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| 3 | Seeing naturals self-amuse vs guys who aren’t very good with womenI agree with most of your stuff. You are right people who don't understand it are missing out on an essential skill. When I self amuse for bantering a girl ... I literally have the giggles first before I delivery the banter. I am laughing at my own banter first, I giggle from within, than I deliver the banter. - Banter: Playfully challenging the girl. Same when I am dancing. I would get the zoomies, like how dogs get spontaneously excited. - To help with this is to close your eyes on the dance f… | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What is your favorite Boyfriend Destroyer?Again i am just reading OP's note saying they dont care about morality. - I agree with you. I dont go for girls who are in relationship. I am just explaining how to do it and still get the lay. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What is your favorite Boyfriend Destroyer?I am not saying that is the right thing to do ... I am just saying how to do it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 06:27 PM |
| 5 | What is your favorite Boyfriend Destroyer?Ignore and keep on gaming. - as long you show you dont care she has a bf ... like you are indifferent. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:30 PM |
| 2 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.lol to prevent this you have to do what the girl does ... to have options | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:04 AM |
| 3 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Not sure ... probably took me 2 to 3 years since I discovered this process. - before that I would get approach anxiety were i wouldn't be able to approach at all. - so then I started working on how to deal with anxiety. - I was like most of the noobs here ... being snipers of approaching only the girl you have a crush on. There is no rejection if you lower your definition of success. - if you define your success "did you approach at all?" ... if answer is yes ... then that is success. Anything a… | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Cold approaches is about reducing anxiety (focusing on the future). - the opposite of focusing on the future is getting your self present in the moment. - to get more and more present in the moment is to continuesly do therapy exposure to give proof to the brain that you wont die from approach strangers. - that therapy exposures is done by following a process that follows doing escalating risk cold approaches. - for before any social events ... I would do low risk approach like approach 5 strang… | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 11:52 AM |
| 6 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?It was pretty bad on my sleep. I worked continental shift. So I would work 6am to 6pm (with every other weekend i would have 3 day weekend). After work I would sleep for 4 hours. Get to clubs at 11pm. Take a girl home at 2am. Go home at 4am to prep for 6am shift. - was so tired that I would often would not be able to get it up lol. Girls would be so dissapointed. But the thing is I got my reps in. - I use PUA tactics in the clubs/bar to get girl comfortable for me to drive them home. I would ask… | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 03:28 AM |
| 9 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?I practices PUA. - I sucked at the beginning. PUA got me to take lots of actions. - Unfortunately, there is a lot of shit products for PUA ... but there are really good ones to. I tried a good portion of the shit and the good stuff. Now I have a great time. - My best year was 89 same night/day lays. I went out 7 days though. That number doesn't include lays from dates and relationships that year. I am 5'6 Asian with acne scars. I was poor growing up. Thankfully I was the class clown growing up..… | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Between fearing god of commenting adultery and approaching excitementI mean girls do this all the time. They would interact with dudes and not have sex with them .... why can't you do the same? You actually become more successful in approaches when you don't think about the sex .... that is called outcome independency ... | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 11:31 PM |
| 1 | RSD instructors ranked from Best to WorstRSD Brad, Alex, Julian, Tim, Jeffy, Todd and Tyler ... - Best for learning the basics and the foundation. - Fucking RSD Tim was revolutionary for natural game. - Jeffy and Brad was great for foundation. Tonality and authority - Alex did some crazy experiment on how to invoke negative and positive spikes during the interaction ... and how to hook by using time to build trusts. - Julian was great for teaching how to make it more fun - Then Tyler for inner game and process to get in the present mom… | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”I dont think that has ever worked. I have not seen anyone be successful calling a girl out for interacting with other guys when our relationship status is mutual. But try it out and see if it works.... - like what u r saying you "think" ... so test it out until it becomes a fact. - call a girl out, that u r pursueing, when you find out she is talking to other guys ... see what happens. | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”If you stand up to her prior to opening other girls ... do you think you will look like you are butt hurt about it? - Think about it. "You should stop texting the guy you like ... and instead like me someone you just met today. We are on a date!" .... lol no thank you ... Now who is chasing me after I open the 2 girls ... she is the one butt hurt that I started talking to other girls and left her. - I would rather take this method ... the one that gets me laid method ... well actually she is the… | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 11:35 PM |
| 1 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”Well I say that because I have other scenarios where this method works similar to OP's cousin story. Were the girl is not into you ... be cool with it ... pursue other girls ... then they come back super into you. And you should NOT escalate on a girl who is not into you .... If you do what I am recommending the girl is the one who escalates :p ... which one is better you taking the girls clothes off ... or her ripping your fucking clothes off? | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?Ok ask better questions then ... What you need help on? | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?I think they are good replies ... You can only connect the dots looking back. - Meaning you won't comprehend any of this until you try it your self. So go try it out .... noob. If you wanted answers on how to not run of things to say when opening ... why didn't you write a post on that question? lol | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?That is a different topic of what your post is asking ... mate. Make a new post on that question to get people to answer ... | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?Well use that as a guide to learn the correct behaviors ... You can spend 8 hours practicing... practicing the right behaviors or practicing the wrong behaviors. (I think that is a Michael Jordan quote) - add to the fact you probably have been practicing bad behaviors ... that repels girls ... since you were young. Your brain wants proof not promises ... - it takes an average of 66 days of consicous repetition to form a habit. Seduction .... | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?To behave like the rich, powerful, beautiful, people of status ... behaves. This is called perceived high status. - most of these people who have high status are outcome dependent. Meaning they dont care about getting the sex or relationship because they have that at home already waiting for them ... so instead they focus on the present moment on what they can do to feel good now.... hence the richer gets richer. - that is 70% of game ... the inner game part. - so u dont have to have does things… | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 02:27 PM |
| 2 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”Explain how she would of fucked me when she was into another guy? - if I didnt approach other girls and still called her out ... why would she lose attraction to a guy who she has been flirting with and fuck a guy she just met that day. She was ignoring me prior to me approaching other girls. My date even said I was not her type to her friend. Explain to me your strategy of banging her that night without approaching other girls ... | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 12:07 PM |
| 1 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”Does the advice work? Explain why people should not take advice that helps them get what they want? What is a better advice? | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”How will they beat it if they are unconscious of it? So I point it out is all ^_^ ... I seriously am rooting for them to beat it. - I experienced what they are going through ... It would be worst if they don't beat their limits ever! | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 09:09 PM |
| 2 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”Not if they are unconscious of their limits and challenges people from learning the solution. - I just said people in this sub says you can't do what OP is recommending. When OP says there is a solution ... why would people who unconsciously have limiting believes stop others from learning it? Why wouldn't I defend the solution from these people and call them out? - They call me out saying you can't change a girls mind when it comes to her not liking you ... | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”Not necessary ... I also had those limits and overcame them. - I went through what they are going through ... and I want to help them to get what they want. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 05:43 PM |
| 2 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”But ain't everyone a cousin of someone? Making that quote apply to everyone even your self ... :p | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 15 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”Someone might learn. I remember I was on a double date my cousin set up. The girl I was with was openly texting another dude that has been pursuing her. Even told the whole group about him how excited she is about this dude. - I remember we where sitting outside and there was two girls sitting across from us. I remembered this topic on how to get the girl attracted to me by opening other girls... I read from a forum. - I was nervous as fuck lol ... So I opened the other two girls with "2 seconds… | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 05:36 PM |
| 111 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”People here will ignore this because of their limiting beliefs that you cant "negotiate" a lack of attraction from a girl. - which their first mistake is treating it as a transaction in the first place. Cheers man .. hope u experience what ur cousin experienced ... abundance mind set and willing to walk away/lose the girl.... gets the girl. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 04:39 PM |
| 3 | I can't wrap my head around preselection?So I like to bust everyone's balls and open everyone (guys and girls) - my purpose is to build momentum to get me closer and closer to present in the moment. This is associated to having high "self" esteem. Which reduces anxiety and insecurities. - busting peoples balls is me bantering with people (guys and girls) ... bantering is playfully challenging people. This is a form of "self" amusement. - busting peoples balls ... is me generating the giggles from within ... the giggles put me in a good… | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 02:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you secure a mature lady as a younger man?Opps my bad ... I thought it was directed to me ... My bad | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you secure a mature lady as a younger man?Possibility ... I knew psychologist students often work with rats and or mouse to work on the thesis. - But, not enough to be offended. That was a shit test because she sense too much of incongruence off the guy. Hence how odd and how over reacted the shit test was. - the incongruence of filtering one self not too fuck it up ... when she already dtf. to pass a shit test is not to defend but to agree. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 08:54 AM |
| 0 | How do you secure a mature lady as a younger man?Anytime when a girl is offended ... "Sorry. I tend to look for peoples' boundaries. If I crossed them. I am sorry. I understand if you dont want to talk to me anymore. But the fact you called me out ... makes me want to get to know you even more. But, I understand if you want to stop talking to me." I use this all the time when I screw up or offended a girl ... they come back even more in love with me because i am willing to walk away. Edit: not sure why she got offended by what u said thu ... l… | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 08:45 PM |
| 5 | The Problem with Seduction "advice" and "methods"Great posts ... I usually teach the same thing of getting rid of anxiety for each specific scenario. - it also helps when you say the specific anxiety that is commonly experienced and provide a solution ... because the person reading it will have commonality with that anxiety described...shows empathy and that you actually took action facing it... getting them to be bought in with the solution ... The worst are the guys who secretly agrees... but their ego wont allow them to admit maybe they r w… | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 01:00 PM |
| 0 | (from a woman) what do very requested men look for in a girl?Is she cool to hang out with? - is she cool to hang out with to go to EDM showz. I also see how physical fit she is to see if u meets the requirements of joining a coed sports (basketball and/or volleyball) I get her to do some pylon drills even lol | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 12:21 PM |
| 0 | Is "you have an arabic nose" a good neg?Yes but it was about her friend not her...? That's not negging. Unless your target was actually the friend that was being annoying lmao.. You said that ... Edit: forgot to add lmao .... | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 09:00 AM |
| 0 | Is "you have an arabic nose" a good neg?According to ur definition... u can neg anyone. I neg guys ... we call it busting balls Great to neg everyone ... it shows u treat everyone equally ... rich people (rich guys or guys of authority) will be drawn to you because they rarely experience people who treat them equally ... | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Is "you have an arabic nose" a good neg?I always thought negging is to knock the girl off the pedestal... in a playful manner. It was delivered at the correct time .... during a shit tests. Most guys would of been butt hurt and would of defended them selves and apologized. What is ur definition of negging? | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Is "you have an arabic nose" a good neg?it depends on the delivery and how you feel when saying it. - If you really believe that it is funny ... and you say it with a smirk ... it could work. But delivered wrong it may come off as offensive. The difference between a good comedian and a bad comedian is - Bad comedian's are reaction seeking ... they rely their good mood off the girls reaction. Meaning they say a joke, waits for the girl to react, did she laugh then you feel good. If she didn't laugh then you feel bad. In fact the though… | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Is "you have an arabic nose" a good neg?I am similar ... memorized all the canned stuff. Lol I remember watching the TV series and was like I found the holy grail ... but now when I re watched it ... it is so cringe... plus it was so hard to actually use the routines in the club/bar blasting music so no one can hear you and guys end up buying more drinks due to anxiety to approach. I definitely think canned routine feels so fake... but the thing is it kind of like training wheels ... to help you take action and to get reference experi… | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Is "you have an arabic nose" a good neg?I think that quote is from Mystery's canned routine to neg a girl ... hence why he is calling it a neg .... the "You can dress her up but can't take her anywhere" part | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseNot necessarily. I remember approaching a girl at the beginning of the club ... got rejected ... re approached her at the end of the night and got the same night lay. (edit: I did a lot of social proofing in the club ... girl probably saw that) I also went on a double date with my cousin. Where his date brought the sister for me. - my date would be openly texting another guy in front of me. She would even openly say to everyone how excited she is about him to the group and me. - so when were sit… | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 10:18 PM |
| 5 | How to avoid "performed reluctance" / anti-slut-defenseFuck boys have abundance ... they are willing to walk away because they have other girls. - drug dealers, djs, club promoters. - they are fun to be around ... Why you think married woman have sex with them ... when they are in a relationship. Why do girls make other guys wait for sex ... when they have sex with other guys on the same day. I practice same day sex and same night sex when meeting a girl for the first time ... to accomplish this is I dont tell her any thing about my life that would … | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Can We Please Stop With the Dating Coaches and "Gurus"?Did u ever thought that it is ur algorithm feeding ur feed? | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 01:07 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid "performed reluctance" / anti-slut-defenseYou can make this easier by getting the girl to classify you as a fuck boy instead of boy friend material. They make you wait for sex because they want to date you so you they dont want to appear easy. To be classified as a fuck boy is to get her to chase you sexually. Also, it is better to classify performed reluctance ... as buyers remorse because this covers things that make her feels like a slut in public (edit also covers false accusatios!!!). For example making out with her in public and i… | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid "performed reluctance" / anti-slut-defenseI agree with you. Not many women will go out of their way to lead so the situation avoids being a slut .... So I would lead and take her in a dark corner or behind the drapes to get intimate. - I would evem avoid making out with her completely to increase my odds of same night lay. - If I do need to get her contacts I would even turn our bodies away from friends eyes so they dont see me get her contacts. | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 12:56 PM |
| 7 | Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af nglWhat u say ... is it an assumption or a fact? Only one way to find out is you go approach ur self. Start out low risk ... go ask people for directions (even thu you dont need it) - to prove ur self they are not gross out by you. - do this 5 times (or more) daily. - I dont care if you feel anxiety doing it. It will lessen the more u do it. Then up the risk of approaches by starting conversation with strangers (guy and girls) Sorry man ... u have to approach without any indication of interest from… | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 04:49 PM |
| 13 | Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af nglSo why would a woman approach you when you dont invite them or acknowledge them? | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 04:41 PM |
| 15 | Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af nglMaybes that is your algorithm telling you woman approaches guys .... - I dont get those reels in my feed .... The obvious suggestion is for you to approach women .... | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 04:37 PM |
| 4 | 'Looks-only' extremists are lying to you and to themselvesGreat post and observation! But in a sense you tubers and influencers get attention of these guys ... by advertising and marketing low level paradigm ideas like "do you want to fuck bitches and make tons of money ... then max out your looks ... today!" because these guys are doom scrolling social media when they are at low level paradigm mode. it is hard to get these guys attention and being bought in if you advertise "treat girls as eqauls by getting present in the moment" ... which is a higher… | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 03:23 PM |
| 3 | 18M How do I avoid becoming an incel?Dont think and focus too far on what a success is ... like success = sex or dating Lower success on the baby steps that gets to sex and/or relationship. - edit: so you become good and to prevent being butt hurt. Be like a scientist and challenge main stream "opinions" ... and turn opinions to hypotheticals. - scientist will then prove if that hypothetical is correct ... by doubting and challenging it. For example - Internet says girls dont want to be interrupted when cold approaching them. - now… | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Able to close kiss but not take her homeLike when ur about to buy something like a t-shirt... but you kind of hesitate maybe cuz it is a Lil too big ... you still buy it. When u get home you dont like it and regret buying it. - the girl at the time/moment was into making out with you. But then she feels regret making out with you in public and in front of friends because she may be labeled as a slut.... so now she feel grossed out by you. - she will even say it is her fault for making out with you ... but she still feels repelled by y… | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Is alcohol a crutch or stepping stone for cold approach?It was weird for me I noticed i relied too much on it. Like a weird addict lol. Especially when anxiety kicks in to hesitate to approach. I remember i did reduce it to one drink. but I remember the mother hen cockblocking me from pulling her friend once I was at my car to drive everyone home. mother hen said she saw me have a drink that I was dangerous to drive. Even thu i only had one at the beginning of the night. Ever since i said no more. My health and wallet was so happy ... plus no more wh… | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Is alcohol a crutch or stepping stone for cold approach?Lol how will you learn but I don't think it's necessary if you know what you're doing If you drink? Through gaming sober .. I learn "not to care" ... being sober. - I can self amuse sober ... meaning I can self amuse 24/7 ... I can use that during my whole life outside bars and clubs .... or are you saying u r drinking 24/7 just incase you see a girl you want to approach at the grocery store? Edit: i game sober | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 10:23 AM |
| 4 | Is alcohol a crutch or stepping stone for cold approach?I think it is a hinder. - you basically have to re-learn cold approach sober when you decide to stop drinking. - mine as well quit now and go through the withdrawals of not relying on drinking. Edit Biggest benefit is you can drive the girl/group home after bars and clubs. | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 09:39 AM |
| 22 | Your cold approach success rate should be LOW!Change your definition of what is a success to "did I approach?". Now your success rate is 100% - Anything after that is bonus - Reduces outcome dependency. - Carries that energy of winning to the next approach. - Less hesitation to do harder sets. Generate upwards spiral of good emotions the more you approach. Seduction ... | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Able to close kiss but not take her homeEither be discreet when doing intimate stuff in public. - Like take her to the dark corner. or don't kiss her at all ... and just do a lot of almost kiss. Up to the guy to make sure the girl doesn't feel like a slut and be judged by society .... - If you do she will get buyers remorse (which is what she is feeling in your case) ... or even can get worst if she gets buyers remorse after the lay. Also helps if you get her to sexual chase you instead of you sexually chasing her. But that is a diffe… | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Which is better: direct or non direct?I just told you how to over come that .... warm up approaches. - So do escalating risk approaches. When you leave your place ... start warming up by doing low risk approaches. Ask 5 strangers for directions (even though you don't need it). Make sure to work on the basics of opening (FTC, smile, speak slowly and clearly, open in front, tonality that drops, maintain relaxed eye contact) - Then amp up the risk .... ask your neighbor, barista, uber driver, bartender, bouncer ... how their day is goi… | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Which is better: direct or non direct?Most effective openers are simple, observational, or playful—such as the "See It, Say It" technique Girl at beach wearing a bikini ... I would false time constraint and then opener Example: "2 seconds 2 seconds. That bikini you are wearing. Where did you get it? I almost wore the same one today. That would of been awkward" Notice how I said TRUE indirect openers ... means you treat people equally. The reason why you struggle to come up with things to say is because you put the girl on a pedestal… | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 1 | 🌃 How To Get Laid From Nightgame (Full Mindmap Breakdown)I do something similar. Has built in social proof! - I use this also to get in a good mood. I probably feel the greatest high (even though I am sober) when I have approached and interacted when I approached 5+ people. - Just imagine how much anxiety you have compared to the first approach you have done that day (after working a 12 hour shift, studying, Netflexing, video gaming) vs the anxiety level you have after approaching 10 people .... probably less.... Great stuff, mate! | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:22 PM |
