in marriage (unless he's filthy rich!) I was just thinking about FDS teaches marriage as end goal, meanwhile people on here always explain how it's just a construct to tie women men. Also to any LVM lurking and painting me as a gold-digger for the filthy rich comment: it's not true that the woman wins in a divorce or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:41 AM
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I think that's great, shows that he's looking for something long-term. A LVM wouldn't mind being a rebound, as long as he gets laid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:21 AM
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i' so grateful for this community rn. ❤️ I'm feeling rather lonely and emotional lately, and it's making me reminiscence about my situationship that is six years in the past. I haven't dated/met anyone I liked since and altho I'm very happily single, I'm embarrassed that I'm still SO hung up on it and sometimes think dating someone else would have helped me to move past it. I also don't have anyone to talk to, since I left my LV-friendships behind and wasn't able to make new friends since moving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:18 AM
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should have taken more, but she probably knew he wouldn't have more than that in his bank account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:44 PM
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great points!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:28 PM
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I also find this creepy! if I was doing OF, I wouldn't want my guyfriends looking at it! and if it was really about just supporting her, he would just pay the monthly fee and not go to her page/look at the content! OP, is it even true that this girl is a IRL friend of his?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:58 PM
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i really dislike the word „virgin“ there shouldn‘t even be a word for someone who hasn‘t had sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:58 PM
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but I should know he "isn't one for flings or one night stands" and he "would hope that it would develop into more down the road". I had a (also an intellectual, artsy) guy I was seeing tell me he's not into one night stands...when he found someone else who was more convenient & dumped me, he claimed he was never interested in a relationship with me, when I brought up what he said before, he said "yeah I'm not into ONS" then I was like, so what was it what we had?! and he responded "an intimate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:37 AM
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yes and if I remember correctly, Tolkien wrote them for his children, the Hobbit when they were young and LotR when they were older...would be disgusting to put porn in it! I hope his estate won't make it possible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:33 AM
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same, I would have let his intelligence, background and good manners excuse all the bullshit...no more! 🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:30 AM
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These were the LVM I fell for. Not the obvious losers. yes, we need more stories like this! I sadly also fall for these types...since it's so rare to find a man with half a brain and interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:28 AM
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I had a (also an intellectual, artsy) guy I was seeing tell me he's not into one night stands...when he found someone else who was more convenient & dumped me, he claimed he was never interested in a relationship with me, when I brought up what he said before, he said "yeah I'm not into ONS" then I was like, so what was it what we had?! and he responded "an intimate friendship". 🤮‼️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:26 AM
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this is too real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:17 AM
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they usually don't even give a shit about what you bring to the table intellectually, even tho they may patronisingly congratulate you for your insights so true! I once dated an "intellectual" who was also a creative and at first, he acted as if he enjoys talking to me about such topics, books, art, philosophy etc. and suggested we should talk about these things over a date with drinks etc. I remember he once said something like "you need to tell me about this thing you read, maybe I'll learn so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:01 AM
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I heard they want to do a remake of LotR that involves sex...basically like GoT 🤮...I love LotR since I'm a child, it's so wholesome and sacred...isn't the violence enough to make stRaiGht MeN like it? ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:51 AM
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I decided next time I will also keep deleting the convo each day to not get attached to the chat history/keep rereading or looking at pics. I had a situationship that was very text-heavy, and seeing his chat go further down each day after he dumped me hurt so bad, I couldn't bear to delete it - I ended up getting an app to do a chat-backup and put it on my external drive. I have never looked at it, but the thought of having it somewhere made it easier for me to delete his chat and number. I neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:46 AM
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how I approach platonic and professional relationships, even casual interactions. same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:18 AM
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great video!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:12 AM
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I like this message, altho I would say sometimes it can be bittersweet revenge to dangle a pretty thing that they can't have in front of someones face 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:56 AM
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reminds me of getting bad advice multiple times at the hardware store! I'll never ask for advice again! one time, i had some paint stains on my teak-wood floor on my balcony; my plan was to sandpaper them off and then use some protective varnish to restore the gold color again, since they turned quite grayish over a year - the hardware guy insisted I was wrong and that the floors would ROT if I used sandpaper, he actually scared me the way he acted when I told him my plan! What he made me buy di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:48 AM
