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| 2 | Blanket Principles and Genuity | T-P-T-W-P | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 05:29 PM | |
| 2 | Opinions on introducing/being seen publicly with plate | T-P-T-W-P | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:35 PM | |
| 2 | Anyone else have this thought? | T-P-T-W-P | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 08:45 PM | |
| 1 | Approaching in the gym? | T-P-T-W-P | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 06:16 PM | |
| 0 | Should I drink on my excursion? | T-P-T-W-P | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:03 PM |
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| 3 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?It’s a pretty clear indication that young women are willing to casually see young high value men until they are forced to settle as they move towards 30 as opposed to young women being all over old men. Ugly young men are taboo and men 10 years older are as well. Do you actually regularly see young hot women out and about on the arms of 45 year old men lmfao?? Absolutely not, this is more indicative of young high value men age 25-30 cornering the market with the new era of accessibility via the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?That isn’t a major assumption at all, studies basically indicate that women of all ages and backgrounds only find about 20-25% of any given set of men worth dating or considering sexually, so only 64% of young men being considered low value is actually kind of favorable to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?Ahh yes, the hundred millionaire celebrity actor is a great example here that can assuredly represent the dating game over a society large sample. People date within their general age brackets. This is backed by a lot of data, good for you if you are older and eschew the very clearly supported notion that women dating “older” means within 4-5 years, anything else is an outlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?That’s a pretty big misinterpretation of that piece of data, 36% of young men, or men of any age, actually successfully dating seems reasonable or even high to me. Young high value men have zero issues dating, casually or monogamously, with women in their age group or really any for that matter. This isn’t an age thing but one of the new era of accessibility. High value men of all ages have a far greater outreach and corner the market better than ever. Young women would rather be single or casua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?Bro that’s a convenient interpretation of my point, which is that people date within their general age bracket. A 29 year old man and a 25 year old woman are in the same age bracket, that woman is not isolating her pool to “only men age 28-32 either, she will not forego high value men age 24-26 lol. I’m just denying the obvious TRP fantasy that these high value men in their late 30’s and 40’s can and are taking all of the young women from the dating pool, those are definitive exceptions and not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?This is a myth older men tell themselves regarding the average looking young women they have access to within the dating pool, and what young unsuccessful men tell themselves looking towards the future. Stats do not support your theory, young high value women date the best men available to them within a 4-5 year age bracket. Women do tend to date more “older” men in comparison to men with women but that is a 25 year old woman dating a high value 30 year old. I’m not really sure what reality you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Do men really get better with age?“Get better with age” means men peak around 30-35 as opposed to early-mid 20’s with women. You have more time to physically/mentally develop, and acquire wealth, while having the same relative youth you’ve always had. The “I’m 47 and in my prime” idea often found within RP ideology is just a boo-rah “you can do it” for all the divorced guys that need to feel good about something moving forward, you were doing something wrong from the start if you are a more attractive composite then than at 33 y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W How would you react to your SO losing a fight in a really pathetic way?Story doesn’t really have much do to with what women’s perception, but at the recreational time intermediate level of MMA fighting (as in guys who are fairly serious about it but not on any real pro cards or anything like that), the range of fighters is absolutely incredible. I used to lift with a guy who also trained fighters in lifting/dynamics and the like. He started training a younger guy who I would probably not want to mess around with in a bar fight just looking at him, and I’m a 6’2 200… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 03:13 AM |
| 7 | The truth hurtsI think it’s more the fact that he’s being pushed as some “it” dude amongst the Hollywood/NYC media right now for some strange, unknown reason. He’s kind of got a gross/sickly vibe but not in the “cool starving artist” way, isn’t very funny/charismatic, and isn’t traditionally handsome, like at all. Just seems like a media narrative that we are supposed to fall in line with? Obviously he is a tall, not fat white guy who is famous, he can’t ever be considered below average but you get the point. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 09:30 PM |
| 11 | Women are the gate keepers of both access to sex and relationships. Only attractive HVM are gate keeping commitment with themselves.The SMP is the top 25% or so of men and the upper 60% of women. However you want to frame/debate the mechanizations within that is on you, but the bottom line is that the overwhelming majority of men are invisible to most women. Ugly fat girls actually do have a chance at playing the game of procreation/bettering their DNA, ugly fat men have none. It’s all relative and each instance is obviously going to be its own, but the biological nature of humans and sex make it this way, women hold the key… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | A man's best chance at a sexually healthy relationship is one in which he is far more attractive than his partner.What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 8 | A man's best chance at a sexually healthy relationship is one in which he is far more attractive than his partner.God this is all rounding back to the same idea that you can really apply to 99% of questions or discussions posted in this sub. To be sexually successful in life as a male, you have to be attractive or successful. However you do it, falling in the top 20% or so of men is necessary for you to ever really be happy when interacting with women beyond your own mother. It’s a harsh reality, but a fact that has become blatantly obvious with the prevalence of digital media. Even being a member of that g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?This sub tends to take a heavy nurture lean as opposed to nature. It’s prevalent in modern times, but even moreso in the past and in various forms given the society/culture dynamic at any given time, but the strongest/most successful males have traditionally been those who take the initiative to take, or act out of masculine self interest towards succeeding in mating (our general purpose). This includes how many women they mate with, the resources they acquire towards establishing a competitive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:11 PM |
| 0 | If short women were treated like short men, would it be seen as a more serious social issue?Well first off, men are generally left to fend for themselves in terms of their shortcomings. It doesn’t matter if it’s height or anything else, society naturally has less empathy for men. We have largely controlled the means of production and governance since the beginning of society, so the source of that dynamic is obvious. I’m not arguing one way or another for that, being a man of any stature has its definitive social advantages and you can’t expect anything to be without its cons. So yes, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | The reason why these guys think every girl is a social media addicted club slut is because they don't really know any women(have no female friends)Female hypergamy is demonized by incels and men who don’t get to play an active role in it. There are a bunch of instagram club rats that by most metrics, can be considered sluts. But I don’t think that makes up the true CC definition the way many men believe. It’s more that below average to average women (the largest group of women in terms of aesthetics) pretty much have the ability to choose from some group of mates or another at anytime, while men of similar status may not have been on a dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Is doing drugs a red flag?Lol I’ve never heard that before, can you go further with that? this interaction is interesting to me fr, I usually visualize internet trolls as teenagers but you’re like an old euro hardo version | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Is doing drugs a red flag?Bruh, you read through and referenced mine? By your standards, you’re my fan too? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Is doing drugs a red flag?Lol I read through a little of your post/comment history, putting it together, you’re an older, formerly fat Euro who does BJJ and redpills super hard? That’s beyond meme status to me. Like I’m just imagining the variety of skanky, mid 20’s 6/10’s you’ve fucked and subsequently come on here and given boo rah “alpha” walkthroughs on how you can slay “prime pussy” no matter who you are, and all the neckbeards and divorced dads ate it up. I didn’t go back that far but I’m sure it’s not too inaccura… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Is doing drugs a red flag?Qualifying yourself on reddit is lose-lose. I don’t have a reply here. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Is doing drugs a red flag?My really sexy/nice girlfriend said yes to tripping with me on her day off at my mountain cabin. Your comment changed my mind, I’m breaking up with her and going NC, she almost certainly was a trap house hooker prior to meeting me. That “red flag” swept the rug out from the significant amount of happiness she’s brought to my life. My comment is the top one within this post. I think my sentiment is resonating at least a little bit here. I do believe in some of the concepts of TRP, and I think som… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 07:36 PM |
| 4 | If women are able to sleep with attractive, valuable men, why would they choose to sleep with lesser men?Women shouldn’t be to blame, you are correct. I won’t claim the concept of Chad as it’s different for everyone, but I am probably considered a high value male by most metrics. I have slept with a fair amount of women “below me” to varying degrees. Many of these women have gone on to have LTR’s with men I would consider less attractive than me. From my perspective, some of these women were sleeping with me in hopes that I commit more than sex to them. Some of them were already aware it would be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 04:24 PM |
| 8 | What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.)First and foremost, do your best to be handsome and fit. Going into college I had a decent platform and was successful, but after some real hard work over the summer and some stylistic changes before my third year, I really started having fun all the while going out and partying far less than I was prior. Go to the gym, attain a style that fits who you are (preferably a mature one that also isn’t too stuffy), acquire skills or status in an area that is easily accessible/verified, don’t get caugh… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | r/MGTOW just got removed. Is Reddit's Moderators biased towards blue-pilled ideas?Yeah it’s bad. If there is a group of people who want to preach and support Nazism or anything else insane like that, let them do it in their own community/forum and ignore them if you disagree or don’t want to read their postings. I feel like censoring toxic communities in this way (often a subjective ruling), only pushes radical ideas and action further in the eye of perceived oppression. Those crazy people are more likely to do something crazy IRL if you give them the time of day in banning/q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledWe are animals and we are not capable of being “higher beings”, unless that is referring to our ancestors hitting the evolutionary/technological curve just right towards becoming Earth’s dominant species. We are special for certain in that sense. Beyond survival, our strongest urge is to procreate with strong genetic specimens towards offspring that are likely to survive and further the genetic line. We have no destiny, we have no purpose, and we will always maintain a sense of monkey brain rega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?To be honest, I believe most of it stem’s from society’s noveau notion that men and women operate from the same basis in terms of decision making, logic, basis, etc. We basically refuse to to acknowledge that our differences in genitals/hormones do in fact differentiate the way we act and interpret social interactions. Obviously we do in some ways like clothing and such, but it becomes hushed once you move beyond simply identifiers, and I don’t think it should. The negative view on women’s behav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Are thin but ultimately plain looking women "top tier" in todays world of overweight people?Yes. This has been stated many times, but nowadays women don’t mingle with their true looks match, at least while young. I don’t have the (obviously subjective) numbers in front of me, but like 30% of men have the capability of being regularly sexually active while that number stretches to near 70% for women. Those skinny chicks probably are pretty plain, and may align with your value if everyone was paired with a single sexual partner for life and that was that. But why would they fuck you when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men; what do you want?Not really RP but believe in some of the ideals. High SMV Male, Mid 20’s, live in a large urban center. My answer is a reduction in the liabilities for men that come with monogamy. I love my girlfriend, she’s been nothing short of amazing, but I am absolutely terrified of getting married and having children with her despite a strong desire to eventually be a father. I have money, she does not, and relatively speaking, it will likely remain that way. I’m not misrepresenting anything, she’s as goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How Does Not Drinking Effect a Man's SMV esp. Post College?I only drink somewhat heavily (usually for a party or function) once every couple months or so because it fucks with my fitness. Otherwise, I abstain or sip one all night to still look cool. Not to sound like a cocksucker, but it doesn’t really matter whether you drink a lot or not at all if you look better than most of the men around you, and you have a hold on your life. Don’t be a drunk, both for health’s sake and perceptual reasons, but also don’t be someone who outwardly demonizes partying/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How is it “unfair” that alpha males get lots of casual sex?I do do well, I’m not sure where I indicated I didn’t. I currently date an incredibly attractive woman who is very kind, and fits quite well into my current lifestyle. TRP has some things assuredly wrong but some things definitively correct. Looks and money are not everything per se, but even if some women don’t consider them at face, as in conscious thoughts of “he’s sexy and rich” or similar, they go a LONG way towards framing the perception of someone, and this has been noted in a variety of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 05:56 PM |
| 17 | How is it “unfair” that alpha males get lots of casual sex?I’m tall, handsome, fit, come from money, highly educated, and work a decent job for my age. If I had sex with girls who were only at or above my “value”, I would have a lot less sex than I do or have had in my life. The point is that lower value but still somewhat attractive chicks get piped down by alphas, and then disregard men of similar value because they’ve had a taste of better. Then as they get older, they realize they probably aren’t going to be able to settle down and procreate with so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 05:17 PM |
