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That makes no sense. Don't you masturbate even when you have a regular partner? Fleshlight is masturbation, people do it with or without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:57 AM
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most men try their whole lives to become exceptional, but never make it. If they could make it, it would not be exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:20 PM
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That’s funny because it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:15 AM
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I’ve had sex with more 20-25 yo girls when I was 35 than 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:39 PM
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I don't think most men are really trying to smash their female friends, just that they would if given the opportunity. You've summed it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:12 AM
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I have no idea what you are talking about. Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:47 PM
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Never said it was a problem. You've asked how women are not respecting tradition. I've answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:45 PM
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By going-out, clubbing, having sex before marriage, ... list is long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:34 PM
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In places where women have maternity leave, men also have paternity leave. Hiring a man is not a guarantee against losing an employee temporarily. Not really. Outside of Scandinavia, where paternity leave is as long as maternity and mandatory, paternity leave is generally a lot shorter. https://www.euronews.com/next/2022/02/18/where-in-europe-should-you-live-to-get-the-longest-paternity-leave Situation is getting better with time tho, but in the meantime, sucks to be a woman on the job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:40 PM
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If I really had the choice, I would prefer to keep my current partner and add the new high value woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:18 PM
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You should probably read the topic you are discussing, you know, to be relevant and on topic... The Spanish menstrual leave is not mandatory, but as an employer, you can't oppose it (thankfully). It's like the maternity leave. All women won't be mother, but as an employer, it's just simpler to hire a man than to risk to see your employee vanish for 3 months. This menstrual leave goes in the wrong direction, it's fragilising women's competitivity on the market, which was already more fragile than…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:14 PM
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I guess it can yeah. If work capability is quality of work x quantity of work, then I guess that Spain just made it official that women are less capable than men by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:50 AM
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If an employee is unable to work due to being in debilitating pain - what would you have them do? Quit their job? Come to work, but not actually work and just spend the time in the restroom in pain? Or use some of their sick/disability/menstrual leave? I don't think you've caught the problem here. Of course if you are not able to work, take a sick leave. The problem here is that it makes a difference between men and women, and makes women less competitive on the job market. A better solution wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:02 AM
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That's not the point of the OP right ? Menstrual leaves are making women less competitive on the spanish job market. Can't really argue against it, this is true. I do believe well-being and healthy life comes before being competitive, and I'm all for everyone working less, but once again, this creates a problem for women on the job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:58 AM
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I don't see how the location is relevant in my story. Why do you want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:33 PM
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Woman orgasm should never be the objective of a sex act. I have seen plenty of woman trying to orgasm, without success, even after masturbating for more than 45 minutes. Depending on her mood, her cycle, her hormons, ... women will or will not be able to orgasm. This is a complex situation, and I've seen even women fail to make other women cum. So as a man, don't focus on her orgasm. You will put pressure on yourself and her, and the general experience will be worse for everyone. I usually try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:07 PM
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So girls showing their ass in insta is fine, but the men who are looking at them are creepy? It takes 2 to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:57 PM
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There's not a big difference in looks between a 35 and a 22 year old the difference is huge for both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:27 PM
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If women would reward me with a bear everytime I help, i would definitively go. I would ride them to glory!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:20 AM
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Impressive that you know what’s in those women’s head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:15 AM
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Those are the sluttiest. The girls saying "no ons" are the fastest to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:16 AM
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Women who sexualise themselves are taken mess seriously at work. They can do it, but it will play against them in their carreer.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:52 PM
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Women can't actually really come to work dressed as they like. If they want to be taken seriously, they have to respect pretty much the same standards as men.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 12:10 PM
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Because "younger" is a group that does not include them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:20 PM
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So if I identify as a woman, I will get money ? Bring it on !
/r/MensRights08/10/22 02:24 PM
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She was not charged because she made false accusations and potentially ruined the life of those men, but because police had to investigate for nothing and it cost money to the State, which is the greatest sin in any Western country.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 09:24 AM
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Her getting laid is nothing wrong, so no shit were spoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:14 PM
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Proof that feminism was able to persuade men it's a good thing for women, but still no one actually wants to live with a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:55 PM
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How is that stringing when he is doing that for ages now? Those girls knew what was the deal before going into a relationship with him. It's mostly for advertising their career anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:54 AM
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12.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:06 PM
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If angry chicks on twitter are no proof that feminism is misandrist, why angry dudes on reddit are proof that TRP is misogynic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:28 AM
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Why do we need studies to prove things that are already obvious? Because that's what makes the difference between opinions and facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:36 AM
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So what you are saying is that women standarts create problem for men AND women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:57 PM
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Boys demand [insert what I don't agree with], men earn [insert what I do agree with]. Learn to argue please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:51 PM
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Always assume attraction. Moreover, your approach is not ideal. Don't ask yourself if she likes you, ask yourself if you like her. Go talk to her to see if she's interesting.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:59 PM
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Why do you believe those women were expecting some kind of exclusivity from you from the start? Why do you believe that they don't have given themselves their number plenty of times that day?
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:39 AM
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That’s completely false. Women’s skills in managing budget, taking care of the household and kids were valued. Moreover, art skills such as singing and playing instrument were also looked after, but more in the upper classes. If you want an example, read the kamasutra, there is a 3 pages long list of skills any women should possess. Today’s feminism like to play the card "women were men’s slaves in the past" but that’s just false.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:42 PM
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that’s a false statement for Europe https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:46 PM
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If no one in your entourage seems good enough, your standards are probably shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:07 AM
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That's... very true. Thanks for explaining, I've read the first post wrong. I don't really see how's that an interesting information tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:00 PM
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N-count not being the only factor does not mean it is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:48 PM
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I can't make sense of your first sentence. But you asked for proof, I brought them to you. You know now why n-count matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:33 PM
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Is it really pointless if it is a good predictor of fidelity ? ​ I had more sexual partners than I would I have expected mostly because I had a series of "Accidental ONS" rofl, and blowjobs don't count right? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:30 PM
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Women tend to prefer a smaller set of men than the other way around. So some men have A LOT of sex, while some don't have sex at all (and every combination possible in between). Thus, your statement is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:27 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/e566ze/comment/f9jle23/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:21 PM
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Because studies show that high n-count is correlated with risk of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:12 PM
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What's all that leverage you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:30 PM
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I do agree with you, but reality is rarely so simple. As a man, staying with a wife that neglect your needs, but you don't want divorce her for the kids and the financial stability. You crave sex, but you try to thing about other things. And suddenly, you receive attention from a sexy coworker... I'm not saying it's a good reason, or that person is taking the right path, just that I understand how it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:56 AM
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You might be the one who have an idillic view of marriage. Plenty of people divorce / cheat if the deal is not respected, such as women divorcing if their men do not provide anymore or men cheating if their women do not put out anymore. Marriage is in essence transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:26 AM
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I usually pay for the drinks on the first date, since most of the women I meet are still students and don't have a lot of cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:39 AM
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That's actually a really good parallel. You can consider both astrology and RP the same way: the baseline is vaguely based on science, but after that, it's a lot of bullshit. So yeah, you should consider true redpill believers like the true astrology believers. Do you even realize how ridiculously lazy your thought process as attitude is. You invented your own personal get out of jail free cars. Are those sentence for me ? I don't see how it is lazier to challenge a way of thinking than just pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:53 AM
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Well not really, it's more: redpill ain't a real thing, you can't proclaim yourself being "of the red pill". And therefore, neither can you claim being any other pill, since they exist by opposition. It's not a body of knowledge with a strict research process and peer review, it's just a bunch of guys on the internet writing bullshit on how was their last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:10 PM
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If you see it as a rejection, your mindset is wrong. When I go talk to women, I wonder if they are nice and we have things in common. If we don't, that's cool. If yes, that's cool too. When you frame it like that, you don't get rejected a lot until you get lucky. You just talk to people because you like to do it, and sometimes that leads to something greater than just a convo (friendship, date, sex, ...)
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:10 AM
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For me, I dug into RP because it's the most popular (and only?) school of though which takes in account instinct and sexual strategy, and transform it into a practical guide. The problem with RP is that anyone can claim being "RP" and write shit online, which afterward is quoted here as an argument to show how shitty RP is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:52 PM
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Implying then that you can replace one by the other, hence providing a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:51 PM
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Not saying it's a solution to cheating that's literally the title of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:43 PM
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Men are always the issue, am I right? They should work harder to get that fat, entitled girlfriend that will bless them with duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:56 AM
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You are talking about numbers: according to you, there is a larger number of people hating on women than on any other group. So I'm asking who counted them, and you answered "no one lol". So I guess you FEELZ that women are more hated than others because you are exposing yourself to those hating groups. You should stop doing that, it's not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:50 PM
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"alarmingly large" is what I said, the circles dedicated to hating women are in fact very significant in numbers in comparison to fringe hate groups and hateful attitudes, violent sentiment etc towards women are much more mainstream/common than other hate-based ideologies What are your sources ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:37 PM
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If you feel those troll communities are "significant", you probably spend too much time on internet. Close your browser and enjoy life, or create an internet community where those trolls are not welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:32 PM
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Yes, as there are circles dedicated to hating everything. What does that show ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:23 PM
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I mean, there are 4 billions of "dudes" in the world so you will probably find some. Is there a significant amount of men wishing misery to women, no, I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:55 PM
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You can be miserable in a relationship indeed, that's very true. But the only way to win the game is to play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:49 PM
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If you don't want kids, women have no power over you. You should not engage in a long term relationship if you don't want kid, whores are cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:58 PM
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our fathers, grand fathers and even before them were happily beta buxx, seeing themselves as "provider". That didn't stop them. It's women who will refuse to settle for such men and will prefer to stay single and miserable. Expect state tax moving money from single (men and women) toward single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:49 PM
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Those "losers" built today's society, and are the reason humans have evolved more in 200 years than in the last 2000 years. Because distributing the responsibility of family to all made working mandatory. In a world where only the top men reproduce, most men are slacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:35 PM
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I guess different people want different things, but those top 20% men can have fun way beyond their 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:25 PM
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Top 20% of men have much more sex than before, young women sharing them to "explore themselves before settling". That means the other 80% guys have way less sex. Then when the wall hits, those women are looking for somebody to settle, thinking they should be able to secure one of those top 20% guys, who are still banging young women and don't want to stop. Then the choice: either women decide to stay single forever, or they will have to settle for "lesser men". Then those men will have to chose …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:42 PM
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Ouch no, let's not promote religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:29 PM
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I think every one here agrees with you, censor will not solve the problem. But no one was able to come with another solution. So, if censoring is the only solution, does it not make it the best solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:28 AM
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I had to take some time to figure this one out, and I think I did. When you try to increase the price of vagina (for betas, not alpha ofc), you can't have one of your own lowering their standards because she can't take being alone anymore. So you brainwash all of them, saying "better be alone than decrease the price", sacrificing those girls for the cause.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:48 AM
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How do you know he’s not the one that left her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 11:37 AM
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While the lack of respect is true, your reaction shows you are feeling threatened by him.
/r/seduction20/12/21 11:56 PM
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math is working out: few men share lot of women. and men don’t biologically "mature" slower, it just takes some times to acquire social and financial status, which is what women value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:46 PM
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How can those women be so convinced people want them no matter what ? there is no selling point in her profile, at no point she thought "why would someone want me?". It's so delusional, I don't understand how it is possible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 02:57 PM
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It's probably performance anxiety. Don't put pressure on yourself, just go there to have a good time and see what happens.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:26 AM
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So you have tricks, "advance" tactic, and she is living rent free in your mind while she get railed by Chad. None of your tricks can save you from being the loser in that situation. You need to rethink your life and put yourself in the center of it.
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:49 PM
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Don't do that. You should have better to do.
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:42 PM
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The best answer is the one you can come with yourself. Imagine you are a busy man. You have a mission, you workout, you try to spend time with friends and family. You decided to sacrifice some of your precious time to meet a girl. She cancel, you get that time back, you can do your stuff in the end. How do you react? Always react from a place of abundance. Personally, I wouldn't even read her second answer.
/r/seduction05/12/21 08:05 PM
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You need to become your own source of validation. It's lonely up there.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 10:01 AM
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RP is a sexual strategy to help you get women. Of course they are engaged with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:58 PM
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Status, money, stability, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:24 AM
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And while you were waiting, she was getting railed by chad, trying to secure him without success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:53 PM
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The more you talk about it, the less chance it has to happen. Plan a meeting asap.
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:30 AM
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Lying about anything is not worth it. If the girl has "retarded prejudices", it's because she is retarded herself. Don't play that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:37 AM
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Don’t worry, your anecdotal evidence does not debunk anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:03 PM
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20% of women could have, yes. Most of them not. So your point is either poorly formulated or logically false.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:27 AM
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You are partially right, women want a lasting monogamous relationship with the best alpha man they can secure. And we are back in the loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:19 AM
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If 80% of women have now access to that juicy alpha dick that they could not reach before, can we really say this is "to women's detriment" ? Most of them can now have better sex partners, if they agree to share. It is also very good for 20% of men, who swim in a sea of pussies. But for the other 80% of men, not that much. So the real detriment here is on men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:07 AM
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My point is that women prefer exclusive access to the alpha man and they would have gotten it in the ye old days, now they can't since we don't have any social stigmas for promiscuity. Not that I'm complaining.. I know what you are saying. And I'm answering that only 20% of those women actually could do that. That means 80% of women were pushing in the direction of sharing and non exclusivity, which the alpha men obviously accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:58 AM
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I don't get your math. 20% of men are alpha. Since there are as many women as men, in 1-to-1 relationship, 20% of women could actually have an exclusive relationship with an alpha man. And women prefer to share an alpha man than having to live with a beta man. Hence, today's situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:50 AM
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Women want unlimited access to alpha men without responsibilities or guilt. Same women: "what, some men are also benefiting from this?! It's probably men's doing!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:44 AM
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Your vision of society is false. It was always men and women against the rest of the world. Don't diminish the achievement and the contribution of your women ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:55 AM
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First, I've never said "women", i'm talking about a small and precise subset. Second, it's not about fault, it's about protecting fragile and unbalanced people from themselves, so they don't get abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:19 PM
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Yes, exactly. That's the same process with abusing the gambling addicts. It's their fault, doesn't mean we should exploit their flaw because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:17 PM
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Pisses you off, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:15 PM
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But I keep falling into old self sabotage behaviour of women, sometimes drinking too much and just not being on top of my shit. That's how learning works. You fail, again and again, but always a bit further than the last time. Some part of your learning process will be fast, some will be painfully slow, but it will never ends. You never "get it", you just come closer to your next step. Enjoy the journey. You feel like giving up because your ego is in the way. You feel like you should be all or y…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 05:59 PM
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I'm glad we agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:41 PM
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So? Then it’s like patreon Can you show me somebody that kind of money per fan via patreon?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:35 PM
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I didn't know about those memberships. But still, the content policy in Youtube doesn't really allow to create a physical and emotional relationship between the content creator and the viewers, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:23 PM
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Still not the viewers who are paying. I don't see how it contradicts my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:12 PM
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What happened sweetie? I didn't give enough attention in the other thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:59 PM
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It's completely different from instagram, since their revenues is coming from companies who want to exploit their visibility, and not the people watching the picture themselves. Same for Youtube. Apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:44 PM
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Who's "Y'all"? And by lonely I don't mean social contact with other men, but physical and emotional contact with women. As you probably know, more and more men are sexless. OF girls surf on that wave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:40 PM
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I don't have a OF account so my knowledge comes from what I see in other media such as reddit, but the connection is through saying their name, "talking" to them, I guess even moaning their name while faking an orgasm. You could actually go really far.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:21 PM
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Daddy was mean to you, wasn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:58 AM
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So, would you feel normal if some men were using depressed women's feeling to get their cash ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:42 AM
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Well until there are strict studies about it no one can really state anything for sure. Except maybe that balanced people don't just throw hundreds of cash to random people, and that OF girls usually use "real connection" as the selling point when in competition with porn. So my feeling is that yes, OF girls prey on unbalanced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:25 AM
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A lot of men feel deeply alone, and those girls on OF pretend they care for their fans, who then in turn give them money. It's really close to abuse. If men were making bank on depressed women by playing on their feelings, I'm not sure people would cheer about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:15 AM
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My dear Penis, I'm all for discussion but at least try to read. I'm not here to fight with a random stranger. The only actual point you've addressed is: sake of it, and yourself, will never make you manly. Who gives a shit? The author. The all post is about becoming manlier. That will be my last intervention.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 11:45 AM
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Capslock really carries your point. And you missed mine. Let me try again: trying to be manly for any other reason than the sake of it, and yourself, will never make you manly. Will it be attractive to women ? yes. But you have to ignore that, it can't be the purpose. Like success. Does success attract women? yes. Do you do it for women ? no.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 07:40 AM
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I don't know if men push that dynamic, but I have never had more success with 25yo women now than I am 35+yo. So maybe women (also?) push for it... ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 08:36 AM
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Trying to be manlier because you think women will like you more will never make you manlier, it’s just simping with more steps. Trying to excell in what you like, living your life according to your frame, being independant and unapologetic, those will make you manlier. Will it be attractive to women? Who cares.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 04:05 PM
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What he is saying is: Good relationship > being alone > bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:50 PM
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You are jealous because you don't understand women. Women can indeed have all the sex they want, but they actually want very little in comparison of the sex men want. In every part of your life, it's always the same: it's the person who want something the less who has the most power. That's why women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationship. That's why you always need to be ready to eject from a bad relationship.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/21 11:14 AM
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"La blanche-neige c'est dans la nez" is a reference to coke snorting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 11:45 AM
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Because most of the content was "haha get wrekt you dumb bitch all women are stupid lol".
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 10:23 AM
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But the mating market is super competitive for average guys now. If you want to get a decent girl, you need a leg up. You have a loser mentality and you don't see yourself as the prize. You want to be better for... women ? But what are their worth ? What are they doing to be better for you? If it's just pussy you want, there are paid services for that, you will still have plenty of free time afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:31 AM
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And your 2 sentences here hold a lot of weight I guess. But I encourage you to try to control your instinct. Let me know when you've reach enlightenment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:40 PM
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I think you forgot to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:13 PM
1

I think it is Dawkins that said something along those lines: "Resisting your instinct is like wearing small shoes. It hurts more and more." Humans, like any animals, are not being of pure reason. We are sexual entities, selected for the last million years on the basis of who's the best at reproducing. That does not mean we can't guide the boat, but we are not in control of the waves and wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:53 PM
-2

Well I agree with most of what you wrote. But sexual instinct does not care about happiness or culture or whatever. The only thing the sexual instinct is optimized for is reproduction. If reproduction works, mission accomplished, even if everyone is miserable in the process. Single mothers are a good example of a sexual instinct being fulfilled (getting those sweet alpha genes) while the person is miserable (being loved only by cats for the rest of your life). Men cheating in an otherwise happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:45 PM
-13

Except it is not true. For males, being promiscuous is just a maximisation of their sexual strategy, so it actually goes pretty well with their psyché.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:13 PM
8

Having girls in the boy scouts was because men legally barred women from basic things? Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:17 AM
1

All of you need to stop taking FDS seriously. It's a revenge fantasy from women who try to convince themselves they are not undatable but that they have high standard. It was never meant to be a real strategy, just a way to cope with having too many cats. (my favorite was "look, i'm marrying myself"). By talking again and again about it, you just help them to go further in their delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:13 AM
13

Welp, it's a two way street. Women have been entering men only space for ages, and no one seems to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:11 AM
-2

Why should it be my responsibility to make her cum? It's not hers to make me cum. A girl not being able to cum is not my limit, it's hers. Moreover, ask yourself if the king is really concerned about his concubines coming or not. You are not in the right mindset.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 11:27 AM
1

You are wrongly paraphrasing me and didn't understand half of what I wrote. Conversation stops here.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 08:29 AM
4

You keep going back to that false precept. Women do not value sex the same way men do, which does not mean they don't value sex. Men value the quantity of their partner, hence TRP recommends having multiple plates. That does not mean men don't value a certain quality, just that it is not the first criteria. Women value the quality of their partner, hence FDS and women version of TRP recommends having one high value male. That does not mean they don't like sex, just that it is not the first crite…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 12:27 PM
5

Men who pretend they can make a woman cum every time are lying. Even women can't make themselves cum every time. You are fucking for ego. You imagine that a strong alpha male has to make his partner cum. You are associating your masculinity to some female orgasm. You have it completely backward. When a woman secures an alpha male, she wants his seeds. A lot of girls will actually come just for that. As I wrote elsewhere in this post, try the following experience: > Fuck a girl and get yourself a…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 10:13 AM
-1

That's such a simplification of a complex situation. I've seen girls masturbate for hours and not being able to reach the orgasm. It depends on so many factor, like her menstrual cycle, her mood, her stress level, ... You can have all the technic and skill in the world, you won't make her cum if the stars are not aligned. You are trying to solve rationally the situation of an emotional being. Also, being happy for a girl is really not only about being fucked like a whore. Just look at all the wo…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 09:49 AM
37

That was an awfully long post to write "I hope I'll please the mistress so she let me use her again". When you are the prize, the only thing a woman will care about is that you "nutted" as you call it. A lot of women can’t come from PIV. If it was about pleasure, she would stay at home masturbating.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:54 PM
3

They wrote entire books about your title. Answer is: who cares ? Be the best version of yourself, be happy and centered, and don't entertain relationships that bring no value. For me, a relationship is also a way to have stable, fun sex. If there is no stable, fun sex, there is no relationship. I'm not looking for a roomie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:21 AM
1

Thanks for the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:06 PM
12

That's an american thing. In the rest of the world, being drunk does not absolve you from responsibility. If you have sex with a guy and regret it in the morning cause you were drunk, though luck. Next time drink less.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:40 AM
3

perfect example ... of simping?
/r/MGTOW20/07/21 06:43 AM
5

The problem with this movement is not that they want to be accepted, that's okay. The problem is that they want to have access to the best males. That's all it is about. "I should have access to that juicy alpha dick(s) despite looking like a potato". Oh yeah because don't make a mistake here, they don't want fat males (check the wording: plus-sized women but overweight men).
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 11:08 AM
6

