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Conversationyuckyuck13/r/seduction01/05/21 12:41 AM
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Conversationyuckyuck13/r/seduction30/07/21 05:01 AM
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CMVyuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:16 PM
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Inner Game yuckyuck13/r/seduction23/04/21 01:53 PM
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Field Reportyuckyuck13/r/seduction02/05/21 09:47 PM
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CMVyuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:55 AM
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Field Reportyuckyuck13/r/seduction04/04/21 04:04 AM
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Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddityuckyuck13/r/seduction23/05/21 06:50 PM
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Fundamentals yuckyuck13/r/seduction03/02/24 04:48 AM
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Conversationyuckyuck13/r/seduction02/06/24 10:21 PM
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Conversationyuckyuck13/r/seduction14/08/21 02:08 AM
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Discussionyuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:00 AM
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Feminismyuckyuck13/r/MensRights04/11/15 05:05 AM
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CMVyuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:19 PM
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Discussionyuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:08 AM
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Fundamentals yuckyuck13/r/seduction07/07/22 08:19 PM
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Discussionyuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:48 AM
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Question For Womenyuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:19 AM
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Discussionyuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:14 AM
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yuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:24 AM
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yuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:36 AM
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Logisticsyuckyuck13/r/seduction19/09/24 10:05 PM
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CMVyuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:43 PM
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Logisticsyuckyuck13/r/seduction29/07/21 12:09 AM
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yuckyuck13/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:13 AM
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I am a born and raised Townie of a university and live close to the high school. I have this thought all the time. I have to remind myself which place I am closer too all the time. Just apologize and walk away, shit happens.
/r/seduction04/01/25 04:41 AM
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I always go into it with the mentality of at least made a friend. Then they vets you with her friends.
/r/seduction03/01/25 10:30 PM
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I met my wife at my wife at work as a librarian.
/r/seduction18/12/24 11:25 PM
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University librarian, I am early thirties and there is a lot graduate and PhD students closer to my age.
/r/seduction10/12/24 12:18 AM
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Women are shocked that I cook often. Although I hate doing it since I used to work in restaurants. But its an essential life skill!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:02 AM
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For me it was a change of prospective. Why can you speak to friends and family with no problem? Because there:s no expectation for more than what the interaction entails. Theres no difference with someone you find attractive. Either nothing, a new acquaintance or a date.
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:29 AM
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A few years back I got the don:t harass your coworkers talk. A supervisor was well know to be a little handsy with the ladies. Although it was appropriate to have the talk but it made me feel very disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:41 PM
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I changed my perspective on this with these "rules". Go into the situation as an opportunity of dating but if it doesn't go that way befriend them. Doing so they vet you with their friends welcoming more opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:53 PM
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I come from a family cursed with well endowed women. Came home to hear my sister crying after school often. She was getting a lot of unwanted attention because of her size. I'll be honest as a straight male I notice but I feel bad because I know well endowed women be objectified purely on their size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:25 AM
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I work for a university, most of the harshest criticism I overhear is from women. This was 20ish years ago a sorority had their charter removed from the national chapter because part of their hazing was having pledges undress and the sisters would tell them what they needed to work on. I can't imagine how long that was going on before someone said something or addressed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:45 PM
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Welcome to the club! Reflect on the overall interaction and think about what went well and what didn't. Something that didn't click for me is the idea goalies are instilled with early on in training. Have a short memory.
/r/seduction16/07/24 10:43 PM
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Okay loser.
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:20 AM
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Start trying to have a short conversation with strangers, doesn't matter what they're packing. Eventually people become like normies.
/r/seduction04/07/24 01:05 AM
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What I think is an important side note I'm a townie of a college town so I'm surrounded by people of both sexes that would make us all question our sexuality. Earlier on for me I started asking strangers, Hey where's the closest Starbucks or Dunkin? A very innocent and easily understood as you just want coffee question. Over time I worked on holding longer conversations. After a few months I wasn't that anxious and no matter how attractive I thought they were/are the majority of people have no p…
/r/seduction27/06/24 12:47 AM
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Exactly why school shootings happen. All it takes is one person who gave a shit.
/r/seduction04/06/24 06:43 AM
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Exactly why school shootings happen. All it takes is one person who gave a shit.
/r/seduction04/06/24 06:43 AM
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With exception with funerals and the like never.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:24 PM
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As someone who's more of an introvert, I've find better success in environments that are calmer. Think library or a museum environment. Theres no pressure to engage past just being there or engaging past a friendly conversation. Over time you'll be more comfortable which leads to being more confident.
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:36 AM
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Two greatest full body exercises are sex and swimming. Yoga is great for flexibility and a lot of women do it.
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:49 AM
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Life long townie of a large university. Although I'm in my early 30s there is caveat of not being that guy. My partner is four years younger so don't at me about it. Yet have a large grad and PhD population that are more likely to be mid 20s to early 30s. Either way it's a good environment to get more comfortable talking to women you find attractive.
/r/seduction26/01/24 02:55 AM
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I think why I prefer chubby women is because my mother a tad overweight. Wouldn't be surprised if our parents appearance and age range play a huge role in who we find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:46 PM
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Interesting fact about women who prefer older men. Their father is most likely to be much older than their mother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:58 PM
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I'm amazed I exist now. The amount of times my mother asked my opinion on divorcing my father. Girl if you think it's the right decision do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:06 PM
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Prefer women on the heavier side, some would say chubby chaser. Something about the jiggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:37 AM
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Women almost got the right to vote in 1914 but y'all know what happen that year. Since there was a huge amount of women who became army nurses the issue was never readdressed. Understandable especially since it was a massive help to the cause. But lets all be honest after the Vietnam debacle very few want to join the military. So this issue should be address.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:09 PM
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That's just unfortunate name association they got stuck with. But enjoy the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:51 PM
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You'll get used to it sooner or later. This is horrible to say but if your parents hit you or you were bullied helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:57 PM
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Emoji use equals automatic loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:24 AM
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They learn to work with the script
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:22 AM
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Your parents should have hit you harder as a kid. Mine did and I still care about ex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:24 PM
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Socialized be a better communicator. Especially with arguments which are already heated much like conflict at social events and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:04 PM
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At the end of the day people remember the interaction not how good looking they thought the person was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:56 PM
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So caring is wrong to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:50 PM
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Same with you, the damage has already been done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:31 AM
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Okay Theresa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:57 AM
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As someone who seriously needs complete alone time, you are completely accurate. But male partners who can budget their their emotion and time better do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:56 AM
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It's only gotten worse over the past few years. It's going to be a bigger problem in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:54 AM
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But you practiced with other, thats still socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:53 AM
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Agree on provide but most of this men won't be fathers either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:52 AM
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Didn't even think of bullies since I wasn't. Definitely another reason why men aren't trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:16 AM
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I have a deaf daughter, you are unable to communicate with her but you didn't care in the first place. She understands hygiene without understanding spoken English. She doesn't understand or interested in sex at seven. You only care because you're a pervert. You groom her instead of parent because you don't understand her struggles. We our trying to teach her she's not different while dealing with people who demand they are different. You're not different just selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:31 PM
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Sports in general build character. My family never showed but other parents stepped up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:17 PM
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"Zero" success but the opportunity was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:14 PM
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Grooming means preparing someone sexually, hence the term grooming. There's will be always be people willing to call what it is versus who want to change into want to mean what they want to mean. An 18 year old who wants to have have sex with an eight year predatory. Sexual contact is sexual, common sense. Two plus two equals four not five, even a single cell knows thats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:11 PM
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But it can be changed by people who actually care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:59 PM
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Wow, you're so out of touch of reality. Socialization is to teach kids how to interact with their peers. Grooming is to sexualize children so sexual predators can abuse them. Put the Kool aid down!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:58 PM
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Nailed pretty much what I was trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:56 PM
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Kids really aren't socialized the same nowadays. I hate having to call people especially since I know in most cases I'm going to see them in the next 24 to 48 hours and can still organize a weekend get together of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:17 PM
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How you present yourself helps. If you go clean shaven or a maintained beard, unruly just doesn't look good. One of my friends grow out his beard and looked like a crazy homeless man. He has a great personality and very friendly but during the crazy beard phase he was very unapproachable looking. Same with resting asshole face and smiling. Smiling is just more approachable in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:21 PM
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The majority of men don't care if you're a size double zero or a size ten. If we find you attractive and vibing with us we will try. I dated fat women and women who have/had eating disorders. Women less concerned with their waist size are incomparable more fun to interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:56 PM
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Another thing is most men are not good at talking to women or people in general. Something I really noticed after switching career paths. I used to work to be a high school librarian, obviously I worked with a lot more women. Switched to working for the state and would say it's more balanced between the sexes. Blown away how many men are clueless on how to hold a conversation with women or people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:19 PM
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Always try to become friends, more likely to meet her friends. And being vetted by mutual friend helps in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:14 PM
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It's only creepy because you have no clue about this sports stars because the media said you should. Tell me about what age group did the women's soccer lost to before they won their 4th World Cup. You don't and don't care about women's sports because that would actually be caring about non straight white males.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:00 AM
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Exactly what a neckbeard would say, that the point is for wank bank material. Only losers jerk off and that's being nice. You won't like what I would actually call you. Go ahead with the loser Andrew Tate BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:48 AM
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Okay neckbeard, continue engaging through your keyboard instead of in person. The same can be said about Megan Rapinoe, who do you think a straight man will go for Brittney Griner, Megan Rapinoe or Labron James, Tom Brady?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:27 AM
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This sub is about gendered issues and women's sports in general have been a hot topic the last few years. What do I know since women can't even be defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:21 AM
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Originally it was just because they were running around now that's an added benefit. Field hockey really caught my attention since a lot of players come from other countries and those players go out of their ways to spend time with players from their home country from other teams. And as someone who played rugby in college a handful of teammates were from Australia and New Zealand so I see why something so small is really huge for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:07 AM
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You're not wrong but it's something I've noticed in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:03 AM
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All my gay friends love wrestling because of the singlet. Which I totally get since your not hiding anything with that uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:01 AM
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A big part is media presence in the news, TMZ and social media. I work for a university with several ranked women's sports teams, all have strong social media but very little else where. The field hockey team made it to the final four in the national championship tournament, three teams are from the Big10 conference first time in NCAA history in any sport to do so. Other than ESPN and other sports related media almost no other presence. They can't control that but what all the teams with excepti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:37 PM
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There is a possibility it's a good fit but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:39 AM
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I worked with someone who's in recover and her baby daddy is an on and user of whatever he can get his hands on. I would highly suggest to everyone to never date and addict of any drug. Seeing her struggles as a single mother and dealing with him and his crazy religious family disown the kids but not their shithead son was tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:00 AM
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Understanding biological differences and needs isn't sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:44 PM
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The majority of men have negative reactions from bringing up their issues. So we bury them often with drugs and or alcohol. Even as far as ending it all. There will have to be a cultural shift in how equality is treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:47 PM
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Weight isn't as important to men as society says. Most men would date a woman who's 10-15 pounds overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:44 PM
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The foreskins functions similarly to eyelids, both are moving skin. With a circumcised penis the head pulls women's natural lubrication out while an intact penis the foreskin pretty much stays in place while thrusting creating a natural barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:48 AM
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More towards women in circumcising cultures. The foreskin isn't gross and serves a sexual purpose. Two reasons, it's the male version of lubrication and acts as a plug to keep her natural lubrication where it belongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:13 AM
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Their only one I've listen too but she's a legit dating coach and puts out similar content as male dating coaches. Legit dating coaches don't push one night stands. Allow the arguing to commence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:30 PM
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Keep the laughs coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:22 PM
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Trolling it is, at this point you're only validating incel ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:13 PM
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Either this is a troll post or is someone who thinks everyone is an incel just like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:04 PM
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Are you trolling this sub or did you mean to submit this to an incel supporting sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:21 PM
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I wouldn't say all men but most have little experience, taking bad advice and often times don't a role model to learn from. The rise of the pick up artist scene more often than not gives bad advice that typically only for getting sex. But there is a rising trend of legit dating coaches who encourage self improvement and learning skills that make a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:36 PM
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I work for a university library, see a lot of the same people in the same sections. Several members of the field hockey and women's ice hockey teams study in the library, student athletes get special jackets and back packs that make is obvious they play a sport. If your school does something similar it's an easy open to at least talk to them. Even though I hate the show The Big Bang Theory but they really nailed the "smart" girl look. Al though this is more something I've noticed is the majority…
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:33 PM
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Yeah, it's very easy to fall in to and hard to get of.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:46 PM
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Relax and good luck!
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:35 AM
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Even though not specific to this sub get comfortable talking with people you don't know even if its just small talk.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:30 AM
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I've always been attracted to women a little on the muscular side. Pretty sure its a psychological thing because it shows they take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:20 PM
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Not trying to change your view but personality helps but more in a compatibility way. Most men just don't know how to escalate or too shy to do so. And often times don't notice any sign of potential interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:12 PM
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I work for a university and I know the hot college girl look all too well. I understand the simplicity and comfort of spandex. But at the same I can't help but think since a lot of people meet their significant other during college that it's a bit of competition between women to be more attractive. Side note but relevant is a conversation I overheard by a group of college women. They were talking about how little they ate that day. It was shocking how normalized for them to eat so little was. As…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:06 PM
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Unintentionally by working on being friendlier with people I see on any kind of regularity.
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:06 PM
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Also wear age and situational appropriate clothing.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:37 AM
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I was about to make a similar non specific ideology post. No one is perfect but people need to learn to accept to become better.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:48 PM
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One easy thing you can do is simply ask women where the closest coffee shop is. Especially since Starbucks are pretty common. It helps build up getting used to talking to women. Over time try making the conversations longer.
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:11 AM
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Moisturizer does wonders!
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:06 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:07 PM
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Wouldn't be surprised that the majority of long term relationships started off as friends with benefits. A lot of complaints/posts I've heard/read are about sexual incompatibility. Building a lasting healthy relationship is both personal and sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:32 PM
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Many comments have alluded to this but I'll simplify it. Start small and slowly build up to where you feel comfortable. Hopefully he'll start learning to pick up on your signals.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:52 PM
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Damn white supremacy attacking an immigrant.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/22 04:29 AM
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Almost made a similar post recently. Only would have added some kind of sense of humor. You don't have to be funny, just be able to keep the conversation interesting.
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:40 AM
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It's more about taking care of your body, women will notice that. You don't have be jacked.
/r/seduction14/06/22 08:52 PM
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I've never felt comfortable talking with people I don't know. A couple things I started doing is asking questions like where's the closest coffee shop, favorite local restaurant suggestions or commenting on the weather. Then trying to keep the conversation going for a few minutes. Just to become more comfortable even it goes nowhere. It's a learning process.
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:37 AM
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What enough women don't realize how much effort men have to put into a potential relationship with often little to no return. Against popular belief the majority of straight people want meaningful relationships and sex is a part of that package. It would be nice to have an occasional sexually bonding moment with someone I'd like to try to build a long lasting relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:20 AM
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I've only had two girlfriends. I'll gladly admit I wasn't the greatest of boyfriends, in no means bad, was just trying to figure out how to navigate my issues and dating someone with issues. All while trying to build a relationship. Just having my issues dismissed while being told I don't have any made me not want to date, all while craving intimacy. It doesn't have to be perfect by any means. It would be nice to be occasional validated that I'm struggling. Doesn't have to be much, just understo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:18 AM
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You should work for the FDA, approve ineffective products and deny effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:34 AM
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Vasalgel was approved in India in 2012. The FDA won't approve it because of money. Female birth control is more lucrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:37 AM
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If only the FDA would approve Vasalgel. But no big phrama would lose money,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:08 PM
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I received a summons notice and was immediately denied. Weird how I have to fill out the same paperwork to not be willingly somewhere I don't want to be.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/22 03:26 PM
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I think this has to do more with fear and societal judgement. I'm in total agreement with your post though. Some interaction will go well, some won't. It's all a learning experience and how will anyone learn if they don't make the attempt. And the majority of women are totally cool with a simple chat up. So why not make the attempt even if its a loss. It's a learning experience. Some, maybe most, just don't have the gall to do it.
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:56 AM
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The only MRA stance I hold is the right to bodily anatomy. Sorry but male circumcision benefits are bogus at best. The practice in western countries was to stop masturbation not actual health issues. Urine tract infections among women are three times higher than men for life. Penile cancer is super rare, men are considerably more likely to get breast cancer while not having breast tissue. The claim of lower chances of STIs, have sex with someone with an STI, guess what now you have one too. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:51 AM
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It's an evolutionary preference for both men and women to prefer people who are at least appropriate body weight. No one has to perfect but making the effort to try is what is most attractive to to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:54 PM
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Some thing with very little or no recess. Physical exercise is not only good for the body but brain development. And come on recess and PE were the best times of the day during elementary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:39 PM
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Sports were actually created to keep military age men in shape in times of peace. With the growing obesity epidemic, increased children without a father figure and shaming of boys has slowly created the problem of boys failing to grow up and become the adults they were meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:22 PM
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Why are you so obsessed with wanting women to crave above average penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:25 AM
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Average penis size in the US is 5 to 6 inches. Average isn't what you decide it is. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:04 PM
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5 inches is actually average. Which means not big!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:39 PM
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Far too many men think women crave huge dick. The size of your member isn't that important nor do women prefer larger penis. When it comes to sex it's all about similar preferences and sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:58 AM
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That's what I was thinking, it's all about the money! Pretty sure that's why they're pushing a pill form.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:44 PM
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Surprised the FDA hasn't passed Vasalgel. Less then 1% of people who gotten had a serious problem. The only real issue was sensitivity at the sight of injection. Which is to be expected regardless of where the shot is given let alone on a sensitive body part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:49 PM
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Sadly there will never a fair equilibrium. Advantaging one side always disadvantages the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:04 PM
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The sad truth of dating is finding the right person takes a lot of effort. And love isn't something that's found it's built upon. This is going to sound very counter intuitive but instead of finding a partner find people you want to be friends with. Over time you'll met their friends and their friends. Next thing you know there's someone who is well suited to be more than just a friend in your life.
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:09 PM
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Yes and no. Chemistry is needed for both making partners and friends. There has to be s spark to build upon. Chemistry and sexual attraction is more important in a partner.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:13 PM
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I have a similar problem and now do it less. I go on walks or to the gym more often than not. There's more construct things we can with our free time.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:05 PM
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I will not get circumcised
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:55 PM
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That ego.
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:50 AM
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Drakker Noir and Tommy Hilfiger Tommy.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:34 PM
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One of the best pieces of advice I was given was similar to this. Really changed my mindset on approaching.
/r/seduction14/08/21 06:21 PM
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Continuing with the negative feedback, very telling on how you treat other people.
/r/seduction14/08/21 06:04 PM
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Thanks for the negativity!
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:25 PM
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Crazy thing I've noticed is the majority of people have no problem with people they aren't attracted to but when they do they are it's damn near impossible. I turned a basic business transaction into something memorable.
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:52 AM
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The biggest reason I started following this sub was to work on building better skills with conversation. The biggest attraction isn't general appearance but conversation. The downed tree was an easy bonding moment. Didn't even think through saying what I said as I left, just came out. Glad I said it since it validated my understanding of our previous interactions.
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:44 AM
2

