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I feel that. Yeah for me the nostalgia is more for my college years as opposed to childhood/HS. It’s obvious for a lot of men on PPD they’re letting it be a huge mental barrier to their lives today They haven't processed the loss I guess. Just holding on to what could have been
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:36 PM
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Its not good game no doubt about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:25 PM
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To answer your question re what is it about that timeframe that stays in mens psyche Is this really true tho? I literally never think about high school in the way you're describing. Mostly I remember it as being painful and awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:42 PM
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From what I recall about HS, I can't remember if all of the guys were truly after "love/romance." I'm sure some were, but what the girls saw was "these dudes are reallllyyyy hype about sex" which did not compute to "love/romance" for me. I suspect the men who are pining/sad about not experiencing HS love did genuinely want that experience, and not merely sex. Even if they didn't present that way or understand it about themselves at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:30 PM
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Yes Nope 31 M It is an interesting question. I always assumed women who "missed out" on HS romance felt the same way men did, which I guess is false. I'm interested to know if most guys who "missed out" on HS romance feel the way you do. As in, they had a good experience with many friends and fun experiences, but never fell in love. Because it seems like you had the ability to find a BF, the potential to fall in love, but never found the right person or otherwise chose not to go down that road. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:41 PM
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It's basically a dead sub. We used to talk about it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:09 AM
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Some flames burn too bright 🔥😢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:11 PM
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not the best bait tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 01:09 AM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:57 PM
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by definition a 7.5 isn't ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:17 PM
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Basically this yeah. Most guys will have so much more success socializing IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:16 PM
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lol no and tbh you don't even think that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:05 PM
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Agree, OP is coming at this from a really bizarre and overly "online" POV
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:03 PM
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This post would be much stronger if you weren't mixing unrelated concepts together. Being good at sex is mostly about being comfortable with yourself, not being a total autist/understanding body language, having a reasonable degree of physical coordination, and some degree of creativity/imagination. Being good at sex is not about letting guys degrade you, weirdly oversharing about sex, etc. Anyone can do that shit, and I agree that no one is picking a gf or wife based on those traits. Having got…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:59 PM
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lmao I was about to say
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:37 PM
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no, i love dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 12:07 AM
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sounds like a good boi
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:05 PM
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awwww ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:32 PM
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It was an amoral pursuit of truth, with the goal of successful sexual strategy. That is radically different from FDS, which is just women deluding themselves into thinking that they deserve a man out of their league. It's hard to have this debate with you because I fundamentally don't agree with this premise. Both FDS and TRP purport to give users/readers a successful dating strategy as well as a window into the essential nature of the opposite sex. The idea that TRP only was this search for "tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:31 PM
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a woman waiting for incels in any capacity. maybe there's hope for them after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:14 PM
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/u/goatismycopilot the only true HVW in this thread 🐶🐶
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:12 PM
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One is an amoral search for truth, centered around self improvement, and the other is a circlejerk. Dude I'm sorry but you are kidding yourself if you think /r/TheRedPill isn't a circlejerk. Just because the guys over there write longer screeds doesn't mean it's not incredibly masturbatory. Have you ever interacted with people from that sub? They all compete to get those gay "Endorsed Contributor," "Senior Endorsed Contributor" flairs, and spend time to be "alpha" on the internet. Ok so with tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:10 PM
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i feel you, but the alternative is being invisible. not really so clear cut
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:26 PM
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lmao that FDS has significant overlap with /r/datingoverthirty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:07 PM
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I think the algorithm is relative to the average upvotes posts get on a sub. But yeah lol kinda crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:49 AM
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These are such bad arguments. You have to meet IRL to know there's chemistry and that it's not a catfish situation. You need to see them, be in their physical presence, etc etc. Also every guy I know that is married and treats his wife well says he knew she was the one from very early on usually after one meeting some men have even known this from looking at a picture! lololol "watch what men do not what they say unless it support my cope/LARP/belief in which case let's def trust what men say."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:25 PM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:22 PM
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Literally never. Every time I've hooked up with someone unattractive it's because I'm insanely drunk and have no idea what's going on. But I've distracted/flirted with the less attractive girl for a friend many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:33 PM
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so?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:53 PM
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Yeah it is. 6-7 years ago "incel culture" was not a thing like it is now. It was still "lookism" at that time, and very much still a nascent phenomena which existed in reaction to PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:12 PM
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TRP's obsessionwith lifting is cringy, delusional and borderline autistic. Fixed this for you OP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:01 PM
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There were examples of failure at that time. But "incel" as a concept and a culture didn't exist in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:57 PM
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OP what does "struggling" mean to you? Can't get a girlfriend? Can't get married? Unhappy in your relationship? My gut reaction is that a lot more average guys are struggling today, but I'm not 100% sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:53 PM
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Yeah that's a good idea. Also I always meant to go in and archive the posts in case they get deleted by the creator but never got around to it. But seriously you should just do a nomination thread or otherwise start adding some more recent stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:49 PM
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Depends on the month, but probably $100-300 net That's mostly free drugs and occasionally me treating when we go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:45 PM
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awwwww 😇🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:34 PM
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honestly you should start updating it. there is good content here, it's just that so often it's hard to find or gets buried.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:13 PM
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Agree that lower tier men are bitter they don't have access to af/bb. Disagree that it's the ideal strategy for everyone. Some people just never get into sleeping around/attention whoring/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:09 PM
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idk about totally safe, but I've felt pretty safe. There's a way you can be vulnerable and maintain attraction IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:05 PM
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it for sure is. successful one though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:15 PM
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hoes mad (x24)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:14 PM
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welcome to PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:16 AM
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No prob! I'm glad to hear you are working on yourself, and also not falling into the trap of "if I become a high-maintenance bitch men will love/accept me/treat me right." Relationships are much more complicated than that IME. For men and women, if you've been on the "losing" end of relationships where you feel disrespected and taken advantage of, it's easy to think the secret is to just switch sides and become the one who takes advantage. But all that happens is you just end up attracting doorm…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:07 AM
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Yeah basically I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:30 PM
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😢😢😢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:24 PM
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Ok so for example, I was drawn to my most recent ex-gf on 2 levels I think. The first was because she was hot, charismatic, and fun to be around. We had great banter/chemistry. But, it was also because I had a very close but super dysfunctional relationship with my mom. And I unconsciously selected women where I could replay the dynamics/issues from my childhood in an attempt to heal them. So yeah challenge was an aspect of it. But I treat my current gf much better than my ex. Even though she's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:22 PM
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Sure, it's not a universal law. That's not what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:51 PM
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all women you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:26 PM
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I’m saying they’re not necessarily looking for marriage material at 20. I agree with this. I certainly wasn't at the time. And frankly even had I been looking for marriage material, I would not have been able to identify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:22 PM
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I don't think it's the only reason. A part of the reason guys chase crazy/hot girls is because the highs and lows are fun, and the idea of "turning a hoe into a housewife" is so addicting, even tho obviously it's unrealistic. Having said that, I do agree that it's a part of it. My gf now is much more the "good girl" archetype than my past 2 gfs, and true to your observation she was very hard to get to know. I thought she disliked me at first b/c she was so standoffish. In reality she was just ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:20 PM
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Yeah, like all these issues it's a problem of mapping concepts to reality. In some areas AF/BB can be mapped onto men, but in other areas it doesn't really fit. Mostly b/c most men today simply do not have the social and sexual capital to sleep around/date around/explore sexually when young. Whereas many women do, even if they choose not to exercise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:14 PM
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I mean idk exactly what you mean by female brained. So I guess it could be that. It's just a common human dynamic that's even more of a thing online IME. People overcompensate for their insecurities/try to push an identity that's like an idealized version of themselves. Like when guys here describe themselves as "chads."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:05 PM
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This is a good point to bear in mind. And I would add that in internet forum culture in general, if someone is always hyping-up some aspect of their life online, you can almost always be sure it's not as good as they say. Probably it's an area of intense insecurity. It's like, who are they trying to convince...?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:44 PM
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If they're attractive then yeah def. Otherwise idk but hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:23 PM
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I feel like this is applicable to me and I dont like it' Yeah man I had a similar realization awhile back. Was able to get over it, but it took a lot of time/work. do you know in which episode she talked about this? im curious Pretty sure it was in 2019 but can't recall the exact episode. That theme comes up on the pod a lot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:23 PM
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Dude idk. I lived in Texas for about 18 years, and was friends with tons of normies. In Dallas particularly, the scene is shockingly "normie." And the guys I knew (and me too at the time), all chased BPD party girls, instathots, strippers, etc., even though "good girls" were readily available.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:00 PM
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Great post OP. What I would want to add to this discussion is to push back on the idea that most men are genuinely looking for good girls. IME guys say they want a good girl, but in reality, to quote Anna from Red Scare, "men want to be tortured by chaotic whores."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:11 PM
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I love you I think you meant to write this to me. Please delete this and repost it in the appropriate place. I'll be monitoring the situation until you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:56 AM
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look bears are so cute they wouldn't hurt anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:54 AM
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Back when we let people be mauled by bears for amusement wait did this actually happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:40 AM
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This post is absolutely gonna get axed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:39 AM
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💖
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:37 AM
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I believe in you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:32 AM
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So we are less than a week away from a new year! I thought we could start a thread on goals we are hoping to accomplish next year Mine are Finish my degree and get accepted into an applied mathematics masters program Place a house deposit down Read a book a month Take my hobby seriously and work on my paintings at least once a week Lose 5kg I’ve learnt that setting achievable goals is a lot more motivating and sustainable than some of the crazy high goals I’ve set in previous years and keeping m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:28 AM
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"insects, rodents, small creatures, seafood" oof 😰😰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:14 AM
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No, not at all. I've been doing therapy for a long time/have a real therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:38 AM
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Yeah I would sometimes, and would also let girls sleep over
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:16 AM
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Now, women use height to imagine how a man will make them feel when looking at pictures and a flat profile on a dating site. Great comment. The height issue and OLD make so much more sense in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:42 PM
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Dude yes. Not only a bad argument he couldn't defend, but also transparently masturbatory
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:52 PM
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go off king
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:12 PM
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Before I begin; yes I know that rape and murder is bad...whether you like it or not, rape and murder are a part of nature and always should be considered whenever nature is evoked in a conversation. lmao im sure this will be a reasonable take
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:46 PM
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I've said this over and over, but but basically "high value" is a meaningless term. High-value people are people who are valued highly by others IRL. That's it. The reason why this always comes up on PPD is that TRP, FDS, etc. try to work backwards. Rather than observing social value as a phenomena, and building a definition from there, they start with a definition that fits into their ideological framework. Then, they use that definition to try to disqualify those not following their system as …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:42 PM
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never stop posting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:57 AM
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It really depends on your location IME. In Texas I never saw it on dating apps. But in SF and Chicago I saw it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:51 PM
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such a betrayal 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 07:39 PM
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i mean yeah basically thats true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:51 PM
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I recognize that I am one of the few fortunate ones on the board. My husband does not watch porn. Though before we got together he did. A lot. I still wonder sometimes if hes ever wished I looked like that... but hes never made me feel like he does so I chalk that up to "i need therapy" and move on. I recognize that this is what this board is for, but I didnt know where to post to find someone who might understand. I want to talk about graphic sex scenes and nudity on television. He very much en…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:47 PM
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looks pretty cool tbh might go
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:44 PM
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happy new year fam!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:34 PM
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2020 is going to be the highest year number in history so far, no other president achieved that. Or did we have 2020 under Obama? Under Bush? Absolutely not. America fell so far behind the rest of the world under Obama that they already have 2020 in New Zealand and Australia - and Australia is literally on fire but their year number still exceeded ours! Putin just announced it's already 2020 in Vladivostok, and we, world's largest economy, with the biggest number of jobs and most powerful milita…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:33 PM
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🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:32 PM
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im masturbating rn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:29 PM
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/u/TheOGJammies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:27 PM
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First off, I’m not gay. Never been attracted to a man. I mean, I can acknowledge when a man is handsome, but in no way am I sexually attracted to men. But it seems like every time I hit the rock, I end up with this disturbing, overwhelming desire to have a dick up my ass. I don’t understand it for the life of me. When I am sober, the idea of getting a dick up my ass is, honestly (and I’m not trying to be offensive here) disgusting. But when I’m high on crack, I’ll be jacking off so hard it’s ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:24 PM
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Wow. You may not be a troll but you are definitely looking to be hanging out under the bridge. Are you attempting to learn how to insult effectively? Seeing as how we are both reddit newborns with obviously different levels of maturity, I would be honored if you would continue to educate me on the emergent teenage traits that have arisen in recent ears. It is common practice, due to anonymity, for you (and your peers) to behave so arrogant and intolerantly? Did you just randomly choose five word…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:22 PM
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Honestly girl, work 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:21 PM
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incredible post 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:47 PM
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I will, the similarities are super interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:42 PM
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Once you ignore all of the differences, they are the same? lmao who is saying this? Such a bad faith interpretation. How "different" or "similar" things are is a matter of perspective, and also of what specific aspects are being compared. It does not follow from the fact that one forum allows memes and another does not that no essential comparison can be made. Or that no comparison of constituent parts of the forums can be compared (goals, userbase, etc.). As evidence for the above, there are pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:34 PM
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Yeah FDS has more memes, but that's a really cosmetic difference. Both subs are full of the same type of low-value, larping, codependents trying to become the kind of people who previously hurt them. And FDS is actively modeled on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:15 PM
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Why would I want to have sex with a bunch of random dudes??? Can you quote where I said this? Then you argue that we will be alone with birds as a result of not riding the cock carousel?? Yes, I literally think everyone on FDS will end up with birds b/c they didn't have enough random NSA sex. Peak reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:15 AM
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FDS- 👩‍💻👩‍🏫🥂🧑‍🚀👨‍🚒🤵🚫💸🙅‍♀️🤦‍♀️😒🙍‍♀️🥺😢👵🐦🦆😭 Normal girl- 👱‍♀️🤳🧖‍♀️💅💃🥂🤴👨‍🎨🧑‍🚀😎🥰🥳💆‍♀️👨‍👩‍👧‍👦🐶🐱❤️🇺🇸 lol ok i tried btw the fds girl grows old alone with birds not cats because fds girls are total bird people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:16 AM
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would it help if edited my comment to add hundreds of emojis?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:40 PM
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She isn't trying to be one of 8 dates your going out on this month. She wants to be the one woman you are pursuing, at least pursuing seriously enough to be taking on real dates. I hear you LKF, but here's where I would CMV. In the USA, in urban areas, dating has become a total numbers game due to OLD. In order to meet someone you really click with, you need to go on a lot of dates with a lot of people. "Rules" about needing to be taken on real dates only, never paying, waiting 90 days for sex, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:22 PM
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I mean again this doesn’t prove anything. It’s ok tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:34 PM
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In fairness tho, we can’t tell what those girls look like, or if they have feminine personalities, or what your relationship with them is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:16 PM
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let me know how your carefree relationships with hot, feminine, emotionally stable women are going 😂😉
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:22 PM
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it's true man. someone who can't frustrate you can't satisfy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:19 AM
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Yeah that's probably a part of it. Also likely that you hating it in turn makes you less successful. Hard to be good at something you hate doing. But either way, if women acting like gay men didn't lead to complete social collapse/reorganization, you wouldn't be happier in that SMP. It's a soul crushing meat market.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:18 AM
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No. It's easy as a guy to think "oh if I could just get laid all the time I'd be happy" but it doesn't work like that. I know tons of gay guys, and the hyper-abundance of sex messes with your head. There's no conquest. You don't have to try, and as a result it often loses all meaning. The craziness, the emotionality, the difficulties that often comes with dating/seducing women is what makes it satisfying. Yes it can be insanely frustrating, but if you take all that away, you lose the satisfactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:07 AM
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Older: me 26 her 48 Younger: me 25 her 19 But only ever seriously dated girls my age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 06:54 AM
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reported for weaponizing christmas 😤🎄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 08:52 PM
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Ok but your comment is hyperbole. I didn't say that. Idk where you live, but in the US cities, the overwhelming majority of young women either: Uses social media Regularly Has a Tinder account not used primarily for finding hookups/ONS Listens to true crime podcasts And there's nothing wrong with any of the above tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 09:37 PM
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lmao if you're a single guy and rule out dating any women that either use tinder, use insta, or are into true crime...you're gonna be single for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 09:27 PM
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congrats!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 09:20 PM
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I've heard good things. Have considered listening since I liked her book
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:33 AM
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The problem with marriage counseling is that most people doing it need like 5 years of individual therapy first. Also there's an alright Showtime show called Couples Therapy. They film real couples doing therapy and it's pretty interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:46 PM
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honestly im into it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:31 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:30 PM
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absolutely this is like peak PPD and its amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:03 PM
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It's so hard to respond to this b/c all the terms and concepts are totally jumbled. You seem to be saying that players can't be high value, and also that chad's can't be low value, and so therefore chads can't be fuckboys or players? Look, I get that dealing with idiots, losers, etc. is annoying. I mean that's basically the general public at this point. But y'all really are not conceptualizing this whole issue well at all. It would be much more compelling to just vent your anger at men without t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:02 PM
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I don't think you really "get" relationships, seduction, love, etc. People don't fall in love b/c of a utilitarian calculus "this person will bring x or y net value into my life." And falling in love and building a life together is what it's about. That's what people want. In terms of my own life, I bring "value" in a number of areas. And to some extent that "value" has attracted the various women I've dated. But we stayed together due to a mutual feeling of connection, and a desire to explore i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:50 PM
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Alright so it's a sort of Bentham-esque utilitarian calculus. I get that, but if that's the case it's not appropriate to generalize in the way you are. You have to be more empirical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:32 PM
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r/femaledatingstrategy want nice husbands whom they can have stable marriages with, there seems to be nothing zero sum about this. FDS pretty clearly is about giving the woman the advantage/"hand" in a relationship. Since it's for women, that makes sense, but let's not kid ourselves that it aims at fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:47 PM
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But if it's all about if a man can bring "actual value" into your life, can't we say that all men have some value? Most men have some disposable income, time to dedicate, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:39 PM
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So you're now admitting such a man is in fact high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:36 PM
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This is such BS. Dating super rich/generous player would tons of value to your life, FDS would say he’s not high value because his promiscuity. Also the formulation doesn’t really work, because I can def imagine low worth men still adding some value to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:50 PM
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Has it though? A few men like kings and pharaohs maybe, but not the overall male population
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:56 AM
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Imagine thinking there’s enough rich gay/bi men paying for sex to support a vast economy for male prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:54 AM
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There's no demand for it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:09 AM
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too few of them tho. and they can easily get NSA sex for free on grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:09 AM
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men don't become strong when women set low standards of masculinity for them. This is wrong. Contact with women does not make men masculine. Contact and camaraderie with other men, especially older/more masculine men, does. If women started demanding more stronger, more masculine men (and actually I think many are), most guys would have no idea how to do it. There's few to no masculine male role models left to emulate and learn from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:48 AM
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I studied in the UK for a bit. lol it works there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:39 AM
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First of all, I'm sure you there's plenty of hope for you to have a relationship. The issue with your post though OP, is that while you could make the argument that your system is more honest, societies do not function via transparency. For example, in the USA, if we were more honest and transparent that our "rags to riches" narrative is total BS, the social fabric of our society would be pushed to its limits. But beyond that, most people don't want to live in a poly society. You can already hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:34 AM
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This post is a perfect example of incel content IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:24 AM
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larpers on FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:18 AM
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we truly do live in a society 😯🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:16 AM
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ok yeah, i will stan for flan
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:14 AM
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Agree the perimeter is the place to be. Although even there you have to be careful. So many seed oils in everything now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:14 AM
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I'll say this. It's absolutely not an accident that no successful civilizations have done what you are proposing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:58 PM
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I know they're incredibly late. Especially given that they are mostly copying elements of TRP's forum. What took them so long? They aren't even doing anything new.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:49 PM
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Dude yes i’ve had the same thought. it’s crazy. you can really tell with old-timey desserts like angel food cake or fruitcake. back then it was a treat. today, you can walk into any convenience store and get something 100x better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:43 PM
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look around you. if you can’t see it, nothing i say here is gonna convince you. like lmao do you remember the food pyramid? pure food industry propaganda designed to trick you into eating huge amounts of hyper calorie dense grains.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:40 PM
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go off king 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:13 PM
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Male, a couple weeks ago in Rome. Tbh I have never received as much sexual attention as I did there. Being foreign is life on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:07 PM
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Strongly agree on manipulating low value, unassertive guys. That what it seems like FDS is all about. I imagine that for a certain kind of chick, who's super codependent, weak, and used to getting used by below average players, FDS might help her be more assertive and not get used. And yeah the idea that to be high value you have to wait months and months for sex...lmao ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:03 PM
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I used to live in a city known for its gold diggers, and even those chicks wouldn't wait 3 months. They understood they needed to get the guy hooked on sex and attention from them in a somewhat reasonable timeframe, otherwise another girl would swoop in,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:00 PM
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Most food in the USA is engineered by huge teams of scientists to be overeaten. It's literally designed to hijack your biology to make you crave more of it than you need. This is a fact, it's not debatable. It's not like there's been some crazy national collapse in willpower since the 19th century. What's changed is people's lifestyle's and the availability of calorie dense, super stimulus food.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:37 AM
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They will wait for the right woman, they will pay for everything for the right woman. Desperation doesn’t attract HVWs and she will pass them over, and desperation means weakness. I don't agree with this. It's a fantasy. But with that said, I'm sure that aspects of FDS are helpful to many women. Similar to TRP, it seems to help recovering co-dependents protect themselves against emotionally abusive relationships with narcissists. I don't doubt that internalizing the FDS mindset helps codependent…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:36 PM
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Awhile back I had this exact same argument with RedPillSchool. He was playing the same semantic/rhetorical game you are, but in reverse, arguing that married men could not be "high value" by definition. I will make the same point to you that I did to him. You can call whoever you want "high value." Go right ahead. But "value", much like meaning, is something we encounter in the world. It has a kind of reality that can't be either defined out of or in to being. You're essentially redefining "HVM"…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:06 PM
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Dude we both know that men will fuck anything. This isn't going to work. Better solution would be taking on the giant corporations who have spent a fortune tricking people into over-eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:31 PM
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Absolutely crazy take. "High value" isn't some abstraction you can apply to whoever. Men that are valued or desired highly by others are "high value." Sometimes (arguably often), this includes fuckboys, assholes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:17 PM
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Exactly. Modern urban dating is such a numbers game. Without enough volume it's so hard to meet the right person. This particular FDS strategy does not make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:25 PM
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The "wait 3 months" thing from FDS is such a LARP. No one is waiting that long. Maybe some evangelical Christians for religious reasons, but otherwise yeah no one. I wouldn't wait that long for a hookup, fwb, gf, anyone. And tbh I don't know any women who want to wait that long either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:19 PM
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Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:48 PM
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i feel ya. tbh it was necessary. someone had to maintain the balance against the indian incel hordes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:48 PM
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But once again, the term is deployed offensively all the time. which negates the claim that it's only used in response to an attack by others. For example, I have seen FDS refer to all of RPW as "pick me's" in threads where no RPW or remotely similar points of view are present. That's not responding to being put down, it's putting others down whiles simultaneously playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:53 PM
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Maybe at the absolute genesis of anti-pick me that was true, idk. But it’s moved well beyond that, and the OP offers a compelling reason why. And I think the evidence that it’s not merely a defense against women attacking other women is that it’s used offensively all the time. And I mean look at this thread. All the “challenging” top level comments are just doubling down on the shaming these women. Pick me’s are annoying, they’re low value women who attack others, etc. All that does is reinforce…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:08 PM
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team us wholesomePPD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:47 PM
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No because the OP isnt shaming women who put down “pick me’s” All it does is describe the social function of pick me shaming, and place it within a broader context and structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:37 PM
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Ahh lol yeah I mean I def understood you were wacking along with the rest. Hence my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:34 PM
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Tbf tho guys shame “white knights” to maintain the attention economy/cartel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:26 PM
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A “pick me” you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:20 PM
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Gotcha gotcha. I guess what I’m responding to (and it’s really in many top level comments in the whole thread) is that many women are challenging the OP by doubling down on shaming “pick me’s.” We can’t totally rule out that maybe they are just that annoying, but doesn’t responding with even more shaming basically reinforce the argument in the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:12 PM
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not a particularly big team on PPD sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:08 PM
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But “pick me shaming” is also putting down other women in an attempt to differentiate oneself in a superior way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:02 PM
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I don’t think Atlas is denying your lived experiences. She’s describing a social structure, and content shift within that structure which transcends the individual experience and it’s attendant rationalizations. Girls made much the same arguments/observations about “sluts” back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:58 PM
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lol yeah you are 100% right on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:48 PM
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I remember the days when she was more team man. But the incels and sanctimonious redpillers drove her to switch sides 😤😢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:46 PM
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Disagree. Men are terrible at assessing their own attractiveness, and the attractiveness of other men. Virtually all men would rate themselves a 1, and then would assume they don't need to do anything else. With the 1-10 scale, at least they can view themselves as a 5-6, allowing to see there's room for improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:04 PM
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Interesting connections it's def true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 12:19 AM
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Yeah I agree. I think women are being honest when they talk about charisma, personality, etc. being a big factor. And those traits do matter. But in my experience women also have a tendency to project those qualities onto men they are physically into. They imagine that they guy is more mysterious, interesting, dangerous, vulnerable, artistic, whatever than he really is. And then they backwards rationalize that it was the projected psychological traits they were into from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 09:46 PM
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The problem with your argument is that you could deploy it to invalidate literally any advice. The level of broadness renders it meaningless. It's a truism. Any solution to a problem starts as potential only. Failure is always possible. That doesn't mean trying an option with a relatively higher chance at success is somehow "blue pilled" or otherwise delusional. And I absolutely guarantee that telling men to "get ripped" has a higher chance of success than telling them to "be nice," which if any…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:52 PM
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I'm not interested in how to be a girl 101 lol Yup only a certain type of chick is going to be drawn to this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:39 PM
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IME that's less common, but I'm glad it is working for you both!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:36 PM
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lol as i’ve said elsewhere in the thread, i am young man who has posted pics in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:28 AM
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dude i've posted pics on the sub. my "smv" is fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:17 AM
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Or what you ARE ? lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:17 AM
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fam men are getting triggered left and right in this thread. you among them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:08 AM
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why are men so triggered by this obvious truth??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 11:35 PM
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Oh ok gotcha. That makes sense. Tbh I wish was an Australian living in the US that accent would make meeting girls here so easy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 09:32 PM
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lmao you need to get out more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 08:49 PM
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Idk...I did post some pics, and have longish, blonde, surfer-y hair which maybe reads as Australian. Did the person you're thinking of explicitly say they are an aussie? If so it's not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 08:49 PM
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What makes you think i'm Australian? I couldn't live with all those crazy insects.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:35 PM
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To some extent probably. It's def worse now that we're so deep in neolib/radlib capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:33 PM
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When I was a bit younger (24, 25) I had several older FWBs. Fitness/nutrition and cosmetic/ technology are so good now that attractive women who make an effort look really good well in their late 30s/40s. Unlike younger chicks there's so much less BS. We would both know exactly what it was about, and that it would eventually end once either of met an age appropriate person. And women at that age are usually either into the idea of hooking up with someone younger, or they aren't at all. Very effi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:40 PM
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Yeah lol i was gonna say. For a short-term thing, attractive older woman and younger man is idea tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:35 PM
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People hate it for the same reason people hated the TRP IMO. It's not fun to read a bunch of devaluing and derogatory stuff about your gender. Why men expose themselves to it deliberately? That idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:33 PM
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Seriously though. It's like a sexual arms race. The spread of RP ideas and tactics has shifted the balance of power somewhat, and women are responding in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:31 PM
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um this take is 100% irony free
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:44 AM
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got em
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:12 AM
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Being an active commenter on /r/MensLib
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:15 PM
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Gotcha gotcha. Yeah, it does seem like women need more foreplay than men. But that cliche misses the point somewhat. IME, what's often missing for women in sexual encounters is emotionality or a kind of underlying psycho-sexual narrative. It's why make-up or break-up sex is usually so good. It's so raw and emotionally charged. And there's a kind of story around it. So yeah I think all kinds of physical foreplay can be fun or just necessary for some people. But I've honestly found psychological f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 09:08 PM
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Basically everyone is into foreplay to some degree. If there's an issue around it, usually it's because a couple has different preferences in terms of "how much" and "what kind". People can also have different comfort levels around experimentation. Out of curiosity, what's motivating this question? I feel like most sexually active people are aware of this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:48 PM
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Become a Pema Chödrön-tier Buddhist monk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:20 PM
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Lmao that sounds about right. The colonization never ends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:47 PM
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Detroit, it's a techno festival there, but it's really all about the afterparties. I would send the lineup but they haven't announced it for 2020 yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:44 PM
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If you ever get a chance come to Movement one year. I think you'd be into a lot of Detroit techno stuff that's going on now. A lot of it sort of manages to be dance/party music and like heavy/hardcore electronica at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:18 PM
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Dude yes. If too many normie straight women start showing up eventually it ruins the party. It's so weird to see women on PPD basically bragging about doing that, b/c gay guys are not into it lol. When it reaches that point the real gay party almost always moves elsewhere. I think alt-dance girls and other scene people are usually don't degrade the vibe in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:15 PM
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Yeah lol I mean going to gay clubs or gay parties is a thing. Just only a small group of straight people do so on a regular basis. And then a lot of the underground dance/party scene is sort of vaguely/inherently gay, b/c gay guys party the most and you need them to get a regular party going.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:09 PM
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Yeah lol. Are you in the USA? When I was visiting Pittsburgh a friend took me to Hot Mass, which used to be an exclusively gay weekly party that got huge/famous b/c of the quality of the DJ's they booked. It survived by making one night a month informally "gay af." Like so gay that any straight person would just immediately leave rather than be forced into the giant gay pseudo-orgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:06 PM
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No it's good advice as long as the recipient understands people (bluepill people normally don't i admit). The essence of the seduction process is the same for everyone. If you get basic psychodynamics then you'll see that what works on one gender also works on the other. It boils down to 2 principles I think. One is, as Freud said, the idea that people are fundamentally ambivalent. Or in other words, at the unconscious level people view opposites as being the same. We assume that only someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 07:14 PM
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It depends on the scene. If there's a good DJ playing cool music more than likely the vibe will be about drugs/dancing. If the music is bad or super basic, there's probably a sloppy, normie-tier crowd that sucks and is best avoided by all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:21 PM
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I am pretty involved/into the underground dance scene, and yeah I agree it's mostly about drugs/drugged-out dancing. But it's a small minority of people into at that level. Most people go to normie "meat-market" clubs. If even a large minority of women started going to gay clubs all the time, it would destroy them. Gays don't want too many women at their spots, the women would then attract straight men, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 02:59 PM
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This thread is so weird. Most women who club are going to shitty, straight/normie spots. The idea that there’s this massive group of straight women hitting up gay clubs that don’t have a minority straight scene is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 02:39 PM
1

