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DiscussionKey-Faithlessness-29/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:45 PM
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This. Many guys love to feel the power gap especially during sex. It strokes their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:16 AM
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But many of the younger girls are pursuing men twice their age. When I was in high school or college most girls my age are always behind men who are 28-30+ and never want to date me their age
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:24 AM
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Men should not want women as much then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:20 AM
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You are so close honey
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:20 AM
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Hey I don't date or approach women ever so yeah it is working for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:19 AM
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Men should learn to control or find some alternative where they don't lose their self respect for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:18 AM
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Yeah this might be good for society too cause insecure women who need validation will be shut down too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:18 AM
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This is soo true I second this. The ingroup bias women have is unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:15 AM
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Lowkey men should collectively start doing this so that women will understand how this looks on the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:34 AM
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That's not an issue that's just you being a gooner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:40 PM
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Many women can "CHOOSE NOT TO GIVE BIRTH" Many women "CHOOSE NOT TO ADHERE TO PATRIARCHAL GENDER ROLES BUT ENFORCE IT ON MEN" many women do it because they see men as worthless and only a resource machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:32 AM
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It can range from shaming them to whole ass claiming to abortion of a child the moment it is revealed it is a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:27 AM
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Honey every mainstream media, social media, public space outlets all are loudly voiced by women who hate men (yes including their family members some of what is deserved because of abuse in the past but refusing to see any man as good is problematic)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:26 AM
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She is saying the simplest of things. Don't put all the burden of your socialization on your girlfriend. If most men don't even know what to talk about or do with friends that is a much bigger issue. And why are men always complaining about male loneliness if they don't even want friends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:21 AM
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Feminists actually wanted to dismantle the gender roles and were almost successful in its course on a social level to some degree but the movement was thrown back 100 steps thanks to radical young girls who identify themselves as feminists who also uphold the patriarchy when it's convenient for them. These girls have nothing but hate for men and will do anything to make them suffer. Feminists not calling them out caused this movement to turn many men against feminism and go down the alt right wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:34 AM
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I believe he has a point because as a feminist myself it becomes increasingly hard to support women who hate and try to kick me out of the feminist movement. Women actively hating all men including men who are trying to help fight for their rights would make it very difficult to support women's rights and feminist movement. And whatever you claim to say, you cannot say that this is not true. How can I support feminism when they refuse to even acknowledge the men who help them and lump them into …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:26 AM
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Dismantling of gender roles which also includes male gender roles which could be soo good and relaxing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:23 AM
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He looks like a sex offender
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:47 AM
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They view penetrated as feminine and dominance as masculine. The hate of this feminine and preferences for masculine is misogyny. This issue is deep rooted misogyny and women can't seem to accept or realise this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:39 AM
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"these men" like we were even alive or had an opinion on these things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:37 AM
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Even the staunchest of liberal women still look down on men embracing femininity enough to not date them and view men are dirty or effiminate for having sex with men. These are patriarchal ideals and women seem to have no problem upholding patriarchy when they want it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:25 AM
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Watch how fast a woman calls a man gay for not doing what she wants along the lines of a traditional man. Women who call men princesses for demanding bare minimum treatment back from their girlfriends. Women who demand men to pay for all things cause "that's what men do" Women who hate on men who take care of themselves and post themselves on social media Women who want their men making more money than them They are all perpetuating the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:21 AM
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Strawman argument
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:18 AM
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why do you expect men to chase women? do you get off the ego from men acting desperate to have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:03 PM
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I think the inherent flaw in this argument is that women think they are above mentioned and deserve better treatment just because they are women and superior to men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:22 AM
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This the same as those anime waifu body pillow using nerds saying 2d girls better than 3rd girls shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:52 PM
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women hate dating bi men because women hate to date someone with endless options like them. bi men know they can get a man anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:55 AM
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You are gonna see a bunch of men arguing and screaming at you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:58 AM
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Women above 30 are very beautiful. Women age better than men most of the time. Its just that most men are pedos who control the narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:56 AM
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You think very wrong buddy. Men absolutely do this and if legality wasn't an issue you will have multiple men defending this too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:54 AM
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Dude literally said young women are hot. Bro is a pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:51 AM
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i would love to date a promiscuous woman. yall are just puritan misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:03 AM
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Not really I am a feminist dude and I absolutely do support sexually liberated girls and i would love to date one (I have dated plenty in the past. My longest healthy relationship was with one.) I don't judge women for having sex with people because they are humans and as humans they have the right to like and have sex as much as us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:28 PM
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bro i am a feminist, i recognize women experience a lot of struggle in the world and their lives are constantly under threat from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:13 PM
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in school it was very brutal. they used to throw his things around, put smelly disgusting things in his locker, stuck weird notes on his backs and made sure any girl or guy interacting with them were considered socially outcasts (as they held a lot of social power as pretty girls. all guys would ignore him because they don't want to be seen as creepy by those girls and all girls will ignore him because for some reason all girls side together) in work places and all its much more subtle. they mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:12 PM
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everyone of my relationships and hookups began because the woman approached me. I never had to approach women nor will I ever. Approaching women to me is some beta male shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:07 PM
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idk if this is satire but if it isn't then i wish all women who say "always a man" see this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:06 AM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:03 AM
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wrong. i have been approached directly twice or thrice for hookups but for relationships its as you said they will do that plausible deniability where they can pull both "i didn't mean that" or "i tried" cards. this is a pathetic way to not get rejected and save their fragile ego. but they do ask you out for relationships if you send them signals that you like them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:02 AM
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All of my relationships and hookups were from women approaching me. but by approaching i mean they come up and talk to me, build a friendship and slow burn their way into asking me out. so ig so far along the lines of 13-14 and i am 22 so thats the average
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:59 AM
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i do have consistent success with women. i never have approached them and i never will. idk its kind of an ego thing with me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:54 AM
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most men vehemently hate feminists. so why should they side with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:53 AM
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women are rude to men not just for approaching. lol everyday from workplace to daily life women are bullies to men especially if they are ugly for simply existing. many of my friends who aren't that good in the looks department have been bullied and are still experiencing prejudice in work places by women and women alone. women uphold pretty privilege and deem most men ugly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:52 AM
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this, I have been saying this for so long. male beauty standards are like a pyramid with the top 1% to which women exhibit raw attraction. its all genetical features too which are immutable. where as for women it is a spectrum with a wide array of types for each man. even biologically really ugly women can still elevate their beauty with a bit of dedication and efforts. (makeup and exercise)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:48 AM
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it will go back to those dark misogynistic ages where women were controlled and a their freedom will be taken away. Abrahamic religious rules will come into control and rights of women will vanish. this will lead to the strengthening of the patriarchy. this is what happens if misandry keeps rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:53 AM
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you assumed that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:49 AM
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it is more of like "don't be a misandrist or else"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:48 AM
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Lots and LOTS of women say looks aren't important that's all they say almost always
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:40 AM
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That is not the feminist approach lmao. That's simping approach. Feminism has nothing to do with you siding with women when they are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:39 AM
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I completely disagree with this and I do perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:38 AM
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Keep up the queen energy lady, you rock
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:14 AM
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that is such a pathetic scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:31 AM
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depends on the women tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:31 AM
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this has nothing to do with feminism buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:17 AM
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> Us tall book nerds are somewhat close to their fantasy character, but the real winner is still the tall muscular guy who looks like Brad Pitt. those are varied preference for each each women. some prefer the former some prefer the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:12 AM
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they don't like to reassure men they find insecurities in us icky. (meanwhile the same women will demand hours and years of reassuring and anything less is considered a huge red flag which other women will instigate to leave him)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:07 AM
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why are all of women's attraction based on immutable features when they constantly parrot they only care about "personality"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:05 AM
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>Confidence is so attractive this is more along the lines of, "the guys i find attractive are confident and not insecure so that i don't have to reassure them if they are having any insecurities, yet humble enough to know his place" (or else he is a cocky fuckboy who all the girls will join and call him ugly)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:03 AM
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because they are the only men women exhibit raw attraction towards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:12 AM
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would she chase him if she saw him in a bar and approach him? will she initiate sex most of the time and buy gifts for him? does she really have a crush on him even after marriage? if so then okay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:27 PM
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ong he sounds dangerous and misogynistic. men like those guys should never be left near a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:53 AM
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ugly people may be married but is there any attraction towards the husband from the wife? a woman will marry a man for his stability or life or romance doesn't mean she is attracted to him and when she is the dynamics completely change. unless you had women being attracted to you and not simply give you a chance, you'd know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:49 AM
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but women almost all of them find the usual same attributes attractive. And almost all of it are immutable genetic factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:59 AM
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you forgot to add that female beauty is a spectrum which means various women with various features are attractive to different man and beauty is incredibly easy to achieve for a woman. Where as male beauty is a spectrum with the top 1% being the most attractive and most of it are genetic attributes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:57 AM
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I hope you never get these buddy. Hope no woman will ever stoop to these rotten standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:00 AM
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Ended this sub with that one line. This is all there is to know about women for all men without any dating experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:49 AM
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Same to say for you too. Most of your claims can be debunked with a simple "choose better men"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:52 AM
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You gotta be joking or hopelessly delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:51 AM
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Then by your logic it's most men who are doing all of the emotional labour. Most women behave like overgrown children in relationships. And most men spend their energy babying them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:39 AM
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Every single relationship I've seen has women being childish bitchy and bratty with no emotional intelligence and the man doing all of the emotional labour of the relationship. So i would say you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:38 AM
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they were taught wrong then. and i thought women dont want a man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:42 AM
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women who are courageous to approach are soo hot fr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:39 AM
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From what I've seen it's mostly women who do that. And they justify it too saying a real man should take it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:51 AM
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Absolutely wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:04 AM
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a lot of men joining on this (including powerful men) will change this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:48 AM
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Every woman who claims to be progressive and liberal will always use gay as an insult when a man rejects them or doesn't pretend to find a woman pretty. They use it as an insult because they know deep down that they are repulsed by gay men or men they deem as not masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:42 AM
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I have been saying this for the longest time and lemme tell you. No man will ever drop their standards because there is no in group bias for men like there is for women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:58 AM
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Seems like women never seem to have that kind of confidence in their lives lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:57 AM
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Okay you are retarded sorry for engaging in a Convo with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:30 AM
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What kind of a deranged individual are you man? Sex can be damaging to her why can't you have basic empathy or humanity. What you are proposing is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:37 AM
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You owe everyone respect till they break it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:34 AM
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All my friends are feminists and I love them for that wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:23 AM
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Yeah or else bisexual people can never be friends with anyone then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:22 AM
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Why would you wanna have sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you. Lord have mercy that's what is wrong with u. A good friend must respect the other friend's consent and wishes or else what kind of a friend are you? Sex isn't like money that you give from what you have its something two people in love share connecting their bodies. You can't just expect someone to give you sex when it may threaten or damage them. A good friend doesn't expect this from their friends no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:20 AM
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Those are the only men women acknowledge as human. The female brain doesn't see ugly men as human beings or let alone as living beings at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:56 AM
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Bro you are moving goal posts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:27 AM
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Men have an instinct to take care of/provide for women Yeah no its just brainwashing from childhood. I am a man and no hell no I don wanna take care of a grown ass adult just because of their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:05 PM
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When did I say being falsely accused is worse than rape
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:56 AM
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That is a completely stupid analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:54 AM
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Which is least important in a relationship if you see women as a human being person like yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:53 AM
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Hey I'm not disagreeing but soon enough at one point in their age they will realise this is futile but men don't that's my point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:52 AM
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That's because you let them that's what the comment is saying. If all men refused to date women who demanded that then it would stop real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:16 PM
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but women want to have their cake and eat it too, and they control dating, so they make the rules. Because men are their biggest enablers. If men had a solidarity like women did then this shi won't fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:14 PM
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Men don't understand picking good traits such as how they are treated or how good their partners love them. They believe good qualities to be virgins and looking thin and that's the problem with MEN largely
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:37 PM
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A man who does anything a woman needs/wants for her convience and expects nothing back is what a real man is to women. Also add up the physical traits without whom they'd disqualify him immediately as he is not good looking enough to help. Honestly it's just something people in power (nowadays some women) use to manipulate men who are insecure of their masculinity (that is most men these days) it also has a way of upholding toxic masculinity and a leading cause of rash behaviour and violence amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:53 AM
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Its weird how almost all women are completely unable to see men in a victimized position ever in any scenario. They almost always assume women as the victims unless the attacker is also a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:05 AM
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What if he had said another day and she was just adamant?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:42 AM
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Women would take someone who'd worship her and she was unattractive than someone who is attractive than her and doesn't treat her like she wants to be treated (unless she is young and naive)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:36 AM
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I'd rather be single than be with a woman who doesn't want me. Most men should adopt this mindset. Always be with a woman who loves you more than a woman who you love because women will replace you if she doesn't value you. If a woman doesn't chase you or buy gifts and pay for you then she doesn't want you because women would do all these for a man she loves. I'm in a happy relationship with my girlfriend and we love each other and she was the one who asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:30 AM
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A guy that needs sex will automatically be undesirable for women too. It's a catch up to 22 situation. Once you get into a relationship you'll start getting more and more women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:52 AM
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That's the problem. Men gotta stop approaching altogether for the system to change and for that men need solidarity, a brotherhood for other men instead of seeing them as competition. Women have that that's why the dating system is at their feet. Men Don't It's that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:50 AM
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If you have interest in a man will you make a move on him? I am curious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:08 AM
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Neither will they ever get as long as they realise the togetherness women have for each other transcending everything is what their biggest strength is and if you as man want to change the unfair dating rules, you gotta start sticking up for other men instead of making dating a competition. Most men aren't mature enough to understand this concept and NOT THINK WITH THEIR DICKS for a short while.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:21 AM
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Men were raised to be simps clothes in grandeur with the world gentleman and chivalrous by women. Pathetic men are desperate for women's attention and time, women have a sense of togetherness with which they control the narrative of what type of man they want. They create the narrative that someone who puts in all thr work and doesn't ever ask for anything back is a true man and every single man on earth jumps on the bandwagon and believe it try to enforce it, even make it their standard of masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:18 AM
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Yes true absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:16 AM
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You genuinely scare me dude. Your incel mindset is really a threat for society and the fact that more ppl like you exist is genuinely scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:40 AM
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Men like you ruin the male victim's voice. Your loser ass is actually destroying the lives of actual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:39 AM
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Emotional pleasure is still pleasure nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:25 AM
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Girls girl also vehemently hate men especially their friends boyfriends. They wholeheartedly believe no man deserves any woman and stuff like that. But honestly yeah. I hope one day men will be as United as to be like girls. Supporting other men and not competing in everything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:52 PM
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They are invading dating spaces and women's spaces spitting their nonsense and being loud. Even if they are a minority they are becoming a loud minority and young naive aimless boys follow them because "it is masculine"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:16 AM
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There is no right thing that isn't hedonist in a relationship. The entire point is to find happiness and pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:11 AM
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Its always that way. Women are soo quick to jump and explain how society expects them to have kids and marry but usually they are the ones pushing for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:39 AM
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Also i absolutely hate what he said but lots of women are hypocrites in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:25 AM
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You are an exception not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:24 AM
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Not in a hateful way but I have usually observed the women who absolutely hate boys who are violent and involved in dangerous things and love boys who are calm and soft are usually bi or queer in some way. IME Most straight women to some degree do love dangerous men deep down subconsciously and Bi women have not shown these much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:22 AM
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I did not follow his advice this was how I am way before this dude posted this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:20 AM
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I practice what he preached and it works out very well for me. Ever since I stopped approaching women altogether and stopped buying and paying for everything, the dynamics shifted in my favour
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:00 AM
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You make a very valid point but you underestimate the stupidity of these men. they cannot see beyond their horniness even hypothetically for this change to come
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:58 AM
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The R in your red pill stands for retardum ig, No girl will ever be attracted to elon musk if not for his wealth. His intelligence being attractive is cancelled out By his sexist nature and bad social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:13 AM
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Hey i kinda see the vision......
