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Add to that that you shouldn't judge if youve never been intimate with a girl, so many virgins getting upset and virtue shaming when I know for a fact theyve never even tried being better and would do worse in the same position.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:29 PM
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Bro when I tried to end it with one of those she started saying that I r**** her. Those girls have no boundaries. I'm pretty sure theres guys out there with false charges because dating one of them. Trust is very important and you can't trust them, some of them are addicted and will sleep with other people if youre not there. Leaving no trace since theyre intelligent enough to watch and remember all of your habits.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/26 11:50 PM
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I don't think I'll ever fall in love again, even the kindest girls Ive known have something crazy toxic about them, I don't know if I pull it out of them but I think I'm just fucked. The amount of effort I have to put in too, it's like a whole thesis worth of effort just to get the chance at meeting the next entitled starfish in the aquarium. They're all the same, if you're not gaslighting, love bombing and being a downright psychopath you are being led by her chaotic shapeshifting demon whos dr…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/26 11:42 PM
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Look there is a reason why the most predominant religions subjugated women, if we let women do their thing they will shape a very irresponsible community, extremely hypocritical and misdirected, they need someone more grounded to lead the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:21 PM
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Social needs are important they are harder to get with money and often more expensive to pay for. If you're struggling with basic survival, basic needs are most important of all but if you have those and want a fulfilling life you can't skimp out on social needs they keep your mental high, make you feel confident and resilient. And that is what leads to earning more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:06 AM
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The problem is the expectation, he doesn't have to pay unless he wants to, the girl doesn't have to fly if she doesn't want to pay, its really simple. Now if she were to visit I hope she did that with the intention of treating it as a vacation else she's just overinvesting which doesn't bode well for the relationship, if she continues to do stuff without waiting for him to match it she's exactly going to feel like shes not getting what she deserves. You need to wait until he matches the investme…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:07 AM
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With sex you take care of a need, you get to know each other and there's still a chance at love. The money women chase is luxury, and they often love the materialism more than the guy that provides it for them. They're not completely different so I understand your question but as a woman you didn't grow up to lie to and date rich guys you're not attracted to just to be able to let yourself go at the shopping mall buying stuff you wear once. Every guy you sleep with can eventually be convinced to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:20 PM
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Shoutout to a guy called zherka, his old content got me laid at least twice, I didn't realize that women react favorably to people who are a little abrasive, some of my friends would talk down to me around women and I thought shed pick the one who was nice to his friends and who was pacifist but you need to show your strength and it works even if its cringe cocky behavior, you can get girls by being loud and confident and its best to get them that way it seems, me as the silent type got lucky on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:07 PM
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I think of it more as balance, he probably already comes off as a little soy boy and him adding grit by holding those opinions make women see him more as a fighter. If you don't have any grit you're mostly harmless and theres no woman who would feel safe around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:52 PM
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Being loved and having a life partner in your darkest days and in old age is a pretty significant impact on your lifetime happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:09 PM
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I was rooting for elizabeth holmes she was supposed to inspire a generation of female intelligence and entrepreneurship, so far most of the popular CEOs are male, I can't name a women CEO on the top of my head. Maybe they're held back but maybe like with Elizabeth theyre not meant to take leadership roles.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 08:51 PM
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Women are less decisive in survival situations, are generally less composed and they carry a lot of emotional burden.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 03:45 PM
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Traditions survive because they have been naturally selected, if in virtually all traditions women have played a subservient role then it's safe to say that this was important. I'm not saying that those traditions can't be different. Theres a lot of risk in doing the opposite.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 09:42 AM
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Sweet summer child, Theres a reason why all traditions keep a handle on them. And it's not because we needed them to care for the family. We needed them to serve the better choice
/r/MensRights11/03/26 12:01 AM
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I don't think thats true and so be careful, if a girl doesn't show any quality or is too fixated on being sexual then you tend to just get used instead. Think of it less as extremes no dry or loose phases just doing what you can to attract a guys attention after you have that and you don't fuck it up together you'll have a decently normal connection even without being overtly sexual. It's about expression, confidence and seduction rather than being a whore, also figure out what your type is they…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:36 AM
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My bad, I thought women were worth more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:49 PM
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Every woman expects the man to show her he isn't broke, is charitable instead of stingy and know that he will treat her well, why wouldn't a man pay for the first date when hes intent on wanting to keep her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:58 PM
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women who are financially secure don't need to be cared for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:56 PM
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I've met a lot of intelligent women, most of the time they appear much more stupid than they are but that's only because they don't care about common knowledge. Regular intelligence is something you can continue to be better at but being able to find your way through relationships emotional efficacy, emotional balance and planning is often luck, given to you by other people or in your nature, women, especially single mothers always find a way and even accomplish more than you'd expect them to gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:25 PM
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I think the only standard that matters and isn't superficial is having a partner that genuinely cares for you and loves and respects you, even though this is so basic it's still hard to come by, I can't name one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:28 AM
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Women excuse a lot of negative traits when the guy has a lot of perceived value, it's never much about how honest he is with his intentions, if he goes that route she won't be able to hold the delusion that she can keep him. There are girls who are into the ONS's but its never deliberately a choice to shy from having a relationship with that guy. For a girl its more of an escape I feel, boredom, wanting to feel some excitement, distraction. While for guys its just always there, the desire to rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:18 PM
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Don't flatter yourself, I just wanted to let you know. Your behavior draws in men who don't respect themselves yet, Ive had enough past experiences to know that you won't ever truly value the man you are with even if you loved him. If I was desperate for sex it would be pump and dump but thats as far as you could go
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:16 PM
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Dating you would be a lapse in judgement even for men who can afford it. That's how you select for men who are insecure, reckless or generally uncaring. Trophy wives have to exist but I doubt the money wipes away all tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:15 AM
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desperation and thinking too highly of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:00 AM
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This is not the reality behind this movement, men and women have always been able to fight and reach whatever they wanted to, the limiting factor being skill, before feminism women were oppressed and even during this oppression examples of powerful women like Jeanne d'Arc shone bright. There needed to be a strong will to make it that far and rise above their male counterparts but those were real, they deserved it more than any of you. Modern feminism is the opposite of that, it's the unfair desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:56 AM
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Your comments also illuminate your character in a way that's opposite from what you're trying to achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:59 PM
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Not most men, the ones that care are superficial only out for status, guys like trump and while I can see that appeal I wouldn't feel loved if she wasn't willing to share intimacy with me without that you're dating a husk, someone who wants to be an object, who lets themselves be cut off from their natural filling. I feel like it's important for girls who have negative sexual experiences to take control, to build trust slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:16 AM
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I think thats just that type of women, the more masculine or pent up angry kind
/r/MensRights28/09/25 08:35 AM
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OP please dont link articles of sites that force you to accept cookies, it's trash and Illegal.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 04:06 PM
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I want a partner with substance and I can't find one either, women are quick to play the running game of "its not my fault", "Im not delusional, I just choose to have high standards", "I deserve this". A lot of cope and they know it, first of all 80% of all women when they say they have adequate standards are living above their standard, they would have been confronted with the fact that while daddy treats them like a princess theyre anything but, and if you want to continue to be treated that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:13 AM
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Ive put some of the most effort I've ever put into getting and maintaining a relationship with a girl, it was incredibly toxic and she had me by the balls the entire time, she wasn't trustworthy and nearly destroyed me but the experience was still better than being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:25 AM
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Bro, if it doesn't mean anything to women they would stay single, there are girls who can stay single and don't have partners but they're as rare as a shiny pikachu. There's girls that tell you they "don't want sex" because they're self conscious abt it, there's girls that "don't want sex" because they don't want to appear like a slut, there's girls who "don't want sex" because they want to control when it happens and there are a ton of other incentives for girls to be like that. If you're unluc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:54 PM
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So you don't want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:30 PM
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Again incapable of stepping out, I didn't expect you to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:39 PM
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The problem with people like you is that you talk for others yet consider yourself to have empathy, nice of you to include me in your delusional dreamworld
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:14 PM
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your definition of human being comes from a magazine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:52 AM
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Men simply are cooerced to walk the fine line of womens emotions, they are contradictory because we arent supposed to take it, a man makes his own path in life and if you don't do that you're unreliable, so youre supposed to interact with women in a subtle way first, you should ease yourself and control your desires until shes with you, that also sets a good standard for her to be able to trust you the whole relationship, if you let yourself be led by emotion youre just a woman, you can't lead h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:13 AM
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its not better to have none
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:41 AM
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I don't believe in ideals, good and bad aren't realistic descriptors of an imperfect person. Good qualities in passive men would be, loyalty, temperance and selflessness, those qualities don't tent to be appreciated in dating because they don't show how capable and strong you are in adversity, they shy adversity and women need to know if you can give them security. I'd say 60%, I think it's rare to be confident and it usually gets passed onto you, the people who you grow up with, the friends who…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:31 PM
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Yeah idk, I think this says a lot about you. I certainly wouldn't fuck anything that moves, there needs to be some connection first and women being horny doesn't mean they would lack restraint, they are horny so often just because of their hormones and for most of them that doesn't make them jump onto every dick they can get. That would be dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:44 PM
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I think those are only the ones with fame, the more relationships you're in the more you're supposed to get good at talking to women but the power dynamic with influencers makes for a dynamic where he can do whatever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:11 PM
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I can't see if you meant this Jung quote as an argument for or against, fate is the unconscious but it's still an apt term.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:22 AM
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luck is some kind of auspicious result based on actions that could go any which way fate is the buildup of historical successes that are so faint that you might not realize that a direction was already predetermined, you can change fate readily but you can't change a roll of the dice after it left your palm, fate is active, luck is more of a snapshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:17 AM
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If you understood what fate is you would use that term instead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:42 AM
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this isn't true, you're stuck on something you can't change about yourself and using it to promote your own helplessness. looks matter surprisingly little if you're at least decent, there are enough women with low self esteem who go for men that look like they crawled out of a rat infested cave. Beautiful women at that, you wouldn't believe. It's not really non chalantness that does it in this situation, it's more about what that type of person finds valuable, if they're a chaotic person they ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:40 AM
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Guys tent to go for the prize directly but you can say a lot just by giving her a smile, well.. at least if you look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:40 AM
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No, nice guys hide the sexual agenda and desperation. They are nice because they imagine consequences when they are not and to escape those consequences and be rewarded for their virtue they think being nice is going to do that. "I'm being nothing but nice to you, why don't you like me" Well the answer is that being nice shows no drive or strength, it only shows that you do whatever you think other people are going to reward you for which is something most people do not respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:51 PM
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Escaping the friend box in someones mind is a delicate skill but some people know how to do it, if you are accused of having ulterior motives you're clearly doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:38 PM
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You might not have been a nerd in high school so you might not get what they're talking about when they say that, what those women do sense is a lack of confidence and some kind of virgin desperation, the people you've mentioned: ted bundy and domestic abusers have no problem with confidence or their persona at all, they know how to sell themselves and appear calm with a wicked personality underneath, they absolutely know how to hide it, that's the difference really. The guys who were never popu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:20 PM
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In this crazy world we wait until after the damage is done, how else are we going to farm social media
