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None of them. Unless the woman asks the man to stop and he didn't, I don't see anything wrong with any of those things. They all seem pretty friendly to me aside from the fat guy in the elevator who isn't purposely trying to touch the woman. Also, why all men touching women? No female on male examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 01:44 PM
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Yes. If you only see eachother about 2 - 3 times a week and have separate lives, separate homes and fully trust eachother to live this lifestyle. You will rarely get on eachothers nerves or step on eachothers toes and you will always have a little bit of longing and excitement to see eachother. This works best as you both stay together because you want to... not because you have a ring on your finger and a contract to obey.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 01:35 PM
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Hmm maybe not so much a love to perform but they very rarely break free from the "shackles" of constantly trying to look attractive... They do enjoy looking cute/pretty though obviously, and they will usually go to great lengths to make sure they are attractive before they leave the house. It could be peer pressure, or to attract males, or for their ego or a combo of these things... Just look outside in a city centre when it's practically freezing and you'll almost always find some women wearing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 03:54 PM
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I don't think there is such thing as unconditional love. We certainly don't enter into love unconditionally. However, I believe men are more likely to continue to love their partner unconditionally and make compromises than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 03:40 PM
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women are more likely to leave when the man is unemployed If he did something utterly shitty and is unlikely to ever be employed again, I can understand this... if not, she's a bitch! men are more likely to leave when a woman gets sick If she's terminal or chronically debilitated, I can understand. If not, he's an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 03:36 PM
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Maybe you just didn't realize how much time it takes for a woman to get ready to go out until you saw it first hand. I can guarantee that she spent just as much (if not more) time getting ready to go out with you. That's fine. But when she's not going out with me and she has no reason to attract other males, I don't understand why she is dressing in a way that attracts males and spending so much extra time to achieve that look. Abundance mentality is the knowledge that you can get another woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 01:30 PM
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Unless we see an end to capitalism in it's current toxic form then we are going to see the whole idea slowly drip fed to us with gradual upgrades. It's likely too, that different companies will have different patents on their bots and it will be highly unlikely that consumers will ever have a "complete" bot. Instead we will have a selection of bots that do certain things in different ways from realistic humanoids to things beyond human capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 01:07 PM
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Anything to add to that or just gonna throw your opinion at me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 12:27 PM
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But likely includes real drawbacks of its own. It will cost a lot of money I can only assume. Newer models will become available every single year (on prupose by the greddy companies no doubt) and the costs will continue forever. Then you have maintenance, repairs etc... Plus real women will no longer be able to behave like spoiled children and will have to become decent humans in order to attract... so men will be left to decide between the 2. The organic women AND the bots will have less of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 12:25 PM
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Cookies made by your mother are different from cookies made by your gf/wife. I don't know how else to explain it...also my cookies are the fucking bomb. Either way, I can get cookies anywhere. It doesn't seal the deal for me if my gf makes me baked goods. And you can expand that out beyond cookies. I want the friendship, the deep chats and the sex. Do you go out with your boys? If so, do you take any time to make yourself look presentable? If by putting on clothes and having my usual day to day …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 12:17 PM
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I think the world would be a better place. Women would be competing with the bots... And thus have to become better human beings. Men would also be competing with bots. Win win for everybody. You either get a bot or an amazing human.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 12:05 PM
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Be grateful for all that a guy does without expecting him to constantly perform in such a way or compare him to what other men are doing for their women. Stop bringing negativity to the relationship when he is not meeting these expectations and remain supportive of him when he is on some down time. Stop bringing up past disputes, that have already been discussed plenty of times, during current arguments. This is extremely counter productive to the relationship and resolving the current situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 11:53 AM
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women do so much in order to attract and maintain a mate. Cookies are great and all but not necessary for relationship purposes. My mother makes me cookies... Most women (apparently) consider their looks and all the effort that goes into their looks as the hard work they do for their partner. Personally I don't really care if they chilled out about it after I'm in a relationship but they insist on constant beauty treatment despite my reassurances. Fair enough, if I get to enjoy the beauty then c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 11:08 AM
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It was a hard time at the start but that was after a broken heart and a constant need to replace her. Now I'm kinda used to the idea of being single for the rest of my life and I don't really care, but I still put myself out there now and again... I know that perfect doesn't exist but I just don't feel like wasting my time (or theirs) if it's not pretty close to perfection and equality. Maybe way more people in the world would find better partners if we all got our heads out of our asses and sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 04:08 PM
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I think it creates a situation where compatible people will constantly overlook eachother in hopes that they find someone more compatible/attractive. I've been single for 5 years, mostly due to the above and my inability to settle for girls that are "close but still not perfect".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 03:57 PM
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I agree with most of what you're saying but I think the bigger population of women only increases the amount of women he is going to be ignored, forgotten about and rejected by... Don't forget these women all have a barrage of sausages being thrown at them daily and there is always going to be someone who has an edge over him. Sure he has the advantage of lining up a date while sitting around in his underwear if he wants to, but in real life she would be less likely to just vanish and avoid him …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 03:42 PM
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If it doesn't, it should. Just like eating healthy, exercising, and/or stimulating your brain with a good book, sex is very good for you physically and spiritually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 09:56 AM
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How the hell can you enjoy someone you don't really want to see at all? The fact I'm in a relationship with them means I do want to see them. If I didn't want to see them at all I would break up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 04:33 PM
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I'll assume you havent had a lot of access to sex from this statement? I've had lots of small relationships and one which lasted 5 years. For the longest relationship, we had sex at least once every time we saw eachother. Never slept in the same bed without having sex, regardless what either of us were going through. We had sex as therapy, as exercise, as a sleeping aid if the other was struggling to sleep, to resolve arguments, to celebrate achievements, when we were bored... those were the bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 04:21 PM
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Those nights were I'm not in the mood to have sex doesnt mean I am wasting my life. You are wasting your time if you decide to worry instead of relaxing. And shortening your lifespan too. If it makes you happier to worry about your work problems at home, when you can't do anything about them, go ahead... but if I had a partner I'd rather relax with them and put my work problems to the back of my mind until a time when I can deal with them i.e. in work the next day. Plus sex brings clairvoyance. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:43 PM
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If i have a million things going on at work that I am worried about I dont want to be fucking anyone. I want to think about my work day and prepare. Worrying doesn't solve anything. Get down with your partner, climax, and let the clairvoyance set in. You clearly havent had all you can eat Korean BBQ. I haven't actually. So what... wait like an hour or 2? Its kind of concerning that you think all my reasons for not having sex are invalid. It's sad to see people waste their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:04 PM
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Not it you're too distracted by them to enjoy yourself. To me that's like saying, "I'm too sick to take this medicine", or "I'm too tired to sleep" or, "I'm too hungry to eat this food"... The sex is supposed to take your mind off the negative things. 10 times out of 10 it will alleviate those problems. Idk about you but I dont really wanna fuck after spending two hours at all you can eat Korean BBQ. Like I said, wait 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 02:53 PM
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Most of those are reasons that you should be having sex... Stress. Needing to go to sleep early. Low mood. Sex helps with all of those things. Not feeling well physically can be a great time to have sex too. I love having sex when me and my partner both have the cold and our bodies are all weird and sensitive to heat, then you sleep like babies afterwards. Does just having ate dinner really count? Wait like 30 minutes and have at it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 02:22 PM
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When in relationships I have turned down advancements of other girls, not sure if those would have turned into sex but if I had been single I'm sure some of them would have. When single, I won't have sex with someone if I'm pretty certain I don't see myself ever wanting a relationship with them. If the girl doesn't want a relationship but just want's some fun I'll consider it... but if she seems to like me or seems to be seeking a relationship, I won't mess them around by having sex with them un…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 02:12 PM
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Serious? That's one of the best times for sex. All the things you can't say you just screw them into her metaphorically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 02:07 PM
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Maybe not "weak" guys but shy guys are fine as long as they aren't socially retarded. And now that you can bump into all kinds of people online it's easier than ever for shy guys to meet partners. I'm shy(ish) and I fully understand and agree with TRP but I do not want to change myself and fake being some kind of big-shot alpha to attract bimbos. I think it's better when my partners like me for me and we have something meaningful. I don't understand why anybody would be happy or comfortable livi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 02:55 PM
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I meant that it is impossible to "learn how to be an adult" by staying in a friendship which causes strong mixed feelings. Some people would prefer to walk away. I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 03:45 PM
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Nobody has to run away. They can walk away from eachother. learn how to be an adult That is impossible. What works for one adult does not work for another adult. Cutting ties from an emotional situation like this would be the most responsible thing, to make sure nobody is left hiding their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 03:39 PM
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if you have never dated that "Love" is just a crush imo. That crush becomes an infatuation and then the infatuation becomes a toxic mess of emotions similar to love and constant heartache... The best thing they can do is cut ties. Either she will miss him enough that she may want to try dating, or they will both get over it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 03:21 PM
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But the door should be left open for you to screw him over in future if you choose? That's fine is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 01:24 PM
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Fair enough. You win this time, female. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 01:01 PM
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Uninformed - No, I have plenty of life experience and free access to wealths of information. Stupid - Possibly a little to lighten the mood. No point being upset. Sexist - Just because you're offended doesn't make what I said sexist. Men and women both have their place but I acknowledge there can be exceptions, however, it's counter productive to beat around the bush to protect your feelings. Wilfully ignorant - I am not ignoring you. You haven't done anything to enlighten me... Can you carry a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 11:03 AM
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Well I can't see what you look like... but a woman isn't going to cope well carrying me down a ladder over her shoulder unless she has some brute strength compared to the vast majority of women. Maybe you're a rare case where you are actually qualified to work alongside men in your job, but this doesn't change the problem society has as a whole... you should try and keep your feeeeelings out of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:48 AM
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I'm not angry... you sound angry though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:17 AM
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Fair enough lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 04:52 PM
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I see comments that ought to be on TRP posted all over reddit. Also... photos of targets? What? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 04:31 PM
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Would you also laugh at a woman who keeps getting pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 04:20 PM
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It doesn't have to be a fat kid falling down and dropping their ice cream. An attractive young man or woman could do the same thing in a youtube video and people would still laugh... although onlookers would be more likely to run to the woman's aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 04:14 PM
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Those girls were nice to your face, they wouldn't want anybody believing they're not sweet little angels... They laughed and joked about you later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 04:05 PM
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And then we all blame the people on the other side of the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 04:00 PM
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You should read the comment thread above. In particular this comment by u/bluehorseinvincible Well we're telling them they can, then lowering the bar for them. In practice it's the same as giving every kid a trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 03:58 PM
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Normally this place depresses me a little but for once a comment that cheered me up. Sounds like I've got something going for me for the next 20 years :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 03:18 PM
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Maybe they just get comfortable in their relationship and let themselves go... I have this friend and we call him "The destroyer of women" because somehow his girlfriends always seem to start out hot and after a few years they start to get fat and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 03:12 PM
