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Key_Hunter4064/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 03:00 PM
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Troll post
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/26 01:57 PM
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You say you want men who are emotionally mature and accountable, but this post lacks the very accountability you claim to value. If every man you meet is "immature" and "emotionally unavailable," maybe it's time to look at the one thing those experiences have in common: your own choices. I know plenty of Indian men in happy, stable relationships and plenty of single Indian men who are genuinely good people. There are billions of men in the world, if every man you encounter fails your standards, …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/26 06:53 AM
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Inorder to date religious you are going to have to be religious yourself, most likely you'd have to convert to whatever religion they are in.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/26 09:45 PM
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Translation:" My parents only want me to marry an Arab lady "
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 08:15 AM
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Troll post lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 05:46 AM
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This isn’t “high standards,” it’s just ego validation dressed up as strategy. Secure people don’t need to keep multiple humans in artificial competition just to feel desired. And no genuinely high-value man is going to treat dating like an unpaid internship where he’s constantly being stress-tested for “baseline access.” Men with real options don’t mind effort, they mind pointless games. All this really filters for are attention addicts, validation seekers, and dudes desperate enough to tolerate…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/26 12:31 PM
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That's a great way to end up with spineless Betas. Having multiple options doesn't translate to "Quality" options.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/26 11:05 PM
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"He understands that the type of family that I want is similar the one that I grew up because he clearly told me once "you thought that I would be a cold distant father like your father". Now I value my father even more, the things that I took for granted before." Saw this from one of ya replies. This sounds like U might have daddy issues. Your father was never really present in your life so that was what a representation of what "men" should be looked like to you. Were U on birth Control when U…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/26 04:15 PM
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Why should a man support you after a breakup?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 10:46 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1h1lodn/repost_who_wants_to_marry_a_millionaire_a_guide/
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/26 06:39 AM
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No one's in the wrong here, both of y'all just aren't Incompatible, he's not "Insecure" or "Childish" for wanting what he wants. Everyone's entitled to thier own preferences. With that said, that's not the end of the world, Non - Virgins marry all the time. You will still find your person. Everyone has a past thier not proud of so Don't beat yourself up too much about it. You are in a much better position than most young women in this generation as you understand the importance of Body counts an…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/26 03:55 AM
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Looking at someone's ChatGPT history is like reading the person's personal Journal, sometimes it's just his way of working through his "dark" thoughts. However if he actually does the whole "proposal thing" than this would be a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/26 11:54 PM
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It's based on stats lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/26 03:38 AM
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I think she was the one who disrespected him in her previous post that eventually led to this.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/26 12:16 PM
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Do you mind sharing your channel?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/26 02:40 PM
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Everyone has a past thier not proud off, bieng honest about it is much better than hiding it. Especially if it's someone you'd be spending the rest of your life with.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/25 10:37 AM
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"Girls have more fun with hair and makeup and clothes and boys are boring"... yeah hes not going to change anytime soon
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 10:13 PM
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This is also true.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 09:44 AM
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Not just "white knight" but he could be into some sort of fetish.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 10:51 AM
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This is a well balanced take 🔥
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/25 02:25 AM
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ngl this is a really great post.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/25 02:50 AM
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Thoughtful practical gifts > Expensive materialistic stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 01:34 AM
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Then date the younger men then?
