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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:28 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP25/01/19 11:11 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:29 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askMRP27/10/20 04:00 PM
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Basic QuestionStartlivingfornow/r/askMRP14/01/21 02:25 PM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:50 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:33 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:52 AM
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Basic QuestionStartlivingfornow/r/askMRP27/01/21 04:25 PM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:07 PM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:20 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP20/05/19 11:54 PM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:45 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:53 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:26 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askMRP06/06/20 11:54 PM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:10 PM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP20/06/19 11:20 AM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP27/10/19 11:51 PM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:14 PM
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Startlivingfornow/r/askTRP29/09/19 10:37 AM
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Basic QuestionStartlivingfornow/r/askMRP12/01/21 12:12 AM
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Have a problem go to therapy. Your brother putting his cock in your ass is traumatising. But the past is the past. What are you doing to move on from it? It’s not our job or your wife’s job to deal with your horrors. You find peace by working through that shit yourself or seeing someone who is qualified to help you through it. All this shows is that you don’t know how to lead, because you aren’t taking ownership of your own life. This probably bleeds out into everything that you stand for
/r/askMRP27/12/20 07:36 AM
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Offered her a choice. Since when does she get to decide anything. Do you offer her a choice of sucking chads duck or kissing you first too ??
/r/askMRP15/11/20 02:04 PM
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Test more, get more results, increase percentages. Traditionally mental health was not seen as a diagnosis unless you were fit for a mental hospital. Culture has changed and thus we are not seeing ‘more’... We are simply seeing what has always been there.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 11:32 PM
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The world has always been on the decline yet we have more money, more opportunity, more support systems and more technology that allows us to learn and grow faster than ever before. But yes, on the decline...
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 01:11 PM
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Hope it goes okay man. Tough times. A thing to learn here is boundary setting and upholding boundaries. Talking to the male cashier and you getting upset = jealous. Talking with a male via text while married to you = divorce. This is not girlfriend boyfriend we might be together shit. This is, we are a family and you don’t fuck around like that. What would your son say if he was 16 and he found out his mum texts another guy while with Dad? He would look at you like a fag and your wife as a dirty…
/r/askMRP01/11/20 05:26 PM
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If you think like this, you’re operating in your wife’s frame as you are acting a certain way to get a certain response. This is a real covert contract. If I do x, she will give me y. This is real weakness. Instead, I act how I see fit and let her know it would make me happy if she acted in a similar fashion. This would only be a covert contract if I said: “I will stop doing X for you unless Y for me.” Of if I acted in that way. Being transparent like my example is not a contract. Notice how I d…
/r/askMRP28/10/20 12:45 AM
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I see. I don’t really consider that STFU. But rather, you shouldn’t seek validation from her in general. In the same way that it would be weird for your mother or father to come home from work and tell you all about their achievements... You should respond how they do. “Mum, how was work?” Your parent, “Good, everything is going well. Tell me about your day.” And in the same breath... Any time she asks you a question to start a conversation, assume she’s doing so because she wants to tell you he…
/r/askMRP27/10/20 04:39 PM
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It sounds like you either have low test, lacking a father role model and / or are slightly autistic from your post... And that’s fine. We all have our problems. Life is like a deck of cards. You get the hand you’re dealt. But here’s the thing... You can win with any hand. I’ll give you an example of my story... I found the Redpill maybe 5 - 6 years ago? But I was stuck in mental maturation mode for maybe 3 - 4 of those 6 years. Meaning I took very little action and when I did I got very few resu…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:16 PM
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I just straight up told my wife... You weren’t fat when I met you, you don’t change and I won’t change.
/r/askMRP01/10/20 04:33 PM
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This was me four months ago. Told her it would be great because now I can start my own business. Everything went on as per normal.
/r/askMRP05/09/20 04:10 PM
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This finding my purpose shit is the dumbest shit I have ever come across in the self-help world. It's like a baby saying, I just want to know what there is to do in the world. The pathway of masculinity is one of work and action, mixing this with analysis will give you an edge but leading by analysis will paralyse you. Pick something, do everything possible to get good at it. When you know what you want to be better at, you will naturally find information that helps you to improve, and when you …
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:09 AM
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I think it’s normal in most relationships, however, what I found worked was to take things with my girlfriend to the next level while also envisioning doing dirtier things with her. For example, I talked her from regular sex into anal to then dressing up for me to now making videos to then doing specific sexual things we haven’t tried before. (Fucking in new places, positions, face fucking her on our porch) I’m always thinking of new ways to use her to turn myself on. I saw some insta model in a…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:14 PM
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Solely jerk off to my girlfriend and the pornos that we make when I can’t bang her. Haven’t seen a porno in maybe a year now. Best choice.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:06 PM
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You're getting caught up with the semantics of it. LTR and FWB are just names for different phases of the same thing. Do you think you have to stop gaming/training a girl the moment she switches from FWB to LTR? Lmao, fuck the sidebar, go get some field experience homie
/r/askTRP05/01/20 01:11 AM
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I like taking my LTR to clubs as I like loud music/dancing. There’s no issue with doing so. You just have to manage behaviour accordingly and she’ll manage herself. Not every girl knows how to act/what is expected from a good girlfriend. You’ve got to teach her how to be your girlfriend. That’s your job. Expecting a girl, especially a hot girl who has basically 0 social pressure and been allowed to do whatever she wants most of her life, to know how to act is naive. Always call out behaviour and…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:16 PM
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Doesn’t matter. You give these bitches the benefit of the doubt and next thing they’re gagging down three cocks. It’s always better to dread, just in case. What you forgive her for today, she will use as justification for something else down the line. “Honey, do you need that beer right now?” “Yes” Always yes. Why? Because you are not fighting for today. You are setting the ground rules for 6 months from now.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 02:38 PM
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Don't listen to what they say. Girls will say anything to avoid slut-shaming. Just hammer down the emotion that it's a boundary for you. Use hypotheticals like: if we were walking and another girl touched my abs and I smiled. Would you be upset if I said I didn't notice? Would you believe me? Usually, the emotional spike she gets from imagining this scenario will spark up some dread and make her apologize/say it won't happen again. Chances are it might though. Then next time you can simply say: …
/r/askTRP04/01/20 01:44 PM
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I run my own business. I can tell you now, 9 - 5 is a fucking walk in the park in comparison.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:59 AM
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Lmao. As an adhd person you’re not suited to be an employee? You’re always an employee, even when you own your own business. The only difference is that working yourself requires 10x the concentration, comes with 10x the stress, and requires 10x efficiency. Good luck with that
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:07 PM
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It’s all frame & game. You can get laid in a public toilet if your frame is solid.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:10 PM
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Females always have the propensity to cheat, doesn't matter if it's a 6 month LTR or a 10-year marriage. Your key takeaway here has to be that it isn't her fault, it is you. You keep doing the same shit and your next girl will cheat as well. You let yourself go somewhere along the way or you trusted her too much or you got comfortable and blind-sided. Next time, always have something going on the side - not cheating - but just back up options that you're talking to as friends. Also, never give a…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:03 AM
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You have to come to terms with the fact that if a woman sleeps with 1 guy or 300 guys, that doesn’t make her a shit human being. Giving up pussy is so easy for them it’s not even funny. It’s like you getting out of bed in the morning. There is no gratification from fucking a bunch of different guys. The real reason they fuck around a lot is because they are trying to find love and for whatever reason, they’ve learned to use their pussy to manipulate men as their main source of power. When men do…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:53 PM
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275 pounds. Went down to 150 following the ‘cut till abs’ advice. And then slow bulk. No loose skin. No regrets.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:04 PM
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Take it to first base at the least. Play it slow. Insinuate that other girls usually throw themselves at you and you’re glad you have someone you can take it more chill with —that she seems different. It’s a whole lot of horse shit obviously but she’ll eat up the validation and play into your frame.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:18 AM
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Not a shit test. It’s a poison drip and it’s her way of keeping me off the market. Of course she doesn’t really want that because if I’m off the market for other girls, I’m off the market for her as well. This is also completely unconscious from her end.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:14 AM
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Other girls started checking me out more. Females in general became 10x more friendly and receptive. My girlfriend said she doesn’t like ‘slim guys’ and said it would be okay if I wanted to be fat again. Now get off the computer and go do a second gym session instead
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:00 AM
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None of this shit matters. Be better than you were yesterday. Consistently invest in yourself. It really is that simple.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:51 AM
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Start running your business idea past your target audience. If they ask where they can find that service, then it’s worth investing time into.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:04 AM
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Ehh, I understand what you’re saying because logically it’s somewhat sound. But you have to understand, there is no ‘one’ type of game. If game was one way or the highway, then every chick would respond the same way to your game. What you’ll come to realise is that some girls like being showered with affection, others like being treated like dogshit, others like chasing after a guy that has many options. In the same instance, some will opt out of an engagement for any of the above. You find the …
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:09 AM
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If I feigned ‘aloofness’ as trp suggests, she would continue doing that shit and make up her own story where she is the hero and I am the guy that doesn’t care. In this instance, she is the good girl that listens to her boyfriend and I am the controlling asshole. Controlling the frame is not important as long as you have created the necessary frame. I did the exact same shit to a plate of mine. Blew up on her for not texting me after work. Bitch started texting and calling me every day when I ba…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 07:52 AM
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Honestly, TRP advises against ‘investing’ in a girl. But my current girl was doing this shit, not texting back on time, not taking my time seriously. Each time she did it, I called her out like an absolute savage and withdrew attention. Told her that I put up with her shit and take care of her, and if she can’t satisfy my needs she can ask one of the other people she talks to put up with her shit instead. I then told her to text her friends for help and to tell me who actually gives a shit about…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:54 AM
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Money is king imo. Your SMV will always be high if you’re rich no matter how fucked up you are in other areas. Women want security (money) and guidance (game). It’s that simple. Do looks matter? She will want to fuck your more if you’re in good shape. That’s a given. But she’ll do just about anything in the sack if you have enough money.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:49 AM
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I know, but it gets results. TRP is ammoral and I feel this exposes a flaw in some of the ‘indifference’ logic we preach.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 03:40 AM
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I’m testing a cycle of high and lows with a girl at the moment. I’ll be very lovey with her for 2 - 3 days and then blow up at her about a specific behaviour on the 3rd or 4th. I can feel her attraction drop when I blow up at her. But I’ll use logic and then the next day show love again as if nothing happened. She will change the behaviour and go back to being sweet again. Again, I don’t know if she is secretly doing shady shit on the side. But behaviour wise those same pattern seems to work ove…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:15 AM
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As someone who focused on love life early and building themselves later . . . I will tell you without a shred of doubt that building yourself will reap you far better rewards, but will be 100x harder. Going out, fucking girls, and getting wasted is fun as shit and addictive. However, 3-4 years down the line when you’ve been working at 30% productivity and the girls you invested hours in are gone, you’ll wonder what the fuck you were thinking. Building yourself will be hard as fuck, make you feel…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:41 AM
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There is no get rich quick scheme. I’ve set up a side hustle that will allow me to pretty much do whatever I want in twelve more months. But I’ll tell you now, I read every ‘money guru’ out there, tried every ‘passive income’ tactic, and followed those YouTube channels with 50 money making methods that you can do right now etc I can 100% say that the only way to kick off a side hustle (unless you’ve got some extremely niche talent to leverage off), is to: Pick an area you’re interested in. Find …
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:49 PM
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Lmao. Self-amusement is a core belief where you don’t take anything too seriously. Constantly cracking jokes would only be part of this if it was congruent to your personality —a comedian for example.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:39 PM
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She loves you now. She may not love you tomorrow or in two minutes. Never give a bitch more than you’re willing to lose.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 10:55 AM
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I consider myself - somewhat - of an expert at this. I tested so many different things on different pussies and have got it down to an art. I don’t want to give you everything because that’d make it harder for me to look as good, but I’ll give you the general gist. Eating pussy starts long before you touch her down there. In fact, how well you’ll be able to make a girl orgasm is greatly impacted by all the steps you take before you go contact to clit. Start with first base, kissing her while fee…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 10:52 AM
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Normal job 10 hours a day. Side hustle 2 hours a night and 10 hours a day on weekends. Total around 80 hours a week. Push to 90 if possible
/r/askTRP21/10/19 06:57 AM
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A woman will go to any extent that you want her to. But not every women will go to any extent for you.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 05:28 AM
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lmao I remember this post. You were advised well in advance
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:02 PM
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Send it sooner than the afternoon, maybe midday? Seems like you were thinking of her all day long if you send it later
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:25 PM
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It’s a tricky position to be in. Honestly, it would be much easier to just start fresh with a new girl. If you really want to test things with her and dgaf about social circle implications, I would start by kino checking her. Isolate. Draw attention to a bracelet or ring she’s wearing. Then hold your palm face up and see if she complies by putting her hand on top of yours. After she complies squeeze her hand and then tease. This will be fucking creepy if there’s no sexual chemistry but will be i…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:50 PM
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Lmao, you built comfort for 6 months and you think she closes her eyes at night and rubs her pussy about you aka mr fucking nice. Get a fucking grip. Either escalate or start drama with her and check her emotional response. You’ll know pretty quickly if she’s into you. You’re worried she’s not and so you’re bitching out and sacrificing your happiness (putting her on a pedestal).
/r/askTRP04/10/19 10:02 AM
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This shit really isn’t confusing enough to need a 10 page biblical sermon drafted up. We want a girl that will bow down on her knees and suck cock like it’s the shaft of God. She wants to be able to look up at you from down on her knees and feel safe as she gazes with those big old ‘you’re so much better than me’ eyes. God is a masculine energy. Mother Nature is chaotic and ever changing. Become her God and let her deal with her own emotional turmoil. You must invest in yourself first and with p…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:23 AM
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Fair call. Just remind yourself that emotions are temporary. There was a time you felt worse/better than this with smaller/bigger problems
/r/askTRP21/09/19 06:03 PM
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Sometimes you just find the right chick, man. First you click, then you start to learn how to make her cum and she learns how to do it just as good for you. Then when you chill, there’s no walls up or the need to act a certain way. When you lose her, there’s this fear that you’ve got to start it all from scratch and there’s so much uncertainty about whether any of your net plates will be nearly as good. The thing you have to remember is that you may not find a girl who is the same but you will f…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:09 PM
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Lmao. You’re absolutely fucked if you do this
/r/askTRP21/09/19 10:11 AM
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Smiling a lot is a good thing, signals to the other person that you’re fun and approachable and with solid game you’ll find it easy to do solo clubbing/day game. There’s a misconception when new guys read trp that you have to be some silent cold mother fucker. The only time smiling is bad is if you’re using it as a nervous tick because you’re shy or if you do it when you actually should be angry about something —only if it’s incongruent.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 09:31 AM
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Push then pull just like the fucking name
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:54 PM
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Right off the open. It’s a good way to read her vibe/style based on how she responds. Some girls can only handle very soft teases
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:57 AM
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This guy lives the MRP lifestyle.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 07:33 PM
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Improvement is not a happy state by default. It’s the very reason that 90% of people involved in self improvement don’t change. Improvement involves facing your ego and all the bullshit you tell yourself so you can smile even when your life is terrible. If you think that’s a happy process, feel free to share what you’re doing with me, because I’ve gone from average to top 10-20% in terms of looks, income, and game and l’ll be blunt with you, it was fun as hell but there were times where the lows…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:49 AM
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Fucking excellent response
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:57 AM
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Happiness is temporary as is sadness. Misery is also a component of success, going first to a place of feeling like a rookie to then solving your sticking points and eventually improving. Paying too much attention to your emotional state will only hold you back. A solutions orientated mindset - or positive mindset as it has been coined - is essential, but this is not the same as happiness, as you must acknowledge that you are miserable and need to change. (Self-awareness)
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:00 PM
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Lmfao. If you are happy while broke you are mentally weak. No one should be happy with being a loser
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:15 PM
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The responder is talking bullshit. Pimp game relies on scarcity as pimps know that being available breeds contempt in women. Also, pimps need many girls in their stable as they know girls leave for reasons that don’t make sense (see spinning plates). The biggest thing, though, and the only factor we can’t account into this story is the girl’s motivation —her blueprint if you will. You can only find this out by talking to her and if she’s lonely and just wants to be treated like ‘xyz’, the guy co…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:10 PM
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Maybe her friend just got into an LTR and she feels left out so she’s putting up with Johnnie so she can post on Instagram and milk him for a few freebies. Maybe she just got dumped? Who knows. But . . . everyone but Johnnie already knows how this ends
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:14 AM
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Disabled restroom Sneak into her apartment at night via her window preferably but door if not. She literally just has to check her mum is sleeping, not hard. Apartment while parents are at work - skip a day of school or leave at lunch time Beach at night. Make it seem like a romantic idea or don’t. Plenty of secluded beaches /thread
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:34 PM
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She wants you to be God to her. God doesn’t have problems in the past or present
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:12 AM
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Cuddle with her less and fuck her harder
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:11 AM
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Every move forward is a good move
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:09 AM
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Invest 1 text to 3 and sprinkle in a day each week to two weeks where you’re more available and invest a little more than normal. I like to stick to pictures or something funny when investing. Other days just keep it to basic texts or emojis. Recently, did this for the past month and a half. Found that overinvesting breeds contempt and will not earn you any favours. Imo you’re doing it right when she asks if you’ve forgotten about her
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:08 AM
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There was no complaint. Read before you hamster away
/r/askTRP03/09/19 05:30 AM
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Thank fuck for this comment.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 05:29 AM
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I’d prefer advice from guys who have dealt with this situation in real life. Not hypotheticals. Thanks anyway
/r/askTRP02/09/19 11:53 PM
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Thank fuck. I was really starting to wonder whether I was reading Ask men or trp.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:05 PM
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I enjoy loud music and am a good dancer, so a night club is one of my go to’s when I’m with a chick. Sometimes guys in their drunken stupor will pull the dirty titty grab or ass grab move.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:49 AM
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The reason you’re most likely bad at sex is because you’re rushing to penetration. It’s all about the slow build up for females. Slower you go, the better the experience, and the longer you can draw things out the more she’ll enjoy it. Rushing is both a sign of lack of confidence and doesn’t allow the experience to be immersive for the girl. You don’t need to put your dick in her to make her orgasm over and over again, so don’t rush to it.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:01 PM
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Develop systems where accountability is a factor. If you need to make $5000 to feed your child vs $5000 for some extra pocket change, that’s a different level of emotional accountability. The other way is to fight against the resistance until you form a habit (30 days of consistency). One you develop a habit, it’s harder not to do something. Example, gyming 5 days a week for 3 months is actually easier than gyming 5 days a week for 4 weeks. It feels odd not to do it after a while.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:15 AM
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Thought so. You’re probably closer to 2200 than 1600. Look at your calorie count closely. Easy to fuck it up, I did it wrong for a year. Buy food scale, cut oils, lower carbs to deplete glyco stores etc
/r/askTRP29/08/19 05:06 PM
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Desensitisation. Google it, read, apply
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:44 AM
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My goals are the same but bigger. I’ve narrowed down the fields I can hit the top 10 - 20% in down to two categories (my job & business) and also kept physique as a key point of effort. It’s funny what a huge difference appearance makes in sales and how many sales people absolutely neglect this. There is no competition. Now I’m just scaling up. But I won’t monk mode again for a little while maybe, need to reset.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:06 AM
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I had really clear goals before I started, and then did everything possible to crush them. The fucked up part is that I thought I would be satisfied afterwards . . . like the me 6 months ago would have said ‘this is all I want to be content’ and now that I have all of that my goals have only gotten bigger. It’s a double edged sword.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:18 AM
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Went into hardcore monk mode. Lost 17kg, killing it at the gym, can see abs and muscle definition, scored a top job at global company, started side business that is generating profits. Took me one 6 month stint and then another 3 month stint. Tips I can give you: It’s fucking hard, you need to understand at a deep level that all emotion is momentary. If you feel depressed and defeated, know that you will not feel this day in a month or a week or even tomorrow. Emotions do not last whether happy …
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:01 AM
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1600 4 days of lifting you should be losing 1kg a week. Is this accurate? Unless you’re somehow super low BF
/r/askTRP29/08/19 02:18 AM
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No shit. Any man in the top 20% of college will have an insta because it’s an instant plug to pussy
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:19 AM
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Great, step 2 - talk to people
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:47 PM
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Go outside
/r/askTRP27/08/19 05:23 PM
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Eh, moralistic bullshit. If jealously is what it takes to propel you forward stop trying to be a good guy and use that shit like jet fuel.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:13 AM
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What’s wrong with being jealous? Especially if it helps you improve your quality of life?
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:38 PM
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The defining factor is that these men put their needs above everyone else. Simple.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:36 PM
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Funny, I always shake my head when I read stories like this. I was fortunate enough to have lots of female friends through high school and became acquainted to just how slutty they can be and how they can then rationalise it after the fact. They are children that only become logical because the adult world requires it. If this behaviour still effects you, I’d take a look at that belief system and check whether your perception really aligns with how women truly are. And all women can be like this…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:25 PM
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What lmao. They wouldn’t be able to concentrate long enough. Psychopaths would be good no doubt
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 10:04 PM
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Act as if it never happened. If she brings up the topic again, keep it to her experiences or very lightly about what you said (if she talks about that). It’s not a deal breaker, maintain frame as usual going forward and no fucks will be given
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:51 PM
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Lmao. I’m actually dying What the fuck did I just read
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:49 PM
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You looks like the future poster child for the #metoo movement. With good game, you’ll be great.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:06 PM
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This folks, is why you should be sceptical of every response on this board and look for the ECs with a good track record only. She’s a plate. Plates break either way.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:59 PM
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You include multiple limiting beliefs with every response and always in a way that makes you seem a victim of circumstance. “My friend became addicted to hookers . . . I can’t because I will be like him“ “The main sub advises against it . . . I must listen to all powerful trp “ If I were you, I’d sit down in my room, lights off, door closed, no distractions and figure out what you really want. If the top priority on your list is losing your virginity, then start working backwards from what that …
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:53 AM
2

