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The decline of masculinity is due to either one of two reasons: 1) As you said, technology and the natural progression that comes with it has changed society and will continue changing society. 2) There is an elite group of people purposefully changing societal norms through media such as news, movies, music; and by creating laws. Their end goal is to erase masculine nature such as aggression, free thought, and critical thinking. Their means of getting there is by brainwashing people to make the…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 06:20 AM
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Yes, if you are currently not dating 3+ women, if a girl is attractive enough to give you a hard on, go after it. After things ended with my oneitus about 3 months ago, I've been consistently dating 3 girls, sometimes 2, sometimes 4. They all started out at 6's and 7's. The great thing about 6's and 7's is you learn what you value in a girl; bubbly personality, giving, swallows, whatever your cup of tea is. If I meet another girl I like more than someone I'm currently dating, I drop the one I li…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 03:28 AM
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It's normal for men to be fucking around on their wives with hot bitches. True words man. Everyone cheats on their wife/girlfriend in Colombia, it was hard to believe at first, now it's just a reality.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 12:09 AM
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Not OP, but I'm currently doing the quit your job to travel thing. I'm almost a year into it, spend roughly $1,500-$2,000/month, saved $50k (not counting 401k and IRA) knowing I won't spend it all. My bank account/retirement would probably have an additional $50k if I stayed, but it's been more than worth it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 12:04 AM
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I've been living in latin america for 6 months and this is true in so many ways. You would think talking to woman in your second language would be more difficult, but I would say it's easier. My spanish is improving, but not at the point where I can have full, deep conversations. One of the girls I'm seeing now speaks zero english and due to the language barrier, I am not talking as much as I usually do. And the crazy thing? She's more attracted to me. There is something about silence and being …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 12:00 AM
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Sometimes you need to learn to say no and take charge. You are so worried she won't like you if you say no. You are so worried she'll get mad, get distant, and stop fucking you if you start going for what you want. You are so worried you won't be able to handle an emotional reaction from her. See the problem here?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:59 PM
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Beard.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:08 PM
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Passion comes when you give your girl an opportunity to think about you. When you give her an opportunity to miss you. When you give her an opportunity to wonder if you truly care about her. When she truly knows deep down that if she fucks up, you'll walk away and never look back. Passion fades when she knows you'll do anything for her. When she knows she can fuck up big time and you'll still be by her side. When she knows she is the best you can do. Give your girl what she wants, which is myste…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:46 PM
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To make this possible you need to let her reach out to you. There is not a lot you can do to force the situation, but after you fuck and part ways, she might text you to let you know she had a good time, or to tell you something funny her cat did. Doesn't matter. When she texts, tell her, "hey girl great to hear from you, I'd love to see you again so holler at me when you're back in town." She'll either reach out to you when she's back in town, or she won't. Like I said, you can't force it.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:42 PM
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Don't do coffee dates during the day, that is what friends do. Your job is to create an opportunity for sex to happen. Start the escalation slowly, a touch on her arm, her shoulder. If she has a ring, grab her hand lightly and pull it towards you to look at it. I'm a fan of plausible deniability touching early in the interaction. Don't continuously touch her or it will look desperate, give her a chance to reciprocate. Once she starts reciprocating, you can start doing more intimate things like t…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:41 PM
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If I set it a couple days in advance, I don't confirm. If I set it 3+ days in advance, I'll confirm a few hours ahead of time simply by saying, "Hey girl see you at 7". Most of the time, the girl will send me the confirmation text.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 02:03 AM
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Verbally telling your girl, "you fucked up and I won't put up with it", followed by retracting attention is the most effective.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 07:12 AM
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Start university now, take some general ed classes. On your first day of school, trot your happy ass into the study abroad office and begin researching. You can study abroad for a year and not postpone your graduation, or maybe postpone it by one semester if you decide to take it easy. You can begin traveling in the summer before the study abroad semester begins. Everything in Europe is a cheap Ryanair flight away so you can do long weekend trips. Most schools will also have 2 months off between…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:54 AM
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This doesn't necessarily mean it's the beginning of the end, but if you don't man up, it certainly is. What nrjk said, this isn't just about the wet floor. She is testing your masculine frame. She wants you to be the man and 1) At least have a plan to fix the floor... 2) Don't ever allow her to speak that way to you and certainly don't ever allow her to throw shit, regardless if you are the intended target or not. What you need to do is 1) calmly, but firmly tell her that she will never talk to …
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:42 AM
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You are obviously way inside your head. You're thinking about how you'll perform instead of focusing on her body and your own pleasure. This probably stems from you wanting so fucking bad to get her off and impress her with your sexual prowess, while at the same time fearing you won't be able to please her the way you want. Start focusing less on her pleasure and entirely on your own. Realize that in my own experience, a girl won't really care if she doesn't get off the first time she's with you…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:15 PM
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No. Cheating happens when men get complacent and when not vetting a girl properly. Lots of guys choose to get into relationships with girls who have a handful of red flags. Girl cheated on her ex? Certainly she won't do that with me! Girl is 25 years old and hasn't had a relationship longer than 2 months? Certainly I can change that! Girl still talks to her ex boyfriend? She's so perfect, I can look past this! Girl gets butthurt often, gives me the silent treatment, and doesn't know how to commu…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 07:46 PM
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General rule is ask her out once, if she declines and doesn't reach out, move on. If you ask her out once, she declines, but she's still reaching out, ask her out again. If she declines this time you say, "Sounds like you are busy, let me know when you figure out your schedule a bit more." and you leave her alone. If you're constantly texting her without a date, you're turning into her gay orbiter. Use texting to set up a date. If she's declined twice and you're still texting, you will be foreve…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:56 PM
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A girl will tell all of her girlfriends everything you talked about. If she's in your social circle, there is no point in talking about your difficult past. If for some reason you do decide to bring it up, always frame it in a positive light. Like how you are thankful you went through the tough times because it was a great learning experience that motivated you to become the man you are today.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:51 PM
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1) how long should i wait to schedule the next date? Wait 5 or so days to reach out to her to set up the date IF she has not reached out to you. If she does reach out to you before, you assume she wants to see you again and set up the next date after she reaches out. 2) should i kiss her when we meet or only when escalating? This one might be more personal preference, but I don't like giving her a kiss right away on date #2. I like to let the sexual tension build a bit first. Leave her wondering…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:41 PM
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You went on one date. If you go on a date with a girl you met on tinder, she's probably dating 2 or 3 guys. This is not a big deal. In any case, you went on one date, this is not branch swinging. One date isn't enough for her to be on your branch. One critique, never set a second date while on the first date, unless the girl brings it up. Attraction is about much more than how you conducted yourself on the date; it's equally about the timing involved with how/when you set up dates and your texti…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 07:17 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4PYaIoB03c Watch this video in full.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 11:58 PM
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I don’t want her to think I’m gonna sit and wait for her to get back to me And you shouldn't be waiting around. You should be living your life. Is it too much to unfriend her on everything? You've gone out twice, unfriending her will show that you're super bitter about it and if she's already on the fence of interested/not interested, this will push her more in the non interested department. If this was an ltr, I'd say block her so you aren't tempted to social media stalk her every night. But af…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:43 AM
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Wait for her to contact you, if she does, don't small talk, just assume she wants to see you and ask her out. Until then, the ball is in her court. She'll either throw the ball back or she won't. If you throw another ball at her, she'll get freaked out. Give her the time and space to hit the ball back. If she doesn't, you know she's not interested and you know not to waste your time.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:54 AM
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If a girl isn't meeting your needs and expectations, no amount of talking or boundary setting will make her do more. She either ticks your boxes or she doesn't. At some point later down the road, you can tell her in a calm, non-bitter way, that you expect a girl to put in a bit more effort by doing x, y, z. She either does it or she doesn't and you have the choice and the power to walk away. Boundary setting is more for when a girl disrespects you and you let her know it's not ok. Boundary setti…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:42 AM
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Try to cancel and find a new place. Talk to the host and make up some excuse, and give her a couple weeks notice, but in the end, it's her decision. I've been living in primarily airbnbs for months and this is why I always book short term at first and see if the place is a fit. Plus its always cheaper to work out a long term solution in person and not on the website. You can often schedule a walk through before booking, most hosts will agree to this for a long term guest. This way you get a feel…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:30 AM
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Wait one week after each date to reach out and set up the next date. If she reaches out before then, assume she wants to see you and set up the date. Rinse and repeat. Most of the time, if things went well, she'll send a random text a day or two after a date, but she won't always do this. If she's not initiating contact and you end up initiating more than the once a week contact to set up a date, you are chasing and this will turn her off.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:23 AM
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Corey is the man if you're looking for more than spinning plates.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:47 AM
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1) Why didn't you make a move on the first date? 2) Did she text you after the first date? If no, how long after the first date did you reach out to her? 2a) After a first date, you wait one week before calling/texting her and inviting her out again. If the girl reaches out before then, you assume she wants to see you and invite her out. 3) Your job is to set up the next date for an opportunity to hang out, have fun, and fuck her brains out. If you're doing anything other than trying to create t…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:59 AM
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You're probably putting too much pressure on her to get serious. If you're not showing it with your words, you are showing it with your actions. Actions can be much louder than words. Focus on hanging out, having fun, and hooking up. Let the girl say and show you she wants a relationship. It needs to be her idea. If you're pressuring her (like I said, with words OR actions), she will lose interest.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:57 AM
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Dating apps is a numbers game. You match with 20 girls, send 20 messages. 15 respond, however 10 respond with relative enthusiasm. You move to text with 5 of them and set up dates with 3 of them. Real life is the same way, it's a numbers game. My guess is that you are not putting yourself in a position to get those numbers. You are expecting the girls to walk to you, start dancing with you, open you. It's not that you don't know how to interact with women, it's not that you're not good looking..…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:54 AM
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Communication is the woman's job. If a girl wants to communicate, you let her vent, you listen, you ask engaging questions. Then at the end of it, she'll say, "I feel so much better" and she'll turn sweet and submissive. If the guy is the one who wants to "communicate" all the time, she'll lose attraction because this is feminine energy. This is the woman's job. Think of it if she was your daughter or granddaughter, if they wanted to talk, you'd listen. You wouldn't mirror her emotions, you woul…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:48 AM
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Read 3% Man by Cory Wayne. Go watch some of his videos. After reading his book 3 times, the long term relationship part is starting to make so much sense. It's a whole different game than short term flings. Long story short, if she withdraws, you withdraw. You make sure she's doing 80%-100% of the text/phone call initiations. If it's 50/50, she won't think you're a challenge and lose interest. Girls needs to chase in LTRs to value you. If she does something disrespectful, call her out on it in a…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:43 AM
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1) Why are you talking for two weeks and not dating? No wonder she lost interest. Invite her on a date already and stop being her gay male girl friend by "talking". 2) If a girl you're interested in ever tells you she wants a friendship when you don't, you simply say, "I'm not looking for friends right now, but feel free to reach out if you change your mind." if she reaches out, you invite her on a date. If she says no, you tell her, "listen, I already told you I don't want to be friends. Feel f…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:39 AM
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1) Don't double text. 2) You as the man should always be the one setting dates and logistics. This is not the woman's job. 3) If you haven't gone on a formal date, why are you texting without inviting her out? You are a gay male girl friend at this point if you're texting without dating.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:35 AM
