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Are you stupid? Andrew Tate has been in RP circles far before today. He was one of the main RP figures while he was lowkey.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 09:04 PM
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I haven’t read anything here in a minute but this is a fantastic take on this simp-tuation. Will Smith is an eternal cuck and massive pussy but you posed a good perspective here on how Jada’s actions spoke a lot for her and the situation.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 02:15 PM
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I recently quit going on a couple weeks. I suggest not smoking when dealing with women. You’re more apt to holding your frame when sober.
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:47 PM
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You have a lot to learn. Hoe phases are unacceptable in LTRs. Someone said to demote her, and I agree. Please do not try and rationalize this away, it’s imperative you do so because hoe phases destroy women.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 07:21 PM
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I can relate to this as I was bullied in high school. I’ll share some ways I deal with it now and refuse to let it affect me. 1) Foster a cocky attitude. I think very, very highly of myself in comparison to my old high school peers. I am in much better shape than most (if not all) of them, and I look 10x better. This helps boost my ego, but I try to use this ego boost in a way that prevents me from feeling down about my past. Knowing that I’m a much better person now than I used to be, i look ba…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:53 AM
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That’s a good application actually. Thanks for that tip. If a convo comes around to something, I like to pepper in my thoughts on how I would tolerate it in a relationship, but I let the conversation steer itself naturally towards said topic before doing that.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:42 AM
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Basically something along these lines. Just take your response to the appropriate level of absurdity. If she refuses because of the “pandemic,” then it’s her loss and you move on. This is because it boils down to negotiated desire. If she really desires you enough, she’ll say “fuck the pandemic” and meet with you.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 03:49 PM
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I totally agree with the push-pull, but I think that there’s a certain toxicity that you can’t tolerate and it’s exactly what you mentioned in the beginning of that second paragraph. I feel it’s a bit different than the usual pushes you’d get in a push-pull dynamic. I think RP men are naturally okay with this dynamic. BP men are not because they always want their woman to be sweet to them, and aren’t happy when they get shit from them because they could think she’s losing interest and they get s…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 11:13 AM
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Frame is covert not overt, but you have to tread lightly with what you say regardless. With men there’s a bit more leeway, but keep in mind that a lot of men nowadays are feminine pussies and can complain to HR about something if they feel it offends them.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 12:26 AM
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You can’t, especially with how feminine everything is nowadays. Being self-made is the best way to be free to hold your own opinions regardless of how controversial they may be.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 05:20 PM
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No, they know what to do - simply stop the behavior. You don’t tell them overtly, they’re getting the message that you’re conveying
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 01:57 AM
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I got out most of what I wanted to in the body, and just wanted to throw in a small note to round out the conversation and briefly summarize.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 01:11 AM
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No problem, thank you for the compliment
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 12:57 AM
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Thanks for that tip. I’ll make an effort to test this out when I can in my interactions
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 12:57 AM
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I usually just accept the apology verbally and drop the topic immediately
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 12:54 AM
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The post was written looking at women since a lot of the memes I’ve seen have been about women and related to their behavior, but I agree with what you say regardless
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 12:34 AM
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You don’t have to deal with that shit. What I personally would do is cut her off for like a day or 2, no response whatsoever, and then hit her back up see how she’s acting. If it continues, I would cut her out
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 12:33 AM
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I wouldn’t give him too much shit. There’s always the period of time when we’re involved with TRP and we try and look for the “Red Pill solution” to everything, since we are trying to know what to do and how to react in different situations. He’s probably in this phase and is still coming out of his old conditioning. Best we can do is advise despite all of the cringe.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:41 PM
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No, because I do full body work at home and still run. You can still workout and prevent the collapse, but it also helps to fill the time you’re not working out with other things to do. Don’t slack, find yourself a way to work out.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:44 PM
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Use that to your advantage. How would you feel towards a hot girl who is ignoring you, when you know she’s just sitting at home? You start to chase her a little bit (you can see this with the amount of people who ask what to do when a girl doesn’t text them back). The ones into you won’t just stop talking to you, they’ll invest more into you (mentally).
/r/seduction31/03/20 09:01 PM
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No problem. Didn’t want to trash you completely but point out why your Game is flawed
/r/seduction31/03/20 05:13 PM
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I don’t think this is good advice that you’re giving at all because this is super validating to the girl; you went to the extent of sending emails just to maintain contact with her. No matter how you look at it, they feed off of validation, and get that from their orbiters. You become this with the amount of validation you give her. You should be fine not contacting her (especially through email) and shouldn’t have to go that far to just maintain contact. If you’re gonna have success with her, y…
/r/seduction31/03/20 04:18 PM
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We all cringe at how we used to be like. I cringe a lot as of recently but I try not to look back too much at my past.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:49 AM
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Calling bullshit on that because you clearly don’t show it. TRP isn’t just something to help you get women, and you haven’t realized that yet or else you would be putting those lessons into practice elsewhere in life.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:47 PM
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Beta bait it sounds like. Ignore and move on, speaking from experience.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:30 PM
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What I told you is a long-term thing. Personally, I occasionally still struggle but I’ve come a long way already. I first found TRP almost exactly 2 years ago. Changing your self-esteem is not something quick, it takes long. You have to forcefully ingrain it into your psyche for it to eventually become permanent, and you do that through putting it to action as I previously recommended. This, combined with self-improvement aspects, and you will eventually reach a point where you know you’re the s…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:32 PM
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Act on the belief. Start making your actions reflect your belief. You have to put what you learn from TRP into practice. Couple of examples: - Someone who used to pick on you starts giving you shit again. You know you’re the shit, so why care? Would a king take time out of their day to address shittalk coming from someone that doesn’t matter? No, they have bigger and more important matters to tend to. If anything, they would address it one single time, succinctly, and move on. Demonstrate throug…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:50 PM
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Good advice. Take the lead here and make a call on what to do. You should generally have an idea of how interested she is based on the second attempt
/r/askTRP10/02/20 08:27 PM
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Agreed. I think it could be more concise and some obvious things didn’t occur to me when I originally wrote out the post (which people have pointed out clearly lmao). I’m going to be keeping it in mind for the next post I make
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 08:04 PM
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Find out what you did wrong and move on. No use in dwelling over a mistake because it’s now out of your control.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:53 AM
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I’m inclined to say that you must break it off entirely because you’ve already abdicated the Frame, and it’s unlikely to change given the situation. If you still insist - You need to take it much slower. Rule of thumb I’ve seen thrown around is to only consider LTR after 6 months of fucking her, unless you’ve already disqualified her as LTR material for whatever reason. Don’t tell her that you’re “downgrading” her. You never tell them what level you’re moving them to, you only do that mentally, …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:22 PM
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You missed the point entirely. You’re in an LTR because she decided it, not you. She didn’t work for this and simply assumed it, and you went with it. You’re in her Frame because you followed her lead as she progressed it to an LTR. It was not your choice, but you felt compelled that it was. This is the fundamental mistake you made here.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:07 PM
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Fair. Refer to what I said that follows.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:05 PM
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No. Are you enjoying the sex? Realize that your concerns are what is important. If you’re busting your nuts and enjoying sex, there’s nothing to worry about. You must think from a self-centered perspective. Her doing that is her own choice. Don’t worry so much on pleasing her more than pleasing yourself.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:57 PM
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Women don’t upgrade themselves unless they hold the Frame. In this case, she does. You should consider cutting this off quickly because a healthy relationship cannot have a woman holding the Frame. I didn’t have to read through the post to say this.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:53 PM
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Why do you have to live with women? Change this if possible. Also, they aren’t making yourself the center of drama - you are. You lack indifference and care too much about this. If you stop caring so much and ignore it entirely, they will not act that way. You feel you’re in the center of the drama because how you’re acting is naturally pushing your own self into that. Realize that their drama means close to nothing, and that you have bigger things to worry about. Ingrain this into your mind and…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:52 PM
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This seems similar to working out on days where you don’t want to. You don’t want to do it, but you know you must, so you get up and do it anyway. Start small and build your way back up. Start with flirty comments or gestures, nothing outlandish, and work your way up to your normal Game. Ease yourself back into the Game, don’t go all out approaching left and right yet until you’ve got the motivation back to do it. You’ll burn yourself out early.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:45 PM
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How old are you? You should just watch her behavior. If what you say is a genuine observation and you aren’t just trying to make something out of nothing, then watch what she actually does over a period of time. Actions speak louder than words. If a girl had such a radical change in behavior like this, something had to have happened that you don’t know about. Paying attention to her actions should tell you what it is. Historically, I’ve seen girls put a LOT more effort into a relationship when t…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:13 AM
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Agreed. I had a girl I wanted to fuck do something like this. If I’m not mistaken, what she’s doing is called “beta bait.” If you fall for it, and respond enthusiastically to going out with her, she’s gonna leave you on read or just put in close to no effort in planning anything, and mentally will continue categorizing you as a beta. Doing what this guy suggested is your best bet.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:08 AM
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Get comfortable with silence. Begin by making what you say more concise. Try to omit any details of your speech that isn’t important to know and work on speaking concisely and delivering only important information. Saying less is doing more. As you begin to do this, you’ll learn what you don’t need to say and what information needs to be conveyed for whatever reason. You’ll grow to become more comfortable with silence because you’re talking less, and therefore facing brief moments of silence mor…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:05 AM
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Have a couple of drinks. Do not force it with the drinking (4+ at a time), and loosen up a bit. Enjoy your alcohol, don’t abuse it.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:57 AM
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I don’t need a TLDR, you need to learn how to write properly. You can only make yourself an orbiter, women don’t do that to you. They do that to betas. You choose to keep yourself around and communicating with her even when you’re not fucking her (I’m assuming you’re not).
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:38 PM
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What?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:32 PM
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A little bit, I feel. It’s important to keep yourself in check, though. Remain humble, but know your value
/r/askTRP27/01/20 10:11 PM
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I’ve felt this, and managed to no longer feel that way. The way, I believe, to handle it is to realize that they really aren’t better than you. Nobody is. It’s important to treat yourself like and picture yourself as a god amongst men, so you then generate confidence. You must think this: if people don’t want anything to do with you, it’s their loss. If you place yourself on the same level as them mentally, completely disregarding any discrepancies in status, looks, or women, then you’ll notice …
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:06 PM
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That’s irrelevant in this discussion. The discussion is about how wealth doesn’t necessarily result in happiness, not “alpha” or “beta” tendencies. A lot of men in the world, whether they embody predominantly “alpha” or “beta” characteristics or not, are still prone to this feeling.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:31 PM
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I see what you mean. I’m looking at it from an exercise science perspective at least. If they’re gonna go outside and run, it’s best they have the knowledge on what they’re doing before
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 01:53 PM
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That’s not how fat loss works. You can do fasted cardio, but if you eat more than what you burn in a day, you’re gonna gain fat. Calorically, cardio is good because it’s easy to burn a quick 200 or so calories from a quick session.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 01:53 PM
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Fasted cardio doesn’t really have any additional benefit than regular cardio. I think a better path would be to wake up early, eat a small snack or meal and wait about an hour to go do cardio. You’ll have enough fuel for a solid cardio session and the digestion, by then, shouldn’t get in the way of your workout. I do this on Tuesdays and Thursdays before I begin my day, and I feel excellent afterwards. Goes a long way. If you’re trying to gain weight, you’d be able to eat a fair amount more afte…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 08:12 PM
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Low body fat %
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:27 PM
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The older guys with families can find meaning through some source of work they can build. I think of Jocko Willink in this case. He was a Navy SEAL who saw some crazy shit while deployed. Now he has a leadership building company that works with large corporations and has a best-selling book. Top comment said it already, but the meaning is found through what goals you develop for yourself and your progress towards them.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:13 PM
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Yes, there is a reason to not get it - you’re paying to know how to text a girl when you have all this free information on the internet on how to do that.
/r/seduction13/06/19 09:40 PM
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He had text proof that he posted all of to Instagram
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 11:14 AM
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Are you okay? Kevin Spacey got accused of groping a girl and it tarnished his career and international reputation.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 01:18 PM
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You forget that it only takes one rape accusation for society to paint you as a rapist. You have to cover your bases, it’s crucial.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 12:42 AM
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That’s really good advice, though it counters the advice I have heard of controlling the logistics
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 12:41 AM
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A voice recording of her verbally consenting, texts saying she enjoyed herself (which I use) or saying that she wanted you to come over, or wanted to come over herself. I’ve seen people suggest taking a picture together with a caption saying “great night” or something along those lines, but I usually don’t pursue that option. In some states, the voice recording can be considered illegal surveillance if its a two-party consent system since you’ll probably not have the consent of the other party, …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 09:19 PM
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Calls rape. Some are crazy enough to do this, which is why guys on TRP urge everyone to get consent through messages or get some sort of evidence of consent. It’s also why people are urged to flush their condoms down the toilet to prevent insemination via used condom. You always have to watch for crazy women and be sure the girl you’re fucking has a straight head.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 08:32 PM
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Good post, but I would like to mention the old saying: don’t stick your dick in crazy. I insist that it’s important to really vet even who you plan on fucking, because if you fuck a crazy girl, there’s a higher chance that shit can hit the fan. Im in a fraternity, and naturally, the women most available to me are sorority girls, which is already a big red flag. Every single sorority girl I’ve wanted to fuck is crazy, and my brothers have mentioned something about each one to me. You can also tel…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 08:19 PM
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It also shows that every woman has the capacity to be a slut. Note that this doesn’t mean that all women are, though.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:39 AM
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Have a plan of where you ultimately want to be, and then plan backwards. How are you gonna get there? What is a good starting point to ultimately climb to the top? Find that out in your field and put it to action. It might suck to not be there yet, but you have to operate with the end goal as your motivation. Start at the bottom, put in endless hours of work, and make sure you remember to climb up the ladder when the time is right for you.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 03:39 PM
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Club music is usually trash. I wait to go until there’s an artist I like that is DJing that night, since I know the music will be good and I can enjoy myself. I don’t go when it’s a random DJ. A tip I saw somewhere on askTRP was to not go with the intention of picking up chicks, but to have fun. Pick up a girl if you’re getting IOIs from one, but if you’re not, just have fun. I’m sure you’re competent enough to notice IOIs, so try this out and see how it works for you. You’ll be able to enjoy yo…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:56 PM
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He’s the reason we have all the good advice we have today. Respect him
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 10:56 AM
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I disagree with the last point, and I’ll bring up my previous experience to prove it. Walked near a girl to talk to my buddies at our house party. Girl’s friend came up to me to put me on with her, so I danced and made out with the friend after 2 minutes of speaking to her. Went to take her upstairs and close and her friends came and pulled her away. Their openness to being a slut, according to TRP, is based on their internal desire for a man who they perceive as being “Chad,” for lack of a bett…
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:14 PM
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College junior. I have a very stressful life w the extracurriculars I’ve taken up
/r/askTRP28/04/19 10:37 PM
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Right. I have trouble keeping this in mind, but I shall going forward
/r/askTRP28/04/19 10:37 PM
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Not in the slightest. I’ve dropped this plate for 3 months and picked it back up again without any feelings whatsoever. I really don’t care much about this girl and can drop her whenever I want really
/r/askTRP28/04/19 09:06 PM
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I’ve had issues getting it up with this one plate, but have fucked her with no issue the first time we had any sort of sex. It’s odd
/r/askTRP28/04/19 07:46 PM
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Yes, I take dick on a daily basis
/r/askTRP28/04/19 07:02 PM
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That’s actually helped me in the past. Rough talking also helps me, but doesn’t really sustain it for too long. The way I can get hard without porn is exactly this, so I think this may help me. Thank you
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:16 PM
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Already use magnums. Only start drinking on Fridays, occasionally on Thursdays, until Saturday. I go most of the week not drinking. I too think it’s mental. Should I be focusing more on my pleasure and stop paying attention to trying to last longer?
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:14 PM
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I do cold showers during the week in the morning, already exercise, but don’t really eat Brazilian nuts. What’re their benefits?
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:13 PM
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I don’t think fapping needs to be cut out entirely, more so limited to once a week just due to changes in t levels
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:46 PM
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Will begin to cut porn from here on out. I have been lifting and doing cardio since September. I have already discovered my issue with tight condoms and now use Magnums. I believe it might be mental in some ways also. Thanks for the porn tip
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:45 PM
2