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Well I tried it a few times so I'll agree with you. It's pretty pointless. The amount of time spent having fun pales in comparison to all the worrying afterwards too... but anyway, spending time away from a partner when they're acting lame is good for 2 reasons. 1 it makes them worry, think about how they're behaving and speak up. 2 it gets me some quality alone time away from them while they're acting lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 02:08 PM
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It wouldn't be hard. Random dude will do all the work. If you're not a fan of crowded spaces, but you wanted to get laid, all you have to do is make a dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 10:34 AM
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You don't need to flirt with other guys or hint at having other options. You're female. You could get laid tonight with very little effort if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 04:56 PM
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Well I agree with you but I'm going to go for a walk or go chill with some of my friends until she speaks to me about what's up. It's a pain in the ass when girls keep up this behaviour for days and even more annoying when they do it every time something is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 04:54 PM
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Good for you. But you would be in the minority as far as women go. I, like most guys, would do the same. However every woman I have dealt with has, at some point or another, avoided being up-front. Instead they have resorted to withholding sex, giving me the silent treatment and having a sore head/pretending to fall asleep early in the evening when she's not happy about something. It's only in these circumstances that I would use dread gaming in future. When she literally won't even try to commu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:53 PM
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I think most red pillers would agree that dread game is a form of defence rather than something to use offensively. It's not justified due to reasons external to the individual's relationship, it's justified because it's only correct use is in response to a female partner's dread gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:36 PM
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It's not done on purpose to manipulate. It's done in response to female dread gaming to re-gain her respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:31 PM
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So you would rather have the man wrapped around your finger, under your control? That would be ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:30 PM
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Robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 04:42 PM
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Might aswell let them get some sex. We're vaccinating and treating all kinds of diseases and forcing people to stay alive with conditions that are passed on to their children and then we keep those children alive... the gene pool is fucked. Can't do it any more damage really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 04:40 PM
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Why bitter? There are plenty of guys who don't care about relationships and being validated by women. Like me... And I'm a pretty positive person in the real world. I'm attractive enough that I could choose not to be alone... but I just get on with my life and enjoy my own company and don't waste time with women that I'm not interested in so that I'm available when the right ones come along. Why don't women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 10:30 AM
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No, they date up. And I'm not a red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 10:27 AM
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Sometimes more, sometimes less. Very rarely develops into a conversation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 10:26 AM
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For a guy I can find sex fairly easy. But if I'm an 8 in my looks, I probably still find it harder to find sex than a girl who is a 4 or a 5. That's how it seems to work. I guess what I'm looking for is pretty rare. There are plenty of girls that I think, "hmm maybe I should have seen how things went with her" but because I've had an LTR in the past which was amazing, I just can't settle for anything less than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 04:14 PM
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Yes it does and it is very demoralising but you just learn to accept it. I know I'm above average SMV because I match with maybe 10 - 25 girls per day on Tinder. Most of my friends get a couple of matches per day. Some get zero. Let's say I get 20 matches (that I'm attracted to) in a day and I message all of them, I'll maybe get 10 replies. If I respond to those 10, I'll maybe get 3 or 4 who reply a second time. Sometimes a girl will keep chatting and I'll start thinking about dating them... thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 04:02 PM
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It's usually me who has the trouble committing. Girls that I end up dating either have an interesting personality OR the looks. If they seem to have both an interesting personality AND the looks, I usually can't keep their attention past asking about my job... unless I spice up my answer to the question to make it seem more interesting/well paid. But there's no point trying to lie about it. I work in admin and I pretty much make a living. Doesn't matter that I have some really cool hobbies that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:43 PM
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Damn right. Women have it pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:32 PM
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Hot girls don't need to do anything. Guys will come. They can't tell if she's a bitch or socially awkward until they approach her. And anyway, if all they want is sex then I highly doubt her personality matters. They just see it as another challenge to overcome to get her into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:31 PM
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If she's attractive, she can't be shy to a point of being a social retard unless she's new to the outside world. That would be a one in a million type of girl... Eventually she's going to realise she's attractive and her confidence will grow. As more and more guys try to talk to her she will get better at handling those situations too. Also, lets not forget about the types of guys who will still try and be cocky and ask her out regardless if she's being shy. The type of girl you're describing wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:28 PM
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What I'd like to know is... Are there any attractive girls who don't have anything wrong with them per se, but just don't interact an awful lot with the "fake" (social/people pleasing) world. Attractive girls that have unique interests and get on with their own life free from peer pressure and really get to know themselves. Girls who have a really unique outlook on life and can provide lots of meaningful conversation and debate. Girls who see the world for what it really is and refuse to take pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:17 PM
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I'm a guy who can get sex fairly easily... Maybe twice a month if I dedicate all of my time to Tinder. Maybe 3 or 4 times a month if I am extra forward and turn a blind eye to the types of girls who are likely to have STDs... But I don't. I'm looking for a relationship. Women barely try to get to know me or find out what type of person I am. They just let me crack a few jokes and then I ask for their number and usually get it. This makes me stop trying. These girls do not try. They have no reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:09 PM
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Thumbs are holding up. People can have that incredible way of thinking and still be unattractive to the people that ought to be attracted to them. I'm living proof of that. I have my reasons for not wanting more wealth. You're also purposefully not pursuing your passion, because you think it will make you rich. I am persuing my passions! Just not for money. I don't know if any of them could get me rich... but obviously I'd be more well off with extra income. I do them for the fun and to express …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 09:09 PM
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I'm a solo photographer. I do landscapes and waterfalls and general exploration type stuff so I doubt we've met. It's also just a hobby but I only recently got a decent camera and started putting a lot of effort into it... still just for fun, but I'm pretty sure people would buy my photos based on the feedback I get. But here's my take on it: nothing is more attractive than someone who is passionate/laser-focused/willing to put in whatever effort it takes towards their goal. It's incredibly sexy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 07:35 PM
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I'm 30 in a few weeks. I always assumed we would mature together in our own strange way... She continued onto a career that she used to hate but as soon as it started paying well she changed her mind about it... and me. It is very hard to find what I'm looking for on top of equal attraction. I only seem to find one or the other. Or girls who aren't interested in my salary. Don't let one bad relationship sour you. It sounds like you have a lot to give. The relationship was perfect until it ended.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 04:59 PM
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Nah I read it. I am just pulling it to the far extreme for the sake of debate... My gripes with women are not insecurities. I am not insecure, just annoyed that there don't seem to be many women (at least ones that I find attractive) out there who share my values. I'm an attractive guy, I'm intelligent, I'm funny, I don't waste my time, I'm very resourceful etc. lots of great qualities that get overlooked by girls of equal attraction to me because I only make a reasonable salary and they think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 04:08 PM
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Well I've tried lowering my standards and it doesn't work... do I have a right to complain? I've dated a few attractive girls who don't mind getting dirty once in a while either... however, it felt like babysitting taking them anywhere. Never felt like they were comfortable when they were with me especially when they fail to take my advice on wearing practical clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 03:17 PM
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There are lots of guys that could easily find someone if they looked outside of the range of what they find attractive, but that doesn't really work in real life. I'm a reasonably attractive guy who is in good shape. I have tried lowering my standards when it comes to a girls looks but ultimately those relationships fail because I lose interest in sex... and I can't stay friends with them because they usually end up with strong feelings for me. Then there are the girls that I consider equally at…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 03:02 PM
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Always tell someone the reason for your actions. Never resort to just fading away and leaving them guessing because (depending on the person and circumstances) it can cause them a lot of inner conflict... I would agree that the best thing to do is to cut contact but never leave them in the dark. No if's, and's, but's or maybe's either... do not try to soften the blow because that will only confuse them more. Say your part, be assertive about it and let them get on with their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 12:05 PM
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It's not part of our culture to go for the head over heels romance. Not for women anyway. Women are mostly interested in money and stability so yes this does depress me. I'm not interested in being rich and having a stable life. I want to be strong instead of comfortable. I want to appreciate the little things that you forget about when you're rich. I want to have strong children, not sheltered brats... But women don't want this, they want the comforts and the sheltered children... Every relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 10:42 AM
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I am here to debate. You're still not debating with me so stop replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 10:29 AM
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These are the type of women I would avoid after being in a serious relationship with one. They are extremely hard to please. You can never tell if they are getting bored and deciding to leave you... and on top of that they will crush you if it benefits them, even if it breaks their own heart. Money and status is their main priority. They are not loyal or dependable for relationship needs, too career orientated to love and appreciate a good man. Alpha males gross me out for very similar reasons. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 04:19 PM
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I have had 3 different experiences with girls on Tinder where they invited me round for some platonic cuddling... 100% of these turned into sex fairly quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 04:08 PM
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Yeah... until I get the horn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 04:04 PM
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PPD is just a place for me to vent. If you want to debate with me, I have given you a big broad option to start with... Where would I start giving examples of women being gold diggers when the entire planet is full of it? No matter what example from my own experience I were to choose, I would receive the "You're just bitter because you had a bad experience" reply...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 04:01 PM
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My post was made because I am the one who is annoyed. Also to incite some debate... which you are not providing. Your replies are the only farts in the wind here with your silly double standards there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 03:50 PM
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Your Number 2 sounds like a nightmare to me... it's like choosing between a free lifetime pass to an epic theme park or a free lifetime subscription to some kind of encyclopaedia. Sure I'd get bored of the theme park eventually and the encyclopaedia will benefit me more in the long run, but damn the encyclopaedia would be boring and I would regret missing out on all the amazing fun I would have had at the theme park. To stop using a metaphor... every relationship will end in tremendous pain. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 03:42 PM
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Well I don't think I'm the most amazing looking guy on the planet but I think I would score pretty well if that was the case... But somehow ugly rich guys seem to have hotter girlfriends than me who currently has no girlfriend. 4 years I've been single and dating. As soon as my job/salary gets mentioned or the fact that I like to spend my time having fun instead of collecting more wealth than I need (heaven forbid!), girls always seem to run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 03:16 PM
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Well... that's me convinced. Solid argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 03:13 PM
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suggesting that women are less manipulative or backstabbing than women. Que? being sexually desirable For women that usually means 'wealthy.'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 01:38 PM
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Sluts are sluts. Women can be sluts or they can be whatever else they choose. If you said you liked to bang waiters, does that mean all men are waiters?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 05:59 PM
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This might just be me but the few "hook-ups" that I have had in my life were absolutely nothing. They felt OK at the time, never great... and they just left me feeling dirty and lonely for the following week or so. Hookup culture is crap. It's even worse because it's so easy now. It barely feels like an accomplishment... Plus being paranoid about getting an "I'm pregnant" phonecall and/or getting tested for STDs is not worth one night of meaningless fun with a stranger. I'd rather have a lonely …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 05:49 PM
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This is maybe gonna seem like a strange and scatter brained answer... but anyway... I dunno if I'm religious or not. I'm kind of like an extremely open minded spiritual agnostic. Once upon a time I was with the girl of my dreams and she was very similar to me. We were both very aware of all the evils in the world and we both wanted to see the world heal. So I was out there trying to make a difference in the world. Devoting a lot of my time to political activism, going to groups, classes and prot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 04:24 PM
