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That's often spouted but not true. Europe and Canada (who we're really talking about) have better infant mortality rates, and life expectancy. However, if you have a stroke, a heart attack, or cancer, you're odds are much in the USA. It's a mixed bag. Fact: The USA has the highest cancer survival rates in the entire world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:55 PM
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That's just it they really don't. Hospitals are barely viable right now. Insurance companies are making record profits, not hospitals. The median margin for hospitals in 2026 is now less than 2%. u/ParadoxicalFrog2 is correct, there is a lot of overhead in every charge. What the actual medication costs by itself is irrelevant compared to the staffing, equipment, compliance, and insurance driven administrative burden wrapped around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:51 PM
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Not yet but eventually happens to every couple that survives long enough. This isn't the insult you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:04 PM
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35 years, if metaphor isn't your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:55 AM
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I have no dog in this hunt, I'm old, married forever (to a woman 3 years older btw), and I can say with certainty that you seem very angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:41 AM
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Probably not. I'm old, and you don't hear it much anymore outside of Catholic private schools which still use it. It's up there with the middle school vs jr. high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:57 PM
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Depends on where you are. In the USA, grammar school is interchangeable with elementary school, ages 5-12. We don't have the history of grammar schools thusly named because they taught Latin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:09 PM
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I think you missed the true point above. If you remove the hassle of rearward seating, you reduce the incentive to pay for 1st and business class seats. Airlines like money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:53 PM
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The honest answer is that it's not likely because way too many people have cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:31 PM
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The key is in your last sentence, and it applies to 99% of what gets posted here. you will still face negative feedback from women since socially stunted men will be creepy to them even if that man tries to be as respectful as possible. The simple answer is there are no shortcuts through the painful parts. Anyone who is socially stunted faces a lengthy period of embarrassments, awkward moments, and rejection. In nerdspeak, this why engineers don't get theorists and vice versa. The doing always r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:12 AM
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That is to say you've accepted your own thinking as the default. How noble of you. I think there might even be a word for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:01 AM
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That's insane dude. One can be very much opposed to infidelity, while still believing that killing folks over it is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:56 PM
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What other things are being just accepted without scripture? That's an exhaustive list. I would even be confident saying most of it. Religion isn't science, it's apologetics, it reasons from the conclusion backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:43 PM
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Well dude, at this point your argument is more with Strong's than it is with me, so I'll leave you to it. I've given you the accepted interpretation, and if you disagree with it, well you disagree, and that's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:19 PM
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There is no such thing as an AI partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:07 PM
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It's G 3:2-3. I even provided the concordant explanation. --Strongs It's not stated explicitly. If you go to extra-biblical sources, Lillith would have been around when God told Adam, as she hadn't been replaced yet. Or if you want to stick to biblical sources, then God told Adam while he was still alone in the garden before Eve.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:02 PM
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Genesis 2:16-17 And the Lord God commanded the man, ‘You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die (note this is before the creation of Eve) Then in Genesis 3:2-3 She relates these instructions to the serpent with the addition of "Neither shall you touch it" The point remains, all versions of Gen 2, have God telling Adam, singular. Biblical scholars have long accepted that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:34 PM
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Well, they're on the verge of rioting in Britain right now because 3 teenage boys were given a slap on the wrist for forceful rape at knifepoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:25 PM
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Sorry bud, but no. God tells Adam in Genesis 2, Adam relays the message to Eve in Genesis 3. I'm not a believer, but I know the bible backwards and forwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:20 PM
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I'm not against self-improvement. I'm against the PPD hamster wheel where tomorrow, after I have accomplished x, women will flock to me. Only, tomorrow never comes. I'll be honest. Nothing would change the lives of more PPD guys than if they just learned to go out a couple of times a week and have fun in mixed group environments. On top of everything else, if you figure out what truly attracts any given woman to a man, you'll be the first. I freely admit I have no idea. What I do know is that PP…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:01 PM
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If you really want to have casual sex, find a club or a bar you like and become a regular. Everything else will follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:45 PM
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What a way to misrepresent NVP. He was all about being human in a positive way, perfection not required. If you've actually read him, you know that everything he wrote is antithetical to most of what is posted to this sub. Everything he wrote was against ruminating about the past, fearing failure, and failing to accept your flawed self as being enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:43 PM
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Do you have any idea how insane that sounds? No one has the potential to become perfect dude. Also, how is whining on reddit day after day that you can't know you're desirable unless you have casual sex, getting you any closer to that goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:33 PM
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Be honest dude, what makes you think you're a real man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:49 PM
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Some Like It Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:44 PM
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That's low man, funny, but low. I personally cannot wait for soccer to get back in the closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:25 PM
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I have a lot of fond memories from sturgis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:02 PM
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Would you believe in the bed of pickup truck at Sturgis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:48 PM
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AI is telling me it was Julie Beck from the Atlantic magazine. I can't find it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:34 PM
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There’s a scholarly argument floating around out there about why incels are disproportionately drawn to anime. The gist is that anime’s over‑the‑top emotional expressions, especially the super‑deformation/chibi exaggeration style create extremely clear, easy to read characters. The ones who struggle with nuance or subtext find that kind of emotional clarity more accessible than grounded, more naturalistic media. If see the article again, I'll link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:22 PM
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Uh-huh. You're just accusing one race of sexualizing music, but you're not being racist? Give me a fucking break.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:32 PM
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Dude, you're racing headlong into racism with your repeated attempts to exclude black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:19 PM
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What I'd expect from you. Continue to narrow the focus until you think you've won. If I pick modern artists like MGK, you'd still find way to exclude him, despite a catalog heavy with sexual material in both his rap and pop eras. You win dude, men are pure like ivory soap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:47 PM
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Were you born under a rock? This is so easy, I won't even cheat, let's do this from memory. Let's get it on. Marvin Gaye Whole lotta love. Led Zepplin I want your sex. George Michael Closer. NIN. Rock your body. Justin Timberlake Blurred lines. Robin Thicke Tush. ZZ Top Flesh for fantasy. Billy Idol Versace on the floor. Bruno Mars Van Halen. Poundcake Why don't we do it in the road. Beatles Star star. Rolling Stones Aerosmith. Only half their catalog And we'll end with Prince. Entire catalog.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:20 PM
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Uh-huh. Sure thing buddy, sure thing. Be honest with yourself. It's not the men you're meeting who are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:36 AM
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I believe you. You would confront a young man in a group of friends on a Dallas bus once. If you lived, you wouldn't do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:48 PM
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Not only did agree, according to OP, he lectured this young dude in front of his friends and got agreement in return. Not how young mean react to being corrected in front of their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:43 PM
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Yeah, it wasn't even remotely believable. And then he doubled down and this young dude had friends with him, who just so happened to agree with u/AsuraXone . In the real world, young men are EXTREMELY sensitive about being corrected in front of their peers. I can guarantee this never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:37 PM
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Taking care of, is a rather large space. I lend my friends my ear when they need it. That's taking care of them. Not being gay myself, taking care of them physically whether that be cuddling or blowjobs, is not in my wheelhouse. They'll need a gay guy or a woman for that. Sorry, not sorry. Really dude, its ok to be gay. I know as an Indian Muslim, you've been taught differently, but really, it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:04 PM
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You really don't have to try this hard. It's ok to be gay. No one is going to judge you. You'll be happier if you're honest with yourself. I'm a firm believer that gay people are every bit as valuable as us straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:55 PM
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Cuddling? Holding? Just admit it dude, you're gay. It's ok, it's the 21st century, everyone is cool with it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:48 PM
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This is not believable. If you tried to lecture a dude in public who was man enough to give up his seat, he was exactly the type to punch you in the mouth. I'm a Texan, where that kind of politeness is ingrained, and they don't shrug off impoliteness as "just their choice". They aren't shy about enforcing it, very impolitely. As for the nonsense that everyone who disagrees with you is a simp, and no one is coming to save them. Who said they need saving? You'd certainly put me in the simp categor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:43 PM
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Kind of. We don't actually talk about the birds and the bees; we talk about sex. The talk still bears the name from puritanical times. Don't confuse yourself and think we're actually teaching children about birds and bees.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:11 PM
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Nope, I compliment women all the time. Full disclosure, I grew up doing it because my father did it. Rarely do I get a negative reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:12 PM
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Wow, I must be totally creepy. I've always complimented women. It's rare in my experience to get a bad reaction. Mostly I get a smile and an enthusiastic thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:11 PM
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You've just reworded the No True Scotsman Fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:04 PM
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No, but if you made the argument that the women in Twox were misandrist douches, you'd be right. It's just Reddit facts to point that PPD has a high number of inexperienced men, and Twox has a high number of bitter women with an axe to grind. These things are right there out in the open for anyone to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:33 PM
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Ok, sparky, you win. You're all fathers will children at your feet with rich and rewarding love lives. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:16 PM
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Dude, have you seen the number of self-identifying virgins here? Have you read the countless posts and comments how they can't get dates? Oh sure, they're husbands and fathers, LMFAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:11 PM
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It's not that important to most men. Not like you see here, not by a long shot. I didn't say it's not important, but not like presented here. I fully admit, I'd be bummed if my wife quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:06 PM
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Comes with serious risks. We just sentenced a woman to 20 years for shooting her cheating husband. Incredibly light sentence for Texas (we prefer to kill you back), and she'll be paroled in 10. That should tell everything you need to know. Even Texans go easy on women who kill cheating husbands. And it could be worse. Few years back some poor bastard was driven to the Chihuahuan Desert where he was castrated by his father-in-law and brothers-in-law. They got 5 years each.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:03 PM
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C'mon dude, it is what you're saying. If you think you're displaying a nuanced and varied appreciation of women in this thread, you ain't. It's sex, sex, sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:53 PM
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Correction: In this sub, a handful of you know what it's like to be men. Almost none of you know what it's like to be a husband or a father. Very few husband and fathers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:50 PM
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That's not a fair read at all. Of course sex isn't the only reason I married, and I have the longevity to back it up. However, sex is important Dead bedrooms are bad and should be avoided by both parties in a marriage. I'd be really bummed if my wife all of a sudden wanted to stop having sex. That's totally human and normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:49 PM
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No disagreement on the surface level statement. Yes, I agree, almost everyone here is showing their true face. However, the devil is in the details. Long form social media attracts a very niche audience, and it is not representative of the population as whole. So, everyone gets to be right. True faces are in evidence, and it's not reflective of society at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:27 PM
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Where is your evidence dude? I'm surrounded by high earning women in my social circle. They universally went into medicine to help people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:43 PM
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You know that (5 generations) is still 120 years right? A generation (like middle age) is not arbitrary as often used here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:22 PM
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No argument there. These guys aren't going to see it in their lifetimes, if it ever even happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:06 PM
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Tech isn’t the only stumbling block here. You’re not getting some closetable baby dispenser you can drop an embryo in and forget. This would be NICU medical equipment. It would be expensive, use a lot of energy, have to be monitored constantly and ran by doctors and nurses. Even if you automate half of it, you’re still amortizing the cost of the womb, the maintenance, the energy, and the hospital overhead (you ain't doing it at home) into every single birth. Unless you’re imagining Star Trek, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:47 PM
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I beg you, crack a science textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:27 PM
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PAFI, Partial-gestation Assisted Fetal Incubation is around 20 years out for limited trials, at least 30 before adoption IF it works. That's a far cry from a full-fledged artifical womb. It's also a system that requires the same round clock medical staff as a NICU. Only the Bezo's of the world could afford these babies even if the fantasy tech was here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:26 PM
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Yeah, energy in the future is going to be unlimited and absolutely free. This scenario is absolutely plausible. /s Back to reality. India’s power demand hit a record 256 GW in April 2026 — 16 GW higher than grid projections — and is expected to climb toward 270–289 GW, exposing a widening supply gap and rising blackout risk You (and you're not alone) can't even meet baseline future energy needs, and you think there are going to be millions up millions of robots and artificial wombs. Oh, and have…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:16 PM
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We don't have one, because we don't a single London. We have NYC, Boston, Austin, San Francisco, etc. Island nation of 69m vs a nation that spans an entire continent with 350m people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:43 PM
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Hell man, at least one of us doesn't even know 1 personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:13 PM
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I'm not a woman, but I can answer this one with authority. I've lived in bars most of my life. It’s not all men, or even most, but it’s enough that bouncers deal with it constantly. A busy enough place and it will happen nightly. It can be anything from shouting slurs, thrown drinks, literally cornering a woman, and sometimes actual violence. Every guy says the same thing as the bouncers are bouncing, "Please, just let me talk to her, she won't hear me out." Can't let this go without mentioning …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:42 AM
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I'd love to know his story. Mad respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:19 PM
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Absolutely loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:00 PM
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You just repeated yourself. I asked you what else it could be. As in, if the chase and flirting aren't synonymous, what else could it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:03 AM
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Do it eye to eye. When I think chase, I think a night out approaching with a drink in my hand. Not passing notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:10 PM
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You don't speak for everyone dude. I'm just like you, the earlier the better, no argument. However, I personally know a LOT of dudes who were indeed put off by any girl who seemed easy. She's not lying to you, it's a thing for a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:08 PM
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What else could it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:04 PM
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Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit! Cannot be emphatic enough. I lived for it. It's an electric sensation to be out on the town, flirting, drinking, laughing, having fun, and then making that connection. There is really nothing else like it. I freely admit I always missed it greatly when I was in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:52 PM
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Are the situations the same? I provided everything for my first wife. Been married a 2nd time for forever now, and because the situation is different I've never given her a dime. Difference: Wife 1 hs dropout, with waitressing experience, wife 2 has graduate, post-graduate and professional degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:46 PM
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I would disagree, because I am one of those people. You're describing conformists who care. Non-conforming people by definition don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:16 PM
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Nah, you're just misinterpreting it. When people say they don't care if people like them, they're really saying that they're secure in the fact that enough people like them that they don't care about the ones that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:54 PM
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Exactly. I don't abuse the block function. However, I do block anyone who follows me from the sub I moderate to this one and bring the drama here. I just think that's the responsible thing to do. There are legitimate reasons to block.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:53 PM
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You should watch the first act of Idiocracy. Addresses this in its entirety.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:22 PM
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Keep reading, you'll get to the lion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:13 PM
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You can't reduce it to an individual. Saying that a slightly larger percentage of women watch lesbian porn, isn't the same as saying any particular woman slightly prefers lesbian porn. If we want to get technical, anywhere from 1/2 to 3/4 of women (depending on the source) don't watch porn at all. If you really wanted insight into women, wouldn't it make the most sense to focus on the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:58 PM
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Prefers lesbian porn in slightly greater numbers. That's important here, Pornhubs numbers don't reflect a heavy preference. And it's not 40%, it's only 35%. And, since we're looking at a small minority, other questions arise, like "Do lesbians like porn more than straight women?" which would neatly wrap up pornhub's numbers. It's also been pointed out in actual studies, that this whole mess is obfuscated by the lack of lesbian porn sites. Lesbian porn is thrown in with straight porn. By comparis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:39 PM
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You mean, the minority that does consume it consumes lesbian porn in slightly larger numbers than straight porn. When you lay the facts out accurately, there isn't much to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:23 PM
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And is why lesbian porn is the most popular category for women. Again this is stupid when women barely account for little more than 1/4 (edit typo 1/3 should be 1/4) of porn traffic. Women just aren't as in to porn, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:04 PM
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Wow, no, I didn't take it like that at all. Amazing dichotomy here: When you read that, you read, "both look disgusting" and it bothers you. When I heard it the first time, I heard, "Happily goes in her mouth", and that led to happy thoughts. You're smart enough to know that just because men are more visual doesn't mean we're more heterosexual. You all talk about women looking at lesbian porn like it is equitable with men looking at straight porn, when the consumption rate is actually three time…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:02 PM
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women are bisexual lesbian or chadsexual. You're just finding creative ways to say, "Not AsuraXone sexual". Now you're tossing dudes into the mix. I don't think you actually believe that all women are lesbians, you just want others to share in your pain by trying to convince the other guys here that women don't like them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:45 PM
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He most assuredly means lesbian. Read his posts and comments, he explicitly states that women are not/cannot be attracted to men, repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:57 PM
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A lot of guys here have singular inability to understand that just because female sexuality is different than male sexuality, it somehow doesn't exist. Men are just way more visual as a whole, that's just a fact. I had an ex-girlfriend describe it this way: Penises and biscuits and gravy are both disgusting to look at, but she'd happily put either in her mouth. As a man, never made sense to me, but I've long since accepted that is just because we're different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:53 PM
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That's not judgy, that's relative perception. Boring is subjective, and if you aren't a party person, you ARE boring to the party people. That doesn't mean you're universally boring, just boring to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:18 PM
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It should be a dealbreaker for most of the guys in this sub because they aren't party people themselves. This is one of those areas where similarity with your partner is more important than differences that complement each other. It's a rough row when a low inhibition party type tries to date a high inhibition type.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:26 PM
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Have you visited Reddit.com recently? It's full of guys of every possible height who fit in everywhere from full-on incels to struggling mightily. Some will blame their height, some their weight, race, hair loss, etc., etc. If you take it ALL in, you'd be left with the conclusion that men need to be absolutely perfect (Hell, you'll find some broken dudes spouting that very sentiment in this sub) to attract a mate. Obviously, obviously, obviously, that is not and cannot be true. That's just what …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:31 PM
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It actually has a medical definition. It's 45-65.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:56 PM
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That's just it Sparky, if life had been hard on me because I'm short, I'd be aware of it. The hardships and regrets in my life (like my first wife) have absolutely nothing to do with my height. I would definitely buy a ticket to this ride again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:51 PM
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I was speaking from my own experiences, ie, it hasn't been bad at all. How is that in any way toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:37 PM
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Very few men shorter than I am, so trust me when I say that it really hasn't been bad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:40 PM
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WSJ is a click away, and they've been saying medicine for a minute now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:27 AM
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A lot of the guys in a sub I moderate (r/short) get their bad ideas from redpill sources. I came here to stay abreast of the nonsense and stayed for the trainwreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:25 AM
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Welcome to the modern age. I recently saw a protest poster depicting Achilles in full Greek battle regalia taking an Iranian drone to his heel, and below was printed, "I know Americans don't read so read the Iliad to understand" Part of me was sorely tempted to park the car just to tell her that Achilles doesn't die in the Iliad, or any Greek sources. Rome invented the heel myth, not Homer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:20 AM
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I prefer to believe that there is a third, or fourth or fifth possibility that doesn't rise to the shallowness of either money or looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:12 AM
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I mean, you're looking at it solely through the eyes of the loser. "Women don't enjoy it with you, but they do the other guy." The other guy is a guy just like you. What's to stop you from the being the other guy? Why do you always see yourself on the losing end of that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:43 AM
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Only desperate men dude. Most men, and women alike, have a history of being dumped, and dumping themselves. Only a truly desperate soul who believed to the core that they could never find someone else fits what you describe above.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:39 AM
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Not necessarily, he has a better chance of dying rich than the other guy has of dying good looking. Age fucks everyone over, the rich and poor alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:36 AM
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You know the other guy's experience is as representative as yours right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:30 AM
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You can tell that I'm a biker at 200 yards. It's a daily occurrence for total strangers to say things like, "Hey man, what do you ride?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:13 PM
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The answer is reduction. When you objectify someone (sexually) you reduce them solely to that particular sexual role. You can sexualize someone and still admire their other qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:34 PM
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As a man who's been married to the same woman for 35 years, I cannot begin to tell you how wrong you are. It seems as though you've taken your faults, and your inability to control them and projected them onto every man in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:57 AM
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If it were easier, wouldn't you be having it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:51 PM
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How did she make it through adolescence? This is where your arguments fall apart about these dedicated, zen-like focused individuals who eschewed the sex they really wanted because they wield responsibility like a superpower. Even in adolescence, where most of us lose our v-cards? Nah man, this individual is such an exception, that if they existed the proverbial Tiger Moms would erect statues and write books about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:25 PM
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People are stupid. There was a guy here on reddit years ago who was in shock when he didn't get laid on vacation. Made sense until you read the details, and that the dude had reserved separate rooms per her request.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:10 PM
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No need to be insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:08 PM
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I'll retract. Medicine is my wife's bailiwick, so naturally I consulted her. She said, "They don't do it like that anymore. You were cut on both sides with a scalpel, and the vas were cauterized. That is rough. Today it's a pinprick and ties and clamps are preferred over cauterization to reduce trauma."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:07 PM
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I'm sorry, I cannot let this go. Bullshit. I had a vasectomy after we decided we had enough children. Painless, would be an out and out lie. It's not agony, but there is great amount of swelling, and you're going to spend a couple of days lying down applying ice every few hours. Any prolonged standing the first few days is pure Hell. The only saving grace is that recovery is quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:36 PM
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There are as many answers as there are countries with individual laws. For example, I'll post the Netherlands' laws that pertain. Current options (from 1 January 2024) Single surname: You can choose the surname of the mother, co-mother, or father Double surname: You can give your child the surnames of both parents, either hyphenated (e.g., Kamphuis-Ferwerda) or non-hyphenated (e.g., Kamphuis Ferwerda) Dutch Genealogy. Same surname for all children: The surname you choose for your first child wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:52 PM
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This conversation is so Anglo-centric it hurts. It's not the norm in most of the world. In the Asian world, only in Japan is required, and not practiced in most. The Hispanic world from Spain to Latin America, women typically keep their surnames. The Netherlands, France, Belgium, etc, same deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:15 PM
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Want to hear something hilarious? I don't think I've ever been asked IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:30 PM
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Hell man, I'm a second-generation biker. My old man's club (and my first club) owned two titty bars on opposite ends of town, a few of storefront massage parlors, and of course the clubhouse. I think that explains perfectly why I'll never know my true count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:05 PM
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Serious question: Do you honestly think your posts and comments lead anyone to believe that you're an erudite man of distinction and wisdom?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:44 AM
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Wow, who woulda thunk that remaining stupid and ignorant would be a prerequisite for femininity. How dare they pursue higher education and the careers that go hand in hand with them? Btw, I've heard a rumor that there is this lady doctor out there that married a mechanic, and she's been happy ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:38 AM
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But the question is: Do you hate them out of envy? I'd put money on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:25 PM
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No, not young women which is the focus in this sub. Older women have more responsive desire, feeding off romance, affection, etc. My experience with younger women was that they were often just as sexual driven as I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:41 PM
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Definitely sexual assault, but unfortunately, not prosecutable. Ultimately, his defense is that he did give up and go unfulfilled. Pestering might meet Reddit's definition of coercion, but it falls way short legally. The bragging the next morning while juvenile, isn't illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:20 AM
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By all means please explain the difference to me. You know, so the next time this comes up, my inexperience doesn't show.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:11 PM
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I actually got a painful one from a canine tooth once. Clumsy is clumsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:14 PM
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I didn't even think of that. Way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:03 PM
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That's because the repercussions of being bad in bed are different for men and women. I've been with my share of those who I'd call "bad in bed" and the difference between me and woman with a similar list of men who were "bad in bed" is that I still got off. When women complain about men who are bad in bed, it's often a guy who didn't get them off. This isn't complicated at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:53 PM
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Dude! You just gave all of Reddit your real name and address. Delete this if you're smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:17 PM
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I've never heard it abbreviated that way, only read it. I think orally, it is always little black dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:53 PM
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It is ubiquitous in the USA, UMC and up. Older than I thought, it is a Coco Chanel invention that goes back 106 years. I casually asked my wife if she knew if it was called that in UK, and she said yes, and that two of hers are Stella McCartney, so there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:44 PM
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Now you're just denying human nature. There is a quote from St. Augustine that addresses this perfectly. Although he said he loved his celibacy, he said never became so holy that he did not prefer the conversation of a pretty girl over that of a plain one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:58 PM
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I don't think you sent this to the right person. You replied to the OP, which is me, and I have not been having that conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:12 PM
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LBD's can be knee length or longer. The "little" comes from the lack of accouterments, they're very simple. Don't feel bad, this had to be explained to me once upon a time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:49 PM
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Well, no wonder they hate me. I committed the sin of sins, and married a single mother and as close as I can tell, she's as happy together as I am. Hell, in my eyes, the way it worked out was actually a boon. When my first child was born, I had absolute dibs on a 14 year old girl who babysat as a sideline. I always had a babysitter, and my stepdaughter always had money in her pocket. Win win for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:08 AM
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I can think of a lot of ways to describe your typical outlaw, but asexual and chihuahua aren't among them. We're talking about a collection of individuals who are typically, unkempt, felonious, anti-social types, and often violent. I'm also the exception, most them run rather large, and a huge number of them have military backgrounds. They aren't cucks, that's not why they do it. They want to flaunt your morality and offend you. In your face is the only play in their playbook. If you told them p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:54 PM
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I think that's pretty close to agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:33 PM
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Doesn't that go for everybody? I mean we all live behind our own eyes, so that's so universal that it is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:30 PM
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Well, to be honest, the genuine red pill guys are for the most part on the level. I wouldn't say I agree with them often, but most of what they say is built on at least a sliver of truth. Problem is, and you can't debate this because you call people out on it regularly, is that as this sub has evolved, the instances of the genuine red pill get fewer and further between. What's worse is they're hard to find sandwiched between daily snark at BMI, casual sex havers (quoting, not my term), and meani…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:30 PM
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I would pay good money, real good money to see you show up at Sturgis and start calling people cucks. Since you haven't heard of it, it's an annual meeting (read party) of bikers. Hells Angels, Bandidos, Warlocks et al, all have a presence at Sturgis. That said, I did recognize the subculture, which is why I gave the alternative example of the LBD and mainstream culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:59 PM
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OP, I wish you were my age. I know childless people my age, and the bitterness is through the roof. I've heard the whines first hand, "You don't know what it's like to be ostracized by everyone who has children, and it seems impossible to meet other childless people like us."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:44 PM
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Womensplain all the time, just in different venues. Even though I do most of the cooking for family and always have, I can't count the times over the years where women have tried to explain the simplest kitchen appliances to me as though I just traveled through time and haven't seen electricity before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:38 PM
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You're looking at it as though it were binary, on and off, when it's a lot more nuanced than that. It's a fact that women can read people better than men, and it's backed by numerous studies. That doesn't mean women aren't often wrong. It means that when compared to men in sufficient numbers, women as a whole achieve higher percentile marks on tests. That's it, the difference is measured in percentages, not infallible mystic discernment, just correct slightly more often. Even the best people, sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:31 PM
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You're taking OP literally, when what he meant was, said girl asked him to help her move and he made it clear that moving came with dick. You have to read between the lines here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:39 AM
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Sounds harsh. The only relevant question is: Is she trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:06 AM
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If you believe that masculinity is toxic, you will absolutely find me toxic. I'm everything that those who use the term are talking about. Ex-military, hunter, work with my hands, bourbon enjoyer, et al. Luckily, there is an entire world of people out there who don't find masculinity toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:56 PM
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There is no facet of life that is not a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:43 PM
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You should definitely continue to avoid them. All the guys who aren't going to follow your advice would love it if even more dudes took themselves out of the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:39 PM
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Couldn't prove that by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:21 PM
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I'm not a woman, so I'll reply under OP. I never once came even close to making what my wife made, and I have no complaints. I've certainly never been belittled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:19 PM
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Yeah, I'm going to say this one isn't true at all, especially the part about the guy being the only one planning dates. Once you get to the relationship phase, you really don't have to worry about that anymore. I know a lot of couples, and in almost every single one, the wife or female partner is 100% in charge of said couple's social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:24 PM
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The real reason I always asked women out for drinks, is because I was going out for a drink regardless of her answer. Also, going out for drinks almost always includes bar food. Don't knock bar food, I lived off of it for a decade at least. Sorry Windmill, no ulterior motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:12 PM
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Clearly a redpill guy acting on Reddit advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:33 AM
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That's just nonsensical rhetoric. Like I said, even if they couldn't care less about the children, they care about the optics, and there is nothing to gain from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:50 AM
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If nothing else, believe that we don't like to waste $3.5 million weapons. Trust the greed to want results for the money spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:46 AM
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No dude. A muslim Europe would enrich Pakistan beyond its wildest dreams and India would fall. A muslim Europe would be the beginning of a muslim world. With the $$ that come with that Russia would fall to Chechnyan style Islam , India would fall to a Europen funded Pakistan, and then it's a race to see who falls last, China or the USA. Neither would last for long once Russia and India fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:44 AM
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It's no lie that the school was next to the RG base. Most countries have schools on or near military bases for the convenience of military families. US bases even have schools on bases in foreign (to the US) countries. Believe it or not, it's more trouble than it's worth (it's worth nothing militarily or politically) to bomb a school, so it's foolish to believe it was intentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:31 AM
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Well, you got the bait part right, so who cares about the troll's gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:21 AM
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My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:02 AM
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I'm certain of it. I have 4 children, 2 of each.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:54 AM
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There are shortcuts to that. Alcohol + a hot and sweaty dance floor as put many a woman in the mood. I personally don't/can't dance so I can't say if it has that effect on men or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:31 AM
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Pretty much. Bad decisions are born when alcohol lets the libido take command. I've seen it too many times to believe anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:29 AM
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Be honest: Isn't that just an extremely long-winded way of saying you can be bought?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:27 AM
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You really don't have to figure them all out. One will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:24 AM
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Nope, wasn't broke. I made a decent skilled wage as a motorcycle mechanic. She's a professional with professional degrees, and I like to say I have a G.E.D. and that rhymes with PhD. Why would it change her lifestyle? It's not like she needed an extra bedroom when I moved in, and I don't eat that much. Even minimum wage would have been a net gain. No, she elevated my lifestyle, which did not require lowering hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:21 AM
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I don't think he means unemployed, maybe just employed in a less lucrative career. That's my story, my wife was into me despite me being nowhere her income bracket or level of education. Hasn't been a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:47 AM
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To be clear, I said C cups were small.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:16 AM
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I have to ask, I just do. How can you drink those things? It's St. Patty's Day, so I have not one, but two bottles of Redbreast 18yr for festivities this evening. Now fine Irish whisky is a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:12 PM
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That's not MAGA stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:36 PM
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That's magical thinking. There will always be evil people committing evil deeds. Although I consider myself a liberal, liberalism often pushes idea that evil can be educated out of society and that is so naive it's physically painful. We all want a perfect world where no one rapes, no one kills, no one steals, and everyone is nice. Man invented the concept of heaven in a thousand different religions, because it ain't never happening here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:15 PM
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That's not even worth bringing up man. There are a handful of DAS in a handful of states for men. For all practical purposes, they don't exist. Men's shelters as they ACTUALLY exist have no place near schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:06 PM
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I don't see how having the shelter nearby a school is a problem. Then you've never seen a shelter first-hand. I have, many, many times. Sheltered therein is a collection of the mentally ill, drug addicts, alcoholics, and felons having difficulty securing employment and housing. So, absolutely, keep them as far from schools as humanly possible. Before anyone brings it up, a lot of women's shelters are the same way and shouldn't be near schools either. However, there are also DAS designated shelte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:05 PM
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I would argue that is not true. A dude could casually say that he wouldn't date a single mother because he doesn't want children, and no one would bat an eye. I've never seen that sentiment expressed in this sub. What I have seen, is a whole lotta judgement directed towards the women themselves, and occasionally the men who get with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:04 PM
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I don't mean this in an insulting way, but an honest one: I wish you could see how delusional you come across to everyone else. Dude, I've had a ton of casual sex, and fucking trust me, I was NEVER in the running for being one of the most desired men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:53 PM
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My better self realizes I shouldn't answer this but: Neither. Pictures or videos can strike the spark, but I always wind up closing my eyes and going with memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:26 PM
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Lol, why is it difficult for you to believe that someone's tastes don't reflect your own? In the above, what you call fat, I call thick, and I like it. What you call gigantic I call leggy and I like it, full disclosure, I'm married to a 6' woman. Honestly, and I'm sure this is going to offend a lot of women here, but what really makes the difference above to me is the little one has no tits or hips to speak of. I used to chide my best friend that he liked women who looked like 12 year old boys, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:09 PM
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Just a question: How much wider do you think the attraction men have for women is than the attraction women have for men? I'll be honest, here in this sub, it really does seem like guys have little to no preference other than "Yes" on her lips. However, my RL experiences do not reflect this. My best friend since I was 9, always seemed to date the same type. A foot shorter than him, shy, brunette, modest, thin with little to no curves. I on the other hand can count the women who weren't blonde, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:57 PM
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Proof that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The one on the left is infinitely hotter than the one on the right in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:21 PM
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I did cheat, a lot. I did however eventually outgrow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:37 AM
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That's why he's confused. Socialism is on the left in American parlance. There is no such thing as a right-wing socialist here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:43 PM
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That cannot be true. I refuse to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:35 AM
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I guess they got that and cornflakes right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:33 AM
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That's almost no libido. Keep in mind, I'm old, so that's saying a lot coming from me. Even at my age, I'd be thinking something is really wrong at twice a month...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:26 AM
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I've been reading this sub for years now, so trust me when I say that it's prudent to make sure the individual in question has actually busted a nut with another human being present, before asking questions like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:22 AM
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It doesn't work that way. Lol. I've known a lot of Jane's and Sally's, and it's the attraction to sex that separates them, not their attraction to men in general. I didn't mention it above, but you often see this as well: Because of Sally's libido, she often goes home with or brings home guys she's only mildly attracted to, but horny enough that he'll do. I swear by all the gods, what you guys in this sub need more than anything is just one FWB to tell you that she loves fucking you, but has no …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:20 AM
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Lol, because attraction does not make a low libido person a high libido person. You have these two very real, and very different concepts so conflated in your head that I don't think you're ever going to grasp it. That's why I included masturbation in my example, to provide a baseline that was free of attraction or a 2nd party entirely. Jane simply just does not need or want nearly as much sex as Sally does. She doesn't think about it as much as Sally does. She's not as aroused as often as Sally…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:09 AM
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Here is an easy example for you to understand straight from Dick and Jane Jane has a low libido. When Jane is not in a relationship, Jane masturbates twice a month and rarely masturbates when she has a boyfriend/girlfriend/whatever. Sally has a high libido. When Sally is not in a relationship, she masturbates twice a day and still masturbates often when she is in a relationship. When Jane is wildly attracted to a guy, he's going to get less sex than the guy's who Sally is mildly interested in. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:54 PM
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Those two things aren't linked like that. Low libido people want sex less often than high libido people even when attraction is equal. More attraction isn't going to turn a LL individual into a high one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:19 PM
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I'm sorry, but someone has to ask: If it's so easily replaceable, how come you aren't having any?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:22 PM
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You have to be the single most cynical author I have ever read. I can't imagine the sadness and frustration that must be behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:14 AM
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Oh, gods, what an awful image in my head now. I can say with absolute certainty I would run screaming in abject terror at the very thought of dating the female counterpart of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:11 AM
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I give you my word, he isn't speaking for us (men) as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:08 AM
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Well, kinda, yeah. That's where I shine. I mean my skillset is/was the same as anyone else in my line of work. Nothing really stands out other than my references from previous employers were all glowing. However, I never failed to get the job, because at the risk of bragging, I'm fucking great at interviews, and I'm great at interviews because I like that part. Initiating was never difficult for me. "Hey, you wanna go get dinner and drinks?" just rolls off the tongue for me and always has. Also,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:58 AM
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This is half of the problem that so many of you share. Dating is supposed to be fun. This is a horse and cart scenario. If you aren't having fun on a date, don't expect a second date. It's almost impossible to have the kind of energy that leads to a second date if you aren't having fun in the first place. 1, learn to go out and have fun. 2, Once you've established 1, ask someone to go out with you. There is no point in advancing to step 2 without completing step one. It's always going to fail. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:25 AM
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Thank you. That's a very nice thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:55 AM
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Same. It's the only thing that motivates me to stay on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:56 PM
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Hell, that's how I wound up reading this sub in the first place. It spreads like wildfire
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:49 PM
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Didn't Putin say something awfully similar about 4 years ago now? As for the servicemen, that's the job. Military's job is to kill people and break things, and unfortunately the enemy's job is to kill you and break your things. For the record, I served.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:47 PM
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Is empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:21 PM
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It's called tantric sex if you want to look it up. Sting was heavily into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:33 PM
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I'm convinced that's just some women. I've known a lot who couldn't get off any other way. Seems kind of lame to blame them for it, I'm sure if they had a choice they'd much rather orgasm more easily and conveniently. Good news is that even though I said a lot, it's still a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:39 PM
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I believe it. I met the occasional woman through friends, and even married one of those, but by and far I met most out and about with a drink in my hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:36 AM
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Only way to develop them is to go out and interact with people. No one develops those skills at home, and then goes out all suave and debonair .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:19 AM
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Again, you have to be on the other side of the front door to develop those social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:14 AM
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That's a given. You're going to get rejected, a lot. That's just part of it. Most of the time it's going to be a simple, "I have a boyfriend.", because you have no way of knowing before you even try. Even the most successful people get rejected a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:43 PM
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That's really it. Getting out of the house is the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:38 PM
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Fair enough, I've seen that too. However, even that is often just a fear of approaching. I personally don't get that, I never took rejection personally. I can't say I ever liked it, but it never amounted to more than brief disappointment. That is not how the average guy here takes rejection. Apocalyptic is the word that comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:30 PM
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Dude, I'm not a frequent contributor, but I've been reading this sub for years. Just getting on the other side of the front door is a struggle for a great many dudes in this sub. Favorable results follow exposure, always. My advice to any guy who's really that lonely or desperate is to become a regular at a bar that attracts a decent crowd. Go several times a week, learn everyone's name, let them learn yours, and you'll be surprised how much easier it becomes to meet women once you're comfortabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:18 PM
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Meeting people is this sub's number one problem, not self-improvement. Even though this sub hates this suggestion, bars have been the go-to place to meet up for 100s of years, and it ain't changed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:01 PM
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Come on those are cultural artifacts. Perfect example: I don't find hairy armpits or legs attractive on women. I was acculturated to find that attractive. I don't however find hairless genitals attractive, because I'm old enough that I was never acculturated to find that attractive, as that became a thing long after my preferences were set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:55 PM
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No. I don't see it that way. I didn't tell her we were moving, I told her how unhappy I was, and that I wanted to move, knowing that would put the burden on her to find new employment, since most years she made 5x what I made. She listened, decided my happiness outweighed any benefits she had in staying, and we moved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:03 PM
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Wow, in Texas it would have to be productive property for that to apply, ie commercial property or homes you are renting out. Occupied dwellings get a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:15 PM
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Probably not for the reasons you think. My wife like most women likes the idea of marriage and weddings (especially weddings) way more than I do. It all fits in with the romantic paradigm surrounding relationships she subscribes too. However, I'd wager that you'd largely attribute this to some "benefit" that does not exist. She doesn't benefit financially from the marriage, and never has. She's always been the educated partner with the sheepskin(s) with dollar signs printed on it, and I was pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:05 PM
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Wait. Where do you live where you can't own join property unless you are married? We're not talking about inheritance here, but the removal of a dead person's name from a jointly held deed. Huge difference between inheritance and joint property.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:58 PM
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I can give you an example out of my life if she can't. Years ago now, my wife worked in a rural hospital for student loan forgiveness. It was a way to make working in the sticks more attractive. When her contract was up, she wanted to stay. She'd risen to a prominent position in the hospital with her name and picture in the lobby etc, and she was on a good track. We talked, I told her that I just hated the sticks and I wanted to leave. We talked back and forth, but in the end she could see how u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:19 PM
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Who says that's inevitable? It's been 35 years now, and I'm still waiting on this mythical decision we cannot agree or compromise on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:08 PM
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If the relationship has no clear leader, it is basically a FWB situation and eventually it'll fizzle out due to lack of attraction. Prove it. Somehow, I've been married for 35 years with no clear leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:06 PM
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To be absolutely precise. I'm 5'1 3'4", and she is 5'11 3/4". There are pictures in my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:53 PM
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Nah, short dudes should date whoever they're attracted to. My wife is 10" taller than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:31 PM
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The actual complexes in question are diagnosed in children in particular stages of development, they are real. The vernacular usage of either to describe mommy/daddy issues, or attachment strategies as a result of these issues, are not real. Also, I can't help myself. Electra with a C, it's not a Marvel Character.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:30 PM
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It really doesn't have to fade at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:17 PM
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All depends on how you're defining better. FWB's are more comfortable (for most) than hookups, but they're only drama free until they reach their inevitable end where there is drama aplenty. Not to pick on you directly, but as sensitive as you seem, and with as much weight you put on your idea of "desirability", how do you see yourself reacting when your FWB calls it off because she was more into her other FWB and they're getting together. If you thought FWB's where exclusive, I have a bridge to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:10 PM
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Well, you could perhaps make the argument that the husband, or maybe the boyfriends before me (We were both previously married, and hardly innocent) led her to believe that, but she'd acquired that gem of wisdom before we'd even met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:41 AM
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Well, she's told me since day 1, "You don't have to wonder and worry about the things I'm not complaining about. When I'm unhappy, you'll know." True to her word, she is proactive in every sense imaginable. I can assure you that she is perfectly capable of saying, "No."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:36 AM
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Dude, you should just delete this. You're trying to reason that women, being half of the population or thereabouts is not sufficient for workplace accommodation. This flies in the face of every accommodation law we have on the books designed to accommodate tiny minorities of people with disabilities. If 50% of the population isn't sufficient, how the F are you going to justify the laws that accommodate people with dwarfism at 0.0005% of the population? If 50% of the population triggers an "ONLY …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:26 AM
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And this folks is why you don't play chess with pigeons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:29 PM
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My bad, I took y'all as the typical artificial gender-war separation I read here in all the time. I don't even believe in the gender war. I actually like women, even when I'm not sleeping with them. I'm also totally convinced that it's not a thing outside these online spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:26 PM
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Sorry dude, I ain't joining your pity party, and with that I'll bow out of this discussion as it's becoming personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:16 PM
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That's insane. Best in the world, and chokes on insecurity when it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:48 PM
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Close enough. Tends to happen when you stay married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:46 PM
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Y'all? That was from your team. I was quoting a woman. One I'm quite fond of even.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:44 PM
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It means if man isn't sated, cuddling is a chore that requires him to ignore the need. Sorry, I thought that was clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:31 PM
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Like I said elsewhere in this thread: Every woman, I ever dated was taller than I am, including the girl who took my virginity, the first one I moved in with, and both of the ones I married. I can't think of many reasons why you'd want to spread that kind of doomer rot to younger guys. However, I can think of one: Misery loves company and you just want more crabs in the pot with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:03 PM
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It's probably not permanent. I got my wig completely split with a pool cue once, and it was just like you said. Nausea and vertigo for weeks if I pushed myself even a little bit. Riding a motorcycle was completely out of the question. A little less than a month, and it had completely passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:58 PM
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I think you're twisting this one Lillith. My wife and I have had a running joke for decades, that we have different ideas on what romance is. One of us equates romance with nudity, and I'll leave it to you to guess which one of us that may be. That doesn't mean I don't love my wife. Not only would I die for her, but as we grow older, I'm face to face with the fear that I might not be lucky enough to be the first to die. And you know what? My wife gets it. In her words, men can't cuddle with hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:51 PM
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Reddit is having issues with NP links, they're being flagged as not secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:07 PM
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Well, that reads like an admission that it's not all height. You are correct: I'm extremely extroverted IRL to the point where I have to consciously reign it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:04 PM
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So, dodge the question. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:24 PM
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What if I told you that virtually every woman, I ever dated was taller than I am, including the girl who took my virginity, the first one I moved in with, and both of the ones I married?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:17 PM
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I would never just ghost a woman who had instant sex with me. What would you do if it was a bad experience? Those are the only times I ever ghosted. Sometimes, you just didn't want to go back, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:52 PM
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There is a reason why, "Don't talk about politics or religion" is wisdom as old as the hills. Outside of those you're really close to, it's never productive. Again, people are rarely argued into agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:02 PM
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Yet another perfect example! Your interaction with your sister and mother. No minds were changed, and you know in your heart that if you hadn't been family, you would have been the shown the door. I think you managed to reach u/PuzzleheadedGrab8375 with this, where I could not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:24 PM
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Frequency is also important. Big difference between the occasional "Their", and constantly splitting hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:17 PM
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That's exactly what I'm talking about. They can be like a dog to a cuff that won't let go. No matter how many times you try to steer the conversation or change the subject, they circle back to point of their fixation over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:34 PM
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Does it make you feel better to call them out online? I'm trying to understand what purpose you think that serves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:33 PM
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I think the idea is to find a person whose ideas and values don't differ radically from your own. What doesn't work is trying to argue someone who doesn't agree with you into agreement. That almost never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:29 PM
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Pointing out mistakes is rarely profitable in social situations man. If it's not your child or someone you are supposed to be teaching, learn to let people be wrong. To expand on, and answer your question, if I were going out with a group of dudes, and someone spouted the 80/20 nonsense, I wouldn't argue even though I don't even believe in it even a little bit. Outside of children and people you're teaching, correction should be rare. Just as importantly, don't debate people who don't enjoy deba…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:26 PM
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Dude, this is a perfect example! You think you're being completely reasonable with your 7-paragraph response. The vast majority of people that saw it, scrolled right past it without reading (I would guarantee) and this IS ON A DEBATE sub. Out in the real world doing IRL things, this kind of behavior is going to do nothing but isolate you. Hell man, to make it worse you are even visibly emotional and frustrated in your response above. You cannot actually tell me this is working out for you and yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:28 PM
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He tends to make things up as he goes along. A few nights ago, he was claiming to be a biker and completely embarrassed himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:10 PM
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No, that's why I qualified it with, "Not to pick on a single group..." I used it as an example because it's well known and documented in that group. I have family members who have been diagnosed, and a big part of their therapy involved learning how to not be argumentative all the time. As for the social circles. I'd like to hear more on that. There aren't any in my social circles, and I can say with reasonable certainty that they wouldn't last long if they made their way into one. It would be i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:04 PM
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That's actually a big part of it dude. Not to pick on a single group, but I need an example: People with high functioning autism often treat every discussion as a debate, and it's exhausting. More often than not, it leads to the autist in question being isolated, because no one wants to be around people like that for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:20 PM
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So out of curiosity, what happens (according to your paradigm) when the casual thing turns serious? My wife and I were both freshly out of bad marriages when we met, and our plan was to have the ultimate casual relationship. It was going to be grand, as we both lived in the same apartment complex, so the convenience would be unparalleled. Alas, we caught feelings a couple of months in. Before you say it's temporary, it's been 35 years now. Still, started out as casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:15 PM
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Fair enough, although it still isn't the all affirming sign you think it is. Most casual sex is just what's left at closing time not some affirmation that the dude in question is the 2nd coming of Casanova. I'm not knocking it, I spent all of my teens and the vast majority of my 20's in pursuit of it, I just see it for what it is, and it ain't all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:53 PM
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I have to ask, where do these ideas come from? Especially this elevation of casual sex to something almost magical and mystical in its importance. It's not the life-affirming experience you imagine. My body count is simply astronomical by PPD standards, and all it means is that I was one of the party people, who hung out with other party people. Sell my body and soul? Fuck dude, I bought a few rounds, I shared my drugs, and that's about it. It's not the sacrifice you imagine. That's the real pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:40 PM
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Well, the fetish part notwithstanding, that's pretty normal with most women and most men. Maybe not the silence, that varies, I for example talked too much around women I liked and was too chatty if I didn't watch myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:11 AM
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Yeah, the biker thing was a total lie. Dude, typically there is a path in a club from sweetbutt to ol' lady. The sweetbutts are the girls that hang around the club, sleeping with club members until a biker decides to make her his ol' lady, then she's his and his alone. If you were really a biker, you would know this is just common knowledge. Not the words I would use, but yes, I'd bet my soul that any woman in a biker bar tonight, would be a slut in your eyes. You won't find any modest mousy typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:06 PM
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Mostly I hang out in the clubhouse, that well...the club owns. What the fuck do bikers do where you are? Every place I've lived, it's either been the clubhouse the club owns, or it's a smaller club and you hang out in a bigger (but friendly to you) club's clubhouse. Do you even know anything about biker culture? Dude, just fess up at this point, your claim that you're a biker was bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:34 PM
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Presuming...giving you credit, that wasn't simply a lame attempt at calling me a fag without attracting mod attention: What would make you think that when we are talking about women? Last time I checked, liking wild and wooly women as a man was every bit as heterosexual as liking the mousy women you seem to prefer. Maybe I'm just trying to give you too much credit, and it really was just a lame attempt to slur without repercussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:16 PM
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Nope, I'm as straight as you can get. And given that we're talking about 1% bike communities, you even asking that question just shows you have no idea what you are talking about. I'm the only biker I know who DIDN'T marry a hangaround or a sweetbutt and make her my ol' lady. Again, I'm getting a powerful feeling that you are anything but a biker. You don't seem to know anything about this world, and what you do know, appears to be wrong. The women in biker bars, are never bikers dude. No big cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:58 PM
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WTF is anyone going to gain doxxing me? LE has even gone so far as to individually photograph every single tattoo on my body (as well as everyone else I ride with), wtf is anyone going to with any information on me that hasn't already been done? Kid, I'm gonna be honest. I don't believe for a second you are a biker. You might have a motorcycle, maybe even a one-percenter friendly bike, but you ain't no biker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:42 PM
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After reading this a second time, I can't even believe that you've been to a biker-bar. Never saw a shy, inexperienced girl in one, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:24 PM
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Whose patch do you wear, and what territory?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:22 PM
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What part of, "we remove them" didn't you understand? Of course there are none for you to see. You'd need mod permissions so you could see the deleted posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:11 PM
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That's far from universal dude. As I said in another thread a few days ago, I had a three-date rule. Not because I was concerned with sex itself, but as a sorting tool. Never had much use for the shy inexperienced girls that PPD says every man wants. Can't think of a single man in my social circle (they are all, likewise bikers) who feels differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:10 PM
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I don't disagree, although that doesn't let the OF creators off the hook for their shady practices in my opinion. Good example: I moderate r/short here on Reddit. Basically a support sub for short statured adults. We are always removing half nude pictures of OF creators who have spammed the same picture to dozens of subreddits, saying she's into tall guys on r/tall, bald guys on r/tressless, and short guys on r/short. No matter how cut it, that's shady and scummy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:53 PM
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I think he means something more along the lines of OF creators spamming Anime and gaming subs (which they do) than algorithmically selected content on your friend's pages. I only know this because actual cosplayers who really put a lot of work and effort into their costumes now routinely bitch that cosplay is being ruined by adult content creators using cosplay to advertise using no effort, but highly sexualized versions of costumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:44 PM
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We do most things together. We meet friends for dinner every Weds, then hang out and drink at the clubhouse, and once or twice a month we'll go out just the two of us. No seducing, no courting, no pursuing as per the OP. Just an old married couple still enjoying each other's company.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:47 PM
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That seems to be a misconception that is commonly held by inexperienced men. Now, I'm not knocking one-night-stands, they have their place, and they are fun, but they are rarely memorable dude. How gratifying can it be when you can barely remember her face a month later? Let's be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:42 PM
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Absolutely. Nothing I would call effort. I can't think of anything off hand that I do for her that I don't enjoy doing. I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't feel the same way. I'll stick to my guns here, if it seems like work, or effort, you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:36 PM
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Can't say I have ever met one offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:33 PM
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I thought we were talking about your point? This started when you tried to claim that these bitter souls were just acting out of the good of their own hearts. I just refuted that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:11 PM
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Ok, maybe they are worth listening to, I can buy that. What does that have to do with my assertion that they fixate on women? You obviously don't believe it's truly altruism, so at least 'cede the point that they are indeed still bitterly fixating on women. It's an observable fact dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:07 PM
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You missed the key part, "It's on display wherever they congregate." Hard to erase the obvious that anyone can view with a click.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:00 PM
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It's been so long since I've spoken to a well-adjusted person on reddit that I don't even know what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:59 PM
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There is no single answer to that. Depends on the situation and the people involved. All anyone can do is to try to make the best decision at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:58 PM
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Well, I did leave my first wife. That pretty much says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:35 PM
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Probably more accurate to say I was, not that I am, which is my point. At this point, I've lived my life being monogamous with one partner for more years than not, and if we don't count the 15 years where I wasn't even a sexual being yet, it's even more ridiculously skewed towards monogamy than not. Murder, is one of few behaviors we attach permanency to in the English language. i.e., kill once and you're always a murderer. I don't concede that the same nomenclature applies to monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:33 PM
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No, I got that part. I'm trying to point out that what they're saying out loud, online isn't always indicative of their behavior offline. I offered the example of the online misogynist online, being a pussycat or dare I say it, a simp, in person for illustration. It's easy to be hard talking about women in the abstract online, and completely different when you really like the one across the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:20 PM
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Same. It's never been an issue. The few times it did slow down, all I had to do was voice my frustration and she took it to heart and fixed it. I swear the people here don't understand that happily married people talk to each other as opposed to scheming solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:16 PM
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Consider this an intelligence test: Do you actually believe these dudes are driven by altruism? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:13 PM
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Strong disagree. I think age has a lot to do with this. I wasn't naturally monogamous when I was younger. It was always a struggle, and I'll beat my first wife to the punch and admit I often failed. It was admittedly well into my 2nd (and permanent) marriage, but it did become natural. Non-monogamy now just sounds like work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:09 PM
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That cuts both ways. Half the guys here who seem vehemently misogynist online, probably melt in the presence of actual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:03 PM
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I agree to a point, but only to a point. The problem is an ever-increasing number of people spend more time interacting with each other digitally than they do personally. It's becoming more and more difficult to separate online from the real world. I don't think it's wise to diminish the effect that massive amounts of bullshit online have on society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:50 PM
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Nah, nothing I could say would move you a millimeter and vice versa. Our world views are too far apart. I actually like women as a whole, and I'm just an observer not a participant in this imagined gender-war. Certainly, no need to be sad for me, as I'm more than happy with the life I've built.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:46 PM
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Sorry Windmill, but no. Take it from a long married man. When it's working it's not a chore for either party.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:27 PM
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You're trying too hard to rationalize. Just accept that they aren't men who went their own way, they are men who were sent away, and they are extremely bitter about it. The bitterness is readily on display wherever they gather, so I don't even see how this is even remotely debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:13 PM
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Loot at any place they gather online. They talk about women non-stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:53 PM
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Dude, if that were truly the case they would have shut up about women. The fact that despite going their own way, that they are singularly fixated on women tells the true story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:06 PM
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This right here is a stellar example of a singular problem that many, many, many dudes here are plagued by. Science has limits, and it's better suited for some things than it is others. So far in human history, it's sucked balls when it comes to explaining, understanding, or predicting human behavior. This sub in particular would do well to embrace the idea that sociology, psychology and psychiatry are not exact sciences, and evolutionary psychology is pseudoscience in its purest form.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:19 PM
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Well, there's the real issue Hoss. From where I sit, I'm certain that you're the delusional one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:33 PM
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Nonsense. Both men are women will cry to heavens over problems that have no solution. If you were correct, every man would remain silent if a problem was out of his control, and we know that does not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:21 PM
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Statistics are not destiny. Source, married to my 2nd wife (and I'm her 2nd husband) for 35 years now, and they've been great.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:19 PM
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Why sad? I'd say the opposite. I'm extremely happy with my life, and observation leads me to believe that puts me in a small minority in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:54 PM
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So have I, and I see it more her way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:27 PM
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C'mon dude, that only makes sense. LTR, might make sense to invest the time to teach someone who has no idea what they're doing. Casual? The very nature of casual precludes an investment in someone, so of course they'd be looking for someone who can already deliver the goods without further instruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:07 PM
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Yeah, outside of Utah and Idaho, the only Mormons most people see are the missionaries on bicycles. Probably the fittest years of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:59 PM
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DSL was living the life. My first modem was an acoustic coupled device. 150baud. Text came in at a fraction of reading speed, even for a slow reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:31 PM
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There are no guarantees there my friend. My wife and started out with every intention of being casual. We were both recently divorced, and living in the same apartment complex it was supposed to be the ultimate in casual convenience, sure to be the envy of all my friends who had to drive across town. Barely lasted two months before I confessed I was catching feelings and was relieved when she said, "Me too." This was the lucky case. It's been my experience that ALL (never seen the exception desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:26 PM
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I had a three-date rule when I was dating. However, and here's the catch, I was never put off by n-counts. The three-date rule was just a useful tool to find my own people, who are wild and woolly, not shy, not reserved, not conservative in any (social) fashion. I can barely tolerate the company of such people, let alone want to date one. The problem is all the guys here who want their cake and to eat it too. The three-date rule flies in the face of the submissive, shy, modest woman they claim t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:21 PM
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Lol, the cream soda guy you're arguing with is mostly right. They avoid all drugs like the plague, even caffeine, but make up for it with sweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:13 PM
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They have a real problem with obesity man. Here is the requisite peer reviewed paper to that effect: The Risk of Overweight and Obesity Among Latter-Day Saints on JSTOR
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:02 PM
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That's because a lot of guys here genuinely believe that casual sex means she couldn't help but rip some dudes clothes off. They've heavily mythicized and romanticized casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:45 PM
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Seems like every virgin male on PPD seems to think the same thing. The reality of casual sex is often you were what she could find in the moment. That and beer goggles work both ways. We all get prettier at closing time. The idea that casual sex means she was burning with desire for you in particular is a PPD fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:42 PM
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My wife wants to get involved in this, so here goes: Why a man is crying is important. Losing a pet you raised from a kitten or a puppy is traumatic and no woman would hold it against a man to shed tears. Losing a parent...do I even need to explain or justify...shouldn't that just be painfully obvious to anyone? Tearing up over acts of heroism and sacrifice, again, says nothing but good things about a man. I did tell my husband you are a little right. It is very unappealing for men to cry becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:59 PM
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Trust me, if I weren't happy, I'd be gone. Ask my first wife, or one of the many other relationships I abandoned in the pursuit of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:45 PM
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Dude, I couldn't disagree with you more. I've been married for probably longer than you've been alive, and I can't even count the times my wife has seen me cry. It's a long list that includes the loss of both parents, beloved pets, and even events that had nothing to with loss like the last time we saw the Doolittle goblets and there was only one goblet remaining upright.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:18 PM
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That's most people with a marketable skill dude. During my career, I could walk into any shop in town and get a job wrenching bikes. I was well known. Higher up the chain, it's even easier. My wife's inbox has been full of inquiries from head-hunters for hospitals and universities for as long as I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:44 PM
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I'm not even on this guy's side but wow you're delusional. You cannot have a conversation about legal issues, and at the same dispense with "legality". It's akin to removing anatomy from medicine. The problem is you cannot demonstrate intent. Like I told OP, I've never in my life deceived a woman to get sex, but I have had bad experiences and ghosted women. From the outside, there is no way to tell the difference between what OP is suggesting and what I have done. OP, and only OP, knows for sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:39 PM
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Just an aside, but have you considered that sociopathy was already in your nature? I won't speak for any man other than myself, but I can say for myself that (sociopathic pumping and dumping) was never an option. Since I'm not suffering from any personality disorders, I feel bad when I hurt someone, even their feelings. It would literally take all the fun out of it for me. I won't lie to you and say that I never ghosted anyone I slept with, but I can say with complete honesty, that it was never …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:22 PM
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I can't believe this actually a question. The number one criteria for a role model (in the sociological sense) is that said role model has to be well known. It is very difficult to become well known without first achieving the status that allowed your name to spread in the first place. It happens, exceptional acts of sacrifice or heroism are exceptions to that rule, but those are even more exceptional than the wealth and status you gave as examples. 16 million Americans served as enlisted (non-o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:10 PM
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Raising someone else's child was indeed a risk, although I suspect you have a wildly hyperbolic sense of that risk. Without getting tacky, if you had enough children some of them would be your's and still maintain genetic diversity in the community. That's not an issue with 8 billion of us, so fewer children is changing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:40 AM
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You are however forgetting something extremely important that went along with the golden age of slut shaming. Men might have escaped being slut shamed directly, but promiscuous behavior came with a risk for them too: Didn't matter how slutty you thought she was, you banged her and knocked her up, you were expected to marry her. In my own family, it's well known that one of my father's brothers was killed for refusing to do exactly that, although no body was ever found, and no charges ever filed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:11 AM
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First, apologies. I came across as more aggressive than I intended. I have the flu, and I'm cranky. That said, we're so diametrically opposed that dialogue is virtually impossible. Your sins are my virtues and vice versa. You believe capitalism is failed ideology, and I'm absolutely certain that communism and socialism are the failed ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:27 AM
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I'm sorry Chica, but that's an entire load of nonsense. Of course everyone wants deeply fulfilling work, with lots and lots of paid downtime. Who wouldn't want that. Now back to reality. Someone has to pick up your trash and dispose of it and of course said person doesn't have any damned autonomy on how it gets done. There is schedule that has to be met by both the homeowner and the trash guy to make it work. Skill mastery? He performs the very necessary, but extremely uncomplicated job of dumpi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:22 PM
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Because normal people develop feelings over time, if they develop them at all. The girl I was dating when I met my wife is a perfect example of this. I genuinely liked her enough to see where it was going, but when it became apparent it wasn't going any further as far as my feelings went, I ended it. I wasn't leading her on, monogamy was the goal, but time didn't produce the feelings. That's what dating is all about. Sampling the menu until you find your favorite dish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:37 PM
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Sorry OP, but this is whack. Monogamy comes with time, and I get the feeling that you're presenting this as monogamy from the first date forward, and that's just nonsense as far as I am concerned. There are few things as unattractive as the chump or chumpette who "falls in love" on day 1 and locks on like a dog to a cuff. Communication is absolutely necessary, but you communicate as feelings grow. You just don't bust out of the gate with feelings. What you seem to be missing is that the reason c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:30 PM
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You'd literally hate my wife then, because in all honesty, not being a medical professional myself, I'm parroting her takes, because she is a medical professional. She pumped between surgeries, while dictating notes. With absolutely zero prodding from me. Edit: After reading this to my wife, she wants me to make it doubly clear that the "disgusting take and one only a very clueless man would make" was actually a professional woman's take from the git-go. Yes Virginia, she is amused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:56 PM
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You couldn't possibly be preaching a choir that was anymore wrong. I've lived a large portion of my life in (very) rural America, where everyone works from sunup to sundown. Some in the forests growing and felling trees, and the rest in East Texas' largest employer Temple Lumber Mills. I don't understand this aversion to work at all I see in the generations that came after mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:27 PM
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Never? I find that hard to believe. I'm retired, but I loved my job. My wife refuses to retire, and still loves her job. Some of us actually like working.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:59 PM
6

