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Love this! 🩷thanks for sharing 😊
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/25 06:21 PM
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Congrats!! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/24 08:10 PM
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This is amazing. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 11:01 PM
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Friends of friends!
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/24 08:39 PM
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Yes this is very true. I was really uncomfortable with that language as well. I usually skip those videos that are targeting early dating girl game and listen to her videos that are more targeted towards LTRs
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 05:07 PM
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From this little info that you provided, this isn’t looking too good 🩷 may I ask how old you both are?
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 12:55 PM
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I love margarita Nazarenko ! :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 08:53 PM
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You’ll find your match! keep looking and keep up the good work :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 11:39 PM
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Yes!! Here is the RPW vetting guide: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/s/elsvindVR6[vetting guide](https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/s/elsvindVR6) There are three parts to it. I would go over all of it a couple of times and refer back to it when you meet a guy you like!!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 11:38 PM
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Lots and lots of reasons. I was raised in a conservative, Christian household (I am no longer either), but the many of the values stuck with me especially when it comes to my home/family life). Like someone else said, I came upon the subreddit and found that it accurately reflects the reality of the world and some relationships between men and women. It WORKS! It landed me the life and the man of my dreams, and has made me happier than I ever was. It’s helped me really reflect on how I treat oth…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 09:51 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 01:04 AM
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This gave me goosebumps, I’m so so happy for you!🥹🩷
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 09:48 PM
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I’m proud of you for reflecting and being self aware of yourself. This is the first step to getting better and healing. ❤️‍🩹
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 06:46 PM
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Ahh I wish I could give you more from that perspective! Unfortunately I ignored the red flags with him and he was not who I thought he was. My current partner does not have any children! You can PM me if you want to discuss it more :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 06:08 AM
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This totally resonates with me. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 01:37 AM
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I’m so so glad you liked it! ☺️🩷
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 12:42 AM
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Marry Him by Lori Gottlieb was a fun and informative read. Fascinating Womanhood is an essential read with tons of great advice.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 10:29 PM
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Ahh thank you so much! 🩷
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 10:21 PM
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I think the classiest women are the ones that don’t overshare, don’t feel the need to explain themselves, don’t argue with other people in an emotional way, and are friendly and kind without crossing boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 06:22 PM
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Goodluck ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 08:14 PM
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I would avoid telling him things like “I won’t tolerate” the behavior, and instead express to him that it makes you sad. Men respond much better to sadness than to anger. He doesn’t want to see you sad. And getting angry puts him on the defensive.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 07:41 PM
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Fascinating Womanhood
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 09:58 PM
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You can definitely find what you’re looking for. You just have to really vet the liberal guys because sometimes their masculinity is not as obvious from the start as some of the more conservative men.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/23 06:40 PM
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Completely agree with this
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 06:09 PM
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Completely agree it’s the women not the men.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 06:08 PM
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What?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 03:50 AM
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Yeah I hear you. I agree that Red pill doesn’t really make sense outside of cis hetero people.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 10:10 PM
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Aw shoot :( This is exactly what I’m afraid of and why I try to keep my mouth shut. I know you had the best intentions and I’m sorry they couldn’t hear you. Sometimes it’s hard because it’s ingrained into my values now and I let things slip. I’ve definitely gotten some weird looks from my friends and some people tell me they outright disagree with me and it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 08:35 PM
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Also, I think it’s worth noting that RPW and red pill men are very different. Most women that follow RPW are not with men who purposefully follow red pill ideology or go on that subreddit
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 08:15 PM
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What is untrue?
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 08:14 PM
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I agree that many red pill folks do invalidate trans people. I don’t think that this is at the core of red pill. It is some people but not a core value or belief of the red pill ideology. I do believe that red pill prescribes a framework for gender relations. That’s definitely at the core of it, but I don’t think the core says that that’s how all people NEED to act. It’s just one option that some people choose to implement into their personal relationships. I don’t think red pill values generall…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 08:13 PM
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Yeah I agree. She was being hypocritical and I don’t think she knows what she’s talking about. I could agree with those numbers. I think if you’re a feminine and liberal woman, it’s not that hard to find a masculine and traditional liberal man if you’re looking for one and know how to vet. But very possible that’s just my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 07:05 PM
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Totally.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 06:47 PM
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This exactly!!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 06:47 PM
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Yep, hormonal birth control totally messes with my head and emotions. I could not control my emotions whatsoever. I switched to the copper IUD and I’ve had no mental / emotional side effects that I’ve noticed. However, the cramping and bleeding was increased for the first 6-8 months.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 05:33 PM
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Margarita.Nazarenko on tiktok
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 10:28 PM
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Onequince.com has a lot of classy options at affordable prices
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/23 09:02 PM
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Cute homemade card with a heartfelt message inside is a nice touch!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/23 06:31 AM
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Me too :(
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 02:14 AM
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This is very basic and necessary etiquette in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/22 04:34 AM
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I’m not trolling. Someone made a comment to me that all men secretly wish their girl hadn’t been with other men before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:02 PM
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Poshmark!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 08:23 PM
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What is a pre-marriage course?