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:46 AM
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Are you by any chance queer or belong to the LGBTQ community?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:38 AM
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Almost all women have at least once dated a drug dealer. And they knew what he was too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:39 AM
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You'd see something with the genders reversed and you'd clap your hands and say hurray. Women just hate men being treated well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:36 AM
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I am a man and lemme tell you. You are terribly wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:48 AM
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Maybe he doesn't like to stand up and ask for a date. Asking for a date is the most unmasculine thing ever to me. Just because you can doesn't mean you want to. Why don't most women cultivate that skill or do they not want men as much as men want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:48 AM
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Masculinity doesn't mean being able to do things and femininity doesn't mean being a lazy overgrown child who is incapable of doing anything. Gender roles are tools of patriarchy and you can't nitpick what to have and what not to have
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:43 PM
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You cannot be more wrong. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:42 PM
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You also weren't made to share braindead opinions on a plastic box connected to a large server. Humans weren't made to use reddit or the internet that doesn't mean you throw all technology away and live in the woods. See how dumb your point gets
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:40 PM
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"The bar is in hell.." is only a thing for attractive guys. For guys who are judged by their personalities they are given a chance with every step made to make them lose. If she likes you finds you physically attractive you can virtually do anything where as if your personality is what she finds attractive a single misstep will be an ick and the bar will be out of the moon
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:38 PM
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You can always become confident and charismatic but you can never grow taller or become more handsome as a man. And moreover with height and attractiveness comes confidence and with confidence comes charisma. The absence of height and attractiveness will make you a creepy incel. Even though you have charisma and charm you'd be called a short napoleon complex man and ugliness will make girls call you a creep if you try to be charismatic. So it's best to get the qualities people don't have and try…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:34 PM
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This means our point is stupid because every woman will be treated like she is attractive but not every man will be treated like he is attractive. Women abuse pretty privilege Its more of a women's thing. Most men cannot get away with being hot after doing shit. Its only awarded to the cream of the crop men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:33 PM
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No we don't but many of our friends who are girls suggest it to my girlfriend hoping to smash her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:32 PM
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This is kinda wise but still not smart to trade height cause taller men will be considered more assertive and masculine eligible for leadership position
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:30 PM
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As a dude I'd be less devastated if she fucked a guy ong. My girlfriend is bi and women bond with women more. I could care less of a guy she fucked cause she wouldn't be into him the way she will be into another girl and most girls love the average woman than the closest man to her. It would hurt me beyond hell if i found out she loved a woman cause i already know she will be preferred over me and loved more than me. Men can't get to that level of emotional intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:15 PM
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Every girl has a story about how a good-looking guy later turned out creepy and she lost all attraction towards them. Its a canon event for all girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:55 AM
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Every single woman will be treated as special by some guy but never in a million years will a mid looking guy even be treated as a good looking guy by all the girlfriends he will ever have despite how similar in looks they are. Women treat good-looking people of both genders differently and women's standards for good-looking men are very strict so most men die without experiencing what being attracted to is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:54 AM
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If you had female friends you'd know how wrong you were
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:21 AM
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People change and there is a pattern in the changes of behavior. That's what the statistics tell us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:46 AM
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Someone needs to make a post about this image
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:57 AM
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This might be one of the realest most factual post ever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:42 AM
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If a woman makes more money than a man she wouldn't even wait till he is sick to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:59 AM
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Men wanting virgins. It always baffles me as a man. W "Why would you want an inexperienced girl who doesn't know that she wants compared to someone who can please you better" Always the insecurities of performance are so baffling to me. You just need to listen and communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:24 AM
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We humans evolved this much because we have been changing biology. Us men can start having that ingroup bias like women have and things will slowly get into our brain in the next few generations
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:00 AM
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Conservatives are incapable of believing women can like sex too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:55 AM
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Yeah it is biologically ingrained in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:18 AM
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Oh honey you must be new to the world and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:42 AM
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If she likes aka finds you attractive, you could be a broke unemployed loser with no house and she will still love you and even provide for you. You could almost get away with anything and she would still love you to the moon and back (I speak from my own experience but now my girlfriend who stood by me thru stuff need not worry about anything) But if she doesn't find you attractive then you could be the richest man himself and she would only use you for your resources and not have an ounce of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:40 AM
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The thing is women together keep this dynamic by making each other follow their sisterhood. If men had that ingroup bias we could shift the dynamics is what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:24 PM
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Okay this is really solid advice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:41 AM
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It's still very much the norm that men are the suitors and need to approach You keep enabling this norm. You could simply not do it. That's what I'm saying. I have never approached a woman in my life and have been in multiple LTRs and FWB relationships It's not that hard lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:39 AM
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You won't be beheaded if you don't get into a relationship. A person can easily find self satisfaction without a relationship. Some of y'all forget that you could be happy without a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:37 AM
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Yet true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:35 AM
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Men deep down thirst after skimpy women but want a virgin wife so that other men don't make fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:51 AM
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Don't hate on them then 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:38 AM
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Its a preference, a style. Not maturing. And it's always the men who like the skimpy outfit wearing girls who call them hoes and hate on them saying women should dress modestly. Do you ppl hate women and have a hate boner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:38 AM
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Bro....learn to control your impulses!!! You aren't a child or a monkey. A fully grown man should be able to control his emotions and impulses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:59 AM
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Yeah but don't succumb to relationships you don't want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:25 AM
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Also women do befriend men they find attractive. My current girlfriend befriended me because she found me attractive initially
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:22 AM
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He is 6 ft
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:21 AM
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I am not attracted to my female friends buddy i didn't befriend them because i found them attractive either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:20 AM
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What about men who are attracted to older women? What about infertile women and their partners? What about the old couples who are still in love with eachother? By your logic the man should leave her when she gets her menopause. Men just don't care about fertility and youth. I'm tired of you sexist mfs trying to push your preferences on all men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:19 AM
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I didn't mention any percentage but mature women above the age of 25 will mostly stay away from most men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:15 AM
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The natural law of biology triumphs over all man made laws
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:14 AM
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Redpill men are beyond worse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:13 AM
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Men have all the power they believe they have. Men who claim they don't have any power in the dating site are the ones who surrender to their baser instincts and are a slave to their impulses. Men without self respect restraint and control are the ones powerless in the dating world. Men can always choose not to date someone they don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:10 AM
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This is wrong on so many levels and you enforce the idea that men are toxic violent beings.
/r/MensRights06/01/25 04:40 AM
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When I was growing up, feminists were the only people pushing back against toxic notions of masculinity, and they were the first people I ever heard talk about the items I listed above, even against men who attacked them for it. So I am grateful that feminism began the conversation about how harmful gender roles can be. Soo frrr Most men don't realise for the most part, feminism helps me unload all those gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:38 AM
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You think not because you have no experience with it and by the looks of it women kinda overreact with their emotional tantrums
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:37 AM
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Its called natural selection not eugenics. Its nature and it's rules
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:35 AM
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Not be misogynistic and by this i don't mean the hard-core misogyny like women don't deserve rights but the deep underlying subtle ones. Cause if we look that way almost all men are misogynistic and I feel like women can understand what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:35 AM
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Take away the strict social norms and give women independence and freedom and see how they choose to stay away from most men. The plain and simple truth is most women don't want anything to do with men and almost very few men are seen as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:32 AM
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Ong most men in this sub are soo behind times
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:27 AM
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Why are you wanting to provide stability. Women are people capable of being stable and earning thru their own life. Most men rn aren't willing to change with the times. You stay there trying to provide things women already had since the last 60 years and you'll end up getting nothing. Learn from your fellow peer women what they are looking for in life, especially the women you like. Provide something that they want and you can always. Don't put your worth on what you can offer and think that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:22 AM
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This gotta be bait
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:31 AM
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You forget how much of a demon testosterone is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:29 AM
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bring out the more feminine side of me than other men. Aka you believe feminine side is being pampered and doing absolutely nothing In nature everyone picks up their own slack and nature doesn't support nuclear families. Nature had women all together and one or few men with them. Both parties hunted but women used the group of women to make up for the lack of strength men had. Historically it was never man hunted and women was provided for, it was more like both men and women hunted and both bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:25 AM
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They don't cut off women's clits and sew them up tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:53 AM
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Yep. Conservative or trad women are a nightmare i avoided and my dating life became infinitely better and happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:52 AM
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Except a lot of (if not most) women still expect to be approached by a man. If you are being approached by women, then congratulations - you must be hella attractive guy Literally no I'm not it just doesn't happen as fast as men do it. Women approach slow and in long-term showing subtle interest. I don't need to make any initiatives, they'll become friends and slowly it moves on to situationships and yeah. They still do expect it tho. No they don't. Atleast liberal women don't. And the ones i da…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:51 AM
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You gotta use the word sexually attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:17 PM
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Again, for a LOT of men, the only deep connections they get are from their girlfriends and wives. Men don't do that with each other, generally speaking. Have you ever wanted to change that?? Start a new movement to be more close with men. This could solve male loneliness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:37 AM
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The OP commenter means showing interest not just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:21 AM
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You are unanswered 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:14 AM
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Christianity is and never was good for women or society in any aspect where it hasn't caused long term negativity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:32 AM
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Humans fear for their lives and harm on an individual level. You forgot this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:28 AM
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Feminism helped me more because it bought women the freedom to choose and approach people they like this I'm getting approached by women instead of this back breaking expectations of me being the man that should always be the one to approach and initiate everything. I'm extremely thankful for feminism because i no longer have to adhere to those toxic gender roles and I'm glad women don't expect me to. Its always the men and their shitty redundant nature to not change with the times holding back …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:26 AM
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Trad men are the problem. Conservatives are a danger to women and its best they are left alone. I'm glad the world is healing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:22 AM
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Yeah no. You sound dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:21 AM
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As for the other things you said, it’s a non-sequitur. I’m not arguing in favor of those other things. Saying men should be killing themselves more is obviously bad to say since it represents a possible event while “kill all men” is blatantly far fetched. Women wanting to be “treated like a woman” doesn’t sound like feminism, which advocates for tearing down of gender roles. If they self identify as a feminist they’re not a very good one. I'm all for feminism and I am a feminist but the radical …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:01 PM
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Women can easily kill men with firearms without needing to by physically stronger, Men would retaliate and it would be much more brutal if they did. And firearms are something anyone can have and it will be an equaliser and when it comes to it physical strength plays a huge part and men win in it overwhelmingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:57 PM
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Really? You think women genuinely want to murder all men in cold blood when they say this? That if they were just stronger, then they’d start a campaign to do mass murder? Yes actually yes. There is a section of women who may be a minority but still a huge number who are passionate in hating men and yes they will kill men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:53 PM
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Men want to be exciting and lusted after that's what this post is about. They don't want to be the stable boring boyfriend because they aren't desired as much as the thrill dude. Yet women keep telling guys that the boring dude is what is better but go around and show primal attraction to the douche exciting guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:50 PM
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A huge mistake. Before Abrahamic religions rose women weren't this universally oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:15 AM
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Is it clearly an empty threat in response to everyday misogny? Obviously. Women sure love to throw around empty threats. If females on average were stronger than males then you would absolutely see a spike in female to male violence especially in these times. What the OP actually means by this is the general disdain and hate towards men and the anger when it's reciprocated towards them by men saying it's misogynistic to be angry at women. The entitlement of women to expect men to be fine and hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:12 AM
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It is scary that many men don't understand this but their entitlement for sex and women's body is kinda the root cause of this rape problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:51 AM
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This is true. We need more slut shaming. We need more slut praising. Sluts are amazing and I love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:46 AM
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The OP's username is literally "no short men for me" lmao point proven
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:49 AM
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I like you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:46 AM
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Its not masculine or feminine. If it is then anything feminine is useless and incompetent and anything masculine is competent and useful which enforces the misogynistic stereotype. Don't view things that are providing and competence as masculine and being provided for and passive as feminine. In nature there is no correlation to this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:53 AM
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Then start caring. Be the change you wish to see in the world. Or do you not care too? Then you have no right to say this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:50 AM
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The standard average man puts ZERO effort into his looks thus no attraction. If a straight man puts the tinest effort into his clothing and skin the women around him will notice and they love the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:43 AM
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Men are more concerned with female sexual purity than women are with men's Ah yes because of the greatest mistake of this world called "Abrahamic religion"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:41 AM
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I want women who are 30+ 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:36 AM
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False. YOU aren't attractive enough for it don't say all men some of us are plenty attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:17 AM
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I don't work or provide for women yet they are attracted to me. All my relationship were with women of equal or high money. I had multiple relationships where my girl earned more than me. Sometimes took care of me too financially. Ig when you have a good personality and a good person to be around people will love to be around you unlike you who have nothing to offer except money. Therefore only women you'd attract are the ones who only want money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:16 AM
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You are the one describing men as animals doing everything for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:36 AM
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Making your wife see stars and hear angels sing is something any man with practice and desire to learn can do. Its not something only Chad can make happen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:31 AM
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Cat lady is not an insult to women. Most women don't like men enough to wish to be with them desperately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:14 AM
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Speak for yourself mate. Not all of us are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 09:31 AM
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The ingroup bias is crazy for women. We gotta look out for our boys too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:10 AM
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Honestly men need that so that they don't kill themselves thinking they aren't worthy for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:48 PM
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Its always the conservatives having something negative to say about everything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:35 AM
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If masculinity is tedious and exhausting then why are men expected to take it simply because they are men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:14 AM
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Her life is more than raising kids and livin' in a house making it for her husband. That's what feminism worked for. For women to have a Choice but if you say that's what women would feel fulfilled in and that's what she wants without asking her you are a misogynist. Her life should be hers and not what college her kids attend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:11 AM
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Take it to a publisher old man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:09 AM
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Demanding sex without the thought of consent from a woman threatening cutting them off is the opposite of being attractive. Y'all can't be attractive to your attracted gender to save yourself goddam
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:48 AM
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Aren't men telling it to each other? Stop listening to what men have to say it usually isn't something to boost yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:44 AM
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Not being sexist isn't a "nice guy" its the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:39 AM
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this needs to be a question by itself. it really shows the sexism in women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:30 PM
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will say that nobody holds women more responsible for dating a-holes than other women Completely false. Blasphemous lie. Nobody refuses to hold women accountable more than other women especially her friends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:23 AM
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The same privilege isn't afforded to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:46 AM
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Wave 1: I need my rights back Wave 2: I need my opportunities back Wave 3: I need this bias off me on an institutional level Wave 4: Please leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:45 AM
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To women they may not want him but they can surely capitalise off him so it's a win for them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:42 AM
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Okay i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:34 AM
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Women also have great collective ingroup bias so they can actually walk away from men all together. They also have strong intimate connections that they can be happy and feel fulfilled without a man's help meanwhile the avg man isn't getting any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:33 AM
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The problem with MGTOW is that men aren't going their way. Most men are still approaching thirsty for women and are willing to settle for even less than the past
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:31 AM
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Men aren't looking for shit. As a man lemme tell you, the whole world can be filled with the most toxic bitchiest women alive and as long as they are hot men would like up to marry them. Men having no standards is the preliminary cause to this whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:29 AM
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The entire three waves of feminism was women's break up from an abusive relationship wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:27 AM
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Deciding who is the ruler directly affected whether they would send the men to a useless war. Since the majority of men were forced drafted they needed the choice to decide a representative who wouldn't start a war I don't see how pregnancy and childbirth correlate in any sort of way to voting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:15 AM
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This causes this disparity of privileges women have in the dating scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:12 AM
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Because feminism was started by a man. Women could never uproot such a systematic institution without the help of men (at least some of them) The same way queer movement needs straight people's help
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:11 AM
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I never meant the majority but they always exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:10 AM
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Okay I'm not even red pill but every single one of these "fictional men" women claim to love are all capable of violence but are gentle with their ladies. You can't find me one beloved 'fictional boyfriends' who are weak and small or cowardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:10 AM
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I wonder what women in lesbian relationships do I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:07 AM
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The fact is just because they are married doesn't mean they are desired and just because someone is desired doesn't mean they always have to be married. Women marry for all sorts of reasons beyond attractiveness and desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:03 AM