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/25 10:09 PM
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idk why this is down voted but is facts.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 10:16 AM
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Agreed, No one should be chasing no one around. If the person you are dating isn't reciprocating than they gotta to go.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/25 05:43 AM
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She blocked me on X, after i said "Husbands and wives shouldn't turn each other down for sex unless one of them is physically injured or sick". I've seen many fake " Tradcon" women online. many are just grifting and riding that "wave" to make content. its basically "porn" for " tradcon Men.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/25 06:50 AM
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Never go to mans house if you are not ready to sleep with him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 10:14 PM
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So did you eventually get married? I'm sorry if this is too personal, I'm just curious to see if this stretegy worked out in the end😭
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/25 02:13 PM
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Men rarely change. would you be okay spending the rest of your life like this? You're 27 sis, this guy gotta go. Guys who cheat are always paranoid because they think you are doing it too.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/25 09:59 AM
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cause his busy working and studying at the sametime so he could be stressed out? But I do get ya point it's only 4 months and he's already trying to throw in the towel is a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/25 02:08 PM
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I disagree I think this is the time to show some support and understanding as his girlfriend. relationship is a two way street.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/25 06:55 AM
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Women have a biological clock while Men have a financial clock. If he's a man of his word and has been consistent then this is the time to show some patience and grace. Most men don't share their struggles with their women because it leads to doubt. The last thing he wants rn is his woman nagging him on. Don't assume things about your relationship. Make time to have a proper phone call or video chat and talk it out. Makes sure he understands your concern as well as ask him about his plans moving…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/25 04:19 PM
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One of the best advices I've seen on here 🔥 More women/Men in happy and healthy relationships should be giving relationship advice to young people. A lot of relationship advices on sm is just full of toxicity.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 04:50 AM
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If you lead with materialistic things, you will only attract materialistic women. All Men know this. Some men use this to get what they want than bounce.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/25 10:41 PM
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I think this is what's going on.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/24 09:55 PM
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I think this is the best advice on body counts.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/24 06:01 AM
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I love this comment
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 10:07 AM
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Make sure to hold on to your values and principals. The ratio of male to female is quite one sided so you're definitely gonna get a lot of attention. keep your relationships professional and understand that not all attention is good attention. Understand that just because a guy activity chases/pursues you doesn't mean he wants a committed relationship with you. Some guys just love the chase, once they get what they want they leave. I assume you're a Christian so pray about the type of guy you wa…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/24 11:09 PM
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Your boyfriend sounds like a great guy. The video game thing is no joke though lol. I have multiple degrees in stem, compete in professional sports, have a tech business but I've been turned down a couple of times now just because I play video games in my free time as a pastime hobby. This days I never mention videogames especially when I'm on a date. It's though out here haha.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/24 01:45 PM
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Most women miss out great relationships with good men because of unrealistic expectations. I'm glad you found your guy. You're meeting his parents? you're not single lol.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 06:40 AM
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I'd never let my mom, sister or let alone a female friend stranded out there especially when it's getting late, this guy is a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 10:55 PM
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it's 2024 man you never know 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/24 06:13 PM
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you aren't doomed because you have a "High body count", but you will if you don't deal with your unhealed traumas. Right now you gotta work on rebuilding trust in ya relationship coz it was built of off lies. you gotta start with alot of self care sis. you can't love your man authentically if you don't love yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 11:02 AM
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nahh I get the crossdressing thingy but "mini skirts" c'mon now that's som fetish stuff going on. ya friends probably Bi.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 10:28 AM
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at 34 and with this kinda mindset it's highly likely he won't change. He's probably just using you tbh. you need to work on your self esteem or people gonna keep using you like this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 03:25 AM
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MENA Countries, Eastern European, South American, Pacific Islands and maybe South East Asian?. But you'd have to have exceptional cooking and home making skills. Your competition would be women from this countries, where they understand the culture more than you so you probably gotta be on top of ya game.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/24 06:48 AM
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love this advice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/24 01:28 PM
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as a religious man, I'd say ya best bet would be; Find a born again Christian men with similar past to yours. (I feel like this would be your best option as both of you would understand each other more. plus he'll be more "forgiving" of your past. Find a super religious guy, however you'd also have to be super religious. (Warning: as someone who grew up in church, this type of guy either is afraid of his sexuality, low libido, abusive or a " Beta" nice guy). it's very rare you'd find an successf…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 02:08 PM
