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80% of the women that didn't want to pursue anything further with me have told me this. Haha. I'm half joking. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:18 AM
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Won't somebody please think of the wording
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:31 AM
3

Posting threads about alpha and beta means you're a beta - oops!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:30 AM
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That sounds kinda awesome honestly. Thanks for the advice. I'll see if there's anything like that near me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:23 AM
7

You can have opinions if you actually know what you're talking about, but many fail to meet that criteria, and it's very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:58 AM
1

Do women tend to go for that? Go on a date with someone they know almost nothing about? I don't know if I would. It seems like a waste of time given the overwhelming odds that we have nothing in common, but maybe that's just my pessimism talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:54 AM
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Yeah. I have to be in just the right mood to be that kind of 'playful' though. I'm more inclined to be that way when I've had a few drinks. Most of the time I'm wound up pretty tight. I'm the living reincarnation of Nietzsche most of the time unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:52 AM
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Sounds about right to me. I dunno what I'd even say if I did go on a date with one of them though which is why I don't feel any motivation to make it happen. The whole thing is just bullshit to me. I'm too introverted for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:34 AM
2

I joined Facebook Dating last week to see who's on there and to my surprise I got a 'like' from a decidedly attractive Polish woman right away - she probably saw that I'd put "learning Polish" as one of my interests. Matched her and exchanged a message here and there for a few days (you can only get a couple of replies out of anyone per day in my experience so conversations never gain any momentum anyway). Nothing of any real substance was said, a little about work and stuff like that. She last …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:46 PM
4

Just be your own companion. If you can't be happy just talking to yourself in the mirror then you won't be any happier with a partner. You could masturbate to your naked reflection to satisfy your need for sexual intimacy too /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:20 PM
7

Yeah exactly the same here. The cruel irony of it all for me is that if I had a girl like that, I would be able to enjoy all my hobbies and interests completely, secure in the knowledge that I would always have my need for affection met. When I'm single - as I almost always am - I'm stuck with a sense of unease which never quite goes away and frequently ruins my attempts to enjoy my free time, as though my body is screaming out to me to go out and find this woman immediately, even though she's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:57 AM
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🥁👏🥁🥁👏 Oh Mickey🥁👏🥁🥁👏 you're so fine 🥁👏🥁🥁👏 you're so fine you blow my mind 🥁👏🥁🥁👏 hey Mickey Ah shit I think I got the words wrong. And the rhythm. Music is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:34 AM
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name one human experience which is better than passionate sex with a girl you're heavily attracted to...literally there is none. Agreed. When people imply that something like a tasty meal or watching a sunset can be just as good I'm just lost for words. They're obviously not feeling what I'm feeling!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:25 AM
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Nope, I pretty much just want missionary with lots of kissing (and to anyone who's going to assume I must be inexperienced and would get tired of that - no, I have experience and have tried other things but it's what I always want and I don't get tired of it). I'm a bit of an unusual guy though I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:45 PM
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Alright see you all next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:38 PM
1

Being locked away also is a different thing than having the actual possibilities to do and learn things. It's all relative. You could still try to chip away at the brickwork in your cell and perform experiments on the fragments or try to build something with them and learn that way. You could try to paint works of art on the walls with your feces. No matter how low you go you could always argue that there's something for you to entertain yourself with or to strive for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:32 PM
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Wouldn't it be better just to recognise that the constant changing of words in an effort to avoid causing offense is a pointless endeavour? 50 years from now everyone will consider "person of colour" to be hateful because they will have needlessly changed the terms once again by that time. Why not change the terms every day and stay ahead of the game? If we change it now it won't have time to become hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:23 PM
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It's completely inconceivable to me that anyone could have a will to survive in a world without any other people in it. Imagine being locked away in the Château d'If and never spoken to again. You could still exercise through calisthenics or something and name every single brick in your cell and invent stories and perform arithmetic or something if you felt that determined I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:14 PM
1

No, people just need to use their discretion and stop seeing things in absolutes. You can start using a new word for something in order to differentiate it if you like, but once a certain number of other people begin to adopt it and use it in their own way you're back to where you started and have to come up with a new term again. Imagine there was a forum for people with paraplegia to vent about their misery called "paraplegics.is" and the rapidly expanding community had members who wrote rants…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:11 PM
1

What kind of ambitions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:55 PM
1

How long have you been doing it? Do you worry about the day you finally lift your heaviest ever lift, and your performance steadily declines from that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:47 PM
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You'd want to live to 100 in a world with no other people in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:41 PM
1

Why do you do it? You just enjoy the physical sensation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:38 PM
1

What would you define as your character, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:31 PM
1

What would you even be without the context of your relationship to others? In a world like the one I described concepts such as values, morality, character, personality etc. cease to have meaning. This is why it's a fallacy to claim that what we do is "for ourselves".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:17 PM
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Yeah I was pleased with how that picture turned out. It's by the river right near where I live in Somerset, England.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:17 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:48 AM
1

Rightly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:36 AM
2

I can't believe someone on PPD figured out where my username came from - that's pretty crazy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:26 AM
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Haha good shit. People are very often much more welcoming when you're willing to play into their jokes. I say get back to the kitchen, you say yes sir what can I cook for you sir, we all have a good laugh and now we're friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:20 AM
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Open bobs, unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:12 AM
2

