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Inviting a girl over to your place to watch Netflix is not different than saying "Hey wanna come over and fuck?" That's what she hears and it would definitely be a deal breaker. Changing plans after she throws an objection like "but it's raining" is full-on loss of frame. Hold your frame. Don't change plans in response to a mild objection. Don't use "come over and watch Netflix" as a first date idea. All that will get you is rejection and creep her out. Or will get you a ho that bangs every Tind…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:15 PM
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The overly emotional way you're so pressed in these comments and the use of exaggerated language like "subhuman" is both very feminine behavior and a feminine way of conducting yourself and indicative of someone who clearly has zero frame or frame discipline. Brush up on your stoicism bro. You shouldn't allow your emotions to overtake you and make you sound like an 8th grade girl on her period who just got dumped every time someone disagrees with you.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:16 PM
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First you failed to provide evidence of how you are not paying for pussy with your time? Unless your time is not valuable, then ok, keep taking women on dates and talking and texting with them hoping they will eventually fuck you for it. Also, you say you are leading with game and lifestyle, not money? LOL...."lifestyle" IS money. Lifestyle is nothing more than how you advertise your wealth. Secondly, no true Red Pill man uses "game". Game is a leftover relic from the pickup artist community. Th…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:07 PM
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If you don't think you're paying for sex you're either stupid, naive, or your time is worthless and not valuable. First of all you have all the money you invest to even attract a girl. Gym, car, house, clothes, etc. Then you have the actual money you invest to date a girl. Buying her drinks, dinner, movie, etc. Then finally, you have what should be the most valuable resource of all YOUR TIME! Phone calls, facetimes, texting, snapping, conversations, etc. There is no such thing as free pussy bro.…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:50 PM
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There is nothing remotely similar about a prostitute situation and a sugar baby arrangement. I make out with her and bust inside her without a condom multiple times on the same 24-hour date. -I determine how much time we spend together. Our dates end when I say so, not her. -I determine how much allowance (money) I give her, if any at all. -I decide what sex acts we perform (including anal, facials, swallowing, etc. all without a condom) and when and where she will perform them and she understan…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:45 PM
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Well first of all it's not "thousands of dollars". It's $100 a week, which to you may be a lot of money, but to me it's pocket change I don't even notice. Second, please explain how you or anyone else for that matter doesn't "pay" for sex? Let me ask you a question. In a traditional relationship, on average, how much time do you spend trying to fuck a woman after you first meet her? How many in-person conversations do you have? How many phone conversations? How many text message exchanges? How m…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:28 PM
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Ok dude. Your insecurities are hilarious.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:32 AM
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Yeah there are lots of escorts and prostitutes trying to pretend to be sugar babies. Here is the main difference between the two..... Sugar babies are paid a weekly "allowance" just a parent gives their child an allowance. That's the whole reason SBs call SDs "daddy". And just any other allowance how much she gets paid is determine entirely and solely by you and it's based on her good or bad behavior. Sugar Babies definitely do not consider themselves prostitutes. First, just like a child can on…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 09:43 PM
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I met her on Tinder. Just set your filters to like 18-25. If you're in your 40's many of the matches you get will be matching with you because they're looking for a Sugar Daddy. I use the same opener with every match which is..... "Why are you matching with men old enough to be your father? LOL. Are you a sugar baby or just plain old fashioned Daddy issues?" Almost always gets a laugh or otherwise positive response. If you're having a hard time getting matches in this age range you can expand it…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 09:12 PM
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I appreciate the feedback. And I definitely know I can do all this for free as I have dated and fucked many 20-somethings the traditional way. For me, again, it's all about time. I'm not wanting a relationship so taking women on 2 or 3 dates hoping for maybe getting laid by the 4th or 5th is fucking exhausting and time consuming. Not to mention all the bullshit texting and phone conversations in between dates. But of course this type of arrangement isn't for everyone and I'm honestly shocked tha…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 09:01 PM
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I did not discover the Red Pill until AFTER my divorce almost 4 years ago so my divorce is irrelevant to the advice I am giving today. Secondly, of course if you're a true Red Pill alpha some women will try to initiate sex with you. My point, which I probably didn't make very clear, is that you should never EXPECT it. The OP was sitting around waiting for his women to initiate sex and pissed off she wasn't. You can't sit around waiting for women to initiate sex with you. That is the antithesis o…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:53 PM
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It's difficult to describe just how disgusting middle-aged mom bods are. Pregnancy ruins women's bodies. It just does. It's not just the visual aspects like stretch marks everywhere, saggy empty deflated tits, cellulite asses, super loose blown out baby canals with giant meat curtains, and flabby wrinkly post-baby lasagna stomachs......it's thought that this is all the result of her giving some OTHER man kids. She destroyed her body for another man and now you're getting the leftovers. It's repu…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:44 PM
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"There is nothing more omega than paying for sex." Sex with hot women comes at a price. It is inexcusably ignorant to permit yourself to falsely believe you're not paying for it. Hot young women don't fuck bums. They fuck men with expensive clothes, nice cars, gym bodies, fancy toys, etc. You've spent a ton of money just to get yourself in the position where you can be "considered" as a sexual option for high value women. Even Dan Bilzerian pays all of those Instagram models to party with him th…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:32 PM
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Yeah and no condom either which would never happen with an escort. Oh an anal and BJs finishing in her mouth as well. In addition to having her personal phone number and being friends with her on her personal social media, etc. It's definitely not like an escort situation.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:37 PM
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"And I have been offered sex twice in a month!!! Refused the first time but I was offered sex 2 days later!" Wow. This statement right here is troubling. Talk about operating completely within her frame. Listen carefully because you need to hear this and I am one of the most RP educated members on this forum. I am an expert. Here it goes....... Why are you expecting and/or waiting for your wife (a female) to offer you (a male) sex? If you expect this it means you don't understand the first thing…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:28 PM
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Thank you man! This brightened up my day quite a bit. I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:45 PM
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Such a good point. I am not overstating when I say this forum specifically saved my life. The reason is saved my life is in my Blue Pill conditioning I thought I did everything RIGHT. I saved a single mom hoe and her child and gave them a great life. I built my life around them. I always capitulated to her. I kissed her ass and never stood up to her because I "respected women". I believed in "Happy wife, happy life. I did all of things our liberal feminist dominated culture teaches men they shou…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:22 PM
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I want to do this badly and have been asked to many times. My only fear is an employer finding out in our current state of cancel culture. It would be so easy for someone to report me and me lose my job - and even be prevented from getting another job - from posting material that is not actually misogynistic but easily labeled as such.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:03 PM
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Caring about what other people think about you is about as non-red pill and non-alpha as it gets. Where's your IDGAF attitude and your outcome independence? Come on man. Who gives a frog's fat ass what anyone thinks about your girlfriend? Look, easier said than done I know. But you need to work on being able to have hoards of people not like you or not like your friends, girlfriends, hookups, whatever if you're going to be red pill because I can guarantee you it's going to be a constant thing. I…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:44 PM
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It was my buddy and his wife. We just happened to be going to same place for dinner and I suggested we sit together. Thought maybe it would make the date more fun and TBH I wanted to show her off to my buddy. Dumb move. Backfired. Live and learn
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:36 PM
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Don't give women your time and attention for free. Make them earn it. If a woman isn't sending me nudes, talking sexual with me, being sexual with me, flirting with me, etc. she doesn't get my time, attention, or conversation.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:57 PM
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She's a Cuck-Queen and yes it's a thing (Google it). Pretty rare but it's real. Some women get off on the idea of their significant other fucking other women.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:55 PM
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If you're not going to give your input or advice what is the point of responding? Do you just need attention? That's very very female of you dude. If you don't like the post keep scrolling. It's pretty easy.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:54 PM
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I don't think you're being harsh. It's true. I don't what it is. I can game 7's and under flawlessly. But once I get with an 8+ it's like I forget everything and fall back into being Beta Brad
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:52 PM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:49 PM
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Excellent point.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:48 PM
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I should have explained that first date "flake" better. At the last minute I invited another couple to go with us. When I told her another couple would be joining us she said she wasn't sure if she was comfortable with that since it would be the first time meeting me and now I've got two strangers with me too. I wouldn't back down so she said we will just do it next weekend. At the end of the day she's probably putting me in orbit and I am allowing her to because she's so damn hot and I need to …
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:48 PM
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For some men, their egos won't let them acknowledge the reality that they are paying for pussy one way or another. This is why you see some guys get like literally violently angry at guys who pay girls on Only Fans. They will eviscerate a guy for paying $10 to instantly see a girl's nudes, meanwhile this same guy will pat himself on the back for being able to get a girl to send him nudes for "free" after spending countless hours texting back and forth with her flirting with her and giving her th…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:41 PM
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I kind of have to laugh at all the men on here saying no real red pilled alpha would pay for sex as if ALL sex doesn't come at cost to us. Even the celebrity pro athlete or rock star that can point at the hottest girl in the crowd, have her brought to his hotel room, fuck her and never see her again paid dearly for it. He paid in the countless hours of training and practice and hard work and god knows how much money to be the very best in his profession. The luxury of being to get a blowjob anyt…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:46 PM
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Define "below average". Unless it's so small it's like a medical condition or literally makes sex impossible it shouldn't matter. When it comes to what women look for in a man dick size isn't even in their Top 5. Also for women sexual stimulation is 90% mental and only 10% physical. Red Pill is about stimulating women mentally and demonstrating you're a high value Alpha so they subconsciously desire your seed. Doesn't matter what size vessel that seed is coming out of.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:13 PM
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Personal trainer / gym employee. Most 9s and 10s these days are content creators on social media.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:13 PM
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What does she need to do that she is not doing now to be "promoted"? Have you clearly communicated exactly what that is to her? Part of being red pilled is being a good Captain to your First Officer and a good Captain always provides clear concise direction to his First Officer. If it's merely a time frame you need to give her a specific future date of when she will be promoted and exactly what she needs to do between now and then to earn that promotion. She's looking for leadership. Fucking man…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:30 AM
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What does she need to do that she is not doing now to be "promoted"? Have you clearly communicated exactly what that is to her? Part of being red pilled is being a good Captain to your First Officer and a good Captain always provides clear concise direction to his First Officer. If it's merely a time frame you need to give her a specific future date of when she will be promoted and exactly what she needs to do between now and then to earn that promotion. She's looking for leadership. Fucking man…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:28 AM
