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You're doing great man, but you're missing the main package. You need to generate a social life and above all SOCIAL SKILLS. It's ok to like anime and video games. But find a local group in your area as well for something that you enjoy and is social.
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:18 PM
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It's simple, but not easy. That's why you don't see it happening constantly. You'll find that's actually an advantage in your favor. If everyone did it girls would once again feel over validated similar to how they do online. Difference is, no one has the balls in real life. It's socially appropriate if you train yourself to go with the flow and not give a shit what people think. Imagine someone in a stage. Stadium full. If he gets in front of that mic and acts awkwardly like he's in a bar posit…
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:15 PM
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OP is a creepy motherfucker who thinks he has game. In impoverished countries, women will fuck you if they even smell a sniff of an escape from their cruel reality of the real world. This dude just goes around and is potentially empregnating already broke people and is proud of that. All while being tactically blind to his creepy tactics Straight up predator man. That's disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 11:00 PM
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These jokes are super try hard to be honest, but whatever works. Most guys here need to learn how to blend their personality and use it for approaching in their own style AND LEARN to adjust as they go. Be interesting, gain social skills, APPROACH without canned lines. Let your instinct kick in and you'll get better and learn how to be on your toes.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:34 AM
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Fragile redditors in this sub can't handle the old and tried tough love anymore. What you said is facts and anyone that has roughened up through trial and error will know that wasting emotions on stupid shit like an validation seeking tik tok'er is pointless for everyone. This place is full of whiny lames that can't get laid for shit.
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:41 PM
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Ethan Suplee worked out for the muscles. Just FYI it was not all just concealed under the fat. In fact, most fat people who go through severe weight loss will come out looking skinny fat with very little muscle unless they already train and have a lot of muscle and retain it.
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:23 AM
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So much anger and entitlement. I could see it triggering women's red flags. Not even at attempt of dissection or improvement. Not even a tiny amount of curiosity or desire to adjust. He just assumes his approach and game are in tip top shape. If someone gets rejected 100's of times without even a phone #. Maybe it's not the women who are the issue... Just maybe
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:58 PM
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Not the guy you replied to, but for me it continuously hardened the realism that non of the reading matters if you don't approach or spark up conversations. It also dug into my head to work on myself. Find hobbies, work out, figure out my career. In the process of throwing myself into the fire in those aspects the social skills came with it naturally. It turns out if you go out and try to live life, you will learn over time how to socialize and improve on those skills. "The wall gets build one b…
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:52 PM
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🤣 These dudes probably met the dad the same night too and then the whole family clapped after he boned her.
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:36 PM
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AKA covid denial snowflaking. Bunch of losers. Everyone out to bitch and bitch instead of working on themselves and getting rich. All the subs banned seem to have a commonality of being flooded with morons and losers.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 08:31 PM
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You care too much about stupid shit bruh. Learn to not give a flying shit whether someone thanks you or not. Do it because it's a nice thing to do. Validation is driving you. You'll never find freedom this way. Or don't hold doors if you don't want to, but the fact that you're this ass hurt shows you really wanted that validation. Free yourself
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 01:15 AM
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Jeez dude, you're projecting quite a bit haha. He didn't defend women or even put them on a pedestal. He offered a reason why he believes women are treating OP like crap. Why are we jumping to being butthurt all of a sudden. Don't get offended so quickly bud, damn.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 01:45 AM
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I agree with the dude you replied to. Honestly it's likely the truth. If this is happening consistently, OP might be really unattractive to these women. This isn't a sub that hides the truth for feelings.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 01:43 AM
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That's a good theory that makes sense to me. Self over valuing.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 01:41 AM
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Honestly, this doesn't really happen to me. I talk to a lot of random women and sure, I get a bitch here and there, but not really consistently. Where do you live?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 01:40 AM
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Lol @ single and miserable. You can be single and still have a lot of fun with less committed relationships. If you're single and miserable, you're doing it wrong. But I agree on the other bit of dudes telling themselves they're working on themselves. All just mental masterbation in hopes the world will just snap into place and picking up women will make sense to them. You can work on yourself and still approach.
/r/seduction21/04/20 11:52 AM
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Dudes are pathetic bro. It sucks because it gives women a higher sense of self than what they actually offer, but it's also kinda great because the men that shower them with that attention aren't men worth having. They're thirsty and desperate. Eventually these women realize it and get turned off. The sweetest moment is when they realize they can't snag the man they actually want because he has better options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/20 04:59 PM
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Disagree, bodies aren't meant to look like splattered stacks of yogurt. Definitely deformed. But agreed on the scale. 1 would have to be a vomit at the thought of it. So a 300lb disgusting slob would be like at a 1.5 - 2.5 range.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/20 04:53 PM
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The irony. Most women don't want the sad sacks that are cool with her having had half metric tons of dick inside of her. They thirst for those dudes that won't put up with that kind of sexual history because they know what they bring and the options he can secure and these girls don't like that. They'll moan and bitch. The sudden realization that they can't have the cake and eat it too is hilarious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/20 10:02 PM
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I looked through your history and couldnt find the posts with pictures bro. Even if you're below average looks, I honestly doubt your lack of success is due to being ugly. I think it's more your self view and image of yourself. It's unatractive( I'm sure you can even understand this) and women can smell that insecurity a mile away. In looks I'd rate myself at around 6/10 not bad, not great. If I didn't like myself I'd put myself at 3/10. Regardless, overall I consider myself a 10/10 because even…
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:46 PM
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Post a picture. A lot of guys say they're ugly and really aren't that bad and can get a lot of results with practice and working out. I'm sick of self labeled uglies using it as an excuse to not get better or actually PRACTICE. I don't care how much you read and self internal work you do. How often do you go to talk to women? Let's see that ugly mug. I'll tell you if you're actually not very good looking or if you're full of shit.
/r/seduction17/03/20 07:08 AM
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That took an interesting turn haha. OH shit a chance to make it about races rather than bitches!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/20 09:28 AM
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I ask girls what they like in terms of sex/food/many other personal things because they have sex and they eat and enjoy different foods. I dont ask them how to pick up girls because they've likely never done it.
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:35 AM
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GYBB bruh
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:34 AM
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You don't ask the deer how to hunt the deer, you ask the hunter. GYBB
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:33 AM
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Could you share a mini review? I had a friend read this and told me it felt to him that the author was talking to a woman and the message of the book seemed to cater more towards a female reader. Not sure if I'd be the target audience for this one.
/r/RedPillBooks24/12/19 11:07 PM
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There you go man! Wipe that disgusting display page that these girls look at for .005 seconds before nexting you off the site and go out in person. I swear, online dating can fuck up a guys perspective on his own self attractiveness. No one these days has the balls to approach in real life. Do it and you're automatically a +2 above your score vs a -5 online. Don't play in handicapped mode and learn to game where it matters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/19 12:59 AM
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You'd be surprised man. Girls get their own drinks these days. I'm not paying for shit, but whatever justifies it for you my dude. Reminds me of those lonely 40 year olds who have given up and just pay for it instead. It's sad, but I can't hate too much. Whatever gets you off. I like the game and the process. It's not all about nutting. Have some excitement in your life man.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 05:40 PM
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Sounds like you can't get laid bro. Justify your sex for cash any way you want. Pathetic as hell to be honest man, but you do you.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:28 AM
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That's not gonna happen. Lifting takes work and not everyone is down to put that work in. Enjoy the benefits of being one of the few. Also, outside of the gym and active hobbies, go around your city and look at your average dudes. 90% of them look like absolute shit. There is no great scale competition
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 01:04 AM
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Exactly, I saw this coming a mile away with how consistently the dude would let his wife's actions slide and even justify it. He just let her down her drinks and chat up a dude that she wants to fuck for the entirety of the night haha. Then he goes and fetches her with a "honey, it's time to go". What do you expect? That's how you earn yourself a disrespectful woman.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 02:07 AM
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Fucking disgusting. Dude is spineless and his woman is acting out in result. Spent time with an old coworker and decided that her beta bucks wasn't stimulating enough for her as much as she had hoped. Then shamelessly spouts her regret of not taking enough dicks while single and blows up on her spineless man. She'd never spout stupid if she had any respect for him. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 02:03 AM
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That's all good. Glad I'm not pursuing an LTR though for sure(unrelated to sleep numbers). Even if I get lied to I'm not keeping the lease so it's all fine. There's some girls below 8 though for sure, but yeah. Most girls I'd say by 23 are easily 5+ at that point. I totally believe by 30 they're 20+.
/r/seduction01/11/19 02:34 AM
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8, 10, 20. Fuck it. If it's past that though I'm treading sketched out territory and now fearing STD's.
/r/seduction01/11/19 02:19 AM
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And you're a sad whiny retard. This is fun. Go cry some more because other's views don't align with yours specifically. I'm ok with the world being a bit judgemental in certain ways. I'm not gonna spend my years in this world crying and moaning. I can contribute by not judging as much as I can, but beyond that, I honestly don't care and it's not my issue. Why am I wrong for not pushing an agenda that you're passionate about? Cry me a lake you whiny lardsack crybaby.
/r/seduction31/10/19 09:08 PM
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Sorry, let me clarify. All women that sleep around excessively for me are undatable. I'm not saying their worth is less. Just in my personal perception of the world. It's not my cup of tea, but that's ok because there's other guys that are ok with it and luckily they don't need me to have a wonderful fulfilling life. And I agree. As a society we should not write them off at all. Both men and women should be allowed to enjoy sex. Sex is amazing and should be partaken as much as possible by both g…
/r/seduction31/10/19 08:56 PM
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If you don't want to date her because she's slept around a lot, that's one thing. If someone says that ALL women who sleep around are no longer relationship material, then that's definitely slut shaming. How so? If I decide that all women past 300lbs are undatable for me is that fat shaming too? If someone thinks it's ok for men to sleep with multiple women, but don't think the opposite is ok, then that's a pretty bad double standard. The world operates with double standards in all directions. I…
/r/seduction31/10/19 08:43 PM
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Slut shaming because some guys don't like the idea of their girlfriend having have fucked half the town? That's as close as saying that not dating a fat person is fat shaming. It's a preference and there's nothing wrong about having preferences. It's logical to understand that while you respect their decision in doing certain things, it may not be your cup of to tea to pursue anything further with that person. I'm not shaming her for it, but I'm not down with it long term. People want to have th…
/r/seduction31/10/19 08:10 PM
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Perfect comment. Most dudes won't shame the girl. I honestly don't give a shit that she fucked 8 more guys before fucking me. But I do for sure consider that a turn off with regards to an LTR. As a hookup, I honestly can not care any less.
/r/seduction31/10/19 08:07 PM
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Seriously. I'm not against their idea of paying for sex. Go for it, have fun. But don't act like thats TRP or act like you're a fucking player. Then they bring up the "you're paying for it one way or another" to justify the creepiness of the whole thing. Don't compare your weird shit to my skillful shit. Half the TRP community are fucking chumps man I swear.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 10:18 PM
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They key is to enjoy the process. If you don't then yeah, those messages, dates, and time spent are worthless to that individual if all he's seeking is sex. Some dudes here just want the sex. Other's love the chase.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 10:15 PM
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For sure, I found myself reading OP's post a bit strangely, but then I checked myself real quick a few paragraphs in. If that's his thing then by all means. I liked OP's post because it made me realize that to me, pure sex for cash doesn't sound appealing at all. I like the chase and turnover based on my ability way too much. I like the escalation and progression. It gives a different feeling than just outright hand to hand cash payment. Paying outright to fuck is all good too though if all you …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 10:09 PM
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Alpha/beta isn't too hard to understand. You don't have to like the idiom, but I think you know what it means. Not my issue that you don't like the words alpha and beta. Don't read it if it makes your anger meter rise. I can find an article or a video and message it to you if you legitimately are mentally frazzled by the words alpha/beta.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 05:38 PM
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Mine are still there, look closer. Did your boyfriend blur your vision with his cum?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 06:59 PM
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I think the mods might be deleting them. Yours are showing deleted too.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 06:55 PM
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You insulted right alongside with me baby girl. Love how you need to feel like you won. Hey man, if it makes you feel better about yourself then by all means haha. Much love.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 06:49 PM
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Don't be upset. I'm just having an argument. Thought you were up for it, but Im guessing you're over it so I'll drop it. Best wishes man.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 06:41 PM
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Enjoy fucking the scooter devil white girls that share your views man. Easy pussy for you. And I didn't respond because the shit that you write is retarded. You're scared of other's freedom of choice in voting because it doesn't align with your scared views. If you don't like the way the country is headed then cry and get over it or move the hell out. How much do you hate your country? Maybe you shouldn't live here. Take your white robe orgy gay friends with you. You lost the civil war man. Get …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 06:28 PM
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Not projecting man, I'm going off what you write. Good call-out though. I notice you crybabies do that a lot when you need to reflect an argument back without cause. Good ol typical "no u". Big smart boy.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 06:09 PM
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They're scared man. It's not about success and power anymore for them. It's about being scared of darker shades overtaking the country. I'm trying to be rich and have a damn good time. These dudes have too much time on their hands and investing it into being scared little runts rather than fucking girls and making bank.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 06:07 PM
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My country that has a mixed race military all equally fighting for the same shit? I love my country. Specially when we fight united. I'm not scared of colors like you are man. I live outside the coddled box you choose to live in. Where's the fear coming from? You sound like a shaking, scared little bitch to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 06:02 PM
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Neediness to reproduce is beta as fuck. Sounds to me like you need an excuse to justify your racism. TRP is about tools to success, not about justifying your personal anger and whinyness because "THEYRE BLACK". There's black, white, brown, asian TRP men around the world. Let's stick to the strategies for success. Keep your sadness with your gay friends.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 05:42 PM
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Procrastinator. Like other things in life, you just have to fucking do it. There's no advice that physically shoves you in front of the girl.
/r/seduction11/10/19 05:02 PM
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The dude is over complicating it. He's referring to not being needy. The unnatural way is to pretend you're not entirely invested by letting her texts go unanswered for a bit and then replying and tiny stuff like that. The natural most preferable way would be to be talking to multiple girls so that you really only reply when and if you feel like it. Obviously it's not just in text messaging, but also in person. Don't place your eggs in a single basket. Just as much as you show interest, she shou…
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:59 PM
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Mask it with whatever flavor you want man. You're still scared of rejection. You're just niche in that you're terrified of a really bad rejection. Same advice, just go and get rejected. You'll get over it real quick.
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:55 PM
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If you want the literal more descriptive version of what he means: Chase them within reason and don't put so much weight on the interactions. Relax, have fun, if you succeed cool and if you don't then who cares. Basically, approach because of course, all guys want to get laid or get a girlfriend, but don't make it such a big fucking deal because its not. And I get your frustration man. It's not rocket science and it's not anything new.
/r/seduction22/08/19 01:23 AM
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Depends man. Like many things in life, it's not always just black and white. I've met too many girls that do like a very sensual/flirty/under the sheet conversation right away to know that not all girls want you to be "Mr. I want to take you on plenty of dates first before sex". Play it by ear. Don't be retarded and start a conversation that way, but if it drifts and she's into it then why not. But yeah, OP, always stay relaxed. You don't need any specific girl. Just do your thing and gain exper…
/r/seduction22/08/19 01:18 AM
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lmao the shit some of you dudes post these days. This sub can't possibly be THAT starved for content. My dog has never been an issue or a perk in my game. You guys are picking grains at this point. You should train you fucking dog so that you don't have a shit head dog. Not because you want to OUT ALPHA IT BRO. Come on man..
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 12:54 AM
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Yeah man that's how it is. A girl that wants you bad will go out of her way to make sure you're taken care of. I remember when I met the first girl that was down for everything. Shit changes your expectations. What do you mean you fucking love swallowing my cum? You want me in your ass? Fuck man. I can't be with girls who won't swallow my come during blowjobs and love it anymore. That shit is at another level and these girls need to step it up.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 07:37 PM
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"I only do butt stuff inside relationships" 1 week later "Honestly, when you rubbed my clit while fingering my ass, I was ready for you to stick your dick in."
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 06:54 PM
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If you've never been loved by a woman and felt that intensity than I don't believe you have a base just due to lack of experience. I'm down to play with girls. I'm down to game, fuck around, have lots of sex. See some girls as dumb shits and drop them, but there are some fucking gorgeous women out there my man. Yeah, AWALT is true with general behaviours, but not all women are out there to destroy you. Learn and enjoy my friend.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 12:43 AM
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Crazy chicks imo give some fucking good head and have some freaky kinks. I'm down for it. Guys get fucking wrecked by these girls when they stop messaging them because they don't know how to set boundaries. I'll be damned if some crazy bitch is threatening me.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 06:54 AM
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It's only difficult at first, but yeah, some advice out there is way too robotic. Best way to learn seduction is to act first, get experience, research later. Otherwise you'll start creating mental blocks from whatever you're reading.
/r/seduction20/08/18 12:43 AM
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Sounds like you're hunting for complacent needy men that will jump through hoops. An adult/child relationship it sounds like. What girl game looks like: Be attractive enough for men to want to lay pipe. Anything after is just toppings on your cake. If it works it works though. Props and have fun.
/r/seduction12/08/18 01:38 AM
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For what it's worth. I think it's all down to personal preference. Saying "ok" to me sounds passive aggressive personally. I think you did great my man.
/r/seduction10/08/18 07:34 PM
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Good shit man. Self respect goes a long way. You know what you want and it's not your job to compromise .
/r/seduction10/08/18 07:20 PM
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Anti slut defence. Meet her, escalate and you'll most likely get laid. Why would she meet you otherwise? There's no other outcome. You're leaving... She knows what's up, but to protect her sense of not being an easy girl she needs to tell you up front that she doesnt operate like that(She does). It makes her feel better about it. Ignore the shit test, continue on being flirty and fun.
/r/seduction10/08/18 05:27 PM
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Absolutely. I like where you're headed with the gay porn bookstore. That being said, don't say thinking, say you ARE going to the gay porn bookstore. You're going either way whether she comes or not. A simple "Come along, I know how much you like that gay porn" or even just "Come along" will work more consistently than "you coming along"? Don't ask her. Present the opportunity for her to take it. PS: If she's not down with it you don't actually have to go to the gay bookstore. And then if I say …
/r/seduction05/07/18 09:47 PM
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I think your mentality is in the right spot, but your actual texts are kind of needy which I think might be turning these women off after they reach back. If your text game is not good, stop playing the text game and shoot for in person meets asap. Hopefully your in person game is better because if what you wrote on this post is what you actually text then your text game is just plain bad. I'm not telling you this to shit on you. I want you to be better. Here's my thoughts. So, a girl stops mess…
/r/seduction05/07/18 09:30 PM
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It could also very well be your attitude. When you talk to girls, do you display this kind of behaviour where you're ready to fail?
/r/seduction27/06/18 01:48 AM
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Theoretically yes it will work with shy guys, but not in the way you may be thinking. If we asume that you will remain "shy" then you're going about it the wrong way. Part of learning seduction is knowingly stepping out of your comfort zone and working your way to not being shy. The end goal is to be more outgoing and social. That's what's attractive. You have to work towards that. In other terms. A shy guy can start learning if he's willing to put in the work, but should not strive to remain sh…
/r/seduction26/06/18 02:50 PM
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It's a tough call, but honestly it just depends. If she's the one making it obvious that she wants this and you find her attractive then I would personally do it. Whether it's you or another guy. She's going to find a way to get laid. Might as well enjoy yourself. Just be fully aware that it's just sex. Don't get attached to married women in any way. That's a can of worms that no one should even consider opening.
/r/seduction23/06/18 05:21 PM
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Not an IOI. Girls scroll through instagram like a factory liking almost everything they see. Don't dig too much into it. If you want to make a move, make a move, but definitely don't base your approach off someone double tapping a photo you posted.
/r/seduction23/06/18 05:14 PM
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Meh, this is forceful and too try hard. I've found that there's no need for it when out with women. As long as you're flirty, playful and escalate there's no need to force conversation. She knows what could happen, she'll have sex with you if she's turned on. If she's not turned on then you need to work on your game.
/r/seduction23/06/18 02:45 AM
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1) Do cool shit. 2) Post it in your story. 3) DO NOT MESSAGE HER BACK AND FORTH. Unless your text game is solid, she will get bored of your ass. Snapchat has a lot of similarities with text game. Use it to set up a meet. 4) Invite her to come out and do cool shit with you. Alternative Route: Do only step 4. Whichever feels better for you.
/r/seduction20/06/18 06:09 AM
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Hiking, night picnics, dinner at your place, movie at your place, walking along nice scenery somewhere in your city/town are easy ones.
/r/seduction20/06/18 06:06 AM
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It sounds like you're a good candidate to learn the stuff for sure. You seem to know that you should improve all aspects of your life and unlike many other's here, you're actually out there doing it and chasing it. If you are at the point in your life where you'll actually do things that you should be doing rather than read mountains of feel good fluff from the subreddit then yes, you will find a gold mine of information and help from people here. You will improve and eventually you'll look back…
/r/seduction20/06/18 05:59 AM
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Should have asked her out alone without the kids bruh. There's time to involve the kids later on if you guys hit it off. If she is attracted to you, bringing her kid on a first date will only ensure that she has her mind in multiple places. Plus, it's almost a guarantee of no escalation. Advice for now: Don't ask her again. If she wants to hang out she will let you know. Don't be overly available and kindly tell her you made other plans and reschedule if she tries to hit you up last minute with …
/r/seduction20/06/18 05:49 AM
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Some fat people are nice believe it or not man. I have a good friend that helped me land my engineering job. Professionally a bad ass motherfucker. He's becoming red pill curious. I can already see the potential. Many guys here were once fat and lost. Let's not entirely block them away from the beautiful reality and freedom.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 01:26 AM
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That's how you do it man keep it up! Those moments when you notice that your shoulders are more rounded, you bicep pump is more intense than before where it almost feels like your biceps want to tear through your skin. That's the best fucking feeling ever. Chase that and don't stop. Before you know it's been a few years and you're juicy af and your social life is easy mode(assuming you're not a autist and know how to develop outside the gym as well). Keep going brother.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 01:20 AM
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I'm sure he notices and knows there's a bit of a flirtatious aroma between you guys, but probably doesn't want to touch it or make it a big deal. A lot of guys fear any sort of confrontation until it becomes extremely clear and obvious and so it's easier to just brush it off.
/r/seduction11/06/18 03:01 AM
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Agreed. I can't seriously date girls that I meet on tinder. I'll hang out with them if I like them and hookup, but never an actual relationship.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 01:36 AM
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Thats how it is brother. I don't mind the initial effort. I find that yeah, the effort is on you at first because these girls have so many options, but once they get a taste of how you are, you can start to retract. It's really fun to have girls chase you once they know you're a dope motherfucker. And if the initial effort leads nowhere then fuck it. I only pursue up to a certain point. If I'm not seeing some response back then I cut in and move on.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 01:32 AM
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Na, I go in thinking that I can take this girl home. It makes me more sexually playful and adds a lot of fun to the date. If I dont get the lay it's all good, but I'm not going to purposely downgrade intentions and have the date suffer because of it.
/r/seduction01/06/18 04:31 PM
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I had this when I started 3 years ago. It's the bullshit advice that the fitness forums always threw back then. "Starting Strength!" "StrongLifts!". Bunch of bullshit programs that give you a T-Rex body. No one should stick to those programs for more than 2 or 3 months. Once you're familiar with squats, deadlifts, bench, and press then pick up your bags and run to a better program. I recommend that you start doing PPL for beginners if you want a balanced program with lots of volume. PPL is my fa…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:53 AM
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Yeah bro start now and diet. Do research and find your TDEE so you can track your calories and eat below your maintenance to lose weight. The weight training will make the weight loss even faster than not lifting. Get those noobie gains done and taken care of and hopefully by the time that a bulk approaches you've built a solid strength base to start putting on some good muscle with a bulk.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:49 AM
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Obviously for the extra gains. The breeze aids in testosterone production for dat anabolic window right bae?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:44 AM
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That's what happens when you don't get the hint of no interest. What did you expect?
/r/seduction26/05/18 10:43 PM
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Over complicated bullshit that won't yield results. To the newer guys that are appealed by this, don't be. It's fluff and you don't need it. This kind of shit gets upvoted by people that don't have real world experience and the rest of the newbies eat it up because it sounds good. Of course, be fun when texting, be flirtty, try to set an actual date asap. Don't overcomplicate your life. If a girl is beyond logically resistant move the fuck on. Stop texting, maybe try her again in a few weeks, bu…
/r/seduction26/05/18 10:32 PM
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Take a break man! It does wonders. For example: I left this place for a year without taking a single peek and that year was the best year for my game. You develop yourself. Just make sure you continue improving yourself and putting yourself out there. Nothing beats experience and self discovery.
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:45 AM
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Fucking christ. The bigger issue is you becoming upset that your girl doesnt want to see your stupid ass meme. Who gives a shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 07:36 AM
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Why are they testing you and why are you dealing with it? I always hear about this, but I've never actually had it happen to me.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 07:16 AM
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Lead brother lead! No asking, just stating.
/r/seduction27/04/18 06:41 AM
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How to stop being depressed. 1) Seek out ways to help yourself. 2) Execute on ways to help yourself <--- MAJOR KEY. 3) Work at it. Most people on this sub. 1) Read about getting women. 2) Read about getting women. 3) Complain about advice not magically fixing your life.
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:15 AM
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The guy who told you what inner game is doesnt know what inner game is. Disregard his advice. It's not a different method of approaching. Inner game is basically inner confidence and how you carry yourself. You can build inner game by trying out new things, taking challenges, exploring the world, taking up new hobbies and getting good at them. Basically, learn to be happy and full of experiences. I recommend you do all the following for fast inner game growth. You'll feel amazing and it will enr…
/r/seduction03/02/18 01:16 AM
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Seeing setups as not a big deal(because they're not a big deal) is probably the best mindset you can come in with. You both agreed to be set up so this girl finds you attractive(through pictures at least) and as long as your FB pictures aren't catfishy you should be fine. Go with the flow and just be a fun person to hang out with. If it comes up just acknowledge, make fun of it, whatever. It's not a big deal
/r/seduction18/01/18 10:48 PM
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That's good man! Next step: Ask a girl out in person. That's where it takes a bit more balls. You'll feel good though! Calibrate, rinse, repeat.
/r/seduction04/01/18 01:24 AM
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Most guys can work their way up to it. You just prefer being comfy in your zone. I hope it works out for you bud. That shit sucks. I regretted waiting until my mid twenties to take this shit seriously. I got myself out there, I bombed and it sucked, but eventually being social becomes a part of you and then eventually you don't even think about it. The thought of spending 5 years of reading random crap online that I would hope would give me enough motivation is depressing. It's all the same shit…
/r/seduction04/01/18 01:22 AM
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You hit the nail in the head. This is something that men with experience figure out as they get better. Once mastered it's natural to tease a girl without even knowing you're doing it. It's always fun and definitely helps create a connection much quicker.
/r/seduction31/12/17 03:18 AM
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I agree. OP needs to meet with the guy disrespecting and let him know where he draws the line. Too much disrespect and letting it go only shows the girlfriend and the other guy that OP is a pushover. Take care of it.
/r/seduction23/12/17 05:29 AM
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To women, you're an asshole if you fail to fit the mold of a man that society has created in this era. It's different for her and so she'll think or call you an asshole. The funny part of this is that most of the time, they'll call you an asshole while holding a huge grin in their face because deep down they fucking love it. They admire men that won't take their shit. Whether it's you making fun of her because you don't care how she'll react or just doing your own shit and brushing her aside. Th…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 04:40 AM
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That's the guy modifier. Your Bros will give you (Actual N count) x 3 = Given N count.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:14 AM
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It depends on the girl. Some bitches be crazy and will fall in love within weeks. Look for investment and not necessarily "falling" for someone. If she willfully makes time and goes out of her way to place you in high priority it shows high investment. This is what you want. If she's falling over sideways overly attached within a few weeks then you should make sure she's not a crazy before you place her anywhere near your life. If it's just a plate then have at it. Just have sex at her place if …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:11 AM
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I agree. It's an endless loop. Alpha fucks the girl and knows the girl is a slut and won't invest himself for that reason. The girl keeps fucking other guys and continues to desentisize herself.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:09 AM
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It's not selfish at all. Plus, women respect the shit out of dudes who have strict guidelines. Women love being told what to do. They love a fucking leader. Be strict, be tough, be a fucking man. You do it your way or she hits the road. We don't compromise and lose frame. She's in your world and not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:43 PM