Begone thot! Back to the kitchen from whence you uh.. ughh I'm tired. Happy new year and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:08 AM
2

Heheh well we're all rooting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:06 AM
3

Well if you really had to work that hard to write this crap then I guess you deserve the bronze participation trophy. Unfortunately I do not have the trophy to give to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:05 AM
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Low effort bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:59 AM
2

Sure. The kind of pedestal upon which the women of Afghanistan have now been rightly placed. The pedestal in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:44 AM
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Oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:38 AM
0

Ah I'm only playing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:37 AM
1

I dunno what you're trying to say honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:32 AM
3

HONK
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:29 AM
10

Open bobs and show vegene
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:25 AM
1

Just be ugly, sounds like a good theory. I assume you don't wear makeup or wear flattering clothes, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:19 AM
1

Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:12 AM
1

Thanks bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:12 AM
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No doubt. I think I'm fairly restrained when it comes to name-calling and honestly I don't even dislike the people on here who disagree with me so I have no issue being civil or even friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:11 AM
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But there's no clear definition of what is meant by "incel rhetoric". If some of what the incels say is correct then by definition we cannot tell the truth. I can only assume you have a fairly strong feminist leaning by what you have wrote. It's only natural - men are coerced into reciting such things in order to not be blacklisted from access to sex and this is the crux of the issue honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:10 AM
1

Aw. Thank you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:58 PM
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Absolute CHAD 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:51 PM
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I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic but I'll assume you aren't in which case - thank you! Please be kind to my incel brothers, though - they've been dealt a bad hand in life and deserve some respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:48 PM
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Who are you to say what constitutes hate speech or "incel" content? One can simply state the facts and be banned for it under such pretences. Tell me, what's your position on the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:43 PM
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Oh stop simping for her. She's a feisty one for sure and I know that's alluring but you don't have to pander to her that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:40 PM
1

Of course. Both sides will always sling shit at the other. Nothing wrong with it really. It all helps further the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:38 PM
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I don't know where you live but here in the UK a HCA is a healthcare assistant, so... yeah I've known a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:32 PM
2

So, would you date a terribly ugly man who had an incredible mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:28 PM
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It's no worse than the typical arguments you get from women on here. I think it will stand the test of time by reddit standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:28 PM
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Sounds like a very lopsided approach. Did they not also teach you that your looks have value? There's nothing wrong with being beautiful, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:22 PM
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Thanks kween! 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:18 PM
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I always wanted to be a princess. I feel ready to come out now and live my best life as the royalty I was always meant to be!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:10 PM
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We truly are living in a type of hell world. Good luck to you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:09 PM
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Aww. It's hard when the tables are turned isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:07 PM
2

Hehe no I'm English but my friend and I discovered that sketch many years ago and we very often use "kamaloso" as a sort of nonsense word to communicate with each other. For example my friend will pass me the joint and I'll say "ahhh.. uhh.. kamaloso"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:03 PM
1

Damn, I'll take that! 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:52 PM
1

So you understand the predicament, surely. The more men that withdrew their attention, who refused to simp for women, the greater the rewards for those that continued to do so. The same would apply to such things as theft - if everyone decided tomorrow that they wouldn't steal anything, people would relax their security measures and make it far easier for the first man who'd be willing to break the pact and begin stealing again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:47 PM
1

OK are you familiar with the thought experiment known as "The Prisoner's Dilemma"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:39 PM
1

Sounds a lot like what men used to say about women a few hundred years ago. Huh. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:37 PM
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37 dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:29 PM
2

Could you rewrite that in a way that makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:27 PM
-1

Logic, my dear Twot. Happy cake day btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:26 PM
1

Once again you're taking only one side to be the cause of the problem when really the problem is reciprocal. You can't just say it's the fault of men for liking boobs when it's the women who have the boobs. This is classic fallacy. They have what we like and we like what they have. If you're going to blame men for liking the female form then you should also blame females for having the form that men like. Do you understand me?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:23 PM
1

😘
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:14 PM
3

Aw thanks! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:09 PM
2

But some sexes are more equally stupid than others
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:09 PM
0

Haha write me off if you like. I won't hold it against you. Happy new year to you regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:08 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/rpMUOt3 This is me - hi PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:06 PM
-3

Cry more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:02 PM
6

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:02 PM
2

Depends on what you consider to be an incel view my boy. The definitions are constantly shifting and morphing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:01 PM
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It takes two to tango, as they say. Perhaps the fault lies with women for being so beautiful and alluring. How can you blame one side and not the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:00 PM
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Yes it is! That's exactly where I got it from. I just didn't recognise your word 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:53 PM
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You're making the classic libertarian mistake in thinking that the solution lies in the individual. Without authoritarian measures, people cannot be expected to behave in a rational manner that benefits the whole of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:52 PM
3

Now you're just trying to get me all hot and bothered. There's nothing quite like a petulant woman who thinks she's the one really wearing the pants. You'd love me if you knew me IRL 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:50 PM
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Oh I like you even more. You're so defiant. You really would be a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:45 PM
2

Sorry is that German or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:44 PM
3