Oh agreed. However, a partner (doesn't have to be man) can GREATLY reduce the workload on a new mom. That's all I'm getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:55 PM
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Last resort. Mothers milk contains anti-bodies that the baby is not producing yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:51 PM
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Not really. I'm educated on this because my wife is over the lactation consultants at the women's center in her hospital, and volunteers with the le leche league. One of the primary ideas they push is that you can still get stuff done while pumping. It's not a stop everything kind of deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:49 PM
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There are situations just as you described, where one person is holding a torch that they just can't extinguish, and that becomes painful. However, if you feel that way about EVERY rejection, you have a problem OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:35 PM
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You have that backwards. Sociology 101 taught everyone the opposite: Cultures invariable assign the race with the lowest status to mixed race individuals. History is replete with example after example, both East and West.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:29 PM
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You can even lock them out and they can call the police who will escort them INSIDE the residence. If they've established residence, you need a legal eviction, which as I said earlier can be a painstakingly slow process. This is anybody you let establish residency in your home, not just children btw. I'll grant you that laws like these don't make any sense, but they are what they are. Along the same vein look at the nightmares homeowners have endured when squatters move in and establish residenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:42 PM
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Always check your local laws. In many, many places in the USA, if you've lived someplace for more than 30 days, you have to legally be evicted via the courts, and cannot be just thrown out. That almost always means 30 days after the day the evictee is served the eviction papers. Believe it or not, courts being slow, that process can take a few months from beginning to end. I've attended Nar-Anon meetings for years with my wife, and this comes up a lot with parents of (legally adult) addicts who …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:41 PM
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Yeah, I love my wife's sense of humor and always have. It's ribald, inappropriate, and everything I love in humor. 1, We are completely egalitarian, and don't keep score of who's doing what. 2, already answered 3, No. Funny won't make anyone prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:04 PM
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Tell me you don't drink without telling me you don't drink. Anybody who has spent any time in bars at all knows how wide of the mark you are above OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:56 PM
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Well, in all of the states where you need a VPN to access porn now, it was primarily men that drove that particular crusade. Here in Texas (which all the porn sites block now, hence you need a VPN) the guy who led the crusade is easily named: Lt. Gov. Dan Patrick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:56 PM
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Take it from someone who has a foot in both worlds. It's not even remotely comparable Lillith. I grew up on the wrong side of the tracks, and it is a completely different ballgame. Criminality was everyone's avocation, if not their actual profession. The rarest thing in the neighborhood was someone who wasn't willing to roll someone from the wrong neighborhood for cash and prizes. Not that there isn't a reason for this, there is: Hard work isn't valued from our hardest menial workers, and their …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:53 PM
1

