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What question? And why don't you explain what a wee a boo is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 04:11 AM
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Or I just don't care enough about you. Sad reality. No I don't know what a wee a boo is guess I'm not a "hip mellinial" Yes they can work in fast food places because those are the only jobs that are available. I.e part time work. Note I will adress that comment because it's the only one that has merit in your weak posts. I have no idea how you turned a minor comment on the state of the economy into such dribble.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 03:45 AM
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Because people who are well rounded and can take care of themselves don't go asking the internet for advice or have any need to vent on it or seek validation on it. The population on those forums is a small percentage of the whole of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 06:46 AM
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There's no point in answering the question because the line of thought that you projected on me was nothing I ever stated but a result of your own assumptions and conclusion. Is a weeaboo some millennials term for loser or something? There's lots of jobs for millennials at fast food joints so I guess there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 06:33 AM
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Ah I see you read the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 05:35 AM
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It's not a lack of goals it's the inability to achieve them because of a lack of jobs. Makes the goals kind of pointless. How is this hard to follow? No I'm not answering your triggered question because you can't understand a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 08:28 PM
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Bit triggered? dang Millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 03:24 AM
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Shaming housewives... Pot calling the kettle black huh? Maybe you can now see how stupid your own argument was.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 11:52 PM
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No I mean there's no jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 11:48 PM
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Lots of women played world of warcraft and an interest in video games doesn't really equal an interest in programming. There is probably a link but not a causation. I use my car everyday but I have no desire to be a mechanic. Gaming population is pretty 50 / 50 except that women might play different games than men. Doesn't mean they aren't playing games or aren't using computers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 07:05 PM
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I don't think it does, you'd have to prove that to convince me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 07:01 PM
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You've still proven my initial point and have now moved on to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 07:00 PM
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The ones that do focus on their careers are usually fat or ugly so they instinctively know they could never get a rich man to take care of them. That is some logic there and you also missed the point entirely. Women don't need the money of men anymore. This is the new reality. Men won't be able to get women with "resources" anymore. Women will out earn men. Most "career" women are quite "hot" and not "fatties" as they don't spend time lazing around the house chasing rug rats. Career women unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 06:59 PM
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Really? That's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 12:26 PM
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What? NAWALT? Naw if you can find a shumck to sleep with you can find one to marry, it's not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 12:26 PM
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Nope. Women still tend to date in their age range as it is a better strategy overall. Especially since women can be investment bankers themselves they don't really need the man's "resources" anymore. They are capable of making their own money. Men should get used to this, it's the new order. A sugar daddy relationship is something looked down on in general especially by other women. If she wants to retain her social network she won't go looking for that type of relationship. Also it wouldnt be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 12:23 PM
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it's statistically unlikely for a woman to end up with an older rich dude as there aren't as many older rich dudes as there would be dudes in her own young age range. It would be a pretty piss poor strategy to seek out a "unicorn / sugar daddy" as TRP says.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 06:09 AM
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I thought it was super easy for women to get men. Ergo convincing them of marriage or co-habitation can't be that much more difficult. At least put some logic on your made up stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 06:05 AM
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Millennials stopped being born after 2004 with those thereafter some other generation not yet named. So they are anywhere from 12 - 36
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 06:02 AM
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Millennials with financial goals, that's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 05:57 AM
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It's still pretty big business don't see it going away anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 05:56 AM
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TRP doesn't really think about it but there is a lot of social pressure for a woman to have a steady boyfriend. I'm sure some women choose to act the way you suggest but I will say they are doing so against the judgment of their peers and family. It's more likely they will have several longer term relationships with the honest intention to keep them long term until something happens and the relationship sours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 05:51 AM
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Because they are still children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 05:49 AM
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But by purposely keeping an entire gender at home, humanity was able to ensure good resources were put into home life and upbringing of children This was not done on purpose but out of necessity and even then the gender divide in terms of actual labor of our ancestors wasn't that divided. What we would consider traditional home work took A LOT of more effort than it does now requiring someone to be at the home to take care of it. That said however, women were still expected to work in the fields…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 05:43 AM
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Where have all the good women gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 05:29 AM
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They don't like TRP that's the shared belief but beyond that there's nothing else. If you go there and start posting TRP cap it will get down voted what a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 03:14 AM
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Oh no down votes! My only weakness!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 03:11 AM
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Men love that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 03:07 AM
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Yeah I've no idea who would be making that argument but OP doesn't say either. I don't think having a big family = good family life, is probably the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 03:05 AM
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Those old, fat, ugly women aren't interested in you either. They are likely not in the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:54 AM
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Naw I got better things to do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:51 AM
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Who ever said it would? Feminism is not the cause of lower or higher birth rate. Unless you want poverty where masses amounts of people starve there is no need to have a high birth rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:50 AM
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OP doesn't know how to string together an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 01:05 PM
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No, they think things go downhill because THEY art getting the girls they want. That's the whole point of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 01:03 PM
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Your argument makes no sense. If feminism is not the cause of lower birth rate then how would anti-feminism be the solution at all in the first place? Who exactly is purposing that anti-feminism will increase birth rates? Or are we only hearing one side of some invisible argument? According to your points the cause of a lower birth Raye stems naturally from prosperity. Either you are rich in any time period or the poor are not as poor as they once we're or as poor as they are now in third world …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 12:58 PM
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You shouldn't be able to text or email either as their could be unwanted consiquences.. better not cook either.. in fact let's just outlaw drinking and save everyone from themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 06:23 PM
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I don't think MRA Would do much for those issues. It like stems from second wave feminism and is more the natural evolution of those ideals than is third wave feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 06:15 PM
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The "being worse off" in western society becomes the sphere of "first world feminist problems" in that it's a struggle to find anything really worth justifying the main movement at all. The real battles for feminism is in the third world And other places. Aborting female fetuses, female genital mutilation, access to education, and freedom to leave abusing situations. However, addressing those problems means admitting that things at home aren't so bad and academics will never admit to being inval…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 06:12 PM
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If women or other races weren't afforded the same opportunities at other levels then how could they come to have the same qualifications for high ranking positions?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 06:04 PM
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Tl;dr. When people fail at things it makes them sad. Also CMV grass is green
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:59 PM
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Everyone just wants to be loved
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 07:24 AM
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If you are weary of them then I have more respect for you. They aren't worth defending, save your breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 07:20 AM
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They want to help alright, help themselves. Most posts are bitter written to put someone else down so the poster can feel better about themselves. In this way they aren't trolls because they don't want to get a rise out of anyone but instead just make them feel bad and grovel or sometimes that person they attack isn't there to defend themselves in which case they want to use it as an example of the kind of people to hate and how much better they all are. The rest are posts that agree with that p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 07:17 AM
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They are vial. are not done with malice. untrue. I've been there, I've seen it. They are viscous and ready to strike down anyone who doesn't conform to their beliefs. Okay, there were multiple occasions where I felt attacked Exactly, They are all smiles while they believe that you look up to them. it doesnt make them TERRIBLE people I say it does. They are the WORST kind of people. FAKE.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 03:47 AM
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Neither were they and in fact, you can not prove that anything said there would have a positive affect as they have no credentials. Yet you would rather put your faith there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 03:44 AM
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Why would I? They are terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 12:46 AM
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You need validation? Who cares about what strangers on the Internet think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 12:45 AM
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To people / sources with cridentials. But you know, if you want to let strangers run your life that's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 12:33 AM
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I don't find anonymous internet forums to be the place to find advice in how to run your life. It's not exactly expert advice and is one step below asking your friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 01:15 PM
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some of its gold I think you'd have a hard time finding that. Most I've seen is women trying to "one up" and "out woman" the next poster, saying it is always the woman's fault and never the man's and he can do no wrong, choosing the movie is wrong, Don't tell him he just missed the off ramp, make sure to cut up his hot dogs and tuck him in at night, etc.. There's been some pretty appalling advise given.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 05:41 AM
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Yeah don't group people into that weird club. It doesn't instill anything except creepiness and sometimes disgust into others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 03:25 AM
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into us Sorry, but that just makes it sounds like some weird cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 03:20 AM
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I think there are better ways to learn that lessen than RWP. RPW won't teach you to be courageous at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:38 AM
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RPW go too much into the "gentle" side enough to lose their own personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:29 AM
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That's not true, a person can be deliberately standoff-ish and hold a chip on their shoulder for no reason other than their own self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:43 AM
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Not all women want to get involved in criminal activities I don't think men do either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:39 AM
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Some people have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:38 AM
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But one would need to know if the group doing the reporting is sampling from the general population or not. My guess is its a more narrow a sample than realize. That's the problem with statistics. Trp themselves are a narrow group reporting on another narrow group (the people their group observe, not to mention their own confirmation biases) and then they try to apply the trends from the narrow group to the general populace. It's not always going to hold true because of the problems in the metho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 12:14 PM
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A generality is just that a generality. You can't take a single data point of data and day with absolute cerntity that it is in trend, only that it is likely to be there until proven otherwise. If the generality is, women like stoic men then being stoic is likely to attract many women who fall in that trend. But if there is one specific woman a man wants to attract it's not a garuntee that she falls in the trend, only a probability. That's the problem with going from generalities to aticdote. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 11:58 AM
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Again, so what? You know the truth. If someone has a midunderstanding that's on them not you. Find better people who aren't so petty to hang around with. They'really still not your "enemy" they are just dumb people. A person can't expect everyone they meet to love them but at the same time there's no need to feel malace towards those people. But "rumours" sounds like high school again. If it is the case that you and the people around you are young I wouldn't worry too much, things change when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 11:45 AM
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Some people are out to get you no, they are really not. I'm starting to think you might be your own enemy. They jump to the worst conclusions and use anything and everything against you. So what? Who cares if they get the wrong idea. That's their problem. And people can only use something against you like that because you probably allowed it. Don't give people power over you. That doesn't mean dominating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 05:27 AM
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Who says those are good things? You want to take down anyone who wants to take you down. Why do you need to 'take someone down.' Don't let others take advantage of you but there is no need to be out to get people. If you want something SO bad that you'd rather die than not have it and other people are against you having it, you need to be strong to push against them until you have what you need. ambition is good but again, why do you need to "push against others?" Just ignore them. If people ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 05:07 AM
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Because timid and inexperienced (or naive).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 05:01 AM
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"Hey girls, I'm leaving. I'm really going... look my hand is on the door.. don't try to stop me..." - MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 12:44 PM
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I thought the point of TRP and MGTOW was to try to get girls to pursue THEM instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 12:23 PM
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I thought only weak betas who don't go to the gym got married. I guess if that's the type of girls you want.. oh right.. "breathing" is TRP type.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 12:17 PM
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Hmm... according how many TRP complain that so called "ugly" girls still get men, no you don't. AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 12:13 PM
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Most people date within 3-4 years of their current age. The problem is that the older the person the fewer single men there are. ..well the fewer men there are period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 03:55 AM
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Men never had any standards to lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 03:26 AM
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No They are women, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 03:24 AM
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26 - 28 22 - 24 16 12 28 They are all average / normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 03:20 AM
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TL; DR: Men have the sad feels; women are bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 02:50 AM
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Of all the species of fish and animal life on the earth 90% lay eggs ergo humans lay eggs, it's science! Or better: 90% of all mammals have fur ergo humans have fur! It's science bitches!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 02:38 AM
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Meh. It's still mostly harmless. Some girls might have rape fantasy TRPS have fantasies where they talk to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 02:32 AM
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Considering its not the majority I'm not sure how you can claim it as the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 12:58 PM
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Dead beat dads deserve it for the child rearing problems mentioned above and for not being good male role models. If you want to do something about it then join big brothers and become a good role model for a boy who needs it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 12:52 PM
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I'm not arguing I'm instructing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 12:49 PM
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Those things were there the whole time it just took that long to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 07:29 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 07:28 AM
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Relying on another person reading your "signals" is seen as generally immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 07:26 AM
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non-verbal communication is mostly sub-conscious. Unless you are specifically using sign language you don't actually express concepts non-verbally. Non-verbal communication can tell me you are upset but not why. Most kindergartens go over "angry" / "sad" / "happy" faces. This is where it is overtly taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 07:19 AM
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Dread Game and "not putting the pussy on a pedestal" does not really communicate a person's own self-worth. First off, those are more just concepts than forms of communication. Secondly, using those tactics is more like putting others down than lifting themselves up so it doesn't really demonstrate self-worth in fact it hints (maybe non-verbally) at a lack of self worth. Non-verbal is more like standing with your arms crossed signals that you are closed to the opinions or topics being expressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 07:15 AM
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Sure it does, it's in the data you just can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 04:43 AM
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whoo spicy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 04:42 AM
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Then you can't complain about poorly raised children if you are going to absolve men of all child rearing responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 04:42 AM
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By what the article said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 02:03 AM
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Pretty sure it takes 2 to tango. Not every single mom was knocked up out of wedlock
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 02:02 AM
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Right in the next paragraph and in fact the entire context of the article is about how different statistical data sets have different rates of divorce. Did you not read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 12:17 AM
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This is the TRP logic, "she's a single mom, she had sex with someone who was not me, ergo she is the dumb one"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 12:05 AM
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That's the context of what you quoted. Or maybe you didn't read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 11:58 PM
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Only for particular statistical data sets of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 03:43 AM
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And men think they can have sex and not deal with the consiquences. But you end up with lots of kids with no positive male role models. The TRP happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 12:52 AM
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I thought that's what TRP was supposed to teach them. Not that it does a very good job at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 12:14 AM
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Nothing that you stated there refuted the fact that the rate is in decline and never was near 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 12:09 AM
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Or men can start taking repinsibility for their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 12:05 AM
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Except it's not increasing.. Divorce rate is in decline. Maybe your world view is a little skewd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 03:19 PM
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More like the lack of fathers. I.e. male role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 12:52 PM
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So her husband died and she still can't see anyone else without you judging her? No I meant never happens, AMALT (All Marriages are Like That) after all a majority state defines the rest. Everyone knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 12:46 PM
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And data shows that having someone there for you, a strong support, leads to a happier and healthier life. Many people choose find this support in their marriage partner but it can come from other close people around you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:11 AM
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A good partner is someone who is there when the shit hits the fan and stays to clean it up. You know, life fucking sucks ass. If you have someone who promises to be with you though it all and whom you also stand by, that's an end goal of a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:06 AM
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Not everyone is a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:02 AM
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She can marry one man, divorce him, and marry another. hmm.. according to that divorce data, that doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:01 AM
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You talk about these things as though we are supposed to take it for granted that they are "facts." Really, you are just making things up. Edit: I like how women are both whores and "serial monogamists"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 04:49 AM
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From the article is a link to the NY Times article that touches more in depth on reasons. Other than those already mentioned here it says some other reason contribute as well including changing gender roles, economic changes, and more stability in world events (no dramatic changes such as pre- to post-war era). “It’s just love now,” Mr. Wolfers said. “We marry to find our soul mate, rather than a good homemaker or a good earner.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 04:47 AM
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shits and giggles I Think that's the definition of reddit...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 07:02 PM
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The quality if posts seems to have dropped.. or maybe I'm just getting bored with the topics..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 12:48 PM
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I feel that type of advice is like TRP level 2 and not many subscribers of TRP get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 12:16 AM
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Not really, you could simply watch them, over hear them, or someone else could tell you. TRPs can Keep telling themselves that its possible to figure people out with just a few points of data and giving themselves an excuse to avoid talking to people. They need to stop being fooled by snake oil salesmen who tell them they have the quick answers that will solve all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 12:52 PM
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You're not supposed to hit anybody!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 06:26 AM
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Sounds like there was esteem / psyche damage before there was a real "lack of success" It's not that lack of success causes ego damage but a damaged ego causes lack of success. Those aren't "scars" but open wounds, the damage is still very fresh in many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 06:11 AM
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Because its another "formula" for trying to figure people out. People don't work that way. It's a little more complex than just liking cooking or liking cleaning. You aren't going to find the secret about people that allows you to know them without actually talking / interacting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 02:33 AM
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Such a concept sounds like it was conceived by a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 02:21 AM
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Wasn't my intention. I'm just pointing out you came to the same conclusion I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 05:22 AM
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Well it is likley the same sort of thing like "Be Yourself" or whatever. But at the same time, OP hardly deserves the backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 03:22 AM
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So that is what I responded to OP with originally.. That men have a need to give love. Good to know you finally figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 03:21 AM
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No one should stop you from hitting on girls and trying for girls. If you think your not good enough thats the voice of other people. The worst that happens is they say no. Big deal try again. Other guys fear competition. They'll tell you to get lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 12:53 PM
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Hmm.. nope. It was pretty obvious what she is asking when you read it. It's not weird at all its common expression. Most people do believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 12:50 PM
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No, it's a pretty common thing. Not from just "weird" people. I don't even really agree with it nessisarily but OP is not off the rocker for expressing the question and hardly deserves to be put through the ringer like you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 12:43 PM
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I do on occasion because I have somewhat of a life. However you had to reply to my post twice. Maybe you show take your own advice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 12:40 PM
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I'll highlight the obvious. You were too lazy to Google actual statistics before posting like a crazy person. It's pretty common knowledge that there are always slightly more women than men... unless you live in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 02:16 AM
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But.. then they have to share their wealth..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 02:04 AM
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No, you didn't understand it and you want to blame OP for that. She is not wrong at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 12:37 AM
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Sorry, again it is often stated that men express love though sex. OP is not wrong or misguided for saying this is the common knowledge. http://oureverydaylife.com/men-usually-show-love-woman-20518.html http://www.strengtheningmarriage.com/what-sex-means-to-a-man/ I still stand by my original explanation that men have a need to express love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 12:32 AM
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Except that this is often stated to be the case. Unlike women, men tend to show love for their partners through physical intimacy. Men view sex as an act of love and thus are likely to initiate sex the more they love their partners. Thus OPS question http://oureverydaylife.com/men-usually-show-love-woman-20518.html
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 12:25 AM
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No, we are not talking about why bonds form or even how they form. OP wants to know why sex for men is both an expression of love and a need fulfillment and how can it be both at the same time? It's a paradox because how can a simple need fulfillment, apparently without emotional attachment, also be used as the way men express love to a partner? The other person's feelings are not important in this question. If a true bond exists or not is irrelevant. A dog doesn't express his love for his owner…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 05:50 PM
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I'm afraid you are the one not understanding the OP's question. Eating and being fed is not the issue. There's no analogy to the dog eating and OP's question because being fed or eating is not a loving act to a dog it is a need fulfillment only. Even if you want to say that as a result of you feeding him the dog comes to care for the owner. That's not the question OP is asking. A dog does not eat with the purpose of expressing how much he cares for you. That's why this analogy doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 05:38 PM
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It's a lot easier to file now, it used to be almost impossible just a few years ago leading to people staying in abusive situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 05:34 PM
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Divorce being extremely difficult might have had something to do with that, wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 02:44 PM
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That's my point, the analogy doesn't explain OP's paradox. OP was not asking why men might seek "food" elsewhere when they don't get it at home but why the act of "eating" is a loving act. Of course for dogs, it isn't, so the analogy doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 02:43 PM
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They learn to judge a woman for her character and not just her looks/ charm. Does that mean women were judged by their character before the easy access to porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:22 AM
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so.. sexual desire didn't exist without porn? Or was porn created because there was sexual desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 05:51 AM
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except, it has to be more than bringing you take-out, doesn't it? she has to do it with love or it's meaningless and he'll go elsewhere to get some "home cook'n".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 05:48 AM
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That doesn't explain the paradox only why a dog might feed from someone else. There's no analogy where feeding is an act that shows affection from the dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 05:34 AM
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There's a simple answer where no contradiction exists... Men have a need to give affection and to bond, they do that through sexual acts. Even if no bond actually forms, the act of sex can ease the need to show affection and bonding but risks leaving the man empty because there is no reciprocated affection that comes from a bond. If a man has affection and a bond with his wife then he's unlikely to cheat, but if the bond is not there with the wife or she's not reciprocating any affection it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 05:29 AM
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Because apparently guys like the one in the post can't tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 05:18 AM
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Dude, you are having an argument with yourself..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 05:08 AM
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Half the guys I work with almost seem jealous of the non married men.. Grass is always greener...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 01:46 AM
