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CMVGundam_net/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:57 AM
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Gundam_net/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:22 AM
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Gundam_net/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:24 AM
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Gundam_net/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:29 PM
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Gundam_net/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:28 AM
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Question For WomenGundam_net/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:51 AM
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DiscussionGundam_net/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:46 PM
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This is what happens when Protestants are in charge. They're no better than Jews when it comes to violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/24 01:27 AM
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If he wore gloves why would the prosecuter recind the charges? Seems to me there were no gloves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 12:24 AM
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How can you refute DNA evidence? It's unrefutable. His dna is not present, therefore he could not hace possibly done it. Suggesting otherwise violates the laws of physics, and is retarted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/24 07:29 AM
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Teenagers are the hottest girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:00 PM
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What makes you think I'm not considered good looking? I'm not sure what you mean by dead-beat, but I assume it includes making at least $50/day doing some kind of work. A true homeless man with $0 will have his body ruined from UV exposure and poor nutrition in no time such that they will become objectively ugly extremely fast. At the same time, working a normal job also makes guys physically ugly due to sleep deprivation and subpar nutrition from having to wake up in the morning to get to work …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:34 AM
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Hmm. Maybe, but it won't last. You can't be both lazy and reckless and sustain attraction over time. You can only be one or the other, lazy and careful or hardworking and reckless. And in fact, most Americans fall into the latter camp of "hardworking and reckless" -- they're your stereotypical stupid good looking guy. Arguably many Europeans fall into the former camp of "lazy and careful" which would translate into something like poor but not stupid and good looking. The lazy and careful guys ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:29 AM
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Even good looking guys need money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:26 AM
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No, but I grew up in one of the most expensive areas in the country. Essentially, my family's home was forclosed in 2008 due to taking out a loan they couldn't afford. They actualy got divorced over it and since then have been struggling to afford housing. In fact my dad lives in an appartment now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:42 AM
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I think if you spend any time in high income areas, or expensive cities, it will be self-evident that it is all true. I have seen it with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:52 PM
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So ypu think it's okay to cut people off in traffic and not care about charities?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:35 AM
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https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_money_changes_the_way_you_think_and_feel https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/psyched/201304/the-rich-are-differently-moral https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2016/10/wealth-can-make-us-selfish-and-stingy-two-psychologists-explain-why/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:23 AM
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Rudeness is corellated with income. It's just a fact of social and personality psychology. The lower someone's income is the nicer they tend to be. And conversly, the higher someone's income is the ruder or unempathetic they tend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:15 AM
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Actually that stuff is earned, but it isn't earned by the person who gets them. It's earned by their parents' ability and knowledge to feed them correctly and avoid malnourishment, and that includes pre-birth while still inside the mother's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:09 AM
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That's right. It's also more expensive because protein is the most expensive food group and guys need at least 150 - 160g of it daily. On top of that, the total number of calories required is also higher than women. That's why rich kids are better looking, because their parents can provide them better nutrition during childhood and puburty. This also affects more rhan muscle, it also affects hieght and bones. Malnourishment growing up messes up a guy's bones and limits his hieght.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:35 PM
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When did I say I didn't do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:29 AM
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Do student loans count as big minuses?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:48 AM
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I don't believe in social status, and I don:t care about reputation. I value my internal value system, and I act independently of the group. Anyone who likes me will have to support that, ultimately. On the plus side, I don't have bosses and I stand up for what I believe in. On the down side, I don't make money easily. My personality needs a ride or die girl. To put things into perspective, I've lived on the street to refuse compromising my values. And I enjoyed it, because I was proud of myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:30 AM
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Russia is actually more fiscally liberal than the United States, that could explaim why Russian people are more accepting of income inequality. After all, Russia accepted communism. People in the US are the opposite -- closed minded, victim blamers, a little delusional and fiscally conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:23 AM
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Great example of the stupidity of using money as a factor in love. Someone needs to remind the world that money is a derivative of patriarchy and female control -- just like the front porch. Money is a tool to dupe women and force women to choose to marry certain men within the patriarchy who would otherwise not be loved voluntarily. Money was never meant to be relevant for love, ever. In fact, if you think about it hard it's completely irrelevant as money is a social construct created by patria…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:18 AM
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The whole world is going insane right now. Luxury goods are a rip-off people, always have been. The way to live is to get the best bang for your buck, not to be trendy. With trends, you always lose because someone is guaranteed taking advantage of you by selling overpriced junk and in doing so is also inflating the cost of living for everyone else. A lose-lose. It's like public schools never taught critical thinking to anyone (and maybe they didn't...).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:11 AM
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Actually the secret is that other men did have to earn attraction, working out and eating right and making money to fuel that lifeatyle. Women think it's unintentional, but it actually isn't. There's no such thing as accidental fitness, either the guy is eating right with an active job or his parents fed him right growing up (no accident, just luck) or he's intentionally working out and eating right. There's really no other possible option, logic doesn't allow any other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:02 AM
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Well, I think people do complain about those things. But I also think those things are less of a big deal than money. And I also think those things are less of a big deal, even in terms of appearance, than they're often made out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:52 AM
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Makes sense. It does seem like being capable of earning half the living wage in a big city is the minimum requirement for dating past age 23. Which seems somewhat reasonable (barely). Most coastal cities seem to have living wages around $40 -$42/hour. So then one person must make a minimum of $20 - $22/hour, and be willing to work 40 hours a week, to be "datable" in my hypothetical example. That seems about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:38 AM
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As true as that is, it's not exactly fair to complain about it it as it is not a voluntary decision in the vast majority of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:05 AM
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Honestly, I don't consider SES tobe real. I don't treat people any differently based on their income, and I expect no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:02 AM
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Becauase you have to protest againat almost every employer and almost every possible kind of work. Mix that with the skills you were born disposed to be good at (and nobody can be good at everything) and almost anyone winds up with essentially nothing available to make a living wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:47 AM
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Living independently is pretty expensive these days, it's not as if one can casually get an income and casually move somewhere. It takes several years of intentional decisions, which also doesn't make a whole lot of sense either... and then there's the negative health effects of working (or overworking), like sleep deprivation and compromised nutrition... etc. One has to ask themselves whether or not participating is better or worse than not participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:33 AM
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24 is close enough for the purposes of my thinking here. That's basically exactly how it looks now, the only issue from a guy's perspective is that standing up for social justice issues necessarily handicaps a person's income in capitalist countries (except for maybe in Europe) because resisting against exploitation implies refusing to exploit, and refusing to exploit (just on moral principles) then implies not benefiting personally from exploitation which finally in turn implies being low incom…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:22 AM
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All people have to do is follow the usda myplate guidelines... the hard part is meal prepping and the amount of time and work it takes to cook all your own food yourself. Do that, and your body won't have problems. It's a simple cause and effect. You can't expect to eat a high fat diet and not have problems, but you still need to eat fats. About 20% - 25% of your total calories, in fact. What many people lack is enough protein, and enough vitamins and minerals. You should get 25% - 30% of calori…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:09 PM
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Actually in my case I don't actually care what causes interactions to go south. I like who I am and if others don't then that's not my fault. I can say this because I know I am an ethical person, so my eccentricies are not unethical. So by being weird, I know I'm not causing any harm. People just don't like that I'm weird, and that's why it's their problem. You know... that's pretty much what it is. I live perpetually single and I pretty often look at normal society as worse in many ways, primar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:09 AM
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Some male people are actually weaker than some female people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:19 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:04 AM
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I'm a millennial and I could see this effect first hand. But, I'm like a lawyer in how I think as a someone trained in technical logic. I guess most people don't think that way. Anyway, I think lots of people my age are dumb. The Boomer feminists were right. The millennial women were idiots. That's what it comes to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:36 PM
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Yep this has to change to be logically consistent, and it should be logically consistent otherwise people who are inconsistent are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:32 PM
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What do you mean? It's normal for guys to be scared to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:20 AM
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They're not always delusional though. Sometimes their crush likes them back but is too nervous to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:06 AM
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Hmm. I'm not sure. Parenting probably has something to do with it. I mean that actually makes a lot of sense. My views are probably because I was put through the Catholic school system and so I was taught Catholic ethics which includes the most basic foundation that all people are created equally and thus deserve equal respect no matter what. I live that in my daily life. I personally don't like people who attempt to construct man-made hierarchies and treat people as if they're better or worse t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:12 PM
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"class conscious" is so off-putting. I believe in egalitarianism and your kind piss me off frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:31 PM
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I feel todays gen zers 18 - 22 have lower looks standards than older gen zers. The people aged 23 - 27 today were the most brutal in lookism probably in the last 50 years. They were primarily the kids of gen X though. Something about the Gen X bloodline that's cursed man. Today's young gen z are primarily the kids of millennials and honestly they're a lot nicer in behavior imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:26 PM
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Gen Z are a bunch of republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:02 AM
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xD It's just fatty beef. The Asian brain thinks fat = better. xD xD. They literally repacked cheap fatty ground beef and sold it for a high price to fool people. I like my meat lean. I eat eye of the round cuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:02 PM
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I find women like empathetic guys anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:09 AM
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It's applicable to neurodivergent guys man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:49 PM
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Wagyu is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:22 PM
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Not true. You can be destitute and/or living NEET at an advanced age (30+). Attractive men don't matter if they have no money and no earning potential, basically nothing. Disabled -- ADHD, Diabetes, Autism or Social Anxiety etc. All make looks irrelevant. Only a nuerotypical can be guaranteed relationships when they're good looking. Nuerodivergent good looking guys can get flirted with by thousands of women, at least one wherever they go. But when they find out you're divergent and broke nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:56 PM
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Plenty of attractive guys still have no relationships for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:55 PM
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I consider it a moral flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:10 AM
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I doubt women know what older men look like. They underestimate men's ages by about 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:35 AM
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You might just be a narcissist if your default mode of expression is sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:02 AM
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I used to want casual sex, but nude reddit subs helped me see the light. Now I only want to know the girl first, because I've seen so many hot naked girls that I don't care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:40 AM
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It is true that girls need mental stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:02 AM
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I haven't used an app in 5 years and I think I'm okay now. I see people as normal people and get hit on in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:08 AM
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He's clearly a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:21 AM
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Well it's not about bragging. He's saying that many women love his ability to earn money more than him himself. He's essentially saying if you take the same guy and change nothing about him except his income, then it would be rare for a woman to love the low income version of him, but not rare for women to love the high income version of him. And more strongly, take a guy who is better than another guy in personality, equal in looks, but far lower in income. Most women will love the higher incom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:27 AM
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I think he means more the size of your bank account and your yearly income or abstract earning capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:15 PM
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This is why I am single actually. Lots of womem wind up liking me for who I am, and even find me physivally attractive (hit or miss though, but there are enough to where I feel there are many options), but then once they find out I'm poor they decide they can't do it and reject me. Anyway, I'm dodging thousands of bullets -- even though I'm also missing thousands of hot sex. That's the trade off for not selling out. The 2 or 3 women I am sexually attracted to and who I like for who they are and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:12 PM
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I meant his behavior is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:54 PM
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Also, Whej I was 19 I had nothing in common with other 19 year old women in general. I was I think more mature for my age. There was this one 23 year old new college grad who started working in a pharmacy while I was a cashier and I had a huge crush on her and actually she wound up linking me back but at that time she was sort of the first time in my life that that ever happened me so I was too scared to make it official. She wound up masturbating in front of me on her last day and squirted on h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:17 PM
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I think these girls also think I am mid 20's. Though, I think biological age is not the same as chronological age. I think people really are basically how old they look, in terms of how long they have left to live. Some people are crippled at 75 and some people mow lawns at 100. Chronological age is really just a hueristic. And I do remember dial-up internet xD. Back when I was a kid (like 5 years old) we had computers with CRT displays and dialup and Windows 98 xD. But the thing is, we also had…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:02 PM
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Well you tried dating one at 19 so you must have been attracted. Anyway from the perspective of 30 year old there is no difference between an 18 year old and a 20 year old. They probably can't even tell the difference from looking at them. I'm 30 now, and I get hit on by teenagers literally all the time. Even like 13 and 14 year olds. In fact even young girls who are younger than teenagers, they get all bashful and their faces turn red xD. Funny thing is, when I was 21, 22 no 20 year old girls w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:10 PM
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I don't feel like a loser. That's the thing. You're quick to tell people that though. That's kind of the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:03 PM
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Very realiatic xD. Moms raise men to be like this. But why would they do that if they knew it was ugly? That's the part I could never understand. That is a nice guy though, according to what guys mean by the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:00 PM
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I wish more people choose to kake your job harder. Because they could if you stop telling them defeatist nonsense. You're just trying to help yourself by putting them down. It's lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:53 PM
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Seems like 20 year old women like 30 year old men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:51 PM
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This is why I don't support step-parenting and never will. The step parent and the child have different genetics and will be fundamentally different from each other. That leads to conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:50 PM
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How is it a counter? It's just beevus and buthead on two opposites of an extreme. They're both dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:38 PM
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Bold of you to assume I get invited to parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:37 PM
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This isn't true with software engineering. They're making $250,000+ under 27 years old. 20 - 24 girls marry those guys and get pregnant without hesitation. I have seen it first hand. It's actually pitiful. They lack education in the humanities and in ethics, and then they're given a lot of money at a young age. What could go wrong... Many are public school grads who never even learned critical thinking. A lot of them are just ass kissers who are extrinsically motivated and materialistic. Back in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:45 PM
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Status...:rollseyes. You must decend from chimpanzees. Is the back of your head flat or elongated? I believe people with flat heads decend from chimpanzees. Elongated occipital lobes are a neanderthal trait that I suspect decends from a different ape species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:40 PM
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Actually European girls like backs and butts, but Americans actually look at faces, arms and crotches more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:34 PM
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That might be true, but hoe math doesn't deal with anything lower than 7 anyway. Recalibrate the scale and it's more like 7--> 3, 8 --> 5, 9 --> 7 and 10 --> 10. So in hoe math, there's 3's, 5's, 7's and 10's. The NFL player with an ugly face is a 5 at best in hoe math. Hot college guys are true 10's. And there's plenty of them in corporations and coastal states. Most pro atheletes are 7's in hoe math.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:29 PM
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Uhh, it genuinely makes you less empathetic and more psychopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:24 PM
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On thing that is true, more people getting educated means the average intelligence of the educated is falling. That woman is a decently good example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:25 PM
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Honest answer is yes. People today care more about money and income than abiut intelligence. People who claim to want educated men just want a man with a job that requires a degree and has a salary over $65,000/year. That's it. Education is euated to income. That's the result of a public school system, as the purpose of education has never had anything to do with income and it is possible to be educated and low income but the public school system specifically has always been about income and eco…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:15 PM
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Funny this is I have education at the graduate level, but in the humanities... and I became cynical and disapproving of society as a result of learning literary criticism and philosophy. Thus, I made the decision to essentially take a vow of poverty. Those women also think I am below them. It isn't education they want, it's money, the ability to buy a home and the similar mindset of someone who wants those same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:16 AM
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No... lol. That's both too intelligent to know that word in the first place and too flattering of a word. Simping is an insult. It's supposed to describe the process of trying to buy sex with nice acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:40 AM
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Simping is the process of a man exploring ways to convince a woman to let him impregnate her via unprotected sex. Making her happy, feel comfortable etc to slip in and unload. Simps are guys who are bad at doing that, bad at convincing her to allow it. Basically, a simp is a guy who tries the process but it doesn't work or get the reaults. Simping is continuing to try when it isn't working, rather than giving up and moving on. Simp derives from "wimp + simple" aka "a simple wimp" "a simp." Simps…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:12 PM
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I feel happy because women in their primes do choose me, well they flirt and stuff/not treat me like I'm ugly. But having kids is still a totally different thing.Rather than decide to take on reality together as a team, these modern girls want a guy to have everything before she tries to get pregnant. But that'snot how a team works. Partnerships enhance abilities, they don't leech off the other. We're supposed to partner before having anything and then approach everything as a couple on the star…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:24 PM
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When I was 19 I was ready to have kids and get married. But my peers didn't want to. I've just been waiting for people to mature enough to want to get married and have kids. Sucks to just keep waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:21 PM
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Alpha women actually date sigma men. They think they want an alpha man, but they actually don't. They don't want someone to fight over leading with. But they don't want a conformist either, or a pushover. They actually want a sigma/omega/gamma guy. Someone who does their own thing, stands out, isn't a pushover and won't try to compete with her for leading. They complement themselves well, because she doesn't need social support and he doesn't care who leads (or if anyone leads).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:49 AM
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Yeah rock climbing might be a better analogy. Men have this perception of a bunch of bars lined up in reach all the time for women. But there are limits like biological age, body fat% etc. Women do have a shorter window. Guys do forget about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:46 AM
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No it's a term for when a woman finds a new person before breaking up with the old person to avoid a period of having no one. It's also used to refer to women leaving a guy because someone better wanted her while ahe was with someone else already. Basically "Hey, someone better than you appeared and likes me so I'll leage you for him now. Good luck. Bye." That's monkey branching. It's called monkey branching because you need to hold two bars at the same time to swing from one branch to the next …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:04 PM
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It's not just this, it's also specifically when they cannot participate with people that turn them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:11 AM
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Probably only possible under 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:10 AM
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What if they're hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:10 AM
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What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:07 AM
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I can't say I've ever been followed into a bathroom before, I have been sniffed though. I think it's probably just the nutrition and exercise thing, and maybe I have some kind of vibe like that in person. I'm not really that self aware or intentional about how I act. I'm generally just pretty authentic and honest all the time. What you see is pretty much what you get with me. I do have high cheeckbones though. I've been told I look french, which is actually technically accurate for my ethnicity.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:47 AM
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I get too nervous and feel uncomfortable and inappropriate. Basically, I'm repressed and nuerotic from being raised in a religous household. I was also living in a vehicle recently and still don't have an address. Crazy thing to me is that society just allows people to be homeless, even if they have a job. I feel as though if the job can't buy you a house, then it shouldn't exist. But that's another topic. Ever since I basically got kicked out by family I've been unstable for many years now. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:23 AM
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It's actually that I've always been rejected by people I really liked when I was early 20's (with a few exceptions), and figured it must be because they simply had higher bars than the people who didn't reject me. I did some reading online and found some stuff supporting the idea that the most fertile women were cagey with their sexuality and loosened up in their 30's when fertility declined. The idea was that there's less pressure to worry about pregnancies so it matters less if the guy is top …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:56 AM
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I do think that homosexuality is more superficial/frivilous in general. I think homosexuality is a lot of just liking that frivilous aspect of sex more than purposeful aspects of sex. I find the physical pleasure underwhelming and over rated, so I seek out outside reasons to justify doing it. Part of this is that I ignore people I am really attracted to because of anxiety, so I've never really had good sex before. I wind up with people I'm not attracted enough to feel uncomfortable by, so usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:50 AM
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I literally get eye fucked by horny 13 and 14 year old girls walking around with their moms in grocery stores. It was actually kind of weird. Hell even like children get all bashful and their faces turn pink around me. I take it as a complement because of the whole 'kids never lie' thing. But the fact is I don't universally attract everyone. It's very hit or miss, but the ones who do likehow I look like me a lot and the ones who don't like how I look really hate me. I rarely get lukewarm reactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:33 AM
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Exactly. The issue might just be financial and nothing else. For example, kinder people are lower income. All the rude people are backstabbing themselves at 22 to monopolize sex and marriage and money. Then they get ugly at 27 for abusing themselves with alcohol, junk food and sleep deprivation from when they were 22. Meanwhile the guy who never got involved is still just coasting like always, fresh-faced as ever, still living exactly the same way at 27 as he did at 22. It's like the tortoise an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:31 AM
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Dude, I'm poor and still get hit on by teens. I just never stopped working out and having good nutrition and I am never sleep deprived. I've looked almost the same way for several years now. I also wear daily sunscreen with retinol in it, but I've done that since 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:23 AM
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Weird thing is I just turned 30 and still get hit on by teenagers in grocery stores. I don't really get it. I could date anyone 18 - 24 right now and they'd be enthusiastic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:20 AM
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That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:51 AM
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Well I think this does underpin modern people's sexual choices and proclivities. If it doesn't, then what does??? Our genes determine our behavior. The problem with social cohesion is that women highly discriminate against men so as to very much create decohesion and jealousy, bitterness and resentment among men. The only men who are rewarded are a minority. I'd expect if anything women evolved to please only that minority of men with power and not care about regular men. Hiding estrus keeps sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:20 AM
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Firm boobs indicate higher fertility due to youth. Bigger firm boobs indicate higher fertility than smaller firm boobs, but smaller firm boobs probably indicate higher fertility than sagging large boobs. So holding age and firmness constant, bigger is more fertile. But there is a max size possible with low body fat% needed for a thin waist, which is also needed for fertility. So, medium sized firm boobs are the best. That's right. But that is still all to get pregnant easier. Otherwise men would…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:02 PM
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I was in college just a few years ago and this was not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:31 PM
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Why can't an automated robot do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:29 PM
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The problem is that iq's of 160 are only 0.03% of the population. And that's the minimum for really intelligent living.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:29 PM
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That's because colleges don't actually teach truths. The humanities are the only honest subjects, and those lead to no careers. What's happening is people are being led like sheep to fit into a utilitarian classist society run by probably narcissists. Euclidean geometry remains the foundation of undergraduate math, science and engineering education... and yet, reality is non-euclidean... College is just a place for authoritarian conformists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:23 PM
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I don't even consider socioeconomic class to be a valid or real thing. But other people continuously try to force it. I consider it an illegitimate tyrannical idea that should be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:21 PM
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That makes sense, except there is the problem of promiscuous people being highly selective. My idea is that this is a hedging strategy where the risk is justified by the quality of genes, implying that it is a negative outcome. As if to say, "well, if it goes south at least it'll be high quality/the best possible genes I could get anyway... so the risk is now worth it. But it isn't worth the risk for a regular guy." Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:02 PM
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How is that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:58 PM
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That's true, but most men don't want it to be hidden. Women are the ones trying to hide it with their clothes and makeup. And even then men can detect ovulation on faces without makeup, and we can smell vaginal arousal on women. It might be that higher fertility women avoid men who want to have sex to reproduce, but not avoid men who don't want kids. It may be an anti-natalism/infanticide instinct that women have until they deliberately choose to make an exception and want to have kids with some…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:34 PM
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I'm not sure. The link also said that men who don't want to become fathers prefer women with smaller boobs. While men who did preferred the opposite, I'd think holding body fat % constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:35 PM
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Narcissism has risen when hip-hop music became pop culture. The US also attracts narcissistic immigrants who have the not quite right impression of a meritocratic american dream lifestyle. In reality the US was built originally by modesty and puritanism. The highest income people in the US today are actually Indians, which have a very narcissistic and eugenic based culture. Since wealth buys political influence, this trend will only get worse going forward (in my opinion).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:41 AM
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A cattle?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:38 AM
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My experience too. Though one thing about Europe that seriously irks me is that they do forced sterilizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:37 AM
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How is that great...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:36 AM
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Women who were victims of forced steralization surgeries during eugenics movements display the same traits as male incels today, suggesting their advice in relation to inceldom is hypocrticical and a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:47 AM
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Nah I disagree. This is like wealth inequality. If a business payed low wages while making high profits people would get upset. Same thing. Marriage is like getting paid a good wage. Marriage locks down people so that the most attracrive ones aren't allowed to monopolize. It's a way to make sure other people aren't getting more than you. It's an anti-narcissism device. One might look at another and feel inferior to them, but if you are both married you can realize thsy don't have anything you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:09 AM
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I think it only applies to urban areas and high cost of living areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:07 AM
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That's worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:06 AM
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It's true that a smallnumber of women use the apps, but it's also true that a large number of women have used them once. The result is lots of different women have sex with the same guy, but the women don't have much sex individually. And the women don't have very many different people, but the ones they do have are in that top bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:04 AM
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It creates inequalities. My view of ethics is that if you are going to do that, then your responsibility to ensure that the needs of ofhers are met increases proportionally to your wealth level. So as you make more, your responsibility also increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:28 PM
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Nah, girls just get sad and hurt. You have to understand women get sad easily. It's one of their charms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:26 PM
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Career competetiveness is bad for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:27 AM
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Just realized this is all basically exactly like Pope Jon Paul II's contribution to theology with the Centesimus Annus. Basically just that there exists a collective responsibility to ensure all needs are met in a 'nobody gets lefts behind' kind of way. But rereading your comment, you're basically right. My previous comment even sounds a little crazy to me too now :P. But none the less, Pope John Paul II really is basically on my side here so the Catholic Church's official Social Teachings inclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:31 PM
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I'd say it depends on who is the source of leeching on and why it's leeching in the first place. For example if a grocery store inflates prices when another doesn't, for the same items, holding employee pay constant, then one store is inflating costs uneccessarily thus that would not be leeching to get some social service to pay the difference as that store would be in the wrong for desiring more than is needed. Imo, they shouldn't be allowed to do that, so they should have to deal with the cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:27 PM
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I would probably like western europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:29 PM
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I mean, sort of in a way yes and in another way no. Suporting your parents is a nobel thing to do but going beyond could be considered questionable. On the one hand it's none of my business, but it's also not really possible to discuss ethics without criticizing people's personal decisions. I don't think you shouldn't support your parents if you value doing that highly. If I was to give my unsolicted opinion, I'd advocate doing it via social capitalism (https://www.socialcapitalresearch.com/what…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:52 AM
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"Maybe it’s because we have no choice but to work so we have to utilize our happiness in order to not be miserable. " You know, I think that's probably it. I never worded it so clearly before though, so thanks for that. I feel as though the invisible hand of free markets force ultilitarianism, which is known in social science to reward psychopathy. It definitely marginalizes minorities naturally. At the same time, communist countries are hardly great. Interestingly, both capitalism and Asian-com…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:39 AM
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No no this is not true. I'm saying high incomes are unethical. I'm also saying poverty is unethical. I'm advocating for a needs based society that lacks luxuries that aren't needed, unless they can be given equally to all. In other words, I don't believe it's possible to justify wanting unecessary things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:00 AM
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Lol. I agree that what you say is true, but I'm not gonna crack skulls to get money (lols). But you're absolutely right that cracking skulls and taking names is necessary to be high income, which is ecactly the ethical problem with it. I also think you're right about women's views on materialism. 'I just want to not look bad' it's an innocent mindset. So I feel bad for seeing it negatively. I do think their needs to be some ethical value in people's happiness and sadness levels but I don't think…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:20 PM
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I'm just barely figuring out that I'm not the average as we speak. I never really realized everyone didn't have the same mentality until recently. It is true that we need to take care of our selves, but I'd go about doing that in a 'concientious objector' sort of way with minimal participation in conventional economics. Just enough to get by while still holding on to principle, finding niches like worker co-ops and stuff like that. There's also good cases to be made about the value of farming an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:48 PM
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Well what I was thinking is a very slow moving long term goal of creating something from scratch that serves an ethical purpose. Schooling done in the humanities but generally already finished with no corporate career path, volunteering can be a wide array of things like community gardens, canvassing for political candidates or more extreme peace corp stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:02 AM
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That sounds more like what I was describing in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:45 AM
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This discussion is making me realize just how much different my education was to a normal public school education. I hadn't really thought too much about it before, but realizing public schools teach literally nothing about ethics and that people can grow up and become adults and go their whole lives never once considering ethics is suddenly terrifying. It's like a horrific realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:33 AM
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Btw, they could very well be pursuing their dream of becoming an artist or finding religion, but it doesn't change any bottom lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:30 AM
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'Even if she is chikd free, these are the metrics that matter' this has always shocked me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:07 AM
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Only thing is that I am Hispanic and so I am 5'8". I feel that could be a problem in Scandinavia. By some miracle that isn't my biggdst problem in the US. I've had 5'7" girls and taller interested in me (when we are close in age). But I'm not sure about those places since they are known for height. And by immoral I don't mean power dynamics of a marriage, I mean acquiring more resources than others from a limited supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:05 AM
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' was talking with a young girl a couple weeks ago and when I told her I’m taking a vow of poverty her soul dropped through the floor lol ' yeah that is extremely relatable. That is exactly the kind of thing I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:01 AM
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Lmao..... yes you are right. The one flaw. We'd agree on ethics but not on gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:59 AM
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Starfuckers... As for attraction, that's not what I mean. I don't really do hookups. I believe women see me as 'future husband' guy. Women ask me my last name and say things like 'lets runaway together and take on the world together' etc. I know physical attraction if I get looked up and down or if their whole face blushes or she acts squirelly and turned on. Smiles and smirks qnd the smell of her getting wet (girls have different smells interestingly enough, I have the gene that can smell phero…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:55 AM
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I respect your lack of double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:47 AM
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All the issues you bring up I'd say lay in the fault of society. I think work should not necessarily need to br tied to markets, I think a shorter workweek is enough and that people should just do what's needed such as being a farm hand or an emt or a sports coach etc. Universal healthcare with maternity leave built in etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:45 AM
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Yeah sure. It sounds like how society wants it to be and there's probably something to he said for just fitting in. The capitalistic utilitarianism would probably work if everyone agreed to participate the same way. There's just things like unfair working conditions and policies that make daily life seem unethical in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:42 AM
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Yes I am, but I was trained by Jesuits for education.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:04 AM
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Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:06 AM
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That's depressing. I thought there was at least a good reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:05 AM