That's the problem with this whole thread: The focus on the top of the food chain. Most prisoners never had a benz, most drove whatever car they recently jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:25 PM
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You should let Colombia know this, because every time I turn around, they are locking away another woman for sex trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:41 AM
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Everything stops being an option at one certain age or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:38 AM
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I don't see the problem. When I met my wife, we were both recently divorced, and she had two children. First thing we did was set about having more children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:41 PM
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Not really a fair comparison. My wife grew up in Germany, and every single Oktoberfest we have ever attended in America she's mentioned how much more of a family event it is in Germany compared to the USA. In Utah especially (Park City), Oktoberfest is only going to appeal the drinking crowd, as LDS families are going to eschew the event entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:25 PM
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Maybe if you moved away from the hyperbole you might have a point. My wife wears a simple gold band, and it's all she's ever worn because gloves go on and off all day long at work. However, even that plain gold band was $500, 35 years ago. $20 ring is an insult, no matter how you spin it. I'll agree that the price of the ring has been overblown in our culture, but expecting her to wear one with pride when it was less than dinner for two at Taco Bell, isn't reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:32 AM
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Yeah no. I know this one firsthand. At one time in my early 20's I had the lofty position of specialty car manager at an Airport Budget. The title sounds more important than it really was. My job was to drive a regular rental to Denver (from Colorado Springs), trade it for the specialty car that had been reserved, drive it back and hand it off to the prep guys. On rare occasions I needed more cars than I could personally drive, so I'd be assigned part time drivers, who would all cram into one ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:21 PM
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Well, some common sense has to be applied. If my wife told me that I looked as good as the man she married 34 years ago, I'd call her goddamned liar. It would be an empty, and obviously so, compliment. When she says I still look good to her, it rings much more true, as I feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:52 PM
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You weren't there. I can promise you that after a couple months of dating, I initiated the exclusivity conversation with my now wife that you erroneously believe is something new and unheard of. It wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:45 PM
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It's NEVER as clear cut as you initially thought, but sometimes it still works in spite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:56 AM
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I think before this debate can really happen, it has to be acknowledged that there is a difference between making it work to keep the family intact and staying together for the kids. In your case, I would agree, my parents weren't terribly different and really didn't like each other very much. However, I often question how many marriages would have survived (including my own) if there weren't any children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:00 AM
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You will probably just ignore this, but how do you explain off the scientific/medical evidence of female orgasms? Increased heart rate and pelvic floor contractions specifically. Or we can go into detail and examine the brain activity where the paraventricular nucleus of the hypothalamus, periaqueductal gray of the midbrain, hippocampus, and the cerebellum all show increased activity, exactly as seen in men. Sorry OP, but this is absolute idiocy. The only way that the female orgasm cannot exist,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:22 PM
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The jokes literally write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:45 PM
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Are these serious questions? An actual erection at seeing a scantily clad woman doesn't usually happen past puberty dude. This is a very good thing, because it's a tremendous source of embarrassment when it happens during puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:42 PM
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You'd be surprised what you can get used to. The last thunderstorm that rolled through, I woke up with my wife, 4 dogs, and 4 grandchildren all in the bed. It's a king-sized bed, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:26 PM
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Is there a reason, OP? That makes all the difference in the world. One of my best friends in the entire world has slept apart from his wife since his mid 20's (mid 60's now) and for good reason: He snores loudly and sleeps fitfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:49 PM
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Well, you mentioned two of them. I'm utterly repelled by the feminine and demure church mouse type, but tattooed and profane? That I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:49 PM
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The only worth debating is your sour perception of men. My wife is in her mid 60's, and after 34 years of marriage she's as beautiful to me as the day we met. The fact that you seem to genuinely believe that we're all oggling our daughter's friends, says way more about you than uncountable number of men it doesn't apply to in way, shape, form, or fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:26 PM
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Nah, sometime relationships just don't work out dude. My wife was married 11 years before her divorce (way longer than my first marriage) and her marriage fell apart because her first husband was great with the 17-year-old ingénue he married but wasn't stoked on the med school graduate he found himself with 11 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:18 PM
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Meh, I broke up with my childless girlfriend to marry a mother of two. 34 years, and zero regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:14 PM
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We bought her first car, senior trip to Europe, downpayment on her first house as a wedding present, and much more. I don't think she feels cheated if that's what you are asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:33 PM
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You guys should really give this one up. It's nothing but mental masturbation at this point. Paternity tests are never going to be standard, mandatory or whatever language you want to use. The vast, vast majority of people find the very idea preposterous, and only a hardy few on the internet who are unlikely to father children in the first place are for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:18 PM
1

