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Not me. I'm just asocial 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:33 AM
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My theory: Porn relies on variety and novelty to provide hyper stimulation. Men as a sex are down bad when it comes to porn. Many still want this hyper stimulation and so they cheat by using porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:44 AM
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Inferred context from the images, Sydney Sweeney is very beautiful but she's detached from the audience as a celebrity. The second woman is in a familiar office setting so she feels connected to us, and thus more approachable. She's also beautiful in a different way, less super model beauty and more girl next door beauty. Which I prefer personally, and it seems zoomer men prefer overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:41 AM
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Guys have different tastes sometimes. I genuinely am not attracted to alot of these people, not out of some bitter sourgrapes mentality, just genuinely not into them. I think the majority of women I know irl are more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:07 AM
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If we can just vibe and get along effortlessly that's the dream. But that's all women I guess. I suppose I want a wife who I can chill and game with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:52 PM
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Alotta guys genuinely just want a bangmaid which is gross. Bangmaids just a really good term for it. Sunny really made the best term for it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:52 PM
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Thanks but i think your comments a little bit saner haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:27 PM
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Thanks I suppose. Maybe someday men and women will live in harmony.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:20 PM
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The answer to misandry is compassion. Misandry fuels misogyny and misogyny fuels misandry, causing a feedback loop. Going to another country won't solve the problem. The time of comparing fairness, bickering over who has it worse and talking over each other should come to an end. To defeat misandry men should make women feel heard and address their issues, and women will reciprocate. I'm not saying let them walk all over you, but be kind and open to them. Have a stern back bone, but a warm heart…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:36 PM
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Maybe. I've been texting some feminists online they seem pretty cool on a person level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:50 AM
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1% - 2% is insane dude. Like it'd only take a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:52 PM
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I doubt very often, bears are usually gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:42 PM
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I doubt that'd work out, bears are usually gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:39 PM
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The gender war will only end if the fringe gender warriors can learn to coexist with the opposite sex like people do irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:38 PM
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Alot of men, the ones who fall into the redpill trap, don't get out enough and don't meaningfully engage with women as peers so they don't really understand women. I have had female friends so I know they don't all hate all men. If this is about my flair, that's a mistake and it keeps getting set to blackpill because of my username. I usually change it to no pill. But I'd say it's believing life is hopeless and that meaningful dating is impossible for normal men. I'd say I'm more whitepilled, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:31 AM
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Nah its just a fringe of very online feminism, they are self described radfems but they're only a twitter/reddit thing. The biggest problem generated from this, is that so many men assume all women think that way. Fresh and Fit are a podcast with similar, attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:19 AM
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I think the problem of a lot of Feminism is that there's a noticable cohort of feminists who have the same kind of mentality as posters on incel forums, but targetted towards men. I've seen posts of happy couple moments with women in the replies ascribing some sort of narcisstic evil underlying motive to the man's actions. Don't get me wrong, men have this mindset too, you'll see it in these braindead redpill influencer circles like the TaterTots or Fresh and Fit fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:08 AM
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Sometimes the only healthy thing is to cut ties. I'd be thankful for the times we had together, and always be there to pickup where we left off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:24 AM
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For sure. How am I possibly to meet people out there if I'm never out there. I just don't know where to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:31 PM
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I think I need to fully let go of the belief that I'm unsuitable for dating. It really frustrates me seeing posts about much worse guys being successful, while I hold myself back. Maybe I need to graduate to just avoiding dating. I've got a short film to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:49 PM
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I'd say distance yourself from dating to show yourself you can have a happy life without it, then you know you lose nothing when rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:29 AM
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Thanks, she seems to really like me. Maybe it'll all work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:28 AM
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Matched with someone on Tinder and got her number. we're all gonna make it bros. Never give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:56 PM
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It sucks because sometimes your brain really wants to go the first way but your heart needs to go thr second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:28 AM
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Yes they like self respecting guys who are able to tease them and be playful as opposed to complete doormats. They want guys who treat them like normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:45 PM
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"Girls like guys who are less nice", and then I'd just rationalise the behaivour of normal guys as somehow disrespectful like teasing or having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:02 PM
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I feel like I'm programmed backwards. I used to think women hated being approached, talking to strangers and being asked questions but they really like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:55 PM
