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| 80 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxiety | KeyboardTuba | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 03:18 PM | |
| 9 | What epiphanies did you have once you started having consistent dates? | KeyboardTuba | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 02:26 AM | |
| 8 | How do you bounce back from M not GTOW? | CogDis | KeyboardTuba | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | 3 & out: How to deal with rejection? Can this be salvaged? | KeyboardTuba | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 04:39 AM | |
| 1 | Plate with children? | KeyboardTuba | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 06:13 PM | |
| 1 | Friendzone her for social proof? | KeyboardTuba | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:14 PM | |
| 1 | Date 2 changed into a date with her friends. Proceed? | KeyboardTuba | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 05:25 PM | |
| 0 | First date logistics? | KeyboardTuba | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 05:18 PM |
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| 11 | Do you think men are pining for women more now than ever before, because we aren't forming the male bonds necessary for fulfillment?Same boat here. Lived with my 3 best friends in our mid 20s. Most social time of my life. Until the fiance of one friend cheated with and eventually married another friend. The third friend ended up with a 43 year old woman. Due to grad school/work, I've had to resettle in different states so it's been tough to find & keep a close circle of guys. As to how? The one thing that worked best was doing social sport clubs, which is no longer viable this year. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyThanks, so true. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 03:34 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyLoud and clear, thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyThat means a lot, thanks bud. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 11:32 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyI was vetting previous plates well, but got complacent. Covid shutting down everything didn't help either, but pandemic or not that is on me. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 11:31 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyI'd laugh at myself too if I was someone else. I lost perspective, but will improve. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyAnd as you predicted, she's sent 20+ texts today. I haven't replied. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 11:22 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyI appreciate that a lot. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyI found out recently and am stupid to let it go beyond that You're right, but I have the reminder now. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyIncredibly stupid, really didn't notice until the last 3 months. I got sloppy and lost abundance. Lesson learned. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyI don't, I need to hear that. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 03:57 PM |
| 21 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyThanks Thor, I wasn't able to articulate that and I need to hear that. I'd tell my friends the exact same thing, but it's tough to look objectively when its so fresh. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 03:35 PM |
| 10 | Anyone here make over 6 figures?Urologist, satisfied to be in men's health. I don't own a piece of the practice, but I'm happy. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 04:05 AM |
| 26 | Is it better to have less attractive plates than no plates at all?Yup, if you still want to be around them after sex or are willing to be seen with them in public, then that's what matters. I've gone through the motions before, and regretted it each time. I've taken a date (one I wasnt excited about) to a lounge bar, within moments after seeing the attractive waitresses and Instagram types all I wanted was to bail. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 02:55 AM |
| 2 | 30s in 2020s. What advice do the RP veterans here have for us?One I like is frugalmalefashion. Encourages you to make fiscally responsible purchases and generally the popular posts guide you towards to safe options. For example, it's a good aggregate for brands like JCrew while telling you the value of the sale. I was prompted by the subreddit for a great sale on Red Wing boots which have been my favorite adult shoe purchase for a long time. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | 30s in 2020s. What advice do the RP veterans here have for us?Sweatshirt. If you lift, your physique will shine without having them be tight. If you have cold winters, a plain but quality material sweatshirt are great. Quality doesnt mean expensive, I get the most compliments on my H&M sweatshirts for $20 I bought 4 years ago than past splurge buys from Reigning Champ or Club Monaco. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Do compound lifts fix muscle imbalances?Alternate your mixed grip each set of deadlifts. On bench press or standing press, make sure each end of the bar is rising at the same speed, even if you have to drop the weight. For your remaining barbell work, just focus on getting stronger. The imbalance can be attrivubute to poor form, even on squats and dips you should be able to control bar path. If you have the energy after, you can throw in some high rep (12-15) sets of dumbbell work. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 05:47 AM |