I swear, some of you guys would be happier as ants where uniformity rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:49 PM
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Nah, I'm pretty sure it mostly comes from men, just like the women here say it does. See, I'm that guy who married way out of his league, and I've heard all the comments from other men firsthand. A much larger number of men seem to have a problem with couples where the woman is more successful. It has been very rare to hear a negative comment from women firsthand, or even secondhand through my wife. Women just seem to be much cooler with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:38 AM
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I would almost assuredly pick the one with the history of hooking up. I've always been way more drawn to my own kind than puritans I cannot relate to on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:02 PM
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Museum of ancient history is full of said women. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:01 PM
5

Speaking from experience, when the relationship ends, you just date until you catch the feels for someone else. You can skip the depression. I always did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:26 PM
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Two can live as cheaply as one--Amadeus Wolfgang Mozart It was true then, and it's true now. It will remain true as long as shelter is a big expense. Two people can split the cost of a studio or one bedroom. I've done it many times myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:18 PM
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What do you suppose the odds are of getting half-a-dozen people to agree on which standards are right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:11 PM
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You might want to re-read my comment. It was always dudes saying that, not women. Women tended to be much cooler with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:10 PM
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I was always incredibly small. I was a whopping 4'6" tall on my minors (16-17) driver's license. When I was 12 or 13, and even smaller, I remember asking my father if I was ever going to be normal sized. He was very matter of fact that no, he did not think that was possible, but I was still going to be ok in life. Turns out that I grew 8" before I got my provisional (18-21) driver's license. After I crossed five feet, he said, "Lookie there, you're small but your normal sized after all." I'm 100…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:56 AM
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Oh, I know. My mother was class of 1939, and Valedictorian. She was asked by the schoolboard to not accept the honorific, because it could have gone to a boy who it would have actually done some good, and as a woman graduating high school was rare enough that she should have been content with that. She refused to step aside. My point on a lot of these issues is that things were horrible enough with racism, sexism, et al, that we don't need to exaggerate these points. Hyperbole in these instances…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:48 AM
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Nah dude, you can't be one of those guys who waits until he's sure he can make his move without the risk of rejection. That condemns you to huge dry spells punctuated by the occasional success. Being told, "No." honestly doesn't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:39 AM
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Number 2 isn't true. Banks weren't prohibited from barring women from opening accounts until the EOCA, however, that doesn't mean that women couldn't open bank accounts. Wells Fargo for example had been allowing women to open accounts for over a hundred years prior. Some banks required male cosigners, but not all. The way you phrased it leaves the reader to believe that no women had bank accounts prior to 1974.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:11 AM
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It only takes a shred of common sense to realize that withdrawing only means you've killed your chances with the women who would have been receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:06 AM
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My working definition of nice, is putting other ppl's interests above your own, a willingness to follow rules, being eager to please, walking the straight and narrow, or what I like to call good boy syndrome. Good Gods man, that's no way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:04 AM
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It is largely your personality, but it's how fun you are, not how nice and stable you are. Show people a good time around you, and they'll continue flocking to you. That's a truth as old as time, and it remains unchanged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:56 PM
2

I love your parents. Mine were the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:55 PM
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Your problem is that you see things like thrill seeking as toxic and the antithesis of stability. Stability is wonderful, but too much pragmatism and you're boring as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:53 PM
2

When? I've been married for 34 years (long enough to know you are FOS) so how long before she gets tired of knowing I'm faithful?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:35 PM
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There is never enough sex, just like there is never enough food. You might eat until you are full, but you are always going to get hungry again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:50 PM
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Because that's not how men think. I'm that guy, I married way out of my league in almost every respect. However, it wasn't her nascent (at the time) lucrative career that attracted me to her. That was the red miniskirt and 36" inseam that it was putting on display. If anything, marrying a much more successful woman, has downsides that you probably don't see, but I have seen firsthand. Dudes don't get other men congratulating them on their spouse's success like women do. Instead, we're more apt t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:21 PM
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Nope, we sold our condo, split the money, fought over which car (we both wanted the GTO) and each took half the credit card debt. Very few people pay alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:44 AM
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That's entirely up to the couple in question. A marriage is what both partners make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:08 AM
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I think they're just praying you are for some poor girl's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:37 PM
1

What if I want my contract to be "Til death do us part?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:34 PM
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No, it's by far the common experience. The vast majority of men don't lose anything in a divorce. Alimoney et al that is repeated here ad nauseum is the uncommon experience that only shows up in a tiny percentage of divorces. Worst part about my divorce was splitting up the credit card bills, and arguing over who got what car.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:37 PM
2

Only meaningless to you. It means a great deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:34 PM
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Bizarre take. I've been divorced, and it ain't that bad. Certainly wouldn't compare it to a bullet in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:31 PM
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I've seen countless friends and acquaintances try ENM over the years. There have only been two outcomes: 1, the relationship dissolves, or 2, the couple goes back to being monogamous and at least one of them regrets everything. Showtime had a reality show, Polyamory: Married and Dating 10 or 15 years ago. I think it's telling that not a single person involved in the show is still with the same partner(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:09 PM
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Dude, you can't even get pizza delivered in some of those neighborhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:28 PM
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That is certainly a more gracious distance, but it doesn't change the fact that food deserts do indeed exist, and are not a myth as you claimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:40 AM
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Also depends on where in America. A fellow mod in a sub I moderate talk about this occasionally. He lives in the Boston GMA, and I live in the DFW GMA. He can't get over how much bigger the portions are in Texas. Matches what I've seen too. In NYC steakhouses 8oz cuts dominate the menu. Here, it's the 24oz cuts, with 36oz and 48oz available. Hell, if you wanna give it a shot, it's free if you can eat the 72oz steak at the Big Texan in Amarillo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:07 AM
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That's America's dirty secret. We spend 50% more eating out or taking out than we prepare at home, to the tune of almost $500b. We spend a trillion on food we prepare at home, and $1.5t on prepared food. You could really see it during Covid when the restaurants were closed down. The extra demand on supermarkets, along with supply issues made things really dicey for a couple of years. Now we're back to where the average person consumes fewer calories prepared at home than away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:02 AM
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How are you defining food desert? My wife sits on the United Way Board in Dallas, that decides where the charitable contributions are actually spent. According to her data there 6 neighborhoods in South Dallas alone that are more than 10 miles from an actual supermarket. I'll admit that no one wants to talk about the high crime rates that drove the pharmacies and supermarkets out, but for the families in those neighborhoods (all well under the poverty line) the food desert is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:49 PM
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Mea culpa. Had no idea this was going to step on so many toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:59 PM
1

Good advice for the childless and idle rich. Everyone else, better off making time in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:42 PM
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Older folks. That where my wife and I are at after 34 years. That would absolutely be abnormal for younger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:41 PM
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Meh, 6 months was enough for me. When you know, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:54 AM
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We tolerated all kinds of disgusting things in the past. Doesn't mean we should tolerate them today. My grandfather's second wife (1st died) my father's mother, was 17 and he was 47. That is absolutely disgusting, even though it acceptable in 1918. I genuinely feel for what a terrible life that must have been for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:33 PM
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Nope, she has all the social status with graduate, post graduate and a professional degree. I have a GED. I did however knock her up twice, so I guess I provided babies, but in fairness, she said she was good and asked if I wanted children which I said I did. As for hot, that was never me. I'm 5'1", bald, and you can't get me out of jeans and boots unless someone kicks the bucket. Never kept women out of my bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:16 PM
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Odd, I came to the exact same conclusions about my parents. They had sex and it was so awful that they waited 18 years to try again, and they still hated it and never had sex again. I know this because I have one sibling 18 years older than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:04 PM
4

Best way around that hurdle is to marry a woman that doesn't need you for provision at all. Worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:55 PM
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Nah. Take it from a man with an allergy to shyness in either sex. I couldn't have dealt with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:01 PM
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What's the point of pedantically splitting hairs, when the result is the exact same? Examples: 1, Doesn't matter. Everyone on the planet likes to talk about the things they're into. The point remains if you have difficulty engaging in typical conversational pleasantries, you're gonna have a bad time. No one gives a fuck if you can talk for four hours about the powerscaling of various anime characters. 2, doesn't matter how you split the hair, it's socially isolating either way. The rest of the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:58 PM
5

In all honesty, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:57 PM
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I don't think you could be any more wrong if you wanted to OP. I believe the complete opposite. I keep my emotions in check, and I'm not what I would describe as vulnerable with anyone, except her. She's the only one who gets to know I'm afraid. The only one who gets to know I'm hurting, etc. It's worked out pretty well so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:05 PM
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The problem with your thesis, is that it belies the fact that it's already illegal. When you're getting divorced, and you declare your assets, not only do you risk losing everything in civil court, there are criminal penalties that can and have been applied. People have done time in real jail for fraud and perjury that occurred during a divorce. As for the video. It's about hiding cash. No one hides any real wealth in cash. Well, I guess Walter White did, so I'll amend it. If the man your divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:14 PM
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Nonsense dude. I actually know a guy who would fit that description (white shoes, owns a Martha's Vinyard bungalow), and he married a former Baltimore Colts cheerleader that describing as former slut wouldn't begin to scratch the surface of that iceberg. She's partied with rockstars, and ALL that entails. Don't even get me started on doctors. I'm an expert on the social lives of doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:41 PM
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I've ridden with clubs almost all of my life. Almost all of them require a Harley, or at the very least a bike from an allied (WWII definition) nation. Italian, German, and Japanese bikes were definitely never an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:58 PM
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I'm not sure I understand the question about the overlapping networks. Also entirely certain that I don't have an academic network, or anything else for that matter. Autodidactic is my middle name. My social circles are pretty evenly split between bikers on one hand and a bunch of retired and semi-retired doctors on the other. No one seems to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:49 PM
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I'm exactly such a man. Never cared about body count. Feel free to ask me anything. Far from a slav, Texan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:36 PM
1

Good luck dude. Just remember it's not just you against women, but against women and every man like myself with a successful wife and daughters who would not see it undone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:23 PM
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No, supermajority is when a majority reaches a predetermined ratio that MUST be greater than 1/2. 2/3 and 3/4 are the most common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:39 PM
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All depends on how you define hobby. I liked to buy broken down motorcycles, fix them, and resell them. It's a sharable hobby because you can ride said motorcycle to her place and go for a ride together. I got a lot of mileage (pun intended) out of my hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:32 PM
1

Well, obviously I didn't or I wouldn't have referenced her as my 1st wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:28 PM
1

Bullshit. From experience I can say that if you live with a jealous person (my 1st wife in my case) you'll quickly learn to lie and keep secrets just to preserve what little peace you have in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:06 PM
0

That's not true, or only partially true at best. Trust me, as an old man, I can say with confidence now that with every successive year, who you are becomes more and more intractable and immutable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:34 AM
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Don't let them snow you man, that's exactly how you're supposed to feel. I don't think I would ever recover if my wife left me. Luckily, as we've been married for over 30yrs, I don't see it on the horizon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:32 AM
2

