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RELATIONSHIPSKat_ri/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 04:21 AM
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Tracey Chapman the singer?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/25 05:19 PM
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You can learn things to an extent but you limit yourself to a sample size of the type of ass who'd want to be on a reality TV show.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:24 PM
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Comparing reality TV to real life in general is like comparing behavior in prison to life in general. You have a captive population, under stress, directly competing for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:58 PM
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Tell me you're stupid without telling me you're stupid 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:17 PM
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SATISFYING? Bro what? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:16 PM
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Being vulnerable to themselves is what's most important. Being able to analyze what is hurting/causing issues in your life and naming it is a step toward addressing your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:51 PM
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Just because feminism is a thing, doesn't mean the people who have benefited from it give two shits or have even read anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:40 AM
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You know that women existed before feminism right? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:39 AM
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I feel like this describes some of the best sex parties I've ever been to LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:32 PM
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Sounds like they're describing a trophy wife.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/25 03:06 PM
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I only know from one case study (aka my friend got drunk and told us his business lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:46 PM
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No no no, they gotta do it doggy style and the guy lifts his stomach and rests it on her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:00 AM
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My ex and I used to go to Chili's on Valentine's Day to people watch. The couples making out between bites of rib are adorable and the couples fighting over celebrating Valentine's at Chili's are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:15 PM
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Are you talking about Sheila Jefferies? That bitch is crazy and was immediately piled on by other feminists when she came out with her -we should all be androgynous lesbians who have polite sex lying side by side because someone even being on top during sex is too heteronormative for her- You understand that almost every feminist thinks she and her ilk are crazy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:00 PM
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Religion destroyed my self esteem as a six year old. It can be hard to take a step back and evaluate where your thoughts and feelings come from.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/25 06:02 PM
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This is my worst nightmare. There's a lot of mental illness in my family and what if the stress of raising humans would make me go into full psychosis and andrea-yates my children. Would tap myself out first if it came down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:57 AM
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That's a person thing not a woman thing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:51 AM
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Just because something your isn't your fault doesn't make it not your responsibility. Acknowledging that there is a problem is the first step to fixing that problem. We can blame society for certain things and understand why things happen a certain way, but it's still our individual responsibility to figure out what works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:53 PM
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Defaulting care to the mother is based on conservative traditional thinking. Not feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:37 PM
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What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:35 PM
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Everyone should be proactive about getting what they want. Not too complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:38 PM
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Hard disagree. If life was that simple a lot less people would be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:09 AM
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I'm glad your dynamic works for you but everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:51 AM
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Power exchange relationships are cool for a lot of people, but that still requires responsibility from everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:52 PM
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I think that's very unfair to put the blame on men for dead bedroom problems. People have different sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:24 PM
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💔💔💔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:21 PM
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Wait... Do you know this 10-ft billionaire green-haired gentlelady? Is she single?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:28 PM
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Sex is SO important though. Someone can seem perfect but then the lack of sexual compatibility ruins it. Just look at the dead bedroom subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:49 PM
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Oh my God and the DRAFT. Either there should be no draft or people can deal with sending their little girls to die in a war along with their little boys. This is probably the most explicit way we devalue men in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:21 AM
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It helps if you know how to play your own instrument. I'm a big proponent of being GGG.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:52 PM
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The division of labor may be simpler but that doesn't make them any easier. Preserving a relationship while raising new humans is HARD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:52 PM
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RAINN is an amazing organization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:26 AM
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Oh God so do I 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:03 PM
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Maybe women who have getting into a relationship as a top priority will cold approach. But the average woman who sees a hot guy doesn't have the same drive to engage at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:28 AM
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Walk*
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:43 AM
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Why should women initiate a date when there is no attraction? Women don't want around primed and horny the way men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:40 AM
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If you're asking random woman out for a date you should expect to pay. You're already interested but she doesn't know you or care about you. It's outdated but there is a reason it's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:27 AM
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Could you explain that you value her beyond sex and would like to do things that demonstrate that. She might be shutting down that aspect of your relationship/situation on purpose, or it could just be as simple as incompatible love languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:51 PM
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Favors always come with strings and complicate things. If you're fuck buddies, just stick to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:42 PM
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Equality is about value not being the exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:27 PM
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I thought having daddy issues meant you specifically went for older men because you're subconsciously trying to fill that space in your life.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 01:22 PM