| 8 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?This dynamic stems from the trend that high value men will sleep with women below them on the value scale but high value women are much less likely to sleep with men noticeably below them. If you are a woman and you get “pumped and dumped” (which shouldn’t be a term because sex should exclusively be had on the basis of want in the moment, and not conditional in any manner), then you are likely sleeping with men who are of higher value than yourself and as such, they will not consider you as a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Is she cheating?My chick is likely a 9/10 too, highly physically attractive to put it in non numeric terms, and while I am tall, handsome and well off for my age, I am not famous nor uber wealthy. I should constantly be afraid of slipping up and her cheating, right? What I left out was that she has no long-standing social circle after moving to my city a year or so ago (-> doesn’t go out much), was raised under highly strict religious pretenses, and refuses to post on social media in which any significant amoun… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Is she cheating?OP don’t take “she’s definitely cheating or monkey branching” to the bank but certainly don’t disregard that possibility either. AWALT is a generally applied term, it doesn’t always hold true and each chick is invariably different to some degree. As with most things on the internet, it’s impossible to provide all the nuanced details surrounding any given situation. My roommates and I host some house parties throughout the year and a fair amount of hot chicks come without their boyfriends, whethe… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Questions about sexIt’s a spectrum. Some women will want to give head to anyone, it gets them off, and others are hesitant even for their ultimate Chad. With that in mind, it’s still more likely for them to blow you the higher value you are and the more they like you. The chick I’m currently banging essentially gets to the brink of orgasm by blowing me. Our general MO is she blows me for a few minutes as a warmup, then she cums basically as soon as we really start fucking, and then it’s whatever I want. No situati… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | What the OKC study also said.I’m not telling fairytales and you make some good points in terms of generalizing. But it absolutely does happen. I’m sure these chicks blow their mind. And by well known I mean like locally renowned college athletes or highly drafted high school baseball prospects, not LeBron James. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | What the OKC study also said.Bad phrasing, I don’t bang unattractive women, but I do bang chicks that are below my value. Women who are average or even above just for fun. I actually am not doing this now, I have a pretty attractive girlfriend of sorts at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:15 PM |
| 2 | What the OKC study also said.I mean yeah, you are absolutely correct, but the average guys are still fucking genuinely ugly women, and that wasn’t nearly as much the case in the past. I think it definitely weighs on young men mentally to understand they are mating with females of respectively lower value than them, while watching high value men pass around the women that they objectively should be in contention for. That’s the downside of all of this. Truly ugly dudes weren’t really winning much at any point, I wasn’t reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 09:13 PM |
| 3 | What the OKC study also said.One, they are not terrified of pump and dumps. You are right in that most of them may be averse to it publicly, but women aren’t THAT controlled by social norms, they are sexual beings and want to have sex with as best a mate as possible. OLD has opened this up them in multiples compared to past decades. Two, isn’t my experience the point? That unattractive women are now opting for casual sex with “chad” more than they are a more formal relationship, or more casual sex, than the “average chump” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 05:01 PM |
| 3 | What the OKC study also said.lol ok then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 04:41 PM |
| 8 | What the OKC study also said.I am an attractive male. I have “pumped and dumped” women less attractive than me many a time through these apps. They request we keep it casual just as often as I do. You really don’t know what you’re talking about. I know fat girls who take pride in being the side chicks to well known athletes. They don’t really want to put it out there due to long standing social norms, but this is 2019, women are into casual sex now more than ever. OLD makes it where women of all aesthetics can have attracti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 04:24 PM |
| 7 | What the OKC study also said.I’m not a hard RP truther, but this portion of the theory is 100% true. I know average to ugly chicks who have celebrities in their DM’s trying to get them to come to their hotel, simply because these girls put it out there that they are sexually available. They take no initiative whatsoever either, they can just sit and wait for a “menu” to form, I’m serious. OLD has made it where these less attractive women can either sleep with men well above their pay grade, or just not partake in the sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Friends don't like growth?Yeah your friends are just shitty and shortsighted. Mine usually acknowledge various progress I make in the joking shit they give me and vice versa. They see me get with a hot chick and it’s “good job man, you probably killed it until she saw your tiny peen” or if I’ve gotten noticeably bigger it’s something like “damn bruh, lemme get some of that Tren you’re working with”. You want friends that see you as a benefactor to their value and vice versa. Might sound conditional, because it is, but it… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | My boss came in clutch todayWell that makes me sound like an asshole. But do act like you’ve been there before. And keep things close to the vest. You will never really benefit from telling people who you are or are trying to bang. And if you do go on to have sex with a bunch of women, you will understand my point of view. It becomes less and less special over time and eventually you’ll find yourself trying to figure out excuses to get a genuinely attractive woman out of your apartment ASAP after sex, or entirely disregard… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 09:40 PM |
| 3 | My boss came in clutch todayI’m only 24 but I remember doing shit like this with my friends in highschool. MAYBE as a drunk freshmen in college or something but then I probably regretted it afterwards. If you are older than 18 and regularly fuck, you aren’t slapping a chicks number down on a table in front of your coworkers lol. I thought this sub was better than this. Comment section reeks of NoFap pat-on-the-back “good job man!”. OP did something every single man should be doing on a weekly basis and then acted like his … | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Why is it that abuse victims tend to be really good at shit tests and maintaining frame?My grandfather was this way. My generally unaware family even characterized him as a sigma. He began poor and gradually amassed some wealth through continuous hard work, never really a “big break” of any significance. The lifelong grind made him staunch in his values and what various things meant to him, many of them “alpha” and some of them not. Your conclusions on life may be right or wrong (all subjective), but it seems to me that the longer you’re in the belly of any given beast, the less qu… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution was a failed experimentI mean it’s the same as anything else in life. You can certainly gain relative ground in anything, and sexual market value is absolutely one of those things. For many, there is a disconnect between genuine self evaluation and frustration in mating. People take the mindset that they “deserve” a mate that falls close to or within their preferences before they contemplate whether or not they themselves succeed in fulfilling their preferred category of mate’s general preferences as well. You’re also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 12:12 AM |
| 5 | The sexual revolution was a failed experimentYou are correct and your point stems from the increased connectivity brought on by social media. Hot chick Susie is no longer limited to the best looking guy on her block and Chad is now able to pick and choose from a much larger pool of women. Whether you view this as a revolution that is hurting society, or simply an increase in the level of sexual competition is dependent on where you stand in the hierarchy and your general outlook. On one hand, the results that OP brings up certainly have me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?I am not a woman but I will give my input. Men have always been the aggressor between the two sexes, both in the mating game and in life, our hormonal makeup dictates it as so. Men approaching is ultimately a form of value confirmation. Men who are already tabbed as valuable enough prior to any sort of interaction with a respective female have to do a lot less in terms of approaching and "winning" the female. Have you ever had a whale approach you and make flirty comments or anything like that? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 02:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux.High value young men inherently can’t be beta orbiters otherwise they wouldn’t be of high value? I interpreted that statement as average/beat chicks hiding their older dudes from the neckbeards who pay them too much attention. Thanks but I’m fine with staying out of that entire equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 07:15 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux.Yes, those who weren’t just plain unattractive/overweight are generally deviant in some way. Seen it happen with a couple of tatted/over-pierced chicks. Girl in high school who wasn’t absolutely heinous “started” dating a guy in his early 30’s after graduating. You would think it was strange if you didn’t know her father taught her mother in high school when he was in his late 30’s. You’re right in that unless everyone is outright jealous of the chick for dating this older guy (fame, money, incr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 06:42 PM |
| 9 | CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux.See, that’s a realistic take that I really appreciate. I really do see instances like yours a lot. Older men want that youth glow, tight body, etc. and average or below average young chicks of course aren’t as picky and may want that excitement of being a little deviant. I just see on the TRP sub posts and comments that start like “divorced 44 year old, been spinning a couple plates, 25 year old submissive 8.5, the other is 22 and an 8, maybe 8.5 but has some red flags...” and I’m just sitting h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 05:21 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux.TRP took the actually true stories of the few wealthy older RP men likely in the top 5% aesthetic (example: wealthy young looking doctor who’s been blasting a cruising) and preached it as if the majority of these divorced dads working 9-5 can easily bang some hot sorority chicks with a fresh frame and a few months of getting in decent shape. I’m young, high SMV, work a lucrative/highly sought job, have mixed it up with a decent amount of beautiful young women throughout my youth, and am regularl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 05:11 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux.There are a lot more attractive young men than there are old. From there, when you line up similarly attractive young men to similarly attractive older men, young women are going to pick the young men. After that, I would venture to say that many women will pick slightly less attractive young men over older, slightly more attractive men to avoid the stigma. Do you not see what I’m saying? It’s not that those older men who succeed with hot young women don’t exist, as they do, I just know for an a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 11 | CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux.Genuinely attractive young women are approached all the time, every day by men both young and old. Of those men, they are receptive of the attractive ones near or in their age group first and in overwhelming majority, the attractive older ones second as a very small minority, unattractive young ones third and nearly never, and unattractive old ones last while threatening to call the police. As I said, being older and banging genuinely attractive women in their early 20’s requires either fame, si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 04:35 PM |
| 22 | CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux.I’m in my early-mid 20’s and believe in a fair amount of RP concepts. I’m fortunate in that my SMV likely started higher than most who find and use some of it for improvement. Just wanted to say that while I’m definitely bias given my age, I certainly lean more towards agreeing with you than I do these guys in here. Women 100% want to mate with high value men in their age range. The TRP concept that men in their mid 30’s are most attractive is a mechanism towards making all the divorced/reformed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Is it really a case of "if you don't respect yourself then why should I respect you?"“don’t know a thing about you” I’m sorry man but they do know a thing about you that trumps all other things they may eventually know, your obesity. Intimacy and emotions are real, but as it stands you will never experience them outside the framework of being fat. Your weight and appearance will dictate and alter your interactions with anyone and everyone, from family to complete strangers. Physical appearance is the first thing, the opener, towards being successful socially and sexually. You’re… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 03:04 PM |
| 2 | My LTR is great, but miss the game?I don’t know how old you are, but I’m in my early-mid 20’s and still in a vetting process of sorts with a incredibly attractive chick who hasn’t really come up too short in any way yet, it’s been 4 months since we’ve consistently been seeing each other and I’m still thinking it’s early early early to be making any sort of conclusions as to whether she’s my “girlfriend” or not. Maybe I’m afraid of any legitimate commitment or maybe I’m smart. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Veterans of the red pill, drop your top 3 most important pieces of adviceI’m not a “veteran” as I’m still in my early-mid twenties, I began with decent SMV/ game but RP expounded further on that/opened my eyes. Always had a feeling there was some form of deeper framework to society and TRP definitely put some of these things into perspective . I would say my three are: Trust your gut and use common sense. I see so many threads on here asking for acute advice. No situation in your life is ever going to be the same. This is not a place for one off answers, it’s a place… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 12:59 PM |
| 5 | Lean like an mma fighter or big like linebackerBe big enough to not get fucked with and lean enough to turn heads with your shirt off. Very hard without steroids, not crazy easy with. The real answer is whatever looks best on you. Genetics and build can vary so much. You have hulking NFL linemen who are handsome carrying around 310+ pounds like Taylor Lewan and then there’s Fight Club Brad Pitt at 5’10 165 or whatever. A few less pounds probably benefit your face more than a few more but uber skinny weenies struggle with women as much as fat… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Her response got me sleepless, and I didn't even try to bang. What, and why do some guys do this?Why do men and women interact and go on dates and shit? The biological answer is to have intercourse and make babies, that’s the sub conscious base of all of this. So when you meet up, you’re mindset should be to to build attraction and ensure you aren’t a serial killer. That’s it. Lacking initiative is ultimately just as unattractive as being spastically over-sexual in you’re advances. They just aren’t as forward about saying it. And to those who are claiming OP has oneitis, he probably does. B… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Yourself or Pussy? More pussy won’t make you happier, so how do you make the most of your (precious) time?It comes in waves dude. Right now, I only have one fairly casual chick that comes over once or twice a week. It works because we both have busy schedules that tend to match, she’s also pretty hot/submissive yada yada. Some weeks one time is definitely enough and sometimes I wanna bang her or other chicks most nights of the week. Earlier this summer I had several plates and was doing just that and gradually burnt out from the time and juggling. I would say the biggest key is to work on yourself, … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | How much does lifting improve SMV?Lifting boosts all aspects of SMV. You will gain mental benefits as well as the obvious physical improvements. Don’t slack on nutrition as honestly lifting doesn’t really matter if you eat like a child. Unless of course you want to say fuck it and be big/fat and strong, to each his own I guess. Lifting also doesn’t really guarantee anything. BUT it will absolutely raise the threshold of what you are realistically able to achieve with women and more. For example, put two otherwise identical men n… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 10:35 PM |
