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| 3 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketShe likes fat white dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it?Okay, but real life. Not thirst traps! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it?Fair, but how often do you get told you have nice tits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:22 AM |
| -2 | Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it?I mean that would make it pretty obvious, yeah. But most women wear modest or regular clothing, so I can assume that they obviously don't want comments based on things I cannot see. Someone who goes the extra length to go outside and show people extra parts of her body must want that specific type of attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it?Why are women dishonest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:16 AM |
| 0 | Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it?Because you wear modest clothing more often than not? You still probably got way more while wearing sexual interest clothes. Deciding not to wear yellow does not stop wasps from following you or chasing you down, but it helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:14 AM |
| -3 | Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it?True, but if you're one of the few doing it. Then, you're doing it for attention. If it was in Miami or a beach, then yeah sure. But if you're the only one showing a lot of skin, definitely for attention. Men read that quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextsBro is going straight to the real question here. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:58 AM |
| – | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itAre the dudes that you date actually that bad? Not even one out of dozens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itWhat's the right way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bedI don't know, some dudes on this sub are into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bedDID IT HURT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:49 AM |
| 4 | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.Nah, some women definitely date because of money or because all of their "exes" are crazy. And there are annoying, crazy, over-clingy, and masculine women. Not all women that like us are good to be in a relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:36 AM |
| 5 | Women approaching men should be the norm.I think it's just shorthand for lustful men but what do I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:35 AM |
| 13 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenI don't understand the obsession with pointing out 1% atrocities. Yes bad things happen, no shit lol. Most men with their sexuality don't do that, so that means the sexuality by itself isn't the problem. It's the anomalies in question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 05:32 AM |
| -1 | Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue.I understand your perspective. But Babylon needs to explain it because she has the burden of proof, and she notoriously does not provide said proof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 06:53 AM |
| 2 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.Okay but what if they change their mind after sex? They are truthful and honest about wanting a relationship, then suddenly they don't want to keep it going anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:07 AM |
| 0 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.Because why does it matter? The act is about the same thing. Both people enjoy it in the moment. If they leave, just find someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:57 AM |
| 0 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.Why does sex have to be a deal or agreement to relationship, why not just enjoy it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:42 AM |
| 0 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.Coercing people into lower starting pay or shitty jobs is not illegal, so how would that be illegal? The woman wanted sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:37 AM |
| 0 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.You have to be interested in your partner? Especially more than friends. 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, when having sex with a guy for the first time, is there an ideal size that you're hoping for when you take off his pants?Username checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 05:47 AM |
| 0 | You can't expect people to like you if you dont work on your social skills and self-awareness.I don't know. Some women do too much and get too clingy and anxious up front. That pushes anyone away. Why would I get so personal to a complete stranger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Asking women out is a brutal processSame lowkey. Better than me, I didn't even talk to her in high school. But I had a reason for it, it was complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 04:57 AM |
| 5 | Asking women out is a brutal processNo wonder it was so well said yeah the dashes give it away lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Feminist online spaces are increasingly unable to take critique.I asked what are some things that men do that make women uncomfortable along with things that men say. I was intentionally vague because I lacked awareness and was new to Reddit at the time, and I didn't know what they were going to say. Especially in those spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:02 PM |
| 10 | Feminist online spaces are increasingly unable to take critique.Literally! Just read their rules and FAQ page lol. It's so obvious to see. But I'm surprised he found himself here first instead of the manosphere subreddits and "anti subs" first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Feminist online spaces are increasingly unable to take critique.They were always like this. 😭 I got banned for asking questions about SA awareness and what should men not do? Then I asked questions about how patriarchy doesn't have a discrete definition. They also banned and muted me. That was like 2-3 years ago! That sub functions as an echo chamber rather than the "Ask Me Anything" format that they claim to have. Absolute clowns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.But why bitch and moan about not having a partner when you can have a partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:44 PM |
| -6 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.You regularly meet thousands of attractive men over 6 foot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.Okay but what about women who aren't that, asking for men who are? Do you think they are delusional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:37 PM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.Prove it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:03 AM |
| -4 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.You've met men that make $300,000 a year and are interested in you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:03 AM |
| -19 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.How are they not the same? Hot and brings peace is not unbearable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:02 AM |
| -8 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.Why do women ask for things that they never seen anyone like them have? It's like if I set my standards to date an Olympic gymnastic that makes $200,000+ a year. Or tell McDonalds that I won't accept an interview if they don't pay me $50/hr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:02 AM |
| -6 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.But these women do exist. How many sugar daddies can you say you see every day? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 08:59 AM |
| -11 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.Seems pretty even to me. A lot of comments are saying that the man's standards are unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 08:58 AM |
| -2 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.That's what a lot of men want, they just don't say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 08:57 AM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.Yeah but Tate and FnF aren't even Red Pill, just grifters who want money and alpha male points. Myron has gotten cucked before and meatrides white supremacists if it's profitable. Tate is a retired kickboxer that moans because he lost to a younger fighter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:35 PM |
| – | For “Men can want sex AND relationships” to be believed, they can’t despise non-sexual relationship activities and the vetting process.It's weirdly common here. I had a woman tell me my standards were too high when I said that her advice of waiting for someone in my social circle or friend group to ask me out was unrealistic and silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:28 PM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.At least the Red Pill doesn't force you to buy them lol. Blue pillers force people to listen to boomer logic and age old advice before hookup culture. It's the ultimate cuck pipeline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:08 PM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.Meanwhile blue pillers have been grifting young boys since birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:05 PM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.There is no violence on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:04 PM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.I've been banned from feminist subreddits, and I can't say that I miss them either lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:02 PM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.They don't see "men" They see chad and all their exes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 09:50 PM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.I'm here to watch people say dumb shit honestly, and sometimes see if common sense is common. Only place I can see on Reddit to where men and women can argue without being protected by moderators or their precious echo-chamber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 09:45 PM |
| 1 | The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards.But relationships are harder in general It's easy to just hang out and have a good time than deal with someone's bullshit and be at their every beckoning call. Especially now women are lazy in relationships. They just want to date a second dad while doing nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 07:10 PM |
| – | Using a value aproach to relationship viability is the best way to understand themEmotions change by the minute, value does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 09:18 AM |
| 1 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.And poor women shouldn't be with rich men. There's clearly a power imbalance in how rich the man is compared to the woman, he can too easily manipulate her. Yeah, no. Imagine seriously comparing adults that often know what they are getting into to grooming. There is a difference between adults that have ways of protecting themselves and get out of there, and literal minors that cannot buy stuff. Also, beautiful women shouldn't be with average looking men. There's a huge power imbalance, she's go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 06:33 PM |
| 1 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Either way, logistically old men shouldn't be with what is now a minor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be upset you didn’t get a hook up when you pretended you wanted a relationship.It's a metaphor that dating is an uphill battle for the average man when they are young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Emotionally immature men typically join the Manosphere.Yes it is, go to Red Pill forums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Emotionally immature men typically join the Manosphere.Then every group sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.You're saying that its all men's fault. I am saying that if women do it too, then it's equal faults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.It’s not about wanting what the bad man ‘got and destroyed.’ It’s about knowing that even if he didn’t destroy it, it still wouldn’t have chosen them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.Women do the same shit. "Men don’t want good women, they want bimbos, pick-mes, or women who degrade themselves.” “He only wants a girl who validates him or is easy to manipulate.” “He says he wants a queen but chases girls who act like dogs.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:07 AM |
| 3 | We need to stop saying men "prey" on women for seeking a consensual relationship.My standards are very high if I don't happen to find my "peers" attractive??? LOL. I just think that this strategy is very luck-based and restrictive. I think that you would limit your chances to dating someone with only 30 people at most, or so. I get that is how women date, and I guess it works for them. But, it just seems like settling for me as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 08:00 PM |
| 3 | We need to stop saying men "prey" on women for seeking a consensual relationship.I want to explore a wider range of people who I actually find attractive, not pick from the clearance rack of proximity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 07:30 PM |
| 2 | The real world treats men in their 20's - 30's onwards who are virgins as failures.Would you lie if asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.Well yeah, it would be if women were the ones online going "Looks don't matter" or "He doesn't have to be attractive" Men can say, "I want a smart modest funny girl" It's pretty obvious that for men, physical attractiveness is given, men never downplay or lie about it so it's easy to assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 03:48 AM |
| 6 | Why do men want to go to places with hot women if these hot women will reject them?Lol, you know it's bad when even other blue pillers get tired of your shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Okay? You didn't just say that they were bad people, you said that they were nazis. So what makes them Nazis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:28 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.How are they nazis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.So then you agree that the men who didn't do anything don't need to help responsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Okay, but they are just people who use the internet a lot. They are not nazis or rich lobbyists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:17 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Okay, but not all men though. Most of the men here don't represent real life at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.That's like holding a little girl accountable for her mother being a baby momma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:08 PM |
| 2 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?Where are you from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:10 AM |
| – | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightAnd? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:35 PM |
| -1 | Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing?What part is made up? That men are shirtless at beaches? Don't be obtuse Yeh the issue is that males are pervs about women. Not that women are pervs about men. Thus proving my point, women aren't nearly as sexually attracted to men's torso and chests for it to matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 05:54 AM |
| -1 | Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing?Not cheating, but it is disrespectful. Disrespectful to show strangers what your man gets to see in private. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing?Because you've made that up lol. And even then, women don't take photos of men's chests in public, save photos of men's chests on their computer, or create subreddits about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Traits that are associated with attractiveness (humor, kindness, charisma, etc) are (mostly) irrelevant to success with dating or sex.Eh, not the original guy but my two cents. You kind of look like Benny Blanco, and he's dating Selena Gomez. I agree with the guy before. If you lose the weight, then I think your chances significantly go up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 09:16 AM |
| 0 | This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed.You assume they get a woman's attention though. A lot of these guys hardly get the chance according to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 05:30 PM |
| 3 | The arguments on here are so circularOr something that is not our fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:59 AM |
| – | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsImpressed by it? So, they don't find it "creepy" like all these MeToo women claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 10:47 PM |
| 6 | Why do you want women to tell men "be attractive" ?Well, it is obvious until a slew of women decided that "Looks don't matter" or I like "personality in a partner" was the thing to gaslight men in society for generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Why do you want women to tell men "be attractive" ?You have to keep in mind though that women get approached by women, so they screen a little bit differently. Yes, they make sure that they are "attractive" (sometimes), but if they accepted every "hot" guy then they'd basically be option fatigued. So they filter by personality traits to sort of get that going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Nah women are just in it for the money and lifestyle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 11:41 AM |
| 4 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Men who want casual sex, why women should want that?You have a two people you had sex with. Person A happened to enjoy it, Person B didn't. I would prefer and be more satisfied with Woman A. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Men who want casual sex, why women should want that?We'd prefer it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 09:19 AM |
| 4 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsEven the average woman has enough guys lining up ready to date her. So if she wants to, she will eventually find someone like this. Plus there is a plethora of simps that are desperate to get anything because women are so much pickier than we give them credit for! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 11:27 PM |
| 7 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsIt's not that hard to avoid people who don't meet your standards. Coming from an attractive woman btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 10:52 PM |
| 5 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsMost of women you see who really push "provider" types early on are often women who want men to spend tons of money on them just for existing and being there for them. It's basically a rebranded gold digger with benefits. Hell no, I would never touch these women with a 10 foot pole. My point was more about the overall trend that I see online, like this oversaturation of ‘princess’ expectations floating around. Even if I’m not dating those women, it’d still affects the dating market in general be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 10:42 PM |
| 4 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsMost of the women who want "provider" types DO NOT want KIDS. They want to be spoiled like princesses in their 20s and 30s until they get bored and start to look elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.Married people aren't dating btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 08:46 AM |
| – | Q4M: be honest.. do you use the same lines to get laid as you do to win over someone you actually want to date?Damn, are they that bland out there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:59 PM |
| – | Accountability and MenIt's usually a variation of policing them or shaming them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 06:25 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men who complain about attractive men being assholes and still getting laid are themselves bad men who wish they didn’t have to act like a good person in order to get laid.Someone sounds mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Before lamenting that you aren't getting hookups you should make sure that you are indeed hookup material.That sucks... Well, there's always passport bros if you get desperate enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Accountability and MenWell you've done an awful job proving it tbf. Not sure what you expect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Accountability and MenDoesn't matter what you do anyway. Women told men to stop approaching in public about 10 years ago and most of us don't anymore. Then we haven't gotten a "Thank you" yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:28 PM |
| 12 | Accountability and MenNah. Whenever I notice that men call for women to be accountable, they usually mean individually and for them to stop looking for others to blame or bail them out of things they caused. When women complain about men not being accountable, it's always about some rapist, creep, incel, or sexual predator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Before lamenting that you aren't getting hookups you should make sure that you are indeed hookup material.Why not date shorter women? I suggest Latinas or Asians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | You're not an "average" guy if you struggle in datingBut above average men don't want average women. They want models. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.Why are you like this? Like just be good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.Well however it goes, you still get closer to what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:30 PM |
| 16 | Why don't we never ask men to choose better but uglier women?That's just reporting that fatter women are more likely to report having sex. It means nothing because we don't know the frequency. Awful study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 07:48 AM |
| 2 | If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in datingSo women want to end the human race? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 04:42 AM |
| 6 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?So men taking initiative = desperation/ego, but women avoiding all risk = standards. Makes perfect sense lol. Truly empowered you are, bravo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:16 AM |
| 8 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?Ah yes, "I approach only when getting rejected is virtually impossible. I'm so brave and different." lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:50 AM |
| 21 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?Because women use circular logic.. "I don't approach because I'm not interested." "I'll only approach if I'm interested." "I don't date men that I don't think look attractive." "I don't approach men because I don't date men just because they look attractive." Meanwhile this dude translated like 10 contradictions in one comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men neg beautiful women ? Why do they get a kick out of seeing beautiful women torn down ?Because some men like the feeling of power, and that power can extend from physically assaulting people or simply changing the tone and facial expression on a woman's face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 02:14 AM |
| – | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship ChallengesAIDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Don’t Underestimate Good Hygiene.Abs don't matter as much as you think. Less than 1% of men have abs. Plus if you have visible 6 pack, then you likely have way more going for yourself physique-wise as well. That is hot. (no homo) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Should women be “giving guys a chance”?They haven't been vilified for eating my potato chips yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?You're good lmao. No, it's not necessarily interaction. The whole point is that it's never just one woman who acts like these, it's a bunch of them and before you know it... you might find yourself running to them. It's not like women put a sign on their forehead saying, "I AM ATTRACTED TO SERIAL KILLERS" when you take them on dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?It's like seeing someone lick an ice cream cone and put it back and you're like, "Atleast it's not my ice cream." Then it becomes a trend and 3000 other people are doing the same thing. Why can't people stop licking ice cream?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?I can show you feminist bombings. Explosions kill way more people than bullets! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | People need to stop throwing the word "predator" aroundmoney... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 06:49 AM |
| 6 | Women love romance but men do romance.Yeah no, I understand what you are saying. You definitely should be doing those things to make your partner happy. I am not against the premise at all, but I'm just really arguing semantics. And I don't think "Acts of service" is more of a love language than a romantic gesture. When people think of romance, I don't think that everything done with "love" qualifies as that. Because if we do another example such as: - Dropping your kids off from school. - Taking off from work to watch your child's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Women love romance but men do romance.Well, you can't compare making food to "buy her flowers, text her, desperately try to prove your worthiness to her, buy her a ring, propose marriage to her" especially when you're married. That's like saying that him taking out the trash or working on your car without asking is "romancing" you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Men doing the first move, chase, and men kneeling to propose, exposes the power trip.Most based takes, here. The fact that so many men don't approach should make it easier to approach. It's not that hard unless you're chopped honestly. Then you are better off using assets or emotional appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.It's a conversation starter, not a manifesto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 11:47 PM |
| 13 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.So this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 11:34 PM |
| 5 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.I don't understand why girl bosses state this. I don't know many men who actively seek out high maintenance types who navigate their relationships based on what can be used or provided in excess. It's not cute or sexy. Most men want a girl who is peaceful and easy to live with, perhaps being fun and enjoyable to be around would be a bonus (at least for those on this subreddit). Girl bosses seem to have a bad ROI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.Sorry to hear that. I hope you find more men that treat you well in your immediate surroundings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 10:46 PM |
| 7 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.The video is not a Red Pill video. But the traits apply elsewhere too, I am speaking in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 10:45 PM |
| 11 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.Being rude, bitchy, or unappreciative like in this video would be a great example to start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 10:25 PM |
| 4 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.Is being respectful and nice not a way of "thanking you?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.You don't think that situationships and dating younger women (while they are older) are ways that men "discipline" women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 09:59 PM |
| 8 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.No, that's just being selfish and lazy at best. If you keep demanding more without reciprocation, then you are just taking advantage of someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 09:57 PM |
| 0 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.Do you think that people deserve (are entitled to) idealism, or is it earned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.Many feminists threw up learning all the new age female empowerment stuff, but still clinging to the traditionalism that is taught by their grandfathers and fathers. Young men haven't invented or really generating any new courtmenship (besides the infamous "50/50"), so that's all they fall back on. Just my two cents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 09:52 PM |
| 7 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.Kindness and good manners should be reciprocated at all times until taken advantage of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?Is it because you are red pill or is it because you are pro-woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableYou are see more likely to see a woman cry, get upset, annoyed, cheer, frustrated, or angry than to see a man get angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.If I make a joke about people running over someone else for standing in front of my car, that doesn't mean that I would do that or actually think it is okay in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.You never laugh at inappropriate jokes, outstanding citizen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 03:57 AM |
| -2 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.Where did I justify rape jokes lmao??? Guys, please READDDDDD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.Exactly!! I am not saying that rape jokes are funny, heck even most of the ones I come across often aren't. But if you can make a good joke, then it shouldn't be taken as some systematic oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 03:11 AM |
| 3 | What makes a woman want to sleep with a man, regardless of intentions?It's possible, but it is not always as simple as "avoidant attachment" for men. - Maybe he doesn't like the woman's personality as much and he doesn't want to continue to get closer to her. -Maybe he's horny and likes having other girls around. - Maybe he doesn't continue giving the same amount of romantic effort to that one girl and wants to see if there is better effort that he will enjoy courting or investing in for a longer period of time. A lot of women assume that romantic effort early on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public?I don't see why I would want to compliment a woman unless she's my friend or I am interested in her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 09:13 PM |
| -10 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.But that one isn't a common one about minimizing rape. That's more of a a common dismissive response to sexual assault or harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:58 PM |
| -12 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.Give an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.Fair enough, but would you say that satire is a mark on someone's character? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:44 PM |