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So... a passport bro? :'''''( I can see the pragmatic aspect of it, but I was taught not to condone it. In many ways I was taught to rebel against it, if it really is unjust. Morals was a big focus in my private school education and it was taught like english or math is taught. And graded too. We had whole classes titled 'social justice' this social justice that etc. Field trips to homeless shelters, non profit orgs, some traveled abroad to impovershed countries -- the whole 9 yards. I simply ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:01 AM
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I was hoping Christianity or Catholicism would be enough. Technically my views aren't that different from what is taught in the Gospels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:56 AM
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So you're agreeing with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:55 AM
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Okay buttbuttpoopoop, but I do appreciate lightening the mood. I was really like all down and gloomy about this. Like staring into a mirror soul searching for 20min questioning my life choices down and gloomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:41 AM
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Jews shoupd open a history book and read about their disgusting treatment of Palestinians, and then they should read the New Testament to learn how to do better. There's a reason Jews are disliked everywhere they go, never understood why nobody ever figured that out. The Torah is wrong. Everything it preaches is unethical and arrogant, ironically. Taking an eye for an eye will fail forever. Revenge never works. Greed is always a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:13 PM
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That is some serious mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:07 PM
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If they were male they'd peobably just be homeless as women don't want to pay a drug addict for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:05 PM
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I'm one of these people, because 'consent' has different interpretations. There's freedom of choice and then there's freedom of action. Two wildly different things, and what is consent to somone who believes in freedom of choice is not considered consent to someone who believes in freedom of action. Look up Locke vs Hobbes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:00 PM
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I think they have no power. I feel it would be more of a nhilist action like 'whatever, it doesn't matter anyway may as well enjoy myself.'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:43 PM
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I was just curious how women would feel by a homeless person catcalling them because I wanted to know if that would make tgem feel worse than if a regular guy did it. I was just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:53 AM
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That's a good point. Jesus may well have been concieved in a hookup with Mary and a man besides Joseph.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:53 PM
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I see, well that worldview of accepting your fate is very Asian culture sounding to me. I'd rather complain about and fix it. Anyway, I think that the companies should train locals even for 'white-collar' jobs. And I think venture capital is the source of the hypocrisy and unethical aspect of tech. Instead of making a commonwealth, it is % of equity, growth this, profit that. But anyway, capitalism is the law. That's how the US constitution is written and communist states are not necessarily nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:21 AM
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I think what bothers me is that tech companies have created large inequalities without trying to be inclusive, and in doing so have raised housing prices to unattainable levels for all but themselves while being composed largly of foriegn workers. They don't typically hire locals, or train people on the job. There's a dark culture of competetiveness and exclusivity underlying tech, the same kind that underlies selective colleges. In my opinion there's nothing wrong with education if it is about …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:39 AM
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I figure that's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:14 AM
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lmao. That's true and right. I wonder why that is. Maybe this, https://www.loveshack.org/forums/topic/226073-why-do-some-women-hate-to-see-men-relaxing-and-enjoying-ourselves/ ? The whole happy wife, happy life thing and not wanting men to have too much relaxation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:40 PM
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Yeah I guess so. But that's wild. Like, why can't people just kindly have sex together for fun and thank each other after and do it again with someone else. Sip pina coladas and go on with life with a smile and so on. No competition... just kumbaya, hakuna matata etc. Anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:06 PM
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You know, I actually left religion in my 18 - 25 years because I wanted to experience casual sex with more than one person. Ha, that didn't work out. I carried these biblical personality traits and values to the world of casual sex and got laughed out the door. To this day I fail to understand why kindness and humility are incompatible with casual sex. Eventually I was driven back to religion simply to be around ethical people again in general, regardless of sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:29 PM
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I definitely don't want to upstage anyone, I want everyone to already be morally good to begin with. I'd not be interested in people who weren't in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:22 PM
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Hmm wellI agree with your descriptions of the new and old testaments, but I'm not sure about todays women. Young liberals seem to want high income men who live in expensive zip codes with prestigous jobs. There's a book out called Poverty by America by Matthew Desmond who's a sociology professor and he describes how todays liberals are perpetuators of inequality via nimbyism and hypocritical virtue signaling primarily for self-gain -- so this actually is the way a lot of young liberals are today…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:04 PM
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Hmm, yeah I guess so but there aren't that many today. I mean just the typical young single woman you meet anywhere in the general public. Just walking down the street, literally anywhere, boom there's an attractive woman what are the odds she'll find those personality traits sexually unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:36 AM
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Don't you think the biblical qualities are make them 'boring?'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:27 AM
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No I just mean the religion makes men sexually unattractive, not religious discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:08 AM
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Sure, except that is literally the cultural norm of todays youth especially on the west coast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:07 AM
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I don't think male attraction works this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:00 PM
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5% aren't overweight???? Wut. What if you remove the 'is single' requirement. Also, where are you getting these stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:08 PM
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Oh well then it's because the girl rejected them rather than his preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:39 AM
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60k is a lot, especially in 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:26 AM
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Men think of looks the same way you think of wage. I need tofind someone who cares about theur body at least as much as I do, but who cares about money... In fact, if she makes a lot then ahe can pay for both of us which would be great because I don't make much. That said, I would never choose a woman based on money and I tend to dislike high income people anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:24 AM
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They are..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:22 AM
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What about people who make less than 40k?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:22 AM
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Wut... everyone I see in Ca is skinny and young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:19 AM
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$60k is a lot of money. Also, 34 - 24 - 34 is hot. I don't understand the obesity thing, but I do understand money. I am not obese. I'm 5'8", as it happens, 180lbs ish but hace a body fat% of less than 15% (abs are visible). My goal is to get the body of an NFL running back, because I regret not pursuing profeasional athletics as a career, so it became my goal to prove to myself that I was physically capable of doing it. So that's that. I need to get to 195lbs - 215lbs at ~11% bodyfat or so. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:46 AM
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That is totally backwards. It's an effect of an unethical society, but that is no reason to sabatoge a naive and innocent love experience. How awful, to give up on real love because some unethical psychopath leaves you without good options in regards to money. You can also rebel with a man who also opposes such things. You may be financially poor, but you'll have genuine love. People who go the other way don't have that. If you become clever, you can still maintain your health and be poor but yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:41 AM
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Reverse everything and that's right. Men shouldn't have to bring anything except themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:36 AM
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I agree too, but even that has a limit: aging. Also livibng in poverty can undermine efforts. Combine the two: being poor under 35 can really ruin a lot of things that can't be taken back because of biological aging. That's a social injustice for sure. But I 100% believe rich yuppies fully understand this and are mostly abusive and so enjoy seeing others suffer to elevate themselves higher and remove competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:09 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:04 AM
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This is a fair point. I wonder how to combine them. Maybe they reject actual nice guys because they feel bad about themselves, so they choose an asshole because she feels more comfortable like she deserves it or something??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:01 AM
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Unless that is not that often. Maybe some woman will do that a few times in her lifeand then stop forever, but maybe 80% of all women will do the same. So Chad gets a lot of attention, but the individual woman doesn't invest much. May even be a negative experience for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:54 AM
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I keep hearing this porn comparison insecurity. That surprises me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:44 AM
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That is exactly how average men feel, probably even when talking to you -- if you match with average guys idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:41 AM
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This is like probably one of the only honest and not sarcastic posts I've ever seen from a woman in response to something I posted. I can tell you that men actually don't want a performance of acting, we don't want you to try and make the right face or sound... guys just want to see your honest expressions unfiltered. We get turned on if you have genuine arousal and pleasure from what we do to you. If you aren't feeling it, in a sense that's kind of on us. I think fake moaning in porn sucks. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:27 AM
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I see what you did there. Bleh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:05 PM
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It does make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:25 AM
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Girls loved when I used retinol. vit c and hyralauronic acid. When I couldn't afford using it anymore I noticed a noticable change of less positive attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:18 AM
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False positive. There's nothing there, it's Body Butter lotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:17 AM
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I was just thinking about this. If you go on looks, you're shallow. If you go on money, you're a gold digger. If you go on personality alone, you're too idealistic. So, how do you get real attraction (without idealism) without being shallow or materialistic? Here's how: people focus on their free will and their choices, but not for the purpose of gold digging... no... rather to maximize their health and well being. So, no added sugar, whole foods, track all the micro and macro nutrients, have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:41 AM
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The modern world is an oppressive lie. It is set up to create the illusion that the market is fair and just so that individuals are blamed for their destitution instead of those who create circumstances for others. Also, the ones benefiting from society also frame themselves as innocent by false-flagging groups they don't like. And a lot of women fall for it. Which is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:34 AM
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lmao. I mean, I see what you're getting at specifically but for me personally I will decide who to blame based only on the intentions of those who are in the situation. If someone acts in malice, then I would say they really are to blame. But otherwise I believe they're innocent. And malice even includes context, so for example if someone steals food from a market and they do it on purpose then they may be guilty but it may also turn out that they are stealing for an extrodinary reason like mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:27 AM
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I'm sure male clients don't help matters xD. However I have given two different strippers orgasms during lap dances actually... so idk. I didn't try to or anything, they were just into it. That was actually the first time I realized what erect nipples look like. The girl got embarassed too. It was actually cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:22 AM
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Hmm. I have strong opinions on this actually. I agree that personal responsibility is important. BUT, I also strongly believe in supporting victims and if somone gets hurt or injured due to not knowing (and not intending) that would happen, then I strongly believe they are not to blame as they didn't do it on purpose. I value intention extremely highly when it comes to ethics. I am not a consequentialist by any means. I strongly believe in the ethical framework of Thomas Aquinas and Aristotle. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:15 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:22 AM
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You're obviously a dbag either way. Which is to be expected for someone who prioritizes money. Money is sonething which acts as a barrier to divide limited resources, so you get the advantage of taking more for yourself. Which is exactly what someone lacking morals would do But again I get it. You need to afford rent. Cut throat is required by society. But you're still a dbag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:02 AM
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Just world fallacy. I refuse to compete in order to maintain morals and kindness. I'm not materialistic in nature, the only reason I care about your income is because it gentrifies my hometown. Otherwise I couldn't care less. However, I used to think engineers were highly intelligent people but now I no longer believe this. I now think engeers are mostly people who just do what society wants for an extrinsic motivation -- just the average college student I didn't think all that highly of back wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:48 AM
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I did, but I was one of those people who went full retard and majored in humanities and then became stubborn and cynical about 'selling out.' I pursued an intrinsic education, and did not factor money into the process at all. Like, I live by the theories of ethics I believe in and refuse to compromise my values etc. etc. Basically, college set me up to be a loser more or less. I'm not ugly though, so what happens in my life is I meet attractive girls in grocery stores, in the gym, parks, librari…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:49 AM
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No the appartments can be afforded on $10k/month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:47 AM
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You know I was just thinking about this. Why do all the hot girls flock to the most expensive places to live??? Then I thought something really cynical and wanted to not think it was because they're all gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:45 AM
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Amazing you get that much with your lack of maturity, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:42 AM
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I just don't see why the amount of money matters anyway. Not saying you're wrong, just that maybe those girls are kind of stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:39 AM
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When you hunt and gather you aren't guaranteed to find anything. Society is fake. Employment is unnatural where you are guaranteed a wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:24 AM
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I wouldn't feel a need to show special appreciation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:01 AM
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No. I treat everyone the same. The only time I change how I treat someone is if they were exceptionally rude, and then I really change my tone and stop caring about their well-being. But generally I treat everyone with respect and genuine regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:00 AM
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It would make sense if a minority of guys are getting the most sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:58 AM
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Lmao. Actually, where I'm at is not that different from Dubai. Literally the richest place in the entire world, 8/10 of the worlds wealthiest companies are located here -- 2 of them richer than Saudi Aramco...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:45 AM
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Well, 23 - 24 includes new grads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:43 AM
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That would be northern California. But please don't contribute to this. Natives see tech bro transplants as a problem for the community because they don't understand the local culture and bring their own culture of materialism and arrogance. But you see a lot of rich ugly guys with hot wifes, and a lot of tall rich good looking guys with hot wifes and kids under 30. Ivy league grad types. A typical tech bro lifestyle is ~$120,000/year at age 23 with about ~$3500/month rent luxury appartment. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:09 AM
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Hmm. Well I've lived there for about 30 years now. lols. I typically don't see many fat girls. But maybe I just find more women attractive than is normal xD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:01 AM
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How tall are you? A 5'7" girl is already among the tallest women in the world. Usuly a 5'7" girl would go for a 5'10 guy or 5'11" guy. a 5'11" girl goes with a 6'2" - 6'4" guy. a 5'4" girl goes with a 5'6" - 5'8" guy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:49 AM
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No it's real world experience. There are hotties everywhere. Fat girls are rare, an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:46 AM
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I actually find tall women with tall men IRL. It seems like women intentionally pair up with guys 2" - 4" taller than them on purpose to allow all women to have a guy they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:37 AM
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Damn... that was a low blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:35 AM
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In California cities, virtually no women are fat. They're mostly all hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:33 AM
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But it isn't a requirement. Being someone who works out and has good proportions can also do it. Or if you have a good beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:30 AM
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It probably depends on the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:59 AM
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My view is distorted by the high COL area I'm in I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:57 AM
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That makes sense. It's what I see IRL in a high COL area.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:55 AM
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It's actually narcissism. Narcisissim ties all three together, because money prevents loss of looks with time due to less adversity and enough money to purchase anti-aging products like retinol skincare and rogain. Often more money means less time to perfect cooking your own food, but if you 80/20 food with takeout using a big salary you'll be better off than if you perfected your diet but lived in a car and only worked part time (unless you got legit 3m tint that filters all UV light on all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:15 AM
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He provably hid his living situation. One could take a shower at a gym, eat healthy and live in a car and look good and walk downtown at night looking good, being friendly and fun and getting a girl. But if they are seen in a messey car with trash everywhere and grocery bags all over they are getting rejected lol. Janky towels covering the windows to block the sun etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:34 AM
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Chad can get girls but even Chad has dealbreakers. He has to fit into normal social expectations, like he has to not live in poverty for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:19 PM
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Nah it's because Boomers are getting older/senior citizen status and are doing senior things dropping out of society. Gen X has always disliked Gen Y (jealous) because Boomers loved us more. Now Gen X are the middle aged generation, so they're who you hear most online today along with their kids gen z. Gen Z can date their own age (and many do) but I feel a general sentiment of dissapointment from gen z women because they want a slightly older guy but most of us are broke or inexperienced becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:32 AM
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Actually I think millenial women had it easier. I see lots of gen z women struggling, espscially older gen z girls. IMO, younger millenials (now age 28 - 31) got screwed over by women their own age because they hooked up with older guys via Tinder 10 years ago. They abandoned the men their age and created a lost generation of men. Now, the gen z girls have this lost generation as their dating pool. A lot of dejected 30 year old yonger millenials who are broke, virgins or both, because they've li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:05 AM
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A girl once took me to a Weinerschnitzle, and I didn't care xD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:00 PM
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Yeah but that's also a trash mindset because you celebrate their failure. There does need to be some kind if population control though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:11 PM
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Yeah. I feel as though the childfree movement is a self-ddestructive tendency as in the people doing it lean towards masochism. If the wotld is truly so shitty that you feel your child would he worse off being born, then that is a failure of society 100%. That should not be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:42 AM
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That's basically loser talk. It isn't about being remembered, it's about survival instincts. Parents live on inside their children, their genetic code is there. The people alive today were alive since the beginning (which is actually pretty profound imo). A gene pool dying off with no decendents is a sad thing, especially if they die virgins. Not because they miss out of sexual pleasure, but because they're failures of life and being a human being. Sure pleasure is a tiny part, but the main weig…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:37 AM
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Well... then there's nothing to really discuss. They already don't exist anymore (figuratively). Natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:49 AM
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Well... actually some guys might never have sex at all unless they decide to do it with something they aren't really physically attracted to. It's happened before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:04 AM
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Those women's genes won't make it to the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:00 AM
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I was just writting about how psychopaths do this to women. They present all the trivial stuff on a woman's list, and they have a $750,000 house because they're psychopaths. They just do whatever is required to get what is required by any means available. Then, they just say what a girl wants to here and fucks her and then repeats this with as many women as humanely possible. They never loved anyone. It's all just an act. They just crave novelty and physical attraction. All the junk on a woman's…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:53 AM
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I live in place where this is overrepresented. Rent starts at $3500/month for a studio/1 bedroom. Lots of people making $500,000/year under 30 and even under 27. Lots of these people are from rich families and are assholes or psychopaths themselves. That's why I'm going on and on about it. I am surrounded by these types. I realize averags places are not like this. This is one major way education and money corrupt. Education becomes a means to an end, based on exclusivity and low acceptance rates…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:41 AM
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I was reading this kind of intuitive analysis is more common in women due to more brain matter in the corpus collosum. Now, I consider myself good at analysis of literature and symbolism (I wa an english-literature minor and got all As and Bs in those courses and A's in writting courses). But even so, you're picking up on all kinds of stuff I didn't think about or notice. How do you think women control false positives? I was reading that women may be more superstitious because of this same effec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:11 AM
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That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:09 AM
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There is some truth to all that. I've experienced what you mean by 'defective (detecting)' too. There have been times in my life where I have said to myself 'something's wrong with her. Her detector's off.' when even I understood that I wasn't in a good position to date (financially). I forgot about that whole idea though until you reminded me of it. But what does Elon give off? He's not physically abusive, right? Maybe emotionally abusive (probably)? He's not gonna sex traffic people... (though…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:08 AM
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Or you could never join in and always be out. aka van life. Still need money for food, but way easier than paying for housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:58 AM
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So it's about watching what happens to other women who date him??? That's interesting. I have never thought that way before. What about guys without any dating history. I also find it interesting that Bluebeard is also a story about murdering wives. Always death and muder orviolence that women bring up but it sounds insane from the perspective of normal guys because normal people aren't murderers. A normal guy might worry about dissapointing a girl with his unprestigous job or his sagging earlob…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:32 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:43 PM
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I will say this. One major advantage you have is that you are funny. Funny women are super rare. You can stand out without having to show your tits. That's pretty amazing. And you aren't even being sarcastic, that's what makes it even funnier and better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:34 PM
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Interesting you bring up 'reputation.' Though I'm not sure I'm totally right that a good story is equal to reputation. Maybe 'potential reputation' is more like it. I do see the appeal of a good hero's journey irl. There definitely is something to admire about that, when people face impossible odds and still keep their integrity or do something admirable. But as Batman says, 'Either you die the hero, or you live long enough to become the villian.' That's Musk. He was once the hero, but is now th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:30 PM
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That all actually sounds very normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:23 PM
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Isn't it only naive becausevwomen value earning potential more? If women loved you, you'd be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:20 PM
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You're right but this is surprising. Looks and money were not at the top during my childhood, but I'm 29 so I'm a milennial. I was kid before 2008, so feminism and casual sex were not popular when I was growing up. Childhood shows displayed the pre-2008 nice-guy rom-com where he gets the hot girl for being ethical and kind to others. In contrast, gen z grew up with aggressive hip-hop music and casual sex culture looking 'normal.' To me, that's abnormal and weird. To this day, I'm generally not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:10 PM
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I would question that and say that it is ethically questionable to accept high pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:04 PM
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That must be why you are happily married. :) Lucky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:59 PM
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I don't undrrstand the 'levels' thing. Employees are taken advantage of by employers, even highly paid employees. Claiming there exist 'levels' and buying into the ponzi luxury goods scheme is just stupid. All that materialistic stuff is a gimmick to keep people working, it's just fluff. Often there are higher quality cheaper options available to buy as well. It really makes no sense. Respecting cost of living is more reasonable, but even that is determined by employers as the pay rates of emplo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:54 PM
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It is true that different moral systems contradict each other. Consequentialists offend deontologists and vice versa. They'd probably hate each other. There's also virtue ethics, religion etc. I guess I would value empathy as the foundation of what I consider ethical, combined with not being allowed to assume consent of others. So that makes me anti-ultilitarian and anti-consequencltialist. I personally agree with Philipa Foot's revised-2008 view presented in 'Turning the Trolley (2008)' which s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:55 PM
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"If you had a pussy and were smart about how you used it, you'd make damn sure you weren't out here undergoing the risk of pushing some ugly broke dude's fat-headed baby out your pussy, blowing up your entire life and that of the baby's in the process." LMAOOOO. You at least had me laughing today. Thst is a fair point. But, I would think that people would also value moral charachter as more important than earning potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:51 PM
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Damn. This result makes me feel dissapointed in the quality of women to choose from in todays world. Slim pickings I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:47 PM
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Academia has more intelligent people than IT and medecine...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:46 PM
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But rereading your original comment, I tbink you're right. I just disagree on the cause of why men are failing today. I blame the housing shortage and income inequality, and I blame narcissists and psychopaths for both of tbose two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:44 PM
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Okay, I see half-truths there. If they aren't acting on evolutionary instincts then why can a person who shows all the traits you talked about but is completely broke only have sex with people in 'his own social class?' Do you see the problem there? The contradiction? Also, why else would psychopathy be overrepresented at the top of the hierarchy?? Do you think that is an accident?? Helloooo. Earth to 115ron: That is an evolutionary instinct. That's what I've been saying. That's why it is so. Ps…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:06 PM
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This is the premise of a book called 'Paper is White' where Holocoust survivors went silent about what happened, and non-Jews (anglo whites) filled in the story their own way and gave birth to denying its existence. The moral was, if you don't tell your own story someone else will fill it in for you and you may not like the way they portray things. On the other hand, women need to get better at critical thinking and accepting personal responsibility. Women need to be able to tell the difference …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:52 PM
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This is the premise of a book called 'Paper is White' where Holocoust survivors went silent about what happened, and non-Jews (anglo whites) filled in the story their own way and gave birth to denying its existence. The moral was, if you don't tell your own story someone else will fill it in for you and you may not like the way they portray things. On the other hand, women need to get better at critical thinking and accepting personal responsibility. Women need to be able to tell the difference …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:52 PM
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Prada is literally a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:37 PM
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That is the premise of wanting sex.... helloooo. Lmao. Do you expect them to be Kens with no dicks? The purpose of a penis is to stick it in a vagina. The purpose of aporoaching a woman isn't to act like you have no dick. If guys had no dicks, we wouldn't care whether or not women existed. It'd make no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:21 PM
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What's so great about white guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:18 PM
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I think it will stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:05 PM
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That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:46 PM
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What I see in tech is that in the beginning it was full of innocent geeks who had a passion for 3d computer graphics and arts and media, text fonts etc. Then, once it became a get rich at a young age scheme, that's when a bunch of rich kids and enterprising people decided to study computer science and then it became a field for assh*les who just cared about getting rich (aka psychopaths). That's where it currently sits. Blinds is testament to this. I live near Apple and have family near Meta, Ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:10 PM
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That's called being a sarcastic narcissist, but that is the culture of tech. I feel there are many dark triads at the stupidly named 'FAANG' companies. Goes to show how Asian biased the industry is. I'm growing to dislike Asian culture these days tbh. I find it all off putting and narcissitic, psychopathic. But... picking up and moving seems more just like a natural instinct than some intentional act of 'showing strength.' I thought everyone did that...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:07 AM
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Women are hypocrites. It's so obvious. They'll sit and swipe on Tinder in a room full of single men who are low income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:01 AM
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It isn't because of socialization, it's because of money. Money is manipulated by decendents of chimpanzees to abuse and harm the majority of people for the benefit of a few psychopathic men. You can only be comfortable + relaxed and light hearted if you are financially secure. And finances are intentionally manipulated so that only a minority can be financially secure, thus this is by design to make sex accessible only to the chosen minority, ~20% - 30% of society. However, this whole charade/s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:30 PM
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Yeah I find girls only flirt after they cone back from a gym or something. I never got that as it made no difference to me since I already found them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:25 AM
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You know what's really odd, I've only had women orgasm when we weren't having sex. One girl squirted (twice) while talking to me on her last day of work, while rocking back an forth in her chair. She was just smiling and said my name afterward. Like, she convinced herself. All I did was sit there and talk to her like I always did. I also have two strippers orgasms during lapdances. Like I was just normal and playful with one before hand and the other I think was just really horny and a single mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:21 AM
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In my opinion, that just speaks to the flaws of women culture. I think that's pretty stupid given your kids will have higher chances for defects and dissabilities. On the other hand, this is created by design in patriarchical social designs. The need for money causes women to becone like that as a manipulation of them. However, I still think you're right. But an old broke guy does not benefit from being old. Youth still trumps old when money is held constant. Therefore, a young rich man is bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:39 PM
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I saw a single girl early 20's fart in a public library, I didn't care. She looked human.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:17 PM
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I don't really get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:15 PM
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Ick needs to go. It's immature. If you can't laugh at yourself and not care about tripping or dropping a grocery that is truly sad. I actually feel bad for women who live in constant fear of looking bad. Must be stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:09 PM
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Just world fallacy. People want to believe the world is just to justify their own beliefs so that they don't think less of themselves by realizing their success might just have been luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:57 AM
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Age, looks and money (you need all 3). Be under 27, make $100,000/year and be good looking. That is what girls want, especially early 20's and mid 20's girls. Teen girls and 20 year olds don't care about money, but they care more about age. You need to be 26 or younger for them and be good looking (or at least be trying to look good). Some girls will also allow an artistic career to substitute for not making 6 figures, but it has tobe legitimate (photographer, painter, filmmaker/producer/writer,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:11 AM
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Probably just asocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:05 AM
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I find society also hates homeless men, but I can't find any ovjective reason why homelessness is worthy of hatred other than it goes against the christian culture of avoiding laziness. A homeless person may spend lots of time doing nothing. But the ironic thing is also that they don't do anything, so why hate that? Seems connected to the hatred of incels, the same sort of mindset. They both do nothing and get hated for it. They don't do anything wrong, they just also refrain from doing what's e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:57 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:54 PM
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Is that really it? That can't be it. Why would a virgin be a serial killer? Usually they're just poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:52 PM
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I love that you exposed the true colors of the conputer science world: using people to get rich while creating bad but addictive products that use people as a means to an ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:30 AM
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I honestly was mentally middle aged at 19 years old, because I literally wanted honest marriage with a teen like me at that age and to live happily ever after for several decades... but nooooo. Boy did my generation screw me over. Nobody wanted that. Everyone was just goofing around taking advantage of their parents' money, so that's what I did at 23 after giving up. Now I'm basically just a wandering soul drifting aimlessly, dejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:03 AM
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Well your comments have been really helpful actually. I find it hard to understand the consequentialist thing honestly. I couldn't bring myself to work for psychopaths, I just couldn't do it. I would get into a fight with them tbh. But I wouldn't be in that position to begin with frankly, I'd take steps to work around them by opposing them on the market even if it was harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:47 AM
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That al sounds nornal to me. I think the conflict comes only in how it's done vs what is done. I think white culture cares more about the means to ends, even if the ends are the same. I mean that in every circumstance, not just moving to take care of family. I wouln't think that was a bad idea, but doing something I found unethical to accomplish that goal I would reject. In general I think it is accurate to describe asian cultures as consequentialist. Just doing whatever to achive some end goal …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:31 AM
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What am I missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:17 AM
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But, guys tend to lie up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:50 AM
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Still only double digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:49 AM
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Not really. I believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:49 AM
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You can't tell those things without knowing them. Women do tend to like their proxies but not the actual thing per say. Being wealthy means being cheap, for example. Otherwse you can't really get wealthy. Etc. And more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:21 PM
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I disagree. I was a varsity athelete and I personally disliked partying. Yet, I also dislike working. Now I'm actually broke, basically doing whatever I want (no job, just gig work). I get hit on a lot, but often I get rejected once my income is found out. I don't care. I just like the attention, it tells me I'm not ugly. That's enough for me. I also hate stuck up people and elitism, so I could never date anyone remotely like that. I frequently get into honking fights on the road with cocky driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:17 PM
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That's pretty stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:14 PM
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Now that is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:43 AM
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It's easier to trust a jerk who acts like a jerk than to trust someone who's actually nice What?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:41 AM
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Well I grew up under a rock with some degree of ASPD and badically no socializing except with cashiers and classmates and my definition of a nice guy is a literal dictionary definition if you combine the two words logically: Polite, Kind; Virtuous, Respectable + Man, Fellow = Nice Guy, lterally. I don't know why groups of people need to change the meanings of words into some in-group slang alternative meaning. However, it is still my experience that kind and polite males are not sexually active …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:35 AM
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No...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:54 PM
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That should become a normalized thing. That's exactly what we need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:54 PM
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I did, it's too passive. If your home is well funded then you're insulated from the ills being caused to others and become disconected and complicit. If your husband does ethical work, then okay. However, most high income men are unethical in some ways. They have to be as it's pretty much required to become high income at all. The exception are technical wonks, who are innocent up to a point. You know, if you do a bunch of stuff in your adolescence to try and become well off and then you do actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:25 AM
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Yes sort of, but more than that we need a revamping of business ethics where current practices of wage theft, housing shortages, food desserts, occuparional hazards, lack of healthcare etc are considered unethical. We need to get rid of the thought that anyone in a bad situation deserves it and start to realize that, actually, people in good situations are to blame for causing other peoples' bad situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:07 AM
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There's also regular people living in poverty, homeless people, disrespectful treatment of people who do unskilled work etc. We allow people to tear their arms off in factory machines, the eldery to die of starvation, the homeless to freeze to death at night, the average person to develop kidney disease and cancer -- terminal illnesses -- due to malnourshment and pollution, premature aging, sleep deprivation, sexual abuse, bullying the list goes on and on and at the end of the chain is a man and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:23 PM
2