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You are yucky man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:01 AM
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Its more about the personality and attitude if you know they could reduce physical attractiveness quick. Also women call Henry Cavill and other handsome celebrities "mid white men"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:56 AM
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The right to vote is directly tied to the duty to be drafted. Women actually have it easy cause they don't serve the duty for their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:46 AM
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The first feminist was a man. The first one to stand up for the social and political injustices faced by women was a man. Men have always supported women in their causes, atleast some of them. But it remains a fact that there will be men that will support women's causes and not be collectively as hateful as women are towards men where women who support men are called pick mes and shunned from womanhood
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:45 AM
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Look around you almost atleast one simp is out to please women. You don't see women do that same shit without other women turning that shit down fast. They won't let other women ruin the dynamics. Men are always competing with other men for women, putting down other men and trying to one up everyone around them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:41 AM
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Bro dropped the gospel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:26 AM
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The child's interest only comes after its born and before its born we first ensure whether we are capable enough and monetary capability is one of the biggest capabilities most indian parents are failing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:43 AM
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Being a straight man is a curse fr
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:15 AM
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Notice how you don't have any replies!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:17 AM
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If the person does not have the capability to provide a happy healthy safe lifestyle with more than enough backups and comfortable materials for a child including college education and health insurance then they should not have the right to have children. The laws of nature where every person wants to face children are when you live in the wild. And nature had a much more brutal way of cleaning the ppl who should not be having kids. Pick up a book
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:14 AM
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Being poor and choosing to have children is child abuse. You are forcing another life into this world just so they can suffer. Soo fucking much I hope all these men who wants to "continue their bloodline" like the royal family they are understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:12 AM
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Working class men would rather exist in a poorer performing economy where male led manufacturing has a greater role in the economy That's because most men are misogynistic and rather have women under their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:08 AM
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The world is healing, people aren't mindlessly having children for their own happiness and now prioritising the life the child will have. Women are marrying men they love and are not forced to. The population is going down It's really good for this world man. Glad to see nature is healing itself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:05 AM
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Men in here who vote trump don't want better lives for men they want worse lives for women so that they can feel powerful or something and idk why they think they but yeah Most straight men Don't like women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:05 PM
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Women shouldn't be chastised for their standards. Its men who keep simping for them that gives them the choice to keep high standards also the fact that they don't want men as much as men want them. Change these two facts and men can have standards too and the dating game will be much on equal footing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:12 AM
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Red pill mgtow bros talk all about leaving women till it's actually time to do what they say and not just yap and expect women to run to them apologetically for not "dating" them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:09 AM
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Yeah best to cut them toxic mfs off The love you receive is based on the standards you set. I'll cut them off my life if they say shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:09 AM
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Nah this is the reason women have such high standards cause if you insult or demean one woman then collectively all women will hate you. This is something men should learn to use
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:57 AM
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Soo fr men don't support each other and only support women they find attractive. Women just support and like each other purely on the basis of them being women (result of feminism)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:56 AM
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Men compete soo much for women it seems incomprehensible for us to even imagine a system where men support another and don't chase female validation. One man being insulted by a woman will make the next man think "oh then I have a chance with her by insulting him" not "if she is insulting him then lemme stand up for a fellow brother" Men are like the poor population of a dystopian society. Too much disdain between each other that they can never stand up together for themselves against a systemat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:55 AM
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Women are sexual selectors because men have no standards. Men should have some standards and they can be one too Even the ugliest of women will have standards thats what raises her value of selection meanwhile men will be desperate so fucking much it actually looks pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:46 AM
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All the women here claiming they would abandon him or cut him off because their son who would hurt another woman is no son of theirs (although it is valid of them to cut their sons off) will also support their daughters despite all the wrongdoings they do. All because of. "🥰✨✨💅💅 Girlhood 🥰✨✨💅💅"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:43 AM
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"All men love submissive wives who will cook and clean for us and let us pay and take care of her" "We all want skinny women like those instagram models who have no tummy and look unhealthy" "All men want children and expect women to be able to give birth" Just fucking No Edit. "Most men always want sex and if they don't get it from their wife they will look for another means. Giving men sex is the only way to make him stay You need to give your body to him so that he loves you" No just absolute…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:25 AM
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Soo fucking real
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:23 AM
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and go around and say "i dont want to take care of a grown ass man i am not his mommy"
/r/MensRights29/10/24 11:41 AM
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It starts with looking conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:26 AM
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Bro is straight delusional. Lmao Buddy women don't approach "YOU" that's all. It's a hard time facing reality but women do approach men they find attractive. You just aren't in that category
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:14 AM
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That's essentially what submission is. Men are wording it the wrong way i think (at least many of them are) They mean women who are happy to be around them, are pleasant and kind and also appreciative of them. Basic bare minimum qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:52 AM
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Bro you are privileged enough to be born in a country where an abandoned baby is taken in and raised In my country that baby will be raped or killed if ever left abandoned
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:03 AM
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You don't need to adopt a softer appearance but a softer or more "safe" demeanor. Not wearing soft coloured clothes and also I'm not saying you should do that but that's what worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:00 AM
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It's cause of the safety factor. Also most men are judgmental for a woman wanting sex and things may get dangerous for women. Check out how horny lesbians are or how often and fast hookups happen in wlw relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:17 AM
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Women live in a world of constant danger snd that's how things are until a lot of men simply crease to exist so if you want to date women, let alone have them attracted to you, you have to make them feel safe. Not just when they are drunk but safe enough to trust you in every setting possible. And that has nothing to do with your voice or dark clothes. You aren't peer pressured into having a softer appearance but if you want women to like you they must know you are safe for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:35 AM
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The problem with you is you back pedaled the moment a woman criticised you. Don't let women dictate your style man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:12 AM
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Conservative women in general are harmful to men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:10 AM
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If i could have i would have pressed the button to block your ass from life fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:22 PM
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Not every women likes tall muscular men. Some prefer twinks, some prefer chubby men, some prefer medium height. But the pressure to be tall and strong on men is enforced by society through media and all that you don't even realise. Sure some women like tall muscular men the same way men like skinny women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:21 PM
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I used to respect women and think they were just as valuable as men, too. Then I started interacting with them in the real world. You should try it. No way you just said women aren't as valuable as men. Lmao sexist hope you never get married or touch another woman. I have a wonderful girlfriend and many many women friends. Your ass prolly haven't seen women outside porn. Average red piller hating women but also wanting to sleep with them. Such a hypocritical misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:07 PM
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Dont speak for everyone buddy. Your privileged ass know nothing about how lives are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:05 PM
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men force them to do it? Society on an institutional level has this effect on women. Its the same as height for men (what I observed) men have this subconscious pressure to be taller and stronger than their partners that even if it doesn't affect them it is still in the back of the mind of the man. Idk if this correlation works but this is the closest i can find
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:32 AM
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I myself have a lot of lady friends and its cause I'm small and non threatening. But also how i word what i say and most men can't talk the way they talk to men to women. Also it takes a lot of time, acceptance and internalised misogyny for women to find you safe and approachable and most men either aren't ready to do it (cause they don't want women beyond sex) or they can't understand this concept (men are peer pressured to not accept these terms cause it makes them feminine?? )
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:30 AM
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I get it kind of. Most women don't like men as humans enough to give them the benefit of doubt and talk to them. They have been hurt by men enough there is a subconscious bias against them and whatever they say they aren't respected or heard without that bias that men are evil. It's difficult to talk to someone and form a friendship when they hate even looking at you to a subconscious level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:13 AM
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Nobody knows women more than the sexist man who never likes or talks to women. /s (for any moron thinking I'm being fr)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:10 AM
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I don't need to be attracted to someone to know they are attractive or beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:39 AM
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Society because its patriarchal has been following male gaze since a long time. Female gaze is still unpopular and not widely known. That's why men find most women beautiful but most women' don't find men beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:39 AM
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I meant as in singing skill or instrument skill based buddy don't get your panties in a bunch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:36 AM
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Nope its because you don't understand the female gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:02 AM
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Some women pull off the overweight look quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:01 AM
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More skill based
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:22 AM
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Hook up Sex can be as enjoyable to women as they are to men. Your belief that only sex with men who loves and in a relationship with the woman will benefit or be enjoyable for women is why religion is harmful. Negative view of sex should be uprooted from society
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:35 PM
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Not for women but for society generally. Post feminism society started leaning more towards atheism and getting away from purity culture and Abrahamic religion values benefits people a lot. Mostly still men cling to religious (especially christian) values because men have been the privileged gender according to Abrahamic religion standards. Removing religion benefits society and humans by a huge margin. Hedonism isn’t empowering to women Considering they were abused and owned for a long time, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:33 PM
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Feminista opting to not follow religion and purity culture is one of the greatest achievements by feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:33 AM
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Women don't view sex as something sinful. Women don't hate their own sexuality Men's misogynistic mindset deep down is at play viewing women as objects (more sex means more used by others) Women don't consider having sex as some power play where the woman gives and the man takes. Most men view sex as something done to women rather than something done with them. Feminism made people who follow them (mostly women) sex positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:32 AM
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We are chastised for expecting bare minimum like loyalty and love fr 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:33 AM
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Personally speaking, I would absolutely love it if a woman earned more than me. But sooner or later, I also know her friends would talk shit about "loser men" and that she "deserves better than him," and other crab in the bucket sayings that women say to each other. Soo real fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:30 AM
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Weird generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:23 AM
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Men would rather take a girl who needs him than a girl who will take care of him and that's what I meant about patriarchy. Lol no they don't. Yes they absolutely do. Most irl feminists are egalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:23 AM
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Would you also believe if your son said he was raped by a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:18 AM
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Lets flip the genders. What if your daughter was the one who was accused of SA and she denies the claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:14 AM
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Men like to be needed That is the influence of a patriarchal society. Not allowing a man to want people to take care of him. Making his masculinity about how useful he is makes him a great tool for the higher ups to use. Its a long standing social propaganda unfortunately even men today follow. Feminists try to take this down but yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:16 PM
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Height pill is eternal and universal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:32 AM
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It doesn't need you to fuck to not get extinct. Human race is the biggest population on earth. On the contrary humans need to lay off reproduction for other animals to survive. A species shouldn't go this off on population. That's why the ecosystem is breaking. Don't use human race survival as an excuse to your horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:48 AM
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They think they don't deserve to be loved ever. Do y'all think creepy men are how all men are??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:42 AM
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If you have literally talked to any man above the age of 19 and below 50 women's beauty is a spectrum. There are men who love older women, there are men who love younger women, there are men who love thick, curvy women there are ones who love petite women, there are ones who love hairy women, ones who love women with a tummy and good chub (like myself) Female beauty is a spectrum as long as she isn't unhealthy levels of obese men will be attracted to her. If you wanna talk about harsh Beauty sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:41 AM
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Sex or starting a family or survival Lmao as if the human race depends on you for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:36 AM
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I have no plan to get married buddy. Good luck wanking to my downfall tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:08 PM
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I have a lot of women friends, long hair, female gaze clothing. Basically pre selection. (I'm by default never perceived as a threat and they feel safe with me.) (once women by large number feel safe with you dating is mega easy and into fashion so it's good for me. Also I'm not misogynistic It works like a charm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:06 PM
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I'm a man tf you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:02 PM
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Fat women have the most outlandish standards ever. They dream of an absolutely good looking line backer big enough to make her feel petite and also be absolutely rich and be obsessed over her like enough to further fatten her up. Also they should be able to pick her up easily, throw her around snd not break a sweat making her feel weightless despite her weighing 500 lbs Lmao make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:58 AM
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You don't talk to men outside internet or never know men if you think men have unfair standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:53 AM
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Treating women with respect isn't a FUCKING achivement. Its the bare minimum not something to get congratulated for. Sure attractive men get way with less. Its more like attractive people get away with most devious shit because of pretty privilege. Men are the exact same in this matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:53 PM
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Party girls from Miami arent the only women in the planet buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:41 PM
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Th When I was younger, I was a strong advocate for respecting women. I genuinely appreciated women as individuals, sympathized with their issues, and even spent time reading and learning about feminism. I was the kind of guy women trusted and turned to for help in difficult situations—whether it was dealing with a creepy guy, needing a ride, or simply having someone to talk to. When I needed dating advice, I often went to women, believing they would provide honest and insightful guidance. They t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:34 PM
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Most men don't realise they have misogynistic standards. Here I've corrected it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:28 PM
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Most men have weird misogynistic standards deep down which will surface once he is in a relationship. Women sniff this shit out when the man isn't conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:09 AM
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Buddy I'm 5'4 and skinny. Never have I ever felt the need to get jacked for success in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:07 AM
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Women will date anybody buddy. The real question is whether they are truly attracted to their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:00 AM
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You Have a stupid example for a very valid suggestion. Modesty is an Abrahamic myth used to control women. Now the real example should be something like: Woman physically abuses her husband almost always. Other women jump in to defend her. Men who call this out get called sexist by all women near him. Women simply never acknowledge another woman's wrong doing if it's targetted towards a man. Between other women it's another thing but women have this us vs men mentality (it's kinda valid because …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:56 PM
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That's your misconception. Its not at all beneficial to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:24 AM
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the patriarchy really exists, but it is not beneficial to common man like women believe and Its not like other men want to preserve it. Most men take any insult to patriarchy as an insult to men at whole thus they get angry. Patriarchy hurts men as much as it hurts women. it only benefits a small percentage of upper class of men (and some women) most men won't realize this or have the maturity to accept it ever. they are raised to hate feminism soo much they can't see
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:54 PM
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why is pick me behaviour encouraged in men while hated in women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:23 PM
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women select because they stand together and support each other. you cant have crazy demands for women like women have for men. women won't date you if other women approve. Men are such pick me that every time a woman has unusual standards, men oneup each other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:02 PM
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Yeah cause women never cheated sure 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:13 AM
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I think most men know they can never illicit the sexual attraction they want from their women. EVER! that's what this whole 80/20 is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:34 AM
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Its more of a woman thing. Men usually take it out with active violence women passively do (mostly)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:30 AM
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"As a man you should have.." immediately break up Any girl who conforms to trad gender roles are an immediate red flag for me. They have crazy expectations for how men should be and won't see them as human. They also have this ideal weird concept of femininity masculinity and its a real headache to date them. They also will have inhaled a lot of toxic masculinity standards. Edit: also "I only gave you sex because i thought you liked it. I didn't want to" If you ain't enthusiastic and willing it …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:25 AM
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I would say a good relationship is where you have regular sex. If both partners (especially women) are horny enough for eachother it means she feels safe enough with him and also attracted to him. Majority of relationships fail when partners lose attraction and sex becomes a chore or as you said an obligation. A good sign of a relationship is where both parties enthusiastically consent and desire sex. For me personally if i feel she doesn't want it as much as i do and she is "putting out for me"…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:10 AM
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I would advise him to get a lot of platonic girl friends. They can shape him up as a guy woman would find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:32 AM
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Society systematically tries to brings down those things in men claiming its sexist. Hell women will use homophobic slurs to cut you off from your friends
/r/MensRights26/09/24 02:00 AM
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Sex shouldn't become a barrier of competition for men that they genuinely don't care about eachother
/r/MensRights26/09/24 01:58 AM
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You call one woman fat in a club and every other woman who heard that will never look at you again. A woman calls one dude short, the slightly taller dude jumps at the opportunity and further pushes him down to make himself more attractive to her. Its a cruel world we live in
/r/MensRights26/09/24 01:53 AM
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Social conditioning
/r/MensRights26/09/24 01:52 AM
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If you look weak and are alone, other men will see you as an easy target to put you down and boost their own ego I still have absolutely no idea why other men put down men for women's validation. These pick me men are the absolute worst people who bring down dating standards for men fr
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:52 PM
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If most men simply don't date them, meaning they aren't desperate for a relationship and think this kind of behaviour shouldn't go around and ruin another man's life. This shit would stop. Men will never have the same unity like women do thus no standards men pose will ever be effective cause another pick me ass man is willing to lower further get even lesser back
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:19 AM
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There is no binary it's either you are or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:18 AM
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Yeah you are the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:17 AM
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So many women simply say "oh your problems and suffering is all caused by the patriarchy blame it on yourself. You men caused this"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:14 AM
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You should be locked up alone for that flair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:10 AM
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Women accept the fact that they cannot be loved for the way they want. Women want to be loved emotionally and intellectually but they generally just give up and assume that men are gonna love her for sex. Many women are in fact loved emotionally and intellectually. In fact most women in LTRs are loved because of their personality. Men on the other hand, other than a tiny minority are never desired sexually only because of their genetic "flaws" the way men are never attractive in their partners e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:09 AM
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Traditional gender roles harm all of us fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:11 AM
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Yeah your quality and attractiveness is predetermined by genetic traits you cannot control. I'm not meaning guys who whine about how they don't have Victoria's secret models. I'm talking about no matter how much you do for your girlfriend or partner you can never be attractive enough for her because of your genetic traits
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:01 AM
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Nobody said they are incapable of dating women or marrying them. Women marry literal retarded men for resources and money. Dudes below 5'5 will never be attractive to women the way a 5'10 above man will and there is nothing he can do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:01 PM