Then bang a whale from OKcupid? You discuss productivity but you’re a 29 year old virgin, you have no idea what being productive means. I don’t say that to be an asshole. But you have to look the truth in the face and acknowledge it for what it is and then find solutions.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:49 PM
1

Baby steps
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:48 PM
1

Don’t ignore a good message because of the quality of the parchment.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:47 PM
2

You’re running some fucked up paradigms at 29 if you haven’t been laid and haven’t even considered a hooker as a means of getting it out of your system. You’re probably over invested in your ego and have a fairly frail belief system. Start approaching. It really is that simple for you. Do 15 - 30 a day for a month, hit the gym 5x a week, and start being miticulous about your goals, meditation, and affirmations. Fuck the best quality that you can get, even if they’re unattractive. Then keep scali…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:36 PM
6

It’s not so much cutting out bad habits as it is about being efficient. I also love listening to music and so I picked up dancing as an active hobby. I also listen to new music when at the gym. What I find helped the most was tracking my weekly activity in a spreadsheet and at the end of the week calculating how many hours were productive, leisure, or commitments (don’t include work hours). This will help you make the most of your free time. Under 10 hours of leisure time a week is a solid place…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 11:19 PM
3

The Redpill does not put you on a pedestal. It is simply information that when used correctly will better your quality of life.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:55 PM
1

Excellent detective skills. I was going to make seventeen alt accounts to hide the fact that I slept with your sister. But you got me.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:46 PM
1

Without a doubt
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:31 PM
18

Lmao. Wat. If you were approaching none of this would have happened. Male hamster out in full force
/r/askTRP17/08/19 05:14 AM
9

Give women an inch, they’ll take a fucking mile. FWB is her card to still stay in your life and try manipulating you back into a BF role. Keep banging her but keep yourself in check when she pushes for that little bit more of commitment. No bitch in the history of bitches has ever been happy with going from being the one to one of many.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 07:17 PM
2

It’s best not to elicit shit tests. While passing a shit test spikes attraction, the reason the shit test presents itself is a doubt or uncertainty that you are a high value male. There are far easier ways to spike emotions and to build attraction without inviting doubt/uncertainty.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:12 AM
2

It’s a gift and a curse. Why would you be or cultivate anything of value when there is no natural or external drive for you to do so?
/r/askTRP11/08/19 10:00 AM
3

Banging more girls will make you want to improve yourself, and in fact, it will be easier to find motivation because you’ll start wanting to attract higher quality chicks. At 3 lay count, chances are you’ll catch feelings for one of the next chicks you bang. Make sure you keep reading here and don’t go into an LTR blind
/r/askTRP10/08/19 11:03 PM
5

It’s called a shit test. Read the fucking Side bar
/r/askTRP10/08/19 11:01 PM
15

Lmao. Not clingy but ‘afraid she will fall in love’ Get the fuck out of here with your hamstering. The games will soon begin and both the other female room mates will side with her because ‘girl power’ Prepare an exit strategy
/r/askTRP10/08/19 10:59 PM
1

It really doesn’t. Mood swings and instability are a sign of low estrogen. Chances are you’ve been reading this forum a little too much. If you go outside and approach, you’ll notice that most woman are fairly insecure/friendly.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 09:21 PM
9

Women are generally more empathetic due to estrogen.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 07:42 AM
1

Hide from women for one year and then come back to trp to ask about why you aren’t getting laid. Do monk mode in 3 or 6 month spurts at most and then go out and get laid. If you haven’t done monk mode before you have no idea how fucked your dopamine will be in the start and how hard your urges will be even two weeks in. It’a not something everyone does because it’s fucking hard. Try 3 months then come back if you’ve never done it before
/r/askTRP09/08/19 12:14 PM
1

AlphaM on YouTube. Underrated as fuck and has solid dress tips. Simple but effective style that suits all guys.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 12:09 PM
1

She was already in your frame. Last ok bye was her seeing if you liked her enough to chase even a little bit. It wasn’t important in the overall sense, but more her not feeling like a slut. Easy lead by grabbing her around the waist and simply doing what you were going to do. Remember the time of the interaction can dictate how you should act. Is it a shit test or a comfort test
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 07:12 AM
1

What is this fuckery? Say ‘we’re done’, take her shit outside, lock your door, go no contact. At this stage, she is probably just salty she didn’t break up with you first
/r/askTRP03/08/19 12:25 AM
1

Been working as the only guy in a female office for 2 years now. A couple of things I can tell you off the bat: never take sides 2). Never make any of your colleagues feel belittled even if what they have done is absolutely stupid - and trust me there will be lots of stupid Never DEER when it comes to accusations or even jokes about flirting or being interested in other females (work place or customers). Agree and amplify is your best friend 4). Positive emotions as much as possible. I’ve maybe …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:53 AM
1

A position of weakness??? What??? Where did you read that horse shit. You are the man; you have the balls. You are meant to lead. When you’re not leading, you’re treating the girl like a slut, and this is not a rewarding relationship for her to be a part of. If it was a simple miscommunication, you should have texted her to meet up and kept running game like it never happened. She is reacting to the way she feels about your reaction. What can she think besides ‘you don’t want to see her again’ b…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 10:27 AM
1

It’s all about the warm up. When you pre-drink, the alcohol is stripping away your inhibitions for you and so by the time you hit the club it’s go time. If you’re sober clubbing, you either have to day game or start approaching before you reach the club. It usually takes 5 solid approaches before I hit good enough momentum. The other trade off is that you can nurse your drink in the club or just ‘trip out’. This works like an anchor for your state. Whereas, when sober, you can go from happy to f…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 10:23 AM
1

Did you try making contact again?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 10:16 AM
1

Good strategy. Sorry, I was working with the initial context. Keep doing what you doing
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:51 AM
2

Bitch probably doesn’t even know what she did, man. Women are rarely consciously vicious. You make them feel a certain way at a certain time and it comes out of them automatically. I bet if you asked her why she said ‘that thing’ yesterday, she won’t even know what you’re referring to. Therefore cutting back is just going to confuse her. Either be straight with her or cut her out completely. Distancing yourself will not change anything.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 11:00 PM
1

Complete lack of empathy. You are pretty much saying, ‘I don’t give a shit’ to someone who is trying to get your attention
/r/askTRP31/07/19 12:01 PM
5

The fuck is this thread hahaha Fuck her, man. Hotness is the only deciding factor
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:03 AM
1

Because you are in the attraction game. It’s a game of building your product and selling. Any good salesman knows you never collect all of your leads from one bucket, as this diminishes the quantity and potential quality of all of your leads.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:43 AM
10

What? Lol. If you’re selling any product, regardless of niche, you’re severely harming your customer life time value and engagement if you don’t use social
/r/askTRP28/07/19 06:55 AM
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Work, money, and all guys should be building their Instagram for dating purposes imo
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:04 AM
2

Lmao, good luck, man
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:37 PM
1

Great story, man. Thanks for taking the time to share this with us. In all seriousness, your girl’s reaction was based on what she felt at the time. Ignore, move on. Not everything she does means something.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 11:49 AM
1

I’m below average on the dick scale, and I had the girl I fucked last night quivering from orgasming. Sure, a big dick takes up more space inside a Vagina, but as this was one of my insecurities when I was younger I really looked into this topic. First thing: the vagina has so few nerve endings that a doctor could operate without anisthetic. There’s a more correct and sciency way to explain it, but thats the general jist. When a dick is inside a girl she feels pressure. She actually only experie…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 11:42 AM
1

When you approach 1 girl, you are approaching the last thirty girls you’ve spoken with. That’s why it’s important to always be talking to new chicks, in order to keep your game solid. If you stop talking to girls, you lose the ability to talk to them well. There is never ‘1 girl’, she is just another hot girl. Approach her the same way you approached your last plate, with the same bullshit lines if you have to.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 11:30 AM
1

It’s a fucking situation, man. But there is a solution, and it’s not blue nor red, it’s black. Blue: you stay with the girl and remain stuck in a fear of missing out state. Red: you leave the girl and soon realise that casual sex with women is empty, very meaningless, and yet somehow something you can’t stop doing. However, this is no road to happiness. Black: you stay with the girl and cheat several times. Even if you could convince her to have threesomes, it’s not the same understanding/experi…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 11:21 AM
2