I mean, the comments are right. If not being able to prove a rape is treated as false rape allegation, some people won't come forward. But on the other hand, being willing to sacrifice innocent men because some guilty ones could escape justice shows how men are valued in regard to women.
/r/MGTOW12/07/21 01:55 PM
28

I'm not sure what your conclusion is. It looks like you are saying: "you should feel lucky if she made you wait, it means she is considering you for a relationship". Except men want a relationship only if it means constant access to sex and maybe kids. Knowing that, while you were waiting, somebody else was having sex with her without having to "pay" for it, is what feels unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:57 PM
1

That's it ? Damn. I guess those articles are wrong then: https://www.doglistener.co.uk/instinct-and-drive-controls-our-dogs https://www.cesarsway.com/strange-facts-about-canine-instincts/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:14 PM
3

Are you saying there is no common point in behavior and instinct between 2 breeds of dog ? You know it's not the case. Most of their instinct is the same, and there are differences. And it is probably the same with humans, although the concept of breeds is no as clear as in dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:53 AM
6

TRP does not state women are attracted to dark triad traits themselves. Dark triad traits make a man look confident, busy, as if he had options, and so on. Those are the things attractive to women. And: By the time the girl realizes the man is an ass, he will have been in her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:05 AM
5

You are confusing concepts all-together and it makes not a lot of sense. AWALT means all women share the same sexual instinct. Dark triad traits are traits that make a man looks like he is high value, which is attractive to women. I have never read on TRP a post recommending to go dark triad to get a relationship or even a ONS. But a confident, disinterested man will have more success with girls than a nice, complying man. By the time the girl realizes the man is an ass, he will have been in her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:36 AM
5

I don't think our views are opposite. There are main, global instincts which most of (wo)men possess, and then there are specifics. Depending on our situation and culture, we can balance them. AWALT is a model, and as such a simplification, just to understand the generic way of working.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:29 AM
4

I don't think you are well-versed in that field then. You won't have to dig deep to find plenty of books from well-known biologists on that topic. I enjoyed this one: https://www.amazon.com/Human-Instinct-Primeval-Impulses-Modern/dp/0553814923
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:25 AM
2

For a time yes. But we always go back to it eventually, often without even noticing ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:16 AM
6

You missed the point. The instinct I'm talking about is the polygyny / hypergamy. And humans have instinct, it was already shown in babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:15 AM
6

You are confusing instinct and culture. For the last 60 years, women and men in the West were forced* to be in monogamous relationship for all their life, or to be shamed for not being in one. That does not mean instinct wasn't pushing the other way around all that time. * I'm using "forced" since, now that is not shamed anymore, those relationships do not last. You can force through culture and law a system that goes against instinct, but at one point, we will go back to what feel normal (aka o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:12 AM
7

Which is a recommendation. You will find lifting programs, questions about hobbies and so on on TRP. I never saw a "how to become dark triad" post. As you said TRP 'recognizes' (falsely claims) that it works with 'females' (women), although in reality most women are put off by it. There a plenty of example where dangerous / abusive men get the girl, contrary to the nice guys. Does that mean all women will trade their husband for a thug ? Obviously no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:02 AM
12

Why do we recognize instinct to cats, dogs, and every other animals, but not to humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:58 AM
10

Not at all. All women are hypergamous, all men are polygynous. Usually, if an instinct would lead to healthier and more numerous babies, it's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:33 AM
18

AWALT means that all women share the same sexual instinct, as do all men. Whether they listen to it or not depends on how they were raised and their value, hence TRP recommends checking if the girl has a good relationship with her father and her values, among other things. Never did TRP stated that humans are slave to their instinct, just that we are all able to be and we will always feel the pull to it. Therefore, TRP recommends to check for sign if it is the case or not. Also, TRP does not rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:23 AM
49

Is it from a movie ? Which one? I would totally open the door for the girl who keeps my belly full, my balls empty and who raises my kids with love and care.
/r/MGTOW201/07/21 10:05 AM
1

the left one.
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 08:39 PM
6

If you treat your girl so she has those avantages, you probably deserve the divorce rape. Don't give anything to a woman (or anyone actually) if she does not behave as you want her to .
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 09:10 AM
7

Rape and domestic violence are not part masculinity. It's part of being an animal. When female can rape, they do it. Women, most of the time, can't. (The following statement is not exact, but for the example, let's imagine it is) "All rapists are men" does not equal "all men are rapist". Same with: "All terrorists are muslims" =/= "all muslims are terrorists".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:57 PM
24

"Toxic masculinity" is unattractive male doing attractive male stuff. Don't let women frame dictate how you should live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:41 AM
7

"that's because you are womensnotgettingit"
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 08:13 AM
14

It's probably not the admin women who asked for the audit. They were the true victims of this story. They ended up with no job because some SJW decided to REEE all over. Women are victims of feminism as much as men, even more if we look at how their happiness evolved over time. Feminism put all women against all men. If we want to move on, we have to show that neither men nor women want that. Most women are our allies, and we need to be the leader they need if we want to change the path the West…
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 08:30 AM
1

What's the difference between plate, fwb and ltr?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:32 PM
0

Except the kid
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 11:14 AM
15

You will never understand why she did that, even if she explained it to you. As a male, most of what a female does won't have sense (you are rational, she is emotional). She nexted you for whatever reason, you already spent too much time thinking about it. What's your best 1RM ? How's your next business opportunity going on ? That's the things you should focus on.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 09:23 AM
2

but there's something about what we had early in the relationship that's drawing me back. This part is over. You will never get it back with her, so accept it. You can still be a part of your son's life without being with his mother. Be cordial to her, respectful and with strong boundaries (like keep your private life for yourself and don't let her sneak in), and focus on your mission, on being a strong man and an example for your son.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 09:14 AM
22

You've answered your question :)
/r/askTRP22/06/21 08:56 AM
30

Always answer from a place of abundance. How would you react to those texts if you’ve had 3 other girls waiting for you, and you still have to have time to lift, work and do your hobbies?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 07:21 AM
-1

It's a business, they propose what they can sell. The problem you have is with other men, not Walmart.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 08:20 PM
2

This advice, despite being bad, could be genuine. But look at what she is doing, not what she is saying: did she raise the kid of someone else, and did she get happiness from it?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:50 PM
6

Because it's not all women. The women complaining about this are either: > not enjoying that system because they are not attractive (anymore) > making more profit from denouncing the patriarchy that profiting directly from the patriarchy (writing on blog, making videos, being a spokesperson, ...) or are looking for validation ("i'm so woke"). The men denouncing that patriarchy are doing it for obvious reason: it's unfair to them.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 04:47 PM
8

But do you realise that she is using a system set in place by men ? Don't blame the player, blame the game.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 03:47 PM
5

You are not free to do something if there are repercussion when you do it. Wikipedia: "Freedom of speech[2] is a fundamental human right that supports the freedom of an individual or a community to articulate their opinions and ideas without fear of retaliation, censorship, or legal sanction." It's like saying you are free to drive drunk, but you will be send to jail if cops catch you. You can't do it, it's punishable. If you still don't get it after this, you are an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 08:35 AM
24

That's actually exactly what freedom of speech means: being able to say anything without repercussion. Or if it is not, tell me.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 10:08 PM
1

Men are not hypergamous. We don't try to replace a girl by a better one, we try to add girls. We are polygamous.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 02:47 PM
2

AWALT. 10 or 5, those women are as hypergamic as the others, and if given the chance, they will branch swing. Research shows that average girls are more solicited for sex than beautiful girls. Your experience is anecdotal at best. Your redpill journey is not over yet, you still get fooled by women’s beauty (or lack of).
/r/askTRP04/06/21 05:06 PM
19

Women are emotional beings, they don't know what they want because it changes depending on how she feels. There is no "fuck yes" or "fuck no", just "i'm ok with this now"
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 02:42 PM
12

It's not because you would still bang her that she didn't hit the wall. Wall is about declining beauty and fertility.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 09:22 AM
1

That can happen if you put too much pressure on yourself, like « will I be able to please her » or « she is way above my league I hope she won’t notice it ». The trick is to focus on yourself, the whore is there to please you.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:46 PM
1

You can entertain relationships without being married.
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 06:50 AM
8

Well she is an abuser, but he's an ass.
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 08:37 AM
7

I don't know why you think that men in the past were better.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:01 AM
1

Posts like this are where MGTOW clearly defines itself as a women hating group.
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 02:51 PM
7

The « disney bullshit » never existed in the first place.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:50 AM
1

No contact is good. Contacting her now or ever would be entering in her frame. She does not approve of your lifestyle, she was clear about it. When in doubt, always reframe your question from an abundance point of view. Would I do this if I had 3 plates waiting to suck on my dick ?
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:57 AM
5

"Let your kids be educated by strangers so you can work more" is an awful way of considering family life.
/r/MGTOW19/04/21 10:28 AM
3

u/TRPCop this guy needs a flair.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:03 AM
1

A lot of RPers are upset that women arent more romantic and affectionate towards men, and imply that we should hug, flirt with and ask out random guys as much as we can to give them a chance or whatever. RPers are not upset about women not initiating, BPers are. They are not upset because they know women initiate most of the time. You can find that in any game manual, where it says to look for IOIs. Those IOIs are initiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:57 AM
21

You can't expect to change 18 years of education in 8 months. Lead by example and give him advices every time he asks for them.
/r/MGTOW19/04/21 08:49 AM
4

Your answers keep showing you don't see yourself as the prize and you don't have abundance mentality. When you have enough value, girls will pay for you at the restaurant/bar.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 11:52 AM
7

Paying for a girl if she's fucking you later. Can you be more beta? Don't try to lecture people.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:53 AM
2

Git good as they say. Acquire skills, practice again and again, become somebody you can be proud of.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:23 PM
1

Did you take a commitment to her, like agreeing on being exclusive? If yes, there is probably not coming back from there. If not, just game other girls and be discreet about it.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:31 PM
2

My questions is - how am I in her frame? You are the one writing posts over her on reddit. You are reacting to her actions. Her reality defines your behavior. I don't know the girl, just what you are telling us about her. If you think you can fix that behavior, go for it. But you need to flip the balance in the power dynamic. Her actions should not influence how you behave or what you are doing.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:55 PM
18

The problems are not the dudes. The problems are: > She lacks class and discretion, showing herself all over social media with other men; > She is disrespecting you by challenging you constantly (your words) and spend a lot of time with other men in sketchy situations (or she would not have to insist on them being just friends); > She got you completely in her frame (this one's on you). When you never had one, it's not easy knowing what a valuable girlfriend is. Let me assure you this girl ain't…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:25 PM
6

Women will break all the rules if that means having sex with an attractive alpha. Don't use your culture as an excuse, you will get sex if you are attractive enough. Using her as a pivot means using her to bang her friends: being invited to parties (like her birthday as you mentioned), showing that you are not a threat to girls, that you are socially balanced, ...
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:13 PM
1

Did you have sex ? If yes, keep her as a FWB. If no, keep her as a pivot.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:05 PM
20

She is not LTR material. Find more girls and keep her in the rotation.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:59 PM
5

What is a "jealousy shit test"?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:54 PM
5

Got an advice: stop being a bitch who needs pampering, and go out there. Find hobbies, do sports, and go talk to women.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:11 PM
2

Don't wait for her to plan your weekend. You are a busy man, with shits to do. Organize what you want to do. When she finally comes back to you, propose her to join you if that's convenient for you. If not, maybe next time she should book her time for you faster. If she does not comeback to you, propose her a date at the moment of your convenience, if you enjoy her company.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:52 AM
3

That's what she said.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:24 AM
3

Don't answer at all. Leave her on read and go for the next girl.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:24 AM
11

Why bang a boring girl ? next her.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:12 AM
27

It's hard lacking that much abundance, isn't it?
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:12 PM
3

Yes, on this sub where men have specifically decided to get rid of women, you are the only one to not feel respect for women. Thank you for being so unique.
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 03:59 PM
8

If you have banged her you should send a "It was great spending the night with you. I wish you a great day" so she answers something close and you cover yourself for any future revenge when she realises you don't plan to go further.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:10 PM
4

I don't share my girls. If they want to bang other dudes, they won't bang me. I usually don't try to know about it, but if the plate lets me know it happens, I'll ghost her. I usually try to get commitment from them while keeping it open on my side. It usually works for several months, which is the time most of the guys here report a plate lasts anyway.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:20 AM
1

She’s a kid and kids do stupid stuffs. Let’s not forget that the real murderer is the guy who actually beheaded the teacher.
/r/MGTOW10/03/21 09:02 AM
-1

Why do you want to last longer ?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:08 AM
1

If you are jogging yourself, just run along her and engage in the conversation immediatly. Proposes her to run together for a while, and discuss while doing so.
/r/seduction27/01/21 02:25 PM
4

Do you really want to be sloppy second? GF cheats with stranger. BF discovers it. GF says she was raped. Careful.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:07 AM
15

Why not block? Block her on everything. Get rid of her.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:52 AM
16

He specified "women homemakers". As a man, you would not get paid if you stayed home.
/r/MGTOW07/01/21 12:42 PM
0

You are her plate too. Just put her at the bottom of your collection and always wrap it. Be thankful it was not more serious, and learn from it.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:26 AM
3

« Diamonds are a girl’s best friend » is a marketing ad, not a saying lol. And « dogs are Man’s best friend » as in human, not just men. This is a low value post.
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 07:55 AM
3

How empathic, respectful and caring is Jefff Bezzos, employing minimum wage people and making billions on the pandemic?
/r/ExRedPill08/12/20 11:46 AM
36

Well I'm going to be downvoted to oblivion but the rational male is not a good book. It's a series of blog post where every time the author states something, the source is "trust me bro". It does not really enable a deeper understanding of the dynamic male/female, and push the idea that women as a group wants to dominate men, when actually most people are stupid and just follow instructions.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:31 AM
0

I'm not arguing about that, just that this is not relevant to this post.
/r/MGTOW207/12/20 04:56 PM
2

The entry price here is referring to the investment the male has to provide to the female before gaining access to her sexual favors. For the female, mating with a more invested male gives more insurance he will stick around when an offspring is made. So it's not money, but it is a transaction. All relationship are transactional by nature, you don't enter a relationship that does not provide you with anything (or at least, you don't stick around for long).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 04:54 PM
0

Only fan is not tinder nor even OLD.
/r/MGTOW207/12/20 04:51 PM
1

Female dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:32 PM
1

Yes, that why I said they are delusional in my first post. They have crazy requirements and nothing to make up for it. I guess they convince themselves their lack of success in dating is due to external factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:26 PM
7

From what I have read, they call them "pickmeisha" which is some kind of pejorative term for women who agree to split the bill or don't have the same expectations than them. It's logic. When you try to sell something for a price, you don't like that your neighbour is selling the same product for half the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:19 PM
3

Do you see most men around you trying to reach this top 20% tier ? Because I don't. Most men party hard, drink and eat too much, didn't study much when they had the chance, do a stupid job without future, spend a lot of energy on porn, ... and so on.
/r/MGTOW207/12/20 02:17 PM
0

And we want that because?
/r/MGTOW207/12/20 02:05 PM
17

Creation of FDS on reddit is natural phenomenon, women have tried to increase the entry price for sex for as long as humans exist. That's also why those FDS women are against other women not following their principles, prostitution or porn. They want full control of men sexuality and make those men pay the max for it. What I don't get is how in our society, where sex is so easy to get, they can defend that standpoint without having nothing else to offer. That's what I can't find in their school …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:01 PM
5

It's not a failure in my logic, it's a failure in your understanding of my comment. I'm not saying all men can go to the top 20%, especially since my comment states that it is easy to climb there BECAUSE MOST MEN are simps and obese. I do agree with you that the top 20% will stay, whatever the quality of the men (as a group) are. It is still possible for a man to climb that ladder, but all men can't. It's a competition.
/r/MGTOW207/12/20 01:50 PM
2

to what purpose?
/r/MGTOW207/12/20 12:20 PM
9

First: This article is from 2015, situation has probably changed in way or another. And until you can show that another way of getting girls is more efficient, this does not disqualify OLD. Second: It is not that hard to be in the top 20% today, in the middle of the snowflakes, simps and obese men.
/r/MGTOW207/12/20 12:20 PM
11

First, when she does not behave in a way that adds something positive to your life, you should not be there. Do your own thing, work, work out,... do something. Don't just assist passively to her emotional crisis. Moreover, since attention are what women want, this will be a sort of punishment for her. Second, when she apologized, you act like you would with a 3yo. Don't make a big deal out of it, she doesn't know better. Women are emotional being. You can scold her a bit, but really just move o…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:31 PM
9

If only there was a side bar with plenty of material on that topic. Oh wait...
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:58 AM
14

As an alpha male you should not wish for sexual limitation, since you are the winner of this sexual market.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 01:35 PM
7

Well, behave like a pussy, be treated like a pussy.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:38 PM
6

Tell him you are not into men and that if he looks for a manly touch you can recommend him a bar.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:33 PM
1

Life is about experience. You won't take the money in heaven. Do things you enjoy, things that help you moving forward in life. Keep yourself first.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:41 PM
1

I don't know what those guys are talking about in the comments. Women prefer bald men, whatever their age. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-4887064/Bald-men-perceived-dominant.html I never had more success with women than since I shave my head. But obviously, if you are a pussy about it, the lack of confidence will hinder you.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:23 PM
2

Your thinking is too binary. You're saying it should be Plate --- FWB --- LTR I actually never said anything like that. I'm saying a bitch you're interested in goes into what category based on what you see and observe her do. If you decide that she's a plate, then it must have been for a good reason. Green flags doesn't erase red flags. Some bitches start at LTR material, and you're looking to see if she fits your lifestyle. How to treat her (taking her out, having dinner, more intimacy), is fun…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:03 PM
2

Are you looking for a LTR ? Where do you find them if not in a plate ? How can you vet a plate if you don't care about her ?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:31 PM
14

I like to know I'm on the mailing list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:28 PM
25

She will cook and clean for her alpha, but won't for her beta.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:12 PM
1

Define being successful. Define not being redpill. If you are a fat, shy lazy fuck who wants to bang cuties on tinder and in bars, nope, it won't happen.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:49 AM
2

There are lot of girls like her.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 10:40 AM
-8

35+
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:37 AM
7

I can only speak for myself, but I love 20-25yo girls more because they are generally prettier than their 30yo counterpart. You can obviously find ugly 20yo girls and pretty 30yo girls, but in general it is the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:49 AM
1

it shows the whore female nature and praises is like every woman on earth should be like that. If it's female nature isn't every women already like that?
/r/MGTOW09/11/20 12:38 PM
8

by starting to act today.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:24 AM
2

As an animal, you are the vessel of your genes. And they have only one purpose: reproduction. You are the finest selection of the best breeder for last 4 billions years. You are a breeding machine. Being obsessed about sex is natural. Discipline and focus will help you channel that in useful activities. TRP is the analysis of the sexual instinct, both male and female, and how to optimise your behaviour in order to maximise what you can get out of it. It is not a school of philosophy. Moreover, f…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:21 AM
6

If you have no deformities, you are never ugly as a men. You are fat, lazy, a slob, ... there a lot of things you can be, but not ugly. And that's because women do not care that much about men's beauty. They want a man who has his life sorted out, who has confidence, who is active and is healthily fit. Physical aesthetic (as in sweet face) is a female characteristic. If you have deformities, it depends to which extent of course, but you have no other possibility that to live with it and accept i…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:45 AM
13

Saying things like « teach your sons not to rape » is what put a gender against another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:00 PM
3

If the girl does not comeback it means she has better on the side. Increase your value. When she has to choose between a ripped alpha and an army of orbiters, she will be back
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:45 PM
4

She is on a time constrain, you are not. After a 1.5 years, it is time to leave her ir to upgrade the relationship. The plate will break either way, so make a choice.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:37 PM
98

The best day to plant a tree was 10 years ago. The second best day is today. Yeah you fucked up. Everyone does. You can change that, take the opportunity. I obtained my master degree at 28, my carreer jumped immediatly afterward. Degree are usually a good thing (not philosophy or gender studies, but engineering or IT) so if you can obtain one, why not. Youg student girls are the bonus.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:33 PM
1

A minority of people who have interest into promoting such values, because it is their jobs + people who associate all their problem with "THE PATRIARCHY"
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 09:34 AM
190

About your rant: TRP content is mainly generated by younglings in the anger phase or younglings that think they have TRP figured out. A lot of people are angry at women because they think feminism is what women want, when actually today's feminism is bad for both men and women. That's how TRP gets his women haters reputation.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 03:37 PM
6

They are the same. They even use the same lingo "kings and queens" bullshit xD
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 12:13 PM
25

You were the second choice. She played her first card, was probably pumped and dumped so she's back at you. Don't be bitter about it, fuck her hard she is there for that.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 03:56 PM
10

If she doesn't, why would you have her as a LTR? TRP is about finding girl(s) that compliment your lifestyle, so yeah, it supposed to be like that.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:55 PM
1

You don’t announce the hotel. You escalate, make thing hot, and then you say something like « follow me, I’ve got a surprise for you » and you lead her there. You never discuss sex that will happen, only sex that has happened.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 05:09 PM
6

What the fuck it this autistic shit. You are "high value" but you are afraid of what a teenage girl will say about your dick ? Does that really sound "high value" to you? And btw stop using that retarded lingo.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:15 AM
6

I'm a bit sad you didn't answer my question, but ok. I guess that with enough conditioning, you can force any behaviour. Do you feel it is normal to have a moral or tradition (I don't know where you would put monogamous relationship into) that contradicts our instinct ?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 07:20 PM
2

Do you think a man can overcome his nature all his life, and therefore entertain a life-long monogamous relationship ? If yes, is this programming really his nature ? If no, aren't we all chasing a wild dream ?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 06:04 PM
1

Because those simps come to complaint afterward.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 09:52 AM
6

Soon women will have extra bonus for being a woman and showing up at work.
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 12:27 PM
11

I had depression for a long time. I stopped when I did 2 things; First, I decided to take full ownership of my life. The rights, the wrongs, I'm responsible for all of it. Depression happens in the brain, so I had all the power to change that. It was freeing because from that point, I realised I have the all the tools to make my life go the way I want it to be. Second, I stopped having so fucking high standards for myself. It was some kind of narcissism like I should never fail cause if I fail i…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:04 PM
3

well when you're dead you don't cum either so, if it can help him to stay alive, why not.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:58 AM
29