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yes this is spot on. ma'am you should write a book. I've seen some of your comments here and they are always spot on. good stuff as always 🔥
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 03:03 AM
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most guys just want to enjoy your company in silence. When I was dating I'd go over to my girls place and study next to her while she's doing her own thing. we both enjoyed each other's presence in silence. Seeing that your men likes to game during the weekends, he's probably a home body too. Don't overthink it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/24 10:49 AM
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I love this approach, this is definitely more realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 01:13 PM
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she knows what she's talking about ladies, listen to her.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/24 01:31 PM
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Are you posting provocative pictures online? It could be an issue. This is the vibe I'm getting from this post.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 04:11 AM
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Love this comment 💯
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 03:27 AM
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I think that more women have more liberal values while more men are leaning more towards conservative values so the difference in values may be a contributing factor in less long-term relationships. From my experience women want a traditional men but don't want a male led relationship on the other hand men want a traditional women but don't want to be her sole provider.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/24 03:44 AM
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Character is way more important. an ambitious and generous Men will take care of you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 04:19 AM
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Cultural context also comes into play
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 01:48 AM
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Best advice so far.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 11:29 AM
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I think you should take a break from social media and dating in general. Clean up your algorithm and try as much to stay away from negativity and toxic female friends in general. You probably need a little self love. Once you prioritize your well-being and you are in a much better state of mind then you should date intentionally and learn the skills in vetting a good men.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/24 12:24 PM
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I think she is underestimating the type of options the type of men she wants has. Women basically throw themselves at guys like this. Not just any average women, but high quality women who are also very attractive. By looking at her profile I think she is average in terms of looks. I think she needs a reality check or she gon be single for a long time.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 11:07 AM
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Most guys slightly pull away during the early stages of dating to vet for reciprocation. As someone suggested above, try inviting him over for dinner to show you are just as equally invested. If he comes or is excited about the idea, it could mean he's just busy or is settled into a more normal texting/calling interval.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:50 AM
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You said you love your boyfriend deeply, yet you saved the other guy's number? This shows you don't respect your boyfriend. The other guy is a random internet stranger, he may not even be more successful than your boyfriend. You don't know him irl therefore you don't exactly know if he's romantic or Successful. Successful men don't spend time talking to random women on the internet. This guy sounds like a pick up artist. He's telling you what you want to hear. Don't search for the 10% and miss o…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/24 03:46 PM
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I come from a MENA country and culture too but to me this sounds entitled tbh. Idk which country exactly you are from but unless the lady is my wife then an allowance is normal. Idk know about the dating or courting phase. Plus women in our culture wouldn't even ask their men for gifts let alone an allowance. It comes of as classless and low quality. normally it's the father's responsibility to give a lady an allowance. Asking a men who is not your husband for gifts and allowance is disrespectfu…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/24 11:00 PM
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I think that woman being the pursuer in a relationship doesn't work mainly due to women going for Men who are completely outta thier League.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 02:55 PM
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It's a good sign you are taking accountability for your actions. You are young so forgive yourself. Practice self love to help your self esteem. What's done is done you can't undo it so don't dwell on the past but learn from it. Focus on your future. It will take time but you will eventually get over it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 04:11 AM
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Communicate Communicate Communicate. Typically the women is the one who plans while the man pays. I think he expects you to plan it, which is not unreasonable at all. This is also your opportunity to show that you can organize and plan. This is such an underrated skill set to show to your man.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 10:54 PM
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This explains it very well.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 06:06 AM
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You can never go wrong with steak and shrimp unless the Man is a vegan lol
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 11:47 PM
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If guys like you, they would make it very clear they're into you. If you are left wondering if they like you or not, they don't. After a date, if a guy doesn't call or text you right away or atleast within 2 days (if he's a busy guy) it means he doesn't like you or he's not sure about you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 11:23 AM
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My dad is like this. I'd also advise to have his back especially men like this can be used and abused by friends and relatives who are just looking to use him for his kind heart and selflessness. Good thing my mom keeps his relatives in check. My dad also came from a single mother household and played the husband-Son role for a while. Just make sure his family aren't just using him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 07:23 AM
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Yes, even christian Men have pasts they are not proud about.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 12:03 AM
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Women who want a male led relationship should read this!