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They can show their interest by any number of things. The most important things are always being on good behavior by not stirring up drama, always being sweet, and by giving me their time and body when I want it. These are the only things you should expect from a plate. If they start cooking for you, saying nice things often and doing anything that adds real value to your life, then you can decide if they upgrade to FWB or later down the road, an LTR. But a plate who you see once a week and not …
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:31 AM
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Friends is totally different. If your friends would drop what they're doing to help you, you do the same for them. If they need help, you help them. However, if you need their help and they refuse, you know not to go out of your way for them. When it comes to women, it's pretty similar. If you're early in the courtship, you will not drop what you're doing to help. You owe a girl nothing until she's earned it. However, if she's a good girl and has earned it, why not help her out? Don't let it bec…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:27 AM
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1) Don't outright say, "I'm going to pay for you because I want to." That comes across as super weird. Simply pay and see how she responds. If she offers to pay, take the positive note that she offered, and simply tell her, "I got this, you can get the first round of drinks." If she wants to invest, let her. This is a good thing. 2) Food on the first date is not a bad thing. If it's a first date, I usually start with something else such as an activity or a drink and if things are going well and …
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:22 AM
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Who cares about the bantering, it sounds like you're texting her too much. Is she initiating the texts? Are you inviting her to your place or on a date when she initiates? Why do you care about bantering via text? I'm not saying don't do any bantering, but if you're not setting up a date, texting will not help your cause.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:17 AM
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Right now, you are a mystery, you are not like the other men. This makes her attracted to you. She is trying to get you to chase because that's what most men do. She can't control you and she's not used to that. She honestly, in that moment, thinks that is what she truly wants you to do. What she doesn't logically know is that the moment you start chasing, she will lose attraction for you. If a girl withdraws, you withdraw. If a girl shows interest, you reciprocate and show 2/3's the interest sh…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:13 AM
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1) Don't hide the fact you are a sexual creature. Sexual desire should not be a hidden secret. This is most men's first mistake. 2) Call people out if they say or do something disrespectful. For example, if someone is 20 minutes late without letting you know, calmly tell them that you expect them to give you a heads up next time. Don't need to be aggressive, a dick, or bitter about it, but a calm statement followed by not dwelling on it and having a good time is usually enough if it's the first …
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:03 AM
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I personally like to do a phone call. Do a 10 minute phone call, build some rapport, show just a teeny bit of your humor, then ask her to get together on the call, then tell her you're looking forward to it and get off the phone. No need to talk for days or weeks, be a man and get to the point.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:00 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4PYaIoB03c Watch this whole video.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:32 AM
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If your husband found out you were cheating and left you, would that be beneficial for the kids? Are your sexual desires worth the consequences? My point is, you cheating can be just as bad for the kids as it would if your husband used resources on another woman/family. You are either a really good liar or your husband is a very naive fool. Probably both. In any case, you are your own person capable of making your own decisions, I'm just giving my opinion on the situation.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:53 AM
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No, it's exactly as I described. That's why I said that a man's nightmare is his girl whoring her body to someone else and a woman's nightmare is her man whoring his resources to someone else.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:56 PM
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Man or woman, if you are in a committed relationship and especially if you're married, cheating is amoral. Man or woman, if you cheat, you are a piece of shit. If you don't believe in monogamy, find someone who is willing to have an honest, open relationship. This is a matter of respect for the person your with, which you clearly have zero. If you found out your husband was fucking a girl on the side and using his resources to pay her rent and buy her nice things, how would you feel? You'd feel …
/r/askTRP22/05/19 07:39 PM
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PE means you are concentrating too hard on pleasing the girl while subconsciously fearing you won't please her enough. Concentrate on your urges, your pleasure, and realize most girls won't care if they don't cum the first time you fuck.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:33 AM
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If a girl texts you, assume she wants to see you and invite her to hangout. Most women won't directly ask you out, so they put themselves in your orbit so you can be the man and set up a date. If she says no or maybe, she's looking for you to be her gay male girlfriend and you move on.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:29 AM
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This is probably an ex you've wanted back for a while. You wanted so bad to fuck the shit out of her, please her, and "see how an amazing guy you are." You subconsciously feared you wouldn't please her enough, so you got performance anxiety.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:25 AM
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If she's shown nothing but respect to you, be a decent person and end it with respect. If she has been disrespectful, end it however you want.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 09:51 PM
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"I hope everything works out with you and this guy. If it doesn't, feel free to give me a call." Then you leave it alone and never reach out to her. If she wants to reach out, she will.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 09:58 AM
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The redpill has taught me abundance and to lose, or at least not show any neediness. I think it swung me too far in the indifferent department. I have lost a couple of amazing girls due to being too cold and indifferent. This is in regards to texting for logistics only and from withholding verbal affection. I think when you're first courting a girl, it's wise to keep texting to a minimum and to keep compliments and verbal affection near zero. However, as the weeks and months progress, girls need…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:18 PM
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I disagree with this tactic. I don't like midday dates or meeting up with friends dates since it lowers the opportunity to get physical. These are things you'd do with a friend. If you say you'll maybe be at xyz place at abc time, it's a maybe date and not set in stone. Making plans is not weak, it's leading.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 05:03 AM
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Are you building enough rapport? Try setting up a phone call after getting the number and sending a few back and forth texts. Call should be around 10 minutes, then invite her out for a date. You need to build a little comfort. After you've established you're a fun, interesting guy, be a little boring, ask some questions and get to know her a tiny bit. Ask her favorite place she's traveled, ask her favorite movie or music. Rapport and comfort are important to get a girl to go out with you and my…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:16 AM
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Are these first dates? Meeting online or in person? I can help if you provide a bit more information.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 02:19 AM
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Say no worries. Wait one week, try again. If she reaches out before then, assume she wants to see you and invite her over. If she gives another flaky response, tell her, "id love to see you but it sounds like youre busy so let me know when you know your schedule a bit better." and you let her go. She either reaches out and you schedule a date or she never reaches out. You never want to chase girls who have low interest and have flaked.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:23 AM
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I trim once a month. Use a 0 for chest, armpits, legs from knee and up, and lower back. I use a 2 for my legs below the knee. I keep the arm hair. I then use a razor for some areas I want baby smooth. This has been working for years.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 11:58 PM
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Read it 5 times.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 11:50 PM
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You've met her 3 times. You should be able to handle going a week without contact. If you sent a text and she didn't respond, wait for her to reach out. Stop chasing and give her some space to miss you. This is so important with women, it takes time away from you (in person, texting, phone calls) for her feelings to grow. Back off and let her come to you, if she isn't since it's only been 3 dates, wait 1 week to give her some space, then reach out and invite her somewhere.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 06:32 PM
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Hang out with other women so you aren't so invested in a girl who is acting distant. How much contact are you initiating? She should be initiated 80%-100% of the time and when she does, you invite her some where. My guess is you are reaching out to her too much.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 06:29 PM
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If she says she's busy, simply say, "No problem, I'd love to see you so let me know when you figure out your schedule." She'll either reach out to you in a few days, a week, 2 weeks... or she won't reach out to you at all. You're right, a girl should want to see you. Your problem is that you think chasing and using logic will wan her to see you. Put the offer out there and if she says no without a counter date, tell her to reach out when she figures out her schedule and you do NOT reach out agai…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 06:27 PM
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Doesn't fuck me on first date. I want a girl with morals. If she'll fuck me that easily, she'll fuck other dudes that easily. Giving. A girl needs to add value to my life by cooking for me, helping me study something, offering to do the dishes after we cook together, plan a date at least every now and then. Communicate. A girl needs to be able to communicate her thoughts and emotions to me. I simply can't LTR a girl who can't do this. These are my big 3 I've realized recently. It helps if you wr…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 06:23 PM
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Meeting girls at clubs doesn't give you a big chance for rapport/trust and her girlfriends are always going to be an obstacle. I don't club a lot but I meet a lot of women and go on a lot of first dates. I always start at one place, go to another, and if she's touching my arm and showing signs, I'll invite her back to my place. If she clearly still wants more rapport/trust, I'll take her to another place, then invite her to my place. I always just say, "hey let's continue this on my balcony." Ma…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 06:19 PM
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Jesus most people answering questions here seem borderline retarded. People take joking, AA, and pressure flips way to seriously and appear to do it too often. Not everything a girl does or asks is a shit test that requires a smart ass response. When a girl asks me this question, I'm honest. "I'm dating without any expectations, but I want to meet a fun girl, make a connection with her, and see where it goes." Or if I know the girl is for sure on the prowl for a relationship I'll say, "I want to…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 12:07 AM
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You've met her once, you have no idea who she is or what she's about yet.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:34 AM
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She's may or may not be scared of commitment, but it doesn't apply in your case regardless. You aren't fucking her or dating her in any way. At this point, she is nothing. Words of advice, don't text for the sake of texting, especially if you haven't fucked the girl. Don't do group dates. Have a one on one date close to your house (logistics). If she doesn't want to meet up, move onto the next one and stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 11:43 PM
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I've been trying to master this one for a long time and specifically concentrating on this part of my game. First dates, getting laid, and keeping plates are easy, but keeping a quality woman around long term that I have feelings for has been my sticking point of mine. Emotions really fuck us men up. I've come to the conclusion that affection is not a bad thing, however, the girl needs to initiate it. If the girl reaches for you hand, hold it back. If the girl fucks your brains out, cuddle the s…
/r/askTRP07/05/19 11:22 PM
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Stop thinking everything that comes out of a girl's mouth is a test. You're trying to give a witty answer to something that doesn't require it. She just wants to hang dude, be the man and set up a date.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:07 PM
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This was a great read. There is a fine line between your approach here and mate guarding so this one is a bit difficult to fully understand exactly how and when to apply.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:08 AM
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How old are you? Have you traveled, do you have a couple of things you're super passionate about? Why don't you have many guy friends? Experiences give you stories and more knowledge about random shit. Experiences give you more opportunities to relate to people. Obtain more experiences to give you cool shit to talk about and relate to people with. You should not expect your girl to force your way into dialogue. Sure it's cool if a girl can do that, but you shouldn't expect it. She wants to see y…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:00 AM
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It just means that this is her main source of validation. Does she have any hobbies or passions?
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:47 AM
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Does your plate ever text you shit like "how is your day going?" or send a random meme or whatever the kids do these days. Or does she straight up never initiate contact?
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:46 AM
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If she'll hang out and see you on the side while already in a relationship, she will do the same to you at some point. There are two types of women, ones with morals/ethics and ones without. She has showed who she is as a person when she branch swung to you while in a relationship. She may be sexy, submissive, and sweet, and it hurts to hear this, but she is not LTR material.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 11:50 PM
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Maybe you're acting too much like you're in a relationship without being in one. Maybe the girl is just shy; I had a long term plate for over 2 years and when I moved and ended things, she told me all she ever wanted was to call me her boyfriend. Maybe the girl just doesn't want one. Who knows man, I don't know the details. But the key is to not portray you want commitment. You want to portray you love spending time with the girl, love getting to know her, but give the vibe that you're not rushi…
/r/askTRP04/05/19 05:47 AM
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No but committment needs to be the woman's idea, not yours. You can portray you want committment in many more ways than overtly saying it. So never talk about the future unless the girl brings it up, never mention you want to be exclusive unless the girl brings it up. Wanting it isn't blue pill, but expressing it before the girl does is.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:00 PM
2