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Make her your fuck buddy. If she's easily managed as a plate then you'll know that if it's that easy then you're probably not the only one hitting it and she's not relationship material.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:40 PM
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Not the guy you replied to, but I can help. When you date girls who get laid much too often you realize that they have high abundance towards you. They take longer to become attached. This is mostly due to their disatrached issues. Main reason why a lot of women sleep around a lot. They want to keep their hands in multiple baskets, but by doing that they desentisize their ability to care for a single person.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:36 PM
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Actual N count / 7 = N count given to you.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:33 PM
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This is why anyone worth their damn that has actually gone out and applied themselves see right through the bullshit that people regurgitate here. Don't get it twisted, there is a lot of good advice on this board. Some consistencies do apply and knowing about them help. However, 90% of users here are still fucking wanking their dick, reading and hoping that the reading alone will change them magically. In result, as they await and hope for their magical transformation, they burn time here consum…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:58 PM
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Guys I clean my home, don't jerk off and shower daily. Why aren't women falling from the sky? Ya'll mofos need a good reality check. This shit is expected. You're not breaking glass ceilings here.
/r/seduction02/04/17 07:13 PM
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Thank you. Lets keep the self defeating comments contained in the incel subreddit where you guys can be sad as fuck because a woman won't touch you. I come here to learn by viewing different point of views. Let's bring it back to that.
/r/seduction28/03/17 07:14 AM
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OP being a weirdo TRP is amazing, but your story is shit. Prime example of over supplementation due to lack of an interesting life. Ingrain the concepts more so that you don't have to scheme a whole date for sex.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 11:00 PM
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Shower sex is great if you use the correct lubricant. No lube = shitty sex full of friction in the shower. Purchase a silicon based lubricant and you'll have a blast. Avoid water based as they'll wash off really fast with the water. In terms of ocean sex idk. I feel it might work, but underwater sex doesn't sound all that appealing to me so I never tried it with my silicon lube. I think it might work though.
/r/seduction14/02/17 07:06 AM
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Translation: This guy agrees with me. Well put. :)
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 01:53 AM
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I'm sorry, but you have no fucking idea what you're talking about? Another thing is how long do these guys expect to be carrying that (not that dense, inflated) bulk of muscle on their frame? It's either going to turn into fat or they'll have to lean down at some point anyway wut? Do you have any citations for muscle magically turning into fat? Also, inflated muscle? What the fuck are you talking about? You mean muscle that's bigger due to more fibers? AKA more actual muscle? I get it guys, you'…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 01:45 AM
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Why do you need that above fighting? Because I personally don't get into brawls very often and so being an absolute top fighter isn't a requirement for me. But OP and I are duking it out on which to choose if you can only pick one. So when choosing either MMA or Weightlifting we assume that the method of competition will be a brawl? It's like asking, "If you and I are firefighters and a piece of heavy furniture falls on you which one would you choose? You can only pick one"
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 10:27 PM
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It's not just about the bodybuilding. It's about the strength that is developed with lifting. I did BJJ and Muay Thai for 1 year. Then did weights/BJJ/MuayThai for 6 months before I dropped the martial arts due to scheduling, college/work. I fucking loved it and it's amazing, but they are not comparable. In what way can't it? Did I not just refute that? BJJ will not get my press power to 300lb. You can get strong with martial arts, but nothing will defeat strength training with weights. Lifting …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 10:12 PM
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Great program. Made some good gains with it. If you want something slightly more intense try PHAT. Very similar, but more volume.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 10:03 PM
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Yeah, and just FYI, pay attention to his message if you read it. You'll be enlightened near the end of the book. Fucking rocked my reality a bit when I finished reading it. Seriously, little fucks given at this point when I think of the lessons learned from the book.
/r/seduction03/01/17 11:33 PM
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Good job man. Just stick with it. Honestly, I don't recommend excessive reading until you get some solid groundwork. Once you have experience, it's so much easier to implement strategies. For now, just focus on living a good life. Work out, have interesting hobbies, improve your financials if you can, and approach. You'll gain character, experience and then you can come back and learn. Good quote by someone who I dont remember. Went something like, "You don't become by reading, you become by doi…
/r/seduction02/01/17 07:12 AM
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I can't date girls that I don't find attractive. It's a chore and I'm not about having extra chores in my life. I could be spending that time improving myself and pursuing women that I actually find attractive. Rather be alone.
/r/seduction01/01/17 09:49 PM
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Yeah, he should learn to program. Obviously, that's the skill required. Whoever is seeking work in software should learn to program and if they can afford it go to school as well. Yeah, we all love the "lel college is bullshit" circle jerk, but let's be real. In stem they're still useful and will increase your odds of finding work. I'm glad it worked out for you without a degree, but times are changing and competition is increasing. If you can tip the table towards your favor then you do it.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 02:00 AM
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Learn to program. Get a 4 year Software Engineering or Computer Science degree from a state university.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 12:40 AM
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Becoming the prize varies personally with different men. We all measure each other differently. I realized that I'm a fucking catch when I started gaining more experience in the dating world. I was constantly told by women I dated that they loved that I understood them and felt heard when they spoke to me. They loved that I'm aggressive and know what I want. I read a few books on sex and learned how to give girls orgasms and have good sex. They would tell me how much trouble they have sitting at…
/r/seduction29/12/16 06:17 PM
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You're hilarious. Imagine someone staring at a tv watching Lebron James play basketball and saying "Be good at basketball and have skill" You're right, it does look pretty easy in such a situation! You completely discredit the fact that looking good and being socially fluent takes effort. Dress well, work out, eat right, get good haircuts, groom. Way to downplay someone's success because your life is shitty. I'd rather fix my shit then bitch about it online, but you do you big boy.
/r/seduction29/12/16 09:09 AM
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Some dudes just can't seem to take a breath and relax. I'd hate myself if I was so overly cynical about whether I was following TRP protocol 24/7. Sometimes, it's fine savor the fruits of your labor without feeling guilty.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 05:26 PM
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You have to understand man that when you're reading self help, you have to apply what you see reasonable. Otherwise, you're overmolding yourself to something that's confusing to the identity you're trying to create. Take bits and apply them as you see fit. These books are not the end all bibles of seduction. Use them as tools. Not as molds.
/r/seduction27/12/16 01:19 AM
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F-family O-occupation R-recreation/hobbies D-dreams/aspirations Use the branching technique of conversation. Pay attention to what she says and dig deeper when something interest you. You'll never run out of shit to talk about. It takes practice, but once you get it you'll be a conversation king.
/r/seduction27/12/16 01:14 AM
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Needs more social pictures. Get some pictures with your friends doing cool shit. Having all lone pictures looks lonesome and boring. Also, the closed body language in these pictures are odd to look at. Do you have any other pictures where your arms aren't crossed and your arms arent so bent inwards? Maybe some with your arm over someone's shoulder and smiling.
/r/seduction25/12/16 10:05 PM
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Ok so this girl I've been working on a for a few weeks keeps saying she feels really tired and sleepy all the time when we talk on messenger. No date yet? Bad! Don't get me wrong we get on fine in person and we text each other a lot but she always brings this up. Too much texting will kill attraction. Bad! And when I text her late at night like midnight I'll notice she'll see the message at like 3 am then not reply until early morning. She thinks you don't have a life and you're coming off as ne…
/r/seduction24/12/16 05:37 PM
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Extremely accurate.😂
/r/seduction22/12/16 02:24 PM
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Yeah, I think you're right. It was kind funny and that might have defused the awkwardness if any existed. It was to the point where it didnt feel awkward at all. Good call.
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:35 PM
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The hair pulling was the only piece of my first time that was embarrassing. I should have read this book before I got laid. I remember she asked me to pull her hair while we were going doggy and my dumbass didn't think to grab by the roots. Then she's like, here pull from here and then it was all good, but damn...
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:47 PM
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Dark room and we were going heavy on the foreplay. Even though it was my first time, I had some knowledge on foreplay due to research and shit. She asked me to dick her so being the newbie that I was and it being dark as shit, I placed my dick near her butthole because advice online had told me that it was lower than I imagined it was. She promptly said "Strike48 no!!" and guided my dick into where she actually wanted it. No worries if you can't gps the pussy right away. It's not like it kills t…
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:43 PM
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It doesn't have to be awkward honestly. It's not a big deal.
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:42 PM
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Where are the benefits if they're not having sex?...
/r/seduction20/12/16 07:04 PM
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Absolutely. Not only that, but if you're good in bed then it's a huge bonus. Some good foreplay, oral, a good fucking and you have a repeat girl coming your way. It's amazing at how attached women can become after sex. There's a certain bond and comfort that they create. It's a beautiful thing.
/r/seduction20/12/16 07:03 PM
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Learned helplessness is killer. You'll never make it with your attitude. The attitude of being helpless is you main problem. The worst part is that it won't just cause roadblocks with women, but in other areas of life as well. I wish you the best. I truly hope that one day you can decide for yourself that having a "my way or no way" attitude is not ideal and you're able to change it.
/r/seduction16/12/16 11:07 PM
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It sounds like you have a severe case of low self esteem. You should put seduction in the back burner for now man. It's not fun trying to do this stuff while in that state of mind. I would personally seek therapy first to get my head on right and also find hobbies that I enjoy. Bonus points if they are social hobbies like dancing.
/r/seduction15/12/16 07:34 PM
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Are you Michael Knight or just a Michael Knight shill? All the comments I've read today on seddit are you quoting that book.
/r/seduction14/12/16 11:11 PM
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Truth. Some girls are even impressed at how much you don't care that you're out alone. Shows that you don't need anyone to become amused and you're obviously having a blast.
/r/seduction14/12/16 10:41 PM
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This video was actually fucking great. Comedic, truthful, and full of information. Good stuff man!
/r/seduction14/12/16 12:19 AM
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Dropping bombs over here. I agree completely. The whole thing is a disguise to the ego.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 09:04 PM
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Purposely being a retard is the worst form of flattery. Don't be a clown.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:52 AM
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We support anyone, but we'll call you out as well if your approach sucks in hopes that you'll fix it. I personally don't like the "good job buddy! Something is something!". Fuck that I'd rather tell someone my honest opinion. "Good job approaching, but you did it horribly. Here's how you should do it instead and I want you to try x,y, and z to better it next time." We're not little girls. We can all handle a little roughness. Specially from strangers online.
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:13 PM
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I think he's trolling hard. The too much energy even comes off through his messages here. I'll be shocked if it's real and if the girl responds in any way.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:12 PM
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This is hilarious. I hope it's a troll.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:07 PM
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Not a huge importance unless you're short. Taller does not necesarely mean sexier at a certain threshold. I personally think 6'0 is the master race of tall, but not too tall, but it depends on who you ask. That being said, personality, humor, looks, body, in my opinion are more important. Do you workout? Social skills? Fun? Friendly? Sexual? Do you approach? If not to any of these start working on it now.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:00 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction05/12/16 01:02 AM
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You sound like a nerd who got his chips stepped on much too many times with that passive aggressive "we'll see who is ahead in ten years ;)". Relax a bit dude, if you know that being a workaholic is your path to happiness then why does it matter so much what some unfiltered asshole online thinks?
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:49 AM
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I have a friend that shits on me because I go in for kisses rather than telling the girl "May I kiss you?" first. Gotta get that verbal consent! lmao
/r/seduction03/12/16 12:10 AM
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This is on my reading list.I'm really excited to get to it. "Ego is the Enemy" by Ryan Holiday is also a great read regarding ego. I've yet to truly free myself from it, but even just the practice of letting go comes with great emotions. Something to aspire to which is always nice.
/r/seduction03/12/16 12:03 AM
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This is why you should always continue being you even while in a relationship. Many guys think that being all about the cooperative with their partner will create a fruitful relationship. They work out together, they go dancing together, they go to art classes together. That's all amazing and fun on occasion as a date when you both want to spend some quality time together, but too much of something gets boring after a while and it's important to walk the fine line of too much time together and n…
/r/seduction02/12/16 11:56 PM
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That's a straw man logic argument right there. It's reasonable for a man that has been robbed before to take initiative and want to be prepared for the next attempt at his possessions. It's unreasonable for someone to stock up for the apocalypse as it's never happened before and it's unlikely. Do you also tell rape victims that they're being paranoid by not walking a street late at night? Do you tell burn victims to get over their fear of fire? I don't understand your logic.
/r/seduction01/12/16 09:30 PM
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Welcome to latin dancing! I've been dancing Salsa/Bachata/Kizomba for 6 months now so I'm still super new, but holy shit! Best hobby ever. Learn kino without even thinking, become more confident while having a blast, meet women, meet men, become recognized due to consistency, make friends. All these are part of the package when you embark in the dance ship. Then you get decent and then suddenly a lot of women are asking YOU to dance. It's amazing.
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:09 PM
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Yes of course you are. You're expanding your social skills and gaining experience. Just make sure that approaching is not your final quest for fulfilment. Seek new experiences and try to improve of all aspects of life.
/r/seduction30/11/16 03:45 AM
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This works the best. Assume that they'll add you. Similar to how you should assume attraction in other scenarios. A confident man doesnt hesitatingly ask. He firmly suggests what he needs. Are you on snapchat? Cool, add me (bust out phone and have her scan your code). Simple as shit. Btw, this series is great. About to read the third part. This one has been open in my tab for around a a week and finally decided to refresh the page and give it a read. Thanks for posting man.
/r/seduction29/11/16 06:03 AM
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Although you are right, i think OP don't realise his life is already interesting, stable career, sportive, ect, and he is hiding behind this excuse to not search the real problem he has to solve I don't agree with this. OP's life is basically work, gym, video games. A stable career is not interesting unless he's an astronaut or a dolphin trainer or some badass job. For most, a career is pretty common. Lifting is cool so props to OP for working on his body. I think that he just needs another hobb…
/r/seduction22/11/16 09:31 PM
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There's a difference between being a geek though and being a geek with no life. Being an interesting geek is cool. Being a basement dweller that expects women to like him is a set up for disappointment. Love me some smash bros too though. 1v1 fox only FD is all I play with women that come home with me.
/r/seduction22/11/16 09:07 PM
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No, don't ever say anything like "You don't have to if you don't want to". She very well knows that. You put the effort into asking her out. She knows she can reject you if she pleases. Giving her an optional out up front shows low confidence.
/r/seduction21/11/16 04:34 AM
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/r/seduction is not just for newbies you know... Let me try to answer your question with one of my own. Why does a dancer continue to go to dance classes?
/r/seduction20/11/16 12:34 AM
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The benefit of nofap is geared more towards those that have jerking off control issues. If you jerk off occasionally then I wouldn't really worry about it. Compare it to other impulses such as alcoholism. If you drink here and there on occasion and you are able to control your drinking then you don't need to join an alcoholic anonymous group. Similar, if you have no issues with jerking off multiple times a day then you shouldnt really worry about not jerking off ever again. That's the extreme. A…
/r/seduction20/11/16 12:31 AM
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(Not sure why so underrated) It's because this kind of advice has been given before. To be successful you have to accept that you're not the most important person in the world. You're not a special snowflake with special problems. Everyone has an area of life that they wish they were better at. Accept that you may be lacking, but understand that you can improve and seek to do so in a humble way. This is how you keep your ego in check. If you want a deeper look into it give Ryan Holiday's book a …
/r/seduction19/11/16 04:55 PM
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But let's be honest, some people put on muscle weight faster than others. Genetics, size, etc have a lot of say in that. Yes, gains are obviously proportionate to your stats. Comparing a manlet vs a 6'0 master race male is entirely different. Women also can't build mass as fast as men can. Does that make them "hardgainers" no, it means they just can't because of their lack of testosterone. When people refer to hardgainer we assume that we are comparing within their class not against a genetic lo…
/r/seduction17/11/16 12:07 AM
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Aside from shoulders, focus on crushing it on arm exercises. Big vascular arms are key to raw sex appeal. (My arms still look like weeds because I’m a hard gainer, but for those of you who are blessed with dope arm genetics, take advantage of that shit) No you're not. Eat more fucking food. Hard gainer basically means "I'm not entirely sure how many calories I'm consuming". You're not eating enough if you're having trouble gaining weight. Start tracking your calories and start eating like a fuck…
/r/seduction16/11/16 05:26 AM
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Exactly. Being direct is not so much about being all "Hey, I find you very cute and had to meet you". That line is played out already I feel and I hate saying it. I show my directness when I flirt and suggest a meetup or instant date after a bit of conversation. I don't have to say out loud that I like her because honestly, I just met her and if I'm flirting she already knows this. Telling her she's cute right up front seems needy and unnecessary.
/r/seduction15/11/16 12:22 AM
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I got one for you that I like to use a lot bro. Basically, you want to confirm she's going, but don't want to outright say something that represents "Hey, are we still on for 8pm?". I usually go on a case by case basis depending on how into me the girl seems. If she seems like she's craving me bad then I just won't text at all, but if I'm having a bit of a doubt whether she'll flake I'll just text something like this. If the date is at 8pm. Text her around 7:40pm and say "Hey, I'm going to be ju…
/r/seduction13/11/16 07:42 PM
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She's not that busy. I doubt she can't take a few hours in the week for a date. A girl that genuinely wants to see you will make the time. She's keeping you as an orbiter aka she has other prospects right now, but will keep you around at arms length to get validation from you. My advice is to stop texting her if she's not willing to meet up and go talk to other girls.
/r/seduction13/11/16 07:33 PM
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I always see those programs as a scam. They won't tell you anything new that hasnt already been posted anywhere else for free. The best thing you can do to start your way towards becoming a natural is to get out there on the field and start approaching. Maybe once you get good at approaching and have that area locked down then seek out programs to fine tune your game if you really need it. All you gain from purchasing a program while being a total noob is mental masturbation. You'll feel good be…
/r/seduction13/11/16 07:30 PM
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No other input. Just wanted to give props on the well written post. Most here know that you should not take women's advice on dating and relationships for the man's side, but it's nice to be reminded exactly why that is.
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:43 AM
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I always tell people to take a break from the material and just enjoy their lives without study for a few months. It's amazing that some of the learned lessons even stick and you dont even have to be thinking about them. Plus, it's extremely refreshing to not try so damn hard all the time. You'll come back months later and have greater perspective. Most of the reading here is mental masterbation. Learn the basics of kino escalation and I think that you'll ready to hit the world. It's not hard be…
/r/seduction11/11/16 08:22 PM
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That smug son of a bitch! I'll show him!
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 11:30 PM
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I love it. Wish we had a badass printout that we could hang on our walls framed and looking sexy. I'd pay for a designer to whip something up real good. Similar to the we the people small print big poster printouts that I see. Fun little thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 09:01 PM
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We are talking about 20's to 40's generally rather than 40's to raisin. You're right though. I would say that majority of men do not get better with age. They let themselves go at 30 and use age as an excuse to be fat, lazy, and hobbyless except for sunday night football grilling season.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 01:21 AM
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This is why I practice my state's one party audio recording law if I'm feeling like the girl is sketchy. I could use any extra insurance I'm able to use.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 01:17 AM
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I remember watching this around a year ago, but in really bad quality. This quality on this one is amazing and I see he also appeared on another one this year?! I'm going out to a dance lesson, but I'm gonna watch the shit out of these when I get back. Love my boy Zan.
/r/seduction05/11/16 06:16 PM
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Absolutely. The beautiful thing about being RP aware is that even when some of the old BP shit slips out by accident. You're able to catch it and realize that yeah, you fucked up, but at least you learned from it. Otherwise, we would do that BP shit completely oblivious and not correct it thus result in an endless cycle of non ideal work.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 06:03 AM
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Sometimes, what I enjoy about seeing new guys get into this is them having realizations on their own about how this works. I bet that reading someone else's situation is a lot different than you actually realizing this on your own. It becomes more real and you're able to implement it into your strategy so much more effectively. I'm glad you learned from it my man. Keep approaching other girls and never waste time wondering about the if's.
/r/seduction04/11/16 10:35 PM
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It's not the best metaphor, but you understood my point. It's true that we can survive on crap. However, I personally have goals in mind with my body. I'll find what works best and run that. Basically, I'd rather operate at 95% than 40% doing the bare minimum. If that takes some "overcomplexity"(It's really not that complicated btw) then I'm 100% down to delve into it regardless. It's worth it. the obesity problem has only become such in the last half century or so when humans became addicted to…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:06 PM
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Absolutely not. It's easy to tell someone "Hey, don't worry about it just eat non processed and sugarless foods and you'll be dandy!" No... Everyone is different. Person fatfuck A could probably still out eat you by double if you give him permission to eat what he wants as long as its not processed or "engineered". With calorie and macro tracking, there are no mistakes. You either accomplished the goal or you didnt. Also, when putting on muscle. I'd rather know that I'm +350 calories over my mai…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 09:13 PM
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No, but if something conflicts with field tested science then yeah it's wrong. You're making this an emotional thing. Don't be a bitch. If science says you're wrong then you're wrong. Get over it, learn, and maybe also make an effort to do more effective research. If you couldn't come up with a conclusion to your lack of weight gain then your method of researching is shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 05:34 PM
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do not have an explanation of why she was like that aside from "genetics or that is just how she is. Mhm... Does it mean I am wrong and they do not exist because "what happened with my story was scientifically impossible"? Yes, you are wrong. Nope. Because you can throw all your scientific facts at me, doesn't change what I experienced with her. So you're delusional and unaware of scientific research... If I tell you that scientifically, you can't reach a thousand miles per hour while free falli…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 02:51 AM
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The worst part is that these fucks can't take a fucking minute out of their day and do some fucking research on the same computer they are typing on. Some people here are retarded as shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:53 AM
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So are you agreeing or disagreeing? Your post seems to be disagreeing with the post you replied to, but you're writing "+1" as if you agree with him...
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:52 AM
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You don't eat as many calories as you think you do. Fast food does not automatically mean you gain weight. You have to eat higher than your caloric requirements. Everyone has a total daily energy expenditure. Yours seems to be 2k. That means that as long as you eat that many calories, you'll remain the same weight. If you eat more you should start gaining. Mine is 3100 calories. Your personal requirement varies by age,height,weight. Do some research. You're not a magical creature that can't gain…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:51 AM
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Well now I'm convinced!! I mean, you have such a great anecdotal source. I would be an idiot not to believe you. Calories in vs calories out dude. Do some research. Here, I'll show you the video that I showed my nutrition illiterate friend a few weeks ago. What is a calorie
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:45 AM
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lol k
/r/seduction01/11/16 01:33 PM
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beta as fuck. Basically she says "Will you validate me?" You: Yes! of course I will!
/r/seduction01/11/16 04:42 AM
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Except for it sounds like he's mastered a lot of the tactics this subreddit suggests and they're working for him. He's got more to work on but it seems like he's grasped the core principal of seduction which is be a man women want to be close to right off the bat. You're joking right? He went out to a bar and did nothing but drink and smoke... The women had more balls than he did. They actually approached.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:24 PM
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Reminds of the posts on /r/Fitness "I went to the gym, went inside and went back to my car and cried. Good first step!". Ridiculous. Sometimes, you need to have some balls and actually do more than the bare minimum. He didnt do much even when served pussy in a platter because he decided to stay comfortable. Good for him for leaving home, but that doesnt get you results alone.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:20 PM
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On the vulnerability side I get that its not about being a sob kid either but more of a revealing desire without being needy. Do u have any good conversation examples/videos of this type ? I ask this as this has the single biggest problem I have. This just goes back to flirting dude. Remember what I was talking about with kino and teasing? That's how you show desire without being needy. You show up as a man and touch her because you want to touch her. You tease her because you're not afraid that…
/r/seduction31/10/16 08:31 PM
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I am not sure I understand. So u mean I need to up the game if I want to ask girls out from the social dance floor ? Yeah, what I'm saying is that dancing alone or being a good dancer won't be everything in the dance floor. These girls have danced with good dancers before. It doesn't make you all that unique in that particular setting. I partly agree that its impact on a non-dancer is much powerful ! But given that many if not most girls who come to socials are casual dancers unlike me they are …
/r/seduction31/10/16 07:53 AM
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However Kino in dance lessons or dance floors (salsa and so on) is more formal and the touch does not really mean anything to the girls. They dance a song with u and move away as nothing ever happened. Its so strange at times that a girl i dance with very close for 4 mins later response strange to me sitting ext to her and trying to get physically closer. I for one keep dance to dance and never try to feel up a girl or make her uncomfortable on the floor. U get a very bad rep very fast that way …
/r/seduction30/10/16 11:43 PM
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Yeah I hear you. I used to have a lot of trouble with knowing when to escalate without essentially putting too much focus on it. Drawing focus on it is what could make it weird. Once you practice it more you won't even think about kino and you'll just be a touchy person. So for example, If I said something funny or she said something funny I would lightly tap her shoulder with the back of my hand or tap my elbow onto her. This is an example of conversation leading to kino or essentially you real…
/r/seduction30/10/16 10:50 PM
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You start gauging attraction by initiating kino. It's simple escalation. Start with light touching, hand play, hand holding, etc. If she's receptive then she's comfortable. Assume attraction with dates. If she's cool with the touching and you've escalated properly without being weird about it then she's probably down to kiss. This is my go to 9/10 times. I do it slowly because it builds up sexual tension. Grab both her hands, bring her in slowly and place her hands behind your neck. Place your r…
/r/seduction30/10/16 07:56 PM
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No offence man and I'm glad you tried giving some useful advice, but this is horrible. Neck kissing is more intimate than lip kissing and should come after the regular kissing in terms of escalation. If the girl is not receptive to being kissed and you kiss her neck then it's likely that she'll get uncomfortable. If she is receptive, she's ready to be kissed anyway so no need to do any neck kissing up front and risk looking like a sneaker. It's similar to someone going in for a hug and then givi…
/r/seduction30/10/16 07:48 PM
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You nailed it. Being infatuated with a girl feels good. Specially when the girl reciprocates and is into you as well. However, sometimes the woman will decide that she's not into you as much as you're into her and so she finds something else. You'll continue to desire that feel good emotion that your brain released when you were with here. You'll crave it. The trick is simply to stop over investing so much emotion onto a single woman and instead invest tiner chunks into multiple women. Save the …
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:36 AM
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Because on reddit, people mostly use the upvote and downvote buttons as an agree or disagree button rather than a "does this contribute to a helpful discussion" vote. I personally don't want askseddit posts here. Most of the time they're basic questions that can be solved by simply reading the sidebar. If they can't be bothered to invest some time to read up, why should someone waste their time answering instead? I'm all for a simple question weekly thread though for sure. I always enjoying help…
/r/seduction28/10/16 08:39 PM
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Depends on what you're looking for. Daygame will get you less harsh rejections. Bars/Clubs have an easier chance to get a same night lay. If you just want to practice then I would say day game for sure.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 06:37 PM
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Sounds good man. Look into Tasker if you have android. Will save you a shitload of time.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:37 AM
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I have Tinder Plus and use a tasker script on android to auto swipe for me. Best shit ever. Plug phone to charger and fall asleep. Two phones though? That sounds interesting. Did you just make an alternate facebook account with pictures of yourself?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 07:09 PM
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You also missed a light choke/makeout session that could have led to more escalation when she told you that she would probably like it. At least you learned man. It's not always a loss. You gained more experience and that will result in better outcomes down the line.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:55 PM
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I agree with what you said here. In terms of pure game and pickup style. He does seem a bit off. I didn't like the apologies for the face licker and I also kind of sonde why he overly does the bedroom voice tone.
/r/seduction25/10/16 12:22 PM
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Love your videos man. Can't wait to give this a watch. ETA on when it's going up?
/r/seduction25/10/16 05:22 AM
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Good call Also, OP, you don't need an excuse to sit next to her. Have her sit down, grab yourself a chair and sit your ass down. She won't question it. You're a man that wants to be close a woman. No explanation needed...
/r/seduction25/10/16 05:20 AM
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You're overthinking it. There is no tight rope. If a girl likes you she will dismiss some of these errors. Don't put so much pressure on yourself man. Work on as much as you can, but if something doesnt work out it doesnt necessarily mean that you fucked it up. Shit just happens.
/r/seduction25/10/16 05:17 AM
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That's a tough question man. You're seeking enlightenment and it's different for everyone. To me, it just depends on how important this aspect of your life is. When men find a niche that they know will net them profits it's difficult to be satisfied with the status quo. If it's possible to get better at something and that something is worth it then we decide that we want to improve in that aspect of life. If your job has a higher skill roof and going to a few classes with net you more pay, most …
/r/seduction25/10/16 04:19 AM
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TRIGGERED
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:26 PM
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I just think its weird that most posts here now are bashing OP's who are actually going out. Some dude posted a few weeks back about his first approaches and people start bashing him. I think the seduction subreddit is being overtaken by dudes who sit in their computer and "cringe" at things just because they would never even consider doing them. It's easy to laugh at others in the safety and comfort of your desk.
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:23 PM
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If that made you uncomfortable then you must have a very low comfort barrier. Sucks to be you.
/r/seduction24/10/16 08:49 PM
