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2

Oh makes sense, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 03:33 AM
2

No it wasn't, you said thus killing each other and themselves at much higher rates than they would WITHOUT women. As in, they kill themseves at higher rates when women are around. But in reality, the opposite is true, men kill themselves at higher rates when women are NOT around keeping them civilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 02:48 PM
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thus killing each other and themselves at much higher rates than they would without women. Men are much more violent, criminal, and uncivilized without women around. See gold rush towns and the wild west for examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 11:14 PM
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Except deciding to have unprotected sex with a trashy whore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 10:38 PM
1

Your post has opened my eyes. TY bb. Im going bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 10:36 PM
2

what happened to ur right arm?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 10:35 PM
2

.....what's wrong with popcorn for dinner? I'm asking....for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 04:01 PM
2

Which is it? Coming from the angle of not wanting degenerate children, I'd prefer she has a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 07:17 PM
1

I'd rather be locked in a cage than snitched on to the police; that would ruin my life, the husbands life, the kids life, everything. You have really weird morals which basically boil down to "tie your own hands and don't do anything except pass your own responsibilities off to the police"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:49 PM
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physical violence and rage is by definition alpha
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 03:18 PM
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(For any onlookers: I am kidding.) Not me I love being emotionally validated <3 <3 SP <3 <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 04:41 AM
5

An ideal free market is a market devoid of restriction and regulation, where rewards are given out depending solely on each participant's inherent potential and willingness to utilize that potential, right? So... how the hell would that be even remotely true for today's SMP? That's not what a free market is. Rewards are not given out based on "inherent potential" and "willingness"; they're given out based on actual real-world value and success. In the economic market, that's producing value and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 12:14 AM
3

You're wrong
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 10:59 PM
6

Wow... seriously wow. Nice SJW-ing
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 09:56 PM
5

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 11:18 PM
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Non-exhaustive list of some degenerate things: Polyamory, Non-monogamy, Infidelity, Extramarital sexual relations, Bestiality, Pedophilia, Homosexuality, Bisexuality, Prostitution, Incest, Vegetarianism, Gluttony, Obesity, General Hedonism, Pornography Consumption, Birth Control, Anti-natalism, Communism, Socialism, Divorce, Interracial relations, and BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 11:17 PM
38

If NASCAR isn't racist, why are there so many racist NASCAR fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 09:06 PM
4

Speak for yourself, I'm against it on principle as it undermines the female imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 05:58 AM
2

Me neither lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 09:35 PM
3

If she's into men that old
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 06:38 PM
5

reported you for sitting in xem's corner. typical woman invading male safe space
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 06:18 AM
0

Sry bb That's right, apologize to your poor abused beta bux this instant young lady
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 06:05 AM
0

Ima tell F ur a real grade A ho, madsci!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 05:37 AM
2

It's 2016, people are into all sorts of weird shit. Including but not limited to literal shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 09:50 PM
3

I wouldn't know, I only get 7-layer-burritos, why branch out when somethings already perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:16 AM
2

only losers who want to quit drugs go to AA. if you're alpha enough, the drugs are addicted to you, not you to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:13 AM
1

love man contact (IE wrestling) o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:03 AM
5

I assure you ahead of time she's not even cute! holy shit youre good at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:02 AM
4

I don't care about that stuff I just like taco bell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:01 AM
2

So melancholy and broody still. Clearly you didnt do enough drugs like I told you to last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:00 AM
2

not my hot dude, he will always be loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 05:52 AM
3

True, I love mexicans, taco bell is my favorite restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 05:47 AM
2

Idk, they're pretty skanky looking, it rustles my jimmies. Islam: maybe a few times?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 05:46 AM
3

I've made my peace with the muslims taking over
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 05:15 AM
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I've switched to #TeamMuslim after atlas showed me pictures of white girls being degenerate bar skanks. So hopefully not. edit: here it is, she reminded me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 04:46 AM
1

I recommend injecting at least 3 marijuanas. Don't OD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 10:35 PM
5

I would find it precisely as preposterous as throwing him in jail for yelling at her every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 04:01 PM
2

Yeah who are you schooling this better be good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 09:03 AM
1

Not everyone. Not George Washington.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 08:56 AM
1

idk man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 08:42 AM
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I can think of lots of reasons for yelling at your partner though. At least as many reasons as for deadbedrooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 08:39 AM
1

What do you mean disqualify
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 08:30 AM
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Only if men are allowed to throw their deadbedrooming wives in prison. Because that probably hurts him psychologically worse. Sound fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 08:29 AM
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Should they go to prison for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 08:28 AM
10

Sexual Strategy blah blah Amoral blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 07:23 PM
5

Good Lord people get themselves into really shitty spots too often. Aint that the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 06:51 PM
5

"Nice" is a, well, nice quality to have. My man is very nice. He's also incredibly hot, fascinating, talented, funny, passionate, devoted, amazing-in-every-way, etc. "Nice" is only a non-compliment when it's the only thing people have to say about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:26 PM
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D:
/r/MensRights09/02/16 05:56 AM
2

I just want someone super hot who's nice to me. Fortunately found that and locked it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 06:27 AM
6

Speak for yourself. I'd rather die then not get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 04:59 AM
3

My dad!! He's super cool <3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 02:30 AM
7

Martin Shkreli is an asshole and an alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:53 AM
6

Most alphas are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:22 AM
1

Aren't you a special little snowflake
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 09:26 PM
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By pretending Billy the good beta with a stable nerd job who cares about partner count is Alpha, while rock stars and millionaire celebrities and professional athletes who don't give a fuck are Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 03:32 AM
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Not hot enough I only date 10s and above
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 04:20 PM
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Has something of a bad boy/fuck boy outlook on relationships. Enjoys casual dating, has had many hookups, attitude defaults to cocky, and doesn't emote or express much vulnerability. Deal breaker for me Is very social and frequently attends parties where there are lots of attractive people, often involving alcohol. Maybe a deal breaker, definitely a strong negative. I'm too introverted to deal with that nonsense Has strong ambitions outside the home, and takes big risks. Is not the "safest" pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 04:13 PM
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Only gay male fashion designers and women idealize the traditional pencil-body barbie. The new one is not fat, it's hotter. I'd be annoyed if they started selling actually fat barbies, but this isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 03:57 PM
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Yesss!!! Is there any required reading, or books or shovels I need to purchase beforehand?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 05:20 AM
5

Hopefully there's enough space on the roster for me to attend "Social Justice for Sentient Non-human Persons" by Professor TRPbot
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 05:19 AM
3

I'd be first on the roster for /u/TempestTcup 's "Homemade Rice Beer Brewing and Distilling"
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 05:13 AM
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"A Legal Primer on How and Where to Hide the Bodies" a course by Professor /u/_wingnut_ , Esq
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 05:10 AM
3

I would sign up for /u/camille 's Ultimate Fashion and Beauty 101 Course
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 05:08 AM
1

Why?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 07:44 PM
2

I'd like to poll what RPWs look for in a man - how many accept cohabitation before marriage? Min and Max N count acceptable from a man? Idea age range? How many require marriage as a dealbreaker? Shallow aesthetic requirements? (height, weight, fitness, etc) Particular ethnic race required? (and race of the rpw) Some others I'm sure but this would be interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 04:17 PM
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There is a reason that rape is unacceptable, because non-rapists seem to be more desirable to mate with. False, rape does not impact a man's ability to mate unless men enforce punishment upon him. I bet rapists get more sex than betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 11:33 PM
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I love this silly idea that concepts of good and evil are completely subjective Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 11:32 PM
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Does society deserve to be saved? Is it really all that good? I say we build a wicker man, burn society and grill marshmallows in the fire. Let me guess, you're childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 11:30 PM
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Sure but in general, alpha = bad for society. Patriarchy is the rule of betas, who suppress and stifle alphas from their natural wanton ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 11:29 PM
1

Not moral authority, legal authority
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 10:33 PM
1

Sounds like I need to read this Haidt guy, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 10:20 PM
1

Interesting, I like that theory
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 09:13 PM
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And RP morality is not? I would argue that RP morality is more destructive to society, while BP morality is more destructive to individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 09:09 PM
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Secularism by definition doesn't claim the universal authority necessary to proclaim a universal arbitrary morality. Only religion does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 09:05 PM
3

Thanks, for sure, but it's not really attractive. Men don't give fat ugly girls a pass for homework help
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 08:04 PM
3

if BRAD PITT aka phantomdream asked you to tie him up in whips and chains and sensually carve swastikas into his skin with a rusty nail, you would do it! If you won't do it for me, it means you're a slut BETA BUXXXING MEEEE
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 02:23 AM
1

Maybe you should advise your son to date a black girl. Perhaps, except for the fact that he is over 20 times more likely to be murdered by his wife if she is black. And that's the only one of the interracial pairings that has a positive affect on divorce rates, of course it's the only one that you mention. Also, I know lots of hapas irl I'm glad that your anecdotes trump thousands of data points in actual scientific studies and statistics gathered. What a relief to all the fucked up hapas out th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 02:05 AM
5

I'm biologically programmed to feel jealous about my partner getting sexually aroused by and seeking out other women in a sexual context This is true, so that sucks. But if it's not negatively impacting your sex life and you're being satisfied, I think you'll have to accept that it's painful and you have valid feelings of jealousy, and just live with it. He sounds like a good partner overall so don't take it personally.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 01:15 AM
2

Mixed race children and adults are at significant higher risk for a host of issues, such as mental illness, behavioral issues, poor self esteem and identity issues, to name just a few. The average person of African or middle eastern descent is much lower IQ than the average white person, so diluting the gene pool in that way is a real shame. But even between races with relatively comparable IQ one needs only to observe the abject psychological disasters in /r/hapas to see how detrimental asian-w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 11:10 PM
1

Maybe, if I were single and he was cute and nice and fulfilled all my other marriage criteria. I'm not racist. Interracial relationships are usually bad though, in reality. It's a matter of statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 10:30 PM
1

And if I took a Oxford professor and dumped him in the same situation as a San bushman with the same technology as they have he would probably die. And if you take a million San Bushmen, fly them to England, and expect them to be able to function like normal enlightened ethnic brits, they'll fail colossally. And if you take a million raping and pillaging savage arabs, and let them all into europe, they'll do their arab thing and keep raping and pillaging. As Europe was too stupid to figure out b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 08:42 PM
2

Considering the hunter gatherer lives in an IQ test that kills you if you aren't smart enough, it is safe to say that they aren't stupid. Actually, all evidence resoundingly points to the opposite. Primitive peoples from African countries like Malawi, for example, have average IQs of as low as 60, while the average for European oscillates up to well over 100. That is a SIGNIFICANT difference, a white american with an IQ of 60 is medically mentally retarded and incapable of functioning, however i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 08:24 PM
2

Peril is obvious - if we disregard our inborn racism and prejudice what's to stop us from throwing open our gates to hordes of savages from inferior cultures, eroding our traditions, ruining our nations? What's to stop civilized, culturally transcendant races from breeding with 60 IQ hunter-gatherers and ruining all the progress we've made in thousands of years of evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:44 PM
1

ikr
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 07:21 PM
3

Random question, who do ya'll support in the upcoming election?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 06:47 PM
1

Irccloud app
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 06:46 PM
3

racist!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 03:25 PM
1

What if they abuse me first?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 03:22 PM
3

oh fk time to neg that dress makes you look fat, cxj
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:32 PM
2

about 20% of RPW totally rock (wingnut, camille, lifter, stingray, azk, etc) about 5% of TRP totally rock (CXJ, RPS, ARS, Drok, SerN, fiat etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:09 AM
2

:o OH NO HE DI INT :o
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:00 AM
1

race traiterz gonna trait! u a goddamn slag, u
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:13 AM
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Racism and ethnocentrism is essential to survival. Prejudice is ingrained in our DNA for a reason. Disregard at your own peril
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:58 AM
5

Don't worry you fit the trend :P
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:57 AM
2

I seen you with dem hispanic girls, u race traitor whore u!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:56 AM
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you have the audacity to even think for a second that your problems are somehow equivilant I don't care about manspreading, but I care about people propogating this ridiculous myth. Why should I care about other people making problems for themselves? I don't live in the middle east and I'll never visit there because I'm not retarded. I am significantly more bothered by a bit of litter on the ground in my home city than by 1,000 people getting raped/enslaged in shitistan a million miles away. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:37 AM
5

What's wrong with being a racist? We need more racists to keep this: they'll be immigrating to your country pretty soon from happening
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:31 AM
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Isn't that natural? What do I care about what happens in shitholes I'll never go to? Contrary to PC dogma, cultures are made by the people in them, shitistan is shitistan because of the people - male and female - who live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 03:42 AM
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Core concepts are usually solid and provide interesting perspectives. The actual terpers are mostly gross and stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 03:35 AM
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ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:46 AM
3

Even having views opposite to ours they are still our friends and mean nothing bad but care. This is not necessarily true at all. Many "friends" don't want what is best for you, they want you to fit into a nice little feminist box that validates their own bratty miserable lives. And when they suggest that our SO could treat us better, there is a chance that we allowed ourselves to talk about our SO not very positively. Or they could be undermining your respect for him because a traditional relat…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 01:49 AM
1

What if your wife divorces you when you're 35 and takes your duplexes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:54 PM
1

How will you have a free apartment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:41 PM
2

are you actively looking to drop out of the work force once you get married or have kids? Kind of, but mostly because I'm an extreme introvert and sitting all day in an office doing something you don't care about is lame, not because RPW do you have an escape plan yet? like savings, passive income, business idea, etc? I'm looking into various forms of passive income generation and work that can be done from home how much money do you think you need to live comfortably? per month after taxes I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:14 PM
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Racism and ethnocentrism are positive masculine traits that are essential for civilization's survival
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:03 PM
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Exactly!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 04:16 PM
1

"He likes going out I promise! He just never wants to!" Really, this sounds like your problem. 99% of the time I would rather stay in but I'll go along with my fiance's or family's plans because that's the polite thing to do for someone you love. Everytime he says "Thank you baby for planning this. I had so much fun." This is verbatim what my mom says when dragged out by my dad, and vice versa. Your boyfriend is a laid back nice yes man so he'll go along with your plans, but you won't be able to…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 04:11 PM
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You should have smiled warmly, cracked a joke, remarked about the weather, anything to be more open and give him a way to start up a conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 02:35 AM
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Don't make him plan stuff he doesn't care about. He'd rather stay in it's bad enough forcing him to go out on your own plans, don't straight up David-and-Uriah it by making him plan his own annoying evenings.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 02:25 AM
3

Yes. If I were ugly, old, nasty, or some other combination of undesirable traits that meant Mr. Teen Dad was literally the only guy I could get. Would I date one now, when I have options? FUCK no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 01:36 AM
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Usually I totally agree with so many of your opinions but I'm a huge fan of oral, so I guess the saying "different strokes different folks" applies! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 02:49 AM
1

The bigger the SMV difference = the bigger the power difference = the more you can get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 08:40 PM
6

As far as I can tell from knowing you for these years, you're one of the nicest people I know. Your partner is very lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 06:08 PM
3

You're transgender, right? What sex did you grow up as?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 04:38 AM
2

I asked a serious question, I'm curious if this actually works. If it doesn't work this way I don't see the point in this strategy for men, might as well go for an actual 7. But if you can get a 5, bump her up to a 7, and still treat her like a 5, then that would be a legitimate strategy that I might advise my brother. I notice your flair says "stepford girl" not "stepford wife" so my hunch is that this is the case. Clever method.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 02:10 AM
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What do you get out of this bargain? Do the perks for him involve getting away with treating his woman like he could treat a 5, while she's actually a 7?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 11:47 PM
3

WHYY??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 07:51 PM
3

well????? Got anything to say for yourself u lil gay boi? i will fite u irl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:16 PM
2

your life is in danger Anyone who doubts SP's honor gets a brick to the face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:53 PM
3

that you know of... ಠ_ಠ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:47 PM
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Knock Knock Who's there? Boo Boo Who? Ah yes ... the sound of male tears ... most beautiful sound on earth sheds single tear of happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:38 PM
1

Well if I get elected into power I'm slaughtering the losers who didn't vote for me, so be warned. If I go the slaying mine enemies route tho you're totes safe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 06:11 PM
1

Mentally retarded folk are not generally attractive, no. Unless they're thugs a la idiocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 04:18 PM
1

99.9999 percent of guys make it through their entire lives never being accused of a serious crime. If a guy was accused and acquitted, he probably still did something stupid or questionable. My thoughts exactly, I'd pass, unless it's really really obvious the accusation was just a cheap claim for fame or something like commenter below pointed out David Bowie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 02:46 PM
2