Read 3% Man by Cory Wayne. Here's a few of my takeaways, definitely read it yourself. Don't put up with her shit. If she does something disrespectful, you may feel like you don't want to stir the pot and let it slide, don't do this. She needs to know you're a man with options who's willing to call her out if she's late, call her out if she says something rude in a non-joking manner. You need to let her text and call you 70%-80% of the time. If she is really into you, you can literally let her in…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 05:26 AM
55

What more people need to understand is that it takes a lot for a girl to be relationship material and most girls won't make the cut. This girl makes you feel good so you choose to ignore obvious red flags. If you took your feelings away and looked at this logically, you'd know something wasn't right.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 05:21 AM
1

"No, but feel free to give it to me and I'll reach out when you do." Then make her ass wait a few days. She other gives you the number or she doesn't, who cares.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:00 AM
9

BJJ is a ton of fun and challenging, but many people have said that already. You can also try muy thai; a good friend of mine started it at age 35 and has been doing it a few years now and loves it. It gives me a little extra purpose, which we all need more of in life. You don't need to do a martial art to gain confidence, I also started salsa dancing and it's a ton of fun, plus it's a great opportunity to be surrounded by new people, both men and women. Dancing, talking, and maybe even having s…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:53 AM
1

I used to years ago when I would seek IOIs from women as a form of personal validation. If you are living a life trying to obtain validation from random women, you are not getting enough validation out of your daily activities, hobbies, passions. There is a reason everyone preaches to find your purpose, live your own life. It's so you won't get butt hurt about a random girl not providing validation for you.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:49 AM
1

No, the girl isn't invested in you if you haven't fucked. Dread will only work if she has any kind of investment to lose.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:47 AM
16

