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Why?
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 07:56 AM
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Also, congratulations on making it 30 years!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:04 PM
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Sadly, I agree with you that that is the current situation. I do however think there are more reasons than children and wealth to get married. I think a partner can help you be your best self and surmount obstacles better than one can by themselves. I agree, each spouse has to bring happiness into the union for the union to be happy. That is true as well. People, quite honestly, are lazy. I’m curious even more so now though: do you yourself want to get married? And if so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:11 PM
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I agree that all those things are necessary. I am curious though, why you think few these days have the ability to demonstrate these within marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 08:41 PM
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What do you think marriage takes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 07:59 PM
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Without sex we all go crazy. Because sex is still taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 02:08 PM
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I like this a lot. It is probably one of the best written posts I have encountered on TRP. Thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/18 09:24 PM
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This! Its disgusting how much people love to fill their bodies with crap.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 10:52 PM
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Work on yourself! Med school can be taxing, but you should be using the pent up energy that would be dedicated to the “part that is missing” to getting fit and feeling confident about yourself when men stop and stare as you walk down the street. Do men do that now? If you want the attention of a high value man, you must be a high value women! Being put together is important, but slim and fit is really the first step. Then you need to be able to maintain a house. Are you clean? Do you have everyt…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 04:10 AM
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My boyfriend think this is a troll account because there has been no activity until the last couple days. The internal thought process too closely mirrors the archetypical alpha widow claim. There is no hamstering when there should be. It is very difficult to be this honest while in the midst of being alpha widowed. While I sincerely hope you the best if this is a real accounting, my boyfriend makes some valid points.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 07:35 PM
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I think the reality is that you nexted him. There is a reason that you did not want to meet him after that first week of no communication. While you say that you were afraid, you still seem unsure of why you did not go. Subconsciously the reason is there. When my SO and I have disagreements we usually need a short period of distance, but after that I never push off a chance to talk about things. If you were afraid to do advocate/explain/etc for yourself with him, then you are not ready for the h…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 05:48 PM
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I find it extremely hard to not say anything, but then after making a comment will sometimes regret it. How do you do it?
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/18 07:44 PM
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We do. Really all generations have. With our generation though, it is more pronounced. Gone are the days where family obligation determined your whole course of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 03:07 AM
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I agree, public education is fucked up. This burden should not, however, be placed solely on that institution. The family unit should host an environment that allows this discovery and development of critical thinking and examination.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:20 PM
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I genuinely am sorry I triggered you. Again, was not my intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:45 PM
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Was not my intent. Sorry that you misinterpreted my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:41 PM
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I am not shaming you. I am trying to understand the overarching language you are using.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:36 PM
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Not an 11 year old, but a 17 year old, yes. Critical listening and examination should be developed at a young age so that they boy can develop his worldview and value systems while not being overwhelmed by the responsibilities of adulthood. The frame of reference should be discovered when the kid explores the world for themselves rather than under the guidance of a parent. (Usually this occurs around the age of 17) Curiosity about the world and the way things are should never be curtailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:34 PM
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You sound personally angry at feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:28 PM
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Why does my motive matter to you? Sure. And women can do the same with men. By that same token: A gun owner has the capacity to harm others. Just because they own a gun, does that mean that they want to or plan on hurting others?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:27 PM
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I am not saying that it undoes the damage done. I am saying tho that recognizing that picture of reality is not from your peers however can be the difference between contentment and anger. If a person listens blindly, it is always their fault. Look at the millennials that thought all they needed was a college degree to make it in the world. How many of them are in minimum wage jobs trying to pay off enormous amounts of debt?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:23 PM
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Of course. While sleeping, I cannot control my dreams. Who I espouse to be internally is vastly more material than a flimsy piece of clothing. It is a part of who I am. Intricately woven into my personality and conduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:16 PM
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Understanding our differences can be helpful in augmenting a relationship, but it cannot be the central tenant. If it is, how then is any true/real bond be formed? ...Yet, if it is the central tenant, then the idea of nexting, dread game, and the like make a bit more sense. I agree with this. I think overall everyone should fix their own shit. If each sex focused on that, then better relationships would emerge because there would be better people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:09 PM
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I’m pretty sure my super religiously conservative family would argue that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:50 PM
