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I never disagreed that women had a preference for race-just that men are just as picky on race in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:11 PM
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I agree with OP. Men need to get off apps and date women they encounter in daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:08 PM
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abortion is a right, Someone stayed in bed all day on June 24, 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:14 PM
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Monogamy is already enforced. Polygamy is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:01 PM
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q4w: would it be better if guys just didn't send dick picks, period? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:49 AM
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Then why do women get mad when guys move on? It makes me mad because it robbed me of relationships and married people sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:35 AM
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I would be over the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:34 AM
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Ever notice the glaring double standard when it comes to preferences/standards in dating? That's because men's standards have a gross yucko ick factor that women's standards don't have. being significantly more picky with race ect... Men are picky with race for ltr, but not casual. Men are also very anti-black in their ltr preferences, but not casual. The fact that men's standards differ for casual v. Ltr is also very yucko. Another issue is that men's standards are more unfair or something you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:14 PM
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When I was between the ages of 22-33, men only wanted me for sex and were unwilling to wait until marriage before sleeping with me. That kept me single. I envy the women whose husbands were willing to wait until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:03 AM
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Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ? Only Catholic priests can pull this off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:33 PM
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Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? 1) unfair to women 2)unfair to children 3)bad for society 4)promotes gendered sexual double standards 5)causes fathers to be undervalued in society Obviously this can only be an option in places where abortion is easily accessible, Even when abortion is readily available this bullshit should not stand. But when abortion is a legal and accessible option for women, and a man does not want a child, shouldn’t it be an option for the man to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:30 PM
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Man A
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:46 PM
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Now, this is the much better conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:12 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:27 PM
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This post is men's projection onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:57 PM
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To me, it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:56 PM
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Man, people are dumb!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:23 AM
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I can settle for a non-virgin, but I can't find a guy who is willing to wait until marriage before having sex. I'm a virgin at 37 because I don't feel comfortable with having premarital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:17 PM
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I'm 37.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:52 PM
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Are women happy with the current state of dating? I'm not. Dating apps work very well in a woman's favor. First of all they're completely safe, you can choose which suitor you want from the comfort of your home. No risk of getting roofied, unwanted attention, or even assaulted like you might with more traditional ways of meeting people (bars, clubs). Yeah right. The other big reason is that women now no longer need a partner Yeah right. Is there anything about the current state of dating that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:40 PM
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As a virgin, I am disappointed that there is not a male virgin for me to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:38 PM
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Most men are taller anyway. Make more money is not comparable to sexual double standards because women definitely want to be treated like men when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:12 PM
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Not a fan of double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:04 PM
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I agree usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:29 PM
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We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:28 PM
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Double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:19 PM
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Have you even read your own posts and comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:18 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:46 PM
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1) The women may have thought they were his one and only. 2) The side pieces may have thought that they could sex their way into mate poaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:15 AM
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Kpop dudes are attractive because of status. Masculinity and muscles are attractive. I personally think NBA players have the ideal male body type.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/22 06:27 AM
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Men want a low self esteem woman to control. Women want an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:32 PM
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When men sleep with women, they give them false hope of commitment. Never sleep with a woman that you would never commit to.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 09:51 PM
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Women say this because they want to be brought on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:42 PM
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You don't understand the true nature of Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:04 PM
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I feel that OP is completely naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:14 PM
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It's called they're hypocritical assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:42 AM
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It's just fun, and a good outlet for my contentious personality without hurting real-life relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:21 AM
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Sounds like utopia
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/22 11:27 PM
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So here's how it worked: in society, there were men who were enslaved or castrated for the purpose of serving other men. There were also wars in which men died in combat or all the adult males and old women were massacred, but the children and young women preserved. Men of status had multiple wives and concubines. Men of lower status had one or no wives. Some men could not get a wife. Monogamy made things more fair so that all men could get a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:06 PM
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Why would guys have a higher sex count when it comes to women when it's harder for guys to get sex? I keep telling you people that is not true. That would mean guys are out here having more sex than women despite approaching and making more first moves which again makes no sense. Actually that puts you a position to have more sexual opportunities. Do more guys have a harem than a girl has a rotation of guys to fuck? I think that is true. Third, It should be insanely obvious that if guys partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:53 PM
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Of course
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 12:29 AM
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We think it's better and more fun.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 12:18 AM
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must surely mean that women never wanted to act like women in the first place? They like being men, just with female physical parts. Pretty much yeah
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 11:46 PM
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It's something we want.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 11:45 PM
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for who women are like beer on tap and who won't settle till the steady flow of women dries up. And that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:58 PM
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Women are also delaying getting into relationships It's not that women are delaying relationships. It's that men are delaying relationships because they want to sow their wild oats. That forces women to have delayed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:04 PM
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What specifically were you doing for exercise Normal stuff like the gym, swimming, walking, Zumba, and 5ks. how did you change your diet? Avoiding carbs and sugar or intermittent fasting And how long did you consistently maintain the change/excercise routine for? A few months before giving up and retrying. A cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:42 PM
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what religion? I want to convert to Reform Judaism. and what do u think of trump? I just wish he would fade into the sunset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:23 AM
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Question, what do u think of religion and conservative politics like what pops in ur head when u hear those words? I'm a religious conservative Republican.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:17 AM
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I'm fine and you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:03 AM
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It's for religious purposes. It is also to avoid STDs and heartbreak and because men supposedly prefer virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:22 AM
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Why would you say something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:04 AM
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It's just how I was raised. Yes, it is chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:40 AM
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If anyone wants a virgin unicorn, here I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:10 AM
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I'm a 37 year-old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:06 AM
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Women do casual because it's the culture we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:04 PM
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I'm a virgin if anybody is hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:40 PM
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My experience exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:35 PM
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I think the fear of false rape allegations are overblown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:43 PM
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Men are not willing to marry or even date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:35 AM
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It's not archaic. It's timeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:22 AM
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Also, a man's wallet isn't going to suddenly generate raw desire. So when RP starts going on about "resources" being one factor to attract young women to you, they are just talking beta by another name. The real beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:11 PM
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I like older men, but only if they look good for their age, and they have decent finances or status.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:00 PM
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I hang out with a wider variety of people than you do. Why do women in Reddit accuse everyone they disagree with of insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:55 PM
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The whole world is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:37 PM
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the "popular kids"? There is an adult version of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:31 PM
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Marriage transcends tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:00 PM
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All single ladies care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:59 PM
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Maybe you are a woman who does not value status in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:44 PM
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Nobody writes Mark Zuckerberg love letters because he's married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:33 PM
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I'm a 37 year-old forever alone woman. Why do women think Leonardo DiCaprio dating a woman half his age, never over the age of 25, is a bad thing? It's not bad. Just annoying. Does anyone bat an eye if a woman dates men significantly older, especially if they are wealthy or men of status? No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:00 AM
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Set in stone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:04 AM
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How do you feel about relationships with large age gaps? I'm ok with it as long as no one is underage and your partner is significantly older than your oldest child. Does that opinion change if the older person is a man or woman? No How big of a gap do you consider to be significant? Is Any gap is significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:33 PM
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I just say fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:32 AM
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A nice guy is a guy who tries to seem nice, but is not really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:53 AM
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understand weight is harder to control but thru diet and exercise it can be done! That's not true for everyone. That's why I quit and have just accepted obesity. Notice how obesity is more of an American phenomenon. Choice can put the pounds on, but once they are on, they will not come off, and if they do, they come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:41 AM
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Fat people are fat because weight is very hard to control. Men don't have to be tall. They just need to be taller than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:27 AM
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Alpha Fucks-Beta Bucks is still intended monogamy on women's end. They think they are his one and only.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 11:12 AM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 05:04 AM
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Is being hyperactive, excitable, silly, goofy etc an unattractive personality trait It's fine as long as it doesn't get annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:41 AM
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How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group? I'm 37. Most people in my age group have had between 1-3 partners. Low is virgin. High is 4 or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:50 AM
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If men don't even like Chad getting more sex than them, how would they feel if that situation was made permanent through marriage?
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 05:13 PM
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No, women prefer monogamy.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 05:09 PM
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A man's attractiveness is his currency in the sexual marketplace.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 03:01 PM
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Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women That difference is because guys are perps and girls are victims. Reason I say this is a lot of women seem to have a huge problem misjudging guys who use them for sex Those guys can not be misjudged. I would specifically teach girls that if you are looking for a relationship do not have sex for at least the first month or so of a relationship. Waiting until marriage should be the standard. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:51 PM
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Life is better for attractive people. Get over it.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 02:13 PM
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Gay people should not be allowed to marry because they can't produce children naturally, and gay marriage leads to Christians being forced to render their services to a wedding that they disagree with, thus limiting religious freedom. Children need to be raised by a parent of both genders, and they can only get that with straight marriage.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 02:12 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:53 PM
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Men need to stop thinking about the sex lives of other men and just do their own thing.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:42 PM
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don't understand why women sleeps around and see it as recreational Maybe it's fun. But, we know men generally have more difficulties attaining sex just statically. I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:43 AM
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Women look to men to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:58 AM
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To trigger that change, men need to only date seriously, and stop doing casual.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:17 AM
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OP, the ratio of men to women isn't a problem as long as you don't do polygamy. Monogamy keeps male sexual competition under control. My most controversial opinion is that I am anti-gay and anti-poly.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:16 AM
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As long as he wants marriage, I would be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:13 PM
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Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:03 PM
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I'm not saying it looks good. I'm just saying that you see it as masculine, but it's just ugly feminine.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 06:33 PM
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I understand you don't like the look, but you are also misinterpreting the look.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 11:31 AM
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The nails, eyelashes, and makeup are not about male character traits, but trying to look her best.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 05:39 AM
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I think you misinterpret women's grooming.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 03:49 AM
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The ability to get a partner is based purely on luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:51 PM
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It was all just physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:38 AM
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I just assumed you were like the other guys. I'm sorry.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 06:56 PM
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Telling the Pharaoh that Sarah was his sister That was out of fear. letting him rape her Also taking advantage of Hagar. That never happened. There was a clear power differential. A little, but people forget that Hagar was the daughter of Pharoah, who agreed to be his servant, marry him, and bear his child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:55 PM
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The guy I shamed had multiple fwbs, which I didn't like. I understand accusing King David and Judah, but not Abraham.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:47 PM
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I salute you, but I assumed you were like all the other guys who despise women who have casual sex, but still want to have casual sex.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 06:39 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 06:23 PM
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Then, don't have casual sex.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 06:06 PM
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They can't practically do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:18 PM
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Religious people and me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:59 PM
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Most women don't play the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:59 PM
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Why do so many on this sub shame people who act this way? I once shamed a guy on this sub by telling him that he was taking advantage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:40 PM
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Ladies, how uniform and consistent do you find women's preferences to really be, when it comes to men? Tastes can really vary, but at the same time, there can be consensus about what is attractive. How often have your friends been attracted to men, that you REALLY don't find attractive? How often do you look at a friend's husband or BF, and are just baffled? That happens a great deal. In your personal experience in your social circles, are women's tastes really as uniform, unforgiving and "Chads…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:44 AM
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You make it sound like women have it better than they actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:50 PM
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It sounds like she was only 16 when you married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:16 PM
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Women have different standards for hookups vs relationships That's true for men, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:57 PM
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Lesbians and gays are a small portion of the dating community, and they want the same thing as everyone else in their dating pool. However, straight people are trying to court someone whose goals are the opposite of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:03 PM
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Never too late to do the right thing.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 08:37 PM
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Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex? why isn't there an specific name for AF - BB in psychology, or why isn't this dynamic, this sexual strategy from women more recognized as something bad like the MWC is? If MWC is bad, and men are shamed about it, why aren't women shamed about AF - BB? Alpha Fucks-Beta Bucks doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:19 PM
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I mean facial structure.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 07:10 PM
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I should not be this way, but this is just the way it is. White men are the gold standard for physical beauty. An Indian man looks more like a white man than a SEA man does. That's why women prefer Indian men over SEA men.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 06:34 PM
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I think it's perfectly fair for men to experience sex deprivation because of sexual double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:14 PM
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Men should be punished with sex deprivation because they believe in sexual double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:02 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you, but that's why all men should be deprived of sex until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:51 PM
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The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With? It's the same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:05 AM
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If OP is Indian, he should get a arranged marriage with a cute Indian girl in her twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:17 AM
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Honestly, it's my favorite sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:51 PM
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I'm not disputing that all Asians have it worse, but most women prefer Indians over Southeast Asians.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 10:29 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 10:07 PM
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Women like Indian men, but SEA guys have it worse.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 09:13 PM
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I'm glad OP mentioned this. The situation for men is not as bad as everyone says it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:02 PM
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There are three problems: the first is that men are pursuing women for casual sex instead of ltr, men are not willing to wait until marriage, and there are still double standards. The whole point of sexual liberation was to give women the freedom to do whatever they wanted sexually without any bad consequences and plenty of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:59 PM
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Women don't believe in good enough for casual sex, but not good enough for ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:07 AM
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attractive + not good personality) = casual sex and dumping afterwards - A guy's personality has to be good for me to sleep with him. The way to get casual sex is to trick her into thinking she has a chance at ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:54 AM
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men (net payers of taxes) women (net receivers of taxes). That's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:33 PM
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Everyone is saying that now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:12 PM
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They do whine about men, but I think claims of misandry are exaggerated. I don't know where these claims about making money come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:10 PM
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Women can be sexually conservative without religion. Other people are sexually conservative because religion told them to be. You either enjoy or crave sex and physical contact with another person or you don't, right? This impulse can be repressed. Why repress something which feels amazing and life-affirming? Religion tells you to. FDS teaches that sexually liberated women are ruining the dating market for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:19 AM
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I didn't get my sex drive until I graduated college. Everyone has a sexual identity. Men at church don't get systemic shame and oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:15 AM
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No, it is not. They want the same men as everyone else. They are not religious per se, just sexually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:46 PM
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FDS is not misandrist. No scams either. Just whining on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:37 PM
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D-Never I am a 4-6.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:05 PM
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Doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:43 AM
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If you made her uncomfortable, you did something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:43 AM
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. How important is a full head of hair to you? Is it a dealbreaker if a guy is partially bald...completely bald? Is baldness really the "death sentence" when it comes to attraction, that a lot of guys here think it is? It depends on how much it ruins or doesn't ruin your appearance. Physical appearance is less important in men of status. Short is worse than bald. Age is not a factor. I think if it hurts your appearance shaving the whole head is the answer. Stay away from finasteride.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:59 PM
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Why do women think they need to have a hoe phase The culture makes it necessary. why do they expect a relationship at the age of 30? They know they need to settle down at thirty. Why are men expected to marry these women especially men with low n count? No one expects that. Her ability to seperate sex from romance is scary to me She doesn't really have that ability. You all are just delaying romance for no good reason at all. Women have casual sex in order to get romance.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 09:37 PM
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There were times in our ancient history where only 1 in 17 men got to reproduce, and this wasn't because there was a mass die-off of men. It was simply because they were not selected as mates by the women in thier society. This is the result of polygyny and the women back then did not choose their partners. Their fathers chose their partners and men forced women to be their partners.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 04:28 PM
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That doesn't exist in my world. That's why I am considering a hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:57 PM
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At least, they'll get married and have kids. As a virgin, I am aging without relationships and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:48 PM
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I'm a virgin, and hoes find it easier to get dates, boyfriends, and husbands than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:41 PM
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I don't know if I want to maintain my virginity until marriage or start having a hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:11 AM
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Women prefer that No, they don't. Women prefer men with a n count equal to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:01 AM
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If age gap relationships are frowned upon due to an experience gap, then can’t the same be said if a higher n count woman dates a man with a lower n count? What about when a low count woman dates a higher n count man? Women dating men with a significant gap in sexual relationships can leverage her experience to her advantage I.e. withdraw sex, intimacy, attention, to get her man to fall in line since he doesn’t know how to deal with those scenarios and he may feel as if he has more to lose. All …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:59 PM
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Husband and hookup material is the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:40 PM
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I envy how sexual promiscuity and aging don't hurt men, and they can compensate for a lack of good looks in other ways. I do think the pros outweigh the cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:39 AM
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: Often women are the ones who ruin FWB/Hook up relationships There's nothing to ruin. Those relationships are of low quality. You’re now on equal footing The man has all the power in those situations. everyone is getting what they want from the situation Only the man is getting what he wants. some women feel some kind of way about it as if they were tricked or something. Women don't know what they are getting themselves into.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:23 AM
1

? Why do you still want romance even if hook up culture is normalized? Hookup culture was the worst thing to happen to the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:18 AM
1

Husband
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:44 PM
-2

That's not what she was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:59 PM
1

How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men? As long as they don't act on it, I don't see the big deal. This is not why dead bedrooms occur. Dead bedrooms are the result of men and women having different libidos and the woman deciding that she will only have sex when she wants it. women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men? Dumb reason to swear off marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:04 AM
1

