Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?

GYN-k4H-Q3z-75B · 2022-09-04T17:04:27+00:00

Do all men

No.

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Grimmanomaly · 2022-09-04T17:20:59+00:00

No… no I don’t.

LouisdeRouvroy · 2022-09-05T00:32:53+00:00

At 18? Probably. At 40? No thanks.

baresquad · 2022-09-04T17:02:25+00:00

We’re not a hive mind.

No.

Warm_Gur8832 · 2022-09-04T16:32:31+00:00

No, it doesn’t really cross my mind honestly

Main-Leek7908 · 2022-09-04T20:32:15+00:00

I asked my husband once to roleplay with me that I was losing my virginity to him. He looked horrified and said “Why??” And after I explained, he said “No thank you.” So make what you will of that.

DeathByDumbbell · 2022-09-04T21:09:41+00:00

Personally yes, because I'm too.

retal1ator · 2022-09-04T20:14:04+00:00

No, its not a requirement. But I believe all men want to feel special in the eyes of her, meaning we have to be desired passionately. Big plus if she had few or no experiences with casual sex, personally I don’t like that and I wish my girl had my same set of values.

amanita0creata · 2022-09-04T21:34:47+00:00

Both of us took each other's virginity shortly after marriage 11 years ago.

It's lovely to think about and occasionally remind each other of, but it's absolutely not a big deal in the slightest.

Anti_Thing · 2022-09-04T16:41:34+00:00

I wanted to ask something like this for a long time. Do most guys genuinely don't care their gf wasn't a virgin before them, or they just pretend not to since wishing for a virgin gf is mostly a losing battle in this day and age?

BurroughsJunky · 2022-09-04T20:24:14+00:00

I married a virgin

We had sex on our honeymoon and conceived our daughter

Here is the point: there is usually a reason they are a virgin

My wife is a 10 out of 10- world class beauty

But

She is Indian and they have hard core families

She wasn’t allowed to socialise normally

So… combine that fact with her own genetic makeup that rendered her sort of… shy and cold sexually…

And you get a virgin

I was married to her 15 years and she’s the best woman ever- best mom for sure- wonderful girl

But

The sex was just plain bad- and no matter what I did to spice it up… she was non-responsive

Some may ask- was it me?

Since divorce she has not dated at all

I think my point is this:

The virgin fantasy involves the notion that you will be the first to have sex not simply with a virgin (which generally is not fun for a woman) but with a virgin who, upon fucking you, transforms into your own personal porn star and wants to only have sex with you

It’s truly a fantasy

Cause that doesn’t exist

Virgins exist … just find out their backstory before you pursue relentlessly

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onirroc · 2022-09-04T16:20:59+00:00

No lol.

I'm glad she got to have some fun before me, it taught her what she likes and doesn't like and what she's looking for. I know she's not going to end up experiencing FOMO and regret not getting to experience other guys.

Her past made her who she is. I have a past too. We like sharing crazy stories from our younger days... we Vonda over similar pasts.

jonreynolds1999 · 2022-09-04T19:38:23+00:00

If i had one I would wish that

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-04T18:11:04+00:00

Most of your answers are from Americans so keep that in mind. The answer for the most part is gonna be no but most would prefer their girlfriend's/wives body counts to be lower regardless.

Some countries, it's a necessity for their wives/gf to be virgins.

EnteFetz · 2022-09-04T18:13:21+00:00

I would be happy if I would be the first one of my Gf, but I know its unrealistic and it does not bother me too much if she has previous experiences.

The problem is just that I have dated girls before who admitted that they keep thinking about men they slept with before and they always compared me to the best guy she has a ever been with, which is a horrible experience. One girl in particular made me feel like I am not good enough for her, because her ex (who is my colleague and friend) is so much better in several aspects and she was always super disappointed when I was not like him in a situation.

So I am OK if she has been with other guys before as long as she does not show obvious symptoms of being an alpha widow.

