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I mean, sure. But you'd sooner be seen as someone who gets no play or an incel for stating such an opinion. So unless your a woman or Chad, there's no point in mentioning it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:05 PM
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Speaking as a tall man, I don’t dread being short. It just isn’t something that is feasible to happen to me. So unlike skinny women I don’t have any self- interest in standing up for short kings. I might do it out of selflessness but the self interest component isn’t there. This is an interesting way of putting it, makes sense. As a short guy I always wondered why body positivity wasn't meant for short men, I guess the lack of self-interest for men as a whole would be a reason why. That said, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:20 AM
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I used to get into physical fights in high school with guys taller. I'd win some and lost some. But with time they generally would avoid conflict. As an adult? Well I got my gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:18 AM
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Mom's don't fully appreciate how their playful comments also carry significant judgement There was nothing 'playful' in how my mom conveyed her thoughts on my shortcomings. I've been in the same boat, tho not with height. Sorry dude :/ My sympathies to you as well. I'm just grateful the redpill exists. Even with the perceived toxicity. Andrew Tate giving commentary on how short men can be alpha as well means the world to me. Not that he in particular said it, but the fact that SOMEONE like him s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:11 AM
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And this is how your own mother saw it as well I guess. Observations of her and how other moms and women are all line up. My mom has compared me(and my sister) to other kids in terms of grades and extracurricular activities(she bitched and moaned about how she was always embarrassed Infront of the other women). Unfortunately, I think we were the victims of her insecurities. Never got this treatment from dad. I'm guessing she couldn't compare me on the basis of height, because I was still the rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:51 AM
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Because woman are interested in people, and men are interested in things. Men have their dick-measuring contests based on what they themselves are able to a achieve. I've personally gotten into dick-measuring contests regarding shit like video game scores, salary, personal achievements, and shit like that. For women, the equivalent is how tall, attractive, successful their husbands, and children are. Or how big their houses and expensive the cars their husbands bought them. Or how empowered they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:00 AM
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After redpill, and a bit of confrontation, I now know my mom DEFINITELY wishes she had a taller son. I'm 5'6, other boys in our friends circle are average height, and a cousin of mine is 6'1. Ironically my dad is 5'9, she's 5'2. We know people in our friend circle that have shorter parents but have taller sons than me. I wish a huge part of my desireability wasn't at the mercy of genetics. Moms compare their kids to other kids and the redpill informed me why. And that changed my opinion of allot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:56 PM
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My mom is a promiscuous drug addict with daddy issues…who also happens to be very charismatic and sociable Yet, my mom had zero problems pulling high-value men. Men who were wealthy. Men who were good-looking. Men who had decent character Ok, what were the red-flags those guys could have watched for to have known your mom was crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:44 PM
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And I don’t truly believe physical features were ever less important for genuine female sexual desire Is it possible for short men to experience 'genuine' sexual desire from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:37 PM
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My god this is depressing. t> 5'6 guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:45 PM
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LOL. Of course dating and getting casual sex/relationships would be easier for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:44 PM
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Sometimes I wonder about you guys posting here and how you actually act. I know dating is hard but it's not that hard. How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:36 PM
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Sure, being strong and attractive HELPS but not even being 6’2 and making a million a year guarantees you won’t be deleted from the gene pool. I think just being 6'2 is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:05 PM
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🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:32 AM
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Most men in the US are fat and one paycheck away from homelessness (women too). Really though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:02 AM
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humiliate, and associate CHARACTER value to men Well, I think we might be getting there(if not already)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:16 PM
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Makes sense. I'm guessing something similar happens with women in regards to their standards? Standards are relatively less "shallow" and more on well she can vibe?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:02 PM
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I was actually wondering what you meant by synthesis in the context of men going from cereal boxes to something better in their 30s. But what you wrote so far is pretty interesting regardless lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:18 PM
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I think it's a result of largely just easily bruised egos (in young men) being led astray by a good mix of men who actually got fucked over and men who never figured out that the problem in their life and relationships is them (older fellas). I have to respectfully disagree. Your focussing too much on the men and not how they got there. the main source of the redpill is no other explanation to the unfairness of the dating market and no other reasonable advice to overcome it. As well as how contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:15 PM
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I think they're less articulate than me. But this is my explanation of not only my feelings, but the feelings I have heard and seen expressed everywhere by women to other women when they're complaining they cannot find a good guy. Men struggle to understand women in a way I do not as a fellow soldier I wish more women were articulate this way. I don't think the redpill would exist if it was so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:46 PM
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Holy shit thanks for making this comment. Comments like yours is why I keep coming back here even though it's a detriment to my mental health and self-esteem. When you articulate it this way, alot of things seem clearer and not as venomous in regards to female nature. Could you go more into what you describe as "synthesis" though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:43 PM
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I actually got cut from a lot of modeling jobs for being 5’4 I'm sorry to hear that, but I don't think that's the same as what short men are put through when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:26 AM
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Eventually I figured out that just because she's nice to me doesn't mean she's a nice person though. That made the veil fall, and I couldn't be attracted to her anymore. You know after the redpill I'd be obliged to give unnattractive men and women a bit less judgment in regard to how "nice" they are to others. Not a pass to be dicks. But understanding. Society doesn't tend to be nice to unnattractive people and this can warp them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:18 AM
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Lol, this entire thread is a major black pill. Men truly are at a massive disadvantage when it comes to virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:59 AM
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I started dating the "Ladies Man" on campus that was 5 years older than me that pursued me like crazy; would wait outside of my classes and spit a lot of game, basically hunted me down and I never went back. A whole different animal of a man. Very assertive and sexually aggressive, I lost all my firsts with him. I never regretted it because he was good at it. Lol, curious, if you don't mind, what did this guy look like? How tall was he?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:51 AM
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Call me crazy but I REALLY think someone getting these guys to a whore house would solve ALOT of problems. Like, get these guys a taste of that allusive and mysterious thing called sex. Give them a night or a few nights with an escort and let them feel it out. Once they have a taste, they can move on and not spend too much mental capacity wondering over it. As a virgin guy I've definitely felt this before. To me it actually gotten way worse as I've grown older. I've noted many days where the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:17 AM
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You need to have your shit together if you’re planning on getting in her pants. Ohh the number of times I've seen the opposite 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:24 AM
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You’re shooting the messenger. And you missed my point entirely. You think sexually unsuccessful men are inherently incompetent at life. You couldn't be more mistaken. If the social awkwardness and bitterness you project is really your personality, there’s a very distinct possibility that’s why you’re not getting laid. Lmao, if I wanted to get married I could do it right now. The reason I don't is I because I've realized the massive inexperience I have both sexually and relationship wise with mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:48 PM
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Women work hard, get degrees, and better their lives. I'm a man, virgin, have a bachelor's and master's, in STEM, make six figures. I LOL out loud whenever I hear about women(and anybody else) and how much they gloat about their fucking degrees. Like a fucking degree is somehow a guarantor off a good life and betterment, atleast in this era. If I could do it all over again, I'd bypass college all together. I have world's more respect for hard working blue collar workers. To women, degree is noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:01 PM
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There's longitudinal data showing that the preference, in real life, is actually pretty modest What longitudinal data? Explain to me like the manlet I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:07 AM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again, I'm unironically jealous of the female gender. Having sex is a choice for women and having/not having it doesn't carry any negative connotations to them. Women truly are privileged beyond measure in the modern day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:41 AM
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As for me personally, I’ve always been upfront about my virginity. I’ve received the usual, women congratulating me for being “commendable” but never seriously giving me the time of day. Were these women the sort that were looking for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:06 AM
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Well, hope to find someone like you 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:17 PM
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5’6 is no big deal… I’m a short woman, so height is of no consequence to me. Lol, oh man you definitely don't know how life as a short man is. You may not have a problem with it but the women who are in their 20s definitely do. It's been the biggest obstacle for me. No woman out there desired me. She'll just see me as a "safe" and "stable" option. You can read the very first post I made on Reddit over a year ago to see where I'm coming from. I’d love to trade just for a day.. you can see what it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:58 PM
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most* women will always be coddled for being unsuccessful period. Nope. ALL WOMEN. Thanks to social media. The only places where this isn't the case is in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:13 PM
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by other women, men don't offer this--unless they're simpin Disagree. I argue society as whole, via social media and offline. The men who do disagree will keep their mouths shut because ridiculing a woman would be quickest way to lose the opportunity for pussy. The only place I see where women are ridiculed for their crappy choices is in the manosphere, and we all know how that's been perceived by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:55 PM
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Because I’m Petite, I have gotten that my whole life.. I'm short for man too(5'6). For me, it's skincare and a stubborn hairline. Hope this fortune carries with me. Right.. I’m middle aged which modernly doesn’t seem to matter much.. maybe 50 years ago it would have. Well that's comforting lol, hope this trend continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:25 PM
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It’s just some misconception that being a beautiful women is some asset Physical beauty will NEVER not be an asset. Only a person who has never had to live as an unnatractive man or woman would think this way. You complaint is literally the equivalent of a "first world problem" in the world of dating and attraction. Especially when you get turned down BECAUSE your beautiful.. Still worlds better than getting rejected for being 5'6 or shorter. It’s such an illusion that being beautiful makes your…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:22 PM
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I find it funny that you think I’m old, but ok.. I guess its all relative. People 5 years younger than me tell me I'm an old man and people 5 years older tell me I'm still young 🤷‍♂️. I guess I’m fortunate that I don’t look my age I get the same compliments as well, ppl say I look mid to early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:16 PM
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come to realize that the less confident the guy, the more they can’t handle attractive women. They think they want them but the insecurity of them finding someone better, ruins the relationship This goes for women as well. That’s why alphas get them.. and alphas are hard to find. 1 alpha to every 10 betas males dating difficult for beautiful women. Lol. Oh no beautiful women can't find a husband oh woe is me lmao. They think they want them but the insecurity of them finding someone better, ruins…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:14 PM
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I didn't know you were both that old. Though its weird reading a woman in her 40s throw around terms like 'alpha' and 'beta' so much. I thought it was something attributed to the younger crowd. I think I can see why you consider your fiance an "alpha". He has the years of experience with him. I take it your young… you could probably be our kid. Im 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:04 PM
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Unlike when men say it, it is met with coddling and reassurance and validation when it comes from a woman I mean, regardless of the nature of the particular woman, women will ALWAYS be coddled and validated for being unsuccessful relationship wise. Regardless whether it's her own fault or not. A man would be called an incel, loser, mysoginist and have negative attributes projected onto him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:17 PM
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responsible father He has kids? isn't he your fiance? Good looking 6’1 If he was short and average would you have given him a chance to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:06 PM
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My fiancé is committed and he’s very attractive and an alpha. In your eyes, what makes him an "alpha"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:25 AM
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Given the range of comments you make on here and all the other women, I beg to differ 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:54 PM
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We proved each other's point 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:26 AM
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Most men don’t want to settle down and commit to just one woman. Most men seem to want a main chick to have their kids but then they still want to spin plates on the side too. Most men? Really? Don't you mean men with options? Or men who need to sow their wild oats before settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:34 AM
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Yes, and weirdly, the same group of people (redpill) are known to make fun and shame women for remaining single and childless and almost use it as an insult. Single and stable men are also shamed for staying single. The way women act around single men compared to married men is day and night. It’s another revenge fantasy thing Wrong. Either way, they will find something wrong with what the women are doing. Equivalent for men. Women will ALWAYS find something to shame sexually or romantically uns…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:10 PM
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Well, they're sexless so they don't care about it. Are they supposed to care about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:16 AM
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I'm also sure you wouldn't say that either if I was a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:33 PM
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Male sexlessness rises with the education! Most sexless guys are at the college or they have a degree. Lol, women on here will never believe this because it would make the female narrative look bad. Women need to project negative attributes on sexless men otherwise it would make them look like they aren't making good choices in mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:43 AM
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Even now, I regret going for my Master's. If I could trade my intelligence for being attractive, but dumb as a rock, I would As a guy who also holds a master's degree, I sympathize tremendously. For what it's worth I've had the pleasure of being exposed to many elderly and wise women when I was pursuing my masters and I will forever cherish these women for all they did for me. Also, as a short guy, if I could trade my masters and my intelligence in to just be 3 inches taller and stocky, I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:47 PM
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And what you’re reading as ‘pumping and dumping’ is really just a highly sexually desirable guy that hasn’t found anyone worth giving his heart to Thanks. I'll use this exact wording when I hear women complain how they can't get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:42 PM
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pretty hot, sweet girl, but a little crazy. When they both broke off, those exes got engaged within six months of meeting their new girlfriends. She was definitely feeling the heat. I hope she realized that she was the "fun-girl", not the "good-girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:29 AM
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I said that the man, broadly speaking, needs to be willing to pay the full price for getting a brand new doll of a girl, and he needs to pay it before getting the asset. You say that but I don't see virgin women holding themselves for men who are the sort of guys who are low-risk and high resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:23 AM
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it’s just weird when they have this romantic fantasy but don’t hold their own virginity sacred as well. doesn’t sound very romantic to me Women don't value male chastity either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:18 AM
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High risk. I'd prefer cohabitation more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:04 AM
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You don't have to be a virgin yourself on top of that, that's an extra Not in my circle. Men and women were both told to wait until marriage and put greater focus on setting yourself up in life. Though the women are the ones who don't value male chastity and will still commit to men who are more experienced and have the relatively greater risk of cheating. Some of them get burn pretty badly. More power to them I suppose. Just gives me more leeway to fuck around and not have to hold myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:51 AM
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I don’t know how anyone could blame women for dating Chads instead. Obviously you would pick the guy that’s more chill and lax and not afraid of competition. I guess that's the green light for men to pump and dump and never commit. Holy shit I never thought a woman on here would endorse that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:47 AM
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Eh, I was raised in a home where chastity was expected and seen as virtuous. I'd marry and commit to a virgin if I could and still would, but saying you want a virgin bride, even as a virgin man in this day and age is social suicide. Sucks too because I have the resources and connections to provide and I'd be totally up for waiting till marriage. I've noted more virgin women not valuing male chastity to begin with so it ultimately is a losing battle for virgin guys or guys aiming for a tradition…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:40 AM
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Short women want tall men to have tall sons. It's not guaranteed, but it improves the odds. Similar concept in regards to marrying virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:21 AM
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I don't think he seeing the woman in question as a prospective wife. Just casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:18 AM
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Those who prioritize sex and those who prioritize emotional connection. Seems like wanting one is a direct tradeoff for the other. That's a great observation. Ive noticed that too. I think the question should have been in regards to wives rather than girlfriends. The term wives carry a long-term and emotional component that I don't see with just girlfriend. I wonder how the answers would be then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:15 AM
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Then is a virgin who prefers non-virgins also hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:53 AM
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I've been here for a bit and I've taken note that some of the more outspoken and vitriolic females on here were short(by female standards) and had tall boyfriends/husbands (6'+). These ones seem to LOVE to talk down on the men here who didn't win the genetic lottery. Conversely the sensible ones are usually the average height ones who are with men that don't have a crazy height difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:37 AM
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"Simililar looking dude, but with more money, slide in her DMs, and it's 'HER house, anyway remember?' I'm out before she kick me out like that!" But he's tall and fit though. At her age I wouldn't expect her to spoil the relationship so easily and run off. But seriously, blows my mind that HE was considered the "safe and stable" option. His physical attributes give him LEVERAGE. He can be cheating on her and I bet she would be more forgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:29 AM
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What’s your strategy for verifying if you’re wrong? If I was a woman you wouldn't ask me that question would you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:39 PM
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I'm good at spotting women who are after me because I'm the safe option 🤷‍♂️. I had an inkling that OP was the same. Dodging women like her is something I'm experienced in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:46 AM
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She's starting from square one and from there is easily takes 2-3 years to have kids and that's if she doesn't have any infertility issues. I never envy women in this regard. I'd say that an unfortunate truth is that more often than not, a man is going to want to be seen as a provider Lol, unless that man gets redpilled. To give an example, many many years ago I dated a "feminist" man which REALLY meant that I was dating a man who felt like I was empowered to do every single thing on the relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:39 AM
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But it's like, if you've got yourself all sorted out why do are we partners? What's the glue and the good memories and the appreciation for how I've helped you in the past? I agree. But I think HE did HER a favour. She needs to get someone who brings legitimate value to her life, not guy who's only plus sides are physically appealing and can hold a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:00 AM
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LMAO she more or less agreed to what I put out there. But please, feel free to give better thoughts than I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:52 PM
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Well, no shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:19 PM
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You're so hung up on the idea of being the "safe guy" that you're a 28 year old virgin. Sure, I admit I let time slip by my fingers and I made my own mistakes of complacency. But I'm going to work on making sure I'm not the "safe guy", before I commit to someone. I'd much rather be in her position than yours. Lol. K.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:47 AM
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I had women interested in me, but not for the reasons I wanted. Women who I knew had promiscuous pasts and past failed relationships who were pining for me because they (most likely) saw me as the safe and stable option(because of my job and salary). Even when I wasn't redpilled I never liked the way they treated me. If I had committed, I bet my money that the sex would have been scarce and mediocre. I mean that's almost worse in a way Yeah, virgin men are judged harshly. I'm very well aware of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:17 AM
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Seriously yo, OP's ex needs the redpill ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:44 AM
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I'm 28 now and still a virgin, lol, but have plenty of dating experience and experience with interacting with the opposite gender in casual and professional settings. It's only my 2 cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:42 AM
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Well, I hope she figures it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:40 AM
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Haha busted, he was pretty fit and tall! Shit, can't believe he was still so insecure. He underestimates the amount of leverage he has over women, and over you. As a short and average guy I've had to painstakingly work on myself for literal YEARS to overcome my insecurities and to achieve some semblance of mental and emotional self-sufficiency, and I'm still working on myself to this day. It baffles me how men who won the genetic lottery can fumble this much at life. Anyways OP, hope you find wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:36 AM
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It's literally the age old story. She gives the guys who are the worst and most incompatible her best and most fertile years and now wants to settle with men who boring and safe. I don't envy any guy that gets with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:25 AM
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Not going to disagree with this entirely, but I did really like him for his character, intellect, masculinity, and his work ethic. Well, you need to find a guy who you see as a catch and who also sees you as a catch in return. That's why I feel frustrated- do I just not buy a house until I'm in a serious relationship and can disclose to someone that I have that option? If buying a house really means that much to you, just go ahead and buy one. It could limit you to your location for potential re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:22 AM
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Lol, read her response. It's literally AFBB. Except the beta doesn't even have the bux 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:56 AM
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Well, for starters, huge congrats to you for going to therapy and working on yourself. And you ex needs to go to therapy as well because he definitely has insecurities he needs to work on. But... Changed my standards and started seeking men who provided emotional safety, consistency, and commitment. The guy I described in this post was all of the above, just riddled with personal insecurity and low self worth I now think it's a very, very good thing it didn't work out. You ultimately chose him n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:55 AM
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As a woman who is a 7-8, from upper middle class, and been in several relationships, mental stability in a man and if he's good to me is 10x more important than if he has capital for a downpayment... I'm genuinely curious, do you think there is a reason you've been in several relationships and haven't found the one yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:26 AM
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Lmao. Op had a point when he said "bad guys" will genuinely tell what they want. It's called honesty and communication, not drama. How you women sugar coat shitty behavior will never not be amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:16 AM
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5'6 average male isn't tutorial mode Hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:52 AM
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Lol. Ohh I can't imagine failing at tutorial mode 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:26 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:00 AM
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All right, I guess we have to agree to disagree then ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:35 PM
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Thanks appreciate the insight. Tried getting into FAANG multiple times but just couldn't nail leetcode, despite having a stellar GitHub and work experience. Could try in the future just for my own fulfillment. As far as rmv and smv, I agree. Spending more time honing social skills seems much more valuable. Thanks for the insight!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:21 AM
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I didn't miss the point. I gave you that point. I did say that men have gotten the short stick when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. Women have it better then men on that 1 segment. The segment is pretty fucking big. You don't know the misery of loneliness and being deprived of validation like men do. Yeah. Exactly. So we have it worse. Because rape is worse. Pick your poison. Historically and still today men are seen as inherently disposable and can be neglected. Historically women have…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:18 AM
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And yall just turn a blind eye to the numerous examples of why it's worse for us...because you need to put effort into attracting women? That's it? That's IT??? I think you missed the point. I'm 5'6. I won't be primally desired the same way a 6'2 man is desired. No matter how hard I try to get fit. That's what a six inch difference does for men. A six inch difference on women won't have the same affect. There are aspects about men that women find desirable that can't be changed is down to dumb l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:09 AM
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Ok that part sucks. Obviously it's not completely great, but it's still mostly great on the long term scale. But my main point is this: The desireability of women is EXTREMELY well insulated on the timeline and on the vector scale. Being below average in different aspects will not dampen her desirability the same way it does to men. Ex. A woman who is a few inches above average wont have her desirability affected too badly. Guys will still want her. Conversely, where as for men, if he is a few i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:55 AM
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I'm over 30. This is an under 30 problem. Still holy shit. Just be glad you women will never have your desireability ever questioned. You wouldn't believe the things id give up to have that level of desireability and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:41 AM
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The reason I personally think it sounds so good is because you have the option to exit the market permanently. Why you haven't already, I don't know. If I had the option when I was younger I would have taken and married a girl who I got along with and settled down and started a family and hopefully never ever have to set foot in the morally bankrupt dating/mating system that just makes you jaded about the opposite gender. Sounds like a long shot, but you as a woman are far more closer to this re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:32 AM
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Like...having to swipe through a 100 men to find 10 good guys...but you also gotta figure out who that is because it's not obvious, is bad...but I did have access to those 10 guys, while a lot of men don't. And I get that it's better. That doesn't mean I liked it. As an average guy you would not believe how jealous I am of you women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:25 AM
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Interesting answer, I'll definitely ponder it moving forward. I currently make about 110k as a junior ml-engineer in an obscure mid-sized town. It's still below national average for the profession and I plan on switching after a year or two, but it's alot for the place I'm living, even considering inflation in these parts. The work is interesting and unique and work-environment is generous. But I can't help but think I could be doing better out there in another bigger city. Just another question…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:00 AM
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This is so fucking blackpill it's not even funny. It's like self-improvement and self-determination have been thrown completely out of the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:04 AM
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Curious. Is going through the effort for a 200k salary worth it in your opinion? Considering the quality of life, work-life balance, taxes, expectations you have. Not to mention the competition you may have had to face to get the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:41 AM
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So TBP (or just ''what society generally deems true and acceptable) really is just female reproductive strategies and whatever actions or claims are required to achieve them. Lol, but women won't fault other women for following reproductive strategies that put their own at risk. Honestly the only time I've seen that sort of thing was when it was across religious lines that were set by men. Take Muslim women who call casual dressed western women as whores, or how feminists call Muslim women with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:15 PM
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Redpill is decidedly anti-marriage. Wrong, lots of outspoken redpillers are/were married. They just say don't get married in today's environment with unfair divorce courts, false allegations, high n-count of women, and dating. Rollo tommassi himself said "men and women are better together". While alot of feminist women, and women on this sub are very outspoken in saying dating and marriage doesn't benefit women and women are better off single. A traditional woman doesn’t want to date forever; sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:07 PM
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I agree to an extent. One thing I've noticed from primarily women on this sub is that they label reproduction strategies that oppose their own strategy to be "redpilled", and they consider their own reproductive strategies to be "blue-pilled" or at the very least "not redpilled". Even if those reproductive strategies oppose their own. Quick example, they'll say they have no issue with people sleeping around, but they'll then say they don't want objectification of women or exploitation of women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:16 AM
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I really hope you're a troll, because it's kinda icky imagining an actual adult in his mid 20s who says shit like this unironically Say? No. Think? Absolutely. And trust me, when I have locker room talk with guys, ALOT of guys think like this, even the ones who you wouldn't imagine. They keep it on the down low around women because, obviously they won't get laid off they spoke their minds 🤷‍♂️. Also, who are you calling a troll with a username like that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:06 AM
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But I’ve been there. I’m 20 and have never had a boyfriend nor had any guy ask me out. You haven't been where I am. I found the redpill when I was 27. I was a virgin(and still am) and had never even kissed or even held hands with a girl. Thanks to redpill, I'm gradually but assuredly getting closer to the intimacy I desire. Let me know when you reach my age. It’s good you have been able to branch out more but there are much healthier communities to associate with that don’t rely on bigotry. Ok, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:45 PM
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Lol, already getting down votes. I wonder how many husbands of PPD women followed the same path lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:30 AM
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Before the redpill I was invisible to women. Nobody wanted to help me nor understand my problems. This included family i.e. my mother and sister. And it would be safe to say you and the other women on this sub who shame men are also part of that category. After the redpill I now have gained more visibility from women. Granted some women hated me, but some others actually liked me and would acknowledge my existence. And my presence in the minds of women is only growing now thanks to the redpill. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:58 AM
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I have conversations with women. They're always telling me how I have a lovely personality and that they're surprised I've never had a girlfriend. I don't know if that's women code that I'm a beta, but I get along well with women, and primarily the older educated ones 🤷‍♂️. I'm probably very redpilled at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:44 AM
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Holy shit, I think the women of this sub are going to be breeding the next generation of redpillers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:11 AM
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In the last 7 years my "sexual strategy" was pump and dump I mean, you got to show your wild oats atleast, and then found someone you loved. That's a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:07 AM
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So projection is ok as long as it disparages the redpill? 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:09 AM
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Yes but you prioritised studying. While you were grinding and other guys were getting laid / dating many wasted time plus likely have worse outcomes long term. Not trying to diminish your experience though and being single. No offense, but it really sounds like your speaking from a position of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:53 PM
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*men not women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:48 PM
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Lol, you actually went to another thread and copied and pasted that here. Kek. That's some dedication. But yeah, it's true, most of the young women I know are self-absorbed with social media and won't stop bitching about the latest trends and virtue signal about diversity and inclusion while not practicing those same elements themselves 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:31 PM
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Point out to anything I said that is hateful, sexist or toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:22 PM
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I'm not sure why you're crowing about yourself like it's hard If I did it in real life, it would be social suicide. Also, women on this sub have themselves mentioned they act like bitches here because they need a place to channel that negative energy. I guess since they can't be nasty to men in real life they come here. I'm just following suit. It's really not at most companies, and we're not high value just because we have upper middle class income. It seems from where your at the general cultu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:51 PM
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But seriously though. Whenever I talk to young women these days it honestly boggles my mind how much these shallow and ignorant creatures are showered with so much fucking attention and how these creatures can dismiss you so easily because of things like height despite everything else about you being great. It's unironically a never ending mountain to climb to reach their level of attention and validation, unless you've reached super star level as a man .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:40 AM
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Writing, coding, exercising. Slowly making casual talking and socialization as a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:51 AM
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I’ve always had more women friends because of the absolute stupidity and social ineptitude of most men. How the heck do you make women friends? I can talk to women well. Infact it's the older women who are educated I can talk to most easily and even derive great pleasure. It's the younger ones, either married or single, that is the most difficult to be interact with. I'd say even more than educated men. But how the fuck do I make friends with women specifically? Im single and have a master's. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:35 AM
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I have honestly never understood how women on this sub and real life never seem to get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:30 AM
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If you’re a fat slob, you’re going to have bad experiences until you fix your weight. Anon, can you fix your height?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:16 AM
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100% agree with this but I DO think it’s more socially acceptable to mock a fat or short man than mock a woman for her appearance Kudos for seeing that. Would give an award but fuck reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:10 AM
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Alright lady, keep doing what your doing, keep dropping those redpills 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:03 AM
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I know men think differently, because I am one and I've met them, even the ones you perceive as high value. But you don't know what they think or how they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:59 AM