| -8 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.I wasn't arguing that it was a reason or central focus. I was arguing that the rape jokes are demonized as a sign of systematic oppression according to some loud voices on this platform, and many others. Most people understand how jokes work and that they aren't usually meant to be taken seriously. But suddenly, when this topic comes up.. it gets taken to the extreme. Then suddenly they also get attributed to some deeper societal wronging through some political or ideological lens. It's even pos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.Fair enough. I used the 'rape jokes' as the example because it's probably the most emotionally charged topic and the only one I can think of that is directly tied to gender debate or sociopolitical angle. This discussion as it is a prime example of it. It shows how quickly we assume the worst case scenario when it comes to that topic, even if it is possible to restructure it in a way that isn't mocking or trivializing trauma. Like let's say that you make jokes about war, murder, Nazis, suicide, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.And if it is not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:21 PM |
| -4 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.Lol, good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:15 PM |
| -6 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.Maybe, you're not around that many stand-up comedians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.Yeah, I'm not arguing against that. But treating a joke as a form of oppression is weird. But I don't know, could just be me that thinks that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:07 PM |
| – | Society is unintentionally creating more and more angsty single menNot what picking is, but pop off I guess 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Society is unintentionally creating more and more angsty single menWhy speak for them when you aren't one? That's kind of a silly thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Society is unintentionally creating more and more angsty single menIt is when you use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:36 AM |
| -4 | Society is unintentionally creating more and more angsty single menHow did you find her lmao? And why does she hate every time a Red Pill Man opens his mouth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Society is unintentionally creating more and more angsty single menWell you won't get picked by one that isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingBut why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 08:18 PM |
| 12 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingMost normal women looking to date and not able to adapt would become bitter. Then maybe some would finally catch on when they get too old. Promiscuous or bold women would have much better luck, probably with less shame too. People who meet randomly and fall in love would still be okay if they meet each other and coexist in the same spaces a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 08:16 PM |
| 8 | coffee dates not good enough?Sucks that dating to "date" has become more normalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:36 PM |
| 2 | coffee dates not good enough?I think Reddit is more brain rot than TikTok honestly speaking lmao... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:27 PM |
| 9 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?You're putting the cart before the horse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to.Oh nah, we have some really messed up states here too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:28 PM |
| 0 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themImagine having a normal conversation about dating, and then someone suddenly throws in stuff about rape. It's just tone deaf. It's not even offense, its just no one wants to repeatedly be forced to talk about a heinous disgusting crime when it has nothing to do with anything. I don't even why rape victims would be offended, but they clearly love to talk about it in random internet dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:26 PM |
| 5 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themNah, this is 10-20% woman. I've gotten out of high school a while ago, and the TikToks that they post aren't the brightest takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themBecause it's tone deaf. It's the same as a man bringing up sex on the first date at at a restaurant versus bringing it up in the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:04 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menThe real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more single men than women. Prove me wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itSo approach the men you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itBut not as often as the reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Lowering women's self-esteem won't make them choose better, but the inverseSaying choose better won't lower a woman's self-esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:53 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025There's no society without power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?I have never seen anyone say they have lower physical standards for casual hookups. Because they just be fucking. They don't have to say it, everyone knows they are a hoe. The ones who don't feel the need to say it the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | What women really wantWhat did it take? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | What women really wantThey want mind readers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Are men owed responses?You don't know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Are men owed responses?A man who will take that feedback will learn to be a better man and not argue about it. A man who will complain about and argue with it will be blocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | No matter how you shift the goalpost, getting satisfying sex is easier for women than it is for men.Marriage is a "shit deal" for everyone. But, they still take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?Nah, stop it! This just keeps getting even more sick. There are dudes really putting in work and if they are serious, really putting their heart on the line. Then, you're just here like "Well, you're my little entertainment. And if you don't do a good job, then it's really not my fault. Teehee 🤭💅✨" and then you keep leading them on, like bruhhhh. At this point, you just got to own it at this point. Just say that you're cold and you don't care about other people's feelings. Like I appreciate the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?Right, that's just basic decency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?"And that's how I met your mother." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 04:36 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?Yeah, I'm sorry but that's pretty messed up. You can't even virtue signal that. Just stop leading people on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?Yeah, I'm not going to lie. This whole post honestly just sounds like fear and paranoia, which is understandable if you witnessed this I guess. But, it's still not clicking how sending a text puts you in imminent danger. Whether you send a text through rejection or in the form of radio silence is still rejection. I just think that the latter is shittier. Like rejection from far away is enough to put you in danger, then that guy had to leverage to do what he wanted at any time to begin with. Yeah… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?I don't get how a little "Goodbye" over text puts you in imminent danger. Like if that was the case, women wouldn't be able to date at all. Like just block them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?I mean, that's fair. That's not really ghosting if she understands your dynamic and knows you're going to come back. we work, and also have other things to do like buying groceries, exercising, gaming and sleeping Ngl, that sounds like other things you'd rather be doing than sending back one text. Like I get it if you want to hold off a whole conversation later, that's reasonable. But quickly getting back to someone isn't really that difficult if you wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?Who is whining about being ghosted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?I don't know, some dudes put all their eggs in one basket and get super sensitive. But, I think most emotionally mature people (men included) would take that any day over radio silence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?I never understood why you would try and date if you are that busy. That is a concept that has always baffled me. Like dating is something you'd do in your free time, not if you're working 12 hours a day with overtime. 💀 But yeah, I'm not completely buying that. You forget to send one text back within 16 hours of day, it's definitely because you don't really care to. I think it's pointless and a waste of time. Yeah, I'm sure it is. That's why you ghost people. 😭 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?Eh, I guess. It probably was expected to happen tbf. That's not as bad as talking to someone for many weeks or months, then dropping them out of nowhere. I'm sure most people would rather that than get flaked on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?You got busy for an entire 16 hours of the day? Yeah, I doubt it. It's usually not that, it's usually because the other person doesn't feel like responding. I have lives and responsibilities, but I always get back to friends and family within a day. Even as someone who isn't glued to their phone or apps with more mute notifications, it's not a hard task. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?That's not ghosting lol. Ghosting is when you cut off someone "cold turkey" with no explanation, especially when some sort of connection is made. You can't cut someone off if you've never made contact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?she just didn't respond for a day or two. From experience, that's pretty much what ghosting is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?So, all-or-nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?You can't send a simple ending text? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?You definitely didn't really ghost these men, but you sure did dump the hell out of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:00 PM |
| – | The average woman today is more privileged than the average man.No, it's not lmao. You don't open keys with other keys. 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 07:24 AM |
| – | The average woman today is more privileged than the average man.Bro, what is your definition for hating?😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 07:20 AM |
| – | The average woman today is more privileged than the average man.We are average looking mid women and we don’t get approached. Any guy who we approach tries to use us for sex. Can't make this shit up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 07:16 AM |
| 2 | I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ?You ain't have to do that. 💀 Now, I am getting flashbacks of the "Monitor lizard" story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:45 PM |
| 2 | I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ?Nah fr? What? I thought this was going to be about wanting six foot guys, not treating women like lego characters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishHow are men often depicted in romance novels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Most male posts on this sub read: I don't want to be a man, why should I have to be?An appreciation and need for more leaders. If women want men to be leaders, then women need to be okay with letting their man "lead." Getting rid of porn, fentanyl, clear standards for both sexes, and not shaming manhood would be a start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.It's also jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishSo, a libido-nuked man hating feminist isn't worth the time then. How do men seduce women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.That's dehumanizing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishSo, what's the difference between a guy that turns you on and a rapey hot dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.But you were still attracted to her initially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.So, you're not actively dating then. That's the problem then. You're not letting yourself have any options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Mhm, so these guys have options to not pick shallow attractive women. But yeah, that sounds about right. As long as these women meet the absolute threshold, then they're attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Like in America and the UK? Specifically in Miami, London, Cleveland, and LA? You're telling that you've never seen hot women going where other hot drunk high value men and women go, to get lit? Dating apps and social media? Hello? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.You're right. Celebrity women do often bring status to celebrity men. I thought you were strictly talking about young attractive women without much status. I suppose that is fair. I honestly don't think Beyoncé sees Jay Z as her dream guy either, look at his hair. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.No projection here, just the truth. I can only tell it how I see it, and it's been backed up numerous times. I can't argue how you see things because anyone can say anything about themselves on the internet just because. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:16 AM |
| 7 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Exactly and women get to show off their men as a power/status symbol or they could just juggle them just like the top tier men that they want often do to women. Why pick a good man when you can pick a better man? Sure, it's not every women doing this. But the ones who date do this, I literally see this type of stuff on Instagram from the girls I know who actively date all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Why would a man care about using a woman for status? 90% of a man's status comes from his ambition and achievements, the woman is just the cherry on top. Jeff Bezos and Josh Allen don't get much elevation from their women, even if they are gorgeous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:10 AM |
| 5 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Sure, it is. But, that doesn't count. There's a reason why women don't get caught as easily as men do when they cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.But there are always more women dating men than vice versa. Sometimes, multiple women dating the same men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Maybe, your options just suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Eh, sure. Yeah, that explains why abusive assholes and regular dudes often have a better chance than "hopeless romantics" or "simps" who pedestalize women in modern dating. But, you're more or less saying the same thing. The woman cannot see the man as beneath him, or else she won't be attracted to him. That's why women can pedestalize men (celebrities, high-status men, "hot" men), but men can't really do the same unless it's reciprocal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Tall and athletic guys would say the same thing, what's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.No disagreement here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.How hot are these women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Yeah because she doesn't like company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Yeah the looks threshold drops when you get older for some reason. But, it seems the only thing holding these guys back is their weight. If they actually worked out and maintained their physique, they'd be killing it. Now, if they had neckbeards, smelt like pee, and had dandruff all over their hair. I bet you that they'd have problems finding women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Just open a dating app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.I guess it depends on the age range too. Amongst older couples, I see the men as slimmer. Amongst younger, then the women is often slimmer than the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.If most men were more monogamous, then women would be still be picky because naturally that's how they are. But, they'd just be allowed to be less picky. So, it would look like they're "less picky," but they'd often settle because more ambitious hypergamous women would be humbled way more often. Basically like how it was up until the 1980s where "free love" or hooking up before marriage was on the rise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Strictly sexual attraction. There are more social factors to "desirability as a partner" that change based on the situation, "Everyone is different, blah blah blah", so I don't really want to talk about that. But raw initial attraction, this stands true for A LOT of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:17 PM |
| 7 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Well, that just means that most women clear the "7" attractiveness bar for most men. It's not that hard for most women to be attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.But, there's more men dating fat people than women. Women don't really date fat men unless they're more dominant than other men (often the dudes that chop bricks, lift heavy, or wear camo). Where do you see women dating the fat unkempt neckbeards that say, "Heyyyy Sallyyyy!!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Well yeah. Relative looks more "absolute" when there are only two options. I'm just saying that if you're a man, the bar for attractiveness has to be at least a 7 or up. For women, you'd have to be a little higher than the other guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 04:06 AM |
| 2 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeWell, if you're exclusively looking for it here. You won't find it because Blue Pillers learned to keep their mouth shut after it was repeatedly called out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?My bad bro, I thought you were that other male feminist guy that keeps showing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:47 AM |
| 0 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?So you do? Who are you even blaming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 07:21 PM |
| -1 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?Guess you're trying to get laid then, man. Every post you make is criticizing straight men in some way or another. I still don't even believe that you are a man though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?So you blame all men for a few fringe extremists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?The rules are biased against men, there are multiple posts about men complaining to the moderators about vivid misandrist hatred, and the Reddit team said something along the lines of "Not my problem." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?Nah bro, it's very common for IG people to be super offensive. Even on my car pages bruh, the misogyny is real. Shit doesn't even have to be about women for men to start shitting on imaginary females. Even women too, but I don't get women content on my IG that much. I see them mostly band together on TikTok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 08:19 AM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.A broken clock is right twice a day. Healthline is literally one of the many blogpost sites that just posts things to post them. If it's in personal situations with people who you know well enough, then yeah it would be abuse because you specifically trust these people to know your weaknesses and expect them to not use them to hurt you. How do you get abused by strangers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Did The 2014-15 Discussion of "Nice Guys" And "Me Too" Cause You To Stop Dating/Talking To Men?I can agree on that, just saying that it does happen. I've seen TikToks and YouTube videoes of men cold approaching women all the time. Some of it feels like a staged social experiment, others feel like it may possible be real due to the awkward rejection (or even silent rejections) from a glasses recording. I've hardly ever seen women surveillance random men that they are legitimately creepy (except this video) and even when I have, it was never intentional. It is mostly OnlyFans woman recordin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 12:07 AM |
| 0 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Wow, people are such fucking snowflakes. Healthline is not even a reliable mental health source. If this is abuse, then I've been abused all my life and I just abuse people back I guess. School is not always filled with nice people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Did The 2014-15 Discussion of "Nice Guys" And "Me Too" Cause You To Stop Dating/Talking To Men?If you've ever heard of a "YouTuber" or a prank video in public areas like Walmart or fast food restaurants. Then, you'd know that people get extremely hostile when they feel like they're being recorded for a viral video, even if they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:08 AM |
| 0 | Scenario: sex is off the tableThis is just not a realistic scenario. But I would guess. More romantic relationships become more like friendships and more sexual relationships become more like roommates. As for strangers, the dynamic would be asexual as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to have a massive halo effect for the women they desire.What's the difference between a woman that is attracted to felon dick versus one that isn't? What's one observable quality that you can see from a mile away? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 08:03 PM |
| 8 | Guys here seem to have a massive halo effect for the women they desire.Alright, there's a bunch of glaring issues with the framing in this post. But I'm just going to ignore it for now. What if those men don't really see those women as actually bad women or "problematic?" I don't see how being into "garbage women" makes her a garbage person, she just has garbage taste and a shitty filter system. It has more to do with what those women are wired to be attracted to socially, and how it fits with the fact that women want men that have "looks, money, and status." These… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:23 AM |
| 3 | Guys here think creeps dont exist because they dont want to admit women can have non-shallow reasons to not like a guy.As well, if you hear about how people met or got together, that's another person's creep story, that's another woman's behavior that worked. Most women's behavior would be judged as creepy if they were men. The only problem is that in similar social spheres or friend groups, that one woman's creepy story becomes every woman's creepy story. Women tell their female peers that they think a particular guy is creepy, and they go along with it without questioning the story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenEh not really in my experience. The ones without any diplomas are usually the ones with a child and no father. I don't go for women with super liberal views anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Calling someone a creep if they don’t deserve it is bad all aroundIt's not that all of them can't be creepy in some cases. The guy who stands too close in line or at the bus stop etc. Unless you can feel his breathe on you, I don't see this is a problem. Festival or amusement park lines are often like this. The guy who keeps talking to you when you’re giving polite but one word answers and clearly not interested. Not creepy, just socially inappropriate unless they're deliberately ignoring or that obtuse to not figure it out after a while. Some guys are just de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 12:48 AM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicI should have clarified the part where young men (or a lot of people really) wouldn't want to just do that with random strangers just for the same of "community gatherings." Yeah, people talk about all types of things with their friends. Everyone does that. That's not rocket science. Asking them to do that for sake of "muh community" is stretching it imo. I see men my age and younger men/teens hanging out too. But perhaps I come from a communal community oriented culture. Probably so. If you see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Calling someone a creep if they don’t deserve it is bad all aroundReasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Calling someone a creep if they don’t deserve it is bad all aroundA guy that you don't find attractive that shows interest or exists near you and/or a guy who won't get the hint. Those things aren't equal, but apparently they are to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Calling someone a creep if they don’t deserve it is bad all aroundNah you live in a funny elitist world if you think early 20s women are that much better than teens. Try mid to late 20s maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 04:10 PM |
| 13 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenInherently, no I don't date women for their careers or money. But, their mindset, values, intelligence, and how they use their money matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 03:55 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.You really took this >>> accountability and threw it over there ----->>>>> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 08:32 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.If I lived on base, I wouldn't shower either. But that's not reflective of the average man that women actually date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 07:49 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.You should choose better if you keep picking bad partners. That's usually when it is said. "Choose better" is inappropriate to say if the person does not have a history or pattern of picking the wrong partners, then complains that AMALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 07:46 PM |
| 4 | The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost alwaysI think you got the nail on the head. We present ourselves to the occasion at times and don't often overshare the details of different contexts. That's why some men will have work friends, gaming friends, bar friends, but maybe not close friends for every situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | There are plenty of people who arent superficial and truly care about personality. You just need a likable personality.That's a shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Most gendered conversations can’t actually go anywhereWell yeah, there is no facts. It's mostly just personal anecdotes against each other. Plus, this subreddit has too many people that don't even live similar lives to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 04:08 AM |
| 7 | There are plenty of people who arent superficial and truly care about personality. You just need a likable personality.Dude, she literally fucked someone in college just because they came into her dorm and she thought they were hot, and her roommate did it too. These are her own words that she said publicly, I am NOT making this up. Bro, she is not sexually attracted to PERSONALITY people. She's straight lying to people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 04:06 AM |
| 2 | There are plenty of people who arent superficial and truly care about personality. You just need a likable personality.The engine is not as important as the wheels if they won't even get the car running. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 03:57 AM |
| 3 | There are plenty of people who arent superficial and truly care about personality. You just need a likable personality.It would if others were saying that "looks weren't important" or "it does not matter." Women on Reddit love to pretend that they are asexual, and that looks are turned by the "hot personality meter." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 03:55 AM |
| 0 | There are plenty of people who arent superficial and truly care about personality. You just need a likable personality.Yeah because at your age, people let themselves go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 03:52 AM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societyThey'll just go overseas like they always have. If they can't afford it, then some guys will make this happen at home regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 11:40 PM |
| 5 | Can anyone recommend me feminist content or even just show me discussions that talk about female and male sexuality being different and how to navigate that?The irony of how these two are related though. But apparently they can't figure it out. I keep telling people that feminists are like to worst people to go to for help, but men don't want to listen. And yes, I am a man myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: where is the sympathy for the loneliness of older single women?The one where she showed people her Hinge profile and thought that it was perfect, and all the women in her comments were doing the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 10:02 PM |
| 2 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”I've never seen men tell women to go after unattractive men unless their standards are too high or they are self-proclaimed "unattractive men." Ask the unattractive men, as a "meh" looking guy I don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: where is the sympathy for the loneliness of older single women?Unless she has some really good excuse, it's hard to feel bad for them. Sure, I can be nice and acknowledge their feelings are real and valid. But, I am not giving them platitudes or telling them a nice fairytale that appeases them. Like you had a perfectly good 20 years to go searching for the right guy because they are out there, and all you had to show up and vet them. It's different if you had some mental illness, disability, diabolical life crisis, or fall out from a marriage. But, if you j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 09:28 PM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societyYou would be to lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 09:22 PM |
| -1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicI'm not quite sure that I agree nor disagree. Plenty of men have a community of friends to where they go out for clubbing, playing World of Warcrafts, and watch sports with each other. Those men probably aren't complaining about a loneliness epidemic as MUCH. If you're talking about the cliche community, I don't think that a lot of younger men gravitate to that. It's not always deeply fulfilling to share details of your personal life and yap about interpersonal relationships when you are already… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”Because women already do that as they value it and the stakes more, why do you need men to do it for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”How are they different? They both involve real life people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 08:38 PM |