| 7 | Simp RehabilitationIn the long run ... work on your self esteem. - Guys put their crush and beautiful girls on a pedestal. When you put people on a pedestal you treat yourself beneath them and you put them above you. - Guys who are toxic knocks girls, who are often put on a pedestal by multiple guys, off. - Having high self esteem treats everyone ... hot girls and your crush ... as equals. ( They actually don't define them as hot girls or a crush) In the short term learn how to deal with shit test. - Don't try to … | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Which is better: direct or non direct?In my experience indirect works best because the best approach is when you dont even notice the girl is a 9 or 10. - you put her on a pedestal... just calling her a 9,10, beautiful and/or your crush already puts your self beneath them and her above you. - TRUE indirect opens treats them as equals how you would behave around other guys and girls you are not attracted to. - that treating her as eqauls and not putting her on a pedestal is what attracts her to you and sets the difference between oth… | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | success rate drops when I open my mouthTalk slooooowwwwllllyyy ... emphasis every syllable in every word ... be comfy with silence..... just focus everything on maintaining relaxed eye contact ... say first thing that comes out ur head Not what u say ... this is how I get girls even who dont speak same languange as me. Seduction | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 01:24 AM |
| 0 | Do women want to get approached? If so, why do they flake?Woman are not desperate like guys. Woman gets gradually turned on to get wet. - guys can turn it on or off. Woman, generally, are the ones being approached by multiple approachers (guys) ... since biology they carry the baby. So they have options and less competition. - so their outcome dependency is lower compared to guys... since, generally, they have options to have sex with. But have to select the right guy to survive. Since given birth and having a baby can lead to death or father leaving a… | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 10:46 AM |
| -1 | How to deal with aggressive female cockblockersGetting logistics is the difference between boys and men. Asking the girl, you are gaming, "who are you here with?" Then asking your target to introduce you to them ... is called befriending the mother hen. - edit: the mother hen will be more welcoming to her friend introducing you to her ..instead of you directly introducing yourself to her. - compliment the mother hen while negging your target gets the mother hen to get on your side. - best to also play and game the entire set.... gets the gir… | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?I put 1000+ (plus) ... that means beyond 1000. I didnt want to do the math like what u r doing. Why should I give u an exact number ... I stress out ftc ... because the concept is also used throughout the interaction at the beginning, from the middle, and during the pull ... to make sure the girl doesnt get buyers remorse (feel judged and feel like a slut) - I am also more emphasizing on showing empathy to people ... not hooking. - the emphasizing is just to get the person 100% attention to ur o… | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?For 19 years I have been cold approaching. 1000+ ... (mix of day and night approaches) Mind you ... I do cold approach guys and girls to build momentum (starting conversations with random people so I treat everyone equally ... so when i approach a hot girl ... I dont even notice she is a hot girl) | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 01:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?It is the same because you are communicating with humans. to be successful with cold approach is to treat everyone equally ... means you treat a hot girl the same as you would treat your best friends ... the same you would treat a girl you are not attractive to ... to treat them like how you would treat guys at you work with. I would ftc people at work when I have to quickly interrupt two or more people in mid conversation.. to ask a quick question. So you are saying when you see your crush (for… | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?It doesnt matter if they are happy you interrupted them. - you still interrupted them. Just like how they are happy they made out with you in the moment, in the clubs on the dance floor, then get buyers remorse later because they feel like a slut making out with you in public ... so change her mind about you. - you show empathy by taking her to a dark corner and make out with her discreetly. - this is same concept. Especially if you approach her in public or in front of people she knows. You say… | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?Since u r not replying ..... Ftc counters the anxiety of being rude. - it also shows empathy. This says you understand how the girls feels.... that u understand that you are being rude interrupting her when you are a stranger. - without ftc the girl will think "who is this stranger" - with ftc "oh this won't take too long" - with ftc you get the girls 100% attention. - ftc is great for seated sets, girls walking by, girls with head phones on. You can use ftc when taking the girl home for same da… | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 11:25 PM |
| 2 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?When you say you haven't seen it work ... does that mean you tried it and you got rejected or you haven't seen it used before? Ftc is also used significantly in marketing and cold calling .... studies shows the best cold call scripts has ftc at the beginning. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 06:38 PM |
| 31 | Drop your standardsThe trick is not to obtain value ... but behave how people with value behaves. This is percieved high status. The trick is not define 10s as valueable .. but instead treat them as equal to yourself and everyone else. The exception you speak of .... do you think these guys treat 10s are valuable? No he treats them like other people ... he probably doesnt call them 10s. - now imagine how this guy behaves around these 10s when he treats them as equals .... This is called outcome independency. - you… | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Will i make progress in with one night a week night game?Yes | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 04:02 PM |
| 2 | How realistic is Peter Parker’s transformation in Spider-Man 3?Yeah it can work being toxic. To generalize ... girls are put on a pedestal. - when you put someone on a pedestal the guy gives their self worth to that person. - when you give your self worth to some you generate awkward moments. - the hotter a girl is the more of these guys (& other girls) she interacts with magnifying the awkward moments she experiences... since she was 12. Toxic guys knocks girls off pedestal. That is why they fall in love with them even though they are toxic. The correct wa… | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 01:14 PM |
| 5 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?Get girls attention ... False time constraint ("2 seconds of your time. Then i have to go" .... open) | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 11:57 AM |
| 8 | I think I finally understood what game isSo to work on the 70% done by micro and macro ways to get in the present moment. - getting present in the moment will result it a lot of the guys here commented ... helps with reducing anxiety, not reaction seeking (sucking value), reduces outcome dependency, boost your mood since it release dopamine, willing to walk away. You treat everyone equally... even hot girls and rich people (high status people). - so practicing daily meditation and getting reference experience of taking massive actions … | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 12:53 PM |
| 5 | I think I finally understood what game isYou are right it isnt ... buddy ... lol | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 11:53 AM |
| 25 | I think I finally understood what game isNo that is just 30% ... 70% is inner stuff to get the girl(s) attracted to you. 70% is basically having high self esteem and the ability to get present in the moment ... - you can get present in the moment through following a process and getting reference experience. - the 30% are techniques to move it to what your goal is. You can have 100% and have the girl fall foe you ... but then it doesnt go anywhere. That is why we split it 70/30. - this ratio is how to get to human peak performance... ac… | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 09:09 AM |
| 1 | How often do women approach you?Competing with other more handsomer, taller, muscular, richer guys .... and win | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 11:42 PM |
| 2 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Tonality that rises is considered needy. - For example, a homeless person asking for change. Their tonality rises. "Please (tonality rises), sir, do you have any spare change (tonality rises)?" Tonality that drops is perceived authoritative ... associated with high status. - For example a police officer catching you read handed doing a crime. "Hey (Tonality drops). What are you doing!" To help tonality that drops is to say and emphasis every syllable of a word. - You will notice you will speak s… | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 10:26 PM |
| 2 | How do I become a top notch fuckboy?Thanks for responding .... probably confuses OP even more ... lol | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 07:44 PM |
| 5 | How do I become a top notch fuckboy?That is a great scaling ... I use 0 to 2 scale. - 0: wont touch - 1: will bang but keep it a secret - 2: bang and brag But the scaling is more for taking action and reducing hesitation. What i am talking about is not putting girls (all girls non attractive and attractive) on a pedestal. - to treat them as equal as you. - if you do that then you will be outcome independent. - you will be present in the moment (stops reaction seeking) The neat thing is the more guys, that puts her on a pedestal, t… | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 06:56 PM |
| 9 | Never be afraid to shoot your shot….Confuse them by approaching dudes as well :p ... Just kidding But for real appeoach everyone ... guys, girls u r not attractive to and girls u r attractive to. - now people will say u r just a social guy. - this is also how to get girls to approach u ... Seduction ... | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 04:56 PM |
| 99 | How do I become a top notch fuckboy?U screwed up already by calling them 10s ... that puts them on pedestal. - they are drawn to guys who dont put them on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Flirting is NOT escalation!Flirting = man to woman interaction (to show intention) - Man to woman interaction involves all forms of interaction ... verbally, physically and proximity. - When an observer sees you flirting with a girl .... they don't hear what you say ... but they notice how close your bodies and face are (proximity) and how comfortable physical touch you guys are with each other.... they even assumes you guys are already dating. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:49 PM |
| 4 | How do I create attraction with someone who everyone hits on from my hometown?Work the room and draw the attention of everyone. - I call it "be the hot girl" game. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:44 PM |
| 5 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amI game in Guelph, Kitchener, Waterloo and Toronto. - at clubs, bars, near downtown and I also like EDM shows ... going to veld also. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 11:36 AM |
| 33 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amI'm 38 and I hang out with these girls ... hook up as well. - I live in Canada Ontario ... which is a liberal country - I see these girls again ... we party and play coed sports together. What you feel they feel. So if you feel insecurity they will feel insecurity ..... I love it when they say they love older guys when talking to me .... then feel gross out when guys same age as me hits on them.... lol | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?That is fine ... as long you get the main point. I actually develop this method by copying girls. - For example, at the clubs/bars, generally girls (hot girls) can take any guy home. Mine as well enjoy the night first then when the clubs closes take a guy home. You see the girl boost her mood at the beginning of the night. She could be taking some shoots with her friends, go dance, flirt with a couple of guys here and there, make out with a couple of guys here and there ... then when it is closi… | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 08:01 PM |
| 9 | Is detachment a very powerful seduction technique ?In the streets lets say I gave you $100 for free. You will hesitate and ask me what is the catch? - Most guys chasing girls letting them win just because they are a girl. - Feels like a scam. Generate awkward moments. - You will feel like I have a hidden agenda. - How most guys behave around a hot girl. The hotter the girl is the more guys offering her free things without her earning it other than she is a hot girl. - Just imagine how many awkward moments a girl experiences at a daily bases sinc… | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 02:35 PM |
| 12 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?Every time I go out to socialize I follow a process. - That process builds momentum by escalating risk of approaching everyone (guys and girls) - I would probably talk to 10+ strangers (guys and girls) ... this also works on social proofing. When you social proof you draw everyone's attention in the room. Neat thing when you open everyone is you don't even notice you opened a hot girl. - The whole time I am boosting my mood and getting my self closer to present in the moment. - When you are pres… | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 08:52 AM |
| 2 | How often do women approach you?When I social proof. I get: "You look like you have talked to everyone here" or "Are you the owner. I see you talking to everyone" or "We wanted to meet you earlier" Guys approach me also when I am having a blasts Peeps who are too shy to approach me orbits arounds me.... but are more welcoming to my approaches. I am 5'6 asian ... lean muscle ... ok looks (I try to look mediocre to not use looks as a crutch) | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What does taking the lead look like to you?A tonality that drops. - Shows dominance and an authoritative figure | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 04:34 PM |
| 3 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?I am talking about reading the girls thoughts and answering it for her. - FTC is one of the ways that does that. Shit like ... going for the number ... is her friends watching ... slightly re position each others bodies and use it as a shield to hide getting the number from her friends. Pulling the girl? But she has to leave her friends? Tell her to text her friends and say she is heading out. Walking to the lay spot? Tell the girl it is around the corner. Its literally 2 minutes away. Feel like… | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Dont ... like girls ... need to get aroused and wet inbetween the legs before they want to have sex? - girls are not like guys who can just turn it on ..... This understanding is important also if you do get married .... | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 04:15 PM |
| 7 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Practice cold approach and do False time constraint (FTC) ... to understand the prevention of what you are scared of. - FTC is saying things like "2 seconds 2 seconds of your time. Then I have to go .... " then open. You will notices people will be more welcoming to your approach and open. - The idea of emphasizing with the girl and giving her a rational solution ... is something you have to do throughout the whole interaction ... so she doesn't feel buyers remorse, feel like a slut, and/or feel… | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 09:55 AM |
| 3 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Good game prevents that. - There is a reason why she is trying to ruin your reputation ..... so don't get her to think that. The basics starts all the way in the approaching and even before opening during cold approach. It is called ... (drum roll please) .... FALSE TIME CONSTRAINT (FTC) Before you open you FTC: Saying: "2 seconds of your time. Then I have to go" ... then open. "Real quick. I can't stay too long. But ... " .... Open. "2 seconds 2 seconds" ..... open Works great for seated sets, … | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 09:52 AM |
| 8 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Your anxiety of being accused of (falsely) rape and/or harassment is fair. - The solution is to show not to judge them and also to be discreet with intimacy in public. - So the less scary thing that could happen if you don't follow the don't judge and be discreet rule ... is they either get buyers remorse later and ghost/flake you or lose attraction for you or like what you are most scared of false harassment/rape claims. - For example, I remember making out with my neighbor at the clubs in fron… | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 01:06 AM |
| 6 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?isn't false rape accusation like 2% occurrence? | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 11:51 PM |
| 22 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Tonality the drops attracts ... - I had tonality the rises. Had girls think I was gay. Neat thing is I am studying cold calling and they also say the importance of tonality to get the sell. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 10:17 PM |
| 1 | QuestionBeing present in the moment and horny | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Getting super soft rejections, how to have a more assertive vibe?How do you ask them to get rejected? How are you showing intent? Do you touch them? | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What kind of guy get more girls?Guy who know how to social proof. - Great way to get rid of anxiety is to approach everyone in the room or build momentum by approaching everyone. You know when it works when girls say "Are you the owner of the place? I see you talking to everyone" ... or "You must of met everyone here." - Means they have been watching you talk to everyone (guys and girls). - Pretty cool to see girls orbiting you also .... - Some may even approach you themselves ... - Overcomes physical looks using perceived hig… | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 10:54 PM |
| 119 | Standoff with equally attractive girls?Stop scaling 1 to 10. Instead scale 0 to 2 0: Won't touch with a 10 foot pool 1: Will bang but keep it a secret 2: Bang and brag about. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 10:38 PM |
| 2 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyPlay the numbers game harder by getting good at cold approaches. - I bet you this thought is lingering in your head time to time .... anxiety probably kicks in. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 01:15 PM |
| 11 | How much exposure do you actually need to create real abundance?To truely get abundance is to be successful doing cold approachs. - one bench mark is are you able to go from approach to the lay in the first time of meeting each other. - once i got good at doing same day lays ... my mind shifted to abundance as I get more and more reference experiences that my behavior and process can get most girls. - notice how i said behavior ... not my looks. - true abundance is being able to seduce without relying on crutches like looks, money and/or status .... but with… | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 03:01 PM |
| 3 | How do i portray myself as non needy?The idea is to use your mindset to dictate how you behave. - for example Generally scarce people speak fast, has wavering eye contact and has a tonality that rises. - abundance mindset speak slowly, clearly, with relaxed eye contact and has tonality that drops. So even though you dont have abundance ... you can behave like how an abundance person would behave. - get reference experience of behaving certain ways improves your success rate ... and actually become and have an abundance mindset. | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 02:13 PM |
| 5 | How do i portray myself as non needy?The problem is not what you want. - the problem is the behavior on getting what you want. One looks for what they want in a girl the other sells themselves so the girl picks them amongst other guys. One is giving the sex ... the other is taking the sex. One is the choser ... the other is the one being chosen. One is present in the moment ... the other focus on the future (getting the sex) which makes u outcome dependent. You become the hot girl everyone is selling themselves to receive sex from … | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 12:53 PM |
| 27 | How do i portray myself as non needy?Be the buyer not the seller. Buyers are looking for something specific and more detailed than I want a pretty girl. - buyers know what type of girl they want. They r looking for girls who maybe knows how to cook, into health, exercising ... so u look for that and screen girls. You are even willing to walk away if they dont have the traits u r looking for. - sellers are convincing the girl to buy you. You try to convince her by trying to impress saying you can cook, into health, have a 6 pack and… | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so fucking entitled these days?How did you passed the guards? :p ... Sorry for the inconvenience. - to be fair us guys learn from movies, social media and porn ... no clue where else to learn this. | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so fucking entitled these days?Make sure to add qualifications. - one of the behaviors of ambitious/purposefully guys is they value their time ... so they have standards to look for girls they like and contribute to each others purpose. - qualifications also gets the girl to win you over. It is suspicious if a guy is bending himself over for the girl just because she is a girl and pretty. Push/pull and teasing is good! Good training wheels to get reference experience of treating the girl equally (like how you would behave wit… | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so fucking entitled these days?The attitude you are facing are shit tests. - shit test are triggered because they smell your hidden agendas. - shit test is to filter out guys who get butt hurt easily ... vs. The guys who dont take things personal (willing to walk away and have standards) Guys who have money/ looks/status gets cheated on because they didnt learn seduction skills. - seduction skills are behaviors that not only attract the girls but also stops girls looking else where for intimacy because you know how to get the… | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you have an explanation for this?What you feel they feel I like to stack feel good energy ... do exercise that releases feel good chemicals (like ananamide), meditate to release some dopamine, approach a lot of people to release even more dopamine, do and reflect on funny things I did and/or happened in the previous interaction ... if I am clubbing I would dance ... - the more i approach the more feel good chemicals is released improving my mood. - my mood is so good that people approach me... or at least they orbit around me a… | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 04:27 PM |
| 0 | closing the dateThere lots of objections you need to read her mind on and give a solution to each one. - fortunately if you do enough there are common objections Things to counter her thoughts or prevent her from having those thoughts where the lay becomes more where she can say "it just happened". Were u r both skipping home together knowing what it is about to go down. After party My place is around the corner You want a ride home (dont drink and drive thu) You hungry ... go to place in direction of lay spot … | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 10:37 AM |
| 110 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachI don't think it ever left ... Girls wants the guys, they have a crush on, to approach them (Edit: these guys are rare). They don't want guys, they are not attracted to, to approach them (guys who behave like creeps) (Edit: And there is a lot of these guys. The hotter the girl is the more of these guys she interacts with, since she was 12 years old, at a daily bases) - The difference is we are understanding more and more what makes a girl categorizes a guy as creepy. That we are learning that it… | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Someone save me and help me take advantage of easy opportunities on dance floorThats the thing when you approach yourself .. you give proof to ur brain that it is ok to approach and talk to strangers. Unfortunately we dont have multiple girls to approach us themselves were we can learn from our mistakes .... so do the approaching urself. - the more you approach and socialize ... the less anxiety and insecurities clutter ur mind that makes you hesitate and paralyzed. You are scared you may offend them .. just the thought of u offending them is enough for u to do nothing at … | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 10:01 PM |
