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LOLOL. what ever happen to them? Wasnt she preggo?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:45 PM
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One girl on here was saying she "finds men 4'8-5'8 the hottest"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:06 PM
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Ok cool
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:02 PM
2

Whites are a minority. Earth is majority indian, african, and asian
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:42 PM
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Thats only for whites who cant get anything so they go for asians with white fever. Its bad. Its not really a good thing lol. Ur talking more about "white fever" and thats other races self hating and luster after white. those people are toxic af and racist cuz they hate their own race
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:39 PM
-2

Obviously not all captain obvious. But most
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:35 PM
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What is "loose pussy energy"? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:33 PM
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Nurses who make like $100k, or good looking poor women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:24 PM
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Says a ugly fat ethnic guy???? Lol Speak for urself bruh Nice crab in a bucket mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:22 PM
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I always disliked tate. He reminds me of a typical stereotype of a "PUA" redpiller coach. smoking cigars, "alpha", acting puffed up, bragging about money, girls, cars. That stuff is so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:45 PM
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Lol now.weve reached peak gaslighting. "It doesnt exist bro!" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:08 PM
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It depends on circumstances. But its best to avoid the nice guy friendzone route. Small talk a few mins, if she seems like she likes you, then ask her for her number smoothly and say u can hang out on the weekend or something. Never drag it on for no reason. You need to directly let her know what's going on. If its a girl u see all the time, then first play it cool to show ur not desperate. But for girls u will only meet once, u have to take ur chance asap. On dating apps, wait a day after u mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:39 PM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:15 AM
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Lol if a girls on onlyfans, shes toxic af
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:21 PM
3

Imo a girl whos had a "slut phase" is equivalent to a guy whos visited prostitutes. Both toxic imo, but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:03 PM
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Whos the first guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:58 PM
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Even if u find ur actual looksmatch, she will have more SMV than u and be working out of ur league. Thats why you see tubby ugly girls with ripped good looking guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:56 PM
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thanks for sharing. Its good to see somebody who knows exactly what they like. Good info. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:53 PM
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4'8 on a man is not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:48 PM
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Modern feminism is just full of double standards, benefits without the work put in, "gimmie dats", and other socially negative attributes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:44 PM
1

Those can and will be outsourced. Lol you don't think a Indian/Asian slave can't figure out how to manage a janitor crew, program, consult, develop. Lol it's always a negative for the host country when 3rd world workers work for penny's on the dollar. And u bet ur ass the companies will train them to do "skilled" work for pennies on the dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:40 PM
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Ive heard of women when on birth control like " safe" nice guys who can be a father figure. And when off birth control natural state of mind, they want a handsome aggressive man who gives her "butterflys". It deff messes up selection choices. I knew a soy type guy whos wife went off BC and she started to loathe him immediately, and she even said it was cuz the hormone change. Its just like if u load a man up on male hormones, his likes and personality change.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:15 PM
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In my experience as a man, yes. So many times in online dating i could've gotten with a girl but decide na because i wanna get a even better one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:10 PM
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Lol degeess dont matter. No degree for ur face
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:14 PM
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Its true. U can get a really good idea of how one is by how they act and what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:03 PM
0

Look it up. White people are the tallest on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:02 PM
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Na. Gay guys are usually hypersexual and low inhibition. I saw a post from a gay guy and he said he had 1,000 partners in a year. That is insane.and probably why the higher prevalence of stds. How tf can you meet MULTIPLE partners every single day lol. Its a completely diff culture. Especially gay hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:37 PM
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Lol, most men today work out hard af at the gyn, work a job hard af, self improve, just to get a toxic ugly obese girl lol Who has the nerve to say the bar is low for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:58 PM
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Sherlock holmes over here lol. If equal skill, id take the 6' guy over the 5'5 guy anyday
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:05 PM
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You just contradicted urself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:52 PM
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Pua's biggest cope is that "numbers equal success". Lol 75% the time she don't call or message back, if the number was even real. So you have a entire generation of men running around like a headless chicken looking for numbers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:50 PM
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Younger kids have gotten shorter because demographics. Zoomers are the shortest recent gen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:47 PM
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Quit the discrepancy. Op is saying womens standards are really high and that most men are below average. And ur saying womens standards are very low?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:29 PM
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If ur not fat, u are "better" off than a fat person. Being fat is a big negative for lots of factors in life. Its not a phobia. A phobia is irrational fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:04 PM
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Tbh most online gurus for any subject are just grifters who wanna get rich easy. Its most similar to politics and fitness niches
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:58 PM
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For toxic people yes, but for most it just brings out the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:57 PM
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Women should just lose weight, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:56 PM
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A six pack on a skinny guy is equivalent to big tits on a fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:56 PM
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That just means women's standards/hyoergamy had run amok. Also ur comparing two different things, smv and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:54 PM
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Polygamy needs to be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:45 PM
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Thats what they SAY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:40 PM
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Old studies my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:11 PM
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Not a preference, a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:00 PM
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U would date a 4'8 guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:37 PM
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Its funny cuz gen z is a lot shorter too cuz demographics. But they want even taller dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:36 PM
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You don't think. But its a fact 6'4 is more attractive than 6'1 in general. Virtue signal aside Sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:34 PM
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It seems women take the easy way out, but when they take that "easy way out" by instead of directly rejecting him, they lead him on slowly, and that just delays the inevitable eventual moment when she will have too directly reject him. And once you've led a guy on and then reject him, that's 10000x worse than originally just flat or directly rejecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:21 PM
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Men need to let their nuts drag and dont be a bitch. Cuz too many guys still act like their balls haven't dropped. Probably due to being raised by a women majority environment with little to no strong male examples around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:20 AM
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The question would be why not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:09 PM
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If ur a single man with no kids, why would you date a women with such baggage? Single moms are for single dads
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:48 PM
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Yes, but she must like you first.otherwise you will always be empty handed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:23 PM
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Ban it. Its not natural and goes against nature
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:22 PM
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Most women are terrible at it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:50 PM
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Id say women leverage more. To get wealth, "security", status, and hypergany
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:13 AM
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For middle aged women it seems like they go to dominican republic, jamaica, and places like that. And yeah they get the "you go girl!" treatment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:54 PM
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Yes. And for womens too. I know a guy who was average looking, but his voice is pretty deep, but not just deep, its chill and authoritative naturally without being try-hard and everyone comments on it. It is a huge halo effect on him So yeah, definitely. I know a jock whos tall, built, and look good. But his voice is literally nasally and annoying, it deff brings him down lol cuz it doesn't match his looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:23 PM
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That's not an excuse for girls to lead guys on, and friend zone tho. Girls that do that day that as an excuse, but make it even worse for themselves later on by dragging it out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:40 PM
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Guys who allow themselves to get friend zoned are just so desperate to be with her, in his head he thinks if he stays "friends" with her slowly maybe she will "come around" and love him. Lots of girls friendzone guys they reject cuz said girl is afraid he will lash out or be weird, so she friedzones him and attempts to slowly lose contact with him. Both are toxic and need to stop. Guys need to just give up when she says no and move on. And girls need to firmly tell guys they arent interested in.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:24 PM
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Girls with daddy issues always date older guys. Even guys that arent rich and dont look young.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:59 PM
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If shes fat, social media obsessed, if shes obsessed with "going out", clubbing, bars, parties, has lots of "guy friends"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:51 PM
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I tell the truth. And its always worked out good. I let them know im poor and dont have my own place. Most are cool with it. Even some women with nice jobs like nurse, doctor, ect have been okay with it lol. I tell them before we even go out. Casually bring the topic up and mention it. That way if they still wanna go out with me after that, i know she likes me ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:48 PM
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Whenever its discovered he isn't the father he should sever all ties and also get back pay for paternity fraud from the mother if she knew
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:40 PM
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Whenever its discovered he isn't the father he should sever all ties and also get back pay for paternity fraud from the mother if she knew
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:07 PM
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Imo the best way and what i do is show ur intentions upfront, but be chill about it. Dont force it, dont go too fast, be kinda indifferent, and let it happen on its own, which it will if both of u like each other. Guys that cosplay as a nice friend get friendzoned have no chance, and pua artists who demand a number and date within 5 minutes are too pushy and cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:02 PM
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Omg lol. True
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:29 AM
2

True to a extent. But multiply that by 100x for men too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:07 AM
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I see it like this. For men, online dating is like going to a used car lot with very little money. You have to actually find a car and also hope u have enough money for it. Online dating for women is like going to a really nice new car dealer with a lot of cash, and you consider it "hard" because they have so many cars to pick from, and u can get anyone u want. So its so much hassle and "hard" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:50 AM
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People who take experimental drugs are weird, shows a lack of critical thinking, and sheep-like behavior. I only date pure bloods, and exceptions for girls that realize they messed up and stopped jabbing/boosting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:11 PM
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He was weird looking imo. But not ugly. He should of had no problems tho, his brain was fucked up tho and he went the wrong way in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:25 PM
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Na, being ugly/short is. Women will still flock to a super good looking mental guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:22 PM
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He doesnt live in tutorial world, the women does. He goes thru the same spaces tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:29 PM
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Its a reddit thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:29 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:18 PM
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He can drop the tutorial level items he has because he leveled up he dont need them anymore since he proved himself worthy and got better stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:13 PM
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Men start on hardcore/nightmare mode difficulty. women are on tutorial mode. So when a guy finally beats the game, he can drop the tutorial level, and level himself up. Thats one tradeoff between men/women. Most women have everything really easy and stay at a medium level. And most men have things hard and start out really low, but some men can rise really high above all. Its metaphorical. Think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:12 PM
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Basically women live life on tutorial mode, and once a guy finally works hard enough, beats nightmare mode, he doesnt need to play the tutorial anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:02 PM
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If ur fat and on a dating app, and a male, u wont get matches. You need to maxx urself and pics out before using dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:47 PM
0

U must not want a girl then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:42 PM
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true. I see it happen all the time. Although sometimes those guys will have a weird nerdy girl in the social group, she will go for the alpha of the geek group. That's why i tend to avoid socializing with socially awkward geeky people because they bring you down the totem pole. Sure they make good friends, but they literally repel all normal women like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:41 PM
1

Due to DEI, i have the person who makes more money pay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:37 PM
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Online makes it so easy for guys who are kinda introverted and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:07 PM
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Tbh its just the "current thing". The ugly guys still get no dates, and the attractive guys will still get dates. Just as its always been. When I was young, the "current thing" was a few niches that could help get u girls, the hiphop white boy shtick where u act ignorant, wear baggy clothes, and act a lil wild. The stoner shtick, the jock shtick, and the artist/musician shtick. Imo the andrew tate/redpill pua shtick is cringe. But what still rings true is ugly guys get no girls, and good looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:41 PM
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Lol imo that would be funny tbh. a college girl at a party flashing a camera man and partying isnt anything too crazy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:42 PM
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Thats how the "you would be a incel if born male" insult came from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:29 AM
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because its "cute" "goofy" and "fun" for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:42 AM
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They cover it up and compensate the most. Deep down they hate the obesity even if they are "body positive" when in public
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:40 PM
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Bluepill men are setup for failure in these times. And embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:47 PM
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Fat girls are a mess. They have issues but cover it up with the bubbly funny girl persona. Lots of big girls like either skinny guys, or jacked guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:45 PM
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Thats common sense tbh. Looks open the door
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:14 AM
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If they are adults let them date who they want. With that said imo id only go -8 or +8 older or younger than me. Cuz u have a lot more in common and culture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:57 PM
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Makeup can draw attention to, and away from specific areas. It can also help reshape bad areas into better areas. Makeup can even completely change some eyes areas, like u can go from droopy sleepy negative canthal tilt, to positive canthal tilt with the right makeup. Huge difference... Once the makeup comes off its another story lol. Thats why most women have more confidence with makeup, and act more regular without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:06 PM
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Imo $1,000 limit. Even if u make like over 100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:42 PM
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Normal people dont think that. Just the loud small minority who are activists
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:58 PM
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If that's what you wanna do then that's what you wanna do. That's ur opinion. But it has consequence. If u "live ur best life" during ur 20s ur gonna have a hard time later on and live with those consequences. Believe it or not for most people if you "live ur best life" (drugs, promiscuity, party life) changes who you are the longer you do it. After a point you can't recover and be a normal housewife, you end up as a tattooed used up shell of ur former self that has a raspy voice and works as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:42 PM
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Objectively look at yourself, lifestyle, looks, money, status and see how you line up with others. No sugar coating, no lying. Then you will know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:45 PM
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Its just knowledge. Some guys take less, some take more, most of the guys who base their entire life around trp/blackpill stuff never even get in relationships cuz they are incels. For 99% of guys and girls its not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:44 PM
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You cant unless he explicitly starts naming names of redpill gurus. Note, some guys are naturally "alpha" and act that way naturally. So u cant tell just by that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:41 PM
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A girls smv is much higher than a mans, even if they are in the same looks league. Thats what got u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:39 PM
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if you say that, ur dumb imo. You should take the good info and incorporate it into urself to be successful. Just like pickup artists arent supposed to go around saying they are a pickup artist, they just use the knowledge for the their benefit. Same as if you are jacked and girls ask if you lift. Ur not supposed to say u go to the gym 7 days a week, ur supposed to say "i used to lift and just play basketball with friends sometimes". Instead of telling her ur entire lifting program and steroid c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:36 PM
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U are aware majority of the world is brown right? Tf does race have to do with it. The middle east has had and has terrible regimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:05 PM
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Racist much?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:47 PM
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Ask op, hes the one praising them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:21 PM
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Guy here, imo that "poly/ethically non monogamous" stuff is weird and seems to be some kind of programming being pushed for not good reasons. Seems many are falling for it. Probably to crumble society even further than it has, to break down normal family structure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:33 PM
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Holodomor killed possibility up 20+ million, russian red terror. china mao 11 million. Worldwide over 100 mill Of their own people. Its bad bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:12 PM
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Dude communism,lenninism,menshevism, bolshevism, marxism, all that crap is like 10000x worse than america lol. That stuff has never had one good example, it always ends with crushing freedom, oppressing the peasents, and failure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:28 PM
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Yeah but all Marxist/lennin commie nations have killed hundreds of millions and always fail. America isnt perfect.but its much better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:06 PM
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Lol i said the same thing to myself. Wtf lol. Go move to China then bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:08 PM
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Maybe when they are like 35+
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:19 PM
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Trust me, most men think a lot about relationships and why they want one and with who and for whst reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:54 PM
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Only attracting thuggish men does make sense if got big behind and tatts. Thugs love that stuff lo!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:43 PM
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Two different leagues, looks league, and sexual market value league. Seems like nowadays a jacked good looking man has similar market value league as a fat average girl. Its skewed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:40 PM
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And if a guy talks about leagues in a way that doesnt benefit women, the women say "wtf are u talking about, leagues dont exist"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:38 PM
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What is the question to discuss? I can give answers but you need to clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:36 PM
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Cuz u gotta take a break, lean up, improve looks, and then come back and get better girls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:32 PM
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Its a toxic trolling thing. Not good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:16 PM
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Nope, it goes for both genders. A women also has to deal with another womens saved game if she dates a single father. Its not muhsoggyknees, it's just a cool way to explain it so its easier to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:14 PM
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I think you should judge the person individually and see if any of those bad traits appear. But their deff is a trend of ppl from "broken homes" have more problems. But u gotta look at each person individually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:11 PM
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Seems like ur standards are too high. I understand, ur only 20 and maybe not experienced. U will learn strictly going for a 1 in 200 looks man and just basing things on looks will only get u a guy who looks good but will probably statistically not have much else u match with like similar likes, personality, ect. Eventually everyone settles and finds a balance between looks, lifestyle, personality. For ur question, i think ugly people find beauty in other ways and make do best they can
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:09 PM
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This post is straight up toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:04 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:02 PM
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In the movie Highlander, a man inherits a gift of immortality, a wise man who is also immortal tells the man to never date because it only ends with sadness seeing the other person age and die. The young immortal man doesnt listen and finds an amazing wife, has a nice life, and slowly watches her age and die, he is overcome with sadness, but cherishes the moments they had. Before she died she tells him to light a candle for her birthday each year... 450 years later he still lights a candle on he…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:40 AM
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The main reason is because you gotta deal with another mans "saved game" and also u will never be the womens main thing, her kid will be. Plus the drama with the baby dady, custody, drop offs, pick ups, the father might be a pos, ect. And then financial burden. Its just bad baggage. If ur a single father getting with a single mother is ok tho. But if ur a childless man, dont date single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:47 AM
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Lacking ambition doesnt mean what u think it means. A guy doesnt need to have degrees and make 200k to have ambition. A guy making $15 a hour and happy can have tons of ambition. ambition man manifest in many ways
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:21 PM
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Not into it. Cuz those kinda women appropriate toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:19 PM
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She should have similar interests as me. Doesnt have to be exact. But similar
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:18 PM
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Girls above ur league, and girls below ur league.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:16 PM
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Obviously no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:09 PM
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Read what i wrote. If ur in the same zone its valid. But a obese chasing a skinny is just not valid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:20 AM
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Ur in a similar range then its okay. But if ur morbidly obese and unkempt and want a partner with amazing body and face, that isn't valid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:58 AM
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Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:38 PM
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Men have been sabotaging other men since the beginning of mankind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:29 PM
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Thats probably a lower level % men problem. Id say 75% of all men are okay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:16 PM
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Partially. Eventually they will settle for the best guy they can get at that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:48 PM
1