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Good relationships bring good health. Having someone you can rely on through the bad times seems to be the key. At the same time bad relationships bring bad health more so than no relationship. So I would say waiting and making sure that the long term relationship you have a good is important as much as recognising when you are in a bad one and getting out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 12:19 AM
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TIL Jesus t-shirts are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 06:03 AM
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Why do you think people were constantly starving? Also, humans have not been around 4 billion years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 05:17 PM
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Ah more Evo phsyc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 01:03 AM
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Availability of more fatty foods are only part of the problem. People know the foods are bad but eat them anyways. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:57 AM
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I didn't say that at all did I? We should teach men to not be insecure and to have more respect for themselves. I also never said the woman was absolved. You made that part up. You think you are going to change the behavior of manipulate women by saying "tsk tsk" and wagging your finger at them? The only way to take that kind of power away is to make it ineffective. People throw the term victim blaming around a lot, but this is a textbook definition of it. We need to stop coddling victims and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:51 AM
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It can take years for someone with mental illness to actually address the problem with professional help. During that time they are self medicating. if you think the rate of mental illness has not been increasing you are blinded. Process foods are only a part of it, that's like saying because they sell more varieties of alcohol there are more drunks. If the rate of mental illness is increasing and it still takes years for people to get help and in the meantime they are self medicating then the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:47 AM
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Because he doesn't know she isn't that into him That's what he should change and become more socially aware. just enough to keep the possibility of changing that alive. He should be more picky with whom he gives his attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:02 AM
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I'm pretty sure men's health magazine is filled with dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 02:59 AM
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Men should have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 02:58 AM
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Why is he hanging around a girl who just isn't that into him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 02:56 AM
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I didn't switch arguments at all. And I explained why those things were creepy. Because they are almost socially acceptable but not quite. They hit an uncanny valley of social behaviour. Did you not read my post or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 02:55 AM
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How is ot the woman's fault he's an orbiter? I never got that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:54 AM
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There are racks of magazines dedicated to this. Tones of books, entire industries. It's billions of dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:38 AM
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I was referring to them all being violent asshats
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:35 AM
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I was thinking the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:33 AM
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I love how everyone is a "caveman" expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:13 AM
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People are over weight more because of depression and mental issues than anything else. Food is a self medication. If you want people to be fit we must deal with mental health. You treating them badly just suggests you may still have some things to work out yourself. Is the hate really justified? Or is there something internal going on? There's lots of fat people in relationships so I wouldn't agree that it's a non starter, they just aren't in relationships with you, and that's OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:11 AM
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Aren't those subs like TRP for women? Hardly anything earth shattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:05 AM
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Hiw is the social skills of a person not involved? This is all about picking up on the social ques of acceptable behaviour. If you are acting in a way that is almost but not quite socially acceptable then you are going to appear creepy. You could be hitting on someone at a party but start to touch a girls arm when she hasn't indicated she's that into you, now you are creepy. You hit on a girl at a funeral, now you are creepy. But maybe you are swave and can turn an otherwise creepy behaviour int…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 02:18 AM
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How is being lied to a justification for violence? I can't believe the reaction from TRPS and the like to condone the violence. I'd understand being angry at realizing you've been lied to but that's no excuse for the violence. I guess AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 02:05 AM
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Long hair in the summer is annoying and too hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 04:31 AM
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No one wants to be lied to - everyone lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 04:26 AM
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The concept is still valid even if you want to be nit-picky. Of course someone who normally presents socially awkward behavior can screw up conversation anywhere and thus appear creepy. Alternatively, someone with awesome conversation skills can talk to anyone anywhere. Either way, if your behavior is off just slightly from what is socially acceptable then you start giving off that creep vibe. You've fallen into the uncanny valley of social behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 04:25 AM
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Really? That's what the author of The Game said..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 04:22 AM
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Or formerly a man, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 12:35 PM
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I though we were the restaurant in this analogy? I think it fell apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 05:27 AM
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Have you heard of the 'uncanny valley' the place where something almost looks real but not quite real enough and starts giving off a 'creepy' feel? behavior is the same way. If a behavior is almost socially acceptable but not quite then it starts being creepy. Hitting on someone at a social gathering, not creepy Hitting on someone in a non social gathering (parking lot, alley way), creepy. Asking someone you know a personal question, not creepy Asking a total stranger a personal question, creepy…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:43 AM
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Nice guys aren't mocked for crying in public or being sensitive. There are two types of so called "Nice guys" one just wants to sleep with the woman and acts all nice until she rejects him and then he turns into a sour butt-hurt monster. His fake "nice" persona is what gets mocked. The other kind is the guy in the "friendzone" reality here is that there is no chemistry between these two people but one of them can't see it. So he is stuck in this unrequited love unable to act or move forward. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:30 AM
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Right because hook ups and ONS are all about being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:25 AM
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?? to them? For what? I'm lost on that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:19 AM
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Game is not for someone you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:17 AM
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This person probably has worse problems than finding a date..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:16 AM
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..but ladies night attracts ladies because it's cheaper cover.. How does someone lose money on this deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:13 AM
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I don't like RPW beliefs and I'm not going to deny that but I rarely read or remember anyone's user name. I often use "you" in a general sense that is just the way I type, admittedly, it gets me in trouble so I try to remember to keep it more specifically general, sometimes I forget because I'm tired. People tend to take things way to personally around here. I'm not going to walk on eggshells but I won't argue this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:12 AM
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I'm not the one who will eventually get killed, who cares So.. you are apathetic to people dying for just being different? Hey as long as it's not you right? Better keep your head down and make sure you never stand out. Being born a man and having an artificial ballskin and colon front hole is not your "sexual past" Right, so no need to bring it up with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:06 AM
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Some people are just wired differently bra, why you gots to be so prejudice?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 03:03 AM
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see below
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 06:23 AM
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The woman think really hard and squint your eyes and the woman thoughts can penetrate the man's brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 06:15 AM
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they identify as a woman now why do they need to bring up their whole sexual past with a casual partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 06:10 AM
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This shit makes actual rape into a joke. Why is there constantly threads on this stupid topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 06:08 AM
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60% seems high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 06:01 AM
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I wasn't addressing anyone directly, it was in context to the quote as advice to RPW in general. That is not a personal attack. Just because I used the word "you" as a general sense as in "a person" doesn't mean I was addressing a specific person directly. Besides, I can insult far better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 06:00 AM
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Isn't it more like a restaurant with a sign that says, "Free Beer!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 05:58 AM
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That would be personal as I would be addressing someone directly, instead it was a general comment as advice to RPW, "You (the RPW crowd) could read a book, or you could grow up" why is this so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 05:56 AM
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Good relationships bring good health Bad relationships bring bad health
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 05:55 AM
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Is not being on display the act of solicitation?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 07:53 PM
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Reddit is mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 07:48 PM
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Being in a bad relationship is worse than being in no relationship and recent studies will show that. However, RPW will tell a woman being without a man is worst thing a woman can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 07:41 PM
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How is that a personal attack? I was saying instead of reading some dumb book women (specificly RPW) can just grow up. That's not personal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 07:38 PM
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No much else that's different than a man. Again it's easy and natural but only for some
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 01:02 AM
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Since when do men care about setting the mood? "Honey let's have sex.." whoosh.. his clothes are off. Usually the complaint about sex becoming a chore comes from the woman but maybe she is trying to cover both perspectives here. I think the low male sex drive is very rare as well though. I don't think many women would relate. That couple had a high gender contrast just was opposite of traditional bit it was still an imbalance. I've never heard of a guy who doesn't want his women to initiate. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 01:08 PM
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is it hard for a cow to be a cow? Maybe she's born with it or maybe it mabiliene. For some women it's not hard to be a cow but it sure is hard to look "feminine"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 06:44 AM
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That says nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 09:30 PM
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How do you know it's accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 08:07 PM
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He's making an awful lot of assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 07:30 PM
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Just taller then they are. Not necessarily taller than other men. That's what I intended to imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 07:54 AM
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Sounds to me like they are all for the 14 year olds dating the 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 07:09 AM
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I don't get it, date shorter women then. I've only known really tall girls to specifically want really tall men. This is mostly because being tall and a girl is a negative trait and makes you unsexy. They want a tall guy so they don't draw attention to their own tallness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 07:00 AM
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It is difficult. A person needs to find the right motivation. Weighing the risks against the rewards including what happens if you do nothing is a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 06:42 AM
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Such is life in Russia..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 01:26 AM
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That's some good armchair psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 01:19 AM
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Yes, everyone reads and projects though body language. Learning how to use body language is pretty important when you want to have influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 02:38 PM
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which inhibits us from trying just so we don't fuck up and have no chance at all later on in the future with that girl. Because the status quo is so much better. Live in the now I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 02:01 PM
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If you treat women as friends they will never know you are into them. They aren't mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 01:59 PM
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That's a man with a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 04:54 AM
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If you already feel you are a lost cause how can you believe that doing anything will change that. Asking for help is very hard when you've already given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 04:54 AM
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aka, a selfless beta) Yeah that's a pretty good demonstration of the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 05:07 AM
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This is why Christianity focuses so much on forgiveness. Because it should teach you that it's OK if you fail, you will be forgiven and you will be excepted back into the fold for any 'wrong-doing.' Jesus did not choose people that the churches and temples saw as righteous people to associated with instead they were outcasts and 'sinners.' Don't worry about the social aspect of how people in the church act or may judge you because faith is something personal. If they judge you wrongly that is on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/16 04:00 PM
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Do you ignore most advice? I'm not sure what you are asking, most advice from TRP? Not most, all. Advice from other sources? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/16 03:47 PM
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No, it teaches fake confidence and nothing about having a growth mindset or dealing with axiety. Yes and mocking my phone typing is so original.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/16 01:01 AM
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Dread game = sulking. Your example is classic sulking example. That's all it is minor pathetic attempt at emotional manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 01:34 AM
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Over confidence can be a mask for insecurity. Someone can fake confidence but inside have none. A tell tale sign of this is defensiveness. Flying off the handle or huge over reaction to the slightest critizim. This can be men or women. TRP tells guys they should fake confidence which leads to the defensive behaviour. This is why BP says TRPs are insecure. If you look at /r/creepypms its fillee with this "nice guy" defensive behaviour. TRP should be teaching how to actually build confidence and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 12:53 PM
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Why would chad ever get married? For starters he is perpetually a frat boy age and body. Why is chad in prison? The prodigal son and s no t a story of reformation but repentance and forgiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 05:04 AM
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That example is not a cooperative workplace if the reward is individually granted. That by definition makes it competitive. A cooperative environment rewards the team and thus the team members are accountable to each other. If someone is not pulling their weight then the team should address and resolve the problem. This is the new radical management.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 05:01 AM
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deny men the right to be competitive. The right? They don't have to work there. Competitive work places only work for a few seect occupations. This has been studied for years independent of gender issues. Cooperative work places are more productive because of motivations for people esp. Knowledge workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 01:07 PM
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You don't get ahead by being a team player. You are in for a rude awakening. Even management is changing. Its no longer the style of dominant hierarchy. Its about empowering teams.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 12:28 PM
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Its not really settling if they get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 04:29 AM
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Why would chad ever repent like the prodocal son? Every TRP wishes he were chad for ever. Chad is the Object if TRP jealousy. I completely disagree with your interpretation of the story and why its important. The story is about forgiveness. We live these stories as a society because we all want to fell forgiven. We all have trouble forgiving ourselves. Its not that society loves the debacery but because we desire forgiveness. This is why the character is relatable. No matter pur sin, there is fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 11:48 PM
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Which do you want mW to answer? Yes I would try to help a Friend if I could. That is more personal but anyone else's sexal activity or identity is their own business and I've no place to tell them what to do or not do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 11:30 PM
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What exactly are you asking? Would I give my friend advice or what's my opinion on someone getting in tough with her/his masculine side? Either way, what is the point in asking me? what is your argument here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 06:06 PM
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No it's not rape, just the man is baby and the woman is weak willed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 01:55 PM
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oh, you are so cleaver.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 01:55 PM
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How someone wants to identify is none of my business. If a man wants to wear a skirt, who am I to tell him otherwise? If a woman wants to play football, let her. If a man want to be a teacher, go for it, if a woman wants to be an engineer more power to her. The actual differences between men and women are not as great as we may think. The average woman and any individual man are pretty much the same in ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 01:54 PM
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you are hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 04:45 PM
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I'm not a leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 03:25 PM
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RPW do not accuse everyone who does not agree with them of being "sick" or "criminal". Except it just happened in this thread and this is just one example. So again, is that denial? RPW simply advise women not to go down this route or to refrain if they already have. And why is it any of an RPW's business if someone else is a bitch? Why would they give a crap? Why would an RPW need to comment on how someone else acts in that person's relationships without knowing that person or that person's sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 02:48 PM
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How about acting like an adult, respecting the other person? You don't have to sit there saying nothing like someone just took your toy away and nor should you yell and get mad. Just be normal about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 02:41 PM
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Are we talking about transgender? I view that as none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 06:35 AM
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no fucking reaction It's not "agreeing to back off" part, it's don't talk to it. So it sounds like she says no and he turns away from her to sulk. No suggestion of communication or understanding at all. She is likley to think she has done something wrong that has upset you (a common reaction to someone sulking)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 06:30 AM
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Gimme a break it's "cold shoulder" it's the definition of sulking. And even if it were, adults are responsible for standing up to that. I agree with you. A woman should walk away from anyone exhibiting such behaviour. No one should allow someone else to use their emotions as a weapon against them. Unfortunately a lot of women fall for this and then end up giving pity sex they later regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 03:54 AM
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Omg, "sick" was a metaphor. As in those women think they need to feed everyone "the red pill" because without it they see every other woman as "she must be a bitch her husband" Also, one can advise people, without presuming they exhibit the behaviour cautioned against. The problem is the attitude as I've now had to state about 5 times and you still don't get it. They DO accuse them of being "criminal" and this is a metaphor again! RPW accuse everyone who doesn't agree with RPW of bring a bitch t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 03:49 AM
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Hmm... exactly like sulking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 03:44 AM
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You will stop, you will calmly remove yourself from her (no snark, no bullshit, no deep sigh, no fucking reaction), and sit on the bed/couch next to her. Sounds like sulking. Sounds like the guy is trying to emotionally guilt her into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 01:16 AM
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Then they don't get sex and that's the whole point. It's quantity not quality that's important to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 01:14 AM
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No, I'm sorry but you are the one who decided to but into the thread and now can't follow the train. This was about the RPW who responded to the OP questioning RPW with, "well you must be a bitch" (paraphrasing). Then my whole point is that this is a typical repose from RPW. Then you proceed to tell me no, one ever acts that way from RPW. Which doesn't make sense because it's right there in this thread. Dang, this gives me a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 01:09 AM
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How am I strawmaning when the example is literally a few posts above? They do not describe people who do not agree with them as sick or even try to convert others. I didn't say they describe them that way, I said they treat them that way and the "pill" / "sick" was a metaphor. This conversation is going to stupid town, if you can't follow the thread i'm getting off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 10:17 PM
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Yet I just pointed out the opposite. Is that denial.or are you just being contrary? Contrary seems common for RPW too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 11:58 AM
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there are more outspoken women than ever There are not more of them, they are just louder than non-outspoken women so you notice them more. are women ACTUALLY, LITERALLY being told not to speak their minds?... I would bet most people don't do that until they get more job experience and rightfully believe they need to earn more for what they've accomplished. What we are talking about is women moving into senior management and the bad advice that women are given. Try Susan Colantuono's Ted Talk on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 03:17 PM
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When the man sulks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 01:20 PM
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I've yet to see that attitude in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 01:17 PM
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but this campaign to sully his reputation over their dumb choices is unjustified. He'd developer for tor browser... is there much that can be sullied? I mean that's a little shady to begin with...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 05:22 AM
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"Women think all men are rapists! It's unfair judgement" "She should know better than to be alone with a man!!" Shurg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 05:16 AM
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without them even being aware of how off-putting it is to most men. I don't think any of this women give a crap about what men think of their opinion on that subject. Sometimes there are principles a person deems worthy of stand up for and they don't care about the option of men. I know it's a shock to some RPW but not everything has to be seen though the gize of "what would a man think of this action" sometimes a woman can have an opinion on her own. women are becoming emotionally even more dem…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 04:44 AM
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Just that you're good at ignoring the reality Or you've constructed a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 10:56 PM
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I don't know, I'm pretty happy in my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 10:55 PM
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It more than that, however. Women are taught not to ask for things and not to speak their minds. This is another reason for wage gap, women simply don't demand it. Yet another reason, women are taught to downplay their achievements. Many times on resumes and during salary negotiations women don't discuss their financial achievements (I saved the company X money, or I have sold $X, or My choices brought in $Xm in profit). Women currently lack knowledge in how to speak about executive successes. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 03:51 PM
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MGTOW men are essentially dead to women. But why would the women care? You do know that women are the primary victims of war, don't you? In what way do you mean? More men die in war.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 09:42 PM
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So why was the OP belittled sarcastically by an RPW? OP RESPONDER SAID: She should probably just start making all kinds of demands all the time and cutting him down. You know so they have a "good" relationship. This poster took the point to attack OP for questioning why a woman should be "told to shut herself up and forget about what she wants" And this is a common theme of RPW responding to criticism by attacking or going to an extreme of "Well you must be not nice to your husband!" Why would s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 09:35 PM
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self-perceived superiority yep, Sorry OP, but the post does reek of arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 07:55 PM
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So everyone gets stuck in a lose-lose equilibrium...It's like wow somehow they think that they are winning. Yes because a "winner" in win-lose doesn't really win, they hurt the relationship and the next conflict point will carry that mis-trust. But girls still talk about how terrible it is to cooperate with your husband. And not be celebrating your individual self with all your feminist moxy. Really? No one says to work things out? That's not a common phrase? Why can't the woman be an individual…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 07:17 PM
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But they don't go there because things are going well. So why does RPW treat every women who isn't a part of RPW as though she is a bitch in her relationship? To be honest, any mature woman knows how to not be a bitch. It isn't as though RPW has a market cornered or has some secret to a successful relationship, and some of what they suggest when applied to any kind of different situation can be damaging. Yet every time someone criticizes it such as here in this thread the response is, "You don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 07:08 PM
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The correct attitude is to view your marriage as a partnership and union uh.. isn't that the BP view? RPW views the man as the only entity. There are no other interests except for his. In that way, there are no competing interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 06:50 PM
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Why did you assume he is an asshole in the first place Why does RPW assume she's a bitch in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 06:47 PM
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The best outcome is not to turn a lose-win situation into win-lose where the woman always wins and the partner always loses. The ideal is to reach win-win where both people can get the things they want in life, support each other, and be happy in each other's achievements, successes and joys. That is a "good" relationship. Why is it that when someone questions the "lose-win" philosophy the only alternative presented is the opposite extreme? Do you really think they are only two ways to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 06:40 PM
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She was basically told to shut herself up and forget abotu what she wants so that she can let him shine like the sun. Yes, it's called lose-win. In this situation the woman is told to lose and allow her partner to win. However, if her needs and wants go unattended to over a period of time, resentment will grow and she will eventually see the husband as a barrier to the things she wants in life. According to RPW, women should always adapt an attitude of lose-win. Self sacrifice is somehow a virtu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 06:36 PM
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Is MGTOW supposed to be some kind of loss for "feminists?" The post makes it sound like MGTOW's keep looking over their shoulders to see if the women are upset that they are gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 06:23 PM
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Women are more choosy and more in control of themselves than men. Men just want instant gratification, Women can wait. Doesn't mean they have less desire, just means they have more will power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 06:18 PM
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There is only one privilege that exists, it is the family privilege. No matter your race, culture, gender, background, etc.. If you have a loving and supporting family or support network behind you, you will rise up to a better position than where you started (statistically). If however, you have a broken family or no support network you will statistically have a much more difficult time in life. It's not impossible, just more difficult. Single people who are homeless are more likley to be men, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 06:12 PM
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A person will be judged based on the company they keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 05:23 AM
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People lie on surveys you can't use them as evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 01:03 AM
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They aren't afraid, TRP doesn't allow criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 01:01 AM
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Isn't that rate based on court decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 09:10 PM
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No its not, it's a perfectly knowable number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 06:40 PM
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Because men have deep voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 12:05 AM
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Eliot roger, Ucla mass shooting in 2014
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 12:04 AM
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Some TRPers miss their mommies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 11:54 PM
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Confidence and independence are not traits of masculinity. Everyone should be confident and not needy. The blue pill are the people who never needed TRP and who think TRP is stupid and / or dangerous. TRP keeps saying they missed out on some kind of "normal" sex Ed. TBP apparently knew the normal things all along or got that knowledge from somewhere other than TRP and I hush it's not tainted with dangerous parts of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 11:52 PM
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Shut your face rude asshole. You nor I have any reason to doubt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 11:46 PM
