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| 1 | LTR called my bluff and phoned her ex, knew his number and couldn’t recite mine, head fuckedThis is a great comment, man. That’s my plan is to get back in the gym, especially now that I’ve built one in my basement, and get my head right (which always falls in line once I take lifting seriously). I did go on some dates while she’s been out of town yo keep myself fresh but that was before I started to slide. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 12:45 AM |
| 2 | LTR called my bluff and phoned her ex, knew his number and couldn’t recite mine, head fuckedFucking spot on comment, really appreciate this. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | LTR called my bluff and phoned her ex, knew his number and couldn’t recite mine, head fuckedReally appreciate this response, think I’m gonna apply dread. I’ve bought a gym for my basement and am going to get back into that in a big way. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 12:10 AM |
| 17 | Guys who aren’t getting married, what’s your plan after age 40?You know, the farm. Where Lassie went. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 10:08 PM |
| 19 | Is this an alpha widow?Flawless victory. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on a plateThanks for your response, it is a good dynamic, but with crazy peppered in. And I think you nailed it with the dread game affecting me. Its like I understand that if I am not committing, then she has no incentive to not give into other dudes approaching her. But part of me wants her only fucking me if that makes sense haha. I don't seem to care if my other plates bang other dudes, and absolutely don't want to commit to this one, so I guess once she swings I just need to be prepared for that and … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I make the best out of a social media following?How did you get so many followers? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Getting cucked in the wild (so cringy!)Common decency, politeness, and kindness are good ways to treat people.,, if they treat you the same. Some asshole telling you to gtfo does not meet this criteria and therefore does not deserve it reciprocated. I would have told him to gtfo cause he’s cockblocking ME, then amog’d his ass. Though I practice BJJ so I’m not intimated by other guys. You might want to join a martial art like BJJ as it will do wonders for your confidence | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 07:17 PM |
| 18 | I feel I can never ever share true affection and love with women now because TRP and experience taught me it only drives them away. What to do?You could try treating some plates like a mini LTR and peppering in some beta just to see what happens. Spoiler, TRP is right, but I think in my case I had to see it straight up (sometime I have to learn the hard way in order to realize it's not just me blindly listening to what TRP says, but actually seeing a congruence between the real world and its teachings.) | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I finally fucked my first 9Haha I may try to start the fight club up again, only this time I’m gonna try to recruit the sexy twins that go to the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/19 04:18 PM |
| 7 | I finally fucked my first 9Can you elaborate a bit on these social groups? I do yoga, lifting, bjj and am thinking about getting into rock climbing, but I realized these are all kinda solitary actvities. How to get a group going around them? I did start a kinda "fight club" with BJJ with some guys but it turned out one of them was a pro-isis radical and so I had to shut it down lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with guys who can’t embrace the suck?Also join BJJso you can back it up. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:15 AM |
| 4 | Dealing with guys who can’t embrace the suck?Never back down, just tell the guy “there’s the door ya little bitch, so stfo or gtfo”. They are usually pussy as fuck and back down. Otherwise you get to fight haha. Win win. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 04:52 AM |
| 39 | Girls treating me differently once they realize I'm going to make a lot of money.Man it's frustrating to see this shit. Guy is given the world on a silver platter and I bet he's gonna blow it all on the first chick that sucks his dick. Read the side bar dude, beta bucks, alpha fucks. Don't be beta bucks. If I was you I'd drive a shitty car and wear average clothes (I have a billionaire uncle who drives a 2013 subaru impreza, where's average polo shits and khakis- and no, the fucker never shared none with my family haha). People will come out of the woodwork wanting that mone… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR dating my best friend (former) and I can't shake the oneitis and anger.I noticed there's a fine line between the grass being better on the other side. With my ex, when I was with her I wanted to be single, but when I was single, I wanted to be with her. And then we'd get back together and sure enough I'd wanna be single. So sure enough, when we finally called it off, I wanted to be with her again. Just keep in mind that you made the right choice, and think about whether you really want to settle for a girl who would settle for a scrub like that? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 05:31 PM |
| 96 | GF works and ‘hangs out’ with an exI guess you gotta decide if you are comfortable with chicks who put themselves in close proximity to their exes. Personally I’m not into that and would just demote her to plate. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Tinder shadowban for moving age filter down too much?This is my problem. I get the hottest chick’s numbers in day game, but on tinder I get nothing. So I play to my strengths. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Chicks with bf game?Holy fuck you are the man! | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.Height is weird. I'm 6'2" but my bro is 6'5" so I noticed there is this zone somewhere between 6'2 and 6'5 where you go from "averge tall guy, nothing special" to getting constant comments "omg you're so tall!!". It really fucked with me, because I never got any "praise" for being tall, but he sure as fuck does. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/19 11:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you calm down for bed when your pumping with adrenaline?High thc indica weed | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Are women at or past the wall easier or harder?I think they are personally harder, because I can’t really stand their bs. These chicks don’t shut up about their exes, about cool their life used to be, and I think they expect that again. And then it makes me think “well shit why don’t I just go fuck a version of you from ten years ago who hasn’t been fucked over yet” | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Broke up with my GF because I've been Cheating. Not sure if I should tell her.Really appreciate your response. Did you find you needed viagra for lasting power with two chicks? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with my GF because I've been Cheating. Not sure if I should tell her.How did you set up that threesome? Would love to set something like that up myself with 2 random chicks. Just invite both to the same date and say “surprise”? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 08:24 PM |