I would recommend volunteer work. It’s a good way to give back to the community and you meet great people also
/r/askTRP19/04/19 11:43 PM
1

Making this mental adjustment once I began reading about TRP has benefitted me in more ways than I can count
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:41 AM
1

No, because we read the sidebar
/r/askTRP18/04/19 03:02 PM
1

No, actual workouts. I’m doing GZCLP at the moment, do all of my sessions in the mornings
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 07:33 PM
16

Fitness stuff can get posted here since having good fitness is an absolute must for any man who is RP aware. Also, there’s an entire flair for fitness on this subreddit...
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 05:57 PM
1

Most are within the 9-5 range. I only have one thing that isn’t, and that’s my fraternity’s chapter meeting which is on Mondays at 7 PM. On Mondays, I usually will have to knock as soon as I get back from them
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 11:38 PM
3

I’ve heard the argument that alpha women don’t exist.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:14 PM
0

I think you’re right about that. When you have a system in place, it makes it easier to loosen up and enjoy yourself at appropriate times.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 04:17 PM
1

I described why in the post. If it doesn’t work for you, don’t do it. This is just a structure that has helped me, so I shared it in the hopes that it would help others.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 04:16 PM
1

This is easily the most bullshit thing I’ve read so far
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 10:49 AM
2

I’m doing IF, so no breakfast. I train fasted, but not for any magical benefit, just simply because it’s part of my routine. You have to read up more about how to train fasted on an IF protocol
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 10:46 AM
3

Sleep and wake up at the same time during the week
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 08:48 AM
1

That information is in the Conclusion
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 08:40 AM
3

Any actual workload I handle between 9-5 during the week.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 08:40 AM
2

If you want, you can use the hour before you sleep to fuck a plate. On the weekend is when I would prefer to do anything tho
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 12:33 AM
1

Pesquisa no Google “Eisenhower matrix.” É uma sistema que divide suas tarefas. Elas podem ser importante e urgente, importante mas não urgente, não importante mas urgente, e não importante e não urgente.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 12:31 AM
3

Sounds like bullshit to me. Never once have emails drained my mind of energy.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 11:36 PM
1

Use the Eisenhower matrix so you’re not dicking around on unimportant shit during your pomodoros.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 11:35 PM
0

I’m not. I’m saying that 2 beers or less for men a day is fine because it’s part of what I learned in my major.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 11:13 PM
1

Mentioned in another comment that I don’t follow this on weekends so I have an opportunity to enjoy myself occasionally. Regardless, I go out to have fun. If I spot interest from a girl, I know how to handle it. My goal is to be as successful as I can at school and learn as much as possible.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 11:02 PM
5

Blow the candles out before you go to sleep. I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’ve given my credit card information to Nigerian princes because I wake up at 4:30 AM /s
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 10:59 PM
3

Todoist. I believe so, but I didn’t read the book yet, just read a review that mentioned it
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 10:58 PM
2

Do you have an allergy to dairy, gluten, legumes, and alcohol? I highly doubt you do. Legumes are a source of protein and I have yet to hear about anyone who is allergic to them. Furthermore, alcohol can be beneficial when consumed in moderation. If you have 2 beers a day, you’ll still be in good shape.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 10:29 PM
3

I think I will try my best to stick to it once I’m out of college. It’s a nice structure imo Regarding veering once in a while, I do that. I outlined how I balance work and play in a diff comment
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 10:25 PM
2

The only thing I can tell you about circadian rhythm is that it’s your body’s internal clock of sorts. If you go to sleep and wake up at the same time most days, your body will get used to it over time. Was incredibly difficult beforehand to wake up at 4:30, let alone sleep at 9, but I’ve done it so much that I’ve gotten used to it.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 10:23 PM
2

Entertainment time can be before 9 AM, time permitting, 5-7 PM (8 PM if I don’t have any chores to take care of), or the weekends. I use the Pomodoro method when working, keeps me focused. Getting 7.5 hrs of sleep at the very least would be my suggestion. Time constraints might have you getting less for whatever reason, but it’s preferred to time your sleep according to the average sleep cycle length (1.5 hrs/cycle), so you don’t wake up drowsy as shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 07:51 PM
4

I don’t set it to extremely cold, but to a point where it begins getting cold. If I get used to it, I turn it a bit colder. Takes time getting used to
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 07:28 PM
1

Junior. Every now and then I get drowsy, so coffee at the right time will help that
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 07:09 PM
57

Sucks sometimes, but I realized that as I began to participate more in extracurricular activities, I would need to have my daily time management on point, which is why I structure my day so strictly like this. Additionally, I don’t follow it on the weekend. I use the weekend to go out and enjoy myself and forget about my work during the week. I get stuff done on Friday that’s due on Monday, so then it doesn’t turn into a task to do on the weekend. I have fun when possible, but when it’s time to …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 05:20 PM
1

I want you to explain how L-Arginine will improve erections
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:14 AM
5

Reminds me of the saying from Neil Strauss’s book “The Game”: men want rocks, women want gold. Men want sex, but women want a good time.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 05:17 PM
10

I wouldn’t delete Tinder to be honest. I would keep it, see what happens, but don’t be expecting anything from it or investing so much time into worrying about it if you’re not a high value man and still have to build your masculine foundation.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 10:42 PM
2

If people are insulting ECs, they haven’t read the main sidebar, or else they would think twice.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:38 PM
7

Firstly, congrats on your sobriety. Keep it up brotha. I usually drive myself to bars when i go out to game. As a result, I limit myself to like 2 beers and then drink water once I’m done drinking since I’m driving. I’ve learned to not really care if it looks weird drinking water at the bar, and you shouldn’t either, especially if you’re looking to maintain your sobriety. If chicks shit on you for drinking water, treat it like a shit test and make a joke out of it.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:58 AM
13

You don’t escalate with a kiss. You agree and amplify by making a joke out of it.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 09:34 PM
2

You should post this to askseddit. Nevertheless, I’m so confused by this post
/r/seduction10/03/19 01:53 AM
1

I agree with this based on the assessment. If you remember the “How to Manage your Bitches” piece in the sidebar, the author goes into detail on the amount of attention each level requires.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 01:48 AM
7

I’ve noticed this also. The higher frequency at which a girl posts about her man, the more likely it is that she either fought with him or cheated on him. The uptick in post frequency is noticeable, so you kinda know when something went down and when something didn’t.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:09 PM
1

Opener doesn’t mean anything. Lock in eye contact and stick your hand out to dance with her, or, in appropriate environments, come up with whatever the hell you want to say, and say it.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 04:15 AM
21