NeosX222 · 2022-09-04T16:59:36+00:00

As long as she desires me passionately and intrinsically I dont care. It would be a nice bonus though ngl.

globalholiday5090 · 2022-09-04T20:45:49+00:00

im a woman but no man ive ever been with has even bothered to ask

ConsciousGuidance5 · 2022-09-05T01:17:37+00:00

I love this thread because it shows there are two types of men:

Those who prioritize sex and those who prioritize emotional connection. Seems like wanting one is a direct tradeoff for the other.

napthaleneneens · 2022-09-05T06:29:59+00:00

Female here and in my experience they’re creeped out by virgins. But then again I only dated Chad types that banged a lot of women and didn’t think about virginity. I noticed experienced, social males don’t care about it but inexperienced, awkward males do.

SoIlikeMangos · 2022-09-04T17:55:14+00:00

Not all, but in some cultures l, absolutely yes.

BecretAlbatross · 2022-09-04T19:59:20+00:00

No. My only personal gripe with body count is the likelyhood that dudes she's smashed are still her life. If a girl slept with a 100 guys that live in a different country, has a track record of being in successful relationships, and has never cheated, I wouldn't really care.

TheRealBobaFettt · 2022-09-04T18:28:33+00:00

Hell no! I want her to know what she wants and likes!!

Backyouropinion · 2022-09-04T19:11:26+00:00

Being a virgin is not critical for me. More important to me is the woman’s history of cheating in a committed relationship and her moral compass. How much would she be willing to work on a relationship, and finally can we both find a compromise point on issues. For example, I had a relationship where the woman felt and I wasn’t contributing to cleaning. I offered to pay for a cleaning person and she rejected that. I read that as an issue of control and that became a negative signal to me.

I also look for some sense of emotional control. I grew up in a household with yelling as a normal form of communication and I absolutely despise that environment.

These are much more important to me than if someone is s virgin for a long-term relationship.

If it’s just about a mutual sexual relationship, those standards are much simpler.

AndyBrown65 · 2022-09-05T00:16:28+00:00

We all have a dream where our girlfriend is carried into the bedroom on a chaise lounge by four burly eunuchs whilst a pre-pubescent child casts rose pedals prior to her first deflowering.

Nah....

I think that is a woman's fantasy.

Men don't care as such.

Stripotle_Grill · 2022-09-05T14:51:24+00:00

lol I'd believe my wife is a CIA agent before she's a virgin.

alaroot · 2022-09-04T18:43:13+00:00

Don't care as long her heart is mine.

Y615 · 2022-09-04T16:49:44+00:00

Some do..some don't.

I believe neither of them should be shamed for it.

Any-Bottle-4910 · 2022-09-05T02:20:33+00:00

Fuuuuuuck no. Virgins aren’t great in bed. She was and is.

helloiampoppy97 · 2022-09-04T21:36:58+00:00

men need to consider that anyone over 18 and a woman has likely had sex so if you want a virgin it gives off noncey vibes. sex is part of adult life and wanting yourself to have a monopoly on her sexual experiences tells us youre very insecure

thedark1owns · 2022-09-04T23:25:05+00:00

Is this a thing that adult men wish for?

fatbunny23 · 2022-09-04T16:37:17+00:00

Sexual compatibility is vital and virgins usually don't know shit about their own preferences in comparison. I definitely prefer someone who's had enough sex to know what they want from a relationship sexually, if for nothing else than to make sure our interests align.

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-09-04T20:41:14+00:00

i would

LovesGettingRandomPm · 2022-09-04T21:40:26+00:00

There's probably a large minority that does, but even then, it's not about them being a virgin, and more about having a girl whose personality is supple. And who aren't making them feel insecure in terms of life experience. They would want to feel like being above them and they can't really do that if the woman knows her way around.