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/24 10:22 PM
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I see a lot of women who want a male led relationship but don't know how to be led. Look at the type of women who date the type of men you want. try to find out what character traits they have that made them got picked by these guys. It's one thing to be taken care of by a men financially but another thing to be totally care free and not responsible or atleast carrying half of the mental and emotional load.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/24 10:20 PM
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Guys who consume Alot of redpill content might not want you or guys who want to have a family young might not want you once you are past a certain age (Not because you have become less attractive but because they value fertility) . But if you take care of yourself and have realistic standards then you should be alright. You don't necessarily hit the wall when you age but you do hit the wall if you don't take care of your health. So prioritize your health.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 05:53 AM
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Plus most men want kids so they might not want to be with you because of that and not because you have become ugly.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 05:44 AM
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I love this answer
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/24 03:21 AM
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I guess he's hurt that you compared him to past lovers. This is every Guy's worst nightmare. Give him some time to process all this.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/24 01:42 AM
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Not all anime have over sexualized characters/storyline. there are many that are full of action and fighting. But to have half naked anime girls as wallpapers on almost everything is a red flag. I know guys like this and they are wired as hell.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 12:50 AM
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You need to change your algorithm. Don't waste your time consuming negative content.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 09:26 PM
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Congratulations.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 05:35 AM
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If he's a casual watcher that's okay, but if he's a fan than that's a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/24 09:07 PM
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What game was that? btw Congratulations on your kid
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 10:23 PM
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Why is he spanking you? You are not his kid. Is it cultural? You might have made some mistakes in this relationship, but the way you describe him sounds like he's a narcissist. No man should have the right to hit his Partner or force her to cook, clean or even get surgery. What kinda needs his he on about? Would you want this guy to be the father of your kids? He's likely not going to change. you are 28, pack your shit and leave this is toxic and he's abusive. I know that you have known him for …
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 02:36 PM
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Him suggesting Dinner than switching is low-key suspicious. Otherwise was he really joking? On the coffee date thingy, yeah I know many working class men who do this. Low budget dates like coffee or Walk in the park are a much better way to test chemistry than dinner dates. There's low expectations on both ends and just having a simple conversation with someone is a great way to vet them. Especially if both of y'all haven't known each other prior. Some men do use this as a tactic to weed out mat…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 03:55 AM
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No not at all. males need to have this competitive spirit with other men in a healthy way, hence sports especially physical contact sports. It creates a sense of respect and how to earn it. For example martial thought me how to be a beast but learn how to control it. To always fight for the weak and help those in need but at the same time it teaches humility. It teaches young men about how competitive the real world Is. When a Man goes to work everyday to provide for his family he competes to ea…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 08:13 AM
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Young men need to have a healthy male role model in life. Otherwise things you can do as a mother to a young man would be to have him take up responsibilities as a child especially pre-teen or early teen. Taking up households chores maybe a start. Make it a Routine so he can adjust to it. Such as taking out the trash or helping with dishes. Do not always help him, sometimes let him try on his own. Introduce him to a physical contact sport where he can be around his peers that would bring out the…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 08:01 PM
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Go take up male dominated hobbies that you also like. I think going to the shooting range or martial arts gym is a great start already. Be friendly and have an open body language. Start small talk here and there. Any decent man today wouldn't really approach unless there are clear signals from you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 06:16 AM
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Ohh yes definitely, it is more difficult doing it online than on campus. What year is he in? When you get to 3rd and 4th year it becomes more time consuming and mentally exhausting and difficult. My friends from college got me through as we all were going through the same course so facing the challenge together helped with the mental load. Does he have any friends from the same course? That would help more. I understand that him complaining about the money maybe giving you the "Ick". This is whe…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 01:06 AM