| 8 | She told me she wanted some time to think, I first agreed, then watched a youtube vid and called her to end things.He means don't agree to meet up for a final "goodbye" because all that will do is secure in her mind that you are a bp bitch who gives into her every whim. I think guys expect to go to those thinking they will get something out of it, but you will just walk away feeling like shit and she will rationalize you are some asshole. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 10:26 PM |
| 0 | I find meeting and gaming women more fun than actual sex itselfI noticed the same thing with me, too. I think it's a case of "it's about the journey, not the destination". Tbh I can't actually "feel" sex, like there must be no nerves in the cock or something haha. What a disappointment that was, but the chase is still fun, and seeing the satisfaction on chicks faces. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Losing fat while liftingThis is great! | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 01:59 PM |
| 9 | How to dont give a fuck and deal with fear of regection. I am really wasting my life here.I wrote this in another thread but my go to strategy during the day is: -See a hot chick, and position myself to approach from the front or side (I never come up from behind them and if I do I get a bit ahead before I turn to acknowledge them). -Put up my fingers with a peace sign, signalling the number 2 and say "hey 2 seconds" with a smile -Tell them I saw them and thought they were cute and had to say hello. They usually say "oh..." like they are surprised and blush, like this never happens t… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Alright, i have an LTR i would like to keep, however i’m leaving the state soon.LDRs don’t dude, sorry to be the bearer of bad news. Just let it naturally end and fuck more plates in the next state. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Is being very selfish the best way to live life?Addendum: Selflessness destroys relationships. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Update: I fucked up.For me, it took a very shameful blackout (similar to op's) and I kinda started to lose respect for myself/realized others probably did too. Realized it was making me fat, have no energy the next day, and so I had to prove I was in control and now I just smoke a shitload of weed haha. No side effects except hungry, happy, sleepy. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you make protein shakes more palatable?Its really good but be sure to drink it with a straw (its more like a smoothie). | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 08:15 PM |
| 9 | How do you make protein shakes more palatable?I know what you mean about straight protein shakes, so I started dissecting Booster Juice recipes and figured it out: Bananas-A-Whey -125ml skim milk -125ml pineapple juice -100g frozen yogurt -30g frozen banana -30g to 60g vanilla whey protein -100g ice Blend that shit together and ya got a damn good smoothie. Haven't worked out the other flavors yet lol. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:29 PM |
| 27 | Update: I fucked up.I stopped drinking almost entirely as I do stupid shit when I get blackout, and I never intend to get blackout but I have so much fun that I crush drink after drink. I now have a limit of 3 drinks max in one night, but since setting up that rule, usually stop at 1 or 2. I think it's the internal frame loss I hate the most, because I care more about what I think, so when I am hard on myself the next day , it hits deep. Regardless, if people are gonna judge you, fuck them. There's a million other … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Need help with text game related to chick with bfThanks man, really appreciate the breakdown. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Cons of marriage?No kidding man, the one dude saw a text from his ex wife’s lover that says “I can still smell you on the sheets” and he believes they just watched a movie in bed. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?Do it man! The one thing I think I left out was the addicting rush. I’ll go up to chicks just to get that feeling of adrenaline, and not even caring if I get the number or not haha. Best of luck! | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Cons of marriage?I was just in a perfect relationship with no red flags, was a leader and fucked her good. Out of nowhre she found a job out of town and then texted me that if I loved her I would have sold my house and moved out of town with her. Full crazy. Then she blocked me so I could’t even point out how ridiculous that was. Imagine if that happened and we were married with kids. Two other buddies of mine actually WERE married but, again, the woman pulled the plug on them (both via cheating within 2 months … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I set up a Threesome?I’ve thought about this. At this point I’m good at getting dates. I was thinking the other day that I could potentially tell 2 random chicks to meet me the same restaurant, get a booth where they can sit on either side of you. Of course theres obviously gonna be a ton of failed attempts at first, but one of them will stick and however that one happens will become my standard protocol lol. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:33 AM |
| 2 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?This is awesome! I’ve been trying to find a way to overcome the bf/married women, and this could be a way to get past that shield. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 03:22 AM |
| 0 | The RP way of dealing with hotheadsYes, the ideal situation is not to have to use it, but sometimes you have no other choice, and it's better to be prepared. One of the benefits of BJJ is that you can actually simulate real fighting in training with another person at light to heavy resistance (called "rolling"), and whenever you are about to "submit" someone, they "tap out" and you start again. We do fight simulation with boxing gloves too and punch on the ground to get an idea of where you need to close the gaps etc. It's much l… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 12:23 AM |
| 4 | how to handle when girlfriend asks you why you didnt repy on her text and left her on seen?Just deactivate "seen receipts", then she'll never know if you saw it or not. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:45 PM |
| 11 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?Conversion rate is about 1 in 6 to 10. Out of 10 chicks approached, I'll get 3 to 5 numbers. Out of those 3 to 5 numbers there's generally 2 that will meet for a date, and 1 that will fuck. It really is a numbers game. My go to strategy during the day is: -See a hot chick, and position myself to approach from the front or side (I never come up from behind them and if I do I get a bit ahead before I turn to acknowledge them). -Put up my fingers with a peace sign, signalling the number 2 and say "… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:34 PM |
| 2 | So... I Approached HerYou're on the right track. The key is that her reaction indicates she's not interested, which is not a bad thing. It just means you can now know for sure you shouldn't waste anymore mental energy on her. Onto the next one bud! | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | The RP way of dealing with hotheadsThis is a great comment. I think some people take it to the extreme where they believe all you need is technique, but I feel technique + strength is the sweet spot. And being heavy definitely allows for greater top pressure. You are right, if anything it made me "less aggressive", or as my ex worded it, I have a "quiet confidence", as well as the ability to assess a situation (multiple attackers, better gtfo of there haha). | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find plates?Fucking genius! | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 05:54 PM |