Good chance she doesn't masturbate to even know what she likes. Try mutual masturbation, at least 20 minutes of foreplay, and slow and shallow thrusts
/r/seduction13/08/21 05:57 PM
2

I typically hit around 10-12 thousand on a average day. Not uncommon to hit 20 thousand on tough days.
/r/seduction13/08/21 06:48 AM
35

I've been going on walks when I get the urge, lost weight. Two birds one stone.
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:41 PM
16

Clean your room!
/r/seduction12/08/21 02:43 PM
6

Pretty good as long as Mr. Average made the effort to find and keep a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:17 PM
2

His sense of humor was very childish and far too often forced. It's like his sense of humor peaked in middle school.
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:07 PM
1

Height helps but it really comes down to personality and confidence. One of my male friends is 5'1 and has a great personality, he recently got engaged too. I used to work with a dude who is 5'5 and constantly lamented about dating at his height. He was constantly negative and always tried inserting his immature sense of humor into every interaction. Generally not a fun person to be around let alone forced to work with. Definitely think you're right that the majority of the hate come from men. B…
/r/seduction09/08/21 07:34 PM
8

If you're not actively making the house better it will only lose more interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:03 PM
2

Making friends as we age is hard but helps when it comes to dating. Make friends with a couple women, eventually you'll meet their friends and will already be vetted by the mutual friend. It's helped me.
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:36 PM
1

I completely understand where you're coming from. I also look for people who want to commit even if it's not in that moment. Finding that sweet spot id hard in a superficial dating world. We want something meaningful.
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:15 AM
1

Sadly it seems like lockdowns are making a comeback. Humans a social creature.
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:00 AM
8

You almost took the words out of my mouth! The majority of men are of average attractiveness and are highly unlikely to date a model. There's easier and cheaper ways to better your appearance by taking care of your body like working out, using moisturizer and a good haircut. Fashion is also key.
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:57 PM
11

Welcome to the world of dating! Casual is more common in college but that doesn't mean there are women who want something more. Just have to put yourself out there more. One thing I've done is made a couple female friends recently. Did this for two reasons, I don't have a lot of friends to begin and after a while I'll meet their female friends. Since we'd have a mutual friend I'll be immediately vetted by her.
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:29 PM
5

A good sense of humor helps. Work on becoming a better story teller, instead of trying to be funnier. Even a dull good story can be funny just by telling in an interesting way.
/r/seduction07/08/21 09:29 PM
7

Height helps, just like being in good shape does. Height is not a choice but working out is. But at the end of the day neither is why she chooses to stay with you, it's your personality and what you have in common. Work on what you can change not what you can't.
/r/seduction03/08/21 06:31 PM
3

It used to be common practice, kinda still happens, for parents who friends had kids to purposely have their kids play together in the hopes the kids would pair up. Especially if both kids have similar interests. It's actually a good idea since the majority of relationships started out as just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:37 PM
1

As a man in his mid thirties and single in a college town, it's easier than it should be to date a woman in their early twenties. There's a huge difference between being a good man and a creep. Women in general want a man of quality not a fuck boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:38 AM
0

It really depends on how you go about it. If you pursue the friend immediately after ending it is scummy. If it were to happen in a month or two wouldn't be since it's pretty common to meet partners through a mutual friend.
/r/seduction02/08/21 11:14 PM
1

r/malefashionadvice and get a leather jacket. Got mine at Kohls for $70
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:34 AM
-2

These needs to be the norm, sadly most men are selfish in bed.
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:27 AM
5

One of my friends is super woke and gave me a lecture about working on my dating skills was just trying to take advantage of women.
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:23 AM
1

I know your right but I can't help but be honest. Just don't want her to think I'm a player, I truly want a real meaningful relationship. I get being playful and mysterious just tired of playing the game.
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:20 AM
1

Damn, I'm definitely over thinking this. Another obvious to the point explanation, thanks!
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:36 AM
2

So simply and glaringly obvious, thanks for the input!
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:17 AM
3

A combination of things: shyness, often a sign of interest, bad timing, something caught her eye in another direction. Good chance it's most likely a mix of shyness and interest. If she looks away and tucks hair behind an ear dead give away of interest.
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:21 PM
1

I've gotten this question a lot and everyone is 5 to 9 years off. I've made it an inside joke that moisturizer can be used on other parts the body.
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:21 AM
1

Most men have very poor fashion sense. Height lifts could help but wearing properly sized cloths and a good haircut make a bigger difference. The clothes don't even have to be "high" fashion just more current. Seriously just buy a handful of polos , dress shirts, a couple pairs of dark jeans and a leather jacket. Hell you can do it on a budget, got a great leather jacket for $70 at Kohl's and several dress shirts at Good Will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:31 AM
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People are easily conditioned to think like their family and peer group. Read a study on the affects of social media on people. They found teenagers and especially girls are most affected by it. I also read that Instagram is rife with photoshopping,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:01 PM
1

It's common to have no trouble talking with the opposite sex we expect nothing from. With people we hope for more with it's harder because we would like something to blossom. Anxiety is a bitch, try calming exercises like meditating.
/r/seduction04/07/21 12:11 AM
1

Be funny not a comedian.
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:03 PM
2

I noticed a huge change when I purposely started keeping my head up and eyes forward. edit; missed a word
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:36 PM
2

Yes!
/r/seduction29/06/21 06:48 PM
1

It's all about finding purpose. Yes in the moment you're having fun but if it doesn't add value to your life it's not valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:38 AM
0

Using a prostitute makes men look weak and unable to get any naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:24 PM
2

Find a hobby!
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:09 AM
2

Just have to live in the moment and go slow. You're still learning what you like and enjoy.
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:22 PM
0

Humor is helpful in courting someone but keep it to a minimum. Be funny not a comedian.
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:01 PM
6

Dating is unnecessarily difficult and there's no better feeling then the look from someone who loves you. Good luck!
/r/seduction26/06/21 05:26 PM
1

The whole point of friends is to bring more value to your life.
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:31 AM
2

Do you work with women or have a handful of classes with the same women? Befriend between 2 to 4 women.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:46 AM
2

Make friends with a couple women. Your chances will be better with their friends.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:40 AM
3

Make friends with a couple women. Getting to know other women helped me and over time you'll meet their friends and you'll already vetted by by them.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:33 AM
2

You don't have to be completely honest but I think you should say something like you're inexperienced. It would put the idea in his head that he needs to be gentle
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:24 AM
5

Ex smoker myself and smelling like and ashtray is why I quit.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:19 AM
1

Best of luck!
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:17 AM
9

Nothing is more disgusting than kissing a smoke. All three gives the vibe you got you shit together.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:16 AM
6

Take the L and try building a friendship with her. After a while you'll meet her friends and she will have already vetted you for them.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:12 AM
1

Ill fitting clothes and not holding eye contact.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:06 AM
1

Sounds like he's spooked or busy.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:04 AM
24

I've never been good with natural conversations with strangers but have been working on such skills. One thing that made a big difference is working on word association skills. Let's say college comes up, you can ask where and or whats the craziest story from those years. Then address similar information especially if you have a funny story relating to that word.
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:47 AM
2

You noticed you missed out on a potential partner. It's part of the game, hell it may be the start of one.
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:32 AM
10

Have a pulse and a sense of humor. I know men need to be funny but a good sense of humor goes both whys.
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:18 AM
0

Isn't fun?!
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:32 AM
1

I noticed a weird transition when I started purposely walking. My arms now move more, maybe that could help.
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:42 PM
4

In college.
/r/seduction24/06/21 12:10 AM
8

Getting rejected is sadly a huge part of dating. Shave your head or keep it super short. I trim my bald head twice a week. Everyone has something they wish they could change about themselves but a positive mentality is game changer.
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:13 PM
1

None that I'm aware off but all my friends are either married or in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:20 PM
1

Totally agree and I used to be lazy! Well kinda still am but I'm getting my act together. I've noticed a huge change in how women interact with me. There's nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who value's their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:42 PM
5

I have a similar story and this is 100% accurate. A big thing for me was I stopped chasing for happiness, I found my purpose and happiness came along after I started getting my act together.
/r/seduction22/06/21 02:35 PM
2

Head up, eyes forward, never look at the ground, shoulders back and relaxed, shifting your shoulders back and forth is actually a sign of of confidence, and slow your walk down. There is a correlation between how slow you walk and general happiness.
/r/seduction21/06/21 07:02 PM
1

The biggest problem I see in the realm of dating is that women are generally propped up by modern norms. Get a college degree, get a great high paying job, excel in life. While men are blamed for everything wrong in women's lives. In increasing numbers men are dropping out, living in their parents basement and generally failing at life. Creating a lopsided world where one side is encouraged to be successful while the other is beaten down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:23 PM
0

Surprisingly more the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:01 AM
-1

11 years, last girlfriend is 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:10 AM
1

This article from Psychology Today says otherwise. This study also came to similar conclusion. You're welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:28 PM
3

I agree, I work for a very expensive large university. A lot of these kids are graduating with over $100,000 in debt. I'm a fare bit older than the average college student and yes a lot of women love older men. Older men typically have their lives together, a good career and are more likely to be ready to settle down. Get these vibes, the majority have unresolved issues with their fathers and or digging for that sweet sweet gold. The first is leaps and bounds above the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:04 PM
2

Dating is unnecessarily difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:52 PM
1

Appearance wise no but personality wise and confidence yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:12 PM
1

Women aren't interested because men didn't learn how to be attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:53 PM
1

That's why young men need to learn appropriate dating strategies. Teaching men helps women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:12 PM
1

The majority of men are raging pussies who can't pull the trigger on escalation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:50 PM
1

I blame the fact that men aren't learning the skills needed to be an attractive partner. Male only spaces are needed so we can learn those skills sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:41 PM
2

Appropriate body weight is an evolutionary indicator of overall health. Granted not everyone is healthier at their ideal weight but obesity brings on a plethora of easily avoidable health problems. Far too much of the blame is saddled on men. The majority of fashion designers are women and gay men. Also women are far more critical about their and other women's bodies. Look at women's social circles, the majority if not all their friends have similar weight to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:35 PM
5

A lot of people I work with play Dungeons and Dragons.
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:51 PM
1

I dated someone who was quite a bit younger than me. She was definitely dating me because of her unresolved issues with her piece of shit father. I tried hard to prove to her that not all men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:48 PM
19

Work at a library, can confirm this is 100% true.
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:34 PM
3

The majority of the world treat women similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:29 PM
1

Do women in he west have to sign up for the draft? No, they don't because society values women not men. Circumcising boys is completely legal in the US and doing the same to women is internationally illegal. Why, because women's lives are valued and men's aren't. A couple years ago when Boko Haram kidnapped all those girls it was international news. The same week they killed all the boys at another school and even a single mention of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:26 PM
1

Why do you care that western women are having fewer childern?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:11 PM
0

Yet the majority of women still can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:48 PM
3

Men are disposable because we can't create life. Men are required to sign up for selective services at 18 or never be able to vote while we can't legally drink or smoke until 21. We can be drafted to die in an unjust war but can't party. We now have a generation of pussified men who can't even provide for themselves let alone others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:09 PM
1

