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| 1 | The "woman shortage" problemEven if a degree is "easy", the course load of 4 years at least takes care of the lazy and Netflix jab though, surely...? You'd be surprised. The same is happening with men. Your average man used to be in shape, have a good job, have friends, social skills, and could throw a punch. Now I look around and I see a bunch of fat, pussified soyboys who live at home with no car, no career, no ambition, and spend all their time playing video games and whining about microagressions. The only contact they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/18 01:56 PM |
| 2 | The "woman shortage" problemFirst of all, I never said that. Second of all, it's entirely possible to pass a degree in some bullshit, get diversity hired, look down on most men as a result, without actually being particularly intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/18 06:25 AM |
| 4 | The "woman shortage" problemIt's not just that. The number of women who are obese, unattractive, single mothers, can't manage a home, and have no interests outside of netflix and pizza are growing. Women are getting lazier and less intelligent thanks to society handing them jobs and boyfriends on a plate, meanwhile men are having less sex than ever. It's not so much a shortage in women as it is a shortage in dateable women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/18 05:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Toxic masculinity has no solutionI never denied that some blue pill men get laid. I just said that on balance, being blue pilled is generally a disadvantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/18 05:38 PM |
| 19 | CMV: Toxic masculinity has no solutionIt has been my experience that a lot of 'toxic' men have more satisfying sex lives, at least at a younger age. Being blie pilled and feminist doesn't get you laid, being masculine does. It's unrealistic to expect men to prioritise the feelings of women they don't know above their own sexual satisfaction, when a lot of women who claim to want to end gender roles keep enforcing them by rewardinh toxic men with sex. Maybe sex shouldn't be a reward. But in practice, it is, and that's the way a lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever had sex with/felt an attraction to a guy who you initially thought was unnattractive?i was super into him obviously i wasn't gonna want him either I don't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/18 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Henry Cavill says he's worried he'll be called a rapist for approaching women because of #MeToo, and then has to apologiseNow you really can’t pursue someone further than, ‘No’. That's not something to complain about tbf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/18 12:45 PM |
| 4 | I constantly see comments on /r/TheRedPill stating that it takes very little effort for a man to stand out from the rest these days. Is that really true?TIL 60% of the US population doesn't date or fuck or get married. They are competing, they just aren't doing all that well and you could probably take their girl. Almost all women want to date and get married, and you're in the 40% group who they'd prefer to do that with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 11:58 AM |
| 2 | What are the best options for unattractive men?he should max out his other attractive qualities other than looks Such as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/18 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Male Virginity and Shamemake sure wedding ring on right hand Left, surely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Virginal women vs experienced women and virginal men vs experienced menWhat do you mean by 'boyfriendy stuff'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/18 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Average 23 year old man vs average 33 year old man, who has an easier time finding a relationship with a decent woman?Suggests that either the guy doesn't want to get married, or nobody wanted to marry him. Not a good sign either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/18 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Average 23 year old man vs average 33 year old man, who has an easier time finding a relationship with a decent woman?I'm not saying 30 plus is geriatric, but you're generally better looking in your 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What qualities make a woman girlfriend material?Attractive to me, and vice versa We find each other funny and interesting Similar political and religious viewpoints No kids, and doesn't want them Adventurous. Wants to travel and experience new things Low to mid sex drive Has her shit together and knows how to look after a home. I can cook pretty well, but it'd be nice to not have to every night. Preferably Canadian (I wants me a Canuck visa) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence is unattractiveThis is a prime example of Terpers only noticing Stacies. Of course attractive dumb blondes want attractive dumb jocks. That doesn't mean intelligence is unattractive, it means intelligence isn't a plus for someone who is lacking in that department. People like to date within their league, nobody wants to feel like their partner is significantly smarter or hotter than they are. Smart, ugly people date other smart, ugly people. Smart, hot people date smart, hot people. Dumb, ugly people date dumb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | [SPOILERS] Star Wars: The Last PatriarchI loved examining the aftermath of some young hero kid lucking out and being crowned The Chosen One Who Will Save Us And Teach Us and actually being way in over his head and fucking up big. Finally, Luke fails at something and he isn’t prepared for it at all and it makes him jaded. Except by the end of Jedi, he'd matured and learned. He wasn't some cocky kid anymore, he'd had 4 years of character development (remember when Star Wars had that? I miss 2005). All this movie does is reverse all of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | [SPOILERS] Star Wars: The Last PatriarchAnd right after The Force Awakens came out everyone started predicting how Last Jedi would just be a rehash of Empire, weaving annoyance into their speculations, complaining in advance how predictable it would all be. Then when none of that happened and it was actually different with weird twists and characters experiencing frustrating failures instead, they still complained. There is no pleasing some fans. No one hates Star Wars like Star Wars fans, and that’s been true since long before the ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/18 04:16 PM |
| 15 | How do you cope with being unattractive?Surround myself with equally unattractive, sexually unsuccessful people so I don't feel weird. Surround myself with attractive sexually successful people who actually like me and treat me as an equal so I can pretend there isn't a problem Don't improve looks because at least I can have the vague slimmer of hope that I could be attractive if I tried Condition myself to only jerk off to very ugly women Look at other ugly dudes with kinda cute partners and convince myself that I won't always be on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 01:50 AM |
| 1 | (Q4ALL) Give me your objective HB valueI'd say about a 4. My face is ok and I'm just over average height but I need to hit the gym big time. Hair looks nice when it's cut right and I'm learning to dress better, plus I'm white but live in Asia so there's an advantage there. If I got ripped I'd probably be like a 7.5 but by then I'll probably have lost my hair, and I dunno how well I'll pull that off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/17 07:01 PM |
| 2 | QForRPMen: what is supposed to happen if people start to care about or understand the male “problems” in the sexual marketplace?all men are capable of having a healthy sex life All men are capable of hanging escorts on the regular. All men are capable of getting a full time job, marrying a girl from Asia and being a provider. All men are capable of improving their looks to at least 'meh' level, then partnering up with their SMV match (I'm told IRL most people actually do this). All men are capable of looking at older women, fat women, plain women, single mums. All men are capable of crafting an attractive personality eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4 average and attractive people, what would you do if you woke up tomorrow as a 2/10?I just have a gut feeling that there are far more people looking for a partner in their 20s than 60s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4 average and attractive people, what would you do if you woke up tomorrow as a 2/10?Presumably by the time you're that old, you're not going to be thinking about dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/17 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Many of us are learning that decency and good have no bearing on our ability to attract a mate and in some cases may be detrimental - should this be a concern to individuals and society?(because it doesn't matter to me if they get a proper education) You don't need doctors, or pilots, or engineers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Women are celebrated more than men for “getting over” and humiliating their exesExcept it’s not just one post. Anyone who knows buzzfeed and other “millennial liberal” kinds of media knows that it’s a trend. This thing is true. I don't need to give proof, everyone already knows it's true! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/17 05:26 AM |
| 7 | The Father's position regarding if a woman should abort their child or not has at the least equal if not more weight than the woman's. The current trend of denying the man a say wrt to abortion based on the woman's whims is both absurd, and wholly tragic.All your argument boils down to is 'I think having kids is a good thing, all women should feel this way and be forced to bear children because I think it's best for them. Men shouldn't have to though. They can get it aborted if they want'. It's in her body. She gets to decide whether it stays there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/17 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What is and isn't "just being yourself"I think there's a difference between being a certain way to please other people, and being a certain way because you want to. Of course, being a certain way because you want to please other people is a grey area, but I don't think living a lie is a good way to find happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Q for millenial and younger men only, red or blue...McLovin became a bad boy. Seth and Evan were just potential date rapist nerds who start and finish the movie that way. If buying booze underage qualifies as bad boy behaviour, pretty much everyone is a bad boy. At no point in that movie do they become bad boys. They just go to a party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Q for millenial and younger men only, red or blue...Yeah. I had a younger sister. Plus Lizzie was hot. Nope. It was a show about teenagers, and being on the cusp of my adolescence I kinda assumed all teen movies and dramas were exactly how life was going to be. I thought girls would be hotter. Parties would be more frequent. Quickly learned this wasn't the case, and I also highly doubt the writers of Lizzie McGuire intended to give me this impression any more than the writers of Skins or American Pie did. I was just naive. Plus I don't remember L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | So how do the SM/RM numbers pan out?Maybe I'm being an idiot, but I don't understand how But for ages 20-35 there are 10-12% more unmatched single men than women can be true when the population of men isn't 10-12% higher than women. The census you posted only shows marriage rates too, and polygamy is definitely not that big in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL]Whats the modern version of Brad Pitt test?Really? I'm surprised. I know nothing about you save reading your comments over the last couple of months, but I never thought hippie stoners would be your type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/17 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What can a female friend do for me that a male friend cannot?Give you first hand experience of how a particular woman thinks, broadening your perspective. Provide social proof that male friends can't Have more emotional conversations Introduce you to her, statistically mostly female, friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/17 03:16 PM |
| -1 | [Q4ALL]Whats the modern version of Brad Pitt test?True Romance Brad is best Brad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/17 03:07 PM |
| 1 | What are your favorite cute romance films that fill you with emotion and make you cry, what is it about these films that you find so emotional/awesome, and how do you think the physical beauty of the actors/actresses influences our emotional circuitry when we watch these films?In what way? What do you mean? Because I hate goodbye's, and anytime I see somebody that I know I won't see again for a long time, the experience is tainted by knowing the last 10 minutes are going to be sad no matter what we do. This is a beautiful way to say it; never thought about it in those terms but that's exactly what it was. Don't give me credit for that one, Jesse all but spells it out in that scene. It hit home though, I had no idea other people felt that way. I often feel like time is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/17 03:04 PM |
| 1 | What are your favorite cute romance films that fill you with emotion and make you cry, what is it about these films that you find so emotional/awesome, and how do you think the physical beauty of the actors/actresses influences our emotional circuitry when we watch these films?Before Sunrise, several scenes Where they agree to say goodbye to each other now, rather than when they actually have to part ways. I relate to that so much. The first scene with sunlight, because now you know it's nearly over. They're in real time again, and the endless night ended. When they actually say goodbye, and return to their normal lives. The camera then pans to the locations they visited in the last 12 hours, the daylight revealing how mundane they are without Jesse and Celine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/17 08:28 AM |