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:23 PM
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so do they not care about cold hard data then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:52 AM
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The reason I used the words "can be called" is because it's your subjective opinion which ones are the same, you're wrong for calling them the same. I never said men are smarter I said they are more knowledgeable and even if I said that I'm one guy you would be someone who takes one example to be the average and clearly you don't need a lot to make dishonest statements. You failed to make me see the joke in that and I know plenty of women who have said they are scared to drive on the freeway, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:51 AM
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All normal distributions can be called roughly the same so that doesn't mean anything. I don't judge women for being less knowledgeable, they have other stuff they'd rather focus on and I didn't bring up that they often cheat more during tests since it wouldn't be fair to bring up accusations. The average man is a simp, they aren't vile unless you call pathetic and needy vile, for someone who seems to proudly label themselves as a witch I really don't understand how you dare push on that point. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:32 PM
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The same goes for men to be completely honest, women usually have the practical solutions down, degree, car, some social life, good morning rituals, etc.. for men its the intangible, they're more intelligent without the degree, they're better drivers overall, they have more substantial knowledge, and their personality is often more consistent. In general of course, there are more shitty personalities among women than men, more good drivers among men then women, even without degrees men are more …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:57 PM
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Women don't have high standards in my view because they just want to end up where they want to be, they want the best for themselves. BUT if they want the best for themselves maybe they should help the other men out and not give those high value men all the power. There are tons of videos out there of the girlfriend effect where just dating a guy makes him exponentially more attractive, and gives him a better sense of style, pick out some raw diamonds and try to polish them because few of you gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:56 PM
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For a while but he was always a distant father and then he formed a new family. If you're hinting towards it being his job to teach his kid how to be a man, sure but the father is usually the one who teaches you practical skills, not emotional ones, I believe a mother is better at showing you how to interact with women, it doesn't have to be anything extreme just instilling an importance of hygiene and sense of style, letting him make his own choices and take responsibility and then letting him …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:17 AM
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Divorced when I was 4
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:57 PM
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That's a wild mischaracterization of what I said, why are you here if you don't want to hear other opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:57 PM
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Its mommies job to care about you, that means caring about your success. She also benefits from it because I bet she'd rather have grandchildren visit her when she's older than not. I'm not saying she should hold your hand just show you how to be a man that women want. Some mothers only care about making their boy into a cute little people pleaser because that's what makes all the other parents compliment you. That's how I grew up. I frequently had to hear about how I'm such a nice boy and how I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:33 PM
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You just don't have what it takes to show women what they really need, and that's okay that's why you're not moving on, so move on. If you're out of the market there's no use complaining on reddit still
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:55 PM
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So this is actually devious what you're doing because I believe you know in your heart that red pill truly has reasons to be compassionate to their own they know the pain, the reason why they exaggerate some things is because they want to put you in a mindset that doesn't have vulnerabilities, it's so you don't get hurt when women do end up that way. It's common for both men and women in past relationships to villify their ex to make the pain easier to deal with, that's why they use the AWALT ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:29 PM
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Your mentality isn't attractive either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:39 PM
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Women try to grab attention but it's almost always passive (indirect), like standing in sight of the person they're into, figuring out scenarios where they can possibly have an interaction like using the elevator at the same time or being at an event that he is at, maybe frequenting a place he works at. Sometimes there's quite some effort involved like deliberately struggling with heels to get him to catch her or be concerned for her but in no way are they going to ask or decide to make a decisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:57 AM
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I don't know why I feel seeing women with hair is unattractive, it's just something in my head that feels disgust towards it, I don't go out of my way to point at it or be disrespectful towards you that's just insane especially considering its a medical thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:06 PM
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I dont think they have a lot of experience with sex then
/r/MensRights04/05/24 11:57 AM
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So you want us to not be able to choose who we date but rely on something that is arbitrary and fixed in nature? There are many other important factors that make a relationship turn to crap like bad communication, deceit, distrust and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:12 PM
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I don't think it's good to look at divorce statistics for support, divorce rates are high because of so many factors that could include the one you're supporting it with. -> "I shouldn't marry early because early marriages have higher divorce rate" -> "I should marry later because the divorce rate is lower" No the divorce rate is high across both, what you should do is figure out and look at the ones that do make it instead of relying on random chance. Look at studies that try to figure out what…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:11 PM
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You have to understand that someone doesn't get into unhealthy cycles for no reason, if they cycle it often means that there's enough reason behind them to keep the cycle going. Sometimes it's just as easy as self worth, them wanting to be kept in a perpetual state of low self worth because that helps them with the anxiety and responsibility that comes with being stable and losing stability. Sometimes they inherently don't think they deserve it. It can be infinitely more complex too. I don't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:16 PM
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None of them are stable, If she is a borderline type she wouldn't even realize what she's doing, she's just out to get whatever she wants that moment and her intense emotions are guiding her down, the moment you think you want to help her heal you've already lost, the only way to really get out is to stop thinking of her as a victim you need to save. Otherwise you've tied your self worth to her well being, then she ties her unstable emotions to your actions, anything you do is judged by those em…
/r/MensRights25/04/24 03:55 AM
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the woman can just say that the police was on his side
/r/MensRights24/04/24 04:50 PM
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Yeah not every girl is into that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:20 PM
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Someone with autism would give you more of the cutesy shy looks as a way to indicate attraction, if you're into that (or just random events where he makes a comment about your butt in the most innocent way) it could make up the eye contact, just because its rare, but you won't ever feel intimidated unless you have a tech or knowledge issue, which may actually lead to an argument if you're stubborn because they're principle over feelings. Some of them don't have control over their act so could co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:29 PM
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depends on their personality honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:16 PM
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Women spend their alone time getting attention of men online, they get a cat and are still better off socially, they have no inflated demand for sex because they don't get attracted that easily nor are men generally putting themselves out there to seduce women. The thing they do have though is that period in their lives where they think about getting children I don't know how strong that pull is, it doesn't seem that strong. After that the type of coping skills women use are so toxic, it's lying…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:08 PM
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hmm, few men actually dare hit on girls, once you're one of the boys you'll want to date because you feel like you're unattractive. Sex isn't a bad thing it's just that most guys aren't confident or seductive and that does so much harm in how that makes women feel, I don't assume to know exactly how it feels but I can imagine from having my own experiences with sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:35 AM
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congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:05 PM
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what are you trying to accomplish by winning an argument I never argued
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:41 PM
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the topic of the comment I replied to is about a claim that women don't have to get girls 'hints'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:13 PM
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they do they're more well versed in social skills because they need to survive the pressure of female groups, being by yourself as a girl makes those groups target you, so you're forced to blend or forced to go to male groups which isn't desirable for most young women, maybe if they grew up with brothers sure but not most
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:32 PM
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Those types you are speaking of are the loudest and may be the norm but I don't believe this is the problem, a lot of those girls don't stay single forever and eventually settle for a realistic sometimes even way below the bar kind of guy. Social skills and understanding are the real problem, when I look at people who are much older than me in their relationships I get amazed at how they all seem to excel at breezing past many of the stress triggers, when your girl comes home and asks if you sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:05 AM
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I had no problem fucking in one my early relationships: parks, forests, train stations, locker rooms, tents,.. we did it all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:18 AM
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It's about how men and women handle their emotions, this is what I've noticed men are more executive when dealing with feelings, it keeps those feelings around and they can fester but you're not doing anything magical to change your mood, you just push through it, this is how a man is expected to handle his feelings, just push through.. Women are more practical and involved, perhaps they feel their emotions more heavily and so any solution becomes a good solution as long as it's resolved, for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:17 PM
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Shakira is perceptive but also didn't get the movie apparently
/r/MensRights02/04/24 08:27 AM
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There are a bunch of women who are into cute guys too, with them it's not about appearing strong, with those it's about them wanting to make you dependent on them and to be able to make the decisions. It's almost the opposite. You attract them when you're cute and nice, they also don't fit the stereotype of going only after the good looking guys, they want to feel useful so they go for any type of guy even the less attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:29 PM
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Truth doesn't fit their bias, hello sweet delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:30 PM
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I think it's because we're used to see men spiral into obsession but women are better at hiding it, it's rare that women act out such desperation when they are with someone else, men are less restricted. The receiving party in that interaction tends to be more sensitive, if a man sees a girl that is desperate for him he would care less, sometimes not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:02 AM
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I agree but I wouldn't say "as many" there's a statistic I saw with a bell cuve for women which is more flat for men, which meant that men occupy more of the extremes, I believe that for the arbitrary general measure of "low quality" this statistic would look roughly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:09 PM
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Answering your questions one by one even if you don't want me to: how do you explain 0 matches for men? Men are generally less attractive, not because there are no ugly women but because there are less ugly women, both because there are and because men have lower standards, there are more men on dating sites, women don't feel the need to compliment men, men aren't attuned to what women pick up on so a lot of men get 0 matches, men often beg or try to act nice so women get a ton of matches. When …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:09 PM
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There's no universal rule to a good marriage, some couples are just good at sharing responsibility and communication, some of them are capable of finding a back and forth, in essence I find that a lot of successful couples are able to mitigate frustrations effortlessly through where they are as a person. It doesn't have to be a 50/50 as long as you make it work and you are able to de-escalate through humor, compassion or otherwise, you'll have a stable marriage, after that you just have to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:04 PM
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exactly, the more I visit this sub the more delusional takes I find, they gotta go touch some grass/pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:57 PM
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They section it off in their head, that's why they call it the friend zone and why it's said you get stuck in it. They are attracted to personality more though, it just happens that the hot guys that you think are going to turn her faster than you are fake personality better than you do and by that I mostly mean confidence. When you have no issues dating women you start to figure out what works and so they don't need any real human under that physique. Where you are wrong in your assessment is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:56 PM
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Don't stalk them, it can happen sometimes that you have eyes for a girl that has a crush on another guy already, that's painful but memorable so the least you can do is learn from it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:37 AM
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It's incredibly subtle and if you have to ask you're probably never going to catch it, the way I do it I look at the context with a lot of experience from what I've seen women behave like around other guys they're interested in, it helps if you remember your exes and how they carried themselves before you knew they were into you, perhaps you don't remember. Picking up on those details you'll suddenly get an aha moment and start to see it be more common than you thought, if you are average lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:34 AM
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The funny thing is that Ken was the equivalent of a woman in a patriarchy genderswapped, so there's literally no reason why they should be upset
/r/MensRights30/01/24 02:40 PM
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It's interesting that some women don't notice that behind the value they can give a man they're winning too and they actually end up loving that more since they don't have to shoulder the responsibilities and added stresses of being at the forefront
/r/MensRights25/01/24 10:10 AM
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It's partly that but also younger women start to find you more attractive as you get older, what you're talking about is women who listen to power, when you lose your power in a relationship she will feel powerful and then she plays all her cards which are never in your or the relationships favor. There are certain women who are capable of being dominant in a fair manner but the large majority is cruel and destructive whenever they have the chance. That's why you have to always place yourself ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:21 PM
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I think it depends on how you use your power, a woman can both be powerless to bend for any show of currency or she can turn men into desperate pigs ready to give her whatever she wants. The ability to pull back from giving and to give at the right time is incredibly powerful and exponentially so if it is sexual temptation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:58 PM
1