The idea that most women enjoy going to gay clubs more than straight clubs is ridiculous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 02:33 PM
1

jesus christ i'm gonna be on the lookout for those
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 06:54 PM
4

It's kinda hard to discuss, b/c in the article and abstract there's no info on how the authors measured and defined objectification. For men objectification and attraction can be pretty closely linked. The other thing I don't like is this assumption: “The sexual objectification of women by heterosexual men is driven not only by sexual motives per se, but also by power-related motives (e.g., the wish to maintain male dominance),” Bareket told PsyPost. Even if the study results are replicable, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 06:46 PM
0

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:04 PM
2

Inshallah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:57 PM
6

Some, for sure. But most? I really don't think so. My bet would be the majority of men are neutral to slightly positive with regard to most sex-workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:54 PM
2

you think a majority of men are making those comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:53 PM
3

tbh I would be somewhat insulted by a short TGP comment reply at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:52 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otCpCn0l4Wo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:51 PM
14

What makes you think most men "despise" e-thots and prostitutes? Cause I kinda doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:18 PM
3

this isn't good bait
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:43 AM
6

Not what im saying. In many industries you can't promote someone infinitely (or at all) based on looks b/c the jobs require certain skills and attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:02 AM
8

Doesn't really work that way in many industries
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:56 AM
13

The ultimate for career success is being a handsome man. It's true that women can leverage beauty in modeling, sex work, sugar relationships, marrying "up" financially, and so on. But in a professional environment being an attractive woman has plenty of downsides. Men see you as a sex object and other women are jealous. You have to deal with so much BS. Good-looking men on the other hand, I think are viewed as more competent, and are received better by women without dealing with much BS from oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:23 AM
2

So true, but somehow I never learn this lesson. I always take gfs to ski and it always goes terribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 09:35 PM
4

borderline personality disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 08:44 PM
3

Yeah I agree TRP declined hard after 2014. Was probably closer to GLL before that. I think he got super involved with the battle to keep Kratom legal in the US and got married, but not 100% sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:17 PM
6

Yeah I actually think GLL's advice was pretty universally applicable though. No matter what your situation was, his framework and advice offered a practical path forward. I think the main difference is that GLL's site, unlike TRP, wasn't masturbatory. The site, the forum, everything was all about actually doing shit and getting laid. There was no nerding-out about theory, no semantic shit like what's alpha vs. beta or what's a "real man," and everyone posted pics. Weeded out a lot of BS that way…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:16 PM
3

I feel ya. /u/cxj and I have talked about how wished TRP was more like GLL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 10:10 PM
3

good looking loser
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:53 PM
2

Straight up they look bad. But I'll grant that part of that is the terrible lighting and shitty wide-angle lenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:45 PM
1

a heart weighed down by so many wings
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:18 PM
12

GLL was the absolute best. His concepts and approach actually work, he didn't take himself too seriously, and he wasn't crazy and hateful towards women. And unlike most RP bloggers he never hid who he was, so you knew the advice was the legit. Other than him and Roissy, basically all RP bloggers are super lame, frauds, or failed narcissists looking for adoration/supply online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:17 PM
8

sorry for your loss man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 03:40 AM
4

I've done it. It was fun, but super high drama. Also not advisable if you're the jealous type.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 03:39 AM
3

i mean dude, an experienced drinker or party-er can tell pretty easily. especially if you’ve spent an hour or so hanging. but basically i would say it’s a situation where both people are facing certain risks, and it’s all about navigating those risks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 11:51 PM
1

lol comment whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 11:32 PM
2

not sure how that’s related to my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 11:11 PM
2

it’s not an ethical thing. it’s just the reality of the situation today. basically not a “should” issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 11:10 PM
3

It's all about relative drunkenness/fuckedupness. Ideally, both people are around the same level of messed up. If that's not the case, the onus is on the sober person to make the more responsible decision. B/c people are people, often that doesn't happen. So if a sober-ish guy takes home and fucks some chick who's super drunk, I mean that's something he can do. But he also has to accept the various risks of that, such as her waking up and being like "wtf who are you you raped me."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 09:46 PM
5

it's a good idea, but i think it's somewhat tapped actually. this piece, for example, goes into one OLD management service for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:23 PM
3

oh gotcha, that makes sense. i think men tend to be terrible at understanding what makes men physically attractive, and also terrible at taking/selecting pictures of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:12 PM
11

this post is on several layers of irony FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:08 PM
6

