What makes a woman classy?

enigmatic223 · 2023-11-10T06:40:40+00:00

Speaking eloquently, being kind, leaving something to the imagination when dressing, spending her time wisely

Sankdamoney · 2023-11-10T09:22:45+00:00

Attempting integrity by treating others with kindness despite their poor behavior, managing internal and external hypocrisy and double standards.

morbidityofanother · 2023-11-10T14:00:34+00:00

It's synonymous with "classic", which is to say that it never goes out of style. It's axiomatic and does does not follow trends. So, it means a clean and healthy appearance. This means no talon nails, wacky hair colors, none of the strange "ugly on purpose" looks, no super glam makeup. Classic means to accentuate your beauty, not disguise it. As far as behaviors, it's the same philosophy: what has always been attractive? Kindness, listening rather than always talking, keeping your business to yourself, respect for yourself as well as the people in your life, etc. It's all about dignity, honesty, respect, and kindness.

SunRose42 · 2023-11-10T21:14:20+00:00

Looking classy- modest but stylish, classic clothing and a lack of excess in styling choices. So no excessive makeup, trashy tattoos, insanely long fake nails, obviously dyed hair, obvious lip fillers, fake boobs or other obvious plastic surgery, insane hairstyles, and so on.

Acting classy- not falling into behavioral excess on anything. This involves even simple things, like not being too loud or too quiet. Has manners but isn’t manners-obsessed. Embodies the classic virtues (which are moderate states between two extremes). Being kind. Not being obsessed with attention or mean gossip. Good emotional regulation. Confident but modest. Handles both conflict and difficult people with grace and compassion. Genuinely thinks and cares about others, but also enforces her own boundaries and stands up for what’s right when she needs to. Takes care of herself physically and mentally. Has good taste both aesthetically and in who and what she chooses to associate with. Cares about things that are bigger than herself.

Puzzleheaded_Card_71 · 2023-11-10T19:27:34+00:00

It isn’t tattoos, walking around half naked, swearing, being loud and attention seeking.

IcarusKiki · 2023-11-10T11:11:17+00:00

Making others comfortable

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TheBunk_TB · 2023-11-10T17:22:19+00:00

A look, sociability and a kind smile

taytay10133 · 2023-11-11T02:15:55+00:00

I think a lot of it comes down to the way you dress and speak.

InnerDuty · 2023-11-11T02:58:46+00:00

self confidence in all that you are and do

angelicasinensis · 2023-11-11T03:12:04+00:00

confidence without arrogance

crossthemark · 2023-11-15T02:14:06+00:00

Being exclusive or "hard to get" and dressing modestly, staying quiet rather than being talkative or "extroverted", but I think the biggest indicator is being reserved with everyone, having a "secret self" or inner self no one can touch. It makes you mysterious and attractive.

InnerDuty · 2023-11-10T17:20:22+00:00

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size
But when I start to tell them, They think I’m telling lies. I say, It’s in the reach of my arms, The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

I walk into a room Just as cool as you please,
And to a man, The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me, A hive of honey bees.
I say, It’s the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I’m a woman Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman, That’s me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me. They try so much But they can’t touch My inner mystery. When I try to show them,
They say they still can’t see.
I say, It’s in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile, The ride of my breasts, The grace of my style. I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That’s me.

Now you understand Just why my head’s not bowed.
I don’t shout or jump about Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing, It ought to make you proud. I say, It’s in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need for my care.
’Cause I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That’s me.

Egoistchan · 2023-11-11T09:14:11+00:00

Its ultimately about demeanor and self-containment and being somewhat unattainable, ie "one of a kind". Imo it has nothing really to do with your actual appearance or how traditional you are.

Classy women are singular; their energy can't be replicated or copied. Think about how many women have tried to emulate Marilyn Monroe, or Audrey Hepburn. They might be able to get the makeup look down and wear the same style of clothes, but they just look like women role-playing or playing "dress up"- Marilyn and Audrey always looked like themselves and made every outfit seem like it was made for them.

notindfw · 2023-11-11T18:25:59+00:00

modesty in her fashion and in her level of discretion. if I am a dating a girl and her friends know everything about me including all of my bedroom antics, that is a turn off. guys hardly ever talk about our sexual experiences with the women we’re dating, especially the more we respect the woman, the less we speak about her in a sexual manner.

Late-Size-9602 · 2023-11-11T18:37:50+00:00

The ability to say no and have boundaries?

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Title: What makes a woman classy?

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Exstntial-strawberry · 2023-11-13T18:22:48+00:00

I think the classiest women are the ones that don’t overshare, don’t feel the need to explain themselves, don’t argue with other people in an emotional way, and are friendly and kind without crossing boundaries.

Title	What makes a woman classy?
Author	Global_Moose_1991
Upvotes	36
Comments	25
Date	November 10, 2023 6:11 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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