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Interesting. Being a conservative women is a choice about ones self identity. It is not about anyone else, and certainly not about deceiving anyone. Just like the real essence of the male side of RP is about improving your own self for yourself. I’d like to see that conversation. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:49 PM
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Yes, I agree. Women can be worse than men even. Was this question for me or someone else? If it was meant for me, I am not asking for justification. I am looking for the logical foundation (as I know it is ever present) Edit: The capacity to do something should not define those that choose not to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:45 PM
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Which is extremely saddening!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:43 PM
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My point is that these were ideals that started with your parents. If they started with your parents, then you need to examine the parent/child relationship. The reality from those relationships is that the kid looks up to the parent, even idealizing them. Thus this imprint of who a woman should be comes from ones mother. Mothers who have strong relationships with their son, even worshipping them in a way, are common. Therefore, these ideals are bound to happen. The issue is that these ideals ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:43 PM
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I doubt it, but hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:21 PM
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Are redpill women feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:20 PM
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Ok, so it all started with your parents promoting this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:20 PM
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Not all of us are as shitty as men. Who first depicted women as needing these traits to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:18 PM
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From feminist or women? Not all women are feminists. Where do you first get contact with these women that promote these ideals?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:17 PM
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Yet, where did these ideals of women come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:52 PM
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Why hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:50 PM
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Women love children. Women are enamored by men.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 05:05 AM
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This is possibly the stupidest thing I have read all year. 1) so, women who are on contraceptives do not make ideal LTRs Sooooo...... It doesn’t matter how many partners she’s had by your stupid mental train wreck. Just being on it while a virgin is enough to inhibit proper bonding. This is the opposite of what you’re trying to say. It woman could spend her days blowing randos and still be suitable b/c she’s not on hormonal birth control. Also, the BPD women who get pregnant intentionally would …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 12:22 AM
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Forced sterilization isn’t even the worse part of buck v. Bell. That opinion is a dark stain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:13 AM
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Perhaps you’re right. Tho, there is a lot more to it than I’ll post here. I’ll pm you. Im sorry but im honesty not sure; is that last sentence sarcastic? While hard conversations are not fun, they are necessary.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 07:54 AM
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I’m not contributing because he walked out. You don’t walk away from hard conversations. You don’t gaslight and say it’s all the others fault. Yes, today I was not at my best, but neither was he and denying that reality will surely lead to our ship sinking. However, I’m at a loss for what to do. When he holes himself up, I’m not going to push. I’m not going to chase after him and force him to have the conversation he shouldn’t have walked away from (tho we did text a bit). I’m not going to ratio…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 06:14 AM
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Yet the question remains: what is considered a betrayal?
/r/askTRP26/12/17 05:42 AM
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Ok. Yet, there are two ppl in a relationship, and both contribute to its success or demise. Are you saying if the ltr fails only the captain drowns?
/r/askTRP26/12/17 04:59 AM
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😏 Yes, but what are the nitty gritty bits of the process?
/r/askTRP26/12/17 04:55 AM
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That is his mistake, speaking for her. However, the majority of these comments don’t focus on her.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/17 05:02 AM
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You don’t go to your fans for constructive criticism.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/17 04:05 AM
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I don’t see it like that u/StepfordInTexas. Bettering yourself and working at being your best self is what the redpill is all about. EDIT: Answer me this: Does working on/bettering yourself ever end?
/r/RedPillWives16/11/17 02:00 AM
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Thank you for this. I truly hope he takes the reins of his life and changes for himself. Whether or not he does will determine the course of our relationship. Interestingly the rehab people mentioned to me that this is a disease and how many with it do not have the coping skills to deal with it. While I believe rehab is the better option, I hope AA will teach him the same coping skills. Time will tell on all levels.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/17 01:33 PM
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Thank you. Im definitely not going to let him try and control me or my emotions. (However, checking myself and ensuring he is not is a bit difficult.) I do know though that how he controls himself will determine the course of the relationship.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/17 01:28 PM
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I️ do respect their feedback. Still, I️ can at the same time think it is insensitive and not a holistic view of the situation. I️ showed him my initial post, but not with the intention of pointing out the unreasonableness of it. After a few days and the constant negativity I️ was finished. He in turn wanted to post in order to, like I️ mentioned before, show his side of the story. I’m not entirely sure why he posted it here on this subreddit, but so be it. I️ also respect and appreciation your f…
/r/RedPillWives11/11/17 04:01 AM
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I️ believe he made the post after I️ made mine because I️ had such a bitter taste in my mouth from all the negativity that was in the comments on my post. I️ believe he wanted me to see that there are actual humans and stories behind the comments. He wants me to make this decision with a varied & wide perspective, that only comes from seeing actual humanity rather than just negativity. Also, I️ believe he wanted the “tribunal” to know both sides. With all that aside, I️ would definitely like to …
/r/RedPillWives11/11/17 01:10 AM
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There is a middle ground many are not seeing.