It’s normal to feel if you recently got into TRP. I feel it sometimes and I’ve been into TRP for a year already. It’s part of y e a r s of beta conditioning. You want a relationship because we, as men, are romantics. We want a girl to experience life with, but it does take a LOT of vetting to find a good one. It’s tough to switch gears and maintain a girl as a plate for 6 months before even thinking about LTRing her, just because you usually would LTR within 3 months pre-TRP.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 04:12 AM
29

Facts. If you’re leaving, it’s fine. If you’re not, different story amigo
/r/seduction08/03/19 07:56 PM
2

I think your logic on this is right, but I’d be interested in seeing what an E.C. or a Senior Endorsed Contributor has to say about it
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:05 PM
7

I don’t believe that “naïve” trope. AWALT.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:44 PM
-1

Excellent response
/r/askTRP02/03/19 08:48 PM
50

So it’s unconstitutional. I can’t wait until someone makes a legal case against this
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 09:53 PM
2

First step to fixing it is acknowledging it. Good stuff OP, it’s a learning experience for you, don’t stress about this girl
/r/askTRP22/02/19 08:13 PM
9

What’s harsh is going behind your boyfriend’s back and trying to branch swing. You did well bro
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:03 PM
2

I would be satisfied with achieving professional status and working with a top level team. As long as I can become professional, I will be happy.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 06:48 PM
2

No, but you don’t have to to become a professional coach. I began working towards my pro license since I was 18. I’m now 21. My next license is the C License, which will allow me to work with professional teams already. Aside from that, I’m studying sports science to supplement my education. I’m not deluding myself with these fantasies. I’m actively working towards it and have been for years already.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 06:46 PM
3

Mano, o subreddit do Brasil é cheio de esquerdista. Não adianta fazer um post lá.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 09:18 PM
7

The West is a mess
/r/seduction16/01/19 06:47 PM
59

And either empty it or flush it down the toilet when you’re done to prevent spermjackers.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 06:53 PM
6

This is a proper smack upside the head some people needed. I kicked that mindset before I decided to switch to a 4 year university from community college and have not regretted it since. I have tons of connections and should easily land a job as a result.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 10:59 PM
1

Look up Phrak’s Greyskull LP variant. That’s what I’m on right now and it’s excellent
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 10:07 AM
4

I can’t tell you what I did to avoid DOMS, but I can tell you what I’ve been doing to improve lifts. Nutrition-wise, I redid my macros to be 35% carb, 30% protein, and 35% fat which remains consistent whether I’m on a bulk or cut. This has helped simplify my macro count and has helped me gain muscle. Training-wise, I adopted Phrak’s variant of Greyskull LP. The progression for that program is described in a post you can find on the Fitness subreddit wiki. In general, my training change went from…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 02:38 AM
14

That’s the exact video I was referring to! Haha
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 01:57 AM
6

Yes, but you also need to account for the amount of sets. Volume is SETS x REPS x WEIGHT
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 05:39 PM
8

OP, couldn’t tell you how many times girls say they want a man who has his shit together, then fucks a guy who is the complete opposite of that.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 02:01 AM
0

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:50 PM
1

You don’t and shouldn’t really be looking to make your muscles sore. I’ve been properly training over the last month, having weight trained for over a year, and I haven’t felt truly sore in forever. Despite that, I’ve progressed on every single one of my lifts. Judging effort by RPE is fine, but not by your soreness. Besides that, everything else is basically solid information. Remember that dips are also a compound workout so I believe they could be used in place of your bench if you find yours…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 12:33 PM
1

I’m gonna give some advice here, but before I do, just know that you’re already gonna fall into this cursed loop you’re in if you manage to seduce this girl, solely due to the fact that you’ve decided to make several threads about one girl (this is oneitis. If you’re not familiar with oneitis, I’ll define it if you ask). In terms of IOIs, there are 3 main ones to look for: 1) laughing = if she’s laughing at the jokes you crack, even the small stupid ones, she’s interested. I was able to identify…
/r/seduction10/11/18 12:11 AM
1

I actually love you
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:40 PM
3

Don’t, unless she’s expecting a message from you because you’ve already spoken to her in person. You become a validating fuck. Guys who think it’s cool to comment on their stories and shit are already presented as low SMV just by doing this. This shit is validation for women. When you understand this, and the fact that you must strip them of validation and make them earn it, you will understand to not engage with them unsolicited on social media.
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:15 PM
7

There’s a guy called Francesco Barbaro who is also very traditionally masculine. I might research him a bit and write a post on him
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 11:29 PM
3

This is important. I'm glad you posted this and am almost inclined to suggest that this should be put on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 12:49 PM
2

If you read the replies to the original comment, you'll see how many people actually support acting like this. Feminine Imperative at its finest
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 12:40 PM
1

There's a post on this in the asktrp sidebar: How to get laid like a WARLORD. The basis is solid frame and excellent inner game. Outlast the shit-tests of HB8+ women and you win the game, basically.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 02:07 AM
6

There is something about cold approach in particular that can be life changing. It is one of those disciplines which features meta-skills that can be applied to other areas of your life. I can give a personal account of this holding true. I only started cold-approaching in early August. I settled really well into that interaction, even though I got rejected. I felt super calm in the interaction, despite stuttering on occasion with some stuff. I felt great after doing it. During the summer, I had…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 01:59 AM
5

This is an awesome post! I never thought about this topic in that way. It was really eye-opening
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 10:32 PM
0

Currently 20 and learning this. I have a really good idea of how things work now that sometimes it feels natural, but I don't want to be arrogant and call myself a natural. We're basically in the same boat here, besides the 2 year age difference. Good job man. Keep it up and we'll be right there alongside you
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 10:29 PM
1

I’m going through this transitional phase i feel. It gets easier and easier to talk to random people. Occasionally, i just feel like all people don’t feel like talking so i don’t talk, but this used to be more prevalent before i was into Seduction + TRP. It’s an introvert feeling that is slowly going away. I would say I’m more extroverted now than i used to be; even my cousin has called me an extrovert recently
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 05:44 PM
1

I’ve been involved with TRP for some months now. I don’t really have a hard time telling when the girl isn’t interested; it’s easy to notice. I ask this question because i get the feeling that some people might not be able to tell if a girl is interested or not during the interaction.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:21 PM
6

This is the best reply on this post. Heed this man's advice.
/r/seduction06/09/18 07:35 PM
3

This is the main reason I usually tell my fraternity brothers to never settle down at the age we're at. Not settling down minimizes your chances of catching oneitis (though some still catch it from fuckbuddies, me having been one of them) and you get to have sex on a consistent basis with multiple women. Better than settling down with one girl at a young age. You'd be surprised that even the alphas of the group still don't abide by this. They question why I aim to only settle down in my mid-30s …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 07:22 PM
1

I see it in 13 Reasons Why. I used to think it was an incredible show before i began to develop my lens. Now i think the new season is cancer. It’s filled with the typical feminist talk that we always hear come from them and all the guys in the show act like pussies, even the guys who should be portrayed as having an alpha mindset
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 07:58 PM
3

This is similar line of thinking to what one of the Vanguards says: alpha is exciting, beta is comforting. The key is to find a balance of both. If we elaborate on your theory, the key should then be to find a balance between subconscious attraction and conscious attraction.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 03:40 AM
28

Join a fraternity. Fuck whatever people say about fraternities - joining one has been the greatest decision i made at college.
/r/seduction01/09/18 03:27 AM
20

Aim to settle down in mid to late 30s. Be careful with marriage though - it’s more of an institution than a union. Take appropriate precautions if you choose to get married because it becomes a mess if you divorce. Also. Don’t marry a Western woman. Do yourself that favor at least
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 03:25 AM
6

Can personally confirm point #2
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:51 PM
87

“If they have it, they’ll flaunt it”
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:50 PM
2

both at the same time. That makes a TON of sense now. I always thought it was binary - either Alpha Fucks or Beta Bucks only, never the 2 at the same time. Your last part in the comment also helped clarify a bit. Thank you bro
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:16 PM
11

An alumni of my fraternity recently got engaged after only a few years out of college. I think it’s a terrible decision but at least she loooooves the ring! /s when it does end they are a fucking train wreck for a long time because they never see it coming. The president of my fraternity used to spend like ALL of his time with his girlfriend last semester and rarely did stuff with us. Lo and behold, they broke up this summer and he was thrown into a rut of depression. We all tried reaching out t…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 04:30 PM
1

I see that she has mental baggage and I instantly think "Don't stick your dick in crazy" Wouldn't it have been better to drop her after you discovered this? I get that she's a fuck buddy, but I feel like it's too risky. Am I wrong to be thinking this?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 03:50 AM
5

Slightly confused by this response
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:38 AM
1

Experimenting is good. Maybe it does come down to tingles; still working that part out, but basically seems like that way. I’ve had a couple of experiences where a girl’s feelings seem to have dictated who she went for.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:54 PM
8

Don’t even bother trying to escalate with her anymore because the chance is already gone after you went and asked her how you could be better. Furthermore, she found another alpha, at which point i probably would’ve dipped and looked for another girl.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:36 PM
11

This. This is the important caveat with the SMV graph. Rollo speaks on this also - you won’t magically become high value as you age... you become high value because as you age, you’re improving yourself in various ways (hopefully) Edit: caveat, not difference
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:34 PM
-8

You’re texting way too much. You need to dial it back HARD. You’re practically stepping into her frame
/r/seduction14/08/18 03:43 AM
5

Adding to this, if she wants to go somewhere you don’t like, just tell her you don’t wanna go there and say no. Be more self-centric. Think about your own benefit before the other person’s. If they wanna go out, but you don’t have money... say no. If a friend wants a ride somewhere, but won’t throw down gas money and you haven’t gotten paid yet, say no. He’ll manage. Think about yourself. Value yourself.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:24 PM
76

Yes, it does make you more attractive. Get more girls in your rotation and never settle for only one. Also, stop being jealous. That is akin to neediness. She will talk to other guys; you don’t care because 1) you’re talking to other girls and 2) you are the best man in her life, and you don’t care about other less-important men. Think like this and you’re golden
/r/seduction13/08/18 03:15 AM
8

This is super advice actually. I’m going to save this comment just in case i ever end up in this situation. Much thanks dude
/r/askTRP13/08/18 02:46 AM
3

Read the last paragraph of that comment. I’m not even close to comparing it. Also, I’m well aware that girls are turned off by insecurity and weakness... i wrote a whole post on it (this very one...)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 04:16 PM
0

Rollo is a man living in the past. The book was written last year. Choosing to disregard your inherent humanity in favor of a stoic “frame” will not ensure success with women or in professional environments anymore... We aren’t disregarding the fact that we have emotions, which is why I mentioned that they should be felt in private. Btw, disregarding your emotions in public in favor of stoicism does in fact increase success with women. Most men in this subreddit are an example of this. What are …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 04:11 PM
3

Forgot to mention that i was being blatantly sarcastic
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 03:57 PM
1

Red Pilled men are all delusional /s
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 03:52 PM
2

Embarrassment is one I would also give honorable mention to, but i didn’t mention it since i was only addressing the quote. If you get embarrassed easily, it shows a vulnerability in your frame, and i would say a lack of confidence. Best way to deal with embarrassment is always to laugh it off and to not let whatever just happened affect you deeply.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 02:39 PM
2

Read the last sentence in the 2nd paragraph.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 02:35 PM
2

I made sure to mention this in Lesson Learned #3. Better to feel it all in private
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 02:28 PM
1

It’s not self-sabotage. On a more serious note, if want someone to talk about your feelings with, you look to other level-headed men. You don’t talk about your problems with women, as it positions you as a weaker being... tarnishing any idea of superiority you may have established between you two. Men can and will help you through any emotion you’re feeling.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 06:37 AM
4