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Tinder does not increase peoples chances of dating. I'd say I was pretty above average in the looks department and my Tinder is constantly popping all day long with new matches and messages... but rarely does a conversation last longer than a few messages before me or the girl gets distracted by the next match or just loses interest in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 03:59 PM
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Anger is healthy, as a challenge to overcome. The more you get past anger, the less things will shock or upset you in life and you will become a more peaceful being.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 11:50 AM
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A great man (or woman) knows when they are putting themselves into situations that lead to temptation and avoid those situations and spend the time with their partner instead... A great husband or great wife shouldn't get married to someone who does not share this belief in common and appreciate how rare it is to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 11:41 AM
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You "would never", or you "can't ever"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 02:51 PM
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and match perfectly. Been there. Keep your guard up. If she's under 25, there is a high likelihood that she will destroy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 02:43 PM
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Centuries have passed by and we still haven't solved the enigmas of love, sex, compassion. I think it's more a case that we have forgotten... Why else would we all want it so bad? Why would we focus so much of our time and energy on something which isn't supposed to be natural to us? I know we can't change the world all by yourselves, but WHAT ARE YOU effectively doing to have better relationships? I'm staying the hell out of any relationships until I find someone that I honestly want to be with…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 11:31 AM
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How would you think a red who is good would act? Ideally with specifics. How would they approach women? Go on dates? Act in LTRs? Well everyone's different so there's no point being specific because that just leads to debating over semantics... but I imagine he would walk up to the girl or ideally one of her friends first and say hello, introduce himself, and flirt with them to see if the girl he likes flirts back. Same as any guy who is good at getting women but with a different internal monolg…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 11:21 PM
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I think that some would. Not most. Obviously most of the women reds associate with, just due to selection bias. But not most women overall. Most single women who aren't aware of TRP then. Even some who are aware would fall for it. I'm talking about if someone was good at it, not the amateurs you see posting on the subreddit. Especially if the guy looks strong and healthy and is wearing nice clothes. I had one red on here tell me that when I tell my boyfriend something he does bothers me, it's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 10:55 AM
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Then again, the most manipulative people generally don't need internet guides on how to get people to like them. True. But someone who is capable can read a bunch of TRP articles and go apply them to the real world without much of a learning curve. I feel pretty confident in saying that I wouldn't be attracted or interested in a red, based on how they describe their actions. Both the "treat women like children" descriptions Well I believe you. I don't think AWALT is true. However most women will…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 05:06 PM
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you're also being pretty charitable with your description of their behaviors, which is a shame because it's rarely as benign as you're attempting to make it seem. I'm a very open minded guy and I come to these debates to learn. I will keep debating points that I see as valid to get responses and make people think, not necessarily to try and win the debate. I would add that TRP is rarely as rigid and evil as TBP likes to convey. TRPers aren't successful all that often, far as I can tell. When the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 04:57 PM
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Mostly because that was part of the question in the OP. Oh yeah! I somehow missed that part. I highly doubt that anybody would run around telling people they were TRP though, so it would only be in very rare situations that people would know that someone is TRP beforehand. I wouldn't be so quick to assume that all TRPers are annoying douches. The most manipulative people can appear to be your best friend for years before you might realise the type of person that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 04:12 PM
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Alright, so you're intelligent and this is interesting. My first question is... would you consider yourself attractive enough that a Red Piller would approach you in a social setting? My second question is. Can you give some examples, in the way of a narrative, of how you would test your theories out?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 04:07 PM
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to begin, RPers have very specific requirements for how they want 'their' women to look, and they tend to detest the things that fall outside of that. So you don't consider yourself to be attractive? when it comes to this, it seems the most popular RP tactic is to bluntly attack a woman's self-esteem, though, so i don't think it would be an issue to notice what he was up to at all. I do this and I'm not TRP. Done correctly it is simply flirting and joking around. If she's my type of girl she wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 03:56 PM
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And a lot of those behaviours are flat-out unattractive. Aside from the misogyny on the TRP subreddit (which is mostly done by new members and the recently heartbroken men who aren't stable enough to have an LTR that would work)... What behaviours in real life would give it away other than catching them logging on to TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 03:35 PM
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So you think all Red Pillers are exactly the same? It could take years for you to realise someone's true nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 03:33 PM
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Nobody is going to be blatantly sexist to your face if they want to sleep with you or have a relationship with you. BPers think that RPers are going to be clearly identifiable by some kind of dark seedy behaviour, but that's not how it goes down. They will be tongue in cheek about it and probably making you laugh, showing you their confidence and assertiveness, and luring you in. Same way as if a non RP guy was to attract a girl successfully. The only difference is the RP guy has learned what he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 02:00 PM
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Assuming the RPer who wants to maintain a relationship... can you give me some examples? The way I see it, both pills are more or less the same in what they want from an ideal relationship, they just use different language to describe things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 01:52 PM
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When RP is used correctly, it can be summarised as men playing women at their own game. It's amazing how many of you believe that someone who wants to make advances on you is going to reveal anything that would be detrimental to his efforts... unless he is incompetent and thus not very good at being RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 12:35 PM
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How many red pillers do you think introduce themselves in real life and admit to being red pill? Honestly, how do you suppose you would even find out or how would you recognise it? There are no discernable differences between an "attractive" guy who is red pill or otherwise in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 11:55 AM
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Well. T'was fun debating with you. Take care lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 11:48 AM
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I care when anybody fakes anything, ever. Bullshit is totally counter productive, especially women's bullshit. If women stopped caring so much about "I don't want to seem like a bad person" and cared more about "I'm going to accept responsibility for my actions and start being a better person" then entire societies would be better off. I'd be happy to discuss and consider an open relationship, with rules to minimise the risk of STD's, but it's not a priority for me to be in an open relationship.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 11:43 AM
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She's probably in it for his money... and the gardener and her fitness instructor are probably doing her right on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 11:36 AM
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You're totally missing my point I didn't. I just don't agree with your points. I never said they were aware. My whole argument is that people wouldn't buy into something like social engineering unless they thought they were getting something out of it. So which one was it? You seem to have changed your mind. You brushed off one argument with my ego, then another with. "oh well that is just one example out of millions," and the last one with, "no, what I said was perfect." What do you want from m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 11:07 AM
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From the moment they get ready to leave the house, women apply all kinds of products to their face to hide what they look like. Then they proceed to use words to continue to lie all. day. long. There is an old quote "Women are nice to their friends and don't really mean it, Men are mean to their friends and don't really mean it."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:16 PM
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Can't view the video, care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:13 PM
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wouldn't it be fun to fuck her, then rub in her face that you're actually poor? This will become my new hobby. Re-downloading tinder as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:10 PM
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Good idea. I've been told a load of times that girls think more wealthy men are less likely to "pump and dump". So you can pump and dump as many shallow sluts as you want while they're least expecting it. The cost of a couple of suits is a lot cheaper than having a girlfriend too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:07 PM
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It's the "All of my friends have richer husbands, and they would talk about me!" mentality. It's all ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:04 PM
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That is just a strawman example. People followed him because his economic models got Germany out of debt and prospering when just ten years earlier the German populace was starving to death and inflation was so high it took wheelbarrows of the German currency to buy a loaf of bread due to the Treaty of Versailles. Germany was roped into WWI, and as a result they fad to pay the war debts of the allies' war debts which sent them into an economic turmoil and Hitler changed all that when the rest of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 11:45 AM
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Yet there are people out with entire volumes of books filled to the brim with knowledge and findings that completely rip the accepted versions of our world history wide open to a whole universe of new possibilities... the establishment ignores and ostracizes them and keeps teaching an obsolete version of human history to all of our children. Honestly, read even half of one of Douglas Kenyon's books. Look at the "new" evidence being presented and look at the articles published by established scie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 11:03 AM
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But are you breaking even with food and rent every month? I can also afford to smoke an ounce of weed every month, drive a few hundred miles for photography outings, eat out 3+ times a week, buy clothes when I need them and spend the rest of my money fairly comfortably without ever checking my bank balance. Are you a troll? Donating to charity is not good. Besides the fact that a lot of charities are corrupt, simply throwing money at something isn't much more than a half assed attempt at showing…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 10:55 AM
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The red pill subreddit is hated. You probably meet red pillers in real life and think theyre amazing people without ever realising they are red pillers. Perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 10:32 AM
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They are a status symbol and marketed as such. No one needs a Lexus or any other luxury vehicle. What they convey is that you have high economic status and money to burn. Some people want to appear like they have status and are willing to pay the price, some people see it as a waste of resources and seek status elsewhere, like the status that comes with advocating the attainment of commercial goods to be a folly. They are marketed as being amazing sounding headphones. "Hear what I hear in the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 10:29 AM
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Step one, offer sex. Step two, before you have sex, let him know about the things you cant afford. Step three, act shy and cute about him giving you money. Step four, have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 05:13 PM
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I don't think I'm that plain, guys come into me a lot. And I don't think I'm that boring, people generally seem to want to be around me even when they're not attracted to me, and isn't that some unicorn shit apparently? I don't think I'm that plain yet girls never come onto me. And I'm definitely not boring (lots of cool hobbies). People never seem to want to be around me even when I later find out they were attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 05:11 PM
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Male suicide rates. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 05:04 PM
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Peace yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 02:25 PM
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Yeah, if you think incurable and/or lifelong diseases are dangerous. I'd say that risk is more or less equal to asbestos removal. I think so, or at least just as hard How much exertion does your work involve? The climbing engineers need to be very fit plus they risk falling from great heights so they also need to be very mentally strong. And intelligent, so they can do the technical side of the repairs. I am "breaking my back" due to being in a certain position all the time. By "breaking your ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 02:24 PM
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Yourself. You apparently gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 02:08 PM
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So you're admitting defeat...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 01:54 PM
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If that's what you think, you might aswell stop using PPD altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 01:42 PM
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You probably already know the answer to that question. So work your ass off doing what? Is your life in danger every day? Do you work harder than a guy who climbs massive electric pylons, sometimes taking over an hour to reach the top, in order to repair them? Are you constantly "breaking your back" doing any kind of hardcore physical labour? Do you experience more stress than somebody who goes to work every day to remove asbestos from old buildings? Or face the extreme types of backlash as some…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 01:12 PM
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Didn't realise there was a time limit. I hadn't logged in for a couple of days. Nice comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 01:04 PM
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What makes you think women decide who to fuck based on how they benefit the rest of society? They don't any more. We live in a very decadent, greedy, selfish and unnatural world now. One thing TRP points out is that all the pro-social bullshit they drummed into us recovering betas was never attractive. TRP is not the ultimate key to all truth in the universe. They are right about a lot of stuff but they also wilfully ignore a lot of truths that don't fit into their paradigm. It's never attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 12:55 PM
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Nope... these girls apparently punish their boyfriends by withholding sex until they get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 12:46 PM