Worse. Cads vs. Dads Mixture is best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 02:41 PM
0

If only
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 05:26 AM
2

stability I'm going to interpret this as commitment? Stable as in he's committed to me, with me for the real deal, serious about our relationship? If so, I rank this as top, because none of the others matter if this isn't present, I don't do casual flings values I'm interpreting this as "doesn't cheat on me" also up there, because it doesn't matter how sexually skilled etc my guy is if he cheats, he's going to the curb Personality Since I don't do casual flings, personality is important looks I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 05:07 AM
4

No, men sacrifice their lives to save their women, not random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 02:58 AM
6

I really hate Trump but I guess I'll vote for him. He has the charisma of Reagan and the face of a melted candle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 02:01 AM
1

Yes, as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 08:50 PM
5

Who knows. Maybe hes gay. That would be just my luck wouldn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:30 PM
3

Yikes, that sucks :( Apparently I'm the only person in this forum to have never been cheated on, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:11 PM
1

No I've never been cheated on. RPW
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:07 PM
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If I literally couldn't get sex any other way, maybe. If a planet-wide plague wiped out every human on earth except for me and some dude, and he refused to do me without getting paid...I'd probably buckle eventually, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:04 PM
2

I'm a little bothered by the idea that there's anything that someone should "never admit to" to a partner. Well yeah, this is why I won't have lesbian sex or threesomes etc., so there's nothing bad I'd need to admit to. But if I'm advising my sister or someone who already has well, I'm on Team Sister, so ~shrugs~
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 08:32 PM
1

More questions for RPW
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 08:01 PM
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Never admit to lesbian sex unless it's absolutely un-deniable, men will hear "lesbian sex" and AUTOMATICALLY A: expect immediate and constant threesomes, no matter what you protest to the contrary, and B: men have preconceived ideas of what women who have sex with women are like, you will be categorized under "nonwife" category whether you like it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 07:58 PM
0

I'm a woman but I'll comment on what the best answer is. 5 is the best answer, followed with "they were all relationships" and a polite refusal to go into further detail. 6 is the most sluttiest, since you admit to having lesbian sex - terrible idea. 1 is the second most sluttiest, it's aggressively defensive, men will assume you're hiding a high N. 4 is the third most sluttiest, it makes it sound like you don't remember - you can count up to 3. 3 is a decent nonslutty answer if you clarify the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 06:18 PM
1

Oops didn't notice the "question for bluepillers". Darn. Fortunately I bet the vegans I referenced were all bluepillers so their opinion should count, amirite? The details and implications and ramifications of "rape" depend on whether it's being discussed as a moral trespass or legal definition. Until it's clearly outlined which facet is being discussed, there will be no chance for consensus in any of these rape threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 06:22 AM
1

Is rape a moral trespass or is it a legal definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 05:56 AM
4

*shitlard, ftfy Lord is a gendered term triggering intensifies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 05:53 AM
2

Aww, that's really sweet. I like that perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 05:48 AM
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I actually had an interesting conversation about this in the /r/vegan IRC chat. I asked if riding horses is morally acceptable; the reply was that no, it's not, horses are not our slaves to be beasts of burden it strains their backs blah blah. They advocated allowing horses to live in nice big fields and feeding them while not subjecting them to exploitation, riding, restriction of freedom, etc. I asked "well what if you set them free and a stallion is raping the mares?" The reply to this was in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:29 AM
1

He's not "obligated to tell me" but if that's something I care about (it is) it's my responsibility to vet him and find out about stuff like that which matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 08:12 PM
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Not only that, but the benefits of the gender are completely different there. Every national I dated there would buy me gifts, because they knew the area better than I did they would often plan a night out for us I think you're confusing being a white male in asia with being male in asia. Asian women don't aggressively chase and pursue asian men, so you have a skewed perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 08:02 PM
1

2k is the cutest guy and 3h is the cutest girl so I guess they should get together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 07:51 PM
1

I'm probably an 8 or so (by the ratings in this thread probably a 10 though), my fiance is an 11 perfect in every way super hawt, and he's the only guy Ive slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 07:46 PM
2

YESSSSS
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 05:55 AM
1

Because the advice is not specific for his indianness, it's the advice I'd give any man who wants to get laid. A quick analogy - you could probably give a single mom advice that would actually help her dating life, even though you have no interest in ever dating someone like her yourself. Yes, the advice should be subject to extra scrutiny, but it's out there for OP to use if he wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 02:46 AM
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No problem, I didn't notice you aimed it toward BP women though, I'm rpw so take that into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 12:51 AM
2

Bluepill women I've seen: Pandora, Annakmk, Madscientistlove, Dragoness, Griddy, and probs more Im forgetting. I can say with good certainty that all of those listed are considerably above average in looks, ranging from well above average to certified gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:30 AM
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What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 03:53 AM
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Why don't you answer the question I keep answering? Do you really believe it's a reasonable mentality for women (or anyone!) to have? "well if I were Emma Watson, Jake from class would move heaven and earth to never cancel a date with me." Is this a logical, self-helping position to hold; would you teach it to your daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:31 AM
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So it would be reasonable for women to have that mentality? I assume men have less schedule conflicts regarding dates because men are the pursuers, they plan and instigate the dates in the first place and then just hope they fit into the woman's schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:17 AM
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I'm not sure if you're judging it one way or another, but to be clear I think both are ridiculous. It's absurd and unhelpful for both women and men to be entitled like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:06 AM
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It's not realistic productive logic though, and it goes both ways. Is it reasonable for a normal girl to operate on the logic of "well if I were Emma Watson, Jake from class would move heaven and earth to never cancel a date with me." While true, it's unhelpful. She's not Emma Watson, and in real life sometimes things just come up, and Jake could still turn out to be a perfectly good boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:58 AM
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If I were <insert 10/10 most beautiful actress/model in the world here> attractive men would throw themselves at me and drown me in money and beg me to marry them at first glace, therefore I should never date any man who does not do just that. ~logic~
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:53 AM
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If a woman has shown an inability to get and keep the interest and attraction of a man of roughly her SMV equal or a bit above, something's gone very wrong -- she's nuts, she's a religious fanatic, she's got a mental/chemical imbalance, or she's ugly. Yes. But realistically, all attractive, mentally stable, well adjusted modern women in the west have found a boyfriend to whom they are attracted enough to have sex with by the time they're 20. That's years out of highschool. If they haven't, somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:31 AM
2

Considering the modern environment, the levels of neuroticism that such behavior would imply confirm my judgement of them having bad character.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:29 AM
-1

I feel like these are very different situations and I don't see what similarity you are trying to draw here. There is definitely something wrong with a man who's a virgin over 25. And there's also something wrong with a woman who's a virgin over 20. Since those are similar things do you have an easier time understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:55 PM
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I agree with this, and postulate that 25 and 30 are very generous - really there is something wrong with a virgin man over 23, and good quality women really get married before 27. But your point is solid. Quick point about virginity over a certain age - It applies to women too at an even lower age, I think. In this day and age a female who makes it to 20 a virgin has either serious mental/character defects, is a religious fanatic beyond worth dealing with, or is prohibitively ugly. I'm sure ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:54 PM
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Don't think anything of it. I've been in the pullee and the puller position. It all depends on the situation and which party knows where they're going. I've also been in ofspocks shoes where I was hanging onto his hand to keep his long strides from losing me in the crowd!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:00 PM
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For men, the age where virginity indicates weirdness or bad character is about 23. For women it's about 19. This is based off my experience and common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 10:57 PM
2

30
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 08:20 PM
4

20/female/rpw Cheating is the worse, then prior love, then prior sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 06:37 PM
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For one thing, the equivalent of a slim woman is a muscular man. All of the women were slim, but none of the men were muscular. Immediate disparity right there. Men and women are different - TRP101
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:21 AM
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I believe TRP deliberately marked these women low, knowing the men would be marked low, so as not to boost the egos of PPD women too much, and possibly to DHV/hold frame. quite frankly I believe this was the case
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:12 AM
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I absolutely agree, the women were significantly more attractive than the men. Whether this was intentional or not I'm not sure, but my analysis is here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:11 AM
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I think men have the luxury of not being expected to put a lot of effort into their appearance...compare a man rolling out of bed and showering to a woman's routine of grooming, makeup, hair curling/straightening/styling, etc. However this female emphasis on appearance leads to women looking better on average, which is a source of great consternation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:06 AM
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Top rated characters: man (5.42) woman (6.21) Second rated: man (5.15) woman (5.76) Third rated: man (5.05) woman (5.57) Fourth rated: man (4.95) woman (5.31) Fifth rated: man (4.95) woman (5.31) Lowest rated: man (4.35) woman (5.26) In reviewing them likes this, I think it's clear that the women are actually significantly more attractive than the men, probably more than the .5 to 1 point difference in ratings. The women are dressed up, hair coiffed, slim, wearing jewelry, wearing makeup, in gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:51 PM
1

The redpill idealogy is based mainly on evolutionary psychology, however many redpillers eschew reproduction, which is confusing. I'm not sure what the meaning of life is beyond reproduction and personal contentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:56 PM
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My point is that "Being a smart, morally upstanding, hardworking guy who plays by the rules" itself either does not increase attractiveness or actively makes one unattractive. Yeah I agree with that. Being a hardworking studious and career minded doesn't get a woman the adoration of crowds of orbiters and marriage proposals that a slut does, or a woman who prioritizes making herself look beautiful and putting herself out there to meet men. The point of education is to better yourself/your earnin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:41 PM
0

Or maybe they can't get laid because they choose to sit inside jacking off. And this is my problem how?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:25 PM
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Tall, thick longish hair, strong/toned body, masculine facial aesthetics, deep voice, big dick, broad shoulders, and a good personality. Fortunately all attributes my fiance possesses <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:15 PM
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If they prioritize doing nerdy things on the internet above slaying poon, they will also be less successful at slaying poon. Radical, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:02 PM
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Look, you can prioritize higher learning and good grades and studying hard, or you can prioritize slaying poon. The first tend to be high IQ and successful in college, the latter tend to be societal losers and low achievers. Is anybody surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 03:59 PM
2

Pinging you so you can see my reply
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 03:17 PM
1

That's all rape is, forced sex. Force is the only difference between rape and regular sex. I feel like this is what normal people believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 04:29 AM
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Thanks :) We'll get married when we finish school in the next couple years. Not sure about honeymoon yet, we're poor :D Hope you had a nice christmas Xem! ~doxxing~ For you, ARS :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 02:11 AM
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Yeah I do and I'm damn proud of it. He's not a gross internet indian nerd either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:21 AM
1

He looks like a normal guy I'm sure he gets girlfriends fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 06:47 PM
1

He's aight. Nothing close to my fiance though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 06:38 PM
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1 - hard to tell, fine face, if he's tall and broad shouldered 7, if he's short, 5. 2 - 5 3 - gross hair, 4 4 - weird foreign, 3 5 - terrible angle, 4 I guess, picture barely shows anything 6 - disgusting hair, 3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 06:16 AM
1

prole =/= poor. Compsci nerds are prole. Actual poor guys are often alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 02:19 PM
1

If you're attracted to older men, date them.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/15 04:16 AM
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That's what I was thinking while reading. Sounds like she's being a normal gregarious person to be honest. I'm introverted and even I do that type of thing - wave at people with whom I've made a point of contact. I think OP is projecting/feeling disgust because he's not attracted to her - methinks he wouldn't register it as desperate if it was a pretty girl smiling and waving once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 07:37 PM
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No I think we agree. The asian stock which has immigrated to the west are the educucated reserved "nerdy" class, resulting in the stereotype which absolutely reflects reality. Back in Asia there are asian gangsters, crooks, guerrilla fighters, grasping entrepeneurs, alphas of all types. Will still differ from whites in many ways due to different cultures and philosophy (collectivist vs. individualistic, etc) but they won't fulfill the "nerdy boring asian" trope quite as strongly as they do in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 04:46 PM
3

IQ over a certain level is dysfunctional more than anything else. Women favor social intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 04:35 PM
1

So do you disagree that stereotypes arise from any basis in reality? There is literally zero reason that black men are stereotyped differently than asian men? And absolutely zero reason that rural men are stereotyped as hicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 04:28 PM
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I disagree with the Alpha = good, beta = bad ridiculousness. The pillars of the community, patriarchal, Men who are respected by other men are high betas. The criminals, wifebeaters, sports stars and rock stars are alpha. Single mom = woman who bore children out of wedlock, divorce and widow are different words for different things. The moralizing on TRP is pretty gross and cringey. TRP is very prole low class in it's ideology. Which is ok, they're prole guys. But they have a gaping blind spot a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 04:26 PM
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You're stereotyping hicks so by your own logic that means you have a very limited understanding of the world. The truth is, stereotypes don't arise from nothing. Why do you think black men are stereotyped as aggressive and masculine, while asian men are stereotyped as nerdy and boring? Why do you think hicks are stereotyped as uneducated and redneck? All those stereotypes arise because they tend to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 03:50 PM
8

What rudeness? She was making a joke...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 07:08 AM
3

NEXT. However 25+ is wayyyyyyyyyy too old to be a virgin, get your act together and find someone legit.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 02:14 AM
1

The situation is perfectly believable. Why not just discuss the situation conceptually then, regardless of whether it's true of the person who typed it out? You admit yourself it's perfectly believable so I don't see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:20 AM
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He only said "most" didn't say no outright, implying that some did, and he raped them anyway. So it's not like he was letting them be accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:19 AM
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That's obviously an important point, but I would argue in this particular case he didn't care whether they said no or not. He said "most" didn't, implying that some did, and he raped them anyway. The only thing yelling and flailing will do is get you beaten up as demonstrated by that other post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:18 AM
1

Zing!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 07:33 PM
2

By the time shes old enough to have a career she'll be out of my control. I want grandkids obviously and I'll want my children to be happy but ultimately it's their own path. I'll give them the tools and it's up to them from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 12:43 AM
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All options are not created equal. Approaching is a bad strategy for women. It highly increases your chances of getting played, used, time wasted, etc. All of which are very disadvantageous things. Have you watched the office? Kelly Kapoor is what happens to women who approach. A guy will half heartedly let her hang around because she's easy, while obviously always looking to keep messing around and not really committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 06:09 PM
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In dating, girls could probably actually get higher quality guys if they were willing to approach themselves. to which I reply: No, the men who women approach don't dish out commitment because...women are approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:12 PM
2

Hey don't cheat on me business partner. Makeovers will be included in our bootcamp business.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 03:15 PM
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And for those for whom a makeover isn't enough.... BOOOTCAMMMMPPPPPPP This message brought to you by GridKelly Bootcamp TM
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 03:13 PM
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The select few millenials who aren't too scared to leave their basement are too scared to shower or change in gym class locker rooms. I have no trouble believing they're less promiscuous today, they're downright puritanical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 03:07 PM
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No, the men who women approach don't dish out commitment because...women are approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 03:02 PM
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omfg lady who cares if it's selfish. These are ridiculous philosophications. Stupid poor people crank out kids all day long, if you have the inclination make some of your own to balance that out.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 05:16 PM
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I am not the only woman who does this. Every woman I know puts her children before her husband. She may not tell him that, but she does. I think the ideal dynamic is where each parent puts the needs of their children over the needs of their spouse, but the wants of their spouse over the wants of the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 05:08 PM
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You must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 05:02 PM
3

Same reason women who get off from masturbation have sex, I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 05:54 AM
2

I googled it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 05:25 AM
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Average dick size is around 5, so bigger than average is always better up to a point, but most men don't reach that point anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 05:09 AM
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The bigger the better, in general, but obviously it's up to a point. Most men don't reach that point though so for all practical purposes, bigger the better most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 04:53 AM
1

Did anyone actually take the fat acceptance movement seriously or believe "healthy at any size" is real? I think it's always been pretty obviously bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 03:18 AM
1

I have to confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 03:10 AM
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I'd actually disagree given that most women (despite what they sometimes say to appear prim and proper) do value penis size for a variety of reasons. While breast size loosely correlates with fertility, the same could probably be said of penis size - after all, what woman wants to create sons with micropeen genetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 03:03 AM
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Like penis size?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 02:39 AM
2

Except many people live long and contented lives voluntarily without sex. The same cannot be said for people deciding to live without food or shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 12:51 AM
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No, I don't believe so, which is why men will always be the ones living, breathing, and dying in their pursuit of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 12:49 AM
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But if a man cannot find a woman to have sex with, then he must either (a) pay a prostitute or (b) commit rape. False logic. He can get married and have sex within marriage (this is the point of abstinence only education) or he can remain celibate. These are completely valid options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 12:41 AM
1

