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King-Vemtren/r/askMRP05/01/24 04:28 PM
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How do these comments make me a little bitch? I don't want to be one.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/24 10:10 PM
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Plus your entire post is about your wife. Way to go champ. 11 weeks in, you're doing great, really absorbing the point. How should I write about me passing/failing shit tests? Or should that be a such a small part of my week that they're not even worth mentioning?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/24 08:19 PM
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OYS #11 4 Months into MRP. Stats: 23 y/o, 175lbs(-1lbs this week), 4y married, 4mo daughter Lifts: SQ: 185x5, DL: 365x5, BP: 175x5, OHP: 105x5, Row: 165x5 Reading: NMMNGx2, WISNIFGx2, MMSLP, MAP, Pook, TRM, TWotSM, PFP, Pook, Frame, Mystery Method, TRP Sidebar (56%) Mission: To become a man that is attractive and to be the best leader, husband, father, and man I can be. Lifting: I did SL 5x5 for 8 weeks before I just got sick of it. It's not that SL wasn't working, I was just executing badly. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/24 07:56 PM
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"I want to feel validated". That's wild, I didn't see it as that. It is absolutely validation seeking. I used to wait for her to initiate 100% of the time, that way I knew she wanted it. A mix of rejection fear and validation seeking. So I think this was some of the remnants of that mindset. Dude, the reason why women don't fuck you is because you're unattractive to them. Mostly I would guess from all the mouth-noises you're making that are unnecessary. Please, STFU. Got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/24 10:07 AM
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Why though? Its not enough for you to say that you need validation from her. I think you need to write about what exactly happens in your brain when you want to seek validation Yeah, when I want to tell her something I accomplished, this goes through my head: 1. I want to share good news with her because she's someone I trust. It makes me feel good to say what I did well to anyone I trust, but especially her since we're close 2. I want her to know I'm improving, I want her to think of me highly …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 02:42 PM
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OYS #10 4 Months into MRP. Stats: 23 y/o, 176lbs(-1lbs this week), 4y married, 4mo daughter Lifts: SQ: 175x5, DL: 365x5, BP: 175x5, OHP: 105x5, Row: 165x5 Reading: NMMNGx2, WISNIFGx2, MMSLP, MAP, Pook, TRM, TWotSM, PFP, Pook, Frame, Mystery Method, TRP Sidebar (13%) ​ Mission: To be the best leader, husband, father, and man I can be. Lifting: Switched into more of a powerbuilding routine because I'm a lot more motivated to build muscle than strength. And stronglifts bores the fuck out of me. Sti…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 09:10 AM
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Ok... you don't have to say yes to sex. You have that option, right? Yeah, I guess I do. I thought declining would cause her to not want sex as much though. So which is it? Is it a turn off that she initiates, or is it a turn off that she doesn't come at you full blast? Full blast. I think I was just being a bitch though, I should have just taken the reigns. Also whats with the ratings? Sex is either average or good. Are you planning on getting a scorecard out after you finish? Ha, you're right,…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/24 04:07 PM
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OYS #9 4 Months into MRP. Stats: 23 y/o, 177lbs(-1lbs this week), SQ: 175x5, DL: 365x5, BP: 175x5, OHP: 105x5, Row: 165x5 Reading: NMMNGx2, WISNIFGx2, MMSLP, MAP, Pook, TRM, TWotSM, PFP, Pook, Frame, Mystery Method, TRP Sidebar (12%) Lifting: Dropped 20lbs on my squat because I took time to improve my form and saw I wasn't hitting depth. As soon as I tried getting depth with 195, I failed. I don't count this as a setback though, I see it as an improvement. Maybe this is something that added to m…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/24 04:44 PM
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recommend the book Psycho Cybernetics I've gotten multiple suggestions for this at MRP. I'll give it a read. Also, you really need to work through NMMNG slowly and methodically including the exercises. I'm no psychologist but it seems you're afraid of appearing as though you are failing Yeah, you're spot on. I'm currently going through NMMNG again, this being one of the reasons.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/24 09:15 AM
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Scared to push in the gym. Scared about Muay Thai. Scared of your wife. It’s like everything you do is total drudgery. Yet your mission is to pursue the things you find fun, fulfilling, meaningful, productive. What are those things? Are you even passionate about anything? So, no, not really. Not yet. I'm finding the things I find fulfilling & productive currently. The reason why I'm scared of these things isn't conscious, it's just the fear I can sense right before I do it. I know the fear is th…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/24 09:09 AM
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Congrats for pushing through a self-imposed obstacle. How did she respond afterwards? She lightly complained a couple of times today about me waking her up early and said to not do it again. I just smiled at her. ​ If you're caring for a 3 month old, she likely doesn't have much time or attention to begin with. Married man game is significantly harder than normal game... Apply Game for oaks with young kids to bring her into your frame. Being on top of your game isn't a cure all for bitchiness. W…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 01:18 AM
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You mean a lifestyle of comfort. Indulgence would be going out and fucking other women in threesomes. But that wouldn’t be comfortable for you. Dang, you're correct. Fuck. ​ You see that this is limiting your sex opportunities. What are you not addressing this? Of, right. Comfort. So, I'm starting to address this now, I actually tried today and got soft rejected, could have pushed through but didn't because I lost interest. But yes, not attempting to change this until now has caused by me being …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 01:10 AM