| 6 | Someone save me and help me take advantage of easy opportunities on dance floorJust dance with them. Say hi then dance. Talk to her ear when conversating. Edit: u also need to warm up by doing your own approaches without girls giving you indicator of interests. - that is why you were paralyzed when a girl approaches you. happens to me when i am not approaching anyone and i literally become a piece of furniture lurking and tryibg to build up courage to take action.... a girl can literally say I like you to me .. I would be paralyzed to respond if I dont warm up and do my ow… | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 08:48 PM |
| 2 | I‘m resilient and thats what you should beThanks ... I am also impressed with my writing that it inspired me to go out and game and hunt lol Have fun! If u follow my process you will experiences the craziest adventures and experiences one of the craziest high (sober) ever experienced due to the positive spiral of good emotions generated.... were people start to orbit around you and even approach you. Feel free if u guys have questions on fine tuning the process. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 05:01 PM |
| 8 | How to maintain frame while gettimg shit tested?I dont think this is classified as shit test. - this is either flaking and ghosting or being friend zoned. To avoid flaking and ghosting is to get them to invest in the interaction more through qualifications. To avoid being friend zoned is to lead the interaction into man to woman relationship early on the interactions. - you play it to safely ... | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 04:53 PM |
| 16 | I‘m resilient and thats what you should be>rejected 3 times of the 3 approaches i was able to muster up the courage for That is why you are failing. You are mustering up the courage. - Outcome dependency is high. - What you feel they feel. If you feel anxiety they will feel anxiety and awkward moments is generated by you. But, if you are in a good mood they will be in a good mood. They can sense your mood even without you talking to them. When you feel anxiety that is due to the lack of warm up. - How can you get in a social mood if you… | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 11:51 AM |
| 1 | What am I supposed to do at the bar?So the answer is longer than you think :p ... not sure what level you are in so I will just spit out my process So it depends which stage you are in the night. The idea is to warm up and build social momentum by slowly increasing the risk of your approach depending on your social mood. - So the process, when it is still at the beginning of the night, is to open all, keep time in-between sets at a minimum, don't judge your self after each opens, find something funny that happens in each interacti… | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 10:56 AM |
| 13 | Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset?I do the same thing ... Minimum you should be at least bobbing to the music. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Why is persistence and chasing such a bad thing?Chasing = awkward moments. Girls, especially the more hotter ones, get multiple guys chase them since the girl has been 12 years old. - The more guys, chasing the girl, equals more awkward moments the girl experiences. - That is the difference between a guy chasing and a girl chasing ... is that girls are the approached and the guys are approachers due to mostly biology (they carry the baby). lol do you think you are the only guy going for your crush? You give off "less" awkwardness going after … | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 12:44 PM |
| 2 | What am I supposed to do at the bar?When you approach you open and talk to their ear. - Get close and personal. Go dance. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Some dudes are just so fun to talk to (ie charismatic)The idea is not to be reaction seeking to define your mood by external factors. - Reaction seeking means you wait for the persons respond then decide if your mood improves or spirals. You say a joke, you wait for their reaction, did they laugh then you feel good ... did they NOT laugh then you feel bad. People who has "rizz" or "charisma" say and do things that makes them feel good from within that boost their mood and then wanting to share that with someone. - For example have you laughed at so… | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What is the sign for you to execute yourself from cold approach?You have to false time constraint before you open a stranger. - that way they will fully listen to you and give you time because you FTC by saying "2 seconds of your time ... then I got to go" | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Is making a girl jealous a net positive?Invite all of your roster to the conert | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Reducing HER anxiety is the biggest initial factor to an approachFalse time constraint before you approach and open a stranger. - "2 seconds, 2 seconds only of your time" -"I can't stay too long I am on my way to see my friends" -"Real quick .... " This shows you have empathy that you understand what she is thinking and giving in a rational solution. - Girl will say to herself "oh this won't take too long" after hearing your FTC. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 01:53 AM |
| 5 | How to I flirt and seduce with a coworker safely?Flirt with everyone in your office ... Girls, guys and your crush ... from busting guys balls, to teasing the 65 year old accountant lady .... to your boss ... and then your crush. - This is called social proofing and also counters you putting her on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How to be fun and flirty?So the difference between a good comedian vs a bad comedian is: Bad comedians are reaction seeking because they are trying to impress. While Good comedians tells the joke because it made them giggle so they want to share that giggle with someone. For example, when a bad comedian tells a joke, they wait for the crowds reaction (reaction seeking). Did the crowd laugh? Then I feel good. If the crowd didn't laugh then I feel bad. Just the thought of the crowd not laughing is enough to get the bad co… | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 11:35 PM |
| 2 | I think I've reached my breaking point: I've become addicted to female validation and I can't stop. Has anyone else gone through this?PUA gets a lot of dopamine released when gaming. Getting into that zone (were dopamine is released) is probably the best high you can achieve to perform at peak human level. Can be addicting also. I get it is hard to quit when you are good at something and gives you that hit of the hunt. Learn to flirt with everyone guys and girls. So at least you come off as a person who talks to everyone. - Or settle down and get other ways to get that high of dopamine releases. A lot of RSD PUAs pivot to a mo… | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How to be fun and flirty?Bantering is playfully causing a fight. - Tease the girl like in elementary school. - Just make sure you have smirk when teasing. - The idea is to do things funny to you will transfer the giggles to her. - If you go too far just say sorry and just kidding. Notice how far you can go ... but sometimes you will offend just quickly say sorry and saying just kidding. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How to know if a girl wants to hookup at clubThe idea is to reverse engineer. But the thing to help understand it all is do your best to be the last person with the girl at her place (or lay spot). It can be quite simple from waiting outside the club and talking to girls when they leave the club and then drive them home. - Having the club warm the girl up for you and then just cold approach her when she leaves. - Again girls have urges and you are conveniently there. | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Dating is just Sales.Be the buyer not the seller ... seduction | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 12:05 AM |
| 8 | How to know if a girl wants to hookup at clubHave her being comfortable with you taking her home. Then when you are at their place. Ask to go pee at their washroom. Then escalate then. - Your game needs to have the journey were she knows what is about to happen and you are both going home skipping. This is called be the last dick. Girls also have urges and you are conveniently there. | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid if i dont drink alcohol?Drive them home then ask to pee at their place. | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Something I've Noticed About Men Who Date a LotYeah i follow a process that imitates this observation. The Six step process 1) Approach all 2) Minimize time in-between sets 3) Don't judge your self 4) Find something funny that happened 5) Keep it short and sweet if you are not in the mood 6) Burn the set to the grown when you are in the mood. - Practicing no filter behavior. Built in numbers game, gets you present in the moment the more you approach making you outcome independent more, continuously finding something funny that happens in eac… | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | No polarity with most girlsWhat if I didn't made it up ... that I put that there for people to go research something that has been out for 20 years ..... Lmao | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Is this really all bar/club game is?Oh man I was part of a jury of something similar to your hypothetical. An 18 year old who got a fake ID accused 3 bouncers of grape after the bars. It turns out she lied because she didn't want to be perceived as a sl&*t and disappoint her parents of doing a threesome with them. So the 3 bouncers avoided going to jail. - The questions asked were brutal ... they asked her did you like it, did you willing go to their place .... while the parents was present in court. - That is how serious and impo… | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Is this really all bar/club game is?it is food for thought ... sometimes you can only connect the dots looking back. That you will only comprehend it when it happens to you. - I learn this when I was starting out and I would all of a sudden lose the girl later on ... despite us enjoying the make out and intimacy (in public) ... The girl won't even know why she feels buyers remorse and all of a sudden not like me. This happened to me a couple of times. - Then I learn from my mistakes and was able to pull consistently afterwards. My… | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 09:46 PM |
| 8 | No polarity with most girlsGetting the girl to invest in the interaction (qualification phases) is more important. - Often guys would say "we were vibing and had chemistry .... why did she flake or ghosts?" Guess what prevents flaking and ghosting? Qualification phase ... getting the girl to invest into the interaction. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Is this really all bar/club game is?I would take her to the corner or take her behind the drapes or at the bench away from public eyes ... I would even finger them sometimes lol .... Yes I try not to make out with them but do almost kisses to amp up sexual tension. At the heat of the moment she is not thinking about it ... only later on when it is near the lay spot buyer remorse kicks in. Being discreet, being non judgmental ... is part of seduction. You are dead once she feels like a sl*&t ... up to the guy to prevent that. This … | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Is this really all bar/club game is?Avoiding being classified as a sl^&t is very important to girls. Even though they enjoyed the make out ... they will feel buyers remorse later. edit: I know it is confusing, especially when you are still starting out. I had the same thinking ... but if you want to get the lay it is an important step | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Is this really all bar/club game is?Again I am talking about how to do same day lays (even after the clubs/bars) and preventing flaking and ghosting. This is how I increase my odds for same day lays or so girls don't flake or ghost me if we see each other later on. I lost so many opportunities because I did what you are recommending ... but you do you ... if you are getting same day lay results then keep doing what you are doing. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Is this really all bar/club game is?The lay has backfired more with me making out with the girl in front of everyone in public than me taking her in the corner ... or even stopping the make out saying we should slow it down (which what girls do to make you chase). lol that is why they forget about you later on or you don't get the same day lay | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Is this really all bar/club game is?I am also talking about same day lay. I remember making out with a girl on the dance floor ... walk her home ... then dips. If you want to same day lay ... you have to be discreet when performing sexual/intimate acts. Like when you make out with her ... do it in the corner. Even getting her number ... don't do it in front of her friends. - Sometimes even not getting the number and not making out with her will increase your odds of same day lay. This is how to do same day lay .... LMAO | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 05:34 PM |
| 40 | Is this really all bar/club game is?That methods will generally get a girl to get buyers remorse later on. Which is you made her feel like a slut in front of everyone losing your chances later were she flakes or ghost you. Even though you both liked the grinding. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.This is called qualification - Can also be done when setting up a date. - Helps reduce flaking and ghosting because it gets the girl to invest into the interaction. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Why does the adrenaline never go away no matter how much you cold approach?How many do you approach though? - Edit: If you approach a lot and learn to follow a process that boost your mood (even if you get rejected) so that mood will carry on to the next approach. If you approach 10 people your mood should be off the charts and have reduce anxiety as you build momentum. When your mood is high then anxiety is at the lowest making the girl more welcoming to your approach....where she chases you and sometimes she approaches you. - Edit: how can you get in a social mood if… | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Is There Anyone Else Here Who Likes Going Out By Themselves?If it is for one night stands yeah. I have more crazier adventures by myself. | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 11:20 PM |
| 2 | To summarise seduction - "Just nut up and say you are attracted to her".Isn't the ultimate seduction is she express attraction towards you while you see if she is the right girl for you and if she is not you are willing to walk away (after the lay)? | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseFun is one of the ways to be present in the moment which helps with being outcome indepenent. It includes high self esteem and treating people equally. - You know what a hot girl has rarely experienced since she was 12 years old? Someone who doesn't put them on a pedestal. - There is a reason why you can be yourself with your best friends and be an awkward mess around your crush and/or hot girl.... Self amusement (being fun to be around) gets you to treat the hot girl like how you would treat yo… | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseHaving humor (self amusement) can out do looks and status Especially for scenarios where she doesn't like you at the beginning ... get her to have fun throughout and she will slowly fall in love with you. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseI think you need both looksmaxxing and auramaxxing. Auramaxxing is working on your self esteem (in the long run) and following a process to getting yourself in present in the moment to become outcome independent. - If looksmaxxing involves eating healthy, exercising and body maintenance to look amazing when you are naked ... it can either be a hindrance or a benefit if looksmaxxing also improves your self esteem. - For example, I like to do high intensity training. This both improves my body to … | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Music festival strategy?This works for any social event. But basically approach everyone and comment something about their attire. Guy and girls. Just spiderman swing to the nearest person. Then gather logistics asking them who are they here with and to introduce them to you. Great way to meet hot girls is when others introduce you to them. Ask logistics like where they are staying is it like 3 hours away then maybe they are not good for same day lay. Then exchange contacts to find them later after the event (I like to… | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Music festival strategy?Build momentum by talking to lots of people while building up your self amusement. - By the end you should built up so much self amusement that people (girls) come to you. - I get to this state by dancing and talking to everyone building up my logistics and contacts for later list to help me decide who to pull at the end. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 12:39 PM |
| 1 | is confidence supposed to equal attraction?it is more on who is chasing. - Confidence and getting the girl to win you over = seduction - Confidence with you chasing = creepy It is more 70% inner game and 30% PUA technique - Action applying PUA techniques and then getting reference experience also boost inner game - Peeps who have abundance (having ample experiences) and people who have purpose in life have their inner game maxed out ... they then use technique to lead the interaction to the lay. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 03:27 PM |
| 3 | What are the best types of Game?Cold approach is best since you use both physical and mental vibes to attract. Once you get a good social circle through cold approaches can help you improve your online. | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 08:47 AM |
| 1 | How Boundaries Strengthen RelationshipsToxic people knocks their partner off the pedestal. That is why they are attractive. - The more higher status a person is (pretty, rich) the more they are drawn to toxic people because everyone they interact with puts them on a pedestal. Nice guys put themselves beneath people and puts their partner on a pedestal. - This gives their self esteem, which encapsulates self worth, self acceptance and self amusement, and gives it to another person. - When you give your self esteem to others you genera… | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 09:12 AM |
| 1 | This is how ChatGPT can help you getting laid (Works for anyone)They have AI ear piece that listens and gives you what to do when interacting with a girl ... like having a PUA coach in your ear. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Approach anxiety (toxic internal monologue)Anxiety is failure to warm up. - Next social event ... talk to everyone. Even before getting to the venue/event. Talk to uber driver, door man, cashiers, baristas, your neighbours ... just ask how their day is going. At the social event. Talk to everyone ... ask them who they are ... put an effort to remember everyones names. Ask who they know. That way when it is game time ... your anxiety is far less when you approached the first person you talked to compared to the 15th person you talked to. … | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 05:24 PM |
| 15 | How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid?Physicality and closeness of each others body and face ... makes it man to woman. - do that at the beginning of the interaction. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 12:26 PM |
| 1 | How to stop caring whether she texts you or notAll good 👍 ... ill try to respond ... I may forgotten what we are talking about. Your brain wants proof not promises. - to develop self esteem you need experience. - experience were you take action to face your fears and realize you are ok after application. - are you saying a professional (engineer, firefighter, Buddhist monk) who has put their 10 000 hours of mastery has the same level of self esteem as a beginner who only knows theory? - are you saying someone who approached one girl has the … | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:37 PM |
| 0 | I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that?going for multiple girls simutaneously | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?Rarely ... but when it happens ... I realize it 1 to 2 months later. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 10:57 PM |
| 0 | how much do you guys 'plow', if at all, with girls who don't seem attracted?What if you open other girls infront of the girl that was not interested in you to get them interested in you because she see you are willing to walk away and gets jealous that other girls are after you? - Would you give her another chance to be with you? | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 05:32 PM |
| 1 | how much do you guys 'plow', if at all, with girls who don't seem attracted?I remember my cousin set us up on a double date. His date brought her sister for me. The sister kept texting another dude the whole time. My cousins date also said I am not her type and doesn't date asians. - I remember the sister and I was outside on the patio. She was texting the other dude ignoring me. So I opened a two set across form us. - I asked them an indirect opener "Two seconds of your time ... two seconds of your time. Do you floss before or after you brush your teeth?" - The two set… | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 04:06 PM |
| 2 | how much do you guys 'plow', if at all, with girls who don't seem attracted?To me i dont call it plowing or rejection. - it is about boosting my mood and building momentum. Hot girls can typically pull a guy at the end of the night ... so she mine as well enjoy the beginning of the night. She would go dance, talk and flirt with random guys. Drink and dance with her girls. Make out with this guy and that guy ... all to boost her mood. Then around near closing time pull. So do the same thing (edit: aside from the making out with other boys ... lol). From opening to an hou… | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 11:28 AM |
| -1 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.You are right I don't get it. That is why I asked OP if he can re explained. - I didn't get your explanation as well. I thought you were going to bully me because I mis interpreted you when you kept using the words "Alpha" and "Dominance" in your explanation. My bad. ------------ I do get guys who try to be friend me ... but I find the awkward energy is still around them. There is hidden agenda behind it. But, I pity them so I try to befriend them back lol. I would try to introduce them to the g… | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 08:51 AM |
| -4 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Sorry I was just trying to comprehend the sentence ... my bad for my bad reading comprehension. lol I am the guy getting the girls. I always get alpha guys trying to steal the girls from me.... I remember I was gaming this girl and this alpha guy literally would cut me off with his body. He would literally put his body between me and the girl with his back against me. Completely ignoring me while he games the girl. - I was like ok ... so I opened another girl. Previous girl I was gaming kept wat… | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 01:50 AM |
| -6 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Sorry mate .... I can't comprehend "I'll get him before these 2 women to show dominance." What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 12:40 AM |
| -11 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.you want to know what is even more fucked? your neediness amplifies her attraction even more to the guy. If this comments get more than 20 upvotes ... I'll tell you the secret ^_^ that you can do | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 12:13 AM |
| 139 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.These guys behave in away that attracts most women. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How to stop caring whether she texts you or notIt is not about walking away ... it is about finding the person you want. Are you saying I should not look around and find a person I want? That I should date the first person I meet that shows me affection back? When you have options ... you are seeing which one you like. - The issue with only going for one person means you are not looking if they are actually the right person for you. Especially if you are just beginning. You may even ignore red flags because you don't have any other choices. … | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 10:00 PM |
| 22 | Getting out of the friend zoneGet other girls and she will start chasing you. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How to stop caring whether she texts you or notSorry I dont mean to get them to like you back because you want them to ... its because you are willing to walk away because you have other options they are attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 07:00 PM |
| 2 | How to stop caring whether she texts you or notIt works even more to get them to you like you back. The opposite of abundance is scarcity. - scarcity behaviors repels people. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 06:20 PM |
| 32 | How to stop caring whether she texts you or notThis^ You can pretend all you want... the best to comprehend abundance is to actually have abundance. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 09:52 AM |