Money doesn't mean shit for true, genuine attraction. As long as your well put together (well fitting clothes, trimmed nails, nice hair cut) and have your own life not depended on the validation from women, then that's all you need. Use the money to raise your SMV by getting more frequent hair cuts, get better fitting clothes, lift more, eat better, and do fun shit BECAUSE YOU WANT TO. Live your life for yourself while at the same time doing the things you can to better yourself.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:45 AM
5

2 months in she should be doing 70-80% of the reaching out to you. Sounds like you're texting for the sake of texting too much, not giving her a chance to miss you, and not giving her a chance to pursue you. This is giving her tons of validation. Give her some god damn space to miss you and don't let it get to your head. 2 or 3 days not talking is really not a big deal at all, especially if you're not in a relationship. But even if you were, as long as she's meeting up with you and feminine when…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:41 AM
0

You're way over analyzing this. "ALPHAS GO FOR THE FIRST KISS WITHIN TWO HOURS. GO FOR WHAT YOU WANT. FUCK CHEEK KISSES." Watch this and open your eyes. I go for the kiss only if she's occasionally touching my arm. I look at her lips and into her eyes and if she does the same, the kiss is a lock. If it's not, don't stress about needing to kiss her. Going for the cheek kiss will leave her wondering, "every guy tries to kiss me on the first date, why did he end with a cheek kiss? Does he not like …
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:18 PM
2

"We're not dating anymore and I'm not looking for instagram friends." I've said this in a few comments this week, regardless of what a girl says, if she's reaching out many weeks or months later, assume she wants to see you, but don't become text friends. She probably doesn't really care about the instagram thing, but it's a good, safe text opener for her to send you to let you know she's thinking about you. If you want to see her again, send a couple back and forth messages, then say something …
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:07 PM
5

Sometimes a girl will reject a kiss just to see how you react. Sometimes they reject because they're not ready. Acting butthurt is the worst way to go about it. Next time, don't acknowledge she rejected you and continue the date as normal. I met a girl a few weeks ago, she rejected my first kiss, and the date continued for another couple hours. At the end of the night, I kissed her on the cheek and said good bye. She texted me a few days later, I set up another date, and this time there was zero…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:02 PM
1

Wait a week and try again. I literally just did this a few minutes ago to a girl who didn't reply to me, waited 6 days and just sent some stupid/funny happy friday meme and she just replied. A make out at a party really doesn't mean much to a girl so don't think she was invested just because of that.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:39 PM
2

To a women, unless she's a gold digger, it doesn't matter if you're wearing sale items from Jcrew or a $5,000 sports coat. Like you said, fit and style is the most important thing, which can be had for cheap.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 10:24 PM
3

The thing about lifting is it opens more doors for you. You can be the most charming, confident mother fucker in the world, but if you're 5'-6" and 115 pounds, no doors will ever open for you to be able to show your charming, confident self. Being bigger than others has an automatic, innate respect that is given from both men and women. It's purely subconscious, but it's there. Lifting, putting on size, and looking good is one of the keys to opening doors. Once the doors start opening, this is w…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 10:22 PM
1

I used to care deeply about my LTRs pasts when I was in my early 20's. After dating and having sex way more than early 20's me ever imagined, I realized that the past doesn't mean shit. If it does bother you, simply don't LTR a girl who used to be a slut. It's ok to have this standard. The only way this is a problem is if you don't have many options and jump at the first girl who wants to lock you down. You sound a lot like early 20's me.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:40 AM
4

I sometimes watch instagram stories of people I haven't talked to since high school. This literally means nothing.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:37 AM
2

Stop smoking weed and you'll quickly realize you have way more free time than you think you do. You'll be bored for a bit, then realize you don't like being bored, and quickly start hitting the gym more, playing guitar more, hiking more. You're bored because you're boring. The only way to not be boring is to gain more experiences. It all starts with not smoking weed. Trust me brother, I've been there and speaking from experience. Alternatively, I was fed up with my job, so I quit and moved abroa…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:35 AM
4

Are you building enough rapport? All of my no's and maybe's have been when there hasn't been enough rapport built. If I'm 50/50 about a girl, I'll stick to texting 4 or 5 messages on text/whatsapp after I get her number. I usually leave her hanging after asking a question and respond to her answer the next day, then invite her somewhere. Mind you, most of these messages are boring and building rapport/trust since I've already established I'm a fun, interesting guy on the app. This seems to work …
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:29 AM
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I have sleep apnea and sleep with a cpap. Literally no girl has ever thought less of me for it. They will only think less of you if you think less of yourself because of it. After i've fucked a girl (not directly after), ill put my cpap mask on and pretend to be darth vader or a fighter pilot. They laugh and it is no big deal.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:45 AM
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I've found that the problem with "forcing" dread and being unavailable is that if you do this, it's often coming from a place of bitterness so when you finally do reach out again after being "unavailable", it comes across a little bitter since you may still try to be short and indifferent in your responses. You were already short and indifferent when you weren't responding so there is no need to double dip. Sometimes it's a good thing to act unavailable, but the key is to not be bitter when you …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 07:30 PM
2

Agree and amplify or pressure flip. By pressure flip I mean, "well at least their not as dumb as blondes, brunettes, artists" (whatever she is... saying with a smile on your face.) I personally like to say these types of things with a cold stone straight face, then after seeing her get mildly upset, I start laughing. If she for some reason gets really upset, I give her a hug (push, pull). These are the out in the open, 100% obvious shit tests that are the easiest of shit tests to pass. This is t…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:59 PM
2

No, you handed it well and she most likely gained more respect for you as a person and for your time. If she acts upset or butthurt, it's a test to see if you'll cave to her. You made plans and stuck to them, you handled it well.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:57 PM
1

If you are just starting dating a girl (not in LTR) or a place, you shouldn't care enough to get to the point of anger and passive aggressive behavior. If you are, you are investing too much too soon. If she is your LTR, and the thing your mad about is a valid reason, you talk to her. If she responds well, she's worthy of continuing to be your LTR. If she responds negatively, she won't be a good LTR now or in the future.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:56 PM
3

If a girl pulls away, you pull away. She either comes back, or she doesn't. Yes, it hurt sometimes, but don't waste your time on a girl who doesn't value you. I am learning this one the hard way. Chasing will only push her away if she's started pulling away already. 9/10 times if you don't chase, she'll reach out in a week or two.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:51 PM
2

There's no problem listening to a girl's problems and being her rock, but you only do this as a reward for fucking you. If a girl tries to tell me her problems on a first or second date prior to fucking, I tell her that I'm here to have fun and get to know her. Of course, if she complains for two minutes and changes the subject, it's no big deal. But if she won't shut up, that's when I tell her this. After she's invested a bit and showed that she is a girl you want to keep around, there is no pr…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:49 PM
1

I'm done contacting her. I'm also still learning Colombian girls a bit and spotting the subtle differences. What confused me is that she did almost zero shit testing prior to this so I wasn't prepared at all. Now I know. Do you have experience with Colombian women? What are some differences you've noticed?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:45 PM
1

You're absolutely right. I was writing this to hopefully help others realize my mistake. Frame is much more than getting upset and being able to tease a girl when she tests. Frame is equally about valuing your own time, attention, and validation. Only providing it when she is sweet, loving, and saying FUCK YES to see you. When she starts backing away, it's most likely a test to see how you'll respond. I've showed zero ounce of neediness for two whole months and I think she decided after our long…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:43 PM
1

She did everything sexually which is all part of the green flag list. Since she never shit tested me, I start backing away on the backhanded compliments which is definitely something I could have done every now and then to make her want to go the extra mile even more. I've never had a girl so submissive and shit test almost never so I may have gotten complacent in some things. I was going to do the trip anyways so it wasn't a big financial burden to bring her along. For reference, I'm living in …
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:33 AM
2