You lead by example.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:25 PM
24

Directly proposing a meeting in a hotel is obviously the best way to trigger her ASD. The right way would have been to meet close to that hotel, and in the heat of the moment, end in the hotel room. So she can say "it just happened lol" because "Girl just wants to have fun". Also, never discuss sex. Just make it happen.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:16 PM
2

What's simp about my comment ? EDIT: I've just read your post history, don't botter answer this.
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 02:04 PM
1

WE
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 02:01 PM
1

It is actually no more effort than for the other part of your life. If you lead a life committed to yourself and your goals, and don't take shit from anyone, you will already have to keep your ground with other men and women. You just do the same with your girlfriend. Either she walks at your pace, or she's out.
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 02:00 PM
2

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:14 AM
5

Do you have a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:49 AM
1

Maybe you don't pick the right one ? My GF cleans for me, take care of me, does the groceries, fucks me as often as I want, organises 3s for me. The only she does not do is cooking, because we don't have the same diet. Women are as bad as men allow them to be. As it is often said here: simps are the problem, not the women. They are children searching for boundaries.
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 09:25 AM
1

You are losing yourself in the details. Whatever you say or don’t say, what matters is you from your point of view. So it does not matter what you actually say. Me, if I can have another pass at a pussy I like, I say why not. That does not prevent me to move on. You, you deal it how you want. Just do it from a place of abundance.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:08 AM
2

Being a man has to start somewhere. It is not bluffy, it is his first step into manhood.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 04:35 PM
75

Always react from a place of abundance. What would a man with 3-5 women at his disposal would say if one of his woman said that ? "Sure, hit me up when you are available", then go no contact. Keep working on yourself and your mission, it will be fine.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:37 PM
4

Be the man you would like them to be.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:20 PM
16

How do you know she is LTR material after 5 dates ? You didn't even have sex with her and you are already considering making her LTR.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:51 AM
22

Well, marriage of not, discovering the kids you raised are not yours would be destructive no matter what.
/r/MGTOW08/10/20 10:14 AM
3

It is normal indeed. To some extent, it's the Coolidge effect. It is more efficient on a genetical level to have children with different women, so your children have a diversity of DNA profile and if there is a change in the environment, at least some of them can adapt. Oxytocin will keep being produced less and less with this woman. This effect happens also to women. That's why it is so hard to have a life lasting relationship. You can't do it without religion and social shaming pressuring you …
/r/askTRP07/10/20 11:06 AM
2

Actually, Napoleon being short is false and that rumour was made to make fun of him.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:26 AM
3

What makes you think there is no competition between them ? Maybe the less alpha of them is still more alpha than the fat fuck they are joking about, but I can assure you they know their place in their group. There are still leaders and followers in a rugby team.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:07 PM
3

why talk so negative about this type of guys? there's a lot to learn from them, I'm sure. This behavior makes them high(er) value, so instead of creating a club of butthurt people 'because they didn't join your frame', try to learn form them? I'm sure this behavior works wonders in creating social contacts, getting women, .. TRP is not a community of friends. We are not a band of brothers. Alpha / beta is a spectrum, meaning you can only be more / less alpha than your fellow neighbours. It is a …
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:40 PM
3

If you can make it being her exclusive dick without her being your exclusive pussy, go for it. (That's always what I do, I don't share my plates, so don't think it is no doable) She will probably want to lock you in, and want to become your only supply of sex. She will then be in control of the relationship. Don't accept that.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:34 PM
1

Can you show us those death threats ? That's not okay.
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:18 PM
2

she literally said a girlfriend should go to therapy So we agree that she is recommending therapy. And she did it more than once in this post, just read her responses. also some of the guys in this comment section that think raping women is okay? their asses should be in therapy Please point to me the comment that says rape is okay, I could not find it.
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:15 PM
3

I love how OP recommend therapy for anyone who does not agree with him... /s And I also love how he gets downvoted to the ground.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:45 AM
3

Don't say anything. The best case scenario, nothing happens, and in the worse, they all get mad at you, guy included. Women can't take responsibility for anything. Even with her cheating on that guy, it will be your fault the relationship ends in her mind, and so in the mind of all her entourage and orbiters. The dude is pressing marriage, which is blue pill behaviour. You can't save him from himself. As for dumping your GF, since AWALT, you might not find a better replacement.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:34 AM
2

Your flair matches your comment so well
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:31 AM
38

It is manly to work on your own project, whatever it is. Don't slave away for somebody else.
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 08:06 PM
1

Well you did all the blue pill basic errors. The single mother, the marriage, sacrificed your well-being for a woman, ... I'm not saying to put salt in the wound, but just to tell you you can have a better life if you stop doing those. But you also did some great thing, and that adopted daughter of yours, you gave her a life she would probably never could have without you. I would not be surprised if she reached you in some years. Don't hold a grudge against her for the action of her mother. As …
/r/askTRP01/10/20 08:07 AM
0

Don't listen to those betas, they are mate guarding. You need to be able to isolate her for whatever reason, and then be agressive on the kino. If she feels she is going to be caught, she will play the victim card, so be careful. A good plan would be to propose a date with friends, but you only invite her.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 01:08 PM
1

Awalt refer to instinct, not personnality. So it is true, because all female of a same specie share the same sexual instinct, as for the male. You don’t personnaly know every cat on this planet, but you still expect them to be little furry killing machine.
/r/MGTOW230/09/20 10:21 AM
14

Emotional balance is a skill that you need to master. You are young and as such, you will usually go too intense and too far. You need to find your center, which is a mix of your mission, your passions, the people you care about, your values, ... Then outside that circle are your secondary hobbies and women. You can invest as much time as you want on that outer-circle as long as it does not hinder your center. Keep that in mind when dealing with women you like. To get a bit more practical: A wom…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:37 PM
-3

For men, sex is just pure effort from beginning to end and your manhood is judged the entire time. The more experienced a girl is the more judgment. This is why men immediately judge women on how many bodies she has to avoid issues. Not really no. Why do you even have sex if you live it like this. Women are sluts here for my pleasure. They either fuck like I want to or don't experience my dick again. Sometime I don't get hard because i'm drunk or tired. I let them know they weren't sexy enough f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:29 PM
-5

Poop in her snatch.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 12:27 PM
3

Her orgasm are not your responsability. Fuck her hard and deep, don’t mention her cumming or not. Just try to have a good time and if you feel like it, to give her pleasure. She will relax with time and maybe come, or not.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 12:19 PM
0

Might worth thinking about it: can your feeling of not being enough come partly or entirely from you not having self confidence ?
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 02:04 PM
1

Girls just want to have fun. Discuss travel, music, party, wine, food.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 05:17 PM
14

Welcome on a SEXUAL strategy subreddit, where most of the content is about sex.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 02:39 PM
2

It depends a lot on where you live. In religious countries, you will have trouble reaching that goal. In a more modern country it could be fine.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:16 PM
1

Op is 23, it is not late 20’s. Hence my advice.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:04 AM
2

As long as you love yourself first, you can love a woman.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:54 PM
6

Your problem was building your frame on being right. It's like building your confidence on being liked by other. It is a plan for failure. You can be mistaken and stay in your frame. Simply integrate to your frame that you are not perfect, and that it does not invalidate you as a good human being. In my case, if you can show me i'm wrong on something, I will thank you for that information and probably ask you a lot of questions to know more about it. My frame won't get a scratch. Here you were n…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:30 AM
1

Having kids and not marrying is possible without "being literally a millionaire". It happens often and everywhere. Don't generalize like that. When you have kid, offering them a stable environment should be the priority so it is good to not leave "the second she drops the ball". The mother also have an incentive to not drop the ball.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:58 AM
1

TRP does not discourage having kids. In fact, the alpha male is the male that reproduces. You can lift as hard as you want, if you don't reproduce, you are a genetic failure as much as any beta. TRP discourage getting yourself at the mercy of a woman, hence don't marry. Most women around 30 have a baby hunger, so that would be the easy plan. But my advice is to find a woman who wants your children, not just children. Date girls your age, discuss openly the topic, and ditch unsuitable partners. I…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:09 AM
4

First, the problem with asking this question here is that you will only have answers from guys that at the same time complaint that all modern women are whores and tell you that your girl is not worthy of your time because she is not immediately having sex with you. So my advice is be careful with what you listen to. Second, what you need to figure out is what you want: a relationship or a quick lay ? It is not beta not having sex. It is beta not having sex when it the only thing you want. If yo…
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:38 PM
8

You never ask anything. You take action, always. If she goes with it, that means she's ok with it.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:26 PM
5

Indeed, and I would even go further and say he has a low self esteem. That's why I'm trying to trigger a reality check. The person you must love the most is yourself. Take action to protect yourself.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:36 AM
14

You have too much free time. When you are working, having hobbies, shits to do, you don't have the time to wonder what the fuck a random girl on internet is thinking. She does not want to respond you ? Her fucking lost. Continue to do your shit like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:30 AM
14

If her slapping you doesn't tell you it is an abusive relationship, what can ? Do you need her to shoot you in your sleep? At the first sign of violence, you should have vanished from her life. No contact, no explanation, move out if you have to. I would have beaten her ass up, but that's just me, I don't recommend it.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:09 AM
34

She was approached, she had to deal with it. If she can’t say no when you are there, she won’t say no when you are not. You did not react, she said no to him, nothing more to see here.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 09:30 AM
3

Actually, chicken can fly pretty well. It's just than in farm they usually cut their wings.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:30 AM
10

Micro management and a lot of close small deadline to ensure she is doing the work. Careful that if she feels pressured too much she can use her pussy-pass.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:22 AM
3

How do you think painters react when they see their first clumsy attempts ? Still, it is an unavoidable step that everyone must pass to achieve greatness.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:04 AM
8

Isn't it to have more sex appeal that you've implemented those changes ? You should be happy that they work. If you like the guy, just go for it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 11:40 AM
108

She gave you honest feedback. She does not want to be FWB. You didn't committed, she removed you. How can it be clearer?
/r/askTRP04/09/20 10:33 AM
1

Actually I studied it at school in a syllabus provided by the school, so I don't have a book to recommend :)
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:22 PM
2

You writing this post actually shows she is closer and closer to break you. She is a 3 years old girl. How do you treat a kid ? You don't take it personally/seriously. Of course as a parent when you are tired you can sometimes break and start screaming and scolding the kid, but you know in the end it was a mistake because the kid doesn't know better. It is the same with women. It is not about you, it is about them. In the end, if she behaves poorly most of the time, you can just stop the relatio…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:19 PM
-1

Well "it is not a debate" but I still see you writing "facts" without any source to back them up. You want to believe in something, good for you. But don't come here stating it is a fact when you have nothing to back that up.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:13 PM
2

That's coming mainly from my experience of 16years of cumulated LTRs. Seeing your plate always the same day is not too bad. It could be bothersome on the long run, but plate usually don't last that long. When you see her, try to do it in a different way than the last time. Like plan to go somewhere, but in the last moment jump on her and fuck her hard. You will be late for sexy reason, that's fun. Use all kind of accessories, not all at once. Tie her up, blindfold her, plug her holes with dildos…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:21 AM
-1

Sure, I'm always up to educate people. Ejaculation frequency has a negative correlation with prostate cancer risks. [here, but really, there's ton of sources for that one] Ejaculation generate oxytocin, a major enhancer for "pair bonding, sexual activity, affiliative preferences, and parental behaviors" [here] A higher ejaculation frequency was linked to a reduce death risk due to hearth diseases [here]. There's more, but I'll let you search those. So if you can ejaculate 20-30 times a month ins…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:16 AM
-1

Waw, with that comment alone you've completely changed my point of view !
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:58 AM
1

I don't really have one book to recommend. It is accumulated knowledge from all I have read. On what part exactly do you want to know more?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:37 AM
2

You should read about group dynamics, it is already pretty well known.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:50 AM
1

Life force lol. You do you, but don't pretend it is a RP thing.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:24 AM
6

She played it nice, gave you all the options and was honest. The rest is in your mind. My thinking is usually the following: girls need 5min in a dark alley to cheat on you. She does not need to travel for that. So why not let her going there ? If she wants to cheat, you can't prevent it. There's not more risk of her cheating by going there than by staying with you. You refused to go with her because you have shit to do. Do those shits then, and calm your mind. Abundance mentality and outcome in…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:21 AM
5

Girls don't like to see you have alternatives for sex. It kills their power in the relationship. You fapping when she refuses sex is not a bad thing per se, but I would no go there too often if I were you. At one point, she might recategorise it as "I don't want to have sex now, just go fap in your corner". You can hint to her that you can obtain sex elsewhere, with dread (don't actually say it, show it). Not being bothered by her not being available is great, keep doing that.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:15 AM
5

There is nothing else to do but to leave. Just stay calm and try to not give too much attention to those guys. Say something like "well let's go talk somewhere calmer" and take her hand to lead her there. Don't worry about looking manly, she is probably more scared than you are. Never underestimate the power of stupid things in large numbers.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:07 AM
5

I've never read an article about that so I can only share my experience. You don't introduce them. You use them. You start by blindfolding your girl, you tie her to the bed, you plug her holes with dildos. Use fingers, tongue, ... delay penetration. She does not need to know about the toys first. Surprise is the keyword here. She needs to follow your lead. Also, you need to feel confident about what you are doing. Imagine answering question about a field you know everything about. That's the kin…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:46 PM
15

For men, sex is a physical need, so routine is good for us. It's like having 3 meals a day, it is a routine that fulfils hunger and we don't have to put too much thought in. For women, it is different. Routine will literally kill the attraction. Like having sex every day just before sleep. For men, it's great. For women, it more and more awful. So men and women need to meet in the middle. For you that means: Surprise her, by not dropping hint about sex, but by carrying her to the bed, without ta…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 01:30 PM
2

As much as you are attracted to other women and probably flirt with them (and if you don't, you should), women are attracted to other men. It is natural and you can't expect an heterosexual woman not to be attracted. You feeling insecure is your problem, not your LTRs. You need to fix that yourself. You think you are not the best version of yourself, and you are probably right. Your LTR has built a life with you. She won't leave that easily. Don't make it easy for her.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:04 AM
0

I don’t know to who your « why have sex then » is directed to. Women have sex because they get off on being desired and getting alpha’s sperm. Physical pleasure, while obviously being there is not that great fir women, especially in ONS. Ask any slut, she will tell you 60 to 70% of men are bad in bed. Why is she keep doing it then? Because physical pleasure is not the goal.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:13 AM
3

I’ve never said that, and men do reach orgasm through penetration, so no « i can’t say the same for men ». But I’m not saying women have zero physical pleasure, just that pleasure and orgasm are not the main driver for a women to have sex with a men.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 07:03 PM
2

Most women don’t have orgasm from ivp, so if reaching the orgasm was the goal, most of them would be masturbating home.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:57 PM
7

Most women don’t have orgasm from ivp, so if reaching the orgasm was the goal, most of them would be masturbating home.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:56 PM
2

Ofc, but it is not masturbatory, physical pleasure like the men. It is more on an emotional/psychological level.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:43 PM
86

I didn't read all that wall of text, but you probably went into "perf mode". You think you have to perform for her so she will be happy with you, and that pressure killed your boner. Focus on yourself. Women have sex with men not for physical pleasure. Most of them can't come from penetration. They have sex with men to be used for the men's pleasure. So have sex with her for your satisfaction. Do what you like. When you are confident with yourself, start taking in account what she likes.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:11 PM
5

Yeah and you don't care so much that you wrote a post about it.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:06 PM
1

I understood what you meant by comfortable. You are still wrong tho. Try for the start to be really dominant and mildly agressive with a girl you meet for the first time, and watch her coming while sucking on your cock.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 10:09 AM
1

Did you have sex ever with a girl? Comfortable is anti sexual for them. Girls are submissive beings that have orgasms from being roughen up by attractive men. Most rape victims have an orgasm ffs, does that sounds comfortable to you?
/r/askTRP27/08/20 10:04 AM
3

You need to lead and to be stoic. In the storm of her emotion, be the tranquil strength. Organise a trip somewhere, a spa day, something that will remove her from the depressing environment. If she wants to be alone, let her alone and take care of your kid. Be aware though that some people can't be saved from themselves.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:40 AM
1

In those 40/50 women, how much were LTR? In ONS, girls see you as the most fucking alpha possible, and is excited from having a nex partner. Nothing is more exciting for a girl than to receive the sperm of an alpha man. This will often be enough to make her orgasm. But this orgasm is not per se due to physical stimulations. In a neutral environment (girl alone with a dildo for example), I can believe most women can't reach orgasm by just hitting the inside of their vagina.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:37 AM
3

I'm not saying don't do it, but what you think is proof will be dismissed quickly by the whiteknighting justice system if it comes to that.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:21 PM
4

Keep in mind that the day she wants to get rid of you, she just has to whisper "he raped me" and she will have bruises to prove it. You will have nothing to defend yourself.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:07 PM
7

You offer her to come to your place at the moment of your choice. You don’t go for date.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:47 PM
13

You care way too much about a thing you can't control: what she thinks. If you treat her like a plate, she will eventually get it.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:01 PM
6

That answers is autistic af.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:34 PM
6

She wants you in her frame. You have answered she will be the teacher and you will be the student. Does that sound like what a dominant man would say?
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:32 PM
-3

And you write that on a sub created to obsess over the manosphere xD
/r/ExRedPill11/08/20 06:25 PM
25

It is nice to put some science behind what we all pretty much already know. I don't think people give more shit to ugly people. It is the baseline. They give less shit to attractive people because there is always the wish of getting in their pants. Thanks for sharing.
/r/BlackPillScience10/08/20 12:00 PM
0

You are a pussy rationalizing your lack of success with women. You are so afraid of being rejected that you convinced yourself that you don't care.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 12:49 PM
29

I’ve banged more 20/25 yo girls in my 30s than when I was actually 20/25 yo. Girls love their daddy.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:49 PM
3

Would that be a problem if you are smashing to other girls? Your problem is that you have only that girl.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 11:15 PM
4

If the suburbs you are referring to are 30min away from the city center, it is not a big deal. If it is 2hours away, it is another matter.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:53 PM
-10

First, You are talking about "AskTRP", not TRP. This sub is for learning, so yeah, most of the people there have not reached their destination yet. That's what learning process means. Second, TRP is a sexual strategy toolbox, it is clearly stated again and again. And yes, for most heterosexual males, sex happens with a female. So yeah, they talk a lot about female. TRP is about getting control on your life, not about ignoring sex and female.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/20 12:44 PM
2

Could you send me the link to those researches? I would like to read more about that topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:00 AM
0

I don't see the problem. This girl offers you a relationship open on your side. She wants to commit to you, just let her. Don't get beta about it and it should be fine. Oh and for the sugar baby part: everyone has a price. Even you would suck a dick for the right amount. Hard to resist being an escort when you can make 5000$ per week (true number). So don't be so hard on her, at least she was sucking dick for a reason.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:15 PM
0

Invite the friends to eat at your place. Talk with Mark.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 08:36 AM
5

Shit testing is for her to see your alphaness. When you are cocky and don't care, she can see it. When you are playing nicer, she needs to be reassured that you are still the alpha she wants. That also means you can NEVER confess any low in your life to her, no matter how hard it will be for you. This girl is no ally of you. ​ Edit: to add on the topic, I would say she likes it rough. You need to tease her, dread her. Hit on waitress in front of her, belittle her a little, since apparently you b…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 09:05 AM
10

Women shit test men they find attractive. You actually need to worry when she stops shittesting you.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 07:58 AM
1

Always text the next morning. Something like « nigh was crazy, eager to meet you again » so she answer something close and you have an anti rape accusation proof.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:01 PM
2

Bald + bear and women will love you.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:58 PM
3

That’s not true buddy. You should have seen my LTR bragging about me getting my master degree as if it was her getting it. She was never more sexually available than when I was clearly stepping up in the socio-economic ladder. But don’t believe an internet stranger, try it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:19 PM
1

Question: am I to blame in any way? Are you kidding? You have told us yourself that you've spot 10 different red flags about her. Of course it is your fault. You have lost your time with a whore you knew from the start was a whore.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:04 PM
16

She was excited, she wanted your dick, she got it. Now she realises that she might have traded her V-card a bit too fast and for not enough. She's trying to reset the play to get your commitment in exchange for her v-card. Where you "fucked up" is probably when you played it too cuddly, too affectionate. Now she wants a relationship out of you. If you don't want it, you did fuck up. If you want it, keep doing what you do. Anyways, ignore her text, meet her, make her so wet she can't resist you, …
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:00 PM
7

Show me a chad that does not have a mission.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 10:48 AM
27

The thing is, a girl can't have sex with your job, your startup, your house, your degree, or even your PR's (and while she can have sex with your mannerbund, you don't want her to!). Don't get me wrong, all of those are good things---but you want her to have sex with you. You don't realise how attractive is an unavailable man to a woman, and you also don't realise how unattractive is a man with nothing going on to a woman. Everything you have described will make her more wet than the Nil during …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:53 AM
22

You have a surface understanding of TRP, hence your comment. TRP is a toolbox of "tips and tricks" to help a man to find his balance and to get pussy while doing it. To get pussy, one of the things you need is to not be over-invested, to not develop oneitis. Having a mission is thus one of the steps needed to "pass your genes further".
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:24 AM
3

Do it exactly how you did it before. Those rules won’t matter if she finds you attractive.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:55 PM
9

Your behaviour will dry her up on the long run. She is in love with you right now, because she perceives you to be this handsome alpha, so she wants commitment and all your time. As soon as she asked for it, you dropped everything else. That's the first dent in your "alphaness". She is now your only sex provider, and she will soon probably weaponize it. Not because she is evil, but because sex is to keep male around, and male is here for resources. That's female sexual strategy and human instinc…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 10:39 AM
3

Then you need to tell him. Telling him does not mean giving up the money, but you will be honest about it. Just don't sell that as a get-away money stash that you want to keep if troubles arise between you, he would think you are thinking of leaving. Just tell him you want to keep some financial independency for personal projects.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 02:50 PM
7

How would you react if he did the same ?
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 12:30 PM
192