| 0 | Would men be happier or less happy if they took drugs that lowered their sex drives? How would women feel about men's sex drive being lower?If you have a high sex drive, just jerk off or pay. There's no substitute for intimacy or any drug that can quell that desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it easier for men to get laid nowadays than ever before?Honestly, I don't think having to choose between being forever alone or having an ugly partner is an unjustified complaint. Nobody wants to settle or be settled for, and though we all do to a degree, a relationship without attraction is a bridge too far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/17 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: How would you feel if your partner said that she settled for you?Meh. If you're not attractive, chances are you're not going to be found attractive by your partner, nor will you find them attractive. But dating sucks, and single life post 30 is lonely as fuck. Better to find someone cool but ugly and make the best of it. Love isn't for everyone, but you can at least find someone you like who'll hold your hand when you're old. I'd care if my wife said this to me, because there's no need to. Just think it, and let me live the lie. Plus, it could be said in a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] What assumptions, if any, do you make when a person says they do not want to be exclusive with you?Huh, thats completely foreign to me. If I'm attracted to someone, I'm attracted to them. It's binary. I can't imagine a woman that I would find hot enough to fuck but not hot enough to wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/17 03:38 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What assumptions, if any, do you make when a person says they do not want to be exclusive with you?Seems weird to believe that attraction is the issue when they're still willing to fuck you, just without commitment. I'd assume it was either 3 or 4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/17 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Which sex has it easier?TIL nurses have no work ethic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/17 09:21 AM |
| 7 | Which media couples (either fictional or real) would you class as RP, PP, or BP?Michelle is pretty hot imo. Not a 10, and maybe she never was, but she's pushing 50 and is still on the upper and of above average. She's got a good figure and a nice smile. Plus, she seems genuinely attracted to Barrack so it's not like he's getting the kinda duty sex Trump gets. Obama, for all his horrendous foreign policy flaws, is a good looking, wealthy off his own work, Harvard educated lawyer and formerly the most powerful man in the world, and he killed Bin Laden. You don't get much more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Why not date a Single Mother? Here’s a good reasonIt is however, a very good argument for single parents to dare each other as they fully understand this dynamic in a way that a childless partner may not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Barring sex, what are the benefits of a relationship that you don't feel you could ever get through family and close friends?travelling alone is generally shite Blasphemy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Barring sex, what are the benefits of a relationship that you don't feel you could ever get through family and close friends?A different kind of intimacy. My SO is a more reliable source of support or just conversation than my friends. Do you believe that to be something inherent to an SO or just due to the kinds of people your SO and friends are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Barring sex, what are the benefits of a relationship that you don't feel you could ever get through family and close friends?Navigating life as a unit. Don't you feel you do this with your family and friends? I get that your decisions impact each other more when you're a couple than other relationships, but my mother's and sister's and best friend's decisions impact me and vice versa, and I turn to them for support quite often. Building a home together. Never had a long term roomie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Barring sex, what are the benefits of a relationship that you don't feel you could ever get through family and close friends?Interesting, why do you think this happens? Also, theoretically speaking, couldn't 2 single friends be each others top priority? And don't you rank pretty highly on your parents priority list? What about kids, wouldn't they jump to the top of the priority list? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Would you marry a woman who had an N-count of 60?N count is irrelevant to me. It can be symptomatic of certain problems, but if she's free of those problems, I really don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Why has there been this push by some feminists to make male pop culture role models like James Bond and the Doctor from 'Doctor Who' into women?Implying that Fury Road wasn't the best Mad Max film by far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There too much focus on getting casual sex by low smv men in all this red/blue/black pill talk compared to finding a long term relationship.Not all skinheads were Nazis, and I see plenty of skinheads round here dating fatties and assume it was probably the same 30 years ago. But for the Nazi skinheads who were dating Debbie Harry lookalikes, did they marry them? FYI plenty of punk chicks were hot, plenty of mod chicks and new wave chicks and girl next door chicks were hot. Nazis were far from the only people fucking hot pussy in the 80's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 10:28 AM |
| 4 | CMV: There too much focus on getting casual sex by low smv men in all this red/blue/black pill talk compared to finding a long term relationship.Leaving aside the fact that most women tend to be 'gay leftie feminists', there's just no way women are actually attracted to Nazism because it's 'hypermasculine'. At best, it's something a small percentage of women would overlook for a hookup. If you gave your average guy jack boots, a skinhead, and a swastika tattoo, and had him going around talking about the jooz, I guarantee he would lose any RMV he previously had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Does the average man have better, and more marriage opportunities in his 20's or 30's?Why so? Wouldn't it raise questions if a man was unmarried at 30+? Won't most of the quality women be taken by then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 11:51 PM |
| 13 | Q4ALL: "Women are like children, taking them seriously is often a mistake." Is this a misogynistic statement? Is this a sexist statement?Sure, but if a man often doesn't make sense, he's hardly a man Nice goalposts there. So any man who doesn't make sense is barely a man, and a woman who makes sense isn't really womanly I suppose? I can make arbitrary definitions too, any man who is honest is barely a man therefore men aren't honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Why is " Locker Room Talk" Demonized?Because often 'Locker Room Talk' is actually crazy predatory rape apologist misogyny. People have a problem with this. As for actual harmless locker room talk, just keep it to yourself. If you want to talk about your dick size and fucking got chicks, go for it, but the rest of us don't need to hear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 08:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The "no place left for men in the future" idea is a massive hysteria caused by an over-emphasis on the college hook up cultureWomen are socially punished for casual sex too. Your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Is there a place for the excess men in the future?If you're spending your days preparing for meteor impacts, that's paranoia, not abstract thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 01:27 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The "no place left for men in the future" idea is a massive hysteria caused by an over-emphasis on the college hook up cultureit would be like saying to 80% women that they could get casual sex, but that commitment is TOO MUCH ASKING and that they should review their standards down to just casual sex, and that they should be happy with what they can get. Men can pay for anonymous sex any time they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/17 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Is there a place for the excess men in the future?I don't understand the question. If the man are unable to get women, they should work on their game. If they decide to kill then we'll put them in prison. Simple. There's just no way society is going to collapse because a few people can't get laid. Men are able to have sex easier than at any other point in history and there's never been a revolution, successful or otherwise, based on an inability to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/17 09:02 PM |
| 8 | Is there a place for the excess men in the future?Only men are smart enough to have watched a couple episodes of Cosmos and think they're deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/17 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4RPmen: do you prefer basic bitches?Guess again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 11:28 PM |
| 0 | *Totally Not a Post Berating Incels...Women are treated as subhuman for saying no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4RPmen: do you prefer basic bitches?Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 06:33 PM |
| 1 | *Totally Not a Post Berating Incels...Maybe we need a post to bring it to light r/creepypms Knock yourself out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 06:24 PM |
| 0 | *Totally Not a Post Berating Incels...Uh huh, whatever. I've been rejected. I've been rejected cruelly. I've also seen and heard the shit my women friends put up with. I've read the bullshit incels and mgtow's say and I've listened to women flick through their tinder matches and dismiss them for whatever reasons. The idea that no man ever had or could possibly say something worse to a woman than the worst possible rejection is bullshit when men routinely send death threats to women who criticise video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why do you think the "women like assholes" meme is so prevalent?A lot of guys mistake submissive for nice. A lot of guys are nice, but have very little else going for them but assume their niceness must be the issue since their mother and few friends seem to like their personality. Confirmation bias. Most guys have relationships and casual sex, but they only notice the assholes. They see everyone as an asshole because nobody's perfect. They might be orbiting a chick with a boyfriend and they hear all about that fight they just had, but they don't hear about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | *Totally Not a Post Berating Incels...I've read that some women have said some downright cruel things that no man would ever say to a woman, at least on a first encounter. Well, there we go. The most ridiculous thing I'll ever read on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 02:03 PM |
| 1 | *Totally Not a Post Berating Incels...I have no idea what you're trying to say. Women 50 years agp didn't want to be judged for their sexual choices, and didn't want to be forced into marriage with a guy they didn't love, therefore modern women deserve harassment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4RPmen: do you prefer basic bitches?It annoys me when nerdy dudes won't settle for their league which I see happen a lot. Why? Do you think there is something in ugly people's brains that makes them attracted to other ugly people? There's nothing worse than fucking someone you're repulsed by, hence why good looking people reject repulsive people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/17 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4RPmen: do you prefer basic bitches?Tbf, most of those chicks were pretty cute without makeup, and the ones that weren't were still ugly with it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/17 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4RPmen: do you prefer basic bitches?They want hot women, and as you say, being hot takes effort and can be quite consuming. I'm sure most guys would prefer a hot chick with personality though. Personally, I'll fuck basic bitches but I prefer intellient women with interests and hobbies. There's just more basic bitches than cool ones and getting laid is a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: What are your standards of beauty?Curvy, kinda chubby. Big arse. Glasses are a plus. Blonde, brunette, ginger, turqoise...it's all good. Normally into pale chicks but Asians and Middle Eastern chicks are growing on me. Like 5'2" - 5'8". Pretty face, y'know, symettrical and shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What should a young man do if he wants lots of casual sex, with no commitment?Max your looks and be fun, interesting, and cool. Meet lots of women. Online. Friends of friends. Bars. Gigs. Classes. Charity work. And above all else, don't be afraid to use professionals . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/17 12:27 PM |
| 1 | why are most male incels incel?Batting out of their league No social skills Don't approach women Spend their days on forums idolizing killers, jerking to loli, and waiting for the Beta Uprising All incels should move to a big city and buy a motorcycle asap. They should get new clothes, new haircut, new everything that needs to be fixed. They should be out every night, at bars, gigs, plays, wine tasting, swing class, tai chi training, Battlestar Appreciation etc...And they should lift. They should get tattoos, take coke and fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 08:40 AM |