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:18 PM
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It's basically like being a bystander. If society itself was ethical, then there'd be no problem. But since it isn't standing by and doing nothing is totally complicit. At least work on improving things in some way or another without just allowing social ills by doing nothing at all. It's obvious that taditional men will oppose ethics as they always have so it's up to women to save the world, but they can't do that if they're cleaning the porch all day and God knows what else, laundry, dishes, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:17 PM
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Feminism has always advocted for equality of outcomes not just for women but in general. Equity in education, pay, lifestyle, effort at work, housing etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:38 PM
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I actually do live like that. I live in a car, work only the bare minimum to survive, and shop conciously of social and environmental justice. I struggle to find an ethical way to make money, it's quite surprising to me as this is my introduction to adulthood. Childhood was good, I don't have a lot to complain about there. But now I realize that many unethical things were going on behind the scenes back then and today. Feminism also associates itself with social justice issues like minority equi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:36 PM
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Well I guess there's a reason two gay guys can't produce children without a woman. Nature built this bottleneck on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:53 AM
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It's the great eqializer: the easier it is to get, the less people want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:30 AM
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I mean, it was a liberal coastal suburb. I'm pretty sure they were. The whole small town leaned alt, but surrouding cities are more mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:03 AM
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Hmmmm. That sounds pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:57 AM
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Red states must be way different because I can't relate to this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:53 AM
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That's wild. Where I'm from Alt was normal growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:52 AM
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Hmm. I think the guys who struggle are actualky like 'I tried to do well in school but sortcof failed. Tried to apply for ambitous work, but my applications were rejected so now I just work at a retail store and rent a room. I can't really afford good nutrition, clothes or toiletries, so my skin is kind of bad and I'm skinny fat. And I grew up middle class so I didn't have a super stable hone so I'm kind of stunted and disproportionate in hieght.' Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:51 AM
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I see. It makes sense. Though, it also seems to make fitness impossible if you can't control your food and limit alcohol. I guess it's not so bad though, at least the food probably tastes good and you get to have an income that probably pays enough money to afford rent or housing of some kind to not be homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:14 AM
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What if you don't drink alcohol in Japan? Or follow a strict diet so only eat at home and not at resteraunts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:03 AM
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I think Japanese women just have low sex drives due to high estrogen and low testosterone. And maybe also poor diet/nutrition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:27 AM
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US women have competition overseas now is what I mean. Men are spending their resources elsewhere on other women instead of them, hence they now have to compete with these foriegn women for men's resources. In this sort of way at least, it's like the female equivalent of how Tinder affects males.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:22 AM
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lmao, more competition for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:34 AM
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Idk man, pretty sure feminists want husbands. They just can't find them easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:30 AM
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I wonder why it's called 'booby trap' now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:38 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:37 AM
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This is so true. I find that real feminism is anti-hookup and pro genuine romance actually. This checks out with the fact that most women don't even like hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:52 PM
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I'm living exactly how I want with maximal freedom. Other people get jealous that I can do whatever I want because the local police have allowed me to cook in a portable grill and sleep in the car without being ticketed. In other words, I have permission to not have to work full time. I personally think nobody should work more than 20 hours a week. The rest should be spent on resting and cooking. People act like working is their whole life, like a job defines them. Meanwhile, I'm the opposite. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:00 AM
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Yes, and despite that my health is above average and my body is coming along nicely to how I'd like it to be and I sleep as much as I need with no alarm clocks. There are people out there working harder than me sleep drepriving themselves eating junk food making more money than me and in worse health than I am. They're doing worse in the grand scheme of things because they're getting more biological damage. I may outlive them and be in better health longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:44 AM
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I'm not complaining. I'm good as I havs everything I need. In fact, I'm doing pretty well for working 20 hours a week (I rarely do 25, usually 21.5 or 22). People working retail make less than I do, but I can't make as much as salaried workers unless I started a sucessful business. I have considered sba loans. If I had a business I could set my own hours and that'd be that. I already know this is the only way I can sustainably increase my income. Full time work isn't really for me and I'm not re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:35 AM
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Lmao, I'll get a bed when the housing shortage is over. Until then there's no way. I spend too much on food for that and I only work about 20 - 25 hours per week even fhough my wage is above minimum wage part time hours makes it basically the same as a full time minimum wage worker and I refuse to work full time for one person. For two, maybe I would...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:36 AM
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Well the whole point is I am fine, thus, they don't matter. In fact, I'm better than fine as my health is far above average. Personally, I am thriving. However, socially a lof of people hate that I get to live in an expensive area for free without paying any rent. One old man repeatedly calls the police when I'm out cooking at night and is a dick every morning he goes to feed the ducks in the nearby park. Frankly, that's their problem as far as I am concerned because they're the ones getting ang…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:27 AM
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I disagree. I support the notion that money doesn't matter and that people should choose lovers innocently without regard for finances. Innocence is the true essence of real love, anything else is corrupt. If you're intelligent, you can get everything you need with minimal effort though necessarily unconventionally. I have never worked 40 hours per week for example. Yet, I manage to have flawless nutrition and one of the best bodies in my gym (because I'm super anal about nutrition). The trade o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:56 AM
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Yes, in high cost of living areas. Women are usually cowards with money. They care more about being able to buy things than pretty much anything else, even tolerating physical abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:54 AM
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You already are if you can niether steal norafford what you need. You may as well already be in prison. What difference would it make?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:11 PM
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Why would you believe that sexual activity was not guaranteed? What's the point of having a good functioning penis if you never get to use it... that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:08 AM
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Why not just steal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:35 AM
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Great points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:16 AM
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Idk, I met my soul mate at 19. I never married her but I wish I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:54 AM
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Whatever. Finance bros and tech bros are the same. They're both amoral pricks. Bill Gates is a smart guy, but trust me he's not scary smart. However he is buying up all the farm land in the US. That is pretty smart as food is a commodity and probavly the koat fundamental one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:16 AM
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They're definitely not the most intelligent people on earth... those would be people like Terrance Tao and others like him plus undiscovered minds scattered around the world. The closest corporate elites can get to that is peopke like Bill Gates, who I would consider intelligent but he's not scary intelligent. He's like a baseline normal standard to define what intelligent even means. There are people out there with iq's of like 180+ who are legitimately scary. Aa far as corporate psychopaths go…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:08 AM
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I don't actually underestimate them, I just wanted to write something that sounded negatuve. :P I know that they are in fact intelligent, but probably not that intelligent. Like, sure iq's in the 140's I'd believe that. Over 160? Sure some but way less than all. I generally set the cut off for 'intelligent' at around 160. If you consider an iq of 130 to be the cut off then they're all intelligent. And so are software engineers and lawyers. There's intelligent, and then there's intelligent intell…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:49 AM
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Elite men aren't intelligent, they're just rude and lacking both anxiety and empathy. They don't deserve positive words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:52 AM
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I've seen 30 year old traumatized women. They see attractive men in their late 20's trigger some kind of ptsd reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:31 AM
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Narcissstic abuser if has money for rent or nice guy loser finishing last if does not have enough money for rent living with mom. There is no inbetween. Pick your poision, but personally if I was a girl I'd pick the nice guy loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:00 AM
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I agree sadly. It'll e the same or probably more like the reat of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:24 AM
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Plus will people of color actually be any better if given power?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:23 AM
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Even I agree with this, xD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:49 AM
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The fifth girl, with the L, is actually good looking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:52 AM
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I've never seen or done this before, and I'm male. I can see narcisissits behaving this way though, but I can assure you they treat men just as badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:49 AM
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Indian people are also not innocent victims, the culture is very rude and hierarchical. They have a dark malicous nature hidden below the hindu virtue signaling. It's mostly all fake narcissism. There's a minority of very kind and empathetic people, and a majority of liars imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:54 AM
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Dude they're obvuously in a bad mood ranting on reddit. This whole post is just bait. Best to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:33 AM
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LMAO. So true. Also, a poor guy can also claim to only like women younger than 30 as a physical preference. Since he's poor, he has no status to manipulate anyone. So that takes care of that objection logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:07 AM
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Yeah it's just wealth. Women in my area choose ugly young guys too if they make 6 figures. I see it all the time. Ugly young asian guys making a lot of money with hot girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:30 AM
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It's possible, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:22 AM
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This is why I want to try dating catholics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:29 AM
1