This is going to blow a lot of you away. A lot of women are attracted to older men for a few reasons. Older men typically are more mature, have a steady job, have more life experience, and are more likely ready to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:18 PM
2

A big change for me was trying to have more fun in general with all interactions. I've noticed people want to interact with me more because I'm not concerned by who they think I am but that I can at least make our brief time together enjoyable. My confidence has sky rocketed because I'm not trying to prove myself to them. I'm proving I enjoy my time.
/r/seduction02/06/21 10:03 AM
2

It's called a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:22 PM
1

Make friends with your friends age appropriate sisters. Start working out and find a hobby you love.
/r/seduction27/05/21 06:48 PM
1

Start slowly and add in new steps one at a time.
/r/seduction27/05/21 06:43 PM
1

Building a relationship is hard. Give it a shot.
/r/seduction27/05/21 03:42 AM
1

Why not start now.
/r/seduction27/05/21 12:29 AM
2

Because they enjoyed their time with you! Pull the trigger.
/r/seduction27/05/21 12:09 AM
1

Sounds like a yes!
/r/seduction27/05/21 12:00 AM
2

I learned all these the hard way by having a difficult childhood. And still blissfully ignore the signs just for some affection. It's an innate human desire for attention and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:26 PM
3

I think the problem is two fold. Women are given over inflated egos from all the positive reinforcement they receive. And men receive the opposite while not working on themselves to become a better potential partner. Women can fall deeply in love with men but men aren't living up to their full potential. I noticed a huge change in prospective partners when I started bettering myself. Went from way below my league to way out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:44 PM
15

You'd surprised how many shy women will give this look.
/r/seduction24/05/21 06:31 AM
1

When you get a hair tuck along with the look it's game on.
/r/seduction24/05/21 06:25 AM
2

I do, just stating the facts.
/r/seduction24/05/21 12:03 AM
5

Yes, thankful a lot of people think I'm 28 to 32.
/r/seduction23/05/21 07:01 PM
6

That's a great way to do so. Perfectly normal innocent approach.
/r/seduction23/05/21 06:59 PM
7

I'm turning 37 on the 26th.
/r/seduction23/05/21 06:59 PM
10

I live in a college town and work for the university. Granted I'm older than you but you're right. The majority of single women tend to be younger. I also feel awkward dating much younger women and also get a lot of attention from college girls.
/r/seduction23/05/21 06:58 PM
1

Both are correct but I'd say it's 35% bad personality/ selfishness to 65% good personality. Also the formation of either personality come more from family than other people. Used to work with two, one bad one good. I should mention I live and work in a college. I had meet good's parents years before and they are wonderful. Met bad's parents at work and bad's parent's treated the waitstaff terribly. Nature and nurture. edit; word
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:33 AM
4

Depends on the situation. If she was unhappy in that relationship then not at all. If she was happy yes, a huge red flag.
/r/seduction22/05/21 01:38 AM
0

It's super easy, have a vagina, be interested and make me earn having sex for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:32 AM
1

I would love if she was a teacher. My mother was a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:09 AM
1

Tripp Advice and Joyanima
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:01 AM
1

I wish I could more helpful. All I can suggest that you keep showing you're showing you're the partner who's willing to be the rock and hard place
/r/seduction20/05/21 09:10 AM
6

As a person who had a difficult childhood, I've learned the hard way of how to approach those who haven't resolved their trauma. The hardest part is showing you're not what they think is the standard for them. Slowly push for more, prove you're looking for something meaningful
/r/seduction20/05/21 08:38 AM
1

I have a deeper raspy voice and have a tendency to speak softly. Throw in the mask and it's impossible to hear me. Sadly we're all stuck with all this.
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:25 PM
2

A good mix of muscle and chubbiness. Shows you take care of yourself but aren't obsessed with it.
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:21 PM
1

Dude, I'm 37 and live in a college town. I do really well with grad PhD students.
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:19 PM
4

Not really, I've gotten some odd looks when it pops off the first time and that's really it.
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:20 AM
1

Make them laugh.
/r/seduction18/05/21 10:31 PM
8

Onlyfans is the perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:43 PM
5

Never bring it up directly unless asked. I have Tourettes and jokingly call it out when it happens.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:16 PM
5

I've also noticed if a woman holds eye contact and or looks down/hair tuck are dead give away of initial interest.
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:02 PM
2

Bettering oneself is attractive in both genders, don't at me that bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:09 AM
5

If Chris Evan's didn't maintain eye contact he do very poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:50 PM
11

It's more about getting over approach anxiety.
/r/seduction17/05/21 10:38 AM
2

Not going to lie touching is still hard for me. The shoulder is a very neutral body part.
/r/seduction17/05/21 10:38 AM
1

Not really
/r/seduction17/05/21 02:56 AM
1

and the problem is?
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:57 AM
1

yes
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:37 AM
5

It's incredibly effective! Their slogan is a Starbucks on every corner, so there will be one near by.
/r/seduction17/05/21 12:49 AM
10

Start ask women where the closet Starbucks is. Every week add more to what your like holding the conversation for at least 5, ask their name, ask for their number, and add in touching last.
/r/seduction16/05/21 11:22 PM
2

Do word association practice. Like if she says a specific sport. Start talking about it. Also work on your sense of humor.
/r/seduction16/05/21 08:47 PM
2

The majority of the time it’s a rejection. Part of the game.
/r/seduction16/05/21 08:41 PM
1

Good job me for not finishing. Then hold the conversation for five minutes. Then asking for her number, get rejected as much as possible. Each step should last for at least a week and you should be approaching at least 10 women.
/r/seduction16/05/21 08:40 PM
1

Make friends with all the women you work with. After a while you’ll meet their friends and she’s already vetted you your chance are better. Start walking around and approach as many women as you can. Start simply like asking where the closest Starbucks is. Theb hold
/r/seduction16/05/21 08:38 PM
1

What worked for me was just trying to maintain an engaging conversation for longer. So when I actually found some I was attracted to, the conversation flowed a lot better.
/r/seduction16/05/21 08:32 PM
2

I hate saying this but bars are more popular with the people closer to your age. And there's nothing wrong with dating someone older. Yeah you'll get some looks but not your problem. Edit; Younger men are also less confident with themselves.
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:59 PM
3

You said it's not but you can change that. There's something off in your approach and or conversation skills. Try just talking to women without the intent of more.
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:56 PM
1

I've only found two that give advice that actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 07:50 PM
1

Find a comedy club. You're not angry, you're frustrated that it's going in your favor. Change your mindset become The Dude. Find your rug that makes the room.
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:49 PM
1

Do your friends think your funny? You're also stuck in your head.
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:40 PM
1

Work on your fashion and humor. If you can make a woman laugh you're pure gold.
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:32 PM
1

Not a fan of his, try Tripp Advice and Joyanima are really good.
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:20 PM
1

Have you working on bettering yourself across the board?
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:14 PM
1

Best of luck.
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:13 PM
2

Saying date is become rare. I think its better to say date than hangout. It shows you're mature. edit; word
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:02 PM
1

Depends how good your game is. Buy I say the average is about 25%.
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:01 PM
1

I've never really complained about either just wish I was more of a catch. I actually started going to church to find a partner is looking for something more serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:35 PM
1

War, famine and disease are no longer a problem for the majority of the world. So men aren't proving themselves as the strength women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:33 PM
0

Make an observation about whats happening around both of you. I had a long conversation with a woman today about a toolbag driving his suped up car like a prick. Flat out said We get it you have a small dick. She laughed hard at that remark.
/r/seduction16/05/21 12:51 AM
1

Lesson learned, try learning Spanish.
/r/seduction16/05/21 12:18 AM
2

The only thing stopping you is you.
/r/seduction16/05/21 12:17 AM
2

One thing he's said is dating isn't about sex, it's about making your life better. Sex is just a bonus.
/r/seduction16/05/21 12:15 AM
2

Dressing better really helps.
/r/seduction16/05/21 12:07 AM
3

All I can think is you were too direct early on.
/r/seduction16/05/21 12:03 AM
1

Check out Tripp Advice.
/r/seduction15/05/21 11:54 PM
3

Good on quitting porn. Musical theater is super popular with women and gay men, so you'll automatically a hot commodity. Find a musical theater company, improv group, and or a choir.
/r/seduction15/05/21 11:46 PM
1

This!
/r/seduction15/05/21 11:02 PM
1

What are you're interests?
/r/seduction15/05/21 11:01 PM
1

How clean it is matters.
/r/seduction14/05/21 06:27 PM
1

I'd say the majority of people want to couple up. I think there's two reason why some people don't want to anymore, a traumic relationship and a bitter divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:48 PM
9

I work for a university and can confirm that colleges are adapting to what women are more likely to be interested in too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:44 PM
5

Agreed, I definitely see younger women wanting more than an endless cycle of pump and dump. While younger are seeing it as an opportunity to get as much as possible and never settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:35 PM
2

She's telling you she's sexually interested with out flat out saying it.
/r/seduction13/05/21 10:41 PM
1

Build a inside joke about it. edit; missed word
/r/seduction13/05/21 08:50 PM
5

Stand up, also helps build humor. Why not double down!
/r/seduction13/05/21 08:47 PM
1

Children do better with a father figure in the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:26 PM
4

Those are women that all men should avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:04 PM
1

Entertain yourself.
/r/seduction13/05/21 01:37 PM
3

There is a shortage of quality men. Most men are pussies, women don't date pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:22 PM
3

Finances are easier to admit to then admitting their just not a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:20 PM
1

Dating is hard for me because the majority of women my age are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:56 PM
1

Believe whatever you want but the majority of are pussy losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:43 AM
0

Good for you, do you want a cookie?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:00 AM
1

There's a growing trend of younger people not having basic life skills. Men have less handy man skills, which is a turn off women. Women, especially now a days, are less likely to home making skills. For both sexes theres a growing number of people who don't have skill sets that compliment potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:33 PM
10

I think women get bored a lot faster then men. What men don't understand they have to maintain the allure that attracted her in the first place throughout the entire relationship. I know finances is the biggest reason divorces but I think men not be the same person she fell in love with is the most important reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:25 PM
1

You're never to old to learn these skills.
/r/seduction11/05/21 07:41 PM
3

Men have to step up and stop being pussies. The common euphemism is that women are the prize but it's really men are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:50 PM
1

Believe whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:46 PM
1

Do you know what the current dad bod is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:11 PM
2

You'd get more being the confident less attractive man than the attractive man who doesn't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:10 PM
0

Only selfishly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:09 PM
2

Lack of confidence is very weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:35 AM
1

That's an idea not a reality. Multiple studies have proven that women prefer more of a dad body, clearly works out but isn't in great shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:35 AM
1

Don't tell my retired Israeli sniper girlfriend that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:33 AM
8

Taking advantage of more "feminine" attributes can be helpful. I've noticed with the backpack that it screams that I'm so comfortable with myself that I'm willing break with conventional "manly"attire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:32 AM
0

Same with Abs and Preach, he's like a honey badgers with arrogant people.
/r/seduction11/05/21 01:22 AM
21

Dude I use eyebrow makeup and use a Vera Bradley backpack. Straight women prefer strong confident men, any sign of "weakness" is a turn off for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:04 AM
2

She still has to be turned on. It typically takes women 20 to 30 minutes to be mentally and physically turn for comfortable pleasurable sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:00 AM
2

You just proved my point, women aren't visually turned on. A big turn on for women is men with motivation, who try to turn into that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:35 PM
2

Women read romance novels for a reason. Women have to be in the mood for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:03 PM
1

Straight, I think they do when their horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:58 PM
1

Perfect quote
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:20 PM
-2

Well, I wouldn't be physically attracted but I would want to be friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:19 PM
1

Agreed, I hate the new narrative. Sorry there is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:18 PM
4

Painfully so, both my gay friends send me unsolicited dick pics all the time. I think it's because men who do it is because they think women's hornyness works like that. Men with common sense know that women are more cerebral when it comes to getting turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:59 PM
-2

For me personality is more important. You can be supermodel attractive and if you have a toxic personality you're automatically a zero. Looks matter but personality is paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:54 PM
8

Society doesn’t care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:08 PM
2

Good question, why are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:13 PM
1

Call it all you want, the vast majority of reasons women break up with men is because he fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:23 PM
3

Why do you think the majority of divorces are initiated by women? Because he fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:29 PM
2

You're not wrong that men want a "trophy" wife and that divorce is most of the time men's fault. But the rest you're way off. I think the biggest issue is that most men don't know the red flags of a toxic partner. And men will do almost anything for sex. Start a Grindr profile with no picture or bio and see how many men hit you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:32 PM
5

You're not wrong but with the growing number of men listening to Jordan B Peterson and red pill material. I'd see more women who want a long term relationship/marriage changing their tune.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:19 PM
1

Sadly yes, most men will do anything to have sex. Another problem is most men are pussies so they stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:30 AM
5

I'm going to get a lot of hate for this but hear me out. I foresee overtime women returning back to a more traditional role. Like wearing dresses, cooking, cleaning the house, wanting to be a stay at home mom, going to church. If sex is the only positive attribute men won't stick around when that well dries up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:25 AM
1

Exactly, I feel more confident with my stage persona not my in person persona. Build both.
/r/seduction07/05/21 12:19 AM
1

I work for a university, much older then average college student, and I do very well with girls who didn't have a father. Every single one of them lamented about the lack of a consistent male role model when they were growing up. So much emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:42 PM
-2

It is a moral and ethical obligation to protect women. Women bare life so men must be willing to lose theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 02:21 PM
14

At the college I attended a sorority get suspended for hazing. They had all the pledges strip naked and the sisters marked what parts of the pledged body they needed to fix. I get it greek life does horrible things to pledges but what they did promotes eating disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 10:17 PM
2

Oh my god yes. I work at a huge university and over hear a lot of women talking with their friends about this walking walk around campus. Overheard one the other day about one woman crushing hard on a guy and he wasn't even trying. Still feel bad for her. Edit; the big reason why Jordan Peterson is wildly popular amongst young men is he articulates ideas and direction the majority of men never once heard in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:10 PM
1

Women love sex too. Two reasons the majority of women don't chase for it. They don't want to seen as sluts and since women have more to risk by getting pregnant they are subconsciously more careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:57 AM
1

Love that quote.
/r/seduction03/05/21 07:46 AM
2

I started doing stand and go to writing group that are women. I was kinda surprised since professional comedy is still pretty male dominated.
/r/seduction02/05/21 09:19 PM
2

I noticed that a lot people laugh at what I say. Look for clubs and local open mic nights. Got with a club and two open mics.
/r/seduction02/05/21 09:03 PM
1

Wouldn't be surprised that it's a combination of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:30 PM
1

Strong men still wait to be put into that situation, they don't start it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:41 AM
1

Clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:40 AM
1

I also carry a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:40 AM
1

You want to play the war crime game, whats the Butcher of Ugandas name? How about the Columbian dictator from the '70s? I know about the worst of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:39 AM
9

Just have to put ourselves out there. Don't wait for the opportunity to present itself, make the opportunity.
/r/seduction02/05/21 04:19 AM
2