/u/littleknownfacts /u/TheGreasyPole /u/PPD-Angel step up your game
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:07 PM
2

how can chads be "meh"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:06 PM
1

lol idk if gaycel is a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:47 PM
16

👌real alphas only fuck chad 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:53 PM
2

plz never stop posting this 😂😂😢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:32 PM
2

right back at ya
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:04 PM
1

you’re very welcome friend 😁😁
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:56 AM
1

kids these days 😑😤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:56 AM
2

we truly do live in a society
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:53 AM
2

it’s true, there’s nothing straighter than fucking men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:51 AM
3

In this one the guy says various the raped child's age (he says 2.5, 6, 8, etc in different convos). https://www.theredarchive.xyz/archive/241965 alot of them are archived here - https://www.theredarchive.xyz//r/chadfishredacted Hard to tell how real they are tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:32 AM
3

sorry to serious post during purge week but i don't think you understand how experiments work...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:28 AM
3

i think the incels already did #1 i’ll see if i can find it. cant remember the exact kind of pedophilia it involved
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:20 AM
5

absolutely. Chad can get it in as many estuaries as he wants, but he never settles for one. betas only 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:48 AM
6

nothing can ever compare to that first delta
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:40 AM
2

totally agree here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:40 AM
5

if gay guys don't want to have sex with other gay men, how are they gay? that doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:39 AM
4

ugh that would have been so good. missed opportunities :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:38 AM
6

you really have this whole things backwards. ok, so if cops and firefighters are so straight, why are gay strippers always dressing up in those costumes? why don't think put on hair-dresser or NGO-employee costumes if those are so gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:37 AM
6

totally incorrect. male hairstylist is the absolute straightest, most masculine job. you have no idea what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:32 AM
10

cops, construction workers, landscapers, plumbers, and firemen, people that worked in auto shops or owned auto shops, literally the gayest professions. haven't you seen the episode of the sopranos when Vito goes to New Hampshire?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:29 AM
5

where are you on the graph?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:28 AM
2

somehow a new low for purge week. congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:16 AM
4

wait you're a black man identifying as a ginger woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:10 AM
8

YTA. you should have been dating a trans-woman to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:09 AM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:07 AM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:07 AM
1

😄😄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:06 AM
3

solid neg tbh im into it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:06 AM
2

amen to that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 12:59 AM
26

honestly dude i get it. fertility is a big part of my agriculture fetish. just thinking about all that soil around the Nile river 😩😩💦💦
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 12:59 AM
2

69 years and 420 days
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 12:51 AM
2

thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 12:51 AM
2

tbh why even live
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 12:51 AM
2

done!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 12:50 AM
1

ouch 🤕😣😢
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 11:18 PM
1

they used to stealth as bottoms, yes. but gay guys don't want to have sex with trans-men for the most part, and there was a big backlash. so now they have to identify themselves as ftm, but i don't think they have much luck. no idea what kind of person does this tho. seems insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 11:02 PM
1

apparently there's an epidemic of them on grindr right now. there's tons ftm trans who go on there trying to have sex with gay men. for obvious reasons it doesn't really work, but they still try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:59 PM
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I refuse ☝️to have 🍆🛏intercourse 👉👌with🙊 slutty men 🙍‍♂️🙎‍♂️👳‍♂️👮‍♂️👴👨👦who've had lots of sex👉👌 with different women👭👭👱‍♀️🙍‍♀️👧👵. Because every time🕝⏲🕰⏰⏳ they put their penis🍆🍌🥒🍆 into a vagina🌮🌮 it gets squeezed🤜✊ into a smaller size.🦐👌 Real men 👨‍🎓👨‍🎓👴👨‍🏫👼save their🍆🍌🥒 dicks for 💍💒✋marriage 🤵🍾🥂👰& god 📿⛪& their🤴👰 future wives💍📿💑 so they can have giant 💪💦virgin 📿🍆🍌dicks. 🍆🥒🍌
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:55 PM
1

love magic mountain 💫⛰️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:50 PM
2

lowkey that's kinda a compliment wow thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:42 PM
1

hell yeah brother
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:17 PM
4

It doesn’t matter if you’re white 👱🏻‍♂️ It doesn’t matter if you’re black 🐵 It doesn’t matter if you’re Asian 😑 It doesn’t matter if you’re Native American 😡 It doesn’t matter if you’re Muslim 🤯 And it doesn’t matter if you’re Mexican 👽 Y’all have to agree that Michigan’s adventure, Dorney Park, valleyfair, six Flags New England, the great escape, Six Flags St. Louis, and six flags America needs a roller coaster. Oh and also stop racism. ⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:17 PM
5

ohh good idea. yeah i liked its ambiguity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:14 PM
2

agreed the 15mil was a nice touch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:12 PM
2

great point. i need to repost this with every person's height, weight, BMI, and bodyfat % in addition to age and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:12 PM
15

Attention: after careful scrutiny and review, we have found what you posted to be similar to the views of "Boomers". Your recent comment, post, message, or other submission has been classified as Boomer content. This type of material is NOT allowed on this site, and you have been merited one point from your account. Two merits will lead to a temporary suspension from your account and all services of this site, and three will lead to account deletion. Remember to check and see if your content ali…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:44 PM
9

👆👆👆👆 wow the only endorsement i need
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:38 PM
2

🛩️🦖🤠
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:02 PM
5

idk, but i appreciate their contribution to humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:01 PM
2

You’re the asshole tho. 🥺😢
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:58 PM
2

also just to clarify i posted those ghosts because white people are sickly and pale and also dying from opiods. i mean you probably got that but just making sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:21 PM
3

👻👻👻👻👻👻👻👻👻👻👻👻👻
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:20 PM
4

thank you im so glad somewhat appreciated it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:19 PM
4

as a gay man i find this comment to be in very poor taste
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:18 PM
7

i'll take it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:16 PM
3

dude omg so much, i mean im white so obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:15 PM
5

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:15 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:14 PM
2

yes i am Kevin Mccallister. nice to meet you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:14 PM
11

sigh its true. women are always the victim no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:13 PM
2

thank you! your tolerance of my intolerance means the world. i mean it won't save you from eternal damnation, but it's still pretty ok 😁😈💀🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:12 PM
3

perfect we're on the same page then. just tell me im not the asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:05 PM
10

Well basically what happened is that I (22M) caught my brother (15M), my sister (18F), my father (58M), my mother (56F), my other brother (24M), my other sister (12F), my uncle (50M), my aunt (47F), my niece (7F), my nephew (12M), my grandfather on my fathers side (79M), my grandmother on my fathers side (81F/Deceased), my grandfather on my mothers side (92M), my grandmother on my mothers side (92F), my neighbour (34F), my neighbours roommate who is subsequently also my neighbour (37F), their da…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:03 PM
5

but the main reason im religious is to be holier-than-thou and judgmental?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:00 PM
4

i knew i wasn't crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:58 PM
7

extremely
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:57 PM
1

oh yeah a pug would be super fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:55 PM
2

appreciate the kind words! im glad to see you're still here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:55 PM
2

/r/politics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:52 AM
2

nice! yeah that seems right up their alley
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:49 AM
5

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:39 AM
2

i admit that was a bit ambiguous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:37 AM
2

no prob! 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:35 AM
2

so sorry for your loss 😢😢
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:35 AM
3

honestly i can’t argue with this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:39 AM
2

sorry fam that’s rough but stay strong 😢💪✊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:11 AM
3

they also make great furniture
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:36 PM
-2

only an incel would say this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:28 PM
4

This post is beautiful beyond words, I don't know what to say, this post truly opens my eyes on the world. The deep philosophical question this post answers is extremely mind blowing! I can die a happy man now that I have seen this post. If I had the chance to meet the person who made this post I would for it is beautiful beyond words, whoever made this is a god among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:57 PM
2

yeah dude It Follows messed me up too. so good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:50 PM
1

Tip Toes Soul Man Side Effects
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:45 PM
0

catcucks out! out! out!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:43 PM
7

gay tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:00 PM
8

let’s unpack this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:59 PM
3

smh 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:52 PM
2

it's so good lol chapo really comes through sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:38 PM
3

hot tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:37 PM
3

like i said some of her followers are real. but most aren't. you could buy 10k followers, post super edited selfies all the time, and then over time attract a real following of sad old men and indians. basically anyone could.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:36 PM
1

the phenomena is real, no question. but the reddit posts are always bait
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:31 PM
1

those posts are creative writing exercises
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:28 PM
3

kandyapplez y u so mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:24 PM
2

tfw when no artisanal bondage gear produced by queer POC 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:23 PM
6

go off king
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:21 PM
3

i just ran her account through IG audit and probably 70+% of those followers are fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:12 PM
2

totally agree. the left's is it's own worst enemy. if leftists would stop fighting amongst themselves they would be running everything right now, but they can't do it. it's like an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:07 PM
2

deeply
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:57 PM
3

inshallah sister
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:57 PM
2

if im being 100% i've never seen the film. but i can see the race realism angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:49 PM
1

i know it's a terrible situation honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:49 PM
4

gas furries
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:40 PM
3

right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:39 PM
18

I have noticed that, although this subreddit has 31,971 readers, I am not receiving 31,971 upvotes on my posts. I'm not sure if this is being done intentionally or if these "friends" are forgetting to click 'upvote'. Either way, I've had enough. I have compiled a spreadsheet of individuals who have "forgotten" to upvote my most recent posts. After 2 consecutive strikes, your name is automatically highlighted (shown in red) and I am immediately notified. 3 consecutive strikes and you can expect a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:28 PM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:21 PM
2

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ only one glass of white wine with dinner why even live
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:19 PM
2

see i can innovate!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:18 PM
3

https://imgur.com/a/Nr3WyCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:12 PM
3

the community here should be replaced with a bot that spams this over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:09 PM
5

rude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:09 PM
6

um no i didn't use any periods this post is clearly different and way better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:09 PM
3

and that’s a GOOD thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:59 PM
6

lol yes i mean it’s the absolute easiest post to make
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:00 PM
5

no men are good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:59 PM
13

no this is totally original i promise
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:56 PM
11

thx fam the wamen menace must be stopped 🛑🖐
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:55 PM
1

i put a lot of effort into my new one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:54 PM
1

lol fine hang on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:48 PM
3

cats deserve it 😇😘
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:15 PM
4

this take is 🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:10 PM
1

Oh yeah that was me. But tbh given how I was/am on this board I'm not at all surprised you imagined me different from irl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:07 PM
6

/u/TheGreasyPole are you happy now?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:05 PM
1

more - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8rSH8-pbHZ0
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:01 PM
1

sort of!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:46 PM
2

Not disagreeing with your title, but the reason this sub is MvW now is not because of the incels. That issue goes back much much farther.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:43 PM
4

This bait is so obvious it’s a little insulting tbh 😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:35 PM
3

You leave for 3 weeks and the sub collapses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:29 PM
3

Looks like a hotter Dasha from Red Scare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:28 PM
7

pink lady fite me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:09 PM
1

I mean idk. But either way, in 99% of cases losing weight is not hurting your body. Most people are overweight. It doesn't matter tho b/c we have no idea what OP weighs, her health, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:12 PM
4