| 4 | Good looking but afraid to make a moveSo you have to do exposure therapy - exposure therapy is facing your fears/anxiety in a controlled environment. So what i do, before I go to a social event, I would warm up approaching strangers. - start low risk approaches then increase the risk. - I would do 5 approaches of random strangers and ask for directions. - I would practice smiling, opening from front, false time constraint, speaking slowly and maintaining relaxed eye contact. - then I would increase the risk of asking how peoples day… | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Good looking but afraid to make a moveLike how far are you? - are you like wanting to ask them to date? Or are you looking to kiss them? Or are you going to approach them? | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 03:09 PM |
| 1 | one of the best pickup artist Cajun ( appeared in keys to the vip too)It is not the words you say. Check out how he said it. He said it in the girls ear ... he didnt say it 10 feet away ... he said it in the girl ear. Even before that during the indirect opener ... he already was physical by putting his arm around the girl. Lots of body rocking controlling the distance between their bodies ... to generate sexual tension. All when saying the canned lines. Turn the situation to man to woman with using more than words ... Love how they look like drug dealers challeng… | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 09:29 AM |
| 1 | How to win over a girl with trust issues?In private... if you dont lead it and she escalate in public ... she may feel slutty later and get buyers remorse and call the whole thing off. - she wont even understand why she feels that way ... even thu she is the one who initiated. But still ur fault for not leading it to a private scenario... and u will be all confused why she feels that way since she the one who initiated ... lol - so make sure you are discreet and tell her you dont kiss and tell of what happens. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 12:54 PM |
| 1 | How to win over a girl with trust issues?Try it out and get use to almost kisses. - make sure to make eye contact every now and then when u r close. - you will feel the sexual tension ... were they end up eating ur face out. - make sure be the first to cut off the kissing :p. Also make sure u kiss not in public. I know lots of rules ... all to make sure u dont make her feel slutty ... even thu she liked it and she initiated. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 12:11 PM |
| 2 | How to win over a girl with trust issues?Because u showed u r not butt hurt and ok to lose the girl. - the opposite of how most guys would behave. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 12:07 PM |
| 2 | How to win over a girl with trust issues?Treat everything as a shit test ... don't defend yourself ... instead agree and don't make a big deal out of it (even though you feel like it is a big deal inside ... pokerface that shit) - "You are right ... we are moving too fast. Need to keep it professional." ... then back off. - Edit: Passing shit test will significantly will increase attraction even more. But, ideally like what I said ... have it in your game to say it first. - Be the one saying no. - You need to work on her chasing you wi… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 10:58 PM |
| 3 | How to win over a girl with trust issues?Be the hot girl. Say things girls say to you before they say it first. "I dont kiss girls on first date" "You need to wine and dine me before you get into my pants" "You just want me for my body" "I dont drink on first date because I get to slutty" Now she will chase and be doing the escalation on you. Seduction.... | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What necessarily is game ?Yeah there are verbal ques ... but what truly leads the interaction to man to woman are what I explained ... escalating physical touches and reducing the distance between each others body and faces ... You can research what to say ... lots of techniques. But the main points are escalating physical touch and closing the distance because that what generates sexual tension. How can you be both comfortable with sex if you guys are not comfortable with kissing. How can you be comfortable with kissing… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 09:36 PM |
| 1 | What necessarily is game ?You will need to do your own research on this ... this will take like hours to explain. Flirting is behaving in a way that making the interaction man to woman .... as oppose to friendly relationships. Man to woman interaction, when observed by outside observers, will assume you guys are in a relationship. - Through an outside observers they will notice you being more physical with each other, the distance between your body and faces are a lot closer to each other.... - these techniques are getti… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 09:26 PM |
| 4 | What necessarily is game ?That is game ... techniques on how to lead the relationship to sexual or romantic results. No game does not lead to sexual or romantic results .... Flirting is getting both the girl and guy to release feel good chemicals that leads to sexually or romantic results. For example, when you kiss a girl and exchange salvia ... it release feel good chemicals in both the girl and guy. - Same when you have skin on skin touches with each other .... Game is leading the interaction were both are comfortable… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why the "you complete me" relationship dynamic doesn't workI agree with you ... that is what I mean of high self esteem. lol I think that is the definition of self esteem ... is it not? Self-esteem is defined as your overall evaluation of yourself, encompassing your respect for or favorable opinion of yourself, often referred to as self-respect or self-worth. Psychologically, it represents how much you like, approve of, or value yourself, and can be viewed globally ("I am satisfied with myself") or in specific domains like career or relationships. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 07:01 PM |
| 9 | has anyone heard of a guy like this in their social circle ?This type of guys are present in the moment and are out come independent. - The hotter the girl is the more they are drawn to these guys ... who doesn't care whether they like them back or not. Notice the guys who are funny ... they say things un filtered ... they may offend others but they still continue. - Most guys who interact with hot girls filter what they say and how they behave because they may offend the girl. If they offend the girl then they risk losing the girl. This filtering causes… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 06:55 PM |
| 17 | has anyone heard of a guy like this in their social circle ?Does he draw attention from everyone when he is in the room? - Is he the source of everyone's good mood? - Is he the person everyone talks about? | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 03:20 PM |
| 1 | how do non 'cold approach'/tinder hookups tend to happen for you?For your hot neighbor example, I am assuming you have been wanting to bang her for years. - This happens when you try to wing your buddy. The target gets more attracted to you (the wing) instead of your buddy because your buddy is too outcome dependent. - That needy energy from the buddy can be felt by the neighbor which magnifies the attraction to the wing who is not outcome dependent because the wing is trying to help the buddy. - Back to your hot neighbor ... your friend is the wing ... and y… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:22 PM |
| 2 | how do non 'cold approach'/tinder hookups tend to happen for you?Weird you do cold approach and not grasp social proofing .... What you are looking for is social proof mastery. - Basically, approach everyone ... provide value to each person/group that they talk about you behind your back and having so much fun around you that it is noticeable by everyone in the room were the source of fun and good energy is coming from. - So that that bartender notices everyone having a good time always around you and you then give her a ride home and/or that coworker you wan… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Why the "you complete me" relationship dynamic doesn't workI am trying to comprehend the solution of your posts. So get high self esteem before you get into relationships? - If so how do you improve your self esteem? | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 11:45 AM |
| 1 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Did Sam and Nia Rader break up? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:28 PM |
| 0 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?What if you treat your partner badly that she cheats on you. - To prevent the cheating from ever happening ... you treat your partner good. - Notice how it is on you to treat your partner bad or good ... (side note treating her good means putting effort in arousing her so she doesn't find it somewhere else) What if I avoided going into a bad neighborhood all together ... will that prevent me from getting rob? - Whose decision is it for going in a bad neighborhood in the first place? I am saying … | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:07 PM |
| -2 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?You think Tom Brady neglecting the wife to focus on his Football career had anything to do with the wife seeking intimacy somewhere else? That definitely sucks he got cheated on ... just because you are Tom Brady doesnt mean you can neglect your wife intimacy. If you dont want to get cheated on ... put in effort to arouse your partner so she doesn't find it else where ... Why do you think people cheat? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 01:47 PM |
| 0 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?I am saying there is a reason why people cheat on their partner. The partner is behaving in away that repels the person to find arousal from someone else. - by blaming my self ... I put efforts in arousing the girl so she doesnt look for it somewhere else. If you get robbed once ... fair you were off guard. But if it happens multiple times ... maybe you should stop going to that street where you are getting multiple times robbed? - maybe start to prepare yourself to prevent getting robbed ... - … | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 01:40 PM |
| -3 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?If multiple girls cheats on you ... who is the common denominator? Why do multiple girls who are in relationships cheats on their partner ... by sleeping with me? - this happens after the clubs or girls I met during the day... were they don't tell me they have a bf and we "happen" to just sleep together. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 01:21 PM |
| -11 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?I learn that if a girl cheats on me ... it is my fault that she cheated on me. - so I behave in a way that I am the best guy she compares to. Now I am the guy who girls cheats on with. - I dont encourage purposely ruining other peoples relationship ... I find out after the fact they are not single ... the girl usually just say it just happened. That blaming yourself helps you become someone who girls dont cheat on but cheat with .. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | This Needs To Be Said!!!!Definitely if you didnt get her to invest in initial interaction. - but this "inevitable reaction" is after the interaction. - what i am recommending is prevention. The reason she flakes or ghost is due to lack of investment, she did, during the initial interaction. - therefore, if you get her to invest more, to you, during the initial interaction prevents flaking and ghosting. Get her to invest and then schedule the date decreases the probability of her flaking and ghosting when showing up for … | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 12:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the paradox of investment?My bad if i wasn't clear with my explanation. I am saying it is not me who is investing or not investing on her ... she is the one investing in me. - if she doesnt ... Ill go else where. That is why you think it is a paradox ... you think you r the one investing in her. But, in actuality the dynamic shifted to her investing in you. - most guys invest and tries to win the girl. They are being the seller and she is the buyer. - she only does that to guys she likes ... which she rarely experiences.… | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 12:00 PM |
| 2 | How do you turn on a quiet/shy girl?anything to escalate physical touch. Do low risk stuff first like what we did when we were kids. Just spontaneously ask challenge her for thumb war, play the game where you draw on each others back while the other person guess what you draw, massages, hold hands when crossing the street "my mom said I need to hold an adult's hand when crossing the street", dance when there is music.... dancing is also good for working closing on proximity. - Edit more example of physical touches: high five her w… | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you turn on a quiet/shy girl?You need to do the physical escalation and working on proximity (getting your faces close to each other) to amp up sexual tension. - Need to be present in the moment when interacting with her to further amp up sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:59 AM |
| 4 | This Needs To Be Said!!!!It is because you didn't get her to invest during the initial interaction. If you acknowledge 2 qualifiers of hers at once prevents ghosting and flaking in the future. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:35 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the paradox of investment?Your way seems like it takes a long time. - you just need to show you stopped chasing or perceive you stopped chasing... or perceive that you are ok with her walking away. For example if you ask your crush on advice on how to get another girl that you like (even if you actually dont like that girl) ... she will flip and start chasing you. - all in like 5 minutes. One example of an experiences I had was I was on a double date with my cousin. My cousin's date brought their sister for me. My date k… | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Why women don't chase men?Exactly that they are the one who gets pregnant. Male seahorse are the ones who gets pregnant so they are the one being chased by female seahorse. Obviously a male can be chased. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 09:55 PM |
| 1 | how to have interesting convos with womenYou are also missing the main points which is to focus on relaxed eye contact and speaking super slow .... that is like the important part in my recommendations because that is how to become present in the moment... not sure why you chose to ignore this ... then you say what is the first thing that comes out of your head ... If you combo this with close proximity (getting the distance between your faces as close to each other ... kind of like an almost kiss ... then sexual tension will shoot too… | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | how to have interesting convos with womenNot theory thu ... I apply this in my game. I did canned routines before ... now I improv and say what comes in my head ... or say nothing at all. - the idea is behave as if the girl is chasing you ... Definitely hard to explain through reddit ... only way is try it your self. - always good to challenge a theory and see if you can break it. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 03:59 PM |
| 1 | how to have interesting convos with womenNo you treat "dont receive a positive reaction" as a shit test ... which is dont be butt hurt about it. - which is also covered by "dont reaction-seeking" And the girl can move on and find another guy. If she is still there then u r doing well not telling you to leave ... The filtering is the reason why people cant think of things to say ... this is how awkward silence are made. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 03:15 PM |
| 12 | how to have interesting convos with womenThe trick is to be present in the moment. - when you are present you dont filter your self. - when you dont filter your self you say whatever first comes in your head. - the reason you cant think of things to say is because you are filtering your self not to offend her (this is also due to reaction seeking ... which is focusing on the future) The thing to do, while talking to a girl, is working on being present with her. - so what i do is just focus, my whole being, in maintaining relax eye cont… | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Smiling too muchBut his ex is jealous of him because she doesnt want him to lead on other girls .... Is ur goal to repel girls or attract them? Are you saying the guy's ex is right? To not smile because it will make other girls jealous? | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Smiling too muchI am called mr. smiley ... I don't think it hinders me. Especially since a tease a lot of girls ... i need to smile and smirk. Maybes try smirking more than smiling? Smirking is playfully challinging them. Edit: I am also perceived cocky when girls first meet me. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 10:16 AM |
| 1 | i just can't man i just can'tEven if the girl was straight forward ... you would not still know what to say. If you hesitated like that. It is not even a man to woman thing .. it is a human thing when it comes to socializing. How can you socialize right away after 12 hours of Netflexing and doom scrolling? | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 08:41 PM |
| 12 | The 5s will reject you just like the 9s. Don’t let anyone in this group make you feel bad because you took a Loss. We’re here to uplift and help. Not laugh and point.I like to lower my definition of a success were there is no rejection at all. Did I cold approach? If yes then that is a success. So if the interaction was not successful I still approached which is a success to me. - After each approaches I acknowledge who has the balls to approach a stranger? Especially sober. - That way when I approach the next person ... I bring the positive energy to the next one. - Now imagine how much positive energy will I have build up if I approached 10 different peopl… | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 02:57 PM |
| 2 | What's the purpose of game/seduction?>Is it to make her satisfied with getting you, because you were playing hard to get? This. Often the girl is the one being chased so she naturally plays hard to get. The hotter she is the more guys chase her. - Rare for her to chase a guy and win him over. | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 02:50 AM |
| 5 | if you had to choose between investing into either salsa/bachata or yoga as a hobby to maximize the chances of finding a future girlfriend, what would you pick?Bachata | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What actually makes a guy instantly attractive?That is actually the default flow your brain process info. - it goes bottom up flow. Meaning your limbic system (from the stem of your brain that host amygdala, which is incharge of fight or flight, then the hypocampus, which is memory, basal ganglia, which automates habits/behaviors ... and other parts that takes things personal) gets info first then it goes up to the outer cortexs.... sometimes it doesnt. - this is due to limbic system being 5 million years older than outer cortex which was on… | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 10:20 AM |
| 141 | What actually makes a guy instantly attractive?Being present in the moment. - an example are guys who has abundance and purpose are more present in the moment than most men. The opposite are guys who focus on past or future. - they generate awkward moments. - hence the needy energy behaviors The hotter (or high status) a person is the more they interact with people who puts them on a pedestal amplifying the awkward moments they experiences ... but magnifying the attraction towards a guy who is present in the moment | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls without feeling like everyone is watchingLike what OP said ... only way is to approach a lot. Then realized no one cares, guys will give you props or guys will be haters. - only after approaching you will know and give proof to your brain that nothing bad really happens after you have approached in public. I love getting props from bouncers. I remember opening a seated set near the entrance. Lol I used the do you floss after or before you brush ur teeth opener. False time constraint. Then I sat down without any resistance. Next thing y… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls without feeling like everyone is watchingIt depends if you lower your definition of a successful out come. - if your outcome is girl doesn't reject you ... then you build negative momentum if you get rejected. - if you lower your definiton of a successful outcome ... did you approach and faced your fear? ... even if you get rejects ... then you build positive momentum. This is important because one either brings positive energy to the next approach and the other brings a negative energy to the next approach. Now amplify that energy by … | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 01:08 PM |
| 8 | How do you handle being tested/challenged?Don't defend. But instead agree with them. girl: "As if you aren't now" Me: "you think I am boring now? You should check me out in bed. I am am piece of plywood" | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 10:48 PM |
| 6 | you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banterEmbarrassment is creating awkward moments. - notice how I said to not put people on pedestal because when you do you create does awkward moments. (Easier said than done) - when you put people on a pedestal (ex: your boss, hot girls, ur crush) ... you reaction seek or look for IOIs. - when you reaction seek means your are putting you self worth in someone's else hands. You consider them above you and worst you consider yourself below them. - for example two people says the same joke. Person A put… | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 11:50 AM |
| 4 | you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banterYeah exactly that. Give hugs and high fives with girls and ur guy friends. - you should be able to hug and get close to a girl you like with in like 30 seconds. Instant man to woman. Takes conscious effort to do. How can you be both comfy with sex if you are not both comfortable with kissing. How can you be both comfy with kissing without hugging. How can you be both comfy with hugging a girl when you are not comfy with hand shake .... - notice how each one is low risk and escalates to higher ri… | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 10:54 PM |
| 14 | you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banterMy bad ... I didn't realize you were asking a question. I thought you are just joking about busting balls of girls who obviously don't have balls. I'll try to explain it. Basically bust everyone's balls (not just girls). Do things what you would do with your friend. The mindset is treat people equally, not put people above you on a pedestal and more importantly don't put yourself below them. That way you don't filter what you say in fear that you might offend them because you may offend them but… | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 04:20 PM |
| 55 | you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banterSay things girls would say to you and say it first ex: "You just want me for my body" tell that to the girl with a smirk | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 02:22 PM |
| 1 | you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banter:p | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 02:21 PM |
| 3 | you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banterThen the short/tall, skinny/fat, rich/poor and/or balding lurkers see this and makes a social media posts saying it is all about looks, height, hair and money ... and makes excuse not to fix [insert insecurity] they have Edit: sorry if offend people when I say this. I am on the short guys, balding, looksmax sub reddit and they often say stories of their tall friend standing their and girl going up to him leading the interaction to sex ... how their life is doomed because of [insert insecurity] .… | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 02:19 PM |
| 59 | you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banterI was a class clown growing up. Constantly busting everyones balls (guys and girls). Couldn't figure out why I had so many crushes and stalkers. - Fast forward to adult hood I still do that ... the beauty of busting everyone's balls and also being touchy with everyone ... it becomes none creepy when you do it to a girl because you are just a touchy guy with everyone. Even when you are not attractive or even if the girl normally don't go for guys like me ... they eventually get attracted to me be… | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 01:10 PM |
| 5 | Theres a fundamental flaw with dating advice70% is inner game (being present in the moment) and then 30% is technique (whatever PUA coach or seduction technique you follow) - the 30% leads the interaction to the lay or whatever ur goal is. - the 70% is getting yourself more and more present in the moment. This is done in a macro(following a process during the moment to get your self more and more in the moment and boosting mood) and mirco (working on self boosting self esteem, gaining abundance and/or finding purpose) way of building mome… | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 08:29 AM |
| 4 | How important is having your own place?Then you definitely need to use her washroom :p | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 10:05 PM |