| 0 | why does everyone here try to talk like a drill Sgt?When I occasionally comment here I don’t do that because I tend to expect that if you post here you have a semblance of manhood/resolve/wherewithal/ etc. This is a forum of discussion. If you are someone who needs to be pushed super hard like that by strangers over the internet, you’re probably going to lose at whatever you’re doing anyway so why bother. It’s also rude. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Whats the best way to protect yourself against false alligations? ( Past/future)Don’t do anything in a workplace and don’t fuck with trashy and/or crazy women. Use common sense. Value women who are genuine/wholesome and don’t take the bait of those who aren’t. Not foolproof, you can still get fucked no matter what. But in most of these situations, these men still make one or more decisions, many innocuous such as turning a blind eye towards irrationality or believing her when she says it isn’t going to let it spill over into the office, that end up regrettable. Just use red… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | So basically all women care about are looks?Looks and overarching capability in life are the two essential pillars towards being attractive. But also, look around at the women you find attractive. Are all of them exactly the same? I personally don’t discriminate, some of them are short and thick, others tall and skinny. Curly/straight/short/long hair, ripped gym chicks vs. nice, soft ones, etc. It works the same for men. You should assess yourself, and work towards being the better version of you. Gaining 20 lbs of muscle and a new haircu… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Really mean females (rant)For one, I think British people tend to be a little less kind/receptive socially than other cultures and my other euro friends tend to confirm this. Obviously this is still generalizing. Second, being average is like gambling. Do hot chicks bang average dudes every long once in awhile? Yes. Do average or hell, even ugly chicks scoff at simply average dudes on a regular basis? Most definitely. If you actually are average and are not stretching that claim or are being modest and actually are attra… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | This sub is turning into a joke. On another note, my wife saw me smile today, is that beta? Should I go no contact?Did you start out as a beta cuck w her already employed or just lose frame when she eventually got the job? Either way hard next broo | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | This sub is turning into a joke. On another note, my wife saw me smile today, is that beta? Should I go no contact?Is this a serious question? Of course, some of it I’ve internalized towards great benefits in my life, some of it is absolutely fuckin’ retarded. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | This sub is turning into a joke. On another note, my wife saw me smile today, is that beta? Should I go no contact?You’re asking the question because you know what you need to do. Be a big strong man, go no contact, hire an attorney, and prepare for the divorce rape that will inevitably happen after said smile. But also don’t forget to suck the sidebar’s cock prior to doing any of this. And I mean really give it a go. If you don’t, you’re a big ole faggot. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | One it is.My main thing is TRP stresses maximizing yourself and being a strong individual, but preaches as if the entire world can be boiled down to a single set of behaviors and responses. It assumes that AWALT is actually true across every board and that the same overarching framework of sexual strategy will work for every man. I actually agree with the majority of TRP concepts but I’ve started to believe that many guys on here treat it as a holy bible rather than an online discussion community towards … | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 03:43 PM |
| 4 | One it is.You have to realize that a big reason for this sub is to get all the skinny fat betas improved to the point where they may get their pee pee touched every once in awhile. Coinciding with high SMV, I’m confident enough to rock absolutely anything. If women understand you have options no matter what, you won’t lose that attraction by texting or really anything barring a meltdown of sorts or passage of a very long time tbh. But I’m glad you posted this. I’m starting to believe that this sub is most… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 01:09 PM |
| 5 | What is your mission?IMO a “mission” is to this sub what religion is to the masses, a form of escape and a method towards giving meaning to the unknown. So to answer your question, I don’t have really one. Life is ultimately short and even the “greatest” men have been, and will be, forgotten quickly. I’ve just concluded I’d rather be comparatively good than bad at whatever dumb game we’re playing. Maybe some need more, but that does it for me. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Style and your Smv.There is a threshold with style. Dressing to the 9’s likely won’t help you too much more than dressing simple and nice. However, wearing a horrible outfit will take you off many draft boards so to speak. Wear decent clothes that match and fit well. Find the style that works best specifically for you. That’s the necessary level you need to attain in that area and anything beyond is icing, though I’m not saying that icing isn’t valuable sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Are there any late 30s guys here who are still sleeping with early 20s women?Of course some guys have experience I don’t have. But I’ve also met exponentially more older people far less intellectually capable than I than I have the inverse. It’s funny to me, it seems pretty convenient for older people to constantly spout on about experience. Sure it has value, but your age group vastly overrates it to your advantage. I’m going to come off like an asshole but I objectively (and rather easily) stand in the top 10% of men by any metric and follow the majority of TRP princip… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you blokes stay positive despite feeling like you’re not cut out to be a winner?Yeah, I view life as playing with house money essentially. If I experience good things, awesome. If I don’t, my life is ultimately just as meaningless as the billions of others that have lived, died, and are now forgotten. To be honest, I believe the only real way to never be forgotten is discovering immortality, the actual framework behind the meaning of life and death, or communicating with ET’s in a way that changes our species outlook incredibly significantly. In 50,000 years, Donald Trump w… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Are there any late 30s guys here who are still sleeping with early 20s women?Top 5% of men in their 30’s and 40’s > high value men in their 20’s > all older men not in that top 5%. Feel like a lot of older dudes really front on here about how easy it is with younger women. I’m 23, live in a large city with lots of money in it, and fuck around/socialize with a good bit of young, attractive women. Almost none of them fuck around with significantly older men and of the ones that have, the men were almost exclusively famous, attractive to the point where age was out the wind… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | How do you blokes stay positive despite feeling like you’re not cut out to be a winner?TRP is an interesting community/set of values and I’ve benefitted from it in a fair amount of ways. But personally, one of the things on here I find dumb is the whole “stick to your mission”. I’m in my early-mid 20’s, work a good career job, own a growing, successful side business, look great with my shirt off, will never struggle for money, and have decent success with genuinely attractive women. From the outside, I look like I have a definitive plan and am on my way towards success in achievin… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else always surprised by women's n-count?Yes, it’s crazy to me. Graduated college last year and was social throughout. Have friends who are girls and know girls who have moved away. During college a few of the sluttier ones run it up from 50 to 100. I now see a few of them posting new post college boyfriends who look like decent guys. I’m certain that none of them know what’s happened or the history there. It makes it scary. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How in the world do you break someones heart?I’ve learned to not have any qualms with being straightforward. I’ve straight up told a FWB “I need you to put in more effort next time” after a lifeless performance or “I don’t think it’s good for us to see each other more than two times a week” when they ask me why I won’t come over to theirs after work. I’m not trying to be mean, I’m just remaining genuine throughout. Why don’t you just straight up tell her how you feel or ask her whatever it is you need to ask her. Being overt is the more at… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Is joining a team in high school worth it now?If you want social status then it’s football baseball basketball. Football is really the only one you might be able to pick up at this point though. I played all three well and it provided me with a nice social platform. The swim team was an afterthought at my high school in terms of being socially relevant but don’t write it off if you’re looking for friends/a group more so than status. Really any team you join should give you that as long as you work hard and fit in. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 01:43 PM |
| 6 | How has becoming noticeably fit from lifting helped your game/experience with women?4x a week, two full body workouts, two push/pull splits. Depending on the day will usually follow two of them with an HIIT circuit. I go really heavy weight, low rep (think 5 sets of 3) on staple lifts and moderate weight moderate reps on iso/accessories. I would say diet is the most important aspect by a wide margin and also the most difficult for normal people to adapt to. I don’t touch carbs except once every two to three weeks I will blow it out. Most of my food is meat, eggs, and low carb v… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Condom slipped off during sex with a hooker, I'm paranoid.Good comment. If she was noticeably worried, you should feel a lot safer than you would be had she acted weird or in any other way than “fuck, does this jabroni have an STD?” | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 06:14 PM |
| 8 | Condom slipped off during sex with a hooker, I'm paranoid.Yeah if you can’t afford a 400 dollar hooker, you need to sort out why you can’t afford a 400 dollar hooker before getting a hooker at all. Not that I advise hooker’s under any circumstances. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | As somebody who commutes to uni where Greek life doesn't exist and studies comp sci, how can I have a social life and get laid?I’m saying that self improvement mitigates all of the dumb factors you are presenting. You’re making excuses, no one ever claimed we all are on a level playing field. You simply have to make yourself better, understanding that it is difficult, and understanding that opportunities will come. The most handsome/fit men in the world are approached in and pull from the grocery store. Are you unable to walk inside a grocery store as well? If you’d been hitting the gym for a year and increasingly addin… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being anxious & Become mentally strong and man up?What you don’t take, someone else will. In this situation you’re peace and quiet, good pussy, money, whatever it is. Find a situation where there isn’t at least a minimal level of dog eat dog and I’ll gladly rescind my comment but simply acknowledging this aspect of society is a notable hump for you to get over. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Service Industry & proper nutritionYou wanna know what I do when I don’t have time to eat properly? I buy a rotisserie chicken from wherever, microwave some broccoli in the morning, pick at both throughout the day until voila, I’m 170 grams of protein and 1400 cals in for the day. Hardcore dieting in general, is not easy, and when applied stringently, is at times not cheap. That being said, I focus hard on work and the only things I’m unwilling to compromise on are: nutrition sleep lifting That’s it, and it has served my body and… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | As somebody who commutes to uni where Greek life doesn't exist and studies comp sci, how can I have a social life and get laid?Dude, it doesn’t matter what situation you’re in or where you are save being isolated entirely from the outside world. If you have good SMV, you will at a minimum have a of variety sexual options that don’t entirely repulse you. How about just working towards being the most valuable man in every room you step in and see where that takes you? All of these fucking questions man. It’s not hard at all to understand why you are or are not getting laid. However, for many, it does take a good bit of wo… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How has becoming noticeably fit from lifting helped your game/experience with women?Real estate development but a lot of my company’s work involves tech and finance stuff. I work on the administrative/business side so my lack of experience wasn’t as big of an issue. The company’s resources make it where we have a bunch of varying specialists around all the time. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 04:23 PM |
| 10 | How has becoming noticeably fit from lifting helped your game/experience with women?Can attest to this. Dressed well and simply furthered the conversation in my interview process, spoke at most 25% of the time in a 3 hour interview, added some confidence/charisma here and there, and was lauded as a good new hire, no prior experience in the company’s industry. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 03:32 PM |
| 25 | How has becoming noticeably fit from lifting helped your game/experience with women?I also want to add another comment to emphasize something I see at the gym all the time. Make sure you’re physique and aesthetic work as a whole. I’m not huge, but I’m big enough and everything is cut up and in proportion. I see a bunch of dudes that go to the gym as often as I do with skinny fat or just plain fat bodies and absolute pythons for arms. Like their bi’s and tri’s are developed twice over what the rest of their body is. Another example is when a dude has a ginormous chest and absolu… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 03:22 PM |
| 12 | How has becoming noticeably fit from lifting helped your game/experience with women?Wanted to give you further aesthetic advice from your comment, don’t just write off your “indie” look because you think you pull off something else better. I’ve shown up for a drink with a new potential plate wearing my work clothes (actually a Ralph Lauren suit, took my tie off) and they complimented my nice outfit. Next time I get drinks with the same plate, I’m in black jeans, nice black t shirt, hipster black boots and the contrast definitely works(ed). But again, it goes back to how things … | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 02:55 PM |
| 9 | How has becoming noticeably fit from lifting helped your game/experience with women?If you’re looking for real advice.... Go to the gym 3-4x a week. Lift heavy weight, lower reps on the staple lifts. Lift moderate reps, moderate weight on the accessory/iso lifts. Eat at as minimum caloric surplus as you can (while still making sure you’re in a surplus), if you eat carbs make it only within an hour following a lift, get at least a 1:1 protein/lb of bw ratio, and make sure you maintain enough dietary fat for hormone/brain function. That’s as effective of a guide as I can give you… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 02:46 PM |
| 11 | How has becoming noticeably fit from lifting helped your game/experience with women?I’m also pretty handsome, but I view physique as a crucial building block in attraction/value. It doesn’t always mean you’re going to be more successful than the next man, but getting cut up with some muscle mass is absolutely an optimal starting point towards increased SMV. You’re also correct in that you can pull shit off a lot easier in a bunch of different areas. Basically it validates things as positives/interesting that might have otherwise been a negative or at least questioned. I’m curre… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 02:35 PM |