| 4 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”It's obviously a more specific scenario, it's not a worldwide epidemic as they claim it is. At least not in real life. Although, this is well established on dating apps. Why do you think many women complain about the guys there being mostly shit and only wanting sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 08:36 PM |
| 3 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”Come on, leo. You know exactly why they do that. Why would they help more attractive top-tier men steal all the women from them? They want to be chosen, they don't want the women to be successful in their choosing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”some people bear this sentiment I see what you did there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 08:32 PM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societyMary Barra, Rihanna, and Kylie Jenner aren't CEOs? Yeah imma call BS on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 05:33 PM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societyBros a proud Nazi anti lesbian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 05:21 PM |
| 2 | A lot of the redpill doesn’t make sense.You are assuming that most men have your mindset. If you're not actually improving, then you are just aging. Why are most men fat and balding in their 30s and 40s? Tbh, she proved your point in the end though lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:42 PM |
| 0 | Feminism has made men weakWhat is there to refute? I just said that I don't agree with your premise, and I could easily say the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Which subreddit members/users are a red/yellow flag for you ?Uh, hello? What about "men = bad" posts? Those don't roll your eyes either? Why is it only okay if it benefits your gender? Don't you care about society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 10:47 PM |
| -1 | Feminism has made men weakSuch a bad faith take, but what should I expect from the flair? You can say the same thing about feminists then. "Feminists constructed an elaborate fiction of a world that doesn’t exist, and convinced people they must engage and do battle with the fictionalized men within it." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.The thing about that is that the higher risk of prostate cancer is commonly referred to men who are above the age of 50. It's not a concern that most people have to deal with unless they are serial virgins, never have wet dreams, or never masturbate/watch porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.Okay, yeah. First of all, I think it is great that you have dated women who are similar to you. That makes you not look like a hypocrite. However, I would argue that the combination of being outspoken, confident, and independent, those women aren't as traditional as you think they are. Most modern women today, or even 20 years ago, are not going to meet all those standards by default. People—men and women alike—are inherently flawed and bring their own challenges into relationships. Most don’t e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:03 AM |
| 1 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.You basically agree with the argument just in a different sense. Your distinction between vulnerability and weakness reinforces the same double standard I pointed out. Men can only be ‘vulnerable’ in ways that still make them look strong, but the moment they express real genuine vulnerability, it’s seen as weakness. Your flair claims that you are a married man, so I am going to assume you are around 30-50 years old. You're definitely speaking more from experience, where this traditional dynamic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:47 PM |
| 2 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.Yeah when they choose to be. Sure. I'm calling out women who don't choose to, or say they are but act different in practice. Proof. I've observed most of this from anecdotes and tons of posts from relationships and dating subs, and occasionally the fringe TwoX post. I'll keep more tangible examples in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:40 PM |
| 2 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.Why would you bring up an issue you are clearly still sensitive about on the internet lol? This subreddit is not in the slightest therapeutic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:15 PM |
| 3 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.Well if you observe their other interactions or how they treat emotions from others, you can get clues. But you'll never know for sure until it's too late, you are right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 04:06 PM |
| 7 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.So let's say that your spouse has PTSD or BPD? What should happen instead? Should you only support your partner if it is something relatively minor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 02:57 AM |
| 17 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.Every guy in your life? If your partner is behaving erratically and dangerously, then you should not be in a relationship with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 02:50 AM |
| -2 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.Good to see that there are healthy dynamics out there. It's not super rare, but it's definitely not common. I went to other subreddits and spots on the internet, and there was only a handful of women who have said this outright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 02:48 AM |
| 18 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.What is an unacceptable demand? They shouldn't say that they have an egalitarian relationship then if they can't equally support each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?More misandry lol, why am I not surprised? I guess all of civilization is "automatically not for women" then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:24 AM |
| -1 | Appeal to nature arguments and what humans historically did are dumbWell, what did you expect when you type some shit like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:19 AM |
| 5 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?Misandrist exposed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?I don't even think she is really a dumbass, I just think that she pulls out a piece of paper from a cup before he decides to post. I've seen this thread posted at least 3 times this year alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.People act like this is a bad thing, too. But, many couples everywhere have no problem getting along. Shared interests aren't that important in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 08:02 AM |
| – | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Oh, they do. They just don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 04:47 AM |
| – | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"It’s not a woman’s responsibility to teach you how to attract a partner. So, it's men's? I thought women didn't like it when men follow alpha male podcasts, Jordan Peterson, and Red Pill teachings. They claim it's misogynistic and unattractive to teach men how to learn to be attractive to women. Not like men tell the women they are dating what they were taught anyway. I think it would be fair better if mothers and aunts teach that rather than telling me "Oh, just be a nice person! You'll get all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Being sweet, supportive, and emotionally intelligent does not attract women, it only keeps them once you attract them, and that's only if they want a healthy normal relationship. Mothers and aunts never teach the young boys how to attract women. If it is common sense, why do women often skip over this part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"If women on this sub were as honest as you, you wouldn't have to make this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:54 PM |
| 11 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"If she breaks up with them once they turn into monsters, then she is NOT lying about wanting a "nice guy!" Staying means that the guy has something else going for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"It's reasonable to not want backlash, but that's not the same as expecting it to not happen. There is always some guy out there with a different idea about how they should go about things, we don't all live the same lives. I do wish more men could take rejection kindly or just not ask at all if they are going to crash out over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"It's not outright fawning over people. I don't know many women that fawn over men unless they are stereotypical chads or celebrities. It's them saying that "looks/height/size doesn't matter, what matters is their character" then rejecting them before getting to know their character. I just don’t understand why men act so shocked that not every woman is going to like them. Because they lie and say that they will if they are sweet, supportive, and emotionally intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:43 PM |
| 6 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Those men will do this anyways, so why lie about your preferences in the first place? Makes women look like hypocrites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"The only issue is that you can't ask the woman rejecting you nor can you ask your friends. You need a neutral third party to give you an honest opinion. If you only listen to women who reject you, you'll hate yourself. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:13 PM |
| 18 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"or, "I've always dated short men, and I find them attractive." then they marry a tall 6'2 guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Whenever they are asked. If a woman rejects you, would you prefer her to be specific about why she is rejecting you? How would you like this phrased? For example if she does not date short men, would you prefer her to say "You are too short" or "You're not my type" or something else? As a 5'7 (~170 cm) guy, this question works just right for me. I am honestly okay with being told that I am too short, or they prefer taller guys. As long as they are not grueling about it, I don't care about comple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:10 PM |
| – | Why do women seem to struggle to honestly admit to preferences which might be considered shallow?Unattractive couples are honestly rarer than attractive ones, unless they are above the age of 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:05 AM |
| – | Why do women seem to struggle to honestly admit to preferences which might be considered shallow?Nope, women only act standoffish and sometimes grossed out by below average guys that try to approach them, while being more open if it was a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Empathy gap is real: Mother attempts to murder-suicide her son, people go, "Awww, poor women." If the perpetrator was a father, people would go, "Men are evil"Yeah, that guy is absolutely insane. Thankfully, you guys are okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Empathy gap is real: Mother attempts to murder-suicide her son, people go, "Awww, poor women." If the perpetrator was a father, people would go, "Men are evil"fuck her for trying to kill the child too This is the comment underneath it that was upvoted a bunch too, so there is still hope. It's very possible she believed death was better than whatever would happen if the child were left with the father or state custody. She doesn't have the right to make that choice for someone else, but there's likely no malicious intent. She looks like she's in anguish. I hope they both are doing better. Of course, we are assuming that the man is a terrible father smh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotionsFor example ‘hey honey I am really stressed at work right now, so if i spend some extra time alone or sleep early or act snappy that is why, you dont have anything to be worried by, me and you are fine. But please respect giving me some distance the upcoming days’ is what we want. Most men aren't going to say something like this. I don't know if that was a product of not knowing how to communicate like this, or the fact that some men don't really process their emotions like this or both. when we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotionsIf you’re never “face down, ass up” for a partner, you’re never really going to get to know them and you’ll spend years wasting your time on someone that’s a roommate at best Ayo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 10:15 PM |
| 6 | A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotionsI suggest it's mostly fear of isolation, need for validation, and complacency. If you had good experiences and deeper bonding from being vulnerable, but had a few bad experiences. Then you are more likely to seek out better people to be vulnerable to. If you had associated nothing but bad experiences with being vulnerable or trying to get close to people in that manner, then you'll feel more comfortable not doing it again despite preferring to have the experience for the former above. I assume t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 08:42 PM |
| 3 | A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotionsYou have a good point, but that also comes with a certain mindset when reading these debates. I think the best approach is to take everything on the internet with a grain of salt. Yeah, I believe there is truth in every myth but what is said here shouldn't be reflected of everyone's reality. This should be assumed if everyone is doing this, and spreading their own perspectives and experiences. Different men meet different women, and come to different conclusions. But I agree that it does not hel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious TruthNot in the latino community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious TruthThere's often universal agreement when the goal is to crush a man's ego though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: how would you feel if your wife made these typically “male” comments/ posts online?We're all fictional characters, if you couldn't figure it out already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: how would you feel if your wife made these typically “male” comments/ posts online?I am stuck in shitty hotel rooms and sometimes on planes for my job. You've said this bit for years now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 05:15 AM |
| 5 | My take on how society has failed men and has contributed to extreme red pill ideology.Head over to TwoX rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 01:30 AM |
| 2 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"That's a complete lie. You can't take back consent after the act is already over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:14 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"Finally, an honest person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 08:08 PM |
| 8 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"Just being hot and existing is enough for certain types of dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 07:45 PM |
| 6 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"Yeah, that analogy doesn't really work well here. If you get HIV or you get her pregnant, that comes with serious consequences and maybe the trajectory of your life. If you have sex with a liar, well... nothing changes besides your feelings being hurt. Like did you enjoy the sex or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Using sex to get a (good) man or keep a man hardly ever works.At least you're not middle aged, you still have plenty of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.I haven't heard many people say that they feel oppressed because mean women exist. Either they are silly or you are downplaying what they are saying by misrepresenting them. There are plenty of "mean woman" who institutionalize misandrist rhetoric in the education, law, and work policies. Along with their female peers eating that up, this harms a great deal of next gen men. But, I wont deny that I have seen some men say some shit like they've been oppressed because of personal reasons or dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 05:42 PM |
| – | Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex.Not to the highest degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 07:14 AM |
| – | Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex.Not sure what this has to do with sex. Well it has everything to with: shows you love and affection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 07:09 AM |
| – | Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex.Relationships are a two-way street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themUnless you're like me and intentionally make sure your female friends are bland or ugly as sin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.Asking the real questions here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.This, I can agree on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.It's not really for women though, it is a dating tool for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 07:19 PM |
| 9 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.What is this post about? Most men are becoming red pilled because the left demonizes them, and defends the sisterhood in every waking social scenario. Even if the scenario is inherently toxic to men and suggests that women take some accountability. Also, they will do terrible things and say terrible things, but then cry when that has consequence, Is this simply about men not stating that they don't find fat women, old women, or trans women? I mean, I guess you have a point if these guys are bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themBro you're deadass like the looksmaxxing subs, you came here just to flex bruh. Most people in this sub are either in a relationship or don't got it like that at all. No in-between. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.Good, maybe you can help him out instead of cringing then lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:54 PM |
| 9 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themSounds like you're a handsome dude or you're friend zoning women. Or both. I've had regular female friends and I've had "flirt friends." The dynamic between those friends is stark. Stop posting this shit on this subreddit. It's filled with lots of jealous nihilistic loners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedThank you so much for calling this out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:57 AM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedIt's mostly comments from chronically online people, and a few TikTokers who freak out over nothing at gyms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:54 AM |
| 6 | The Red Pill is Making Men Weaker, Not StrongerYeah, but men are horny. Women are hot. Some of them make nice partners and others are pleasing in other ways so.... *shrug* Men need a model with a better foundation. Something more like “If you build it, they will come” which focuses on every other aspect of obtaining satisfaction with life. Funny you say that. The Red Pill used to have some sort of positive MGTOW philosophy before it became mainstream and run down by incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.Yeah, you posted links to two ragebait posts. Okay, I guess I'll give you your credit. But, you didn't explain or point anything out that refuted your claim. You simply just posted. Are you referring to comments or posts? What the fuck do you even want me to say to links? Posts are known to be full of shit, and use controversial takes to boost comments. How many posts have you come across that haven't made you roll your eyes? That's intentional, the generalizations and misconceptions are made to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:13 AM |
| 2 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyWhy can't you stand and avoid women who you are more familiar with? What if the strangers you go out with are the same? Do you really just date for the sake of dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.Where's your proof? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.Lilith, no... 90% of the posts on this subreddit are also "ragebait." You spend time chatting to ONE ragebait post from ONE person in ONE long string of comments, and then conflate that all men must agree with it. There's nothing circular about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:21 PM |
| 0 | It's acceptable to direct infantilizing insults at men, but not at women, and that double standard is weirdYou basically said it's a "them" problem without saying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.Bro, most of these posts are "ragebait" on purpose. The proper and less problematic posts never really exceed more than 100 comments. It's always the black pillers that are constantly make these terrible posts to get drama. How have you not recognized this? What's funny is most of the men in these threads AREN'T agreeing with them. They're always refuting absurd takes that OP says, while occasionally agreeing with the parts that are actually true. Also, when the post gets older, I’ll show you ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 07:43 PM |
| 0 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.This person literally spends time arguing with one man who happens to be say this shit, then thinks AMALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 04:31 PM |
| 47 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.Right, that's like little girl shit. Men don't date to make other people jealous. That's a projection from something immature, little teenage girls usually do. Men don't usually have the privilege to get women that effortlessly to where they can afford to use them to spark "jealousy." Smdh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.Then don't, you have options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.Not the ones women actively date. Aren't most women turned off by this sort of man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | The double standard around promiscuity will persist as long other gender-based differences in expectations are upheld (courtship expectations, as just one example)Is a choice truly a choice if it is an requirement or obligation? 🤔 All women have to do is sit down on a stool in a illuminated room where a bunch of horny men roam, and look at people. If she really wanted to, all she would have to do is ask any men "Do you want to fuck?" and plenty will say yes. Of course, sexual behavior will look like a choice when the choice is easy and effortless. Women want so much agency and autonomy, until they don't dating. Then they will happily use the game to their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.It doesn't. Those men don't even talk to women. You're coming at this from a chronically online perspective. Men in real life don't do anything of those things besides being conservative. Why would they? They get laid and safe just fine enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.Feminism at best offers good outsider explanations, they don't understand men internally. They just know what they do and guess why they do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.You must be new here. This is a biweekly marathon sprint around here. She hasn't won a fair debate yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The double standard around promiscuity will persist as long other gender-based differences in expectations are upheld (courtship expectations, as just one example)It's not our fault you guys are passive and our sexuality works the way it does. 😭 That doesn't mean that we want relationships with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:44 PM |
| 4 | The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to peggingY'all make Blue Pillers look bad. I might switch to TRP again if I keep seeing shit like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:02 AM |
| 2 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.Eh. There are plenty of people who are raised in normal and decent backgrounds that tend to abuse their partners. Some people just like to control, manipulate, and hurt other people. But yeah, I guess that's fair. Tell me to look at internally rather than externally. But, that's mostly a response to women who say that men are bad partners. because they keep abusing them. If men are bad partners, then why don't they choose better ones? "Choose better" is what you would say to those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:22 AM |
| 5 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.What? Nowhere did I say that victims should be imprisoned. I was referring to OP when she said that we need to hold abusers accountable. Yeah, it's not uncommon to find a crazy take on this sub. But most of the times I've seen it used is for partners who keep picking bad guys or "abusers" as partners. The common denominator is them at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:15 AM |
| 5 | why won't women engage with men?Right, they must not actually be below average. I've seen women on this sub revolt at a picture of an above average guy (smooth skin and fresh cut hair, but typical features otherwise) and call him "below average." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:21 AM |
| 18 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”."Pick better" is used whenever you have a pattern of picking bad partners. If it keeps happening to you and you don't learn from it, then it is kind of your fault. How do you suggest we hold them accountable other than putting them in jail? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | There are 2 harsh truths that men and women have accept sooner or later.You look like "ChrisNxtDoor." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 06:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectificationMost heteronormative relationships start one sided until the other person gains interest though, unless they are friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 04:36 PM |
| – | More men than women have a penchant for “understanding objects,” more women than men have a penchant for “connecting the dots.”Unless it's an analysis on the perspectives of men. But I will admit they better than they do on TwoX or AskWomen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Why you have to work harder than your grandfather (and what to do about it)Question, why are you Red Pilled? I'd think most RPers would be blue pilled after marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Why you have to work harder than your grandfather (and what to do about it)Newsflash, it's been like that in most countries for the last 40 years. Only now is it talked about as if it were a huge problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Why you have to work harder than your grandfather (and what to do about it)These kinds of messages needs way more attention, not just on this subreddit too. The best approach is to see how different things work because as a man, you're doing yourself a disservice if you approach only one way that doesn't work for you... or if you don't approach at all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?Out of sight, out of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:12 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?Maybe, you just have really idealistic standards? I don't think being a "bad boy chadlite" would be sustainable for LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 03:54 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?I am curious, but how old are you? I don't know too many women who like to have banter first at my age. I know it's not rare, but still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Why are you a red piller ?Not currently a Red Piller but I am still more Red Pill adjacent, so I'll give my two cents. I basically did what other guys did, I searched the internet for how to be more appealing to girls. There was a bunch of blue pilled content, such as "be nice", "be a gentleman", "listen to her" (etc.). Which is not really bad advice, but I realize now that it is rather idealistic. This BP approach often works best if you are hot, socially adept, and you have to meet a woman who is sensible, mature, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 11:14 PM |
| 3 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesA W Windmill post? I can't believe my eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | To LTR a guy who just wants sex is like paying for an ugly sugar baby.Don't understand why some women want relationships with uglier men than they would for casual sex. Why would you want to be around a face you aren't attracted to for the rest of your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:32 AM |
| 3 | This subreddit seems to think women must choose between horny sociopaths and asexual men.TLDR in the front makes this a LillthOfBabylon classic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 06:43 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire?Right, like they all held a little conference before coming here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire?We should call it, voidsturbation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them, then so can women.Ok that makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 09:05 AM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”Stan and K-Pop culture says otherwise. Limerence is more of a product of inaccessibility and parasocial relationships rather than a hormonal difference amongst people. Young men have a harder time accessing younger women, typical streamers, and OF models. So, that is why it is more commonly expressed. Young women have a harder time accessing celebrities and high profile individuals. Why would you be prone to it when you can find other options just as easily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 11:55 PM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”Mhm. So explain crushes or limerence then? I agree that arousal and attraction is more mental and emotional for women. But, honestly it seems like women are doing it to themselves more often than not. The guy doesn't even have to do anything, the women can just attribute those traits to him automatically just because she finds him hot. All it takes for her to think or feel a certain way at the right time. Women have a far more configurable metric for their attraction than men, even if they don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:48 PM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”Thank you, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:44 PM |
| 12 | If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them, then so can women.You can enjoy sex without being completely railed like Lily Philips. What is this post lmao? And notice how men don't really complain about women's sex lives while they are in relationships with other men, but only when they are single and hooking up. Yes, women can have hookups just like men. But, how many women are seriously doing hookups just like men? It’s always funny watching the manosphere having viewpoints based on benefitting the man and talking down to women, even if there's contradict… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Do men prefer no makeup/surgery, and should women tell when they've had surgery?I've never heard any men think that Kim Kardashian and Taylor Swift are natural or wearing no makeup. Well, maybe I have. But, I've never heard them go uncorrected, that's so obvious. I think when men say natural beauty, I think they are mostly referring to this. But yeah, natural looking makeup can be deceiving or acceptable as well. As for surgery, I can't really speak on that. Yeah, I've seen some dudes argue that they like natural bodies, then talk about a woman who has big titties or boobs … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:24 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Desire is not binaryDon't women hate this type of shit anyway? I can't help but see how this backfires all often. If it works, that's great, you may find yourself in a relationship. If not, then you just pissed her off and made her consider you even less. All that effort could've been put into finding someone who would've been way more willing from the jump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 06:42 AM |
