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| 0 | End relationship or keep going?Many of my relationships have ended because I do not show enough comfort for the woman... She was in line and now she's behaving out of line. I've considered ending it. But curious if showing comfort and sprinkling in some dread to counteract the comfort will help snap her back in line? | /r/askMRP | 04/04/22 01:16 AM |
| 0 | End relationship or keep going?Ironically, she is very anti-feminist. We've roasted them and had laughs together about feminist views. This is one of the reasons I started dating her. She was super submissive until recently and was everything you want as a red pilled man. I think the consistent lack of comfort got to her... | /r/askMRP | 04/04/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What’s going on here?Didn’t do anything since I first posted. She called me back. I sense a thirst is soon to be quenched. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What’s going on here?Should I have not said don’t call me back? I felt like she was brushing me off. Guess my ego misinterpreted that... We’ve hooked up multiple times. She definitely likes me a lot but I’m fckin things up by just being me. I’m naturally aloof so I fail comfort tests a lot and take a while to respond. Those are exactly why I’m in the situation I’m in. If I’m reading you right, I gotta figure out a way to give some comfort. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How to focus when you have many goals that are attainableThanks dude. I think the idea of chronological sub goals is pretty helpful. My main issue is I’m not organized so I get paralyzed as a result of all the things I have to do. Sorta like sensory overload. Did you get this list from somewhere? I ask because I’d like to learn about this kind of stuff. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Potential FWB leveling up- how to maintain and not date your plates/FWBs?Text MUCH less, don't always willingly arrange meetings, keep her at a distance, see her once a week, don't instantly agree to see her again, never discuss any boyfriendy things. What constitutes boyfriendy things? | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | To text or not to text...Classic keyboard jockey that probably fucks anything with a hole. Fck something that has a hole and a brain, that’s not a dude. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | To text or not to text...That’s how you get all the answers. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | To text or not to text...Any drunk person is going to seem horny, not comfortable. Comfort is a complex emotion thats hard to express when you’re drunk. The whole “she would have texted you by now if she wanted to fuck” is complete BS. Not every girl that you meet is going to be frothing from the loins for you. There’s always gonna be some investment on your part. It’s part of being a man. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How long till second date?She lives in my building. I was thinking of hitting her up to hang out tonight but dunno if that’s too soon | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | movie recommendations that show frame + game?Oceans 11-13 paying special attention to George Clooney and Brad Pitts character. Obviously it’s a movie. It’s all fake. But there’s mannerisms, the tonality of their voice, mostly body language stuff which capture the trp mindset | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Gym game?Think about it like this. Thousands of years ago, if you were chopping wood and building a house. You gonna stop what you are doing to try to holla at a chick? Nope, you got a house to build. Focus on the workout. Game after your workout. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Why can’t I close???27 | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Met girl that lives in my building...how to proceed?Well I shot her a text. We’ll See if she comes. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Met girl that lives in my building...how to proceed?I agree with this. And have been in this situation before. If I get rejected I just don’t let it bother me. Just kept acting as if it’s never happened | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Met girl that lives in my building...how to proceed?How do you gather that? A convo that just flows naturally from topic to topic. No awkwardness. That’s just a solid convo. It’s not oneitis | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Met girl that lives in my building...how to proceed?Too soon to invite her to a small party I’m hosting? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 02:50 PM |
| 3 | I have so much trouble holding frame.You’re coming from the wrong frame here. This frame is telling me that you care way too much about what other people think. You want them to think you’re the shit. You think Jamie Fox or Seth Rogen operate based on other’s perception of them. Nah, they do what they wanna do. Of course celebs listen to other people’s opinions but they don’t let opinions effect their course of action. But being cool af or being perceived as powerful is a by-product of working hard and being successful. Focus on be… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How to become more “Masculine"Whenever I do this I end up with the “world is against me mentality” and it’s not good for social situations. I just come off as stern and not fun. RSD has the concept of have fun with everyone. Doesn’t mean you have give them a rub n tug but just smile and be cordial. How do I reconcile being manly with smiling and having fun with everyone | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | When to sexualize over text? FrameSo you go straight for logistics without any banter? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Used a line a girl has gotten before...hold frame or change strategy?It’s not. Red pill theories should percolate through all forms of communication including texting. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Used a line a girl has gotten before...hold frame or change strategy?Asking for help is try hard? Good one. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Used a line a girl has gotten before...hold frame or change strategy?Lol | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Used a line a girl has gotten before...hold frame or change strategy?Overtly try hard IMO. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Used a line a girl has gotten before...hold frame or change strategy?I like this | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 12:36 AM |