Women have no power over when they marry, but as soon as they marry they should have kids. Men should prioritize marriage as soon as their education is over and they have a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:42 AM
0

OP, this is such a whiny post.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 11:36 AM
-1

Why is that? An interesting sex life can let you know that you don't like interesting sex acts and simply prefer vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:10 AM
-2

She is to be commended for becoming more sexually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:49 AM
2

Regardless of her sexual history, women have a moral obligation to make men wait. Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL He would have done that regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:08 AM
-2

Modern day women don't like the concept of being accountable for their past actions Are you saying a past threesome should be held against a woman? nor are they fond of men aptly identifying the fact that women have different rules for different guys. It's not about the guys. It's about the woman's sexual journey with the men merely being playmates. why do women initiate ~80% of divorces? It's harder to make a woman happy. Why are there an alarming number of single mothers? Premarital sex leads …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:54 AM
1

Most people don't think that I count as a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:36 AM
1

Giving a guy casual no strings attached enthusiastic sex asap symbolizes that you find him the guy in question such a highly valuable sexual being that you have to bang him right now before you lose him because you know he's sexually irresistible. Not just to you but to other women so you have to jump at the chance fast. This also then symbolizes by proxy that any guy you make wait after is just objectively less sexually desirable. You assign way too much value to sex. Women's sex lives are abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:35 AM
0

Feminism is not the issue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:15 AM
0

or when abortion is illegal Ever heard of the Dobbs decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:01 AM
0

Life is not fair. Get over it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:55 AM
0

The pro-choice ideology only makes me sense applied to women. Applied to men, it's a bunch of man-babies that don't want to take care of their own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:58 PM
1

It's not just a few states that it's illegal. It's illegal in half the country. The procedure is not just banned in the late stage of pregnancy. It's banned throughout the pregnancy. Oftentimes, without exceptions except for being at death's door. I may be anti-abortion, but the overturn of Roe v Wade means women don't choose who gets born and they have far less sexual power than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:18 AM
0

who is born, Ever heard of the overturn of Roe v Wade?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:33 AM
0

men can only do what women allow, women have power over who gets sex and who is born You make women sound like God. condoms are also not always effective, doesn't mean the man is now forced to be responsible for a child he doesn't want, If condoms and birth control fail, both genders must become proper parents. men should have the right to financially abort and sign off their rights with the child up till before the first trimester of pregnancy just like with women and abortion Women should be f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:12 AM
0

if you want full control of birth you get full responsibility, you can't be able to abort the child without the consent of the father and also expect the father to take care of the child for 18 years without his consent, when there are 6 forms of birth control that you can use to avoid having the child Men just don't want the responsibility that comes with sex. Also, birth control is not always effective and the side effects are horrid you seem to hate that you need to be accountable and respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:33 AM
0

how is financial abortion mysogonisitc? It expects women to shoulder a burden alone that men should share in. and virgin shame men to the same extent That only happens occasionally. most modern women are sexually promiscuous, are they misandrists? For women, promiscuity is a way to reach gender equality. Men are promiscuous in a misogynistic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:02 AM
0

Guys advocating rape, financial abortion, double standards, slut-shaming, patriarchy, incel content, and sexual promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:30 AM
0

Just go on the manosphere and see
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:22 AM
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Women hate the manosphere because it's misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:58 AM
21

I am a man with a woman who wants to wait until a relationship to have sex. She isn't religious so it kind of confused me as to why she would want to. Religious women wait until marriage, but non-religious women wait until a relationship because men like to pump and dump and it keeps the body count low. Overall she is super beautiful with no major red flags that I see other than not wanting to proceed until a relationship. That's not a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:45 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:06 AM
2

The bare minimum to get by.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:47 PM
1

That's a contributing factor, but not the defining factor of being a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:22 PM
3

Post 30, women are less desirable, but not completely invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:20 PM
2

If it can be true that high n women are sluts, then why can't it be true that any woman who had pre-marital consensual sex is a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:07 PM
2

So here's the thing about men: the risk is not that they would leave for someone better. The risk is that they would create a soft harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:16 PM
2

I'm thinking about giving up on marriage and preserving my virginity and just sleeping around casually for sexual fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:02 AM
2

I'm 37, so I am not old, but I was taught at a young age that preserving my virginity for marriage would make it easier to get married, but that benefit hasn't materialized for me at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:52 AM
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I was taught growing up that women's sexual number should only include husbands and rapists. If a woman had pre-marital consensual sex of any kind, she was a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:29 AM
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I want to avoid heartbreak, STDs, and slut-shaming. Men prefer virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:24 AM
3

Men my age only want women under 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:21 AM
2

Most men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:20 AM
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for the slut shaming part women with a body count of 7 aren't rlly considered sluts so idk bout that In my world, those women would be considered sluts. do u have a source that men always prefer virgins I don't have a scientific source, but men who have voiced an opposing opinion are few and far between.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:19 AM
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OP, have you considered the damage to your love life, career, and reputation for having done sex work as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:03 AM
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Good looks and socioeconomic status for men. Good looks, virginity, and celibacy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:58 AM
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Men always slut-shame and prefer virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:55 AM
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Men want virgins, but not 40 year-olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:54 AM
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you won't get any men if you never have sex fyi. Why is this? Plus pregnancy over 40 is risky no? A non-issue because I am post-menopausal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:53 AM
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Most men want a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:49 AM
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They found out because the guys asked about body count, and the women told the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:14 AM
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At first, it was religion. Now, I preserve my virginity to avoid heartbreak, STDs, and slut-shaming, and because I want to be desirable to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:12 AM
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I'm bitter about not being rewarded for my virginity at an advanced age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:58 PM
2

Ever heard of the friendzone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:50 PM
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I'm a 37 year-old virgin, who has never French-kissed, but guys always assume I am sexually experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:19 PM
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So I dont really understand how its going to affect her socially. I've seen women get dumped over it. Or I also feel like now women are sort of like dragging me down with them? That's it. At this point being good doesnt do much because men will just assume I didnt exercise restraint and its not like I can prove otherwise Just only have sex with boyfriends and husbands, and you will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:54 PM
2

Todo pasa is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:10 AM
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This is one of the reasons sexual cheating is generally way worse when a woman does it. No, double standards exist because men want the benefits of women having morals and men being allowed not to have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:08 AM
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what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man? I'd want to run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:06 AM
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Progressive correlates with female sexual liberation. That explains slutty attire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:07 PM
1

You don't have to pay child support for kids that aren't yours. Being a single mom reduces opportunities because men want a virgin and single moms are the opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:25 AM
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Women with high n don't have high T. They are simply socialized to be sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:16 AM
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And not just for hookups, women like this don’t ever seem to be single when they don’t want to be. It’s the girls who want to wait for marriage, the nerdy girls, the shy plain janes, who always seem to be perma-single. The story of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:50 AM
1

I orgasm as easily as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:45 AM
1

A
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:18 PM
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Is it weird if a guy asks a woman about her sexual past? Yeah, it is weird to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:50 AM
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Women buy into the sexual liberation fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:24 PM
1

Men are picky as hell on looks-they only like thin women in their early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:21 AM
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Nobody would have the self control for all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:36 AM
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It's not unclear at all. Births will increase exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:22 AM
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To maximize fertility, women need to marry young. The Dobbs Decision will also increase fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:18 AM
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The issue is not intelligence.The issue is having a lot of sex partners can be a stupid course of action, and some smart guys lack social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:58 AM
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Good looks, high status
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:57 PM
1

I think you are overthinking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:41 PM
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The girls are just butthurt that if they gain weight they can't be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:05 PM
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1) Men are lucky that socioeconomic status contributes to their attractiveness, so they have a backup plan if they are not handsome and aging doesn't make them expire in the dating market. 80 percent of women reproduced, whereas only 40 percent of men did.'' That was because of polygyny. Monogamous marriage fixed that. Men are less picky when it comes to looks than women. Makes it far easier to attract a partner. That's not true. ''The good news is that when women do apply to a job, they are 16%…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:18 PM
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Approaching relationships from the standpoint of power is unhealthy. Also, I once heard of a single woman who tried to get pregnant via artificial insemination because she could not find a husband. Her father lamented that men had too much power in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:40 PM
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Female equivalent of won't date high n women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:29 AM
1

I prefer Dario.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:17 AM
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I think guys are more privileged because they are allowed to do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:29 PM
2

It's fun to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:51 PM
1

It's a negative, but not a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:34 PM
1

I think nothing will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:01 PM
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I've dated women who had high sex drives but I still wore them out. Women have no idea how much men have to suppress their sex drive daily. I think those women exaggerated the true nature of their sex drives. I use vibrators almost every day. Sometimes, it is multiple times a day. If I don't use the vibrator at least once a day, it's because I was too busy and just endured the annoyance of being horny without a release. My vibrators also don't last very long because I use them so much that they …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:59 PM
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Although there's no excuse for cheating, biologically it's much harder for men to go without sex than women. That's not a good excuse because I am a 37 year-old virgin despite having a super strong sex drive. As women, we want our sexuality to be treated like men's. We want the freedom to be sexual without it being held against us. Men and women are not the same so this can never be. No, it can never be because men are jerks. while men look for exclusivity. Women want that too. telling women to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:57 PM
1

AFBB is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:26 AM
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Broke and obese women don't really have those standards though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:22 AM
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I do want to issue a disclaimer that I am a 37 year-old virgin. Now that said: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? I don't like it because usually the man is not a virgin himself. No one likes double standards. Another problem is that while men have this preference they are not willing to wait until marriage before having sex. They either want to have a side piece, or they just move on to the next person. These same women, however, state that men who care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:20 AM
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Women don't like it when sex doesn't go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:48 PM
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I know 15% of women have a sex drive equal to men, but 85% of women are not as horny as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:07 AM
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I would not worry about the population if I were you, but subsidizing poor mothers would help. The Dobbs Decision should be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:54 AM
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Just let your current relationship run its course. Only entertain the casual sex idea if you ever become unattached again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:47 PM
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Is it stupid for young guys (18-25) to be in a relationship if they can easily find casual sex? (Sowing wild oats) No, it's immoral to have casual sex. Relationships are the endgame. Or are men who choose to have a relationship when they could have casual sex on to something or are they going to eventually feel the need to sow their wild oats if they haven’t already? If a guy has good morals, he won't regret anything, but guys with bad morals wonder if they are missing out by not sowing their wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:20 PM
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If male virgins demand a virgin, people are ok with it. People just don't like it when non-virgin men demand a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:12 PM
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I'm not a troll. This is just how conservative women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:57 PM
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Male virginity is attractive. Shit-test detected. It's not a shit-test. This is just what I am attracted to. I wonder what would happen if a man said that about women. People say that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:27 PM
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Male virginity is attractive because it is a prize unto itself. Also, the Dobbs decision means male virginity is good for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:23 PM
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Male virginity is attractive. Men have a moral duty to preserve it for marriage. The Dobbs decision means that premarital sex is no longer a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:46 PM
-4

Male virginity is not a problem to be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:38 PM
1

(they get their living, or social insurance from the state). Welfare is not that generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:26 AM
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If you're a guy whose goal is to have as many children as possible, what is your best course of action? Just get married to a conservative religious woman while you are in your early twenties. Don't sow your wild oats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:04 AM
1

You may say that women also pay into these programs, so the women are really dependent on men and women. This is precisely the problem! We don't have a good sense of who is dependent on whom. Better to make it clear through marriage. The goal should be for everyone to be self-sufficient. For all those women who take from social programs more than they contribute, they would be better off if they just directly depended on net-contributing men through a marriage. If this is the way you feel, you n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:44 PM
1

Yes, but there are also single men on the program and single women paying into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:24 PM
2

Everyone with a job pays for these programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:38 PM
1

Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:14 AM
1

People need these welfare programs. Which people? Everyone on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:06 AM
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Not the standard of consumption; most consume less now than they did last year. Consumption is not indicative of prosperity. Why not? People need these welfare programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:43 AM
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Independence by what standard? Aren't real incomes falling for women? Won't most women be bankrupt if the last year repeats itself again? What we think of as independence is an illusion; we are about to find out together that we are not so independent after all. Women are doing fine. Do you think men should be able to opt out of these programs? No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:32 AM
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Then, in the sense of this topic - provision of goods - you think women don't need men. Men are helpful, but not essential. The only reason anyone believes it is because the state promises people a safety net. But the net is a fake; the government can't do what it has promised to do. I do agree that the net only helps a little, but the real reason why women have financial independence is because of their own career achievements. Now, can men opt out? If not, why not? No one can opt out because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:58 AM
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If you think women are not dependent on men - as in, most women will be destitute without men to support them - then you think women don't need men. I think women need men, but not for money. Do you support letting men opt out of social security? That is, no pay ins and no pay outs. What about for Medicare, Medicaid, HUD, etc? If not, why not? I want to remind you that women pay for that stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:38 AM
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Women here, do you expect the man to plan most/all of the dates when you’re in a relationship? I have never been in a relationship, but I have been on one date with two different men. The men planned everything, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:30 AM
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In what sense am I pointing the finger at black people? Seriously, did you even read your own post? I am pointing the finger at the government for what it is doing to all of us, black citizens having been screwed over first. The government does not hold any blame for any of this-black people or anyone else. If women are doing so well providing for themselves, why are their incomes going down in real terms? The fact that their nominal incomes are increasing relative to men is irrelevant. I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:16 AM
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The state is the problem between men and women. It's always convenient to blame the government for our problems because it is easier than having to take responsibility for it ourselves. Please leave black people out of it. As women, we are less dependent on men, not because of social welfare programs, but because of advances in women's ability to provide for themselves financially. Assertions that women are not, in fact, dependent on the welfare state Great, then let’s get rid of the welfare sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:44 AM
1

Women don't necessarily like how it looks.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 12:00 PM
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Men don't understand that casual sex offers are useless for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:31 AM
0

. What makes a man "hookup material" versus "boyfriend/husband material"? Is it just looks? Is there more to it? There's no difference between the two classes of men. Here is another question I would like from a woman's perspective - In your opinion, is it better for a guy to be hookup material or boyfriend/husband material? Why Boyfriend/husband material is better because who wants to be used?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:41 PM
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When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner? Men think that Chad and not Bob got her best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:34 PM
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disparity in sexual privilege between men and women Men have a lot of sexual privilege that women don't have like the freedom to do what you want without judgement, privilege of not being able to get pregnant, less incident and severity of STDs, and in some countries, the privilege of having multiple wives. the state or whatever it might be should step in and take some kind of action to limit women's freedom in order to rectify an unfair and unjust situation and ultimately try and redistribute t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:04 PM
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I'm talking out of my ass, but my ass is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:44 AM
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Sociologists are just giving you statistics, but the statistics only demonstrate that remarriage is easier for the men. It doesn't account for what women want, but can't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:41 AM
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It's not something that can be empirically proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:38 AM
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The statistics demonstrate what women are able to get, not what they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:42 AM
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I'm a virgin, but I think women will have casual sex with any guy who is attractive enough to tolerate sex with. That includes Chad and the average guy. Below average men don't stand a chance unless they are rich or they are Salman Rushdie or she likes to do pity sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:40 AM
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Why are divorced and widowed men more likely to remarry than divorced and widowed women? Women are more likely to give them a chance than men are willing to give the women a chance. seems that women tend to cope better with singlehood and loneliness after a divorve based on such fact I think it's the opposite. Men do much better than women. Based on this statistic I think that even after a painful divorce men are more likely to want a relationship with the opposite sex and be together with a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:23 AM
1

I think you will have to wait until you are married with kids for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:03 PM
2

Fit shaming is not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:26 PM
1

In person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:55 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with me. The problem is that men lack morals because men should only pursue women for dating and never sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:09 PM
2

Dating is difficult for women because men want to sleep with us, but not date us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:42 PM
1

women want to be in relationships with all the men they have sex with. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:24 AM
1

Men don't save themselves because they want sex, not because male virginity is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:37 AM
1

I think virginity is attractive in a man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:10 AM
2

That's the only place where they can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:58 AM
1

Men are very picky about appearance and body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:16 AM
1

Men have high standards for appearance and body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:06 AM
1

For both genders, virginity is ideal, but if they are non-virgins, n count doesn't have any relevance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:04 AM
3

I don't understand this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:16 AM
6

Polyandry may become more popular. Trafficking of women from other countries would be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:14 AM
2

The ideal body type is the body of an NBA player.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:32 AM
6

I would recommend not saying anything unless they ask, but don't lie. Also, some women like to be virginity collectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:59 AM
3