That's not a normal definition of gold digger at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 02:52 AM
2

Throwing this out there - what's wrong with marrying a gold digger? Who do you think rich men have always, and will always, marry? Peaking your success with a marriage to a trophy wife (gold digger) is part of the standard prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 01:38 AM
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But you were attacking the bluepiller by telling her that men and women are the same, there's no difference between a male kindergarten teacher and a female, men are no more likely to rape than women, etc. etc. etc. Which are all patently ridiculous claims. You can't possibly be a redpiller and believe that. And why on earth do you want to be an elementary teacher? Do you really think that's a place for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 12:24 AM
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/u/Atlas_B_Shruggin is a redpill MODERATOR. She has more validity in one comment than your entire posting history. You're a little SJW who chooses to deify everything male and ignore any harsh realities about male nature, while doing the opposite to women. Of course female nature is hypergamous and manipulative, and of course male nature is violent, aggressive, and prone toward rape. Don't get your panties in a twist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 12:16 AM
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Oh right men have honor I'll let gay pedos alone with my young children nothing could possibly go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 11:44 PM
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It's redpill to believe men and women are different. Of course men are more likely to be rapists and pedos, and of course there's something wrong with men who choose to surround themselves with stranger's children. I'd never let my kids have a male elementary teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 11:41 PM
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Those discussions were not about what society "allowed" them to do, it was about what their parents "allowed" them to do. MASSIVE DIFFERENCE. Parents don't care what society says, they're going to treat boys and girls different if they feel like it. And they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 06:13 PM
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So are we for or against alimony? Am confused now
/r/MensRights19/12/15 05:11 PM
2

Oh deary me, what was it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 12:33 AM
2

There's some underlying issue even when I make a point of not saying anything, so I laugh and talk with the guys instead They're probably rolling their eyes at the new girl being a giant flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 12:30 AM
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As a young childless woman, no, I have never experienced this and I suspect it has absolutely nothing to do with why that woman didn't want to hang with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 12:28 AM
2

Lol let's try this. sorry I fucked up, could you explain where I made my error? Dis gun B gud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 12:27 AM
4

PONY TICKS? WHAT B DIS? DO U MEAN FONATIXX
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 12:26 AM
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Honest question why don't you just lie about your past to get a nice girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 12:22 AM
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I agree that both cases are antisocial and weird, but the male trpers in this thread seem to unanimously agree that this is how women should behave, so... shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 10:51 PM
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Thanks for the answer I respect your opinion. A further question: Should a woman start every friendship with an explicit statement that she will never fuck him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 10:40 PM
2

It's a straightforward question. Why don't you answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 10:38 PM
2

I didn't make a point, I asked a question. Will you answer? Should attractive men be proactive in refusing to have sex with women who they don't want to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 10:15 PM
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Same. Methinks some emotional hamstering is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 09:47 PM
4

run away, don't even walk! lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/15 09:16 PM
2

Should men refuse to have sex with any woman they aren't interested in marrying? Is friend zoning worse than fuck zoning (plating) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 09:12 PM
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Should attractive men be proactive in refusing to have sex with women who they don't want to marry? Why is all this moralistic "should" business suddenly materialize when it's applied to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 09:03 PM
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So is it men's job to not have sex with women they aren't interested in marrying? They should reject her interest in a relationship and not touch her, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 08:57 PM
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So is a man who has sex with a woman who wants a relationship when he doesn't a "mentally ill person" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 08:56 PM
5

crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 08:56 PM
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My vote: "Chad has never dialed a phone number. Ever. Even 911 calls him first." - Cursedlemon hahahaha cursedlemon++
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 06:14 PM
2

I think a lot more sweat and tears are gonna be involved in sex work than say, programming or engineering lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:30 PM
2

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will? My fiance is going to be a famous artist and/or rockstar and/or male supermodel so I don't have to pick on this one have sex (a threesome) with two 7s or have sex with one 10? (In b4 'There's no such thing as a 10', substitute 'That Girl', you know the one, the person you've always really wanted to bang.) M…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:57 PM
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Is there any possibility you could switch back to separate leagues? Let him play on the "competitive" team and you play on the "fun" team. Not everything has to be a joint activity, and I think it would be more mutually harmonious.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/15 03:30 PM
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Today's women do not have a higher average partner count than today's men. However, the average woman today has a higher partner count than the average man. There is a key difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 04:17 PM
4

Today's women do not have a higher average partner count than today's men. However, the average woman today has a higher partner count than the average man. There is a key difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 04:17 PM
1

It's more than that though. Have you ever watched The Office? Do you think any human female wants to be Kelly Kapoor? Because that's who you end up as when you chase men and profess love first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 04:01 PM
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Has anyone watched The Office? Do you think any female human wants to be Kelly Kapoor? Because that's who you end up as if you pursue men and profess love to them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 03:17 AM
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I don't know if this caveat was noted, but when I was single I carried myself and interacted/flirted with men in such a way that I was approached and asked out frequently. Once I committed to my boyfriend, however, my demeanor and interactions with men changed and are such that I now rarely get approached. So that is a significant variable, a lot of participants here seem to be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 06:02 PM
1

I wouldn't be leaving him for extended trips, so if he gained 100 pounds in a week or whatever I'd freak out about his health and bring him to doctors and psychologists until whatever snapped is under control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:33 AM
2

1: technically attractive, but looks kinda gay 2: No, ugly 3: technically attractive but too old, so it looks cringily try-hard to me on some level. 4: pic won't load for me 5: attractive Of all of these guys, 5 is the automatic obvious choice for boyfriending, if I had to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:30 PM
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My brother has always been very attractive, charismatic, and chased after by the ladies so since we share the same genes I'll assume that's what dude-me would be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:21 PM
1

So you're not going to answer my questions lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 01:44 AM
1

ok. Tell me specifically: Which of my beliefs contradict the idealogy? Which of my actions contradict the idealogy? You're just making stuff up in your head. Answer these two questions in detail and we can have an actual discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 01:34 AM
1

I'm not offended because it's not true, me and the rest of the IRC is laughing at you because you're such a retard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 01:24 AM
1

Why do you keep insisting I'm an old slut? You're just making up completely random bullshit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:46 AM
2

Sounds like you two need to have a serious discussion. Tell her in a calm manner that if you are going to be providing for the family, you will control the household finances. She will live where you want to, and on a budget and allowance you decide on. If she can't accept this, she can revert to plan A or B and go back to work.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 12:36 AM
1

Wow you're dumb. What specifically in my comment do you disagree with? Does it hurt your feelings? Should I get you a bandaid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:35 AM
5

The logical thing here is that makes the most sense is for him to watch the baby in the long term, since he is at home anyway. The logical thing here is that makes the most sense is for her to watch the baby in the long term, since she is the MOM with breasts and hormones and motherly instincts.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 10:36 PM
6

Let's do some math: (Hormonal mom + motherly instincts + tiny baby) + (forced away from baby to work + dad half assing child care and business) = resentment = tension = breakup = (drama + child support + broken home + heartache)
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 10:24 PM
14

It is completely relevant to the discussion of gender dynamics, social dynamics, feminism, inherant bias, etc., all things that are overall totally relevant to PPD and discussed here frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 04:17 PM
1

The migrant crisis in europe is because they're all atheist and childfree with no investment in the future of their nations. Those men (boys) are all such liberal coward bitches that they'd vote to let muslims in rather than vote to send themselves to war. That's what happens with no religion or children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:59 AM
8

You could also say that since women are the ones bringing children into the world and raising them, they're more invested in the nation's future and should make decisions on such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:29 AM
4

You wouldn't support a draft to preserve your nation and culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:00 AM
7

That's stupid. If we're at war serious enough that a draft is required, women better be birthing the replacements for dying soldiers, not dying themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:58 PM
7

Thoughts/reactions to this idea? It's stupid. If we're at war serious enough that a draft is required, women better be birthing the replacements for dying soldiers, not dying themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:57 PM
12

Men are competitive against other men for the things they care about. Women are competitive against other women for the things they care about. Women's competition tends to be covert, men's tends to be overt. Female competition often revolves around social status and dynamics, and occurs under a surface appearance of tranquility. But in their own way, women are every bit as competitive as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:54 PM
3

Yes because if she divorces you for having mistresses she won't get alimony. Oh wait....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:48 PM
5

You should invent something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:47 PM
4

Annnnddd here's why alimony exists :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:43 PM
2

Just because the people are old doesn't mean the relationships are old. Those are new relationships between people who don't share children, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:36 PM
27

Frequency of sex naturally decreases with time spent in relationship, and marriage = kids. Do you really think couples are going to be having the same amount of sex at 50 that they do at 20? Anyway, the data will be skewed because most cohabitors are young 20s while marriage includes couples into their 80s and 90s. Of course the average will be skewed overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 04:35 PM
1

Disclaimer: I am not a lawyer. I believe the idea behind marital property would more or less preclude a married couple paying into an account (insurance) that only pays out to one of them, after separation. Since when you're married your income is communal, I think it'd be easy to contest the insurance payout with the lawyer version of "hey, we BOTH paid our COMMUNAL assets into this, we have to share the payout!" Now, the way to get around this could be that it pays out to the non-divorce-filer…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 04:32 PM
2

Beta, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 03:48 PM
6

Well, I think it is true that women often marry men for reasons beyond attractiveness. When women say attractiveness doesn't necessarily matter, they're correct in the sense that they'd probably jump through hoops to marry an uglyish millionaire with a killer sense of humor. They're not imagining Joe Schmoe who is average and meh, as well as ugly. Women also always answer these questions in the context of who they would marry or LTR, also, never who would they casually bang, which I think is wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 03:27 PM
6

The rarest of all unicorns, she is even more difficult to find than the mythical virgin waifu.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 02:59 AM
9

The real trick is to get a girl who's not a virgin, but has an N count of one micropeen. Everything you do will be impressive compared to that, you'll be set for life! And she won't be tempted to stray or harbor fantasies about "sowing her wild oats" since you can lead her into believing all men except you have micropeens. Win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 02:54 AM
1

I call my dad and brother frequently to chat about life. I love and respect them so much. As for my fiance, he's the light of my life, I'm crazy about him so I don't even know how I'd list what I do for him. Lots of cooking and cuddles and encouraging words, not to mention all the christmas presents I'm amassing for him. I try to always treat him with respect. He's the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 12:47 AM
2

I think discussions of racial and cultural dynamics stem more from the overlapping DarkEnlightenment crowd. But TRP has too many asians and indians to actually have unbiased views on HBD, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 11:32 PM
8

My personal loyalty is always to my family members, and I take said loyalty very seriously. If you have a close relationship with your sister, there are a few things I'd advise doing to help out. 1: Help out with the baby and household stuff as much as possible, give her a chance to get out of the house and feel like a lady sometimes, not just a frumpy "mom". This will help her post baby self esteem and will probably help with their bedroom life. 2: I would tell her of the rumors (just personall…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/15 03:58 PM
2

Yes, obviously, if you steal your friend's girl that's a huge betrayal and you can expect to be hated and ostracized. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 07:44 PM
3

Out of curiosity, which ones do you consider grounds for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 12:24 AM
6

If things continue to work out, I'll keep her around. If not, I'll move onto the next, and it won't bother me. This is absolutely why male sluts are bad relationship material. Who wants a partner with that mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 02:43 PM
1

What's with the snark?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 04:43 AM
14

Sounds like what female sluts say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 04:26 AM
1

What am I backing off on? My thesis is that childfree are freeloaders, I have maintained that all along, including in the last comment I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 04:19 AM
1

When did I ever say you should trust people outside your inner circle? And anyway being childfree is fine, I just don't like them getting all sanctimonious and pretending they aren't moochers off of civilization. I may avoid kids myself, I have no problem being a freeloader it's a cushy deal as long as everyone else keeps up with the sacrificing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 03:39 AM
1

Eh, I'm good, Civilization can die And you wonder why people don't trust childfreers ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 03:11 AM
3

If your line dies with you or your children you have no legacy. Think about it - every single direct ancestor of yours, for thousands of generations and millions of years, passed on their genetic legacy by having children. If you fail to continue that legacy, the line simply...ends. Over. Snuffed out. All the quadrillions of coincidences and serendipitous events that conspired to result in the line being unbroken from a primordial stew to you...it's unfathomable. All those generations where it c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:27 AM
3

I have encountered far, far more childfree who have superiority complexes than the other way around. Just browse their subreddit for a few minutes it'll become glaringly obvious. "Fertility Trophy" "Crotch Fruit" "Fuck Trophy" seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 12:58 AM
2

No it's because having kids who don't give you grandkids is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 12:56 AM
1

(Xpost from my other comment) Let's imagine everyone in the western world stops having children, immediately. At the blink of an eye, millions of teachers, doctors, manufacturers, etc. are out of jobs. Entire markets crash, The world descends into chaos, suddenly all that dink money in your bank account is worthless. Unemployment and crime will explode, inflation will skyrocket, the world will grind to a halt. With enough time, the west has no choice but to replace their dying population with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 11:46 PM
1

Let's imagine everyone in the western world stops having children, immediately. At the blink of an eye, millions of teachers, doctors, manufacturers, etc. are out of jobs. Entire markets crash, The world descends into chaos, suddenly all that dink money in your bank account is worthless. Unemployment and crime will explode, inflation will skyrocket, the world will grind to a halt. With enough time, the west has no choice but to replace their dying population with third world, savage low IQ invad…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 11:45 PM
3

They're freeloaders on the system. Their cushy dink lifestyle would be shattered within a few years if everyone stopped having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:15 PM
4

I'm RPW, so what does what blues do matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 09:48 PM
6

I certainly would not want my fiance to have a female "best friend"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 08:45 PM
3

Because terrible treatment doesn't allow children to reach the full potential of their nature, but wonderful treatment does. Wonderful treatment doesn't allow them to surpass what was already in their nature. My grandparents were highly intelligent, wonderful, loving, caring, warmhearted people and had 4 children, two biological and two adopted. Their two bio children grew up the same, very high intelligence, good people. Their Korean child, adopted at age 10, also grew up to be a nice intellige…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 04:50 PM
4

90+ % nature over nurture. This is a big reason adoption is usually such a terrible idea. Upbringing isn't nearly as important as genetics, provided the upbringing passes a minimal threshold. Obviously if parents are starving and torturing kids that will have a big 'nurture' impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 02:47 PM
1

Ooh hey all the better, good to know!
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 01:19 PM
5

It's a deal!
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 04:34 AM
5

I've never met a significantly older man who is attractive to me. Does that answer your question?
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 03:28 AM
8

I assume so, as I have never been physically attracted to men that much older than me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 03:06 AM
9

I think toxic femininity is bipolar disorder territory, extreme manic pixie dream girl personalities, histrionic personalities, psychological and emotional manipulation, high levels of narcissism, any extreme female-brained extreme helplessness that inhibits their own ability to thrive and drags down everyone around her, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 02:12 AM
2

I'm not arguing, your chance of being left alone is probably lower with an older man than with a man your age, I just don't think "heh, she's just scared of being left alone" is an insult. That's a totally legitimate thing you should always be taking into consideration.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 12:49 AM
1

Well mine is somewhere between 0 and 400 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 11:39 PM
7

Age matters because attraction is important in relationships. If I got with a 30+ year old, I guarantee he would be deadbedroomed and we would both be unhappy and frustrated. Again, just personal preference disclaimer.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 11:38 PM
3

Aye, but TRP labels undesirable men as "betas" and "omegas" who supplicate and pedestalize and worship women and jump to take care of their every whim. But this man is nothing like that, yet he is still undesirable and cheated on. What gives? Pembayliss and others have said that he's not alpha, but if he's not beta or omega either, what is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:56 PM
2

You linked to the OP. I don't understand what you're talking about. The husband being discussed is not a terper, he's just a normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:34 PM
2

Please link which comment that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:23 PM
1

Who did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:22 PM
6

In what way am I confused? I'm simply inciting discussion along the lines of my OP starter questions: How accurate do you think this depiction is for the vast numbers of "divorce rape" and cheating that men moan about? And how heinous do you think her infidelity is? And, instead of cheating, what do you suggest she should do to remedy her dissatisfaction? Is there anything she can do to change him, or change her perception of him? Or is she doomed to marital unhappiness? Or should she divorce? Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:19 PM
3