| 20 | The RP way of dealing with hotheadsI would say join brazilian jiujitsu. It's martial art that's all about keeping a safe distance from the enemy to avoid getting punched (all the way in or all the way out) and emphasizes taking the opponent to the ground, where even professional boxers have no idea what to do when someone is on top of them. From there, you can either hold them, break their arm/leg/choke them. Most of the population is untrained, so if you are even sparring against white belts, you are training with people who cou… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 05:43 PM |
| 3 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?The funny thing about rom coms (I went through a period where I would bang a chick then she'd want to watch a rom com, and I was like whatever). They all start with some dude who is alpha, hops from one girl's bedroom to the next, and usually has some exaggerated rule system like "I can only bang you once a week, no breaking the rule!". But then he quickly develops one-itis for "the one chick who wouldn't play his games", who has multiple dudes as plates. The guy goes full retard beta to compete… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Dont shit where you eat - but how close to it?Think you’re right, I’ve had that post open in another tab but haven’t read it yet. He’s a smart guy and I need to read that! | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 04:19 PM |
| 12 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?Day game is my bread and butter and I noticed that pretty much every chick I approach (8's+) are totally shocked that a guy would approach them. Even at the gym yesterday. Every guy was checking out this hot chick from the corner of their eye, and I was the only one to approach. I literally get called "bold" every day. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 04:14 PM |
| 3 | sex is not enoughYep, tbh I'm still pretty let down by how underwhelming sex was. Over 30 years of trying to get it and then once I got it consistently it's like... I wish I had those years back, all that bs chasing tail. Don't get me wrong I won't be letting myself go without it going forward, but it's like.. coffee. I think I like weed more than sex, but I wouldn't wait 30 years just to fuckin smoke a joint. Noobs in for a big shock for sure. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 02:36 AM |
| 4 | How would you react?Tell her she crossed a line and you guys are done. Then go fuck ten other women. She will come back after a month (probably after fuckin other dudes that used her) and then she will make herself available as a plate. At that point you can just keep banging her or be done, without all this mate guarding. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Dont shit where you eat - but how close to it?Would be cool if you did a write-up on how to navigate work relationships, as I’ve had one in the past and it ended well but that was more retail whereas Im now in the office world. In fact every relationship has ended amicably, but I swear 90% of the dudes on here have never had a real relationship with a women so they think every breakup is followed by a rape charge and trip to hr. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 04:05 PM |
| 10 | Fiance want new boobs, i will be shit tested, need adviceSounds like she’s getting you to pay for her branch swing. Fiance sounds like trouble... | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Used dread in text, girl flaked?The legend of internet man continues lol. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:42 PM |
| 0 | Used dread in text, girl flaked?I don’t really care about downvotes but ya gotta put fags in their place every once in a while so its it’s all good, but I appreciate the response. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Used dread in text, girl flaked?Oh definitely, 99% of the time I have a good response, but this was the first time I decided to "try texting". I coulda easily said "my day's goin good, hope yours is too" or something. Then again my texting skills are terrible so I usually just text with "Let's grab drinks wednesday at X at 7:00." and then go radio silent until the day of when I shoot out a "anti flake" message saying "looking forward to seeing you tonight". I guess it was good in a way as it showed me what doesn't work. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 09:51 PM |
| 3 | “During sex it is impossible to shield our emotions. During and after sex, you can access the deepest of a woman’s emotions directly.” -SGM How much of what a woman says during sex is the actual truth and how much is just the emotions of sex?It's bs, I realized my ex was feeding me all these sweet things during sex, but then I realized it was cause she wanted my cock hard, saying the words was just a tool to get the result she wanted (don't get me wrong, it worked every time). | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Used dread in text, girl flaked?That's a good point, was a braindead moment after getting a shitload of numbers over the weekend and texting multiples. The alpha life ain't easy, but someone's gotta do it. Thanks man! | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Used dread in text, girl flaked?The bikini model was the only good thing that day and I was just braindead from getting numbers all weekend. Still got the bikini model in the pipeline but this one was cute. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 09:43 PM |
| -1 | Used dread in text, girl flaked?Funny, your grammar screams "I'm a fucking idiot." Great spelling also! | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 09:42 PM |
| -1 | Used dread in text, girl flaked?Thanks I needed that. Willbe sure not to do that with the bikini model lol. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Used dread in text, girl flaked?Haha oh god no! recall | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 07:26 PM |
| -3 | Used dread in text, girl flaked?Yeah the bikini model was the only good thing that day and I was just braindead from getting numbers all weekend. Still got the bikini model in the pipeline but this one was cute, damn shame but its all about that abundance haha. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 07:22 PM |
| 0 | I discovered that my tinder match is a neighbor !Oh shit, is that what it is? I seem to be able to end relationships in ways where the girls remain as basically FWBs. In that case I am definitely gaming coworkers. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Do I "brag" about it?Yes for some, no for others. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 01:47 PM |
| 2 | What would you recommend for an emergency 'pick me up'?Those bastards trying to screw us. That’s the real red pill lol | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 11:40 PM |
| 3 | What would you recommend for an emergency 'pick me up'?Haha nah the trick is to get two kinds of pperoni on the same pizza. And this time I'm doin it with hot sauce lol | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 11:26 PM |