would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:18 AM
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I think OP is exaggerating but not because fiction has no correlation to reality, more so because he only sees the negative qualities in what he watched from the show
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:16 AM
1

When you're fat you can still be attractive or even more so because of certain fetishes it's not that you're ugly once you're overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:54 PM
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Women are quite flexible if you know how to handle them, men are usually more disagreeable and set in their ways, you can't really undo a child but I guess some men are able to make that a quality that makes her fall more in love with you, you can show her that you're a good dad, it won't make her indebted to you but that's not really the goal just that you have enough value to show her that she should be kind to you and make her not want to lose you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:36 AM
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how much sex are we talking here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:32 AM
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This isn't the male gaze, it's the gaze of the majority men and women. If a woman makes a highly sexualized music video because sex sells she's not selling it to men and she's not doing it for men either, she's doing it for herself first. We are all for female empowerment and this is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:48 PM
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Yeah creepy only depends on how the person is perceived, if someone knows you and has established a non-creepy baseline, the one off creepy comment isn't going to alarm them and may be interpreted as it was, a silly joke. If the person doesn't know you however it is still a possibility in their head that you may actually be a creep and no amount of actions can put them at ease at that point, actually you can still come back but it requires them to get to know you which they probably won't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:53 PM
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Aside from casting blame there are a ton of changes like you said recently that aren't practical, gender roles were and have stood the test of time, if birthrates drop and mental health becomes an epidemic if it isn't already then we're in for a rough ride, maybe you don't mind being childless because the future doesn't look that bright but this is destructive. You wouldn't be here if it weren't for all your grandparents making the most of their situation, only for you to end the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:54 AM
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Ofcourse that would bother me, but she has every right to test these kinds of suspicions because what if her child is being abused, you would want to be there early to protect them who cares about my (the partners) feelings the wellbeing of the child is more important
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:09 AM
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This is a weird view to defend, like would you rather those men risk raising some other guys child, they deserve their own child or at least to know if their partner cheated them, and it's easy enough to verify. For your counter example, it's not possible to verify for certain whether your SO is a murderer but if she really believed or suspects or distrusts me then she can do whatever she wants and if there was a guaranteed psychopath test I'd probably let her test me too, she deserves to make h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:14 AM
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I think christianity has resulted in making women associate sex with immorality and now you have to be toxic and immoral to open that part of them
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 03:39 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:45 PM
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Youre correct, I notice this anecdotally, its good if youre a little dumb I suspect it makes the girl be more at ease and she feels more secure knowing she can get one up on you. Its like when dads tell you that women are always right, they know they have to give her the upper hand sometimes instead of debating for being right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:50 PM
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It doesn't take into account what men are uniquely great at, they are able to take risks and decide to stand out with their goals and investments, if you ask girls what they want in life way more of them are going to say husband, house and travel but if you ask women how theyre going to get there its always something like Ill marry someone rich, guys dont get handouts from women, we don't even hold you to a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:52 PM
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Words are compared by their innate meaning instead of their associated context which is the frustration here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:41 PM
1

If as a guy you go for a woman who is inexperienced because you aren't confident in yourself then the woman doesn't want you at all women want confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:32 AM
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It's not just sex but having companionship even as a temporary fling can greatly increase your life satisfaction and it helps emotionally too, without it you look at yourself as a failure because men with abundance are seen as status icons. In some part it's like having access to a lot of pussy is peak manliness, which is a toxic message we all spread. For average men interacting with women is important for our culture and society so they can learn how to behave around them and not act like cree…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:42 AM
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if im knees deep in debt and about to be on the streets I don't really have an option now do i, and youre being dramatic hes trading money and assets for sex, his ugly ass is getting a trade shes not exploiting him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:43 PM
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the girl has to be able to have sex with you too, that's a lot for her to give, what if she gives it up and you suck so bad she feels dirty, how does she know you're not going to be creepy stalkerish afterward, how does she know you're not going to put her in danger, giving up money and gifts doesn't make you emotionally vulnerable at all, you don't feel like a slut, she does. Imagine an old lady walks up to you and isn't attractive to you at all, would you ever have sex with her if she did or d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:06 PM
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They only complain if you have no game. OLD is good for exp if it actually gives you real matches, otherwise its just a huge waste of time because you're not learning anything from failing everytime and those fails increase your hopelessnes. Approaching women is good if you're not awkward but if you're asking here you're going to be awkward, I guess the cute kind of awkward can be endeering if she's a little interested but the chances of that are slim, this is the same as with OLD but at least w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:59 PM
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yes that's what it feels, like gradually
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:53 PM
1