Stop fucking uglies, and you won't have to reevaluate your life every time.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 08:08 AM
17

So the point you are defending here is that if a girl who is not interested in you would meet you anyway, you would be able to charm your way in, right ? If you really believe this is true, you should give up online dating and go for cold approach.
/r/seduction07/07/20 02:45 PM
26

That caring what a random person think of your action is the most submissive thing ever, and a shitty advice. If he wants to block the bitch to never hear from her again, he should do it.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:44 PM
13

OMG yes, don't let her think you are butthurt. So dominant, so alpha.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:49 AM
1

I have no idea why you feel the need to justify yourself here. He asked for advices, he got them. You seems to have work to do with your relationship.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:50 AM
8

I didn't had a time to approach and talk to women because I'm focusing on finding a work, so I have money to go to the gym, lift weights, eat healthy for weight gaining. You don't need to be in perfect shape to talk to women. You don't need time to talk to women. When you commute to wherever and you spot a woman, go for it. Just talk to her. Cute or not, get use to interact with women. Realise they are just people and most people suck. And then, when you find a cute one, try to escalate.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:21 AM
1

Now that the deed is done, I can’t imagine you going back the way it was. She has the taste for cock now, and you would look weak and jealous. Try it, but I would expect cheating and less respect from her.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:43 PM
1

You fucked up when you agreed to her request. Even she was surprise. You can’t blame her for doing what you said she could do. Either you suck it up and accept to share her pussy, or you break up with her.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:17 PM
3

Alpha was and still is a matter of spectrum. You are never alpha or beta. You are more alpha or beta than... If you want more challenges, try to reach sphere of powers and money.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 01:35 PM
42

Just organise a party, tell her to bring her friends, and flirt with them.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:13 AM
2

Women who don't shit tests you don't consider you attractive. A shit test is a challenge, a joke, a teasing, anything. It's part of seduction and it can actually be fun. Being obsessed with passing shit tests is a lack of abundance and self respect, so yeah I agree with yo on that.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 03:33 PM
8

Yeah but you can also be nice to a neighbour.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:46 PM
1

I've got an excellent news for you: you are starting your journey so young that you will have the time to take important decisions that will allow you to make structural changes to your life. First, you've made a mistake: asking your girl out remotely. You need to make this girl have the tinglings for you, and that's way harder through your phone. So as much as possible, try to have every interactions in real life. Second, don't ask a girl "out". Ask her to join you on some cool activities you w…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:27 AM
31

Reason for it, i cant find a "justification" to move the conversation into that part. Why do you want her number ? Are you collecting phone numbers ?Or is it maybe because you want to set a date ? Then say that. "I like you, let's have a date, gimme your number" Its all Probably perfectionist in me. It's the pussy in you.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:25 AM
2

"I'll never look good". According to yourself, maybe. That means you have unrealistic standards of beauty. From a female point of view, beautiful = top 20%. Look around, do you feel you need to be "V taper" to reach that threshold?
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:08 PM
22

Living is a time of weak men is so much easier because top 20% is not that far. Imagine living in a world where most men alive are badass vets, guys who take shits from no one, who will beat your ass if they don't like what you are saying. Try to be top 20% then.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:37 AM
-5

Why would you spend so much time on a single girl who does not want to give you what you want ? There are plenty of others.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/20 08:01 AM
6

Women who come to your appartment are dtf, if you are not a retard. Don’t expect a true loud yes from them, it won’t happen. Saying nothing and going with the flow = yes. Leaving your appartement = no. If she’s staying and let you kino, you can go for it.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:51 PM
24

Another thing that really worked was just taking my shirt off first and making out with her. Being the one to initiate the clothes coming off is a lot better than waiting for her to start taking clothes off. This applies to taking your pants off as well. Always take off everything at once, if your dick is out, it has the highest chance of actually leading to sex. First, kudos to you for your will to improve. A lot of people would have given up way sooner. Second, clothes are power. Being more un…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 09:22 AM
-3

I'm sad when I see the world those men are living in.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 03:43 PM
7

Women want commitment with a male they see a future with (good husband, father, ...). They can have fun with somebody but don't want anything long term with him, just like us men can do. The difference is that their time is more scarce than ours, so they will usually stop first.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 01:50 PM
2

Stop masturbating. You have deathgrip problem.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 09:10 AM
1

It is a green flag actually. She values you and want you to stick around. And it shows to some extent she does not just want to fuck around.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 09:04 AM
8

Your reasoning is right: Porn did fuck you up. Sex is not a performance, your dick size does not matter. You need to focus on having a good time first, then on giving pleasure to your partner (in that order). Will you last 2 min or 20? nobody cares. Just have a good time.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:52 AM
4

Before anything, this is probably not worth of your time, so I would next if I were you. But if you want to play around a bit, you can try do discipline her Dom/sub style. It can even be fun for you if you like that. The first thing for this to work, is for you to become dominant and not emotionally involved. If you react when she throws a tantrum, you are involved. Try punishing her for bad behaviours while encouraging her for good ones. How to do so: When she's bad: Treat her like a kid, scold…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:36 AM
1

You're her bitch. GTFO. And learn not to be a bitch.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:19 AM
2

Threesome
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:57 PM
41

Actually, I invested my last dollar in this pants. You'll have to pay for my drinks.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:35 PM
1

you don't have internalised the side bar.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:46 PM
2

The money is there. If they are not giving it to you, they are keeping it for themselves. Do they deserve it more than you ? You are basically selling hours of your life. This hour quality is function of your skills. Look around you, do you feel you are selling off your product in comparison with your colleagues, boss, friends, ... Money is not the only aspect of a job, but certainly one the most important.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:34 PM
15

All my last relationships were open on my end. I'm practicing non-monogamy for 8years now. My experiences are: > Women don't care your relationship status when they want to fuck you, you just have to not rub it in their face. I usually avoid completely the topic and if she start talking about it, I avoid the topic as much as possible, with vague answers and topic changes, but it rarely happens. > This advice is for when you are chasing solo. As you said, your girl or you and your girl together h…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:30 PM
11

Thank you for your rich contribution.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:06 PM
1

Amoral, not immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:20 PM
60

To be honest TRP also recommend not LTR a girl with past trauma. So they (the girls) are taking the right decisions according to ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 05:30 PM
3

AF, BB is not about having lots of ONS and no LTR. If you are alpha, you can indeed not invest in LTR and just get ONS, but it is ultimately your choice, not what TRP recommends. What AF,BB really means is that women value the alpha for his attractiveness, while they value the beta for his resources. So women will want to have sex with an alpha because he is hot, and they will have sex with a beta just enough to secure his resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:07 AM
5

I would like to react about something else in your post. You went there thinking you would have sex. It is a bad approach, because you consider the girls qualified by default. It puts you in a inferior position, and it is awfully unattractive. This is probably linked to your lack of abundance. Start by fixing that. When you saw sex was out of the question, you left. To do what? If it was not something productive, you missed an opportunity. All those guys were maybe great, could teach you things,…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 09:27 PM
6

You have no idea how attracted she is to her ugly partner. They can all have a dead bedroom, you would not know about it. Your anecdotal experience proves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 02:35 PM
33

So basically, you act because you think others will feel in a specific way regarding to you. That’s really alpha…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:23 PM
55

Why not block her if you plan to never answer her ever? Get rid of that toxic bitch.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:41 PM
8

Asking a date by text when you were chatting face-to-face with her earlier is not a demonstration of self-confidence. Next time, do it in live, you will be more attractive for it.
/r/seduction27/05/20 11:52 AM
2

I don't agree with other saying that it is your poor management of the next day that crashed this relationship. According to your story, she was already distant in the morning after sex. Sooo... You might want to consider you are bad in bed.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:17 PM
0

Would you have dropped the first girl for the second if you could get both?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:51 PM
7

We all do this. How many people keep saying things like "well, being rich does not bring happiness, does it ?" while working hard to get rich. It's a way to preserve yourself. It's human.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 04:03 PM
2

I understand she might only want sex. But at the same time if that's the her point then, why we should take forever to reply for us to see each other again if that's her goal. It WAS her point. Women can get sex every time they want, they are not after it. They are after excitement. You don't provide that (anymore). Disagree with you saying to forget her when I just went on a date with her and shes still down to go out again. Women love attention. Let me know if that second date actually happens…
/r/seduction11/03/20 03:18 PM
2

You missed your opportunity. I met this girl, we had an awesome first date and she told me she was looking forward for a second date. During the date she would touch me a lot and she even at one time said "sorry I wasn't listening I got lost in your eyes". I really really felt she liked me. That's her wanting sex. Couple days later I decided to text her to ask her when to go out, she started replying so slow, like taking hours to reply even when it said she was online. It was like this for days.…
/r/seduction11/03/20 03:12 PM
1

Don't spend too much time wondering if a girl wants you. The true question is: do you want her? If yes, take the necessary steps.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 10:23 AM
3

You are right, it shows there are too many men. Approximatively 80% of them are there for nothing ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:26 PM
1

You are confusing being affectionate and being needy.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:39 PM
5

You can do whatever the fuck you want. That's what red pill is about. You want to hug, do it. Being affectionate does not mean losing frame. Affection and physical contact don't mean you are weak. As an example, I love physical contact and I always have my hands on my girl. It does not prevent me to lead the interaction or to make her call me daddy when we are in bed.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:25 PM
1

This post is so funny. "Why are my friends who are only going for assholes getting treated like shit ?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 11:52 AM
6

Women are attracted to the top of the male population. If one day all men are ripped outcome independent assholes, there will still only 20% of the men banging all the chicks.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 10:28 PM
3

"Most young men are growing up without their fathers" Where are you finding those stats?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 09:57 PM
2

Alpha and Beta are a spectrum. Alpha are top 20%. Therefore, you can't "fail" to create alpha, it will always be the top 20%, whatever that is.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 09:51 PM
3

SHE suggested you take a shower together and you didn’t fuck? How lame can YOU be?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 04:11 PM
1

You have set a boundary, you have now to defend it with your life. You have explained to her "going to male strip club" = "breaking up". Now you just watch what she does. If she ends up going there, you will have to break up. No backsies, she would not respect you if you keep her after that. (that's why setting up boundaries should be done with care). On a side note, I would not accept that kind of drama, but you do you.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:11 AM
0

Men want a woman that will be a whore for him but a saint to others. "It's just your turn" is the biggest problem for men, since we were sold that there was a woman especially born for each of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:57 AM
19

How to know you're just the "settle down" guy Let's answer this. You can never really be sure if you are the settle down guy. And it should not really matter actually. You should just look for someone you like (attractive, interesting, taking care of her and you, ... whatever criteria "someone you like" means). Problem is that she seemingly suddenly doesn't want to do anything fun or adventurous. I always initiate and she just complies and it's missionary all the way. Those are bad omen. This co…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:55 AM
2

TRP is about defending male interest and male sexual strategy. Obviously some part of male sexual strategy are again female interest, but it's not part of TRP. So hypergamy is not worse or better than coolidge effect, it's just out of TRP scope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:23 PM
3

The man can go part time and look after the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:51 AM
2

You can’t be part of a woman’s life without being part of her children’s life. If you don’t want that, either keep her for sex only (and never even meet her children) or don’t enter that relationship at all. But she will always push for it, whatever she says.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:19 PM
14

I never had more success with women than after going for bald head and full beard. But it’s mostly because I feel good about it. Whatever your look, it is how you rock it that matters.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:17 PM
15

It’s the female sexual strategy. She is fertile and young, and wants to have your baby. It is not an evil plot on her side to trap you. It’s her instinct. She could still play the field but chose to have your baby. She sees you as a valuable male, it is a compliment. If you feel it is too early for you, you should quit the relationship indeed, and I advise you to date younger girls. You could also try to moderate her urges, but it can backfire.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:43 AM
14

Story time: I am at a friend's, and some girls I don't know start to tell their holidays where they were taking turn bringing men into the apartment to fuck them, and laughing out loud about this. I could tell they were looking for validation, but just grossed me out. If a girl starts to do that, ask yourself if you really want to keep the interaction going.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:40 AM
1

Bring your GF to the club and hit on other girls with her. Bring them back home for a 3s.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 01:33 PM
1

Nobody has naturally a six pack. Chad is an absurd concept to illustrate a model. It's like 10/10 women, they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:10 AM
2

What did you actually do to make yourself more alpha?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/19 07:06 PM
5

So, not relevant to this thread?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:24 PM
24

How much is it normally in average?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 01:54 PM
1

If only 1% of male in their 40s are good looking in your country, you should move out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:58 PM
6

Obviously, people not thinking like you must have a problem, since you detain the Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:53 PM
1

And you need to learn how to properly express yourself. So women either think like you or are damaged / don't have a good family? Do you have any source to support that claim, or are you just so good that you can talk in the name of all women of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:14 PM
0

You are the one who keeps bringing your father in this. No one talked about family members. You should do some innervision, daddy girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:03 PM
0

And your dad was a man also...? EW, don't date any men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:26 PM
5

She is a plate, not a LTR. A LTR would have made room for you.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:52 PM
6

Mystery is an attraction generator for women. If you are an open-book, you are basically killing her attraction. She might find you fun or interesting, but not attractive.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:27 PM
1

And here we go with the ad hominem. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:17 PM
1

It is funny, TRP states that women don't understand work, they don't understand what you have to do to become and stay alpha. And here I'm telling you it's not luck, it is commitment to a lifestyle, and you don't get it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:08 PM
1

> Luck has nothing to do here. Those people are dedicated to their health and lead a great lifestyle. > You are underestimating female attraction for older men because you don't like them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 11:53 AM
4

Well, my experience says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:28 AM
-1

40-50 yo men can score 20-25yo women. It's not that hard if you have your shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 09:43 AM
0

The concept is settling in your 40's with a 20yo woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:46 AM
6

How many time does she have to say yes for you to do it? She is just asking for plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:06 PM
2

Indeed, changing your focus is a good idea. Find the path of the least resistance. Anyway stay focussed on having a good time. Then their lack of interest / their scheme won't bother you anymore.
/r/seduction18/12/19 01:35 PM
4

They are trying to weed out people like you, and it works since you give up. From their point of view, this strategy is a success. If you don't care about them enough to play this game, find other hobbies than sex.
/r/seduction18/12/19 12:54 PM
9

It’s funny because you not texting actually made her curious. You justified yourself because you were afraid of making her mad. You lacked abundance. Fix that
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:39 PM
1

Everything in your post is false. It is a binary and absolute vision of a world where everything is relative. You are looking for excuses to not move your fat lazy ass. Go get that elsewhere.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:35 PM
1

I support this. And to your friend I would privately and personally say "I didn't mean anything serious, I was messing with you".
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:45 PM
4

Welcome to TRP, where women who put out on the first date are not LTR material, and women who do not put out on the first date are nexted.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:34 PM
93

The fact he asked you first is an important piece of information your OP is missing. If he considers you as a friend, maybe he wants to know your LTR better. Thus when you were not available for this event he asked your GF. Unless you see him hit on your GF, this event alone is not a sign that something’s wrong. Good reaction on her part tho
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:06 PM
2

You are a primate, a naturally skilled animal at socializing. There are no hidden rules that others secretly master. Interact with her. Be pleasant, enjoy her personality, have fun. That’s all there is, really. The less you think about it, the more natural and nice it will feel.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 12:48 AM
5

Looks like you have time for a side dish.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:32 PM
3

Value will come from within, not from girls you are banging/interacting with. What's your job, what are your hobbies, what are your skills, ... and how you feel about those are where your value will come from. This value will give meaning to your life. It may take some time for you to notice it, but when you will find your mission and dedicate yourself to it, the rest of your life will fall in order.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:22 PM
3

Good example of what I'm talking about. You completely avoided the part when I talk about taking action to talk about how you are "so deep". What you need is a kick in the ass. You are the sum of your accomplishment. What did you accomplish lately, apart from intellectual masturbation ?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:10 PM
9

Well this is actually simple. Life has no other meaning that the one you are giving to it. Are you the man you want to be? Probably not. How to become the man you want to be ? Now you know what you have to do. Stop finding excuse for yourself like "I'm so deep" and other bullshit. Start acting.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:59 PM
13

Find a (part-time) job, even if it is unrelated to your degree. Having work experience is better than having a hole in your resume.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/19 02:49 PM
1

You are witnessing the double mating strategy. When she is drunk, she want the alpha fux. When she is sober, she is looking for her beta bux.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 02:16 PM
1

I want to hear more about that MFFFF...
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 07:49 AM
1

« Retired pornstar » You specified this like it is a good thing. Is it?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:41 AM
7

You will get rejected, a lot. Even the best players out there face mainly rejection. So what ? If it is hard for you, it means you think your value depends on what people think of you. It does not.
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:12 AM
1

The girl is now in your frame, keep her there. She loves you, what's the problem ? That should not prevent you from gaming other girls.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:59 AM
4

The post does not state the girl wants monogamy.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:58 AM
12

I would go to the party for the fun of it. Multiple things can happen, from fucking both of them to fucking none of them, but you will have a good laugh no matter what. Play with them, make them compete for you, and keep it funny.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 10:58 AM
1

I’m not sure you are even answering to me, since you answer to things I never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:50 PM
1

I like how in this post you put all the responsibility of female pleasure on the male shoulders. Starfish much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:49 AM
3

Your post is all around the place, I'm not sure what point you are trying to make. But all the recent studies show that people are having less sex now than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 03:41 PM
1

Stick to your planning, don't delay it. She refused to come with you, too bad for her.
/r/seduction08/11/19 09:58 AM
16

Stop the intellectual masturbation. Do it or don't, but don't come here to theorise on situations that happened only in your head.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:52 AM
8

You spend too much time on this sub, and you have now theoricized yourself out of common sense. Most men are loyal, and other qualities than physical attractiveness are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 01:20 PM
16

Most women will never overtly pursue or reject you. That's not how women communicate. Women's job is to make themselves available. When you propose something, if she is up for it or not but propose to reschedule, that's a sign of interest.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:10 AM
14

Some years ago I’ve read that, for men, a « funny woman » is a woman that laugh to their jokes. And indeed I could not date a woman that does not share my humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 12:09 PM
1

Then stop being a feminist and be a true macho man. Your life quality will increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 11:52 AM
2

So you are putting with her bullshit because you lack of abundance. I guess she is your only sex provider right now. I understand why you are doing it, but your mindset and your frame are wrong. You will be stuck in that situation with other girls, because your understanding of plate management is wrong. Plate her, really plate her. You won’t lose her. Or even if you do, it will at least put you in the right mindset for going forward.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:43 AM
1

That’s the problem of this sub. Everything is black or white, and that lack of nuance makes it all about whining. « Its men fault », « no, its women fault » Most of people in real life are just balanced, normal beings. Get off reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:31 AM
1

She is a women, she wants attention. Let her vent, and fuck her after that. Don’t take actions
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:29 AM
1

To my knowledge, most of people I know find transitioning is bullshit, but do not care so much to do something about it. Cut your dick in private, and most people will let you do it as long as you don’t bother them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:25 AM
6

Well, you’ve wasted 2hours listening to her bullshit. Are you really saving time here? But whatever works for you buddy.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:23 AM
1

Lead by example.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:16 AM
3

And she is sleeping over, that’s even worse lol. Fuck her at her place, leave after. (Or make her leave yours after, but it’s more demanding).
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:15 AM
2

I didn’t ready your wall, just the title. You are probably talking too much. You get the number, and when you feel like it you send « hey it’s me, I’ll be there at that time, join me ». And that’s ALL.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:07 AM
8

If you stayed 2h after fucking and listened her cried/complaint, she is not your plate.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:04 AM
2

You had to go after fucking her? Then she is trying to get her money worth out of her V-card. She gave you pussy, she wants time and commitment. Leaving after fucking is plate stuff, not LTR stuff. If you just had to leave (no fucking involved), she just like your attention and wants more. It’s a good thing, and don’t be too generous.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:02 AM
1

What you don’t want to do is trigger LMR. To avoid that, you need to give her plausibility. Don’t face fuck her outside the bar. When she comes with you, she needs to be able to think « I’m really going to see his stamp collection ». Leave a doubt.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:59 AM
1

You already have a lot of good answers in this thread, I have nothing to add 😉 But either way, this shows you are scared of her reaction. Ask yourself: if your kid sees that you will say/do things so he does not throw a tantrum, what does he do? He stops respecting you, and use tantrum as a negociation token. So what if she gets mad? That’s her problem, not yours.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:53 AM
2

You tried to not trigger her instead of A&A. Bad ànswer indeed.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:48 AM
2

Learning german I see. Well I’ve banged women with fake breasts, I find it horrible. To each their own.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:42 AM
2

I don’t remember the name of it, but to my knowledge, once the man has ejaculate, his body releases an hormone that makes him sleep. Also, read about the Coolidge effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:41 AM
3

It is not tho.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:38 AM
2

In your fight example, the winner is the attractive one. You can have the confidence you want, if you have your ass kicked, women will not like it.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:38 AM
-6

Being for mandatory dna test is beta. Alpha are getting their children raised by other mens resources, it is a good thing for them.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 01:22 AM
0

And the more guys are like you, the less cool I need to be. So thanks buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:38 AM
1

We all wish better than what we are/have for our children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:45 PM
1

Well I’m reading yours, that’s a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:38 AM
1

Be my guest. But we don’t all have to die, just the one that are/feel inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:22 AM
0

What does it change that the women is high or low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:22 AM
4

According to you. And maybe society is wrong. If we set in place a system that contradict our very nature, is the system good? Either way, that’s the game, play it or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:21 AM
7

It’s like saying you lost respect for lions because they are not vegans. But whatever man, if you are happy like that. (Btw, it’s not being oldschool, it was always like that)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:27 AM
1

Quoting myself « A low value male is any male that has low value in female’s eyes. Whatever you think is right or not. »
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:21 AM
7

A low value male is any male that has low value in female’s eyes. Whatever you think is right or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:20 AM
-1

Cause we are the cutest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:13 AM
1

Always the same. Are you the man you want to be? Yes, keep doing what you do. No, do (not think) what you need to become it.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 02:12 AM
2

It is totaly a « shallow bio impulse », still, that’s the game we are playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:03 AM
4