I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:43 AM
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What does working a job in society have to do with masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:27 AM
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Wow. Pretty lame its only 11%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:24 AM
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I think it's a thing. That or hot girls are more confident and open minded as to who they are willing to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:23 AM
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That makes sense. 25 is the best age for physical attraction. I got lots of attention at 25 too. Sadly I never had a good income to make anything of those opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:23 AM
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I guess you're right. Hard to deny in my head what I think is the formula. Basically, over 6'1", symmetric face, proportionate body, good haircut, not low testosterone, not fat, overall athletic, good jaw and bone structure and as a wobbler dark hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:10 AM
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I guess. That is definitely the optimist's answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:08 AM
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Are you pretty tall and young? Like over 6'2"? I'm just mostly curious. From what I see, the best looking guys around are taller than 6'2" without being disproportionate and with having symmetric faces and being under 27 y/o with a good haircut. And if you are that height, how tall are your parents/what do you think made you get to be that tall growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:07 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:02 AM
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I see. Wild hecause it can damage a guy's confidence, and then a better looking giel comes a long and it's like 'wtf, you're hotter than the other girl. Wtf is going on.' It's genuinely confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:17 AM
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I kind of agree with this now actually. Matches my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:28 AM
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Realizing today's 23 year old women are worse in personality than just 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:10 AM
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This is gen z for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:09 AM
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That's becauae our choices of women are limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:34 AM
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Plus it's so context dependent. If no one knows my job, I literaly attract hot 10's like the far right girl in your photo. Then, once they learn my job they leave immediately because it can't afford to pay rent in my area. Incredibly, I have been straight up homeless no shower for a week and still attract hot girls who don't know my situation. Once they find out, they bail immediately. Back when I worked retail I had whole joint hooked, lots of hot teens and early 20's. They obviously knew my in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:49 AM
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Not if they want equal outcomes and are currently unable to get laid. They can be consistent/justified in complaining that women will have lots of sex with lots of people and still not have sex with them in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:43 AM
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I want casual sex without jumping through hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:38 AM
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Only way to reverse the threat is to provide sexual expwrience though. Avoiding the issue only makes it worse, all they need to turn into regular guys is the formative experience of being accepted by an attractive woman and exleriencing sex with someone they're attracted to. Skipping that life stage completely disrupts the maturity process.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:10 PM
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It's not even about looks. You can be good looking and be socially a weirdo who is way different from most normal people in values and be rejected by a majority like nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:15 AM
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This doesn't help social minorities at all. It simply justifies marginialization of people who differ from you in beliefs...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:14 AM
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Frankly I support neither. I like an egalitarian equal outcome society. This means I like monogomy for equal outcomes but I dislike its hierarchies. I like the egaitarianism of feminism but dislike that it has unequal outomes. So I like niether.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:25 AM
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Truthfully I'm just annoyed at the diversity of women's preferences and personalities. Because of the expressive gender norms, you always get an opinion expressed sometines positive sometimes negative. When out in public some young women will make disgusted faces and some will eye fuck me. I don't really get it. It gets exhuasting, like information overload just walking around in public. But anyway, I find people who like the way I look irl and people who really hate the way I look irl. I've alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:46 AM
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That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:51 PM
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Upper and lower imo also have higher rates of psychopathy and narcissism, which could explain what you're talking about. Upper and lower may just not give a fuck due to being dark triad in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:25 PM
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Social psychology backs this up -- proximity is the greatest prefictor of relationships. The best thing anyone can do is live close to the types of women you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:22 PM
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Great post. I think this is probably right. Also I lol'ed at "why is he just standing there doing nothing" as a guy the reason is I'm taking the damn photo with a camera in my hand! xD Requiring action shots ia just too much xD. Need to hire a whole camera crew to document your life just for a...dating app. Wow. I can't believe people want action shots, snapped mid activity. I am too present to take photos of my daily activities. I can either do an activity or I can do taking a picture, I can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:03 PM
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Personally it makes no sense to me. But I never integrated into society. I just kept doing what I wanted into adulthood (like a kid more or less) as everyone else around me started acting different with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:18 PM
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The test would be interesting to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:54 PM
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The thing to target is actually slut shaming. Reveal her body count and seethe reactions for varying levels of hotness and sexual opportunities presented on the table. Guys will probably change their tune when given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:42 PM
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Honestly, not many. This is a good point that shoukd he spoken about more to be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:32 PM
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It just makes us feel ugly to be left out. Most guys would probably stop complaining about all the negative tropes of cadual sex if every guy had an equal amount of it as every other guy so that it was sone kind of communist sexual redistribution thing. Slut shaming comes from jealousy and feeling left out/secual inequality. "If I can't have it, then no one can."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:20 PM
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Natural selection has favored the assholes for some unknown reason. My strong suspicon is money is to blame. As getting more money correlates positively with narcissism and psychopathy and machiavelianism. Many girls are brainwashed into thinking that having money is a foundational prerequisite even if the accompanying personality is bad. A good persomality is worthless if they don't have money. Now, capitalism has money set to be a free for all competition thus narcissists and psychopaths get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:42 PM
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I know, but there are many out there. Fortunately there is slso diversity of personality so not only these types. Younger people these days are rude motherf*ckers high in narcissism. I'm just thankful good people still exist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:38 PM
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I meanse diverse in personality and cultural values --multiculturalism. There's a blend of rude women, people pleasers, aloof women, nuerotic women, kind women and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:26 PM
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I never 'perform' honeatly. I'm not a typical person these days though. I have more in common with boomers than younger people tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:20 PM
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The saddest things I've ever seen are women rejecting men in person and then opening a dating app to start swipping in front of them. It was truly revolting to see. However, I also see a lot of oppositely good things. People are more diverse today than ever before. The bad people are worse than ever, but there's also lots of diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:21 PM
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One paycheck away sure, but most actual homeless people are also not having sex as well.Just wanted to share the other side of that coin for completeness. Being almost homeless is acceptable, being full homeless, apparantly, is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:38 PM
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Still feels like an eterninity to a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:44 PM
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I think current 30 year olds were abused more by women our age on OLD and younger women today treat you guys better whike being less open to age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:39 PM
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It's the younger generation. They don't care. Somehow Gen X was/were big assholes deep down and their kids are just showing their true colors tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:23 PM
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No because guys are rejected by 21 year olds before they turn 25 - 30. 30 is the first time in their lives that they're allowed by hot 21 year olds to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:00 PM
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Modern medecine is the only good thing about society. I admit that. And I actually do believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:41 AM
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Society is to blame tbh. Hunter gathers worked less than modern people. Modern society is bad for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:22 PM
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It's the world. I'd rather homestead than work for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:21 PM
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This is why I hate society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:20 PM
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Actually I have tried some stuff that didn't work out. Chose the wrong school, ruined my life. Been screwed ever since. Not into inequalities in general, but I definitrly am not putting in work to be engaged in society. I'm working hard to actually stay disengaged, but I still want the benefits of being equals. So entitled coward isn't super inaccurate, just a little inaccurate. I waa raised to brlieve that you just get whatever you need mostly automatically by virtue of basically common decency…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:44 PM
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Yeah, but honestly then I'd be part of the problem. Plus I don't want to work hard...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:42 PM
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No it's definitely a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:41 PM
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I mean... same difference. I have lived my life to avoid the system thus far, not participate in it, to avoid the self-sacrafice necessary to aquire money like sleep deprivation, occupational hazards, workplace injuries etc. I've basically managed to pull off being a 'concientous objector' for some time now. But, it has failed in one crucial aspect which is that I didn't expect society to be so willing to just allow someone to starve in the street. Really lowered my opinion of the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:38 PM
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I don't even rate people, but you're still right. I just go by whether or not I get a nervous feeling in my gut. Hot = butterflies when I just randomly see them. I don't do the whole 1 - 10 thing. I just go hy physiology. If my body reacts, then they're hot. My fear of attractive people makes me unable to speak to them normally as people because I'm having panic symptoms when they're near me. It's a legit phobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:31 AM
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What about love for the other person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:29 AM
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I know it's true that many young city couples are unhappy. I believe that's because people go by things that society values rather than what they value. I see unhappiness with women and couples often. That makes it worse imo. I'm just upset that I have had the chance to do something well in dating, and I wasted the opportunity for young love. Getting grey hairs is mentally messing with my head too. A few years ago I had no greys. Now I do, and it depresses me because it is a sign of aging. Money…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:19 AM
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I'll try this out next time. Seems like good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:30 AM
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Thing is I've always wanted to try having sex with a good looking person in their eaely 20's and I'm starting to think that may never happen and it kind of gives me depression. I feel like I got skipped over and that I'll never know that life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:26 AM
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It doesn't matter because the working class in the US can't afford to have things they need anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:47 AM
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I mean, there's deginitely hot people out there. I'm just annoyed that somewhere along the line I picked up these cumulative insecurities that just make me unable to reciprocate attraction. I'm not even sure when it exactly happened, probably a cumulative thing. It's annoying because I'm rejecting them by basically not engaging. I used to think I was bad looking but I've recently been hit on by enough hot women to put it through my head that this is not really the case. Looking back, I realized …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:58 AM
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I tjink this is actually right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:19 AM
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Financial stability... you can't jusge that on appearance. Anyone can literally have any degree of wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:19 AM
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That doesn't bother me as much as my penis touching another guy's semen. But how can I prevent it? The only way is to ask a girl the last time she had sex. Plus, it seems reasonable to lie about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:52 PM
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Dude: https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Sexual-Health/How-long-does-semen-remain-in-a-vagina/show/2816481 "Actual semen has been found up to a week (7 days) after intercourse in some women. Keep in mind a few things; the vagina secretes a natural discharge which helps flush (clean out) semen, and gravity eventually will play a role in the semen leaking out on it's own. Yes, some can be washed away, but there would still be some present in the vagina. Urinating could flush away some of the semen arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:32 AM
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Yeah idk man. I read it can stay in for up to 5 days afterwards. That's pretty gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:29 AM
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You're not grossed out by other mens' semen?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:00 AM
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Confirms blackpill theory if true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:43 PM
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The cause is Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:26 AM
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Yeah but it's still nice to see a 3d body rather than a 2d image. There's also smells and social interactions. Even if fake, are still an upgrade to porn. Plus, sometimes they also get actually aroused if you're not bad looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:43 PM
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Not to worry, men can shut it off if we are ignored but this does cause the agnst of people like Eliot Rodger. It basically feels the same as forcing yourself not to yawn when you have to yawn or forcing yourself not to sneeze when you have to sneeze. It's about the same level of physical discomfort and pain hence the expression blue balls which refers to a swollen clogged feeling in the scrotum not unlike the pain in your sinuses if you prevent or block a sneeze, and it really does lead to comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:48 AM
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Makes sense. I'll rethink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:02 AM
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No I haddn't thought of that. I actually figured they'd just seduce someone with enough money and move in with them to prevrnt becomming homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:41 AM
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I finally understand the genders. Took me 15 yeara to figure it out, but I can see it now. I can finally see the continuity between preteen girls, teen girls, 20's, 30's and 40's. I can finally see the symmetry between the women in my family and women I'm sexually attracted to, and just women I don't personally know as a gender as a whole. I was never able to link up the non-sexual and sexual sides of women before now, but now I finally get it. They're essentially the same person, after all. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:08 AM
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This doesn't explain why I got no fwb's when I was 22. I think it is a holistic thing beyond just physical looks. I feel like there are 3 components, being a good person, having enough money to pay market rate housibg or be on that trajectory and on top of that being athletic. Having just 2 out of 3 is a deal breaker based on my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:57 PM
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xD homeless men outnumber homeless women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:19 AM
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xD. Must be gen z? I don't really know what you're talking about, but I am not a typical millenial. I was actually blocked from going to college when I was 18 and had to start when I was 23. Then I dropped out when I was 25. Since then I haven't been able to afford housing. So my life has basically been sort of just being blocked from doing anything I want to do. But I went to college with gen zers, but only the 90's ones. Never went to school with any zers born in the 2000's. Mostly I know the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:34 AM
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Except for when high income individuals get first priority to housing and then compete over it or buy less expensive properties in cash, preventing others from buying and/or increasing the prices of the surrounding area. Just having disposable income causes inflation which also causes the need for structural unemployment and even structural homelessness and structural poverty -- imo, all bad blameworthy things. But before you mention it I would actually rather most everyone had about the same in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:45 AM
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I'm 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:52 AM
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THIS IS HOW REAL LIFE USED TO BE BEFORE THE IPHONE. THIS IS HOW REAL LIFE IS SUPPOSED TO BE. FUCK THE DATING APPS AND FUCK SILICON VALLEY. Seriously, silicon valley created narcissicism, housing inflation, income inequality, digital addictions and social isolation and even cyber bullying. Fuck all of that. We need to return to where most everyone made about the same amount of money, and a cashier could buy an appartment or townhouse or even a house to live in and where nobody felt self-concious …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:56 PM
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What is dating age?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:43 AM
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I guess that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:59 PM
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Why not just observe discharge color rather than try to predict it. Clear means fertile, white means non fertile. Nothing more to it, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:35 PM
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Either way, they're both stupid compared to natural family planning. I can't believe people would argue against what is natural. It's just common sense to go with nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:22 PM
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That has nothing to do with lone wolf behavior in wolves. Sigma wolves are not socially adept. Quite literally, they are socially inept. That's the whole point. They leave the group and survive without society, without the group. Lone wolves hunt their own food alone, without the pack. A sigma male would be essentially tarzan, for all intents a purposes. They'd live alone in the Alaskan wilderness with homemade weapons and tools, homesteading. Wirh no way to contact any other people. Etc. The wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:03 AM
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Sure. However, there are social constraints that block someone from doing anything they want. For instance, money is required to buy things since robbery is illegal and money is only given in exchange for work. Thus, working when you don't want to is even required of sigmas. At least temporarily so these definitions seem sketchy. Running around with a bow and arrow and a fishing line living off grid would seem more like what would be neccessary to truly do your own thing. To truly be a lone wolf…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:55 AM
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If that's what you mean by 'Alpha' then how do you categorize 'Sigma'? A loner can easily be physically attractive without leadership skills or even a desire tobe a leader at all. Can be homeless. etc. In terms of movie charachters as analogies these are often anti-heros. Niether villian nor hero, but possesing traits similar to heros in some ways and villians in other ways. Certainly not beta either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:58 AM
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Think more about the cause of having more resources and you'll realize that having more resources harms more people by preventing others from having access to resources. The ideal is actually having a moderate amount of resources which is what would happen to everyone if noone had more resources. Which wouod make the whole issue dissappear in tge first place, thus, you may actually be contributing more to causing poverty by choosing someone with more than a moderate amount of wealth. Check out M…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:16 PM
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That's just using the same word for different meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:15 PM
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I don't know man. That isn't my experience. Take two equally good looking men. Then assume one lives in his car in the parking lot of a park and the other lives in a luxury appartment with a corporate job making $150,000/year. Assume they are the same age, say 23 - 29. Who is going to get matches on tinder? The homeless guy? or the corporate worker? The answer is obvious, it's the corporate worker. It's not even a debate. The key here is that they're equally good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:31 PM
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Yes and no. Isn't 'Alpha' now conflated with 'status'? As a 'leader?' I'm talking about physical secondary sexual charachteristics, not leadership or community respect etc. I think birth control is blurring the line between the dual mating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:21 PM
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I mean, oh well. That's too hard for me to do as I can't afford to put that much effort into a reddit post. If it tirns out to be true and people still refuse to believe then that's on them imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:18 PM
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Yeah, but there are plenty of good looking rich guys to prevent good looking extremely broke guys so it isn't only looks. Good looking is better than not good looking regardless of money. But a good looking guy with money is better than all, without assesing charachter. An empathetic good looking guy who is young and has money is the top. Then it goes down from there. At least those are my observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:24 AM
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This just isn't true. A homeless good looking guy would get rejected for a high income good looking guy, even for casual sex. Paradoxically, a homeless good looking guy would most likely have better success with ovulating women. Pretty wild. Likely because ovulation likely decreases inhibition with men who are high in secondary sexual charachteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:35 AM
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I would agree that society is largly unethical, complicit in the allowing of poverty and the consumption of goods made with low wage labour or even emplpying low wage labour themselves. Sure, many say it is a rite of passage. But I don't agree that wealth should be tied to time or history. People ought to simply be more equal from the start, and remain so at the finish -- from birth to death. About the only ethical way to live is within a hunter gatherer society with no private property. In the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:24 PM
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That is exactly what I am talking about, in terms of Jason Momoma and Jason Strathm vs Orlando Bloom and Tom Holland. Orlando Bloom is more feminine than Jason Stratham. Bloom is like a pretty boy, Stratham is more high DHT closer to caveman status. The preference for pretty boy men, then, fuels inscreased social narcissism and a decline of masculine values like integrity a genuine charachter since much of the pretty boy look can be achieved through grooming, deception and style. Can't easily fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:38 PM
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Well I disagree with you. Gaining money requires unethical behavior, at the very least it requires a willingness to put yourself first and advantage your own position above others. That in itself is unethical, and it only gets worse from there. Take a look at the books 'Evicted' and 'Poverty by America' by Prof. Matthew Desmond to see basically my views summarized. In fact, take a look at a short youtube interview sumarizing the books here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:22 PM
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Well by dampening everything that probably meant you made decisions differently but likely not on purpose. I have taken saw palmetto which has similar hormonal effects on men as birth control on women (by lowering androgens by converting them to estrogens). I definitely think and act differently on and off the supplement. As for point 1, I don't really know I was just making a guess to explain the difference in theory and what I percieve in daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:12 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:07 PM
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I say it implies power, but also a lack of morality and ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:06 PM
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Actually that last part is not quite right. A clean shaven face with thick hair is actually feminine. Masculine body types feature facial hair, thinning head hair and body hair as a result of high androgens and dht. Many highly masculine men recieve secondary sexual charachterists younger and in larger quantities than less masculine men. The balding guy in high school with a full beard is a protypical example. So really a highly masculine man is not the pretty boy model, but rather the lumber ja…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:49 PM
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I assumed the majority who had frequent casual sex were taking hormones (or had iuds).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:44 PM
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I guess not. Do people hurt others without caring or something like that? That's the worst I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:31 PM
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I think lack of luxury and apathy sound good. I dislike elitism and inequalities. I dislike the culture here in the US where people are selfish and rude. I might like China.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:51 PM
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Then again, role ethics of Confucianism seem pretty opposed to the virtue ethics of Aquinas. In particular, Aquinas and Aristotle would never approve of blind obiedience and morality defined as following rules without first evaluating them for correctness. That would surely be considered a vice. So would placing heavy value on always appearing superficially in a good way without having legitimate or genuine substance behind that, and indeed without pure intentions. Catholicism wants people to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:24 AM
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That pretty much describes me. There's nothing else quite like catholcism in thr world in terms of belief systems and values. Confucianism is probably the closest alternative. Funny thing about that too is that Jesuits had a strong influence on ancient China, which makes alot of sense in explaining the closeness between traditional Chinese values and Catholic values.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:54 AM
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That sounds pretty catholic to me, so probably right. I think the worst part about catholicism is when you are a teenager and are told you aren't allowed to have sex. That messes with a person's head because their puburty dictates sex drive in a natural way that is intense. I think the church should improve on this. In biblical times people were probably getting married as teenagers anyway, and that would be far more logical given natural sex drive and shorter lifespans. In that context, it's to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:15 AM
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The catholic view actually condems the mindset of focusing on getting yours and instead emphasizes empathy and compassion for strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:12 AM
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Most accurate and depressing take I've seen in a while. That said, I think catholic ethics are correct, which value free will and so allow people to freely make decisions without controllingor dictating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:11 AM
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Two platonic friends raising a kid? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:08 AM
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I think the author assumed that the article only applies to people who already have or want kids. The author is also a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:07 AM
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A lot of conservatives believe behavior is gendered, and many religous are conservative. So this article was probably intended to be read by a conservative religous audience. I agree with you, but many women reject men who want to do housework. That's why it becomes less common. Many guys would happily adopt this mom and pop shared responsibililities lifestyle if they weren't rejected for it in favor of a high income guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:04 AM
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She's probably only referring to the US as the person is likely from the US and intends only a US audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:03 AM
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I think Catholics would take an issue with men neglecting family life for work. I alsothink the main issue with industrializatiom was not that those trades could still be done as hobbies, rather the problem was that they could not be professions any longer. The key point is that there is no distinction between profession and homerearing, the articles says that the two are the same thing when properly understood. I'm now curious if pagan culture emphasizes women staying inside as homereaers as re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:56 AM
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Exactly. I just need to begin exclusively dating Catholic women now, because the entire value system and ideology is exatly what I believe in from ethics to basically everything. Technically, I don't especially feel a need for supernatural beings for all the core values of catholicsm to just be true in general. I think Catholicism represents the true human nature, virtue, fulfillment etc. I think many people need something to fear in order to choose to do the right things in life. But I also thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:21 AM
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I mean I am entitled. By that I support communism where every job is treated as high value instead of having different pay for different jobs. Essentially, paying every job a middle class salary regardless of what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:37 AM
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White people don't care that much about intergenerational wealth. Asians tend to care about that though (in my experience). I think it is something good, but the problem is that it creates a consequentialist mindset and that starts to cause harm in the world. If someone can practice virtue ethics and go about wealth building, then that would be good. However, don't go thinking that society doesn't marginalize people in order to allow wealth building. The truth is that building wealth hurts other…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:59 AM
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I don't disagree at all. I'm definitely not saying what you think I'm saying. I fully aupport workplace gender equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:36 AM
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Lamo. Fine. I should have said low income. None the less, I believe the means justifies the ends. I don't like it when people believe the ends justify the means. That mindset bothers me, and so it bothers me when generally women adopt this kind of mindset (that the ends justify the means) when choosing men. In fact, it bothers me a lot. It dissapoints me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:54 AM
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Alright fine, but that doesn't make me feel better because what I'm really bothered by is the disliking of low income by women. I don't like that, regardless of the details. I believe a person should be judged by their charachter and values, not by their end results. And as it happens, those have nothing to do with income at any particular time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:47 AM
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I'm implying non-salary also definitively means low income. Which sets the tone for my post. It also speaks to how conformity is rewarded by society and thinking for yourself i is not, because refusing to conform blocks yourself from the rewards given to conformists. I believe income is not important, so we disagree there. And entrapueners are mostly poor, only a tiny fraction ever get rich which is actually part of the point and the issue I'm speaking to actually. Entrapuenership is entrapuener…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:41 AM
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No I mean, having an entitled attitude about pay even without going through all the hard work high paying fields require. For instance, paying a waiter $80k/year. Or, actually, paying every job the same amount if we're being honest regardless of what it is as lomg as society needs it done by anyone. The fact that this is currently not the case, that different jobs have different pay and that women seem to care about this, is the problem I'm talking about (note, most see nothing wrong with this b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:36 AM
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Ehh, no the ones rejecting my worldview are at fault here. Not me. I did nothing wrong per say, I was just born this way and everyone else around was born the way they were born and when the chips fall where they may this is what falls out. In a way, there's nothing to be done about it if people are just born different and incompatible with each other. That's just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:32 AM