Oh you're so cute. You'd never talk to me like this if you were in the room with me. You'd be frothing at the gash and incredibly angry with yourself and at your nature for betraying you so. But don't worry, it would all be OK in the end - we'd have a perfectly pleasant evening together - a glass of fine wine, a good film, and a romp in the hay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:40 PM
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Who's to say what qualifies as "incel" content? Why should we not point to the physical characteristics that lead to success in the dating market? The "incel" community does not have a monopoly on truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:20 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily agree with that. I'm not a devout red piller myself, you see. I would agree, however, that the kind of men that happen to have aggressive, antisocial traits tend to do better with women. I've never known an angry aggressive type man to have trouble in dating - they always do fairly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:18 PM
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Ever considered that it's because the men aren't free to say what they really mean? We are on thin ice from the start and if we want to have a voice we have to stick to a set of rules that nobody could ever hope to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:15 PM
0

Oh I don't believe that. Now hold your breath please and stop talking or I'ma have to get medieval on your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:13 PM
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Yeah they do. I agree. Wanna talk about dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:11 PM
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Sorry how's this relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:08 PM
4

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:02 PM
5

Tell me about it. The women that reply to me in these discussions never ever address the actual point I was making. All they can do is strawman and it's so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:57 PM
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And just so happens that "incel content" are the rational conclusions any man will arrive at after enough years of thinking about his circumstances. Therefore, incel content = a rational man's opinion = banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:52 PM
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Congratulations you just discovered why we invented marriage and used to punish extramarital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:45 PM
-1

He must be. No man with a normal sex drive can be happy with that kind of a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:41 PM
4

So if women fail, it's not their fault. If men fail, it's their fault. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:39 PM
1

So it's a fact that you've amputated men's penises?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:18 PM
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Well, you should think twice before making assumptions. I'm a very level-headed guy. I get a fair bit of hate on reddit for my comments but such is the fate of any honest person, especially if they are ahead of their time. Consider Galileo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:10 PM
1

Rape is not a joke, Jim! Hah. Once again you twist my words. I didn't say your fantasy was to be raped, I said that your fantasy was one of inflicting violence on others - namely the amputation of their penis. I'm sorry if you've had bad experiences but that's true of all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:08 PM
1

Why do you care? Go creampie your girlfriend and get the fuck out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:56 PM
2

Only women and absolute top-tier men benefit from this supposed freedom to "experiment" - the remaining men get left out in the cold and for that reason it is degenerate and un-based.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:54 PM
2

Repeal the 19th
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:52 PM
1

Just the tip
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:51 PM
1

So cute! Tell me more about your fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:50 PM
1

Women are married to the state now, so they no longer depend on a single man but upon many unseen invisible men from whom they can extract resources. This is the reason for the disparity. In hunter-gatherer societies men and women depended upon one another equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:47 PM
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How much for a night with you? I've got a feeling we could hate-fuck each other silly if we got together 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:43 PM
1

Then you read a tone from my post that simply wasn't there. Such is the nature of text-based discussion. Thank you for giving me the benefit of the doubt, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:40 PM
0

Of course not, but what's wrong with dying? You don't need to not die. The planet would be just fine if you died.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:38 PM
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To call it desperation is quite unfair. Why are you so desperate to continue to eat food and to live? Why should I not euthanize you? You don't need to exist. The world will continue to exist just fine without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:35 PM
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You don't make any sense. I never claimed anyone was breaking the law. Please stay on topic. Because dating isn't a means to an end for anything. Yes it is, it's how we get sexual intimacy. That's literally the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:33 PM
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I don't see how we can be blamed for our nature. It is what it is. If we could as a species determine that women were completely obsolete would we be justified in eradicating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:27 PM
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Why is it, I wonder, that you are so unwilling to make a comparison between the two? It would be quite a shock to the system for you, no doubt, to discover that the same principles that determine capitalistic exploitation of the worker also apply to the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:23 PM
2

Getting laid is incompatible with the notion of being celibate but I don't know why I have to point that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:19 PM
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The fact that you are totally unwilling to consider your position as a female as being that of the selector and therefore a position of power is a real shame. The fact that you do suggests you're one of the types of men I try to avoid. This is the kind of assumption I have no way of combating unfortunately and only serves to further illustrate my point. I'm very well liked by almost everyone who knows me in real life and I assure you I have no ill will towards anyone. You're probably quite a lib…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:17 PM
1

I don't know what you're talking about at all unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:12 PM
1

What? I don't set shit. Hang on I'll just load up my facebook dating app then and tell the ladies I've been chatting to that I'm ready to get into bed with them I guess, since I'm the one in charge and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:11 PM
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Am I? And here I was thinking I was having a pleasant evening. I guess you know better than me what my mental state is. I'll defer to you in future when it comes to such matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:10 PM
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When you are physically and mentally capable of doing so, which will be never.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:07 PM
7

And when women kill themselves it's over something important is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:06 PM
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The collapse will happen because other cultures that didn't allow feminism to take over will outbreed us. Once that happens, traditional patriarchal structures will dominate once again and women will be back in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:05 PM
0

