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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | I was banned for this. Wth.On a sub for FREE COMPLIMENTS....kinda seems like she wanted this to happen? Whether this is OP or not, this sub is (completely) full of pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 21 | My nudes were leaked and I feel like my life is ruined.So sorry to hear about this, it’s a terrible thing to happen. If you know the guy, and you said you’re a young teenager...take it to the police!! You can probably keep your parents out of it, but this should be reported to the authorities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 54 | I’m out of words.She needs a FDS rescue mission! So glad they broke up though. But she never should have thought she was the as*hole in that situation, it’s ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:52 AM |
| 114 | Oh hell noIt looks like something you’d give a 9 year old girl for her birthday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 17 | What are some good books on female empowerment/stuff that's FDS related?That’s great you are waiting to spend your extra money on reading and baking items. There’s an awesome huge list of FDS-approved books in the handbook. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 22 | I know, block and delete, but I still enjoy these screenshots from women who are taking no nonsense. (Not Me)SAVAGE!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:42 AM |
| 4 | Harry potter and the Audacity of this Scrote. Not only could he not use his big brain to figure out why I'm talking to him but he thinks he's hot stuff.This seems really desperate. Not really FDS mentality at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 22 | Posted on the “90 Day Fiancé” tv show sub. 😂💀Had to repost this because I forgot to crop out the OP username. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 3 | I can’t believe how many women that I’ve seen in my life who have done this because they’re afraid to be alone. One and done people!! Find your happiness though yourself and there will be no other person that you need.My ex who I broke up with a month ago asked me a few days ago if I would give him another chance, because he loved me “sOoO much”... To humor him I asked him “what he has changed since we broke up” (There were SEVERAL reasons we broke up that I couldn’t put up with in his lifestyle) He said nothing...but he’s hoping I would reconsider and accept him as he is. 🤡 Told him I’m not going to settle and I’ve moved on to find somebody better. 💅🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:47 PM |
| 22 | Well I'm alone and bored on my birthday because of a LVM. Any suggestions of how to make myself feel better?1st off, Happy Birthday!! 👸🏼 2nd, you do NOT need a man to make you feel special on your birthday. He’s LV and not worth a second more of your time or disappointment spent thinking about him. What I do when I need to cheer myself up is find something nearby to do for a day trip. If you have the means to travel within a few hours away, you can look even further for a fun place to visit (if places are open in the area with restrictions), like a museum, botanical garden, whatever you enjoy doing. C… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:01 PM |
| 10 | Online match did not ask for my name - wasting time?I second this! Also, even if your name is not visible on your profile after you match, he might not ask right off the bat because that can come off as creepy by asking what your full name is right as soon as you match, in my opinion. I do not have my full name on my OLD profiles, for privacy reasons. I do not tell a match my full name until AFTER we’ve met in person and I like him. So there are reasons to not give out your name or for somebody to hold off on asking for your full name as soon as … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:08 PM |
| 8 | Which one of you is this red chick? I found you in the wild.Haha Love this! 👸🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 8 | Will this ever end? I know I’m enough, that I would rather be single than with an LVM. But I feel sick w loneliness—I live alone and we’re a communal species. The lockdown is fucking me up. I re-downloaded OLD in a moment of weakness and this was the first guy I matched with. JfcI hate when men say that they’re just being “adventurous/spur of the moment spontaneity” when you call them out for their obvious late night hookup request attempt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 9 | How to know if he wants to be in a relationship with you specifically vs just wants to be in a relationship?I would say that considering he’s still actively pursuing you and doing things right (paying for when you go out, being a gentleman by opening doors), that he’s interested in YOU. If he was interested in being in a relationship, I feel like you would start to see him slowly doing less and less, showing not as much interest as he did at the beginning of the relationship because he “has you” for so far a month. I broke up with a guy two weeks ago who was actively trying to get me for two years (I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Somebody I met on OLD taking to the last 4 days. Have not had a pre-date phone call yet which I will suggest..but ladies, is it even worth it after his suggestion of a walk for a first date? 🙄To clarify, yes I’ve read the handbook, but the suggestions in this section seem a little too “harsh” to say since he was kinda friendly about it? Feel like I need suggestions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:29 PM |
| 13 | Best first date questions?This post has some good screening questions to give you an idea what you should ask. Pre-Screening Date Questions Just remember to not reveal too much about yourself and what you are looking for in a relationship. You want him to show you who he is through his actions and not by morphing into whatever you tell him you’re looking for in order to manipulate you into a false sense of trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:06 PM |
| 99 | Could y’all imagine?I’ve always hated that stupid and tacky cake topper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Monday musing - Watching and CringingYess! I love Rose!! She would rather live in poverty than deal with Ed’s condescending LV bs. Queen! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Monday musing - Watching and CringingI absolutely love 90 Day Fiancé because it’s so dramatic and is full of LV couples. Every now and then you will see a HV person on the show that doesn’t put up with the LV bs, but omg, if you keep watching the show it gets so good/trashy you can’t look away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:23 PM |
