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| -1 | How to be charming? Like actual physical things you can do?Laughing with adoration, amusement, and appreciation of someone's wit. A grin that's worth a million dollars. A glance that draws someone into your eyes. Brushing the back of your hand against their cheek as you admire their ear rings or hair. Kissing a girls hand as you introduce yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 06:23 AM |
| -11 | The best opener I've ever heardThat's similar to one of my lines/routines at the clubs and bars. "I don't mean to interrupt but I had to say that you are gorgeous! My name is Andre...I'm not going to piss off your boyfriend by talking with you am I?" It shows confidence, the compliment is sincere, and it certainly lets me know if a girl is interested in me or taken. I make sure to introduce myself to anyone with her so I don't get any unwanted interruptions myself. Plus I might make a wingman spontaneously if I play my cards … | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Coming across sexuallySeveral people are suggesting to work on your eye contact and I'll agree with them. Tonality with your words helps as well as posture. Sure, the Kino will help you escalate but your composure and state of mind will set off vibes. I read once around here to imagine your interests naked or what you'd do to them in the bedroom if given the chance. I personally like to emulate the popular Bond characters (Daniel Craig specifically) for how to compose myself. He oozes confidence and sexuality when ar… | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Can some brown guys share their experiences?I'm also black and I'd like to add on to this; If you also can't get over the racial stigma yourself then you shouldn't expect women to. It took me a very long time to realize that I needed to look past my race and stop pinning my rejections on it. I live in Wisconsin and most girls are rather conservative around here as well. It can be a struggle sometimes to meet receptive women but I have met some amazing people(friend and fling alike) because I was consistently putting myself out there. | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Club Game - BeginnerStick by the bar and open girls there. Ask them to dance while you're ordering your drinks. Also, I've used different dance styles in clubs...if you don't want to bump and grind then engage a girl with Salsa or Swing( Yes, Swing Dancing). Don't let a venue prevent you from staying true to yourself. Although it's important to adapt it's also important to have a good time. I hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 11:13 PM |
| 8 | How do you go from dancing with a girl to making out, on a dance floor were the music is too loud to talk?From grind to makeout? Easy. Slide your hands down her sides, trail your fingers over her hips. Claw down her legs and drag your fingers up. She'll let you know if what you're doing is okay or not. If she grabs your hands and guides them LET HER! Otherwise move your hands back up her body and start grazing your lips over her neck. Breathe out your nose and onto her ear. If she's into it she'll tilt her head to the side, possibly moving her hair out of the way. Give her a soft bite on the neck an… | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 07:15 AM |
| 16 | How Do You Deal With "Orbiters"? (A Girl's Male Friend That Won't Leave, Cock Blocks You, Ruins The 'Mood' Etc)If I find myself in this situation I usually use this line: "I'm not going to piss off your boyfriend by talking/dancing with you, right? I don't mean to impose." I say this to confirm that the guy she's with isn't dating her. I get some confirmation that he won't do anything out of spite. It also shows that I was approaching because I wanted to get to know her, regardless of her relationship status. | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Alright redditors. In a bar or club setting, is it better to ask a girl to dance or to just start dancing with her?I usually hold my hand out and flash them a friendly smile. The eye contact and nonverbal communication can work wonders. And if they reject you you can shrug and back off without losing face or making things awkward. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 09:08 PM |
| 2 | How to game bartenders: advice neededGo the bars often and build some familiarity. It should be easy to chat with these bartenders if the pubs are pretty chill. That's when you can ask what they like to do for fun or find out what their interests are. I'm sure you can grab their number and set up a date after that. Like many people said, these girls are working and they get hit on a lot...but one of the first dates I've gotten after being new to pickup was a bartender. I'd say it's not about having a certain skill level but instead… | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 03:19 AM |
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