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There's too many so-called "red pilled" guys out there that learn about shit tests and little to nothing else and then think everything's a shit test. When your only tool is a hammer everything starts to look like a nail. Asking you if you have a girlfriend is not a shit test. Not by any stretch of the imagination. So why in the world would you respond with the agree and amplify shit test response of "I got a few. I lost count though"? That makes no sense. As such, this is point where things sta…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:53 AM
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Treating 8's and 9's differently than 5's simply because they're so much hotter. God damn this is a vice I can't seem to stop. Don't get me wrong, I don't revert back to full Beta but I let them get away with a lot more and really struggle with scarcity mindset and outcome independence. After all 5's are a dime a dozen. I'm swimming in them. But opportunities with an 8 or 9 comes around maybe once or twice a year for me so yeah I struggle to walk away, not give a fuck, pass her shit tests, etc.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:29 AM
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I see it differently than the other responses you've received. First and foremost, a question is only a shit test if it is presented in a snarky bitchy tone, clearly insulting, or otherwise designed to provoke a reaction or response from you. The operative word here is "TEST" and that test is her seeing if she has the power to illicit an emotional response from you. You know if a question is rude, insulting, presenting in a cunt-y way, or otherwise designed to illicit an emotional reaction from …
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:16 AM
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Why? You're not in a committed relationship with her why would she be jealous? You both know you're talking to other people. She actually sounds more mature than you by what you describe. Wanting a girl to get jealous or emotional about you talking to or flirting with other women tells me you're emotionally needy and insecure and almost certainly doing it TO provoke a response from her and then being butthurt when you don't get it. Stop it. That's beta as fuck. Either be in a committed relations…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 11:51 PM
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You tell her "Pussy isn't all I want unless pussy is all you got".
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:24 PM
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"Are you a player?" is a shit test. Shit tests and frame are two different things. The easiest way to think about frame is like this.... When you are a student you are in the teacher's frame. When you are a child you are in your parent's frame. When you are at work you are in your boss's frame. When you get pulled over you are in the cop's frame. Frame simply you means you are the one with more power than her. You are her superior. She is your subordinate. While this is not verbally stated it is…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:59 PM
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Sometimes my replies are too long and wordy and the essence of my point gets lost, so let me trying again and get straight to the point..... You trying to find a girl that does the things you mentioned is a prime example of you operating in the woman's frame. Who's running the show in the bedroom you or her? Want a quickie? Text her "I'm coming over to your place on my lunch break today and fucking you. See you at 12:30. Be ready." Want reverse cowgirl? Jesus Christ throw her ass in reverse cowg…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:52 AM
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Don't forget to never judge a woman by what she says, only by what she does. Almost all women say one thing and do another, especially when it comes to men, relationships, and sex. If you really think she's not going to fuck any of these guys you have some Blue Pill conditioning you need to acknowledge and scrub from your mind. How the fuck are you supposed to know if he's "Mr. Right" if you don't know how he is in the sack? Can a man be Mr. Right if he has a micropenis, or impotent, or a premat…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:12 AM
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First of all she wouldn't have "possibly" cheated on you. She 100% guaranteed would have cheated on you and probably did multiple times. The phrase "You can't turn a whore into a housewife" wasn't just pulled out of somebody's ass. It's 1000% percent true. Hot slutty girls are a blast no doubt. I partake in fucking hot sluts with high body counts as often as possible. In fact, that's what I almost exclusively seek out and that's what all my plates are. But that's because I don't want a relations…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:52 AM
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This is not a possible red flag. It is a red flag. A giant one. First of all, being late for a first date is akin to being late for an interview. It disrespectful of the other person's time and indicates either a lack of interest in what the other person is offering or poor planning for something that is supposed to be important or all of the above. So that alone is a red flag. What makes it a giant red flag, and an automatic deal breaker, is her taking her lack of planning and poor time managem…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:33 AM
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Well in that case I would set aside a certain amount of reasonable time each day for thinking about it and try to stick to that. Or maybe multiple times a day at first (say only when eating or only when taking a shit). It's a habit and like any habit it's going to take discipline and consistency over time to break
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:33 PM
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Dude, unless you're one of those super rare men that became a millionaire before the age of 30 it's literally impossible for you to be at your peak SMV in your 20s. You might be at your peak physical condition in the gym but that's not your peak SMV. Ask any woman on earth if she'd rather fuck a ripped 25 year old with a killer body living with his parents driving a piece of shit car and has $20 in his checking account or a millionaire 40 year with a Dad bod with a huge home, a pool, and a bad a…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:58 PM
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There's a lot of bad and incorrect information about hypergamy in this post so let's clear up a couple of things.... Rule #1 - Beta Bucks / Alpha Fucks or sometimes referred to as Beta Need / Alpha Seed. Women want BOTH types of men for different reasons and typically at different times in their life. Generally speaking when a women is in her late teens and early twenties she's partying and riding the cock carousal. She's only interested in Alphas at this stage of her life. If she fucks around a…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:45 PM
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You'll get around to this in your Red Pill training but the #1 most important rule when it comes to communicating with women is this..... Never judge a woman by what she SAYS only what she DOES. In other words, pay no attention to what she tells you verbally. Only pay attention to what her actions and her behaviors tell you. Women are masters at saying one thing and then doing another. If you pay no mind to the noise coming out of that cock holster on her face and only look at her behavior and a…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:29 PM
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What you resist persists. Stop fighting it. The more you try to fight thinking about her the more you'll think about her. Just accept you dated a very long time and it's going to take a very long time to stop thinking about her. Once you accept that and stop fighting it you will be surprised how quickly you stop thinking about her so much
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:10 PM
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The only kind of chick that would throw a tantrum over such an obvious non-racist attempt at humor is one of these cancel-culture woke liberal feminists which is not the kind of chick you want. She did you a favor by revealing her snowflake ass before you invested much time in her.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:45 PM
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You're welcome. Another good way to look at it is this.......The Red Pill teaches us to stop focusing on getting women and start focusing on ourselves and pursuing excellence in everything we do and women will find you. The same concept applies to finding your purpose. Stop focusing on finding your purpose and instead just focus on making yourself the best version of yourself you can be. You know what you should and should not be doing. If you're drinking too much, stop. If you're watching porn …
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:39 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:30 PM
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I'm 43 years old. Trust me when I tell you that your purpose can and WILL change many many times over the course of your life. You don't need to find your lifelong purpose....there is no such thing for 99% of men. In fact highly successful alpha men often change their life purpose every few years. Michael Jordan went from basketball to baseball and then to golf. Arnold Schwartznegger went from professional body-building to acting to politics. Elon Musk went e-commerce software to electric vehicl…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:30 PM
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This has be studied heavily. Research shows statistically a woman is most likely to leave you or cheat on you after you have experienced.... A job loss. A major illness. A major life trauma like the death of a parent or child. That's not an opinion. That's a fact. Women don't care about your struggles boys. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners. Lean on your social circle of male friends, your siblings, your family, but don't use women for emotional support. They view it as weak and …
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:11 AM
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The meetups are fake. It's a widespread scam. They'll tell you to CashApp them all or part of the money first and the rest when you meet up. Once you send the money she instantly blocks you and there's nothing you can do to get it back. Probably not even a female you're talking to. Probably a dude in another country.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:06 AM
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Stop watching porn and don't jerk off more than once every 3 days.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:49 PM
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Agree 100%. This is where abundance mentality is critical. You have to be talking to enough women that it's almost annoying and you almost want one to go away. That way you can truly say "Monogamy is not an option so either share me or hit the road" and actually mean it, not fake it. Of course they all want monogamy with a high value man. But if that is off the table, it is a documented fact women would rather share a high value man with other women than have monogamy with a low value, average, …
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:55 PM
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I disagree. It's more likely his SMV is slightly higher than her's which is precisely WHY she thinks she has a shot at locking him up. Read the Rationale Male again. If given the option between sharing a high-value man with other women or having commitment and monogamy from an average or slightly above average man, women will always choose sharing the high-value man. If she knows monogamy is off the table, she will settle for sharing you with other women. I've proven this so many times it's ridi…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:47 PM
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Thanks man. Cheating to win plates is tempting. God knows I've done it. It's damn hard to be truly honest. I literally just had this happen to me today. Girl I've been talking to in another town for a couple weeks is going to be in my town tonight for work. I made arrangements to meet up. She said "Ok but listen. I don't like to share. If we have sex tonight I expect you to stop talking to other girls until we figure out what we are." This is a girl I've never had sex with, that's hot, that I've…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:40 PM
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Agreed. Even if you make it perfectly clear from the beginning FWB is all you want and she agrees, she'll often move the goalposts later on. However, that is the great thing about making it perfectly clear in the beginning. You get to say "Hey this is what we agreed to and now you want something else. That's fine if your feelings about it have changed, but mine haven't. I'm sorry". You get to walk away guilt free or keep her in your frame. Letting her believe you're open to something more not on…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:31 PM
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These are girlfriend texts. Why is someone you call a plate sending you girlfriend texts. She is using words like "being intimate with you" and talking about how much she cares about you and wants to make you happy. Those aren't texts you get from a plate. Those are texts you get from a girlfriend or at the very least a girl who has been led to believe she has a shot at being your girlfriend. I suspect the answer to that question is you've been cheating in your plate game to make it easier to ge…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:19 PM
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Record yourself in Snap and send her a snap video. Less creepy.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:42 PM
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Disagree. This line of thinking creates a culture of over-valuing and pedestalizing women with low body counts, which in turn makes these women's over-valuing of themselves to stratospheric proportions and their barrier-of-entry for sex way way way too fucking high. By definition, a chick with a low body count is going to make you wait and work for it ding dong and that's the opposite of what we're trying to do here. Do you not know the Red Pill rule regarding this? When a girl makes you wait fo…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 08:28 PM
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You do realize believing NAWALT (Not All Women Are Like That) is a violation of one of the most basic fundamental rules of Red Pill philosophy. The entire foundation of Red Pill teachings is that the exception does not disprove the rule. So why are you here? You clearly don't believe in the philosophy. As far as my success with women, it's insane. Women are obsessed with me precisely BECAUSE I treat them like shit. I tell them to their faces they're nothing but a walking wet hole to me and they …