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He's studying electrical engineering. This course is one the hardest degrees to attain and it's mentality, emotionally and Even physically draining at times. Atleast he's doing something with his life and not being lazy. He's going through a stressful period in life and would definitely need your support. But at the end of the day it's up to you to make that decision to leave for you owe him nothing. Electrical engineering is one of those versatile engineering degrees with many good Carrier oppo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/24 09:30 PM
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I'm sorry ma'am that this happened to you. I hope you find peace and happiness. I hope young women read this and take it seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 01:25 AM
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He's trying to make you feel bad for cheating. You might have not given him emotional support but that's not the cause of his cheating. He cheated because he has no sexual control.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/24 10:48 PM
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Any man that follows a high amount of ig models or "slutty" dressed women has a lack of sexual control.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/24 11:49 AM
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I've met quite a few of these P & D guys and their lives are totally empty and miserable. Most couldn't even keep a long term relationship due to Thier lifestyle. Once you start living like this it affects the way you view the opposite gender. You can't switch all of a sudden from being a people user to a committed person. Most of these guys were able to settle down only when they found a religion, and even then they faced a lot of problems in their relationships and marriage. Living this lifest…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 01:09 AM
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Ohh The second paragraph is truer than true. I've seen it so many times. Plus the emotional imprint these men give you will last a lifetime.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 03:31 AM
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Not everyone has the same upbringing in life. Not knowing how to change a tire is not a character flaw. Many women end up single and miserable because they have unrealistic standards. It's not hard to learn and the guy can always learn how to do it. He might have many other great characteristics but gets dumped because he can't change a flat? She should asses the situation more, before making any major decisions. This is probably just an ick.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 10:47 AM
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This!
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 07:16 AM
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Ya on the right track ma'am. I've met women who claimed to be "Traditional" but later came to find out they were obsessed with that sprinkle sprinkle ladies content. She teaches women to be golddiggers lol. She has some great advices but it's mostly manipulation tactics.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 09:42 AM
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Casual sex is harmful, period!
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 01:32 PM
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I'll say this from a guy's perspective. If you were my sister I'll tell you to break up with him rn and leave. Man my blood was boiling just reading this. I'm sorry you had to go through all of this. This man has not healed from his past and he is a text book narcissist. Do you really love this man? If you had kids with him would you like them to have a father like that? I think you already know the answer. I've seen too many women go through this. My aunty is currently going through your exact …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 01:22 PM
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I wish more women who had a similar past to yours share their stories Aswell so the younger generation can learn. Happy for you sis, wishing nothing but God's blessings and prosperity upon you and your family.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 04:10 PM
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In this economy, no men would want a financial liability. Not all men can afford a SAHW. Anything can happen, the Man could lose his Job, sickness and Even death. Who's gonna take care of his wife and kids then? It's better to be educated, have some sort of financial stability even if you plan on becoming a Trad wife.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 03:15 AM
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You don't need to date around for "self discovery", you might end up with unnecessary emotional baggage or raising ya N count. Get a New hobby or try something new. Push yourself out of your comfort zone more if you want to "Find yourself". Date to marry always, never settle but don't have unrealistic standards either. People change with time so the future isn't always guaranteed. But keep your eyes out for signs or Red flags you might see early on. Many would say 24 is still young, but time fli…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 03:02 AM
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Pretty sure this is a troll
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 05:36 AM
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Oh my he said he loved money? Thats a red flag. I guess you have to vet thoroughly when dating. Best of luck.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 08:16 AM
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No don't think like that, Men won't Judge you for not having any experience in something they like doing. In fact we love it when our women is trying out a hobby of ours for the first time or with little experience. Teaching or introducing a lady into a New thing is something guys love doing. Ya just overthinking.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 05:39 AM