Make definite plans and wait. If she contacts you, don't be cold, but be short. Talking is for dates. Sometimes you can talk her out of the date if you talk too much. Definitely don't be the one reaching out. If she asks why you didn't text in between, just say you've been busy and excited to hang out.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 10:31 PM
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ignore her for a few days if she's still texting. ignore for a bit longer if her texts go cold. Then reach out and invite her over like nothing happened. She'll get the hint through your actions and you won't even need to have a formal talk.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:07 AM
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If you don't want her back in your life, simply be short and cordial. If you do want her back, assume she wants to see you, send a couple messages back and forth then say, "hey baby (or whatever other name you used to call her), great to hear from you, we should get together what's your schedule looking like this week." She could be reaching out for a variety of reasons. Maybe she just got out of a relationship or stopped dating someone and she misses you, or maybe she does want attention. Using…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:40 PM
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You need to have them invested a bit already. This will most likely not work after a date or two unless she had really high interest after the short time. That type of interest usually takes a bit more time than a date or two. Usually.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 06:46 PM
1

40 hours is not a lot. You still have plenty of free time. I used to work 55 hrs/wk with a one hour commute each way. 40 hours gives you more than enough free time.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:04 AM
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Yes, i learned I only like to be on the receiving end of deep throating. This is 1. Hella funny 2. Shows her comment didn't phase you 3. If she can't deep throat, she might feel a little insecure 4. Continues the sexual talk
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:00 AM
2

I needed that link thanks.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:46 AM
4

Many men who are extremely competent at their job, especially in senior positions, will be very confident and dominant at work and will be an alpha, but only in a work context. But if you take many of these men out of the situation where they they gain their 'contextual alphaness', such as dating someone not in their industry, they will be as beta as anyone.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:22 AM
2

I like this response, most people regurgitate the same, "dread, fuck more women, she's branch swinging" like their reading a script when girls will often pull back for other reasons. Only OP will know the truth as we can't possibly figure it out with a few sentences but this perspective can be true for many people right meow.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:41 AM
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I traveled at 21, got a great job, worked my ass off for years to save money and build a resume, and I'm now traveling again at 30. I am fortunate to have a job that is in high demand so it won't be a problem to get a good job when I decide to go back home. Earning money is a grind and that grind will always be an option. I value experiences tremendously so to me, traveling is 100% worth it. It all depends what your goals and priorities are. Choosing any path requires sacrifices. When you turn 3…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 10:50 PM
1

If you want people to take your opinions seriously, you need to learn a little bit of tact and to put your ego aside.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:04 AM
2

You are the only one in this thread who made a typo and had to edit their comment, all while calling me a retard. Ponder that one for a moment.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:49 AM
3

I'll try to find that post because it describes the situation perfectly.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:31 PM
2

FWB is above a plate and below an LTR, but still has a time/energy commitment involved.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:30 PM
1

You'll be a lonely as fuck "improved" nerdy game developer. You do you if that's how you view your future.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:59 PM
1

I dated a girl for 2 1/2 years and she never asked for an ltr. She was a good girl and very consistent. I eventually started feeling bad for her and ended things so she can move on and try to find someone who wanted more. She ended up telling me she wanted an ltr the whole time but was too scared to bring it up. If you want an ltr with this girl, given all I've read, I'd go against typical redpill advice and bring it up yourself. She sounds a lot like my former longterm plate and she would have …
/r/askTRP29/03/19 03:04 PM
5

Cut? Abs? Summerbulk2019
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:09 AM
1

You do you my man.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:37 AM
1

Your anger and hopelessness are oozing out of you. You will either choose to be an incel or swallow the red pill. Those paths are entirely different, but the choice is yours.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:02 AM
1

You're in the anger phase. Eventually, if you choose to stay on this path, gain more female experience, and gros more as a man, you will learn to accept male/female dynamics at face value. You'll understand that this is nature and it simply is what it is. You'll be able to live your life while knowing and accepting the rules. I love women, I love their feminine energy, their lust, their emotions, their smell, their submissiveness. But I understand it's most likely temporary and if the dominoes f…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:45 PM
2

3) You need to learn how to feel your body, feel the iron, and keep strict form. To add to this. As soon as you enter the gym, drop your fucking ego at the door. Don't try to be a hero with weight. "Bro I benched 225 yesterday." Yes, but your form was fucking garbage and that lift did absolutely nothing for you to gain muscle. It's important for veterans and especially important for beginners to drop the weight and concentrate on making that mind muscle connection to obtain proper form. If aesth…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 02:49 AM
1

My first walking move is to extend my elbow out as an invitation for her to link my arm. It's a pretty harmless move but one of the best compliance tests for me.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:28 PM
7

Your grandmother sounds like a great role model! There is nothing wrong with the traditional relationship, and especially with the older generation, I don't think the traditional relationship knows any party lines. The unfortunate thing about 2019 is that 3rd wave feminism teaches girls and women that "you don't need no man" and that full independence is where it's at. As you're learning, it's nice to be independent in your 20's and 30's, but as you get older and can no longer live the "girls ju…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 07:57 PM
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Men are not better than women, but men and women are certainly different. 90% of women are in nursing, there are far more women than men who are teachers. Men dominate engineering and construction. This isn't a bad thing that we are different, in fact these differences should be embraced and celebrated. The same is true in relationships. Men and women each bring a different aspect to a relationship, equally important. If someone thinks men and women are equal in every way, there is a masculine w…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 04:58 PM
6

What's stopping you from doing MMA or any style of martial art, joining an indoor rock climbing gym, going on a hike via meetup.com, joining a book club, a knitting club, literally any club with people, volunteering? All of this can be done with less than 1 hour to spare for just a few days a week. If your day job doesn't force you to socialize, being proactive to put yourself into social situations is key. There are literally thousands of social opportunities that have nothing to do with cold a…
/r/seduction15/11/17 07:44 PM
8

Every poster is discussing hypergamy while in a relationship, which needs to be brought up. Now let's talk about it from a dating or ONS perspective. Following hypergamy means you'll fuck high value men. This does not mean high value men will commit to you. Many women don't understand this. Proceed at your own risk.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 07:18 PM
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Introverted and shy are not the same thing. Many people like to use their introvertness as a crutch/excuse to not put in the effort and boldness required to get out of their comfort zone. It sounds like you are taking the steps to overcome your shyness. Great work!
/r/seduction05/03/17 08:40 PM
3

Yes.
/r/seduction20/02/17 10:28 PM
2

Mixing it up between lighter and heavier days is key. High reps with absolutely PERFECT form is the one people need to start incorporating more often than not to see muscle growth.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 08:51 PM
7

"You'd be a great person to settle with after my looks have faded and the Chads no longer wanted me to guzzle their cum."
/r/askTRP09/01/17 12:51 AM
1

Been dating here for 3 years. 1) Gender ratio is screwed to a woman's favor 2) This is a very feminist city and as such, there are loads of women riding the cock carousel and it's pretty socially acceptable. Not many women are seeking anything longterm; mixed with almost zero social accountability. This means that women's standards are sky high. 3) Lots of career focused women with even more career focused, successful men. 4) Logistically getting from point A to point B can be a pain. Few people…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 10:43 PM
3

Different strokes for different folks.
/r/seduction17/12/16 11:31 PM
4

Be ok with silences. Don't try to fill every lull in conversation. Lightly tease her on occasion. Ask a couple questions that get her to qualify herself. If you ask her if she can cook and she says no. Don't be afraid to show a slight look of disappointment and say "that's too bad". Odds are after a bit of a pause, she'll begin to tell you the dishes she can cook and she'll begin qualifying herself. Remember, not only is she seeing if you are worthy of her time, you are also doing the same with …
/r/seduction17/12/16 10:41 PM
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Username doesn't checkout.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 08:31 PM
2

I'm a little late to this party, but this thread is interesting to me and feel I must reply. I'm 28 for reference and have dated 18-34 in the past year. When men talk about the wall, they are talking in generalities. Percentage wise, I am attracted to much more 21 year old women than I am 28 year old women. But this reason is exactly what onacasserole is referring to above. 21 year olds don't have to try as hard to maintain their looks. It comes more natural at that age. 30 year olds can DEFINIT…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 09:48 PM
2