1

With BC doesn't that mean the betas are the only ones producing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 06:07 AM
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Trust us something we do regardless of the risks. If someone betrays your trust that is on them, not you for trusting. Some people will be more prone to disappointing you than others. Doesn't mean we should allow that fact to be what we judge everyone on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 06:03 AM
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Men Men are rare just little boys playing pretend. Confirmed: men are also teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 03:52 AM
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I'd believe that. Men are taught to surpress emotional expression but that doesn't mean they feel it less.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 03:47 AM
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Uh... is that dude aware if how animals reproduce? There are tons of times when a first time mother animal is incapable of taking care of the young because of inexperience I. E. Lots of examples where animals have the ability to have children bit do not have the maturity to look after them. The rest is just a load of hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 03:44 AM
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Men have a penis for a brain and yet we allow them to hold office.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 03:36 AM
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I don't like the chart because the way it presents the information is misleading. I think the information on its own is good and I do think the ratio of reported vs unreported is high and a lot higher incidences than false rape accusations. But yeah that chart itself is kinda crappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 03:32 AM
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There's an OP? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 03:30 AM
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But the graph itself says "rapists" not "rapes that occur". Yes I said that. If women "report" them on a survey then we cannot say they are unreported. "Reported" usually means filing police "report" officially. That part isn't confusing its pretty standard. Thays why we distinguish these as "unreported." So it was not reported?! No, not to the police why is this difficult to understand? These women are okay with saying something happened to them anonymously but not publicly or officially. It ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 03:07 AM
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Women are people too flawed and human as much as anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 12:14 AM
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Doesn't make "men can do no wrong" true either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 12:14 AM
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From the side of the people who made it, it's that only X amount of guys get sent to jail for rape but all of them are rapists no it actually compare rapes that occur not rapists, although the design implies this. It's actually rapes that are reported vs not reported and the outcome of the ones reported. The unreported are rapes women say occur but did not report to the poliece but reported them on a survey. And why are the unreported blocks automatically considered rapists? There was no trial h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 12:12 AM
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To pretend that it isn't or to deny that evidence altogether is risky. Sounds like sticking your head in the sand and pretending a problem doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 12:01 AM
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What a dumb comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 11:57 PM
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However any guy with half a brain knows that most women people will throw him under the bus in about two seconds to save herself themselves from serious trouble or if it significantly serves her their self interest. Most people are jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 04:10 PM
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Why don't you ask the data from the graph that? My guess is that it tells you what the stat is based on, my name is not Graphy mcGraphface. Usually this data is collected though surveys and such and compared with actual reported incidences. I also personally know of women who did not report their rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 04:00 PM
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Are you suggesting the data is wrong? Why not argue the data instead of framing it as a question about my belief in it? The evidence is there in the graph's data - you can refute the data directly in which case I need not be involved. But I know they do occur. I know of two women very close to me who never reported their rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 03:55 PM
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Isn't the real tragedy the number of unreported?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 09:37 AM
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a.k.a failures?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 06:06 AM
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Did you actually ask this person out? She ODed during finals week er.. yeah.. she's not a catch.. she's bad for you, run away. How do you handle being around somebody that has rejected you? Don't be around them. seriously, go to something else, go out and meet other people. This woman sounds like she has too much baggage. She is not a lost little puppy she is responsible for her own choices. If you go down the path of following her she will drag you down too, are you really strong enough to carr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 06:02 AM
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But rather that established long term families are very different to moving in with your newly minted boyfriend/girlfriend. I would agree, it's a part of becoming "married" or "common law" whatever you want to call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 05:55 AM
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It's common for husbands to grumble or object when you have this conversation with them. Or maybe they'd say, "Don't give up, you can do it!" or "I believe in you!" why is his reaction to complain? What kind of guy is this? And what kind of woman who is controlling and demands gifts? Go out and buy what you want your darn self already. Why they got to wait around for someone to give them things? I know this isn't true for everyone, but my personal finances are not stressful. Set up auto payments…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 05:49 AM
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Help Help! I'm drowning in OP's tears!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 05:36 AM
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I think it's a bit more than that why is beta a negative trait to have? That's not really what TRP teaches...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 12:29 AM
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And getting them nowhere in the end. Polerizizing sides just push people more on one direction or the other. Language and brlief become extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 06:55 AM
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Why does beta = stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 06:51 AM
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Oh looks like I copied from the wrong post in the quote or didn't hit ctrl+c, there were a bunch of replies in my inbox and I responded out of order. derp.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 03:37 AM
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..how is that not the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 03:28 AM
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I think our brains are more wired into the social implications of mate choice then any evolutionary process. If the choice we make is bad in terms of species survival, those people will simply not survive. But then, unlike animals, humans long since abandoned the need to wait around in the cold hoping their offspring have fur. I don't really understand TRP's constant need to compare everything with human mating to animals in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 03:25 AM
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successful women mostly want a man who is even more successful than them. Unattached guys (and attached to some degree too) will fuck whenever there is opportunity to do so. How come there are so many complaints about how women that TRP judges to be a "5" can get guys who TRP judges to be "8" or more? Because guys don't give a crap about "SMV" when there is the possibility of getting laid. If there are two girls going after a guy and one is a 5 and one is an 8 then guess what the guy wants? Both…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 03:19 AM
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I lack caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 03:16 AM
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That doesn't make sense, if they are already out of balance then you've already lost one of them. That's why your sentences are so darn confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 03:15 AM
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For a guy who is making six figures if you are making less than the median/average, say about $50k Depends on where he lives and what kind of life-style he wants. It will be a relation not an exact figure. But most people will be in the average range. successful women mostly want a man who is even more successful than them. I would say, a man who is as successful as they need to combine his income with hers and have the life she wants. Conclusion: Find a partner who wants the same as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 03:14 AM
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If you have constructed a society where you can't live a middle class lifestyle on a single wage then choosing a partner with earning potential is obvious. They'd only need as much potential as say, your own or where your own plus theirs is enough to live on. That would likley put people on a range within their own income in relation to the lifestyle they desire or are familiar with. So you wouldn't necessarily see people seeking high earners on purpose, just average earners seeking other averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 04:47 PM
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Only in certain situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 04:43 PM
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How can an organism encode attraction specifically enough that evolution can occur? I don't think it works that way even in animals, In animals they mate as normal and wait around in the cold as the less furry die off. Organisms themselves are not aware of any need to adapt to anything. It's not as if evolution has an intelligence or that attraction is somehow a force with a goal and purpose to make the species adapt to a specific environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 04:37 PM
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less likely to notice or listen to a woman whom they aren't attracted Men have little to no standards for sex. All women are attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 04:26 PM
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Read it, but in my view it's a meaningless study because: Because it doesn't match up to TRP theory? Oh must be worthless study then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 04:22 PM
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im saying women who experience and unbalanced "maternal/familial" love for their husbands lose erotic love. You said one can't have "non sexual" love for your partner without losing erotic love? That's not really co-existing. Why is there a balance or connection between these types of love at all? what is unclear here? This was unclear: unbalanced "maternal/familial"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 04:19 PM
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That's not interchangeably then. You mean they are different terms altogether but still did not bother to explain the difference in your mind (probably because you are making this concept up as you go, it's okay it happens). How does one have maternal love for a lover? Why would you ever treat your lover like a child or think of them in a maternal way? How is there any "balance" there at all? What does Familial love look like as opposed to maternal?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:58 PM
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Prove where it's correct, it's just more TRP tripe. Same old same old booooooring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:55 PM
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An emotional bond is not important for women. Well that's a lie. Those are the women we are aiming for. Body and sex positive women who want to enjoy themselves. Those are not the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:53 PM
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Alpha males = men who are 10/10 in looks or close to it. A guy could be a weeping emotional mess but if he looks like Ryan Gosling(been watching his movies lately. he's so good-looking) women still desire him and respect him. So by that definition beta's are all ugly. So not only is a beta a weepy man with too many fee-fees but also an ugo. So an alpha it's okay to have emotions but beta's no, can't show emotion. But wait I thought the goal of RP was to balance your Alpha and Beta traits. Pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:52 PM
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What is the difference in maternal and familial then in your mind? I thought you were using the terms interchangeablly with the slash.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 04:25 AM
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women who experience and unbalanced "maternal/familial" love for their husbands lose erotic love. So erotica love and Familial can't coexist? What is the difference in all these type s of love? to say a woman has "maternal love" for a man is NOT TO SAY she is his MOTHER No, it means she probably acts like it Probably means she treats him like a baby and cuts up his hotdogs for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:42 AM
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Okay well I don't disagree with you but the original comment said no emotional and no sexual, that's a guy with no friends and no love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:37 AM
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In context the interpretation is not wrong. Out of context I'd agree with you but not in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:31 AM
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Emotional bond is very important for women. Sex is tied to emotions. I'm surprised TRP didn't teach that. Oh right because they are too caught up in projecting male sexuallity onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:29 AM
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Yeah I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:28 AM
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There is no LTR option for TRPS, what are you some kind of beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:27 AM
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It's not a logical falacy it's an opnion. That video is just more TRP tripe. But if you have a confirmation bias then I can't blame you for getting all caught up in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:26 AM
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Ironic given that RP philosophy basically does that to people in general. Does what? Put them under stress? I would imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 06:39 PM
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And yet so many other factors can decrease that risk such as education and age or co-habitation prior to marriage. The 40% rate is not an across the board rate. But you know, you would have had to read that article instead of looking for bullet points to shoot yourself in the foot with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 06:36 PM
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They have strong emotional attachments but no sex The quote said no sexual attachment AND no emotional attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 06:34 PM
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because women have two kinds of love, maternal/familial and erotic This implies that the same is not true for men. They either lack familial or erotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 06:32 PM
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Uh, what a sad way to view the world. When someone falls out of love it has more to do with an emotional withdrawl from the other person not nessisarily loss of sexual desire. There are an awful lot of couples out there who aren't in the top 10% of attractive people. But TRP will tell you their relationships are doomed. So how does TRP explain it when the relationship is still strong even those these people would be called 5 or less in their "SMV"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 09:18 AM
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TRP tells you that you are supposed to have a mix of both traits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 08:52 AM
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If you have no sexual attachment and no emotional attachment that is better than having emotional attachment without any sexual attachment. Sounds like that person is alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 08:49 AM
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because women have two kinds of love, maternal/familial and erotic Men only have one kind of love? Do men want to fuck their mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 08:45 AM
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Women are obviously more attracted to alpha males Doesn't seem so obvious when you put it with the rest of your statement. In fact, maybe a lot of the statements you say are "obvious" actually aren't. Even if you want to argue that "alphas" and "betas" exist do you think they are so black and white? One extreme or the other? Always Alpha or Always Beta? Doesn't RP tell you to be Alpha when needed, be Beta when needed? girls having sex with their boyfriends just so they won't leave them. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 08:42 AM
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They all have something that the person doesn't so in jealousy they must put others down. Reality is, it's none of our business.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 06:27 AM
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I'm pretty sure it's seen as equally creepy. Both scenarios are outside the norm and that makes them "creepy"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 12:03 AM
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Ego health, self respect, self worth are an important part of good mental health regardless of your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 07:02 AM
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OMG what? Dude I never said anything like that can you not follow a conversation. I said if you don't want to put your kid on Ritalin then don't put your kid on Ritalin. Then you whined about kids who were already put on Ritalin. well if that's you then stop taking it, if it's not you but your kid don't give it to him. Now you want to pretend you are some warrior out to save the children. Ritalin is not prescribed nearly as much as it was in years past even when it was prescribed regularly there…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 06:59 AM
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Probably. But we were talking about men. I doubt TRP cares too much about the egos of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 04:11 AM
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is he you? Then you don't have to take it anymore as an adult. Is he your kid? Then don't give it to him. Is he not you and not your kid? Then you have no say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 04:09 AM
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Men don't work in government jobs? Also are women and feminist an interchangeable term?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 07:02 PM
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You think athletes don't work to become good? You don't think there are nights when they were so sore they bathed in ice just so they can do not all over again the next day? You think there wasn't suffering to get to where they are? You'd think there is nothing you could learn from them on how to be a better athlete? You are stuck. You will never improve your life with the attitude you have. So what if there are men better looking than you? There are still women out there for you. There are stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:15 PM
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Well you might as well give up then. That's what people with scarcity fixed mindset do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 01:52 PM
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Yes I'm sure you are able to watch them all the time in their lives. And how did they get good at game except to try and fail many times? Maybe they sont care so much anout failing? How much do you try? How will you get good at it? Or do you give up in the face of failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 01:50 PM
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That's the only way you can
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 01:46 PM
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Where did that Stat come from? Your butt? It kinda smells like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:10 AM
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There are still women who do and you don't need to be threatened by the success of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:08 AM
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Forgiving yourself for your failures is a lot better than hating yourself. It's the difference between a growth mindset and a fixed mindset. If you have a fixed mindset then personal growth and change are extremely difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:07 AM
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Do you think that alphas never get rejected or maybe it's that they handle rejection better? Handling rejection better is what comes with not hating yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 05:59 AM
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Yes, the term only exists in those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 10:05 PM
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I don't think that was the right professional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 10:03 PM
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Since the population is 50/50 I highly doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 10:02 PM
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TRP and This terrible way of thinking that you are stuck in. It seems to be hurting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 10:01 PM
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Who says his girl settled? You don't know either so why insist that it's negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 09:59 PM
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Whose heads? The men or the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 09:57 PM
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Because people don't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 09:57 PM
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This is something you should probably talk to with a prodessional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:59 PM
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I see lots of men who are not models but still have fulfilling healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:57 PM
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Successful men don't think about themselves in terms of what they aren't. Seriously, can't you see the poison you are eating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:55 PM
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No, you don't have to put up with a crappy relationship. You can have standards. There are literally billions of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:51 PM
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If a woman cheats on me the fault is mine, not hers. Whoa whoa whoa, no its not. That makes her a piece of shit not you. Cheaters are garbage. Don't put up with them. Ensure you are clear that cheating means an end to the relationship. Relationships should be about loyalty. it is because I'm not good-looking enough. I'm a failure, genetic trash. That is some serious self loathing. This is why TRP is trash. It breeds this kind of loathing. Drop trp and start reading more material about building s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:46 PM
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Successful men don't think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:41 PM
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Er, you compare yourself to your father?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:40 PM
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Relationships make us live longer. There more joys then there are headaches and trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:38 PM
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Maybe the men should not settle for someone who settled for them. Why would you be with someone who you believe hates having sex with you? Why stay with that person whennyou could find someone who actually wants to be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 07:57 PM
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Why would she do that if it means hurting and losing you? Stop comparing yourself to every other guy. Just believe you are awesome in your own right and everyone else will too. If she does cheat that's on her, not you. Obviously she wasn't a good catch so find one who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 07:55 PM
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If that is how you want to view the world then confirmation bias will make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 07:53 PM
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No, you still aren't really understanding. Please I suggest you read the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 07:52 PM
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I suggest a change to your mind set. It can't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 07:51 PM
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We all suffer on different levels. It's learning how to live that is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 07:50 PM
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she is going to do less damage keeping her mouth shut than trying to somehow develop the ability to speak gently, and get him to respond positively when the dynamic has been terrible for years. So why isn't the advice to learn to not be a nag instead of shutting up? Why doesn't it teach win win instead of lose win? The "abuse" issue is so often brought up when it comes to any aspect of female submissiveness. Probably because it is so important. Do again I have to ask, why teach to be meak when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 07:49 PM
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I particularly liked the part about apologizing when you have been mean. This is done so much better with concepts like the emotional bank and that concept is for both men and women. I can't believe you are supposed to sit there while you travel the wrong direction for hours just to save someone's ego? How fragile is his who that he can't be told he made a wrong turn without being emasculated? That's pathetic. However her feelings matter to, and he should also be aware that she felt slighted as …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 06:41 AM
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Because they'd stop being threatened by every other Tom and Harry they pass on the street. Start believing that women want to be with them and not other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 05:41 AM
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Because the guy she is with already is awesome? Why would you think different? Why would you think yourself less than some random douche at the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 05:38 AM
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Except in TRP where they are responsible for global warming. The world is not so black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 05:35 AM
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You stop viewing the world as if there are limited resources. Starting thinking that there are plenty of women out there aND then you stop worrying so much about one who didn't like you in return. You stop worrying about the guy standing next to you on the bus and how much more tail he gets than you as though he's taking something from you. Why am I explaining TRP to TRPS? I hate TRP. Anyways go read 7habits of highly effective people to understand abundance mentality and the concept of win/win.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 05:34 AM
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You don't understand abundance mentnaliry. It's a state of mind. It's how you view the world. What you describe comes from a mindset of scarcity. TRP started out including abundance mentality because somewhere someone understood how having that mindset puts a person on a path to success. I suggest reading 7habits of highly effective people. This is where abundance mentality came from and it tells you how to change your thinking and lead you to thinking about success differently. Abundance mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 05:26 AM
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Oh man, lol, I'm glad I don't live in that world. It sounds sad and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 05:18 AM
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WOW they way you focus on grammar must turn the ladies on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 06:22 PM
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I guess I believe in the crazy notion that, while on a discussion forum, one should stick to arguments and not get personal with silly, petty things like "I wouldn't date you." Awe.... muffin, it's ok. I'm sawway. Of course, everyone that disagrees with you must be trp! If you are arguing from that point of view, yes, but I'm arguing TRP points. You flatter yourself to think I even read your username. At least red pillers are up front with their negativity - you just hide it and pretend that it …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 04:43 PM
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I suppose you can't because you have a brain deficiency? I understand you're point just find, it's just wrong. Continuing to claim that I can't read instead of addressing my points just creates a circular situation. But whatever. You this conversation is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 04:32 PM
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The fetish meaning of "cuck" is only fairly recent. It's the usual meaning before TRP and MR want to use it like some kind of weird insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 04:32 PM
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I don't think you understand your own points. They aren't logical. But you aren't willing to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 03:52 PM
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Working out with someone who has a hot body or working out when your own body is hot? Things aren't sexual unless you want them to be. Men should learn to be less threatened by other men, they'd have a better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 03:50 PM
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You're literally saying people that have different opinions than you are insecure, small ego, etc. Yeah people who exhibit those behaviors are likley to have those personality issues. Do you or anyone else exhibit those behaviors? If so maybe they should do some self-reflection. Its just another (not-so) subtle insult. Maybe don't wear your feelings on your sleeve then if some stranger on the internet can get to you. TRPs have no issue dishing out tonnes of insults to others but get all weepy wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 03:48 PM
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That's fine, someone can agree or not agree to it. Your constant demeaning implication that it somehow makes me less of a man is frankly getting tiresome. I wouldn't want to date you. However, you really shouldn't take things so personally. Everything is hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 09:25 AM
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And you want to assume that she is going to cheat no matter what as those it's an inevitability, that she can't even do normal actives without cheating or being tempted to cheat. There is a difference in seeing you SO on a date with someone else and having your SO interact with other men in normal everyday innocent encounters. If you have no reason to mistrust why is mistrust the default reaction to everything? That sounds like paranoia. happens because of the implication.. So she is going to fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 09:07 AM
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So we should have children perform surgery on other children? It gives them a edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 09:00 AM
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If she is there to get trained and not fucked, why not get a female trainer? Sure, whichever trainer is available but telling her to specifically avoid a male trainer just because it makes you feel uncomfortable is a little selfish of you. Maybe she'll forgive you of your venerability and agree to your request. However, giving an ultimatum and saying you will "not allow" it is down-right asshole behavior and your green-eyed monster is taking control of you. You have no right to make demands of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 08:50 AM
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hang out 1 on 1 and/or put herself in a situation that invites flirting with an attractive, single man. Oh well she can't work late to gain a promotion, can't get assistance from a stylist, can't see a lawyer, can't see her doctor, can't take lessons or classes at school. In fact she can't step out of the house because anywhere could lead to a "1 on 1 situation" Face it, YOU CAN'T CONTROL OTHER PEOPLE. If they are going to cheat on you, they are going to cheat. That is the risk of relationships.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 08:27 AM
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Oh well, better worry about the barista, the grocery store clerk, the doctor, her notary, the guy who prepares her taxes, etc... What pathetic jealousy. I'd be concerned if the trainer wasn't in shape and in shape guys tend to be more attractive by standards. I don't know if the population of trainers is more or less heterosexual but why would his sexuality be of any concern to her or you? She's there to get trained not fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 08:20 AM
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No, they don't. Having a biological part does not mean you understand how that part works or how to treat it. The most you could say is that they might be able to sympathize with the trainee but even that is questionable. Just because woman A has boobs and woman B has boobs doesn't make them auto-friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 08:15 AM
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Both are equal in credentials only difference is one has a slow metabolism other has a fast metabolism. Oh is one cheaper? I think that would effect my decision. If two personal trainers both with equal skill in theory and application the women will be optimal for women and the men for men. Sorry, you just making this up out of thin air. There is nothing that says having personal biological experience is going to be better or worse. You'd have to try both trainers and see what the results were. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 07:55 AM
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A physical trainer is mostly just a baby sitter and cheerleader. I'm not the one who claimed it was "groping" that was you. Would your significant other mind hiring a very attractive amateur masseuse to stop by during off hours? A massage sounds awesome! How about a stripper? No, that's sexual. It's not a normal activity like training at a gym. What if you wanted to hire a very attractive part time secretary that was only going to travel with you on business trips? As long as they aren't sleepin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 07:49 AM