On the opposite side there are those who don't like inexperienced women, but I think out of this group of people most of them would still like the woman to look young, the reason women are so objectified is because they contribute to their mans success in the social marketplace, men push other men up the hierarchy if they look up to them, women more often envious drag other women down

TodTheRod01 · 2022-09-05T01:29:03+00:00

no not a virgin, but sucked and fucked less than 5 guys would be nice.

jumpoff24 · 2022-09-05T01:47:33+00:00

Yes.

TruePassion777 · 2022-09-05T04:35:35+00:00

No. That’s weird especially if you are adults whom do not have a history of practicing abstinence or celibacy.

HOWEVER, it’s always a little painful when the quick thought of other men before you clapping her cheeks crosses your mind randomly.

domdomdom333 · 2022-09-05T09:32:34+00:00

From my experience men are either indifferent or wished he was her first. Never head of a man who only wanted a girl who's had previously experience before him.

DaveheBrave · 2022-09-05T09:55:35+00:00

PassMyGuard · 2022-09-05T12:20:29+00:00

Hell no. I want somebody who knows their body well enough to be able to have an orgasm.

Having sex with a virgin feels like it would be something I’m doing to somebody, not with somebody.

ahhh_ty · 2022-09-05T13:24:25+00:00

Yeah

hybridcbu · 2022-09-05T16:10:55+00:00

I would be my ideal choice yeah. Obviously that's just not likely to happen, but if we're crafting the perfect situation she would be yeah.

shadyMFer · 2022-09-05T18:54:27+00:00

Definitely. Those who will deny it are just simps trying to earn brownie points. Every man would prefer to have gotten to their significant other before she was ran through.

vanishingly-orca · 2022-09-04T16:23:49+00:00

I don’t. Virgins don’t know anything and are clueless about sex.

Sadly I just am not sociopathic enough to take advantage of them, and they can save that for someone else.

I prefer women who know what they like and have been through the ringer. I want a woman who knows what’s going on, not some clueless girl. Who knows her desires and fetishes.

Virgin lovers seem to be creepy pedophiles to me, because they spend so much time using pseudo science to justify it, instead of just saying you can’t compete with her past men, or you have some sort of revulsion. They hide behind n-count studies and the mating habits of fruit flies and sound mentally infirm. You want to be first and like young girls, be honest about it. But they know they can’t. Honesty would sound “creepy”.

If you’re a virgin girl, and some guy thinks it’s really important you be one, I’d think that’s a pretty big red flag, just like I think a virgin girl is a red flag.

Barely-moral · 2022-09-04T16:28:50+00:00

Any generalization applied to humans that does not make room for exceptions is wrong. So no.

From my perspective there are only two benefits in dating a virgin. First, I value the sharing of first experiences. Second, I want my partner's best as defined by her past. If she has no sexual past then I am getting her best and I don't need to bother finding out about what her best is the way I need to if she is not a virgin.

PMmeareasontolive · 2022-09-04T16:55:41+00:00

Only extreme neurotics.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-09-04T17:01:03+00:00

Not a virgin but I prefer women in the 2-8 n count range

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-09-04T17:09:31+00:00

"Wish" may be too strong of a word.

While virginity may not be at the forefront of their thoughts, we can do some deductions to get closer to reality.

Other than cucks, no man wants even the thought to cross his mind of his wife having had sex with someone else.

For most, it's a "don't ask, don't tell".

All the rationalizations people give for having a past are copes. (Knowing what she likes and doesn't, doesn't know how to duck)

As if those aren't things you're going to have to figure out and fine tune in your relationship regardless lol.

As humans in general, we value first impressions/experiences. In fact so much so that people regularly say they wish they could forget a certain experience so that they experience it again for the first time.

There's also ego. Not only the insecurity of previous partners, but also the mere fact of being first strokes one's ego.

There's just too many positives, little negatives, that it would be incorrect to state that virginity is irrelevant or a net negative.

yuckyuck13 · 2022-09-04T17:21:11+00:00

Are you trolling this sub or did you mean to submit this to an incel supporting sub?