Well it probably depends on the country too I'm from belgium, most of them were in their 60's
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:23 PM
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Nice guys have that same side to them but unintegrated, which makes it clunky and dangerous, like swinging a sword without having had training, not literally of course. Men who have been dating are going to be able to bridge certain gaps that put women at ease, that's also why women are often disgusted by virgins interacting with them, virgins have no control over those impulses that women awaken in them, they can't express them in ways that drive attraction yet and so they turn women off. A goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:50 PM
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on online dating apps theres usually always a sizable difference in ratio of male to female which makes this an option for women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:33 PM
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I think height is a developmental mating strategy, they don't want to be small so they mate with someone who's taller to lower the chance of their children being smaller, in the context of evolution body growth is very important, it puts you in a totally different bracket species wise, this behavior and reasoning should still be with us today if it ever was.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:13 PM
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women don't know what they want but they want someone who is capable of taking responsibility for their emotions, if she feels upset she need someone to make her feel safe, not let her vent. If she feels bored she needs someone whos capable of escalating, men don't get taught that being a good boy isn't virtuous it causes restrictions placed on you and on girls disableing them from being truly free, if you can do both of those things and you will be able to drive attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:47 AM
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It's supposed to not make sense to see how you respond to it, they just want something different so they have a different approach which is perfectly reasonable, most men are just pissed about it not being fair or anything but it's also not like you should be treated as if she should be equally slutty forever, how would that make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:33 PM
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these are pretty wide general subjects youre comparing neither autism alone or attractiveness alone have anything to say about the success of an autist person These studies may show you what is common but they don't tell you the exact reason in each situation, nor does it tell you anything about the people who did make it, maybe those had other means there are plenty exceptions for all so if you're looking at this full of doom and gloom know that you don't have to be a number and if you are a nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:59 PM
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I think I see where youre coming from and its a good message to spread, my question to you would be that if it is secret at the time and is only revealed when she rejects him then why is she totally on board taking his kindness for granted she can't be expecting him to just give everything away for free and in my experience theyre happy to take it, if they as you say do not appreciate the transactional shift then they wouldn't take any transactions at all, or at least they would mention somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:30 AM
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Here are some socially accepted ways to let a girl know you're interested in her: - try to meet her gaze until she notices, then smile, gauge her reaction, try two or three times if they're positive, you can keep playing the eyelocking game or approach her - give her a compliment and walk away, the next time you guys meet she's going to be alright with approaches, this is one where you let fate decide if you meet again, it'll be extra meaningful that way for both of you - test the waters with sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:28 AM
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Most of the dudes that say that never really tried to get women, also if you're loud and always out there women actually notice you as opposed to being virtuous and shy. There is some discrimination towards weakness or even introversion in men but that's because there is no evolutionary advantage dating a weak man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:46 PM
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With the revival of gym culture right now it's not that high, they'd beat all of the steroid users but they don't look as muscular, there's plenty of men in other sports too like tennis or badminton who have comparable bodies to the swim team guys, even the ones playing football or basketball, it's more like 65%, we do have a lot of fat asses everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:51 PM
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Why do you jump immediately to michael phelps with the word swimmers physique he's like the top swimmer, I'd wager if you showed women that picture it would be bordering too much muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:09 PM
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I don't think you get that this counterexample was using your own argument against you, in that way I suppose it's a little more than speculative. You didn't even try to engage with it which is why agree to disagree is seen as such a weak response and one to easily make done with the discussion. I don't need to convince you either I just find it ridiculous to assume that a man can't have fear of heights or he will be unattractive to women, or that women judge based on one aspect for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:54 PM
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"Agree to disagree" isn't simply disagreeing, it would be considered an easy way out. I wanted to point it out as a counter example
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:49 PM
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She wouldn't respect you right now then, backing out of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:25 AM
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Yes lets say you're both about to do one of those adventure courses high up, with monkey bars and ropes everywhere because she's really excited to but you're not really a fan of heights, pussying out before or even during the course can be considered cute, it depends on how you've behaved in the past, if you do that a lot she won't really respect you but if it's like one fear that you really can't get past its cute
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:33 PM
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It would depend on your experience like you said, the main problem is being consistent and in the moment, if you are not in the moment you aren't going to even have a chance understanding anything, you'd be too much into your own head while you should be putting a lot of your attention on the other person, that's what keeps you from being awkward, you learn how your words affect someone else directly instead of being got out of left field way after. It's considerably easier for you when you get …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:29 PM
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bro you're in waay too deep, women don't know what they want and were supposed to hide anything that was taboo, being open about sexuality has only been a thing since the last decade, if you were to have a sister or not have been a virgin you would know that all the pure maiden ideals in your head are bullshit. Same with women, they're like oh I want a family and a guy that treats me well, until they date a fuckboy and he fucks them really good, they want to be the family girl still but what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:25 AM
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you can make a generalization "over" means an exaggeration, it's not about exceptions I believe what you're talking about is just your bubble not the majority or even the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:16 AM
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As with anything you can't collapse the entire gender in such an over-generalization, women and men are roughly similar in many regards outside of the obvious physical differences but that doesn't mean that there is a clear line that can be drawn, there's a considerable subsection of men that doesn't put emphasis on looks and has non-sexual preferences for example: cuteness factor, independence or facial expression. I believe this subsection is far larger in women, I'd make a joke pointing to sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:56 AM
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It's not hate, more like they don't respect them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:25 AM
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This is about both, if you ever cheat on someone which I trust you won't you will do it thinking youre not a bad person and perhaps the situation between you and your partner really gives you that idea, over time falling out of love and both people not taking the effort to reenvigorate or not having the time to do so is not fully to blame of the single partner, but this should be worked out before betraying someone and the only way you do that is by both being more competent navigating the socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:43 PM
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Mate, we know nothing about the type of men women have affairs with you're on reddit and the majority here is virgins who share anecdotes that are worse than gossip. None of the data here is reliable so when you start using it so confidently and calling it evidence like you do here it's just a little sad. The reason why women would cheat on you is because of the desperation all throughout your rant, but that aside your first point is definitely emotional dissatisfaction, a lack of excitement is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:12 AM
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The reason they call it a spectrum now is because of the endless flavors of differences between people with autism even among those who are high functioning, saying men with aspergers are extremely vulnerable to X doesn't mean anything anymore, we're just too different. You may notice a lot more autistic traits among people who are unable to have good relationships because social skills are a measure for selection, but this doesn't make it about a specific disorder it's just a consequence of wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:38 AM
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I think when it becomes a value it becomes a measure and then you let yourself engage in discrimination based on those looks, examples like: "uhm I don't really like his/her nose" or "his/her hair looks way too messy here". It's not that common but a person can shine brighter because of their personality and things like a nose or a hairstyle you can easily get used to or even start to like about them. Some people like your friends wouldn't have looked as good as they are now if you first met the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:11 AM
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I would argue that you breaking it off over something as vain as attractiveness wastes more of your time because you have to build up again with someone else, perhaps go through some more relationships that you find aren't even close to this one. If your partner sticks with you despite all that and you both are happy you're doing better than 80% of couples, maybe 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:24 PM
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its only wild in your small limited bubble, Ive had older successfully married people joke about stuff like this a lot, if you cant make compromises and cant laugh about your relationship dynamic its clear youre in this sub resentful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:04 AM
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I don't want to be associated with weird over the top conspiracy like predictions and I think it's damaging to the more sane refined message which is that there is a biological instinct being repressed when men are forced to stop looking at women in a sexual way
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:32 PM
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I think that's fair at least it's a clear rule and not some cheeky ambiguous stuff the pedos hide behind
/r/MensRights19/05/23 10:48 PM
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that's no longer about consent at that point, those are both clearly adults
/r/MensRights19/05/23 10:43 PM
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I'm not american and I said I was ok with 16, if you want to bang teenagers go ahead
/r/MensRights19/05/23 06:49 PM
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I don't agree with the rationale behind lowering AoC either, you're not sending those men to prison they're unable to wait for 2 years until the girl is legal, they're sending themselves and arguably if both of them are unable to mitigate the risk of having illegal sex they're also too immature to give consent imo. I don't think 18 is a good age it just doesn't track with what they're saying. I'm okay with 16 but then they should have a better reason. They could lower the sentence or give them a…
/r/MensRights19/05/23 05:07 PM
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They're not often stubborn about it though, if you can convince them which isn't too hard, they will sit down and accept that their standards are high. If they're doing something that is stupid, they know they're being stupid and it's up to you to correct them. Which is also a good way to see which guys are worth it, because if you have zero patience with them like this, then you won't be able to handle them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:24 PM
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Pro's: You get to explore your sexuality, You get to talk about it with your friends and not be left out, You earn experience dealing with the most socially competent guys, You get to feel special, You get to relax and have fun in an intimate setting, You learn how men work, or at least you think you do, You get to imagine new scenarios in your life and explore different dreams, You get to open new doors or have your partner open them for you, It doesn't have to be about sex, and I don't think s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:50 PM
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You can't do anything about the cards you were dealt, when someone talks of confidence being attractive there's a subtext of "you have to be confident, otherwise you'll have even less of a chance". You aren't owed the most attractive person but when the most attractive person suddenly decides to stop putting so much emphasis on looks guess what they're going to prefer next. Insecurity is the least attractive out of just about anything, looks are the most attractive, if you don't have the looks t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:01 PM
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There are a lot of women who stay single and don't have sex, or only go after sex when they're bored, you have to be at least a little dysfunctional as a girl to want to sleep with multiple partners because it detracts from their value. it makes some of them feel guilty long term
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:34 PM
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You already know women are slow starters, they need a warm up, you can warm them up from the minute they get out of bed and then throughout the day and then when it becomes night you make sure to take your time, don't need to do this every day or on a day by day basis, but just keep your interactions exciting and playful, more physical contact and make her think about it. If she rejects you trying to do this, I think you need a talk, maybe you're overdoing it to where it becomes annoying, it's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:59 AM
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I think the problem is that women are easy going, if there's like one extreme radical freminist in their group none of those women are going to speak up against her or ask questions or try to get to the bottom of it, they will nod their head and validate a powerful woman. I sincerely believe that a ton of women have love and respect for men, I hope all of them had a father figure in their lives they know what a father is. It's not who they are, just the few radicalizing the many. Same with us, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:58 AM
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If she told you she liked it rough, you may already be able to contain yourself since you've had practice, but not everyone does. It's not just social conditioning, it's the safest option
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:03 PM
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like over 80 percent of both genders don't reach each others bar, that's a lot of people, some people have a high bar, some people have a low bar and some people won't be happy despite the bars they place, it's a stupid system. You also can't talk about aesthetic privilege when everyone has a type and there are plenty of girls who I've seen date someone conventionally unattractive vise versa. If you put yourself out there it is harder or easier depending on your factors however if you have the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:32 AM
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you probably did more than you're aware of, female intuition pretty good sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:16 PM
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were they real confident or just bravado?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:27 PM
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if you're confident then it doesn't matter if you're her type
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:06 PM
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You don't really understand women if you really think they have the same standards they voice out to be. There's a difference in what they say, feel and do, if you're a rational person you assume there aren't any contradictions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:10 PM
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I love rocky but if that movie was real Stallone would have died after the first fight, that man didn't block anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:51 PM
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Your last sentence is the problematic part, how many times can you pick yourself up before something cracks, if you look at traditional marriages there has always been a strong demand of control up front and this was deemed necessary. We're not exactly made of glass but we're also not invincible to stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:11 PM
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its better not to xopy at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:23 AM
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There's a danger in copying those people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:35 PM
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You're an idiot for doing the same thing over again and thinking you'd catch a fish
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:27 PM
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It is dangerous to tell a fisherman that he needs other fishermen to catch fish, it's a weird thing to tell someone because after a few generations each of them are merely following conventions without really knowing why or if it still applies to the current environment. What you should do is fish, try to absorb all the information and then pave a road that works for you, chances are that you are uniquely good at something, and if that something happens to be spinning plates then good for you, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:54 AM
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You never know the details of the relationship and you only have the woman's perspective, if this was your brothers fiance your answer would be way more contextualized and refined
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:07 PM