Started doing stand up. The workshop group I'm in has more women.
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:54 AM
3

Embrace it, show it off.
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:48 AM
57

It's so much harder make friends after graduation, the hardest part is also living in a college town and being older the average age for college. Be more social at work. I got super lucky with my job. I work with a very tight knit small unit at a large university. I'm the only one not in a relationship. I met their significant others and over time the majority of if not all their friends. Also started doing stand up, most of the workshop group are women. Granted theres hobbies where women are mo…
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:09 AM
3

Thats exactly what I should have said! Thanks for the input.
/r/seduction02/05/21 12:16 AM
3

The crazy thing is I work for a university and slay with college girls. I'm old enough to be all their fathers. The difference between him and I is know what is appropriate banter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:45 AM
1

The whole point of this sub is to talk about inter gender issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:41 AM
2

Thats genius. I'm clever and would have never thought of that.
/r/seduction01/05/21 04:32 AM
12

I'm a slow walker and every time she has a similar walking speed I freak out. Don't want to be that guy.
/r/seduction01/05/21 04:30 AM
9

I've decided I'm doing that next week, just want to become more comfortable just talking. Never been good at small talk
/r/seduction01/05/21 04:05 AM
83

About every hundred yards and it's a small town. One girl flat out called me out because the building I work in on campus has one. Like holy crap you already know me?!
/r/seduction01/05/21 03:59 AM
1

The majority of people demand a strict training, hence why basic training is beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:16 AM
1

You'd be the first to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:15 AM
1

Kind of, more it enforces stronger morals in those who survive. I had to do horrible things and I don't want others to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:00 AM
1

And yet births are dying in first world countries, while third world countries have sky high birth rates. One has almost no conflict while the other children are carrying guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:59 AM
1

but it is, women are more attracted to strong males.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:57 AM
1

I agree on everyone getting some type of basic training. The Miami Dade prison has a rotc program for non violent offenders and they have a 80% no repeat result. Why? Because they received the structure they needed to stay out of trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:56 AM
1

You'll never love someone of the same sex until they have your ass covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:54 AM
1

We've all down horrible things for dumb reasons. We don't need a gun and stupid reason to end someone else's life, humans do it naturally all the time. Those who are lucky learned how to keep their hands down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:53 AM
2

Exactly, war survivors learn when it's appropriate to raise their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:50 AM
1

Big reason why I think war is necessary is that far too many men are straight up pussies. I've seen what war does to people, when a firework goes off my girlfriend goes full panic mode. Someone got hit by a car in front of my apartment a few months back, she saw it happen, and she still hasn't gotten in a car. I had to receive training from a military psychologist to help her cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:00 AM
1

Straight facts, I can't help but expect the worst from people but hope the best from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:43 AM
1

Tell me how wwII started, unjust beginning. US joining was just but the treatment of Japanese Americans was unjust. I agree there are reasons to justly enter into a war just never to start one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:42 AM
2

People force each other into corners where it's fight or flight. Stronger men stand their ground and never hit first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:40 AM
2

Violence should always be he last option but it's usually the first first act. I also support The Purge, the majority of people need to think about how their actions affect others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:31 AM
1

No war is just, the reason behind every war is selfishly vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:29 AM
0

It still shocks me how many people are complaining about something as basic as covering their germ holes. Granted I'm not afraid of the cool but come on people grow up and wear it in the grocery store. It's basic human decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:27 AM
1

Both my parents hit me as a kid. Try understand being told to man up at 7 by your school with a black eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:24 AM
1

Because your weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:23 AM
0

weak human
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:23 AM
1

The reason I'm red pill is because I see how many men, myself included, are total pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:34 PM
4

This is exactly what men need to hear.
/r/seduction28/04/21 11:44 PM
2

Lets say a woman says college, so you ask whats her major, what school, where you attended. Three separate directions that keeps the conversation going.
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:43 AM
1

But men have to be better, be better. Be the change not the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:40 AM
2

Both could can be used for gay men and lesbians. The majority of men don't have the skills and/or traits that women find more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:28 PM
1

Word association
/r/seduction27/04/21 02:07 AM
1

I agree with the majority of feminism just not the pussification of men. What I've learned is women don't want losers, be strong in your values
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:43 PM
2

I've always wanted to give a kid the childhood they deserve, not what I was given. I took full advantage of the lockdowns to learn what I was missing. Apparently youtube is self aware and started suggesting creators that focused on building those skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:59 PM
1

Just dropping a common misconception of what Geisha were.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:51 PM
1

Learned the hard way how women and men are treated at an early age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:28 AM
3

It took decades of acceptance after getting hit by my parents while my sister didn't get a single hand layed on her to accept the truth. Some of us learned the hard way. edit:freaking autocorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:01 AM
0

Not at all is the standard is the standard for women. Earn it not given it. The majority of men don't understand their pleasure means having to cater too women's desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:54 AM
2

Women matter more, get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:50 AM
-1

Only when she proves she's toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:06 AM
2

Bring the resources first, be the object of affection not a stopping stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:04 AM
0

Provide resources for sex, pretty obvious .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 04:24 AM
2

I did, technically we "work" together, she's employed by the business I work for to garden. I also took all the free to work on myself. We got lucky both of us enjoy the outdoors and theres a lot of parks and trails nearby, wheres it's easier to social distance. I found it oddly easier because I have limited interactions with students so I was able to actually engage with the people I wanted to talk with. Instead of getting only a couple minutes with her and then answering a sea of stupid questi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:24 AM
1

A bad personality is a huge turn off for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:01 AM
2

Some people are attracted to fat women, they're called feeders. I'm a chubby chaser, like 10 to 15 pounds over weight. Wouldn't be surprised most aren't physically attracted to them but are personality attracted. A great personality is very attractive for both sexes. regardless of weight or orientation. I had a personality crush on comedian Ralphie May and at his heaviest he hit 500.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:00 AM
2

Women evolutionarily look for the best mate. I think it's a combination of the majority of men are not good with women, the majority of people want to be in a monogamous relationship, and being cheated on doesn't feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:52 AM
19

A big reason men fail is because they're nervous, obvious sign you're not confident.
/r/seduction26/04/21 12:41 AM
3

Most people don't know this Geisha's weren't prostitutes, that's a misconception started during WWII. They sole job was to entertain men through banter, music, dance etc etc. The concept is engrained in their society, just being a geisha became less common. The west equivalent would being a Nice Guy. It simply hasn't gotten to that point since enough men haven't been pussified.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:52 PM
0

Very rarely see unattractive women. But I also live in a college town and work for the university. Even if their chubby or a not so good looking, their still pretty average. edit: incomplete comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:41 PM
3

Forgot to put this in my comment. Women do need to put in the work in learning what they like sexually. And it's man's job to dial in the combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:39 PM
5

And women want men to provide them with a better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:16 PM
8

Regardless of what modern wisdom says women prefer providers. And if men want to have sex we have no choice in providing the most pleasure with can. It also shows that the man she's sexually investing herself with is unselfish. Male pleasure always needs to be second or even not all sometimes. edit: missed a word
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:48 PM
2

Becoming better brings happiness. Become attractive
/r/seduction24/04/21 02:48 AM
2

Become better and the confidence comes along.
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:58 AM
2

I agree that confidence is a small detail but it's a huge aspect of attraction. Women are more attracted to a potential partners when they are trying to become better. We matter to ourselves. My girlfriend loves I'm maintaining my sobriety, went sober a week before our first date. I'm not doing it for her, I'm doing it for me. Almost grabbed a beer around her and she grabbed my hand instead, the look of we're staying sober broke my heart.
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:54 AM
4

I wouldn't feel confident, I choose to be confident. Embrace it, no one is perfect. Not even Lebron James.
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:11 AM
1

It feels so good, it screams love me.
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:04 AM
1

That look of you matter to me hurts my soul. Wish I started earlier.
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:00 AM
1

Women are much more specific in what traits that they find attractive, men aren't. Come on men it's an obvious blueprint, learn it, love it, live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:42 PM
75

The hardest part is convincing ourselves we're good enough. That we deserve good and to be loved.
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:39 AM
9

Far too many men don't have the skills that women find attractive. I have male friends who are model attractive and have zero social skills while less attractive male friends have mad social skills. Work in, pleasure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:25 AM
3

I started making small talk with as many strangers, male and female regardless of appearance. I was never good at small talk but know I'd rate myself at a 7 out of 10. Communication is a huge part of attraction!
/r/seduction22/04/21 01:52 AM
1

I started doing word association games with myself. Look up words then say at least two sentences about that word. It can be a question, a statement, it could change the direction of the conversation. It can be anything.
/r/seduction20/04/21 08:13 PM
11

Getting rejected sucks but the game is fun.
/r/seduction18/04/21 01:33 AM
1

That I can't have any problems. I was hit by both my parents, I was homeless, and I'm a recovering alcoholic. I punched a mirror once because of how much I hated myself. It took over a decade of hard work and therapy to get where I am now. I also have womb envy, I've always wanted the ability to create life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 11:37 PM
-2

Men are blamed for everything. Kinda think all the wokeness is fueling men turning to inceldom. Men aren't learning the skills and attributes that help men do well in life and especially with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 11:22 PM
3

Definitely girlfriend, multiple partners is painfully high school and college mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 12:39 AM
2

My input is such groups prescreen new comers. If they match up with the in group they are good in-group options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:34 AM
1

I only "shame" people for making bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 12:03 AM
2

I blame the pussification of boys. Boys aren't being taught the skills and attributes that women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:58 AM
1

More complimentary to my goal. Are arguments are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 10:42 PM
3

I love how you specifically mention not a vegan.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:53 PM
7

You're completely right. Personality plays a huge factor for men even women deny it. If you have an ugly personality you're an ugly person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:44 PM
3

Because they no longer need male validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:20 AM
1

I freaking love it and wonder what he did to land her. edit: missed a word
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:20 AM
2

Humans are naturally inclined to want kids, sorry younger women are more capable in having children than older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:15 AM
1

Yes, I'd do it immediately. Sadly I'd be a very unattractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:54 PM
1

Its pretty common in polygamy sects of Mormonism to kick out younger males. Even if they did absolutely nothing wrong. I think they're referred to as Lost Boys. edit: missed a word
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:02 PM
3

Small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:52 PM
0

not if they switch mid walk.
/r/seduction05/04/21 07:41 AM
1

shift your shoulder a little more.
/r/seduction05/04/21 01:15 AM
0

Dead serious, notice 2 yesterday and 2 today. With other identifiers mixed in.
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:10 AM
1

Realized I didn't answer the question, I wish it wasn't a thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:08 AM
1

I actually came to this realization today. All my girlfriends have been from other countries, I have a thing for accents. I like my subconscious decided that for me because I'm not circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:59 PM
4

Romcoms where the lovable loser wins the girl at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:39 PM
0

Women aren't raised to be obsessed with their looks, it's a evolutionary trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:09 PM
-2

Matching my shoulder movement has been a great identifier. Wished I noticed earlier.
/r/seduction04/04/21 04:45 AM
1

My point proven! Sex obsessed people are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:35 AM
1

Never said I was desired, just gay men are ruthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:27 AM
-1

Because it means men can't get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:55 AM
1

I would love having my hardships admitted to but my girlfriend is completely deaf. So she wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:41 AM
1

I joined Grindr years ago just to see what it was like. No picture, no bio, no nothing. My phone blew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:23 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:33 PM
1

The only thing I think the redpill needs needs to change is to have more advice to better you chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:33 PM
2

Depends on the club but yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:28 PM
1

Women are attracted to confidence, strength and humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:30 PM
2

You're almost right. My mother as an example was a stay at home mom who held a part time job while the kids at were school. It gave her some more purpose and something to do that wasn't just family. A little independence and it also helped with the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:55 PM
1

And some people turn their disadvantages in to advantages. Eddie Boggs played professional basketball is 5'3, average NBA height 6'7.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:28 PM
2

Very much so, I hit almost every school shooter criteria. Don't worry I'm not that person. Both my parents beat me as kid and never laid a hand on my sister. The elementary school we attended asked her is she was being hurt too. They never even had a meeting with me. I learned very young my life didn't matter at all simply because of whats between my legs. It took over a decade of weekly therapy to have a some what normal strained relationship with my parents. It also gave me an extreme hatred o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:17 AM
1

Now you serious assuming my gender and immigration status? Such white male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:08 AM
1

It's only considered bullying by the weak. Seriously your parents should have beat you harder. People like me would have loved being treated like a privileged white kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:54 AM
1

your parents should have treated you like a serial killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:40 AM
1

i't must be nice having rich parent's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:31 AM
1

Easy mode must be nice. Try working 60 hours a week and still having paying to the government for being poor with a college degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 01:17 AM
1

Must be nice, being poor and homeless sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:25 AM
1

Good luck in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:01 AM
1

Issues with pair bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:13 PM
0

The feminization of boys also plays a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 10:55 PM
1

Identifying as a male feminist is a dead giveaway their a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:41 AM
1

Granted I'm not that type of redpiller but my mother is married to naval commander which I'd consider pretty alpha position. My sister did do that. Her husband is a great guy, they're a good couple so I don't think he was manipulated into marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:55 PM
2

Don't worry it gets better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:32 PM
1

Only when I was college, but in my 30's it's got a lot better. It's an easy way to pre deselect vane women. I don't shave my head because I break out really easy and have resting asshole face. That might also hurt my chances in the past but I trim every week. But I have a girlfriend so problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:31 PM
2

Thinness for women and muscles for men. Both serve as psychological indicators of overall health and the ability to protect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:32 PM
1

Going overboard with makeup is a huge turn off for me. Clothing is key especially appropriately sized cloths. I learned a lot from What Not to Wear and they rarely had men on. I'm also not a fan of the hot college girl look, spandex and crop tops. Let my imagination run wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:19 PM
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I'm a rather bland dresser, I own 24 black shirts. But I noticed after buying a leather bomber jacket my sexual marketplace value went up. Update your fashion, try to be current. It makes a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:16 AM
1

My parents are pretty well off and bought a house in a neighborhood that has a lot of rich families. So I ended up learning rich entitled kid signs early on. I used to work with girl who is a rich daddies girl, terrible worker which was annoying but she was very friendly and great with customers. So it balanced out but it was difficult to keep my eyes from rolling out of my head when she complained about how easy her life was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 12:01 AM
2

In my opinion she's too thin but I'm a chubby chaser and I wouldn't mock her for it. Weight is a personal choice. One of my friends is 5'1 and his girlfriend is 5'7. I'd assume it's just mean people making mean remarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:35 PM
3

With the exception of women in bad moods, poor timing like being at a funeral and if they're on date the majority of women don't mind being approached. As long as the man isn't being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:26 PM
1

Some people just hold their weight oddly. Taller people just have more area to hold it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:38 PM
1

I love chubby girls. Height matters more, retired gymnast Katelyn Ohasi got fat shamed. She's 4'10 106 pounds, which puts hers in the middle of "normal" BMI. But because of her short stature she looks heavier than she is. Plus size model Robyn Lawley is 6'2 196 pounds, which makes her BMI just over into overweight. And she looks to be in the normal range. Then you have men like Thor Bjornsson, he played the final version of Gregor Celgane in Game of Throne and is/was world strongest man competit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:19 AM
1