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And they are most likely the absolute minority of their archetype. If your trying to disprove the redpill, you've failed spectacularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:55 AM
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If you have both life isn’t bad Thanks captain obvious. I had no idea being a 6ft+ male who was smart would make life easier to live. Who would have thought/s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:50 AM
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Being 6 foot >>> smart in today's (western) dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:46 AM
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Yeah you definitely don't understand the life men lead 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:45 AM
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The guys I’m talking about are all over 6 foot, decent looking, very athletic and have pretty good social skills. I may not be six foot but I know guys that fit this profile too. I'd unironically trade in my brains for height any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:44 AM
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Men need to stop defining themselves around getting sex with women. It’s not healthy and often ends up dehumanising women: Apparently you don't think sex and intimacy brings happiness 🙄. You also assume men are the only ones who define men by how much sex they get, how many times have women looked down on men, young or old who were virgins or had no relationship experience. (I'm one of those men btw). Such things are luxuries of women. You once again have no idea of the lives men lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:33 AM
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You do you though. Read the posts in my post history. Particularly the first post I made on r/virgin. I fit the closest description of your "high value virgin male". I make six figures and am high networth. And I personally know other men who fit the "high value virgin male" archetype. Men who are doctors and engineers at top tech companies. You have no fucking idea the world we live in and how lonely and depressing it is, and you definitely don't know about the discussions we have about women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:30 AM
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The guys on here often disgust me - some are alright but many as you point are weirdly obsessed with sex from women but also resent women. Oh what a privilege it must be to be a part of the gender where sex is plentiful and to talk down upon the gender for wanting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:55 PM
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They are not misogynists, don't externalise blame for their situation onto women and are overall nice to be around Lady, you don't know what the fuck they think about and you definitely don't know how they think and act behind closed doors. Your ultimately just projecting positive traits on other men to disparage the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:50 PM
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Nice strategy to limit the competition eh Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:10 AM
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There's plenty of high value Men who didn't pump and dump women who are perfectly married Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:52 AM
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So no matter how much you want to share yourself with a woman, even (especially) if you're practically exploding with desire to treat a woman right, don't let it show, or else you'll be shut out for... caring too much? So stop being so needy basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:09 AM
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Other than coding interviews 🤪. I'd argue it's a mix of both. There were topics that I only knew surface level knowledge off but I talked through them like I was pro. If they asked me a question I didn't know id say "hm, good question, I'll have to look that up". Now there were topics that they asked that did require in depth knowledge and that I had to give details about, which I did. Just have to take it all in stride.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:02 AM
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Your forgetting it's a fetish and it's still questionalble if men would actually commit to a "milf".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:46 PM
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Every man on PPD seems to disagree. Women above 30 have absolutely no value whatsoever, and surely there's nothing appealing about them. How could there be? They aren't 20! The poster most likely married his wife when she was in her early twenties. I wonder if he became single again all of a sudden would he still have the same viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:45 PM
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Because a few inches in height and a few millimeters on the face are things that can't be changed(easily). Once your born with them, your screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:18 PM
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Honestly, height is held in a higher regard for White dudes more than everyone else. I moved to Houston and see young Mexican, Vietnamese, and Indian dudes in the 5'5-5'9 range of height cuffing cute White girls all the time in bars/campuses as well as marrying their own. Is this a phenomenon that's unique to Houston do you think? Surprised. Have you seen this sort of thing anywhere else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:21 PM
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Casual sex hot, yes Attractive enough to date, no Lol, I'd be fine with that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:19 PM
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Meanwhile for men, their height plays a big role in how attractive/masculine they are perceived to be and they start losing points just for being average. It's always been crazy to me how much a few inches can affect a man's reproductive success and how heavily women will perceive him. It's frightening. A woman can be anywhere within 2 standard deviations on either side of the average and not have it hurt her attractiveness Women are UNBELIEVABLY lucky in this regard. A few inches or a few milli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:18 PM
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Makes sense. Women will try to dress this up though. Deep down they prefer these sort of men over men who are low n-counts or virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:36 PM
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So you dont believe people can do dumb things in their youth and grow up? Of course I believe people can grow up. But how people weigh dumb things in their youth can vary person to person. I don't want some chick who slept with the entire frat and then wants to marry when she's old and declined in looks. I'd rather take woman who didn't do that. Besides your acting entitled to commitment if you think I can't have my standards. You do something as a teen and it defines you forever? Well, older vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:12 PM
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Well, to each his own, I wouldn't put up with it 🤷‍♂️. I've accumulated too much in wealth and reputation for me to consider that sort of risk. Though I can see why women find a former fuck boi appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:21 PM
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Sure, pump and dump and abuse women in your younger days, don't worry about settling down, women will forgive you later on 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:11 PM
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Lol, women truly are the most forgiving gender. A man taking a woman with a past like that wouldn't be seen so favourably by other men. Though, if he's attractive enough, any sort of shitty behavior can be forgiven.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:10 PM
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Damn, how attractive and tall is your husband? Must be something for you to overlook that past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:29 PM
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As a 1.68m male myself, I wish I could relate, my experience has been worse off. Anyways, your husband sounds like a lucky man, wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:30 PM
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But I don’t think these guys would have gotten relationships without beta buxxing in some way. That's just depressing 😑.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:59 PM
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Oh wow. Why though? Usually women go out of their way for tall attractive men, not short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:22 AM
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but I still think overall it would be nice to date as a straight man if I personally was born a man. Are you making an assumption that you'll be tall and attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:56 PM
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It's not irrelevant. If I had been born a man with my genetic heritage, I'd have been around the 6ft mark My father was tall, so are my other male relatives You can't just look at your relatives. I have relatives myself who are also 6'+. Infact the cousin I hate the most who was my nemesis is 6'+. Just because you have a tall dad doesn't mean you'll come out tall. The height of the mother plays a very important role. Why do you want to find someone at 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:49 PM
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I'm not excessively tall for a woman, about 5ft 7. Uuhh. If you were a man you'd be considered short. Given that there seems to be on average 5 inches difference in height between the sexes and the fact that my male relatives are 6ft+, I am assuming I'm a 50 yr old 6ft man in good shape, own house, car, financially sound. That's all irrelevant 🤣. If I magically changed you from woman to man right now with a wand you'd be a man who is 5'7. Everything else be damned. Take it from a 5'6 28M virgin,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:35 PM
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How tall is your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:03 PM
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You seem to be describing sexual competition. Both sexes have to deal with that. I'm guessing since your tall for a woman, you are at somewhat disadvantage. But your still no where near as disadvantaged as a short guy with similar earnings, status. But I will say, if you were converted from woman to man with nothing else changing. Your height would make the world your oyster lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:36 PM
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If you were a very weird woman Yeah, a feminist who screams "my body my choice"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:33 PM
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If I was a woman I'd be shaming you right now and calling you an insecure incel. Guess you must be lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:31 PM
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And let me guess, past doesn't matter right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:20 PM
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Lol, in the update she forgave him and had sex with him. I bet she must have been pleased her partner was some sort of alpha and he settled for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:14 PM
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Otherwise you’re psychologically stunted to me Ok, what constitutes "psychologically stunted"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:04 PM
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Just lower your standards, do your best to be a person people would like to be around and hope dumb luck hits you up with someone cool. I already have the opportunity to get a relationship. I have the social skills and decent enough looks(or so I'm told), plus have good finances. The problem comes with genuine desire. I can tell the women I'm seeing think they're doing me a favour. I'm a virgin guy, if I got into a relationship with these sort of women all I'll see happen is a relationship where…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:53 PM
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I think most men would find it hard to understand most young women walk around with an outlook on dating life/future marriage options quite carefree and unburdened. This is one of many reasons why I unironically envy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:22 AM
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I'm 28 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:54 AM
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Well in all fairness, we need SOME experienced men on this sub, or nobody would ever have any useful advice to offer. I don’t think we should automatically discount the opinions of “Chads” in that regard. Granted some Chads are more useful than others. There are chads on here who give practical advice, the particular user we're talking about definitely isn't one of them. He's just some guy who talks in slang and thinks women are Wonderful without even being cognizant of the fact that his height …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:22 AM
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If nothing else, he does remind us that this sub can be pretty toxic. That alone makes his posts worth it You do realize the universe he operates in is far different than the majority of men right? He'll never be able to comprehend the obstacles the average man faces and all he does is mock their issues with his platitudes, just like the women do. And in case you’re wondering , I’m a 5’9” chubby guy with thick glasses, who didn’t lose his virginity until I was 21. Well in case your wondering, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:53 AM
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Well, interacting with you was a complete waste of time. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:44 AM
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I don't expect a woman to emphasize with the hardships of men. But you still didn't tell me what "truth" he posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:40 AM
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Ok, I'll bite what "truths" has this guy posted on here other than slanging like some coked up drug dealer 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:26 AM
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Dude, you have it very, very wrong on this. I’m a little envious of men because if they decide to gtow in life and give up on dating they aren’t constantly told it’s a phase or that they will change their mind when the right woman comes along Too many people have told me this(phase) and I'm an awkward 28 year old virgin who has zero experience in dating. I'm too embarrassed to tell them I'm a virgin so I just make the excuse "I'm not interested in marriage". In fact men don’t have to explain the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:03 AM
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"6'4 peurto Rican" Yup, never faced hardship in dating. No wonder what you post on here is so bland.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:48 AM
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The advise you give on here is the most generic and platitude driven I have ever read. I can tell your someone who has never faced any hardship when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:40 AM
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I fucking hope it does. But really just 2%, I swear it has to be more, given the rising sexlessness amongst men and even women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:06 AM
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Fantastic, it's obvious that the male condition is beyond your comprehension as it is for the rest of your gender. Have a nice day 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:57 AM
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I bet you think young boys also don't get exploited either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:41 AM
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Ability to be approached by mans who want to have sex with you when you are 15 and doing sport by yourself in a park Just say no. Ability to work the same job for less salary If your complaining about this in 2022 it's most likely your own incompetence. Ability to live a society litteraly constructed on patriarchy Fds detected. Ability to be the most abused of the genders Wrong. Ability to be considered inferior by most religion Then don't practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:56 PM
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Lol, added the /s at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:18 PM
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Ability to have sex whenever they want. Ability to shame and hate the opposite gender without negative consequence. Ability to decide what men pass on their genes and what men don't, despite virtues and vices of said men. Ability to decide how experienced or in-experienced they would want their partner to be, and not be shamed for said preferences. Ability to be hypocrites when it comes to promiscuity. Ability to benefit more from divorces. Ability to sleep with the most attractive members of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:02 PM
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Well shit as a virgin guy I'm far behind the bell curve here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:49 PM
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Love how you make such an assumption about men: Romantically unsuccessfull == failure in life Oh how wonderful it must be to be a woman and be allowed to show such hubris.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:26 AM
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But the men here are so obsessed with looks and sex If these were out of your reach, you'd be obsessed too. You'd never understand or comprehend the feeling since your a woman. it makes 0 sense that they never noticed looks were important during the 12 years of school we all live through when everyone is at their most superficial. Looks in highschool aren't as superficial as they are in college or after. Atleast not from my day. Honestly those were the tutorial days of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:45 AM
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Do men not start to notice in middleschool at least who is attractive or not? I can’t imagine being so blind to whats going on around you. Why so readily dismissive? You can say the same about people who have poor money management, how can they be so blind to their own expenses when it's so fucking obvious to not spend more than you make, and living within your means. I though Dave Ramsey was a clown because of how obvious his advise was and how blind so many people were who took out massive loa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:52 AM
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I absolutely love your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:41 AM
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Congrats, Take solace in the fact you had the luxury of sowing your oats and now you can settle down with what I bet is a very low n-count/virgin girl. Not alot of men have such a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:34 PM
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Yeah, you'll definitely finds someone who'll love you, you lucky rascal you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:31 PM
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What? Im genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:29 PM
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How tall are you Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:28 PM
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Being loved and cherished by someone who genuinely cares about you would come first and foremost. Holding a special and unique position in someone's heart is something I've always thought was appealing. Honestly I think anybody with emotions would find that appealing. And of course secondary reasoning including that life is very difficult to live, even in today's age and having a reliable and trustworthy partner makes life easier. Another reason would be as a man it's impossible to get steady ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:26 PM
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Plate spinning. ( that one’s probably the worst ain’t no cherishing and respecting going on there) I don't get it your logic. Why would a woman expect to be cherished or respected by some random? Is she expecting to get the boyfriend treatment from everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:21 AM
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Plowing through women = success? Oh please. A woman would respect a fuck boi who slept with 100s of women if all he said was "fuck redpill respect wahmen", way more than a redpilled guy who was a virgin/low n-count. My father taught my brothers to cherish respect and love women they’re all happily married. Your dad was from a different age. Him, your brothers, and your male posterity could have just as easily go redpill if conditions were met. My brothers are good looking so that helped I’m sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:19 AM
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Chaste women who value chastity do. An unbelievably small minority. And even promiscuous women don't like hypocrites who'll sleep with them but also look down on them for doing the same thing the hypocrites themselves are doing I mean, promiscuous women will still sleep with those same "hypocrites", so in theory they will hate them but definitely not in practice. I'm pretty sure all women, virgin or not, at least want consistency there. Women and society will shame men, virgin or not, for wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:37 PM
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It's the female equivalent of those hypocritical men who were promiscuous in the past but then turn around and seek out a virgin bride once they can no longer pull off the playboy lifestyle As if the majority, or even sizable minority of women even give a shit about male chastity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:43 PM
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Eh, your a woman. It's not the same to you. Though then again, people with low n-counts, and even those with high n-counts would care about that sort of thing because they connect their partners past to future actions. Which in my view, is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:46 PM
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It comes out, one way or another, sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:35 PM
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Are you seriously saying a woman is wrong if she decides not to date a dude without a job 😂 Well, no, the man was honest. We just need women to be honest about their pasts so we can avoid them given the circumstance 🤷‍♂️ just like the woman in the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:49 AM
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It’s quite controversial to be traditional now. I get attacked for it on Reddit daily. One of the things I noticed is that there is a "it works for me but not for thee" attitude I see here on Reddit. Meaning, I've noticed alot of people on here will practice something very close to "traditionalism" but will discourage and yell down others. For example, I've noticed alot of women on here who were virgins when they married their husbands talk down on men who wanted a virgin wife, even if those men…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:41 AM
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I have no idea who this rollo person is lol so I won’t endorse him. One of the central red pill figures. Wrote quite a few books. The most outspoken one being "the rational male". And yeah people tell me I am red pilled, but I’m not sure. I doubt I’ll agree with everything they say, but maybe some the core things will be good. Unfortunately, I think we'll see a time show up where just wanting a traditional relationship will mean your "red pilled". That's how far the things have shifted. And you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:22 PM
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I became traditional from seeing the 50/50 stress and how it ruins the family unit IMO. Both parents are stressed from full time work. The wife works 8 hours but is still expected to do the majority of the housework while also bearing and raising the children. She is stressed and ultimately loses respect for her husband. She also is less feminine and agreeable with her husband because she is hyper independent. The husband is upset because he is stressed from work and can’t come back to a peacefu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:22 PM
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That’s definitely not why I became traditional. Alright, what were you before you became traditional and why did you become traditional?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:06 PM
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Women are at higher risk of STDs When you sleep with the same top-tier guys of course that's a risk. women carry 99% of the risk of sexual assault Citation needed. Hyperbole. assault, only women have the risk of pregnancy from that encounter Given the vast array of birth control I don't see why your complaining about this. I also don't think hookup culture would be as big as it is if this was such a big issue. and for all that risk only 11% of women orgasm from a first hook-up The same way men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:30 PM
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Most women don’t get anything out of casual sex. 🤦‍♂️ Women do get something out of casual sex. THEY GET SEX. Only a small proportion of women benefit from hookup culture Wrong. ALL Women have a tremendous amount of gain from hookup culture. For one thing they have a source of easy sex with top tier men. They don't have to commit to a relationship to get a steady source of sex. That in of it itself is massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:08 PM
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And generally speaking it benefits men far more than women. Only a small portion of men benefit from hookup culture. Wtf are you talking about. Only a woman would have typed this ridiculous sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:49 AM
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So I expect him to do more traditionally masculine things and I do more traditionally feminine things. Hope you have an n-count of 0 and didn't one day decide to become "traditional" after a hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:35 AM
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The guy your responding to is 6'5 btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:16 AM
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"Earn easy money" again another person who doesn't know shit about any difficulties and exploitation that sex workers face. Maybe they should just get real jobs? You know, like plumbing, garbage pickup, janitors?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:58 PM
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Would getting a sales job as a side job be feasible? Im already working a well-paying software job but I want to max out my social skills and Im thinking sales is the way to go. Im 28, if age is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:54 PM
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You seem to place the blame on the individual without considering the experiences that may lead an individual to redpill like experiences. Unfairness and misrepresentation of the dating market along with the breaking of the "woman are wonderful" affect instilled by society is what leads to redpill. Also to add the fact that mainstream society refuses to acknowledge and address the grievances that young men face when it comes to dating. These men will tend to be in the bottom 80%. You don't think…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:40 AM
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Plenty of women are perennially “pumped and dumped” led on/ not taken seriously, even by average guys. I cannot even begin to imagine failing at a game where the odds are stacked so heavily in your favour. Something something men give sex away, but are tighter to the chest with commitment standards. Honestly I think both sexes shouldn't give sex away and should have tighter commitment standards, but if a man is chaste and wants a chaste bride it still raises a red flag with women. So good men ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:36 AM
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I knew a lady who married a guy 10 years younger. She basically raised him like a kid for years. Then when she turned 50 and he 40... he filed divorce and ran off with a 35 year old woman. You can say that she was being unrealistic, but men do this same shit all the time. Same thing with a female surgeon I used to know. Had the hottest husband of all her friends, but the fucker didn't work, was an insane alcoholic and just drained her dry for a decade before she divorced him. All of it, falls in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:04 PM
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The fact that he didn't ask or pressure me to talk about it early on is a part of what drew me to him. Ok, if he did ask about it upfront and he mentioned he was a virgin/low n-count himself, would you have dropped him then? We didn't talk about experience until after months of getting to know each other, and it was a conversation I initiated. Lol, I'm honestly envious that you women can discuss these things whenever you feel like it. Your gender literally has the luxury of deciding how experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:24 PM
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You see having a tall man as an advantage, I see it as copium to a shitty circumstance. Well, a well-mannered short man definitely isn't popular with the ladies 🤷‍♂️. So the dating market is not in her favour at all. Single moms can still get chumps to commit to them if they put in the work lol. Those chumps are called cuckolds and step-fathers. Casual sex and validation don’t make up for unmet emotional needs She can get casual sex to get her urges met and validation from female friends. It's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:47 PM
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As I said, the fact that other men desire the BB woman is not some sort of consolation prize. Yes it is. It shows that the BB woman has OPTIONS. If she leaves her man, she can with high probability find another partner. Same can't be said about the BB man. People are enotional beings and for a woman the fact that she can get sex from other sources doesn’t help her situation. Yes it does. She has a source for casual sex and getting her urges met one way or another. She can get emotional need fulf…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:29 PM
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By your logic the beta bux also win in the end-they are with a woman, Wrong, you mis-represent the perceived value of female BB and male BB. The male BB is still sexually undesirable to vast majority of women. Which is why he is BB to begin with. The only way for him to get sex is to provide resources to woman who has been with many different men. The male BB most likely won't get the same level of sex or enthusiasm his wife gave to the men before him. But he takes whatever scarps he can get. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:57 PM
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Given how the vast majority of women on this sub loudly proclaim that they would rather stay single and celibate than settle with an average or mediocre man, I don't think "beta buxxing" for women is an issue. Usually the men who marry out of convenience already have something going for them(height, looks, status), things other women want, and the women thinks she's getting a winner. The guy might not like/respect her, and he may be cheating on her, but he keeps her around because she's a "good …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:10 PM
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Of course a woman wouldn't understand that sort of fear that men have and chalk it up as fear-mongering 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:49 PM
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Thanks captain obvious. And men want to be loved for who they are, not for their bodies/wallets or because they're the "safe" option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:44 PM
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That's not what I'm asking 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:37 PM
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It works out by allowing me to select for men who don't see their partner's virginity as something they're entitled to. What if the guy was low n-count or virgin himself? And having a low n-count/virgin partner was his standard? Also, the sort of men who don't care about their partners past will tend to be guys with a past themselves. Those guys won't care because they've already had their fill, whereas men without a past will be more self-conscious about these sort of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:26 PM
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On one of their early dates he set up a spontaneous nighttime picnic and she just found it really romantic Wow, I don't know if I'm just a product of the times but me(and alot of men and women) think he was "trying too hard". Her ex had a way of making her feel like she’d only get his attention if he wanted sex but wouldn’t do anything else with her. How tall was her ex? Idk if she said so explicitly but she’s always seemed like he makes her feel loved in the ways she wants to be and she’s alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:31 AM
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But I think he does make her feel feminine in other ways and being torn means she had to drop her preconceived ideals she walked in with because I think Ok, as a short guy, I must ask. How do you think he made her feel feminine in other ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:54 PM
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She really liked a larger size difference. She was kind of torn or looking for permission to be happy as she was telling me about being torn. Where do you think this feeling comes from? When everything else clicks so well how can she feel so 'torn'? My only guess is the cultural perception that heigh can be seen as synonymous for status and your friend probably wondered how her standing would be since short=low-status. I'm guessing since I'm a guy I probably can't fathom it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:16 AM
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Short women shouldn't reproduce at all if they're worried about having short kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:30 PM
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I’ve never had an issue getting a guy. I'm talking about keeping one honey. Getting a guy will never, ever, be a problem if your a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:00 PM
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I could name 10 small things immediately the dudes in the "rating PPD users" thread could do to make themselves more attractive to women, but they don't care. Their response is that it still won't make them "Chad" so it's not worth it. Name those 10 things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:39 AM
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"ladies，stop chasing high value men and just settle for low value males" Average != low-value
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:25 AM
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short men still fair better than tall women despite what the incels say Elaborate. A tall woman still has a far higher chance of reproducing. Imagine being a tall woman and every man you see is shorter I think taller women are less pickier about height in a partner because they themselves already bring those height genes to the table. I think they would be far more willing to compromise on height and look for shorter men with status and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:01 AM
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I don't actually agree with her on height being that important It actually isn't important and there was a post here from earlier listing various factors that don't contribute to relationship success. Height was one of them. But unfortunately it's modern women who decide what is considered important in men. but the lack of self awareness most women have over their own genetics often being sub par is quite funny. True. I see the problems we see now only to continue in the next generation if these…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:06 PM
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Well, let's make short women self-aware about their height so they don't pop out anymore manlets 🤷‍♂️. Noble cause if you ask me. Too many inferior women have reproduced throughout history, might as well start trimming those numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:48 PM
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You do realize that there's still a chance that if you have a son he could be short right? A chance. You so easily dismiss other short men's genetics but don't dismiss your own genetics as a source of suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:47 PM
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Lol, your better off not reproducing all together by your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:45 PM
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Height queens are rare 🤦‍♂️ You were doing so well up until here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:02 PM
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And I wish you the best and satisfaction in your field as well! Hopefully, some of that success pours into my dating prospects as well 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:29 PM
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Even without the thesis it sounds like you had a rigorous but fulfilling time. The classes that were related to AI were the only ones I found fullfilling because I felt like I was learning things that I couldn't on my own. It was very math and programming intensive. Definitely not something you could learn in one of those coding boot camps. Unfortunately I can't say the same about all the other courses it took. Do you work in AI/ML now? Yes! Infact I started my role as an ML engineer not long ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:59 PM
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Oh come on, you've never felt like you missed out on the endless procrastination and insomnia party? Trust me, even though I was non-thesis, I didn't miss out on that 🤪. He focused on automated theorem proving and I am like 90% convinced that that project single-handedly shaved off about two decades of his life span. Big oof. Yeah one of the reasons I didn't go for that was because I think I would have gone absolutely crazy being hyper-focussed on just one thing for a prolonged period of time. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:28 PM
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Have you tried reading my reason for writing this? It's a play on the general stereotype that exists where if a guy asks why he's unsuccessful in dating, women will tell him platitudes like "you aren't trying hard enough" or "you need to improve your personality". Clue, I already responded to someone else about it. You aren't entitled to a (happy) relationship. But if you as attractive as you mentioned, I can't imagine failing at a game where the odds are so heavily in your favour 🤣. Sorry to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:23 PM
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Honestly when women try to disprove the importance of height, the very first thing you should ask them is how tall their bf/fiance/husband is. Usually when the answer is 6'+, further conversation is pointless. Though, some of the women on here who do have shorter men as partners are actually more sensible to talk to when it comes the height issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:19 PM
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Doesn't it make sense to you that shorter guys get passed over for taller men when young and the shorter guys have to develop all aspects of themselves so they can turn themselves into a catch? This will obviously give them an advantage with younger women who want to settle early into something stable. Also, you(and alot of other guys) underestimate occasionally shortness can play an advantage as it could make you look younger than you actually are if other things(skin, face) are checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:16 PM
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Dude, I remember the user your arguing with said her fiance/bf was 6'2. Lol, I don't know why she's trying to disprove you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:11 PM
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Well that's nice, I didn't take the thesis route during my grad, and I was in CS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:09 PM
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Explaining my research and studies to him What's your field of research? I'm curious now because I noticed your username 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:45 PM
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Lastly, I’m really beautiful but it doesn’t get me anywhere so I feel like it doesn’t matter much. Have you tried improving your personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:21 AM
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Society isn't going to all change for the sake of the lowest ranking men. You do realize that throughout history, things like "lowest ranking" was never permanent right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:47 AM
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Keep accumulating wealth. Keep focussing on my career, health. Keep self-journaling. I'm also improving on being more social, maintaining eye contact, holding a conversation, and maintaining frame. Also, learning to take pressure off myself that I have to get married and be a provider. Was raised in traditional household where waiting till marriage was norm. So I'm still a virgin. Going to try to spruce myself up enough where I can lose the dreaded v-card one way or another and get some sex XP p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:27 PM
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I agree with this as I was prime BB material before I ran into the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:26 PM
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Imagine the game being so much in your favour and still losing 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:00 PM
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Anon how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:14 AM
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Maybe you also don't have a good personality? Can't tell is sarcasm or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:48 AM
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They might prefer that, but they'll still take one that does I know, which is why I've stopped taking women seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:17 AM
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Women want a fuck boy who doesn't fuck around. That's woman logic for you 🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:14 AM
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It goes without saying there are some seriously dysfunctional couples. And those couples result in reason 1 and 2. Reasons 1 and 2 is the outcome because reason 3. But your concept that individuals who have remained perpetually single are defective is very traditional thinking. But if we talk individuals that go into their 30s single. We're talking about a people with a huge number of reasons and circumstances. Atleast especially in the modern world where people much more free than before and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:49 AM
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My problem with "there is something wrong with you" is that it assumes that there is nothing wrong with people who are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:35 AM
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Or you spent your 20s putting yourself together 🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:32 AM
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No I didn't ask why, one of them I was friends with her and her bf, bf was out for a business trip and I was crashing with them. Wow. Im constantly amazed by how women think when it comes to alpha-seed beta-need. But she proposed this before we knew each other well. Where would one find such women? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:45 AM