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Im autistic and so it took me a lot of time to figure this out, its not always what people say but what they feel and experience that is important, so if you are labeled a certain way it doesn't even mean they really consider you being that forever, its just that they felt something off with you or felt uncomfortable around you If you are a nice guy you make women uncomfortable by hiding a part of yourself amd assuming she doesn't have this part either, she won't respect you and you haven't been…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:53 AM
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Your wording is a bit off but women sure have the same issue of quality, they talk about there not being enough good male partners but it's the same for both sexes, men are just really bad at hiding it, most women are able to conform to societal standards and be horrible people at the same time, men when they're horrible people are often also failures in the eyes of society. You can be a woman, not give a shit about men, take full advantage of benevolent sexism, have shopping as a sole hobby, sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:59 PM
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I understand thx
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:16 PM
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I think I put that in the disclaimer, I have no perspective on the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:06 PM
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That's a good point, maybe we need like a documentary of a healthy relationship or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:05 PM
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If only we had real women setting the example, I'm not sure this is the case rn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:31 PM
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They are assholes but I think the parts where I went into detail are gender problems born from past societal expectations and we need to overcome those if we want to be better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:29 PM
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This isn't a rant, the gf part was just an example to paint the picture, I've never had issues with shaving my beard or a gf who doesn't drop her work, these are just the most relatable topics I could compare it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:27 PM
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Please read the disclaimer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:14 PM
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It isnt just about what people want for me, its about what they need to have a healthy future
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:55 PM
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I've never seen a man kick a woman when shes down or go so far, it wouldnt be socially acceptable, however the same isn't true for men, no one bats an eye when a woman goes off on a man like that. The second point wasnt about boundaries but of expectations here I would allow more leeway but the amount of expectations that women have for men is still not comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:51 PM
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No I've described every woman, the ones with a dependency disorder are just way more affected by push pull techniques
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:38 AM
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most of them don't know since they're focused on themselves but that's something women like, first someone who's more redpilled is out there hes the opposite of clingy, so if you were a woman you have to prove yourself or you're out they like that way more than someone who would cry and make them feel bad for leaving another point is that the more redpilled men have more experience with women, not only sexual but just behaviorally too, they are comfortable huggers, have learned what women really…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:47 PM
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bro this is not even something that warrants discussion, the onlyfans girls clearly put themselves out there while the men are able to hide so this makes it balance out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:36 AM
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They don't try to misinform and lie, they're just scared of how they will be judged if they tell the truth, this man vs woman thing is bullshit yk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:50 PM
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Whenever someone says the phrase "simple as that" 100% it's not as simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:58 PM
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Is it really a relationship if he's using her for sex though, I'm sure it lasts longer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:45 AM
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There is the element of hot guy gets away with it but in general the guys that girls go for are good at emotional communication, it's like a whole thing that is barely noticeable like how a person can have a better connection with someone by shutting his mouth rather than talking, picking the right time to say something is soo important it's insane and being able to do that without any mistakes is even harder, the guys who pull that off are the cool ones and they have the girls all over them but…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:01 PM
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usually intelligence means that you're harder to be with but it doesn't have to be if you play for intrigue and wit you can hook men just as well, if you're comfortable being a little slutty you won't have the slightest resistance getting a man two or even 3 units higher than you. It's also not looked down upon when you go after someone hard, the risks are lower, unless he's got them lined up you're always able to fit in. It's ok if you don't want to be sexual and if you're looking for a partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:34 PM
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I think that everyone lies at one point in their relationships, whether it is to do harm or unintentional the question isn't whether it is okay in general but why you're doing it and whether that specific situation calls for it, I think if you look at it that way it's easier to wrap your head around and you might even agree with that person at least you'll understand where they're coming from. There's also the annoying fact that you shouldn't just take it when someone fucks you over because that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:18 AM
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There is no logic in it but seeing how you reacted you gotta understand that her strategy was a good one if you drop everything over her right now you wouldn't have been able to face the other challenges either and her ex wasn't all in like that, and would have made it easier for her to continue her studies. She hasn't cut you off she's just navigating the emotions and trying to balance what the most reliable way forward would be, so hey it got intense, dangerously so and she pulled back for her…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 09:15 AM
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It's a solution to an equally bad problem coming from the other party which is to have such high standards that you think you deserve to be with a member of the royal family or one such equivalent, if no one nudged our insecurity we'd all go for perfection despite not being perfect ourselves, and we need to be made cognizant of the fact that we're not perfect or we'll forgo the perfectly fine opportunities in between it's not necessarily a bad thing UNLESS you are a piece of shit ruining someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:38 PM
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There are moments when the outside is giving you signals that you're worthless and it is during those times that a certain individual is able to power through by being confident from the inside, it's not connected to anything other than the belief that you are worthy and that you have the power to do great in the future despite what many would lead you to believe. It doesn't happen nearly as often as extrinsic validation but it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:48 AM
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Sometimes it's a little less healthy, because when it stems from insecurity they end up making desperate choices and then they do end up with partners who treat them like objects, desperation makes them justify the partners to themselves and then they're stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:13 AM
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there's just a lot of variables I'm not certain about and it would get a label placed on me that I think is better to avoid, I may not find it dirty (I actually do) to have sex with someone who's had an exceptional amount of sexual partners but other people certainly do and if it comes out I'm just a guy who bangs prostitutes or who is desperate they bang prostitutes. The variables are that I'm not sure if I'll find someone that is attractive, I would feel shame selecting a girl based on looks i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:16 PM
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Hear me out, I don't think them being gross is even in the list of reasons, we simply don't think about it that much and who cares about it as long as we're getting what we want, if she tells us then sure but it's not important at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:06 PM
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this study is practically bullshit, you don't need a self assessment to predict that people who are selfish and callous and impulsive are less likely to spend time raising a child and are more interested in chasing women, that's in the diagnosis and the diagnosis has been around and evidenced for a number of years. Researchers are basically just piling useless papers on top of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:23 AM
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Look I'd believe it, guys always want to beat the highscore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:20 PM
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Men dont want their daughters to be doormats like they want their wives to be the conclusion to draw here is that they want their daughters to date someone better than them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:07 PM
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It just shows a lot of bad qualities in the person who gives that advice, the virgin perspective that sees an innocent damsel in distress and thinks themselves better than him so underneath the "leave him" there's a jealous voice begging her to go with a nice guy like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:35 PM
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stereotypes for relationship advice on reddit: Woman "just leave him, you can do better" Man "stop being a weak ass pussy"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:38 PM
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I've seen people use texting and online conversations solely to meet up, I think it's better to show off who you really are that way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:36 PM
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I think it's mostly because it's not easy to marry both the nice qualities and fuckboy assertive qualities together inside of yourself, if you set strong boundaries and only give when she returns it should grow a more ideal interaction both in relationships and friendships, because while you can be successful forever as a more redpilled HVM there is a tradeoff in terms of intimacy and deeper long term trust, your workaround would be to just not trust her and keep control, to just keep distance a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:32 PM
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You can be friends with women who have something to offer you, like Id argue there are more women who are good friends to you than men, they will come over and talk to you if you have a bad day or remember your birthday and give you thoughtful gifts, it doesn't all have to be about sex theres more value to be had
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:04 AM
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It sucks but women care about more than just knowledge and it's your fault for not noticing Fuck the bad boy and still get everything you want from the nice guy sounds like the perfect deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:03 PM
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I would've approached OP's argument differently because what you say is true, we aren't one dimensional. Strong ideological feminists however judge people who are misogynist or just white to the point that they wish them to rot in prison or something like that. That is a worse measurement of a person than them just being one dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:48 PM
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that seems to imply they are already using jealousy against girls as a way to get their interest, its normal that infatuation would get repressed after youve been in a few relationships because it makes you lose control
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:19 PM
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There's probably a large minority that does, but even then, it's not about them being a virgin, and more about having a girl whose personality is supple. And who aren't making them feel insecure in terms of life experience. They would want to feel like being above them and they can't really do that if the woman knows her way around. On the opposite side there are those who don't like inexperienced women, but I think out of this group of people most of them would still like the woman to look youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:40 PM
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It's funny how you try to catch women on this point logically when they don't take any position whatsoever, you're throwing frustration arguments into the wind, it's not bullies and jerks that they are after, they look for strength, you the nice guy are weak and they want to be with the winners so they don't end up in the slums if they have to choose people who are immoral and mean, they will do so hoping to be able to change them and focus their power towards something that benefits her. Someti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:59 PM
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right back atchu
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:56 PM
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True, it's usually fronted as protection but then they are again fronting that they're the weak sex, I agree that a lot of these problems that women blame us for is actually theirs, we aren't as hard to other women as they are, you notice that with women who grow up with brothers, they don't have many of these issues and are capable of being one of the boys without succumbing to sexual harassment, they know how to throw something back and gain respect for not being bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:48 PM
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I think you spend too much time on the internet and treat the men hating niche as a majority
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:39 PM
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don't think women are taught at all it's the power that they hold over men that eventually makes them treat them like that. If a strong man comes along they would change with some resistance ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:56 PM
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It's weird women don't even want that, I'm not sure where it stems from probably from female role models telling you that women are sensitive, since they are the ones who start treating women like that from a young age, they separate them from boy scenes and make them do girly things even though I've seen there are girls who would rather go drive their toy cars in the mud with the boys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:54 PM
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No, the way men are taught to treat women is toxic, we're taught to treat them as princesses, frail and sensitive which is not what they are, men are made impotent by that teaching and it's part of why women don't pick these nice guys. Those subtle signs that girls drop are the key to making good choices, they aren't meant to be conscious, they're hoping for you to already do that without thinking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:03 PM
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You had me until is just another way women gaslight men and devalue their struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:48 AM
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They will bring up excuses and men will want an answer and in the end it doesn't even matter, why? Because it's not rational. If you don't give her the feeling that she wants to have sex with you then she won't have sex with you simple as that, now you want to know how to give her that feeling and no one will be able to tell you, this is something that requires you to first have a personality and then let this personality develop a certain way, if it doesn't have any playboy factor then you're n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:18 PM
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Without looks the female standards are often still to high, you have tons of women who delude themselves that single life is better for them unless they meet someone who is better off financially than them and it's not true, they will have to turn away from their biology and feelings in order to believe that it's not about what you can gain from your partner it's what you will become together and I feel a lot of women miss this point, if you are unwilling to support the weaknesses of your partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:21 AM
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There is a fault in your reasoning, you may think that what follows is a disinterest in the person behind the mask but it is rather the disinterest in someone who has masked himself in the first place, if you seem to be high value one time and then drop the appearance the girl will understand this as an even stronger no-go, which is understandable, not only were you low value but you have failed trying to mask it. They do not want a quirky unique man or at least few women want that because it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:33 AM
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reddit is full of virgins and that's not an insult, they just put women on a pedestal and are oblivious to anything other than the object of pure unadulturated female in their minds. It is not hard for other women to play along with and they will; the sacrifice of these men which benefits her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:40 PM
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because everyone is able to see it and explaining to you every single indicator is like throwing you bullets without the gun, it doesn't accomplish anything if you don't want to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:53 PM
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ok sure somehow the most popular man wasnt talked about before that stream
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:36 PM
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If you dont see it you don't see it, im not wasting my time trying to convince someone who's either blind or deep in denial, watch the reality shows his character breaks are more noticeable there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:34 PM
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He only really blew up after being on a popular twitch stream and then every twitch and youtube content creator in the world featured and talked about him, you can look at it as a conspiracy or be normal and just look at it as a popularity boost that happened. You have this character millionaire womanizer hot shot who fronts all these high value objects (including women lol) but isn't able to conceal his rather timid nerdy personality underneath, he's 100% bravado and it works like most people r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:49 PM