Nihi1986 · 2022-09-04T18:49:08+00:00

Hmm...I'd say yes if we are talking about 'wishes', now if you ask if that's something important, for most men it isn't.

Kvuivbribumok · 2022-09-04T19:53:10+00:00

I'd rather not have a girlfriend that's a virgin personally.

newjacktown · 2022-09-04T20:32:01+00:00

Find these responses quite bizarre. OP for your study, this topic has come up with my male friends. They all would without a doubt prefer a virgin/very very low body count for a girlfriend or wife. A virgin if possible would be ideal. (UK London).

rubberseatbelt · 2022-09-04T22:41:20+00:00

I'm dating a woman who is 58 years old.

I'm 56.

What do you think?

decoy88 · 2022-09-05T03:25:08+00:00

Fuck no!

But I’m part of the small minority in this sub that actually has experience and sex.

dukesaces · 2022-09-04T16:55:33+00:00

I don't really care about the body count of a girl i get with. She can have had 1 or even 10,000 past partners, so long as we get along and she's got no STIs I'm fine with it.

However, i would never marry such a woman. We can date indefinitely but we wouldnt get married. Marriage is an archaic and traditional system which was about family, resources and chastity. Modern marriage has become a joke. To get me to make a commitment as large as marriage to you, you'd need to be a virgin, not because of any sort of scientific or statistical justification but because that's the standard i set for my future wife and i do not have to justify it to anyone.

Phasitron · 2022-09-04T18:21:11+00:00

Hardly

Pilling_it · 2022-09-04T18:57:33+00:00

I'm a man, and no. Someone of similar sociosexuality.

Someone having experience wanting specifically a virgin can be fun at the beginning, but as it gets old quickly, if he's been at it for a while I'd see it as a red flag. Different from a women that didn't fuck a lot either as there seems to be a fetish around virginity.

Therefore that's the thread since you asked if all men.

Travel__Life · 2022-09-04T19:31:31+00:00

I do. My current gf is the first serious relationship that I’ve had, I plan on proposing to and marrying her. I would’ve liked to take hers.

Astrotheurgy · 2022-09-04T20:05:46+00:00

All? No. Many? Probably I mean, it's not the greatest thought.

immoral_mage · 2022-09-04T20:08:05+00:00

Given a preference sure given a preference guys would prefer she was a virgin but in todays world it’s not important.

Mariocell5 · 2022-09-04T21:04:58+00:00

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-09-04T23:02:27+00:00

Hell no

tommysamson · 2022-09-05T00:00:43+00:00

if a man has a lot of options and has a lot to lose if he picks the wrong woman he will care more about her past, if a man has nothing to lose he has more to gain from marrying a girl he likes so he will ignore her past

sharksville · 2022-09-05T00:59:11+00:00

My wife took mine I took hers I’d say that’s one of the best thing about us and she’ll agree

AssistTemporary8422 · 2022-09-05T04:48:22+00:00

My guess is most men would prefer it, but only a minority demand or massively prefer it. And that goes with a lot of things that are desirable in dating but we have to make compromises about because we aren't perfect ourselves.

Maybe because evolutionarily her offspring being his is a big deal. Someone with past relationships has a higher chance of breaking up with him, having baggage, or kids. But this is speculative. There is definitely a cultural and misogynistic component to the preference for virgins.

Perfect_Promise_943 · 2022-09-05T13:40:40+00:00

I do prefer it. Personally I get icky very easily. The thought of salive, tongue of someone else (the dirtiest part of the human body) to then mix with my gfs mouth(again, dirtiest part of the human body) I find it very icky. If she hasn’t kissed anyone before I feel a lot better knowing that this is something only her and I have done. Same thing with the rest of her body. My current gf is a virgin. My past ex wasn’t and it did bother me a lot and it was something I just had to deal with, but It was something I dealt with on a daily basis.

Other guy friends of mine, they claim they don’t care if they are a virgin or not, but that when they do think about it they do feel hurt, or like a whole in their heart, and some say icky.