| 7 | First day back at the gym tomorrow, any advice?K.I.S.S. "Keep it simple, Stupid" | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Dating app statistics from past 6 months. What does this translate into?Dates are pickier during the selection criteria, but all that goes away once the tingles start in real life. Anecdotally, it's a non-factor after a good date, just make sure you look like your photos, even more effective if you can pass for a few years younger. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | How to use Viagra? First timer kinda scaredTo clarify, they are similar drugs (PDE-5 inhibitors) and do the same thing, but the pharmacokinetics differ slightly. In short, Viagra hits quicker and is more punchy; will Cialis stays in your system longer and has less chance of side effects. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Dating app statistics from past 6 months. What does this translate into?32 here, usually match with early/mid 20s. I still think 29 is a safe number, as some did have the arbitrary cap at 29. A small amount, however after meeting I couldve been 38-40 and it wouldn't matter. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 06:31 PM |
| 3 | RedPillers over 30, What do you feel was the best time of your life?The biggest was a total change in environment. I grew up in a suburb of another large city, a very "townie" mentality where people only socialize with their friends from grade school, and everyone lacks ambition outside "the town". IE: the goal was to settle with another townie by 22. It was very easy to be complacent. I moved to another state for grad school with other like minded individuals who wanted to get away from the familiar. Made plenty of great friendships, experiences, and of course … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 11:36 PM |
| 14 | Searching for RP productivity tips - Looking to become the best version of myself.One tool is to write down objectives for the day, however elaborate you want. Being goal oriented keeps me on task. You also get that small hit of satisfaction after checking items off that its easy to build momentum in a day, all it takes is a moment of inspiration to plan out the day. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 11:25 PM |
| 2 | RedPillers over 30, What do you feel was the best time of your life?Same, 31. The foundation is there to make this decade my best by far. Finished grad school, 1 year into great career, best shape of my life, and now have the resources for more hobbies. The social life in this new city is slowly improving, I feel like I'm finally on track. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Looksmaxing checklistWhite Strips are not good for you. The enamel gets wrecked and increases sensitivity, especially if it gets in the gum line. Plus they dont always apply evenly. If you had to do a whitening technique, go with laser/Zoom. Your best teeth routine is the simplest; get an electric toothbrush, brush 2x/day for 2 min, daily flossing (I love the Dentek picks), and if you want to go extra use a non alchoholic mouthwash (I like ACT). Avoid staining food/drink, have some water and swish after if you do. I… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 10:31 AM |
| 2 | How to keep my feet from getting sore after deadlifts?I dont typically expect that to be from deadlifts. Easy mods are to try barefoot, or cheap minimal shoes like Chuck Taylor. Plenty of dedicated lifting shoes out there, but I wouldnt bother until youre passed 4 plates for reps. Is there any other repetitive motion youre doing (cardio, your job, etc)? Heel pain is nuanced but generally, rest/icing/anti inflammatories are your initial rehab for the 1st week. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Swallowing the pill caused the death of my social life.I meant the (City) Sports Clubs, as in NYC BOS PHI WAS, as to provide regional examples. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 04:19 PM |
| 20 | I wish i could have post nut clarity 24/7Urology/Mens Health here. Physiologically, aside from extreme frequency, we dont see any difference among our patients regarding fappage. Whether it's a young pro athlete who has intercourse daily, or a weekend warrior NoFapper, as long as you're taking care of yourself it's all the same. The mind has an immense effect, so there is placebo there, which if it helps you then go for it. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 02:01 PM |
| 45 | Swallowing the pill caused the death of my social life.Depends on the gym. Powerlifting capable gyms, tend to have less of the primping and preening crowd. Lots of camaraderie, even towards beginners, and the focus is on working out. I find more gym etiquette at these places vs LA Fitness or City Sports Clubs. I made my best gains & friends at a dingy, repurposed power lifting gym in North Carolina (used to be a Salvation Army, and you could tell) versus a commercial gym in a yuppy part of Boston. Other than the high volume of eye candy, I dont miss… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | The best film to watch on a date?Castaway | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Best hybrid strength and body building program?Any of the popular, named programs as mentioned in the comments. As long as you're consistent with your training and focus on progressive overload you will get jacked enough for girls. A guy who has above intermediate strength on bench, deadlift, squat, press, row, weighted dip, and weighted chins/pullups will have that. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Plate with children?I know it's a red flag & I could use a slap. My question is, has anyone had success with a mom? I treat all plates the same, I'm perceptive & firm enough to avoid the tangible, bad situations. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Plate with children?I totally get that, I'm not seeking mom's but am curious if others made it work. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Plate with children?I'd likely rip on me too, but I'm not obsessed with her. Kids or not, I set firm limits with anyone I date. Since this is my first encounter with a mom, that I have some interest in, I am curious on what positive (if any) experiences others had. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 08:12 PM |