You’re forgetting AWALT. To address point 1, it’s less damaging since your frame remains intact. You’re allowed to fully internalize your feelings and strengthen as a person because you’re enduring these feelings on your own, and really FEELING all the feels. Either that, or as Rollo says: “if you want someone to cry on, get a dog.” (Have to look back for the exact quote) Opening up to people needs to be done very carefully. You’re not gonna pour your feelings out to a woman if she hasn’t done a…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 06:16 AM
19

I have suffered from years of depression, but not as a result of severe PTSD. Also, I have lived through basically all of these emotions, namely anger and depression, with and without women seeing. I’ve gotten angry at a fuck buddy for something once, and that was the end of any future booty calls. I had depression while I was in a fake long-distance relationship my sophomore year of high school and, in conjunction with the fact that we were long-distance, whatever feels she had for me quickly e…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:10 AM
2

No. The reason behind your mission is to be as happy as possible
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 04:04 PM
3

Hm. I never really learned about the concept of spinning plates that way. I commonly saw the terminology used in the way that I used it, so I adapted it. Thanks for pointing that stuff out for me though
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 03:25 AM
1

I try to make them laugh a bit, but also aim to escalate with kino during this so i don’t look like a dancing monkey. What else should i be doing?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:21 AM
1

Funny. I only added all the detail for the purpose of improving my game, and i felt that it may provide a bit of context for people reading.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:17 AM
12

I gotta tell you, I Really love this post, and will instantly apply this to my Game as of tonight. Last night was the first time I ever approached a woman cold on the street. It was pretty daunting to think about, but it was super easy when i was there talking to the girl. My downfall is that I looked for IOIs too much before I approached, and wouldn’t approach if i didn’t spot any (namely, strong eye contact). Tonight, I’m going to apply the idea of looking for compliance in my approaches when …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 01:52 AM
7

I used to think that being uncircumcised was terrible since I assumed a majority of men were circumcised, but recently (just the other day) I was thinking about how i don’t really mind being uncircumcised m and this post kinda reinforces that belief.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 05:03 PM
1

I’ve been doing well in that regard, just have to keep it up then. Thank you bro!
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:59 PM
1

I made her cum around 6 times by playing with her so that might also be an excellent boost to my chances. I fucked up, but made up for it. My frame was pretty damn good to be entirely honest. I didn’t get irritated when it went soft, but just fingered her and made her cum again as usual
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:44 PM
1

Yeah that’s the mantra I’m gonna follow. If i notice that she’s avoiding the booty call im gonna let her break. Unfortunately I got whiskey dick last time around so i think it might’ve hurt my chances.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:40 PM
2

Can personally confirm the “openly talking about sex” IOI Last night i went over some chick’s house to smoke. Eventually, she began talking more openly about sex. I knew I was in the clear to continue escalating just due to this, so I did. One thing i remember, from reading one of the top posts “Collected Advice and Methods” on TRP, was escalation in conversation: People > Relationships > Sex If she talks about sex, you’re in the clear.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 08:34 PM
1

Thanks! I’m not entirely convinced she’s crazy, but I’ll be watchful of it. I never really considered her crazy
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:09 AM
1

I feel that a bit more detail is lacking : She isn’t a crackhead, but in the techno scene, a lot of people do molly, acid, lines of coke, etc. This is what she means by “hard drugs.” Isn’t my thing, never has been, and I’m certainly not gonna start snorting lines of coke to sleep with a bitch
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:01 AM
0

Noted for insight! /s On a more serious note, do you have any advice?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:54 PM
1

I don’t know why I’m being downvoted, but ohh well
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 01:42 PM
1

Yeah man. I’ll still support him as he goes through it though. I know he’ll see the light; it’s a matter of time
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 03:22 AM
2

Naturally I didn’t want him to go and do something stupid so I didn’t wanna sit back and watch it; tried to help. You’re right though about experience - I’ve felt it before
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 03:17 AM
1

Dope! Thanks for the help
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:08 AM
1

So basically it‘s like being self-centered?
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:26 PM
11

Being a minority hinders only but slightly. If you control what you have to your disposal that IS controllable, you will do well. I do better than my white peers with women, and I’m Latino. They have no clue what to do with women, sometimes get lucky with them, and are mostly scrawny guys. I lift, have changed my body comp significantly, go out a good amount and game women, and have already gotten laid by using and ingesting TRP’s advice. That said, I’m still learning and have fucked up many tim…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 01:50 PM
1

I do, but i don’t want to make it seem like I’m desperate to fuck her
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:29 PM
1

She has always texted me after I left parties in the past. There’s the chance of it, but it may not be high anymore as a result of lost attraction. Thanks for your answer
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:25 PM
1

Ok. Thx. If she comes to me asking to “hang out” after the party, should i go with it since it’ll be her asking and doing the chasing instead of me? I feel like it would make sense to.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:01 PM
2

Already flaked the first time a couple weeks back. I want to go out and have fun w my friends, which is why I’m not flaking this time.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:59 PM
1

This is exactly what i was thinking to myself. It had been a while, and to keep it spinning is to keep fucking. Therefore, should i even bother trying to fuck her again at this party? I’m thinking no.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:52 PM
1

I had been for around 1-2 months beforehand. Summer came around and she began to avoid planning booty calls
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:50 PM
1

Was out last night and applied what I wrote, managing to #-close 3 women and make out with one
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:12 PM
7

It’s also good since you’re retracting your attention by not saying anything. This is a good way to handle a problem-making child; if they’re being a nuisance for the attention, revoking it and only doling it out when they do good things will prove to be effective. Furthermore, STFU removes any possibility of argument, which is a woman’s preferred war-zone.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 04:36 AM
1

I have been finding this to be true recently. I view alpha and beta as a spectrum. Being completely alpha is basically Dark Triad, and being completely beta is Blue Pill. Red Pill leans more to the alpha side of the spectrum. The reason i say it is a spectrum is because there is always some sort of beta characteristics in each and every person, and is needed in each and every person. There are moments in relationships where you need forced beta characteristics to increase the relationship’s long…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:01 PM
4

That would be awesome. A more elaborate post with a bunch of examples and a more in-depth explanation would help a lot of people out. That said, I think a good start would be analyzing how you interact with uglier girls. Watch how you act around them and compare it to how you act with HB8s and above. Adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:08 AM
4

Got my hopes up in thinking that she would’ve been good LTR material but hasn’t been showing that. Furthermore, oneitis. Have the oneitis under control but need to work on deattaching myself emotionally and treating her like a proper plate. I seem to be treating her like a FWB after we finished the semester. I assume having my only source of pussy being so distant kinda makes that happen. Getting plates spinning has been difficult. Im in a weird place, but still focused on my upcoming goal (coac…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:19 AM
1

Have gotten off Twitter a long time ago after it got infected by SJWs. Sad to see you get banned. Have you thought about not going back to Twitter if you don’t get unbanned?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 11:47 AM
3

Hm. I fulfill the no contact thing, but I think the SMV change was only a couple of points and clearly wasn’t enough to pique interest.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:35 PM
1

I was thinking I don’t even touch upon what she did, but I think I should begin by saying something afterwards to establish the boundary.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:54 PM
1

See, what she said was also half-true... she was working today, but has time to go out to today’s party. My qualm is that, she could’ve made plans with me instead, but chose to go party.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:52 PM
2

No other plates, and that’s probably the issue here. I’m working on getting more. Been hard to get plans to go out with people
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:27 PM
1

the way i treat her has been as a plate/FWB and not as an LTR. When thinking about what to do, I wasn’t sure if i should just have her come to my place or go to hers (both live with parents, hard to do anything), so i just suggested she take the day off from work for us to chill. It might have been a stupid move on my part. I mean, you could also be right. It’s hard looking at my own situation with a birds eye view. I might be dead wrong in my personal assertion of the situation. Fuck
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:22 PM
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I just have no idea how to appropriately react without going overboard with my reaction. I don’t enjoy being lied to and i don’t like my importance being diminished because she wants to party. I guess soft next is my avenue here.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:10 PM
-1

I realistically haven’t invested much besides the time and effort going over to her room to fuck her. Texting has always been at a minimum, barely conversing. We haven’t seen each other since the summer began. Do i soft or hard next?
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:07 PM
3

It is possible to get stuck with bad dates. I had an experience like that yesterday. It was with a girl I had known for years. We made out, but I wasn’t really feeling as much attraction as I used to. She also did not let me escalate too much and I wasn’t really having an excellent time during the day, though the location we went to was really dope. Trial and error. You’ll get some shitty dates but also some incredibles ones. By going on bad dates, you learn what turns you off and what to avoid …
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:42 PM
2

I wouldn’t even share details in all honesty. When I talk about anything related to sexual encounters with my friends, I am extremely secretive with it. They don’t get all the details, but they’ll hear what I find to be permissible to tell them. I don’t like having people know specifically what I do and who I do it with. They begin to pry if I share too much.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:54 PM
3

There was a post the other day called “Don’t DEER, just DARE” or something along those lines. It’s by LiveAFTSOV. It should give you a good start on how to treat women like children.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 01:34 PM
5

This was super eye-opening. Having grown up Catholic, I never really related TRP to Catholicism. The way you described things made a lot of sense. Thank you
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:48 PM
-1

First 2 paragraphs were brilliant. Well done bro
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 03:29 AM
17

Exes don’t deserve explanation for anything. Hard next them and leave their hamster to do the explaining.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:39 PM
1

How do you manage your emotions to best deal with these things?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:39 PM
1

go to the askTRP sidebar and look for it.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:25 AM
2

You really need to implement what you read. I’ve found that the best way to begin doing this is reading through the sidebar piece “Collected Methods and Advice for Beginners.” It was my major stepping stone to becoming Informed and really spurred a massive change in my life once I began to implement everything it said. Follow what he lists for Recommended Methods for each section he addresses, and do this devoutly. You will notice a chronic change. Also, read all the sidebar pieces multiple time…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:23 AM
1

I think you’re right by not responding if she doesn’t message you back. That said, stop texting for conversation and only text her to set up plans. If she texts you first, respond to the first message after 10 minutes, and then to subsequent messages 2/3s of the time longer than it took for her to reply (she replies in 10 minutes, you reply in 16 or 17 minutes). You also should be allowing the conversation to cut off quickly. Don’t drag a conversation out too much. I usually send a second messag…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:17 AM
4

This is the advice you should follow, OP. Through hobbies, you’ll get a social circle. Go out with the new friends you make and expose yourself to more social situations so you become more adept in dealing with things. I never really did much until I got to college and joined a fraternity, but now I’m much better off socially than before.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 01:06 AM
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I’ve had a date similar to this before. In the beginning, you’ll do a lot of the heavy lifting. Like... a lot. It was a date with a crazy HB9 a while back. Tell stories and intertwine subjects together, while occasionally asking her questions. I forgot which RP piece it was that spoke about posing questions as hoops - small hoops are yes/no questions, medium hoops are more open-response questions, and large hoops are similar to medium hoops except they now induce a somewhat personal response. Yo…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 01:01 AM
27

Begin by removing any thoughts of revenge you could possibly have. Revenge is and will be pointless in the end. Hard next your girl and cut off all communication with him. You should begin to invest your energy into something that will distract you. Work, hobbies, or other friends who will make you feel better or forget about what happened. Channel whatever emotions you have into something you enjoy. Go lifting and release any anxiety and stress you may be feeling. Get a lot of rest and give med…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:46 PM
2