I predict the Dobbs decision will make people more sexually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:42 AM
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B. it wrong to keep an old F-Buddy in your phone while in a new relationship... even if you're not actively talking to that person anymore? No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:43 AM
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. At what height is a man’s dating life hindered? Any time you are shorter than the girl. what height range is the height of the man neutral to his dating life? If you are the same height as the girl. At what height range is it an active positive factor in a man’s dating life? If you are taller than the girl. Is there an upper limit on what heights receive this positive factor? If the guy complains that the girl is too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:44 AM
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Does it boost him a couple points up the scale assuming he’s above the minimal threshold of attractiveness? And by how much? Success makes unattractive men average, and average men attractive. It takes attractive men through the stratosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:47 AM
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We actually mean intelligence like tech bros, finance bros, accomplished writers, Ivy League, and medical doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:00 AM
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He should do 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:00 PM
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I meant date without online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:46 PM
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I think dating would be easier for men in real life because online dating sounds like a sausage fest. There's only a market for dating apps because people like technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:10 PM
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Maybe men should get off online dating and just date in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:52 PM
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I would date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:50 PM
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How would that help?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:50 PM
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If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"? Being labeled a jerk is inevitable. So, what's a man like Brad supposed to do then? He needs to pursue women for ltr and not casual sex. Are men simply "jerks" for not being exclusive? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:59 PM
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Again, the males who'll end up taking it are unlikely to be the ones having sex (casual or otherwise), and the men who are having sex (causal or otherwise) won't be the ones taking it. What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:27 PM
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Women just want sexual liberation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:45 PM
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How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time, She Comes First, How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure, Sex, Your Woman and You, How to Please a Woman in and out of Bed, Women's Anatomy of Arousal, How to Please a Woman in Bed, Female Orgasm: A Simple Guide to Make Women Squirt, How to Make Her Feel Like the Most Desired Woman in Bed, How to Have Feminist Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:39 PM
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Only the guy got what he wanted. The girl wanted a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:56 PM
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I am attracted to most men from the age of 15 to 69.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:45 PM
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The issue is purely status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:04 PM
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I get attracted to men from first glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:50 PM
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Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy Every time a woman has sex her motive is to form a serious long-term relationship with the guy. despite only giving a few of the hottest men a chance. If they can, men only give the hottest women a chance, so women are essentially doing the same thing as men. Oh he ghosted me”, “he lied to me” when in reality she knew what she was getting in to. The woman assumed he wanted something serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:44 PM
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I am a member of the sex doll subreddit. These dolls are super realistic-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:31 PM
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High n women only sleep with one guy at a time. They just have accumulated a lot of men over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:30 PM
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45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and dating Women are interested at all ages. The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand Men did that to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:27 PM
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There is something wrong with you mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:31 PM
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how do you know this and I know this because I hear what men say and I agree with that sentiment myself. is that not the same thing I'm saying just in a different way? No, I am discussing women as sex objects. You are discussing paternity anxiety. Related, but completely different issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:49 PM
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Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty? I care about it, but I think that men are way too worried about it. It's the source of the thinking that a partner with a high n count is simply less valuable for monogamous relationships than a virginal one. It only plays a small part in that. The primary reason why men don't like high n women for ltr is because they see women as objects and objects lose value with more users. It's why parents would rather die than their kids, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:40 PM
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Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct? No If you want to know what sex bots would accomplish, look at sex dolls. Sex dolls are used by very few men who have difficulty getting real women and who have mental problems. So perhaps this explains why fertility rate has declined. No, it declined because people have problems like the pandemic and war in Ukraine and because casual sex is stopping women from getting married at a reasonable age. Also, people have way too much acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:29 PM
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And it could be counter-productive. What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:33 PM
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Who's socializing them to have casual sex? Society at large
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:25 PM
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will see rejection of men who show interest in them as some sort of petty revenge/ego boost They don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:01 PM
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Women are socialized to have casual sex. It doesn't come naturally to 85% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:00 PM
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So here's how the female libido works: Only 15% of women have a sex drive comparable to a man. 85% of women have a sex drive, which strength depends on their menstrual cycle. During the fertile cycle and the period itself and pregnancy, they are very horny. During the infertile part of the cycle and during breastfeeding, they are not horny. Hormonal birth control and HRT estrogen reduce sex drive. Antidepressants also kill sex drive. Women are socialized to be slutty. It doesn't come naturally t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:00 PM
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I get jealous that women can't do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:10 AM
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Women don't have to leave the workforce for men to have good jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:54 AM
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Just go for you want and hopefully it works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:03 AM
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With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on society Nothing unless they are violent incels. do you think we will see the marriage rate plummet because women don't want to deal with old male virgins and would rather stay single, Women don't mind marrying them. will women on average marry at the last possible moment hoping to get a better catch but be forced to date a left over man as a buzzer beater They do that already. How will intergender…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:43 AM
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The men would have more developed careers than that, and the woman would stay with him as he built his wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:26 AM
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I recommend the Nike slogan, "Just Do It!" No fakery needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:39 PM
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First of all, if men had to wait until marriage for sex, they would all marry between 18 and 25. Very few would wait until 35 to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:28 PM
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As a man, you need to do a better job of establishing better communication with women, so that you know your advances are wanted. I recommend verbally asking and waiting for a verbal answer. Always follow rules regarding age of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:19 PM
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Women's hypergamy is not so extreme that they would leave like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:15 PM
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Men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:37 PM
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I'm not saying that I want to return to a red pill world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:32 PM
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You think that rape has to be a crazy guy in a park or parking lot, but rape is any time a woman is forced to have sex without her permission. If the woman is unconscious during drunken sex, it's rape. Brock Turner, was a privileged Olympic-bound Stanford athlete, who was caught by two Swedish students raping a woman on a street corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:00 PM
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The only thing men would not like about women acting like red pill is a lack of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:14 PM
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First of all, no attention is better than being a slampig. Men don't date their slampig. women got the lack of attention some men experience it would be a Jonestown in every city That's not how women react when they don't get attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:57 AM
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Flagler College in St. Augustine Florida
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:11 AM
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Are humans more inclined towards polygyny? Men are, but not women. If so, should polygyny be more normalized? No. And since there are so few supermen and many women, why is it taboo for women to share the supermen if that's all they're attracted to? No one likes to share and betas would be sexually disenfranchised. The incel problem would get worse, and war and violence would become more prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:31 AM
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It's obvious that if you or the pro-choice woman faced a unwanted pregnancy. Left to your own devices, you both would choose abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:25 AM
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don't have a child, I know you don't have a child. What I mean is that if you impregnated a woman outside of wedlock, you would try to do a financial abortion if you could. If what people on this sub is so inconsequential, why do you even care to debate it here? I don't want this attitude to become mainstream in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:15 AM
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I'll cross that bridge when it comes It comes at the end of this month. Part of the reason why you want to abandon the child and its mother is because you only think of the gratification of the present, not the consequences of the future. Yours is the minority opinion even on this thread My opinion is the majority in society overall. There are women in favor of it here, with caveats for it that I agree with. Those women don't have the sense to see that they are shooting themselves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:58 AM
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What part of today do you not understand? I keep telling you that the status quo is about to change. Why are you ignoring the signs? if this is the best that can be done, it shows the lack of logical positions against my opinion You can't argue with crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:49 AM
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... not a forgone conclusion. We don't know if the blowback was enough to change their votes. Here's a reality check: the majority of the court is Catholic pro-lifers. Blowback isn't going to make them change their votes. They are religious people of principle. am discussing what the situation is currently. What part of in less than a month it will change don't you understand? is already creating traction. The fact that you cannot argue against it better than "because I say so" and tired pro-lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:34 AM
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The justices cannot change their votes between now and then? They could change their votes, but it is unlikely. I'm still talking about how things are today You weren't listening to a word I said. By the end of June, less than a month from now, Roe v. Wade will be overturned. We literally have less than a month left of the status quo. If/when that happens, this argument is moot because financial abortion is only needed if abortion is legal. Financial abortion should never be a thing regardless o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:12 AM
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The law tries to create symmetry where biological asymmetry exists. Men and women are not naturally symmetrical, yet the law still tries to treat them as such. The child support system seeks to make things symmetrical by having men share in the woman's burden. The asymmetry is already being made equal by the woman having final say Yeah right! Child support has nothing to do with pregnancy, some sort of pregnancy restitution would be an attempt to create equality. This makes no sense at all whats…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:55 AM
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They don't need to be. Pregnancy and birth are biological issues. When you get pregnant, do you go to a doctor trained by science or a priest trained in theology? While the doctor is responsible to care for you, the priest is an authority on ethical issues. the intention to have a child was. Intention doesn't matter. Results do. Society clearly does not care about two parent households as single motherhood is tacitly accepted and only increasing. Financial abortion is bad because it promotes sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:44 AM
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I'm not fine with it being asymmetrical Because women get pregnant and men don't, the situation is naturally asymmetrical. Child support makes the situation more equal, so that women don't bear the burden alone. How about we live in the present and not make forgone conclusions though? Because of the Supreme Court leak, we already know that a post-Roe world is a foregone conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:40 AM
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But some things I have said are facts, like many scientists not considering abortion murder. Scientists are not an authority on ethical issues. According to you. Sperm donors technically created a baby, but we have decided they shouldn't have to be financially on the hook. I don't care if you say "sperm banks shouldn't exist", they do and they will continue to exist. The acceptance of sperm banks has shown that society at some level accepts that father's do not absolutely have to do what you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:36 AM
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That is your opinion. You need to take the sex ed classes that I took when I was a kid. At the end of June, Roe v Wade will be overturned. What will you say then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:29 AM
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Has it ever occurred to you that everything you said is opinion as opposed to fact? He told the mother before the baby was born, What he has to say is irrelevant because he is responsible for fatherhood no matter what. She has the final say on whether she has an abandoned child or doesn't have an abandoned child No, the father has the final say because he is the one who chooses to step up to the plate or abandon his child. The law has nothing to do with morality Law must reflect morality or else…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:27 AM
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If a woman is pregnant, sex has created a baby. When you consent to sex, you consent to parenthood because sex causes parenthood to occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:19 AM
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How would they know that? They've never experienced not having a life. There's tons of sperm who never turned into a baby that never turned into a baby. What's the difference? Are we going to mourn all of the sperm that could have been life? Life begins at conception. Abortion is not murder. Abortion is murder on a lesser scale. Her choices are: she can choose to have a child be abandoned by the father which she knows will happen before the baby is even born, or she can prevent the birth. The ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:16 AM
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Sex doesn't necessarily create a baby. Have you ever taken a sex ed class before? I've had sex tons of times and haven't had a baby. And there are people who have created babies without sex That doesn't mean that sex doesn't create babies. Go back to sex ed class. Abortion decides whether the process can continue. A process which sex created. What the government decides? The judge decides it in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:08 AM
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Just explaining that marriage is too hard to obtain, so I have to settle for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:59 AM
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My cousin is a emergency room doctor, and he is engaged to a pharmacist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:24 PM
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What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? I just fantasize about sleeping with an attractive person or accidentally losing my virginity or justifying my sex life to my dad and the people at his church.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:42 PM
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Honestly, I am not the hookup type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:07 PM
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It's about how you make her feel. Not the words themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:00 PM
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OP, you want a formula, but there is no formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:54 PM
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Sex creates the baby. Abortion just kills it. Child support is supposed to contribute to child maintenance. It is not meant to cover all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:48 PM
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would rather not be born than to be born into that shitty of a situation. People who are products of rape and incest advocate against abortion because a shitty life is better than no life at all. The mother is contributing to the abandonment because she knows the father will do so and still chooses to have a baby under those conditions. The abandonment is all the father's doing, and that is what financial abortion is-abandonment. The mother only has two choices once pregnant-murder and giving bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:46 PM
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Sex, but not refusing to abort, is the direct cause of having the baby. I agree with the current law regarding how much men pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:30 PM
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choice the woman alone made. The woman didn't make the choice alone because they both chose to have sex. Sex that he probably initiated. A certain percentage of money is taken out of a man's salary to pay child support. That's just the way it is legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:00 PM
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Again, the pro-choice argument (which is what matters since financial abortions only are argued for when abortions are allowed) has settled that having sex does not mean consent to having a child. Pro-choice only applies to women, not to men because only women give birth. Most men agree with me. I meant men in general, not deadbeats who want to shirk their responsibility to women and children. The women who decide to have a child knowing it will be in a bad situation and cannot provide for it he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:44 PM
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Once you are pregnant, checkmate, game over, you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:51 AM
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I consent to having sex, but I do not consent to having my body used as an incubator for nine months. When women consent to sex, they consent to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:23 PM
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Not all pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:21 PM
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So why should some be aborted and some not. The issue is not that they should be aborted, but whether or not aborting them is permissable. What's their fault? They are faultless. And if they're not a human yet, then what's the problem with aborting them if we want to? Fetuses and embryos are human.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:20 PM
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I think the analogy brings the point across, but it's a very strange analogy that might be too bizarre for people to properly appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:15 PM
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It's fine as long as the harm to the body is not grievous or deadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:12 PM
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You mean the violinist analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:10 PM
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I only support women getting abortions if they get a condition during pregnancy that will cause serious bodily harm or death. What is it about the embryo that makes it worthy of violating the rights of others? I'm fine with preventing the implantation of embryos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:02 PM
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Where is the soul located? It's located throughout our bodies. And how do you know animals don't have it? Animals have a less advanced soul than us. What's the difference between the fetuses that are allowed to be aborted and those that aren't? Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:50 PM
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Born persons are also part of the animal kingdom, if you look hard enough. Humans are not part the animal kingdom because of their souls. That doesn't make sense. What's the difference between the fetuses that are allowed to be aborted and those that aren't? In general, abortion should not be allowed, but there are exceptions. For example, it's ok to stop embryos from implanting, but once it implants it should not be aborted. Products of incest should not be aborted if the incest was consensual,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:44 PM
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Fetuses are a step above the animal kingdom, but a step beneath already born persons. That means abortion is permissable in extreme circumstances, but in general, abortion should be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:28 PM
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You don't have to have a dangerous job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:32 PM
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What if it becomes women's choice to bear the burden alone ? That would be irresponsible. What if we give women the ways to sort this on their own ? (As it's the case in many places in the world). That would hurt children and society. Double standard : how so ? One double standard will dictate that sluttiness is ok for men, but not women. Another will say that childrearing is only a woman's responsibility. Premarital pregnancy will be seen as only the woman's fault and not the man's. There is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:31 PM
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The decision is unilateral on the woman's part, save for those ~10 minutes. Those 10 minutes will reverberate forever. Hence, men's obligations. force men to jeopardize their bodies working to support a child Men are not jeopardizing their bodies. It's just as wrong to force men to jeopardize their bodies working to support a child they didn't want as it is to force women to jeopardize their bodies carrying a pregnancy to term that they didn't want. Both of them need to take responsibility. the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:39 PM
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Financial abortion is unfair to women because it would make them bear the burden alone. It would also create gendered double standards as it relates to sex and childrearing. It also causes fathers to be devalued in comparison to mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:16 PM
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The further away from the date of conception we get, the more unilaterally responsible for the creation of the child women become. It's never unilateral. He is to help her throughout her pregnancy. Forcing men to provide the help they need is rapidly becoming an untenable prospect. There's nothing wrong with forcing men to fulfill their responsibility the same way men are forced to pay taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:51 PM
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really disagree with you. It was a thing in the 70's and 80's in my country for women to purposely have children alone, as single parents. Nothing's easier. You find a nice boyfriend or even a ONS, you get pregnant and you break up not telling him anything. You have a child of your own and no husband to bother you. Frankly, these women had their flaws but they did just fine. When choice and alternatives exist, a woman is not "left to do that alone", she was well aware or her options and she deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:43 PM
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The man has the advantage of it not being his body, and he might be able to walk away. How then, is it fair, to ask him to financially support the child and bear half it's expenses if he gets no say in whether the child is even born? Because it's his kid, and he has a responsibility to care for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:46 PM
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But apparently the only person's rights that doesn't matter is a man's. It's not that men's rights don't matter. It's that men have responsibility in addition to rights. Responsibility that they are trying to get out of. EDIT: I know those comments about it not being much has been made before. I found a comment from a thread linking to this saying the stats show most child support isn't paid or the average is low: https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2018/cb18-tps03.html Anything is be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:30 PM
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The creation of the child is not unilateral. The man helped in that. Financial abortion is selfish because men are failing to take care of their children and help women parent. We could always revisit the idea that women aren't able to be responsible for their decisions, like children, but I don't think you'd like the implications of that. That's not necessary. As Barack Obama once said, "It's not that mothers aren't doing a good job. They just need help."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:16 PM
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When women get pregnant, they only have 3 bad choices-parenting, adoption, and abortion. All of them are terrible, painful choices. but they definitely should decide for themselves if they become a parent. Men should not have a choice because that would screw over women, children, and society. or to raise the child alone in case the man refuses It's a crying shame to leave a woman to do that alone. It's also bad for society. mean, it's a hard reality but you can't just force people to have child…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:11 PM
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No, the pro-choice view of the abortion debate has already settled sex =/ child, Even if you're pro-choice, sex has to equal child because that's how children are created. By that same logic I could say what a woman wants is irrelevant. I would agree that what a woman wants is irrelevant in most cases. That's because you're a woman and have in group bias. Of course you're gonna go for "team woman", Most men agree with me. selfish desire is. Men who want financial abortion are selfish as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:52 PM
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Often the end result is a shitty upbringing in a variety of foster homes and a more difficult start in life. That would only be the situation if the kid was older. wish adoption was easy and beautiful, but it's definitely not. When the child is a baby, everyone is vying to adopt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:22 PM
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Have you heard of the Violinist analogy? I just looked it up. Do you think an embryo's rights trump the carrier's rights of bodily autonomy? I am ok with women using birth control, even if it prevents implantation, but once the embryo implants itself, the woman should be required to carry it as long as she is not a rape victim, has health problems, or is in a Jane the Virgin situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:18 PM
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An imposition on my wallet is less invasive than an imposition on my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:11 PM
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As a pro-lifer, I want to make everyone responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:10 PM
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A man should not have a choice in the matter because he has a responsibility to parent. That includes child support and spending time with the kid. If financial abortion is allowed, it is unfair because only the woman has the burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:08 PM
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She only gets that privilege because it's her body, not his.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:56 PM
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Female abortion should be denied for the sake of the child. Male abortion should be denied for the sake of children, women, and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:41 PM
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You are treating everything as though it was just the woman's choice and the man had no choice in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:12 PM
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Men just want to have sex without consequences. That's not how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:09 PM
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That's why I am happy about the Supreme Court leak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:06 PM
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Does it seem fair at all to you that if a woman decides to keep the baby against the father’s will, he’s also forced to pay? The father's will doesn't matter. Him being forced to pay is fair because it is his child that he created through sex. We’re treating men and fathers like second class parents: they can’t decide to keep the baby and they can’t decide to not support it financially. They are literally a 50-50 part of parenthood and yet they can’t make one single decision. That's only because…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:05 PM
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You shouldn't force a man to pay child support. It could be really traumatic for men That doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:55 AM
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It's not their child if they didn't want it, It's his child whether he wants it or not. unless you agree we should ban abortion for women as well, then your argument would be consistent. Unless they are rape victims or have a health issue, women should be barred from being able to get abortions. Child support is the consequence of men's sexual choices. Single motherhood is the consequence of women's sexual choices. Both are the consequence of both of their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:54 AM
