Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. What this means is that women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.
So I'm going to ignore the fact that “in a way he thinks she should be capable of” is open to interpretation, and seemingly a lot of men's expectations are unreasonable to begin with.
(i) Do you have any solid evidence to support this statement?
I won't accept circumstantial observations.
I won't accept repeating RP theory or aphorisms. I mean actual evidence.
(ii) Do men love women differently from women? If so, how?
I won't accept circumstantial observations.
I won't accept repeating RP theory or aphorisms. I mean actual evidence.
(iii) If you believe this then when women say “I love you” what do they actually mean? Is this purely manipulative? Are they actually incorrect and they only think that they love the person in question, but don't actually understand their own feelings?
(iv) If I were to ask women now “have you ever loved a man, and do you love your existing partner?”, I would be extremely surprised if there was any other result than 100% answering in the affirmative. So are all of these women lying? Or do they not know their own minds?
(v) If a woman was with a man, and she believed that she loved him, and then he passed away, do you think she would feel genuine remorse about that? If she did feel genuine remorse, is she in fact deluding herself because she didn't really love him in the first place and merely enjoyed what he provided?
(vi) Are men sincere when they say “I love you”? Does love actually exist? Or does everyone just act in self-interest, and all communication between sexual partners is always deceitful?
(vii) If women don't know their own minds then what makes men more self-aware and more able to understand their own minds? Especially as women are supposedly more capable of empathy, so they're more capable of understanding others' feelings, but not capable of understanding their own? Or has every woman that ever said “I love you" simply been attempting to manipulate the object of her affections?
Here are my answers.
(i) There is no solid evidence to support this, or alternatively the way a man “expects to be loved” is unreasonable to begin with.
I should say that where I strongly disagree with RP is that you build attraction via 'game' which means acting a certain way, and if you don't act that way then you won't be attractive to women. I just think is utter bollocks. I have seen this disproved time and time again.
(ii) I don't think there is a significant difference. Physical attraction is the primary arbiter of attraction. The man is generally expected to take the lead. Men drop women just as rapidly, if not more so, than women drop men. Neither gender loves unconditionally, nor should they. No-one falls in love at first sight in this society, we've destroyed that years ago. I really don't see any meaningful difference.
(iii) It's reasonable to assume that when women repeatedly say “I love you” that in most cases they at least think that they love their partner, and it's no different from when men repeatedly say “I love you”. You will always get a few manipulators on both sides, but there's no evidence that women are more prone to this than men.
(iv) All of these women are not lying, women genuinely believe that they love their partners. In the absence of any solid evidence to the contrary, it is reasonable to believe them.
(v) Obviously any woman in this situation would experience genuine remorse.
(vi) Most men are, some men are not. While I have a dim view of human beings in general, I cannot believe that everyone constantly acts in self-interest and is utterly Machiavellian and deceitful at all times.
(vii) As I said previously, I believe that there isn't that much difference between the way men and women love and when women say that they love someone they genuinely mean it.
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