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Goes to show that you dont even need to play the game fully to get out there and get yourself some results. This is a good thing.
/r/seduction24/10/16 08:48 PM
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I didnt state otherwise. You are correct though. My sisters friend is not a looker. She's a 3/10. Maybe a 4/10 on a good day. She gets no attention in real life from men. In tinder though, she's a self proclaimed princess. She doesnt realize that these dudes are looking for a fast lay and she fits the bill. She thinks she's the shit sometimes because of this. I just kind of laugh to myself. In tinder, even ugly girls get attention. The whole thing is weird af. You get the thirsty men who don't h…
/r/seduction24/10/16 12:56 AM
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No, in tinder, men are the sellers. Women are the buyers with many options. They will easily drop you for a better prospect. It's a market with too much competition and no opportunity to show what you offer. All you have going for is looks. If you look amazing then Tinder will aid you well.
/r/seduction23/10/16 10:53 PM
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Honestly, if I didnt have female friends I think I would lose my fucking mind. My bros are my support for sure, but fuck not having female friends. I always enjoy talking to the girls in my life. There's something different about it and it's enjoyable. I'll still flirt though sometimes even if they're just friends. It's a part of me.
/r/seduction23/10/16 07:17 AM
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I accept that it's ok to feel down sometimes and try to keep myself busy. If you're down consistently day after day then it's time to change something up in your life. Try something new, something that makes you nervous. Take a trip, have alone time and be with your mind. Think about what's making you feel down and try to fix it if its within your reach.
/r/seduction22/10/16 02:30 AM
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It's amazing because as the years go by, its less and less common to interact with strangers these days. We're already too entertained by our phones. Why talk to actual people? Those of us who go out of their way to strike up meaningful real conversations are the real MVP's. I'll never flip my phone out if I can have something better with a real live person. I had an old lady once become so friendly with me that she legitimately wanted to introduce me to her granddaughter. I thought it was hilar…
/r/seduction19/10/16 03:00 AM
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A Lambo is like 800/day to rent where I live. That's like 3 or 4 quality hookers. OP did awesome though since he basically borrowed the car for free. Good experiment.
/r/seduction12/10/16 07:02 PM
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I disagree entirely. That whole imagining her being in your life more than what she already was is overinvesting to me. Useless waste of brain energy. It's similar to onenitis in my opinion. You're projecting what the girl will be like when you have no clue. I'd rather just be surprised and take it in as it goes. I think OP did a great job at not overly displaying investment. It's great because a)He probably truthfully isn't all that invested and b) the girl invested herself more. Notice how ent…
/r/seduction11/10/16 02:17 AM
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Stop being a bitch.
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:40 PM
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The Book of Pook is a great read. His posts were really just about cutting the bullshit and feel good things people want to hear and just outright tells you how things work in the world. A lot of people here don't like it because it's similar to the red pill's style of pickup teachings, but to each their own. It's a great book.
/r/seduction08/10/16 05:30 PM
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Your advice is retarded. Daygame is where its at.
/r/seduction08/10/16 05:22 PM
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That's like step one on the ladder of not being in a shell haha.
/r/seduction08/10/16 05:21 PM
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Good post man. People forget that when we say "be direct and make your intentions clear" we don't actually mean say "Hey, you're cute as hell, I like you and want to take you out." It means to mentally and physically make it obvious that you want her. Kino and flirting is the #1 method to clearly make your intentions clear without resorting to the boring same old "you're so pretty blah blah". Save the compliments for when she actually earns them. Being pretty is something that she probably hears…
/r/seduction08/10/16 05:19 PM
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I wish that bitch would get an update on it's progress already. I'd be so down for vasalgel, but I don't see it showing up anytime soon to the general population. I'm guessing probably 3+ years
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 09:06 PM
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Plenty of lessons man. I mean take a look at this obviously real quote. This girl is so encroached within my frame that she'll take orders from me and fuck me on demand without question. Today I told her that I'd just come back from another girls house that morning, hadn't showered and still had sex dick, I then told her to suck the other girls pussy off my dick. She blew me like she was getting paid for it. This totally happened with a supermodel bodied girl. Only girls that I've seen behave th…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 08:57 PM
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l foot taller than you are and you'll see what I mean! (My second husband was 6'2".) I'm 6'0 so finding a 7'0 woman is kind of difficult. Plus, the demographic in my area that do tend to be taller are just not in my personal taste of women. But you're right; I'm shorter than average, so it's probably a bigger deal to me than it would be for a woman who is 5'7". Yes
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 11:55 PM
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That's because you're short. It's like comparing a 6' guy to a 5'9 guy if we're going by average heights. Most women are around 5'5"-5'7". Also, your sex example is stupid. Men and women are able to maneuver their body easily to kiss while fucking. We're not stiff sticks that just stand erect.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 05:32 PM
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This does not need to be placed in the sidebar. It's been said before and it's not that big of a revelation. Read Psycho Cybernetics if you want something valuable related to this method of reframing the mind.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 05:37 AM
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You type like I imagine Borat would.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 05:33 AM
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You change that by doing it anyways even though you have no strength. Simple as that. There's no trick on that part. You just have to do it.
/r/seduction01/10/16 09:27 AM
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No man, I'm not dance shy. I really don't care whos watching and can dance without liquor. It's just odd because I'm not sure what style the dance is supposed to be so I don't even know what to look for when searching for online dance videos. For example. I dance Salsa and Bachata. When I started a while back I knew that a certain venue will play Salsa music and so it was easy for me to go out and seek out Salsa classes and look up info online so that I could implement it into my move set when I…
/r/seduction01/10/16 02:16 AM
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Na, I'll always take the number first and then just text her right away so she has mine. We both leave with numbers. Plus, I'm an initiator and I'm the one that will text to get a girl out. Most women are not very good initiators or know how to start a conversation with a stranger. I have a girlfriend that was given a dudes number. She wouldn't text him because she's nervous and afraid that she'll get rejected. This wouldn't happen if the guy would have taken the number instead and texted her. S…
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:53 PM
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Yep, Models is essentially an inner game starter book. Good stuff on that book.
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:41 PM
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Being vulnerable is not what makes you look like a loser dude. It's the fact that you placed this girl on a pedestal. Then you followed her along like a sheep to her choice of club only to be kicked out by her girlfriend. Was your view of her what you thought it was? Stop putting girls on a pedestal. It's especially irrational when you call her an "angel". From what you wrote she seems like a rude cunt to be honest. You call her an angel because you're still infatuated with her even after all th…
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:28 PM
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You won't do it until you're absolutely ready and willing to leave your comfort zone. That's usually accompanied with a bit of frustration that then leads to action. You see these girls and you know you want to approach, but you don't and you probably know that you won't for some time. You probably tell yourself that you'll do it the next time for sure, but deep down you know you won't do shit and that itself brings comfort, but with a bit of frustration because now it seems like an unbreakable …
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:10 PM
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You're a fucking mess man wtf. Get your shit together. You realize that you're acting like a loser and making a fool of yourself and yet you continue on doing so.
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:03 PM
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The thing that kills my game at night clubs is that I don't know how to dance to the style of heavy music. I know how to partner dance with salsa and bachata, but not really to party club music.
/r/seduction30/09/16 08:38 PM
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You should really change your major though. Real talk, PoliSci is bullshit unless you get lucky with a government job.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 03:23 AM
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It's like a father's boy just hanging on to the last bit of clothing that he's able to grasp as the alcoholic loser daddy abandons him. I'll humor you big boy. We'll see on the 9th. RemindMe! 7 weeks
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 04:19 AM
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Yeah man give it a try. It's honestly one of the best choices I've made in terms of hobbies. I absolutely love it. First month is fun for its own reasons, but once you get the basics down and some turn patterns/shines without having to think about them is where you absolutely start loving it and become addicted.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:10 AM
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Salsa/Bachata dancing changed this for me in around 3 months. Went from 0(couldnt touch a girl without getting nervous and felt fake) to 100(I dont even think about it and just do it naturally) I'm always connected to women in dance and in regular situations. It's natural at this point and its pretty sweet not having to think of this side of the equation and focusing or other things instead.
/r/seduction28/09/16 03:59 AM
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All shit aside, majority polls are indicating that he won, soooo i guess thats all that matters. Online polls don't really matter to be honest. It's already been shown that there's brigading and bots going around to vote for Trump on the online polls. There's even a mega list of online polls over at the donald subreddit so everyone can vote spam. Look anywhere outside of the biased subreddits or do your own fact checking and you'll realize that Trump lost dude. It's ok if you're upset, but don't…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 03:16 AM
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I hear you, but the limited belief system will never be engrained in me. My cousin has autism and he still finds ways to be positive. I know autism is difficult to live with, but as described by my cousin you have to choose how badly your handicap will let you suffer. He chooses to not make it his identity. Hes able to get out of his comfort zone even when his speech is skewed. He knows he doesn't have great speech, but fuck this dude tries. I admire it and anyone else that makes an excuse after…
/r/seduction26/09/16 07:42 AM
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It would make you laugh because you have 0 confidence and lack self esteem. Ironically, you fix those things by practicing your social skills. Sadly, you won't do that because you've already placed yourself as a failure and so you will live your self proclaimed legacy. If you told me that a guy who looks ok had no chance of ever accomplishing anything with women I would laugh at you. I was dealt a shitty hand as well, but you know what? I'm not a fucking victim even of my life was skewed at a di…
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:03 AM
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Are you suggesting that women are primarily rational? Here? Are you fucking kidding dude? You're hilarious and obviously lack experience. You're so pro by putting other dudes down and still don't get a text back.. Go find some tennis dates bro. lmao You're just an idiot that's the issue and you likely blew it through text with the girls your mentioning. Or you're making it up because a virgin like you may not get dates given how stupid you are. You're all about that piss contest. Cool method to …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 10:22 PM
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You're one insecure little beta. Girls write thank you messages and then ghost all the time. Same reason why some girls will say that have boyfriends when they really dont. They just want to soften the blow for you. "NAH VIRGIN U WRONG DOE"
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 07:44 PM
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If that's what is stopping you. I hope you seek and find treatment for your ADD.
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:50 PM
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He didn't get that good without all the practice. You're making it seen like he was privileged to be good without any work. These players work at their craft and they get better. Pick up works the same way. You go out there, you suck at first, but you get over time. You'll still fail even when you're great, but you keep going.
/r/seduction24/09/16 03:39 PM
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This why you don't run at a woman at full speed while screaming like a maniac. Walk to her, say hello in a calm voice and then carry on. No need to be an extremist.
/r/seduction24/09/16 03:37 PM
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Most people like talking about themselves. I've met a few that don't, but it's mostly because they lead boring as fuck lives and are self conscious. Work, netflix, sleep, eat and work again.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 04:31 AM
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My nephew was thinking of college and I said "Avoid It" and he now works for Apple and manages a dozen or so tech people online. That's great man, good for me him. However, in reality a degree does get your foot in the door much easier than no degree. I'm not saying he got lucky, but I'm sure that's not the case for anyone that wants to skip college and go directly to work. I think debt is fine as long as you know how to work it in your favor. A mortgage is fine as long as you know how to pay it…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 01:46 AM
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Nice paragraphs faggot. Nothing better to do? Go fuck a tree with your rapist fury.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 03:22 AM
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Doesnt believe in rape = SJW. Glad we're being logical here. You're a slave to your sexual desire. Beta bitch rapist.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 02:17 AM
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Do you realize what subreddit you're on? This sub is book pirate central. Get out of here with your morals.
/r/RedPillBooks17/09/16 09:29 PM
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You're gross dude. I hope you're trolling because if you're not I feel bad for you. Shit, I feel bad even if you are trolling. Wasting all that precious time and shit.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 05:51 PM
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I remember hearing something similar a while back. It gave me a lot of power as a beginner. Women can't hurt you physically, but can hurt you emotionally if you let them. Master you emotions and realize that you're awesome regardless of women. Women reject you, but they don't know you personally so who cares you know?
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:13 AM
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Yeah, who knew right? People have to deal with their issues. You're not special. You're just very weak. Weakness can also be something that you can work on, but its haarrdddddd
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:11 AM
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Stop being a baby. She was nothing to you and continues to be nothing. You're better than that bro. Never take rejection personally. SPECIALLY an online rejection. These girls don't even know you.
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:09 AM
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Lift, get juicy, get a good haircut, take care of your face and you'll be solid. Not easy or instant, but you'll be future proof in all areas.
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:07 AM
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What are you on about? We're discussing getting Tinder matches not being a god pussy slayer simply based on looks. All I said is that if you dress decent and lift, you will get matches. Simple as that. I didnt state that you would get laid and be mr suave on looks alone. Does that compute for you? Lifting and taking care of fashion doesn't do very much. Nice anecdote based on a minority userbase. For every one person that you find that says lifting and dressing well didnt help at all, I can find…
/r/seduction11/09/16 09:41 AM
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This dude is basically saying "I'm lazy and unmotivated. How can I get myself a great career with good money?". It's retarded and it pisses me off. Leave the money making to those of us who actually have the discipline to work for something. No handouts in this world.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 04:24 PM
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What the fuck kind of advice do you want? At least be less vague and ask an actual question. Low effort question will get you 0 answers. Are you wondering how to deal with your cock blocking friends? Or did you write this bullshit post so that someone can validate you and say "It's ok champ! You got dis!!"?
/r/seduction10/09/16 07:07 AM
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Does not compute... If he lifts and takes care of his fashion. He will get some matches. Unless he lives in rural who the fuck knows where.
/r/seduction10/09/16 07:06 AM
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Usually if a girl is interested and genuinely wants to meet up she will offer another window for a meetup. This sounds like a no thanks. "I'm busy right now, but thanks for the invite" If she would have said "I'm busy right now, but how about next week?" then I would try again in the following week and see what happens.
/r/seduction07/09/16 01:01 AM
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I wouldn't specify the country (I use this acc as an alternate one), let's say I live in Eastern Europe. I think people have similar opinion as you, but meanwhile, they are also refusal to people on the street. Maybe safety issues, maybe general lethargy, I don't really know. I, though, really appreciate your attitude ( I love people and I love talking to people interpersonally), this is what I miss. I'm about to think that those who are not naturally like you are not likely to be successful in …
/r/seduction06/09/16 11:56 PM
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Weak stuff works sometimes, but strong stuff works better. Don't settle for the weak approaches. You'll fail more that way than just being straight up. Sounds like a cold number to me. Move on to something else.
/r/seduction06/09/16 08:40 PM
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Where in the world are you located? I find that in the US it's much better to do day game. More polarizing and just easier to create a connection. Here in the states we see online dating as a bit disconnected. You're staring at digital faces with some text attached. It's difficult to create any form of attachment to the other person. Also, I find that yeah, people are pretty busy. However, they love if someone gives them an excuse to take a breather out of their day and just interact with anothe…
/r/seduction06/09/16 05:05 PM
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Sounds like something an 18 year old girl would write. "Haha I'm so random. Check out my knife emojis."
/r/seduction06/09/16 04:37 AM
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Good comparison, I like it. The only difference is that you make yourself the test subject which in my mind makes it even more interesting. Factors outside of OP's control played a role in the failure. Time to clean up and try again.
/r/seduction06/09/16 04:36 AM
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Well you ask how long you should wait to respond. Just go by feel. If she takes 2 hours to reply, don't reply within 1 minute. However, if she texts back at a good time ratio then don't play those wait games. I'll tell you personally that I cant stand that crap. If she's good at replying within a good time frame I'll respond as well. If she's taking 8 hours when I know she's constantly glued to her phone, I'll just ignore her next text for a while.
/r/seduction05/09/16 03:37 AM
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1) "So I can text you the location of our future date." 2) Lose this mindset. Embrace the pain and try to reframe it into something more positive. You'll fall of the wagon really quick with this mentality of pain and suffering. You're only talking to women. It's painful because you're anxious. You're anxious because you lack experience. Practice and learn to enjoy it. It's exciting, it's sexy and its full of sexual tension. It's an amazing thing. 3) I usually just text my name along with "It was…
/r/seduction05/09/16 02:43 AM
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This post is shit. It baffles me that you fuckers who feel so knowledgeable can't be bothered to do some actual fucking research. Good job writing it, but 95% what you wrote is shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 08:51 AM
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What completely changed for me was just experience. I started realizing that women are very harsh in the game. They'll text and ghost, date and ghost, say they'll go out and then flake, and also play the orbiter gain game where they will try to give you false hope of a future date by saying shit like "Oh, I'm busy all weekend, but how about next weekend?". I'm not having any of that bullshit anymore. Now, these girls are either in or out. No imagining any perfection on her end. On any woman's en…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 08:24 AM
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Preach. Most people don't try because they are afraid to fail, but once you accept that you'll most likely fail. That's when you start having no outcome dependence. Embrace the failure. Guess what happens if you fail? You get to relax again and continue your walk. Seek out failure and learn to love it for what it is.
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:03 PM
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In this scenario, I wasn't referring to you. More towards the general public. My comment for you is higher up on the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 02:21 AM
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It's hilarious. It's these same women that will say. " Uhh how come men are labeled 'players' when they can get laid a lot and women are called whores??!" Well, it's because one side actually takes work to get laid. The other can open up legs and set shop. Being a slut is not hard. Being a solid chasing and confident man takes actual work If you think I'm wrong and you're an attractive woman. Open up a tinder profile with ok pics and try to get laid. Probably shouldn't even bother. Its already w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 06:46 PM
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Same place I am right now. Unlike certain male rpers I had enough brain cells to notice what's attractive before having to have a website tutor me. Woman's method to becoming attractive: Don't be an autist and don't be obese. Man's method to becoming attractive: Have good career, be muscular and be confident. Good job though! You figured out that being decent looking will get you some dick. Who knew!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 05:47 PM
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Not in terms of getting away scott free with things where punishment should ensue. A man will be judged fairly and firmly for his crime, but a woman will be judged with compassion a lot of the times(not always).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 05:27 PM
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I remember trying to resort back into my blue pill ideas a month into finding out about TRP. I couldn't get myself to pretend that what TRP spoke about wasn't true. The rational male book just cemented all these ideas extremely well and I couldn't shake them off. Specially after majority of what was being said made sense and I had experienced it myself looking back. I felt retarded just attempting to try to have BP ideology. TRP hurt for a bit as if someone was holding my eyelids open by force. …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 12:19 AM
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Daygame while you go out shopping for groceries or clothes and night game if you barely go out during the day I suppose. You can meet woman almost anywhere public.
/r/seduction24/08/16 04:56 AM
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Its creepier to virtual semi stalk someone compared to being ballsy and manly and asking for what you want. The facebook creep makes you look like a pussy. The asking for what you want makes you look like you chase after shit you want. Numbers are also more personal in my opinion. Any random fuck can have her on facebook. Only dudes that ask for her number will be in her contacts.
/r/seduction24/08/16 04:54 AM
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Plus, daygame is less hostile and easier to form an actual connection for a solid number. Not only that, but both parties know exactly what they are getting as they head towards the meet up spot for that first date. No doubt on either end about catfishing. These girls on tinder have the mentality that they can drop you like a fly and just move on to their next swipe of 20 guys that matched her within the day. It's difficult to stand out. In daygame the girl appreciates the balls that it takes an…
/r/seduction22/08/16 04:52 AM
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Well played haha
/r/seduction22/08/16 04:47 AM
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I hear you. What you're describing is essentially higher energy and a bolder style of game. Not my personal flavor, but there's some guys that really enjoy it. Specially around the night scene. I know it goes against many things that society tells us, but some women enjoy kissing men they just met. Some women like having sex even though they just met a guy. Everyone has a flavor that they enjoy. You don't like that and that's fine, but many women do. More specifically in the club/bar scene. You'…
/r/seduction18/08/16 01:51 AM
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You're overcomplicating things with the whole "net" crap. I know what you're trying to say though. It's the same shit I've been saying. If your body burns 3000 calories a day to stay alive and you eat 2500 you're at a "net" of -500 calories. Which means that you'll lose a pound of fat a week (7x500= 3500 calories per lb of fat). Calories in, calories out.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:47 PM
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Yes, I agree. That being said, a diet rich in carbs is not the devil. In fact, glycogen from carbs is pretty beneficial for energy when lifting. Don't sacrifice your protein and fats simply because you want to go full retard with carbs either. It's a balance.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:22 PM
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It's ridiculous how uninformed these fuckers are and yet they still try to spew bullshit. Even when they have no fucking clue what they're even talking about. Literally takes less than an hour to get informed on this shit at a basic level.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:18 PM
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The videos you posted are regarding sugar. There is no debate on my end regarding sugar. We were speaking of artificial sweeteners. Sugar is not an artificial sweetener... Calories in and calories out is backed by science. How can the sugar companies make this shit up? There is no conspiracy here. We consume energy and we use up energy. Calories are used to keep basic body tasks going such as breathing and just generally being alive. If you eat less energy than than your body uses up you will lo…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:11 PM
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Credible citation please. I've studied nutrition up and down and have never heard of "net calories". I'm assuming that you're speaking towards the energy consumption required to chew up all the carrots. Similar to how people think celery causes weight loss when in reality, it's just that it's very low calorie and chewing it comes out to be worthless in terms of energy(calories) gained. I could drink the coke and go jog for 2 minutes and easily burn more than I did fucking chewing the damn carrot…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:04 PM
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That's the beauty about not being black and white with things like this as I stated in my previous comment. Yeah, 1000 calories worth of steak will leave you more satisfied than 1000 calories of donuts. That being said, we don't have to be extremists by comparing an all meat diet to an all carb diet. We can have a healthy blend of both and still be shredded. If you prefer no carbs then that's great. I'm glad it works for you.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:54 PM
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I didn't state that. Obviously the 1000 calories worth of carrots will give you a shitload more bang for your buck in terms of volume and micronutrients.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:39 PM
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Shoot for whatever works. Fat loss is fat loss. I'm not saying it's optimal, but there is no one size fits all for everyone. Do whatever works. Calories in, calories out works always. Different approaches for different folks. If cutting out all sugar works best for you. Fucking fantastic, good shit, but let's not be black and white here. There's multiple ways to lose fat easily. It's not rocket science. Sugar is not the devil. Overconsumption of calories in what will do you in. In the end, just …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:22 AM
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This girl that I see a lot at salsa added me on facebook out of nowhere. I asked her out at the next event and she made up some bullshit excuse so idk about that. Maybe she's just looking to increase her magical fb friend counter for validation.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 12:00 AM
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You can just walk up to her and ask her out. There's no reason not to. I almost guarantee that you'll bore her by just chatting on Facebook. Save the getting to know each other for the date if it ends up happening.
/r/seduction15/08/16 01:01 PM
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Having the fact that we're coworkers, it would be much easier for me to get in a group conversation with her and other colleagues and talk about something we both have in common. That would help a lot. But I can't approach her at work. I'm afraid I'm going to mess up in front of everyone and make a fool of myself. If you want a higher chance at succeeding you're going to have to take the riskier route. Risk and reward. I'm not saying you have to stand mid stage and ask her out right in front of …
/r/seduction15/08/16 07:32 AM
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Women like men that "just get it". They think that because some of us had to learn a skill that it's somehow manipulative. Some grow up with it and some don't. For attractive women, it's always an easier task to develop their side of skills because of the array of men that they can potentially have lined up with minimal effort. Lot's of trial and error. For men, they don't even get the trials because of shitty game and so they can't make errors and learn. A man that learns how to develop is not …
/r/seduction15/08/16 07:24 AM
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You can tell that OP wants to create something new with the ex, but she's playing herself by saying that she wants a "friendship". She misses him and the fact that he's not as invested as she wants him to be hurts her. I'm guessing OP's ex most likely just wants to hit it and so he gets extra chatty when she's in proximity. If he has gotten into improving his game as OP stated then I'm guessing he's out and about picking up women. An ex would be my last priority to be honest.
/r/seduction15/08/16 07:19 AM
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That's a big question. I'll try to break it down for you. I am a normal type of guy. I used to be really shy. Now I'm just shy. Not that shy, because I can talk with girls now. But only with girls that make it easier for me. Girls that are really social, you know. Girls that talk with anyone. I don't have trouble talking with them. What I do have problems with is attractive girls that make it hard for me to talk to. Ok, so you're a regular guy with a bit of confidence. You still struggle with ta…
/r/seduction15/08/16 07:10 AM
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This is not a field report... It never fucking clicks. You one day have to decide that you'll just fucking do it because you're sick of being such a damn pussy. Suffer now for a while by taking action or suffer for the rest of your life by deciding to regret everything that you didnt do.
/r/seduction14/08/16 07:59 PM
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Who the fuck cares. Let the individual man choose his reasons for fucking. Whether he just wants to get off or connect is his own issue, not yours.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 12:13 AM
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Everyone needs to understand that confidence is not a magical thing that you just generate with mental power. Ok, maybe that's possible, but there are easier methods to accomplish true confidence. It all comes down to pushing past discomfort. I've read two books that encourage facing difficult situations that I absolutely love. "The Obstacle is The Way" by Ryan Holiday and "Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway" by Susan Jeffers. Two books that completely reframed my mindset on things that give me a me…
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:07 AM
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Absolutely. Approaching during the day will always yield better results. The woman knows what she's getting and I also find that they respect the balls that it takes to be social towards a stranger and it works in your favor because it makes you look like even more of the man that she so badly craves in her life. Women love men that are social. Also, it plays more into many women's fantasy of meeting a guy that she likes spontaneously and out of nowhere. Brownie points all over the place for men…
/r/seduction09/08/16 11:56 PM
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I find that girls online are easier to drop you without remorse. Tinderella syndrome. They got a catalog of online faces to choose from. There's always the next one for them. I can get dates and shit, but I'm tired of these online girls to be honest. Strict daygame for me going forward.
/r/seduction09/08/16 01:00 AM
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Assume attraction and ask her out regardless.
/r/seduction08/08/16 06:42 PM
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Amazing book. Game changer for me along with The Obstacle is The Way
/r/seduction05/08/16 11:13 PM
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Ok, here's the thing. When I go into nightclubs, I like the Vibe, I like the music, I like the Dj's, I like the people, but I dislike the dance floor. The reason I don't like the dance floor is because I really can't dance. When I try to get girls by dancing up to them. If you're just randomly going up to girls and dancing up to them you're almost guaranteed a creep label. Don't do that shit. Dance on your own, spot a girl/make eye contact and ask her to dance with you either verbally or signali…
/r/seduction05/08/16 11:02 PM
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That's a steep price for a book. Reminds me of college.
/r/seduction03/08/16 10:09 PM
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The rational male is amazing at describing the social dynamics that occur between men and women. Not really a pickup book in terms of how to go out and what actions to take to pick up women, but it's great for the base theory. The way he gives examples just really stuck with me. Great book.
/r/seduction03/08/16 10:05 PM
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I started at 23 with natural levels at 107ng/dL which is absolute shit. God forbid I get off and land at gasp 90ng/dL lol. I'm staying on for life baby. Fuck low test.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 07:36 PM
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I agree and disagree with you in a way. Yeah, dancing for some is mostly for the women and I'm sure some dont even enjoy the actual dancing. If that's the case then they should find another hobby. However, for a lot of guys its just fun to dance with women and it's also a good way to be with women. I lift weights to look good, but I also know that women will like my look. Does lifting weights also mean I'm hopping hoops because I expect women to notice my muscles? I dont think so. It's a tool in…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 03:59 AM
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Yes sir! Salsa/Bachata is the best shit ever. Lots of lessons to be learned in partner dancing.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 03:50 AM
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Think I'll start using specific compliments going forward. I always went with the cute/nice intro. Yesterday, I went out dancing and said to a girl "That lipstick looks really good on you" and I noticed that she became extremely receptive really fast. We babbled for a bit, some push/pull and eventually got her to kiss me with a fresh layer of lipstick. Is complimenting her on the lipstick different than just telling her she looks nice or would I have to go into something not so specific to her l…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 02:35 AM
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You're right, my mistake. Edited my post. My main message was that people are steroids are very capable of fucking and maintaining an erection. ED is a possible side effect, but it's usually due to lack of testosterone on cycle which everyone should be running regardless. Oral only cycles are meh
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 02:12 PM
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Ugh... You're looking too deep into it. We tell people to stop giving a fuck in terms of their mental blocks that hold them back on doing what they want to do. We don't advocate not giving a fuck in terms of being a lazy fuck do nothing dumbass. Also, this thread is shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 07:18 AM
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No idea why everybody thinks it's a magic pill. Same reason why people give you their armchair doctor opinions as to why steroids are literally death in a needle. They're retarded, under researched and can't be bothered to read a few pages of literature to find out the truth
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 07:15 AM
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Impotency does not equal no erections btw. It just means that you're shooting blanks. People on gear are very capable of getting erections. People on gear are also very capable of having children. Even after years and years of not coming off the steroids. The impotency is a risk. It doesnt mean it happens to everyone who uses.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 07:12 AM