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 11:02 PM
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I write him love letters 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 10:41 PM
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Hi!! Thank you for sharing your story :) Would you mind sharing the reason why you regret not having kids sooner?
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 12:06 AM
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I would love this!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 02:19 AM
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I thought the empowered wife is a lot better than the surrendered wife!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 09:11 PM
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Dr. Michelle Daf on YouTube ! Just watched a few videos but I liked her
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/22 02:16 PM
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I’ve always thought it was super unattractive and feminine. UNTIL I met my extremely masculine boyfriend who wears black nail polish occasionally. I think it’s the hottest thing because it shows me how confident he is in his masculinity. And it just goes with his style.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 04:56 AM
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Sent!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 06:40 PM
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Sent my fav post to you via chat!
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 06:04 PM
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You’ll definitely have to be careful with this and take it with a grain of salt but I looked at a ton of the posts on /theredpill and searched for green flags / red flags. Also just reading the books like empowered wife and other reading material mentioned on this sub will give you a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 05:55 PM
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Makes me be appreciative of my partner and realize where I may be taking him for granted some times!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:03 AM
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I’m currently reading the empowered wife by Laura Doyle and it gives a lot of helpful tips for being a great wife and having a great relationship!
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/22 05:25 PM
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Dressing more feminine — skirts, dresses, soft makeup + hair, low heels or sandals instead of sneakers. Just putting more effort overall and being proud of it. I used to think it was embarrassing to care about appearance 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ not always shouting my opinion or being aggressive in conversation — during conversations my main intent is to listen to listen and learn, not listen to respond. This is the most impactful one I think. small things like picking up his dishes, serving him first, cleaning t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 04:27 AM
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“I will consider it. Thank you.”
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/22 05:50 AM
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Thank you for your honest perspective 💓
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 03:28 PM
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26f, 46m. Personally, I’ve been a more dominant person with past relationships but now I’m dating an older man and he’s so masculine and dominant he makes me really want to embrace my feminine/submissive side and it feels amazing! He knows how to treat a woman and has learned a lot from his past relationships. He really appreciates who I am and the fact that I can communicate my feelings, which no man has ever been able to handle due to their immaturity. His main goal is to have a family and tak…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 07:33 AM
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It’s going really good! :) thank you for asking! We have been going out to eat way less which has really helped me feel more comfortable paying for half of our restaurant meals. I think what it came down to really was that I couldn’t afford to always go 50/50, and I was having a hard time communicating that to him and realizing for myself that that’s where the source of my anxiety about it was coming from. We had a good conversation about it and I told him that I felt like I was being unreasonab…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 11:50 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:36 PM
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I asked a similar question to this sub some weeks ago and a lot of people gave me really good answers that gave me some perspective on this topic. You can find it here
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 11:35 PM
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What does CMV stand for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:35 PM
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Do people tell you their criticisms in person or where do you get this criticism? Just curious because all of my friends would love to be SAHM/Ws if they could
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/22 12:19 AM
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You can just get a regular job right? Maybe work at a law firm for an internship or as an assistant to see how you like it. Or you can get a job in a psychology field and see how that goes! You can do this!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 09:27 PM
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Totally. I think that having something to work towards is a game changer motivation-wise. It kind of sounds like you need a break and there is absolutely no harm in deferring or reapplying next year. It is totally valid if you no longer want to grind. And to be completely honest being a lawyer is nowhere near being a laid back job. It is high stress and all about grinding. Regarding men—I never noticed that men compared themselves to me but im sure that’s true sometimes. Mostly it weeded out the…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 09:08 PM
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First of all congrats on getting accepted into law school!!! I graduated from law school just last year and it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made for my own personal growth and confidence in myself. I’ve always been relatively confident in myself and been a personable, likeable person, but law school just gave me so many skills and people started taking me more seriously. I see on this thread sometimes that it’s not feminine to have a job like this but I’ve found that alot of men love …
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 08:52 PM
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It’s my favorite! My partner says he loves all of my holes equally 😂😅 but we both love it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/22 11:39 PM
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I think so. I think recently, I responded to and focused on the substance of what my partner said, which alarmed me at the time, instead of acknowledging how hard it was for him to share that feeling/experience with me. While I still think I was justified in my alarm, this post has helped me realize that I ALSO need to appreciate that he trusted me enough to share that information with me which he was probably ashamed of and which stemmed from intense emotions, and as his partner I am there to a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 11:49 PM
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These are on the pricier side but they are a great price for (washable!) silk and really good quality :) and so cute/will make you feel elegant and comfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 06:34 AM
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my partner is many years older than me and has all of the qualities of a HVM + we are truly and deeply in love. Yes there are implications to him being so much older (my kids dad will be older than most dads, I may be left a widow in my 50s) but I feel that there’s always a risk with relationships and this man is worth those risks!