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The first guy was gay which unfortunately you can't do anything about it. Third guy was because your future goals as in having children was the deal breaker for both of you and he wasn't over his ex yet. 2nd guy however seemed like maybe you were a little bit high maintenance that's why he just used that as an excuse to break up with you. Most times it's because women don't RECIPROCATE. Men in general love providing for a Women if they are in love, however if it's not appreciated or reciprocated…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 05:25 AM
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As an software engineer too, honestly anything that is not a computer screen. But seriously though Alot of the guys' hobbies at my work place too is mostly outdoors. Unless you like gamer guys, unfortunately alot Men who spends their time on the screen love doing the opposite as it is refreshing.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 05:14 AM
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Username ain't lying 😂
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 09:54 PM
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Everyone has a past that they are not proud of. Sure, it can limit your dating options, but the males on Reddit/online do not reflect the entire male population. Change your attitude. Of course, virginity is the highest standard for everyone, but no one is perfect. You can't change your past but you can change your future. Guys are entitled to their dating preferences and so are you. Edit: you only had sex in relationships? Sis ya fine damn gett off the internet and touch grass lol. The only Men…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 09:51 PM
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Ohh wow really. Antarctica is quite a unique place to live in. I don't really know the dating scene in Antarctica lol. But if you are in a City then Join a Gym, Golf club, Library or maybe your best bet would be to attend networking events, or charity events or hang around places where you'd most likely run into working class men (White collar jobs). Location is an important factor in finding a wealthy men. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Maybe if you could move out of Antarctica to a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 09:15 AM
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Well it depends if the guy is Old money or New money. Most guys who are New money would go for designer clothes type women. Old money Men would rather go for women who dress well regardless if it's second hand or branded. Get your clothes tailored. Clothes that aren't super tight but fit well. Simple clothing that Doesn't have a lot of imagery or writing on it looks good on a woman. Based from my observation, Men from my social circle tend to date Women from similar social circle. Many wealthy m…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 06:41 AM
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Your welcome, Yes, the way a Women dress is important because Men are visual creatures. Dressing decently and modestly is crucial. Well not super modestly but a little bit of sex appeal while leaving the rest to the imagination. I personally don't like unnatural colored hair (blue/green, long fake colored nails, big fake eye lashes, that cardi b bad bish type look only signals the wrong type of guys. Knowing how to dress appropriately for different social occasions is also important. Wether its …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 06:18 AM
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All rich men are different, but one thing Men do is seperate women into two main categories. Which are : Whores and Wives. The number one most important trait that will get ya foot in the door is beauty. Whether you like it or not rich men have options so they'll go for the beautiful women. There are exceptions ofc but most men who have options would only go for beauty initially. What gets them to commit to you would be feminine/traditional traits such as submissiveness, Loyalty, respect etc... …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 05:22 AM
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Bro why do women become hostile when they find out you ain't trynna date bruh lol. I'm not a Model but decent looking and got my shit together. This one girl I had to reject 3 times man I dunno where she got my number from but I had to block her 3 times until I just had to get a new sim card.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 08:38 AM
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Yep public image is important as part of his social status.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 10:23 AM
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If you are okay with being childless and single later down the line then never settle because you will only resent your partner and will never be happy in a marriage. I have an older sister and that was the case. Feeling lonely by being single is nothing compared to feeling lonely while being surrounded people. But most of all understand that marriage is alot of work.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 11:26 PM
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Yes it will help definitely. I have a guy friend who used to be feminine due to growing up women. But after he joined our MMA gym he started becoming more manly. Best of luck.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 10:22 PM
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Lol 😂
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 11:11 AM
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Does he have guy friends? or does he play any sport?. I think you should suggest he take up a sport. He needs to surround himself by other guys. Otherwise I don't think you can change him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 11:10 AM
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This is the best advice I've seen so far 🔥
/r/RPChristians06/01/24 09:52 PM
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In this situation would be attitude. Op's attitude is coming off as entitled. Based from her responses it is clear that she thinks HVM/ALPHA = RICH. Having a good attitude in this situation would be "Feminine". That would be, not going on dates expecting a total stranger to throw money at you just because you are a women. If he's your BF/HUSBAND that would be different. Again any HVM would eventually feel underappreciated or disrespected if he's efforts aren't reciprocated or appreciated. Doesn'…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 04:03 PM