You have to get in a short term thing first. And I don't really buy the emphasis on "ltr worthy". It's a flawed concept and not that practical. Once you're in a short-term thing, assuming roughly equivalent hotness levels, you either get along and fall for each other, or you don't. It's not something you can effectively or enjoyable "game" or strategize your way into.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:10 PM
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For men and women: Step 1: Be as hot as possible Step 2: Be challenging enough to be interesting, but not totally psycho. Step 3: Have some degree of stability in your life. Step 4: Put yourself out there. I guarantee any non-hideous man or woman can get an LTR following these steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:05 PM
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The commenter in question is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:02 PM
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Yeah, but if we're thinking of the same places, those subs generated way more attention than PPD does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:48 PM
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It's possible for sure. There's no way to really know what reddit will do. But unlike TRP, Braincels, MDE, Frenworld, etc. on PPD people are always disagreeing. You can say un-PC things about women, men, etc. but usually the other side is strongly represented. Combined with the fact that PPD generates absolutely no attention on reddit or in the media, I think there's a decent chance that PPD will slowly become less and less active, eventually dying, rather than getting the axe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:47 PM
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I don't think TRP should be banned. But having said that, PPD doesn't violate the new content policy in the same way that the admins are alleging TRP does. TRP has a enforced point of view. PPD doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:10 AM
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Straight up, all these threads and comments complaining about or against flirting are so autistic, even for PPD. Flirting just happens if you're mutually into each other, it's not some one-sided performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:24 PM
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Interesting! That makes a lot of sense actually. Both the south and the English UC are so much more rural than their NE counterparts - the plantations/manors, leisure sports, agriculture, etc. I wonder if they were also less puritanically christian the the NE settlers. lol this is making me want to read about colonial history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:21 PM
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🖤🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 04:28 AM
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No no, I mean you're right of course. I just mean it's harder. I've lived in Dallas for years, and my family is actually Southern so I know it exists. Just weirder, less of them, and harder to break into.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 11:45 PM
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Dude! That sounds so much like my family. The crazy specific/deep ancestral silverware collections, the wacky beliefs. For example, my 2 aunts are literal psychic detectives who "solve" hauntings and ghost-related mysteries and crimes. Like wtf lol I think Southern UC can be especially weird for some reason, but maybe it's just like that everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 11:44 PM
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yeah totally. tho we have the money now too, there was just a period where everyone was broke af unlike other families who never lost their wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 10:59 PM
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ok for the record except for very very close friends I hide most of this IRL. Basically, my mom's side of the family has been in the USA since the 1600s. They were some of the biggest plantation owners. My cousins, for example, have a bunch of dinnerware/plates that Lafayette gave my family for letting him stay at their place. My great-great grandparents lost everything via Sherman's march to the sea, but since then various people in the family have replenished the family wealth via other busine…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 08:49 PM
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Narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 08:16 PM
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*realities
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 08:12 PM
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I can't convince you that I am not a troll so I will move on. Yes, b/c you prob are one. I am not saying a person can simply marry a millionaire at her whim Dude lmao, anyone who wants a huge family with an UMC lifestyle in NYC had better marry more than a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:58 PM
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😉😉
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:53 PM
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Yup. They're doing a terrible job as well. No one is upset but them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:52 PM
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nope, not what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:47 PM
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Pretty sure we are correct about the troll thing. But in any case, I'm absolutely sure our general analysis of class and "your" odds are correct. Are we meant to just be born and stay in the same station in life? yeah dude basically. I didn't make the system, but the idea is trick people into thinking they can have the "american dream" so they don't wake up the reality of their lives as producer/consumer late-capitalist drones (edit) who will soon be replaced by machines
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:46 PM
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Thx fam
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:37 PM
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Sadly it will almost certainly go past OP :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:22 PM
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I figured tbh. Plain, lower class, redditor asking PPD for help seeks wealthy UC man...lol so many red flags. And yeah probably. They get so triggered by anything related to class
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:19 PM
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aren't the women that attract both types essentially the same women? It's so hard to discuss this b/c the groups we're dealing with are so broad, and attraction, while it can be categorized, has powerful, individual/personality driven elements. But in terms of your goal, a man with money who you love, a large/happy family, etc...there's a big difference between middle class/money/UMC and UC strategically. Just one example, if you aim for UC, you basically need to live in NYC/DC, maybe SF/Chicago…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:03 PM
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Dude there's a giant group called the "middle class" in between the top and bottom classes. But lol ok. If you read a little bit of those books I mentioned it will become clearer to you. The reason why the goal doesn't make sense it b/c you don't understand what "UC" actually means, and so the goal is arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:58 PM
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I believe that is what I am doing here. It's not. Most people you think of as having money are middle class. The true UC is its own thing that's defined as much by culture and lineage as anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:52 PM
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Yup, and I actually am UC so i know the deal. Your goal does not make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:46 PM
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lmao you really need to rethink this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:43 PM
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For sure, but I do think the basic structure and many of observations about the various class cultures hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:39 PM
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Some of this advice you're getting is super middle class, aka defined by insecurity about appearance and fitting in. Excessively caring about etiquette, dressing right, etc. is not UC. UC do that automatically for the most part, and if they screw it really doesn't matter b/c they actually are UC.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:33 PM
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lol i am far from an Atlas cheerleader, but she's right about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:29 PM
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Dude tbh you aren't going to achieve this goal. Not only is it unlikely in a statistical sense, but I doubt you really even could identify UC from UMC from MC w/money, you probably don't live somewhere where you'll encounter these people, etc. My guess is that "class" really means a lot less to you than you imagine, because you strongly associate class with money. And while there's definitely is a relationship there, plenty of non "upper class" people have as much or money as the UC, are sociall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:28 PM
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Does anyone remember what Rian Stone's username on here used to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:10 AM
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yeah they suck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:51 PM
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we know each other outside of ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:44 PM
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knowing cxj...yeah unironically i’m sure it did happen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:06 PM
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I'm not saying no one wears suits at any point, just that they are falling out fashion as things become more casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:46 PM
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I bet you will. IME London was more formal than the big US cities, so my guess would be the trend will take a bit longer there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:45 PM
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My ex had an abortion. We were both really ambivalent about it. On the one hand, having a kid would have been incredibly difficult - we barely knew each other at that point, I was not ready to be a father, etc. On the other hand, the abortion erased our potential child from the world. I remember wondering at the time if I would look back one day and realize this moment had been my only chance to be a father and I blew it. Even though my ex wanted the abortion, it really fucked her up for a coupl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:43 PM
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nope, it's all business casual now. suits have become sort of passe https://www.newyorker.com/culture/on-and-off-the-avenue/goldman-sachs-patagonia-and-the-mysteries-of-business-casual
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 02:37 AM
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lmao yeah even in the business world no one wears suits these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 09:04 PM
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I think "coolness" is way more nebulous and situational that "confidence" though Agreed, its more context dependent. Tho I do think there's a certain universality as well, but harder to get a grasp on what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 08:54 PM
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This kind of issue is where TRP (the reddit forum) fails. GLL addressed all of this stuff forever ago, in a way that was simpler/clear, actionable, accounted for different subcultures/scenes, etc. Where I disagree with you and/or think you are also engaging in unclear language is here: You can go be an attractive, confident gymrat, club guy, successful corporate guy, music scene guy, nerdy video game streamer, nerdy MTG player, anime convention guy. Confidence is super nebulous, no different tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 05:20 PM
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It would depend on the context. But if it came out of nowhere I would be offended. But, there's 2 differences between paternity tests/the STD test described above. One is that if 1 week of separation justifies an STD panel in my wife's mind, logistically that's going to be a real pain in the ass. Week-long trips happen much more often than pregnancy. The second is that a paternity test corrects an asymmetry in knowledge. Paternity is a situation where one party has absolute certainty, and the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:37 PM
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This could be the breakthrough a lot of men are waiting/hoping for. If it gets approved the FDA. Which tbh it probably won't. When they start doing larger studies, odds are more severe side effects emerge in a minority of the patients. Since the FDA evaluates new drugs based on risk vs. need + availability of other treatments, and there are so many other birth control options, it's going to be so hard for anyone to get this over the goal line. The FDA/EMA are super risk adverse. It sucks but tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 03:17 AM
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Sales bro > Stem bro for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 06:59 PM
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Quality post. Yeah, I'm not sure at what point it occurred, but somewhere along the line, /r/TheRedPill convinced themselves that guys very similar to them were the peak of masculinity (normie STEMlords who lift). Basically just a giant circlejerk at that point. The sub is clearly on the decline, and has been for some time. I wonder if this blindspot is a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 06:11 PM
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i am officially S P O O K E D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 08:58 PM
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wow, end of an era
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:04 PM
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rude tbh
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 02:55 PM
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peak TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:28 AM
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lol the Western Canon is absolutely still a component of a liberal arts education. Even people in gender studies programs read Hegel, Nietzsche, etc. What is your degree in?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 02:36 AM
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peak TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:29 AM
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A real answer would be nice. But besides that, I'm raising the issue b/c I think how this forum is lead/moderated is related to why it seems to be on the decline in terms of traffic/relevance.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 02:27 AM
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I didn't say anything about safer bot. I said preemptively banned, which could be automated via a bot or just done ad hoc by human mods. But it's irrelevant. B/c arguably what you're doing here is worse than the subs using saferbot. At least they are upfront about what they do. They aren't making any pretensions about what kind of forum they are.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 02:25 AM
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here ya go https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/aq76ct/the_lions_den_official_noban_freeforall/egepkvm/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 09:59 PM
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You invited people to come here and disagree as a way to boost traffic in response to your quarantine. That's a reasonable thing to do, but it's not out of some love of debate/discourse. I guess we really are like SJWs where we ban people who disagree with us. Agree and amplify schickt aside, TRP does have a lot in common with left-wing idpol. I think that's why both sides try so hard to perform wokeness/edginess (respectively). Helps mask how bound up both groups/ideologies are together.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:29 PM
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My guess is that you did participate, or at least on one of our sister subs. Nah, you can tell because when you're banned without having ever commented/posted, reddit doesn't send you a ban message via PM. I had no idea I was banned until one day I noticed the submit sidebars were gone when I was reading a post here. I know a number of people on PPD have had that experience with this forum. It's an interesting similarity TRP has with a lot of social justice/left leaning subs, where mods also ban…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:05 PM
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lmao dude, you're throwing RP memes/tropes at me rather than responding to my comment. I never said I was indifferent, I said I was banned here despite the fact that I have literally never commented here, posted here, messaged modmail here, or had any other interaction with the forum. And I'm curious as to why the mods here banned me preemptively like many SJW subs do.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 08:56 PM
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We're getting a hell of a lot of incels. Some things never change. Tho it may be worse after the /r/Braincels quarantine. But yeah, amongst all the gender wars communities, it does seem as though Incels have the most energy/momentum going. Their memes have become pretty common, and there was even that SVU episode about them. Weird how that happens. Sucks about your account, that's kinda shady tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:47 PM
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Hey! Long time no see.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:45 PM
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Same tbh. I just asked in the TRP thread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:44 PM
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Right back atcha dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:44 PM
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/u/redpillschool can you explain why I was banned here? I've never commented/posted here until right now, and had no intention of ever coming over to participate. On PPD, there's a perception that TRP is a hugbox in many ways. And doing SJW-style preemptive bans def makes that belief seem more credible.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 08:43 PM
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If I’m being honest, yes. But idk RPS has unbanned me yet 🧐😤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:13 AM
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cooking up some drama ITT
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:52 PM
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pretty good man! how’s life been treating you around here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:50 PM
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lmao that second panel is reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:17 PM
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/u/redpillschool plz unban
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:08 PM
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No, when I was a mod here my flair was "Hates Fun." When I stopped doing that I changed it. Tho at one point /u/LeaneGenova might have a had a flair referencing my old one, but honestly who can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:07 PM
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Yeah, it's impossible to argue that women being more careful/cautious doesn't have some impact on their average safety. But I would state it somewhat differently. It's less that women being cautious saves them more often from random violence (random violence is relatively rare), and more that men tend to be more violent, enjoy physical violence more, and actively put themselves in violent or potentially violent situations much more often. As a result, men get shot, attacked, etc. more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:28 PM
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lol yup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:29 AM
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/u/poppy_blu OP you are 100% right about this. Glad you made this post. Most people have a super shallow understanding of what "co-dependency" is, so not surprising some aren't understanding you. The blog has been shut down, but Rick Raw (a pseudo-manosphere blogger) wrote a good series of posts years ago saying something very similar. It was about how psychological co-dependency drove the PUA movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:20 PM
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By the strictest definition, yeah I agree with you. But I think being incel has more to do with not getting a kind of 'gendered validation' from the opposite sex. Most incels could get laid if they wanted to. Getting a prostitute isn't hard. But they don't accept that, because it doesn't come with the validation they want from women. Seems like most femcels aren't involuntarily celibate. But they are pretty incel-y in their anger towards men, their feeling of not getting the attention/validation…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:44 PM
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😘😎
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 05:24 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/sVyvpjM
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 03:33 AM
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Someday it will go down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 11:08 PM
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mike.com smh op
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 11:33 AM
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Yeah I agree with this. It really is a matter of degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 05:16 PM
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Maybe that makes me a bad feminist, but even if I’m entirely determined not to let a guy pay for me, I think there’s something socially off about him not even offering. It's not even entirely about feminism/gender though. Unless both people are broke students or something, there's a social convention that it's polite for both people to offer to pay for the whole dinner. And then from there, you either agree to split it, or one person agrees to let the person pick up the check just this once. Str…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:56 PM
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Halloweentown II: Kalabar's Revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:12 PM
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literally who?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:20 PM
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just what her alt would say...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:44 AM
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🔥🔥🤯😍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:16 AM
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good question. i'll have to think on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:58 AM
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ok xanax i will give you. i guess i can believe there are a lot of idiots who imagine they've been roofied and/or lie about it for attention or to excuse getting too plastered. but, that doesn't mean roofies aren't fairly common in the nightlife scene. sadly they are. however, i will say i have encountered them more related to robbery, fraud, kidnapping, and just fucking with people, and never as a true 'date rape' drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:48 AM
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weird, i thought even microsoft doesn't support IE anymore. Isn't their new browser called Edge or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:42 AM
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They targeted gamers. Gamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:39 AM
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gamers rise up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:52 PM
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we live in a society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:50 PM
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what drugs are you thinking of? the only drug that's similar is GHB. other party drugs like coke, molly, etc. are uppers. they aren't similar to being roofied at all. and GHB isn't easy to get, generally isn't combined with booze, and has to be dosed super carefully. i promise you people partying on it and overdosing know what happened, and aren't imagining someone else roofied them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:21 PM
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starting https://giphy.com/gifs/loop-thinking-triple-CaiVJuZGvR8HK
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:05 PM
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the fact that some people lie/are mistaken about roofies, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. if you party, especially outside the US, it happens a lot. i've been roofied. my uncle has been roofied 3 times. it's a thing, and a very different experience from getting blackout drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:04 PM
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I gotta get back to work imagine not living on neetbucks in 2018
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:03 PM
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you have to go back 👉👉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:59 PM
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one of the core tenants i believe in is that grammar is boring and sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:51 PM
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imagine actually believing this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:49 PM
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Agreed. I went back and watched some of Clarence Thomas's hearing to compare, and tbh he was soooo much better than Kavanaugh. Thomas was aggressive, but not pathetically emotional and entitled. At one point, Thomas essentially tells the Senate he doesn't even want the job anymore, and he's only not withdrawing out of spite. At least he was being real, and not repeating BS phrases to filibuster his way through.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:35 PM
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🤗🤗🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:41 PM
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https://tenor.com/view/dog-hug-bff-bestfriend-friend-gif-9512793
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:38 PM
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aw thx ilu 2
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:25 PM
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There were a lot of really complicated episodes that dealt with Apu and his life in Springfield. There was an episode about immigration, which revealed the sort of shadow society illegal immigrants are forced to operate in (he attempts to pass himself off as a citizen by using a fake ID). This of course tortured himself because he felt as though he was abandoning his identity. It’s also revealed that he was one of the more intelligent residents of the town in this episode, demonstrating a thorou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:06 PM
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Last week, Adult Swim announced an order for 70 new episodes of the cult cartoon Rick and Morty. Ughhhh. I don’t have anything against the show. I’ve watched a few minutes of it, and I can tell it’s not for me. This is fine. What I take issue with, rather, is the men who take their Rick and Morty fandom to an obnoxious level—specifically when I’m on a date with them. (And yes, to clarify, it is a problem with men. I date women, too, and shockingly none of them have asked me to watch Rick and Mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:52 PM
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As a male feminist ally, I would like to offer my opinion. My hope is to only offer the male perspective and not to 'mansplain', so if I stray too far out of my lane, my feminist sisters can please correct me. I feel like if our goal is to combat the sexualization and objectification of women in society, then the hijab is a non sequitur. A woman's hair isn't particularly sexualized, from a cis-male perspective. Sure it's nice and all, and if you change the style of it we'll try and notice it by …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:48 PM
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I really feel that porn has irrevocably ruined an entire generation's sexuality, especially young men under 30. 30 years prior, porn was pictures of women lightly clothed in Playboy Magazines. Porn today? It's all about choking women ramming a dick into women's vaginas as hard as possible dominating women and giving a false impression of women wanting to be dominated and submissive all the time promotion of incest porn and violent porn promotion of "girl and daddy" porn that freakishly resemble …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:45 PM
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I may be a straight man, but I'm gay for Trump. I am heterosexual but I look at that pouty, prissy, tiny mouth and want to ram my tongue down it, biting those lips until they bleed. I want a certain piece of my body in said mouth as I hit his head like a bongo and pinch his fat neck. I want to pull his wispy orange hair out of his head like the time he raped Ivana. I look at those tiny hands and I want them in my mouth, my teeth gnawing on them for my own satisfaction. Maybe get some razor blade…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:40 PM
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This is what is going to happen. I have never ejaculated inside of my wife. In fact, I have never had an orgasm since being married, and that includes our wedding night. I have had sex with and been inside my wife many times. But I have never been permitted to ejaculate. What happens is, I am released from my chastity container three times per week to be brought to the edge, squirming, sweating n’ begging, and then I am submerged in ice to bring me back down to size, and then I am locked back up…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:36 PM
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👌👌
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:34 PM
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Awesome pics. Great size. Look thick. Solid. Tight. Keep us all posted on your continued progress with any new progress pics or vid clips. Show us what you got man. Wanna see how freakin' huge, solid, thick and tight you can get. Thanks for the motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:33 PM
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here's a group shot of them at their last get together
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:44 PM
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rude tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:37 PM
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the people have spoken: bots & cats > people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:35 PM
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/u/hammerhaunts the fact that kitty and automod are missing from your op means this pageant is a sham tbqhwyf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:34 PM
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tbqh automod has been around for 6 years, which is basically post-wall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:25 PM
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um wrong, i donated 5k on her twitch stream we're basically dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:23 PM
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how dare u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:21 PM
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sigh, why do i always want the ones i can't have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:09 PM
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automod is cute af
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:05 PM
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yeah, you can tell b/c when mods do it it says [removed]. when people delete their own post it says [deleted]
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:36 PM
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it really is a forgotten classic of the early 80s. so hard to find this record irl. glad you like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:26 PM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:35 PM
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i'm sorry. i can't keep the truth inside any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:32 AM
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show some respect this is a classic record ✋✋✋
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:22 AM
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plz no bad vibes k-thx
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:09 AM
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wow amazing post 12/10 🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:00 AM
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omg yes thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:57 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:56 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:22 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:15 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:03 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:58 AM
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https://gfycat.com/gifs/detail/PastJadedHoneybadger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:57 AM
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/u/LeaneGenova /u/alreadyredschool /u/TheGreasyPole /u/SpaceWhiskey /u/William_Howe /u/Young_Oryx /u/PPD-Angel hey can y'all plz turn on link posts/submissions for purge week???? 🙉🙉🙈🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:44 AM
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yeah, having hot goss is on the same level as a warlord or russian prison gang leader or david duchovny 25 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:29 AM
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alpha af 💪💪💪😎😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:14 AM
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hey! same tbh. i miss the good ol' days of oppressing and marginalizing incels together 😢😢
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:09 AM
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lol cosmo. real alphas read US Weekly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:53 AM
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lmao idk how purge week is gonna get more real than this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:23 PM
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TRP is as much of a "safe space" sub as Ghazi, LateStageCapitalism, etc. I was banned preemptively even though I have never commented there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 09:44 PM
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And you're back just in time for purge week https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gFtb3EtjEic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:39 PM
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Hey! Right back at ya 😎😎🤗🤗 Seems like PPD is a still the same bastion of mature, thoughtful discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:13 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/announcements/comments/9jf8nh/revamping_the_quarantine_function/ The admins explain here. Basically TRP, CA, Braincels, and a bunch of other subs have been segregated from reddit b/c ad dollars. Most will probably get banned soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:39 PM
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Yeah pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 09:24 PM
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no airconditioning 😨😨😱😱😱😱😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 08:14 PM
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That is completely missing the point. By your definition, it's impossible to feel attraction towards a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:16 AM
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I never said that's the totality of the what the word "attractive means." So it's not bastardizing anything. The reality is that the men in question were attracted to the idea of a DTF woman. And if it had been real, one of them would have met with her in person, and in order to actually fuck would have had to experience attraction/arousal to a degree. You can objectify someone and still experience attraction to them. You can also experience attraction based solely or partially on a category to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:45 PM
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Not sure what the meaning of this semantic point is to you. But to me, if you want to fuck someone, they are attractive to you to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:19 PM
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Yeah, it does nothing practical. I think for the blackpill posters here it allows them to feel uniquely put-upon by the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:04 PM
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Totally agree. I do think though that attention from the undesirables is evidence that the least attractive women are more attractive than the least attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:53 PM
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Do you really think any form of attention, no matter how low, shows that someone is attractive? To some degree, yeah I think it does. Not that this kind of attention is what women want, or that women should feel flattered by it, but it does indicate attraction in some way. Even if that attraction is essentially to the idea of a woman rather than an actual woman (your Craigslist example). Why do you think someone being desperate is supposed to validate our attractiveness? "Validate" is the issue …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:50 PM
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Nah it's not. What I said was: The gen-xers didn't date around the way millennials do Sure people in gen x dated multiple people at the same time. But the change that dating apps have created in how this process occurs is huge. I'm not even 30 and I've noticed in my lifetime. My guess would b/c you're married, it's easier to imagine a kind of false equivalency, when the reality is that the kind of 'dating around' that urban young people do now has evolved due to technological changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:17 PM
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Not the way urban young people do now. For millennials w/Tinder, etc., the cost of meeting someone new is shockingly low. You don't even have to leave the house to look around. And in addition to lack of time/financial cost, the social cost of trying to trade up or lead people on is way lower. Because with online dating, you can essentially separate your social circle from the people you try to hook-up with/date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:12 PM
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however, in recent years, this advice seems to be discouraged. the impression for some people is that if you date multiple people at once, you're leading all of them on, because you're not serious with any. Yeah the generational disconnect here is interesting. The gen-xers didn't date around the way millennials do b/c they didn't have online dating. Millennials can take the 'date multiple people' thing to it's extreme, always adding and dropping people from an ongoing rotation. Dividing up the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:05 PM
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https://giphy.com/gifs/dog-hug-SB5fjrUhAeLte
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:45 PM
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Instead it's become teemwoman vs teemman. Yeah IMO this trend started on PPD several years ago. The original RPWomen/RPWives split had a big impact, and so had the decreasing relevance of TRP compared to /r/The_Donald, /r/Braincels, /r/milliondollarextreme, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 03:04 AM
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🙃 It's honestly kinda comforting to see the continuity here. And thanks dude! Hope all is well w/you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 02:54 AM
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I’ll always have my yoga, glitter highlight, and homemade kombucha Tbqh I'm pretty into 2 of these. Also 👋I've been good. It's crazy how much energy not dealing with the craziness of PPD has saved me. Funny to come back and see the same ol' arguments as before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 02:25 AM
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I love everything white girls do on Instagram Reported
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:52 AM
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Spending a little quality-time at Wendy's?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 11:58 PM
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This IS my OP about memes and nada tuh. 😞😭 LOl! Okay but you were thee naziest of mods. Tbh that is nicest thing you've ever said to me 😊😊😊
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:52 AM
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Tbh since I don’t know whoever wrote that comment/page, yeah, I can’t speak to what they meant to communicate or whether or not they’d disagree with me. Mostly, it annoyed me b/c in philosophy precision of language is really important, and what they wrote is not at what Stirner says at all. Which leads to a false spooks and memes equivalence, taking a potentially interesting engagement between those ideas and destroying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:46 AM
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I’m not saying that some (most?) people in STEM don’t get a degree of satisfaction from their work. I am saying that whatever amount of satisfaction that is, it’s not enough to make life worthwhile. How many STEM people will wish they had spent more time coding on their deathbed? A life without connection, love, creativity, (left brain), etc. is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:37 AM
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I was gonna say the nazi mods on this sub should let you do a post about memes. Then I remembered you are a mod lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:31 AM
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(Sry for the effortpost.) For me the problems begin right away. For example, the first sentence: Stirner proposed that most commonly accepted social institutions – including the notion of State, property as a right, natural rights in general, and the very notion of society – were mere illusions. Stirner doesn't think these things are "mere illusions." Straight up that's not a good way summarize his thinking. An illusion doesn't have any real power. Once you know what it is, the game is up. He's …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:29 AM
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Idk if I really agree with the article, but I think your conclusion is totally correct. Without 'left brain' thinking not only would we have not made it this far, but even if we did, who cares? STEM is a useful tool that has hugely empowered humans, but it doesn't provide much meaning or satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:12 AM
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Yeah, I think the issue with that page's explanation is that they make it seem like Stirner thinks that the state, society, religion, etc. are like The Matrix, a false reality that needs to be seen through, and that can be spread from person to person. Which is not what he's saying at all. TBH from what I gather I haven't gotten a moral stance from him. More or less he views them as dynamics that are. I don't think he cares that it's lacking morality. He def cares that the "morality" of the Chur…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:07 AM
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Grid you are mad cool but that SE article totally misrepresents/misunderstands Stirner. Which isn't surprising tbh b/c he's notoriously hard to read/interpret. He does not think that 'society' or 'the state' are illusions lacking 'reality', in fact he views them as constraints which are all too real, if lacking in moral authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 11:45 PM
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Agreed. Don't get me wrong, I love Twitter drama, but it's such a shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:58 AM
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This hard to answer, because I would argue that in the current political climate, there is no opinion that won't generate outrage once it becomes viral enough. People are addicted to feeling offended/angry, and will find something to react to, no matter how sanitized the opinion. If you try to be 'woke,' you can slip-up and not be woke enough. And, if you manage to appease the left/SJW side, you'll inevitably upset/offend people on the right. People need to move past our current paradigm of plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 07:16 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/ybhlpG9
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:50 AM
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lmao no worries, just finished a slightly longer comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:14 AM
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I def recommend The Sibyl by Par Lagerkvist. And both The Courage to Be and The Dynamics of Faith by Paul Tillich. Also for Christianity, On Free Choice of the Will, by Augustine is great. Contemporary continental philosophy is really Hegelian, so sadly you basically have to read the Phenomenology of Spirit, even though in school no one really reads it they just pretend to. In general, my advice for philosophy is to find good secondary sources, and use those as you read the main material. For ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:13 AM
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Sorry for the delayed response :( Yeah, I used to be really into Baudrillard and those guys. If you want to dive deeper into the continental stuff, a good place to start might be the Christian Existentialists, since I recall you saying you were into Christianity. Kierkergaard, Par Lagerkvist, and a few others were very influential on existentialism, which in turn was a big influence on the post-modern thinkers. And they are super interesting and powerful thinkers in their own right, they, along …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:40 AM
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Good post. First of all, agree on the fun thing. And I think that's somewhat unique to TRP on reddit, which manages to be uniquely unfun compared to other manosphere sites. Also, my experiences with male friends, guys in my frat, etc. are in line with what you're describing. They think becoming a "chad" will make them happy, but as they approach their goal, they either: Can't handle the stress, the ups and downs of the lifestyle. And stop working at it/settle. Realize sleeping with hotter chicks…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:34 AM
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Yeah lol, like you I was interested in it at one point. If you have any interest, I recommend checking out Kierkegaard and the other Christian existentialists. Very cool form of Christianity that had a big influence on the continental thinkers that came after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 01:20 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 12:01 AM
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There's an important distinction between being a subject in a structurally post-modern historical moment (arguably everyone in the west is), and being a post-modernist in the sense of thinking like the philosophers or critics associated with the term post-modernism (virtually no one is). I think OP is asking more about the latter. People in the Pillsphere are not approaching the world as post-modernists. Their beliefs are fundamentally incompatible with that mode of engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:54 PM
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Is she in the UK? Can't she just get a real script for Ativan or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:48 PM
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I gotchu bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 07:26 PM
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lmao that comment. Never forget 🇺🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:52 PM
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what's a true chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:20 PM
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My mate came up with the term "Xancation" for this and I support it. Love this. Your mate is genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:01 PM
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Thanks dude! I am demodding this Sunday, def looking forward to chilling out for a bit. Before making this decision, I took a total break from modding PPD, and it was so nice. If you're ever stressed out from modding, I highly recommend it. Or now that I think about it, maybe for you, drugs are like mini-vacations lol. If so, good strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 06:51 PM
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Except you actually did that 😉😉
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 11:12 PM
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rude tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 11:11 PM
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You were banned that time for accumulating a huge number circlejerky comment, not typing merely typing "lol." Why do you feel the need to misrepresent this stuff all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 08:06 PM
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I'm also in advertising, and it's really not true. Or at least, not any more true than in most industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 07:37 PM
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The people coming up with creatives tend to be white women with gay men outnumbering straight men. All creatives start with a white woman unless its for B2B, when for some reason they always involve a light skinned black woman. I also work in advertising, and in my experience you are way over-stating this. Especially the extent to which women dominate the creative process. The CD/ECD level has always seemed male-dominated to me, with more women as ADs. If anything, there seems to be a perception…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 07:35 PM
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Idk why you got downvoted, this is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 12:00 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 04:40 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 03:44 AM
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If you can't understand why your post is not appropriate for PPD, I don't know what to tell you. There's literally nothing slimy about it, this is moderation at it's most basic and transparent. Feel free to message modmail if you want to appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 03:14 AM
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Your post is obviously humorous. Sexbots have no legal standing, and therefore cannot initiative legal proceeding against anyone. You are well-aware of this, and choose to shitpost, rather than make a post which express your point in a way that is appropriate for a debate forum. The other post may or may nor be well-argued, but unlike yours, it is serious. If you want to join GLO in imagining bias where none exists, that's your own affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 03:02 AM
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Removed - too circlejerky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 12:23 AM
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We don't allow "link drop" posts. Your posts must have content "sufficient to explain the linked material."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:15 PM
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Didn’t mean to imply they were. An agenda can create a trend. Happens all the time. But not all trends are created by agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:09 AM
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Idk, have you seen The Lion King? There are strong, but unintentional, reactionary themes at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:55 AM
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What makes you think it's an agenda rather than a trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:53 AM
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The first introduction to Rey is an extended montage of how she takes care of herself, all alone. Why is it unlikely that a person who grew up with no family on a hard planet would be well-equipped later in life? Agreed. You could argue that the filmmakers didn't do enough to establish this/convince the audience. But their intention is clear - Rey grew up fighting and dealing with machines, and she understands that stuff. Tbh, they do more in the new trilogy to establish her skill than Lucas did…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:51 AM
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So good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:41 AM
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"Spray yourself with these chemicals and become Chad!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:01 PM
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To be fair I tried Brut 33 when I was a kid in hopes of attracting women. Did it work? I mean, you do have a child...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 03:57 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 03:56 PM
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Select edit, then resave, to summon the automod comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 03:53 PM
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I love sales and am fascinated by sellers packaging an insulting message and getting away with it. It's really interesting, yeah. A great example is Axe body spray. They created a whole brand based on appealing to unattractive men, by implying using Axe would make them attractive. But it ended up backfiring because it worked too well, and became strongly associated with unattractive men, and thus, a joke. Still gets decent sales tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 05:41 AM
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It's been the same for like 3 years dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 02:15 AM
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But maybe that just seems that way because 95% of the time, they're also giant assholes about it. lmao, tell me how do you really feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 02:06 AM
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Not this time ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 01:11 AM
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Idk, I think it's emotionally-charged for most. How can it not be? If you've been given or have given a diamond engagement ring, that ring is special to you. It's a symbol of a relationship with someone you love. That may not be investment in diamonds as a universal, but it is investment in a particular one. I see it exactly like KFC in Japan at Christmas. But if I proposed to someone with a diamond ring, that ring would be extremely special to me, right alongside my awareness that the whole pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 12:44 AM
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That really is my own point of view. It may be influenced by the fact that I have done a lot of brand/account planning, and once you see how the sausage it's made, it's hard to take seriously. Like, the 'A Diamond is forever' engagement ring story was created by the same process that produced "Better Ingredients, Better Pizza," "Get in the Zone, Autozone," and "Breakfast of Champions," Basically, it's a complex, emotionally-charged topic, so you know that PPD is going to sperg out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 12:15 AM
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It's not a simple observation though. There are implications to it, beyond just "huh, I didn't realize 'Diamonds are forever' was written by an agency copywriter, and first pitched in some boardroom." IMO, you can't feel legitimately entitled to a diamond ring, the way many (if not most) American women do, once you understand that idea is literal propaganda. And to be clear, I don't think want and feel entitled are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 11:48 PM
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I can see how that would be frustrating, but can you see how it's impossible to have a conversation about the convention of diamond engagement rings without acknowledging the reality of where it came from? And that reality involves De Beers and a lot of corporate propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 11:24 PM
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Oh yeah. The comment comparing buying a diamond ring to shopping at Walmark, the "but you get a wife with the ring..." comment, your "wake up sheeple" comment. Edit: And to be clear, I'm not trying to imply anything negative about the people writing these counterjerk comments. Just that the comments themselves, to me, come across as reactive in a way that is not productive or addressing the facts/cultural issues at stake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 11:12 PM
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It does not say that women had to be convinced that diamond rings are appealing. My phrasing was "sold on the idea of diamonds," and by that I meant that both parties had to be convinced that diamonds=romance, more money on the diamond=more love/romance, and that a proposal necessarily includes a diamond ring. It sounds like you really are trying to make a neutral observation about the effects of marketing. Yes, but I would go a bit further than that. My issue is also with the way people reflexi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 11:02 PM
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lol it totally is. sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 08:49 PM
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Would you mind also mentioning that I didn't get my Soros-bucks this month? Shilling for the matriarchy ain't easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 08:42 PM
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Dude just give it a rest. Every mod was a well-known user prior ro joining the team. /u/alreadyredschool and /u/dakru aren't feminist double-agents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 08:32 PM
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It's a paraphrase of this part of the article quotes below, but upon re-reading I miscommunicated the author's point, which is that both men and women had to be sold on the idea of diamonds, not that women were more resistant to the messaging. Sorry about that. The folks at Ayer set out to persuade young men that diamonds...were synonymous with romance, and that the measure of a man's love (and even his personal and professional success) was directly proportional to the size and quality of the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 08:30 PM
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If you're referring to the mod team, there are 3 RP mods, 3 BP mods, and 2 purple/neutral mods. You're wrong on all fronts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 08:20 PM
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We do regular surveys, which show that's simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 08:14 PM
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Here's the original rationale, which still holds true today IMO. When PPD first started, there were tons of people from /r/TheBluePill and almost no one from /r/TheRedPill. Whenever someone from TRP tried to comment or participate, they would be downvoted into oblivion. So the mods removed the downvote button in an effort to prevent those users from being driven away and silenced. These kinds of demographic shifts continue to occur, which is why it's important that people don't downvote. Any met…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 08:03 PM
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designer water Agreed, this a better example. Hatch Chillies are another good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 07:55 PM
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Yeah, it's a testament to how effective marketing can be that people get so defensive when the brand story around diamonds is discussed. There's nothing wrong with liking something because it's well marketing. I love stuff like that. But don't pretend like it's something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 07:34 PM
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You may not know as much as you think. When Ayers was first marketing diamonds, women were the hardest group to convince/sell. Their strategy focused on selling the idea of diamonds to men. Arguing that women just love diamonds so much independent of marketing, when the reality is that marketing took diamonds from a 10% share of the engagement ring market to over 80% at the end of the century, is absurd. Lot's of precious stones are pretty and liked by women. This particular precious stone enjoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 07:32 PM
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Before the De Beers campaign, less than 10% of all engagement rings used diamonds. But regardless, the illusion is two-fold. One part is that they're rare and and thus expensive. In reality, the expense is because the market is controlled by a small-number of supplier firms, creating a monopoly, which then artificially limits supply to inflate the price. The second is that men need to spend a lot on them to prove their investment in the marriage. Which plays right into the first point above. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 07:16 PM
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The only way you can make that argument work is if you define hypocrite so broadly that it would apply to everyone, rendering it meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 07:06 PM
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Right, they are totally different. I'm unclear about the point you're making. Are you saying that anyone who engages with any business that could be said to be unethical can't criticize any other business on ethical grounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:57 PM
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I don't think that's analogous to the diamond industry. The issue with diamonds is that the entire industry is illusory. The demand is 100% driven by marketing, and the supply is controlled by a single firm. In contrast, Walmart faces intense and real competition from other firms, and sells many products based on their utility to the consumer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:30 PM
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Uhhh how is Walmart related to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:18 PM
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I don't disagree, but this one is especially ludicrous for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:15 PM
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I know! That makes it even better. The convention itself is a fiction, and the stones themselves aren't worth anything. It's a scam all the way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:12 PM
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It really is. Though IMO men have bought into just/almost as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:09 PM
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Yeah, I mean engagement rings existed long before the De Beers "diamonds are forever" campaign. But they didn't have diamonds and weren't nearly as expensive. IMO, if it wasn't diamonds, it would be something else expensive, because it's such low-hanging fruit from a marketing perspective. Some other company would have exploited it. But even taking engagement out of it, resource displays were/are already a part of the mating/courtship process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:52 PM
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Yup, incredible marketing by N.W. Ayers (now Publicis)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:22 PM
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I get what you're saying. But as I commented elsewhere in the thread, the concept of diamond engagement rings and 'x-number-months salary' was invented by advertisers hired by De Beers. The convention exists for no reason other than to get people to spend a lot of money on diamonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:15 PM
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The whole thing is hilarious, because the concept of diamond engagement rings was invented by the ad agency N.W. Ayers in the early 20th century. More info here. The agency realized they needed to link the purchase of diamonds to something highly emotional, and realized there was a big opportunity in the engagement ring market. At that time, less than 10% of all engagement rings contained diamonds. These same people also invented the "one month's salary" requirement to inflate the cost, which th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:10 PM
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Make a small edit to your comment, then resave to summon the automod comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:56 PM
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Select edit, then make resave to summon the automod comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:50 AM
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Idk if this will help you, but there's 3 little dots next to the "Comments" tab at the top of new profiles. If you click that, there's an option that will show your accounts as if you had an older profile page. I think it might be follow on the new ones though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:49 AM
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Removed, we don't allow racially charged content. Try /r/askfeminists. You can also ask in our Gender Wars sticky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 01:22 AM
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I've addressed every argument you've brought up. The only person ignoring and handwaving is you. Anyone can read the exchange and see that. You're a David Brock. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 08:50 PM
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Hmm when somebody smears RP as a hate group with nothing of value to say....explain to me how it's possible to have a good-faith discussion with someone who thinks that unless you share their opinion. I know it's possible because I was RP once, and had plenty of good-faith dialogue with the person in question, long before either of us were mods. At that time, most BP said RP was a hate-group, and guess what, there was plenty of good-faith dialogue. Your lack of imagination here is not my problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 08:38 PM