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However, an excess of resources is preferable because it's less stressful at the very least (compare making enough money to live comfortably and put $3000 in savings each month versus breaking even every month). I don't even make that much money in one month... and I'm not stressed. I enjoy my life and appreciate everything I own and do way more than anybody I know. The love of money is the root of all evil. So women are evil? Wealth dampens happiness? I'm guessing you haven't ever been able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 12:43 PM
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This is blue pill thinking. It doesn't really matter that you say you lean red, you don't. Since if you did, the first thing you would understand is that male and female sexuality operate differently. Just because to you being more attracted to looks 'makes sense' or seems fair or whatever, doesn't mean that being attracted to something else is illogical or selfish. Nope, it's is because I'm physically attractive and I've never had to "pay" (blatantly or indirectly) for sex. This whole thread so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 12:33 PM
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Most people are pushing an agenda, and as a result people fail to see the bigger picture, but it is not a conspiracy. I never said that it was all a conspiracy. It is mostly flawed humans being flawed humans. The limitations of the field are well known, which is why something like the construction of the pyramids is so heavily debated, but to suggest that the information of what is known about the surrounding the pyramids I highly doubt. Perhaps there are some sound theories out there, but witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 12:21 PM
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I did. It is the market. People purchase that which they value. Wrong. People purchase whatever gets shoved down their throats. Take Beats by Dre headphones, nothing special at all... you can find better headphones for less than half the price but their advertising clearly works. So essentially your argument is that a select few rich recruit and own sexy talented pop stars to indoctrinate society through song and dance to social engineer people to follow less than ideal ethics, and white people …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 12:01 PM
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I feel like this directly contradicts your original assertion that being attracted to hotness is not shallow, since it's based something as impermanent as physicality. Looks are impermanent yes, but my point remains. During the period of time that someone is attractive, they are attractive. It is natural to be attracted to a healthy person, it is (probably) not natural to be sexually attracted to an old age pensioner. But many, many couples have split up after simply "growing apart" over time. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:46 AM
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the blue pill is denial of reality, which seems to fit you in this situation. The red pill isn't reality either. If women were only attracted to physical looks, they would not manage to have many of their kids even reach adulthood. Yeah... Because all the kids with non wealthy parents are dying at an alarming rate /s. By your calculations I should be dead right now. And all my friends. Must be a miracle. You are projecting male interest in looks onto women, which is inaccurate and laughable. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:24 AM
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If I have a chance to tell them I'd try and advise them to walk away and point them towards the red pill or something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:14 AM
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Because most people who are wealthy don't get it from hard work. The most strenuous, hard working jobs are more often than not the ones with the least pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:12 AM
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Who's logic? Anybody's logic. If someone can acquire stuff, this means they can also lose the stuff... If they lose the stuff are they still attractive? When the answer is no the person was never attractive, just the stuff. I think that the topic we're discussing here is a subjective one. We're relying on subjective logic to lead us to subjective conclusions (a.k.a. opinions). That's why there's so much disagreement among people on this board. Probably. If you're attracted to a person's personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 05:23 PM
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Kin selection-- if you can help your brother have two children, that's as good as having one child yourself. Reciprocity-- if I help you, you might be more likely to help me in the future. I can agree with these. I would believe that the above supports my views. Sexual selection-- being generous shows off how wealthy and powerful you are, making you more desirable as a mate. This one doesn't explain why women would help people. Women have no need to display their power or wealth for this reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 04:41 PM
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Well I'd still argue that it is not natural for humans to hoarde resources and outlast eachother on the basis that we're all still here... You can see evidence all over the world of humans helping each other. If someone has an accident, we phone them an ambulance or help whatever way we can. If we evolved to be selfish and shallow then why would we ever bother to help eachother? Why do we have charity? Why do we have healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 04:11 PM
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the man with the many cows gets the prettiest wife. Is the wife genuinely attracted to him and happy about this arrangement though or is it his privilege to take her? Also the right word is CONTINENT, not country or nation, my whole point is that it is a HUGE place full of lots of different countries all of which have vastly different cultures in them, most of which do not actually fit your main point. Noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 02:58 PM
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You seem very upset about my error. I acknowledged the error and apologised and also attempted to explain, I rushed out a comment with the word Africa in it. I said "Look at Africa" instead of "Look at Tribes"... What else do you want me to do? Shall I say you have completely changed my view? Because you haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 02:56 PM
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I have replied to hundreds of comments in this CMV and I'm getting very tired of all the typing. Go ahead and disregard every single comment I've made so far because I said the word country instead of nation or whatever the hell you want to call it. The point was look at tribes, my point had nothing to do with Africa per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 02:33 PM
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Wow, that many? So how do we go about accurately measuring the happiness levels of the women based on their partners? Are they really attracted to the guys with most resources? Or are they like the rest of us and just doing what they can to survive? Or are they in happy relationships with people they genuinely find attractive? I'm rambling now I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 02:30 PM
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Who was hauled into slavery? Slaves. I'm tired of this debate. You can win the Africa thing, I admit I don't know a lot about Africa, I just picked that place thinking there were still tribes there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 02:15 PM
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I clicked your link but it's only a recent very grey summary of Africa. It's not the same as the information you'll find in books... and I still doubt the info in the books. Also, wether it's a country or not is not important to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 02:13 PM
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Yeah nowadays. It wasn't as bad as that before the white men came and hoarded them all onto slave ships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:56 PM
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This isn't going to fly very well but Africa wasn't aways a third world country. Once upon a time, before all the transatlantic slavery etc. the African people flourished because the country is so wealthy in resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:55 PM
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Hi there. This is my CMV post. I'm not blue pill whatsoever. If anything I'm more sided with the red pill. It's got nothing to do with any "It's what's on the inside that matters" crap. I believe that 2 humans without labels being attracted to eachother for their looks is natural. Being attracted to an excess of wealth is not natural and I would even argue that it is detrimental to our species and planet particularly in extreme cases of wealth. You need to admit that men and women are different,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:39 PM
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History is written by the victor. We all know this but few people are brave enough to truly embrace what it really means. Call me a conspiracy theorist all you want. I don't blindly believe anything. To be truly scientific, we would aim to find the truth and this is done by removing all that is impossible and always questioning even the most solid theories.... But this does not happen in a lot of cases. Lots of archeological findings are overlooked and ostracized by the scientific establishment …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:30 PM
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Who are the people making these supposive stupid people famous? You tell me. All these pop stars just pop up out of nowhere. The music is absolutely awesome and I can't blame anybody for dancing to it... the lyrical content however is often quite social engineery and full of poor moral messages. It is not some cunning person in the shadows hell bent on hypnotizing people. Hypnotise is a strong word. It's more like subtle influences from all angles (not just pop music) that heavily shape our cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:20 PM
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So like learn from your experience and don't do it again. I've been hurt plenty of times by women... never twice in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:08 PM
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I wouldn't say that men don't have fun times with their female friends, but way more often than girls want to admit, their male friends are beta orbiters who want more than that friendship. I don't spend time with women that I don't want to have sex with and I'm pretty honest about it. If I do spend time with a girl, I'm pretty clear about my intentions and if she's not interested I have plenty of male friends to spend time with. I think men and women can be acquaintances but I think it's very r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:06 PM
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I'm not trying to be cheeky but I don't know how else to put this... I don't understand your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:02 PM
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You're arguing that physical attractiveness is a sign of good moral qualities, right? Not quite. I'm saying that it's not shallow to be attracted to someone for their looks, it is on par with being attracted to someone's personality... Wanting to be wealthier than all your fellow humans, however, is shallow. Pretending to be attracted to someone because they have an abundance of resources while billions of other humans suffer is shallow. Rewarding a man who rapes the planet more than the other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:57 AM
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I wouldn't say happy. They'd be content at best but more likely they still live in fear of their husbands. They are far removed from the time when Africa was one of the wealthiest nations on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:50 AM
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But being attracted to someone because they have money/power is also natural because it can get you something you want...resources basically. But when you do not need an excess of resources, it is shallow to be attracted to this person. When you want to have more than your brothers and sisters you are selfish, greedy and shallow. This person would be basically buying your affections and you would be selling yourself. I don't understand how anyone could call themselves truly happy in those circum…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:46 AM
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Not a lot of people like to admit when they're wrong... But I try to. I'll give you this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:36 AM
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The big banks. Oil companies. All of the industry giants. Billionaires. We put the CEOs of these companies in financial magazines with some edgy quotes about "getting the most and being successful" then we all wish we could be half as successful and pardon their sins. To give you a better example, you have people like Steve Jobs, a role model to many yet his company releases more disposable technology every single year which is marginally better than last years tech but always make sure to hold …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:32 AM
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To me, the true definition of a whore is anyone who uses sex like a bargaining chip or a power base. So basically... most women? A few of the girls I have gotten close to have told me how their friends use sex to make sure they always get what they want from their boyfriends and they are very coy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:22 AM
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I don't want money or status. I just want to be happy. I don't feel that money and status would make me feel like a good and happy person. Nor would I appreciate the company of any woman who found me attractive for those reasons. It would feel shallow and empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:14 AM
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Poor example on my behalf. I stand corrected on this one I guess. I'm thinking of some documentaries I've seen of tribes flourishing in the jungle/rainforest/plains in different places who all look out for eachother, share resources and look after eachothers children and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:13 AM
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Not by direct force. If he's not exactly helping his fellow men to flourish, he's forcing women to have no other choice but to want his wealth to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:08 AM
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I'm 30. I'll probably be 60 and have remained mostly single when I get there. I'll probably never settle down because I have no intentions of marriage or having children. I've experienced a strong love and it only broke me in the end, wouldn't do it again without a lot of damn good reasons to stay together with a girl. Luckily I absolutely love my hobbies and couldn't care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:05 AM
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Hear hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:01 AM
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Those same men will throw their fellow man under the bus if they think it will improve their chances of getting laid. Jokes on them because pandering to women will never get most of them laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:01 AM
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Nah, I like this place. r/philosophy hate me even more than you guys. Anyway, the entire population of the human race takes up such a tiny portion of the entire surface area of the planet that it might aswell be insignificant. We do not need a reduction in numbers for any reason other than to make it easier for the ones in charge to remain in control. We have plenty of resources, we're just currently using the land like retards and letting the super wealthy dictate our reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 02:04 AM
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Haha good point. I would probably be one of the first to realise what is going on... however, much like real life, the other people would not want to be free of his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:57 AM
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In which culture? New to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:50 AM
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Yeah. Women are probably afraid of those guys. I can't imagine any women being happy in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:49 AM
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I'm not. But we should stop using the people who rape the planet as role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:48 AM
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The leaves of the trees die and turn to nutrients and soil, worms mix up the soil and keep the nutrients going to the trees roots, the tree grows more leaves, the leaves fall off the trees and die and turn to soil. You'll find that a lot of nature is connected. Y'know how when the bees die they're taking all the trees, plants, animals and us with them? Most of nature can only exist if it's neighbours exist and are doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:45 AM