I don’t think this should be misogynistic at all. I definitely think women should care too. I think women should feel icky to think of their bf making out with another girl or be worried about where he put his penis or mouth just as much as what dirty stick went in to your gf vagina or mouth before you.

I don’t think this should be a gender specific things. I think we should all care.

FlyV89 · 2022-09-05T14:01:53+00:00

I don't have a wife but I had an ex-fiancee. I didn't thought about it really, she had been with two guys previous to me, but she confessed me a few times she thought I should have been the first one and she felt really bad I was not.

itmethrowaway12 · 2022-09-05T20:24:46+00:00

men cope absolutely hard af about this topic thats my opinion

shydude92 · 2022-09-06T20:11:24+00:00

Some don't...because they were the ones who took her virginity. Some guys still get lucky, thank God.

Estoura-himen · 2022-09-14T22:35:09+00:00

Yes.

AwakenTheSavage · 2022-09-04T18:44:35+00:00

Fuck no. How else would the sex between us already have been fantastic right out the gate? Ever slept with a virgin girl? I have. They’re awkward as fuck, they’re kinda scared, they don’t really know what to do, and they fall in love with you afterwards. I’m not about that. I like women who can let loose with me to the same extent I like letting loose. Give me passion, not “I don’t know what to do but now I’m in love with you,” stuff.

narfywoogles · 2022-09-04T19:54:25+00:00

The only thing virgins have going for them are lack of STDs and paternal certainty. Everything else is a negative. Like terrified of sex. Or unrealistic expectations about it. And the inevitable poor performance.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-04T17:17:01+00:00

I won't say all, but probably more than you think, I was able to marry a virgin we've been together eight years and she's phenomenal in so many ways, but it's not like that in particular was ever some criteria that I was looking for

lostlito · 2022-09-05T02:49:42+00:00

I'm not gonna lie...any man that says "no" makes me suspicious.

SkylineCrash · 2022-09-05T04:24:01+00:00

i personally do

i cant imagine another dude nutting on my girls face sorry

purplish_possum · 2022-09-04T16:52:01+00:00

If a woman is over 25 years old and still a virgin that's a huge red flag.

antimetaboleIsntDeep · 2022-09-04T20:01:00+00:00

Girlfriend? No. Wife? Yes. Any man who can afford to be that picky would prefer a virgin.

AreOut · 2022-09-04T17:49:20+00:00

Nope. I actually find a girl being virgin offputting.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2022-09-04T18:22:53+00:00

Not all but most in my opinion. I've asked my brothers and friends and about 70% of them would've preferred their girlfriends or wives to be virgins. With my girlfriend, if she would stay the exact same person she is right now, I would've preferred she was a virgin as well.

JumboJetz · 2022-09-04T19:35:03+00:00

I have zero problems wifing a literal slut in real life as long as she’s nice to me and treats me well and doesn’t cheat when married,

However - DUH? Why the hell would I INSIST my girl had sex with other men before me if I was given an option? No risk of STDs this way.

So yeah if you offered me the exact same girl in every single way only in one case she was a virgin and the other she wasn’t I’d pick the virgin but this isn’t realistic and in reality I’d never expect a virgin or place much value on it.

unloader71 · 2022-09-04T17:11:17+00:00

girlfriend’s/wife’s

Gf don't mind, wife better be virgin or at least n-count < 3

HuckleberryThis2012 · 2022-09-04T19:59:35+00:00

Haha no. I never wanted to be anyones first. Way too much attachment and emotion involved in that for as early on in the relationship as I wanted to have sex with them. Plus who wants to have sex with a girl who’s sex style is dead fish? Women can pretend they’re all great at sex, but when you’re younger most goes just lay there and expect you to do stuff to them. When they get experience it’s a lot better.