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Stop being a fucking wuss and get over it. You think she's as obsessed as you are? Shes probably fucked many other dudes and has completely forgotten about you and here you are obsessing... Help yourself and live more. 3 years dude?! Come on...
/r/seduction19/07/16 02:24 PM
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This is the quality of posts that we need on seddit. Amazing and full of value. /s. Mods are shit, subreddit is abandoned, wiki is outdated, shitposting to the maximum capacity("guys I accomplished this super basic task! You too can be great like me!") fuck this subreddit.
/r/seduction19/07/16 02:21 PM
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Keep it up man. The neediness goes away over time. Once you create abundance and realize that you can get women. You won't have an issue with being needy.
/r/seduction16/07/16 10:58 PM
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/r/fitness Pick a begginer program from their wiki.
/r/seduction14/07/16 11:13 PM
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Good stuff. The laying of the foundation reminds me of Eric Disco's book "She's Six Steps Away". Gradually building up and getting comfortable with bits and bits over time is a good method to slowly, but consistently build a solid foundation for pick up. Keep posting brother. Lot's of good source material to be learned from your post.
/r/seduction14/07/16 01:43 AM
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100% correct. Although I still get a sense of support in knowing that my brothers who take action are out there fixing their lifestyles. Gives me a kick in the ass when I sometimes start stepping back a bit.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:53 AM
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It's your brain attempting to protect you from danger via evolutionary instincts. The problem is that in today's society we're not really in a huge amount of danger. In the tribe days. Maybe approaching a woman from a different tribe would result in conflict with the other tribe. However, that does not apply to us anymore. There is no danger in approaching a woman in the street or in a venue. It's normal, but our brain is still dialed back. This is why we must consciously reassure our brain that…
/r/seduction09/07/16 09:16 PM
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I dont know if OP's town is full of feminazi club dwellers or what. Those descriptions are not what I've experienced during the night scene. Sure, AWALT, but most women aren't really out there looking to bite some dudes head off. If you're getting so many shitty reactions, maybe you should self reflect and strategize a bit better. I'll agree with him though and say that day game is easier for a beginner and just overall better. That is unless you're looking for a same night lay.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 09:11 AM
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I can see both sides, but for me personally, I don't think being moany like that was the best method. I think he could have handled it without the "I'm annoyed now! Look at how annoyed I am!" attitude and instead could have just used a more firm, but calm attitude and gotten the same result without coming off as pissy and whiny.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 07:42 PM
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Probably coming from /r/foreveralone. Ive noticed a huge influx in the past few months. They come here, whine about how the methods provided are too hard/not for them/fake/only work for attractive people/etc.
/r/seduction27/06/16 11:27 PM
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Fair enough man. Your view of dogs is definitely more agreeable than OP's or maybe he just did a horrible job with phrasing. Dogs are cool.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 06:41 AM
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give you constant emotional support How so? I get my emotional support from my close guy friends. I like dogs too. They're fucking cool as shit and are adorable, but emotional support? Come on now...
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 05:29 AM
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Your reasons for getting a dog are really stupid imo. Dogs are cool and they're badass to have as pets, but you're phrasing it as if they're a replacement for women which is fucking weird. I have no issue putting some emotion into women. It makes me feel more alive as a man. I desire women and even though a lot of them are broken, I still find amusement in being part of the shit show. A dog will never give me that same feeling. Instead of redirecting your shattered emotions towards evasion by ov…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:27 PM
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I rock that hispanic fuckboy haircut except I don't look as gay as the pretty boy in the picture. Looks better on my adult looking face.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:15 PM
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I used to feel fake doing shit like this as well, but ever since I started salsa dancing my mindset has changed completely. I feel completely natural touching, spinning, holding hands, holding women's backs and leading. I always thought that I'd be a fucking awkward mess if I tried these things, but Salsa changed that for me. All those things are part of dance and once you get comfortable being a leader in dance, you can pretty much implement it into social interactions. Learning a social dance …
/r/seduction24/06/16 12:44 AM
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What more does he need to do? I'm not about to waste more time writing out long descriptive paragraphs man. I'm too tired at this point and it will aid towards nothing. If you want to know then then just read the posts. Yeah I'll admit, I may have been an asshole towards the end, but I tried to give ideas just like most on this thread did. I can't tolerate people who make endless excuses for themselves. He keeps mentioning that life sucks. Yeah, when you make no effort in an area of life, your r…
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:24 AM
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No, you're horribly restating what I said. In brief, I said "Try something". He then said "Na I hate talking to people too much". Basically saying "Women should just come to be and I shouldn't have to put in any work". I never suggested that he should be some grand party master status pimp. I suggested that he make an effort to chase something in his life that he wants, even if its painful. He does not want pain though. He wants comfort. Being in a comfort bubble doesnt always bring girls. I tol…
/r/seduction22/06/16 05:58 AM
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You're definitely worthless. Not because we said you are, but because you have no drive. You'd rather lay there and bitch than do anything. It's pathetic. Like a grown baby that expects things to fall in their lap. In the adult world, you either work for shit or you simply don't get it. You've gotten your answer already so I don't even know what you're still wanting. No socializing = no girls in your life. Unless you're cool with dating some really chunky girl that plays PC all day. If you're ok…
/r/seduction21/06/16 09:26 PM
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It's tough my man, but props to you for at least stepping out of the house. Have you ever considered meditation? It helps with staying out of your head and you'll be able to focus more on being in the present. Something that helps a lot as well is simply changing the perspective on the approach. In your head you might be thinking something much more complicated, but in reality and from a different angle, you're just a friendly guy who wants to socialize. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction21/06/16 08:57 PM
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No, you're worthless for having a self defeating mindset and not even bothering to at least try. Now you're trying to blame the subreddit for your failures. How pathetic can you get dude?
/r/seduction21/06/16 08:53 PM
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Go to /r/foreveralone. They'll understand you perfectly. There are bigger fucking issues than your whiny "I don't like socializing". You get some good advice and still fucking whine. You've lost my empathy. You're a hard case that desires to get nothing done. Good for you if that's what you enjoy, but you deserve no pity whatsoever and you certainly don't deserve a woman in your life. You'll only make her resent you. There are other men with bigger issues out there who actually want to put in th…
/r/seduction21/06/16 06:23 PM
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Then no girlfriend for you. I think you might be looking for a sex robot instead. They don't talk, they don't socialize and they have sex with you. Problem solved. Fits all your criteria.
/r/seduction21/06/16 06:02 PM
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Your original post just says that you're not social and it sucks. Nowhere did you mention that you're good socially and just don't enjoy it. Anyhow, if you hate being social and if you feel that forcing yourself to be social will make you fake then you go ahead and sit in your computer and don't talk to people. I'm not sure what kind of answer you were hoping for or if you were just looking for people here to give you pity. In this subreddit people will tell you the truth. If you don't like that…
/r/seduction21/06/16 03:34 PM
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Become insulted. I honestly don't care man. I just think it sucks that you're discarding like that. I've been in the same situation where I didn't enjoy it starting out but unlike you and others, I didn't make excuses or resort to justifications on why I shouldn't improve my life. It hurt and it wasn't easy, but i did it anyways. If it was easy everyone would do it and it wouldn't be as impressive. It sucks to see a potential beast get binned due to limited beliefs. Whatever you feel is best tho…
/r/seduction21/06/16 02:17 PM
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But you realize why you dislike social interactions right? It's because youre horrible at being social. Imagine a fat guy that's never ran in his life. You think running will be fun for him? You think he will enjoy it? Fuck no. That whole shit of "not changing who I am" is bullshit and you know it. It's a simple excuse to stay in your comfort zone. You take that phrase and believe that it carries some sort of honor. In your mind, at least you stayed true right? Honestly man, I hate to be an assh…
/r/seduction21/06/16 01:18 PM
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Because it's not an act. What specifically about gaining social skills is an act? It feels fake to you because you're foreign to it. Anything that makes us uncomfortable is most of the time not enjoyable. However, I understand that life brings challenges and to succeed in anything, I have to be willing to be uncomfortable for a while as I adapt. You appear to not want to take that step. You say it feels dishonest, but honestly we both know that it feels uncomfortable and scary. Facing scary situ…
/r/seduction21/06/16 01:01 PM
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Then self improvement is not for you my man. The sooner you accept that women generally don't like a man who is too scared to make adaptations the faster you'll feel at ease with not having women in your life. Go join /r/foreveralone. They have the same general mindset. "It's everyone's fault" "I'm a victim" "People should love me for my crappy self" "I shouldnt be required to put in any effort because it would compromise my genuine self". Please
/r/seduction21/06/16 11:45 AM
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If that's the way you see improvement then don't be social then. Be stuck in your ways for the rest of your life. At least you'll feel nice and comfortable in that pretty little bit bubble of yours. Your view on change is flawed. If we were all meant to stand still and not improve we would get nowhere as a species. Adapt or die.
/r/seduction21/06/16 11:40 AM
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Antisocial computer homebodies that are afraid of interaction. You'll find them on reddit a lot similar to men.
/r/seduction21/06/16 03:01 AM
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Stop feeling sorry for yourself. That solves absolutely nothing... Take some responsibility. You're antisocial because you've sheltered yourself. Once you're able to accept that your choices haven't been the best. Then maybe you can come to peace with it and move forward. It sucks, yeah too fucking bad man. Now you get to choose whether you'll fight to become better or lay there and accept that as your truth like the dudes over at /r/foreveralone. If not being social is the issue then it looks l…
/r/seduction21/06/16 02:55 AM
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Depends on the type of dance you're trying to learn... Salsa for example has a very simple basic step. Lead(man) left foot forward, right foot step in place and then left foot back to where it started. 1.2.3. and then repeat it but backwards. https://youtu.be/PfDVnX4j3-w?t=28s However, regular individual non social dancing (think hard beat club music), you just fucking dance. Move your arms around, move your hips around and use your legs to step around. The worse dancing that you could do is sta…
/r/seduction18/06/16 08:25 PM
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Yeah man I can guarantee without even looking at your post that you got at least a few getting mad because "you don't understand". I also bet you got a few "I don't want to change who I am for other people because I do t want to be fake/change who I am" AKA, I'm too comfortable and the thought of any change scares me posts. It's a shit show over there.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:50 PM
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I'm ok with this. This dude needs a reality check. He vomits his emotions like a woman would. She's the man of that friendship and she just nexted him. Dude needs to see how pathetic he is. Maybe he'll be able to make changes once he does.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 02:52 PM
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I've tried a few times to give them some knowledge on improving situations, but most of those dudes are deep into learned helplessness. They'll make stupid amounts of excuses rather than just try something simple that could cause big changes.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 02:49 PM
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/r/seduction15/06/16 07:04 PM
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Sounds to me like she's acting like a little baby. Why the hell would you apologize. Might as well set your balls on the table and tell her to put them in her purse. I would just stop replying. Let your last message be the pout message. If you give her that paragraph you wrote at the end. I guarantee that you will come off like a total asshat with zero frame. Also, bro, going off those messages, it seems like she's not that into you. You're being all playful and she's being a total bitch. It wou…
/r/seduction11/06/16 07:17 AM
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Good for you man. You'll quickly notice how receptive people are to a friendly man talking to them. People are bored. They crave interaction and conversation with almost any normal person. Be that person to add value to their day!
/r/seduction10/06/16 06:12 PM
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Should I use something like "wait, you have something on your face" and then grab her chin and go for it, or should I just go for it? Absolutely not. You're a fucking man. You don't need little excuses to go in for the kiss. Plus, that's a vibe killer man. Keep it silent to build the sexual tension. Stare into her eyes, look down at her lips and then back up to her eyes and then slowly move towards her face. Then ask if she got the picture, and if not say "I guess we have to try again?" That's a…
/r/seduction09/06/16 06:09 AM
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YESSS EXACTLY. We become happy when we push boundaries. When I started pushing myself to get past situations that caused me anxiety is when I started seeing amazing results in mindset and game. I went out, talked to people, went to parties,etc. Even if it scared me, I internalized that I'm only nervous because I'm not fully engulfed in the scenario yet and its still foreign. After going out for a few weeks, I started to realize that I'm actually pretty fucking good at talking to people and my fe…
/r/seduction08/06/16 04:28 AM
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Playful kino always, do things like help each other up over big rocks, piggy back rides(her on top obviously), etc. Hiking is really fun. At one point, if you're not a toothpick and the kino game has been slowly building to the point where you're comfortable touching each other. Pick her up in your arms and carry her up for a bit. You can even go for the first kiss there as she's in your arms if you're feeling ballsy. It's cheesy af, but who cares. Just have fun dude. Btw, that camera kiss sound…
/r/seduction07/06/16 03:40 AM
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You'd be surprised. There are a lot of women that are not homebodies. If you're a fucking weirdo though then you might trigger her creep sensor and then a hike date is most likely not going to happen. You just have to be a normal dude.
/r/seduction07/06/16 03:36 AM
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If shes acting like a dead fish through text then you can either take the most touted advice thrown around here and just next her or you can do what I like to do. I originally learned this from another thread so it may sound familiar to some, but I've internalized it and it's great. Personally, once I realize that a girl isn't leading anywhere. I like to gain some closure, but that's just me. I'll invite her to something and expect nothing. I'm already not hanging out with her so who cares. "I'm…
/r/seduction06/06/16 07:38 PM
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You can take medication for the hyperthyroidism. Seek a doctor. Hardgainer is a not a thing btw. Most that believe that they are hardgainers just don't eat as much as they think they are eating. If you legitimately have hyperthyroidism though then definitely fix that shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 05:58 AM
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Don't you just love walking into a room and knowing you're the most aesthetically pleasing guy around? The blue pillers will call it vain and blah blah, but being vain is the fucking shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 05:42 AM
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If she's messaging you, she's clearly still interested so you can salvage this. You can't build attraction effectively through the phone and constantly replying will make it seem that you're over invested. Get her out as soon as possible and escalate. Also, don't get wasted this time haha. Ass was also a go zone and her inner thighs too, so that was nice. But did not want to go up there, too scared of her getting mad. Don't fear touching her vagina. As long as there was a proper build up and you…
/r/seduction05/06/16 04:53 PM
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I think the being wasted part might have fucked with your game. Should have escalated more to at least fingering her because it seemed like she was horny. At least with the fingering, even if she left, she would remember you and how horny she was at the time which could lead to a later f close. When kissing women at clubs or bars, as you're kissing/biting or nibbling their ear and you can clearly feel that they're turned on tell her "I got this new stereo in my car I want to show you, come on." …
/r/seduction04/06/16 07:36 PM
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Theres another subreddit for this /r/askseddit. To answer your question though, she's probably not into it and logistically speaking, 2 hours of driving is just too much of a distance. Leave that text as is and go talk to other girls for now. If she responds then cool, but don't sit there waiting for it to happen.
/r/seduction04/06/16 06:56 PM
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60 bucks for a day game book. I'm sure it's ok, but I doubt it's worth 60.
/r/seduction03/06/16 09:28 PM
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Thats where the growth comes in my man. Confidence for me is knowing and accepting that new things in life are scary/cause anxiety. It makes you uncomfortable to do something new, but you proceed regardless. You proceed because deep down you know that you're able to handle the aftermath of whatever your action may bring. That's confidence. I've never tried salsa dancing, but I'm going to a class tonight because fuck it. I feel clumsy when I dance and I'll probably suck, but as a human, I know I'…
/r/seduction01/06/16 08:52 PM
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Wasn't this exact same thread posted here around a week ago? Seems familiar.
/r/seduction01/06/16 08:44 PM
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No, gyno is swollen breast tissue which is soft tissue. Bones are hard tissue. Just because it's a hard lump doesn't make it hard tissue. Muscle is also soft tissue.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 03:27 AM
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Gyno is soft tissue that can't be lost like fat can. You can get super lean and you'll still have that annoying little lump in your nipple.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 08:57 PM
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Good metaphor my man. Well written and makes a lot of sense when comparing to the glass that you mentioned.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 06:53 PM
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Eric where ya been man?!?! You went dark for a few years. Was just browsing through some older episodes of DSR and I saw you on the list of episodes haha. Hope everything is well.
/r/seduction31/05/16 06:32 PM
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You could also try contacts.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 04:58 AM
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Any suggestions for shit to do to find male friends? I'm playing basketball with a few bros a few times a week, but they're kinda tied with family. Looking for more single dudes to fucking do shit with.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 04:46 AM
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Yea I just wonder about that because it's different than natural test. Nope, testosterone is testosterone. It has the same molecular structure whether it came from your nads or in a lab. The only difference is that the testosterone that you inject is suspended in oil so that you're able to inject it. Also Arnold might not be the best example because didn't he have heart surgery twice? Very true. I think he had it once. Not sure if twice, but regardless he's not the best example I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 11:19 PM
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At replacement doses I'm not sure. At steroid cycle dosages most likely shortened lifespan, but who knows by how much. Arnold Schwarzenegger was a bodybuilder known for taking large doses of testosterone and other steroids. He's 68 currently and still seems to be healthy. There are other abusers however that have died extremely early. I think it just depends on how bad you abuse the compounds. Replacement therapy probably wont kill you early since you're legitimately just bringing yourself to a …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:32 PM
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You shouldn't have any issues with the liver because it's not an oral steroid. If your estrogen gets out of whack then the man boobs are possible, but like I said, it's very low risk with normal levels and as long as you monitor for it it shouldn't be an issue. Shit, even guys with regular hormone levels sometimes get gyno. The man boobs can affect even those that have never injected testosterone so there's always a risk.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:47 PM
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I think the biggest side effect that I was personally worried about would be the conversion to estrogen due to higher test count. Shouldn't be a concern if you're not obese and if you are, they have pills (anastrozole or exemestane) to drop estrogen. I only run those when I'm on a full on steroid cycle though because I have ridiculous amount of testosterone in me and it's inevitable that we will turn to excess estrogen through aromatize. Don't need them on regular replacement therapy doses. Ther…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 03:55 PM
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Never found out exactly. We ruled out a tumor with bloodwork and a scan. I think it was just the pituitary not working right in signaling for the hormones necessary for testosterone production.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 05:06 AM
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Pituitary issue so secondary. The balls work fine.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:48 AM
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Blood work was taken from my personal choice lab. Prior to that I had already confirmed the low t with previous blood work that stated 109ng/DL. Anyhow, I knew that I would be on testosterone and I'm just glad I didn't have to deal with all those other shit head doctors that deny their patients treatment. I hear it so often where dudes can't find a doctor that will treat the low t. To find someone without much struggle was great.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 01:41 AM
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Walgreens for prescription, other places for non prescription. I don't personally buy from the dark web, but yeah, they are available there with a lot of sellers having great reviews.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:48 PM
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Good job man. Solid FR. Lots of dudes on this post seem to think its odd to play with a girls hair. In my personal opinion, girls love it when I create a bit of attachment to the hair. Pro tip for the guys who haven't messed with women's hair. When creating sexual tension, lightly scratch the back of her head and then grasp her hair a bit. I've had girls moan just on that. Some don't, but they don't complain either. It's just a form of kino and I think majority of girls are into being playfully …
/r/seduction29/05/16 09:40 PM
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Yes, sleep deprivation absolutely can play a role in low testosterone. Irregular scheduled sleep(assuming you're getting a full 7-9 hours) I'm not entirely sure.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:55 PM
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Injections? Did you use steroids or just testosterone injections? Testosterone is a steroid I would like to do a test cycle myself, but Imy unsure if I want to trust Internet information on something I'm injecting into me. Testosterone injections in this matter would not really be considered a cycle as it's prescription and most likely dosed to bring him to normal levels. Most likely somewhere around 100mg to 200mg of testosterone a week. An actual beginner steroid cycle would look to be somewhe…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:51 PM
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My doctor was a bro. Cool as fuck. I went in there and said "If my testosterone is low. Can I do at home injections?" His practice is mostly walk in for injections. He said sure. Low T at 175ng/DL and I had a prescription the same day that the bloodwork came in. Now I'm blasting and cruising because fuck it. Might as well, I'm already low T. I took the full plunge for the gains and I couldnt be happier. Bitches love muscles.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:42 PM
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I'd be so down bro, but I live in Tempe unfortunately. Been looking for some people go go clubbing/bars with too and practice daygame as well. Good luck on the search.
/r/seduction27/05/16 06:38 PM
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Why do you have 3 meh cars though? Why not just have 1 good car instead?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 01:53 AM
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Socialize and be active/work out. Learn to love and appreciate the knowledge that is bestowed upon you. Seek out healthy activities and become the best you that you can be. I wouldn't say that masturbating pornless is bad, but you could always do better. Find yourself a couple of girls, spin plates, get laid or get your dick sucked. Always better than gripping your own slab. And yes, you still have time to mold your brain. You can adapt your mindset throughout your lifetime. There is no set age …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 01:46 AM
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Digital scales, handheld bioelectrical devices, and calipers have huge margins for error. You did not go down to 4% bf. I can almost 100% guarantee you that. I'm sure you've been in low body fat percentages. Try a DEXA scan next time for a more accurate read. Costs money, but its worth it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 07:12 PM
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Good for you man, but I highly doubt you're 7% bf unless your mid contest prep. Lot of people tend to underestimate their bf%. Sounds like you're in a solid spot though so good shit. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 04:17 AM
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Fantastic fucking write up. Every article that I see posted by you is a must read from me going forward. I learn new shit and it's explained well. I'm also able to process what you write very effectively without complication so thank you for the quality.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 09:11 PM
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Good observance my man. Good reminder for me as well as I constantly have to keep reminding myself to remain absent. I'm talking to a few girls currently, but I have my eye out for this one specific one that I'm just being a retard for. Called her today "Hey, I want to see you, come over tomorrow." She then gives me some excuse "I think my mom wanted to do something tomorrow". I'm really into this girl and I need to constantly remind myself to leave it alone, but it's fucking hard to just soft n…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 09:08 PM
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Good read and absolutely true. I find that once the hook is in after a date or two and the attraction is created, pulling back a bit gets the hamster wheel spinning which can only be good. Once she starts seeing that you're not over invested and have other shit going on, her anxiety starts kicking in and she starts wondering why you're not replying or investing more time into her. Suddenly, she starts realizing that she might actually have to put in some work. It's exciting now for her. Its a fr…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 11:06 PM
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Once you get some experience on dates, you'll understand that heavily pre planning conversation topics will be a shit show. Not only does it put more pressure on you by having an agenda, but it just feels stiff and unnatural. All you need to focus on is genuinely trying to find out things about her. When people say that women love to talk, it's not a lie. Most women genuinely will talk their asses off if given the chance. They unload a truckload of information and if you read between the sentenc…
/r/seduction14/05/16 07:04 PM
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Also, if you want a general idea of what stoicism teaches and essentially get a nice intro into the philosiphy while also taking away some amazing lessons give this book a read. The Obstacle Is the Way Book completely flipped the way I approach problematic situations. Things that caused me anxiety before are able to be shifted into something that's not a huge deal by simply entering a half meditative mental state and make things seem more rational rather than going into panic mode when a new cha…
/r/seduction12/05/16 02:23 AM
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Good article man. Really been digging your stuff recently. In terms of mindset. I'm still shocked at how easy it is to adapt these mentalities. The hard part mostly comes from putting them into practice at first. Once you see how confident your faux confidence actually makes you. Then you start to blend those two realities of fake confidence and real confidence and eventually just generate real confidence. All this comes from seeing results and just overall feeling like you're the shit due to yo…
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:58 PM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction05/05/16 05:02 AM
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Something that always stuck with me was the mentality of simply trying to learn one thing from or about the girl and then decide in the moment whether I should ask her out or not. Took a lot of pressure off in the early times and 9/10 I did ask them out. The reason was because once you're already mid conversation, it's not difficult to simply say "Well, I have to get going, but we should get together and chat some more". It's all on perspective. If you're mentally conditioned to think that appro…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 02:17 AM
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Not necessarily. I was never at that level of lowness to actually relate to the lyrics. I think I just thought the song was catchy at the time. It's just kind of retarded to hear now though. Sounds horrible and the lyrics are terrible.
/r/seduction02/05/16 12:07 AM
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Fucking "Creep" by Radiohead popped up on my shuffle playlist a few days ago on my way to the gym and my brain just shut off and I got an uncomfortable chill/slight cringe at myself. I hadn't heard this song in a few years and had forgotten it even existed. "How the fuck did I ever like this fucking song". Deleted that shit right off my phone. Im not a common user of the alpha/beta labels, but damn that song is beta as fuck.
/r/seduction01/05/16 06:57 AM
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5% is contest prep body fat percentage. That sounds unhealthy year around. I'd rather just stay between 10%-12%
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 10:55 PM
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The only somewhat rational fucking person in that video is that old man around the 7 minute mark. The rest of the video already seems like its full of betas.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 10:49 PM
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Did you see how parched she was after that 1 minute of screaming? Phew, what a workout.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 09:42 PM
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What a fantastic post. Thank you OP.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 09:27 PM
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This subreddit along with askseddit has gone completely to hell over the past half year. Questions are allowed to be posted here for some reason even though we have a dedicated sub for that. People post dumb shit and the mods don't do anything about it. Newbies write articles that contain 0 value and gets upvoted for further festering of the sub. Total shit show.
/r/seduction27/04/16 08:54 PM
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Fat bitch trying to bend the rules of reality for her benefit haha. Fuck everything else it's all about "me me me". Simple equations Woman + excessive amounts of gluttony = Obese ≠ Attractive There's a simple fix to this. Woman+Diet and exercise = Fit woman = Attractive Fat woman says: Na, why adhere to reality when I can bend the world to my own mental disease. And yes people, being obese is a mental disorder. Get that shit fixed.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 04:25 AM
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I wasn't here during the root prime, but that sounds absolutely fucking great. I understand those going through the "anger phase", but sometimes it just seems pathetic and ridiculous to me how these guys can legitimately be angry for so long. Isnt the whole point of the process to get past that and improve your life? Why dwell on that specific range for so long? I get the vibe that it's even encouraged sometimes and it gets old. I think we could make more improvements if we encouraged people to …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 08:35 PM
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Not in Cali, but I appreciate man. I'll go ahead and look for some studios and check around. Appreciate the info brother.
/r/seduction24/04/16 08:13 PM
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Hey man, a little late to the thread(have a few tabs open, but couldn't read during the week). Would you have any personal recommendations on a first style to choose from? My personal objective from learning a style is not really women, but mostly for the social aspect with both guys and girls, extra life enhancing hobby, and the fact that I feel clumsy at parties and really just want to bust out and dance with confidence. You mentioned hip hop, but do I look online for just "hip hop" or are the…
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:08 AM
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Anyone know wtf is up with the moderation team on this subreddit? Absolutely gone to shit in the past few months with these kind of posts. "Hey Guys, I just recently left my basement incubation after 4 years. How do I attract women?"
/r/seduction20/04/16 04:24 AM
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Dude are you familiar with google? You type like you're 5 years old... How did you create a reddit account? Here is a definition directly from google. a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities. You sound extremely unconfident and insecure. If your self esteem will become damaged because a girl does not take your compliment kindly then you have other things to work on besides seduction for right now. Focus on gaining a general concept of the e…
/r/seduction20/04/16 04:17 AM
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This is actually really good. It's like forced spreed with audio on the ear keeping you at pace.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 08:10 PM
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Bought that shit. Was going to read it soon through text, but I've been busy af with the gym/school/work routine. Now I can just listen to it while at work. Also 14 hours.. wtf..
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:19 AM
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This Chrome extension let's you set your macronutrient goals by the gram even without premium. I've been using it for a while and it's perfect. Give it a try. https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/myfitnesspal-macro-settin/glpkdgpldbbdpjbpimehpkpgdicibgpi
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 01:29 AM
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Mid twenties is usually the median age for most MMA gyms I feel. It's where most men start to be more financially stable and can drop the 100-150 bucks of extra income for training. You wont see many broke mcdonald workers there so it filters a lot of younger dudes.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 06:20 AM
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In terms of product I have a few. Stop using gel and invest in fibre or pomade/putty. Gel has alcohol and aids with drying out your hair faster. Not good. Plus, pomade makes your hair look shinier and sexier imo. Fuck gel.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 06:02 AM
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It's really funny that you posted this today. I actually just ordered that box since it was recommended on skincareaddiction. Been doing the cleanse and moisturize part for around a month, but I thought I might as well and go full in by buying an exfoliator and benzoyl peroxide for spot treatment when I feel some acne coming in(rare, but a breakout is a breakout). Jury is still out for sunscreen for me. Don't you need to reapply like every 2 hours and shit? Seems so tedious.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 06:00 AM
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What were your starting lifts?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 06:06 AM
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Yeah man, don't overdo SS. That shit is meant to teach you the basics for a beginner. 3-5 months max to get familiar with the compound lifts. Back in 2014 when I started I also developed those Trex legs so I feel you.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 05:57 AM
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I didn't state that he was natty during that picture. It's well known the he started gear extremely early in his lifting run. I'm stating that in that picture (not his biggest or leanest btw) is completely attainable by a natural with a few years of training. It would be hard for me to give you people who I believe are natural because there's always a slight possibility that they are lying and so you wouldn't be inclined to believe me. You stated that you believe someone is natty only to find ou…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 04:33 AM