Tbh i would only buy a ring that I'm okay with losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:46 PM
1

True. I guess that's the human condition
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:44 PM
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I think the toxic parts are outlived its usefulness, because beyond the basic tenants like self improvement, and tips like dont be a simp, their really isnt much to talk about that isnt productive. Basically dont be a "bluepiller", but also dont be a cringy fake "alpha" pua redpill master lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:13 PM
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They dont. Fat women gave up and are just reaping the hypergamy benefits. Similar to when social security started, the first people to get it didnt even have to pay into it, but still got the bennies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:37 AM
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Sometimes that may work out better tho. Cuz ive seen a lot of tall "framecels" who are tall but have tiny bones. Maybe lowering the height a little can make the bones thicker and robust. I know its all random genetics tho and odds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:27 AM
1

Most of those guys have big money. At least imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:56 AM
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Smart and logical response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:55 AM
1

Interesting. Although i will say due to technology and entertainment, the western standards are becoming global
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:13 AM
1

come on bro are u srs? 5'10 is a strong average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:29 PM
2

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:28 PM
1

But then she dragged the husbands tall genes down lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:28 PM
4

Not for everyone. Some guys are unlucky in looks and physically come off as not confident even tho they are on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:50 PM
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Yes. It took me a while to learn this. You can be the most confident guy in the world, but if you dont physically LOOK it, people will assume your not. That is what confuses some guys. You gotta learn you need to physically look and appear confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:49 PM
1

It depends on the person individually. Looks matter before job
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:01 PM
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It shows said person takes care of themself. Even if ur ugly, dressing good, taking care of skin, fitness, ect, shows u care and have self respect. It says a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:48 PM
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Its 100% true for men and women. Not all, but a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:56 AM
2

That is definitely concerning trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:27 PM
0

Its more about personality after that point. blue pillers are beta, simpy, weak, blubbery, pushovers. Redpillers tend to be more agressive, confident, strong, take-charge, call out bs, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:43 PM
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Partially. Cuz no matter how poor you are or shit life, you at least swing meat and have respect, dignity, and confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:40 PM
11

A lot of liberal men dont even like women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:39 PM
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If its consensual, women are more irresponsible. Shacking up with low value men and then wondering why she has problems lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:51 PM
2

Pickmeishas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:50 PM
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They shouldn't be allowed to pick the donor, because that would cause equity issues. It should be double blind. Some women end up with 6'2 educated good looking man, and some others with equity options
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:03 AM
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Idgaf what race and never mentioned race until you pulled the race card. If ur a pos, then ur a pos. and probably should abort. Has nothing to do with race. Also, im saying abortion should not be forced. So idk where ur getting at "racist" bs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:42 AM
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Your the racist if the first thing that came to ur mind is racism. I said productive vs unproductive people. You outed ur own racist beliefs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:35 AM
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Im "pro-good outcomes". Basically i support abortion for people that are high risk for drug abuse, crime, and in general a net negative for society. And im pro life for strong family units that have morals, ethics, low crime, and are productive. Basically common sense abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:14 PM
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If you specifically seek it out, its not legit. But ive had a few female friends who i wasnt into at all and viewed them the same as regular guy friends. If ur into said girl, forget it, "friendship" is just a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:16 AM
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Going from a geeky frail thin look to healthy athletic look is night and day for looking attractive. Obviously only a small minority of women only like steroid muscle guys. But most women like guys with some muscle. The gym also good for fat guys to lose weight and gain muscle. 75% of people are overweight, so yes the gym/lifting is a huge deal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:03 AM
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So op is saying hypergamy is even worse than we think? Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:41 PM
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Maybe that's ur perception. But irl that's not how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:11 PM
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Imo as a guy, its the same as makeup, push up bras, leggings,shape wear for women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:39 PM
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In general yes it helps huge. But you have to watch out for mirroring from ur partner or even urself. Like they take 100% interest in ur fav song, movies, hobbies, and make them their own. Cuz thats toxic. "Relationship chameleon". Ive seen a lot of girls do that when they jump from guy to guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:34 PM
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It will help bring you from negative looks to at least a neutral baseline. It wont turn a ugly guy into a god, but it will deff help
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:29 PM
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Obese, butch looking, social media obsessed, single mom, loaded with tatts and piercings (a few are cool, but when she starts to get freak status thats disgusting). No drug addicts, if she dabbles a lil that's okay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:26 PM
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I bet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:19 PM
1

Imo majority want a man who isnt a "man whore", but has had a few partners and have ended amicably. That way he has experience, but isnt negative as in like a man whore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:16 PM
3

Thats true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:14 PM
3

Objectively and generally its always been true. Obviously outliers exist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:14 PM
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Thats because the thin good looking girls are even more crazy picky and hold out for top 1% rich good looking guys. Bottom 80% of men are fighting for bottom 20% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:00 PM
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Kinda true. But generally blue collar guys are more manly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:50 PM
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Imo objectively hes ugly. Its.just the fame, clout, status that makes him big. And Hollywood supporting it all helps a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:43 PM
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Its gonna be pay2play, and men will need to lower standards even more. Like simp hard for a ugly bbw, and u best be making at least $250k or else ur not good enuff for her!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:42 PM
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Thats part of it. 75% of everyone is obese. Leads to weird neurotic behavior and coping
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:52 PM
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I dont think they wanna be a side piece to his hobbys, but they want a man who has ambitions and lots of drive for his hobbies. Instead of being a utter dedicated simp for her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:52 PM
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I kind of agree. one time irl their was a karen complaining about some shit and a thug whispered in my ear "bro, she hasnt been fcked good in a long time" Lol, so other people notice it too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:50 PM
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Imo those blue collar guys may look weathered, but they have charm and more confidence. White collar guys are usually fat and beta. So from what i see girls find blue collar guys objectively more sexually desirable. Even tho they may make less money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:47 PM
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If u need to do that, u dont have true trust. And no thats not a gaslighting technique lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:25 AM
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Thanks. We need to tell more guys that from a young age. If she doesn't like you, srs move on and improve yourself for the next one. Cuz you can't cling to a girl that rejected you thinking you can convert her into liking you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:14 PM
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Its a filter basically. And also sub consciously she puts it up to feel better about herself. And plausible deniability so she's not a "slut"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:16 PM
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If ur a man and u pay for a girls onlyfans, feet pics, or pay for porn... Ur a pathetic loser lol who tf does that? Apparently a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:12 PM
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True for 99% of encounters. Its a rare unicorn for a girl to change her views and like you. Thats why as long as you have a good baseline of social skills, it doesnt matter what ur "game" is, she will already like you, or she wont. And you cant change that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:10 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:39 PM
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Wouldn't work. And just a gimmick. Cut out the middle man and just let ppl swipe.left or right with no algo. Also it doesnt matter if ur matchmaker group match ugly with hot, cuz the girl simply wont respond. Plus trolls and bs time wasted. The bottom line is nothing a app can do is gonna make women want ugly guys. Even if the app force matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:34 PM
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Nope, sorry. The incels just say it out loud. All men know sex work is the oldest profession in the book and you cant turn a hoe into a housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:54 PM
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The huge ass trend is disgusting. Same with the Brazilian butt craze, its so weird. Like all the fat is in ur hips and ass. Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:51 PM
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Those aren't seen as beautiful tho. But yeah i agree. I hate tattoo freaks and pierced up chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:50 PM
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High iq. Its not the cause, its a symptom of the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:20 PM
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The internet is loaded with 5'2, 5'5 guys who have good personality and groom like nose hair, file nails, and get haircuts. they get thousands of women bro. That's all you gotta do bro. Just take a shower and be 5'5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:30 PM
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Lol "grooming" "take a shower" "cut hair"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:22 PM
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You do know ur the one going against common sense right? If someone knows someones in a relationship and still cheat with them, they have shit morals/ethics. Its just bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:19 PM
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This is exactly what we are talking about folks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:26 PM
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Yes, and from a young age standards should be taught to be within your same level. Otherwise you end up with a hypergamous bubble and vapid inflated self worth . Its one partial reason for the imbalances
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:10 PM
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Na, they are still a pos. If they know ur not single, they are a pos regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:05 PM
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If the third party knows, or knows and dislikes the person getting cheated on, then that third party is deff also responsible and a pos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:04 PM
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Think tho in the 80s and 90s he probably had the largest % of women who did consider him a symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:03 PM
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Wtf, depp was like one of the legit top looking guys in the 80s and 90s imo. And he pulled it off effortlessly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:48 PM
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Thats because jocks aren't in now. He's legit tho imo. He pulls it off good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:45 PM
1

He wasnt like that in place beyond the pines
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:44 PM
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Imo styles is a legit sex symbol. And he would of pulled it off in any decade too, 60s 70s 80s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:43 PM
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Fox was the #1 in Hollywood back in like 2009, imo i agree. Times change, nowadays its all about big ratchet bootys and being fat. Back then the optimal look was foxs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:41 PM
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I can see it. he has classic charm and thats why. Seems like people.either get it or they dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:37 PM
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Gosling has the charm factor so i understand why. Davidson imo is ugly and just pushed by hollywood as the current "cool chill funny guy" and are promoting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:33 PM
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I never understood that either. Imo they just seem like average-ish middle eastern women looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:32 PM
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I dont think post is a "sex symbol" lol. Mgk i can see why, he has model tier looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:30 PM
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As a guy whos matched with over 1,000 on tinder, i can partially agree. For the ones that stay on online dating. You gotta get a good one right when she joins before she meets someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:28 PM
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Wouldnt that mean even less place for women? Because men are more versatile in the workforce
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:24 PM
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Why does it have to be at the negative of men? Why not lower the hypergamy bubble a little so more people pair up? From a young age maybe teach girls that they arent princesses who only deserve tall rich man, and give them realistic expectations equal to that of their own. Instead of make the bubble even bigger like you said, its better to level things back down to equality of men/women, instead of promoting further hypergamous bubble on womens end, and repressing men farther down. Cuz that woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:21 PM
2

When you live in privilege, you cant see reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:59 PM
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Thats why women say online dating is so hard. Because they have to sort and filter thru 10,000 men and find the best looking, most hung, richest one out of all, all while being constantly hit up by lesser men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:59 PM
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Its not the age, its the baggage and how good she takes care of herself. If shes 30, healthy, no kids, no divorce, then shes 100% good. If shes 30, obese, kids, divorced, then its not good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:56 AM
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It matters. You definitely learn how things work and dealing with a girlfriend/boyfriend. If you dont learn that till later, ur gonna be awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:17 PM
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Lol then another guy will reply "bruh my wife makes 450k while i stay at home, i win"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:15 PM
1

That just sounds privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:00 PM
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Nows its gonna be who can get the highest earning wife, while you stay home and play COD in her house that she bought. "Bro my wife makes 110k while i just sleep in everyday, this is the dream! #ImadeIt #stayathomehusbad #imherboss #retiredat30" High earner wife is the new status symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:39 PM
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Single mom alone isnt a major red flag, but it can be a tip off to a big red flag if she has any other red flags. Its multiplies any other red flag basically. If shes in her 20s and a single mom, yeah thats a red flag lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:35 PM
2

Why are you even making affirmative posts if you dont even know the basics on this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:42 PM
4

Clearly ur out of ur element on this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:38 PM
1

Ur wrong. The chad thing isnt black/white. Its a gradual scale just like you said. Chad Brad High tier normie Normie Low tier normie Incel Its a gradual scale
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:35 PM
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Its already well established women chimps cause tribal war among other chimp tribes. European queens have caused lots of wars, and also african queens in africa have caused many brutal wars too. Stop acting like its men vs women. They both do bad stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:37 PM
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Chads come in many phenotypes, looks, heights, income brackets, race, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:10 PM
1

For me it beats having to constantly go out. Huge solution
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:08 PM
1

This is like the most basic 2010 redpill advice lol. Also avoid girls who act like the girl in the vid lol. The know it all types who know it all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:24 PM
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Im 6'5, balding, no career, poverty, and get multiple matches a day. Over the past 2 years have had over 1,000 tinder matches on that app alone. If ur struggling, its prolly cuz u have shit personality, over rate ur looks, and have other problems. I can already sense the women repellant by the way you said "i drive a fast car, make above median income, live on my own, can fix/build anything, have a degree", girls don't give af bro lol It is a godsend for slightly above average guys to hugely exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:44 PM
3

The severity depends. If you have all the cons that make a person awkward, then everyone will see them as awkward. But if you have just a little bit of awkwardness, you can pull off not being instantly seen as awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:32 AM
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If ur decently above average(no cope and tricking urself, you legit have to be above average), online dating is a godsend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:28 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:19 PM
1

Cali
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:55 PM
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Happening all over the usa sadly. Nice areas turn to trash when they move in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:30 PM
1

They may say thst, but irl its the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:33 PM
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Its always had a hypergamous element but now its gone into overdrive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:08 PM
1

Objectively they are the same. Women just get a subjective boost due to makeup and male drive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:02 PM
0

Covid hit hard too. And sissified a lot and created too many more "rules".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:01 PM
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Malls are outdated, and most are overtaken by thugs, gangbangers, and also many dont even allow teens to hangout anymore due to said gangbangers, flash mobs, ect. Malls died out in the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:59 PM
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I highly agree. Sport team, music group, or theatre/drama are the three choices I would tell young people to get into and join. It will literally create a social circle if they dont have one. And its really positive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:57 PM
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They've been demoralised, denigrated, and are oppressed. Thats why they are like that Teen girls party with all the "more sophisticated" college guys that have cars, clout, money, drugs, alcohol. How could a teen boy compare? Lol sad but true. thats why most teen boys have been pushed to vidya games, anime, and staying in room
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:52 PM
1