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How would that society have ended up then? If all the neighbours died, what happens to the remaining few?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:43 AM
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Well... Good luck to all the people eating their money when theres nothing left to eat... or taking it with them when they die spiritually unfulfilled by what greed brings. More greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:05 AM
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Sounds like a manipulative prick who should be stopped before he has too much power.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:04 AM
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I understand the concept but I think a lot of selfish people have got it twisted to deny their greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:01 AM
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It just doesn't seem right to want to mate with something which is cancerous to the future of our species and the planet. If you are not some messed up psycopathical nutjob you will realise that humans need eachother to survive. There is nothing to be gained from being more wealthy than the others. How can I do well if my neighbour does not also do well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:00 AM
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Anybody with disposable income is wealthy. Anybody who lives in a house that is too big for them. Anybody who still wants more when they are already living a comfortable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 11:56 PM
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Does this make sense to you? Like, at all? No because what you just said before those 2 questions was theoretical horse shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 11:54 PM
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If only...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 11:52 PM
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The arrogance that goes into the belief that somehow the doctrines of our civilization can rewrite what is the product of millions of years of evolution astounds. "Western Civilization" as we call it, and all of it's media, history books, science etc is relatively new to humans. We have barely any idea what human life was life was like before most knowledge of our past was erased and/or replaced in the crusades.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 11:50 PM
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However, there is no indication as to what you can teach as valuable for any particular trait Well if we could just stop making stupid people famous for singing pop music written by extremely intelligent people that keeps the masses hypnotised enough to set the cultural norms for the rest of us... that would be a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 11:44 PM
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Men love a woman's beauty. If there is a god (I'm not religious) then men loving the female body, this would be a huge celebration of his finest work. If there is a devil then greed and the material lifestyles what Western women are supposedly attracted to would be a celebration of the devils work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 11:39 PM
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Theres nothing natural about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 11:35 PM
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Who gets to decide what the natural and legitimate reasons are to be attracted to someone? Logic. If you're attracted to someone's money, you're not attracted to the someone. And to the rest of your questions: Life isn't fair, that's why empathetic humans try not to be dicks to eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 11:32 PM
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Not the city, I meant like tribes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:49 PM
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According to the majority of humans. Most of the 7 billion of us are not wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:48 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:45 PM
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It doesn't care? Explain ants... Edit: Also explain bees. Another one: Explain the symbiance between worms, soil and trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:43 PM
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One of the biggest causes of poverty is rich people and I'm not a rat taking part in their race.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:36 PM
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Humans have survived and became so intelligent because we share and are capable of love, we have society to protect our children... what you're describing is that women like the assholes who would make their life harder if they weren't the partner? It makes no sense to be attracted to that unless she too is a shallow asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 09:56 PM
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True dat. But I'm not gonna do anything like that for the money. I'm pretty good at things when I put my mind to them but I've never found anything at all that I want to do professionally. Maybe one day I'll figure it out... I'm not really happy to stay afloat but I don't see any reason to do something for more money that I don't technically need. I do have monents where I struggle but then it makes me appreciate good times more. Also my home is bare minimum and half decorated but I see a lot mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 09:41 PM
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I'd say theres a grey area between what's natural and what's shallow. I'm debating my view in here but I do have to agree that providence is even a logical reason to choose a mate... but humans survive because they stick together. I thought we wanted to live in societies and keep progressing and also have love/fulfillment in our lives. Wealth doesn't fulfill anything especially a loveless void.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 09:32 PM
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Teach better values was a response to what women find attractive. I think the media heavily influences what people find attractive. It's not necessary to survive in the wild, but we have been debating evolutionary attraction in all these comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 09:22 PM
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I'm not poor but I'm not well off. I don't exactly think being poor is a good or noble thing, I just have had to highlight some of the positive sides to living that life in my comments. I do think wealth is an unattractive thing, it shows that people don't care as long as they are Ok... which is not my idea of a great society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 09:20 PM
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You are a good contender to my CMV, and I understand what you're saying... however; On the flip side, money generally shows that this people is winning at life. Sure, that guy who works two minimum wage jobs to feed his family might work hard. But he also had several unplanned pregnancies and didn't develop a career, nor is he trying to get a better job. If that guy took responsibility for his actions and is working hard despite his struggles, he is a winner in my books.It's extremely difficult …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:09 PM
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Humans evolved to share resources. Having more resources than all the other humans would be a dick move in a survival situation and would only guarantee the survival of the "rich" family in the tribe... leading to a miserable lonely existence if the less fortunate families died off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:02 PM
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Gold diggers are devious. If a gold digger was honest outright, most men I would like to think would reject her plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:01 PM
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Says you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:00 PM
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Sounds like brainwashing. What you're saying is women are socially engineered to want men with power. It's all over the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:59 PM
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I'll just quote myself from a previous comment as it is relevant; We evolved to survive together and share our resources. One family hoarding all of the resources while the others struggle does not guarantee the survival of the species. It means life for everyone involved in that scenario will eventually become crappy. And if the less fortunate families die, the wealthy family will not be able to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:58 PM
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IVF is not natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:56 PM
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We evolved to survive together and share our resources. One family hoarding all of the resources while the others struggle does not guarantee the survival of the species. It means life for everyone involved in that scenario will eventually become crappy. And if the less fortunate families die, the wealthy family will not be able to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:55 PM
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I don't deny the obvious advantages of having more resouces... but it doesnt make you less shallow for wanting to be better off than your friends and neighbours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:52 PM
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Can you not see why being rich and sheltered makes you weaker than someone who was raised tough?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:51 PM
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We can teach people better values. If raising better children is the biggest reason women can have for wanting a partner with more money... lets take some sheltered rich kids and some street raised tough kids and throw them into the wilderness and see who survives longest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:49 PM
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I dont find new pussy attractive. The first time having sex with someone will never compare to making love to your best friend. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:47 PM
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That attraction only exists in our media infested society. Go to Africa and see what they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:46 PM
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So far everyone who has tried to challenge my view only seems to come across as defensive towards their own shallow behaviour, thus only enforcing my views further. If everyone is on the same page as to why they are dating/fucking/engaged then whats the problem? The world, our environment is currently fucked and if we are to survive, something has to change... that's the problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:45 PM
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Care to explain? I gave a good basis for my CMV, you have not provided anything to challenge it with. If you want more details, you can read the comments, I have replied to plenty of other commments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:40 PM
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It is shallow when someone has more resources than they need, regardless of how they attained them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:39 PM
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Yeah but we live in a different world now. That pump and dump guy just has to pretend to be rich to get what he wants... In a primal situation for humans the stronger (hotter) male is the most attractive, not the male with a collection of shiney rocks. A stronger male could just take his rocks anyway... unless he is also strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:37 PM
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In our society we do not need the wealth to survive. Being attracted to it is selfish and greedy. Most people, so long as they have an income, can provide for themselves and protect their family. I could also argue that kids brought up in a less comfortable environment will inevitably become stronger people than the sheltered kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:33 PM
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Thats a situational based survival mechanism. We don't live in that world any more. And a lot of tribes in remote locations do not live life this way either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:01 PM
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It's about making sure that there are resources available to provide for one's offspring If a guy has any kind of job, he usually can provide this. Wanting more money and resources than is needed is selfish and shallow. We love to eat fatty and sugary foods for evolutionary reasons. Is the enjoyment of chocolate shallow? Is the enjoyment of sex shallow when we're using contraceptives and can't have children? Is wanting to have babies shallow? Is prioritizing the needs of our own children in favo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:00 PM
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I wouldn't say easily. Fat people are often embarrassed about their looks. They have all kinds of health and hygiene problems. They are not agile and versatile in the bedroom. They cost way more to feed. Most people are not attracted to them, but when they are its likely a fetish and not romance. It's not easy to be a fat person at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 05:57 PM
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Which is fake... and not natural... and therefore selfish... and therefore shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 05:52 PM
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Being hot does not mean they're hard working. But it often does. It is a function of youth and ability to breed. Looking like a healthy mate is part of it, as it affects children, but there's a reason certain features are desired in a partner on both sides from an core mating standpoint. Yes it's natural. From a female's standpoint. If you're going to have children you want someone that can provide the most resources. You don't need the most resources. You only need enough resources. Wanting mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 05:50 PM
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This doesn't make them any less shallow. Billions of years of evolution will also teach you that we can survive perfectly well without money and power... so it's shallow to want to be more wealthy than other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 05:45 PM
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Except it's not. In most businesses, especially the ones where I've worked, the people who earn the most money are doing the least work. They are often the least knowledgeable about the specifics of the areas that they manage and often rely on the people below them (who make less money) to help their asses out. Some people have lots of money because they inherit it. Some people get lucky with money or they just knew the right people. Meanwhile someone could absolutely love their hard working, lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 05:42 PM
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Yes it is kind of shallow but it's slightly different. A human who is in good shape is healthy, that's a natural and legitimate reason to be attracted to someone. Also most people have an equal chance to not let themselves get fat... so it's also quite fair to be attracted to someone for their healthy looks. Being attracted to someone because they have lots of money is not natural. You are not attracted to them, you are selfishly attracted to the external things that they can provide for you. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 05:17 PM
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Nobody is. We're just not shallow in that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 05:01 PM
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But what does that have to do with genderless laws? The laws are genderless... yet I still don't see any women dating down or marrying down. This is very very easy to avoid as a man: don't marry someone who makes significantly less. That's fine for me because I don't intend to ever get married, I think it's a ridiculous concept. But guys still do marry girls who make significantly less. Which, to me, means we don't see women as disposable. you really think women don't marry with the hopes of sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 04:54 PM
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What does "men cheat for strange" even mean? I'm a man. If I had a girl who was good enough I sure as hell wouldn't cheat. I could quite easily hook up but I won't even get down with any more girls unless I stumble across one that's good enough... but I'm no longer trying and I'm not holding my breath. You're deluded. And you seem bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 04:47 PM
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If women see men as disposable then in general they would feel it was more likely that they might leave the man in future. And they would obviously want to avoid dating down because they don't want him to take half of their stuff if it came to marriage. Whereas men don't see their women as disposable and therefor marry with the hopes of staying together and don't mind dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 02:24 PM