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wow i had no idea about their age-gap and that he met her so young! creep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:37 AM
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I deleted all my social media years ago (after being dumped by an LVM) cause my confidence wasn't good and I needed a break from it, also because I noticed all my selfies I took while seeing him had the intention of getting his attention. I'm very into photography and like to take creative self-portraits, so that wasn't good for my art. It was a good decision and I won't ever return to FB, but I want to return to IG, mainly to share my art and hopefully connect with other creatives (all the peop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:32 AM
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Men are visual creatures then why do they prefer to look like shit?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:14 AM
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y'all are making me feel better about hitting it next year! 🙏 I'm sad that my late 20s were spent in quarantine, and who knows about next year what the restrictions will be like to tick off some goals...but at least I know I did the inner work, which is more important then travel/experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:07 AM
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cheers! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:59 AM
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I agree! Back then I would have probably said "you are overreacting, that you should give him another shot if the chemistry and everything else was good, maybe he didn't want to look too overdressed and dressed down on purpose, give him another chance!" But especially since it's the first date, impressions count and if you were at a restaurant, he should know what etiquette is and look the part! I truly can't stand men who pride themselves in "not caring about clothes" as if it makes them cool o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:44 AM
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and that's why they ask internet strangers for ideas 🙄 they obviously don't know/care about what she would like, otherwise they would talk about it together!...the way it's added at the very very end of that whole read too, instead in the middle, just to not come off like a complete perv, just 99.9%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:31 AM
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"I love her so much now." NOW?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:24 AM
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depends where you are texting. on WhatsApp your profile/online-status disappears and the blue tick won't show up as received/read. on regular texting you can't tell I think. on iMessage you also have the ticks that signal it was sent/read and the blue bubbles will turn green I think. but no, there won't be any pop-up message telling you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:22 AM
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Yes! it's like their brain shuts off after reading one sentence! you could say the most comprehensive & logical thing - they would still not give in to agreeing/apologizing and just keep arguing or give the silent treatment! I wanna see what he truly wants to do or say without my input. 💯💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:18 AM
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Me too! Yay! Let me know what you thought of it! ❤️🔮✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:56 PM
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Omg there’s one particular guy I was never in a relationship with but who played me like a fiddle. I was so stuck on that mindfuck of a situation and sometimes it does haunt me again. This is exactly my situation. It was a 3-4 year long long-game/situationship. The mindfuck and the way it changed me and how he dumped me haunts me. It's like he has this power over me I was never able to regain since. Thanks for the suggestion, I'll try it - altho right now I feel like it would just make me more f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:04 PM
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Thanks for the reply! I don't have any texts or pictures of him on my phone or computer, I haven't looked at anything or feel the urge to in ages. When I try NOT to think of something, it makes me just think of it more haha, like trying not to think of a pink elephant! I do struggle to stay in the present, I often think of things from the past or future that end up giving me anxiety and prevent me from doing any distracting activities. :/ Yeah I believe it's like you said - it's the shame and gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:00 PM
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women could pee out their periods whenever they wanted. if only!!! i find it absolutely repulsive, I wonder if there's a way to vet a man on his biology knowledge? haha! it's not just the lack of education in school, the LACK OF CARE to self-educate is what I find super unattractive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:06 PM
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he was 25-26 🥴 I'd also like to add that he lived with his older sisters, and has tinder dates/one night stands regularly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:02 PM
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Oh I'm not sure, I bought it on Vimeo (I'm from Europe) I'm assuming this works worldwide? https://vimeo.com/ondemand/thelovewitch Someone else mentioned that it's on Amazon. I saw it's also available on Youtube Movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:00 PM
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You're welcome! I'm happy to hear you found it interesting! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:58 PM
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Oh, isn't it called "Viva"? I saw some bits of it but haven't seen it yet. I definitely will, and already excited for her next one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:57 PM
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awesome! 💙❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:56 PM