Hard for blue pilled guys not to embody their girlfriend’s emotions as their own. They feel there is some bond and if he does not come at you with the same level of emotion he is somehow less faithful to her. Yes it makes no sense, and it happens very very often.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 03:59 PM
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Lmao, a book for waking up at 5am. Set your alarm and repeat. Pain is the price of improvement. The only good way to make any worthwhile change is to understand that pain is what you pay and to suffer anyway.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 10:46 AM
2

Lmao, your comment was pretty fucked but just delete and move on. An apology just adds more fuel to the fire and gives them a justified reason to shit on you. You will not be forgiven if you apologise, but you will be forgotten if you don’t say anything else about the matter. That’s all you need to know
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:38 AM
1

The title of this post is autistic enough to know that you shouldn’t be worried about this at the current stage of your journey
/r/askTRP24/07/19 09:41 PM
1

Push pull /thread
/r/askTRP24/07/19 09:38 PM
1

Good shit. No point in being a people pleaser and allowing yourself to be manipulated. Please yourself first.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 12:19 AM
6

Take value and offer it back when you can. Keeps the cycle going. Glad it helped
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:58 PM
1

Great advice. I met up, not with RSD, but another bunch of PUA minded guys in my early twenties. Many of them were fairly odd, so most of those friendships fell off, but there are a few that will definitely be life long friends & are like minded in terms of business and women.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:42 PM
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This is why I’m glad I invested in social skills, even if I was a fat fuck in my early 20s. Social skills have improved my quality of life more than anything I can think of, and now that I’m hitting the gym in my late 20s, I feel getting lean is actually easier than it was to learn cold approach, etc., I’ll give you a brief guide on what I did. 21, very introverted not confident at all. I started reading self- help confidence books which eventually led me to the game by Neil Strauss. That PUA sh…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:46 PM
1

Fuck her right in the pussy
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:27 PM
1

Hair in the shower, on the bathroom counter, on the fucking floor, in the fucking food, random strands in random places on the couch. Fuck that
/r/askTRP03/07/19 10:19 PM
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Personally, I would do it only because I’m used to female company and know their bullshit. If you have decent frame and can put up with their bitchiness, definitely manageable for a 3-6 month span. But I’d work on a new place asap
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:58 PM
15

The most basic shit test of them all. Agree + amplify
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:54 PM
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It’s a raw deal, man. They bleed at the same time each month, their emotions will fluctuate from bitchy to lovey every 5 minutes, they’ll have guys over the house and rationalise why it’s their right even if it’s 2AM on a Monday night. They’ll act like they’re your friend when really there is no such thing as an awesome female friend. The list goes on. Guys or a mix are better in almost every way, unless you strike out with two dirty ratbags but then again it’s all up to chance in that regard, w…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:46 PM
1

Dread. She thinks she knows you like an open book, soon one months will be three and sex will follow. Start talking to other women and being a little less available
/r/askTRP16/06/19 08:22 PM
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Go read the married Redpill subreddit, far better advice than you’ll get here. And yes, you got the reaction you wanted now move on.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:40 AM
1

She hates sitting at the bar and wanted to sit at the table. Should have told her the bar is the best place and continued conversation. Then when she brings it up again, you ask her why. She probably won’t have a reason. You then tease her and venue hop. Basically give her what she wants but don’t give her what she ‘wants’. May seem trivial but imo the moment you shifted seats you shifted frame. She’s telling you she likes straight forward guys, and so you reward her by being straightforward and…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:34 AM
2

The fuck are you talking about
/r/askTRP09/06/19 09:53 PM
10

Use humour, don’t ever be blunt. Most guys don’t respect dictative authority but they will respect a dude who is more authoritative and funny “Hold up mother fucker, let me finish this shit.” Loud expansive energy and you’ll control the crowd.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 11:08 AM
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Don’t say shit to anyone, homie. Don’t speak to cops or a lawyer but do make sure to alert either family or close friends in case shit hits the fan. Save and back up chat logs and pics. Go about life as usual My biggest regret ever when in trouble was informing the police. The cops are not on your side, they are simply there to make ‘informed’ decisions according to the ‘law’
/r/askTRP09/06/19 11:06 AM
3

Women are sexual objects. Men are success objects. The sooner you get that into your head, the sooner you’ll realise that selling pussy is quite literally the only power women have. Some manage to sell it for a life-long commitment from a man that protects, feeds, and gives her children. Others sell it for that new Gucci jacket they can’t afford. It’s one and the same thing.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:12 PM
1

His gym and steroid stuff is real, as well as his penis pump vids and all the rest. He also knows business really well, especially online marketing (I think). However, if you watch the guys approach videos - the day game ones outside a library etc - they’re clearly fake. Anyone that has approached would know this at a glance. I’m not sure why he faked them as he puts himself out there to a great degree. If someone is willing to put up bs vids presented as self help then idk what other aspects of…
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:47 AM
2

Definitely not GLL guy is a fraud.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:10 PM
3

Only careers worth having are sales, selling your own product, or monetising your current job imo There is no age or right way to do it. You need killer instinct. Decide what you want. Work backwards. Then make the decision and go for it. Source: swapped careers after 8 years
/r/askTRP28/05/19 09:43 AM
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This isn’t dungeons and dragons gamer chat. You should be out there more than you’re in here. Everything you need is in the side bar, and 90% of problems you have with women can be answered with: you’re being too nice, lift, apply dread, and next. The red pill is not a theory that gets patched every week with more questions arising from updates. It literally is what it is. If you feel you have some unique problem or insight post it here. Other than that, you shouldn’t need the constant mothering…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:24 PM
12

You should have bit her dick right back
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:19 PM
1

A guy who was creepy called up and asked for advice on how not be creepy. Patrice told him to be overly confident, to the point where women will want to bring him down. He then said ‘women love anything that has a sense of belonging to it’. What you’ve said ties into this scenario fairly well
/r/askTRP21/05/19 12:55 AM
4

Oh, dear, the old roll down the window insult trick. Best way to handle this is to roll down your zipper and smack the driver in the face with your Weiner. Works 90% of the time. And yes, you are overreacting . . . Strong frame means you understand that you are not the cause of what other people feel but the cause of what you feel. Game is gaming yourself. This is in all situations, even when dealing with the guy on the road.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 02:02 PM
1

test
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:03 AM
1

test
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:03 AM
1

It's part of the blue pill coding of society that females should be protected even when they are in the wrong. Women are given the same societal privileges as children while being taught they are also entitled to the same respect of adults. This is why your sister can act like a cunt and get away with it. But when you call her a cunt, you are treated as a violent man who doesn't care. The expectation is that you are given the respect an adult and the consequences of one acting out of turn. It's …
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:02 AM
1

It's part of the blue pill coding of society that females should be protected even when they are in the wrong. Women are given the same societal privileges as children while being taught they are also entitled to the same respect of adults. This is why your sister can act like a cunt and get away with it. But when you call her a cunt, you are treated as a violent man who doesn't care. The expectation is that you are given the respect an adult and the consequences of one acting out of turn. It's …
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:02 AM
1

It's part of the blue pill coding of society that females should be protected even when they are in the wrong. Women are given the same societal privileges as children while being taught they are also entitled to the same respect of adults. This is why your sister can act like a cunt and get away with it. But when you call her a cunt, you are treated as a violent man who doesn't care. The expectation is that you are given the respect an adult and the consequences of one acting out of turn. It's …
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:02 AM
3

At your age, it’s 80% looks 20% game. If you can hold a conversation and keep your cool while being relatively good looking, you can get most girls & many girls will be stuck in your friend zone.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:01 AM
5

Your snooping confirmed your suspicions. You can either start working on yourself or continue down this path to who the fuck cares where. Read the post on dread game.
/r/askMRP09/05/19 04:11 AM
1

Fun fact, GRRM started as a screen writer. He wrote game of thrones as a novel because he knew he couldn’t get the same depth through a script
/r/MensRights08/05/19 05:26 AM
2

Holy fuck that post is insane. Any others you’ve got hidden away? I bookmark a select few so I don’t have to wade through the sewage
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:14 AM
2

Friends who have banged 40% of strippers in this city. Lmao Not sure which strip clubs you go to where you can sit around and not tip. But do whatever works for you
/r/askTRP06/05/19 04:54 PM
2

Of course it will. But there’s usually a healthy time/cost investment required and I’m not sure why you’d want to do that instead of just tinder/day game. Strippers are also harshly judged by society, and so when they find someone that accepts them they can be needy/possessive.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:13 AM
1

Have always used a $2 tip as my opener. Think of it this way. No stripper is going to give you her number, meet with you, and then suddenly remember you tipped her and have that be the reason she doesn’t fuck you. Frame is bigger than a $2 tip lol
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:32 AM
1

Here’s why it’s RP. Because any woman that doesn’t eat like a pig or end up in some freakish accident, can simply take off her clothes and dance on a pole and still make more money than most men.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:09 AM
7

Always tip, but don’t over do it. Going to a strip club and not tipping is like going to a lake and not taking a dip. If you want to bang strippers, the easiest way is to be a regular. Most of them don’t have well developed social circles or time to date, and so they take what they can. Just don’t forget that you’re dating a hoe.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:05 AM
1

Women are attracted to alpha males. If the alpha male wasn’t the prettiest boy in the tribe do you think they would be less attracted? Resources come in many forms . . . genes, money, status. Women can’t look into your bank account so instead they look for social cues that demonstrate these things. That’s why game exists. Game is essentially a man manually flipping attraction switches in a woman’s head. ‘Attraction is not a choice’ You won’t hear it here but it’s also why so many guys lie to gir…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:26 PM
1

Inner game. Start getting to know yourself, man. This has nothing to do with the type of woman you want. Woman are malleable, most will take the shape of whatever the alpha male they are with desires. Ever seen footballers wives? They were one bad decision away from being career driven hoes. As a man, you open up the option of your women being feminine and desireable. It starts with you.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 08:52 AM
1

Survivor men vs women
/r/askTRP05/05/19 08:46 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JnNJpwf4m7s
/r/askTRP05/05/19 08:46 AM
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Women play games unconsciously. They are naturally manipulative. This is their ‘skill’, if you will. Really good example, is the reality tv show where men and women made their own tribes on an island. The men made a solid camp, while the women couldn’t stop bickering and ended up in the cold. They then manipulated the guys for fire/food/shelter. Later on the women were not interested in repaying the debt, and were completely cold to the favour as if it had been the men’s fault for helping them
/r/askTRP04/05/19 09:52 PM
4

You haven’t taken or understood the pill. The state of your relationship is your fault. You’ve got to change yourself to get what you want. It doesn’t matter if you’re dating your high school sweet heart or Kendal fucking Jenner. They are both girls. The way they act is a reflection of your leadership as a man And no one said this shit is easy man. They will test you until the very fucking end. If there is no chemistry, fair enough. But if the relationship stinks because you’re being too awkward…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:55 PM
1

If he’s leaving the job anyway, no loss. And it doesn’t sound like a western country so no chance of issue
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:37 PM
0

Approach her and say you and manager are heading out for drinks. Invite her along. If she declines, politely accept it and move on. Nothing gained, nothing lost
/r/askTRP01/05/19 06:26 AM
2

The moment you acknowledge him as competition, you start digging your grave. Don’t react, and if you can’t then leave.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 06:22 AM
2

Fat, balding? His name isn’t Owen Cook is it? If it is, just nope the fuck outta there man. No chance.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 07:24 PM
1

8% - 12% body fat Then facial genetics Then height End of discussion How to calculate your physical SMV? You can’t. Girl’s calculate it for you. You look at the girl’s you’re pulling and add a + 1 or 2 for your average SMV. But what if I’m pulling 8s and 9s, am I a 10? No, dummy. You’ve now realised that the above formula for calculating physical SMV was a huge fucking bear trap that I gave you. If it was all about looks, this sub wouldn’t exist. Get your looks to a decent level and then approac…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:07 AM
1

Talking about exes. The sidebar is over there ->
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:02 AM
9

What’s the fucking question?
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:01 AM
-1

The level of social calibration it takes to pull off a kino open is very very high. It’s something you can do when you’ve been approaching consistently because all your cogs are oiled up. Someone new to the game can’t pull shit like that off after two weeks. During your second week of approaching EVER, telling a girl that her face is cute while sober will make your hands shake - maybe not as much as week 1. It’s even harder if she has a friend with her. That’s strong frame shit. If OP had been g…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:57 AM
1

It’s an attempt to get more of your attention. Take it as a sign that things are working. I would, however, recommend you slow down with the changes or give her a little more attention than you currently are. She may actually cheat in order to fill the sudden space that you’ve created with your lack of attention. Or she may think that you are cheating and cheat out of spite. Either way, she doesn’t realise that what you are doing is good for both of you because right now it feels bad to her.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:51 AM
8

Lmfao, you opened by holding your hands out and the girl that accepted this approach was with a friend AND had a boyfriend. She then held hands with you for a distance and shortly after decided she’d like to press charges for harassment. Anything else you’d like to add to this amazing piece of fiction?
/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:36 AM
10

LOL Gay guys don’t need a fucking red pill, dude. They have the most straightforward sexual marketplace in existence.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:30 AM
2

Don’t react.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:27 AM
3

This is normal. It’s a sign that the girl is thinking about being intimate with you but doesn’t want you to think that she’s a slut. It’s very important to a chick that you don’t see her as a slut and instead see her as someone worth committing to. Is it a shit test? It depends on the context that she’s saying it in. It can in fact be a comfort test. If it’s casual conversation, all that’s warranted is a simple ‘fair enough’ and then continue on. If it’s while flirting, then treat it as a shit t…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:25 AM
4

Walk in front of her and look over your shoulder to initiate. If you’re stopping her do it with a big smile and make contact we’ll before you speak. There are slight nuances you learn that make each interaction more natural. The only way to learn these social cues are through practice. I’ve never seen many of them mentioned in game advice, but they make a huge difference in not coming off weird or unnatural
/r/askTRP26/04/19 10:53 PM
3

Fereally has the right answer. You don’t want to be a push over or cold. Texts are best ignored. If she approaches you at school, just say, you couldn’t pick her up and exit the convo asap Your goal should be to cut her out of your life completely. No conversations, no car rides, no texts. (Unless she can introduce you to potential pussy)
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:20 AM
1

Have you ever seen a transformation of a 2/10 fatty into an 8.5/10 model looking girl? Maybe she lost weight started wearing make up, etc., There’s always this deep seated sick feeling at the pit of your stomach that while she looks good now, you’re really just fucking the stinky fat skin she was before. Women get this ill feeling when they find out beta males have a place they can go to to become attractive. It’s not organic and is therefore seen as creepy/manipulative. It also goes against the…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:54 PM
0

If you froze you should have left the refrigerator section
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:30 AM
1

Because he’s trying to nice guy his way out of pussy. Either way he’s the villain, whether he tells her or he doesn’t. One way is easier for him and the other is easier for her
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:29 AM
2

You’ve got to come to terms with the fact that it’s on you, brother. You let yourself get to the stage where either you were unattractive physically or too loyal to where she didn’t feel your attention was worth competing against other women for. If she starts to realise that other women are still attracted to you, things will change quickly. You need her to believe that you are more important to you and to other women than she is to you.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:26 AM
4

It’s not over. Dread game and get side pussy if you have to. You’re in a better situation than most guys in an ltr. Easy come back
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:09 AM
2