| 0 | Used a line a girl has gotten before...hold frame or change strategy?Yeah so anytime a girl thinks she’s hot shit it’s game over right? She could have simply not responded. You don’t think a cheeky response like “K checking for more material. May take a while. So hold your breath”. “Don’t wait on me I’m not the dependable type” | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Male Behavioral ArchetypesHe’s saying that people have a natural propensity to pickup certain behaviors over others. If you’re a sigma m, you’re introverted. and if you force yourself to be socially dominant, which is an alpha trait, it will feel unnatural and drain you of your energy. It’s called persona fatigue. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Persistence vs NeedinessAgree being direct = not needy. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Getting better at shit testsWith that logic there’s no room to improve. I like to make each of my interactions count. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Getting better at shit testsDamn that never crossed my mind. Will probably play off that | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Great first date, flirty text convo, no response for second dateI only drove like 45 mins. She drove almost two hours. But Yeah logistics issues does not equate to oneitis. Just means poor planning. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | No text backYeah I have. I just started getting back out there after a LTR...I’ve gonna on a handful dates but haven’t met anyone I’m in interested. I’m going out in NYC tonight. So I’m stoked to finally really get the wheels turning again | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | No text backI doubt that man. I took my sweet time getting back to her. Only texting when I was free so it was ole 24 hours before I texted her back at times. It I think I get your point. On to the next. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | No text backMet her via CMB. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | No text backI was thinking that as I agreed to meet more centrally for the first date. But sometimes I find myself overthinking this kind of stuff. I just went to have a good time and check out this microbrewery that I’ve always wanted to check out. Meeting up with her just worked out. I don’t think she got a beta vibe from me. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Coming across too mean?Yea this is it. Thanks man. I have a huge ego. And I hate trying to prove myself to women. But for quality women you have to do that at some point in the interaction. I just have to accept that. I need to channel the playful kid thing you're talking about. My teasing really goes hard and just chips away at their character in a really direct way. Need to make it more innocent and lighthearted. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Coming across too mean?By smiling more? Not sure how. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Coming across too mean?No | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Advice- TRP in a family setting with a smidgen of oneitisCool | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Advice- TRP in a family setting with a smidgen of oneitisYeah | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Missing lay ups. How to convert?Hmm yeah this would have played out well. Thanks | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Missing lay ups. How to convert?I've done this. There's a fine line between cocky and funny and just straight up arrogant and assholey. I guess learning how to tread that line will come with time. Thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Missing lay ups. How to convert?Actually have been looking into Improv. It's really good for people like me who struggle with the whole trapped in your head thing. It also just enforces ngaf and rids your schema of judgement. So hopefully I get my shit together and start it. I ran through the scenario a couple times. Trying not to obsess and beat myself up about it. Definitely helped. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Missing lay ups. How to convert?Exactly | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | When is the perfect time to pepper SOIs? Right when the set starts or after I reach the hook point?Nothing over the top. Just things like "you look intriguing" or "you are so spontaneous and crazy" Physical escalation like brushing her shoulder and hugging her are also statements of interest. You never stop making them. But you always pay attention the girl. How is she reacting to your SOIs? If she looks uncomfortable. Take a break from the SOIs. Another strategy is to make the SOIs and then boom go on to the next topic. I do this if I am unsure of how the girl is feeling. But if I can pick u… | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Saying whatever comes to mind in the moment (Daygame self-amusement experience)It is also really important to calibrate. Self amusing is great but doing it without picking up the girl's social cues is insane. Fine line, takes time to learn. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 03:53 PM |
| 7 | Can some brown guys share their experiences?Good luck on your bio/accounting/engineering exam. All jokes aside your view on race is a limiting belief. There's no need to weigh the effects of race on your game. It's part of who you are. It's not going away. So embrace it. Have fun with it. For example, I break out the Indian accent when hitting on girls and convince them I just immigrated to the states. Eventually I stop doing the accent and tell em they're suckers for falling for that. This type of stuff shows that you're comfortable with… | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 06:50 PM |
| 5 | What do you talk about to build intimacy?What exactly is a intimacy? Why is it special? Intimacy is connection that gives way to a feeling of mutual trust and attraction. How do you gain somebody's trust? Get them to divulge information about themselves they would only do to a close friend or "boyfriend." I do this all the time and it leaves women shocked that they shared private information about their lives after meeting me just one week ago. Most guys struggle with this, so doing this will definitely set you apart. How to get women … | /r/seduction | 29/01/14 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Texting girl after a long timeHer best friend told me everything yest. She still likes me and is attracted to me but wants me to put in more work and be a little more romantic. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 09:05 AM |