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I couldn't imagine! Women endure so much harassment (especially in the film industry, hello!) and still stay professional cause they know they don't have the privilege to being paid + being seen as acting unprofessional...only LVM have the entitlement to getting coins while acting a fool! 🤡 I really hope they didn't get any credit. She said they never even ended up watching the finished movie. Her next movie is based on the story of Bluebeard and revolves around a woman married to a dangerous, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:55 PM
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haha I love that they included that scene! also the one where she gets up in the morning, puts in a tampon and throws on her wig! and then later when the policemen find the jar with the used tampon, they have no clue what it is cause they've never seen one! genius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:50 PM
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haha and they would believe it too since they have zero clue about biology or care to read up on it! i once had a male coworker ask me if he can ask me something personal; he said he has a date and would like to have sex with her but since it‘s the end of the month, it‘s period-time right?! THIS GUY LEGIT THOUGH WOMEN ALL MENSTRUATE AT THE SAME TIME AT THE END OF THE MONTH!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:58 AM
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Do you have advice for erasing someone from your mind? I catch myself thinking about someone from 6 years ago...it’s embarassing, I know! FDS has helped me a lot to get over those unanswered questions and get clarity! I don’t idealise or miss him anymore, when I think of him I think of how pathetic he is, but it’s still thinking about him which I don’t want to do! Sometimes it gives me anxiety, it’s like I‘m triggered by the shame of having fallen for his BS and what he might think of me for doi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:55 AM
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I used to want closure before too but I came to learn that closure comes from within. I never used to believe it either, but it’s the truth. Anyone who’s hurt you was prepared for the consequence of not having you in their life and that is not someone who is worth wasting another thought on. This! I screenshot your comment to remember. :) I think a lot of times the conclusion that there was never real love is more hurtful than thinking something just went wrong, so people think they need an expl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:43 AM
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Happy Halloween sis! 🕸🕷🔮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:54 AM
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i love it! blue eyeshadow should make a comeback!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:52 AM
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it‘s all on purpose! :) as one commenter mentioned, they even have cellphones! haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:50 AM
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yes! i can‘t believe they can‘t even put their depravity behind for a minute and stay professional while getting paid! a normal person would want the project their working on to succeed, not sabotage it. i hope they didn‘t get any credits. here‘s a link to her Tweets: https://www.indiewire.com/2017/12/the-love-witch-anna-biller-crew-1201904994/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:49 AM
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You‘re welcome! I hope you enjoy it! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:42 AM
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yeah you're correct haha! the amazing cinematography and stylization really make it look like it could be from the 50s! I read it was made using only traditional film processes, shooting on 35mm film using a period-correct hard-lighting approach and finishing photochemically! ...apparently there was only 1 guy that could do this correctly, but he was always busy, so after firing couple of people, Anna decided to delay shooting until he was available to get it right! I admire her attention to det…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:27 AM
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I'd like to recommend the movie The Love Witch by indie filmmaker Anna Biller, who not only has written, edited, directed, produced, and scored the movie herself, but also created the gorgeous costumes and set-design! Anna Biller considers herself a feminist filmmaker and consciously explores feminist themes throughout her work, including exploring the female gaze in cinema. She is vocal on both her website and in interviews about gender inequalities in the film industry. The Love Witch uses the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 12:59 AM
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i never had a relationship, just a situationship that went on for far too long. i cringe when i think about all the stress it caused me, obsessing over texting, social media, dates and all the effort i put into looking my best everytime! i can only imagine how much worse it would be in a serious relationship/living together/financial commitment/kids! 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:59 AM
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literally! https://images.app.goo.gl/zKjEgjxFfSbWef6t8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:55 AM
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i like to say: “i know, i have a mirror at home.” 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:01 AM
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Btw, these men love anal so much, why not just hook up with one another? this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:23 PM
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exactly. men view it as degrading themselves! a woman finding it cute won't change the power dynamic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:56 PM
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I agree! a women doesn't have any dominance over a man giving him a bj. especially since men view it as a degrading act themselves! the only way they would gain power is if they bite their dicks off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:54 PM
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especially if men keep viewing it as a degrading act themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:49 PM