| 26 | How has becoming noticeably fit from lifting helped your game/experience with women?Over the past year I’ve transitioned from above average shape to top 2-3 percentile in terms of aesthetic/physique (call me a weenie but I essentially cut to hit the Pitt Fight Club BMI ratio at 6’2 180 at 9-10% bf, maybe slightly higher bf % than he had at his lowest). Think people saying “hey that guys in alright shape” then to “fuck I should go to the gym”. And to be honest, it has improved my game for sure but what I see most with it is the difference in gravity. I started a new job and grad… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 12:26 PM |
| 1 | 31 (f) ghosted me?Why didn’t she respond you? Maybe because she her baby daddy or even husband is at home with her child. Maybe she already has ten other, some possibly superior, dicks pointing at her from instances like yours. Maybe because she realized how trashy it is to be in a club with a baby at home. Maybe because she enjoys leading on young men for the attention because it makes her feel young and hot again. Any rational man who has been with his fair share of women can infer that these, and a variety of … | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think you guys fully understand betas, things have been unwillingly wired into our brains.Bro, my parents consistently ask me to find a nice girl and I’m 23. My values and beliefs are quite different from their’s and even by the time I was 15 I understood we were not going to always connect on things. My family is fairly well off so this mitigates a lot of the issues others may have. I had an iPhone in my had by the time I was 14 so the world wasn’t limited to their “teachings”. I still find myself improving in aspects that might have been a result of their parenting. They were lovel… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Anyone dated older women red pilled?I’m 23 and tend to stick to my age group but have occasionally dabbled in casual things with older women. I’m straightforward and fairly masculine. If they test me, I start to have a better understanding of why they are attractive, older, and single and they get thrown to the wayside. If they don’t, they understand the dynamic they are working with and it can be a good time. I’d also say generally that if an older chick wants to more formally date/do more serious things with you as a young man, … | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Is there anything as strict and structured as the military for those who didn't get to serve?The military does provide discipline. It also teaches you to be a follower and absolutely never question those in authority. The discipline you want to have ultimately comes from within. Think of what you want your life’s values to be and strictly adhere to them. Set goals and checkpoints towards achieving them. Stick to what you tell yourself you are going to do and what you want to happen. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | 31 (f) ghosted me?She has a child and is in the club approaching a younger man. I don’t know what else I have to comment for you to see the picture. Do I have to lay out the story of how she’s had endless dick? Do I need to tell you there are reasons she is single in the eye of being a parent, the absolute biggest reason that keeps people from not being single. You even felt the need to ask what you should do regarding this situation, which is indicative of issues on your end. How and why is this important to you… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Next or not?Escalate next time you have the opportunity. If she takes to it, great, you have a hot new plate. If she doesn’t, delete, move forward and thrive. Or just go ahead and do that since you may have already removed yourself from the running. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:09 PM |
| 4 | In desperate need of tips on how to develop masculine energyLift heavier weights, continuously improve your social life and the quality of the women you have sex with. Masculinity and frame isn’t something that’s entirely learned from reading. How do you think it feels to bench twice as much as the dudes around you at the gym? Or to have sex with the hottest chick you’ve had to date? You think your BDE is stronger or weaker after those instances? Improve every day and compound all of your improvements over time. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Next or not?Bro, if she’s not fucking you then she either is just committed to her boyfriend and is throwing you around for fun or you’re just a pussy who won’t take what’s available to you. It’s one of the two and the situation seemingly is boiled down to those two options. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | 31 (f) ghosted me?I have personal values. One of them is I will never get involved in anyway with a woman who has had children by another man. You and others may disagree, but I find it unnatural and as if I’m being indirectly cucked. You don’t think you can find mature women in their mid to late twenties who haven’t given birth or have similar overt red flags? I’m 23 and I recently had sex with a fucking hot 18 year old who is about to graduate high school. Prior to that, I had a fling with a 28 year old woman i… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Brother in relationship with red flagSaw “single mom” and “strip club” in post, immediately wrote off male in question as ugly, dumb, or both. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | 31 (f) ghosted me?I feel so good about myself when I come to this sub and see all the questions posed about single moms. Am I in the minority who is able to keep it to young attractive women who don’t have children, STD’s, tramp stamps, 200 annual hours at the club, etc? It’s beginning to seem that way. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 04:49 PM |
| 4 | Would you dump your fiancé if she was putting on weight before the wedding?As in she gained 5-10 lbs after having to work a lot and can’t exercise for a period? No. As in she gained 15-20 and counting because you come home to find her still in pajamas with a tub of ice cream every other night? Absolutely. As with 99% of the questions posted to this sub, your question boils down to basic common sense. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | IAMA 8-8.5 man who's completely clueless on how to "apply" Game theory. Help me?First, drop the mom. Women who are young, single, but with children are never, and I really mean never, a good option. I’ve banged hot divorced women in their early 40’s who have children and I’m 24. But I will never become involved with a breeding aged woman who has already produced offspring with another man. Second is to improve yourself further (double down on your strengths) and to run trials in order to figure out what works for you. I essentially say and do the same things to every new ch… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 04:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you forget an experience?Improve yourself to the point where you’re not asking questions on this sub regarding a 5/10. That is really the only answer. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Got phone number. Now how do I propose a date or a night out together?This is a very good comment. I live in a very social house with 2 roommates. We all work decent jobs though so weekends are usually for hanging/going out/activities/relaxation. I use Thursday’s as a screening day, and if they pass or fuck that evening, they might get a weekend invite at some point. In fact this is exactly what I am doing tonight. Might slightly disagree on the staunch time frames though. I work early, I try to be in bed to read from 10:30 to 11:30 when I go to sleep. So I genera… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Studs and cocksmiths that get quick lays : what do you whisper into a girls ear that seals the deal/ escalates fast / soaks her panties?If it’s a seemingly more conservative female who’s showing some signs of sexual attraction, I will just escalate with some light kino and build from there. If it’s a chick who I’m certain will end up blowing me whenever I initiate it, I will be pretty straightforward, even funny, in my word choice. These chicks (and really most chicks who are actively wanting to fuck you) will usually just lob up an easy one and I’ll take the easy home run swing. I’ve hit a good bit of dingers this way. An examp… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 04:06 PM |
| 4 | First IOIs from >hb8 girls since breakupI used to have this issue. I bring enough to the table where I likely play at a similar level as you. Many times I started a fling with a genuinely attractive woman only to have her end it after a couple months because I essentially became as lovey-dovey towards her as she did to me. The sidebar is what you need, although I’ve never reread/used it as a bible. A more general approach that likely would benefit you greatly is resisting the urge to give more than a fuck or two. Just as women can sen… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardYou’re overcomplicating it a little bit. Take away the trophy/relationship/commitment/etc. and replace them with a simpler word in value. If a 5 woman fucks a 8.5 man, she’s then had that experience. How do you think she responds to all of the average ass 5.5 men that hit her up after that? They’re still ahead of her in technical value, but the sexual marketplace dynamic makes it where those men now don’t make the cut, at least until she’s had a long period of being unsuccessful with men of high… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:03 PM |
| 9 | Plate just threatened to kill me and herself..Not to be an asshole, but your post comes off as if you’ve never messed around with hot/classy women who aren’t used to being pumped and dumped. I have good SMV and it shows in some of the women I fuck with. But I’m also not a celebrity or multimillionaire. At times I do have to dangle the carrot in order to fully juice the lemon if you get what I’m saying. If I am capable of having sex with a high value woman, but only under the conditions that I not imply they’re simply a sex object to me, why… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder worth it?I’m in the same boat in that I value my lifting, nutrition, hygiene, sleep, work, education, and hobbies to the point where I’m not going to be out at a bar or club chasing women every weekend. It’s also cutting time for summer and I generally don’t touch alcohol for a few months minimum because of this. I use bumble and tinder to decent success in that it’s often no strings attached and I don’t have to devote a huge amount of time to get laid off them. What others have said is true however, the… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:43 PM |
| 5 | How do I get rid of my feminine energy?You need some feminine energy to balance your masculinity. Sure a hairy, roided out caveman can fuck but is that actually optimal in today’s society? I’m tan, wear earrings and black skinny jeans on occasion, and take pride in my hygiene and aesthetic routine. Prominent hobbies include singing, dancing, painting, etc. But I also can bench press 100+lbs over my body weight, played high level college baseball, and am very comfortable being dominant in the bedroom. Those masculine traits have certa… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardYou forget that a female in the 40th percentile can theoretically mate with an 80th percentile male. A male in the 40% is likely invisible to females at 50% and above. Half of the women you’re referencing have played way above their value before. The amount of work it takes for them to have quality sex is more significant than it is for more attractive women, but still far less than the work it takes for the average male. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Did any of you found the "unicorn" yet? Question about wifing my ltrI mean you have to give up to get right? She sounds like a good option if you are interested in getting married and having children. In a perfect world I would not ever do this, but eventually procreating under good circumstances is important to me so I will likely have to take the plunge eventually. RP theory should be the secondary set of values you draw from. The first should be how you feel and what you ultimately want in life. This is often forgotten on this sub because so many come here wi… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to game 5's than none?I didn’t miss that point at all. You seem to think you’re contradicting me and you’re not. We were arguing over banging attractive women. Both you and I agree that it takes aesthetic and status to bang hot women. Attractive women have standards, and if you meet them, you’re playing the game. If you don’t, you’re out from the very start. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to game 5's than none?You’re points all have some truth to them but you really are putting the cart before the horse. Looks and the status that comes with it open the door for you to consistently game hot women. Game isn’t what gets you in the door, it’s the catalyst towards sealing the deal. You do have to meet the standards of each respective woman before she will begin to think of you as a sexual being. I’d much rather be a social dummy and a walking god than a 5’5 potbellied dude who can spit with the best of the… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to game 5's than none?Definitely dependent on how you carry it. If you’re handsome and fit, it should not be an issue at all. You won’t really get the benefit of being considered a tall guy, I’m 6’2 and I sort of ride that line. I’d really say 5’11 is neither a big gain or loss, really dependent on other factors. It’s technically above average so there is that. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to game 5's than none?I still wouldn’t say so though. My value is good, I have banged 8’s and even a couple of 9’s before and dated an 8.5 for a year prior to finding the sub. You have to realize that the more attractive a woman is, the more likely that she’s been fucked or involved with even higher SMV men. Some of the 8’s I’ve approached I’ve had success with because of my value, game, etc and because I was the one of the better options available to her at the time. With others, I’m shot down immediately because th… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 02:07 PM |
| 0 | Is it better to game 5's than none?Of course, environment plays a big role in this too. If a 7 is the only woman in her social circle,office, etc. that isn’t beat, you can bet she thinks she’s the shit. Flip side is that if they’re around more attractive women consistently, they feel insecure and it becomes easier because they want in on the action. My main point is that 8+’s are not easier to game if you include the minimum threshold to be noticed by them. I have ugly friends who have great game, better than mine in some cases. … | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:58 PM |
| 11 | Is it better to game 5's than none?Ok this ain’t it. Do you actually believe on average it’s easier to bang 8’s than 5 and 6’s? 5’s and 6’s don’t immediately rule out 90% of men in terms of possible sexual partners. I don’t really fuck with them anymore but the only time I ever am shit tested by these average hoes is when they’re super wary of being pumped and dumped, and if they bring it up I’m usually fairly straightforward about it anyway. If you don’t meet an 8’s minimum threshold of value and aesthetic, you will be written o… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Having a lot of girls cannot apply to everyoneSome things that are wrong with your post: -No matter what country or culture you live in, the top 10% of men have a variety of options. Do you think you’d be in trouble if you were shredded with a sports car? Obviously not. It’s not their religion that makes them not fuck you. It’s you aren’t good enough to have them contradict their religious values by fucking you. -How the hell are you screwed over by dropping a chick that wasn’t meeting your needs? Are you dependent on women for your own sel… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 07:29 PM |