| 1 | What's the most effective way to get helpful critiques with one's conversation skills?i recommend recording yourself. if you have apple ear buds you can tape it to the inside of your shirt so that the mic is as close to the top of the neck of the shirt. use a voice recording app and thats all. nobody has ever noticed it. and, yes, sometimes the music is too loud but on an average night I'll have 5-10 convos all in different places at the venue- some quiet, some not. in the end, you can really pinpoint on where you have problems. you might be able to tell that your voice gets shak… | /r/seduction | 15/01/14 05:21 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/13/14Family, occupation, recreation, dreams- FORD for short. Focus on the last two. Pick out things from her answers that interest you and comment on them. Offer your opinion. If this girl is worth your time, she should give detailed answers that give you plenty of chances to continue the conversation by stating your opinion. She will also hold the burden of continuing the conversation. Don't worry if it gets quiet. Embrace and let the awkwardness hang, smile, hold eye contact, then start the convo a… | /r/seduction | 14/01/14 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Texting girl after a long timeYeah, thats a good response. I ended up just not texting back because she took forever to respond to my first text and I didnt see her response till the next day. | /r/seduction | 13/01/14 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Texting girl after a long timeI see your point. I did text her a couple days after our date a day before her final for some coffee and got no response. I think that was just poor timing on my part. Been talking to some of my friends and it came up that she could just be upset that I didn't reach out to her in those three weeks by wishing her happy new year or merry christmas etc. There were plenty of things I could have texted her about but I didn't. So now she's playing hard to get because she opened up too much too soon an… | /r/seduction | 13/01/14 08:00 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/6/14Went in a date three weeks ago. Went very well kiss closed. She was really really into me. She texted me after the date. I responded very late and got no response from her. Then I Texted her to get coffee before her final and got no response. Haven't texted her since. How to open her when I run into her in school? | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Super interested girl...gone cold?i was being very flirty. and she was eating it all up. the same thing happened when i first met her and got her number. there was palpable sexual tension but LMR kicked in strong at the end. i have a feeling all this was horrible timing because of finals, but i dont want to rule out her just losing interest. this all took place 3 weeks ago... | /r/seduction | 04/01/14 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Moving from number to date to sexI gotcha. I really can't think of anything I did to turn her off. Honestly I think it was finals that just got in the way. If I don't get a text I was thinking of sending one like next week which puts about two weeks since I last texted her. | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Moving from number to date to sexOk. It was finals week in med school which is horrible timing in my part | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 04:19 AM |
| 1 | The Line Between Showing Interest and Being NeedyIs it considered needy to try to hang out with her before we part for xmas break? | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Nothing to say during the date?This is an inner game problem. You aren't comfortable with yourself. Awkward silences shouldn't be awkward for you. You are just waiting for the girl to invest in the convo. I just stare at the girl during awkward silences. Don't stare creepily but use your eyes to let her know you're waiting for her to speak. Believe that everything you have to say is fucking awesome. It may just be boring shit but when the girl sees you're enthusiastic about it she will want to engage in that conversation beca… | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 01:39 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/17/13 (please upvote - zero karma)We generally fuck when she wants because I can't start the sexual banter without her feeling weird. It's not me I've been able to do this with other women. She just has these issues but its so paradoxical because you wouldn't think she is the way she is after seeing her in bed | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 10:39 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/17/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I'm talking to a girl that's Bout a 7. She gets a lot of attention from dudes so she has the expectations of a 9. She a freak in bed but she really has to be in the mood. She doesn't like physical contact unless she's been warmed up to it. She doesn't like being called sexy and dirty talk unless already in bed. How the fuck I'm supposed to have some sexual banter with her when she so uptight bout things? | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 10:28 PM |