First to randomly pull the Nazi card losses said argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:11 AM
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Each culture has objective beauty standards. And then they face off objectively to see which one rules all objectively. Some arent even close lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:53 PM
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Both are degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:42 PM
1

Objective beauty standards is the standard. Go do ur research, people have that shiz down to a science lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:42 PM
2

Objectively
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:33 PM
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Saying a fat, ugly, "insert whatever" race, women is beautiful, doesnt make her beautiful. Tired of that beauty standard canard bs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:34 PM
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The issue is once a babys life is involved, its beyond the contraception point lol. That's a human live involved at the point, yall two tango'ed and made that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:02 PM
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basically yeah lol. The rest dont need advice cuz they are the ones actually playing the field
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:59 PM
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Its not white, its just be good looking. Race doesnt matter as long as ur good looking. "Chads" come from all races. Ad also obviously if ur foreign and in a area with a homogeneous host group, you must fit in with social customs, dont be isolationist like some do, that just breeds social issues. Im mixed for reference
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:51 PM
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You need to judge it individually and based off all factors and how receptive she is and her vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:43 AM
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Yes, the "six foot+" thing had been around since at least the 50s. Before than it was probably whatever was tall back then. They always wanted taller, even 1000 years ago And it was even more important in prehistoric times because you needed a big man to kill predators and other tribes, hunt, gather
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:29 PM
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Yeah but they still have all that mileage they cant just roll back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:46 PM
1

Lol like literally. Like didnt bathe for a few days
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:26 PM
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Thats how i came to the conclusion. Most do tricks, some dont tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:37 PM
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I have seen other women i know irl on dating apps and they look exactly how they do irl tho. So some get a pass on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:33 PM
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I saw a women i know irl on a dating app, in the app she looks lean, youthful, decent face, clean, ect. But irl she looks haggard, old, ugly face, dirty. I feel sorry for the guys she meets up with lol because they got bait and switched
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:28 PM
1

Within seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:53 PM
1

Because it's always "men's fault".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:09 PM
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Of course, but when it comes to getting girls, sadly like 80% will auto project that on you. So then it is something to deal with if you want those 80% of girls to not auto reject
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:06 PM
3

Glad it worked out bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:14 PM
1

Probably bluepill people. "Just work on urself bro, ur not ready"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:01 PM
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Bald/balding is always a negative. One secret i learned is it doesn't matter how confident and content you are with ur baldness and balding, other people will view you as "holding on", "damn he must be so insecure with balding he shaves everyday", "he must hate not having hair", and other shit like that. They project the hate and insecurity onto you. Even if you have zero qualms about it lol. The only way to overcome it is to go on finasteride, dutasteride, minoxidil, and or a transplant if the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:17 PM
0

A rabbit that has been captured by hunters many times is a shitty rabbit. But a hunter who captures many rabbits is a good hunter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:04 PM
1

Obviously. Men have no issue dating down. Stop being clout/gold diggers ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:56 PM
1

Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:16 PM
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Misc is back btw. It was shut down and private or.something, but open now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:29 PM
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I agree. For so long the "just bulk bro" meme went too far and tricked many young guys into thinking if you turn into a super strong chubby bear women will want you. Turns out to be the opposite lol. Being lean is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:20 PM
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I dont think he means like "show ready" bodybuilding extreme low bodyfat, he means generally lean and healthy, which is hard to come by nowadays due to obesity epidemic. Being super lean is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:17 PM
1

Leanness, muscle. Definition
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:15 PM
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Wtf? He seems to be doing really good and always improving. Its the women in his area who are getting worse and worse. The women who are letting themselves go need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:13 PM
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Many do, but they end in divorce and break up. Personally i cant, cuz i see zero point and its a waste of everyones time. Ive had situations where a girl im 100% not into, is really into me and im just like "uhhhh yeah-no, ur cool but im just not into you". Plus i dont wanna lead anyone on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:08 PM
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Hmmm yes maybe it is age lol. Probably age and shape is the female equivalent of a mans height
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:06 PM
1

Thats not gonna work. I used to literally live in the gym so ive seen everything. Even steroids wont help women change frame/shape/layout/distribution. At max you can gain/lose a little weight and muscle. Unless you want to turn her into a hulk masculine steroid looking man U cant take a weird mousey framed terrible bodyfat proportions girl and turn her into a stallion. Even plastic surgery can only help so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:03 PM
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Her overall shape/genetics. Gym and exercise can only do very little, and most of what you see on internet and social media transformations are photoshop and plastic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:57 PM
0

Obviously, even 85 year old men can get women preggo. Not the same for women hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:55 PM
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Japan is 20 years ahead of america. Look at them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:10 PM
6

Superbad and scott pilgrim promoted the beta awkward type guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:40 PM
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"Have a expensive wedding and debt, if you don't its not real love". Lol wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:06 AM
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They are called incels
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:48 PM
4

Honesty is the best policy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:48 PM
1

Its been the trend since starting slowly in the 1960s, and went into overdrive in 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:41 PM
0

Most people already give context.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:40 PM
8

That's typically how its dismissed, like this comment above
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:35 PM
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The plight of nerdy non-"hood" black men, and the plight of asian men. Those two groups have it the hardest it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:23 PM
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It takes the blinders off/rose tinted glasses off. Maybe you dont understand. One time i was dating a girl and then i met her incel brother and saw her face in his face resemblance and gave me the ick. After that i soon peaced out, because it grounded me to see the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:16 PM
2

High iq post. Look at the mother, father, brothers, and sisters to see how she really looks and her genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:06 PM
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That doesn't show you her true value tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:05 PM
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What does diversity mean tho? Doing a lot of different activities and subjects? Cuz yeah if a couple only does one same thing all the time that won't end good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:18 PM
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As many posts in here are an example of NIMBY's(Not in my back yard) Basically they say they support gay men, lgbtqia+ men, but just not their man, he can never of engaged in giving or receiving anal. Its even worse than just flat out saying you dont like men doing it. Cuz ur hiding ur real views and virtue signaling it for cloud
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:13 PM
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This example: "Hey gurl u cute af, lemme get @ u" If a hot guy say it, the girl will say hes confident, direct, honest, and a good emotional connection. If a ugly guy says it, she says hes sleazy, bad social skills, creepy, cringy, and get blocked, and account banned for sexual harassment. Double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:25 PM
2

Yes that is one small aspect of female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:26 PM
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Imo it seems like youth thru 25 is the easiest times regardless of the culture. Cuz it's when both genders are figuring things out and trying everything new. And once everyones been shuffled around and learned a thing or two, then after 25+ it gets way harder no matter if ur a deadbeat or rich. Gotta tell young men and women to be ur best during those times cuz u can ride it out to long term success
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:24 PM
1

Lol oh god no. And they are way worse than men in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:20 PM
1

Ok now do vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:18 PM
1

Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:21 PM
-1

A lot are on pill or other ways. And also during hoe phase they are wanton and abort a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:02 AM
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They wear them in a way leatherface wears his victims faces. A girlfriend wearing a boyfriends hoodie is like her psychologically embodying you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:00 AM
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Yes, at the time tho it wasnt a high bodycount, but it was just that she was generally too slutty around the guys and she banged a guy who was in my social circle that was kinda a nemesis. So i didnt wanna bang cuz of that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:02 PM
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does lots of drugs Is a hoe/slutty Obsessed with abortions, politics, and has alot of hate for opposing party Obsessed with social media Drinks a lot To many tattoos Claims all her exes are abusive Comes from a shitty family Is a loud mouth Has kid Is fat Is "bi" or "enm" "poly"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:54 PM
1

Most of the time u cant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:39 PM
1

Nice mental gymnastics. Ur a coward if u leave ur house while its full of sleeping kids, grandparents, spouses, ect. With a thug invader looking to rob, kill, loot inside. Full stop. End of story
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:01 PM
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Escape ur own house? But why? Make the invader flee or dead. Also like i said. Stop being a coward. Stand up for urself and those around you. Thugs are viscous and dont care if you comply, did you see this video? The clerk did everything right and the thug still shot him. https://www.wdam.com/2022/09/13/store-clerk-shot-head-during-robbery-miss-gas-station/ You can't give them a inch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:08 PM
0

Doesnt make up for toxic non consensual behavior on the womens end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:02 PM
1

You have teleportation device? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:01 PM
1

Jumping ship and leaving a house full of family/kids alone with a thug at 2am is even worse than dying trying to fight the invader. How could you live with urself after that? youd be branded a coward and also have to live with the fact that whatever the thug did to the innocents you abandoned happened cuz u jumped ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:46 PM
1

Mic drop moment!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:42 PM
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Its called emale stealthing. He didn't consent to sex with her off the pill, she purposely didnt take it and lied and said shes good to go. That happens and is toxic af, possibly a crime to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:41 PM
1

Thats not even logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:37 PM
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Nice mental gymnastics. Ur supposed to stop the bad guy before he stops you or other innocents around you. Running away leaving a house full of sleeping family members/kids alone with a thug invaders is even worse than dying lol. Thats the ultimate cowardice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:13 PM
-1

Cool it with the anti-Catholicism and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:02 PM
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I agree. Id call that awkward dumb confused young lovers. Deff not the r word.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:49 PM
-1

Story doesnt add up... So you said u need to get to know him better, but then later in the night ur both "naked and making out"??? Surprised pikuchu face.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:47 PM
1

Its the best we got to explain the dynamics of men/women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:42 PM
1

Try to get the girl to pay, to see her character. Cuz the usual traditional is the man, so see how she reacts and if she wants real equality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:41 PM
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A lot of times you cant run away and cower. You gotta face it head on. And also if you have kids or other innocents in the house, and a thug is raging thru ur house at 2am, ur a POS if you do run away
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:38 PM
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Running is weakness. And cops arent like in movies, in real life they show up to clean up after its all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:21 PM
2

Because ugly women are gaslit that they are 10/10. So then they end up repulsed when they meet their equal in looks male
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:16 PM
1

No, cuz women would not go for those guys...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:30 PM
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Its actually a positive because she will get good attraction from all guys, plus she will get the niche guys who like tall girls. Basically the exact opposite of a short man who gets no attractions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:29 PM
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Girls with daddy issues seek out older guys. Or girls that just have a plain old fetish for old men seek out old men. Its not good or bad, its just life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:35 PM
1

Whats ur point? The alpha/beta thing is the best we got to describe the kingdom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:29 PM
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Ur mental gymnastics and semantics are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:53 PM
1

Its true. Ive had a lot of dogs for instance, some are legit born "alpha" and always stay alpha, and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:47 PM
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Ur too deep into semantics and arguing for the sake of arguing. and obviously thing are very nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:46 PM
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Body count also says a lot about character, morals, ethically. And yes health possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:31 PM
1

Zoomers are the shortest gen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:29 PM
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Ur just a source bot. Do ur own research dude. Obviously the theory and discussion of it is a human construct, but irl, the entire animal kingdom acts in certain predictable ways and all fall in line with the alpha/beta theories
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:24 PM
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Imo a nice guy personality on a guy is equal tho the bubbly funny personality of a obese girl. They act that way cuz its all they got. He's average and boring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:19 PM
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The names are a human construct, but the behaviors are natural and happen with lots of animals. You have leaders betas, simps, followers, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:14 PM
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Thats called "female privilege". and also the whole "you would be incel if born a male" phrase came from. It also works in reverse, their have been many example of incel looking men who transition to female and end up looking 10x better and pull off being a female better than they could being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:07 PM
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Those women live that shit lol. That's their niches
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:55 PM
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Cuz she dont want her man having eyes for a girl who look way better than her. Full stop
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:53 PM
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Dude ur money isnt gonna buy you love. You sound toxic just by the way you wrote ur comments
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:16 AM
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Self improve or go to a country that the women like you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:15 AM
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It matters to women with high money standards, and probably women from wealthy families who require the suitor to be more wealthy. But having looks bypasses all of that, and if you work any kind of job, anything past that shouldn't matter as long as she actually likes you and isn't a gold dig
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:06 AM
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Seems like it works naturally best for gangbanger thugs, and "blue collar" white tough guys. But they live rough lives so thats a problem for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:02 AM
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Once ur out of poverty it doesnt matter unless shes a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:58 AM
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That's how to create a toxic yellow fever/white fever couple that's based on racial stereotypes and toxic af. That's the worst thing for guys and girls in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:51 PM
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"How to create a toxic relationship based on a couple with both yellow fever and white fever" It never works out positive bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:40 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:21 PM
2

Damnnnnn. Ive never seen anyone put it like that. Deep and true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:53 PM
4

Imo i think a new start needs to be done for autistic boys/men. Because from what i read and see it seems like for autistic boys/men they are taught and trained to be "good boys"," nice guys", "bluepill" stuff, and everything that comes with that may be nice from while they are adolescents, but when they are teens and young adults it will be female repellent.. They should have a masculinity class, and im not talking about a sjw woke "masculinity" class. I mean a class that tells them how to not …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:50 PM
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Imo white man/asian female is toxic af. Especially if hes going after asian women cuz they are "easier". Sure he can get a relationship that way... But its toxic af.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:45 PM
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Yeah. Its so weird now. I see young people meet for the first time and 2 seconds later they are all exchanging "aye wuz yo snap?" "Aight, bet bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:40 PM
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Womens money and status means nothing for attractiveness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:31 PM
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He can set his own destiny. Obviously depending on his looks/money/status. But you get the gist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:32 PM
1

slippery slope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:08 PM
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The dynamics are total opposite due to gender. So a female hoe, is equivalent to a male neck beard incel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:52 PM
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You can be promiscuous, that doesnt absolve you of judgement from others and society
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:19 PM
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Thats like a male equivalent to a promiscuous women. That's how ppl see them. In same regard, different situation, different gender
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:11 PM
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Prolly cuz its rare. For short people its normal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:25 PM
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A neckbeard incel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:23 PM
1

Why dont the ugly obese guys just pair up with the ugly obese women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:40 PM
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So you can be political but ur only accepting of people who "really arent political"? Thats hypocritical and toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:45 PM
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The issue for many is not wanting taxpayer funded abortions and later term abortion. Most people dont want that. That isnt radical or extreme. The opposite is extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:44 PM
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Yes. The left has a extremely narrow view of inclusivity and basically anyone outside of that is excluded. Its toxic af to judge off of stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:32 PM
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Conservative doesnt equal racist, just like liberal doesn't equal keeps aborted babies in jars as trophies. Stop using extremes. Both sides have extremes that are toxic. And ur just stoking the flames of hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:28 PM
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Thats just publicly and talk. I think when it comes down to it thats all that it is to those women. When the right man shows up, she changes tune. Especially with all the virtue and clout you get from being super vocal about the trendy "current thing"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:09 PM
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Thats just word salad and semantics. Big picture is they are less inclusive to those that are not the same politics
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:07 PM
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Imo it seems like liberals are less inclusive of others with different views, and never the other way around. That alone says a lot. Also the old saying "liberal in the streets, kkk in the sheets" seems so true. Same with feminist women lowkey hooking up with super masculine "toxic" men that they publicly claim to hate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:54 PM
2