| 2 | How to study?Notes aren’t meant to be read through after writing. They’re best remembered as you write them down. I can read a paragraph 10x over. I can rewrite that paragraph 5x over. In which case do you think I’ll remember it best? Easily the writing. I have a photographic memory of sorts though, you may be different. I have a hard time remembering things I only read but I can vividly recall a shit ton of mental imaging of me writing whatever it is down. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How to study?I’m in a tough MBA program currently. Re-read your class lectures/slides and take extensive notes. Repeat. Answer sample questions/homework you are provided in order to apply the knowledge you are taking in via notes. I just set the curve on a financial statement analysis exam. Outside of keeping up with material in class, the way I studied was in the 3 days leading up to the test, I re-took all of my class notes every day and at the end of each selected a pool of sample questions to answer. By … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you show interest in a girl?Depends on the chick. AWALT applies to a lot of things but approach can be a tricky one. For example, I’ve banged a tatted up minx of a woman who previously dated a pro athlete a good bit older than I. I walked up to her while out and commented rather straightforward on the way she looked in her pants. Not too much later we were going at it on my patio. I’ve also had a fling with a beautiful churchy chick who likes hiking and stuff like that. I don’t think I would’ve closed had I approached with… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Help me? I'm sick of this and ready to get mine.From your story it seems like you commit to women easily. You know all the movies where men spends time and energy winning a woman’s commitment? Make women do that for you. It’s nothing crazy, it’s simply valuing yourself and your emotional and financial investments as much as you should be. But lift, eat right, have fun with different women, basically live life to the fullest and max yourself. Through this you will eventually find a better idea of what you want in life as you move towards middl… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:44 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubIf a woman indicates to me that she regularly visits clubs, she takes herself out of the running for anything but casual plate status. Hell I have a good amount of success at clubs the times I do go and I still stay away because I don’t like trashy women or having to worry even more so about STD’s . Honestly I don’t think chicks with boyfriends will go out of their way any more than with other places to cheat on (as in fuck someone) their boyfriends from the club, but do you know the amount of t… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Core exercises?I do isolated ab exercises maybe once every two weeks and have a vascular 6 pack. It’s 99% dependent on b/f percentage. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Bad results from only “texting for logistics”Find the line between staying mysterious and not being retarded. Some guys can’t get away with “Drinks at ______on Thursday evening?” and that being the only text you send prior to meeting in person. I generally keep up a small amount of communication, like snapchatting a little after work or something, but never really give much away, the excitement is still there when we meet up. The women I fuck with are usually pretty attractive. I have decent SMV, but they also have natural abundance meanin… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:45 PM |
| 7 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?I understand this very well. I matched on bumble with a chick in my city that has a decent following on Instagram. She was actually very proactive in talking/arranging a date but that quickly fizzled when I was unwilling to drive 45 minutes to pick her up, drive back those 45 minutes to a nice restaurant within a mile of my place, pay for all food and drinks rather than split it, and then drive those 45 back again to drop her off at home. Just for clarification, I’m 23 and she’s 24, I’m not some… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?I mean of course, we all do. I live in a large southeastern city so attractive women are not hard to come by. They still act accordingly to their status within their office, friend group, sorority, other grouping though. Hypergamy is very real in my city but on the flip side there is a lot of volume, so many in the 6-8 range see all the Instagram chicks, etc. around and don’t get up on too high of a horse the way they probably do in your area. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 03:15 PM |
| 6 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?Of course. Women value themselves comparatively. I’ve laid an 8 with little more than an introduction and a 10 minute conversation because I have the value to do so and because she was amongst a group of even hotter women who grabbed more attention. I’ve also been shit tested into oblivion by a soft 6.5 who was the only sub 40 female in the immediate area that hadn’t been beat with an ugly stick. Their behavior goes with the wind. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 03:04 PM |
| 22 | How rare is alpha behaviour these days?Have you seen any popular rom com movies? All these movie star alphas exhibit incredibly beta behavior (fighting for a woman’s affection, seeing her as “the one”, etc.). Beta behavior is ingrained in our culture. Hell, the first girl advice your mom probably gave you involved being super nice/friendly, and taking girls out to nice dinners on your dime. “Alpha” behavior is a tricky line now though. Of course you can act entirely in ways that we on this sub consider alpha and it work, as it regula… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | What's the fastest way you have ever lost weight?I approached my comment under the assumption that anyone with any knowledge of physical fitness/nutrition knows that you need fairly strict nutrition and moderate, compounded results over a decent period of consistency. I also didn’t take it personally, but strict adherence to a well planned, legitimate diet is ultimately optimal. You hear so many people nowadays talk about not tackling it full on for mental well being (eating healthy but still eating a cookie or two a day as a treat is an examp… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 01:26 AM |
| 2 | What's the fastest way you have ever lost weight?Whatever guy, maybe just have some legitimate discipline coupled with knowledge of nutrition? I can fast for days, I can also double my maintenance every day. Why? Because food is a means to an end for me, not something I focus on enjoying. Once you’ve transitioned to a eat to live mindset, blanket statements like the one you’ve made can rightly be thrown in the trash. I can change my entire aesthetic in the span of about 4 months through dieting and have so several times over. It’s funny to me … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 09:02 PM |
| 4 | is it better to train each muscle once or twice per week?Deadlift and Squat should probably only be done twice a week, both times heavy. Anything else you can do as long as you have at least one rest day in you. I recover well and I workout my chest 3-4 times a week and to good results. Honestly I don’t think two is even enough but I’ve been lifting multiple times a week for about 7 years now and I’m only 23. If you really want to just keep it to two per week per muscle group, workout in splits and absolutely murder 2 or 3 different muscles per workou… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Noticing how seem all western women under 35 seem have tattoo these days?I mean tats can be hot but also do you not think there is a correlation between having tats and being a whore? Not all tatted women are sluts, but if a woman has tattoos she is more likely to have been dicked around more than the average woman I’d say. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Concerned about Bloodwork and Low-T at 20You will simply have to use injectables if you want the testosterone levels and physique you want. Your base line is quite low and lifestyle changes and heavy lifting aren’t going to raise it all the way to a level I would personally find acceptable. I’m sorry if this makes you upset but it is simply the way the wind blows, you pulled a shorter stick in the draw. Good thing is that testosterone is cheap and easy to buy off the internet. I wouldn’t go through a doctor because they will likely jus… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 09:02 PM |
| 4 | I work full time and generally lead a busy life with variety. Yet spinning plates just doesn't do it for me, I can't stop craving a LTR and it's fucking with my head. What do?I’m sort of similar, I’m a lot more open to an LTR than most on this community but can’t seem to ever find the right combination in a chick to where I’m actually in on it. I’ll bang super hot chicks that I gradually learn are absolute bimbos/insert other notable issues that indicate that I would never consider providing them with my dna. Then there are super interesting or ambitious women who don’t quite make the cut in terms of looks to keep me from not wanting to bang the more attractive women… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 03:23 PM |
| 10 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?Yes, exactly. I have pretty high SMV (young, tall, white, affluent, collegiate athlete, lifting for years now, in MBA school with a side business/highly valued part time job). I’ve banged 8.5’s before with ease because they weren’t big on social media or hadn’t ever experienced someone with my value. Think small town chicks or bible thumpers I’ve maneuvered into. I’ve also been immediately shut down by 7’s because they were either already fucking or had fucked dudes of similar or even higher SMV… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:33 PM |
| 3 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?This is very true. While it is very difficult or impossible for some to truly reach into elite territory, it doesn’t take an incredible amount to reach the threshold of “able to fuck” with all of the dudes I see walking around every day. A new wardrobe, a few months of lifting, and some shifts in attitude can push many towards that 80% mark. There are those that naturally fall into that top 20% range, there is a similar minority that are fucked regardless, and then there are a shit ton of men wh… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:23 PM |
| 21 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?Social media and related technologies have just exacerbated and publicly outed what has always really been. Prior to all of this, women still wanted the top 20%, it was just on a smaller scale, meaning the top 20% in their respective neighborhood, college, etc. Now, Instagram and digital media in general allows women and men to see what the top percent of men/women look and live like from around the world. The dime piece from down the street is no longer limited to the best looking guy on the bl… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Plate of 1.5 years said she was going to kill herself if I left her.Do you want to keep her around? If yes, then do it. Do you no longer want to maintain your relationship with her? If yes, then end it. I get that it doesn’t seem that simple but not only is it that simple, it makes a decision that much easier. But more specific advice, which you seem to want, I’d end it and cover your tracks the way you already have begun doing. That’s what sucks about crazy chicks. They’re often hot and fun, but accounting for increased liabilities is certainly necessary. Anyon… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with loss of 10 year LTROnce your frame, attraction, and power is taken in a relationship, it is highly likely you will never firmly grasp it again. You had no chance to begin with, but the only sliver was telling her “alright, have fun”, banging other women, living life to the fullest, and maybe she comes crawling back eventually. Not that I would personally take her back after she expresses she wants a break. Another note is that I’ve noticed over time that women will encourage you to spend money over not spending mo… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 04:46 PM |
| 3 | What motivates you to improve yourself?I started more red and with a higher SMV than many who come here (already tall, white, affluent, regularly lifted, college athlete, faired decent with chicks, interesting hobbies, etc.). So without coming into excessive money, doing roids, or other notable events occurring that can’t really be accounted for, I didn’t really have the opportunity for incredibly fast tracked improvement the way many on this sub have and do. But even still, I’ve put my nose down and worked hard across many aspects i… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 07:44 PM |
| 4 | new plate hits me with "the gap between us is huge" crapI tend to be willing to let girls cheat with me initially, but I’m not too big on actively sharing or being the other guy, especially if the others they’re fucking with or dating are well below me in SMV. You have to think about STD’s, trying to pass off a pregnancy as yours, them being dishonest with the other dude and him slashing your tires or some shit, etc. She is a cheating hoe tho so she’s recused herself from any position beyond play thing. Really depends on your SMV and current situatio… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 07:49 PM |
| 7 | “You walk arrogantly”“You don’t need to be putting so much stress on your body lifting all of those weights, you’re going to end up crippled.” “Why don’t you find a nice girl I can meet?” “You’re diet hasn’t been researched enough, eat this chocolate banana bread I baked for you, it’s definitely healthy.” “I don’t understand all of you young people and casual dating, isn’t that taxing emotionally? When are my grandchildren coming?” It’s because they ultimately want their son’s to be Chad, but without all of the nega… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Girls are using my dick.You know that “talking” portion people refer to as the time leading up to actually dating? I basically have that with 2 or 3 chicks a good bit of the time and it’s sort of settled as my MO. I vet them enough to know they aren’t huge whores nor someone whose sole value to me is the hole between their legs. Not dating but also not just the “come/fuck/leave” combo. . For example I brought a plate of a month along to a beer tasting last night. Got a little tipsy, nice conversations, really nice fuck… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in low SMV/status. How to get out of it?You’re doing the right things, it’s just that “getting there” with chicks takes different amounts of time for different people. Imagine you’re 27, matured, been lifting for 5 plus years, and now have a job better than most in your age range. I’m certain you will have a different experience than the one you are having if you reach some of these goals. Also, excuse if me if I’m being rude, but generally speaking Asian men have a harder time amongst white and other non Asian women. One of my best b… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Why i randomly start to feel like i cant force myself to learn more?I don’t eat any sugar outside of one refeed every two weeks. I’m in grad school and I’ve noticed the combo of low carb/coffee/nicotine/adderall (my vice) let’s me study hard for 3-4 hour segments, really absorbing information. Classmates study from sun up to sun down in the days leading up to exams and I do this in the afternoons 2 to 3x leading up to test and still generally place in the top 20% consistently. Of course this is not an isolated case and very many other variables come into play. I… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Guys who consistently spin plates...This is a good comment. I do go out but only really when the occasion arises with friends, I’ll game girls when out but am perfectly content with my success rate with every day life and OLD. Another spot where RP theory contradicts itself IMO. I’m supposed to go out and game constantly while also lifting heavy 4x a week, maintaining hobbies/hygiene/work, eating right, and getting a full 8 hours in every night? I love having the big night out once every couple of weeks but nah, this guy gets it. … | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Some help to achieve my gym goals would be appreciated.Lift heavy weights at lower reps on you’re staple lifts (bench, squat, deadlift) and slightly more reps, slightly less weight on your iso and secondary lifts (curls, skull crushers, flies, calf raises, trap work etc.) I don’t really ever run an established protocol as I’ve been lifting for sports for years now, I just focus on progressive overload particularly on bulks and strength and size maintenance on cuts. I workout my entire body and it works well for me. Eat as much protein as you can squ… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 11:48 PM |