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:45 PM
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I'm using snapping and texting synonymously here but I'm really talking about snapping. As soon as she friends you on snapchat she's gonna check out your story....and probably pretty regularly cause she wants to find out more about you. This is your opportunity to indirectly show her you have a fun, busy, exciting life going on (even if you really don't). Hitting the gym, going for a run, eating a fancy meal, going on a motorcyle or ATV ride, shooting guns, working on a big project at work, any …
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:47 PM
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I definitely would drop it and change the subject and not make another comment about it. Just pivot and say something like "Hey I'm not busy Saturday. Let's grab a drink together at (fill in the blank)." If she says ok you're in. If she says can't or she's busy say "No worries. Hit me up sometime when you want to go out." and don't ever contact her again unless she contacts you
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:22 PM
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Ok Beta Brad, whatever you say. It's an undisputed statistical fact a man would have to be a fucking moron to get married in this day and age so what the fuck are women good for? You can't marry them. They all have some sort of feminist indoctrination from being raised in our gynocentric education system and culture so they don't make good long-term partners for men. Hardly any of them know how to cook, clean, or keep a home. Besides having kids, the only use for a woman men have left is sex. An…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:18 PM
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You met her on Tinder. What kind of work did you do building attraction and demonstrating high value PRIOR to the date? It takes time to build sexual attraction and implement Red Pill strategies. There are no shortcuts. You can't just match with a girl, set a date, show up and expect her to jump your bones. I usually spend about a week texting and Snapchatting a girl building attraction prior to the first date. I'll also usually try to slip in a phone call or Facetime as well. My goal is demonst…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:51 PM
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Don't worry about fucking 20-year olds for as long as possible. The last 3 girls I fucked were 20, 22, and 28. If you keep yourself in shape, don't lose your hair, make a success out of your life, and continue to follow Red Pill philosophy you can easily keep fucking 20-somethings well into your 40s and 50s.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:21 PM
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Classic rookie mistake. I assumed the same thing at first. It's simply not true. The last 3 matches I got on Tinder are 20, 22, and 28 and I got all of those in 1 week. All of my matches are in their 20s because I have my top filter set at 30. The reason for this is simple. I don't date divorced single moms. I am not willing to play second fiddle to another man's orgasm. I tried dating single moms in their 30s. I tried hard. It was the same story every time.....their kids come first (most even s…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:17 PM
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Of course! I was married for 17 years. Never cheated on her. Unfortunately she had multiple affairs, divorced me, and zeroed me out. Was the good times we had together and the close relationship we shared worth the pain and destruction I went through in divorce? Not for one second. I'm not saying I will never have another committed deep relationship again. I will just never get married again.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 07:51 PM
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Of course it would be the beauty industry lol. That only supports my point even further. You're missing the broader overall point. Other than her pussy and fake tits and looks where does she get her value? What is her sense of self-worth outside of those things? Outside of her physical attractiveness and sexuality what does she have to offer the world? Here's another way to look at it.....If she was in a horrible accident tomorrow and her pussy was destroyed and had to be removed and/or she was …
/r/askTRP28/10/20 07:40 PM
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This is a woman that has her value tied to her sexual attractiveness. She clearly doesn't have a high paying, high status job, as she's openly trading her beauty and sexuality for monetary gain and validation. Hence, the large number and variety of sexual partners. The problem is, unlike a genuine talent or skill or career, her sexual attractiveness has a definite shelf life of which she's fast approaching. The reason she's into plastic surgery is because of course she wants to extend that shelf…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 06:05 PM
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Correct. I mean I don't totally ghost them on text and snap it just goes way the fuck down. I go from multiple times a day to maybe once or twice a week.....just normal plate maintenance shit.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:35 PM
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Perfect response. She upped the ante with the "I'm not patient" comment expecting you to crumble and you held your frame. Good man. The waiting list comment was a good display of abundance mentality. Maybe a tad overt but good nonetheless. She's obviously trying to get you to chase her. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:33 PM
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Well don't forget....I'm solely talking about dating app matches. If this is a girl you know from work or your social circle then yes texting should only been done for logistics because you should be building attraction in person in whatever capacity you know her from your real life. But in a dating app, yeah there's no other way to build attraction prior to the date other than texting and snapping and maybe a phone call or two.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:30 PM
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I am 43 and no kids. Here was my weekend.....Friday night I fucked a 22 year old from Tinder. Saturday I helped a buddy do some dirt work around a new house he's building. Saturday night I fucked a 31 year old plate who is a real freak in bed. Sunday another 35 year old plate told me she made me chicken enchiladas and invited me over to her house. Fucked her Sunday night and stayed the night. Granted this weekend was the exception, but normally I fuck at least 2-3 times a week. I have 2 regular …
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:13 PM
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Only text for logistics is a Coach Cory Wayne concept....not a true tenant of Red Pill philosophy. Coach Cory is married with kids and old as fuck. He's like in his mid to late 40s. The last time he was single and dating dating apps didn't exist and texting was done on a flip phone scrolling through the numbers to find the letters. He's coming from the old school perspective of dating women that you already know because you work with them or they're part of your social circle already and in that…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:35 PM
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Ok, let's give you the benefit of the doubt and assume she is interested in or trying to solicit the sexual attention of other men. Why the fuck would she being doing this literally right in front of her boyfriend? What possible purpose would that serve? The only possible outcome is pissing off her boyfriend. Why would any woman do that? Why would she be trying to solicit other men's attention literally under your nose? It makes zero sense. If she actually wanted to fuck these guys she would be …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:23 PM
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There is nothing more blue pill beta than agreeing to have an exclusive girlfriend in the first place (clearly lack options) and then losing your shit when the one and only pussy you can get looks at another man. What kind of insecure, unconfident, scarcity mindset, oneitis, single pussy worshipping simp agrees to an exclusive relationship with one woman and then mate-guards her like a starving dog protecting his bone? I tell you what kind....a man who knows she can do better than him. And no do…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:00 PM
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"I finally found some guts to ask her what the likelihood of use ever hooking up" Yeah Dude, that is a very simp-y blue pill thing to say. Don't every ask a girl what are your chances of hooking up. That's a huge turn off for girls. It's basically saying "I really want to hook up with you but I don't feel like I'm good enough and I'm afraid you might be out of my league. Am I right?". That demonstrates to her that you lack confidence and are low value. Her comment of discussing these things prev…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:50 PM
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Sounds like you didn't put in enough work building attraction and creating sexual tension prior to the meetup. What caused you to be off on your game was her apparent lack of interest in you on the date which is a direct result of doing enough pre-date work to get her excited about meeting you. You can't just match with a girl, immediately set up a date, and expect to spit Red Pill game to her on that date and have her respond to it positively. Yeah, that might happen sometimes but it's a bad st…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:41 PM
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Dude, if you're not going to contract it 90% of the time they are not in an active breakout that's pretty rare in my books but to each his own. Would I risk a 90% chance I won't get it? In most cases probably not. But if she's a multimillionaire supermodel yeah I'd probably take my chances.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:18 PM
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"In other words, my girlfriend became very obviously turned on by other men a couple times in front of me. Is that something I should worry about?" You have to provide evidence of "very obviously turned on by other men". What does that mean? How do you know she was very obviously turned on? Was she dripping pussy juice down her leg? Was she masturbating? Did she tell you she was getting turned on by these men? Was she overtly flirting with them (making obvious sexual innuendos, asking them to da…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:15 PM
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I thought I made it pretty clear that yes you can technically get it even when your partner is not experiencing a break out but it's rare.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:03 PM
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Agreed. I'm just saying the time to tell you about her HSV2 is not right after she sucked your dick and wants to stick it in. Obviously you're not going to be thinking with a clear head in that moment. It's kind of shady.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:01 PM
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Of course it feels shitty to be cheated. It's fucking devastating. I don't care how Alpha you are, nothing will emasculate your manhood faster than your girlfriend or wife sucking and fucking another man's dick behind your back. It's important you understand the biological reason you feel this way. Only men can be victims of paternity fraud (tricked into raising another man's child thinking it's your's). In that respect, cheating is uniquely, objectively, and unequivocally worse for men than for…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:58 PM
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I get it man. I do think it's kind of bullshit she didn't tell you until after you guys had already started fooling around. That's way irresponsible of her. I'm 43 and I've only ever had 2 girls I considered dating with HSV2 and both of them told me in our initial conversations before we even met up. I just thanked them for being honest and upfront and politely declined to move forward with meeting up. I imagine that happens a lot to these women so maybe they get to the point where they don't wa…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:18 PM
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"She was always looking around to see if other dudes were paying attention to her" Based on what evidence? I look around all the time when I'm out. I'm just checking people out in general. Without hard evidence this just sounds paranoid. Especially considering she does not try to get attention from guys on social media. The number of women who seek out and want male attention but do not use social media to do so is exactly zero. "And, sometimes she would send out choosing signals - IE eye contac…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:09 PM
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Also I noticed the previous comment where she says she's smart and beautiful. Again, this is textbook qualification shit testing. She wants to see if you'll give some validating response like "Damn! Pretty and smart? That's what I'm talking about!" or "Hell yeah I love a girl with beauty and brains" or something to that effect. Basically anything that validates her self-compliment. It's one of the simplest forms of shit testing.....they will tell you how great they are in some way to see if you …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 08:47 PM
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1000% guaranteed you're fine.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 08:28 PM
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I stopped reading at "HB9 33 year old going through a divorce". LOL...dude there's no such thing as a near middle aged divorced woman that is a 9. That's ridiculous. So what was she when she was 20 years old? Even assuming she was a legit "10" when she was 20 years old you're telling me her SMV has only gone down 1 point in 13 years? LOL. Get the fuck out of here with that noise. Her pussy is shot and her eggs are old and rotten. She can't even give you offspring. Or if she does, it will be a hi…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 08:27 PM
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No she never got herpes from me (mouth or genital) and yes I ate her out all the time, but if I had an active cold sore I would refrain from going down on her. Mouth Herpes are HSV1. Genital Herpes are HSV2. They are classified differently because they are two different strains of the herpes virus. You can have one but not the other. In fact, most people do. I am one of them. I get cold sores and fever blisters on my mouth (HSV1) but do not have, nor have ever had, genital herpes (HSV2). If you …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:07 PM
2