I’ve been doing monk mode fairly religiously for 5 months now (not for the first time. I once did it for 9 months straight) I give myself a night of socialising each month. Works wonders for general happiness and overall performance. Extremes are good, but you need to be honest with yourself - how much time do you have to give where results are marginal. For example, if you spend 9 hours a week in the gym, can you cut that down to 8.5 and get the same results. Or . . . One that I started doing. …
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:05 AM
1

Sure thing. I'm not sure how I could make it TRP related, would be more career/finance but I'll have a go at it
/r/askTRP22/04/19 04:00 AM
1

I work in a sales niche where Linkedin has brought in a shit ton of organic revenue. Shit works
/r/askTRP22/04/19 02:16 AM
3

Shoulda grabbed her by the neck and shoved your dirty tongue down her giant throat
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:16 PM
1

Linkedin + connect + message = profit
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:15 PM
2

Ghosting a girl that pokes fun at your dick size? Harden up
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:10 PM
1

Ehh, you should kind of be able to tell if it’s legit. And you should pretend you didn’t hear it and talk about whatever you were talking about. I almost always say, “Great.” And continue But I’m thinking of giving, “So does my girlfriend.” A go from now on as it also flicks the preselection switch in her. This is the one shit test that you pass by simply continuing to game her. Because you can’t really know if she does have one or if she’s testing you, so leave it up to her to back out
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:38 PM
11

“Oh yeah?” And then slap/grab her ass. Or if she’s on the other side of the room. “You’re right, I’d definitely need a guy with a small dick.” Don’t react to her nonsense defensively If she’s actually trying to communicate she wants a bigger dick, you may need to deploy your fist into said cavern
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:20 PM
2

You’re a rape case waiting to happen, man. I knew a guy that thought he was top shit. Started treating girls real bad, not even softening the blow. One of the girls decided he’d raped her and took him to court. Shit blew up in the area he was living, he didn’t get binned but he lost/couldn’t get a job anywhere nearby because of it —ended up moving cities due to bullshit drama. Wasn’t even a work thing, just knew her through mutual pals. Worse things have happened. But you might not be as lucky. …
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:17 PM
1

You didn’t waste the best years of your life doing nothing. You wasted them siting down. On the plus side, most people live till at least 50 odd. You’ve got a few years left in you yet
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:12 PM
0

What’s with the fucking dear diary posts? We get it, you’re a faggot that doesn’t know how to use the search function. Type ‘abundance mindset’ into the search field and go to town. You might learn that not being a faggot is step 1
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:07 PM
-1

Stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:03 PM
4

If only we had a platform where experts in certain fields advertised their experience and location. Even better if we could send direct messages. Holy shit that would be a sell. It would bridge the gap between professionals around the world. That shit could be the missing link. There’d be so many opportunities that could be linked together. We’d be linked in a true professional partnership that has no global bounds. Dreams will be dreams.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:00 PM
3

Don’t play games. Invite her out or soft next and spin plates When you type omg followed by seventeen paragraphs it makes you sound like a lesbian dwarf that’s being fucked by a cactus. Please relax
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:58 AM
1

There’s a million reasons to why she could have blocked her story. Maybe she got him a gift. Maybe she didn’t want him to judge her. Maybe she’s getting some side dick. The question is, why do you give a fuck? Wait, don’t answer . . . here’s why: you don’t have your own prom date to fret over. Go out and get a prom date sissy, and then start figuring out how you are going to fuck her
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:47 AM
3

You have too many limiting beliefs to be in the top 90% of social skills. Anyone that’s approached more than a day in their life is so immune to rejection that they don’t even think about the other guys in the room. As you practice you’ll start to notice that the more inside your head you are the worse your social skills become. The more loose and aloof you are, the less you care and the more fun you have. You’ve got to man up and deal with your approach anxiety. This has nothing to do with look…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:43 AM
3

Lmfao, you piece of shit, you came out of your cave just to say that
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:34 AM
1

Money = earn more than her. Not having a lot of money will be seen as a bonus but not a negative. Status = make her feel positive emotions, don’t be shy, and have a group of buddies you do shit with. Congratulations
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:29 AM
2

This guy writes.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:13 AM
1

Agreed. From my understanding it’s both for shit tests and any time an argument is brewing. I suppose my previous response was misleading in that regard. I keep it in my head that any time my girl is being emotional she is shit testing me. Here’s the post: https://trpbackup.com/posts/2 I keep that shit bookmarked.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:13 AM
1

I think you’re misunderstanding the context. DEER/DARE is a tool used to deal with shit tests. The same tool can be used when you’re being shit tested by women, men, or groups. That’s why I used insults as my examples. If you were to DARE during rational conversation not only would that be retarded but it would be incredibly frustrating. You definitely wouldn’t dare if you injured someone’s child. The reason you would talk to a man the same way you talk to a woman is if they were shit testing yo…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:57 PM
1

It comes down to the social cues you are giving off. If you can say ‘where is McDonalds’ in the same way you say ‘You’re cute’ that’s going to flip every switch in the book and she’s going to feel attraction based on your confidence alone. It may not close her but it will qualify her quickly and save you time. It also establishes that he is a guy that speaks to other women a certain way (even if that understanding is unconscious). The catch with indirect game is that 90% of women will put up wit…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:18 PM
1

You are asking for compliance and she is complying with your request. If I tell you to suck my dick and you suck it, am I giving my power to you or making you into my bitch?
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:10 PM
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It’s true for all communication. By defending, making excuses, rationalising, or staying involved in a shitty situation, you are placing the antagonist in a position of power. Let’s use examples. Male to male: “Shut the fuck up, faggot.” Defending - “I’m not a faggot, why would you call me that!” Instantly loses respect from the other guy and group if they are present. The defender is essentially a little beta bitch. Group communication: “You made Sally upset!” “It was a mistake, I swear.” Boom.…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:04 PM
2

That’s not direct game, that’s sexual assault game. Open YouTube, type in ‘direct day game’, and watch a video.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:52 PM
3

Invite her over, put on a flick, and fuck her until your neighbours start banging on the wall. Want her to fly over? Put a picture of you with another girl in your social media story. When she asks who the girl is, say it’s just a friend. She’ll be on that overnight fucking flight to your tiny dick the next time you offer
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:48 PM
1

Calories in calories out. Keto when you want to look shredded asf (and are already low bf)
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:47 PM
6

Just be yourself is bullshit. You are selling confidence, wit, and valuable attention. She is trading her pussy. Sell the best version of yourself to the best of your ability.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:45 PM
1

Spin plates and don’t promote her past a leisurely fuck Unless you’re into some kinky shit, then maybe LTRing a hoe would work for you.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:41 PM
2

Read the ‘Wallstreet Playboy’ blog. These guys will influence your money making habits/career in the best way possible.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:39 PM
8

People used to think the same thing about me. I wouldn’t think too much on it if I were you. Rather embrace the fact that this is the vibe you give off. A chill vibe is the best for seduction, as sexual energy is very low but tense.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:38 PM
2

Nothing wrong with being the initiator, your friends probably enjoy the fact you lead in that way. If it bothers you, maybe explore finding a new friend group? I find a couple groups works best. On a less serious note . . . In my peer group, Joseph is the initiator and we all praise him for it. Just last night he invited five of us over to his place. The new guy even brought his sister along. Weirdest orgy ever.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:35 PM
0

Direct game is the best.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:31 PM
3

The real world
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:29 PM
5

Don’t Defend, explain, excuse, or rationalise as these forms of communication are supplicatory, unattractive and highly beta. Always deflect, agree/amplify, repeat, or exit the situation. For example yesterday, my wife was screaming at me in front of the kids. This is highly disrespectful and I don’t tolerate it. When she came at me twice, I simply repeated my reasoning. I told her that it’s my house and I’ll masturbate in the hallway whether she likes it or not. (For any autists, the above stor…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:27 PM
3

She let you know when she’s free. You’re still making the decision.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:21 PM
5

You sit her down. You squeeze your balls just to remind yourself that you have them. Then you say, we need to take a break.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:16 PM
2

You aren’t ready for an LTR. Spin plates
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:12 PM
6

Lmao “You decide.” “Fuck, if I decide I’m giving her control.” Wot
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:09 PM
1

I’ve read too many self-help books to remember, many of which I definitely did not need (but I probably can’t really say that). Recommendations: Motivation: Relentless by Tim S Grover Mission as a man: The Superior man by David d . . . & King, warrior, magician, lover by (can’t remember name) Game: The book of pook Sixty years of challenge (for kino) RSD Todd (Todd Valentine now...) And only him -everyone else is full of shit or nowhere near as good. Relationship theory: The Rationale male (all …
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:46 AM
1

Guy is on the money. As someone in sales, don’t get it confused it’s harder than other 9-5s by every margin but if you love money and want to make more, you’ll make a shit ton
/r/askTRP18/04/19 03:18 AM
1

Just bought it now. Cheers, bud
/r/askTRP18/04/19 02:07 AM
1

2 - 3 weeks is short but not super unusual. Did you think they’d just stick around forever?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:52 PM
1

Your question is blue-pilled. You know what you want and so you do that. If you don’t know what you want then you’ll need to ask a different question. The real question you’ve submerged here is: How do I keep her after sex? What does she want after sex? Both those questions place her on a pedestal. They are irrelevant when you are higher SMV than her
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:39 PM
1

Where there’s smoke, there’s flames —mother fucker
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:06 PM
1

SMV = looks, money, status Status is a result of social behaviour
/r/askTRP17/04/19 08:50 PM
7

I went from book worm to extreme extrovert. It’s a 5-10 year journey. Started my journey reading self-help books about confidence and then applying what I could. Approaching (day game) was a game changer. Did 1000 approaches in a month when I first started (30 a day) If mastery is 10k hours, you need to dump time towards your social skills to improve. 1000 hours is probably average to above average. Break that down into activity. Consistently went out to bars each weekend and learned to approach…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 08:23 PM
1

Good shit
/r/askTRP17/04/19 08:07 PM
8

Build a business. Pick a field and become an expert by investing 10k hours. Women are commodities like a new couch or a TV. Do you pine over your new couch? Own your life. It’s that simple.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 11:22 AM
3

Lift. Approach
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:03 AM
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You thought I was joking around? Just last night, she rested her head against my chiselled chest, let out an exasperated sigh and said, "My son, he's chosen the hardest path in life. One day, he's going to be an Engineer." I thought, fuck me, that's a red flag if I've ever seen one
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:15 AM
2

Trust me, the attributes I have speak for themselves. You don't have to defend yourself against me. I'm not your Dad, even if I do take your old lady out from time to time
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:06 AM
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Speaking of post history, yours is a gold mine. Check out this absolute gem: I used to be a social outcast-- completely awkward and terrified around girls. But I didn't want to be a loser so I chose the hardest path in life. I study Engineering Fucking A+ comedy gold
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:53 AM
2

Disagree. There are three areas of life I put significant effort into. The first was my career, the second was my side gig, and the third was picking up women. I have found in all three, that I had the quickest ROI on my time when I fumbled my way through to I’d say the intermediate level (while reading only to learn the absolute basics). Reading has the most meaningful impact when you are working from intermediate to mastery because you are basically fine-tuning specific areas of the foundation…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:47 AM
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You’re missing the essence of my response. The point is that you only have to do very little reading - maybe 20% reading and 80 % action to effectively improve. (Maybe even 10% reading, 90% action) When it comes to guys on TRP the numbers are the other way around
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:39 AM
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Reading is not self-improvement. That’s called accumulating knowledge. Reading self-improvement is also not improvement, that’s called mental masturbation. But you can’t be a master without masturbation. Start producing. Produce websites, products, fucking solo wanking videos while crying about the fear of missing out if you have to. Production takes you forward. That is improvement.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:32 AM
1

Don’t be a fat fuck and have more than 5 years experience in any field of work. Congratulations
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:27 AM
2

This fucking post and the responses are all autistic as fuck. Let’s take a hard look at the facts: you’ve been asked out by 3 girls. You didn’t pounce so either they were ugly or you’re talking shit. 0 experience with girls. Either you’re socially awkward or ugly. Probably socially awkward or you wouldn’t have been asked out. you feel like the ugliest person in the room. Low confidence, there’s a recurring theme here. you’ve been hitting the gym for a total of 2.5 months. Right . . . I’ve got so…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:27 AM
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No, you shouldn’t fucking delete it. You’re from a generation where instagram is easy access to pussy and where not having it can fuck up your social game. It’s like asking: should I delete my phone number. The reason many TRPers delete social media is because it creates validation seeking behaviour and can turn you into a cuck that wastes time on likes/followers (kind of like you mentioned in your post - 100 likes). Why are likes and followers a bad thing? Because you’re building the foundation…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:11 AM
2

You’re putting the pussy on a pedestal, soy boy
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:06 AM
1

Fucking genius
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:00 AM
1

How’d it happen? Always game for a story lol
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:00 AM
1

Hahahahaha, fucking laughing my ass off at this. Here’s why they do this: There’s a social theory known as the ‘drama triangle’. People stuck in this triangle gain a sense of identity only when they are in one of three roles. . . The rescuer. . . The perpetrator . . . And the victim. Google it. This coupled with the fact that women do not understand context, makes the red pill perfect fuel for drama. Poster 1 finds info on the Redpill that has a shock factor to it and which can be taken perfectl…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:52 PM
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Don't 70% of the Earth have Herpes? It's just not visible in most. From what I know, you shouldn't fuck with someone that has sores on their mouth/pussy. But that's common sense, lol. Other than that, you can catch it from pretty much anyone. Take the meds - if there are any - understand this shit is for life. Outbreaks shouldn't happen much if you do what the doc says, and you are only contagious if you're presenting sores (I might be wrong). Personally, I'd let the girl I suspected know, and c…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 08:31 AM
5

The red pill. A place where guys can come to understand why dudes in Italy are raping people. Gone are the days with simple questions like ‘Alpha fux beta bux?’ Or ‘how can I butt sex my oneitis?’
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:05 AM
0

That’s not a plate. . .
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:03 AM
2

Only happens if lack of sleep is involved
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:02 AM
2

We’ve all been there, bud. Got a text from a girl to come watch movies while her parents were away and pursued out back when I was a young dude. Guess what? There will be 20x more opportunities like that if you keep at it
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:00 AM
3

I talk no finance
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:16 PM
1

Lmaoooo that finance meme thing is hilarious You’re taking yourself way too seriously, my man. Your friends are doing you a favour by taking the piss. You need to let go of the seriousness and joke around. You don’t have to give straight answers, but learn to deflect with humour. Also, you’ll probably have to learn to do this with a new group of friends. If you stop acting like a beta, your current group will keep shitting on you until you stay one. Watch stand up comedy. Particularly, Jimmy Car…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:18 PM
1

Go in, grab a seat, ask for her number. If you get it great and if you don’t, move on. Either way you win. If you sit on this you are going to create a oneitis love story in your head.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:43 AM
1

Going to need more context for this. Give more examples of the shut tests and is it just one guy or the group?
/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:39 AM
3

Try AskMrp. Married red pill offers better advice for LTRs. You’re probably going to get called a faggot a lot but they’ll give you the advice you don’t want but need. If all goes south, it isn’t all bad, you can convert this post into a MOBI and submit your manuscript to a publisher
/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:36 AM
2