A totally absurd expectation. This is built into us. Do you expect birds to stop flying or lions to stop chasing gazelles also? We are stuck with the nature we were born with unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:02 PM
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Would you agree that in a completely unregulated market such as we have now, people with more sexual appeal are able to leverage that in order to gain sexual access to those less attractive than themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:59 PM
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Sure, some may argue that governments should provide shelter/food for those in need and they may have a point. The difference is that you can't use the same argument for sex: food/shelter are just things, sex involves another human being. But shelter and food involve another human being too. Someone has to build that shelter and farm that food.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:56 PM
2

As you have been doing for some time now. It's working well and I almost can't blame you. Power corrupts - it's been observed by many of the most brilliant authors.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:49 PM
2

Then you're totally irrelevant to pretty much everything and have no business discussing dating here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:41 PM
1

Then you're a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:36 PM
3

Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:36 PM
2

Water is wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:34 PM
3

Muh vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:31 PM
3

Beep boop sounds like a guy pandering to feminist ideology to make sure he isn't blacklisted from having sex. Genetics are a real thing. You know perfectly well you wouldn't date a woman with a severe genetic deficiency or a deformity so I know you know what I'm saying is true, you just won't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:31 PM
2

Femcels don't exist so I don't know what you're on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:26 PM
16

Based. Don't have sex if you aren't willing to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:23 PM
1

I agree. Should be punishable by death.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:22 PM
3

I merely repeated the sentiments of the person I replied to. I'm an open book and always happy to engage with anyone who wants to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:20 PM
3

It's merely a reliable indicator. For example I know from my own experience that I absolutely cannot attract women of similar genetic quality to myself due to my lack of resources. The only women I have ever had who were genuinely enamoured with me have had one of the following major faults: 1. far too old for me 2. have had another man's children 3. are extremely overweight 4. are simply far too facially unattractive for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:14 PM
-1

So you're saying you succumbed to peer pressure from your idiot friends and decided to entangle yourself with this "beefcake" as you put it, and it didn't work out and now you think you know something about how this all works? Oh please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:07 PM
8

Good, go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:00 PM
1

We need continuous large scale warfare to decimate the male population and give the remaining males a fair chance in the dating market; either that or selective abortion of 80% of male fetuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:57 PM
1