| 5 | Why do men crave romantic interest so much?She's been quiet since this one dropped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 06:22 AM |
| 6 | Why do men crave romantic interest so much?No shit, look at her username. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: what's your opinion on lust?I assume that it is different for women. For me, it's usually one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Way too many guys on dating apps are clingy and most likely conflate that with being a good lover.Yay! Her first coherent post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates?I don't see how that is related unless you are implying that women are shaming each other worse than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates?Interesting. I've noticed this too. Why do you think women have higher expectations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 12:05 PM |
| 6 | Changing the genders in the stories gives you different answers from womenThat's not really the same thing though. You're comparing historical and deep rooted societal biases to an empathy bias based on nothing but what is between your legs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 07:13 AM |
| 3 | CMV: love is a weapon of the patriarchyI guess windmills really do look like flowers to you, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:44 AM |
| -1 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".This is under the assumption that women are inherently attracted to typical masculine or even hypermasculine traits. There are always outliers, my friend. If anything, women's sexuality is more malleable than men's. Look at TikTok and Instagram. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:25 AM |
| -4 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Maybe, but they love to make men look like the bad guys. Patriarchy = referring to a male dominated society and how they need to dismantle it Toxic masculinity = Inferring that something exclusive to masculinity or male socialization is toxic. Benevolent sexism = Referring to anything prejudice that helps women is "good." Misogyny = the go-to word for anything bad a man says about women, divorced from its true meaning. Sexual objectification = Inferring that straight male sexuality is evil or de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.The only man I would feel threatened by is a crazy inmate. I would be flattered if a strong gay men found me attractive, and I'm not even gay. These women must be lesbians or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 09:54 AM |
| 0 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Get weapons then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.I read this entire thread and this came to mind. Thanks for finding it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 09:44 AM |
| 1 | For those that believe many of men's problems would be solved by having more sex, how you would feel if it was only pity sex?Ah, okay. I thought you were referring to a specific person. Of course I know what TRP is, I have literally used it for myself before. Do you Mr. "All pills are dumb" guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 09:29 PM |
| 6 | Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates.That's great, man. But some people actually want real reciprocated effort based on mutual interest and not have to probe someone along to get them to do stuff the entire relationship because of rigid expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 09:17 PM |
| 15 | Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates.I'm saving this along with others when feminists say that "women who expect you to pay aren't real feminists!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | For those that believe many of men's problems would be solved by having more sex, how you would feel if it was only pity sex?I have no idea who LMS is. So people who do exactly what Tate does? If it's not someone in a tuxedo wearing sunglasses, it's not RP right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: How would you react if you found out your wife had a child that she gave up for adoption before you two met?I would think highly of her for having the child's best interests in mind enough to allow it to experience life. I would wonder what her reasons for not telling me are, but I would assume that they have nothing to do with me so I wouldnt be offended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | For those that believe many of men's problems would be solved by having more sex, how you would feel if it was only pity sex?Oh so you do think that the TRP is just what Andrew Tate says? No wonder you believe it is a grift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | For those that believe many of men's problems would be solved by having more sex, how you would feel if it was only pity sex?I think the male loneliness epidemic is clearly about emrional needs, at least in the form of social support and connection. The Manosphere and the TRP are used by people who have their agenda, they're not collectively pushing for a stance even if it looks like they are trying to push certain issues to help men. That's why Andrew Tate was able to utilize the TRP for his own bidding in his short run. I wouldn't say that the TRP or the Manosphere (at least today) is a true solution, but rather a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 08:49 PM |
| 9 | For those that believe many of men's problems would be solved by having more sex, how you would feel if it was only pity sex?Correction: Black pillers Blue pillers are the lucky ones that don't need TRP because everything just "worked out" remember? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Would you date an Ai with a real human body?Would she have a soul or is she just AI behind a meat machine? I feel like there would be some weird uncanny moments knowing that there is a soulless entity powering a dead body. Plus, with real women you could relate it, I would bring up memes and shows and they'd be like, "???" I'd probably stick to real dating, and maybe use this as a backup option if it looks too bleak or I get into a divorce with no kids to take care of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to fiction and knowing people, gooners are just as annoying as woke leftists.It's kind of the opposite... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Men treat men worse than women doNot the person you were referring to, but I really respect your attitude to other people who do not have anyone to talk to. Most people I've seen (mainly on TwoX) would've easily called this, "emotional trauma" or "emotional labor." But you seem to be open-minded and down-to-earth. Keep being you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Why is it some men both simultaneously look down on women but also seem to want their approval for everything like we are their mommy?They're not that smart, I guess. I suppose that it's like what some else said on here on the "Sour grapes" thing. They can still want them, but use all types of mental gymnastics and blaming tactics when they can't have it. I think it's normal for a short amount of time if you are immature, but the problem is these guys love to bathe in it long enough for it to become their reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Why is it some men both simultaneously look down on women but also seem to want their approval for everything like we are their mommy?Most women we find attractive are only going to be visually attractive and not truly compatible, there's no surprise here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Exceptions don't disprove the rule though. Just because your family and all community does it doesn't mean that everyone is doing it. Gen Z has the highest percentage of introverts compared to any generation (ignoring Gen A, they are in school), and a good portion of them regardless of social style is going to be online. Your statement about normie extros is basically implying that "anyone who doesn't volunteer in peer programs, clubs, and boy scouts is divergent," People just don't do that as m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:09 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAs long as they visibly have them. No too big or too small. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.I don't know how old you are, but if you do this as a 20 year old, you are likely to meet 30 and 40 year olds, because they also follow this blue pilled advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Sounds like you need to go to Europe or be a Passport Bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 12:26 AM |
| 0 | Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism (II)If a woman tried to rob me, I would hope that she'd be at least smart enough to carry a weapon for her sake. Otherwise, what is the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 02:25 AM |
| 3 | The Lily Phillips situation proves AWALT is just confirmation bias and gender flipped “Yes All Men”.Lmao! This is the first time I've seen the username checks out for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 02:19 AM |
| 0 | Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism (II)I just find it really odd that if a random women were to run up towards you and stab you from behind because they wanted to, you would be an easy target. But then again, I don't deal with confrontations from anybody all year around except for sketchy people asking if I want to buy something from them so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism (II)And you would still get robbed thinking that if you decide to. You don't think some female strangers wouldn't know that someone thinks like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:43 AM |
| 0 | How exactly do you think you can "sniff out bad personalities"?How many momma boys have you taken care of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:02 AM |
| 0 | Is Colorful Dyed Hair as disliked by men as it appears to be online and why?Yeah, I doubt that you'll be assumed as a SJW or a crazy in the wild. I've never seen anyone but white women wear colorful hair to hint at their political leaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Is Colorful Dyed Hair as disliked by men as it appears to be online and why?Older and fat makes it super obvious, but I've seen some younger and slim girls who also wear that stuff and act similarly. You have to go off of more than just what their hair color looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:55 AM |
| 0 | Is Colorful Dyed Hair as disliked by men as it appears to be online and why?Nah, you still can still tell which ones are the the artsy-alt girls versus. the left-leaning weirdos. It all comes down to clothes, how they carry themselves, and how they talk. But you can't make that judgement just from hair color anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Is Colorful Dyed Hair as disliked by men as it appears to be online and why?It depends on how it is done or what it is accounted with: Partial or ombre colored hair dye. It can be super hot honestly. Complete or full unnatural hair colors is often a 🚩to me. I tend to be wary and formal around these people if I don't know them. It can be offsetted by what how you present yourself though. Piercings and weird clothing double my suspicion, but anything regular or just artsy would lower it. Candy-colored hair is probably nothing. It's mostly the red, blues, and pinks that ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:50 AM |
| – | Society has given women a free pass for their standards while condemning men for theirsExactly. Like I completely understand wanting to date younger and more beautiful women if that is something that you prioritize, but why does it have to be someone who just got out of high school? As a man in his 30s and 40s, you can find beautiful women in their mid to late 20s. These women are also more relatable, mature, and long-term minded than a woman in her teens and early 20s. What does a 30+ year old and a 19 year old have in common in order to make a healthy successful relationship? Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 02:09 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Males should stop dropping out of the dating marketThis is the one time I am grateful for a Windmill post. This subreddit has been stale lately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 08:01 AM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?So why don't you just skip over the stale, questionable, and food poisoned dishes quickly since you know what you are interested in? That literally sounds like the easiest thing in the world. Sure, you may be overwhelmed, but you have to make an effort into the things you want. It's much better than having 10 bad options and then having to wait weeks for the next batch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.Oh please. Yeah, but they are no guns and maybe even no knives in "Irish land". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Mainstream feminism is a hate movement - if you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringe. I challenge you: Find me a single notable feminist who condemns feminist man-hatingElliot Rodger is also not even a Red Piller. He died before it took off. I'd say Andrew Tate is more Red Pilled than Rodger, and I don't think Tate is a good representation of Red Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:12 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?I don't think that anyone thinks that a woman's life is "easy" overall. But, in this subreddit, it is mostly referred to how easy women have it in dating compared to straight men. They can have numerous amounts of matches on OD, which gives them plenty of options to get picky and a better opportunity to find a guy that they want. Even in real life, most women don't have to approach a guy, they can get attention just from existing without any social expectations to "sweep them" off their feet lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ?Drunk men are more bold actually. I've heard times of where short drunk men constantly pick on taller men to be seen as more manly. Drunkness leaves you with less inhibitions. Sober men would be more likely to back off, but if a sober stranger is jumping into Ubers that aren't theirs, then it's best to just call the police. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ?C'mon, it's a 2XC story. For all I know, he could've been decided to call the police but decided not to once the other guys came out. It's not unusual for these posts to be karma farming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 07:21 AM |
| 16 | Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ?Thank you. I was literally thinking to myself, "What kind of partner puts themselves in harms way and then feels entitled to protection?" But it's from 2XC, so I'm not surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Cooking with Kya" deserves the backlashApparently, it's bad if they are seen enjoying traditional things. That's the difference now... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Cooking with Kya" deserves the backlashShe does NOT dress sexy and very suggestive. From where I live, I see people dressed like that walking outside all the time. Have you even seen the OF girls that we speak of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4M- Hypothetical- your child's friends parent is accused of in appropriately touching another child but doesn't get convicted, what do you do?many men on this sub don’t seem to understand or get hyper offended that many girls and women have the same outlook toward boys and men who have reputations of sexually aggressive and non-consensual behavior. Doubt it. No sane guy would blame you if a weird guy gets pushy with you. We hate those dudes too. I've only seen this argument when a woman is paranoid or presumptuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Q4M- Hypothetical- your child's friends parent is accused of in appropriately touching another child but doesn't get convicted, what do you do?Exactly unless the child asserts that it wasn't true. But, even then I personally wouldn't take my chances after something like that plays out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.Yeah... I guess that means that men want women while woman don't want men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard?And you know why that is right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually meansNo jail? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually meansMakes you seem shallow instead and creeps don't care about women's standards. Backwards logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 03:18 PM |
| 24 | Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard?It seems like everyone thinks that the red pill is black pill now, it's weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting.If you are only interested in one type of woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Women have a much higher libido than men on averageJust gather more women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single?I did the math and the median age on this subreddit is 30 years old. That is across both genders though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenAh, you've crafted a "Halo Effect" over yourself. A musician is like the #1 fantasy boyfriend for a lot of girls next to masculinists, and reading/writing is regarded as the top most attractive hobby in men apparently as well. Do you mind telling me your age range and do you think that height plays into it as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:48 PM |
| 0 | If you could get across any messaqge to the redpill community, what would that message be?The Red Pill tries to account for multiple subsets of women though, specifically the problematic ones because they're more confusing than predictable nice girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:23 AM |
| 9 | If you could get across any messaqge to the redpill community, what would that message be?The Red Pill is about dating, not politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toYeah, that's sad I guess, but I can't feel too bad if nobody is making them do it. It's not an Andrew Tate hostage situation, they are just deciding to make money in a shitty way. I'm not going to reserve my contempt to those who are deliberately willing to tempt or arouse people's will to do what they want for their own gain. There are many men and women who choose to make money in more honorable ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toHate? Sheesh, I thought we were simply criticizing people. 9 times out of 10, OF models and prostitutes are allowing themselves to be exploited for monetary gain. Why do you think they have no agency? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toEven though OP's attitude is quite snappy and not really appropriate for debate, what he is saying (that isn't getting deleted as we speak) still focuses on the behavior of misandrist and feminist. He didn't say anything specifically about not banging people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:13 AM |
| -2 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toHow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenThat's like at the very end, and this doesn't even apply to women who don't want to have kids with that man, or in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenWhere do you live? That's not normal in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenThat's sad. You are obviously a good woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenHow do you achieve this power? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toThey're not mutually exclusive. It's obviously used to shame men when I've seen it used. EX: Because you're an incel, no wonder you can't get laid. Prostitutes and OF models often hate men and their clients as well. Why not criticize them as well besides people who yell at those on IG reels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toWhat's wrong with shrimp tacos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:03 AM |
| -4 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toYou can, but why aren't more women encouraged to do that with incels? Most "incels" are basement dwellers that stay in their room all day, and don't really do anything with their lives outside of the internet. It's more fair to criticize someone who is actually participating in society than someone behind closed doors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:01 AM |
| 7 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toWhy is that what you get from this post? Such a typical strawman. I think he is talking about the attitudes about western women, and why the way they act makes the dating sphere worse for everyone including other women. That's why he said "misandrist and feminist manner," he brought up the way they act, he never brought up the way they date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked.Because when you take out all the common sense stuff that everyone says and the grift: there’s nothing there. Ok, I'll try this one more time and if it does not go anywhere, I seriously think you are just being bad faith. You are taking this "RP is nothing but grifters who spout common sense, platitudes, and make you pay for it" with the typical notion that: - Any content creator = "Oh blah it's a grifter trying to make money, so it's not valid!" - Any advice = "Oh those are common sense and pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 11:04 PM |
| 16 | Men don’t lack empathy women just want to be coddled 24/7This. But also be within reason. If it is destined to pile up on you later or push nuclear buttons, then perhaps it's just a compatibility issue. But, a lot of people think that relationships have to always be perfect and you are never supposed to be inconvenienced. That's why some people like that are better off staying single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.Do you think women like you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked.What are Red Tools that are in the kit? And which ones aren’t just common sense platitudes that even the blue pill says? Maybe you need to watch the Red Pill for yourself and gather your own perspective instead of trying to get information from what different Red Piller dudes say on a debate subreddit. I hate to be that guy, but it's not our job to educate you on the entirety of TRP. It's in the PPD Wikipedia if you need to read it. How is “what they tell you” different I answered this. Cause al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 07:44 AM |
| 0 | Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked.It's not a study. It's a toolkit. The manosphere is anything related to male gender dynamics, not exclusive to dating at all. Yes, all tenets say "improve your social skills," but the way they tell you to do it is different from Blue Pillers. Red Pillers would tell you not to talk too fast for sex appeal, the importance of eye contact, and hold your masculine frame. Blue Pillers would probably tell you to be nice, gentlemen, ask her about her day, (etc.) The RP is more analytical than just "comm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked.If you're going to reject what the content of the RP, then you are not going to understand the Red Pill. But, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. A lot of people mistake the the manosphere as the Red Pill, but it's not. It's challenging a set of beliefs and mainstream platitudes about dating that existed before the 2010s, and choosing to date differently. This includes learning about gender dynamics, and self-improving based on that information. Usually, it's improving your social skills and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 04:17 AM |
| -3 | Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked.You did not read the post. 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.The only thing that balances it out is a small pool of top tier men and women's pickiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 03:43 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.When you take the red pill for long enough, a lot of the things you say will fly over blue pillers heads. Game is game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 03:40 AM |
| 19 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.It's just willful ignorance at this point. If it was easy, we would all be doing it. 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.Feminist and egalitarian women want to date men without turning out as misandrist with a lot of baggage are extremely rare though. Even in online spaces, where niche people are usually more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 03:20 AM |
| 15 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.Here's something that women who say stuff like this don't understand: When one man is not a match for a woman, they can always find another one eventually. They can find another one completely different than the one they just met, who will take the effort to treat her better if they match and hit off. Women benefit from both abundance and male variance. They have a lot of men to choose from, and there is a lot of men that come in all shades of colors. Women expect certain things from a partner i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 03:16 AM |
| 4 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?Most people who complain about this are men who want to get laid constantly. No, I don't think it is the reason that men struggle to get dates or sex unless you live in certain cities where that is the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy?Nah, let her cook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Instead of being desperate for a girlfriend, men should focus on bonding with friends.MGTOW was going in that direction, but it backfired because a good majority of newcomers were black pillers who were slaves to their own desires. At least on Reddit, that frustration evolved into some pretty nasty issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Q4M What do you like about the women in your life?Their social intuition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4M What do you like about the women in your life?Any addiction is bad, obviously. Mental health is a whole different story. But please, tells us more about your son. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve muchWhat do you mean? We do a lot for them. We protect them, pay for their things, and put effort into them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve muchAgreed, but it goes both ways. We need women to start having more empathy for men and not being afraid to make some compromises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 01:36 AM |
| – | Would you date a broke woman?That's not necessarily Red Pill. Black Pill is the most nihilistic and pessismistic view of female nature and dating, which is a breeding room for "woman-hating." Red Pill is mostly being active in your dating choices, and learning what you can to get the dating lifestyle you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 08:37 AM |
| 0 | Romantic movies and TV are worse culprits of dating struggles than dating appsAt a young age, men were socialized to be simps and follow traditional gender norms that are still being upheld to this day. While women were as well, modern society has liberated women from these modern gender roles that society has yet to have prepared them for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity.Women do that more though from my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 07:51 PM |
| 11 | Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity....and bears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve muchYou're missing the point. Who are you improving yourself for? Why improve if you are content with yourself? Some men are fine with themselves, but it does not get them what they want if they are trying to be with someone else. When it comes to dating, it all leads back to self-improvement if you are struggling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve muchOkay bro, the blue pill works for YOU! That does not mean that it works for every man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards?Okay, yes I know that women would walk around and just fuck if they wanted to. 🙄 I do touch grass and I do know that college girls exist. But it still needs to be studied that women will pick the rarest traits that don't have anything to do with short-term enjoyment, and make that a requirement for a hookup. It's not enough to be attractive for some, you have to be "tall, have money to spend" and all this extra stuff. You have to pay to have sex for a woman, but you don't really have to do that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 06:21 PM |
| -1 | Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards?Yes. But, I would still do it with other women within a certain rang if it was not worth it. I wouldn't reserve myself for the best one if the opportunity may never come. It seems that women snip from the top, even if there is nothing there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards?Shh... we don't talk about those. 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 06:11 PM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.Because they're not being honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 05:43 PM |
| 3 | *NEW NUMBERS* 4 out of 10 young men in Sweden don't dare to flirt with girls, study showsNot if feminism came first. The Manosphere / Red Pill indirectly combats feminist narratives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:11 AM |
| 3 | Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy.What is a terper? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 09:32 AM |
| 0 | Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy.Have you seen a polar bear before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy.To be fair, to be forced to sit through someone being negative for hours, every day, likely about the same issues, is going to wear someone down. I wouldn't have placed an ultimatum on it, but I certainly would stop entertaining it after a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 04:15 AM |
| 5 | Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy.It is certainly questionable if a woman puts herself in a vulnerable position by herself with no one to help her if something happens to her. Nothing wrong with pointing that out. Not insinuating that whatever happens to her is her fault, but it is still their responsibility. No sane person would blame someone for the acts of another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?I mean, I can't say that I wouldn't try if it I was ideal. But, I had this happen before, and it turns out that the women in question wasn't... and had the female equivalent of this. Except she was more public about it and It disgusted me so.... I probably would've went through with it if I didn't find out about it before getting to know her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 09:14 AM |