| 1 | How true is it when people say women can sense if you are under confident on dateLol back at you ... You can take my luck :p ... u seem to need it more. | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How true is it when people say women can sense if you are under confident on dateNo, balance is being present in the moment. - Abundance is having girls waiting for you at home that you are able to walk away from a girl you just met at the clubs. Where you have tons of experience with girls that you know what ur are doing. Have you ever seen a stand up comedian, rapper performing ... choke? No matter how hard they think ... they cant find the words to say? That is awkward silence. Awkward moments happens when you put someone on a pedestal. Hot girls, your boss a celebrity yo… | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How true is it when people say women can sense if you are under confident on dateAddicts do care and have hidden agendas. - have you ever had an addict ask you "politely" for spare change? Then snaps at you for not giving it to them? - notice the awkward energy you feel even before the addict talks to you. That is you knowing their hidden agenda of then pretending to be polite because they want your spare change ... when you dont give it to them that politeness turns into resentment towards you ... which then makes you feel pity for them. - addicts are the most desperate and… | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 01:10 PM |
| 2 | How true is it when people say women can sense if you are under confident on dateI pick up girls who dont speak same language as me (English) ... - due to my good mood and energy they are drawn to me. - same concept if I get my self horny they feel horny .... you should have a hard on when it is closing time. I love how I recommend not to reaction seek ... then you proceed to seek reactions ... do you see the irony here? - do you understand why reaction seeking doesnt work? Why are you giving your self worth to someone else? Why are you putting them above you and your self b… | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 12:24 PM |
| 45 | How true is it when people say women can sense if you are under confident on dateWhat you feel they feel. If you feel insecure .. they feel you are insecure. If you are having fun and giggling ... she will feel the giggles to. The trick is not to seek reactions ... - dont tell a joke, wait for her to react ... did she laugh then you feel good. If she didnt laugh then you feel bad ... or worst just the thought of her not laughing or being offended is enough to say nothing at all ...hence awkward moment happens. - so instead say and do things that is funny to you first. Genera… | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 09:31 AM |
| 7 | How to pull same night lays-Get target sexually to chase you. Do things girls would say to you first ... like say "you only want me for my body", "you are not getting in my pants if you keep doing that", "stop staring me with those eyes ... they are trouble"....(all with a smirk, obviously) ... while working on escalating touches and getting comfy with close proximity to the point through outside perspective people will think you guys are a couple. - but importantly dont do sexual things/intimacy in public (like making ou… | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 08:24 AM |
| 1 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.Tactical advice of how to approach of all types of mix group sets | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 08:12 AM |
| 81 | How important is having your own place?83% of my lays (one night stands) is me driving the girl home ... then asking to pee at their place ... then i am conviently there. Seduction | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 09:13 PM |
| 2 | So I tried being coached Owen Cook styleThat is crazy! Also kind of scary. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 01:56 PM |
| 16 | How the fuck are meant to meet women if you don't like socialising?Not if you do it properly ... each time you face you fear you release dopamine which give you energy. - For example if you lower your standard of success to approaching someone (despite a bad interaction) ... acknowledge you still achieved your goal of approaching a stranger. (edit: then carry that good mood from the small win to the next interaction making them more welcoming because you mood is better) - Now if you do that 10 times in a row ... acknowledging your small wins ... small squirts o… | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 04:35 PM |
| 165 | How the fuck are meant to meet women if you don't like socialising?You go socialize .... Use the thing you hate and avoid as a compass of what is important to your life. The stronger the emotions are the more important it is for you to face. If you are not getting what you want then the emotions you feel is there to keep the status quo (for saving energy purposes ... and you masterbating tricks your genetics that you are replicating) ... therefore do the opposite behavior what your emotions are telling you to do. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to talk things out?Yes you can recover from this ... well improve the probability. You have to convey you are moving on but acknowledge have cool she is for setting up her boundary when you crossed the line. That you are sorry also. it goes like this "Hey sorry for crossing the line. I understand if you want to cut ties with me. That is totally cool with me. My bad. I tend to find peoples boundaries and if I crossed it I am sorry. The fact, that you cut me off and knows to stand up for yourself when someone crosse… | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Do you ever just feel stupid doing this ?It is up to you to entertain yourself. Stop looking for externals to dictate your amusement. Self amusement is a seduction skill to offer value. - what you are doing seeking external entertainment is sucking value. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 04:24 AM |
| 2 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.My go to is always to open one of the girls in the group ... ask her who she knows and ask her to introduce me to her friends ... then tease target infront and with target's friends. - I usually do best friend test and figure out how they know each other and I would assume things about each person and their relationship. - Then bounce group to meet my friends or on to dance floor ... or just for the sake of bouncing them to another location. - Depending on logistics of target ... I would either … | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 11:26 PM |
| 2 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.I'll add to OPs posts. You need to take actions and get reference experiences. - You are what you repeat. In the seduction journey there are check points (when seducing a girl or guy). These check points are where you don't have control of the outcome. These check points are when anxiety kicks in and you repeat what you trained. Will you run away? or will your be paralyzed and cause awkward moments? Will you say something witty? - When you are starting out ... it is good to notice how you behave… | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Personal moments with my FWB that made cold approaching & reading these post well worth it .. thanks seduction!PUA is life for me ... started from Mystery's Cringe show The Pick Up Artists ... lol. - it was not cringe for me at the time. Now I am at the Being present in the moment stage of my PUA journey. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Just finished watching ''DON JON'' movie (2013), and now I'm curious: How common are real life men like the main character?Sorry I thought we are talking about picking up girls from a night out because the seduction techniques to get a girl horny also gets me horny where lots of feel good chemicals is release in our body. - I guess those feel good chemicals when I am picking up is far better than the dopamine spike you get from the anticipation of masturbating. - I have done various drugs ... the best high I experience is going out, socializing with multiple people (and girls), going on an adventure with the hottest… | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 04:51 PM |
| 6 | Just finished watching ''DON JON'' movie (2013), and now I'm curious: How common are real life men like the main character?I am not sure if that man exists if he is good at picking up girls. - Since being able to pick up girls means you are able to get the girl horny. But, to get the girl horny you also need to be horny. Guys forget seduction invokes sexual desires in a girl ... but also sexual desires within. - For example skin on skin touch release feel good chemicals in both the girl and guy's body. Of course there are other variables like drinking heavily, then getting a whisky di*ck, then doing a same night lay… | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 04:01 PM |
| 2 | How many bodies are considered as high bodycount for you personally?Abundance mindset results in certain behaviors that leads to certain actions. - different actions than what a scarcity mind person would behave. The opposite of abundance is scarcity mindset ... which dictates how you act that repels. Action of a scarce mind are talking fast, have wavering eye contact, tonality that rises, judges people ... "actions" that repel. The opposite actions/behaviors is someone who has abundance mindset. If a guy is able to sleep with the whole town ... means he has the… | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How many bodies are considered as high bodycount for you personally?You should not judge people. - that is going against seduction. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 12:40 PM |
| 1 | How many bodies are considered as high bodycount for you personally?When you have abundance you know more what you want for both genders. Not only you get closer and closer to what you are looking for in a partner ... you also develop habits that attract that type of person to you. People of abundance behave differently than people who dont have abundance. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 12:32 PM |
| 0 | How many bodies are considered as high bodycount for you personally?I dont judge people so I dont even care to ask. - displaying none judgment is also part of my seduction. I just care if they are clean. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Keep running into the same problemDefinitely, I do similar things of not judging, having fun and keep the intimacy from public eyes the whole journey that the lay just happens. - I define it fuck boy because my friends are club promoters, drug dealers and models which girls often sleep with them with little hesitation/resistance. Various girls of different beliefs. I apply that style of game of fun and adventure and being present in the moment. Were we are both skipping home together knowing what about to go down.... not thinkin… | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Keep running into the same problemI am talking about getting same day lays off cold approaches. - Your girl friend and the women you speak of ... did you meet them through cold approaches? Sorry if I wrote my comment incorrectly that you think it is aggressive. I am just challenging your views with what I believe will increase the odds of getting same day lays off cold approaches. What I mean is when I do cold approaches I have a higher percentage of getting the same day lay if the girl doesn't know nothing about me. - If I tell… | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Keep running into the same problemIf a girl wants a relationship with you ... why would she compromised that chance by sleeping with you on the first day? - All my same day lays the girl doesn't know nothing about me other than my name. I've same day lay girls that don't even speak same language as me. - Girls will make me wait for the lay if they know that I have a good job, drive a nice car and knows I have a good degree ... or see my place because it demonstrate boy friend material qualities. either way you do you. I am assum… | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Keep running into the same problemI try my absolute best to be classified as a fuck boy. - if you get classified as boyfriend material they will make you wait because they dont want to ruin the chances by being perceived as a slut. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 02:52 PM |
| 6 | Keep running into the same problemGet them to chase you ... be the first one to say to slow it down before they do. All the objections they say to you ... you say it first. Edit: in a playful challenging way .... like make sure you have a smirk when you do it. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Always Remember That Women Treat Men Differently Based On Their Level Of Attraction…..I went through what you are going through. - I am rooting for you to get what you want! Good luck and have fun! | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 10:50 AM |
| 5 | Always Remember That Women Treat Men Differently Based On Their Level Of Attraction…..Just look online for those key words. Kino is escalating physical touch. The idea is to do touches of low risk at first ... until you both are comfy with it ... then amp up the risk ... to sex. The idea is how can you be comfortable with sex if you are not both comfy with kissing ... how can you be comfy with kissing if you are not both comfy with hugging ... how can you be both be comfy with hugging when you are not comfy with hand shake .... Again research those topics and you will learn. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 10:45 AM |
| 7 | Always Remember That Women Treat Men Differently Based On Their Level Of Attraction…..Aside from working on yourself ... you need to gain experience on seduction techniques. There are a lot of techniques that when combined together magnifies sexual attraction towards you. Each topic i could write a book on. So I will get you to do your own research ... and actually applying what you learn. Social proofing, escalating physical touch (kino) and close proximity (playing with the distance you can get your faces close to each other) ... there are more things to learn like how to get i… | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 10:37 AM |
| 32 | Always Remember That Women Treat Men Differently Based On Their Level Of Attraction…..Yes ... that is part of seduction. - or at least make it a habit to treat EVERYONE the same way. - "same way" as in ... they are not above you, you are not below them, or them below you and you above them .... but as equals. For example treating a girl as your crush and/or beautiful is already putting them above your self. - same as defining someone as rich. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Always Remember That Women Treat Men Differently Based On Their Level Of Attraction…..Sexual attraction is the girl, getting wet in between her legs, wanting to see "your" dxck ... | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 08:51 AM |
| 14 | Always Remember That Women Treat Men Differently Based On Their Level Of Attraction…..Sexual attraction is more than physical looks. - the guy, who can "convey", that he cares the least has the highest attraction. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Mindfulness and GameI agree with you about mindfulness. - guys who has abundance and/or have purpose behave like someone who is present in the moment. If you understand and apply this to seduction ... then you dont need looks, money or status to be successful. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Mindfulness and GameActually your logical brain, specifically your prefrontal cortex, is activated when in mindful state and reduce connection to the reptilian portion, also called limbic system part of our brain were we take things personal and/or where amydala is located incharge of fight or flight. To be more precise how your brain process information flips from bottom up to top down ... that is why you feel indifferent (or at peace) when in present state. - so by default limbic system gets info first then goes … | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 06:57 PM |
| 2 | I did every right but still got rejected because of own insecuritiesSo she got buyers remorse with your chasing. You need to get her to chase you ... she starts the kissing, she starts the escalation, she is the one putting on the moves on you. "You need to stop looking at me with those eyes" She makes a mistake ... jokingly "you are not getting to kiss me if you keep doing that" "You need to wine and dine me first" "I probably should stay away from you ... you are trouble" Say things what girls will say to you to not come off as easy ... while also escalating p… | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 02:02 AM |
| 1 | I did every right but still got rejected because of own insecuritiesDid you make out in public at the event? | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Got a crush on newly joined front desk girl.Social proof the area where everyone talks good things about you. - you are the centre of attention. - leader - making everyone laugh - making other girls and guys laugh - while also making your crush laugh and teasing (playfully challenging her) Obviously the above is a behavior and skill I have honed and practiced :p | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 06:11 PM |
| 26 | Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up?It helped me with repetition and practicing my process to get to the lay. But, sometimes I just couldn't get it up because I was not into it :p .... I tried but just couldn't - Sometimes I would go all the way until she has her clothes off ... but dip after just to get reference experience and I knew I wouldn't be able to get it up. I was practicing my process to taking a girl home for same night lay from clubs/bars. It is also good when you have no place to stay :p | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How far from a bar/club is too far? Roommates in 30s, do they make it a definite "no?"First be good at the initial seduction were both of you are skipping home knowing what is about to go down. Even though it is not spoken ... you guys both know what is about to go down. Even if her friends are there ... they know what is about to go down even though nothing has been spoken. - This is called enthusiastic consent. - You have to baby step the journey. "My place is just around the corner" ... "After party" ... "we are almost there" ... while keeping it chill ... "You can leave whene… | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Expectations & outcomesGood advice. I do something similar! | /r/seduction | 27/03/26 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Is lunch dates/ during the day dates good for a first date?Define your lay location first (alley way, your car, near your place ... etc) reverse engineer multiple locations to get there. - Multiple locations example: -> lunch -> book store (quickly look at a book) -> desert/coffee -> pick something up at grocery store near your place -> drop food at your place or -> chill at a park near the washroom you can bang her or -> know an alley way you can park your car at the more locations = more memory of you = more trust and comfort. - one location vs 4 diff… | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 09:00 AM |
| 2 | I think that mysterious attitude guy persona is stupidYeah, it happened to my cousin. - when we were younger girls would often just approach him and lead to sex and/or relationship. - he just followed along. - one day a girl just sucked his d&ck and they were in a relationship. Had 2 kids together. But eventually the girl lost attraction to him as they aged and my cousin continued to be a douche ... so she left him for another dude. - I told him this would happen. Most expensive life ruining i told you so ... lol My cousin is tall and handsome. - n… | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 12:57 PM |
| 3 | I think that mysterious attitude guy persona is stupidThat is old technology what those pick up coaches are using. Which is being a sniper ... only gaming the one girl. - if it is a social event (bar/club) ... you game the whole room. This is called social proofing... new technology of game. - social proofing is generally open and approach all. This may involve in rejections. But the purpose of approaching all is to build your mood. At the end you get in such a good mood and present in the moment that you start to draw people in. - for example i re… | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 12:51 PM |
| 3 | I think that mysterious attitude guy persona is stupidI find game continues into the relationship. - what women wants to continue to lead forever? - why does divorces and girl cheating on their partner exists? - I am not saying it is 100% effective... but it definitely significantly decreases the odds of divorce, getting cheated on and having a dry bedroom. - game is how to get girls wet in between the legs mentally and physically. - Just like there are behaviors that attracts .... there are behaviors that repels | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 09:46 AM |
| 2 | I think that mysterious attitude guy persona is stupidYeah nothing happens or the girl flakes/ghost later on. - girl says they had a good time with the dude... then ghost and flakes because lack of investment during the interaction. So my game is 70% present in the moment and 30% seduction techniques so I get results | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 01:53 AM |
| 7 | I think that mysterious attitude guy persona is stupidSimilar to girl approaches hot guy ... she leads it to sex or relationship without guy doing anything. - issue is the guy is not the selector - other issue is guy doesnt learn attraction techniques to help during relationship | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 01:41 AM |
| 23 | I think that mysterious attitude guy persona is stupidIt is 70% present in the moment guy (aura that draws people) 30% game. If you are 100% present in the moment ... you draw the girl (and people) in but leads no where unless the girls leads the whole thing. - you are in durr state ... 70% being present and 30% technique is the sweet spot to human peak performance to whatever endeavor you apply the 30% to.... sports, running a business and seduction. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Make her shit test you!!Well the goal is same day lays. - so I am doing logistics while I am self amusing. - logistics of figuring out who she/he is with and getting them to introduce you to them further increase the approach all and social proofing. This also get you to approach a hot girl ... before you even realize she is a hot girl. During an approach I essentially flipped the scripted that "i am the hot girl" ... since everyone is wanting to meet me and hang out with me. - therefore do what hot girls do and call o… | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Do we all just ignore the hypocrisy?That is genetics and part of our DNA ... replication and surviving ... with a dash of supply and demand. For example, if you look at nature, the male seahorse carries the baby which makes them the one to be approached. The female seahorse is the approachers and there is multiple approachers. - the male seahorse (the one carrying the baby) has to be picky with who he should mate with because the risk of death from child birth and the risk of the female seahorse running away after child birth. Pic… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Do we all just ignore the hypocrisy?I am not saying you ... thats how society defines high status. - even the word "beautiful" and "boss" has high status built in it. You asked who defines who is high status ... society and history does using words. I am just answering ur question. That is good foe you to treat everyone equally and challenge people for your time. - but the masses behaves the opposite which is to put high status people on a pedestal and themselves as beneath them. - treating everyone as equal draws high status peop… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Do we all just ignore the hypocrisy?When you define a girl hot, beatiful, your crush or when you define someone who is of authority like your boss or cops ... ur parents ... you auto put them above you and yourself beneath them ... hence they are of higher status. - Just the word beautiful auto puts someone as higher status. And the trick is you treat them as equals... or be toxic person and knock them off the pedestal. Someone who is lower status behaves and thinks differently than a higher status person ... there are also people… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Make her shit test you!!Definitely that is why he is good for beginners to understand structure and canned routines. If you read the 2nd part of my original post the newer PUA technology, that i am preaching, is getting into state or present in the moment... to get the girl to chase you. Which i found the best balance of game is 70% getting into state and 30% PUA techniques (Todd V stuff) The 70%/30% is what athletes try to get into to perform at human peak performances. | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Make her shit test you!!If you follow the 6 step process. - also daily meditation also contributes to getting into state. Plus other stuff that helps you feel good like eating healthy, not eating bad stuff, exercising, acknowledging your tiny wins and reading good books to boost your presence. - all of these combined releases feel good chemicals like dopamine, serotonin and endorphins. You will experience the best high you ever felt! - with humans having mirror neurons....people can feel these feel good chemicals off o… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Make her shit test you!!I posted this below in another comment. - there is a youtube video explaining it but I cant find the particular video ... but i did make notes long time ago ------------------------------------------------------------------------- It's goes open -> banter -> win -> escalate (repeat) Banter: causing a fight, ridicule, make fun of. - the goal is to get a reaction by playfully starting a fight. - what you don't want is u r just talking and complimenting her. Win: win the banter. she is the one to f… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Make her shit test you!!I think that is why he is good especially for beginners. He is super technical with canned routine for beginners to copy. - even thu he comes out try hard and unauthentic he still gets results. - perfect for beginners who is going to come out unauthentic since they dont have reference experience to get reference experience. I had to go through those canned routines to learn about natural game. | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 01:46 AM |
