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| 18 | Approaching girls in public? | Kidpunk98 | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 02:36 PM | |
| 5 | First cold approach! | Kidpunk98 | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 05:12 PM | |
| 1 | What is the difference between Seddit and The Red pill in your words? | Kidpunk98 | /r/seduction | 23/07/16 09:31 PM |
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| 1 | How can I approach MORE and FASTER?I see. Now I get you. Those guys are not PUAs brother. In the end PUA is about self improvement in all aspects of your life. That includes learning how to approach and talk to women. Approaching a lot will ell you tremendously trough experience. The guys you talk about seem to just play the numbers game and just keep doing what they're doing without a thought why they are failing. Also, true. Obviously, you don't approach a girl with the intention of getting laid when she is clearly right next t… | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Take A Woman Home Tonight! A Step By Step Guide To Pulling Consistently.I see, you really know your stuff man. I'm gonna need a link to that website. | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 12:26 AM |
| 1 | How can I approach MORE and FASTER?I get where you are coming from. seduction is not for everybody. The term PUA is associated with the old guys who first started it and had the terrible menatality of pick up lines and orchestrated routines. Pick up is not like that. You might not like random people approaching you. But about 95% of people do. It's comes down to how you do it. If you do it right, you will probably make the persons day. You are taking it I the extreme. No one said you Should approach every girl you see. If you go … | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Take A Woman Home Tonight! A Step By Step Guide To Pulling Consistently.You. Who are you? Why don't you have your own website? One question that seems to boggle my mind. I read in so many places that you should say things like. "Let's get outta here, let's go to my place, we will have a milkshake". That's an example. "Let's go, we'll be back in 20 minutes." Thing is, how do girls fall for that? I doubt they are all stupid enough to believe they are going there for a milkshake. | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 09:38 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys say after the "you are funny!" ??Sarcasm? | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How can I approach MORE and FASTER?I'll have to disagree there. From everything I've ever read about PUA, the one thing that'll get you good with some is experience. Cold approaching in the day (Daygame) is the best way to do. Now ofcourse, you should hang out in the alleyway and jump at every girl who walks by. When you go out for whatever reason and notice an attractive girl(s), approach , strike up a conversation. That's fun, best case, you succeed, worst case, you learn from your mistakes. It's not needy, there are 3.5 billio… | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Keys to my Public Transportation Close Last NightI noticed a few mistakes in there, but that just shows how easy this stuff really is. Make mistakes, who cares. | /r/seduction | 17/07/16 07:46 PM |
| -14 | Me [27 M] with my wife [24 F] together for almost 10 years, married for 1.5, I am panicking about being married, don't know what to do. She changed in the last months.Man! Don't listen to all the other cliche RP advice telling you to get a divorce or withdraw affection. I mean WTF is wrong with you people? Nobody actually told you to talk to her about. No matter what, communication is key. Next time she pulls something similar, firmly but calmly. Ask her what's happened that makes her act this way. Don't let her get away with a vague running away from the topic type of answer. Tell her you aren't stupid and you've noticed that things changed and you don't wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 12:59 AM |
| -5 | The Red Pill and Blue Pill Perceive Time DifferentlyI hate so much what you did there. This thing in this subreddit where you think you have everything about the perfect life figured out. Anything negative in this live you throw onto your sworn enemies, "the blue pillars". Like wtf? The term blue pillar (though I do not agree with the hierarchy bullshit on this subreddit nor the term) means someone who thinks women are perfect. Anything you TRP people dislike in this world, you put it into the BP persona you created for when you feel like critici… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Do shy/geeky/awkward girls like to hook-up?You mean TRP? :p | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Do shy/geeky/awkward girls like to hook-up?Here's why I don't like TRP. Number one, the founder. I read his story. His foundation is all so stupid. Basically a dude with good education and money who's just salty that women didn't want to sleep with him because of those 2 qualities. TRP includes the good advice like being confident, working out, assume attraction... But they try to mask all the terrible side of their ideally behind all the good advice. They mock r/seduction for believing in "Self improvement" to get women, and yes they pu… | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 11:05 PM |
| 3 | 3 Steps To Build Attractive Confidence Around Women! Guaranteed!Good post. I liked everything butter quote by mystery. Those old PUAs from the Game have really outdated stuff. Sure they have a few goo tips here in there, but it pales in comparison to the the rest of the utter balloni they preach. | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 09:43 PM |
| 1 | To everyone worried about what others think about them approaching.Funny. I just had an epiphany earlier today about how what anybody sees is just somebody talking to another person. | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 09:26 PM |
| 4 | How does one convey dominance and "be challenging" without being a spiteful jackass?Stupid advice. That's just mean. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Guys, need advice on a 'rude' girl, quick as possible.Being smooth is one of those qualities that automatically makes you the coolest guy on the room. It's not just for PUAs. Someone who is smooth is someone is always Calm, Unfazed,nothing surprises him, it's like he has seen it all. He still cares. If someone says a joke, being smooth doesn't mean that you just sit there with a poker expression on your face. You smile, with one side if your mouth, maybe give a little chuckle from the back of your mouth, but what you don't do is start screaming abo… | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Guys, need advice on a 'rude' girl, quick as possible.Weird. Whyd he take down the post? | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 04:34 PM |