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Fetal right to be life and financial support.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:48 AM
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All the babies surrendered under safe haven laws are being protected and cared for, but men are refusing to care for their own children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:47 AM
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The French should be ashamed of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:45 AM
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It seems to me that you think getting a girl pregnant is a solely man's decision I never said it was solely his decision. The pull out method does not work anyway. But biology doesn't care if something is fair, yet laws should. Child support makes things more fair between the sexes. it's simply doesn't make any sense that a man has no say in whether the child will be born and whether he will be hold responsible for that child - even if he was careful, EVEN if he was raped. By having sex, the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:44 AM
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A woman having to make a decision isn't influencing her. Someone said that if the woman knows a financial abortion is in the cards she could be influenced to abort. Also, you don't think 18 years of child support is traumatic for a man? I don't think he would like it but calling it traumatic is a bit melodramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:37 AM
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Baby Moses laws. The end result is adoption. As for retardation, financial abortion is retarded, and I am the only voice of reason here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:11 AM
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She is forcing him to have a child by not having an abortion and making him support it even though he doesn't want a child. Because sex causes parenthood, men are causing themselves to become fathers. Meaning a woman is forcing a man to have a child he doesn't want. What a man wants is irrelevant. Is outlawing sperm banks a mainstream conservative view? I haven't even heard them attempt to outlaw them. It is, but they prioritize it less than other issues. . So the discussion isn't with you, it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:09 AM
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The end result is adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:58 AM
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there are already countries in Europe who have it as a right. No, they don't. I looked it up. Child support is the consequence of men's sexual choices. No it's not, the woman has the final and therefore only say in whether or not a child comes to term. Your body, your choice , your responsibility. The child results from the man's sexual decision-making. Therefore, paying child support is a consequence of sex for men. Once a child is born, child support is a way for men to share in the responsibi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:56 AM
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Placing a baby for adoption is putting it in other hands, but refusal to pay child support is refusal to care for your own child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:27 AM
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Your earnings in another country are taxable to the American government.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:26 AM
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There are sperm donors who don't support their children. Men who impregnate the women they have sex with are not the equivalent of sperm donors, and sperm donation should not be allowed anyway. If a woman forces a man to have a child, She is not forcing him to do anything. He is choosing to become a father by having sex. why is it ethical to force him to support that child? By choosing to have sex, men consent to fatherhood. you are pro-life, which as I said makes this discussion useless anyway.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:23 AM
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Financial abortion is not a right. It is a way for men to try to evade responsibility for their children. You knew the risk of having sex Child support is a risk of sex for men. it's all the better that men have the right to financially opt out because it guarantees you cant ruin their life Men's lives wouldn't be ruined. They would just lose money. escape the consequences of your choices. Child support is the consequence of men's sexual choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:08 AM
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When women place a baby in a safe haven area, the baby will be placed for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:00 AM
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It is not feasible to leave the country and have an undocumented income without living in abject poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:59 AM
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That makes no sense at all whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:56 AM
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If a woman has a choice, the man should too False equivalence. If a man gets a financial abortion, and the woman can't support her child then she should do the responsible thing and abort the fetus Men have an obligation to support their own child. Aborting a fetus is evading responsibility, not doing the responsible thing. A financial abortion would basically put women in the same position as women who go to sperm donors. Use of sperm donors should not be allowed, but financial abortion would a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:56 AM
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The woman is placing the baby for adoption. The man is walking away from his responsibilities as a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:43 AM
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They are effectively placing the child for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:42 AM
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That's fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:40 AM
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None of that frees you from the obligation to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:39 AM
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think both should be allowed or neither They are not comparable though. so if fetal right to life isn't recognized by the government then they shouldn't have a problem with financial abortions except for their own checkbooks. It's also a woman's rights issue too, and a children's rights issue. So what? Still happens. Lots of people work under the table for cash. As I said, for the deadbeats, they often aren't making much anyway. So you can do wage garnishment, but it still won't be enough. Plus …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:38 AM
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What does that mean? If a woman has a choice, it nips the problem in the bud. If a man has a choice, it hurts women, children, and society. ? Why does the man having a choice void her own choice You said so yourself that the threat of financial abortion would make women more likely to abort even if it is was something that she didn't really want. The man has a choice in providing finances, so why doesn't that "choice" make sense? There's a difference between giving someone a solution to a proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:34 AM
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He can't remain indigent forever. He has to make money to support himself somehow, someway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:25 AM
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It would still be her choice to have the abortion, people wouldn't force her. But it would just be another factor in her making the decision. Right now she may do it because she thinks the father will be supportive, but if she knows he won't be then she will be more informed in making her decision. That's problematic because of the fetal right to life and because unwanted abortion is traumatic for women. Dodging child support is a crime, and you can do wage garnishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:23 AM
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You can do wage garnishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:21 AM
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Choice only makes sense when the woman has choice, not when the man has choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:20 AM
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Influencing a woman to have an abortion is wrong because of the fetal right to life, and unwanted abortion would be traumatic for women. From what I understand, if a man wants to be a deadbeat you can't get much out of him anyway for the most part so de facto financial abortion already exists. The difference now is that it is implicit rather than explicit. There are ways to force a man to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:17 AM
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Abortion of any kind should be denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:14 AM
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I think it would be a good way to accelerate the decline and overload the nanny government Why would you want to do that? What I hope will happen is that if a man chooses financial abortion, it will influence the women to go through with an abortion anyway so the government doesn't have to cover the cost of raising a child. The fetus has the right to life and paternal financial support. The issue is women aren't exactly great at making rational decisions. These financial abortion discussions pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:13 AM
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They are not abandoning the baby. They are placing it under someone else's care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:07 AM
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Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ? No. However, as I've grown older I've noticed that men do not have this option. Women naturally have it worse than men because they are the ones that get pregnant. People are quick to blame men and tell them that they shouldn't have had sex if they aren't willing to accept the consequences but doesn't that apply to women too then? I think unless she is a rape victim or has a heath problem women should be forced to give birth when they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:04 AM
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Donald Trump suffers from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:30 AM
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Would long term relationships flourish more if each person in the long term relationship deleted all their social media? That would only be true if someone is prone to cheating or retroactive jealousy. Could I depend on a modern women to delete their social media and keep it deleted Usually no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:56 AM
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I think sex is a need because I crave it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:41 AM
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If you wait until marriage to have sex you wont know if you are compatible, what guy wants to end up in a dead bedroom? If you are incompatible, you can work on it. Dead bedroom can be cured by having sex you don't want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:31 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:03 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:02 PM
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Mid 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:51 PM
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Would you reject a woman who had sex with 50 people? Have you heard of the madonna whore complex? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:32 PM
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Ladies have been rejected because they were not virgins or they had a high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:53 PM
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Honestly, I wear tight clothes that show a lot of skin, so it's not a Muslim girl situation where you don't know what your beloved looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:48 PM
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Sexual compatibility is vitally important for a healthy relationship. Then, why are men opposed to high n women for ltr, but claim they prefer virgins for ltr?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:29 PM
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Sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:26 PM
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No, I meant that high n women only get a bad attitude about men if the men reject them for their high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:16 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:13 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:12 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:10 PM
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They love them because love comes naturally to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:08 PM
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All women, regardless of n count sleep with both alphas and betas, and then settle for betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:54 PM
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It only affects it if they get rejected for high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:53 PM
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Yes, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:51 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:51 PM
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I'm not Christian any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:50 PM
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African-American
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:49 PM
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What do you mean exactly by please your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:48 PM
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N count doesn't affect how women view men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:36 AM
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I don't think it really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:27 AM
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I tell myself that so I won't be tempted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:43 AM
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I think OP wonders if having a high n count makes women have a negative attitude toward men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:43 AM
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I masturbate almost every day, sometimes multiple times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:33 AM
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I assume sex is pleasurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:30 AM
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They feel the same way any other woman feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:29 AM
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STDs and sex before marriage aren't correlated at all Yeah right. Social stigma from who Everyone. is it right to deprive yourself of a basic right just because of stigma? Honestly, I don't even know if sex is pleasurable. what's RMV? Relationship Market Value
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:22 AM
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STDs, social stigma, less RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:10 AM
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The consequences are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:54 AM
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I think it's a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:50 AM
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I'm just a product of my conservative Christian upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:18 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:46 AM
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I am between a 4 and a 6 depending on how much effort I put into my appearance. What has dating been like for you? I went on a movie date with a guy when I was 28. Then I went on a Chinese dinner and walk in the park date when I was 29. That's the only dating I have done my whole life. Dating has been hard, not because of my appearance, but because no one wants to wait until marriage before sleeping with me. Do you not get men when you use online dating? I don't do online dating. Do you not get …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:42 PM
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You are welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:29 PM
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Women have the pick of the litter. Only true of Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:26 PM
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Men can actively pursue people, but women have to sit pretty and hope the right man comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:37 PM
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Only men can date with intention. Women can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:47 PM
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Everyone talks about this as though women have a lot of control over something that is a function of pure luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:22 PM
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I think it may be better to talk to multiple people until a relationship gets more serious. Then, be exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:05 PM
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I am not disputing that it would be quicker to pursue multiple people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:56 PM
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She provides companionship, sex, children, domesticity, and a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:49 PM
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The issue that I had was he used the term forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:48 AM
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I think men do everything they do because a woman is the greatest benefit package that a man could have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:28 AM
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Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR, I don't think that is true. yet they are shamed for it by women who want to feel special creating a very frustrating situation for men. Men don't like multi-daters either. The unfortunate reality is that most women are taken, especially those we are attracted to I don't think that is true. Consequently, men are forced to approach dozens and dozens of girls and be talking to at least 4 or 5 at a time if he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:44 PM
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The only reason why I make them equal is because during rape a vagina can't function sexually like it should and it gets wounds, especially if the woman is postmenopausal. Even if wounds are worse in anal, the threat of pregnancy makes anal rape and vaginal rape equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:48 AM
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So why women don't desire on average as much as man to do a sexual action that they usually enjoy even in initial unconsensual contexts? Women have less testosterone. Again, if your argument is that passive penetration is the main issue, at this point you should admit that women are anatomically less likely to enjoy sex than men do because of evolutionary reasons This has nothing to do with anything in the whole conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:41 AM
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Do you think that other women enjoy penetrative sex consensually yes or not? Yes why so many men are still more inclined to enjoy such action even in scenario that are initially not consensual. woman that rub her clitoris on a man body, genitalia or face without initial consent will be also considered as sexual assault but many men also will not see necessary this episode as a negative thing and this is why you wouldn't have used this type of example, because you know that even equivalent action…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:11 PM
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I think the other poster is saying that sodomy is a poor analogy because a vagina is meant to take a penis. An anus needs a lot of lube and preparation. Even if a vagina is meant to take a penis, it still will get injuries from rape because rape victims often don't get adequate lubrication in the vagina and vaginas don't stretch or tent to accommodate penises if they don't want the sex. This leads to tearing, bleeding, and abrasions. Vaginas need natural lube that comes from preparation. If vagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:34 PM
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So if men also like penetrative sex when consesual, then why men are more likely to enjoy sex even if they are forced to (if this is not the case, you could atleast ask them)? I am talking about myself, not other women. I have a greater capacity to enjoy sex than other women. If this wasn't the case, then why make an example with men being penetrated instead to be forced to have typical heterosexual intercourse ? 😐 I think forced sodomy is the only way men can suffer from sexual assault the way …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:18 PM
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While it is true that the vagina is meant for penetration, the vagina doesn't always experience adequate lubrication during rape. Women are less likely to have a adequate sexual response during rape than during consensual sex. Heterosexual rape is worse for women than men because of harsher consequences and a greater chance of genital injury, especially after menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:59 PM
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I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:26 PM
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If a man vaginally rapes a woman, her vagina will be torn to shreds. She might even need stitches, which is the same situation that a man who was anally raped would be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:34 PM
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Under your logic, due to the dinamics of passive penetrative sex, women have an anatomy that lead them to enjoy less frequently sexual intercourse than men do (since you know that if you ask men to have active penetrative sex you will get a quite different response). I assume that if I had penetrative sex with a man that I would enjoy it every time as long as it's consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:24 PM
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Do men evolved to enjoy typical penetrative sex? yes or not? Yes Do women evolved to enjoy typical penetrative sex? yes or not? Yes So why using with one sex a dinamic that they may enjoy in a normal consensual context (and they are usually meant to enjoy) and with the other using a dinamic that they would not have enjoyed even in a normal consensual context anyway? The whole point is too make parallels between types of sex that neither would enjoy. enjoy less typical sexual intercourse/coitus I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:36 PM
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You seem to think that vaginal rape is as physically pleasurable as consensual vaginal sex. It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:46 AM
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Only physically traumatic during rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:16 AM
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It is when it's rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:14 AM
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Op indeed didn't completely reverse the question: she modify the question to make it look as negative as possible. If the previous question was about asking to women if they would tolerate sexual harassment in exchange for getting all the attention that they want from men, then she would have asked the same question without need to add anything else. That's just how women see unwanted attention. Unless you argue that men are unattractive (which will put into question the Heterosexuality of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:55 AM
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Vaginal rape is physically traumatic, not just emotionally traumatic. Whether or not the rapist is gentle is irrelevant, but unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:50 AM
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Forced vaginal sex is nothing like consensual vaginal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:45 AM
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She mentioned sodomy because if another man sodomized you against your will that would be equal to the trauma that women experience with vaginal rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:14 PM
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Which is not the average scenario, since the average scenario is that average men give unwanted attention towards average women. It's very common for men to shoot above their league, especially as it relates to age. her hypothetical is indeed overcomplicated No, she made everything simple. You made it complicated. Many men would likely say no because they are indeed heterosexual, in fact many men (not all) will think a little bit more about that if it involve heterosexual sex. OP mentioned a hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:11 PM
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unpredictable, greasy, ugly and aggressive ogres She is alluding to unwanted attention from unattractive men. You kinda made everything complicated to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:34 PM
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OP mentioned sodomy because it's equal to women's risk of vaginal rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:21 PM
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Very single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 08:18 PM
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So how valid or invalid is this Freudian theory? Apparently, it's valid for everyone but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:48 PM
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They are not attracted the same as Chad, but they can love him more than Chad. If he doesn't know he was settled for, that is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:54 PM
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I know women who are happily married to men that they settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:50 PM
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You can love those you settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:41 PM
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Their tastes are either different than yours, or they are perverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:38 AM
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It's like going to the University of Iowa instead of Harvard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:16 AM
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but she doesn't find him attractive. There is no love, they only want attention and validation There are different grades of men. You can be attracted to a lower grade of man and love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:54 PM
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Stop comparing college's to a woman's love???? It's a crude analogy, but women approach men the same way they approach college. Oh boy that's some good devotion from a woman that doesn't love you. Women do love the betas they settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:31 PM
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How can a man that has been settled with be loved A man that has been settled for is like going to the University of Iowa when you wanted to go to Harvard. You can be happy at the University of Iowa even if it is not as good as Harvard. look at the divorce rates... Divorce rates are not because he is Plan B, but because women can't tolerate his annoying quirks. can't tell if you are religous and want people to till marriage/later in LTR? Very true. you are some crazy feminist that hates men? Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:56 PM
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Plan B isn't loved. No, he's loved. Plan B guys generally aren't having sex until they are finally given a chance for the LTR. It should be that way with all guys. Plan B guys are treated like trash and are expected to suck it up. They get a lifetime of devotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:22 PM
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You are laughing, but I once heard of a woman, who had 64 sex partners. I could never get that many partners because I am not as hot as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:07 PM
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I'm not saying it's ideal, but a man needs to do the best he can. I'm sure being settled with, not really loved, plan B. He is going to have a great time. When men ltr an alpha's ex, they are doing that because they can't do any better. I will answer it now. Women don't go for him from the start even though he is a perfect ltr because he is not the best on the market. Women want to do their best, not their second best. Glad you agree (again) on the Dual Mating Strategy. This is different from du…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:04 PM
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First, why would any guy want to be plan B? I'm not saying it's ideal, but a man needs to do the best he can. Women do NOT love these men, You can love and build a good life with a Plan B guy. Second, You also didn't answer my question "Why wouldn't women go after this guy from the start? He is the perfect LTR for them?" I will answer it now. Women don't go for him from the start even though he is a perfect ltr because he is not the best on the market. Women want to do their best, not their seco…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:27 PM
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You keep agreeing with me.... I disagree that women divide men into categories: good genes and provider. They go for the invisible guy that is LTR material and treats him differently then the last guys. Because guess why, he's a provider. No, him being a provider is not the basis of his appeal. He is a Plan B because he is less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:41 PM
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He's not feminine.The only thing attractive about him is money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:22 PM
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This theory is inaccurate because women don't divide men into those categories. Women simply date and sleep with the most high quality man they can get that they can also get to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:21 PM
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That's not a dual mating strategy. It's just dating the best man you can get that you can also get to propose. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:57 PM
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It's ok to try to aim for the most attractive guy that you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:53 PM
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I don't believe in dual mating strategy. I think it was rude for him to tell her she was less attractive than before. Men need to understand that there are men that are more attractive than them, and it's ok if your SO did better for herself when she was younger than she did now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:52 PM
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Dual. Mating. Strategy. Women don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:11 PM
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Russell Brand and kpop isn't feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:06 PM
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doesn't really find him attractive. She would never date you if she did not find you attractive. see it more as slept with one guy first date, we have been dating for 3 months and nothing. Less sex is the price men have to pay for low body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:52 PM
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Women aren't conniving enough to do dual mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:30 PM
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Taller than me, clear skin, nice hair, nice teeth, wiry, athletic, or muscular build, masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:49 AM
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Thanks for the kind reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:41 AM
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Men who would hold sex against women should not be allowed to have sex until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:39 AM
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If that's how you are going to treat high n women, you should not be getting laid until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:12 AM
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I'm a conservative religious Republican woman, and I don't shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:26 AM
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Why are you blaming yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:45 PM
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If men care about n count, they should not get sex until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:37 PM
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It means that they cannot pair bond. High n count women have an enhanced ability to pair bond because of oxytocin. woman with a high N is not worth committing to because she has low standards. A woman with a high N count got a high N count by opening her legs for anything and everything. High n count women only have sex with men they are attracted to. They simply are in high demand like Chad is. Like Chad, they get a lot of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:28 PM
5

