I expect this to be controversial, but I've come to the conclusion that the economic status quo is unethical thus being complicit in it is guilty by association. Therefore, trad wives are unethical.

Our capitalist system is largly wrong for allowing harm done to innocent but average and below average ability people. Rather than choose to support such people, our status quo enables us to ignore them in the pursuit of self-gain. This is wrong. At least feminism had the balls to stand up for economic justice, trad wives are just complicit in it.

Even though I agree that biologically it is logical to divide child care with mothers at home to breastfeed and nuture and men to make money, there comes a point where a certain amount of injustice requires standing up aginst wrongdoing -- not unlike standing up to a bully. One may ignore bullying up to a point, but sooner or later a line is crossed where refusing to do so becomes questionable and reflective of your charachter. There's something wrong with our society now and I think it's getting to a point where if you don't take a stand then it becomes an opportunity for negative judgement of your personal charachter.

Outcomes are too unequal these days, something is wrong.