| 3 | CMV: There are plenty of women who don't need to be gamed into having casual sexHeyyyyyy Will you have sex with me? Kind Regards, KerbPoet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: How can men deal with the fundamental paradox that (1) you need a genuine DGAF attitude to fuck a lot of girls but (2) you need to fuck a lot of girls to acquire a genuine DGAF attitude?Escorts. Lots of 'em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Only top tier men are "gatekeepers" of relationshipsJust to be clear, you're now altering your argument from 'Men only get married for easy access to sex' to 'Men only get married cos they're sheeple' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Only top tier men are "gatekeepers" of relationshipsNo, but it shows the attitude of the society that places those laws in the first place. Johns are seen as scummy low lifes who couldn't get pussy other wise. So? We're not talking about societal attitudes, we're talking about what men (supposedly) want. It's almost like they were raised their whole lives with a certain narrative in their heads that law and society clearly reflect. Men themselves will tell you they don't go to prostitutes because it plays around with their ego and masculinity. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Would you introduce a girl you never hooked up/had sex with to your friend who has a higher status than you? Why or Why not?Yeah, why not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Only top tier men are "gatekeepers" of relationshipsshamed Women are shamed for casual sex. Those that want it still have it. fined/imprisoned First of all, not everywhere. Secondly, are anti soliciting laws enforced that seriously in Canada/America? I'm not sure where your argument comes from. My point is, there's a reason far more men cohabit and marry than bang prostitutes their whole lives. In fact, most men never even do it once. Obviously they want something more than just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Are ugly couples attracted to each other?No, but most people agree that they would never date someone below their looks threshold, even if looks aren't everything. There are more than a few couples where both parties would fall well below most people's threshold. It's very unlikely that they just so happen to both happen to be attracted to someone virtually nobody else is, so it's interesting to wonder how they keep a relationship going without attraction, given that most people would never consider doing such a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Are ugly couples attracted to each other?Maybe. Some people have weird tastes, and some people have low thresholds for looks. Also depends on their situation. If you're ugly, very few people are attracted to you, so it's hard to find someone who is, let alone find one that you're attracted to as well. If you do, congrats, but I think for most unattractive couples, at least one person is taking what they can get. I don't know what's more sad really, a relationship where neither party are attracted to each other, or one where only one pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Only top tier men are "gatekeepers" of relationshipsImagine not fucking smoking hot chicks whenever you wanted because you're that scared of the law. It's real simple. Go on a review site. Find a chick that looks hot and has a profile at least a year old, with plenty of reviews confirming she's not a cop to boot. Fuck her. Go back next week. Do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Only top tier men are "gatekeepers" of relationshipsEscorts exist. Any man with a middle class income can fuck an 8 every fortnight if he wanted. The fact that they don't, and instead choose relationships, proves that men want love for reasons other than just sex. For all the 'women get sex so much easier than men', for any man with £150 to spare, high quality sex is literally a phone call away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/17 11:25 PM |
| 2 | At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity?5 grand for an escort??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 10:01 AM |
| 1 | At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity?You were worried you'd do the same thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 02:02 AM |
| 2 | At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity?Fair enough. I think I take living in Europe for granted, it's either legal or tolerated. The idea that cops would pretend to be escorts to bust clients is unheard of here, I can't relate. It doesn't have to become a habit, it might spur you on to go find some free pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 02:01 AM |
| 2 | At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity?I would say probably lack of true curiosity Nothing like getting laid to make you want to get laid again. 200-300 As a mid 20's guy myself, I know how rough the job market is and how low real wages are for our generation. But I can still afford an escort every month if I wanted. Even on minimum wage it's not a huge chunk of your finances, and it's a life changing experience. Well worth 200 bucks if you ask me. logistics of setting it up Couple of phone calls getting arrested by VICE Vegas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Why take away women's right to vote and not just ban the left?If women want political power, they get it through controlling their man anyways, and by not giving women a vote, it also makes the man's vote represent the family more so and less just himself. So we should actually control women's voting through legislation because women apparently coerce their men into voting a certain way through pussy? Maybe the women should vote for the family, after all, men could still get their way by controlling their women through financial and physical force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 09:39 PM |
| 1 | At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity?Can't travel? Vegas Sydney Bangkok London Amsterdam Prague Madrid & Barcelona Berlin, Munich & Hamburg All of the above are world class cities that everyone should see before they die, and you can pay for play there as well. EDIT-Took Toronto off the list. Apparently that city has changed since last I was there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity?I'm likely going to start my military From what I understand, military guys do nothing but bang sex workers But I don't think paying for it will fix my self-esteem issues. No, but you'll get laid. You'll open a door to a wonderful side of adulthood that you've thus far been excluded from. My advice is don't wait. Life is short and pussy is sweet. I bet 30 year old virgins wish they paid at 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 06:35 PM |
| 5 | At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity?The idea of not being able to get laid, or the idea of wanting to get laid badly enough to pay for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 06:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: SMV is not consistent at large or global scales, it is only consistent on local scalesit is determined by who you have been able to fuck. Ok so if I fuck a girl, that automatically makes me a 10 right? Cos she was a 10, and she fucked me, which makes her a 10 cos I'm a 10 cos I fucked her... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Unattractive people of PPD, have you had to condition yourself to be into other unattractive people?very high looks threshold Why does this always happen when the conversation is about looks? Why does any mention of ugly people negate the existence of average people? Person A-I'm not attracted to ugly people' Person B-'Oh, well I'm sooooo sorry you can't pull the models you obviously deserve'. But yeah, in reality ugly people are just as attractive as hot people, and there's no significant difference in the quality and quantity of their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive people of PPD, have you had to condition yourself to be into other unattractive people?I've heard it said hundreds of times on this sub that personality counts for nil if you don't meet the looks threshold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/17 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Unattractive people of PPD, have you had to condition yourself to be into other unattractive people?You can grow to love and appreciate an odd face or a fat or too thin body. Yet attractive people never seem to do this. Odd... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive people of PPD, have you had to condition yourself to be into other unattractive people?If looks are so irrelevant, why aren't there a slew of mismatched couples in the world? To suggest that people are, or should be attracted to personality over looks kinda seems like niceguy logic really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Is the look of lust/desire alien to most average-looking men? If so, does that lead to any harmful psychological consequences?I disagree. I don't see why a 3 would be anymore attracted to a 5 than a 7 would. They might be more likely to date him, but that's a pragmatic choice, not a passionate one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do white knights deny being white knights?To offer a dissenting opinion, I thought it was awful. Not a patch on the original, probably my least favourite Kevin Smith movie (though I've never seen Chasing Amy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What is the shortest time you've ever gone from meeting to sex with a person? How long did it take to go from meeting to sex with your current SO?Shortest-The time it took her to count the cash. Also been a few same nighters, but half of those were in Canada so does it even count? Longest-4 months. She had a fella and it took me a while to recognise her interest, then there was like a 2 month gap where we didn't see each other. Next time we did I wasted no time though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 12:05 PM |
| 2 | What is the shortest time you've ever gone from meeting to sex with a person? How long did it take to go from meeting to sex with your current SO?I suppose it's for people who aren't attracted without emotional connection, or want to make sure they're not a psycho killer. There's also women who want to make sure the guy isn't just in it for sex, so makes him wait a little. I'm all for it. I don't see anything wrong with hanging out a few times over the space of a couple weeks before getting tp the good stuff. Builds tension, and I like enjoying the company of the people I fuck. It's when people date for months with no sex, and start passi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Are you ugly?Probably. Luckily I'm funny and like big chicks so it's all good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think someone who’s maxed himself out and still isn’t getting any attention from women is doing wrong?1-Batting out of his league. Trail22 put in a lot of effort, but ultimately he's still short and Indian. Sad, but that's the way it is. 2-Doesn't approach or doesn't recognise women's interest 3-Can't flirt 4-Isn't fun to be around. I know people who can make a funny anecdote out of what they did at lunch, and people who'll go for a mountain biking backpacking trip in South East Asia and come back with nothing to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: People of PPD, what was your high-school experience like?Who's gonna work the hard jobs if they pay as much as a bartender? Not what socialism is but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: People of PPD, what was your high-school experience like?lower class people We're gonna destroy the very notion of class comrade dont' Don't really bother me. Yet you're still responding, like the odious autistic fuck you are. Well, I gotta get to BK to start my shift (or maybe I'm a lazy unemployed millenial, you'll never know), but I'll see you in 10 years when the US has single payer tax funded healthcare and an openly social democrat President | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: People of PPD, what was your high-school experience like?Oh you're one of those nutters whose entire existence is just sitting around, waiting for Red Dawn to happen. And to think, I almost questioned my lifelong beliefs. Sidenote-Can any revolution be called silly if it requires the use of firearms to preserve the status quo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: People of PPD, what was your high-school experience like?Christ you're a boring fella aren't you. Don't you have anything worth saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: People of PPD, what was your high-school experience like?America is litterly the closest thing with Unions and shareholders. PAHAHAHAHAHAHA Only losers like the idea of socialism. Cries indefinitely I assume you live in a capitalist country Sadly your You're using an electronic device, have food, and have electricity? No I'm starving to death, sending you these messages via carrier pigeon. What does any of that have to do with socialism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What's your idea of the perfect relationship?We find each other attractive We go on adventures together, but we can make the every day an adventure Have sex about as much as we'd like We can laugh together We can inspire each other We find each other interesting, whether she's giving me a we perspective on philosophy, a TV show, or just what she did with her day No kids Seriously, no kids Trusts me and isn't jealous, and vice versa Is willing to make the relationship work even when it isn't at it's best We agree on the big things, i.e. the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: People of PPD, what was your high-school experience like?1-Male 2-The worst years of my life 3-It isn't too late to change. For years I was an outcast, unpopular, and became purposefully edgy because bad attention was better than being ignored. Then in the last year I developed a sense of humour, demonstrated my intelligence in useful rather than pretentious ways, and stopped being a racist prick for the sake of it. I ended up making a couple of friends I still talk to this day, and had a much more pleasant day to day experience. Some people still hat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: People of PPD, what was your high-school experience like?Feel like pointing me to a country where workers own the means of production? 'Communist' countries are just authoritarian dictatorships that still have a wealthy ruling class. The only reason to prefer a country run by corrupt corporations rather than a corrupt government is because it's better the devil you know. And lets not talk about communists wanting to steal people's hard work, when we're all ruled by companies that exploit their workers, media outlets that pay no tax, bankers that neede… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do you or don't you want kids?This is interesting, do you think you would want children as much if you came from a small family, or weren't close with them? And regarding old age, do you see kids as an investment? I agree with this, but I feel losing my 20's and 30's to child rearing wouldn't be worth the small gains in my old age, when life sucks either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do you or don't you want kids?Kids are boring Parenting looks stressful I probably wouldn't be any good at it I take no pleasure in other people's happiness, so the idea of finding joy through my child's acheivments is alien to me EXPENSIVE There's no taksies backsies, and I swear 50% of parents regret having kids I don't want to be a dad every day for the rest of my life. I don't want to have to consider other people when I make my decisions. I want to move city every few years and stay out getting drunk on weeknights at ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 12:42 AM |