Experiments show that fertile women are attracted by the most manly men. Sounds good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:49 AM
8

Women sexual selection is what made humans what they are today. Those sexless men are necessary casualties of this, and we should not be sorry for them. Having a selection on each generation for the most desirable genes is a good thing. You are a low value male? Too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:39 AM
1

Do you have any scientific source to backup the claim about women not getting pregnant when raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:40 PM
7

Fuck your daughter so its not cuck anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:14 PM
1

If you tell her your boundary, that she does not respect it and that you are still together, you are indeed in her frame. Either you next her, or you enjoy your bluepill life.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 04:10 AM
1

There are different schools. Some says tell her, other says don’t. Either way, realize that once you have stated a boundary, you will have to act on it.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 03:50 AM
20

she said “the stuff you watch is stupid and uninteresting “ The right answer was « I like stupid and uninteresting, we are together aren’t we? » Don’t let her upset you any more that you would let a child upset you. But if she’s annoying, next.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:55 PM
1

Thank you for your post. Do you have the source of it?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 11:42 PM
1

I am lurking here for 2 years now, so I also have seen example of discussion of « alpha fucks », but it is a pretty rare topic and not really part of the « official » discussions we have here. Moreover, I have never seen it presented here as a desirable way of life. About the beta, I disagree with you when you say they keep everything afloat. They are part of the movement, but it is the Fathers who mainly do that. Don’t forget are discussing concepts on a spectrum. You can be less alpha than som…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 11:41 PM
1

They are sexual alpha in the sense they are looking as sex and women as a commodity, a side dish to their life. They do not wish to commit or provide.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 11:21 PM
2

Sorry my drawing was false, I mixed up the concepts. The text is good though.. I agree with you for the most part. But being dominant today is despite what you are describing. If you consider feminism and the movement alike as a shit test, it makes sense. And Hierarchical alphaness means power, which can translate to some point in dominance but not only and not directly. Your 3 following points are written based on my faulty graph. Sorry for that.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 05:42 AM
1

You can do whatever you want, as long as you are happy about it.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:37 AM
1

Lifting is great, but it should be second to martial art. Lifting does not teach you flexibility and balance, not it helps with stamina (this last one is open for discussion). Women like men in shape, but if you are ripped like the rock but tired after a fly of stairs, they won't take you seriously (and even for yourself, look for wholesome sports, which martial arts usually are).
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:09 AM
1

This is the right answer.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:06 AM
1

It is a comfort test, not a shit test.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:06 AM
4

your problem is not social media, it's too much free time wasted. When you have to study, to work, to learn a new skill and to lift / practice martial arts, you don't have time to slack on youtube. So find things to do.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:00 AM
6

Innervision is what you need. Anxiety is coming from thinking you are not enough. This feeling comes because you are looking for external validation to know your worth. Your fight is to find your worth inside yourself. When you'll know that you are enough whatever people think, anxiety will disappear. It is easy: are you the man you want to be ? If yes, why other thinking you are no good is troubling you ? If no, then take the necessary measures to become it.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:52 AM
3

Fap is not a sin.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:49 AM
1

Thanks for reading. Your point does not show that Fathers do not exist, just that it is harder today than before. But you are right, we teach men today that they have to accept more or less everything from their women if they want a family, which lead them into the Beta category. That doesn't prove Father is not a viable way.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 02:48 AM
1

I was not able to find a well-known enough example for the archetype Father in our feminized pop culture. If you can bring one, I'm all ears.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 02:24 AM
1

So having to have to abandon every possibility of having a family is "not being oppressed". Dully noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:25 PM
3

No sex = no relationship. If you are not emptying my balls, you can empty your quarters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:41 AM
1

Thank you for the precision. It is still not hypergamy or branchswing. Those are when women are leaving commited relationship to another because she feels she can access a commited relationship with a better male. You were never commited in the first place. Here we have an example of beta bucks alpha fucks.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:31 AM
1

Bot?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:56 AM
1

It is possible to be new and be good. You have the best expert on how to please her : her. Ask her what she likes, she will tell you. When in doubt, doggy is the way to go. Go slow but deep at first, then you can increase the pace. Don’t worry how fast you come, average penetration time is 4-7min. Just make it intense for you. With time, you will gain in control, and will be able to explore. I recommend getting a good look at her vagina. Feel her labia, lick everything, put a finger. Ask her how…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:56 AM
2

Ask her which of her friend you should game together. That will ask some serious skills on your side. Meet another girl through tinder. After fucking her, ask her if she wants round 2 to be with your girl. Have your girl in the next room ready to enter. (100% of success guaranteed)
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:41 AM
3

You stopped the relationship. It’s not hypergamy, it the need for relationship women have. Don’t mix everything
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:30 AM
1

Redpill is not even mostly american.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:41 PM
5

All women are insecure.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:22 PM
2

Last time I read about it, researchers were never able to prove licking pussy transmit STD, contrary to sucking dick.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:22 PM
6

Men are not oppressed by men traditional role, they are oppressed because they are asked to follow them without having the women to follow the women traditional role. Still the work, but none of the pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:18 PM
7

You can plate any women as you like (and she likes). There are 2 types of single mom plates. The one that understand that your relationship is fun and the one that tries to convert you to a provider role. If you can manage to keep in situation one, go for it.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:14 PM
1

Slap the bitch hard. She needs to understand the limit of her power is what men let her do.
/r/seduction06/10/19 11:08 PM
1

The right answer was « you are here to make me cum, not the other way around ».
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:32 AM
3

« Let’s taste it first » (about her cuisine). And relax, shit testing is supposed to be fun
/r/askTRP05/10/19 09:28 PM
2

Oh and I don’t think she is shit testing you. She is just a brat, and it seems you care.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:06 PM
1

Awalt is saying all women share the same instinct. Being annoying is not part of the instinct.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:05 PM
0

I would add you want to keep some fairness in the relationship, but in smoothmax said, it can be on other plans than money.
/r/seduction05/10/19 08:04 PM
1

You spend too much time on reddit. Most women try to respect their commitment. Trp is here to explain to you how to help her in that task (alpha, being the best, ...).
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:00 PM
1

There nothing subtle in her attack. If you are fed up, next the bitch
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:57 PM
1

I’m not saying she broke. I’m saying she’s breaking. This behavior will keep getting worse.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:48 PM
1

Treat her like the other guys, ignore that she is another gender, call her dude. If you want to go nuclear, I would send an email to her, only her, when I state her behavior is bothering me. Then keep the email as proof.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:19 PM
1

Sport will never make you lose weight alone. Running for an hour is like 700cal, you can eat much more in 15min. You want to lose weight, diet. ( I’m not saying you should not do sports)
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:08 PM
3

Chasing can be fun, when its with teasing, laughing, escalating. It can be more intoxicating than the sex itself. Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:02 PM
17

It’s a comfort test, she wants to see if you care about her. If you care, do the walk. If you don’t, call a cab for her.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:51 PM
9

You took a bad decision (speeding) and you assumed the consequences (get you both out of it unharmed). That’s how you learn. Stay stoic, don’t break frame, if you have to cry/scream do it privately.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:27 PM
29

Plate is breaking. Your options are to upgrade her to ltr or lose the plate.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 03:13 AM
2

Send them a pm then. Don’t flood this sub with your dumb questions.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:26 AM
3

Trp promoted not giving commitment too fast, not what you say. Society often defended by trp is family cell with man as the respected father, with a committed and faithful wife, not what you say. Read the side bar before asking more questions.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:18 AM
3

Did she choke on your dick? If yes, she might be into you.
/r/seduction04/10/19 01:59 AM
1

Awalt. Proceed as usual.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:34 AM
1

You have a problem buddy. You are asking is improving makes sense for you, if it will attract women. The fact that you want to improve for women and not for yourself is what will keep you losing. You are a loser, not because of your race, but because of your mindset. Try to be the best you can be because you enjoy it, because you want it for yourself. Women won’t be a problem then.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:50 PM
1

It’s thanks to guys like you it is so easy to be top 20%, so please don’t change.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:05 PM
-1

Thank you for your elaborate answer. You try to take the scientific approach, but you keep sparkling your text with « facts » not supported by numbers. Example: Your fact: « Women are more loyal and put more effort into the relationship » Reality: most divorces are initiated by women in USA. So I return the advice to you: turn to science and empirical evidences, and witness why our society works like this.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 02:07 PM
1

I strongly believe that those men would keep their wives if they could get the younger on the side at the same time. I do agree with your second point.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 02:12 AM
-4

Chimps are close to harem lifestyle, and gorillas are totally in. Only bonobos are the exception.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 01:35 AM
-2

That’s ok, you don’t get simple principles because the only way for you to accept concepts opposed to your point of view is to push them to the extreme and then say « look, it’s absurd ». Thus my last post. Understanding that biology plays a role in everybody’s life and in society does not mean we are robots. As hypergamy does not mean women will cheat, but that they will get tempted in the right conditions (as men). TRP explains what are those conditions and what are the symptoms of a woman rea…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 01:20 AM
-1

TRP also states men are slaves to their bio. It’s just that it explains how to maximalise it. I’m not here to convince you. If internet argument had ever changed the mind of somebody, we would know about it.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 09:38 PM
-3

A lot of people are just barfing hate on reddit, TRP or elsewhere. Those are not the core of the TRP. You don’t blame women for hypergamy, as you don’t blame cats for being hunters or birds for flying. But you take it in account when you interact with them. The main point of TRP is be the best version of yourself, women will follow. Are you the best version of yourself? Are you happy with your life? Are you balanced? What are your hobbies? What’s your mission? As you see, a lot of TRP principles…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 09:11 PM
-6

I don’t know for the other groups, but TRP is about being a better person, understanding how male and female sexual strategies works, and acting accordingly. That’s pretty much everything you will find on their side bar. If you make a cult out of it, it’s probably more your problem than theirs. And yes, a lot of people are in « the anger phase », but it seems you are too.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 08:33 PM
1

« Can totally understand. It's like this whole 'Red Pill knowledge's concept about Hypergamy(where ONLY women are hepergamous). If you are a red pilled guy, you would defend this concept with your LIFE. Because to that man HE get's to be right (self pity) and it'sthe WOMEN who are sluts,hoes etc..... But when you tell them that BOTH men and women are hypergamous, men are hypergamous regarding beauty whereas women are hypergamous regarding resources. Their(red pilled guys) reaction is "but....but…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 08:21 PM
1

So its those groups fault if you are a fat fuck who ate 500 calories a day and took nicotine? I don’t get it.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 08:06 PM
2

That will never happen. Or at least, that won’t happen enough for you to count on it. Look is an enabler for you to get more confidence, but to get girls you still need to approach, to be witty, to be alpha. You can be a muscular pussy, that won’t bring in the girls.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:47 PM
1

Oh but isn’t it my favorite whore. I didn’t recognized you at first. You pend a lot of time on a male sub for a women. Just enjoy the boobs you got, you’ll always find a man that like them.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:11 AM
1

That sounds reasonable indeed. Humans are risk averse, that explains your second paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:08 AM
10

Dude, why do you care which boobs i like. If you like fake boobs its ok, some people does. It’s just not for everybody.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:07 AM
1

Yeah of course, and that’s my point. Both sides have risks and advantages. You need to take them in account before making a decision.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 03:58 AM
7

Without hesitation
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:56 AM
5

Did you touch fake breasts? They are hard, not « squeezy ». I had the « chance » of banging a girl with fake boobs, never again.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:54 AM
4

Well, nice to meet you.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:52 AM
1

And my point is that you can (and should) judge and held accountable women for their behavior. « To see the value of a man, watch him treat people who can do nothing for him ». Same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:45 AM
1

Read again the last sentence of op. Whatever you meant, what counts is whatever you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:34 AM
1

You keep digressing from op. We did agree that it’s one’s own fault for tolerating bad behavior. The message in OP is that women are not accountable for their bad behavior, and that’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:17 AM
2

Yup, but still the woman’s fault for being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:10 AM
1

You should not care about the girl’s reaction. If she likes you, your approach will make you attractive. If she does not, she will think you are a creep. That’s on her. Go talk to her, be nice and genuine. If she does not enjoy your company, next her and go for the next one.
/r/seduction02/10/19 02:45 AM
1

That’s the right answer. « I picked the lock and squat here until the owners come back. »
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:34 AM
2

You have now stated a clear boundary on which you will have to act. Keep your frame up, and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:32 AM
2

Can’t argue with the last part, it’s true. It is not man’s fault if the girl’s a bitch, but its his fault for enduring her. Not op’s point tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:46 AM
9

Look at the last sentence in op. That’s exactly that. « You can’t held me responsible for how I behave, it’s the man I’m with’s fault »
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:40 AM
8

Women don’t want responsibility for their past actions? Surprise surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:28 AM
2

Women do have sex with alpha and beta alike, but not for the same reasons.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:34 PM
4

That’s false. Women love sex for sex with alpha male, but will after always try to secure the relationship.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:05 PM
1

« Hey girlsname, can I talk to you for a second? ».
/r/seduction01/10/19 10:01 PM
37

Good point. People compare good self-employed situation to bad employee situation, and thus obtain a very simple conclusion. Self-employment can turn bad and has risks, and employee can be good. You can take an educated decision if you don’t consider all the parameters.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 10:00 PM
1

Well, male slaves and eunuchs are males right? And those weren’t reproducing, so I don’t see how that changes the numbers. I believe that we have now more interest and more data about sex and relationship, but not that the people changed. Women were never faithful (as men given the chance), high status or not. Mission for the parents were to make her look virgin at her first marriage and that’s it. Girls fooling around were hidden. Now this mission does not exist anymore, so girls are just more …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 09:41 PM
3

The rules never changed. Women always fucked around until they were married to some guy, and then keep fucking around but more discreetly. Cheating and dead bedrooms were always existing. Being top 20% for a man had the same benefits then that now. It was always untenable for a large group of men to be top 20%. To be precise, it was untenable for 80% of them. A lot of men were never married, just like now, and a lot of men never reproduced. I can’t find it right now, but some archeologist found …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 09:22 PM
9

You didn’t bang the ex and her pissed off friend at the same time, did you? In your example, competition makes sense. But when you want them both together, you need them to like eachother, don’t you?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:55 PM
5

I usually try to create a collaboration mindset. What would be the advantage of your advice?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:30 PM
10

Don’t follow the girl’s framework. The more you talk about, the more you build tension and increase the chance if triggering her ASD. You should not care if they find eachother attractive. You are the attraction center. Act, don’t talk! And let us know how it went.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:28 PM
-1

Beautiful has different meaning depending on the era, but even like this, women would still want the top 20%. Criteria are not absolute, they are relative. That’s the beauty of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:57 PM
1

Being bucking and staying alpha is really hard on the long way.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 04:35 PM
10

Mariage = love? And I don’t know, you will have to ask them. But we are digressing from your OP. Yes men and women have sexual preferences and yes due to how reproduction works men and women don’t love the same way. But the game was there before us, it will be there after us, and we can either play it or die alone. Your call!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:28 PM
1

Success rate is probably on average between 1 and 10%, depending on your luck and skills. So approach 100 women and then take a decision.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:57 PM
7

Maybe asking her if she can imagine her and her friend using you as their toy. So leading, so dominant, wow.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:49 PM
1

Of course, I’m not saying men do not have a preference. The main difference is that men want to add partners, while women have to choose the best. 80/20% female method of mate picking is real, but it is not « unfair ». Males who complaint about that are just people who don’t understand the game. As are females complaining about males picking young females.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:47 PM
10

Well marriage is creating a nest for children. My guess is that this grand ma is not fertile anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:44 PM
12

Everything in this comment is false. Muscular men have been showed as having more success with women, as more successful men. Height also plays a role, as social status, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:43 PM
18

I’ve just read an article about a 83yo grand ma slaying on tinder, so I would say that men want all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:41 PM
30

More than once!
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:36 PM
48

« What’s going on? » « B was in town so I proposed her to join us. What do you want to drink? » And that’s it. Don’t overthink things
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:11 PM
9

You’ve asked for advice, I gave it to you. Do what you want. But going the « adult » way with women will often push you in the wrong direction.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:02 PM
54

Why is that? You are offering plausible deniability, so the girls can say « it just happened ». It’s like regular sex.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:00 PM
7

I am not saying it could never work, just that you 1: take unnecessary risks. At any moment a girl can decide she is not a slut anymore and erase her past from her memory. Then even if you have build this type of relationship, you will still trigger her. 2: are not leading. Don’t ask her what she want, do what you want. Then in the heath of the moment she will choose if she wants in or not, but the odds are in your favor.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:27 PM
7

The only moment it is okay (but still not the best) to propose a 3s to a girl is when you just had a 3s with her.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:12 PM
117

Threesome are my thing, so I have plenty of feedback. The easiest, surest way to do it is to bring 2 girls you are already sexually active with at your place. Don’t tell them the details, don’t even mention there will be another girl. You want them to come with a mindset of going to yours to fuck. Then some alcohol, escalation and questions like « did you ever kiss another girl? ». Base your approach on the bisexual girl, she will help you.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:09 PM
18

Never take the overt route. You might trigger her « I’m not a slut » defense.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:06 PM
1

So you are saying that the tool used to become alpha is of no use once you are alpha...? I do agree with you. You still had to go there. And we can discuss if trp is truely an alpha maker, but it’s still way better than any other sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 12:53 AM
1

To my knowledge, TRP states exactly what I said earlier. Be the orbiter/provider and a women won’t have sex with you, be the alpha and watch them getting crazy about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 12:48 AM
7

Because they are not made to last anymore, and women are overprotected by the state, meaning that when she will your sorry ass after cheating on you with the pool boy, you will have to pay for her to go on holidays with the pool boy.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:12 AM
1

Some girls will even be unresponsive until you plow them. That’s why hou should assume attraction and that everything that’s not a firm no is a yes.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:30 PM
-1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:15 PM
2

Be the woman’s dream guy, and watch her beg for sex all day long. I’m sorry that it didn’t happen for you, but women having low sex drive is a blue pill fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:11 PM
2

Women have the strongest sex drive already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:16 PM
6

They always were.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 03:11 AM
4

Don’t use drugs before trying everything else, like no porn and no fap
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:34 AM
3

That’s certainly no compliment. You are for rent. Enjoy it while it lasts, and enjoy the consequences afterward. I’m out.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:20 AM
3

Girl, what kind of life do you prepare yourself for? Having sex with people you don’t find attractive, for money? You’re just a common whore. No respectable man who has a family with a woman will dump her just because she has reached 30. And a career will never be a replacement for a relationship. We are social animals, we thrive by being connected to another.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:10 AM
5

So you trade your youth for resources. Welcome to the world of sexuality since... forever. And you’ve just shown that you are attracted by older males with resources. Your problem here is that you are doing it overtly, and that it will decrease your value in the future. Try to tell any guy that you were a whore in your past and watch his reaction. Enjoy the cock carousel, and don’t come back in 12 years to cry « where are all the good men » Enjoy your night.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:59 AM
3

Aren’t you a male yourself? Edit: well I had my answer from your post history. Nice tits. Disliking an natural trait because it does not fit a social convention is like hating on cats because they are hunters. You can do it but it does not make sense.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:40 AM
5

« Minor » is a social convention that holds no ground over nature. When people died at 30yo, do you think they waited until the girl was 20 to start banging her? Look at Africa for your answer. It is a luxury that we allow ourselves, and I’m not saying it is a bad thing. But we should not forget how instinct is pushing us and in which direction.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:23 AM
6

Not really, you are taking the exception as the general rules. Most girls are fertiles (and show it) around 13/15 years old. And being attracted physically does not mean wanting a relationship, nor it means people will act on it.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:14 AM
6

Come on, if you want to troll, at least read. Which 10yo is fertile?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:04 AM
19

Be a doctor if you want to be one. Don’t think about what others think about it. If you like helping people, money and crappy working hours, it’s the job for you.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:46 AM
1

Mesdames et messieurs, 2019 women’s idea of commitment.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:44 AM
5

By trying to reach high value man and comitting to him.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:59 PM
6

Stupid answer. To like fertile women is a man imperative for thousands of years of evolution. And a woman is fertile as soon as she has her period. To say men being attracted to fertile women have a problem is not understanding basic sexual behavior.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:57 PM
1

You need to obtain the degree, but other than that connect with a lot people. Business is all about who you know.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:53 PM
3

Try to make you laugh yourself. Then let other join the party. That’s how I do it.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:14 PM
1

1 knows about 2 but still fucks you. Try the same with 2. If it goes well too, play it safe by meeting them one by one, never discuss about the other or play it epic and invite them both for 3s
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:06 PM
1

« It’s beta to drink so much » That’s so stupid.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:58 PM
2

Putting a girl on a pedestal is oneitis.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:55 PM
19

You should have pressure flip this one too.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:52 PM
14

Always escalate as much as she let you. She didn’t want more, maybe she was on her period? Anyway, next time it happens, don’t be needy. Plan the next date and call it a night. Then go bang one of your plates. You’ll fuck her next time, no biggie.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:51 PM
2

Well if trouble starts when you tell them what you do, just don’t do that.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:08 PM
3

Does she come to fuck when you tell her to? If yes, keep her, if no, ghost her.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:46 PM
3

I don’t see the link between her spending behavior and your budget pressure, except if you’re her bitch. So tell me, are you a bitch?
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:34 PM
3

She is touching you. She is asking if you are free tonight. How can she make it more clear?
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:12 AM
9

There is no sex. Not even a plate.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:09 AM
2

It depends how common they are. If you need exclusivity, since it is the standard you don’t need to say it. If you need an harem full of you nymphs ready to suck you at all time, you’ll probably have to talk about it.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:06 AM
1

I’ll go against the flow here. Don’t bother with passcode, you have nothing to hide from your life. Her taking actions to intervene in your life is bad, but if you have a strong frame with her I advise just laughing it off with her (something like « you are jelly baby? Don’t you know you are my fav slut? ») and fucking her hard. Then keep doing what you do. Although if she keeps intervening, I would stop seeing her.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 01:52 AM
3

FRAME is a MENTAL STATE. Only what you allow to break it will break it. I am 178cm and I have dated a 183cm girl for 2 years. She was wearing heels and all. The difference between you and me? I love it and don’t feel threaten by it. It is all in your head. If you like it, then enjoy it. If you don’t like it, dump her.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:57 AM
13