A little overweight, kind of a chubby chaser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:24 PM
0

Still doesn't justify giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:58 PM
0

Only after you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:23 PM
0

Failure mentality is the worst thing anyone could adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:25 PM
4

Constantly seeking validation from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:35 PM
2

50/50, really depends if they want to do something about it. Confidence, education, acquiring a better job etc etc are things you have to work for. Muggsy Bogues, only 5' 3 which is a huge height disadvantage in the NBA yet he played for 14 seasons. For some people it's a disadvantage because they decided it is, while others work harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:38 AM
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If you have a problem with one group, you must admit the problems of other groups. No one is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:23 AM
1

First to die off, convenient farming "accident".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:21 AM
1

Confidence is more attractive then being a little bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:06 PM
1

Try moving fifty 40lb hay bales in two hours. Good luck with that if you have the upper body strength. And no we will not help you, prove yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:13 AM
1

An acceptable number for a competent study is a minimum of 3,000 participants. Dating not work place, get a job and learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:11 AM
1

Men like sex, wanting sexual pleasure isn't a male issue it a personal issue. Blaming one sex is denying the truth. Keep lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:07 AM
1

So is the Middle East and they stone women to death for raped. And also has a growing number of religious terrorism. Or is that off the table or what we can discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:05 AM
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I've done both, get ready for harder work than you think it is. And yes killing children is still legal in the US. Some states just made it harder and more complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:41 AM
1

Would you rather work the fields or work in the classroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:27 AM
1

Work the fields or the class room?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:58 AM
1

Are you claiming men and only men are the problem? Why do you think men only want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:43 AM
1

Never said that it was ideal, simply stating the fact they have the right idea. Wrap you head around that instead of arguing for not understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:39 AM
4

You forget men aren't allowed to have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:14 AM
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Women love benovolent sexism, facts don't care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:09 AM
1

If you want to play the game of everyone from a certain group are bad people, then you must play every group are bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:04 AM
1

In other words your church is scum back central. Shouldn't you be molesting a 14 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:02 AM
1

Let's play that game, African Americans are 13% of the population and account for 51% of all murder, rape is even worse. Sorry facts don't care about you're feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:32 AM
1

Do you want to include crime statistics? Or do you want to deflect how much you hate minorities?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:12 AM
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Bad people don't need religion to be bad people. Blame incidents like the duke lacrosse incident, Jackie UVA, Mattress girl, hell Jussie Smollet, are all making real accusations questionable. All four I mentioned proved to be beyond false yet each were pushed as fact. Do you want to debate Cosby and Weinstein? Do you really want to argue Epstein?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:10 AM
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Quakers are religious, so not far left at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:01 AM
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So does Iceland, some Ordnungs have started encouraging marriages between other communities. Abuse isn't specific to one group only and one group alone. Debate the concept I outline not the outcome of a closed community.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:55 AM
1

You're arguing points not outlined in what I've pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:48 AM
1

Just because you think it as true doesn't mean it is true. Even among the FDL sexual abuse of minors is rare. There was a case of sexual abuse from the Amish recently but one case does not mean normality. Child abuse is more common from step parents than biological. The majority do return because they know no other lifestyle. But all still live long fulfilling lives regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:47 AM
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Qaukers, Shakers, Mennonite and Amish are cut from the same cloth. Just different levels of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:23 AM
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Dog fighting is common in Pakistan, Micheal Vick was convicted and spent time in prison for dog fighting. Does that make them better people or amish?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:31 AM
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Non Amish aren't any better about either, welcome to the real world no one is perfect. Not even you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:16 AM
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A hundred years ago you'd be doing similar things to what the Amish currently do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:14 AM
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You clearly never met many Amish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:13 AM
1

Spiting straight facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:00 AM
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Good girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:55 AM
2

When world war III breaks out you'd have no choice but to join. Women even shamed men who served during WWI who weren't over seas dying. You're openly admitting your weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:47 AM
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Easy way to weed out the weak, lazy and psycho/sociopaths. Most people do well from playing sports or being in music at school. Miami Dade prison has a ROTC program for non violent offenders. 80 %do not reoffend because they were given structure. You just don't want to join the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:24 AM
1

Well yes, being stick thin doesn't make anyone automatically more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:23 PM
1

Mandatory military service would be great for men. Far too many pussified men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:51 PM
1

Looks help but personality always wins
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 07:43 PM
1

Clearly you didn't get kicked in face as a kid. You're not sorry you are privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:20 AM
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Keep telling yourself that. Just because you've been treated better because of whats between you legs isn't how the majority of people are treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:11 AM
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That was my childhood and no I did not get the same treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 01:48 AM
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That was my childhood and thats false. Keep lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 01:47 AM
1

Simple questions: two kid a girl and a boy, both endure the same up bringing. Below poverty line, abused, sub par education, limited opportunities of economic change and any real chance to get out of the situation. Who gets sympathy? Who is given praise for overcoming?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:47 AM
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When we first met I wouldn't have said no, after living with her I completely understand why she's single. We get along swimmingly but she's a total mess literally and figuratively.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 12:09 AM
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Only bothers me once and a while. Had a bizarre incident about a month ago when two women helped my drunk housemate get home, neither her or I knew the two. They were shocked I lived with a women whom I've been friends with for almost a decade. That irked me but not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:35 PM
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Saying one thing doesn't mean it's factual. I can say you said you work for NASA, does that make it fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:06 AM
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They were offered the same options, they chose differently. Hence receiving a different contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:01 AM
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You understanding of the implications of a mandatory raise in wage is terribly difficult for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 02:59 AM
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I work 45 hours you work 40, yes I make more than you and it has nothing to do with whats between my legs. I simply work more, problem solved. And the US women soccer team were offered the same options as the men, they simply chose guaranteed pay over pay for play pricing. Reading is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 06:45 AM
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doesn't change your explaining incel behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:15 AM
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what you explaining is an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:55 AM
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Only a little, it really depends on the person. Dealt with someone who thought far too many things counted as harassment. But anyone with social experience tend to tread lightly or completely ignore people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 05:45 PM
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Women prefer confident men who have purpose, immediately disqualifying incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:24 AM
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It's all self improvement for myself and only myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 12:40 AM
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My dick and wallet aren't complaining. Thanks single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:20 AM
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Sort of, depends more on the man. In my opinion personality matters more. Super model looks with a shit personality isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:46 AM
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6) Positive male role models are the only way to resolve this. Positive fatherly figures have a huge positive affect on children, girls and boys. Even male specific spaces will have positive effects lead by and attended by men who seek a positive change. But all that is sexist all thanks to selfish feminists who actually helped worsen the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:56 AM
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fear of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 07:59 PM
1

Exactly why men are dropping out, thanks Vietnam conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:35 AM
1

Simple fact, humanity cares more about women because they can have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:29 AM
1

Then women should be legally required to apply for selective services or be felonies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:33 AM
2

are you assuming my gender?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:36 AM
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I never removed it and the post still shows up for me. One is legal requirement while the other is a choice. No one requiring to rob a bank, you choose to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:36 AM
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Say whatever you want, selective services should be required regardless of what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:11 AM
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Removed nothing. Failing to apply is a felony and felons can't vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:09 AM
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Keep telling yourself brainwashing changes legal requirements for the same rights granted to others for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:53 AM
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It's a legal requirement that gives applicants the right to vote and access to government funding. Everyone should be legally required to gain the same rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:50 AM
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Anyone who complains about the profound easy mode they've been given are spoiled brats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:13 AM
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No one deserves special treatment, doesn't matter their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:01 AM
1

If you want the legal right to welfare, sign up for selective service. Failure to do so legally disqualifies men from all government assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:00 AM
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Disabled, international students and illegal immigrants are still legally required to apply. The law doesn't care if your quadriplegic, does that change that they have to apply? No, no it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:58 AM
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Incels and Trump like to complain and makes ridiculous remarks, and fitting pairing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:23 PM
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You right to vote should be revoked. The argument isn't about ability but legal requirement. Yet, you revert to swearing and demeaning others because you think women are weak and unable to support themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:27 AM
1

Welfare royalty drain more resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:22 AM
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All this gives credence you think women aren't capable of being more than being weak and in need of constant support. This post is all about equality by law and anyone denying it as being misogynists. Either expect women to apply or be sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:43 AM
1

The disabled are still required to apply for legal rights by law. Half the population have similar numbers of not able to report for duty. None of that denies any of them to be legally required to apply for the same rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:37 AM
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Selective service isn't about warfare but a legal requirement. You can be a quadriplegic male in a coma and you'd still have to apply. Not a choice to have the same legal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:32 AM
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Theres a lot of non combat roles that women can do. Women translators have been attached to combat troops at the height of the Iraq and Afghanistan conflict. With huge success with gaining information and confidence with people not related with fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:51 AM
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If your not willing to apply for selective services you shouldn't be allowed to vote. Either be legally required to die for another unjust war or stop complaining about inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:42 AM
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Physical requirements have already been lowered for the military, police and fire fighters. Selective service isn't a choice it's a legal requirement for men. All men are required to apply, that includes the disabled, international students and illegal immigrants. No apply, no vote or government funding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:39 AM
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The argument isn't about pregnancy or upper body strong. It's about the legal requirement to do so to be granted the same legals rights. If men don't sign up for selective service they lose the right to right and receiving government funding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:35 AM
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If women want to be treated as equals, selective services isn't a choice it's a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:29 AM
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The premise women should and need to be be treated as men still stands, you just hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:26 AM
1

So you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:25 AM
1

And yet women aren't required and still get to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:24 AM
1

Tell that to the poor drafted into the Vietnam Conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:15 AM
1

fact
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:14 AM
2

This sub is red pilling itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:40 PM
2

Only for the shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:47 AM
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Narcissism and attention seeking behavior through appearance is a huge turn off for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:40 AM
2

Only rich kids who have everything handed them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:47 PM
1

If you want to be used as a sex object people will treat you as such, an object worth nothing more than whats between your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:43 PM
1

Casual sex: be skinny and want dick Relationships: make effort to be your best self and crave something more than the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:34 PM
3

Both genders, selfies. It screams narcissism and thats a huge turn off not just in attraction but general interest in them as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:54 PM
-1

Just because you hold racist views doesn't mean the majority of men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:54 AM
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Humans are social creatures, we crave more than the bare minimum of indulgence. Humans crave purpose more than sexual pleasure. No matter how hard humans try to deny meaningful purpose over sexual indulgence, they're only creating their own unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:03 AM
2

Red pill lost it's true meaning. It's about being responsible for your choices and actions. If you choose to be a door mat, people will treat you as such. There's bad people in the world that will and can take advantage of you. If you let them it's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:37 AM
3

Then men who aren't the father shouldn't be held legally responsible for paying for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:45 PM
1

From what I've gleaned from people who are promiscuous it's a combination of insecurity, craving attention, and issues with their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:20 PM
1

To simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:14 PM
2

Wait, I'm allowed to have problems?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:32 PM
1

I understand completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:06 PM
1

The majority of men don't commit to easy pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:36 AM
1

You'd be amazed how many men don't fall for sex object women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:20 AM
1

Only dick thinkers. You'd be amazed how many red pill men aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:49 AM
1

good luck with that believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:41 AM
1

And those men have standards of them and being a sex object is not one of them. These women are simply being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:13 AM
1

Younger generations of women will and are changing because they're learning that acting like a sex object, you will be treated as one. It's a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:12 AM
2

Switch that around and you'd be right. And the alpha gets to keep his money while getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:29 PM
1

Why move, just improve yourself and pump 'n dump away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:25 PM
3

Only the weak want to be technically right. Weak predatory men pay E thots. Those striving for more don't pay for easy access, they earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:33 AM
5

It's easier to pay for it than to work with for it. Being simp is easy, being alpha isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:33 AM
14

Can confirm, society didn't care when I was a kid. Gotten used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:51 AM
1

I'm neither for or against abortion. It should be legally available with proper medical representation. My only qualm with it is people who support abortion but not the death penalty. The fetus did nothing wrong to deserve to die but people who commit horrible crimes did, and deserve to die for it. People can't be pro choice and anti death penalty at the same time. The fetus didn't choose, the criminal did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:09 AM
4

Insulted by the rejection no. A couple were unnecessarily mean in their tact but not insulted by it. Far too many people haven't learned to accept everything isn't given to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:27 AM
24

Patriarchal societies didn't treat the majority of men as gods. Both women and men struggled and had no choice but to work hard to survive. Don't plow the fields or mill the food, people died because others were lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:25 AM
3

Modern feminism turned a ideology about creating equality into demonizing others to benefit only one group.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:09 PM
1

Men have two choices be productive members of society or be the bane of society. The right to vote isn't given to men freely, apply for selective services or lose rights. That's not a choice it's a federally required to vote, receiving government funding including social security and in some states the right to drive. Not a choice a requirement. Being male isn't easier it's simply structured to be useful or shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:00 AM
10

Feminism created blue pill, red pill, mgtow, terfs, and incels. Modern feminism created the problem that will take decades to correct. Only successful men can teach younger men how to be successful with women and that includes financial success.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:52 AM
-2

Proving men are the best for teaching other men what attracts women. But that's sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:56 PM
1

Feminizing society will only create more school shooters and general violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:41 PM
1

I'm a chubby chaser. And when I say I mean someone who 10-25 pounds overweight, I'm also in that weight range.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:12 AM
1

For the weak who think they're owed something they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:29 AM
2

coercion or compulsion, especially with the use or threat of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:45 PM
1

Not at all, Red pill is about making the right decision for you. If you want to put yourself in a compromising situation, thats your choice and you most accept the consequence of those actions. Accept the responsibility of your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:56 AM
1

Being forced to comply doesn't equal agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:48 AM
2

Compliance doesn't always mean agreement. In a court of law you can fight yes means yes because force of agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:45 AM
5

It's only amoral for those who think it should be restricted by law. Common sense is all that is needed. If you get the vibe they're sketchy, walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:40 AM
4

Rapist look for the opportunity, red pill know when to walk away. If you were red pilled you wouldn't be putting yourself in such a position, you'd stand up for yourself and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:30 AM
2

Be honesty women, would you rather date a man who's easy to walk on or works for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:41 AM
5

What you describe is a rapist not a red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:05 AM
8

Unfortunate truth, women are put in situations where this happens. A combination of putting themselves in this situation and not standing up for themselves. Red pill truth, don't let others take advantage of you. Especially not for sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:47 AM
1

Your post is all about men wanting a woman as an object for their pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 06:35 PM
1

Men aren't obsessed with sex as much as you think, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:28 PM
3