Read or download the e-book for "12 Rules for Life" by Jordan Peterson.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:57 PM
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No girl says something like "Do you want to eat me out?" without expecting to get a reaction out of you. In that respect it's a form of a shit test. She's trying to get you to qualify yourself to her. She expects a response like "Fuck yeah I will!!!" or "I will eat your pussy so good baby you won't be able to walk for days!". That's what she's expecting because that's the kind of response 99% of men would give. Don't give it to her. The perfect response to a question like this is..."I don't know…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:54 PM
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Genital Herpes or HSV2 is probably the least understood STD out there. You could full on fuck her without a condom and unless she was in the middle of an active breakout, which only happens a couple times a year, you would have little to no chance of getting it. I have buddy who got herpes in college. He's been married for 15 years and has 2 kids and his wife has never got it. He just takes his medication and avoids sex when he has an active breakout. Same thing with cold sores. I get cold sores…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:36 PM
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Do you want the real answer?........(skip to the last two paragraphs if you want the short answer) In the 1960's, widespread opposition to the Vietnam War gave a tremendous boost to the rise in popularity of the Radical Left which spawned a unique type of feminism called "3rd wave feminism" 3rd wave feminists believe and teach that in addition to having equal rights with men (such as the right to vote, own property, and borrow money which were goals of 1st and 2nd wave feminism) women should als…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 10:14 PM
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Right? Wish this was a story I was making up for likes but sadly it's true. It's my life.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:26 PM
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"But, another flaw in what you’ve written is that it assumes a man knows a chick as a bf." Agreed. I'm only talking about the men you know, or worse yet, the pieces of shit who actually seek out married and attached women because they're long hanging fruit.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:24 PM
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Hooking up with women who are in relationships is Beta as fuck. It encompasses nearly every aspect of being Beta. Here's why.... Scarcity mentality. You're so hard up for pussy, and your options for pussy are so few, that you're willing to "share" a pussy with another man who is also regularly fucking her? Jesus Christ that's revolting to any halfway red pilled man. Acceptance of a low value woman. Just because every female is capable of cheating doesn't mean every woman does. I don't care what …
/r/askTRP20/10/20 07:20 PM
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"We had a short text convo and then I called her on the phone to set up a date. I suggested watching movies at mine" Watching movies are your house was your suggestion for a first date??? LOL...dude why didn't you just get straight to the point and say "Hey wanna fuck?". Everyone knows watching movies at home is synonymous with fucking. You literally asked her to Netflix and Chill on a first date. Then, as if you're intentions weren't obvious enough, you said no when she suggested going to the c…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:07 PM
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Me too. Thank you!
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:43 PM
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There is no such thing as getting out of the orbiter zone. Once a woman views you as an orbiter or beta she views you that way forever. Sometimes a woman will sympathy or pity fuck a beta for a variety of reasons but it's never for the same reason she fucks Alphas and she'll never give you her sexual best. A woman will ALWAYS give a man she views as Alpha her sexual best. Woman break rules for Alphas and make rules for Betas. If she's making rules for you, especially sexual rules around mundane …
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:04 PM
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I am quite familiar with OnlyFans as 2 former plates of mine have accounts. I would say the majority of guys who subscribe do so because they know the girl in real life somehow and subscribe for the sheer curiosity factor of seeing her baby funnel and gravy tunnel. Maybe she's a co-worker, a girl he knows from the gym, a neighbor, a friend or a friend's wife or girlfriend, an ex-girlfriend of his or a friend of his girlfriend's or wife, etc. These probably account for the majority of most girl's…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:15 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:17 PM
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At some point this conversation is going to come up with every plate or FWB you have so you need to get good at helping them understand why having a long-term casual or FWB is an EQUALLY MUTUALLY BENEFICIAL arrangement. There's no reason this conversation needs to be hostile or antagonistic either. The tears are real. Because of our gynocentric culture's indoctrination of people to believe pussy is more valuable than anything men have to give she thinks she's getting a raw deal. It's your job to…
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:17 PM
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LOL....so your recommendation is to silently comply? I fail to see what's Red Pill about that. Although rare, there are valid reasons to withhold sex. She could be on her period, have a yeast infection, etc. It is critical you know whether she is withholding sex for a legitimate reason or whether she is shit testing you. Otherwise you risk complying with the biggest shit test a woman can give you - arbitrarily withholding sex.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:04 PM
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A good rule of thumb is people in general almost always love to talk about themselves. Being a good conversationalist is as much about getting the other person to open up and talk as it is talking yourself. Memorize some good open-ended questions you can use on anyone. Ask them about their interests, their career, their hobbies, their family, their favorite movie or band, their idea of a perfect vacation, what food they like, etc. Basically just ask a bunch of questions about them
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:57 PM
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The correct way to answer this question would have been to respond with..... "Would you still want to continue seeing me if I didn't give you my company, time, and attention? In other words, if I never spoke to you, never texted you, never hung out with you, never did anything non-sexual with you and there was absolutely zero opportunity of this possibly turning into a relationship? In other words, if I just literally walked in, fucked you, and left and nothing else? Would you still agree to hav…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:48 PM
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You're not giving enough info to answer the question. It's 100% dependent on the reason WHY she said no fucking tonight. Is it because she has a yeast infection? Is she on her period? If she didn't provide a reason you should have demanded one. Even if you didn't feel like having sex you should have demanded an explanation. Withholding sex is a powerplay and a test. Don't ever allow her to get away with that shit. The dominate alpha dictates the terms of when and where sex will occur and the sub…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:05 PM
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"The red pill inside me is telling she’s probably off with another dude, not her parents." That's definitely not the Red Pill inside you. That's the weak insecure jealous needy controlling non-confident Blue Pill beta bitch inside you. Let me ask you a question.... Do you view yourself as a prize? Do you? Are you a prize? Are you better than 99% of the Blue Pill beta simps out there? Are you? Because if so, then WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU WORRYING ABOUT? You see the difference between an Alpha mindse…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:52 PM
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You're apply male sexual logic to females and it doesn't work that way. Men want good genes too, but we will fuck women even if they have bad genes. We don't care. We will fuck women at, above, or below our SMV. Hypergamy doesn't work that way. Women only fuck across or up. Never down. That holds true regardless of whether she is trying to get pregnant or not. So it all depends on HER SMV. Some women have low SMV and therefore at or above her level might include some genetically defective men. B…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:37 PM
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That is her cervix. Feels a little bit like a finger pointing back at you inside there. The g-spot is located inside her vagina directly behind her clit. In fact, that's all the g-spot is, it's the back of her clitoris. The best way to access it is to put 2 fingers in sideways with your palm facing up. Once they are all the way in curl them back towards you like you're making a "come here" motion. You will feel the back of her pubic bone. Keep making that "come here" motion gently (most guys get…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:26 PM
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If it's been over a year since you've gotten laid you absolutely need to start fucking whomever will fuck you. Game like any other skill takes practice. Imagine yourself as trying to become an excellent boxer. You need sparring partners to practice with so that when your big title fight opportunity comes around you're prepared. Plus you never know what will happen. I'm 43 and I matched with a 22 year old on Tinder this weekend. Before you start congratulating me let me preface that by saying thi…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:19 PM
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It's definitely environmental. Although our culture has become a lot more progressive in recent years, American society still very much shames women for being sexual, promiscuous, and desiring and/or enjoying sex. How many times have you heard women shaming other women for being overly sexual saying "She has no respect for herself" or "I have more respect for myself than that". For most women, their own self-worth is very much wrapped up in their sexuality. That's why some women will go all the …
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:44 PM
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Sort of. I am saying they need plausible deniability for their hamster wheel. Remember, accountability is like Kryptonite to women. Women, on the whole, are completely and totally incapable of taking accountability for their actions....particularly when it comes to sex. Why do you think consensual sex that women regret is so often later claimed to be rape? Women cannot and will not take accountability or responsibility or acknowledgment for either wanting to be fucked or agreeing to be fucked. Y…
/r/askTRP14/10/20 06:48 PM
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LOL.....so the only girls you want to be in a relationship with are the girls who won't give you sex? Dude, you don't reward denial of sex. WTF is wrong with you? Denial of sex is bad. You shouldn't be out there trying to find women who refuse to have sex with you. That's NEVER a good thing....I don't care if it's the 1st date, 2nd date, or 50th date. Seeking out and pedestalizing women who won't have sex with you and viewing sexual rejection as some sort of virtue is about as Blue Bill as it ge…
/r/askTRP14/10/20 06:30 PM
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The term "slut" is far too subjective to give a blanket answer as to what makes women feel like sluts. For some religious women it could be holding hands or kissing on the first date. For other very liberal women, nothing can make them feel like sluts. They take pride in being sex-positive and indulging in sex and various fetishes with a lot of people. And then there's everything in between. But I would say for a large number of women the fear of judgement comes not so much from the outside but …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:44 PM
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Yes....increase your value. Our society ensures high value-women know they are high-value, which is why these women are confident and selective, and hypergamy ensures a woman will only pair-bond with a man at or above her value. These mean you always need to be higher value than the female you are trying to attract. If she's a SMV 8 you need to be a SMV 9. If she has a college degree and makes $100k a year, you better have a college degree and make $150k a year. She needs to perceive your value …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:29 PM
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Whether you checked her phone without her knowledge or asked her to see the messages they exchanged is an irrelevant detail......either action screams low value. It says "I'm a weak and insecure man who lacks confidence and I'm easily threatened by other men". It also communicates a massive scarcity mindset. You're acting like a starving dog guarding his bone because it's the only bone he's got. "...regardless whether or not it was shit test. It was disrespectful no?" Not necessarily. Here, cont…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:07 PM
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You have to be constantly vigilant about falling back into Blue Pill habits. Make some time every single day to listen to a Red Pill podcast. I do it during my daily shower in the bathroom. Check out Entrepreneurs in Cars, 33 Secrets, or Coach Corey Wayne. You need a daily RP recharge especially if you are talking to women daily or they will suck you back into beta behavior. Good luck
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:32 PM
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Entrepreneurs in Cars is excellent. Coach Corey Wayne is decent. M from 33 Secrets is ok. He's an old PUA from the early 2000's. He can be pretty douche-y but his info is mostly solid and entertaining. His single mom vids are hilarious.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:48 PM
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You've already asked for commitment so that ship as already sailed. You can't pretend that didn't happen. Asking for it is bad enough, but you asked for it AND got rejected. That is worst case scenario and unrecoverable from a Red Pill perspective. But hey there's no harm in trying. So here's my best advice.... There's a big difference between a girl who WANTS to be exclusive with you, and one who agrees to be exclusive with you reluctantly because she's been given an ultimatum. You're trying to…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:41 PM
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"I asked her about a guy that she constantly mentioned to me during the time we were casually dating" Massive mistake. This is a huge demonstration of low value. It screams insecurity, jealously, and lack of confidence. Her constantly mentioning this other guy while you were casually dating was a shit test. And you failed it miserably. She was trying to see if it would rattle you. And it did. The correct way to respond would have been to completely ignore her mentioning of this guy or to encoura…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:50 PM
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Nice positive cold approach. The only thing you forgot was the close. Sometimes it can be easy to forget there's actually an objective to cold approaching and that's to close and get contact info. I've found that even women who are interested might be hesitant to give their personal phone number to a stranger they just met so I went to asking for their Snap or IG instead.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:29 PM
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This whole post reeks of Blue Bill beta behavior, rationalizations, and justifications. "I know you're always supposed to let the woman push the commitment, but I was riding my intuition..." TRANSLATION: I know the correct Red Pill way to behave but I couldn't hold frame and gave into my old Blue Pill instincts. Do you know why you are supposed to always let the woman push for the relationship? Because in any relationship the person pushing for commitment is automatically in the weaker frame so …
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:24 PM
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That's my point.....my firing wasn't because of my race, color, religion, sex, or national origin. It was because I stood up to my boss who was a bully. Now upper management has a decision to make.....believe the female boss or the male subordinate. If they believe me and discipline or fire her she could easily cry discrimination. I can't. And they know that. Therefore it's safer to take her side so they don't end up with a potential discrimination lawsuit
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:07 PM
2