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Something's really wrong with you Lol, ironically I hear this sort of thinking from the redpill community so much in regards to women. Though I personally disagree with it even though I'm redpill leaning. Seems like some of the outspoken anti-redpill women on this sub have more in common with them after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:37 AM
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Multiple women have asked me to "help" them have a kid and said they didn't need me to raise it, I declined I thought it was a trap. Lol, how tall are you anon? Did you ask why they chose you? I'm guessing it was purely physical. Also, what were the backgrounds of these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:34 AM
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In conclusion: the past matters BUT to a certain extent. The only thing that its a deal breaker for me is past DV Women truly are the more forgiving gender. Good for us guys 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:15 PM
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Are you a social worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:21 AM
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Nope. Just myself, because parents and sister don't care about my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:18 AM
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Ironic how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:15 AM
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I wasn't proposing anything 🤦‍♂️. I was simply explaining the situation to give a better understanding. But it reminds me of a quote that I think rollo tommassi said: "most men lead lives of quiet desperation". Meaning, society in general won't care. No one's going to put on pink pussy hats and march on Washington DC to spread awareness for men's mental and emotional health. Lip service maybe. Ultimately I think the problem will go on into the next generation. I don't envy the zoomers one bit. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:57 AM
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They can do the same more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:30 AM
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Nice troll question. Never did I anywhere say to take away gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:24 AM
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Lol, if that's what you took away, then dialogue with you is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:59 AM
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Your sentiment echos the Societal paradigm that men are expendable. If you look at this link, you will notice that men's iq is for more distributed horizontally from the mean. This means a significant portion of men are going to be left behind in some way as the world progresses at the pace it currently is. I know you'd probably be ecstatic to have these men scraped up and marched off to war to die in some meat grinder just so you have the luxury of Starbucks and fucking Chad on a Friday, but mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:55 AM
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Only to get that "experience" so that I don't look like a weirdo to my future wife. Don't know how many bodies that would be thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:36 AM
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Doesn't help your case the more you dismiss these men so trivially. Nobody asking women to be mothers, or nanny's, atleast in the western world women are free to do as they please. You do realize that the sons of this generation of women can also end up in such a state. The more you alienate them and cut them out of the tribe the more dysfunctional the situation will become. Your just endorsing the redpill unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:34 AM
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Reason why I enjoyed dating my ex. Ok, he sounds absolutely awesome, but why is he your ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:27 AM
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How attractive would you say your sister is anon? Also, by your words she seems skilled at the game of hypergamy, how would you define her personality, seduction and social skills? Did she learn from somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:26 AM
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If your a woman that's a go-getter and is driven to achieve and is entrepreneurial, and doesn't want kids, then other than for casual sex, there is zero benefit. Though most women(and ppl in general) aren't like that, they're fine to live life without ambition, and she wants to follow the path her parents followed, due it's familiarity, and of course, instinct, she'll find a guy and through dating, in her circle or outside and she'll settle down and have that white-picket fence life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:23 AM
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Im 28. How about that I'm turning 28 this month lol. she is a pretty high value very attractive woman (physically and personality wise) tho, so she'll be able to find another high status man easily. She's at a definite disadvantage though, she can only marry up to be happy. yeah it obviously depends on the guy, you gotta put in the work to keep yourself looking good. but I know plenty of guys who are in their 40s who look like there in their late 20s, early 30s. Exactly this. Looking younger and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:26 AM
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And I’m fat 🤷‍♀️ intermittent fasting, no sugar and exercise doesn’t make someone thin. Your either lying, or you have some disorder. If it's the latter case you have my sympathies. Sucks to work hard and not see results. I know the feeling. I also have a disorder as a man, it's called being short, lol. Atleast be happy you can get sex whenever you want despite your condition. Hell I was a healthy weight when I was nearly hospitalised for anorexia That's awful. That must have been difficult to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:54 AM
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I work out 5 days a week (you need rest days otherwise you fuck your muscles), I very carefully watch what I eat. Im overweight. Start intermittent fasting, stop eating sugar. If you think working out is somehow gonna protect you from gaining weight you are sadly mistaken. Lol, is this really your rebuttal? I do intermittent fasting and refrain from eating sugar as much as possible. Sure I screw around, occasionally eat fries, ice cream. But it's rare. And I'm THIN. In fact, I'm actually underwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:37 AM
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Lol, this is so rich. Women denigrate fat and out of shape men but when women become fat, it's all excuses. You would never give the same leeway to men who gain pounds. Please stay single if this is your attitude. I see so many fat men and women around me that I fucking vow not to turn like them and I developed the habit to work out everyday to keep my self thin. I wouldn't accept myself to turn that way for the sake of myself and my future partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:22 AM
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I’m saying the criteria for Chad is so vague Ironically the criteria for incel is just as vague on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:12 AM
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Say how old are you? I was in a 2 year relationship until about 9 months ago, so im not rushing into it or anything That's surprising. What ended it? You'd think modern women would walk through the 7 pits of hell to keep a tall, wealthy, high status guy. I always date woman who are a bit younger than me. I wouldnt date a woman older than me. Careful. Women here call such men either incels or pedophiles 😉. honestly as much as the woman of purple pill will disagree, the wall for men with my stats …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:09 AM
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Actually I do remember some wealthy 6'4 green eyed Puerto Rican fellow who would regularly post here regularly, who was a player. He was blue-pilled of course and had only positive things to say about women, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:39 PM
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casual sex is pretty easy for me to come by. girls who want relationships are extremely easy to come by for me I'm curious, do you ever plan on settling down though? What would it take to get someone of your stature off the market? Or does your physique, wealth and status allow you to be perpetually single and satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:08 PM
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I don't see how Chad would take interest in this sub. I'm saying this as a guy, if any of the men had what it takes to be that 6'+ Chad who literally gets everything he wants out of the modern dating landscape, he definitely would not spend his time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:04 PM
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Kek, alright becky
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:32 PM
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Doesn't seem like you sympathized very much to begin with Eh, used to be a blue-pilled idiot who wanted to wait until marriage. When I realized that women don't respect me or see me as human because I'm not top 20% and still a virgin, I stopped being 'nice' and 'sympathetic'.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:48 PM
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Lol, you definitely don't know how men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:58 PM
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That's on them. Men and women view promiscuous genders differently. You just don't want non-virgen men to say the prefer virgins by words. Otherwise they could just keep fucking women and just commit once they stumble upon a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:04 AM
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I mean, virgin women can still choose non-virgins guys to commit too, so 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:39 AM
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Lol, ironically the OP's boyfriend thinks that way and he's got a virgin gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:36 AM
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Women on this sub show so much cognitive dissonance it's unreal. In another thread they were goin off on how their ideal body type was a tall skinny guy and then when some dude said he needed his woman to not have excess body fat they all said he wouldn't find a girl that way. Women truly are privileged in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:36 AM
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There is nothing wrong with you being a virgin. And nothing to be ashamed of. Respectfully, you don't know the lives virgin men go through, and how much of a red flag it is. But i can't expect a woman to understand a man's problems and the reverse and that's fine. Although I am amused by yet another man on here telling a woman what women do. ;) Eh, the genders do that to each other on this sub. Women will still fuck a dude if he's tall and good looking. It’s honestly a red flag that you’re gonna…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:33 AM
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You sound reasonable and nothing like the commenter I was originally responding too. I can 100% relate to his thought process because I know the feelings he has. His brashness is temporary. I can fully empathize with him. But you just don’t ask your partner about that. It would be weird. I agree it's weird, but if you commit, know, and trust someone long enough, conversation will sooner or later go the past and questions will be asked. It's just a matter of time. My point to you is that I hope y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:58 PM
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The guy OP is with isn’t obsessed with others dick size though 😂 reassuring your partner can be normal occasionally but not when it’s this huge thing where a guy is asking you about your former partners dick size That's not what I was insinuating lol. I was trying to say that OP's bf was insecure yet OP was there to soothe him, hell, she even said in another comment she actually wished he was a virgin after hearing about his past. Luckily he seems to just want to know she’s really happy with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:31 PM
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You’re just gonna need to work on your feelings of inadequacy and jealousy, it’s not really the woman’s job to do that for you. And it will only lead to a break up in future relationships as no woman will put up with being questioned like that and needing to coddle a guy so he doesn’t get insecure all the time. It’s not on the woman. It’s on you. OP's post disapproves that lol. Did you read the main post fully and OP's other comments?! Read the second paragraph. Her boyfriend who is sexually exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:57 PM
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Gotcha, I guess men should Definitely sleep around to learn how to please a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:34 PM
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I guess it’s ok to be jealous, that’s human nature. Just to to give a bit of understanding, us men(especially those of us whom are inexperienced or are virgins) can get insecure and anxious that our potential will have a past with more physically attractive men. Just like OP has stated in other comments that she feels insecure that her bf has already had numerous hookups with lots of women and she herself has none. Virgin men also feel emotions of inadequacy when they hear stories of virgin wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:31 PM
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He is incredibly jealous I mean, Is he wrong to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:12 PM
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Understood. Just wish women wouldn't have gaslighted me when I was younger on this issue. Losing it back in college would have been so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:55 PM
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Honestly I’d rather be celibate for life than sleep with a male virgin. Well, ouch, I'm a virgin guy who has a distaste for hookups and all and I have a preference for virgin women with relationship-oriented qualities 🤷‍♂️. But you do know someone has to sleep with virgin guys to make them non-virgins right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:45 PM
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The only justification for wanting a virgin or near virgin is if you want someone of equal experience. For a virgin guy that tends to be the general reasoning for the preference to begin with. I'm a virgin guy myself(with distaste towards hookup culture) and that's my thought process by default, and I think it's the same for a lot of virgin guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:30 PM
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This entire thread is redpill-fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:17 PM
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I’m a virgin and any guy with a virgin preference is an automatic no for me What if that guy is a virgin himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:50 PM
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Your a woman, you never have to worry about not having sex. You obviously wouldn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:46 PM
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I wish I had saved my virginity for my second serious boyfriend who was amazing in bed. What's his n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:44 PM
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Great, I'm glad your an example. There are SO MANY other women in here who think that low n-count women want low n-count men. They can't get it through their just-world fallacy heads that men with hight n-counts are more valuable sexually than men with low n-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:41 PM
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Why do red pilled men attempt to date seriously? To coom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:04 PM
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You will never have a period or cramps monthly. You are less susceptible to STDs. And you will never get drafted and society will have a natural inclination to protect you. That's a good deal in my book .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:34 AM
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Of course women aren’t going to sympathize with men here. know women who had sex and didn’t care and some of them are single moms now fighting with baby daddies, others had abortions, some even got UTIs and shit. Fantastic, since you don't sympathize and instead trivialize male loneliness and sexlessness, I'm guessing your not expecting men to show sympathies to single moms, party girls, and sluts. Would you be ok to have the state stop taking money from men just to feed the bastards of single m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:56 AM
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Yep you highlighted what I was thinking . Is he not attractive? Lacking physically? I mean, that pretty much means if these girls couldnt lock down the hot asshole when they were younger they are now settling with OP in later age, hence reinforcing his reason not to be the "fallback".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:43 AM
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What do you find admirable about stoicism for women? I mean, anyone being stoic is admirable. But i what I mean when I say unattractive women or women being stoic is that otherwise unattractive/obese/poor women who can't change how people perceive them make up for it in good character and hard work. Good character in my experience is from introspection, self-awareness, and self-acceptance. They won't take crappy behavior from others but they still maintain their 'frame' and don't go full Karen. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:07 AM
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Don't know why your comment had negative votes. I think your observations were spot on, and I'm one the redpill men who post here. I think your observations match up with mine and here are my thoughts on them: Though as a woman I personally see more exceptionally bad personalities from girls who are either extremely attractive or average-slightly below average I think it makes sense to me as a short man(5'6). Those girls tend to be approached more, and I also think unfortunately those girls are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:37 AM
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I think thats a weird way to say women dont like men who implement manipulative tactics to use women Women manipulate men through makeup, shittests, and social media. Men just retaliate through their own means 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:07 AM
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Just imagine a world where men’s value was almost completely based on their looks and women’s value was based on achievements and pursuing. Men's value is currently based on height, status, and looks. You women have it easy in the sense that looking pretty is LITERALLY all you have to do to be seen as a potential partner. For men, it's so much more. Your another example of women not able to comprehend dating from the point of view of the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:37 AM
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If what you said was true, r/whereareallthegoodmen Would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:34 AM
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Whoa watch out y'all 12-inch gigga-chad here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:31 AM
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Are you going to explain and refute any of my points specifically? I regret to say this but... If you haven't figured it out where men and women differ in experiences, dialogue with you is basically pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:28 AM
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“oh but if we are short or 400lbs we don’t have a chance), like ok, would you date a 400lb woman? Weight can be changed through exercise, height cannot. Would you date a woman who has a very masculine appearance and features? Unless she puts effort to make herself appear feminine, then no. How about a woman who has body hair on their face and chest? Nope. See how this works? Already do. I think this is all a bit irrelevant to what I’m saying Not. which is that to have anything last longer then a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:27 AM
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Get a master's degree How valuable is a master's really in terms of smv? Are women really impressed by it :-P. I did mine in CS and I other than a select few courses I was passionate in, it just felt like a waste of time(and money).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:55 PM
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I do not know anything about them, however. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:38 PM
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But if your looks get you in the door, but your personality is shit, then getting in the door doesn’t really matter much. But how can you see men as humans if your already discriminating against them based on arbitrary things like height? Your arguing for men to see women with 'hunanness', but women hardly see men in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:37 PM
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You once again prove that women cannot fathom the experiences of men who are average and below.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:57 PM
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When your already judged by physical characteristics (height, face, salary) at the get go, you have no choice but to treat it as a game where you need to level up. Maybe the "humanness" thing could have worked when we were young and naive, but not in this social media age. Besides, the philosophy held by both men and women is, "looks gets you in the door, personality decides what comes after".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:55 PM
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In reality it’s much more complicated because women do a majority of emotional labour / mental work Elaborate. How do women do the majority? Consequences of marriage, everything you make/own is communal property. Men also take half of their wife’s assets Women will naturally only date up. Sure there are more households where the woman makes more. But they still date up usually to men who are well established with assets. So at divorce the man has the higher likelihood to lose out. It doesn’t, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:16 PM
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If that offends and you want to feel vengeance, just put your phone down and go out with a poster saying "men are trash" if you want to let off some steam.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:15 PM
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Your point is stupid No you. See what I did there. How many men have to deal with false rape accusations or even care about them Enough that society is talking about it and is somewhat mainstream now i.e. Johny Depp, amber heard situation. Also, it's cute you diminished the struggles of men compared to women even though you previously claimed that they both share the same struggles. While women have to live in fear because 1 in 5 women is raped in her lifetime. Yeah that's awful. And society tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:13 PM
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The men here who hate women will pretend they love women. Is that surprising though? Its pretty mainstream, and more or less society-accepted to say "men are trash". If a man said he hated women it would be social suicide. They don’t then turn around and say they love men They'll still fuck em though, and for (most)men, as long as the sex is rolling in, they couldn't care what the woman thinked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:04 PM
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There are literally women on this sub who have said they are less sympathetic towards men's rights because of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:53 AM
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Narrow minded projection 🤦‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:51 AM
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Yeah if you're 30 plus virgin it's too late I'd say, you're so de socialized This is retarded lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:33 AM
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Its exactly why the meme "she doesn't want you cuz your not interesting" is really retarded. Same for the meme "what do you offer other than resources"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:22 AM
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Of course, the tactit admission that these men and a big portion of others can only get relationships on the condition that they provide wealth and/or social status and nothing else has a lot of implications people won't really want to talk about. Wrong. Those men can have hobbies or interests that women don't find interesting, and Ultimately looks/money/status is all the woman likes about him. If I have an interest in video games, anime, and science fiction, alot of women would be put off by th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:11 PM
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I bet helping those guys, especially exemplified in OP's post (broke, suffering from mental health etc.) become well-adjusted, mentally and physically healthy men would go a whole lot further in helping this virginity problem thing than blaming women and begging for them to change will. I think preventing childhood bullying and isolation would be a good start. I do believe how we're raised and how our relationship with the 'tribe' is moulded in our formative years does have an affect with our su…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:52 PM
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If male virgins demand a virgin, people are ok with it Wrong. I got shamed. People just don't like it when non-virgin men demand a virgin. Virgin women still marry non-virgin men if they're attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:15 PM
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People say that all the time. Wrong. Because even if they do, they are shouted down.n Women have the benefit of being able to demand that their partner be a virgin out loud. Men, whether that man be a virgin himself, does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:46 PM
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I make over 6 figures in the suburbs I'm 28, I just broke 6 figs in the suburbs. Though unfortunately I still live with my parents, so that's a big turn off. I don't know what the math/percentages would consider high income. Where I live, it's well above 80%. For you I think it may be higher. For genetics I am 5'10" I'm only 5'6, with your height you can say your 6'+ and women wouldn't even notice. Figuring stuff out isn't hard. It does take effort and the willingness to put yourself out there t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:45 PM
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That can't be the burden of somebody that didn't even contribute to half of of your dna. So your saying it's all the man's fault and not the fault of women with 6'+ height preferences and bad tastes in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:39 PM
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That’s so sad that men are being forced to date such women forced I'm a rp guy, and from my previous comments you can gather my opinions, but guys who actually seriously date and marry single moms were not forced to. They were just weak, and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:18 PM
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high paying job, Based on location, what percentile income per town/city would be considered high paying? up my flirt & texting game How? Any advice where to start. get better at approaching, learn to escalate and drive things on dates based on super subtle or non existant signs How did you figure this? have somewhat decent genetics to build a base for all this stuff on. Alright, what are "decent" genetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:01 PM
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Do do realize you can have your ducks in a row and be socially competent but if your genetically held back, women aren't going to pick you. You know this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:32 PM
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Ya'll just living in a time where you actually have to have something interesting about yourself in order to get a woman instead of simply existing, like in the past. "Interesting" Uh-huh. Being 6'+ is an interesting I can't do unfortunately. I'm certainly not in the top 20% and i've met, fucked and dated many decent looking women from sites like IG. Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:31 PM
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Isn't that part of being honest? Also, wouldn't a woman with experience herself find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:15 PM
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Male virginity is attractive. Shit-test detected. Men have a moral duty to preserve it for marriage. I wonder what would happen if a man said that about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:59 PM
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0 - 28
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:47 AM
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Also to add, being a virgin and/or in-experienced is looked down upon on men and that can cause anxiety in alot of men to go out there and rack up bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:10 AM
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The problem is that too many men tie their worth to their romantic/sexual life. I think fear of missing out on these things is more prevelant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:35 PM
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That's a 'you' problem. Though I don't expect a woman with a flare like your to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:06 AM
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Imagine being so far removed from reality that you can't recognize his obvious trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:34 AM
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Me neither, though, as someone who used to be the 'wait until marriage's type, learning to alter your preferences is vital in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:49 AM
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I don't see how. Some unattractive women are even fine with open relationship with their attractive husband as long as they themselves don't get involved with other men. I've actually chatted with one such woman here on PPD. The attractive guy can leverage his attractivness for something more in this day and age where the genders have more freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:36 AM
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They got bored playing the field and wanted to settle down with a safe option?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:14 AM
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You seem to think there are online courses for how men can get a relationship. Could you send me a link so I could check it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:40 AM
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Ngl, I'm a virgin guy but even I would refrain from sexual acts with classless women who send raunchy texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:03 AM
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That makes sense to me. Same thing on my end. I think it works better realistically when it is based on strong family values. Your correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:48 PM
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Interesting. What made your mom stay with him? Also, I have a (sort of) similar story. Mom(beautiful) got an arranged marriage to my dad. My mom didn't find him attractive at all. But after 40+ years of marriage she's very happy that she did because of how stable and happy life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:42 PM
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My mom who was very beautiful in her younger days (still looks beautiful, but you know what I mean) said she would not have even considered my dad if he didn't have his status/potential wealth. Does your dad know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:28 PM
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Sorry but what is a person without resources/body/status? That's a good question. I guess it would be wise of rephrase what I wrote. *Someone who doesn't value you for JUST resources/body/status. Of course you would need things like resources at the very least to support yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:16 PM
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This is exactly the kind of misogyny that turns women off. Still gets toxic men laid so 🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:26 PM
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There's a saying in redpill community. It goes something like: 'Once you swallow the redpill, you can leave, but you can never really checkout'. Personally for me, because I wasn't in the top 20% looks wise, I had already caught on to the different redpill ideas that were conveyed on this sub, so the affect on me wasn't exactly drastic. Opinion of women went down for me too, but because of my looks women never exactly had a high opinion of me to begin with even if I was the sort of guy who disli…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:15 PM
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are happy knowing she chose us over him. *Settled She couldn't lock the other guy down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:12 PM
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How many cats do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:33 AM
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But then women clearly believing they're not shallow but then going "ewwwwww" to a picture of several average looking guys. Dude, when there is body positivity for short men, I promise you I'll go out and aim for a fat girlfriend 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:25 AM
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You missed my points but I guess we can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:46 PM
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Platitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:25 PM
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My experience in r/dating had been one of witnessing a ton of gaslighting and name calling. This sub generates a lot more thoughtful discussions. Holy shit that says alot about r/dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:19 PM
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Who are these women getting married to ? Older men. Or sharing a guy with other gals. Young women are also earning more than young men, that explains it. Well thank goodness. The gender pay gap is FINALLY gone now. The feminists can quit bitching about it. The statement is wrong because it ignores all the shit women have to deal with in dating: STDs, pregnancy, rape, sexual harassment, assault, stalking, deception, rejection, ghosting. Men also have to deal with their own equivalents. False rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:01 PM
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Loser women don’t get corrected because men have no standards. Nah, just the fact that women are perceived to be more valuable by society in general. More men live with their parents than so it’s not just due to “economy and housing”. Well women get married sooner so 🤷‍♂️. women have it so easy, they don’t even have to try Is there really anything wrong in that statement? A woman just has to exist and wait to be approached. If there was a man she wanted she could far easily get that man than com…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:09 PM
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Every time a woman expresses that no men are interested in her she’s met with scorn and dismissal Can you imagine failing at a game that's literally designed to be in your favour. Men will have no job, live in their parents basement, have no education, no hobbies and no friends and complain that “female standards” are why they hate their life. You see the issue here ? Loser men will always be corrected. One way or another. Can't say the same about loser women though. You also seem to be dismissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:13 PM
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Seriously have any of you women been alone and celibate for extended periods of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:36 PM
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You can say your the magic number and women couldn't tell the diff. But yeah, I can see how working out that much can help you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:05 PM
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Interesting. How tall are you anon?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:59 PM
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Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:21 PM
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Ugly losers think the most beautiful women in the world aren’t good enough for them. Forcing hot guys to pick up the slack and making women feel good about ourselves. Those guys have harems because they don’t nitpick womens bodies and call us a bunch of names. None of this made any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:42 PM
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My God what sort of place did you grow up in. But that aside. Your falling for the false assumption that just because a girl is ugly means she will easily sleep with another ugly guy. Doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:41 PM
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Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:36 PM
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I think you missed my core concern. Don't see how a matchmaker will solve the problem of genuine desire though. Once again, not being selected for being a beta provider is my main concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:28 AM
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I put myself out there. 5'6 28 kissless virgin guy. Just hit the six fig bracket in my moderate flyover town, 0 debt, so successful I guess? Do have success attracting but problem is is that I seriously question the motives of the women whom are showing interest in me. Unfortunately the signs of genuine desire aren't there. Which really frustrate me. The women I deal with give me the vibes that I should be glad that they're giving me the chance. I don't think they like me for me and just see me …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:44 PM
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Any advice then? What advice would you tell an average man with no relationship experience to do to find a mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:34 PM
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*chubby tall guys Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:23 PM
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Of course. Some. Not all. Like you were previously inferring. And that some is the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:43 PM
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Ok, but still, virgin women don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:37 PM
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virgin women don’t want guys who slept with every woman No guy can actually sleep with every woman 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:35 PM
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Sorry to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:41 PM
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He's 6'2, so a bit taller than average A bit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:31 PM
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I think guys shouldn’t be hypocritical about wanting virgins when they slept around. Virgin Women can still marry guys with a past if they like him enough so it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:20 PM
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Only some guys. I think as a guy unless you tall (enough). Good looking (enough). And socially experienced (enough). It can be fun. But obviously the majority of men aren't what I described above.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:25 PM
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My ex made less than me Why is he your ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:55 AM
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We will indeed, Since my best friend growing up was 5'5 and he was/is always talking to girls and getting some action. If I had a penny for every tall guy who has a short best friend who is a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:55 PM
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Yes, they would have.... Because he used Charisma to charm them. Well man, as a 5'6 guy myself, looks like we'll have to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:49 PM
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You just assume because a man is tall he can go up to any woman and say, 1 sex please. Of course not. But you seem to SEVERELY underestimate the massive advantage it gets you in today's dating space. If that homeless guy you linked was 5'6 do you think any woman would have slept with him? Oc course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:47 PM
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As a man who's 6'3'' I know that's not true. That's on you man 🤷‍♂️. Your doing something VERY wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:43 PM
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to sleep with homeless men too, without wanting a LTR while your at it. He was 6'+ plus. Most women would fuck a literal neanderthal if he was 6'+
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:40 PM
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Nah. I trust my intuition enough. You’re not nearly as objective or logical as you think, my friend. My top 10% networth says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:00 AM
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It’s frankly super flattering that you find my family unbelievable Lmao. I mean, in the sense that alot of women on PPD give off inflated outlier-tier stories that many times I find doubtable. The anesthesiologist met him through her dorky college friend group. The psychiatrist’s boyfriend’s mom is best friends with my mom. They had known our family for years. Sounds close-knitt. Community like this isn't available for everyone unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:26 AM
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Assuming your story is true, My twin sisters are both physicians. The anesthesiologist is marrying her college boyfriend and the psychiatrist is marrying a family friend’s son. The fiancés both have modest jobs (engineer and graphic design) and are very much punching up their weight class looks wise. How did these men bump into your sisters?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:53 PM
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Religions were created by guys for guys to get laid, and women fell for it. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:46 PM
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Will the economy get worse? Are we in for a prolonged recession?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:09 PM
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Women in this sub call men all sorts of derogatory words, but when men do it, it's wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:39 PM
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Well I hope he gets better, and I hope you do too ♥️. I love how you just automatically take his side… Read what I wrote again, carefully, and quit being irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:35 PM
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People in general should only marry for financially reasons I've been become dis-enchanted with the idea of marriage for a while now but even I think that's a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:33 PM
0