Hm, sure, but I mean they cheat for "comfort" in the sense that their husbands make them feel ugly, ignored, and - just, well, "not-woman." By that I mean they don't feel lusted after or desired after, they feel like an ugly lumpy baby factory roommate. I'm not even blaming this on the husbands, a lot of this is women getting complacant, fat, matronly and frumpish. But no matter who is at fault, this is what women report feeling alienated by and driven to cheat for. Doesn't matter whether it's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:17 PM
6

Why are you fantasizing all of this stuff up and projecting it onto me? I'm 20 years old and engaged to marry the only man I've ever been with. How does that have any impact on the validity of my arguments? It's completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:12 PM
7

Is a woman's fear of being left alone something ridiculous and silly that should be laughingly discarded?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 10:09 PM
1

It's in the post, I linked to the original post, here https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3uw9ms/what_are_your_thoughts_on_these/cxid83y
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:54 PM
3

What specifically do you find non-RP about my views? And what does it matter if someone is an old slut, if they subscribe to the TRP ideology are they not debating from a redpill standpoint? Do you think I'm an old slut and does that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:52 PM
4

lol cute I love how you immediately turn it around to being about you being downvoted...deflection much?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:36 PM
3

It's not like it matters, it's just valueless internet points, but it's amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:32 PM
5

Off topic question, why do you downvote everyone you talk to? Every time I interact with you; mass cownvote of all my comments. A bunch of people talking in the irc confirmed it, same experience. You realize it's super obvious, right? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:26 PM
4

How could I not fuck Scott in accounting? My husband judged my pimple! Hahahahaha. But Scott is so dreaaaamy and makes me feel specciallllll! This here is right on. I think it's worth pointing out that women cheat for comfort, not only overly betaness as many trpers seem to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:24 PM
6

Yes, but the man in the OP certainly doesn't have the issue of "being too nice". And as /u/roblowewearsblue points out, many women divorce men for behavior such as this...the ignoring her, passive agressiveness, disinterest in sex, not making her feel lusted after or special, etc. And I'm sure she has plenty of faults as well. Life is more complex than "was too nice and perfect, got divorce raped!" I guess that's my thesis opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:23 PM
11

...... Did you just write something I agree with? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:17 PM
1

Yeah, I'd agree with this analysis. I'm sure his nasty comments and disinterest in her body are hurtful, but chances are OP isn't exactly putting much more effort into maintaining her looks than dear hubby is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:16 PM
6

Yes I would absolutely sympathize. What is your point? Would you sympathize with a woman contemplating for divorce or adultery in a flip scenario of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:11 PM
6

It gets described, yes, and is greatly exaggerated and caricatured. Real life is always somewhere in the middle between that exaggeration and the one described in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:11 PM
3

There are definitely men who behave in this manner, I have met multiple such characters. For the sake of discussion, regardless of whether this particular one is real - would you categorize someone like this as alpha, beta, omega, or something different?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:09 PM
4

I don't believe infidelity is excusable, and I think she's probably leaving out mountains of her own faults that we would need to address before solutions could be proposed. I do kind of think this is how women perceive the men they divorce, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:52 PM
13

While this is obviously true, the standard story of "he was a perfect doting caring husband with a good career and perfect manners who took care of his appearance and she divorce raped him for being too nice" is also a sitcom-worthy caricature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:50 PM
5

While I agree to some extent, I think you seriously overestimate most men and what complacency will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:48 PM
2

That makes sense, although I don't buy that some aspects aren't true, I think the average beta "dad" type definitely gets comfortable and lets himself go, getting fat, not shaving, farting and burping without a care, etc. Of course women do that just as much! I think BB are also apt to dedicate themselves to career, the better to provide for their families, which does create distance and dissatisfaction and take them away from doing household chores and baby care....for this I 100% blame the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:43 PM
2

So is the man in question alpha? Do women cheat on and divorce alphas?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:36 PM
4

I'm sorry, I'm having a little trouble understanding what you're saying...do you think the typical BB does behave in this manner, or does not? Do you think this is not a typical relationship state prior to a divorce? I am not disagreeing with you, just trying to clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:23 PM
2

Do you think this example represents an extreme case, or is relatively normal for divorcing couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:14 PM
6

While I agree, real life is always complicated especially with children involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:08 PM
1

embraces RobLoweWearsBlue lovingly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 07:58 PM
1

Yes I can overlook a little satan worship in light of such as epic party. What do you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 07:04 PM
12

Exactly...it's just a little silly to see MRA types moan and groan about men not getting the same charitable attention women receive when women organize and run the vast majority of charitable work. Of course they'll tend to be more sympathetic to children and mothers in distress, etc., it's only natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 06:35 PM
12

Even the typical homeless shelter and soup kitchen prioritize women and children first. I have seen this first hand doing volunteer work a few years back. I have to point out, I've volunteered at a good number of soup kitchens and I've never seen male volunteers running the places.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 06:01 PM
9

That's fine, I'm just not interested.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 05:17 PM
3

It's not a turn off for me but I suppose everyone's personal tastes vary.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 03:08 PM
3

Haha, the RPW thing to do - have granny poison your fiance on your wedding day! I kid though, they're both very poised and beautiful and get things done using feminine methods. Definitely interesting characters!
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 02:44 PM
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I'm her age and can't imagine getting with a man in his 30s. Blech. Sorry, some personal tastes matter. This isn't necessarily a RPW stance, of course, just personal.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 02:35 PM
11

In my experience, the guys in our age group (I'm 20) who are relationship material can tend to be a little shy, since they're good hearted but don't have the life experience and confidence to back it up yet. So keep that in mind and practice having an open, warm, friendly, approachable personality around these younger men who may be a touch bashful.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 02:34 PM
1

Holy shit my life is boring, I wish you were my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 02:21 PM
2

Sleep in, have lazy morning sex, I make him breakfast while he reads me funnies off the internet, eat a leisurely breakfast together, gather some gear and picnic supplies; go wandering into the mountains, fool around in the woods all day building forts and throwing stones off cliffs (yes I have the hobbies of an 8 year old boy), wander home for some dinner, then snuggles and netflix, sex and then fall asleep cuddling. That would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 02:19 PM
3

For the record, you realize boring middle aged dads are on average in no better shape than moms, right? Never heard of the term "dad bod" ? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 02:06 PM
0

No, I don't think men who sleep around that much are needy or lacking "self control" or anything like that. If anything it's probably the opposite. It's just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 02:01 PM
-2

That's exactly what an antichrist worshipper would say. I'm not falling for ya'lls tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:07 AM
0

I don't know, whats yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:06 AM
-1

How does it feel, worshipping the antichrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 04:54 AM
6

That's cool. Still gross though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 01:39 AM
0

Are you catholic or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 01:39 AM
1

What is weird about them, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 11:51 PM
5

ew
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:31 PM
7

Hahahaha. I'm imagining a girl with a collection of lockets, each with sheets of toilet paper lovingly laid inside, to remember various men by.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:23 PM
6

I don't think there's a RPW consensus on that but my personal sentiments are as stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:22 PM
6

Ok, fair enough, I wouldn't join a convent - fuck catholics. But I would dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:58 PM
9

At a rate of 6 rolls of toilet paper in 2 nights, she probably was eating it. Or hemorrhaging out a miscarried dragon fetus. Or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:46 PM
2

What are breeders - people who have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:42 PM
16

Dump him immediately. Go get STD tested. Find a convent, become a nun. Spend the rest of my life gagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:37 PM
8

Yes, I agree that the male sex drive and need for female attention is more powerful than I can understand, this only supports my point. Women can not even understand how much men need women, it's the reason groups like mgtow are so incredibly emotionally fucked up....you have a group about men "going their own way" Which consistently has top posts about things like women using the fast checkout line with too many items! I don't think I or any woman will ever understand that level of obsession, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 04:55 PM
11

This sounds like a no true Scotsman, we point out all the various types of men who desperately crave female validation and for each group there's a myriad of excuses "oh those aren't REAL MEN, they don't count, they're low T, they're young, they're old, they're romantics, they're X, they're Y, they're Z".....how hard is it to admit that the group of men who actually thrive emotionally without women/female attention is maybe 5% of males, at most? Men need women, this isn't a shameful fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 04:39 PM
15

Black rappers spew the N word left and right, coast to international fame and immeasurable riches. Some washed up old white bitch says something a decade ago, everyone loses their flippin minds. rolls eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 04:25 PM
6

Shooting up a school is just an extreme example of what men turn to under the emotional anguish of not receiving female validation. Women never reach that level...wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 02:34 PM
9

Guys on the other hand, whom wanted to be in a relationship, but couldn't be, generally didn't really want a relationship after a while. Have you even read /r/foreveralone type subs? Men languish in emotional anguish when they can't get the validation of female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 02:31 PM
10

I feel like a girls creepy old dad sitting her down and talking all about Gina tingles and sex is actually a pretty great way to up the odds of her finding a 35 yr old to run the fuck away with, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 05:22 AM
12

I don't really think it would go over well for a father and daughter to sit down and discuss the intricacies of said daughters sexual arousal. Hello, daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 05:18 AM
7

I don't think that's really a TRP thing....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 05:10 AM
6

Not if I could stop her, but I think ya'll are overestimating how much control you'll have over a 17 year old willful teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 04:37 AM
1

Good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 07:14 PM
1

Well the other day he told me "why don't you just call me your fiance to people? It sounds more accurate than "boyfriend." To which I replied, well they'll ask why I don't have a ring yet. To which he said "oh I guess so, not your internet friends though." Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 07:13 PM
1

I'm young, thin, pretty, high sex drive, enthusiastic, down with whatever he wants to try. Fiance is the real sex God though, which I let him know frequently. Big dick, stamina, technique, skills, he can really drive me wild. I know I lucked out, majorly, can't let this one get away <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 03:12 AM
1

Does asking a girl you just met in class count as cold approach? That's what my fiance did, it worked out for us <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 03:04 AM
1

She's right in that Islam is shit, she's wrong in that muslims "should" give it up, since it's working, they're winning. By all means they "should" carry on being supremely shitty, at this rate they'll take over the whole world. Objectively speaking there's no "should" I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:59 AM
1

Yeah, they should. Islam sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:56 AM
1