| 3 | What would you recommend for an emergency 'pick me up'?Yeah Brooklyn style pepperoni, its like bigger and thinner, plus the regular pepperoni, and baby you got a stew goin! | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 11:09 PM |
| 2 | What would you recommend for an emergency 'pick me up'?Haha I gotta try the hot sauce, I do pepperoni and then add brooklyn pepperoni. And I dunno if it works everywhere, but use “UNI” as your code snd it’s 50% off university student discount (Im long outta uni though but they dont care). | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 10:51 PM |
| 9 | I discovered that my tinder match is a neighbor !Would this not be considered shitting where you eat? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 09:56 PM |
| 6 | What would you recommend for an emergency 'pick me up'?Yeah man, netflix and pizza, it's my reset button. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How come all of the girls are flaking?At this point I've gotten a million friggin numbers from bars and day game. I have concluded that bar girls are just there for validation and will give out their numbers but never follow up. Most likely because they are too drunk to remember who they gave their number too. Don't bother with drunk girls, as it's also a consent risk if they wake up and decide they really meant no depending on their emotional state that morning. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 09:46 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on the hypergamy example in Netflix's The Dawn Wall?Man this is a great analysis. I must have missed a bunch of the details on my first watch. Man that would be crushing seeing your woman write that about another dude (if you were blue pilled). I’ve seen a lot of divorces or married chicks hitting on me and I find this shit fascinating, ‘oreso than depressing. Glad I am spinnin plates. Really appreciate your detailed response! | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 12:32 PM |
| 4 | what did you all replace Porn/Video games with?I just go out, approach by saying “I think you’re cute, how’s your day going? They get flustered so I then say “I’m X” and shake their hand. Quick observation about our immediate surroundings , then say I “gotta go but lets grab coffee this week” and then give my phone to them to enter their number. Text them saying “hey it’s X, the cute guy from X”. Was cool meeting you”. After they respons I suggest a time for drinks and voila. After drinks I say “hey I bet I could beat you in “insert game/poo… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 03:05 AM |
| 3 | what did you all replace Porn/Video games with?What's your go to strategy? I've just unlocked the ability to frequently get numbers/dates. Now I need to take it up a notch. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Girl says she sucks at texting but uses Snapchat more, asks if I have it. If I say yes, I enter frame correct?More like Project Slip and Slide, cause o’ the slickness! | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 11:52 PM |
| 5 | Girl says she sucks at texting but uses Snapchat more, asks if I have it. If I say yes, I enter frame correct?Thanks man, this is perfect, I suspected as much. That's a slick line too. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Should I boost an ugly girls self esteem?Stay away from ugs. There's a million thirsty dudes out there that would beg for a chance to be in their shadow for some reason. Don't be one of them. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?Thanks man, yeah I approached 6 chicks yesterday and got 3 numbers of which 2 are responsive. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?This is a really good response, thanks man. I went out to a mall yesterday and got 3 numbers after approaching 6 chicks, two of which are texting for coffee logistics, so I think Im just gonna keep with the abundance route. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:46 PM |
| 0 | Do 'happily married' women still think about their AF partners?Well shit... did I just invent a word? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?Lol now I feel like an idiot. Yeah exactly, just checkin the boxes. Jiu jitsu twins tho... just need to repeat to myself, if I want that black belt, don’t shit where I eat, dont shit where I eat.. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?The bingo card thing is like, you have a card with a 5 by 5 grid, and in each square there's a letter B, I, N, G, and O, and these random balls are randomly selected, each with a letter. Any time you get a letter that matches a letter on your board, you stamp it. The goal is to spell bingo horizontally, vertically or diagonally. Then people started doing things like "Canadian bingo" where they got situational things like if you see a "guy wearing shorts in -20 degree celsius", you stamp it metap… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?Hahah oh god no I copied your entire comment verbatim and sent to her! Haha jk thanks again bud | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?Yeah I’m gonna see how it goes and in the meantime am doubling down on get a harem goin lol. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Do 'happily married' women still think about their AF partners?TIL I’m alpha. This is very inciteful. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?Of course! I can now get that damn glue off the goddamn coffee table, haha. I like this bingo card analogy actually. There's a couple twins at my jitsu gym that keep eyeing me... that might need to be a card lol | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?Thanks for this response, the LTR was a good "see for myself" experience and now that I know I just want plates, I could see her being one of them down the line. Any thoughts on how I could word the response? "I'm glad to hear you are doing well and I don't hate you either. Let's keep in touch". It's interesting but TRP reminds me of jiu-jitsu. At first I learn a few moves (aka "lift"!), then I get my ass handed to me (approaching), then I calibrate and start tapping out others (start getting nu… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?Yeah I guess I should have added that to the main post but I guess my options are "ghost" or show IDGAF mentality by telling her not to worry about it, and that I dont hate her either. I guess if I look at what I really want, it is multiple women that I can fuck whenever. This relationship proved I don't want to play life on hard mode, but she was a cool girl and wouldn't mind throwing her int he fuck mix. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop thinking about suicide.Thanks for this man. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:08 AM |
| 11 | How do you guys do it?This guy's legit. I thought I was a piece of shit for not getting matches on Tinder/Bumble, but then I decided to start cold approaching. At first it was real bad haha, I would trip over my own words. Or stand there, feeling like Ralph from the simpsons. Then I started realizing the worst they could say was no. But a funny thing happened. I noticed I'd get this rush I've never felt anywhere else just before approaching a chick. It got to a point where I was addicted to it. I went from chicks loo… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | What’s your go to for getting a her jealous?This really helped clear up the difference to me. Very good explanation, and I appreciate you taking the time for it! You were right, I did not understand as well as I thought. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:17 PM |