China lies about everything my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:06 PM
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Its different for women cuz even if they "go monk mode", they know that they can get a guy any time they want for a hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:00 PM
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Yeah. Being anti covid jab doesnt mean ur a anti vaxxer. It just means u did ur due diligence and see the risk/reward ratio is trash for the covid jabs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:06 PM
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Gluttony, ignorance of privilege, butch, gym obsessed, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:58 PM
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Halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:39 PM
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Most of them are just neck beards who wakes away from nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:35 PM
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If you live in a city and it didnt happen in ur social circle it wouldn't matter. But anything other than that, ur basically branded with a Scarlett letter lol. Just like i said about a girl.being labeled a "slut" and when said girl goes out everyone knows. Know what i mean now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:34 PM
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Yeah. Of the men they match with, they ghost most of that. So its like just because you matched doesnt mean anything, the game has just began lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:49 PM
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Jestermaxxing doesnt get you girls. The number 1 personality trait is self assured confidence and being able to handle urself socially in a chill manner. Looks come before all of that tho. Being a class clown, funny guy, and jester can get you in a group of girls, but just as a goofy non romantic social friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:43 PM
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Im 6'5 and average face, balding. And have over 1,000 matches on tinder alone in like a year. I state im 6'5 in bio. Basically 50% never respond back, then 25% of that dip after a few texts, and like 1% are down to meet up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:39 PM
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It just says a lot about them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:37 PM
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Its 100% fine for any 18+ relationship as long as its not a toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:33 PM
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Anecdotes dont mean much. Taller equals better. Just like would you rather be balding or full head of hair. Same thing. Obviously you can make do with what u got if u have other things going on. But the more positive traits you have, the better off you are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:11 AM
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is this for you? Or in general? Imo he should first find friends, while simultaneously covering the basics like lifting, getting lean, and getting in style. Make friends from job or gym. If no job, get a shitty retail job to force social skills and make friends. Also get on all dating apps and have good pics. Go out with those friends, anywhere. If a normal looking guy with high functioning autism does that, and actually does that, he can get a relationship. An ending tip is also learn how to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:45 PM
2

For men sub 6/10, they need to be the be the go getter, because women don't even show interests to those men even if she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:53 PM
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Depends on his looks and if he is mentally retarded/disability
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:51 PM
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For online dating id say it's more dangerous for men. So many stories of men being set up to meet a date, but really it's a group of thugs robbing and causing harm/death to said innocent man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:48 PM
1

I always see this fat country singer with a neck beard all over youtube, girls go crazy for him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:15 PM
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Its a niche that can definitely get you certain types of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:12 PM
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Yeah i agree. Thats perfectly said. You need to self improve, and know what ur limits are where the tradeoffs are worth it and not worth it to get the most for urself. And also not become one of those 24/7 self improvement people who never even get anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:29 AM
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I think OP's biggest point is to find a girl who likes you. Instead of finding a girl YOU like and need to convince to like you. Cuz that does make a huge difference. It basically changes things from hardcore difficulty to tutorial difficulty because she already likes you. Most of the time she will be way less attractive, but whatev. Its basically what happens when you "lower ur standards", the lower you go, the more girls will automatically like you without you even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:19 PM
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They do. Ive seen two bitter gay guys literally fighting bitch slapping each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:12 PM
1

Its a bitter side effect of the bluepill in action. Basically they do everything bluepill, and when they dont end up with the fairy tale ending that the bluepill promised, even tho they followed it to a T, they get rightfully upset, confused, and mixed up. Thats how "nice guys" are formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:08 PM
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It seems like most of the posts are high body count girls arguing with incels about who is a better person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:24 AM
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"Just watch some female directed movies bro!" /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:49 PM
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Why tf is it always so black and white with you people? Obviously captain obvious is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:46 PM
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None of that matters if u dont have looks. A 5'5 with ugly face will not have more women into him if he "holds frame", acts confident, has a badass personality, and cool style. Doing so will actually work against him cuz women will think hes insecure and doing that for show You need looks before u can get to style, personality, charm, and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:34 PM
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Know shit. We are speaking generally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:21 PM
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Some do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:58 PM
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I think it's best to be in the same generation, because you have the same culture. I can't see my self a millennial marrying a zoomer because they are all about fidgit spinners, mumble rap, soundcloud rap, and cringy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:56 PM
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For sure. Don't fall into the bodybuilder rabbit hole/roids. Imo always compare to ur starting point, and see how you improved, don't compare to the massive freaks. That way you always win. Cuz you will always be better than when you didn't lift
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:52 PM
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Yup. If she pulls the "creep" card on you, LOL good luck with that label. Even if you did everything correctly, once that card is pulled, it sticks with you. I know a guy who talked to a girl and didn't even do anything cringe or creepy, but the girl must of had a toxic personality and behind his back said shit about him now everyone says he's creepy. Bs like that is why guys have problems with anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:48 PM
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Cuz if shows character. How her personality be. If she rides the carousel in the past, what makes you think she won't jump back on it in future?? Logic gentleman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:45 PM
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99% of the time the old "someone will like you, just not me shtick" means she can talk to you as a nice friends, but ur looks aren't good enough lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:40 PM
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Cuz most men dont just want a piece of meat, they want a relationship and meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:51 PM
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Imo i think that means ur personality is good, but your looks arent high enough for the attraction requirements of a relationship. And probably ur passive and too nice to be seen as relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:48 PM
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The biggest issue is the after affects of rejection, guys don't care if she says no, that's fine. The anxiety is from if the girls ignorant or if she has a bad personality and then calls you "creepy" even tho you did everything correctly, are hygienic, and actually wasnt creepy. Once the creepy card gets pulled, good luck with that label in ur social circle lol. That's what causes anxiety for most guys. Imo its probably similar to a girl being labeled a "slut" in her social circle even tho she i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:44 PM
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Their is a threshold for both and they are about equally the same. Yes different style to them, but they hover around the same threshold requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:36 PM
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Level the playing field. Stop utterly telling every boy and girl that men=bad and women=good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:05 PM
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No hes correct. The smv is so out of wack. Basically a average man with his shit together and a degree is equal to a fat ugly single mom who uses drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:16 PM
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Ur comparing good looking men with popular "alpha internet daddies". They all get girls cuz attention, clout, and money. But girls are only legit attracted to the good looking men. Guys suck up to both
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:58 PM
-4

Its cultural and ingrained at a young age that women have extremely high standards. If we as a society make the standards more equal to her actual worth, it will help even the bubble out correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:39 PM
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Your preconceived and prejudiced to my comment. That's not cool. Promiscuity isn't a good thing no matter how ur mental gymnastics or semantics you use. My reasoning and logic is based on facts and the hard truth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:53 PM
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Thats the opposite of prejudice my guy. Its reasonable and knowledgeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:46 PM
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Its not insecurity, its just not wanting to deal with all that baggage and implications of a women whos been promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:42 PM
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Its because the jacked steroid freaks are compensating for something, it could be anything. But thats why you see them with chubby/fat girls, because they are equal. The confident lean man doesnt have issues and isnt compensating. So he gets a better girl than the steroid man can get. Not always the case, but generally
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:52 PM
1

What are you arguing? "Giving up" means you stop taking care of urself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:59 AM
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They get obese and just game, eat all day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:33 PM
2

Obviously men and women are abused at least equally. Imo id say men probably even more now cuz they aren't a protected class. And also for the fact that it seems male homosexual predators arent as extremely vilified as straight male predators. And guys who get abused don't even wanna speak up cuz people will call them "gay". All abuse of any kind is bad and must be discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:47 PM
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Took you about 4 sentences to pull the race card. Bravo....bravo. No, flirting isn't always cringe, you just beef to say it at the right time and not overly done or done with no confidence. Obviously a prereq is she must like you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:43 PM
1

Its a story old as time. Girl joins geek club to get famous, clout, money, destroys inner friends group cuz the betas simp for her, she gets what she wanted and moved on to greener pastures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:41 PM
2

None of their points are in good faith to begin with. They are about subversion and dismantling civilization
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:17 PM
2

Imo it seems like to the left, being "masculine" means letting ur gf be poly and meet other guys because you are "secure" about it, letting her wear the pants, consoom media, be beta, wimpy, helpless, and weird stuff like that. They love to change definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:26 PM
1

Thats 2002 style of thinking. In 2022 like 30% of couples meet from apps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:22 PM
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Thats 100% true. But for some, no matter how opposite of those factors you are, ur looks will override it for worse or better. So its all those factors + looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:10 PM
1

If the guy used to.do lots of gay stuff, or is morbidly obese/ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:21 AM
1

Black pill is post blue, post red. You have all that knowledge and know the truths to be self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:15 PM
2

That's black pilled advice. Be chill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:00 PM
-2

Equity in dating would look like: Short obese ugly asian guy gets a tall thin pretty face blonde women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:42 PM
2

Thats a logical fallacy. Men are the ones who fight the wars. Also selective service. If a major war started, guess who has to fight it? All the able bodies men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:05 PM
9

You have to be the go getter, get things done, have actual value, not just tits and vag. For instance thirst traps the roleplay as certain niches but really have zero skill and only sex appeal. Most men cant do that privilege. And also yea, men are the ones who fight wars
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:45 PM
4

Two types of high value males Is the traditional good looking seductive men... Tall, fit, lean, handsome face, good hair, good race for location. Is the simpy rich man. He has a multi million dollar job, "security", vacstions, good home.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:57 PM
1

Men turned into simps and gave up those benefits. Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:29 AM
7

Average and below average girls have "juggernaut theory" working for them. Yes, looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:07 AM
0

The issue is them bringing nothing to the table. That's not the story u just told
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:00 PM
1

Its just entitled thinking. And toxic to be like that. Other people cringe and its.just not a good outlook, wont work out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:40 PM
1

Basically its like a poor person dismissing other poor people and only wanting a lambo. Understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:37 PM
3

People being hypocritical is toxic. Its shows selfishness and entitlement issues. Toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:34 PM
1

In terms of equity/equality its wrong, same with socially, culturally, morally, and ethically. Its TOXIC
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:28 PM
3

Women are privileged right now. They can be ugly and obese and still have simps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:43 PM
3

Had a female avatar in red dead redemption 2 online and guys would simp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:09 PM
1

Definitely not gf/wife material. Most are vapid, obsessed with social media, "clout", fame, attention, easy money, selling out. Not good values. Its basically the oldest internet profession
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:34 AM
2

Are we talking smv league or pure looks league? Because due to hypergamy a ugly looking chubby girl is above a average in shape mans league smv wise. Even tho he may look better than her and have more going. But a ugly looking chubby girl is below a average in shape mans looks league. Back inn the day it was whoever's better looking is in the higher league. But now toy have fat ugly girls literally in leagues above decent looking fit men lol. Talk about out of wack lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:02 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:14 PM
-2

Cuz a guy with low self esteem would be boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:43 PM
2

That's the stereotypical American chad phenotype. Become popular in 80s movies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:53 PM
-3

Don't want to be tricked. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:44 PM
58

But when a man roids up, gets limb lengthening surgery, jaw surgery, hair transplant, skin lightening, elevator shoes, vocal chord deepening surgery, positive canthal tilt surgery, private area extensions and pump procedures, other improvements, he gets called weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:37 PM
11

Some allow the orbiters to stay out of fear. Some want the benefits like free gifts, etc. They know whats up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:15 PM
1

Somebody about equal to me. Could be a little less, could be a little better. But in todays hypergamy, men have to lower standards so low that a above average looking guy with his shit somewhat together can only get a obese single mom that isnt even average looking. Hell na So to get what im looking for is possible, but very slim pickings and hard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:17 PM
1

Thats toxic af. They should just be realistic and bag a low value man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:17 PM
10

Low value women and pickmeishas are the most entitled and toxic imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:36 PM
49

Guys standards are already in the gutter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:25 PM
1

How does a ugly face 5'3 bald ethnic man become ten ten through discipline?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:31 PM
3

Not even talking to you... Im telling the dude who said u shouldnt approach women anywhere, that thats wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:28 PM
5

Stop being a recluse. You can talk to women anywhere as long as you are socially aware. The only people that shouldn't are pua creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:17 PM
4

Cuz women can easily have flings, attention, boy toys, one night stands, and beta orbiters
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:15 PM
4

Cuz a master key can open many locks. But a lock is a shitty lock if it is opened by many keys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:19 AM
2

Option 2 and 3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:12 AM
1

Of course. Look at the past to see the persons future. You can't turn a hoe into a housewive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:45 PM
3

It means she just ain't into you. Maybe she's into ur financial security, and home life, but you just aren't as hot as the other guys she went crazy on in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:44 PM
1

And i think its toxic they use those statistics to make it seem like people are actively going after trans or something. When in reality a male just got raped by a unbeknownst fellow male posing as a women and the guy defend himself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:30 PM
3

Ur creating a narrative, stop putting words in my mouth. Obesity is ugly and unhealthy. The problem is women have advocacy for pro obesity. That shit is toxic no matter how you twist it or try to change the subject onto men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:04 PM
5

im saying women have it and men dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:59 PM
3

Im pointing out that its bad...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:32 PM
10

Nice mental gymnastics. Fat is bad for women just as is for man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:34 PM
21

Im talking about rape by deception. Thats bad shit dude. Anyone who does that is a pos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:03 PM
17

Of course its bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:47 PM
12

And then they play victim when the real victim fights back
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:46 PM
13

Thats the social problem. Fat women have had advocacy that fat is good and sexy. Men never had that advocacy yet. Imo i think its wrong for anyone to think being fat is good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:45 PM
38

Trans need to be 100% upfront when dating. Because otherwise it is rape, and that is not acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:48 PM
41

They do date fat men, because majority of the West is overweight or obese, so factually they do. But i think the issue is fat women seeing themselves as better than fat men, which they aren't, both fat men and women are equally ugly and unhealthy. But you are right in that fat women due to female smv privilege can hookup with in shape guys. Fat men can't do that unless rich
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:44 PM
2

Caveman brain won't allow it. Deep down men wanna be big, and women wanna be protected by big man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:23 PM
23

Looks matter the most my guy. Sure a ugly short guy can learn social skills, be super extroverted, and work hard to get a ugly gf, but he would do 100000% better if he was handsome and tall
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:08 PM
1

Im a guy. Its good. Its a normal way to interact with people. Especially if you two made eye contact. A simple "hey" " hows it going" is a pressure free way for both people to see whats going on. On a urban city street it may not be good, but basically any place better than that is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:30 PM
1

Talking, no loyalty. Dating, yes loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:44 PM
0

less baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:42 PM
5

18-25 is best looks for most. Except for ugly ducklings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:27 PM
1

It offered them the truth how to get ahead without saying time and not having to embarrass urself learning the things yourself firsthand, like instead of giving a girl a box of chocolates and dancing for her, you can just learn to self improve urself and how to actually talk to girls. Red works way better than blue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:07 PM
1

Online dating is all about pics, looks, height, and being chill, comfortable, confident while texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:39 PM
2

Ugly men use "communication" as a way to be around women. But it just friendzones them. That means u have low self esteeem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:14 PM
5

Majority of divorces are toxic af and growing up around that messes them up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:07 PM
2

Its symptom, same with gaming and anime. Those guys didnt wanna be like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:48 PM
1

Radfems do it out of self hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:46 PM
2

Mostly from real life experience, observing, interacting. And over the last decade radical feminism has gone too far and ruining the wests culture. Over the last 5 men have been awoken to the bs and arent staying silent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:42 PM
2

I read a study that found a 5'5 man would need to make 275k to be equal to a 6'4 bum. That study was over a decade old tho. so its probably even more ridiculously higher requirements now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:40 PM
1