How would that be any safer? Merely seeing a person in the flesh gives you almost no additional information about their character and the potential risks than you would get from seeing a picture of a person on an app.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:43 PM
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No, you misunderstand slightly - I'm saying that to secure a woman in your own league requires that as a baseline, but it is also true that providing even more resources can secure a man a woman who's out of his league, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:37 PM
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Yeah, why would they use one of the best and easiest resources for such a thing? Silly me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:30 PM
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Has it been a year already? Bring it on. Every day should be a free-for-all, not a once a year event. Us men don't get a fair fight here on reddit with our hands tied behind our backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:29 PM
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Men: by what caliber of women fuck them without commitment No, that proves that a women is below your league. To secure a woman in your own league as a man requires commitment and resources - no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:27 PM
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Then why are you using tinder as a metric for anything? Because that's the topic of discussion? ​ And I called you nugget, nugget. Gold, or chicken?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:19 PM
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I don't use Tinder though. What did you just call me? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:14 PM
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Yep. I'm in my 30s and my mental health regularly takes an absolute nosedive due to the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:13 PM
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Almost no women want no-strings-attached sex so it's pointless to talk about such outliers. Just go on Tinder and try to find a real woman who's just on there for sex - you won't find any.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:43 PM
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The post specifically mentions dating apps. Women absolutely do spend their whole lives being continuously fooled because they will never admit to themselves that they aren't good enough for the men they sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:31 PM
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Is that why almost every woman on dating apps makes it clear that she wants a "relationship" and doesn't want casual hookups? Almost all of the sex that's occurring through dating apps is under the pretence that the guy is genuinely interested in her and would be willing to make her his girlfriend. Only the most exceptionally attractive men can flat-out say he just wants to fuck and actually get any results (and even then it won't be with his looksmatch) - all the other guys are deceiving throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:18 PM
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It's so crazy to me that in order for men to behave we have to get the government involved Haha easy now. It's not a men thing, it's a people thing. Certain men behave a certain way, because they can, and certain women behave a certain way, because they can. One sex enables the behaviour of the other and vice versa. If women didn't sleep with low quality guys, these guys wouldn't get away with it. Agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:53 PM
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It's no mystery to me why she wouldn't want to use them. Unfortunately there is no dating site or app in existence that contains only polite, well-behaved and sincere men (and women) who want to go about things the right way, and actually solving the problem would mean less customers and less profits; unless we get a government-regulated dating program it will always be this way. Personally I'd be very willing to sign up to a government-controlled dating program where everyone on there was subje…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:41 PM
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Well I'm 32 years old now so I spent quite a lot of time looking in my younger years and could never find any. My youngest sister for example is an introvert and a homebody who plays video games and reads books; guys similar to me would be very interested in her and although she would like to potentially find a husband, she isn't particularly bothered about being single either. There just isn't any way any men would be able to get in contact with her due to her lifestyle and the fact she isn't o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:25 PM
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Just become a multilingual athlete who hikes and travels and does volunteer work bro it's not hard ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:47 AM
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A loser is a man who lacks sufficient resources and social status to attract women. To call a woman a loser makes no sense because this does not apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:43 AM
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Can confirm. I'm INTP and I'm pretty much condemned to being an observer and a thinker. Women aren't interested in guys like me. I'm a pretty interesting guy though I think, and I'm decent looking but it doesn't help. Oh well. I accept my fate and now I just immerse myself in my special interests and favourite video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:32 AM
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Forget about that, it's not relevant. Any woman even on a free account can match with far more men in one session than she has time to actually speak to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:00 AM
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They also want to use it as a punishment to women for having sex with men that aren’t them. That's a funny way of saying they don't want women to be able to escape the consequences of misusing their sexual power. I'm against abortion for the same reason. I'm not really bothered by people killing unborn babies - to me that's no worse than killing a rabbit - but women's cheat codes need to be deactivated immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:23 PM
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I can guarantee most guys wouldn’t like it if they were constantly harassed by gay men twice their age every single time they stepped out of the house. I really don't think I'd care. I've been touched by and complimented by random old men before and it doesn't bother me. Every now and then I drink with my very old (88) gay neighbour and he grabbed my junk once and told me he wanted to suck my cock; I just laughed and told him "sorry, but no". So yeah as a straight guy I can't really understand w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:19 AM
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Hurrah!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:31 AM
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You are kidding yourself. It's happening all the time. You just don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:29 AM
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Heh, I like you, you're crazy man, but I like you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:29 PM
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The people have spoken! Neetbux for all my unwanted brothers out there. Keep living your best life, kings!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:19 PM
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Well, one thing's for certain, the females are going to dominate education, management, and the "nice" jobs. I predict a huge male underclass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:51 PM
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Our sex drive is there regardless of how sexualised you feel the times are. I don't feel I'm ever really exposed to sexually provocative content in my daily life, and yet I desire intimacy with a kind and loving woman almost every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:50 PM
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It's really hard to say if it was always this way or if it's a matter of rising expectations getting in the way of sexual attraction. I'm not an expert but I still think there's some credence to the idea that an average woman could be happy with, and (heaven's forbid) desire an average man, but in this climate it's not possible to test. Who can say what the women of 100 years ago felt about their looksmatched husbands? There couldn't possibly be enough evidence or testimony to give a satisfactor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:47 PM
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Hard when all the rhetoric reinforces this idea that their worth is contingent on getting as much sex as possible. It's actually insane. That's not how it works. We feel that way regardless of what society might tell us. It's literally true that your worth as a man is largely dependent on your desirability, and all of us who fail are destined to despair over it. You can try to tell men it doesn't matter all you want, but we want what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:42 PM
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Sure, and the 80% of unwanted men that will largely check out of society should be treated as disabled, given neetbux and allowed to stay home and play vidya all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:43 PM