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Soo real. Preach it king. Every time i see a 5'9 5'10 dude saying he is not 6' and thus he is doomed it makes me soo mad fr. Like he could have a good fashion sense, work out a lil and boom he is attracted af especially if his fashion is catered to the female gaze. Really short dudes like 5'6 and below have the real struggle like no matter what they do they are doomed. They will never get the primal attraction from almost 90% women just because of their genetics. Unless they are famous celebriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:59 AM
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Said by someone who's never been 5'4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:53 AM
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Also women support other women even if they are in the wrong. Examples like SA, being rude towards men etc.. Women also throw around pretty, beautiful and rate women's looks while holding men to unfair standards. They call henry cavil mid white man and say all women are beautiful (blant sexism)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:06 AM
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Hit on the nail with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:01 AM
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Women also are dismissive of women's obviously wrongs. Women don't call out other women. Hell, I've seen women even support other women who are murderers This is what in-group bias means. They simply blindly support other women without any thought
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:01 AM
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Talk about insensitivity. This post is proved by you. Women generally hate men to the point they don't even see them as humans .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:50 AM
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That's actually different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:47 AM
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This is a high school media fallacy. Mean girls is a movie not real life ESPECIALLY after high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:46 AM
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Hey you are exceptions to this. I've actually seen irl QUEER women having homophobic standards for men especially Bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:42 AM
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My kinda peeps fr
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:39 AM
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And that's not women's fault... Women kill it by making homophobic comments which most men are vulnerable to (idk why they are tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:34 AM
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most woman are pretty great. Woman more so than men are less selfish, more caring and much more likely to help than men Delusional much? Women are selfless to other women and children only. All their caring bs goes out of the window when men come into the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:31 AM
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Because one woman's problem is taken as a problem by all women around her. How many men can do the same for other men around them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:30 AM
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I like your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:07 AM
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But does he feel the same way? Soon enough when he falters things will go south and you might leave him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:15 AM
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If you as a man are paying for the first date then the relationship is doomed to go unhappy cause you are already setting up the trope that you are to be expected to pay and provide for everything. In today's times that dynamic is absolutely useless and its rather a better decision to set up an egalitarian relationship. Also if your date is not excited enough to pay at least her share in both of yours date then does she even love you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:02 PM
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My girlfriend asked me out and initiated everything and its absolutely a happy relationship till today tf do you mean??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:57 PM
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Women are lazy cause they can afford to be lazy and still have men inflate their egos and simp after them. If all men were against this women would have no choice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:56 PM
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Are you invalidating my experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:30 AM
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This strategy worked well (more than well) for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:23 AM
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See this mentality is why women can do whatever they want and get away with it. Men don't have the same ingroup bias like women so. Every dude is a fucking chimp brained selfish goober when it comes to women they barely stand up for men. You call one woman fat and all women around her will reject you but a woman calls one dude short and the rest of the men will jump at her saying how he is taller than him. Women can have all the unfair standards and stupid criteria because men simply oblige at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:22 AM
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Yesh thanks for the awesome answer /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:49 PM
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Its the same as white folks who are racist but are okay ish with the neighborhood rich black folks. Calling them "one of the good ones" Its like only if you adhere to their rules and follow their conditions will you ever deserve empathy from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:14 AM
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Where did i ever say women had empathy for men? Most women hate men and they call me "one of the good ones" which is sexist af but i do see why they say that. But still women only have empathy for fellow women and feminine folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:12 AM
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Most women are indeed like that therefore i never ever approached any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:08 AM
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You can't believe you are confident when people especially the ones who you are attracted to and want to be seen as attractive from, actively make you feel ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:44 AM
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Your man is the reason why most men are chastised for having standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:06 AM
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He saves a lot of time and money by having a girlfriend Lol, funniest thing I've read in this whole week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:05 AM
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But then again her saying that will make every woman (and most men) believe it and you never recover socially from it. Most women will unbiasedly side with another woman and soon you are a creep nobody wants to be around. This is from someone who went thru this so before saying this never happened you haven't been a man on the bad side of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:00 AM
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You get to keep a girl for a friend that you can talk to when you’re trying to date other girls. My lady (especially lesbian) friends wing this shit for me and it's soo fucking awesome. Especially when they tell me who has eyes for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:57 AM
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Yes it's simply better to inverse the roles and you having the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:49 AM
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I'd have my own standing rather than fluctuating because of what some women say. If i don't approach then a few girls saying "oooooohhh men aren't real men for not approaching". Isn't going to change that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:45 AM
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Wouldn't you rather be her friend than a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:41 AM
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Why would I seek rejection or half assed interest. I want to date women who want me as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:18 AM
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Not to mention the "women are wonderful" effect
/r/MensRights09/09/24 12:58 AM
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I personally know 10 or more men who not only work but also cook, take care of children and the house while the so called "stay-at-home" wife sits her ass on the couch trying to be a social influencer or do shopping. I know 0 women who do the opposite. Guess what, these women whine and bitch when shit doesn't go their way and think sex is all they need to provide in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:35 AM
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Trying to partake in your hobbies, willing to try things with you, engaging in dates happily, desiring you, talking positively about you to their family and friends, and mainly NOT BRINGING UP THEIR EXES are the. BARE FUCKING MINIMUM. Here is a thought, imagine a man you are dating and you flip this all and will you say its the princess treatment? Is him not talking about his exes and learning your hobbies great efforts in a relationship?? Y'all take advantage of men having low standards ig but …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:23 PM
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You are a sad pathetic man and pick me putting other men backwards 5 steps. Have some standards man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:16 PM
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I wonder what goes on in a lesbian relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:14 PM
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Yes we would. Y'all are just pretentious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:13 PM
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The commenter is literally a woman??? There are women like her and sure it's rare but they do exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:12 PM
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You are a Queen ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:10 PM
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"advise on what clothes to buy" "Decorate our apartment" "Non-stop kisses" Lmao literally the bare minimums and useless other things. Now I plan vacations for us, new bars and restaurants to go to, and fun new activities to do. Everything is at his cost, his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:09 PM
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How about no roles???? Its 2024 we are equal with equal opportunities????? Literally feminism enabled this?? Men and women can be equal partners without the burden of fitting into certain roles???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:06 PM
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That shit hasn't happened since the 90's
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:04 PM
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Most women don't do that buddy.. they expect men to cook and clean for them and also expect them to take care of them financially
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:03 PM
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You aren't mutually benefiting when you hold a door for her, or buying her gifts. Sure seeing her happy and shit but its not a mutual fun activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:00 PM
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Aside for cooking rest all are the BARE MINIMUM. God
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:59 PM
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do you think men want to be treated like girls? As a man, YES!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:58 PM
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Them saying "Real men will.." "As a man......" Are all easy indicators of their bigotry. All this shit is proof they want men to adhere to toxic masculine standards set by the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:57 PM
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Also the poisoned m&m thing, if you flip it with paternity test they suddenly blame you for not trusting women and not all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:52 PM
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Women are first to call a man gay and shame him if he doesn't do as she expects or even rejects her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:50 PM
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It affects both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:49 PM
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Yes women as a collective are more sexist than men. Men just are more violent when they are sexist. Also the women are wonderful effect plus women's ingroup bias being too strong makes their sexism normalised. You call out one woman and suddenly all women in a 100m radius hates you. Makes men (who don't have this level of ingroup bias) not call out women on anything and they get away with all their bigoted behaviour. On homophobia women are as homophobic as men. The sorority girl with a gay best…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:47 PM
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Oh yeah that too ig. Radical feminists are another breed who spew the same shit. Their favourite is "Raped by other MEN lol its your own gender" or if the rapist was a woman they say "Women in male dominated fields 😍" or some shit like that Rad fems refuse to accept women are capable of harm and bad things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:38 PM
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eww bro why dont you try kissing a tree from a highspeed car
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:36 AM
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its usually men who do this shit saying dumb shit like "as a man you should enjoy it" or "you were lucky man i wish it was me" men are sick to eachother sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:35 AM
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wish the best for you ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:34 AM
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Nope but even if all men in this world were respectful and safe and caring. Still knowing she had sex with a man is on a subconscious level, icky for most men especially if the woman is close to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:14 PM
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Yes male sexuality is considered impure by both men and women. Female sexuality is considered impure only by men but women don't. Most people misunderstand this but women being shamed for having sex with men is because of this sole reason. Having sex with men and loving male sexuality is considered taboo or disgusting. Having sex with women or being loved by women is considered to boost your status no matter your gender. People view penis as disgusting and anything touched by penis as impure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:13 PM
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Fine I'll raw dump it with you. PENIS BAD VAGINA GOOD. ANYTHING PENIS TOUCHES CONSIDERED, IMPURE, BAD, WEAK ETC
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:10 PM
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Me when i make up shit to back my delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:09 PM
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Fr. You the only one who got my point. Sex with men is considered impure not because women had sex but she had sex with a "MAN" lesbians aren't shamed for having sex with women. But gay men are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:08 PM
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Tf you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:05 PM
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Well, men are killed when the father of the partner he's been with, finds out. So tell me who "lives" with the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:27 PM
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Its exactly why. Male sexuality makes you impure. A woman who had sex with a man is impure because she had sex with a MAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:25 PM
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male sexuality is considered to be dirty, perverted, carnal, and inferior. Men kinda enforce this too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:24 PM
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The men weren't controlling themselves either so why are they being avoided from the blame
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:18 AM
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Your desperation and inability to see the bigger picture will never let you get a successful healthy relationship ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:31 AM
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Wdym control herself??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:24 AM
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I would call the man dumb for trying relentlessly even when he has gotten no signs back. Why can't y'all see they don't want you and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:20 AM
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If that's your experience mine is the complete opposite. Girls always made fun of the short dudes, bullied them even now in the office I'm working the ladies bully the short ugly dude constantly and he can't do anything because of HR being biased. In my highschool when i was in 8th grade a few girls pushed me into a well and stood around and laughed because i was a bit shorter than the rest of the boys. My sister had a group of friends who would convince her that her boyfriend was ugly and she c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:44 AM
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Means she only datws people she is attracted to and not use people for money. Thus she is attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:18 AM
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Yess???? It means she is attracted to me??? Why would i not be interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:17 AM
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Meanwhile gay men and straight women are the best of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:28 AM
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So true fr. My queer lady friends understand the struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:27 AM
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Must be his first day dealing with women ig
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:26 AM
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The thing that worked for me is to stop approaching all together. I don't want any woman who isn't attracted to me If she wanted to she would🗣️🗣️🔥🔥💯💯
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:24 AM
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I won't even pay for any dates till its officially a relationship and even then we both would take turns
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:19 AM
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women aren't the same way. Just because a man might not be attractive, that doesn't mean a woman despises him. She does not view him as a lesser human being like a man would an ugly (or worse, a fat) woman. Oh how wrong you are. Men are harrased, mistreated and abused by women simply because they are unattractive. Biggest example are short men who are insulted and bullied throughout their life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:14 AM
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The key difference is: 80% men are unattractive to women. Only 10% of women are unattractive to men. So who is treating who worse by a large margin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:03 AM
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Men were gaslit into believing traditional gender roles are what's good for them. They are peer pressured into conforming into toxic masculinity standards. They can't simply comprehend that an equal relationship with both partners sharing the burden of life is pausible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:44 AM
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Does my experience consist of fanfic or your bad experience being too narrow. Your experience being all that says more about you because you are the common denominator
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:26 AM
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Not really you keep attracting or chasing the wrong men. Try looking into your issues with your parents especially dad, and i suggest you go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:48 PM
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Absolutely no. They are the sub category of insecure men with weak ego and a shit ton of fragile masculinity. Like imagine if his masculinity is threatened if a girl approached him? Is he really secure?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:36 PM
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Soo fr. Why would i want to lie to her. She is an adult and can take an opinion. It still doesn't mean I'm gonna leave her or she is unattractive. She can be beautiful af even if she is fat but the idea behind me having to lie to her to protect her feelings (which she never felt needed) is beyond insane to me and her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:35 PM
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My girlfriend is super awesome and she doesn't take me saying "babe you've gained weight" as an immediate threat to the relationship we are far mature. Neither will she ever feel that i am not attracted to her ever. She could be any shape and I'll love her no matter what. But I always have the freedom to be honest with her and never was scared to say anything. Thats what a healthy relationship is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:33 PM
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The red pill are idiots are what i have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:30 PM
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You forgot women don't apologize buddy
/r/MensRights27/08/24 05:28 AM
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Do women even like men anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:15 AM
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Be like me. Pick better open minded girlfriends. My girlfriend is super chill. She cool asf, i can say when she had gained weight she will take is positively (which means i immediately don't hate her) she will take it as just my opinion about her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:53 AM
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Yes quite a lot of them in fact. Female friends are a different genre compared to my male friends. And both have their own perks. Especially in dating, my female friends are great at me being pre-selected and social proof. They also are great wing ladies and will teach you the female gaze and how to dress and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:09 AM
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It means like just because you are pro Choice doesn't mean you have to abort every baby you conceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:59 AM
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There are a lot of fragile masculine men who want subservient slaves for women. These guys must be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:57 AM
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men usually like to feel they're making all the moves and controlling the whole thing. Those are the kind of me you got to avoid. They will be toxic 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:56 AM
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Works for me till today
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:04 AM
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Nah few of the best relationships I've had were with bi women. Bi women are less rigid in gender roles. I can be a broke short loser and they'd still love me if i was pretty and understanding of their emotional and physical needs. Straight women have so much entitlement its unreal. Also bi women approach and initiate a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:03 AM
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I agree with you on this whole. The whole group of men slut Shaming women and judging them for their sexual freedom are what they think a clap back against women because they think they are forced to align to traditional gender roles and its the only way they fulfill their purpose as a man. (The algorithm also hits them in a way it shows all the shallow materialistic women claiming men should be providers thus reinforcing this idea that all women want this) What they don't realise is that they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:01 AM
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If your sole goal is casual sex and both parties know it then it won't be this bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:25 AM
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Worst case is many women have normalised that they shouldn't be attracted to their partners and sex is a chore
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:14 AM
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Women who are feminists are like the biggest turn on. We can be absolutely sure they will be partners whom we can count on during tough times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:12 AM
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Many women do. And sure it's your choice but you can't disagree that traditional gender roles are rooted in Patriarchal ideas. These are harmful to men to a little extent. What's even worse is men themselves are taught its how they should be from a very young age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:10 AM
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Yeah they uphold traditional gender roles rooted in the patriarchal ideas. This is extremely harmful to men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:46 AM
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Some women think dating someone who makes less money is some sign of failure or something. Women view men as money sources. The whole "men are providers" is a result of patriarchy and women uphold it a lot today. This is a terrible stereotype which takes away a man's quality or him as a person or partner and reduces him to his money making ability. This is harmful for men's mental health especially where women are outperforming men in many fields
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:27 PM
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think a lot of you men are just telling us you haven’t experienced a lot of women who desired you sexually. This is the thing. Men (many even in relationships) don't get the female gaze and have never experienced a woman desiring them sexually. Only a few percent of men experience it and thus its a disparity pool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:23 PM
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If he is conservative "good Christian" man he is a huge red flag himself. That's not surprising at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:55 PM
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Don't speak for men when you aren't one boy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:53 PM
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If you as a man want to enjoy women when they are young and attractive Do you see how creepy it sounds. They are people not objects of your desire mate. You sound lowkey sexist valuing having sex with a woman than finding a partner to share life with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:52 PM
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Me personally, i am not asking out anyone whom I'm not sure will say yes or ask me out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:47 AM
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Spot on. Ever since alt right trad christian gym bros invaded red pill, it became one toxic shit hole with a severe reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:34 AM
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Awww internalized misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:27 AM
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Personality doesn't mean nice guy or not. It means having a character that is unique. Being someone noticeable and having things to talk about. It means being AN INTERESTING PERSON
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:26 AM
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Do women who want tall men apply that same standards to themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:19 AM
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Here comes the "biologically programmed" bs. You are just sexist viewing women as a monolith. Women don't want to have casual sex with you not with all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:02 PM
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Yes many women experience it when their husbands are of lower drive and it messes with their self esteem a lot. Same for men it messes their self esteem and feel out of love. It worsens when women in general say "why would i try to validate a grown man I'm not going to take care of a man"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:54 AM
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I've had opposite experience tho but idk man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:54 AM
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The immediate bias you have for women says everything about you sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:50 AM
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You a lucky man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:53 AM
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Take notes women ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:51 AM
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You'd be surprised how many men in marriages live with it thinking its the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:46 AM