They don't have poor character. They are just a product of our current age. They are not any worse than men character wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:21 PM
1

Women wanted what men had.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:22 PM
1

this dating market is the result of women getting what they said they wanted. Women are not getting what they want at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:28 AM
1

Do -good- girls fall for bad boys? The only way I see that occurring is virginal women will often marry guys with high n counts. Or do only people with issues attract and enable each other? I would say that is true. As a part 2) Does this pattern continue with women after a certain age? Like 21 or 25 do women generally just stop falling for bad dysfunctional people? They usually stay like this forever, but I have seen Christians find better mates after a conversion experience. Why attractive men…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:31 PM
3

I would feel abused if a man treated me that way during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:18 PM
3

its self inflicted though. Men always got to blame women for everything. if women werent so deluded with so many options they do not really have, That's what happens when you chase women for casual sex, but not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:16 PM
1

Yeah, I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:02 AM
5

This explains all the women who claimed that a guy changed after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:11 AM
4

Women who like choking during sex are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:10 AM
4

Why would you think it's not getting overturned?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:30 AM
3

Did you hear about the leaked draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:38 AM
3

I think that women might become more chaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:35 AM
7

Imagine being able to choose when you have multiple people in your “sex rotation” and them all being people that you find attractive and able to please you in bed. No offense at all, you’re just taking advantage of a system that benefits you, but talk about women’s privilege Yeah right!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:23 AM
3

If men didn't initiate sex with women that they didn't want a relationship with, this would not be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:02 AM
22

The lie of sexual liberation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:37 PM
1

This is the dumbest thing that I have read in a long while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:48 AM
17

You can get the first 2 from a guy who wants just sex. No, you can't. "Just sex" doesn't have to literally mean only sex. That's what it means though. Stability, well you got a job for that and your friends and family I assume are quite stable in your life. Emotional stability. Partnership, what like a business partnership? No, romantic partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:07 AM
2

But what does a "relationship" entail exactly A relationship is serious dating that leads to marriage and formation of a family. what part of a relationship can't you get from other aspects of your life? Romance and sex and procreation why is it so much more different to sex? Just sex is without commitment and is unsafe for the woman. You can have some hot and intimate sex even with a man who wants just sex. You can kiss and cuddle after sex and watch a movie together afterwards. As women, we th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:04 AM
2

The article you cited never distinguished between male and female teachers. The whole sex thing is just a few nut jobs. Males are just less prone to being teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:13 PM
4

A sense of humor is helpful, but not integral.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:06 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:10 PM
3

A big well-shaped butt is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:26 PM
1

I don't know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:20 PM
1

Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:52 AM
1

I'm a very religious person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:40 AM
1

The women where are atheists?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:35 AM
2

What if the high quality people stay in the dating market longer ? May be good for men but not women. If you stay in the market too long, your value can depreciate, especially for women. Is it possible that you can become so successful and attractive that you limit your own dating pool ? If you are picky, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:53 PM
1

Why would you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:45 PM
1

And you post like an incel. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:44 PM
1

Dairy makes you tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:29 PM
2

When girls lie, they usually don't say they are a virgin though. Guys just don't have the patience to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:08 PM
1

I'm not Christian, so I don't believe in that Bible verse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:44 PM
1

It all depends on the individual person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:31 PM
1

A lot of the guys they reject I would kill for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:04 PM
1

It's ok, but it's mind boggling the options they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:02 PM
1

That may be true, but most women want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:56 PM
1

Those women are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:23 PM
0

You can approach women anywhere except work, but women don't like to be approached because they are spoilt for choice and you aren't their type.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:22 PM
1

What is this supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:14 PM
2

OP never said they were engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:12 PM
1

I'm a 37 year-old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:06 PM
1

what about prostitution That's about money. what about fucking in a club bathroom, That's about marriage. I mean I guess you could say with the intent in the same way that people play the lottery with the "intent" to become a billionaire maybe that is what you mean? Yes, that is what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:05 PM
1

Second, she’s being a hypocrite in using her faith as an excuse for sleeping with some men, and not others She just wasn't able to live up to her values because maintenance of virginity is hard. The dude deserves to find a woman who genuinely is sexually attracted to and desires him, and wants to have sex with him. She is sexually attracted and desires him, but she has self-control. He shouldn’t be a sexless simp to a selfish, religious hypocrite After they get married, she will be at his sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:03 PM
1

What is this supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:58 PM
1

And that's what her fiancé should do, too. He has an obligation to wait until marriage before having sex. see only hypocrisy by suddenly not wanting sex because she found her religious side It's not hypocrisy. It's her living up to her Christian values. Repentance means what now? Repentance means celibacy because God hates premarital sex. Women (and men) have every right to have premarital sex and not be condemned for it. Then, be willing to have serious relationships with high n count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:57 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:51 PM
2

That's assuming they marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:51 PM
1

Women always have sex for the purpose of enticing men into marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:50 PM
1

She had the sex buddy for the purpose of enticing him into marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:49 PM
1

The sexual revolution and feminism socialized women to be slutty. then there would be no secular women in sexually open societies waiting for marriage, and there would be no religious women having sex with before marriage That's very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:47 PM
2

it’s someone looking to clean up appearances before they get married so they can look like the ultimate great white Christian girl even though the lifestyle they’ve been living so far is anything but. No one would do that though because men are unwilling to wait for marriage even for a virgin like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:44 PM
3

Women have high body count because they kept sleeping with guys they weren't married to. Premarital celibacy is the only way to keep body count low.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:40 PM
0

Slutty women have been socialized to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:37 PM
4

People mock me for my virginity all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:36 PM
2

No no she has always been Christian, even when she was sleeping with other men. There's nothing wrong with becoming more devout in her faith. Of course she’s a hypocrite. Poor bastard needs to get out asap and find someone who actually finds him attractive and wants to have sex with him. Don't be so hard on her. Being a 37 year-old virgin is hard to do. Men have a moral obligation to wait for a woman who wants to wait. Refusing sexual advances takes practice like any skill. She has simply gotten…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:34 PM
1

Male virginity is a prize. If we save it for you, we want you to save it for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:27 PM
3

God
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:11 PM
5

She is a recent convert to Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:10 PM
3

The body count will be even higher if she doesn't maintain her celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:09 PM
3

Men are required to save their virginity for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:08 PM
1

I'm pretty sure she intends to remain faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:06 PM
1

I'm not a troll. Just your typical 37 year-old virgin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:05 PM
0

Sexually pure but is okay fucking other guys in her moments of “weakness”??!! 😉 She's only been sexually pure with him, but she slept with other guys before she became a Christian. That's called conversion. just means he isn’t attractive enough That's not the issue at all. The issue is her Christian conversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:04 PM
2

Before this guy, she was dating for marriage. This rule applies to both genders, but only men want to break it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:01 PM
2

You think only virgins should be allowed to wait because there's no benefit to you personally if she is not a virgin, but if you believe in chastity as a virtue, you want sexually experienced women to be chaste too. hate hypocrites, that's all. No, hypocrisy here, but true repentance. . If she were a virgin it's okay to wait to have sex, since she isn't close to being one there is no meaning to not have sex now. Women are not allowed to have premarital sex regardless of their sexual history. Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:00 PM
1

By make a change, I meant be chaste like me even if you weren't chaste in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:53 PM
1

And if promiscuous women are allowed the same privilege as virgin women, is there any point in remaining a virgin? You don't have to date her if you don't want to, but you are morally obligated to wait for a woman who wants to wait. The point in remaining a virgin is to be more attractive to men, but that has not worked for me. Just sleep with every guy when you are young and when you think you want to get married, just decide that from now on you are a good Christian girl and will not have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:46 PM
-1

Pretty much yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:38 PM
4

Evolution does not impact women's behavior. Socialization does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:37 PM
2

What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:33 PM
5

I think she had a radical spiritual experience that makes her want to conform to Christian sexual mores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:31 PM
1

In my world, that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:21 PM
1

Evangelical
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:19 PM
2

People marry for money, This guy is probably middle class. That only happens to rich people. I would not be surprised if she seeks sex outside marriage If she did that, she would do it with her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:18 PM
6

It's been equally hard in both decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:11 PM
1

That's what I was taught at church as a young woman in my late teens/early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:09 PM
0

It's an improvement though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:08 PM
7

am sorry that you are single but I don't think my attitude is the reason why I'm single because men pay lip service to virgin women like me, but don't want to wait for such women. do attach a weight to the past actions of a woman, and if she has been "around" she has lost the privilege of making me wait, however pure her motives could be. I don't care. Making you wait prevents her from having even more of a past. Making you wait isn't a privilege, but a moral obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:07 PM
2

You're looking at the wrong places. Dating apps are not a thing to look for marriage candidates without having sex first. ​ I have never used a dating app in my life. actually know a lot of Christian guys, good looking, intelligent, very nice personality, who stayed virgin till marriage and who else never had a gf before meeting their now wives. Of course you need to look at church for such guys. I had been very active in church until the age of 32 when I decided that I wanted to convert to Juda…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:30 PM
3

Unless you get brainwashed and change your behaviour 180). Well, clearly that's what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:25 PM
2

Those guys are hard to come by and may as well not exist because they don't pursue me. Only guys who want casual sex pursue me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:06 PM
3

When I was a evangelical Christian, I was taught that all sin is equally bad, so premarital sex is as bad as murder. Also, premarital sex leads to abortion, which is murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:05 PM
5

It's irrelevant because non-virgins are obligated to be celibate in the same way that virgins like me are obligated to be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:03 PM
2

This woman is a new convert to Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:01 PM
1

Then, men need to act like it, but as a virgin, men have not been willing to wait for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:59 PM
8

she doesn't get to pretend she is now a virgin, because she is not one She never pretended though. She has been thoroughly honest and straightforward about her sexual history. She has had her share, doesn't need it so much anymore, She probably has a strong sex drive. She just chooses to deny the pleasures of the flesh. so for her there is no price to pay for this "pretend virginity". She probably is not getting her sexual needs met, and she never pretended to be a virgin. All the price is paid …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:57 PM
0

Everyone prizes virgins, but a born again virgin is the virgin's first cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:45 PM
2

Religion, boundaries, and other arbitrary rules get broken or forgotten when it suits people. You should not just assume that. she valued him more highly, she would have sex with him, period. He can and should do better for himself. That's why high n count women are inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:39 PM
5

If she were in her 20's and an actual virgin, this might work. But with her age and sexual history, most men won't wait for marriage with her. When I was a virgin in my twenties, men didn't want to wait for me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:47 AM
0

She's got a Madonna-Whore complex That's a male only phenomenon. going to give him a dead bedroom. Her sexual frustration from waiting will make her want to sleep with him after marriage, and Christian women are not allowed to refuse a husband's sexual advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:45 AM
7

. If the girl is a virgin, it makes sense to wait because she's worth it, but if she's been run a train over there's nothing rational about this, she has lost the right to ask you to wait until marriage and you need to dump her. This just goes to show that you value virgin women as sex objects, not that you value chastity as a virtue unto itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:38 AM
1

she outlined how women use religion to control men. Christianity mandates that the man be in charge. Your friend is definitely going to get cheat on Her current chastity is practice for fidelity in marriage. He actions already prove she doesn’t desire him, she can restrain herself from getting with him. She desires him. She just has self-control. She isn’t a virgin. Her actions show she didn’t make these rules for people in the past and she even had casual ongoing sex with other men not even too…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:34 AM
2

Yes, women will lie and omit details to get relationships. That's not what is happening here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:18 AM
5

If you're not a virgin in the first place, you don't get to play pretend. She is not pretending. She has had what my former pastor called "a genuine conversion."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:16 AM
5

Unless she had some life-changing event that inspired her renewed faith, there's no way she went from having an FWB 6 months ago straight to no-sex-before-marriage. Well, what do you think happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:14 AM
8

You just don't have Christian values.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:13 AM
3

That's not how women operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:11 AM
4

The past doesn't matter though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:11 AM
4

Christianity is so anti-premarital sex that it's a very good analogy. In Christianity, premarital sex is just as sinful as murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:09 AM
1

God was never a priority until now so he can wait a while longer. On the other hand I personally would never date a girl where I am not her priority. God is a little higher on the totem pole than you are. And I agree they should break up. What she's doing is mental. This attitude in men is why I as a virgin can't find a Boyfriend, and why high n count women are inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:07 AM
1

God was never a priority until now so he can wait a while longer. On the other hand I personally would never date a girl where I am not her priority. God is a little higher on the totem pole than you are. And I agree they should break up. What she's doing is mental. This attitude in men is why I as a virgin can't find a Boyfriend, and why high n count women are inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:07 AM
4

You think it's too late because you value virgin women as sex objects, but not chastity as a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:03 AM
4

So what does it matter then if she has sex with just one guy more? It's too late for her, anyway. In Christianity, it's never too late to make a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:01 AM
21