Just curious. Does your word mean anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:34 AM
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u/Windmill_flowers Wait until you figure out that all of those things can saddle up inside a single man. You've heard the old saying that if someone is conservative at 20 they have no heart, but if someone is liberal at 40 they have no brain? Same thing applies here. Someone who is domesticated at 20 has no balls, and someone who is still wild at 40 has no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:33 AM
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Wow, that means my entire family including 9 grandchildren are the product of an unnatural union! LMFAO!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:08 PM
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You are contradicting yourself. On the one hand you're saying, "Look at all those lives female physicians have saved" and on the other hand you're claiming they need a provider. Do you really think all the lady docs are looking for providers? I happen to a know a bunch, and in plain English, they ain't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:31 PM
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I'm in my 60's and not only do I not need care, I still have what it takes to care for others. I have a house full of toddlers that call me Opa.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:10 PM
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Dude, that is so flippant. Wait until you are old enough that your friends start dying and see firsthand just how devastating it is when you lose a spouse and get back to me. There is something to be said for marrying someone who isn't likely to die while you still have decades left.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:07 PM
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Yes, I was refuting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:40 PM
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Why does it have to be the guys that were turned down? How do you know it won't be the guys who likewise spent their wild oats who wife them up? At least from what I've seen, people who get married in their 40's usually have similar backgrounds. Homebodies marry homebodies and not the people who lived the wild life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:24 PM
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As a 61 year old, bald, grandpa: Damn Skippy, and just my speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:03 PM
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I can only tell you what I've seen with my own eyes dude, and nope, never seen that. Every woman I ever dated was taller, almost all were in my own economic strata (except the one who was much higher, married her ), and at least on paper all were more educated, which isn't a trick considering my lofty G.E.D.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:31 PM
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It's true, California is particularly bad about this. If you were married the mother, it's almost impossible to get out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:54 AM
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Nope back. Depends entirely on the jurisdiction. Assuming we're speaking about the USA, 50 sets of unique laws. Texas is clear that you can get out of support at any time if you believed the child to be yours and it was proven it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:53 AM
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u/Mydragonurdungeon as well. Depends on the jurisdiction. In Texas for example, if you can prove the child is not yours, the law is clear that you do not have to pay support. In California, the law is equally clear that if you were married to the mother, doesn't matter, you're paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:51 AM
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The answer is simple: Your premise is false. There is no evolution of hypergamous selection, because women are not, and never were naturally hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:45 AM
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There is an easy solution when you don't like bars just don't go. However, for some reason people like you are rarely content with that. You almost invariably want to take them away from people like me who enjoy them. That's what I don't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:51 PM
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I almost wish I could buy you a beer so we could discuss this further. We couldn't be more different. I hate drinking with a bunch of dudes at home, and I don't care how good of friends we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:49 PM
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Believe it or not, some of us just like to drink. I'd hate to live in the hellscape we'd have if you were in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:44 PM
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The discount wasn't meant for her loopy. The discount was to make it cheaper for YOU to buy HER drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:41 PM
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I had a hunch you were going to cross this line eventually, when I was reading your earlier comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:40 PM
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Aha. This is the post that inspired the one I was just commenting on. IMHO Windmill, these women should do these guys a favor and cut them loose. I didn't even have a ring (or a plan) when I proposed. We were lying naked in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:32 PM
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Same principle. My father likewise proposed to my mother without a plan. He used the band from a La Prosa (a cigar) with the promise of a better ring later when he could afford it. I didn't smoke cigars and I sure as fuck wasn't sucking on ring pops so I was empty handed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:21 PM
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Well yeah. While I've never even come close to making what she makes, as a mechanic I made decent money and was far from broke. I really should add that she lost it before the wedding scrubbing into surgery. It was the definition of money for nothing. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:11 PM
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lol, just typed this in another comment--We went to Zales in the mall. She said, "That one" the girl rang it up, told her it would be sized by the end of business the next day and I picked it up on my way home from work. Cost me two entire motorcycles I'd fixed up to sell. That hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:04 PM
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Same. We went to Zales in the mall. She said, "That one" the girl rang it up, told her it would be sized by the end of business the next day and I picked it up on my way home from work. Cost me two entire motorcycles I'd fixed up to sell. That hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:02 PM
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I didn't know I was going to propose. Hard to buy a ring in advance when you had no plan in the first place. For the record, she's right here with me and wants you to know she never felt disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:57 PM
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure that our views on marriage are indeed the heart of our differences here. Even though our first child was born 12 days before our first anniversary, that didn't play into my thinking at all. Part of it is where I come from. In biker cultural, putting a ring on it is making her an honest woman. It's a typical progression of sweetbutt (woman who hangs out with the MC but isn't with anyone), spoken for (girlfriend), ol' lady (wife). Long engagements are not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:54 PM
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I've never needed certainty in anything. It's just not how I'm put together, and I have the broken bones to prove it. As Heath Ledger said, "I'm not a planner or a schemer." Hell, even road trips, I don't plan routes. I've left Denver headed to Vancouver on a motorcycle and did nothing but ride Northwest until I saw road signs that were helpful a thousand miles later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:46 PM
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Careful of that one. Doctors and nurses are notorious for using up their compassion at work. I've actually heard the words, "Don't bleed on the carpet!" followed by, "Quit whining, no veins, no arteries, you'll heal."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:27 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. However, it is still indicative of a problem that most of the guys on PPD have. You are all looking for safe plays with guaranteed outcomes. It's almost an obsession here that drives that the conversation in one way or another. I'm not saying that my particular style of recklessness is for everyone, but there has to be a middle ground. In my case we went from, "You're too short" the day we met to "I do" six months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:23 PM
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Might be stupid, but 34th anniversary is rolling up pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:15 PM
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WTF. I didn't even have a ring. We were lying in bed naked when I asked. It was days later before we started shopping for a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:12 PM
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Dude, I have to ask how much you're spending on dates if this is such an issue. My go to dates were always pizza, or bar food. It didn't break the kitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:08 PM
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Euphamism for prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:03 PM
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Who has told you that you have to sleep with women you're disgusted with even once, let alone to keep fucking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:14 PM
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I'd hate to knock you off that high horse, so I'm just going to go ahead and let you feel superior to American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:16 PM
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Buffalo? Lol, come to Texas, Florida, California where the weather is conducive to showing skin. You'll probably have a heart-attack if Buffalo shocked you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:04 PM
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No, you have to pay child support for your children in the foster system. You're conflating the foster system with adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:36 PM
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Ya think?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:59 PM
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Too late. We have so-called men lamenting that their wives and girlfriends aren't investigating noises at night. That ship sailed because nobody is ever going to appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:56 PM
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God, I miss the days when men were proud of being men, and didn't whine about the risks it entailed. It's really an ugly look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:43 PM
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Societal support arose in the first place because that didn't happen. Things like the Children's Bureau didn't arise out of a vacuum. They were created in the late 19th and early 20th century to address problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:40 PM
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Nothing to do with your rights and everything to do with coders, actuaries, and assorted pencil pushers not getting to share the credit for doing dangerous jobs, just because they have penises just like the guys actually doing dangerous jobs. If you're not doing a dangerous job yourself, you're in exactly the same position as the women you're lamenting not doing dangerous jobs. Period, no debating that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:36 PM
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We just lost a female deputy and her male partner. Sounds like a dangerous job to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:12 PM
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The men doing those jobs have a right to make that point. The coder at Google does not get to share in that because he and the guy with the dangerous job have penises in common. Just like guys who have never worn their country's uniform can shut the fuck up about the unfairness of men going to war. No standing, no voice, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:12 PM
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Culturally impossible. There is no way the people in a developed nation are going to let children starve. The state will always step in, and that's a reality that cannot be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:08 PM
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Fuck that mess. Sorry OP, take care of your own damned spawn. See, when you take care of your own spawn, that's just called accepting responsibility. When you get some fictitious paper abortion, then the state (read taxpayers) takes on that responsibility. That's a far more grievous theft of the fruits of those taxpayer's labor, as it's not their fucking fault you knocked some chick up, that is entirely on you and your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:06 PM
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Likewise, just because you've heard of them second hand from other people's relationships, doesn't mean that there is one hiding under every rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:34 PM
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Not how I remember it. I'll pull a specific example out of my past that is the most representative of the whole: I met a waitress at Denny's at 3am, after a night of drinking. I flirted, asked for her number, called her Thursday, and after discussing schedules for a few minutes agreed to a date. We had dinner at Shakey's pizza, saw Misery at the theater, hit O'Days (a bar) afterwards and spent the rest of the weekend at my place. Now, I don't care what you call it. But I think the vast majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:33 PM
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That's well and good, but does nothing to address the fallacy that we weren't dating in the 90's. Also, women weren't nearly as concerned for their safety. Since the 90's, we've become fear mongered. This goes well beyond dating. Hell, kids still played outside in the 90's, predators be damned. The culture just wasn't as fearful on any level as it is now. There was a better understanding that bad things happened to a few unfortunate people, but you couldn't live in fear. Somewhere in the 2000's …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:20 PM
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Never met that girl dude. Despite living with six and marrying two, along with a whole lot of more transient relationships, never met these mercenary types. I suspect they exist primarily in the minds of a lot of chronically online guys. I personally, could not do the escort thing. As I've said here before, I rode with a club for years that owned a couple of titty bars on opposite ends of town, and several store front massage parlors in tow, all of which were just fronts for a revenue stream. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:15 PM
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Mostly what we are taught. I don't include a lot of Eastern sources, or the global South, because I know very little about it. Western civ from Egypt forward though, is taught here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:06 PM
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Yes, only on federal land. Technically, if you rape the receptionist at the Social Security office, that's also prosecutable in federal court, however in practice it is often handed off to the state. For example: The vast majority of rapes in Tuba City are prosecuted in Arizona courts, not federal courts. I've actually lived on the Res.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:04 PM
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It's still not outlawed on a federal level, nor should it be. It's a crime against persons, and constitutionally, that belongs to the states, just like murder which also is not a federal crime. In 1993, Oklahoma and North Carolina became the last two states to criminalize marital rape, making it illegal in all 50 states. That is not the same thing as Federal Proscription. The primary difference is that federal laws are applied sicut scriptum in all 50 states, while although it is illegal in all …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:43 PM
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Nah, dude. The devil is in the details, and the detail here is that dating eventually leads to free sex, and escorts charge the same price the 100th visit as they did the first. The price of dating is more of an initial investment, and not a date every time you have sex. When it works right, you'll eventually be having sex for the price of a pound of hamburger, some marina and noodles for dinner at your place. Try to find an escort for $11.95.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:33 PM
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The Greeks and Romans (who'd become Greek in all but name) weren't really comfortable with homosexuality. They were comfortable with pederasty and only accepted homosexuality in that form.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:29 PM
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I'm going to have to question that. There isn't a great deal written about the lives of peasants, but what we have isn't pretty. They literally lived at the mercy of everyone who wasn't a peasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:24 PM
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You mean blind dates then. Yes, blind dates weren't much of a thing. They were rare, and usually just the phrase "blind date" was cringe-worthy for most. You could meet women all over. I met most at the bar, but took more than one waitress I'd met while she worked, on dates as well as other occupations that put women in my path. So simply put. Yes, you had meet her in the wild in the 90's, but that doesn't mean we didn't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:19 PM
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In the 90s people didn’t go on dates, you just invited people to go for a social activity. Going on official dates was something losers would do. Bullshit dude. Absolutely untrue. I was there, and dating. Dating was absolutely a thing. Dinner and a movie was the default date for most, although I preferred dinner and drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:02 PM
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Ok, she just read both comments. She says I sell myself short (no pun intended), and I have way more going for me than I let on, but she'll give me height and income because it's indisputable that she's 10" taller and in a much more lucrative profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:33 PM
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It's not that people don't want to lose weight. They don't want to do what they have to lose weight. Sometimes the sacrifice is too great. I'm not overweight, but I'm hardly shredded. I've seen how shredded guys eat, and I'd rather swallow the business end of one of my pistols than have to eat like for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:32 PM
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Ok. I have to ask, lol. What is "within reason"? Believe it or not, I never had a problem dating at my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:27 PM
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Let's back up a step then. Maybe you're really not saying what some of the nutcases in this sub are saying. To clarify, how do you think voting red is helping men who struggle with women. Once we're on the same page here maybe we can avoid miscommunication.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:03 PM
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The only thing red and blue really disagree with on gendered issues is the prolife/prochoice issue, and even there the average PPD dude would be shocked to learn just how many women are prolife. Voting red isn't putting women back into the kitchen no matter what you read on PPD. In case you haven't noticed, the incoming administration is full of women in positions of power. There is no GOP agenda to put women in their place under men. If you honestly believe voting red is somehow going to help "…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:53 PM
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Of course you do, because as always, the Devil is in the details. There has always been a percentage of men who fail to launch. That will never change. Struggling men have to overcome their own obstacles, just like those of who don't struggle did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:40 PM
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I'm a man, and I have a family. My sons are men, and they started their own families. I don't think you speak for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:34 PM
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Lol, nah, it was funny. You're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:11 PM
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No problem. After 8 years modding that sub I'm as close to an expert as you can get. Ironically, I never had these problems with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:10 PM
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Nah dude. It's love and nothing else. My wife has me on every single metric. Height, beauty, income, education, and is overall just a better human being. The heart wants what it wants, and science be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:45 PM
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Never going to happen. Only bitter guys like you are willing to make things rough on women to gain a point. Those of us with families full of women we actually like will never let it happen. Also, Trump is not going to stick it to women. High level appointments like Gabbard, Bondi, Barret, are not working to set back women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:29 PM
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No it doesn't Lillith. It shows they're in pain and they're lashing out. 99% of the bullshit guys post on here is just bitterness manifested into words in the desperate hope they'll get a reaction. You've been here long enough to know this better than anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:23 PM
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First, full disclosure: I actually mod r/short, so I deal with these issues on the daily. I also stand a staggering 5'1" (155cm) myself, with pictures in my profile. Short guys aren't saying this to shame women's preferences. The ones who parrot this, are typically young, lonely, and most importantly, scared to death that they're always going to be lonely because of their stature. They aren't trying to shame anyone, they're simply reacting to their own pain and misery. Also, as I said, they're y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:21 PM
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I like a certain look, always have. Dark eye shadow, ruby lips, heavy on the mascara. I wouldn't call it deception, as it's not a natural look at all, but it has always done it for me. Add in a little leather, and you have half the women I ever dated. I tried to come up with someone young enough that most of you would recognize, and I think I have it at Taylor Momsen. Natural Taylor is cute, but made-up Taylor is smokin'. No comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:27 AM
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If we're counting sex on the first date as the relationship starting with sex, that's how a whole lot of relationships started, including my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:13 AM
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Just sounds boring to me dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:57 AM
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Nope, it's a passive aggressive insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:19 PM
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They don't really believe that. It's just a passive aggressive way of being a dick. Sheila you're a fat fuck is a direct insult. Sheila you'd be pretty if you lost 40lbs and put on some lean muscle, is a passive aggressive insult that means the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:56 PM
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Nope. It's a reality. I have a lot of experience with the legal system, and I mean the better part of a lifetime. Zero convictions. I know first-hand that not guilty does not equal innocent. When you're talking about my child, any reason to suspect the dude is a molester is an instant and hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:52 PM
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Civilization is predicated on the individual sacrificing certain freedoms for the good of all. In this case, it's better for the rest of us if you fund your own spawn, so scream into the void if you don't like it, but it ain't changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:02 PM
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No. You live in a society, and there are consequences for not abiding society's rules. If you want that level of freedom, the Alaskan frontier awaits. Outside of that, it ain't happening, and all the fucking whining in the world isn't changing that one iota.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:41 PM
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We won't. You can pretend all you want, but you're pissing in the wind. You'll never have the support of more than a handful of malcontents, while the vast, vast majority of the population is never coming around to your way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:33 PM
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Absolutely nothing out of the ordinary. You described virtually every woman I have ever known, and the vast majority of them are married and settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:57 PM
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Where there is smoke there is fire. If he was falsely accused and the evidence proves that beyond a shadow of a doubt, no problem. An open case just awaiting physical evidence? No way in Hell I'd let my child stay there unsupervised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:56 PM
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I am never going to understand this train of thought. My wife has rarely worn makeup, as it wouldn't make sense on the day to day since before transitioning to teaching, she was hidden behind a surgical mask most hours of most days. However, Friday or Saturday night...there is nothing hotter than blue eyes peering out underneath smokey eye shadow or ruby red lips smiling across the table. I just can't see how that could ever be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:53 PM
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Coming up on 34 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:08 PM
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I refuse to believe that you are that dense, and that you didn't know exactly what I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:58 AM
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No but according to my wife, she loved how they made her ass look. You can't have everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:21 AM
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Maybe. If you decided to wear your polka dot dress, not so much. If you didn't like polka dots, and bought a new dress because men like polka dot dresses, then yes, that would be sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:34 PM
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You still haven't explained why. Do you expect something like unwavering fealty or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:30 PM
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That's nutty dude. People leave friends and make new ones for thousands of different reasons. Like moving for work. Family goes with you when you move, friends stay behind. That's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:26 PM
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Well, my experience is that friends come and go, but family is forever. Sorry you find that troubling to the point of being contemptuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:19 PM
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Not sure what I'm supposed to take away from this other than you aren't a good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:14 PM
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I think so, but as you can see on reddit, there is no shortage of poor souls trying to change everything about themselves in order to be what they believe is appealing to the opposite sex. It's just sad in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:51 PM
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Nope, I'm one of the few who did not. My wardrobe has not changed one iota since 1979. Jeans, t-shirt, kutt (leather vest), riding boots has been my uniform since I started driving. My assumption was that people who liked me, would like me, and people who didn't, didn't. It's worked out pretty well so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:50 PM
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I moonlighted as a bartender for years, and those were the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:03 AM
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Matches my experience. My wife and I often read this together, and she's told me on more than one occasion that it wouldn't have made a difference if I worked for peanuts at 7-11.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:09 AM
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Sorry Windmill, you can only have one: Freedom, or lockstep. Feminism in its early years used the word, "liberation" often and loudly. Liberation is the freedom to choose what's right for you. If a given number of Swedish women want the soft life, that's freedom. You're calling for lockstep in opposition to the way it used to be, which honestly, is just the flip side of the same old coin. No progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:18 PM
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I didn't get fucked over. I just wasn't happy, and I left her. Probably fairer to say that I fucked her over. I'm a firm believer that shared values are important, and I just don't fucking share those values on any level. Even girlfriends: I have the fondest memories of the wildest, hardest partying of the bunch. This seems to be the hardest thing for PPD types to understand. Lifestyles should be compatible. Party people don't like reserved, disciplined people. People who like beer and wings on …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:25 PM
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Jebus, sin was a metaphor. I often forget that simile and metaphor are like kryptonite on reddit. But yeah, what you call "sexually disciplined" I call puritans, and have no real use for them. Not my crowd and to be honest, I don't like them very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:07 PM
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I promise that if you don't trust a spouse simply because they can cheat, that your marriage has zero chance of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:28 PM
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Thank you. It's been wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:22 PM
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No agreement from me there either. My 2nd marriage has been wonderful. Coming up on 34 years real soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:06 PM
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I did once. Married the virgin. Never made that mistake again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:43 PM
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Problem is they can't all be the same with such disparate N counts. No way possible that the 1 and 20 women have the same values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:19 PM
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I'm not a woman, but I always told my sons to go after a lusty woman, and they wouldn't regret it, so I'd say 3. However, unlike the virgin males on PPD, in my book, frigidity is the cardinal sin, not N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:18 PM
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I'd like to think so. I certainly have the longevity bit nailed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:11 PM
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Money isn't the bellwether for everyone. My wife always earned multiples of my (skilled) wage. It just wasn't an issue. All the money went into joint accounts, and we used it to support our family. There was no keeping score. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:02 PM
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Friends are no substitute for family Lillith. I wouldn't be who I am today without a wife and children. It civilizes men, and nothing you can say will ever change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:35 PM
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Which is my point. Testosterone has more than a little to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:29 PM
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Testicles have a LOT to do with how said dick functions, and how said dick functions. It's what testicles provide and what testicles do to the body that women like, not the testicles themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:58 PM
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Actually, women care a lot about testicles. Maybe not aesthetically, but they certainly seem to appreciate the masculinity that comes with a working set.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:56 PM
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Don't they teach fungibility in school anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:40 PM
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And 65, 75, I don't even know where it ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:16 AM
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The things I like the most about my wife are the same things I like the least, depending on the situation. I love how caring and giving she is, but I get frustrated when it leads her to taking on too much, which is easy to do with 4 children and 9 grandchildren. I loved how ambitious she was and how high her libido was, but that led to a lot of me be woken up when I'd have rather been sleeping because that's when she was present (medicine is 24/7 career). I love how smart she is, but I don't alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:37 AM
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Sorry dude. The whole PPD schtick that most men are barely banging their wives is pure fiction. It's the complete opposite. Most of the guys here would be shocked at how much sex married guys have, and how long it goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:25 AM
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Nah dude, believe it or not there a plenty of women who are never submissive, and plenty of dudes who wouldn't like it if they were. I personally don't see the attraction, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:14 PM
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I've never seen a man with shaved armpits who hadn't just done a court ordered drug test. Having done so myself, let me give you a good reason not to: That shit itches like hell when it grows back. It's going to take another court order to get me to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:56 PM
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Bullshit. Have you ever seen anyone broken up and devastated by an affair?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:12 PM
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Nonsense. I know a great many feminists, and not a single one is remotely as described.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:37 PM
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This is the very definition of a strawman. You've constructed your version of the feminist woman in such a manner that it's so far removed from reality that any point you hoped to make is completely and utterly lost. Yeah, dude, sure, if that's how feminist women actually acted, we'd all hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:14 PM
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OP, you really need to cheat on someone, and behold firsthand the pain and devastation you caused. Then you can get back to us and tell us how great it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:46 PM
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My lyin' eyes. I know how big I am and it was rare to see one that much smaller even in the military, where unfortunately, you will see a lot, every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:13 PM
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The difference is that I fully trust height percentiles. I don't trust the penis data. If federal agencies, medical associations et al tracked penis size with the same vigor as height is tracked it would be a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:51 PM
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You are kind of all over the place there, so I agree and disagree. We've all heard of the size queens who demand 10" or more, and true enough, good luck finding that. However, on the other end, the whole 6" being average is propaganda to make smaller guys feel better. 7 1/2" isn't exactly porn star big, it's just above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:43 PM
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I guess I'm the Devil himself, because I don't give a flying fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:09 PM
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What part isn't true? It's 100% true, only small dicked guys care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:07 PM
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Oh Jesus Christ, it's not misandry to not want tiny dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:06 PM
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Here is your problem OP: Only guys with micro dicks care. Women don't care about guys with micros, guys with average sized dicks don't care about guys with micros, and guys with big dicks don't care about micros.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:56 PM
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We've stopped plenty my dude. Don't be naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:49 PM
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Well, around here OP. If she's young enough, it can be downright unhealthy for the man in question. Contrary to this sub's opinion, it's not women he needs to worry about. Around here at least, dudes get awfully protective over girls barely old enough to be their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:24 PM
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Nah, you have to nip controlling people in the bud, or it will get out of hand. My wife has a good friend who walks all over her husband, and continually gives my wife bad advice that she ignores. For example, she recently told her, "If he were my husband, I'd MAKE him wear a wedding ring." which obviously I do not wear. That's what a controlling mind will spiral to if left unchecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:28 PM
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If it was left to simply that, I would agree. However, I've read intactivist literature and forums, and to be honest, raving nutter was a euphemism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:05 PM
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Yeah, it really was. It was extremely cruel. A private incompatibility shouldn't have turned into public bullying. That's never ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:44 PM
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That's presupposing I had an inclination to not circumcise in the first place and gave in out of fear. I'm not the least bit unhappy being circumcised, so that was not the case. It did however reinforce that belief. Sorry, but in my opinion, the majority of lol, "intactivists", are raving nutters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:32 PM
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I think you'd be surprised. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:07 PM
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We're all influenced by our environment. My only experience with uncircumcised penises was a foreign exchange student. He got close to local girl and things got hot and heavy until his dick came out, which grossed her out and she went running. She then told everyone. For the next few days he endured being called "dog dick" in the hallways by both boys and girls until he cut his exchange short and went back home. Given the environment, damn skippy I had my son circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:02 PM
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I don't believe that. No one is concerned over a 6 year age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:58 PM
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Sex continues way past menopause Sparky. You are totally ignorant if not misinformed on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:40 PM
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I'll say it. 18 years olds are pretty damned infantile regardless of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:38 PM
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Nah, that's a false dichotomy. People don't have problems with age gap relationships when the younger partner is fully adult. If you're 25 and waking up next to Dick Van Dyke, that's your business. However, if you're banging a 45 year old dude, and you had a 12am curfew when you went to prom last Spring, yeah, most people are rightfully going to have a problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:36 PM
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I have a secret love for slaps, even if they are more gimmick than anything else. I had one in a '73 Pontiac Le Mans sport coupe, the low rent GTO. Just something cool about the push pull that feels right. Still drag race after drag proved there was really no advantage. As for the trigger shifter. You got me. I've never seen a trigger shifter for a manual in the flesh. Now that you've brought it up, I'd really like to drive one then take it apart to see what it's doing. I can take a guess though…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:40 PM
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My bad, I misread. However, props to Jared. Three pucks always feel on/off to me. Serious talent to keep one half-engaged long enough to accomplish that. I haven't double-clutched anything since my father's '67 Dodge 3-ton. You literally could not downshift without double clutching. I never saw it (the clutch) but you could tell it had enough disks and springs to build a carnival ride. However, my old man could hold that truck at a dead stop on a 30 degree grade with nothing but the clutch (we l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:12 PM
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Ok, I smell bullshit. 1st of all, I can ride a motorcycle, I can drive a stick of any type from 4 on the floor to 3 on the tree which you've probably never even seen. 2nd, and most an important, I'm a mechanic. It's next to impossible to burn a performance clutch of any kind up in a short period of time, disk or puck. They are literally built for abuse and durability. Pucks are more fragile, but a quality three puck is going to outlast an OEM disk every time. You get what you pay for. In my expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:49 PM
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Which is it OP? Women are ignoring good guys, fucking bad boys, becoming impregnated in the process and finding beta men to raise the offspring. A sentiment so often expressed in this sub that it isn't funny. Or, men who fail to be leaders and providers are failing to procreate. The two are fucking mutually exclusive. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:57 AM
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You never know. You might be doing everyone else a big favor. You go to Heaven for the climate, and Hell for the company.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:48 AM
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Wrong on every count. I can see getting fighting mad over catching your wife or girlfriend in flagrante, but never a date or someone you're casually hooking up with. I hope you don't gamble, you proffer losing bets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:06 PM
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Addict is something of an exaggeration. Just neighborhood girls who liked to party, and as was customary girls didn't have to buy their own weed or coke. There wasn't any debate about women buying their own drinks in the club in those days either, they just didn't and that was that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:00 AM
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You're a day late and a dollar short. I reevaluated my life a long, long time ago and I've been happily married ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:54 AM
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You didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:12 AM
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In all seriousness, how has that worked out for you? I'm your complete opposite. I'm wild (or at least I was), uninhibited, and thrill-seeking. I do drink, I do smoke, and I've fucked a whole lot of polite society's mores sideways. I'd definitely buy a ticket to this ride a again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:04 AM
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Anyone who describes themselves as decent, law abiding, clean cut, and civilized is as serious as a heart attack and almost as fun. Honestly, your reply gives me serious hall monitor vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:51 AM
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Where I grew up, we called that Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:35 AM
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Degenerate has lost its meaning in this sub and has become incel jargon for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:30 AM
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And then she gave me two more. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:49 PM
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That was sarcasm. Obviously, I've been around people my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:17 AM
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Well, I've spent 33 years with my wife and she's 64. Is that old enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:17 PM
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You were doing fine until you got to unattractive mates, then you sounded exactly the incels you are accustomed to arguing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:41 PM
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That's probably the one area I have faith in Trump. It's not just him. Throughout my entire life, I can say that the economy has always been better when the GOP is charge. It's socially where we suffer under Republican policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:07 PM
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Absolutely. It's the framing sex as a something women do for men, that I object to. I mean you're saying things like she must be putting in a lot of effort, and I should thank my wife. I'm pretty sure it's not a chore. Broke both legs on a dirt bike once. I watched her climb the walls in frustration until I could return to duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:03 PM
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The only thing worth debating here is the nonsense idea that a Trump presidency is going to do anything for lonely men, despite the 999,999 redditors convinced that he will. As for your specific point, it's just hot air. The world isn't going regress to accommodate prudes like yourself. That ship sailed decades ago and you weren't on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:16 PM
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Dude, I'm still deeply in love with my wife and we're working on 34 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:10 PM
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What do you mean a certain age? I mean it's just common sense that sex is going to slow down as you get older. That shouldn't be a surprise to anyone. I'm not trying to lie to anyone and say that we're having as much sex as we were 30 years. We're not, and it would be abnormal as fuck if we were. It's ok that it's slowed down to once or twice a week. It's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:09 PM
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Hasn't anyone ever told you that women like sex too? It's really no more complicated than that. This sub is so locked into the notion that sex is something women give men for the man's benefit, that there is no seeing it. Hell, even my first wife who learned to hate everything about me (and me her) still fucked me until the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:10 PM
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How many times have you been baited and switched? Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:38 PM
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Never met that woman op. I've been married for a long long time, and still happy, including being happy about my sex life. The real debate here is your messed up assumptions about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:36 PM
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Fair. That's enough for me to realize we're talking about two different things. I guess your problem would be separating the passport bros from the regular joes who just happened to fall in love on foreign shores.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:30 AM
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Nonsense argument. In these societal questions, the answer is never binary. It's never a blank check to an individual as in this instance to marry whoever they want. Nor is it ever blank check for the state to dictate every facet of marriage. The restrictions on the state especially, are the difference between an onerous totalitarian government and a tolerable government with tolerable rules. Everyone reading this could recite the reasons you cannot or should not marry close relatives, so I won'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:10 AM
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That begs the question: Why are incels so bitterly divided by gender, even when they have the exact same problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:36 AM
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Poor reasoning there windmill. Assuming authority over consenting adults is in no way equivocal to protecting children. You should be ashamed you even made the argument. Also, how are we defining the West? So my FIL gets a pass for marrying a German woman (he was American) but my buddy who married a woman while he was stationed in Korea is outlawed? What kind of sense does that make?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:43 PM
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Where do you see this happening? I've never had a female friend assume I was paying for drinks as though we were seeing each other. Where is this happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:06 PM
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There is a line from an Oscar winning movie "Guess who's coming to dinner" where a well to do woman questions her black maid, why she supports her non-working husband: "I makes the living and he makes life worth living." This might surprise you OP, but I've been married for 33 years to a woman with two post graduate degrees, and a professional degree on top of that, despite possessing a lofty G.E.D. myself. Apparently, I did indeed having something she thought was worth having, and trust me, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:04 PM
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Take it from an old man. We're all young behind our own eyes. Old guys don't like to be alone any more than young guys. It's why every widower I know, has remarried even though future children are impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:19 PM
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Playing devil's advocate here: What's so difficult to understand that he might just find a woman who's into him, and doesn't care that he has a child? Surely, that's not something that only works when it's a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:16 PM
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There should be a word for the level of contempt you have for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:52 AM
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So what? I never exchanged a single word with her. We just saw across the diner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:08 AM
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Actually, that was Denny's that gave us new meals. She was gone seeking medical attention by the time we got back to the diner and our meals were cold. They brought us new, hot ones for no charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:07 AM
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What about the times you didn't get the short end of the stick? It ain't much, but a buddy and I got our meals free at Denny's after we chased down a guy who sucker punched a waitress (no, I don't know why) and held him until the cops came.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:10 PM
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Given his vitriol, femicide would not be a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:58 PM
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I had a mother who was a feminist, I married a feminist, I have daughters who are feminists, so nah, I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:54 PM
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It's part and parcel of their religion. In Christian circles and literature, it's referred to as being equally yoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:49 PM
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#2 is stupid. We learned the hard way that elevating any crime that is not murder, to a capital offense incentivizes murder in the commission of those crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:46 PM
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Of course they don't. People cheat for a variety of reasons, but by a large margin, cheating is served with sides of hangover and regret. That's something most people are going to keep to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:12 PM
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Oh I agree with that 100%. I'm just not one of those guys. My wife didn't put her away her miniskirts until we'd been married for 20 years, and she just wasn't comfortable in them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:55 PM
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That's a lie. men have been telling since before I was thought of to make it sound like cheating isn't is as bad if you're the one with a penis. Don't get me wrong, I have cheated, I just don't try to pretend I wasn't a scumbag when I did so. I strongly recommend that people don't cheat, regardless of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:32 PM
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One man's trash is another mans...you get the idea. If a woman has a problem with bars and clubs, she wasn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:26 PM
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For once, I agree with you Windmill. However, it's still not a decision to be taken lightly. The landscape is littered with people who left relationships thinking it would make them happier, and it didn't. Add a couple of kids in there who's lives you are messing with, and it's not so simple anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:15 PM
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That's most people dude. I'm the first to admit that I never left a woman except to go to a woman I was more interested in. Even my first wife is no exception to that statement. It's human nature. It's a lot easier to leave a relationship when another one is waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:09 PM
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Nah dude. This is something I lived, so I get it. My parents were in their 40's when I was born. I've never known a grandparent, the only one who survived to even meet me died when I was 2. I constantly fielded questions in school if those were really my grandparents that brought me to school. Most importantly, my parents were severely out of touch from the pre-teen years on. Their heads were stuck 20 years in the past compared to my peers, and it showed in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:13 PM
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You said name one thing. You didn't say it had to be earthshattering. It's worked out wonderfully for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:46 PM
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I didn't have kids when we met. We met, we married, we had children of our own. Not a complex story. Always having a babysitter was nice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:42 PM
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When my first child was born, his 12 year old sister, my step-daughter was old enough to babysit. Having a built-in baby-sitter was indeed pretty nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:56 PM
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The word is avocation. Partying has been my life-long avocation. I saved myself the drama: 100% of the women I dated like clubs, or we would have never dated. There never was room in my life for tee-totaling prudes of any stripe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:11 PM
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That's the problem with this particular subreddit. There are almost zero party people, and the lot of you don't understand party people at all. I fuckin' love bars and clubs, and I would have still loved them if I never went home with a single woman. That's just the cherry on top, I love to party for partying's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:08 PM
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If a biker gives up his bike for a woman, he was never a biker.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:48 PM
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I was never nearly as attractive as my wife, nor have I ever earned as much. So, at least woman exists to belie your declaration.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:04 PM
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Really, they are dude. In 33 years I still haven't come across the mythical loggerhead where one of us just had to shut up and yield.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:08 PM
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Well the problem with your safe zones is that only the dude is getting off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:46 PM
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Well, I was talking about reddit so I don't know if that matters. You should have read the reactions when I told the sub that my wife bought me a new Harley one anniversary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:41 PM
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How can something this stupid be truly debated? Sure, techinically the risk of pregnancy would be zero. However, everyone knows that no woman is going to stay with a man when sex is limited exclusive to blowjobs and anal. Why would she?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:56 PM
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Don't think it's the women who have the problem with it, dude. Everyone here knows (or should) by now that my wife has always outearned me. I've caught like zero shit about it from women, but the freakouts from dudes, innumerable at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:55 PM
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I'm going to have to strongly disagree. I don't think I checked any of the boxes that she thought she was attracted to. I'm at least a full foot shorter than who she expected to fall in love with. I don't have near the education that the guy she expected to fall in love with would have, and as a result didn't have the career or money she expected either. Yet, I'm 100% certain that she fell in love and desire(d/s) me greatly. If she didn't, she truly deserves an academy award for a lifetime perfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:45 PM
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I see both sides. I see how it is only natural to want something more permanent as you mature, and I see how to a particular type of guy it can seem insulting. The key above is particular type of guy. The guy in his late 20's or early 30's, who has lived life, been in relationships, had one-night stands, etc., is going to see the 30-year-old woman who's leaning into settling down in a completely different light, than the guy who's been trying and failing. The first guy just sees a woman in the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:51 PM
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Every woman knows that steak and lobster traditionally come with dick. That much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:43 PM
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You're at least 100 years too late. Those jokes started in Vaudeville and became popularized in 1930's radio.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:50 PM
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Your mistake is assuming that women want big penises solely because of sensation. The penis is an external organ, and there is an aesthetic difference. I had a conversation about penis size with the woman who taught me the most in my formative years, and her statement sums it up perfectly. "I can get off with most dicks, but if a guy has a big beautiful cock, he's way more likely to get head the moment I see it." That reduces everything you are missing to a single sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:21 PM
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What's your obsession with one knee? Most men don't do that either. I asked my first wife in the car as we were driving to dinner, and my second (and final) wife naked in bed while smoking a cigarette.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:45 PM
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Well, I do know one that married a lowly motorcycle mechanic with a GED. Still married to him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:57 AM
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Dude, oil and gas (the real #1) brings in over 5 trillion annually. This is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:43 AM
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I'm making popcorn, because this should be good. It doesn't even come close to the top 10, which are all multi-trillion dollar industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:41 AM
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It's always been that way man. Dating in your 40's has always sucked ass for both genders. It's hard to date when the vast majority of your demographic is already paired off. Despite what the young guys on PPD seem to expect, there aren't tons of 20's women dying to date 40's dudes. It's a rough place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:16 PM
2