| 0 | What’s your go to for getting a her jealous?Weird all the guys in this thread making you seem weird for wantibg to make her jealous yet these same guys are preaching dread which is the exact same thing. jackie chan wtf face | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 09:53 PM |
| 6 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?I think he means the narrative that our society, men and women, are equal. If it was say... 2 in 3 men not getting laid, society might be fucked and have to actually address this shit situation. But for now, we can pretend we are all equal. I’ve been wrong before though. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | She apologized. Next move?Hahaha savage! I fuckin love it. Maybe he needs someone to bang her for him too. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 06:05 PM |
| 0 | How to get over LTR quicker?Damn that’s a fast turnaround getting 3 plates in 2 weeks. Mind talkin us through that process? I do day game but getting a lot of flakes. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Plate wants to be exclusive but possibly fucked another guy recently, how should I deal with itIf you LTR her, she’ll see behind the curtain and lose respect for you, and if she goes drinking, you will always wonder if shes got another dick in her mouth. You’ll subconsciously start mate guarding and slowly descend into beta as you try to appease her. Seen it too many times. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | I got kicked into my balls of confidence todayHi-yaaaa!! | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 05:06 AM |
| 5 | I got kicked into my balls of confidence todayNah I'm in Canada, but Trudeau sure does have a hard on for those refugees. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:43 AM |
| 14 | I got kicked into my balls of confidence todayHappened to me in BJJ. Met a 23 yo muslim white belt (Im 33) and he is stronger than EVERYONE. Practically wiped the floor with my instructor, a black belt. So I decided to train with him to figure out whats his secret. Turns out he's a black belt in Judo. So I felt better, but still shitty. Then he went all pro-Isis and I had to stop training with him. He eventually told my instructor to go fuck himself and left for another gym, vowing to come back and challenge him. Scares the shit out of me t… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Other Men Checking Out LTRThat was a witty line, I like it! | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 12:31 AM |
| 9 | Is this something worth breaking up over?Hey man, its gonna be tough but the fact you got the balls to stand up for yourself like this means you got a bright future ahead. You have one more thing to keep an eye out for in future relationships (though after my last break I realize plating is the only way to fly). | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Really appreciate your response, I want to take a lead on something and I'm passionate about music so you've helped inspire me! | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 10:28 PM |
| 8 | I’m an orbiter- now what?Ghost her and focus on girls that will fuck you. You should only focus on the receptive ones, never wait for sex from a chick that may or may not be interested. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 04:47 AM |
| 2 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Hey on a side note, you mentioned in some other posts that you are a front man in a band as an older dude. Have you written anything on that? I've been an edm producer for years but am thinking about getting out into the night world and dj'ing now that I'm pretty decent. Was also thinking of learning the guitar and just doin my own band thing for fun (not fame or anything haha). Totally random in this post, I know, but you are an inspiration to us all! | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Dude I'm sorry this happened to you. Had a similiar thing where there were no red flags then outta nowhere she decides to find a job out of town and end things like a robot. Like now I find it hard to trust these chicks when they are all happy and saying "you are their world" and then suddenly they go beep bop boop we are done. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How to run work game?But there must be some more skill involved in gaming at work. Like off the top of my head I'm assuming lunch time isolation/escalation is what it's all about. So coworkers don't suspect what's up, which I assume would stonewall the whole thing. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on field report + funny how quickly you can turn your perspective aroundReally appreciate the feedback man! | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Fashion guide for new red pillers (Part 1)Got any recommended reading? Sounds like you know your shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Thought I was red pilled but just had my heart shattered, why did I get so invested?Hey bud maybe give some extra details. Did she go there with you at first? How’d she go home with the other dude. We can probably break it down from there. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you take Viagra?Haha thanks for the response! Really appreciate it! | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you take Viagra?I usually get off within a couple mins because I’m so turned on and plus I like to go hard which speeds it up. I go soft after cumming though and then it’s a matter of getting hard from there. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 03:16 AM |
| 4 | What advice would you give to a 23 year old virgin?Don't be like me, didn't lose it til 28. Just get the fuck out there. Otherwise you'll be self medicating just to forget all the years without any action. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys agree with what he says about fake alphas?You are assuming the bf is real, chicks make that shit up all the time. Even a guy she's known for a day could be the bf. It could be literally a friend. Besides, the dude would look beta if he came out swinging as his ego cannot handle a little banter. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Does n-count matter for a LTR? What’s a high, avg and low n-count for a 21 year old college girl?I’m noticing a pattern where chicks say they’ve only been with 5 guys in relationships. Then when they trust me the non-relationship number is 12. So 17 different dude AT LEAST. We don’ luh’ dem hoes. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 04:14 PM |
| 3 | What is the best red pilled response to this text I got from my LTR today.Yup, happened to me the exact same way. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 11:40 PM |