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Being desired by their wife is the one thing almost all men never experience in their marriage lives. If he was truly desired things would be initiated by his wife. She would put in effort for him. Cause women do initiate and put effort on men whom she is attracted to. And the average husband material man is only attractive as long as he provides and the attraction grows over the process. He never feels desired just accepted and settled. I speak for most men in marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:58 AM
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Cooked him fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:42 PM
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You just found out that women have unreasonable and illogical double standards for men??? What is it? your day 2 on earth or have you never met women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:39 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:35 PM
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Your incapacity to think beyond your dick doesn't mean all men are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:14 PM
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It should change i say. Hope men as a whole care a lot about money and job of women and all women are expected to pay for men like vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:11 PM
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Sounds cope fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:29 AM
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This is a normal part of relationships. As long as it’s not one-sided, I don’t think that’s pick me behavior. Ohh you'd be surprised how rare it is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:09 AM
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Yes! Absolutely. Women who are compassionate and hear about men's issues get called pick-me so often its unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:07 AM
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So real fr
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:30 AM
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I do believe and practice what i said. You are the one contradicting right now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:30 AM
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Cause things go beyond looks and attractions. Just because you are attracted to someone doesn't mean they should be accepted of all their flaws And just because women are beautiful DOESN'T MEAN THEY SHOULD BE ABLE TO GET AWAY WITH WRONGING OTHERS! Y'all dick suck pretty people soo hard ong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:02 AM
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When women have an issue with men, all men are bad and they should change and society should be cleaned But when women are at wrong men should simply go along and accept them as they are or they are gay and hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:59 AM
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This is by far the greatest thing I've read in this pitiful sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:25 AM
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Same as if having slightly more strength means your life automatically belongs to the govt and sent out to die for their petty disagreements then the entire point of having strength is quite diminished and is in fact a disadvantage. I'd rather be weak and protected from war
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:40 AM
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I'd likw to add another perspective. Women have faced countless violence and the feeling of powerlessness even from their own spouses and when people like that get power they try to go overboard in exercising their powers and be paranoid about losing it. Also the fact that they have never been to a war or ever had to participate in one might be another reason of how callous they view it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:38 AM
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I am fully in agreement with the fact that there should never be a compulsory draft ever but it will never happen thats all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:50 AM
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most men idolize this because this is the only scenario where a man is desired. most relationships fail to make men feel desired and good about themselves thanks to no initiation or reciprocation from their spouses. before most women come and comment its not my duty to make a grown man feel good about themselves, how many of you will consider ending a relationship if your partner doesn't make you feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:09 PM
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The men you dated based on a subconscious pattern aren't a representative for all men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:28 PM
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OP you are projecting heavily
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:27 PM
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Sex isn't something a woman gives to a man. Its an activity shared by two People in love and just because you never have been loved by any man ever doesn't mean every other woman will be too. Most women aren't as bitter as you and don't simply hate men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:27 PM
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Same as the ability to give birth. So does that mean abortion should be illegal all over the world because it's an advantage for women to give birth thus they are obligated to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:32 AM
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I think the point he makes is when shit goes south and the country is in war especially with the number of soldiers lessening, it will inevitably come to it that mandatory drafting happens again and all men no matter their consent will be taken into it. But women have the privilege of backing out and simply recoiling into their traditional gender roles and stay safe during times of crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:29 AM
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Generally the pattern is, women monarchs were more probable to start a war
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:26 AM
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Its men who are the ones throwing themselves at her. If men weren't acting like pathetic losers for any sort of attention then maybe they wouldn't have this power imbalance like y'all gents claim
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:21 AM
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What does this have to do with anything she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:20 AM
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Thats some yuck mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:17 AM
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Ah yes Abrahamic religions. What a great way of thinking. Totally doesn't oppress women or control her autonomy in Any manner /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:13 AM
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Start with men then.. bruh y'all can't expect women to do the work for you all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:39 AM
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Not all women care about those the same way not all men care about boob size unhealthy thin waist and all those. Sure you can sulk but men who put effort into their looks will win more than guys who don't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:34 AM
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Observation and hearing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:12 AM
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Yes. As an indian male yes
/r/MensRights01/08/24 09:29 AM
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Go to india with your wife and come back and say it
/r/MensRights01/08/24 09:28 AM
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You have to visit india with your wife. Only then will you know why these laws (being sexist as it is) is completely valid
/r/MensRights01/08/24 06:08 AM
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It is justified because its india. Y'all don't know how bad it is for indian women here
/r/MensRights01/08/24 06:07 AM
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They love the man???? Can't comprehend that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:58 AM
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men are "allowed" You can change that. Us fellow men can change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:57 AM
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They don't understand good women doesn't mean trad wives who cook for you. It means a woman who is willing to put in effort for you the same way you would and carry your slack sometimes if you fall down. Also someone who loves you for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:56 AM
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Very few conservative women make those kinds of remarks meanwhile the overwhelming majority of men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:55 AM
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You should have your man card taken away
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:02 AM
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Not at all doofus. A man can put effort into skin care, good fashion and making their hair well and these have nothing to do with genetics but also makes him 10 times as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:59 AM
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I thought the blue pill was about creating egalitarian relationships where partners share everything and do it together.n
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:53 AM
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Your post is hypocrisy in its first 2 sentences. I am so tired of seeing Blue Pillers imply that men are just uglier than women and that's why they have fewer options. It's literally laughably untrue. Women spend twice and thrice as much money on their appearance than men do in order to "look better". Yes thus they do look better. They put in effort to look better and they do. That's the answer. Men do not put in effort in any manner thus they do not look good. Men that do have no issues getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:50 AM
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Romance is obviously very one-sided. In a relationship between a man and a woman, he is the one that sweeps her off her feet and partakes in elaborate courtship rituals to impress her- from initiating the relationship, to planning dates, to initiating and taking control of intimacy, to making grand gestures of romance. Her role is to just sit back, relax, and enjoy, with the only expected reciprocation being appreciation and enthusiasm (but in reality it's often not even that). Crudely, romance …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:53 AM
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The world doesn't end if you don't approach women. You won't die if you aren't in a relationship. Itst not a fatal necessity for you to get laid. Women having control over their impulses and learning to be satisfied with themselves and live and love themselves is a skill most men should learn is something most men should learn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:44 AM
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Objectively more men make homophobic remarks and always question the masculinity of other men. Its always men, sure there are some alt right religious women but other than them its almost exclusively men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:42 AM
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Mostly men enforcing it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:41 AM
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These are early red flags to filter from. Same with paying for the date. If she likes you enough she will have no hesitation to split the bill and sometimes even pay the whole (granted you not be a bum and free load every time) The women who cry about wanting their food paid are the ones who don't like you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:45 AM
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Thst right there is some enlightenment knowledge for men right here. STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS WOMEN. If she wantd to she would would
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:42 AM
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By society you mean other toxic men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:02 PM
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You seem weird for saying "innocence"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:12 AM
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Me when i make up a scenario in my mind and enforce it on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:17 PM
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I do none of taking her to an expensive restaurant or wait 6 months like you say yet i have got laid. Helping her manage the house you both live in is not something you should do to get laid. It should be generally a chore. Emotionally supportive is what every partner should be And sex isn't a payout its an activity of love two people in love participate in. Yall wouldn't have this much trouble if you actually find women who actually likw you. Women aren't paying men with sex they both take part…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:10 PM
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Well men are the ones who are throwing themselves at women. Hate the game not the player. Chad is attractive. And the women who go after chad arre those shallow conventionally attractive Staceys who are the only women men ever notice. A lot of women have a wide range of attraction but most men only ever see the conventionally attractive shallow party girls who chase after materialistic things and rich men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:06 PM
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Well, if you are happy being viewed like that okay good for you but the rest of us men don't wanna be viewed as inferior like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:01 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:00 PM
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it makes you look like an inferior being who can be easily controlled by sex. it makes the complexities in you irrelevant and everything you do has no other meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:08 AM
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This is why I don't approach, if she wanted to she would! if a girl doesn't like me enough to come and ask me out then what good of a girlfriend will she make? No men can comprehend this idea. No wonder most men complain that none of their girlfriends never put any effort. These are red flags you must notice early on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:02 AM
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Your option really goes against your flair but oh wait you are red pill so ig that makes it an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:23 AM
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Traditional gender roles when it suits them
/r/MensRights19/07/24 04:42 AM
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Are you winning tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:26 AM
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Ah yes the madona whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:25 AM
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Why do men hate women having sex this much? Is it jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:23 AM
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You eliminate the red flags at the gate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:34 AM
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I have gotten many infact
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:31 AM
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There are numerous men who don't expect these from women. Many men are childfree and infact prefer it. If you don't date red state republican christian trad men, most men are like this Women as a majority claim they do all these for themselves and not for any man. No man insists a woman should wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:27 AM
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I second OP. Men have to stand collectively and put an end to this toxic culture
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:24 AM
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So it’s sexism to appreciate women? It should be more worded as "women should be treated and taken care of like over grown babies" than cherish. And yes, women do want to be treated like babies and go as far as to invalidate the masculinity of a man who doesn't want to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:16 AM
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Its social conditioning
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:11 AM
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The ig models you thirst after aren't the complete representation of women in the world buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:51 PM
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I as a 5'4 man can completely destroy your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:49 PM
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I'm a man. There are many men like me. Most of the time we hear wives wanting children and husbands complying to them. 50/50 is still likely to be a scam because the woman is still likely to end up doing more There are numerous relationships where the man works and provides 100% plus does all the chores and takes care of the kids while the woman sits on her ass all day saying she is a stay at home mom. r /askmen for reference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:48 PM
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Love the woman who loves you. Be receptive in your love instead of chasing the beautiful girl you saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:58 PM
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Some men literally don't want kids??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:56 PM
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Woahh the sexism is soo blant. REMEMBER BOYS, ATTRACT NEVER CHASE! LOVE WOMEN WHO LOVE YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:52 PM
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Those women literally consented??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:01 AM
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There is less power imbalance between two men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:00 AM
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We got a alt right christian bro right here who thinks women's value is tied to them having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:53 AM
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Women love sex too buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:56 PM
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Well... You still take her out for dates and buy her gifts and "court" her lol. Red pill is more leaning towards traditional gender roles Blue pill doesn't mandate that and vouch for at least an egalitarian relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:49 AM
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r/MenAndFemales lmao says enough about you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:39 PM
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Real. Both include paying and providing for women which is lame asf fr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:30 AM
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To most incels who never socialise it maybe an impossible task ig
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:31 AM
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They can reply to the comments tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:25 AM
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Nah let him be kinda good looking ish and works a above average job. Now what
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:24 AM
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More than that they just want the male validation of getting a "pure" girl or wtf that means
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:06 AM
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Thisss. You don't have to be an asshole or treat women like disposable objects. Just treat them like normal human beings and don't put them on a pedestal or hold them to a higher moral standard. Also know what the female gaze is. Dating gets easy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:00 AM
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I see no women replying to this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:48 PM
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Soo true. So many men soo obsessed with body count and looks they fail to see the compatibility or the red flags in their personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:46 PM
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Men are the disposible sex Keep saying this buddy and it will never change. Why do y'all indoctrinate this even more and never let men enjoy the privilege of equality. Instead of blaming women all the time why don't yall support men for once
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:45 PM
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Men have taught over their entire lives to never support other men or find happiness in themselves. They are never taught acceptance or self love. They learn about self identity and masculinity from media and it fucks their perspective of the world. That's why when women who aren't conventionally attractive accept themselves and say they are pretty, other men can't accept it cause they were never able to do it so they think its unfair or wrong to do this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:43 PM
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The equivalent of this is a 4'9 indian guy and if the same question is asked towards women i wonder what they choose
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:38 AM
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You missed the entire point again. I said I'd rather be low T and happy than "good looking and youthful" to get girls and be unsatisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:35 AM
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How can we tell women to stop thinking that they know what we want if we ourselves say this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:33 AM
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You can build your happiness around socialization not sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:49 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:48 AM
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men will always value sex more than women, DO NOT SPEAK FOR ALL MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:47 AM
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If all you work towards and your sole motivation is sex then you are pathetic as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:46 AM
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I'd rather be low T and be happy without being at the mercy at someone than be hugh T and a slave to my urges
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:45 AM
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We as humans are the only species that broke our instincts and created society world everything. Humans are the species that can control its urges and act against its instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:43 AM
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Man... This shit sad af
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:41 AM
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Do not speak for all men buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:40 AM
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Men are always swayed by women's words easily from age old times. Especially from a woman they want to fuck. That's the reason so many men settle without seeing the red flags and get used and then hate all women saying they are all cheaters. Men's concept of masculinity is so fragile a woman calling his haircut gay will make him reconsider everything. It is even more dependent on other men's opinion. Male gaze and women's approval are things that can sway a man's belief in himself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:38 AM
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As a man, no tf it's not. Sex is not a need. You can live without sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:35 AM
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This is the third time I'm getting this. What is blue pill to y'all. (I'm literally changing my pill fr)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:03 AM
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Sure buddy calm down. You are not obligated to listen to me. If getting laid is your primary objective then sure cool. You do you. But you what you pay money, treat and provide for we get for free
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:35 PM
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Well if other men sided with him instead of jumping on it as an opportunity to get laid then they won't get away with calling men misogynistic. Men all together calling out their behaviour will shut it down quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:34 PM
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Can you explain how 20 years of studying correlate here? Is it the idea about women or dating concepts? What did y'all learn for 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:33 PM
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Bro just shut up with your insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:22 PM
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This soo much. They think the only guys that they date are the ones that exist. Lol normal guys are invisible to them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:51 AM
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What do you mean by rage? I'm confused af
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:35 AM
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I believe in neither and think having such a simplistic attitude and doing whatever i want to get laid is a pathetic way to live life. I would rather kiss a tree at 200mph than lie and trick people to get laid. Men themselves saying nobody gives a shit about them and conveniently not giving a shit about the welfare and respect of other men is a self sabotaging cycle. Men in majority can change the dating game if they simply up their standards and be content with being single. And the ones who do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:32 AM
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Fr. We see women claim all day numerous hollywood conventionally attractive actors as mid ugly or many other things. Suddenly when we say it its because we are misogynistic??!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:26 AM
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Looks and beauty are not objective in nature
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:22 AM
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How does red pill come in here I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:53 PM
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Men really are at fault here mate. They are enabling, ofc women won't be accountable. Men should hold women accountable and they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:51 PM
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A valid question right here. I wonder why its skipped
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:55 AM
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Men are the ones who are writing these stories. You see women writers do the exact same opposite like a rich billionaire playboy who is extremely good-looking chasing and going crazy over the most average normal looking skinny girl with no personality or wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:42 AM
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Idk where y'all get this from, plenty of dudes (like me) do date girls and many of us are short, broke skinny and still get asked out. Its about the chemistry and how your friendship between her builds up. If a woman really loves you then she wouldn't mind you being broke or skinny. A good fashion sense to the female gaze is a huge added bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:01 AM
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You either accept it or fight to change it. Its upto you buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:56 PM
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Society consists of us so we better change it then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:56 PM
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How does that remotely even affect men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:01 PM
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Men can simply collectively not date women who push these standards on men. But men refuse to do so. Thus women have the agency to make those standards. Easy as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:06 PM
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Speak for yourself. Personalised over looks any and everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:03 PM
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What she means is mgtow does none of what it preaches. They just moan and whine about how they will leave instead of leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:17 AM
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Y'all miss the one single thing every time. Women aren't miserable being single like men. They are very happy living by themselves. Women don't want a man for a relationship. They want a relationship because they like the man. So thus this means women aren't exactly got back or whatever y'all red pilled passport bros think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:11 AM
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Fifty shades series Twilight Are the two mainstream examples
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:35 AM
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Respected by other men is a means of survival for men. A guy who doesn't align with the majority male pattern will risk violence from other men. Many men subconsciously say all that misogynistic things in fear of if other men think he is gay or efiminate because if he was so, (in many countries or by conservatives) they might get beaten and ostracised
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:01 AM
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You want the right to rape??