end of thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:53 AM
1

Depends on how you define "promiscuous" , virginity over age 20 or so stops being a plus and starts being a red flag, but I doubt genuine promiscuity is ever a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:52 AM
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They'll probably die unhappy, but it's their own choice. I'm pro-natalist though so I disapprove of anti-natalist childfree-glamorizing propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:50 AM
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Ouch, cut me open and slice around and tie up my innards...how about not. If I didn't want kids there are a lot less invasive methods of avoiding pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:49 AM
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My fiance is perfect in his casual jeans, T shirts, button up flannels with rolled up sleeves, work boots...idk, men who care about fashion are gay :v
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:47 AM
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They married in college when she was beautiful and he was handsome, they're in their early 40's now so obviously have aged together but she's kept herself very well preserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 10:03 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:51 PM
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One of the most affectionate couples I know is a provider wife and a completely dependent husband; he has brain tumors and frequent seizures and as such cannot drive or be left alone or unsupervised. They have a 10 year old child and seem to be very happy, live frugally on her writer's living on a nice big farm. She is also very beautiful, he's a little more haggard looking due to the illness, lost his hair etc., anyway I guess redpillers would view this very cynically and impossible to work due…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:19 PM
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I doubt they have the introspection to realize it, in any case it's a compounding effect, generally both parters grow complacent in marriage until attraction is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:30 PM
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I disagree with your definition of the words "fraud" "deceit" and "lying" not only in this post, but in many of your posts, it's an ongoing source of confusion and I am genuinely curious to see you give an actual definition for them. You're only proving my belief that you have no definition, you just throw emotionally charged words at things you don't like with no regard for reality. So carry on and call me "snarky" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:29 PM
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I'll reiterate my request: Could you please define the words "fraud" "deceit" and "lying" for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:26 PM
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Could you please define the words "fraud" "deceit" and "lying" for us, since it's pretty obvious you're just making up your own completely random definitions of these words that have no basis in the actual English lexicon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:21 PM
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What evidence? It's pretty obvious that it's not conscious or planned out at all. If anything, the loss of attraction often occurs because men grow complacent and comfortable after marriage stop caring about their appearance and being interesting. You think women like being disgusted by their husbands and not having a satisfying marriage sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:11 PM
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As a woman, do you prefer to be dehumanized and used as a masturbatory aid during sex? Does it give you 'great sex' when this happens? No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 07:19 PM
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Adam was just thirsty, ftfy He was like "my oneitis is getting kicked out? Welllp I'm out too"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 12:11 PM
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I take the alternate view, that RPS is simply a projection of Dana's imagination, and the entire pillosphere is actually one very schizophrenic woman engaging in constant conversation and debate with herself. It also explains why Dana banned everyone so often, she had psychotically induced personal strife with her alter egos. ~Yes, I admit, I am also Dana, the Banana hath spoken~
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 09:40 PM
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If you never plan to marry, your relationship is trivial, I'm sorry but that's how the world works. If you're a "girlfriend" at 40 it's because he doesn't take your relationship serious enough to marry you, or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 04:09 PM
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I hope you're an English teacher because I'm putting this review on my resume.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 02:03 PM
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Their obsessive circle jerking about women seems to indicate they haven't lost ALL desire....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 02:01 PM
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Wow! This sounds like a Lifetime Television movie with a flipped script. And, alas, the dragon swooped in for the final blow. But...who is that in the distance...indeed! The Valiant Prince, himself! Charging in on his glorious steed, the Prince swooped in and courageously battled the dastard dragon. Triumph was his; he had saved the Princess! The realm erupted into cheers and celebration as their festive wedding feast was consecrated mere days later. The dark reign of the dragon was broken, sunl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 01:48 PM
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TRP men here have loads of great relevant advice for the average, say, 25 year old man who has lived a normal bluepill lifestyle. TRP men here seem to have almost exclusively self-defeating, anti-advice for the average 25 year old woman who has lived a normal bluepill lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 01:36 PM
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do you believe that women can truly separate emotional love and sexual love, where a woman can be having sex with multiple other men, yet still retain stable, emotional bonding with her devoted husband? No, not really, I don't believe that is possible except for extreme outliers. I believe a single woman can have meaningless sex, or a woman who doesn't love her husband, but a woman who LOVES and RESPECTS her husband would not cheat or be able to have sex with other men while retaining that love …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 01:01 AM
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When tropes are good it's because they reflect The Human Experience. It's what makes GOOD movies and literature so poignant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:59 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:56 AM
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I don't recall that thread but I don't think you're a whiny bitch and I enjoyed speaking German with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:52 AM
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What do you think he said, and what do you think I'm saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:49 AM
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So despite her being the one with the problematic past, all the deceit and dishonesty was from your end. I'm not arguing, that sounds like a very realistic situation. I'm sure it happens commonly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:49 AM
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The definition of slut varies wildly by culture, very similar to modesty. I'll answer for my understanding of western American culture. Generally, I would say no, a woman is not typically seen as a slut after say one short term tryst that didn't end up long term. The threshhold seems to commonly be between 5 and 10 partners. I believe so, women having sex outside of relationships is seen as more understandable/forgivable if the man was stringing her along with hopes of commitment but it never pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:46 AM
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It resulted in a miserable, long drawn out relationship built on lies. What lies, specifically, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:36 AM
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This kind of thing is so important in relationships, going the extra mile to be positive and cheerful and share the things your partner enjoys and wants to share with you! Even if you don't give a fuck about sportsball yourself. Unfortunately my experience mirrors /u/guitarsaregettingold, though, I generally see men being better about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:34 AM
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Yes, I think overall this is an accurate reflection of reality. And as always it's good advice for women to know what men would rather not have their noses rubbed in. Yes, he will probably not demand to know your exact N count or dump you for it. No, you should not eagerly volunteer this kind of information and regale him with specific gory details and describe the feeling of their dicks. You'd think this is common sense, right? I find myself agreeing with you a lot guitars, you should come by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:30 AM
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What percentage of the female population over say, age 20, are virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:19 AM
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Sure, sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:18 AM
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The context of the OP is women who have ALREADY slept around using vetting processes on men they're interested in LTR's with that they didn't use for men they wanted no commitment from. That's why Pem and Archwinger's advice of "don't be a slut" is totally worthless in this scenario, and they've proven to have no actually useful advice. As to the other facet, I guess we do disagree on that count then, I would advise deflection if it's over a certain level, and definitely never give details of pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 08:32 PM
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Sure, if it looks fake that's a problem, it stops being a boon and starts being a negative! Yes, men do say that, but watch what they do not what they say haha
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 08:27 PM
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Honest question, to play devil's advocate what's wrong with contouring? Chances are, the attractive man you fancy will end up with a girl who uses that makeup anyway, so he's still got a girl who does that it's just not you. I have trouble advising that kind of thing.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 08:20 PM
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We were not discussing a situation where a woman has already slept around. What?? This is exactly, 100% what I have been discussing all along. Not volunteer your partner count, but not lie if asked Yes, I agree with you completely, see Here Make yourself a more desirable partner in other areas to compensate for your undesirable sexual history Yes, again, 100% agree with you Don't withhold sex once you're in the relationship Obviously, A+ advice If you like him, don't make him wait long for sex W…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:56 PM
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Because the normal, average woman has videos of herself getting gangbanged by 20 men. That's not the situation we're talking about and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:42 PM
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Yes but we're discussing the former situation, where THE DEED IS ALREADY DONE. Do you really have zero, zilch, absolutely no useful advice to these women (who are 95% of the female population) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:38 PM
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Yep, I would agree with this. Insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:37 PM
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You're just picking and choosing which things to get outraged at because you're emotionally invested in it. Most men don't even explicitly ask about N count, and of the ones who do, most handle being deflected about it and don't care that much. There is a very small percentage who will dump the woman over deflection, which is fine, good for them. But all of them would dump a woman who comes out on the first date and regales them with tales of sluttitude past, that's so totally improper and tactl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:36 PM
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If a plate spinning man deflects his girl's attempts to find out what her status is, and deflects her by saying things such as "baby why do we need labels? Don't worry we have something special going on" etc., is that also subterfuge, subversion, fraud, deceit, and manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:23 PM
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There is nothing fraudulent about refusing to answer, I'm not saying she should give a fake number, THAT would be lying. Deflecting the topic is no more heinous than the typical male games of deflecting shit tests, amused mastery, agreeing and amplifying, deflecting around topics THEY don't want to discuss, etc. TRP advises men to deflect commitment talks and be unclear about their relationship status! And I don't care, sexual strategy is amoral. So why are you all in an emotional crisis over wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:21 PM
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How is that lying? Refusing to answer isn't a lie. He's free to leave if that's unacceptable. By what definition of dishonesty is that a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:17 PM
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That's your prerogative, good for you, but it's not her job to keep men from falling in love with her, her job is the opposite. She has no moral responsibility to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:15 PM
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Xpost from other comment: You realize the vast majority of men don't actually ask for a specific number, right? It's all about deportment and the way you come across, if a woman acts tasteful and demure she will be judged one way, if she acts lewd and agressively sexual, she'll be judged another way. And anyway, in this day and age if he actually does ask for specific details is perfectly normal and acceptable for women to deflect those conversations and with poise, refrain from discussing such …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:14 PM
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You realize the vast majority of men don't actually ask for a specific number, right? It's all about deportment and the way you come across, if a woman acts tasteful and demure she will be judged one way, if she acts lewd and agressively sexual, she'll be judged another way. And anyway, in this day and age if he actually does ask for specific details is perfectly normal and acceptable for women to deflect those conversations and with poise, refrain from discussing such topics. If that's a dealbr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:12 PM
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But, once you already showered women who don't love you with money, why are you obligated to always do that to every woman you like for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:08 PM
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And I was homeschooled through 8th grade, went to private school through highschool, and am on a full ride scholarship through college directly due to my parents excellent education efforts. I also have an awesome fiance and got hired into a highly competitive internship. Homeschooling is pretty great as far as I'm concerned.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 07:06 PM
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Yes you're obviously the type that women who want commitment should indeed be screening out. You'll get laid by women who don't want to keep you around, which is probably what you want, so carry on. Just don't try to give women any advice, men have proven over and over again they're utterly shit at that. Fish, Fisherman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:54 PM
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Men often protect their women in crises, just see how many boyfriends died saving their girlfriends in that movie theatre shooting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:53 PM
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Maybe on the coasts and among the champagne and caviar crowd, I suppose. Where else would we be discussing? Obviously religious prole midwesterners are a different deal than upper caste Hamptoners, Although it's still not nearly pronounced as you guys pretend. And it's not like she has an N of 50, probably just 5 to 15ish, with some casual encounters in there somewhere, believe it or not this is not a big deal to the attractive men of the class I'm discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:51 PM
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Why is it that every single woman (And it is all of them, because none have rejected the premise by denying their desire for all of the following) when asked what she wants in man, asks first and foremost for something along the lines of "STRONG, DECISIVE, ASSERTIVE, HAS HIS OWN OPINIONS, NOT AFRAID, DOESN'T LET ME WALK ALL OVER HIM" Because I want him to protect me <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:44 PM
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Yes, this is true, IF AND ONLY IF THEY AREN'T SLUTS. If they didn't become sluts Absolutely, 100% false If the girls are attractive, high class, poised, etc., frat boys and men of their own caste will marry them. So... is it still a good idea for women to slut it up and then lie about it later? I never said it was a good idea, just that your advice is worthless for the vast majority of normal women. Ideally women would somehow stay peachy pure virgins while gaining commitment from high value men…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:40 PM
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Sorority girls marry high value men of their caste IF THEY DIDN'T BECOME SLUTS. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA .. HAHAHHhhaahaAAHAHHHHAA omg dude You live in fantasy land
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:35 PM
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Because guys routinely treat girls who fuck them before there is an emotional bond as "fuck buddies" and girls who make them wait a little as "GF material". slow clap Brilliantly summarized.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:34 PM
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she has devalued herself for high value men. She is not going to get commitment from high value men. High value men won't commit to sluts or women with high Ns. False, women are not blind, they know this is utter wishful thinking on the part of low value men. High caste girls, sorrority types, etc., marry attractive high caste men en masse. You beta men wish this were true but it's the opposite, the more attractive and masculine a man is, the less frantic and neurotic he is about virginity. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:32 PM
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Your advice is worthless for the vast majority of women, so why should they listen to you? It is absolutely true that sorrority girls marry high value men of their caste, almost exclusively. And life is not nearly as simple as "pick one high value guy early on" to high value men, pretty girls are a dime a dozen and believe it or not they don't really care about virginity. You are demonstrating extreme solipsism and useless advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:28 PM
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You have a very unrealistic view of how life actually works out. You do realize that sorority girls, party girls, manic pixie dream girls, sluts of all sorts, marry high value attractive men every day of the week? That's how real life works. Your moralistic advice is utterly worthless to normal women, it's laughable. Sure, you can tell a young girl to stay virgin til marriage, but really, even that is just fantastical, pointless advice since she is not blind, she can SEE women who had normal sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:13 PM
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And should men listen to women who tell them "you showered your oneitises you orbited in expensive gifts, you're required to throw money at every woman you fancy, from now on, to be fair" ? You're not living in the real world, you're living in la la moralistic fantasy world where women who have lived normal lives should just shoot themselves instead of doing the normal, reasonable things that, you know, get them success.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 05:57 PM
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So basically, you have zero relevant valuable advice for women who have already lived normal lives, just "give up and die alone" Fish...Fisherman... Would you tell a man who has spent lots of money on girls, who comes to you for advice, that he's required to immediately throw money every woman he fancies, for fairness reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 05:53 PM
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She essentially traded sex for the cost of a drink She didn't trade sex for a drink, she had sex because she was single and horny and didn't care about making herself a long term prospect to the guy. Now she meets someone who she wants to make herself appealing to as a long term prospect. Obviously she will act differently, smartly so. "If you had a ONS once in your life, you are henceforth required to fuck every man you fancy within 2 hours of meeting him, for fairness. End of story." - Male ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 05:46 PM
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Obviously you shouldn't tel him you had sex quicker with guys you only wanted to use for sex, that's low class and dumb. But if you've done ONS in the past there's no reason to write off relationships forever by holding yourself to some insane moralistic standard where you are required to immediately bang every man you're interested in, for "fairness" . No other women do that, you're just crippling yourself for no reason at all. Sexual strategy, amoral, yada yada. When you meet a man you want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 05:36 PM
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Women never make a guy wait and jump through hoops >when they really and truly respect and admire him. If she really and truly respects and admires him, then he's already passed her vetting process. You are viewing this from the wrong perspective. It's not that she's vetting him so much as she's aware that, when you want a relationship with a high value man, you need to make him feel some degree of emotional closeness with you before sex is introduced. Otherwise you end up categorized as "sex on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 05:12 PM
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It's too much when it's overdone to the point of making you look worse rather than better. Use makeup to maximize your attractiveness and don't worry about it beyond that - especially if you're only using basic stuff like foundation. Every other woman uses it as well so why would you artificially devalue yourself? Don't be silly.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 05:52 AM
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What are your opinions on this?? Don't date men twice your age with kids by other women...what did you think you were signing up for?
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 04:01 AM
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I started acting this way because I was accused of being "insecure" and low self esteem for wanting monogamy from my partner. No...you can have plenty high self esteem and still be monogamous. That's just some tired shaming word.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 01:32 PM
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Lol I'm just jerking your chain I don't think poly barely ever works, I read /r/polyamory and it's all heartache and failure, but if it works for you then knock yourself out Of course it's bad for everyone for it to be normalized in general society, but that goes for all types of degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 01:29 PM
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Is he your fiancé or your boyfriend? Because in the other comment you called him your boyfriend and said he had an actual wife.... In which case yes, as far as I'm concerned, you're the plate/side piece of a married man, who sits through movies to get his dick wet on some strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 06:46 AM
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Fortunately Im not ugly or low value enough that my boyfriend needs a wife and other girlfriends to make him happy, we do the trick for eachother! Not accepting being side piece to a married man is hardly comparable to throwing a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 06:43 AM
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but poly people are generally people who genuinely don't care about their partner I agree completely
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 06:14 AM
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He can't hurt you, since you have to care about someone to be hurt by them. Show me a woman who doesn't care about her man loving and touching another girl, and I'll show you a woman who doesn't love her man. The exception being /u/susandeath who is a lovely lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 06:06 AM
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I believe chainsaw rage to be a very mature, emotionally healthy, and probably cathartic way to deal with polyamory. Violence, and threat of violence, isn't always a bad thing. Swift punitive violence (chainsaw rage) carries out fair justice. And the threat of violence (threat of chainsaw rage) is a deterrent toward negative behavior. It's really a win/win.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 05:44 AM
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We're very happy, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 05:07 AM
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Nope, I'm a limited edition, collector's item, very valuable. Hot stuff, that's me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 05:02 AM
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My killer figure and exquisite personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 04:58 AM
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thanks mom. I <3 you too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 04:57 AM
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Do you believe that you must be everything to him? Romantically and sexually, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 04:47 AM
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That sounds horrible for the kid I agree Is that what you call a quality woman? Nope, that's the quality of women who have kids out of wedlock Fathers have rights, too. I don't think the court will agree to cutting out the father from the child's life ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha do you even read TRP/MR? Do you really think courts are "fair" or care about the kids? It's a racket in which lawyers make money pitting moms against fathers and sucking their life blood out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 04:47 AM
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I think chainsaw rage is a natural emotional reaction to polyamory. Please don't invalidate my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 04:43 AM
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Cheating is still cheating whether he tells me ahead of time or not. Let's be honest, polyamory is usually an excuse to cheat without feeling guilty about it. One or both partners are going to be deeply hurt, as well as the outside people who get caught up in the emotional trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:51 AM
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What does pregnant girlfriend do when her boyfriend says no to marrying her. She dumps him, hauls him to court, gets 80% of his wages garnished as child support, and if she feels like it let's him see the kid once a month or so. What rights does father lose by being boyfriend instead of husband? His children are illegitimate and bastard, they do not share his last name, they do not carry on his legacy, they are not respected members of his family, they are the property of the woman, who can take…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:49 AM
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What's wrong with polyamory? Everything The concept of my boyfriend telling another woman that he loves her? Holding her hand...staring into her eyes...brushing a hair off her cheek.... I would chainsaw both of them to death in an extremely gory fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:17 AM
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The way it would work I'm talking about the way it DOES work, NOW. In which case, having kids OOW is a terrible idea. my thesis is: "Having a child out of wedlock is one of the worst mistakes a man can make" Not: "If you change all the laws and rules and cultural norms to be completely opposite, having a child out of wedlock is one of the worst mistakes a man can make" Obviously if you change everything, the situation is different. But it's not changed!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 02:22 PM
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No, my thesis is: "Having a child out of wedlock is one of the worst mistakes a man can make" This is true for a variety of reasons, such as - you'll be limiting your LTR pool to very low value women, you'll still be on the hook for child support but you won't have the same rights married fathers do, and if you plan on living together as a family unit your assets will end up being shared anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 04:22 PM
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Knitting, cooking, stone carving, drawing, whittling/wood carving, exploring off map in the woods, edible plant foraging, survival skills, backpacking, hobby arborism, canoeing, orienteering (mapping wilderness with compass and pace counting), sewing (haven't done it in a while, used to sew shelter canvass), playing soccer, reading stuff on the internet, hmm...stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 02:43 PM
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Besides, if a woman does that, what does it say about her? Would you be safer marrying such a woman like you suggest? Obviously not. Exactly, what do you think is the quality of the women who are fine and dandy with making bastard OOW children? I'll give you a hint: extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 02:31 PM
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Ah, so you're not talking about any situation grounded in reality. You're talking about La La Fantasy Land that doesn't exist and never will in the near future. As it IS, in REALITY, in the west, creating bastard out-of-wedlock children is one of the worst decisions you can make. If you invent a bunch of fake laws reversing everything about reality, sure, circumstances change. But it's still a fantasy, wishing laws were different doesn't make them so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 10:44 PM
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None of this changes the reality that if you have a child out of wedlock, you will be on the hook for just as much child support as you would be if you'd been married, and you'll have to jump through MORE hoops to have a relationship and see your kid than you would have if you had been married to his mom. Do you understand my point? Deliberately having children out of wedlock is the worst mistake you could possibly make, it is not remotely a "get out of child support free" card, it's the opposit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 10:40 PM
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What situation are you talking about? You realize that if you have a child out of wedlock, you have to pay court mandated child support, right? So you have to pay up just as much as if you were married, yet have to jump through many MORE hoops to see and have a relationship with your child if you have him out of wedlock. So it's infinitely worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 10:18 PM
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I don't understand what you're talking about, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 09:46 PM
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Men want to live a risk free lifestyle, but there is no such thing. You know what's more risky than getting married and having kids? Having kids WITHOUT getting married. You're still on the hook for all the same responsibilities (child support, etc.) without even getting the natural assumed rights of fatherhood. Like it or not, having a legacy requires combining and tying your life to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 09:17 PM
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She is evaluating him not just as a "mate" but as a husband, a partner for life I wish I could upvote you 1000 times.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 07:14 PM
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I'd cut a bitch. Trashy little whores better KEEP THEIR DIRTY LITTLE PAWS OFF MY MAN. Only partially hyperbole...I trust him but if she's going out of her way to flaunt it in my face Id probably get violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 03:44 PM
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Well you asked if I'd break up with him over it, there's my answer. And it's the answer of most of the "virgin unicorns" I've grown up with in my church. So that's simply reality.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 03:02 PM
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Good point, first date =/= established relationship. I can see either perspective making sense.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 02:37 PM
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Probably, LTR is vetting for marriage, how can I trust someone who is dismissive and deflective and hedgy and not straight with his answers over things that reflect on his level of husband-material? Would you marry a woman who deflected and joked around and agreed-and-amplified to avoid letting you know her N count?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 02:36 PM
1

My thoughts on the matter...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 02:09 PM
2

I feel like girls giggling over which boys are cute is pretty standard. Probably loserish on an online forum, admittedly, and if they're ugly then attaining said cute boys is probably a fantasy. But I have trouble feeling outrage, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 03:47 AM
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So if the guy gains 100 pounds and settles into a boring uninteresting life of wake up, work, veg out in front of TV and eat pizza until falling asleep, is it really "abuse" for his wife to lose attraction and not feel like having sex? That sounds like his problem as much as hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 03:44 AM
4

Do y'all enjoy cuddling Yes Si Ja Aye Da Ya Oui Да भवतु はい
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 03:39 AM
6

From an outside, unbiased, objective perspective: Go for the guy who is a sure bet for marriage - you're older, family and tradition is important to you, don't gamble with your life. But you're emotionally invested into and attracted to the other guy, so...that's your problem and decision. But the objective choice is obvious. That's why you're conflicted. Good luck sorting things out OP!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 03:35 AM
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I foresee a future with lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of muslims in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 10:03 PM
3

I don't think it's entitled so much as valuing a traditional dynamic in which gender roles are important. Do you consider it entitled for a man to expect his wife to take on his last name?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 09:22 PM
2