/r/RedPillWives10/11/17 02:22 AM
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Yeah, I️m just going to see what it’s like after rehab. Throwing away something where we were committed for over a year & talking about marriage is not easy for me. These next couple months will tell if he can give me the love I️ need.
/r/RedPillWives09/11/17 02:04 AM
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He did agree to rehab. I️ want to see where it goes, but only if he actually gets help. I️ agree, it’s unforgivable. The thing I️’m questioning however is whether it was the circumstances (he told me the day after how he had heard his friend committed suicide & feels responsible; in addition to the alcohol abuse) or whether this is actually him.
/r/RedPillWives09/11/17 12:48 AM
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What if I don’t want to lose this guy? Am I being illogical or am I holding onto something that could be amazing?
/r/RedPillWives05/11/17 07:20 AM
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This is an interesting perspective. I do need to protect my heart... it’s just very hard for me to be cold hearted.
/r/RedPillWives04/11/17 05:09 AM
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I don’t hang out with addicts and smokers at all. However, it seems that is the type of guys attracted to me. Maybe I need to explore why that is. I am so happy for you!! I also most definitely don’t want to settle, yet realize that there is no such thing as having it all.
/r/RedPillWives04/11/17 05:07 AM
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It’s true. I most definitely don’t want to be an enabler. Emotional me wonders greatly what future me would be thankful for.
/r/RedPillWives04/11/17 05:04 AM
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I would love to find a decent quality guy! Are there really guys out there that are all that? I agree, it is a sunk cost, especially if I move back home. I am happy to hear that long distance worked out for you! I feel like this was a bit of a bait and switch.
/r/RedPillWives03/11/17 06:17 PM
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That really is spot on. My family always has warned me of my big heart. I know you are not trying to shame me. I’m just still in shock. How is dumping him the nicest thing?
/r/RedPillWives03/11/17 06:12 PM
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That is completely true and it’s hard to see me in such a harsh light. To see how much of a fool I am. I’m not a cold person generally speaking, so this is torture.
/r/RedPillWives03/11/17 05:47 PM
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You are right. I definitely need to vet better next time. I know it’s the emotions speaking. I just am exhausted and want to find the right person for me. I truly believe/believed he was it. Finding out so rudely is, well, I don’t even know the word.
/r/RedPillWives03/11/17 05:24 PM
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Ok, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 06:13 AM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 06:12 AM
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The reddit one? It's reddish/orange on color.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 08:35 PM
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iPhone
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 07:37 PM
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Well, a few have mentioned that it's a sexual strategy, yet that it is a (mostly male) improvement strategy. So what's the desired outcome? What's the purpose? I also am confused why things like dread game are even used. If my partner flirts with other women to gain some sort of advantage over how I treat him (which I should do irregardless of whether other women want him or not), it could cause me to see him as less attractive and manipulative rather than genuine (which is what I believe any en…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 06:50 PM
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Are women usually a man's life mission? If so, then how is redpill a sexual strategy and yet all about improving you? It seems contradictory. I mean, if it's still a sexual strategy, then isn't the premise that women are not a man's mission (I believe women should not be a man's mission. That's way too narrow!) cause for dismissal of the redpill philosophy?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 06:38 PM
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I don't know how to access the side bar. How do you do so?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 06:33 PM
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Interesting. Thank you for your story. I agree with you that it can be hard to navigate especially if your childhood family life was not all that. My family life was not the best, but I also was raised with religion. Do you think religion can be interchanged for the RP philosophy?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 06:25 PM
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Are they only sexual observations?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 06:22 PM
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