Her intentions are probably genuine. She likes your cock, and if she is taking for some times now, she is emotional about you. Therefore, as she is in a poor emotional state (happen often with women), she wants to talk about it with you. From your perspective, it depends how you want to play it. Not being available will keep her at her place, but will lead ultimately to plate breaking. Being available will « beta-fied » you, bringing you as a good prospect for LTR, but also removing some of your…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:46 AM
2

Bluepill sub is that way —-> [GTFO]
/r/askTRP28/09/19 10:39 PM
1

Plenty of chicks, onto the next one!
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:58 PM
20

As Schhwing said, if you evaluate women on male criteria, you will have a negative opinion. When you realise how women compliment men and bring other benefits on the table, you’ll understand. And that’s also why you don’t treat your ltr in an « equal » manner (= how you as a man would like to be treated) but according to who she is.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:32 AM
3

The mindset is: do something you want to do, and let her join. If it is going for a drink, then so be it. But it could be walking in a park, do a roadtrip to the next city, ... anything. Usually, people try to do something that can lead to a lay. In that regard, choose a bar next to your place. Usually I meet girls at the place, but lastly I have found picking up the girl with my car allows me to be totaly in control of the date. Stay modest, meet the girl there. What you talk about is irrelevan…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:04 PM
5

TRP is not about being unresponsive on an emotional level. You can fall in love, have feelings. TRP is about being in control of your life, understanding how sex and women works, and acting accordingly. Live those feelings, but stay the prize. Learn to love while staying dominant and in control. Don't abandon yourself into her and your relationship. Keep investing in yourself.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:58 PM
9

You problem is talking with her about going to your place. Don't do that. You leave the first bar to go to the second one. On the way there, you happen to walk in front of your place. While you are there, you'll quickly go inside to grab a sweater / drop something / go to pee and she comes with you. Boom, she's at your place. Regarding your story, there is no reason, no magic, no specific line that worked on her. She just changed her mind, like women do all the time. Don't hamster it.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:52 PM
2

that's not exactly how I understand "be the prize", but you do you. My advice is: don't dismiss automatically girls that do not show explicit interest in you. Introvert girls can be nice partners, and are usually sex freaks too. For me, you have room for improvement: you care too much what the girl thinks of you and how she acts. You can be more dominant, more leading. Everything that is not a clear no is a yes. Do whatever you want. And if it is her, except if she clearly opposes it, do her.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:02 PM
2

Well, if the girl is shy and introvert, she might freeze each time you do something. Always assume attraction. Until the girl has left, you keep going. Even "no" should not stop you. The only thing that should stop you is the girl leaving. You don't follow a girl, never. If she leaves, she wants out. Anything else, she's up for it. But once again, if you don't like it, just ditch her.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:55 PM
5

You should not care why a girl is behaving in a certain way, because it could be: She does not like to talk She has nothing to say She want sex so bad with you she can't talk She is stupid and can't form sentence She is not interested During 'Nam, she lost her tongue in a grenade explosion You see my point? What you should care about is how you like it or not. When I'm in a fuck mood and I have found a girl I want to bang, I don't care if that girl is talkative, fun, ... What I want it that she …
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:31 PM
1

I get your point. Thank you for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:51 PM
1

It is not even an extrapolation. It is literally said that quantity of muscles and number of partners are correlated. I'm not discussing if it is true or not, but that implies that bodybuilders have more partners, since they have more muscles. I don't see how you can reject that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:46 PM
1

"More muscle means more partner" Bodybuilders have more muscle than average. Bodybuilder have more partners than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:38 PM
1

As said, don’t engage with her. Find balance back in your life. Center some time around yourself. Go back to music, to the gym, to socializing without her. Let her understand life is awaiting you, and she has more to lose than you.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:27 PM
1

That's exactly what I wrote.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 08:13 AM
35

My analysis was indeed off base. I failed to consider the resistance she offered the other guy, and I'm not sure how much she would have resisted me if I pushed. This post was written too fast, but I did learn something, so not everything is lost ;)
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 02:17 PM
3

That's what I would have answer to LazyCynic7
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:56 PM
13

One thing I'm certain is that I was right to stop, so no doubt there. You are right that my drunk behaviour was out of my frame, but I have no regret about stopping.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:55 PM
29

I do agree with you when you say it was a shit test and that I didn't pass it. It woke me up and put back in my head the "don't shit where you eat" motto we like so much here. But I don't see how stating the other guy is above me on the SMV ladder is pedestalizing the penis?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:19 PM
2

Does it confirm what I have been saying for a long time that men are self-centered beings who don't care about women's sexual pleasure at all and that it's women who have to jump through hoops to please men in bed? First: Is female orgasm the male responsibility? Second: Males are usually more active in bed, and therefore take the necessary steps to reach orgasm. What prevents females to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:28 AM
1

Dude, you were so close. You've just had to say "Well do something about it" and it would be done.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:32 AM
2

You can just say calmly and without aggressiveness to them : "Sorry dude, I'm trying to focus here, I don't wish to talk." It should be enough to get them out of your way.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:17 AM
1

Why didn't you come? Is it related to her ? Tell her. Is it related to you ? Tell her. Either way, fuck her hard next time you feel like it, and let her spin the hamster wheel meanwhile.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:07 PM
6

What's the question here?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:05 PM
2

I don't wish to spend to much time in this topic. I'll just leave you with this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burden_of_proof_(law)) I don't have to disprove anything. You are claiming a fact, you have the burden of proof.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:03 PM
5

I'll be nice and answer you. In Spain most attractive women who don't look like sluts Abusive generalisation based on a subjective criteria that is giving 0 information. ​ are very relationship oriented. Claim with 0 source, therefore based on nothing else than your opinion. ​ They will still bang the one Chad on a night out if they are drunk This sentence contradicts immediately the point you were poorly trying to establish just before. Good job on making no sense. ​ but that's rare and a one t…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:53 PM
6

This sentence is so stupid it gave me cancer.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:30 PM
3

You can compliment your girl. In fact, you should do it each time she is doing something you like. I usually compliment my girl after having sex with her. You, on the other hand, have trouble with your frame. You don't feel you are the prize, you feel that she is so beautiful you are lucky to be with her. And you are afraid that if she realises she will dump you ass. But maybe it is true ? Are you a prize ? Is she right to spend her beauty on you ?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:58 PM
8

Deprive yourself of sex to the point where eating oysters makes you hard. Then have vaginal sex with your gf. And no joke, you might be gay.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:13 PM
7

The problem here is not the woman, who seems to have been really clear from the start. The problem lies with this guy who does not have self respect or frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 08:58 AM
3

Well that last part is very true. That's why men are playing numbers on those apps, because success rate is so low. It is also why getting a match as a girl means nothing. The dude probably didn't even check your profile at all. What is meaningful is when men send you a message. At that point, they have (probably) looked at your profile. And that's also why it is funny to see girls complaining men match them but don't message them. They are confessing (but maybe not realising) their own unattrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:27 AM
6

I’m definitely an anomaly here — I used it as a hot or not app to amuse myself, and I rarely felt compelled to actually meet anyone IRL. Nope, not an anomaly. A lot of girls are using tinder this way. Sorry snowflake !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:16 AM
4

Congratulation to her I guess ...?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 12:13 PM
2

Then tell her to shut the fuck up and stick it in her ass You have both an education problem and an ego problem. Discussion closed.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:31 AM
7

What, a woman acting emotional and not rational? Astounding. Your proposed answer is agressive and rude. Be gentle, sweet. When a child is sad, you don't scream at him, you cuddle him.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:26 AM
6

Don't be so serious. Joke about it, don't take offense.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:21 AM
14

"With skills like these, it would be a crime to not let other people enjoy it."
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:20 AM
5

The way your post is written, I feel you have scarcity mentality and low value in your GF's eyes. If you had high value, your GF would freak out imagining you moving away, and she would come every chance she got. Instead, she *might* come in March, if you are lucky. And you are ready to assume all the effort and drive to see her. Make her wonder what you will do there. Make her do the trip to your place. Make her understand that you might have a seat for her in your journey, but that she has to …
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:12 AM
1

With girl you always go as far as they let you. Until you were in her pants, you are never sure you will be in her pants. So escalate, find her limit, and when you find it, try to circumvent it. Until you find the hard limit, and that's when you call off the date... Next time you try again.
/r/seduction04/09/19 08:29 AM
1

Your post is stupid. Yeah land whales bang less than hot chicks. Give them the opportunity, they will behave as the hot chick. It's not because you can't reach it that you don't desire it. Most men are faithful because they are lazy and lack opportunities. How many men would be faithful if young hot girls would beg for their cock?
/r/askTRP03/09/19 03:00 PM
4

Every girl has the potential to cheat (like every man), it does not mean she will do it. And if she does, you should notice it quite rapidly: she spends more time on her phone, has new interest in things she didn't care before, spends more time with "her friend's friend Josh". Don't let your lack of confidence dictate what you do. You can have a LTR and a family, people were doing it for ages, you still can do it. The biggest problem here is that you have one-itis. You are focussing all your tho…
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:38 AM
8

You should not care about that. Does she behave like you want ? Does she do what you're telling her to ? That should be good enough for now. If she cheated, it will show in her behaviour. Don't try to police her, it will make you appear weak and that could break an otherwise working LTR. Invest in yourself, talk to other girl. Let your GF be the one wondering if you are cheating.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:19 AM
92

The size of the balls of this guy must be crazy. And the girl danced with him, without opposition? That branch swinging happening in front of you. Take that as a learning opportunity.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 10:36 AM
-1

You kinda mentioned fate. To speak to a girl going to one specific uni, a guy needs to have the chance to enrol in that uni or somewhere close according to you. If that's not fate, what is it ? Those rules are just there to tame the beta. If you are attractive, a girl won't care why you are here.
/r/seduction28/08/19 11:33 AM
-4

WTF are those rules. Do whatever the fuck you want, and hit on women whenever and wherever you want. Don't listen to this beta bullshit "if it is not fate then it's creepy".
/r/seduction28/08/19 08:53 AM
9

Half this shit is just you rubbing yourself about imaginary facts. You want to see her, call her and set a date.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 01:10 PM
7

Rejecting a kiss for a girl can mean anything from not interested to not comfortable to do it now. So don't question her motivations, you'll never know them. She wants to meet you again. Isolate, escalate, kiss and fuck. If she rejects you again, you will have to put in balance your time investment vs the sexual return she provides and take a decision.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:44 PM
1

Then buy your own car instead of complaining you lazy fuck.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:42 PM
13

"I was never insecure about my burns" "The reason I'm insecure about my looks is because I have burn marks" Pick a side. Your problem is not your burn marks, it is how you feel about them. From what you are explaining here, you were not even rejected because you never even reached the point where a girl can reject you. You disqualified yourself first. You don't need a better look, you need frame. You have burn marks, so what ? There is a post on this sub about a dwarf and the dude fucking kills …
/r/askTRP27/08/19 08:05 AM
2

You don’t need viagra. Read about the Coolidge effect son. You are made for this.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:10 PM
2

I don’t see it like that. Women need 5min to cheat on you. So even if your LTR spends all of her time alone at home, you will never be sure she will be faithful. Starting from that point, I prefer to adopt another approach. I lead a life that makes her wonder what I am doing when I am not with her. « Going out with your male friend? Yeah sure, I’ll just call 2 or 3 (girl)friends, don’t wait for me tonight. » When your life is full and enjoyable, you won’t even have to worry about those things.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:58 AM
16

First one but with a twist. You don't act unaffected, you need to be unaffected. If you just pretend to be unaffected when you are not, you are lacking frame. But don't be stupid. If the girl is meeting solo a male friend regularly, you will have to look into it.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:21 PM
3

Neither you or me should "define" the wall. It already has a definition.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:33 PM
11

Women do not care per se about money. They care about having a dominant, high(er) status, alpha man. It is easier to be those as a man if you make more money than her. She will challenge you less, you will be more easily in control. But some men do manage to still be the dominant in some relationship where they make less than their women.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:48 PM
5

Being fat and ugly is not the wall. Fat and ugly 22yo girls are not hitting the wall, they are just unattractive. Hitting the wall is related to reproduction and fertility. Women in their 30/35 are hitting the wall because they can't serve their purpose anymore, and as such are no more attractive. As a man, there is no wall. As long as you stay the most alpha, you good, whatever your age. But it is indeed hard to stay the more alpha when you are 80yo and physically weaker than a 30-35 yo. You ca…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:44 PM
1

Who's the most attractive man in the world to you ? Imagine this guy. Now you are walking in the street, and someone from behind catcalls you. You turn to see his face and scold him, and there you see the most attractive, beautiful man you've ever seen. And he is looking at you, smilling! You tell him you don't like to be catcalled. He answers "Sorry baby, you are just so cute. Come on a date with me". Well he just apologised right ? So you can now date him and go to see his stamp collection at …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:31 PM
7

You are giving too much credit to what women are saying. You should look more to what women are doing. When a woman says she does not like being catcalled, ask her how she would react if Brad Pit was doing it. You'll understand then that being catcalled is not the problem. Being catcalled by man she does not find attractive is the problem. This is true for all your example. Women are as interested in sex and in whoring around as men, but they are more picky with who they want to do it. Moreover,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:21 PM
1

Don't do it if you feel awkward about it.
/r/seduction20/08/19 01:00 PM
-2

Lol
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 05:59 PM
1

I get that, that’s why I gave the newton example. But this sub is probably not the right place to discuss this
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:12 PM
1

I’m not sure you are serious. The man that makes them feel the most is the best for them. Ergo, the best man.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:11 PM
5

Why do you care ? Please don't create a post for each stupid person you encounter, that would flood our sub.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:57 PM
1

I don't know what black pill is, and I'm talking from a reproduction point of view (which makes sense for sexual strategy sub). Sexually, as a man, you have value depending on how good you are in regard of other men. Women don't need all the men, they need one. The best. That's why the top 20% fucks so much more than the rest. If you are at the bottom, you have no sexual value. Mankind reproduction rate depends on the number of women. Not the number of men. That's why women have by default value…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:54 PM
3

No man deserves value by default. As a man, you are what you achieve. If you achieve nothing, you serve no purpose, you have no value. Woman has value by default, because of her reproductive capabilities and what it means for humanity. Man is replaceable, easily.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:37 PM
0

The purpose of science is to understand how the world works, not to do good (i.e. most budget for science is for war related research). Ideology, religion and morality should never be part of science (with the exception of ethics, but even there the limits of what is ethical or not keep moving). Last time ideology was at the head of science, they created a time we now call "the dark age". But having a neutral, free of moral influence scientific approach does not prevent us to have a moral, respe…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 02:31 PM
-2

TRP is not a life philosophy, and being amoral does not mean moral is bad. Amoral means free of moral influence, as all science should be in order to reach the true. When the lion hunts the sheep, you don't say it is bad, it is just how it is, you just acknowledge the fact. Humans have an instinct too, we can also acknowledge it without being stuck by morality.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 02:13 PM
-5

Saying that a documented / researched fact is not true just by saying "do not trust any of it" is not the best way to dismiss a fact. I won't post more on the topic, I don't want to pollute OP post.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 12:10 PM
12

Dude. Overthinking much ? Just go there. From behind, from the side, whatever. Just say "hi", and work your way from there.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:14 AM
1

Don't confuse TheRedPill ideology, which is about male and female sexual strategy and how to use them both to the male advantage, with the mass of incels in the anger phase that populates the subreddit TRP and askTRP. TRP is not against women. It is an amoral, male centered way of thinking on what women are looking for, how they act and what it does imply for men. Male being superior to female is not part of it, even if a lot of frustrated virgins / heart broken guys would like to. You would not…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 09:06 AM
4

It’s a problem of ego, over-investment and lack of abundance. If she was just one of those girls, you wouldnt mind.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 07:50 AM
1

2 hours foreplay?! And the tomorrow morning one hour more? That’s way too much (for me at least).
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:42 PM
5

It's always the same recipe man: You meet, you kino, you isolate, you go as far as she let you. Don't be needy, don't be butthurt if she's not into sex directly, but take initiative, be fun, take lead.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:38 AM
2

It is not a science, people are banging for ages without ever learned how to do it well, so don’t worry too much. Hopefully you know an expert on how doing sweet love to her: herself. She knows if she’s enjoying what you do or not. But don’t ask her directly. What I usually say before doing something a bit unusual with my girls: « I’m not going to ask if you agree with me doing something, I’ll just do it. But if at any point you don’t feel comfortable, just tell me and I’ll stop ». Like this the…
/r/seduction15/08/19 08:51 AM
2

Do I have to do any follow up work to make sure she stays interested or do I just not text her now? That's pursuing. It’s not every day a chick is this into me where I literally have to do nothing. That's scarcity mentality. But I get you, a compliment is always nice to get. I still wonder what are your motivation if you are not sexually interested in her. To me it looks like you don't value your time enough.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:26 PM
1

Comforting her because she was embarrassed is not a bad thing. My theory is that she wants to buy her reputation back after banging you so fast. She's afraid that you will brag around that you fucked her. I would not answer to her, and I don't think you can recover from that.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:21 AM
41

A girl that says that wants your dick. I would have taken her face in my hands, approached her to kiss her while saying "let me worry about that".
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:13 AM
7

Why do you keep pursuing her if you are not interested? Don't you have better things to do ? Seems to me you are wasting your time and that you have a scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 09:06 AM
16

Your question is too vague and generic to receive anything else than a too vague and generic answer. Generally, you want to treat a woman like a child, A&A, making fun of her seriousness, ... But depending on the context, what you actually did or not, it could be totally different.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:33 AM
3

I have a beard and I shave my head. I never had more success with women than now.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 12:44 PM
1

Seems overthinking is one of your problem, so stop elaborate and stop reading elaborated answers. Act. Let me give you a simple advice: do exactly what you are doing now, but touch the girl while you are doing it. The results will be night and day. Read about kino.
/r/seduction08/08/19 07:54 AM
1

Scientific research is lacking on this point, so it will be your opinion against mine. In my experience, I find women to be more emotional, to have an emotional intelligence that men lack (the famous feminine intuition), and to sometimes have trouble to understand themselves afterward when they acted emotionally. That's why you can't ask to women what men they want. I don't wish to elaborate more on this topic. Good day sir.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 02:36 PM
0

Well, English is not my first language but I think emotive is the right word. They are more prone to be submerged by their emotions.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 02:25 PM
0

Emotion can impede rationality in both men and women, that's true. Although, women are more emotive than men.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 02:02 PM
4

The comment author is a bit of a drama queen, and a lot are on TRP because they are in "the anger phase". Ignore that. What's true tho is that women are unable to say what they really want. When they think about it, they will rationalise what they want, but when they are on the field, getting hit on by a man, they react on an emotional level, not a rational level. That's where the discrepancies appear.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 11:55 AM
1

Your mindset is wrong. There are not some girls for practice and some girls for serious business. Your approach should not depend on the girl. Be you, behave like you.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:29 PM
3

What you say might actually true. Receiving cum from an alpha male is the best achievement for a girl, as having an harem of fertile women is for a man. But do you want to pay child support for 20 years ? That's the real concern.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:27 PM
1

I don't have it that much but usually I go with "yeah I should stop hanging out with kids".
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:10 PM
3

"Hey, I'm fine thank you. Let's catch up at this bar at this time, first round on me :)"
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:03 PM
7

people were banging before the invention of reddit.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:03 PM
47

She is trying to preserve her reputation. It is in your interest to help her in that task. Give her plausible deniability. I would go for "I never sleep on the first night either, but I felt a special connexion with you."
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:02 PM
8

Your problem is that you have no frame. Your value system is based on what others think of you. It should be based on what you think of yourself. You need to find your balance. What is a quality man in your mind? How much of that quality man are you ? Start there. Once your value comes from inside, what a random girl think of your friend prank won't even reach your mind.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:41 PM
1

To answer your title: BANG A FUCKING LOAD OF OTHER GIRLS. It will pass.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:37 PM
12

When sharing a drink for the first time with a new date, usually I will have hinted how we will manage the payment. Either I say "I'll pay the first one", implying strongly the second is on her; Or I play a little game with her / bet with her and the loser pays the first round. When I do this, it's usually when I'm certain to win, so she will pay for it. I often get my drink / meal paid like this ! :D Anyway keep it light and fun. If she is really insistent on the payment and you don't really ca…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:33 PM
5

Girls do indeed throw comfort test in all direction. The fact that you show you are not giving what she wants if she does not give you what you want is what separate you from the rest of her orbiters. You have better things to do. Otherwise, you will tell her how cute and nice she is, and she will be grateful to you, but probably won't remember it while choking on chad's dick.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:15 PM
18

I think your answer was nice. Comfort are for LTR. You don't give comfort to plate, even less to a girl you don't fuck regularly. To answer your first question, shit tests are usually about you, comfort test about her. For the second, wait for her answer, if she gives you one. If not, soft next and game other girls. If yes, she will take your dick again.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:05 PM
1

She used you to see if her boyfriend cares about her. You are a tool for her. Hard next.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:11 AM
2

I am living the same situation. 3 years ago the woman of my life left me. I never had the same chemistry with a girl since then. It’s like when someone you love pass away. You accept the pain and focus on the good moments you had. You can’t bring her back from the dead. The pain will slowly fade away, but will never completely disappear. Still, you are still able to have other meaningful relationships. Live an happy life and you should be fine.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:02 AM
2

She rescheduled, so that's great. Accept the meeting, save the date... and game other girls during those weeks. In 3 weeks, maybe you will still be available. Maybe not.
/r/seduction31/07/19 01:08 PM
16

The Red Pill is addressed to men like me, who were raised in the idea that women are complex creatures, all different, with specific needs you have to address exactly in order to gain their favours. AWALT puts the women back in their rightful place, as an animal with an instinct, behaviours and needs you expect and understand. Also, it allows to fight the unicorn syndrome.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:05 PM
22

All the cats share a similar instinct, a similar behaviour. But if you own cats, you know that they are not exactly the same, they have different personalities. Still, they are cats, so their core function are the same. That's what AWALT means. And yes, it works for men too.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:57 PM
1

