How rare is alpha behaviour these days?

Startlivingfornow · 2019-04-12T11:46:37+00:00

News flash: we live in a betafied society, where many men aren’t even getting laid and many of the ones that are are functioning in scarcity

BusterVadge · 2019-04-12T12:29:38+00:00

You're getting her side of the story. Many women will put up a facade of who they want you to see rather than who she really is. Pay attention to her actions, not her words.

KillaJewels · 2019-04-12T12:28:04+00:00

Very true. The things that sound good on paper (good job, makes good money, cultured, educated, good-looking) help on the social conditioning side but not the archaic "lizard brain" side. It helps getting your foot in the door, but if you act like a chode, you'll see your way out pretty quick.

We all grow up thinking the quintessential Chad is the one with the above listed qualities. When in fact, it's confidence and ability to maintain a steady hand even in high pressure situations that stokes attraction.

That said, girls are used to chodes in the same way guys are used to bitches. A lot of guys out there are used to bitches BECAUSE they are being chodes. Girls won't react well to the chode because she doesn't respect him.

thrownawayisland · 2019-04-12T16:14:47+00:00

Day game is my bread and butter and I noticed that pretty much every chick I approach (8's+) are totally shocked that a guy would approach them. Even at the gym yesterday. Every guy was checking out this hot chick from the corner of their eye, and I was the only one to approach.

I literally get called "bold" every day.

T-P-T-W-P · 2019-04-12T13:40:20+00:00

Have you seen any popular rom com movies? All these movie star alphas exhibit incredibly beta behavior (fighting for a woman’s affection, seeing her as “the one”, etc.). Beta behavior is ingrained in our culture. Hell, the first girl advice your mom probably gave you involved being super nice/friendly, and taking girls out to nice dinners on your dime. “Alpha” behavior is a tricky line now though. Of course you can act entirely in ways that we on this sub consider alpha and it work, as it regularly does. But now women have become so used to beta behavior as a norm -> men vying for their affection at all times, that not catering to this norm may have you lose out at times. For example, I banged a chick a couple weeks ago that was slightly above average and easily within my pull range, but her social/job status has a lot of men constantly laying at her feet. I offered none of the things she is offered daily outside of getting fucked. It happened, but as soon as she got a whiff that I wasn’t going to invest heavily in her, if really at all, she was out. Why? Because there is a large number of men, of varying value but almost entirely lower than I, that are willing to invest 100x the amount that I am. I don’t really give a fuck but it’s funny to me when girls who aren’t incredibly hot act like they own shit. Because honestly they kind of do in a way. Half the 6’s and 7’s around now have a bunch of beta weenies lined up, offering their undying love. It’s sad.

_iisu · 2019-04-12T16:32:45+00:00

On TRP, it's quite rare; on the rest of Internet – non-existent.

The truth is, nobody IRL gives a shit about 'alpha/beta' crap and they just live their lives, socialize, fuck girls, have fun. The only times I heard the term 'alpha' used outside the Internet was on National Geographic and in the calculus class.

ComplexProjection · 2019-04-12T15:51:01+00:00

Post and comments show lack of understanding the concept of alpha and beta. It’s a scale, a relative behavior. You are never alpha or beta, you are more alpha or more beta than... so there is as much alpha today than there always was: 20%, the top ones.

EnthuMotivInspir · 2019-04-12T15:54:19+00:00

I think another factor is the girls who get scooped up at a young age (18-22) were able to settle for more alpha type men, the ones in their vicinity. When you start seeing girls who date well into their 20s - 30s they're dealing with more and more scarcity minded men on average.

Bluepill men still get laid, I got laid when I was, but it was at the complete mercy of a girl randomly choosing one unattractive dude out of thousands.

All I can say is, "Be the change you want to see in the world"

BornOnMay3rd · 2019-04-12T11:13:56+00:00

Some girls keep getting hit on betas all the time that they have no idea Alphas even existed

frontyer0077 · 2019-04-12T10:52:06+00:00

Well it is uncommon for them, thats why it work so well. Thats also why every girl will call you an asshole when refusing to do some stupid shit fornthem, but gladly suck your dick some hours later.

Theyre used to beta attention, they get it all the time.

MarvelousWhale · 2019-04-12T19:26:06+00:00

Hasn't anyone even considered the fact that women fuck alphas at work and when they go back into the workplace they ignore eachother or even avoid eachother to keep appearances?

This could be one of the things going on here. I've experienced this first hand.

civilizedfrog · 2019-04-12T13:20:27+00:00

In the land of blue, the red is king.

TRP8myfeels · 2019-04-12T15:01:07+00:00

Pretty rare.

Control your environment with honor and strength. Be good to yourself but do not over give, do not throw yourself down at a woman's feet and she will rise up and walk with you feeling empowered and confident.

Make of yourself a king and princesses will flock to be your queen.

MCA_T · 2019-04-12T15:35:43+00:00

This is too true, see so many college/young girls choosing skinny, dweeby, girls jeans wearing beta pansies who are basically still 14 year olds in college/uni instead of alpha/manly guys.

Alot of young girls hate the masculine type of guy and just see them as bellends due to "lad culture" in the UK and feminism. people displaying alpha/masculine personalities are shunned.

yokohamalrasheid · 2019-04-12T16:41:44+00:00

You can't rely on a woman's word, if you believe me 😜 I have heard that from many .

VigilantSmartbomb · 2019-04-12T17:38:11+00:00

What does supplicating mean in this context?

boom_bostic · 2019-04-12T19:59:58+00:00

She’s telling you what she thinks you want to hear. Typical female behavior, honestly.

It’s in the same boat as “that’s the biggest dick I’ve ever had” or the infamous “you’re the first to ever make me cum during sex”. I personally cannot remember a girl that didn’t tell me these things.

It’s kind of women’s way of complementing you...even if it’s not entirely true.

Bottom line-I take it that she really likes you.

nross368 · 2019-04-12T21:09:06+00:00

She must make you feel realllllll good like a real alpha boi

rafaelvicuna4 · 2019-04-12T23:10:10+00:00

That's a result of society treating masculinity as toxic.

AWorseManThanYou · 2019-04-13T00:06:13+00:00

Yet another reminder that being alpha/beta is a different thing than just self improvement.

E9er · 2019-04-13T00:19:28+00:00

this is the essence of the REDPILL.. most guys are clueless and try and attract with toys, but lack substance. the red pill encourages you to build a solid foundation so you can shine on that. then any other toy is just an extra tool. girls WANT a bland guy with 10 toys, but NEEDS a guy with a personality and conversational skills.

pengistgeez · 2019-04-13T00:26:26+00:00

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SubstantialBeanBoi · 2019-04-13T01:34:17+00:00

agreed. its insane to me how rare it is (at least in my experience) to see a dude who is "good on paper" and is also a genuine alpha. What I see frequently is dudes that absolutely slay pussy but have jack shit to their name. Conversely, the guys "good on paper" are complete bitches and cannot struggle to get pussy. Its kind of frustrating

escapethesolarsystem · 2019-04-13T12:25:12+00:00

In America, it's about 99.9% beta. Not the same where I live, but America / UK / Canada / Australia are most beta cuck societies on Earth. Even American "alphas" and "chads" turn out to be fake once you get to know what's really going on with their life.

cheesemanwub · 2019-04-12T18:10:19+00:00

not rare at all

Title	How rare is alpha behaviour these days?
Author	Just1515
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Date	April 12, 2019 10:24 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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