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Expecting a guy to pay on the first date is exactly setting a precedent for the relationship. Some people want to continue that dynamic for the duration of their relationship so figuring that out on a first date makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:56 AM
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Wait we have elections?? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:25 AM
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I think it sounds kinky. A lot of religious people are also more kinky than they realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:18 PM
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Some people intentionally leverage their strengths to give them as much control over their partners as possible. This is gender-neutral and we should all be careful and thoughtful and at the bare minimum, negotiate when we make decisions with our clits/dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:09 PM
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And get idealized as MILFs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:08 PM
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Please research the orgasm gap. Over abundance and opportunity doesn't mean having an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:07 PM
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I think they're speaking romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:26 PM
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I think a lot of current gender conflict neglects to consider how heavily class is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:12 PM
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I forgot to comment directly, the soft life sounds great if you can get it, but you should always be able to take care of yourself and your family. Your entire life can change in a moment even with careful planning and the best of intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:16 PM
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I know women stepped up during WWII and I'm confident men would be just as capable if the shoe were on the other foot. But you can't force someone to work a job they have no interest in. If so few men want to be paralegals now how would that change if women weren't in the field?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:00 PM
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Yeah so if someone is not in the minority of bad actors why do they feel responsible for it? And maybe reflect on your relationship with social pressure. (Not you specifically, people who are feeling this responsibility)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:37 PM
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And to clarify, I have two relationships that didn't work out because their viewpoint soiled our nest. After the fact they told me that many of their anti-social ideas and behavior came from falling down the redpill rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:01 PM
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Most women already cook and clean for themselves and can run homes very efficiently. It's just a question of if the juice is worth the squeeze when it comes to doing that for another person. Are you cooking and cleaning as a love language and to show your partner that you care and are committed? Are you doing it to secure the lifestyle you want and feelings aren't a factor? Also it's important to remember that one person could be thinking "homestead" while the other is thinking "trophy wife" and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:21 PM
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So many men are trying to suck the farts out of supermodels that they cannot see beyond their own masturbatory fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:22 AM
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Have you heard of the phrase hit dogs will holler?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:20 AM
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I absolutely agree that women are indifferent to most men. Women are not sexually charged towards most people they interact with day-to-day. Men are often projecting when they hypothesize about women's thought processes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:18 AM
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Because office and service industries aren't friendly to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:00 PM
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Why aren't there more men in my field then? (litigation paralegal and all my clients have terminal cancer) And would you consider my line of work "pink collar" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:33 AM
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It's much better to divorce and civilly co-parent than make yourself miserable in a relationship that doesn't work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:35 PM
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What do you like about your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:37 AM
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I agree with choosing the bear and so should everyone else. From Statista, 14,327 murderers in the US in 2023 were men. From Wikipedia (I know), 5 people were fatally attacked by bears in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:03 PM
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It sounds like someone explained it two different ways and you just refuse to believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:58 AM
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Kindness is a virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:44 AM
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Sometimes you have to suck a dick to know you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:16 AM
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Dude there's a pandemic happening 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:58 PM
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Have you thought about getting a job taking care of infants? It will be good practice and can absorb some of the baby fever energy
/r/RedPillWives21/06/21 11:03 PM
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You can be a mother without being a birthing person, if you think differently my grandmother who adopted all her her children would like a word 😂
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/21 01:52 AM
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Dangerous people dont walk around with "I'm dangerous" taped to their heads. Being cautious and guarded is what a woman trying to take responsibility for herself looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:12 PM
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So your mommy and daddy suck therefore the world is xyz?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:46 PM
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Personally, I'm just trying to skip my first marriage 🤷‍♀️. I think the divorce rate would have been lower in the past if people didn't jump into things during the honeymoon of their relationships. Cancer scares, unemployment, chronic medical issues, drug and alcohol problems are waaay more common than people think and some can't handle maintaining the for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:44 PM
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Let's have a kid while we both work 60 hours a week and can barely make rent woohoo!! 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:38 PM
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I don't think of any of the things you listed as toxically masculine, toxic masculinity is avoiding medical care for a legit problems because not caring for your health is macho for many men. Or never dealing with the death of a close friend or family member until the negative emotions associated with such a terrible thing happening seep into how you treat yourself and others ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:47 PM
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"Cmv" like these relationships literally dont exist 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:54 PM
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I'm sorry this was unhelpful, Talk to you Partner!!! Get to know them more intimately, allocate more time to decompressing together, try out that put put place! The good sex will follow, especially if you both learn to recognize when the other needs whatever type of intimacy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 11:39 PM
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Covid has actually facilitated a lot of conversations that we may not have had otherwise and I really feel like we are more in love, grateful and aligned than ever.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 11:33 PM
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Ina Garten's panzanella!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 11:12 PM
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Oh fuck you're right!!