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guys are as bad as the 300lb "I can't lose weight" lol, exactly. I'm 6'0 like him and at 1800 I'm at a hard fucking defecit of almost a thousand calories. No wonder he can't gain any damn weight. Also, bro, you notice how many fuckers here on TRP are so damn clueless on lifting and dieting? Idk why, but I expected more from people who post on these things. I feel like I'm browsing the fitness board when I stumble on a lift/diet thread on here.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 01:15 AM
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Stronglifts 5x5, Starting Strength or All Pros Begginer Routine are all solid. OP says he trains for aesthetics, but I don't think you should do that right from beginner unless you're already pretty strong. Work on getting your strength up first with one of the programs I listed and maybe transition over to a hypertrophy program once your lifts are more solid. Doing hypertrophy work(high rep work) with crappy weights is stupid and won't be as beneficial at low baby weights unless you're going fo…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:59 AM
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Typical "hard gainer" mentality that he's showing. Mofo's think they can defy the laws of thermodynamics. He absolutely isn't eating 3k cals, but I bet he sure feels like it because he's a skinny guy. I get annoyed with these dudes. Track your fucking calories with a scale and all will be revealed. They would know this if they did any actual research... The thing is, they don't care enough to do any actual research and so they resort to hard gainer bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:56 AM
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What does that even mean? "Bulkiness". You mean strength? The guy you replied to should definitely do strength at least for a bit to get his strength up. He'll progress much quicker if he starts with building up power first and then focusing on high rep work once he builds a good strength base.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:53 AM
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Btw, that picture Zzyz is totally attainable natty. Where the fuck are your expectations bro. Maybe later in his career it might be more questionable whether it's attainable natty, but that first picture that you showed is 100% doable without running any gear.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:46 AM
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If you're goal less and now have activities, it's possible to discover some goals that you may want to apply to your life. I'm not suggesting that taking a hobby will show you the meaning of life and your ultimate purpose, although it sure it will contribute much more towards possibly reaching that. All I'm suggesting is that going from 0 not 30mph is much better than staying at 0. You may not yet know how to reach 60, but with world experience and time you may work your way to reach that.
/r/seduction03/04/16 06:13 PM
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You then get the "Well how am I supposed to do that?!". My answer: Try shit out! Join a fighting gym, regular gym, join a dance class, go party if you're not a regular party goer, read a book if you don't often read, practice meditation, learn guitar, ANYTHING. People expect forum members to magically know what they'll enjoy. You need to experiment with life on your own. Otherwise, its just fucking boring.
/r/seduction03/04/16 04:44 AM
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Simple and clean. You understand it my man. Confidence is knowing that you're the absolute shit. Not because you have massive ego, but because you truly know that your life is interesting. 18 year old me sitting at home playing video games is not exciting. 24 year old me however is fucking amazing. He dances, he kicks and elbows shit through muaythai, he lifts heavy weights, he chases after a desirable body, he flirts like theres no tomorrow, he goes to school after realizing that education and …
/r/seduction03/04/16 04:42 AM
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Exactly. If they're ugly, that's not their fault. I can't lose respect for someone over genetics, but when they're fat, then I absolutely can't fathom how they expect me to respect them. They can't even respect themselves. It doesn't make me angry per say because I feel that illogical anger is retarded, but I definitely don't see them as worthy. It's not impossible to lose weight. Also, for women, all most of them really need to do to be attractive to most men is to remain at a healthy weight. M…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 12:15 AM
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Reminds me of this. http://i.imgur.com/glMIV.jpg
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 03:16 PM
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Even worse than that, most girls just have to be at an appropriate weight to look decent for most guys and they can't even bother with that. The very bare minimum, don't be a fatass. No, that's too difficult and complicated. Instead they bitch that guys can't appreciate "curves" and other stupid fat acceptance horse shit. Guys have to lose the fat and then get juicy at the gym. I don't mind it because I like working out and love being above the rest of the unfit world, but it just shows the diff…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 07:02 AM
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I had low testosterone to begin with so I felt no guilt hopping on TRT through my doc and then a proper cycle. My side effects aren't as crazy as others. I don't feel "alpha" instantaneously like other dudes who run test and tren, but my muscles do grow and that's all I really care about. The gains is what make me feel alpha. Testosterone as a compound doesn't unfortunately, but that's all good.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:53 AM
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Spoiler alert: A disloyal woman that wants you will lie about her current relationship if she is seeking the dick regardless of whether you ask or not.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:10 AM
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The sad part is that his height can't be changed through hard diet work and working out. Their weight can. I was blessed with a solid height of 6'0, but man I feel for the manlet bros who get put down for their height. Fuck it, treat it like a bitch filter I suppose right? Work it for the better.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:07 AM
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Seriously man. Most guys think that you need to have it planned out, but conversation is all instinct and flow. Once you practice enough you realize that your instincts are the fucking shit and can carry your ass in most conversations. You start trusting your instincts more and more. This is what I truly believe is actual confidence. Being nervous or afraid, but knowing that taking the dive will be ok in the end because you trust your instincts to carry you through. It's like your bro. You help …
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:34 PM
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Lots of people here critizing OP. You guys aren't getting the message of the post. He's simply stating that reading in excess of even reading at all is not the best method of improving. ACTION is the best method of improvement. To add on to the main post. Many of you guys read and read and then read some more hoping that it will prime you enough to the point where your first approaches won't suck ass. You'll still be nervous as shit when you begin. In fact, I believe that reading induces higher …
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:26 PM
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When the stomach reaches a state of crucial hunger it aches to be fed anything and everything. It wants to absorb anything useful that you toss at it and bring it's nutrients to your bloodstream. Take this opportunity to seek out methods that can enhance your life brother. We reach low points and then proceed to implement things into our lives that we thought would never be implemented. All in order to gain their value and aid our lives. Similar to the stomach metaphor. What you add to your life…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:15 AM
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/u/Mr_Get_Right Listen to this guy. He speaks the truth. To grasp and implement change, you don't necessarily need to move countries or states unless it's really what you desire. I also was moved around a lot as a child and I absolutely hated it. Now as an adult I find peace in having the financial availability to remain where I want to and knowing my city up and down. I grab change by trying new things. Change does not always need to be drastic. For OP, I suggested something drastic as he seems…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:46 AM
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Practice makes a master. I guarantee you that you will get some analyzation for years to come, but the more you do it the smaller that those little voices get. Eventually, you become so confident in your approach that you know your instincts are nothing to laugh at. In fact, you now prefer your instincts to do the work because you know and trust that they are the one who will make you come off smooth as hell. This is the point at when you start to feel extremely free. You're still nervous, but y…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:39 AM
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I don't believe so because the general idea of monk mode is essentially becoming better even if you're not out there in the battlefield. You're still studying and learning. Learning is not learned helplessness because you're still attempting to find your path. Learned helplessness would be you laying in your bed refusing to get better at anything due to past failures or uncomfortable scenarios that may have occurred to you. Essentially giving up because you don't believe that there is anything i…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:47 PM
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Yeah it was dogs. The thing about intelligence is that it's an amazing thing, but one needs to understand that not everything in life needs to be overanalyzed or over complicated by mental processes. You see it a lot with new guys. They overdo the social anxiety by over thinking it and over planning. Overanalyzing then leads to failure of action. Best to just accept the anxiety, blank through and move in. Let the natural instincts take care of the talking.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:38 PM
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I'm at the gym right now and I don't really feeling like typing too much, but personally if I was in that situation, I would invest myself in the philosophy of stoicism and beginning a process to recondition my brain. In the study regarding the scientific trials, the only way of getting the dogs to realize that there was an escape was by physically having to move them out of the shock's way. They were motivated to escape the shocks via treats and rewards, but the dogs were too fucked up mentally…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:02 PM
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OP has reached the state of learned helplessness. In scientific trials, they found that by trapping an animal and inducing painful shocks to the floor where it sat/stood, the animal would flounder around and try to find an escape from the locked box. At first, there is no escape mechanism to the box. However, they then took the animal and placed him in a box that had an escape mechanism. The animal did not bother however. It had reached the point of learned helplessness. The blinking light signa…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 06:39 PM
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I think I will just do it. I'll start looking online tomorrow after work without a doubt. For now, I need to head to bed because I have to be up by 4AM. Thanks for the advice bro. Enjoy the night.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 05:05 AM
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I was actually looking at improv class as per someone's suggestion, but I'm imaging cringy as fuck acting which is kinda putting me off. I may search for regular acting classes or something. The dance classes are also a really good suggestion that I may look into. I just want a fun activity with a solid group of constant people. Already go to the gym/school/work and I feel extremely fulfilled in all general directions except for my social life/friends. I can game, I can pick up girls/date/whatev…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 03:34 AM
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Don't really see the gym as a social club. More like a personal hobby. Boxing and sports definitely though.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 01:32 AM
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I'm pumped to start using my diet to increase my gains and stop wasting my time stuck on shit because I'm half assing my training and start doing shit right and fucking growing I want to attain at least 185 lbs of lean mass. Is the end of summer an unrealistic goal for that? Doubtful man. According to studies, 2lbs of muscle is the general zone of lean mass gain per month. Meaning that if you train hard and eat right, you could essentially gain 10lbs of lean muscle in 5 months. You could gain mo…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 03:56 AM
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We're going from better yourself as a man and see the truth to torture yourself now? Wtf is that shit.. I incorporate delayed gratification when it makes sense that the later rewards out benefit the current fast rewards. I'm a human being able to process complicated information like that. Delayed vs instant gratification is not a hard concept to understand. I don't need this torture yourself to become better bullshit. That only applies to certain things and applying it to everything is a sure wa…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 08:55 PM
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I'll look into macros and I saw a program by Jake Wilson on Bodybuilding.com that I liked, I think I'll try it out next week. Good plan man. I would suggest stronglifts 5x5, but half the program is basically squats and deadlifts lol. I wish I knew of a legit program that replaces those two with other alternatives, but sadly I dont. Also, I hear you on the whole depression thing man. I know RP is all about alpha this and that, but I recently just cut ties with a girl I was really into and I know …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 02:32 AM
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Yeah man there's a lot of shit to know. My advice for you is, get a good food scale and actually measure your food. If you eat out a lot it's hard to calculate the calories and macros on already prepared food it's it's always recommended that you make your own food that way you know exactly how many calories you're getting along with the macros. If making the food yourself is just not up your alley then this whole things becomes extremely more difficult. It's just a matter of how much you want i…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 12:47 AM
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I hear you dude. I'm not referring to the guys that generally have the correct info. I'm talking about the dudes that go around tossing certain things like "calories aren't really the thing that people should be basing their diet from. It's all about how many carbs you consume. Too many carbs and you will get fat". The truth is, too many carbs or too much fat, or too much protein will make you fat. Calories are calories. They read some bullshit advice from some random source and they think they …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:33 PM
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Except it's not a myth. Calories are scientifically proven to be true. Calories in, calories out. Chicken is more clean obviously, but using ice cream and chicken is a horrible fucking example. Completely different macro trees. Chicken is protein, ice cream are simple carbs. In terms of fast usable energy, the ice cream would actually give you more energy in this example. Is it a healthier food overall. Absolutely not.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 08:09 PM
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I love the comments that usually follow the OP from guys that just started lifting stating random bullshit as if they know how to lift/diet properly. Been lifting for a month. I'm qualified to give newbies advice lmao. It's a fucking mess of disagreement on this sub. Some actually lift and others think that they know how to lift and armchair advice others on how to properly being fit.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 07:54 PM
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Well 3500 calories should definitely have you gaining some weight according to your body stats. I'm thinking that your 10k steps a day might be burning few extra hundred calories. You say it's not a lot, but that's around 200-400 calories burned on just walking bro. What program do you follow and what are your lift stats? Primarily, how much do bench/squat/deadlift/Military Press and how many sets per the weight can you do? Other weight stats might be useful too, but those main 4 should give me …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:33 PM
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Hard gainer is a stupid fucking word. You're a "I don't eat as much as I think I'm eating" gainer. To get big you fucking eat your required calories to grow and you workout like a fucking man. Let me help you out. Fill in the blanks for me. Age: Height: 6'2 Weight: 165lb How many days a week do you exercise: Office Job or Physical job if physical, doing what?: How long are your workouts including cardio?: Are your workouts light, heavy, intense, etc? : How many days a week do you lift weights? :…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 07:49 PM
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70lbs in 8 months... That's a lot of fat mate cut your calories down a notch wtf. I bet there's some muscle gain in there, but holy shit you could have stayed leaner going up in weight and still gained the same quality muscle. That or you were just a fucking walking stick and your body somehow took all that food and ran with it. I still highly doubt that even half of those 70lbs is muscle though if you did in fact gain that much in only 8 months.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 07:42 PM
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Excellent post man. I really loved the way you explained it in detail. Very easy to internalize. Building confidence is just the practice of knowing that something may not be pleasant, but proceeding anyways. It's hard without a doubt, but eventually you start realizing that the more you dive into things even though nervous, the more confidence you create in being able to do those things that used to stop you mid way. Being confident does not mean that you don't fear anything anymore. It just me…
/r/seduction04/03/16 08:33 PM
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You drop the habit by understanding that wanting to speak to a woman, even if it's out of context is perfectly normal. We don't need specific reasons to talk to people. Sometimes, men just want to have sex. Even that is a perfect reason to approach someone. Why not, you know? Men have evolved to seek out women. Just embrace your manhood and understand that wanting something from a girl is nothing to be ashamed of. If you want to talk to a girl and you're seeking to make her your girlfriend then …
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:45 AM
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Why the fuck would she care? Are you super close to this girl or just met her? If you're close I can understand it coming up in conversation, but if this girl isn't even part of your life at this point then you're worrying about something that is extremely unimportant. Lots of people don't get along with dads. Don't make it a bigger deal than it actually is.
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:41 AM
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Mexican here and also really attracted to white women most of the time. Honestly, it's not a big deal. I think a big part of it has to do with just how you carry yourself. Most of my mexican people dress really bad unfortunately, either because they're poor or just like to dress like gangsters most of the time. Not hating the dress style, but most college white girls won't go for that most of the time. I dress like a successful man living in the United States. This whole fucking paragraph sounds…
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:37 AM
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This is only true in certain scenarios specially if you constantly seek validation. I talked to this girl recently and there was a moment where shit clicked. I could tell she liked me and I liked her. Even though I know she likes me at this point, I don't feel any less attracted to her. I feel even more attracted.
/r/seduction01/03/16 08:42 PM
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Oh my god, you couldn't have said it any better. I recently started reading this book called the obstacle is the way. Essentially, its an intro to stoicism which tells us that the difficult paths can be rewarding and are absolutely worth it. Old version of me would scoff at someone doing things the hard way, but I've learned over time that most things worthy of being practiced have an initial pain period that one must just respect and accept. At the end of the tunnel, we come out enlightened and…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 11:23 PM
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Glad someone is posting some happy posts. Seems like most TRP'ers have this ideology that they have to be jaded most of the time to be a badass or something. It's imitation as most of the guy's do post very strict and firm non happy posts. I for one choose to find the amusement in all this crazy shit and games. Have some fun with it people. TRP is fucking great, but that doesnt mean that you should act like a bitter man that sees life as a grey planet in general. Just my .02
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:02 PM
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I disagree that it's simply genetics. It's basic psychology. Adults grow into different mindsets depending on their environments and life choices growing up. It's different for everyone and simply pinning it on genetics is just not plausible. Too many variables really, but men being betas is mostly due to their mental state and learned behaviors. Most of them are taught that women are sacred growing up and those are the dudes that are usually white knighting across the net. Other's get taught ot…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:26 PM
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Damn, I tried that exercise and felt sad and uneasy while I was imagining the stuff. Really uncomfortable. I opened my eyes and still felt uneasy, but maybe the delight comes from practice. I assume that if you get good at it, it's like waking from a shitty dream where extreme relief comes right after the realization that the dream was just a bad dream.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:13 PM
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Yep, not only that, but a lot of people(including myself when I started) go through a phase where they try to absorb as much as possible before even attempting to approach a single time. They take too much in and then have high expectations of themselves and ultimately freeze at an actual approach because they know they wont be up to standard compared to what they read online. I had to take a hard break from reading material and after a few months of detox I was able to see things much more clea…
/r/seduction23/02/16 03:24 AM
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Assuming that someone's diet is shit just because they supplement protein is a huge assumption so I won't even argue there. I like to go by facts. The fact is that protein powder has its uses and is not a waste of money as you stated. Not everyone has to do it perfectly. We're not Olympia competitors, settle down.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:25 PM
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They're not even comparable though. Why even toss them in the same sentence? Steroids are performance and muscle enhancers. Protein is not. People don't buy protein powder because they want more power in the gym or a quick boost in energy and performance. People buy protein powder to meet their protein macro goal for the day when they can't reach it with regular food. In terms of being a waste, absolutely not. Protein powder's grams of protein per dollar are comparable to other foods full of pro…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 10:27 PM
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Whoa, since when is protein powder comparable to a steroid cycle? You sound like one of those misinformed parents that see their kid making a protein shake and assume it's steroids mate...
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 09:51 PM
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Protein powders are not bs... They're a method of getting protein in. It's food. Absolutely get protein powder if you need it to complete your macros. If you can get all your protein in from food, great! Protein powder is not a bad thing to have though for when you need it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 09:04 PM
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And the more muscle you have, the faster you'll lose it. Very true, but if he's really fat he should focus on losing the fat first with a caloric defecit and throw strength training on there to start gaining some strength. He won't gain much muscle from it due to the lower calories, but at least he will gain some strength while also losing fat. Hypertrophy work will almost be crap due to the low calories so don't even bother with a focused muscle building routine. Focus on building muscle once y…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:58 PM
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So for example, believing in the power of the universe and the grand being that is universal energy count as believing in a god? I don't really believe in Christ and all that, but I do have a sense of perspective and realize that we're all just tiny beings compared to the power of the universe. The universe to me is a grand being. I can draw energy and spread it by keeping a high vibe to myself. I know its a bit odd, but it always helps to believe in something greater.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:23 PM
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In that perspective, it's actually extremely liberating. Knowing that everyone out there in the world have their own insecurities to worry aobut and focusing on being who they're portraying rather than giving two shits about anyone else. It gives you more room to realize that on one cares what you do or try to portray. You can do a 180 of how you actually are and be a completely fucking goofball and no one will think you're faking it. They'll just think you're a fun guy.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:17 AM
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Hey man I understand exactly how you're feeling. Even when improving yourself, the routine can sometimes get a bit stale. My advice, change it up. Skip a club weekend and go to a meetup instead and try seeing some new people in different environments. I also go to the gym, work, then university on top of it all. My week is packed, but on the weekend, I look at things and say "hmm.. Why the fuck not. Worth a try" and I go and do something new or something not so new that's fun to me like saturday…
/r/seduction01/02/16 03:42 AM
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Yeah man sarcasm is hard on the internet. Specially because a lot of people on Reddit are clueless sometimes. The /s always helps to know lol
/r/seduction29/01/16 01:38 PM
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I dont know about you man, but I don't really go out and show girls my groin very often without first forming some sort of relationship.
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:30 AM
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Good stuff, solid FR. Just keep trying man. #3 came off a bit rude imo, but the honesty and outright shut out is kind of refreshing when dealing with girls that just ghost randomly during text messages or when setting up a date. I'd rather know up front that they're not interested(even with a bit of aggression) than have her linger and just not text back.
/r/seduction23/01/16 11:52 PM
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Challenge threads would be pretty cool actually. Not a bad idea.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:34 PM
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Well said. These dudes are trying to go from 0 shit lifestyle to 100 in a few months. He thinks that escaping his reality will somehow motivate him to make a full 180 in lifestyle. Realistically, he'll be sitting in his new apartment crying wanting to go back once he realizes that he can't do what his amazing brain's blissful dream created for him. The dude is already in debt with a bunch of credit cards... 100% set up for failure as you stated.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 08:25 PM
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Read the post before it was deleted and wanted to share my thoughts. You keep saying things like "need" "should" "want". Everyone wants things, should do things and needs things. Just shut up and fucking do it. You're already a fuck up. Your two options are go away or live with your parents? Wtf kind of options are those? You're 29 years old too? Shit... All your needs are irrelevant. John Doe needs to work out, but it doesn't fucking matter that he needs it. No one else in the world cares if he…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 08:20 PM
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It's the classic keto religion sputtering their carb is evil crap. Many of them aren't knowledgeable enough to understand that a calorie is a calorie. You overeat on any macro nutrient, you will gain fat. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 06:13 PM
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Keto is excellent for cutting fat for sure and you feel full quite often even at a defecit which is awesome. I tried bulking on keto once though and was really difficult to make gains. Probably the glycogen depletion, but for cutting it's fucking great. Btw how do you like the lose it app? I'm currently using MFP, but sometimes it's kind of ugly to use. Does lose it have a solid db of foods like mfp?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 01:51 AM
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Glycogen depletion, water weight loss, muscles will look flat. No thanks, I think I'll keep my carbs. Sure, I'll lose a few lbs of water weight, but calories in and calories out still stands true and is king. The scale going down a few lbs doesnt mean you lost fat by simply cutting carbs. Yes, eating too many carbs will cause you to get fat, but it's the same with any macronutrient. You can gain weight eating fat foods like nuts and peanut butter as well. Why you ask? Because it's fucking calori…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 01:46 AM
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Most gym bros tout the old "cardio is the gains killer" and in result many people now equate cardio as evil. Really a shame. This is how you end up with the over bulked dudes that OP mentioned. GET YOUR CARDIO IN PEOPLE. At least do some cardio on rest days or something.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:39 PM
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THAT BROSCIENCE THOUGH! ACK I can absolutely get fat and not eat carbs. How much do you want to bet?! I have my dozens of avocados ready to be devoured.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:34 PM
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No one gives a shit about your loose skin man, you look fucking juicy as fuck. Who cares about that past shit. Keep it up brother.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:32 PM
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You did not lose 10% body fat. I don't mean to come off as offensive, just man to man. You didn't even get your starting body fat correctly to begin with. Those crappy scales with bf measurements are one of the worst methods of measuring body fat. Get a hydrostatic test, dexa scan or bod pod to find something closer to your actual body fat. On your first picture, you look like you're around 15-20 percent body fat. On the second you look like you're around 15-20 percent body fat, flexed. If you t…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:24 PM
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You should have called him for being a beta little bitch. Would have stung him if you mentioned the girl breaking up with him too.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 10:16 PM
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I'd rather take an illegal recording charge than a false rape charge, but I wonder if the recording would not stand in court due to it being an illegal recording... Hmm.. Anyhow, I live in Arizona and audio recording here only requires a 1 party consent so I don't need to tell anyone that I'm recording and it's legal.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 10:51 PM
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Love my ispy and eventghost burglar webcam setup. That shit sends me texts message pictures at motion detection and starts recording automatically as soon as it detects movement. Setting it up in the bedroom may not be the worst idea along with a microphone taped somewhere. Also, ever since about a year back when I started reading about the many ridiculous rape claims, I've made it a habit to take a pause before any action and enable the voice recorder on my phone. It only takes 3 seconds and do…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 10:50 PM
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The girl's dad later called him and thanked him for being so alpha and gave him 5 dollars.
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:51 PM
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I think the texts are fine. They feel a bit rushed, but I mean who cares you know? Can't win them all. I would have just started with a bit more playful/cocky first text, but I don't think she would have responded either way. Some girls just like to ghost and you just have to say fuck it, send a second text a day later if you liked her and if she doesn't reply to that, delete the number and move on. "Hey Dr Flexitarian. It's that cute guy from the speed dating event that you couldn't keep your e…
/r/seduction14/12/15 05:46 AM
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The host of the show was really understanding and interested. It could have been one of the many other scenarios where the host shows disgust and throws out the ol "RESPECT WOMEN!" "WOMEN DONT LIKE BEING APPROACHED BY STRANGERS!!!" bullcrap that everyone likes to hear. Glad she was open minded and interested in the subject.
/r/seduction10/12/15 06:06 PM
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I like to smell good whether girls are near me or not. I find this thread very useful actually.
/r/seduction07/12/15 04:50 AM
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That's the awesome thing about pickup. You don't have to be perfect at it. As long as you genuinely try and attempt to progressively get better, you'll have good success. Why fill your mind with the perfect scenario you know? Ain't nobody got time for that. Words coming from the heart and direct are smoother to me even if they don't come out perfect.
/r/seduction07/12/15 02:26 AM
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Seriously man! It's a subreddit for self improvement. I never thought I would see the keyboard warriors here critiquing other's approaches to the point of just outright being rude.
/r/seduction07/12/15 02:22 AM
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Please don't ever stop posting brother. You get downvoted for whatever reason and it's really upsetting that select few on this community are being such cunts about things. I think it's hilarious even, because I know for a fact that some of the regular posters here don't even practice whatsoever and like to post their "stories" and acquire internet brownie points which inflates their ego a bit. Those same dudes then get on other threads and critique almost to the point where they're just outrigh…
/r/seduction06/12/15 09:35 PM
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It's easy to watch a video and say "yeah, I totally wouldn't have said that and said this instead". The thing is dude, every scenario is different. A lot of guy's don't pre-meditate their approaches which I think is just better. No need to fret on what the "best" thing to say is. Just as long as you say what you mean and mean what you say, then it's all generally good. Do you have any videos of you approaching btw? Would love to take a look.
/r/seduction30/11/15 07:05 PM
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Hey Tony, I was reading your "I Hope it's Sunny Out" book and something hit me early in the book. You tend to stick in the set for a bit when talking to girls. I've been getting a lot of flakes and no return text messages recently and I think I know why. My approach is basically direct approach, compliment, get number, and then leave. I create no connection with the girl in the moment and so they don't feel incentivised to text me back or show up for dates. I wanted to thank you personally since…
/r/seduction29/11/15 07:47 PM
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If you believe she has an STD ask her to get tested first and then you'd be willing to sleep around. If she's not down with that then find someone else to fuck. Say something like "We should both get tested for STD's just so we know we are both clean". That way you don't isolate her and she get's pissed lol.
/r/seduction28/11/15 07:17 PM
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Simpler math. She wants the D. You want the pussy. 100% match!
/r/seduction28/11/15 07:17 PM
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I think the first quote is bullshit. I'll hit on whoever the hell I want because I'm a man and I don't care for statuses. If I find her attractive I will let her know and if she rejects me I don't care enough to regret it. In fact, I'm glad I still approached. The second quote, those aren't pick up lines. They're methods of gathering info. If I'm on a date I will ask where shes from and I get her name from the initial approach. I wouldn't personally use "can I buy you a drink" because that's not…
/r/seduction28/11/15 07:12 PM
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Some real nice shit posts here... Way to go dudes... <_< OP, let's keep it simple. He most likely believes that you just thought of it as a one night thing. Then if you're texting back and forth without any indication of interest or flirting, he probably just assumed you were just using him for validation via text and he got bored. I'm not putting anything against you, but coming from a guy, many girls text back and forth just to feel good about themselves and guys stop responding after a while …
/r/seduction28/11/15 07:06 PM
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Seek professional help please. Wanting a girlfriend is very natural as most humans long for an intimate relationship with someone. However, your situation seems extremely rooted down and just a bit far beyond the normal things. Seek a pro and get your mental stuff taken care of the best possible way man. Best wishes.
/r/seduction27/11/15 12:54 AM
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If I saw that shit I would laugh my ass off. So many posts saying "lets see if a not so attractive guy could pull this off". The answer is yes as long as that guy at least tries to not be a total slob. Dress well, brush your damn teeth, diet if you're overweight, trim the damn unibrow, give yourself a proper shave, and then yeah, you can approach girls and they won't shit on you(not you directly btw I'm just making an example, I'm sure you're a great guy). I've seen so many self loathing posts o…
/r/seduction22/11/15 11:48 PM
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Bad timing and location dude. Don't overthink it. The good thing is that you popped that cherry. Now go approach some more. Preferably when there is some sunlight out.
/r/seduction21/11/15 06:18 PM
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I understand 100% percent where you're coming from. I had that too and sadly you have to push through it even if it sucks. It took every fiber of push from me and it's scary to think about how bad it was back then even. It's a shitty feeling to feel somewhat ready and then you're 20 feet from the girl you're going to approach with your mind all made up. You command your legs to stand up and walk towards her and then suddenly FREEZE "it's too late"/"she's busy"/"next time" your brain tells you. Y…
/r/seduction20/11/15 06:02 PM
1