| 1 | what defines "success" in the SMP?Are you having as much sex as you would like? I imagine a strictly religious, highly romantic dude with a low libido would have a very different idea of what constitutes a successful amount of partners and frequency of sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 01:49 PM |
| 3 | There's no such thing as "average."I always though average meant 'neither hot nor ugly, just plain'. I had no idea we were using it in the mathematical sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.I've known 2 conventionally attractive, slim, blonde chicks date way below their league and I've never been able to figure it out. Their guys don't have money, they're not charming or kind, nor are they well liked. One of them is anybody's 8 and is genuinely cool. Her fiancee is a 4 at best, has a history of abuse and isn't university educated unlike her. The other of them was a nasty piece of work, but a solid 8. Her fuck buddy was morbidly obese with rotten teeth and an apartment that smelt of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.But we're talking about love. Besides, you can get a 10 for casual sex if you're willing to pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 02:42 AM |
| 7 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.. Even female 2s are trying to land male 5s or 6s. Baseless assertion. Firstly, if those supposed 2's can land 6's, then they're not actually 2's. Secondly, the idea that there's a surplus amount of attractive men for all the ugly chicks to get with has no basis in logic or fact. It's just a poor excuse for failure. If you're a 2, and you can't land another 2, either you're personality sucks, you're npt trying, or you're actually a 0 in denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Who is going to take one for the team and date a 2 when they could get a 6 instead? Other 2's who can't do any better, and 7's who have unique taste | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Why AF/BB is wrongI can see that. At the same time, I know I've considered LTR'ing chicks I wasn't 'overly attracted to' either, and I think that's a common thing. When there's so many other factors to consider when deciding if someone is suitable for a relationship, taking extra effort to find a 10 when they're only going to get old anyway seems wasteful. I'd marry a cute 6 who ticked all the personality boxes, but if I was just looking for a lay I might aim a little higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Why AF/BB is wrongyou're not attracted enough to their looks Agree with everything else, but it seems odd to me to have a relationship based on sex where you're not attracted to them enough for a relationship. I thought most people would hold their casual partners to the same or a higher standard than an LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Why AF/BB is wrongI can't believe how controversial this is. Of course women fuck guys they wouldn't want to marry, they're not trying to 'lock him down', he's just someone to do while they look for the right guy. And it's paranoid to assume that they'll never enjoy sex as much with their husband as an fwb they used to kill time. I'd actually not considered women being careful about screwing genuinely nice guys in case they accidentally led him on, but it makes sense, kinda like how people are afraid virgins will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | [Question for BP and RP men]: What exactly do you want in your woman?Simply put, this cannot be done. I have 11 conditions that need to be met 1-Is at least a little cute 2-Doesn't want kids 3-Enjoys sex with me 4-Intelligent 5-Adventurous, always up for new things, doesn't want to live in any one city for more than a few years 6-Shares my sense of humour 7-Can compromise, but also stands up for herself 8-Open about her emotions 9-Isn't possesive or jealous; won't mind me hanging with women friends, doesn't need to know where I am all day, or spend every evening … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 05:04 PM |
| 2 | If your physical features changed overnight, would your dating habits and standards?General social opinion. If a lot of people consider you to be ugly, you're low on the scale. If a lot of people consider you to be average and a few consider you to be attractive, then you're mid to high on the scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/17 05:51 PM |
| 2 | What most people want in a partner is just someone who's decent looking, shares some interests, can hold a conversation and won't make them feel embarrassed in public. Agree or disagree?other people they are attracted to and in their league Of course, at some point these two become antithetical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you think most unattractive couples are happy?But that's the point of my question-can you be happy with a partner you're not attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you think using escorts is overall better or worse for a guy's sex lifeit frames the idea that women use sex to gain resources, when for most women, this isn't true. In the past, men and women married for the sake of having children. But some women do this, including sex workers. That doesn't mean you do, but you can't censor reality just because you don't like the conclusion. the industry is rife with underage girls, drug addicted women, human trafficking etc Not when you go higher end a small percentage of men use escorts to practice hate against women. They post… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you think using escorts is overall better or worse for a guy's sex lifedoes a construction worker get socially ostracised? Treated as 'damaged goods' by misogynistic men? Awwwww. I'm sure the £1000's she can make in a week will serve as some comfort though. ? Do construction workers risk of getting raped and beaten? Why am I to blame for what other men do. I admit, it's a risky job, but it's a risky job she's chosen, and given that I'm not going to beat or rape her, how does the fact that other men might reflect on my morality whatsoever? Is construction working so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 11:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Going To A Brothel, Shouldn't Be Viewed As Any Worse Than Women Going To A Sperm Bankwomen will always see it as a sign of desperation and low value I don't understand this. Like, I get that a lot of women don't understand the male libido or that even decent looking men struggle in the casual sex market, but solipsism aside, not being able to have regular, commitment free sex with escort level women doesn't make you low value. It just means you're not a 9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/17 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you think using escorts is overall better or worse for a guy's sex lifeThis is such omega male projection. most average guys have casual hookups if they want them, at least in college and definitely in the age of tinder. I have to disagree. As a generally well liked guy who maxes out at average, it's virtually impossible for me to find casual sex. The same has been true for all of my average friends. high quality marriage material gets snatched up early. Guys peak later than women, and there's a second window in the mid 30's to early 40's when a lot of women get di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/17 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you think using escorts is overall better or worse for a guy's sex life. Perhaps she is a drug addict. Perhaps she ran away from a bad household and has no other way of paying the bills. Perhaps she had a kid. Perhaps she made a mistake. News flash. People work for less than ideal reasons. You think the guy flipping burgers really wants to be there? Would it be ok to patronize a McDonald's if you knew the guy working the till was only there to fund his heroin habit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/17 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you think using escorts is overall better or worse for a guy's sex lifeYou have no way of knowing whether the woman is safe, of if she is being pimped or used by an abusive boyfriend. If she's charging £200 an hour out of a nice flat, choosing her own hours, and has a long list of things she won't do, chances are she's a free agent. You are basically buying a person'a body. You could say that of every service You have no way of knowing whether she is going to use the money to support herself, or her cocaine addiction. Not my problem at all. Why is it my fault that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/17 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you think most unattractive couples are happy?Right, but you yourself just admitted to the existence of leagues and 10/10. That implies that there are people less desirable and that those less desirable people are forced to enter into relationships with other less desirable people because more desirable people can do better. Given that that's the case, do you not think that there's a difference between two 7s who aren't each others ideals, but still find plenty to be attracted to, and a pair of 2s who are together because nobody above a 2 w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you think most unattractive couples are happy?Just seems like common sense. There are people in the world generally held to be unattractive, and they tend to pair up with other conventionally unattractive people. While I'm sure some people are into them, it seems illogical to suggest that all ugly people are attracted to other ugly people. Then settling for what they can get seems a much more reasonable solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (20 May 2017)Do you think there is an age at which you're almost guaranteed to be incel for life? I'm not incel, but I struggle to get relationships and if this doesn't change by 30 I'm giving up. Not just on dating, but on living too. I hear that the average age to lose your virginity is 17/18, 1 in 4 people are virgins at 21, 1 in 10 at 25 and then this drops to about 1 in 50 at 30. Obviously of the 30 year old virgins, there's going to be a lot of priests, monks, other religious types, asexuals, closeted … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/17 07:05 PM |
| -1 | Do you think most unattractive couples are happy?You don't think having a partner you're not attracted to would impact on your happiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What was your last nervous breakdown, freakout, or awkward moment brought about by sex and gender issues?Most of my friends are in relationships with attractive men ot women now. They're planning for the future, moving in together, even discussing engagement. They have a lot less time for me than usual. Knowing this will only get worse, and that I'll never experience love like them. It gives me a melancholy day every other week when I think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/17 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Stances on Prostitution?Only the Nordic Model has proven effective in protecting workers while also preventing trafficking. My opinion is that we should embrace the Nordic Model, but turn a blind eye to those who sleep with high end call girls who are obviously not exploited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Define wife material.Minimally attractive Intelligent and Creative Doesn't want kids Isn't career or money oriented, and wants to live and visit all kinds of different places Can look after herself I would enjoy spending 4 night a week with her Open minded in bed and wants it at least twice weekly Doesn't bottle up her feelings Socialist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 03:12 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - Articlelol wut? Negative male gender roles would not exist if not for societie's contempt for women. The opposite is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/17 10:10 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleAs somehow feminists can talk about women's issues without mention men's issues. Yet somehow its not possible the other way around? That makes zero sense at all. It makes perfect sense. We're talking about patriarchy, about gender roles generally designed to oppress women that also backfire on men in the 21st century. These are 2 very different experiences, but only one is dependent on the existence of the other. Besides, I refuse to believe that every discussion on menslib goes like this Man-It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/17 06:02 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleAnd yet it happens all the time and they talk about women's issues more than that of men's. Kinda hard to talk about male issues stemming from patriarchy without mentioning how it affects women. It's a natural part of the conversation mods do nothing when such a thing happens. Are the mods controlled by feminists? Its one of your lovely double standards really. Men interjecting is derailing, but its okay when women do it. When did I defend derailing? Take your presumptive strawmen outta here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/17 01:26 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleBesides any examples I post you will spin it The first 2 seem like entirely acceptable uses of the term. The last guy was being a snarky fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/17 01:23 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleI've seen you, in other posts, claim that male anger is just over "men losing their privilege" and frankly this makes me wonder just how much you're actually listening to men who complain. I didn't claim all anger came from this. I said Male Tears was mocking this anger. the repeated dismissal of almost any MHRM claim as "stupid" cannot be seen as anything but shaming men for emotion. Everytime I visit a MRA board I see nothing but anger at feminists, and very little support ot action to defend … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/17 12:14 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleNOW is toxic as fuck and pretty irrelevant these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/17 09:56 AM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleSo, "men need to express their emotions but we have the right to decide when these expressions are valid/permissible." That's basically the same thing as wanting men to just tell you what you want to hear. Oh Christ have some common sense. Saying people are stupid for getting angry about certian things isn't suppressing emotion, not really. When Alex Jones spends his days screaming about how Obama is a demon, he's an idiot. That doesn't mean men have no right to be angry about things. Just that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/17 09:53 AM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleSuch as...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/17 09:51 AM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleIf that is the case then women have no right to cry for no reason. Of course. Nobody would approve if a bunch of women came into a discussion on menslib and hijacked a discussion. This is what we call cherry picking and spinning things. Nope. That's just what the phrase is for. Assuming a phrase is intended for every situation at every time shows an alarming lack of understanding of nuance, and is pretty emblematic of the black and white thinking of anti fems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/17 09:51 AM |