/r/MensRights18/06/24 07:11 PM
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The entire point of right to vote is because men wanted to select the ones who rather not send them to war. Traditionally only those who have a fundamental duty of being drafted should have the right to vote
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:40 AM
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For as much as the people here like to make fun of liberal feminist women, they are the sorts of women most likely to not have horrible regressive views about men BIG FAX. Liberal women seem to hate men the least and ser them as human atleast. They also don't condone men to harsh gender roles. They also are more open to dating someone who aren't tall or masculine or "need to protect her" but simply required respect and egalitarian relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:33 AM
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Or you can propose
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:37 PM
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If she didn't want you enough to make her own move on you then it was never worth it man. You gotta remember that in a relationship a woman should love the man very much too and if she moves on because of this then it would never last
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:26 PM
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I'm curious about a black pill woman. Can you tell me how and why do you believe in the black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:25 PM
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Yeah this mentality is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:56 PM
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If you think "sex" is a benifit boyfriends "get" and girlfriends "give" then you got the wrong idea about relationships and sex buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:53 PM
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for every one guy who demands respect and emotional care from his woman, there are 10 other simps willing to do more for her and for less. so tell me what would you as a woman do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:40 PM
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Almost all romance novels are female authors. You can throw a hundred rocks into all the romance novels with female lead and you'll find all of them written by women. The whole "men written by women" is the byproduct of women glorifying these fictional men. A simple google search will give you the answers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:38 PM
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the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:03 PM
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i dont see any woman in this thread. I wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:02 PM
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all romance novel leads are freakishly tall, extremely rich or will get rich by the end, with a chiseled jaw and extremely attractive conventionally. not to forget the abs and how he is good at everything and can read her emotions. Most REAL LIFE men can't reach those "Fictional" standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:00 PM
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I kind of understand your point but the argument will only be valid to a sane healthy individual who has women who does like him. Like if your crush didn't like you and you move on cause there are some other girls who do find you attractive so you hope one day someone you find attractive will find you attractive back. BUT Most men don't ever have that. Many men will go on years since teenage without anyone being attracted to him so he normalises that nobody will ever find him attractive. You see…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:56 PM
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I ain't gonna adhere to those standards fr. Gotta be the change you wish to see on this planet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:47 PM
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This. This soo much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:09 PM
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You can commonly see it when women commonly talk about in social media about "masculine energy" "real men" and it's just men who take care of the girl like a little child. They even attribute this child-like behaviour as "femininity"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:07 PM
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You just hand out pretty and beautiful to every woman and judge men's appearance very harshly. Really attractive women do have that period far more often than men. Its even popularly known as "hoe phase"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:04 PM
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FAX!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:53 AM
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Nah women ARE happier single. Men are PORTRAYED to not want a relationship. Most women will have a great social network and support group among women than men will ever have and it keeps getting worse for men as they age. Thats why women are happier by themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:52 AM
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This, dear men, is why we have to learn to be happier being single!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:50 AM
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This soo much. I live where all this is applied around me and all men seem to simply accept it the way it is and I was the only one who thought it was crazy. Another thing where all the women in social media describing this as 'real men' behaviour and this is how masculine men behave, also the fact that all the fictional men, women read and endlessly praise all exhibit the behaviour of simply accepting these behaviours made me think deep down all women just want men to be doormats and not demand…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:22 AM
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Its not about thr frequency but the presence itself being unpredictable. With men there is always a possibility of violence and especially when they are significantly weaker it becomes very scary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:11 AM
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Who's lying to you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:50 AM
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Its sad honestly. Men should have more standards and be comfortable being single until they meet those standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:48 AM
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I know they would further bring down the bar saying shit like: looking at him, acknowledging his existence and listening to him and let him spoiler or take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:48 AM
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Enforcing gender roles and paying or taking care of her right off the bat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:45 AM
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I'm not!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:43 AM
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If his wife won't then it's time for him to look for one who will 🗣️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:43 AM
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Then so be it. If she rather leave than see from his perspective or work thru the problem then she never loved him. And what she won't do the next one will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:41 AM
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No, fairness is a man made concept Yeah relationships are man made concept too. Most legal things are all man made. This will never happen. 0% chance that becomes a reality It can if men stop putting up with bs and acting as simps Women are as lost as the men. Yeah so there should be no burden or expectations on men to be better or know Everything and put up with everything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:40 AM
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Makes them understand tho and people learn when they face the same shit they do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:53 AM
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I hate when men get insecure about something that is not much cared about by their partners. Now there are insecurities that very much exist like height, facial structure these are things women care about but dick size isn't one of them because big dick is bad normal or small isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:51 AM
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It happens a lot mate. Ask women. Talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:46 AM
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No, it just shows that men tend to be socially clueless and make the mistake of going for a woman that doesn't even like them while ignoring and attractive, perfectly decent women near them who definitely do. This soo much, every sad relationship with a guy friend I hear, its always like this where from the very early stage, she won't love or like him as much as he does, and he keeps simping after her just because she is very attractive. Men doing everything for a woman who doesn't love him whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:01 AM
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your overall point is true but the way you formed it and the things you said in this post is overall demeaning to women and scummy behaviour. Now as a man you must do what you want that is true but you shouldn't think of women as objects of sex or forget that they are human in their own right and have emotions. Sure you dont need to simp after those emotions but you also dont need to step on them. And for the examples you described, there are many narcissistic people on both genders who would pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:57 AM
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Those women who accept cheaters do sure have self esteem issues but those men sure as hell are conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:29 AM
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Its not just his duty to fix it tho. And if she as a wife isn't initiating then does she even find him attractive? It's best to not be intimate with her then cause in a relationship until two parties understand the problem it won't go anywhere. Best way to make her understand is to get her in the dame position
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:25 AM
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Sure but when you don't actively pursue her she will. Best to make her initiate things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:20 AM
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You have the illusion that you're making choices. You're simply picking the path with least resistance. The choice has been made for you Good for me then huh. Which is true. However you have a say on how you let those insecurities affect you. If you look down whenever someone pokes your ego, you're making yourself a target, easy to control, not attractive and you allow other people to make choices for you (because of your lack of agency). Look i understand this but then do these same standards a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:17 AM
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Dick size is completely irrelevant except for those marginal micro cases. That too can be worked around. You don't show your dick in public so how you both are viewed socially from outside isn't much of a problem too (this is why women love height). Some beauty standards do matter for women like height and build because of how they are perceived from outside but dick size has nothing to do with it. Its only a personal matter of pleasure and Women's pleasure doesn't mean Jack shit with a penis mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:08 AM
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That's cause women stick with each other and support each other. Call one woman fat and even the fit ones will resent you. The bond of girlhood is extremely strong. Women will call a guy short and the slightly taller guy will laugh with her. Men don't hold other men up, they compete with each other and thus no woman has any limitations to say anything cause for every one man she makes fun of 5 others will laugh with her hoping for a chance. While women together will hate you if you make fun of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:59 PM
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Easiest thing you can do is to stop having sex entirely with her and in some time the tables will turn. Easy!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:37 AM
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Yeah the extreme of this is emotional dependency but. If a guy is attractive enough to her he can get away with many heinous activities. That's why women constantly say "the bar is in hell"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:55 AM
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I personally don't like being rejected at all and if that's the reason I'm being out of the dating world then so be it. You guys don't understand that you guys carry your insecurities on your skin. Some people are insecure and some of them are men and yeah some men can be insecure for various reasons. They have the right to be insecure by all means it's no crime. And if a woman doesn't love him enough to help him through his insecurities then why does she deserve him. No wonder yall get with tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:53 AM
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Bro your obsession with 18 year old girls seems creepy. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:33 AM
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I truly don’t think your “2/10” woman is actually a 2/10 woman. A lot of men truly don’t comprehend how wide and diverse women’s appearances are because popular media just doesn’t share that variety of appearance of women. I’ve noticed men who say stuff like that would genuinely classify Melissa McCarthy or Kate McKinnon as a 2/10 You say this but the majority of women do the exact same thing with men too. They would see an average girl (someone you would consider beautiful) with an attractive m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:29 AM
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It's men saying that shit soo idk what you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:50 AM
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Ut doesn't need to be romance but men should believe they are indeed worthy of love and not settle for the lowest hanging fruit. Men should know their worth and know how attractive they are. We always see women calling every mid girl pretty and beautiful. As much as they don't mean that shi or idk if they do, women build other women's confidence up pretty well, thus they have and hold on to standards. Men should do that too imo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:47 AM
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Compare not compete. And yeah unless its the top 10% men women don't fight between themselves and even then its a decreasing trend and will become fewer and fewer in the coming years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:42 AM
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Men have to realize that if they cling to lower standards they will get a woman who will make their lives far more miserable than had they just stayed lonely. Boys should be treated with love and affection and not made to think showing affection and care towards other men is gay and not all affection from women is romantic. The universal male experience of not having affectionate and thinking they are wrong to ask for it or not being good enough friends for their fellow men makes it hard for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:41 AM
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Why you pissed men don't wanna get rejected or belittled. Its all about equalising the playing field mate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:37 AM
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It all boils down to men wanting and desiring women more than vice versa that women have the agency to demand weird and unkind shit. Pair it up with the togetherness women have and infighting men have. For some nasty entitled thing one man won't put up with ten others are waiting in line to lick her toes whereas if you make one woman offended the whole group of women around her will hate you. This makes having standards as a man very difficult because 10 simps are ready to take even less than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:56 AM
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My woman does not. You haven't met many good women and i doubt you'd meet any because you keep looking at the wrong places and use unproductive methods
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:54 AM
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Perhaps that is why I'm exclusively attracted to stern, assertive, dominant women. Same brother same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:53 AM
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This sooo much. Added to the fact that how are you as a man gonna invest time and money into a woman whom you know nothing of but their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:56 AM
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Cold approach in general is stupid. Women live their lives filled with fear of men. Especially unknown men and cold approach is built on men asking out women they don't know solely based on their looks. If you can't make the woman feel safe then let alone dating she would never want to be near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:50 AM
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It shows a subtle message that she doesn't desire you or not attracted to you. Men want their partners to be attracted to them. Sure liking their personality is nice but no women would want their partners to say "sure you are ugly but you got a nice personality"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:04 PM
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none of that matters if she is the right one (here by the right one I mean someone who loves you and not just in a relationship with you) You can sit next to someone who makes a hundred times more than you, a foot taller than you and has the physique of a greek god with a face like adonis, and SHE WILL STILL CHOOSE YOU. Its not impossible at all. none of the money you make, your appearance, your height will mean jackshit to a woman who loves you truly and by that you will be of the highest value…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:12 PM
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IF SHE DOESN'T SEE YOU AS THE HIGHEST VALUE MAN THEN SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. You dont need to be highest value in the conventional sense but your partner should see you as high value man and someone perfect for her in everyway, if she doesn't then she is not truly in love with you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:23 PM
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If she doesn't think of you as the highest value man then does she even love you mate? Yall kings should know your worth and not settle for women that don't even like you fr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:39 PM
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Well obviously looks play a huge factor but not like how men think it does. Many women love many types of men but one thing they all want to see are men who out effort into their appearance. Like things beyond our control can be done nothing about but having a nice fashion sense which suits you well and then having a (not nice) interesting personality will surely help. Sure most women do love height and all that but if you have this you can get some woman to be attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:36 PM
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a man, I fully realize and understand that if I do not ask out women, I don't get a relationship. It's as simple as that. Maybe a woman will approach you, but there's like a 1% chance of that actually happening. Nah women do approach you but in subtle ways and if you catch on to it and play it subtle you don't need to approach you at all and they will ask you out. It has worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:00 AM
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They are attracted to those people. Women will do numerous mental gymnastics to keep a guy she is attracted to no matter the red flags amd will do the same to reject guys she is not attracted to no matter the green flags. Its human after all. People like who they are attracted to. Icks are things for guys whom she was never attracted to. If she likes him all those icks will be cute to her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:42 PM
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You are confusing with dating someone and wanting to date / desiring someone. He wants women to want or desire their man, not stay for him because he makes her feel good. And by that logic it is true. All women primarily desire a man who has those three things and even if he puts no effort women will because they want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:57 PM
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Abrahamic religions were created to control people by cutting their rights and biological needs so it doesn't benefit men as much as you and them are brainwashed to believe. It's lose lose for both men and women of lower class
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:42 AM
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Because a mother is a woman first and a mom second. She primarily thinks about the benifit of her and her gender subconsciously before her son's wellbeing. Father's are father's first and men second. Father's care more about their daughter's wellbeing than the overall reputation of men. Men don't have the same ingroup bias as women. That's why you see women even their own mother's won't believe their sons when they have been falsely accused but men would tear down other men simply because they l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:40 AM
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absolute truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:45 AM
1

Yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:47 AM
0

Eeh not too much to me cause I hate women too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:46 AM
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This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:46 AM
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Blame abrahamic religions for enforcing it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:43 AM
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On some real shit fr. Spit your truth king
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:49 PM
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It messes with the way men view sex and women in general. The reason they hate body count in women and then being paranoid about their daughters virginity and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:01 AM
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I'm confused as a man too. Who's saying that this is all hidden lmao. This is common knowledge. Women are humans and they are flawed like men are. I think this is primarily from the madonna whore complex men are indoctrinated into fromm childhood. Prolly why many of them hates feminism too ig
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:01 PM
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I'd rather stay and die single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:53 PM
1

I will not 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:52 PM
1

Well..... I'm not top 1% by any chance. And I'm quite short too but my lady friends tend to give me some good advice. And I have taken up their style. As they say, if you dress and behave according to the female gaze they will indeed approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:52 PM
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All that sounds like textbook narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:05 PM
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Women reward male pick mes soo much. Hell, the entire category of fictional men are just male pick mes who are extremely and conventionally attractive asf. So I don't see why not. Pick mes atleast make men feel desired and actually like them. Thats a huge positive compared to the average woman who just hates everything about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:05 PM
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Moreover my girlfriend does treat me like a prince. She pays for me cooks for me takes care of me everyway and is gentle with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:49 PM
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I'm not gay and I can't choose to be attracted to men. If a woman in my life can't make my life better then what use do I have for her in my life then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:48 PM
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I go outside go to clubs with my friends. Almost all the time meeting "women" is not on my mind. I will be approached by women randomly. In malls, in clubs, at the airport, at my university. I get approached by women asking for my number. I don't accept them but yeah. I choose my relationships via friendships where I can already vet the person. There is an established relation too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:45 PM
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I find your view....... derogatory and pathetic to see women like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:52 PM
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Well, I would never get into a relationship where the woman is not obsessed with me and won't initiate or give me Prince treatment. What do I need a woman then for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:44 PM
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You have never talked to a man lady. Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:41 PM
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the concept of women not being accountable is actually wrong. men refuse to hold other men accountable for setting the bar so low and being self degrading simps who would do anything for a girl's attention. men dont hold other men accountable for simply spending money on random women, dont stand up for other men when some sexist shit is said, these all make men a divided unit. of course misandry is socially acceptable, of course she will be picky and mean about things you dont control, she has o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:08 PM
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women do have a lot of ingroup bias. significantly more than men. its basic biology
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:56 PM
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If she cooks a meal for him or helps him in any sort of manner all the women will come out of the woodworks saying "man child" "marry your mom" "she isn't your mom" blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:51 PM
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This is exactly what princess treatment is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:50 PM
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It's his wish dumbass he can answer however he wants. He doesn't owe you by politeness of any kind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:48 PM
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Reading comprehension is in the trenches
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:47 PM
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Oh so by your logic being racist is akin to being a white knight huh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:04 PM
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Women will hold to their harsh standards as long as many men are willing to dance to their tune. Men should hold other men accountable and not be self respect less simps for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:21 AM
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Sounds pathetic ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:16 AM
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I am always surprised when men whjne like you are not obligated to keep up that role. You can simply not do wha you don't want to do lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:15 AM
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You keep enforcing that men are the disposable sex and no one cares about men will very effectively help to change this /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:13 AM
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If the reason we have sex is to hve kids then why do you find homosexuality among many species in the planet. Then why do infertile women desire to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:37 AM
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You speak as if relationship are just for making kids. Me and my partner are childfree, both of us don't want kids and both of us are happy. We are not with eachother to procreate and raise a family we are together because we want to be together and spend time with both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:39 AM
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It doesn't have to be magical goofy it just needs to be special
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:36 AM
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idk if i speak for all men but i love to do all the things you said you love. i love to give soft kisses to my lady, whisper in her ear hot things touch her arms and caress her skin gently. i also love sucking and rubbing clit and love to hear her moan. i am very positive that many men are on this with me so it just seems that your partner is just selfish or doesn't care much about making love just getting himself off
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:44 AM
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eww yikes. you red pillers idea of a relationship is soo weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:03 PM
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Pink pilled = hates men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:26 PM
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she will be loving him sure but he wont be desirable sexually for her, the good personality and princess treatment will make her feel good and she will choose to be with him and she will love him but that primal attraction wont be there. you see all sorts of BS like female sexuality is receptive and all, those all are cope. when a man is good looking women will act different towards him
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 03:08 PM
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i see his point. often when women say how the standards for men are soo low and how men reject women they all mean the conventionally attractive dude. if a woman truly loves and desires a guy she will go to crazy levels to be with him. most men dont understand or realize this because they have never felt it. male beauty standards are the harshest standards men have to pass
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 03:04 PM
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Frrr if she wanted to she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:10 PM
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Yep. You don't owe her anything. She can't demand you to do anything for her unless you both are offical and still it's rude for her to demand shi. Just because you have done it in the past out of your generosity doens't mean you have to do it all the time. It's your choice to withdraw anytime. Don't get taken advantage of just because you were kind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:25 AM
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You make the same things and switch the genders around , all the women will come out of the woodworks and hate on this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:22 AM
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Why is he expected. He can simply treat her the same way as she treats him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:48 PM
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Yikes you sad human
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:46 PM
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Yeah okay sure you are right champ
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:43 PM
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Sureeeeee buddy. Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:40 PM
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Companionship is mutual I don't want a woman who don't want my companionship
/r/MensRights14/04/24 07:40 PM
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If you were delusional enough to think women are better than men then y'all already lost. It's not misogyny to see women as people. You men just take it to the extreme and start hating women the way you hate your own gender
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:34 PM
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Yikes to your opinion mate. You have absolutely no idea what feminism is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:21 PM
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Companionship. Not that I want any relationship with women anymore
/r/MensRights14/04/24 01:19 PM
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Trueee. All the guys saying women will find purpose and be happy if they have kids and marry are just projecting. Maybe she wants to work or live alone or wait for a marriage maybe she doesn't want kids. Idk why men here fail to understand this basic right thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:17 PM
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Yeah same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:14 PM
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I'll switch it up for you. Most of yall were raised with the Madonna whore complex with the women is wonderful effect. And you put women on a pedestal. This doesn't work out in the real world and you see women are humans too so now y'all hate women and buy into purity culture. Feminism pushing anti male agenda also doesn't help but instigate this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:41 PM
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why are you men soo obsessed with forcing women into marriage and child raising
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:39 PM
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You know shit about male body standard and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:24 AM
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yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:02 AM
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Are you kind sir, living under a rock
/r/MensRights11/04/24 06:59 PM
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Why aren't you attracted to men then? It's the same things you can't choose who you are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:52 AM
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Yeah but why does it bother you? You are not affected by some women being single, if they want a relationship they will get someone or pursue someone. Why are you soo butthurt by their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:50 AM
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Men like you are the reason why men can never have anything good in life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:37 PM