Stop considering her mood change as a problem. That will happen a lot. Don’t ask her how you will manage the entrance thing, lead the way just by saying to her what she needs to do. Don’t give her more weight/credibility that you would do with a 3 years old.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:03 PM
1

My god, that answer is so beta I'm not sure you are serious. You want to pay her stuff in the hope she will kiss you ? How much a loser are you ? Read the side bar.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:26 AM
2

Bang other women, it will put her value in perspective.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:20 PM
1

That depend on how much you like her. I wouldn’t wait for more than 4/5 dates. My time is my most valuable resource. Ask yourself what she would do if you were brad pit.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:19 PM
2

i'm getting horny enough, i'm gonna start fucking going door to door. Let me know how it went.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:07 AM
5

Your problem is that you don't have plates so you are in a scarcity mindset. She will be your only sex provider, which is giving her all the power. You are her bitch. Her seeing the nude is not a problem. Women like men with options. She knows you want her, and she wants you to work for it. She's trying to play her v-card to obtain your commitment. In those situation, I keep trying to escalate until the girl thinks enough time has passed and she has tested my commitment enough and we bang, while…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:06 AM
189

But did you bang her ?
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:51 AM
-2

Men are still the primary beneficiaries of the sexual revolution. That's actually my point. The sexual revolution allows women to have sex with the top 20% of the men without being in a relationship said male, which is positive for both women (sex with better partners) and the top 20% of men (more sexual partners). The losers here are the 80% of men. So even from a women's perspective, I don't think we can conclude "men are the main beneficiaries".
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 01:14 PM
4

Dylan is so wise.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 12:36 PM
0

It was not a complaint, just a precision. Why assume I’m not part of the 20%? Anyway, I don’t want to start an argument on your turf. Good day.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 11:40 AM
-1

even though men are the primary beneficiaries of this “revolution,” since they can fuck as many women as they want while making as little investment in their relationships as possible. The beneficiaries are not "the men", but the top 20% of men.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 11:09 AM
1

Own what you are, what happened to you. You got a (badass - women love it) scar in your back because your father was a bastard ? So be it. ​ It was not your decision to get it, but it is your decision to own it. When someone asks about the scar, you can either be frank about it or invent a crazy absurd story to avoid the topic.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 10:20 AM
6

Oh so you are a women. Sorry darling, but I'm not discussing with your head what your vagina wants. Enjoy your day :)
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 09:21 AM
3

Don't worry, she has reflected on a lot of nights since, in my bed while taking a pounding each time. She loves what she calls "my dominant side" and wants to see me every 2 days. Women want to be desired, to be submitted. Stop being a nice guy, it's not sexy.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 09:09 AM
2

Why are looking for the company of sad people? GTFO and come back when she is in a better mood.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:41 PM
1

I would not discuss with her at all. If she's interested, she will reach. She probably won't.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:17 PM
3

Soft next. In the meantime, pursue other girls.
/r/seduction23/07/19 11:55 AM
1

I understand why you have this feeling when you read my post. I focussed on the resistance she offered me, I didn't describe everything. While she sometimes stopped me or made me going slower, she was always touching me, kissing me on the lips, the neck, the arms, ... and I could feel her wetness through her panties. She was clearly up for it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 07:46 AM
6

For men I prefer the term Penisbrain, but the concept is similar. I do have a penisbrain, like everyone else, and he wins every time I'm not careful about it. This time, both my girl's and my headbrain have worked together so the penetration actually happened in my bed, with a condom. Thank you for your concerns ;)
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 03:24 PM
44

I don't think so. Apparently he didn't do it on purpose, but that's the best illustration of IDGF I've seen in a while.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:16 PM
46

"How much" made me laugh.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:11 PM
10

Well I've seen her 2 times since then, and she's coming back for more soon. So looks like I have a new plate. What knowledge do you want me to understand ? I'm always keen for feedback.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 12:51 PM
8

Not really my first step but thanks. Coercion might be a strong word when I gave her lot of chances to escape, like when I said: I answered "you are right, let me take it and we are going". But she didn't move. VB wanted me to keep going. Don't listen to what women say, look what they do. Yesterday a girl at my place was clear on the fact she didn't want sex, and she left. That's simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 12:46 PM
9

Yup, that's indeed my point. Don't address the headbrain (HB) (i.e. "I won't have sex while on my period") but the Vaginabrain (VB) (girl is full of hormones, want to be touched and have sex with strong man). At one point, the VB wins, all the time. ​ I envision you being butt naked next to her with all her clothes on. This definitely puts you in the weak position and doesn't really look dominant. She might aswell have just looked at you like "wtf are you doing". This is totally true and I was a…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 11:45 AM
1

I don't think all girls are that promiscuous, or even the majority of them My sweet summer child.
/r/seduction22/07/19 09:21 AM
7

It is not feign independence. Women need men for protection and resources. In today's society, they are not threaten anymore and they have their own resources. They need men for sperm and emotions, and that's it.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:53 AM
2

So you have the nerdy HB8 and the tinder HB8. Both receive a lot of attention in the field and are probably sexually active, but one decided to get even more attention by going on tinder. One is maybe sexually involved with one or more partners, while the other is certainly involved. ​ Yes you can meet good girls looking for true love on tinder and whores in the library (to take your example), but it's less probable.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:21 AM
6

Well, that's what I mean. Her all strategy (aka women hypergamy) is based on the fact that you will treat competition as it is: simple competition.
/r/seduction22/07/19 08:18 AM
61

Women treats men like men treats jobs. You don't quit your actual job until you have found another one.
/r/seduction22/07/19 08:12 AM
11

Your plate is breaking. She's trying to increase control. Either you go LTR with her (don't) or you let her leave. But the relationship quality will keep going down.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:00 AM
11

I'm pretty sure that's not something OP should answer.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 08:54 AM
13

OP is not discussing the sexual part of his relationship, so it's hard to be completely sure, but I have the feeling his LTR problem is elsewhere that what you state.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 08:53 AM
36

She's probably a bit jealous of your success. Imagine trying to be successful in your career, only to see one person everyday doing much much better than you (seemingly) effortlessly. It can certainly be frustrating. Something similar happened to me some years ago, with my LTR wanting to be successful at work and seeing me succeeding more than her. It led her to burnout, depression, and gave her ultimately a stress-related chronicle disease. She left me because she could not take it anymore. If …
/r/askTRP19/07/19 08:48 AM
1

You don't need game with girls who have a big smv difference with you. Game is used to reach girls closer to your SMV. The best your game is the tighter the gap between your smv is.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 11:06 AM
3

From my experience, once the HB knows you're trouble, he'll keep an eye on you. Depending on how much control this woman has on her VB, banging her again will be between impossible and complex. You need to arrange a meeting, to discuss / visit / any purpose not sex related. If she accepts, that means VB is still with you. Then you need to relax the atmosphere, with a bit of alcohol and tease a lot her VB, without getting spotted by her HB. Something like "yeah I understand nothing will happen be…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 08:14 AM
5

It was an innocent taunt :) Thank you for your valuable input.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 06:52 AM
7

Good illustration of my point. Thank you for your input.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 06:52 AM
6

You are right. Men are dominated by PB as easily as women by their VB. I think we just have an easier time to reconcile our HB and PB.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 06:48 AM
1

Answer is simple: female HB matters as much as male HB. ​ When you are drunk and you bang a girl that's below your standard, the tomorrow morning you HB will work hard to convince you she has plenty of other qualities. Women have the same process. Here we focus often only on the women, but men works pretty much on the same way regarding this.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 06:47 AM
13

Well, thank you for stating women don't have a brain in their vagina, but I guess we all knew that right ? ;) HB being off by default might be true tho, you gave me food for thoughts !
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 08:08 PM
9

Be careful to not automatically discard everything HB related. He still matters in the equation. If you please only HB or only VB, your relationship won't last. If you are full on HB, you will share a connection but no sex, and if you are full on VB, she like fuck you but probably won't event want to meet you a second time. ​ Depending on what you want, you need to act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 07:36 PM
8

What you say is true, but it is much more complex for less efficient results. If you want a LTR tho, you will have to address HB.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 07:34 PM
7

Becareful that I didn't mean that HB does not matter. HB is part of the woman as much as VB is. You just need to understand when each is deciding and when they are in background.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 07:33 PM
39

The problem with summary is the lack of nuance, as your answer shows. If her subconscient wants you, but that you keep asking to her conscient to bang it won't work. And if you know how to address her subconscient directly, you can get away with it without being hot. You'll be charismatic and charming instead.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 03:16 PM
3

Believe me, you don't ask for it. You introduce her to it bit by bit, starting with rubbing your finger around her anus, then you touch it directly, then you slip a phalange in it, then your hole finger. If that goes well, you put her on her side and start with your dick. I'm not saying this will happen all at once. You need to feel how confident the girl is. Sometimes you will be able to take a girl's ass on the first encounter, sometimes it will take months. Force it and you will never enter i…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:43 PM
6

Run
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:28 PM
31

Men and women are different, never use how a woman would react to chose your way of action.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 07:47 AM
1

Dude, you start to creep me out. I won't justify myself here. If you spent less time on reddit and more time approaching, you would know that I wrote nothing exceptional in this post. Stop the intellectual jerking off and get on the field.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 07:34 AM
3

You’ll never be bad with all the girls, and you’ll never be good with all of them either. Improve yourself for yourself before anyone else, girls will follow.
/r/seduction11/07/19 08:23 PM
1

Country girl comes to the city for some shopping before meeting you? Go as planned
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:30 PM
3

Become attractive (and it's not just about your looks). Creepy is not what you do, it's how the woman percieves it. If she likes you, it will be appreciated. If she does not, she will say it is creepy. It means 2 things: 1: you have to work on your attractiveness (looks, confidence, hobbies, ...) and flirt. 2: if a girl find you creepy, too bad for her. And you go onto the next one.
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:03 PM
21

7 dates and no kiss, and I here considering if I should get a second date with a girl that didn’t blow me. You are the problem op, grow some balls, go get that rejection. It’s how you grow.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:37 PM
17

Social media is worth it if you can show that you are in the top 20% of males. That takes a lot of investment, especially if you have to simulate it. This time can be put to better use to do something that will actually accomplish you, like learn a new skill, start a new hobby, anything really.
/r/seduction10/07/19 02:56 PM
-10

Not what I meant. It should be like this: Not giving attention to her Receiving sex from her Giving attention to her
/r/seduction10/07/19 02:40 PM
-12

Giving her attention without her providing counterpart (aka sex) does not make you look cool. It makes you look like all her orbiters, doing things for her for no reason in the hope of sex.
/r/seduction10/07/19 02:34 PM
167

I see two possibilities: Either she wants more than your dick i.e. your commitment. Or she had enough validation / attention from you, didn't need sex afterward. Tip for next time: discuss for 2 hours long AFTER the sex.
/r/seduction10/07/19 02:28 PM
4

Actually it should feel pretty natural for you. When she does something you like, give her attention. When she does not, ignore her, focus on your activities. It's a general guideline you can pretty much apply to everything in your relationship, just be sure to not punish good behavior or reward bad ones.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 12:39 PM
10

I see the score of my comment go up and down, so I'll be more precise. Op, you didn't find a unicorn. She is a woman, and she will behave like a woman. You have to treat her right (understand: treat her like a woman wants to be treated RP style). and don't forget to invest in yourself, don't settle because you have a girl. But if you vet her (and it seems you did) and you see mainly green flags, go for it. You don't know how many of us have to go through so much uninteresting, trashy, entitled w…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:49 AM
46

She looks like a good LTR, I would advise you to keep her close for the time it lasts. Believe me, you don't want to have to go through lots of boring, trash girls just to have some bad quality sex. When you find a worthy woman, that can bring sex but also companionship and support, you don't want to let her go. Be careful with what you read on TRP, lot of incels are giving poor advices.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:13 AM
3

Your last paragraph is hamstering. Leave that to women. She wants validation/attention, you want sex. If you give her attention without asking anything in return, you won't get anything in return. Limit the attention you give to her to moment when she behaves as you want (i.e. moving toward sex). As Ready4action said, she talks to you, you answer with a date.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:07 AM
2

I asked a question, I had an answer. I'm not here to prove anything, nor to brag to get internet strangers to like me. If you have question, don't hesitate to ask them on this sub, or you can even PM me. ​ If you want to convince yourself I'm dating uglies and that explain my results, do it, I don't mind :)
/r/askTRP09/07/19 08:36 PM
23

I'm sorry for you buddy.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:28 PM
3

Well I'm talking here mainly about tinder chicks. Most of them fuck on the first date.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:45 PM
1

Damn, I was found out!
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:42 PM
-4

Well, my experiences say otherwise.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:30 PM
-5

Well, I guess if you say it seriously, it can taken as an insult. But I do it playfully, usually while moving slowly toward her. In details, it goes like this: Her: I don’t usually go for guys like you Me: and I don’t usually go for sluts, but here we are I stand up and start moving Her: I’m not a slut!, strongly Me: Of course you are, and you know it *keep moving toward her, eyes locked Her: No I’m not, with less strength in her voice Me, touching her, talking close to her ear: You are my slut,…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:14 PM
2

Well, I'm a rational animal, I can't observe several times the same event without trying to understand it :)
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:27 PM
1

Thank you for your strong answer ;) As said elsewhere in this thread, I usually just answer with "and I don't usually date sluts", so I don't think I take it too seriously. I was wondering why several girls have said the exact same thing to me.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:02 PM
32

Thanks for answering me :) If you are right, that's good for me. I usually answer "and I don't usually go for sluts, but here we are", which often leads to sex.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:54 PM
5

Thank you for your answer. If you are right, it is more positive than what I was expecting, so I guess I'll keep doing what I do. Let's see what others think about it. ;)
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:51 PM
3

BANG A FUCKING LOT OF OTHER CHICKS
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:48 PM
48

Nope, never tell her that. Or in years from now.
/r/seduction08/07/19 02:10 PM
1

That ain’t happening because you don’t have the balls for that, she thought. And you proved her, didn’t you? Just my opinion tho
/r/askTRP07/07/19 08:08 PM
1

I don’t have a lot of context, but as I understand it: She was weighting your balls. « I don’t believe you » have the ball to make a move on me. I would enjoy a challenge like this. You move toward her, smiling, locking your eyes in hers and repeating « you don’t believe me? » for each time she is saying her line. Once I’m in front of her, hand on her neck, moving me face to her slowly, and going for the kiss. She will probably retract before you reach her. « And now you believe me? » There’s al…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:32 PM
16

That’s because TRP now is more and more about hating women and considering them as the enemy. When you actually understand women, you will see what they can add to your life, like an emotional intelligence we men lack. Men have created the world we have today not despite women, but in collaboration with women. Take a step back from trp.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:34 PM
1

So your LTR is a woman who wants to spend all of her free time with you?
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:58 PM
1

I usually need 20-30min between sessions to rest, but I fuck for 45-60min at a time.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:57 PM
1

I'm not sure we understand each other. I'm not saying a girl can't cheat in a club. What I'm saying is that she does not need to get drunk and in a club to cheat on you. If she does it drunk in a club, she would have done it elsewhere in any other situation. Therefore my point: you achieve nothing by preventing her to go clubbing.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:07 PM
1

Strange definition you have of clubs buddy. Personally I go there to dance, enjoy a drink, and spend time with friends, not "to mate". And I don't remember OP saying she doesn't want to go there with him. Once again, if she wants to be available to others, she doesn't need to go in a club. You achieve nothing by preventing that. If you don't want to LTR a girl that goes to clubs, that's not something I would do but ok, it's your pov.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:00 PM
1

I don't see it like that, nor I set boundaries for that. But you are free to do what you like. When your girlfriend is not with you, she should be the one wondering who you are shagging, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 01:43 PM
3

I agree with the first 2 sentences of your comment, but I don't see how wanting to have fun with her friends in a club is showing she does not value her BF. You need to relax, women are not the enemy, and they are not always on the edge of cheating.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:28 AM
8

Where there’s a chad, there’s a way, church or not. And you don’t do when intoxicated things you don’t want to do when you are sober. Clubbing is not the problem. Dating a slut is, I think we can agree on that. Our approachs are different. You want to remove the club part in clubbing slut, while I don’t want a slut at all, no matter the environment.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 07:29 AM
4

Why wouldn’t you want her to go to a club without you? You want your gf locked at home, never having fun? If the girl want to cheat on you, all she needs is 5min in a supermarket. Let her be her, and see if you like that her.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:52 AM
-5

❤️
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:30 AM
16

And that’s a shitty way of life 😉 if you don’t want to change that, be honest about it. You’ll waste less time
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:29 AM
12

Go on tinder, explain you want to play video game and smoke weed in your bio. Maybe you’ll find a girl like you.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:26 AM
1

Op, don’t listen to those guys. They are in anger phase and can only answer « bad ltr, breakup breakup ». Your GF is dressing lîke that to get validation and feel desired by other males. She wants/needs it as much as you want to bang other chicks. You are committed and exclusive to her (I guess), meaning you evaluate your relationship with her as worthing more than this need. It is time to see if she does the same. You told her not to dress like that, you have set a boundary. If she listens to i…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:22 AM
10

Congratz. Now, don't take this girl for anything else than a lay. She clearly showed that she's a whore.
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:59 PM
1

Sorry for the delay. That answer could be a entire post, but basically: How would you react if a toddler come to you and say "I'm stronger than you!". You would probably laugh about it, be playful with him. Your reaction should be different with your "friend", but your attitude should be the same. Your frame is your definition of the world, that means that the only thing that can break it are the things you allow to break it. It is all about mindset.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:57 PM
1

Well she's right, it is not good for her. Hopefully there's CONDOM. Use them.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 01:50 PM
3

I do agree with others when they say you did good with ending it. But I would say you are responsible for it. She behaved poorly, but a stronger male entered the arena, and you let him do it. She almost had no choice but to go with him when he shows he's superior to you and you let him. Your frame was broken and a woman will never help you build it up again.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:02 PM
3

Don't answer, and don't ever ever be try to be friend with her. It won't work.
/r/seduction02/07/19 01:34 PM
23

He didn’t say it is not important, just that they don’t have that level of control.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 12:16 PM
5

Women evolved to be attracted by the men who just pillaged the village and killed their brothers and husbands. Ignoring a bad bio is easy in that regard.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 11:33 AM
7

If the girl is interested, she will pretty much answer to anything. Other way around is also true.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:34 PM
3

"Look out, it's the guy that has the balls to approach women". You don't risk anything buddy ;)
/r/seduction01/07/19 01:48 PM
0

You are right when you said you might have failed if you approached. But with not going, you did failed. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take (easier said than done, I know). Just go for it, expose yourself. You don't need to be witty, smart, beautiful, you just need to go there. You'll deal with whatever happen.
/r/seduction01/07/19 12:26 PM
1

One of the girls with whom I had the highest number of threesome has once said to me "I'll never ever going to do a threesome". Don't test girls to see if they are up for it. Just go for it.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:21 PM
3

Don’t propose your date to go to your place. Proposes them to see your incredible stamp collection, which happens to be at your place.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:56 PM
3

You are not far though, and you are going in the right direction. Keep working on yourself, be the prize of your life, stay centered.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:42 PM
7

She has the power, you are a pussy.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:40 PM
6

Yeah, Japan is going so well japanese people won’t exist anymore in 100 years from here. People choose carreer over family and friends. So fulfilling Can we delete this post and ban op irl? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 02:23 PM
3

What you are saying is that you are boring. "Girls just want to have fun", not discuss astrophysics with a stranger. Best way to learn about it is to approach group of people where you see some girls laughing with dudes. join the group, say hi, and listen how those people are interacting with each other.
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:42 PM
1

My sweet summer child...
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:17 PM
1

That would be a true commitment
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:16 PM
1

FereallyRed nailed it. Don't try to find the perfect backup, even if you do your delivery of it would be poor. What you need is to not get affected by those jokes. I guess you are insecure due to your racial origin. Address that.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:47 PM
2

This situation shows that feminism is not a pro-women movement. It pushes attractive women in doing things that lower their value.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:45 AM
20

Ask any of your plates to show you her tinder account.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:52 PM
3

What people are saying here is that education is the reasonable way to go. Be reasonable, or don't. Just know that: - You are young and inexperimented, and even people with experience fail at launching business. Your chances are not that high. - Success or failure, you will have to live with the consequences. - At 19, you are probably more of a rusher than a thinker. With age comes wisdom (they say). But maybe your business is a wonderful idea that's gonna make your rich ? ​ So should you do it?…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:51 PM
6

That an easy one. If you are at the same place, if no contact: ignore. if eye contact: wink if she comes: be genuine (happy?) and if she ask how comes she has no news, it is because you are so busy.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 12:31 PM
3

Hug is american. if you are west european, kiss on the cheek will do.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 11:40 AM
1

Sounds to me she’s a plate, not a ltr. I would not break contact with her, I would just add other plates into the shelf.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 10:02 AM
10

You might have the knowledge, but are clearly not applying it. She's a woman, like any other woman. If you have an interest in her, approach. If she does not comply, next. That's it. That's always it.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:36 AM
1

Mission
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:04 AM
1

This long wall of text can summarized by BDE. Big dick energy. Look for it, women are crazy about it. Behave like you know you have the biggest dick in the room.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 06:27 AM
1

Yup, spend time on your mission, and give time to women that worth it.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:16 AM
1

But who the fuck cares why she’s like that. Would you write such a wall of text to know why a 3yo old kid behave like that? No, because it is meaningless. She was not interested in your sorry ass and gave you an hamster generated excuse for it. Be glad you avoided a crazy vagina.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:12 AM
2

Oh god, why would you spend SO MUCH TIME thinking and writing about a crazy chick that clearly admits she just wants a flesh dildo with her mugshot on it? You need to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:08 AM
4

Don't worry, what carOncl1mber meant was no vaginal sex before mariage for muslim girls.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 01:33 PM
1

Looks like your friend has depression
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:29 PM
13

All I see here is the report of a winner. You just did what you wanted to do, without caring about the small bumps you encountered. Even without the sex, this would be victory. Keep going brother!
/r/askTRP20/06/19 11:47 AM
2

GTFO MGOTW.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 11:43 AM
9

When she intertwined her fingers with yours was a call for kissing. Be as fast as you want to be, but girls don't always give more than one opportunities so don't lose them.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 10:06 AM
8