| 11 | He’s at the top 10% on the income bracket, I am no where near that... help, please.I didn’t read that I sang it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 12 | Spoiler Alert: she agrees to a second date. 🤦This was painful to watch! Sad to say it reminds me of my grandparents. They are very very well off but my grandpa prides himself on being extremely cheap/“frugal”...when he and my grandma go out to eat, they SHARE 1 meal, and still take HALF home for later. Makes me so sad because I know my grandma hates it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Been on OLD for 4 days and I’m already annoyed enough to want to to delete my profiles. 🙄 (I asked those who read my profile to tell me their favorite book/movie and why, so that’s what’s up with the first message).....Block & Unmatch.Trash always takes itself out I guess 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 02:29 AM |
| 7 | I seem to remember somebody sharing their pre-date vetting questions they would ask prior to meeting somebody in person. Could one of you kind queens link that post to me if you happened to have saved it? 🙏🏼 👑YES!! That’s it, thank you so much!! 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Matched today, literally his FOURTH message in and he’s suggesting I visit him 4+ hours away. .....What?!Literally all of his punctuation is in doubles or triples. He definitely had a weird vibe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:33 PM |
| 11 | Matched today, literally his FOURTH message in and he’s suggesting I visit him 4+ hours away. .....What?!Good reminder to match his energy. I personally just communicate in longer sentences. I should have matched his creepy energy from his responses. 😳 He’s unmatched and blocked now though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 14 | Matched today, literally his FOURTH message in and he’s suggesting I visit him 4+ hours away. .....What?!I get caught up in my replies because I personally hate giving one sentence responses. Never mean for them to end up as long as they do, but its just how I communicate. This dude is unmatched and blocked now though. He was creepy enough! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:31 PM |
| 17 | Matched today, literally his FOURTH message in and he’s suggesting I visit him 4+ hours away. .....What?!Initially I did not realize he was so far away since I had my maximum radius set to 30 miles from me. Personally I would never seriously consider dating somebody that far away, unless it was seriously beneficial to me. Don’t worry, I unmatched and blocked him after that last message! 💅🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:29 PM |
| 33 | So, I’m putting into practise never meeting someone for drinks.... And men insist on being LV. Boy bye. (The photos were of his friend and him driving around and eating sushi? I don’t even know you, why would I care to see this...)Hate how men try and make you feel bad like your hurt their feelings in order to try and change your mind. Be a man and get outta here with your “😭” emoji. Edit: if you were interested in going on a date to dinner with this man, this could have been a good time to use the “I’m accustomed to different types of dates” line I’ve seen floating around this community to direct him to offer an acceptable date plan.👸🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:07 PM |
| 2 | How do you Queens respond when a man takes over 24 hours to respond?I can admit that I do this as well with all of my friends, BUT I usually respond to them within a 24 hour timeframe and it’s usually a long text covering all of the multiple texts my girl friends texted me throughout the day. I never give a half-a** response to their messages. Which I DO feel like his “I’m bad at Insta, text me” response was very low effort. But I would be willing to consider texting him to see if the behavior persists, as you said. Does anybody second this idea or think its sho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | How do you Queens respond when a man takes over 24 hours to respond?I feel his quick comment of “I’m bad at Insta” was his official excuse on why it took him nearly 30 hours to respond. I’ve just decided to ignore him completely. Unless he was out of the country or some reasonable excuse on why he couldn’t respond, then I think he’s the kind of man who is possibly just looking for a hookup and I was completely wrong about him. I would have appreciated an “I’m busy right now, but I’ll get back with you other” response 100% more than being left on read for an enti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:26 AM |
| 3 | How do you Queens respond when a man takes over 24 hours to respond?After reading the other responses in addition to yours, I’ve decided I’m going to just completely ignore him. You’re 100% right and I’m not about to be doing the work for him to text him first and I bet I’d be the one “expected” to keep the conversation alive. No thank you! Thanks for your helpful response!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:23 AM |
| 3 | How do you Queens respond when a man takes over 24 hours to respond?That’s true, I did not think of that either. How stupid of an excuse and that I had to think twice on if he was truly “bad” at responding on insta. Thanks for your response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:21 AM |
| 13 | How do you Queens respond when a man takes over 24 hours to respond?Yes, thank you!! This is the point of view I needed to hear. I completely agree, thank you so much for your input. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Lol nope.My ex that I broke up with this January was going to propose right before Christmas and my parents said he had gotten a nice $8K ring...but I was still hesitant that he was the one, so I had a conversation with him (without telling him that I knew about the proposal he was planning), that I didn’t feel we were in a very good place to move to the next steps of a relationship. It was a very tactful conversation but his LV ass got all butthurt and so I broke up with him a week later. He tried to sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Lol nope.That’s a very good rule...but to be honest, something I’ve always wondered about was how do you estimate how much the ring costs or if it’s even a real diamond at the time of him “popping the question”? Do you say “Yes/ I will think about it” and then go have the ring assessed at a jeweler? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:37 PM |
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