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First of all, "cuck" is supposed to refer to a specific fetish where a man actually enjoys watching his partner have sex with someone else. That's not cheating. Instead, you want to use the word "cuck" to refer to a man who doesn't want his partner to have sex with someone else and doesn't speak up about his reservations. I have not read the articles in question and you didn't link them so I can only infer what might have been said. I don't know if the article used the word "cuck" or if it was u…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 07:41 AM
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You have a slow metabolism 2 equal nutritionist in similar shape. Would the one with a slow metabolism be more optimal or the one with a fast metabolism? How come I need to consult an expert at all if I already have a slow metabolism? I should know this already because it's my own body. Which one studied more? And what are their credentials? See, just because one has some personal experience doesn't necessarily make them the best choice to give me advice. Does a heart surgeon with a bad heart ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 07:17 AM
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If you think that having a man train her for the purpose of getting fit means she has cheated on you then you are a paranoid person. Sorry, the example woman did nothing wrong. No penises were involved in the training. She did not disrespect her SO in anyway by simply seeking some training. Controlling who a woman and can train with, where she can go, whom she can talk to IS controlling and possibly abusive. If you can't understand the difference then I'm sorry but you might be emotionally stunt…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 07:09 AM
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Though indo understand how the pancreas works because I took biology. Oh, so.. not just having particular parts makes you an expert you actually have to study how they work. Wow. Fascinating. fixes it himself So.. not just owning the car makes him an expert? He had to have the knowledge of how the car works? How did he gain it? Oh probably though osmosis while sitting in the driver seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 07:02 AM
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Are you saying you would break up with your girlfriend if she chose to have sex with someone else? If she chooses someone else then she has already broken up / ended our monogamous relationship. That is not possessive, it's the agreement of the relationship. My ego is strong enough not to allow someone to use me or take advantage of me. You should really just have more abundance mentality. Yeah see, you aren't getting that. My SO is great but she is not worth sacrificing my self respect. Someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 06:55 AM
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So do you understand how the pancreas works because you have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 06:39 AM
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It's not my place to speak for her. She is her own person, I don't command her or tell her what to do. She is old enough to understand the consequences of her actions and can make up her own mind. Knowing her tastes though, I doubt you would be man enough, but good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 06:35 AM
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Abundance mentality will tell a 5 that there are plenty of other 5s out there for him. I'm sorry you don't seem to understand the concept of abundance mentality. Read through those images again. But hang on to that abundance mentality though. I will as it's the secret to success in life (in fact that's why TRP stole it). You can hang on to your bitterness and jealousy though. It's scarcity mentality. You will always be scared of other people taking what you have. You will always be suspicious an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 06:20 AM
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Chad doesn't exist. It's something TRP made up because they are afraid and intimidated by sexually successful men. Because confidence is something that's not understandable to people who don't have it. Because they can't understand not being jealous of other men. Abundance mentality in a zero sum game is about how well you are off compared to everyone else. That is the complete opposite of Abundance mentality!! Abundance mentality is about believing there is no competition for "resources." Other…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 05:14 AM
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I think that's why the article says to pick up on her cues if she wants the man to act "chivalrous" some women will want this, some won't find it attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 05:04 AM
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A man who is possessive, controlling, and jealous often has a weak ego. A man with a strong ego is confident and assertive (I'm not going to say sexually aggressive because aggression is not confidence. You should not need to be aggressive if you are confident). If all men had bigger egos then there would also be more for them to worry about from other men. Why would a man who is confident with a solid ego need to worry about other men? Where is the abundance mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 04:54 AM
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OMG it was SOOOO HUGE.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 04:41 AM
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LOL no, just being a woman does not make someone an expert in female anatomy. This is why we hire "experts" like doctors and personal trainers. This attitude is actually sexist against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 04:40 AM
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It's always society's fault or whatever. Don't give your kids drugs. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 04:38 AM
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A man refuses to allow his wife to have a male trainer because she might accidentally have sex with him, she can't be alone with male clients for same reason. That's the context of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 10:29 PM
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Then don't put him on Ritalin. actually a lot of people have been against that recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 10:24 PM
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For your argument to work, you have to presume that she is so "in love" that she "only has eyes for [her SO]". That's pretty rare to have present consistently in a LTR. Actually, it's not. Loyalty is not something that disappears so easily. The relationship would already need to have major problems already. she hasn't felt with her SO for a while Oops, as I said. Problems already. No man is so in love with his SO that attractive women become invisible to him I disagree, a man might see women but…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 10:23 PM
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Women who are in love tend not to see typically "attractive" men as attractive. In fact, they don't see them as men at all (It's same for men). There's one thing about what a woman says and another about what she actually thinks or would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 07:19 PM
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Example how to work out when you're on your period. OMG lol. This is just pathetic. What would be the difference in a male gynecologist researching and knowing the female body and a male trainer? No Difference. What about a woman being a doctor for a man? Guess she can't do that either. OMG just stop you are lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 07:05 PM
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Always someone else's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 07:04 PM
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How is training with a trainer at a gym in a public area a "compromising situation?" super hot coworker May YOU think he's hot but she doesn't. Maybe it's you who compare yourself to him and feel inadequate and not her whose comparing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 07:03 PM
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More than likley the dude thinks the trainer is hot and the wife just sees a trainer who can help her get fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 04:29 PM
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Guess men can't be gynecologists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 04:24 PM
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If women were trustworthy, there'd be no such thing as the red pill If men had stronger egos there'd be no need for red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 04:22 PM
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How do you function? For example, you stay late at work and a male co-working is there too, do you worry about what your husband thinks about the situation? What if you are in an elevator? Or with a cabbie?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 04:18 PM
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you're doing it because that's what love is. hmm.. no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 04:17 PM
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It's business time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 05:17 AM
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college
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 03:11 AM
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No I lack caring about it to go to that much effort. You can take my words and go read TRP and see if it's really true or you can continue to be associated with other slime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 09:36 PM
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College rape tribunals are not the law and neither is a Federal grant. The only thing on there is the draft, but women can't even get in the army.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 09:20 PM
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Doesn't require it but it is often promoted. Especially in advice given in comments. Someone is having trouble with their LTR and the advice will be to cheat / spin a plate. The concept is treated like having a girl on the side. I don't keep a collection of TRP links but this behavior is typical. Are you going to try to convince me that TRP has a conscious? It's biggest ploy is that sexual strategies are amoral. Cheating is a valid sexual strategy and as such is encouraged on TRP because "doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 09:08 PM
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The whole concept of spinning plates is to have girls on the side, even if you are in an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 08:32 PM
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In the past, only true Alpha men got to sleep with women and have children That is a blatant falsehood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:24 PM
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How do you figure? The experiences of women are vastly different in different cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 04:16 PM
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Then that's not unconditional is it? Someone who claims to love their partner unconditionally just proves to be a pushover with no self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:51 AM
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Would you love a woman who cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 04:56 AM
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TRP openly supports cheating. I don't know how they could claim that women are less loyal when they tossed loyalty out the window down long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 04:37 AM
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Sounds like you should hate men for being so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 04:17 AM
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Not explicitly on the law though is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 05:55 PM
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It is the opposite, woman are considered to vital to society to risk in combat. This was more true in wwi. There were communities devastated by the loss of so many men but the women left behind were able to continue to raise their children. This is not likely to occur again, the nature of combat and war has changed and there is no reason why women shouldn't be included in the draft anymore. It started to change in wwii when more women become involved in war effort some through supportive roles a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 05:52 PM
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It's more similar to society accepting gay people to the point of allowing marriage. It's taken years and still is frowned on in many areas. Yet being gay is natural for those who are gay. But there is so much pressure for them to not be gay many fight it for a long time. Because it's hard to change society does that mean we should enforce it's stagnation? Should we create rules and laws to force those who don't fall in line naturally to fall in line or face punishment? If a woman doesn't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 05:14 PM
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I don't know where you were but all the college and high school kids used all those social media apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 04:55 PM
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I think you missed the point, those would have already been taken into account as social media was not new in 2003.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 06:24 AM
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Dude, social media existed 13 years ago. That was only 2003. Icq, MySpace, geocities, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 02:19 AM
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Isn't that an example of the woman not sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 02:15 AM
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What does that comment have to do with the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 03:03 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 03:01 PM
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I don't think so. Society us slow to change
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 03:01 PM
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Wasn't communication one of the reasons men choose? Seems that's already been taken into account
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:59 PM
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You think the woman is better to stay with her cheating or abusive husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:56 PM
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If he's married hell have sex more than if not. Twice a week is quite achievable in marriage dispose what TRP will tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 01:27 PM
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This will not be an exhaustive post Lies !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 01:21 PM
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Date short women, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:46 PM
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Its nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:16 AM
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Just don't kid yourself that it's only women. Young male actors and models too. Probably just as many.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:14 AM
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Yeah none of that says sex is less important to women in fact sounds like it's more important after reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:02 AM
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As Blues and women are fond of telling us, sex doesn't matter as much to women as it does to men. I've never seen a woman or a blue say that, only TRP says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 08:24 PM
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Women are told they need those products t get a man and many believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 06:07 AM
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Uh.. I think you are reading too much into this girls actions. You have no idea what's in her head and why would you care? Did you ask her out? Doesn't sound like it. None of this has anything to do the feminism. To answer your question, you have to project what you want people to know about you. Maybe this girl was projecting the wrong things. But that might depend on the type of person you want to notice you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:34 AM
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Of course, it is the same for everyone (men and women). Parents will love you unconditionally (at least they are supposed to) but not so your lovers. The fact that you even become lovers shows that you have passed some of the conditions that are set to meet that criteria. it's what makes lovers special. They choose you, knowing who you are and have set a standard of expectations that will keep you a great person. That's not something that can be said about parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 07:34 PM
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There is an interesting book on the languages of love which says that everyone, not just men and women, have different ways to express and expect to receive love. For example, if you give love by doing things for your partner you may get fusteated when they don't do things in return. "You don't love me!" That person might say but in reality the other person is expressig love through physical touch instead of acts of service. You have to speak the same language or at least understand what the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 04:56 AM
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Only man who'd want that is one who never grew up and left his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 04:38 AM
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Your wife will never be your mother, oedipus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 04:35 AM
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It's good. They need time to deal with their feelings and the truth. That's harder if you are always in their life. It makes it seem like there is still a chance. Give it time and once they have dealt with it you can hang around again. You'll always be friends, just give them space.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 03:40 AM
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Then you won't mind giving me your money because. It's so evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 03:20 AM
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Tell me some more sweet sweet lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 03:08 AM
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Stand up to them? Are you going to steel their money? You'd be one of them in a heart beat if given the chance then you'd change your tune.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 09:51 PM
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You can't be a leader without those "beta" traits especially in today's management. Call it "social dominance" if you want but it's not inherently leadership. I prefer the original terms of confidence and cooperation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 08:03 AM
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Once I realized op was a woman it made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 04:04 PM
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You are delusional. A) is this supposed to be financial support? A single women likely doesnt need your support so what value are you brining to the table with that offer? If she was your stay at home mom she's going to have your money if you are there or not. B) men aren't going to stay attractive to 20 year Olds once they are beyond 25. People date only with about a 3-4 year range. I guess it's a little cute how you think you are going to be so susseful. I guess reality hasn't sunk in yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 04:00 PM
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None if those are something that a BP person would nessisariy follow or support. To say that all bp follows those would be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 03:29 PM
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I cant stand sales people. Their whole personality makes me hate them. You can pick them out a mile away. They seem so fake in everything they do no genuineness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 03:59 AM
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There are no BP principles
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 03:56 AM
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There are no pp ideas. It's just you might agree with some but not all of TRP. TRP is more popular here right niw because mostly TRPS are here. It wasn't always that way. BP peeps tend to have lives so they left long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 03:51 AM
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You can't criticize TRP on TRP. TBP sub isn't for debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 03:48 AM
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Feel the burn!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 03:39 AM
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It's not the same, I said it's safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 03:23 AM
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Or not go outside that's even better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 02:02 AM
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She goes to a guys house to finish their work and she got raped. Yep totally her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 01:32 AM
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Externalizing the self hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 01:26 AM
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Because sometimes a woman doesn't realize a situation before it's happening. A dude seems trustworthy, invites her somewhere but when they are alone he stops her from leaving, insists she must please him. Does things that are interpretatied by her as threatening. Do you think rape can never happen? I cant understand you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 01:18 AM
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What if she doesn't feel safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 12:52 AM
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If I got all the wealth then who's the real alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 02:28 PM
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I divorce raped reality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 01:34 PM
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I get what you are tiring to say it's just wrong (and dumb).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 05:27 AM
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So take some personal responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:12 AM
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Thanks capitan obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:12 AM
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Be honest with yourself doesn't mean being honest with other people. No one wants to be responsible for your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 03:11 AM
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No it doesn't, in the context of the matrix those in the matrix are BP not RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 03:09 AM
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If you care enough to be here you must be looking for answers to change. Don't dismiss options arbitrarily. Therapy is a valid option. The most important factette for change is that you care enough to put in effort. No program or philosophy will help if you've given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 08:30 PM
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it explains why the alpha frat bro "chad" who doesn't even study and has rocks for brains Yeah you wish he did.. that's just your stereotype. Reality is, he's probably smart enough to get though college. smart but awkward physics major struggles to get a woman to go on a coffee date with him. His problem, as you've stated, is that he's awkward. You can have smart awkward people, dumb awkward people, good-looking awkward people, ugly awkward people, introverted awkward people, extroverted awkward…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 08:21 PM
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Do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 08:15 PM
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If you don't need to read "red pill" to have success in life then you just have success in life, it doesn't make you "red pill" by default. If it did then red pill can claim all the BP who are successful as being a part if their ideology and secretly supporting an ideology they're ignorant of. Your analogy makes no sense and neither does your stance. It's ridiculous. It's like having an ideology (or rather some pyramid scheme) to get rich quick and then pointing at every millionaire and claiming…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 05:54 PM
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Sorry you can't be RP and be ignorant, you were BP. That is the definition of BP - lack of RP either through ignorance or choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 04:10 AM
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No one is looking out for you except you. Not TRP, not BP no one. Everyone is just out to use you to forward their own cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 01:32 AM
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exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 01:28 AM
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No one said otherwise. If you agree with that then you must be against dead beat dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 01:28 AM
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That makes no sense whatsoever. Why aren't there BP Trump supporters? Especially if BP includes those ignorant of RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 01:27 AM
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huh? How can it be a smaller group if it's everyone who is not "RP" BTW I consider RP and TRP to be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:15 PM
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Knocked up, no there is a responsibility to the child. That's the man's direct responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:14 PM
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It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:13 PM
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Why is it anyone else's responsibility to help him? Is he asking for help? If a person is easy to take advantage of guess what's going to happen? And it only takes one other person for him to be taken advantage of. What about all the women who didn't take advantage of him? Why us all this women's responsibility? Isn't it his?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 02:15 PM
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Since BP is basically anyone not a part of trp including those ignorant of it what makes it collectivist? How are those people of one mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:40 AM
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Well it's a word that had the complete opposite meaning making the statement contradictory. I'd hardly call it "caught up on" Why even care? Who's the Virgin Internet loser here? Besides I thought there was stigma against virgin shaming here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:33 AM
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Naw that's how I stay not bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 01:55 AM
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How are they against freedom?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 01:54 AM
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Yeah I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 10:46 PM
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It does matter if you want to have a discussion about it. So, what about BP types makes them as Sholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 10:44 PM
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Can i offer a suggestion? Start with books like this if not that one then find one that speaks more to your situation. There are ways to change your mindset that have many of the lessons of TRP but not the toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:33 PM
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Nice nonanswer. Could've just said "my feels". How about Non of your business then? Why would you want to know or care? That's not an argument. Try again. Yeah that's my line. You can't argue against my interpretation of an article you never read. ...the statistics bit. The explanatory principles are the soft science. Statistics based on surveys where everyone lies? Stop wasting my time and yours. Go outside and do something more productive because your discussion is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:28 PM
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Yet it is the women who initiate divorce. It seems the men have no agency or maybe no motivation to anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:21 PM
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Her advice was to leave the woman because "The bottom line is she sounds horrendous." I'm not sure why you deconstructed her words with such bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:20 PM
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TRP IS LITERALLY HITLER GUYS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:13 PM
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It just means to have confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:08 PM
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And TBP and every other group out there. I disagree, and as I stated in my post and another TBP lacks goals and direct censorship of TRP. Other groups depending on the group can range though those. I'm sorry but TRP does all of the examples in excess. Really? Do tell, what do you base your life around? Not an internet philosophy based on questionable science that's for sure. These are mentioned in a countless amount of articles and books which are by no means "questionable at best", and are inde…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:05 PM
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Maybe but we were talking about examples of what makes as asshole not not thoughts on how BP would or not compare such behaviour examples to any particular philosophy. Good job in totally not answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 02:21 PM
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never said it was brain washing (as the term is debnked anywats) i said the examples of pusasivare techniques are used in TRP. I've never seen field reports posted to TBP the way they are in TRP. They do critique field reports from TRP offering a different interpretation. You could argue that there is group consensus but no one stops someone from posting a critique. You might get down voted though. But I would say that's less artificial. It's no much "forging an illusion of group consensus" thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 02:15 PM
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Gayness was invented in the 1960's true fact
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 09:28 AM
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Nothing new, ancient Greece and Rome had lots of it documented. Maybe it's a more "natural state"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 09:14 AM
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Do you want me to make gentle love or domineering love to it? More evidence that you are full of shit and have no idea what domineering means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 09:05 AM
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When I read that "brain washing" one the "persuasive methods" eerily lined up with what is seen on TRP, " such as encouraging commitment to goals, manufacturing source credibility, forging an illusion of group consensus, and vivid testimonials" The "group consensus" particularly when criticism is discouraged. The source credibility not only from supposed "contributers" but also from the "science" presented in the many articles which upon looking at the other terms appears questionable at best an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 09:00 AM
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So that we are on the same page why not share your definition then? I've already shared mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 07:48 AM
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LoL yeah right. You've no idea what it even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 07:46 AM
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Whoa a genius
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:45 AM
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Being dominating can hurt relationships if you don't have control and self disipline. I think assertive is a better word. Dominant can be a negative word
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:37 AM
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Because I don't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:32 AM
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How is that as hole behaviour? Ha my phone doesn't want me to cuss
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:30 AM
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Possibly. I probably would. Can you spot me $50? I am really down on my luck this month. I promise I will 100% pay it back. Also I need a ride to the airport. .....come on now, you can't be that easy to get taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 12:28 AM
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Why on earth would she ask what is essentially a total stranger no where close to where she is drive to her to fix her flat tires? She doesn't have any friends / family / roadside assistance / total stranger passing by who has direct ability to help? No, that's not being an ass that request is completely socially awkward coming from a stranger. No one is going to do this, the example is not realistic. "Hey it's Becky.... no Becky from the cafe... no, not Starbucks, the one on main and 10th.... "…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 12:23 AM
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I don't think its very hard to study history and understand the female role throughout our evolution. What you assume it is / was
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 12:18 AM
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purpose or ambition Like TRP invented purpose and ambition. the natural female role As TRP defines it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 09:05 PM
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When someone is an asshole, that's just what they are. That's their personality, No.. it's not. They choose to be that way. If they can't see the damage they do to other's and their relationships with others that is their failing. Once the person is aware of something it becomes their responsibility to change. If the person doesn't, then they shouldn't be surprised when their relationships fall apart. It is not sexest to demand your partner not be an asshole. Unless you want to argue that men ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 08:53 PM
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he has to be willing to put up with all her bullshit for some reason and let her run things. Standing up for yourself != asshole. Being an asshole usually this means caring very little about the feelings or needs of those around you, using them for your own needs only.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 08:47 PM
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I pay very little attention to user names so I've no idea. I frankly care very little on a personal basis about who you are. Besides, how people are on the internet is not likely to be a good judgement of how people are in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 08:44 PM
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These days it feels the only thing a woman needs to get sexual attention is simply having a vagina and a pair of tits. Uh.. because men have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 01:52 AM
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That's because the stable emotionally mature ones married in their mid 20s and are still are at 36. If you are an unmarried 35+ man you might be out of luck. Your dating pool is limited. 22-year Olds don't want you and you don't want unmarred or divorced 35+ women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:48 AM