They are right. Some people just cant cope with uncomfortable truths and resort to staying in ignorance blue land
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:48 PM
1

File charges on her if she put a knife to you and didn't let you leave. that's fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:46 PM
6

The average women compares herself to the top men, and then views herself as oppressed because of that. While she ignores the hard work and grinding the average man does silently
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:44 PM
2

Some start to straight up dislike you. Its weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:32 AM
6

Hell no. I don't put up with toxicity from either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:56 PM
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Guys that change when around girls are the worst. The next worst are guys who go simp mode and follow women around thinking it will get them cuddy. They jestermaxx, simp, and friend zone themselves so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:55 PM
1

Big yikes. I hope you find peace
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:44 AM
2

Already did my reasearch. Their are literally studies that found more female promiscuity destroys pair bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:37 AM
1

Research female promiscuity pair bonding. Your welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:10 AM
1

Consoom
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:19 PM
5

Go read some peer reviewed studies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:18 PM
1

Na, i read ur whole post. Its toxic af, its also weak af and basically "giving in"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:24 PM
-3

Know shit Sherlock. Its just less issues, less history, less bs, higher pair bonding ability. Believe ur or not, a persons prior actions shows a lot about them, morals, ethics, responsibility, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:15 PM
1

Ur comparing wanting a regular relationship, compared with a child wanting superpowers, as in being ridiculous and not a option? Yeah ur not toxic at all... Gtfo lol, these kinda posts just make matters worse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:12 PM
2

Its worth it. Both sides just need to act properly. If you are a man dont simp, dont jestermaxx. If you are a women dont be a pickmesisha and dont be a vapid "thot" or whatever new lingo they call it now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:30 PM
-2

Obviously. Would you like a used motorcycle or a new motorcycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:20 PM
2

Imo "The wall" for women is when they lose their youthful looks and also start to have issues with infertility. Because those two things drastically cuts down her opportunities with "chads" picking her as a partner. The wall for most women happens in 30s. For some as early as 20s if they get fat and used up with drugs/alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:17 PM
2

Not even the same ballpark
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:55 PM
4

Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:43 PM
2

Men also get sexually abused. And also lots get beat up badly by bullies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:33 PM
2

Obesity is a problem. Most pwople are overweight and like half of people are obese
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:46 PM
1

Lots of men are going that for now. And artificial wombs will soon replace need for surrogate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:29 PM
2

Women getting dates doesnt mean high or law value, any women can get dates, even street ones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:55 PM
2

Goofy game or "jester maxxing" doesn't work. It won't even get you real friends, they won't respect you and only see you as entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:42 PM
1

Yes, to check to make sure it's not a bot, instathot, or only fans links. Then i glance over and read what she's all about. But pics do come first. Cuz I'm not even gonna consider a ugly obese girl who doesn't even respect herself no matter what she says in bio
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:34 PM
1

No advertisements in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:32 PM
1

Most single moms are low value women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:30 PM
1

I didnt minimize women to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:29 PM
2

Cuz irl guys dont say it out loud lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:27 PM
1

Disagreeing with blm race riots isnt racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:27 PM
12

Hinge has a lot of women who are decent people, but are kinda weird. Like she can be pretty, have a good legit nurse job, but shes in some ways in her life shes really odd. Thats about as good as it gets for OLD lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:25 PM
12

Lol. I remember back in the day i would browse and only create a account if i saw someone decent. Then message them a essay how we should date lmao. They never replied back :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:21 PM
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Whats the deal with pof and okcupid? Havent heard of them for like a decade lol. Thats real old, like you didnt even have to match, you just view everyone and message anyone. Is it still like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:13 PM
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Tbh anything is better than a single mom. Like id rather date a drug addict instead of a single mom who has her shit together. So single mom is the biggest flaw where i draw the line, that and ugly/fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:01 PM
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Imo tinder is in #3. Hinge is #1, bumble #2 Hinge seems like it has more real local girls who actually want a relationship. Not just insta thots and girls posting onlyfans links like other apps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:58 PM
15

Same here. I didnt know how much potential i had when i was younger. They need to tell that and teach that to young guys. Im doing good now tho. So many girls into me back in the day and i was too beta and focused more on my guy friends and video games lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:56 PM
3

Ur a troll, idk why ur post even got allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:38 PM
4

What if he required you to wear a vacuum suctioned girdle to make you thinner because his previous gf wasnt as big as you? This is just to show how trollish op's question is. And this isn't even as bad cuz obesity is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:27 PM
3

What about if a man was with a thin girl and since ur fatter, he asks you to wear a super tight girdle. Lol same bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:21 PM
1

They would still physically be a male, but depending on exogenous hormones, medication, and mental state, would determine how they feel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:10 PM
2

Outdated. Just get some apps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:52 PM
15

Isn't average average tho? Wtf do you mean most men aren't average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:51 PM
2

More transactional, subscription based. Simping, jester'ing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:49 PM
1

LOL water is wet. Big guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:32 PM
1

Sounds like a girl version of catfishman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:22 PM
1

What about bots?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:19 PM
-1

LOL see the hunter laptop censorship story...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:15 PM
4

Maybe he feels 25 so he wants a 25 partner
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:24 AM
8

Imo before looked better, more facial harmony
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:20 AM
2

Leftys rely on censorship to win. That's not a good look my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:56 AM
1

Reasonably improve is good. Going to extremes is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:36 AM
1

The left relies on censorship, so you will only see the right in censorship free zones like "redpill" areas
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:33 AM
1

You may just think that because for the redpill you have a censorship free zone, so thats why you may notice more right wing people, people in most other spaces they are not visible because of censorship
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:32 AM
1

To find a social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:00 PM
4

It depends on what economic class said people are in. If shes upper class, she aint gonna want a ltr with a broke boy. But a lower class girl will be with a low class broke jobless guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:02 PM
10

Na, its about self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:17 PM
1

The gym
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:53 PM
1

Be tall, improve your looks, be lean, gain muscle, fix your clothes, get some friends. Gain confidence from doing all of those. That will get you their. And will cover for your flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:52 PM
1

Okay so ur advice is don't even try? Lol good luck with that. Even a small group of friends is a million times better than being solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:51 PM
4

Bro most of the couple's you see that are into the "van life" have a home, wealthy parents, and just do out for a short term fun vacation. They don't actually live out of a van. And girls will be repulsed if ur actually homeless and live in a van.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:31 AM
1

A lot of the hate seems to be from older women's jealously and not coming to term with getting old
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:55 PM
8

The average man is dateless and girls are repulsed by him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:58 AM
0

Nice generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:19 AM
1

I'm just asking for said sources, you said proven false. Your logical fallacies are garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:11 PM
0

Still no sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:41 PM
0

I agee. Kids need a real mom and dad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:38 PM
0

Lets see the science. Sources please! Peer reviewed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:25 PM
-1

Rise in autism is probably a mix of rise of parent age, rise in toxic chemicals in everything, vaccines with strong ingredients given to young developing brains, and shit like that. Also more diagnosis. Before they would only classify got as autistic if you needed a diaper and non verbal. Now they say ur autistic if you have bad social skills but otherwise are functional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:56 PM
-3

More men would be able to be free single fathers and raise children without toxic mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:51 PM
1

Women over 30 with no kids start going into overdrive with clock ticking to get preggo. Some will drastically lower standards just to shack up with a tall guy. Seen it first hand multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:55 PM
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Im saying when ur upper class, you will marry someone from the same "society". Especially when it's old money families
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:44 PM
12

Most of those people are from the upper class and their families set them up with other upper class families to pair up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:16 PM
1

You ever see the movie the terminator and terminator 2? Imo the terminator is a autistic robot, that's why people can tell somethings off by the way he acts, but by the end of part 2 he becomes self aware and learn a lot about himself and how too interact with others by communicating more like humans do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:14 PM
1

Above average looking guys who lift and make good money, have their shit together are SIMPing for ugly fat girls who dont work, and have garbage personality. Thats when you kno things are wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:37 PM
2

I think a mix of black, red, and blue would be the best. Basically means you know and understand the truth, but are still optimistic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:57 PM
3

Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:03 PM
1

Okay even 2
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:25 PM
1

Someone 3 inches below ur height means u look down at them, 3 inches above ur height u gotta look up at them. That psychologically changes a lot deep inside naturally. Its just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:09 PM
1

Not really, the difference in 2 inches can mean Someone looking up to your eyes, vs someone looking down at your eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:02 PM
1

Imo if both are tipsy/drunk its 100% normal. If one person is blackout drunk or extremely drunk and the other person is sober then its a problem. It seems like the current "woke" culture is trying to make it so even if yall sipped 1 sip of beer at a club, that ur not allowed to talk to said girl who took a sip lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:51 PM
1

My guy height isn't a social construct. Ur post seems like mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:45 PM
3

It just means the truth has come out and guys are more aware of the way women operate. Living in bluepill lalaland is a nice simple way of blissful life, but guy are unplugging from that simp shit cuz they are learning its just embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:44 PM
17

Bad boy is just one of the many niche guys that girls are into. You dont have to be one, and forcing to be a bad boy will be cringe if its not who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:08 AM
18

And all the "non top" men are invisible to women , like they arent even considered. For the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:06 AM
1

If the gay guy knows ur straight, then he shouldn't cold approach, cuz he already knows. Maybe he can be his friend tho if they are both open to friends. You cant compare that situation to men/women, cuz men/women are straight, so they are able to be asked. But a gay guy asking a straight guy is just dumb. Thats like a straight guy asking a gay women out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:13 PM
1

I mean this is a red/black vs blue subreddit, what do you expect?.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:14 PM
3

Yes it should be, just like it's criminalized if a man doesn't pay child support
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:11 PM
4

Looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:09 PM
1

Europe girls hate twinks unless ur in a lgbt college, but even those girls lowkey want a masculine man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:59 PM
4

...take a look around at the current man-hating gynocentric female supremacy. At least in the west for that matter. I see ur a "muh sources" bot or shill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:39 AM
1

Neither do women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:21 AM
0

" The idea of the breadwinner, man of the house type of guy is branded as toxic. " In real life majority of people disagree, and think its 100% perfect for a guy to be like that. Only in weird reddit subreddits and feminists groups they say a traditional man is toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:20 AM
15

Wong, Modern feminism is now female supremacy, which is toxic af
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:54 AM
0

Ur entire premise is out of wack. And ur painting this as they arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:53 AM
-1

She cant be a single momma, no major drug use, must hold down some kind of job, no obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:17 AM
2

Dating out always has challenges tho, thats what i mean. For all races will have to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:55 PM
1

First and foremost lets point out that any race of female already has more smv than a "average" male. i think it depends on your looks. Black alone wont be a issue unless you also bring stereotypes into it like if the black women is obese and her style is "hood", then yeah for sure she will get way less matches. Imo the bottom line is if ur in shape and take care of yourself with a adult style, you will do just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:34 PM
2

High iq
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:16 PM
5

Anywhere is fine unless ur socially inept
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:27 PM
2

Demographics my guy. Huge influx of latina/latino, and asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:14 PM
-1

Tbh instead of bitching about mods that locked it down to make money from some podcast, just make a damn new sub for low value women or whatever they call themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:49 PM
3

Ur science is like two years outdated. Even the cdc did a walk back recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:40 PM
1

Men are more flexible and open-minded. Most art and philosophy is by men, same with abstract thinking skills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:42 PM
2

You put the claim of efficacy as your reasoning for not dating said person. The efficacy has been debunked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:05 PM
12

Height isn't a choice, bodyfat is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:18 PM
2

What if its just the covid vaccines? because vaccines work, but covid jabs do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:01 PM
1

You know most people in the hospital for covid nowadays are vaxxed and boosted right? And after time have a negative protection from covid meaning they catch and spread more than control group(unvaxxed)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:00 PM
2

Statistically they are shorter. Maybe in wealthy European areas they are tall
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:15 PM
7

Gen z is shorter, fatter, but more blackpilled than previous gens
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:56 PM
4

Talk is cheap look at what they actually do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:54 PM
5

Topics like this always decimate the bluepilled folk lol. Really shows the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:32 PM
8

Its 2022 silly, man=toxic /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:24 PM
0

A slot is slang for slut
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:12 PM
1

Limb leangthening surgery, wear lifts, get jacked, neck curls, cosmetics, plastic surgery, hairs transplant, fin, mix, get lean af, lower inhibition, teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:07 PM
1

A hoe phase just mean she a slut. Don't be a slot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:58 PM
8

Guys want to be husbando material for a wife material girl, but not for a slut material girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:15 PM
5

Pick meishas are the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:15 PM
1

Ur toxic af. Im talking about good positive things and you project them into toxic narcy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:12 PM
1

Im stating facts bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:11 PM
2

Ur projecting. The "chase" is fun cuz its exciting to hope they like you back and trying hard to get things right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:06 PM
2

Tis why i said I'm a guy to clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:26 PM
3

If its real and legit love. No sugarbaby/groomer shit. Only then i would approve of a 18-40 year old rich many to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:08 PM
2

Im a guy and enjoy the chase, once we are bf/gf, sometimes interest fades fast cuz chase is gone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:07 PM
1

Think it depends on how many in a amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:01 PM
13

Most meet thru work, school, dating apps, and social circle. They make eye contact, talk, laugh, guy asks for number, he then texts her to hangout, BINGO. a new couple. Thats how it goes for 99%. You need to do it urself, you cant be a background npc, nobody is going to do it for u. Talk to her, say hi
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:02 PM
3

Yeah they always come up with a reason for why the guy is such a "loser" instead of admitting he did nothing wrong and that he just is ugly and short af
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:22 PM
0

Life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:53 PM
1

Its the same as asking why do women want romance. Why do you need air? Why do you need water? Its not a requirement to stay alive like air/water, but you get the point. Its natural
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:40 PM
0

Y do you want water?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:38 PM
1

I know a lot of 18-early 20 something year old guys and they are all fans of rogan, theo von, andrew tate, moreplatesmoredates, ect. they all know what beta, alpha, and words like that are. And they call u a simp if ur nice to a girl lol That's the average guy now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:47 AM
5

Because most of them are toxic and have terrible personality. Just not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:19 PM
5

Na, tbh I'm repulsed by "strong career women", those aren't gf/wife material
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:13 PM
0

Its a compliment. You need to think deeper about it. Tbh you sound toxic and don't think about the others view points. A lil self centered you seem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:50 PM
3

Use it as supplemental way to find women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:48 PM
0

Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:50 PM
1

A simple google/duck search will provide many. Its not even debatable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:38 PM
1

Look up the female pair bonding promiscuity study
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:55 PM
-1

Higher levels of promiscuity means lower pair bonding for her future relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:07 PM
-2

Very common. She goes with the beta simp one she settles down cuz hes "safe" and will provide the classic marriage, but are not attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:34 AM
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If they just took a shower, got a haircut, and start respecting women maybe they would have a gf. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:11 PM
2

Sounds like low value women problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:04 PM
1

She must like simps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:01 PM
1

Fat girls dissing fat men and only wanting guys with 6 pack
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:56 PM
1

The average man is ugly and fat, the average women is ugly and fat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:49 PM
2

"Safe boyfriend" probably means that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:49 PM
2

High iq
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:48 PM
1

25+
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:02 PM
25

That's why when it comes up in conversation, you need to play it off say you "used to lift" or "used to play sports a little" dont tell the truth that you gym 5 days a week, do neck curls, take supplements, groom daily, skincare, wear lifts, get a muscle pump before you go out to party, take finasteride, take minox, got limb lengthening, got hair tra splant, got veneers, use hair fibers, ect. Nobody needs to know that shit. Obviously i exaggerated, but thats to show the point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:50 PM
2