Christianity is very anti-premarital sex regardless of sexual history. In Christianity, it's never too late to make a change. There's also the belief that premarital chastity even if you had sex before improves marital sex. It's believed premarital sex makes marital sex worse. She obviously likes sex so not to have sex with her "favorite" guy suddenly is totally crazy. Christianity doesn't believe in logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:59 AM
3

It matters from a values standpoint. Also, men value low body count. Low body count is produced by waiting until marriage even if you had sex before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:51 AM
5

Her previous sex life is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:49 AM
2

AF/BB is not a real phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:48 AM
1

That's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:47 AM
-9

She desires him. She is just sexually pure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:47 AM
7

I know so many women and couples like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:45 AM
1

I need men after all because the vibrator is external.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:00 AM
1

My sex drive is ever present but so is my vibrator, which gives me less trouble than dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:26 AM
1

My sex drive is strong but masturbating is the answer. All fun. No risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:22 AM
2

Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:20 AM
0

Vast majority of women wear some form of makeup daily Makeup can only cover up redness and decorate the face. It can rarely make a woman any prettier beyond covering redness. just wear the shoe insoles. Men should be able to wear those shoes, fake beard, wig whatever without shame Honesty is important even if it means a worse dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:42 PM
1

Exactly, so don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:29 PM
0

That's different from wearing it to appear taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:24 PM
-4

The shoes are a deception, and the surgery is risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:00 PM
2

If I’m a person with low sociosexuality and don’t really care about sex outside of the context of a relationship, does it make more sense to find someone on the same page Find someone on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:48 PM
0

height, Shoes with large inner soles can give 2/3inches in height. If all else fails it might actually be better for your long term happiness to get height increasing surgery. Date a shorty instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:45 PM
-3

Bald might be fixable with the right products. Short can be fixed by dating shorter than yourself. Ugly can be fixed by dating your looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:39 PM
0

At the end of the day, you can't change our nature
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:54 PM
0

This takes minimal experience to understand. It doesn't take minimal experience to understand. You just see women as cars with depreciating value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:52 PM
1

Pianos are played by the player. Men tend to be the ones to drive and initiate sex. Furthermore, again, sex is driven by interpersonal connection. Not number of partners. Women need a lot of practice to know what they are doing. Women with a lot of practice know what to do in bed. Their starfish phase is over. Oxytocin ensures that women never lose the ability to bond with a partner in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:56 AM
1

No, being high N count ensures lack of capability to form lasting bonds. Many, many studies have been done on this topic. It's associated with a ridiculous number of health risks, especially sex addiction High N count is associated with damaged dopamine pathways and poor interpersonal connection ability. This only applies to men, not women. Furthermore...I'm surprised you would think sexual experience via number count correlates to sexual skill. A high n count woman is like a pianist who has pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:09 AM
1

I'm okay with men having their preferences. Why wait till marriage for a woman with whom you may not enjoy the sex? Men always enjoy sex no matter what. Being fat does not screw you as a woman. You can literally just lose weight. And any unattractive woman is plenty capable of looking attractive These things seem changeable, but really are not. Men gotta settle for either waiting until marriage for sex or being with a high n count woman because waiting until marriage keeps n count low, but being…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:30 AM
1

I prefer masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:50 AM
1

A suburb of Chicago called Hazel Crest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:01 AM
3

Women can not put two and two together like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:36 AM
8

The forever girlfriend is used for her resources too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:35 AM
1

Have u ever talked to a woman in your life? All the women I know are virginal, celibate, or in a monogamous sexual relationship. or even on a college campus??? When I was in college, all the women were virginal, celibate, or in a monogamous sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:07 AM
1

Huh, here I thought all you redditors were trying to push the agenda that women want casual sex as much as men..... That's what everyone wants women to be like, but that's not what women are really like. but should they wait for a celibate girl? Who the fuck would want to do that? Waiting for a celibate woman would yield the result of women having low n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:01 AM
1

The sexual revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:32 PM
4

CHAD pursues women for casual sex because he has a massive amount of options. The average Joe would (and does) committ, but is totally invisible to women. The average Joe acts just like Chad. Virgin/celibate women are almost completely non-existent in the west after age 15/16. They exist and are overlooked because of this assumption. Make a profile on Tinder as a fat woman and see how many matches you get in a 24-hour period. Now try the same experiment with an average looking guy. The matches w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:05 PM
1

All men pursue women for casual sex rather than dating, not just the top tier men, but all of them act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:54 PM
1

Here's what you are not taking into account: 1) Only serious relationships matter to women. Casual sex doesn't matter. 2) Lying about N count and stringing men along takes care of 1-3. Not like there is an N count section in your profile. Women can't really pull that off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:51 PM
7

why would you wait for a celibate female? that’s idiotic imo ⁠Men pursue women for casual sex rather than dating. true ⁠Men don't want to wait until marriage if they are dating a virgin/celibate female. that’s generally the case for ugly and some average looking virgins. ⁠Men have an aversion to high n count women for serious relationships. rightfully so Men pursuing women for casual sex rather than dating, men being unwilling to wait until marriage for virgins that are less than 7s, and men ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:47 PM
50

That's not it at all. Dating is hard for women for the following reasons: 1) Men pursue women for casual sex rather than dating. 2) Men don't want to wait until marriage if they are dating a virgin/celibate female. 3) Men have an aversion to high n count women for serious relationships. 4) Men don't want women past a certain age. 5) Fat or unattractive women are screwed because looks is what men primarily care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:02 PM
1

Myron?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:56 PM
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The idea that female pleasure doesn't matter because it is not necessary to create life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:29 AM
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neoliberal. His views on women's sexuality don't sound liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:00 PM
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Bailing before the baby is born = abortion possible and child future isn't affected. What is this supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:34 PM
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It is if it's a kid's book, and you're not reading to a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:12 PM
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I don't care if he plays videogames as long as he fulfills his responsibilities, but I still think it's a childish activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:34 PM
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I don't see what difference it makes whether he bails before or after the baby is born because bailing is bailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:24 PM
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You distinguish between him bailing before versus after the baby is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:03 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:02 PM
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Only if you are irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:53 PM
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The second paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:34 PM
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Men are supposed to emotionally support us during the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:31 PM
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This is a misandrist response because it pretends that men are always reckless or that they always stealth or have “soft harems”. I'm not saying every man does these things. I'm just saying that men have a moral obligation to avoid sex with a non-wife in order to avoid these issues. Most men fall short of this moral standard by having sex with ladies that aren't their wife. In extreme circumstances, they do soft harems and stealth. Any sexually active woman will tell you that trying to convince …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:21 PM
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The woman should not have a choice in the matter because fetuses have the right to life. Abortion is traumatic if you don't want it. It is not fair for consequences to fall only on the woman because the man had sex too, and it is unfair for sex to only have consequences for women, but not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:54 PM
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Her decision to abort is different from a man's decision to abort because she is ending the problem. The man is making the problem worse by passing off his financial responsibility to another. The woman only has multiple choices because it is primarily her problem. if the father doesn't want it she can still have the baby and deal with it, it's her choice after all. What the father wants is irrelevant for 2 reasons: 1) He caused the problem by having sex and not using condoms. 2) The financial n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:48 PM
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With all due respect, I don't think you have thought this through.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:21 AM
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That's not reasonable at all because it screws over the woman, the child, and society. It sends the message that pregnancy and childrearing are exclusively a woman's responsibility, that fathers and men aren't important in a child's life, and premarital sex is ok for men, but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:19 AM
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Why is the man's interest not as important as a woman's while considering abortion? In the case of a woman choosing to give birth, this issue still affects women more than men. don't know what's up with USA's laws right now) You can't get an abortion in Texas. Abortion is generally available nationwide, but soon the Supreme Court will overturn Roe v. Wade. When this happens, there will be states where you can get an abortion and states where you can not get one. Why does a man not get the same c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:09 AM
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Men should have to pay for the bastards they created.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:03 AM
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For men who consent to sex, how are they consenting to parenting? Sex leads to parenting. Therefore, when you consent to sex, you consent to parenting. Is it only consent to parenting when it's a man? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:02 AM
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I'm not saying they are all deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:13 PM
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First, I had underactive thyroid and was put on levothyroxine. I shot up to 236 pounds. Then, I took a supplement named berberine that caused overactive thyroid. I lost 50 pounds. I took methimazole to treat it and gained all the weight back. As far as my weight is concerned, I say fuck it and call it a day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:02 PM
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Then all women would be shitty for having sex because this issue can happen with any man you have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:58 PM
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It also screws over society and leads to gendered sexual double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:39 PM
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That's the whole problem. My thyroid is messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:35 PM
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Any guy a woman sleeps with can be a shitty man if he's a deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:34 PM
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Women are modeling their behavior after men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:43 PM
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women knew men could not be forced to pay it may make them think twice and actually lower the number of single moms around, reducing the impact on the state. Consequences don't stop women from having sex. Furthermore, if the US only taxed those damn billionaires a bit more, there would be greater social safety nets, education and even contraception available to keep single motherhood low. That's not fair to them. But, the state needs desperate, poor people to do the menial labour for a minimum w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:30 PM
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Sex leads to child creation, so men have a responsibility to financially care for children he created.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:25 PM
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Shouldn't the mother provide the resources then if abortion is a woman's right and a choice? She kinda has to provide resources anyway. Men have no place in that choice, therefore the burden of financial responsibility should also be on the woman It will cause gender inequality and sexual double standards if men don't have to pay financially when they impregnate a woman. It's also bad for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:23 PM
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The only valid point you make is about the rape victim, but for men who consent to sex, none of your points are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:04 PM
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Genetics means I can't get that body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:29 PM
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That's good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:10 PM
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All I know is what I have been taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:42 PM
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Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? I actually heard the opposite was true. seems that single women are less likely to seek for a relationship than single men Women seeking a relationship is not socially acceptable. Aldo divorced/widowed women are less likely to remarry than male counterparts. Lack of opportunity Why are men more likely to want relationships? Women want relationships more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:36 PM
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I once heard some escorts say they don't want to be sacrificed for the sake of the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:44 PM
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Ok now it sounds as if you're simply trolling I'm not trolling. I am just a alt right conservative woman. If you're making fun of idiot redpill men who spew such shit then bravo. I'm not mocking red pill men. They don't say stuff like this. They are not that smart. If you're seriously a 37 year old virgin then I can assure you that this is nonesense. I read about this stuff in articles. Why is it so hard to believe that I am a 37 year-old virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:43 PM
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All I know is what I hear everyone say, which is that if I have sex with a man my brain will release oxytocin. The oxytocin will emotionally bind me to a jerk who is just using me as sex doll. Then, he will dump me and break my little heart into a million pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:34 AM
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Role models are not a good substitute for a parent of each gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:05 AM
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I'm a woman who is a 37 year-old virgin. I'm a woman, I can assure you that it's possible for women to have sex without romantic feelings Maybe you can do that at first, but oxytocin always gets in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:01 AM
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What is a woman? An adult female human. And what is that eldritch knowledge that a father with a youtube tutorial can not pass? Did I want my dad to take me bra shopping or help me with my period or talk to me about chastity and dating and sleeping with men? Can a single mother raise a son or does she need a man role model to take over "manly issues" in upbringing? Children get messed up without a dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:27 AM
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What do you think of single men who used surrogacy to have children without a wife? That behavior is inappropriate. If you are straight, there is no excuse. But what would be the consequences of raising a child without a mother? It only works if the child is male. Female children need a female role model to help them with womanly issues. There are many fatherless children and they are well Yeah right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:53 AM
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Guys want a virgin until she doesn't have sex with him. That's my problem with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:30 PM
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He was only raped legally. As Republican politicians would say, it was not a legitimate rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:28 PM
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I'm a 37 year old virgin. Women either respect that or praise me for it. Men, however, are the ones who give me trouble over my virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:19 PM
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OP sees everything as a transaction. That's the real issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:09 PM
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Cared for how? It doesn't have to be concrete. It's a feeling. What exactly would she be needing money for? It's not about money. Why would any man financially support a woman to sit at home all day on her ass? He wouldn't. She would probably be a great career woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:41 PM
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You really explained this well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:17 PM
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It doesn't make sense for you to think a woman would not want a provider or to be cared for just because she is child free.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:56 AM
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All conservative women think like this whether they can get a man or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:25 AM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:40 AM
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You used her without giving her anything meaningful in return. I meant that sex without romance or commitment lacks meaning for women. Free dinner (she's not well off financially), companionship, and a friend to confide in. A peddler of false hope You say this because you are projecting your own experiences on to me, I have no experience at all. I am a virgin. but in reality this girl adores me because I uplift and support her when so many people in her life, many of which are supposed to be her…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:12 AM
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Sex causes women to become emotionally dependent on a man. So one day she will need you romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:04 AM
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Am I asshole for having her as a fwb too? LOL Yes, because you are probably going to hurt her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:12 AM
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How in the world did I take advantage of her? You used her without giving her anything meaningful in return. Am I supposed to see into the future like a psychic and know that she'd catch feelings? In the future, never do fwb again because you will always hurt the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:06 AM
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Having sex with a man causes a woman to develop a emotional dependency on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:01 AM
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the girl who is fwb zoned gets companionship, gets to hang out out with the person in a more intimate 1 on 1 setting, and gets sex. The latter sounds like a more intimate friendship. Here's a reality check: sex bonds a woman to a man, so it gives her a emotional need for the man's affection. This need not being met leads to heartbreak. Also, having been a FWB with a man makes a woman less attractive to other men. Men are blabbermouths who tell other men about their girlfriend's past as their FWB…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:59 AM
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It's even crappier because it's more heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:51 AM
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so I did the best I could to be considerate of her feelings and handle it carefully. Lies we tell ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:49 AM
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Don't beat around the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:49 AM
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All men who do fwb arrangements are assholes, but that's painful to admit, so they try to rationalize their behavior in order to placate their conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:47 AM
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But that's the whole point. A fuckzone is always taking advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:23 AM
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Fuckzoning is more emotionally hurtful than friendzoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:22 AM
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That's the whole point. They are not on the same page at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:20 AM
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Being "fwb zoned" is much better than the commonly stated equivalent of being friend-zoned Being friendzoned is irritating, but not heartbreaking, so I disagree. Inevitability someone is going to accuse me of taking advantage of her since accountability isn't a common principle on this subreddit, so I'm going to mention I was very upfront about my intentions, had several talks with her about not getting too attached/talking to other guys and helped her pick better pics when I realized she wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:15 AM
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Are men with high body counts more attractive? I prefer virgin males because male virginity is a prize. there's even an entire hated group of men (incels) who Incels are hated because they are jerks, not because they don't have sex. does that mean that men should sleep with as many women as possible in order to become more attractive? That doesn't make a man more attractive. Would an inexperienced, virgin woman want someone who's equally inexperienced, or would she want a man who knows what he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:32 AM
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Women can wait in the hope that the right man will come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:46 PM
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If men don't pursue, they are not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:09 PM
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I'm trying to understand your use of the word based.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:46 AM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:42 AM
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I didn't swear, but I think you think trad women should not discuss sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:48 AM
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Why would that phrase mean I'm not trad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:06 AM
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Should men really care that much about "slut shaming"? Slut-shaming is why I won't please your dick before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:54 PM
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An education at an elite university can help you get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:23 PM
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Quite the opposite. Women want to settle in the late twenties or thirties, but men want to stay on the pussy carousel and don't get off until their forties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:36 PM
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So here's how it works: men often try to pursue a woman who is prettier than them. I see couples in which the woman is more attractive than the man. Men can improve themselves with money and status and intellect and humor. That means unattractive women can't settle with a looksmatch. Men always settle with a woman 2 or 3 looks points above him, so unattractive women are screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:34 PM
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women might have it easier, No, they don't because they are limited to whoever approaches them and past a certain age the game is over and body count is hard to navigate because while men don't want to wife a high n count woman they also don't want to wait until marriage before claiming a woman's virginity and if you are not a pretty woman you are screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:43 AM
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there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore? What is the alternative? MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:20 AM
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Dating is not hard for the average man. As a woman, I have never had average or above average options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:40 AM
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Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man? Marriage benefits men more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:51 PM
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think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men. Dating is only hard for below average men, and men looking for casual sex. Lack of options- Women have far more by default. Women have more low quality options, so they don't count as more options. Abundance of sex- Women are allowed to have sex almost anytime they crave it from a average to very attractive guy they want. Abundance of sex does not count because men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:54 PM
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Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look? No Do you think the absolute obsession we have these days with lifting pieces of metal is affecting the mental health of men? No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:54 PM
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Here's what I recommend you do: Avoid online dating unless you are looking for a niche market that can be hard to find in real life. You can use cold approaches, but existing social networks are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:42 PM
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this disorder is an "inability" to feel desire. When I say it exists to some extent in everyone I mean this difficulty in trying all sexual fantasies you have with a girl you love. I am not saying this isn't true. I am saying you contradicted yourself by first saying the Madonna-whore dichotomy was rare, and then saying that every man has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:53 PM
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How many of you have seen the Madonna Whore Complex in action? Unfortunately, I see it all the time on Reddit. This mental complex itself is used to refer to a disorder where certain men can't desire pure women. Men desire both the Madonna and the whore. This disorder I think is rare Think again. This disorder I think is rare think to a degree every guy has this complex, Contradicting yourself. Men end up putting women they love on pedestals, assuming they are pure virgins, highly moral, saints.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:42 PM
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Everyone says that. Men probably started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:20 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:27 AM
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You are thinking of Catholics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:58 PM
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Ben Shapiro is not a good example because he is happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:20 PM
2