| 4 | What cologne works really well for you?Hermes or John Varvatos. Sure the scents are fine, but it's more I feel like the man when I have designer scent on. Mostly marketing I know, but it's the smell equivalent of putting on a suit. Also I'll be stick to 1 scent with a girl, especially if we hook up. Each time you meet up is an instant reminder of how intimate you got. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 02:42 AM |
| 24 | Girl looked like nothing on her profileSome go to screeners regarding pics: 1) if there are no body pics she is definitely fat 2) if there are pics but obscured she is definitely fat 3) some filters are ok (they're addicted to it) but if everyone she's a dog or edited into a mouse, that's a hard pass. Written screeners are to ask/say you're into someone physically active who can join you hiking/tennis/etc. If shes fit, she'll say yes or tell you her own in shape routine. If you're debating shes attractive, shes probably not. Clear pi… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 05:43 AM |
| 5 | Have any of you ever tried the "Fight Club" lifting regimen?Also, near every Hollywood physique was built on steroids. If high schoolers doing local bodybuilding shows are juicing, so is the next Marvel superhero. Brad Pitts Fight Club is attainable natty, but dont get into the habit of judging movies; they benefit from that anabolic lighting and editing. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Responding to texts immediately vs delayedSet standards for yourself too. In my mind my plates dont BS me with rules regarding texts, the women who judge me by my text frequency and not our interactions are not the ones I want. I'll even do the dreaded double text, bc I'd rather just risk being ghosted (determined by no response to double text) & have closure rather than opened ended games of chicken. If Proathlete McRichman is texting her all day, shes not deterred. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 05:53 AM |
| 9 | How to get over post-oneitis depression?When the wave of cringe hits you, you'll know you're starting to heal. Time along with maturity will heal you, I promise you. 10 years ago I was devasted when my dream girl broke up with me. I dragged it out for an extra 4 months being a beta orbiter, going on friend zone dates. It wasnt until I sacked up and cut it, that I realized what a mess she was. Today shes in her 2nd marriage, accidental child out of wedlock, and put on 30 lbs. I now have zero remorse. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 05:48 AM |
| 3 | How to stop requiring external validation, from women specifically?Especially after your noob gains are done, you realize how much more time you need in the gym & dont want to waste the hour playing grab ass | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 05:43 AM |
| 4 | Testosterone improvementsUrology/Mens Health here. 650 at 31 yo is fine. The difference between worrying about getting up to 800+ is minimal. The natural ways to boost testosterone are the easiest, most of which you're already doing. Sleep well, exercise regularly (whichever form you enjoy), and diet (avoid processed, sugary junk food. Beyond that, lean meats/dairy/fruit/veggies/carbs are all fair game). Anything else that's not prescription grade is BS. You're a young guy, TRT you risk being on lifelong. Sure you can c… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 04:07 AM |
| 19 | I'm getting uglier with age and it is killing my confidence (aging face, receding hairline, and more)Adding to the others, take care of yourself. Exercise, cut out heavy sugars, processed food. Floss, brush your teeth, drink a gallon of water a day (whatever you need to stay clear, faint yellow urine). I'm 31, balding worsened by bad head shape, genetic dark under eye circles....but I can still pass for 26-27. How? To butcher a quote from 40 Year Old Virgin: "Highlight your attributes. Did you think this was an accident?Premeditated." I buzz my head, workout daily, sleep, all the aforementioned… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 05:07 AM |
| 13 | Looking younger than you should beTwo things, it's a long term benefit and it can very well change. You're 21, you're supposed to look young. You look like a child to most of the population. From 21 to your 30s, you'll start noticing more hair growth (some areas not so flattering). Take care of yourself now and forever: hydrate, ease up on the sugar, wash your face, use moisturizer/sunscreen. You can be 34 and still look 27-28, keeping yourself in a much broader dating pool. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 02:11 AM |