He told me he doesn’t have any options lined up and doesn’t plan on getting into another relationship for a while. If he's wise he'll get on the grind and improve himself, now that your free of him you should too. Who knows, if you grind hard enough maybe he'll regret leaving you. This just shows how superficial of a person he is. K He also broke up over text if you need another example of what kind of person he is Your not entitled to a breakup of your choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:28 PM
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You chose a guy with options and you couldn't keep him. Sorry to say but that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:23 PM
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i made this post to challenge the incels who claim women only like +6ft muscular/thin chads/prettyboys If those women could have married the +6ft muscular/thin chads/pretty boys they would have. But due to their own shortcomings they couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:22 PM
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Women marry men for stability, not for looks *If they can't secure the alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:20 PM
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Love this comment. Nice job forming your thoughts and putting them to words. I think your reasoning is solid here. Alot of the other comments here seem to go in just one way but this really breaks things down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:10 PM
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But many of these men will feel some type of way wifing up a girl whose been around the block on any of these dating apps/social circles/collage campus. If it wasn't for the redpill, I would have ended up wifing up one of these women. I can't believe once upon a time I would have been glad to be a provider. Lol. You described the situation perfectly. Glad I got out of the matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:39 PM
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This stage is resolved during purge or some other photo dump occasion where the women are shown to not in fact be ugly You can't exactly expect the unattractive women to post right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:24 PM
1