No, ethnically Irish, which was relevant as I was relating a genetic tolerance for alcohol. Don't know why you're so bent out of shape about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:13 PM
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Irish American.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:47 PM
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Pretty much it. These guys think anyone more exciting than a tee-totaling actuary on quaaludes is a bad dude. Throw in a motorcycle and he might as well be Charles Manson.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:11 PM
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Exactly the same except we usually die in our late 80's or early 90's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:38 PM
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Days away from 61. So far so good, but my family is primarily nothing but hard drinking Irish people and they're pretty longed lived despite their love of booze.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:33 PM
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You know what's really going to piss you off? Some of what you described as bad boys, are doing just fine into old age. I'm certainly no chad, but I'm responsible for a whole lot of wild drinking, getting stoned, and generally bending society's rules over a sawhorse and fucking them raw. Just for the record, in my world, that's not a bad boy. In my world a bad boy is the guy that carjacked your mom, and no one really likes or trusts him, not even his own mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:26 PM
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Sounds like goody-goody bullshit to me, but hey. I stick with my statement. A woman covered in ink just spells yummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:07 PM
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What makes you think that? Every guy I know personally loves inked up women. My son especially. I consider the fact that I've only been able to convince my wife to get two small tattoos that nobody can see, one of my greatest failures in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:32 PM
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A lot of is it depends on how many kids you have. I never had more than two at a time, so it wasn't that difficult. My son is a single father with 3 kids, and even when I'm watching them, it's difficult. I don't even want to contemplate 4 or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:41 PM
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I just read a study recently that said your example is the most difficult regardless of gender. It doesn't seem like people endure switching roles well. My wife earned way more than me from the git go. She was newly licensed and working on accreditation in her specialty, so not making a ton as far as medicine goes. I, however, was so low on the mechanic's totem pole at that time, that I was still the washing bikes that senior mechanics had fixed, so I was making low-end trade money which is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:23 PM
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You must have a silver spoon definition of shit pay. GP's make the least, and they average between $150k and $200k. Surgical heavy specialties like OBGYN will make several times that. Some neuro/plastic surgeons will earn 10x that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:10 PM
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Absolute bullshit. I'm still very much in love, and very attracted to my sixty-something wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:55 PM
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That would have been a weird understanding given that I had girlfriends from 14 on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:58 PM
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I don't have the heart to tell him that one of my grandsons finds farting to be the most hilarious thing ever. He's 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:15 AM
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In kindergarten, I thought paste was delicious. I outgrew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:09 PM
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Agreed. My mothers family was full of small men who didn't seem to have a problem. I'm sure that had some effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:08 PM
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I really do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:49 PM
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If I have to explain that...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:45 PM
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Usually wit and humor, but hey, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:32 PM
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Yeah, it's just one of those things. I always liked people, including women, and I think it showed. One of things I see from a lot unsuccessful guys on here, is that I don't think they actually like women much beyond them being physically female.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:31 PM
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I honestly don't think there is any way to know for sure, Grid. I always thought my experiences were typical. As a very small man (5'1") I never had much difficulty with dating. Even standing well below 5' by the time I started driving, I had already passed all the milestones of youth: Girlfriends, virginity, etc. Wound up marrying the proverbial 6' blonde, had children etc. It wasn't until the internet came around that I saw that other guys my height weren't so lucky. To this day, I could not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:11 PM
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It's more vulnerable than you make it out to be. My wife and I had that very conversation, before admissions of love were spoken. I said something the along the lines of, "I'm really getting into you more than I planned, and I don't want you to date other guys." to which she replied, "You know that means you can't see other women?" and what's done was done.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:11 PM
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You and u/kvakerok_v2 are convincing me that nothing has changed over the years at all. I grew in working class USA neighborhoods, and 15 was typical when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:32 PM
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Sounds exciting. It explains a lot about why nerds are notoriously socially unsuccessful. I'm the complete opposite. I've lived off bar food for years at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:28 PM
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I have to ask. Taking what you said as truth: What is unique about these particular guys with advanced degrees that they're eating at Costco and food courts like teenagers, when people with advanced degrees in other fields typically eschew these places?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:24 PM
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Why does the idea of Costco filling up with well to do finance bros at lunchtime not ring true? Hmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:57 PM
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No true Scotsman huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:25 PM
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If only that were true dude. It sounds wonderful and wholesome, but it is so far removed from reality that it isn't even remotely funny. The internet wouldn't be filled with "I can't get my husband to try anything new" if it were. I'd even argue that if she didn't love him, she wouldn't be seeking advice. Same for the scenario where the husband can't get his wife to budge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:47 AM
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If that's your reply, then you missed half my point. I was trying to point out that you've greatly exaggerated any difference in importance between men and women. You seemed to believe when men are concerned, it's trivial and limited solely to frequency/libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:20 PM
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When you said, "Sexual compatibility is an excuse and manipulation tactic." Also, it's way more than libido and frequency from a man's perspective. I would know, being a man and all. A successful relationship almost always requires two people, whose ideas surrounding sex turn each other on. Sometimes you have to be on the same page, ie frequency and libido, other times it is better to be complementary opposites, ie sub/dom. Either way, from my male perspective, you have to mesh, or it's just not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:23 PM
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Much like your example of epilepsy, I strongly suspect that you lack the experience with compatible and incompatible partners to have the foggiest idea what you are talking about. All it really takes is one go 'round with an incompatible partner, and it's clear as day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:58 PM
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Well, it works for me. That's why I'm still married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:08 PM
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We can take my personal choices out of it. What I said applies as much to shipmates in the navy as friends I personally chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:34 PM
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I also believe that men and women complete each other. However in this case, I was using need solely as provision and utility, as written in the comment I initially replied to. I believe it is largely unconditional, save for the sole condition of the "love me, and I'll love you back" contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:57 AM
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Well, you read it backwards. I said the women don't need the men, and said men were with said women because the women want the men. I was refuting the trope that men are only loved if they provide something material.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:38 AM
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Maybe because I'm not trying to speak for an entire gender? I'm not saying you are always wrong, I'm saying you are always wrong when you over-generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:33 AM
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Right. Chris Rock should be remembered for, "Lobster comes with dick." because that was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:19 AM
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You guys keep repeating this as though it were fact. I know far too many guys with women who need them like a hole in the head but are with said women solely because they're wanted. Myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:10 AM
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You're not the first person on PPD to express this view OP, so I won't say you're wrong. However, I'd love to know what planet you guys are from where men only share vague details about their partners and sex lives. That has not been my experience ever. This is going to sound crude, but the only guys I knew who were even a little bit quiet in this arena were those who had nothing to brag about at home. The guys married to the total freaks who were up for anything were always making sure their fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:09 AM
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No different than all the pictures Jason Mamoa takes with female fans as he mimics stiff arming the husband while holding her close. I don't like them personally, but I'm well aware that a large number of people find these things funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:03 AM
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Nope, it's not a contest. legally speaking there are only two standards for stability: Fit and unfit. There are no extra points for more fit. For a newborn (as per the subject matter) her ability to breast feed alone is going to put her miles ahead of you in this day and age where formula feeding is highly discouraged by the medical community. Unless you can prove her to be an unfit parent, you don't have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:34 AM
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While that does make sense, I can't help but suggest you reach that level of trust before getting her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:08 AM
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None of which is admissible in family court. You're in more trouble that you know with that level of naivete. You don't get an emotional jury in family court, you get a judge who's going to reject everything that's a not a legal argument. In the USA, unless she's unfit, she wins. If she's unfit, why did you knock her up in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:32 AM
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Having fathered children, it's not going to be as easy to deny that it is your child, or at least a high possibility that it is your child as you seem to think it will be. I mean you can be obstinate for the sake of being obstinate, but most men outgrow that in adolescence. Since you remind everyone that you're the only cowboy in this town, every other comment, I know that ain't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:22 AM
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My wife is telling me that's virtually impossible these days. It's JACHO standard now for all hospitals to band the infant and mother with triple checked bracelets in situ in the delivery room or the OR as the case may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:28 PM
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ROTFLMAO!!!!! Your dread game needs a LOT of work. Epic fail 0/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:42 PM
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Not playing what ifs. My point stands, the best course is to stay with the mother of your children. Worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:29 PM
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We both know that neither medical or legal reasons are at the root of the paternity tests threads on this sub. C'mon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:26 PM
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That's exactly it. Social Services orders tests like these all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:13 PM
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That's a pretty accurate number for those situations where paternity is genuinely in doubt. I have known men who have gone through that. The single woman they were seeing turns up pregnant, and she honestly doesn't know who the father is. You went wrong when you concluded that 8% of total births represents partnered people in monogamous relationships in any shape or fashion. Happy ending: None of the guys I knew who went through it turned out to be the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:12 PM
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My way is better. Your way only protects you against fraud. My way keeps everyone involved in the same household, and no one has to pay child support even if its your. And yes Virgina, it is far more economically sound for two parents to support children in one household than two.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:01 PM
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So now you want to tell a hormonal pregnant woman that you think she cheated and you want her to take a blood test? This honestly makes sense to you? I don't see what could possibly go wrong /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:53 PM
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You know the best way to protect yourself from child support fraud? Stay with the mother of your children. Worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:49 PM
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Dude, when one in millions odds keep you up at night, we call that neurotic. There aren't enough baby swaps going on for the average man to worry about. He beat far worse odds driving his wife to the hospital to deliver.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:24 PM
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Sorry dude, but a man who trusts his wife isn't going to ask for a paternity test. There is no debating around that one simple fact. There are only two possibilities here: 1, the man in question does not trust the mother. 2, he's so damned neurotic that he's useless. Neither are going to contribute to a long-lasting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:14 PM
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You've inadvertently hit upon the whole problem with your whole thread. The definitions of liberal and conservative and nebulous and shift from person to person. Out in the real world, most people would consider me to be liberal leaning, if not outright liberal. Here on Reddit, I'm a gun toting poster boy of the far right. In your example above, that probably works in extremely liberal places like California, or maybe even NYC. However, you'd find that support for transwomen competing in women's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:54 PM
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Total bullshit man. If what you wrote was actually true I would have left my wife after 10 years (where you say the fun stops) as easily as I did my first wife when I was unhappy. More than tripled that at this point, and she is still exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:33 AM
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You do you. My experience is that friends come and go. I never stopped making new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:23 PM
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If you ever find a GF. I suggest you make friends. If she's solely responsible for your socialization, you won't have a GF for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:19 PM
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Well, you keep saying that men cannot be friends with women they find attractive. That is false. Lonely men, who have no one, have great difficulty with that, sure. To them, being friends with a woman they find attractive is full of anguish and longing. No fun. Men with partners, or fulfilling dating lives, don't have that problem. I think it's important to note that this inability to be friends with the opposite sex is limited to those few who've already lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:49 PM
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Patently false. Lonely men cannot easily maintain friendships with women they find attractive. That single adjective makes all the difference in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:23 PM
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Well, you have quite a list, and some make far more sense than others. I refuse to believe anyone has ever seen washing dishes as sexy. However, being vulnerable is indicative of a willingness to be emotionally close, and I can see how that could be sexy. Same with calling instead of texting. Texting is highly impersonal to many.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:25 PM
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I'm sorry, but I don't think once a month is suiting anyone's needs. You might have two people who don't care for sex at all, but we're talking about most, not the oddities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:14 PM
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Guess that makes me a parasite. My wife always outearned me, sometimes by as much as 5x-6x what I made. We always lived in houses she could afford, never what I could afford. I even quit riding old Harley's I fixed up, and riding new ones she bought me. It has never been a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:20 AM
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I cannot relate. I've been married for 33 years, and the only real dry spells we ever had were usually because a doctor had said, "No, don't do that for a while." At our absolute lowest, it was probably once a week, but even that rebounded to twice a week, even at our age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:53 AM
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I'm sorry, but that's simply insane. As someone who's been married for decades plural, it's just nuts. Once a month and less IS a dead-bedroom at almost any stage of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:36 AM
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I would add to that. Keep in mind that permanency and forever, are not what young relationships are usually about. They are mostly just about learning and gaining experience. I don't think OP grasps that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:01 PM
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Dude, your problem is that you refuse to accept maturation. Yes Virginia, people do mature and want different things at different points in their life. That goes for men, women, and every ++ on the LGBT list. Yeah, your good boy is probably not offering what teenagers want. You didn't mention her, but his counterpart the good girl, is in the exact same boat. When I was 17, the very first thing I wanted to know about a girl was if she put out. 10 years later, that was not what I was looking for. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:57 PM
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You know, with further thought. What about the psycho on app5 who can see five, if not all of his competition for the girl he's chatting up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:18 AM
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I'm saying Slutty Sheila's jealous husband, Klaus Von Nandertal finds app5 on her phone. He creates a profile for app5, matches with Slutty Sheila, and makes sure she matches with him even if he has to use her phone to do it himself. Now, even if Sheila has been careful about keeping her messages deleted, Klaus still has in front of him 5 motherfuckers he wants to kill!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:16 AM
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That's not what you said. You said matches. However, it gets easier than ever to find someone with nothing more than a photograph every year. My stance is unchanged. Also, not sure how this fits in with existing privacy laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:41 PM
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Number 5 would work until a jealous lover used that feature to track a match down, and the victim sues the developer into bankruptcy. Waaaaay too much potential for abuse with number 5 even if you could get groups like the ACLU to sit down and shut up in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:32 PM
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So, what you are saying is that only women can be moral? The onus is on women to be morally proactive and choose the right men for the right reasons, otherwise men to whom morality is irrelevant (your words) will be immoral for expediency's sake? Do men have any moral agency in your twisted view? I mean if we don't, we can just pack this sub up now and go home, as there is nothing left to be said. If it's true that only women can be moral, and men are helpless and cannot make a moral decision in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:40 PM
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Words cannot express how strongly I disagree. I feel extreme pity for people who want children and cannot have them, and nothing but contempt for those who can have them but don't want them. Full disclosure, not only won't I even associate with child free (referencing the ideology, not the absence of children, see entry at pity) types IRL, but I'm confident that I can speak for my entire social circle in complete unanimity as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:59 AM
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Oh bless you dude, and I don't mean that in the bad way. That was the time to be bold, witty, sarcastic, or half a dozen other things, but absolutely not the time to show you cared, or do anything markedly unselfish. That was actually the time to be totally selfish, not for the sake of being selfish but to show she was desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:32 AM
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Reading your story just begs the question: Why silently? I mean there was your opportunity, and while giving the beer was nice, you didn't really engage at all. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:16 AM
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Agreed. Mirrors my experience as a mechanic. Be liberal with the grease.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:45 PM
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I agree with everything you said. However, using old videos of me I didn't even know about is a new low for this sub. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:49 PM
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I'll add to this. While you said that drugs and alcohol are not required, I can't help but stipulate that the wilder the parties, the better the odds. I don't think that's even remotely debatable. As my son once said, "No one gets laid as much as the guys who smoke weed in the garage."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:32 PM
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That's not the position we see ourselves in. The world is looking at Japan and praying it doesn't spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:54 PM
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Oh, get real. Elon is unlikely to see the as of yet unborn work in his factories. That's not his motivation. He rightly sees many nations of the developed world facing crisis after crisis because their respective citizens are not reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:51 PM
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Exactly. There has always been room for a small number of people like that. Priests, nuns, monks, bachelors and spinsters. But never room for as many as we see today. There are nations facing genuine crises due to a failure of their citizens to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:46 PM
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That's a pretty easy question to answer. Because the only thing those countries have to offer is a high birthrate. By every other metric, they suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:04 PM
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If you can't open up to the person who is supposedly your partner in life, you're lying to yourself that you're in a relationship. You are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:57 PM
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This is going to rub a lot of people the wrong way, but so be it. It's natural for society to eschew those who have no vested interest in that society's future. There has always been room for a few, but there has likewise always been a tipping point where it's not accepted. Every society needs a future, and there is no future without children. It's natural and wise to look down on those who do not participate in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:45 PM
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Yeah, I got that. And I'm telling you that sub is essentially a clearing house for outliers and in no way representative of the experience of most people. When the typical women in a typical relationship abandons sex with her husband (or vice versa) they are fucking someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:35 PM
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Dude, seriously? There is nothing to be learned from a sub that self-selects for dead bedrooms. Yeah, most of the people there are in a bad position, because, well, it's dedicated solely to dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:16 PM
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You didn't answer my question. I'm already familiar with the so-called statistics and the misguided conclusions drawn from them. As for your last paragraph: Lol, that's the story of my life. Bars were my second home. I lived off bar food for years and year after work. Worked well enough for me. If that makes me a loner and loser, well, alrighty then, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:13 PM
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Abuse and cheating have always existed. You're not going to change human nature. Abuse and cheating will always exist. Dreaming of utopias where everyone is wonderful is always a waste of time and energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:56 PM
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Serious question: Do either of these guys party? I mean it. That's usually the line in the sand that's invisible to PPD. Party people fuck, nerds don't. It has never been more complicated than that. I credit that for all of my successes. I grew up in an environment where everyone partied. Selling party supplies (lol) was the first job everyone I knew growing up had. My challenge in r/short has always been this: Find a bar, become a regular 2 or preferably at least 3 times a week. Get to know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:49 PM
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What kind of loser would look at it as "desperate to get her off"? You are SUPPOSED to want to get her off, and vice versa. As for the dildo comment, when exactly is this supposed to happen? 33 years and counting, and I don't feel that way at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:47 PM
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You're barking up the wrong tree. I've been married forever, and we have long since settled on what we both like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:17 PM
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Dude, neither is the shit you're throwing around. Every man who has actually pleased a woman is laughing his ass off at this shit. As you guys say, no cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:04 PM
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Talk about bad anatomy! Dude, no man has reached the g-spot with his tongue. You're clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:02 PM
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Not really apropos is it? Men do not have trouble reaching orgasm during sex, so it's really a non-issue for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:56 PM
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Bullshit dude. This might be the most RP thing I've ever said, but if Becky is going 4 months between fucking Bob, she's getting it somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:48 PM
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Lol, you don't think she can feel the passion if you're going down on her with passion? Funniest shit I've read all week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:37 PM
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Dude, why don't you just find a woman and learn to fuck and abandon all this mental masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:35 PM
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That's fucked up man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:41 AM
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There is an easier way. Be upfront in the first place, and you'll never have the need to ghost anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:11 AM
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Yeah, no. I lived a wilder life than most, but I was always up front. Something is very wrong with you man if you take actual pleasure in someone else's distress.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:46 AM
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The broken will remain broken. It won't change a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:23 PM
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And balancing that with the ideal of free and uncensored discussion is the topic of the day. The difference between discussing actual demarcations where these lines actually are, and intentionally blurring the lines can often be solely based on motive, and it's impossible to know someone's true motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:31 PM
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Wrong guy. I reject the entire leader/follower relationship model on every level. I've never wanted to control anyone (who's an adult) and I'm sure as fuck not going to be controlled by anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:00 PM
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That's naive. We can't eliminate rape, murder, kidnapping, terrorism, and other true horrors, so what makes you think we can just "teach" an entire population out of anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:37 PM
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Thank you. In fairness, I should have taken the comparison you intended, but I was just so put off by the filth and nastiness of the 2nd. It's so nasty that it detracts from your argument. Even in the case of a power trip, I don't think your comparison works when the 2nd photo is utterly repugnant. Too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:55 PM
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You're insane, or at least this idea is! In order to actually debate, you're going to have to explain exactly how you think the 2nd woman is going to get nearly as much attention as the first? I'm sorry, but very few men, young or old are going to hit on the 2nd one pictured. This is a ludicrous and fallacious point of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:32 PM
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Bullshit. I was never conventionally attractive, and hookups culture and I were a match made in heaven. Loved every fucking minute of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:21 PM
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I have no idea what you're trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:35 PM
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According to my wife, smart and funny are my best features.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:29 PM
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We'd be better off if they'd just descend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:23 PM
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This is going to generate a flood of downvotes, but there is nothing wrong with Gen Z that growing a set of balls wouldn't fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:09 PM
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I don't know about your circles, but in mine, intentional disrespect is a beatdown in the making. Granted, not every sub-cultural elevates respect to the level of the MC community, but you get my drift.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:07 PM
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The laughable thing here is all your quotes that allegedly refute me, are from highly educated Generals and CEO's. If anything, you've proven beyond a shadow of a doubt just how fallible even the highly educated are in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:06 PM
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Correct on every count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:57 PM
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Again bullshit dude. For example: I know a mountain of a man who's been married to a former stripper for 15 years or so now. I promise that the first time "cuck" comes out of another dude's mouth, that dude is leaving on a stretcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:55 PM
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Bullshit dude. I'd look inward and see if I couldn't figure out why Gen Z is singularly unable to handle these so-called stresses. The early to mid 80's were the most promiscuous years of them all, and yet somehow the late boomers, Gen jones and early X'ers weren't zapped by the magic anxiety ray. Part of it is this invented narrative that once promiscuous, you're doomed to be forever unhappy in a monogamous relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. People mature and want different …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:53 PM
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The fuck are you on about man? My wife has always out earned me, and so far, she's never even tried to control me. Not even a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:47 PM
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Old saying that is true despite being old and trite, "The world will always need ditch diggers." Your utopia of nothing but high IQ types would fall flat on its face and end in mere years. Who's going to pick up your trash, clean your water, fix your toilet, repair your car, pave your roads, string wires from pole to pole, maintain your parks, et al? Society rests on the backs of the working class, and always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:45 PM
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Oh dude, you're going to hate me. Not only did I marry a woman who makes way more than I ever did, but I repaired large v-twin motorcycles that are all about burning fossil fuels. If that's unethical, who wants your ethics?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:33 PM
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First you'd have to drop the caricature persona of what you imagine a blue pill man to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:04 PM
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That's gotten to be a lame excuse everyone uses on this sub to discount the experience of others they don't want to agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:54 PM
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I wouldn't say unrealistic, but it is a very small dating pool, and if you aren't active in the social circles where you will find those types of men, it's going to be rough. Even in Christian circles, it's rare to find the young man or woman who has remained chaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:19 PM
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Well, we can only speak to our own innermost thoughts, and even that leads me to believe love is alive and well. I love my wife like no other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:12 PM
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I'd love to see who you are observing then. My observations show me that love is alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:10 PM
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How could anyone in their right mind actually believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:03 PM
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That is so off base that it doesn't even deserve an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:42 AM
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I've never claimed to be an authority. As a matter of fact, you'll find few redditors as particular as I am about not speaking for others, and that goes for groups and individuals. And sorry...I didn't feel like a victim when I wrote the above...I was aiming for sarcasm. Either I wrote it poorly or you read it poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:03 AM
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No need to. No shortage of malcontents who live to point it out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:46 AM
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Agree 100%. It's not even urban. There are 8 million people in the DFW metroplex where I live, and it's nothing like the cities in the NE that get all the press.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:19 PM
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Agreed. I'm on the American side of the fence, but it's easy to see that cultures don't mix well, and Reddit kind of forces that with no good results.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:01 PM
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I don't think you quite fathom what that word means. I fucking loved it man. It's how I and every man I grew up with spent weekends. I don't for the life of me understand how a straight man couldn't love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:49 PM
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For the love of all that's holy, can we refer to the man as Von Mises so my head won't explode? It's like talking about Eddy Halen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:47 PM
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One, I don't believe you speak for most. Two, that's your loss. Few things in life are as enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:42 PM
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I would argue that it will never happen because of biology. Men chase women and most of us enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:31 PM
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You know that neither of those things are ever going to happen right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:26 PM
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Lol, there is that. I've remarked before that the average redditor thinks the college educated dude working in the finance sector in NYC is somehow average. He's not, not even for NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:23 PM
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I hear you. I often sport a beard longer than 12", I'm covered in tattoos, shave my head, etc. PPD wouldn't be impressed, but my bed was rarely empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:08 PM
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Could be. However, they'd latch on to my lack of education (didn't finish high school), height (5'1") and the fact that I was balding in my early 20's and put me at a 2 or a 3. I've read it firsthand in the sub that I moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:06 PM
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My league is tall, leggy, busty blondes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:02 PM
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We could have a real debate if anything is TOO autistic for this sub. That would be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:52 PM
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I'm living proof that there are no leagues. I did rather well for myself from my early teens on, but your typical incel PPD denizen would say that I'm a 2 or a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:50 PM
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We use that word differently. That said, I think he's talking about when he's sober. If it's whiskey, it ain't getting hard again in just a few minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:27 PM
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Stay at home mom is pretty extreme on the scale. That was my parent's generation and I'm old. There are more mothers working part time than stay and home mom's and sole breadwinners combined. As for women expressing a preference, I really don't see that IRL. I'll grant you that most women I know are with men who at least come close to what they make or exceed it, but not by a lot. What I don't see are a lot of really disparate pairings outside of my wife and myself. I've always been pretty much …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:20 PM
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I think your problem is trying to shoehorn all women into one set. For one, I'd wager a lot more women are comfortable being providers that you think, and a lot more are more comfortable with domestic labor than you think. I'd wager that the woman who finds neither of these appealing is rare indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:06 PM
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I don't understand why you phrase that kind of behavior as a positive thing. I've said in this sub many times, that's why I left my first wife, and no one has ever called me chad. There is NOTHING endearing about a hyper-jealous, clingy woman, absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:06 PM
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Unless you are 70+, I'd see a doctor. That's not normal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:03 PM
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Well, I'm just going to be blunt and congratulate you on finding a way to couch your cowardice as though it was an admiral trait. All I can say is that your way is a complete 180 away from the way not only I, but every friend and family member I have handle these situations. When someone is in trouble around any of us, there is no discussion on what to do. We act. I've been reading this sub for years now, even if I am an infrequent contributor, and nothing has been nearly as repulsive as these t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:02 PM
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I get it. Reddit is just such a poor representation of America though. Here in Texas we have guys that get in their trucks and drive around pulling people out of ditches free of charge after every storm. You'd never get any indication of that on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:56 PM
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There aren't. It's just what you're seeing on reddit. Look at some of the ravings in this thread already, it's all incel related. If this were a Japanese language forum inundated with hikikomori you'd likely see the same vitriol. It's who you're sampling, not where you're sampling geographically that's polluting the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:21 PM
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Believe what you want, I'm really not that invested in changing your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:33 PM
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Start with "The 4th World of the Hopi" --Courtlander Read that, and I have an entire library of NA history that I can recommend from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:40 PM
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It's not nearly as rosy as you paint it. I am largely indigenous in the true sense, not the Elizabeth Warren sense, with indigenous ancestry from not 1, not 2, but 3 distinct tribes, including a great-great grandmother who survived the Sand Creek Massacre, who I know by name. Not to mention years living on the Res in Tuba City, AZ. Women were indeed traded like cattle, although not tribal women. Those horrors were reserved for women from other tribes. The poor Hopi were often victims of the Nava…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:14 PM
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They were, and still are. You're considered Jewish if your mother is Jewish, not your father. Children born to Jewish fathers and gentile mothers are known as Zera Yisrael, and are not considered to be Jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:01 PM
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Your problem is that you think small and cannot see outside your own circle. That's why I will always intervene or help if I can. I would want someone to intervene if it were my wife, or my daughter, so I'll damn skippy follow suit for someone else's wife or daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:19 PM
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Thank you. However, you should really work on that hair trigger when it comes to lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:57 PM
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Absolutely. There were entire generation of such men in the past. My parents were born in the early 1920's (had me very late in life) and that was the norm. Men from that generation loved women, and believed it was their duty to care for them, provide for them, and protect them. However, they also believed that as women they were inferior to men in every respect. It's no longer ubiquitous, but that attitude survives in some to this very day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:42 PM
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There are pictures in my profile that go back years. I don't know where you come from, but where I come from, it's bad form to call someone a liar without some a priori or a posteriori reason for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:14 PM
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That's sad. In my not insubstantial years, I've never met a such a woman. Read about a few in the papers after they committed some atrocity, but never met one. They must be rare as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:04 PM
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And by simps I presume you mean anyone who actually likes women. In my circles we used the word "whipped" and I'm not speaking of those guys by any measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:03 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, my wife, a bona fide woman contributed to that reply as we read the comment together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:01 PM
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I swear, some of you people have no concept of what marriage actually is. I know all my wife's codes and passwords, and she knows all of mine. Not out of suspicion of wrong doing, but for simple convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:59 PM
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Ever seen a grandmother blissfully entertain her grandchildren? The average antinatalist female redditor isn't even close to happy by comparison. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:56 PM
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Truer words were never, ever, spoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:54 PM
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Men don't have that? The Hell we don't. I've seen guys do incredibly stupid shit over early infatuation, or what you call "tingles".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:52 PM
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I was never what you could call attractive, and I loved dating. The hardest thing about relationships was giving up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:48 PM
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C'mon man, this one is simple. One of the reasons I don't post or comment in this sub very much anymore is because I truly don't belong. I was always at the very least moderately successful with women, have a long lasting marriage, children, grandchildren, etc. Anyone's evaluation of "fairness" is going to be 100% predicated where on the fairness line you fall. The guy who isn't getting any attention from women at all, is of course going to howl at the moon when "fairness" comes up. How could he…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:47 PM
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Maybe it's not important to everyone as it is to you? In the South, there is an oft heard expression from older people, "We got fat and happy together." Emphasis on happy. Food and good living is more important to them than being fit. You're trying to project your obsession with being fit and thin on everyone, when not everyone shares it. Speaking solely for myself, I'd rather have been with the woman slamming beers on Saturday night, than the one who spent all of Saturday morning at the gym. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:04 PM
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It's difficult to debate when you create an absolute strawman out of the blue pill. Everyone with a room temperature IQ already know that some people just suck, even women, and they also know that it's impossible to tell without knowing them well. Believe it or not, a lot more people lean blue simply because life just hasn't been that bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:26 PM
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Every time a guy on this sub says women should approach, asks why women don't approach etc., I can't help but think of Elliot Rogers. That was his burning question as well. The answer is simple: It's hard-coded into us (males) to approach and seek out women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:07 PM
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Those aren't hobbies, those are manifestations of deep-seated emotional problems. No insult intended, just facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:29 PM
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Society is always going to be for the mentally sound dude, that's just life. It's always been bad for fucked up people who can't fit in. That's just nature at work, and not a societal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:17 PM
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Would love to debate, but you are 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:15 PM
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I don't think you have a clue about what you're talking about. IRL, these things don't happen. If some guy in my circle would have made a comment about N counts (and I've never heard a single on IRL despite my years) we would have just laughed our asses off. If some guy shot his mouth off about single mothers like you see here, there is a good possibility that one of the many step-fathers in said circle would have broken his fucking jaw on the spot. IMHO, you're confusing the internet with real …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:43 PM
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Everybody has something man. I mean sure, somewhere there is a short, fat, bald, smelly, low iq, humorless, introverted, guy with crooked teeth, and he probably is romantically doomed. For everyone else, there are plenty of people they'd gel with, they just have to seek them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:22 AM
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Ok, and...? Not sure what that is supposed to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:37 PM
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Approached, past tense. I've been married (for the 2nd time) for a very long time. The answer though is both, inside and outside. If things are going well, asking her outside to smoke was always a go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:35 PM
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Are you honestly trying to get a rise out of me by insulting my own father? That might work with the typical denizens of this sub, but I see right through that, and I'll leave you to your own devices. Bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:21 PM
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That's the wrong question. The answer to that one is that you cannot. You can't force fathers to be involved with their children any more than you force men to be good husbands, or women to be good wives. Any question that starts with "force" is a dead end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:19 PM
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We'll have to agree to disagree on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:15 PM
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Well, my mother wasn't a thankless shrew like much of the younger generation today. I was happy to go camping and fishing, my father was happy to take me, and mother happy to have a weekend to herself. Everyone in my family considered it a win. Your snark changes that not one iota.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:14 PM
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"Deep" conversations are overrated and bore most people to tears. Deep conversations are for people you know and know well. I don't know that I've ever cold approached in the strictest definition of the phrase. Bars and clubs were my second home, and women expect to be approached in those venues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:12 PM
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Because the weaker you are (mentally) the more difficult this world is to navigate. That's just a fact that you cannot debate around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:55 PM
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You are cherry-picking the worst examples possible. Some of what OP is saying is absolutely true. Fathers were more involved with their children when I was growing up. It wasn't unusual at all to show up for school on Monday morning and compare weekend stories with your friends. Fathers were often the central figure. He was usually the one who took the boys camping or to a game, or whatever to give Mom a break. I don't see that nearly as much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:53 PM
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Going to have to give you hard disagree there dude. I'm below average in the metrics that you guys think count, but was always an extrovert who could easily talk to people. As a result, my dating life was never even remotely a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:48 PM
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I can assure that it wasn't even taboo 40 years ago. OP is talking out his ass on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:48 PM
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Double standards don't speak nearly as well about you as you think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:01 PM
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Dude, if you're so far gone that even a hug from your friends is the same as a hug from your girl, there is simply no hope for you. You're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:56 PM
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Maybe it's your antiquated sense of value that was out of fashion when I was young, and I'm old. I'm in a crappy Wyoming hotel right now on my return leg from Sturgis 2024 where absolutely nobody shares those puritanical values.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:54 PM
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don't female doctors usually marry male doctors No, that's not true at all. There is even oft-repeated inside joke that female doctors can't marry male doctors, because the male doctors are all married to RN's. That is the #1 occupation of male doctor's wives, with #2 being a very distant 2nd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:54 PM
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I know that a lot of doctors leave medicine. It's the leaving to become someone else's dependent that I'm questioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:37 AM
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Source? My social circle is predominately female surgeons, and I don't know a single one who's given it up to be a stay-at-home mom. Unless you have proof, I'm flat out accusing you of pulling this one out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:34 PM
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Hard disagree. I know lots of couples and only a very, very few have achieved some magical measure of parity. Almost every couple has one partner who is more successful than the others. From my observations, the key to longevity in a marriage (and I certainly qualify working on 34 years now) is the lack of competition and ours is ours mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:26 PM
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I don't know if this runs counter to your example or agrees with it, but our entire lives together, my wife has earned 4x-6x what I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:19 PM
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Ain't no way Jose. Too many decent people would shitcan the idea so fast your head would spin. This is barely debatable as this post is just another in a litany of "I should be able to escape responsibility" whines.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:31 AM
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Can't be common because of math dude. I'm not even the 1st percentile of height, and she's in the same boat at the 99th. Not enough of either one of us for it to ever be common even if we all got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:40 PM
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So, this is your version of Beevis and Butthead's "Heh, heh, he said cock-tail"? Not impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:27 PM
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Nope, I'm convinced that there has to be more to it than it. Bear in mind that she's my second wife, and I was far from unsuccessful with women beforehand. IMHO, this sub doesn't give emotion the credit it deserves in influencing human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:19 PM
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She said it was the smile and the chuckle when she said I was too short for anything. Pretty much her first words to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:14 PM
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Thank you but I don't need luck. This one is a done deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:08 PM
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Well, I have accused more than one person in this sub of not having the full range of human nature before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:05 PM
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Is English your first language? Pegged: adjective expected to do or be something, based on an assumption or stereotype or past behavior (followed by for or an infinitive): This was a team pegged for greatness before they even set foot on the practice field.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:57 PM
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That would just be incredibly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:54 PM
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Perfect response. I agree with this 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:45 PM
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Most juvenile comment of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:38 PM
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Lol, I love real life. These are the things that make it interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:12 PM
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Wow, that's ugly. Here's to hoping that's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:12 PM
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I wish I could give you a better reason, but the simple truth is that the deflowering thing is feather in most guys caps, especially if they're young (the guys). I know that when I was young, getting laid was rather meh and wouldn't impress your friends, but if you deflowered a virgin, you drove to all your friend's houses so everyone would know. Yeah, I know it's ugly, but it's the truth. Edit: parenthetical explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:56 PM
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Reread what I wrote. She kind of did. I'm the only guy shorter than her (6') that she ever dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:54 PM
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She was 30, and I was 27. We had both divorced two years prior, and yes she had two children, one of which she had custody of. She married when she was 17, and while her first husband might have been crazy over the 17yr old ingenue he wasn't stoked with the med school graduate with a brighter future than his. Me, I just married a jealous psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:52 PM
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The taller one I can answer: No. She's said many times, I would not be me if I were taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:47 PM
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That's the point, she didn't have to accept any of those things. Finding a guy taller than 5'1" who actually finished high school would not have been a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:41 PM
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That kind of dances around the point though. Is the guy who falls in love with the slightly chubby barista with crooked teeth settling when he's truly in love, and via that emotion finds her more attractive than the instagram models he was drooling over?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:38 PM
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That would my take as well for most situation. Have no idea why that's controversial here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:36 PM
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Brenda Spencer, 1979 San Diego school shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:09 AM
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That's not even an age gap. Past a certain age, 5 years is absolutely nothing. 15 and 10 might be a bit ugly, but 25 and 30 isn't far apart. 45 and 40, you're just in different paragraphs on the same page. Yeah, and we all know that some cultures are backwards, even the USA. In rural South Carolina in the 1920's, my 47 year old grandfather married my 17 year old grandmother. Disgusting. But it was a backwoods creole community in the Deep South.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:37 PM
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That is the single biggest lie that the Red Pill tries to sell: That you can make up for lost time. You cannot. Let's extend this logically. How long do you think this Red Pill Pass on Lost Opportunities lasts: Is a 35 year old entitled to young nubile attention because he missed out when he was younger? Does that extend to 45? How about 55? 65? 80? Even those who've drank the most red Kool-Aid are going to have to admit that at some point it's just gross and not very fucking likely. The 45 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:28 PM
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His clock has been ticking as long as hers. Being a loser in youth does not mean you get makeup points later. It just means your youth was squandered. You got what you got. Some kids grew up rich, and I grew up poor. That's just the breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:02 PM
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And that shouldn't be a problem if he is likewise 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:37 PM
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I think you'll find that this is perpetuated just as much by the red pill dudes here as anyone else. I'm still laughing at the shitstorm I started a couple of years ago when I casually mentioned my wife bought me a new Harley-Davidson as a 25th anniversary present.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:30 PM
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My turn to be curious. What exactly embittered you so greatly about this topic? This level of offense you're displaying has to be personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:08 PM
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I was just pointing out that blaming it on porn was in err, as it was like this long before porn went mainstream and was easily available. I really don't give a fuck who prefers what outside of the one person who's still interested in what I'm packing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:03 PM
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Ok, good for him. I hope things worked out well for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:40 PM
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I don't believe I made a judgement about the fairness of it all. Strange segue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:26 PM
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That was to say that pornography was available, but there was no streaming, there was no internet, there were no VCR's even at the point. Where I lived, there was one adult theater in town that showed X-rated movies, and truck stops on the edges of town sold magazines. It wouldn't be uncommon at all for a girl to have never seen a cock that wasn't right in front of her. Porn existed, but only for those who went to lengths to seek it out. We all knew why dude. It was the story of the century at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:23 PM
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Nah this predates pornography in American culture. I still remember the girl in my friend group at 16 who almost hooked up with a Norwegian exchange student, in an era where the only porn was a in a seedy theater downtown. I say almost, because all it took was one look at his uncircumcised dick and she noped the fuck out. Before it was said and done, he was so humiliated being called dog-dick in the halls at school that he cut his exchange short and went back to Norway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:15 PM
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Not so much afraid as it just sounds miserable. I've been married for a long, long time, and my wife never made me feel like I had anything to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:28 PM
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That just sounds like an incredibly hellish existence for both parties. It has serious, "What have you done for me lately?" vibes on one hand, and unavoidable insecurity that would go along with the possibility of anything making you lose "value" on the other. IMHO, calling that a relationship is using the term loosely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:07 PM
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No, in all honesty, I have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:16 PM
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Lol, why? I mean money is money, but honestly you'd be giving me free money for absolutely nothing. Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:57 PM
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Coochies! Let me guess, another year went by, and still no virgin GF?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:49 PM
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Nature has already taken care of that. As I've said before, my wife loves me more, simply because she has a greater capacity to love than I do. Stephen King said it best, "A man's heart is stoney, he grows what he can."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:04 PM
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Then you're doing it wrong. I missed dating badly in every relationship I was ever in. It took years and years of marriage before the pangs went way. There is nothing new under the sun, only someone new. I don't remember who said that, but that motherfucker was spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:57 PM
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You know actually dating is a helluva lot more fun than doing pseudo-scientific experiments under the guise of dating right? Seriously, why would any sane person waste their time on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:49 PM
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How the fuck is it is common sense? I zero benefit. That's usually the opposite of common sense in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:39 PM
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Give me a reason. Why would I as a married man, decide that it's a good idea to just "obsolete" my marriage. I don't see a single benefit or reason to waste even a second of my time pursuing it. You're not just advocating for a change, but a profound change at that. So far, it seems like the only ones who support this idea weren't married anyway, so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:21 PM
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It's not ideal, but better than anything state enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:03 PM
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Doesn't change a thing. Plenty of people are traditionally married without needing a state mandate to keep them together. A break-down of the odds involved doesn't change anything. Forty-seven percent is still a massive number.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:46 PM
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Sure it can dude. Plenty of people are traditionally married without needing a state mandate to keep them together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:23 PM
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In all honesty, chaos. The randomness of emotion cannot be discounted, nor can it be readily quantified. I'm convinced the exercise is not only futile, but does more harm than good. If I had listed to "pill philosophies" when I was younger, I might have abandoned all hope. Since I didn't know I was supposed to fail, I didn't and everything turned out fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:34 PM
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1,1. Neither is an imperative for either gender, only examples of poor behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:23 PM
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The problem with large age gaps, is that someone is going to be wiping someone else's ass before it's over with, and that's not very attractive. Most of you are far, far too young to comprehend the differences between 60 and 75, but it's real and it's going to suck for the younger partner. At younger ages, it's the parent problem. Finding a woman who's willing to bring a man home to meet mom and dad, when he's closer to their age than hers, is going to be a problem. That's a humiliation that mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:45 PM
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The IF is simply too big. It's never going to happen. Every guy who wants to get laid, find a partner, etc., is going to pursue and there are no arguments that are ever going to change that. This isn't a debate, it's an exercise in futility, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:31 PM
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Yes. My wife and I have had this discussion on and off over the years. She's never felt like she made a nickel less than her male counterparts. The $.84 on the dollar comparison is never strictly job for job, which would be the only way to actually substantiate a pay-gap. I've only ever worked with one female mechanic, but she got paid exactly what every guy with her experience made.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:03 PM
2