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Of course jot, you missed rmy point. Emotional maturity and general maturity are more important than physical age. But there is a better chance of finding it in an older person. Doesn't mean you also can't find immaturity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:30 AM
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Yeah I think you've gone off topic. Nice was the word you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:28 AM
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Incredible! Sad to see someone through away their life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:27 AM
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I simply used your word.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:42 PM
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They can't get any other women You mean, they can't meet the demands of the younger prettier women? Just because she's young and pretty doesn't mean she will date you and it doesn't mean that the dating experience will be better even if she agrees. Less maturity means less emotional maturity and she may end up more demanding than an older person would. The ideal partner is someone who is mature enough not to nag their partner but discuss problems and issues and work to find solutions be they fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:40 PM
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Maybe they wouldn't need to if the partner had been more nice, LOL!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:36 PM
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Like all those young women want to date a dirty old man LOL. Me thinks they have some standards to meet as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:32 PM
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So when you are 25-27 it's not just your gf / wife who will say those things to you. Most of society will start to wonder why you have no job, no education, no path, live with your parents and play video games all day. There's a point in there somewhere where you have to start growing up and adult-ing. I don't blame anyone for demanding more from a spouse especially if they've already achieved a career and the other person hasn't. Unless they are willing to take on being the sole provider then h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:28 PM
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No it was not my dream. When I met my spouse I was in school. Said I couldn't marry until after we were more financially secure i.e. I finished school and secured a job. That's what I did. A dream is like writing a book, starting a business, or becoming more knowledgeable in my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:12 PM
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I thought you were listing out all the places you would have sex with them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:09 PM
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You were the one being offended on someone else's behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 04:19 PM
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I don't care enough to spend so much effort. I told that woman her words sounded like co-dependency and they do. You want to go around being a SJW well I'm not going to stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 04:50 AM
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Is that the dictionary definition of clinical co-dependence It is an example of co-dependent behavior but you're not really willing to listen to what I say. It's like you are getting offended on someone's behalf since you claim not to be RPW. I think you are. And who said anything about belittling or name-calling? It was clearly an example of how someone could be exposed to such a thing and not stand up for themselves, instead blame themselves for the other person's actions and lose their self r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 10:01 PM
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Just tell everyone you're on mobile, they'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 04:54 PM
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It is co-dependent to value the opinion of someone else above all else including your own self. I share her view - my relationship is of prime importance to me, Everyone shares that view! Very few people are going claim their relationship is not a very important thing in their lives. However, a person should not sacrifice self respect just to save it. There are limitations to it. Physical abuse is of course an extreme example but there are more subtle ways to lose your self respect. If someone i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 04:50 PM
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I was insecure of in my typeing typing skills. I can see why... ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 04:06 PM
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I don't understand how someone pointing out insecurity is an insult. Insecurity is a lack of confidence in your own abilities. If someone says, "you are being insecure" it means they are saying you are more capable and worthwhile than you yourself believe. If someone is concerned about being called 'insecure' it sort of proves that they are. "I lack confidence in myself and I don't want other people to point it out." so... why not just start believing in yourself? And what exactly would be wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 03:13 PM
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I can't believe someone spent the time to type that. What other things could have been done in that time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 07:15 AM
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BP is just anyone ignorant of rp....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 07:08 AM
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Hey man you can't judge her sexual strategy. Sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 06:55 AM
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maybe it's time to review again then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 10:24 PM
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Or maybe you are just in denial of a truth that anyone else can see without much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 10:05 PM
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I suspect people are happy when they can pursue their dreams, doesn't matter if that is SAHM or education and career. NVM, everyone is saying the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 10:03 PM
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It's about being seen and not heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:54 PM
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When everyone is saying the same thing, maybe there's some truth to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:50 PM
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You're not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:46 PM
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I am the kind of person that gets immense joy from prioritizing my SO/relationship above all. That sounds suspiciously like codependency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:43 PM
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OMG that's gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:38 PM
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true dat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:24 PM
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Why is this on PPD? There's no debate here its an announcement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 04:29 PM
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So much butthurt in this thread. The hamsters are spinning. Too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 04:19 PM
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Or who is reaching self respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 03:46 PM
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If a friend helps me I would be greatful it would solidify our friendship and I would probably hope to return the favor someday. Maybe I am able to, maybe I am not If my SO helped me it would solidify our relationship making it stronger for lasting though a though time. I would return the favor in a heartbeat if the opportunity was there. If I were to help either one I would do so because I cared about them not because it obligates them to be greatful because it doesn't. I have no control over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 03:43 PM
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I agree and I don't understand how OP's two positions are in conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:48 PM
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No I don't have any data I said let's try to find some but that motivation faded pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 02:42 AM
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BP have a life, they don't hang out on reddit all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 02:38 AM
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Every down vote is another tear to add to my collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 02:34 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 02:31 AM
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If you think people haven't been screwing like dogs forever then that's pretty nieave.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 02:29 AM
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We've already established that the statistics you sources do not represent the population you are discussing. Then you just made up the rest bassed on what? Your gut feeling? No get something that shows the age group and relationship status of said ugos. But you put overweight and "trash" in two different categories. So is it just one category of over weight? Or is trash something else? And no, not everyone smokes weed. cigarettes are still more popular which just shows your age group. Plus weed…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 02:21 AM
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That's a pretty objective statement. A good relationship will more likely make you happy, keep you healthy than no relationship. That is what the data in the study says. They could predict who would be happier and healthier based on relationships. That might be marriage or very close friendship but it has to be good relationships that last. Most of the time this is a marriage relationship. Of course it also means if a relationship ends you can replace it with another good one and get the same be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 10:53 PM
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eh.. you are making up statistics.. Let's try to find something more reliable. Physically unattractive for sure. unattractive by what standard? That's pretty objective. Heavy drug use would also be a factor. Does the type of drug matter? Smokes weed but nothing else? These stats you have are really useless if you were trying to judge population percentages that fit into these "categories"..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 09:06 PM
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But are they overweight at the marring age and are they single and over-weight? A woman who's married and has had a few kids is going to fall into your 2/3. What does "Trash" mean? Drug user? Poor-person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 05:31 PM
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According to a Harvard study that examined men over generations they found that the ones who reported the highest happiness were the ones who had a life partner they could rely on in a crisis. Relationships with a reliable person do bring happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 05:28 PM
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People who don't settle into one relationship will have more than one relationship.. yes.. fascinating.. .. this is a little obvious..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 05:23 PM
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Also doesn't mean that "most" do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 05:19 PM
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when you encounter and point on the internet, take it with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 09:43 PM
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to get and stay physically attractive; in fact this was dismissed as shallow So, you never saw a make-over movie or wondered why good looking people were on TV? to set clear individual boundaries; men were expected to just "put up with her shit, no matter what"... the idea of being the prize myself was never articulated. I've never heard that you shouldn't have self respect. These two points are the same I thought. to be myself Being yourself just means to be comfortable and confident. It's all …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 09:26 PM
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uh.. no, it no meaning. Ego. is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 09:12 PM
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Never trust the internet.. That's my advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 09:11 PM
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Okay, thanks for pointing me to where you answered someone else's question.. I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 06:27 PM
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how many Chads Wow dude, you need therapy. You got some issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 05:35 PM
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somehow speaking in bad faith. Or the guys in TRP had selective hearing. It's not saying anything bad, it's just they chose to ignore the advice that everyone else was hearing. If everyone else around you says they learned it differently from you, what exactly did you miss and how? It must have been out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 05:31 PM
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...but it accepts the way things are. Not according to how much whining there is in that sub. It would be nice if people could just be themselves with each other and if men could let their guard down and just relax. Unfortunately life doesn't work that way. This usually takes a while in any relationship. It's like having a conversation about poop. When you and your SO are starting to have poop conversations, then you know you are starting to lower barriers that are usually in place in formal and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 05:26 PM
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TRP men heard this constantly from women during their formative years. Yeah; that's not the advice anyone was getting 20-odd years ago back when I was doing this. I think TRP men were listening to what they wanted to hear and in denial of any need to change. BTW, there were other sources of this information. Books for example, have been around more than 20years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 05:21 PM
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OP language doesn't insight discussion, just contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 03:25 PM
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most people genuinely believe what they're writing, and are posting in good faith. Are you new to the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 03:20 PM
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Looks fun The thread title is pretty ridiculous to use such a term. Try again with a better title.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 02:00 PM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 06:22 AM
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Question my divity and I will smite you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 12:40 AM
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It's also a little slap to TRP people. BP says non-TRP is the better way and using the label is a little mocking of TRP itself. TRP says BP is the weaker way to think obviously BP people disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 12:39 AM
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I agree with you. Clubbing is dumb unless you want a ONS. You are unlikely to find quality there. More likely to find shallow people who need validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 12:33 AM
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Jesus rose from the dead, he lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 05:35 AM
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Wearing a sweater when you are a busty girl, sometimes called the lock and load.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 05:02 AM
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Blue pill just means people who think TRP is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 03:34 AM
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I think I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 03:03 AM
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you know I'm right, you are just in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 06:28 PM
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need.. i.e. a compulsion, irresistible urge to behave in a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 06:26 PM
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Different cultures have different perceptions of virtue. According to your words, you seemed to define virtue as something that is a benefit to others. No? So two-parent households aren't necessarily good? They don't generally turn out more well-adjusted children? There's no correlation between single motherhood and poverty and criminality later on in life for children raised in these households? There is also a coralation between households with unhappy parents and the effects it has on childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 06:24 PM
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They have difficulty with social interactions ("how to human")
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 06:12 PM
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She never claimed it does. She did claim a connection of which there is none. In fact, as Altas explained, being RPW is all about being mean to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 06:11 PM
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Traditionalism and co-dependency is not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 06:08 PM
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She doesn't need to do any of that shit, but she enjoys it and it makes her life better for her. of course no one need RPW to be nice, but to claim it is because she is RPW that she is nice is false. RPW is not about being nice at all, according to Atlas
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 06:06 PM
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and am suffering greatly so that I can live up to your saintly standards for virtue. You equated RPW to living a virtuous life. But living the "RPW" way does not make one virtuous. Your self sacrifices are self-serving. If that is "good" or "bad" who knows but we can't say that it is of benefit to anyone except yourself (and maybe at the same time hurting yourself.. how strange) pretend that I hate it all, and am suffering greatly Do you hate some or all? Are you suffering? As far as it takes. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:44 PM
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Oh I see so being nice only extends to the man and you are free to be mean and nasty to anyone else. Everything that you do only has to meet the goal of keeping a man who can take care of you like a parent does a child. I mean, who wants to face the responsibility of adulthood or the pain of loneliness when you can toss it all onto another person. All you have to do is have no personality around your man, toss away all your own personal wants and desires. You are free to be mean to others around…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:34 PM
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a) not "men", my man, singular, who has proven himself and takes care of me. b) as soon as one dares appreciate the tangible impact of "virtuous" behavior, it becomes self-serving evil behavior. Except, you just admit that you are doing it for yourself in "a". You are not helping society, you are pleasing your "man" so that he doesn't leave you. There's no virtuous altruism there. He leaves, eventually. That would suck. And how far are you willing to go to please him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:29 PM
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It's not about "How to girl?" Pretty sure it is, from "cleaning" tips to how to do your hair to "How to be seen and not heard"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:24 PM
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Oh it's not? How is it different? mental patients oh the fangs! (good thing it's not about being ladylike because you no lady)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:18 PM
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Girling makes my bf happy, thus I do it as a service to him. So it's pleasing men that's important none of that other stuff about doing nice things or serving others as virtuous. What happens if the man is not pleased?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:18 PM
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There's that insulting lady-like behavior of RPW. :) This is fun, let's keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:12 PM
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you're refuting a point I didn't make. No, that was the point I was making. I've never claimed that RPW is the only way to live or that everyone needs to have the same standards for "favorable outcomes". Many RPW make the assumption though that their way is the only way and in fact they look down at other "blooper" women. although I would argue they look down on most women. RPW fits into the greater ethical culture I was raised in, which regards service to others as a virtue. Is it "service to o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:12 PM
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Meow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:08 PM
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You are making the false assumption that rpw is some self help program or that every person who likes it somehow "needs" it to fix something. They are getting something out of it or they wouldn't be a part of that group. Why you're making the weird leap between successfully learning to girl and "needing help girling" is beyond me. What is "successfully learning to girl?" Is that what RPW teaches? Who says that is how you "girl?" you're an obnoxious.... Who's making it personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:03 PM
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I'm equating my decision to follow RPW principles to my decision to do other pleasant but ultimately unnecessary shit because I believe it makes the world a better place. The point is, RPW is not a requirement for doing "pleasant but ultimately unnecessary shit." I do it because I like the way it makes me feel Now that is getting closer to the answer of why RPW appeals to you. So is it doing nice things or is it "being RPW" feelings that you like? My answer's posted if you really want to see it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:59 PM
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mal-adapted? They never needed internet to tell them how to human.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:51 PM
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You tell me, you label yourself with it, in fact it's pretty much your identity on reddit. Are you saying you don't need RPW and can take it or leave it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:47 PM
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You are making a false assumption that other people need "RPW" in order to be "nice." That without RPW other people wouldn't be good to their partners let people merge in traffic, and hold doors, and offer seats on the train to old people. There is no causation between nice-ness and being RPW or meanness and being blooper. I am curious, how did you answer the OP question?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:45 PM
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you tell me why you need to be RPW Do you feel the need to overcompensate and make yourself "feminine" as you define it in order to "win at life?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:35 PM
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Thinking there is a way to retain power in a relationship is to be in denial of what love and relationships are. If you are trying to retain power then you are not fully committed. Being committed means putting the power to hurt you in the hands of your partner. They might hurt you even unintentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 06:07 PM
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and none of them feel the need to be "RPW"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 06:00 PM
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Interesting how the bloopers seem to have the opposite experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 05:23 PM
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Of course not, that would go against what TRP believes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 05:21 PM
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Sounds like a TRP fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 05:20 PM
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OP got some stuff and thangs to do... What a dumb thread. How are people supposed to comment on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 06:32 AM
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I think the analogy is broken
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 04:01 PM
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Unfortunately, it is really sad. But positive thinking can help. If someone is that bad, they probably need more professional help to change their thinking. But someone who isn't that far yet might be able to stop themselves from falling in that trap
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 01:55 AM
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Are you under the impression that the first mate has any authority over where the boat is headed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 01:47 AM
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So you mean exactly what I predicted would happen when you aren't looking for win-win WOULD happen. Resentment builds up and at best, damages the relationship and at worst ends it. Is he your captain or not? You aren't supposed to question his decisions deary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 10:24 PM
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Okay so there is no difference in "captain"; and "tinhorn dictator" and "tyrant".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 10:20 PM
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Of course it's ridiculous, stating it the way I did just re-reinforces that. Because they're illegal. No man will use strength or violence in a relationship. Or you know... because they don't want to hurt someone they care about. But you aren't showing any understanding of relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 10:14 PM
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More than younger women in general. According to the survey data, more partners are had by older divorcees than any other age group of women. (If you want to take that survey data seriously)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 10:08 PM
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Then what you want is not a captain at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 10:07 PM
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Oh like as in, how the dynamic works in the analogy of a navy vessel on which it takes the name? Sorry, if you are going to call it a "captain" and then claim, "Not a real captain" get a better analogy because that one is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 10:06 PM
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brute physical strength and (threats of) violence; You are going to threaten and beat your spouse if they don't do what you say? Holy crap, please don't ever marry. offering/withdrawing indicia of commitment (attention, time, money and resources). Why would you marry someone you don't want to be committed to? Or why would you not care about their access to such "resources?" The far and away most common and effective expression of female power is granting, limiting, conditioning and denying sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:49 PM
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No, there isn't. The analogy isn't very good at all. A captain does not have to listen to an "FO" ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:45 PM
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then the Captain must give weighty consideration to what his FO is telling him. No he doesn't have to do that at all, that's why he's the captain. Otherwise, he's not a captain. And if he forces this "FO" into a win-lose situation, the FO is going to build resentment at never getting the things they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:40 PM
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When the dominant partner sets aside their personal preferences, and instead makes the other person (and their wants and desires) the top priority. I'm sorry, but that is not a healthy relationship either. While there is some argument that seeing someone else win can be a win in itself, it's really still a lose-win situation. I will lose so that you can win. That can be ok, in moderation only. If you always deny yourself what you really want in life just to satisfy your partner you risk resentin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:36 PM
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I don't think you understand marriage, love or compromise. What exactly do you think is "power" in the relationship? Does one person bring in more money than the other? Are they going to tell their partner, no you can't buy that thing because it's MY MONEY! If that's the case, you've just married a douche and made a bad life choice. Is one person more attractive than the other and thus has more 'options' available to them? Are they going to tell their partner, "Hey Ugo! No one likes you" uh.. wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:23 PM
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Older divorce women get more action than younger ones according to the surveys but they are all lying about it of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:14 PM
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So.... if they only had the flair you would assume different than if they didn't have the flair but posted in that sub? Do you check someone's post history every time you respond to someone? Really... why not just take someone's post as is with the content as it is? Why do you need to bring in their history? That seems more like a bias on your part. You want to check someone's history and then make assumptions about them based on that? Of course we all do that anyways by putting labels and flair…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:03 PM
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Just because someone is non-TRP you can't really make judgement on their political leanings. BP != feminist for example. BP can unite various ideologies under one anti-trp umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 06:24 PM
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Don't label yourself IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 06:18 PM
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it lays bare those Blue commenters and posters' biases, prejudices and motivations. No more than their flare does or comments on "Q4BP"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 06:17 PM
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Yeah, same difference
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 06:10 PM
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Uh... have you ever taken a long drive with a partner? And 5 hours is not long. I mean like cross country long. Days long. You can't do that without switching because it can get very monotonous. However, for a shorter 5 hour trip I would say it isn't as a case of the woman not offering to drive or not willing to drive it usually a case of the man insisting he drive or insisting he's not tired and can keep driving. That sounds more like the man doing manly thing because he thinks they are expecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 01:32 PM
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Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't, you are probably right. Or, how you think about yourself and your abilities is highly important to your success. Thus is why I think no one should be identifing themselves as "omega" or FA or unlovable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 01:23 PM
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It isn't that it isn't important, but a woman is far more forgiving of appearance than men are. We see this in the OK cupid data that was posted a few months ago. The men messaged only the most attractive women however, the women seemed to message profiles they deemed as "not as attractive" but they still messaged them anyways. When it comes to the type of relationship she is after then that may affect how much attraction is important or not important. For a ONS, attraction is likely more import…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 10:27 PM
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Or just plain lying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:28 PM
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I think there are guys who are attractive but still fail at relationships because they lack proper social skills. Physical appearance is not as important to women as it is to men so I think men tend to judge themselves more harshly than women actually would. (but I'm going to get yelled at by some TRPers for that comment)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:28 PM
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BP is not a sexual strategy it's just anything that is non-TRP which even includes anyone just ignorant of TRP. Anyone who can find a partner who's personality, maturity level, or lifestyle matches can have a fulfilling love life. TRP can help because it can help a guy get off his ass and get some aspects of his life together. There are lots of parts of TRP that are stolen from other very popular self help sources. Likely a BP person learned how to cope with life from a successful youth. Maybe a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:24 PM
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Now it sounds like how losers date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:10 PM
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If you think that's how people date I think you are secretly a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:47 PM
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"Please don't attack me when I'm talking about attacking OTHER people who aren't ME!" Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:45 PM
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Really? Because two men can also be more than 7 inches difference in height, one might be of a completely different race and they also might have far difference in testosterone levels. One may have dark hair and one may have light hair. What a load and completely off topic from the original OP. We are talking about differences in ability to accomplish things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:44 PM
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What a load of poop. I'll say this again, take two men and they will differ far more than will the average man and the average women. You can claim that all men are so great but the relaity is most of them are average little shits who won't accomplish anything. Most men and most women will achieve the same level of accomplishment in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 04:38 AM
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Obesity is often the result of self medicated depression. Yelling at someone who is depressed isn't going to motivate them to do anything about their weight you will just make them more depressed thus causing them to over eat. They are like to already feel pretty ashamed without you pointing out their failings. However you might stem the creeping darkness of lonliness and depression in yourself by putting some poor soul "in their place" good on ya. I hope others treat you with as much respect as…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 04:29 AM
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? Freedom is Slavery, Ignorance is Strength? What is your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:33 PM
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lol, look at the hamster go
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:31 PM