| 0 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleExamples? That's not the intention of the phrase, either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/17 09:48 AM |
| 2 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleIt's not even about 'criticism', it's a meme, it's not used a response to actual academic criticisms of feminism. Have you never been in a comment section and seen a bunch of men kicking off because people are criticizing their favourite show for not having any decent female characters? Or maybe there's been a high profile rape case and bunch of guys chime in about people are saying 'men' as opposed to 'some but not all men'. Perhaps you've seen incels bitch about how female sexuality should be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Is a man who cannot find casual sex despite opportunities inherently low value?Oh hell I missed a huge section out of that post. I meant to say women enjoy sex with their husbands and boyfriends as much as men enjoy sex with their girlfriends and wives, but don't enjoy casual sex as much as men. Gonna edit now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 05:15 PM |
| 0 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleI don't give a fuck if you think you're privileged or not. The fact remains that the Male Tears meme is targeted at men who are upset at feminism, not depressed or emotional men in general, which was the argument made just a few comments up. Also "Privilege"? I do NOT have the world on a stick... Not what privilege means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleYou realise Valerie Solanas was a paranoid schizophrenic, right? Have you got anything from the last few years? I'm pretty certain the KillAllMen hashtag didn't exist in the 80s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Is a man who cannot find casual sex despite opportunities inherently low value?I fully believe women enjoy sex with their boyfriends and husbands as much men enjoy sex with their girlfriends and wives, but don't enjoy casual sex as much as men enjoy sex with strangers, and I believe there is weight behind the slut shaming argument. But even if it's a socially intranet truth, it's still a truth. Plus, you can't downplay how much more difficult it can be for women to acheive orgasm, and how female orgasm is seen as an extra, not a main event. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 04:12 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleExcept male tears isn't directed at depressed men, or any men trying to cope with tough times. Male tears is about men who whine about feminist activism because their privilege is being revoked. Two very different things. Show me an example of feminists using the name to make fun of upset men, and name me a guy who has cause to be depressed because of feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 03:48 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleWere people actually wanting to kill all men? Were there any murders? Any attempted murders? Any groups or rallies that incited hatred against men. For all the crticisms of feminist censorship, there sure seems to be a lot of MRA's who can't get past a bad taste joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 02:32 PM |
| 2 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleSo now you're mocking men for having a weak skin, for having excessively fragile feelings. Isn't this gender-policing? Isn't it also misogynist (according to some kinds of feminism) for treating a feminine-coded trait as a bad thing to be avoided? If you're against the gender roles, you should not shame men for being insufficiently masculine. Yet that is what you do here. Yeah. No. Wanting men to be more expressive of their emotions isn't the same as saying men have the right to be pissed off fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 02:30 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleNo, ironic misandry like the ironic misandry OP mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Is a man who cannot find casual sex despite opportunities inherently low value?It's so easy to just have a one night stand I think many men would disagree with this. TRP and PUA wouldn't exist if this was the case. social skills. What social skills are needed for a ONS? As long as you have the balls to approach, know how to talk to people, and have a basic understanding of flirting/escalation, you meet the requirements. But none of that matters if you're average or below because you won't get the chance to flirt or escalate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Is a man who cannot find casual sex despite opportunities inherently low value?If your height made you a 4, but the women didn't care about your height, you weren't a 4 to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Is a man who cannot find casual sex despite opportunities inherently low value?Aren't less attractive people having sex with other less attractive people? My argument would be that since far less women want casual sex than men, there aren't enough to go around. Sure, a female 4 probably can't catch a dick from a male 10, But she could get a male 7. I'd estimate that there are as many women who want casual sex as there are decently attractive men who do. And as for fuck buddies, most women are simply not interetested in a commitment free relationship with an unattractive ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 12:01 PM |
| – | 3 Ways Anti-Feminism Hurts People of All Genders - ArticleImagine having such masculinity that you felt ironic misamdry was on par with actual misogyny. If you find ironic misamdry offensive, can you not understand why women are offended by unironic misogyny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 11:37 AM |
| 1 | What is your definition of "settling"?Yeah I meant no. I'll edit it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 10:46 PM |
| 3 | What is your definition of "settling"?Do you find your partner attractive? Would s/he be one of your close friends if you weren't a couple? Have you had to significantly alter life goals to accomodate them? Over the space if a year, do you have sex roughly as often as you'd like? If the answer is no to any of the above, you've settled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4All-Would you rather go your whole life without relationships, or only have relationships with people you're not attracted to?Maybe it isn't romantic love. Maybe it's just something similar. Either way, it seems to make some people happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4All-Would you rather go your whole life without relationships, or only have relationships with people you're not attracted to?Plenty of people have relationships without the first two, and they're not necessarily miserable. They're may be not as happy as they could be, but that's not the same as being lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4All-Would you rather go your whole life without relationships, or only have relationships with people you're not attracted to?Friends who will grow up, marry, have kids, move away, and just generally have less time for you as you get older. Friends who will view you as being waaay down their priority list, when they're at the top of yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4All-Would you rather go your whole life without relationships, or only have relationships with people you're not attracted to?You don't think you can love someone without wanting to fuck them? What about old people, or people who are disfigured after they get together? What about arranged marriages, or all the obese couples you see around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women-How would you react if a sexually unsuccessful friend paid for sex?How do you explain the fact that the former comes with a significantly higher risk of psychological and physical harm than the latter? Why do you think the rate of drug addiction, mental illness and job-related violence is so much higher among prostitutes - even legal ones - than yoga instructors, dancers or actors (or really any other profession, besides maybe war veterans)? I'd put that down to illegality and the social shame that drives it underground and makes it difficult to find help when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/17 11:57 PM |
| 3 | What commonly held "blue pill" or mainstream sentiment do you disagree with?That any guy can get laid with confidence, showering, and human decency. It just isn't true. The casual sex market is reserved for guys generally considered 7+ I also disagree that ugly couples are attracted to each other. Some might be, but the majority are settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women-How would you react if a sexually unsuccessful friend paid for sex?The service is her body. No. It's something she does with her body, like a masseuse, or a yoga instructor, or a dancer, or an actor etc...hell, literally every job in existence requires you to use your body to some degree. And of course it's different from other jobs. In fact it is most parents' worst nightmare for their child. Wonder why? Puritanical attitudes towards female sexuality? What do clothes and electrical goods have to do with this? The vast majority of phones and clothes are made by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/17 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: From What You've Read on this Sub, What Has Surprised You About Women?How little women understand the male sex drive. They have no idea how important sex is to us, and how much more difficult it can be for us to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/17 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women-How would you react if a sexually unsuccessful friend paid for sex?Second, the thought of him thinking it’s perfectly ok to buy access to a woman's body as if she's a commodity does not sit well with me. How is that different to any other job? You're buying a service, not get body. Third, I think the prostitution industry harms women. If a man hires a prostitute - and thus monetarily supports the industry - then he either doesn't see the ways in which prostitution harms women or just doesn't care. Do you hold men to the same standard when it comes to their clot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women-How would you react if a sexually unsuccessful friend paid for sex?Might I ask what the difference is? Most women I know who object to men using sex workers do so because he may have potentially raped a trafficked woman, which I assume would also be grounds for endings friendship. So if it's not that, what is it that puts you off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/17 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Q4everyone: Does this count as sexual assault?Absolutely sexual assault. You're not crazy for being upset, and I'm sorry this happened to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Those feminist orgs. are the ones that influence the legal system. So? Plenty of things influence the legal system, and there's no evidence that feminist influence is anything other than positive. Its due to feminist activism that women are litrally getting away with murder, thats why there is a large discreprency in spousal murder rates. You're doing that thing again, where you provide no evidence and instead state claims as if they're facts murdering babies Not allowing a thing to live in your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/17 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?So I read the article Behind the clever facade of twitter feminists and social justice warriors you will find the true movers and shakers of the feminist movement calling themselves things like Women’s Legal Education and Action Fund (LEAF) or Canadian Association of Elizabeth Fry Societies (CAEFS) This has nothing to do with the case. He just goes off on a tangent, then returns to talking about the murders and provides no link between these supposedly shady feminist lawyers and the case in hand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/17 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Which is among other reasons why women kill their partners as often as men but the statistics say otherwise. You're just assuming this is true because you want it to be. You've no proof whatsoever. Feminists even tried to get serial killer Karla Hamolka off Source on this? Are you just saying feminists because you want to believe the people who did this were feminists? You've shown an insane amount of bias to support your prepreconceived notions, so I'm gonna need you to show me proof instead of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Do you believe a man should be able to murder his wife and then tell the courts without evidence that he felt fear and provided no evidence of previous abuse that he should get off? I do not believe such an extreme scenario is at all common. And I'm condoning a joke. Don't be dense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/17 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Germaine Greer was just one example of how these days women being with younger people is more socially acceptable than the other way around. Except she is not the wall respected figure you seem to think she is, so your point is irrelevant Sex in the city Does anyone even watch that show anymore? You can't compare Mad Men to Sex and the City, it'd be more accurate to compare it to Entourage or something like that. Besides, I'm pretty certain Don Draper is a sex symbol amongst women. You can't say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?If a man kills his wife and claims its because he felt fear and provides no evidence should he not be charged with murder? I don't think any abuse victim should be charged with murder if they were acting in defence. If a man laughed about the rape and murder of hillary clinton would you also support him? After all she and her husband is responsible for the deaths of 1000s of people. Firstly, in what way is Hillary responsible for her husband's actions as president? Secondly, it would depend on w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | In what ways is being married different to living with an LTR?Perhaps I misunderstood you. If your feelings were the same before marriage though, then what actually is the difference between your life now, and before you were married, and in what way did marriage change it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?you said its reasonable to murder men and then not be charged with murder because of a previous incident. You're trivializing again. 