Granted I don’t want a woman who has no standards and just slept around with hundreds of guys. It’s not impressive for a woman to be able to “get men to sleep with her” as it takes no skill to do so. So at a point it becomes more of a lack of self control. But if she’s had 10,20,30 or whatever partners over her life who cares.

goffredo123 · 2022-09-04T18:46:05+00:00

Yes, i only commit in long term relationship with virgin girls.

2022-09-04T17:17:08+00:00

I think the vast majority do in the case of wives.

With girlfriends it doesn't matter so much.

mrmudzi · 2022-09-04T21:43:46+00:00

Rephrased another way:

Do all men wish their partner was terrible at sex for the opportunity to not compare unfavorably to other men in the eyes of their gf?

Bandit174 · 2022-09-04T18:28:14+00:00

Not all, but I garantee the amount of men that wished they could get a virgin wife is greater than the number of men that actually will get one.

Smitten_Squire · 2022-09-04T18:20:32+00:00

Obviously. Would you like a used motorcycle or a new motorcycle?

stoic4343 · 2022-09-04T18:24:33+00:00

Yes. A woman's sexual past has no value to her current boyfriend. If any think ever dent in her soft parts lowers her value.

John_Oakman · 2022-09-04T18:38:59+00:00

Just all the relevant men, because otherwise why would it even be an issue to be brought up?

neoinoakleys · 2022-09-04T22:09:44+00:00

Personally, I totally do not want a virgin. Also, I honestly don’t care what her body count is either.

I only care about who you are today and our dynamics/chemistry we have now.

The rest, I honestly couldn’t care less…it is all superficial BS.

Just my perspective…

Peachfuzz_thegreat · 2022-09-05T01:58:01+00:00

Yes I would prefer if she was a virgin. Just like I want to be the first to wear the condom I’m going to use or the first to use my razor. Or the first to use my toothbrush. I want to be the first person to wear my new underwear and I want to be the first for a lot of things and mostly because I don’t prefer to put my dick where another man’s has been. But life doesn’t work that way anymore.

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2022-09-05T03:29:59+00:00

I guess if you mean prefer. Just like most women would wish their partner was their first love.

energeticallyyours · 2022-09-05T12:57:57+00:00

No. This is an incel obsession

Neptune-Jr · 2022-09-04T21:10:40+00:00

Listen I just don't want her to be the town bike.

warramite · 2022-09-04T16:40:29+00:00

The more masculine the man the more important body count will be.. at least for the possible wife

Men's paranoia for body count is to ensure genetic line is passed down, an entirely masculine desire cause women already know there's will be as pregnancy is their choice

He wants to "conquer" the woman and know she'd never give the box to another man

Ramzabeo · 2022-09-04T22:56:02+00:00

I didnt care, nor did i ever care, however my wife was and i can say its something i like about her because i pretty much had her learn what i liked at first, but again i wouldnt have cared if she hadnt been one as long as it wasnt a crazy number you know?

GamerZ44 · 2022-09-05T03:08:37+00:00

No, I couldn't give a fuck less about virginity. That's honestly kind of a dumb concept to me and I don't really understand why that's important to some people. I would rather not date someone who has not built up dating experience because I don't want to date someone with some weak ass boundaries where I can do damage and cause some unknown trauma because I'm not treating them right... Experience is an amazingly underrated thing in the dating world.

delusionsofsqualor · 2022-09-05T11:32:09+00:00

Definitely not.

Best_Illustrator_137 · 2022-09-05T11:47:47+00:00

No we don’t.

Power_8374 · 2022-09-05T13:51:13+00:00

Do any men think this way?

almostaarp · 2022-09-05T14:18:58+00:00

No. The only ones who do are misogynistic a$$es.

ALulzyApprentice · 2022-09-05T15:22:26+00:00

We don't want/need to be the first, but we do want to be the best.

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-09-04T19:42:08+00:00

How would we know if all men wished their current girlfriend was a virgin?