You underestimate the power of the red pill and how many chicks with daddy issues there are out there
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:07 PM
2

I used the wrong term. Kansas is an "at-will" employment state but it means the same thing. "Kansas, along with many other states in the nation, is an at-will employment state. Under the doctrine of at-will employment, either the employer or the employee can terminate the employment relationship at any time. It can be for any reason, and no advance notice is required unless some kind of agreement exists that states otherwise." https://www.mightyrecruiter.com/recruiter-guide/at-will-employment-wr…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:18 PM
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I am 43 and have been red pilled for 2 years due to a cheating wife / divorce after 17 years of marriage. I was a lifelong blue pill beta both in my 20s and throughout my marriage. I was never good with women in my teens and 20's. I did ok but I do far better now. Over the last 2 years since being red pilled I've had sex with one 19 year old, one 20 year old (both of whom were hot as fuck), and one 28 year old along with multiple women in their 30s. I regularly match with and talk to 19-25 year …
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:12 PM
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LOL....kinda hard for me since they knew I was married but a good idea for single unmarried guys.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:42 PM
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Kansas is a "right to work" state meaning an employer can legally fire any employee for any reason including no reason at all as long as it doesn't violate the Equal Employment Opportunity Act. The only group NOT protected by the EEOA is white men under 45 years old (me). In other words, you can legally fire a white man under 45 years old for any reason valid or not without fear of legal repercussion.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:37 PM
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Nope. Kansas.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:08 PM
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Thank you. I would never take back my ex under any circumstance. She's dead to me. I wish she was actually dead. If she got raped and murdered tomorrow I'd throw a celebration party. That's the level of hatred I have for this woman. She is pure evil.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 10:26 PM
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Dealt with this at my last job. It was an excellent job I loved. This was a large publicly traded company that jumped on the "diversity and inclusion" bandwagon and went through a promotion frenzy of promoting any female or minority that put in for promotion regardless of how incompetent they were. I ended up with a 26 year old female boss with a quarter of my experience, knowledge, or expertise. What she lacked in actually competency she attempted to make up for by belittling and threatening ev…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 10:22 PM
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Couple of solutions depending on your cash situation. Most nicer hotels have nice restaurants and bars in them. You ask her out on a date to that restaurant or bar then if things go well you're already right there at the hotel it's easy to get a room. You can also do this by taking her to an Old Chicago / Applesbees / Buffalo Wild Wings / etc. that is near a hotel. The closer the better. Usually If you're town is like most towns you can find one of these bar/restaurant places that is within shor…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:56 PM
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Depends on the girl. Being on the B-Team for the LA Lakers or the KC Chiefs isn't too bad. Being on the B-Team for your company's co-ed softball team is embarrassing and pathetic. If she is a high-value woman she's going to have multiple high-value men to choose from. Being one of those choices and her shopping around before trying you out is not automatically a bad thing.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:05 PM
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Isn't that pretty self-explanatory? They want to fuck but they don't want to feel like a slut or "easy" for giving it up right away.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:00 PM
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With an LTR yes. With a girl you've had sex with once or twice no.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:57 PM
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I understand why you would think this way but it couldn't be further from the truth. I am 43 and it is easier for me to get attractive women in their 20's now than when I was in my 20's. If you understand what women are attracted to, especially women in their mid to late 20's approaching the Wall, it isn't difficult to see why they're attracted to men in their 40's. The vast majority of men in their 20's have nothing to offer women but possibly their physical attractiveness which women don't pla…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:46 PM
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Well you saw how well switching it up worked for you. This is not even an opinion. There's been countless social experiments showing what a disastrous dismal failure it is when you directly ask women for sex. In the study below out of 1,000 Tinder matches in which an attractive man asked the woman directly for sex 98% of them said no, unmatched, or reported him. But if you want to continue with a strategy that has a 2% success rate by all means go for it. More pussy for me that you won't be gett…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:35 PM
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You were on the B Team. You made the team but she benched you while playing her higher value A-Team dick. That player quit the team or started playing like shit. Hence, you're up.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:20 PM
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No woman wants to feel like she is being used for just sex. Let me repeat that.....NO woman wants to feel like you are just using her for sex. Even the women who are just being used for sex convince themselves it's more than just that. Never ever ever ever say "Hey wanna fuck?". That's the dumbest shit you can say and a surefire way to get a hard no 100% of the time unless it's a LTR. Remember this rule....with new girls sex is always IMPLIED. Women need an excuse to fuck you without feeling lik…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:13 PM
1