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It ignores the fact that sometimes people just do shit for no reason. That's an extremely rare thing, there is almost always a reason even if it's an almost moot one, like boredom... And besides, the type of things that people do "for no reason" will vary depending on the type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 02:19 PM
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But the law doesn't say "men must pay", it says "the higher earning partner must pay". This is a very reasonable law to make sure that the non-working partner has the independence to divorce and is not controlled by the working partner. To me, this adds so much weight to theories that women see men as disposable. This could be a large factor in the reason why so many women refuse to date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 02:14 PM
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My theory is that anything which is supposedly anti-mainstream and grows to be as popular as Metallica is allowed to exist in order to appease the rebellious types and prevent them from actually rebelling. Music especially gives them an outlet for their angst (dancing/moshing/singing) and creates the illusion that the fans and their "heroes" are really sticking it to "the man".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 01:52 PM
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They do step up. Why haven't you noticed? We can't see past all the beta orbiters who showed up to validate the girls heroic efforts after she posted them on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 12:49 PM
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Anything with a large following is almost guaranteed to have been socially engineered by the elite. And any true grass roots movements that grow large enough will inevitably get infiltrated and manipulated by them. Best way to fight the elite: Be your own person. Be free of labels and subcultures. So long as you are part of a "flock" you will get herded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 12:34 PM
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But like 99% of the time they do... or just lie and say it wasn't fun because the guy hurt her feeeeelings in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 12:26 PM
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I agree with almost everything you said... except you're giving girls too much credit. I don't think they do this out of being devious and wilfully ignorant, I believe most of them are genuinely stupid and hopelessly ignorant. Don't get me wrong though, some of them are devious and wilfully ignorant, just not as many as you seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 12:23 PM
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Doesn't that ruin the purpose of your efforts and lower your chances for future projects? Not if you're a woman. The thirst is real!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 12:20 PM
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they believe that marriage strengthens a relationship It strengthens it by way of control and mental security. Control is a bad thing in my eyes. The feeling of being trapped is more likely to make someone cheat than before... I would think. they believe in the concept/institution of marriage, Institutions are for delinquents and lemmings. they found women they adore unreservedly Not hard to find. That's just the psychological effect that comes from spending a lot of time with the same woman and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:44 AM
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Who cares what anyone else thinks anyway? You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:23 AM
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If a guy is cheating, she must not be as good as she thinks she is. First of all, she can't tell that her man is a prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:22 AM
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Then it is not rational for anyone to shame the men who like younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 10:22 AM
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If a guy loves you, love him back and treat him right, also don't go getting fat and you should have nothing to worry about. I guess it a part of male nature that women don't particularly like so we try to shame it out of existance. So they have something you don't: youth... But you have something they don't: experience. Which is greater? Neither. The worst way to try and make your light shine brighter is to try and darken someone elses. The fact that older men chase after very young women is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 12:37 PM
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Since most of the shaming is done by women, is it because of insecurity that younger girls are more attractive than themselves, or due to rejection? Likely this. And jealousy if any guys do the shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 12:29 PM
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Of course not, that concept is totally beyond my comprehension. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 12:55 AM
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I'm doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 11:03 PM
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If a relationship stays together it can be fixed, when you can still talk intimately. In my case, a really messy breakup would make it too hard to fix anything. And I'm not going to reward the person who destroyed me and left me depressed for years with the improved version of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 11:01 PM
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It was a hypothetical scenario. Is a contrarian mature or immature? I'm not opposed to social norms but I don't enjoy lavish dinners so I tend to avoid them where possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:50 PM
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Well... I wouldn't say 95%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:43 PM
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I suppose you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:41 PM
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A lot of attractiveness does lie in social status and charisma. A hell of a lot. Charisma I can vouch for but anybody who is attracted to someone for external reasons like social status is extremely shallow and obviously a user... That's like only being friends with someone because they give you free food or free tickets to shows i.e. If your companionship depends on external factors you are fake as f***.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:11 PM
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I'm a tall, good looking guy... are you saying I'm gonna be lonely forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:51 PM
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Nah you're probably right, I was mostly just trying to be a little bit scrutinizing there. Boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:49 PM
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Being married and having a family are not prerequisites for eachother... I would argue that if you want to have a family, why waste all that money on a wedding when it can help with raising the children?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:37 PM
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Meme. Can only get confidence by being validated by women. Being attractive doesn't change it at all. Not true. If you have ever looked in the mirror and seen a slouchy pasty reflection and decided to put the work in to make it a healthy attractive reflection, you will realise that you control a lot of your own confidence. Plus you're more likely to get that validation if you're attractive. Millions of ways to do that these days more easily. Ambien, melatonin etc. These are less healthy options …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:34 PM
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Being married does nothing but change the name of his partner from girlfriend to wife in that sentence... There must be another reason why they would want to be married? The control? The security? Because all women dream of having a beautiful wedding?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:21 PM
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My male friends seem like they like the idea of marriage. In an emasculated beta type of way? Or a needy dominant kind of way? Even more so than my female friends. They must not be truly happy with the boyfriends life has dealt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:11 PM
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By being fit you're not trying to please most people. You're pleasing yourself mostly, you genuinely feel better about yourself and have more confidence, better sleep, better metabolism, better immune system, tire less easily when doing every day tasks etc. (I realise there are exceptions to some of these) Potential partners should care because of any combination of my points above, and because sex is infinitely better when you're both fit and healthy. most of us are going to die in our 70s and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:03 PM
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Get the wheels turning in his head. Or the wheels turning on his car as he drives off into the sunset... Men don't really want to get married. It's normally done as a last ditch attempt to save a failing relationship, or because he got the girl pregnant and he's afraid of her father. I joke but I'm also semi serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:51 PM
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I don't think anyone should propose unless they already know the other person's answer. Where's the fun in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:48 PM
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I don't think it can be defined accurately... But I think it coincides with wisdom. It is knowing how to compose yourself 'properly' in certain situations and being able to avoid over-reacting to bad situations. It can also be having experience in certain aspects of life and knowing how to apply this experience in differing situations throughout your life. It is taking matters into your own hands and not seeking approval from anybody... however, "faking" it doesn't count. Blind confidence is som…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:14 PM
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What if I know how to behave in any given scenario but don't want to behave accordingly in certain ones... Such as keeping my elbows off the table at a lavish dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 02:32 PM
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I think honestly being tired of each other and dealing with that, however you do so - there's a lot of shades of grey in that set of options - is way better than clinging on to an unhappy relationship because you feel you should. If it was happy in the beginning and became broken, it can be fixed... My longest relationship was 4 years of heaven (for both of us) then she left me after one bad(ish) year at the end. I know she realised what she lost and so do I but I would never trust her with my h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 11:58 AM
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People shouldn't get into relationships that make them miserable in the first place. If it was good at the start and became broken, it can often be fixed. The problem is that we are spoiled, lazy and weak. Relationships are about facing the good times and the bad together, not giving up when things become rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 11:51 AM
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Yes I do. We all have too many options and we're lazy. A lot of us have so many big expectations being shoved down our throats that we are hoping to find something which very likely doesn't exist... and everything/everyone else is pretty much disposable if they don't live up to those expectations. I am guilty of getting tired of my romantic endeavours and walking out for little reason. This is partly because it's so easy to hook up with and date people online now and it feels kinda awkward to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 11:46 AM
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Not disagreeing but most people tend to buy houses that someone else built...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 11:39 AM
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I'm not red but; Using psychedelics to reflect on your life and society without your ego holding you back This is definitely something that all people should do at least once in their life. There's a reason why the government keeps drugs illegal and it's got very little to do with people's safety and a lot to do with not having populations full of truly open minded humans. If drugs were produced clean and safe and society was educated on their proper safe use, they would be no more dangerous tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 11:32 AM
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Not interested in your anecdotes ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:51 AM
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We're attracted to what we're attracted to. Men are attracted to the work of nature, the beauty of a woman. Women are closer to Satanists as they would rather indulge in money and material pleasures than find real love and their best friend. I feel bad for rich guys. If I was rich I would surely know that this woman doesn't love me as much as she loves my money. That wouldn't make me feel good at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:48 AM
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Attraction comes first, then love. Men don't walk around proposing to attractive women straight off the bat... Do you really not understand? Women stay for the money. Even if there's love a lot of them will say "Love is not enough" as a reason for leaving... The very definition of shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:43 AM
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Not true. I have backed away from relationships with very attractive women on account that they were annoying and/or boring. I made the rational decision that I wont like this person at all when her looks fade. Because women don't just think with their genitals and husband up a garbo because he's good looking But even if he was a happy, funny, positive guy with interesting hobbies, who would bring more happiness than any amount of money can buy... he would get overlooked by most women. Stop conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:42 AM
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Neither do the tons of men that hit women. Neither do the tonnes of women who hit men and/or the tonnes of women who have their boyfriend/husband wrapped so tightly around their baby finger, they are practically slave masters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:27 AM
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If you say so. That wasn't clear in the first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 09:09 PM
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Dating convicts is extreme but it's a good indicator along with other observations that a lot of women have a thing for badboys. Not having a thing for badboys would seem to be the opposite extreme, and so balance in the universe is restored.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 09:04 PM
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Yea you made this up. Not a thing. He said many women. That could mean 5% of women or 90% of women. It could mean anything... and I highly doubt that there are zero women anywhere in the world who regret being sluts in their lives. Stop being stupid. I think I'll stay opposite red pill. Much more fun. Higher quality men too. High quality men is what TRP want to be. You ridicule the guys currently facing the struggle... but you'll happily enjoy the finished product. I hope you catch a disease fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:58 PM
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Women have been doing this from the dawn of time. Just as men have been long before TRP. Some women are oblivious that they have this power. Just as some men are oblivious to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:50 PM
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Nah, it would be a collection of girls who have had their hearts broken one too many times, coming together and realising that men only want to be around them (outside of school and work) when there is any inkling of a chance for sex. They would form buzz words and slang such as AMALT to make it easier to communicate ideas and experiences and give the best advice to eachother for keeping the men theyre dating interested in them plus their orbiters stroking their egos. They would encourage exerci…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:46 PM
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Wow, that's great advice for an extremely small percentage of people. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:29 PM
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But make no mistake, you can be confident and sensitive at the same time. Sounds like a bi-polar disorder. I doubt women find that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:18 PM