'Previous incident'. If you're living with a man who beats you and manipulates you, its reasonable to assume he'll do it again. It's reasonable to assume he might go too far and kill you one time. I've no sympathy for men who beat their wives and women who kill their husband's in self defence absolutely should not be charged with murder. And again, it's fucking Gad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?As far as I know, Germaine Greer is a TERF and has very little sway in modern intersectional feminism. And who considers Chuck Berry offensive? His millions of adoring fans, worldwide? Or the mainstream media, who praised him endlessly upon his death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 02:10 PM |
| 1 | In what ways is being married different to living with an LTR?I was confused about how you said you considered him family only after you were married. Like, were you not family the day before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you think women have it easier or harder than you?You have to worry about all other forms of violent crime, however I thought this discussion was only regarding dating inequalities. Besides, domestic violence affects women disproportionately. If you're on anti depressant meds, you're far from guaranteed an orgasm. That's true of both genders, but an extenuating circumstance like being on meds doesn't change the fact that women have a harder time getting off. No western government polices women. A tiny minority of western governments regard a fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/17 05:28 PM |
| 1 | In what ways is being married different to living with an LTR?Why don't people just treat their partner the exact same fucking way before and after getting married? This. The common answer seems to be because marriage and LTR's are different, but when you ask why it's different the only difference is how they treat each other. And when you ask why they treat each other different, they answer 'because marriage is different to an LTR'. It's a strange circular logic almost all of society buys into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/17 04:42 PM |
| 1 | In what ways is being married different to living with an LTR?Did you not consider your husband to be family the day beforw your wedding? Did your attitude towards him shift so significantly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/17 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: Do you think women have it easier or harder than you?I'm envious of how easily my female friends get laid, but if I was gay or bi I'd have it just as easy. But as a man I don't have to worry about rape to the extent a woman does I'm more or less guaranteed an orgasm any time I have sex The government doesn't police my body and sexual choices I don't get slut shamed There is a booming porn and prostitution market aimed at me I can increase my SMV and RMV in various ways. Women only have looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/17 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Would you srsly date/marry high n count woman?I like creative, artistic women. Adventurous, intelligent, liberal. I'm not averse to drug usage and I avoid the religious. I also spend 99% of my socialising in surroundings where alcohol is served, so I suppose I'm more likely to meet 'party' chicks, and I skirt the line between introvert and extrovert so roughly 50% of the people I know made the initial effort to get to know me, implying confidence and extroversion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/17 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Would you srsly date/marry high n count woman?Yes. Most of the women I've been most attracted to have been high n. I don't know whether that's coincidence, or if I'm attracted to traits that are more likely to lead to having a high n, but either way, it wouldn't stop me dating those women. Frankly, I'm more turned off by virgins or women with a low bodycount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/17 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (15 April 2017)I'm guessing you couldn't either. I had some rough ones in school. These days women are more polite about it, but I can't help if they're thinking the same thing but just don't say it anymore. My point being, I know exactly how bad rejection can be. But if you're being consistently rejected despite hitting on women in your league, then your personality is an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN How easy is it for you to find an interesting woman that's also physically attractive?Do you want or value a woman being interesting? Yes, absolutely. Our ability to have a conversation is one of my most important priorities in a relationship. How often do you find an interesting and physically attractive woman? Frequently. How often do you find an interesting woman that's not physically attractive? Less frequently. How often do you find an interesting woman that's incredibly physically attractive? I don't come across many incredibly attractive women, sadly. Why do you think it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe you are going to find a woman who is...feminine in mind and appearance Most women are this way low n I've no interest in women who haven't been around the block a few times traditional values Nah. I'm pretty progressive monogamous This isn't uncommon wifely attributes You mean like being able to cook and clean and shit? I can do that stuff, so yeah, I also expect a woman to be able to take care of herself doesn't want kids This is an absolute must. Wanting kids is my number one dealbreaker doesn't want marriage Can take or leave it d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: 'Curvy': Can technically overweight or obese women still be attractive to non-thirsty men? Where is your personal limit?She's obese? I'm into obese chicks then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (15 April 2017)Not being attractive to you doesn't mean they're not desirable in general. I'm not attracted to Nicki Minaj, that doesn't mean I'm out of her league. Tinder is also massively skewed in favour of women; my success rates on that app amount to one date and a few online conversations, whereas my offline pursuits have been more fruitful. There are plenty of women who are conventionally unattractive, they just slip under the radar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (15 April 2017)Ok then, what do you think the problem is? You don't think 3's ever get laid? You've never seen a 3 couple? Do you really think being a 3 disqualifies you from a relationship when that clearly isn't the case for various other 3's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: 'Curvy': Can technically overweight or obese women still be attractive to non-thirsty men? Where is your personal limit?I was just showing what body type I find attractive. Wasn't looking too much at their faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (15 April 2017)What I mean is, very few people in the world are incel because they're ugly. Ugly couples are everywhere. If you're incel, it's because they're boring, or weird, or shy, or deadbeats etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (15 April 2017)I don't doubt it. But I think there's far more men who just think they're 0/10 than actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: 'Curvy': Can technically overweight or obese women still be attractive to non-thirsty men? Where is your personal limit?I don't know much about BMI, but when I say obese I tend to mean women like this http://cdnimage.vishwagujarat.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Obese-women-at-40-percent-higher-cancer-risk.jpg I've always assumed this is what people mean by obese | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (15 April 2017)You think these Chad-types are all casanovas full of metaphorical whit and substance? Irrelevant. Chad can get away with a shitty personality, and even then, only sometimes, and with chicks below his league. If you want to LTR chicks on your own level, you need to have a good personality. Just because you're a 3, and the chick you're hitting on is a 3 as well, doesn't mean she'll want to be with you if you don't have any attractive inner qualities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (15 April 2017)How do you actually define personality? The same way everyone else does? It's not like I am immediately given a set of free 5 GF candidates to choose from. No. Nobody is. Not being given a free girlfriend doesn't make you incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: 'Curvy': Can technically overweight or obese women still be attractive to non-thirsty men? Where is your personal limit?OK, so I can't see the pics cos I don't have an account, but I love love LOVE chubby chicks. I exclusively watch amateur porn cos their bodies look more realistic, and the only reason I try and improve my own looks is so I can enter the casual sex game as a full time chubby chaser because I have a hard time finding curvy escorts in my area, which sucks. Even if I was a 10/10 Chad with Donald Trump money I would still be dating chicks like this. 1 2 3 4 5 6 All that said, I date for personality m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (15 April 2017)Leading on from my other point, what attributes do you think make a man utterly unsuitable for a relationship, and undesirable to 99% of women who are lookswise, in his league? If these problems cannot be fixed, or would take so long as to be unreasonable, what would your advice be to a man who has virtually no chance of ever experiencing romantic love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (15 April 2017)CMV: Being incel is entirely personality related. Numerous studies show that people partner up fairly young, with people of their own attractiveness level, and this is something that is confirmed by my day to day observations of ugly af guys with ugly af chicks. So it seems to me that in order to be incel based on looks alone, you would have to be so ugly that there is literally nobody at your level, or so few that you're unlikely to run into them. Imo it isn't difficult to get hard for a 5, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do you have any arbitrary standards that people would consider really specific?Cannot, and will not date somebody who has a belief in the supernatural that goes beyond a slight inkling that maybe ghosts exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Standin' over by the record machine Looking like a model On the cover of a magazine She's too cute to be a minute over seventeen -Chuck Berry, recently mourned in the national and international media You won't find a male version of samantha from sex in the city portrayed in pop culture https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=jay+and.gloria.modern.family&client=ms-android-samsung&source=android-browser&prmd=ivsn&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwj20qm2i53TAhXKDMAKHfNlAP0Q_AUICCgB&biw=320&bih=406#im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/17 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Are women getting off because they were 'hit a month ago'? Your arguments are nothing but conjecture, and now you're attempting to trivialize domestic violence. I'm bored of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/17 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Again you condoned Clinton celebrating the rape and murder of someone If anyone deserved it, he did. Have you never made an off colour joke in your life? Its true that men commit more violent crime. Men are under more economic and social pressure. Then men being the victims of violent crime is not the fault of feminism. It simply means the toxic gendered expectations on men need to be revised. Which, coincidentally, is exactly what modern feminism is doing. They said they did and if they say tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?A % get off scott free, another % use feminist defences, another group are acquitted. Nothing but conjecture. Being acquitted is not getting away with it. It means you're innocent as best we can tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/17 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Do you? Yeah, why not. I'm happy for anyone who punches above their weight. Coogers are celebrated in the media and society, men with younger women are seen as creepy and pathetic. This will be my last response. You have shown no willingness to debate this point, you just keep repeating it as if it's objective fact. You've made no effort to address my point that its mostly women who celebrate cougars, or that many men in high society have younger wives with no damage to their reputation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | A virgin or a non-virgin girlfriend ?I've met quite a few. They're all dull as dishwater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/17 06:28 PM |