I agree with other posters. Hard to help without specifics. He can very well be giving rude backhanded compliments. Or he may be lightly teasing and you are taking it the wrong way.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 09:25 PM
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To me, a high n-count woman shows that she falls in either of the two categories: 1) She isn't the type to get into committed relationships. If she didn't want commitment when she was younger, why would she suddenly want REAL commitment now? Hitting the wall causes women to think they want commitment, but it's out of fear instead of genuine desire. 2) She doesn't vet her men well enough and sleeps with many men who aren't looking for commitment. This type of girl may have extremely high standard…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 09:15 PM
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It seems to me you don't fully understand what dread is. Dread isn't about openly flirting with women and constantly trying to put your SO on edge. There is a great post called "The 12 stages of dread" that I suggest you read if you would like to see this from another perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 06:22 PM
3

When women get into question asking mode, I'll be vague so they ask follow up questions (more investment). Girl: "where are you from?" Me: "West coast" Girl: "well where on west coast?!" Me: "the most liberal state ever" Girl: "grrrr... California?" Me: "excellent guess!" followed up by a big hug Or I like to force them to guess. Girl: "what's your ethnicity?" Me: "guess" Girl: "ummmm... uhhhh... I don't know!" Me: "you gave up before trying. guess!" Girl: "itlaian!" (usually at this point they …
/r/seduction08/12/16 11:12 PM
2

He needs a routine. Whether it's a part time job, a non-stressful full time job, volunteering, or finding hobbies. He needs a routine. It's easy to get trapped in the lazy mindset if money isn't a concern. You can guide him, but ultimately it's on him in the end. Tell him you still care about him and want to be with him, but his laziness and lack of discipline are turning you off. Give him a copy of NMMNG and tell him to read it in full. If that doesn't kick start his drive, then you may be out …
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:48 PM
1

Do taxi's, uber, or lift not exist in your area?
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:59 AM
1

the only thing I'm hearing from you is you are scared to approach. you are scared to line a girl up to hang it for an evening. you are scared to make a move. women like men with balls. men who will go up and say hi. men who will get a phone number or instadate. if you see a cute girl and don't talk to her, you are telling yourself on some level that you don't want to talk to her and you are lying to yourself. women like men who don't lie to themselves.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 07:45 PM
3

She's teasing. tell her she's just a child and your the boss. say it stern and loud. This happened just a few days ago to me. The second I said that, her submissive side began to show.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 07:40 PM
6

You're not a lost cause for an LTR, but at age 25, you need to implement changes now and consistently. You need to stop going to bars often, stop partying often, get off Tinder, and start learning how to be a feminine woman. That is the only way you will find a high value man. Because you've been with so many men, you're pair bonding hormones won't be as strong with a new man. This is all the more reason why you need to put the work in and not give into temptation when it arises. Go over to redp…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 10:43 PM
2

Once you're 30 and your youth is fading, you will be left with a sagging ass and hatred for men because they won't be attracted to you anymore.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 10:25 PM
1

Women will attempt to pull other women down in order to socially pull themselves up. You're competition. If a few whispers about you can lessen you as competition, you better believe they will do so. As for exchanging numbers with men and being let down they all view you romantically. Well, that is how the male/female dynamic works. You can't expect to meet a man, get his number, and have a new gay best friend for the next couple years. That is just silly. Best case scenario, you get a "male fri…
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:21 PM
4

Levis 541; bonobos athletic fit; jcrew bowery and urban slim; and hear out on this one, lululemon commision or abc pant.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 06:01 AM
6

Bakersfield wants to have a conversation regarding who owns that nick name.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:35 PM
1

Love this post. I want to add that how much you lift is not directly correlated with how you will look. Obviously, as GayLubeOil mentioned, genetics are a big part of it. However, form is by and large more important than how much weight you are lifting. The one greatest thing that helped my overall physique was throwing my ego out the door, dropping the weight, and concentrating on as perfect form as I can manage. A large problem I see in the gym is people trying so hard to impress their friends…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 10:05 PM
2

The trades are a great career to get into. Location is a huge part of job availability and pay. Where I"m at, there are countless opportunities for electricians, plumbers, sheet metal HVAC, or even drywall. Assuming you get your certs and into a union, I'd say electricians have it best. They make a ton of money, often work 6:00 AM to 2:00 PM. When they do work OT, it's just that much more money in the bank. Some companies will even pay your way through the journeyman classes once you start. Mind…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 04:44 PM
2

This is great. Update us on your progress.
/r/seduction08/06/16 06:52 AM
1

It sounded more like an inconvenience rather than a red flag.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 07:37 PM
1

What others have been saying. Pay attention to their actions and not their words. I had a girl once tell me she prefers her men to have muscles from being a lumber jack or doing construction. Later that same day while having sex, she couldn't get her hands off my arms and chest. ACTIONS>words. People at TRP don't preach this for fun. It is literally that simple and that true. Do you have any idea how many women tell me they don't like ass holes. Do you have any idea how many women have called me…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 06:11 AM
1

I wouldn't say they fuck better. Let's not try to throw an unnecessary humble brag out there with that one. I've dated a girl for about a half year who's core friends were gay guys. She was a lovely girl, but one of those "OMG I hate drama so much" kind of girls who lived and breathed discussing drama and it annoyed the hell out of me. She was faithful and a fun girl, but she was constantly involved with discussing other people's lives and did a lot of shit talking and complaining about people. …
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:48 PM
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TRP has a main message of not getting married. You are absolutely correct. There are also MANY posts with a theme discussing marriage and that if you decide to do it, here's how to be as successful as possible. Go search in that sub and see for yourself. The main message for RPW is how to find a high value man and get married. This will continue to be the main message. However, some women may have a different goal. You don't have to agree with it, but you certainly don't get to play dictator and…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/16 05:20 AM
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ask her how women wearing makeup is any different. they are enhancing their traits that men have evolved to be attracted to. what's wrong with a man enhancing his traits that women have evolved to be attracted to? on the same token, discussing this topic will rarely lead to any good.if it happens, please send an update.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 04:19 PM
1

Why the german crest in particular?
/r/askTRP26/03/16 04:19 AM
2

thanks for your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 03:38 PM
7

Is this a joke? Do you honestly think this is a valid argument? gainzndemez said that Tinder fulfills his goals better than an animal shelter. Why does this bother you? It's his life and he can do as he pleases. Why would you take a simple statement and twist the words to fit your narrative? Why do you care so much about what he or any redpiller chooses to do with their life? I'm a SF Giants fan and this would be like me spending my free time on the LA Dodgers subreddit discussing why they are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 05:21 AM
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Where there is popularity, there has always been and will always be people who will try to make a buck out of it. You named three people who are making money/trying to make money out of it. You can say the same for any author of a feminist book, the super bowl, bowling, cow herding. Point is, this is capitalism. If I asked you to name ANY thing at all with popularity that does not have somebody making money from it; you literally wouldn't be able to name a thing. Why should TRP be singled out?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 03:11 AM
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In my experience, it doesn't matter. Some women may shit test you by saying they don't like hairy chests or they don't like non-hairy chests. However, they would have shit test anything in that situation so don't dwell too much into it. I go back in forth between shaving and letting it grow. I'm currently in my lazy/full hair on chest phase and will probably shave it in a couple weeks. I like to mix it up.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 08:10 PM
7

To do our taxes together.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:18 PM
1

Can you elaborate how a first date typically goes for you. If she keeps asking direct questions, will you deflect everything with a, "I'm a pole dancer" vibe? How much do you actually reveal about yourself. What's your ratio of her talking to you talking? Are you asking questions and being vague when she asks you questions? Being more mysterious is something I need to work on for first dates specifically.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 11:02 PM
1

Are you in an LTR? How old are you two? How long have you been together? We have no context to help you out.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 09:22 PM
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No. The thing about an alpha widow is that the guy didn't even have to be that alpha. The fact is, she'll only remember his alpha qualities when she reflects back. That is what makes him an alpha to her. It's like a TV show you loved when you were a child. You have fond memories of it, enjoy talking about it, and remember how awesome it was. If you watched that show 15 years later... you'd probably think it's lame. That is a big reason an alpha widow is an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:54 PM
1

Been in that situation twice. "We're just friends." "He treated me badly and there are no feelings." It's all bull shit. She's an alpha widow holding on to any attention from him that she is capable of getting. An alpha widow means she'll only value you if you are your A game all the time. If you slip once, if you lose frame once; she'll think about how her ex never lost frame and you're fucked. You're in a lose-lose situation. At this point in my life, knowing what I know; I would never LTR a w…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:38 PM
1