He was clowning you, that’s what guys do. You should have told him you’ll fuck him until he loves you and then called him a faggot. That would have got some good ole chuckles. Going by your response, you are indeed the beta. Improve yourself
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:23 AM
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No one gives a shit about how you feel. Endorsed contributors are endorsed for a reason. If you’re a whiny faggot that hasn’t unplugged you don’t have the emotional control to have a reasonably logical discussion. Get out there and get your nose bloodied a few times. This is not the ‘dear diary, someone called me a faggot today’ subreddit. Faggot
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:35 PM
5

It’s simply a qualifier, dude. It lets the girl know you’re interested in her on a sexual level instantly and allows her to save you time by saying ‘no’. Most females are so polite they will tolerate your indirect conversation and then when you go ‘surprise, I have a dick’ they’ll immediately offer a ‘sorry, I have a boyfriend’ or some other rejection. You’re right, in that saying she’s cute gives her a lot of power in the interaction. But there’s is a much more important trade off happening: so…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:27 PM
5

Google and YouTube. You don’t need to learn shit. Life’s got to be bigger than changing your car battery man. I’m too busy working my ass off to worry about the fucking bumps on my cock, let alone the hunk of metal sitting outside my garage
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:22 PM
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Those texts are autistic as fuck. I don’t know if you are green or grey but I wasn’t sure which side to bat for. Absolutely 0 chemistry. I’d rather have a conversation with a down syndrome horse
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:17 PM
5

You can’t say it because you haven’t reached the stage where you know how to say it. The first 10 times I did it, it sounded weird as fuck. It becomes natural but only with practice. I started with, ‘excuse me, do you know where xyz is?’ Leveled up to ‘hey, I know this is random but I dig your scarf. I’m buying a present for my friend, and I was wondering where I could get something similar.’ To ‘hey, I know this is random, but I think you’re cute and just wanted to come say hi.’ To, ‘hey, I saw…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:10 PM
10

Opener - hey/excuse me/hi (loud voice big smile, always) Socially calibrate - I know this is random, I saw you and thought I’d come say hi because I liked your style/find you interesting/think you’re cute. Time constraint to kill the neediness - I’m just on my way to see friends. You look like you’re working/heading to class/grabbing lunch (statement, not a question) Then Segway into topics based on that. Should take another few sentences before she hooks and you close. If she’s in a rush, ackno…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:01 PM
9

Asian bitches love rice
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:57 AM
6

We trade our charm, our wit, and most of all our attention for pussy. The more valuable your attention - aka time is - the greater your options will be. Let’s not fool anyone, no guy says, “I’m going out to have fun, tonight!” That’s what girls say. It annoys me when guys pretend to take this feminine approach when it isn’t honest. However, outcome independence is and always will be a key faucet to good game. Don’t give to receive, mother fuckers
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 09:24 AM
1

It’s called DREAD. Read the side bar, holy shit
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:20 AM
2

She’s saying that so you don’t judge her for being a slut when she does sleep with you. Your job is to not pressure her into fucking - like every other guy she’s seen. And instead set up the conditions so that it happens naturally. For this to happen, she has to be in your frame and feel that there is a competition for your attention. She will trade her pussy for your attention if it’s valuable enough, and then ultimately push you for commitment. Do not pressure her to do any of these things in …
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:30 AM
5

Some of you guys have a good 10 years of self-improvement ahead of you before you can declare yourself not autistic.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:11 PM
4

You’re observing sexual strategy in the work place, which is like observing fishing in a soccer stadium.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:03 PM
135

News flash: we live in a betafied society, where many men aren’t even getting laid and many of the ones that are are functioning in scarcity
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:46 AM
2

It’s an interesting study where Rollo says the exact same thing you’ve said in this thread - that he’d rather have good game any day. However, it’s well worth the read as it poses some strong evidence for looks being extremely important as well. I couldn’t find the exact study but . . . Check out Rollo’s post here - looks
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:20 AM
1

I did take this into consideration, but I avoid basing results on things I can’t measure. I mean, how do you truly measure something like energy or confidence? And then how do you put this against the measurements of others? I think when these measurements come into play we are taking the wrong thing into consideration. The biggest factor of change was weight loss. Confidence and experience are natural progressions of taking action. If I were to put on weight, I might do better than I once did a…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:15 AM
2

Sure, but in general as well. I can only take my personal experience as an example. But I approached thousands of women while I was overweight and then did the exact same when I was in shape, and my results aren’t even comparable. I’ll never drop back down to being a slob again. It’s 10000% an uphill battle I tend to ignore these threads as they are 100% theory that doesn’t weigh up in reality
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:32 AM
3

Looks 100% matter. Hop on tinder for 10 minutes
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:07 AM
2

I see what you’re getting at here. You want to make sure your philosophy in life is with you in mind rather than a way to seek validation from your wife. It goes deeper than that, though. You need to understand the animal that you are. And then you need to understand what you need as that animal and why you need it. Then you need to figure out how to get what you need. Your wife is so insignificant that she might as well be a walking flesh light.
/r/askMRP09/04/19 06:50 PM
2

Hustling and sex
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:05 AM
14

I haven’t laughed this hard since the ‘old enough to fuck thread’. Absolute legend
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:04 AM
14

As someone who has followed Tyler since the release date of the blue print decoded, I’ll be blunt with you. . . He stopped making real content the moment RSD hired Juliet Blanc. They figured out that a more successful formula is: spike emotions and mix in self-help epiphanies. Instead of really explaining how women work to men. The only person that understood game down to the concrete fundamentals & could teach it well was RSD Todd and they got rid of him. That’s got to tell you something. Watch…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 08:34 AM
5

Actually laughing my ass off. This 100%
/r/askMRP08/04/19 07:23 PM
2

Lmao. What I find more hilarious is that he did not see this coming. Only a loser is surprised when a girl tries to manipulate him into commitment.
/r/askMRP08/04/19 06:42 PM
1

Ultimatums are weak because they imply that she has to be coerced in order to respect you, which dries up her pussy. It’s an implication of low value The thing is she accepted the frame so it might have worked in your favour this time but it’s not something you should do again Way I see it any how
/r/askTRP03/04/19 08:31 PM
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Weak date banter, but I fail to see how you lost frame at the end. If anything you pulled her deeper into your frame Losing frame would have been making the ultimatum and still taking the date if she didn’t follow through on it. You put your frame on the line by giving her the power to make that decision, but the fact is you were willing to walk away either way
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:14 PM
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Frame is the belief system that taints everything in your world view. In a nutshell, frame is your philosophy that you use to act in the world. Morals and values have nothing to do with the strength of your frame. Frame becomes stronger when you believe in it more. One of the reason knights were so revered in the olden days was because they believed in an 'honour code'. This was their frame. A knight could say no to murdering the king for gold because his frame was stronger than any monetary val…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:13 AM
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Common sense. How many millionaires do you know that start their success story with: "I had $1000 left, and I spent that money on 5 Dan Peta seminars and 12 months later I was a millionaire." He's a salesman first and an advice giver second. That's a conflict of interest.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:33 AM
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You're taking on too much at once. Trust me, take it from a mother fucker that has done a solid 3 months of monk mode now. Some examples of my progress: Lost 8kg. Started a new business & made a couple grand in profit. Promoted. Razor sharp social skills. Wardrobe 100% brand fucking new, son. Things that I tried and fucked up miserably: No Fap Reading Learning a second language Things that have been paramount to my success: Measuring progress at a glance Goal setting each week on a Sunday evenin…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:09 AM
2

I only say it straight when I'm beating around your momma's bush
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:56 AM
3

Holy fuck this old fucker is funny, though. Nice share
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:03 AM
3

If you watch or worship any of these faggots, do it because you want to be entertained. If you learn something, great.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 03:52 AM
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Ever heard the saying, ‘where there’s smoke there’s flames.’ Or If it walks like a chicken, clucks like a chicken, stinks like a chicken, it’s probably a fucking chicken. You don’t need advice. You need the sidebar, a gym membership, and balls the size of fucking Africa Some faggot out there looks for guys like you and says, ‘how can I rinse these faggots for as much as they’re worth’. And then he builds social proof, he triggers your emotions, and then he offers you a solution. Isn’t it a fucki…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 03:51 AM
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Who gives a fuck. What is this, TRP news?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 03:35 AM
2

What you think is frame is really ego. Frame is the window you see the world through. A solid beginner frame for approaching is knowing that rejection won’t hurt you but is a necessary part of game and that laughing it off will benefit you the most. A more experienced frame is that women reject you because they don’t know enough about you, and if they got to know you they would buy in. A more jaded frame is that the girl that rejects you is the same girl that got on her knees and put a hairy, st…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 03:30 AM
3

Your SMV didn't drop, it was no longer inflated.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 04:02 AM
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93kg lean muscles at 5’9? You wot mate. You look like the guy off prison break after seventeen meatball subs. In all honesty, though, buzz cut can make you look like a bad boy, which is good. Never go past a number 2 myself
/r/askTRP31/03/19 07:59 AM
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That's it. This is further explored by this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kOMkl3ApTK0
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:19 PM
1

Not sure about sparrow, but red cock is certainly real
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:52 PM
1

Anytime, brother. Good roots are the foundation of good forest pimping.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:49 PM
4

I watched a documentary about how the KGB infiltrated the US education system on purpose to push a feminized agenda with the hopes of a female leader, as it’s proven that female leadership/dominance leads to the downfall of a society. It’s somewhere on YouTube and was pretty interesting. I don’t know if it’s bs or not, but worth the 30-40 mins or so
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:16 PM
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It trickles down from you. Head over to the Ask MRP sub, a lot of info there could help you out
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:58 PM
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As someone who is an expert at getting laid in forests, boy oh boy do I have some tips for you. Getting laid in a forest doesn’t have to be a far fetched reality. If you apply my three step system, you can bang girls in forests all around the world to your heart’s content. Here’s how: 1 - Passing shit tests It’s key that you approach this girl with an abundance mentality. My opener is usually something along the lines of ‘Nice shoes, want to get laid in a forest?’ If she looks like a bear, she p…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:55 PM
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Too many fat girls means that most guys are competing for the slim sexy girls which are a minority. What’s obesity rate? Like 50% now? Girls in the 7-9 range have many more options and are working with an inflated SMV. Eventually, being above average will only get you 7s forget about 8s. Go to any country where being slim is still the norm and you’ll see how much easier it is to date pretty girls. It’s actually fairly shocking at first. It’s these fuckin pig western countries where the fast food…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:34 PM
2

Unless you’ve found another clitoris, it’s the same shit different day
/r/askTRP30/03/19 11:24 AM
2

Talk to more people
/r/askTRP30/03/19 11:21 AM
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Yeah, let’s practice a new skill with a high % fail rate on girls at the University I attend. Some of you guys are so autistic I wonder how the fuck you make it to school each day. Learn cold approach somewhere else. When you’re not a fuckwit, approach girls on campus. Guess what’s going to happen . . . You’re not going to get into any shit because you’ll have game and won’t direct approach like some pony riding fuck that read about approsch anxiety for 2 minutes. Fuck me. Lol
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:21 AM
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You’re definitely not narcissistic. A narcissist self-validates and cares little for the thoughts of ‘girls’ on the street. It sounds like you are a nice guy and have a false paradigm where you think you have to be perfect at life in order to be liked. Read no more mr nice guy, it might solve everything for ya
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:06 PM
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You're being a dumbass. The only reason you're redpilled is because for one reason or another you lucked out and found an extensive resource that changed your way of thinking. Most of these guys are doing the best they can with what they know. It's not a character flaw, it's the fact that they were cucked by society in more ways than one. I am still cool with all of my BP friends and don't hold their life decisions against them. I don't hang out with a lot of them because we simply aren't intere…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 05:09 AM
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lmao, nearly spat my water out. It's all about dem feels bro
/r/askTRP24/03/19 04:59 AM
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Also never living with a woman, so that’s out the window lol haha, fair call
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:17 AM
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Fair point. But if you think knowing a girl over a period time makes it less likely that some other dude’s dick has been inside her on that day, then you haven’t been around enough women The only exception is when you live together. Even then, some of these hoes still find time for extra dick when you aren’t doing your job
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:26 AM
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Lmao. You just started and you’re already worrying about the money. Pick something else. Mastery is 10k hours away, I’m guessing intermediacy is around the 2k hour mark. So at 5 hours a day you’re looking at just under 2 years before you’re good enough to monetise it well.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:00 PM
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When studies were done on attraction, they found females between 20-30 were primarily attracted to looks. Wealth and game became more important when women neared the wall or were already past it.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:55 PM
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Okay, what do you need to know? First, figure out logistics. Where can you fuck her? (Room or car) Then, buy condoms/lube. Don’t stress over this, just get a popular brand. When she comes over, make general chit chat and then when you have her in the room judge the tension. If a girl has come over as a fuck buddy I’ll start making out with her asap. Don’t talk about what’s going to happen, don’t ask her what she likes. Just start making out and then lead. Honestly, my first time the hardest thin…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 12:24 PM
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I used to think the same thing, as I mainly learned game on alcohol. Truth is, all alcohol does is give you freedom from outcome so you stop worrying about saying the right thing. Every other aspect of game, especially your sharpness, is better sober. Best way to sober game is to do a few approaches each day of the week (day game) so by the time the weekend rolls around, you’re already working with good momentum.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:50 AM
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Calling you a bitch is a shit test. The fact that she uses it that way makes it pretty clear that she might be hot but she’s easy low grade pussy, probably insecure. Invite her out again or do it in person after school. If she bails, then move on. Make her work for your attention.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:42 AM
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TRP handbook is good posts compiled into an ebook. As far as I know, there is no monk mode handbook but you can find plenty of posts about it on TRP or via IllimitableMen
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:23 AM
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Take a Vicodin and then read the comment again. If you don't know what monk mode is, Google it, idiot
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:18 AM
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The purpose of the handbook and reading material is to help you form new paradigms about life. Your paradigm is the vehicle you use to get from point A to point B. A lot of guys have incorrect beliefs about women. . . For example, they believe women are just as logical as men when really women actually primarily make decisions based on how they feel in the moment (while still having the capacity to be logical by expending effort/energy to do so). All reading will do is give you new perspectives …
/r/askTRP22/03/19 11:50 PM
2