Reposting comment here since it's relevant: The Brad Pitt TM line of thought as like saying "cheating is an un-RPW dealbreaker to have, since if BRAD PITT cheated on you, you'd be so attracted to him you wouldn't mind." It just doesn't follow, maybe it's true there is someone high value enough that cheating would be forgivable but that doesn't mean it's an unreasonable dealbreaker IN REALITY. She's not going to marry Brad Pitt, she's marrying a real life normal man who she'll live with and be in…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 03:54 PM
3

To me, I interpret that line of thought as like saying "cheating is an un-RPW dealbreaker to have, since if BRAD PITT cheated on you, you'd be so attracted to him you wouldn't mind." It just doesn't follow, maybe it's true there is someone high value enough that cheating would be forgivable but that doesn't mean it's an unreasonable dealbreaker IN REALITY.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 03:51 PM
3

I know, right?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 03:28 PM
2

How is selecting for a sexually conservative man not RPW? Is it also anti-RPW to exclude guys with maniac porn-fueled fetishes? Is it anti-RPW to not want threesomes or poop play? I mean, according to you RPW is wanting all the sex that the most sex crazed men want, all the time. That's not realistic, especially not for traditional conservative women.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 03:12 PM
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It's perfectly natural and very mature to acknowledge your own sex drive and libido levels and select a man who will not clash with yours. There are plenty of traditional religious father types who are happy with a big family and aren't sex crazed like a porned up player. She's doing everyone a favor and minimizing future relationship tension and friction by being realistic and honest and up front about her personal libido level. That's not something you choose, like a career.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 02:39 PM
3

Late bloomer men are either A: Unattractive with bad personalities, or B: hardcore into the player lifestyle, you probably aren't that special that he'll change his whole life just for you. You can try, but for a woman who wants mongamy, marriage, and children I'd never recommend it. Yes there will always be exceptions, but this thread is about Red Flags, of which this is one.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 02:32 PM
3

These types of men are not typically masculine, and usually display rebellion toward traditional values and roles. They view relationships with a rpw as more of a dom/sub fetish than a natural traditional dynamic. And let's be real, they're usually full of themselves, do you really want to bring a bravetheist or satanist home to your parents for Thanksgiving? Let the eye-rolling commence...
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 02:22 PM
3

No contact with exes. Always.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 02:17 PM
2

I assume she doesn't like the name?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 02:14 PM
2

Yes, in my opinion this is one thing that needs to be pretty much unanimous. There are so many names that different people just don't like - whether they knew bullies by that name, or it sounds trashy, or redneck, or too trendy, or they just don't like the way it sounds - no matter the reason, it's pretty cruel to force someone to name their own child a name they simply dislike.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 02:14 PM
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The names of your children are one of the few things that really have to be 100% agreement or bust. There are thousands of names out there, keep perusing until you find one you both like. A good compromise can be using the mother's name or variation thereof as a middle name. Good luck! This is why god gives you 9 months!
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/15 09:51 PM
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Women despise shirtless pics of ugly beer-bellied or skinny guys. Mind blowing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 09:10 PM
1

Say it aint so!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:40 PM
1

I'm personally scandalized that it was removed. Reposting out of civil disobedience in support of Griddy's epicness: ~~~~ I'm saying you should write a fantastical novel, as this OP just sounds like your imagination gone wild. Get all of your thoughts and angst out into your fully fleshed out and developed characters. You'll have Chad Thundercock. Maria McSloot. Claire Virgin Mary. And the protagonist Zen Nas . These 4 unlikely individuals meet Breakfast Club style where they're forced to unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:32 PM
2

Late night, come home
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:15 PM
2

No I'm being 100% serious. Or is that sarcasm too? confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 07:48 PM
3

Say it ain't so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 07:40 PM
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Yes, this is exactly my strategy and I evangelize it to all the women who join my anti-beta cult. Together, we have slandered, ruined the lives of, and imprisoned over 1,000 innocent shy betas who were uppity enough to smile at us in the hallway, hold doors open for us, and even gasp ask us out at bars. This hideous behavior needs to be crushed and scourged from the land, the mind truly boggles at the entitlement of these value-less manlets. I and my sisters shall continue with our campaign of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 07:35 PM
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Self control, FTO, and inhibition are quintessential beta traits. That doesn't mean they're a bad thing. Beta traits are important when vetting for a LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/15 05:12 PM
2

The most common baby name in Britain is now "Mohammed." Really, I can't even fault them for fulfilling their naturally aggressive, violent, opportunistic, invading tendancies, goodness knows it's working. It's Europe who I judge, for opening their arms to this horde. But of course, all these aggressive and violent invadors will be converted by the holy bible of secularism and liberalism, and will definitely uphold and perpetuate Christian European values on into the future. Nothing to worry abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 04:54 PM
1

Islam has been battering at the gates of Europe for a thousand years. And now, one generation of a liberal progressive anti-theist (anti-christian) zeitgeist has compelled them to open the flood gates. We are standing on the precipice of another wave of great European turmoil, only time will tell the outcome - but I would not want to be a muslim in Germany 5 years from now. History repeats itself, go talk to the Jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 04:36 PM
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Probably
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/15 04:01 PM
3

Good observation, they certainly do tie together.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 10:05 PM
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And lastly, any guy that has a long string of crazy exes 100% this! No guy I know who has a long string of "crazy exes" is remotely relationship material. Excellent observation, I should have added that to my list!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 09:26 PM
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Good question. 1) The biggest red flag in general is a man who does not display FTO, "future time orientation", basically lives in the moment, doesn't delay gratification or plan for the future, can't stay motivated working on anything that doesn't immediatelyfeel good, etc. That's not a good character trait. FTO is not an alpha trait, but for a LTR you shouldn't be looking for a pure alpha anyway. 2) It's a big red flag if a guy does not introduce you to and bring you around his family, especia…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 09:13 PM
8

I hope a wee word appropriated here or there won't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 09:01 PM
3

Aye I would subscribe. I enjoy surfing the interwebz for juicy dramas to share with my IRC besties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 08:57 PM
1

I like that method because it gives him the freedom to spend his own money as he sees fit, she doesn't have to be hanging over his shoulder watching his every purchase and nagging and worrying about him spending the money they'll need for bills that come due the next week, since she can rest comfortably in the knowledge that the "bill money" and savings are safely partitioned away.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 10:33 PM
1

Calculus class in college. I was outside the classroom on the first day, waiting for the doors to open, when I noticed the most attractive man I had ever seen casually standing waiting as well. Tall, long curly black hair, chiseled features, casual confidence. I was smitten, and had a brilliant idea. You know how once you pick a desk on the first day of class, you sit there all semester, right? I figured this was my chance, I'd subtly follow Mr. Handsome in and sit next to him, giving me a full …
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 07:00 PM
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I think what /u/cats_or_get_out pointed out is right on - total amount of money in a checking account can be misleading since the partner not involved in the finances doesn't realize or understand the amount of bills that have to be paid out of that account. My advice would be to partition off the paychecks as they come in - so much into investments, so much into retirement and savings, so much into a checking account for bills, and a separate account for spending money. Give him a debit card to…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 06:51 PM
5

You know her here as /u/atlas_b_shruggin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 04:31 PM
5

"Men who can read are gay" - a famous and important friend of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:43 PM
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To a degree, certainly. There have been guys who weren't hideous but weren't really my type that I warmed up to being mildly attracted to because of their personalities. I don't think it's any coincidence though that the only guy I've ever reacted to with crazy amounts of IMMEDIATE desire, lust, and attraction is the only man I've ever been sexual with, and is the man Im Insane over and can't wait to marry. The other guys, who were kind of "meh" in looks but had a decent personality? Dates with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:19 PM
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Yes, I will warn them about false rape accusations in particular, just as I will warn them about many other potential issues in particular. I don't want to raise naive gullible kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:07 PM
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This is a very insightful point that I've never thought of. I agree with you completely. A few unattractive traits inspire enough revulsion that they still easily overpowers any attractive traits one adopts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 02:35 PM
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Oh, of course, hmm that is a good question. I guess you could increase your odds by dating men your own age, being the initiator, fostering an egalitarian dynamic, and being quick to next when they show signs of a possessive personality? I'm sure there are more tips as well, those are what come up with off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 02:30 PM
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I don't understand what makes false rape accusations so special that I should warn my sons of that, and ONLY that peril. There are a lot of things I'll warn them about, false accusations are only a small subset. Make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 02:27 PM
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Lol, yes, the issue of a personality artificially crafted by reddit is cured by....more reddit. Certainly not by something like, you know, joining a motorcycle gang or doing hookers and blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 02:26 PM
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On the contrary, histrionic MPDG type women universally manipulate and run rough-shod over the droves of men they magnetically attract. Think "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 02:24 PM
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You're free to seek out the relationship dynamics you personally want. It may leave you feeling un-cherished and unfulfilled...but it may not! There are always outliers and finding your own balance is part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 06:58 AM
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Being treated as an "equal" will make you feel unloved because there's no way for a man to treat you as an "equal" bro friend while also being protective and posessive of you. "Gaming" when done for the sake of gaming is usually awkward and unnatural, which is why most women much prefer a naturally masculine guy over anyone who has to read internet forums to memorize lines to recite at women. If you get a naturally confident, masculine, protective dude he won't be gaming you, he'll be operating …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:43 AM
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I don't want to be treated this way. I do not wish to be treated in a way that is any different that from the way one would treat a respected colleague or friend that one has no potential sexual interest in. I want to be treated as an equal in all aspects of life. I understand desiring this in a professional environment. Pretty normal and reasonable, most people want to be respected professionally and valued for their merit. And in your field of engineering, you probably don't have much to worry…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:34 AM
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You're nitpicking particulars, my reply to your OP is that I would indeed warn my sons about false rape accusations, as I would also warn them and their sisters about all manner of other ways in which people may take advantage of them. I don't want to raise overly trusting and naive offspring. Does this seem reasonable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:03 AM
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I thought I answered your question in that I think children should be raised with a healthy amount of "Schrodinger's _____" , where the blank can be filled with false rape accuser, rapist, false murder accuser, divorce raper, bunny boiler, thief, you name it. Basically, have a healthy amount of distrust for the people you encounter, don't be gullible and naive. Even if a man is mentioned as a possible suspect in a rape investigation, he will probably be fired from his job. If he's mentioned as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 04:56 AM
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Depends on what the man is going after, casual sex, a relationship, FWB, arm candy, etc. Generally speaking I'd say they go after traits indicating fertility - youth, waist-hip-ratio, good health, chastity (less chance of being pregnant by another man which would mean infertile for you!) fully formed female features (butt and boobs, babeh!) Oh, I will add though, Manic Pixie Dream Girl personality = beta crack. They go absolutely nuts over it to the point of wrist slashing, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 04:48 AM
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Everyone would do well to raise their kids with the knowledge that not everyone in the world is looking out for their best interests, it's important to be cautious and self-protecting. As to the subject of false rape accusations specifically, you're no more likely to be falsely accused of rape as you are of other crimes such as theft and murder, so I feel like the rational thing to do would be to warn your children about fraternizing with the wrong sort of crowd, staying away from engaging in sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 04:41 AM
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How is that not unrelated to evolution? If you take a thousand-generation string of women who were exposed over the years to various infertility-damaging or life-threatening STD's, and compare their genetic success to a thousand-generation string of women NOT exposed to these issues, of course the second group will have much much greater genetic success. Hence, evolution favors aversion to infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 04:51 PM
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You can't change other people, you can't change your mom. You can only do things yourself that make your dad happy, help him with chores and compliment his cooking, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/15 02:29 PM
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I think my life is pretty reasonable and not cosplaying either ideological extreme, stepford wife or militant lesbian feminist. I have very nice parents and siblings, applied myself in school to get a full ride scholarship through college, where I now study engineering. I just happen to have snagged the most perfect boyfriend in the universe so I like to treat him well, not really a big deal. I have a lot of un-PC opinions on a lot of things, most of which have nothing to do with RP or gender dy…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 02:15 PM
1

I think there were some pretty serious repercussion possibilities a millennium ago, as well - outlined in my other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 02:34 AM
1

When he's staying at my apartment I like to make his favorite breakfast (scrambled eggs, sriracha, bacon, bagel, fruit) and give it to him in bed with a glass of orange juice. I leave for work early, so he has a nice breakfast to leisurely wake up with while messing around on the computer or whatever he feels like as I run out the door. Goodbye kiss required, obviously.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/15 11:09 PM
4

Even if she penetrated you with a strap on? It's not like you get any say...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 10:23 PM
1

Female, RPW, LTR of 2 years "sex with you" can encompass a wide variety of activity, including crazy BDSM shit, poop stuff, bringing in a gang bang, whips and chains, lacerating anal, um the list goes on. I know this is a "marital rape isn't real" thread so to give some perspective, I think most guys in this situation would feel pretty violated if they got violently strapon-fucked by their spouse while in a coma. Anyway, to answer the question: I can't picture him doing it at all, that's not in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 09:29 PM
2

Beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 09:04 PM
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is the rational response not for women to treat their men wonderfully, so they don't stray? To a degree, yes, but there is no amount of "treating him good" that can make a 50 year old matron into a hot 20 year old. The OP was discussing the evolutionary psychological reasons that men detest cheating. My reasons are based on evolutionary psychology as well, spanning hundreds of thousands of human development. The current transient climate of society is not really applicable to the argument I'm ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 07:58 PM
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See here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 05:41 PM
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The men in my life who I really respect are my boyfriend, brother, father, and grandfather. These men are: Humorous, Kind, Protective, Strong, Providers, Dedicated, Respectable, Honest, Trustworthy, Interesting, Intelligent, Fun, and much, much more. For my boyfriend, the list extends even further, he is: Attractive, Sexy, Handsome, Passionate, Fascinating, Artistic, a mind-blowing lover, a devoted partner, and on and on and on. Interesting note - none of my men are "stoic" , nerdy, or boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 04:32 PM
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Also on a practical level, it can take months or years for a criminal trial to proceed, in the mean time schools can take temporary action like re-arranging class schedules, shifting residence between dorm buildings, swapping players on intramural sports teams, etc. - basic in-house school stuff that makes sense to handle while a more serious legal investigation takes place. I'm not going to make a blanket judgement that it's right or wrong for schools to do these things with little evidence, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 03:56 PM
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So it's not the act of cheating that is worse, it's the public response that makes it worse? Just trying to understand, here. Nowhere that I know of shames men for leaving cheating wives, this sounds completely farcical to me, but maybe you run in strange circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 03:44 PM
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Well the evolutionary reasons for men to care about cheating henceforth do not matter, since men can divorce cheating wives, paternity test all children, and birth control allows women to cheat without cucking. Technology FTW!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 03:39 PM
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You bumblingly dance around answering the one question that matters: Do you disagree that there are very real and legitimate evolutionary reasons for women to have such strong automatic revulsions toward being cheated on? Everything else is hamstering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 03:34 PM
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She can do that now, and that's all that matters. That's like saying cuckholdry isn't an issue anymore, since we have birth control now, and that's all that matters. evolutionary psychology don't give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 03:27 PM
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Most men don't knock up their affair partners. And most women don't get pregnant by their affair partners. Do you disagree that there are very real and legitimate evolutionary reasons for women to have such strong automatic revulsions toward being cheated on? They haven't just invented these deep-seated psychological reactions out of nowhere, any more than men have. There are potentially disastrous results for both partners when the other cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 03:23 PM
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Divorce and the option of suing him has not been realistic for all of the hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution. Evolutionarily speaking, a woman's genetic legacy is jeopardized by an unfaithful man, so it's completely reasonable for a fear and distaste for cheating to be deeply ingrained into their psyche, just as it is for men. I explained it here . And no, this doesn't always happen, but a woman who cheats does not always get pregnant and cuck her husband, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 03:06 PM
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When a woman's husband cheats, there are many real and severe possible repercussions that could blow back onto her. It's not just feeeeelings . The most severe of these repercussions result in the ending of her legacy, as well, so are comparable to cucking. 1: There is the real chance that he will dump you for the other woman, and just start over with a new family. This is not an uncommon outcome at all, the "runs off with the secretary" trope is not a trope for nothing. And, go back in history …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 02:56 PM
1

Nothing about this discussion is personal, we're describing reality, your cringe-inducing emoticons and weird personal statements are confusing me....how is any of what you said to atlas_b_shruggin relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 02:46 PM
1

What does this have to do with anything? I'm acknowledging reality, I have no interest in real alphas, for sex, relationships, business partnerships, or otherwise. Never touched 'em. My husband-to-be is an attractive, confident, protective, kind-hearted man, and he's the only man I've been with intimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 02:31 PM
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If you're a good girl I'll make a beautiful lampshade out of your skin. If not, I'll make an ugly one. Come here, my sweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 02:21 PM
1