| 2 | New York CityFunny. I'd be the perfect wingman if I didn't live thousands of miles away. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Girl sat next to me in the bus, was she interested in me?No such thing as leagues. You blew it because you blew it. No excuses. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl sat next to me in the bus, was she interested in me?Word. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl sat next to me in the bus, was she interested in me?We've all been there. Few weeks back (I'm 17, can go on approaching the 20 something" I was in a shop waiting on something. Most beautiful girl my age I've seen in a while was looking at me the entire time, (noticed through peripheral vision), then she it off her seat and stood I next where I was standing after I got up for a second too check on something. Then she came and sat right next to make and kept looking at me but I couldn't get myself to start a convo. NEVER AGAIN! Next time it's all i… | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Guys, need advice on a 'rude' girl, quick as possible.Very interesting. Use this like an experiment. I don't man that in an objectifying way. When you see her, try to always be smooth. As in Calm and effortless. Don't let the shit she says surprise. If she says something rude, ask her with a calm voice while looking in her eyes why she would say that. When she says he doesn't care, ask her what she Does care about. Don't let her get away with vague silly answers like "nothing" or "whatever". If she seems intimidated and wants to leave. Tell her cal… | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Got over (some of) my approach anxiety and talked to three pretty girls. Are there any improvements I could make?Ofcourse if you read from a bias person, they will smash what they're against. You can't lose with direct. If she's one of those girls who doesn't have a clue what you want. Opening direct will get rid of her anxiety towards you. The whole "what does this dude want and why is he talkin to me" If she's one who knows what you want like the really attractive ones. Beating around the bush comes accords as ingenuine and unattractive. You never say "hi, I think your hot, " You say something like. "Hi,… | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 12:23 AM |
| 1 | A word of advice for the men hereAh, didnt know he was one. I can see it now lol. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 11:55 PM |
| 1 | I need a day game buddy in NYC so we can motivate each other and improve togetherNot active at all. Shame. Shame. Shame. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 11:11 PM |
| 3 | A word of advice for the men hereYou clearly haven't had much experience. Looks are the women's department. Confidence, fundemantels, smoothness , and vulnerability are what attract women. Yes, looks do matter some too, but not nearly as much as men think. Women aren't like us in that aspect. Men choose weather they'll sleep with a girl or not as soon as they lay eyes on them. Women don't. You are right, there are some shallow ones, but you know what? Fuck them. They are a dime a dozen. 3,499,999,999 others in the world. Work o… | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 11:08 PM |
| 1 | FR: Went to club solo made 2 approaches got 2 #s (1 was a 10)Oh great advice! One more thing, like I said, I'm 17, I only been to a club once where my cousin bribed the guy to let me in lol. It was more a lounge actually, not a club. The music was still so fucking loud! When people tell you how to talk to girls in the club. How can you actually talk to them with that loud music playing? | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Lay Report: My first ever daygame f-closeOne of y biggest problems Is not knowing what to talk about past the opener. I'm 17, can't go into "what do you study" "what do you do" world. Advice? | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Lay Report: My first ever daygame f-closeThis is amazing!!! You lucky Bastard lol! | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 06:59 PM |
| 1 | People of seddit, has anyone here got married after leading a seductionist lifestyle and do you still believe in loev?I'm not married, to give you my insight on the subject however. I don't think that everyone who leads the PUA lifestyle is others just to fuck and objectify women. It's not like the old days with Neil Strauss and Mystery. There stuff was objectifying and just doesn't work anymore. Women are not Machines that will work for you if you punch the right buttons. People who are into PUA and Seduction nowadays do it not just to get women. They do it for the same of self improvement, because that's what… | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First weekend out after reading this, some things I tried!Word on that last part. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected on the dance floor, how do I move forwardVery bad opening bro. Not trying to hurt you. It sounds good at the start, but after a couple seconds, what? You'll be standing there so awkward and making them awkward in turn, no? | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | FR: Went to club solo made 2 approaches got 2 #s (1 was a 10)Ok dude. You said that going direct like that isn't good. I find direct the best possible way. I am only 17, so the club scene isn't open to me. How would you approach a girl at a club if you weren't going direct. I hate it when people use bad indirect game. The one where the guy talks about Radom shit and asks for the number in the end. Also, make a comment hinting at sex seems cheesy like it'd disgust girl, unless it's funny like what you did with leopard chick. Advice? | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you go about if she has a boyfriend?"Pretty Girls are allowed to have 2 ya know." | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Asked out a 10Ok dude, tell US! We need details, copious details! Let us know how it went in details. Maybe some will pick up on any errors you may have committed which will make us all wiser. | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Approaching girls in public?Indeed. Great words. Isn't it funny how we focus on the negative? People make all sorts of logical arguments about why you should cold approach. Yet, we still focus on silly unlikely scenarios. I'm done with this shit. If it wasn't midnight here, I'd go out and approach the first pretty girl. | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls in public?So right with the second