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Women's lower sex drive and the fact that they only have a visceral attraction to a tiny minority of men has made it quite clear. No, I don't have a source for that. I don't have a source to prove that humans need to drink water either, but I believe it's true. ​ And why this partnership has to involve sex? Evolution has given us many strong drives and instincts, and you will suffer if you fail to satisfy them, just like you will recoil in pain if you put your hand on a hotplate. I don't think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:05 PM
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No. We have nothing to learn from you. Our nature is what it is and we can't change that. Edit: Just like you can't change your nature either. We have to learn how to deal with you, it's true, but we know we can't change you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:48 PM
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Men and women are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:42 PM
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Just learn to live without having your psychological needs met, yeah, good one. If I locked you up in a prison for the rest of your life and took care of all your basic needs like food and water, I trust you'd learn to be happy with that; after all, it's not going to kill you to live like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:32 PM
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Very predictable response. I've made peace with the fact that people like yourself just won't ever get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:55 PM
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I'm pretty lazy. You know what brings out the worst laziness in me? Not getting any attention from women. No point trying if nothing works and there are no attractive women to be found anywhere. You know what gets me cleaning my flat and straightening everything out like nothing else? When someone likes me and I think there's a possibility they'll actually come to my place. It's a bit of a chicken and egg situation, except that most of the time I already know my effort will get me nothing anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:49 AM
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There are still some who are managing to keep that lifestyle going. Mainly the rich. It's for the average woman that the community has been lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:57 PM
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Stay at home wives have that too. They invite each other over to their homes for tea and talk about whatever. Is doing it in an office better somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:19 PM
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I don't talk about work. ​ gives you plenty to talk about Which is it? Your work is what makes you interesting even though you don't talk about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:44 AM
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but at least the experience of spending time around other adults during the day gives you plenty to talk about as well as some ability not to mention incentive to be engaging That's what having a community was for. When the majority of women in a community were stay-at-home wives, they had all the other stay-at-home wives and mothers to talk to and engage with. Now that women have largely abandoned that role, the ones that do still want to do it are left without a community. ​ I wonder how many …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:39 AM
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The majority of people, men and women alike, have no real ambition regardless of the prevailing culture. An inquisitive, intelligent person of either gender will seek out these things of their own accord. The education system in Canada tries very hard to make an intellectual out of every one of them, I know, but it's not like it does much. It's not like the majority of Canadian girls are going on to achieve greatness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:12 AM
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Sure you can. Equality is nonsense. Some people are so much better qualified to speak on political matters than others that the idea of everyone having an equal say is just laughable. Our political systems will always be a joke because of it. But it's seen as unacceptable to discriminate based on comprehension, so nothing will change. I'm an Englishman in my 30s and I've never once used my "right" to vote. I won't waste my time playing into a system that says my opinion is worth the same as that…
/r/AntiFeminists26/08/21 03:37 AM
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I’d be pissed if I couldn’t vote too. Why? Look at the democratic systems we have. Totally meaningless. Look what allowing any idiot to vote has lead to. You get a new figurehead and nothing changes. You aren't influencing anything. Most people, male or female, have absolutely no business voting.
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/21 10:46 PM
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Quite so. Plus women's skyrocketing requirements due to them having all of the leverage means that most guys are effectively blocked from even speaking to women on dating apps before they even had a chance to try.
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/21 10:43 PM
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No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:10 PM
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Uh, average men like me who don't want to sleep with a load of trashy women aren't winning big from this. This is a dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:03 PM
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Plenty of people on both sides probably feel all kinds of things. These arguments are all bullshit really. Nothing to be gained from arguing on these stupid subreddits to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:37 AM
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I’ve never assaulted, molested or threatened Yeah, neither have I but plenty of women have, therefore I blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:35 AM
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Never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:30 AM
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Doesn't matter to me, I have no chance of that anyway. Just pointing out a problem with the idea of compromise between two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:21 AM
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You say the solution should be compromise, but this can be exploited. One partner can exaggerate or downplay their standards accordingly in order to arrive at a "compromise" that's actually what they wanted in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:18 PM
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Were they?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:32 AM
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If I vibe with a person intellectually and emotionally, I generally find them attractive, no matter how they actually look I think you're assuming a certain minimum looks threshold. This wouldn't hold true if the person in question looked like the elephant man, would it? Not trying to be rude, but we all have a minimum threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:04 AM
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My point is, it wasn't enough for you to simply say, "yes we can empathise," you also felt the need to point out that they are sexually repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:00 AM
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I'm saying that bringing up the fact that you won't fuck them out of nowhere is intentionally spiteful when it was never a part of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:52 AM
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Ok...?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:30 AM
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No but she was very keen to immediately bring it up even though it wasn't really part of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:14 AM
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No but she was very keen to immediately bring it up even though it wasn't really part of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:14 AM
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Glad to hear that some women feel it too, then. It's not what you typically hear here. The overwhelming majority of comments seem to be from women who really do not care one bit. It will always be a tragic situation to me, when a person's looks are the only thing getting in the way of what could have been a great relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:13 AM
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I really don't think women can empathise in the same way, no. Personally, the handful of times where I've had a woman interested in me who I don't find sexually attractive, I have found it so incredibly hard to reject them. Like, I feel so fucking sorry that I just don't find them attractive enough, even if we might have been a decent match. I feel guilty that I don't want them. Whereas it seems like, the women on here, they all have the attitude of "tough shit, I don't owe you anything, fuck of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:42 AM
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I can understand that a man wants to fuck me. It’s not going to make me want to fuck him Yeah, I know, but true empathy should also include not trying to rub their faces in the fact that they're unfuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:38 AM
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It just doesn’t result in fucking you or giving you the opportunity to fuck us The fact you immediately want to point that out suggests your empathy is extremely tentative to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:31 AM
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Uh, yeah, thanks buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:19 AM