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I call people trolls when they use troll logic. This is exactly my point. To you, "troll logic" means disagreement. It's an attack you deploy when frustrated in a debate, like you did when you were arguing with me that time. I thought I drew a pretty clear distinction between being anti-RP and holding views so extreme they preclude good-faith debate, and good-faith moderating. You didn't draw this brightline at all. You literally said: It's one thing to disagree with RP, it's another to have abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 08:28 PM
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I reject every one of your premises. Good-faith discussion between people who fundamentally disagree is more than possible. It's the most important kind of dialogue to have. There have always been strongly anti-RP mods and commenters on PPD. Just like there have been strongly pro-RP mods and commenters. Those competing perspectives create the environment that keeps people coming back to PPD. Why this is so hard for you to understand, idk. But the first time we ever debated on this sub, you accus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 08:18 PM
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AutoMod 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 08:07 PM
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It's called actually being BP fam. We have both RP and BP mods, and always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 08:05 PM
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We don't allow compulsive/super-frequent post submissions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 08:02 PM
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Just "incel" and their associated memes - roasties, St. Elliot, etc. Also all woe-is-me-posting, which refers to posts where people excessively focus on the plight of a particular group. For example posts like - "it's hopeless if you're a not a 6'3 chad just give up."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 03:09 AM
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Oh, gotcha. Yeah it happened awhile ago, but still. Normally there's a gender wars megathread up for incel-related stuff, but b/c of the recent purge it's not there now. Feel free to post about this in the Off-Topic sticky if you want, since the Gender Wars thread won't repost until Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 03:03 AM
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As I believe you are aware, the community asked that we ban/remove incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 02:59 AM
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Removed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 02:56 PM
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Are the mods asleep? ❄️ 🚡 ⛷️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 07:38 PM
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Removed - not really relevant and bad-faith thread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 07:12 PM
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You can’t post this here either. PPD is not a place for failed TRP posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 07:00 PM
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We don’t allow compulsive posting - removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 06:59 PM
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Plz move to auto mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 08:08 PM
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No. Women talk a good game re: high standards. But in reality, their standards are low af.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:37 PM
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No woe is me posting/incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 01:12 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 07:41 PM
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Stop circlejerking plz. You're doing it in like 3 threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 05:22 AM
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We must protect what is good in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 05:02 AM
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Let's not drag doggo memes into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 04:34 AM
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It's pretty clear, actually, that Abrams had no plans at all for the characters and story he introduced. Which makes sense if you think about Abrams as a filmmaker. I mean he did Lost. He's great at creating mysteries, terrible at resolving them. I can understanding the criticisms of Finn and Rose, or some of the pacing issues. Though not sure I agree with them. But the stuff about Luke being inconsistent, that is not a fair criticism IMO. I think they managed to pretty brilliantly keep core asp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 04:25 AM
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That didn't bother me, but I'll concede that the part of the movie with those elements is probably the weakest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 04:14 AM
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It's seriously crazy how rabid some people have been about it. It's like they're all narcissists and Rian Johnson took away their source of supply. The fact that a director didn't do exactly what you wanted with X or Y characters does not mean it's a bad film. The Luke thing, to me, is a stupid complaint. Totally agree with you on that. I was pretty worried going in that they would fuck it up. But leaving the theater, I felt like they did a good job handling his transformation from young hero to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 04:13 AM
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No circlejerking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:38 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:49 PM
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Removed - excessively leading question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:11 PM
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This isn't a "warning" per se. But I'm going to ask you to lay off replying to Atlas for awhile. I get that you may not be paying close attention, but knowing who you're replying to is a responsibility of being a user here. You aren't at fault for her angry replies, but you are continuing to engage someone who's clearly not interested. What good could come of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:02 PM
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Gotcha, I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:58 PM
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Idk what your thing is with /u/SkookumTree, but as you know personal attacks are not allowed here. /u/SkookumTree, is there a reason you continue to engage with Atlas? The exchanges never seem to go well...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:50 PM
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and you may be competing for your husband's attention. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:24 PM
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What was it about the plot that you didn't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:15 PM
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😞
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:14 PM
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Welcome! We considered "woe-is-me posts" to be submissions which are excessively focused on the plight of a particular group. These posts tend to be more focused in whining, and proving that the OP is beyond help, rather than about debating an issue. A lot of incel-related content falls into this category. For example, someone would post something like: Why even try with woman if you aren't a chad? Or: CMV: short guys are doomed in today's sexual marketplace. The community got sick of these post…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:12 PM
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I liked it too. What did your partner dislike about it? Tbh I feel like most fandoms are pretty toxic, and way overreact when every little thing doesn't happen how they want. TLJ wasn't perfect, but it was a good Star Wars movie, and the reactions I've seen on reddit have been a bit...hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:35 AM
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🤭😬
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:18 AM
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Removed. This post is not relevant to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 12:28 AM
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Back online. What you consider to be 'violent' is irrelevant, as you neither wrote the site's policy, nor are you responsible for enforcing it. This how the rule is written: Do not post content that encourages, glorifies, incites, or calls for violence or physical harm against an individual or a group of people Calling for women to be enslaved in camps or treated like farm animals absolutely could fall under this rule. And since this isn't an ironic or meme subreddit, we can't defend content lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:20 PM
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Walking into a meeting, so can respond in more depth in an hour or so. But reddit changed their content policy recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 08:05 PM
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You're totally wrong about that. In their quest to make reddit profitable via being more appealing to advertisers, they are cracking down hard on "violent content." If you ban me I'll just make another account I mean, that's fine. Trust me, I'm not new to the ban-evasion game. But if you keep posting content like this, your accounts will keep getting banned. Better to keep your current personal brand, than have to keep starting from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 07:39 PM
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Content like this could be considered a violation of reddit's content policy. If you want to avoid getting perma-banned here, I wouldn't post stuff like this. The admins have become way more serious about their rules, and we aren't going to put the forum at risk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 07:30 PM
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This was reported for being related to incels. I didn't remove it for the following reasons. It's about blackpill/incel stuff in relation to the TRP. It's not woe-is-me-posting. It's talking about incel memes (chad, roasties, etc.) rather than unironically/directly using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 04:44 AM
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Removed - no incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 03:05 AM
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Please make a small edit, then resave to summon the automod comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 06:55 PM
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My claim is that this advice is transcultural and universal and based on the fact that men and women have distinct biological, mental and spiritual natures This is also theory. The difference is that my theory is supported by facts about the way our society is organized. Yours isn't supported by anything other than your own belief that it's true. It's like saying don't bother doing whatever keeps your pets or cattle loyal because in the end "the state" is in control. Idgaf about the state, where…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:43 PM
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Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:40 PM
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I was going to link you to The Rawness series, The Myth of the Middle Class Alpha Male. But looks like he took the blog down. Basically, in a 1st-world, western country, stressing about your partner's sexuality/fidelity is pointless, because the state is more powerful than you. Any sense of "ownership" or sexual control is an illusion the woman allows to exist because she enjoys it. If you like acting like that, and so does she, great. More power to you. But it's still only an act. And if you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 05:01 AM
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If by argument you mean 'glimpse into your fantasy life,' sure. Other than that, all you did was attempt to turn my argument around. But it doesn't work b/c you never addressed the silliness of average, 1st-world men putting "the fear of God on that ass." Probably b/c the cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 04:33 AM
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Why would you use so many words to LARP and not even address the argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 04:07 AM
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C'mon you can bait better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:49 AM
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If your wife/gf cheats on you, and you feel hurt or emasculated by that, that's a vulnerability. In a 1st world country, mate-guarding only works if it's a direct challenge - another guy is hitting on your wife in front of you, being passive-aggressive towards you in a group setting, etc. Otherwise it's lame af, because it's fundamentally impotent. No one on this forum is a drug lord, a sheikh, or a warlord in a 3rd world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:49 AM
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Out of curiosity, do your posts reflect your actual opinion or are you just trying to mirror the incel rhetoric to show how absurd it can get? I was wondering this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 07:22 PM
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😞 You can do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:29 PM
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I don't think the solution to having vulnerabilities and worries in a relationship is "just don't have them" This isn't what I'm saying. You can't wish away care or attachment to something in an instant. But you can begin to understand how irrational or counterproductive some of those vulnerabilities are. That opens the door to learning how to relate to these vulnerabilities in a new way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:24 PM
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Same, but most won't. It's too threatening to their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:10 PM
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Yeah, I'd think about it like this - fear of getting cucked makes it more likely to happen. It's sort of zen, but the best way to not get cheated on is not caring much about it to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:06 PM
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Your feeling is inaccurate. In fact, if more men understand the dynamic I'm pointing to, men would be cheated on less in aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 02:39 AM
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Why don't you make one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 02:13 AM
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It's your own life/body/etc., but be aware that all you're going to is suffer more. Either you won't get the body you want, and you'll suffer because you failed. Or you will get it, and you'll suffer because that didn't make you any happier/more content/feeling better. You'll be exactly as you are now, just looking different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 02:10 AM
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Lol no, it's not good at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:06 AM
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His ego aside, a woman's feelings are way more detrimental than her actions when it comes to the quality of life in your relationship. You mean her feelings toward her partner? Or toward the other guy she's interested/falling for? But yeah. I agree that many men put themselves in the worst position possible - they're deeply invested in controlling their wife/gfs physical sexuality, which they can't actually control. All the while, this mindset is working against them in terms of emotional fideli…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:02 AM
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Men place way more importance on sex than women. And men overwhelming view sex as a conquest of a woman/her body. So when your wife/gf has sex with someone else, that feels more emasculating than if she has feelings for someone else. Even if the sex is 100% meaningless to her emotionally. Unfortunately, this attitude doesn't work out well. It's so easy to get tooled around by your wife/gf if you're super-worried about sexual fidelity. You can't stop someone from cheating if they want to, and alm…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 12:43 AM
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Next time report comments like that. I think I got most of them. Race-baiting and racially-charged content is not allowed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:01 PM
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Do you have an example of the kind of thing you'd like to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 01:37 AM
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It's a site-wide rule, but it does become an issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 10:45 PM
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Removed - better for gender wars megathread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:03 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 12:59 AM
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Please post some excerpts from the article or the study. Your post needs to have "text sufficient to explain the linked material in addition to the link itself. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 09:10 PM
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No worries, yeah the Q4M is the only reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 09:00 PM
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Plz move this to the Automod comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:24 PM
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ಠ_ಠ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:16 PM
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Post this to the gender wars megathread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 07:51 PM
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lol link me to the race realism that you reported which didn't get removed. My bet is either: Doesn't exist. Never reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 11:17 PM
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No advocating violence IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:13 PM
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We just had this thread. Also we don't allow posts that are only links.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 03:06 AM
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The letter of the law is 12 hours. But the spirit is preventing people from posting for the sake of posting, as opposed to posting because they have something to say. I would say OP is violating the spirit of the rule. Another mod wanted to give him a second chance, but IMO he's squandered that opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:28 AM
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Removed. This post's connection to PPD is tenuous. You need to stop treating this forum like your blog.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:10 AM
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I go back and forth on that, but you're probably right. Better to remove it. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 03:58 PM
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Do you honestly think Facebook is bias against women? Because I don't. My guess is that one of two things is happening. Either there's some organizational or other logistical issue we aren't aware of causing the issue. Or that the issue doesn't exist, and merely appears to, because all we have to go on are anecdotes, rather than Facebook's full data set on what gets removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 03:58 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 04:04 AM
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There has been a complaint about this line of your comment: you know you are lying Can you edit it so that you aren't accusing him of deliberately being untruthful?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 02:09 AM
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I don't think he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 02:01 AM
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Removed - but feel to repost with a bit more analysis or explanation in your post, and less inflammatory title ( no "good goddamned" etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 03:55 AM
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He of all people seems to be rather responsive to what people tell him. Not in this thread. Take a look, he barely responded to any comments (another violation FYI). It's not whether 2+2 equals 4, but whether 2 and 2 are the right input. Think about it. I'm not interested in splitting hairs with you about this. Both the OP and myself have come to an agreement that it was not something he should have said in a CMV post. Why you feel the need to interject is beyond me. What are you talking about? …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 08:06 PM
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He called their style of response "vitriolic shrieks" - not the people themselves, which isn't against any rules that I'm aware of. However you intrepret it, it indicates he's not taking criticism seriously, and therefore not open to having his view challenged. Which is a requirement for CMV posts. I didn't get the idea that he didn't want his "basic arithmetic" challenged. He just made a strong case with it. By definition, basic arithmetic can't be challenged. It's impossible to argue that 2+2 …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 07:55 PM
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Is that inappropriate to call it a shriek? Yes. And calling it "a shriek" is shaming, so that's not helping your case either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 04:50 PM
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You called people "vitriolic shrieks" and suggested that your post was based on "basic arithmetic" and the number of hours in a day. That doesn't suggest you're open to being challenged. The fact that one person thinks you're nerd shaming is neither here nor there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 03:52 PM
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OP, based on your third edit it does not seem like you’re open to having your view changed/challenged. Please avoid postings CMVs unless you are so willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 02:45 PM
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In 2006 "You" was chosen as Time's person of the year, representing internet content creators. It's not like winning the Fields Medal or a Nobel Prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 06:14 AM
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I’m sure this thread will go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 12:48 AM
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Removed - leading question and doesn't seem to be in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 07:50 PM
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Do you carry often?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 04:13 PM
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That sounds stressful. And ok thanks, I was trying to get a sense of how much people actually use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 04:13 PM
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Ahhh right. Glad others see it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 04:12 PM
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This account reminds me a lot of that Gavinok guy, and then whatever alt he switched to (can't remember exactly).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 01:42 AM
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Here's Juanita Broaddrick in Buzzfeed. Here's Kathleen Wiley in the NYT in 1998. It's ok to admit you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:35 PM
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Tbh honest I don't know much about them. Do you have links to the stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:22 PM
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lmao dude. You didn't read or misunderstood the article. It's describing the allegations by Juanita Broaddrick, Kathleen Willey, etc. and also referencing 4 totally different accusations by other women who had admitted they had consensual relationships with Clinton. Juanita Broaddrick, Kathleen Willey, Leslie Millwee, and Paula Jones did not have consensual affairs with Clinton. If you read their stories that's obvious. For example, here's Millwee's story via Vox Millwee...told Breitbart that wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:21 PM
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Do you carry often?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:09 PM
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Are you trolling? That article does nothing to detract from the credibility of the allegations. If anything, it makes them seem more credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:07 PM
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So you're now admitting that money and status may not make much difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:00 PM
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lol the claims against Bill Clinton are extremely credible, and pre-date the Trump era by more than a decade. Even the NYT has come around on Bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:58 PM
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Yeah, but the idea the money and status will cancel out extreme ugliness for every woman is absurd. You're comparing this man with this man. C'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:55 PM
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Harvey Weinstein isn't unremarkable. Just the opposite. He's remarkably ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:45 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 04:34 PM
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Dude you are way overreacting. Electra is not a troll or shitposter. Everyone on PPD has found themselves in conversations they get sick of, or regret engaging in. Welcome to the internet. Feeling that way at times doesn't mean people "cannot handle any disagreement."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 04:00 AM
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You want us to force people to respond to comments they don't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 03:58 AM
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literally the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:49 AM
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No, reddit won't let you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:10 AM
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Reminder that this is a CMV post, and comments agreeing with the OP should be posted to the automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 11:16 PM
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Gotcha thanks. That doesn't sounds too bad. My cousin has been trying to talk me into (he carries all the time). But I'm not sure I'd get much use out of it. Still might be worth it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 09:57 PM
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How often do you carry? I've been trying to decide if it's worth the investment of time and getting something small to conceal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 09:34 PM
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I do that all time too. Sooo easy to forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 08:20 PM
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Random, but does anyone here have a concealed carry license? Thinking about getting one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 07:59 PM
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Right, I mean, the military doesn't want to give you money for college. If they didn't need to for recruiting purposes, they wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 07:53 PM
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Yeah I was gonna say. Most guys join the army because they can't afford college, or because there's few/no jobs in their area.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 07:50 PM
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😑🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:41 PM
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My Dad always said: "if you want to be CEO, be tall and have good hair."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:32 PM
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Yeah, it's like, don't you want your gf to look hot? Sidenote: when I got into photography, I was amazed at how much millennial women know about light.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:26 PM
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Thx fam
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:17 PM
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Disclaimer: as an internet forum mod, I get that even suggesting I ever leave my parent's basement, or that I have any hope of ever attracting anyone, isn't believable. But let's pretend for the sake of the thread. I considered about my past gfs and why I think they dated me. And idk. The biggest thing is you won't find someone with better hair. Beyond that, part of it is that I'm smart in a way that's actually interesting or engaging to people. Part of it is that I have high emotional intellige…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:26 AM
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Gender wars thread
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 01:26 AM
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should x 3 Well there's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:59 PM
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This train is taking capitalist agitators to be...reeducated. Ask too many questions, and you may be joining them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:49 PM
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Insulting people and calling people out aren't remotely the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:45 PM
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All aboard!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:37 PM
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You've def got better material than that. Not that I would appreciate it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:32 PM
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Never forget the time you weren't actually banned for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:29 PM
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Why do you keep bringing that up? It was like 2 years ago and we reversed the ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:26 PM
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Quick reminder not to vote in linked threads, and that the admins sometimes consider commenting in linked threads brigading.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 03:55 PM
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Removed - this forum is more for discussion of contemporary gender/sexuality issues. I don't think this is a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 12:20 AM
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Aww thanks, I think you're ok too 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 12:09 AM
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Normally I'd be 100% cool with that. But OP is crazy af. Check out these PMS - https://imgur.com/a/cvx8i He's also spamming modmail about essentially the same thing. More insanity here - https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/7fghhh/spaceghotti_is_a_fairly_large_them/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 11:59 PM
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PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 11:34 PM
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Well there is no advice above this comment, but whatever man. Be aware that the modteam will still count warnings from me that you'd don't see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 11:30 PM
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This really isn't relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 11:26 PM
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Yeah, I think the unconventional women have more interesting and challenging lives. And so they're more fulfilled and have genuinely higher self-esteem, which translates into the ability to have satisfying relationships/marriages. The rich SAHMs accomplished their goal, but are then faced with the unpleasant reality that it didn't truly satisfy them. The single cougars can't let go of what they didn't accomplish, still buying into the illusion that if only they had they would be happy. Neither o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:20 PM
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Anguish is a feeling. And it's also temporary. The reason why some people are able to wallow in misery for so long is because they attempt to repress that feeling. Because they never truly "feel it", it can linger under the surface for so much longer. Or to put it another way, following the path you are suggesting is going to take whatever suffering you get dealt by life, and magnify it intensely. Some fear, anger and loss is necessary, but how can we make them occur at levels low enough to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:09 PM
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Booooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 05:48 PM
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Everything is temporary and impermanent. Including any feelings of loss or devastation. I know those feelings, or the fears of experiencing those feelings, can seem overwhelming. Or as if they would be too strong to handle. But that isn't true. The reality is that whatever emotions you have will arise, seem to remain for awhile, and then eventually fade away. And you can handle them while they linger. Living in fear, or living in a super-defended mode doesn't work. Because when you block the fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 05:46 PM
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Um no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 04:33 PM
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It's been removed. Please 12-24 hours before posting again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:09 AM
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We don't allow compulsive posting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:01 AM
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It's a lot like a friendlier, less cool LA.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:26 PM
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I just mentioned this in another comment, but I used to live in ATX. Have you ever been to the Royal Blue Grocery downtown by the W? I used to grab Topo Chicos there occasionally. Well, they have a Royal Blue in Highland Park Village now, and lol it is like night and day from the original one in every way. Chill places can't exist up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 09:45 PM
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Yup I'm in Texas. I live in Dallas, in the Uptown/Oak Lawn/Highland Park area.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 09:40 PM
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That's the spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 09:30 PM
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(Not that there aren’t plenty in my industry who do). I was gonna say, every law firm I've worked with has been super boozy. But I'll give you that drinking straight bourbon while you pour over a 500-page document isn't quite the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 09:25 PM
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The area I live in is really really ridiculously good-looking. Women especially put a ton of effort into their appearance, pretty much at all times. Fake eyelashes, spray-tanning, laser hair removal, cosmetic dentistry, slavish adherence to fashion trends on Instagram, and intense haircare are basically required. Lip injections and plastic surgery at 26 is common. To reference the /u/sublimemongrel comment elsewhere in this thread, there's a big beta bux/golddigger culture here. Women compete in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 09:14 PM
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Sounds terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 11:42 PM
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IME the early formative years (0-5) in your family system and ones genetics play a huge role in how you end up relating to yourself, which then drives how you relate to your peers. So for me, family of origins issues are still primary. People can have so called 'good upbringings' but still be flawed, defective, or just shitty people. I would recommend a book called The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller on this issue. This idea of a "good upbringing" is largely meaningless IMO. It focuses…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 11:41 PM
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I'm pretty sure he would miss the fun/gratifying aspects of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 11:31 PM
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frist of all how dare u
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 11:22 PM
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I agree with you about the mate-guarding thing. Though tbh I never thought about it until reading this argument. But now that I do, my last girlfriend was the only lower/lower-middle class person I have ever dated. And she was so jealous! At times it was real, at other times it was a performance of jealously designed to get attention. That relationship was the only time I've experienced mate-guarding like that. Kinda nice but also kinda exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 11:07 PM
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When one is present, living in the moment without any conceptual or ego-driven mediation between the person and reality, your true self emerges. Not a true self in the sense of some static, unchanging identity, but instead as your immediate and authentic response to the world around you. It's hard to explain if you've never experienced it via mindfulness work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 10:46 PM
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Not as big as you'd think, no. Even in childhood. What matters is having parents that don't erase your sense of self/reality by manipulating you into meeting their needs, when it should be the other way around. You need to grow up with a parent who helps you deal with difficult emotions and trauma, as children can't process those feelings on their own. For example, think about some of those lunatics who audition for American Idol and similar shows. Their parents have given them tons of positive …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 10:38 PM
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It's not nearly as important has how you relate to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 10:21 PM
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No worries! Yeah just copy the text and paste into a new comment as a reply to the auto mod comment in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 07:55 PM
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You have no idea what I would like. And that’s not what this is about. The point is, you can believe your question is the only one worth asking. But others may disagree, and attempting to force them back into your lane isn’t fair or open.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 06:10 PM
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To me, a part of treating others fairly in a discussion is openness to other framings and interpretations. Most discussions/debates are are determined by how the initial topic or issue is framed/setup. I tend to see a fixation on maintaining a certain framing as reflecting a desire to push others into a certain position. It's one thing to do this in an argument or formal debate, but in a more general discussion thread, this can create misunderstanding and antagonism. It's natural and productive …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 05:31 PM
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OP, it's great that you participating so actively in this thread. But this is a reminder that we ask users to participate in good-faith. To us that means "a sincere intention to be fair, open, and honest."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 05:17 PM
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No, I don't think this thread can be saved. And the way reddit works, your new post will rank higher on this sub, than if I reapproved this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 05:15 PM
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If you want to rework this thread and repost that's fine. But make sure the CMV post is an actual argument, and the body of the post supports the claim in the title directly. Don't merely state your own preference or taste in partners as a view to be challenged (as this is impossible), nor restate what others may have said in your recents threads. The point is to present an argument people can address.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 04:00 PM
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Plz move this to the automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:52 PM
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CMV: When it comes to WIFE selection, you want someone (1) intelligent, (2) talented, and (3) interesting, and beauty is not central, though it's an incredible bonus. You're literally summarizing what people in a previous thread said they wanted. It's right there in the title. Then, your post is, no offense, rambling about class with almost no connection to the title. Dude sorry, but this post is not appropriate for a CMV. If you want to clarify people's views on a previous post, then do it with…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:51 PM
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I removed this. It's not at all clear what your argument is, and this subject really isn't appropriate for a CMV post. You're restating things other people said in a kind of summary, and then presenting what you think people said as your own view to be challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:20 PM
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No worries
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:30 AM
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Dude we have a rule about super-frequent post submissions. Wait 12-24 inbetween each post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 11:01 PM
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That's a good observation. And yes, the only thing that would work is if the community here ignored bad content completely, not rewarding it with any attention. But that's a pipe dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:25 PM
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By "care", I mean who actually cares enough about the topic at hand to do some research into it? Not all that many from what I can see. Yes, but sadly this is true of almost all internet discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:04 PM
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bonus Christmas Analogy /u/fiat_lux_ You're a good person for waiting until after Thanksgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 08:52 PM
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It took less than 2 minutes for me to write that. But if it's not worth it to you, then it is what it is. Like who cares about the concepts he's throwing out there? People clearly care. These kinds of threads regularly generate 200+ comments. This one is already at 150+.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 08:37 PM
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Very strongly disagree. Posts like this are the most infuriating thing to discuss. I can see how it would be annoying, but it's still easy to address as an argument. Even if they're totally uninterested in learning about feminism, the position they've taken is what it is. All he did was point out one possible similarity, with no evidence showing either movement holds the beliefs in question. Then he assumes that because this one similarity could exist, the movements must have a lot more in commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 07:46 PM
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Misunderstanding a belief system isn't against the rules. Neither is trying to reference some ideology that isn't held by many/some members of the community. Even if those policies were desirable (and they're not), they would be impossible to enforce. And posts like this are the easiest thing to debate. You can immediately point that the OP doesn't understand feminism. Case closed. Posts that would get removed would like "Q4Feminists: Why do you hate men?" or "Q4Feminists: Why do you support mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 06:25 PM
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Yeah there were a lot of circlejerk comments in this thread we removed. But how is this asking anyone to defend a claim they never made?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:58 PM
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Here's the post text from the Gender Wars thread: Posts about the above issues outside of this thread may be removed at moderator discretion. This is written the way it is for a few reasons. One, it communicates the purpose of the thread to people, which is a general megathread about any/all gender wars issues. Two, it's written that way because we don't want all posts/content about feminism to be relegated to that thread. But we do want all incel behavior/memes to be forced into there, and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:51 PM
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Well they could. But they would have been born into that class, and then lost a lot of money or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:34 PM
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Agreed, as communist countries are basically forms of state capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:43 PM
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I have an extremely good understanding of it. This is what class is. It's not about wealth, but taste. Gatsby didn't automatically become a higher class than he was just because he was rich. There are plenty of people in the UK richer than the royal family, but they aren't higher class than them. But it's irrelevant, because all of the models you posted would put someone making 250k in the UMC. Trust me, as someone who is in the UC, making 250-300k isn't even close to enough money to belong in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:42 PM
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Removed - this isn't appropriate for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:33 PM
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That’s still middle class...UC is waaaaaaay more and a certain background culturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:24 PM
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Yeah, but I am UC so that's probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:00 AM
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Your class is defined by your aesthetic taste, which is something you inherit from your family. What kind of food do you eat? How is it served? What kind of art do you have? What are your houses like? How do you present yourself? Values are big, but not as big as having the right taste. In terms of dating, the biggest thing is that most UC people limit themselves to dating their own kind. It's safer, less awkward, you have more in common, etc. But it's is a pretty small pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:10 AM
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Class is a social and economic concept designed to explain various phenomena. What it points to exists in every big, capitalist civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:08 AM
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Removed - this isn't appropriate content for PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 05:36 AM
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I hear where you're coming from. A few things to keep in mind from our POV: The gender wars thread started b/c of the incel issue. And it wasn't deleted. Automod accidentally kicked it off when it posted the Sunday thread. We can't outright force all feminism-related content into a megathread like we do with incels. There have always been threads about feminism on PPD, and it's relevant content. A lot of the people opposed to RP are feminists, not all the opposition is the more moderate kind tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 01:03 AM
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fite me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 01:53 AM
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Post this in the gender wars megathread. It’s not really right for a full post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 09:33 PM
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Yeah as my grandma used to say - it’s hard to love an electric stove.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 08:27 PM
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That sounds like my personal hell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:52 AM
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😞😟😢😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:51 AM
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I've read that low and slow is the trick to cooking with cast iron a gas cook top. Sigh, I've been doing the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:44 PM
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Do you have a gas or electric stove? Mine's gas, I feel like it makes using my cast iron really hard. Or idk maybe I just suck at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:22 PM
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I while ago I stopped by the gas station on my way home from work, and grabbed a bag of cheetos. I got home and started snacking while watching a little YouTube. Turns out I was way more tired than I thought, since I fell asleep on the couch, only to wake up around 3am just to crawl in bed. The next day I had forgotten all about my Cheetos, and for about a week after that. One day I'm picking up my room a tad, and what do I find under my couch but those damn Cheetos, bag left wide open and kicke…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:20 PM
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I prefer the term chad-sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 01:08 AM
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Examples - https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7e93fg/serious_question_is_the_blue_pill_just_denial_and/dq462gm/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7e93fg/serious_question_is_the_blue_pill_just_denial_and/dq45swi/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 12:22 AM
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removed - OP not engaging in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 12:19 AM
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Yeah, I mean they didn’t have much to work with. And they were a slightly unusual Adidas collab.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 05:08 PM
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This was pretty recent. Only hours before, I had returned from a 10-day Vipassana meditation course/retreat, where there was no communication or interaction with others. I was at Starbucks, and these 2 girls noticed me and were sort of staring. And they kept doing that thing where you try to catch someone's eye. Eventually they came over and tried to start a conversation about the shoes I was wearing, but I didn't really engage. Normally I would have been interested. But after almost 2 weeks of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 04:09 PM
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We don't allow link-dropping. Please add content sufficient to explain the linked material, or this will be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 12:07 AM
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The comment in question isn't a personal attack or uncivil. Like at all. Just because someone says something about your life, especially when you've brought your own life story into the conversation, doesn't make it against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 11:15 PM
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Idk if they are all unattractive. Some of them even claim to be attractive, but argue they are doomed to fail because of racism against asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 08:48 PM
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He asked for permission in advance, and was given some guidelines for the post. No one on the mod team objected, so here we are. OP is a formal incel, and this post is about how he's not an incel anymore, so it's not incel-content in the same way as if he was just whining about how impossible and unfair life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 08:46 PM
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Hey man, sorry to hear about all this, but PPD is not a place to discuss suicidal ideation. Please see our Mental Health Resources wiki page for places where that would be appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 08:42 PM
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It has a very terpsplain-y tone, yes. But the general POV of the post seems relevant to this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 08:31 PM
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OP, I changed the flair to CMV. That's what the post should done as.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 03:19 PM
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Only if you can really own + internalize the approach/lifestyle. But if you can get to the point where girls really see you as a attractive scumbag, they will stop wanting to wait to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 03:11 PM
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Oh I totally am. Though it's also because I'm doing the typically doing the coke over the course of a weekend with non-stop, all day drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 03:08 PM
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Great post. There's some interesting data out there about the suicide rate by occupation. The occupational groups the with the highest suicide rates are: Farming, fishing, forestry Construction and extraction Installation, maintenance and repair. The occupational groups with the lowest suicide rates are: Personal care and service Office and admin support Education, training and library. Essentially, the male dominated fields have a higher incidence of suicide. The researchers think this is not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:41 AM
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I sent a few thoughts back over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:13 AM
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It's a bit different as her use of "hon" was an obvious reference/callout of his. Neither is great though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 03:36 AM
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Ya he got destroyed. The mod in me thinks it's got to be a troll, but who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 03:24 AM
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Yeahyuh 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:58 AM
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:51 AM
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That sounds sad. But yeah /u/cxj should grace us with another post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:46 AM
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Then there was the one were that guy wanted to bang his friend's daughter. omg do you have a link to this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:36 AM
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That might actually work. So they def won't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:23 AM
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I'm gonna check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:01 AM
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I drink so much Topo Chico but it doesn't help 😞 Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 01:59 AM
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Most people I know are white collar cubicle jockeys who wear slacks and polos and wouldn't describe themselves as "in the party scene". But when we go to Atlantic City or out of town there might be a trip to the strip club or couple grams of coke involved. How do people continue to do this into their 30s? Every time I have an super-coked out/party weekend, I'm hungover for like 5 days, and get really weird and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 01:53 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 01:50 AM
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No, is it good? I need a new show to waste time on. My friends keep telling me to watch that HBO show The Deuce, but idk if I can handle James Franco playing his own twin. And he’s looking at her like “meaningless? but I’m in love with you 😔” 😢😭 Having been on both sides of that situation, it sucks lol. But yeah, there's def a perception that around here that if a woman we'll sleep with you a few times, she'll date you. Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:59 PM
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Men get in the fuckzone when some woman thinks they're hot and the sex is good, but they are kinda a scumbag or otherwise embarrassing to her. It's not common, but it happens. I had a friend in college like that. He had more casual sex than anyone I know, but almost no relationships. He was attractive and charming (at first), but also a serious coke head, failed DJ, terrible student, no ambition, etc. Girls would sleep with him a few times, and then move on to someone more real. These are also t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:39 PM
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Yeah I was just editing my comment. The engagement data seemed fairly solid to me. IMO the issue is the average number of years dating prior to marriage. My guess would be the closer women get to 30 (and men to 35) the shorter the time dating before marriage gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 11:54 PM
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The average age of first marriage for women in the US is 27. It's 29 for men. And the trend is people marrying older and older. Source Edit: I think the weakest part of the analysis is the average time people date before marriage. I couldn't find reliable data on that. Looks like average USA engagement is 14-15 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 11:49 PM
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Wow...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 11:45 PM
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banned muted reported to the admins
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 11:10 PM
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I tend to view all non-liberal feminists as being 'radical' because they all "call for a radical reordering of society in which male supremacy is eliminated in all social and economic contexts." But maybe that's not the most technically correct language. Either way, what you mean by the radical feminism of the 70s has been largely abandoned, and so splitting feminism into this radfem vs. libfems binary does not make sense if we are sticking to the technical/proper terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 08:45 PM
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Yeah probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:17 PM
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I'm glad you like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:08 PM
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Tbf most men aren't obsessing or even thinking about the OKC study though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:04 PM
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I think it's interpreted both ways by different groups. I would agree that your interpretation is more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:03 PM
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Totally unrelated to your comment, but you need to change your flair text. After the /r/Incels ban, we aren't taking any chances with "violent content." I changed it to something temporary for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:51 PM
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Not long. In fact, the average incel's standards may already be higher in some respects than the average woman based on what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:48 PM
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This idea always gets thrown around here, and it's totally false. I 100% guarantee you that even the ugliest, most pathetic incel would start developing more complex/stringent standards as soon as they achieved any kind of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:27 PM
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The quality is terrible where I am too. Makes OKC almost unusable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:12 PM
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The issue with that position, from the standpoint of convincing people, is similar to the point /u/figthief was making here the other day. Many of the men who obsess over the OKC study want to be the man their partner choose in an ideal world. Or as you say, the man women would choose "in theory". They want to be idolized and thought of as perfect, even though it's impossible, and even though love doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:10 PM
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Yeah, photo quality is a variable that can't be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:06 PM
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Good post. Here's my CMV. In my reading of your argument, there's a conflict between your title and the post itself. Your title is pretty clear - the OkCupid study doesn't reflect reality. But then, you seem to argue that it does reflect reality in a certain way. You say: As a thought experiment, imagine if the female population was able to choose which male they wanted to date/marry/have casual sex with, and that choice was one-sided and indefinite, it would probably look similar to how viewers…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:00 PM
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We keep deleting your posts because we've warned you like a 100 times to stop compulsively/obsessively posting. And in spite of all those warnings, you keep/kept doing it. So now you can't post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 04:52 PM
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Yeah, more like people who are into Judith Butler and Donna Harraway - post-marxist, intersectional, post-modern feminism. That's the feminism that is popular and respected in academia today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 04:38 PM
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No, that's a misconception based on the 2nd wave feminism of the 70s. There are 3rd (and arguably 4th) wave radical feminists who are sex-positive. These people are in the Marxist/intersectional school of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 04:36 PM
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No idea. Sometimes Automod is a bit finicky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:29 AM
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I'm not sure this breakdown is true anymore/among millennials. I went to a liberal arts school, so I knew tons of radfems. They were almost all sex-positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:28 AM
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Select edit and then re-save to summon the automod comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:11 AM
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Mainly because I'm not sure it fits our criterion: Posts overly-fixated on the plight of any particular group or individual will be removed. The "sexual liberation only benefits elite men" meme/POV is a common RP/manosphere idea. Surely you aren't suggesting we ban people espousing it? Because idk if this post is "overly" fixated on the plight of a particular group. If this post was going to be removed, it would be because /u/AldorRod isn't really participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 12:17 AM
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Removed. OP, please be aware of our rules on excessive/compulsive posting: Excessive Posting. If you are posting multiple threads a day, you are probably not participating in the conversations you posted, which defeats the purpose. After you have posted, please wait until the discussion has died down before posting again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 12:13 AM
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Great comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 05:21 PM
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Implying I have any interest in 3 dimensional women. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:05 PM
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ಠ_ಠ
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 11:15 PM
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It would be a nightmare to moderate. Where do you draw a clear brightline between the obvious truth of that looks matter to some degree and so-called 'lookism'? At what point on the spectrum does it become 'lookism'? And banning an idea that's relevant to the forum isn't something we want to. We banned "incel content" because that content is essentially linked to behavior that's disruptive and annoying. But for us to say that a certain viewpoint, about relevant subject matter, no matter how it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 08:19 PM
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Only if it supports what I already believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 12:52 AM
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I can only tell you the way in which it can be discussed without a lot of comment removals. And that way amounts to serious-posting. Like, the issue you're bringing up is fine. If you had posted excerpts from this article, nothing would have been removed. Express the idea you want in a productive way that will lead to quality responses, and not using language that's deliberately inflammatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:36 PM
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Do you have a peer-reviewed study to back up that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 09:58 PM
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Preferring one set of language or terms to another when describing something can't be a question of 'fact'. That makes no sense. The point is that you're deliberating stating the core message/idea/"fact"/whatever in a deliberately charged and inflammatory way. In this case, along racial lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 09:47 PM
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There's a difference between race-baiting ("using their sheckles to show goys their shmeckles") and discussing racial issues as they relate to dating/sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 09:32 PM
2