| 5 | Make her shit test you!!At the beginning I was chasing, since I was in experienced. But I started to do Tyler RSD process of building momentum when you are out gaming The process is Tyler called it 6 Step 1) Approach all 2) Minimize time in between sets 3) Don't judge yourself 4) Find something funny after each approach 5) Keep it short and sweet if you are not in the mood 6) Burn it to the ground if you are in the mood The process basically replicates what a hot girl does when she goes to the bars/clubs. She can basic… | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Make her shit test you!!For the life of me I cannot find the youtube video anymore (I just tried again just now with no luck). I only have my notes ------------------------------------------------------------------------- It's goes open -> banter -> win -> escalate (repeat) Banter: causing a fight, ridicule, make fun of. - the goal is to get a reaction by playfully starting a fight. - what you don't want is u r just talking and complimenting her. Win: win the banter. she is the one to first to stop the banter by changi… | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Make her shit test you!!hmmm ... then what will you do if you are gaming a girl who doesn't speak the same language as you? | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Make her shit test you!!Social proofing and working on building momentum on generating feel good emotions (aka being present in the moment) When you approach everyone in a venue and you banter/bust balls with everyone (guys and girls) ... you build feel good emotions from within and become more and more present in the moment. - When girls, in the venue, see you talking to everyone and they are having a good time with you ... they will want to meet you. I know when this works when I do approach the girl she says "are yo… | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Make her shit test you!!Luckily I was the class clown when I was growing up (in Elementary and high school) were I would tease the shit out of ALL girls (and guys) for my OWN SELF entertainment. Had many girls in love with me and multiple stalkers ... But, I was not into them which makes my banter not forced or try hard. - As I grew up and started to develop interest in girls I found that to counter try hard is to work on self amusement. - To counter try hard and being force ... is to banter not just one girl ... but e… | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Make her shit test you!!What if she is the one chasing you at the beginning? She is attracted to you. - What you are saying is for you to do the chasing. I am saying is for her to do the chasing from the beginning or even before an interaction started. This is what abundance guys do and what guys with purpose do. They get the girl to be attracted to them even before the interaction starts. Were she doesn't even shit test you at all ... and she leads the interaction to the lay. It is up to you to proceed not the girl. J… | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 03:53 PM |
| 37 | Make her shit test you!!I like Todd V method of Bantering to escalate. It purposely starts a shit test with a girl and then you win it then you escalate. Then repeat the process to higher escalation. I think though if you are in state the girl doesn't shit test you because she is the one chasing. You are the one shit testing her for her to pass. | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I have never been looked at by womenA guy who is fun to be around with is generally not interested because they are amusing themselves (act like how they would act around their best friends) ... compared to the typical guy who only has fun if the girl is having fun or filters his behavior in fear of losing the girl he is interested in. Paradox right? lol Look at Pete Davison and his track record of girls he dated. Out of all the guys these girls can pick and have picked ... they pick the funny guy. | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I have never been looked at by womenLove it. I agree 100%. I dis agree on one thing ... about girls don't chase because they chase the guy who doesn't chase ... which is the guy, who you speak of, who she can have the most fun with (and/or super handsome guy who doesn't need to chase). | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Sex with a baddie & making out & massaging her friendGreat to hear the process of talking to everyone works. I just wanted to iterate to others reading your posts that they could do the same if they talk to everyone. - dont be a sniper be a machine gun ... I repeat to my self. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Sex with a baddie & making out & massaging her friendWhat is ur process of talking to random people? Do you just talk to girls or also guys? I do something similar of talking to everyone to get my self in a good state ... were i dont hesitate to do things i want to do. Gets great results when you talk to everyone ... not only makes you feel good but also get urself into crazy adventures. Great job! | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 03:10 PM |
| 6 | I have never been looked at by womenLearn how to self amuse. - be comfortable with attention. for example busting everyone's balls (girls and guys) to make YOURSELF laugh. This is playfully challenging people causing a fight (verbally). then be able to work the room ... when busting peoples balls ... this is called social proofing. When you are in a social event, with girls in it, they will see you having fun with everyone (guys and girls). - they will perceived you as someone with high status. You know when this works when you me… | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 02:07 PM |
| 5 | I don't understand whyNeeding to change to get a relationship means that it was their fault this whole time. Notice a lot of people who struggle blame everyone else except them selves when the common denominator is them this whole time. Society tells them it is not their fault to blame because they pity them ... which in reality does the opposite of helping them. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 10:40 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid the friend zoneThat is ok. You are what you practice. If you think hugs are high risk ... then go even lower risk ... like hand shakes, fist bumps, high fives. - Then you escalate the risk to hugs, thumb war, massages, dancing and holding hands. - Make it a goal when you met a girl to have this stack of routine ... hand shake -> high fives ... -> fist bumps -> hugs -> massages -> close up dancing -> kissing -> sex :p The trick is low risk physical touch (what you think is low risk) then slowly increase the ris… | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid the friend zoneThat is why i said for you to practice physical touch and close proximity with everyone ^_^. - These seduction techniques and idea is a double edge sword. What she feels you will feel when you practice physical touch and close proximity. - Start with low risk physical touches ... hand shake, hugs, high fives, thumb wrestling, palm reading, massages. - Practice close proximity like dancing close with someone. You will release these feel good chemicals. Once you practice enough you will naturally … | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 01:35 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid the friend zoneI guess through time you develop standards on what you like in a girl/guy. As a beginner it will be all about looks. But, as you get more experience and date around ... you start to develop standards you look for in girls/guys. - I like girls who exercise, eat healthy and are free spirited (dance without caring about what others think) ... so if I notice (also I filter for these qualities) a girl who is pretty in the outside and in the inside I like her (hitting my check list on things I like in… | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 01:10 AM |
| 3 | How to avoid the friend zoneYou need to relay your intentions, none verbally, at the very beginning. Having both of you comfortable with physical touch and close proximity (having your face and body super close to each other) is an example ... to a point if a by stander was observing they would assume you guys are already dating. - like at the very beginning. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Cockblocking friendsDefinitely ur suggestions works to. - sometimes I ask the girl if she knows the cock blocker ... if she says no ... I just pick her up and walk away. U can take my advice or not ... it is just one example of what I have done to show you dont care and makes the girl laugh and more attracted to you. Try it out ur self for science :). As long u show u dont care what the cock blocker says it should work. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Cockblocking friendsGood for u for leading. The girls are definitely into you ... your buddy cock blocker amplified their attraction to you even more. - definitely annoying but ironically it helps you and also good training on what to do in the situation. What you think you can improve the next time this happens to you because it will happen again. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Cockblocking friendsI get cock blocked all the time ... defending that "i dont have a small penis ... it is average" ... shows u r Pathetic to the girl ... she just sees u r insecure. - happens almost every night I go out in the clubs. My method gets the girl all the time. I also tried to defend my self saying the cock blocker is rude ... which we end up fighting and no one gets the girl. How would u respond if a cock blocker interrupts you gaming a girl saying you probably have a small penis? | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Cockblocking friendsYeah there is a phenomenon of wingman. Since the person you are winging cares too much it makes then repulsive to the target and the their target ends up attracted to the wing because they don't care. - so use it to ur advantage :p. Which u r already doing. The issue is the cock blocker gets even more frustrated so they try to belittle you even more ... which ironically makes all the girls fall in love with the wing lol. Keep using it as ur advantage, training for when u do meet more cock blocke… | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Cockblocking friendsTreat them how you would treat a cock blocker. - if they belittle you ... accept it (opposite of defending ur self) ... and make fun of yourself with them. It shows you dont care. The one who doesnt care gets all the girls and gets repelled by cock blocker because they try too much. For example if cock blocker said I had a small penis ... I would reply "have you heard of a micro penis? Well I have the world's first nano penis" Cock blocker gets flustered and girl notices you are willing to walk … | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | When do you feel like your chasing too much?When you start to feel awkward moments. | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Avoid interview style conversations!Great advice. The cool thing is once you get enough experience you can cold read and guess right. Or play the probability of guessing/assuming it right. | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Non-posessiveness is the key most of the timeok I will try. I think the other commentor said the same thing of not putting all eggs in a basket. Haha, you guys suggestions seems like the opposite behavior of what I am doing. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Non-posessiveness is the key most of the timeI see, be willing to walk away. I like that. Thanks for the reply! | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Non-posessiveness is the key most of the timeThanks for the reply! I see abundance mind set. I like that to treat my attention as a reward. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Non-posessiveness is the key most of the timeHow do you do this? | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | saying “use texting just as a tool to set dates” is straight BS adviceWhy don't you set the date at the beginning ... before exchanging numbers. That way the texting is to set up the date. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testYes of course. I agree with you 100%. What I said is equivalent to the advice of "just be confident" I have a process to do what I suggested :) Do you want to know it? | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 09:40 PM |
| -1 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedFirst need to understand how girls work. - when they meet a guy ... they categorize them subconsciously into, boy friend material, friend zone or fuck boy. There are more categories but those are the common ones. Obviously, for same day lays you want to be categorized as the fuck boy and not be categorized as boy friend material by your behaviors. - most men only know two styles of game ... which are to behave like friend zone guy or boy friend material guy. - when a girl knows you have a nice j… | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 07:01 PM |
| -1 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedGet good at same day lays and you will save more time and money. If you can do same day lay means you r not using looks or money ... Using status and money can hinder you with same day lays. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 03:35 PM |
| 3 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testDo things what hot girls do first. Training wheels to use to comprehend this are say "You need to whine and dine me first." "You are not getting in my pants if you keep doing that" "You just want me for my body" Say them before she does. Get them to qualify themselves sexually. I call this the "I am the hot girl" game... | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 09:12 AM |
| -2 | why doesn’t self-improvement guarantee attraction?I'm asking why would someone dress in a way that shows off their physique Because it makes them feel good. Like it boost their own mood. - you can do it wrong. To dress good to show off your physique by waiting for someone to notice. If they say you look good then you feel good. But the issue is if you dont get a compliment (which you rely your mood off) you feel resentment instead. - the right way to do it is feel good first that is why u dress like that. If you get a compliment ... awesome. If… | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 02:58 PM |
| 1 | why doesn’t self-improvement guarantee attraction?Is there an awkward moment of silence? I just raise my hand, show her my black finger, and instantly it creates a context That is my point ... you rely on this gambit ... if she likes it you feel good. Now if she doesnt you feel bad. Now what happens when you run out of gambit to show her? You leave. Even thu she didnt reject you ... you run away. - I did this also of having canned routines. I would perform them at a party multiple girls. Now the girls would take notice ... they would ask other … | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 02:50 PM |
| 0 | why doesn’t self-improvement guarantee attraction?Sorry for not being clear. i mean showing off your physique doesnt work all the time with girls when ur coming off as try hard. My example of there is a lot of dudes around me who also are showing off their physique and they are even more muscular and handsomer than me is an example of why it doesnt work. Is that clear? | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 02:37 PM |
| -1 | why doesn’t self-improvement guarantee attraction?I am ripped also. But there are other dudes that are more ripped than me. Especially when I go to raves ... lots of shirt less dudes with bigger muscles, taller and more handsome. But why do the girls pick me? These guys would often try to steal the girl off of me also. But the girl feels repelled by them and drawn to me. Why they pick me? I draw good mood through my acomplishment of exercising. I boost my mood by acknowledging my acomplishment of working out my core for 17 years straight. I ack… | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 02:19 PM |
| 2 | why doesn’t self-improvement guarantee attraction?Haha yeah I did the same before. Get my Mohawk cut every 2 weeks. My confidence would be at the highest at the beginning and dips as get closer to "it is time for a hair cut".... this was called Peacocking. - but I thought that was silly to use my hair cut as a crutch so I started growing my hair without getting trimmed. Because no one notices it or gives me compliments about it ... my mood goes down. I would hear people talk near me saying I looked like Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite movie (not s… | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 02:00 PM |
| 3 | why doesn’t self-improvement guarantee attraction?You are kind of right. It is just the order is wrong. So have you experienced awkward moments, awkward silence and/or cant find the words to say? | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 12:58 PM |
| 4 | why doesn’t self-improvement guarantee attraction?Do you dress in Armani and Gucci, wear expensive perfume, and buy a luxury watch just to stay locked inside your house? Of course not. Because it makes me feel good ... that is why I would do those. Do you go to the gym to build muscle so you can admire yourself in the mirror at home? Then why do you wear fitted clothes that highlight the body you built at the gym? When you release endorphins when you exercise ... who feels it? You or someone who didnt exercise? The idea is to boost your own moo… | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 12:12 PM |
| 3 | why doesn’t self-improvement guarantee attraction?Cause they are doing it for the wrong reason. - notice the word "self"-imrovement. - this is associated to "self"-worth and "self"-acceptance. - when you put someone on a pedestal... you give your self worth and self acceptance to the girl. - this is how awkward moments and awkward silence are made. So if you actually start doing things for your "self" instead of doing it for others .... then it will work. The more attractive the girl is... the more guys who puts her on a pedestal interacts with… | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 11:20 AM |
| 2 | What car do you drive?Yeah quite a neat phenomenon. - girl sees nice car ... auto classify you as a boy friend material. girl sees a middle class car ... opens up the flood gates. (Classified you as fuck boy). But, still up to u to date after the lay thu. So many adventures in my ford focus. - I am scared to put a black light at the back seats thu. Yeah I am getting down voted already. Lol | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 04:00 PM |
| 0 | What car do you drive?I have more same day lays driving my 2012 Ford focus than my audi. U getting more same day lays with ur nice car? | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 02:04 PM |
| -2 | What car do you drive?Girls will make you wait for the lay if they see your nice car. - they dont want to appear as a slut and want a relationship so they will hold off. | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 01:13 PM |
| 7 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testFirst, you need to understand how it works. So ill explain that. Second i will recommend some training wheels to get reference experience to comprehend it. So have you ever experienced awkward moments and awkward silences? Or unable to to find the words to say? - they usually occur when you are with someone you put above you on a pedestal. It could be your boss, someone of authority, during a presentation infront of people. But, the more common one is infront of your crush. - when you put someon… | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 11:55 PM |
| 5 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testI am 38 :) ... been gaming since I was 19. Seduction technology has evolved since u were 15. Sorry for not starting reddit when I was 15 :p ... I understand ur point thu. But dont u want threesomes? Dont u want girls to stop getting pissy when they see u with other girls? My method actually heavily aligns with Buddhist monks ... self acceptance, self worth, self amusement, meditation, getting into flow and getting into human peak performance. - what i am saying is if you apply the above you will… | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 07:51 PM |
| 3 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testYou putting your age is a form of bragging. Trying to gain authority over me. You doing the same as me with throwing out numbers by sharing ur age. u r right though. I hate using my numbers as bragging. But I can use it on how effective it works. I can see ur point on women wanting to be the guys number one. - good for u to replacing them when they do. But how come threesome exists? Sounds like u have limiting beliefs.... My method gets the girl not to care if you have other girls ... because u … | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testSorry I dont ask my female friends how many guys they have in their friend zone lists. - why should i ask that question? - I dont think girls even consciously know they friend zone guys only after the guy confess. - this categorizing is all subconscious. And being friend zone is another category girls will put you in. Due to specific behavior a guy does to be put in it. How come I have multiple girls in my rotation? Why do i have more than 60+ same day lays? Why do girls make me wait once I pick… | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 04:35 PM |
| 3 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testOne tries to impress boy friend material ... -one doesnt. They impress themselves. One puts the girl on a pedestal.... - the other treats her like normal. (Toxic guy works similar by knocking the girl off pedestal ... but not a fun relationship) One gives their self acceptance and self worth to the girl. - the other draws it from within. One defines the girl as a crush or wants to sleep with. - the other treats her as another girl.... or he has standards and see if she is cool to hang out with. … | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 09:14 AM |
| 7 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testIt means i am a prostitute... im just joking with her. - edit: something i thought was funny to me at the time (self amusement) - edit: that quote is from beer fiest movie ... If I said I am an engineer they will put me as boy friend material and make u wait for the lay .... U good? Edit: a lot of my lays (same day lays) ... the girl doesnt know anything about me. | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 08:52 AM |
| 25 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testSo guys only know one style of game which is the i am boy friend material ... which is to impress her with their job, or maybe their physique, show off their money, they have good education. With me ... it is pure self amusement. I dont tell them I am an engineer with good pay. When they ask me what I do ... "i work the corners. 1 dollar to see it. 2 dollars to touch it". - I dont drive my nice car to pick them up. I use my 2012 Honda civic. - I usually bang them at their place instead of mine. … | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 02:25 AM |
| 10 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testSo fuck boys are like drug dealers and club promoters. - when they are with the girl it is all about having fun comboed with abundance mindset since they r always around girls. The common thing between them is the skills to self amuse. - I am the party ... u can join if u want but also cool if u dont. Edit: sorry I forgot a common thing among fuck boys are that they are good at social proofing. - they have a big social circle of guys and girls. So when one of ur girls see u interacting with othe… | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 02:07 AM |
| 40 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testYour issue is you are being classified as boyfriend material. Need to behave were u get classified as a fuck boy. - I hate the name "fuck boy" ... but i use it to best illustrate the behavior. - generally they dont even ask what the relationship is because they know, through ur behaviors, what the status is. Only after the lays you can decide to be in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 09:08 PM |