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she’s a burlesque performer/dancer (i know her from seeing her live on Dita Von Teeses tour). maybe that’s why? i also don’t see anything wrong with moving sensually by yourself, infront of the mirror. sensuality does not have to be for someone else or having to do with sex. i can see how it’s confident-boosting and more fun than a regular workout. it’s a personal opinion if you enjoy artforms like burlesque, just know that most of the people in the audiences at Dita’s shows are women & gay men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:07 AM
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“by the way, if you’re a male and you’re watching this, and you’re getting kind of sore and bent out of shape; GOOD - I hope you feel uncomfortable!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:05 PM
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he looks like shit, especially compared to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:29 PM
2

can someone explain the pills on the book and the post-it background?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:39 PM
5

same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:25 PM
14

me too! there should also be "shadefish" for guys who hide behind Wayfarer-style sunglasses to look hotter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:29 PM
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😂😂😂 and buy a new macbook after every relationship! i’d like to know the full backstory on what made her decide to do this tho, and why she keeps them! i guess she can’t trust anyone to have computer parts recycled/destroyed with her data on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:45 PM
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the full doc was actually really good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:43 PM
8

happy for you! advice on how to manifest an always full bank account? 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:55 PM
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as someone who is always late: i’m late bc i don’t want to be there/do that thing. keep that in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:32 PM
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funny how he listed “poly” under his diseases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:28 PM
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HSV-1, HSV-2, and LVM positive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:06 PM
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and he got sulky because HE dropped her laptop, instead of apologizing and taking extra care/understanding that she can't risk to drop it, he just ran off, caused a scene and made it all about him. he had the audacity to come back to get his sunglasses while she begged him to resolve this before she had to go on stage - I'm 100% sure she bought those sunglasses for him too. glad she kicked his ass out of the festival & her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:44 PM
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Timestamp: 1:03:00 - 1:06:50 (keep watching for extra bonus to see her boyfriend-MacBook graveyard)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:10 PM
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his reflex should have been to grab his daughter and hold her up, even if the dog attacked them, it would have only bitten his legs at worst. i wish the dog had bitten his dick off. (but not really, i wouldn’t want an animal be put down bc of LVM dick) even if this man had some trauma relating to dogs, it’s no excuse - just look at the amazing things women do under stress with adrenaline rush - they lift entire cars to save their kids, without even thinking twice of their own fear or safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:14 PM
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if there weren’t any men, we wouldn’t need protection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:07 PM
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how do you deal with judgement? i do this but i never told anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:02 PM
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love this! i’ve celebrated alone by travelling and going to dinner/cinema alone. i love it but also felt a little “loserish” about it since i can’t tell anyone, or else i’ll be judged. reading about it in the perspective of someone else and enjoying the image ot it, made me realize i’m doing the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:55 PM
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i like this analogy! crows are too intelligent to be compared to LVM tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:42 PM
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it shouldn’t even be up for debate! there’s also no such thing as “having sex” with a minor - it’s RAPE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:37 PM
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getting attacked with acid by a random stranger on the street. “Statistics from ASTI suggest that 80% of victims worldwide are women. Some of the most common motivations of perpetrators include: Personal conflict regarding intimate relationships, and sexual rejection Sexual related jealousy and lust Revenge for refusal of sexual advances, proposals of marriage and demands for dowry Acid attacks often occur as revenge against a woman who rejects a proposal of marriage or a sexual advance. Gender …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:09 AM
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I agree, I don't like eating with people I'm not familiar with yet and would find it hard to concentrate on body language and conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:25 PM
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i was going to say the same thing lmao! she obviously greeted the dog!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:28 PM
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NOHOMO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:25 PM
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instantly thought of gamer chairs too! They think they are spaceship pilots, judging by their lame gaming equipment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:17 PM
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lol how can you life be unfullfilled if you have no desire for either?! right, they can’t comprehend that, since sex is all they care about and have nothing else going on in their head. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:43 AM
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nobody knows cause he was obviously blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:45 AM