Like everyone is saying, incels overgrazed the commons. MGTOW didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 04:54 PM
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I don't want to remove this. But I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 10:21 PM
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Please be civil to other other users. Thinking someone has abhorrent beliefs, is wrong, annoying, etc. isn't an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 10:07 PM
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Post this is in the gender wars mega-thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 07:42 PM
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This post? I can still see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:52 AM
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I don't think so. But not 100% sure. Did you ever read any of the comments there? The users were hilariously unbalanced. I can't imagine anyone other than the most extreme autists being able to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:51 AM
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😎🔨
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:49 AM
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Oh it already exists. The Lookism and Sluthate forums (spinoffs of the old PUA Hate forums) are super similar to /r/Incels. But off-site forums don't have access to reddit's huge userbase/audience to spread their message. So people like to come here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:46 AM
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Me too. But we're not gonna let a takeover or anything happen. Especially since admins are clearly done allowing that kind of content on this site. They've already banned a few of the incels backup subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:42 AM
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Yeah by the reddit admins. It was for violations of the site's policy on violent content.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:35 AM
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Because this is sort of noteworthy, I figured we should approve this post, even though it's about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:31 AM
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Thx fam
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 05:58 PM
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No, it just says that divorce is more likely when the husband is not employed full time. That doesn't mean women see employment as inherently masculine. They might divorce unemployed men more often because they don't see any financial reason to stay. Especially if it's a beta bux marriage to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:09 PM
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In no way does that paper refute what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:04 PM
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Dude idk about that. I have known plenty of guys who don't 'do' anything, but girls still think they are really hot and/or masculine. They just party, do cocaine, go to the club, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:57 PM
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Select edit, then re-save to summon the automod comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:52 PM
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I totally get that. I couldn't handle a housewife. But I think we should be careful not to conflate our preferences with what's masculine or feminine. For example, who's more masculine. A convicted felon in jail for multiple violent crimes, or one of those Buzzfeed writers who's T was under 300? The former is unemployed, the latter isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:51 PM
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Maybe, but the overwhelming majority of jobs don’t provide any kind of real purpose. The jobs women seem to find attractive have more to do with demonstrating qualities they like - leadership, ability to handle risk or danger, physical or artistic skill, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:25 PM
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This has got to be a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:06 PM
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I guess what I am saying is that do most people who want to get rid of gender roles still seem to want gender roles within their personal life? I think I get what you're saying, and yeah. It's complicated because I do think most aspects of our "gender roles" are socially constructed. But there's clearly parts of them which aren't, and those are not going away anytime soon. Edit: For example, I think the 'employment' thing is a social construct. Some jobs are definitely hotter to women (artist, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 07:48 PM
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Yeah, I mean that’ll do it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 06:54 PM
2