I’ll use this opportunity to say the following precision: Using money and status to gain access to pussy is beta, not alpha (which is not wrong per se). I’ll write more on that later.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 02:58 PM
1

Tell her to bring her friend, you are always up for a threesome.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 12:17 PM
2

Don't go too far with that, or you will become controlling and she will be in a state where "if you didn't say it is not okay, then it is okay". It is a double edge blade :) Enjoy your LTR !
/r/askTRP18/06/19 12:16 PM
2

You are right you can't expect her to follow your rules if you never specified them. But I still would avoid to go there for 2 reasons: First, your limits are probably common knowledge, and if you have to explain to your girl that no, sleeping at an ex's is not okay, maybe you don't want her as an LTR. Second, once you have set a boundary, you will have to act on it. If she breaks it, it's over. No second chance. So do that carefully.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:59 AM
3

I can't say I agree, but that might be due to location. Most of time I proposed a date to my place girls say no. but I usually bang them on the first date anyway, so my SMV can't be too bad. Just pick a location next to your place, and move the date to your place asap.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:06 AM
3

I concur. The only thing you can do if you like her company is to invite her to an event you are going anyway and game other girls in front of her. That might change her mind... or not. It will change yours anyway.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:02 AM
2

I’ve never used snapchat, so I might be wrong but is it just filtered picture and video chats? How is that worst that going out for a drink, where actual sex can happen?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 09:44 PM
3

She’s making you wait for sex. She’s trying to increase the pussy price. If you like her, play her game for a while but keep escalating. Waiting should not be a problem if you bang your plates on the side.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 09:32 PM
5

Do you expect your girlfriend to never entertain a relationship of any kind with another man? How insecure can you be? Don’t be jealous, don’t be stupid. Keep your eyes open but give the girl some freedom.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 09:30 PM
8

My answer: « you are a responsible adult and I expect you to behave as such ». Pressure flip on her, and you still have the liberty to judge what you find acceptable or not.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 09:26 PM
2

That's the right answer. The game is always the same, you just have to calibrate.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:41 PM
9

Well, the best way to not enter a girl's frame is literally to bang her best friend. Which I recommend for you to try. If you succeed, it can have one of 2 effects on the first girl: she will refuse to bang you ever She will be so jealous she will jump right on your dick.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:09 AM
2

Do not meet her again ever. That smells like rape accusation.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 05:52 PM
1

Hbr on a related topic: https://hbr.org/2017/02/how-to-respond-to-an-offensive-comment-at-work
/r/askTRP16/06/19 08:42 AM
25

Nope, it does not. Actually, the complete expression is AWALTEIW: all women are like that except israeli women.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 04:51 PM
0

Or she's bored and wants some dickie.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:50 AM
8

From my experience, it just pushes those people to keep and increase the pressure, since they get no opposition. I would not recommend being a mattress.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:48 AM
2

I don't think you got my point. "Making it everyone else's shit" is not my recommandation. I'm not saying OP should complaint about the guy's behaviour to his colleagues. My advice is to clearly state to this guy what's acceptable behaviour and what's not, in an impassible tone of voice. It's about self-respect and frame. Accepting disrespect publicly to try to act on it "discreetly" is lack of frame and fear of consequences. Moreover, it could tempt other to also disrespect OP, since he does no…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:39 AM
5

Hey buddy, well marketed sentence you use there, but you add no evidence to your claim. Going covert is a feminine strategy, as a man you should always rely on your balance, on your strength. I’m not saying you should go for physical escalation, but you define what’s part of your frame and what’s not. I always call out undesirable behavior, and no one is bothering me ever.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:00 AM
6

First, don’t think this behavior is automatically working for him. People notice when somebody keeps acting in an non professional way, and it can play against him. Second, I would call him out on every of his undesirable behaviors, politely but loud enough for people to notice. It will keep showing others how he is acting. No one likes a cunt. I insist, you have to look unphazed, like it is just preventing you from doing a good job, but you are not taking it personnaly. Thrid, if you have 1 to …
/r/askTRP14/06/19 06:25 AM
22

My previous LTR was like that. It stimulates woman's preselection instinct: she sees that you can bang other women, you are hight value, and you are hers. It is a compliment to herself, and really enticing for her. Develop that part with her, and man you are going to enjoy a lot of threesomes she will even organise for you.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 09:22 AM
4

You have find what you think is a unicorn, you entered perf mode because you think she's worth more than you, and because of stress you were unable to get an erection. And now, you are hamsterizing it "i'm not attracted". She's a woman, she wants to get sexually abused by a man she thinks is stronger than her. You were not. Thanks for her you didn't touch her.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 09:09 AM
0

Dude, you are a man. You don't get uglier. Too fat? Diet. Too thin ? Lift. Balding? Shave. Grow a beard. And most of all, grow a pair. Be the warrior you dreamt to be when you were a kid. You've got wrinkles and scars because you have seen things, you have lived things. You know, and you are centered. Own who you are, and no 20yo man will have a chance with the ladies when you are there. Believe me, I've seen it.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:41 AM
15

It is actually a benevolent advice. Being a man of value is being able to face challenges with success. Any challenge. (For reference, check 80's "super hero" movies like Rambo, predator, ... it's one man against all). When somebody tells you to suck it up, it is to save your value, because if you need someone else's help, you are less of a man. (I'm not judging or saying you should not ask for help if you have depression or else, but that will have an immediate impact on your SMV. Do it and wor…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:33 AM
12

So when your friend fucks a girl that has stated multiple times she is not into you, he « stole your woman ». How retarded are you?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:33 AM
1

I was speaking in general, not about you in particular. And people definitely lose confidence over it, but they were beta from the start.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 02:41 PM
1

If tinder crushes your esteem, it means you are looking for validation for who you are. It does not turn you into beta, it just reveals it.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 02:29 PM
2

I don’t get why people are so afraid of commitment. If my plate want to commit to me, that’s great and I’ll welcome her with great pleasure in my harem.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 08:39 PM
2

Plausible deniability is to allow the woman to save her reputation, to allow her to justify "it just happened" and that she's not a whore. ​ On Tinder, she's alone, and she does not risk her reputation. This, PD is not needed as much.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 11:55 AM
5

You whole approach is wrong. If you were working on yourself for yourself, getting out of a ltr would not mean you are back to square one. Also, you are getting back to sport and diet, which you should never have stopped, but that’s in the line of my first point. You are trying TRP as a temporary diet to get an LTR, without internalizing it. Thus the asshole/idiot thing.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:03 PM
1

Nothing happened until you actually bang her. She can flake at any moment. Don’t let the heath go down. Meet her asap.
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:16 PM
2

Be sad and stay in your misery if you like it. Don't take people with you.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:59 PM
9

It depends. If he manages to make it playfully, like a tease, it can actually lead to sex and more dominance. Example: GF: You are never jealous, are you ? BF with a smirk: Where you a naughty girl ? Do I need to punish you ? Boom, sex. ​ But it is true that "Do I need to be jealous" with fear in his eyes is a mood killer.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:04 PM
6

Humans are social animals. To use your example: if you stay in the room because you were not the first to go out of it, you are dumb and you are still a follower, you just follow the opposite. But dude, don't worry. You are a kid, and you will learn so much in the next years, especially if you use your energy to do so. Instead of focussing on those matters, find yourself: > Find a lucrative field you like, and learn about it. > Learn language, do sport, become more social (not less). > and more …
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:01 PM
3

It is obvious that most people having problem with meeting girls is because they are ugly, and not because they are just pussies who do not approach ... As a man, if you have a proper diet, hygiene, dress nicely, do sports and APPROACH GIRLS, you can slay. But maybe complaining on reddit is easier? And I'm talking by experience. Handsomeness is not what I can count on, but I'm rarely single. Stop finding excuses, find solutions.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 12:43 PM
4

Because you come here with a bias. In each of your comment in this thread, you are trying to prove your point, dismissing response that does not come to your way. ​ The fact is women are emotional creatures, if you can create emotion with them, you can get laid. Of course beauty is an enabler, as is charisma, wit, dress, humour, status, dominance, ... ​ Just read seddit, asktrp, ... and you will see a lot of ripped, handsome people who can't get laid. So there's must be something else ? ​ But it…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 12:20 PM
1

Being alpha is being centered. Don't let others break your balance.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:55 AM
7

Way to face responsibilities ! A true man.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:52 AM
12

Feeling threatened is not an alpha move. Being overly agressive is not an alpha move either. Those homeless guys are nothing, they have nothing, but they've still managed to make you react. They brought you at their level. In your place, I would have just said to my LTR something like: "well this guy is right, your ass does look nice in these jeans". Ensue bang at my place. ​ Seems you realized in your post that they could indeed hurt you. You had nothing to gain from reacting like that.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 08:36 AM
4

Incel shit. Please ban.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 06:30 AM
39

I'll go against the flow here. Don't take drugs. ​ You think she's so beautiful you need to perform. That's why you can't get it hard. I've been there. ​ Switch your mindset. Realise she's there to please you, she wants to be your plaything. She is you slave in the bed. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:11 PM
11

The girl reacted well. Your neighbor not so much.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:05 PM
1

Ofc, you are right. I’m not saying I only bang virgins, just that I don’t want to be one of the active plates of the girl.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:16 AM
19

Cheating, aka not respecting the exclusivity commitment, is immoral because you don’t respect your commitment. Hard to grasp?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:57 PM
3

Well, 2 things: I’ve never exchange fluid with my mom since she stopped breastfeeding me. my father is not a random dude. But guys, don’t let me waste your fun. If that’s your thing, please do. You’ll probably enjoy the salty taste.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:06 PM
0

Just imagining kissing her after she swallow his cum... barf. If being disgusted by that is « bluepilled », fine with me.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:26 PM
-6

Ew. I would have either told her to stop, cause I find it disgusting, or I would have stopped fucking her.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:02 PM
19

The wet wipe is now probably pregnant, and will divorce rape you after you will feel guilty and marry it. RIP brother, press F.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 01:20 PM
2

I would go a little further than "her loss". It is clearly on her that she refused your interaction. It is a win for you, you went there. Now, I would still analyse a bit too see how you could ease the interaction for the next time. For example, don't ask anything personal from the start. Try to discuss contextual or generic topic. If it goes well, then you enter personal space. But from how you wrote your post, I guess you already think about it a lot. Don't let this prevent you from going out …
/r/askTRP29/05/19 01:16 PM
6

Rules state that you need a question to post in AskTRP. You can get ban for that.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 01:56 PM
4

Doing thing in the dark (having a second account for girls) is a frame issue. You are still not stable in your frame, and feel the need to hide a part of what you are.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 01:44 PM
3

Nope
/r/askTRP28/05/19 01:00 PM
9

You need to read the sidebar. You don't give commitment to women if they don't put out and if you didn't vet her during several month. This story will end poorly. You have one-itis. Owning your car is good though, keep investing in yourself.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:33 PM
2

Well, she’s right about lame men. Look at you, you are analyzing TS music.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 07:57 PM
10

How is this girl your gf if you never banged her?
/r/askTRP27/05/19 07:55 PM
3

Really? I mean... really? Set a date at your place and smash.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 07:54 PM
2

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/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:12 PM
44

Women will never approach you, even if they like you. You are the male, you take actions. Stop being a tall muscular pussy, and go talk to them.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 02:42 PM
0

I think she is alpha windowed, but what she is showing also says she is a good quality girl. She's not a slut who want to get pumped and dumped, and she's looking for commitment and a serious relationship. I would not pursue if I were you, cause you would be the BB, but her former BF might have missed something.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:36 PM
0

Your subconscient knows best.
/r/seduction23/05/19 01:40 PM
2

Look into the mirror. What kind of man are you ? What kind of man do you want to be ? Who are the men you respect ? Why do you respect them ? Do you have a role model ? Why is this person your role model ? ​ Answer those kind of questions, find your center, where you are stable.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:48 AM
5

Do you consider banging Sophie as cheating ? Is cheating part of your frame ? You need to find your values and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:08 AM
11

Neither beating him or calling the cops will solve the problem on the long run. Split them. Organise the moving out of your mother.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:08 AM
1

There are several good books, but none of them are perfect because the author always ends in trying to go back to his own narrative (but I guess it is a problem with all the books). So read several of them and decide what's your reality. "Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships" "Our Inner Ape: The Best And Worst Of Human Nature" (and I recommend Frans de Waal in general), "Human Instinct: How Our Primevil Impulses Shape Our Modern Lives" ​ Those 3 are …
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:39 PM
10

It also mean she will leave at one point. Validation for women is what sex is for men. Op, would you stay in a sexless relationship? If you fine with her leaving, keep your way.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:26 PM
4

The problem of TRP theory, is that it is "built" by a lot of people, whom have all different level of comprehension of masculine and feminine sexual strategy, whom for a lot of them just hate women. And even the most accomplished redpiller often forget to take in account that women have a brain, only focussing on the instinct part. So yeah, you should open your vision a bit, read some anthropologist's books, you will get a wider view.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 12:22 PM
2

And as soon as you tolerate her intolerance, you are in her frame.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 09:47 PM
15

You broke your frame not because you ejaculated fast, but because you care that she cared.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:00 PM
3

You can inherit a lot of money without having done anything about it. Does that make you a winner? You can have a mission that fulfils you, but that does not make a lot of money. Does that make you a loser?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:34 PM
1

Being a loser - or not - is not about having money - or not.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 11:45 AM
5

Everyone needs a rest and to have some time off. We are animals, we sleep, we enjoy some lazy time. Don’t burn yourself and take the time to step back and just enjoy the moment.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:42 AM
2

Or, you know, just avoid disagreeable people.
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:53 PM
13

If she pops out her tits on command and you didn't bang her, that's probably on you.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:33 PM
24

Removing the shirt is often a larger step for the girl than letting me play beneath it. If she removes the shirt, she's half naked. If I play with her boobs beneath the shirt, she' still dressed. When she's ready, I remove both the shirt and the bra together, but usually to do that, I was already fingering her for some times.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:01 PM
17

She was not shirtless, but that’s not the point. It is the same kind of reaction: a girl feels overwhelmed by what’s happening.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:48 PM
99

Anecdote:A girl once told me, while I was unhooking her bra "wow, you are a quick one". I answered without changing what I was doing "stop me whenever you want". 10min later I was balls-deep in her. That how you should have reacted. ​ Now she hardnexted you so no problem, just be better with the next one.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:00 AM
15

Not enough information to know if she let him do that or not. From what I read, you have punished her for telling you / being honest. Don't expect that to happen again.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:21 AM
1

It won't help you. Let say you take this drug, and it gives you the balls to approach. What happens when you try to approach again? You are back to square one. You will create an addiction for yourself, because drug = success. It's a dark path, just to avoid forcing yourself. Go with a friend, give him 100(00?) euro and say he can't give it back unless you go talk to a girl. That will work better.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:31 AM
2

If you do it, let us now. ​ Or try this: look between your legs, somewhere in there you will see balls. Use them.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:13 AM
1

The problem on internet is the echo chamber. It exaggerate everything. Don't focus on girl is totally right, do things for you, improve yourself in ways that matter to you. But do approach, you are the hunter.
/r/seduction15/04/19 11:09 AM
4

Post and comments show lack of understanding the concept of alpha and beta. It’s a scale, a relative behavior. You are never alpha or beta, you are more alpha or more beta than... so there is as much alpha today than there always was: 20%, the top ones.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:51 PM
1

Indeed, I meant never invite her at the restaurant. But cooking at your/her place is ok, either you or her are cooking.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:00 PM
2

Nope, never do diner for first date.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:03 AM
11

You don't. The teacher has so much more power than you in class, it would be stupid to confront her. You keep your mouth shut, play the game, and wait for it to end. Being patronising is her problem, don't make it yours.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:57 AM
12

Invite her to a 3s, she’ll get the hint
/r/askTRP10/04/19 07:22 AM
4

Do your own shit and bang her regularly. Life is that simple.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:36 AM
6

Why would you want to have sex with a girl who gave you chlamydia ? For the 3s, postpone it for "personal reasons", don't give too much information and stay relatively unavailable until you're fixed.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:35 AM
1

You did learn to write, probably to speak, maybe did you even learn some sports, and so on. Looks like you can learn. Don’t find excuses, find solutions.
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:25 PM
17

So, you don't touch her at the first venue and let her dance alone at the second. Poor girl, she must have been so bored.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 01:37 PM
6

Supply and demand, the less you want it, the more power you have. Women wants sex with less partners than men so they decide, and if you're not in the top 20%, they won't go for you. ​ Top 10% of men get 60% of likes on tinder. Competition is hard there.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 01:05 PM
5

Why do you assume a mistake in your part ? She wanted commitment, you said you don't do that, and she acted accordingly. Everything falls in place.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 01:00 PM
1

You are mistaken about the role of look. It is a facilitator, clearly, but it is neither enough nor necessary. Confidence is what carries the game.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:42 PM
1

Is it mandatory in your company policy to tell them about it ? If not, case closed.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:34 PM
11

Seems like you have already a mission: jazz. Being a man is not being a masculine cliché, it's about becoming good at what you like. Any mission is a good mission, as long as it carries you forward, in the direction where you want to go.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:54 PM
5

"Lifting and abundance". These words keep being written for no reason like no one does really understand what it means. The guy told you you didn't escalate. You don't need "more lifting", you need more kino.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:08 AM
4

Don't flirt by text. Try to meet her asap to escalate. Girl 1 seems not opposed to meet you, just keep your frame.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:04 AM
1

I would still ignore. After all, she is free to do what she wants. Enjoy yourself and your friends. Keep an eye on her, see how she behave. If she’s into you, she should not encourage kino.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:48 PM
2

I'm gonna take your explanation request as sincere. So here is my example: ​ Imagine you are Jason Momoa. Most of the girls at the party are waiting for you to give them attention, and fight for it. Some are cute, some really hot, and some not at all. You are wondering which one is gonna choke the best on your dick. You are the prize. ​ Do you even realise some loser talking to your chick? Nope, because he is either less valuable than you or even if she bites it you just gonna take one of your g…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:08 PM
3

Nope, don’t do that, even for your LTR. So much insecurities and lack of abundance.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 11:23 AM
0

I'm not sure there is a word for it, or at least I don't know it. The closest is probably "benevolent sexism".
/r/askTRP25/03/19 02:49 PM
12

If you judge women based on masculine traits, you won't get far. This all sub is not about disrespecting women, it's about pointing out differences between the sexes. Are women less rational than men? Yes. Does that make them less worthy? No. The opposite of feminism is not misogyny.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 09:41 AM
5

RP is a sexual strategy, so there is a lot that he won't have a use for. What you can teach him is how to refine his masculine traits, like competition, the love for victory, discipline, controlled aggressiveness. Push him toward a competitive martial arts, 7yo is the perfect age for that. It will develop his mental and physical strength. ​ And lead by example. ​
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:32 PM
2

It is self-fulfilling prophecies. Stop thinking about what you are supposed to do, and do what the fuck you want to do. Girl will pay for drinks of a man she wants to spend time with.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:01 PM
2

Bro India is a whole different game. That directly contradicts AWALT. On an instinctual level, women are the same in India as everywhere else.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:10 PM
2

Go to a shrink
/r/askTRP16/03/19 01:34 AM
2

Yup, it’s probably too late
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:21 PM
0

Thank you for showing the state of this sub. And I gave you the best advice you'll get here.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:57 PM
5

She beta-ed you. You should immediately have called her on this behaviour you don't like (not blowing you). In your shoes I would play it like that: say to her that you could not have for a girlfriend a woman that do not like to blow you. Once it's done, 2 things can happen: She will blow you again as she did before, or she won't. If she doesn't (and it's her right), you HAVE to walk away, because she won't be able to respect you anymore (which I suspect is already more or less the case). A rela…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 01:50 PM
2

Read the sidebar, and stop asking stupid things before that.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 01:42 PM
2

I love how it is litteraly written « I get D from alphas and commitment from betas ». But hey, keep trying betas!
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:36 PM
2

There's what you control, and what you don't. You control your behaviour, not the girl's response. Don't evaluate yourself on element you do not control. Therefore, it was a success. Congrats!
/r/seduction01/03/19 01:55 PM
31

But now that you have told us your trick and since "Success comes to those who take it first", you will have to wake up at 3AM. Or better, why even sleep ? Then you will always be first. Could you write a post about that ?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 12:15 PM
2

If you want it and she wants it, I don’t see a problem here. Don’t listen to others, and enjoy!
/r/seduction28/02/19 07:45 AM
1

If she's already responding well to the kino in her flat, skip all the restaurant and outdoor activities. You are already giving her a lot of your time (and so, your commitment) without any engagement on her part. This kind of meeting sets the boyfriend/girlfriend frame, which you should not be against per se, but not so early in the relationship. ​ Good job on banging her, but it is far from the last step.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 02:45 PM
7

That’s actually a good question. Depending on the girl, it may depend, but most of the time girl will look for stability and status. Stability as she knows she can expect you to be there tomorrow. Status as she knows she’s more than just one of your plates.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:43 PM
3

Nobody is hiding anything. Male and female sexual strategy are just 2 opposing forces, sometimes one is taking advantage, sometimes it is the other one. There is no master mind, no conspiration, no evil will. Just genes playing their role.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 02:56 PM
2

This title is unbearable. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 10:55 AM
1

You are both thinking in absolute term, when it is all relative. The top 20% of the 9 males of your example are alpha, not beta.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:35 PM
11

Lol dude, you have a basic problem.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:20 PM
3

Source: trust me bro
/r/seduction18/02/19 05:11 PM
6

You bang any other girl, and poof, forgotten.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:06 PM
1

It is really that easy.
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:23 PM
1

Why do you say you don't care when you do ? Your actions are not consistent with your words. You have a frame problem. The problem is not on her side. She said she didn't want to have sex, and she acted on her words.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:10 AM
1

In your answer, you still sound mad. You don't have the right approach. ​ Is she familly ? Is she a friend? If not, why should you provide shelter ? She is a stranger you want to have sex with. She does not want the sex. So she's just a stranger. Do you host strangers ? ​ I would reframe the situation, saying: "I was expecting us to have sex. I don't mind if you don't want to, let me call you a cab."
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:05 PM
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