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beyond a certain point I would agree with this but if you're really good at being fun and confident you can overcome being sub-par physically, you also can't just think that this is all there is to it, the most attractive players have been in the game for longer observe them, non-creepy physical touch, being around them when you think they need you, subtle suggestions and banter are all part of it and they can make or break your attempts just as much as being obese can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:51 AM
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You don't know what stigma means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:06 AM
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Not enough people were even online to be aware of online dating back then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:08 AM
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first of all stigma is when people are shamed for doing something not just when they feel ashamed, and the other part makes no sense tinder was super popular when it came out and there were women using it for simple validation, they are the ones deciding which guy is beneath them because girls never struggle to get matches so I don't know if this was like at the very start before tinder came out or what but I think your view is dated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:13 PM
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Both of the groups you mentioned never had real stigma associated, transactional dating is picking up and you could include onlyfans in that but eventually something is going to need to happen because they will be addicted to attention without gaining any real love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:43 PM
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I am unlike anyone you've ever dated, it's a mental condition actually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:05 PM
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I believe it's a man thing, we don't really respect if someone looks irrational, we don't want you to run all over and the emotional intrigue is annoying, etc.. Sometimes it gets so bad that you blame us for stuff that hasn't even got anything to do with us, like the "all men are assholes" out of the mouth of a girl who happens to not realize that's exactly the type she gravitates towards. There are women who put themselves in danger, there are girls who meet the perfect guy and then decide to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:39 AM
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Harassment in general, Having to deal with fake bitches and fake friends who point out every insecurity and go behind your back once you don't wear makeup one day, like the passive aggressive emotional bullying. Guys don't often have to deal with that, I've had that happen one time and it made my blood boil. Not having your voice heard or being ignored in a male dominated group, if a female opinion isn't as "refined" as the male ones she should at least be respected and be told why, not be insta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:41 PM
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That makes it so complex but what do you think is the percentage of women who get harassed by any type of man during their younger years?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:10 PM
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The group of women that have high self esteem wouldn't just be "some" women but there I'm out of my depth, you would be better at coming up with an estimate than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:01 PM
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that's valid it's either that or women genuinely have a response of disgust when they see an unattractive mate to scare all but the most confident ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:16 PM
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You have to be an overly self conscious and nervous guy to pay attention to stuff like that in the first place and to have it happen to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:00 PM
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I don't think we can put an accurate measure on it, I think it's best to stick to appearance and just assume everyone judges ones appearance differently, it also rules out any focus on one area since some women prefer men who are shaven and others like beards. There are a lot of factors at play, I think that if you are a man and you want to try to mitigate it is best to wear appropriate clothes, look clean, groom, work on your posture and try to be as close to that kind of ideal, because out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:43 PM
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That's a nice way of thinking about it but I used to get those looks in other scenarios too, that's why I deduce as appearance rather than just being a stranger. The stranger argument approaching also doesn't make sense when put next to an attractive guy because whether they are strangers or not always get a more receptive response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:36 PM
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It depends on the guy, if you're not conventionally attractive even just walking up to a girl can get you a mean look of disgust which you kinda have to get over quick and collect yourself, if you take a lot of care or you don't approach as if you were trying to ask someone out it lowers the chances of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:10 AM
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I don't think women should initiate more, it's good if it feels genuine for them to do so but do it to the wrong guy and he spins you, the reason women are so vague about interest is also because it can be used against them, women being physically weaker gives them a disadvantage for when they are roped in. The real issue with men walking up is that women's rejections are sometimes brutal and one would hope that with equality they would know how it feels, at the same time who can say with certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:56 AM
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If she endangers what we have just for the fun of it and doesn't feel remorse I don't see how we would have a long lasting relationship, so she would be marked as temporary. I can laugh about many things and I can understand to a certain degree but if you don't care, I don't care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:31 PM
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"low" and "high" is not an objective measure, you're dragging in objective measures (stats) to support your own subjective interpretation of what you think "low" means but this is pointless to the discussion. The discussion of standards is often between men and women, men stating women have high standards compared to them, it is this comparison that governs what "high" or "low" means, despite its vagueness. If you want your argument to work you would have to put statistics of men next to statist…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:17 PM
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No this is not at all terrible, they have to take a chance somehow, and the way they base things is through feeling which captures a ton of nuances that are indescribable they would capture things like how sexual the guy is, if a guy is sexual they are more likely to want to use you rather than kill you, with dominant guys you can pick up a secondary form of submission, where they still grant a lot of leniency to the girl to get something out of her, which also usually shows the woman that he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:09 AM
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That's an entirely different issue, they don't go into that thinking they are going to be unsafe and after the fact it takes a while before they are empowered to even call their experience an assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:45 PM
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You approach it from a good angle but deeper down there is a point where the animal side and the moral side overlap, for women this can be something like security. They live with the concern for security way more than men do so whether they are below or above their animal selves it is always in their best interest to fix weakness. For men mental strength usually isn't about being edgy or a bad boy it's about not giving a fuck and just continuing to move along, unwavering. Being on top of your em…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:59 AM
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It is easy, all of you want the prime cut regardless of how much you bring to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:00 PM
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We have to become homosexual to up our chances you only need to drop your bar
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:19 PM
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The data doesn't seem to say anything about trying to select your partner according to all these findings. I don't think it'll work out if you bring up your notepad and start recruiting your partner but good luck. It just happens to be this way but the data doesn't really tell you why either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:11 AM
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The parables are the perfect depictions of our desire, that's why we love them, it's a hope for a pure reality devoid of all the lying, cheating and backstabbing, you can't tell a child the truth or they will be traumatized which is why we are sold an alternate version but this alternate version I would argue is a better one and in there is the hope that we could have a more beautiful world. You don't want to turn plates it's exciting to you if you are good at it but in there is a change of perc…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/22 12:35 PM
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It's one of those Ideas I find beautiful and desirable the ability to each be able to be vulnerable in a relationship and grow to love each other more intimately because of that. I've tried to get at that and now believe it is impossible the closer you get to someone the more you have to deal with both your emotions at once, there's no split anymore, you would get anxiety when they are anxious and anxiety when you are anxious both of you would be anxious and feel the same emotions that the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:16 AM
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Wait so you certainly don't lack confidence with any one of them but for some reason you were scared you wouldn't get the treesome like if she's really into you and she wants it, just asking if she wants her friend to join or simply making a witty comment about that should've sufficed right
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 08:42 PM
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Maybe those feelings chad gave her were the first time she felt that, it's not as easy as oh this guy is the model husband you need to have feelings for them, and so shes misled by chad due to his experience playing women and still believes in those feelings to this day. I wouldn't say it's anyones blame, chad would have had experiences of his own just like anyone on this forum that led him to the path of treating women like objects, it's not her fault if that genuinely was one of the few reason…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 08:31 PM
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If you put yourself into her position it's just the most intelligent decision to make just because she gets away with it, sleeping behind her boyfriends back keeps her spirits high during the moments where she craves attention or when the sex isn't good enough, she can't teach her boyfriend to get better because then it raises his value and she could lose him to someone else, she's holding all the strings. Same thing with the sucking dick example, if she tells you she wants to get tested she's c…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 12:33 PM
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Ok I disagree with the majority here because you don't understand that a ton of women don't like to engage first, so she is allowed to only have this beautiful marriage kind of dream and that's enough for her, why is it enough? Because she's not horny, and no it's not because she's not attracted to him, he fits in the marriage material picture she's attracted to him and she'll want his babies if she's into that, but he doesn't fit the animalistic requirements that make her horny. So what he need…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:26 PM
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The problem is more complex than this but what it comes down to is we all want more than we're worth and we hurt people to get it, but most of all we hurt ourselves, we should be worth more but work and social media is taking up the majority of our lives, it doesn't teach us how to notice signals because we talk through a screen, we don't learn about other people that way because we're obsessed with chasing our own success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:28 PM
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It doesn't happen as often that women take that teacher role, there are probably some relationships out there and maybe they work maybe they don't, I think it's important there is variance so everyone can find what's right for them. There's women who see us as their personal bank account, good thing they're easy to spot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:59 AM
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But if you're trying to court her, well you are trying to get something in exchange for that compliment. Man this is all about lying to yourself and her to get past her defenses. Yuck. No wonder I like OLD better, at least there everyone knows what they're there for. You can see it like that but in their mind they want to make a good decision and this includes having a partner that really loves them instead of just wanting to go straight to the juice, for these women it's like a split between ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:34 AM
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I believe some people can do it better than others, like you can't do it if you're overconfident and have to keep everything as a percentage probability, a part of reading is also influencing it and I think most of them stick to just reading, if for example you're out and about cold approaching a girl is not moving within the narrative, there is nothing that sets you up to talk to her, you can compliment her but can't go further because that lets her know you're there to get something in exchang…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:07 PM
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There are certain actions you can do in the context that aren't picked up as too much, usually there's like a narrative in the air and if your actions fit this narrative few people are going to even be able to think bad of you, it requires you to read the air though. This is what women expect because they think they are giving a guy signs when they are interested but few of us are actually able to read them. I think narrative is an apt name, some call them vibes or aura. The way I got there was …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:56 AM
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The virgin mind is like "Oh delicate flower, I hope I don't soil your new dress are you sure you want to do it here" and her body language is like "shut up, grab me by the hair, push me against a wall and fuck me like a demon" That's what actually gets changed there, your image of a pure woman is shattered.. The rest and most of what you mentioned is not from sex but rather from the relationship itself that's how they notice women are humans, sex isn't a good way to provide intimacy imo there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:52 PM
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I'm not saying you should, that's what suit yourself means, but yeah I said that it was difficult not to have judgements, maybe someday you will be in the position of being a trashy person and understand that sometimes you can stoop that low and it's not always out of bad will, everyone has issues, there's only a very small percentage of real evil out there and even then they don't know better, maybe they have never experienced and learned how good it feels to really love someone or be loved. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:30 PM
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Suit yourself it seems like you dont care even if the other person has issues more complex than just wanting to suck you dry, I dont believe for a second that such evil exists, everyone has good in them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:01 PM
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it goes deeper than just financial security
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:21 AM
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It doesnt matter who started it, the point is to not be that person
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 12:34 PM
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I don't like this Idea and I'm a fellow aspie, there are differences among individuals that just aren't comparable some of which have anything to do with mental diversity, some of it is just the situation so saying that you should be more proud because you have more to overcome is egocentric, as if neurotypicals can't have any large hurdles on their path. This kind of mentality only promotes a divide when we really need to come together again.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 03:24 AM
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Regular advice is way worse than what you can find here, it's not about truth being harsh or soft it's that people here actually care about the subject and have a lot of incentive to give good advice, a lot of people out there who aren't your friends benefit from taking your money and faking interest which is exactly what your barber or coach will do. You have a lot of repeats and dumb takes and needless discussions but at least they're honest and you can find some gems here and there, who says …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:13 AM
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the deep reason is that they do it to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:01 AM
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It is a given that they ended up leeching but do you really think someone wakes up some day thinking "lets leech off of this person again", why do they leech?. Why does a parasite usually leech off a victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:49 PM
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wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:24 PM
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And what is the evident, that they just randomly jumped from feeling one thing to feeling nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:20 PM
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I'm not even saying to take the jump, if you don't care about a response don't ask a question, if you want to vent go find someplace to vent instead or at least make it a statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:12 PM
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By legitimately trying to understand why the other person does the stuff he/she does. It's deceptively hard to not have judgements but that's how you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:31 PM
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This is the real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:29 PM
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Don't be so hopeless, you can change the way you dress, get a tattoo or something to contradict the harmless image, what they need is for you to not be a priest, during the raids back when vikings pillaged abbeys it was free loot, you need to be able to protect your family from looters basically or at least look like someone who shouldn't be messed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:32 PM
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Oh in that case some of us may do that, but we also would date cute girls for us it's like a synonym for attraction in a lot of cases. Like we describe girls as "hella cute" in private when we see a really hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:42 PM
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lmao we're animals we leave no stone unturned when it comes to sexualization
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:39 PM
2