| 2 | They’re starting to realize..You'll get through it, bud. Time eventually heals you, be productive now. You'll gradually have streaks of not thinking about it and they get longer and longer. | /r/MGTOW | 05/06/19 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Are 3 full body ( Strength / hypertrophy/strength) workouts enough to gain size?Consistency is key. You can run an inefficient program, but if you're consistent, getting sleep, eating enough, you will make progress. Assuming you're drug free, lifting a body part every 3.5-5 days is a safe range. Theres an argument to focus on strength until you reach a good base, but again consistency and progressive overload is how you want to keep it simple. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Pulled my hottest chick ever , couldn t get it upFor the sake of education, it is irresponsible to say it's not a big deal. That is one standard dose of Viagra, yes but to say anyone should use that dose is a detriment without knowing their history. We see 3-7 of these in the emergency room every week; often complicated by guys using other stimulants so I disagree with your statement. Cialis isn't inherently better, it is the same mechanism of action as Viagra but has different pharmacodynamics. Same goes for Stendra or Levitra, which is suite… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Pulled my hottest chick ever , couldn t get it upObligatory "see a doctor". That being said, yes a daily Cialis/tadalafil would be more appropriate. Beyond the daily 5-7mg dose, I can't in good practice tell a young guy go higher than that on his own. One priapism, and youre at risk for ED for life. Am I suprised to hear anecdotes of guys doing fine on higher doses, not really but I have to make recommendations on sound research. Pills or not, you should clean up those habits which arguably have higher effect. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Lessons in Monaco.Fellow PA, good job bro! I am on a similar journey. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/19 12:03 AM |
| 6 | Pulled my hottest chick ever , couldn t get it upUrology/Mens Health here; I highly advise against the broad recommendation for sildenafil. Without knowing what dose he's using, his age (it's an old mans drug), and knowing hes capable of having erections, he'd be at serious risk for a priapism/sustained erection that is a medical emergency and leads to worse ED. See a doctor, stimulate yourself less, exercise, sleep, and of course, find ways to lower your performance anxiety about it (ex:abundance). | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Depressed, alone and frustratedPowerlifting and naturalbodybuilding | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 03:50 AM |
| 9 | How do you guys deal with lonliness? No matter how busy I keep myself, I find myself very lonely.If you need a visual in the form of a sit down talk, Coach Red Pill has two recently posted videos on loneliness this week on Youtube. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Who are some of your male role models now?Frank Castle/The Punisher, John Wick. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do women lie about not liking a fit man?I think he was getting at that while Jeff abuses a lot of steroids, he's not that big. Likely because he doesnt know or want to train properly. At my local LA Fitness, Jeff wouldnt be at the top of mass monsters or the aesthetic guys here. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 04:06 PM |
| 5 | How do I stop thinking about a girl without having an abundance of other girls?For real, bud. Just caught a brief episode of oneitis post friendzoned. Once I got a workout in, started building a PC, and set up a trip with friends it really hasn't bothered me anymore. You'll get through it to with the initiative. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Date 2 changed into a date with her friends. Proceed?I botched the first date by not going for a kiss, but I gave her an out and she couldve easily never texted me. Likely friendzoned, but I do well in groups. I'll make a good impression, have some fun/food, and bounce if I can't separate her. In the off chance she agrees to a '3rd' date (1 on 1), then its game on & even I dont miss that runway landing. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Date 2 changed into a date with her friends. Proceed?I prefer the 1v1 date, but this is the offer & I prefer to strike while the irons hot. I do well in groups, so I'll go for an hour or so make the impression, and if I cant separate her I'll bounce. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Date 2 changed into a date with her friends. Proceed?Yea I punked out, seeing what potential I can salvage from this. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Date 2 changed into a date with her friends. Proceed?Should've clarified its like an art market festival in a neighborhood. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Date 2 changed into a date with her friends. Proceed?We got coffee the first date. This is a neighborhood/farmers market type festival. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Game of Thrones for womynThink of the insane reach advantage Brienne had too. Arya would need 5 steps to get to her torso. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Game of Thrones for womynI pay the iron price and find a free stream. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 09:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you bounce back from M not GTOW?I agree with that. For now it's just been dating apps, which are a time sink. As my schedule frees up I'll join social groups/meetups in the hobbies that I enjoy. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 08:51 PM |
| 7 | Game of Thrones for womynOr Varys, or Davos' street smarts, or any Maester (who train decades to be the smartest guy in the room). Its believable if they just said she's learned from past mistakes and observations. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 07:29 AM |
| 22 | Game of Thrones for womynThe show is capable of making it compelling with Brienne, but then you have Sansa, who did suffer much tragedy, we are told she is now the smartest person even though her only feat is winning some cat fights with Dany. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 07:04 AM |
