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I needed to hear this as well. Thanks!
/r/seduction19/12/14 03:45 AM
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I usually respond with, "Nah, I already did my time." It usually gets a laugh and then I follow up by asking what made them interested in their major.
/r/seduction10/05/14 03:20 AM
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Laughing with adoration, amusement, and appreciation of someone's wit. A grin that's worth a million dollars. A glance that draws someone into your eyes. Brushing the back of your hand against their cheek as you admire their ear rings or hair. Kissing a girls hand as you introduce yourself.
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:23 AM
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I'm not sure I'd even respond to that.
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:16 AM
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That's similar to one of my lines/routines at the clubs and bars. "I don't mean to interrupt but I had to say that you are gorgeous! My name is Andre...I'm not going to piss off your boyfriend by talking with you am I?" It shows confidence, the compliment is sincere, and it certainly lets me know if a girl is interested in me or taken. I make sure to introduce myself to anyone with her so I don't get any unwanted interruptions myself. Plus I might make a wingman spontaneously if I play my cards …
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:09 AM
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I'm in Stevens Point. Not sure I can make it to Appleton often but I'm interested in a lair.
/r/seduction25/04/14 06:21 PM
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Several people are suggesting to work on your eye contact and I'll agree with them. Tonality with your words helps as well as posture. Sure, the Kino will help you escalate but your composure and state of mind will set off vibes. I read once around here to imagine your interests naked or what you'd do to them in the bedroom if given the chance. I personally like to emulate the popular Bond characters (Daniel Craig specifically) for how to compose myself. He oozes confidence and sexuality when ar…
/r/seduction05/04/14 10:28 PM
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I've got a simple trick to put me in state. Go to a gas station, small store, anywhere to buy a drink or snack. If there's a cute cashier there be a little flirty with them, try and make them laugh, anything to brighten their day. Heck, even if you're not into them you can still try and make their day a little less boring. It'll feel good to try and it'll take but mere moments.
/r/seduction02/04/14 03:01 AM
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I'm really happy to see this here.
/r/seduction02/04/14 02:46 AM
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Not having milk for my cereal.
/r/seduction15/03/14 02:55 AM
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I figure confidence is simply believing in yourself. Abolish your self-doubt and you will have confidence.
/r/seduction02/03/14 02:52 AM
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I'm also black and I'd like to add on to this; If you also can't get over the racial stigma yourself then you shouldn't expect women to. It took me a very long time to realize that I needed to look past my race and stop pinning my rejections on it. I live in Wisconsin and most girls are rather conservative around here as well. It can be a struggle sometimes to meet receptive women but I have met some amazing people(friend and fling alike) because I was consistently putting myself out there.
/r/seduction02/03/14 02:46 AM
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I tend to treat new people like I've known them my whole life and I try to have high, friendly energy.
/r/seduction25/02/14 07:47 PM
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This is a good quote and I needed to hear this. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction25/02/14 07:36 PM
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Damn, son. That's rough (and not in the good way!). Maybe there's a way for you to meditate become empowered by your frustrations. Let these experiences become lessons so that you can be more efficient with closing and logistics.
/r/seduction14/02/14 02:23 AM
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What? This is silly, unorthodox, and frankly a little strange. I love it! I'll try it this weekend and report back.
/r/seduction14/02/14 02:02 AM
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Easier, yes but then it's completely up to them to initiate anything. Instead of being able to follow up and set up a date with someone now you're stuck waiting.
/r/seduction19/01/14 03:05 AM
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Stick by the bar and open girls there. Ask them to dance while you're ordering your drinks. Also, I've used different dance styles in clubs...if you don't want to bump and grind then engage a girl with Salsa or Swing( Yes, Swing Dancing). Don't let a venue prevent you from staying true to yourself. Although it's important to adapt it's also important to have a good time. I hope that helps.
/r/seduction09/01/14 11:13 PM
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Girls are people too. They are just as human as you or I.