You must love drama. Or looking over your shoulder. Or both. When I said I decided not to kill this guy I meant in that moment. I could change my mind tomorrow. He doesn't know it but this man's life depends on my mental state on any given day which is pretty scary. You fuck a man's wife that's not something he's going to forget or get over....ever. If I do ever decide to off myself, or if I get some sort of terminal illness, he's a dead man. Simple as that. I don't care if that's 1 week or 10 y…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:59 PM
3

This is very true. It took me a good year or so to stop blaming her and put the blame where it actually belongs - on me. If I didn't know anything about horses and ran up behind one and startled it and it kicked me in the face would I blame the horse? No. It's just a horse doing what a horse does. She was just a woman doing what women do. She secured a beta provider while fucking Alpha Chads and used her beta provider until she could monkey-branch to a better beta provider where she will no doub…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:40 PM
1

This was a very helpful and enlightening response. Thank you.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:33 PM
1

This is sad but excellent point you make. In the current cancel culture environment it would be professional suicide to espouse Red Pill truths online.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:32 PM
6

It is easier for me to get attractive women in their 20's now at 43 than it was when I was in my 20's. Aside from looks, the vast majority of men in their 20's have nothing attractive to offer a woman and women don't value physical attractiveness as much as men do. In addition, very few men in their 20's these days are masculine. In the last year I have had sex with 3 different women between 19 and 25.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:31 PM
3

I tell them exactly this.... Here's why I don't have platonic friendships with girls. Look at this way....your vagina is valuable to you. You're not just going to go around giving it away for free, nor should you, that would make you a ho. If you give your vagina to a man you're going to expect something valuable in return, as you should. Well, I don't have a vagina. What I do have is my time and my attention. That's my vagina. That's what's valuable to me. And just like you I don't give it away…
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:38 PM
2

That's kind of what the whole post was about. I'm trying to find it aside from rebuilding my life obviously.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:38 PM
3

What you're going through is "Red Pill Rage" and it's very common when first swallowing the red pill. You're rightfully angry. Just be glad you discovered the Red Pill at age 22 and not 42 after women have already destroyed your life.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:16 PM
15

I appreciate the support brother. And I'll definitely take you up on that offer. Thank you.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:07 PM
1

3 years ago. I'm still wiped out financially. Not really because I can afford it and I don't want to leave my parents and siblings who are now the only family I have.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:04 PM
2

I've read When I Say No I Feel Guilty, No More Mr. Nice Guy, and The Rationale Male. I started on TRT six months ago and lifting 3-4 times a week. Through lots and lots of practice I've become excellent at game and pickup and I keep 2-3 plates in regular rotation (all in their 20s - no single moms). I listen to RP podcasts such as Rollo and Entrepreneurs in Cars daily. Being alpha is no longer something I have to consciously make myself do any longer. It's mostly second nature now with a couple …
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:02 PM
2

I appreciate the support brother. Thank you.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:55 PM
3

Thank you. Yes, I can't stress enough to men out there to stay away from single moms. I raised her child as my own for 17 years and she thinks her mother is wonderful and I am an asshole. Neither mother nor child will ever appreciate you or accept you as the child's father.....aside from the countless other reasons to avoid single moms
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:53 PM
2

I appreciate that man. I got on TRT about 6 months ago and been hitting the gym. I look young for my age anyway so it's not hard to get women in their early 20s and I do. I've gone a long way to go still to fully recover and I still struggle with my purpose. I do feel like I need to do a YouTube channel or a podcast but I worry it will kill my current or future job prospects.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:49 PM
1

It's actually worse. Read my other post I just posted. It's the full story.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:07 PM
3

"To this day, my ex-wife won't admit that her cheating is what ended our marriage. Instead it was that I couldn't get over it." YES!!!!!!!!!!! Exactly what my ex says ALL THE TIME! Oh my god do you have any idea how many times my ex says this???
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:04 PM
2

Hypergamy ensures women can never truly love or respect a man who has a lower status than her. Some women will settle for such a man because they can control and dominate them but that's not a marriage you want to be in.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:42 PM
1

I'm was a college educated, never married, no children man who married a never married high school drop out single mom so yeah with my 20/20 hindsight I see that's where I fucked up no doubt. There were plenty of red flags....but I had no chance of seeing them with my blue pill conditioned 24 year old self. Had the red pill existed when I was a young man I'm sure I would have found it and avoided this entire life because I had serious girlfriends in both high school and college that also cheated…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:38 PM
7

Game is a skill. Like any other skill you only get good by practicing. Practice of any new skill means at first you're going to suck at it and fail over and over again. So accepting that reality is Step #1. Step #2 is realizing if you're going to do a lot of practicing you need a lot of girls to practice on. Day game is fine but that's not going to provide you the sheer number of single women you need to practice on. This is where dating apps are fantastic. Get on a bunch of them (Bumble, Tinder…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:30 PM
9

This is not an FWB. A true FWB is also fucking other dudes herself and completely understands the arrangement for what it is.....no strings attached sex and nothing more. That said, virtually all females will eventually start becoming emotional if it goes on long enough. For some women this can start to happen after 3 times of fucking, other women it might take 30. But it will happen. Some women are better at divorcing emotion from sex than others but no women can do it permanently. So it will h…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 10:38 PM
7

Not saying that necessarily. Simply saying if you do decide to get married understand statistically there's a better chance it will end in divorce than it will last and virtually certain that if it does end in divorce it will be her divorcing you. Also, more depressingly, of the 47% of marriages that don't end in divorce, that doesn't include unhappy marriages where people stay together for the sake of the children, finances, etc. Knowing the statistical risk going in, you can take certain preca…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 10:16 PM
85

The numbers speak for themselves. 53% of all marriages end in divorce and virtually all divorces are initiated by women (80%+). Why do so many women leave their husbands? The answer is over the last 50 years or we've created a feminist culture and gynocentric family law system that encourages, incentivizes, and rewards female hypergamy. As a young man in his 20s you can choose to roll the dice on a female thinking you've found the exception to the rule just keep in mind all of us middle aged men…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:38 PM
0

No, that would just mean the attractive women whom you're trying to fuck would have that many more guys trying to fuck them giving them an even bigger ego and sense of entitlement than they already have. The unattractive women might have be brought down to earth but who cares? Those are the girls you're trying to fuck. The point isn't whether you should fuck hot chicks or ugly chicks. Obviously you should always being trying to fuck the hottest girl possible. The point is if a hot chick is not a…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 07:22 PM
2

Well live and learn. Like I said for me, if it's sex on the first date I do it just to establish clear consent. You don't know this person very well and it's just best to error on the side of caution especially if alcohol is involved which it usually is.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 06:13 PM
2

Agreed. I have a couple of plates that are in that 4 to 5 range. They almost never shit test you. They don't expect you to take them out or spend money on them. They never say no to sex and will almost anything sexually to please you. I can literally call either of these two chicks up, anytime day or night, and order pussy like I'm ordering a pizza. Why that's considered a bad thing because they're slightly below average in physical beauty is something I'll never agree with. Not to mention there…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 06:07 PM
3

Exactly! If you think you met a "10" at the bar last night then what is a Victoria's Secret lingerie model? They can't both be 10's. What most guys call 10's are actually 7s or 8s
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:59 PM
3

Wrong mindset. Why would she? You're the leader. She's waiting for you to take the lead.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:02 PM
2

I strongly disagree with not texting a girl the day after you have sex for the first time. A red pill man you should be the leader of the total sexual experience from the lead up and physical escalation, to the sex itself, to the follow up afterwards. But more importantly, a quick follow up text, if done correctly, can provide you insurance against a false rape accusation. Most false rape accusations are regret sex.....sex they consented to at the time but then later regretted so they find a way…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 04:43 PM
0

I am probably in the minority here but all the guys her saying they'd rather not fuck at all than fuck an ugly or below average woman ARE ACTING LIKE WOMEN! Refusing to have sex with anyone but the highest quality partner is literally the definition of hypergamy and hypergamy is a female trait. These men are acting like chicks. Men are not supposed to withhold sex. That's what women do. We are supposed to spread our seed. We are supposed to have sex as much as possible as with as many willing pa…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 04:21 PM
1

To shit test him. It's a compliance test. She states "A real man would do X" If you agree and comply you're not an alpha.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:38 PM
2

I'm 43 and in the last year I've fucked one 19 year old, one 20 year old, and talking to another 19 year old right now that has sent nudes including explicit pussy pics. Going out tonight so I expect I'll bag my 2nd teenager of the year by tomorrow. Here's what I can tell you about fucking these super young chicks.... PROS -Super tight, super wet pussy. There's no question 18-21 year old pussy is the best (legal) pussy you can possibly get. Both girls it was almost like anal first putting it in.…
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:31 PM
1

Yes I actually needed it medically. Normal T-levels are 1,000 parts per microliter of blood. Mine was only 400. I had less than half the testosterone levels I should have had.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:03 PM
1

The way my doctor explained it to me.....is 500 is low, 1500 is high, and ideal is 1000 so that's what he's trying to get me up to. It's not without risks so obviously you have to balance the risk versus reward yourself.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:02 PM
1

Oh fuck yes. Seemed no matter what I did I couldn't stop putting on fat and lifting just seemed to maintain my inadequate muscle mass. If I stopped lifting for even a week I would go backwards.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:52 PM
1

A little over 400. Been on it 4 months now and haven't checked them since but I lift every day and in the best shape of my life....both physically and also energy and depression.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:49 PM
5

Women use statements like "A real man would...." to confuse men into thinking beta behavior is masculine in order to shit test his frame, secure provision, or both. For examle: ​ Single moms will say "Even though he/she is not his, a real man would step up and love and raise my son/daughter the same as if it was his own" A real man doesn't try to have sex with you on the first date. A real man will respect you and take you out multiple times before trying to get physical. A real man is not afrai…
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:40 PM
3

I'm 43 and have the highest SMV that I have ever had in my life. Granted a lot of that is due to getting on TRT. I went through Royal Medical Center. Super easy process. You have a zoom meeting with a doctor and he basically writes you the prescription then and there. It's $250 a month.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:11 PM
2

Dude how hard up are you for pussy? This chick is obviously way fucking crazy and you don't put your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:01 PM
1