| 0 | has anyone actually used ai for dating practice?I think they made a movie about this. | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Owen Cook Alleyway SeductionLong time ago ... or at least something similar. - like probably years ago .... | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Owen Cook Alleyway SeductionTo learn: How to de escalate a cock blocker. How to not lose the girl. Have u ever faced a cockblocker before? - this guys is more specifically trying to white knight | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What if you hate social gatherings?No clue what Models is ... But if you did enjoy it what behaviors would u do ... then do those behaviors even thu u dont like it. - u change ur head with action. When they mention hobbies ... it means to do your hobbies. To talk about your hobbies. - the idea is what you feel they feel. The good emotions you feel when talking about ur hobbies is the thing that attracts. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itMan good for u. I am happy for u! Keep it up. Dude u win ... you are amazing. But, that is not the point ... is to help others who struggle. That their is a chance for the ugly guys (or they perceive themselves ugly). Edit: But ur comment is comparing my lays with the other guy ... not with urs | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itMy bad for saying u suck with girls. That was un called for. That is fair if that is your opinion. - I was just replying to ur comment to name some one who contradicts that it is about looks and I applied Pete Davison .... am I wrong? But what I say is my experience and what I learn. I dont want people who is trying to get good with girls to stop ... reading ur comment. - I also teach others to help them get girls. Get their first kiss. First girl friend. Lose their virginity. Cool guys. Totally… | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI have 100+ lays thu .... that was 5 years ago when I was counting. - 80% are same day lays. - I am 5'6 asian with acne scars. I know i sound insane ... but it is because i care. - I thought the same as these guys. I want them to do well also! I love when an ugly fuck gets the beautiful girl. Weird you guys ask for an example of a guy (Pete Davison) who challenges ur views that it is all about looks. Then change the goal posts. But I am in insane guy ... you can just ignore me and keep failing. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itYour reply just contradicted yourself. Pete is a living example that is more than looks and money. Who is more rich Ariana or Pete ... who is more rich Pete or Kim? Out of all the guys these girls dated ... is Pete Davison more handsome, richer more popular than their options? Now who is coping? Why would u try to go against me? U r just setting urself up for failure and find excuses why u suck with girls ... blaming that u r too ugly and poor. - u r making it a self fufilling prophecy for ursel… | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI am just adding to ur lists :p I know u r trying to help. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itMadelyn Cline (September 2023 – July 2024) Chase Sui Wonders (December 2022 – August 2023) Emily Ratajkowski (November – December 2022) Kim Kardashian (October 2021 – August 2022) Phoebe Dynevor (February – August 2021) Kaia Gerber (October 2019 – January 2020) Margaret Qualley (August – October 2019) Kate Beckinsale (January – April 2019) Ariana Grande (May – October 2018) Cazzie David (May 2016 – May 2018) Carly Aquilino (2014 – 2015) | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itWhy Pete Davison do well? | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 01:27 PM |
| -1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itPete Davidson | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI agree ... OP is only in the beginner stage of his journey. Only noobs talk like that. But, I also think like that learning canned materials at the beginning of my journey .. so hopely they continue with their journey and learn about inner game ... you can only connect the dots looking back. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itYou didnt see Simple pick up new coach Big Will wearing a fat suit and make up meeting his date. You didnt see RSD Alex experimenting putting an actor and dressing him like a homeless person, rubbed fish all over his body approaching girls. - they found out the longer the smelly homeless guy stayed in the set the more the girl became receptive. - the idea is more time with a girl = equal trust. Weird how there r millions of different types of dildos of different lengths, vibrations, ribbed and t… | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Accept the New Rules or Be Left BehindI have been with multiple races, married females (I didnt know afterwards) and lesbians (questionable if they are true leabians or bi ... but i have been with two and I was their first guy ever) - I have also been with girls who originally who say i am not their type ... but eventually fall in love with me later on. I still have girls 10 years later still haven't forgotten about me. The more I apply this the more it gives me evidence how universal this is. Believe or not ... as long i get what I… | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Accept the New Rules or Be Left BehindThat is totally cool if you dont accept what I am saying. - Definitely I will work on my writing. I had to edit it multiple times so I can see if it is try hard. I try hard because I care :). When you try hard means I put a lot time that I give to someone. Sometimes my writing hits sometimes it doesnt (most of the time it doesnt :p) Cheers! Thanks for sharing ur time with me and giving ur insights! | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Accept the New Rules or Be Left BehindI answered your question thu. - ill simplify for you. But even you might in the future stumble upon a girl you would like to see once again or build something with her. Do you think you could remain cool if she lied to your face? Yes I will remain cool because I wont blame her. I would blame my self. - I didnt put her on a pedestal of "a girl i want to see once again or build something with her" (focusing on future) ... so i will remain cool because I am present. When you judge people you blame … | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Accept the New Rules or Be Left BehindIf you really think that girls lie just because the guys allow her Lol u think the guy getting cheating on is allowing the girl to cheat on him? I said the guys she is seeing, that she is cheating on, repels her because he puts his own self worth and acceptance and gives it to the girl. But even you might in the future stumble upon a girl you would like to see once again or build something with her. Do you think you could remain cool if she lied to your face? Again being present is treating her … | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Accept the New Rules or Be Left BehindJudgment means you are above someone. Being present means you are equal to each other. Not above or below. When you judge you take things personal. - when you are present you dont take anything personal. A lot of my same day lays we barely know anything about each other. - we dont know much about each others past ... or future. Hence being present. - hence the girl will say the sex just happened. - no expectstions of each other. Not judging is also why the reason girls are drawn to me. - why do … | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 09:43 AM |
| 19 | Accept the New Rules or Be Left BehindIt is not caring ... it is being present in the moment. - the be present attracts all girls. - being present in the moment makes you not out come dependent. - abundance and people with purpose are present in the moment when interacting with girls. - the cool thing is you dont need abundance or purpose ... you can just be present and get results. The opposite of being present are people who are focusing on past (trauma) or future (trying to impress) - they repel because they give their own self a… | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 10:56 PM |
| 4 | Accept the New Rules or Be Left BehindTrue story ... OP is loosely talking about my life :p | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Do natty bodybuilders have the ideal physique?I am natural since I do home gym. Lots of core and plyometrics and boxing. A lot of girls i lay dont even notice my physique only until I take off my clothes. - it is more of a bonus for them. They draw their attention to my energy ... which is probably do to my high cardiovascular. - for example once my endorphins kicks in after exercising ... girls are more welcoming because of energy. - combo endorphins, and being present (body releasing dopamine), giggling through self amusement ... I start … | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Strong IOIs throughout 4-hour date, escalated twice, hard rejection next day - field report + looking for analysisIt goes banter -> win banter when she qualifies -> then you escalate. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you keep busy?That is neediness it makes u make awkward moments, awkward silence, unable to find the words to say. (Like forgetting ur lines performing at a play, or choking performing at a comedy show, of running out of things to say to a pretty girl) - awkward moments can be felt by others (especially girls) ... and it repels them. If u stop being awkward you stop being needy. Stop being needy get the girls. | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep busy?No that is not an awkward moment ... Ima chat gpt it An awkward moment refers to a brief, uncomfortable situation that often causes embarrassment, social unease, or tension Have u ever experienced the above? Maybes around ur boss, around a pretty girl, ur crush, people u want to fit in with. | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep busy?Exactly .. that is why u suck with the girls. Simple question .... have u experienced an awkward moments before? Or awkward silent before around someone. - if so what was the scenario? We will try to fix | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep busy?The problem is ur self esteem. U draw ur acceptance and worth and give it to someone else ... to girls and crushes. Have u ever experienced awkward moments and awkward silence or u struggle to find words to say? - if so what do u think the cause of that? | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 03:36 PM |
| 4 | How do you keep busy?Ur personality and mindset makes you needy. - whether you were busy or not ... you will still be needy. - once you start blaming yourself will you then learn to fix your inner game. - if you blame external factors like "I am not busy enough" ... then you wont look to fix the root cause. :p | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 01:25 PM |
| 1 | TYLER OLD VIDEOSGo search how to torrent.... then go to torrent sites. - the files are in every torrent site. | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 11:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs?I agree! But for a lot of the girls who go there, they would prefer the environment to be more intimidating so that they don't get approached by beta guys. Because beta guys will be scared and self-conscious of that setting. The girls and the club ... because the more frustrated the guys are the more drinks they buy :p | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 09:30 PM |
| 2 | How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs?I never said girls are "watching" men at all times. Your original comment That's specifically why women go there. To watch how guys react to the environment Do you see the mis interpretation...... I am saying girls do not specifically go to the club to watch guys react to the environment. They are there to have fun and boost their mood. - if u understand that ... you will do well. I understand what u r trying say ... but the way u word it doesnt help. Sorry I triggered you. My bad for mis interp… | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 09:04 PM |
| 2 | How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs?That's specifically why women go there. To watch how guys react to the environment, if they interpret it as stressful or fun. Hard to agree to this comment and doesnt help guys starting out. I agree when a girl is one on one with you they will observe if they like you or not. - but they r not scanning the club critizing every guy whether he is insecure or not ... they dont care about the insecure guys.... whether unconscious or conscious. - giels go to clubs to having fun and seek a guy to have … | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | TYLER OLD VIDEOSGo get them they r in torrents | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 12:39 PM |
| 13 | How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs?I agree to the first part about the chaos. - bars and clubs blast music so guys struggle to talk to girls which results in them buying more drinks. I dont think girls are that synical in the clubs that they find entertainment of guys struggling. - they are their to have fun and dance. I go to clubs often for 20 years now and not one girl said that to me ... that they are there to watch guys struggling. | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 03:17 AM |
| 4 | How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs?I dont like country bars/music ... but my buddies loke them so I go with them. - I also dont drink. I tell my self if I was drunk and if I did like country music what would I do? - then i would behave it. For me I like clubs because of the music. I go dance on the dance floor ... even by my self. - I would be moving to the beat ... even thu i suck at it. - if I was drunk I wouldn't care of what other think of how shit I am dancing.... so I would behave like that even when I am actually sober. - … | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 10:55 PM |
| 1 | The benefits to making a woman laugh ..Thanks 😊! | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Stop Theorizing : Speak on ExperienceMore reason for you to just go against them and ignore them. - dont take them dragging you down personal. You will see when you get more successful... these haters will try to shoot you down when you are gaming a girl. - some will try to steal the girl and say PUA is manipulative ... when you leave ... they swoop in and try to take the girl. - some will even try to embarrass you to take the girl. - at first when I took it personal... no one got the girl. - but once I stop taking the haters perso… | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Stop Theorizing : Speak on ExperienceI agree with you. But that is human nature. Why you think many are not successful. When you talk about self improving like approaching a lot to gain experience ... it puts a mirror to their faces on "if that guy can do it and we are at equal level ... what the hell am I doing with my life?". So they shoot you down back to their level. You will always get guys stuck in the manure dragging you back ... when you try to get out. | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | The benefits to making a woman laugh ..Nah, woman needs and wants someone who can entertain themselves. - if you try to entertain women .. you come off ass a dancing monkey / try hard ... then you repel the girl. What you feel they feel. If you entertain yourself, you feel good inside, girl senses that good mood so she feels good. | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 06:16 PM |
| 2 | The benefits to making a woman laugh ..You r close ... but still can go deeper. Being funny is more about being comfortable, observant, and in the moment. Correct you have to be comfy and in the moment. But how do you do that? Bad comedians (guys who are bad with girls) are reaction seeking ... (so dont be observant). Meaning they put the person on a pedestal. - when you put someone on a pedestal you give your self acceptance and worth to that person. For example bad comedian says a joke, wait for the the crowds reaction (focusing on… | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Going out with a high-value friend and two girls — need tactical adviceCorrect value giving comes: 1. Position of abundance 2. Expecting nothing in return You are close ... but u can go even deeper. Plus that doesnt help OP. Probably amplifies his anxiety even more. - you think OP would be asking on reddit these questions ... if he knew how to get Abundance? Would he be comparing himself to his friend and downplaying his looks and be able to expect nothing in return? If OP cant get abundance and cant expect nothing in return... you think leading a conversation and … | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Going out with a high-value friend and two girls — need tactical adviceI actually recommend to warm up prior to the meet up. Before meeting up go to a busy location and ask 5 strangers for directions (even thu u dont need it) The goal is to get rid of your anxiety thru warm ups and socializing with other people. | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 04:21 PM |
| 16 | The benefits to making a woman laugh ..You need to go deeper when giving advice to these guys who aint getting any. - your advice of just be funny is equavalnt to just be confident. It is a good idea! I am also funny and get laid. But ... How do you be funny? | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Going out with a high-value friend and two girls — need tactical adviceHow do you make it fun for everyone? | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Going out with a high-value friend and two girls — need tactical adviceTalk to everyone (edit guys and girls). Cashier how is their day going ... compliments other people attire walking by ... talk to people in line (who r u guys here to see?) ... talk to tickets guy (how many movies have u seen already working here?) While also talking to your group. Edit ... you have to do this especially if your friend is getting all the attention. Edit: what I just suggested is how to remedy what u just listed ... freezing, being boring .... losing attention to your friends... … | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Men chase, women choose: the reality of attention in datingIt is not theory ... it is seen in nature. - male seahorse carries the baby so multiple female seahorse approaches the male. - this is due to the risk of death and survival of carrying and giving birth to the baby. Humans forget the rate of death during pregnancy because we advanced technology to reduce that risk of death. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 11:08 AM |
| 19 | Men chase, women choose: the reality of attention in datingIndifference can be yin and yang if you treat it as something that comes from within. - indifference is not drawing your acceptance through compliments or insults. - but ultimately not to focus on future or past ... but be in the middle which is to be present. If you master this ... you become the hot girl and your presence is what draws girls (people in general) to you. push pull behavior will happen if you are present. push pull is training wheels to help someone be perceived as indifferent...… | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 10:32 AM |
| 7 | Stimulating a women mindBeing present in the moment. | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 11:06 PM |
| 4 | Do women instictively know when you have options?What I found is no one is above the process. So what you should take away from me is to achieve presents by following the process. - the process is open all (guys and girls), keep time inbetween sets at a minimal, dont judge your self, find something funny after each interaction to bring to the next set, keep it short and sweet if you r not in the mood ... lastly burn it to the grown when you are in the mood. - if you follow the process you will get more present than everyone in the room. You st… | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 12:42 AM |
| 7 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.Geeky asian here ... learn to self amuse and be present in the moment. - teasing girls because it is funny to you, learn to enjoy dancing, do things that are funny to you, exercise because it makes you feel good. Notice how I said to do the above for your self. - guys do it wrong because they are trying to impress the girl ... but instead impress yourself first. Then what you feel she will feel. - guys who do this wrong often complain ... but i have a good job, but I exercise, why doesnt she lik… | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Do women instictively know when you have options?You behave like someone who has abundance. - scarcity mindset makes you nervous so you speak fast with wavering eye contact. So behave the opposite... focus on making relaxed eye contact and speaking slowly and be comfy with silence (gets others to fill in the silence) needy people have tonality that rises (like homeless people asking for spare change) ... so do the opposite have a tonality the drops (like a police officer who caught your red handed doing a crime) Basically, if you are not getti… | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 11:45 PM |
| 27 | Do women instictively know when you have options?So the opposite of being present in the moment is focusing on the past(trauma)or future(embarrassment). - when you are in scarcity you put your crush(girls and beautiful girls) on a pedestal. - when you put people on pedestal means you give you own self worth and acceptance to the girl. - you are reaction seeking (focusing on future) because you are trying to impress. - you filter your behavior so you don't offend. In fact not say anything at all or find something to say (awkward silence). - ex:… | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 05:20 PM |
| 37 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Yeah when I learned about it ... I was the same. - especially when I didnt have abundance yet ... I started to do things that made me present in the moment when interacting with people. Crazy things happened like getting abundance afterwards. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 09:14 AM |
| 485 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Abundance behavior is different from scarcity/needy behavior. For example abundance get you to focus in the moment and scarcity gets you to focus in the future or past. | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Stares, double takes, choosing signals from womenThat is not approaching. That is getting picked. - there is a difference. When guys read your first comment ... they will assume "if I just stand there a girl will eventually talk to me first." .... then they are 30 years old and no girl still approached them. | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Stares, double takes, choosing signals from womenWhy did Bumble change their policy from "girls making the first move" to having both options to make the first move or set a prompt to get the guy to talk? It is because girls were complaining that making the first move is stressful. You cant change biology. The one who caries the baby has multiple approachers. An example is how the male seahorse (the one who caries the babies) have multiple female seahorse approach. - this is due to risk of death and survival for the one carrying the baby. | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 04:30 PM |
| 6 | Stares, double takes, choosing signals from womenI have always been lean. I get lots of attention because I am always having fun. The trick is not to look for Indication of interests (IOIs) Edit: if u look it will cause anxiety and paralysis. Or worst mis interpret a look as interests. Approach and get good on hooking all types of scenarios. Best to assume everyone is friendly. Polite way to interrupt someone is to False time constraint (ftc) before opening. Ftc examples "Real quick real quick" ... open "2 seconds 2 seconds" ... open If she ha… | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 03:17 PM |
| 12 | A lot of attractive guys go home by themselves..Flow state overcomes being ugly and short i feel like to getting girls attracted. | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 01:38 PM |
| 2 | A lot of attractive guys go home by themselves..Numbers game plus skills to imcrease your odds to your favor = social proofing | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to date these woman .Guy who are rich, has good jobs, has a nice car, well educated... are the boy friend material. - girls dont want to come out as a sl&t or else they lose their power and may lose their chance to get in a relationship. Fuck boys are like drug dealers and club promoters. Always have girls around - they all about fun and self amusement. - they the guys married girls cheat with. - girls say the sex just happened.... But you can imitate how fuck boys behave ... self amusement, getting girls to chase y… | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 01:14 AM |
| 1 | You ever hire a dating coach? Is it worth it?Was good ... I guess it is best to attend their hot seat first so they teach you the techniques and show infield videos. - then go out on boot camp with Alex and jeffy. - Main thing Alex noticed was my tonality rises ... so he told me to make it drop. Wouldn't of known that by my self. Jeffy was so scary watching me like a hawk ... made me approach more. - he also winged me a couple of times. He was decent just a regular dude. Super intimidating thu. Was 2000 bucks. Had two smoking hot blonde in… | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 12:26 AM |
| 2 | You ever hire a dating coach? Is it worth it?I went on boot camp with RSD back in the day. One guy didnt learn from it and got his money back. - even thu he had approach anxiety and couldnt approach. Jeffy and Alex was legit when I went ... but that was when RSD was a business still. Edit: but i dont know what they r now ... maybe they don't do that any more. | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 11:34 PM |
| 3 | You ever hire a dating coach? Is it worth it?Individual instructor are still instructing ... not sure if they have same 100% guarantee ... no harm to look on their policy. | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 08:08 PM |
| 5 | You ever hire a dating coach? Is it worth it?RSD | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 07:32 PM |
| 3 | You ever hire a dating coach? Is it worth it?The good ones have money back guarantee | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to date these woman .Hmmm ... you can still be a piece of shit. - you dont have to be high value ... but if you behave like how a high value behaves then you can still get the hot girl. - for example when I social proof. The girl sees me talking to everyone in the room gaining her attraction to me. When I finally approach her she says "are you the owner of this place? I see you talking to everyone." (This is how i know social proofing works ... i often get girls saying this to me.) - now am i the owner? ... no I am … | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 04:04 PM |