If you don’t have two jobs you’re doing it wrong. The goal is that one of those jobs is you paying yourself (or both if possible)
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:48 PM
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Long distance relationship is the biggest sign you are a massive faggot. You’re in such a state of neediness that you’re giving your time and energy to a girl that isn’t as good as a tub of Vaseline and box of tissues. Realise how fucking dumb that is
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:46 PM
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Lmfao, you’re 25, idiot. You could literally do the wrong thing for the next 5 years and still restart your life four, five, maybe even six times over. Calm the fuck down and start monk moding
/r/askTRP22/03/19 11:42 AM
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Here’s the Redpill on jobs. Sales + your own business + passive income That’s how you can maximise earning potential. At 27 you still have time to switch into sales and grind. The reason it’s so lucrative is that it’s a time for money trade. Harder you work more you earn. As an engineer, no matter how hard you work your salary stays the same. It’s the kind of job a tired old man needs. However, if making money isn’t your priority and you don’t need a lot of it to feel happy, then do whatever you…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:28 PM
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I’m not reading all that shit. What’s the TLDR
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:54 AM
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It’s a comfort test you fuck head. By the time a chick hits 34 her insecure meter jumps 10 levels and the need to shit test is just to check she’s not dating a faggot. It’s like the first sibling starting to realise they aren’t that important anymore. Should have hit her with: That’s unfortunate, I thought we had a good connection when I saw you the other day. I’m sure we will both have no trouble finding other people. And gone cold. That last line would have made her insides curl. Fucking lol. …
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:49 AM
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Your mother is a woman.
/r/askMRP19/03/19 06:23 AM
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Basically, I am genetically gifted AMA. Absolutely 0 game to tinder n plow when you have that many matches . . . It’s like a salesman saying I can close 3 out of every 50 hot leads, let me tell you how No, anyone that’s been in sales for more than 90 days can close any marginally hot lead
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:38 AM
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As obesity increases, the number of available attractive women goes down and the number of available options each individual woman has increases. Basically, the price of pussy is going up in western countries . . .
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:20 AM
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Lmaooo. Poor at 70k per year. Ultimate troll. Buy a book on personal finance before you make any changes to your life
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:43 PM
2

LOL
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:25 AM
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Men’s fashion advice subreddit. Now I wear high heels and tank tops and everyone tells me how great my fits are
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:24 AM
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Welcome to life
/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:16 PM
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Lmao, help your Dad out you cuck living miles away son
/r/askTRP17/03/19 08:07 PM
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RemindMe! 8 hours
/r/askTRP17/03/19 08:04 PM
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Great you want to contribute but it says on the front page of the askTRP sub, ‘all threads must be a request for advice or theory clarification or you will be banned’. Your title in the TRP sub could simply be ‘newbie’s first attempt at monk mode’ or something along those lines. No need to be an alpha cuck overlord before you can post about reading and not jerking off for a month
/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:19 AM
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From blow to blow brother. It’s about how much quicker you can pick yourself up and get over the bump in the road. You’ve done it once you can do it again.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:54 AM
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30 days of monk mode and you think you’ve fixed something? It’s a good start but you need at least 3 months to shake any bad habits. Come back for your TRP dose of validation in 60 days and post this on the TRP forum, this is ask trp Again, more power to you for kicking monk mode ass, but 30 days ain’t shit
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:51 AM
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Good shit. Get into sales ASAP and start building a business on the side. Don’t stress over this. You’re either gay or need a break (probably the latter)
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:40 AM
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Lmfao, read the sidebar faggot. You should have told her you’re black where it counts. If she kept on, move onto someone else. You did a swanton bomb into her frame and paid for it
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:38 AM
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Let’s look at this a different way: 1) You weren’t cool or socially adept and so you developed some paradigms about life that aren’t true —this lead to a lot of limiting beliefs that you still follow. Or 2) TRP is right and has been proven to be right time and time again in different countries by men of different racial background. Lettuce be real here, sonny Jim
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:35 AM
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Cheers. Hmm, I’ll have to read up on gas lighting . . . might have to tone it down.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:29 AM
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It’s a consistent way to get results. There have been times where I go into a club and nothing sticks so I walk out the smokers section, chat up a girl, and either hook or naturally start opening groups. It’s a 100% momentum game. Just keep the ball rolling, no thinking. Maybe you can comment on this as well. If you stop and fall into your head for even a moment, it fucks up the entire process.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:19 AM
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Lmfaoooo, bruh, you’ve laid down a picnic blanket and are having a nice little nap inside her frame. First, how does a girl ‘kick you out’? Maybe she asks you to leave, but you make sure you leave on a good note. Secondly, it sounds like you forced yourself onto her while sloppy drunk and she felt repulsed and got rid of you. Prepare your anus for some drama
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:10 AM
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hahaha, okay buddy
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:17 AM
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Men don't shit test you. They think you're a faggot so they give you shit for it.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:37 PM
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It certainly is. It's also only the tip of the iceberg in terms of how you can manipulate social perception. The problem is that most beta males have a perception of an alpha male being someone who is honest, wears his heart on his sleeve, doesn't have to lie about anything. Or at the very least, this is the type of alpha they aspire to become. In reality, they haven't spent more than 5 minutes around the opposite type of Alpha and have no idea just how fucked up it gets. This is also what I bel…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:34 PM
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Haha, only because it's in conflict with your view of the 'honest' alpha that you dream of looking up to. It gets results, everything else can go fuck itself.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:21 PM
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I always follow the same process: Get inside and say what’s up to as many people as I go for the bar. Order a whisky and coke and immediately start talking to the people on my left or right. If those convos burn, still keep a smile, and scan for a group of 2 or 3 guys. Open the guys and befriend them, if it catches then they are my ‘home-base’ group for now. If they aren’t 100% sure about me, I buy them all a drink and it’s usually enough to secure a spot. 90% of the time they buy me a round bac…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:29 PM
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You can’t besides including it on your social. You could mention it at the start of a date or whatever and sure it could spike attraction. The best way this is used as a leverage is by fucking groupies. Get to know your fans. Hold meet n greets. The other way is if you have a popular Instagram, create a couple of fake female accounts and start causing drama over yourself. If you have a number of hot girls that follow you, your going to have a lot more groupies sooner than you think. This is some…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:25 PM
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Shit tests are always a very good thing. A girl will only shit test a guy she’s attracted to in order to see how much he can handle. If the tests are passed, attraction spikes. If he fails them, then it might turn into disrespect. Cucks are gonna get cucked
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:20 PM
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Here’s why the problem is really your confidence. With a body like the one linked, you could be pulling on the regular. However, the fact that you have thought this out to such a degree is fucking you over. Yes, a women that earns more than you might have a hard time settling with you long term because it’s like the secretary earning more than the boss and him still telling her what to do. But from a fuck perspective, you just need to be enough of an asshole that they respect or see potential in…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:17 PM
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You clearly have no idea how this works. There are women out there that are smarter, more creative, and more intelligent than you are. The catch is that a pretty woman doesn’t need to be any of those things, whereas a man always does. The second catch is that while women can and will be logical, it’s in their nature to rely on their emotions first. And if they are in a highly emotional state, the emotion blocks the logic. If we are talking about Women as a blanket term, as in the girls in your n…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:09 PM
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This post is a great example of why paragraphs don’t always help.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:08 PM
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You withdraw your attention and time, and continue playing as usual. The only case where this is difference is when a guy has LTR’d a slut with the expectation that they’re both going to be completely faithful. What he doesn’t realise is that faithful doesn’t mean the same thing to her. “Oops, I kissed him because I was drunk but I still love you and am sorry” is in her mind 1) still being a good girlfriend and 2) just a small bump in the road. I remember my first LTR called me up to ask permiss…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:23 PM
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This wasn’t a question of preference, guys don’t value your opinion that much. It was to see if he could cuck your boyfriend in front of him. Good girlfriends I’ve had in the past would usually say something like , “I’ll stick with our beat up old Nissan any day.” While moving closer to me. We both may know that she prefer the other car, but she’s showing the other guy my opinion matters more than his. It’s an ‘us’ thing. Anything else would be a red flag. Now, if she’s being specifically asked …
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 07:47 PM
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I’d love to hear your answer to that same question
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 07:28 PM
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The lines on the side of your stomach. Girls usually get them before their body fat is low enough to show abs
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 06:48 PM
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Slim but toned. You can see her lady lines and that she regularly gyms and does cardio. Looks super sexy in a bikini. As a black chick, you don’t want to lift too heavy on your arms, as black girls tend to look masculine much more easiky than other chicks. Focus on your legs and squatting for your ass as well as working on your core. Light reps on your arms and keep as much as your boobs as you can b-cup or c is perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 03:26 AM
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Become a butter face. That is to say, work your ass off in order to have a good body and do the best you can for your face. I know a girl that is also of African descent and has a rough face, but god her body is sensational and guys can’t get enough of her
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 01:46 AM
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OP just spread your cheeks and accept defeat after this comment
/r/askTRP12/03/19 07:44 PM
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Incurable disease vs dipping the wick This is our sickness as men.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 08:49 AM
1

Well fuck, let the waiting game begin
/r/askTRP12/03/19 08:40 AM
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100% this /thread
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:40 AM
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I had a girl buddy just like her. One that wanted me to marry her if we didn’t find the right someone. Yeah right. Good friends for nearly ten years. Told me about all her slut stories and shit that could basically ruin her life if I flipped. One day some older guy knocked her up and wified her. She completely ghosted. Energy is totally different when we meet now. Never had a guy friend flip 180 like that. Shit, I won’t see some of my buddies for five years and it will be like a day hasn’t passe…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:59 AM
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Clearly a troll.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:53 AM
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What you did with the mate was right, in my opinion. You can’t leave a mate in a dire situation. What I was alluding to, was thinking ahead when it comes to your mate or your gf or people in general. I’m not sure if you’ve played chess, but in a game of chess you’re usually trying to stay as many steps ahead of the other person as possible. As fickle as it sounds, take this approach with relationships and you’ll find you’re in shittier situations less and overall happiness goes up for all partie…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 03:41 AM
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I used to be like you, handling other people's shit to be a 'good friend'. If your friend is being cucked by the bouncer or your girlfriend is being disrespectful, you have to be willing to walk. That doesn't mean ending the friendship/relationship it just means adjusting accordingly so that your needs come first. Once you start doing this, people will respect you more. Your friend will magically remember that he isn't meant to talk shit to bouncers and your girl will magically remember that def…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 03:10 AM
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I mean, what did you expect? Your belief system in regards to regular women was already fucked and so you built one based on prostitution. There are certain rules in this area of sex that you must follow: The 3-day rule. No texting/messaging after the deed. Never give money unless it's for sex. Never turn a whore into a housewife. These are the absolute fucking basics. But you went ahead and ignored the last rule, which is probably the most important of all. It's a great hobby as long as you man…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:22 AM
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Personally, I see nothing wrong with this unless it’s affecting you financially or messing up your ability to see other women. At some of the busiest periods of my life, I would have gone insane without the helpful hand of an escort. When time is on your side and you can invest in approaching and dating then by all means avoid escorts. Identify whether or not you’re using this as a crutch and if so, figure out why and work on it.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:31 AM
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Fair point
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:29 AM
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Good play. If you look at this from a social point of view, he was trying to suck you into his frame. If you had let him, he wins even if you beat the shit out of him. Always stay calm, tell them that you don’t know them and you have no issues and move on. If they escalate more, ignore or counter frame them by saying shit like ‘You seem like a good guy, man. I’m here to have a good time.’ And move away. People can’t draw energy from a non-reactive emotional state. They’re looking for fear or som…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:24 AM
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LOL
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:19 AM
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He said ‘turned some into plates’ not that he paid each time.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:18 AM
1

LOL
/r/askTRP08/03/19 10:57 PM
1

Problem with this is that the need for abstinence stems from a lack of abundance.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:57 PM
2

It’s a common thing amongst gangsters where if you went down on your girl you were a bitch. That’s changed with times. But yes, it’s inherentlty submissive
/r/askTRP08/03/19 10:09 AM
1

What the fuck is a milli killi?
/r/askTRP08/03/19 10:07 AM
3

You would know, wouldn’t you, HeroinSockPuppet
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 06:50 AM
2

Indeed, the next time I write it will be with an ass full of cocaine and a shot of whisky on each ball sack
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 06:51 AM
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I don’t know, man. I’ve got an uncle that lives in Mozambique and he has some pretty wild bush sex. And by bush sex, I mean unshaven
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:04 AM
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The point of monk mode is to cut out distractions. Socialising is a distraction unless it’s networking. I’ve been in monk mode since the start of Jan. I went hard for 4 weeks, signed new clients hit new goals in the gym, took a week off to party and now it’s another 4 solid weeks of monk mode.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 06:32 AM
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For herself. The thing is, if your game was okay, you could have taken her home and banged. She was horny af by the sounds of it. But like you said, sloppy seconds ain’t your thing Move on now, too much energy on one chick
/r/askTRP02/03/19 12:33 PM
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She did want your validation, but the validation she wanted has nothing to do with you. Women are inherintely fucked in the head, don’t try to understand them like you do other guys. The validation she wanted was to keep feeling wanted, to be recognised as the hot girl in the group, and to receive the most attention. Any other guy that was good looking enough and in your shoes could have been her ‘catalyst’, so to say.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:55 AM
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It has nothing to do with orbiting. She met a guy early on in the night and kissed him, and so from then until the end of the night horniness keeps increasing. She wanted to keep those emotions coming and you were the next best thing around. It’s as simple as that. She would have probably regretted hooking up with you as well, so you might have dodged drama. Keep improving yourself, put your energy towards new girls
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:35 AM
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Stop lying to yourself like a little cuck soyboy bitch and face the hard facts. If you didn’t want her to message you, you would have either left the chat as ‘seen’ or blocked her. What you did instead was try and guilt trip her into maybe wanting your cock again. She wasn’t going to pity fuck you, and on top of that you acted in such a beta way that she reframed your entire history with her as if it never happened. Reframing like that is a common tactic girls use to remove betas from their mind…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:32 AM
4

Beta? You’ve got a lot to learn. He paints himself as the bad brother and his brother as the chosen child. He also gives 0 fucks, which shows mad confidence and strong pre-selection. Someone that isn’t alpha would try to ‘win’ the crowds sympathy & pity instead by only saying nice things. Bitches love bad boys.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:23 AM
7

Good job, right choice. Don’t ever let a slut cuck you. . . It’s one of the motivations for good first date screening as well. Some bitches will suck dick and then come out for dinner with you
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:19 AM
3

Lmao, really dude He’ll apologise in a day or two or three . . . But by that time he’ll probably be wearing your skin. Take it easy
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:28 AM
0

Edgy personality? Please explain, I don’t speak cuck
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 10:40 AM
10

Destiny alpha personality gtfo lol. He has social status and is basically a minor celeb, it turns her on. He doesn’t have good game. He doesn’t have an alpha type personality. Nothing he did excited her into fucking him, she made that decision before they even met. He is a rich famous beta, that’s enough.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 08:27 AM
17

So basically, in 500 words, don’t build the foundations of your confidence on things that are out of your control.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 07:50 AM
11

The sex god method. But the fucking pirated copy I’ve downloaded has got random words jumbled in Spanish. Fucking awkward to read, ‘grab her by the hair and stick your pedro in her mouth.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 08:50 PM
3

People are so confused by the most simple form of game. Befriend other guys, basically anywhere, then build a friendship until he invites you go hang out with the bros. Then befriend all the bros, and once the girls arrive you have free reign of their girls. Rinse and repeat. Or meet a girl, gf her, befriend her friends until you zone in on one, break her heart. Profit
/r/askTRP27/02/19 08:48 PM
11

Just fuck your friend, that will really show your abundance mentality Edit: seriously, though, good friends are rare. Don’t do it
/r/askTRP27/02/19 07:56 PM
3

Holy fuck. Somebody suck this guy off
/r/askMRP24/02/19 02:27 AM
2

Me too only matters to men with shit game. Ignore, STFU, and most of all don’t say anything that causes cognitive dissonance . . . basically just do your fucking job and make sure you’re projecting positive emotions even if you think they’re stupid asf.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:12 AM
1