| 2 | In my country there isn't much scenario for cold approach. All i can game is girls from my college or work. How do i go with that?Good comment. Very good comment. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Major discrepancy between side bar and what people ask/advise.This is a good comment. No one should actually swallow the pill and proceed to follow every single rule or piece of advice on the sidebar to its most absolute. We forget over the internet how we all come in incredibly different shapes and sizes and from just as different cultural/economic backgrounds. Not everything that works for someone will work for others. Your comment and the toolbox comparison are my personal favorite ways of interpreting TRP’s true function. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Got kicked out of the club for "harassment"I mean sure, it may have been a very isolated incident, but my point is that I prefer to just up the amount of IOI’s I get instead of approaching many women who don’t expect it, not that I still don’t do that a fair amount. The social climate today, which may only get worse, has increased the amount of liability that comes with approaching and getting after women. Had a buddy, of good social capability, get thrown out of a birthday outing simply because he told a chick her shirt was bland or som… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Got kicked out of the club for "harassment"I don’t know what your SMV is OP and I understand you weren’t approaching (doesn’t matter though, if you socially initiate out at bars, to then it’s approaching), but I’ve said it before. Extensively gaming/approaching chicks before knowing that they have a base level attraction towards you (think being Brad Pitt, increasing your SMV and respective pussy threshold, etc.) is assuredly increasing your liabilities. Don’t be a hermit of course and you can still approach with relatively low risks in … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Slut ShamingI don’t like true sluts but I also don’t like virgin angels. I’m big on that middle line of a chick who knows how to get fucked but isn’t a tatted club skank or on the flip side a churchy “hold my flower over your head” type of chick either. Feel like slut shaming is subjective. I generally run a couple of decent/classy plates at time (and will always look for more) so even when the overt opportunity arises, I still am not gonna bang the chick who has clearly been run through by the village. I w… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Should I fuck girls that I'm not that attracted to?You make some good points and I ride the line on both sort of curves you talk about. I have banged 8-9’s before, dated a very strong 8 if not an 8.5 pre TRP for a year as well. But a lot of factors come into play when you’re talking about staying in that range consistently. Physically, I’m probably sitting around the 8-12% percentile of men. However, I’m 23 and in a decent grad school, but not independently wealthy nor famous. Non-famous guys my age that look like me or better with a hefty trust… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Should I fuck girls that I'm not that attracted to?I have a similar issue but the chicks are likely of higher quality than in your situation. When I’m on my game, I can lay strong 8’s and have done so a good bit before but it’s not a constant occurrence or anything. I don’t have too much trouble with 7’s and that’s the area where I generally like to stick to. But I constantly debate myself with how easy it is to bang 5 and 6’s, who are very readily available to me at almost all times irl and on dating apps. I’ve had the 8’s before, I can put a l… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 06:00 PM |
| 3 | I see happy couples everywhereI woke up to this a little bit ago. I didn’t go out last night, as I wanted to lift early and have fun tonight. But a chick I met at a bar a couple months ago, one who’s had the same boyfriend for a few years now, snapped me at 1am begging me to come meet her out. I said no and she replied with “well can I just come over”. I want you to keep in mind, they are all over each other’s Instagrams, and from the outside looking in, are by all means a “happy couple”. Sure, it’s definitely possible for y… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Need help dealing with my fear of womenThere’s no real response to your post other than you need to radically enact some discipline and learn to understand the true masculine/feminine dynamic between men and women. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | If she doesn't find you physically attractive ?You’re correct in that scale/interpretation/distribution is huge in evaluating but you’re also not putting enough weight into the fact that really only the top 20% of men get a significant amount of play/ overt interest from women. Technically speaking, you are also right in that what is it, like 60% of American males are at least marginally overweight? So most men are at or below average. From this, wouldn’t you say you are at least a 5 or over by not being overweight/lifting once or twice a we… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 10:14 PM |
| 6 | If she doesn't find you physically attractive ?You’re right and wrong at the same time. I won’t pull up all of the statistics but nowadays you are a 5 if you aren’t obese and take care of your skin some. All the guys that claim a 7 are the guys who beat that threshold but don’t standout much in terms of looks or physique (many are still stretching of course). Remember, a much smaller portion of men are significantly sexually active than women. 5 women can have sex at any point in time they feel like and 5 men are likely struggling without ki… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Turning down drunk womenThere are of course definite factors to consider and navigate with drunk chicks but I disagree on the femininity/grabbing of dick angle. Of course I often do, but it’s not a necessity for me to impose an overtly masculine frame onto chicks to feel like the man. Are you saying it’s unattractive for a chick to drop to her knees and suck your dick unless you tell her to? Technically she’s taking charge in this situation, similar to the way you described, but I don’t think there is much of a questio… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Blanket Principles and GenuityYou are making good points and I agree with all. It is still beneficial to follow uniformly than to remain blue pilled. Guess my main point is to emphasize to those who are struggling that it is ultimately more beneficial to learn and internalize for yourself rather than to start blindly vomiting newfound TRP concepts into your everyday life. “Consistently working towards a more alpha version of you > trying to be Chad tomorrow” | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Blanket Principles and GenuityI mean this is exactly what I’m saying. Guys who are lost exhibit the autistic behavior we’re both speaking of because they either have no idea what they are doing or would rather lose themselves to a new person rather than build from the one they already are. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to work in a club as bartenderI mean I get the stance but at the same time it doesn’t really matter. If a female is attractive, she will have men regularly propositioning her regardless of the forum. She has the opportunity to cheat already whether she is bartending or not. I mean yeah, there is a chance that the added opportunities of bartending will tip the scale but I’d like to think she either will or she won’t, and that is derived from your frame and established power in the relationship, and her background. I’ve dated … | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 07:33 PM |
| 6 | How should i react if the new girlfriend of my friend hitting on me?If you want to bang her, do it after they inevitably break up, preferably with a little bit of a cool down period. A friends girlfriend, who was very attractive, made a soft pass at me at a party early on in college. Told him, he didn't believe me but also wasn't mad at me or anything which leads me to believe he may have thought there was some truth to it. They break up a few months later. Few years down the line and just after graduating, I run into her at Home Depot. Banged her later that nig… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Redpilling friends?No they haven't as they aren't aware of TRP specifically. But the point you bring up is funny. It's actually the inverse. We all have to reign in the expression of our values a little when we are talking or interacting with women/social guests etc. Of course we don't act beta and are generally masculine, but if we have girls over or something we won't just come out and say "hey y'all are essentially over here to put my dick in your mouth later". But privately, we're pretty much all truly on the … | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Redpilling friends?Why is this always brought up when talking about talking about TRP wifh friends? Am only person here who doesn't hang out with liberal weenies? Maybe its a product of my environment, (played baseball at a large school in the southeast) but most of my friends aren't really taking issue with any TRP material if it was ever shown to them. Half the time we talk about women, social dynamics, etc. its basically RP concepts with them just having never been on the sub to know the terminology used here. … | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 07:10 AM |
| 1 | How do I sell my soul to the red pill? I’m willing to die but maybe I can give myself a year to see if things change.Go lift 3+ times a week, live in the moment but have long term goals, bang chicks to where they invest more emotion into you than you into them, and find things that sufficiently numb your existential pain. I have hobbies that are productive (I make good side money playing poker) and hobbies that do nothing but bring me short term satisfaction (video games, doodling on the guitar, etc.). Money can’t buy happiness in a vacuum but it certainly can if you know how to spend it on the things YOU love… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 07:28 PM |
| 2 | British accent in AmericaCan be a plus or a minus. If you’re good looking and charming, it will come off as a positive, a beneficial novelty. If not, a Brit accent can definitely come off as whiny/obnoxious over here. Also depends on the geography, I live in a large city in the southeast, a more conservative area than other urban centers. It will probably play less here than it would in New York or LA. But these are all generalities too, every chick is different and you’re a different man to every chick you meet. Just r… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 04:15 PM |
| 3 | How can I hold frame in this situation?Motion to use the word “frame” less on this sub so when the word is actually necessary, I continue reading instead of immediately thinking the person that used it is fresh off finishing the side bar from inside Weenie Hut Jr. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else have this thought?Agree entirely. Dated a solid 8+ for a year, maybe an 8.5 dependent on standards, who is fairly conservative and didn’t as aggressively flex her looks as much as you’d expect. She was fine as hell, submissive, and wanted my babies. Broke it off because I moved a ways away. Outside of banging for a period, I don’t really care about going much higher because if I did, the shit tests and superficiality would be almost certainly unworth it when there are slightly less but still very attractive women… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls nameYou’re crazy if you think this dude has yet to bang your fiancé. Dump her, irdc what you say, she is definitely not as important as you think and she got fucked by 6’6 kickboxing Drake because you are not 6’6 kickboxing Drake and she knows she can get away with it. Why? Maybe because you’re a pussy. You’re scared of this dude, trust me she can smell that, and somehow you’re still convincing yourself your chick hasn’t been catching the pipe from him. Between the two of you who do you think sounds… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Got falsely accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed? (Part 2)Currently in and MBA/Law program. If this slander is as public as you are indicating, you could win significant damages from Bob and possibly the organization. Someone above said to sue Sally, and even though you likely won’t win, its a good idea to your benefit, you use it to defuse the social stigma you’re experiencing. In the Bob/org. claim, a good lawyer will depose Sally and Bob to start and as long as these group chats aren’t being entirely wiped and other forms of slander/discrimination a… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to me but treat me like I’m invisible... what’s going on here? What am I missing?Bro, you’re definitely making some good points but you’re also wrong to the extent you’re taking it. I’ve also seen the dumpy dudes get good puss, but are you claiming that it’s some sort of norm and that anyone can lay 8+’s with a few good tweaks to their game and charisma? On average, women will fuck buff or ripped men over skinny fat men by a wide margin. Not a rule across the board of course, but it’s definitely indicative of the natural order. It is also a lot harder to gain significant soc… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you not give a fuck in clubs/ college bars?“Not giving a fuck”, if taken further than a shift in frame, works for some and not for others. Outcome independence is better terminology imo. Alpha Chad can “not give a fuck” (example: acting like a women is below him) and get laid off it. But acting disingenuous around women may not be the best strategy if you’re more game based than appearance. It probably will come off as an intentional gaming strategy to the good bit of women who are of decent social awareness. I lean more towards looks in… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys do it?It’s all subjective. But your main point of reference is the men she has trying and succeeding in fucking her regularly. Sometimes, a decent chick will bang me incredibly easy. I suspect it’s because the only attention she has happened to have gotten in recent weeks is from definitive betas and I stand out amongst the suitors. Other times a woman I feel I should be able to land without too much trouble will shit test me into oblivion because she just got done getting piped down by the real Chad … | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else been through a massive SMV increase for a few years due to learning about TRP and lifting but then it slows down dramatically after a while?I’m not sure if you’re lying or not about the triple digit body count at 21, but why do you even want that? Do you not ever have sex with a woman more than once? You basically can have sex with each one 2 or three times and that’s it going off of your numbers. Do you have friends or do anything outside of lifting and chasing women? You’re basically only using your evenings to fuck women if in triple digits in three years. But if that number is somehow real, I think it leans more towards unnecess… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 07:24 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys do it?This question gets asked a lot and I always use it to emphasize the gym/kitchen and wardrobe. I’ve lifted/dieted myself to strong and 10% b/f and wear nice, but more importantly well fitting clothes. A lot of this sub says game is key, and it is, but it’s really more of a near essential accessory as opposed to your base. Except in incredibly rare cases, a skinny fat weenie isn’t going to talk a 9 into his bed no matter how good his game is. My 5’6 friend is chubby and is noted for his game, not … | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to hang out with ex boyfriend soon, should I be worried?You do you guy. You’re accepting disrespect, fairly easily, that I will never have to deal with because my LTR would understand that the situation you’re in is entirely out of the equation and rightly so. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wants to hang out with ex boyfriend soon, should I be worried?Bro how many times have you tried reasoning your way out of what everyone is saying. I don’t really think internet advice is great because there are too many variables that go unmentioned, but in no way would I ever allow my girlfriend to see her ex alone. I also wouldn’t ever be in your situation because any chick I’ve granted exclusivity to would know not to even bring something like that up with me. Just the fact that she understands you won’t take big issue with her hanging out with an ex bo… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Lots of things people do make me disgusted. I don't want to participate in the world. I want to avoid most people. I look at the world and I see nothing that interests me. It's filled with filth marketed as virtue.I agree with you’re sentiment entirely. I hate people in general, have come to see the hollowness in everyone’s actions and intentions, and realize that no one outside of myself will every truly understand my own outlook. This of course leads to dark thoughts even when the real world me is in a period of “success”. But, you’ve got one fucking life man. I’m certainly strong willed, but personally would never have the balls to leave my family and friends forever to live in a river cabin as a zen h… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 10:43 PM |