Wild story, but stay away from her. She’s a psycho.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:53 PM
1

I have my experience with this, pre- and post-RP. Pre-RP, I had been attracted to my cousin’s boyfriend’s sister. She’s definitely an HB9, and I was always thinking of how I could get with her. I acted super nice in a poor effort to win her heart. Post-RP, I realized how fucking entitled she feels she is. Last night, I had gotten up from my seat at a party and she went and took. I didn’t care, laughed it off, and sat where she had been sitting. When she got up, I moved into her seat and took it …
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:22 PM
2

Hm. I always thought I should be concerned with the lack of texts. You cleared up something important in my game. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/05/18 02:04 PM
5

You’re correct. I dropped a potential plate that i discovered was a psycho bitch and tried to fuck my fraternity brother’s pledge brothers to get back at him after they broke up. Bros before hoes. Follow that mantra.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:55 AM
1

I agree with this. A potential plate had remade her Facebook and added me recently. I made a move, messaged her on Snapchat, didn’t accept the FB request, and inquired about it. Eventually got her to come hiking with me, escalated, and am aiming to plate her next weekend.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:52 AM
2

I only really text for logistics also, occasionally making the exception for a girl i haven’t spoken to in a while to spark interest. Tried to have a decent convo with my plate but it just doesn’t pan out well enough ever, so I reverted to just logistics.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:07 AM
3

Criminal Justice. Have a good amount of fraternity brothers who are in the CJ program at our school. They’re level-headed men and don’t tolerate bullshit too much. It’s a great major it seems. I myself am doing Exercise and Sports Science. You have a lot you can do with this degree, along with the fact that it’s close to immune to political correctness since a lot of the top researchers in the exercise field really stay true to the science and tell it how it is. I really enjoy my major.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:06 AM
1

Yeah. I’ve got a potential plate that hopefully becomes a plate next weekend, but it’s still in progress.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 03:52 AM
1

Gotcha. I might stray from your advice a bit and hit her up on Friday, only because she does get her work schedule on Friday. Additionally, I plan on hitting up a potential plate and aiming to transition that girl into a plate next weekend also. Hopefully it goes well.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 03:51 AM
3

Ok. Sorry if I’m being super autistic about this shit right now. Probably just thinking too much about how to handle this since it’s an unfamiliar situation, but you guys are giving me a bit of much-needed clarity.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 03:44 AM
1

Asked another commenter if I should wait until Tuesday or Wednesday to set up something for that weekend, fearing that this could occur again.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 03:39 AM
1

Should I hold off until around Tuesday or Wednesday to set something up? I fear I may get the same excuse and have the cycle occur again.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 03:38 AM
0

Word’s paperclip plugin swallowed the pill?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:18 PM
2

This girl and I are very, very alike, but I still feel that I need to verbalize boundaries since I don’t expect her to read my mind. Also, I feel that I may be prone to mate-guarding, though I’ve never been in such a situation in recent time (i have been pre-RP, not post-RP). That said, I’m already aware of mate-guarding and will do my best to not do it
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:41 PM
4

Occupy your time with various activities that interest you in order to distract yourself from the thought and urge of masturbation
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:45 PM
4

Should you always verbalize boundaries? I always thought we should be covertly telling them your boundaries instead of overtly telling them. Basically, showing through your actions and attitude that you don’t like something she does, rather than telling her straight up. Your answer is important for a similar situation of mine.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:42 PM
1

Adding to the description of rule #8, the way I view as is this: don’t say or do anything stupid that weirds her out, then giving her a reason to reject your advances. If she rejects them, it should be due to her own conscious decision and not because you tried to show her a picture of your cock over text after the 2nd date.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:09 PM
2

If she goes over, you are halfway there already. All that’s left is to escalate and you’re golden. Also, when she questioned you about whether it was a Netflix or chill invitation, most likely a shit test. If you passed it (which you didn’t), you probably would’ve been golden also. You may be able to make amends if she goes over and you escalate to sex, but just be more watchful for shit tests.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:52 AM
1

This strays from sexual strategy a bit, but it’s from The Rational Male - Our great danger in this life is not that we aim too high and fail, but that we aim too low and succeed.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:30 AM
2

I say family + friends. These friends MUST BE men. Do not ever open up to a female who is not an LTR, your mother, aunt, cousin, whatever. In the case of LTRs, you do not dole out all of your feelings at once, either. Your feelings are revealed bit by bit as a reward for her contribution. If she does something nice for you, you show emotion by being grateful. It has to be part of an established reward system, so you coax constant investment from the woman in exchange for emotional vulnerability …
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:34 AM
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I disagree. We have Endorsed Contributors, Senior Contributors, and RP Vanguards for a reason. As long as we continue to have people who have a solid understanding of The Red Pill and elevate them to positions in which they can vet others, we should be secure. If we do not vet people, but endorse them with special flairs, then we will see something bad happen. Also, we constantly have people playing Devil’s Advocate on this sub, so everything gets consistently scrutinized and shitty ideas will b…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:24 AM
0

Some stupid shit had happened with a girl who is trying to become FWB with me. Still a plate, but her ex found out i was fucking her since he read through her texts while she was drunk at one of the houses that was hosting a darty (a situation in which I’m watching closely for next time she goes out to party; only time this semester she got piss drunk, still watching). I called her and instructed her to go handle this clingy ex of hers and she did as I was told. I was aggressive about it, and ga…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:31 AM
1

I’m not dead set on one girl - i was assessing a bunch of potential options and she seemed like the best one. Snapchatted her something to spur conversation and was left on read, so movin on we go!
/r/askTRP19/05/18 12:35 PM
2

Limit to fwb or plate, don’t LTR it again
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:45 PM
1

If she wants a break, I reckon the relationship is over.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:39 PM
5

I feel like this should’ve gone in the main sub tho
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:21 PM
21

The way you handled is was really dope. Good stuff. Made me learn how I should handle similar issues in the future, so thanks
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:16 PM
1

Why not read the post, where the first line literally says I had read the book already?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 03:14 PM
5

One of the sidebar pieces has the idea of making someone jump through hoops - small hoops are the yes/no questions, medium hoops are more open-ended questions, and large hoops are open-ended, but more personal questions. If she jumps through the small hoop and then goes into a more elaborate answer, it’s a sign of potential interest. I see this hoop analogy apply to what you talked about with the various types of questions and I think looking at questions like hoops when it comes to selling may …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 03:12 PM
1

I’m almost sure the book is geared toward the common person who just wants to invest something and not worry about the nitty-gritty stuff. Still a good book
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 03:06 PM
1

I literally just summarized the 4 Principles given in a single chapter in the book.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 03:06 PM
2

This list is a gold mine. Had been looking for books to read and then had discovered IllimitableMan’s list, but this is also dope. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 01:53 PM
4

It seemed really anti-women to me. Seemed like they just hated women here. When I started to read theory and saw the proof behind the theory, my thoughts changed radically. Seeing women in my own life act in the ways that The Red Pill even said they would also reinforced my newly changed thoughts and showed me that TRP is truly correct. It‘s pretty crazy to see and be able to basically know how relationships will work out for other people now.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 05:35 AM
3

Guys fucked. Coming from a broken family is a major red flag. You also do not live with a LTR unless you plan on marrying her in the next 6 months or have already married her. RIP ur best friend
/r/askTRP15/05/18 02:44 PM
14

Follow this man’s advice.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:06 PM
0

I think you need to work on your inner game so you don’t feel less confident when compared to the other guys these girls run to. You should be confident enough to think you’re a beast and put your own self on the pedestal, while also improving your self and knowledge
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:43 AM
1

Every time she does it, you can soft-next her for x amount of time, then continue talking to her as if nothing has happened. She may get the hint. If she really doesn’t like you insist, hard next her.
/r/seduction14/05/18 03:52 PM
1

This is also true. I just assume it’s a normal man putting in work
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:07 PM
2

Also gonna add this. Bunch of my fraternity brothers play rugby.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:37 AM
1

I'll add electrical engineering next to coding, but will also add your thoughts to post
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:35 AM
2

Fraternity. Join one. Wrote a post on some benefits of joining a fraternity.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:54 PM
3

You should remember that you’re almost at peak SMV. Usually hit it around 30 i believe if I’m not mistaken. You’re more likely to pull bitches than I, a 20 yr old college student, am.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:24 PM
0

Follower count gives you a bunch of social proof.
/r/seduction13/05/18 07:04 PM
1

First off, stop letting go of what you’re doing to validate her. Continue doing what you’re doing and stop being so available to her. Her need for constant validation is really annoying and the fact that she intentionally tries to take you away from what you’re doing is not good. If it continues, I would break up with her. It’s not worth the hassle and she seems to be becoming a distraction to what is really important - your life goals.
/r/seduction13/05/18 07:00 PM
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The simple way to try and introduce someone to Redpill is with the book The Rational Male. This provides plausible deniability (you can say that reviews were good) and it would end up as either a hit or miss.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 03:40 PM
2

To begin, i believe you spent too much time with her to begin with. This raises a question about the other guy - Alpha or Beta? If he is alpha, you messed something up (I’ll try and go into more detail), turned her off, and should soft next. I think you should have escalated and closed the deal way before going to the beach. I’m confident that you had windows of opportunity to fuck that you simply did not realize you had. Also, you spent too much time with her by the sound of it. No more than on…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 01:30 AM
1

Nothing is drying up and we don’t fight about anything. Things have been the same basically, and still going as well as ever. I may take her for her word at this point
/r/askTRP12/05/18 08:29 PM
1

Found exactly what i assume is the part you wanted me to notice. Read the piece about 3-4 times total but it’s good to get a refresher and that one part about the masks is exactly what i needed to see and helped open my eyes even more. Thanks EC
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:55 PM
2

I do worry. It’s a flaw of my game and it’s something i have to work on and have been managing a bit well the past couple of days. All i do is iterate to myself that she’s just a plate, and what i am worried about her doing is exactly what I’m doing anyway, so fuck it. Having other girls at will helps with this mentality shift also. I also do consider the fact that we’re fucking, so it doesn’t concern me WAY too much since I’m already getting some. I’ve kept a good cap on my emotions and haven’t…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:51 PM
4

To begin, the woman is not the prize - the man is. If she expects you to work for her, she’s sadly misguided, and you should do the opposite of what she tells you, and see if she ends up pursuing you herself.
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:43 PM
2

Understood. You and the other guy have been a massive help and cleared things up a lot. Thank you both
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:38 PM
0

Hm. How should I proceed if she’s placed herself at a higher level than she is realistically at?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:30 PM
1

That’s a good suggestion. I have my ideal future mapped out, slightly accounting for any changes in plan. Things seem to be looking good, but i won’t get complacent. She hasn’t thrown me off my game and won’t manage to.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:29 PM
1

So what should i tell her instead?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:27 PM
3

This is basically it. Also, OP, look out for a girl who comes from a conservative family, as they tend to conform to societal norms more and may fit the feminine image you seek from a woman.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:21 PM
1

I didn’t give specifics. I just told her more general investment in the relationship we have with each other (fuck buddies) and in me in general. How she does it is for her to find out
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:19 PM
0

I have a couple of other girls but I find that the others are good only for being plates. I’m trying to evaluate the plate I’m talking about in the post to see if she’s a good ltr candidate (Ly Star of Attraction, looking for green and red flags).
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:17 PM
1

Not yet, but eventually. I say this since she has told me she would put in a bit more effort after i had laid out what i expected from her.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:15 PM
1