I think you'll find it quite humorous then that I originally wanted to be a surgeon but failed organic chemistry in highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:42 AM
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Not sure how old you are or where you’re at in your career, but if you are currently considered “senior” this would be a step down. It's junior position for specialization in Machine Learning (AI). For the job, we needed to have 5 years experience previously, I had 3 and a master's in CS so I think that's what got me in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:36 PM
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When I was interviewing they did hint I would be with a bunch of young guys similar to me age and qualifications. But yeah, all the ppl in managerial positions were Boomers 🤷‍♂️. That’s what happens at secure employers, people who are fearful stick around out of fear and the culture turns inward Unless they drastically increase my pay in a year or so and/or promote me to more managerial stuff I'm not gonna bother with sticking around lol. If that stuff doesn’t affect you or you value security hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:01 PM
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I don't see it getting shut down. It's a big company that's subsidiary to an even bigger one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:43 PM
1

I guess it could be expected given the recent conflicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:43 PM
1

Yup USA. Though during Weimar Germany wasn't it the military contractors that got rich too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:37 PM
1

Yeah, kinda why I'm thinking off hunkering down there for a while and then try to get into the FAAG companies after the economic situation stabilizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:11 PM
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So, the contracts we're talking about here are regarding heavy and cutting edge military equipment. Think missiles/rockets etc. The company I work at is a pretty big one and is even doing work on an infamous piece of space equipment. I think they have their ducks in order and aren't overgrown like alot of startups we're seeing doing layoffs. So they are competitive and don't let just anyone join. I don’t know how reliably military contractors can get contracts, but I’m under the impression there…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:01 PM
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Serious career question: Got a decent offer from a company that deals heavily with military contracting. The salary isn't exactly what I was wanting, but its top 20% salary where I live and it's pretty interesting. Given the growing economic uncertainty, would this be a 'safe' option given how heavily it deals with the gov contracting world?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:25 PM
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First and second questions can be answered by looking at my earliest reddit post(s). I started out blue pill, then slowly and gradually made my way towards redpill. I'm unironically grateful that the redpill exists because I can't imagine the terrible life I would have lead if it didn't. Third question: At first to find answers. Though that didn't work out well. I got those through youtube by following rollo tommassi, entrepreneur in cars, sandman and a bunch those other redpill/mgtow characters…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:04 PM
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Lol, Dude, women expect Billy beta to wife them up and provide for them after they've banged men that they perceive are superior to him. I made a comment addressing this fact here If you look at the responses, they basically tell me that a man SHOULDN'T be upset about this. Marriage is only meant for a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:50 AM
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Dude based on your other comments, I think your blue-pilled. Like, REALLY blue-pilled. Red-pill covers alot of things and your just fixating on the incels and PUA sort of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:56 PM
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They fail to give those women basic human respect Same thing could be said in regards to women and short/ugly/poor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:45 AM
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JustPearlyThings is the most recent one I think. Nice gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:17 PM
1

PDD is largely a circle jerk for he-bitches to commiserate about being the worlds ultimate victims. You seem to willfully overlook the she-bitches as well. Though you may not know that the demographics of PPD is mostly early twenties guys and mide-to-late thirties women. I.e. the most(relatively) underprivileged of the dating world. buut of course because I'm a woman there will be a bunch of guys jumping in now to tell me about how I can't possibly know what it's like to struggle and how they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:02 PM
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Troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:41 AM
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I think a more important question to ask is how accurately can women perceive height accurately. When I tell women I'm 5'6 their surprised because they thought I would be shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:24 AM
1

At least you still get laid. Hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:20 PM
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Dude, I'm a 5'6 ethnic virgin. Where I currently am career-wise, financially, and status-wise isn't enough to compensate. At best, women will see me as the "safe", "stable" option. Fuck that. I'd rather die alone than be some woman's backup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:12 PM
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Appreciate you thoughts but.... You can read my post history to get a better idea of where I'm coming from. I fit the profile of someone whom would be used more of a utility than being genuinely desired. I'm slowly coming to terms with this. I really don't know what to do about it. But I think any woman whom had interest in me would probably just see me as something to mark off her bucket list, not genuine primal attraction. Once upon a time, I actually would have been alright with a woman using…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:02 PM
1

He was low income for most of his 20s, that's true. But that didn't make him a bad person or bad catch. And he's not low-income anymore. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:05 PM
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The fact that your asking that definitely shows your disconnect from how the media portrays sexless men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:53 PM
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1 and 3 Also, I'm dissatisfied with where I currently am in life. On the outside it might look like I'm doing well, but I thought I'd be far further along, career and money wise. All this keeps me unhappy, virgin and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:30 PM
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Lol you don't need data; we're everywhere talking about it. It's commonsense Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:16 AM
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Ah yes, the typical insulting of people for not agreeing with you. Yawn. It's not an insult 🤦‍♂️ it's used to describe people who are on about chastity and futile crap like that. I used to be puritan minded myself until I got a reminder it was something that made me unattractive. I did Definitely the Exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:12 AM
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there’s nothing wrong with a sexually inexperienced man as long as he is willing to learn Unfortunately when you create a culture where hookups is the norm, being sexually inexperienced as you age turns more and more into a red flag, for men that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:39 AM
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Self-journaling, Meditation, Maintaining better relationships with close family. Currently these are what I do to get some amount of emotional sufficiency. Doesn't do it 100%, but it definitely helps. Added benefits is that it's good for you mental health. I think picking up philosophy would also be a big help, which is something I'm trying to incorporate. But, I don't think any of the above is a complete substitute for a full-filling, sex-filled relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:37 AM
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Furthermore, many women who aren't so promiscuous are rightfully becoming more vocal about not wanting "community D." Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:22 AM
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Once again like many other puritans on this sub your not taking into consideration that a player will have the genetics that make overlooking his past easy. Would a woman overlook 6'+ guy who know how to talk and seduce just because he has a body count over a 100? 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:21 AM
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Exactly why I stopped taking women seriously both online and in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:51 AM
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Unless I voluntarily adopted the child, then NO. But, certain women on ppd already have a definition for men that raise other men's children 😏.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:38 AM
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And if you don't want kids, honestly there's no reason to ever marry. I actually do want kids. I think my upbringing has me better hardwired for that sort of life. I'm also well resourced for that sort of thing as well. I just don't want to expose them to a probable divorce and all the madness that entails. And unfortunately if it wasn't for the redpill I think I would have already become that "billy beta" in a sexless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:02 AM
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Is it irrational to be upset? Well, no, if it's happened to you. Well fantastic. I guess that's an improvement over us "putting voices in your head". Even if it turns out for the worst, as another commenter said, what use is it to hold a grudge against other women Ok, I'll leave playing captain SAH to you then 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:56 PM
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I think you and I have far too much success with women to fully know how those guys feel. I think I fall close enough to those guys to understand lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:30 PM
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Is it really? Do you think wifing up an alpha widow will get you the same level of enthusiasm and excitement she gave to the chads when she was younger? Do you actually think the chump who wife's her up is going to be sexually satisfied while he still has to pay for her lifestyle and has to take on the additional risks of getting divorce-raped or cheated on? He can get enthusiasm and all the variety he needs from a hooker, regardless whether it's fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:39 PM
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Once again, your assuming that a woman who's been passed around is going to be level-headed and isnt bitter enough to take out her frustration on her new chump husband. Your also assuming her past won't find it's way to the present. and your also assuming that the woman will want to have the same sort of Karnal sex with her chump husband. But if you think living life as a chump is preferable to being alone, that's on you 🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:28 PM
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He is far better off hiring hookers than dealing than picking up the emotional leftovers of the concubine of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:00 PM
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There is a little voice in the back of my head which holds the opposing view; that he should be upset that she and her ilk ignored him for 20 years, but I know that's you bastards putting words in my head, so I ignore it. Is it really irrational to be upset about this? That your wife would only love you after losing her beauty and being dicked down and thrown away by men she perceived were above you and had superior genes compared to you? Are you saying men should accept this without grudge?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:07 PM
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Anomaly. Do women really care about that if the guy has his act together and makes it as far as physical attraction is concerned? I don't see (vast majority)women preferring a relatively shorter inexperienced virgin guy over a taller better guy with a longer sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:12 PM
1

Even have a startup growing on the side. Cool, what sort of startup?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:15 AM
1

I’ve been consuming vast quantities of redpill/manosphere content since I was about 14 How the fuck did you start at 14?! I had to go through a massive ideological pipeline that spanned almost a decade to end up on gender debate forums. How did you start so freaking early?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:46 PM
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I think your underestimating how much this sort of things happened lol. I've witnessed it more than once, with disappointment, since I used to be a guy whom wanted to wait until marriage. As long as the guy is attractive and able to seduce, he can definitely settle for a pious virgin if he plays the field well. If you can get women to take their panties off you can definitely get a virgin woman to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:17 AM
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He’s a creep with a fetish. Lol, this is why I stopped taking women seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:56 AM
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I mean, I've read about women on here(anti-rp types) whom were virgins but committed to guys with an extensive past because of their personalities/physical looks. It's not really a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:04 AM
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Lol. Ok, so when a man says he prefers a young virgin(even though he himself isn't), but he says he also prefers her to have a good personality, that's not shallow then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:08 AM
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That’s projection. Not everyone’s only interested in beauty Really? So most, if not the vast majority of women desiring a man that's taller/6'+ isn't shallowness?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:57 PM
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Wow, I just wanted to let you know. I'm a guy who leans hard towards rp,bp kinda stuff, and I hate this sub for all the bp rhetoric, but it's comments like yours that make me come back here! You story gave me a new perspective on things that I don't think I would have gotten anywhere else! Definitely have more to ponder after reading. You have my sincere gratitude. t. 27M 5'6 virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:12 AM
2

What exactly do you mean by "too late" OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:44 AM
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Kek alright Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:01 AM
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Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:05 AM
1

Early 2000s didn't have the modern level of social media throwing women's expectations out of whack.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:51 AM
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Not get married, just cohabitate. I, personally would not care as much regarding n-counts with a potential partner if it didn't mean marrying and there being an obviously higher chance of divorce and her taking my stuff. Some cool and down to earth women out there can have high n-counts, women I loved being with, but the risk of marriage and divorce? I'd rather just cohabitate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:50 AM
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indeed studies show that shorter men marry later than taller men, aka women settle for them). Holy shit, link?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:01 PM
1

I had guys giving me money, fixing stuff, running errands… one even bought me a car. This is why more men need to be redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:10 AM
1

The dating market is very different now compared to how it was nearly a decade ago...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:30 AM
1

I think it's the older ones they tend to call creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:53 PM
1

The ego gratification men get from sleeping with an attractive girl, women get from sleeping with her boyfriend. Omg that's just evil. Ruining another person's relationship for the ego gratification?! That's some shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:32 PM
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I traveled 9000 miles for a guy and he ended up ghosting me. Holy shit balls, the things people do for love...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:43 AM
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The male friends and peers I know in the real world who have had a verifiably extensive list of women partners, care very little. I’ve yet to meet any man with the double standard mindset that TRP spews constantly. Dude, you do realize that speaking out loud a thought process like that in public is social suicide right? Like, it's not too difficult for these sort of guys to play around with a girl for her body for a while posing to be in a relationship and then making up some excuse. How many ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:56 AM
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The other sad reality that I was that I realized that a lot of the "player" guys were ending up in relationships I think your the first person on this sub to actually explain this very well. Most(if not all) women on here act like they would NEVER date or marry a red pill or PUA guy. Well unless that guy was a virgin, chances are he had to have engaged in that sort of behaviors inorder to be charming and socially capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:09 AM
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My dad has accomplished many things in his life, professionally and financially, but I think he would have never been able to get married given how introverted and timid he was given the modern landscape, also he's not tall, just average in height and looks, like his communication skills in casual settings are atrocious. Though I don't think dad would have gone incel, but a volcel? Absolutely. As for mom, I think she's the type to have never gotten married either because of how entrepreneurial s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:15 PM
1

Are women not getting angry over men's looks and age hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:09 AM
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They need the red pill unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:15 PM
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Wtf, I was scrolling through r/truerateme. It seems the vast majority of that place is just young women, that too young women who know they look good because most if not all the faces are above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:49 AM
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all these guys look at women basically the same way, which is the same way you do: barely human and with nothing of value to contribute other than their bodies and service If that's all you took away from my comment then there's no point in engaging with you 😑.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:13 AM
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The best guys are already taken, so when women see an opportunity, they snap them up Are women really desperate at that age though for another relationship? You sure yours isn't an isolated case? Don't they just tire out and adopt a zoo of cats? after having a vasectomy. My god please don't tell me that these used up gremlins actually try to baby trap a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:29 AM
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especially those who have kids are hunted down aggressively by women, regardless of their financial situation Elaborate plz.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:08 AM
2

This sub literally makes zero sense. Granted this was my first place I visited where I got truly redpilled on gender dynamics and I've been around for months to get the perspective of the opposite sex. But this sub is honestly just pointless when it comes "debate". The only value I've gotten was when reading the posts and comments done by men(whether np, rp, bp) because I could to some extent relate and extrapolate their experiences, and I actually have gotten alot of practical advice from the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:17 AM
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the guy who is "attractive" as a husband and father is usually a sucker women pick for their financial and emotional security and one she can manipulate. Not because she genuinely lust/finds him attractive. They seem to never understand this...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:18 PM
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We are not men. We do not make our dating and sexual choices based on the male social hierarchy. So your saying women don't date/marry across and above dominance hierarchies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:15 PM
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Modern men are retarded. But I think they're slowly starting to wake up. In south Korea, a politician came to power primarily through his anti-feminist rhetoric, let's see if this trend spreads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:16 AM
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Also to add, shaming men for being virgins in old age wouldnt be a thing if no one cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:08 PM
1

Analysis makes sense. A decent, stable, and moderately wealthy man who is single would definitely be highly valued by single 30s women whom are are looking to settle and looking for some thing stable. Though I wonder if any man at that age range would bother....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:20 AM
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Dude, if no one cared, women wouldn't try to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:11 AM
2

Old women notoriously hate and resent their husbands and rag on them when they're gone what are you on about. This is so common it's a well known stereotype and frequently joked about Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:25 PM
1

Virgin girls want virgin guys but can't get them. What are you talking about? There are so many more virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:45 AM
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Firstly, I still had way more experience in sex and relationships than him, even at 23 (and even at 21 I would have), because I had been having relationships for 8 years already and he had never been in any What was the cause of 8 years of relationships? Also, did you feel you could have gotten into an LTR with someone in your age range? What made you get with the 30+ year old guy when I'm sure there are plenty of guys in your age range who would have wanted a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:52 PM
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Prostitutes aren’t going to cook and clean and split housing expenses with him Living in a one bed room apartment will save more money in the longruj compared to getting a multi bed room apartment for a bastard kid that isn't even his. As for cooking? LMAO. I highly doubt the life skills of a single mom can produce food that's good enough. The man is better off cooking his own food and focussing on improving his skills. She might even like the guy a little bit and do some nice things for him if …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:49 PM
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He gets sex, she gets resources. It seems pretty even to me. No it isn't lmao. He's FAR better off getting an expensive hooker. It's less emotionally draining and still cheaper than marrying a single mom lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:40 PM
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Of course we realize it. The fact that other women have it worse doesn’t mean we have to be silent about the issues that still affect us. I beg to differ. I've seen countless western women call otherwise normal everyday western (white) guys as sexists and mysoginists for some of the dumbest shit but will turn around and (sometimes literally) bend over backwards to appease men with ACTUAL mysoginistic views/cultures. But go ahead and treat your own men whom actually gave you freedoms like trash a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:35 PM
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But women can make our own money 🤷‍♀️. Why would we care what men did with money when they were young? You completely missed his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:40 AM
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As an ethnic guy who has actually lived in a foreign third world country, I don't think many (American) women, and of course women on this sub, realize how good they have it not just in terms of dating and relationships, but in terms of rights, protections, institutions, and services. Just a bunch of spoiled western women taking what they have for granted I suppose. My god it just makes me despise them waaay more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:25 AM
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Wow, ever thought about starting a YouTube channel for men's self-image and fitness :-D ? Also how old are you if you don't mind me asking? I'm currently aiming for the physique you described, even thought I might not be as genetically gifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:06 PM
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They have a defeatist attitude and believe women only want 666, despite millions of men who don't fit into any of those categories having happy relationships. Happy relationships? Ones where women are the ones that cause 80% of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:10 AM
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With guys there's always hope that you're going to find someone great someday, maybe tomorrow. I don't think you understand what most (unnattractive/average) men go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:50 AM
1

Not hateful, but her tone can be quite aggressive Well, that doesn't really surprise me. Unfortunately for this sub, aggressive is the common mode of communication lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:40 PM
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I don't really see what she did/says that's hateful. Though that's alot of assertions you have about her background lol. It's just I don't understand exactly what she means by her flair...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:29 PM
2

I think everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:58 PM
6

K
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:53 PM
1

Is Mrs degree for Islam or against it? Is she an exmuslim?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:02 PM
10

Why arent you still with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:49 PM
2

Dude, if you stick to your requirements I think you should be able to find a good guy. I think you need to wind down the time your spending on your career and focus more on dating and putting yourself out there, you should be able to find someone. I think you should see an online matchmaker or something. Also, might I add that I think it's amazing the career path you have carved out at such a young age! I myself was intending on going into the medical field myself, but I failed organic chemistry…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:46 PM
0

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:14 PM
3

An introspective woman who was empathetic enough to look at things from the male's perspective? I hope you find a man who can compliment you in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:14 PM
3

Ignore that guy, when his reasoning for cheating and not committing is "muh human nature" and "muh polygamous nature", it really is pointless. At that point we stray from the Bp/rp ideology into morality..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:06 AM
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This isn't bp/rp question, the issue of cheating is 100% moral. So yes if you cheat on someone, it is wrong, and you do not love the other person, Because it is a breach of loyalty and trust, which both are considered amoral by wider society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:36 AM
-1

Congrats, your an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:15 PM
1

just to be clear i sleep with these women but i dont date them. then i date the low count good girls. This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:15 PM
1