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Hypergamy is usually expressed by TRP as the woman will leave any man at the drop of a hat, irregardless of any honor (which she has none of), commitment (which she can't have by nature), or morality (she'll just rationalize it away) as soon as a guy with bigger mussels comes around. Strange how those qualities are usually attributed to men by women... Has nothing to do with "seeking quality over quantity" your explanation is completely non-TRP. you've left the TRP out of these TRP explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:20 PM
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When a woman is attracted in love with a man she will rationalize away any of his shortcomings, Love is blind friend. Even if he's a dumpy dude who gained 40 lbs don't matter if she loves him. if she loses love though, those things start to becomes more noticeable - and annoying. It's the same for men too. Lose the love, lose the commitment, caring, support - lose the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:11 PM
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Loss of love comes before loss of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:04 PM
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How does Honor = Respect? Those seem completely different concepts. courage does not have to mean having it only in a life-threatening situation. You seem to take things way to literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:03 PM
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This is how robots date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 05:55 PM
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The point is just because you failed at something is no reason to give up. And yes, it's a skill just like any other, this is why there are many books on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 02:35 AM
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Anxiety is treatable. Social skills take practice and persistence to master. "Fuck me I tried to play the piano for the first time and failed guess I'll never be able to play it better give up now"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 01:58 AM
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Confidence is not fearing failure. Herr are some videos: The skill of self confidence 3 ways to boost confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 01:53 AM
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Well, I can't pretend to completely understand but it f someone suffers from axiety, moodiness, depression, etc can these not be barriers to social interactions? Seeking help with those problems can't hurt someone's social situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 01:09 AM
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Men are slightly less risk adverse than women so there usually are slightly more men born than women (something like 101 up to 107 men for 100 women born). If we assume nature created this slight imbalance at birth it is likley because of men being less risk adverse and at least some of the men are likely to do something dumb and get themselves killed before too long. Thus the ratio ends up at 50/50 before too long. If you want to know how western societies were with greater female imbalance the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 01:34 PM
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... Or lack of a life....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 01:24 PM
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Most of the time a woman is not interested in casual sex (the pump and dump) but relationships. A guy who sleeps around a lot is a red flag that he's only after something casual. That will be fine If casual is what she's after too, but again that will be few instances for the average woman and maybe more instances for fewer women. Who really virgin shames? I think it stems from other men. Bragging about "conquests" is male posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 01:06 PM
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I'd rather be exaggerating and see someone seeking professional help than not say anything. Mental health is very important and depression can be debilitating. I'm tired of people staying silent when they are really hurting inside and need help. I'm tired of their friends staying silent when they see suffering. I wish you the best of luck, stick with the therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 12:51 PM
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If they did, would you believe them? In all honesty, have to sought any professional help? I'm asking only because your words are warning signs of developing or active depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 09:46 PM
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According to the study on what makes us happiest, yes. Provided it's a good marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 09:40 PM
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Who says my life is less full than yours? You want to pretend your life is so great and choose to live in the contestant state of paranoia that is TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 04:22 PM
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If it's impossible for a woman to desire me, If you don't believe in your own worth how do you expect anyone else to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 03:29 PM
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subscribers and their FRs You mean, other men who can't get women and their fan fiction where they are god's gift to women? hmmm... And TRP isn't about whining, You could have fooled me with that one then. Many red pillers are in LTRs. There's even /r/marriedredpill . You clearly don't know much about TRP. I don't consider MRPs to be real TRP because TRP will tell you "never marry" and "Divorce now" if you already are. You really don't know what TRP is, do you? Do you? What I mean is, have you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 03:25 PM
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She likely is well aware of what she looks like compared to others. If her self esteem is low, she'll suffer from the same issues as the FA man, would always see a man flirting with her as someone making fun of her and not see it as serious interest. Ironic because they both probably want the same things but two damaged egos can lead to a porcupine's dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 03:19 PM
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Bit of a strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 06:18 AM
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I'm pretty sure that comment is rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 06:16 AM
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Got raped? Oh, shouldn't have gone outside alone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 06:12 AM
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Because girls want to be needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 06:05 AM
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If you are doing nothing but paying money to keep a woman you are with the wrong woman. The man needs ti learn to say no to her. If she leaves over it what was the relationship worth? She was just using the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 05:57 AM
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nothing wrong with consulting people you trust, putting trust in people you never met who have no verified expertise or experience, that's the dumb thing. Lots of men have relationships without red pill. In fact since "blue pill" represents the majority of people, I'd say most people figure it out on their own without whining about their problems on the internet. Who says they have low-quality women? Lots of people were getting lots of sex before TRP and PUA came along. Guess what, picking up gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 03:12 AM
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"FA" women are simply picky and alone because they cannot get the guy they want New Blast: It's the same for men. The women don't want to be "pumped and dumped" ergo, whatever "easy" sex might be available is worthless to them. The men could probably find some of those women and have a relationship with them but if all they are interested in is the pump and dump then they have to meet the standards of the women who also want that. Since it's likely not their ideal (they'd rather have relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 07:43 PM
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So you say...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 07:10 PM
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I'm not saying that you should never seek assistance from anyone you are mis-interpreting (maybe because you want to feel smarter than someone else). I'm saying seeking advice from random strangers and putting your faith and trust in them to run your life is extremely risky (and thus stupid). The person who taught you to read and do math was likely a teacher who was trained and experienced in how to teach people reading and math. Same thing with all that other stuff. Even if you went to an onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 04:58 PM
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But by how much? I think the difference in the curves is actually a very minor amount. However, TRP tends to inflate this and take the credit for the extremely small percentage of men who end up at the end of the curve and end up better than 99% of all women. However, we can say with certainty that the average joe in TRP is likely just as funny, smart, accomplished, etc as say the average sue over at 2X. Unless we could prove that TRP or 2X attracts people who aren't average. I say that is proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 04:53 PM
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I'd wonder how much of a myth that is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 03:27 PM
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If you need to ask a bunch of strangers how to live your own life or are seeking validation about your life from a group of strangers you are doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 03:11 PM
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It doesn't really matter if there is good in TRP anymore. As soon as you put a label. On something you automatically associate all the bad parts and good parts together No one remembers good parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 05:03 AM
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The idea that people who's idea of quality life is writing essays for an anonymous Internet forum can teach you more about life than actually living and having experiences is ridiculous. Trp is made up of mostly guys who can't get girls and at the same time trying to prove to other men that they can in fact get girls so they aren't mocked as "beta" absolutely can be lying most of the time. How do you tell lies and rationalizations from reality? You can't. You have get out there and instead make …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 04:55 AM
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I think you answered your own question: the internet But I mean specifically, places like reddit. You are asking a bunch of strangers with unverified expertise on how to run your life. The only thing you do know about them is how much they might care about karma. If someone cares enough to spend a large amount of their time on the internet - is that really someone who "has their life together" and whom you should be seeking advice in how to run yours? ...I realize the irony in my own message....…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 10:00 PM
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Rudeness is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 08:40 PM
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Stop being afraid of failure... you either win or you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 08:39 PM
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I think some people get off on telling other people how to live. I think the real question people should ask is, why are you going to the internet for advice on anything? especially when the recipients of your advice might therefore compete more successfully against you in the dating world than they otherwise would have? What? Where is the abundance mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 08:38 PM
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Once again, take two men at random and they will differ far more than will the average man and the average women. So if you take two men one of them will be far less interesting, accomplished, grounded, athletic and funny than the other far more than would an average man vs. an average woman. TRP is delusional to think that all men are so much better than all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 08:31 PM
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Yes it is constructive when you ask yourself why you are angry. It's destructive when it's expressed in an uncontrolled way. I try not to get angry anymore bit practice recognising when I do feel angry. When I asked myself why I was angry at someone, it usually boiled down to being angry at myself. Not until I understood that could I work on solving things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 05:03 AM
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I love skyrim..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 04:54 AM
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Suuuuuure you do :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 04:19 AM
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I agree with your sentiment, that people won't ever agree with one another and no one's opinion is going to be changed though one post on an internet forum, however, I'm not sure your examples are right. niceness doesn't guarantee attention from women vs they were not granted the education or what Trump University claimed they were The difference is the women didn't claim anything, that "niceness grants me attention" was an assumption where as the other case there was a direct claim about the ed…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 03:07 PM
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Yeah but you make it sound like all men are entrepreneurs when most are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 11:35 PM
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A lot of women don't exist in TRP's dating pool because they are in LTR or married. Everyday that dating pool grows smaller and smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 05:23 PM
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They don't just have to work in hospitals. There are so many jobs available they have their pick. But again it could be different in different areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 06:04 AM
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Being overly defensive is a weakness. It makes you see attacks from other people where there is none. The only lalaland is the one where TRP hates themselves. That's the real anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 05:48 AM
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The guy got defensive over something said by a flirting half drunk girl. That sounds like an ego that is pretty fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 03:23 AM
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Only someone with low self-esteem would see it as an attack because they hate themselves they can't fathom someone else liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 03:13 AM
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men overwhelmingly operate in the entrepreneurial sphere I would say the entrepreneurial sphere is most men but most men do not operate in that sphere. There are far more non-entrepreneurial jobs. Let's not pretend that all men become entrepreneurs as most won't. There's far more greater risk for entrepreneurial job than trade positions and the barrier to entry is often far higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 03:08 AM
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it might be, nursing and PSW are very secure union positions with LOTS of job postings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 03:01 AM
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I never put a label on myself. It just makes you associated with everything and everyone that is also associated with that label.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 11:22 PM
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It's often referred to as "Mid-life crisis"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 11:20 PM
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Doesn't make them TRP either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 11:18 PM
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Is it really occupation that matters or income that's attractive? Pink collar jobs aren't really high pay but have low barrier to entry and they are secure. Women tend to go after secure occupations where as men on average are more willing to take risks if there is a chance at reward. Thus, high physical risk, high pay trade occupations or investment risk in education for a high paying executive type position. thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 11:13 PM
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My effort was minimal because you are easily provoked. You are the one who made the point that language never changes and were wrong about how concepts work. Can't admit it though, sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 11:08 PM
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Is being an ambulance chaser a high accomplishment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 11:07 PM
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So is it really that difficult for men to get girls or is it that it's difficult for men to get 8-10s?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 11:06 PM
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Yet Tradesmen remain in high demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 07:46 PM
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men will still seek out education and opportunities to enter those fields Why would men go into trades at all then if being "blue collar" is seen as unattractive? Personally, I think it's only unattractive in a while collar town.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 07:36 PM
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There's lots of unattractive lawyers, I see their pictures on bus station benches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 07:34 PM
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You gravely over-estimate the level of effort I'm willing to put into this conversation. You could just answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 07:30 PM
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That's still not enough to call them "Left Wing" sorry, but most will disagree with that stance unless they specifically call themselves "Left Libertarians"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:44 PM
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We were debating the word "virgin." If someone who was raped wants to call themselves a virgin I'm not going to correct them, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:43 PM
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US liberals would also want to regulate other sections of society such as the economy and instead of regulating bedrooms and doctor offices they'll regulate every other room in the house and control every other aspect of your life. From what you are allowed to buy, where you can work, who you can hire, how much you earn, and what you are allowed to eat. Liberals love big government with lots of control. Don't get hung up on one issue. A libertarian would rather no regulation, period. Small gover…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 11:12 PM
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Correct is subjective in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 10:58 PM
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that's in opposition to clarity and to our ability to communicate Yep, that's what makes communication difficult. Just like slang words that end up eventually as part of normal language. Call it whatever you want. That's the point. If someone wants to define the word differently than you, nothing stops them and they can do that. Nothing you say can stop them irregardless of how much you might disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 09:09 PM
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I don't think being a player is a desirable trait that women long for. Pretty sure it's seen as a large negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 08:57 PM
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Biologically it is very cheap for males of any species to reproduce Not true for "any species" Even if %70 of a males offspring die what did it cost the male Only important where the female also doesn't invest in the offspring or if the offspring are able to take care of themselves at birth. The society you describe is one where females take care of each other and need men for nothing more than genetic material. They are simply a tolerated annoyance. This is not a common human society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 08:54 PM
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But again, you are making assumptions and basing conclusions on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 08:48 PM
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But it's all we've got to communicate when we try to talk about trees. Yeah, that's conceptualizing. Because at some point someone pointed at a large plant with branches and leafs and said, that's a tree. And then they pointed at an evergreen and said, that's a tree too. and our brains start to form connections in what makes these things the same. you're effectively distorting language for your own personal agenda. yeah, language changes and evolves. It's never the same. I can have a "tree of fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 06:17 PM
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since men NEED to be promiscuous in order to pass as much of his genetic code as possible. Not true, you've pull that assumption out of your.. butt. If the man is not able to take care and protect his partner at least until the children are grown then he's not certain they survived. Human babies are very helpless at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 06:10 PM
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all low n count women would be put off by promiscuous men. NAWALT? I think they are put off by it. Unless somehow men are more insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 06:07 PM
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I think it's a correlation not causation problem. People who have trouble creating a lasting bond have a lot of relationships, not necessarily that having a lot of relationships makes you not able to create a lasting bond. There's some undefined factors here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 06:05 PM
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Most Blue pillers have other things in their lives besides talking about sexual strategies on the internet. You know, they got dates to go on.. BOOM!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 06:02 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 02:36 PM
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I don't agree, clearly he has a different pose / angle in both photos has different hair cut, different clothes. The photos are not similar at all. One is a teen and one is an older man. To really prove your experiment you should have photos of the same person. You clearly can see confidence in a photo and of course it's perception. What you project though your choice of clothes hair style and posture are all read in body language. Confidence is not being afraid to make mistakes. Someone with ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 03:01 PM
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women shouldn't be harassed or discredited if they enjoy them Completely agree. That's what freedom is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 05:22 AM
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Also over 60
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 05:21 AM
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I though he looked 15 in the first photo. First off, teen guys are ugly. That's life. They grow and get better looking. He look like he lacks confidence on the first photo because of the jacket (hiding) and long hair (more hiding) his stance, and the angle of the phot is looking downward at him. In the second photo he has short hair (not hiding) wearing a tshirt showing his arms (not hiding) is holding a microphone (speaking in front of people) and looking relaxed while doing so. All of that say…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 04:20 AM
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That poster didn't. Say anything about her dressing bad or being loud, they said is she has confidence she has confidence. You made the assumption that "confidence" for a large woman means dressing bad and being loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 04:14 AM
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May not be easier but depends how much we care about mental health. It's like the stigma against depression that is slowly changing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 03:42 AM
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That's because of personal responsibility and the idea that the government has no business in the bedrooms and doctors offices of the people. I still see that as right wing but not nessisarily US concervatism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 03:40 AM
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You don't understand what a concept is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 03:34 AM
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I was being a little sarcastic to point out the restrictions we see from liberals on free speech. Such things as banning speech determined as "hate speech"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 11:19 PM
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All concepts are words not all words are concepts. How exactly are you defining a concept? A table is a concept. I could have a steel table, a wooden table, I could have a 3-legged table, a 4-legged table, I could use a tree stump as a table and all are abstracts of the concept of "table." Does "murder" always mean "unlawful premeditated killing of one human being by another" or could it also be applied in other instances and thus be abstracted? Is hunting "murder?" The fact that I can even ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 11:16 PM
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That's debatable as there are political scientists who would argue either way. I've always seen it as right wing because of the desire for smaller government and individual responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 10:54 PM
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In other threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:33 PM
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That's a bit of a loaded question isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:10 PM
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Another discussion thread that has no discussion, another swing and a miss from Atlas. Third times a charm?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:07 PM
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oh just like men and TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:02 PM
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My view is that, although feminism views on issues align with the left wing, their thought is authoritarian(see this), not libertarian. I think you mean Liberal or Liberalism which is usually viewed as left wing. Libertarians are usually viewed as right wing. freedoms of speech and thought that liberals desire. Since when do liberals desire such things? What country are you speaking from because this can make a difference on the meaning of the terms. Liberal being left of center desires larger g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 04:54 PM
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It "benifits" the child and that's kinda the whole point isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 03:38 PM
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This was my question, this is dumbest discussion / debate thread I've seen here in a while. Discussion: My Opinion-SHUT UP STOP GIVING YOUR OWN OPINIONS!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:33 AM
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It's not a concept, it's a thing. Murder, for example, is not a concept. Murder is a concept it has no meaning without context / motive. The word itself can change with time or differ across language If that is true, then it's a concept. they can certainly say, "fuck that," if they want to. Maybe they can invent a combination of the two to make a new meaning. Wow I am getting more and more convinced it's an abstract concept rather than "a thing." Which side are you arguing for again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:25 AM
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You want a discussion or you want a yes/no answer? How do you expect a discussion without actually.. discussing? What a stupid thread. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 03:59 AM
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0_o this is getting into too much of an unlikely hypothetical. This is a ridiculous solution and I don't think you are being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 03:51 AM
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um.. yeah.. I'm sure all the women who have this happen to them in middle eastern countries are going all batman on the perpetrators. Of course you can add in the fact that if anyone found out she would be stoned to death for being a "slut"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 03:46 AM
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That's not much of a debate then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 03:24 AM
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There have been studies shown that people in relationships tend not to react to "attractive" people. In other words, the bond of the relationship is stronger than other desires that may exist. If you value the relationship with the spouse then you liley don't see other attractive people, or they move in and out of your thoughts the moment they are gone. If someone did have feelings or thoughts of wandering they should recognize feelings correct their actions. We are rational being and can contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 02:53 AM
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Combine your definition with shaming non-virgin women and it leads to a culture where women are pressured to marry their rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 02:47 AM
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The question is if we should consider changing the stigma in our culture. Or if men can find other ways to express their emotions rather than dumping it all onto their SOs then it could lead to better relationships and more mentally healthy men. Is TRP not concerned about a man's ability to form and keep relationships or his mental health? You seemed to dismiss all of this as irrelevant. We have the ability to shape culture as we are culture. tear ducts and so on are smaller Tear ducts in men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 08:53 PM
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I think men are allowed to be far more emotional in Asian cultures. I remember watching seven samurai and being amazed at the images of the men crying. You would rarely see that in a western movie of the same era or later. The same can be said of korean mellow-dramas vs. western dramas. The Korean dramas have far more emotional issues and trauma that men and women go though than do western soaps or dramas. In western cultures the men are expected to hold in their emotions and never let anyone se…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 08:10 PM
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I used to watch a show called til debt do us part. This is a great show about couples in financial trouble getting help from a professional. It was pretty split on who was doing the spending or who was.not pulling weight. Most of the time both people had bad financial habits. Money is the biggest cause for.couples breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 07:40 AM
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Except it's joint property.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 07:37 AM
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While these are shitty women, you aren't going to stop that behavior by saying, "tsk tsk, don't do that." The men need to learn to say no and stop being taken advantage of. You can't control other people, but you can control yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 08:36 PM
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heh I never knew about that quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 03:18 PM
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One never gets the impression that she's basically a guy in the body of a woman That's really the point. A lot of writers believe that's to make a strong female character (not nessisarily physically strong ) she has to be a man in a skirt. Take that movie G.I.Jane that was a terrible movie and not really a good character. Another example is sex and the city. I found the women to act more like gay men then women - I wasn't surprised at learn the writers were actually gay men of course that's IMO.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 02:37 PM
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I loved the women in Fury Road - they were amazing! And I'm also pretty sure that a lot of other people thought they were awesome as well. I don't think the complaints about the women in that movie were from people who actually wanted to like that movie. I saw it often dismissed based on a surface analysis. For example, one complain was that Max is emancipated at the beginning of the movie when he is captured. Except that everyone in the movie is a victim in some way. Max isn't treated any diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:38 PM
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Absolutely. This is why I've been talking more openly about mental health. It's so important and I also see so many people showing the signs of depression. Personally, I think we should ask someone directly if they think they might be depressed. It is better to get that out in the open because suffering alone in silence will never help the problem. People are often afraid of the social stigma that can come with admitting to a mental health problem. We need to tear down this fear because mental h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:26 PM
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Because action movies are more about the action than the growth of characters. Male leads in action movies can also be rather one dimensional or not experience any growth. Can still be fun movies, like Pacific Rim - one of my favorite action movies. I don't like it for it's character depth. But you can get really good action movies that combine good characters with depth that grow and evolve and also have kick ass sequences. Like Mad Max: Fury Road.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:18 PM
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Women in Japan are in no way taught to be dominant. The troupe where the girl pursues the guy is more a fantasy for the men. There are only a few female characters I would say have depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 02:52 PM
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There's a difference between a character written to have physical stength and a strong character as in one that isn't one dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 02:47 PM
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A good strong female character is Ripley in alien and aliens. She pulls up her panties and gets the job done at the same time she is sexy and feminine. She carried a big gun in one hand and protects a child in the other. Also I really liked furiousa in the recent mad max. There's a lot of submissive females in anime and Manga. The maid troupe is pretty common. The dominant femalet not so much.. it's more niche. But there are some gems of good female characters there. The manic pixie dream girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:08 AM
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I think you will still have those that fall through the cracks even with TRP. I still think TRPS message says the key to success is to be successful. There are more steps in between that help someone get started.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:52 AM
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The phrase was coined in 7 habits but it has many sources too. Buddhism is probably better for someone's mental health than TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:48 AM
