Recently, I’ve reconnected with one of the girls i graduated with and had history with, but never slept with because i was too beta. Long story short, the girl was dtf 3 years ago but i messed up. I had her in my room twice but never banged. After the second time, I ghosted her after feeling shame and weakness which fuelled my self improvement. She’s witness this transformation from the side.

Recently, i’ve hit her up for drinks. She essentially tried to frame this as getting drinks as friends as show in the texts:

Me: You can rest easy. You wont get stabbed. When are you leaving?

Her: Lol chill I never said I was interested

Me: ofc nw

Her: I genuinely just want to catch up. Her: If you still want to after finding that out. I’m headed up for the next week to apartment hunt, might be there over the weekend not sure yet. Her: I’m looking for a place for July but if I don’t find anything I’ll just commute from here

Me: Lol stop imagining something is going to happen. Its been 4 years (name), ppl change. Me: How is thursday?

Her: (laughing smiley) Her: blah blah something confusing

Me: explain

Her: itll be easier in person. Her: I’m in X this whole week, im not sure if i can make it back for thurs but ill have to let you know last minute.

Me: k

I get a feeling this chick wont pull through tho, what do you guys think?