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sure buddy but to speak to them without ending in jail, you need to be attractive. you sound like every 16 year old white boy believing the bs their single mom told them. women dont treat men like they treat other women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:16 AM
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the delusion is through the roof goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:13 AM
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I also think a lot of women believe that if they were turned into men, they'd just be the cutest, best dressed, sweetest man out there when they'd be in for a very rude awakening. this is sooo real
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:13 AM
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women and tradbros would collectively call you gay and f word
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:09 AM
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soo much this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:04 AM
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sooo real, even the big men have their ass kicked once by a bigger person. men learn firsthand that they do not start fights since they dont have this "do not hit women" protection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:59 AM
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you can try it once and you will realise why men dont wanna go and fight off the guys who catcalled you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:58 AM
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women would be in for a rude awakening. They would not adapt fast towards the unreasonable hatred by people at them just because they are not attractive. They won't have social protection anymore and they will have very dangerous consequences for their actions, they will be expected to put themselves in dangerous situations. They would not be allowed near kids anymore and it will will be kinda traumatic for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:55 AM
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imagine he becomes 5'3 with short legs. no matter how well he dresses it will all be for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:51 AM
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those guys will have good proportions and a well built body. you are just being ignorant here. ask the other guys and they will have the same experience. and if you are not tall, no matter how well dressed you will be called ugly by your peers if you are a man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:49 AM
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she wanted me to prioritize her life over mine and when she was in danger like guys asking for her number she wanted me to fight them off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:45 AM
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the opposite is more common
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:44 AM
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Women hate a lot on this post because they do not want men collectively realising this. Y'all kings shouldn't settle for less
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:36 AM
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Me when I have the reading comprehension of a tortoise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:34 AM
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Real shit Me too mate me too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:31 PM
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I have dated women and some (few ig) women really expected me to jump and endanger myself for her safety. She said "as a man you have to protect me and it's your duty to risk your life for me" Another one literally told me to put efforts and she will not because she was lady and you don't expect ladies to be "treated like men" or whatever that meant Idk. Left them cause they were red flags. but I've seen a lot of scenarios where a girl just expects men to put efforts for her while she just shows…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:31 PM
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Peace, happiness, fulfillment, an equal partner who will allow you to take a rest when you need it. Someone to seek guidance for kt give guidance to depending on the situation. Someone to share your experiences n matter good or bad. It is endless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:26 PM
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Not size, proportions. It's incredibly difficult for non conventional size people to get good proportions. You wouldn't understand cause you are not a man. Clothes for us are not like women. There is a reason 90% of short men aren't seen in fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:24 PM
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You don't understand men or male experience. If you don't have proper proportions you won't look good in any clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:03 PM
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all boys have first hand experience of getting their shit rocked by someone bigger. it teaches us all not to pick a fight with someone big. and almost no women ever have this knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:34 AM
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you worded this perfectly lol, many of my female friends think being a man means you will be strong and can do whatever you want but i tell them that there will always be a bigger fish and they could rock you. and the worst part is women aren't aware of the social defense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:31 AM
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you dont understand that for men to look good you have to win the genetic lottery and only then will clothes, nomatter how well they seem, will look good on you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:25 AM
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it is a one sided thing where men are at disadvantage and will get used
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:24 AM
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as a man with no pills i completely agree with you and stand with you on this. i have the same opinion as you. these "leader provider, protector" and all is soo weird to me and i dislike gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:23 AM
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Lmao true. They would unironically say "good work ladies pump those numbers up"
/r/MensRights03/04/24 10:03 AM
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I'd say relationships with men are more easy and comfortable than relationships with women because with women you have this constant pressure to make her happy all the time and be there for her pushing your own needs away and protecting her always it gets exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:52 AM
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Basically everyone wants to be taken care of. The demographic of women are much ready to say it out loud due to society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:49 AM
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this is essentially it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:47 PM
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Society comprises of men and women. Women will no matter what look out for their own gender. They got strong in group bias to let them take accountability. Women will always protect other women even before their own male partners or male relatives, friends etc.... But the men can surely suck up their simpary and hold women accountable as a whole. This would change this society giving leeway for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:47 PM
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If you need to sleep around soo much yo understand tht women are humans like us then its already over for you buddy. Whyy do men put women on a pedestal soo much. "The women is wonderful" effect is soo lame to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:30 AM
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Oh yeah that's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:06 AM
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Oh you'd be surprised how many women want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:33 AM
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How about you shut up on what other men can do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:43 AM
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Men take the prehistoric dynamic too literally and stupidly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:39 AM
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Soo real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:51 AM
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I fail to understand why if men don't like rejection they simply dont approach women all together. If men can't even influence a change between their own gender for a better future for all of them then how are the hoping to influence another gender
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:50 AM
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Buddy you don't need to be chad to get approached by women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:48 AM
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How tall are you buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:43 AM
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Your last paragraph is one of the realest shit I've ever read. So many men forget the male brotherhood, their families and their friends for an attractive girl that doesn't want them. I've seen it soo much and it is quite pathetic. This pick me behaviour is rewarded with bread crumbs of affection by narc women to feed their egos. And women uphold and claim this behaviour is quite liked to have the men Remain under their control
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:08 AM
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My hair is still got that's the only thing I got going
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:29 AM
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I'm 5'4 buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:28 AM
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What if we make it into a team sport. Then we can change the rules of dating in our favour
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:52 AM
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I mean socially retarded people do exist and I didn't think to this massive scale. Didn't y'all socialize when growing up, can't you people see women as people? That's all it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:52 AM
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I am not they good looking at all and I am quite short and I have never faced it. Wdym looks, I am much more in the disadvantage compared to y'all and I still don't find issues. Hell women approach me for all my relationships cause I don't approach at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:50 AM
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The whole "treat her like a lady" "men wanna be the women in the relationships now" "girls should always be taken care of by a real man" thing that women enforce, should go. They Gaslight all men into thinking they aren't real men if they don't act how they want men to act
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:47 AM
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Wdym as a guy. Do girls not need it or do we make it easier for them that they can give up on dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:10 AM
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Dating isn't a talent bucko. Anyone and everyone can do it unless you have a really bad personality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:09 AM
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For the gender who actually protested for the demolition of gender roles they seem to uphold the part where they gain from it. And the funniest part is men seem to see no problem with it instead of holding out their pros, they seem to let women have this double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:36 AM
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Even if no man around them finds them attractive they will still be content
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:50 PM
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The higher classes of men definitely have lot more power than us. Us average men have just as much as power in society as much as the average women have. But women being there for one another makes their loneliness crisis a lot more lower than us men. As an average man I have no power. But I treat my friends well and care for them and not make them feel lonely. I buy them gifts and organise parties for them on their birthdays. Hug them occasionally and love them. The male loneliness is not exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:49 PM
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Most women fall in love with their friend more actually. It happens more time but you don't see it cause they already in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:14 PM
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This the most redditor shit ever God Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:14 AM
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Lowkey true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:58 AM
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It's not about having a relationship fast, it's about women getting comfort intimacy and care thru other means than relationships. Men gotta be better friends towards each other that they simply don't need to depend on relationships for comfort and care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:57 AM
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They can be with other men bucko and the way you say "men don't need to be platonic friends with women" proves that you don't see women as equal people. Says enough about you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:56 AM
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Why would a man who doesn’t struggle with women and has a social life be interested in supporting the men that struggle? He would rather make money off of struggling men. More men should realise this. Men who are socially doing well won't ever stick up for their fellow brothers. Men never provide comfort for one another, they never care towards their fellow friends all the while complaining that male loneliness is a huge issue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:55 AM
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Being a male doesn't give you any advantage but if men need more protection from law and male loneliness to have a solution the low percentage of men in power should help and they have no necessity to help their own gender in the lower classes compared to women, despite the class they all have in group bias. Their empathy for fellow women is strong enough that no matter the class they stick up for one another
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:53 AM
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It's soo bad that I'm getting downvoted by these so called guys 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:51 AM
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Yeah but what she said is right. Most people in power are men tho they are rich and are a higher power in social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:50 AM
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men gotta step up their game on platonic level relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:23 PM
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its more along the lines of men often raised to prioritize whats right and whats wrong even if it makes them in the wrong compared to women who often make decisions to whats good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:21 AM
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I mean I just play along if I like them and if I don't i just be oblivious to their hints. Most of the time it's blatantly obvious. And I don't need to flirt or act upon them it's like a sign that they will ask you out soon. And if you don't want it receive their hints poorly that'd do. And if you are interested you just remain as you would when they touch you a lot and talk and vent spend time with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:53 PM
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I ain no Casanova or Romeo. I am not saying I have many women approaching me but the few times (8 to be exact) I have gotten into a relationship it's always the women who approached me. And women don't come out straight to you a stranger and ask you out, they will become your friend and be close to you and then ask you out subtly if you can subtly hint back you like them too then they will (maybe) ask you out. The only girl who head on came on to me and asked me out was my first girlfriend and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:45 AM
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I simply can't approach man that shi scary af. I can't bear being in a situation where a woman has the power to choose. That shit demeaning for me. And a woman who doesn't have the courage to approach me or someone who doesn't want me that much are not my time anyway. I'd rather be with no one than be with someone who doesn't want me that much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:58 PM
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Nahh it worked fine for me. I am in a relationship with a girl who asked me out. Soo idk about y'all but I don't need to go "put myself out there"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:54 PM
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Most people aren't below average they are average
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:51 PM
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yeah truee. but far more men will choose someone hotter and regret it later
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:54 AM
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they have almost no experience with platonic relationships with normal women whom they are NOT trying to get laid with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:53 AM
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I'm barely average and I manage fine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:52 AM
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not really some women want someone to baby them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:50 AM
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their advice is for sane individuals with an actual life and decent human communication skills and not being misogynistic and is respectful. Their advice works fine if you are a normal human. irrelevant of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:22 PM
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It's cause porn is shitty mate. Most women and men don't like porn cause it looks weird and derogatory especially for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:35 AM
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This is the reason I don't ask out women anymore. If she wants to she would
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:19 AM
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We're the pursuers 🤓🤓🤓🤓 Like you seem to describe when women find you hilarious, they are also sexually attracted to you? Bruh how tf did you get that out of it. I'm confident enough to say I'm a fairly funny guy that makes a lot of women laugh, and I've had those cases where sometimes they've laughed hard at even some shitty jokes I made (which also made me raise an eyebrow at one point) they might get touchy feely with me, may also look into my eyes etc. etc. Yet even when I showed interest ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:15 AM
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And what they don't understand is not having a nice personality but an awesome one where the girl has fun with him a lot. Being a decent human is not this "good personality" these men claim. It means your presence being enjoyable and her being understood
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:11 AM
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That's not true at all and even if it's true it mostly goes for older men acting creepily towards minors when they first join social media. The ones these guys means are really attractive models who get thirsty dms from every desperate guy. Not all women get that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:17 AM
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It's something to do with how they are raised and most men are raised to see women as wonderful and perfect. It's indoctrinated into all boys at a young age comparing them to girls like how obedient and easy girls are and how they are cleaner and silent and other stuff soo most boys view themselves are someone below girls. These boys are also taught that girls are soft and small and shouldn't be hurt essentially creating a sexiest view towards the opposite gender. Then at puberty age they see th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:05 AM
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this is some incel shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:58 AM
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the blue pill considers all types of women. it includes women who are nerds, who loves gaming, who love to read, who prefer 50/50, who are not interested in marrying, a feminist and many other women. some may not be conventionally attractive. and when you take into consideration all these women, yes the blue pill is true and most working or normal women are not that hypergamous and searching after chads. the red pill on the other hand only considers staceys who are partying and pursuing the elit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:52 AM
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The Madonna whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:40 PM
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Nah I always treat all my friends irrespective of gender the same. And some of my friends and I have dated. Some I had to reject some reminded friends throughout the end. What you said is a way to get shallow women who only want you for what you can provide
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:38 PM
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You are quite an exception. Almost all women my friends included talk about sex. Especially their sex lives and go into graphic details. It's quite known that women do this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:01 AM
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You are in the majority fr
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:59 AM
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What I have been saying. If some men truly left the patriarchal gender roles mentality we can begin truly calling out women on their actions
/r/MensRights14/02/24 03:20 AM
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I mean almost all women do it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:27 AM
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Penis size is the true equivalent of boobs size Does it matter? No but will it up the attraction for some people? Yes Will most care? No young immature people will sure care but as you age you will think about it less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:24 AM
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Ayy I go by "the women who don't approach are not worth my time anyway" and its been happy ever after since then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:18 AM
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They don't have an issue they are simply laughing at you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:23 PM
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you can't sex zone a wife goofy ass wdym a placeholder. you just dont get your dream woman. men marry who they like lmao marrying is a huge risk for men. you dont make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:26 PM
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i get some of all that and occasionally a post where some woman complains how men these days are not mega rich billionaires like their books and most of the men are ugly short and want an egalitarian relationships. i tried to avoid those posts but most of their comments are filled with women agreeing with it too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:22 PM
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all interlinked and grey. i mean men should still keep the romance alive but its not just upto the man to keep the romance alive. women who dont get intimacy should initiate and keep courting their partner too. her peer will quite often encourage her to cheat on her partner. men give up the dating after marriage and will not make his wife feel desired. It basically boils down to who wants what more and almost all the time its the man who desires it most and then the burden is on him again which …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:12 PM
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No, this is a "you" experience based on what you watched, searched, rewatched, upvoted Nah he is right. Social media is overwhelmingly filled with man hating content creators and they aren't facing any consequences soo it popular to hate on men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:49 AM
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Don't care about what they want mf. Stay legal and safe. Better single and outside than be in jail. It's not worth it. Y'all should stop catering to what women want all the time
/r/MensRights09/02/24 03:36 AM
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The former outweighs the latter by a huge margin is what I am trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:57 AM
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I mean they never liked her if they cheated. They only wanted sex. Men can smell out these types of men from a mile away ig
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:39 AM
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The second one happens in average households. This can partly be the man's fault too cause he will also stop being courteous. But yeah it can be due to work stress and other external factors
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:36 AM
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Men are not the ones to claim "there is no butterflies in the relationship" or sum shi like that. It's mostly she hits menopause OR Women who are plain like that often will have a negative attitude towards sex and will not be enthusiastic in it. This might be the reason for men to get bored of her I am guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:34 AM
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Men who seek Novelty will also belong in the higher classes of the economy who are basically loved and thirsted by women. When women go after the rich and older man what else did she expect. He is a douche all men know it but his wealth and charismatic personality will not let women see their behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:32 AM
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A man who loves his woman will not seek out other women when she gets old. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:28 AM
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Sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:15 AM
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Better left alone than annoying yk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:52 AM
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A woman who don't have the courage to approach you will never initiate anything in your relationship with you in the long run. It gets tedious and dehumanising after a while in a LTR. A woman who won't make you feel desired, wanted and loved is not worth having a relationship with So I'd rather stay alone than go and approach women and then thinking if they want to be with me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:45 AM
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Being fine with it and wanting it are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:43 AM
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Well true. But virgins suck. I don't want a girl who would yoink my junk like it's a rubber hose. Experienced women are not only better but also known what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:53 AM
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Less sexual experience is NOT a pros
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:11 AM
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Who's hungrier? A person who can eat 1 sandwich or a person who eats 3 sandwiches
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:44 AM
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But your stomach will be filled with a loaf of bread but she can eat 8 courses of a meal and still have space for more. Men have it wider and women have it deeper I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:27 AM
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Yep. It's not that I hate women but I in my entire life have never seen it. And tons of guys will relate to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:25 AM
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Feel free to try and make a dating profile for a guy, using your average everyday guy pictures and see how far that takes you. I don't use dating apps cause I only prefer to date people i already know. And dating apps are dependent on shallow materialistic things soo it won't go anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:25 AM
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It is not something that happens rarely. it has happened to me quite many times. You rarely hear about the girl who falls in love with a guy, who then rejects her because clearly the girl only wanted to be friends with him to fuck him. In most cases if she falls in love with him, he's usually willing to explore that, because it's so dang rare for it to happen. Again this happens a lot too. I myself have had to reject some of my lady friends who have been my friends cause I wanted them to remain …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:23 AM
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You may be onto something here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:15 AM
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Soo real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:14 AM
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Never heard or seen women apologising towards a man ever in my life. Not my mother, not my grandmother, not my aunt's, not my friends, and I know for a fact that almost all of the men would know what I am saying. It's almost fictional to see a woman apologising to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:11 AM
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Why don't you approach if you want a date so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:29 PM
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make friends with women and risk either getting nothing, getting told you're a fake friend because you wanted to bang them all along not when both of you and her were actually friends and then fell in love (not wanting sex) and NO they wont shame you they will only reject you (if they are a decent human) and things may get awkward ​ The lack of a clear method for men to court and find a partner is the problem. This was caused entirely by women and women's choices in how to change the dating game…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:07 AM
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what tf are you yapping about, i treat my male and female friends the same, just say you are a harasser if you HAVE to make women feel safe around you. there is no EMOTIONAL LABOUR to be a normal decent person lol i touch and hug my female friends the same way i touch my male friends lmao no i dont soften my language what tf are you even on??? things will be much different in a relationship, ofc you and your partner will reassure eachother and give eachother comfort and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:01 AM
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these are like the bare minimum, dont tell me women never talks to you to know you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:57 AM
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how bad would your reading comprehension have to be for you to understand that from what i've said. idc what people call me, and its not about knowing her past trauma, approaching women as a stranger does put most of them in an uncomfortable position (i cant say for all but i can confidently say the majority)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:55 AM
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i don't know what y'all guys are on but i am nice to my friends because i like them and cherish them irrespective of gender. my male and female friends get treated the same and why would I make my close friend someone who i am attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:47 AM
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Make sure you never have children
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:45 AM
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If being respectful is emotional labour to you then you shouldn't be out there mf. And sucks for yiu nobody has ever been a decent human to you. Being a dick isn't equality and being a decent polite person is in no way a burden. You are just an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:06 AM
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It is dehumanising for men and creates a goofy image about them for women around them. It sends a message that they are desperate and further decreases their value
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:04 AM
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I'm a man and I never had to do that. You don't HAVE to approach it's your choice. You can choose not to approach. Some women WILL approach
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:06 AM
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You will have friends and they will have other friends and y'all link up. You go to an event or party make a new friend there that girl can be your potential date but not then and there...... The situations are endless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:55 AM
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All the men advocating cold approaches would never allow a stranger man to ask out their daughters and then those girls would accept it. Not all men suddenly become all men when it's their daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:52 AM
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Are you stupid? Treat them like a respectful human doesn't mean be rough with them like how you are with your buddies. Just take their opinion and understand social cues
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:50 AM
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I'd say they are right cause you put women in a position to say yes to an offer from someone they know nothing about and if you know the potential risk women face throughout their life then you'd know how risky it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:48 AM
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It's more of a stupid risk. Men can play their battles wisely and pick who they can have success wifh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:45 AM
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You are delusional if you think approaching strangers on the road is the only way to get women to date you. Almost 90% of cold approaches don't work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:44 AM
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They aren't stopping enough I'd say Don't approach strangers all together to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:42 AM