| 6 | The 4B movement is just female MGTOW.I honestly thought that guy was banned from the mainstream internet. But, I would've still forgotten about him from now if it was not for 2XC and other women talking about him to this day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating as a cishet woman can be exhaustingI'm going to have to start making posts if this is peak PPD, and I don't even like frequenting this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating as a cishet woman can be exhaustingBased take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Semantics matter.It's not about mind reading, it's about assuming the best case scenario for good faith. If someone asks for food, you don't assume that they want moldy cheese. If you don't understand that, then I don't know what to tell you. These guys strictly talk about sex, so no, we’re not. Why would a guy be entitled to sex if he is not in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 02:18 AM |
| 7 | Older men pursuing younger women while belittling other womenYou assume that a guy like that would tell the truth if he was smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 07:23 AM |
| 2 | I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate meWatch this video and tell me again that bears are predictable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 02:53 AM |
| 2 | I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate meThe problem is it is that, out of millions and billions of men, why are they assumed to be dangerous? Out of thousands and millions of bears, why are they assumed to be safer? Yes, the worst of men are scarier than the worst of bears. But, I would like to think that all of the men you have walked past on the sidewalk would be much safer than most bears if you were to encounter them just as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Semantics matter.Because men ideally want enthusiastic consensual sex that their partner likes. Sure, some men will take body masturbation as a close second, but it should be assumed that intimacy sex is what most men (and women) want. It's called being in a good faith. I thought we were talking about relationships? If someone is nice to you and goes out their way to make effort, if you want to continue that interaction, you should reciprocate. Letting the man do all the gestures and gifts, but technically sayin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Guys who say:, 'Guys only want one thing'?Windmill does the same thing unapologetically and she gets a pass though. no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For MenThat's just black pill, most of y'all don't understand what TRP means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For MenNo, that's the Red Pill to Black Pill pipeline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For MenYou think he'd do alright if he was attractive too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 07:07 PM |
| – | Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality.There are people who do though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 07:35 PM |
| – | Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality.They do though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | A bunch of questions for womenGen Z men are "manchild" now? Ain't no way, aren't most of them still teenagers? Also, among Gen Z, more women are LGBTQ+ than men so men are also competing with quite a few more women for women than women compete with men for men. I think this contributes to why more young men are romantically unsuccessful because a number of women would rather have a woman as a partner than some manchild. Doubt it. Out of the 10-ish girls through elementary to high school that I crushed on, maybe 1 happened to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 07:21 PM |
| 6 | A bunch of questions for womenHow can men be over-supplied AND women be more in demand? These questions contradict each other. They don't, though. Demand = want Supply = have Women are WANTED more (than men). I think OP was talking about men wanting women more than than women wanting men. So, a heterosexual context. Men are over-supplied, so they HAVE more men in the dating market. So, it is: - Why are women wanted more? - Why are more men in the dating market than women / Why are men wanted less? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 07:06 PM |
| 2 | I need a trad husbandI would just use the powers of nagging and crying like an emotional bitch to combat that bossy shit. /s But like, 80% of that does not seem that bad to me (and probably most men). Most men know that they have to compromise on something when they enter a relationship or marriage if they want a healthy, long-lasting relationship. But, a lot of career women seem to not understand this part and they come as particularly selfish and stingy, even more than their male counterparts to an unreasonable de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I need a trad husbandIf he's going to watch TV I want him to watch the stuff from the 90s because most kids TV today sucks. You're actually a smart dad. I thought I was the only who thought that kids shows today are too sanitized and dwarf the quality of shows even 15 years ago, and I am technically not even old enough to be a real dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | I need a trad husbandYou and Sharp have to be the same person lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 06:50 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADUnless she has really bad acne or looks like she got sat on by a bunch of 500 pound dudes, I've seen most guys say that women look so much better without it, and they shouldn't keep wearing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:53 AM |
| 4 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou got it backwards, huh. It's the OF girls going after us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:50 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNah, it's not that. It's more that there is no pre-pubescents dildos out there. (P.S, wtf is this conversation?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?When you trade in one set of problems, you get a completely different set of problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Is "Just to talk to women bro" a solution?This only works if you are attractive. It won't work for everyone. Also, wtf did you do before you "gave up" lmao? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?Confirms every woman said but men here deny. Do the opposite of whatever most PPD men say, and you'll be alright. Followed, stalked, creepshots. Well, that escalated quickly. Bet they feel safer because they have the power. Most women have this power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?Ah yes, men like genuine and modest women more. What a surprise. But if you go out at night looking skimpy, I can bet you 5 dollars that it'll be double what it is in modest clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?Caged on sight. It's not creepy or illegal to send the evils of streakers away from society with urgency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?Safety is a part of health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 09:23 PM |
| -1 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?I would put someone in a cage if I saw them not wearing anything. Male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?Not taking these threads seriously or as a reflection of real life is a survival strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 09:17 PM |
| -1 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?You act like more men won't stare at you 10x more if you are in revealing clothing. "I will get one person staring at me anyway, so let me wear something that will get most men to pay me a glance." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?Even if they don’t like you they like the attention. Literally every woman with an OnlyFans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingThis, as a Gen Z man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?You don't find yourself interested in strangers because it happens so often. So, you'd be more open to it in certain contexts rather than in general. Do you think that you'd be more open if you got significantly less male attention in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?Rare PPD moment where someone in this subreddit helps do what this sub was designed to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:31 AM |
| 0 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?So you just turn it off to certain contexts since it is so common anyway? Do you think you'd be more open if it occurred every season or so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?Must be genetic then lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:11 AM |
| 3 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?Consensus is all the time to never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?I saw that one too lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 02:56 PM |
| -4 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?At least you are consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Why do divorced men seem to struggle so much even when financials are not an issue?Men provide for their families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 07:05 AM |
| – | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?Right. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Men who continue to raise the kid after realizing it isn't there's are accepting the fruadI love that you have an idealistic and humanitarian view on this subject. But, let's not act like men get sole custody anyway or the child is not treated as a puppet in the cases of the type of mothers who would willingly cause a paternity fraud. It's not always as simple as a child crying because their dad randomly left a traumatic family situation, there are situations where you shouldn't just assume that is always the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Men who continue to raise the kid after realizing it isn't there's are accepting the fruadPerfect capturing of the dilemma between two different mindsets. Well done! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Ah, I suppose it is different in England. In America, it seems like they put politics over sports at times. Off-topic question, isn't it the Boston Patriots or is that another team? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Eh, I would hope that these simps wouldn't date someone who is okay with men suffering so women can gain, and off with their Ds. That's just spineless and unwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Well if men raise their standards, then they risk dying out regardless. If your options are few and you are generally less picky anyway, then you may have to wait a lifetime to find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?It doesn't really matter. I just use "birth their child" synonymously with sex. That is part of why men and women are attracted to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Yeah, you can be forced to pick extremes at times. It seems like being apathetic or simply nuanced is frowned upon by both sides. I think that the people who are likely to do usually drive into political talk right away anyway. People who are more nuanced are not going to be talking about politics so heavily. I think playful banter is fun, but I wish people were more confident in doing that. A lot of people like to ask generic "get to know you" questions and interview dates at first in my experi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Seems like nature to me. Females decide who gets to birth their child based on their criteria. Males have less because they need to compromise in order to be more compatible with their mates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?Quite the opposite unless you are talking about the opposite end of the spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Is there anything you'd compromise on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Women being more unapologetic and men being more compromising is a bad thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?I don't expect to date people with my political beliefs since I am more center, honestly. As far as marriage goes, I expect that person to have similar political beliefs. I feel like this generation of young women will become more conservative as they get older fortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?I don't know too many in real life, but I'd say very few in my immediate social circle. It is probably way more outside my circle or even in my area that have some misandrist sentiments. Outright or extreme misandrists are rare though. Probably because they mostly stay at home or look pretty obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?That is going to be a lot harder since extremists speak for the majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?Maybe women think men are better at their job then, idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?The women growing up for the most part are okay as well. Heh. Depends, some of them are just as bad if not worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?Curious why or how she is still your best friend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?It is said that 10% of the users promote 90% of the content on social media. Minority extremist drive engagement up rather quickly because it fuels emotion. Sane takes are harder to find and not as engaging as most people can agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?Typically people promote those who look or relate more to them more often aside from work ethics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?"Who is promoting them?" (Thanks for the downvote btw) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?Not if the people in authority are women. That's only if the person in-charge is a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:15 PM |
| 0 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?Most rapists being men =/= Most men being rapists Every time I see this, I think people who spout these ideas are dumb as fuck and don't understand logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:13 PM |
| 4 | CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the USThese women will die alone and not impact the future generations. Conservative men and women with traditional values will have children, and continue to perpetrate the same values into their children. If the kids become liberals, then they'll likely not reproduce (even with their liberal counterparts) and suffer the same fate. Go ahead with your 4B movement. In the long term, nature does not give a flying fuck about your politics. Traditional women will return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 04:27 AM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGThat just sounds like a friendship to me. You can probably find 10-50 different people with the same interests as you and not find them attractive. Sounds like a great way to make friends. But, if you aren't saying that looks don't matter or that they aren't the only thing that matters in a relationship, then I do agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | If feminist pages and women in general talked more about different issues that men face, that would help get men out of the red pill / alt right / anti SJW rabbit holeWhy would men's issues derail feminist issues if they care about equality between the sexes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 02:02 AM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGModern men in my estimation are oftentimes bitter, entitled and cowardly. They fail to attract women because they are frankly a bit pathetic. I'm not trying to throw men under the bus, I have plenty of criticisms for modern women as well, but as a man you blaming women for your own shortcomings only highlights why you can't attract them in the first place. You were so close to saying something based, but you choose to criticize men for complaining about the unfairness of the dating market and sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:25 PM |
| 5 | If not The Red Pill? What should men follow?Not really. It comes off as almost deterministic. Like "it does not matter what you do, you have no control over your situation." Which is something that struggling men don't want to hear nor is it helpful. This sentiment mostly works for women because they primarily rely on sex or looks to attract men rather than personality. They don't have to worry or feel accountable for attracting the men they attract based on their own actions/behaviors as much. Which is why women who have "standards" most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:14 PM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGIf the foundation of a relationship is based on something like a t-shirt, or the way I smell, then the relationship is doomed to start. Yes, looks are temporary, but at least they are solid and a stable basis for attraction. I can't fathom wanting to be in a relationship just because I am happy for the moment, or my partner hasn't put me in a bad mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGWell, that's just a result of radicalization happening right before your eyes. If both feminists and "incels" don't come to terms and get better relations with each other, then they just get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGIt's funny how you both interpreted each other's angles entirely differently than intended, and it led to no resolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:33 PM |
| 4 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGThat's not a healthy way to enter a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGThey get deleted or not as many comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:48 PM |
| 3 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeCommon tactic when women are afraid of rejecting people or saying "no." They expect you to take the hint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:46 PM |
| 2 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeIt is baffling indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:39 PM |
| 3 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeUh huh. And what did you do when you liked the guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:35 PM |
| 6 | If not The Red Pill? What should men follow?Good sentiment. But, it is not helpful to struggling men for obvious reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | If not The Red Pill? What should men follow?That's a minority of women, and it's also because those same men apparently go for those women anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:24 PM |
| 15 | If not The Red Pill? What should men follow?Because even people on here who have "healthy relationships" give shit advice. But, I agree with the IRL part. It is better to get advice from people who are living the same experience as you rather than comparing two different contexts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:22 PM |
| 3 | If not The Red Pill? What should men follow?It's why the red pill is turning towards the black pill sadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignReason 1 - This is going to happen regardless in every other facet of life (friendships, relationships, work, etc.). Reason 2 - Maybe, yours is. But, not every women on the market. Not to mention the fact that the single ones make themselves unavailable most of the time, and the others often 'have a boyfriend.' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 06:57 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministTbf, there has been women who have gotten men in trouble or blamed them for being a good samaritan. Yes, it's rare. No you can't say it does not happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:07 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministZombie apocalypse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:02 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministProtect me then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 12:59 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministBears | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 12:59 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministYou know why. Helping who has a heart attack is the least you can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 12:56 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministUsername checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?What because I'm a man? Good luck lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 12:35 AM |
| 15 | If harris/walz lose, and insofar as they are losing male votersMen's rights takes a backseat to women's rights in general. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want.Most men don't want every pussy that comes their way. If that were true, we wouldn't have created this subreddit. How is “be rich, be hot, be likable, or be happy single” bad advice? Because it's basic advice that is just supposed to sound good. Most men want something more actionable and tangible. If that was good enough, again, we wouldn't have created this subreddit. I listed it out, please actually read the post. I read the whole thing and you just said that all men are ego-driven and don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 11:24 PM |
| 0 | Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want.Nice straw manning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want.No, you claimed that they were "taking, but not offering in return" when they are not in a position to "take." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want.This post has a ton of points that make no sense, and actually don't really prove your point. They do the exact opposite actually... So, men complain that it is unfair that they have to put more effort into dating to get to the same footing that a woman gets effortlessly. Then, you give them bad advice that confirms exactly that and you are surprised that they complain about it afterwards. Then, instead of hearing their perspective, you make a post telling them that they are wrong and reinforce … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?Unicorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?That's not even a strawman, though. I don't even think you know what that word means. Define "misogyny" in the way that the women on this subreddit use it then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?I hope you know how stupid he sounds to most normal people, and how even the average man has way more sound logic than this. Wtf? Even though, I do agree that it seems too coincidental that most women have been raped in their lives, that just sounds like trauma porn and fearmongering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?I somewhat agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?It's either basement dwellers (mostly) or chads doing this. It should be pretty obvious to you and easy to avoid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?You can't prove something that you can't clearly define. It's the same thing as using the word "patriarchy." One minute it is "not all men", the next minute it's AMALT because of patriarchy. It's just a bunch of buzzwords used to mean whatever you guys want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?Do people still watch or even take F&F seriously anymore? They've been dying since 2022 and they've been banned on multiple platforms. They say the most stupid and embarrassing shit about men, only the minority of absolute duds watch that shit now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:32 PM |
| -1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?That depends on what you think the average "incel redpiller" is. Most men don't want to date single moms, fat women, or golddiggers. They just don't have to say it out loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?Yeah, but you guys accuse us of everything. It's like that buzzword has a different meaning everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?Mhm, even if they could explain what "sheer misinformation" and "misogyny" they are talking about. I am obviously not going to see things the exact way and those words are incredibly vague for people who don't use them often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:04 AM |
| 17 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?I mean, yeah, you probably shouldn't take this place too seriously or for practical advice. It's got some good bits sometimes, but a lot of it is not something you'd want to learn from. There is very little nuance here. There are some chill people here, but a lot of people here are very disconnected and unhinged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:01 AM |
| 3 | What can a man do to become more sexy and provocative "instantly"?!Only if you are hot enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 01:47 AM |
| 1 | The Type of Women Normally Chased by MenI've had women with piercings and tattoos attracted to me, and I did not reciprocate their interest because it looked ugly as fuck to me. If I saw them again, then they took off their nose/face piercings and wore a hoodie from that point on, lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 12:41 AM |
| 4 | In what ways are men and women most different?The way they socialize. They are raised and condition to see things differently and approach from different angles. Women are more likely to put their emotions and the consideration of others on the forefront of the issue. Women are often encouraged to do this and get positive reinforcement for doing so consistently, so this makes sense. Men are more likely to minimize this in order to remain stoic and directly handle the issue. Men aren't encouraged or positively reinforced for being emotionall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are fucking paranoidThey missed their chance. Onto the next. You are getting too emotionally attached to the outcome, you should just assume so that you don't get disappointed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Women are fucking paranoidHow often does this happen? I am concerned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 07:54 AM |
| -2 | Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated?Unless I know them, I could care less what other women do for fun. Unless they are drunk and roaming around where other men might be, I don't judge either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:42 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather commit to someone with an extensive past, or to a virgin with an extensive liking for others?Someone definitely did their homework. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 01:11 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather commit to someone with an extensive past, or to a virgin with an extensive liking for others?Lmao good point! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 01:02 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather commit to someone with an extensive past, or to a virgin with an extensive liking for others?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 01:01 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather commit to someone with an extensive past, or to a virgin with an extensive liking for others?To force people to assert their beliefs or have strong opinions on something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Curious what women view as "good guys"Well yeah, you are not supposed to take a subjective opinion and accept it as an absolute fact. Objectivity can change depending on the time or circumstance, just like trends do. You can make objective truths based on current relevant trends. That's literally a large portion of PUA and TRP information. Some of it is just going to be unfounded and extremist, especially if it is not fact checked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Curious what women view as "good guys"Imagine using one of the most subjective things in existence to prove objectivity It's objectively true that most men are attracted to beautiful women, that is one of the most objective things in existence. You can ask most men whether they are attracted to beautiful women, and you will get a large consensus that will point towards that objectivity. a "consensus" of subjective opinions doesn't make those subjective opinions any less subjective, and it certainly doesn't magically turn those subje… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: You meet the perfect woman but you find out about her exImagine if you were a "6'3 210 lbs NFL cornerback, absolutely shredded, dreads, gold chain, gold teeth, tatted up, double styrofoam cups" guy while reading this post. What changes lmao? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Curious what women view as "good guys"Is this a list you constructed, or a list of what other people have stated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Curious what women view as "good guys"A collection of similar subjectivity can in fact be "objective." If a vast majority of people believe that 'murder is wrong', then it is reasonable to assume that most people will believe that 'murder is wrong'. Just like if a vast majority of women desire 'masculine traits', then it is reasonable to assume that most women desire 'masculine traits.' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Curious what women view as "good guys"I agree, but you can still benchmark from trends within a general subset of people that will make you objectively more attractive to the sex. Women have technically been doing that for centuries (e.g, "improving their looks and raising beauty standards, which appeals largely to men"). While what defines being a "good person" is different for everyone, most people will still be able to come up with some broad consensus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Curious what women view as "good guys"Nah, as a former red piller, I get upset when people I would otherwise root for make themselves out to be suckers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think it's understandable if a guy is celibate simply because he doesn't like his gender role in dating?because they also did it when they didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?Lmao woah What if they are not "cum guzzlers" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.I replied to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Men and women pretty much act the same it slightly different ways.Username checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 02:05 PM |
| 55 | Q4M: what is an “all men are like that” type of generalization that you’re tired of OTHER MEN saying?Anything that paints all as either heartless, weak, desperate, primal, or sex-crazed. Most men are well adjusted individuals that are able to navigate through the world and do just fine with other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 04:44 AM |
| 0 | UN also fakes the Gender Inequality Index, to paint women as victimsYou mean MRA? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?Not at all, it would be wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?For real, I wouldn't thought that this is a relationship advice subreddit with all of this outrage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:41 PM |