/r/seduction09/01/14 10:32 PM
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It sounds like you're defeating yourself before someone else even gets a chance to. That "give no fucks" attitude you have at night doesn't appear to be translating into your day game at all. You consider yourself boring and bring mention of that three times in your post. The girl you mentioned where you got her number and didn't call her? There was no reason to miss that opportunity.
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:33 AM
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A girl I loved played me for a fool. I had known her for 8 years and we had dated seriously twice. I didn't expect her to lead me on when I tried to rekindle our intimacy. In short, I was upset at her and upset at myself. I wanted to change. I didn't want to feel so foolish again. I needed to regain my self-confidence, become a man that was desirable and lovable, and become someone a girl could appreciate. I didn't want to be used again and I didn't want to put myself in that position again. I f…
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:21 AM
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From grind to makeout? Easy. Slide your hands down her sides, trail your fingers over her hips. Claw down her legs and drag your fingers up. She'll let you know if what you're doing is okay or not. If she grabs your hands and guides them LET HER! Otherwise move your hands back up her body and start grazing your lips over her neck. Breathe out your nose and onto her ear. If she's into it she'll tilt her head to the side, possibly moving her hair out of the way. Give her a soft bite on the neck an…
/r/seduction19/11/13 07:15 AM
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Honestly? I'd probably meet them for a drink or dinner to catch up. I'd end the date with a deep, passionate kiss and then go about my evening. I'd add her to the list of girls I'm dating and carry on as normal. If she wants something more serious she'll let me know. The key is to maintain a level-headed frame and keep cool about the situation. I mean, if she genuinely wants to be with you then I don't see why I wouldn't give her a chance. But by no means would I drop everything for her or chang…
/r/seduction15/11/13 12:18 AM
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A back/neck massage is my favorite go-to. The one I probably use the most is putting my hand on the small of their back.
/r/seduction14/11/13 11:56 PM
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"What are you drinking tonight? Let's go to my place and do some shots/grab another drink." I'm fortunate to have an apartment downtown where the bar scene is. So my line is tailored well for my situation.
/r/seduction10/11/13 04:48 PM
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"I don't think you could handle me."
/r/seduction24/10/13 09:05 PM
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If I find myself in this situation I usually use this line: "I'm not going to piss off your boyfriend by talking/dancing with you, right? I don't mean to impose." I say this to confirm that the guy she's with isn't dating her. I get some confirmation that he won't do anything out of spite. It also shows that I was approaching because I wanted to get to know her, regardless of her relationship status.
/r/seduction13/10/13 04:27 PM
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I usually hold my hand out and flash them a friendly smile. The eye contact and nonverbal communication can work wonders. And if they reject you you can shrug and back off without losing face or making things awkward.
/r/seduction15/07/13 09:08 PM
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Go the bars often and build some familiarity. It should be easy to chat with these bartenders if the pubs are pretty chill. That's when you can ask what they like to do for fun or find out what their interests are. I'm sure you can grab their number and set up a date after that. Like many people said, these girls are working and they get hit on a lot...but one of the first dates I've gotten after being new to pickup was a bartender. I'd say it's not about having a certain skill level but instead…
/r/seduction02/07/13 03:19 AM
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Internalizing that I'm attractive and interesting. Finding self-worth and becoming self-confident is very empowering and it will project itself when you interact with people.
/r/seduction02/07/13 02:54 AM
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If people think you're being a douche for having fun then they probably aren't people you should worry about. You're a fun guy, yeah? That will project on to people. If others mistake that for something else then that is not your concern. In short, your mental calibration is what others will see from you. That "I don't give a fuck" attitude isn't about disregarding others but instead disregarding those negative or awkward thoughts people might have about you.
/r/seduction10/06/13 04:05 AM
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Very good read. The okcupid stats were rather relevant to me and also an interesting article. I'm black but I was adopted by white parents. Although I don't act like some creepy black guys I still try to abandon the racial profile. The eye contact is powerful stuff but sometimes I stay in my own head; "She'll think I'm another creepy black guy. I probably shouldn't look at her for too long."