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Is gaming immoral then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 05:38 AM
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Isn't TRP mostly made up of "lame and lost dudes" who are trying to fake being not "lame and lost?" That's the problem I have with the solution.. is there really no better way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:51 PM
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While I think you have a somewhat valid point I don't know if that's the best starting point in a situation like this. You could even look at it from a job perspective. Because the man can't get a job he feels worthless but getting a job is the best way to stop feeling worthless. That kind of thing can trap someone in a catch 22. There are other ways to start that can build confidence and motivate self-worth that can then lead to success. Part of it is to stop listening to other people telling t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 10:49 PM
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Cart or horse it's difficult to say. I wish people would stop comparing themselves to other people, it doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:19 PM
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It won't happen if he doesn't believe it can happen. He would end up ignoring a flirt thinking, "no way she would want to flirt with me, I'm worthless"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:17 PM
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It will make some women happy not all women happy. Also again, it's easy entry. It's the same with computer science for men. Lots of men go into computer sciences because it's almost expected of them now. Lots of men hate it in computer sciences. Picking a career path is a very personal matter. Are you suggesting that there should be barriers in place to prevent women who do excel at "man's job" from pursuing it? Oh, and there is a study somewhere that tracks over all happiness of men and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:15 PM
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I thought that was the TRP message. Getting the tail won't help if the man still feels he is unworthy of love. He'll be suspicious of it. And calling the love worthless is just another cover up. Mocking something that you can pretend you don't really want it. Everyone just wants to be loved and accepted even if just by one other person. But does TRP really help with that second step?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:08 PM
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Fake it until you make it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 07:57 PM
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because you've been taught that you're worthless and incapable of being loved. Ultimately nothing can fix this, if you experienced this growing up you are a lost cause. That is not true. It starts with forgiveness - forgiving yourself for those negative thoughts and for being "broken." It's okay to be broken or to have been broken or to have made mistakes. You can heal from it. The most comfortable way of dealing with this is through misogyny That's the easiest way but you are right it isn't a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 07:55 PM
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Even if we take that as true, that doesn't mean that all women would be happier doing those job instead of other jobs. That's an assumption. I don't think women are being forced into other jobs the same as they shouldn't be forced into the jobs listed above. Some women prefer to do a "man's job" and maybe they can do it better than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 07:32 PM
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So if a thief steals from another thief he is not guilty of theft? What about the original owner? Wouldn't they rather have their items back?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 07:17 PM
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It logically doesn't. Please explain how it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:34 AM
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I’m not going to be too upset if a thief comes whining to me that he had his loot stolen. The point is, that stealing stolen loot doesn't negate the immoral act of theft if you have already judged theft as immoral. Both acts by their immoral definitions of theft are immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:02 AM
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No I don't think they are amoral at all, which is my point. You can't discuss 'amoral sexual strategy' because I don't think there is such a thing. There is always some kind of moral judgement going on and I also think TRPers will make their moral opnions known when the issue is grave enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:00 AM
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maybe because they are not, I never said they were... maybe you should re-read and stop having emotional knee-jerk reactions. I said they are concerned with looking like that as was seen in the post today that quoted a top mod. It's something they are concerned with to the point of a top mod having to state that they aren't rape supporters. But, my point is that's a moral judgement that goes against the "sexual strategy is amoral" tagline that is tossed around. I think, it isn't amoral at all an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:43 AM
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immoral strategies ...immoral sexual preferences. Both are moral judgements. You can't say that use of both together now negate their immoral status. Two wrongs don't make a right.. or "doesn't matter had sex" is an immoral phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:37 AM
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The idea that immoral acts occur is not the question. It is if a person advocating such acts should be judged on a moral basis. Why is TRP concerned with looking like "rape supporters?" If sexual strategy was truly amoral then.. well this becomes obvious, rape discussions would be allowed. However, even the mods do not want that moral judgment on their heads so it does seem there is a "line to cross" somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:33 AM
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Doesn't that data show that most lawyers and judges are marring other lawyers and judges?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:14 AM
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That's an awful lot of assumptions. Those are simply the most popular professions women have. They have the lowest barrier to entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:05 AM
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I think the preferred term is "waste management professional" How often does blue collar marry white collar? Different education and background can be a source of disagreement and make for different life experiences that causes an inability to relate to one another. This is why people tend to stay within their social groups. That said, there are more men in trade work then there are women so if white collar marries blue it is likley to be a white collar woman and blue collar man. Blue collar is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 02:57 AM
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Why are they so worried about being called rapists? I thought they were "amoral."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 08:41 PM
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Oh that's a bitter pill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 02:33 AM
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Sorry I meant the anger is her responsibility to control. The anger is a natural reaction but failing to contol it could be distrucruve. Don't get angry at your self for failing, forgive yourself and move on. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 11:01 PM
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There was no example of a boy giving advice in OP. Personally the things I've said apply to any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:53 PM
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If you are going to accept the love behind the gift then you probably shouldn't accept the gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:08 PM
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That was my thought too this puts her near 50 but TRP seems to think 25-30 is over the hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:02 PM
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His only chance is to marry a divorcee who married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 03:55 PM
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People who are marriage minded tend to marry younger. These people are then removed from the dating pool of the people above.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 03:50 PM
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we as people do this all the time. We know what work needs to be done. But we ask around looking for an excuse not to have to do it. This is the second conversation the guy has had about this topic as he says his other friend will take him to the gym. So at least one other person agreed with him that the gym would be good. Now he's looking for an out. His whiny words betrayed what he was after - compliments and excuses. Women will give each other compliment and build each other up with the exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 03:45 PM
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Not her fault but her responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 07:52 AM
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I agree she's a bit f a crappy friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 07:45 AM
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once she actually meets the guy behind those muscles suddenly those same muscles are irresistible to her. Is it the man or the mussels? we'll never know..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 09:12 PM
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These circumstances aren't relevant to the behaviors. I am doubtful of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 09:09 PM
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But aren't both examples rather niche? Surfer dude band and dating in Silicon valley? Do you really think those situations translate as an average experience? And is getting tail the end all and be all to life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 08:56 PM
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Why would your goal in life be to become a sexy man with no job? The surfer dude doesn't get much respect outside his circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 08:31 PM
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You think TRP isn't about trying to impress other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 08:29 PM
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I can't imagine that guy being very appealing as an LTR. So he getting girls only for short term flings?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 08:29 PM
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People need to ask themselves these questions. We don't need someone else to tell us to go do the things we already know we should be doing. But if you did have a friend whom you trusted no matter their sex who tells you honestly how it is, that can help. Shitty advice can come from anywhere. You have to make up your own mind about the world. Take everything with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 08:26 PM
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The guy being reacted to in this video
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 03:56 AM
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All these definitions sounds backwards and weird. A sexy man with no job doesn't sound very "alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 03:52 AM
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Learn to be proactive and not reactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 03:43 AM
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You are the one who keeps wanting to put external blame on problems that are internal. But then, that's what TRP is for - personal responsibility, yeah right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 03:39 AM
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So again, he already knows it, he just needs to accept it. If she gives him an 'easy' out then he will probably take that because again, doing stuff is hard. It is still not her responsibility to ensure he finds a date next Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 12:44 AM
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How do they define a "sexual utopia?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 07:27 PM
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different levels of influence or power, can also restrict freedoms. No it doesn't. It just makes it unfair but doesn't make it not free. If you want fairness then you must give up freedom. What's your choice? In an example related to women, one could say, women shouldn't complain about the wage gap, because this is a free market. That's right because placing in legal restrictions is socialist policy. It removes freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 07:26 PM
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The issue is, the parties in a free market do not all have the same power. Isn't that sort of the definition of a "free market?" A "fair market" would not be one that is free, but one that imposes restrictions in order to make everything "fair." The difference is that in a free market you can use whatever tactics work and "earn" as much as you want. You prefer to put in restrictions to make everyone equally miserable instead of giving everyone the same opportunity for wealth. This is communism. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 07:21 PM
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Having a nerdy GF doesn't impress other dudes. You have to have a smokn' HB 8-10 if you want other dudes to suck you off oops I mean call you Alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 05:51 PM
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No, it's not her fault at all the guy remains flabby. Maybe she gave him some shitty advice - he chooses to follow it, because it's way easier than the alternative. The guy is in denial of reality. He was fishing for some compliments went to his friend and she did exactly what he wanted - told him that he doesn't have to do anything. Doing stuff is hard. The guy needs to take and accept personal responsibility for his own problems. He made his bed, he can lie in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 05:11 PM
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Because the hypothetical man in the hypothetical conversation said "maybe I need to hit the gym" and aparebtly already talked about it with another friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 02:43 PM
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Ask yourself the questions next time because no one else has the same investment that you'd in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 02:41 PM
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Nope I disagree he doesn't want to face the truth. He was looking for an excuse that he doesn't need the gym and she gave him exactly what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 02:40 PM
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It's his responsibiliry not hers. He already knows he needs to hit the gym or he wouldn't have said. Why is he asking her opinion when he knows what he should do? Because he doesn't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 02:38 PM
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Of course not, he didn't want the truth. He already knows what needs to be done. He was looking for an out of the responsibility. Edit: ya'll want to blame the girl but it's HIS responsibility not hers. all he did was whine to her. I thought TRP was all about personal responsibility. He knows his own faults but doesn't want to face them. All she did was tell him what he wanted to hear. He went fishing for compliments and got them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 06:24 AM
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Didn't she just pander to the guy and tell him what he wanted to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 04:59 AM
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It means have confidence and be comfortable in your own skin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 04:32 AM
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Or maybe TRP's logic is sometimes flawed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 05:04 PM
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If you put a gay man and a non-gay man together they will differ far greater than will the average man and the average woman. When it comes to gender capabilities - there are so few differences between average men and average women as it makes no odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 05:03 PM
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The study suggests that now women are just as unhappy as men always were. It seems that they have simply caught up to men in unhappiness. It seems that equality movements has made everyone equal and given everyone the same opportunities to be happy or unhappy. It makes perfect sense if previously you could have nothing and you are satisfied with nothing because that's all you could have and all you know but suddenly you are told you can have everything and now if you don't have it all it could l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 05:00 PM
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lol! Yeah I should stop trying to post while falling asleep too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 04:23 PM
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We are all.human. and.really not that much different. Take.two.random men and they will.differ far.more greatly than the average man and the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 06:34 AM
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I don't think that study proves the point you want it too. As it even suggests that expectations have changed and the happiness meter has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 06:28 AM
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Thanks captain obvious....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 06:26 AM
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Coincidentally, it was also the height of women's happiness. Where does that come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:55 PM
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Will we see women working on roofs in the middle of the summer? Will women be part of selective service? Will we force more men into nursing and elementary careers they might not want in the name of equality? Will we get rid of affirmative action? communism would say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:54 PM
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because other men are the only ones who will judge you as "alpha" or "beta" anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:51 PM
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A better example would be first the mainstream and then the fringe groups who protested against civil rights movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:49 PM
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You can thank men for the nukes, btw Wait.. wasn't radiation discovered by Marie Curie?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:46 PM
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Are we talking about N-count again? Men are taught to brag about sex and women taught to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 05:48 AM
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That sounds like terrible advise, sorry that advice just leads you to creep town
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 05:39 AM
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Most people can't figure it out either that's the secret
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 05:36 AM
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Just make up your mind for yourself and think critically. Don't matter what blue, red, green, magenta pills say. Apply compassion and be courageous. Practice failure. It's OK to fail. Learn from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 05:35 AM
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Sounds like you've more tact then some who frequent TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 05:30 AM
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hot, loud and blonde cheerleader Any other type doesn't impress other dudes. Having that "alpha" status is an obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 09:06 PM
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Crazy eyes... you gotta look for the crazy eyes...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 09:03 PM
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TRPers usually aren't any of that, they just try to fake being like that in the hope that something sticks. Also, women don't want players not for relationships. That's a big red flag for women. However, some sensitivity (I'm going to say compassion) is good. Healthy is good but dudes don't need steroid style mussels. That just impresses other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 08:58 PM
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Let's say that a subject has never come up in conversation before. Then one person makes a statement, "I hate people who are | like | have X." The other person does | like | is X. Now they are in a position to potentially hide that more because they'd rather not be subjected to this judgment. They will likely lie about having, liking or being X. Could be anything from being gay, to having a sexual history, to being a brony. I do think it will eventually come out, and it's their problem for lying…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 08:52 PM
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The maybe TRP needs tI stop preaching that being a stay at home wife is the best for a women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 03:31 PM
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Isn't knowing their past sexual history part of knowing their behaviour? Knowing what relationships existed in the past and why they ended is a part of knowing how many.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 03:27 PM
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Maybe sluts don't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 03:24 PM
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It might make her more likely to lie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 03:21 PM
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If he did not communicate the consiquences and just assumed then he made a "covert contract" I agree that the data seemed counterintuitive but if I am recalling correctly that is what it said. I think it was OK cupid data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 09:51 PM
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Haters gonna hate. You won't please everyone so what does it matter what anyone thinks? The only opnion that matters about you is your own. Maybe start evaluating things at their face value a little. Don't make assumtions about what people think or what they will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:35 PM
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What if I told you a man is only a loser if he thinks that of himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:30 PM
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Is the obsession with relationships what makes them unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:16 PM
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It's what leads us to drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:14 PM
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It sounds to me that you are letting online thoughts from strangers frame actual reality. Discover things for your own and try not to judge people so harshly give them the benifit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:12 PM
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many women will behave in certain ways once they get the commitment they're after There's a lot of immature women out there I won't deny that. However, if the man has certain expectations of the women then Those should be clearly communicated. If he applies expectations such as, don't gain 50 lbs and then she fails to live up to that expectation he has to share some blame if he's now upset with her. Reality is that our relationships can end at anytime is the other person wants it too. Everyone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 05:45 PM
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Doing household chores in the hope of getting sex I figured as much. That is really stupid. I don't think women will actually trade sex for such a thing so when it came time to "pay" she won't really want to. If the man was doing it because he thinks that's how it works that sounds like some of those "covert contracts" really if you see some house work that needs doing just go do it. You'd have to wash dishes or take out trash if you were married or single. so she has to lift her performance to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 08:48 AM
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choreplay What is "choreplay"? Sorry I don't know that term. Shit works, yo - at least to a point. I wouldn't argue there. It does work, to a point. The pieces of advice that TRP appropriated do work because the original advice was good. Anything that can help build a man's self esteem and his self respect is good. I think that that might be what is turning off the wives because that's not sexy. A man needs to have confidence and good mental health. But there are some parts of TRP that are reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 05:07 AM
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Are you serious? I don't spend any time around RPW as that model flat doesn't work for me I agree with you there, I don't like that sub. Yes, doting on the husband is a common theme. I was banned from there after commenting that a woman should treat her husband like man not a child or something to that effect. The woman you described is childish. Sounds like she's on the train to splits-ville. Humans can be rational and I don't think its necessary for a couple to go though a "Coolidge Effect" or…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 02:46 AM
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I didn't avoid it at all, I agreed with it. But marriage takes work there's no doubt about that. That's been my stance all along. I'm kind of getting tired of this because you keep trying for a "got cha" moment and it's not working for you (sorry). To contrary your point though, RPW specifically set out to mother men. To the point of cutting up their food for them. So, how are they keeping attraction and at the same time doing this mothering behavior? (I don't necessarily agree with them but tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 03:28 PM
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I don't understand your response it doesn't really follow. I said, "It's not about using support to build desire at all its to be supportive so the partner can regain the desirability they used to have." If a woman doesn't forgive and have patience then that's her problem. I guess she really didn't care that much about the marriage to have allowed it to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 04:17 AM
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I did answer that question. It's not about using support to build desire at all its to be supportive so the partner can regain the desirability they used to have. Women should forgive their partners for their weaknesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:25 AM
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I dont think people can love and be not loyal in that way. At least it wouldn't be the same love. It's like your spouse is somewhere between a friend, a ons, and a "plate" makes it sound like theres commitment issues is such an arrangement. What question did i not answer apparently?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 01:33 AM
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And "in love" is just silly chemistry that wears off. That's a sad world view. I disagree. there are different kinds of love and while you can love your siblings and not want to "bone them" loving your spouse is very different and wanting to "bone them" is a part of that. Do you really think that having to be supportive of a needy partner will build sexual attraction for them? Being a partner is all about being supportive though tough times. If you expect your partner to be the best version of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 11:08 PM
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TRP attempts to teach That's the rub. I would argue, it's message is hard to find and blurred though a lot of anger and hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 11:02 PM
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There is a lack of real change from within as his self-esteem is still based on validation from others. He's still defensive and angry and now he is in a position to cause harm to any existing relationships. It takes more than that to heal the problems and lot of men who end up at TRP have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 09:12 PM
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There's a big difference between "it's not for me" and "it's wrong". Not really, one is just sugar coating the language to spare feelings. Now refusing to offer basic respect to someone who had different life choices is bigoted. But no one says we all have to agree on everything or even like each other. We judge each other all the time. needy, indecisive, emotional Right so why did that happen? As a wife she should help him though those problems and be supportive. She shouldn't let it get so bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 09:07 PM
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The metaphor being it might "work" and offer a quick fix but is ultimately destructive to the man as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 08:16 PM
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Bigot is a harsh word, I'll give you that, but the dictionary ain't too far away from you I would have to be intolerant to be a bigot. I tolerate other lifestyles just fine, doesn't mean I have to agree with them. Lots of people make choices I wouldn't agree with, but they are free to make those choices. Doesn't mean I have to like those people or accept those choices as the model society should follow. I'm used to intolerant religious assholes I guess, you don't have to be religious to be an as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 08:09 PM
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if BP is right and TRP is wrong, TRP will die by itself because the stuff doesn't work. Drugs offer a quick fix to your life problems too but are destructive at the same time. They are still around continuing to destroy lives. I guess they "work" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 04:06 PM
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How much of that happens outside the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 03:51 PM
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We all need affection and love to feel good. The problem is when we use affection from others to justify our existence. You should be able to love yourself and believe yourself worthy of love while at the same time accepting that "haters gonna hate" and not everyone will like you - and that's ok. It doesn't matter what "pill" you take, anyone can fall into this trap and many many do. Depression is a big problem in western society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 03:49 PM
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My moral judgement doesn't make be a bigot. You are confusing tolerance and acceptance. I certify do tolerate other lifestyles but in no way does that mean I have to accept them as moral or even as something that should be aspired to. I stated what agreements you have in the bedroom is your own business and refrained from a moral lecture as its not nessisary, you are an adult and can make your own choices (how objectionable they might be heh heh) I'm not going to force you to follow my morality,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 02:48 PM
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If you are starting out a new relationship based on a lie, it's already doomed. You can't have much respect for your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:14 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:12 AM
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I'm pretty sure you told me my relationship choices are immoral. In my opinion, poly relationships are immoral. But I don't personally care about you or your lifestyle. Those are your choices to make. As long as no one is hurt over it - what agreements you have in the bedroom are your business. (There's no real reason for me to go into my reasons as that would just end up being me lecturing too much about my personal morality which I don't think you or I want or need) So can I interpret your ans…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:58 AM
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It presumes powerlessness to have your needs taken seriously by ruling powers, to be cared for, or to be even basically tolerated. The only person who is ever going to care about your needs is you. That's just reality. Worse, TRP is a lot of hard work...isn't fat activism where you sit on your butt all day and beg people to take you seriously I don't know... I see a lot of butt sitting on the internet. That leads to being butt-hurt. har har. Worse, these women have to face the fact that TRP livi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 04:44 AM
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Just for fun when I'm bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 04:23 AM
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You can disagree with them, you can choose not to practice them, but they are completely possible relationship forms. Pretty sure I said that. I also said I think they breed resentment which is why I don't agree with them. I want my spouse all for me. That might be greedy but that's the deal. The idea of my spouse with someone else is repulsive. You might not like a woman with a high "n" count, I don't like poly relationships. You can tell me it's legit all you want but I'm not going to call the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 04:07 AM
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I had said they should seek solution together but if no solution can be found they should mutally agree to end it. How is that dodging the question? I don't consider ploigamy to be ethical. There isn't much else to say. It would be against my moral judgment and I would not under any circumstances enter into such an agreement. Marriage is a promise to be with one person though better or worse. A poligamous arrangement would break that promise. I think ploigamy breeds jealousy and resentment. Othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 01:46 AM
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Okay wow I think we are having two totally different conversations lol. The above comment was talking about the thread which has now gone off topic. The comment was that we were talking about divorces specifically and I said, no I was talking about dead bedrooms and you had made the assumption I was talking about divorces dispite the op brig about dead bedrooms specificlly and that's all I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 01:35 AM
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Not from my perspective I think someone made that assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 07:47 PM
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Usually an opinion is just someone stating what they think about something. It's still an ethical option I wouldn't call it ethical at all. I think it's better to find out what the problem is and can it be solved. I also don't think it's a good idea to stay together "just for the kids." People can work out arrangements where kids have access to both parents and don't have to live a hostile environment where two people don't like each other but are forced to live with each other. But I don't acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 07:45 PM
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Oh I love fan fiction!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 02:30 PM
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Irregardless if the two people are still togetherness their monogamous relationship has ended. And the point is, end it before cheating. I don't agree with piligamy personally. If people say they can make it work then good for them but I wouldn't ever do that. You can say also there are lots of them but it's still not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:46 PM