Do you think he was right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 05:47 PM
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Good point. I've heard that in Japan, for example, a lot of girls think that white guys look sort of weird and brutish. They prefer that metro/J-pop aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 05:45 PM
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It's not new, but I haven't been using it as much recently. I should though. It's like the only benefit to being a mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 03:50 PM
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Calm down dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 03:43 PM
1

Looks like the video has been taken down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 02:32 PM
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Experiencing needs is one thing. Identifying with them is another. That's the key difference .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 02:13 AM
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Whoever reported AutoMod should be ashamed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 02:01 AM
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OP, this is a reminder that we don't allow super-frequent post submissions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 11:44 PM
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This is better for the stickied gender wars megathread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 06:30 AM
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Loving this Chris Hemsworth to Steve Carrell scale. I agree that in general Bob is going to be more desperate or more attached than Kyle. But IME, it's often not like that with Kyle and Rob. I've known plenty of Kyles whose emotionality and accompanying personal magnetism make them both more alpha/attractive, and more crazy about whoever their with. So it's actually harder for them to move on than a guy who's more in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 09:55 PM
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IME, there's not much correlation between so-called "alphaness" and lack of pedestalizing. Idealizing someone is driven by emotion, not a rational assessment of one's value and options. Like, if anything, I think 'alphas' tend to truly pedestalize more, because the attachment is more driven by the qualities of the individual woman. Whereas 'betas' are coming from a POV where women are a sort of fungible commodity, but one that's still above them. TLDR: we agree on a lot, but I don't think it's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 09:17 PM
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I think alpha desperation comes off as less desperate to women because the guys are hotter. But IME it's not actually less. Plenty of guys with tons of options get fixated on one unavailable girl, thinking she's perfect and all that, and it gets super weird and pathetic. Would it seem more pathetic if they were uglier/less cool? Yeah, but the essential level of desperation is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:56 PM
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I guess it depends on what you mean by "beta." If you're including the losers guys who called "omega" on here, TRP, etc, then I agree. But if you mean beta as a normie, stable guy, then I disagree. Most men like that don't live with a fear of never finding someone. At least not until they get past 35, but that's another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:43 PM
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One of my friend/acquaintance groups is all combat vets. Many of which are former operators - navy seals, marine recon, etc. They're all super 'alpha,' but so many of them pedestalize their wives/girlfriends. So yeah, it's definitely possible. Maybe even common. I meet way more guys who "exhibit significant alpha personality" traits, than I do guys who don't idealize/pedestalize the woman they're dating/married to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:08 PM
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Nah, most of the "alpha" guys I know pedestalize women out fear and desperation and fascination too. The difference is that they relate to only a select few women like that, rather than most/all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:01 PM
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Yes. I'm willing to give it another shot, but OP doesn't seem very sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 07:31 PM
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There are a ton of reports, yes. Basically, there's an impression that you're posting only to push a certain, in this case unjustified, agenda. Rather than discussing the issue in good-faith. I am willing to give this thread another chance, as it's very active. Do you think you be more sincere and understanding as you debate people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 07:30 PM
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Removed - this seems like a bad faith thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 07:16 PM
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Removed - no "woe is me" posting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 07:03 PM
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Awwww 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 02:57 PM
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S'all good! So interesting to see some of these people IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 07:47 PM
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Just found it thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 07:42 PM
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Do you have a link to the pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 07:32 PM
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Yeah, that's a definite possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 04:42 PM
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Huh, I'd consider getting one if I wasn't such an Apple fanboy/cultist. Totally agree that the black bar on the iPhone X is a disgrace to design. Apple is slipping bigtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 04:27 PM
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Hopefully, the incels, foreign and domestic, don't ruin this for us all. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 04:21 PM
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We'll discuss it. I don't have a problem adding it to the sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 04:19 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 04:09 PM
1