Instead of whining about women wearing makeup, why don't you just date women who don't wear it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:21 PM
1

Everyone has that nickname for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:19 PM
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Women are called the fairer sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:20 PM
3

I never wear makeup. The last time I wore it was for a play.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:37 PM
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It's not a deal breaker, but it does make you less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:52 PM
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OP is very smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:22 PM
3

Women have Steve Harvey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:03 PM
1

Legal surrender is not abandonment because the child will be adopted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:59 PM
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The pill creates a preference for less masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:09 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:07 AM
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The baby would go right to an adoption agency, not foster care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:57 AM
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we believe that Responsibility belongs equally to those sides that decide for the outcome, and I explained all the cases of decision and outcome. When you have sex, you decided for the outcome of a child because sex creates children. If you go down that route, shifting the decision from that to be a parent (which this is very much about) to that of having sex, you in effect argue against the right for women to abort. If on the other hand you want - as I do - that women be allowed to abort, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:56 AM
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Men need to stop thinking that responsibility only belongs to women and not to them. "Men" don't think that. Men who embrace the concept of financial abortion believe that responsibility only belongs to women and not to them. If one side decides they want a child the other decides they don't, then: or she wants the child and he doesn't: then she can enforce against his will that the child comes to be born, but she has sole custody and is solely responsible for the child (he doesn't pay any child…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:24 PM
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Consent to sex isn’t consent to parenthood That's not true. If the women wants to continue the pregnancy and the man doesn’t she is accepting being a single mother Men need to be forced to take care of their kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:09 PM
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He’s not a “deadbeat” if he makes it clear before the child is born that he doesn’t want to be a parent He's a deadbeat if he doesn't give the child the financial and emotional support it needs to thrive. What he wants is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:06 PM
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As a pro-lifer, I think the woman should be forced to give birth, and the man should be forced to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:01 PM
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is legally sanctioned abandonment for women only... It's not that bad though because the baby would be adopted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:00 PM
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Financial abortion and a woman's abortion are not comparable to each other because financial abortion leaves people in need, but a woman's abortion nips the problem in the bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:58 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:54 PM
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The concept of financial abortion is a absolute shame. Men need to grow up and take care of their children. In logical consequence, that's more of an argument against abortion (Women need to grow up and take care of their children) than against financial abortion Both genders need to grow up and take care of their child. given that a child being born despite the choice of abortion is necessarily the choice of the mother, not of the father. If it's her UNILATERAL decision against the will of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:49 PM
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The need isn't for him to protect himself. It's for him to take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:19 AM
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I'm definitely opinionated on the abortion thing. Jury is still out on Kevin Samuels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:14 AM
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First of all, you are giving men and women false equivalence. Women are naturally at a disadvantage because they get pregnant. Men naturally don't have any responsibility unless there is a child support system. Women pay with their bodies. Men pay with their wallet. Child support makes things equal in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:30 AM
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Men raising kids alone is rare period. Usually, he has more money than the woman any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:19 AM
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When a child is placed for adoption, the man is no longer financially responsible. If a woman raises the child, the man should pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:17 AM
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Financial abortion is not comparable to a woman's abortion. Financial abortion is refusing to take responsibility, but a woman's abortion is nipping the problem in the bud. or women need to have their reproductive rights brought down to men's "keep it in your pants if you don't want to risk a baby" level. Most reproduction is woman's problem because they are the ones who get pregnant, so women naturally have a higher keep it in your pants level than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:07 AM
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Adoption is not abandonment though. Neither is abortion, but financial abortion is o polite term for a deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:01 AM
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You balk at the idea of tax dollars being spared on the child, but support men refusing to take financial responsibility for their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:58 AM
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What's your thoughts on the idea of a financial abortion? The concept of financial abortion is a absolute shame. Men need to grow up and take care of their children. Also kevin Samuel's is dead, thoughts? I'm not happy he's dead, but he sounds like a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:56 AM
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How do you filter f$$k boys, vet guys better for a LTR? Wait until marriage before having sex. Do you actively try to keep a relatively low body count? how? I keep a low body count by maintaining my virginity until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:29 AM
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He was accused of rape and admitted to cheating on his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:46 PM
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Did you like him, did you hate him, did you find him helpful in his messaging etc.? I have not experienced his work firsthand, but I listen to both Redditors who love him and Redditors who hate him. He sounds like an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:22 PM
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I honestly can't think of a single man in my social circle who struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:51 PM
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) Women should be more willing to make the first move. That's not gonna work because if a guy doesn't make a move, he's not interested. 3) Women should plan the dates This is not gonna work either. I know that a woman who plans dates asked a relationship coach named Evan Marc Katz why men were dumping her. He claimed it was because she was the guy in the relationship and men don't want to date other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:44 PM
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Is it opposed to hearing people like Kevin Samuels talk bad on women? Looks like it. Are alot of women too egotistical to understand him? The guy's an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:46 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:36 AM
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Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To Themselves I am only 5'2 1/2," but weigh 237 pounds. I am single. Being fat is not something people set out to do. They just kind of fall into it. So women, if we know this to be the case ae you aware of what doing everything in your power to stay thin gives you? We know that top 20% of men, usually only want women who are thin, so why not just do that, so you can get what you want? Honestly, I would be thin if I could, but a healthy lifestyle only g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:59 PM
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Women only want guys to pursue them for dating leading to marriage, not for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:15 PM
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Who you are able to get is an excellent barometer for your attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:31 PM
1

It's not that bisexual men and high n count women can't be trusted. It's just that bisexual men provoke the same disgust in women that high n count women provoke in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:54 PM
1

So it makes me wonder, do women like sexism when it benefits them? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:52 PM
3

Whomever you are able to get, that is your equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:49 PM
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Everyone gets their equivalent. Everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:21 PM
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Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:14 AM
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Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Some women would not date them. I know of a bisexual man who was dumped by his fiance once she heard that he had sex with men in the past. Would you date a bisexual man? Yes, because I am desperate, but when I was less desperate I would not give them a chance because being a bisexual man is the equivalent of being a high n count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:36 AM
-3

As women, we know all guys want to dick us down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:22 PM
3

Women want to be provided for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:52 PM
7

For me, it's the intentions. Only approach for dating to find a girlfriend. Don't approach for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:28 PM
2

Tim Tebow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:55 PM
9

I get hit on all the time online but never in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:38 PM
1

Female virgins like me, born again virgin women, Christian women, virgin card collector women, and religious women find this attractive. If you are attractive in general, even women who don't like virginity can tolerate it. Is the virgin part of it attractive The virgin part is attractive to:. female virgins like me, born again virgin women, Christian women, virgin card collector women, and religious women. does that person who is a virgin also have to be good looking for this to be attractive? …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:49 PM
2

I don't ask men out, but getting rejected is common because if you are pursuing him he is not interested. If he was interested, he would pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:18 PM
1

would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the table No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:36 PM
1

They all have it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:16 PM
1

Personality and physical beauty are not related.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:35 PM
1

Why are women more likely to be victims of romance scammers? I think women are more vulnerable because their SMV is depressed. Also, women like to help people more. And men are more likely to be criminals in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:05 PM
0

Women are socialized to avoid approaching men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:58 PM
1

Don't do antidepressants. Come on, man, it's not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:48 PM
1

How much backup men do you have? I don't think women do that to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:55 PM
1

Keep in mind that my menopause is premature. I'm 37, but look 10 years younger. As a menopausal woman, I want to know if most men have your yiewpoint, and is it impossible for me to get married because of my menopause?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:10 PM
1

In my social circle, they are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:26 AM
3

fall in love primarily with the lie looks promise. That's the whole problem right there. woman at 40 doesn’t just look different, she behaves differently. I'm 37. How messed up would it be if I acted like a 21 year-old? Beautiful women all mourn the loss of their loveliness and it turns them bitter and callous if they let it. It ain't that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:15 AM
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She only feels that way because she is not a virgin. Virgin women like me prefer virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:11 AM
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: Aging means committment is based on false advertising I hope you realize that you fall in love with people for more than just looks. For what it's worth Amber Heard didn't really age in her relationship with Johnny Depp. Beyond base physical attraction, aging deletes all the fun, airy, exciting, motivating elements of femininity that make relationships with women worthwhile for men. All it does is mess up appearance. Everything else stays the same or gets better. A pale mimic forever mourning …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:06 AM
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Premarital sex is socially and emotionally unsafe for women. Care to explain what that means? If a woman has premarital sex, the man can break her heart. If a woman has premarital sex, everyone Will hold her sex life against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:03 PM
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I can tolerate women having premarital sex even though I disapprove of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:59 PM
2

Marriage is essentially at it's core just a paper contract with your signatures on it. Then why won't men commit? Sex can and is very safe for women when they're not married if they have good access to birth control, access to pregnancy tests and access to abortion. Sex is also very safe for women who's chosen to gotten sterilized. Premarital sex is socially and emotionally unsafe for women. Access to abortion is not universal and starting to be eroded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:46 PM
1

Honestly, I don't care what they do as long as they don't get consequences or have sex with someone's boyfriend or husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:36 PM
1

Nobody wants to admit that woman should save themselves for marriage because they want them to act like men sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:27 PM
1

Because they are minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:34 PM
1

STDs are a minor concern for straight men. Being falsely accused of rape is rare and not a big deal unless you are Black. Being falsely accused of rape is not a big deal for white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:28 PM
0

Sounds like you presume to know what decisions women should make better than the women making the decisions for themselves I do know better than them what they should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:52 PM
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They are their own people, but they fare best when they save sex for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:34 PM
0

Women can do whatever they want, but they aim to be like men sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:06 PM
2

I'm African-American too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:58 PM
2

Cheating isn't the issue. The issue is that sex and pregnancy make women vulnerable, and men don't have that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:57 PM
3

The difference is men don't need commitment to be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:50 PM
2

. Men can not take advantage of women just by having a normal relationship Relationship with commitment is not normal. women on the other hand are allowed to take advantage of men through marriage. Women take advantage through divorce, not marriage. Its disturbing that you label having a relationship as usage, It's only usage without commitment. as if you being there is worth more than him. actually his nonsexual attention, which is a relationship is worth more than you being there. This has not…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:47 PM
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A forever girlfriend is being taken advantage of because she is not being given the safety of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:39 PM
-1

Why was it a mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:34 PM
-3

You can, but it is not likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:17 PM
2

Souls don't exist. Souls do exist. That's why atheism is rare. Baptism is useless. Baptism is a way to relate to God and nourish the soul. You don't need to marry to be stable. Poor African-Americans are proof that that statement is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:16 PM
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Was. Not is. Marriage is a timeless institution. If it's a building block of society, then looking at the history of society it was a bad choice. Explain. There's literally no other reason to marry, that's not some emotional nonsense that as previously mentioned, is meaningless in the secular world, ie: reality. Society is unstable without marriage. But the money is why people marry. People marry for safety and stability. Sex is perfectly safe for everyone without marriage. That's only true for …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:13 PM
1

No, these principles apply to everyone and are universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:02 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:38 PM
0

Then why do they choose to have sex before marriage? They are simply imitating men. Do you, realnicelady, believe women lack agency to make good decisions for themselves? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:37 PM
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Only half of marriages end in divorce. How would a marriage magically lead to a lifelong companion? Marriage is a lifelong relationship, so it is lifelong companionship until death.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:25 PM
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Marriage is meaningless without children. Marriage is the union of two souls, with or without children. It has no actual value other than some legal division of assets and presumed ownership of the children (which really is just the woman's but the male signs on to pay for them). Marriage is the building block of society. It's as useless as a baptism Baptism is not useless either. , the sole reason to get married, as a woman, is to get that divorce pension. You don't marry to divorce. You don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:23 PM
-3

You need to get married to have a lifelong companion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:11 PM
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Men who don't want to get married are always a red flag because they want to use and take advantage of women. It may also be a sign of immaturity. Being child free doesn't matter. Same rules apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:11 PM
1

I think the truth is that all the average and above average guys get to bang, but a few Chads get to bang more than average. Only a few socially awkward or unattractive men can not bang. Some men are voluntarily celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:46 PM
5

Sadly, I've broken off relationships before when I realized we wanted different things physically & it'd just be a long slow process of them giving in if we stayed together. I might have to do the same here. I know men prefer virgin women over sexually experienced women, but your tensions in this relationship and breaking off relationships in the past may be a sign that virgin or inexperienced women are not right for you after all and maybe you would be more compatible with a sexually experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:53 AM
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Forget about the red and blue pill perspectives. Neither will give you the answers you are looking for. Here's the deal: I say this as a virgin woman. You keep trying to escalate things physically. She doesn't like that. She wants the relationship to remain perfectly chaste. Sometimes, she slips up and gets physical with you more than she meant to. To protect her chastity, she does various things that you mentioned to try to maintain her chastity, stop the physical escalation, and avoid slipping…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:25 AM
1

There are a few reasons for this: 1) Sugaring is a form of prostitution. Men tend to be customers and women providers, but rarely vice versa. 2) Men have higher sex drives and incomes than women. 3) Women rarely need to pay for sex to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:34 AM
2

There is the r/RedPillWomen. A few women embrace it, but not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:21 AM
1

The metaphor is based on women being objects not agents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:10 AM
0

I lived in the US my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:09 AM
1

Wouldn't it be nice if everyone had this attitude regarding high n count women? Explain don't understand your stand For example, I once heard of a woman who had sex with 64 men. To me, that's incredible because I could never have sex with that many men because there aren't 64 men out there who would even want to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:08 AM
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You chase the same guys every women does I don't chase guys because it's taboo. Don't be disappointed if everyone else has touched it too Wouldn't it be nice if everyone had this attitude regarding high n count women? You can have a date by tomorrow with little to no effort. I'm 37, and have not gone on a date since I was 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:34 AM
0

I'm not lying. I am a virgin woman who is disappointed in men because they don't save their virginity for marriage, but always want a virgin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:07 AM
1

Strong sex drive is not the only way to have desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:40 AM
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People say that men want women more than women want men. But I will still create a thread about this. That's just men seeing the world through their eyes. The latter make some sense because most divorces are initiated by women and there are far more news and cases of men staring and harassing women than tge other way around. Many men pay for sex but it is rare for women to do so. Women initiate divorce because men get on their nerves, and they can't take it anymore. Men are more aggressive sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:34 AM
1

I'm not disputing that other women don't see it as a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:29 AM
1

It's only a minority opinion because women are not virgins themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:25 AM
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How many women would be willing to get marry if child support and alimony did not exist? All of us. think that there would be far less gold diggers and maybe sugar dating would be less popular That will always be popular no matter what. men and women would desire each other equally. They already desire each other equally. There would also far less peopke saying that women want finantially stable guys in my opinion No maybe more wonen would desire men by their looks like straight men do. Women al…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:16 PM
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It’s really common for girls to fake being nice or positive to make guys date them/compensate for their looks. You don't know that, and it would not work anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:58 PM
3

As a matter of principle, I think everyone should save their virginity for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:39 PM
1

As a matter of principle, I think everyone should save their virginity for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:37 PM
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No, not trolling. Female virgin women like me prefer male virgins over non-virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:10 PM
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That's my biggest problem as a virgin waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:05 PM
1

I could only wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:57 PM
1

Send them to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:55 PM
1

Stories. Many people know (or have read about) people who were virgins before marriage, and then became unhinged philanderers after marriage. Etc. Maybe this is proof low body count women are as likely to cheat as high count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:46 PM
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It's not gaslighting. Male virginity is a prize, and any woman who gets it is lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:42 PM
0

Men are too interested in sex and not enough in relationship. Just men in general. Not all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:41 PM
1

AMALT
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:37 PM
1

Sexual compatibility is guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:37 PM
1

what if they were put in a position were they didnt have a choice but to pay for sex? ive heard of guys bringing girls home from the bar only to find out the girls a hooker after they have sex with them and the girl wants money. is that guy just shit out of luck in that scenario? lol. apparently this scenario happens alot in places like vegas etc. That doesn't happen. what if the guy ends up in a cardi b situation where the girl drugs him or gets him fucked up then tries charging him money for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:35 PM
1

