In my opinion it’s because women have forgotten who is really in charge and men are begin to see that and take back our power with force. Not saying it’s right or moral or just - that’s just what I’m observing.
Let’s say you’re correct - that means women are unhappy married or single. Any thought on why that might be? Probably because they don’t wanna live in reality and prefer to be treated and live like children
I don’t think it’s puzzling at all. Women have much easier access to sex so a LTR isn’t as high on the priority list and they can wait until death for the right one. Men need sex just like the rest of humans but have less options, so frustration ensues. Also, it’s much more accepted for women to demean men than for men to demean women so now that these concerns are becoming more widely spoken on we just naturally see men taking pet more.
No - they struggle to find long-term partners was the gist I got. They can find sex easy, but still over-inflate their worth for potential long-term partners. Just my perception of OP.
Because of the elements of duty and respect. People are not perfect. Life isn’t a fairy tale. People are fickle and happiness change in a whim - building something with the foundation of duty and respect will breed happiness - but it doesn’t mean you will be happy all of the time justifying leaving a relationship.
Legitimately and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about your question haha I guess as long as the contributions are equal, not considering the specific items i would be okay with it. For example: I’d pay for everything gladly, but in return I’d need the same amount of contributions in different ways.
Men and women are stronger together. Children have better outcomes in a 2-parent household. Ma’am, you’re making yourself look foolish and petty. You should quit.
I forgot to add prefer. If that is what you would prefer vs someone who could take care of your needs financially, you’re definitely an outlier! With that said, if that is truly your preference, you’ll probably be happier in the long run!
So let me ask - you would prefer* being responsible for at least 50% of the expenses for the duration of your life with a man? Honestly curious. We don’t have to go down this road if you dont want haha Edit: added prefer*
Women are born with value and men have to create it. Again, not saying this is right or wrong just reality. So a man must weigh costs at a much greater degree than women generally.
Because generally in relationships and life men are the ones actually paying. Men have to weigh the price of anything to understand value. Different than how a woman has to operate. Not bad or good, just reality.
And there is the rub. Men who want a relationship do not want to pay a higher price that the casual sex guy. Now you’re probably going to say well thats just if the man only wants sex. But really ask yourself what a man wants from a woman and it looks nothing like what a woman wants from a man.