Depends on the guy and situations. But generally yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:31 PM
2

I dont think they dislike or hate "autism", they hate how it manifests and how it would effect their life too. Nobody wants a total shut in, super shy, partner who cant function in society. Thats why. And also add on the stuff like weird hobbys and lack of self awareness and thats a total recipe for women repellent. Sadly thats how it is. Most women want a guy who can hang with the bros, party a little, know how to talk back, take care of business, etc. And traits like that are hindered by stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:29 PM
2

Thats like a pencil tho? 4 inches girth is tiny thin
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:44 PM
0

It means shes just not as into you if she isnt as freaky with you as she was with other guys. Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:18 PM
2

Its "over" for them if they lack self awareness and have insane standards like that. But if they have introspective and work on what needs to be worked on, they have a much higher % of finding a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:16 PM
1

Both. But you must be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:36 PM
1

Ive met a ton of blue collar workers who have fucking insane social skills. I think its due to having to face direct confrontation and being in environments with other rowdy men that carries over to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:19 AM
1

So men having male friends is "homo romantic"? Lol ur projecting and or pushing a homo agenda/grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:15 PM
1

Women talk shit over coffee, nails, or at a girl sleepover party. Men talk shit in locker room, parking lots, online games In general
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:52 PM
0

Big NO. ugly guys have 1000x more rules. That just shows objectively things are discriminatory to ugly men. You take a ugly guy and a hot guy, they both act and say the same thing to a women, one gets a harassment claim, and the other gets a nice date. Which do you think got what? Lol Lookism is similar as racism. For some reason one is acceptable and the other isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:04 PM
1

This seems like another example of women copying men tbh. Zero originality in this post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:02 PM
-1

True. Womens "advice" for men always seems to benefit women and make it harder for men, ex "don't approach here, don't approach here, dont do this, dont do that" lol like wtf bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:38 PM
2

IF the guys motive is just to bang her, yeah hes a simp beta if he sticks around as a friend. Thats how it goes 99% of the time so ur first point is moot cuz u created a extremely rare scenario to base it off
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:06 PM
9

Real equity would be 50/50
/r/BlackPillScience04/08/22 09:38 PM
1

Most are simps a d betas who put on a act to be hardcore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:27 PM
1

Also the guys is to much of a beta simp to let go so he sticks around just so he can be around her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:24 PM
34

Op is right. Guys who do that are just simps/nice guys. Deep down they know they will never hit it, but are so beta that they can't let her go so they stick around for years as her simp
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:55 PM
1

Lift, lose fat, put together a style that shows who you are and that looks good, dont socially be a bitch, learn to disagree with people and dont apologize for disagreing, be firm. Keep in mind wheb you become confident and successful, other bottom feeder men will call out a douche. Thats good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:08 PM
3

Humanity would collapse if men stopped pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:52 PM
1

I agree with the physical niche. As well as style niche. If you mix both of those together you will know exactly who you attract and also you will know who to go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:32 AM
1

Those are called orbitors
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:58 PM
-2

Just like how people think guys who are small are small cuz they are shitty personality. Tehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:56 PM
-2

Between guys its socially acceptable in men's social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:30 PM
-5

Women also deal with it. A lot are naturally super loose and gapey. And they are self conscious guys will think they got blown out from being promiscuous even if they havent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:21 PM
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Women say that because everyone except the top men are invisible to women. So when women say men have it easy, it is true because they mean the top men lol. You need to get into the female mind to understand that tehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:46 PM
1

Imo a "single mom" is a teenage girl through the age of like 35. A older women whos like 45 is a "milf" stage. Technically they are still a "single mom" tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:47 AM
1

Seems like most women are married to guys like 1-5 years older than themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:42 AM
-2

They are more "fluid" because its super socially "cute" for a girl to peck her gf on the cheek and she will get validation for being lgbt friendly and can wear the "bi" title. Guys can't do that cuz they would have to actually go all the way with gay guys and at the end not even get any social validation for it cuz girls don't date gay/bi guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:22 PM
1

Maybe just sugar daddy stuff. If i was a women i wouldn't be a street hooker tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:15 PM
3

One of teh downsides of female privilege, ur only 20 once. Tehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:13 PM
9

Riddle me this, how does every person on reddit have a "5'3 or 5'5 friend that slays"??????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:31 PM
1

They dont even need to pay, it shows height on bumble. So they can just left swipe all short men for free
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:29 PM
2

If a women has double digits body count, she a promiscuous and thst says a lot about her ethics, morals, character, and future outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:28 PM
2

Yes. But also we need to keep in mind of height queens. So the pool will be slightly less, but rabid height queens hunt those super tall men out and are extremely into that. So its like equivalent to short kings who dont get anything out of the smaller pool, besides maybe filtering out superficial women, if you think of that as a benefit, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:29 PM
2

Controversy sells and gets clicks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:16 PM
1

I don't think after 6'6 it subtracts, it just becomes niche, ur still way better off than 5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:15 PM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:41 PM
1

You need to have the looks, charisma, and "shit going on" to be able to pull it off. People can instantly tell if you are beta and rehearsed it all week long, compared to a real man who just lets it out and works correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:38 PM
9

That's why no matter how hard some guys try to improve personality and respect women more, they still get zero matches
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:35 PM
1

Yeah if you do it in the "pua cold approach" way yeah its garbage. But you need to do it right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:07 PM
0

Looks, face, height, race, clothes, body language, and not giving a fuck are what girls like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:12 PM
1

Most ppl meet irl...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:04 PM
2

Guys arent able to do that. Guys with downs dont have the same luck with dating non down women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:53 PM
2

Money and looks. The issue is self awareness. Many spectrum guys are 100% content being obese, badly fitting clothes, and openly weird hobbies like wearing a my little pony t shirt as a 40 year old man or something
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:49 PM
7

Anti globalism isnt antisemitism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:48 PM
1

Factually many are. But not you because you seem to be very self aware of your situation, that is the building block to solving your issue. Plus a huge bonus is you are well paid with a good job. You didn't mention your looks tho. Looks are very important for first impressions and getting your foot in the door to a relationship. You said you like to talk about "silly things and talking like a friend"... Sadly thats not what most girls like in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:43 PM
6

WTF. does that show a lot of women on OLD think even 6'5 is too short???? one thing to keep in mind i think for OLD the heights are inflated. So a dude self listed as 6' is actually 5'10. Maybe that's a reason for the women's height hypergamy. Like a women wants a legit 6'2 guy so she sets it to 6'5 cuz those guys are really only 6'2?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:33 PM
7

Its not about being organic, its about having male social skills to get what you want. A awkward internet pua is "awkward and not organic", a guy with social skills doing it is "smooth and organic". Basically you need the sense and social skills to MAKE it be organic. (And good looks lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:28 PM
3

That's a good episode
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:24 PM
1

Thats how a lot of couples meet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:23 PM
1

Obviously its more nuanced than ants. But genders are only 2 and for a reason naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:23 PM
5

Thats normal to not want a obese/fat girl if ur not obese/fat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:42 PM
15

Cuz the average girl has 999999% more options after a breakup compared to a average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:40 PM
7

Ohhhhh so like the toy story "i dont want to play with you anymore" meme. I understand. For me it was a girl who when i saw how her personality really was, i lost all interest even tho she was pretty. Took a few months to see how her personality was, but when it clicked i dropped her fast. Imo tho i think girls do that more than guys. Like a guy does a random small thing and girl ghosts him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:49 PM
1

Im just saying it as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:45 PM
1

Gender roles arent even "traditional" , they simply exist. Men are men and women are women. Is a male ant doing his male ant role "traditional" or simply his nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:41 PM
4

Please clarify and define whatever "the ick" is. If i understand correctly, for me its when i see a ugly and obese girl. Like you dont even want to be around them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:40 PM
4

This should be a "change my view" , also ur putting up a assumption that ugly men only go for hot girls. Ugly guys go for literally anything. Go look at some experiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:36 PM
1

No girl wants to be known as the local whore, just as guys hate being called the local virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:33 PM
1

Does that include abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:32 PM
1

Op is right. That's the tradeoff for female privilege, they must use it wisely or else get labeled as "skanky" "slutty" "promiscuous", etc They gotta be smart about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:24 PM
24

Its called gossip. Especially if got have a lot of girls In ur social circles. Word gets around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:51 PM
2

As long as he's not short short, height doesn't matter and face will win
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:01 AM
6

The biggest are LOOKS and "not going out", at all. Like a 30 year ugly guy with zero friends who only plays games all day and doesn't try
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:46 PM
2

I'm saying it isn't just manlets who acknowledge women hate short guys. Tall guys know what's up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:16 PM
1

Flyover state
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:55 AM
1

For a legitimate wife, probably a "fly over state". For a 10/10 hot model girlfriend, LA, NYC, Miami
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:23 AM
2

Im top 99% height
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:19 AM
2

They just say that for clout. IE: "short guys are cute but my current bf is 6'3"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:58 PM
5

Yup, young people today think a degree automatically means you get a private office, "be the boss", tons of benefits, and high level shit like that. LOL even with a degree you gotta start at the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:58 PM
20

Lots of people with college degree make less than 40-50k lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:30 PM
3

Height only helps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:29 PM
1

Just leave it be dude, forcing conversion ruins subs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:55 PM
1

What about a little ditty bout Jack and Diane?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:51 PM
2

Women are also global now, due to social media and not restricted to their local men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:50 PM
2

Look at people's actions, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:47 PM
15

A couple months. But it depends how often you "date" in a timespan. 3 dates could be 2 weeks, 3 dates could be 2 months. I think 2 months is the max limit, other than super religious people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:46 PM
1

That's true. Instead of competing for just one gender, you have to compete and win over both genders when dating a "bi" girl/guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:43 PM
2

Nobody said all preferences are biological. But it is 100% natural and normal to have many preferences, and nothing is wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:42 PM
1

If you dont know what the "soy" thing means, its not even worth discussing this topic then. another point is that it just framed in a way already making excuses. And reminds me of dads who wear shirts that say "im a proud male feminist" or "my daughter, she makes the rules". Stuff like that creates and breeds narcissism and toxic behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:53 PM
4

That's a preference too. Nothing wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:51 PM
7

100% normal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:42 AM
6

be a good role model and teach thankfulness, compassion, empathy, respect, confidence, and at the right times the real world truth to be wise about everything, how you need to not be a follower, Critical thinking too. I wouldn't be a pushover tho If i had a son i would do basically the same but also ensure he's physically fit and ready to take on the world for the positive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:40 AM
2

That's loving, but seems like it's already making excuses for her and accepting she will be "bad". Seems slightly "soy".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:33 AM
8

Good and bad for both. Can't make generalized statement like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:28 AM
1

The more niche you get, the less people. After you do in person sign up, fee's, money, interviews, etc, only creepy desperates will do that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:13 PM
1

You must not know a lot about dating apps...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:06 PM
1

Adding improvements to detect AI, bots, scammers will help everyone. Requiring a improved verification will help everyone. That will be another added layer with the phone numba, email, device layers. I dont see why ur arguing against me cuz basically thats what im saying. As for "gettibg better matches"... Thats the decision of the end users. If ur ugly, ur never gonna get good matches. That cant be helped lol, besides a app forcing uglys with pretty, and if a app did that it would fail cuz peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:58 PM
1

Its not about being lazy, its about benefit vs effort reward. Its about aint got time for that cuz u have a real life to live. Only those extremely desperate would go to crazy measures like paying huge sums, going to a office to sign up, interviews, can you imagine the weirdos who go thru those lengths because they cant meet a partner in real life or regular dating apps? Good luck with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:50 PM
0

No, men and women both wouldnt sign up, the more hoops you have to go thru, the less people, besides those who are desperate. Also for issues you are talking about many of them are already solved by the app banning ur device/phone number and also shadowbanning ur pics so if you do get a new number/device it will flag the same pics if reuploaded. Ur idea of going into a office and showing ID is ridiculous, again nobody would sign up besides those desperate, that app would fail. And that also open…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:43 PM
1

Depends on love
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:33 PM
3

Dating apps need to be "like the wild west" for people to actually sign up and use them. Besides requiring a photo verification to prove ur not a bot, i think dating apps shouldn't be forcing anything or doing algorithms. It should simply show you desired location range of girls/guys that you can swipe on. Basically tinder 2012. Everything will sort itself out, if ur ugly you get low matches, if u hot you get a lot. If you try to somehow force a shortcut so ugly people get forced matches, or hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:30 PM
2

Thats too much forced bs. People wouldn't put up with it and leave
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:25 PM
1

Thats taking it too far, nobody would sign up. What i do agree with is human verification, as in you must privately upload pictures of ur face for verification and maybe some random poses. To help filter out bots. Most popular apps do that if you want a "checkmark" verification, but imo they should require it and also improve it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:22 PM
2

Thats the majority, but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:43 PM
1

They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:59 PM
1

Its about the promiscuous gate keeping of it. A shitty lock = promiscuous easy girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:10 PM
2

None of those logically can be applied to male/female tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:08 PM
6

Guy who get lots of girls (without paying) are studs and success stories because its hard for men to get laid. Meanwhile a girl is promiscuous and slutty for having many partners because it is extremely easy and takes zero effort or work. a master key is a key that opens many locks. A shitty lock is a lock opened by many different keys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:35 PM
8

Besides the obvious looksmaxxing/self improvement and advice like that, the best advice has been to keep everything you do casual. Basically don't make it seem like its a huge deal when you ask a girl out, stay cool and be chill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:58 PM
6

Make a female dating profile just to see what female privilege is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:49 PM
4

Common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:42 PM
5

Huh? If a guy gropes a women he will be charged and convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:34 PM
17

True. Girls have grabbed me before but i just stay cool and put on a smile and laugh. Even if im not into it and didnt like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:11 PM
12

If a guy randomly pinches/grabs a womens ass, pretty sure the guy will end up in jail. But girls do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:09 PM
3

Single moms are low value women for many reason. Sure they can get many "dates", but all that will just compound the issues even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:07 PM
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Ur comment is neurotic lol. That's not even coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:24 AM
11

Yeah, thats neurotic af and feel sorry for kids that gotta grow up with a single parent like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:14 AM
1

Correction, women are, men are not. A man can build a family easily even at age 50. Women bout so much, they comply blew their chance at normalcy by squandering her 20's/30s. Guys are much more accepting. I know guy friend groups with guys that range in age from 18-60 and they all are recent dads, and nobody feels left behind. That doesn't happen with with girl friend groups, once your past 30+ as a girl with no kids or husbando you just become the "wine aunt" and slowly cast of of the girl grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:02 AM
8

A lot of single 30+ women get neurotic af tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:57 AM
3

Yeah, due to rampant hypergamy a in shape average man is equivalents to a ugly obese girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:00 AM
1

That wannabee journalism. Like i said local gig/unpaid "journalism" aint journalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:56 PM
1

A in shape guy is out of a fat girls league
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:52 PM
2

Bouncer, bartender, budtender, artist, music, volunteer fireman, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:51 PM
1

Journalists arent broke... Unless ur talking about some unpaid local news "journalism" gig lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:50 PM
1

Musician
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:49 PM
1

Thats not a low value job...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:48 PM
1