You're arguing that all men do this. It's like saying your all your male relatives are Weinstein because he did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:10 AM
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You gave example of what some men do. The action of a few do not define the whole. Some women use men purely for their resources, does that mean all women do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:04 AM
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All your examples pose all men as only shallow and vapidly attracted to women. The same as women want resources. If you think this as truth your shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:55 AM
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All women want is resources, am I doing this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:46 AM
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Be honest, do you stick around with someone who has a couple red flags of a bad potential relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:27 AM
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Red pilled most of life. Life isn't fair but it doesn't mean you can't be happy or give you the right to be a raging a**hole. It's all about compromise. I have a decent job, friends, and a girlfriend. Your question is invalid because you think red pill is an ideology of misery. Being happy isn't a pill it's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 02:59 AM
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Lets all be honest, the majority of men are not good with women. There's men who are great with women naturally, others employ cheesy and or deceptive tactics to attract women, while the rest are clueless. Pick up artists get a bad rep because the majority are simply in it for sex. And often use vapid personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 08:47 PM
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The people who are most against free speech are using violence to censor others. With your views, Weinstein is the apex of sex is power and uses coercion to use women's sexual liberation for his benefit. Your whole comment reeks of the dominance you wish others employed instead of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 02:42 AM
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Says the person who's demonizing people with what they hope is true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 02:24 AM
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simply asking a question why poster thinks this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:19 PM
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Only biased toward people who demonize others purely based on what's between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:18 PM
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I've noticed that sexist men are usually obsesswd with sex. They view everything though that and see women pretty much with targets. They interpret most human behaviour as a way to get it. It goes so far that they are convinced that every man is like that but some lie or are in denial. Does the obsession come from sexism or is sexism the reason for this. Why the correlation? Your post clearly states you think all men are sexist if they even remotely like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:29 AM
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You can't quote me because you're blowing it out your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:24 AM
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There is no difference between men and women who enjoy sex. You're simply making an observation that you think all men are sex obsessed and sexist for it without admitting women are also sexual beings with enjoy sex. Place all the blame on one sex while the other is devoid of implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:43 AM
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when and were? quote me please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:36 AM
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Why would we?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:40 AM
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Laziness doesn't correlate to being fat or having body image problems. Men just don't care about appearance like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:40 AM
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I missed that memo but dating a woman almost half my age. So I understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:14 PM
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I work for a huge university and everywhere when school is in session.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:06 PM
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A correlation between sexism and sex obsession is your standard. You really think men only think of women as sex objects? What about women being hyper sexual? Are they sexist toward other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:05 PM
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How many do you see with huge muscles and or eating disorders?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 08:26 PM
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Higher self esteem. Men in general aren't focused on their outer looks and are likely to react negatively toward images of attractive buff men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:04 PM
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Food is needed for survival. Ballooning up to six hundred pounds isn't a need but people do it regardless of the ramifications of their actions. They are taking food away from people who need it more to survive. Using your own standard are morbidly obese people bigoted toward the starving?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:45 PM
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What I think you're trying to get at is men who view women as sex objects first and people second. Yes men are sex motivated, sex feels great for a reason so humanity keep procreating. The qualm of your question is that some men only think about the pleasure and not the consequences of said actions. This problem is both men who only think this way and women who choose these men. Give people the opportunity to take advantage of others for their own gain gives others the believe they can do the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:48 AM
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Simple answer, the majority of women aren't attracted to feminine men. On average women tend to be feminine and don't want to date or marry feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:30 AM
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Some men do this. The majority of men aren't superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 11:35 PM
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You are correct. Very few men are physically attractive, but as you pointed out there are some attributes that can be cultivated that are attractive. One of the easiest is putting some muscle on. One thing the majority of men have never heard, to become attractive one must become better. edit: misspelled word
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:31 AM
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Lets be honest looks help but women don't have to be super model attractive. Women and men can wildly benefit from this advice; make some effort to be healthy, have a sense of fashion, be gainfully employed and most importantly have a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 01:59 AM
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...and gives it to predatory men like Weinstein and Cosby.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 06:57 AM
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I've seen the same toxic behavior in women and men. The common denominators are physically unattractive and a bad personality. Add in never learning that their behavior is also very unattractive and an unwillingness to change creates a terrible person to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 10:39 PM
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At any age, male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:40 AM
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Less than 10. The higher the count the more I've noticed that people are using sex to mask other problems and receiving validation from the opposite sex. Yeah sex feels great but it doesn't lead to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:45 PM
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Definitely this! Also noticed that a good number of women love the "lighter" stuff like choking, hair pulling and spanking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:39 PM
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More often than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:09 PM
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Harder, wither they're already in relationships or have baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:31 PM
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I've dated several women with daddy issues, none were anywhere near this bad. Girls with daddy issues do come with some serious baggage but can be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:05 PM
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We are the arbiters of our own happiness. The end goal is being fulfilled and happy. Doesn't matter if it's your job, hobbies, friends and or a relationship. Happiness comes from with in not from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:30 PM
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It's still being a provider. But also being strong, compassionate, exciting and caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:09 PM
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Most men just don't know any better. Generally people match their friend groups growing up. The popular cool kids learn and compete against each other for better mates. While the losers don't. They simply don't learn from others success in dating. It's really socialization from peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 06:32 PM
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50/50, some people are happier single. Humans are still social creatures so lonely, not at all. Humans crave being important and/or special.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 12:10 AM
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We are weak losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 02:26 AM
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I have female friends I'd never have sex with. There's this crazy thing called standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:34 PM
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The odds are simply better when you have friends of the opposite sex. You meet their friends and then their friends. If you have a good personality, are in decent shape and already have been vetted by 5 women. Their 5 friends will be more likely to be open to at least becoming friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:18 PM
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A combination of reasons. Lack of a positive male role model, lack of encouragement in their younger years, rise of putting boys on behavior modifying drugs, and constant belittling from peers, media and society for being male. Add in the rising societal norm of not taking responsibility for oneself only encourages weak behavior. With little positive reinforcement and encouragement to become better men, we are dropping out of society instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:55 PM
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Women really aren't given a choice when to mature, nature does that for them. Biologically women have a built in system that "bad" decisions are potential pregnancies. Potential mates need to be verified as quality stable partners. IE partners who will stick around and be dependable. It's an unfortunate truth of biology as women conceive and carry life, they must be careful about partner choices. Even with the advent of birth control it's not a guarantee. It happens, the truth is sex feels amazi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:50 AM
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I know a couple women who are pretty open about their periods, there annoying and often uncomfortable/painful. It's got to be annoying knowing that once a month for 30 40 years it's going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:56 PM
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A lack of a positive male role model hurts kids. Boys don't have a role model to emulate. Thanks to feminism pushing women to raise children alone, taking away male only spaces, and all the talk masculinity has only made the problem worse. Young men need to treated as well as young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:01 AM
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With that attitude you'll end up in prison for something stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:50 AM
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It's failing because you fail to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:12 AM
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Patriarchy does work. Being a whiney bitch is why it's failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:41 PM
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I talking about people like Cosby and Shkreli. People well known for being terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:39 PM
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I'm only shocked when a "Chad" who's known to be a terrible person is selected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:37 PM
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99.9% accurate, although the genetic pool does get stronger over time but doesn't guarantee that a genetic disorder arises at some point in time. Women desire men who make clear and conscious effort to better themselves. It's a simple fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:12 PM
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You can be drafted to die in an unpopular meaningless war but you can't drink or smoke until 21. And if you fail to apply for selective service by 26 you lose all government support systems. Your life is meaningless unless you suffer more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:57 AM
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Straight up facts, women have pussies they don't want to date pussies!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:34 AM
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Throw in confidence and decent body and you have winning formula to win over the majority of women. Benevolent sexism is a thing and this study proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:30 PM
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For the vast majority of people, very little to not at all. For those obsessed with gender, their whole identity is their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:44 PM
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Men say that but at the end of the day we want more. Regardless of whats between our legs people desire more. A sense of belonging, desire and importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:55 AM
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I work for, and live around, a major public university and radical ideologies are rampant in the area. The majority of men aren't terrible people, please stop assuming all men are Weinstein and Cosby. We are also struggling with BS, we're just not complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:02 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:39 PM
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Why buy a horse when you can ride the whole stable. With the current trend of sexual freedom men don't have to commit to have sex. Some men are great with women and play the field. If women give it away easily will continue to be used for sex. This problem is perpetuated by both men and women. This trend will continue until women take responsibility for creating the circumstances that allows this trend to happen. edit: missed words
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:44 PM
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Happens more than you think and I feel no different. Gay men are ruthless and on average, in my experience, stopped pushing it when I admitted I wasn't gay. You'd be amazed at the BS men put up with and don't complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:58 PM
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Having children is the bottom of the barrel of what my original comment meant. For most people their job is simply a means to an end. The majority of people tolerate their job just enough to keep showing up. A job doesn't always equate to happiness, just the masquerade of freedom. Freedom of choice is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 02:49 AM
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Perfect example on why looks doesn't translate to a good partner. You're learning the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 02:35 AM
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If you're concerned with looks only it doesn't matter if you desire more. You've cut out the majority of partners purely on selfish means. Good luck being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 02:02 AM
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I never assumed you never worked. Women have a biological clock for conceiving children, men really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 01:58 AM
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For someone obsessed with looks you're out of luck. The cream of the crop aren't looking for just pussy, they desire more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 01:36 AM
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Ah that's what this back and forth is about. I was arguing that work isn't this wonderful freedom people think it is. To the point of being a parent is a choice that has a biological clock. Some people can't conceive, choose to adopt or not have kids at all. The unfortunate truth for women who want biological kids there is a time frame in which it's possible, difficult and then impossible. It's a choice that can't be taken lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 01:35 AM
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You're looking in all the wrong places then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:36 AM
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Both working and being a parent comes with sacrifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:35 AM
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No one cares if you are, you're easy pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:01 AM
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And you'll die alone, sucks it up buttercup your beauty fades while my value only grows
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 12:16 AM
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I did google domestic, relating to the running of a home or to family relations, existing or occurring inside a particular country; not foreign or international, a person who is paid to help with menial tasks such as cleaning. Change all those definitions to working, same concept different context. I never said women are better off serving family life, you did. Those who choose to have families means that they benefit their families, no and if or buts about it. At work or at home you're slaving …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 12:14 AM
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Yes, my sister has two kids that I've babysat. Physically draining but fun. They call me Krampus and I love it. Getting paid isn't the point, those who think they should be paid are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:55 PM
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If your life choice is working, your being domesticated for working to benefit the business and not children. Same side of the coin different beneficaries. As I said in my original comment "...joining the work force isn't sunshine and lollipops...". Jobs are more work than some people are willing to tolerate. Jobs like farming extremely hard work and low pay, entrepreneur even harder work with a 50/50 chance of success. The real question is, do you think careers truly make people happy? Hint, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:44 PM
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Very happy with my sex life. The perks of having a good job for a major university at my age, a plethora of college girls with severe daddy issues. Thanks to feminism women just like you look for male validation with men old enough to be their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:15 PM
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You'd rather be domesticated in the work place? Your supposed freedom of working also entails relying on shit people and businesses that will take advantage of you for nothing more than a paycheck and if your lucky decent benefits. Marriage and or children aren't for everyone. Some people crave and thrive off of both while others it's work. Businesses also have rules, etiquette and policies employees need to follow that further limit what you're allowed to do if you want to keep that job and eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:26 PM
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Do you actually know your genetic code? Families can appear healthy genetically and can be chalk full of health problems that aren't physical or obvious. Survival of the fittest already pushed you out of the gene pool. Sorry for you sad existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:46 PM
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Attractiveness doesn't equal attractive or even healthy children. For all you know you can be a carrier of recessive genes for Down syndrome, Cystic fibrosis, Hemophilia, or Spinal muscular atrophy. If all you care about is looks your better off not having kids. Have a Hysterectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:22 PM
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Good luck being used for nothing more than your sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 05:30 PM
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Far too many people fail to realize that joining the work force isn't sunshine and lollipops. It's called work for a reason, you have to work and work hard to get to the top! Men don't have a choice, biological men simple can't conceive and bare children, they either rise to the occasion and do well or be a nobody. Women can choose to work full or part time and or be stay at home mothers. Feminism failed thinking that all women want to work mediocre jobs with little to no satisfaction. Women sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:46 AM
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I wouldn't say easy but more effort does equate more results. Men who make serious effort to change for the better will always do better than a man who does nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 06:01 PM
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Only really concerned if she has history of cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:36 PM
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Oh my god yes they can. Some people have egos so massive they'd float away like the house in Up. For those with massive egos they need to have that bubble figuratively beaten out of them. And I really mean beaten out of them through dating, work, finances, family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:14 PM
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No, be responsible for your own actions and decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:33 PM
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Men have only two choices, be a productive member of society or be useless. It's why you see more men as CEOs or homeless. Some win some lose, while the rest suffer a life of mediocrity. It's either be someone or be nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:17 PM
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But why? If its a good fit it fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 08:30 PM
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You language so good. Three axes; the incompetent, the dumb and the willfully arrogant. Both sides of the political spectrum have those.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:04 AM
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Horseshoe theory, red/blue pill liberal/conservative are opposites of each other. A problem is people can't meet in the middle and find common ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:40 PM
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Some people can't handle or aren't accustomed to rejection. Rejection is part of the dating game. Just have to get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:37 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:27 PM
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Hitting the wall is more of a euphemism for women's biological clock of conceiving children. Usually becomes harder to conceive around mid 30's to early 40's, key word is usually. It's an unfortunate truth that women who want children have a limited window to have biological children while men can have children well into old age. You're still young and stressing out over being inexperienced. Let life happen and stop sweating the small things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:59 PM
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Inherently nothing. Yes, there are men who use it to solely have sex. But the majority of men who delve into dating advice and pick up are men who lack the skills needed to attract women. Or even simply lack social skills to can lead to more opportunities for friends and possibly a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:44 PM
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For women attraction in general is cerebral. Sex is very physical and being dominated is like telling her brain that she's safe in a very intimate/vulnerable situation. I'm into the tame stuff like hair pulling and tying their wrists off. Most of past partners were into dominated in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:52 PM
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Legalizing prostitution would generate a ton of tax revenue. But can’t change incel mentality directly. Wouldn’t be surprised after a decade or so the incel community would drastically shrink and wouldn’t be as hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:38 AM
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Wish I could remember the study but it was about women's friendship and promiscuity. The research found that women in committed relationships were less likely to associate with promiscuous women. IE less likely to mess up their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:35 PM
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It would be sad and filled with disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:57 PM
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Majority of men completely miss or fail shit tests. It's not only an acquired skill but most men are more likely try to appease women instead of stand up for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:53 PM
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Appropriate body weight is a biological signal of better health. Being over and under weight comes with added health complications. Also people are more attracted to others when they make a conscious effort to be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:33 PM
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Women lose the market of sexual pleasure. The duality of human dynamic is sexual pleasure. Men who chose sex dolls don't have to evolve to be competitive in acquiring sexual attention. Women are allowed to be more particular in their choices of partners since traditional hierarchy isn't enforced in more liberal areas. Call me what ever you want but pair bonding is important, people who benefit equally from a great sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:54 AM
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I think the same thing, pulling an Anna Nicole Smith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:56 AM
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Chemistry is key. That reference is perfect for with one change, men are out touch
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:40 AM
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Why have sex with someone you're not sexually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:54 AM
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Women don't like bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:27 PM
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Suspension of disbelief
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:25 AM
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Only once because one of my grandparents died. Women are not attracted to emotional men unless theres a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:34 AM
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I love how all y'all think alpha and beta are unchangeable. They're mentalities. Lebron James and Bill Gates are alphas in their fields of expertise but betas in relationships. Both are what women are truly looking for. Men who excel and can be good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:25 AM
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Two part theory, most who complain have rich kid syndrome and or don't want any of the responsibilities for their actions and choices. People who grow up in well off families are often sheltered from the real world and are lead to believe that can have it all without earning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:58 AM
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Each business has standards they expect to be upheld by employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 07:40 PM
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One of my friends works in IT at a huge university. When he was offered the job he asked about dress code. Pretty much was told to not dress like one of them. I've met the dude in question and he looks homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 07:39 PM
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People are more likely to be on their best behavior early on in courting. So it can hard to vet someone on what their truly looking for. I'm more a supporter of the three date rule, if they're willing to invest more time in the potential of sex they may stick around longer. You do you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:19 PM
1