Firstly, not anyone can. There are diminishing returns if, for example, you start learning when you’re 30 in comparison to 15. While it’s possible you could make it, the odds are stacked against you. And in that case, there are generally better ways to spend your time unless you’re creating for leisure. If you’re questioning your passion already, I’d say that’s a pretty bad sign. You don’t have time to question your passion or interest if you’re doubling down on something in order to be a top %r…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:55 PM
3

Hey, man, girls are not calculators, you don’t just get to plug in your SMV and fuck. The importance of looks, money, and status are overstated and the value of game is drastically understated. You can be 8 looks, earning 6 figures, date an ugly girl and still get cucked into the next universe.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:22 PM
2

LOL
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:19 PM
13

Makes throwaway account to post opinion. Calls everyone else insecure. Someone give this guy a fucking award.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:18 PM
1

I’m not an artist, but I am a creative. I believe similar laws apply across all creative fields. My passion allows me to release stress, make money on the side, and feel more fulfilled. That’s a pretty damn good deal no matter what. And also, you can become better at anything you want and make it worth your while. What’s more important is that you’re honest with yourself. Can you reach the top 20% -30% of artists in the world if you grind? Do you believe you’re that good? If so, you’ll probably …
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:56 PM
3

Must be a huge weight off his shoulder. Amirite?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:52 PM
6

This reads like something I would write to myself after four shots of tequila and a bad handjob at age 15.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:51 PM
11

It’s clear that the past experiences you mentioned have had an impact on who you are today. However, I would like to let you know that feeling this way at 23 is not uncommon. Here are a few recommendations: First, start meditating daily for a minimum of ten-minutes. Why meditation? Because it’s the best way to calm that inner mind of yours and will work wonders in helping to develop frame. Meditative change is not something you’ll be able to see, like going to the gym, but is something you’ll fe…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 04:14 AM
3

Start grinding. Set up a daily schedule and be upon your purpose. A healthy mind is the foundation for a healthy life. You can’t have a healthy mind unless you have discipline as the alternative is a weak frame where you unconsciously succumb to vices.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 08:02 PM
1

Once you start getting validated for your success, you won’t think about this question. Your blue pill social conditioning is cucking you. Enjoy the grind. This is what it feels like to be a man.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 11:43 AM
1

Lmao at including red hair and goes to raves on the crazy list. This sub has me dead the last few days man. From ‘old enough to fuck’ to ‘petting a cat on the porch’ to this shit. Quality gold
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:09 PM
1

hahaha actually dead. Guess you still got some pussy
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:06 PM
1

Man, I died at petting the cat hahaha wtf is this shit. You cock suckers need a lesson in how to text without looking like a crack addict
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:14 PM
1

Two more: Has a son named Tyrone that she doesn’t tell anyone about. Is pregnant.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:35 PM
1

Hahaha, dude she was feeling hurt cause of your ass hair comment and wanted to dig into you where it hurt. You should have said, still small enough to make you cum 5 times and just owned it. Never let a bitch get into your head. One, she’ll lose all respect for you if she can, no matter how low the comment is, and two she’ll go straight for your weak spot in future and use it against you whenever she can. She low key wants you to be unbreakable, there’s this little cheerleader rooting for you be…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:32 PM
1

If you’re under 14% bf then you’re fucked. “I’m bulking right now.” There you go, you’re fat. Game done. If you are under 14% then it’s your game. You’re probably slightly autistic and not exciting to be around. I can tell by the way you type. You sound stilted as fuck, not like a guy who was cool in high school. I might be wrong, so here’s my 2c anyway: If you’re not creating dopamine spikes in the girls you’re hanging out with, then you aren’t alpha enough -period. Be more of an asshole. Call …
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:39 AM
5

A business at 17, 100s of approaches at 17, ripped but can’t get laid, and over 6 foot . . . all at 17. Let me guess, your fashion is also on point and you are earning six figures at 17. But because you’re Indian you can’t get a 2/10. Troll of the day goes to. . .
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:50 AM
1

Amazing
/r/askMRP18/02/19 04:35 AM
15

They are up for it. You need to learn game. Women want to fuck and be slutty while not looking like a slut.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:16 AM
7

I think what he’s getting at, is that it’s your word against hers as everything happened privately. If you had escalated at the party/people had seen you flirting you’d then have a back up. In this case, as fucked up as it is, you’re really lucky Sally told the truth and hopefully she sticks to that version of the story. This should all blow over but take the necessary legal precautions and save that video just in case.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:26 AM
0

Only if it’s from your old lady
/r/askTRP16/02/19 05:03 AM
2

You’re still talking to her after two flakes. Which means you clearly think there’s potential. Give her a buzz, and if it fails, hard next. Stop wasting your time
/r/askTRP16/02/19 03:10 AM
1

Nice try at a pressure flip, cuck boy
/r/askTRP16/02/19 03:08 AM
0

That’s right, no high smv guy has ever had sex with a prostitute before! Never not ever, doesn’t happen. It’s a myth like unicorns and girls that poop.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 12:35 AM
2

Stop playing games like a female. Invite her to meet again and if she flakes then next. Texting is to set up dates/work out logistics. She doesn’t get to keep your attention with cuck memes and chit chat about her class, that’s not a plate, that’s you being placed in the friend aka cuck zone. If she wants your attention she gets it by going so deep your cock hits the inside of her right lung
/r/askTRP16/02/19 12:27 AM
23

I prefer let’s get out of here or let’s go to my friends party or even let’s get something to eat. Stops any issues like ‘I’m not going home with you/not that type of girl/my friends blah blah’.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 09:16 AM
24

LTR with single mother. /thread
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:43 PM
3

You fat?
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:33 AM
1

Somewhere in the 900s
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:28 AM
5

That’s how you get laid
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:16 AM
5

Meditation helps with strong eye contact on dates and for frame control. Frame control is up there with lifting. Without it, you may as well be a cuck
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:44 AM
2

No shit, that’s why you need to start meditating right now more than ever before. If you read Eckhart Tolle’s ‘A New Earth’ you’ll learn that your problem is extremely common. Meditation allows you to cut off out all the thoughts that your mind brings up without your permission. It will give you better frame drop and ultimately help your state. I also recommend giving flotation tanks a go if you have a centre your area. The lack of stimulation will automatically help guide you into a meditative …
/r/askTRP14/02/19 02:09 AM
1

I can’t remember since it was some time ago, but I’ve memorised the meditation. If you’re bent on finding it, I think it’s in the headspace app on any smartphone. Basically, you envision each part of your body limb by limb and imagine them switching off (starting from legs up). Once you switch off, you then focus on your breathing and count down from 1000 with each breath. Works for me whenever I’ve used it
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:45 AM
14

This post sounds like something a woman would post about a man. He wants to do x and I’m powerless to stop him. You’re so deep in her frame and possibly have oneitis for this girl. Unfortunately good looks and money won’t help with that, only abundance does. I’m guessing you cut off every girl that’s chasing you, because you’re very loyal to this chick that doesn’t even WANT to be known as your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:34 PM
10

Similar thing happened to me when I pushed myself at work and slept 4 hours a night for a long period. I would wake up with crippling anxiety, depressed thoughts, paranoia. Like you I didn’t know why it was happening but thought it might be diet or sleep. It was 120% sleep. Take time off, two weeks should do it, and just sleep/relax in bed as much as you can. I’d legit spend 12-15 hours napping/sleeping. I sometimes went for a walk but mainly just watched YouTube or read and slept. No video game…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:00 PM
3

Lmao, you sound excited as cuck writing this. Chill for a second and walk us through the details. Is this a job? Or a long-term career investment? If it’s chucky cheese while you’re studying, go for gold. If it’s the other, don’t.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 06:47 AM
18

By bon-fire she really meant bun fire. And by buns she’s meaning yours with her husband’s handy piece of dry wood.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:18 AM
14

‘So I got really drunk’. Here we go.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:51 PM
1

Horseshit. It’s a well known fact that having the interest of another woman - whether gf, wife, LTR - ups your SMV. Not only is it social proof, and a sign that you’re worth giving a chance —women are simply competitive as fuck
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:15 AM
1

Ice cream ($5) and a walk around a nice park and escalate. If you really like her, take her bowling or to McDonalds
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:11 AM
2

I wish I knew, Patrice is the fucking man. He usually beats them down verbally until they seem absolutely worthless and they have no choice but to hate him. And then he builds them up based on what he likes them for, and all that hate turns into like. In his own words, hate and love are two ends of the same emotion.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 02:11 AM
2

There is no get rich quick scheme. You pick an area and you grind your ass off in every spare moment you get. And if you’re smart enough to pick something you enjoy doing, then you increase your chances of success. Looking at the current climate, you could make a lot of cash freelancing as a photographer, video editor, writing code, building yourself up on a social platform. I don’t know what your talents are. Maybe you can monetise those. The more value you can bring, the more money you’ll get …
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:09 AM
1

Monetize her beauty as much as possible while branch swinging up
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:00 AM
1

Cuck lord Simon is texting me. Finally, I can get rid of you.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:17 PM
1

I used to have this same spot up on a hill with a good view. Would drive them there, sit on the grass and move close. Maybe play with her hands, light touches, to get her giggling first. Then I’d say, “There’s something I’ve been wanting to do for a little while now.” And k close. It got to the point where I wouldn’t say anything, but that line was a good starting point. Good luck, young brethren
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:03 PM
1

Do you have plates?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:57 PM
2

Lmao, the point isn’t that you can’t fuck her it’s that your time is better spent on a new girl. All this energy that you’re emotionally investing in one girl is going to backfire. You’re not the prize here, she is. And guess what, she knows it. That’s why you haven’t fucked, dummy
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 11:06 AM
1

Because you conquered a fear. You had the balls to do something that 99% of men will never do.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:23 AM
3

Oof, good point. I can already smell the autism. If most of these schmucks just approached on the regular, they wouldn’t have 99.9% of these social skill problems. Baptism by fire, gentlemen; it’s the only way
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:09 PM
3

Dick against ass and move it around. If you feel something poking your butt, it’s probably not a she. For real though, hands on hips let her do her thing with her ass against you. When the dance floor is crowded put slight pressure on her hips like you’re turning her and if she’s ready she’ll turn and start making out with you. Edit: Oh wait, house party. Shit, if there’s only a few people just dance normally or do something to make her laugh. if you can’t escalate then after a while suggest a s…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:10 PM
10

I got bored after reading the first paragraph. Spit it out, man. Let her swallow. Okay, enough with the lame jokes. Haven’t had this before but maybe you should try creating more drama with your chick. Read up on push pull. Don’t jump through her hoops. “You ask a lot of questions but don’t tell me about yourself.” “You wouldn’t have the IQ to understand me./What do you want to know -> then deflect/I used to be a Persian prince with nine model wives, now I’m stuck dating average girls.” Easy shi…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:05 PM
13

Holy shit, I’m actually dying. Calm down, dude. Meditate and slow down your thoughts. Why is she the worse sex because she likes a big dick down her throat? No one judges you when you swallow a wiener with some bread and sauce. Some girls just like wieners and others like chocolates and roses —that’s life.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 02:15 AM
1

Most natural alphas have been developing their frame since a young age. You don’t have that kind of time as someone who is not a natural alpha. Added to this, who’s to say meditation wouldn’t be just as beneficial to a natural alpha in developing an even stronger frame?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 12:04 AM
1

His girlfriend would have fucked him good after that. Maybe learn something from the guy and stop being childish —that’s your girlfriend’s perogative
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:28 PM
6

If you don’t think a guy that goes to war weilding a bible has strong frame, you’re more of an omega cucklord than ever before
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:23 PM
1

Play it slow. She might have matched as you’re friends and if one of you swiped and the other didn’t it would be awkward. Don’t game her, that’s scarcity. Laugh with her about it in person then game or send her a funny opener lol
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:34 AM
6

Find friends that like clubbing. Some people are retarded and just get drunk until they pass out/start breaking shit. When my friends went through this phase, I linked up with a dude from online who had awareness of game. Ended up partying with the guy on and off for around 7 years now and we built a solid partying social circle.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:30 AM
123

Place hands on her hips. She either steps away or you get an easy make-out/easy number or lay if you play it right
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:27 AM
7

Wolf of wallstreet, American gangster, the departed, the godfather, remember the Titans, coach carter, blow, hacksaw ridge /thread Edit: Just saw you asked for romance: How to lose a guy in 10 days, crazy little thing called love, Don Juan, wedding crashers Most romance movies are super blue pill though, tbh
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:04 AM
2

You haven’t learned game or made any effort to practice it. Knowing what you need to do isn’t enough, you actually have to do it or you’re a blue pulled guy with trp knowledge. No one said this was going to be easy man, but if you put in the effort now and start approaching/lifting you’ll only reap the rewards —literally all you have ahead of you are good times If you’ve come this far, you can give a little more. We’re all going down in the end, literally nothing anyone says to you should mean a…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:19 AM
0

TRP rules are rigid for a reason and you’ve got a long road ahead of you if you make exceptions. The moment you start valuing her frame over yours is the moment she slowly starts sapping away your power. Then, two years down the line, when the pussy isn’t even worth it anymore and you’re trying to reclaim your manhood, you’ll realise you dun goofed Hold your frame and give it time. She will fold eventually as she’ll grow comfortable, rationalise, and want sex just as bad as you
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:14 AM
1

Approach, get insta dates, and practice being fun. Look up Todd Valentine on YouTube, he helps low energy guys use good game. And his shit works. Turn your weakness into a strength
/r/askTRP26/01/19 11:08 PM
2

What did you think initially? lol
/r/askTRP26/01/19 06:49 PM
2

Any recommended youtube videos or books? I don't want your top 50, maybe your top 3 - 5 though
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:07 AM
5

Holy shit. Good on you man
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:44 PM
2

Saved
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:12 PM
3

You nod your head yes when you wanna say no. What do you mean?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:28 PM
7

Lmao, there’s double texting and then there’s cross-platform texting. Move on
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:10 PM
4

Cheers, I gamed a number of girls in my class over the course of uni and found that the hotter ones always needed a little more time. You should try getting another girls number in front of the 9, that will kick her into competition mode. Good luck
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:08 PM
1

If you had spent more time, you could have changed things. Hot girls like that have mad ASD because they are used to being manipulated for their looks. If she gave you her number she was interested, but you didn’t game her enough in order to build comfort. Then by asking her out too soon, you put the nail in the coffin. edit: also was your opening text literally ‘hello’ ??lmao
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:57 PM
4

Lol is the written version of a smiley face for most of these chicks
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:39 AM
2

Your rating in the Sexual market place. For example, a 5/10 woman dating a 7/10 man
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:42 AM
16

Not reading all that shit. This isn’t your diary. Ask a question without leading us to the answer you want most.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:41 AM
4

They are men who had higher smv during the dating phase, whether that was looks, money, or social status. A woman’s goal is to lock guys like this down - as long as they are higher smv - and then take their power away so she can use him for money, child rearing responsibilities, and to help raise a family. This plan doesn’t include what the man wants —sex and a submissive wife. But this factor changes when she isn’t the only option.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:40 AM
1

What difference does it make?
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:57 PM
1