boys fucking brain splattered all over the walls and ceiling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:37 PM
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It is frustrating but lucky for you it seems it's just your appearance.. that's easy to change!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:36 PM
2

Nah it means you're attractive but harmless, you don't guarantee their security or have any show of strength so being with you would leave them vulnerable, some girls don't mind and would date cute guys but most of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:31 PM
3

You don't sound crazy a lot of this is whether your behavior is in line with the impression they already have of you, if you are a cute girl you can set this impression by making sexual comments during the first few conversations or build it up gradually. It's not just inherent to girls either, and some people will be more accepting of your change than others. They would be more sensitive to you changing your perceived image. It's also the reason why some people get away with more than others do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:24 PM
4

Well you kind of have to be a little more intimate with the people you are criticizing if you care about having an informed opinion, you obviously care about promoting a healthy lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 06:12 PM
5

I agree with the overall notion of getting in shape = attraction but the thing you said about fat is wrong, where fat goes doesn't depend on gender, some people grow in size in areas that are still attractive like thighs and ass but I think you've spent too much time around fit people because I've come across many people man and female who have a fat belly or floppy arms.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 11:55 AM
1

I had a response to your point but you clearly didn't read
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:28 PM
7

In all this time, I have only met 2 virgin guys I genuinely believe that the vast majority of guys have too much John or Willy in them this is why they can't get a lady You make large general statements on top of your meagre sample size of 2. This is not to disagree with you, it's just a little something to think about. There are many people in the world and lots of them have jobs, that take a lot of time away from doing what they like to do, after doing whatever it is they want to do when they …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:42 AM
1

By doing this they're smarter than us because they keep the guys around that they can just use for attention instead of pushing them to change themselves, they see the utility in keeping them around and at the same time get to complain about those men when their own tactic backfires, if that isn't intelligent I don't know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:24 AM
2

It's not a contradiction it's just atypical
/r/TheRedPill06/04/22 09:58 PM
5

You describe yourself as a nerd but your language is overly dramatic, your post has truth to it, it's just hard to read this way or to take it seriously.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/22 08:32 PM
52

Bro you're zoning in on Jada too much, she didn't orchestrate this specifically, there just happened to be a joke about her and she had will by the balls way before the oscars, she's not craving for attention, having will win an oscar would have put her in the spotlights just as much, there's a difference between her taking pleasure in wills demise and her actively making it happen, she doesn't love him and she manipulates him but this just happened to play out this way, she's not some kind of m…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 06:35 AM
3

It's just less easy for university people to make fools of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:50 PM
5

Ive seen this happen a lot where the reactions of others actually increase the trauma on the individual, I know it sounds wrong Im not trying to advocate for anything but its just a fact Ive been sexually harassed at work and you feel dirty in the moment especially for letting it happen but you get yourself over it, the real hit only comes when you realize what they actually did to you and usually that realization comes after you tell people and they react so if youre a guy harassed by a female …
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:55 AM
2

We are going to have to adapt, generalizations aren't good enough anymore, they never were
/r/MensRights29/03/22 06:55 PM
5

Women arent that different from us, among them are those who dont care about anyone else but themselves, we have to look beyond sex and gender to be able to point at the devils in our midst and not be tempted into fighting each other
/r/MensRights29/03/22 12:17 PM
19

Something isnt right about how he acts towards his wife, shes got him by the balls or something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:05 PM
1

It's also a joke to have the levels, you may find individuals of a certain value above yours that particularly like you. It's not a flat science, putting everything on a level base system makes it seem like there's only one aspect to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:15 AM
2

That's funny, you're a siren. Ok I kinda get what you're saying, it ruins a guys life just like how guys would ruin a girls life if they take advantage but somehow in your example it's the older guys fault to be tempted by an underage girl so you're actually a force of good. And no one really cares about any politician.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:17 PM
1

If by that you mean following and spending money on visiting concerts of cute canadian singers or following the cast of the latest sparkly vampire flick then I think they're not scary or creepy at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:04 PM
1

When you haven't been in a male head it's hard to really get a clear picture, in our teenage years there are moments where we get that horny, there are moments where we go for girls to get laid, some men never experience it and there are different gradations to it but overall judging by the groups of boys we have been around it's objectively similar, even with group pressure if they said those things to their mom or sister they would be repulsed, a rough example would go along the lines of "yo I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:47 PM
3

Here's my own take on this, If you assume women are dumb to do this it's because you don't look at it from their point of view and you are stuck to using logic to describe everything, just for this argument assume you are a woman looking to find the best possible mate. Whether it's instinctual, subconscious or conscious women are smarter than you think, a partner is not just to have someone to protect them, it's having someone to make them feel secure and because of this there's a lot more that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:24 PM
1

exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:42 PM
2

why would you ask him to ask her something everyone knows
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:50 PM
1

Something like how hot/cute <insert popular group or singer> is. (Nowadays its Ed Sheeran right?), clothes, cute decorative items or anything shopping related, school, how drunk they were at parties, who kissed who, other gossip, etc.. There were a few girls that were interested in the more nerdy stuff like videogames but then aside from playing some games we never actually connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:45 PM
3

For a long time I never considered women interesting, they talked about boring subjects, did a lot of the emotional stuff like venting and complaining and were just annoying to be around, not all of them but the ones who were were the loudest and shaped my opinion so back then I did have crushes and those would be the ones I'd talk to or if there was a girl I had to talk to I would ofcourse just be nice to them and act normal but never go out of my way. Nowadays I'm more open to it because I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:30 PM
-2

that just means you're celibate
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 08:42 PM
2

It's intuitive from a female standpoint, if you want to find the most valuable guy you don't go after the ones that are easy to tempt.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 08:42 PM
5

Agreed, confidence really is an uphill battle, mental health determines the starting conditions, and social skills require you to be confident so from deep down depression to social andy is a long ways, usually one step forward two steps back. It's incredibly important to stress how hard it is to train it because even with the help of others once that support falls away you're back to square one. That is, if you even allow them to help you and some things you just gotta do on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:42 PM
1

It gets way more complex than this, women are also turned on by success, its not just their desire to feel validated alone that drives them to have sex. The reason you think validation is because sadly there are women who arent reaching climax so that part of women arent as satisfied with it as they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:37 PM
2

I don't see them as ego damaging because the times in those possibilities were different than the time she met you, so she could've made a decision to take it slower this time which has nothing to do with you at all. maybe you judge yourself when the other person is better at getting women in bed but that isn't really her decision either so in both those cases there's no real reason to blame yourself or the girl it just is a different time and situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:39 PM
-3

Maybe the guy is able to do that to every girl, maybe the girl you were sleeping with happened to be really desperate, there are so many possibilities but you choose to see the one that hurts your ego. These other people you're telling to fuck off see something you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:54 PM
8

We have modern families now so that may not always be possible, sometimes there are school presentations on subjects like this but I don't think they're effective. In the ideal world I'd probably vote to have a female doctor over and explain all of the sensitive stuff in a private setting one on one. Some parents just can't be trusted rn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:31 PM
8

Sit her down at around 14 thats when some of the girls approach danger territory, its sad but we all mature differently and since it doesnt take much for young people to trust someone you want to be there sooner rather than later. Dont make it a lecture either thats like pushing them, just friendly warning about how some guys dont just look at them with the purest intentions and may fake love to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:45 AM
1

Turning them on just requires a ramping up when you go balls deep right away it's overwhelming like: Imagine you are conditioned to be a pious lady and have your childhood filled with the image of finding a prince on a white horse, romance and flowers and velvety aesthetic, butterflies and all that gay shit. And then a potential suitor comes along and shoves his nuts in your face. Wouldn't you be repulsed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:06 PM
1

You get slutshamed and you feel ashamed, this feeling of shame is terrible so you shout back at the men who are trying to make you feel that way they give in, no slutshaming anymore some men take advantage of all the promiscuous girls this makes the girls feel used which is also a terrible feeling so they shout at men (in general because easier to shout at) There is no end to this, the group will get blamed because it's impossible to single out the men responsible and when the group gives in, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:43 PM
2

When they say they "do it for themselves" it means that there are other benefits like confidence and comfort that come with it but you wouldn't know because you dont have that experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:15 AM
-3

Not only that it's how they are conditioned to act in female groups, guys just shit on each other or fight with aggression, there are no lasting consequences to conflict for us unless you never stand up for yourself and get bullied all the time. When in a female group (don't quote me on this but) they have a more indirect approach to conflict, when a girl doesn't like another girl she would do things behind the scenes to oppose her like spreading gossip or influencing their friends, maybe spread…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:40 AM
1

The amount of people you sleep with may say something about your personality but it doesn't significantly change anything else, sometimes its a good thing to have a high n-count because sex can be used as emotional relief. The types of people and behaviors you enable by sleeping with them are much more important, it's not enough to categorize men by their potential value to you, if you're going to sleep with a lot of men you should be expected to build up enough experience to notice all the red …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:57 PM
1

I'm not going to fight you I've realized what kind of man you're talking about, and what intimidation means in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:35 AM
0

Why would men ever say "you intimidate" me to a woman is a good question. Is exactly why I don't think they do. I believe it's women translating separate events and labeling them under the same feeling of intimidation, because in her mind that's how she would feel when a woman is smarter or more successful than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:37 PM
1

I'm imagining how the other person would feel, and if they don't have the same openness they could get hurt, do you do open relationships or do you later get to a point where you do care about sleeping with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:19 PM
1

You're being a lil' dishonest here, you can't reframe the whole of "this would repulse me and make me feel unattractive" as "sexual desirability to OTHERS". Notice the use of ME in your original statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:14 PM
2

I don't agree, when you have one person working really hard for your affection, and then you go spend time with someone undeserving just because you want intimacy or sex right now, it's not respectful, you should be able to return the same kind of energy in the form of loyalty or otherwise. Because you know you wouldn't like it if you were in their shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:05 PM
2

If you have a gradual buildup and a promise of having your desires fulfilled, wouldn't you consider it weak to still have sex with other people. Imagine you're a child making a christmas list of toys they want, knowing that your family will buy you toys from the list but then being so impatient that you buy your own toys before christmas arrives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:06 AM
3