9

it was Lauren Conrad who said that! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:44 AM
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haha great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:39 AM
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I agree you can't get everyone's consent. But I would say you being in a party or vacation pic that will most likely only end up in a photo album or Facebook, won't really do harm to you. As you said, you consent to being seen in public. you can't regulate intent I would beg to differ that the style of the content matters. Focusing on a womans body with nothing else in the shot and zooming in on her ass shows intent. These kind of videos end up on disgusting scrote-sites and circulate in their l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:36 AM
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this sub has brought me more clarity and affirmation in 2 weeks than years of talking to friends and overthinking did. the confusion about how my situationship ended hindered me to fully move on, and I'm embarrassed it's still so triggering since it's been years...but I feel like FDS is finally giving me some of the answers I needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:19 AM
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the line is drawn when you record someone without consent, people at a party are different. people that happen to be around at a concert or landmark are just bystanders. filming a woman walking alone on the street, probably zooming in on her ass is different. I would never take pictures or record somebody (that person being the focus of the content) without them knowing, it has never crossed my mind or is something that happens accidentally! The line is drawn easily, it's not all or nothing - le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:10 AM
2

It's not a crime to record someone in a public place. it should be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:50 AM
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depends if the dog just had to pee or poop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:44 AM
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he probably thinks it's a cool skill to brag about as if he's a freaking mixologist for preparing a mojito!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:41 AM
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i also find it hilarious they all think they are experts in bra-sizes! most women don't even know their own real size! it's all relative to band size! C cup does not automatically equal two cantaloupes on the chest!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:22 AM
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This WAS you, glad you are here and doing better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:14 AM
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I think they just list that to make them feel better about their demands, notice how it's always in the first sentence? They want to come off as if they care about intelligence and personality first and foremost...meanwhile he gives no details on what "being smart" means to him, but has specific numbers in his mind for height, weight and cup-size. it's actually horrifying when you put it into perspective. it's all just charades, they don't want an intelligent women, cause that woman would be dif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:11 AM
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yeah she'll become a "doormat" in his mind after the novelty wears off, and he'll go after women who do the contrary, so he can feel like he's "chasing" again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:06 AM
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and we have to constantly clarify "size does not matter" to not hurt anyones ego...meanwhile they have a checklist of our weight, height and cup-size!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:03 AM
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All of it's comforts Seem so essential I bought you mail order My plain wrapper baby Your skin is like vinyl The perfect companion You float my new pool De luxe and delightful Inflatable doll My role is to serve you Disposable darling Can't throw you away now Immortal and life size My breath is inside you I'll dress you up daily And keep you till death sighs Inflatable doll Lover ungrateful I blew up your body But you blew my mind — Roxy Music: In Every Dream Home A Heartache ...this is what cam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:00 AM
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I love the "get used to it" I'll use that next time I get a LVM saying he misses me, while never making plans and just expecting pics instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:55 AM
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I feel like not only are they shitting on his wife/their commitment, they saw a man crying and thought = weakness. so they had to twist it into him being a player to make it "cool". they could only deam of a woman wanting to commit to them and being so secure in themselves to be vulnerable and show loving emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:50 AM
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he swallowed the apple so Eve couldn't keep eating from the Tree of Knowledge to level up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:40 AM
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it should be!!! if you told the police someone robbed you, wouldn't they have the right to look through their bag to check?! this is worse in my opinion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:34 AM
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Amen! Actually, let's say: Awomen! Whenever I think of the behavior of the majority of men, I think: "why would I want one of them?!" would you buy a product that has 90% shitty reviews?! I don't see the point of having to do the mental gymnastics and being on guard all the time to secure decent behavior from them...it's exhausting. Ironically, most of the people that I admire and inspire me on an artistic level happen to be men, they give me hope that maybe there are some men out there with rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:31 AM