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you gotta be more subtle about it and only say it to very few people whom you and them know are very much close that it seems you are saying something very personal and you trust them. it is not something you be brash and open about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:21 AM
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You asked them 🤦 yeah ofc they will say that cause that would spark some red flags like you are desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:17 AM
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Knowing people or being social is not a privilege lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:16 AM
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I mean having friends would save someone from reaching dangerous pits of loneliness and love is something that will come when you are socially well off. It's a catch up to 22 typa situation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:15 AM
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Don't you have female friends or any platonic lady acquaintances
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:09 AM
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why do yall put the value women like they are an object
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:33 AM
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Women had less choices and were forced to settle. forced consent is not consent. now atleast they could choose if they want to or not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:32 AM
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already know a lot of people and NOT via a potential date but as friends and members of the same community
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:19 AM
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i don't question your authenticity and the way you described your relations does seem real. i was not talking about the people like you but the people who post about how women dont give them attention and how to appraoach women but then when asked about them they suddenly lie that they are 80 bodies chads with 300k income. and a lot of men dont experience the true female attraction, most of them only try to keep the women they date around them which looks dehumanising and derogatory to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:18 AM
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dating isn't the only remedy to loneliness. you can have friends and other close bonds. the male loneliness epidemic is due to men not being good friends to eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:13 AM
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i second this as a man. you worded it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:10 AM
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getting to know them closer. why not simply approach women you already know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:09 AM
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Its not just women, I as a man too don't like cold approaches. how can i date a stranger whom I've never met and how can i even expect them to say yes to a complete stranger? And on the men's side it feels dehumanising to go ask a complete stranger and get rejected most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:09 AM
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All PPD REDDITORS who will be whining about women not giving incels their time if asked about themselves are suddenly men with 6 figure income and 50+ bodies But they will also complain how women are hoes and go for 80/20 rule but they are simultaneously not affected by it by some weird reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:37 PM
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This is soo much. All the guys complaining about everything in women, they all could just stop enabling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:58 AM
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Huh what the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:57 AM
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Idk how feminism (a movement for equal rights and opportunities for women) come into this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:56 AM
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The vast majority of women who are not partying staceys are down with 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:48 AM
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It's your choice mate! Nobody forcing you to be with a woman who forces you to provide for her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:48 AM
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Men collectively could shut that shit down by calling them out but No y'all would let them make you dance around their fingers. I don't see men calling women who are against 50/50, red flags. All men could absolutely hold them accountable but they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:45 AM
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It's upto men and they themselves won't let another man enjoy the benefits of progressiveness. Nobody demeans another man about their masculinity more than other men. You always see "men should be providers" "real men pay" "men should take care of their women" from other men mostly. Feminists are down to break this gender role but men won't let them. Especially so called 'red pill'-ers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:43 AM
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How stupid do you gotta be to arrive at that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:57 PM
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What's wrong with people enjoying sex. You're just bitter you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:50 AM
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Many men (such as myself) go for older and mature women (30 and above) who are waaay better in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:29 PM
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I love how he dodges and weaves around the question damn. Bro society is you!!! And everything you said huge agree mate I stand with this as these were my similar experiences too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:53 AM
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Yeah yeah if That's your point then yeah. People of similar backgrounds will be the ones to end up always. Men are considered high value because women value money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:58 AM
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being from a rich background. They all will be from wealthy families
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:54 AM
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once again it proves how dumb red pill people can be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:45 PM
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Yes they do what type of sad life do you lead man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:15 PM
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Yeah but we men are the ones who enable it If half the male population weren't thirsty simps who'd let women walk all over them then it wouldn't be acceptable. But y'all continue to not hold women to the same standards as men Especially pretty narcissistic women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:08 AM
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the men who say "don't believe what a woman says look at how she acts, their point is being backfired in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:02 AM
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Red pillars gonna cry with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:55 AM
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Male friendships are beyond your noodle brain comprehension if you think remembering birthdays are necessary for it. Men who are lonely are lonely because due to providing for their women and children they will lose friends and their hobbies and thus have no social connections. None of the wives let their husbands have fun with their friends while they have it plenty. Thus their wives are the only emotional connection they have and women like you who are the majority, demean and disrespect them …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:41 PM
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They can lick my boot. Men don't have any say in what femininity is the same way Women don't have any say in what masculinity is. Someone with similar values tends to respect people more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:43 PM
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i dont think women have any say in what is masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:07 PM
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they got friends and birds of feather flock together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:06 PM
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No tf it's not. I am a 19 year old college student who is broke and short (5'6 ish) and I was never an incel or anything but his experience is similar to mine, most dudes I know at college and most of my friends are similar, they chill, become friends with girls some hit them up, some they hit up, some don't work out, some does, some only gets hookups it's all about going with the flow. Most guys aren't desiring to catch all women like the Pokemon but like what's with them and think less about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:41 PM
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He is a man and I am a man too and what he said is true for most guys pretty much y'all just overcomplicating stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:36 PM
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Idk either All you said is something I relate to and i thought it was quite normal but here in PPD it seems not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:35 PM
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Soo this getting into relationships with women you already know isa foreign concept to PPD men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:34 PM
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Soo this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:02 AM
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Simply don't approach and give them signs. The right one will approach and that's how you know they are worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:02 AM
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Another key factor is women are less prone to being charged with creepy allegations cause they seem less threatening. Thus they blindly advance in fear of no repercussions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:01 AM
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To all men who think women never initiate, women do approach and not just chads but guys they are interested in but then they won't be this model Stacey but a regular girl like yourself who will much more be into 50/50 and will offer to pay her share in a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:58 AM
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You completely missed his point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:54 AM
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Cause I can and I don't have terrible self esteem to enable a woman who wants to use me Most of those men you Mentioned have low self image about themselves and their masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:11 PM
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There is no friendzone if you don't want to fuck her or date her. Sometimes men want to be friends with women. And not all Women want to date with every guy they have sex with, sometimes women wanna keep it casual too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:09 PM
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Bi girls with piercings and tats with coloured hair, who are your best friends give you the best dating advice as a straight guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:07 PM
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I (as a man) relate to OP and I am like OP but most men aren't at all. They would rather stay in a shitty relationship than be single this may stem from the fact that men aren't that caring enough for their friends (or it is gay to show affection, idk) and men aren't loved or given much affection as a child and it is normalised for them to be neglected. So the male loneliness starts from childhood and they act like that towards their friends resulting in widespread behaviour (this also affects t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:02 PM
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Most of what he says is NOT TRUE. I don't want to FUCK MY FEMALE FRIENDS even if I can see their attractive. Not everyone is sex starved like OP mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:11 AM
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Or maybe....just maybe they are friends??? Did that cross your mind They can see each other not as fuckable beings but human beings and people they share interests with and BE FRIENDS???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:09 AM
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Why should they sympathise tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:07 AM
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In other words you are entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:52 PM
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Literally you are right it's the opposite. the men who desire a "feminine woman" to submit to them and let them be "masculine" are the ones who stay bitchless and also get used by women. They later complain that women are nothing but gold diggers and all are "fucking Chad and going for the top percent of men" (basically all of this sub) Most of these men can't even keep friendship with women and expect their wives to be virgins etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:49 PM
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Keep up the good life ma'am more power to you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:44 PM
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I am not American but i would love to date someone like you or the ones you mentioned (i have up dating and marriage and you restored my hope ma'am)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:44 PM
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Would all the men here justifying 30+ men dating 19-25 year old women allow the same for their daughter? Would they be fine with their daughter marrying someone 15+ years older than them? If not that's double standards and it shows all there is to know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:29 AM
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You summed it up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:36 PM
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Bro you delusional fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:07 PM
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They set themselves for the L I'd say. Non trad women are far better to date only if the guy were to lower his entitlement a Lil bit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:05 PM
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Soo many green flags in the replies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:04 PM
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Soo many green flags in the replies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:04 PM
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I want what both of yall have, this is soo cute and wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:00 PM
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Where can one find a woman like you milady You ma'am are a Queen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:58 PM
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Having three sisters made me understand how self centred and materialistic women are They also need constant validation and action of affirmations which can get tiresome. They are much more reliant on emotions and think with how they feel and not how the situation is. They mostly want special treatment cause they are women. Their selfishness comes off natural to them and needed irl humbling experiences to unlearn it, you can't tell them anything about their flaws no matter how constructive it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:51 AM
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That's what happens when you approach, pay for dates and pay for everything. Make her want you or don't want it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:40 AM
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Hell no wide generalization can never be made about things like that. My girlfriend loves sex a lot is constantly horny, i myself have little to no interest in it half the time and can go in a relationship without it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:38 AM
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I mean don't approach strangers. Women are scared of stranger men and for a good reason too so to date someone you gotta make them feel safe I'd say unless you have mutual connections don't just go and approach any women you feel attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:37 PM
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I meant they don't like being cold approached they want men to make the first move yes but not approached especially by a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:36 PM
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Nobody pressuring y'all to work tho and you won't die without sex or romantic relationship soo I don't see the analogy properly work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:31 PM
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Soo real if men got this their dating life would be soo much better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:24 PM
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Men dont give a crap about anyone else because it is who we are. Yeaahhh okay sure buddy Man stfu saying shi like that and don't speak for all of us. There are many men who do care about others you and the so called lonely men you represent are 100% deserved to be that way cause you all think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:23 PM
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Cause this simple message being said by a thousand women still can't get into yalls head
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:18 PM
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Hypocrisy much??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:17 PM
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Women who don't like it are the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:08 PM
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They leave when they know they are wrong There is no accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:41 PM
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Yeah same for men bucko what's your point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:41 PM
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I've been saying this and the men who have been complaining how to approach women are the ones fighting me saying otherwise. Most women I ask irl and women online say they don't want to be approached. Even I want to tilt the table favouring men but these guys can't think that far
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:40 PM
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I've been saying this and the men who have been complaining how to approach women are the ones fighting me saying otherwise. Most women I ask irl and women online say they don't want to be approached. Even I want to tilt the table favouring men but these guys can't think that far
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:40 PM
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Love yourself and don't be dependent on their love then Wdym not date me? I am a man If men learn to have standards then their life would get easier and to have standards they must be secure in themselves first. Don't put your self worth on the number of partners you have and learn to make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:30 PM
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Learn to have standards man. That's the whole point If all men collectively have standards then shit would change who cares if they are pissed you don't want them anyway so their opinion doesn't matter and there are lots of women who are willing to pay for you let alone pay for their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:28 PM
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If it is a lie then you don't deserve friends bucko. Learn to care about people before whining that nobody cares. Don't make it the women's job to men's issues learn to care and be there for your fellow homies and stop the cycle of nobody caring
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:24 PM
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Womp womp grow up conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:17 PM
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She means don't approach dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:21 AM
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A small minority fr. Most women you I and all know don't want to be approached especially by PPL they don't know But for that you need to go outside and talk to women, something you wouldn't know ig
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:19 AM
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Soo this Don't approach at all would work better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:17 AM
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Soo this There is no need to go out and do cold approach. If a woman likes you she will come to you and all you need to do is play along Why can't most men in PPD understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:31 AM
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Simply don't approach women in public???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:30 AM
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He ain't lost nothing. Relationships come and go the joy is what matters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:00 PM
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Letting women approach or even the playing field and make them approach
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:33 PM
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Yes shows that she is entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:31 PM
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If "Bro I am here for you no matter what. I'll help you with whatever you need" is a comforting lie to you then you deserve your loneliness and don't deserve any friends. Start genuinely caring for your friends bucko.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:15 PM
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One thing every man can do is let women approach them. When their gf is super into them all of their problems would turn around and benefit them. But these men are too ✨ masculine ✨ to let a woman approach them saying shi like "as a man i should lead. She should be feminine and submissive"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:12 PM
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I mean.....he is winning soo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:46 AM
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The easiest way is to kill your libido and make her want it more by being totally off put. Once she hits 35 your gf/wife will have an increase in libido and then she wants it more and you become petty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:44 AM
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Not the way you think but in the process of showing her other women want him he subconsciously creates an idea that he is attractive thus his woman would want him more or become horny for him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:41 AM
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An ex for a reason see? that kinda women are just bad for uoi
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:54 AM
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Those women are red flags then. Learn to have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:53 AM
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Works well for me every time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:52 AM
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The real question is why is he continuing to stay in that relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:51 AM
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Soo this. Most men in here never get to experience a woman not just liking you for stuff but actually like you. But then they would never see the plain Jane as worth dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:50 AM
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If a girl says stuff like "you are too broke" or "a man should pay and give me princess treatment" then she is an immediate red flag no matter how beautiful she is. If a girl is really into you she wouldn't mind the occasional coffee date or splitting the bill albeit you get your entitlement down and be open to a genuine connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:48 AM
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Have you ever tried to go out of this and cared for your fellow male friends or do you also perpetrate it. You seem part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:23 AM
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They themselves aren't valid. Natural selection lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:33 AM
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100% agree it benefits both of us but men simply can't see this and i never know why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:11 AM
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I think it should go even down and men shouldn't approach women at all. Guys spin the table around and make them approach you instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:58 AM
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A small strawman outlier isn't a representation of all women. Most women would be happy if nobody approached them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:55 AM
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thats kinda how you deal with women to avoid unnecessary fights. it might sound demeaning but its true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:24 AM
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their game being played against them. this is smart
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:19 AM
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Why do you care about how they are tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:30 AM
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You just have bad friends dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:44 AM
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This is as real as it gets But there are always some toxic women but this is the realest advice for common women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:17 AM
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Women don't just like men that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:14 AM
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All these men bitching about approaching could never understand that they are choosing to approach. If you don't approach and strictly hold to it then you will eventually get approached
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:25 AM
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Some people are just a lost cause mate just don't bother
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:07 AM
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And have strict standards and self control but most men are lonely for that and they would rather kill themselves than open up to their homies or God forbid have female friends who they can talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:11 AM
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A pretty good one. Stop being soo sissy about intimacy and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:50 AM
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the first one is ultra rare and is a gem. they would be the best person to date. the second one is all of the 4th wave feminists now and as some guy here said, "as a man dating a feminist is like a black person dating a KKK member"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:24 AM
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This Most men don't get this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:01 AM
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Real where can I find someone like you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:22 AM
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Same experience. I've had this happen to me since I was 15 even in public buses, streets and in washrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:32 AM
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Women initiates 80% of divorces ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:53 AM
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Can't you read
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:52 AM
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Women just hate men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:51 AM
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Simply don't do it. How easy can it be Y'all just whining rn like if you don't want to approach don't approach and collectively if all men do it women would need to approach and then it's easy. Once in a while you people can learn from women to rather be alone than be miserable in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:52 AM
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Why do women think they have the right to say what a man is. Once again never date conservative women
/r/MensRights02/09/23 03:00 PM
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Oh you sweet summer child. You haven't been on twoX
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:49 PM
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Google divorce rates and who initiates them. So many men stay in relationships even after being cheated on because they are worried for the children and how divorce courts will fuck them up and take away their custody
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:50 PM
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Free meals gifts etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:20 PM
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A load of bs. Ask married men how nasty their lives have been
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:42 AM
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Nah bro you just ugly af. All my previous girlfriends have initiated first. Its upto you to change the tables
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:40 AM
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She herself says it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:51 AM
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Not this. Women with experience>>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:51 AM
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That sub is a man hating, sub which casually says kill all men and give advices to women like neglect and abuse their sons. They talk about raping male children and cutting off their genitals. Enslaving men burning them and how women are the ones who should rule and oppress men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:44 AM
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Its not about not being able to get girls but no woman will look at a 5'4 guy and think "I am attracted to him"
/r/MensRights27/08/23 12:57 PM
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You haven't been to r/twox
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:32 AM
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The significant intervention are from the feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:15 AM
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Both in school and work environment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:14 AM
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I see a man of culture
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:49 PM
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Yes. It is a hard pass on virgins. They tend to be starfishes in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:48 PM
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The OP is a woman y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:47 PM
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OP is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:45 PM
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OP is 100% from r/ FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:44 PM
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I feel bad for her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:38 AM
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Masters degree in no bitches it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:28 AM
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Mfs soo lonely the compete with their own brothers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:56 PM
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You as a person is extremely rare and a gem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:26 PM
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I ain't doing none. All men should collectively come together and decide to love and put themselves first
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:23 PM
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You as a girl telling us guy what we want is the most delusional stuff I've seen in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:14 PM
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I disagree. Women with long noses>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:11 PM
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We don't find 90% of women ugly that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:09 PM
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I don’t think women know how much it hurts men when they don’t have a woman Get off your high horse. You aren't entitled for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:04 AM
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Cause most can't change their height
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:02 AM
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For men, stop wanting to pay for everything and trying to be the provider. Learn to kick back and relax, turn the tables a Lil bit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:39 AM
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Plus they stop at one rejection and act as if men are just immune to rejection. If men weren't thirsty enough to always make the first move and held some strict standards, a lot of things will change
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:32 AM
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They can't fully contemplate it. Believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:39 AM
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He's a hardcore right leaning Christian
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:37 PM
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The plain Jane is attractive to many men but the average Joe is liked by no one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:53 PM
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No idea. There are some really weird men out there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:32 AM
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