| -1 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?Not if they rule them out first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Do the majority of (straight) men observe and assess women solely as a potential partner?I've had quite a few female friends that did not evolve to become partners. That being said, if they were attractive and did not have any red flags, then there was potential for them to be a partner. I've flirted with most of my female friends at some point if they were attractive. I've also had friends that stayed purely platonic. I don't think it would be possible for me to have a close female friend or female best friend while single though. I think most men can relate to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 06:32 AM |
| 6 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?I don't know his reasons, but I think it is perfectly okay to not want to trust the government with your relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?Does she feel the same way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 01:21 AM |
| 8 | How to deal with women making negative judgements on dating behavior but simultaneously offering no alternatives?/thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Guys here care way too much about blue haired feminists and will use those women as confirmation bias.Right so I'm not really worried about them. I am worried about the other women they also delude and teach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Guys here care way too much about blue haired feminists and will use those women as confirmation bias.Because they are the loudest ones in the Internet who talk the most and won't shut the fuck up. There also seems to be a lot of them on here, so we don't know how many of them are in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Given the "ideal" wife/girlfriend/partner, do you genuinely *enjoy* providing?5 I think the ideal relationship should feel akin to a companionship. I think that there is fulfillment in mutual care and consideration from your partner, knowing that they love you for who you are, no matter what you do. You both do things for each other, and your relationship is founded in more personal characteristics rather than pure pragmaticism. Provider roles are nice every now and then, but I can imagine that it feels sort of one-sided if you are constantly put in that position. It feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | People who hate feminism don't have a viable alternativeThat sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | People who hate feminism don't have a viable alternativeu/thedarkracer, your opponent is back. Please get her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What role does IQ play in a man's attractiveness?Yeah, he kind of simplified it by a lot. I would like to think that most men have some standards when it comes to a relationship. Only the most desperate and deprived men would have this "lap-dog simp" dynamic to where they do whatever the woman requests and expect sex as an incentive or reward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Fat chicksUsing the BMI visualizer, 150 at 5'4 does not seem bad to me personally. It is right at the cusp of overweight, so guys who prefer skinny women wouldn't go for it I guess. In America, 200 pounds and up is typically where most people will agree that you are way too fat. Most women aren't going to be 5'10+ and they typically aren't dating average to short men, so that alleviates the "you can be a healthy weight at 200 lbs" for a lot of men. So yeah, most women between 5'0 to 5'7 (~150 cm - 170 cm)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 03:54 PM |
| 9 | Fat chicksWhy do you have this video on hand? 😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 03:48 PM |
| 2 | If you are a late bloomer / socially stunted, you may never fully catch upWhat job/field? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 07:00 AM |
| 1 | If you are a late bloomer / socially stunted, you may never fully catch upYou can want sex and then want more after. You can also want more initially, then want only sex after. You can also want them simultaneously. Your comment implies that you can only ever want sex, you can't possibly want anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: How do you view women that approach and make the first move?You're going to be the reason some woman in this subreddit doesn't approach lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you view women that approach and make the first move?I don't mind it as long as they aren't nasty, aggressive, or weird. I would actually appreciate it even if I wasn't interested. I would assume that I am really attractive to them and the "stand around and wait" approach does not work for them, so they feel compelled to move in their own. I have had it occur quite a few times on social media sites, never in person though. Although I typically view women positively for approaching, I typically notice that these same women are quite promiscuous and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 07:12 PM |
| 8 | PPD Survey ResultsI assume when the Red Pill strategies don't work for them, people turn to the Black Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 02:18 AM |
| -2 | PPD Survey ResultsWhat's so destructive about black pill? Is the concept of "Chad" or the overall nihilism of "the average man is not attractive enough" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 01:25 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Males aren't hypergamous because of insecurityYeah, but it's rare to see a man with a woman less attractive than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 04:22 PM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.That's largely why I am no longer Red Pill and switched to Purple Pill. A lot of RP content seems to train and prepare you to date toxic rage-bait women that primarily exist in "city life" spaces.. I don't find it necessary to put curfews and use 'alpha male energy' against the type of women I'd be interested in dating. But, it's still good to use some Red Pill teachings to avoid dating or being trapped with women who are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 03:56 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Males aren't hypergamous because of insecurityI am seeing a divorce in their future. Those types usually don't settle easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 03:49 PM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.Then, I don't know how you've missed this. But then I realize that you guys probably call it having "high standards." We basically call them "checklists" when women list a numerous amount of standards, typically those that have little to do with character or personality. I don't have a concrete example of a woman using them because I don't want female dating content, but hoe_math videos probably have some. Does it refer to dating? Is it a female dating strategy thing? Yes and Yes (but it's not l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 03:45 PM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.You probably are at least 30 and don't use social media then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 03:38 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Males aren't hypergamous because of insecurityI was wondering who would make such a judgemental post, but then I saw "males" and immediately recognized that this was Windmill flowers. I'd send you a "The Future is Males" shirt. But, I'm out of stock right now. But, men are hypergamous regarding looks if you could say that. But men don't really prioritize education and money because that is their traditional gender roles, they have that. They would much rather have emotional support and something that directly brings value to the relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop believing and spreading the idea that having sex with a lot of women is more ideal than just having sex with women you can find through your passionsI'll be doing the Charleston at your nearest club. 🤓😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop believing and spreading the idea that having sex with a lot of women is more ideal than just having sex with women you can find through your passionsPfft... I am surprised you can do that. Most of the information on this subreddit is complete shit. This post is not even that bad, I'm just speaking in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Men need to stop believing and spreading the idea that having sex with a lot of women is more ideal than just having sex with women you can find through your passions*wants to also be a dancer* "Am I cooked, chat?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | If you had the option to get plastic surgery at little to no cost would you?Maybe some laser acne removal and a minor rhinoplasty, but I don't think that is plastic surgery. I think a lot of people are too crazy on the "Oh my biological genetics are fucked, I need to fix my face." I think most people (even those who think they are below average) forget that most people look pretty average, and not truly ugly from a looksmaxxing standpoint. Otherwise, how would your parents have given birth to you? I think that getting clear skin, nice hair, and a healthy body should be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 01:40 PM |
| -6 | Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say.She did an edit after you commented that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 12:34 AM |
| -1 | Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say.Never said that they weren't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 11:54 PM |
| -5 | Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say.No, I am not confused that different woman have different preferences. I am just wondering why they are so comfortable generalizing their preferences to the point of defending it like they have a hill to die on. But tbf, I guess I shouldn't be trying to find trends from a small subreddit of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | What is a show of submission a woman can give to a man ?I personally just think that a show of submission is simply a lack of dominance or whatever the opposite of submission is. The "Shut up and do your dishes" submission is something only manosphere extremists push. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 11:35 PM |
| -4 | Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say.That's not the same because you can easily compare your wants and preferences to other people within your gender. You have it backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say.My eyes are open. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say.This actually makes a lot of sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say.That's fine. I was mostly just critiquing that a lot of women seem to generalize their own experiences quite often, even if they were just talking about themselves. Yeah, I realize that these women are mainly talking about themselves, that's why I made this post. But it can sometimes seem like they speak for everyone despite the "not a monolith" talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say.Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say.True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 11:14 PM |
| 1 | AWALT is just code for “I associate with shitty toxic women, but Im TOTALLY not the problem.”Ditto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | AWALT is just code for “I associate with shitty toxic women, but Im TOTALLY not the problem.”Put examples like these in your posts next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 10:21 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexistHow is not being alive and keeping witnesses around you incompetent? You can't be competent if you are fired because of a false allegation (or even a real one). I would argue that is the definition of being competent because that's proactive. Never "dining alone with a woman" is incompetent? Do you secretly want to date your male supervisor or boss? I thought that women don't like when a male of higher authority tries to make a pass on them? How do you know that these 50% of people are getting t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexistDozens of men have accused me of discrimination; frequently throwing hissy fits in HR, because I will not allow them to touch me or be alone with them in a potentially compromising situations. I am curious though. Have you been able to address with them or rectify them firsthand? I have been fired because I refuse to allow male co-workers to touch me. What, seriously? Isn't that a wrong termination? How were they able to make up some bullshit excuse for that to even work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:50 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexist??? You have to be trolling. They are leading 100% of people, they just have to be careful about some interactions with 50% of people. Things like not dining alone, keeping the doors and blinds open, having cameras about, and not travelling alone with them have nothing to do with weaponized incompetence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexistCan you speak on examples of how women have been fired or accused of discrimination? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 04:39 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexistThey are, they just aren't doing it in a way you'd like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what?Most optimistic comment/post I've seen on this subreddit that I've seen in months, and probably years if I count how long I've been here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 02:30 AM |
| 1 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?Even if you are ignoring crazy misandrist comments, actual feminism still has its quite a bit of misandry involved with it. The entire movement has a lot of language and terminology that shifts any type of negative attention and blame from women onto men. Although I agree with some of the sentiments and idea that feminists talk about, I still disassociate with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidDoesn't mean they aren't related. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:55 AM |
| 3 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidResearch and anecdotal evidence shows that men are more likely to please a woman if they are vocal about what they like or want. There was even a feminist blogpost about it, and I normally hate reading those shits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Have you ever "calmed down" or become less sexual as you got older?Is non-dating phase not thinking about it at all, or is it just manageable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever "calmed down" or become less sexual as you got older?You were never really a fan of hookup culture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever "calmed down" or become less sexual as you got older?Does it translate with adults as well? Like for instance, you are having a more attentive or emotional moment with a partner or friend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever "calmed down" or become less sexual as you got older?So, it's been mostly the same throughout? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:49 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: Have you ever "calmed down" or become less sexual as you got older?Are you currently single or in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever "calmed down" or become less sexual as you got older?Trust me, if I could find a place to get a reliably larger sample size, I would. The rest depends on what happens in the thread. Inevitability, I think the replies will do way more of both than I would bother to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Do men on here understand why women follow alpha fucks and beta bucks?Yeah, I agree that there is some suspicion as to how inexperienced men in dating are supposedly able to know whether these women are truly settling. I also think that telling someone that their experience is invalid is also weird. But, exceptions do not disprove the rule. The absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence. Sure, you may not have that problem. But, there are tons of observable cases where women who do end up getting themselves in AFBB situations (AITA and relationship advice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Do men on here understand why women follow alpha fucks and beta bucks?I think that you definitely can, but there are some women who settle. So, they are more likely to feel like they HAVE to pick out of the two. Of course, a growing majority nowadays are just choosing to stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Do men on here understand why women follow alpha fucks and beta bucks?Testosterone is one helluva of a drug. I know in other countries where women wear higher amounts of clothing, burqas, and more obscured appearances, men tend to go crazy when a woman is uncovered or showing off more of her body. So, I definitely think that it is still a biological phenomenon to prioritize sex more as a man when you do not have it. Yet, it is probably true that culture honestly changes the way that it manifests slightly, but the formula is always the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 04:44 PM |
| 2 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.I am sure that they would if they were called out on it enough, but no one has time to be mindful and pick part all of their biases. But go ahead, knock yourself out. You use rhetorical questions and highly subjective means to strengthen your point more than you use actual concrete statements or examples. I can't tell if you want me to mainly address the title claim, or focus only on the subclaims (or numerous points) that you have made. Who are 'Men who are in constant need of a free therapist?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 04:21 PM |
| 0 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.No one said that men can have emotional baggage, but women can't. Everyone agrees that someone with emotional baggage is not ideal for entering a relationship with. Also, this whole post is a jumbled mess of a rant. You need to have a clear claim and points that defend/support your argument. Just zigzagging through different types of hypocrisy isn't a true argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?AFAB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Being both gives you bragging points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 05:22 AM |
| 3 | This is the wrong way to teach about empathy.I'm going to upload the videos that non-US redditors cannot see if they choose to. It will expire on the 22th. Boys Girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Women promote “toxic masculinity”; Men promote “toxic femininity”You should give examples of each. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:55 PM |
| 3 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.Attraction or action? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:43 PM |
| 3 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.I don't even fundamentally disagree with the post. I think that men should stop simping, and maybe that would largely shift the dating dynamics that we have right now. But, I think that people should also stop pretending that morality and dating go hand-to-hand because it is clearly obvious that they do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction.So, what is the point of this post? You didn't even really say anything worth talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 06:12 PM |
| -1 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"I don't know, man. This subreddit is led by a bunch of angry whining and bickering anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Pick 1 - great sex + bad relationship OR no sex + great relationship?Yes because I must live forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything a woman could do to get you to say with her after she cheated on you ?She has to do anything I want 24/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Pick 1 - great sex + bad relationship OR no sex + great relationship?A because I'll live longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over?High aura feminine behavior - confidence, energetic, playfulness/banter, expressiveness, creativity Empathy and compassion gets a really close second, almost a tie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested?Don't mind me, just waiting for the "nice person" comments... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 04:54 PM |
| -2 | Do Modern Men Want Women to be More Submissive or more Masculine?Who wants a masculine woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | If You Became Super Desirable To Women, Would You Be A Player?Ah, okay. In that case... How long would you go before entering a long term relationship? For roughly about 1-4 years. I think it would be interesting to get the daily attention and validation rather than purely aiming for as much sex as possible within a timeframe. Then, I could have a firsthand experience of how different women act and what works before settling down. How many women before you stop? Sleeping with? Probably less than 10. Meeting? I don't have a number in mind. Would you have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 08:09 PM |
| 7 | If You Became Super Desirable To Women, Would You Be A Player?Oh yeah, I guess we are considering 30-50 year old women too lmao. In that case, you are right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | If You Became Super Desirable To Women, Would You Be A Player?I think it depends on how "super desirable" I am to women and what they desire me for. I assume it is a sexual/romantic attraction time of way rather than in a utilitarian/pragmatic way (money, status, fame, useful friend, etc.). Am I "super desirable" in a realistic sense? Am I able to attract women that would've liked me if I reached my maximum sexual potential in a human sense or do I attract women who would have never considered me their type in a million years (and vice versa)? Am I desirab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Well feminist admit in nowI commented something worse there and got off scout-free with an informal warning. But, I did get banned from that other subreddit for asking sensitive questions they didn't like. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/24 02:27 AM |
| 23 | Well feminist admit in nowThen, they'll excuse them for just being drunk. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: when dating, do you factor in how attractive she is to others?It's a bit different for men. Is she over 30 - 40 years old and single? That might be a red flag. Is she younger? Then, there is going to be tons of people who find her attractive regardless. Unless my friends know about the girl and they warn me beforehand, otherwise nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: How would a guy know if she is taking her time versus. stringing him along?Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: How would a guy know if she is taking her time versus. stringing him along?Sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 11:04 PM |
| -4 | Q4W: How would a guy know if she is taking her time versus. stringing him along?Good advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How would a guy know if she is taking her time versus. stringing him along?Were you honest with him? Would you tell him if he asked or would you let him figure it out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: How would a guy know if she is taking her time versus. stringing him along?No tips? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | You nearly always know within 5 minutes if you have chemistry with someoneIt's funny how we get closer to what we want when we find the truth for ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 07:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV: women should not sign prenupsNot signing a prenup is a sign that your husbands have seen divorce courts, and don't trust that the government will ethically and responsibly handle the marriage assets in the event of a divorce. Why would a 'male' (man, teenagers don't usually get married) get married in the first place if he knew at the start that there was going to divorce? You can't make this shit up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 06:43 PM |
| 3 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Yes, attraction can still grow. But, it needs a baseline which is usually looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 06:40 PM |
| 7 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?That makes sense. The initial attraction is looks right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 05:17 AM |
| 5 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?This makes more sense than anything other women here have said before. I was previously under the assumption that women need at least another date or two (translate that into hours of time) to know for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 05:15 AM |
| 6 | How would you feel if your bf/husband said he wasn’t initially attracted to you?Yeah, I still can't get around how that works. It seems more like half-attraction rather than genuine attraction. But hey, if it works and they end up "happily ever after" then who am I to judge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Male sexuality wouldnt be demonized if men werent using it to excuse bad behavior.So, the whole premise of this post is to complain that men's sexual strategies is going to be influenced by women's behaviors and preferences? No shit sherlock. Why do you think that we have eight billion people on the planet? This existence of TRP and this subreddit is literally upon that fact. The “women can dictate men’s behavior by who she sleeps with” mindset is the biggest example of this... So is it ‘typical male behavior’ for men to commit crimes because some psycho bitch promised him se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:05 AM |
| 3 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItYet they can be coaxed into having highly unrealistic standards, so clearly something is wrong. This was not a huge problem before social media and dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you choose a deep emotional connection with your gf? Or for just primal "Chad" lust?Yeah, and Option 2 sounds temporary af anyway, so keep what you can maintain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you choose a deep emotional connection with your gf? Or for just primal "Chad" lust?Yeah sometimes, but I've heard a lot of guys complain about girls showing them attention more when they are in a relationship or married than when they are single. There are lots of people with 1 that will never have 2 Not really my problem though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 12:35 AM |
| 17 | Q4M: Would you choose a deep emotional connection with your gf? Or for just primal "Chad" lust?If you can get 1, you can get 2. So option 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Women, if a man left you because he wasn't the best you've ever had, would you be offended?That's what it sounds like to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Women, if a man left you because he wasn't the best you've ever had, would you be offended?So sex just feels mechanical and something you have to do otherwise? You have to rely on hormones to want/enjoy sex rather than pleasure and stimulation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Women, if a man left you because he wasn't the best you've ever had, would you be offended?Is all sex just mid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawedDepends on the hypothetical, if we are giving birth through our dicks, then absolutely. If not, we'd just be women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Would you feel dirty after having sex with them if they acknowledge that they slept with a large portion of other women in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Would you feel dirty after having sex with them if they acknowledge that they slept with a large portion of other women in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Would you feel dirty after having sex with them if they acknowledge that they slept with a large portion of other women in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Would you feel dirty after having sex with them if they acknowledge that they slept with a large portion of other women in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Would you feel dirty after having sex with them if they acknowledge that they slept with a large portion of other women in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Would you feel dirty after having sex with them if they acknowledge that they slept with a large portion of other women in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:15 AM |
| 20 | What are some signs of internalized misandry in males?Basically, a male feminist or feminine male "boot-lickers." If they are the type to say things like "I apologize on behalf of my gender 🥹" or they think that masculinity is bad and femininity is good, that is a pretty big tell. Technically, simps and orbiters would be as well, but that's more of having no self-respect rather than a distaste in being inherently "male" Okay but on a side note, I seriously want to know how you got so used to saying 'male" in favor of men and why you keep doing that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?How would you feel if they hid the information from you, or you found out later on that they were slutty? Would it change how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?How would you feel if they hid the information from you, or you found out later on that they were slutty? Would it change how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?What if they had a past that you didn't know about until later? Would it change your view or how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?What if everyone or like 90% of men were slutty? Would it change your view? How would you feel about dating at that point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?How would you feel if they hid the information from you, or you found out later on that they were slutty? Would it change how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?How would you feel if that person hid the information from you? Would it change how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?What if they were sex addicts or were recklessly sexual in the past? Would you feel differently about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?I know I should have added this in the OP. How would you feel if they hid the information from you, or you found out later on that they were slutty? Would it change how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?I probably should've added this in the post. How would you feel if they hid the information from you, or you found out later on that they were slutty? Would it change how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?How would you feel if they hid the information from you, or you found out later on that they were slutty? Would it change how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?How would you feel if they hid the information from you, or you found out later on that they were slutty? Would it change how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?I should've included this in the post. How would you feel if they hid the information from you, or you found out later on that they were slutty? Would it change how you feel about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:57 AM |