Because it simply goes against nature. Sure do all those independent strong female things, never have kids, never date, never associate with men... For most women that would be a miserable life. Except for maybe activist women who are misandrists and hate men and want to live a alt lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:24 AM
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True. 3rd wave toxic feminism has taught women to be helpless victims who gloat in "victimhood" for clout, attention, and perks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:39 PM
5

Takes two to tango
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:30 PM
-1

No baggage, fresh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:46 PM
1

Women dont like nice guys cuz they are weak, pushovers, lack drive, and are boring af.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:39 PM
1

Most of those guys are total simps when around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:32 PM
1

And if men did that y'all would say "that's toxic to go to church to just meet a women"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:28 PM
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Because woe is me, " the struggle", and the "women are wonderful" effects
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:14 PM
1

It all adds up to make you deep down inside more overall confident. Think so black and white like you are wont help. Gym confidence carrys overto ur overall confidence. Now if ur talking about something like computer programming confidence, thats not gonna help lol. But gym confidence does help
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:27 PM
1

It matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:25 PM
2

Ur acting as if you lift a few days a week naturally that you will look like a massive bodybuilder. Lol it doesn't work like that. For most people who lift you can't even tell they lift, they just look a little more healthier and fit. Which is good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:24 PM
2

...its a little more complex than that. Nice try tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:12 PM
2

My previous standards used to require the girl to have blonde hair blue eyes, but now ive opened up to all european women of any hair or eye color and also latina women because they have good culture that i like and also are pretty imo. I grew up in america. Not into any others tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:13 PM
2

But the sides are worse than balding...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:54 PM
2

People project insecurity onto guys who dont give a shit. "Stop holding onto it, just shave it bro". Lol hes not holding on to it, he just doesnt give a shit and lets it naturally grow. Being insecure would be shaving it daily to hide it, or taking hormone drugs and transplants to keep hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:53 PM
1

Sad but true. 20s is the worst for advanced balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:45 PM
9

Ur kidding right? Average and below average girls are actually juggernauts and get approached the most, because guys know they may have a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:32 PM
6

Means they want all the cake. They have a "simp" back home as the stable bf, usually a pushover gamer type, and she also gets to play with other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:21 PM
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Pussification
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:01 PM
4

When youve been a top 0.0000001% man on top of the world, you are able to let urself go and not worry because nobody can take that away. They've had it all and are content to come down. After a while some even wish to just become a "regular" person. They get tired of being the top guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:34 PM
2

Lmao so true. It's the neurotic 30 year old "cool wine aunts" that demand potential men have his shit together, while she's lowkey alcoholic, fucks with pain pills, and is probably on depression medicine. And also unemployed single moms Basically they want you to do all the work lmao, but reap the benefits. "Having your shit together" generally means you make at least middle class income, have ur own house, ur own car, and a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:54 PM
3

We need a old school dating site/app that is 100% "open". As in NO algorithms and scores. Just profiles to swipe on and message if you match. Similar to tinder circa 2012. Because that's as close to free and open as you can get. I know some may want to go even further and make it so you dont even need to match for eachother, but na, that would just be a waste of time with every guy having to PM hundreds of women messages without even knowing if she likes him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:35 AM
5

"You cant do that, the girls just want to shop, eat, and do their hobby without yall trying to get with them". /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:30 AM
6

You go from invisible to considerable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:48 PM
1

Looks are required to get in. Then personality matters to stay in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:25 PM
1

Take a step back and do some troubleshooting, find out why you are not getting women, go deeper that that and ask why arent you doing other things like going out with friends, events, etc. Figure out whats wrong or good with your looks, height, race, hair, face, features, eyes, body, weight, muscle, tatts, clothes, style, body language. You need to put effort in this shit. Improve what you can. Get male friends to hone ur social skills, then carry that over to social skills with girls. Be more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:28 PM
2

It could be anything. It could even be indifference and them having better options than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:47 PM
3

It depends on the specific person. But flooding someone's phone and over texting kills attraction for sure. Basically don't be needy. If the persons clearly playing games then it's up to you if it's worth it to put up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:29 PM
4

Both. Online dating is just supplemental tho, as backup to keep options open
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:26 PM
1

Na, the obesity rates for kids is up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:24 PM
2

You can get girls inbetween along the way, but they will just be low value. Which can teach you things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:24 PM
4

Dont just wait tho, you need to be actively moving forward in life for everything. Then "it gets better".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:15 PM
4

Those are girls with sugar daddies who pay for their boob jobs, vacations, new cars, etc. Usually guys significantly older than them who they met and offered a deal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:13 PM
3

Thats why you need to always change things up and not be boring
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:02 PM
22

" Look around these days, it’s not hard to be above average with what the new standard for average is in 2022" False, tell that to a ugly bald 5'5 guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:25 PM
2

That is mainly for OLD, and its gotten worse, 90/10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:40 PM
1

Redpiller = ugly guy who speaks the truth Attractive smart man= good looking guy who speaks the truth Basically it just depends on who says it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:04 PM
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Yeah. Young women have gotten so fat. And women who are fit at 40 are mogging them in terms of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:00 PM
1

That women at a fancy resort lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:37 PM
1

Yeah, but i know a short ugly bald guy who is a total player! Every week he has a hot new local girl! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:42 PM
4

Hence the "soy boys" and "nice guys" thinking that will get them a girl by being the opposite of masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:15 PM
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99% of guys dont give two shits about homosexuals, they just dont want it shoved down their throat from every agency and corperation. Do what you want but just stfu about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:13 PM
1

The average man wants a 10/10 but will take what he can get and thats a ugly obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:10 PM
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Female dating strategy is basically the female equivalent of a incel. Except they aren't incel cuz they are women. Basically low tier women with insane standards and bitter/toxic about everything. Just ignore them. If they stopped being so negative, worked on some self improvement and be productive, maybe then they would get a "high value man" as they put it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:19 PM
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Girls on the internet are always weird bruh. Most are catfish and fake bots
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:32 PM
5

Those are called independent queens and career women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:30 PM
1

Ur making flat out generalized statement and not backing it up. And then using that to conflate with other things? Yikes thats a lot to unpack
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:14 PM
1

Ugly obese women requiring a deposit of money to even go out on a date with her. And average men will pay it lol cuz its that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:46 PM
1

Society will have collapsed by then. We have seen this before throughout history. When "the average man" becomes denigrated and not able to live normal life, said nation eventually falls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:41 PM
3

Roe was never settled law, both sides always knew this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:05 PM
3

Average guys have to simp to get a ugly fat girl in a ltr lol. That's all average guys get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:29 PM
1

Cut marriage benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:28 PM
6

If ur skinny with no muscle people think ur weak af and neutral. If ur fat, you are invisible to girls and guys will make jokes about you. If ur lean and some muscle, girls will like you and guys will respect you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:06 PM
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It works if ur average and have some conversational skills. If ur ugly and anti social, it wont work unless yoy have some bad boy edge to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:58 PM
115

"Just be around" theory
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:56 PM
1

No its not. Its fun and you dont have to be top 10%. Id say all of top 25% gets some play on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:55 PM
3

Guys that are kinda ugly but have weird aggressive incongruent personalities are cringe. You know it's fake
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:53 PM
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That is legitimate real world advice if you aren't repulsive. And you must have some other good traits like you have good social skills to be able to casually talk and are enjoyable in that way. Seen it first hand multiple times. Its 100% true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:48 PM
18

Being brown doesnt mean u cant be a chad. Their are chads in all races
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:45 PM
1

Doesnt change the fact fat women would massively drop smv. Fat men are already low smv so nothing would chang with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:18 PM
1

Keep telling urself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:00 PM
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They would be basically the same as they are now. Because its the fat women who get a huge smv boost due to shapers, girdles, contours, and "body positivity" gaslighting. Take all that away and said womens smv plummets to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:49 PM
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"I dont have problems with short men and im sure other girls will want you, my bf is 6'2 tho"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:36 PM
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Imo i think the fat women would be less boisterous and be taken down a few levels on the smv scales
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:53 PM
1

Both adults, do what you want. If he still has it to be able to get with 18 year olds, good on him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:32 PM
2

The point of his post is to clear up misinformation that is spewed by people who dont know what they are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:08 PM
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Just take a shower, buy her some chocolate, get a haircut, "respect her more"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:58 PM
12

Because for normal socially adjusted people you can have chemistry, sense its okay, and its the only chance to see them again so you have to shoot ur shot and see if it works out. Tis how a large % of people meet and partner up. Ur post is like a alien or non-human asking "why do males and females pair up" lol. Cuz thats the way it be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:57 PM
3

The average guy is a boring nice guy. That dries up women fast lol. That's why even ugly bad boys do better than average nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:50 PM
1

Fds women are low value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:37 PM
0

Women are more shallow than men. That's well known lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:50 PM
5

That's for a girl tho. A disabled guy is probably the hardest difficulty mode
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:32 PM
2

Only if ive been around since the kid is very young and I'm in a serious relationship with the mother and the father its dead or something. I'm not doing any Capitan save-a-hoe tho. She's gotta have her shit together too. No broke asses looking for a simp. Is never go out of many way to be with a single mom with baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:28 PM
1

A 25 year old guys completely amogs 18 year old guys when it comes to 18 year old girls. They have more money, more experience, more skills. Thats why you see a lot of young adult girls overlooking her male peers of the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:24 PM
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Most couples the guy is a few years older. And that 100% how its always been There are some piranhas out there that are like 50, have money, good looks, and only date 18 year olds. Those are the guys that give other men who have legitimate relationships with age gaps a bad rap. And those old guys get around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:20 PM
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Ur in the wrong topic.Men give objective advice to both men and women. Women don't do the same for men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:59 PM
4

Ur lucky cuz ur attracted to ugly fat girls. Most guys don't have that privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:48 PM
4

Men dont give selfish bs advice tho. Women do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:43 PM
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Yeah but the women don't explain it like that. They just selfishly say dont approach us at all lol. Leads to men being confused
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:43 PM
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Thats exactly what we mean. Women give advice to men that benefits themselves instead of saying the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:42 PM
1

The more the worse. And depends on severity. you can overcome a couple, but if you have a bunch it gets harder and harder to make up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:31 PM
2

I never said that. Men can give women objective advice that will benefit women. women dont do that vice versa for men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:30 PM
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Because when women give advice they give advice that benefits women. "Dont talk to girls at work" "dont bother girls at the bar they are just enjoying ladies night" "dont talk to the girl at the grocery store" "dont talk to the girl at school, she just wats an education" . All that bs benefits women from having to deal with average and below average men. On the other hand men give sound logical advice that is altruistic for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:38 PM
3

If i have legitimate doubts about her cheating, or if the baby is a different color or looks completely not like me, then i may want a test to see whos the father
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:34 PM
2

Because its an easy way to silence and not talk about the issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:25 PM
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No. Its just a meme that "guys only want sex". They want relationships too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:24 PM
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The more you have the worse. No idea why its downvoted, its the truth, guess they cant handle it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:23 PM
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Short, ugly, unkempt, under employed/unemployed, not native culture, not native race, fat, bald, shit voice, lisp, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:52 PM
1

That last part is what i mean. What happens with those type? They are just dabbling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:36 PM
1

Yeah i have to click for it to post and it adds like multiple comments and some say error
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:35 PM
1

Do you feel like being a women who into women, you have to "filter" out women who superficially claim to be lesbian but really arent? That does seem like a added hoop to jump thru that straight ppl dont have to jump thru. Or do you not care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:27 PM
1

Lol no, they just have way higher standards for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:43 PM
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Men talking about self improvement and how women operate is muh soggy knees
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:39 PM
2

He probably has good money or is really good with girls socially
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:34 PM
1

Ur just talking about what the elite push as the current hot. Has nothing to do with if they are ugly or not. Hollywood and music industry had been known to push ugly ppl as "hot". That Pete guy is ugly af, ppl are just blinded by Hollywood
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:32 PM
1

Na, polygamy results in abuse of the women and children. Its toxic. And for society. And you end up with a large group of men who have zero potential women because the top men have massive harems. Even that modern polygamy family that was featured on youtube as an example of how good it is ended in tragedy for the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:55 PM
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Men are majority the ones who date down financially and looks wise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:09 PM
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Men are way more flexible than women. Even high class men will date a poor women. Cant say the same for the reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:53 PM
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Its not 50%50 tho. The top men are getting all the play. So in your anecdote just because you hooked up with a man doesnt mean all men are hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:36 PM
6

That's ur personal anecdote. And sounds privileged too btw. Just because it's easy for you doesn't mean its easy for all. Ur logic goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:48 PM
5

That sounds like projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:46 PM
1

In red dead redemption 2 i made my online character a female just for fun and non stop i would get dm's from dudes asking me random bs and some dudes saying "sorry i died i was trying to protect you" lol. Being a girl online is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:07 PM
-1

Because men aren't as shallow as women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:05 PM
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Thats why when a nice guy tries to save a ratchet bad girl it always fails and she goes back to the bad boy drug dealer. Cuz thats who she is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:48 PM
1

those guys have the balls to make moves. Thats why. They have confidence, swag, charisma, social skills, and mystique. "Nice guys" and beta males dont even talk to girls cuz they think its disrespectful and"not right" to try and make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:46 PM
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Same. It will be "nice guys" who have bumper stickers stating they are on male birth control. Lol its not gonna impress the ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:43 PM
6

True equality would be if its just as socially acceptable to talk about how huge, blown out, and loose a chicks vag is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:16 PM
1

And the proper response will be "but yall did it tho..."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:41 AM
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I think both parental parties should need consent to abort. And only if they are marginalized it should be allowed. It will help society
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:37 AM
0

If you compare the most immature 20 year old with the most mature 30 year old yeah. But real life isnt like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:06 AM
0

If ur comparing the most mature 25 years olds with the most immature 18 year olds i agree. But 99% of the time that is not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:39 AM
1

Na, most people aren't concerned at all if ur within 10 years, that's not even a gap. Maybe only jealous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:06 AM
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Imo if everyones 18+, and the difference is less than 10 years between you, i dont even consider that a "age gap". 20 and 30 are so close.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:49 AM
2

Op is correct. Thats basically hows its always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:25 AM
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Its gotten even worse for all dating sites and apps. A smaller and smaller % of top men are the only ones getting all the play from 99% of women. Leaving the bottom 95% of men with the bottom 1% women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:23 AM
1

Plenty of internet daddies, pua coaches, gym gurus, redpill/blackpill gurus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:30 AM
1

men have lowered their standards and women have raised them. It results in ugly fat girls getting with good looking men out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:28 AM
1

You mean like a 35 year old one who drinks wine 24/7 and makes bad decisions? Thats a millennial thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:38 PM
1

I think ur simplifying it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:20 PM
0

Yes she can be thin and below average looking, even ugly. But due to hypergamy and the female smv bubble, she will have zero problems when it comes too finding men way or of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:17 PM
5

Female privilege is deff real in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:27 PM
1

The bar is on the floor IF YOU ARE TALL AND GOOD LOOKING. that means you can be abusive, toxic, no job, no money, as long as your tall and good looking. Also all average and ugly men are invisible to most women, like those guys aren't even considered in the factor of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:22 PM
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Slutty behavior. Indicative that shes still fishing for a better guy, attention, and fame. Not good. I mean yeah she can do whatev she wants, but that doesnt make it not toxic what shes doing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:19 PM
1

Same can be said with women social media addiction for clout
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:17 PM
3

If that's the way you see it then big yikes. Everyone else must be invisible to you or you don't know many people. I know a lot of people and see everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:06 PM
1

That's ur way to shut down discussion about it? Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:00 PM
0