I'm a whole lot closer to ZZ-Top than Andrew Tate. In both beard, and everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:50 AM
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Nah, there is a natural saturation to criminality in any given population. Anyone who's ever been upstream in the drug or weapons trade has seen it all turn to shit when the downstream passes that undefined saturation point, and the street level side of it starts robbing and killing each other. That's when everybody quits getting paid. Let's not pretend there are more outlaws than are actually out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:05 AM
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So, you've discovered that the more visually aroused of the genders, is more visually aroused even when they are homosexual, and you think this is debate worthy why? I mean seriously, how is this not extremely common knowledge? I'll debate that this isn't even a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:51 PM
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I think you're missing the fact that it is not a complicated issue for everyone. It's just not. Difficult to argue further when the very premise is so faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:50 PM
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I know the answer to this one. From experience, I'm going to blame the cocaine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:45 PM
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Actually, that's entirely false. The vast majority of overweight adults (prior to middle age) were overweight as children. Your final paragraph is bullshit. Eating once a week is medical disaster waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:14 PM
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Ouch, one of the ugliest of the UJM's. A bitch to work as well, but all carbureted inlines are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:28 PM
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That's my point. It will be cheaper to those involved by taxing the holy fuck out of me and mine who aren't involved. Fuck that, fuck that, fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:51 PM
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Yeah, I mentioned that above. A man who cries when he gets angry is going to be a problem. That was just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:23 PM
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Not no but fuck no. The government only has the money it steals from you. Don't incentivize it to steal more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:18 PM
1