I hear ya, but I see no fault. It's a business. That's like walking into a store and seeing a buy one get one for free deal and expecting the free one without putting up your side of the bargain for the first one.
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:53 AM
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The reason its "free" is because you have to sign up for the kindle unlimited trial which requires a card so they can charge the next month if you stick around. I mean technically it is free since you can just cancel the membership after signing up and downloading the book, but yeah. Most things are not actually free, just properly incentivised.
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:29 AM
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No payment information = no book for you. You dont want to give up card info and amazon doesn't want to serve you if you don't want to provide info. Looks like you're both at a stand off so no reason to bitch as nothing will happen unless you budge on your stance.
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:55 AM
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You're not a robot that can be programmed. Take responsibility for yourself and allow yourself to be teached to not give a fuck. The instructions have been layed out across the whole sub. You're capable of reading and you're capable of physical movement. Are you physically able to follow that advice? Of course you are. No one is physically able to move your ass to approach. Only you're able to do that. Do it many times and you'll get better. It's not a hard equation to follow, but it's a hard on…
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:52 AM
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Good post man. To add on to this. OP, it's a snowball effect and its easy to give it momentum and really get the ball rolling. Once you realize that approach anxiety exists in almost everyone in the world you realize that you're just human and the way to succeed past that is to simply push through it as others have. I know what you're thinking "BUT HOW DO I PUSH THROUGH IT?! I NEED DETAILS". The thing is, there is no special way or shortcut for this. You can learn the theory and the simple appro…
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:42 AM
1