We usually fuck once a week and have been doing so for a month already. I look for a day that works for me, hit her up when I feel like having sex, and she’s usually down for it. I maintain distance and only talk to plan the booty call. She likes to go out and party like normal college students do, but I don’t think she gets absolutely trashed anymore. She had previously done so when she was an underclassman, but I believe she has stopped. There hasn’t been a single time I saw her absolutely tra…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:06 PM
1

Of course. I never limit myself to one girl and look to always get more plates spinning whenever possible so my attention is divided up. If she isn’t down, she probably will be forever a plate until I find someone who is down. If she is down, she’ll be expected to put in some effort to get a relationship, something I’ve communicated to her.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 01:21 PM
0

It’s not bad to emotionally invest; it only ever is given to significant others. There’s a point where you can go over-the-top, and that’s where the line must be drawn. Don’t wall-text a sappy love poem or some shit. Show your appreciation by rewarding positive behavior. Maintaining the 2:3 rule when showing appreciation is especially important, as you will be able to show that you like what she does for you, but you aren’t going over-the-top and still are saying less than she is.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 01:18 PM
1

The natural alpha doesn’t know how to control, but only to seduce. To become better than him is to not only emulate his ways but also learn how to control. Basically, you shouldn’t give a fuck about naturals. You can literally become more alpha by reading RP content. It’s how i got on my way. Read everything that is readable in the sidebar on askTRP and TheRedPill and you’ll have a pretty damn good foundation and will be able to implement it into your life. It eventually will become second natur…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 01:13 PM
5

The fact that she is shittesting the guy is a demotable offense. She may be doing it unintentionally or intentionally, something you need to deduce yourself. Another commenter said “she isn’t yours, it’s just your turn.” It’s true; I’m sure you probably have realized that you may have done something wrong as a RP man, and should strongly consider breaking off the relationship if her attraction truly is waning. If it is waning, it means you did something wrong. Demote her to maybe a FWB if it’s u…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 12:48 PM
1

I want to also add that things change significantly when you get to college. I was a social outcast all of high school really until i reached college and decided to get involved in campus life. Joined a fraternity and am at the absolute peak of my life as a result of knowing so many people and being on good terms with so many people.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 08:41 AM
3

You’re in a really extreme case of oneitis that is legitimately impacting your health. You need to pick up hobbies and activities to fill your time with, and also spend more time with men. I would even go as far as to next this girl because you’re allowing your health to become negatively impacted. You need to learn how to properly deal with your emotions and keep them tamed, only revealing them to level-headed men who can listen to your problems. Regarding reducing emotions, it’s as simple as n…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 08:36 AM
2

The advice here would be to spin plates. Divide your attention amongst more women so you don’t end up limiting yourself to one girl for your pussy supply. It’s advice i was given recently and advice I’ve applied to get me around 3 plates already (one of them being my oneitis).
/r/askTRP12/05/18 07:41 AM
1

This is also a good idea that I’ve read about before. Slipped my mind
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 07:14 AM
3