Do you have the same opinion of academic tutors?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:32 PM
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With the caveat that all women are consenting, then no laws prohibiting it. High value men will date and marry young women, 21 and younger. Low value men will use dolls or prostitutes. Women will be more unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:50 PM
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Aren't you wasting time doing both? Incel although strong, at it's core, is complaining about not getting what one wants or believes to be correct. Many of the perceived dating gurus are not PUA coaches of yesteryear, their not pick up artist they're coaches. The majority are helping people learn the skills they lack in social interactions with a focus on creating the potential for more than just friends. What you define as dating gurus aren't about using women but becoming the man who benefit w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:03 PM
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Your wasting time on Youtube and complaining about it on Reddit, the perfect incel. You've been trained to believe any self improvement is bad for you. What you define as dating gurus aren't about using women but becoming the man who benefit women. You're apart of the problem not the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:45 AM
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Biggest unattractive attribute for women and men, a terrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 09:25 PM
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Clearly your parent's didn't beat you hard enough as a kid. Keep up the banter, it's a good laugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:26 PM
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Says the one who thinks others need therapy and a rub and tug. Get over yourself, your not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:03 PM
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We got a badass over here! Good luck with the anger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 07:55 PM
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I really hope most straight men have enough common sense not to say what some of the messages detailed. Most men, including myself, lack dating prowess. Experience comes with practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 07:50 PM
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If you had a good personality and some motivation to not be a cunt maybe someone would touch your bing bong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 07:43 PM
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I joined Grindr last summer just to see what it was like. No picture or bio and I was flooded with messages. Granted the app is meant for hooking up but blown away by how much attention I got without even trying. Most of the attempts definitely wouldn't work with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 07:03 PM
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Wish I could remember the study but there's youtube videos proving this. When asked what body type women preferred, often three choices fat average and jacked, the overwhelming choice was more of a "dad" physique. Men who made an effort to be healthy but obsessed with working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 06:43 PM
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May not be by 2030 but in the near future. But it will be similar to the dating/socioeconomic's of Russia. After about 70 years of Soviet rule Russian women are less likely to want to work 40+ hours a week at a meaningless job and rather assume traditional gender roles. Similar results can be seen in Scandinavian countries. Women are waking up to the fact that what feminism has deemed a "mans" world isn't lollipops, rainbows and sunshine but a soul crushing game of survival of the fittest. Men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:42 AM
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Imagine a world where boys were encouraged to be better rather than demonized for the actions of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:16 PM
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Your parents clearly didn't beat you hard enough as a kid. A big selling point in why I do well. I criticize the majority of hecklers for having an easy childhood. Golden rule of comedy gives those the right to joke about what happened to them. Your parents should have beaten some self respect into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:13 AM
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Almost, I look at huge comedians and why they succeed. It's about telling a good story telling with potential set ups. Morality tails are harder to work since they have built in expectations of outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:45 AM
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I also do stand up. Have a pretty good following in my area. Finding the right on stage persona is difficult. I'm working on being Bill Burr with a moral point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:27 AM
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I have been, got laid off after busting my ass off for two years doing a two person job by myself so they could save money. They kept a dude who already had ten complaints while I had zero simply because the shifts we were assigned. They fired him two weeks later for assaulting a coworker over a parking spot, I didn't get my job back. Instead I got a better job and I'm currently interviewing for a job with benefits with the same business. All I had to do was wait for someone with a decent enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:03 AM
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Storming Omaha beach sounds a lot more fun then working myself to death working meaningless jobs. At least my life would have meant something. It's not as much fun knowing my life is meaningless that I can struggle and be told everything wrong with the world is always my fault. No wonder women don't like being treated like men. People desire being important for something bigger than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:04 AM
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Thats the best insult you can come up with? Weak
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:51 AM
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I agree that feminism has lost the main focus of the ideology. But I interject that to truly make a difference is that gender should no longer be the focus. Poverty is a problem that affects all skin colors, genders, sexual preferences, etc. Benefiting one leaves another without.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:34 AM
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By your own definition feminism has accomplished it goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:51 PM
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It's unfortunate truth that conventionally attractive people get more attention. The same goes for men but women's appearance is of higher value. Sadly Basic Becky often gets passed over just like Eugene's do. Looks in the end fade but personality stays strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:36 AM
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Your welcome. Feminism has helped women break out of cultural norms of yesteryear. But can't help women learn skills needed to help attain their goals. Lebron James is a great example, he worked hard to craft his skill. 16 years in the NBA he's still one of the best players because he continues to fine tune his skills. There's easily a hundred other people just as talented as him but didn't achieve his status simply because they didn't work hard enough to excel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:24 AM
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Women still stuck around with bad men, Chads included. Be honesty, if the sex was amazing would you look past he's bad behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:12 AM
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What you think fighting for equality is truly asking for easy mode. Life isn't easy, becoming a CEO of a Fortune 500 company isn't easy. Only 500 people at a time can hold those positions. If you truly think feminism is going to help you gain those skills to even have a chance to attain that success you'll sadly be let down. An ideology won't help you, only you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:01 AM
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Women choose the men. In general women are very good judges of character. It wasn't until the invention and availability of birth control could allow women to play the field without the ramification of unwanted pregnancies. Women are still careful about who they choose to engage with on a more long term basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:30 AM
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Two potential outcomes, the continual rise of violent crimes among young men. Or the less likely outcome because it's "sexist", would be men being positive male role models and teaching boys to be real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:38 AM
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Pick me girl because she understands that relationships are give and take. Relationships aren't all give or take but an equilibrium of both. Pickmesha are one sided selfish people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:29 AM
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Yet it's not enforced. More men have been exonerated by the Innocence Project than woman convected for false claims, men cleared purely on genetic testing after spending years in prison. If you truly cared about it you wouldn't be wrongly convicting men in the hope of getting one true offender. The prison system needs bodies not offenders. Are you willing to take theirs place?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:25 AM
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Both my parents beat me and I learned that life is unfair. You want more violence because thats what you learned. You'll own breed the same weakness you learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:35 AM
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The villain trope exist because people are forced into such a mind set. The world is unfair, doesn't matter your skin color, genitalia, sexuality or experiences. It's an infallible truth just like death. Consistently demonize someone for simply being XYZ you get school shooters, gang and hate group members. Hierarchies of gangs and hate groups pray on young boys looking for meaning and purpose in their lives. All three fill the morgues and prisons with bodies that could have been so much more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:13 AM
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It's a combination of divorce rates, the MeToo movement, and the treatment of boys. Divorce usually don't bode well for men, alimony payments, little to no contact with children, etc. With the MeToo movement men are afraid of being accused of a crime they didn't commit. There's a big difference between rape and a lack luster sexual experience. The most important is how boys aren't given the experiences and knowledge to become better. Not having a positive male role model to emulate, educational …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:39 AM
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Second this! I work for a university with an undergraduate body of about 45,000 students and I use their gyms. 2018 stats of 46% female 54% male which I got from their website. From what I've gleaned mostly men at the gym with a similar split with weight room and cardio equipment users.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:03 AM
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Imagine how easy dating would be if women lowered their standards for average men. If all you have is your looks and pussy, that's all you bring to the table. Good men date good women and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:01 AM
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Bullies create school shooters, women deciding all men hate women create men who hate women. It’s a cycle that can be broken when people understand the ramifications of their actions towards other. Clearly your parents didn’t hit you, must be nice living in a dream world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:43 PM
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There are some seriously toxic people in the world and this sub. Y’alls parents should have beat some respect into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:14 PM
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Ergo most people won't change, I repeat won't change. People can change, those who don't won't change. I's a personal choice. Thanks to the fat acceptance movement people think they can be fat and people will accepted for being a raging drown on food resources and increasing medical demands to support their lifestyle. Be responsible for yourself and not rely on others to do it for you. If you can't wipe your own ass you fucked badly!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:48 AM
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It's far easier to be lazy and blame other, than it is to be responsible for ones own life. Working toward an appropriate body weight isn't a diet or weight loss, it's a life style change. The same can go for personality and job change. People must make a lifestyle change. Move two steps forward one step back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:46 AM
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Just like it's more likely for older women to have children with Downs Syndrome and have trouble conceiving. Neonatal medicine has gotten better, giving underweight and or under developed babies a better chance of survival. Can't change Downs and IVf is very expense and doesn't always work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:53 AM
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An appropriate body weight is an indicator of general health. Being under and over weight brings along higher chances health repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:38 PM
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Death is a guarantee not an exception. Low weight and under developed babies can happen to any and all women having children. It's not age specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:05 PM
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Often birth defects doesn't equate Down syndrome. There's a huge difference between type one diabetes, a bodily inability to process insulin, to mental and psychical retardation because of Downs Syndrome. The term 'retard' comes from children who are beyond late in commonly accepted growth patterns. Even kids with severe autism fit into commonly accepted growth patterns. They may be late to the game but they hit late stage growth. A crash course evolutionary biology wold do you well. Breed with …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 03:33 AM
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Unfortunate truth for women, youth is an indicator of general health and reproductive viability. Younger people in general are less likely to have serious health problems with exception of genetic disorders. Mental disorders also on average don't display themselves until around 23, both for women and men. Women in their late 30 to menopause have a harder time of conceiving and carry a baby to term. Please correct me on when fertility issues become an increasing issue for women. My understanding …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:30 AM
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Men are easier to whip. Women are much harder to get to a consistent orgasm through sex. But when it happens it's pure magic. I wouldn't say women are more likely to completely change their views. But are more likely to consider the idea and change accordingly. edit: A good sex life does change people for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:13 PM
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I clean my own shit. I am responsible for my choices
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:05 AM
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Only when women stop valuing their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:25 PM
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Real men don't wan't easy women but women who have high value, aka don't give it away easily. Women are just as likely to slut shame women who value their self worth with sexual availability. Value yourself before others, really common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:52 AM
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Then stop assume men think the same way. Or are you that shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:46 AM
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The same is accepted by those who think it's normal. If your insecure and sniveling expect others to leave you for being insecure and sniveling. You're willing to be low quality expect to treated as low quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:43 AM
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Your delusional because you think he's your property.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:00 AM
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I never said making you feel bad or insecure. Challenging you to be the best version of yourself. Does he encourage you to do your best at work and your hobbies? Or does he baby you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:21 PM
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Your delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:16 PM
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It's only delusional to those who don't understand dating dynamics. Women prefer men who have options because if they choose them it means are seen as high value. Be honest, would you prefer an orbiter who does everything you want or someone who challenges you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:45 AM
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If one can do it, the other can do the same. Either be responsible for your choices or be the toxic member of that situation. You can't have your cake and eat it too if your not willing to accept the ramifications of those choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:03 AM
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Oldest: me 35 her 19 Youngest: a couple months, both 17
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:27 AM
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Women desire strong confident men. Modern men aren't taught to be that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:08 PM
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The bottom line of your question is, do women want to be treated like second class citizens legally? The answer is no, no they don't. Hence more legal protections. The majority of women don't want to work the coal mines or sewers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:37 AM
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Male, both my parents hit me as a kid. I learned a lot more from that about the harsh reality of life. It’s taken years of therapy to trust new people. Most people are good but some of them are just wearing masks to cover up their true selfs. Peoples action speak volumes about who they truly are, not what’s between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:18 PM
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Y’all clearly have no idea what normal flirting looks like regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:04 PM
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Two years and counting, get a freaking hobby you hairy palmed monsters! I make decent money making elaborate bird houses. Sold the last one I made for $115, a profit of $97. Spent maybe 11 hours total cutting, assembling, and painting it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:22 PM
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Exactly that! Start wearing clothes that are age appropriate, fitted properly, higher fashion styles like polos and dress causal shirts, and make sure there always clean. With hair style, something that fits with you facial structure. Go to a hair stylist and get it professionally done by a woman! Nothing against barbers but if you want a hair cut women like, get it down by one If you bald, like me, shave it all off or keep it very short.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:02 PM
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You have a low opinion of men. Change porn into romance novels and romantic comedies and the exact same can be said about women. On average women prefer men who and 6 feet and above, only 10% of the entire world population is above 5'11. Can't change height or genetics, but people can change other aspects of themselves. Start with changing your over inflated sense of self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:56 PM
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I've been dating the same women for the past five years. Clearly your parents didn't beat you as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:31 PM
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Attractiveness is still subjective. Do you find the same people attractive as each and everyone of your friends? No you don't because attractiveness is subjective to each person!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:27 PM
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Hell, I get to spend the next five days being told how much I'm a disappointment by family, would you like to switch? There isn't enough alcohol to keep me blacked out that long to forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:31 AM
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So you want to be treated like everything wrong with the world is your fault? Why would you want to be treated as such willingly?! Jesus Christ I was beaten by both my parents, I've been homeless and a victim of crime, why the hell would you wan to be treated like shit willingly?! It's not as fun as you think!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:23 AM
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Here's a crazy idea, instead of getting your bing bong cut off, learn how you can get women to touch it willingly. Or did your father teach you to be a pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:45 AM
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Group consensus of 60% of relative attractiveness. Most people find people who are of a appropriate body weight, that ranges from double zero to size 13. Size 13 is actually the average pant size of American women. It's a biological response of healthiness for both women and men. Higher weight also has a relative higher chance of heart disease, type 2 diabetes, and stomach cancer. Women have a attractive preference for physical strong men. Both being of a appropriate body weight and strength are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:08 AM
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Nit pic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:31 AM
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The west is defined as all of Europe and the US. The norm is dying, thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:13 AM