Another extra tip on top of the others here. Walk around and high five everyone that walks in front of you. Gets you in state quick.
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:33 AM
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Whatever the hell you feel like dude. People on this subreddit get so caught up with the "I made her pay for her own stuff because women should contribute to their own meals and shit" If it's cheap and you can afford it then fucking pay for the lady. If you're absolutely broke then don't. I love this sub, but it's one of those things that bugs me sometimes. OH I NEED TO KEEP FRAME! YOU PAY FOR YOUR OWN SHIT
/r/seduction07/11/15 02:46 AM
2

Oh yeah definitely. Getting in there is the small bump in the road. Once you get in front of the girl and start talking the pieces just fall on their own.
/r/seduction30/10/15 01:08 PM
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Personally, I feel pretty good even when I get rejected because most of the time the women take appreciation to my approach. I hit on a girl at a gas station yesterday, I got the "I dont think my bf would like that" I tell her, "haha, he probably wouldnt" and smiled at her. She then says "I really liked your approach though. I'll definitely remember you" and gave me a sweet smile. I got my pack of gum and told her "Sounds good, take care" while smiling and walked away. Even if I got rejected I k…
/r/seduction30/10/15 03:24 AM
2

Well said. I think it's kind of odd that he seriously told her to follow him outside like they're already friends or something when he's been obsessing over here for a full year and she doesn't even know his name. He's fully invested and feels like they're friends somehow though obsessive connection and she's completely unaware of his existence which is why she probably felt so odd near him. Just ask her out where she stood and the whole painful rejection could have been evaded. He prolonged the…
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:47 PM
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Excellent write up. Captures it all perfectly well. Good shit man! Back when I finally decided to jump into lifting a few years back I was a scared little untaught child. I kept to myself and tried not to make eye contact with anyone. Now I toss shit around, curse out when I fail my last rep and am not afraid to express myself even if it offends people. I've learned that my life is about me and if someone wants to get between that then I have no issue with confrontation. Go ahead and tell me I'm…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:31 AM
0