| 2 | How to start ltr?Vetting is key. Is this the woman deserving and capable of fulfilling your needs, helping you with your mission, etc? Bunch of guys on here saying LTR’s are entirely bad news. And for many many men, they are. I’m young but I know that I will definitively want children one day. And while it’s somewhat possible to work around, it’s likely that I will eventually have to enter into an LTR for this to happen, at least under my ideal conditions barring becoming incredibly wealthy. Eventually, I will f… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | TMW I start admiring the emotional strength of my platesI wouldn’t necessarily say this is a rule. I dated an 8.5 for a year, she was submissive and had major oneitis for me. Like thought we’d get married and have babies in a few years type oneitis. She eventually ended seeing me 18 months in because I basically reverted her to plate status when I went an hour away to play a college sport. She stayed exclusive to me with 99% certainty. And while I have good SMV, I can’t claim 9.5 or even 9 by any means as I kind of consider that close to celebrity/yo… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Trick I use to show constant "alphaness"I’m 22 and have a fairly high SMV for my age. I’m not flamboyant about it but people definitely understand I take the mindset that no one is better than me. Are people ”better” and more successful? Of course. Do betas and a few dumb chicks consider me arrogant. Naturally. But taking the mindset that I lead the room has paid off several times over in various aspects of my life. Find the line between confident and outright cocky and stay right in between. Another “trick” I use is I’ve found the ex… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 08:39 PM |
| 15 | I feel shittyTake what you want from TRP and leave what you don’t, it’s your life. Over the past three years, I’ve had periods of several good plates + ONS’s at a time and periods of exclusivity with one female. The exclusive ones are always very attractive/submissive and make things easy for me like coming over whenever I want, cleaning, cooking etc. Essentially they have to earn it in full. Obviously there is the big downside of having only one pussy and the likelihood that you will become more beta, but y… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 07:47 PM |
| 2 | One night stands seem like an impossible goal...As I stated, if you’re legitimately of average SMV, you aren’t banging between 50 and 100 different, objectively attractive women in a year. You didn’t address how attractive they were so I’m going to assume most were absolute trolls under the minute chance you are speaking the truth. Even with attractiveness out of the equation, 60-90 different women a year means you had sex with a different woman on average every 4-6 days. Did you have sex with any of them again? You wouldn’t realistically hav… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Cold approachI forgot to mention I usually have fucked them prior although I have done it for first times. Feel like a base familiarity is probably necessary. Her thinking it was weird was probably a semi shit test though, there was a definite outcome where you maneuvered her into a cab otw your place if I’m reading what you’ve presented right. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:58 AM |
| 3 | One night stands seem like an impossible goal...Buddy, I learned the value of getting women to chase a good bit before finding TRP and I’m young. If you’re of average SMV, as you stated, and banged nearly 100 different women over the course of a single year, particularly via regularly texting them to come over as a first scheduled meet, you’re fucking with a whole bunch of chicks I’d never come close to considering viable options to have sex with. Are you Brad Pitt, a billionaire, or a combination of both? If not, most of these women have bee… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Cold approachCall me beta bucks, but if she’s objectively hot and we both know what’s good, I will sometimes give in and Uber them over. I don’t mind a 7 dollar ride if I’m wanting a nice fuck and I’m not wanting to leave the spot. I view it similar to a GrubHub order. Lazy? Certainly. Beta? Nah, they’re not fucking betas and are getting in my Uber for the specific purpose of getting the dick. Definitely don’t think they’re getting the same sort of validation in that ride as they would be from stealing a nic… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:22 AM |
| 5 | One night stands seem like an impossible goal...After interacting with women enough, you can definitely get a feel for when they are being genuine on things or not. And sure, this approach definitely works well on all of the average ass club rats walking around. I have objectively good SMV and I regularly do what you’re saying. I’ve banged a bunch of slightly above average sluts doing it. But I do not take this approach with high value women who are attractive and not incredibly slutty because more often than not, it’s far less successful tha… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:47 AM |
| 3 | One night stands seem like an impossible goal...ONS’s by strict definition don’t happen as often as this sub often indicates unless you’re a celebrity or a walking god. I also just graduated and was a college athlete (think known on campus but not close to an SEC quarterback or anything) and have decent SMV (tall/lift/fairly handsome), but even then it wasn’t like every weekend in school I walked into the bar, picked a chick out and had her in my bed within the hour. Sometimes it did happen, mostly when they gave overt indicators or straight … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | If your female mates make a point of telling you you’re attractive, does it actually indicate that you’re attractive to women in general?Having female friends is mostly valuable in either eventually fucking them, obviously don’t orbit in the friend zone though, or directly or indirectly serving as wing women. They indicate you have value to other females and honestly you can never underrate their influence on their friends as they tend to act in packs. I met probably my best female friend in college, she’s pretty average but does well socially. I’ve fucked several of her friends and she basically became a groupie to my college sp… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Clubs aren’t for me. What do i do to improve night game?Martial Arts? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Clubs aren’t for me. What do i do to improve night game?You’re one of those dudes who think doing karate is the same as going to the gym aren’t you? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Is this a shit testSometimes I’ll get asked about n-count but moreso they’ll often say something like “I bet you’ve fucked a bunch if girls huh?”. IMO it’s half shit test and half compliment. On one hand they’re indicating you have noticeable SMV, and on the other they may be angling to make themselves seem special, as in they won’t fuck you that easy like all the other horny non-angels. Just play it cool. Sometimes this line of conversation does get in the way and at others they are face down ass up within the ho… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking this? How to stop hamstering?TRP likes to lay blanket terms and conditions and sometimes the approach is super valuable and sometimes it isn’t at all. In reality, some girls tend to cheat and some don’t. My ex girlfriend was propositioned by a well known MLB player in the dm’s extensively at one point and she didn’t cheat. I’ve tried banging chicks with far lower SMV boyfriends and they didn’t do it. Then there are the women with wealthy, alpha boyfriends that go and cheat with the deadbeat janitor because they feel like it… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Any sub for decent male clothing advice?I rock jeans, pants or joggers year round when I’m stepping out. Darker colors like navy and black look good, but more important is that they fit tight but not too tight. As for upper body wear, the fit is also very important, I wear shirts and jackets that accentuate my chest, shoulders, arms but hang slightly looser in the midsection even though I have low bf. Henley’s, V necks, thermals, button downs, and retro T’s are all good options. Bombers, cool hoodies, Harrington’s, and if you can pull… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Organised a date with a much older woman. How will it be different to a younger woman?I would say just feel it out. I’m going to assume you aren’t trying to date her or have any relationship that extends beyond hanging out some and fucking. If you read that she is looking for something more, either genuinely express you are looking for something casual or just next her in a polite manner. I wouldn’t go into it trying to fuck her immediately upon meeting but see if you can game your way into it. She is 57, she isn’t a part of your social circle, she provides you no value beyond in… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 08:33 PM |
| 2 | I want to bulk and train strongman again, but I can't snap out of the mindset of "abs=girls". I know this is gay as fuck. But can I have advice pls.I alternate moderate bulks with harder cuts. If you’re in a caloric surplus of 500 calories or so with excess protein and don’t eat carbs outside of breakfast and post lift you will build significant strength given you are lifting right and won’t add enough fat to where it’s incredibly difficult to eventually get off. Chicks like abs for sure but only when there’s a set of pecs above them and arms that don’t look like pencils. As long as you aren’t going crazy on a dirty bulk you will be fine, c… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Organised a date with a much older woman. How will it be different to a younger woman?I mean she may say that for her own self esteem as she is from a generation where it’s looked down on a little more for women to just come out and say they want to be fucked. My mom and beta dad, who are 54, often express how they want me to find a nice girl to date even though I’m just about to turn 23. Which reading between the lines means one that isn’t just for fucking. That generation is a little less liberal with expressing their sexual desires because they’d be accused of being a harlot o… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Organised a date with a much older woman. How will it be different to a younger woman?I’m 22 and quite easily the best blowjob I’ve ever received was from a 42 year old divorced woman who was pretty average, somewhat decent for her age. She handedly beat out 18-25 year olds who were far more attractive but just didn’t know how to work magic the way she did. I don’t think she is expecting any sort of real relationship considering your age difference. Have fun friend. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Moving from Atlanta to New York City, how much harder is the game in NYC and how much better looking (or uglier) are the girls?I grew up and live in Atlanta but have visited NYC as a young adult many times as I have various friends who have lived or moved there. I also went to a private university that was loaded with Jewish and Italian chicks from NYC. The girls down here are hotter but the girls up there fuck more. Also from what I have perceived, status and wealth are more important up there than it is down here in comparison to looks/physique etc. Weak short guys that dress nice with a haircut while working in finan… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Ugggh, dumbell/machine peeps shaming my all barbell routine (S/L 5x5). Sick of it - any contrary data to bludgeon them with ?Barbell lifts are very necessary. Benching and Squatting should be the basis of all lifting routines and can only really be done with a barbell. However, I’m not a huge fan of barbell OHP over dumbell because I don’t really consider it an important 1RM. It seems like you’re really focused on increasing strength so barbell lifts provide you a good basis to do this. I maintain or slowly add to decent strength on my core barbell lifts while using dumbells and sometimes machines for iso exercises. I… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Just a yes or no question. If you want to explain.Exactly. If I drag a club rat home she wasn’t ever being considered for anything more than plate status maybe. If I ask a chick to come over and cook dinner or something and we have a good time with the evening ending in sex, that is a totally different story. If you’re on point and the attraction is strong, decent/not incredibly slutty chicks will still fuck you first date. Obviously so will the village bicycle so OP you just gotta read it. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 06:54 AM |
| 4 | If you are a good looking chad with a amazing physique, does this mean you dont have to work very hard to get a chick?I agree with this line of thinking more than the other although there are some other factors to weigh as well. In terms of being handsome/physique I’m probably the top dog in my social circle (6’2 190 w/low bf). One of my friends is 5’6, not very handsome, and is muscle fat. Mine isn’t horrible, but his game is easily better than mine. He bangs a whole bunch of average sluts, like different ones every week. I fuck less but still fuck some and the average chick I bang is probably a couple points … | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Cutie Cashier is Into Me; How Do I number Close?I banged the chick that worked at the grocery store below my apartment complex. I actually followed the don’t shit where you eat rule even though I knew I could probably bang her after the second or third time she checked me out. A month or so after I switched complexes, we saw each other out at a local bar one night and since she wasn’t working, she went from sort of flirty in the store to asking for my number and what I was doing later. In hindsight, I wasted a few months of a very convenient … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Plate had sex with another guyThis is another thing I disagree with what the majority of TRP will say. It’s my opinion that if a chick you regularly fuck then fucks another dude, it shows a lack of respect and also an increased risk of disease. Obviously I don’t give a fuck what the chick that lives a state over does when I’m not visiting once every couple of months. But if I’m taking the time to bang a chick twice a week or something then I’m going to next her when I suspect or confirm she has gotten other dick. Some will s… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Trying to Become a High Value Male. Need Advice.Well the fact that you’re lifting and in good shape is a base from which you can work from that the majority of our society’s men don’t have. It’s hard to give specific advice without knowing a lot more but one thing that can really change things is your mindset/outlook. Women are followers and even if you don’t have much for them to follow, acting like you’re the man, at least in a sensible way, is far better than not. The fact that you’re typing all of this stuff out asking for help leads me t… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Looks vs GameI am one of the more, if not the most, attractive dudes in my circle. I have average game compared to looks and status for my age/position in life. Have a friend who’s short, kind of stumpy, meh looking, but is also a fellow athlete and is known as, and is, an absolute shooter. He bangs an incredible amount of average sluts and absolutely loves it. The only thing separating him from many dudes who almost never get laid at all is game and the mentality that he’s finding a chick to fuck that night… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 06:14 PM |
| 14 | Since time is a woman’s worst enemy, what would be the equivalent for men?The concept of “good enough”. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 05:43 PM |
| 2 | CondomsHonestly I’ve banged a decent amount of chicks without a condom and have never gotten one pregnant nor contracted a disease. I will occasionally wrap it up if a girl is not on the pill or is a known whore. Granted, I just graduated from a prestigious private university so many of these girls had a lot to lose as well. Might need to be more careful as I progress through post grad life but I agree that TRP is incredibly pro condom and that is one of few the things I don’t necessarily agree with al… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 07:52 AM |
| 1 | are you all really getting laid as much as some of you make it seem you are?I’m 22 and fitness and health are incredibly important to me. My physical appearance worsening is not a concern at least for a very long time. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | are you all really getting laid as much as some of you make it seem you are?I have banged hot girls before. I bang average girls regularly. I want to bang hot girls all the time. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | im overthinkingIf she actually is an 8.5, your chances are dwindling as you type. She probably is down. But your unwillingness to take what is, in her mind, rightfully yours is unattractive and will cause her to eventually look to the plethora of other men she has as options. Hangout with her and go for it. If she denies you then, it wasn’t happening anyway. What is there to lose? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:19 AM |