| 28 | Is it possible to date these woman .You need to get them to chase you. - even if you have money and looks guys chase girls. - Just imagine the multiple guys who puts them on a pedestal since they were 12 years old. All the awkward energy they experience daily. - so you either treat them equally like treating them like regular people or be a toxic guy who knocks them off the pedestal... they will fall in love with u | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Gaming with mediocre looksWhen you are approaching how much time occurs between sets? | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Ultimate hidden hack to attract woman - energyNope it was in youtube but got taken down when RSd went down. - but we r lucky because Tyler explained it in Elliote Hulse channel also which is still up. https://youtu.be/JPCU03Dp8Zw?si=QDUZkDIeqvG3SFRA Julien and Tyler would go in the clubs and build state using the 6 step and they would try to steal each other's girl that they are gaming at the moment. - the one who was in state more would end up drawing and stealing the girl ... was pretty funny lol. :p | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Ultimate hidden hack to attract woman - energyI think it is not energy but more where your focus lies. Meditation is focusing in the present moment (activate pre frontal). The opposite of focusing on the present moment is focusing on future (fear) or past(guilt).... activating limbic system like the amygdala which cause awkwardness (edit awkward energy) - when you focus in the present you release dopamine which is the feel good calm energy you speak of. - yoga nedra is scientifically proven to release 60% dopamine. I am saying where your fo… | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Ultimate hidden hack to attract woman - energyI like Owen Cook explanation 6 step on getting to state. - Julian is dope as well | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Ultimate hidden hack to attract woman - energyI had asthma when I was young. Wasn't allowed to play or go outside. So all I did was sit and stare out the window. I feel like I was practicing meditation ... probably. Had two girls after me when I was junior kindergarten... lol. - I remember we went on a feild trip and they both kissed me. I started crying and told the teacher. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Ultimate hidden hack to attract woman - energyMeditation | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Ultimate hidden hack to attract woman - energyYou are actually treating them like regular people that is why they are drawn to him. Abundance helps you stops putting girls on a pedestal. - scarcity puts them on a pedestal so you treat them more special than other people. These girls have multiple guys who put them on pedestal daily since they were kids. That is why they r drawn to someone who treats them like regular people. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Do subtle things actually kill cold approaches, or am I overthinking?During my pick up journey, especially at the beginning, I am always dumb founded on it working out in the end ... despite my thoughts saying other wise. The overthinking went away as I keep getting reference experience of it working (when taking the proper actions) | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 11:42 PM |
| 1 | a question to guys who have reached the player stageI still ask 5 strangers for direction till this day to start. The idea to minimize time inbetween sets is .. If u r not in the mood keep it short and sweet. When u r in the mood burn it to the ground (you can be more persistent in the interaction) Also so you dont realize you approached a beautiful lady ... you only realize after you approached. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 05:56 PM |
| 15 | a question to guys who have reached the player stageWhen building momentum ... aside from approaching everyone, keeping time inbetween sets at a minimal, and lowering your definition of success to "did I approach" ... is to find something funny that happened after each sets. - that way ... if the interaction did go bad that you feel rejected ... you replace that feeling with the giggles. - that way you carry the giggles to your next approach ... instead the bad feeling of rejection. Your momentum becomes a positive spiral of good emotions as you … | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 05:11 PM |
| 32 | a question to guys who have reached the player stageSo ill try to explain my game at the clubs or bar. - from opening (10pm) to like 12:30am I would be building momentum so I can get into state/flow/present in the moment. - during that time I am approaching lots (guys and girls) - sometimes it is quick opens, sometime it is 10 mins ... there may be someone who are not welcoming to my approach ... especially the early sets. But, the idea is to get my self in a good mood and present in the moment. So I dont really treat them as rejection or success… | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 04:52 PM |
| 5 | 5 Mistakes Men Make After Getting a Girl’s NumberAlso ... you should stay 2 to 5 mins after the number close. That is a sample of how the date will go. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 12:03 PM |
| 18 | 5 Mistakes Men Make After Getting a Girl’s NumberYour last point needs to add qualifications. Qualifier: "are you an adventurous person? What would you say getting to know a cute boy over some drinks" Or "there is an interesting shisha bar i go to every Thursday. Come down. As long you behave (smirk)" To prevent flakes and ghosting you need to qualify. - qualifiers get them to invest into the interaction or else all your points you listed will still have your very first paragraph issue. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 11:20 AM |
| 1 | How does being less fixated on dating/women and focusing on your own grind make you more attractive towards women?That is on u. But, if u r even around a girl, ur presence is even enough to attract without u even saying a word.... it is that powerful. Like u doing groceries or getting coffee at the café. - sometimes they would approach u. But, it is up to the guy to approach and lead interaction to something. - that is the issue they are attracted to you because you are not looking. But, when you do start looking you replicate the behavior of someone who is not looking(person with purpose) by being present … | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 10:34 AM |
| 8 | Is Venue rotation important when you go on a date at least once a weekYou can make an advantage if you befriend the bartender so when you do bring any girl you can show social proof by saying hello to them. - for example if I say hello to bouncers, bartenders, dj by name infront of thr girl shows massive attraction. | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How does being less fixated on dating/women and focusing on your own grind make you more attractive towards women?Because you dont put the girl on a pedestal (above you)... that is how it works. - you treat them like regular people. - you dont depend your worth and acceptance off someone else (the girl) ... meaning you stop trying to impress when you interact with them. | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 06:35 PM |
| 4 | How does being less fixated on dating/women and focusing on your own grind make you more attractive towards women?Thanks! You can go even deeper than impressing ... once you define the person as beautiful, a crush, rich and/or celebrity you already put them on a pedestal.... which is messed up lol. - edit definitely getting them to chase and earn you helps prevent flakes and ghosting because now they invested to the interaction. Edit: yeah I study present and meditation how it brings you closer to human peak performance. Neat topic! I am not writing a book, in the moment, so go ahead! - maybes in the future… | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 09:31 PM |
| 2 | How does being less fixated on dating/women and focusing on your own grind make you more attractive towards women?The guy doesnt say I have a high body count ... he behaves like some who has abundance/purpose. - that behaviors are what attracts girls. You wont know nothing about that person or even have meet them but their presents attracts girls and draws them. - they dont attract just girls ... but high value people like rich people or celebs (not for sex but because they treat them like regular people and not put them on a pedestal) Edit: For example a dude with abundance tonality drops while a dude with… | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 08:44 PM |
| 6 | How does being less fixated on dating/women and focusing on your own grind make you more attractive towards women?Thanks! That is my life's research and my experiences. | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 05:37 PM |
| 96 | How does being less fixated on dating/women and focusing on your own grind make you more attractive towards women?Great movie/book to describe this is the Great Gasby. - I haven't seen/read it in a while but basically Gastby got all his fortune because he wanted to impress and get with his crush. - his crush got married but he still continued to pursue her. - he lived near her place and he would throw extravagant parties in hopes she would go. (Stalker vibes) - eventually his crush and him was able to hang out. - but the crush was only around him for fun and she would go back to her husband. Using Gastby. -… | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls do this?So there are many ways to open. There is indirect by asking a question and there is direct way of just going straight up and saying "you are cute I had to meet you" ... I will have you re search your self those topics because opening is just as long you get her attention. - but there is a crucial step and simple tactic before the open to get her 100% attention. That tactic is called "False time constraint" (FTC). Works for all scenarios whether she is seated, talking with someone, walking pass y… | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls do this?How to make a number really solid: - find two different things you like about the girl ( that are not related ) and like the combination. - for example: if she is successfully attorney and also does some physical activity (ultra marathon runner) ... That is so interesting that you find time for both of your passion ... That is a rare combination. I really respect that. - girl will feel "oh he likes me more than my appearance." - qualifying is basically having standards and looking for things you… | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls do this?I dont know you or your interactions ... but most guys struggle with this because they act like the seller and the girl is the buyer. But, you need to flip the script of being the buyer not the seller. Maybes search qualification phase on YouTube... I am sure you will find lots. - neat book is Pitch Anything. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls do this?Yeah. Peeps who have abundance would qualify the girl to compare them to other girls they already have in their life. They dont care about getting the relationship or getting laid ... because they can get that easily ... but instead they see if the girl is cool to hang out with. - now you dont actually have to have abundance ... you can just behave like you have abundance ... and that is by qualifying them | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:19 PM |
| 16 | Why do girls do this?That is game ... and human psychology. - thats why many peeps get ghosted and flaked on ... they miss the qualifications phase. For example: If I meet you on the street and said "congratulations, you won 100 dollars!" ... you will hesitate and ask "what is the catch?". But if i said "if you answer these 5 questions correctly, you win 100 dollars" ... you wont hesitate because you feel like you earned it. For example asking "beatiful girls are everywhere. What makes you different?" ... gets the g… | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:13 PM |
| 15 | Why do girls do this?Relationship as in whatever the interaction is. If you want to prevent ghosting and flaking you qualify during the first interaction. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:04 PM |
| 29 | Why do girls do this?You skipped the qualification phase to get them to invest into the relationship. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:02 PM |
| 18 | Sleeping on first date and not feeling connectionShe got buyer's remorse because she feels like a sl&t Up to the guy to make the journey that lead to sex none judgmental and to be discreet about it. - you have to communicate ... I am a guy who keeps things in the bed in the bed. I do not share with others. keeping things discreet are things like not making out in public. But, instead to take her in the corner away from public eyes. or when getting number to hide it from her friends eyes when you are exchanging. The solution: Lastly, you have t… | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Filtering out womenQualify her for things you are looking for in a girl. - if she puts effort to answer then she invested into the interaction. - the more she invest the more serious she is. Also helps reduce flaking and ghosting! | /r/seduction | 08/01/26 04:32 PM |
| 31 | Be very careful of who you tell about game.He white knighting you hoping to steal your fling after. | /r/seduction | 08/01/26 04:18 PM |
| 4 | What is the most important key to flirting ?Being present in the moment. - you stop putting the person on pedestal and treating them like a regular person. The below effects happens "Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. That's relativity" - AE | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 10:30 AM |
| 6 | Just reading and no theory has been done. Anyone else have/had this issue?Shoot i basically posted the same as you. Good stuff. May i add a suggestion to approach everyone guy and girl ... when warming up. - trains you to treat everyone equally and not put people on a pedestal increasing your attraction to girls especially hot girls because you treat them like regular people. - this helps you hone your charisma. | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Just reading and no theory has been done. Anyone else have/had this issue?You are just reading theory that is pass how to fix anxiety to approach. - Unfortunately, their is not much theory on how to deal with approach anxiety in PUA that can help your type of person. - but, there are theories in other places like in therapy. Specifically exposure therapy. For example when you are out gaming ... to do low risk approaches ... by approaching 5 strangers (guy or girl) and ask for directions. - then build momentum and increase the risk little by little. Maybes, say hello o… | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Flirtatious distractionMostly for beer pong I would dance. Tell her she dropped something and point to the empty floor when she is shooting. Dance provocatively. I tell her to watch out someone is trying to pass by. Rub my nips. Pretend it is my first time playing and destroy her in the game. Pretend to shake her hand then pulling it away. | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Could a person with game do this?I remember I went on a double date with my cousin. His date brought her step sister for me. - my cousins date said her sister doesnt like Asians and I am not her type. - thr beginning of the date she was texting this other dude the whole time in front of me. So I applied game. - game says to open and approach other girls infront of her. So as she was texting the other dude I approached 2 girls across from us. The two girls completely rejected me. But, the girl I was with saw this and called me o… | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Could a person with game do this?Yes, PUA focus on self amusement and social proofing and try to not rely on crutches like looks and money. - Girls... the hottest girls ... even millionaires (dudes ... not for sex) approach me because they also want to have fun.... for the hot girls if you apply physical touch and close proximity you can get them horny after you or her approaches.... despite if she thinks you are not her type. I had one girl so horny on the dance floor I was sucking on her tities while everyone taking pics ... … | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 04:25 PM |
| 1 | The Method Neil StraussGet more newer PUA content than that book. - like what other has said PUA technology has evolved a lot. | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionI started without a car. Definitely, easier with one. - but, not impossible! - for one night stands skills to learn ... 1. picking the right girl doing logistics during the pick up (is she flying to another country in the morning ... might be a low possibility for same day lay) ... the thing that separates the boys from the men is getting logistics. 2. also, being discreet with the pick up (not make her feel sl&t and getting buyer's remorse) ... dont make out with her in front of everyone. Take … | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionI am talking about befriending millionaires. - I get free concerts tickets to join them since I bring them fun. Also, i went to a millionaires daughter's wedding last summer. Great for networking as well. - self amusement is key for this. Of course quitting drinking is best since you wont be relying on liquid courage to PUA. - it will be tough to quit in the beginning but eventually, with reps, you get use to it. - you may even enjoy sex more since you wont get the fatigue from drinking later on… | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:55 PM |
| 7 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionI am also PUA for years. - I am addicted to the high of social dynamics as well. Sex is a bonus. I recommend to also approach and befriend guys as well ... not for the sex (lol) ... but to go on other adventures like invited to after parties, buy you drinks and take you to concerts for free. Hot girls = rich guys = high value people. - PUA also works because you treat the high value people like regular people. Most people who interacts with rich people and pretty girls are always placed on a ped… | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:45 PM |
| 12 | Do girls appreciate "non gym but sporty" physiques at all?No, it wont hinder you ... as long you have game any physical looks will work. | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 08:31 PM |
| 4 | How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird?You have to feel horny first. - what you feel they feel. Just like my comment below of getting close to each other when interacting. Like talking face super close to each others' you will have the urge to kiss each other. (Refer to the comment i posted earlier below of a video of a girl and a guy in a riot(edit protest ... not riot) situation generating sexual tension just because their faces are close to each other) - then add escalating physical touches to release feel good hormones in your bo… | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 01:25 PM |
| 3 | mysterymethod - LondonDayGame - RSD style. What now?Any RSD is good. Hot seat is the best. Owen Cook is good for inner game stuff and how to build momentum. Todd V is great for structural explanation. His stuff is similar to Mystery method but more simplified and easy to apply. RSD stuff is the highest in terms of getting close to what is truerly what pick up should look like. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 01:31 PM |
| 2 | mysterymethod - LondonDayGame - RSD style. What now?I use RSD still with a sprinkle of Mystery Method. - works fine for me. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 04:20 AM |
| 4 | What makes someone seem “off-putting” or repulsive to others without any real interaction?You care too much for them to like you. - makes all your behavior have a hidden agenda. I am a nice guy to you ... but in exchange you like me back. They feel that hidden agenda similar to a homeless person asking you for spare change. You sense their hidden agenda that they are only being polite because they want your spare change. When you dont give them spare change their politeness changes to resentment. Then you feel pity for them. When you care too much of them liking you ... you filter yo… | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | All i think about is dating and it's sucks ,For girls reading this ... I am talking about the behavior not comparing you to objects. - you need to be the buyer not the seller. When you are looking for a TV to buy ... you dont buy the first TV you see. - you are looking for a specific spec of the TV that is right for you. Is the TV 4000k, is it a smart TV, does it meet your specific dimensions. If it isn't at that store you go to another store (willing to walk away if you dont see what you are looking for) Sellers sell themselves and say "… | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | All i think about is dating and it's sucks ,If you are picky that means when you find the girl for you you will treat them differently than a girl you are not attracted to. - you become a dancing monkey and/or a homeless person asking for change for a girl you like. Also categorizing girls feom 1 to 10 also cause approach anxiety or avoidant to approach. - oh she is only a 6 ... oh she is an 8 ... - over analyzing cause paralysis. Again you are not giving much info ... are you able to approach at all? Where are you in terms of skills? | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 12:57 PM |
| 1 | All i think about is dating and it's sucks ,Where do u cold approach? Sorry trying to understand ur sticking points | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | All i think about is dating and it's sucks ,Do you cold approach or dating up? | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 10:52 AM |
| 2 | If you're a man you're always going to be perceived as a creep if you're a strangerThats why we warm up ... even prior to the social event. To reduce anxiety by doing low risk approaches. - also why we approach within 3 seconds (take 3 seconds for brain start to rationalizing and causing anxiety) - the reason we keep between sets minimal and approach with in 3 seconds is so you dont realize that you are talking to a girl (especially a beautiful girl) after approaching. Once you define a girl is pretty you already placed her on a pedestal. Lots of strategies on what to say. - b… | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 07:52 PM |
| 2 | If you're a man you're always going to be perceived as a creep if you're a strangerApply 3 second rule to approach the first person you see (guy or girl). - after each approach finding something funny to you that happened. Helps bring a positive mood to the next set (even if the previous set didnt go well ... find something funny) - reduce time inbetween sets. - you can then introduce strangers you met to other people "have you met James? No? Well let me introduce you to him" - ask people who are they here with and how do they know them ... get them to introduce you to them. Y… | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What are some subtle ways you can come off as needy without realizing it?Tonality rises | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:37 PM |
| 3 | If you're a man you're always going to be perceived as a creep if you're a strangerUsually when they see me having fun or making people laugh.... - if you provide value the brave ones will approach you. - this is the power of social proofing. When girls see you interacting with everyone in the room providing value. - even the none brave ones are watching you. When you approach they are more welcoming. How do I know they have been watching? They ask me if I am the owner of the place because they see me talking to everyone. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:13 PM |
| 4 | If you're a man you're always going to be perceived as a creep if you're a strangerYou need to provide value when approaching. - if you are sucking value you will be perceived as a creep. For example if you care too much for the approach to go well or feeling high anxiety than you are sucking value from her. She will sense that and perceive you as a creep even before you approach. Providing value can be being in a good mood before approaching. - they will pick up on that good mood and be more welcoming to your approach. - for example, if you think of something funny that makes… | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 04:18 PM |
| 7 | If you're a man you're always going to be perceived as a creep if you're a strangerWhat if she approached you first? | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Abundance vs delusionTo develop one is to behave like one. - once you get reference experiences it eventually be comes true. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 02:09 AM |
| 4 | I hired a dating coach after years of failing - Here’s the best flirting advice I gotPros are like 3000 a weekend Friday to Sunday (with 100% money back guarantee ... the good ones) - the amateur coaches are like 300 to 400 a weekend USD currency | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 10:44 AM |
| 1 | For those who have done cold approach, have you had women be mean and immediately tell you to go awayFalse time constraint before opening to reduce the initial rejections. (Say "2 seconds 2 seconds" ... then open) - if you still get rejected on the first attempt ... apply the 4 times rule of re opening 4 times. The idea is as time passes by the more she will trust you (3 to 5 minutes till hook) ... only if she rejects you 4 times then you leave. 4 times rule is good training to open and hook all various scenarios to hook a girl(s). Usually if my tonality rises I get initial rejections. - I cali… | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | These 4 things determine 80-90% of attractionI agree. OP, why do you think social proofing is not considered important according to your "hypothesis"? | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | These 4 things determine 80-90% of attractionI agree what you mean of your definition of frame! | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 05:37 PM |
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