| 6 | First Date: Girl Gave Out Number In Front Of MeFlipping this on its head, seems like the old dude found a ballsy play that works. -Initiate eye contact towards hottie with date -Send a round of drinks to their table -Wait for hottie to come over? Or motion her over -When she stops by tell her you think shes cute and are only in town for the weekend, get her number and have a cover story for her date -When her date ultimately mentally crumbles from the number, she will crawl back to you. Let’s break this open. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Did the sex god method make y’all automatically better at sex? Or did you still have to experience more to be better?There was a suggestion in the book to "claim" a chick's vag when your fingering her by saying "this is mine" or something as a dominance tactic. This fuckin thing worked so well it provoked her to ask what we are, and she made a big deal about how she wants to be "mine", which resulted in me accepting an ultimatum that we are either exclusive or she doesn't want to share me with anyone. Won't be doing any of those things anymore lol (sex god claiming thing, exclusive relationship). | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Plate: « Do you only want me for sex »Holy shit that is profound. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What can a LTR provide?I dunno, the women I have been with, who I thought I had vetted, all couldn't cook, clean, or do laundry. So I guess the benefit is frequent sex in exchange for frequent reminders that they want a marriage, that they were screwed over by an ex, that their dad was an asshole to them. These things come outta nowhere right when you feel you had a great relationship going (in all these cases, she presented herself as having a great relationship with family, not interested in relationships, etc which… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Wife possibly cheated physically but definitely emotionally - what to do now?Thanks a lot for the update. Dude it sounds like you are doing all the right things and I feel for you man. As a guy, this shit is crushing, but there is a whole community here who supports you. Might be worth doing the update as a separate thread to get more visibility/more helpful comments. Best of luck and keep us updated man. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Wife possibly cheated physically but definitely emotionally - what to do now?Yeah man, it's like that little relationship death. For me, I am pretty attuned to the moment when they suddenly start acting different. Maybe they aren't so subtle about it. For me, it was when we went from making out and fucking constantly to suddenly she just wants to sit on the couch on her laptop. Actually maybe it was the second she started getting dry for me when she had been gushing before... Still hurts but I'm back on the prowl lol. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 04:09 AM |
| 11 | Wife possibly cheated physically but definitely emotionally - what to do now?It sounds like she fucked him. I’ve seen this shit a bunch and my buddy who is going through a divorce saw a text from the guy saying “I can still smell you on the blankets.” This guy believes she literally just watched a movie on her bed. Sounds like this Danielle chick knows something. Wonder if you might be able to find her details and contact her about what she knows. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 12:18 AM |
| -13 | Got falsely accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed? (Part 3)Sounds like you gotta beat the shit outta Bob. And I guess all you can do is act normal and maybe somehow in one on one convos with people and mention that the university dismissed her claim. Make it so guys dont wanna fuck this chick. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Is this an example of her trying to lower me into her frame / shit test?Removes plausible deniability, activates ASD. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 07:30 AM |
| 4 | I see happy couples everywhereIt was fucked but she was the first chick that I got from day game and she reacted surprisingly positively to me. Like where she only had pics of her and me in her phone, she would tell me I was perfect for her etc. At first I didn't tell her I loved her while she told me, and then I started reciprocating. Later, she said she didn't think I was capable of love, that I was an asshole, and a martyr (not sure what that last one meant), even though I made her breakfast frequently and fucked her good… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 06:36 PM |
| 50 | I see happy couples everywhereI did that and fell for a plate. Promoted her, talked about kids and marriage. One day shes saying she loves me and literally the next she blocks me and says I’ll never see her again. Not really any red flags ahead of time, just 6 months of perfect behavior then bam. So go ahead but trp will always slap you right in the face with “the reality pill”. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 04:03 AM |
| 2 | I'm 38, live with parents and have no license. How do I date?That’s a solid cover. For some reason I have no luck on bumble or tinder, but in person I get great responses everywhere like grocery stores, malls, book stores, gyms, etc. Just open with how I think they are cute, crack a joke, then tell em I gotta run but would love to grab a coffee. Text only for logistics, then ghost til day of date. Send them a confirmation midday saying Im lookin forward to coffee later so they dont flake. Saw a post on trp (think it was how to get laid like a warlord) tha… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 01:39 AM |
| 4 | I'm 38, live with parents and have no license. How do I date?I’d say take em back to their place, maybe give em some bs story about how your roommate has relatives over or somethin so you can’t go to your place. Maybe tell another your place is getting mold remediation from the previous owners carelessness so insurance is putting you up at a hotel. They don’t need to know you’re footing the bill. Shit I bet those hotel bars got some chicks. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 01:16 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with the fact of being dumped for a famous/rich guy?Give yourself time to be angry, sad, then start to put together a routine of hitting the gym. Start learning about lifting and nutrition (I’ll throw out Starting strength and books by Lyle McDonald for nutrition). I found brazilian jiujitsu to be a helpful way to channel the anger. Learn game and start approaching chicks, get a harem going and show yourself you are better than her. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Should I be poppin pills?I have good cardio and hit the gym frequently. Was also tested for low testosterone and was told my results were good. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Should I be poppin pills?Really appreciate this response! | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up or am I being manipulated?I'm not really asking if LDRs work this time, more of am I being a dick or is this just standard fare? Like she, from my perspective, ghosted me. Am I unreasonable for rejecting a relationship based on that? If she comes back tomorrow and says "Hey I got a job in town", I think I would still hold my ground, but am I being petty? | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Relationship timelines/stages?This is a great response, really helped me put things in perspective. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm having some sort of existential crisis regarding women. Last LTR crossed the line, and just had a married chick I know that just had a baby tell me she wants me to fuck her while her husband is gone. Need to get some shit off my chest.I swear its like prisoners dilemma with relationships these days. Either you both cooperate and work together to build a future, or you cheat on her to get ahead before she cheats on you but don't tell, or she cheats on you to get ahead before you cheat on her but doesn't tell, or you both cheat on each other and don't tell. In each situation it could appear the same from the outside. And then also I get taking extreme responsibility for everything (I believe there's a book written by a navy sea… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Gf dumped me and blocked me now says she didn'tWow this is a great response! | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 04:55 AM |