Only women with no self respect I can name a few women who frequently post on here by username whom fit the bill kek
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:12 PM
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Of course any virgin/low count woman would select a virgin man who's 5'5 rather than a double digit n-count guy who is 6'0+ and experienced at seducing women. \s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:11 PM
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I don't think anyone "following their instincts" to slut around is a good idea. Unfortunately for you and me especially, we're living in a hookup culture. Chastity isn't valued(for men). Promiscuous women might not care if a man is promiscuous, otherwise they tend to care, especially for relationships Wrong. There are women who frequently browse this sub whom constantly put down rp/incels/BP whom have married non-virgin men whom have had previous failed relationships themselves and a hoe phase d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:35 PM
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I even had a profile pic with full face and my titties on display and everything because I had no idea how Reddit worked. Holy shit. You?! For what it's worth, sorry to hear 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:34 PM
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He's wasting time chasing different women to have sex, isn't he If women are allowed to follow their instincts, why shouldn't men? Especially those men who have had to grind hard to be able to? Being promiscuous is low value I used to think so(for men), but women don't value low(or don't care) n count men as much as the other way around. It's usually the qualities of mid-high n-count that make them attractive to women for relationships that (probably) got them those notches to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:27 PM
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What about say a short guy(assume average face) who's had to work out constantly, get good/status job, and has a high social skills or social intelligence, but also has a high n-count? Would you say such a person has good impulse control to be able to get to those levels despite his height being a massive detriment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:38 PM
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I mean, a short guy who's had to work out, get good money, and galvanize his social skills to get a high n-count would have been productive rather than a waste of time. It does show high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:36 PM
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but women are far less accepting of low or 0 n counts than men are. This means it's technically better for guys to lose their virginitys or rack up an n-count sooner rather than later right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:22 PM
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This one. Doesn't sound like it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:19 PM
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Looks aren't a big source of sexual attraction for her. My god what universe are you living and how do I get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:12 PM
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cousin marriage is completely fine with almost no health effects it’s when people continue to marry cousins for 2-3 generations I don't think it's fine then 😅😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:32 PM
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Nah, I didn't mean it that way, just that all the other short short(5'0-5'4) women(some whom are rather outspoken) on here are either in relationships or married some guy who's 6'+ lol. On this sub women will say stuff like "height doesn't matter" and the like, but actions of course speak louder and we seem to have quite a few tree humpers on this sub 😂, whom I have noted voicing very incendiary comments towards other men of this sub and who boast about how great their own partners are. It just …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:12 PM
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Curious, did you face any health related problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:05 PM
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Damn, alright. On that note, I didn't realize some of the more prominent posters on this sub were actually short short, even on the female scale. my past 2 exes were 6’3 & 6’0 Don't know why I'm not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:32 PM
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And you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:24 PM
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10 and I’m scared 😱 of you so no. NEVER show your pic to ANYONE on here lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:01 PM
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That actually makes sense. I think I understand. Don't think I see much of that in women nowadays, who knows, just have to keep my eyes peeled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:54 PM
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I have. I also bear the brunt of it myself plenty enough. Kudos to you then for keeping a level head and not partaking in the harshness. It does help cultivate a productive atmosphere. I agree with what you're saying. I've upvoted many of your comments in the past. Appreciate it, hope my comments are insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:06 PM
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I don't disagree, but the one you're speaking to in particular is new and sweet; if a bit... slow. Mhm, I'm sure you wouldn't have coddled the men of this sub, even the ones who were tame, if they faced the "incendiary" treatment women dished out, but alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:15 PM
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Sexual market value
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:11 PM
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Btw its not a "ridiculous assumption" that i assumed the red pill definition as i see this term thrown around here a lot. There is technically nothing wrong with the redpill definition. It's just that the rp definition to way too female centric. My understanding of it is that only women can be hypergamous, not men as well. As for dumping the person your with to get with a "better guy" i personally wouldn't but im sure some women wojld just like some men would get with a younger woman. Yup, so do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:56 PM
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No need to be so incendiary. Lol, you should tell that to all the married women on here acting like paragons of virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:49 PM
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4) she was raised to be a wife How so? Are walking about the homebody who cooks and cleans?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:20 PM
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So i understand, am i defining hypergamy correctly Get your terminology clear before making ridiculous assumptions. Don't go with the redpill definition, go with the conventional definition. Hypergamy is when a person marries someone of higher socioeconomic value. In layman's terms: when a person marries 'up'. If a woman dumps her poor, average looking husband/bf and is marrying a guy who is leagues above her in every way (looks, wealth, status) that's hypergamy. When a rich guy dumps his older …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:13 PM
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Which is why I tell other men don't get married I'm afraid to ask. How do I know if I've struck gold and marriage would be the best option?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:48 PM
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Well that's great, just don't bother men when they "upgrade" to new models so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:42 PM
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I actually go outside and see all types of men and women together who shouldn't be with each other based on all of these pseudo science bullshit. Are you sure they were in actual relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:40 PM
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Nope Yup. Though I don't see how CURRENTLY being in a relationship and being redpilled and blue-pilled has any connection. Maybe asking number of prior relationships/divorces or dating experience? Lol, a lewd twitch streamer asked this question 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:32 PM
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I actually reread your reply multiple times and actually thought about it. I don't know if the mini-essay I wrote was already obvious to you, but the following is my thought process, hope you don't tldr 😅 Which kind of comes to another question....if you are perceived a certain way by great society, can you claim to not be that way and it be legit? This is a philosophical questions that a Reddit post wouldn't do justice lol. I'm sure a crap ton of seen and unseen variables are at play. Here's my…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:26 AM
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Did they forget to install my chip at the Build-A-Broad Warehouse? They'll follow they're perogative, men will follow their own. Three ideologies/states of mind or being/communities that more often than not deal in absolutes. That's your opinion not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:55 PM
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So ultimately, you're not fond of either gender. If that's what you took away, you wouldn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:44 PM
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Well, good on you then 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:14 PM
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Sounds like projection on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:58 PM
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We say that but in the end we want that variety again so we cheat on the Diamond with the no hymen. Kek. Redpill or no redpill, looks like men on this sub love to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:46 PM
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So... Men should only marry virgins and pump and dump non-virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:43 PM
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I sure hope he's taking advantage of it. The absolute state of modern relationships...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:36 PM
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Red Pillers are saying otherwise. apparently not. The fellow who commented this is avidly against the red pill. Note he's a 6'5 peurto Rican gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:34 PM
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So what about men who require the kind of relationship where they can be vulnerable? Learn to be emotionally self-sufficient. This goes for women too. You know, to be human Only the man whom is high value/attractive enough has the privilege of being open. Women could not care less about the feelings off men equal or below them. If this fact wasn't true then redpill/incel/blackpill circles would not exist. Society inherently cares about the feelings of women, not men, it's why the body positivity…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:42 PM
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They Not just redpilled men believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:55 PM
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It's the cynics, misandrists and misanthropes who are correct, not TRPers I can agree with this. (Edit: I can agree with this to an extent) I would also like to point out something that I've observed on this sub where the more sexually-liberated women call the traditional masculine characteristics as red-pilled while the traditional women call the pua/sexual liberated men as red-pilled. Projections basically. I'm sure some of the traditional women on here read the post I replied too, they would …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:50 PM
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I never said RP men though Nope, I'm pretty sure you did say "most RP men here". I read your comment twice. I’m against all pills I think they are silly ideologies who read too much into the white washed matrix movie when it was about and for black people. LMAO I assume most people who fall into the incel/rp ideologies simply just tend to not be attractive to women and don’t do well with them. Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:44 PM
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Most men here seem to Lol, I read your comment before you edited it, you went from "most rp men" to just "most men". Any reason why? Also humans are not monogamous by nature nor do we mate for like by nature. So humans will always cheat not matter the sex or gender. It’s always happened, it will always happen. I love how your very against the redpill but you somehow rationalize away cheating with just "muh human nature" and evolutionary theories, the same thing the red pill uses. Top kek. Love t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:24 PM
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If a woman smells bitterness on you for any reason, it's over. Bitterness is something losers feel Well put, my thoughts exactly. Better they turn that bitterness into working out at the gym or being a bad boy lol. You can be forgiven for feeling whatever you're feeling, but women do not want you to show the emotions of a loser. You should never be/appear vulnerable to a woman at all period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:46 PM
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I mean after swallowing the red pill I still get angry sometimes, especially reading this sub, I use it to remind myself not to let my guard down or show sympathy to women, and even some men. But ultimately I don't let the anger reflect on my everyday behavior in real life, or when I interact with women, but I alter my actions accordingly to what the red pill dictates, it's very useful to judge the character of women and get an idea of their intentions. As well as passing shit-tests they throw. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:26 PM
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Lasts for as long as the person wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:18 PM
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Lol unironically this. Rappers, drug dealers are some of the most redpilled guys out there. And the amount of women and sex they get is insane and far more than the average blue pilled man. Not to mention, women would be more triggered by a redpiller/incel discussing hypergamy than by Donald Trump saying "grab em by the pussy". I suppose it all comes down to how valuable you are as a male to decide what you can get away with. In general women like attractive, successful, socially savvy men. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:55 PM
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I mean i personally dont like timid or shy men as i find confidence to be a turn on, and i like to me approached by men but nothing wrong with introverted men in fact i prefer introverts. Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:59 PM
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I bet most of those women were from fds. But regardless, asking for female opinions on reddit regarding gender dynamics is absolutely pointless. Basically "Good! Men have been in charge for thousands of years! It's about time they suffer!!" type of misandary. In other words, most women are apathetic, if not downright gleeful that men are suffering. And this is how the redpill grows and prospers. The issues of troubled men get discarded, hence those men become incels or learn to understand women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:09 PM
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Doesn't that make sense? It's like oxygen, not having it will be seen as a big problem, but once your get enough, the allure fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:02 PM
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It makes sense but you have to keep your health, both mentally and physically well maintained. I think if your living in the west, USA in particular, age is really just a number of you chose to live your lifestyle correctly. But it will take tremendous amount of work and dedication.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:01 PM
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I didn’t think you guys thought fuckbois are a problem. Lol, what at you on about,women are the ones constantly bitching about fuckbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:19 PM
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Women’s lack of restraint usually just means sex with another consenting adult Wrong, women's lack of constraint means fuck bois existing, single moms, fatherless households. Nice way of trying to put the blame on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:05 PM
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Your theory makes sense only if men are willing to share the burden of reproduction. Well, yeah. I'm fine with that, and so are most rp men. if I’m sharing the financial burden, what do I need a guy for? Especially a RP guy? An actual long term relationship? You ever thought about the fact even though someone might observe and practice rp he/she doesn't want meaningless flings that ultimately don't end up anywhere. Your movement Now I know that you don't know what your talking about. If you thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:43 PM
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don’t even get me started on genetics and how this is horrible for evolution and advancements in humanity Wow, never thought I would hear a woman would think this way much less in a sub like this. This sub has its faults but stuff like this blows my mind and is why I keep coming back. On that note, I read in another thread about a woman who felt very disconnected and isolated from dating and actually went to r/incel because she felt she could relate to them, and I was like WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:25 PM
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Your a woman, of course your gender will be more aware of these things, but believe or not lady, there are lots of men out there who are domesticated and dont know any of this because nobody tells them, or they haven't figured it out because of the particular environment they find themselves in. I know you and most women wouldn't care about them and completely disregard their problems, so they end up finding and learning about women through outlets like the red pill/incel/PUA forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:53 PM
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Other unfortunate men who weren't blessed like them have to study these topics and get to learn about red pill and whatnot. Unfortunately this would be me. Had to learn about female nature through red pill stuff because of my upbringing, and of course the experiences I've had in dating as I've gotten older. I get the "red pill rage" part that makes men become hateful because I've gone through it as well and honestly still go through it when I browse this sub. But thank fuck the red pill existed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:09 PM
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Are players really vilified? Women on this sub say they've married their husbands who were players, or at the very least, ploughed the field so to speak. Incels seem to be the one that's most vilified above all. Doesn't matter if a player pumps and dumps women, as long as he's hot, he gets an easier sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:38 PM
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Make it socially acceptable to say women care about looks and we'd stop lying about it. I mean, women seem pretty blunt about it on social media lol. Saying shit like "short men can have each other" and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:01 PM
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Even though we're not exactly the same, the way the incels talked just felt relatable. This blows my mind to the sky that a woman would relate to incels. Never thought such a thing would be possible, considering how dead easy it is for a woman to get a relationship/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:40 AM
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Am pretty recently red pilled. I think ALL women(and of course men) should unironically have jobs. Wasting the potential talent of half the population is a dumb idea. As far as attraction is concerned, she better be an entrepreneur or SOME career. I find women who work dead end jobs to be unironically losers, and unnattractive for anything long term, but that's just me. I think how Dynamics in relationships should be formed by function of how resource rich the environment is. Given we live in an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:59 PM
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You know I think I might try this out sometime and put it to the test. Seems unironically clever. It also reminds me of another Reddit confession where a guy wears a wedding ring to hook up with random women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:44 AM
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Red pill is mainstream now and people are hard to make a connection with How on earth is red pill ideology mainstream?! What tangible phenomenon can you point to? The way I see it the redpill ideology we see today is a product of the sexual marketplace going out of whack where women prefer the top 20% of men, but also because of economic factors attributed to jobs, housing etc, as well where both men and women are still living with parents and men are still expected to be breadwinners and house …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:27 AM
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The motives behind why he killed people matter. Uh-huh, then be fair and start hating on certain religions and political ideologies then, because those have killed waaaay more people(women) than incels. I agree those feminists tweets are bullshit. They haven't started killing men. I don't think women have the guts for that kind of thing. If they were, every guy below 6'0 would have probably been neutered by now lmao. Imagine thinking women shouldn't be worried about people who want to rape and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:08 PM
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Elliot Rodgers went on a killing spree I'm sure he wasn't the only person who goes on killing sprees in the US. They talk about raping and killing women all the time. Uh-huh. Reminds me of "kill all men" or "cancel men" feminists won't stop tweeting about. The face that those people exist is terrifying Lol OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:41 PM
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Redpill created incels Kek incels are fucking scary Top kek. I don't know what's more pathetic, so-called incels, or the women that actually fear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:23 PM
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I shouldn’t have been surprised but her reaction really shocked me What was so shocking about her reaction that it changed you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:56 PM
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Aah gotcha, good riddance she's out of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:19 PM
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at that point I was like this selfish line of thinking uhhhh byyeeee Dude, how the fuck is it selfish? Leaving that hoe was the rational decision. Quit being so altruistic and put yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:13 PM
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correct context Lol, I'm sure women would love to dictate that context very closely wouldn't they. I'd say it's fairly critical of men as well and basically says that they'll either put in the work to swim, A fact so many women on this sub conveniently ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:57 AM
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It's a joke babe relax 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:18 AM
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You seem very smart Regretfully I can't say the same about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:10 AM
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I think the premise of my post still holds up tho just maybe choose some different words No it doesn't. If you want an example of men thinking women as a right, in the way you described it, you should see the mentality of the men from cultures where there is societally accepted polygamy, and where men can BUY multiple women to be his wife(s), and those men can easily divorce them on a whim if they are found lacking in some way. That mentality is completely different from the mentality of western…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:17 PM
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Cause I’m concerned with the men on here This unironically has to be the funniest line I've read on this entire sub lmao. Which ironically reminds me of a line from the joker movie. I used to think this sub was a tragedy, but now I realized it's all comedy. I think both men and women would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:40 PM
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This is dumb, men shouldn't expect empathy from the opposite gender or society and neither should they degrade themselves by taking empathy. If a man is not good looking, or poor, or skill-less, society and by extension, women, won't show any empathy to him. All a woman has to do is exist for society to care for their needs. Men should focus completely on themselves and improving their own value (career wise, looks wise, sexual experience, etc) because his own value is all he has, and not worry …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:58 PM
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Half of them were running through coochie before the internet was even a thing A redpilled man can still be someone who isn't running through coochie or whoring around. A red piller can still be pious and abstain from sex while still keeping in mind the nature of sexual landscape and the nature of women. Similarly a redpilled man can be someone whom inherently prefers ltrs and such. I weeded them all out because they’re not guys I was interested in dating. All you did was weed out guys who sleep…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:44 PM
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Once he does if he brings up some alpha beta nonsense, talks about submission, “women these days” etc you can take away from that, that he’s probably red pill or part of an adjacent off shoot of the manosphere. You do realize that people who are completely oblivious to the concept of "redpill" can say these things right? Like religious and conservative guys? Or guys whom have just had bad experiences with women? Also, Guys whom have played the field when they were younger and were 'fun' and now …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:54 PM
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If a woman isn't attracted to a guy, he's red pill. If a woman is attracted to him, he's not red pill. That's the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:47 PM
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I was 23 when my husband asked me out, and he was almost 31, and we knew each other for a couple years. Didn't the age gap bother you? I'd think that age gap was enough to creep a woman out. I'm not really understanding yet how much age gap plays a role for women to form relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:09 PM
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How tall are you anon?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:02 PM
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Problem is though for most guys, they can't go out there and rack up a high body count. I think I'm one of them. I'd rather just stick with only 1 like minded individual, and just be with that person forever and not have to deal with the entire exercise of going out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:27 PM
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Nice generalizations.. Oh wait, that's the norm on here, almost forgot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:00 PM
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No, they have to work out and get the body fat below %15. That will fix all their problems!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:52 AM
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The adventurous handsome guy is more likely to have had those adventures under his belt and if he is eager to commit to you, he will actually mean it. Your not thinking deeply enough. The handsome guy would be more skilled in keeping his infidelity under wraps and charming his way out of trouble through sweet talk and excuses. Even if he doesn't cheat, there's a big chance he sits around wondering about what else is out there or outright breaks off the relationship to pursue other interest You c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:15 AM
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Not everyone, But men in general would know which women to avoid for ltr alot more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:40 AM
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Yeah, I was curious about that. But great progress and definitely an inspiration for the older guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:00 AM
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Awesome man, how tall are you though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:46 AM
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What's the general reasoning for them to want a virgin husband despite them not being virgin themselves? I'm curious as this is usually seen as a man's issue...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:01 AM
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Yes, I know plenty. They don't require it but they prefer it. Seems hypocritical of them eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:11 AM
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Women who care about their own count generally care about a man's count. Women who care about their own count usually do so because casual sex is on some level revolting to them Right, so your saying a woman will prefer a virgin guy who's socially inept and cant charm a woman to save his life to a guy who knows exactly what to say to get a woman to love him and to be enthralled by him. Ok bro. Look...choose your strategy and do it Yeah, your right. Don't come round here in five, ten years saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:50 AM
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If you want to eventually attract low count women for commitment it is probably an unwise idea to have spent the past ten years very publicly being as dicky as you can on Tinder, having a social circle that is all about casual sex and all your friends and half the town can and will recount your past activities. You do realize most women don't care about a man's past right? A man who can go around sleeping around usually is physically attractive and/or socially adept. Whether it be a virgin woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:06 AM
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If you said non-virgin woman then ok. Are there really non-virgin women who prefer virgin men? Otherwise it's a non-issue Experience says otherwise. No one cares about virgin priests. Virgin priests aren't out here trying to get a virgin wife. Women cared. Men didn't. Uh-huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:15 PM
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Just as a quick example, I was banned from the Redpill sub for simply mentioning that mental illness exists and can affect dating dynamics. LOL. Cool story bro. Let me know when they decree a fatwa against you and order your beheading. I can take your accusations of 'dogma' more seriously. The Redpill community today hates the truth. What 'truth' are they hating? Most if not all redpill icons I see online and on YouTube have families, have been married, have kids, are out there picking up women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:03 PM
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Well put, many of the women I see on here are walking proofs that the red pill is real and they don't even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:00 AM
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Women don't moan about a virginity standard. If women cared, then hookup culture wouldn't exist. it makes it less likely men will understand their virginity is important. Whether you like it or not, in the western world, a man's virginity is a burden that grows as he gets older. 30 year old, 40 year old virgin is a negative connotation that is attributed to men. Also, virgin women who exclusively prefer virgin men aren't in the majority and are a very small minority. Seriously, what do you get o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:44 AM
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You seem to be the first female on here I've seen on here whos written points that stick with reality. Awesome. Also to note, those high n-count men usually use those social skills and looks to lock down low n-count or virgin women. And the low n-count or virgin women most won't care about his past because they're taken by his personality and charm since he's had so much experience improving in those.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:36 AM
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Chad has the right to be as arrogant as he wants. He can choose to not call back. He can choose to use women for sex only. Dave can't. And Dave needs to stop being bitter about that reality and try to lock down what he can when he can. Lol. You here that guys, better look max and money max. That's all you need to do to pump and dump women and women will be fine with it. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:13 AM
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It's always weird when women on PPD confirm TRP unintentionally. It's not weird, ive seen it happen to many times here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:46 AM
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Redpill is insanity also, but in the opposite direction. Sometimes you need to answer insanity with insanity. That’s why the Redpill works, when it does. It uses the rage of incels and pulls it in a better, more constructive direction. This is a very interesting way you put it. Though, the redpill isnt insane. It's just reality. How you react, accept, and use it is up to you. Which is why redpill is spread out across a bunch of areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:37 AM
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Women see average men as not valuable I mean they're only valuable when the woman needs a beta provider lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:16 AM
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Already covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:43 PM
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Well it's more of like am I getting compensated fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:05 PM
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Anybody here experienced when it comes to startups? DM me if you are. I have a situation and I need to know if I'm getting screwed over...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:39 PM
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Men dont want to marry another man's concubine. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:05 AM
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Chads and assholes win the dating game, one way or another. Seeing a nice guy turn into a winner, in my opinion is inspiring to me. I was one of those guys who wanted to wait until marriage, but got shamed for expecting my would-be to be a virgin herself. I think I get now why assholes behave the way they do. It's the only way to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:20 AM
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Men have the ability to essentially interrogate women about things in this subreddit and somehow all of us end up exceptions Women do the equivalent to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:19 AM
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There are men on this sub who have never had sex or a girlfriend but speak with authority about how someone should act and what someone should feel when something happens in a romantic or sexual relationship You assume we haven't been subject to the realities of relationships and dating though. You also assume we haven't witnessed and have taken note of how the genders interact with one another and all the dynamics at play when we deal with friends and family and others in general. All the dysfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:57 AM
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ended up becoming chad and kind of an asshole I actually find this inspiring to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:56 AM
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Dude just flush it down the toilet lmao are you carrying taco bell sauce packets with you or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:18 AM
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I guess your proof that there are blue-pilled people out there who can be socially conservative!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:02 AM
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high social status/popularity/good job I don't exactly how to define those things. I'm not in the top 1% or something. As far as education is concerned: bachelor's and master's in stem. Connections: I know alot of old friends and childhood friends who are doctors or are going to ivy league schools that keep in touch with time to time. I also know local contacts who are business owners. People know me and they've come to me to offer jobs. Job: used to have a pretty good job as a software dev(for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:51 AM
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Is that, sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:19 PM
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Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:08 PM
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As a 27 year old virgin I can verify everything here except the last part regarding low status and low popularity. I mean, you can be a virgin in older age groups and be high status/popularity in circles that are dominated by men. I'm talking careers, friend groups with other like minded men etc. Also, it should be considered a positive for not doing drugs, alcohol, or other vices of the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:01 PM
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but nothing will overtake bitcoin ever I guess I'm insane enough to believe something can overtake BTC. LMAO. I guess I just hate it enough lol. I'll read up on it though. It's basically Bitcoin but instead of mining it using GPUs, you use storage space instead. Anyways nice talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:37 AM
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Yeah, I later learned you got to get behind the things that the market makers will pump regardless of utility. And this is actually why Im starting to hate crypto 🤦‍♂️. I'm actually looking forward to regulations because stellar looks like it'll survive the mass extinction but also all these meme coins will get btfo. If even part of shib inus or doge coin's market cap enters into the stellar assets then I'll be a multi-millionaire lmao. Fingers crossed I guess. What do you think of chia network(…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:20 AM
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Oh shit, that's great. Didnt get into Solana because it seemed buggy to me. I tested some of the crypto frameworks out myself and stellar seemed like the one that worked the best. I completely fucked myself however by doing research and buying coins based on utility. Stellar's price action has been pathetic and I've diversified to assets built on stellar instead, and now I'm in six figure hell. I don't know if I'll make it though. Just hodling for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:06 AM
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You actually made it following /biz/'s advice?! I think most of those guys are insane, but I use them to see whats popular ATM. How did you make it? LINK?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:56 AM
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No no I don't think a sexual market place is sad. The idea of viewing this bizarre bazaar as purely transactional seems sad to me. Ohhhh. My bad. I agree, Unfortunately that's reality. Men and women will behave in their instincts and will hate each other for it unless one dissuades his/her instincts for the other. I told him that hope was down at the bottom of the box, after Pandora stupidly set all the bad shit free. Mmm, I think he's better off assuming he'll be single forever and he needs to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:28 PM
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I won't say you should ignore that if it seems relevant to you Yes, I'm a short man, of course height is relevant to me. Believe it or not, being 5'6 is a non-starter for alot of women out there. Women naturally prefer tall men, if you go out and ask for an ideal height, you'll see women saying 6'+ being the minimum. You know the number of times I've been rejected by women shorter than me because I'm too "short". Funny, the young man I talked to about Pandora was concerned over his height as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:35 PM
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Am I, as a short man, just supposed to ignore the fact that tall men are naturally more in demand by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:17 PM
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I think the entire concept that women 'transfer' sexual market value to man when they choose to casually sleep with him or even marry is too much for most women here to grasp. It basically goes against the entire female liberation concept of empowerment and insinuates that a minority of men benefit sexually and socially from it. Sexual experience seems like such an asset for men these days, a man getting practice with fwbs only benefits him more when he finally decides to settle down, not so muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:33 AM
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aren't you directly contributing to lowering her value by having sex with her Isn't that the women's problem though? She chooses to sleep around. That would also make you low value then. Going by the logic you stated: Women will generally favor men that other women want. If a woman sleeps with a man casually she transfers some of her value to him. The more women that sleep with a man, the more that man's genes are considered valuable to other women. Based on observations, this logic checks out. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:22 AM
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I can't feel sorry for guys who essentially deserve what they get. And in the end the shitty guy who got laid and the shitty guy who can't both die alone so they're both getting what they deserve so... Just world fallacy showing up again 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:40 AM
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Its true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:13 AM
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TL;DR Don't listen to what women say, look at what women do. Sage advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:13 AM
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Becareful what you wish for, if he started reciprocating you might end up losing him. Heard crazy stories how when guys started to do more for their s.o. the relationship would go downhill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:58 PM
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What?! No! FDS women are entitled to BBC!!! lmao. Think the men who usually ask for bob's and vagene, or the men who make women dress up as ninjas. They basically want a sizable portion of the world's men neutered lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:06 PM
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The problem is that I end up resenting these men because they act like they’re in charge when I make more money than them and often pay for things for the two of us Why don't you go for a guy that makes more than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:53 PM
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I was browsing the fds board quite quite a while ago. I did read some rather... Vibrant posts about how men from particular ethnicities don't deserve to pass on their genes because of well, culture. And those men should be neutered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:35 PM
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Dude, how about you listen? Listening to women never worked out for me. Observing what they do did. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:04 PM
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because if they actually liked a guy that implemented TRP correctly, then he cant be Redpill because they enjoyed the relationship. There are so many women on this sub who fit this description, and they are literally proof the red pill is real. Doesn't matter if he was player before or he pumped and dumped women before her or used trp mindset to seduce women, just as long as he was decent to her and her alone, he wasnt redpill. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:55 PM
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And as someone who's consumed redpill knowledge before, I personally despise tradcons. In fact I used to be a tradcon BEFORE I took the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:48 PM
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Maybe instead of trying to prove to me the guy I dated and know personally isn’t at all red pill, you could take this as an opportunity to evaluate what the red pill gets wrong . Nah, the redpill isn't wrong.The redpill saved me from being taken advantage off by certain women. it's also given me insight on how to know if a woman is stringing me along or shit testing me. I was able to digest the knowledge and implement them in my life to the extent that I don't deal with female nonsense. Which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:27 PM
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We agree then 👍.nothing to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:12 PM
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It can be a slippery slope for sure. First adultery, then lying or earning less money could be ground for divorce. A partner can claim anything to get a higher settlement. It's hard to prove and there's generally more to the story. But I definitely don't think it's fair, don't get me wrong. Until laws are changed to consider all this, it's completely rational for men to be vary of putting their name on a marriage certificate. Overall I agree though, but as far as being married before the law? La…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:01 PM
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I'm so sorry honey. I think your the first women on here I feel genuinely sorry for because what happened was 100% not your fault. Yeah I think it's some in built evolutionary mechanism on men. I've had best friends who were 6'+ in highschool and I remember once the stood right behind me breathing on me and for some reason I felt a surge of anger. I was like 'bro, stand that close to me again and I'll hunt you like our neanderthal ancestors hunted the mammoths to extinction' and they backed off …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:40 PM
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Most men don’t, regardless of whether they’re still with the mother or not. Sorry to burst your daddy-fantasy balloon. Most men are barely competent parents. How nice of you to finally show your colors. :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:35 PM
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my ex doesn’t help raise my kid. That... Says alot. Yeah that's all I need to know honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:23 PM
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Can't 100% speak for him of course, but having a taller person come up from behind you and give you sniff would make me feel insecure in my masculinity lmao. Like, someone bigger than you coming behind you and you feel them in the back of your neck. Would definitely make me, a short guy(5'6) feel uneasy. Of course him calling you a freak was absolutely uncalled for, and maybe he was having a bad day? I think if you were shorter than him his reaction would be different lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:14 PM
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He was also very handsome, shorter than I am, super smart and deeply funny. My dude, as a short guy I think I can understand why he pushed you away when you sniffed him 😅😱😭.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:09 PM
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Very traditionalist, wanted me to cook for him, told me I should learn how to, after I expressed a dislike for cooking. Had a lot of opinions about what I was wearing, which were not as immodest as he claims. Very possessive after one date, he made comments about how all my male friends actually fancied me because according to him men and women can’t be just friends. Was very keen on ‘knocking me down a peg’ because the way he saw it women had too much power. You do realize everything regarding …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:08 PM
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your wealth you earn in marriage is joint I can agree with that to an extent. It shows a lack of respect for women's intelligence and contribution to a marriage assuming she's merely a parasite, not a partner. If say a woman was cheating on a man or even had another man's child, is she still entitled to the wealth accumulated during marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:59 PM
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Reference YouTube videos he watches and mention a few times how the dating world is stacked and there's no hope for average men and that he'd never marry so he's not taken to the cleaners, Is there anything really wrong with not wanting to get married to save protect your wealth though? Given how there are so many failed relationships out there, there shouldn't be anything wrong for both men and women to be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:52 PM
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Lol, I have no idea what your asking, and I don't know what I said that came off as hateful. So whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:43 PM
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She's already stated theyve both agreed to the boundaries of monogamy an no cheating. What on earth are they if not married all but on paper. Have you even read what she wrote?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:34 PM
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They aren't dating she explicitly said the new guy was her partner. She mentioned themselves as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:29 PM
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Thanks for reducing my intimate, chosen, adult relationship to nothing but sex. Didn't mean too. But it sounds like your so-called relationship is working out because most of the hard part(rearing kids) has already been taken care off, and it seems both you and him failed at keeping together with your original partners. Your now dealing with each other without the stresses of of raising your own kids and worrying about finances under a single roof. On top of that you two basically have 2 extra b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:20 PM
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Yeah I agree, I would say being emotionally unstable like that is definitely concerning. I'm definitely against stressing the other person with that. Bad energy being spread and contaminating the relationship. Always unfortunate that guys and gals put up with it. Ppl should meditate more lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:14 PM
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More like not getting divorce-raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:10 PM
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The way he spoke about women and the expectations he had of me, as well as the way he viewed me, was very indicative of the red pill. Ok, what were his expectations of you? What did he say about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:09 PM
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We’re both post-marriage and raising our own kids and co-parenting with exes, so we’re unlike a lot of younger people here, but we have a lot to offer each other. We have agreed boundaries about monogamy, no cheating, we’re both anti-porn, and we don’t try to parent each other’s kids Neither of us are interested in wasting time or flogging a dead horse at our age (40s). Sorry but it sounds like fwbs? Like, you don't have to deal with the stresses of raising a family with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:06 PM
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Not just that, there women on this sub who have married guys who used to be players and then rationalize their past behavior away because they happen to be decent husbands. Like, I don't think many of them realize today's "red pilled" asshole is one day going to be someone's sweetheart one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:59 PM
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The number of women on this sub that bitch about a toxic ex who so happened to be "red pilled", it's ridiculous 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:48 PM
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No he was definitely, at the very least influenced by TRP. How so? Apart from the red pill style behaviour he was a fairly nice person Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:42 PM
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I see what your saying got it. Reason I asked is that blue-pilled dating relationship coaches would say when a woman throws a tantrum like that you should stand your ground and take it(like a man). Where as the redpillers would say you immediately drop her and move on. Yeah, I admire your attitude towards it, it falls more with red pilled thinking, I think both men and women should NEVER tolerate that sort of disrespect!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:41 PM
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It sounds like you just projected your views of the "red pill" on an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:30 PM
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I've seen women (especially) bragging with glee that they will throw some hurtful shit back at you if you piss them off. That's called shit-testing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:13 PM
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That's rough buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:00 PM
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What was attractive about him in the first place that made you want to be with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:52 AM
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Not really he wasn’t a plate spinner You've stated on here he's had sexual relationships with many women in college. He was apparently never emotionally invested in any of those relationships. He had some "crazy" exes. He wanted something serious and you came along. Sounds like plate spinner that got exhausted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:47 AM
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Damn near synonymous. I don't think so. Incels hate themselves, I'd say as much as they hate women. Mysoginistic men? They just hate women, and think of themselves as inherently superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:42 AM
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That's one of the dumbest things I've read on here. By that same logic women's liberation was a psyop of getting super smart career driven women to not have children or to have less children. There have been incels for as long cavemen existed and they usually were the ones going to fight in wars because it would be the only way for.them to have a chance to get a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:38 AM
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Lol, I bet this sub would respect incels way more if they all just converted to Islam and advocated for women in burqas. Atleast then incels would be part of the "protected minority" and people would have to respect them regardless of whatever fucked up views they held.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:22 AM
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Lol, I wonder why tatooed thugs, rappers, and guys who smell like weed get hella bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:59 AM
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Thanks, offer goes both ways too, feel free to dm me and have a great week! If you check Your messages it seems we've already messaged quite a while ago funnily enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:04 AM
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The kids that were picked on were never really picked on for being ugly, usually it was their anti social behaviors that made people call them weird, or having anger issues that made people egg on their explosions. Unfortunately that's me. This was in highschool when I was super introverted and usually lost in my thoughts 90% of the time. I've had multiple low points in my life, but that period of my life was perhaps one of the lowest and darkest. To make it even more worse I was also bullied by…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:56 AM