I know what you want to hear, but it’s not the truth. Sure, you could get hitched and she may never leave you EVER or try break you down EVER, for whatever reason, but it’s in her nature and therefore there is a high chance that she will.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:54 PM
1

Does a man’s dick stop working because he was brought up on a farm and forced to wear a suit and tie to church since he was six years old? Neither does a woman’s hypergamous nature.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:46 PM
11

Nope, once she’s had the BBC her marshmallow walls remain as stretched as the gaping mouth of an anaconda, as pulverised as the carcass of a lightning struck bird, as loose and flappy as a Turkey’s bill only responsive to a circumference as gigantic and with as much thrust as an Amazonian warrior returning from seven-days in the bush, with shit on his left sole and a bunch of leaves for toilet paper.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:19 PM
1

No. Boys are baptised by fire and men are birthed from the flames.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:12 PM
4

So mature I could be your granddaddy, boy No one skips the sidebar round these parts
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:11 PM
3

You know you should have ignored her.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:09 PM
1

Can’t change the world in a day, homie. Keep grinding, every successful person has had 1000 more failures than you. You’ve got 998 to go.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:03 PM
8

AWALT. Read the side bar, chicken fucker
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:01 PM
6

Raises SMV Just don’t expect them to stick around. They aren’t loyal
/r/askTRP22/01/19 10:55 PM
7

Have spent 10 years at women dominated firms. Drama effects you in the start but after the first few months you’ll learn that it’s like children squabbling and that it shouldn’t concern you.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 10:54 PM
1

You look beautiful is something a man of low value would say, as he over values beauty. Try you seem interesting or I dig your style, you’ve got a cute look to you. In a club, you’re hot is still better than you’re beautiful. Your mad beautiful is probably still better than your beautiful as well, depending on the way you deliver it. Depends on your style too, I guess
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:40 PM
1

There WHY to approach anxiety is simple, it’s an irrational instinct ingrained into us from birth with terms like ‘you like a girl, ew!’, ‘girls don’t like you, ew!’, and ‘don’t talk to strangers!’. And so we develop this world view that it’s not normal to talk to other people unless they have been formally introduced to us in some way coupled with the fact that being rejected by women is somehow related to your self-worth, and so in order to protect our ego (our self-image) we rationalise all k…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:28 PM
5

OP is spitting facts. Once I hit 24.9 BMI I start attracting girls based off physical appearance alone —they get more touchy, have been asked out on dates, blatant flirting, etc,. This happens less the further I am from this weight until it’s non-existent. 23.5 BMI is the point where I drift into the 8 - 9 looks rating. Despite knowing this, I’ve found weight is the hardest thing to manage. I’d rather do 1000 approaches than play the weight loss waiting game. Thankfully, I’ve got a pretty good s…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 06:03 PM
2

You know what you need to do. The only reason you’re asking this is because you don’t want to do it.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:23 AM
1

It’s generally only good if you’ve been romantic with these girls.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:10 AM
5

Your next step is to bring 70 hours down to 30 - 40 while earning the same income. You’re never going to do that while making someone else rich. Make a business plan or cut down on the tail chasing and spend your free time mastering a productive skill (that’s 10k hours minimum).
/r/askTRP21/01/19 02:42 AM
1

Push pull baby, it’s all you need with anyone
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:25 PM
2

Lift and grind a hobby that you can monetise. Everything else will work itself out
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:31 PM
81

Social conditioning fucks up the best of us. Start small by asking for the time or directions. Make your goal 5 or 10 approaches during the day within a timeframe. Then slowly up it to asking directions as well as asking a second question (do you like to eat there?) then add on a non-sexual compliment (nice watch), and eventually go direct once you feel you’re ready. I’ve done a lot of psych work, and can guarantee you this will work if you stick to it. An easier way might be 5 approaches, then …
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:31 AM
3

What caper said. And eventually she’ll ask ‘what are we’. Tell her you aren’t looking for an ltr at the moment and she can leave if she’s not into that. In the meantime, spin more plates.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:22 AM
5

Thanks for posting, that was interesting af
/r/askTRP20/01/19 04:54 AM
2

It’s normal, bruv. You’re in what we call the anger phase and it’s thrown your game off. It will pass. Chill
/r/askTRP19/01/19 11:12 AM
4

Look up monk mode, this is the first step in the right direction. Don’t cut it out indefinitely, just until you’re ready to use it to build you personal platform and/or make money.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 11:10 AM
1

It’s on you to manage the bitch in a way that that doesn’t happen. If you let the plate break by telling her you just used her for sex or laughing in her face, she’ll lie to the end of the world. If you handle shit in a mature manner with strong frame, guess what? You have zilch to worry about.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 05:38 PM
6

Next time think of the shit test as a hoop she’s trying to get you to jump through. By answering honestly, you lose.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 05:35 PM
10

You're operating from scarcity, bro. Your girl is too important to you and that very fact is ruining your ability to be yourself/have a decent relationship. You need to be able to up and leave in five seconds, or at least do your best to hold that mindset. The only way to truly do that is to either regularly be approaching/flirting with women without the intention of hooking up . . . or to have a serious mission - that could be creating a company or some higher purpose - that will take your focu…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:20 AM
8

A study was done about this and the findings were that all women - but particularly younger women - have a base level of physical attraction that a man must meet before any of his advances are accepted. They value this base above attraction to personality or status. My broscience understanding is that if you’re a 7 and above you’re in the top 20% and from there game makes a difference. Anything lower and you should be doing self improvement instead of chasing tail. There are certainly outliers t…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:57 AM
1

Lmaooo. Escalate is short for kino escalation —aka getting physical. Stop being lazy and read the damn sidebar
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:52 AM
2

Don’t get involved. Female with kids will introduce you to the fuckers and then use them at every turn
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:51 AM
1

You won’t hear it here, but women typically like the lean soccer body look —someone who does cardio and lifts a little. I’ve seen it 1000x
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:17 AM
5

The moment she started trying to change the meeting time she was shit testing you. You still passed because you showed her you can leave. She’s probably wet af for you, not even joking, most guys would have stuck around
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:36 AM
1

That’s some big dick copy paste right there. She sent that to the whole ex-army
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:57 PM
1

Because strong men exist.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:46 PM
1

Sorta, Stoicism practice isn’t about actually going through the big shit, though. It encourages visualisation. If you have to live in a small apartment for a while, visualise what it might be like if you were homeless instead. If you aren’t happy with your boss, imagine what it would be like to have a boss that was even more of a tyrant. Because problems are relative, we can reduce our emotional reaction by understanding that things could be worse. Stoicism also takes into account that humans al…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:31 PM
2

Take that book lightly, Mark Manson was trying to write a cross between vulnerable honesty & PUA tactics to stand out from the market. A lot of it is rubbish.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:21 PM
5

Lol you mean IOIs (indicators of interest). And you do what any normal person does, you approach her and let her know you’re the unfuck giver
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:09 PM
6

My bad, I was mostly referring to top 1% in that post. Same principles apply though, just on a lower scale. Instead of a Ferrari it might be a cool hike with your buddies or just travelling in general.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:21 AM
5

Body dysmorphia, I think it’s called? Takes years to naturally overcome. That’s why you don’t sit around waiting for it to go away. The easy step is to see a psychologist and have them develop a behavioural plan for you to help your brain catch up. This could cost. Or if you’re a smart cookie, read up on desensitisation and develop a month long plan that will push you out of your comfort zone until the way you see yourself starts to change. You’ll want to read up on ‘Johari’s window’ as well, as…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:17 AM
7

Some girls don’t, TRP implies that most women do, not all. I have a friend who will date a new guy within days of breaking up with her old one, but won’t date multiple guys at once. If she’s single she will hook up with as many guys over the span of a week as she sees fit but that’s not ‘dating’. If women tell you something it’s usually to hide something bigger.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:10 AM
1

Stoicism isn’t being less emotionally reactive, it’s more accepting things could be worse and so reacting less as part of that process
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:07 AM
1

You don’t have to leave her to become a man. There’s nothing she can or can’t give that will change how much you respect yourself.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:05 AM
1

Knew a lot of people from various schools in various areas, so if you knew me you got the invite to all the good parties, not just the ones in our area.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:49 AM
1

I hung out with popular dudes back in school, so can give you a few tips. First is rotate groups. You’re well known with the popular guys but if you have contacts in other groups don’t hesitate to hang out with them now and then. I had 3-4 groups I’d bounce between including popular dudes. Because the girls in those other groups already know you by rep (or will soon enough), you’ll have easy picking of their girls. Second, find a way to stand out. You may not be a swimmer or baller, but that doe…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:46 AM
1

Lmao
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:27 AM
1

Lmaooo, access to each other’s phones. You goofed, bro. You shouldn’t even let something like that become a part of serious conversation
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:15 AM
2

Snap is better. Her boyfriend can ask ‘who’s number is this’ but it’s a lot harder to track her on snap/insta and much easier for her to play you off as a random follower
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:11 AM
14

Attractive money is money you can see. Fast cars, expensive trips, exciting views, luxury food. There’s something masculine about blowing 20k on a motorbike or an extravagant adventure, there’s nothing appealing about the man who sleeps on his bed with his money stored safely away —even if it is the smart option. I like to call it ‘instagram money’. Money you can see.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:03 AM
0

You’ll regret it for life if you don’t give that lifestyle a try. Go to bar school and become a bartender part time. A few months and you’ll see what you ‘missed’.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:46 AM
-4

Escalation doesn’t start with taking her outside and putting your tongue down her throat —at least find out her favourite colour first
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:19 PM
12

It is that lonely and it doesn’t go away. Being alone is by definition being alone. If you stop, start to dwell on the negative aspects of it, and just let it simmer, you can feel your way through that empty hole inside of you until you’re so deep that it makes you heart sore. A simple thought like: man, a hug would be nice right now, could lead to so much pain when I first moved away from everyone. Then I started enjoying things like music, getting immersed in my passion, running through hours …
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:27 AM
1

Feminine energy. God is in your side. Sounds like you’re joining the church for women. Seriously though, I have no idea what’s going on here. Have you banged this chick before? What do you mean the whole country is pressuring you to be with her?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:42 PM
1

That cigarette charity bish. Smoke her ass
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:33 PM
1

Good shit, bruv. One thing at a time
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:45 PM
1

She shit tested you with the unsocial line. Which you passed but would have been better with a winky face on the end. Then she asks if her messages are reaching you on time. Very good sign, pretty much saying - please talk to me. To which you basically told her to gtfo Everyone has their own style, so I’ll give you an idea of the energy I go for. I try be playful/give fun vibes whenever the girl is seeking my approval - trying to chat to me more. People like those who make them feel good, period…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:12 PM
5

When I was younger messing with the 18-20 year old range, these girls would legit text non-stop, and so to show abundance I would text back hours later and also be busy with other people/things. You can text about whatever you like, you’re not restricted to ‘my place 6pm today’ and short responses. That’s retarded. The reason it’s staple advice is because most simps will text the girl 24/7 instead of it being the other way around. For real tho, if this girl is inviting you over for New Years aft…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:10 PM
13

Younger chicks expect the texting 24/7 into LTR route. It’s pretty much the norm for relationships to happen, and so she was probably trying to take things that route and when you didn’t text back long messages she felt that you dgaf too much. This might have been more comfort than shit test. I never really understood the ‘just text for logistics’ shit you read here. I mean if a girl is a plate, okay. FWB you’ll text a little more often. But this girl is 100% under the impression you’re LTRing h…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:00 AM
0

5/10 at most bro. You look like an overweight guy who does arms. No hate, but def not 7/10. Get that 10-14% body fat so you’re lean and can see abs then you’ll at least be 7.5-8.5 looks wise
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:16 PM
2

7/10 at 105kgs? What’s your bf %?
/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:45 PM
5

Explaining your expectations is negotiating. Never defend, explain, rationalise, or make excuses. By explaining your terms to her you automatically place her in the role of power as she decides what happens next in the relationship. This is why Dread is the only option in this case.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:37 PM
3

Think of it as sales. You have the product and you’re generating a specific quality of lead. Change up your lead generation process to attract the type you want.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:39 AM
1

You’ll get to a point where you can read the room and open groups to get to the chick you want. Don’t get discouraged. My first night out I didn’t have the balls to approach a chick and tried to go for a high five instead and she gave me the most disgusted look. After doing it consistently you’ll feel like a god amongst plebs. It will become so easy that you’ll see who you want to approach, figure out how to do it, and start walking towards them within a moment
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:25 PM
2

Top 20% of social skills as in you know game, cold approach, how to build relationships quickly while being the one of higher value. Basically anyone earning big money in sales or recruitment type roles. I don’t believe in these bullshit EQ tests as they’re too easy to score on. If you’re good people will have told you over and over again. And if you’re this type of person, social game is piss easy, with the only hard part being building connections with new females to keep your rotation going.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:45 PM
7

No, he’s blue pill. Yes, he’s Red pill. Why does it matter? If you need examples of agree and amplify there are plenty of examples and if you need a mentor then there are far more realistic options on the forums.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:47 AM
2

Social game is work, but you won’t have to persue any relationship if you are the cooler one. If I invite her to parties, introduce her to cool people, make her laugh with my dating stories, give her advice and the only thing she does for me is be attractive/have friends —who do you think is working to keep that relationship alive? And yes, raising your SMV is a straight path that any autist can follow. But if you’re top 20% social skills, then social game is piss easy —the hardest party really …
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:56 PM
24

Somebody suck this guy off
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:09 PM
1

This man is on the dice. Read and apply
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:07 PM
1

It comes down to value. If you can introduce her to guys that are worth her time or the time of her friends, she will introduce you to girls and will put in a good word beforehand as well. Having friends that are females doesn’t make you an orbiter. It’s not black and white. Start thinking of relationships as business deals. If all you have to offer is your attention, that’s all you will be worth.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:04 PM
2

Glad to have helped with the epiphany. You said it best in your OP: it doesn’t matter. That’s a huge realisation to come to, especially when emotions are involved. Good shit
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:58 PM
9

How are you in monk mode if you’re doing approaches? There should be no thought for women, only focused self-improvement
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:32 AM
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Would kill for a chick like this. Sometimes when they’re in their early twenties you have to pretend that what they’re saying isn’t a bunch of horseshit
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:30 AM
2

Everyone in this thread has been invested in her ‘coming back’ as if that validates TRP teachings. The red pill truth is that she is either 1) trying to force your hand or 2) gone. Neither of these things is better than the other, because in the first instance she is trying to force your hand through lies and will continue to do so when you re-plate her. What starts as ‘I have a boyfriend’ can become ‘I’ll tell everyone you raped me’. But she’d never do that to me! Emotion and desperation do fun…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:14 AM
6

This is good, you’re probably in shape/healthy. If you look older then your age you might be looking like someone’s dad —plenty of time for that later in life. Regardless of whether you look young or old just make sure you lift and stay in shape and don’t worry about the rest —sometimes it might get thrown at you as a shit test so come up with something to have in your back pocket (agree & amplify)
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:04 PM
2

Start small bro, just ask her for the time or directions and do this to every attractive woman you see for a week. After that start taking the conversation a little further after, and eventually start going direct and asking for numbers. If you try jump straight into the deep end, you’ll sink.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:16 PM
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