Lol, that was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:11 PM
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The first, I really don't care. If she's that young, I have an instant problem with him. The 2nd intrigues me. So this young virgin, that sucked then turned into a total pro. Is she now likewise for the streets since you sullied her and let her go? Is that how that works? You never really answered the 3rd. Are the things I mentioned masculine energy in your book? The doctor the lawyer, the country girl doing country girls things. Is that masculine energy? That also begs the question: What is fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:09 PM
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There was in inference of the women that know me. Of course I inspire nothing in the thousands of women I encounter in daily life every year who don't know me. I doubt the girl at the supermarket thinks about me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:33 PM
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You can call it whatever you like. We have a clubhouse with a liquor license, and we're open to the public 3 days a week to generate revenue. It's 18 and up, and 18-21 wear wristbands. We have signs up everywhere that read: If she ain't old enough to drink she ain't for you. Still doesn't stop the silver foxes. Once or twice a month, one crawls out of the alley broken and bloody as a result. What part swore me off...Let's count the ways. Terrible in bed. Extremely possessive. Extremely jealous. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:28 PM
2

That changes what I said how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:13 PM
1

Ok, you win big guy, now bye bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:12 PM
1

Lol, that's what I liked about her!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:09 PM
2

That's a big list. You support huge age-gap relationships with barely legal women, and we beat the fuck out of guys who even try. I've contributed over $2k in bail money for our bouncers this year alone for just that reason, and its only July. You value virginity. I never did, and the only virgin I dated as an adult swore me off of them forever. In the same vein you see women (from what I can tell) as primarily objects. I always liked women in general, and still do. Really, the only commonality …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:58 PM
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Ah gotcha. I took shitposting to mean something entirely different than that. I read it has bomb dropping inflammatory shit just to see the reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:32 PM
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Ah, we care a lot about looks. This is true. Especially when we're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:24 PM
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I don't think you guys get it. It's not that women don't like guys being vulnerable, they don't like men being vulnerable like women. Women tend to cry a lot. My wife cries when she's angry. And that's fine for a woman, no one is going to judge. A man would catch infinite shit for that. Not all male tears dry women up. My father, one of the manliest men to have ever lived, from a generation of the manliest men, literally sobbed at the Normandy American Cemetary, as he searched for names he remem…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:23 PM
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I know I'm going to regret asking, but what is the supposed pink pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:18 PM
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I'm honest to a fault, even on the internet. Use my real pictures and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:17 PM
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Agree on the black pill. Also there is nothing wrong with women as a group. If seeing everyone as an individual, is wrong, then I guess I'll die being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:15 PM
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Cool. Why? What purpose does it serve? Is it truly cathartic and make you feel better in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:14 PM
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You know, I really would like to sit down and drink a beer with you. You couldn't be more opposite than me in any way, yet, provided what you say is true, you're one of the few guys here who's had as many hookups as I have. I know there is something to be learned there, I just don't know what.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:13 PM
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You could say that about anything. How can X blame his weight when fatter guys have girlfriends? How can Y blame his height when much shorter guys have girlfriends. Etc., etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:09 PM
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Just an unfortunate consequence of the internet. Never understood it, never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:04 PM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:04 PM
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Why do you say that? I've often thought about changing my flair to blue, as that's where I fall most times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:02 PM
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I get it, I get it, I get it. Nothing screams kill me like Motley Crue given the soft electronic, half-speed treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:55 PM
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Lol, opposite of my complaint. I tire of those who are contrary solely for the sake of being contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:53 PM
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Exactly, now know that there is a subset of elevator music marketed to doctor's offices that is guaranteed to be twice as soulless. It's truly insidious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:50 PM
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I'd pay $100 for a list of who's here to actually discuss and debate, and who's here just to be sour and angry for anger's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:45 PM
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Oh yeah. As my username suggests, I'm a biker. As a biker I really loved the recent beard thread. In our (sub) culture we have a saying: We have a name for people without beards. Women. The reddit crowd might love the clean-shaven look, but none of the women in my immediate community share that appreciation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:41 PM
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My wife and her partners used a service at the office. They piped in music from a satellite dish that is supposed to be recognizable, but never exciting, sad, or anything other than lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:34 PM
3

Have you ever heard of the term fungibility? If not, you should familiarize yourself with it, because it's intrinsic to family law.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:15 PM
3

Now that I think about it, I don't like music when I'm working either, but in fairness listening is important to a mechanic. I was infamous as the guy who'd cross the shop to turn the other guy's radio down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:09 PM
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I watched the minions movie with my three youngest grandsons. It was hilarious. I probably wouldn't have watched it on my own, and I would have missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:07 PM
2

I won't listen to music when I'm driving, and it makes my entire family crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:04 PM
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That's easy. Anyone who trashes music someone else likes is a red flag. There is a place for all of it. There is a place for everyone from Bach, to Dio, to Willie, to Swift.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:59 PM
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My own experiences in life demonstrate that it is wholly impossible. I'm very polarizing with women. Some of them absolutely hated me, and some of them absolutely adored me. Doesn't reconcile at all with the thesis that they "All like the same guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:26 PM
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I can't argue with you. I've known a lot of guys like that. They all acted the same. I could take them to the bar, and the only person they would talk to would be me. If I got up and talked to someone else, they'd sit there like a rock looking into their beer. Every single one of them, no variation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:21 PM
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My bad. I really should know better than to reply to you. My mistake, won't happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:18 PM
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Lol, no they aren't all landwhales. I know plenty who could only be described as underweight. Lmfao. Believe it or not, as many times as I've sat in the back of a squad car in handcuffs, I also back the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:02 PM
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You have some odd misconceptions. I guess I should also qualify that when I read motorcycle, I mean a Harley. I wouldn't have any use for Sally if she rode squid bikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:53 PM
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Character and personality are not interchangeable. Incels get that one wrong every time they talk about Jeremy Meeks personality, and then drone on for paragraphs about his character.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:45 PM
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What's not attractive about Sally?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:44 PM
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Lol, sorry, but I'd have no use for an Anna. She sounds like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:42 PM
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I fucked it up though, see edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:21 PM
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I don't think I'm going to surprise anyone here. Sally. Edit: Wrong one, I wanted the one with the motorcycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:13 PM
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As a man who did marry a single parent, in my case at least, you batted zero. You were wrong on every count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:45 AM
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Nah, I don't think it's jealousy Lillith. They are telling you their truth. For whatever reason, you have a whole herd of young men here who are scared to death of being taken advantage of, and that's how they see relationships with single mothers. They have enough difficulty believing that any woman is ever going love or desire them for themselves, so when you throw a kid in there, all they can see is another possible ulterior motive that has nothing to do with love or desire. You can't have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:37 PM
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The UK, France, and most of Europe are unitary states with a set of laws that govern everyone. The USA is not. Marriage, and paternity law in the USA vary wildly from state to state. 50 different sets of laws written independently by 50 different legislatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:37 AM
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50 states, 50 different sets of laws. Few things are universal in the USA. In my state, Texas, you can sign it all, but if you can prove it's not your child, you can be released.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:29 AM
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I'm so confused. I'm not a lesbian, or even a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:34 PM
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And you listen to shit like that from guys who've neither had a career or a woman why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:09 PM
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Agreed 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:00 PM
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Don't just reply to the title man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:21 PM
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Lawyers I get. It's the job. Contention is at the heart of it all. I don't think doctors walk through the hospital disagreeing with everyone. I think OP has a strange idea of what a woman with a career does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:03 PM
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I'm a firm believer that sometimes you have to starve the beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:02 PM
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The devil is always in the details. I want the military well-funded to kill our enemies and break their toys. I do not want the wokie brigade well-funded to drag J.K. Rowling into court for being truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:57 PM
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No, I'm saying that you're so wrapped up in your "side" that it led to a wholly inappropriate comment in this thread. If you'll read, the "neurotypical" speak came not originally from me, but self-identifying "neurodivergent" person. Yet somehow you managed to turn into a reply against an imagined feminist slight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:54 PM
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That didn't come across as biased and one-sided at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:46 PM
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That's a good start. If something is too black and white, it's probably not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:45 PM
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Unless she's a lawyer, why would she have to be disagreeable at work? This doesn't make any sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:39 PM
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Everything you wrote in your OP, is performative. I don't think one adult has to explain to another how or why double rings, tattoos, more expensive weddings et al, are all for show and are not a substantiative measure of commitment. You're being horribly disingenuous here. I'm disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:28 PM
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That's more than fair. It makes me curious though. What have you actually learned from the debates here, and how do you sort out all the chaff?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:24 PM
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Did you DM me last night with an alt? I'm not the suspicious type, but that is almost word for word from one of the DM's that inspired the post I made last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:22 PM
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The tattoos weren't about commitment. They were fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:19 PM
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First rule of writing. Show it don't say. Give me a reason why you disagree. Show me I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:18 PM
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Nope, social confidence is unique in that regard. I'm confident I can rebuild a CV carburetor, because I've done it thousand times. Social confidence is not that. Social confidence is being free from being self-conscious, and it's usually an inborn trait, not a learned behavior.;
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:52 PM
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I still don't see why OP used the debate flair even. I still don't see a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:46 PM
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You took that 50 kinds of wrong. I was laughing along with your colorful verbiage, changing boast to humble flex. I didn't disparage you in any way. I thought it was your intent to poke fun at woke language.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:40 PM
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I take it back. Even I hate you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:26 PM
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lol, so you speak wokie? I'll keep you in mind when I need an interpreter, and I often do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:20 PM
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Bullshit dude. There are plenty of single mothers with college degrees and beyond doing just fine. I love this about reddit, all the guys claim to be earning upper 6 figures while saying all the women are on welfare. I don't think anyone has told them that women have been the majority of college grads for many years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:17 PM
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That's probably much more difficult. At least in the OR, hopefully everyone is on the same team.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:55 PM
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I have two children that love me even though I'm not their father, and 4 of my 9 grandchildren who also love me. I'd call that a positive. I don't love my step-children or grandchildren any less than my own. I can't think of a single thing in life that I value more than my family, and it doesn't matter that they all didn't spring from loins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:47 PM
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So where is debate? You used the debate flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:33 PM
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Sad but true, and social media has only made it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:25 PM
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So you don't like dudes, how is this a debate? Go ahead, don't like dudes. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:22 PM
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I really don't think I'm capable. My sense of style alone, screams that I don't care what anyone thinks. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:21 PM
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How is this a debate? Reads like a poorly written boast.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:20 PM
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Lol. It's not even all of her ideas were bad. I do have a tattoo with my wife's name under it, and she does indeed have my name tattooed on her body as well. Only difference is we did it for us, not validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:18 PM
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Complains about vilification, then writes paragraphs vilifying women who aren't attractive enough in his book. You can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:13 PM
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There is a lot of anger. I don't think anyone of any pill can deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:53 PM
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I'll have to disagree with you dude. I had nothing but positives come out of a single mother. But I get the schadenfreude. I've smoked many a cigarette in the alley while I've watched the bouncers painfully take apart the silver foxes hitting on the girls with wristbands with great satisfaction on my part. We all have things that get under our skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:48 PM
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You and I are in rare agreement. Mark this on the calendar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:42 PM
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That's because we can't talk about that without it going off the rails. It's just not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:40 PM
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So do men. I did choose my first wife, and I did bitch about it for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:38 PM
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Why is it your vivid imaginations, it's always the woman who drove the man away? Granted, it happens, my first wife drove me the fuck away, but it happens in the reverse just as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:36 PM
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Well you're supposed to come second to the children dude. I have two step children, and two children of my own. I came second to all them before they were grown. Also, this can't be said withot also noting that my wife also always came second to the children. This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:33 PM
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So it's all performative? This is the problem: You value performance over substance. How about just show a deeper level of commitment instead. It's possible. I've done it. Sorry, no brownie points outside of a good marriage and personal satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:26 PM
1

I much prefer limited government.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:24 PM
1

That's an even bigger reason to oppose it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:12 PM
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I'm sorry but this is too stupid for words. Where is the benefit? It's not the fraction of a fraction of a percent in taxes. Even multi-millionaires could buy lunch with all that money. All I see in your list are presents for the wife. For the record, I've been married for 33 years now. It's permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:10 PM
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That depends entirely on the circle of friends. I have two of them. One is a brotherhood of bikers, where when a couple splits up, she finds a new group to hang with. It's always been that way. The other is a group of doctors, nurses, and hospital administrators, where chaos ensues over who gets to keep the friends. No one in either group really cares about the whys. No one cares who cheated who. Just not anyone's business who wasn't involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:01 PM
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Believe it or not, most men aren't telling their wives what to do. If my wife can run an OR without my help (I could really fuck that shit up) she doesn't need me to police her online activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:19 PM
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Yes, I've noticed that in spades. It goes hand in hand with the slew of passive aggressive behavior that stands out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:52 PM
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They hate it when I say this, but the underlying human nature hasn't changed in thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:49 PM
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Now that makes a lot of sense. I knew that, or that is to say I had all the information, but I've never thought about that way before. It's all kind of academic to me. I don't have a personal stake in any of this on any real level. That and some kind of insane confidence that I have that everyone will respond to common sense even though experience has taught me that no one responds to common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:32 AM
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Well an update here. My wife read your comment, laughed and said, "squirrel" which is what she says every time I get distracted, and she wants my attention back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:26 AM
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Maybe that's why I find it so fascinating. I'm a lot of things, but an introvert is certainly not one of them. I've always felt at ease socially and never understood the guys who got nervous in crowds, at parties, or around girls. I'm definitely an extrovert, that much I know for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:22 AM
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That's the biggest fault I find with their strategy. This need to quantify and classify everything is a Sisyphean task when it comes to human nature. Everyone who's ever tried has failed, and they won't be the first to crack the code. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:17 AM
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Which you said made it difficult to believe me which makes my reply completely appropriate. My point still is, wasn't my intent. There is no point in a discussion if you're going to assume that everything I bother writing is a lie, now is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:14 AM
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I lean heavily towards radical honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:06 AM
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That's a whole 'nother argument. I'm infamous for declaring that as long as you're not deformed or revolting, you can get by just fine without looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:06 AM
2

Well in fairness irony seems lost on the truly autistic, so of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:05 AM
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I do admit I find this place absolutely fascinating. I got here from the most roundabout way. I was explaining to a guy my size (I'm 5'1") what rear shocks he could buy and how to raise his forks in the triple trees to lower his Harley so he could get both feet on the ground, in r/motorcycles. I got an invitation to join r/short from a guy who read the comment, became a moderator, notice that the worst ideas that came into that sub came from this sub, and here I am still Yep, I'm convinced now. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:01 AM
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I can see that. I often question just how serious the really fringe posters are though. I could be wrong, but I bet a surprising number of the worst cases don't believe a word they write. They just do it for the reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:51 AM
3

Well, as it's pointed out, since I'm here my normalcy is in question. I can live with that. I'm not. I can fit in everywhere, but I've never fit in anywhere if you can grasp the nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:45 AM
5

Never been accused of that before. That's new.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:37 AM
3

That is probably an unfortunate truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:30 AM
7

I promise you that was not my intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:27 AM
13

I thought of that as well. We had a guy like that in r/short that was running a male account and female account to back him up. Went on for months and nobody noticed until he got confused and made dozens of posts in a row from opposite accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:21 AM
3

Another factor that wasn't even on my radar. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:04 AM
19

There was a survey here that the mods held, the results said that the majority of men here between 25-30 were virgins. The vasy majority of the sub are adult virgins approaching 30. Ah, I always suspected that, but until this moment I did not know it to be fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:55 AM
6

That would be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:52 AM
5

Strange observation I'm sure, but in all of reddit I've found that I'm always more apt to be downvoted at night and upvoted in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:50 AM
12

Call it a talent, but I have always really rubbed some people the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:46 AM
6

If it makes you feel any better, I really struggled with that language when making the original post. It's very difficult to not sound silly like a layman abusing clinical terms, or to not sound insulting using less clinical terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:40 AM
5

I didn't even think of that, and I really should have. ADHD wasn't even on my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:36 AM
4

Thank you. Everyone should.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:04 PM
2

You're completely misreading this. You've just discovered that infatuation is heady. That's hardly ground-breaking dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:55 PM
16

That's no way to live dude. No way to live at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:45 PM
14

Dude, I am so sorry, that's just horrible and my heart genuinely breaks for you. However, that's not a universal thing with women, or at least in the USA where I'm familiar. After my father died, I fell apart. It was bad, and I was completely useless. I was in a cycle between crying, sleeping, and vomiting the food I was barely eating. Not only did my wife get me through the whole ordeal, but the day of the funeral, she called a doc, threw her weight around and got me a prescription sight unseen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:38 PM
14

Google for virgins, Voogle is still in the planning stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:37 PM
14

I usually don't take these guys side, but they're right on this one. There are quite a few guys, including myself who regularly call them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:35 PM
6

The funny thing is that really doesn't sound any less plausible than what I see here all the time. Every time these guys mention chad, I picture a guy in a full arab headdress pulling on a hookah as he looks contentedly on at his harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:17 PM
10

Don't go there or someone is going to mention a book they read about vampires at boarding schools. That's all we need, posts about vampires picking up all the hot chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:12 PM
5

I still wouldn't see it your way. My son's wife left him with 3 kids. The difference between you and I, is that I put that on ONE woman, as in singular. Oh, and for reddit's edification, it wasn't for a chad, but a drug addicted tattoo artist. Shit happens, it's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:05 PM
7

Lol, that made me genuinely laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:01 PM
9

Well this is a first. Usually, it's a stupid motherfucker telling me that it's me and that I'm going to be divorced any minute now. As for you opinion on women. Explains a lot. A whole lot. Begone troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:00 PM
13

Oh fuck off. For the record, I have do have daughters, and they're married with children of their own. Spare me your incel fantasy bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:54 PM
5

Dude, I'll bet you that I'm way shorter. It's all what you make of it. If you convince yourself that it's a handicap, it will be. You can fix the misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:52 PM
3

Wait, honestly? Your goal is to spend $100K on I presume hookers? This is honestly your plan? Tell me I'm not getting the joke here. Please tell me there is a ha ha I'm just missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:43 PM
4

That works for a lot of guys. I've seen it first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:35 PM
11

I really don't spend that much time online dude. I'm far from prolific despite being retired with nothing but time on my hands. But to directly answer your question. If you examine my history at all, you'll see that I get absolutely nothing from online. I exclusively trust in my lyin' eyes in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:34 PM
6

Of course I do. I put the fun in everything. It's my talent in life. Turns out, that by itself is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:30 PM
23

I wonder if it's because these parasocial relationships they have with these influencers are the only relationships they have ever had? A shot in the dark, but there has to be a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:29 PM
6

Well, I refuse to reduce women (or men) to numbers, so I'll bow out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:16 PM
2

Dude, I was 5'1" and never even finished HS. Dating is the one area I was always successful in from my early teens forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:14 PM
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