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xD I'm way past feeling bad about it. Now I just shake my head and move on. No hurt feelings at all, but I still communicate my disaproval directly and make sure it is known amd then move on. I'm willing to put my money where my mouth is, as it were.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:28 AM
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Money =/ = goals, interests, values or lifestyle. A waiter can have exactly the same goals as an engineer in terms of living. Only differece is society won't allow the waiter to realize them, and that's the real problem here not being a waiter for example. (Yes that is entitlement, yes I support that).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:22 AM
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I think income should not be factored into the league in the first place. Of course, low income people are blocked or disallowed against their will by society to access things that they may need and thus make them uglier physically by going without. But that is the real problem rather than what they enjoy doing with their time. Anyway, I'm getting into communist stuff now which is beating a dead horse but none the less it is what I believe. Equal pay for unequal work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:20 AM
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No just experience in a high income area and just read this article: https://www.brookings.edu/research/middle-class-marriage-is-declining-and-likely-deepening-inequality/. This is probably true mostly for college gradustes under 30 making high incomes, or at least this is my personal experience. Working class women don't seem to care. However, I'm not satisfied with that. I believe people should be income blind, that it doesn't matter to anyone. I won't be satisfied until that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:15 AM
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I support natural methods over artificial interventions and synthetic drugs. It seems obvious and natural to track a menstral cycle and use that as contraception. The most obvious method is vaginal discharge color. Clear = fertile, white = infertile. It couldn't get more obvious. This is clearly the way nature intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:19 PM
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For married couples only*, which I wtote in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:17 PM
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I think it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:16 PM
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Yeah. There's still a lot of women who are daughters of the patriarchy who want a corporate worker to take care of them. Not many out there want true equals with dual incomes to just spend a life with and just be middle class on $40,000 - $60,000 household income. Life in the slow lane can be pretty great and relaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:06 PM
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The real issue is probably the sexual preferences of people tbh. In particular, we need to have kids with more women who like nerdy guys without high incomes. And ideally, women who care about health and nutrition. That's how men should influence natural selection. And not even nerdy persay, but guys who are obviously in good health and are guys who follow the laws and are just generally good people. Guys who work retail, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:47 PM
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I think it is different. I used to play outside with friends as a kid before the nintendo gameboy was invented. Then I had a choice between doing all the work of calling a neighboor, walking all the way to the elementry school or park or pressing a power button. Usually I'd just press a power button, get my fill, and then move on. I played pokemon a lot. Often for many hours at once. It was like reading a book so good that you couldn't stop turning the pages, even if you had other things you nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:35 AM
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Video games are about fantasies and dream realities, like cinema and film. They're primarily art so an interactive art form. Many guys like these alternate realities more than the real world because they are usually cooler. They have things like super powers and fairy tail creaters, magic and unrealistic technology that satifies beyond realistic boring things. Regarding dating, it probably builds an addiction style brain as video games trigger dopamine hits so they probably predispose kids to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:24 AM
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I started around age 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:19 AM
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Personally, I'm probably just going to go back to Catholicism and marry a religous woman. I find athiests to be, more often than not, utilitarians, anyway, which I find to be unethical and immoral behavior in the first place. I left religion because I thought casual sex should be okay. Then I was betrayed by the athiests and secular folks with their consequentialist morals (why is virtue ethics not mainstream among athiests???) and realized I don't even like secular people on that basis alone to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:37 PM
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That's like reversing domestication in animals. I have a theory that Christianity domesticated human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:12 PM
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Why don't you guys just start rejecting women based on their personalities? Flip the script and influence natural selection with your preferences. Reverse psychology can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:08 PM
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Yep. Surviving in capitalism is hard, not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:06 PM
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Crazy that there is such a low level of latent physical arousal therethat it feels like being used for something non-sexual like money or a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:36 PM
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Yes, all of adult life is because of patriarchy. The entire concept of artificial scarcity originates there. The patriarchy is just like chimpanzees, in contrast a matriarchy is, in theory, more like bonobos. I prefer bonobo lifestyle to chimpanzee lifestyle and take measures in my life, politically and otherwise, to oppose traditional patriarchy. I used to conflate feminism with patriarchy, but then I realized I had it backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:27 PM
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I don't think this is true. They have kids with the rich guy, but want the good looking guy to be rich, and if he isn't, then they will choose the high income guy. Depending on the culture of the area, in areas where illegal drug dealing and gang banging is a viable career often the good looking guys are high income from drug money so that becomes the default. In preppy areas, nerds who conform to society get chosen. Some of which are good looking, but many are not. Teenage girls who don't conce…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:20 AM
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I said it was odd and surprising, and therefore not obvious as to why and is unexpected and surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:47 AM
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I haven't said that it is obvious, and I don't think it is. I don't know what you're talking about saying I already admiteded it. I haven't. But it doesn't really matter as it isn't obvious to me in the first place so there's no point in arguing about whether or not I find it obvious. I find it very unintuitive. Also no, my ideal woman is not attracted to those things in the first place and has some set of unique interests that are authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:28 AM
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I mean that is not obvious to me at all (that casual sex isn't just physical attraction). I think status is patriarchical because they involve money or social power as a bribe and involve women submitting to a richer or more powerful person in exchange for shelter, food and materialism. That's classic patriarchy. As for the last point, I view feminism as opposing patriarchy. If that's an ideology then alright, that's fine. I'm fine with that charachterization, but I like people who oppose social…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:05 AM
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Well I guess I should say psychopaths with social power. Liberal or conservative doesn't matter I don't think. But there definitely are liberals causing this stuff, especially in California. I imagine also in New York and Conneticut, but I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:02 AM
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Exactly. The average guy is just as much the victim as the average woman. As usual, psychopaths are to blame for problems in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:55 AM
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The odd thing is often the guy has to be rich and good looking OR have some other kind of social status such as gang membership, some respected position in society, a club, a volubteer organization etc. something beaides just looks. Which makes no sense as casual sex is only about physical attraction. So there is still some patriarchy involved in casual sex today, even without monogomy. That makes it hard to blame women entirely, as they're still victims. I think the real feminists are the ones …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:28 AM
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Damn that's depressing. I'm not even that queer, I just identify as agender. Nothing crazy and yet, this entire OP doesn't apply to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:17 PM
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This probably only applies to cisgender people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:36 AM
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I would invert this and say that if either parent does not want an abortion then it shouldn't be allowed, as it would be killing their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:30 AM
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Hitting the wall must suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:53 PM
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Because 40's can no longer get sex easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:52 PM
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Madona-whore complex. Men don't have sex with people, they do so with objects. Women to have sex with are objects for sex. Women to be friendly with are human beings not for sex. I don't speak for all races and cultures, but in particular for Christians, Catholics and (east coast, southern and midwestern) white people this seems to be the case. Western white people are different. Not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:54 AM
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Agreed. Also, women wanting no affirmative consent and men to approach is a logical contradiction because it creates a double standard for men she doesn't like. Since it isn't universally the case that men should approach and not use affirmative consent, then knowing whether or not to approach is logically impossible. Thus, approaching is too risky to try. And, even if it was clear that someone was encouraged to approach by the girl, and someone not, that encouraged person may still find double …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:48 AM
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Honestly, I was raised to value affirmative consent (though I was raised catholic). I used affirmative consent and the girl got angry and turned off. That's when I realized how screwed the world was.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:24 AM
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How special? Past reproduction history hasn't selected for critical thinking at all. There's just as many intelligent women running around as there are not so intelligent women running around. (And I appreciate the intelligent ones very much). So, I don't think it takes a 'special' woman. In fact, I think it just takes an average one which is exactly the scary part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:22 AM
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I think just depends on age. The older you get with missing past experiences, the worse off you become. A 19 year old can be awkward without penalty. But a 29 year old who has the awkwardness of a 19 year old and no sexual experience to show for the last 10 years of adulthood is a red flag. Not just that, but aging will ugly-fy a person as well compounding the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:19 AM
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I mention those because I am familiar with them at a 'high level' as I studied logic and philosophy of science at a graduate level, though I dropped out. Yeah Putnam scores are like an IQ test, but only math ability is tested. Other ways to high scores exist such as abstract shape and pattern recognition and visual rotation/orientation. I actually liked Putnam's philosophy, though I don't fully agree with it. I'm not a super genius, but I know them when I see them and have worked with them. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:46 AM
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Education =/= wealth. Wealth =/= intelligence and intelligence =/= education. Most of college is dumb shit that is philosophically questionable, even mathematics. Philosophy of applied mathematics is at the forefront of physics today, and is largely behind the notion that space and time are not real. If you really study the metaphysics of time, you find that time does not exist and is actually an illusion probably created by the subjective experience of aging and death in concert with the speed …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:20 AM
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All those careers are for dumb people (iq below 160). Most people in those fields only have an iq of about 130. Enough to be an ass kisser teacher's pet, but not enough to forge their own path without social support. Professors can be 160 and above, but only a minority are. Some of the very best physics and philosophy professors are in that category, same for math and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:09 AM
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Most people aren't that smart. So, this kind of thing sounds pretty dumb in general. Actually smart people (iq 160+) are pretty rare. For example, Steve Jobs was thought to have an iq of 160, Albert Einstein ~160, Bill Gates ~160 Etc. 160 is the threshold where you can stop and notice they aren't bullshitting anyone when they speak. And that they actually make sense in an empirical way. Above 160 gets to the scary zone. Those people genuinely freak me out. But I find ~160 to be very enjoyable to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:47 AM
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xD I love how this whole post assumes a guy has a normal life with a job and his own address. In my experience, the primary cause is women rejecting men for being low income or unemployed regardless of any other factors. If he's low income throughout all his 20's, then he gets rejected for aging in his 30s. Women bring it upon themselves by rejecting low income men for no reason. It's their own fault for passing by good, innocent, young people who are perfectly normal, well meaning kind people. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:58 AM
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20 hour work week, matched to chronotype/sleep genetics. Living wage for every job. Erasure of the housing shortage by building all housing necessary. Removal of occupational hazards. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:45 PM
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I live in a car now. I'm literally a hobo. Never been happier. No rent to pay, no responsibilities. I do gig work to pay for my sustenance and nothing more. I never wake up before 9:20am and I get left alone at nights. It's great. Helps that it never gets below freezing where I'm at though, but I bought an rei sleeping bag and a nice large cooler that keeps ice frozen multiple days. And a portable grill, fire starters, a lighter and wood pellets to cook. So I have everything I need. I was ready …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:27 PM
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Alright whatever. I prefer to ignore social expectations as if they were never taught to me, and then be myself in the pure sense that a child is their most honest and true version of themselves absent of social forces.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:22 PM
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That feels dirty somehow. I only consider it fun if it's my biological kids. Doing it as a job would not be the same mindset. However, that isn't to say I would hate that job. I probably wouldn't hate doing it. But it would be like doing a hobby as a job which spoils the fun more often than not. The fun part is freeloading and not getting paid, plus playing with kids, going to parks, buying stuff without responsibility for getting the money needed to pay for it etc. And also, nurturing your own …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:16 PM
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That's a good point! xD If it's so hard why would we want to do it voluntarily. Plus, why not be happy if it's so hard that somebody else is now doing it instead. Probably because she's afraid the guy will enjoy it and so she won't be able to complain about it anymore. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:12 PM
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Yeah. I've been forced to not care about it though, because it was outside of my control. And so, I eventually naturally came to the true meaning of 'hakuna matata' which literally translates to english as something like 'ah, fuck it.' So mentally that's where I'm at, to the point where I just say 'fuck it all' or 'ah, fuck it' to everything. In the movie The Lion King, the meerkat says to Simba, "when the world turns their back on you, you turn your back on the world. Hakuna matata, it means do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:08 PM
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They don't affect me at all, except for the social stigma I get for breaking them. I live hakuna matata, 0 fucks given and my life is objectively better than when I gave fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:13 PM
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Genders are stupid. Be agender and improve your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:11 PM
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I would be a stay home dad by choice and have tons of fun with my kids every damn day, cooking, grocery shopping, playing in parks and doing laundry. I would choose that as a hobby. Working a job for money makes me want to stab my eyes out with a sewing needle. Work sucks. Doing laundry = fun. Grocery shopping = fun. Cooking = fun. Playing in parks at 3pm = fun. Buying toys = fun. Playing kids games = fun. I only consider it work if I'm paid for it. Otherwise it's a hobby or I wouldn't do it. As…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:06 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:04 PM
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Wow. Well I would hope doctors would explicitly not be psychopaths, and most aren't (except foe surgeons). The answer to your question, though, is a passion for saving lives and healing the sick??? Musicians spend 20 years learning and mastering an instrument. Why? Because they are artists. Gas station clerks are what they are. Basically, I think every job is equal unless society doesn't need it. If it could disappear tomorrow and not affect anyone, then maybe it isn't needed. But then it should…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:10 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:01 AM
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What makes a gas station attendant a worse person than a doctor? Are you assuming their character by their life circumstances? I'm not sure what a presence is, but communism is the idea of resisting capitalism, free markets, private property and inequalities. I would say a job is nothing more than a means to an end, and any job is nothing more than that except for a lucky privileged few who got to choose something more than that and not get told no or be denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:33 AM
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No... xD. That is not a true statistic for men born after 1992. For men born prior to 1992, yes, that was normal. But for some reason, culture shifted in 2008 and worsened specifically for men born after 1992 and has stuck as a feature of their entire lives now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:44 AM
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I would say that I think that the character of the man should be in play too. If he's an objectively bad guy, amoral, then yeah screw him and he gets nothing. I do think it should be restricted to just genuinely good people of all physical kinds. I do hate some kinds of men women (should) hate as much as anyone else and don't think they deserve equal rights. In a way, this offsets economic injustice. If the guys are genuinely good people, I don't see what the problem is. One way to improve the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:23 AM
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It's only hypothetical, but yeah it would endorse forced sex or the whole idea would make no sense. That said, there are many economic ideas outside our control especially in childhood that determine our looks epigenetically and our financial situations in early adulthood. In particular height, physique and material possessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:01 AM
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The first question... there are no sources besides the experiences of men in the world. Tinder statistics can be cited, sexlessness rates can be cited. Anecdotes can be cited. It's just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:57 AM
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Yes that is exactly what I'm saying. I'm a communist in general as well, economically, so I'm being consistent across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:54 AM
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Exactly. However, if all had just one partner then this problem would evaporate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:54 AM
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🤷🏻 Whatever. I think that's pretty silly/stubborn. Match up virgins... sure. Be unreasonable about who you get with... ehhh 🤷🏻 that seems problematic even with sexual freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:53 AM
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India is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:51 AM
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Ukraine deserved it 🤷🏻.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:50 AM
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🤷🏻 It is and it isn't. Technically it is a logical solution and has been used in other countries like India and others. Patriarchical societies have uses forced monogamy before. On the other hand, most people today would not like it in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:49 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:37 AM
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Well, from a logic perspective your first point is a legit point. Maybe some kind of age gap could work to fix that but that is a strictly logical problem for the hypothetical idea (and btw this whole thing is mostly a shit post). I could see age gaps working for that. For the second point, I don't know. Never thought about it. From a logic perspective it doesn't matter very much if the pairings are arranged anyway as either some kind of methodology is used up front match personalities or nobody…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:31 AM
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I just saw it posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:25 AM
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Btw, I would choose the sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:57 PM
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Lmao. The semen is the soiling. The complex is actually about not wanting the wife. If he actually wanted her he'd not hesitate to 'soil' her. Exposure to semen devalues unmarried or unloved women. In other words, men also feel guilty about casual sex and leading women on in relationships even if they don't admit it. No guy wants to put his dick where another man's dick previously was. That's like eating out of garbage can. That is definitely a part of the complex. And comes with the competitive…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:49 PM
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Pragmatic solution. That could actually work out in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:45 PM
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Whatever. I follow Thomas Hobbes' definition of 'freedom' not John Locke's. I think Locke is an idiot. I follow the philosophy of The Leviathan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:42 PM
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A whore is a woman with sex outside of commitment. How's that? Multiple partners, all good looking. Not married. Raunchy demeanor, just general run of the mill ordinary language use of the word slut and slut shamming. The reason guys want virgins is because they want both fidelity and sex. One without the other is either a whore or a prude -- hence the paradox I speak to. Many women claim they must either be a whore or a prude, and thus can't win. But there is a third option: be married. 🤷🏻 Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:39 PM
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Well it's just a hypothetical back handed thought, but yeah it would have to be arranged or at least semi-arranged. Which is actually very common throughout the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:32 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:30 PM
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If you think you have a choice that you can't choose then that is a vacuous choice at best. But most people in the US do think the way you do. I, however, never bought that argument. I'm far more entitled than that. I expect that, if I have a legitimate choice then I am legitimately allowed to choose it and follow through with what it entails and realize its conclusion. Otherwise it isn't my choice at all. In fact, my decision didn't matter in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:27 PM
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Communism baby. But the pairing would need to be fair, so that means looks matching. If you're ugly... bad news and good news. She won't be hot, but she wont be uglier than you, which is still better than what you get with sexual freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:15 PM
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lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:14 PM
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Oh I see. I thought it was that a woman became a whore if her body count was high, but also that men wanted sex easily thus the contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:14 PM
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Well, actually, giving everyone food is... a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:11 PM
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You should care if there exist men who cannot get access to sex in any fashion. It's a safety hazard to have angry frustrated men alive. Elliot Rodger is a great example of that safety threat, the dude went insane and lost his goddamn mind due to unchecked horniness. But by 80/20 do you mean 20% can't get sex or 80% can't get sex? I think the number is for sure at least 33%. So 80/20 is actually wrong now. It's now at least 67/33. My personal guess is actually closer to 50%. I think maybe around…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:08 PM
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Is it unlikely? Or is it that many women 30 - 49 get with men 50 - 64? Then become widowed 65+?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:07 PM
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Oh xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:05 PM
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Maybe. At least a third of all men 18 - 29 are unable to get casual sex, and that number is probably higher now too. The real question is: what portion of guys can get neither casual sex nor relationships? That's the million dollar question here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:04 PM
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It isn't optional. It is now mandatory not to move out, unless you want to live in a car or otherwise be homeless in some form. For some, living in their car, with the right sleeping bag (to prevent freezing to death at night), might nevertheless be the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:59 PM
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4 is the only valid point. I would go back in time and prevent Tinder from ever existing if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:57 PM
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Got to be the 30 - 49 guys. The 65+ women are where the math evens out. What I see in public is unusually hot guys 18 - 29 with girlfriends in the same age range. Then I see ugly guys with high paying jobs also with girlfriends, age 22/23 - 40's. And gang members 18 - 35 with girlfriends as well, from the same neighborhood. And that's it. Married guys in their 50's and 60's. Nobody else has relationships. Most guys I see in the world born after 1992 are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:13 PM
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You're probably right. I notice it more in California where there are less Southern Europeans and more Northern European white people, which is really ironic given that the west coast was Spain's territory originally in the colonial era. But anyway. The west coast is heavy German and Nordic. 20 years ago, when the middle class was larger, these guys were shorter on average 5'8" - 5'10"-ish. Women were like 5'2" - 5'6" on average. Now that income inequality is growing larger, I notice more guys s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:41 AM
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"Turn her taco into a deli explosion" xD. But seriously I miss the mediocrity of 20 years ago when most everyone was the same height, making about the same amount of money. Where people focused on just being a person and maturity rather than all this petty competing with one another bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:37 AM
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Depends where you live. In wealthy areas, women are 5'9" - 5'11" and men are 6'2" - 6'6"+. Gen z has a lot of tall freaks rich kids with narcissistic personalities. Also a lot of normal sized middle class people. But none the less, in rich kid all white neighborhoods 5'10" is short for a man. It's weird AF to be 5'10" and even taller than average most places, and then walk into a grocery store in a multimillion dollar suburb and be the shortest person in the store. It's weird AF. Concentration o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:02 AM
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Pathetic imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:59 AM
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There is one thing: hip to waist (rib-cage) ratio. Hips and ribs are fixed no matter what. They're bones. Having a ratio of 0.7 holding body fat % constant between girls is the female equivalent of height for women. Too wide of hips and she's looser, too narrow of hips and she can have birth complications. Ideal hips are just like height. You can't change it or control it naturally after you're done growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:56 AM
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That sucks. Penyrons (however its spelled) disease is serious. When the blood passages break when erect they never fully heal as it is cartilage. It will form scar tissue and fold during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:53 AM
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Then she would have a decision to make: prioritize provider ability or quality of genes? In the past there was no money but in today's world money is that ability to provide, hence hypergammy, hence men have leeway to sacrifice youth if they can provide financially. If they can't, then all they have to offer is their youth hence timing still matters for men but only if your reproductive strategy is to use youth rather than wealth or if you don't plan on becoming wealthy, ever, say etc. And, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:42 AM
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https://eurweb.com/2017/new-study-says-african-american-women-tightest-video/ Tightness does not contribute to reproductive success. That's why women have wide hips. However, men like tightness. So the evolutionary question is: what is the minimum width needed for childbirth? And I think that answer is a ratio of 0.7, holding body fat% constant what we're really talking about here is the ratio between the hip bones and the bottom of the rib-cage. Just thinking about this from a physics perspecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:23 AM
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There's studies that show width actually does control tightness, and narrower is tighter. But too narrow obviously can risk birth complications so I think 0.7 became the perfect compromise selected by nature -- a constrained optimization of tightness and successful birth. For example: https://us-browse.startpage.com/av/anon-image?piurl=https%3A%2F%2Faisleseat.com%2Fintoblue.jpg&sp=1674003107Teefe52fabd63fbfc7bdb5ae5209e995a2f5597fa6d7b72cdf43bde2fd7fb2df0 Perfect compromise between width and nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:44 AM
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Well that's good. That is really what I meant all along. But also practically speaking I would think the odds of seriously dating a 20 year old would be low at 29, and even lower just 12 months later at 30. So practically speaking in practice it is basically like having casual sex with all the different ages over a short time span (like a few months say) to basically compare them. So would I be willing to date long term to get experience, yeah. Do I think the odds of that are high? I don't know.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:28 AM
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I mean, I think it's the same. What I mean is, to just see what a person who dated for a few years would have seen/experienced but accelerated so as to not take 3 years. But in some sense there isn't really that much difference between specific ages, so going for a middle number like 1 between 19 - 23 say to account for the gist of all of those and maybe one between 24 - 26 to count for the gist of all of those. Can even be the same person if it was a relationship situation such as meeting at 21…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:10 AM
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lmao. A lot of people just experience it normally as they live naturally. Date one person, then they stay together as long as they do as they both age, then maybe break up. Maybe something casual sprinkled at that time. Then maybe date another person etc. As a result they experience the different ages. The sensual basically the look, feeling etc. If someone only experienced ages 30+ sexually wouldn't that just be odd? Wouldn't someone always wonder what a body was like in the early 20's? How cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:47 AM
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That's true about late 20's and early 30's girls. But somehow I just want to know what I missed in the younger years. It'll just nag at me if I never find out just to scratch the itch of curiosity. That's why I want to cross it off the bucket list. I think it is probably my beard, maybe also hair. I have allowed both to grow long. Older people don't mind it but the younger crowd it's like night and day (I started letting the beard grow 2 years ago). I just got curious what it would look like if …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:35 AM
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I think the more normal thing is to get these things out of your system when you are the same age, like when a guy is 19. Get this stuff out of your system, date someone your like for a couple years, experience the sex and everything and then move on normally to maturity. In a sense, I think of it as making up for missing out in the past now. Like, I missed X, Y and Z experiences. How can I still get to experience them in a briefer way now, but still enough to get a general gist of what I missed…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:20 AM
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I'm 29
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:18 AM
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I was kind of hoping this would have sparked a discussion. Just down votes huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:05 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:59 AM
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Well it's hard to argue with a yolk sac. I eat chicken eggs everyday (though unfertilized). I still think it's wrong to even have sex with a narcissist, or I guess anyone really, unless you are also willing to have their kid. But, I can see your point. But I think I've contradicted myself now because if I was willing to have casual sex with multiple people, then I'd also have to be willing to have kids with each and all of those people as well, which seems to contradict my original point. I agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:36 AM
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I think it's possible to have memories in the womb, but I'm not sure when that begins. I think generally speaking the earlier it is done the less likely it is. 5 weeks is pretty early. I'm not sure what the difference between a friend with benefits and a relationship is, besides being open to other people at once maybe? But I think that if there were strong social safety nets as I described that would handle that issue without the deadness of babies. But I'm not trying to guilt trip you or anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:09 AM