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Can you give us all an example of how RP would infer that most people are jewish using the "everyone knows at least one jew" thing? Sounds a bit farfetched...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:05 PM
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They are afraid of people discussing RP concepts outside their limited domain. Because they realise that without censorship... Red Pill concepts readily fall apart. As someone who is "on the fence", PPD has only ever made me more sided with red than with blue. Don't forget PPD is full of blue pillers, who (90% of the time) fail miserably at presenting counter arguments to TRP and quite often set themselves up to have their asses verbally handed to them by Terpers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 04:58 PM
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Can you link to the post you're talking about? If it's the one I remember reading it was mostly aimed at women who tell guys "we don't need to use a condom" in order to get pregnant, accuse the guy of rape and reap the child support + government benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 04:47 PM
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He said "not always"... what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 04:38 PM
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What the heck did you expect it to be. Did you expect a physical entity or what? I just don't understand how anyone is supposed to fight something which technically doesn't exist. Patriarchy is not a system of order which exists, it is culturally accepted, and if you look around you'll see that a lot of men and women are very happy to keep living this way. "themselves" LOL. What? You must have never heard of myspace, facebook, twitter, instagram or any dating sites. Or visited any bars, clubs, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 10:23 AM
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Sounds like the Patriarchy is not an actual "thing". It's more of a cultural phenomenon. If women want men to respect them, they should stop objectifying themselves and be more assertive, interesting people. I for one would welcome that. I'd love to meet a woman who was my equal... but that is an extremely rare thing to find. Society needs to encourage women to be stronger characters and stop brainwashing the shit out of them with all the beauty products. But at the end of the day, we can't forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 05:27 PM
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"What a fool, you don't believe everything I pull out my arse when presented with no proof and with reasons to think otherwise." Just noticed that when you say "mainstream" you mean real life. I'm not asking you to believe what I say. You can do your own research and make your own observations. You should know what mainstream means. Mainstream media is a mass propaganda system. Then you probably haven't talked with many women. It is way more common than the reverse, and I have more male friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 05:17 PM
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Proofless bullshit Exactly what the court would say to the guy (although not in those words)... Whereas a woman with no proof would still stand a chance of winning so long as she has his dna or is pregnant with his baby. Salty butthurt misogynistic bullshit So it's Ok for you to villainise the shit out of men in general but I'm a misogynist if I critisice women? Did the feminists castrate you? That is patriarchal society fault, because the standard for men doesn't let them express their feelings…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 03:03 AM
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Proofless bullshit of the year. Your dependance on mainstream information in order for something to be 'true' is very foolish. And none of that has happened. Because it is incredibly uncommon. It's only uncommon to hear about it in the mainstream. You are. Then why are feminists so reknowned for being easily offended? you won't hear a conversation among guys about how to avoid being abused by random unkown women Very true. But you will often hear men tell their friends that they cant do X Y or Z…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 02:39 AM
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Your "flawed stats" argument would make sense if there were any reason to imagine a REALLY large number of men being abused by women hidden for some reason A lot of people (including women) know that court rooms favour women... All she has to do is say "I'll accuse you of rape". Unless a guy has some hard evidence of her saying that out loud or in a message he has nothing to stop her from psychologically abusing him. (taking into acount that in our society its mostly men who have the power to in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 04:55 PM
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I'm not closing my eyes. I'm reading your comments and addressing them. But the light is right there up all over the world, feminist fight is making more and more achievements, psychology and sociology keep understanding better and better the Why and How of gender based violence, etc. etc. Yet one of the biggest obstacles to that understanding is political correctness. And feminism is an advocate of political correctness if I'm not mistaken. Feminism isn't totally bad but I can't say that I hone…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 04:28 PM
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Statistics are tertiary evidence and should be taken with a grain of salt, especially for something which cannot be accurately measured such as psychological abuse. If you were in any way "scientific" you would understand this. My beliefs are based on facts and experience. They say truth is like light in the darkness because no amount of darkness can extinguish the light. If what you are saying is so true... how come you're failing so bad to show me the light? Also I'm not a misogynist. What the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 03:28 PM
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Either more women are being abused... OR... less women are being caught doing the abusing. See the big capitalized "OR" in my sentence where I clearly gave you 2 extremely conflicting ideas... What exactly is it which makes you think that I don't doubt my own beliefs? I am not trying to be 100% right. I'm debating my points and fuelling the debate. "Less women getting caught doing the abusing" that is so unbelievably dumb that I refuse to think you are serious. Let's apply that logic to everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 03:24 PM
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And another thing; you say 17 women have died so far this year due to Psychological abuse in your country... Go and look at how many males have committed suicide. You'll be shocked. And this is only my opinion: but I would say there is a very good chance that a lot of those suicides were due to what a woman did to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 10:47 AM
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More women being victims in the statistics says 2 things to me. Either more women are being abused... OR... less women are being caught doing the abusing. I have no primary evidence on the matter and neither do you. Statistics aren't even secondary evidence, they are tertiary evidence and thus extremely flawed. I wanted some ignorant to be aware of his ignorance. It's a debate. I am questioning the world, I am not ignorant. You are the one drawing lines and refusing to think about any of the inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 10:42 AM
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go ahead and look up statistics. They won't mean much to me. Most men probably don't bother reporting to statistics offices when a woman is psychologically abusing them. They probably put up with it for the good times (like my dad does) or walk away and just say "That btch was crazy". I have never been on Tumblr but you sound like you have never ever talked with a feminist so I guess there is a lot of feminism in Tumblr. I have no idea if I have or have not spoke to a feminist. I'm not concerned…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 03:01 PM
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you're underestimating his looks and overestimating yours. I'm not actually. I'm often ridiculed for being the most attractive of all my friends. And this friend in particular is a close friend, we've chatted about stuff like this before. Also I get lots of matches on Tinder if that's worth anything. Not bragging, just reinforcing my previous comment. he has much better social skills than you, or more appealing personality, though they're related Yes he does. He has more confidence than me, part…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:44 PM
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OP you need to go spend some quality time outdoors or something. If a guy has a high N, why would he need to rape anyone? Your post is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:40 PM
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You can keep the chances of being a victim lower, but it can still happen to everyone. But most people don't try and keep the chances lower. Billions of people are out there every day eating fast food, wearing perfumes, feeding candy to their children, drinking alcohol, smoking etc... If people were more conscious about the causes of cancer rather than waiting for someone else to cure it, we would have far less cancer in society. Sexism: the main reason why you haven't experienced psychological …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:28 PM
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Basically exactly like TRP but with a separate section for venting so that TBP don't get their panties all in a bunch claiming the whole place is full of misogyny. And possibly a link on the side bar explaining to all the retards out there who failed English class that "All women are Like that" does not mean all women are identical. And maybe clear up a few of the other things that bluetards grossly exaggerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:58 PM
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The word you are looking for is "fake". People are more fake in person than they are on the net.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:51 PM
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Damn if I knew I was dying of cancer I'd love to have that option. Sounds great!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 12:26 PM
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I'm not even a terp but the way you quoted half of that guys sentence just made you look really ignorant. You totally skipped his point... Do you want to look like a numbskull? Because that's how you make yourself look like a numbskull.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 12:23 PM
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You must be great fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 12:17 PM
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I have a friend and he's pretty short, like 5'4 or 5'5, blonde hair, average facial features, doesn't have an amazing job or income, 27 years old, lives with his dad, and his confidence is probably 7/10 on average. He has had a few long periods of being single but he's dated a substantial amount of hot girls and he's currently in a long term relationship. Then there's me. I’m 5’11, dark hair, fairly attractive facial features, similar income, roughly the same age and I live alone. My confidence …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 11:56 AM
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I haven't said anything about interest rates, that was you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 11:36 AM
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There's no burden of truth on anyone... All you have to do is look at the state of the world. What I'm saying is painfully obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:36 AM
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Nope. Can you show me proof that these people are not heavily influencing world events and raping and killing the planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:17 AM
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Well you clearly havent read much of it... The subreddit doesn't just bash women. It is a guide to getting past the anger. But it's necessary. Guys are starting to see through the web of lies that (the majority of) women create and all of the things about women that didn't seem to make any sense before... of course they're going to be angry! Better to rant on a forum than take it out on people in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:14 AM
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I'm not trying to be superior, I'm being realistic. Your sexist remarks don't give what you're saying any extra weight, all that does is make you look bitter. Women can and do manipulate men. It's happened to some of my friends... also out of both my parents, my mother was always the most guilty of psychological abuse towards my dad, my siblings and myself. Your cancer analogy is kinda stupid too. We're all living in the same world under the same conditions. If we want to avoid cancer we can at …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:06 AM
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You haven't tried to teach me anything... Maybe it's because I've never been all that susceptible to manipulation as far as I can tell. Or maybe it's because I've never been manipulated by a master manipulator... but then maybe this is because I've never allowed it. I've had my heart ripped out before, and been to hell and back for a girl. Nothing will ever hurt me again as much as that did so I have no problem walking out on someone who is trying to psychologically abuse me. I've walked out on …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 04:42 PM
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On the subreddit they seem angry and miserable... but if you pay attention you will see that this is a phase. Angry bitter Terpers are not accepted as alphas in their local habitat, but people who are on the path to try and become the type of guy in OPs post. The subreddit just gives them a place to vent when needed until the day they probably no longer need the RP subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 04:36 PM
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Society would never make any progress if every single one of us decided to agree with mainstream opinions... not that I'm ever going to write a big scientific paper and change the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 04:19 PM
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Not officially.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 04:16 PM
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Lets agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 02:05 PM
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They manipulate politics, world events, wars etc. and the economy... so they seem pretty gangster to me. The same banker families funded both America and Germany during WWII. I think that's reason enough to refer to them as cartels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 12:34 PM
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By the definition I can only assume that it's psychological. I.E. tricks of the mind. So if you realise it's happening and no longer want to be subjected to it... you can walk away. Like most things mind related, we make our own choices. Take depression for example, you can give someone all the help you can possibly give but if they aren't mentally prepared to embrace that help, they won't be helped. What I'm saying is, people who are being psychologically abused need to want to be helped. If th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 12:30 PM
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I have no idea what Floyd Mayweather even looks like... bad example then. Imagine a guy who isnt a celebrity instead who is in the same physical condition as a boxer. I would like to think that nobody would ever get abused. I'm just saying being smaller in size doesnt make it impossible to escape a bad situation so be less afraid. And being fit wont hurt either. Not sure why you would go back to someone who was trying to kill you if you already got away...?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 12:07 AM
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Some things may have been slightly tongue in cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 12:03 AM
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Well I highly doubt that Floyd Mayweather is ever one bit worried about being attacked by anyone. Why? Because he is physically fit and prepared... Besides, a small agile person can definitley outrun a heavier person. Source: I was way smaller than my parents when I had to escape ass whoopings as a child and I successfully escaped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:30 PM
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You really think a smaller person gets their ass handed to them because they didnt try hard enough. wtf I never said anything of the sort... I know nothing bout those 2 boxers but assuming what you're saying is true, Floyd Mayweather would still have a better chance of survival than someone who is not fit. My point being, all you can do is be more prepared.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:50 PM