| 2 | A virgin or a non-virgin girlfriend ?Whatever floats your boat man. Never been the dominant type myself, and I wonder why a woman over 21 would be a virgin. Does she even like sex that much? How do you know of she's into the same stuff as you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/17 06:21 PM |
| 3 | A virgin or a non-virgin girlfriend ?Non virgin. I want a woman with relationship and sexual experience. A woman who is clearly not prudish, and who is desirable. A woman who has options. A woman with stories, and who can teach me a thing or two. I want a woman who's had a few ONS's, FWB's, and boyfriends. Virgin girls bore me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/17 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Do most people aspire to a traditional marriage, with a working husband and a housewife?I've no interest in children, and for finance's same I'd like a partner who made at least some money. Household chores can be split between the two, I'm a functioning adult therefore I know how to clean a house and cook decent food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/17 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Christ the strawmanning is next level. I never said all men were in on this conspiracy. Most people are pretty complacent, and just kinda go with the way things are, especially if it's advantageous. It just so happens that the status quo is patriarchy, that's the way it's always been. But no, carry on believing that basic hormone differences affect complex social behaviours well beyond our animalistic nature. Whatever helps you justify misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/17 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?So which is it: are we still bound by stone age bio truths or has society changed? Society was built to serve men. This hasn't changed. What has changed is the means by which man dominate, i.e. politics and finance as opposed to brute strength. Where's the contradiction? Men built society alone? Man you really hate women don't you? Not gonna address the bait. If you think a gender that couldn't vote or own property was equally responsible for establishing the very conventions they were excluded … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Proof: Men have prefer average women over beautiful womenThat second girl is easily an 8, and a strong 9.5 in the last photo. She's far from average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/17 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Which is why society is run by virile pool boys and not decrepit old rich dudes. If you haven't noticed, society has changed somewhat since it's formation, and brute strength is no longer the currency of the land. I'm just suggesting that a society originally built by men may continue to serve men. Most primitive cultures were patriarchal because of this, and until feminism, there was little pressure to deviate from the original formula. Fortunately no one said that. So we're safe from that part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/17 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Not necessarily. I'm not going to delve into the formation of human society as I wasn't there and I know little of history or anthropology, but it doesn't seem outlandish to me that the group who initially had the power based on their brute strength and superior size/speed, when engineering more complex societies, would ensure that they held on to their privileged positions. Besides, if lack of testosterone is to blame for women not being arsed enough to get into politics, by that same logic wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Testosterone and estrogen hae very little tangible effect on our complex behaviours in the modern world. In what way would estrogen make women think 'Hmm guess I won't be a politician'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Ah fair. I stopped paying attention to her after she joked about assaulting her sister and season 2 of Girls sucked. Inonly mentioned her because I saw her on Travel Man recently and she was oddly charming; figured she was still around. How long before we drop Beyonce for the same shit? (Minus the whiteness) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?When its men with younger women its seen as creepy, when its women with younger men its celebrated. You can keep saying this, but that doesn't make it true. Men celebrate other men hooking up with younger women. Society as a whole treats it as more normal. You just don't care about that, you only care about the opinions of women, so you assume they're the only opinions that exist. In the real world, as many people are likely to high 5 you as they are shame you for having a younger wife. The Pres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Do you believe there are biological differences between the sexes? Very few of relevance in the modern age. Our society has evolved well beyond the parameters of our basic nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?A % get off scot free. The acquital rate is much higher for women Acquital is not the same as getting off Scot Free. That just means they didn't do it. You're assuming that did it; guilty until proven innocent eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?But earlier you condoned a political leader laughing about a man who was raped to death with a knife. Yeah, I did. Gaddafi was an evil dictator and I couldn't care less how he died. Having a sense of humour you find inappropriate doesn't make me closed minded. The two have nothing to do with each other. Interesting blog. I don't think it says much I didn't already know. Firstly, it says nothing about getting away with it. It says that women are found innocent more often. You're basing you're ass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 07:10 PM |
| 3 | [Q4 BP and Feminists] What is your solution for men who have trouble with women?Step 1-Identify the problem Is your problem looks? Either improve them or LTR someone in your own league. Are you white? Move to Asia. Make money to compensate for your looks, though be aware you will be entering a shallow relationship. Maybe your problem is your social group. Make new friends who will introduce you to women. Go to places women are and talk to them. Online date, paid and unpaid sites. Find hobbies you enjoy but that aren't total sausage tests. If you live in a town with 200 peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Even if I believed you, are you suggesting there's no underlying social reasons women lack this ambition? 'Don't be a politician' is just codified in the 2nd X chromosome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 08:08 AM |
| 1 | The Body Positivity Movement Is a Microcosm of What Feminism Is AboutI'll hold my hands up right now, as a leftie feminist and say that aside from a couple of sketches and a Comedy Central roast (can't remember who for) I don't find her funny. I think there's far more talented female comedians who should be given her spotlight. But let's not pretend she doesn't have huge amounts of criticism because she's chubby at worst. I can't remember ever hearing people suggest that Kevin James, Adam Sandler, Rob Schneider etc shouldn't be in movies because of their aestheti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/17 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Care to list all the female presidents of the U.S.? How about all the Senators and Congresswomen currently working, or world leaders in general (Theresa May doesn't count, she never won an election) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/17 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?And I don't think there's anyway a woman could ever be in Trump's unique position. Imagine if the far left ran Beyonce or Lena Dunham as their candidate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/17 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?No. I didn't say that. I was arguing the point that criticising a woman isn't political suicide, but that's now irrelevant as it turns out I misunderstood what the guy was saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/17 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Indeed. But it's generally not part of polite political discourse to throw out insults like that. That was my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (25 March 2017)Are the laws gendered? You didn't answer my question. It's perfectly reasonable, for what I assume to be a government owned public transport service, to enforce laws regarding how much room an individual can take up. It's also reasonable for them to advertise this law through posters, even if the end result was a little tasteless. The government has created GENDERED propaganda that demonizes men using a slur called "man-speading." Is it really a slur? It's something a bunch of women said happene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?No, it's not irrelevant. Men can still be respectable with younger wives. Women can't. You contantly parroting a falsehood doesn't make it so. The fact remains, very few men judge a man for having a younger wife, and many men do judge a woman for the same, which is why toyboys are nowhere near as accepted in society as trophy wives. You have made exactly the same custody argument twice. And you have failed to disprove it. Just waxed lyrical about legal privilege with no evidence to support this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Fair, I misunderstood you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Oh please. Women get lower sentences, sure, but they don't get off Scot free. The charges and trials and convictions would still be in record. Face it, you're wrong. But I don't think you're the type to change your mind when presented with new information | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?'I know where to find it, but I won't show you. It exists though, totally'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?I was just saying that criticising a woman is not political suicide, given that he called her any number of names throughout the campaign, in a manner that went well beyond professional criticism. Nasty woman was one example, he also called her a felon, crooked, the 2nd founder of ISIS. I don't seem to recall any particular gendered criticisms on his part, though if anyone else does I'll stand corrected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?2 totally different campaigns. People voted for Hillary because she seemed the more 'reasonable' candidate. This time last year, we didn't live in a world where populists won presidencies. She beat Bernie among Dem voters, but amidst the general populace, Republicans were more excited for Trump and he won over swing states. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?He claims to be, and that's enough for the Evangelical right. A guy who claims to be a Christian and is tough on abortion/LGBT+ rights can get away with all the promiscuity and hypocrisy in the world. Meanwhile, an atheist who embodies the core teachings of Jesus is a heathen and will cause the downfall of America. There's a reason Trump made up Bible verses and lied about his religion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 05:28 PM |
| 1 | The Body Positivity Movement Is a Microcosm of What Feminism Is AboutGuys tend to avoid hitting on women taller than them for the reasons you outlined. Women who are taller than most men aren't going to get hit on very often. And dating someone with a full foot height difference is impractical as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?So why did he get so popular then? Partly because the GOP didn't attack him whatsoever so they could use him to split the Democrat base. Partly because change is one of the things that gets people to the polls; it worked for Obama, it worked for Trump. I don't think a huge majority of Americans hate socialists or non Christians, but your media and your political systems do. If we're basing sexism off hypotheticals nothing can really be proved here. No, I was just saying that when you compare the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?That would be political suicide. 'What a nasty lady' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Bernie Sanders is a self admitted socialist, and not a Christian. Those are pretty much the worst things you can be in American politics. The real question is, would a female, Jewish, socialist have come anywhere close to the nomination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (25 March 2017)I said its not a huge deal nor do people make a huge deal out of it. I can see why people might be a little annoyed about it though. New York made posters Oh the humanity... You realise anyone can buy a billboard or some other public space, right? Seriously though, that's functioning democracy. You lobby for something, you get it. Does that law affect men specifically, or is it just a general decency law regarding conduct on public transport? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?you are too determined to paint women and men in traditional stereotypes and have lots of bad information. Nope. coogers Cougars. You're seeing what you want to see. How many men cheer on cougars? How many respectable women are married to men half their age? Hillary Clinton openly laughed about Gadaffi being raped and murdered with a knife. She got a free pass. The murderous dicatator? Yeah, I'll give her a pass for that one too. And a large study showed that female candidates get an easier ride… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 02:55 PM |
| 1 | The Body Positivity Movement Is a Microcosm of What Feminism Is AboutYou can hide anything, I didn't think that was the point. You can hide a small dick, big belly, you can wear boots and add a couple of inches to your height. Sympathy isn't attraction. Baldness is far more acceptable in men, which is probably why it's also more acceptable to mock wig wearing men (not that I approve of this). And tall women are the equivalent of short men. Women are generally shorter than men, so all men need to do is date a few inches shorter and there's no problem. Even if you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (25 March 2017)Nah. Did the world ever take cat ladies seriously, or great spinsters with anything other than contempt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (25 March 2017)Fucking sexist air conditioning, manspreading, 99% of the time I hear about these things, it's anti fems complaining about what they think, or want people to think feminism is about. I'm very involved in feminist circles, both online and in real life. I've never heard people talk about manspreading in a serious context. And as for the air con thing, I can see why it would be annoying to have a multi gendered office accommodate the temperature for only half the workers, though women aren't genera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 02:29 PM |