| -2 | Anyone feel like feminists use the word “men” too often?No, the self-proclaimed incels on their off-site platforms are often pretty "rapey" and have this weird need for gender dominance and sexual entitlement. It might sound like a mischaracterization if you haven't seen it before, but it definitely does exist and that is 100% valid to criticize. I feel the word "incel" is a very loaded word because it means different things to different people, just like feminism does. Anti-male types are used to calling any man that disagrees with their worldview a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/10/24 11:55 PM |
| 0 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageLife experience does not always account for trends or the bigger picture. That's just all one perspective. I suppose it really all comes down to what counts as "good wife material." That means different things for different people. I think people who are financially in-debt or had a history of poor impulse control (sexually or financially) make risky choices for wives in general. But, that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 07:00 PM |
| -2 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageDebt and sex can certainly determine that. Tattoos get a pass, that's just cosmetics. It sounds like whoever came up with that has a different perspective on culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 06:54 PM |
| 7 | Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people.Both of them in a sense. The majority of people who are constantly looking to date are dysfunctional because they are looking for others to find something they cannot give themselves. People who are busy and have lives are typically less dysfunctional, and also not really available in the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people.Normal people just focus on healthy relationships and normal people. Sure, occasionally they’ll look at trainwrecks for the sake of entertainment. They’re not looking at toxic individuals and making serious generalizations based on gender. Agreed, but that is mostly because they have a fair share of options to. It is only on the internet to where you can see an abundance of 'toxic individuals', so you'll see more people generalizing them than the more 'normal, boring' people Though, the clearest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 06:25 PM |
| 26 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itI think it is more that men are more likely to see egalitarian woman as normal woman, while women are more likely to see egalitarian woman as feminists. Men are more likely to see "self-proclaimed" feminists or radical feminists as 'normal feminists.' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?And a variance of options. Women have more different options to choose from, men have a harder time discerning differences imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you give to women outearning their partners?That's why you are still married then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:57 AM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersNah, you'll be fine. There are plenty of women in the same position as you. I recall one of them having the same complaint, and created a Q4W some months ago. 30s is still a good time to find someone, but it is harder. I think the 'woman hitting the wall at 30' is more of a scare tactic for promiscuous party girls that get drunk on a weekend. There are also plenty of women who say that they are doing well in their 30s. 40s and up is the only time I've really seen women complain about not finding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:32 AM |
| – | Women what is more important for you in a relationship - stability and comfort or passion and excitement ?I was thinking more of on a spectrum, but fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 03:12 AM |
| – | Would you be concerned if a girl you were dating, liked being watched by other people while she had sex?You didn't wash the sheets?? Ah hell nah... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 02:54 AM |
| – | Would you be concerned if a girl you were dating, liked being watched by other people while she had sex?This? its a bit much. A bit?? I would like to think that this is a troll post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 02:53 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?May I ask what your standards are, if that is okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Women what is more important for you in a relationship - stability and comfort or passion and excitement ?The question was a hypothetical one to see what different women value more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 08:25 PM |
| 0 | You can have everything working in your favor as a guy and be the better catch but the woman will still have the upper hand and likely flakeI'm sure you saved yourself from years of disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 08:19 PM |
| 1 | "Game" is just dilluted PUA. One is derived from the other. And its all gambling addiction motivated by lack of sexual success"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.Out of some of the takes you make, this one seems fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.Wait, what did you see that made you write what you wrote? EDIT: Disgusting typo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18?Does VA not work where you live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:58 PM |
| -1 | Women what is more important for you in a relationship - stability and comfort or passion and excitement ?Even if you think life is more complicated, those are pretty extreme scenarios. So, you don't have a preference for one or the other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Women what is more important for you in a relationship - stability and comfort or passion and excitement ?They can never compromise or pick one option. No wonder some of them can't decide what to eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:35 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of the comments in this podcast?So, you are only here out of mere tolerance? Can't say that I blame you then. This is the only subreddit that encourages debate without being political or being a complete circle-jerking echo chamber unfortunately. Unbiased and intellectual sociology is not Reddit's strong suit. Trueratediscussions is the closest so far, but kinda lame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:25 AM |
| 1 | PPD Demographics SurveyWhat is the difference between Purple and Purple leaning either direction? What the hell is a true purple pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:09 AM |
| 5 | What do you think of the comments in this podcast?Respectfully, why are you here then? This is a place where you state your observations and opinions between men and women dating dynamics, and you seem to be disinterested in either of that. I don't know why someone like you would even remotely be interested in this subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themBros got it. Good to see people that aren't tainted by either pills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 02:30 PM |
| – | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop them/thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?It's like a really bad plague, wtf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 11:17 PM |
| 4 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?I can buy the first one, I am curious what you are insinuating with the latter point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 11:14 PM |
| 3 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.You're downplaying the anger a father would have, and how that could potentially make some men a terrible father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 11:00 PM |
| 5 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.By that logic, we shouldn't care about women complaining about her dates ending up as lazy husbands not ending up as the providers that they promised to be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.I'm really baffled that you need a moral reason to not accept being a cuckold. Exactly, and that is a better reason to leave than all the examples you've stated! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:55 PM |
| 3 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Honestly, what are you even talking about? You brought the comparison that "insecure and lonely" means that they are bad people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:48 PM |
| 8 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Eh. To be fair, I think the problem is that a lot of women don't know what women want, and I mean this differently than what you'd think. When women are asked what they want in a man, they always personally inject themselves into the question without thinking about (or even being aware) how other women may be. Just like a feminist will complain about women are not attracted to "misogynists" or "incels." She's talking about herself, she would not date those men. When women say that "nice guys" ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:42 PM |
| 0 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.You can be good and have terrible fantasies. Those two things are separate whether you believe it or not. We're solely complaining about there is an imbalance that a lot of women regardless of morality have fantasies about evil men, and since women hold a good amount of power in the dating market.... Their fantasies can shape and reflect reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:27 PM |
| 0 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Why do you guys always jump to rape conversations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:21 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]I wasn't talking about school? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 11:36 PM |
| 13 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Until you realize that women share these details with their friends all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 11:05 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Bro what??? 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beI'll try to make more posts then. But the consensus of the posts are quantity over quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beNot our problem I guess. Choose better as they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 07:05 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]You opened the door, so I had to. 🥳 Thank me later. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beBecause they lie and don't like themselves, so they always have to fill that void with excessive hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:54 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Look up. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:52 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]They learned that degrees mean nothing if everyone has them. More people have them, the more employers sigh as the cost of entry loses its value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:50 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Because I don't want learn about someone else's pubes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:45 PM |
| 7 | Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for youYep, it's all about looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should continue to make the first moveHow we feel, hun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 03:06 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Males should continue to make the first moveSeeing that all of these women are complaining about creeps, weirdos, and uglies approaching them. I'll only do it if the woman is worth it, very attractive, and I feel like I have a bit of a chance (IOIs). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should continue to make the first moveUsername checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:03 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Males should continue to make the first moveOnly once. You act like guys will willingly pick ugly girls over stacies every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:00 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Males should continue to make the first moveI know where you live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 12:00 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Males should continue to make the first move/thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 11:30 PM |
| 2 | The default view of men by American & Canadian women is horrible and bigoted.There is definitely a link between usernames and the comments they made. They are closer to each other than peanut butter and jelly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 11:03 PM |
| 9 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPSo then, OnlyFans is misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | The default view of men by American & Canadian women is horrible and bigoted.If I think someone's username is bullshit, I should also assume their comment is bullshit with that logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:53 PM |
| 18 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPYou basically projected that you think everyone on that subreddit thinks like you. That's a prime example of why solipsism is terrible right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:51 PM |
| 2 | The default view of men by American & Canadian women is horrible and bigoted.It's a debate sub. People use crazy titles all the time to clickbait people into interacting with the post. You should actually read the content of the post unless they write like two words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Women require men to be judgemental about how women are dressed.Women: *wont let you like thirst traps of other women on insta* Also women: *likes and makes thirsty comments on random male celebrities' posts on insta* I don't mind the dynamic of what this is. But I would say that if you think that showing approval of thirst traps is not okay in a relationship, but then you shouldn't be okay with women giving the same attention to other random men outside of your relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Women require men to be judgemental about how women are dressed.Being one out of 57,114 people who liked the photo is nothing to take seriously imo. I can see why someone would feel some type of way since Instagram does highlight followers/friends who like certain posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.I was moreso referring to the comments. Predators don't usually put themselves in explicit cases to get called out or stopped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Then the state failed to do their job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.I believe you are referring to r/niceguys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Where? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Why would anyone have a problem with staring? Sure, it makes you uneasy if you don't know their intentions, but it's not a crime or even really a violation unless your dead staring someone to no end. If you don't see a problem with storing pictures of people and putting people on display for everyone. Especially if it is something minor and harmless, I don't know what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:45 PM |
| -1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.You absolutely can if if the consequences are disproportionate. Also dressing "immodestly" at the gym is not out of the norm. Sure, that's why naked people work out in public right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Yeah because using your eyes and then going about your day is the same thing as downloading digital photos on your phone of someone else to keep. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:41 PM |
| -1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.That's probably the whole reason why I wouldn't say anything. I don't know much about it to make a big deal out of it. If he was beating off with his left hand while recording, then obviously I (and most other men) are not going to let that slide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:36 PM |
| -1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Or just don't wear attention-seeking clothes if they do not want attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.You can't wear something out of the norm, and be surprised when people stare at you in public. It's not normal behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Just watch any "Jidion", "catching a predator" or "pedophile" video. It's literally everywhere, men do the majority of pedophile/predator hunting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.And vaginas don't hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you date an absolutely mediocre person?No because I've always been interested in niche girls that had activities or interests I've found stimulating. Even if they weren't, they at least had to enjoy mine and be a decent conversationalist at topics of interest. I've lost attraction to baddies that seemed "basic" and stopped seeing them as love interests before. Only temporarily, I would date them I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 07:39 AM |
| 0 | My grandma told me it’s dangerous to sleep around as a woman because many men will view you as fair game. Do you agree with this sentiment?There is not a single man that demanded anything of that sort. C'mon Sharp, really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | My grandma told me it’s dangerous to sleep around as a woman because many men will view you as fair game. Do you agree with this sentiment?Insightful connection. You've stated that in a far more understandable way than 99% of the women on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men?The gut feeling has logic, it is just probably more subconscious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men?I don't who you are. But, I just want to take the time to thank you for being the first white person I've seen online to say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Women who are open to being approached, how exactly would you like a guy to go about it?That's understandable. But, this sort of reads like you don't care about physical attraction and care more about the attention. Would the approach change if he did mention anything physical despite casual conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Women who are open to being approached, how exactly would you like a guy to go about it?I think the women here are one of the least likely to want to be approached next to nihilists, AskWomen, and feminist spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?It's not about mistrusting your partner. It's about wanting some reassurance and certainty within your family or offspring. Men historically did not have this level of certainty in the past, and it did cause some devastating problems in society. Now, we have precautions against such. Why is your idea of trust so fragile and blind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?So much for an honest debate here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys stay positive and avoid things like insecurity and self-esteem issues in the face of rejection?What do you frame as romantic or desire? Do they have to court you or be flirty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 06:30 AM |
| 4 | How do you guys stay positive and avoid things like insecurity and self-esteem issues in the face of rejection?It's not a failure if StupidHotGirlxxx ... Okay, thanks for the laugh lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 06:27 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys stay positive and avoid things like insecurity and self-esteem issues in the face of rejection?Ouch. Are you looking at younger generations or is this a consistent trend at every facet of life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Is sex a product of a good relationship or is it a pre-requisite to one?I think that is a fascinating perspective. Women have a lower libido when they are younger, but it is stronger when they met someone they really like. Men have a higher libido, but they may be more indifferent to any particular sexual experience when they are older. I don't think that is a general rule, and it may explain those who are more likely to cheat, but probably not those who wouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Is sex a product of a good relationship or is it a pre-requisite to one?If you could, would you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Do people really care about guys getting paternity tests as long as the guy's instincts were right?Why do you think so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?I never said that any men should dump this on his woman. I even (albeit indirectly) critique men that spring out paternity tests upon coming to term or persist their paranoia after the fact. That's both an irrational and overly emotional response. I do criticize women, however, that think that they should sabotage something that was already good over one very reasonable concern without handling it like adults. Now, this is of course, assuming that the man can articulate his concern like an adult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?Yeah, that's a serious issue that does suck. That is another example of an ultimate betrayal that the other gender may not fully relate to. But, I would say that it is a very close equivalent to how both genders can feel extremely betrayed by their partners in their family. I've observed many stories of men that have been trapped in marriages where they were forced to participate in a family that broke their trust via cheating. I wouldn't want to be put in a situation like that either, so I can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 04:20 AM |
| 8 | Paternity tests are weak infidelity checksThe government isn't most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Paternity tests are weak infidelity checksIt's not necessarily about the cheating. Paternity tests check for paternity of the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Paternity tests are weak infidelity checksWell then, there's the issue of having to pay child support for a child you didn't help give birth to if you happen to be wrong. But, that's another story. Perhaps, we need another post about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Paternity tests are weak infidelity checksSomeone gets it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Paternity tests are weak infidelity checksTrust, but verify. Paternity tests are 99% accurate anyway, so there is a chance of a false positive as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 10:46 PM |
| 17 | Paternity tests are weak infidelity checks100%. I am not sure why there is so much backlash on this thread when it comes to a man simply wanting to verify the paternity of his child that he was going to put time, money, and effort into. It's no different than a woman wanting to only put time and effort into their own kid. But they never have to worry about being uncertain about that, so it doesn't matter (-.-). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?I do agree that it is much better to bring up this issue before pregnancy, and definitely not spring it out as soon as they pop out the child. There is no way that it wouldn't seem like an accusation of cheating at that point rather than an insecurity. However, I do disagree that there is something inherently wrong or dangerous about wanting a paternity test for their own 'peace of mind.' I think those who want a paternity tests are interested in knowing whether they are completely sure that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?You still think that he should walk in the dark about not being 100% sure that he is the father of a child without a shadow of doubt? You would always know that what came out of you is always going to be yours. It wouldn't hurt to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?Having emotion is not the same thing as burning the house down over a perceived slight, that's just weird to me that you think those things are on the same level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?Yeah, but a paternity test might have to happen only once and he should be good. That is constantly pushing the issue way after the fact for a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?Having relationships with men? Is gay cheating more common now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?Don't you want to alleviate your partner's paranoia once and for all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:39 AM |
| 4 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?What if he was sure that you weren't a cheater, but still wanted one anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?What if he was sure that you weren't a cheater, but still wanted one anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:23 AM |
| 0 | What conclusions should a guy make if he noticed women getting interested in him only after his major life milestones?Modern society is a simulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:45 AM |
| 7 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?Prime example of emotion vs. logic. Even though I do not blame them for feeling some type of way if it happens out of the blue, or they still push the envelop way after the testing. Breaking up/divorcing for things like this is hysterical as it is silly. If something as simple as a test causes you to break up that easily, why get married? I think it's a good indicator of whether a women is aware of what mean goes through and truly feels empathy for them. My mom said that she wouldn't really be o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?Tbf, we've seen how those turned out plenty of times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?You said earlier in the thread that even you wouldn't do it, why do you want it to be acceptable so badly lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:35 AM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing a partner could ever say to you?Pulling some shit from the "deep-dark-way-back-when" to use it against me or make me feel like shit. I am not going to say what it is for obvious reasons. That's if I get comfortable enough to be vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Question for my fellow LWMA's, how do we respond to statements such as this one?Even when it is very illegal. Causing the social repercussions of a man's downfall or making a false accusation of such is very much legal in a lot of places still. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/09/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themThose women should just date men who are more submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Most women actually appreciate being approached and it's only condemned by a vocal minority who aren't worth dating in any caseHave you seen or heard this happen, or do you just listen to what this subreddit tells you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:21 AM |
| 5 | Most women actually appreciate being approached and it's only condemned by a vocal minority who aren't worth dating in any caseYou can't seriously believe that you're the only women in the world and that everyone thinks like you, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Most women actually appreciate being approached and it's only condemned by a vocal minority who aren't worth dating in any caseGuys can do that regardless though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:17 AM |
| 4 | Most women actually appreciate being approached and it's only condemned by a vocal minority who aren't worth dating in any caseI've had a woman block me me three times and come back after rejecting her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:09 AM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.No, he's spitting facts. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 12:32 AM |
| 3 | If SA and 'grape' incidents by random strangers rose by 300%, would you own a gun?Well, this thread got surprisingly dark. I hope you stay feeling better than you were before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 11:59 PM |
| -1 | If SA and 'grape' incidents by random strangers rose by 300%, would you own a gun?I'm sure other countries have other means of self-defense/weaponry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 11:58 PM |
| 2 | If there was a test that could confirm cheating, would you make your man take it?If youre obviously going to get virtue signalling from women not wanting to put their partners through the gender swap version of asking for a paternity test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to combat street harassment?AFAB myself btw and I honestly think that a lot of the problem is that women are trained to be paranoid. That same best friend who's very confident? She feels perfectly safe walking alone at night too. Nothing's ever made her feel unsafe. To put it bluntly: The statistics in most areas don't actually back up the level of fear women experience. Men are more likely to be randomly assaulted on the street than women- in fact they're more likely to be victims of every type of assault aside from rape,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/09/24 10:44 PM |
| 2 | There isn't more solidarity among women than menOuch, that was a painful read. Hope you found someone better after him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:00 AM |
| 2 | There isn't more solidarity among women than menYou should just wait it out until he feels compelled to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 01:39 AM |