Hes in the right. The gf disrespected him majorly imo, in front of everyone too. He didnt throw a fit or get pissy, he simply left. Good choice. Imo you shouldnt shit on ur partner like that. And if she didnt realize it, then maybe they arent meant to be a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:27 AM
1

LOL. women expire way faster
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:58 AM
1

Your response is exactly what we are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:57 AM
1

You must not know a lot of people. Literally tons of girls want a "daddy". Just like how young guys like "milfs". Its not just about money or his job, its about the situation that they wants. The feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:35 AM
0

Other way around. Most women become infertile around 40. Men can have kids even at age 90.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:32 AM
1

Ive noticed the same thing when discussing topics like the blm race riots and jan 6 protest. Anytime something is controversial, people resort to try and just shut it down with the gender card, race card, racist card, misogynist card, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:28 AM
37

Its like a person on earth asking why a guy on mars is so worried about his oxygen levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:26 PM
5

Women cant and dont work as hard as men, end of story. For any kind of physical job especially. They have less competence and less passion for many jobs. I said it. And its true. Men and women both have a different place in life and excel at different things. (Obviously small exceptions exist and anecdotes exist)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:50 PM
6

Thats a symptom of the problem, not the cause lo!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:03 PM
1

Men should move on from women who aren't interested. The man starting around as a "friend" means he's a desperate beta and "waiting his turn" which will never happen. Women who want that are toxic and just want free gifts and attention
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:23 PM
1

Thats actually a really good equivalent. Similar dopamine hit and "satisfyingly" addictive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:08 PM
1

Not having those issues wont make you special, it will just set you at the basic baseline 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:01 PM
3

That's the best those men can get my guy. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:52 PM
34

Im stating the fact that many average basic men are getting ZERO women, when a few decades ago they would be. Meanwhile women who are bottom of the barrel with rotten personalities are getting play from guys well out of their league. Men are held to much higher standards, and the bar for women keeps dropping The while system is disrupted and corrupted. And im not even talking about ugly obese neckbeard gamer type guys, I'm taking about "average" guys getting zero play
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:29 PM
1

Its a little harder than that. Looksmaxxing can only do so much, and for most its not enough to bring you out of ur current league even if you do improve. Doing those things you listed will only put you in the 50% category. Getting a haircut, nice smile, and bring athletic is a basic standard, that's not even close to top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:16 PM
2

That's because those guys can't get shit except a ugly obese poly women. So he has to go along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:13 PM
1

Water is wet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:12 PM
126

One unspoken thing is, many more man than you think are getting ZERO play from any women. They are decent nice guys who work, are productive, arent ugly, arent obese, but get zero women. They hide it tho and say they occasionally have a date or ex gf, but its all bs and they are virgins. Way more beta guys like that than you think. Similar to how japan went into overdrive with all the herbivore men that get zero play no matter what, due to girls crazy standards and the culture/society
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:55 PM
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Many flaws are overlooked on women. Its much harder to be a good looking man. I see the saying "Many women who are decent/average looking, would be inc3l if born male" thrown around a lot on rating subs. Thats just another example of how men are held to a stricter standard and women get a boost just for being female i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:55 AM
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Obviously getting in better shape will help. But what will help more is if he adds some more life to his voice or something. Idk, the way he speaks seems so flat with zero expression. Maybe the extra muscles, power, and better body will give him more confidence and motivation to change for the better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:03 PM
3

Damn wtf. That turned dark fast
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:36 PM
1

Thats extremely rare. Good for you tho :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:06 PM
3

Women dont date down like men do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:26 PM
0

Its all about "hanging out" now. Nobody "dates" any more. And i for one am happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:19 PM
1

This sub isn't for stuff like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:14 PM
4

If you are really short or ugly you wont do good, as in maybe zero matches. Other than that of course its worth it, even if you are short/ugly its worth it for the learning experience and who knows you might meet someone. Go in with zero expectstions. They are a very valuable tool. Real life matters most, but dating apps are a nice bonus to give more avenues
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:09 PM
9

Wrong sub, this isnt politics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:28 PM
1

Dont be fat, dont be a total hoe. If shes super extroverted im not into that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:00 PM
21

The malevolent alternative to "just be yourself" is mold your entire persona and vibe based off the other persons interests and personality. Its actually a thing sociopaths do, if has a clinical name idk what it is tho, something chameleon syndrome or something. They present themselves how they think their partner would like them the most. Guys and girls both do it. Its toxic. "Pickmeisha's" and "pick me" girls are notorious for doing that, so are "nice guys" who have boring lives. The good alte…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:40 PM
10

Dad bods are guys who are basically "chads" but dont go to the gym as much and eat more snacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:21 PM
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I agree. Girls like lean guys with a little muscle. That group wins the most, especially if tall. The steroid monsters are only wanted by bodybuilding gym girls, and gay men who want a "bear".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:20 PM
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Music/art is huge and good for all kinds of people. If you get connected with local music groups you are set. Back in the day a friend invited me to a small venue with live music and i met so many people and was acquaintances with some of the guys from a local band. Its like a huge party. And from that you build up from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:50 PM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:18 PM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:14 PM
1

The whole topic is about "enormously high standards" lmao. The issue is having insane standards but bringing nothing to the table. Just like the original post described.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:47 PM
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IF out of her league. Again, you are word salading
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:43 PM
1

That was my comment. And this topic is about women's standards. What's ur agenda?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:40 PM
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No, your just creating whatever you want with word salad. The bottom line is if someone wants someone above their level, they are entitled. If they want someone above their league and get said person, then they are privileged and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:37 PM
1

IN YOUR LEVEL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:31 PM
1

Ur making no logic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:26 PM
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Think It depends how he raised. If the dad's a pos, the daughter will have daddy issues and get with pos men, so yes lol inn that example its true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:25 PM
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If she's below you then ur just using her and also feeding into hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:22 PM
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If she's above you and you want her, that's entitlement. If she's above you and you get her, that's privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:20 PM
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If that's what you are, that's ur equal and in ur league
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:15 PM
1

If you have enormously high/high standards and aren't happy with what you actually get
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:03 PM
16

Lmao that first quote sounds like a quote that would be on a promiscuous party girls t shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:49 PM
0

Entitlement is wanting people out of ur league. Privilege is getting people out of ur league
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:47 PM
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*with coming to the table with nothing and putting no work in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:45 PM
0

Huh? The guys broke it down why women be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:44 PM
2

Its called hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:22 PM
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Its female entitlement and privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:18 PM
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That's a facetious response. We aren't talking about personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:16 PM
3

That's because they looked into why
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:01 PM
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Women just have to show up and exist, men have to go thru trials and tribulations and then show up Pretty simple way to put it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:56 PM
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I never said that. I'm stating anybody wanting someone above their league is entitled. And anybody who gets someone above their league has privileged entitlement. If the only people that interest you are above ur league, you have issues
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:53 PM
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Those men are entitled too, but they dont have privilege entitlement like the women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:42 PM
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Its more privileged entitlement. Thanks for letting me clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:40 PM
2

Those women have privilege entitlement issues
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:31 PM
1

Privileged entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:31 PM
5

That sounds like entitlement. What do they bring to the table for the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:18 PM
0

This should be a change my vie topic, cuz ur question bas preconceived notions that arent accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:15 PM
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The criticisms are mainly for ugly/fat girls who have nothing going on but demanding good looking men who have their shit together
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:41 PM
2

Not really. Cant beat mother nature. Also a big strong guy doesnt have to go 0-100 like a small geeky guy would have to. Cuz just the big strong guys presence is enough to stop bad guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:36 PM
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Most women can't risk the ego bruise if he declines. They also don't have the drive to even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:51 PM
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Most feminists are basket cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:08 PM
1

I learned thru my friends group and movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:06 PM
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Sounds like you got real advice, that is helpful. Most people just get the old "just be a nice guy and youll find someone" bs that makes people complacent doing nothing when they should have been doing something
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:36 PM
2

Its a numbers game. They swipe on all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:05 PM
4

Most guys just want a normal women to have a family with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:03 PM
28

Another factor is women can get it without any effort anytime. Men not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:47 PM
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because unlike for women, for many men its extremely hard to get. A girl asking that question is like a water god asking the thirsty peasants why they are obsessed with water
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:39 PM
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Basically. Some exceptions exist tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:19 PM
11

Women are attracted to a man who has the potential to protecc her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:02 PM
2

Its both. But they both play a large part and must be congruent. Ur looks need to match what you want. Or else you may not get much at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:43 PM
1

Dont hate the player, hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:32 PM
2

People generally stay in the similar lane they are in. many of the dysfunctional women end up preggo early and have to try and upgrade to a better guy tho, trying to find the best beta stable guy she can. Similars attract more than opposites do. For every upper class girl who dates a low class bad boy, their are 100x more bad boys dating low class dysfunctional girls. Its easier for the relationship to start when ur similar. The low class girl is comfortable going to the gas station to buy beer …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:27 PM
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Being "nice" is good for society and interactions with people, but thats about it. Girls dont want a boring nice guy. They want a guy who has things popping, who isn't a doormat. Thats why so many "nice guys" with their shit together, making decent money are single. Cuz they are boring af with no personality, they are nice tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:19 PM
2

Thats true too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:11 AM
2

Looks get you in, personality keeps them around. Imo personality wise, be yourself. But obviously clean yourself up a little if all you are into is Minecraft, anime, vidya games, ect. You need to have a understanding how to always be yourself but know how to act to make the most of yourself without being incongruent to who you really are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:15 PM
2

A movie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:53 PM
2

Pleasentville
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:48 PM
1

That's what i said. Men have it way harder BUT men have a much higher ceiling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:42 PM
4

Stop misandry. Stop male hate, stop shunning men, encourage men, help build men up, give men more masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:23 PM
4

In nature you would naturally want someone taller/bigger than you. The societal thing is the "he must be at least 6'+" that women fall into. So its both. And also part of it is narcissism from women exclusively wanting a 6'8 guy just to show off and one up all her friends boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:21 PM
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Being a man is way harder, but you have a much higher ceiling for success than women do. Women have it way easier especially during the lower levels to success, but they lack what makes a man a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:18 PM
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Lmao exactly. Probably shows ur dedicated and stick to planned choices. And show up on time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:40 PM
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4.5/10 or better I message all types on apps just for fun or if im bored Objectively probably about solid 6, but im also 6'5 so for some girls thats a big deal Yes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:55 PM
5

Not everyone randomly picks a tattoo spontaneously lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:50 PM
1

Yup. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:55 PM
1

They never had a daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:28 PM
7

Just realized that. Damn kinda shocking. Thought it was more diverse on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:11 PM
0

Thats a wise observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:26 PM
1

Men who are "ignorant", say whatever they want, dont "simp", are rough, have low inhibition, can be mean to others, are powerful in many ways including socially, have tatts, do behaviors that can lead to trohble, smoke, drinks, drugs, have "a story". Basically the opposite of a beta nerdy guy with zero personality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:02 PM
1

Explain the pig women dating experiment? Its not just the top women getting tons of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:57 PM
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I remember guys like that. They always argued with everyone, said how they are "gonna be rich", "get signed", how they know a industry insider, whatever that is lol. 6 months later they have multiple dui's, domestic abuse, rehab, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:08 PM
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I know. Literally every other post on here gets taken down by busy body mods who say u gotta re structure ur post in a different way to "cmv". No normal discussion allowed. Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:13 PM
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"Just get famous bro! Works everytime" /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:05 PM
1

Bad automod. Just let people talk and you stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:01 PM
0

Lower bodyfat, lift, get tatted, dont be a pussy, get some character.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:33 AM
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Those are just rules set by women to filter out ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:23 PM
1

Nature be fucked in the head sometimes. That how it be
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:53 PM
2

Yup. Ur looks and ur standards. The higher ur looks and lower ur standards = major numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:33 PM
1

Ur projecting. Most womens eggs go stale by late 30s. Men can stay fertile until elder years. Anyways what does those facts have to do with being homo? Ur weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:52 PM
-1

Regular/average men are invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:00 PM
0

Imo it's kind of eugenicy. Because they usually pick blonde 6'3 European male. Kid needs a father too. Imo its toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:59 PM
1

That's women. Men can have kids till like 90 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:55 PM
1

Ur talking about surgery. Im talking about guys maturing and looking better for free
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:29 PM
4

Its called a glow up my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:17 PM
1

Lol no. Guys for sure still develop to about 30. Bone wise. Women stop growing at like 18. Men can grow till like 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:03 PM
-1

Not for all guys, but for some, especially late bloomers. Some guys look ugly at 20 and then at 35 look like a completely different man. They mature really good and still develop physically looks wise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:55 PM
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Speak for urself. Many men even at like 25 still look like sissys. Once you develop ur masculinity you can look better at even 45
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:14 PM
2

"Cuz its better than nothing" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:29 PM
2

Its called being a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:27 PM
1

So you lack sex appeal. That is ur issue. Have you gotten shoe lift inserts and gotten jacked from the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:51 PM
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In person is obviously better, its more spontaneous and random/exciting. And you also dont have to worry if its a bot, spam, scam, catfish. But real life has limitations because you can only meet so many people irl. Do both. Dont rely 100% on anything, keep multiple avenues open. Don't get your hopes up with online dating tho, even decent guys have to try hard and put up with bs on them. Before you do online dating definitely watch some tip videos and read some articles on how to make the most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:40 PM
1

Hes mainly for supplements and steroid info. Seems awkward with pua/girl stuff and almost no content for that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:35 PM
1

Still a lil confused. Sounds cool tho. I wanna watch that show
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:34 PM
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I asked do you have sex appeal. Not "are you unattractive?". Even if you "look decent" but have zero sex appeal, girls wont be interested i you, they may be ur friend, but not see romantic interest in you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:32 PM
2

Do you have sex appeal at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:11 PM
0

Guys get it even more. Men get shitloads of assslaps, dick grabs, boobs grabbed, ect. By men AND women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:05 PM
2

Scott pilgrim, superbad. Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:03 PM
2

What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:59 PM
1

Women dont take initiative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:50 PM
3

Elisha long is cool, always positive. Free content
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:46 PM
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An example would be a 5'2 male with ugly face, high pitch voice, lisp, skin disorder, balding, somewhat lower iq than average, and not of same culture as locations population.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:41 PM
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I never said never, but it will be drastically harder for some men. Height, face, race, deformities, disabilities, iq, etc. Those are just the facts, and location can compound the difficulty of getting a girl. With those cases the issue is how long and hard can they persevere thru it and obviously super low standards. Money can overcome those issues, but with money... She will only love you for ur money and not you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:39 PM
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Yeah. You need to acknowledge ur bad points tho to know ur limitations and how to focus on what will help
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:02 PM
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Thats where a lot of the cringe comes from. Guy who will be unsuccessful no matter what, acting like they are hot shit lol. But yeah, for guys with good potential, it can help a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:01 PM
1

Some of it is legit. Some of it is pseudo science
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:33 PM
1

*Ugly men playing vidya Girls think its cute and nerdy fun when a hot guy plays vidya games
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:58 PM
2

Depends on ur looks and money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:40 PM
1

"Cultural beauty" is just a way to make people feel better about being objectively ugly..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:37 PM
2

Takes two to tango. Should take two to decide on aborting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:34 PM
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True. You can have the best personality, but if you are a short ugly "neck beard" looking type, you have zero chance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:31 PM
1

Ok we will say, objectively ugly people use the coping mechanism of "cultural beauty" to feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:10 PM
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