/r/seduction01/06/13 08:25 PM
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I go out solo. Yeah, I have friends who I enjoy going out with but I am far more productive when I'm on my own. I love my friends dearly but sometimes they get in my way when I'm trying to improve my game. Since I go out often I find people who are out just as much as me. They are my bar buddies and we've got a mutual respect for each other. We'll chat and chill but when we have women we want to talk to we give each other space. There's no questions asked when we randomly leave and there's no wa…
/r/seduction13/05/13 10:26 PM
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Stay by the bar and make some friends there. Chill out and wait for the women to get some drinks. You can open them then. Although I'd suggest at least bobbing your head to the music or something just to seem more approachable. Granted, that's the easy way out. It's not so bad learning how to dance. If you're afraid of looking dumb just look at most people on the dance floor. They probably aren't dancing too well either.
/r/seduction11/05/13 06:19 PM
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I dunno man, I can't agree with how you're approaching women here. But if it works for you in Melbourne then I won't discredit it. Here in Wisconsin I have better luck approaching by tapping a girl on the shoulder or arm and coming in with a smile. I simply hold my hand out if it's too loud or I can ask them to dance. I like to spin them around and guide their hand to my shoulder. They usually give me a big grin and from there I can put my hands on their hips, get in close and ask their name. Si…
/r/seduction07/05/13 12:02 AM
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I definitely do! We can read and learn all we want but it's worthless if we don't go out there and practice it. Also leaving Seddit gives us time to reflect and internalize what we read here. I believe notaPUAthrowaway was spot on with his answer.
/r/seduction01/05/13 04:08 AM
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You definitely have a fun opener! Anyway, yeh, rejection hurts but as you said you were having fun and it was no big deal. You'll get over it in no time, promise. Honestly, you took your rejection rather well from what it sounds like. Sometimes I draw blanks too so I'm working on a technique to get around that. I'll politely excuse myself for whatever reason and say "well I'll see you around! Hope you enjoy your evening!". Later on I'll go back and re-open with "Hey ladies! So what'd I miss?" So…
/r/seduction28/04/13 04:35 PM
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I think what hit home for me was her example of neediness versus desire. The imagery of a woman raising a child because the child is needy spoke volumes. I'm rather confident when it comes to drawing the line between neediness and desire but I believe I crossed that line in my most recent relationship. It definitely put into perspective on the things I may have done wrong. This was a very insightful message and I may have to listen to it again.
/r/seduction21/04/13 12:03 AM
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If he's a close friend then you shouldn't have a problem talking with him about that stuff. But if after you talk with him and things don't seem to change I'd suggest going out without him. On the flip side, you can always make the situation into a game. It'd be wonderful practice into isolating women and escalating them before your friend comes around.
/r/seduction20/04/13 11:24 PM
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Yup, I usually have trouble getting most of my friends to come out with me as well. I usually sarge during the evenings and I am real comfortable in a bar/club setting. I go out to dance and that usually attracts the people who generally go out to have fun. I've made dozens of friends purely by being on the dancefloor. These are the type of people who I can usually see out again during the weekends. Once I was out as usual and I saw a couple of my bar buddies involved with their friend's bachelo…
/r/seduction20/04/13 11:16 PM
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I'll be trying this this weekend. Thanks!
/r/seduction17/04/13 06:18 AM
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Hmm. I'd suggest approaching or mingling with guys just as often. That way you come off as someone who's sociable and looking to get to know everybody instead of looking "desperate". Hope that helps! Edit: But I believe MrMomow gave more relevant advice.
/r/seduction15/04/13 06:28 AM
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I'd say translate your flirtatious nature into Kino escalation. No matter what you say on a date you're not going to get far without making physical contact. If you can translate your flirtatious vibe into action then you should get better results. Your body language can project your emotions rather well. There is plenty of material on Kino escalation here. Hope that helps!
/r/seduction31/12/12 10:56 AM
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