| 2 | What political affiliation are more likely to be red pillers? Conservative or Liberal?Conservative. I lean heavily conservative but am socially liberal in that I don’t think things like abortion, homosexuality, drug use, etc. should be governed. I’m not religious whatsoever and I essentially decide to vote conservative because it will benefit me the most despite many of the conservative politicians in our country being old, bible thumping geezers who are past their prime. I can go on and on about the downfalls liberalism but it boils down to that it is for pussies and to the detr… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Two Plates One DateAre you famous? Are you very rich? Do you look like Brad Pitt from Fight Club? If the answers to all of those questions are no, this will be very tough. I’ve played two chicks against each other before to success, but that was more of a who I was paying more attention to at the bar sort of thing. Actually setting up a date is ballsy. Why not just play the right cards with both and bang them at separate times? It seems like the risk/reward of this situation makes it the incorrect move. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:01 AM |
| 3 | What to do when a Women shames you for only desiring sex?Dismiss it. Banged a chick for a period a couple months ago. After hanging out for a few weeks in this capacity, she hit me with the “if you are only in this for sex then I’m not interested” paragraph. I only replied “don’t worry about it, thanks” and we didn’t speak again after that. Had a few more girls around here and there in the meantime. A couple days ago she responded to my above text asking if I wanted to come over for wine. If they are down for sex initially, your grand intentions are m… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Growing old and alone. And how old are the guys posting on TRP? Poll?I’m 22 so I’m young. I’ve had one LTR of a year at 19 but have done some variation of spinning plates consistently outside of that since I was 17 both before and after finding the sub. The sub’s age range seems to be 15-60 with a lot of 20’s-mid 40’s. I obviously haven’t experienced as much as many on here but getting old and remaining single seems to have both its benefits and obvious downsides. I know some 50 year olds who hate themselves and their wives for having to stick to a shit marriage … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity?I’m sorry you’ve been tricked in this way. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Got lunch with a girl and it seemed it went fairly well. Invited her again via text and she never responded. What's the best way to handle that if I see her again in person?I’ll give a response that expands upon “don’t be a pussy”. Which I’m sorry, is the shortcut answer here. I can understand that it’s frustrating when you think something goes well. When I’m trying to establish new, particularly ones of higher value, women, I’ll play what I think are all the right cards and even fuck the hell out of them sometimes and they still next me. But it’s only for a split second do I think “damn I could’ve been in a pussy that I liked more but now I won’t ”. Then it’s righ… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How rare is it for a brown girl that is good looking and westernized to date and hook up with guys of her own race?You’re sort of putting all brown girls in the same basket. I just graduated from a somewhat elite private university in the southeast US and in doing so went to school with a decent amount of brown girls similar to what you describe. Some of them strictly date brown dudes due to their parents demands. Some of them only want good looking white dudes and some of them are open to anything really. Kind of hard to box any demographic in with the way our society is nowadays. Fun anecdote, I had a very… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:40 AM |
| 2 | How to start the spinning of a plate? Need adviceI tend to prefer reaching out sooner rather than later. No point in dragging things out or letting her get fucked because you thought you were playing some sort of game. But don’t seem needy, make it brief, subtly frame what you want out of the next time you see each other, and let her do the rest of the work. If she won’t fuck you because you texted her shortly after your last date, you didn’t want it anyway. If she won’t fuck you because you didn’t essentially send her a love letter in the day… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Redpill fucked me up in a way. Advice needed.I can relate even though I started off doing well in school and sports but was still a closeted beta. TRP upped my stress levels the same way it did for you but it also drastically changed my mentality for the better as well as pushed me towards even more gains in the weight room and social ascendance. I wasn’t a loser pre TRP and I’m even better now, I still am nearly crippled with stress. As you progress higher and higher in your own life’s trajectory, the pressure is on even more to not only … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do women purposefully lie to men about what they are attracted to ?Only when the man is significantly above their value and have several options noticeably better than themselves. But regardless of that, you are putting the carriage before the horse. Women do want to fuck handsome men, their insecurity is a caveat to that innate want. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do women purposefully lie to men about what they are attracted to ?A combination of a couple things imo and it’s kind of already been said in other comments. Women are highly influenced by the media they consume so they watch these dumb rom coms and reality tv shows that suggest that good looking men who go all out for “the one” is what all men should ultimately aspire to be. Also because the percentage of men that are incredibly physically attractive to them (tall, muscular, handsome, big dick, etc.) is so low, expressing that those are the men they truly want… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How can I be my school's golden boy?That’s just not true dude. Put the classroom first, but get jacked and make yourself as good looking as your genetics will allow. This is the basis of standing out and soccer or debate are just accessories to this. You’re still young but I’m going to assume you will want to get involved with girls over the coming years. Best way to do that is to become a man more quickly than your peers. I promise you the dude who is 6’2, muscular, and smart/mature is getting the hot chicks over the 5’4 debate w… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 08:43 PM |
| 2 | What was your first real world experience that really made you swallow the pill?Watching my wealthy father’s life and marriage fall apart because he is very blue in combination with being an asshole. Also I just graduated college and the whole social scene is a TRP case study. I’m a tall white athlete so my SMV isn’t the worst. Sophomore year I was introduced to a pretty hot chick at a party my friends and I were hosting by a fairly distant mutual female friend under the assumption that this girl was down. Lo and behold, a couple hours later and without much hesitation, she… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 08:16 PM |
| 3 | How can I be my school's golden boy?None of those things you mentioned will make you popular unless you go to a school wildly different from mine or things have changed. I graduated high school in 2014 so I doubt it. If you want recognition for athletics, it’s gonna need to be baseball,basketball, or football, maybe soccer. If you can’t play any one of those well, I’d say your best bet is to do well in school (this will serve you well beyond high school), start on some weight lifting, and work towards being good lookin and stylish… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Lived in different US cities but what is up with the people in Atlanta?I’m 23 and went to school and played a sport at a large university inside the perimeter. A lot of what you are speaking of does relate to high school social circles. For some reason, kids around here stay within friend groups they’ve been exclusive to since high school or college. Atlanta, Buckhead in particular, is affluent and with that will definitely come the air of superiority you mention. Hell I play into all of it, when I go out to the bars, I rarely ever speak to anyone outside of my fri… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | What to expect from a plate?The term plate is pretty various imo. We don’t really go on dates outside of grabbing a drink and neither them nor I would claim to be in a relationship of any kind. I explore other options fairly often when I have the time. I also live in a large city and they live in somewhat bumfuck so there are perks to them visiting me as it is. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | What to expect from a plate?I mean I have decent SMV but I’m also 22. I feel like your comment is sarcastic but one I established through Bumble and the other still resides in the town I previously lived in before moving to a city. It’s nothing crazy. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 01:41 AM |
| 2 | What to expect from a plate?I don’t know if this is necessarily true to the degree you are saying. I have a couple girls who I would consider to be plates but highly casual to where we’ll fuck once every two to three weeks (they each live around 45 min to an hour away in different places). They don’t shit test me much at all beyond some playful ribbing and are respectful and willing to fuck essentially whenever each of our schedules permit. You’re probably right regarding plates who you see more often or ones who think the… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Pursuing the “maybe” girlsGood points here. Am 22, had a girlfriend pre RP from 18-20 who was definitely hot enough to justify an LTR (young I know but all my friends were jealous so there’s that), and now get turned off when the 6-8 range test me. I’ll obviously maneuver a little bit with the attractive ones but it gets tiring when new girls that are noticeably below what I’ve experienced in the past try to act like I should actively seek their approval as some sort of conquest to win their pussy. If you’re gonna try me… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 01:08 AM |
| 6 | I don’t get how spinning plates allows you to qualify for monogamySometimes sluts think that holding out for a few dates will make them valuable in their eyes. Sometimes genuinely “good” girls will get the itch and fuck you almost instantly. It’s on you to make the right moves, be attractive, and assess the variables within each particular situation. You’re halfway right in that chicks holding out on fucking for a short period actually can be a sign of high value but only when it’s entirely separate from using sex as capital in her favor. IMO these spots are p… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 02:48 AM |
| 4 | After lifting I attract a lot of women, but the right kind of.The is true. Same height and I would describe myself similarly. I’m only 22 just out of school but will bag an 8 or 9 every so often but I still often fail just because when you approach or become interested, the question of “why is this guy not fucking someone right now” is on their mind. I’m not some perfect Chad but definitely lean much more that way than a beta fuck and chicks will dig hard to find out what is wrong with you. Think it’s pretty key to have attractive chicks in your social cir… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 06:53 PM |
| 14 | Is there EVER a valid time to text when they haven't replied to your invitation?Girls are fickle man. I’ll be on dating apps or snap getting hit up to hangout by an 8 while a 7 ghosts me once it gets to the point of meeting up . Generally I’ll move chicks that don’t respond or are non-committing to “out” or “when other options are unavailable”. You’d honestly be surprised the amount of girls who aren’t down to get drinks together as a singular date but are willing to engage when you hit them up to meet at a crowded bar in both of your respective areas. I’ve definitely had a… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 09:34 AM |
| 2 | LiftingWhat is so great about lifting and getting jacked is it acts as a base to build from no matter what’s going on in your life. “Oh that dudes poor right? Yeah but he’s also yoked.” “That dudes rich as fuck and he’s also shredded lol.” There aren’t many things in the world that are almost entirely beneficial and lifting is likely one of those things. The only thing you have to give is a little time and effort. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Oral but no sex?Could be a few things. How impromptu was your date last night? She could not have prepared. Or she is holding out in hopes you find her respectable and you end up dating her instead of just being a piece. Or she doesn’t fuck much in general. Or she felt bad and wanted to return the favor but didn’t find you attractive enough. It’s impossible to assess all the factors over reddit but proceed how you want, all you can really do if you can’t figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Should I go nuclear?If by going nuclear it means asking or saying something that either results in you banging or her never speaking to you again, honestly up to you. I’ve done it and it’s gone both ways. If you don’t really want to invest much time or effort, go for it. If you think you may wanna start up a consistent thing then maybe find a middle ground that’s not so abrupt? Do what you think will work after weighing what you want. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 06:14 AM |
| 10 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?I wouldn’t say it’s pathetic. I feel like porn and constant masturbation definitely does negatively affect a lot of dude’s sex lives. Personally I’m not going to abstain for beating off for weeks and months on end but for those who can’t not do it 5+ times a day, maybe going to that extreme is what is necessary to better themselves? Can’t fault them if they’re that disciplined and it’s working out. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 05:21 AM |
| 6 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?I was this way in college and generally managed it pretty well but as I changed my behavior to red more and more, it began to cause me anxiety. Like when I smoke now, I’m on edge because the bottom line is I could be doing something more productive or to better myself. I’d start with quitting smoking alone, which is dumb anyway as being high is much more enjoyable with friends. Then I would transition into only smoking in situations where it will only be a positive experience such as with a girl… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Girls says that “I’d be attractive if I wasn’t a dick”Being an objective dick isn’t optimal but it’s definitely still higher on the totem pole than being a real nice guy. I agree with some other comments here, just alter your behavior slightly to make yourself a little more accessible to these chicks and you should be good to go. Mix in some friendly joking to go along with being a dick. Girls that admit they’re attracted to you but with some caveats are almost always able to be broken off with a little maneuvering. Assuming they’re being truthful,… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Approaching in the gym?This comment sums up my reasoning as to why I shouldn’t. Although I don’t see myself as a cringey faggot in any situation, I understand the gym is the gym. But obvious signals are hard to ignore, why I posted in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Should I drink on my excursion?Bro, you’re being difficult, I don’t have issues with chicks drunk or not and I don’t act like an absolute fool even plastered, which was never in the cards to begin with. Simply asking for advice on drinking on a date whether they do or not. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I drink on my excursion?Thank you, that’s the plan but I’m also not trying to be offputting if she refuses. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Should I drink on my excursion?Not the kind of reply I was looking for, obviously I’m not going in to get brazenly drunk. It was more if drinking a little bit or not despite whether she does or not. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 05:55 PM |
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