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From what you read on this subreddit you certainly wouldn't think so. We undesirable men can describe our situation in the most neutral, reasonable way possible, and we get accused of being bitter and having terrible personalities. Edit: thank you for the downvotes, that is very empathetic of you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:59 PM
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Amazing how you people try to downplay what's probably the single most important thing in life. I have had occasional success with women spread out over many years, with many years of getting nothing in-between, and I say it's extremely important for mental wellbeing. I can't tell you how much it pisses me off when I read posts like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:02 PM
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Yeah it's great apart from not having sex basically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 02:28 AM
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I won't travel, go on "adventures", take up hobbies that women like, or do anything social to be honest. I won't change anything. I'm done trying to be a normie. I'm content to just stay in, drink, play games, watch movies and post on forums...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:17 PM
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Yeah I'd get one and never have to think about or associate with real women again. Complete segregation between the sexes. Can't say how things would play out beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:57 AM
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Taxes and money don’t involve personal bodily autonomy. Yes they do. Everything you do, you do with your body. ​ Are you required to get literally pegged to pay off your taxes? If that was what society valued and that had always been the expectation, we would all just put up with it the same way we put up with being forced into other actions we don't want to consent to. What's the difference? ​ It’s a stupid comparison. Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:04 PM
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That's exactly what a libertarian will say if you tell him he has to pay taxes, or that he's not allowed to build nuclear weapons in his basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:26 AM
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Almost all of her comments seem to be incredibly spiteful, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:45 PM
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Why would it be discrimination on the basis of sex? Could just be that the companies all decided they weren't right for whatever reason, or weren't good enough. Why should they be forced to hire someone they don't want?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:31 PM
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Unrestrained capitalism has the same problems though, that's why it's regulated. It doesn't have to be a choice between a complete free-for-all and equal redistribution; there's a huge middle ground, but feminists and normie redditors are basically "libertarians" when it comes to the sexual marketplace and can't see there are even other points of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:50 AM
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And yet if women had the legal right to seek paid employment but every company they applied to refused, I bet you'd say that women effectively couldn't participate, wouldn't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:25 AM
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Exactly. You can't expect a guy to pass up what could be a rare opportunity. He's got nothing to lose and everything to gain by trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:41 PM
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How's it any worse than when a woman asks her man to clean and tidy up stuff when it's perfectly fine as it is? It's an assault and a rape of his free time that could have been spent doing something he enjoys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:53 PM
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It's a relief to hear from a woman who feels the same way about it honestly. It gets me down sometimes when I see so many comments from women who say they have almost no interest in it or don't find it to be anything special; it feeds into my paranoia that women just don't want it at all and I'll never find anyone to do it with again. I often have to go years at a time without it which doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:07 AM
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It always surprises me to see so many men replying that it's overrated. Maybe you guys are doing it wrong, or having it with the wrong people. I think it's underrated! I never hear people describe sex the way I feel about it. Sure, sex with someone you aren't really attracted to is nothing special, I agree, but with someone you think is just gorgeous? It's incredible! I can understand why women might not feel the same way though, since as you point out, they don't typically have an orgasm. But a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:48 PM
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I cringe so hard when I see women's profiles on dating sites that declare they are "independent". It's like, no, you depend on many things, all of which can be taken away from you, the same as everyone else. Just what do these people mean when they speak of independence? Seems to me people are defining it as being able to hold down a job, assemble IKEA furniture, and schedule appointments - ALL BY THEMSELVES! Wow. I'm so impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:33 PM
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Multiple 2-3 year periods of no sex since the first time at age 18. I'm now 32. It's currently been 2 years since the last time. No idea when I'll next get an opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:46 PM
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Is it really so black and white though? I just wonder if people feeling like they have unlimited options plays a part in being dissatisfied with everyone who comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:27 AM
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Just keep in mind that your friends have no way of knowing how the guys you dated actually felt about your looks. Your friends might think you're absolutely gorgeous, but that means nothing if the guys you dated didn't quite feel the same. You may have been almost good enough, but not quite. I could be wrong of course, but it's worth keeping in mind. Perhaps you could try to find and date a new guy who's very similar to the previous ones but a bit less attractive, and report back to us how it go…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:58 PM
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Well, surely I should expect to be worthy of a woman with strengths and deficiencies comparable to my own, should I not? In which case, yes I'm very worthy of a great many women! Alas, I fear they don't quite see it the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:45 PM
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Nobody who dated you is ever going to tell you to your face that they secretly weren't satisfied with your looks. Not only would that just feel like a horrible thing to say to someone, but it also reflects badly on the guy for being willing to string someone along despite knowing he wouldn't want to settle on her, so it's quite embarrassing and awkward. Guys have two thresholds: attractive enough to sleep with and date for a while but not commit to, and attractive enough to commit to. Every guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:16 PM
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This strawman that every man that's not in a relationship is unlikable by every woman is nonsense. Just because he's not their first choice doesn't mean they are unlikable. Glad to hear someone say this. Nobody seems open to the possibility that the reason women are rejecting so many perfectly good men could be that they falsely believe they have and deserve better options. If it could be proven to them that a given man is a reasonable and fair option and that they can't expect someone better, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:39 PM
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I know you describe yourself as attractive, but my instinct is it's your looks. I can't see any other reason guys would be fading out like that on you if you are as you say you are. Obviously you sound like a great partner in every other way. And the non-answer they give you about you being a great woman and there's someone out there for you is very typical of what someone who's not attractive enough would be told.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:22 PM
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Honestly really not attracted a lot of the time. Like, I feel nothing. It just seems that the kind of women deemed to be the very most attractive by a lot of people somehow tend to fall outside of my preferences basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:10 PM
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I see. Congrats on finding a better one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:28 PM
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Why didn't things work out with the 5'0 guy? Do you think that you would truly be happy to settle with such a short guy long term? You're sure you weren't just trying to be accepting of something you knew deep down you couldn't accept? I've dated girls I didn't find attractive enough before and it wasn't until after things ended that I was able to really be honest with myself about the fact that I could never have committed to them long-term due to their looks. I tried to make it work and see pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:12 PM
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Haha, I get what you mean about being irritated at being expected to find certain people hot. The worst is when it's your boss saying it and you have to pretend to agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:01 PM