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I'm glad you called the police and left bad reviews! Hope he got so scared, he'll never do it again! But with influence from trash friends, it'll only take a while until he starts again... If he wasn't actually recording you and they were normal people, they would have explained to you what they were doing instead and apologizing for the misunderstanding...insulting you just proves they got caught! Couldn't you get the police to at least look at his phone to check if there was footage and remove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:09 AM
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what the fuck is he doing in that sub?! he's obviously in disbelief that there are attractive women that don't want crusty dick or are lesbians that just exist for their porn fantasies. he's probably messaging every pretty woman on there, thinking he will be the one to "convert them" over a pervy reddit chat-message. btw I looked at your post and you are drop-dead gorgeous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:39 PM
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“by the way, if you’re a male and you’re watching this, and you’re getting kind of sore and bent out of shape; GOOD - I hope you feel uncomfortable!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:37 PM
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yeah his idea of female masturbation is obviously based on porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:49 PM
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you're lucky to have such a great manager that is inspiring and that you can also be open with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:32 PM
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I just checked Meetup.com events in my city, and I'm surprised to see there are some things I would actually join, there are even some online workshops that could be interesting to start with. I think I'll follow you on that, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:28 PM
4

Love Alexandra!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:23 PM
28

I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:20 PM
19

why is he even judging her mothers attractiveness? did he watch too much mother-in-law porn?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:13 PM
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I don't believe a true HVM would judge a woman for casual sex he participated in. If in his mind, sleeping with him devalues a woman, then there's something wrong with him. You should care less what these men think about you, you used them for what you wanted - if you got it, it's none of your concern what they think about it. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:10 PM
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He thinks girls would find excuses for hot guys dressing badly. why not just put in the bare minimum effort?! geez!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:01 PM
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my thoughts exactly!!! they also have no problem comparing their dick sizes with their bros and would jump into having an orgy, if given the chance. i want a man who is secure in his sexuality and has no issue with homosexuality, even if these scrotes claim they are not homophobes - they are, they spend so much energy projecting gayness into the most random things! is there a way to vet a man to know he's not a homophobe/cleans his ass?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:56 PM
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for real, why do LVM need to be so stingy with money?! they surely don't spend it on their looks! to buy ugly trainers, so they can feel "fashionable" instead of wearing REAL MEN clothes? video games?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:28 PM
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he would still expect her to split the chicken nugget...bc 50/50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:26 PM
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what a great teacher...wonder why he "used to be" one 🤔 he's also obviously looking for approval with his lame attempt at throwing shade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:24 PM
24

ask him how much it would cost to translate Scrote to Finnish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:58 PM
10

they're scared vegetables will make them gay...that cucumber will surely find it's way up his ass somehow - better not risk it! and soups are just douching from the front, yuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:05 PM
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I don't mind coffee/drink dates, as I find dinners uncomfortable, if I'm not even sure of the guy myself or meeting for the first time. But I think it's definitely a red flag he suggested a coffee place nearby his place - he said he's free, so why doesn't he ask you where you would like to go first? He should choose a place that is convenient for YOU or just the nicest place available, where you could take a nice walk afterwards or something like that. NOT the coffee place where he can just leav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:02 PM
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"I thought I had replied" is an excuse you make if you just weren't interested in texting someone and want to be polite about it...I know because I use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:54 PM
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good move sending that last message to make your ego feel better! no worries!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:51 PM
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I actually know the web developer who worked on the redesign of the website (not personally tho, and I don't think he works as a webdev anymore!) I think it was around 2013?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:13 PM
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I wouldn't get him a gift - especially if there isn't something specific and small you know he will appreciate, like a book he talked about for example. HVM don't expect gifts from women, I think most of them actually feel awkward being gifted stuff. When is your birthday? I would wait this one out and see how his gift-giving abilities are first. You are giving him your time already, putting on a nice dress and doing your hair and having a good night should be enough for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:08 PM
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HVM do not judge or discard of a woman after a one night stand. I have even shown him FDS and he has told me that if we have a daughter he wants her introduced to FDS before she is a teenager. He wants her to be a strong woman. love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:01 PM