It doesn't go out the window at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:47 PM
0

It's both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:33 PM
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This is on the same exact lines as man being a virgin past a certain age. No, it is not. Male virginity is attractive, but seeing prostitutes is creepy. So, the disgust women have towards average men who use escorts is absolutely down to perceived lower value and thus hypergamy. No, it's a character issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:30 PM
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I have never seen women do that in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:22 PM
1

Disgust toward average men who see sex-workers has more to do with their social status than genuine morality concerns No In between films, Leo DiCaprio used to spend long vacations on yachts, with his beer belly out, surrounded by "models"...who were clearly being paid, or at least there for the clout. Literally no one in the world cared. You don't really know the details on that one. most women do it because they enjoy it No, they do it out of desperation it should be normalised. No, it should …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:18 PM
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Doesn't make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:02 PM
7

Vibrator use only affects sensitivity right after use. It doesn't affect it in the long run. Some vibrators can be used to get a woman horny in preparation for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:00 PM
1

there are women that desire men purely for sex, and this is what men should look for. That's extremely rare. She desires you as husband material? Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:52 PM
2

If anything, many guys try to avoid "virgin" women because of sex and sexual hangups. Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:49 PM
1

You should not distinguish between the amount of effort you put into hookup v. relationship sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:31 PM
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Where did you get that info?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:54 PM
1

It’s assuming that every guy has this bad-faith mindset, which just isn’t right or true. If they don't have that mindset, they are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:45 PM
1

You would be okay with it if she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:44 PM
1

The issue is not biological. It is social. Women can avoid biological risk, but not social risk. If sex were as taboo for men as it were for women, they would be more secretive about their sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:40 PM
1

We have to care Care about what exactly? Maybe if women did not withhold sex and intimacy from good LTR level men to try and exploit them men while going out and banging a drug dealer within a minute of seeing them we could let you fuck whoever you wanted without a single worry? All men should be deprived of sex until marriage. Ah, an indirect admission that Op and me are 100% right Right about what exactly? Because they do not give them the commitment you want. Either that or they are bad at pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:37 PM
1

It doesn't have to be equal as long as attraction is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:30 PM
1

Then what is this dichotomy between having instantaneous casual sex (ie. ONS, FWB) and waiting for sex when pursuing LTRs? Women are just modeling their behavior after men who have a Madonna-whore dichotomy. Besides, women who act on this dichotomy are rare. Are you saying it’s immoral to quickly have sex with someone you want to start a LTR with? I believe all premarital sex is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:29 PM
1

Three standards: Be my height or taller. Don't be too fat. Your dick should be a minimum of three inches long. Girth is more important than length, but no monster cocks please. They hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:16 PM
2

If a woman is engaged to a man, her attraction to him is a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:11 PM
1

If you don't care about high body count, you are in the minority. Women still withhold sex from you because, as women, we still have to contend with the majority of men who prefer low body count. Withholding sex is not stringing you along because if you marry us we will have sex with you eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:10 PM
1

Being with a unattractive man is useless. Women can be powerful with a man of any attractiveness level if she withholds sex. That's why you all are so opposed to women withholding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:05 PM
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Women who withhold sex think they have to withhold it for an arbitrary time period to be moral as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:03 PM
1

Except we do. If you did, you would not care about high body count. So you think it is okay to deny them intimacy and sex to manipulate them in a desperate attempt to be entitled to there commitment. Women must do that to be respected in society and powerful in dating interactions. While at the same time, women frame men who do not give what they feel feel entitled to (commitment) as assholes. That's because they are assholes. That is why you cannot engage in good faith here, dodging a solid ana…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:01 PM
1

K would never get engaged to a man she is not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:49 PM
1

It doesn't matter because you still don't see women as sexual agents in the same way that you see men as sexual agents.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:48 PM
0

Lots of women save their virginity for marriage, and they don't use sex as a weapon in their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:45 PM
0

A lack of sexual gatekeeping is how women are getting high body counts. All the women should gatekeep sex by saving all sexual acts for marriage because of the male preference for low body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:44 PM
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Withholding sex is a way to protect from male predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:41 PM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:38 PM
0

It’s totally understandable, even commendable if it’s a religious or moral conviction That's always what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:38 PM
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Women lack this power regardless of men's attractiveness level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:35 PM
2

Every time I read news there is at least one article about a woman who sells nudes, practices sex work or sleeps around. Every time it's celebrated as brave, stunning and empowering. Also women lie their counts, if their count is 180 they'll say 8. I don't see this slut-shaming to be actual. Most women on social media embrace the "I do whatever I want" lifestyle. The media tries to encourage female sexual liberation, but in real life, female sexual liberation is discouraged at every turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:33 PM
1

if the sex was good the guy would stick around. That's not true unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:28 PM
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Men value low body count, so it's still a good idea to withhold even if you didn't do it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:25 PM
2

It's the same in dating too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:14 PM
1

No you do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:12 PM
1

Well the restricted guys mean less sex for unrestricted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:10 PM
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She's just being a sexual gatekeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:01 PM
-2

Women are socialized to be sexual gatekeepers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:00 PM
0

Social humiliation is a bigger risk than pregnancy and STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:54 AM
0

What's wrong is men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:52 AM
0

It weeds out good men who think she's not attracted to him Men should never take waiting for sex as an indication of lack of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:52 AM
2

What risk did not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:47 AM
2

Not necessarily. I would never have premarital sex with a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:45 AM
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If she’s not sleeping with me very soon after meeting (2-3 dates/meetups) I assume she’s not interested in me that way or she has hang ups Never assume that. Women have to withhold sex for a certain period of time to have optimum value in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:42 AM
6

Money and sex are not comparable to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:39 AM
1

The problem is that is mostly all men are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:38 AM
2

You need to start seeing women as sexual agents, not sexual objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:35 AM
1

Women are truly powerful when they withhold sex from men, not when they give it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:23 AM
6

It's not that sex is the only thing we can offer. It's that withholding sex is the only power we have over men in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:22 AM
5

Men pick long term partners over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:18 AM
4

You wouldn't say that if men were slut-shamed like women were.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:17 AM
1

What are these platforms?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:16 AM
2

Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything else Think again You think a guy is going to meet a beautiful woman with a great personality who he enjoys spending time with...then ghost her because they had sex? Of course. Happens all the time. And If that did happen would you want to date that guy anyway? This is very common male behavior though. You’re intentionally blocking of a portion of the relationship for your own gain. Women don't have a lot of power in dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:15 AM
1

Anyone who considers this kind of thing lucky either has no self esteem or no dignity. Unattractive people need that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:50 AM
1

Nah, wanting just sex is equally as exploitative as wanting someone just for companionship (aka you don't want to be alone). I think she genuinely wants sex with him. Women desire men as husbands, but never as casual sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:44 AM
1

And it is ok to enjoy sex, but somehow we are accused of using women just because we only want sex? The whole sex thing is more exploitative. You should not assume that she doesn't want to be with him. husband material That is what men are meant to be in romantic and sexual relationships. If he is not husband material, what good is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:17 AM
1

She is still using him for company, she does not want to be alone, not that she honestly cares about him. That doesn't make sense. It's ok to enjoy a man's company. Not wanting to be alone and enjoying a man's company also creates emotional motivation for sex. It is crazy to think she doesn't care about him. As for her looks, she is probably between 25-30. Still young and pretty. It's not like she's 50 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:43 AM
1

Women are always attracted to the men they settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:32 AM
1

He still gets vaginal sex and blowjobs whenever he wants. Anal sex is the only thing he won't get, but I think he can live with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:32 AM
1

Women being used for sex is the equivalent of men being settled on Men being used for money is the equivalent of women being used for sex. Not to mention she is not that hot by that point. She looks the same and is almost as young as she was with other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:28 AM
2

The guy who a woman settles with will never get her best; she already gave that to the guy or guys she was physically attracted to. That's not true at all. She is doing permanently for her fiance what she did temporarily for the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:51 AM
2

Some guys can rock it, but others can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:38 PM
3

This woman is everything he needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:56 PM
2

By looksmaxing, I meant clothes, hair, nails, jewelry, and makeup. She said she was average, meaning that the makeup may have made her look slightly better, but not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:55 PM
3

Is it possible for a woman to truly love a man for who he is or will it always be attached to his money, looks, or social status? Love isn't unconditional at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:40 PM
2

She said R is average I don't remember anything about him being average. The picture I got in my head was a repulsive guy who is a 2 or 3 on the sexy scale. Painting over your ugliness She was not portrayed as ugly. Just average. If a woman applies herself, she can really looksmax, way more than a man could.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:21 PM
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Just because birth control is advanced doesn't mean people will use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:09 PM
3

K is described as average in general, but very beautiful if she works on herself. R is portrayed as grossly unattractive, but inwardly beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:56 PM
1

How true is to say that rich guys gets more dates and more relationships opportunities than the average male? Just look at the finance bros. People and even scientists say that women value status and resources on a guy dather than his looks so how true is that? Or is that just an stereotype? Looks and status both equally contribute to SMV. But in the other hand I think that if that was a irrefutable truth low income men would never get dates and would never marry Looks can make up for a lack of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:41 PM
3

She solved the problem by getting engaged to R.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:36 PM
2

The only thing he can do is lose weight, but his hair can't be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:33 PM
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think R got shafted and settled by a woman who slept exclusively with more physically attractive guys when younger This is a good example of how people place too much stock in a woman's sexual history. settled for R (who she’s not as physically attracted to) due to her insecurities. I wish hot guys would settle for me because they are insecure. think it’s better to be J Of course, being a hot guy is best. (or single R would be an incel if he was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:54 PM
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That's just normal dating. If having an ex-boyfriend makes you emotionally damaged, then practically all women that were able to get a boyfriend are emotionally damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:48 PM
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He can't improve himself at all. At least not lookswise. And I don't think she settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:46 PM
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Better would be for R to stay single If he stayed single, he would just be a lonely incel. improve himself I don't think he can do that though. date a woman who is genuinely physically attracted to him Looks fade with time any way. doesn’t settle for him I don't think she settled though. Someone who fucks him eagerly in the first few dates. Then, he would not want a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:44 PM
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I don't think she's that emotionally damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:39 PM
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He can do much better for himself in my opinion He can't do better because he is unattractive. He's luckier than an unattractive woman that can't get a decent man to give her a chance after dating Stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:37 PM
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While you obviously want to be the hot guy, men are lucky that she wants to settle as she gets older because women don't have the option to be the safe bet as the hot guy gets older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:28 PM
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Being settled for is great if you are lacking in the looks department like R. As a woman, I get jealous of men over that. R's female looksmatch could never get an attractive man to settle for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:24 PM
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She didn’t date R when she was young and attractive, only as she got older and her looks began to fade There's nothing to indicate that is true. It’s infinitely better to be J than R as a man. Yes, but R is lucky to get such an attractive woman looking the way he does. Poor dude got shafted Quite the opposite. He got a woman who is more desirable than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:20 PM
1

Where did you get the idea that she was promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:13 PM
3

Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hot I wish told my male friend a lot of guys say their exes/girlfriends/wives are “really pretty” & I thought it was weird cause their exes/girlfriends/wives would be invisible to me at a nightclub. It's called the girl next door look most guys wouldn’t actually go for the girls who look like the girls they jack off to in porn. It’s a double standard” Madonna-whore dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:08 PM
2

If he's a commitment phobe, he kinda did it to himself. Commitment is a good currency for duty sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:46 PM
1

Weight is not as controllable as you would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:57 AM
2

Are 80% of men incapable of getting married? Are 80% of men incapable of finding a girlfriend? Are 80% of men incapable of having a one night stand? Are 80% of men incapable of having casual sex with multiple partners? Are 80% of men incapable of getting laid at all? Are 80% of men simply not considered attractive by a certain percentage of women? I think the average man can do all of that. Does the 80/20 "rule" apply to all areas of dating and mating up to and including matrimony? This would on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:48 AM
1

Is it because those arent "real" options meaning most of those guys just wanna pump&dump? I would say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:35 AM
4

The bogus part is you didn't really give good examples of women acting masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:05 AM
2

Wouldn't men have better odds in dating if they did it offline?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:59 AM
10

I mentally prepare myself to pay, but hope the guys pay. So far, I have enjoyed the man paying every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:20 PM
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I want some insight on how to present myself All you have to do is be pretty and have a nice personality. how to balance studying/working and dating, That'll just take care of itself. No need to worry. is it true that some men don't like dating med students/doctors ? Men don't care about that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 03:11 PM
4

Least unpleasant 3, 2, 5, 1, 4 most unpleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:52 PM
1

My opinion is not based on my personal or anecdotal experience. It's based on an article that I read.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:34 PM
0

Women are turning away from finance bros because many of them lack emotional intelligence, which is important to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:34 PM
1

That's why I can't lose my virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:31 PM
2

My approach to wealth is to avoid the traps of hiding or flaunting it. Stealth wealth may be a bad idea for some men, especially finance bros, because their wealth is the main thing that makes them attractive. Without their wealth, they are just some average looking guy with a weird personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:49 PM
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To be honest, OP, the man in your scenario is not looking for a looksmatch or equivalent. He's looking for a woman more attractive than himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:34 PM
1

By never having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:49 PM
1

That's not what the sad girls of Reddit say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:08 PM
1

You don't have to disclose it. Indeed, studies shows that women lie about their partner count. What if you are not a liar or someone reveals your sexual secrets to your significant other and feels like you hid something from him or told a lie of omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:47 PM
1

Everyone, regardless of religion, is bound by this. Even atheists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:41 PM
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No, you don't because men talk to each other. For example, a man a woman hooked up with told her fiance about the time they hooked up, and the fiance moved out their apartment into another apartment. Another time all a girl's exes talked to a girl's boyfriend about the sex they had with her, and the boyfriend ghosted her. Someone told a woman's husband about her premarital sex life, and then the husband cheated on her with 15 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:34 PM
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Men ask about that, or their former sex partner tells their boyfriend or husband. Or someone else spills the beans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:13 PM
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The issue isn't being able to get sex whenever or with whomever. The issue is women who have casual sex can't get boyfriends or husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:03 PM
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Women who have casual sex can't get boyfriends or husbands, and nobody respects them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:00 PM
1

Women heavily desire men. In what world do you live where women aren't allowed to have casual sex? Pretty much all women I know have/had casual sex regularly. No women in my social circle have casual sex. If women have casual sex, there is hell to pay because no one will have them as a girlfriend or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:58 PM
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As long as I was married, I would sleep with him as often as he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:47 PM
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What would happen if men become desired by women That's already true. can get sex and relationships whenerver they want Women can't do that. Men want easy access to sex women have, having women drooling in their DMs. Women are not really allowed to have casual sex though and committed relationship sex can be hard to come by.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:30 AM
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Yes, because I am menopausal, and I don't want to feel pressure to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:53 AM
1

Are you Dutch?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:19 PM
2

I sincerely hope this is satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:22 PM
2

I have never had a significant other before. I would never want to cheat on my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:45 AM
2

You are missing the point. If I downloaded Tinder and got a lot of offers for sex, there would be pressure on me to reject all the offers because if I take the offers no one would want to have a relationship with me. If I took the offers, and my significant other found out about it later, he would dump me. Women get a lot of useless offers that they are penalized for taking and the sex is often only fun for the man anyway. That's why the offers are useless and aren't real sexual opportunities an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:33 AM
1

Not encouraged to but they are more positively portrayed than men in the media but they are more harshly vilified in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:54 PM
1

Nobody is encouraged to be unfaithful. Sexual double standards are alive and well today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:48 PM
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I'm not a troll. I am telling you that harsh social consequences for women who have casual sex means only men are allowed to truly be sexual. That's why the idea that women get sex easier is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:47 PM
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I never said anything about cheating. I said women are not truly allowed to be sexual because of harsh social consequences for women who have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:44 PM
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Here's why sex is hard for women to get: women are not allowed to have casual sex. If they do, their significant other will dump them if they find out. Also, casual sex is not very pleasurable for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:33 PM
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What is not in dispute?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:15 PM
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Women cheat more than men I thought 60% of men cheat, but only 40% of women cheat. Women get sex easier We wish. the fairer sex Refers to beauty, not fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:50 PM
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Do you feel betrayed / violated / deceived or do you accept that the man is just trying to look his best? Do you continue to date him? I feel deceived but I would not hold it against him. I would date him still.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:42 AM
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they lose the need for relationships. They can get away with it under 40, but over 40, they can't get away with it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:31 AM
2

Lucky woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:25 PM
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So Men Should Stop Entering Into Them Men need relationships. We also see that women, who treat sex as a deeply intimate emotional experience, also are willing to have cheap, casual sex with men they have just met and whom they don't expect to ever meet again. There's no explanation for this kind of behavior other than that female sexuality responds differently to men based on what sort of man they are. Women are just modeling their behavior after men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:23 PM
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