Is there anything wrong with me just jacking off when my LTR declines sex?

MoviePlus7406 · 2020-09-03T08:55:34+00:00

Bro we don’t fap. Fapping is a defeatist mindset. Win the war. Earn that shit. She might want you to man handle her. It sounds like you’re asking her for sex and waiting on her decision which is very strange. She’s owning you bruh. Pin the fuck outta her. (You’re in a LTR so it is not creepy) she wants aggression.

ComplexProjection · 2020-09-03T09:15:36+00:00

Girls don't like to see you have alternatives for sex. It kills their power in the relationship.

You fapping when she refuses sex is not a bad thing per se, but I would no go there too often if I were you. At one point, she might recategorise it as "I don't want to have sex now, just go fap in your corner".

You can hint to her that you can obtain sex elsewhere, with dread (don't actually say it, show it).

Not being bothered by her not being available is great, keep doing that.

michael1962-01 · 2020-09-03T09:20:52+00:00

You ask 4 sex????

Just got a whatsapp from my young ltr. "On the way. Want to be fucked until i can't sit anymore.".... With a cute bunny heart gif.

I love her for those comments.

You're doing a thing wrong.

Try spanking her over your knee (playfully) as a opener, or handle her bent over a table.

TheStumblingWolf · 2020-09-03T12:14:42+00:00

Your body, your choice.

IXseed · 2020-09-03T18:16:01+00:00

Beat your dick like it owes you money. BUT if she keeps this up, I'd look into why.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-09-03T21:48:27+00:00

Here's what you do....Next time she pulls that, don't say a word or act like it bothered you. Grab your keys, put your shoes on and leave the house. If she asks where are you going just say "just going out for a while." and don't come back for 4 hours or so. Don't reply to any messages from her. Go have a beer and hang out with a buddy or do something productive.

Come back a few hours later like nothing happened. If she asks what you did just say "I went out" or "hung out with a friend."(bonus points if the friend is a female friend).

2 things will happen: she'll end up fucking your brains out and it won't be an issue OR she'll get insecure and breakup with you, in the latter case you are now free to deal with a woman who desires you sexually without inhibitions.

If this is still a problem after this, dump her and find a woman who doesn't act like that. And whatever you do, do not have a discussion about this issue with her.

Musicgoon · 2020-09-03T08:17:56+00:00

What's the frequency of this? We need to know the hit/miss ratio. Once in a blue moon, no biggie. But she should be snacking on your ass at least 90% precent of the time. If she's turning down your invitations to dine, you may have a problem.

Title	Is there anything wrong with me just jacking off when my LTR declines sex?
Author	paizk
Upvotes	0
Comments	28
Date	September 3, 2020 7:38 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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