Shame her to get pictures? Maybe if you're 14 years old. I once told her a girl she has a very vanilla demeanor and is most likely a missionary only girl. She didn't react to it and thought it didn't affect her much. She rode me nice and hard a couple hours later. As she was walking me out of her place to the elevator, she said, "how vanilla was that?!".
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:27 PM
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You told her to leave and pulled her back in. That is the exact opposite of holding frame. I've had performance anxiety a few times and as long as you hold frame, it's not that big of a deal. Losing frame is what lost her.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:23 PM
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Classic agree and amplify. Someone has being doing his homework.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:47 PM
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Men pay attention to hot women and women chase Chad. This is obvious. The issue is that blue pill men and women don't want to believe this as fact and because reality is not matching their belief, it makes them angry at the other gender. Or angry at another group simply because they choose to change their paradigm and accept reality for what it is. I chase women I find attractive and I have accepted that women chase Chad. The whole idea of theredpill, for both men and women is to learn how to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 05:32 AM
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Thanks for sharing your opinion and truly contributing to this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 05:26 AM
3

When I lived in Germany, my dating pool options opened up SIGNIFICANTLY because more women my age had a healthy BMI when compared to their american counterparts. 100% agree with your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 04:48 AM
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Respond with, "I'm disappointed with you" and go no contact for a few days. Don't answer her phone calls. Don't even with with a short, "k" text. You are disappointed with her and it's the truth. Letting her know will not put you in a weak position. Letting her know this while still validating her is putting you in a weak position. If she knows you're disappointed with her and knows you're willing to walk when she acts like this, then she won't be doing it again. Her hamster will go from, "lol t…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 12:34 AM
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Every red piller (read: person) has his/her own desire. Some want to casually date and sleep with multiple women and some want to find that special someone to marry. Blue pillers talk about how red pillers lump all women into one category, however, blue pillers are the absolute hypocrites who lump all red pillers into one group. With that being said, I'm casually dating two people right now. I'm honest with both of them and treat them both really good when we are together and they both truly enj…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 08:11 PM
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Do you notice a difference in POF and Tinder in regards to how attractive the receptive women are? I only use Tinder and am curious what the differences in women are and if I should start to open my options in other dating sites/apps.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 08:58 PM
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She's testing to see if you'll change how you act and change who you are so easily. If you think, "oh gee golly this girl wants me to text more. I should definitely text more"... she'll dry up. Eventually she'll get turned off you're texting her for pointless shit and she'll stop replying to your texts. You'll then get angry and think, "but why did she tell me she wants me to text more if she's just going to take 4 hours to reply?? why oh why?" She likes you already for doing whatever it is you'…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:56 AM
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If you were ejaculating in a different equally attractive woman's mouth... I guarantee you would not have these thoughts. These thoughts come when you feel she is your best shot at sex and those thoughts are normal when you don't have other options. Go find other options.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:49 AM
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Stop looking at porn. Porn will change your perception of reality and make you less motivated to go find a real woman. When you beat off to porn, your brain thinks you just fucked a cream of the crop woman. Would you rather temporarily let your brain think it happened or would you rather do it? I personally haven't fapped in about 4 months, but I think OCCASIONALLY it's ok. /Nofap has some good information mixed in with some really strange shit. Check it out.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 07:47 PM
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False. Men and women both have value, but they are different. Thinking men and women have the same characteristics to be valued is silly. The Red Pill preaches what it takes to get the most value out of your specific gender. This is for both /theredpill and /redpillwomen. The reason why you have a negative perception of the red pill is because you are concentrating on a small handful of people with morals you do not agree with. The red pill is a group with nice people, mean people, skinny people…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:47 AM
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Do you think women are truly that afraid of rejection? Genuine question. I think I've fucked up so many different opportunities with women because I don't fully understand how afraid women are of rejection.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:38 AM
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Here's the deal. If a kid starts playing baseball at age 4, by the time he's 18 he'll probably be pretty damn good. If another guy starts playing baseball at age 18, he can still become really good, but it'll happen later in life. The only difference between the two is that one had the tools and experience at his disposal earlier in life while the other got the tools and experience later in life. By the time they are both 25 years old and are both excelling at the sport, then they will both be c…
/r/askTRP19/12/15 08:38 PM
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A "nice to meet you" text should end there. You just chatted with her for a half hour and there is no need to have text conversation immediately after. Don't take it personal that she didn't respond. It literally means nothing. Your next step is to see her again by sending a text saying, "hey I'm doing X and would like for you to join me". I've lost solid women by taking texting too personal in the past. There is a reason most people on this sub say to text for logistics only.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:50 AM
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This hits so close too close to home for me. My last LTR where I can legitimately say I cared about her was terrible. I cared so much and invested so much that I would question her when she went out with her friends and then she started talking to her ex bf while with me and I lost my shit. As beta an experience as ever. Then my following "LTR" was the polar opposite. I say that in quotation marks because I just lost my ability to fully care about a woman after the previous relationship. I would…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 04:40 AM
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If you're gonna get jiggy, cover Mr. Piggy.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 10:40 PM
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I believe your analysis is spot on. Only thing to add is that shit tests are designed to subconsciously test ones ability to be a man and maintain frame. They are not designed to test ones ability to be a good father or a good partner. That part is a conscious effort for you to figure out by getting to know him and not testing him.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 08:47 PM
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I think you can turn this whole response into a post that would help a lot of people, including me. I think I sometimes continue the "not being needy" thing to an extreme when somebody is already into me, which can mean that some women aren't getting any validation from me and they lose interest. I also may do too much kino on first dates. It's always reciprocated, but it never leaves room for sexual tension and suspense. Please do a full post on these topics.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:34 PM
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Shit test example with a pass and a fail response: Example 1: (Failed Shit Test) makeway89: you are going to choose my doctor? you're such a douche bag. Boyfriend: why the fuck are you calling me a douche bag? rabble rabble rabble here is why you are wrong rabble rabble (followed by an argument and your panties turning dry) Example 2: (Passed Shit Test) makeway89: you are going to choose my doctor? you're such a douche bag. Boyfriend: why thank you. you're the 3rd person today to call me a douch…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:07 PM
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You are a shitty friend.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 06:40 PM
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I live in San Francisco and can comment on that. I find that the women who just recently moved to SF are much easier to get with. A 9 who has lived here for 2 months is much easier than a 7 who has been here for 3 years. Gender ratios are probably 55/45 and in some areas it's probably closer to 60/40 (thanks tech industry).
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 08:41 PM
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the reality is that the more alpha you try to be to impress a girl, the less alpha you are. Read up on abundance mentality because you are putting all your eggs into this basket and that is exactly what you are not supposed to do.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 12:31 AM
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I've been in your situation and there is nothing you can do. Hard next now with no contact will be hard. HOWEVER, getting deeper and deeper in this rabbit hole will hurt even more in 3 months or 6 months. When that pain comes, it'll be your own fault for not having enough standards and self respect to next this broad. edit: remember when you're ending things to not talk it through for "closure". She wants her ex and is leading you on for the validation you provide. She doesn't deserve an explana…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 11:36 PM
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Play it no different than usual. Just like any other woman, she'll either go for it or she won't.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 07:04 AM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 10:52 PM
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You and I probably take the same amount of time each morning pulling clothes from the closet and deciding what to wear. The only difference is that I put in the time to find clothes that work best for my body type and personal style. Lifting changes your appearance and internal confidence and takes a boat load of time and effort. Dressing nice changes your appearance and confidence and takes far less effort than lifting. If you are only going to do one of the two, your SMV will never reach it's …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 10:22 PM
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By telling you she's going, she has admitted first hand she does not respect you. There is nothing more to discuss. She already knows you don't agree with the situation and you won't be able to use logic to convince her to do or not do something. You know this girl isn't LTR material so stop treating her as such. She doesn't deserve your attention and affections any more.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 08:33 PM
1