We can hide out together, the SPCA and Humane Society is hunting me down now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 06:54 AM
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You're a real bigshot keyboard rapist, I'm sure. Hey Bluepill, I stomp on puppies for fun and make coats out of their skin. This is definitely a real thing that happens, I know it's true, because I do it every Tuesday as my rest day from raping bishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 06:34 AM
3

Hey!!! We got linked! Omg so exciting :D Kelly hugs MOS
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 06:17 AM
2

According to TRP logic: A boring nerd with a nice middle class IT job who spends all his time on an internet forum that tells him to read Marcus Aurelius and learn to be "stoic" (read: unfunny and lame) is alpha. A major league sports star, who has millions of dollars and thousands of women throwing themselves at him and widespread fame and popularity, is beta. This makes sense....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 06:15 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 05:40 AM
-5

probably in the beta to high beta spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 05:39 AM
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Awww you're cute
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 01:05 AM
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Yes, along with the rest of the emotional terpers, feel free to artificially expand the definition of alpha to conveniently include you. I'm sure it helps you sleep at night so I won't begrudge you life's small comforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 12:58 AM
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Why does it make you so insecure and sad being labeled as high beta? High betas (lawyers, doctors, etc) are desirable for relationships and to a lesser degree sex. They just aren't Charles Manson or Kanye West levels of alpha. Actual alphas NOTORIOUSLY do not care about female chastity, that is a principally patriarchal beta concern. Drug dealers and rockstars and sports players literally do not give a fuck, they marry models and porn stars. They are also hallmarked by their lack of FTO and self…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 12:51 AM
2

Ewwwww that image I'm imagining this thing peeing - excuse me, squirting - all over your face now. Yech. Need eye bleach.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 12:37 AM
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It must be rough realizing no matter how hard you stoic you'll never be alpha. Here, have one, for your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 12:30 AM
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Aye...clearly Kim was so tarnished by her sluttiness that alpha celebrity millionaires are disgusted by the thought of being with her....wait....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 12:23 AM
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Just to clarify, are you saying that gangsters and major league sports stars are beta? But a nobody with a boring nerd job is alpha if he reads enough Marcus Aurelius and lifts. Right. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 12:20 AM
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B-bu-u-ut I follow Mr. Money Mostache's blog like a good little boy and save enough of my IT admin salary to earn one million dollars by the time I am 50! I will retire early following the 4% rule and have $40,000 a year 4ever! How is this not alpha? I will be a MILLIONAIRE!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 12:03 AM
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You're a woman, you don't get to have a say in any of this. Not only that, what you've said is totally inaccurate and misrepresents TRP. Yes, I know TRP hyperventilates at the suggestion that Bob the well behaved little programmer who sits at work all day obeying his boss is Mr. Alpha. Hahahaha Real alphas are warlords, drug kingpins, pro league sports players, rappers, gangsters, celebrities, etc. And they go through loads of women and really don't give that much of a fuck about virginity. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 11:58 PM
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This is patently false. High betas try to avoid marrying sluts, but alphas most often don't give a fuck. Just about every pro basketball and football player gets married, and maybe 1% of them to virgins or even low-count women. Another interesting tidbit: they don't give a fuck if their woman "loves them for them." Real alphas are in prison, pro league sports, drug dealers, etc. If you have a job, you're beta. If you have a well paying job with status like lawyer or doctor or investment banker, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 11:47 PM
3

For context, I'm a vegetarian, and have never eaten or cooked meat in my life. Fortunately my boyfriend is not picky at all and doesn't care about whether his meals are vegetarian, so it isn't an issue for us. However, since you cook meat all meals of the week, and your husband has proven to be a picky person, it seems like it wouldn't be a big deal to just make him a meat portion to go along with dinner. It's only once a week anyway, and kind of arbitrary. That's my view of the situation, anywa…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/15 08:55 PM
0