No self-respecting Red Pill man would have any sort of relationship with a feminist. On a scale of 1 to 10 they are 0's. I don't care what she looks like (which I guarantee you she's ugly AF as there is no such thing as a physically attractive feminist) the sheer act of espousing feminist ideology instantly disqualifies her. Feminist are incapable of respecting men. Therefore, she's incapable of respecting you. Being with a woman who doesn't respect you is the definition of being a Blue Pill Bet…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 07:05 PM
2

"I don't want to go out and bang a hundred women" In other words you don't want to be an Alpha. And the reason you don't want to be an Alpha and don't want to date or have sex with other women is because you're still hung up on your ex. The question is why are you still hung up on her? Alphas do not get dumped so obviously you were a Blue Pill Beta in that relationship and once you have shown a woman you are Beta she will never trust Alpha masculinity you present to her later on. You will always…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 07:03 PM
0

Couple of things..... A girl you have had sex with once is not a plate. She's a one night stand that you're trying to turn into a plate. Just because a chick will let you fuck her on the first date doesn't mean you should. Especially if the first date is the day after you matched with no other interaction. This is most likely where you dropped the ball. Other than your physical attractiveness and possible sexual prowess or lack thereof what did you give her to maintain interest in you? Define "l…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 09:54 PM
1

Well damn I wish they would have just done that instead of just deleting it. Don't really feel like going back and retyping the whole thing.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 05:18 PM
1

Right? I mean I don't know if I'm onto something here or not but thought it was worth reporting. How do I make it a field report on the main sub?
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:05 PM
0

If you are grossed out by vaginas you are definitely on the homosexual spectrum. Probably more homo that hetero honestly. The reason gay men are gay is because they are disgusted and grossed out by vaginas.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:21 PM
2

You don't lick inside her hole LOL. You must be terrible at oral. You lick her clit which is external and well above her hole.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:15 PM
3

Absolutely! Ask yourself this....if you were being cheated on would you want to know? Ok, well there's your answer. It's not complicated. I have no respect for liars - male or female. And that's all a cheater is - a liar. Best case scenario his lies cause someone a lot of emotional pain. Worst case scenario his lies puts her health and possibly life in danger by exposing her to STDs without her consent or knowledge. And not just AIDS. How'd you like to get lifelong incurable genital herpes from …
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:42 PM
1

Yeah good point
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:19 PM
1

Moving is not really an option. I own a business here that does quite well especially for a small town. It works for and against me. Against me for obvious reasons but I own some acreage with atvs and horses and stuff. If I get them to come here for a date it’s almost always a home run because it’s so much different and more exciting than the sample old “dinner and drinks” every other guy does. Plus with the long drive it’s a lot easier for them to say yes to staying the night. I only drive to m…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:18 PM
1

I’ll start doing this and see if I get better results. Thank you
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:13 PM
1

I live in a town of 400 people. Closet town or city with a decent population is an hour away. Not everybody lives in a city with thousands of single women.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:49 PM
1

I don’t have that option. I live in a rural town of 400 people. The closet town or city with a decent population is an hour away.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:48 PM
1

Interesting. I definitely go hard sexually early on. If she reciprocates then it’s like off to the races for me. But now I wonder if I’m doing this at my own peril because a huge number of them have flaked which I just always attributed to the general flakiness of women but maybe not. Hmmm....you’ve definitely given me something to think about.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:43 PM
1

I live in a very small town in a very rural part of a midwestern state. Mathematically there’s just simply not enough options. I have to expand out to the larger cities relatively near me. Good point on the time and attention rape. Guess we will see but right now it would appear that’s what happened.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:39 PM
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Ok “potential” plate. I’m not asking why she flaked. I understand and accept women are flaky. I’m asking how do I respond.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:33 PM
1

You clearly have zero understanding of frame. None. Zip. Zilch. The reason it is impossible to escape the friend zone is because “sexual attraction cannot be negotiated” (Rationale Male) and because virtually all plutonic friendships are the result of the man’s decision to form “covert contracts” with her (No More Mr. Nice Guy). The friend zone has nothing to do with Frame. You clearly have not read any of the side bar. Why do you think Rollo Tomossi and other RP authors constantly talk about HO…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:30 PM
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You’re trying to apply male logic to female behavior which never works. Of course they don’t consciously plan out shit tests in advance. They’re not even aware they’re shit testing you when they do it let alone plan jt. And while yes on a surface level she may know the basic differences between Alphas and Betas and that she is attracted more to Alphas, she will never bother to put much effort into finding out WHY she likes Alphas more which makes her understanding of Alphas and Betas all but mea…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 01:37 PM
1

Live and learn. Easy for us to sit here and analyze it after the fact. But when you’re in the moment it’s a lot harder.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:42 PM
2

Frame is not permanent. Men can and do things that draw women in and out of their frame all the time. He could have had her in his frame early on and then lost her. Happens all the time. Ask all the women you know if a guy you just met wants to take you to a strange park alone at night and 90% will say hell no. Whatever word you want to use it’s a bad move....clearly as evidenced by his results
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:38 PM
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The reason she said she needed to go to the bathroom after you told her to come to the park with you is not because she actually had to use the bathroom, it's because you were creeping her out and she wanted to get the fuck out of there. Dude that was such a creeper move. You really think a girl is going to go a random park, alone, at night, with a total stranger she knows wants to get in her pants? LOL...smh. Even if she's totally into you, she doesn't know you. Have you ever seen a crime show?…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:15 PM
1

I never said women become instantly ugly at 25. It's a curve. There's exceptions to every rule but typically most women are at the PEAK of their physical attractiveness and fertility (the primary driver of male attraction) during those years. After 25, their physical attractiveness slowly starts to decline. Be honest, are you more physically attractive now than you were at 21? Of course not. This is common sense. This is basic proven human biology. You can't discount millions of years of human e…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:28 PM
1

I don't know why women, and it's only ever women that do this, always pull out the "You're old enough to be her Dad" card when an adult man dates a significantly younger ADULT woman. Who cares? We're both adults. Technically, I'm old enough to be a 30-year-old woman's dad. It's a silly and meaningless observation by generally older women to discourage men from dating more attractive younger women by quietly suggesting to do so must mean the man is a pedophile or into incest. It's ridiculous.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:07 PM
1

Not true. Matthew Mcconaughey was 45 years old when he starred in the lead role of the male stripper movie Magic Mike. Good luck making a stripper movie where the star is a 45 year old female stripper. But even assuming men are at the peak of their physical attractiveness between the ages of 18 and 25 it wouldn't matter because unlike men, physical attractiveness is not the primary driver of attraction for women. It doesn't rank nearly as highly as wealth, success, and power. A 24 year old hot w…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:55 PM
1

Hard to do without doxing myself or her but sent her a direct message on Facebook that went like this..... ME: You're single? HER: Yes ME: Well let's see if we can change that. I have a (then proceeded to list several things I have related to the college sport she competes in that I know she would be interested in) HER: Well see here's the problem I already have all of those things. ME: Hmmm...tough one here. Ok one thing I definitely know you don't have. HER: What's that? ME: A buff ass boyfrie…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:24 PM
1

LOL....and your point is? Women are at the peak of their physical attractiveness between the ages of 18 and 25. It's all downhill after that. Sorry, I don't make the rules.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:58 PM
2

Agreed. Jealously and insecurity are easily the two biggest beta traits in the world. Therefore, I try to avoid them at all costs in all situations. If I hear about an average looking middle aged dude smashing a 20-year-old hottie I'm fucking happy for him. Even if he botched the post-close game. It means this shit works and if it works for him it can work for me. I don't know if you saw my update but she did contact me and told me the age thing was just too much for her, which, come on, of cour…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:19 PM
1

Agreed. That's the dangerous thing about allowing oneself to slip into beta behavior. Once you've made one beta slip up it starts a chain reaction of subsequent beta behaviors that can be very hard to reverse.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:12 PM
2

***UPDATE*** She texted me this last night..... "Sorry I didn't respond to your last text. I got to thinking about it and I like you but you're literally as old as my Dad. I'm just not comfortable with that." I just told her that's cool I understand and wished her the best of luck. I'm leaving with some great nudes and great memories. I'll call it a win.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:23 PM
3

Thank you. I love the classic "read the sidebar" response to every problem. I not only have read the sidebar, I listen to Rollo and red pill podcasts DAILY without fail. Studying material and putting it in practice are two very different things.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:11 PM
1

Took advantage of her while she was intoxicated? LOL! How very feminist of you. Do you work for Code Pink? Guess you didn't read the part where she was texting me multiple nudes and explicit close ups of her pussy ALL DAY before she came over. It never ceases to amaze me how women absolutely refuse to take any responsibility or accountability for their actions and how society fully supports and enable this lack of female agency.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:07 PM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:02 PM
1

True red pill guy. Can celebrate another man’s success
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:39 AM
4

Yes absolutely if they’re 20 years old they don’t want Brad Pitt. They want Channing Tatum. Jesus dude
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:37 AM
2

Another true alpha right here.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:35 AM
4

Damn ok nice. Never even considered that
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:56 AM
1

Gotta love the guys here not Interested I’m helping but just tearing other men down. Insecure much?
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:54 AM
3

This response was fucking epic. Can’t deny that. Putting on a red pill clinic here. But we both can’t deny it’s much more easier to take your time and analyze everything in hindsight. In the moment as you’re going with the flow it’s so much more difficult. But yeah I can’t argue with anything you’ve said here. It’s all 100% on point
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:46 AM
1

I get that but at the same time we are living in the #MeToo era. I have multiple successful businesses. I have much to lose. She kept saying “I’m not a gold digger” which concerned me. Honestly she could come to me with an accusation unless I give her X amount of money and I’d probably do it. Maybe she’s smart enough to know that. Who knows.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:38 AM
1