| 6 | what do you think about women who wear a lot of rings?I would hate to be punched by her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 12:34 AM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menYeah, your environment does play a role. It's easy of you to do that if you already have a lot of options. You automatically have to filter out those you don't like and/or don't like you. It's a bit harder when you have to pick a litter, then decipher who may like you or who does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Men getting in trouble for not interacting with women, is starting to be a serious problem. And this might get worse.You guys must be attractive then. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/24 04:48 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menSpeak for yourself. Take all the individual people's opinions and average out what is in common with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 04:38 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menOkay, that's fine. But, what is the point of you saying this?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 04:35 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menMost men are good people. Not every man can be good, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 04:33 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menThank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 04:33 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menFinally, someone who mentions traditional dating dynamics within lower class families, and not just middle to upper class. Men and women still worked when they were poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 04:29 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menIt's not inconvenient until they are in their 40s, and watching all of their peers get into relationships and start families. Then, they start complaining more on TwoX and TikTok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 04:26 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menYou just proved his point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 04:23 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menI mean, one day, I would like to own cool cars (as a car enthusiast) and try various types of expensive meals, but I don't need to have a really high salary to do all of those things once. Is money really only a goal to men if it helps them get a woman? Is that the only motivator to work hard? Most guys are complacent with living a simple for themselves if they don't see a need to do more. Most men do not need much to be happy. Just inner peace and some fun external stimulus (adventures, video-g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendThat's why I made that post a while ago to tell these same guys that "they will not get arrested for approaching" But, some people just don't want to be helped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Would you take back someone who ghosted you?You guys are messing with my head again, lol. Tell me you're not speaking from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Would you take back someone who ghosted you?Up to interpretation. Former is more realistic scenario unless you've dated for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you take back someone who ghosted you?Yeah, but it's hard to read when you split up sentences like this: My general rule is Whoever ghosts me or abandons me or rejects me for any reason sexually or romantically Is forever fuck zoned The only exception I can truly think of Is if a woman was really sexually attractive and a virgin It's like you are gasping for breath during your sentences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Would you take back someone who ghosted you?Genuine question. Why do you type like this? ??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 05:21 PM |
| -1 | What some people get wrong about flirtingIf you are a 5'4 skinny man, then you probably either look like a middle schooler or a woman. A decent physique at 5'4 would at least make you look like someone who could be taken more seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Lack of ‘Enthusiastic Consent’ is not Sufficient for Sexual AssaultAh, that makes sense. I have also seen this work a bit differently. I have seen a position to where askers do notice that something is wrong, and the guesser affirms that there is nothing wrong despite wanting them to tread deeper. The asker typically looks at it from face value, and leaves them alone once they get the "no" or "i'm fine" I definitely think that it is both, and it is more present when there is a clear difference between a passive, conflict-avoidant person and a more direct, face … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sHow did that end if you don't mind me asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sThen again, I also actually read online dating profiles when doing OLD and there are a lot of social cues you can pick up on that tell you about who a person is before you talk to them, so I'm willing to bet I was subconsciously screening out women who were looking for a meal ticket or a sugar daddy. Wise one, give us some words of advice to those who don't use OD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Lack of ‘Enthusiastic Consent’ is not Sufficient for Sexual AssaultI don't blame him for being cautious. If her typical "no" mean "yes", what the hell does a real "no" look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Lack of ‘Enthusiastic Consent’ is not Sufficient for Sexual AssaultWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | A person's bearing and demeanor is at least as important as their appearance for attraction.I still doubt that this is the majority of women. Most women I've attracted initially noticed my looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 09:02 PM |
| 8 | Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern womenMy assumption for modern men would be about wanting a legacy to leave behind, a sense of purpose, and wanting to instill certain values into the next generation (also part of legacy). Modern women have more knowledge on what they may be getting into when it comes to jumping into a marriage, being a mother, and having kids. I think the sense of a realistic perspective is a large part of the reason why they may not desire children as much. I have also heard reasons such as climate control and poli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsAlright, so let me ask this. What does she do for you that you value? You sound like you are being strung along here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationships😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 06:38 PM |
| -2 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsEvery time I see this, I think of women who embarrassingly fawn over celebrities that don't even know they exist. Such is life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsThat's all she wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsThey probably still wouldn't. They'd behave either clingy or try to compensate and act distant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue?The difference is men are more forgiving when it comes to it. It's not that black and white with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"?It's just an attempt to indirectly get men to do what women want. It's the same energy as "Maybe, we can do this X after you do the dishes, honey." I highly doubt that these women find these things actually really "sexy" as opposed to other things they don't mention. Nevermind the fact that these men often don't care about what a random women they don't find attractive finds "sexy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 10:11 PM |
| 2 | There are going to be very bad social consequences of women making 6-7 figure salaries via sex work.No sensible man supports pimping. Did you read OP comment and arguments before you commented? He would rather have 200 medically trained nurses over 200 OnlyFans thots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 10:01 PM |
| 1 | There are going to be very bad social consequences of women making 6-7 figure salaries via sex work.I'm surprised that someone else almost sees marriage the way I do. Would you want it if you did though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 09:43 PM |
| 0 | There are going to be very bad social consequences of women making 6-7 figure salaries via sex work.Dead bedrooms would be a guess if it was a marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?Heavy on the solipsism here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?Might be a location thing because too many women here say otherwise. I am surprised none of them forwarded this viewpoint to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreHow many tries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreTrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:46 AM |
| 0 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreGood news to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreQuestion, how would you rate yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreThat sucks. We are 10 years past the golden age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreWhat field? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:35 AM |
| – | The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it?Are you personally injecting yourself into the question, or is it a general discussion of the likeliness of sexual assault within a hypothetical situation? You are entitled to how you feel. However, the reason I bring this up is because both the expression and interpretation of consent is often very nuanced in real life situations like this. Expression of consent and the expectation of consent can vary widely across different people. When there are different expectations and ideas about how cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?It's moreso that the higher tolerance of disgust would lead to women doing more thorough cleaning and housework, even if their husbands already done it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 07:53 AM |
| -1 | The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it?I don't know how every man thinks, obviously. You would have to define what "consent" is in this case. Is it anything short of an enthusiastic verbal confirmation or is it more complicated than that? You would also have to define what kind of rape? Violent rape or drunk rape? I would say that violent ones are far more rare, probably less than 5%. Any type of pressure to get sex regardless of explicit consent, then it would be around 10-50% depending on a given environment and tons of factors? So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 05:22 AM |
| 1 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?It's statistically proven that women have a higher tolerance for disgust, I can't find the study right now though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M how often do you approach other men for conversationI will do it occasionally if it is harmless to do so, but I rarely approach random strangers just to talk. I will most often do it with people that I am at least somewhat familiar with, otherwise they'd probably have to talk first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 01:40 PM |
| 3 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?Their tolerance for satisfaction is low and their tolerance for disgust is higher than men's tolerance, typically. The first one is more speculation from observation, the second one has a study backing it in housework duties. Just because you thought it was great does not mean that they thought it was. They need to have a particularly "stellar" perspective than you, which is why I advocate for women liking their partner's more than vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 01:38 PM |
| -6 | How women train men to be angry (Dr. Orion Taraban)Be more like your sister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 04:36 AM |
| 1 | No one, not even women, can actually read the room properlyThey don't even have to read the room. It's completely optional for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 05:33 PM |
| 0 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.Well, an experience like that would certainly make me more wary. I don't know how you approach women after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.Most accurate answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.I wish, but it may take some decades of traditionalists dying off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.No offense, but I am sure that I and some others here aren't approaching a 42 year old woman unless I don't know where the bathrooms are. I've heard you say that you find 99% of men unattractive. Do you think that's because you are attracted to introverts and most people who approach you are more extroverted? It seems like the people who you would like wouldn't approach you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.You might be right, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.I wish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.Oh, that's your villain origin story. You could have told this earlier, it makes so much more sense now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:55 PM |
| 2 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.How often are the authorities involved? Sure, toxic work environments would be risky to approach in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:54 PM |
| 2 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.I am sure you are smarter than someone like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.Even then, most don't lead to allegations that have those consequences. The majority of them complain on TikTok and only received the same visceral hatred that they have shown you by thousands of others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.Leave the blind men out of this, Unhappy Offer 1822. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:50 PM |
| 2 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.I knew there was a percentage here that was like this. But, I am baffled at how many men are absolutely defeatist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:37 PM |
| 2 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.If you haven't been banned before, you probably won't get banned now. Are financial means also a factor for you? Do you have high standards for things that men can't control besides looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to your struggling son?Sheesh? Why are lesbians divorcing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to your struggling son?Sometimes, it's simply genetics. Are you ectomorph? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Men of reddit would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a Cuckquean?I would probably have to. She probably thinks the exact opposite of how I think. I would rather her just watch porn or use her imagination. But if she insists on asking me, then it's already too late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:35 AM |
| 9 | Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and womenI do not like porn myself, so I will have to play the devil's advocate a little bit. Regular porn usage generally is not a good thing, but some people DO need it. I can't find the original source, but there was some evidence that pornography consumption reduced the rate of sexual crimes since it has trended. I guess more "would-be rapists" are doing just fine getting what they need in the sack at their fingertips. Dating has just gotten harder as a whole. Women want men with more value while als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Men of reddit would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a Cuckquean?I would rather end myself than be cucked, so I definitely wouldn't willingly cuck someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:24 AM |
| 45 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendsAs a Gen Z man who has finished high school a while ago, most of the talk that occurred in lockers was mostly gay jokes that were supposed to edgy and weird. Most men aren't getting laid like they were before, I think that died off with Gen X and Millennials (the "free love" gen). The people who did get it like that were typically football athletes, and they either had girlfriends they were fond of, or were serial cheaters who never liked the women who liked them. Those were far and between thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:21 AM |
| 5 | Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and womenHe basically said that porn messes with people's minds, which can lead them to degrade other groups of people. Along with porn affecting children (viewers and traffickers) and porn being akin to a drug to compulsive PAs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 11:53 PM |
| 13 | Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractiveOnce you are already attractive, all you have to do is not drop the ball. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 07:49 AM |
| 4 | Do you think women are more bigoted then men?Tbh, this most likely occurs because its most likely a woman who would disagree with the views that you have. If you were BLM, anti-gun, or queer, then you would probably get some backlash from conservative men more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?Right, consent makes sense in a private and individual encounter. But, it gets murky when it is in public. What about the example I gave when the woman on TikTok recording herself acting slightly provocative to get more men to join their OnlyFans, yet complain about consent when men peeking (or even leering) at them irl for doing so? If a woman goes to a gas station store in a bikini, is she consenting (obviously not to SA) to that type of attention or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 08:33 PM |
| 2 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?This answer is cheesecake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?Yet I never see it talked about in online discussions, even on this subreddit where there are so many more opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 08:15 PM |
| – | Ladies, how come your tastes in fiction, contradict what you say you want irl?That's why Blue Pill women hate TRP. They are taking back their power in the SMP that women are too comfortable with maintaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Yes, I am aware that displaced/situational homosexuality is a thing. But, it's not something I would encourage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:46 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:58 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their characterBeanie Sigel and Freeway aren't really objectively ugly, though. Not a chad/tyone, but not Mason Reese or Jay-Z either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.This would make sense if they are being genuine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.What is a terper? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Why I gotta expose them like that? 😭 Some of the early commenters here have confessed to doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.The ones that do don't have sex with them. I assume you wouldn't have sex with a woman whether you like them or not. In the same way, men will have sex with people they are attracted to regardless of disliking them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.This is better than hurting the ones who are more serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:35 AM |
| 7 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.That's a valid take, but I've seen women argue that male loneliness can be combated by "male homo-ness" "Oh, you're lonely? Just be gay! If you are so lonely, why don't you date other men?! 🥴" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.At least you are honest with yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:30 AM |
| -2 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Use the money as a dildo instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.You think that men should genuinely fuck other men? Men hate other men and don't have sex with them. Would you have sex with another woman that you like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Is every single prominent redpill/manosphere thought leader and influencer a ‘grifter’ who doesn’t represent the ‘real’ redpill?He's a clinical psychologist, he would be better off doing what he is doing right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Eh, I was thinking more of a resolution type. what the fuck is that? Basically angry makeup sex. They don't like each other. But are horny and desire each other, so they go through with it. Can be pretty passionate I heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Guts, Guns, and Gyms I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Because they confuse using their eyes and their right hand with actually spending time in/with the presence of a woman lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Is every single prominent redpill/manosphere thought leader and influencer a ‘grifter’ who doesn’t represent the ‘real’ redpill?Because it's not TRP 😂, we keep telling you guys! It's like you intentionally want to misunderstand what the TRP is. The same way that Olivia Wilde, Sprinkle Sprinkle, and Hollywood films is not 'real' feminism according to more nuanced and intellectual types. All the people you have listed (or at least most of them) are people who operate in the Manosphere space that use rage bait to boost their massive following. Genuine Red Pill content mostly consists of videos that tell men to be cognizant … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.On the internet, I can agree with you. Men are on average less picky when it comes to relationships and sex in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Breaking the ice is a bit harder to do across opposite sex dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:59 PM |
| -3 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Okay, then how come some women can have sex with a rich man they are not attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:59 PM |
| -7 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.I can't imagine HOW anyone would want to make love with someone you dislike. Ever heard of makeup/angry sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Misogyny is treated as a descriptor for men, and is treated as an illness for women.Feminism is very good (allegedly) at weaponizing its terminology to to attack the status quo. Attack your "oppressors" while claiming that there is something wrong with you for joining them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.It could certainly challenge the status quo of immutable heterosexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.In my observation, people with notional desires of women typically are into idealistic youthful cartoonish depictions of them (another ifykyk thing) if they happen to be so extreme. More normal cases are more adjacent to their real life "physical" desires than it would be to allow for such fluid sexuality. But yeah, that largely only applies to those without internet access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.You agree with this take? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Yeah, I think it would. Having sex with the same sex (gender.. semantics) as a heterosexual man is a foreign concept to me. Apparently, not to many others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Men and women different how? By not being able to be gay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.I don't know, man. I've seen some genuine people that logically try to rationalize how straight men should be able to date other straight men. It is very weird once you see it. I agree that the blue pill commonly trolls more than anything, sorry to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Then, it's more of a valid response in that case. I still wouldn't say that it is a particularly practical one though. The military is an interesting place, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.It does. But, some spaces on the internet have a special task force for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Situational homosexuality is already a known thing, so physically it's possible for males to adapt to changing reality. Alright, that is true. But, you have to admit that this typically occurs when there are no attractive women around. I've rarely heard of hetero men suddenly going "gay" despite the presence of someone more aligned with their "default" sexuality. Advocating for or against it is a can of worms on its own. Luckily, this subreddit is a bit more tolerant than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:01 PM |
| – | Dating is hardest for straight menDo women not spend time to look beautiful and are coached into doing the right things socially? Yes these things look effortless but they were developed over time. Yes, but only recently has this been proven unnecessary lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 07:16 PM |
| – | Dating is hardest for straight menIf the struggle is about money, then yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 07:15 PM |
| – | Dating is hardest for straight menBecause it's the most common Blue Pill assumption that "nice guys get laid" just by existing enough and being friendly. If it were that simple, we wouldn't have TRP and you wouldn't be commenting here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Is male anger towards women just a result of men not getting laid enough?Why were we comparing womanizers to 4Chan basement dwellers? These unsuccessful men rarely have the opportunity to deal with a woman outside of internet spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Men, what negative dating/relationship experiences have you personally had with women?No offense meant by this at all, but it seems like you have a habit of picking and committing to terrible partners throughout your lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Is male anger towards women just a result of men not getting laid enough?First part makes sense. Second part ignores the fact that players or "fuccbois" exist. Additionally, average guys would never have a chance either if above average guys do everything better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 04:04 AM |
| 4 | Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date?This is the first time I've heard a man divorce his wife for sex. Usually, it's the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:52 AM |
| 4 | Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date?Nah, you're just freaky lmao. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:49 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Males are more likely to accept being fetishized in a LTR than women.I thought it was intentional and used to spite like r/MenAndFemales No offense taken, but I had a little laugh to myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 02:20 AM |
| 5 | Men don’t care about men’s mental healthMen as a collective claim to be (very reasonably and understandably) worried about men’s mental health and suicide rates. Yet, very few things have actually been done to combat this. Where are the men’s movements? Men’s marches? Protests? Fundraising for men to seek mental health who can’t afford it? Why would men as a whole try to advocate for mental healthy by going to therapy? I don't know about you, but a lot of men clearly do not value therapy or find it beneficial enough to fight for it. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Dating would be easier if most men stoped being thirsty.Exactly. At best, men that quickly turn the conversation sexual would tend to do a bit better if they used more tact. But, there is a reason that those men are either matched or on a date with them in the first place. They are still found to be attractive to women. How horny you are is irrelevant to a woman who does not find you even a "maybe" in the attraction spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves.You're technically not wrong. But, I definitely would if I could also had a chance with Rihanna, Jennifer Lopez, and Mariah Carey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.Steve Harvey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 08:53 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?Username checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Andrew Tate's popularity is because he is objectively a successful man and society needs to acknowledge that when critiquing him.Tate got rich off of sex trafficking gullible women under 18. He exploited lonely men, women, and anyone who was dumb enough to buy a course for money. He was claiming that college is a waste of money while selling you illegal bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 05:35 AM |
| 1 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneWould you prefer that or "x people is entitled and shitty because y people doing z" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneYeah, it might be some decades before we have these issues fixed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?You don't decide who and who you aren't sexually attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?Sorry that happened to you, but it's weird to expect average men to hall monitor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?You're thinking about it like a woman. Men are simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:20 PM |
| 8 | If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are?ol' girl really took the first opportunity to beat on ugly men 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:59 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: Do you find it sexist when people say "Man up!"?Well, it basically means "stop being a bitch." So kinda? It's never really a good thing to say to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do you find it sexist when people say "Man up!"?not straight men talking to someone above the age of 16 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 02:55 AM |
| 2 | If a lady is not being intimate with you, it means you are not attractive enough or not trust worthy enoughDo you think you could find the post? I can't find it through your history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 06:20 AM |
| 1 | If a lady is not being intimate with you, it means you are not attractive enough or not trust worthy enoughNot really. You wouldn't get mad if you wanted a relationship, assuming you'd get more of it during the relationship. I could see someone only wanting sex getting upset. If the sex is like pulling teeth or a bargaining chip, then that's when you got to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 06:18 AM |
| 2 | women REALLY don't like it when men don't have social media at all, do they?You're at a bar my guy of all places. You have finally encountered an "L Woman☕" in the wild 😎. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps are hard for womenIf you haven't figured it out yet, this whole post is dishonest and ragebait. If you are interested in the little drama that we have left. Stay. If you want something more intellectually stimulating? Go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Why women, gals don't approach guys?Don't get played, Unable Squirrel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why women, gals don't approach guys?I am also quite sure that there are enough "fuccbois" and players to go around. Typically not the same men at the same time tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are hard for womenlaughs in women flaking, ghosting, foodie-calling, catfishing, hooking up, being rad feminist, being overly-judgmental, the list could go on But yes, the dating apps suck because men are bad and women are good. What is there to even debate about when you think like this?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps are hard for womenThat's literally just a "paradox of choice" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Why women, gals don't approach guys?You shy or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Why women, gals don't approach guys?Yes, men don't like getting their emotions played with just like women do... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Why women, gals don't approach guys?Finally a good answer with some depth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | If a lady is not being intimate with you, it means you are not attractive enough or not trust worthy enoughMaybe those guys should be less concerned with their egos, and more interested in building a genuine connection with the woman? I know you and me both don't want to be building a connection with a woman that strings along guys that she is hardly attracted to while giving her best efforts to someone she is genuinely interested. That's called being in relationship. I'm not one to jump the gun. Why go after women like that? That's the dating game nowadays, and sometimes. you have no choice. You mig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Why women, gals don't approach guys?Never understood this argument because this can happen anyway. The only difference is how you met, not how you finish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 03:46 PM |
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