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TRP is fundamentally against marriage and preaches to spin plates What if a guy just gets tired and wants something serious? Isn't that what your husband did and you married him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:49 AM
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Why did you want have a baby that belongs to an asshole though? Was he THAT hot and smart? Or are you just into assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:25 AM
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But you have to admit, some of the women who consistently post on here are insane
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:20 AM
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Thanks for your reply Unfortunately I forgot about your reply. Sorry for making you wait this long, had holiday stuff and job stuff come up that caught me by the side 🤪. can you recommend any resources about this as Just Google this stuff and you'll find out more. https://boingboing.net/2021/03/22/adult-male-virginity-soars.html/amp The above link is an example. There is also another article I saw mentioned on here that more women are in relationships compared to men in the early twenties, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:34 AM
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Numerous women in my life whom I admire and trust tremendously. Lots of talented women whom I bow my head in respect and even envy due to their skills, gifts and ambitions. It's just that when they open their mouths about relationships that I don't trust them lol. They just cannot comprehend the life of a man, or my own experiences and struggles with dating, like most women on here, heck even my mom and sister don't understand. Either fortunately or unfortunately I've learnt a whole lot about wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:17 AM
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The problem literally 99% of women on this sub don't understand is that red pill tenets existed before they were actually called "red pill". Like, a player who has the knowledge to be able to sleep around with tons of women is redpilled. A husband who understands the nature of his wife and how to be a masculine figure for her is also redpilled. A bachelor who understands gender dynamics and stays single because of his understanding of the sexual marketplace is also redpilled. The wannabe red pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:11 AM
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27 here virgin, turning 28 in July.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:15 PM
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Do not speak of TRP in real life! I swear if there are men out there who say that they are 'redpilled' in REAL LIFE Infront of other people. They deserve whatever they get. Rule number one about fight club. NEVER TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:50 PM
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This was why I was asking because I honestly thought virgin anyone was pretty rare when you get into late 20's I think you'd be quite surprised. Shifting the goalposts here but I wouldnt expect them to be, not that you asked. I mean, it was my observation, the more experienced a guy is usually reflects on how well he can flirt and seduce women, and get them to be enthralled in him. Yeah I didnt say that, you may want to read again. My bad. But you said earlier that female virgins are scarce? Bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:30 AM
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I know we are rare but we are not extinct. Then basically I'm still at a massive disadvantage compared to you. Male virgins are plenty if stats are anything to go by, but female virgins are scarcer, even more so for female virgins whom only want virgin men. Then again the issue is the more socially adept a man is the more likeliness he isn't a virgin, so ultimately any virgin you find won't probably come off as charismatic. I have spoken several times on this sub about how terrible it is that vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:35 PM
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It's great for me, since getting married and having kids was never something I wanted to do with my life, but having sex and being financially successful was. Lol I'm slowly heading in this direction myself 😅 though since I'm a guy with still limited experience with dating in general, getting a fwb will be next to impossible for me. I might have to resort to hookers sooner or later. No, he's 15 years older and wasn't a virgin himself. Quite the gap in age, I'm all fine with age gaps since my par…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:28 PM
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Stay true to what you want, this sub isnt the wider world after all <3 Lol, appreciate it bro, but if I say true to myself, chances are I'll probably die a virgin lmao. Not to mention, plenty of virgin women marrying non-virgin men on this sub, there really isn't much point. Being a virgin man in today's age carries negative stereotypes. NO woman is going to find a 30, or 40 year old virgin Appealing... At all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:42 AM
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Dating was terrible for me as well, and was still a virgin until 24, when I finally shared it with my best guyfriend. Even though I'm traditional, I envy you get a fwb. I wouldn't mind carefree sex(at my age). In fact, he's still my only sex partner because like you Lucky guy, despite my beliefs I've always been jealous of guys who are in that sort of position, carefree sex seems so great, that too he gets to do it with another virgin woman. I'm guessing he wasn't a virgin? I've always wanted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:25 AM
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Well it was mostly how i never exactly got along with the more liberal lifestyles that pushed me back towards traditionalism. Like at the time, having the freedom to go out, drink, casually date freely seemed alright on paper, but real life experiences tempered my Outlook. Stuff like parties, drinking, people having sex with each other while drunk, which I thought was absolutely grotesque. Like, I had the opportunity to lose my virginity at a party to a drunk girl, like wtf. Then there was hooku…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:08 AM
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it was always linked back to tradcon values. I find this absolutely tragic. The fact that conservatism and traditionalism are monopolized by religion and it's wackos(atleast in the US). Also to add the fact that atheism is almost always associated with liberal and progressivism, which gets under my skin. Whenever I tell people about my traditional oriented lifestyle they almost always assume I'm religious and a "god-fearing" man. I hope cultural conservatism takes a greater hold in the US anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:36 AM
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If traditional values are inculcated separately from religion, then when the religion fades away, the values still remain. It's happened to me, virgin atheist waiting till marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:13 AM
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I think I can understand where your ex is coming from. I'm an atheist guy myself and I'm waiting till marriage(though reading the comments on this sub im feeling like it's a bad idea). I think it has more to do with a "traditional" upbringing. Like, my parents never attached traditional principals to religion so as I became more irreligious and drifted to atheism, the "traditional" part of me still remained. Which is great in my opinion, because I've heard of how some atheists go full degen. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:01 AM
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Lol, you love stereotypes don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:54 AM
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Of course, they'll just find an excuse that's "politically correct", I have lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:44 AM
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Sounds like any man that experiences paternity fraud deserves it for not picking right. I unironically agree. Which is why EVERY man should be able to do paternity tests so they aren't raising bastard kids and can kick their hoe of a wife to the curb if it turns out so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:42 PM
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Well men should marry ugly women. It's their fault since they married someone they were attracted to. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Lol you didn't get what I wrote. Women across the board can get sex easily. Most Men simply can't. Which is why it's marriage will always be a risky business for men especially in this day and age because regardless of how attractive the other woman is she will ALWAYS have more options than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:39 PM
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Again, ugly men cheat. As do boring men, stable men, risk averse men, nerdy men, DnD men, conservative men, liberal men. Lol I don't know what insane universe you occupy and the men who occupy it. I'm guessing I just live in an environment where both men and women don't cheat and are expected to stay married which is why I'm shocked but wooow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:36 PM
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The idea is he appears like a non-asshole and then reveals his true face by cheating during pregnancy or shortly thereafter. Uh huh, should have vetted him and kept a lookout for red flags 🤷‍♂️. No one to blame other than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:33 PM
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Do you say to any man whose wife cheats that he should have married someone uglier? No, all I say is "I hope you got a prenup and dont have kids". Women can easily cheat because it's super easy for them to get sex. It's a risk all men have to face, which is why men should only marry low n-count or virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:31 PM
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They're plenty... according to you. You who does not date men, lol. No there are. They're just invisible/unnattractive to you. Your not looking in the right places. Many baby mamas I've noticed would rather go through shit with their unreliable baby daddy than settle for a non bad-boy type. They bring it on themselves and deserve every bit of misery it entails. Don't worry, we are working on changing their mentality so they stop giving men kids Please do so. I think too many undesirable women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:11 PM
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Lol I can't tell if your trolling, but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:27 PM
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I think this is where a good portion of men lie. If they know a woman has slept around and if they think she's not worth it, they just pass her off. No shaming involved, though it can be both a good and bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:26 PM
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Well no, I'm rather asking women to not be concubines for the top 20% of men and then running to the average man when they're panicking and wanting to settle down, but if that's what they want, that's their perogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:23 PM
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Once again, all comes down on the men you get with. Alot of men want to settle down and be a father to his kids, but if you can't seem to find them despite being plenty, that's on you. If the man does anything wrong or leaves you, not only will your life be ruined and you'll be in poverty as a struggling single mom, but you will be held responsible for his actions. I wish more women would think this way, I think it would definitely help with the single mother epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:17 PM
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So should the remaining not-attractive-enough women be in relationships with people they're not attracted to for the betterment of society, or should they abstain from relationships and sex altogether? Which is better personally? Which is less unfair? Which would RP people recommend? Women are already forming soft-harems with the top 20% of men and they don't seem to mind. The redpill rightfully puts forth the claim that women would share an alpha than exclusively have a beta. This is already ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:15 PM
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He knows he's permanently ruined your smv and thinks that you're probably not going anywhere because women really don't want to end up single moms, so they take advantage of the power shift and her vulnerability and that's when you really find out who you're married to. Lol, once again, if you marry a man who thinks like this, it's 100% on you. It means you punched waay above your belt in terms of looks and he's looking to get a mistress because he's attractive enough and charismatic enough. Get…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:06 PM
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What do you mean what should women do? Women can already fuck the too 20% of men if they wanted to. Society is already hardwired to save them. Any woman can choose to be lonely or in a relationship with a push of a button. A woman already has better support networks through other women. A woman developing her personality is 100% optional. The average man literally has none of the above and he has to constantly work for the above. Women already have it made, in the western world anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:58 PM
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Ok, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:52 PM
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Try to get in the top 20% or die trying. I think it's a worthy goal for any man to have for himself. Obviously when some men are born with luck and looks to get laid easily, other men have to create their own luck through their own struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:47 PM
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Sorry, I think I miss-wrote. When I said "average looking man" I didn't just mean in the sense of looks, I meant your everyday Joe who's naive. Women, will only see him as a provider and caretaker of children, not actively desire him in any way the same she would do for some asshole bad boy. I have said this (minus the children part as we don't want them) to a below-average-looking (by PPD's standards) man ;) That's nice, and I hope to find someone like you, but once again, what you stated is an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:45 PM
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For this asshole's spawn I don't get it, why would you marry an asshole in the first place. Obviously women love bad boys with experience but why would you have kids with an asshole and go through all that crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:41 PM
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Lol, this reminds me of a Reddit confession where a guy said he had far more success in getting laid when he started wearing a wedding ring 😂🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:39 PM
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Because husbands don't get the best sex, the bad boys who have booty calls get the best sex. Unfortunately I don't think the vast majority of women can contemplate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:46 AM
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Husband material: I'd gladly have sex with you and only you for the rest of my life, as well as caring for you and our children. Lol, you've never had to live life as an average looking man have you ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:44 AM
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You seem to forgo principals, lifestyle choices and moral-standpoints in your view of virgins. Also to add, even we say your true and preferring a virgin is some "dehumanizing", isn't the same logic applied across the board when it comes to looks and physical attributes as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:12 AM
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Well, good for you. Some of the more vocal women on here would assume there was something inherently wrong with the 30 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:07 PM
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Spoken like a woman who's never been a man 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:37 AM
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I was reading on the shocking confessions reddit thread where a guy would wear a wedding ring to pick up girls and would see results, lmao it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:27 AM
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I mean, to women, being tall is in itself a positive personality trait lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:23 AM
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Would you choose a 30 year old virgin or a 30 year old non-virgin. Tell me what thoughts come to your mind when you compare the above two.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:05 AM
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Just like sleeping around. I'm glad you put accountability on both genders, good work 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:13 AM
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So shitty upbringing makes accountability optional eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:11 AM
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Women who get cheated on are seen as a joke when she take him back. I think pathetic and low-self esteem better describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:02 AM
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but the risk of carrying all kinds of baggage from any given encounter is high for both men and women Unfortunately, many men and women don't take this fact into consideration when choosing a partner and very needlessly complicate their lives. TRP does contain a few tiny grains of truth that will describe specific types of toxic people As someone who's recently gotten into the redpill, I've validated much of what the redpill/purplepill professes based on real life and online observations. It def…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:17 AM
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if the stars align? that sounds like a rare occurrence. so you’re basically saying that leagues exist in most circumstances Dude, when it comes to falling in "love", I'm getting more and more convinced that it really is just being in the right place, right time. Like, there are cases of ppl falling in "love" where there is a great degree of asymmetry. Like one person is fatter, one person is far less good looking, one person is waaay older. Like do you think it's impossible for a 10 to not fall …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:28 PM
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Wtf is this real? In my circle of married friends they would NEVER try to pressure me into a relationship. Maybe on one occasion try to play match maker and let me know of single woman who was open but that was it. But discrimination and singlism? Absolutely not! Also to add. Only once in my life has a man made me feel bad for being a virgin. It was an ex best friend of mine whom has taken too many vices and pretty much turned into a toxic person whom I cut off. Everybody else reassured me that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:10 PM
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Dude, women don't say the truth because they know it's hypocrisy and they don't want their image ruined. I'm not talking about the 666 meme. They already broadcast that enough. And honestly, I actually can't really be against them wanting that kind of guy, because it is just preference. I'm talking about when women lie about their body-counts. Lie about their intentions. Make you wait for sex while she gave it out like candy tona dozen other men. He'll, entire society would have had women flogge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:05 PM
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This is utter BS. One of the main purposes of sex is the bonding of two people not one. Plenty of men and women whom they themselves are vehemently against red pill ideology on this very sub argue that sex can be emotionless and just a transaction. They use this as an argument in favor of "her past doesn't matter". Ironically one of the guys in who said this he himself married a virgin while he had a body count LMAO 🤣🤣🤣 I've read so many comments in this and other subreddits by dudes who still r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:12 PM
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Men don't get as emotionally attached to the women they have sex with. They might as well be using a Fleshlight. I know it sounds harsh, bit that's the reality and women refuse to believe it. Where as women being the more emotional ones will have the tendency to be emotionally vested into the man they have sex with. For example, alot of PUA coaches tell their students to try to lay down a kiss as soon as possible on a girl. Reason being a kiss will tend to release bonding hormones in women and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:13 PM
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No, gossip, female friends, female siblings. Word definitely gets around. Then there are cases on this sub even where some of the women married someone who slept around quite a bit knowing the fact before hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:29 PM
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Depends on how you define substantial. But yeah, I've seen it happen multiple times. Though I will say this, the woman in question knows the guys been around the block ploughing the field, she usually doesn't know to what extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:13 PM
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My observations say otherwise ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:06 PM
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How many young female virgins have you ever spoken to? Quite a few in fact. Both online and in person. Redpillers think they can spin plates indefinitely until they get tired in their 40s/50s and easily find a young attractive virgin loyal wife who won't care about your past are equally delusional. Well, it's not just "redpillers" who do this. I've seen this sort of behavior widely across alot of cultures. And I've seen this mind you. Players who change faces one they want to settle down and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:09 PM
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Really does depend on how charismatic and attractive you are, and let's face it, men who have fucked thousands of women tend to be. Also, someone like that would also know how to talk to women and seduce them. A naive virgin woman is easy for guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:46 AM
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Lol, if he's attractive and tall and charismatic enough, she won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:46 AM
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Lol, if he's attractive and tall and charismatic enough, she won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:46 AM
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Nah, I've seen her comment here alot, she's def female
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:17 AM
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Nope, it means the man just wants untainted goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:24 PM
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Sorry dude, chic you're exchanging with sounds sheltered as hell The vast majority of women are. As far as relations/dating is concerned. few women look for a man that's still a virgin to even hook up with, let alone ltr. I have to agree, it's easy for women on this sub to give lip service to stuff like fairness in the smp, but when it comes to practice, the current state of dating and relationships speaks for itself. It's why the redpill mantra "don't listen to what they say, look at what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:53 PM
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Perhaps they know that a low n-count woman will mean the relationship has a higher probability of success?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:18 PM
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The replies I'm getting are pretty interesting though, lots of diverse viewpoints 🤩🤩🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:56 PM
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I feel like I’ve been saying the same thing over and over but I’m glad it’s making sense now. If you had just said "no" and reasoning like you did in your original answer that would have been great. I do agree the man in this example could convince a virgin to be with him. However it would be deceptive and devoid of character which aren’t great ways to start a relationship I think it can be universally agreed upon by this sub that the sexual market place doesn't enforce morals, rules or restrain…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:54 PM
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I always want partners who are experienced. Then is an experienced man who just has a preference for inexperience woman for ltr not hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:51 PM
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where a man who slept around who wants a woman with a low n count wants it because he doesn’t like women who are sexual with other men. Quite an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:47 PM
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I like this answer. Makes alot of sense. Great 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:46 PM
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Any lifestyle preference you hold for a potential partner should be met by you Lifestyle preferences can be changes very easily. A fuckbois can one day get tired and want something serious. He can put on a different face and be a born again Christian or something like that. He'll have a accumulated all that social experience and can easily seduce a naive virgin of he wanted too, and the virgin woman wouldn't care because she would be enthralled with him. It's within his capability to get one. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:38 PM
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Thanks for the direct answer this time 😉. I don't agree though, because there are examples of fuckbois who are attractive enough to settle for virgins once they're ready, and virgin women whom are ready to receive them since those former fuckbois have the social know how to charm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:29 PM
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I asked the above question here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rc5hln/number_of_partners/hnuv4if?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 It was to a woman saying it was hypocritical for high-n men to want low n-women. When I asked her answers weren't direct. Which is why I though it would make an interesting thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:09 PM
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Yes or no would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:57 PM
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You know, you could have just given a yes or no answer. "Yes, it is hypocritical for a low n-count woman to prefer a high n-count man". "Yes, it is hypocritical for a low n-count woman to prefer a high n-count man". "No, it is Not hypocritical for a low n-count woman to prefer a high n-count man". But once again you give a philosophical and ambiguous answer. Whatever. Thanks for dropping the red pill and proving that it's perfectly ok for a high-n count man to prefer a low n-count or virgin woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:43 PM
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Would you call a woman who can't find a partner who earns as much more than them as they want iNsECuRe? Bro, don't listen to these females. I asked one of the feisty ones that said it's hypocritical if for high n men to want a low n woman. I asked her if the reverse was hypocritical. Is a low-n count or virgin woman preferring high n-count men was hypocritical or not. Her response was anything but a direct and straight answer. She became philosophical and went off on platitudes. She could have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:36 PM
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I love how you gave a short and direct answer when telling men what their preferences should be but when asking about women's preferences you become philosophical and needlessly ambiguous and giving useless platitudes. I'm posting snapshots of our little thread on a redpill meme page. So a high n man can go for high n women but not the better low n since he has shown he lacks the capability to do so himself. So what I'm getting by this is: A 8/10 man with say 20 body count can only marry a 5/10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:07 PM
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Men who want low n women should be low n themselves. Ok, how about the reverse? Is it pathetic for low n-count or virgin women to prefer high n-count men? Because such definitely exists on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:50 PM
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When women want someone over 6' it's just a preference. But when it comes to body count for men, it's insecurity. Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:38 PM
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The problem is the consequences of a divorce. Men have far more to risk than women. Not to mention if the women falsely accuser the man of rape or domestic abuse, he's guilty till proven otherwise. If the risks attached to divorce wasn't so ridiculous, outlook on marriage wouldn't be so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:54 PM
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Simple. She's to have fun with. Perhaps try to make her a fwb? But not marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:18 PM
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But we can’t make assumptions based on body count. I don't make assumptions on body count. I make risk assessments. There's risk in marrying and committing to the town bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:14 PM
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Regardless of where you stand, whether your views have been reinforced or disproven, the stories and testimonies of different people on this sub is definitely eye-opening and offers a different perspective on things. Your exposed to grievances that could never be voiced in public out of fear of humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:47 PM
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Op is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:33 PM
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The person who wrote this is a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:07 PM
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Functional adults. This sub should prove "functional adults" aren't exactly functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:44 AM
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Uh-huh. K 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:40 AM
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Nah, she posts on here alot, I recognize her profile pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:35 AM
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Absolutely. He could have been one to his previous partners(no fault of his own, shit happens), honestly, alot of honest men I know were once those guys who tried to dupe women at one point in their lives. They of course change. It's just that the environment was set up just right that he wanted something serious and you were there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:28 AM
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Not a troll post. Also, OP is a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:25 AM
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Or this some sour grapes stuff? Nah honey, ✊ goals. Nothing beats plowing the field and then settling for a loyal virgin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:09 AM
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She's not a "bro" you sexist pig she's a ma'am. \s (OP is female)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:04 AM
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I know, I used to be that guy who wanted to wait until marriage(check my post history), not anymore. Still not marrying a non-virgin though lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:56 AM
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Well, thanks for proving "no hymen no diamond" is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:51 AM
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If you didn't understand what I meant by that reply, then I don't you'll understand anything else I say, so let's just leave it at that. This entire thread is rp fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:42 AM
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Ok, so if I took out all of my previous gfs to fancy restaurants and bought them expensive gifts while I do none of that for my current gf and still expect her to put out, then my gf being upset about that is her being "insecure". Got it 👍.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:37 AM
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No , just a insecure post Turns out a woman wrote this, is it still an insecure post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:30 AM
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Nice guys finish last. Both men and women in this sub already know this right?! Women you do know that assholes more often than not get the best out of you compared to the guys you "love" right?! Nice guys finish last is already supposed to be well established on this sub right?! Edit: And to add, the fact that a woman wrote this, makes this all like poetry lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:24 AM
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Unfortunate, all this almost makes me wish we had an insurrection or some sort of unrest. I guess the lights have to go out for men to really lose their collective shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:21 PM
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We have a handful of crazy types I'm not talking about "crazy types". There are both crazy women and men and on this sub. I'm talking about verifying redpill tenets that women on this sub deny vehemently. Concepts such as hypergamy, preselection, and preferring fuckbois, hating nice guys to name a few. The women on this sub turn into real life memes the way they deny their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:43 PM
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Many women who comment here are literally proof that the redpill is real and true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:04 PM
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Found AMS and Stephiscold and it really changed my life. It actually saved my life. It took about a year for me to actually mature into the RP though. This makes women here angry lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:03 PM
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But I still think most guys here are just angry and not RP yet. You and I both know that we can't necessarily blame them for being angry. Many of the women here are literally proofs that the red pill is real(ex. Women here marrying fuckbois even though they say they hate fuckbois). You can't expect the layman to not show redpill rage when interacting with the women of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:03 PM
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There will be always losers in the genetic rulette, but most of the time women come up being "the average" while men distribute themselves to the sides. They lose more, but they also win more. What a depressing reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:26 AM
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Have only heard of four Lol. This proves it, even relatively chaste girls don't give a shit about chastity in men. All a fuckbois has to do is get bored and say "I'm ready to settle down now" and a horde of women will want to marry him. Some men are just born genetically blessed I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:23 AM
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I nurtured my bitterness into cutting comedy. Nice, your doing it 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:06 AM
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Let me guess, it's a man, so you have to find an excuse to shut it down?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:02 AM
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Absolutely not. I mean Gaining wealth, becoming good at a craft, creating a name for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:01 AM
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I'm not saying how things should be. Just pointing out that for many, bitterness does not lead to positive outcomes. Then yoga and meditation along the way should do the trick 🧘‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:00 AM
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Be cautious of this and cool down over time. Mediation does wonders, I do it regularly. Though I will NEVER forget the torment of women and their arrogance, that's going to be occupying my mind forever, even if I end up with a nice gal. Otherwise you’ll be on a reddit dating site creating fantastical narratives. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:18 AM
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Nah, you don't know what your talking about. That's like saying libido drives men to rape. I think the vast majority of men should use their despair and sorrow to find their higher self and push themselves forward. We've been doing this sort of thing for thousand of years now when times were Much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:54 AM
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First off, stop thinking about women. They really aren't special, this sub proves it lol. And alot of them, are sorta retarded based on the ridiculous life decisions they make. There are women that are low value as individuals. They're only saving grace is that they are able to bear children and that they are pretty to look at. They have pathetic character and who's only path to improvement is getting abused and thrown away by bad boys. Not even the lowliest of incels is more pathetic than that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:51 AM
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non-bitter LVMs But what's the matter with bitterness though? I've used my bitterness to propel me and drive me forward. Sure I've vented but I've used this despair and sorrow to fuel me towards becoming better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:33 AM
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Lol, quite a generalization based on comments you read on Reddit eh chief? Smart boi this one right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:28 AM
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Nah I think it's the women that need to be checked. You'd be more productive in giving mental help to the wife beaters and mysoginistic rappers, not some kids that browse Reddit. Most of the women here are married with kids, and have happy relationships, or so they claim. And how all of them claim their husbands/fiance's/bfs are all top 20% alpha men. They seem to get a kick at talking down and ridiculing the bottom 80% of men. I honestly don't know why on earth they're on this particular sub, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:16 AM
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Nah, I've seen alot of solid red pill guys in here giving good arguments, it's just that they get banned by the facist mods. Honestly, I wish they would dive deeper into th redpill because I feel like these angry guys are just covering the top most layer that they've seen of some viral redpill video. Alot of guys come upon the redpill and female nature on their own through their own personal observations, and I those guys are not angry like some of th dude I see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:47 AM
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I generally have my career and life together and make about $500K a year. Damn, what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:34 PM
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This has to be the most retarded comment I've seen on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:38 PM
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Rp and Bp videos aren't all about how to game women, in fact it's a sub category. There are so many more videos about how to spot and pass shit tests, how to know if she's wasting your time, how to know if she's the town bike, how to know she's cheating on you, how to carefully pry open her past, and whole load of other stuff that protects men from being taken advantage by women. Your just looking and a very small category of videos and thinking "that's it just a bunch of horny guys trying to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:38 PM
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I can agree with you there as well. Though you seem to be freeing the woman of responsibility in this matter. The woman ultimately chooses the man. If the man for example is 6'+ and has the right attitude she's going to want him over a shorter virgin. Also women being risk averse are going to try to go for the man that other women want and that has a history of being wanted. They really aren't going to care if fuckbois or not, because she's selecting based in wealth, status, and looks, where as …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:31 PM
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I've learned a lot from this sub, but the most recent thing that I've learned and am fully convinced off, based on the comments and stories I read here: Women will ALWAYS have it better in the realm of relationships/companionships. For men, particularly the men who are average and below, learning to exist with being eternally single/unloved/undesired is crucial to living in the modern age, as depressing as it may sound. Edit: these men should also instead turn their energy to themselves and buil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:20 PM
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Most people out there are kind and empathetic and normal — I wish the men on here would see that. People put on filters when they're public. Honestly everyone does. It's just that we risk being ostracized or belittled if we express grievances in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:01 PM
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Doesn’t mean a “reformed” fuckboy is husband material. That’s why I’m saying what I’m saying. Fair enough, I have the same opinion about women with colourful pasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:50 PM
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Just fyi, there's a saying in redpill circles: "Don't listen to what they say, look at what they do." It's a very popular saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:50 PM
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One guy had been on TV and had been chef in the best restaurant in the world. You dated Gordon Ramsay? :0
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:37 PM
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Dated world class men What is world class men? I've heard high value men, alpha, and such, but I don't have a definition for world class men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:07 AM
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Looking at all these comments, I'm guessing the women project low quality or immature men who just want sex as being "red pill". Though I can't really blame the women here. If I met a woman who was fds-pilled, I would go the other way. Being red-pillee is more about being aware of the realities of gender dynamics rather than being someone who just advocates for sleeping and hoeing around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:37 AM
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If a virgin woman prefers high n-count me, does that make her a hypocrite then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:49 AM
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Well, this is news to me then, I can't imagine women my height(5'6) or taller actually being intimidated by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:42 AM
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Was your fiance a virgin as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:39 AM
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A guy once told me “I’m in therapy because I kinda get sick of a girl after 9 months or so. I cheated on my exes around that time.” Wtf. Well, atleast he's getting help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:39 AM
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Men are also best suited to LTRs with they have that connection, and imo lose their “potential husband” card when they turn sex into a game of how many bodies they can rack up by lying and using manipulation tactics. Are you sure about that? There are women on here who have implied the opposite. Like one woman here said she wouldnt have been with her now husband If he didn't drop his "constellation of thots". Another frequent commenter here married the college fuckboy when he said he wanted some…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:05 AM
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EVERY MAN looks like to her like the 6'7" bodybuilder on roids in my example. Really? Even relatively short guys? And when I say relatively, I mean guys equal to her 1 or 2 inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:01 AM
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This isn't celebrity news. If you grow up as an average or below average looking man you always see the assholes getting some of the best girls. What I'm saying is 💯% from my observations. Since your a woman, you can't exactly understand the world and observations men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:25 AM
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But does this really surprise women? Their own husbands whom they so endear were once those guys who pumped and dumped other women and tried to get with Stacy. Unless he was a virgin at marriage of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:29 AM
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It's ironic, I'm a guy and I watch those videos on how not to get taken advantage of by women. Looks like RP and BP videos are useful for both genders I guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:12 AM
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But... men who rotate "plates" and degrade women who create problems or hurt others don't deserve respect no matter how much they act all manly, make money, workout, brush their hair and teeth You do realize these are the sort of men more often than not that have gotten their way? And it's usually the "nice" guys whether genuine or not that get trampled on? Those guys that rotate "plates" have once been nice guys. Look at Tupac for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:39 AM
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So, is it wrong for a virgin woman to want a high n-count man then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:58 AM
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They think there's some big supply of young virgins for them to dip into when they're done having lots of casual sex. Lol, ironically the OP herself was a virgin whom married a college fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:50 AM
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Lol, it's there is a redpill quote "look at what she does, not what she says".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:48 AM
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I'll think about it, do you have some science/sociology background? I have a stem back ground, I can wrap my head around ideas fairly easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:56 AM
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From a Bourdieu perspective, power would be the result of a mix of capitals, economic, social, cultural, symbolic, erotic I've noticed this concept as well. And I can only imagine how the perceived value of these concepts have changed throughout history, and how their values will change in the future. Have any literature you recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:53 AM
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I guess that makes sense, her response lines up with what you said if you read between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:43 AM
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all my girlfriends including myself make significantly more than their male partners How did you pick up your current bf if he makes less? Usually that sort of thing would be a turn off. Curious, I think this dynamic will get more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:27 AM
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I'll keep my attention on the front page as I've been doing. If more men start sharing their success stories, then I'll believe it. Believe what you want, another thing you might find interesting then, I myself have only been here a couple of months. I've noticed that most of the women here are in their thirties and married. And not just married, but they outright say they are happily married. Most of the men here are in their twenties and not married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:21 AM
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When one agrees to have shared assets, money, nd valuables in am marriage, then they aren't getting "destroyed" when they agree to share those items in the event of a divorce. Lol, and I hope more men see what you wrote and realize the state of their condition :-). Matter of perspective or ppssibly selection bias. I commented on what I see. I haven't been in this sub long. Most of the posts are about casual sex and the op's lack of access to it Go on the recent thread asking redpill men on their…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:54 AM
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Bottom men are third class citizens indeed. They do the heavy lifting, the hard work, they work the longest hours, they do the tasks that keep society functioning, yet they are paid as much as a woman who left uni last year and is serving coffee on Wall Street. Unfortunately keeping those bottom men satiated in some form or capacity is whats keeping the lights on. But yeah, the bottom tier men are losing and don't seem to get any sympathy from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:46 AM
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Men who were banking on getting handed a wife and children solely for having a good job are losing. *In divorce court. There fixed it for you. Love how you didn't mentioned a single thing about how divorce literally destroys men. Most men in this sub are just complaining about not getting sex from random women by swiping right. Nope, alot of the guys I've noticed here have slept around. It's usually the ones that they themselves have stated they are too unnattractive to get women that usually si…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:41 AM
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Because occasionally you find posts that confirm your narrative More like posts that confirm and provide logical reasons to my real life observations and experiences. Nice projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:30 PM
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As an introverted person who's gradually pulling himself out of his shell there are some pretty good ideas here but I see alot of you suggesting drugs and alcohol?! C'mon guys 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:58 PM
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Most of us learn about the red flags through experience. Abusers are known to target young people/women. Majority of abusive relationships start in teenage years or early twenties. Nice cope, not an excuse. The number of women on here who openly admitted they chased bad boys when they were younger and weren't expecting a relationship with him was astounding to me. Women(and men) get what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:10 PM
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I think alot of people can't grasp the fact that attractive men have problems but they're problems are problems ALL other men want. It's like saying guys who's hair grows too fast and is hard to maintain have it just as worse as men who have early signs of balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:01 PM
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Dude, I don't know about your relationship because I'm not you or him, but just by virtue of him marrying a virgin the chances of the marriage failing significantly decreased. Regardless of what his n-count was. Atleast that's what the statistics infer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:39 AM
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In the long run but he had to adjust to having a partner that knew fuck all about how to have sex It's a (small)price any man who wants ltr would be willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:19 AM
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Your husband got lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:34 AM
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but how will it impact society negatively? On this sub there are plenty of reasons mentioned. But here's my take. The mating game doesn't end. In the old days, people would get married young, whether it be through arranged marriage or through familial connections or just simple proximity. They would get married sooner and the general expectation was that they were expected to stay married. This was when both man and woman would exit the mating game and then focus their energies on developing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:19 AM
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It just comes down to people aiming for the best they believe they could possibly get. If Chad has the option to have sex with 100 average women. He's going to do it and not feel any need to commit. Unless one of them is spectacular enough that he feels he can't get anywhere else, he'll commit. Until then, the vast majority of women are just a Fleshlight to him. Average women see average men worse than that. Average men aren't even worthy giving attention too. They would rather have chad as a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:07 AM
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Well to start, it’s statistically impossible for enough commitment oriented chads to exist for every woman. Of course. But you marry him and be part of his harem. Polygamy is gaining traction. Why would chad care if the average woman won’t commit to average men? They don't. But morally speaking if average women think they're too good for average men, why would average women think they're good enough for a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:46 AM
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Chad will only commit when he feels like it. Which could be never. And if women won't commit for the average man why should Chad commit to the average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:04 AM
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Monogamy is not in the male nature, obviously theres way more women who desire relationships than men. doesnt matter how high or low value he is, im just speaking in general. I wish you framed it this way as my response would have been different. I think your completely wrong in saying monogamy is not in male nature. It's the equivalent of saying ALL women are inherently hypergamous and will monkey branch given the opportunity, which despite what other men on this sub say, I disagree since I see…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:03 AM
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Isn't the usual answer the inflated hypergamy argument. Women can now work and they want husbands with a marginally higher salary so they just remain single? Also many women(and men) on this sub have stated that women already get emotional support from other women and have their sexual needs met by charing the top 10% of men, so I don't know why your arguing that women are more "commitment-oriented".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:52 PM
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Sorry if you don't like reality but it is the only one there is. The point I was trying to make flew completely over your head. No matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:45 PM
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If your rationale is just "everyone dies in the end" then your basically just coping. Chad and Stacey experience all the pleasures when it comes to be social creatures. They get a taste of young love, romance, and all of it's ups and downs just by virtue of their luck of being born attractive and desirable. Your basically telling a poor person that being rich is not worth it since rich people don't carry their money to the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:23 PM
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Chad doesn't win the game either. He gets the same end you do. Pretty girls don't win the game. Powerful men don't win the game. I was agreeing with everything you were saying until this. Lol, your either naive, or trying to comfort that other guys heart with lies. Chad can get a happy ending FAR more easily compared to nice guys. He is more capable at getting that white picket fence because of the experience and notches under his belt. Your under the false pretense of the just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:36 PM