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Shaved has become the norm in the west but doesn't stand as fact for everyone. I really hope the western standard dies out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 01:23 AM
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That's your belief, do your friends hold the same belief of bigger women? R/BBW exist because there are men who prefer bigger women. Attractiveness is subjective regardless of what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:18 AM
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Yes, the majority of men aren't that picky Whats wrong with a boyish figure and an "unattractive" face? Nothing because there are people who think they're attractive. Attractiveness is subjective and different for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:11 AM
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The real question is why is toxic masculinity a growing problem? Only men can teach men what it is to be a man, good and bad. With the growing number of boys not having a father or a positive father figure in their lives, they don't have someone to emulate. Humans are social creatures and seek an in group to belong to and learn from. Gangs and hate groups pray on boys seeking a father figure and an in group. Feminism simply can't teach this or correct this growing trend. We can argue what is cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 09:38 PM
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For example, I dislike oral but I still offered it/initiated it with my ex since I liked him. But because he's a giver... he never pressured me or asked for it. This is how I view the ideal personally - a man who appreciates my efforts and respects my desires more He was more alpha because he wasn't motivated by his own gain but the mutual gain of positive experiences. True alpha men a more interested in building an exciting life together, not a one sided selfish fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:38 AM
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Established confident men can and do date younger women who don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:01 PM
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I would call myself liberal red pill. Struggling is a part of living and sadly true equality will never happen. There will always been winners and losers. The best we can strive for is a stronger education system, encouraging entrepreneur/business creation and changing how programs like welfare work. Current welfare is designed to keep people poor, it should really be a program that helps people get back on their feet with job training and educational advancement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:32 AM
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Thunder dome
/r/seduction02/07/18 12:48 AM
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When I do it's simple greetings and questions. Recent question was is that good book. Start easy and you will become more comfortable with it. Still working on breaking myself out of my shell but a lot better than I was a couple months ago.
/r/seduction17/01/17 10:26 PM
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It's a really weird but great sensation. As a painfully shy guy with a very poor self image it's still a great confidence boost that's slowly breaking me out of my shell. Pay attention and try small talk, I've been doing it myself. No matter where it goes, it's the attempt to put yourself out there that counts the most.
/r/seduction17/01/17 04:30 AM
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You have no idea how badly I need to hear this and tell myself that. You have nothing to fear accept fear itself.
/r/seduction30/12/16 04:01 PM
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Marni has a great channel on the tube of you
/r/seduction21/12/16 06:19 PM
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Do: use a condom, relax, and especially foreplay. She must be warmed up before penetration. Don't: shove it in or forget about her. Your first time most likely be quick, don't worry about that. Be in the moment!
/r/seduction21/12/16 04:25 PM
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A condom is a must, it shows you're responsible and make sure you know how to use it properly. They look simple enough but can be easily misused.
/r/seduction21/12/16 04:19 PM
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I love that sign! It points out the irony of the "plight" of many feminists. It's astoundingly obvious that the most vocal often come from very privileged backgrounds. Life is hard got over it.
/r/MensRights02/06/16 09:22 PM
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Classic fear mongering.
/r/MensRights18/05/16 02:56 AM
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Education is the true path to equality. Failing to meet the educational needs of girls and boys will only continue the failure of equality.
/r/MensRights13/05/16 04:04 AM
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If Omaha beach, highest U.S casualties of the Normandy invasion, was a mix of men and women their chances of survival would be about equal. Enduring twelve hours of non stop gunfire would be equally traumatizing regardless of gender or training. Bullets don't discriminate based on gender, people do.
/r/MensRights12/05/16 10:06 PM
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All I hear is the few represent the whole. Sorry some men are pieces of shit but they don't represent the whole. Most people, this includes women, are decent human beings. And as decent human beings we appreciate being treated as such, not as monsters who harbour fear and hatred.
/r/MensRights11/05/16 05:14 AM
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Considering most of the people I know who are staunch feminists would be consider conventional unattractive, this makes sense.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 01:17 AM
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We really do, especially from a doctor in the '80s. Sadly circumcision is still seen as necessary even though no medical association sees it as so. The American pediatric association has been flip flopping in recent years but does state that the "benefits" as potential not gaurenteed. And the use of the word may litters all papers and articles talking about circumcision. I've tried correcting others views but it's become a cultural norm to mutilate babies penises.
/r/MensRights02/05/16 08:50 PM
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Fiction versus reality, I'm going with real world. Something a comic character did isn't comparable to what Hitler did. Feminism sadly has turned into a monster in which a comic book would create for story purposes. Angry people making mountains out of non existent ant holes.
/r/MensRights23/03/16 04:35 AM
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Defeating the point of the whole LGBT movement. Next would be female to male transgendered people.
/r/MensRights22/03/16 08:05 PM
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I wouldn't agree completely on blaming all fraternities for rape. But this study/article does point out the fact that rapists are a selective handful of people. Instead of blaming the whole, blame the few who actually commit the crime.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 10:40 PM
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I've dealt with this dumb comparison of other games. It's a game not real live. It's not a real live example, it's fictitious. Completely made up to sell to the masses for a profit.
/r/MensRights11/03/16 05:36 AM
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Oh no someone treating me like a person and not a piece of shit.The action of the few doesn't speak for the whole, so please stop assuming I'm a piece of shit.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 04:16 AM
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I was beaten by both my parents as a kid and learned one important lesson: learn to defend yourself. Everyone should be taught self defense and that doesn't mean hitting back, it means stopping the attacker from continuing the assault.
/r/MensRights17/01/16 01:40 AM
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Typically is better than always
/r/MensRights06/01/16 02:54 AM
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From radical feminists
/r/MensRights04/01/16 06:05 AM
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These are marketing schemes attempting to boost sales.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 09:18 PM
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In a round about way he had without having to state it. Thought it was a strange point to bring up since I've never heard this come up with more active feminists I know. One oddly enough has stated that her cheating was completely acceptable but her at the time boyfriend's cheating wasn't but in no way a concept of ownership. I did contemplate adding but was really wasn't relevant to the post.
/r/MensRights04/11/15 11:20 PM
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This is terrifyingly stupid. Sadly modern feminism has turned into making mountains out of non existent ant hills. It's no longer about equality but trying to stay in the headlines.
/r/MensRights28/10/15 03:59 AM
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Refreshing indeed, sexual crimes are perpetrated by a small part of the population. Accusing all men of doing so isn't going to help the cause but only hinder it.
/r/MensRights16/09/15 01:40 AM
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Maximum penalty of a $250,00 fine and up to 5 years in prison on top of that.
/r/MensRights12/09/15 12:53 AM
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Labeling all feminist as terrorists is like calling all Muslims and people from the middle eastern countries terrorists. Only a small portion of either groups are actual "terrorists".I've met people from all three groups most are good stand up people and only a few that are not. The minority doesn't act or speak for the majority.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 10:57 PM
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Her poor use of english, which I assume is her first language because of her actions, is the most shocking. Sadly this ridiculous behavior which is not assault but a childish attempt to control others, this is what radical ideology has turned feminism into. A place where over entitled brats can do as they please with no consequences.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 03:20 AM
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TNS Essential Serum, the product indorsed by Oprah, goes for $150 to $270 for 1 ounce. They don't disclose how much foreskin is used per ounce. They info I was able to find, which multiple articles state, that one foreskin can be used for decades to grow thousands of fibroblasts. I would assume very little per ounce.
/r/MensRights24/08/15 01:53 AM
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Hospitals make more money selling the foreskin to pharmaceutical companies to make skin cream. On average a babies foreskin gets about $2,000. Circumcision in the U.S. is no longer for "health" reason but profit.
/r/MensRights23/08/15 11:39 PM
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If she initiates he's still guilty .
/r/MensRights23/08/15 05:49 PM
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I've always been baffled by this belief. Societal norms are merely a suggestion. No one regardless of gender is required to be skinny, shave any body part, or be sexual objects. By enforcing such a belief only makes it worse. Radicalism has turned far too many good things in terrifying monsters.
/r/MensRights12/08/15 02:34 AM
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Hardened criminals are disgusted with rapists. Prison statistics prove that rape is a disgraceful crime. Stone cold killers, people who don't care not even a little, go out of their ways to punish rapists.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 04:49 AM
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I second this. Sometimes you must fake it 'till you make it. Even though I think very poorly of myself I project the confidence in which others pick up on. And on occasion I find myself believing it. Conversation skills come with some practice. Let it flow out of you, just put a little thought into it. You must listen and actively respond to the given information. Yes a little bit of arrogance, and we mean a little bit, goes a long way. If you think you're a cool mother fucker others will too. T…
/r/seduction11/08/15 03:42 AM
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Bill Maher, love him or hate him, is a voice of sensible reasonable real life truths. He has no problem calling bullshit on everything. He's not interested in pandering to anyone's righteousness or political correctness. Yes he is often harsh and crude but he wants the truth. Leave it to a comedian to fight for justice. HBO is smart to continue giving him a voice and a show that points out injustice regardless of what it is. He is the voice of the common people
/r/MensRights10/08/15 03:58 AM
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Her statement of being recognized as an athlete not her gender is the most important aspect of this interview. Leave it up to the "new" sport on the block to get rid of identifying the athletes by their gender. The UFC allowing women to fight is a huge step forward in not only equality but that women are more than just fragile beings in need of protection. Martial arts and MMA instill a stronger sense of personal ability, awareness, and strength. Plus it gives everyone who participates the skill…
/r/MensRights03/08/15 07:38 PM
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If women were required to register with selective services and only women this topic would become about equality. Harassment of all types is rephensible regardless of gender and is in no way comparable to being forced to risk your life in war. The Vietnam conflict, it was a conflict not a war, has proven with staggeringly terrifying results how the draft has had a severe affect on those who were forced to join and even those who willing joined. Which is worse, being whistled at or war? One perso…
/r/MensRights30/07/15 10:55 PM
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That would be cheating and if either person in a comitted relationship cheats or even thinks cheating is acceptable then its not a committed relationship.
/r/MensRights17/07/15 08:18 PM
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Circumcision, in the early days, in the United states was not only suggested to be done on both genders but for the same exact reasons. One of the biggest reasons was to reduce the child from masterbating by reducing the pleasure received by doing so. Now a days it's a forgotten fact because of the supposed "health" benefits. You can parrot the same statement over and over it doesn't change the real reasoning behind circimcision in the United States.
/r/MensRights17/07/15 08:04 PM
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Wow, I knew that children with a single parent have more issues than two parents children. But not that drastic, shockingly different.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 04:27 PM
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And his penis size is more of a distraction from what put them in prison. They both killed people and won't hesitate to do the same to stay out of prison. Sadly the majority of repeat offenders go back to prison for minor and often incredible stupid infractions, like not knowing where county lines are. Do you know where county lines are? China has it right, kill all murders within a week and bill the families. They can't re-offend because their dead.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 04:54 AM
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Granted all the "radical" feminists I have the pleasure of knowing fall into this category. His penis size isn't a valid news point or information that is even needed. It doesn't change that he and the other escapee are murders, dangerous convicts with criminal histories, not a penis with legs and arms. The important information should be convicted murders on the lose not man with big penis out and about
/r/MensRights12/06/15 04:35 AM
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Why is the size of his penis matter? They should be concerned that two murders have escaped and the possibility of what they could do outside of prison.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 12:33 AM
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I full heartedly support this petition even though I was born in the US during the '80s and wasn't circumcised. I was given the choice because of being born extremely premature. Every male should be given the choice. His body his choice.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 01:15 AM
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I thought it was hypocritical. Dating the men in which, at least the feminist I know, they hate with a passion but can't help but love them. Good people don't screw over others the way they wish to not be treated. I repeated NOT BE TREATED. Bad people only treat others like scum because they are scum. This is not a gender problem but a selfish person problem.
/r/MensRights25/05/15 07:54 AM
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There is foreskin restoration programs. They do restore some of the benefits of being intact but can't replace all them. Worth looking into but the process isn't easy and takes quite some time to "complete." I only use quotations because it's up to the person to choose their ideal restoration
/r/MensRights22/05/15 01:21 AM
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I will never understand why teaching hygiene, it's incredible simple, is a bad idea. Very few people also know that girls were circumcised during the beginning of the movement for the same exact reasons. Yet that fell out of favor very quickly around the time of the women's sufferage movement, an odd coincidence, but interesting since the group was fighting for equal rights. Fortunately many new parents have started to question the practice and have decided against it. His body his choice.
/r/MensRights22/05/15 01:17 AM
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Even though I was diagnosed with arthritis in both my hands at 16, a condition that bars me from joining the military, I still had to apply for selective services. Either you sign up or go to jail. If you're a US citizen you should be required by law to sign up regardless of your gender. The few countries that require military service don't turn away people based on gender because every citizen is legally required to serve. I would assume they also have health conditions that bar certain people.
/r/MensRights20/05/15 08:24 PM
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I wasn't sexual abused but was beaten by both my parents. After years of therapy and reconciling with my parents the abuse still affects most of my life. The only odd fetish I have is physically dominate women since my mother often tried to defend me. She wasn't as physical but was more emotionally negative. The hardest part isn't bringing the negative side into my current relationship. My current girlfriend also had a hard childhood and we've bonded strongly over what happened. I don't know wha…
/r/seduction23/02/15 05:34 AM
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Worrying low, how?! Even though crime in general has been decreasing in developed countries, rape included, this information should be seen a huge step forward not two steps back. A drop in any crime should be seen as beneficial but somehow extremists see it differently.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 10:42 PM
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I work with a couple feminists, with a lot of extreme views. I have the fun task of listening to them complain about their views on a near daily basis. Most doesn't bother me because it's usually personal problems. The most recent discussion was about how all men cheat, in every facet of their life's. This not only touched a nerve with me but my other male coworker because neither of us have every cheated on any of our significant others. And both of them admitted to not only cheating on multipl…
/r/MensRights06/02/15 01:24 AM
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I hope this is joke.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 05:19 AM
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The Koran never mentions or requires circumcision to be a Muslim. Some Arabian tribes practiced circumcision and the tradition transitioned into a common practice by Muslims. A handful of other tribes and cultures practiced and some still do perform it. It all comes down to two points profit and or cultural.
/r/MensRights22/01/15 10:30 PM
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Wait, she was a spoiled child who was given everything let alone treated well. Is this what feminsim has become or what feminsists want it to become?
/r/MensRights05/11/14 05:45 AM
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How did this pass as reputable news? Yes harassment in all forms is inappropiate and is never acceptable. But this goes way over the line of acceptable behavior and news. This is blatant racism. The actions of a few doesn't speak for the whole. This is a black mark on what feminism has become. Hate and fear only creates more hate and fear.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 04:30 AM
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What is the logic behind this?! And couldn't this lead to more "false" misconduct claims?
/r/MensRights04/11/14 12:05 AM
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Yet another reason I don't take modern feminism seriously. I was beaten by both my parents as a child and I'm not a victim because of my gender. Victimization isn't a choice it's forced open you. My innocence is NOT a crime!
/r/MensRights26/10/14 05:53 AM
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This is why I don't take modern feminism seriously. It's no longer about equality. Rape happens, and yes by fraternity members too, but a select few across all of the male population. Much more heinous and often illegal activities occur at fraternity AND sorority houses. If either should be banned it should be crimes like hazing and alcohol distribution to minors and visible intoxicated people. The university I attended mandated all fraternities who've broke those rules to become dry houses and …
/r/MensRights28/09/14 09:04 PM
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Male and female circumcision in the US were both promoted for the same reasons during the 19th century. A cure for masturbation, almost every mental illness, blindness, pretty much any and every medical problem. Female circumcision quickly fell out of favor, right around the women's suffrage movement, and was still covered by insurance well into the 1970s, until 1976 if I recall correctly. The only real difference is the foreskin is used in medical and cosmetic applications. Beauty over equality…
/r/MensRights27/09/14 09:02 PM
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I've started doing pretty much the same thing. Even not actively trying to "seduce" women I've started interacting with them as if we were already friends. Takes all the fear and pressure off, it's even worked to my advantage.
/r/seduction04/09/14 01:30 AM
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