| 1 | I’ve nexted her and now she brings me food and tells me I owe her “breakfast”... what he hell??My take on "you owe me breakfast" is she wants you to take her out, bang her, and then make her breakfast. But you can't be like "I guess the only way to make you breakfast is to sleep with you" otherwise you'll hit a hard ASD. Probable deniability is your friend in this situation. Maybe something like "Hey I'm going out on X day, I still owe you that breakfast but how's a drink sound instead. On the date, you say something like "bet I could kick your ass at (insert some game you have at home)",… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 07:13 PM |
| 3 | I made a list of TRP key points that I thought myself/others may have a hard time remembering, and I’m looking for additions that I may have missed.One note I'll make about treating women like kids: I dated a chick that had some daddy issues and because he denied her basics in the past like groceries, etc, she had this "thing" about being treated like an adult. If she applied for a job and I said "hey awesome job doing that" she would get pissy, like "I'm not a child, you don't need to sound so condescending". Even though I was simply giving her praise. I guess what I'm saying is, some chicks have baggage from either previous relationships … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Who here does brazilin jiu jitsu?Awesome! One thing is you might want to make sure it is not "Gracie Barra" (Gracie Barra is more like typical BJJ where they throw you to the sharks and, from what Iv'e experienced first hand, it is not common sense to go easy on new guys, which resulted in my bro having his shoulder pulled too hard during a "Kimura"). Check (this link for a good list)[https://www.gracieuniversity.com/Pages/Public/Affiliates?enc=NLJif%2bGoAj1XVZySw7xGTw%3d%3d] | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Who here does brazilin jiu jitsu?You should see if there’s a gracie training center around you. Its based on safety and street fighting. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | GF dumped and blocked me, I have some stuff of hers, what's the protocol?I actually followed TRP from the point of going from having no contact with women, to building up to cold approaches, getting rejected, getting numbers, setting up dates, etc. At each of those points I took the valuable advice I got here, however when I landed this chick I admit I did want to see if it would play out as TRP predicted. I kept lifting, but made the mistake of accepting her ultimatum at the beginning (exclusive only to her). I admit I did think she was a special snowflake at the be… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 10:49 PM |
| 2 | GF dumped and blocked me, I have some stuff of hers, what's the protocol?Never gave her a key so don't need to worry about that :) | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 10:43 PM |
| 1 | GF dumped and blocked me, I have some stuff of hers, what's the protocol?Really appreciate your response . I think I will look into these property laws and also document that I was blocked. Then all that's left is to just next her and move on. It's painful but I'm takin it one day at a time, and not missing the gym in the meantime. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | GF dumped and blocked me, I have some stuff of hers, what's the protocol?Really appreciate your taking the time to respond to this . I think I will just next her and move on. It's painful but I'm getting through. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | LTR turning into an LDR, need adviceIt looks like she ended it for us this morning. Really came outta nowhere. I never stopped hitting the gym, but it looks like I’ll be getting back into day game mode. Fucking painful though, but that’s how she goes. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 03:47 AM |
| 2 | LTR turning into an LDR, need adviceWhat’s a good way to do that? Just slowly ghost? | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | LTR Cognitive Dissonance Advice?I really appreciate your feedback, thanks man! | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | LTR Cognitive Dissonance Advice?It's mostly confidence issues from lack of sex until the age of 28 when I moved out of my parent's place (they were hoarders, I stopped bringing chicks over after they would start cleaning the house, I couldn't afford to live anywhere else while going through school). I then didn't have sex until 33 not for a lack of trying. Now I've got my shit together, and I'm hitting the gym, exercising, martial arts, but hearing about experiences I missed out on pisses me off. That kinda pain is deep when y… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 12:53 PM |
| 23 | High SMV men are interesting, exciting and stimulating for women, but intense Self-Improvement is a highly boring process?The guy put effort into responding to you and you shit on him because you can’t be bothered to read. You sound like an entitled fuck who can’t be bothered to put in work to read, let alone work on yourself. Gtfo. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm 33 and I want to find a good girl for LTR and kids. What are my options?Grocery store. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on managing ltrHmmm you might be right dude... | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 02:03 PM |
| 2 | I get depressed after getting rewarded? (sex, bonuses, etc)Hey thanks I'm going to check this out! | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 09:44 PM |
| 2 | I get depressed after getting rewarded? (sex, bonuses, etc)I really appreciate your response. I think you hit the nail on the head. I dread something bad happening after I do something good, and it happens automatically, so I need to be more conscious I'm gonna look into this CBT further. Any books you recommend? Thanks again! | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How is getting girls natural?It actually is as simple as the last example, you just need to do it over and over until you push the chains forward. First hurdle: Show up to public location (mall, grocery store, etc) Second hurdle: Show up but approach chicks and say "hi" Third hurdle: Show up, approach, say "I think you're cute and had to say hi, but I gotta run. Give me your number and we can meet up for coffee this week" (maybe throw in some banter like how it's a beautiful day,maybe a brief comment on what you are doin). … | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Life Lessons learned from being unemployed for the past monthFuck, same shit happened to me. Took over the Controller role of a multi million publicly traded company, found a shitload of issues, fixed all of them (something I'd never seen a manager do while reporting to one, which made me feel ALIVE!). After I fixed everything, was told they don't need me anymore as they can run things from there and with less people (the inefficiencies required more staff to do the same work). Luckily had a nest egg of $20k, but I burned through it over 6 months trying t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/18 07:46 PM |