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 07:55 PM
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I’ve addressed it with him and the tension on my side is resolved. Thanks for your input!
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 01:56 PM
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Ok I understand thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 09:43 PM
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Do you have to be a wife or engaged?
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 09:24 PM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 10:14 PM
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I’m not even close to stupid and helpless. And I pay for plenty of things for us. I just felt weird about the 50/50 rule for dinners. But like I said, I am going to approach it differently now. Thanks for your input! :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 10:13 PM
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I agree 🙌🏼 I feel completely different after reading everyone’s comments and have a lot more peace with splitting the dinner checks 50/50.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 10:07 PM
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Thank you everyone for your comments. They have been extremely helpful in informing me as to how I should move forward and helped change my perspective on the whole situation!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 06:49 PM
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😂 Any advice on what I should do re: his psychological damage from his ex? Just support him through it and show him I’m not like her at all?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 04:55 AM
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Agree with the first two paragraphs🙌🏼 I’m not sure how the YouTube video applies to my situation. I am 25 and am working towards marriage and children with this man.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 04:26 AM
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Thank you. I really appreciate this response. I need think about this and figure out how to articulate this to him in a respectful way.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 04:24 AM
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Definitely going to do this more!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 04:23 AM
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Can you edit what you were saying “do you still ….” I think there might be a word missing or something so i don’t understand what you’re saying. True. The proportionate split would feel a lot better for me I think.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 03:23 AM
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I do cook for him but we normally just end up going out because we both enjoy going out together. But I really like this suggestion, I think even when he suggests we go out, I will say “let me cook for you instead” or something like that. Otherwise I agree I think I will just pay for the bill sometimes. Thanks for your input!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 01:15 AM
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Thank you ❤️ I agree this is something we can definitely work through. I think I will offer to pay the next bill and we can have a discussion from there regarding how we can split things up moving forward where I contribute but not too much to a point where I feel like it’s hurting my finances or I’m feeling resentful. Thanks again for your response ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 01:09 AM
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It’s both. I’m embarrassed for the server to see that I’m paying for us instead of my man or for people around us to see my getting out my wallet. I’m also put off by the 50/50 concept for several reasons: 1) we don’t make equal income, and 2) if he is dominant and I am submissive, we are not 50/50. I bring certain things to the relationship and so does he, and some areas he will be bringing 100%. Other times me 70% and him 30%. And vice versa. It’s not always “equal”. We have had discussions ab…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 12:58 AM
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U/cigarettesandash said it well in their comment on this thread: “I gravitated towards RP because I believe women and men are different and I like that RP acknowledges that. I think we all exist on a spectrum of masculine/feminine traits and for those looking for more heteronormative relationships, RP can be a great resource. I don't wholeheartedly buy into every RP idea at the moment, but I love that we have a community of women who strengthen their relationships by leaning into their femininit…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 08:38 PM
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Yes I agree. At the same time, people have certain qualities that have been grouped into the “masculine” and “feminine” groups, because that is how we have evolved culturally and socially. Sure, some men may think that womens body hair is feminine enough, but how many men really think that? It’s more of men just accepting that that part about their woman doesn’t fit into the typical “feminine” category. If you use the “everything is made up” argument, that can literally apply to ANY concept of h…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 07:49 PM
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When I started reading about the red pill women philosophy it explained a lot for me regarding my dissatisfaction in my previous relationships. I met a HVM who happened to absolutely adore me so I want to be the best support for him possible, and though we haven’t outright discussed it, I’ve been implementing red pill strategies and values from my end of the relationship and I can see that he takes well to it! It feels absolutely incredible to embrace my femininity.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 07:44 PM
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27 is not a young girl 😂
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/22 10:27 PM
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