That’s the secret way of increasing SMV. Don’t say it publicly.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 09:20 PM
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I’ll one-up this and say Brazilian women. I’m Brazilian myself. Been there 3 times. Brazilian women seem to be the ideal RP wife as they are significantly more feminine than snobby Americans.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:40 PM
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I just chose to write about my personal experiences and thoughts about each one so it’s not just a bland list, but has my opinions on each thing.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 12:28 PM
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Absolutely. Will add tomorrow and credit you for idea. I had done Kenpo Karate in my youth and it was a good time. I'll go a bit in-depth with it some sports also.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 03:59 AM
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What is confusing is that, when i made my intentions clear, she had seemed a bit receptive to putting in more effort to get a LTR. It’s confusing. I’m gonna see if i can clear things up next time I see her.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:37 AM
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I think I want a LTR. I shouldn’t have that as the goal, but I do think it probably is a case of oneitis. I do like fucking her and have been maintaining distance for a good time and I don’t endlessly text her all day. We text only for logistics and that’s about it. We talk in person. I do believe she is beginning to want a LTR. In the beginning, she had told me she did not want one. I have told her straight up that i expect investment from her if she wants a relationship and she said she unders…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:01 PM
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Got end of classes today and then finals coming up so not sure if i can get it up soon
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:46 AM
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I’ll try to make a post today on a list of hobbies and activities you can do on the main sub.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:48 PM
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For the plates I've got right now, I literally just told them we're gonna go chill at their dorms after we're done with whatever it is we're doing (never my dorm since roommate is ALWAYS present.) It's straightforward, and you can test to see if they're down to put out already or not.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 05:29 PM
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You can’t bring girls into the space... it’s a fraternity. The added benefit is simply being noticed by more women (especially fraternity girls), but it isn’t used as an end game
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 05:19 PM
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This looks like the light switch effect in action. Something went bad and she made it seem like everything is bad. I have found that it’s better to focus on hobbies or some interests and indulge in those (bonus points if they’re social hobbies and interests). Being around people helps distract you and having that added benefit intertwined into your hobbies is really good. Also, start spinning up plates again. Fuck bitches, work at life.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:50 PM
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This is why i wrote it. It felt relevant to TRP. If you join a fraternity worth a damn, you’ll understand what i mean.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 05:43 AM
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That soft entry technique is ingenious. Will definitely try it when I see my plate tomorrow. Thank you for the other tips also
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:34 AM
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What those women are doing is humblebragging.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:26 PM
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In hindsight, it could be due to the condom. I’ve used 2 different weird brands and they both went on an odd way, and similarly. They kinda felt tight ish so maybe I’ll follow the other commenter’s advice and go for Magnums.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:23 AM
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Point #4 is spot on. I am aspiring to become a professional soccer coach, which requires me to go out and do coaching courses to be licensed to coach. I’ve done 2 courses so far and have a decent license, and am eligible for my next license already. With the next license, I can easily get a job and secure income as soon as I get out of college. I put myself in a position where I was able to get certifications needed to be successful in my field, and as a result, I don’t worry about getting a job…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 03:17 PM
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The side note is your key to the game plan. If you follow the side note to its destination, you’ll have your game plan. Basically outlines it for you.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 10:06 PM
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Wrote something about why Tinder sucks
/r/seduction05/05/18 07:58 PM
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I posted a piece on a BP friend of mine that acts just like this with this one girl he’s been orbiting for God knows how long. It’s embarrassing, but better for us
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 05:05 PM
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I combine this method with the Pomodoro technique. I’m able to space out my assignments, take mini breaks, and maintain focus.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 02:19 PM
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I think she may have a legit excuse. I also use WhatsApp. It’s common to go back and delete conversations and such for the sake of space (WhatsApp takes up a LOT of space if you download content often)
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:14 PM
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This is basically the answer I was searching for. Good stuff. Thank you
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:51 AM
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Unfortunate that you find me to be orbiting her I felt that there was a certain answer pertinent to RP theory that I could give her regarding her SMV or something of the sorts, but was shit out of answers.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:32 AM
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I have a whiteboard that I update every morning. The night before, I write all my tasks for the next day, then I wake up and sort them into their categories. Helps me recall the tasks mentally and I like writing things down
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 01:32 PM
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Guess I’m basically on the right track then. I follow all of this devoutly. I just wanted to know if there was something important I was missing. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 01:30 PM
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Trying to optimize if possible.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 11:08 AM
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Fuck buddy likes to text me every now and then when she sees me at a party around our campus. I usually say something to coax another response from her, then i just leave it on read. She tends to double text on occasion, and did so today. Should I continue doing this? It’s been working well so far for me
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 11:22 PM
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NoFap. Do it for the full 90 days or go longer if you have to
/r/askTRP01/05/18 02:21 PM
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Probably right. Had a bit of trouble coming up with the appropriate flair, I’ll try to change it
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:54 PM
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I don’t really worry about Tinder anymore, as I aim to improve my actual self and game outside of the app and distance myself from using these apps. It’s better in person. I had said months ago I would make a post on Tinder Gold on seddit, but never did, and it felt relevant to make a post about it on here as I began to contribute more and learn more about life on the Pill. It could potentially help someone, and that’s what I was aiming for. It does work for some, but not all. I happen to fall i…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 10:00 PM
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They’re betas who over obsess about pussy and do anything for it, despite them possibly acting alpha
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 05:10 PM
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I shared my thoughts with him on multiple occasions but he continued
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:18 PM
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There’s a point where you CAN emotionally invest, but it requires that she significantly invest in her part non-sexually to warrant your own investment.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 04:26 AM
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One of the answers in this post made me really understand the idea of bitch management and it clicked with me that night
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:15 AM
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Great advice
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:48 AM
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This is the first week that I’ve ever made a significant amount of progress with TRP. I’m really ingesting more theory and making it a part of my life, but i aim to continue fine tuning things as i go and ensuring that my interpretation of theory is solid. One notable thing that just happened: the concept of managing bitches has just clicked for me. I have just come to understand how to handle plates as i was spending time thinking to myself how i should be handling things. Ive struggles with bi…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:59 AM
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This stuff is in the TRP handbook, which i would trust as a very good source of theory. I find it difficult to find a girl who won’t like drinking, like smoking, or have gay friends, which is why I raised the question. Thank you though
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:12 AM
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Scanned through some content in the TRP handbook and read through a list of signs that a girl is a slut, with some standing out to me and applying to my plate; they are: 1) likes to drink 2) smokes (in my case, pot) 3) is more social than i am, and 4) has gay friends Do you find these to genuinely be red flags that should prevent you from ever getting into an LTR with her? Currently vetting this girl as a potential candidate.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:55 AM
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This is miscategorized. I think it should be given the flair "Red Pill Theory." That said, I agree with what you said regarding investment. I haven't invested much into this FWB relationship I currently have, but I've invested something. I'm currently halting my investment until she reciprocates and gives more than I have. She has shown that she doesn't seem too willing to reciprocate investment, at which point she may simply remain a FWB and not become anything more, or possibly even just turn …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 09:24 PM
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Thank you. I still struggle with vetting women as suitable candidates but it’s my current area of focus. I think I’m beginning to understand what goes into it and should feel confident on combining the 2 materials I’ve been studying and writing a post.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 11:26 PM
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Reading this tells me you haven’t read this subreddit or explored it properly, or else you wouldn’t say such things.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:30 PM
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Was thinking about expanding on that and writing a piece on how to read more
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 02:38 PM
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Dedicate some hours to it. There’s like 20 and 40 page stuff that requires more time but i haven’t gotten to those yet.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:58 AM
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I read that second link! It’s what i was referring to when i states that. Solid content
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 03:37 AM
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I’m going over the sidebar content currently and just finished Michael’s Story and am inclined to agree.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 06:33 AM
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Some days i want to aim for a relationship, but others i want to go out and have sex. I’m always switching up on what it is i want and i feel that I’m leaning towards a relationship. I’m not sure if hookup culture will be right for the person i am, but i still want to invest in TRP knowledge and become the best man i can be.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 05:18 AM
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Pay attention to their statements. Break it up into pieces and identify things that you can use as topics. Other day, i was having a conversation about traveling that i was able to seamlessly link into a conversation about saving money. Example (I told her she should add London as a travel destination to her Bucket List): “Oh that’s been on my bucket list forever. It’s pretty long already haha. I just have to start saving so i can travel.” Topics: 1) Bucket List 2) saving money 3) travel In this…
/r/seduction25/02/18 10:54 PM
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Baby face won’t affect you much if you’re confident about yourself. Women will notice this. Make sure your fitness regimen is on point and you’re handling your fitness properly (might make a post on fitness for this subreddit soon). I went out last night and my beard isn’t fully grown. I have essentially a baby face. Managed to have a good conversation with and #-close both a taken 22 year old and a single 21 year old while looking like a 17 year old. I wrote a FR today on that. Having a baby fa…
/r/seduction25/02/18 10:48 PM
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I have a FR to write in a bit, but I’ll see if i can get a post in about Tinder and throw in some advice about it also
/r/seduction25/02/18 07:06 PM
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I’ve already ruled her out as a girlfriend just because of this. If she’s willing to cheat when things get tough, she’ll do the same if we were together.
/r/seduction03/02/18 07:42 PM
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P.S. she has a boyfriend and is in a complicated relationship, but she never mentioned this until i asked her about him after making out with her. She still made out with me and flirted hard after telling me regardless.
/r/seduction03/02/18 01:17 AM
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So only retorts that are related to the conversation? Or just completely ignore and not return any insulting comment?
/r/seduction31/01/18 07:06 PM
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So let’s take her eye color for example - say i comment on how the target has brown eyes, but then say “I like blue eyes better, but i guess brown eyes are okay” Would that be good? It’s a random example that just came to my head. Maybe in a situation like that, the comment could be a tad bit meaner?
/r/seduction31/01/18 06:43 PM
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I just found a PDF of the Mystery book. Still gonna buy one since i like having the book physically and I’ll read the pdf until it comes in.
/r/seduction29/01/18 10:46 PM
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Yeah I was interested in the Mystery Method for the process. I have a very good base and i got my inner game + mentality basically on lock, but of course there’s space to learn more and more.
/r/seduction29/01/18 07:18 PM
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I’ve read pros and cons of the anti-method and ultimately found that it doesn’t work for me, though i do take some points from it like the one i listed
/r/seduction22/01/18 12:13 PM
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Thanks for that man! I hear Julien is also okay. Know anything about that?
/r/seduction17/01/18 01:59 AM
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I was thinking about this haha I don’t even know what to do for a review post
/r/seduction16/01/18 04:31 PM
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I was disagreeing with the first part of your comment. To clarify, i basically disagree because no matter how good your game is, some girls will friend zone you and that’s just how things go.
/r/seduction15/01/18 09:57 PM
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I disagree and here is why: there are always people who will never be attracted to you no matter what you do, those who can be attracted to you if you have good game, and those who are unconditionally attracted to you no matter what you do. Girls who are not attracted to you but like you as a friend put you in the friend zone quickly. Girls who can become attracted to you if you have good Game won’t friend zone you instantly if they feel somewhat attracted.
/r/seduction15/01/18 08:47 PM
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Happy cake day bro! I sit back and think about a lot of things over the span of a few days to better understand it, but this is one of those things where people try to sound “woke” but just look stupid. I think leftist ideologists tend to hold these negative beliefs re: men and anything related to sexual relationships.
/r/seduction15/01/18 05:52 AM
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The “natural curiosity” idea where you put all of your shit on the table is solid dude. Something I’ve never ever thought about. Good post man
/r/seduction15/01/18 05:29 AM
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If you consider yourself assertive with everyone except women your age, spend time trying to find out what made you assertive with those other people and start making it a part of you when you interact with women your age. I had a similar problem (much odder one) with foreign women. I am much more confident with Brazilian women than i am with American women (Brazilian-American, i visit family in Brazil often). I took some time to sit back and think about why i was more confident (and better) wit…
/r/seduction15/01/18 05:26 AM
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I’m tempted to reply to her but i think I’d rather avoid a stupid argument with an ideological leftist
/r/seduction15/01/18 04:27 AM
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I find this contradictory because she says it implies that women aren’t able to set the boundaries of their relationships, but they literally are by performing the action of putting you in the friend zone.
/r/seduction15/01/18 04:22 AM
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Picture them taking a shit
/r/seduction09/01/18 06:47 PM
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-Carly Rae Jepsen
/r/seduction09/01/18 06:46 PM
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I’ve noticed this as i watch RSD Max. I think this sub is better for maintaining a relationship in which you’re not a beta bitch.
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:40 AM
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You should move on that info quick. If you’re confident you both like each other, making a move is absolutely ideal. How you make the move is gonna be different for you since you’re introverted. Since I’m introverted, i can relate. I used to have a terribly hard time doing things like this in person, but the way that i got it to work for me was doing it one-on-one. Ask her out in person when it’s just you and her alone talking in school or something like that. I would try not to do it in front o…
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:38 AM
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I rely a lot on this sub for Game, but I’ve been looking at their stuff recently on specific topics that I’m interested in relevant to me (college Game, for example)
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:27 AM
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RSD has been criticized for potentially staging the pickups they film to push their point across, meaning they can say something outrageous as a pickup tip, stage a pickup to “show” it works, and profit off of people who believe it. This can be misleading and kill the game of people who genuinely are trying to get better with women. There’s also talk of RSD Tyler not actually being able to pull women and is commonly seen with ugly girls. There’s a lot of controversy. The common take on pickup is…
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:26 AM
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They have 18+ club events where i live (Boston), so I’m thinking of getting a group and hitting that sometime. I visit Brazil quite often and i work on my game there since the conditions are close to ideal (hard to f-close when staying with your grandmother!)
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:28 PM
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I honestly don’t have the urge for a fake. I turn 20 in 2 weeks and am down to wait until I’m 21.
/r/seduction08/01/18 12:42 PM
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Learning curve applies well to Game!
/r/seduction08/01/18 06:51 AM
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Give it another shot. She’s showing initiative this time after giving excuses constantly, so it would be a good time to try again. That said, if she tries to give excuses once again, don’t take that shit. I would cut it off and move on. Too many excuses is really irritating and not something I’m down to deal with on a consistent basis the way you had.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:59 AM
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I’ve seen people criticize RSD, but i am eager to try the things they teach. If it doesnt work out, I’ll search for an alternative. It’s free stuff so it doesn’t hurt to try, but I’m also mindful of the criticism that’s been doled out.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:03 AM
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I’ve been getting more girls swiping right on me lately, but none that are interesting. Are you sure you just don’t feel like you’re good looking, and in fact are actually good looking to other women?
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:48 AM
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I can f-close, but my situation when I was on vacation was very unique and made things weird for f-closing. I didn't exactly have a private place to stay as I was constantly with family. That makes things difficult. I know you can f-close, I know I can f-close. Anyone can f-close with good Game. Check out RSD Luke and you'll see what I mean.
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:30 AM
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I don’t have success with Tinder because I’m not the godly guy that girls look for on there. I look good, but I’m not a 10/10 that will do stupidly well on Tinder, and I’m fine with that. I just know i have to make up for that with real Game. I know i can pull girls with game, and I’ve #-closed and k-closed around 15 women while on vacation for a month. Im confident in my ability, but f-closing has been difficult and it’s what needs working on. I can confidently say I’m more than average-looking…
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:24 AM
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I’ve seen that Redpill is considered a misogynistic sub, so tread carefully on that stuff. Seddit is much better in my opinion.
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:03 AM
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I don’t have good success on Tinder. I don’t typically do well on Tinder, so i like to suggest only what has worked for me instead of things I’ve read that hasn’t worked or doesn’t make sense. I’ve gone to Community college since i got into college and only this semester will i actually be in a 4-year college living on campus. I plan to game at parties quite a bit. I personally would rate myself 8/10. I work out, having gotten slimmer to the point where I’ve gone down a shirt size and made my bi…
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:02 AM
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I think Game is like a learning curve. You not only learn from experience and the initial onslaught of information (the core of Game), but also reach a point where you begin to learn little things that end up fine tuning your Game to being the best it can be for you, which happens after you get the core stuff down.
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:29 AM
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Firstly, a lot of people suggest to do real life game instead of invest all your resources into Tinder, so I’d like to preface with that! Anyway, i think you should try suggesting that you guys go out, and instruct her to text you. Girls who are interested will invest the time into texting you to set up the date, whereas those who aren’t really interested will not. I’ve been able to screen for interest this way recently. I matched with a girl on Tinder recently and, after a brief convo, suggeste…
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:23 AM
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You don’t even need intermittent fasting. I used to do intermittent fasting myself for months and it really messed with my head in the mornings. I had trouble focusing in class. It’s just another way to create a calorie deficit, like low-carb diets. You can eat on a normal schedule and be in a calorie deficit, losing weight. My advice is to set up your macronutrients, calorie limit, and a gym routine. Been doing it for 5 months and I’m as lean as I’ve ever been.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 06:48 AM
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Refer to this comment - https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7o8j8x/comment/ds7o06y?st=JC1H3HUH&sh=1836a5ca
/r/seduction05/01/18 05:21 AM
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Beta and alpha are very much existent, but that’s another debate. I didn’t have much experience back in August. I never delved deep into seddit, just glanced. Over time, i have, and I’ve learned a lot since then up until now. I won’t end up in weird scenarios like that and definitely haven’t been talking to women on Instagram like that in recent time. I don’t really think deeply into any women anymore. Back then, i did. I remember doing so. Again, another thing I’ve learned to not do has been ex…
/r/seduction05/01/18 04:33 AM
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Stop the texting until she hits you up with a place and time. She is already interested in you if she made out with and gave her number to you, so she will most likely text back about her availability. If she doesn’t, oh well. Move onto the next girl that you come across.
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:45 AM
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I think the point of him being more talkative with others is to build confidence talking to a crowd of people/person so you already get used to having those basic conversations and you learn how to intertwine them with more in-depth conversations. You essentially learn to connect topics and ideas and it makes it easy to talk to someone if you can keep it going comfortably. Plus, you make friends this way also. These are people that can add value to your life and people whose lives you can add va…
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:37 AM
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Good job on getting rid of your oneitis! That said, i have one point I’d like to mention let her help me become a better self and better with girls. What you should do instead is make yourself a better person and better with girls. You can learn a lot from this subreddit. You can find good advice on self-improvement and habits that you should pick up pertinent to self-improvement. Don’t rely on her to do this stuff for you. You already took initiative to cut her off when you saw that things woul…
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:39 PM
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Right hahahahaha
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:29 PM
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Here’s a good video that you’ll benefit massively from - https://youtu.be/vU-ibdHkz4Y
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:26 PM
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1) If the date is in the morning, text her the day before (afternoon/evening) confirming the date. If the date is in the afternoon, text her that early that morning confirming the date. If the date is in the evening, text her early that afternoon confirming the date. Time these texts several hours in advance to the date if the date is that same day. Don’t do it 1 hour before you guys are meeting up. 2) Send the text confirming the date with the place and time. How you word it is up to you. Some …
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:23 PM
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If you establish a mindset of abundance and value yourself enough to the point where you know you can get other women, you won’t feel so reliant on female attention coming from one specific girl. From the looks of it, rating yourself a 4/10 doesn’t seem confident enough. Who cares if her ex is a 9/10? You need to always see yourself as better than any other guy and act in such a way. You can never let another guy undermine you, rather, you need to undermine him. If she likes him over you, you ha…
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:08 PM
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I’ll like some of them, but if i see one after the other, I’m not gonna like both in a row and seem weird. I’m maintaining my normal use of the app as intended, but I’m not liking everything that she posts. I just will for some things on occasion if i feel that I’ve spaced out the likes long enough.
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:03 PM
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Find an unoccupied bedroom and be sure not to bust on the sheets.
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:01 PM
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I asked her how her schedule looked next week and she told me she usually doesn’t do anything. I already got her number and urged her to let me know when she knows she free next week for coffee
/r/seduction04/01/18 01:38 AM
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I don’t think you understand the reason i asked the question in the post. The girl said she usually doesn’t do anything. I would rather that a girl do something, but it doesn’t have to be exactly what i do as a hobby; just has to be something that she enjoys and takes up her time so she isn’t always around and being clingy. Know what i mean?
/r/seduction04/01/18 01:02 AM
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That’s a good point i didn’t think of She’s an HB7 at least also, so could be fun for us. Haha
/r/seduction03/01/18 11:43 PM
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I had matched with this girl on Tinder but she didn’t seem like an outgoing type of person and i think that DM might have confirmed that.
/r/seduction03/01/18 11:27 PM
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You must’ve followed the 2 rules of Tinder
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:35 PM
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He stepped down as mod some time ago, but i forgot why.
/r/seduction03/01/18 05:42 AM
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South actually
/r/seduction02/01/18 10:47 PM
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Thanks dude! Waiting for one girl to send me a text and am talking to another one i just matched with today.
/r/seduction02/01/18 10:17 PM
2