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The definition of "force" can also mean coercion. Verb: make (someone) do something against their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 04:18 AM
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We were starting from the assumption that it was a monogamous relationship as the question was posed "What is the point of a monogamous relationship?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:02 AM
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Oh, I agree then. That makes sense. Yes that would skew things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:01 AM
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No it was that dead bedrooms aren't common.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 11:59 PM
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I highly doubt it, just because there's some vocal people on reddit doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:37 PM
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Then "What is the point of a monogamous relationship" if you aren't monogamous? Have the decency to end the monogamous relationship before starting a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:36 PM
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There are lots of industries that are build on niche markets. Doesn't really mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:35 PM
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It seems like you are dismissing ED as a problem, that seems risky. Not every ED problem can be fixed with drugs. Depression can cause a loss of libido in men or women and it effects a large percentage of the population. I agree there is a stigma for women to naturally have lower libido but I don't know how true that is. BC pills have an affect of lowering libido for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:35 PM
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Sure, there are risks just like anything like going to school, or buying property, or purchasing investments, etc... You have to way it against the rewards which have been shown in studies to be more overall life happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:30 PM
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This thread creeps me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 07:03 AM
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Very good post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:46 AM
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I don't think it's as common a situation as TRP makes it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:42 AM
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It really depends on what the problem is... Physical? Chemical? Emotional? Is the the man who can't have sex or the women? Why does everyone in the thread assume it is the woman who doesn't / can't have sex? ED can easily be the cause of a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:39 AM
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Whooo hubby better hope he doesn't have bald genes. Hope he never gets into an accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:32 AM
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is defensiveness in the face of criticism. This is a big problem for everyone, I don't care if your BP or RP or whatever. If you find yourself doing this it's time to re-think your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:30 AM
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Every situation is going to be different. That's like saying one treatment is going to work for every depressed person. Of course not that's why a professional would try many different treatments. To even think that this question is answerable is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:21 AM
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"Allowed?" I hope you mean by ending the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:17 AM
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Again, if she is not feeling it, she shouldn't force herself to have pity sex. That could actually exasperate the problem making sex not fun for her but just another chore. Something she has to do just so send can make the husband stop winning and get back to doing something she would rather do than this. Now she holds feelings of resentment towards the husband for making her do something she really doesn't want to be doing. She can feel bad for him and feel empathy for the problems but forcing …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 10:21 PM
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Yep, I completely agree with you here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 10:16 PM
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If everyone got the same advice how come some people didn't need TRP? Where did the other people get the secret knowledge. Very few people actually bother to practice self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 07:57 PM
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Everyone has bad behavior. Everyone can be an asshole. Don't let others treat you badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 07:55 PM
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Except the way it is often presented in TRP is that it is the wife's duty to fulfill her husbands sexual needs irregardless of her own wants. i.e. she should be having some kind of "duty sex" to him just because she is married. Discussing it is of course the rational thing, to find the root cause of the problem. If it can't be solved and both parties are in an unhappy state then yes, they should next discuss ending the relationship. Of course, they can both feel bad for each other that these thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 07:52 PM
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You can still be empathic about it but not be able to do anything to change the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:15 PM
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She has to want it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:14 PM
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She diesnt want to have sex with him = she shoyld let him have sex with her? That is messed up logic. I believe a dead bedroom is a problem with minds not bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:11 PM
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Likely they would have left TRP by then and thus not post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:06 PM
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Are you talking about feminism? Better to ask actual women and not read blogs on the net.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 05:48 PM
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I don't think you've actually read any then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 05:46 PM
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I think women don't like TRP because it makes it like nothing they do would ever be "right" because TRP says they have no worth and have alternative motives for every action, even ones out of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 05:45 PM
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Someone please explain why beta traits are bad? Once again I thought TRP was supposed to preach a balance of alpha and beta
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 05:41 PM
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For example, Stephen Covey coined "abundance mentality" and also the concept of "Alpha" and "Beta" is from him too except he called it "courage" and "compassion." As well he also states a lot of good concepts about self respect. Except it's way better than what is presented in TRP where everything is viewed though PUA lenses. That shit doesn't actually help people be people, IMO. It ends up being shallow fixes and can lead someone on a cycle of unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 02:02 AM
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You can't force someone to love you or to do the things you want them to do. They make choices on their own. You can either trust them to stay by your side but you have no control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 01:19 AM
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So a bunch of angry people on the Internet are better than finding professional help?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 07:48 PM
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What the advice is always depends on the situation. If the man is a push over and has no self esteem and self respect thats obviously going to effect his relationships. Niceness is not the solution to every problem especially with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 07:46 PM
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TRP did not coin the phrases and notions it employs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 07:42 PM
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Power? Over another person? Don't delude yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 07:41 PM
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But again, It's other people's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 04:20 PM
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Of course and they changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 04:11 PM
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So much this. 100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 04:10 PM
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There is no controlling a relationship because ultimately you have no control over another person. That is why love makes us weak and strong at the same time. We are weak to the will of another person but strong when they respect our trust in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 04:08 PM
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Then have any TRPers reading ever actually sought out self help books, the actual source of that information? Or do they just find TRP and suddenly think they found the secret knowledge of the universe? I keep hearing, "no one ever told me" which I wonder if it really should be "I never bothered to actually seek out" as though the rest of us got handed a copy of "how to adult" and TRPers were sick that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 04:01 PM
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Oh you mean like the original sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 07:52 AM
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I don't see that as being any different or special advice. Really it's self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 07:40 AM
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Yes, very good book. One of the most popular self-help / success books. Honestly, if there was a source for "BP" advice it would probably be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 05:04 AM
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That's because TRP stole most of their advice and then badly butchered it. Alpha / beta is courage and consideration and also abundance mentality all comes from 7 habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 01:02 AM
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Be confident, courageous and considerate. Believe in your value and don't be afraid of failure. Imagine success before you start. Women don't define you, you define you. Be self aware. What you project is what others will see. If you project uncertainty, others will see it. Know what your body language projects and the effect it has on others. And if you are still unsure of how to do those things look into ways to build self esteem and confidence and ways to be a more mature and effective person…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 03:25 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 01:04 PM
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Okay that's good. You mentioned you didn't like talking to people that's why I mentioned it. I only caution people about it because I've seen it really be crippling to someone's life and it started out not that bad but got worse over time. I don't like parties either much. Unless there is cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 12:59 PM
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If you have social axiety you should do eomwtyibg about it before it gets worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 05:43 AM
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Are guys willing to sleep with her or not? Doesn't matter about commitment when we are talking "SMV"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 10:15 PM
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The chads will throw a bone to low quality woman...This disproportionately inflates the special snowflakes perceived SMV How can their SMV be low if people are still sleeping with them? I don't understand this concept. This "low SMV" woman still gets men, the "low SMV" man gets 0 women. How is it "disproportionately inflated" if she still gets "Chads?" She is not "low SMV" but the other guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 08:06 PM
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gross pimply faced neckbeards Wow sterotype much? And no I'm not talking about "frogger" or candy crush...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 03:19 PM
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why would women wanna engage with gamers or be part of that community? Because playing games is fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:19 AM
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It's pretty rude to ask such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:15 AM
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gives low-SMV women an inflated sense of their SMV with so many men hitting on them, Sounds like their value ain't that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:07 AM
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um.. no? That's the point. Don't give in to others so much that you sacrifice your own values, needs, and dreams. Being assertive is important for men and women. Compromise is good but not to the point where you feel resentment over it. Think win-win not lose-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 04:33 AM
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Submission is letting someone else control you. Letting, so you have to give up the control of yourself. Self sacrifice is not submission Can we say the opposite is true? Submission is self-sacrifice? thinking of the above statement. If you are giving of yourself (control for example) to allow someone else to gain then that's both submissive and sacrificial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 04:26 AM
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soooooo offensive to you and must be some threat to destroy you. 0_o
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 04:21 AM
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That makes it sound like the reason women have it so easy is because men have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 01:24 AM
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If you all agree that everyone lies all the time, how can you hold true to one belief or another? Neither would ever be prove-able.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 11:04 PM
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whoo.. Imma cry now, you so badass
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 10:53 PM
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Now, this thread is circular... It's difficult to see your point when all you do is speak in extremes. How about you leave the extremes our of your language and then no one has to interpret your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:02 PM
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There is a middle ground there you know. speaking in extremes helps no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:50 PM
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Because they are often not assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:47 PM
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if I'm offering to do random little stuff, I want him to offer the same. That sounds like one of those "covert contracts"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:45 PM
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why you-go-girl feminists like to get choked and fucked. All you've done is go from one extreme to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:42 PM
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we still treat men who are overly nice, or even submissive, like trash specifically because they are men. Now this might be controversial but I would like to ask: Does society treat those men poorly, not because they are men, but because those men allow themselves to be treated poorly? When women are submissive, not only is it seen as a form of devotion, altruism and healthy behavior but it is also viewed as something worth protecting and defending. It is not (worth protecting and defending). An…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:38 PM
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My point is that you always have to scrutinize a statistical source. The poster who presented some counter stats took them from a source that even questioned it's own results because the source was only collage aged women in a particular area. It's difficult to say if that can be applied to a general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:30 PM
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12 million americans believe that lizard people run the country and there is at least a better than 0% chance that it's true :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 02:43 PM
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There are three kinds of lies: Lies, damned lies, and statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 02:36 PM
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Stats can be found to support any position.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:28 AM
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Pretty sure I said that in the last sentence...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 02:45 AM
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I don't think the blue sub is there for anyone's value except the entertainment of it's members. Pretty much every self help book out there is non-TRP. I was mentioning in another thread how much TRP has stolen from 7Habbits. I really strongly suggest people start with that book. Also there is /r/DecidingToBeBetter/ but it's not necessarily directly related to dating. But then again, I've always said, be a good strong person and you'll find more attention from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 02:37 AM
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Men who are victims of domestic violence dont report it to the police Yes, I do think this is a larger problem than people realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 02:31 AM
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85% of domestic violence victims are women. (Bureau of Justice Statistics Crime Data Brief, Intimate Partner Violence, 1993-2001, February 2003). 1 in 12 women and 1 in 45 men have been stalked in their lifetime. (Tjaden, Patricia & Thoennes, Nancy. (1998). “Stalking in America.” National Institute for Justice) Women accounted for 85% of the victims of intimate partner violence, men for approximately 15%. (Bureau of Justice Statistics Crime Data Brief, Intimate Partner Violence, 1993-2001, Febru…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:52 PM
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Okay that makes more sense now. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:36 PM
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You're title conflicts with what the evidence says. lesbian women are more likely to be abused than heterosexual women Just means that the rate of abuse for women is higher in lesbians than in men in general. It does not mean that "women are more abusive than men" because in heterosexual relationships only men are more likely to be the abuser (sorry guys, it's just statistics). The article states, "Violence appears to be about as common among lesbian couples as among heterosexual couples" but wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:30 PM
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..Alpha != rapist..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 07:31 PM
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Maybe its an issue with interpretation? I think it is an issue with the actual sub itself and anyone reading it from the surface and from a point of view where they are already assertive can often interpret it as telling people to be dominant. I think the TRP journey is suppose to take a man to eventual assertiveness but someone from the point of view of low confidence / courage / assertiveness will have a hard time trying to adjust to "assertive enough" in part I think the point is for him to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 07:10 PM
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You're not supposed to become a douche nozzle (lol @ douche nozzle) but a well rounded person. The problem I have with TRP is this externalizing the problems and solutions. Oh it's all women's fault, or all men's fault if you're a woman, or all society's fault. No, it's not. It's our own. How we are is how we have shaped ourselves. However our paths have lead us we are here now at this point and realizing the problems. But by externalizing the problems it frees us from responsibility of change. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 06:53 PM
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personally I feel like much LESS of a misogynist after finding the RP That is not really surprising. At least RP is supposed to tell you that assertiveness = good and having self respect and pride is good. I'm not sure what exactly goes wrong but it seems that a lot of guys who end up on TRP are there because they believed that they needed to be submissive or else naturally fell into a submissive type behavior (not necessarily a completely submissive personality) because they lacked self confide…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 06:18 PM
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I thought the whole original point of TRP is that you are supposed to be Alpha when needed and Beta when needed. It's all supposed to depend on the situation. If you are in an LTR and have no "Beta" traits you will soon find yourself alone. If you are Alpha all the time you will have a hard time finding anything beyond ONS with women not interested in you as a person. When did the TRP community twist it up to mean Beta = Bad / Alpha = good? Too much of either is supposed to be the "bad." To me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 04:38 PM
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I think you are misinterpreting this value statement. I dont think it means that women have no value in society in general or that they have no value in the workforce or even that their husbands or lovers don't value them. Its specifically about relationship value to a specific man. I could word it this way too: If a woman is happily married then all other men have no value to her romantically or sexually. Or you think of it like this: a person would hope they only marry once, if that is the cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 10:23 AM
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Hey now, she has to bring the food from the kitchen to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 10:04 AM
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What do you mean by feminized society?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 10:01 AM
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That's like arguing to legalize theft or murder. Such a thing infringes on individual rights of property. But you could argue about legalizing prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 09:58 AM
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The hope is that therapy will help you with your depression and possibly axiety or self esteem issues. Your love life may have to wait until you have other aspects of yourself in order first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:31 AM
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engineers, computer programmers, construction workers Those are pretty high paying jobs, wouldn't they be prime "beta bucks" and thus attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 04:14 AM
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I don't have to go beyond my own circle to know that lots of women stay with their husbands through depression, unemployment, mental illness, physical disablities, etc... This is the kicker, yes, you risk having a loveless marriage or a marriage to a gold digger.. it can happen. But this is why you date someone and spend time with them to find out if they are the person who will stay by you regardless of the situation or wants you for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:18 AM
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People don't get jealous over ex's if they have no success/relationship/marriage after they leave you. Oh so only jealously hurts? Losing a love is not important? they're married in less than six months. They are more attractive and successful over the short term Again, that logic makes no sense. A man could likley go and re-marry pretty easy, has nothing to do with his attraction level. And if the woman took 5 years to recover from the break up then she's probably not even looking for a partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:06 AM
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If a person leaves you and then goes on to be alone for the rest of their life - you're not going to be sad to see them go. That... doesn't make sense... Why were you with them in the first place? You would only be sad if they left you and THEN dated someone else? No one likes being rejected, or realizing that they are (at least for a while) the less attractive person of the pair. That doesn't mean they were the less attractive, it probably means they had more feeling invested in the relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 06:30 PM
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it is only the mere fact that he has options and could leave Anyone could leave a relationship at anytime regardless of how attractive they are (or how much you think they are to others). Everyone always has some option of leaving. If you are feeling, "Dread" over your SO leaving then you don't have much faith in your relationship. It's a complement and an achievement, Regardless of how many "options" you SO has or had, it's still a complement and an achievement to be loved by them. There is onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 06:05 PM
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I disagree, if you think your SO will leave you just because they are attractive then you haven't much faith in them or yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 05:09 PM
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Naturally masculine men are RP, they just don't know it. I disagree, not only is the definition of "blue pill" anyone who doesn't know or use red pill, those successful men don't use tactics like dread game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 01:48 PM
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"If the pizza man truly loves the babysitter why does he keep slapping her rear?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 07:36 AM
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No, it isn't, that's the point. A woman who cares nothing for a man will have no trouble leaving him regardless. A man can get used no matter who he is. People get hurt when one of them isn't honest. If two people want a casual relationship no problem. Presumably, "Chad" only wants casual relationship and "Bob" wants an LTR. "Chad" has no problem ending relationships either. Isn't the woman you are describing just the female "Chad?" The only reason that TRP keeps telling guys to be like "Chad" i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 07:33 AM
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With Chad, she can quit him anytime she wants She can quit on anyone, anytime she wants if she is the type to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 04:44 AM
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You have yet to provide any proof that you are as "hopeless" as you claim to be other than your word. You are making an emotional plea for me to accept your argument. You dont seem able to not make your argument a personal thing. You can't be objective here. Therefore this is all about feelings and rationality has left the thread. You aren't making any kind of argument backed up with proof. At least I did provide an example of a man in a terrible situation that he managed to over come. I never c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 05:54 PM
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Stop comparing your macho levels to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 05:24 AM
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Observation of supposed trickle-down economic theories also show them flawed as the wealth gap in countries that believe in such systems has only increased to the detriment of the lower classes and arguably to the economy as a whole. How so? Can you provide some examples of what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 05:17 AM
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Treating people with kindness and respect shouldn't really depend on your political leaning, it's just common human decency. TRP doesn't teach how to treat others well. I also don't think TRP actually teaches how to be a strong man, but just how to fake it. I think that's harmful to the men and those around them. I believe in individual rights and freedoms and personal responsibility. I agree with the principles of feminism I disagree with the political actions. If women want more pay for exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 05:10 AM
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I am not left wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:44 PM
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Well, once you are finished in school very little of that will matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:44 PM
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I am not denying your feeling of hopelessness. That feeling is awful and of course it exists. But the feeling alone doesn't support the argument that you don't have the power to change your life for the better. The man in the story also had feelings of hopelessness. He also was convinced that nothing would ever change and his life would always be despair. However, he started to change things about himself, in part thanks to his recovery but also thanks to his willingness to be patient and work o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 08:58 PM
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Men and women are different. Well, a man and a woman will be different but pick 2 men and they will differ far greater than the average man and the average woman. Women sleep with high value men in their youth (they can't make them stay) and settle for a low value man in their 30ies. Eh... I've questioned the choices of women I know. Sometimes the men they get with don't seem all that "high SMV." People are stupid when they are young. What is a "high SMV" guy at 17 changes a lot by the time you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 09:51 PM
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Are you trying to argue a point that there are people who are absolutely hopeless? Or that we should "give up" on people who have a lot of problems? The problem with this argument is it requires such a thing as hopelessness to exist. I don't believe it does. I believe there is no such thing as hopelessness. So you are going to have to argue that hope and faith in people to change does not exist and as long as I have hope and faith in people then your argument will always be invalid. I find this …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 09:16 PM
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I think your pessimistic attitude is making you unattractive. If somwone has already given up then there's not much anyone could say to change their minds. Yes, life is harder for some than others. But we learn to adapt and work with what we have. You still have to convince me that doing nothing is better than doing something. At least if you take some responsibility there's a chance you will succeed. If you do nothing then there is 0 chance. I dismiss you narrative because I don't know you. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 02:39 AM
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Yeah I never saw that one yesterday, just noticed it now. oops, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 10:52 PM
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you postulate that responsibility is that magic pill Huh? How would responsibility be a "magic pill?" And how on earth did you come to the conclusion that was what I was postulating? The responsibility to change his situation or line of thought lies with him. What he changes and how might determine the success or not but obviously if he remains stagnant then so would his situation. Basically, get off your butt and start changing you life and stop running around blaming others for your problems a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 10:50 PM
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Well, it was flagged "for women"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 10:38 PM
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Okay that makes more sense then. So, it's okay that you are not perfect, yet. You can keep working on you and you don't have to hate on yourself for your faults. But you can "Go and sin no more" to use an analogy. Which means, in my context, accept and forgive that something wasn't the way you think it should have been. Think about why it wasn't or isn't, think about if your expectation was the correct one and make a change or a resolution to be better next time or adjust the expectation. But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 07:36 PM
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No, the responsibility is for willingness to change. I think that's the same meaning, IMO. You won't achieve change without the willingness to do it. No attraction from any woman? That sounds a little in the extreme if you asked me. So I don't really accept your anecdote as evidence to support you point. If you want to give up on yourself no amount of advice will help you either way. But I don't think that's a road you have to travel. To each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 07:20 PM
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So I am assuming that you are agreeing with this person's statements. I don't agree with their stated premise that having a strong ego means acceptance of the parts of you that you don't like (the example was being chubby). In my opinion that attitude is defeatist, "I'm chubby, oh well that's life, guess I'm just 'the chubby guy' now." That leads to giving up on the dream of becoming whom you want to be. I don't think that will actually make you feel any better about yourself. That isn't as the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 07:13 PM
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You can just decide this for yourself. Don't let any pill or online analysis define you or other people at all. Unplug from it all. What difference does it matter what anyone thinks or says about how you want to live your life? They aren't living it, you are. The lessons you take from TRP that you think are good can stay but challenge the rest and remove the labels. Define your own color. Start living life go talk to people and remove the expectations. Grow confidence in yourself because no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 01:02 PM
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Unfortunately I'm not sure what word you mean. Perhaps you can explain some more of what you mean? how you think people see you and how they actually see you might be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 12:45 PM
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The responsibility you have is for change. Something in your life or your mind set requires change in order to move forward. It's okay to have "fucked up" in the past. That's the past it over and gone. Look towards the future and the type of person you want to be. Do you get to meet many people? Do you have some close friends or family? How is your relationships with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 12:43 PM
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Doesn't sound like fact to me. You said yourself others think you can catch the eye of a nice looking girl. Why don't you believe that? The evidence is right there that you aren't that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 06:55 AM
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Do you really think so lowly of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 06:17 AM
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Looks early 30's to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 05:59 AM
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