Why not just cook him meat, if that's what he likes? If you want to do meatless monday for yourself, sub the ground beef with grilled zuchini for your tacos, or leave the peperoni off your pizza slices or meatballs off your spaghetti. I don't really understand the issue and why he has to eat meatless too when you're the one who cares about it. Meatless monday seems kind of arbitrary when you cook him meat the rest of the week.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/15 07:40 PM
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So you must be the feminist :) I was expressing my disagreement with the feminist rhetoric Real life is never as simple as "just prioritize family and have piping hot dinner ready every evening and never travel for work, you'll be fine." Real life is, you have a mortgage and bills and little kids and mass layoffs are being announced and the job market is dire and if you don't stay late when your supervisor tells you to, or go on the business trips that you're assigned, guess what? You're on the …
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/15 08:16 PM
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I think it's feminism that panders the "You can have it all! You can have a career and be the providor AND have a lot of kids and prioritize family and never run out of energy or let things slide!" I don't think that's realistic for most people.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/15 07:59 PM
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Yeah, it's a bummer. I guess the point I'm trying to make is: unless she marries a rich husband, it's a lot easier to say "oh just put your family before your career, always" than to actually do that, when your family's livelihood depends on your career. Particularly when kids come into the picture.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/15 07:50 PM
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She would definitely do well to focus on specializations that have better work-life balance, to be sure. But in my corporation alone a layoff of over 2,000 engineers was just announced, with the way the job market is recently it's best to be realistic, people are often lucky to get any job at all and once you have one there's no messing around putting it in jeopardy by not prioritizing getting your projects done on schedule. I wish this wasn't the case, I really do.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/15 07:35 PM
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Something important to recognize, if she wants the luxury of prioritizing her family life above work at all times, that's something she needs to take into consideration when choosing a husband. My boss who is an engineer has young children and a husband who she loves dearly, but who does not earn even a fourth of what she does, and she has confided in me that it is an unfortunate reality that she doesn't have the luxury of not prioritizing her career, since not keeping up or losing her job could…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/15 06:53 PM
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She's lower value than Jolie, since Jolie can snag a man who is BOTH hot and rich, while Melanie only managed to get a guy who is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 02:59 AM
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Oh yes, being so pissed off and out of frame over a woman disrespecting you that you do shit that'll get you sent to prison is sooooo alpha. Yes, obviously. Almost 100% of real alphas these days are in prison, in the military, or drug dealers and gang kingpins. Donald Trump, one of the most alpha men in America, has said before that he wouldn't touch Angelina Jolie because her partner count's too high Ah, yes, Angelina Jolie...the woman who is married to the man UNIVERSALLY pointed to as THE MOS…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 02:45 AM
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Do you think your husband would have been amused if you had run off during his proposal and had a girl friend come in and agree to marry him as proxy for you? Everything about the interaction is completely strange and not acceptable.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/15 01:03 AM
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I'm sorry to disagree with your sentiment, but he HAD HIS BEST FRIEND GET DOWN ON ONE KNEE AND ASK HER TO MARRY HIM. I don't find it unreasonable in the least to find that extremely distasteful and a huge turn off. I doubt I could marry a man who did that, it's horrifying. When they're ready to start a family and he's feeling nervous, is he going to bring his best friend in to do the fathering, as well?
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/15 12:35 AM
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Baby, don't hurt me.... Don't hurt me no more Baby, don't hurt me... Don't hurt me no more DOOT DOOT DOO-DOO-DOOOOOO DOOtee DOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 11:09 PM
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So why are you here on redpillwomen trying to instruct women on how to get solid husbands? "Don't go to church" is pretty bad advice, so you're proving your own point.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 08:43 PM
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Why would the kind of upstanding, attractive, high value traditional man we're picturing approach random modern women on the street when he has an entire community (church!) of like-minded believers to choose a partner from - one whom he has grown up with, who his family and friends know and embrace? That's right, he wouldn't.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 08:32 PM
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Hahahahaha, this is why we need you to hang out in irc!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 06:15 PM
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I have no interest in hunting down a user of the TRP subreddit, OP and most rpw are interested in the opposite of the average TRP user - we want someone who is naturally masculine, traditional, attractive, and marriage minded. These types of men are disproportionately available in small traditional christian churches, in my experience. And for the record, both I and my boyfriend are agnostic/atheist, I'm just acknowledging reality because I got lucky with my boyfriend, OP is still searching and …
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 05:47 PM
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Personally I'm not attracted to older men. Other women who don't mind as much may find it a good strategy. But I'd rather have an attractive, driven, committed guy my own age. Which may be more difficult to pull off but I've not had any issues with it, my boyfriend is perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 05:31 PM
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I read theredpill as a way of making myself aware of how men talk about women. I think it's fairly clear that she's talking about the subreddit. But if she's talking about the manosphere in general, then I agree with you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 05:15 PM
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Personally, I would not. I agree with /u/scallopkid 's sentiments , and when also taking into consideration the day to day complications of it - we'll never be a single family unit, somebody else will always be imposing, he'll be less likely to want as many kids with me, he'll be tied to another woman for life, if he doesn't have sole custody he'll be shelling out lots of money, etc. ad infinatum, I see no reason to marry a single dad unless I'm low value enough that it is the only good option.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 05:13 PM
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I don't believe them, but I respect them for upholding standards of propriety. It's not improper to recognize other men as attractive (impossible not to) but it is improper to admit that in public or admit to anything other than "I have eyes only for my man." So I know it's objectively not true, but publicly announcing anything other than the tasteful lie is very unbecoming and a large red flag. Just my $.02
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 05:08 PM
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"Sex Ed" would just be included in highschool biology class as part of the chapter on reproduction. Some straightforward anatomical and biological explanations, a biological explanation of STD's and other risks inherent to sex, the science of pregnancy and the science behind various birth control options should about cover it. Sexual assault/rape law overview and a quick handout of information on resources for victims of sexual assault can be a small aspect of high school sociology or government…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 04:49 PM
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You want a solid, stable, traditional-minded husband? Do you know where you will find this man? Hint: not in Anime club or the Student Secular Alliance. CHURCH. Any young man who is active in his church, has a good relationship with his family, and is hard working and conscientious is almost automatically husband and father material. You'll do yourself no favors by being atheist or some sexy millennial religion like wiccan.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 04:40 PM
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I don't think most men on the TRP subreddit are long term relationship material, controversial opinion here. Just personal observation.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 04:37 PM
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Just personal observation: the "bros" who take gym and lifting seriously do not tend to be the type ready to settle down in college.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 04:36 PM
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Bet you're real fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 10:17 PM
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It's a joke lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 05:32 PM
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pics or gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 07:39 PM
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The Bible: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law." - Galatians 5:22-23. "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/15 06:40 PM
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20 year old female reporting in: Average: http://imgur.com/NCIouxx Hot: (would be a pic of my boyfriend, but no doxxing, sooo) http://imgur.com/MY90Kuj
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:33 PM
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No...no...nope. Definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 02:30 PM
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I wish I could upvote this 100 times. Anyone saying balding or bald guys look ok is hamstering. Hopefully I'll have killer husband goggles by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 02:29 PM
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Whoah, small reddit world, I recognize you from the snoonet ForeverAlone channel. You should join us on the quakenet PPD channel we're a lot more fun ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 06:36 PM
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A mere gun? What do you think the tank and bazooka launcher in my basement is for, decoration? And as a true RPW what is this "dee-liv-err-ee man" you speak of? Everything me and my hugs-to-be eat is 100% whole grain natural organic cooked by me, I grow and grind the grain for our home made bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 04:11 PM
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You assume too much, my coworker is a Lay Dee! But hopefully there'll be a good group from work there :) But of course you're right, I'll crochet myself some shackles and lock myself in my own basement. I don't know what I was thinking!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 09:25 PM
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Lol! That was a typo, supposed to be hubs. This is great advice, but I have a boyfriend so the I don't think sexy cat-woman is the way to go. I'll have to save that one for dear Hubs-to-be. As a true RPW I am modest and demure at all times, in fact I think I'll go costumed as a burkha'd Pakistani. Or is that cultural appropriation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 08:59 PM
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Ok, I was instructed by your hubs to ask you anything cuz it's your AMA too. My question: My coworker is throwing a casual Halloween party this Friday and I don't know if I should go, and if I do, what to wear. I know I should go, workplace cohesion, socializing blah blah but I'm so introverted. And I don't have any cheap costume ideas. Any tips, advice, or inspiration? Thanks 5ever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 08:36 PM
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Thanks TGH! You should join us in IRC :D You know you wanna....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 08:26 PM
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A+ advice but I'm stuck at work and can't go buy anything. And I'm not rich so luxuries like expensive gloves, toothpaste, and toilet paper are an impossible dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:58 PM
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My boyfriend told me not to watch the latest season of The Walking Dead on Netflix because he wants us to watch it together. But the suspense is killing me since I binged up to this point. And now I'm supposed to just stop and wait? Also he's busy in his hometown this week so it will be FOREVER (like 5 days). Do you think in this situation I would be justified in watching ahead contrary to his orders? Or should I watch ahead, and keep mum about it, and pretend to be surprised at things when we w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:56 PM
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A+ advice, duly noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:48 PM
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I like to explore in the woods across the road from my apartment (I live in a rural area) but since it's technically trespassing, I try to wear non-eye catching gear and stay unnoticeable and inobtrusive. But it's going to be hunting season soon. Should I wear an orange vest to avoid being shot and run the risk of being run off, or should I wear my dark brown gear to avoid being noticed but run the risk of getting shot? I quite enjoy my forest adventures, finding awesome stalves and such, althou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:42 PM
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Pretty classic excuse, guess I'll go with that one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:33 PM
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I've driven my car about 4,000 miles since the oil was last changed, which should be fine, it should be able to go a couple thousand more since it uses synthetic oil. But my dad says I need to use the dipstick (I guess to check that the oil didnt fall out?) and I don't know how. I opened the hood and there were a lot of tubes everywhere. Do you have any tips? I've only owned this car for a few months so I'm new to automobile maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:14 PM
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A+ Advice Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:10 PM
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Thank you! I love these shoes I'll try finding somewhere like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:09 PM
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Show doctor? Do you mean shoe doctor? If you mean shoe doctor, how do I find one of these, and is it really only $10? If you mean show doctor, how do I find one of these and what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:04 PM
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A+ advice, will try. I added a picture of the scarf for reference btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:03 PM
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I have a favorite pair of leather boots but the stitching around the tongue flap is coming undone. I want to fix it before the problem worsens but I don't really know how, since the leather has ripped where the stitches are. Do you have any tips? picture for reference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:00 PM
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I bought a new hunting knife the other day and my dad told me not to cut myself. Not 5 minutes after talking to him, I was carving my nifty stick (hopefully /u/TheGreasyPole will have advice on how to put a finish on it) and I cut my finger! Sunnuvubich. Should I fess up to my dad and endure the "I told you so?" He'll definitely laugh at me. But if I don't fess up I need a story to explain my cut finger. So do you have a creative alternative story I could use?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 02:54 PM
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I currently have nail polish on my fingernails but it's chipping a lot and looking pretty dumb. Since I slept in too late (hopefully /u/susandeath will have advice for this issue in her AMA) I didn't have time to remove it for work. Now I feel like a frump and I have no nail polish remover. What should I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 02:50 PM
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I really need to wake up at 6:30 a.m. to realistically do the morning things that I'd like to do, but I'm such a lazybones that I end up sleeping until 7:30 and not having time to do my hair or eat breakfast. Any tips? I just "snooz" all the alarms I set. I also think late-night IRCing doesn't help, but that's nonnegotiable so don't mention it plz.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 02:48 PM
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I found a neat looking stick in the woods the other day and carved it all up into a nifty design. I want to preserve it/make it shiny in some way. I know there's something like shellac, or varnish, or some kind of polyurethane product I could use but I have no experience doing such a project. Any tips? picture for reference added
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 02:45 PM
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My big soup pot has some burn stains in it from overcooking my pot pie filling the other day. Do you have any advice on how to shine it up? I knit a scarf last night but I fucked up and cut the yarn off too close to the binding, I'm afraid it will unravel, any tips? I have leftover pancake batter in the fridge but I'm really not feeling pancakes for dinner again, advice? picture for reference added
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 02:43 PM
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Positive. To me it means someone who is attractive, fun, and stable - someone with whom you want to start a family. Like my boyfriend <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:22 AM
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How alpha are you, exactly? I'm Chad ThunderNess. I'm so alpha that I invented a Greek letter to come before alpha, I call it Negpha. That's right, I'm so Negpha that I re-invented the fuckin Greek Negphabet. Are you capable of love? As a supremely stoic Negpha, I regulate all my emotions aggressively. So no. Do those stubby little arms make it hard to jack off? I am a proud TRP No-Fap Activist, so that is not applicable. What does a dinosaur want with money? Hookers and booze, babeh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 02:40 AM
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I'm copying this over from the reply I made to the other person making this point: That's not the situation at all. He clearly states that his girlfriend never changed. All those years of her youth and peak fertility that she gladly sacrificed for him, when he was struggling and needed support, she was plenty good enough for him then. She was faithful and loyal and supportive for over a decade, and she hasn't changed . When he needed her he didn't care about her yoga pants (and who dresses up to…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/15 02:01 PM
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That's not the situation at all. He clearly states that his girlfriend never changed. All those years of her youth and peak fertility that she gladly sacrificed for him, when he was struggling and needed support, she was plenty good enough for him then. She was faithful and loyal and supportive for over a decade, and she hasn't changed . When he needed her he didn't care about her yoga pants (and who dresses up to go to the grocery store, really). But now that he doesn't need her anymore, he's t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/15 02:00 PM
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This is not appropriate
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/15 12:31 AM
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If you'd like some introspection into why women care about marriage, just have a look at this . OP is tired of his girlfriend of TEN YEARS, who he describes as: "I've been in a LTR with a great girl for over 10 years. She is truly a quality person - loyal, kind, good personality. She was with me when I had nothing as a lost mid 20s guy with no job and supported me through the tough times." Because she's being a normal human being and aging. Please continue to lecture the RPW's on why commitment …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/15 09:36 PM
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Don't bring it up out of nowhere, but if he brings up his qualms again, offer him full transparency. All of your passwords, phone access, GPS app on your phone, whatever he wants. Respectfully ask if there are any further boundaries that would make him more comfortable, like a curfew, or no partying at other people's houses, or no alcohol consumption outside his presence. Be honest why you left your ex for him: He is more manly and attractive and he's everything you've ever wanted. It's not holl…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/15 08:14 PM
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Relationships that start out as LDRs and have no permanent end date in sight are just bad news. You will build him up into this otherworldly, divine, perfect human being, and you will either waste years of your youth committed to a man you never see or you'll eventually close the distance and have your wild expectations shattered. I can really only recommend that you date someone in your own area.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/15 01:35 PM
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It's his kid. Let him handle it, it's not your business or concern.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 10:12 PM
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Just get some big toolboxes like Tempest suggested and tidy the things into there when it bothers you. My mom has lived with much, much worse than this for 30 years, learn to laugh instead of stress. It's not a big deal, and it's a hobby to him so he doesn't see the money as a waste. It's normal for people to spend money on their hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 02:28 PM
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We sat down and he said that I was too submissive, and he wanted an equal partner and that this was something on his mind for a while. The most normal translation for this would be that you're boring and uninteresting, a "yes-woman." This contradicts your description, though: I did absolutely make a number of decisions in our relationship, and introduced him to new fun things that he loved a lot. He is a total homebody, which is perfectly fine, and I would invite him out to really fun activities…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 03:22 AM
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If a man is close with his family and hides his relationship from them, that's a huge red flag and you're highly highly likely to be non serious plate material in his eyes. Given your boyfriend's distant relationship with his family, however, it is only a moderate concern. Proceed as usual but keep alert for signs of lack of commitment. Don't nag him about it since he's already made his call: he just doesn't want to deal with that drama.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 03:16 AM
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You filed for divorce, which is as much a breach of the marriage contract as cheating is. It's not just a breach, it's the ultimate breach. I know that doesn't invalidate your feelings though, or make him not a cheater, since he stepped out before you filed for divorce. It sounds like you were both in a bad place in the relationship though, in any case. My gut says there is more. My heart says to let it go. I love this man. We've had so many ups and downs, but I love him and when it comes down t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 02:51 AM
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your university and major has negligible affect on SMV but potentially significant affect on RMV, depending on your social class. See my comment here
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 04:05 AM
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It means that you increase his social value through your association with him. In the context of a social function, know how to dress and groom appropriately for the function, be poised, refined, pleasant and gracious, and never do anything to embarrass him like appearing gluttonous or interrupting or contradicting him. A well bred woman will optimize his social circle by networking with the other wives and ladies. If your husband needs to make a business deal with Mr. X, and you are integral to…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 01:31 PM
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Just curious, how long will you wait? Will you go through life as a widow/spinster because a guy you had a crush on when you were 19 turned you down? That's kind of a comical situation.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 09:58 PM
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Look, you hung out with a guy for 6 weeks, you didn't even have sex, and in the end he told you that he not only doesn't want a relationship with you, he doesn't even want to be friends with you. All this is is a teenager with a silly crush, it was reciprocated for a few weeks but something changed his mind, so you're out of luck. You're not some cosmic soul mates who are going to have a lifetime movie based off of your love story. You got nexted. Move on.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 08:10 PM
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He is a huge family guy so we are usually at his parents home at least four days out of the week. Is this an all-day thing where you're at his parents house with the kids alone, or just dropping by in the evenings for a bit? If it's the latter, just relax and don't stress about it, like CWM said act extra respectful to your husband and don't let them work you up. If it's the first, that seems excessive and unnecessary, you don't need to be spending 4 full days of the week alone with his parents,…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 06:16 PM
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Let's do it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 02:16 PM
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OMG!!! sqeeees I <3 you Griddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 02:10 PM
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Agree completely. The last thing fat depressed basement dwellers need is to be sat in a lecture and talk talk talk talk talked at about women. That's what PUA camps and "flirting emphasis" translates too. They need to actually change themselves: get more fit, confident, and manly. Cringey PUA/TRP terminology and a desperate obsession over finding that "one weird trick" to winning women is the last thing they need. In my bootcamp they get access to hookers, beyond that no lectures on female psych…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 02:08 PM
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It's a Teepee sewn from canvass, and it's very large. At least 10 feet tall in the middle, easily walked around in. And rain proof.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 01:57 PM
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Incels don't need summer camp where they learn how to primp, preen, and "groom" . They need Bootcamp. My Incel Cure Bootcamp Program: Send me your Incel, your Basement dwellers, your Failure-to-launchers, your Foreveralone. One year going through my bootcamp and I guarantee a cure. Attendees will learn how to shoot guns, ride dirtbikes, shoot off fireworks, fuel bonfires, build things, lift weights. They'll be broken up into groups to learn true male comeradery and teamwork and build clubhouses.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 01:34 PM
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Dinner ideas: A nice Italian pasta + fancy sauce + garlic bread, with an Italian salad for one meal, and an all-American meat + gravy + mashed potatoes + bread + side veggie for the other would work alright. You can make cookie dough ahead of time and freeze it, just let it soften before you want to make desert and pop it in the oven. Home made cookies and milk make a good snack along with more healthy options like veggies and dip, crackers/grapes/cheese, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 12:17 PM
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You're welcome :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 12:11 PM
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Some of my doodles/designs: ~~~ Something I sewed ~~~ My main hobby now that I'm stuck in a small apartment is cooking; my dream is to eventually live out on a lot of land so I can garden and homestead and get into bladesmithing and woodworking crafts :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 03:58 AM
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The main factors into looking feminine and put-together are simple maintenance and hygiene on a regular basis. Keep your fingernails clean and glossy, wear a tasteful amount of makeup, do your hair every day, wear perfume and jewelry in moderation, and keep your clothes clean and form-flattering. Really, for college classes, there's nothing wrong with wearing fitted jeans and cute tops, with stylish shoes. If you want help picturing specific styles, here's a more nuanced analysis. I'm going to g…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 02:54 AM
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I'm a 19 year old guy who just found this sub. I'm not sure if it's acceptable here for a guy to post but I'd just like to give my two cents. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/352e0n/regarding_man_here/ https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/3gqe50/if_youre_a_guy_and_youre_here_read_this/ Excerpt from the second link: "Guys think they know what good advice for women is. Women, if you take this advice- "i find book smarts to be very attractive" I promise you will waste a cons…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 01:42 PM
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Even low value men don't love low value women. Just as an ugly 50 year old man is attracted to 18 year olds and finds women on his own level unnatractive, so does a 5 male find a fat sub 5 woman ugly and uninspiring. Even if he settles for her to get his dick wet he'll never love her like a woman wants and needs to be loved, it will be unsatisfying for her just like going to a brothel could be unsatisfying for a male incel. You're only seeing things from your own male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 10:05 PM
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FTFY: Your issue here is that you just refuse to attempt to empathize with the [fe]male experience. I can't blame your inability to do so since pretty much all [men] fail in this area. Just remember that [women] are very [emotional] in sex. For example, [physical sex] feel good but the main reason I like it is to [know the man loves me, treasures me, and wants to protect and care for me all of my life.] If I'm Egg[wo]man and I go to a [trashy club] the fact that I [get laid] isn't going to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 09:54 PM
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So I just want to get this argument straight. OP/your type claim that women can not be incel because they can supposedly always get the physical act of sex. When people point out that the sex isn't enjoyable, you respond "Doesn't matter! They can get sex!" But when I point out that men can always get the physical act of sex as well, everyone jumps to respond "But it isn't enjoyable!" See the issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 09:44 PM
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So? The prostitutes are paid to make it enjoyable, you clearly don't know what you're talking about. And in any case, it's still sex. So you're still supporting the argument that incels aren't actually lacking the physical actions of sex, just some hard-to-pin-down fee fees. According to you, an Australian man could have hot enthusiastic sex with beautiful women every night of the week for his entire adult life, and he would still count as "incel" if it was all paid for. That is clearly not celi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 09:17 PM
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Well, answer the question for Australia or the appropriate European countries then. How do any incels exist in Australia when you can just pay someone for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 06:03 PM
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So the problem incels have isn't that they physically lack sex, it's that they lack the good fee fees of having women do it for free. So, a man could have sex with a 10/10 stunning, enthusiastic woman, for every night of his adult life, and still be incel, as long as he's paying for it? It seems like "celibate" is not a word that should be used to describe what you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 05:08 PM
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Any woman can get sex at any time in 2015 So can any man, he just has to pay for it. There are no incels, except one or two who are literally too poor to scrounge together 20 bucks for a street hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 04:44 PM
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In this thread: "why are you shaming men for watching porn? WTF you monster! Stop shaming men!!" and: "why would you admit to being a worthless boring prude? Don't you know everyone thinks you're pathetic for not wanting threesomes?? You should feel shamed" cognitive dissonance, much?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:22 PM
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It's not really comparable, no. Female sexuality is passive and reactive, male sexuality is active and aggressive. You don't find women spending hours of their day, every day, seeking out sexual stimulation from literotica from the age of 10 onward. There is the issue of media in general warping social expectations and dynamics - disney movies making little girls feel like entitled princesses, rom-coms giving unrealistic expectations of relationships, etc. But frankly the same qualms apply to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:43 PM
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Porn has permanently and significantly changed the standards of what is normal and expected in romantic and sexual relationships. Threesomes, anal, even oral sex was much more taboo even decades ago. You have boys as young as as 10, 11 years old watching hours of porn every day, requiring increasingly deviant stimulation to maintain interest. In this day and age, a young man entering a relationship for the first time has often had over a decade of heavy, "kinky" porn consumption wiring his brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 04:08 AM
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If he has a shitty last name or personal issues with his father and he wants to take mine, sure, who cares. If he wants to get married and keep separate names, that's more complicated. I don't want to have a different last name than my children; no children of mine will be seen as bastards. So they'd have to get my name, which would leave him as the odd one out and acquaintances, school staff, etc., would assume he is my boyfriend/the kids stepfather, separate from the family unit. Just a subpar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 11:54 PM
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I'll take my husband's name when I marry him. You're making a family together. That's the point <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 10:18 PM
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Personally, I was too lazy to go to 3 different gov't agencies to change my name. Fuck you I don't think it's the lack of care for bureaucracy that people find distasteful, it's the "fuck you" attitude that seems to inevitably come with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 10:12 PM
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Since he hasn't given any indications of untrustworthiness, the jealousy is your own issue. Don't bring it up to him or use it to cage him (ugh sweetie don't go out with your bros there might be a girl there you know I have jealousy issues =/ , etc ) as that will only lead to him resenting you and wanting to rebel. Simply acknowledge the feeling is irrational, channel it into self improvement and being the best girlfriend you can possibly be, and beyond that, just accept the feeling as normal an…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 08:15 PM
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I want to chalk up the indolence to our age and hope that maybe it's something he'll grow out of... like maybe when kids are really on the horizon, he'll shape up in preparation. Aww, that's such sweet, understandable wishful thinking. However it is completely unrealistic and very dangerous. It's the worst type of covert contract because you're hoping once you actually make a HUGE investment (have kids with him) he will miraculously shape up. So when he obviously doesn't, since people don't just…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 08:00 PM
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How long have you been together, and are you married? The advice you will get on your situation varies wildly depending on whether you've been dating this man casually for a month, vs. been married to him for 10 years. The main thing you have to accept is that you can't change him. There's no magic spell you can cast on him to make him take charge and have ambition and drive. If you're not okay with being the primary breadwinner and having a stay-at-home, "lazy" (your words) partner, you have tw…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 07:21 PM
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Just a joking reference to this thread haha https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3moukr/how_young_is_too_young/cvhg92d
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:13 PM
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I don't find cheating acceptable behavior from anyone :c I suppose on a scale from "drunken ONS that really meant zero anything emotionally" to "years-long affair with a secret family and other children" your scenario falls far toward the first along the spectrum. And that end of the spectrum is where reconciliation and staying together is easier to pull off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 04:56 PM
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A dude who's active on the trp subreddit? No, I wouldn't approve. A masculine traditional minded man? Sure, if that's what she's into. But at the end of the day it's her choice in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 02:28 PM
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Aww that's rough :( You definitely described a similar scenario. His mood made me upset, and in a moment of frustration I expressed my "upset-ness" in a snappy way that hurt him. I'm thankful my Man is more forgiving and understanding than your girlfriend was, since in our case it was resolved within the day and harmony reigns once more <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 01:59 PM
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Manipulation to make everyone happier I guess xD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 01:47 PM
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My Man and I are both pretty laid back so we don't get on eachothers nerves much, but occasionally it happens. I'll give you the most recent example, from this weekend. He was in a bad mood from things in his life that have nothing to do with me, and I made a comment that was insensitive; it hurt his feelings. How it was resolved: He took a nap, and while he was napping I got over my frustration, made a cheesy macaroni bake with garlic bread, and when he woke up apologized sincerely, fed him, en…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 01:31 PM
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Just spend time together and get a feel for his character. Don't manufacture "tests" for the sake of it, but if you do activities like hiking together, you can observe how he handles scenarios like getting lost in the woods, adapting plans, keeping cool in touchy situations, etc. Also observe how he behaves around his family, is he respectfully involved in their lives? A man keeping you secret and hiding you from his family is a huge red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 01:13 PM
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In the OP, the scenario you paint is him making plans and wanting to go do something on the weekend, and you replying "no, I have to clean." If he is seriously standing there simultaneously complaining about the mess and complaining about you taking time to clean the mess, I have no advice. I've always held the opinion that the person who cares more/has a higher threshold of "acceptable cleanliness" will have to be the one who maintains said standard, for everyone's sanity. If he's that bothered…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 09:37 PM
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I don't think I'd go so far as to ask a guy out myself. Strike up a conversation, sure - develop good friendly chit chat skills, be able to non-awkwardly ask a fellow what his college major is, smile and make him feel flattered at his accomplishments, lightly touch his arm while laughing at his jokes, be a good listener, even give hints like "oh, I've been wanting to get out and see that!" if he mentions something like visiting a landmark or hiking to a popular overlook. If you're in class and m…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 12:43 PM
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Number one key to being approached: be attractive. If you can, optimize your body shape and fashion. Beyond that, smile a lot, make eye contact, practice making friendly small talk, and avoid spending all of your time in groups of friends. This last point is key, a friendly chick alone is a lot more approachable than one in a gaggle of girls or guys.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 03:43 AM
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Do we know that he actually cares about keeping the house clean to her own personal specific level of preference, though? Nothing in the OP mentions him being bothered by a reasonable mess, which probably isn't that bad since she has cleaning people come through and it's only a two person household. I have noticed that many people expect everyone around them to accept their own personal level of cleanliness as normal and go out of their way to maintain it. If he isn't bothered by leaving clutter…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 05:46 PM
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The issue is that he values making fun memories and spending time with you more than he values having a clean house, whereas you value having a clean house more than going out on the weekends. Neither of you is cosmically wrong in some way, but here's one way to look at it: in 10 years will you remember the fun outings and adventures you went on together, or the shiny counters and mopped floors your house had?
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 02:34 PM
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