She probably fucked a high SMV man at one point in her life and thinks she is capable of getting that kind of man to commit and now how unrealistic standards.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 08:21 PM
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When you watch and orgasm while watching porn, your brain literally thinks it just had sex. After a while, your brain knows it can "have sex" whenever it wants. After even more time, your brain will say, "holy shit, I don't even have to have a full hard on to get laid" and you'll be jerking it to a stiffy at half mass. Porn will make you not learn and experience how to talk with women. Porn will tell your brain you don't have to do shit about your SMV and will still "get laid". Quit porn and you…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:35 PM
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Can you elaborate what those reasons are? I'm in that situation now and am curious.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:10 AM
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Fuck no. Skipping a month means in one month, you will have lost a lot of your gains and your motivation will be depleted. One month is exactly how long it takes to to form a habit. You will have formed a habit of not going to the gym, which means to make the gym a habit again will take a lot of work. I find it hard to believe you can't spare one hour, 3 days a week. This is all you will need to maintain your gains. Bring flash cards to the gym and study in between sets. Get an audiobook and lis…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:39 AM
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5'-9", 29"-30" waist, 160 lbs naked, natural. I have so much added confidence knowing my body is above average. It's allowed me to STFU in some situations and not try to constantly impress people with my words like a dancing monkey. My goal is to keep the same body fat percentage and weigh 170. Started lifting when I was 19 and was lifting for strength for the following 3 years. I was much stronger then than I am now (27), but I didn't train legs at that time and my form wasn't as good. Now I co…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:34 PM
3

I'm just now figuring this out and I haven't come to terms with it yet. It's a weird paradigm I haven't fully accepted yet.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 04:21 AM
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Low T can result in loss of confidence, loss of sexual drive (which sucks because sexual drive is in my mind the leading factor in getting a girl interested). 500 calories a day? You need to see a doctor and ask what can be done about your low testosterone and you need to figure out a way to start eating better. Not sure if the two are related, but that is definitely not helping. Seek medical help on your low T and on healthy eating habits. This is not something we can fully help you with. Part …
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:37 PM
1

Never ever ask for a kiss. You need to be the man who leads and goes for it. Timing and gradual kino escalation are important for this. I can go into more detail if you'd like. Also, you are the one who sets the mood for the dates. If you are having fun, then she is having fun. If you are nervous and holding a slight case of resentment because she is not "opening up" enough, then she won't feel comfortable around you. YOU are the sole source of fun. You do things because you want to do them and …
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:51 PM
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you're making excuses. how many times have you been running errands and saw a gorgeous woman and thought, "man, that would be nice" and continued with your errands. how can you possibly say the 1 to 10 minutes it would take (depending how the interaction goes) to talk to her is time consuming? I just started doing this and totally get the excuses, but you must understand that they are indeed excuses. yes it's worth it.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:09 AM
1

I studied abroad in college. program was roughly a 50/50 gender mix. I wanted to travel and get some strange. the women wanted to travel and get some strange. I think you're over analyzing this.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:03 AM
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She was testing your frame. I jokingly call women "bro" and "man" on occasion and enjoy seeing their reactions. However, I do it in person and not over text. You can defend your frame much easier in person than over text. Plus, you shouldn't be texting "hey hows it going" in the first place just for the sake of starting a conversation. I'd suggest reading up on text game.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 06:06 PM
1

Having any purpose that is not your woman. Hunting has been that purpose for thousands of years, as you said. Now that we don't have to hunt, your primary role as a modern man, is having your number one purpose in life be anything that is not your woman. You can't fake your purpose. If you don't have a true passion in life, you need to find one. This passion can be weight lifting, however, lifting 3 days a week for 45 minutes is no passion. I only mention this so you don't fool yourself into thi…
/r/askTRP24/10/15 07:11 PM
3

I just had sex with a 27 year old virgin. You'd be surprised how inexperienced many women are.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 02:14 AM
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Porn is not real life and you should not expect it to be reality. She has probably never done it before and was most likely not a shit test.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 02:02 AM
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If you don't want to fuck her, you honestly shouldn't even be realizing you're being shit tested. When a woman shit tests you, regardless if you want to fuck her or not, you simply don't react. One thing I disagree with that everybody discusses on this subreddit is to be witty and amplify. You can go that method if it comes natural and say something like, "Chivalry died years ago. didn't you get the memo?" OR, if you're busy and really don't give a shit, just ignore. Assume that you opened the d…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 09:29 PM
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FYI: Construction workers can make a fuck ton of money. Especially if you're in upper management or in the union.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 07:30 PM
1

Can you write me one message every morning? My god.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 04:32 AM
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No clue what I just read, but please take my upvote.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 02:56 AM
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I was thinking this same thing. I wouldn't write a woman off for a LTR for having a high number count. I'd still use my judgement and my gut to determine if she is LTR material. A high number count may mean she doesn't possess the qualities I look for, but I am disregarding her for not having the qualities I look for and not her number count. Inversely, if she had a high number count and showed me loyalty, honesty, and values over a period of time... I would consider a LTR. I don't even ask a wo…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 06:01 PM
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That is what you believe the position and constitution to be. The overall message of the redpill is to live life the way you want to live and to ensure your needs are taken care of and that men and women have some needs that are different and don't overlap both genders. Anything more than that is somebody's opinion and in no way reflects the overall "constitution" of Theredpill. Christianity has its extremists. Islam has its extremists. Extremists exist and will always exist and you appear to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 01:24 AM
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You've missed my point entirely. Some people are angry and immature regardless of what they believe or which subreddit they subscribe to. You are generalizing and thinking, "I read this post and this one man said women are objects, therefor, all redpillers think women are objects and are cruel people." I'm not particularly fond of president Obama and many of the things he says and does, but that in no way means I am voting for Donald Trump. You are choosing to believe that every red piller is an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 01:06 AM
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Are you subscribed to something like /videos and watch every single video that somebody posts and do you like every video you see? Ah, you're human and appreciate the good bits while not caring about the bad bits. Do you like the United States of America, but dislike many aspects of the country? The way you are trying to get your point across is not helping your case. I consider myself a red piller, but that doesn't mean I have to agree with what some immature and angry people post. You need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 12:39 AM
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I know the feeling. I'm 27 and a few years out of college. Still have work to do, but my life has improved drastically over the past year after reading "No More Mr. Nice guy" and "Models". Upon finishing those books is where my paradigm shift began. I had no idea how beta and value sucking I was. I thought it was normal and what a woman truly wanted. Most of all my failed relationships were my fault. I had extreme oneitus. Here I am at 27 and have been in the actual dating game for about a year …
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:11 AM
2

Awkward can mean a few things. It can be a very uncomfortable situation. ie: "awkward silence". It can also be an adjective to describe a person who has traits that make other people feel uncomfortable when around him/her. Have you ever talked to someone and just felt uncomfortable talking to them and can't 100% explain why? An awkward moment can also be an embarrassing moment at the same time, which makes this an interesting question. Embarrassment is a feeling one has that can be described as …
/r/seduction19/09/15 01:44 AM
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'Peinlich' means embarrassing.
/r/seduction18/09/15 08:52 PM
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hahaha! The German stare always made me feel so uncomfortable. They don't stare for dominance. They stare because they are curious and don't feel uncomfortable with it. They'll stare for minutes at a time. To put it into perspective... there is no word for 'awkward' in the German language.
/r/seduction18/09/15 04:01 PM
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Living in Germany was where I started my going out and approaching often. It is tougher doing cold approaches, but day 2's are no different than anything else. They don't like anything that's not genuine. If you are coming across as fake or insincere, you won't get anywhere. Most of my pulls have been with german women who have traveled extensively and sort of broke the mold of german culture. Being in Berlin, a major city, I think you'll be fine in that regard. Besides, you have the foreigner a…
/r/seduction30/01/15 05:58 PM
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There's a barbershop in my area that is an extra 20 minute drive to go to, but it's well worth it. It's definitely got a hipster vibe to it, but the hair cuts are quality. I pay $25.00. They give out a shot of whiskey if you desire. Lived in this area for 6 months. Tried other shops, salons. Men: Go to a barbershop. Keep in mind, not all barbershops are created equal. Do your research.
/r/seduction09/11/14 05:42 PM
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