| 6 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Can you demonstrate that there were legitimate, electable female alternatives to most elected officials, and that if there were, that they weren't subject to additional criticism and smear campaigns because of their gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?The celebrated cooger has come near entirely from female media. Meanwhile an older man with a twenty year old is a pariah in society. Literally my point. Women celebrate older women snagging younger men. Men celebrate older men snagging younger women. Imagine for a second, if Hillary Clinton was on her 3rd marriage to a man half her age, admitted to grabbing dudes cocks whenever she felt like it and sneaking into younger men's dressing rooms for lolz. We make infinitely more passes for male sexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 02:20 PM |
| 8 | CMV it is perfectly okay for me to not care for anyone who is not my concernIt is perfectly okay to be rp and be ambivalent towards the well being of others I do not care for. Especially when I dont see any real damage and the only suggestion of damage is what I read online You say you don't give a fuck about others, but then you also say that you don't believe you're hurting others. Which is it? I can't help but wonder if maybe you do feel bad, and want others to confirm that you haven't actually done anything wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 01:35 PM |
| 2 | The Body Positivity Movement Is a Microcosm of What Feminism Is AboutIf a feminist came on here saying the way society values looks over everything else is a form of oppression, they'd be laughed out of here. But once you suggest women are getting help for this issue and maybe men aren't, all of a sudden the meninists give a fuck. Total hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 12:09 PM |
| 6 | The Body Positivity Movement Is a Microcosm of What Feminism Is AboutWhat about saggy tits? Flat chest? Cellulite? Stretchmarks? Baldness can affect women, and is seen as far more unattractive. There are also plenty of men who find women being too tall a turnoff, and same for unusually short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 12:07 PM |
| 6 | The Body Positivity Movement Is a Microcosm of What Feminism Is Aboutls? Where are the sex symbols with the beer guts? Y'all missed the whole dad bod thing then? Plus, I daresay body positivity isn't about saying 'you should be attracted to such and such', rather 'there's nothing inherently wrong with looking like such and such and she shouldn't be shamed or harrassed'. Kevin James has been a successful comedian for years despite his obesity. Amy Schumer has a few extra pounds and everyone loses their minds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Should a man tell his partner he used to pay for sex?Tried that. No dice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/17 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Older women with younger men are lauded By women, but not men when its men they are shamed. By women, but not men. Seems to me people like to see their own gender bat out of their league because it gives them hope. Whatever issue you can mention, women are less oppressed by it. Abortion rights, Birth Control rights, pay gap, political representation, media representation, FGM, rape culture, cross gender violence, lack of respect in general. Plus, it hasn't even been 100 years in the UK since wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Should a man tell his partner he used to pay for sex?Yes, obviously. Dishonest: Behaving in a deceitful way. Intended to mislead or cheat. Do you think not disclosing information is the same as ontentionally withholding or lying if asked? What if the information would have no bearing on your relationship? I.e. a guy doesn't want a high n count woman because they think it makes her more likely to cheat, but if she knows she isn't then does she really need to disclose that information so her partner can come to a potentially false conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/17 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: When it comes to a LTR, would you rather date a 5 or 6 with a nice personality, or a 9 or 10 bitch?Not at all what I said. There's a huge gap between anorexia and obesity, and the overwhelming majority of people fall into it. Could be slim, toned, muscular, chubby, curvy, fat, large breasts, flat chest, round arse, flat arse etc... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Isn't men complaining that feminism doesn't care about mens rights and issues just as stupid, offensive and selfish as a white person complaining about any ethnic rights groups not caring about white people issues?In what way does feminism police male dating choices? It tries to break down the shaming of assertive, promiscuous, and bigger women, in the same way it tries to break down the stigmas against non masculine and sexually unsucessful men. Feminists recognise a problem in society and try to fix it by changing attitudes. You're saying they should just accept the problem and date people they don't personally want, so that these men can be vindicated by a problematic system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/17 12:47 PM |
| 0 | Isn't men complaining that feminism doesn't care about mens rights and issues just as stupid, offensive and selfish as a white person complaining about any ethnic rights groups not caring about white people issues?A long as it fits within a rigid box. Heaven forbid one steps out of it. Does stepping out of that box include expressing your emotions in violent, angry ways? Does it include bitterness or hatred against women for their dating choices? Because those are just about the only expressions of emotion that feminists (and most people would deem unreasonable). You can support masculine outlets for emotion without thinking Elliot Rodger had a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/17 12:44 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: When it comes to a LTR, would you rather date a 5 or 6 with a nice personality, or a 9 or 10 bitch?Strange, I'm the total opposite. As long as they're not stick thin or obese, body means little to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/17 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: When it comes to a LTR, would you rather date a 5 or 6 with a nice personality, or a 9 or 10 bitch?Do you mean my personal 6, or what people would generally consider to be a 6? I happen to find Chelsea Clinton very attractive, and her mum isn't so bad either. I'd take them both over Melania or Ivanka. I can imagine my personal 9 being most people's 6. But leaving that aside, yes, as long as there's a base level of attraction, personality counts for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/17 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?And most people, even mras, that call for support for male shelters dont call for them at the expense of aid for women. You're arguing a point I'm not making. Someone said that equality comes at the expense of the privileged, and used DV shelters as an example. I then retorted that it's possible to equalise the number of male and female DV shelters without reducing the number of female shelters. At no point in this discussion have I proposed not building men's shelters because it would be harmfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 06:50 PM |
| 4 | QuestionForBP: Which parts of The Red Pill do you disagree with?I disagree with the notions that: -Money is attractive to women. Your ass is just getting used, son. -Women have an easier time finding LTR's -Attraction is objective -AF/BB is a common dating strategy, and that most women are not attracted to their husbands but long for the Chad dick of yesteryear. -AWALT is a healthy mindset -Women are the oldest kids in the house -Women don't like altruism -Hypergamy exists -Chad is fucking anything below a 6 if it isn't for a bet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?I keep hearing this ides that men want to close down women's shelters but frankly i haven't even the most vile anti woman portions of the mrm say anything like that. I never said they did (though that's what the guy above me was proposing). My whole point was that equality doesn't need to come at the expense of others, and I used as an example how we can address male DV victims without cutting funds for female victims. So the fact that she is a primary caregiver mitigates the fact that she commi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Your information is wrong. Men cannot compete with female legal privilege, so only very wealthy men can disagree with what women want in the family court. Men actually beat women in family court cases more than half the time. It's just that in over 91% of cases the parents decide out of court to give the mother primary caregiver status. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/1617115 http://handaxe.tumblr.com/post/89677588375/but-women-get-unfair-advantages-in-custody Female sexuality is not more oppress… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?The difference is, I am not claiming women are children with no agency, unable to do or think the wrong thing of their own accord, nor am I denying the micro level impact of women in everyday life. I'm simply acknowledging the reality that our society, customs, laws, religions, academia, media, and government were designed and are ruled predominantly by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?I literally said women share in the responsibility, as does every individual, man, woman, or anything in between, including yourself. They just do so to a neglible extent. It is society as a whole that influences people the strongest, and society was shaped by, and is ruled by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 11:33 AM |
| 5 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?For example female only domestic violence shelters get almost all of the funding. If things were made more equal they would only get 50%. That doesn't mean we need to close down female DV shelters though. It just means we need more money. Women have been very successful in starting up DV charities and lobbying the government for funding, we should take a leaf out of their book, rather than demand half of the shelters they've built for themselves. Woman get sentenced to 60% less time in jail than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Because feminism is advocacy for women. Even at the expense of men. First of all I disagree with this, secondly you missed my point exactly. I never said what feminists are doing is right (although it is), what I said was either feminists are right about there being a patriarchy or they're not. Given that there's dozens of men's groups that deny the existence of.the patriarchy, why shouldn't there be one that doesn't? I can agree with the problems Marx saw in society without thinking communism i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?You're confusing micro and macro level social influences. Sure, women do messed up stuff as a result of their gender roles, as do men. But society as a whole was shaped by men. Therefore while individual women share some responsibility for the prevalence of toxic male gender roles, it is predominantly a larger scale social problem, and given that most of our politicians, celebrities, artists, religious leaders, and professors are men, most of the blame lies not on men, but the world men created. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Would You LTR This Woman?I would do it if the kid was of an age where s/he was about to move out, and she had no desire to have any more. Sadly, this would mean she would need to be 10 years older than me at minimum, and that in itself presents problems. Still, if she was that perfect, I might overlook the age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 10:33 AM |
| 4 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?And what's so wrong about this? Equality and social standing aren't pies, where the more some people have, the less there is for others. It's entirely possible to fix the problems men face without having to drag women down, just as black people can increase their standing in society without it having to be at the expense of Jews. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 03:19 AM |
| 0 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Except those speakers who claim to be talking about men's issues are generally anti feminist misogynists. The KKK aren't technically an anti black group, they're a pro white group. Still doesn't mean black people should happily allow them to spread ill in society just because under certian circumstances in certain places, it might be worse to be white. What I'm saying is, just because you claim to be representing a good cause, doesn't mean you are. T | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Oil and Solar Power are at complete odds with one another, there is no common ground for them to share. On the other hand, despite what you may have discerned from r/tumblrinaction, there is no reason male and female issues cannot be solved side by side. Either feminist theory is true or it isn't, why shouldn't there be a mens group that works within that framework? Women gaining more rights does nothing to take them away from men you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Since we've established that feminism isn't concerned with solving men's issues, what's the point of /r/Menslib?Firstly, I and many other feminiss would disagree with the notion that feminism has no desire to help men. Feminist groups have done many things to help men in general, and more specifically marginalised men i.e. men of colour, LGBT men etc. But in answer to your question, the point is for there to be a movement that focuses on negative male gender roles, toxic masculinity, and our own negative experiences of the patriarchy. It exists to be a helpful place for men that operates within a feminist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 03:08 AM |
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