| 4 | Game of Thrones for womynPersonally, no. Sansa and Joffrey (technically Baratheon) married and most were cool with that initially. Back to Arya/Gendry the characters were building up the sexual tension for years. I know it's a show and I'm overthinking it, but I like discussing the material. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 04:27 AM |
| 13 | Game of Thrones for womynI'll buy some of that; the implications of sleeping with a princess. But he is the bastard son of a King who's best friends with the Starks, so that should negate some of that. She's killed, but the bro fights with a damn warhammer and fought the Undead, so that's equal. Not to mention, hes magnitudes stronger and bigger than her. I still disagree with how that scene was framed, especially the uproar if Gendry was the aggressor. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 03:59 AM |
| 26 | Game of Thrones for womynOr how Gendry, son of the chadly Robert Baratheon, hooked up with several women including a hot sorceress, fights a with a damn warhammer, fought the Undead, spends all day smelting steel and fire, and yet he's intimidated by an average teen girl. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 02:43 AM |
| 71 | Game of Thrones for womynI'm okay with Brienne's character. She's at least not the small waifs (Arya who's supposed to seem intimidating) and has gotten the crap kicked out of her. Brienne's duel with Jaime, I'll accept since it was clear he was weak and chained so she had a shot. She wasnt given a silver platter of plot like Dany, Sansa, and little Mormont, who just exist, talk a big game, while everyone else does the work for them. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 02:40 AM |
| 28 | Game of Thrones for womynWhilst she glosses over Drogo raped her. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Shouldn't a vasectomy be practically mandatory if you can afford IVF?For the sake of discussion, I respect that study but it is over 20 years old and techniques have improved. I work in Mens Health/Fertilty, and our success rates are over 95%. An inexperienced surgeon, a bad vasectomy, being over 10 years, and time for recovery (it can take up to 2 years to be fertile), I agree will drop those those rates. Of course its semantics at this point | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't a vasectomy be practically mandatory if you can afford IVF?This is not true. To clarity, it depends on who does it and time. If you have a fellowship trained urologist, rates are at least 90% success if done within 10 years. But yes, best to do it only if you're sure. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Single guys who have a vasectomy how did it change your life?Right, best answer is to be firm in the decision. Some of those reversals can suck if the first one was a hackjob. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Single guys who have a vasectomy how did it change your life?This is not true. Yes, best to not regret it and the longer you wait the lower the chance of success, but within 10 years you have 85% or higher success. Choose a urologist who did a fellowship in Mens Health, as they can connect the vas to the epididymis along with aspirating sperm from the testicle and bank it for an emergency stash. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What does politics have to do with The Red Pill?I'd say it's a mix of left and right, rather being yourself versus solely a specific party. Conservativism pushes young marriages hard, and in this climate that goes against some Red Pill principles. Liberal and conservative groups both support programs that mentor young men. I think having a mix of both idealogies, along with mutual understanding, is the healthiest. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 02:53 AM |
| 3 | What’s so wrong with doing some other forms of exercise instead of lifting to get fit?Glutes for the sloots. But seriously, find whatever physical activity that you enjoy. Rock climbing, mountain biking, skiing, it doesn't have to be just getting swole. Join a club of that sport but maximum gains (socially). | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Should I Wait Until I Am Ripped / Built?Start now. I'm 2 years away from my strength, physique goals so I see myself as a plain intermediate lifter. However to my dates, I've been called jacked. You'll impress shortly after your noob gains to the general populace, especially the non Instagram fitness chick types. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Choices in Music?2 Live Crew - We Want Some | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Do BCAA worth it? (Ectomorph body type)You dont need it. Keep it simple: lift, eat enough quality food, get your sleep, and use clean form. Focus on progressive overload. If you still want a supplement, creatine and caffeine (coffee or pill form) are you best bet. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 12:09 PM |
| 3 | College fraternitiesI joined a fraternity, President for a year. It really depends on the school and the fraternity. Chapters even vary between schools. There'll always being the upstanding ones and the shit holes, but there are plenty that pride academics, community service, networking, all while maintaining a great social life. I still keep in frequent contact with over 40 of my brothers 10 years out of college. Are fraternities required? No, but at its best they are amazing. Find one that matches your ideals. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Lack of social circle in new city causing me to focus on women too much. Help with rebuilding one?Plus its healthy to have some bro's to talk over a flake, rejection, or success, just to get it off your chest. I found myself internalizing my interactions way too much. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Lack of social circle in new city causing me to focus on women too much. Help with rebuilding one?It's easy to pickup kickball, so its welcoming to most people. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Lack of social circle in new city causing me to focus on women too much. Help with rebuilding one?Just moved to a new city, and am filling my social life with going on dates, exclusively through apps. I know I've gotten too reliant on this since I'm taking flakes/rejections harder due to lack of abundance. Once the weather warms up in my city in 2 months I will join a coed kickball league. Theres potential to the mixed bag of male and female friends you can make. It pools from a group of people that are athletic, into drinking/nightlife, and are open to make new friends; all traits I am seek… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Questions about the Stronglift 5x5Progressive overload is key. Whether it be 5x5, 3x5, 5x3x1, high reps...you need to be eating enough to progress (more reps, higher weight, less rest, faster speed, etc). You'll get to where you need to be. Unless you're paid for your physique, you dont need to worry about optimization. Be consistent, give it time. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Being Seen With Low Value WomenThat social proof vs none creates that inner dialogue, which in turn increases investment and opens the door. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 11:21 AM |
| 3 | I want to bulk and train strongman again, but I can't snap out of the mindset of "abs=girls". I know this is gay as fuck. But can I have advice pls.To keep it even simpler, just monitor your protein (aim for 1g/lb of bodyweight) and dropping your calories. Dont worry about counting carbs and fats, focus on eating "healthy". Start off arbitrarily by dropping 500 daily calories. Weigh yourself, and try to stay in the 1.5-1.0 lb weekly weight loss until you achieve desired goal. If you lose less than that, shorten calories another daily 200 calories. Slow and steady so you dont lose as much muscle. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Short term: better to be lean but a bit undersized or better to be big but a bit chunky?I did similar. Did a cut using their main principles (intermittent fasting, lift heavy, high protein) and am now onto my 'forever' bulk without ever getting fat again. As insurance, do a cut once you get above 15% body fat. You'd have the benefit of bulking, albeit slowly, without getting fat. Just one approach. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Guys what are the apps you using to manage your daily income and expenses ?Same, Excel. I feel more ownership and accountability when I have to input any dumb purchase in myself. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Short term: better to be lean but a bit undersized or better to be big but a bit chunky?Look into Leangains program. The subreddit has all the free info you need. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Any experience with girls who heavily filter their dating profile pics?Anyone who is attractive will make it as clear as possible, as in minimal washed out/dog filtered shots. Same goes for anyone hiding full body shots. Heavy filters and no full shots? NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | 3 & out: How to deal with rejection? Can this be salvaged?It was enjoyable, and I got to see more of my new home. I'll man up. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys send feeler texts to confirm if she’s still turning up to the date?All this is speculation too. Whatever helps streamline the process for you. I used to get so butthurt about the minutia, now I have the peace of mind. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Want to improve locking down dates. How did I do with this reschedule?I wouldn't say it's so black and white. If she's into you, you'll have much more leeway. I think it's useful to ask when she's free for a 2 day span/weekend, then you can better plan. Otherwise you risk more back and forth. Or at least, I prefer to be direct. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys send feeler texts to confirm if she’s still turning up to the date?She's either into you or not, sending a text wont change her opinion and if she is turned off by it that's her loss, buddy. Your time is valuable, so the predate text is all about you know wasting your schedule rather than being concerned with neediness, especially if you're brief and just confirming logistics. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 03:13 PM |
| 2 | TRP YouTube channels?It's all about mindset! | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What’s so wrong with watching porn/jerking off every once in a while?The point where it starts to interfere with your daily activities, when it becomes painful, death grip, or dissatisfaction with your loads. In this situation, dont worry about the T level, worry about how you feel. Once daily or once every 2-3 day if you want to be arbitrarily conservative. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What’s so wrong with watching porn/jerking off every once in a while?Broscience, at best its insignificant. Look at any sports league and you'll see high testosterone men (even the drug tested ones) having sex more than 3-4 times a week with no decrease in performance. Sex or masturbation, hormonally your responds the same to an orgasm. In our infertility clinic, we have men maintain normal/high testosterone while having sex every other day. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Number or Snapchat?It also involves more personal investment for someone to give you their number, vs the hordes of rando's on Snapchat. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 04:02 PM |
| 3 | TRP YouTube channels?Eric Bugenhagen | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 04:00 PM |