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she had the audacity to invite herself and her husband along for the trip. Um, no. When I told her I had no desire to be her third wheel on MY vacation to celebrate my divorce wow!!! I'm so glad and proud of you that you had the guts to drop her! she's probably sick of her own husband, but he won't allow her to travel without him...she sounds super egotistical and as if she does not want you to have a good time on your own, now that you're free...rub her low-value relationship in your face to ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:38 PM
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doesn't work on something like WhatsApp tho, where they can choose their own screen-name to pop up. Well at least you can silence their chat and attend to it when you get to it...instead of giving them the power to interrupt your day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:27 PM
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why does it just apruptly end in "if he's having a rough day, I'll help him out!" where's his part on this deal?! because men can't give emotional support/be nurturing and women only expect them to buy material things? got it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:52 PM
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my thoughts exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:47 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement! I feel like by reading here, I'm starting to finally make sense of that situationship. It feels depressing and embarassing right now, realizing all the red flags in hindsight, as clear as a traffic signal...but I think I'll be able to finally heal from it now bc of FDS. I believe it was the confusion that kept me from actually moving on, and not wanting to realize that he was a LVM. Talking with friends about this has never brought the clarity I got from reading thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:44 PM
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that was like 4 years ago, it's still on my mind tho...I just discovered this sub and it has been triggering lots of memories and bad feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:32 PM
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Oh I see! He probably faked interested and got overwhelmed once he actually read it and didn't know how to respond!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:30 PM
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he probably proposed spontaneously cause he did something bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:24 PM
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he probably only wanted to buy one with her cause he has no idea what she actually likes/does not care enough to remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:23 PM
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even if rings were an outdated tradition, doesn't mean she has to buy something for herself as an engagement ffs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:20 PM
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me constantly asking for confirmation if our planned date is still happening and not getting a response until he gets back with a lame excuse on the day of, after I already prepped myself runway-ready in case he confirms. only for him to sext me days later and expecting me to take a 2-hour train ride at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:18 PM
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that's such a weird request tho?! what's the context? I wonder if he just sent it to another girl, pretending it's from him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:13 PM
2

I would never cook for a man, not even instant-soup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:06 PM
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i'm 100% sure he thinks soup is not "manly" enough. probably doesn't eat salad too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:05 PM
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I've made it through major international airports in Russia and Finland all by my helpless little self. solo-travel and just going places on your own in general should be fucking normalized by now, it teaches you to rely on yourself, entertain yourself, deal with yourself, various skills and opens up all your senses to your surroundings, since you are not just following your company around. I prefer traveling solo and still feel judged even by women. people just assume you have no friends - but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:00 PM
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yeah if a relationship is a luxury - how can you enjoy it while worrying about necessities? I can't afford to love a broke man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:39 PM
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meanwhile she probably spent money buying outfits for dates, getting manicures, pedicures, hair done, waxed, new lingerie and godknowswhat - totalling way more than a $200.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:33 PM
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they always think women are just using them if they don't give them sex. I picked her up from the airport but she didn't pull out, she' used me! I doubt anyone used him for sex tho, probably was so bad she ghosted him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:01 PM
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guys don't argue cause they don't actually talk to each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:59 PM
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i hate how they project their sexual attraction onto us. just because you feel aroused does not mean it was my intention or feel the same. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:18 AM
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and knows that 'mansplaining' is an actual thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:10 AM
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he is doing everything perfectly. except these small lies the things that seem “perfect” just seem that way cause they haven’t been revealed as lies yet. if he lies about small things, he’s willing to lie about big things. i get lying about things that are maybe uncomfortable or too private, but lying about language skills and your hometown reveal that he has self-esteem issues and is unhappy with who he is = RED FLAG. it’s easy to get attached to an image you create in your mind of someone over…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:03 PM
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