| 0 | A clear-cut summary of one anon's transformation, what women are like, and tips for outer and inner game.OK so I think this dude hit the nail on the head when he mentioned the highly emotional creatures females are. I think this something a lot of us struggle with: invigorating emotions within women. How do you accomplish this? | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"?Wow here's a few from my cuckoo ex. Don't date girls with low self esteem. This is an internal problem that they need to resolve themselves. No amount of generosity or affection or dick will make them feel better. Don't date girls with daddy issues because there is not a tissue in this universe to fix that problem. Many women have low esteem because of their daddy issues. The father is the first man in their life that loves them and cares for them. However, when these fathers start treating thei… | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Good way to reestablish contactjust did it got a good response. thank brosef | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Good way to reestablish contactWhen should I message her? I was thinking of doing it today | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Good way to reestablish contacti completely agree with the logic here. she's an HB9 so she gets a LOT of attention. but my only reservation is that she won't feel motivated to respond given the amount of time that has passed. the only thing i have going for me is that almost exactly one year ago she was totally into me...she was mesmerized. | /r/seduction | 13/02/13 09:11 PM |
| 0 | How can I teach myself to speak slower?Just start hoping one of your chromosomes mutate | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Seduction Essentials: The Qualms of Being an Attractive GuyDamn that's deep. Hit me right in the nutsack. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Seduction Essentials: The Qualms of Being an Attractive GuyWell I'm in it for the long haul, so I guess there's no other way. Thanks for your two cents, Abe. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Seduction Essentials: The Qualms of Being an Attractive GuyI don't know. I haven't escalated with girl I am focusing on tonight. This will be the first chance I have to escalate with her. I think part of her attraction for me is grounded in the fact that she doesn't KNOW much about me. I've been mysterious since I dont go to class much OR talk to her. I only recently started flirting and talking to her. Escalate meaning Kino and flirt with sexual undertones? Right?? The kino can be done. I have no problem with that. I am a decent flirt, but usually my f… | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone want to start a lair in Philadelphia?yea man i'm not sure what rsd is but im down to start a philly lair. | /r/seduction | 23/01/13 02:46 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/24/2012 (please upvote - zero karma)What am I supposed to do on once I am on a date? I absolutely hate going into interview mode but its sometimes the only thing to do to escape awkward city. So far I have some funny stories to tell but that's it..how do I incorporate her into the conversation if I'm telling stories? | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 12:30 AM |
| 1 | What to do when falling out of state?if look on the top post on seddit there is TED video regarding body language and how it evokes certain emotions/feelings within you. One thing that they recommended in the video to feel more confident or alpha is mimic confident gestures. For example, when you're out of state go into the bathroom, put your hands on your hips, push your chest out, and just stand there for like 2 minutes in that exact position. You should feel more confident. Make sure you lock the door beforehand. | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Text Game Thursdaysdamn i wish i had seen this before! So i feel like a lot of guys use the "High maintenance line" What i mean by this is "I'm too high maintenance for you." I used this and got the response "Oh nooo nobody likes high maintenance" To which I responded "Oh dont call yourself nobody. im sure you're somebody to someone" Hopefully this helps someone! | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Building ConfidenceI understand where you are coming from, but I am satisfied with my outward appearance. I dress well and go to the gym regularly. My issue arises in not thinking that I have the personality to back up my looks. I'm not the best with words. I'm not too good at flirting...sexual subtlety is not my forte. I also care about what other people think of me way too much. I can't love myself with these flaws staring me in the face. Or can I? How would I go about loving myself more? All I can think of is a… | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Building ConfidenceI may not have your anxiety issues, but my confidence issues seem just as crippling... | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to sarcastic compliments?"Yea, I know. I'm actually doing some stand up Wednesday. I'd inv you but tickets are sold out." | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 01:29 AM |
| 1 | What are some common hoops to present women?Ah yes...I have used "ask nicely" with a smirk and its worked well. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 03:06 AM |
| 0 | Watched a TED Talk on body language today. Thought it was relevant to seddit.i cant help but spring a boner when striking a power pose. I just feel so alive...horny. ugh guess I can't do this before my presentation tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 07:53 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experience3 IOIs before escalating! | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?they aren't bad. being alpha doesn't mean be an asshole. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Gaming an ex to use as an f buddySo then just cut contact with her. Cut her out your life. She'll realize that there is something missing. And slowly come back to you and try to get your attention again. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Gaming an ex to use as an f buddyYeah good point. I have been trying to be as subtle as I possible in conveying these new traits I have developed such as the ones you described (dominance/confidence/etc). But she isn't buying them like other girls do mainly because she has this old image of me. Now, I know for a fact that my ex will not attach any emotions to physicality int the sack. We have hooked up a couple times after we broke up but I wasnt as good as sex as I am now. So it's just a matter of me showing this confidence, h… | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Gaming an ex to use as an f buddymy problem with dropping those hints is that when I have done that in the past, it irks the girl and she starts telling me about different guys shes been with...obviously not the effect i'm not going for. but i guess i wasn't being as subtle as i could have been. I have some DHV stories which drop subtle hints | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 02:58 AM |
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