Athletic nerds

basedviet · 2023-10-25T05:56:02+00:00

I am a shy, athletic nerdy guy and I would recommend finding what he is interested in and show that you are also interested in it. One of the happiest days of my life was when my girlfriend, now wife, watched the lord of the rings series and all the Star Wars movies with me

leosandlattes · 2023-10-25T16:29:59+00:00

This is my fiancé!!!

He works in tech and is on the shy/reserved side, but he’s also good at making his way through conversation and is naturally charismatic. He can make anybody laugh, which is one of the many things I admire about him.

He’s into calisthenics, running, and generally outdoorsy things like hiking and camping. He and his brother also regularly work on restoring a ‘68 Mustang. As a result he’s in shape and lean with definition, but no bulk. Yummy 😋 At the same time, he’s into stereotypically “nerdy” things like video games, reading (very large Stephen King fan), tinkering/fixing things, and some of the specific interests like LotR, a history of horror films, etc.

If this is the type you’re after, the best way to open up the floor to attraction is to find common interests or hobbies. I find they don’t really have a physical type preference (as a group), but they do like women who can relate to them in their interests.

Like I present very very feminine—dresses, girly, pink, heels—but I also play games with my partner and am a huge fan of LotR. My fiancé’s brother (who’s also an athletic nerd) has a girlfriend who’s got the alt-girl look with a septum piercing and tattoos, but she also shares in his “nerdy” hobbies.

But, all of this is not really a RPW thing more than it is a “I like a certain type, now how do I attract him?” sort of thing.

Are you looking for specific strategies in attracting that particular type of man while also maintaining a male-led relationship?

throwaway253025 · 2023-10-25T22:44:01+00:00

Well I married one. And he’s basically the best husband I could have imagined. Highly recommend them.

Athletic nerdy men tend to like athletic/fit women who are also smart. We still workout together, we like to kick the soccer ball, go on walks and hikes with our kids, etc. I also watch him play video games, watch LOTR movies, etc. He’s always telling me about a new book he’s reading and we have long conversations about them, including history, politics, etc. I helped him study for the bar exam and he helps me homeschool the kids.

I would strike up conversation with him, and smile at him, make eye contact. I think if he is attracted to you, he will probably pursue you.

MisterBowTies · 2023-10-26T01:13:44+00:00

Ask questions, nerds like to talk about the things they like. Try to find the things he likes that you also could be interested in and see if a common interest can grow

EvilDebraBarone · 2023-10-26T21:45:11+00:00

Athletic nerd? So basically a guy lol. Don’t think I ever met a guy who didn’t play some sort of video games or like lord of the rings. I wouldn’t even consider that nerdy tbh. Either way just be fun around him and don’t cut off his interests with a “oh I don’t know what that is/never heard of it” if he tries talking about it. Reply with “can you teach me/show me” since guys love to elaborate ad nauseam.

Key_Hunter4064 · 2023-10-25T21:30:43+00:00

Haha lol, I think I can explain. Its usually guys who are exceptionally academically smart or successful and have nerdy hobbies such as video games, into cars, or other mostly indoor hobbies. But at the same time are into active hobbies as well, for example playing a sport, going to the GYM, fishing, hunting, etc...

A good analogy would be, you know like how every American highschool movie where there's always these nerds and then theres The athletes usually a football team 😂. Okay okay an athletic nerd is someone who is part of the school quiz/debate/Science team but who's also on the schools sports teams lol. Someone who is good at both.

Well most times we are more interested in things rather than people. it's kind of like an introvert and extrovert at the same time. We would come off as shy but then you'd be surprised if you saw us gave a presentation or public speaking for that matter. Its more like a sigma- type personality (huh cringe term I know) .

Best way to get his attention is be straight forward with him. Most times they don't get hints. Many are so oblivious to hints women drop. Possibly find out what hobby/hobbies he's into an get into it. you will have more chances with him if you share hobbies.Thats the best way to get to know him. Read widely also, having a conversation with him is also one way of getting his attention. Science, philosophy, history, politics are great conversation topics.

"Athletic nerds" don't really have a type in terms of physical appearances (well, just be fit). They are more attracted to brains. I personally get bored of women who their whole personality/carrier revolves around their beauty/social media influencer types. Be interesting and be straight forward. Most times If they don't know you, they won't approach you. Not that they don't find you attractive or are intimidated, but beauty is not really something they are impressed about.

Anyways I hope you understand this lol, All the best 😇.

flower_power_g1rl · 2023-10-28T06:46:55+00:00

I know a guy like this. He's a great guy, type A academically and athletically, but he's a mama's boy and emotionally immature.

Of course this is just my impression of one person like this.

Luscious-Grass · 2023-10-25T14:55:24+00:00

Can you define athletic nerd? A nerd how is athletic or a nerd who treats his intellectual pursuits like a sport?

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Title	Athletic nerds
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Date	October 25, 2023 3:57 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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