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Yeah but what I think also happens is that people get wrong ideas in their heads about people who like this thing or that thing, when the reality could be much different. Many of us, myself included, started our online dating efforts years ago with a real effort to present an honest and detailed picture of ourselves, and we got no responses from any of the women who would have been clearly compatible. Could you give an example of what a good male bio would read like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:56 PM
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The only thing that could possibly limit men's tendency to go for every woman they find barely attractive is if there was one universal online dating platform that was regulated in such a way that men could only message one new woman at a time, and the women would be obligated to respond to or reject all the offers within a certain time frame. If the man gets rejected straight away, it gets reset and he's allowed to send a message to another one. Would something like that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:38 AM
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Yes but men can't drop out of the mating game like that because of the "prisoner's dilemma". The more men that drop out, the better it would be for the remaining men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:25 AM
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Where do we find you in real life then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:44 AM
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Yeah I'm thinking of doing exactly that. I can't make myself look good in a selfie, but I've seen what I look like when a professional photographer takes a candid photo and the difference is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:37 AM
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What sort of things are you expecting to read on the bio exactly? As a guy I feel like it's safer to leave it blank so there's less chance of being rejected for some trivial thing. For example if I put I play video games sometimes, you'll get women who'll see that and say "ugh, a gamer, no thanks!", and it's like... I'm not calling myself a gamer, lol, it's just one of hundreds of things I've done in my life. I don't see what I could possibly put in a bio that would really tell you anything impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:33 AM
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Yeah I can't believe she's claiming she'd date a guy as short as 5'2", that is 100% bullshit. She has all these other standards and dealbreakers, and she's gonna settle for a midget? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:27 AM
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I just replied to another comment with the examples of Angelina Jolie and Kari Byron. I don't know what rating they would get if a survey was done, but I imagine Angelina Jolie would score higher than Kari Byron. However, I'm very attracted to Kari Byron and not at all attracted to Angelina Jolie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:12 PM
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Yeah but there's subjectivity mixed into it once a face is decently proportioned enough to be considered attractive. For example, if men were asked to assign a rating to Angelina Jolie, and Kari Byron, I think Angelina Jolie would score higher, right? But personally, I find Kari Byron very attractive and I'm not at all attracted to Angelina Jolie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:08 PM
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It's both though. It's about what percentage of people are likely to perceive a given person to be attractive or not. I think there's greater agreement among the population about what's ugly than what's beautiful maybe. In my case though, I'm not attracted to the vast majority of women with "model" looks, you know, the kind guys say are 9/10. But there are plenty of women who'd probably get a rating of 6 or 7 who fit my niche and I'm like OH YES PLEASE!! But I'm also never going to be attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:02 PM
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Oh well that's just greedy. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:05 PM
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Have a little compassion for these "idiots" as you call them. When you really want a girlfriend and no women are even interested in you, it's very hard to deal with mentally and you end up making poor decisions out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:00 PM
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UK here but same situation yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:52 PM
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If a woman is married to a man she loves and is attracted to, it wouldn't be some major trauma for her if it was just a given that she isn't supposed to deny him when he wants it. She might find it to be a chore and she might wish he'd want it less often, yeah, but it wouldn't be some horrific thing. It's only gonna be traumatic if she despises and is repulsed by the guy, in which case, it's the fact that she's married to such a man that's the problem, not that he expects sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:34 PM
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Honestly I'd probably take that deal if it meant a better chance of finding a great partner, and it seems like it would, but I spend a lot of my life feeling pretty uncomfortable as is. I've had lifelong sleep issues so I'm chronically sleep deprived, so some extra pain on top of that wouldn't be the end of the world. I acknowledge what you're saying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:01 PM
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Yeah, I might give it a go when everything is back to normal, but as an average looking 5'9 guy, I'm not particularly optimistic that any reasonably attractive woman is going to have any interest in me. I know I can attract very fat and ugly women (no offense to the fat and ugly ladies), and sometimes attractive single mothers, but that's about it unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:51 PM
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Well it's totally irrelevant in my example since these are all married women I'm talking about. I'm just saying I would if I could!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:43 PM
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Hahaha. Well, they are Polish so perhaps that's why they still look so good, and I guess we just happen to have some particularly nice ones where I work. Plenty of women around that age look bad, I know I know...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:39 PM
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Haha it's not some kind of porn fantasy and I don't watch Brazzers. I'm not really that kind of guy. I just happen to feel that these particular women I work with are beautiful, even at their age. I'd gladly have them in my bed any night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:44 AM
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Good point. I would have been much better at being a girl! I have two sisters with somewhat similar personalities to me and they are doing much better than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:31 AM
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As an average man it seems insane to me that any woman would want to live this. It's going to be a very, very long time before there's any chance that the two sexes understand each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:28 AM
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There was this one girl I was seeing years ago and I came in her ass on a regular basis, sometimes more than once in the same night. It was so damn good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:12 AM
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They're so used to guys fawning over them that they don't respect them at all. I think a lot about how it would feel to be a woman and I understand why they are the way they are. What a tragic situation, the divide between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:54 AM
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Haha, don't be so quick to make assumptions. I agree that it will never happen, and I'm not saying that it should. I was merely giving a possible answer as to what might be hoped for by some. It could be argued that limiting women's options might make them somewhat more appreciative of the options they are left with, but on the whole, no, they will always want either a top tier man or none at all. For a lot of the unwanted men, however, having a wife who doesn't really want you but has to give y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:46 AM
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Bro I'm 32 and there are women at my workplace in their 40s and 50s who I'd absolutely love to have passionate sex with, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:36 AM
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Yeah I had the same thoughts. Birthday cards, lol. But that's the same way women would view my desire to have a woman who's endlessly enthusiastic about satisfying me sexually. They totally see it as some trivial silly thing that guys like me want lots of sexual contact. The differences between the sexes truly are irreconcilable I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:26 AM
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Well if enough men joined the cause, men could take women's rights away and put them back in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:12 PM
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If you think porn is super stimulating just wait until you try real sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:04 PM
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