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OYS #8 Stats: 23yo 5'8" 178lbs(-1lbs this week), 4y married, 3mo daughter Reading: NMMNGx3(20%), WISNIFGx2, TWotSM, TRM, MMSLP, MAP, PFP, Pook, Frame, Mystery Method Lifts: SQ: 195x5, DL: 365x5, BP: 175x5, OHP: 105x5, Row: 165x5 Mission: To pursue the things I find fun, fulfilling, meaningful, and productive. Reading: Read "The man that your woman wants to love and respect" by OccamsUsername and Marriage (a compendium) by archwinger. It's starting to come together, I think. Being a highly develo…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/24 02:53 PM
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I've been writing my goals down my entire life. I'm a massive thinker - not so much a doer. I already know what a good week looks like, because I've written it down 30+ times. I'm here to put in the work, not think about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 04:16 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: 23yo 5'8" 179lbs(+1), 4y married, 3mo daughter Reading: NMMNGx3(20%), WISNIFGx2, TWotSM, TRM, MMSLP, MAP, PFP, Pook, Frame, Mystery Method Lifts: SQ: 195x5, DL: 365x5, BP: 175x5, OHP: 105x5, Row: 165x5 Mission: To pursue the things that I find fun, fulfilling, and meaningful. To lead this week's OYS, I slacked this entire week. I only worked out twice, ate like shit, didn’t read any sidebar material, and acted like a bitch at times. I avoided doing the hard stuff, played video game…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 05:17 AM
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This was not a shit test. It was a shitty-comfort test, read up on them. Copy. I read the rest of your OYS. You sound angry, dude. Maybe you can't see it, but you gotta figure that out. Yeah, I am angry. I thought about why, and I think it's because I'm blaming everyone that taught me growing up for my blue-pilledness. I'm bitter that I have to now fix all of that, and it's been building up for the past 2 months, probably longer. Most of it is Nice Guy stuff and I know in my core it's all my fau…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 08:50 AM
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OYS #6 Stats: 23yo 5'8" 178lbs(+1lb), 4y married, 3mo daughter Reading: Sidebar x1 | NMMNG x3 (10%) Lifts: SL5x5 (Week 5/12) SQ: 195x5, DL: 365x5, BP: 175x5, OHP: 105x5, Row: 165x5. On 3 month cut to get to 165lbs Mission: To pursue the things that I find fun, fulfilling, and meaningful. Reading: Started re-reading NMMNG for the third time. I’m going to go through the whole sidebar again, taking notes, and internalizing as much as I can. I think I have a really good overview of the mentality and…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/24 01:35 PM
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You do understand that you're a weak little bitch in her eyes, don't you? I didn't, but I can see that now. I don't care if she thinks that, but it's just objectively true right now. She's seen me grow up, and seen all of my bitch tendencies that I'm trying to get rid of now. Still have a lot of work to do. I bet you're a talker. I bet your words are cheap. Stop talking so much. No doubt. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 06:00 PM
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Noted, I definitely overlooked that.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/23 01:16 PM
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OYS #5 Stats: 23yo 5'8" 177lbs(-1lb), 4y married, 3mo daughter Read: Sidebar | Reading old MRP Posts and then I'm going to re-read sidebar Lifts: SL5x5 (Week 4/12) SQ: 185x5, DL: 345x1, BP: 165x5, OHP: 95x5. On 3 month cut to get to 165lbs. Mission: To live my life the way I want to live it, based on what I think is fun, fulfilling, or meaningful. Lifting & Diet: Lifts are stagnant so I'm starting a deload on Squats. I'm sticking with this program until I get sufficiently strong, my goals are Sq…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/23 09:37 AM
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OYS #4 Stats: 23yo 5'8" 178lbs(-1lb), 4y married, 2mo daughter Read: Sidebar | Mystery Method this week Lifts: SL5x5 (Week 3/12) SQ: 185x5, DL: 345x1, BP: 165x5, OHP: 95x5. On 3 month cut to get to 165lbs. Mission: To live my life the way I want to live it, based on what I think is fun, fulfilling, or meaningful. (Side Note: Realized my mission was shit because I'm doing it for external validation. I wanted to be successful because I wanted others to see me and think highly of me. I was holding …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/23 04:59 PM
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OYS #3 23yo, 5'8", 179lbs (-1lb), ~27% BF, Married 4Y, Together 6Y, Kids: 2m Daughter Lifting: SL 5x5 - SQ 185 x 5 / DL 345 x 1 / BP 165x5 / OHP 95x5 Reading: NMMNGx2, WISNIFGx2, TWotSM, TRM, MMSLP, MAP, PFP(20%), Pook, Frame, Bang (10%) Mission: Be objectively and holistically a Top 1% Man by 25yo Reading: Finished second round of WISNIFG and realized I had been that one guy that fogs at inappropriate times because I was excited to have the tool. I re-understood the tools to only be used in tim…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 08:46 AM
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OYS #2 23yo, 5'8", 180lbs, ~27% BF, Married 4Y, Together 6Y, Kids: 2m Daughter Lifting: SL 5x5, SQ 225lbs / DL 345lbs / BP 205lbs Reading: NMMNGx2, WISNIFGx1.5, TWotSM, TRM, MMSLP, MAP, PFP(10%), Pook Mission: Be objectively and holistically a Top 1% Man by 25yo Lifts & Diet: Gained 10lbs on my deadlift this week, hit the gym 3x. Diet was shit, ate a ton of carbs and not nearly enough protein. I have to get this in control because even though I've never had a problem getting to the gym and getti…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 05:28 PM
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OYS #1 22yo, 5'8", 180lbs, ~27% BF, Married 4Y, Together 6Y, Kids: 2m Daughter Lifting: SL 5x5, On First Week after 4 years of being consistent but directionless in the gym. SQ 225lbs / DL 335lbs / BP 205lbs Reading: NMMNGx2, WISNIFGx1.5, TWotSM, TRM, MMSLP, MAP, PFP(10%) Mission: Be objectively and holistically a Top 1% Man by 25yo Why I'm here: My wife is the only person I've ever been with and I've had 80% starfish sex 4x a month (once a week usually) since we've been married, with dry spells…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 10:29 PM
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