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In the past most women were naturally feminine and most men were "Man". No men wants to provide for a Women who doesn't appreciate or reciprocate. Most men love providing for their WIVES/GF not a Total stranger lol. If all men you meet are low quality or feminine men then the common denominator is you. Masculine men naturally gravitate towards feminine women. Paying for your own bills is being a functioning adult. In this economy not all couples/families can function on a single income. I can't …
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 07:42 AM
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Broo 🔥 I'm getting this for my self 🤝
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 02:22 PM
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You should probably wait and see what he does after college. He's just 21 and if he has a great character as you described then he should be heading on his way up the ladder. Also know that women get special treatment in Big Tech companies due to politics. Thats why even tho he has sales experience they chose you. I'm not saying you aren't capable but most times they select women to fill in Quotas for "Gender Equality". If you still resent him after college then you should leave him. But underst…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 08:28 AM
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You nailed it on the bias in tech part!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 08:20 AM
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Andrew tate is this you? 😂
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 02:15 AM
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I think you should try and make friends first. Don't rush it, you might end with the wrong guy just because you just want to have someone. I'd suggest start by making friends first, play sports, join a club(eg dancing or martial arts) or go to church. Interact with your class mates, teachers and people who you come across in college to build your social skills. Understand different types of relationships. Friends, best friends, coworkers, acquaintance, Course mates, etc... Give it at least a yea…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 11:22 AM
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Haha lol, I think I can explain. Its usually guys who are exceptionally academically smart or successful and have nerdy hobbies such as video games, into cars, or other mostly indoor hobbies. But at the same time are into active hobbies as well, for example playing a sport, going to the GYM, fishing, hunting, etc... A good analogy would be, you know like how every American highschool movie where there's always these nerds and then theres The athletes usually a football team 😂. Okay okay an athle…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 09:30 PM
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There's a great possiblity many HVM/musculine men in general, will see that as a major red flag. Best thing to right now is to get off the dating market and work on yourself. See what was the root cause of that behavior. When you start to date again, don't bring it up unless you're asked. Don't go into detail but just briefly state how you were living life differently and how you've changed and grew as an individual. But remember deliberately hiding it will not save you. He'll always find out so…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 03:53 AM
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Based on my observation only the men do it, many of their wives/GF are not allowed. Its kind off like a trade off. But many wives/GF of older wealthy guys definitely cheat on them. But many times it doesn't end well for the laddies who cheat. However, there was one lady in her Early 40s who is a CEO of a Company, who I met at a cooperate event. She had a husband/BF who was in his 20s. Possibly a Sugar baby. They had that arrangement where it was open at her end but monogamous on his end. Many we…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 03:40 AM
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Yes, especially wealthy men tend to have side flings and that is something women need to know. Most times they look at guys like mark Zuckerberg and his wife and they think that their monogamous. Alot of my coworkers have a main "chick" but also side "Chicks". Not that they are cheating behind their Woman's back, but their women have agreed to that arrangement. Many married man here also have access to High end escorts which their wives/partners know about. If you are fine with that type of arra…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 02:48 AM
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I work in tech also but I have to say, only a very few women are lucky enough get that kind of commitment from these men. I'd suggest going for more older men who are More likely to settle down. But be very careful dealing with these type of Men. Alot of them tend to have open relationships on their end while their partners are monogamous. Unless that's if you are willing to that Then good luck. There are many younger Men here, but most of them are nerdy/geeky type. only a few are nerdy/academic…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 11:18 PM
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It's perfectly normal to feel that way because its something new a person has told you regarding personal relationship. This shows you have changed and you are stepping into your feminine energy which is a great thing . And no no any Men who cheat with "Baddies " is not the type of guy you should be with anyways. You are not a pick me! No serious Men is going to commit to a "Baddie" . Loud women maybe fun temporally but are headaches Down the line. I personally feel annoyed and irritated when de…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 11:37 PM