| 7 | Field Report - All that matters is what she is feeling NOWHaha same thing happened to me. Second date, making out when the girl told me she wouldn't do anything until the third date. So I back off, keep making out. Then she says "you can put your hands there, just not anywhere else". So I'm like "oh she means her tits, sweet". So I start rubbing under her bra. Then I just tell her straight up "lets get this bra off you". Then after suckin her tits and making out, I'm like "I want you to suck my cock" but she insists not til the next date. So I back off… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | First plate breaking - how do I "do this"This is a great response man, I'm gonna read it over as there's a lot of good stuff here. I think I could pretty much pick any of these options at this point. This being my first plate I'm trying to learn as much as I can for the next one. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 05:36 AM |
| 2 | First plate breaking - how do I "do this"Thanks man, that's what I thought. And soft next, you mean just don't really respond to her eh, but also not telling her I'm done? Not burning the bridge in case she comes back for future sex eh? Thanks again | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!"This is the best advice ever. I love mcdonalds! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!"BS meter going off.. would a chick EVER say "wanna fuck"? I mean, shit, I've put in a ton of effort lately doing street pickup, got a bunch of flakes etc. I'm 6'1" 160 @ 10 - 12% bf, good face etc, and I can't imagine chicks would ever be the initiators (thought they needed plausible deniability etc). Basically, if shit like this IS legit, maybe I am trying too hard... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | First field report, advice appreciatedThanks man, I suspected it was a test which is why I threw in the "I kinda have a gf". When she said I'm not into that what do you think I could have done (for future calibrations). Just say "give me your number and we'll go from there"? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | First field report, advice appreciatedYeah that's kinda my sticing point. These girls seem into me, but then they drop the bf bomb and say "i can't, "he wouldn't like that" etc. need to get around this somehow as I'm sure its some kinda shit test. Thanks for the response! | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | First field report, advice appreciatedThanks for your response, I thought it went well and it sounds like I was in the ballpark but just need a bit of calibration to take it to the next level. -For sure my time is more valuable than hers -We were walking along a sidewalk and she was in front of me which drew my attention to her ass, so I got up beside her and started chatting, then took the lead, but we were heading in the same direction and her work was maybe a block down so I couldn't really divert her away (or maybe I could hmm).… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Need help with my brotherThank you so much for this. You've nailed it on the head. Yesterday he was complaining to me that she is now sending my mom texts that she needs to spend more time with the dogs and that she is disappointed that one of the dogs ate something it shouldnt have. My brother was pissed at her and venting to me, and I told him to lay down the law. Today, he is talking as if he agrees with her about this whole situation. I'm like "dude she's not your personal servant and I'm not gonna let that fly". En… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Need help with my brotherI know man, your username sums up what's going through my head lol. It's like watching a ship sink and I don't have any uh... life preservers? Or rescue boats... (I don't boat but I think those are things). | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I've forgotten how to "probe" a girl to find out if she is interested in a particular guy and then linking those emotions to myself.I've considered just nexting this girl, but will see if she continues to bring him up. If she asks why I don't like talking about him, do you think it would be more beneficial to just say "don't worry about it" or actually tell her that his stories constantly changed and that he was arrogant to too many coworkers? | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 12:19 AM |
| 2 | I've forgotten how to "probe" a girl to find out if she is interested in a particular guy and then linking those emotions to myself.I had actually thought that may have been the case. In fact, I think I played right into her hands without realizing it at first, by making a conscious effort to talk to her so she wouldn't feel so bored. Fortunately, I realized this and did limit contact. The ignoring her when she talks about the other guy idea sounds pretty solid. Maybe I'll try focusing on my work and stop talking to her for a while, then invite her to an event on a weekend out of nowhere and see if I can keep her laughing an… | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 11:53 PM |
| 1 | I've forgotten how to "probe" a girl to find out if she is interested in a particular guy and then linking those emotions to myself.Good call, instead of being direct I can go indirect with something along the lines of the second one you mentioned. I suspect if I said "Wow, I really feel like I'm (other-dude's) biographer thanks to all the stories you have of him" that she would respond with "well he made me laugh and would always talk to me", there's gotta be a way to crack that shell right open haha. | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 11:11 PM |
| 4 | I've forgotten how to "probe" a girl to find out if she is interested in a particular guy and then linking those emotions to myself.Yeah I know I was reading about a non-friend-zoning method that was casual and worked. Espescially now that I've friend zoned her I'd like to avoid a reversal to her friend zoning me. It went something like if you can get her to recall the emotions she felt during the hookup then you can anchor yourself into those same emotions. Of course the first step is figuring out if anything did happen between the two. I think you're on the right track, but then again women are very secretive about their s… | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 10:20 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on how to bridge conversation about sex in general to sex with me...Something like a totally non-sexual co-worker reunion (myself, HBco-worker, and two 40+ year old 3 and 4, respectively, co-workers from the past who love me) that this hottie invited me to this upcoming saturday at Earls? Could work, but what are the logistics here. My place is a no go. Hotel? I like your style! | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 02:48 AM |
| 1 | I need advice on how to bridge conversation about sex in general to sex with meI have no idea why people waste their time on that site to be honest. Keep the conversation on topic. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 12:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you add value through conversations?Ahh good call. | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you add value through conversations?Let's say she lacks fulfillment or emotional connections, how would you go about addressing this in a way that adds value for you and her? | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 04:14 PM |
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