half man. The only way is through it. People wanna laugh, fuck it, let them laugh. In the end it's worth it. | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Approaching girls in public?Great words. Tbh, I'm done. Next girl I like. I'm approaching FTW. | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | To those who day game, what are your thoughts on women that look dead ahead.Wow. Bro! This is actually very good advice. You don't know how they'll react? Approach a few dozen and find out the general idea. | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how to be funny or witty or excitingThis! I want to do it! What happens in those classes? How goes it go? How much did they cost you? | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 06:35 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how to be funny or witty or excitingThe secret to being exciting or fascinating is leading an eventful life. Go out! Join clubs, do things, meet people! Anybody can be funny. Just have a laidback sarcastic attitude. Carefully though, if you are always funny, people won't take you serious. Don't try to force being funny. It doesn't work. | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 06:34 PM |
| 3 | I just talked to a hot girl for the first time in my life and got her number!Incredible. You snatched her right out of that dudes reach. Balls of steel here. | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 06:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Accidentally pulled a lesbian's girlfriendIt means taking them home and doing the deed. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 08:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Accidentally pulled a lesbian's girlfriendIt means taking them home and doing the deed. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 08:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] While doing a freeze-out, a friend of her comes and give her the attention she so badly neededYou really should drop all the bs you got from "The game". The book by Neil Strauss. Today, 95% of is utter bs. it is just terrible. | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Confidence doesn't let me enjoy girls?That's not confidence. Confidence is basiclly vulnerability. Not caring what anyone thinks and being proud of whatver it is that you are doing. Walking up all calm, composed , and effortless. That's confidence. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Embarrassing, but I'd do it again. A story from my life.Shit man! Your balls are made of steel. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 05:37 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand what I'm doing wrong and it's killing meThere is nothing wrong with you. We need more details.... How do you approach the girl when you are looking to get together? | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help with self-esteem issues (quarter-life crisis)Dude, you gotta go out and meets people. It's not about seducing and pickup up girls its about building your social skills to the point Where you can meet anybody and make friends with them. What are the odds of a shy introverted person meeting a shy introverted person? Both are too afraid to make a move, if you've already talked to so many random people you will eventually build up enough social skills and make anyone feel comfortable around you. Do a little research and go out and maKe some ex… | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help with self-esteem issues (quarter-life crisis)Indeed, gyming is something truly amazing, nothing beats the endorphins high you have when you are done, and feeling confident with your body during the day is also great. As soon as my life is stable enough for me to beable to eat accordingly since I need to gain a shitload of weight, I'm going right back at it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Need serious help with self-esteem issues (quarter-life crisis)Looks like your one big problem is confidence. Let me tell you something about confidence. Confidence is not giving a shit what anyone thinks and believing in yourself. One of the reasons ive started pick up is because it builds confident. No one is judging you man, trust me. It's hard I know, I really do. Think about it this way. How many people in this worlds have the balls to go up and sing on a stage? Very few my friend, very few. No one judges that much, because when you are in the audience… | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 11:57 PM |
| 1 | First cold approach!Exactly! Thanks, my main motivation Is not wanting to settle for anybody, Its not even just getting better with girls, it's getting better socially in general, if you keep doing this, it's gonna build up your cofidence a lot, then you can apply the succes in seduction to other aspects of your life. Pretty cool thing. | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 11:20 AM |
| 1 | How I Bagged A Number and How You Can TooFunny. It is true that most people want to talk to you, prove of that is because you are one of "most people" to other people and you want to talk to them. I wish I had a friend into cold approaching whom we can wingman with each other. | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 05:29 PM |
| 4 | How do you approach a girl or a girl within a group of friends that you see you're interested in the public? Let it be walking past you on the street or in a park etc. How can you do it in a way that it is not creepy and smooth?The answer to this would be the gold mine of seduction. Most girls are in groups, so you gotta learn. I guess you should just do it, I mean fuck, it's not like you are ever seeing those people again One Wau is to completely ignore everyone else, it comes off so ballsy if you are walking down the street and see 4 girls walking, hold a few fingers up to the one you are interested in, open, move fast, this will probabaly happene while her friends are giggling most of the time, unless they are annoy… | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 05:26 PM |
| 1 | I feel like whatever I say or do will be creepyIt's not coming off as a creep. You know how you can cure this mindset? Think about it like this, what if some girl is standing next to you and said "hey, nice shirt, what's up?", would that feel creepy? I'm going out on a limb her and guessing no? No matter what, girls are always flattered if you walk up to them open with something like "hey, I noticed you from over there and thoughr you were really cut and had to come talk to you".... What if some girl did it to you? You'd be thinking about it… | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 05:19 PM |
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