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Damn, was your pregnancy from the hookup?! Anyway I've said everything now so I've got nothing else to argue about anymore really. But I do find it disappointing women will just "not care" and reward narcissistic behavior and therefore allow it to continue and even encourage it. I changed my view slightly as well. I think one elective abortion is permissable, the first time it happens. It's easy to say one thing about morality and another thing when it actually happens to you unexpectedly. Howev…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:39 AM
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There's also the discrepancy that men will be willing to have casual sex with ugly women but not the other way around. So if this is really the point you're making I'll have to ask you to check your privilege here. Even though I agree people shouldn't be forced to participate in casual sex I disagree that they shouldn't want to. And I find it odd that a relationship makes sex tolerable that would otherwise be intolerable without it, it casts doubt on physical repulsion being the reason for the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:00 AM
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Btw, I don't consider sex with the intention of hoping to form a relationship to be casual sex. That sounds like relationship sex to me. I only consider casual sex to be where no relationship is ever considered when the decision is made to have sex just for fun at that time. To me casual sex is like drinking a soda or watching a movie, like a hobby. Hiking, going to a beach, etc. In this way, relationships are actually not about the sex but are about the love between persons. That's why it is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:43 AM
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Having sex in a relationship because you can't get casual sex is like a consolation prize for being ugly. That line of reasoning would work if no one narcissistic got casual sex. But you said that was also not the case, therefore it seems somewhat disrespectful to men in general to have relationships essentially be pity sex. Plus, if a man were forced into behaving like a narcissist to get casual sex why would he want to do that? It would just cause him to be disappointed in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:37 AM
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I think using abortion as a means of birth control is absolutely unacceptable unless your life is in danger due to something like an ectopic pregnancy, first of all. But disregarding that, I suppose everyone differs on ability to read facial expressions and asses the difference between genuine and fake expressions. I tend to be able to spot narcissists easily (tell tail sign: men with groomed eyebrows is a decent place to start to begin to suspect) but I have relatives who are clinically diagnos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:23 AM
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Or, you only see the ones seeking recognition for their work and assume everyone else is not altruistic at all when in reality they simply could have never thought to tell you, or anyone else, about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:15 AM
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I also think that casual sex should be available to everyone, not just a few. And especially not narcissists. I do think people should discriminate though. Obviously you wouldn't want sex with everyone, neither would I. But someone seems to be wrong when the deciding factor includes a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:36 AM
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Idk, I think it's wrong. What if you get pregnant? Besides, how can someone justify rewarding narcissistic behaviors with sex?? I just can't imagine any scenario where that's good. Narcissists need to stop having kids. Only one way for that to happen: they need to be cut off from sex entirely. 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:30 AM
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👍🏻 That's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:28 AM
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See I would hope not. I would much prefer that the altruism be valued for its own sake explicitly when self-sacrifice is refused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:27 AM
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That's fair. I wonder how the study would have turned out if there wasn't an element of self-sacrifice involved in the altruism. I hope that it is altruism and not the self-sacrificing part that was viewed as attractive in the study. I would also hope that altruism with bad intentions, such as volunteering just for the explicit purpose of impressing women and getting access to sex, rather than genuinely caring about the altruism for its own sake, the way frats commonly do in the US, would negate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:21 AM
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You'd be surprised. For example, the Catholic doctrine of double effect actually would justify allowing a baby to drown in a bathtub as morally permissable just as long as you didn't cause the baby to drown and just as long as you didn't want the baby to start the process of drowning. So Catholics would let the baby drown with batting an eye, figuratively speaking. They use this argument to justify refusing to abort ectopic pregnancies that risk the mother's life all the time at Catholic run hos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:17 AM
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Why does alpha need to imply a lack of empathy? Is that the definition of it? To be a narcissist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:14 AM
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Welp, this sort of answers that last question and it's not looking good: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1559901/.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:09 AM
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I agree. More realism would be altruism that doesn't require risking the altruist's personal safety in the process such as rescuing a drowning baby from a bathtub rather than allowing it to die or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:36 PM
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But there's a catch that will bother men: women prefer objective assholes for casual sex, or, at least if they are good looking. Altruism was only rated highly for long term relationships which is a problem for altruistic men who want to have casual sex if they're lesser good looking than other single men available even if they're not completely ugly. I think the 'nice guy syndrome' -- excluding fake nice guys, assuming genuinely empathetic and good people -- is their desire for casual sex in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:34 PM
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wut
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 12:58 PM
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Value has nothing to do with anything.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 12:57 PM
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I'm starting to think the problem lies in sociopathic hot people treating others like shit. And to be frank I think much of it can be traced back to LA and derivative cultures that like LA/SD in general.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 12:54 PM
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Sounds like the female black pill.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 12:53 PM
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Nobody wants to think negatively of women. I'm realizing conservative men get upset when women are too ambitious in their view and liberal men get upset when women are unwilling to accept accountability for themselves and not defer to someone else. So actually there're two opposite reactions that both lead to disappointment for one and happiness for the other. So that idea that you can't please everyone really is true. So it's not that women = bad, it's actually that liberal and conservative men…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:37 AM
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I'd be down to be a stay at home dad, btw, if I wasn't cheated on. Not that anyone asked. But for real I love kids. I'd be lucky to have the chance to be a stay home dad, but not because the girl is rich let's be clear about that, just for the love of parenting and children. Though I don't pretend it's normal or common for men to desire that because I know it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:30 AM
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No, monkey branching is when a non abusive guy is traded up for a higher earner for no reason other than to have more money. Or when a normal guy is dumped because a sexier guy appeared. If the original guy is abusive, then imo that doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:27 AM
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Well if women weren't expected to defer to men rape might be taken more seriously, not that this is an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:21 AM
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I agree. Which is actually sort of what the move Don't Worry Darling is about. Though to be fully consistent the men should take it out on their work and risk financial hardship instead to not be a coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:30 AM
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That's a good point. Though the more people who fight the stronger the odds of winning. Ukraine is an example of this today, where a small group fought against a bigger group though they did have tons and tons of outside support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:28 AM
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I don't know, that's how I've always percieved women. I've never believed that women shouldn't be accountable for their own actions. Seeing that many people disagree here has been an eye opening experience actually, and explains my past failures with women in more conservative areas. In any case, I believe that as human beings women should be accountable adults, regardless of whether they have a penis or a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:00 AM
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I'm realizing this is just enforced gender norms. If you hold women accountable and not expect men to be accountable for women then it becomes a completely different story. Then we fork into two paths: Conservative men complain the woman is too ambitious and will want submissiveness and obedience in exchange for relieving them from personal accountability. Liberal men who aren't criminals will complain the woman is a gold-digger or a coward and will want her to be accountable for her own actions…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:25 PM
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I think women without accountability is overall bad even if they are submissive. But I can see how the only two logical options are either both submissive and not accountable or not submissive and accountable. I agree that the option of not submissive and not accountable is unacceptable imo, so I'll agree with you there. Today a lot of criminals go around enabling women to be both not submissive and not accountable, leading to lots of single mothers with multiple baby daddies. I will never suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:01 PM
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I guess so. Maybe it just explains why guys who hate gold-diggers hate gold-diggers. I don't see guys who want submissive women go online and speak misogyny often because by definition traditional genders are what these guys would desire. So what I mean is guys who go online and say misogynistic things. At the same time, guys who desire submissive women also define what a woman traditionally is so it kind of stacks the odds in their favor in terms of not complaining about gold-digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:50 PM
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I think women should have both no submissiveness and accountability. They have to be accountable. I can't respect someone who isn't accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:42 PM
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True, but the men who complain about ambition are not the same ones who complain about cowardice. Those guys probably want women to be cowards. You can probably safely divide guys who hate gold-diggers and guys who hate ambition into two separate, opposing camps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:35 PM
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You basically defined 'coward' but I agree! Pretty sure you're quoting Dwayne Johnson here. I agree with him on his view that maximum accountability is the way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:33 PM
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Okay then I'll say it explicitly, guys should go for women they want even if they're scared too. They shouldn't stay with someone they don't really like because they're afraid they might not be able to get someone else. They shouldn't pump and dump, even though that is the coward's way out and can seem easier than following through with commitment. These things are hard, even for us. And there's no excuse for us to be cowards either. Nothing good comes from cowardice. I believe if everyone worke…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:50 PM
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No, I'm just giving an explanation for why you see this kind of misogyny out on the web. I think these guys just want women to be brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:43 PM
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I mean, yes. But maybe people wouldn't be so vulnerable if they were more brave. Rape isn't legal, guys can't just go around manhandling women in the street. Aside from that, all that's left is finances and really building an independent self sustaining economy through woman owned businesses is the only way to address that. Anything else is just making it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:08 PM
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Conservative men think that, and they bend over and kiss the ass of sociopath men themselves. Just look at Trump worshipping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:02 PM
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Except actually men go after the women. We see this even on incel forums and such, nobody blames the guy. Maybe the 80/20 rule accounts for a minority of psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:00 PM
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Well some people. Some people might be descendents of folks who took the moral high ground and fought against psychopaths. We need and I want more of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:58 PM
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The film isn't about a woman financially supporting a man who's made to be dependent Most of the film the woman is financially dependent on the man and it ruins her quality of life. She frees herself by leaving him and working for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:54 PM
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I agree it's not a huge phenomenon everywhere but there are pockets of it growing rapidly in high income neighborhoods, and among the top 1% financially under 30. I know because I live with these folks. They split roughly into two groups: the kiss-ass corporate guy and their sociopathic executives, and the drug-money gang member both within a 30 mile radius (often 15 mile radius) of each other. The middle class is shrinking, which is the most alarming part. Also, I recently watched Don't Worry D…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:56 AM
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It can be both I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:49 AM
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I blame all cowards equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:25 AM
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Nah, I'm gonna hate on sociopaths until they kill me or I die. They're a real problem. And there's no excuse for some women being cowards. But this post was actually more about explaining where this stuff comes from rather than it itself, because I'd never heard it explained this way before and wanted to share my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:20 AM
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I'm slightly above average sized but have confidence issues for other reasons that bring down my overall mood. I think if a guy feels good about himself then he will be more likely to ask you out regardless of the objective reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:01 AM
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The difference is the male trait of ejaculation. We ejaculate whether we want to or not. If our bodies are producing semen there's nowhere for it to go but out, so we get extremely horny in the younger years. Men age 15 - 22 are like an ovulating teenage girl for 7 years straight. Basically 2,555 days of pure ovulation equivalency and then they kind of spurt out and it's over for the rest of their lives around 30. Guys hit menopause earlier, basically, but ovulate all at once up front in a mega-…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:44 AM
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Society doesn't fully realize it yet, but youth doesn't have to expire if you become anal about your health and nutrition. If you live normally, then youth will go by pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:51 AM
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If you can't beat them, join them. Uno reverse card and placate yourself. There is a kernel of truth to the idea you may not enjoy women who mistreat you anyway. And actually a lot of women get away with being bad people because they're young and get used sexually by people who don't really care. It might actually work halfway decently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:49 AM
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I love this subreddit! I have never felt so appreciated just for being a guy before. I'm actually being honest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/22 03:57 AM
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No it's women who worship crime or money that ruin dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:52 AM
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Nah people who get rejected are also missing out. Luckily reddit has thousands of free accounts with nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:04 AM
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Nah I think deep down there is an essence: empathy, desiring peace of mind, disliking anxiety, having good intentions -- these are all universals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:01 AM
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No not first day. I think those are superficial differences. Deep down, most people are fundamentally the same. Their outward image is more like a deliberate form of communication rather than the essence of who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:45 AM
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Dark triads are 3% of the population so most likely not a triad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:35 AM
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Most people have the same personality (besides dark triads): good intentions, empathetic, kind, caring, wanting to be happy, wanting to be relaxed and calm etc. enjoying laughing and so on. Dark triads are essentially the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:23 AM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:18 AM
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Why does a woman need to be offered something? Capitalism and the beauty industry really deeply fucked the female psyche. Just remember: nobody ever told men spending money on products would make them become sexually desirable. If you think buying things makes you hot, then you're a victim of corporate America brainwashing. Guys grow up living a neutral life how they like, guys view dating as living in this manner with two people instead of one. Buying things, displaying things for sale etc. nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:14 AM
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Blah blah blah. I'm about 5 or 10 years past all that. Tell that to a 20 year old or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:10 AM
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It's actually a mutual fetish. Studies have shown it repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:49 AM
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That is not dating, that is called bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:47 AM
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Isn't feminism great?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:41 AM
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I guess you become self-obessed if you're single long enough. But Annihilation (2018) and The Spy Gone North are some of my favorites, and The Disaster Artist was really good too. Even Don't Worry Darling (2022) was really good actually. And Life Itself (Amazon Studios) is super good. A quiet place, also really good. 2017 - 2018 was generally a really good time for movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:53 AM
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Well anyway that makes perfect sense. Technically risk involves more than biological risk, but what you're saying is exactly right. It would explain most everything though I wouldn't consider myself anxious per say I do intentionally try to control my health and prevent aging and things like that which is at least calculated. I also weigh consequences and benefits when evaluating risks and decision making in general so my decisions are always intentional. So anyway you're exactly right and techn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:16 AM
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Why don't women just be themselves without trying to be any way in particular? Why not just stop acting and be genuine? Neither submitting nor 'girl boss' just being a regular person?? Maybe egalitarian minded? That would necessarily involve ignoring social norms but still, I guess that's kind of the point.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/22 08:04 AM
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It's the definition of dork: 'a contemptible, socially inept person' according to the Oxford dictionary of english. But, I looked up a different definition that says 'a stupid, inept or foolish person' which is probably more like what you mean. But I'm actually also sexually risky, but I never get to act on it because I basically never find willing people. About 5 years ago I made a large effort to try and have lots of casual sex by using Tinder and by just approaching in public but it never wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:09 AM
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Socially inept probably, but contemptible? Or does the social ineptness make someone contemptible and thus a dork? I also mean other kinds of risks, like saying controversial things and holding controversial opinions or values as well. Doing unconventional things to survive, avoiding a conventional lifestyle things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:33 AM
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That is an interesting point. And actually I don't like that people are judging personality by appearances. The whole 'archetype' thing has got to go. You can't judge a book by its cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:32 AM
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🤣 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:29 AM
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Semantics matter more than syntax...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:21 AM
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I can agree with that. I definitely have virtually no common interests to talk about on a date, except maybe film and photography but probably not because I really only like the weird artistic movies and landscape photography.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:20 AM
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No. I don't do bragging in general. It's just a general question, though I do share info if I know something. Especially if not everyone knows it, because somebody might benefit from reading it in general. I also say things that might be wrong if I think they're probably right because that risk doesn't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:17 AM
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On the one hand, nobody wants to be liked for being rich. On the other hand, it seems the alternative is also no good. Seems like a lose-lose. Idk who came up with bamboo ceiling, I'm pretty sure Asian-Americans came up with the name themselves actually. Asian Americans do stuff like that a lot actually. They also have the term 'FOB' for 'Fresh Off the Boat' for new Asian immigrants in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:50 AM
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'instagram thots at the finish line' 🤣. This sounds like you've seen a thing or two and became jaded. I think this is why Brits call women 'birds' for being flighty. Taking off and such. This comment had me laughing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:46 AM
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I agree with you on every point. I could afford the computer parts at that time, so buying them was not the problem. The alternative would have been to not spend the money on anything. I figured, worst case I would just buy all the parts and resell them. I figured this risk was no big deal so that justified it. If the risk was a big deal, then that requires additional considerations and for me the reward has to be proportionally big to justify the risk. But I don't ignore big risks just because …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:41 AM
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That's how I feel about skincare. I just wonder if people would have used makeup if not taught. I wouldn't have and I never really thought to. But I naturally gravitated towards using anti-aging products with retinoids and other scientifically backed ingredients like topical vit. c and hyaluronic acid. And natural things like green tea and sunflower oil slugging. My thoughts were always to prefer everything to be natural and as preserved and healthy as possible. Prevention and maintenance basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:04 AM
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Well I think to be completely fair people would probably stop wearing makeup. That's something that is arguably behavioral manipulation and conditioning. Thus it is seen as 'feminine' according to the people who created that behavior in the first place. Probably as a form of control. Sunscreen, sure when the UV index is high. Makeup... 🤷🏻. I also have long hair. So I don't even contradict what I'm saying. Clothes? Maybe you could argue hanging penises kind of ruin dresses, maybe not. Celtic men …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:24 AM
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I wonder how and why we even have genders in the first place. Why aren't everyone just people where there are primarily two different kinds that are capable of reproduction. Other than that, no commonalities. 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:11 AM
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I think it's actually that women respect other women just because they are women and therefore expect men to be the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:43 AM
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I guess this is true. But it only works if some guy doesn't betray the others by saying 'fuck it I'm gonna do what I want.' And of course that always happens. And actually it may only be ~20 years or so now that I think about it. It only takes 15 - 20 years to reach sexual maturity. So 2008 + 15 or 20 = (2023 - 2028). Well shit look at that. It's already here. This must be why there are so many 6'5' teenagers running around that simply didn't exist in prior generations. Kids coming of age in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:19 PM
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Freedom definitely does create inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:18 PM
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Because the more sexual freedom there is the less men get access to sex and the more women have sex with the same fewer guys. With less sexual freedom, more men get to have sex because women have less choice. I'm not saying which is good or bad, I'm just stating the facts neutrally. It'll take 100 years for all men to be attractive enough to benefit from sexual freedom. Kids today are the first generation to be born of post 2008 millennial and younger feminist sexual choice. Guys today over 20 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:55 AM
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I don't think it has anything to do with thinking about yourself badly. It's just a form of ostracization. Like a great movie comes out but you're not allowed to see it. Maybe everyone else you know saw it and talks about how great it is, but you aren't allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:52 AM
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Honestly, nothing for me because I only watch porn that's realistic. Like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:50 PM
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But to be serious this is why men get grouchy with age. The loss of physical abilities. It happens with athletes who get injured as well, 'post injury depression.' If you tear a ligament it never heals without surgery. Those injuries can be career ending. But not just career ending, they make you weak when you used to be strong. At that point the only way to make up for it is to carry a gun. And actually that can make up for it. But you can see why this leads to anger among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:35 PM
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brb about to get leg lengthening surgery to climb the ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:26 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:22 PM
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It's actually more like 6'5" these days
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:17 PM
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Yeah average changes over time and is pulled up by extremes. The real statistic should be the mode. What's happening to a majority and zero in on that. What's most common, ignoring the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:58 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:51 PM
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Yeah every day for guys 25 and under. Older guys lose their ability later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:02 AM
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Actually guys see sex as having semen deposited inside a body such that you wouldn't want to touch it if it wasn't yours. They also feel upset for being left out if it wasn't theirs. It's the madona-whore complex. Many guys want a virgin when they too are a virgin, and their sex drive is so high they can't wait. But they also want to have a happy every after fairy tale ending where they get married and she loves no one but him in her entire life and he probably fantasizes about wanting to protec…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:14 AM
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Exactly. This is right. Especially virgin guys, they want sex fast but only with either low body count normal looking women or any body count hot women. They're desperate but also not wanting to feel bad about themselves by being not chosen or leftover. Basically, they don't want to feel disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:09 AM
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Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:46 AM
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Until they learn to NGAF. Every year that I live, the less IGAF. And that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:38 AM
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Exactly. The problem is men will abuse themselves the same way they will abuse a woman. There's no difference. Men have been fighting each other for as long as I've been alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:09 PM
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Also technically evolution is in our control. Whoever has children controls the future. That's how it works. This is why bad guys have had such a large impact for so long, they resort to any means necessary to ensure they get children made including violence or even domestic violence. This is chimpanzee style genetics and there's a lot of chimp dna out there because of it. Bonobos take a different approach, via sperm competition and free sex. As a result, bonobos actually have bigger penises tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:04 PM
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Huh, now that's interesting. I wonder if there is a biological developmental critical window in brain development designed to create bonding in those ages that gets scrapped/pruned if not utilized by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:58 PM
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Nah. Better to fight against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:53 PM
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Interesting. I think 5'8" is still tall enough for a guy with high T anyway. Just not at a night club or bar IMO where the competition is stiff. But I know money can ruin an attractive man. So it's only logical that lots of money can make an unattractive man or be insanely appealing for an already attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:00 AM
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I don't agree with this. I tend to believe it is actually the opposite. Usually narcissists and sociopaths get into relationships with who they want at young ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:51 AM
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Also follow up question, what about after they retire and they're 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:54 AM
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The Bills have been looking good for a while now. I noticed them last year looking real good on the field. They're an up and comer for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:47 AM
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Yeah but I asked anonymously they need to not disclose that fact and rely only on their pro athlete bodies and their personality. In that scenario, what do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:28 AM
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I've always wanted to answer this question. 😍 Here's how I'd do it: I would choose a guy who was legitimately kind deep down and empathetic, not superficially so, but as a true nature. A truly good person at the core, essentially pure of heart. You know, in many respects, lacking a desire for dominance but also someone who is authentic and genuine to themselves without imposing on others. Markedly not narcissistic or sociopathic in any way. Essentially an egalitarian value system and a desire fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:06 PM
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I see both sides. I think it must be really fun to not care about body health and just do whatever you want until you die. But this idea goes to our cultural value of 'what you want is best ' But really science is showing that obesity can have negative biological effects. So you can't just do whatever you want without also hurting yourself in the context of having fun with food/being carefree. Science is showing many things that contradict our culture, including wildlife destruction and burning …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:22 AM
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I had a boss who was overweight once who bought employees lunches as a perk of employment and they got offended when I brought meal prepped lunches. They only bought fast food via delivery apps, like Chick Fill'a and Carl's Jr. She explicitly said they had a reputation for fattening people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:20 AM
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I'm learning to see women differently now anyway. I weigh personality and temperament much more heavily now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:52 PM
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It's bullshit Not true. Men avoid women they like rather than spend time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:13 AM
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I have talked with a girl in Columbia once. I can see what you mean. She was basically just a good person like an innocent kid is, not to imply sexually inactive but pure of heart so to speak -- good intentions and nonmalicous, virtuous etc. Just genuinely a nice person deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:40 AM
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You're assuming we'd pick up after ourselves if we were single. That's not necessarily true 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:36 AM
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People already do that with regular porn and possibly sex toys. It hasn't had any effect. The only effect is they stay sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:35 AM
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I never thought about it before, but that sounds amazing. A magical hand to make a gender-wide windfall of pussy 😍.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:33 AM
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Your mood and mindset can affect other people, especially women, without even saying a word to them or doing anything different holding everything else constant. Being in a positive mood can make flirting successful, and in the exact same circumstance unsuccessful with a negative mood changing absolutely nothing else. It's super weird, even to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:32 AM
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I can definitely see that. Also, wealth is the strongest predictor of basically being an asshole in terms of traditional statistics. Rich people are statistically the biggest assholes. Drinking may be a coping mechanism rather than a symbol of true nature, so that could explain why someone born of a drunk might be a good person. Generally, rich kids are more or less douchebags as a general rule. Sometimes good people are recognized and rewarded as such, but more often rich people are just amoral…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:02 PM
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This is it. This is the answer. I have done exactly this when I was a teenager. It's like looking at the cutest puppy you've ever scene, how could it be evil?! And yet, it there were a cute puppy that was a total asshole 🤯. This is why I now want to know a girl's parents and extended family. If they're huge assholes then that explains everything because genetics (and epigenetics). If her family is innocent and kind then that's a good way of figuring this thing out. Though sometimes it's also the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:55 PM