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Yeah I've been in plenty of fights. Not since school though. I did escape plenty of ass whoopings from my parents as a child by running away though lol. Boxing has rules. They aren't allowed to grab eachother by the nuts or lift a chair and throw it at their attacker. They are there to throw punches, not for one person to escape from the other by any means necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:38 PM
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Well if that bothers you don't date a tall guy. As BPers always tell me don't date outside my age range, you should refrain from dating outside your height range... Being fit can still boost confidence and reduce your chances of becoming psychologically abused regardless. On top of that, if you studied martial arts you would know that size does not matter. If someone is way taller than you, that means you can stop and run the other direction quicker than them. You can fit into smaller spaces. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:29 PM
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I can speak, I just need time to think about the upcoming portion of my sentence at times... or sometimes I feel that the pause is needed for emphasis or effect. I speak differently to extroverts. I have no idea why but it takes me 100 words to say something they could say in about 25 words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:20 PM
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I don't see the connection between that song and what we're discussing... Is she saying that women always want more than what they have regardless of what they have? that sounds about right but I may need you to explain what you're thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:18 PM
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Meaning, people should always be in shape. Because you never know when it can come in handy... it benefits all aspects of life including self defence... then If someone becomes psychologically abusive you can at least have that one safety net and get out before they cause you any actual harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:11 PM
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I never said anything against laws surrounding physical abuse. Do you have a point to make or are you just trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:02 PM
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Those stereotypes have existed since before I was even born... I didn't create anything. If you're going to continue to resort to nonsensical claims like that we can stop debating. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:00 PM
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I have to agree with u/SteelChicken Physical abuse? JAIL. Psychological abuse. LEAVE. End of fucking story. It would be far too much of a grey area on what can and cannot be classed as psychological abuse. Everyone is different so will handle it differently... Plus what's next after psychological abuse? If a guy spends a lot of time away from his partner and causes her emotional damage because he's always watching sports or drinking with his buddies should the government start policing emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 04:50 PM
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Well I mean... I'm on here asking questions. What else should I do? I'm not going to make my life hell by challenging the women I know in real life. You'll notice that the title of my thread is "Why do so many of you....." not "Why do all of you...." I am not living in a bubble and I am not some gullible idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 04:39 PM
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That pause there is the cause of much frustration in my life. I tend to speak with gaps between sentences... and far too often I'm about to follow up with an "if", "and" or "but" when some extroverted mofo decides to pipe in and correct me about something before I finished what I was saying. This type of thing makes me super wary of groups of people and thus more introverted. I try and I fail a lot of the time to speak in groups. Everyone winds up thinking I'm stupid, when it's the hasty extrove…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 04:24 PM
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Your attempt to insult me did not work... I didn't make any of my comments to insult you. If you personally don't fit the stereotypes then you shouldn't make it look like you're taking it personally. Stereotypes exist because of the majority, not the few. So that would make you the exception, not the rule, which is something you should be proud of. As a guy, I can admit to male stereotypes being based in reality. However, I can proudly claim that I do not fit most of those stereotypes. However s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 04:07 PM
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Generalisations and stereotypes don't just happen for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 03:14 PM
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I don't concern myself with political rhetoric. In my eyes they are all working together and the "global stage" is exactly as the name suggests, a stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 03:08 PM
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Dream bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:46 PM
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I don't understand why mentioning Russia ends the conversation... It's just an observation. Those guys are tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:45 PM
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And if the victim tries to leave they are shamed and threatened. Damned if you do, damned if you don't? If someone realises they are being abused in this way, how do they take advantage of the new laws then? It probably involves some form of invasion of privacy as a counter measure that will negatively affect the rest of us too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:07 PM
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The /s was only supposed to apply to the last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:04 PM
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stop prolonged campaigns of controlling and threatening behaviour Would this mean that the government and banking cartels would be shut down? Because you just described our government and banking system.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:03 PM
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You can get a relationship with surprisingly little interpersonal skill You can also make friends with very little interpersonal skills... You can even reach out to strangers. Sometimes it's easier to reach out to someone who doesn't know you than the people that do. theorizing about getting out of something abusive is not really helpful, you're obviously a strong individual yourself, but not everyone has the resourcefulness to get out before it's too late. So we need better education and life p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:00 PM
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You may need to go see an optician. I gave you 3 very big reasons, and you don't appear to have been able to read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 01:00 PM
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If you're in a relationship you obviously have some kind of interpersonal skills... I doubt that there are people out there who don't have at least one friend, or a colleague, or a family member that they can get help from. Maybe we just need to educate people on all of the dangers of investing every single bit of their free time into a monogamous relationship and forgetting about all of the other aspects of their lives to a point where they don't have anybody except their partner... In a bad sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 12:52 PM
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Yes they should. How the hell did we ever manage to survive for hundreds of thousands of years on this planet before all these pathetic perverted laws? We are soft and lazy in this day and age and it's disgusting how much freedom people will willingly throw away for a little bit of extra comfort. Basically this would mean people cannot even argue about their problems anymore incase it is deemed as a breach of this law.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 12:42 PM
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I think in a lot of womens' cases, it's wilful ignorance. If they haven't learned after the first couple of "badboys" and/or shrugged off anybody who has ever tried to explain to them, there is something seriously wrong with their rationale.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 12:12 PM
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Yeah I can totally see your reasoning in why this is decidedly not a problem with the person as I am totally able to read minds... No need for you to explain it or anything. I'm far from a stable person. I have suffered with depression and anxiety my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 11:53 AM
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This is not a good law. It will create a whole new area, like "guilty if the woman says so" rape laws, which will be abused by women in a pissy mood. Also, to quote another comment I made: The intention behind the law is not a good one. It is laziness. If you are afraid of someone harming you, get your ass to the gym and become physically capable of at the very least running away from an attacker... People don't seem to realise that our freedoms are being slowly but steadily eroded away. Where d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 11:46 AM
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The intention behind the law is not a good one. It is laziness. If you are afraid of someone harming you, get your ass to the gym and become physically capable of at the very least running away from an attacker... People don't seem to realise that our freedoms are being slowly but steadily eroded away. Where does it end?? Does it really need to reach a stage where we literally can't take a shit without the government shoving a CCTV camera up our assholes while we use the toilet? Handle your own …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 11:42 AM
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Things like this really do annoy me. Why can't people just handle their own problems? Someone is being psychologically abusive? Walk out the door. Break their heart and let them realise what they lost. Stop asking Big Brother to make your life all cushy and comfortable because you can't handle your own freaking business... eventually we're going to end up prisoners in some creepy sci-fi Orwellian system wondering what it was ever like to have any freedom at all. I genuinely fear for future gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 11:37 AM
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Bad boys usually just treat them like a person. Like they are equal So women like men to be fake? Because if that's what's going on he's either a fake bad boy or fake being nice...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 11:30 AM
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He's just jesting about how women don't tell the truth when it comes to those attributes. Saying they find niceness and shyness repulsive would not make them seem like nice people.... because the world would explode if a woman actually admitted to not being a sweet little angel. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 11:20 AM
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This is the definitive answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 11:18 AM
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You're kind of wrong. I smoked weed nearly every day for like 5 years... I eventually got bored when it started to become run of the mill. I would have smoked like 2 or 3 spliffs a day for months on end but I would have taken a break for a week or 2 when I didn't feel like it anymore, sometimes I would break for a month or 2 and I barely gave it a thought. My point being; cannabis is far from addictive. If someone seems to be addicted to it, it's a problem with the person and not the plant. Now …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 11:09 AM
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My own life experience, other people's generalisations and common stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 10:53 AM
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Breakdown in communication? Me saying that women are less individual than men does not mean that that women are void of individuality entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 11:53 PM
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Men like women of all different ages and appearances. I like tall girls, short girls, big boobs, small boobs, athletic, chubby... doesn't matter. When I'm using Tinder for example, I swipe yes on probably 75% of the women and then I narrow down my dates to the ones that I get along with... Women should lighten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:25 PM
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Facebook represents the general populace. Considering they are females, they fall into the demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:21 PM
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Here's a link for you. It is done in good humour and I realise that not all women demand all of these things from a guy... however, it is pretty much only women who post these things on my facebook whereas I would have thought women are the butt of the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:18 PM
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My opinion is not entirely based off that one type of woman... but this type of behaviour adds a lot of weight to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:13 PM
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Even if it was done in good humour, it still affirms that women are hard to please... I don't know why any woman would want to come across that way. It's not something that most guys would find particularly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:11 PM
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Each man is different. If anything it should be recognisable that women seem to lack a lot more individuality than men... I think these things, whilst being presented in good humour, make women look like the butt of the joke. As if women need to lighten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:59 PM
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They usually are posted in good humour, but I woud have thought the joke was on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:56 PM
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We do have standards besides the stereotypes. We just don't run around boasting about them and we tend to be more open minded in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:55 PM
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But they should realise that any guy who is expected to bust his balls for these women is going to get tired of it eventually. Sure the lists are often presented in good humour but they are still a bad reflection of a womans character, and something that men should be showing to women to tell them "you guys ask too much of us".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:54 PM
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I just think that any man who is involved in a relationship which looks like one of these big lists is busting his balls for very little reward. Men have standards too. Sure a lot of us can be easily led into sex with a woman who is not repulsive, but as far as a relationship goes we do have standards and a relationship won't happen without those standards being met. A woman doesnt need to expect men to bend over backwards for her to prove that she is not a slut. She can just... not be a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:50 PM
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As men we mostly keep ourselves happy. We don't need a woman to meet a big theoretical list of standards to keep us happy... But men do have some standards, based on what type of guy he is, and a relationship won't happen without these. Mostly I think so long as a guy likes the girl for who she is and he can have his hobbies etc and the girl is cool enough to not get in the way of his other interests or maybe even take part, then he is happy with the relationship. Women who do boast about all of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:44 PM
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Honestly we don't need eachother. I'm happiest when I'm alone. Being married and seeing the same person every single day would drive me insane. The media tells us that we need to be married, buy a nice house, 2.4 kids, a cat and a dog, a fancy car and a few luxury commodities to be happy. So everyone strives for that or something similar. And everyone else wants to be just like everyone else otherwise they aren't happy. We're like Lemmings. I think the world is insane. Edit: Spelling mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:45 PM
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You can read the Red Pill and come to realise that you really couldn't be bothered with the effort of finding a mate and maintaining a relationship. Women are harder work than they are worth in my mind. I'm a reasonably attractive guy, this alone has been the glue in most of my relationships and I probably have it a little easier than some guys, but even still I am not rushing back out to get into another relationship. I love being single and alone 99.5% of the time. And the other 0.5% of the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:25 PM
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