Is that a Pixel 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 02:16 AM
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Removed - better suited for TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 02:06 PM
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No, I wish there was. But reddit doesn't provide a way to determine who they are definitively. So there's not much we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 01:50 AM
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We've kicked around ideas similar to this in the past, and I think everyone is open to trying it out. The advantage of the mega-threads is they allow conversations to play out all week. But if different rules on the weekend increase activity during dead times, that may ultimately be better. Hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 11:08 PM
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We'll try to keep both stickied all week. But sometimes we have to remove one because we need the space for mod announcements.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 09:58 PM
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Yeah that’s effective because it weeds out the people who will say yes in the moment, but aren’t interested enough or whatever to follow through. I guess my point is that in between the “yes” and the actual date, there’s gonna be a lot of flakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 06:29 PM
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Oh I know. The post in question is a alt/sock account of someone who tries to troll on PPD a lot. But the incels stuff is still an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 06:17 PM
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Agree with you in principle, but incels are their own culture. Guys who struggle with women are not necessarily buying into /r/incels and its associated memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 06:14 PM
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It looks like the study only looked at the “yes” answers, and not how many dates happened. Trust me, depending on the attractiveness of the guy involved, 70-90% of the “yes” responses wouldn’t have translated into actual dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 06:12 PM
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Sure, it's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 04:34 PM
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Yeah we need to do better with it. Honestly, if they put half the effort they do into evading rules and bans on PPD into getting laid, they wouldn’t be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 03:27 PM
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Removed - extremely low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 10:21 PM
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Remove the link to her Insta and i'll reapprove
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 05:56 PM
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Agree with your title. Disagree with the text in your post. It's too extreme. Sub 5 people who are trying to date are a part of the SMP, they are losing at it. Like how the unemployed but actively seeking employment are considered a part of the labor market. It's only when they totally give up that the 'losers' are counted out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 04:59 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 03:43 PM
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This was my thought as well. The professor's assumption is pretty weak, and leaves a lot uninvestigated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 03:16 PM
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Dude this is an off-topic thread for discussion of MRA and stuff. Not a place to talk about how the IRC mods banned you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 03:09 PM
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No, that's not what he was trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 04:05 AM
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What can I say 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 04:05 AM
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It was like general wisdom
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 04:04 AM
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In college, the president of my fraternity used to say: “for every time you get called a douchebag, there’s one girl that wants to fuck you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 06:40 PM
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Thx fam
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 10:33 PM
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It's crazy how many options they throw at you. The average supermarket carries about 30,000 different products, and there are 100s of incredibly similar options. The guy who coined that term calculated that when he went to buy a stereo, given all the different pieces and components needed, he was presented at the store with 6,512,000 possible combinations. Insane!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 03:51 PM
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The stock answer around these parts is that the 'Dating Apocalypse' is only good for the top 10% or 1% or whatever of single men out there. So it's not good for men generally, it's good for a small minority of men, and basically no one else. I'm going to CMV from a different perspective. My argument is that even if most men could get casual sex more or less on-demand in the 21st century, they wouldn't "benefit" in meaningful way. Modern casual dating is not about procreation. And therefore I arg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 03:40 PM
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It's for sure better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 01:33 AM
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A side point I want to raise. I don't think jumping from attractive male archetype to attractive male archetype is an issue. Most guys won't see a chick jumping from a influential photographer to an high-powered trial attorney as a red-flag. Or if a girl is dating an athlete and then moves on to the lead singer of a cool band. It's natural for people to explore different interests and types of people. The issue is when women go from a sexually attractive "type" (hot bartender) to a clear BB type…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 12:51 AM
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I'm not worried about past promiscuity. But I'll answer anyway. It would only be a concern if I wanted something serious/long-term, and it was clear that the reason she only had flings with guys like me (and never anything more) was something that was nearly insurmountable. For example, her family believes in fundamentalist Islam and she can't stand to be ex-communicated by them, or she was only willing to live long-term in a place/city that someone like me would find totally objectionable. In a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 12:40 AM
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Plz no spam
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 09:32 PM
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This really doesn't belong here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 03:15 PM
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Removed - this is a ridiculously leading and circlejerky post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 03:05 PM
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Wow time really flies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 03:42 PM
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Who are your Insta crushes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 07:16 PM
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OP, this is a reminder that we don't allow super-frequent post submissions on this subreddit. Please limit posts to one every 12 hours at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 02:05 AM
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😃 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 06:57 PM
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Removed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 06:32 PM
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Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 03:45 AM
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fite me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:10 PM
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thanks fam
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:09 PM
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love you bb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 06:54 PM
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How did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 05:03 PM
1

Elliot Roger is an incel meme
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:11 AM
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It's about Elliot Roger. He's an incel meme now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:10 AM
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Removed - too close to an incel post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:46 AM
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Select edit then resave to summon to the automod comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 02:07 AM
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Select edit and then resave your post to summon the automod comment. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 11:19 PM
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Honestly either approach is fine. Typically people will respond to the mod comment, and disagreement escalates the situation gets moved to modmail. But it's totally fine to go straight to modmail as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 04:58 PM
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If you remove that and repost it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 04:49 PM
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All the trigger warning stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 04:43 PM
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Removed - too trollish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 04:29 PM
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We require that people add summaries/text of any linked material. Please add a summary sufficient to explain the POV of the video, or this will be removed. Thanks! Edit: removed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 08:51 PM
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As I recall, you dropped out of the last argument before supporting any of your claims. That's not much of a defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 04:42 PM
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Atlas has nothing to do with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 04:41 PM
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Idk either tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 01:58 AM
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I appreciate that, but I'm not re-approving it. This whole post became very witch-hunty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:55 PM
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The 'power couple' idea is pretty attractive to me. Also, would be comfortable dating someone who made more than me. My last gf made WAY more. But since my family is so wealthy, I'm in a different position than most. It's unlikely that anyone I date would have access to more financial resources than me, no matter what job they had.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:50 PM
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It's way too personal about another user dude. Nothing to do with jaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:49 PM
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Too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:37 PM
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I recall the views you were unable to defend, but I'm asking why you choose to express that again here. Are you saying you just randomly chose to comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:05 PM
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So you called me a hypocrite in this thread for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 03:58 PM
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For removing this post later?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 01:41 PM
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You gotta make sure you're diversifying your investments. Anything incel-related is gonna be high-risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 04:09 PM
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The last post was different in many ways. Most of the incel content before was straight-up whining about various personal problems, whereas the last post in question was more about the /r/Incels forum. I tried to give that thread a chance because it was a slow time of day and it was higher effort than normal. But it ended up attracting a bunch of troll comments, so it was removed this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 03:41 PM
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If the thread gets brigaded by incels, we'll remove/lock the thread and ban any offenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 04:22 AM
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We will give this thread a try, but if it devolves into trolling or woe is me posting, it's getting removed and we will be even stricter about incel-content in the future. Next time ask us first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 04:14 AM
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This belongs in the stickied mega-thread. Edit: giving this thread a chance because it seems high-effort, there's already a lot of comments, and it isn't woe-is-me posting yet. Will remove if it starts going south. Edit 2: Well we tried, but a number of woe-is-me comments, comments about how women need to raped, etc. appeared in this thread. It's been removed, and I guess a good reminder about the risks of giving people second chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 04:06 AM
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Yeah people who report are stupid 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 09:37 PM
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He's in complete denial about so much. I watched their audition tapes for that show a second ago. At one point, he complains about how all the girls in California "just want to be like the Kardashians" and that he's sick of that dating people like that. Then, they cut to her tape, where she literally says, "I guess I want to be like [the] Kardashians...have my face on a billboard." lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 02:16 AM
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Please click edit and then resave to summon the automod comment. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 02:50 AM
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The only Jaws I like talking about. More Jaws analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 11:45 PM
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Basically because it's circlejerking/shitposting, and a lot of users complain about it to us via reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 11:27 PM
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Makes sense. Genuinely enjoying your friends is the #1 thing. And yeah, I think groups of girls especially rely more on indirect communication. It's tough if you don't like to interact that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 11:16 PM
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Ok now I'm S P O O K E D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 11:11 PM
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That is so crazy to me. I want to meet these people IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 10:54 PM
2

Is that because it just didn't work out that way? Or is it an active preference you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 10:08 PM
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Interesting, how did y'all meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 10:07 PM
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We're not. All you need to do is change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 07:02 PM
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For someone, man or woman, to have literally no same-sex friendships is a huge red flag. Tbh I doubt whether or not these people exist beyond internet memes. Doesn't everyone who has friends have at least one same-sex friend? Even if they're friends from college or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 06:53 PM
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It's ok to admit you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 06:48 PM
1

Don't circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 04:34 PM
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So can I. And my point is that statement is laughably inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 04:31 PM
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Are you aware of the fem-centric statement here? There's nothing "fem-centric" about her statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 04:04 PM
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Dude there was a huge thread yesterday where someone more on the RP end was complaining that we allow BP/pro-women shitposts while removing the same content if it comes from RP or incels. You commented in it. The reality is that moderating this forum is difficult, and people have different ideas about constitutes appropriate content. They tend to see what they want to see, and that usually means seeing bias against themselves. There's no pro-RP conspiracy, and there never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:14 PM
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lmao fine fine. I'll unlock it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:02 PM
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Idk it's gone again. On mobile and the mod tools aren't as good as desktop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 12:58 PM
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Yeah I'm going to leave it removed. There are a number of other rule/guideline issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 12:57 PM
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Was busy for the last hour. Yeah, I mean I went for what I thought was the most blatant rule violation. But there's a number of other issues including the affirmative claim in the title and generally circlejerky way the issue is presented
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 12:55 PM
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Wow it is too early for me. I totally read that as /u/love8death
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 11:54 AM
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Callout/witch-hunt posts aren't allowed here. Removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 11:47 AM
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It's a callout/witch hunt post because it's focused on one person who's name is in the title. I removed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 11:46 AM
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I just spent longer than I should have searching for an image of Alex Jones drinking a sparkling water. But yeah. It's not even a conspiracy tbh. Astroturfing/manipulation happen even on forums as small and inconsequential as PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:58 AM
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It is if you create a sockpuppet account and associated "character" and pretend to believe something you don't to make a point. But flipping things around in an argument, under your normal PPD account, to highlight weaknesses or absurdities in someone else's position is a 100% valid and effective debate tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:35 AM
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Uhhh wait, what were we talking about again?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 11:22 PM
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