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This is it. This is the answer. I have done exactly this when I was a teenager. It's like looking at the cutest puppy you've ever scene, how could it be evil?! And yet, it there were a cute puppy that was a total asshole 🤯. This is why I now want to know a girl's dad. If he's a huge asshole then that explains everything because genetics (and epigenetics). If her dad is innocent and kind then that's a good way of figuring this thing out. Though sometimes it's also the opposite because life experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:53 PM
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Well I'm not the same person but lots of guys have these experiences. It's basically a feeling like being sick to your stomach and becoming dizzy and light headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:44 PM
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Lmao! I meant 'good' person. That's crazy. I use my phone for everything so mistypes are possible when I type fast and rush while working. Turns out 'f' is next to 'g' and 'i' is next to 'o' on the keyboard on android.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:39 PM
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Btw studies show status is only attractive during infertile periods. Status doesn't matter during ovulation, which if you are a man ovulation is the most important thing about sex anyway. Pregnancy is the reason to want sex, not as an intentional plan but a primal instinct. For women it's not like that, except when they're ovulating. There's no larger flattery than a woman flirting with you when she's ovulating. The catch is women only ovulate 12 times per year(!) and they all synchronize with e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:08 AM
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*Preselection is low iq. (Fixed it 😈)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:05 AM
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You know, of all girls who ever dated me, they all were into my being a good person. Teens and 20's. They acted as if I was an anomaly. It was deeply disturbing to watch them be pleasantly surprised by being a good person + being a male. But, another large portion of women absolutely hate it and are disgusted by it. It's very polarizing, but I think it has to do with lineages tracing to chimpanzees vs bonobos. As well as the amount of neanderthal DNA present. My personal theory is that neanderth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:00 AM
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The troubling part is actually that the reproductive organs react to assholes. That's always been deeply disturbing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:55 AM
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Asshole =/= anger. Asshole = unegalitarian and lacking kindness. Being a foid person requires morality. Toxic masculinity is actually the absence of morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:52 AM
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This I can agree with. They totally do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:49 AM
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Are you now arguing the opposite position now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:39 AM
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More than a little. I have lived it. Being good looking and broke gets you eye fucked, but not for real fucked. Once they realize you are poor l, their attraction lowers. Not for all, but it is enough to stop a guy from being a player with tons of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:33 AM
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Size is less important than money in today's world. What are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:17 AM
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🤣 Glad to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:24 AM
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🤷🏻 There's something to be said for eating what you like. Our bodies typically naturally crave nutrients when we need them so we'll eat what we need when we need to without consciously thinking about it. It's not a coincidence, it's basically how cravings and flavor works. Also keeps people in a good mood if they can really enjoy their food which can do a lot to relax somebody and balance out stress hormones. So it actually makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:18 AM
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🤣 🤷🏻 I don't know. Men are behind women in mental development to begin with. Teens are pretty sharp, their bodies are undamaged still and their brains work pretty fast. They just don't have many memories, but raw processing speed is actually highest as a teenager. I think a woman is about ~6 years ahead of men in terms of mental maturity. So take a 28 year old male burger flipper and he has the mind of about a ~22 year old female person. Which is within the 18 - 22 years experienced in post seco…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:13 AM
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Darker skin has more natural sun protection built in, so it has the same effect as avoiding the sun without having too up until they exceed the safe limit that darker skin provides. You could also have high collagen. Asian people have higher collagen than whites. I don't know your genetics but that's still true. Nutrition is also a huge factor that really nobody understands or pays attention to today in society. The information just isn't widely known and society isn't structured in a way to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:09 AM
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Yeah I guess. Though, 28 and 18 is actually relatively common if the conditions made it such that the late 20's guy was in a similar life stage as the teen. If the guy was a corporate manager or something then obviously it would make no sense. But if he was flipping burgers for a living it's a lot more likely. But it would suck for the girl because she'd lose 10 years of memories she could have made with someone her age because her guy would be balding in his 30's more likely than not. With a te…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:38 AM
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Well your good skin is probably caused by you avoiding the sun. It's a smart move.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:36 AM
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Because I think it's gross to realize your dick is in a place where another guy's cum has been all over. It's like using a dirty plate with someone else's leftover food still on it. But I guess vaginas are self cleaning so I guess it's fine just as long as there was enough time for it to clean itself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:33 AM
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Hmm well it is technically still 'older.'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:30 AM
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Staying out of the sun will play a huge role. As will being stress free. If you have a good life, you'll age slower. Some people really grind starting at puberty. They might have deadbeat parents or be in poverty or have relatives in gangs. Many things actually. Even people who start out in good families can experience divorce, home foreclosure, adult poverty or homelessness etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:28 AM
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I mean... what else would it be?? I think younger women also get wetter and more easily as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:34 AM
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The weirdest thing of all is that people in their late 20's are not the ones giving me attention now all the sudden. It's mostly teenagers, 20 year olds, 21 - 23 year olds. And then also 40 - 45 year olds. People in their late 20's and 30's are flat out not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:32 AM
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Really.. 🤔. I just find that hard to believe somehow. What about ovulation? Maybe ovulating sex drive is more intense in teenage women or even 20 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:27 AM
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So basically everyone is in the same boat. That's so weird. Btw, I feel like teen girls have higher sex drives? Like 18 - 19 the highest of all? no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:56 AM
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Only draw back is sex drive was higher when younger so it's less enjoyable now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:32 PM
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It's happening to me. I'll say that. I don't get why it's happening. Mentally I'm still the 23 year old who basically never had sex. But suddenly now in my late 20's I don't really know why. I'm not rich. But you know actually I think it could just be all the people who rejected me previously are now older and married or are already moms. That leaves a bunch of single younger people. Maybe that's why. Maybe they're all ignoring younger guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:42 PM
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Average is 170lbs? 5'4" makes perfect sense. As does 5'9" for men. But 170lbs seems pretty unhealthy unless you're an athlete. Just like a 40" waist is also pretty unhealthy on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:45 PM
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I don't really know. I don't really understand why. I was never that selective. Even so, I got rejected a lot so I'm not high body count. Not really. If anything, I just enjoy getting attention in public while working. I almost never expect it to turn into anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:50 PM
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But it's reassuring to see. And it makes the guys perhaps feel like jerks which maybe is deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:18 AM
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I think women today just became more picky. Lots of guys would love to have sex with whoever whenever on a dime. The bottleneck is not the men. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:22 AM
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I wonder about that. I only work 12:30 to 6 or 6:30 3 days a week. Any more than that I feel is not worth it as it begins to affect my sleep and mood. I really like to sleep 10 hours and relax during the day. I only work at all because society sort of forces it to have food. If I had 3 or 4 roomates in a studio then I could pay it. Maybe a one bedroom. But 3 or 4 people in a one bedroom sounds worse than living in a vehicle 🤷🏻. The only advantage would be having a toilet to use and maybe a centr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:56 PM
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The food concerns aren't really valid if you're smart about it. Organic bpa-free canned foods, plus a portable grill with natural wood pellets and with a cast iron pan with an ice cooler nets everything you could ever need. You'll probably eat better than full time working people because they don't have enough control over their time to control their food intake, they likely eat a bunch of take out or free cafeteria foods which are going to leave holes in their nutrition needs and overdose them …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:12 PM
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How is it possible for you to work a gig economy and have an entire apartment to yourself? How many hours do you work? I'm talking about working 19 - 20 hours-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:39 PM
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Well yeah it's definitely a homeless option caused by basically by working too few hours to afford any housing, but enough to afford a car. But it doesn't necessarily imply low quality of life though it is illegal in all states except for 3. It being illegal makes it troublesome because police officers have the right to harass you or tell you to leave. However in Oregon, for example, homelessness is actually legal. So there's actually no problem in oregon, you can sleep wherever you want as long…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:52 PM
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I wonder what happens in the opposite case? The guy just isn't allowed to live with the rest of the family?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:50 PM
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Yeah maybe I'm just out of touch. But if one good income isn't enough then nothing about our society makes any sense and it will probably change itself to make more sense at some point not too far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:45 PM
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Hmmm. I don't know. That's debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:47 AM
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I'd do it. Money is a social construct, producing babies is not. Babies are real. In the end, offspring exist even if society crumbles. Money does not. In some sense money is not even real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:35 AM
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Well I mean stay home dad would be fine. Can't see why not. But for one the man provides the genetics for the children. His genetic code is the fabric of the quality of the babies produced. As is the woman's. That should be enough already. And this includes personality traits, as personality also is a product of your genes. But of course there's a natural desire to care about your loved ones and become dedicated to them and thus a family is born. You know I don't understand modern society's arti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:33 AM
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The last part, I just mean good genetics. Compatible genetics. Strong compatibility between two person's genetic diversity. Breeding with people who are too genetically similar to you produces birth defects, disabilities and deformities. It's like inbreeding. We're naturally aroused by people who are specifically complimentary to our personal genetics such that there is no universal attraction. Things like smell, smell of arousal fluids, skin color and composition, eye color and hair color, body…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:21 AM
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Well what I'm saying is actually that the man doesn't need to be the breadwinner. It doesn't matter who the breadwinner is, just as long as there is at least one is my point. Other factors, like genetic compatibility, are too important to throw away just because the man is not the breadwinner maybe. That's what I'm saying, like don't throw out the baby with the bath water. And if the girl legitimately has a good income then what's the problem. Money requirements are already satisfied and other f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:56 AM
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I see what you mean there. Teaching is a rare example of a field notably lacking sociopaths (at the high school level and below, there's plenty in colleges imo). Most private industries are packed to the brim with sociopaths, among the high earning professions. That's naturally where they all end up, because where else would they go? So I think lots of good people wind up doing jobs that are unattractive for various reasons. You know, perhaps they're just not teacher material or have any desire …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:49 AM
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Even if they are legitimately good people, kind and caring etc. also. The trouble is who controls employment and financial security? And the answer often is 'sociopaths do.' And this muddies things a little bit because lots of land lords, politicians and business owners are really bad people.So it isn't so black and white where financial stability = good and poor = bad. You also have to account for why somebody is secure or poor, and the reasons behind their life decisions. Someone could be poor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:28 PM
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I think it has to do with money and social reputation. Specifically, having a job that pays enough to afford a market rate home or apartment and an ability to live normally. I think problems happen when you can't afford to live a normal life. From what I can tell, this is really the only important thing. Keeping normality, normality of good health, normality of market rate housing, normality of everything. I think deviations from the normal are what women fear the most. And an age dependent norm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:35 PM
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I see the issue with homeless laws and criminalization of that. That is really the only real issue, which I think is put into place so that people such as myself can't easily cheat the system which is exactly what my intentions are. It's a chimpanzee thing if you ask me, trying to control everyone. Anyway. I feel like I know of some good locations off hand where they're pretty remote and aloof but close to food retailers and work opportunities. Essentially metropolitan areas, but with pockets of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:06 AM
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I'm under 30. I've been able to grow a beard since high school. I feel like my avatar leads people to believe that I'm middle aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:31 AM
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Well I tick all those boxes except for saving for retirement. But arguably it's already like being retired for your entire life. With a little smarts I think it could be a luxurious lifestyle of basically cheating the system. The biggest drawback in my opinion that actually bothers me a little bit is not being able to have a garden. That's the one thing for me. Also, software engineers (I think) work at least full time. Part of my goals were to work part-time for life. Specifically to never star…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:13 AM
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Hmm. I don'y see why food needs to be bad. I am very passionate about food and nutrition, I could be considered someone who lives to eat. There are ways to eat exactly the same foods living in van/car/suv. Specifically, keeping a portable charcoal grill in the trunk or wherever you designate it for storage, along with a good ice chest/cooler and a cast iron pan. The iron pan can handle open flames. Charcoal is safe to store inside a vehicle, unlike propane, and will actually filter the air insid…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:49 AM
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I am actually talking about living in a van for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:32 AM
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I come across them randomly while out in public in metropolitan areas, usually on the weekend on places like restaurants and shopping malls. But also at retail or food service jobs. Like I said, I'm basically a hobo so I work the same jobs that teenagers work. But I take care to have good nutrition and health by tracking micros and macros on cronometer, so I look healthy and young at 28. People struggle to guess my age often. Though, admittedly, low income can make this more difficult to pull of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:51 AM
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Arguably there are no good people on Tinder. 🤷🏻‍♂️ But I don't use online 'dating' apps at all. I never liked them and never got what I wanted put of them in the first place. In person is much better. But I'm just becoming more old fashion in a lot of ways. As I get older I understand what I value in other people more and what I oppose. I think the founder of Tinder is an asshole, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:10 AM
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So that's what it's like being a woman. Wow. That sounds frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:05 AM
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Which annoyed me a lot when I was 20 because all I wanted was to do just that. I would have been a good dad too. But 🤷🏻‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:02 AM
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It does. I'm 28 nearing 29 and for the first time in my life hot 20 year olds check me out and flirt with me. I have never in my life had so many options, ever. And I'm basically a hobo. If I was making 6 figures, oh boy. Look out. I'd probably be drowning is p*ssy. 🤷🏻‍♂️ 🤣 It must be what it's like to be a teenage girl. When I was a teen nobody even glanced twice in my direction, except for when I was 19. I was looking good then. But that was a one time/fluke occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:00 AM
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It's a flawed comparison because women have less time to enjoy being sexually active. When you compare lifespan enjoyment between sexes, women have more fun in teens to mid 20's, but a man can overtake her wildest teen adventures given enough time to catch up and pull ahead as he matures in terms of fun and sexual enjoyment had. The next generation of teenage women will suddenly look to him for their wild fun lives and so on for the next generation of young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:34 PM
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Big brained post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:00 AM
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I love this response. Very accurate. Though, one unrelated thing: why would a higher income person demand more from a partner when their income is higher than twice the other person's income and is therefore capable of supporting two adults?? 🤷🏻‍♂️ Guys use their income to pay for an entire family all the time. Why none of that with women who earn high wages? It's almost a waste of a high wage not to support a family with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:18 PM
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Ohhh. All this time I thought it was Alpha Female (in her 30's), Beta Boyfriend. Or something. Which actually seems kind of realistic. I wouldn't classify myself as either A or B honestly, but in recent times I have done okay. I'm basically a hobo who lives in a car because I don't want to work more than 6 hours a day and I care very much about health and nutrition and use cronometer and whole foods to dial everything in with (bpa-free) canned foods actually. It's kind of remarkable what whole f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:12 AM
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I keep telling people, only if they're jealous of being excluded will a man slut shame. That's the truth. If hot girl is fucking everyone but me, and I get rejected by her I'm gonna slut shame her. If hot girl is fucking me and everyone else, I'm gonna be happy. Do I actually behave this way? No. I intentionally do not in an effort to be respectful and civil etc. Is this the natural male instinct? Yeah I think so. One other possibility is a man will want commitment, in that case then he'll get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:11 AM
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Exactly. Those bums aren't real bums because they have drug money and freedom to do whatever they want (because they're lawless). They just look like bums because they probably don't have time to maintain some appearance. They're probably busy running drugs all the time, or worse if they wear blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:48 PM
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Hmm. I actually don't feel that way. But I have been alone for most of my life so it could be that I just don't know any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:51 PM
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Plus, what about a regular sex drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:22 PM
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Well I mean as a business owner you still need to depend on people buying your product. Look at Meta/Facebook right now, they used to be high rolling but now they're panicking and scrambling because they're losing profits. They put up a hiring freeze and are laying people off. 🤷🏻‍♂️ But I think it is true that most people's quality of life would be decreased by communism, but the people at the bottom would probably see an increase in quality of life in communism if you can believe that. Basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:37 PM
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Idk man I think my ship has already sailed. I went from student to homeless in a couple months 3 years ago and never recovered. But prior to all that, I basically followed a mantra of 'be the same everywhere, and just be yourself.' And it actually worked. Between 23 and 25 I was doing great. Very healthy, financially secure on grants. The right age. Went on dates, made friends etc. But I was the right age at the right time then. Homelessness is what caused my problems and I think is what made me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:43 AM
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Yeah idk man. When I was financially dependent I did fine in dating and actually found that being myself was better than acting. However, becoming financially independent I never became financially secure. I definitely don't have my shit together 😆. Never have either. But then again, in a capitalism it isn't guaranteed anyone will. Which I actually think is a problem, but I'm a communist so that explains that. But after a certain age it stops mattering. I think it's basically you're either on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:47 AM
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I seem to have skipped the teenage to early 20's life stage you speak of. Never experienced that. Then again, a friend took me out on my 21st birthday to a bar downtown and I didn't even like the experience. I sort of hate that crowd. Was never into it. I honestly think I'm sort of more bold or straightforward in socially unaccepted ways. Like I don't need or want alcohol for sex Like, straight up I could just be out in public in broad daylight and not give a fuck and be willing to do anything w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:13 AM
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I grew up in suburbs so I'm used to shorts snd t shirt daily for the most part. But recently I became conscious of sun safety and have begun to move towards that, jeans and long sleeves, brands like Coolibar, hemp and wool long sleeve shirts, thick hoodies, hemp or wool crewneck sweaters, denim pants stuff like that. My childhood neighborhood was is a deep blue area politically so people were actually pretty frugal generally speaking even though the homes were actually pretty expensive. A lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:05 AM
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Yeah right... you don't base every decision around your entire financial life on accident. You must have done it on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:56 AM
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Man... fuck that. Ain't worth it. I wonder if it was the same in the mid 2000's.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:42 AM
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🙄🙄🙄 Says who honestly? When I was a kid, people valued kindness and good charachter traits that made you an empathetic good person. Today people seem to care about basically narcissism and psychopathy. For example, car and 'pad' are superificial and shallow in ways that health is not. Cheap cars are also financially more responsible than expensive cars and studies show people with expensive cars actually have more debt. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:08 AM
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Well style is not being sick or ill, though chronic illness often happens with age. Take someone age 19 - 26. No visible aging whatsoever. Say they value nutrition and health and take the appropriate steps in that regard. Now, say they simply allow hair to grow naturally uninhibited and wear clothing that's just ordinary primarily focused on sun safety. 🤷🏻‍♂️ This is what I mean. Once age gets you there's not much that can be done other than prevent future damage. The guy with an intentional hai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:56 AM
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No more like needing a good source of inspiration and motivation but also checks. Basically it probably is a mix of annoying and not. But one thing is for sure, being in love changes behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:46 AM
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I can see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:13 AM
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Hmm. I can see that as well, but it seems less organic. Like if you are wealthy and hit on a cashier at a grocery store. Or any girl under 27 working any cashier job anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:12 AM
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That's what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:10 AM
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I get annoyed when women choose narcissists tbh. Seems many or most want someone who obsesses over their intentional style rather than just be however they naturally look doing nothing. I bet this is socially engineered by sociopaths at the top of corporations in the beauty industry yo preserve their kind into future generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:09 AM
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Sure but salary is all I mean. Compare Walmart cashier to 'any job that pays $60,000 - $65,000/year.' The woman will push for that middle class salary or leave his ass probably. But a single man will just be a Walmart cashier forever if it pays his bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:06 AM
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Completely agree. I meant always one good one, not multiple at once. Multiple at once is just unnecessary chaos. And fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:05 AM
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Damn right. I'd NEETmax all day long and be in better health for it. But that is no longer an option, which is probably shortening my lifespan to be honest. But people today don't fully understand epigenetic clocks yet. It'll be the cigarette of the future looking back on the 21st century in the 22nd century it will be obvious how bad working is for our health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:15 PM
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Depends how many pussy's you've felt and how long ago it was and how young or old you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:13 PM
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Check Cronometer.com for info. I'm not qualified to say what is or isn't a good diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:13 PM
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Well they're single right? I wouldn't expect single women to give out free support.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:12 PM
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Nagging that you aren't making enough is a huge motivator compared to hearing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:10 PM
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🤷🏻 Even the top 20% get old and ugly too. Especially if they're poor and lack proper nutrition and good working conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:09 PM
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True, but what job do you have and what do you do to try to get good jobs that you wouldn't have done on your own? A lot of people would probably be a bum if they had no other reason not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:34 PM
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I figure a lazy guy could decide to stop being lazy if he loved someone enough. I figure a lazy guy doesn't care enough without that extrinsic motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:32 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:31 PM
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Idk, basic jobs are actually miserable enough to make a person hate working at all and prefer being unemployed. I don't think that's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:30 PM
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Nutrition probably does cause higher iq as shown by the flinn effect so the high quality food might well lead to an invention. There's a reason good ideas don't often come from ghettos. Look up Horvath's epigenetic clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:28 PM
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And she won't allow him to be a bum, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:26 PM
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But who improves faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:25 PM
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Big if. Highly unlikely unless under 30 with income $65,000/year or more and have a corporate job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:23 PM
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Are you from San Jose? 🤣 'Top neighborhood?!' Lmao. But I wasn't even thinking rich, I'm thinking the difference between being a broke-ass bum and being middle class. A woman wouldn't allow her BF to sit around and be a bum because she'd probably break up with him and tell him to get haircuts, shave, shower and try to get a better job than Walmart cashier. A single guy might just not give a fuck and be a walmart cashier or be unemployed and not get haircuts. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:19 PM
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I am thinking about 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:14 PM
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But how will you stay motivated if you have nothing motivating you? I think that's what I'm saying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:14 PM
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What is AF BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:09 AM
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I know man. I'm talking about irrational numbers like √2, Pi, the length of a diagonal of a unit square, pretty much square root of anything is irrational. There's something fundamentally disturbing about euclidean geometry. As for the military, I'm a conscientious objector so that could never work. I simply don't belong in America but at the same time I cannot get a permanent visa in other countries I want to get one in because I wouldn't qualify for a high skill visa/work permit, have no savin…
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:09 AM
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Thing is I already went to college and I can't do stem because I don't believe in the real numbers/continuity. I think it's insane how people blindly believe in the dogma of irrational mathematics when there's no reason to believe, other than it 'works' for science and engineering. Which seems to me to be at best a coincidence. I believe everything is discrete and that the resolution is so high that most of us can't tell the difference between granularity and smooth-continuity. It seems obvious …
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:00 PM
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I think so. Less collagen, more developed brain earlier sexual development.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:56 PM
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That is true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:52 AM
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Well I mean this is hard to say but a big portion of sexual attraction is pregnancy and fertility. You know guys go wild over 20 year olds (subconsciously) because fertility is what is physically sexy. It's not a deliberate decision it's just something automatic somehow. A lot of men ~35 want to have kids if they haven't already. Capitalism is cruel because it's designed to hurt people in their young fertile ages to maintain control over power long term (damn psychopaths). Premenopausal sex hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:20 AM
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What about nomadic lifestyles where work and family was the same thing basically? Hunting's actually not that hard with bow and arrow. All you need is basic athleticism. Under 30 that'd be easy peasy man. Can he chasing down wild turkeys, boar, buffalo would scare me not gonna lie 😂. But turkeys and boars for sure. Though, a joint injury would really ruin things for sure. Or something like that. That's one area modern society is better. Post injury.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:57 AM
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Exactly my same problem man! Society... am I right? 😂 Everybody today just wants to be on birth control until 30 smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:54 AM
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I think that's normal. Admittedly, I hate working. So SAHD is like early retirement 😁. But at the same time what could be better than spending time raising a family? I can't really think of anything better. So on the one hand... but then also on the other... 🤷🏻. I think in ancient times basically family raising and 'work' was the same thing. Teach hunting and gathering, play, relax, enjoy living, build shelter etc. nomadic lifestyle basically. I still have some of that in me in modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:52 AM
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Well then... 🙋🏻😀. When you're ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:47 AM
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This is a catch22 because you won't get any men if you never have sex fyi. Plus pregnancy over 40 is risky no?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:45 AM
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And it feels very oppressive and wrong, like toying with nature. I see so many injustices caused by society. Leads me to believe in at least one way society is malicious and run by psychopaths tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:03 PM
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😂 what?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:55 PM
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I'd think so. They'll probably decide they like doing some hobbies and would want to go do them. Btw, this is exactly why I wanted kids at 19 so that I could be 25 when they were 6 and out running wild. I could match their energy. By the time I was 30 they'd be 10 and we'd both be settling down at the same time. 🤷🏻 smh. The working world really ruins that lifestyle, both in making 19 year old men unattractive to women who want to get pregnant (generally speaking) and in sucking away all your tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:48 PM
1