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/20 01:56 PM
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This whole situation will be a movie one day.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/20 12:42 AM
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Wear his sweatpants.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 12:10 AM
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YEET
/r/PussyPassDenied23/01/20 02:30 PM
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Get some decorations that are significant to his interests! I bought my guy some prints from his favorite movies, a poster of the patent for something important to his industry and a watercolor of his favorite booze.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 05:40 PM
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You should really carefully read the post on Doormat v Deference that was posted recently. Especially the parts about finding the right man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 05:16 PM
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I'm glad you were able to analyze your behavior and take steps to get such a good result!
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 04:00 PM
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You can find them everywhere, just make sure you aren't inadvertently limiting youself based on something shallow like height or hairline.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 03:16 PM
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This absolutly. I got mine accidentally and didn't even realize it until I saw how much more he was respected than his boss (small contracting company). Vendors, employees, clients, front ends of supply houses (hell even his boss's uncle!) all come to him for advice with a smile and coffee just how he likes it in hand. Same people will disrespect or straight up ignore his boss who is a try hard domineering type. Nothing replaces in-person observation and interaction.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 03:12 PM
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I do! I want to be the cool aunt and uncle! First reason I don't want kids is the mental illness that runs in my family (lots of mid life psychosis and suicide). Second reason is that my mother was a nanny and had her own daycare when I was growing up and as the oldest girl I was her first mate. That means between 6-15 kids around everyday, sometimes from 6 in the morning until 10 at night, from the time I was 4 until I moved out as an adult. I'm simply burned out since I didn't really like them…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 02:58 PM
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Thank you so, so much for the information. I'm very curious now, haha. Big reader right here so I might look into a quiz online AND pick up the book. And you're welcome! :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 06:45 PM
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That does sound like a wonderful idea. He seemed extra cuddly in his sleep last night too but I may have just notice because I couldn't sleep.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 06:38 PM
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Haha, very true! Those are working just fine.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 06:05 PM
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Lmaoooo, excellent advice (we joke that he has a Reese's fetish) but we unfortunately have to wait on the sex. He blew out his knee and broke two ribs toward the end of our move and we learned the hard way that orgasms shift his ribs. :((((( The lack of sex has definitely contributed to our mutual frustration levels.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 02:59 PM
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Haha, I think I was subconsciously trying this out already this morning so your advice might work really well for me. He is fantastic about being open and vocal about his appreciation and I could benefit from taking a page from both of your books (very emotionally constipated here, lol). Another user mentioned love languages and I'm definitely going to look into them and develop a habit of communicating more in HIS love language even if it doesn't come instinctually. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 11:12 AM
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"Out of sync" really hits the nail on the head. I usually try not to bother him too much about sex but he'll probably be game if it will help me feel reconnected. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 11:03 AM
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I've heard of love languages before but have no idea how they're determined (is there a myers-briggs test type of thing? will google today!) Taking to time to do a little something nice to reaffirm my intentions will absolutely help me feel better and get out of my head and into the present. Thank you for the advice and congratulations on your growing family!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 11:00 AM
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I'm thankful for my partner who compliments and appreciates my need to demonstrate love even in the midst of a disagreement. We can be angry and frustrated with each other but I'm still going to go to town with the back rubs (because he loves them and has been crazy sore from our move) and he's still going to whip up something magic in the kitchen (because I love his cooking and forget to eat when I'm upset).
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 04:38 AM
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