Practice on them and let them give you some blowjobs man. Cant hurt.
/r/seduction15/08/15 02:24 AM
1

Listen man, I've pushed when girls tell me "umm.. I dont know.." I think at that point its ok to push with something like. "Come on, you know you want to.." or something like "It will be fun, dont think, just do". Works quite a lot and I'm a big fan of pushing through hesitations, but when she says she has a boyfriend, she's politely telling you "no thank you". That's not giving up at the first sign of struggle. That is you appropriately respecting her choice. You come off needy as hell man. The…
/r/seduction14/07/15 12:20 AM
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There's a few like that around here, don't mind them. They have this delusion that they need to keep frame and be alpha as fuck or else they did it wrong. One has to realize that she's just not interested in you because she's already with someone else. Even if she wasn't she still already rejected you. No need to push it further, just find another girl you know? I just go with a simple "Oh cool! Well, you have a good rest of the day" and walk away.
/r/seduction13/07/15 08:49 PM
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It's always so good to open up to random old folk. They're so surprisingly understanding and they love to talk as well so its a 2 way win for everyone. I'm personally a big fan of old ladies because most of the time theyre just so damn sweet.
/r/seduction29/05/15 04:13 AM
1

This. I remember about a year ago when I was doing my hardcore research on seduction. I was so excited to start and I never did back then. I ended up dropping all seduction material for the rest of the year and now I just do it. The reading puts so much expectation on you to be good when in reality you'll most likely suck ass the first few tries. Just forget all seduction material and focus on just asking people out to coffee dates. Once you get consistant dates and women stop phasing you then m…
/r/seduction09/05/15 10:07 PM
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New here. How are we supposed to enjoy a relationship with a girl if we can't trust her? Seems like an enemy stance would make the relationship very unenjoyable.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 05:57 PM
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I know trp gets a bad rap, but honestly some stuff is actually useful for a man. I have no ill feelings towards women or want to see them as inferior, but trp definitely has some good pointers that have helped me tremendously.
/r/seduction15/03/15 04:21 PM
1

Please do hit me up once its written. I'll give it a read or two no doubt.
/r/seduction19/02/15 03:12 AM
1

Tell me all about this "pulling girls in classrooms". 23 and starting college in Aug. Late, but I can still hit on those girls.
/r/seduction19/02/15 02:30 AM
2

Let me rephrase. I am scared of having children with someone who I don't want to be tied to any more. Maybe kids with a woman that I care about deeply one day may not be so bad, but you were about to break up with your girlfriend. Then boom you're stuck with her because of your child. That's scary af.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:55 AM
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This is why I'm scared of having children. Fuck all of that..
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:19 AM
1

Hey this is neat. Now I can load this on my nook simple reader and see what you guys are all about. Always been curious as to what drives you dudes to behave differently compared to regular society. I'm going into this with an open mind and hoping to catch a different point of view that I havent experienced before. Wish me luck.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 01:04 AM
1

How is that book as a whole? Seems like an interesting view into the life of a pimp. Might have to download it.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 10:05 PM
3

Even if I was that low, at least I'm not a homophobic bigot, but sure, you go ahead and call me something else. Make it good too so you can feel accomplished. I'll more than likely not reply. You may have the energy and time to troll around the net, but I certainly don't. You enjoy the rest of your life.
/r/seduction20/12/14 05:23 PM
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Its OK. Some people are just born with autism. I hope you can overcome it and live a happy life.
/r/seduction19/12/14 04:18 AM
5

This is really cool advice. I'll try it out for sure.
/r/seduction05/12/14 06:40 PM
2

Pretty sure /u/successor1 is just an advertiser to that pdf. Doubt it's any good so I wouldnt worry about it too much.
/r/seduction01/12/14 03:28 AM
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I've also heard that psychedelics are mind blowingly view altering. I'm not sure if its all hype, but I do plan on testing for myself sometime in the future.
/r/seduction19/11/14 05:44 AM
2

It actually makes sense. Friend of mine actually hit on a girl twice. One week before the other. The first time he got blown off, but the second time she actually took him up on a date. They dated for like a month iirc, but yeah the principle stands. She was having a bad day the first time and the second time he approached she was more receptive towards it. Not to say all women have that consistency, but its nice to assume that they are. One interaction is never the same as another.
/r/seduction29/10/14 02:51 AM
1

Sounds good. Thanks man
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:26 AM
1

If you had to choose one to read first which would you pick between the two? I'm currently leaning towards Love Yourself as priority, but would like your opinion.
/r/seduction22/10/14 03:23 AM
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Added Love yourself and Live your truth to my book list of future reads. Thank you sir.
/r/seduction21/10/14 11:52 PM
1

Our brains aren't equipped well enough to handle and process a false threat. We know is not really a threat, but our brains cant differentiate. All the brain knows is that it's a threat. Our brains then release various hormones to respond to the threat. Many of you have heard of it as the fight or flight response. The video is easy to lose track of, but the subject and idea is very similar.
/r/seduction10/10/14 08:19 PM
3

Wasn't this on bestof yesterday or a few days ago?
/r/seduction09/10/14 05:23 PM
1

How do you find anxiety groups like that.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:57 AM
2

Damn this makes it very relatable to gamers. Nice write up.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:55 AM
2

Exactly some people use the whole introvert thing as an excuse. It's kind of weak
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:27 AM
1

How does someone find a group to do improv with? I'm trying to get into new things, but I feel like it would be weird just walking into a new group of people and trying to do what they do. Specially something like that.
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:04 AM
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Would also like to I know. Seems like a big claim with no backup or explanation.
/r/seduction01/08/14 05:51 AM
2

I laughed at "I dont do clubs they're gay." haha I'm not a fan of nightgame either and felt the same way about it so I'll probably give this guy some time and watch the videos. They seem interesting.
/r/seduction29/07/14 10:12 PM
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We see it all the time. Newbies worrying too much on how to approach. There is no reason why you should worry about your perfect scenario pickup so early on. You won't get it perfect in the beginning. Focus on learning to accept rejections and before you know it you'll be a train at full force. I watched this video and reminded me of how I used to overthink things. This specific video made me realize that it's OK to be a dumbass who likes to have fun. This is what pickup is supposed to be. It's …
/r/seduction21/07/14 09:01 AM
3

I doubt its good, but you'll be alright. Just don't become one a slacker that idolizes weed and you should be fine.
/r/seduction09/07/14 07:02 AM
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whakawhakawhaka Hug life and im forcing you to feel me.
/r/seduction07/07/14 08:11 PM
1

Julien is a little off putting but Tyler is where it's at!
/r/seduction24/06/14 08:58 AM
1

How does one find someone in their area for speech coaching? Isn't that more geared towards being a good debate candidate?
/r/seduction24/06/14 08:34 AM
2

Hits right at home. This video needs to be watched at least once a week to really get the mindset going. I'm been putting off enrolling to college this upcoming semester, but you know what. FUCK IT. Im heading over this this Monday no excuses. Thank you for posting this. I'm going to download the URL and place it on my motivation folder.
/r/seduction16/05/14 08:27 PM
1

How exactly has it been a game changer?
/r/seduction14/05/14 06:53 PM
3

I guess I can hop on this. See you on the 19th
/r/seduction14/05/14 05:04 AM
0

Thanks man. I appreciate the tough love.
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:58 AM
1

Is the AA program anything like mark mansions dating course? Seems really interesting. How do you get yourself to step out of the house and just do shit? I always tell myself that the next day will be the day that I practice pickup, but I never do. I have issues just stepping out of the house like I can't find a motive. I know that if i just practiced I would kick ass at it. =/
/r/seduction13/05/14 03:18 AM
3

Definitely a good way to get in state.
/r/seduction09/05/14 09:22 PM
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It's also a good idea for newbies since 2 minutes is very low pressure. General rule is to just get out there and do it. Something I need to follow more religiously if I'm being honest, but fuck it.
/r/seduction09/05/14 03:33 PM
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/r/seduction04/05/14 08:28 AM
1

Where would I go for such deal? Links appreciated.
/r/seduction03/05/14 06:42 PM
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Its all on perspective. If you believe its normal it will be normal. It's like approaching girls in general. If you go in and start acting weird she will believe you're odd and awkward. Once you practice and go in perfectly comfortable the girls will notice and feel more comfortable. Anyhow, yeah man. Sorry about coming off as an asshole. I may have put it out of proportion. Once again, I hope you're able to step through the mental barrier. Take care and good luck!
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:53 PM
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I just think its kind of low confidence to be insecure about shaking someones hand. Its as basic as it gets. Here I have no issue with you and I'm actually hoping you're able to step out of your comfort zone a bit so I'll give you some kind advice. Go out and to random dudes in the street and tell them the following "Hey man, I thought I'de let you know that I think your shoes are really cool. Whats your name?" The dude will then say "My name is xx" You will then say "Nice you to meet you xx my …
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:08 PM
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Easy there warrior. I'm sure cussing at people online isn't weird for you since its anonymous and all. If only you had that same courage offline. Then, just then, maybe you could stop worrying and saying stupid shit like "Im 17 and shaking hands is weird to me hurr"
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:45 PM
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God forbid you do something "weird"
/r/seduction29/04/14 01:12 AM
1

Meetup is great. I found a guitar tutor and meditation groups on there. Such a solid website.
/r/seduction28/04/14 05:27 PM
3

We're all gonna make it bro
/r/seduction25/04/14 05:32 PM
1

Gonna watch these when I get home. I've never even heard of these videos
/r/seduction25/04/14 05:30 PM
3

I dont think you have to record. Personally I like to because 1. Its legal in my state to have one party consent when recording audio. 2. I sometimes like to play them back to myself and see where I can improve. It also makes me feel like the man.
/r/seduction22/04/14 05:40 AM
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Sounds like fun. I'de be down to try some of those things. Not so much the tall girl thing, but just trying out different things mid conversation. I'm still relatively new, but I plan on taking audio and just pushing my conversations to see how far I can go. Girls will laugh at the stupidest shit and it would be hilarious if you gave sedditors small goals to accomplish while talking to people. Could be fun. Sorry about unorganized paragraph btw. I gotta head out to jog so I typed super quick wit…
/r/seduction22/04/14 03:13 AM
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It would have to be really well organized. For example, we would need to categorize shit from newbie level to intermediate since a particular challenge could be difficult to a newbie while something more difficult could be a piece of cake to the more experienced.
/r/seduction22/04/14 02:13 AM
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I've been trying to seperate myself from my PC and read more so I'll add it to my to read list. Thanks
/r/seduction10/04/14 07:11 AM
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/r/seduction10/04/14 07:11 AM
1

A thousand tiny. :P Is that the book that was being handed out for free on reddit? Whats so great about the book? I wasnt very enticed at first, but as someone whos looking for more challenges. I'm definitely somewhat interested now.
/r/seduction10/04/14 03:12 AM
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Anytime bud.
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:06 AM
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edit: Dont mind the bold. I just wanted to make the paragraphs feel less like an eye sore. I'm not very familiar with spacing on reddit yet so please excuse me. Ok so first of all, let me apologize for the late response. I saw the post right before I went to work and completely forgot about it until right now when I was on reddit news in bed. I just got out of bed to type it out on my PC. That way I can give you a proper response. Also, its too long and I'm lazy to type all this on my phone. So,…
/r/seduction28/03/14 08:01 AM
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I hope the best for you. Just posting to remind myself to come back and see how you're doing. Good luck my friend
/r/seduction28/03/14 07:16 AM
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As long as it gets you out there and running. Personally I'm currently doing Mark Mansons Fearless dating program and it basically just gives me an excuse to go out and do my objectives if you will. Its kind of like a fun game. I go out do what the program says and I get to advance to the next mission. Anyhow, just do the challenge. If it works it works. If it doesnt, well, at least you went out and learned something. Any sort of experience is good experience. So get out there!
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:20 PM
1

Where did you find yourself said playboy? I tried to befriend a good looking dude once at a bar. Not due to the reason you listed (although probably would have helped, but just because the dude looked cool and he seemed worthy of a friend or at least a contact). Anyhow, I went up the dude and said "Hey man, you look cool as hell. You seem like the kind of person that likes to have fun. My name is Strike48, whats the plan for tonight?" He instantly told me to fuck off. Instantly got the idea that…
/r/seduction17/03/14 03:44 AM
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Good for you man. I'm having trouble recently getting out. I leave work at 7pm and find myself going straight home. I know I should hit the malls or something even just for a nice walk, but idk wtf is up with me recently. :/
/r/seduction05/03/14 11:28 PM
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I disagree.
/r/seduction03/03/14 07:47 PM
2

Robert Glover is the name of the author. Heres an amazon link to the book
/r/seduction26/02/14 04:46 PM
2

Yep it is indeed a great book. Also fairly easy to pick up some of its lessons and actually practice. I think the biggest thing that I received out of that book was the very valuable lesson that I should stop caring so damn much about what other people think of me. I live to amuse myself and myself only. Its easy to keep in mind and becomes great when you practice it. I've learned to disagree with people when I need to and that alone has earned me quite a bit of respect from different people. Do…
/r/seduction26/02/14 03:01 AM
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Someone with a decent voice needs to make an audio recording of OP's post and make it an MP3. I will then download said MP3 and play it when I go out to the mall or a bar. Simple tough love motivation is great. Thanks for posting this OP. Appreciated
/r/seduction26/02/14 02:49 AM
1

Nice post. I've met a few girls at church who are really cool. Might go there and sarge for a bit.
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:09 PM
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If that stat is somewhat true. Then thats kind of shitty.. =/
/r/seduction18/02/14 05:36 PM
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They should pay you do advertise for him. That was a hell of a pitch. haha Tylers stuff seems better imo, but Julien is alright. I might catch a recorded version if someone uploads it.
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:53 PM
1

You are very right. Thanks for the write up.
/r/seduction13/02/14 11:26 PM
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Whos saying men who dont lift get more respect? When I see a dude that clearly works out. I think to myself, "man this guy takes good care of himself" totally respectable. The "skinnyfat" guys with the girls have the girl for 1 reason. They went after it. They didnt sit there and complain. They went out and got themselves a girlfriend. You shouldnt complain dude. Work out to better yourself, not to compare and judge others.
/r/seduction07/02/14 03:05 AM
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Its not like he got egotistical. He played it off and had fun with it. Whats wrong with that? Ill admit, due to lack of practice it probably would annoy me personally, but thats something that I'll worry about when it starts bugging me too much. Owen handled the situation perfectly if you ask me. I respect your disagreement, but thats just the way I look at it. 1 size does not fit all in pick up.
/r/seduction01/02/14 03:42 AM
2

Not honor or justice. Simply common courtesy. The guy has never tried Owens style of pickup. Yet, he pretends like he knows how it works. The guy had to learn that he cant just call people out like that. Its rude and disrespectful. Not only was he being extremely insensitive, he made it a point to make Owen feel bad about himself. If you watch the video you can tell that Owen even tries to befriend him. He did his job by trying to defuse the situation and befriending the guy, but the guy got ann…
/r/seduction01/02/14 02:04 AM
4

Owen didnt punch the guy... He verbally defended himself after the guy verbally attacked him...
/r/seduction31/01/14 11:28 PM
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The guy called Owen out. Its not Owens fault that the guy is getting involved in his business. Sure, in a situation like that, you could let it slide. However, sometimes, you just have to set things straight. I think its just common courtesy that he took the time to explain why using hateful words was wrong. Then the guy gets up in arms and gets put in place. If someone starts calling you a balding ginger douche. I hope for your sake that you dont just sit there and smile. Thats fucked up. If he…
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:14 PM
1

The title is spot on. Good stuff
/r/seduction31/01/14 08:10 AM
1

Thanks for writing this. It hits right at home. Ive been on self improvement since late 2011. I was annoyed with my lifestyle and decided to lose weight. A year later and 55 lbs lighter i started to look at ways to improve my love life. Its been 2 years now I believe since i subscribed to seddit and Ive used some of the material occasionally, but I need to force myself to go out more often and put in more work. I get home from work and relax for 4 hours until bedtime. Its so damn hard to tell my…
/r/seduction28/01/14 09:11 PM
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I know right?! I got the audio version of No More Mr Nice Guy and my god. So much therapy. Still a good read though. Kinda gave me the drive to make myself more happy and stop worrying about what other people think overall. I got something out of the book/audio so I can call it a good experience.
/r/seduction11/12/13 02:53 AM
1

Just wanted to say thank you. This is extremely helpful and knowing why such emotions occur is a great first step to conquering that anxiety and fear. I will keep this video in mind next time I see a pretty girl.
/r/seduction05/12/13 02:31 AM
3

Ive been wanting to try lsd. I want to experience the ''it totally changes your perspective of things bro'' feeling that everyone tells me about.
/r/seduction10/10/13 02:48 AM
3

I like this. I tend to think that most men focus too much on the objective. This makes it a game which it is how it should be. I mean look at us. Its funny how hard we try to get pussy. Its pussy and its hilarious. The mission of one man trying to stick his dick in a hole. Its all a game and we learn how to play it.
/r/seduction07/10/13 09:00 AM
2

This kind of method imo should only be every once in a while as a reward for something done well. Women like men who know their needs and work satisfy themselves. Shes just along for the ride. She'll appreciate sex where shes pleasing you, but it doesnt hurt to give her a good pounding every once in a while to meet her satisfactions 100%. The thing about catering to womens needs all the time is that it creates a dependency thought. Its no longer about you its about her and theres a chance she'll…
/r/seduction06/08/13 08:22 AM
2

Public display of affection. Basically being sexual/kissing in public.
/r/seduction25/07/13 11:13 PM
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if that had been me and you'd come back with a line like that. I would have thought you were a super cheesy-lame-trying to be sweet-talking guy who was only interested in getting me to go out with him When we try to be direct, ultimately most of the time, this is in fact our goal.. What's wrong with casually being cheesy? I feel like nit picking every single line that a man may throw out comes off as tryhard from the woman. Just enjoy the conversation as it may be. Of course theres limits to how…
/r/seduction23/07/13 09:47 PM
2

Right on OP. I've been wanting to hang out at bars with a friend, but hes flaked a couple times now and im getting sick of it. Thinking of just hitting up the bars and clubs alone and this truly does motivate me to do so. Thanks for posting this. Sometimes it really is needed to just bite the bullet and get yourself out there.
/r/seduction23/07/13 08:15 AM
2

This. Ever since implementing the 3 second rule. I've just lost fear of approaching. Theres nothing scarier than my mind and If I can beat it to the race then I cant be defeated.
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:36 AM
1

I dont see why we need to change because of people hating. What happened to not caring what other people think?
/r/seduction09/07/13 07:37 AM
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Just because it works doesnt mean its good game. You calling it "part of the game" is just you rationalizing your sloppy behavior. I could go up to a woman act like a retard and somehow still get laid eventually. Just because I got a lay doesnt mean its proper game. I dont expect you to understand. You're clearly stuck in the mindset and are not willing to take criticism. All part of your ego. Multiple users have pointed out that you played it wrong. Yet, you take it up the ass and instantly def…
/r/seduction06/07/13 01:34 AM
2

Me: I'm trying to decide how I want to sneak into your house tonight. Don't be surprised if you hear breathing lol jk that sounds really creepy....I'll just stay quiet. Me: lol I'm totally joking I'll never do that. Unless you want me to. Could be a fantasy of yours. Who knows? Me: I must be doing a good job if you keep saying that haha. You came off as needy and seeking approval. As much sex as she might give you.. Your game was still bad.
/r/seduction05/07/13 10:58 PM
2

Cringiest post ive seen on seddit yet.. You semi flirted while apologizing... Wtf
/r/seduction05/07/13 11:43 AM
1

Amazing and very motivational thank you for posting that video . Really gave me a whole new perspective of the whole situation
/r/seduction02/07/13 08:31 PM
1

Ah, I was hoping they would have it in a pill. Going to have to buy a food scale. Do you think the manufacturing in China drops the quality of the product? I imagine that's why you're wanting to switch over to Cerebral Health. Also, are you taking anything else with the piracetam besides fish oil(assuming that you take fish oil).
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:39 AM
1

Cool, Im definitely interested in it though and will pick something up soon. Thank you for leading me to /r/Nootropics. I'll do a bit of research and choose a product accordingly to test. The whole thing seems interesting af. Ninja edit: Where did you buy you piracetam?
/r/seduction24/06/13 02:32 PM
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Do you ever feel depressed after not taking them though? I had a friend on something similar. He was very lively when he took it, but was extremely down when he withdrew himself from using it. Do you get any similar side effects? I'm thinking about picking it up myself. Just need to do my research before I jump in.
/r/seduction24/06/13 03:35 AM
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Thats awesome that you were able to get out like that. I've been putting it off. I'm wanting to just get my ass on my bicycle and get to a few bars, but I think I'm delaying the inevitable with stupid reasons not to go. Things like "Im tired from work" and shit like that. :/
/r/seduction22/06/13 04:25 PM
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Did you go alone to a bar or nightclub? If so, how was the experience?
/r/seduction22/06/13 09:57 AM
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Thats incredible. I feel great about myself, but I just lack the motivation to actually just go out. My friends just dont do parties which is lame. I've been thinking of taking my business to bars, but since I've never been to one. Im a bit intimidated to say the least.
/r/seduction17/06/13 12:07 PM
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This is awesome! Thanks OP
/r/seduction06/06/13 08:22 PM
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Very appealing post. Think I'm going to take your post and make it my desktop background. The definition of courage just sparked me a bit. Was feeling a bit on/off about going to a bar by myself later tonight, but now I feel like I should disregard the feeling that says no and just head out.
/r/seduction05/06/13 12:41 PM
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I've never been to a bar and I feel that it would be a decent place to start my pickup quest. Would you recommend it? I feel a bit put off by bars, but I really want to at least try it out
/r/seduction04/06/13 01:55 PM
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Also saved and will read. Thank you
/r/seduction01/04/13 03:11 AM
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I started reading the game, but shut myself out of the whole thing due to realizing that my confidence wasnt even at that point of openly reading it and trying the things out. 50lbs lighter now and with a good chunk of newfound confidence. I think I may be ready. The books only help if im willing expose myself and be open with its suggestions which I feel could work now.
/r/seduction09/03/13 08:01 AM
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No possible way was this your first approach. I demand proof!
/r/seduction15/02/13 09:57 PM
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