There seems to be a correlation between desiring early retirement and resisting stay home parenting. It's understandable, as a stay home parent essentially gets to retire early and enjoy life playing with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:46 PM
1

I see this with single people in public as well. Usually employees are kind of being put into golden handcuffs too though, so the whole thong is silly. Founders probably don't care about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:40 PM
1

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:39 PM
1

Isn't the baby the hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:39 PM
2

:D well I did mention homeschooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:54 AM
1

😆 That's why I'd do no things but frolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:44 AM
1

No unfortunately. I'm speaking hypothetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:59 AM
0

Hmm. The difference to me is with a nanny they're not your kids. It could never be 'work' with my own kids. How could I want to do anything else than constantly frolic with my kids? It would be impossible to not have fun taking care of them. I just wish I was younger. I wanted kids at 19 and I stand by that as a reasonable age for me to have had kids. But at 19 I simply could not attract a person to have kids with, with one asterisk. There was one girl who was 3 - 4 years older than me. She was …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:48 AM
2

Of course, the stay home dad-type is probably a laid back inward facing persona. A homebody primarily in the private sphere of life. In my case, I'm content to mind my own business and essentially not involve others in my day to day affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:44 AM
3

Lmao. Slightly misogynistic take.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:39 AM
2

Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:38 AM
1

I think a implies b here 😆.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:11 AM
4

lols 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:05 AM
3

Ha! No man I don't any purpose, especially if I had kids then they'd be my purpose. As a single guy in school all I did was skip class, lie in grass listening music all day relaxing and eat vietnamese take out. It was like heaven on earth. Total freedom. Pure serotonin day in and day out. I also went to the movies often. Everyday I just picked something fun like 'beach' or 'park' or 'movie theater' or 'hiking trail' and then picked out what I wanted to eat. I felt zero agitation whatsoever. In t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:58 AM
1

😍🥺 Yeah I definitely want that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:54 AM
3

Yeah man. But there might be some high rolling women out there who don't need any more income. That's the future with our education system regardless of why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:21 AM
1

😆 Yeah I think there's a good amount of that out there. I definitely get it, but also I do feel there are merits when natural talents lean in opposite directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:19 AM
1

I think you're right about the boob thing. That is a big problem. But actually, I already know I'd love raising kids. There is no doubt about that. I have a brother who is 10 years younger than me that I helped raise after my family divorced. For me, punctuality is what I hate the most and why I suck at working a job. I like to have freedom to explore impulses and I would honestly allow my kids to do the same. Living in the present moment, doing what feels right etc. So cravings, intuition to sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:15 AM
6

Well, hello 🙋🏻. 😏😁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:30 PM
1

Probably better for sun safety actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:03 PM
1

You know, I don't actually know because I get wildly different responses when I change haircuts or clothing styles. Which is surprising because I'm the same person regardless. But ultimately, I have pretty good athletic genes and a decent head on my shoulders and actually a lot of hobbies. My primary issue is I'm sort of anti-conformist and rebellious. So I don't keep jobs well. So basically I'm pretty much a good enough person, but I generally lack money and don't necessarily have skills to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:07 AM
5

People are also becoming ruder and less genuine and less fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:22 AM
3

Yeah 🤷🏻. It's the kind of place where money determined everything. Rich kids fucked, poor kids got shot and cooked fast food. Gangs were the wild cards. A way for the poor kids to get money. But that said the rich kids in that town were poor compared to the wealth an hour north. It was all relative. But yeah the gangs sold drugs to the rich kids so they needed each other. It's always a symbiotic relationship. There's never a ghetto far from a wealthy suburb. One can't exist without the other. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:36 AM
2

No they were in relationships or even married. In that city they were mostly dating gang affiliates as that was the big popular culture over there. It was the kind of place where nobody was fazed by gunshots across the street from time to time. The guys were low income, kids of gang members. All of them pretty much obese. I think there were 3 murders while I was working there actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:23 AM
1

Idk but I would think so. But again, most people actually live in high col states and high col states have the highest rates of poverty (which is kind of logical/obvious) and kids living with their parents in high col areas can't afford to move. So I think that's how these situations come about in the first place. Also brutal how you didn't even deny my argument and basically agreed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:17 AM
5

You know, in my extended family none of the men had any kids and most of them never got married. The most attractive one married a woman 10 years older than him and had no kids. On the other hand, all the women got married and most of them had kids. But anyways just jumped in to share that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:08 AM
15

I worked at a pizza shop for a year and all the men were single and sexless and all the women had boyfriends except for one girl who was in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:04 AM
2

It could be that many who struggle do so because of where they were born. For example, someone might be born in a metropolitan area of California and be poor, fail out of school, etc. and be living in one of the most expensive areas in the country with their parents. Same scenario in Georgia or even Florida is probably a lot different than that scenario in metropolitan California. Statistically, these metropolitan coastal cities are home to the majority of the US population actually. So it actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:31 AM
1

I have a sleep disorder so I don't feel I have time to even shower when employed. I need to be in bed longer than most people. I may have sleep apnea, but at the very least I have long sleeper syndrome. Waking up before 9:30am is just not in the cards for me. My natural sleep rhythm is ~10:45pm - 9:30am if I'm free to live as I please. I can only work 6 hours a day comfortably. Something like 12:30pm - 6:30pm, for example, is comfortable. But basically no employers (for low skill jobs) want to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:01 PM
1

I'm trying to figure out how employment itself doesn't wreck your health and make you ugly due to time constraints...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:25 AM
0

😂 I agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:51 PM
1

And this is why I'm a communist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:41 PM
3

I'm starting to understand women by experiencing economic struggle combined with limited education. Many women, I think, experience this situation. Combined with aging and stress over biological clocks, pregnancies, income vs time vs age and I guess also attractiveness over time. Women generally have less collagen than men. In my experience women have the skin and hair density, roughly, of a man 10 years older. So a guy can't understand adult women until he turns 28, is single, childless and une…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:28 AM
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I've been all over the map. Have had periods of dating and periods of no dating. Got most attention at 19 and 25. I have a sleep disorder that makes holding a job difficult for me. On the one hand, I have literally not showered for a week and still got hit on at work. Have been essentially homeless and eye fucked, but also been broke and disliked ror being broke under 30. In school, at 19 I got dates but was scared to kiss people because I had a pediatric dentist who pulled a tooth of mine that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:48 AM
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I mean maybe if the guy lacks morals then yeah. However they'd also need to be stable enough to make money to pay for survival too. Also ugly is widely varied. It's really crazy how different neighborhoods value different traits. You could be a celebrity in one city and ugly in another. Genetic variety and compatibility, presence of hormonal birth control and social values all affect it it's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:45 AM
2

🤷🏻 oh okay 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:42 AM
7

Well people won't actually do whatever they want. It's possible, for example, for someone with unrestricted sociosexuality to be often rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:31 AM
1

What about their rejection count and ratio of acceptances to rejections. That could be telling, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:27 AM
-2

Mental illness 🤣. Highly doubt any man with mental illness could successfully reach 100. Women, if young, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:26 AM
-1

I think it's hormonal birth control. How can you choose a sex partner if you never ovulate? It defies common sense. It's also been shown to change preferences in men. I have noticed a pattern in my life. Nobody I have ever dated has been on birth control. I don't think that's a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:56 PM
1

Well thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:31 PM
1

And that's exactly why I'm a communist (for the latter half). Making money (imo) =/= being a great person. Actually often the opposite, with corporate life favoring clinical narcissists and psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:26 PM
1

Damn. I didn't even distinguish a difference between dead beat and incompetence. You mean to tell me there are people who choose to be a dead beat but could do better?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:14 PM
2

I felt like a creep. She was obviously not fully mentally developed and was telling me her life plans and aspirations and it all sounded so naive and immature. She was in community college, had big dreams for med school but no realistic plan to get there. Idk like I said, it felt wrong. I felt like I would have taken advantage of her imo. She was beautiful though. Gorgeous girl. She was down about working all the time, told me her schedule and when she got off work etc. But when I got fired, I n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:32 AM
1

Some guys actually have ethics when it comes to teenagers my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:17 AM
0

Lmao. I could have my man. I just haven't had sex, due my own laziness/emotional unavailability, for years now. I'm starting to want to again, but I've aged physically since the last time I was sexually active. I may have missed out on sex in my 20's entirely I think. Capitalism was too strong. Kept me down at low wages for too long. I always wanted to rent an apartment and be content before I dated and became sexually active but I could never get there. I underestimated American selfishness. Pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:17 AM
-2

Dude this is just wrong. I was working retail making wages that could never pay rent as a temp worker getting hit on by literally all the female employees including my boss. I think they thought I was teenager but none the less. Absolutely zero chance for wealth. Zero chance for status etc. They just liked the fact that I was healthy and nice. Straight up. Literally dozens of teenage women and college age women. I couldn't believe it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:45 AM
0

What about a third option of actually being a dead beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:34 AM
8

I thought the purple pill thing was just a mix of red and blue pill debating at stuff. Is that not the case?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:46 AM
4

Wow a 40" waist is average?! at the height of 5'9"?! I wasn't expecting that. I guess all the 5'9" guys with 32" waists are above average. Who knew...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:36 PM
1

Really? I figured the average guy in the US would be basically a 5'9" white guy who's skinny-fat. By no means overweight at all, actually just an ordinary healthy body. For example, like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:03 PM
1

They're actually the same thing to a woman, I think. At least that's the impression I get. The way you dress, your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, the way you walk. I suspect a woman would say those things are your looks, basically. Weird as f*ck right? Many guys would judge things like hormone levels, age/fertility, nutrition quality, percieved 'tightness.' etc as 'looks' and 'behavior, mannerisms, values' etc. as personality. None the less that is the impression I get. It must be too exhausti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:48 PM
1

True. I'll say metropolitan areas in California. Including northern California.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:56 PM
3

Idk man. What about penis wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:03 PM
3

It's just a shame communism has failed everywhere because capitalism ruins the lives of 20 year olds big time. How sad is that? Our physical peaks, ruined by middle aged people. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:44 PM
2

Wtf. Why...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:38 PM
3

Actually early 20's is the ideal window of fertility for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:36 PM
4

Depends on the state In California, for example, obesity is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:29 PM
1

I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:22 PM
0

Dude I don't think that's right. You keep saying 'tall' attractive men. However, I know tall guys who struggle and tall guys who don't. I also know men under 6' who don't struggle at all. I also know guys under 5'10" who don't struggle. I agree that the math doesn't add up and women are fucking some guys more than once. However, I don't think there's a universal explanation. The redundancy is spread out over a variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:23 AM
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🤷🏻 Idk man. I've seen some of that. But my experience is its more about style than anything else assuming somebody is at least average in genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:16 AM
0

I basically don't keep close friendships with other men in general. Except for christians honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:56 PM
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Honestly, I don't think this is actually right. I think hot women use their looks to be more selective, not less, and wind up with unique men that fit their personal criteria honest to god. Besides, usually 'style' makes or breaks a chad. A hair style, clothing choices, communication styles (I've recently learned) all make or break a chad regardless of genetics. I think popularity is also factored in. A willingness to be on trend etc. You know I think there's probably a lot of sacrifices a man h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:29 PM
2

I don't know man. I wonder if that's really accurate. I think it has to do with something else besides height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:18 PM
3

Well because it basically means men aren't loved unconditionally the same way men will love women. It's also very possible to look a certain way and be unlike an assumed archetype based on appearance. And it's possible to have no archetype at all. It would be sweet to individually love a person based on who they individually are deep down, but you didn't say that. You said archetypes, and honestly most guys don't care about that except for maybe red pill people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:48 PM
3

Well shit, that's fascinating and a little discouraging! 🤣 It also explains very much, and is a little depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:20 PM
2

Huh that's so funny and strange. I mentioned beards because I thought you meant values as in what you stand for, ethics, beliefs etc. So I said I knew people who shared ethics, beliefs, stood for the same things but still separated. I figured the contention could have been a refusal to shave or get a hair cut. I never considered anything like communication or attachment styles. It has never even occurred to me once to even think about the way I communicate, ever, before now. I have certainly nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:12 PM
1

🤣 lmao? I guess so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:07 PM
4

Huh. I guess so. Oddly, orgasms aren't really the thing men want. They can do that themselves easily. But a hand is dry. It's not like a vagina. Hands have no smell, no hormones. There's no excitement or adrenaline. Hands don't change colors and darken and swell with blood. Etc. The list of differences goes on and on. Men's love of women's bodies runs deep beyond the orgasm. It's like a delicacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:06 PM
1

I thought you meant like values as in ethics, belief systems, what you stand for etc. I suppose it would make sense to separate if conflict management, communication style(? what is that) and attachment style (? Also don't know what this is 🤣) were different. But I definitely agree that beards are not a value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:52 PM
2

See this is why guys need sex. We lose our minds without it. 🤣 I like to say men are always ovulating as an analogy. At least in our teens and early 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:44 PM
3

Still better than only masturbating in some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:42 PM
20

Makes you wonder. I often wonder who exactly people are having sex with. Always been a mystery to me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:40 PM
10

You know, it's odd but my experiences are so skewed growing up in a high income area now that I think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:37 PM
2

Ehh I hear you but I don't because I can think of examples of aligned values not working out because, say, the guy had a beard under 25 and refused to shave or even he had long hair and refused to cut it short.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:34 PM
5

There's actually a tier beyond insta influencer: the 20 year old naturally genetically gifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:32 PM
1

Very odd man. I have the exact opposite scenario. Drives me crazy.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:54 AM
1

Retail jobs are a good one, big social places like department stores and malls. Jobs that are safe and not physically risky.
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:43 AM
4

It's only creepy if they don't like you.
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:41 AM
1

Will plan for that next time. Was a lot of young college aged people at 1am though.
/r/seduction31/05/22 12:45 AM
1

How does age affect things?
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:21 PM
1

Well on the bright side, at least I don't have any stds. All the very sexually active people I know have stds of some kind. Really puts things into perspective imo, especially since most of them are pretty terrible diseases.
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:30 PM
1

Well I'm not really that bad looking but (though I got new wrinkles on the back of my hands this week, aldo starting to get wrinkles between my toes and fingers) I also want to play by my own rules, meaning my haircut is not in style and I do odd things. 🤷🏻 I know this, but I also am not willing to change that for now. I haven't really had sex more than twice in my life, besides having gone to strip clubs a handful of times and getting extras in lap dances 🤷🏻. No real relationships or anything. …
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:29 PM
1

Cost of living + student loans + earning potential.
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:01 PM
1

🤷🏻 I don't see myself ever thriving with that kind of lifestyle. I may be able to work in data science but other than that there's really not much else. I don't get along with the working class world well so those jobs are a waste of my time and only serve to piss off the people working them to be honest. Working from home or in a corporate office where punctuality is unimportant could actually work out relatively well. I have the statistics background to be fine in data science. I'm now just bu…
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:49 PM
2

I usually get fired for showing up late. They've all been retail, food service or manual labour. I got into the weird situation where I'm better suited for more advanced work that requires critical thinking, analysis and original thoughts and ideas but I dropped out of school so I don't get interviews for those. On the other hand, I'm not well suited to narrow repetitive tasks for low income jobs with no education requirements. Never have been. I have no place in society. I was a philosophy majo…
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:19 PM
1

🤣 Well this worked and got me laughing at least. I bring value mostly non-monetarily. Besides being broke, I'm kind of a good person. However, money as a gatekeeper is negatively affecting my life outcomes. I feel like this is social engineering. But anyway I do see your point.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:35 PM
1

yeah man, but I'm past that stage of life. I don't have time or resources to shoot shit in a coffee shop.
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:16 PM
1

Tbh, I'm not really an idiot and I don't really dress that bad. I just have big money problems and they've endured for the last 3 years of my life and I don't see it changing soon. I've always been really bad at making money. In other ways I'm a decent looking guy. Was never cut out for capitalism. It's just not my thing. I'm more of a commie at heart. I'm also a bit of a loner too, but that one at least is voluntary (which might be a bad thing too).
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:27 AM
1

You might have a point with abandon. I literally have nothing to lose, so I could become much more comfortable with rejection much more frank like 'this is how I am, take it or leave it.'
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:24 AM
3

Well, I have a $4,000 car and I live in my dad's RV... so that's possibly a little different? I also can't really afford the car insurance anymore either to be honest.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:05 AM
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Meh there's an opportunity cost to denying people -- losing sex opportunities. I've just begun to realize it's average to have sex 2 - 3 times per week for people age 19 - 29. Every year or week you go behind that is an opportunity cost.
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:56 AM
1

😂 I'm 28 and as broke as an 18 y/o.
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:47 AM
7

😫 jeez. I guess I have to rethink it again
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:25 AM
3

I know man, but how long am I going to wait? I'm already 28. I've been like this for years. I don't want to keep waiting.
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:19 AM
2

How so?
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 02:35 AM
1

Wtf. So basically, fhe two richest men ever Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos, and the next one, Elon Musk, all failed marriages.
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 12:40 AM
1

I understand that. But, IMO, it sounds like a cope. I can get the right outfit on and the right haircut and resentfully get a hookup if I wanted without paying for anything but expensive clothes. But I'd probably hate it anyway. I think college is the only easy time out there-ish. So people who don't go to college are extremely disadvantaged. And I think college is extremely stupid as a place of learning in general so that's already playing into the crapshoot right off the bat. Tuition, housing,…
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 12:37 AM
2

I feel the same way, but there is one issue. Lack of sex is bringing me down man. There had got to be a way to merge a sex life with MGTOW in some way that avoids all the terror of society and marriage.
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 04:25 AM
5

Prenup seems smart.
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 04:22 AM
4

Damn anf here I was feeling down about being unmarried. Side note: would Bill have been capable of having children without marriage? Because, if not then it is still worth it. If women take control over reproduction, then losing half your wealth is still worth the price of reproducing.
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 04:20 AM
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