Ok. The one thing that a detterent that's stopping me from approaching every person on this earth are other people. It's stupid! I know! I do not care if I get rejected, i just don't want to be humiliated infront of tons of other people. I know all that stuff about how I'm not the center of the world and everyone is to busy with themselves to think of me, but it's not cutting it for me.

Here's an example. You know that dancing machine they have at malls/arcades sometimes? One thr has a screen with arrow going up and you have to step in that direction when the arrow reaches a point. Yeah, I was at the mall today, probably dressed and groomed better than anyone there. This girl who was the most attractive chick in the entire place was playing that dancing game, she got off soon as was next to it watching her friend take a shot at it. A lot of people gather around watching people playing this game. I wanted to approach so bad, Idc if would have gotten rejected, I just couldn't get myself to do it amongst all those people :(.

I'm tired of being the average joe, always making excuses like "too many in girls in this group" "not here" "not infrone if everyone.

Any words to get me out of this mindset?