| 22 | How to not loose yourself in a LOTR?They're taking the Hobbits to Eisengard! | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a gym buddy? No friends and shy.Be relaxed, respect gym etiquette, offer to spot others struggling on a rack. You have the benefit of making gym buddies and never have to worry if they flake. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Manly subredditsBestofworldstar | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | My T is barely above 200.... it sits at 202. How much lower than average is this for a man in his 20's?Depression and anxiety can be due to neurochemical imbalance, rather than sex hormones. Although there can be overlap or side effects from your psych medications and any hormonal meds. Your psychiatrist gets the say in managing your psych treatment, so you can bring up the persistent issues and see if your meds can be optimized better if that's the true cause of it. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Does “mewing” works?If it were legit, the guy would be sitting on a billion dollar industry. Benefits of plastic surgery without hacking your face up into a lizard person. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Does “mewing” works?I am very skeptical. Its exploded all over my YouTube suggestions (perhaps because I favorite a lot of self help material). Seems very popular among the demographic that researches "how to Looks Max". It stems from one guy, Mike Mew, who was expelled from the British Orthodontics Society. In the USA, my friends who are dentists and oral maxillofacial surgeons scoff at the idea. For me, it comes down to lack of controlled studies rather than the numerous, vague YouTube testimonials with suspect l… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:16 AM |
| 1 | My T is barely above 200.... it sits at 202. How much lower than average is this for a man in his 20's?Anything that harms your testicles. Common things being common, it's usually stress (school, work, relationships), diet (junk food, soda, alcohol), and lifestyle (lack of regular exercise). Less common are genetic conditions or any medical conditions that hinder your testicles. These are worked up in any low T, or "hypogonadism". | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | My T is barely above 200.... it sits at 202. How much lower than average is this for a man in his 20's?202 is very low for any man, especially in your 20s. Many of the big guidelines will advocate TRT for any man under 350 symptoms (fatigue, low libido, poor erections, fat gain, muscle loss). For a young guy like you, you should correct any lifestyle imbalances (sleep, stress, diet) first. Should you need a boost still Clomid is better to preserve your fertility while modestly boosting your testosterone. If you want to ramp it up, whilst preserving fertility then you can add HCG injections and an… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Am I getting good testosterone treatment? Any other advice to up my T levels.Its shorthand for standard dosing, his urologist will understand. OP, I'm referring to 0.5cc of testosterone cypionate (200mg/mL). | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Am I getting good testosterone treatment? Any other advice to up my T levels.Find someone who'll prescribe injections. You'll get tighter control and increase via shots. Once stable you only have to check up every 6 months long term. A good starting dose is 0.5cc IM once a week, and recheck labs a month later to reassess. Youre young, interest in having kids and not having shrinking balls? You should choose a practice that offers HCG injections too. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Reading TRP stuff daily or notLimit it to whenever youre taking a dump. Double the efficiency and no valuable time lost. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Is slaying/smashing lots of randoms after the age of 30 a myth?Solid. I appreciate your writeups. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 05:28 AM |
| 6 | 2 weeks after dumping Onenitis...Mentally strugglingThats good man, thats real good. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | First date logistics?I havent asked where she lives. Perhaps after the tours, I could ask her what are good bars in her neighborbood and pivot that way? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | New car recommendations?Yes, cash is clearly better financially. But for the sake of advising his desire, should he go with a loan, those would be the terms I'd recommend. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | New car recommendations?If you were to go the car loan route, do so only if you can put 20+% down and afford to pay off in 3-4 years. Seems to be the best value range if you're unable to pay the car fully in cash. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 03:43 PM |
| 2 | At what age can a child begin bodybuilding (weightlifting)Agreed. I can appreciate the anecdote. I dont know any controlled trials on the topic. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 07:33 PM |
| 3 | At what age can a child begin bodybuilding (weightlifting)I would have to disagree. As a football player, and former coach I've seen plenty of our students hit the weights in 9th grade and still become monsters and have the size for D1 schools. Generally the kids with short parents stayed short, and tall parents stayed tall. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 02:53 AM |
| 0 | Do you lie about your schedule with your plates?I agree with Van. Like The Departed quote 'Theyre like mushrooms, keep feeding 'em shit and keep them in the dark' | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 11:28 PM |
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