Man this post made me feel so much better. Thank you. It was just what I needed to hear
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:34 AM
2

So I’ve fucked 3 in the last two years....a 19 year old, a 21 year old, and this 20 year old. None of them were fat or below a HB8. Two were from cold approaches. The 19 year old was from Tinder. Makes me think cold approach is the way. How do you get them?
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:28 AM
1

Lol...yeah but dude that’s way easier said than done at my age.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:25 AM
2

Fuck...ok you owned me on this. Admittedly. But you get the point I was trying to make
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:24 AM
1

Hahahaha....winner of best comment of the thread lol
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:19 AM
2

This is good advice. I appreciate. Honestly what freaked me out the most about her going no contact the next day was the "Ok I'll come over but I'm not having sex with you" and the soft no I got when I went to take her panties off. I got to hamstering about maybe she feels like I pressured her into doing something she didn't want to do and my curiosity and worry about that overrode my red pillness. I just wanted to see what she was going to say for my own sanity
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:41 PM
5

You hit the nail on the head. When she went no contact the next day I started hamstering about "worst case" scenario which drove me to reach out to her to see what she would say. If I had a dollar for every girl that said "Ok I'll come over but we're not having sex" where we ended up having enthusiastic sex I could retire. They want to bang every bit as much as you do but its like they feel obligated to say that so that you don't think they're a slut...or they themselves can tell themselves they…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:30 PM
1

What do you mean do I live in my hometown? Of course I do. Or were you asking if she lives in my hometown? She does during school. Right now she's back home 2 hours away.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:10 PM
4

You're absolutely correct that there's always someone more motivated, successful, and richer than you regardless of age. That doesn't bother you unless you're jealous or insecure which are hardly Alpha traits. How rich and successful other men are is not something I ever think about because I'm focused on myself. It's interesting that's something you would bring up and clearly spend time thinking about. As far as being a "solid beta", if I was a solid beta I wouldn't have fucked her in the first…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:08 PM
1

Yeah, I think it's safe to assume she was going to ghost me regardless but I certainly didn't help anything inviting her to stay again the following night. In retrospect I can't believe I didn't see how that would come off needy. Really was a rookie mistake. Basically I had a clinic in everything you shouldn't do the day after sex with a super hot chick.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:55 PM
5

Yeah bragging about getting ghosted, because you know, that's something to brag about. And I am going to stay right here. I don't let other men tell me what to do, and certainly not overly emotional 25 year old boys who don't know how to hold frame and keep their emotions in check.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:51 PM
1

Well the part I left out is she is a college student in a college that is located in my hometown. She's only back home for the summer. She moves back to my town in July.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:45 PM
4

My mission is to grow my business by 20% this year, obtain a secondary revenue stream outside my business by year end, and hit the gym minimum 4 days a week when it reopens.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:44 PM
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Interesting. An overly emotional response complete with childish name-calling and validation-seeking boasting about all of your accomplishments in life. I would say your frame is weak, but apparently it's nonexistent. Losing your shit because another man challenges you is about as feminine and non red pill as it comes. Maybe you need to take a break and go change your tampon and collect yourself emotionally. Here's a little piece of life advice since I'm old enough to be your father and your's p…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:40 PM
87

Yeah I appreciate that. You're right. Well, live and learn. I won't make this mistake again
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:17 PM
4

Yeah I know man. She pulled back after sex to see if I would chase and I didn't disappoint. Fucking dumb. She's by far the best piece of ass I've had in the last two years and I let it override my outcome independence. Pretty straightforward.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:08 PM
3

Yeah for sure. It was all attraction building zero comfort. Mistake.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:05 PM
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This is solid advice. I appreciate it. 99% of the time I have no problem with outcome independence, abundance mentality, mission, and frame. The only time I slip up is the rare occasion I do hook up with an HB8+ that's under 25 because they are scarce for me. I'm 42 years old. I don't care how red pilled you are or how high your SMV is you can't pretend that's always going to override a 20+ year age difference. There are some that won't instantly disqualify you on the age difference alone but th…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:00 PM
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What's your advice on how to proceed from here? Just continue to go no contact with her? And in hindsight you're absolutely correct, inviting to spend the night again the next night was a total mistake. I have two other plates but they're 29 and 35 and they're both like 6's. Hard to order hamburger when you can potentially have filet mignon. I get myself into this predicament all the time with HB8+ women. First of all there is no such thing as an HB8+ that is over 25 years old so when you are 42…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:25 PM
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When it comes to qualifying men as sexual prospects or not, women do it almost immediately in the first interaction or two she has with you, and once she's disqualified it's basically impossible to get her to change her mind. Remember, 90% of the men she meets she disqualifies as potential sexual partners. Is she really going to take the time to go back and re-evaluate any of these men she's disqualified to see if maybe she made a mistake? Of course not. Once she's disqualified you it's game ove…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:27 PM
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This is terrible advice. Dread her? LOL....yeah so she fucks you out of obligation. We all know how awesome obligatory sex is LOL. The proper response to getting turned down for sex is ALWAYS to use it as an opportunity to PROVE to her that her pussy doesn't mean jack shit to you. It has absolute zero power over you or your behavior. She turns you down? Awesome it's an opportunity to show her that you couldn't possibly give a shit less. Growing cold and distant or even worse applying dread are a…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:12 PM
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"I generally just became cold and withdrew" = I got butthurt about not getting my nookie and responded with passive aggressive pouting. That's what children and females do when they don't what they want. The best thing you can do is act like you're RELIEVED she doesn't want to have sex. Act like you were just doing it for her and there's much more important things you need to do. She needs to know, and you need to PROVE to her, over and over again, that sex with her is just not that important to…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:50 PM
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This is NOT a shit test. We always want to think everything a woman does that we don't like must be a shit test. It's not. She's not testing you to see if you're high value. She's telling you she has already determined you are low value. You obviously botched the abundance mentality and social proof aspect with this girl. She is telling you she thinks you... Need to be set up Lack an abundance of sexual options Are not a sexual prospect for her, but maybe her friend A woman who views you as a vi…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:33 PM
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Excellent advice. Look at this way....if after getting rejected you found out this woman was born without a vagina, how upset would you be? You wouldn't be. In fact, you would likely be relieved she rejected you because you wouldn't want to invest time, money, and energy into a woman who didn't have a vagina. That proves to you that you're in it not for her as a person, but for her vagina, and the good news is vaginas are extremely common. They are literally everywhere. Her's is not special.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:42 PM
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She can sense you're catching feelings and that is killing - or has already killed - her attraction to you. You're putting her on a pedestal. That's what betas do. That's what weak men do. That's what low-value men do. No wonder she hasn't talked to you in 2 days. She doesn't want a weak low value beta. She wants a strong confident alpha who doesn't give a shit about her. Here's the thing about weak beta behavior.....women are hardwired to PUNISH men for that behavior. That is what she is doing …
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:24 PM
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This is not a shit test. This is a just a statement that this girl views you as a low-value Beta and expects you to behave like all the other low-value Betas in her life who have chased her and tried to win her over. Obviously you're not establishing from the get-go that YOU - not her - are the prize. You are the prize here, not her. That should be firmly established in the very first conversation with her. If I ever got to the point where a woman I've been talking to told me that I still need t…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:52 PM
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As a formerly obese man I can tell you all these people giving you advice....unless they are now or were once obese themselves...don’t know what the hell they’re talking about and need to STFU. Thin and physically fit people love to tell fat people to work out and exercise more to lose weight. That is B.S. The way to lose weight is not through exercise....it’s through reducing your total daily caloric intake and sticking to it over time. Lose the weight through a very restrictive ultra low calor…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 08:52 PM
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Women keep beta orbiters around for different reasons. Some women have orders that are only permanently friend-zoned. Some have a mix of strictly friend-zoned and potential future beta provisioners. If you read the Rationale Male you would know the Beta Bucks / Alpha Fucks rule and that what she is doing in no way contradicts RP theory - in fact it proves it. Women date and marry betas all the time. They just don’t fuck them, respect them, or remain faithful to them. The simple fact she was will…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:54 AM
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I will tell you exactly what you need to do, but first and foremost don’t ever ask anyone to not rip on you or to go easy on you. Don’t do it in real life. Don’t do it on the Internet. Don’t do it ever. It screams weakness and insecurity. Instead of asking people not to rip on you ask yourself why you would care if they did? Secondly you kind of botched your approach by getting her number without a clear specific reason for why you want it. The purpose of getting a girls phone number is to take …
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:22 AM
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No I’m not saying it’s anomaly. It happens all the time. Women...and especially damaged women....”date down” for all sorts of reasons, none of which are beneficial to the man.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:08 AM
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Do you have a more prestigious job, have more education, have a more respected title, and earn more money than a doctor? If the answer is no, why in the world would you expect her to submit to you? Regardless of how Alpha you think you are the simple fact is you have lower value than her in all the areas of life that matter most.....income, education, earning power, social status, recognition, and achievement. She has a title in front of her name that if you attempted to use you would literally …
/r/askTRP15/04/20 11:53 AM
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A far more correct analogy would be the ice-cream man was giving away free ice-cream from 3:00pm to 4:00pm on Monday and you show up on a Tuesday two weeks later bitching about not getting free ice-cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 10:28 PM
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There's a ton of these women out there....and it's not rocket science why. Modern women (Gen X and younger) have been falsely conditioned their entire lives to believe they can "have it all". They can party and sleep around in their 20's while they go to college or work on their career or both and still find their dream man to settle down with in their 30s. The reality is most men don't want to settle down with a 30-something woman, well past her prime, who's slept has slept around with a bunch …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 10:18 PM
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