I don't think anyone asked but I'd like to know your opinion on measuring self worth based on another persons desire to have sex with you, don't you think you're being too hard on yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:54 AM
1

I think gender roles are mostly even because the man gets a higher degree of decision power in return, I care for the individual woman who prefers to have it switched but pushing towards abolition of these roles without proposal of a better system is dangerous. It also sometimes appears to me like the issue isn't all about gender roles, that its just something to target their frustration towards. Tackle this frustration and find a better system.
/r/MensRights28/11/21 06:25 AM
0

Those are women saying men say they intimidate them. It's the askwomen subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:58 PM
1

You're right, I wouldn't blame anyone who's single measure is power because it's easy to disregard anything else. What do you look for?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:28 PM
1

If you interpret him saying "you keep arguing with me" as "he thinks I'm too smart" there's something not honest about you, and I believe a lot of women do that when they think they "intimidate" men. I'm not saying that men don't do those things, there clearly are those among us that like young and dumb, I just feel like it would get boring pretty fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:22 PM
1

You learn confidence before you know what it's like to be confident, to get that "foot in the door" it's normal to do some degree of "faking".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:46 PM
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I'm pretty sure men are just happy when their SO has areas of expertise, women aren't easily intimidating since they're often still physically weaker. When I meet a woman more intelligent than I my reaction would be of excitement since I'd think this is a rare find. A woman that knows martial arts and is able to floor me or snap my neck at the drop of a hat, that's when I'd be intimidated, that's actually scary but also kinda interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:49 PM
3

I feel like a lot of films haven't explored the power of female intrigue yet, they often still use male characters for scheming and plotting while women could be more powerful and charming at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:12 AM
1

Hot take: Women were more powerful scheming in the shadows of men than they are now. A lot of them now are weak, screaming at puffs of smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:04 AM
2

Maybe it's not often talked about, the top viewed corn videos don't lie unless it's one person clicking them over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:50 AM
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Lmao they warn for overrating, I only took a quick glance on the sub and the first "objective" "guide" linked was a paper about plastic surgery that aimed to provide an "objective measure of facial attractiveness" so there you have it, only plastic dolls are objectively attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:12 PM
16

I feel like there's a large subset of men who prefer plastic injected in their women. I wonder if they're blind to the unnatural vibe I get from them. Or maybe that's just their fetish. Natural beauty then perhaps requires a lot more perception skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:34 PM
1

On a large scale most people are self centered like that, I'm happy we're not the only ones noticing, everytime you go look for advice you'll have people giving you their solutions without really taking time to listen and understand you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:09 AM
3

A ruthless breakdown of female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:04 AM
-1

In my perspective the phrase "he's not a REAL man" is used to distance men from this one guy like "throwing him to the wolves", "casting him from the group" I don't think women have an equivalent, the image of what a "woman" ought to be was also just a male construct, women don't do that and they also don't really have the same group mentality. This isn't one of the biggest issues either, getting stunlocked over a phrase (whatever it is used for) won't solve the problems underneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:18 AM
3

Not necessarily but it is true that the men who are used to it have had more time to handle responsively. They won't ever feel like they're starved. The reason some women might like men like that is because it gives them control, the men who have plenty will control you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:02 AM
4

Seems like you've never taken advantage of their desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:17 PM
-5

They're talking about two meanings of the same word. If you're a man then you know that we're obsessed with being masculine as we grow up, this is toxic in a lot of male groups and can be the source of bullying, it's something that our fathers tell us when we show weakness. I would like to suggest to you that this is just something that has been taught to us from an early age and was meant to be used for good, to be the virtuous, strong, respectful version of what a man ought to be. Rather than …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:08 PM
16

If you want to be a vulnerable man you need to signal strength too, too offset it. So for example a normal man crying and drinking is negatively attractive but when a man in a suit or a man that has a ton of muscle does the same it actually makes them more attractive because it gives them the extra information that you have a heart. Like how more women find you attractive when you are a dad and they see you care for your child or when you own a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:57 PM
1

I can see a lot of reasons why they'd be more likely to be single. If they don't get a lot of compliments about their appearance raising their bar for the men they are willing to date then they'd still be prime targets for dishonest players who are just after having sex with the hottest girls out there. This is bound to create a lot of resentment and I wouldn't blame anyone to suddenly see all men as assholes when they're lied to for sex. There would also be the girls who don't want to commit ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:13 PM
1

Yes and also when having to maintain healthy communication, you'd need to resolve things first before you're willing to have sex again. Which would create downtime. Now hate fucks exist too, so it all depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:14 AM
1

The assumption at the end lmao. I feel like people could always find better sexual experiences, the partners skill is one thing but there are better moments to be had if you just have more sex. I don't think it's smart to start a relationship with a person like that because they will desire something else when there's a period where they're not satisfied if you're in a relationship those lows happen. Doesn't mean they're necessarily going to cheat but everyone has their limits right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:11 PM
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I think they do it because the players make them feel good in the moment whereas it's very hard to find men who are able to provide that experience and not be players. They would take the momentary option over feeling bored too, so it's quite rational, like how you would procrastinate by playing video games, you're going to fuck yourself over in the future, but in the moment it feels like the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:20 PM
0

That for one doesn't mean you should sexualize yourself if you don't want to be sexualized. And two maybe the clothing is just one part and and an other part is communication. Three, another variable then is most mens expectations towards women because I don't think you're wrong it's just that this is only one variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:28 AM
1

more like a middle ground but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:53 PM
4

Life is never easy, but I'd say that there are more men suffering right now than women. You've got a higher potential to achieve if you're female because there's a higher demand for relationships from men, and some of them are weak and give you what you want. So if you're a smart girl, decently attractive and have a sense of pride then financially you shouldn't have a lot of issues even if you're bad at school. For men this is different nowadays, they used to rely on trust to help each other, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:16 PM
0

That means some of them aren't. It's also somewhat your fault since if you wrote your post differently you wouldn't have struck any nerves. You're frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 12:39 AM
1

Wouldn't want to see you actually get pissed off then ha In the post the guys are portrayed as children and orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 12:06 AM
1

You're being quite offensive but good post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 11:56 PM
1

Judgements and responses to judgements are more of a feeling based change. Rational change would be reading books and treating it like a puzzle that you can solve trough knowledge. That's the difference that I see. Not all women are feeling based but I think there's a higher distribution of women who are the reason for that is probably that to develop a rational approach you need to be around people or environments where knowledge is spread or where rational discussions are had which is going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 02:44 AM
1

Sometimes women want to be jealous, so it's not really society that has the belief, it's rather the outcome of what other people think they desire. Often, and I think you touched on this, people are wrong about what they really desire, and it leads to weird stuff that no one really wants but does anyway. Everyone wants love and they're stuck in their way of getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:20 PM
8

Don't you think that the flytraps are there because of all the keys that fly around opening other locks? These strategies just perpetuate a divide between the sexes, and soon dating will only be about control. I don't think that's the future that anyone wants. I think it's important to look for a more balanced approach which can still be about the man being in control (since it's pretty clear that women want to be led) and at the same time grant the woman the value that she wants. If you're plan…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 09:01 PM
58

Your translations are a little off, you didn't spot the added nuance. They don't just want a dominant masculine man to take charge and get what he wants, which is what you think about when using RP philosophy. Instead they want a man who knows what they want, who is better at leading both lives. In that case you're supposed to create value not for yourself but for her as well. There's a reason why TRP doesn't breed long term relationships. And I think it's because of this slight nuance in mental…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 04:28 PM
2

I've seen this dynamic play out before, but judging by how pervasive this is, it looks like a lot of men don't want to hold this position of power, so I'd be more interested in finding a way where both can be equal and trust each other.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 03:40 PM
3

I agree, but I'm more biased towards not losing any information. I like to make my own judgements.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 07:40 AM
1

Let me rephrase then: An understandable logical reason. If you've been in an abusive relationship with a person of a certain sex it makes perfect sense that you would become biased towards people of the same sex, especially when you're talking to people who've had the same thing happen to them. I wouldn't be able to tell anyone that they don't have the right to feel how they feel that's why I said "good reason" earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 07:36 AM
3

I understand what you're trying to say but who decides what aspects are to be discarded or not, isn't it up to the readers themselves to believe what they want to believe, isn't it their responsibility to educate and figure things for themselves before they go and accept any information. If you censor content you're taking away choice from other people to benefit your own opinions, I think in the short term it could help stop the spread of toxic ideologies, but the long term should be considered…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:09 PM
2

What the word represents isn't about the hate of men, but this definition hides a lot of women who do hate men, sometimes they have a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:58 PM
1

What if you can't prove it but you're putting the claim out there in the event that someone else is able to prove it so we can push both of our understanding. Is it weird for me to go into a debate expecting the other party to want to find the truth instead of trying to fuel one of our egos?
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 03:05 PM
1

Only white people can be racist, Only men can be rapists, Only white men can be sexist. We got rid of too many neo nazis, we supported feminism too hard, and we put women in control.They're bored now and they have to blame someone.. Edit: I'm joking
/r/MGTOW06/10/18 07:34 AM
1

Hmm, yeah maybe cows are better..
/r/MGTOW04/10/18 04:37 PM
1

There have been women in my life that we're too insecure to think they deserved an upgrade and so dated guys way below their level
/r/MGTOW30/09/18 10:33 AM
6

This applies to a lot of women, a LOT of women. But it's still not all of them, I've seen examples of men being able to guilt trip women making them care about them. I've seen examples of women who just have high empathy. It's the majority probably but still not all of them. Also don't blame it on them, this is a way to cope with a time where our species sacrificed men, women had no other choice but to move on and find another partner to protect them, picking the winner is just the most benefici…
/r/MGTOW29/09/18 10:13 AM
1

This question doesn't even matter because in the end well all be disposable. Who needs this many people when jobs can be filled with something more superior. This fight between genders is stupid and distracts us from real problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:46 PM
1

Wouldn't slaves be doing something that "leaves them worse off, without expectations of getting anything in return"? I know it's not that simple but that definition of sacrifice fits.
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 08:22 AM
1

It would be a transactional exchange if you had a choice in making the transaction. You give something and you get equal value back and both parties are happy, this is not the case. You think you get something in return, what you actually get is just not nothing, and it's not what you actually want either.
/r/MGTOW11/05/18 05:10 PM
1

Like going to work?
/r/MGTOW11/05/18 04:20 PM
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