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You find women vile, yet clearly haven’t gone on any or very few dates due to your holier-than-thou standards Read what I wrote again, I meant I found most of the viewpoints of women on r/PurplePillDebate to be vile. Not the women in real life, or atleast the women I know I'm real life anyway, both professionally or personally. Though I have estimated that one of the younger women I know may have taken the FDS-pill after her breakup. "Holier-than-thou" standards. Yes I pride on the fact I didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:54 PM
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That should be an option, if they want. It would be disastrous for society in general. But that's not what happens, monogamy/exclusivity is the norm. It's slowly eroding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:35 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:34 PM
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I don't think so lol. If I didn't run into this sub and got redpilled I might have been taken advantage off by gold diggers as much as I hate to admit it. The so called "negative" preconceived notions you speak off may have saved my life and livelihood because I now know the strategies women play and how to avoid them. I actually appreciate the viewpoints of the women on this sub even though I find most of them to be vile and I honestly hope to never meet you in real life. I keep coming back bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:18 PM
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This is something that's worthy of it's own post. Why are there so many married women on this sub who so happen to be in happy relationships?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:11 PM
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Lol, you think bad boys and fuckbois are going to get what they deserve, these guys can end up with a pious virgin and white picket fence too you know :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:07 PM
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Men are still cheating on us, hitting and killing us, genius. They’re just doing it while being unemployed, whiny and useless now. Lol, its ironic, how women on this forum talk about incel shootings and call them a domestic threat but in reality its non-incel men who are employed and in some cases wealthy who do the vast majority of domestic abuse, shootings, and all sort of mysoginistic comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:38 PM
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Well, I'm not sure that everyone deserves a partner, or that one-to-one pairing is the best. Lol, so women being part of a harem for the top 10% of men is somehow good?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:35 PM
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Most men don't even seem to care nowadays Men do, but only when they want something serious. And the men who are celibate and care about chastity are side-stepped by women for superficial reasons. I waited for my own mental and physical well-being. I'll never have anyone to compare my husband to. I'll never have to worry about STDs or unwanted pregnancy. Less emotional baggage. You literally just named out the reasons why I decided to be celibate. I also wanted to give my future partner a peace …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:48 PM
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Well, my number one requirement was that my future husband be Christian. Interesting, I'm a virgin-atheist, if your future husband was an atheist and a virgin with solid and moral reasons behind his celibacy would you have still considered him? Would you consider a non-virgin Christian man over a virgin atheist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:31 PM
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It will be a big point against you for a lot of girls who choose to wait, Going by your story and alot of other stories on here of virgin women marrying non-virgin men whom have had a past, I don't think so. This is a big rp moment for me, the fact that I missed out on so much fun because I thought women would care ... You'll have to make up for it in every other category like my fiance did. Lol not worried at all. Have a high paying STEM job with plenty of room to grow and high net worth even f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:20 PM
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When I said I was waiting, he just said "it might be a little hard (to wait) but I'm kinda glad you're like that" and never brought it up again. He knows your a good candidate for an ltr, which is why he's wisely not pushing it. We have similar life goals, political views, religious beliefs, and general values. And I know he will be a great husband and dad. That's what's most important in my opinion. Which proves that Virginity in men is not a virtue, it's only virtuous for women. He could have …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:11 PM
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Your fiance was patient, but you'll find that sort of things with guys wanting something long term, the other pushy guys weren't looking for something long term. Also, since he's older and got it out of his system, he's looking for stability long term and marrying a virgin would accomplish that. He already got the benefit of trying stuff out, meaning he could have already slept around and got it all out of his system before trying someone decent, I don't think there's anything wrong with that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:52 PM
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I'm guessing for women a man being a non-virgin isn't as much of a deal breaker as vice versa. I don't think women can be expected to overlook a decent man just because he isn't a virgin. But I think the reverse is more true I've noticed alot more women on this sub whom have stated they have waited till marriage but didn't expect their husbands to virgins. I guess it just proves male virginity is pretty much useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:16 AM
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Unfortunately, virginity of men is not valued. In fact you'll see it used by both men and women to shame virgin men. Also, you'll notice that there are multiple women on here whom have waited till marriage but their husbands weren't virgins, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:11 AM
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plays soccer professionally, lawyer and software developer. How on earth does he do all of those things 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:59 AM
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But is he a virgin though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:47 AM
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I don’t get either of those things, I think of people want a virgin they should marry a virgin You make finding a virgin women these days to be easy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:46 AM
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Being a virgin as a male is not a virtue, being a virgin as a woman is I'm a virgin man at 27 and I'm slowly realizing this...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:46 AM
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And don't forget they will lie about their n-counts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:28 AM
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Because a high body count for men implies a lot of other women have vetted him and found him to be a suitable partner. And then they call men insecure and sexually denigrate them for showing concern over their past, basically projecting their feminine viewpoint on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:27 AM
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It sounds nice but people aren't exactly the best judges of character, and anyone can fly under the radar for a long time This is also true. Having toxic parents means they're gonna tend to recommend toxic people. But a good rule of thumb is to stick with ppl who are relationship material from the get-go. That's how I'm approaching all this anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:59 AM
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I agree, I think this is a case for arranged marriages or at the very least, marriages through reference or vouching. Sorta like a situation where pre-vetting comes into play. You can still run into crappy people, but it would definitely help filter out alot of gunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:41 AM
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Acting like sex is the only way to gain character development here is pretty sad That was my thought 😅, you'd think in an age of emancipation both women and men would go through character development that entails personal sacrifice, delayed gratification and meeting of personal goals in terms of careers, fitness, creation etc. All i see in the comments are ppl saying "I fell for the bad boy who was bad but now I know better because he abused and used me". Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:35 AM
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Ignorance is bliss, But if I as a man am being upfront and honest about my past then I expect the woman to be upfront and honest about hers. But you'll see alot of women these days divide by three 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:28 AM
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27M virgin here. Was originally wanting to wait until marriage for a other virgin. I'm thinking I'm past that now since women my age aren't virgins. At this point, I'm starting to think losing it is best. A man's virginity has no value to society.
/r/seduction20/09/21 10:49 AM
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The resistance does not come from the discussion of loneliness, it is a harsh rejection of sexual entitlement that some of them cannot drop. They are getting an equal and opposite reaction to their bullshit and they don't like it. Women don't owe sex to men. Similarly, Men don't owe society anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:06 AM
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the women are maintaining modern society whilst having babies and chad rotates through them? This sort of shit is kinda already happening. Women just need to get into more blue collar shitty jobs and society and keep afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:04 AM
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who will have the children in that scenario? your stronk womyn society runs out of people in 2 generations Society will have to learn that the hard way, and I welcome the fact. Besides, women will just join Chads harem and be happy, they'll be fine 👍. And the men will do what men do best, survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:58 PM
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You echo my sentiments exactly. You owe society nothing. The same way women don't owe men sex, men don't owe society anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:56 PM
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if the blackpill goes mainstream then society will shred. Good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:51 PM
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We are all cogs in a wheel and some kind of system needs to be in place to get things done. I think men need to let society collapse, if society doesn't benefit them. Besides, I'm sure strong and independent women will keep things afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:49 PM
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Ppl in comment section worrying that if men are told to adjust their expectations, then they'll just check out of society because they'll stop simping. For one thing, I'm surprised that there are women that agree. I wonder how they feel knowing this. And secondly, why are people worrying about society collapsing when we know that there are going to be strong and independent women to pick up the slack? Like surely women will take up the jobs and burdens that these men left off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:22 PM
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Stripping away the comforting delusions of society for the LVMs is going to significantly demotivate them from giving max effort in the economy, which will have major repercussions on society Are the repercussions really something we should be fearful of? Do you think the current trajectory is sustainable? Maybe society needs a reminder that it owes it's existence to enforced monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:12 PM
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If society told this to men simping would go to 0 and society would collapse. Society needs a reset to be reminded that it owes it's existence to forced monogamy. A societal collapse is welcome. But why are we expecting a collapse to begin with? Strong and independent women will keep things afloat 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:08 PM
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Exactly! I want more men to be redpilled to the brim so they'll stop being finessed by these women and focus on themselves! Every man that's redpilled is one that's saved!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:51 AM
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Careful there anon, the mod might ban you for incl content 😉, I once posted stuff about Jeremy Meeks and the mods gave me a strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:39 PM
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Conservatives pretty famously prefer men paying for their own bastards vs their own tax dollars being used in lieu of the dads money I don't see much wrong with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:33 PM
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I LOVE the honesty in this comment, I'm using it to disprove what another woman in another thread, she's trying to push some dumb argument that women care about men's emotions, wrong, women only care about ATTRACTIVE men's emotions. Lol. Once again, thank you for the bluntness!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:21 AM
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It's not the majority of women though To reinforce my prior comment, have a look at this: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/phddjn/do_you_think_a_lot_of_women_just_arent_physically/hbi3uyr?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:10 AM
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tried relationships with nice guys they weren't super physically attracted to They all eventually got frustrated and broke up I'm relieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:07 AM
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The majority of women know that men are human beings and don't get turned off by something as natural as crying, infact they would be happy to be there for the man. I thought you were trolling me or being sarcastic, but it seems you may really be just an empath. You obviously don't know what the experiences of the less attractive men in society have. Honestly I can only see attractive men getting some semblance of sympathy, for the rest, nah. The women who do not allow for any crying or vulnerab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:03 AM
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Ladies, did you know that if we just stopped fucking Chaaaaaad and dated Poindexter our lives would be soooooo much better? Isn't that what women do anyway? Bang Chad's through their teens and twenties and marry a beta nerd who can provide? Did I miss something? I see this sort of all the time. Oh but wait...wouldn't we then be those baaaaad women who trap beta men we aren't attracted to into marriage? Bad? Nah, your just following you biology, as twisted as it is. You Just *garden-tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:05 AM
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Why are you asking? The way you described how you see men crying. It gives of empathy vibes. But you should know that the majority of women see a man crying as a turn off. When he breaks masculine frame like that, it signals weakness. We already have to deal with having emmasculating traits like less height, status, or wealth, crying would make us look worse. Most women wouldn't see their men as men after that. But based on what you described, your the exception, not th rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:00 AM
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Are you an empath?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:21 PM
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Dude, women asking their men to show emotion is literally the biggest shit test that I've ever seen. I've cried Infront of other men before, I'm not going to hide that fact, but I've NEVER cried Infront of women, I've always held it in until later because nothing makes a woman go dry like seeing a man cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:09 PM
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Well, girlboss Lizzy showed me that firsthand 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:35 PM
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Well, to your credit, that was noble and selfless of you. Though seriously, I probably wouldn't have made that sort of deep connection if I knew my partner was moving away lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:39 PM
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I mean she didn't fool your average layman. She fooled top-tier companies and high-calibre individuals. The sort of entities you would think would do their homework before they put in literally millions into a project. But holy shit look at how it turned out. I can't imagine the things she must have done to keep the house of cards standing as long as it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:37 PM
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I have an ex. He was my first time. It wasn't that great. I've had way better partners since then. But I loved him. If you loved him has it ever occurred to you to stay with him and get better? Was he just incapable of responding to your needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:27 PM
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Am I the only one here that respects and actually to an extent likes her that she fooled all those major companies and high-status people to actually give her money? Like I know shes a bullshit artist and con but holy shit, look at the people she conned, what a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:31 PM
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Mine is unironically Omni-Man lol, chaddest super-hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:51 PM
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I remember a woman on here telling me if I marry a girl who was a virgin then that girl would eventually cheat on me because she would get curious. It really said alot that she just assumes that cheating and promiscuity were just inevitabilities that were gonna happen sooner or later. It's pathetic, and these women expect us to simply accept this, is this is the outcome of feminism and sexual liberation? The only men who won't accept this sort of nonsense are the sort men who don't mind going ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:09 AM
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The women here call people incels when they have literally no decent reasoning to respond with. Sexual denigration of men is literally their nuclear option. Also, the mods ban ppl for dumb reasons. I used words like "black-pill" and "hopium" and they thought those were incel terms and I was banned for 30 days. When I tried to reason, they wouldn't respond. Shows how (some) women here are incapable of a decent discussion and want to turn it into a female safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:32 PM
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More than 10 US Marines confirmed dead at Kabul airport. Afghan boogaloo 2.0 confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 06:54 PM
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Another explosion over there. This time 4 US Marines killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:37 PM
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Another explosion at Kabul airport. This time it seems 4 US soldiers were killed.... Fuck me this is insane.... Biden literally said any attack on US forces would be met with a "swift and forceful response". Looks like Afghanistan round 2 confirmed...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:36 PM
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It's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:15 PM
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bombing at Kabul airport. 5 confirmed dead. Yup, I think escalation is in order. Who thinks round 2 is a possibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:05 PM
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Idk man. It's honestly so weird how alot of the "cancel white men" girls in my experience are super deadset on getting with white guys, even if they're non-white. And they're pretty open about this too btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:57 PM
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Honestly its weird how quick they got it working 😅, must have some afghan pilots helping out either willingly or unwillingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:55 PM
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For kicks, I decided to go all red pill on her. For example, instead of saying "Excuse me may I borrow your textbook for a minute," I said "Let me see that textbook you stupid cunt," and then when I was done I dropped it on the floor for her to pick up. After a while, she told me that she wanted to meet me to discuss my "attitude" Which I did. I listened to her complain for about 15 seconds and then I interrupted and said "You and I are going back to my place right now." I then took her by the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:25 PM
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It seems the Taliban finally got those captured Blackhawks working and hovering. It's not flying per say. I can see them bringing in Chinese to figure it out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:44 PM
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That's objectively untrue. Of course men who can't get sex will be a subset, but I see most of them being men whom have been divorced, used, or cheated on, and they search for answers because they don't understand even though they've done everything right. Men use the redpill to understand the nature of the sexual market place and be able to adapt and use it to their advantage and not fall for BS treatment that women hurl at them. You'll find both players and incels as well as your average Joe's…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:08 AM
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I’m a women and I didn’t need anyone to teach me waiting until marriage is the worst mistake anyone can make in life. Nah, honestly women should wait until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:22 PM
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I'm guessing just like women who want a 6'+ man who can still get with a short guy if he ticks all other boxes and some conditions met, Guys with the condition that a girl has to be virgin are also subject to the same negotiable leanings as long as she ticks his boxes? I'm wondering about this because I'm pretty much dead set on not committing to a woman is she isn't a virgin, and I'm ready to die single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:09 AM
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Source is my own experiences so feel free to call me an idiot. Elaborate. What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:51 AM
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"American is back" Cringiest shit ever, even if the afghan fiasco wasn't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:41 AM
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I hope your transparent about all this with your future relationships then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:39 AM
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Someone still in contact with exes, whether that be man or women, red flag. Means there was never a 'real breakup', just a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:30 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:29 AM
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If your mother didn't teach you not to date a scrub then that's on her .... No both my parents told me wait until marriage. I was dumb enough to listen to them. The redpill community taught me the rest thankfully and I know what red-flags to avoid. A man waiting until marriage is literally the biggest cuck move these days. taught my sons don't pay for that shit , let these chicks earn for themselves. Good for you 👍. But given that there's a manosphere and a rp community to begin with we can assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:28 AM
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That's when my father told me things about men's nature ,and I also encountered things from men as I got in my older teen years . Which was unwanted. Maybe if mother's started teaching their sons the nature of women and how not to get manipulated and used we wouldn't be seeing huge rises in these "pill" communities where men have to learn from other men about the nature of women. I guess mom's just can't go against the sisterhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:10 AM
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but majority of them I’m still friends with Red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:05 AM
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a wife should never be outdone by the family dog Dude, I'm definitely borrowing this 😁👌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:02 AM
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The point is they are still in a better spot then men their own age "better spot" is completely relative. This can mean anything from career to financial status. But those woman are no longer getting the same attention and looks that their 20 year old counter parts are getting. Also plenty of women just want to fuck and they are able to do that with guys younger and hotter than themselves. Lol, well all the women on social media complaining about getting pumped and dumped, single mothers, and "w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:14 PM
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I've seen women in their 40s and 50s, obese and all, be able to fuck young hot guys. It's not about getting sex that's an issue, sex is naturally available to women, it's their god-given privilege, if you have a vagina your gonna get easy sex, it's about getting into a long term commited relationship with a decent man that's a challenge. Granted I think a woman post wall can still get that, but they price themselves too high and still look down on average and decent men. An added disadvantage is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:51 PM
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Yup, that's the dynamic I want as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:42 PM
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Honestly, annexation wouldn’t be that bad. And btw I’m a far left individual saying that. Peoples beliefs are fluid, nobody fits strictly into one category I could go on a huge rant on how things like annexation are just straight up impossible these days unless they're done quietly, bloodlessly, and covertly, kind of how the Russians just walked into Crimea. Making Afghanistan a territory would legitimately benefit us and them. Dude, the only way to "annex" Afghanistan would be to send fit US me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:23 PM
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I thought the mods on this forum best fitted the American left-wing sjw type, But in the recent Afghanistan thread, one them straight up said the US should return to Afghanistan as conquerors and never leave. Blew my mind away and made me rethink my position 😅🤣👌. On a wider note, that thread was really interesting to read. Knowing that reddit is traditionally left leaning I was expecting 99% of the comments to be a "Fuck USA" fest but this wasn't the case. Lots of interesting and diverse opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:36 PM
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Holy crap, I've seen and read your comments all over this sub, but I never in my wildest dreams could have imagined you would say something so unironically based...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:16 PM
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Why? It's true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:39 AM
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I mean, it's basically free realestate for the top tier men lol. Just a pump and dump and the women are fine with it. The ones who can't lock down a hvm are the ones calling men trash lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:38 AM
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I'm arguing for the same meme the OP is arguing for. Women want the top 20% of men and that is 100% ok. But the oversupply your giving the top 20% absolutely deflates the value of women to the top 20%. The end result is a glorified harem for the top 20% of men and women are just their (willing)concubines.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 05:04 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 05:01 AM
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Nah, if woman are willing to share the top 20% of men, they're pretty make themselves expendable concubines. They deserve whatever treatment their sultan gives them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:32 AM
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Turned 27 last month, still a virgin 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 02:55 AM
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Even I agree, but then women have to accept men's own valid reasons for not wanting to marry or be ina relationship with them. That means, the entire "men are trash" meme has to end. And stop complaining about being finessed for sex. Also don't complain when men cheat or are seeing someone else at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 02:40 AM
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If the girl is fine with it, then I wouldn't have anything to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:56 PM
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I think a more important question would be, "why are women giving sex to fuckbois and not decent men?" Why give sex to anyone at all who you aren't in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:52 AM
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Lol nah, if the sexual market place didn't reward fuck Bois so much and make being a virtuous nice guy such a social handicap, men wouldn't want to be based redpill fuckbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:42 PM
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"Red pill" isn't some character attribute that you can attach value or virtue to. It's simply knowing and accepting pieces of information that society doesn't admit publicly that goes against what that very society has been telling you. Pimps and rappers are probably the most red-pilled men out there but I would NEVER want my daughter dating one. I'm saying this as a man who's red-pilled on alot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:59 PM
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I find alot of the responses by the other men(and women) here quite shocking, though they're probably trolling lol. Anyways as a man, the sort of men I would want my daughter to date: Good career and salary comes first and foremost. He could even be the riskier business owner types but over all, someone in stem(like I am). This requirement also ensures a level of intelligence that I like. Comes from a decent family, with folks who have also been married a long time. Though if he has sperated him…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:42 PM
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Btw OP which type are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:40 PM
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Ohhh it displayed that way for some time, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:39 PM
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Hey why was this removed?! It was an interesting post!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:04 PM
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I'll admit I'm actually surprised that most of the ppl are introverted leaning... Though there would be more extroverted leaning ppl, both men and women...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:09 PM
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Lots of male INTPs(myself included), one of the rarest personalities. Sorta makes sense you'd find this many online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:05 PM
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Women are starting to pay alimony now. It'll be a shitstorm for women in that world. Good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:25 PM
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Of course if they kicked all the men out and had the women work the workplace would certainly be enough to compensate for a feminist lifestyle. I think the women would just end up sleeping with their bosses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:20 PM
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How the hell does it greatly reduce the chances of infidelity and divorce? Surely logically it would increase that chance since the woman will always be curious about what sex would be like with other people? And Lol look at some of the recent posts made here. The more past sexual partners a woman has the higher her chances of infidelity and filing for divorce. And of course from your twisted point of view would a woman who has only ever had sex with her husband would get 'curious', proof that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:44 PM
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However, if the man is not a virgin himself and not at all religious then why does he want to marry a virgin if not for fetish reasons? Why are you ppl resorting to call wanting a virgin wife some sort of fetish? It makes perfect sense for a man wanting a virgin wife because it greatly reduces the chances of infidelity and divorce. Not only that it's a guarantee of making sure he doesn't get cucked or not having to deal with crazy ex's. It's perfectly logical for any man to prefer a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:21 PM
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insecure virgin fetishist Lol, of course you'd resort to calling it fetishism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:16 PM
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Objectively not true. Btw "don't listen to woman" is in the domain of dating and relationships. If you go back in my comment history you'll see I have numerous almost-scathing comment regarding female behavior. But here's the thing, I have numerous women in my life, both personally and professionally, that I look up to and respect, women I would bow my head to in admiration, and I think this is true for many men on ppd. It's just that when these women I look up to start talking about dating that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:32 PM
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This dude gets it. Enjoying the decline seems like the only way for a man to lead a dignified existence these days I'm a dumb male virgin who thought there was virtue in male virginity but I'm realizing it to be the biggest sham these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:00 PM
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If a virgin woman preferred a guy with a sexual history, would you consider it hypocritical... Or just a preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:57 PM
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To be fair, you also can't "husband a fuckboi" Literally no man would dispute this, only the women on his rotation would dispute this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:56 PM
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Yeah, I've fantasized pretty hard about average looking and even below average looking girls I've met, and mostly about being in loving relationships 😐, I think it's a side affect of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:43 AM
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Male intp here, so ami, funny to think if it, the rp and bp was always something that stuck to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:19 AM
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27M intp-t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:12 PM
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Ppl aren't generally considered "leftovers" for the reasons you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:27 PM
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Sounds like a lovely story, sounds like he hit the lottery and so did you, hope you both the best, and I hope I find someone like you one day 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:11 PM
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Thinking the only people left are the bad ones. It's not the ones left that are bad, just baggage. There are many reasons why a older person is on the market that has nothing to do with their overall value. Uh-huh, what are those "many reasons"? Many good ones have had shit things happen to them. And what are those "shit things"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:06 PM
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That's quite an age gap, what made you accept the huge gap in your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:03 PM
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Well? What is "leftover mindset" in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:24 PM
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I wonder if you understand what the term "leftovers" mean from a male perspective...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:38 PM
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But better looking people don't just have it better socially, economically they tend to get on better too. This peace of mind and general well-being ness does tend to create a better personality. The only exceptions are the good looking ppl with insecurities and what not. Though, it can be said that good looking women have to be a bit rude to push away all th approaching men, but if these women did get a man I don't think they'd be arrogant or selfish with him. Less attractive people are disadva…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:46 PM
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I mean if the definition of dystopia in this case is that low value men don’t get to mate Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:22 PM
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Meeks as an incl meme. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:53 AM
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TRP likes to claim women wait at the finish line meanwhile millions of women invest an build up these dudes. Some communities demand this of women. You know, I'd unironically would love a woman like this. A woman who would be ok with my risk taking and maybe even resourceful enough that I could start a business with her. Though, honestly I don't think this approach is safe, for most women anyways, because when you build a guy up and make him high value, he's going to be getting attention from mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:22 PM
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Alright how was this incel content ? 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:40 PM
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Ok, apparently our observations of the real world are quite different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:41 PM
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Maybe a certain type of woman Lol no. I've seen these sort of things occur more than once lol. I've seen well-rounded career women put up with ALOT of crap from men whom would have been losers if they were below average looking lol. If a guy is good looking enough, literally ANY woman wouldn't mind getting with and helping him. If he has the prospects of good genes, his lack of a job is not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:38 PM
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It was about MARRIAGE and partnership. That's the thing . If your attractive enough a woman won't mind marrying you even if you don't have a job. Lol, Its obvious that since women can earn in their own they wouldn't mind taking in a bad boy to cohabitate with them. Judging by the downvotes ppl don't seem to get this. And to add, I chuckled when I realized that most of the requirements for a husband on this thread don't involve looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:29 PM
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I won’t cover the bare minimum here (having a decent job, being an adult and being capable of taking care of himself, wife and kids) Lol, if he's good looking enough he'll get sex and affection regardless of what his economic status is. The sort of sex and affection that an average man who is husband material will NEVER get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:02 PM
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There's nothing shameful about n count. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 11:26 AM
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Unironically no. But my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:27 PM
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Dude, ignore the ppl here bitching about muh age-gap. If you think you can live a happy life and have a good marriage with this man then go for it. Without without age-gaps get divorced and ppl with with do it too, and successful marriages are getting rarer. At this point, I don't even care about muh standards. If you can have a successful marriage with this man, there is nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:10 PM
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America seem to date and sleep with several people at the same time when looking for something serious Yup, and it's always hilarious when the women on here try to justify this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:44 PM
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You should go into copywriting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:25 PM
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How the fuck do you write so much my god. Didn't read but I'm just taken aback by the amount of content you generate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:19 AM
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Yup. This goes back to one of my rp revelations. A woman cannot even fathom the plight of the average man, and what the trials he has to go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:07 AM
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As sex toys, for existing. Sex toys and breeding machines On that same note men are seen as expendable toy soldiers. Only for fighting and dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:07 AM
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The point is that men are seen as valuable for like Sure, valuable as expendable bodies or canon fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:42 AM
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Tell that to all the heart-broken players and fuckbois and see if they'll listen, not me because I'm not one of em.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:49 AM
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Nope. Real-world observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:43 AM
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Anyone who needs this sub to teach em not to be a doormat was poorly socialised in the first place. Yeah, I think I fit the bill. I was bullied pretty bad and was the awkward depressed kid in college. I have been seeing a therapist to address this issue for a couple months now as well. I also have been exercising my social skills more. I do think it's tragic, I wished I had learned about the female mind when I was in college instead of learning it through the rp, but better late than never. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:38 AM
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Well, Im a special case. I'm actually 27 and still a virgin, mainly because I naively thought of waiting till marriage. Wanting a virgin woman these days is beyond pointless. The older a man gets the more his virginity becomes a handicap. Getting in the mating game and losing it is turning into my priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:52 AM
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Except the cliche last line lol. I suppose it is also a mind-thing. I don't have that mindset you guys have and I can't hold onto that mindset for the life of me. I just can't believe it. Oh please. That's because you haven't experienced, seen or felt the things I have 😑. I'm attentive at noticing and keeping mental note of the various behavior patterns, stuff like eye contact, facial gestures and whatnot. And this was when I had a bp-beta mindset. I personally know how women look at men they de…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:28 AM
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Most men in this subreddit are not in ltr Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:49 AM
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Honestly this sub has actually helped me 😐, I used to be a bluepilled naive idiot who would have been content with getting any gf and being the simpiest partner I could be, but when I took the pill and browsed this sub and read what women think, the anger (and (some) hatred) I felt actually made me want to improve myself funnily enough. Like workout everyday, stop being depressed and lost and work towards improving my career, and in general work on becoming the best version of myself. In fact I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:29 AM
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Ffs I wish I was rp back then, if I had known this I would have gone out of my way to be more extroverted because I did know certain types of women back in college who had a wide social connection... Who were also romantically interested in me 😅 Anyways man appreciate the insight, I hope I remember this for the next life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:07 PM
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talk to someone for you to get a job interview. Get a professor to change your grade for you or give you extra time for a final project. Help write a research paper.. WOW. Just WOW. Back in college all I can remember was being a quite, depressed nerd 90% of the time who pretty much pushed away any girl that showed interest but damn, I wish I knew what I know today to get girls to do these sort of things for me 😅, would have com in handy more times than once lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:22 PM
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Lol, you basically did the equivalent of a girl stringing along a beta orbiter and having him do things for her. Fascinating to think the reverse can occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:56 PM
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Lol, do ppl think things through when they ask questions like this? Do you really think after Chad has slept and gamed so many girls he doesn't know how the female mind works? Not to mention Chad is also highly experienced, so he will be able to keep a woman satisfied better than beta -billy. Chad has accumulated a treasure trove of experience with women and he can easily use that experience to lock down a relationship. To think otherwise would be beyond dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:49 AM
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I think ppl consistently misconstrue what "submit" means in the context of relationships. Agree with your points, I come from those sort of conservative cultures and I witnessed these sort of "unspoken" roles during my upbringing between my mother and father. Btw, what's your definition of hvm? Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:06 PM
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Gotcha, very direct with no fancy wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:58 PM
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Also instead of trying to sell yourself to potential matches in your bio tell a bit about yourself and what you want in person within reason. Can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:01 PM
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Wtf, what's your secret, 5'6 dude here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:34 PM
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In the latter, he dropships and makes 10k a year. The second dude though, it's still something lol, as someone cautious about dropshipping, I think it's pretty good lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:33 PM
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I think this symbolizes a collective rp-rage of a large group of males. I think this trend will grow and sustain itself as rp content grows and the mindsets of more men are shaken. I've also noticed the rise of newer personalities in the manosphere and even the rise of women sympathetic to it. Should be an interesting decade for gender Dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:28 PM
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I admire your dad's self sufficiency. Anyways I appreciate the advice. I'll keep it in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:35 AM
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Best of luck man, I mean it sincerely! Appreciate it, wish you a full filling life and relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:34 AM
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I just realized your the same person that messaged me the other day about my post on my virginity 😶... You username is ridiculous btw... We spent around 5 months dating exclusively before having sex. I'm hyper vigilant about contracting herpes so I don't kiss on the mouth or share drink containers either until I know for sure the person is not positive for herpes simplex I will keep this in mind...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:20 AM
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We've both grown up in very conservative families (compared to our liberal country) and now we're both Agnostic/Atheist. Same, grew up in a strict and conservative house hold, not religious of course, but my traditional preferences I think came from the way I was brought up, and not from any belief in religion since I'm an atheist too. I really hope you find a woman that isn't settling for you and also washes her ass after each shit. You deserve that at least. 💖 LOL I hope so too, but I'm not ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:07 AM
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I would have stayed celibate forever if I couldn't have a man like him. Were you a virgin when you met him? Was he a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:05 AM
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Does it count as submission to be the one planning vacations, translating when we're abroad since I speak more languages, cooking dinner and doing the recycling? In turn, my SO is very capable and handy at repairing my bikes (yes, I have several) and does the spring cleaning of both of our homes, is he being submissive then? Yeah Submission is not the word I would describe our relationship at all, it's co-operation and a gentle deference when we know the other is the better at something. Example…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:39 AM
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That version of submission is a meme peddled by feminists who hate the traditional marriage. think it's gross to not wash your ass immediately after a shit Wtf, even if i had a smoking hot gf I wouldn't put up with that holy shit that's disgusting. He simply would not be a person of interest to me. Exactly, so you didn't settle, the problem is afbb, the problem is too many women have slept around with the top 20% of men and then when they realize they cant marry them they panic and settle for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:16 AM
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First and foremost, submission is NOT being subservient or docile to another person, or putting up with an abusive partner, that's straight up a dysfunctional relationship. Submission in a relationship is when the women defers leadership in the relationship to the man. She can provide council, voice disagreements, and provide support how she sees fit, but the husband has the final say. It also means the rolls in the relationships are clearly defined. And they are done without too much of an argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:09 AM
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Submission is someone being docile or accepting the rule of another. Neither of us do that. We just work together and are attracted to each other. That's a rather toxic definition of submission, infact I think that's dysfunctional not traditional. I mean submission under the traditional context. I did mention that there was mutual respect in you relationship. The "love" in your relationship is a flower that blossomed from the soil or mutual respect. And that flower of love is where the nectar of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:46 AM
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RP taught me not to hate women, but accept them for who they are. This right here, whenever I state uncomfortable observations and inconvenient truths, ppl think I hate women but in reality I just understand women and how the dating game is played. 🙄 Unfortunately too many ppl think with their feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:27 AM
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Also to add, I think your relationship is a good example that in this day and age that desire is non-negotiable. Meaning that you HAVE TO find your partner physically attractive for you to respect and submit to him. Even if the man is a top 10% earner the woman might still not properly submit to him if he is not physically desirable. Even if that man was of good character and kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:51 AM
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Eh, doesn't seem like it from my (male)perspective. Seems like he had all the qualities that you perceived as high value, so you submitted to him. Which I think is fantastic because thats pretty much the corner stone of a traditional relationship, but both of you are still capable respecting one another, which is manifested by the feet rubbing and buying expensive gifts and what not. But I wouldn't call this a compromise, atleast in the sense of "he's not attractive but he makes six-figures".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:35 AM
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Does settling on character traits work here? I didn't settle on looks or kindness or charisma. I was however, OK with him not cooking His eating habits when I'm away disgust me, but oh well, he looks good and is charming. This seemed to me like just the concept off, "if he/she is good looking enough they can get away with more negative behavior", I'm guessing if you had settled for someone less attractive hai eating habits would be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:07 AM
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Yup, I'm also not paying for any man's offspring either. Go sell your ass on the street if you need the money, I dgaf. Dude, I think we have to come to terms that cucks and chumps are just going to be an inherent feature to the human gene pool. These men can't be helped and unfortunately it's their destiny to lead a less dignified existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:01 AM
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Perhaps the one thing NO MAN should compromise on lol, I don't see a dignified existence being with a women with a higher n-count than you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:38 AM
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I think initially it's because people get exhausted trying to find the "ideal" in their head and they "tolerate" someone who meets most but not all their standards. But then with more exposure, if that person didn't have any deal breaker qualities, if the dialogue and exchange of information was there, the connection forms and newly created persona of that person overtakes and replaced the one in the head. And I think this is what causes the phenomenon where (primarily women) say that they find …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:38 AM
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But if guys want to be stupid that's their decision lol. Us guys can be pretty desperate when we're going through a validation drought. But seriously though what are some obvious signs a girl is into you? What are the signs she isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:23 PM
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Well damn OP are you saying I should just thug-max and I'll be able to get me some action? What rite of passage do I have to go through to get into some of them gangs? Can I change my name to d'quan? /S
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:58 PM
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Eh, I really wish there was more to go on, Sure take your shot is great advice, but is it still great advice on the 10, 20, 50, 100th rejection? I can imagine alot of bitter men coming from it, because I know I definitely would be. Guess I just have to man-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:54 PM
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Yup, he must have been stressed out of his mind taking care of the family and was probably validation deprived, and you were providing some sense of validation through your discussions. I'm guessing alot of guys get the "feels" if they get even the slightest amount of validation from a female because they're just so deprived of it. As a man I personally am familiar with this... Quite sad, I can't imagine even begin to imagine the number of men out there whom have to go through this kind of miser…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:47 PM
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