Bachata. If you go to Spanish clubs that play bachata and you learn how to dance bachata, you’ll not only learn a new dance, but also be able to pull hot ass Spanish girls who like dancing and will be attracted to a guy who can dance well.
/r/seduction02/01/18 09:47 PM
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here you go
/r/seduction02/01/18 01:48 PM
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Learn how to have sex and what goes into having sex. There’s a lot more to it than just sticking your dick inside of her and thrusting several times. Putting the effort into learning how to please in bed will make you much better than other guys who haven’t learned how to please a woman. That said, your first time won’t be perfect. Usually never is, but the more you have sex, the more you learn how to do everything properly. There are people who don’t have everything down until their 5th time fu…
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:36 AM
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Personally, I find it hard to maintain a friendship with someone i was romantically involved with shortly after not being with her. I only would be open to a friendship after like over a year of not being with her, where your feelings have dissipated and you can see her kissing another guy and not care. I would suggest you ghost it and keep your distance for some time and, if you really want to, spark a friendship again with her, but others may suggest something else.
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:31 AM
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Just read it. Awesome stuff
/r/seduction02/01/18 01:30 AM
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Learn and move forward!
/r/seduction02/01/18 12:14 AM
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Definitely man. I’ve been able to #-close and k-close a girl just because I saw how she looked at me. Came close to f-closing but she was acting odd so i dropped it.
/r/seduction01/01/18 10:31 PM
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You shouldn’t beat yourself up over it. If you’re confident in your game to the point where you can close with women (#-close, f-close, whatever), then you’ll always have more opportunities to do so. Since you weren’t in the right mindset to game, it was probably best that you didn’t. This leads back to the confidence you have in yourself. When you’re in the mood for it and feeling good, you’ll do much better and maybe even end up with a hotter girl.
/r/seduction01/01/18 09:49 PM
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I wasn’t terribly social in high school either, but as I’ve been more involved in improving my game, I’ve become more confident and am able to do well with people. Don’t feel like you have to make up for opportunities lost. What’s more important is improving yourself both personally and socially to be able to succeed. Set your goals as your main objective and don’t stray from it Side note: i used to always instantly reply to women. It took time to get used to not doing that and to space myself f…
/r/seduction31/12/17 04:42 PM
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I get the feeling that you’re centering your world on women, which is what needs to change. If I’m wrong, disregard the advice but clarify and ask me some questions to see if i can direct you a bit. If im right, then what you have to do is center your world around something more important, such as your future. As an example, my future is 100% set on becoming a professional soccer coach and i invest my resources into it. I devoutly follow the sport, read books on it, and always look to further my…
/r/seduction31/12/17 08:51 AM
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I have the book How to Win Friends and Influence People and can confirm that that PDF is genuine. Not sure about the others though.
/r/seduction31/12/17 08:42 AM
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Yeah. I’ve been cutting for that time so far and it’s beginning to show. I also groom myself consistently and manage my fashion well. If i was 21 or over, I’m confident that i would be able to get with more women. at least i have college to do that! Haha
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:54 PM
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My physique has improved over the last 4 months. I look good as fuck in a t-shirt now actually
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:46 PM
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Tinder is hit or miss it seems. I hear of guys getting lots of matches, but i also hear a majority getting shit from it. Besides that, the above advice is solid. OP should also read the sidebar to further his knowledge because i think the answers he’s looking for can be found there
/r/seduction29/12/17 07:08 PM
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What is your best method for getting rid of oneitis?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 01:18 AM
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There won’t be a better comment than this one
/r/seduction25/12/17 03:03 PM
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Do you text her continuously spurring conversation? I read somewhere that each text you send increases the chances that she’ll flake. If you converse like mad through text with her, then that could be what is screwing you, and you should save any conversation points for your dates and dial back the amount of texts you send, keeping it at the minimum required (planning your date)
/r/seduction25/12/17 02:19 PM
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Read this guide, which will help you not only with your inner self, but also your sex game and will guide you in the bedroom. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11ng7n/above_the_game_intro_my_story_preview_of_my/?st=JBMA1XTO&sh=a6835a66 This guide has been my go-to for almost everything and I try to base my self-improvement off of it.
/r/seduction25/12/17 02:08 PM
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I’ve read about 1 and 2 in a guide that’s on this subreddit (Above the Game) Good stuff
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:02 AM
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What would you say are the 3 most important things you think every guy should know about women, based on your aforementioned experience?
/r/seduction22/12/17 04:42 AM
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4th bullet point is absolutely spot on
/r/seduction14/12/17 02:51 AM
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Then don’t come up with a stupid line Problem solved
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:01 PM
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Are you a Demi-god or something
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:22 PM
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I never send a second message if they don’t respond. Waste of time. Regarding dates, i have 0 advice on that, but you can search Reddit for a post elaborating on that
/r/seduction19/11/17 06:42 AM
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Read a post where a guy had really good luck with dad jokes + relevant gif, but i haven’t gone that route
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:59 AM
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It’s boring. Other normal guys are gonna just message her “hey” and likelihood of her ignoring it is high because there’s nothing new about getting the message “hey”
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:44 AM
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Update: i now have Tinder Gold for 1 month. Let’s see how it goes
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:42 AM
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I mean they respond, but a lot of my matches just seem to not use Tinder
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:41 AM
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Something relating to their bio, if applicable
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:25 AM
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But there’s a way to properly stand out with the first message without seeming odd
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:58 AM
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“You have to say the right thing in order to go anywhere with them.” First message: hey
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:31 AM
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Slight sarcasm behind it haha. Difficult to convey.
/r/seduction19/11/17 01:33 AM
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God, you guys have me wanting to pay $6-8 a month to get more matches What has my situation come to
/r/seduction19/11/17 12:46 AM
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How so?
/r/seduction19/11/17 12:29 AM
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You really believe paying on Tinder (or other apps) is worth it?
/r/seduction18/11/17 11:47 PM
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I tried over exaggerating my posture a while back, but I naturally just fell back into my normal poor posture. I've even looked into posture correctors to wear, but I'm not convinced that they work.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:35 AM
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Eye contact is a huge indicator. If she's going out of her way to look at you, that's a perfect chance to act. You'll be able to close her EASILY.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:31 AM
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I think I watched or read something the other day regarding picking up girls at the gym. Basically, you want to be as social as possible at the gym. Talk to people, interact, make friends. Every time you go, you'll end up seeing those same people, and become a known face at the gym. Hell, the friends you make can hook you up with other girls, too! Anyway, once you become a known face at the gym, the girl will begin to recognize you, and may notice that you are talking to everyone there except fo…
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:27 AM
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Thanks all for the help. Told her no, awaiting response
/r/seduction08/08/17 01:38 AM
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It looks like the roles are swapped here. She seems to be making the moves and it shouldn't be that way. You should be going in for a kiss. You should be going dark when texting, and even then, keeping texting to a minimum. You should be playing hard to get, so you build attraction. Make her be chasing you, wondering what you're doing that is causing you not to text her. Make her lay in bed at night thinking about you and why you're acting the way you are. She's got you doing that exact thing ri…
/r/seduction01/08/17 04:39 AM
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I've been doing well with girls here, so I'm not too bummed out!
/r/seduction31/07/17 03:42 AM
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She went back to her city already, so no fucking this time. Lol Next time I definitely will be sure to get in there though
/r/seduction31/07/17 03:41 AM
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I only really am asking for advice because I'm close with her family. If it was another girl I really liked but didn't have any other connection with, I'd be fucking and bailing
/r/seduction31/07/17 03:35 AM
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Interactions. I try not to do so over text, but sometimes the girl will push conversation over text, which then I try and use to both build attraction and comfort. I like doing all the conversing in person, like most people, and is suggested that you leave the talking for in person, anyway.
/r/seduction27/07/17 09:26 PM
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Not easy being alpha when it comes to real life interactions. As you continue working on it, you'll be alpha constantly and won't even think about going beta for a second.
/r/seduction27/07/17 02:17 PM
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Her saying she has a boyfriend could have been a shit test. You went kinda beta there. You should've fucked around and made a joke out of it. Gauge her response to it.
/r/seduction27/07/17 01:59 PM
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I feel like you don't escalate confidently. You seem to be waiting for the right moment, but you should be looking to escalate and then go for a kiss whenever you feel like it. Dictate the moment. You can probably get a kiss in quite early and quite often if you escalate confidently. Your confidence is attractive to women. She will react well if you're confident. Look up Above the Game. It's a 9 part series on Reddit that I read that has dramatically improved my game. Also, continue reading this…
/r/seduction26/07/17 03:50 PM
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I usually make a joke out of every shit test, and see how she responds. Note: I always establish an alpha-male imagine in the minds of most of the girls I interact with. Do this before you go around joking around with shit tests in an alpha-male way. This enables me to make really crazy-sounding rebuttals, but not scare the girl off. If she seems disgusted or put off by your alpha response, then she's probably not up for it. If she laughs, gives her own rebuttal, plays along with it, etc... you'…
/r/seduction26/07/17 03:24 PM
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Was considering this, but I deleted her contact after the interaction, which went super well. I ended up getting another girl tonight, and will probably have good sex with her tomorrow.
/r/seduction24/07/17 08:18 AM
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Perfect comment
/r/seduction23/07/17 01:49 AM
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But your advice about private parties is on point! It's definitely weird spam approaching girls at private parties
/r/seduction22/07/17 06:12 PM
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Sorry for not mentioning, but it's not a private party. It's a massive city-wide party they have every year here.
/r/seduction22/07/17 06:04 PM
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Difficult as an introvert lol
/r/seduction22/07/17 05:10 PM
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Crazy post to come across. I was out partying last night and got 3-4 rejections, and got frustrated. Your post gave me faith.
/r/seduction22/07/17 12:41 PM
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I just put it to action last night and I'm about to hookup with 2 girls this weekend, time permitting.
/r/seduction07/07/17 12:30 PM
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"They assume the girl likes them until proven otherwise" Probably the most important sentence I've extracted from this. This is a brilliant piece and made waves in my mind. That one sentence alone already is making a massive difference and I'm anxious to put this new mindset into action.
/r/seduction07/07/17 02:50 AM
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Born in US to Brazilian parents. The advice helps. Thank u
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:31 PM
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Was thinking about just focusing on having fun and be in the moment rather than looking forward to the potential night of sex. Will keep it in mind
/r/seduction30/06/17 06:36 AM
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I'm in Brazil for a month! Sorry, forgot to mention so. Haha
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:15 AM
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