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Mamas boys is good thing but son-husband emotional incest type relationship ain't good. I've seen this from guys who grew up with single mothers. Try to vet and see the type of man he looks up to.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 11:22 PM
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Based on your reddit Post history I don't know if you're trolling but I'd suggest you should take a long break from dating at all. Go nun mode and work on yourself first.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 11:11 AM
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He has no self control. You should probably let him go. Never let someone disrespect your boundaries like that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 09:56 PM
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Don't go out of your way to reveal that information but if it comes up. And it always does believe me, never lie be honest. If you lie about it is something Men can never forgive. If you tell him and he breaks up with you, you did the right thing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 12:45 PM
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Hey be careful with this one. I'd suggest maybe stay away from him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/23 05:56 PM
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Hey I'm sorry you are going through all of this but I think you are going through depression right now. I think in this state of mind you should not try to make big decisions like looking for a sperm donor or such. I'd suggest you take a break from everything sis probably stay of social media for awhile find someone close to you to talk to. Maybe take Up a new hobby or Find something to take your mind out of all this. Find what makes you happy or Try new hobbies you might find one you like. Set …
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 10:37 PM
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This!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 10:00 PM
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Love this answer
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 09:56 PM
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This!
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 11:54 AM
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This lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 06:33 AM
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That last line you wrote is very important, using his emotional vulnerability as emotional ammo when times get tough is such a low blow.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/23 01:07 AM
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This. I've found that Alot of lazy women have this "I want a provider" mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 09:50 PM
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Male redpill is abit different from female redpill. They don't emphasis on commitment. But mainly on how to secure sex from women. Its better to stay off the male redpill spaces because its "harsh". Most of this guys are pick up artists.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 02:54 PM
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Its not only the money. you may be losing but your kids also. Most guys with money don't really worry about their wealth but usually its their kids they are worried about.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 10:19 PM
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A major factor in this is the Family Courts on Divorce. A lot of guys a checking out of Marriage because of the fear that their lives might be destroyed. I didn't really realize this until I was having a conversation with my friends and every single one of them didn't want to get married or just have a traditional marriage or long term relationship. Mind you I come from a very traditional and conservative country and everyone of my friends also come from traditional homes aswell. My friends are …
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 08:35 AM
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The fact that this got down votes is alarming lol. Bro I'd consider myself, well a "HVM" and have alot of male friends who are also HV. I'm also from a conservative and traditional country bro. I can tell you for a fact that while asking a man out is not the norm, its not look down on. It depends on how the lady asks. At the initial dating stage whoever asks pays. Alot of women feel entitled to a mans money especially during the initial dating stages so us guys vet hard on this. If a Lady just s…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 06:38 AM
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Having a lady who can cook is such a flex. Wishing you and your man all the best in your relationship 🔥
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 05:57 AM
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You should move on and try to work things out with the father of your child.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 11:16 PM
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Relationships should be 100/100 u have to bring your all and he has to bring his aswell.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 09:42 PM
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Yes most fboys like to chase women.most HVM don't waste time chasing women.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 10:13 AM
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A double number of past sexual partner is high. It shows that a person doesn't consider sex as something intimate or sacred. If you have a high body count it is wise to go nun mode for a awhile and deal with whatever that is that might be causing you to sleep around easily. Could it be past trauma, daddy issues or type of upbringing. Its better to address the root cause.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/23 06:34 AM
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Most men would have sex with almost any women regardless of her past but at the same time most men would only commit to a women who has a less history
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/23 02:47 AM
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