NationalistGoy · 2022-09-04T22:13:07+00:00

Of course not, the sex would be terrible, imagine having to teach a grown adult how to shag. I for one, am glad my wife was ran through in college and out of college up until 32 years old when she met me. Sometimes I tease her about a gangbang she had in college, she blushes and asks me to cut it off. Haha she is such a little slut and I love her for that.

/s

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Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-09-04T20:26:47+00:00

Nope.

Fun_Push7168 · 2022-09-04T22:28:54+00:00

Revolutionary-Swim24 · 2022-09-04T22:42:24+00:00

Yes, although part of this is a) myself choosing to also not have sex before marriage (even if I’ve done some things like it) due to being religious and b) living in a country where this is normal for women that aren’t extremely religiously repressed to do, plus c) being 20. These factors make it very possible for me to actually marry a virgin who isn’t weird and has a healthy view of these things. I actually agree with the answers above saying that in the west, a girl whose a virgin over like college age is probably not a virgin for a good reason and furthermore sex simply doesn’t mean as much for western women. A lot of girls have told me that their first encounter in high school wasn’t really meaningful for them. However, girls who are brought up to not be heavily repressed, but on the other hand not have sex with guys they’re not serious about, and haven’t had sex yet, simply have a much higher chance of treating sex as a form of intimacy that brings two people together. I can see anecdotally that virgin girls become much more emotionally connected to the guy that takes them, especially if they’re from a culture that values that at least to some degree. And this statistically is demonstrated in much happier marriages.

If I wasn’t also being trad for myself and/or I was living in America or Western Europe I don’t think I’d consider it nearly as much of a dealbreaker as I do now, but does it matter to me, yes. And I have the luxury of being able to make this a dealbreaker although I’m sure there are a lot of non virgins that are perfectly good women. Although I’d still avoid high lay counts; if she’s not a virgin, every other sexual encounter was either a bond that was severed, or her simply treating sex as meaningless, so either way, the more partners, the less sex is really meaningful and bond-creating.

jackedsoon · 2022-09-04T22:43:41+00:00

Comfortable-Unit-897 · 2022-09-04T23:22:52+00:00

Absolutely not! The more you know, the more you know…you know?

2022-09-05T00:26:13+00:00

Lol. No.

SlimLovin · 2022-09-05T00:54:12+00:00

Embarrassed_Cup2524 · 2022-09-05T03:10:39+00:00

I'm not a guy but like I would just want her to be into me

Z0mbs · 2022-09-05T05:37:14+00:00

Hell nah.

jasonawesome99 · 2022-09-05T06:33:36+00:00

No I wish my girlfriend was a vampire goth with juicy tits and witchcraft hobby….

jacemano · 2022-09-05T09:15:02+00:00

Fuck no.

I thank all the men who did the hard work of teaching a girl that its unacceptable to be a pillow princess.

I don't want to do that work

iamatwork24 · 2022-09-05T11:31:46+00:00

100% no. I would never marry a virgin, sexual compatibility is important to me. Experience and having some tricks up their sleeve sexually is sexy to me.

beleidigtewurst · 2022-09-05T15:58:48+00:00

Let me contact the user that can speak on behalf of all men, one sec!

Wait, I think it's not a man at all.

Speaking about all men is something our #liberazi overlords who fight for #IKWALITY do.

surferguy999 · 2022-09-06T17:32:33+00:00

If we had met when we were both inexperienced then sure. It would have been fun.

HobbitShaker88 · 2022-09-08T04:09:06+00:00

I have 3 exes that hated I was a virgin when I started dating them, threw it in my face in a manner that conveyed I was "less" than them, and told me they wished I had more sexual experience. So to answer your question- no, definitely not all men.

Dgreezyy · 2022-11-21T13:18:31+00:00

Yes I’d prefer for a wife

Immediate_Hat6075 · 2023-01-27T19:01:40+00:00

Title	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?
Author	Exstntial-strawberry
Upvotes	119
Comments	534
Date	September 4, 2022 4:12 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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