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As someone who was that guy, a guy who villainises men for having standards and not being a doormat is a huge redflag. Not enough people see that pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:51 PM
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Yeah dude you're doomed not to have kids with super materialistic chicks. Not too tragic a curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:19 PM
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Considering looking back into gun club memberships. Sport shooting sounds fun, anyone here have experience with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:17 PM
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I think this sub has helped me reflect on many things I once believed and realise flaws in my previous beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:03 AM
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Its a long shot I guess. But it is kinda fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:36 PM
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I think a lot of RPers have the problem of putting the cart before the horse. They seem to want a relationship to fall into their lap and see dating as a hurdle they have to overcome to get to a relationship. When it seems like it should the be the opposite. You meet people and date to have fun, and relationships blossom from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:29 PM
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I'd probably put them in a room with a woman and encourage them to approach. Redpillers, especially on here seem to increasingly think approaching a woman is socially taboo and criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:38 AM
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And what did I lose? I still have my job, and my hobbies and my freedom. I even still have my friendship with her. Approaching didn't cause any problems, it was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:26 PM
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I don't think that's right. Talking to the friend who rejected me yesterday everythings chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:42 PM
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This thread's funny. https://www.reddit.com/r/ask/s/rJJq7LryIC Alot of the women are saying "yeah sure it's fine to approach" And the guys are saying "approaching is creepy". It's a self defeating ideology. Blackpillers and redpillers who believe this are more dedicated to it than radfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:38 AM
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The core benefit of a lot of online incel stuff is being able to blame romantic problems on the rest of the world. The problem is it's self isolating, making you less attractive to women and thus making you more resentful.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 06:10 AM
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Im surprised its still up this sub seems widely seen as an incel sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:01 AM
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I have fun in society. I make film projects with people who are becoming my friends. It's great. Lifes what you make it.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:08 PM
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My job I think has been a big help. Still single but eh that's not what my life is about. I think some guys kinda disconnect from their coworkers.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:06 PM
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For real I think that's a result primarily of redpill fearmongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:07 PM
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Dick snipping is as much dads as it is moms. The "I can't talk to girls, they'll take it all wrong" is as much a result of redpill fearmongering as a result of actual cases of that happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:05 PM
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Ignoring works too. I just think being angry at them fuels more conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:29 PM
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This is why it's important for men to be nice (but not doormats) to radfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:41 PM
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Yeah it's been nice I wish I started in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:06 PM
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The kind of drawing that tends to include nude models. But really it can be drawing anything from life I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:06 PM
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Where's the perfect faces come in, I am drawing regular people. It's important to draw real normal people because the goal of the excercise is to study people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:05 PM
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I am literally only attracted to plain janes, but I cannot find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:50 PM
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I'd recommend life drawing to any guy that's insecure about his looks, especially about his penis size. The greatest lesson I've learned from the last few days is that I look fairly normal, if a little overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:45 PM
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I like Heavy Traffic, it's flawed and unrealistic, but it is very personally relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:39 PM
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Thanks I hadn't considered books about communication. Thats a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:14 PM
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The concept that people get less attractive as they age is true, but the redpillers take it to such an extreme it's practically an exaggeration. Theres no nuance. I don't envy women, they've got to deal with periods, menopause, the looming concern of sexual assualt, and general sexism. But even then I don't think they have a better time at dating either, with so many guys wanting them only for their body, and a minority willing to violate their consent for it. When it comes to dating it seems li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:17 PM
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This makes the subreddit asymmetrical, as the crux of the redpill argument is that looks are important. This effectively bans the core disagreement of the two pills from being debated on a debate subreddit. This will only push people away from the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:50 AM
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I guess a guy who doesnt hate women, but doesn't know how to appeal to them, and doesn't know what will be seen as inappropriate, so avoids doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:47 PM
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I tend to be, but they tend not to be so attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:14 PM
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That's why my flair is set to no pill. I'll have to disagree with that, ever since self identifying as an incel I've found that my life has gotten a lot better. My relationship with myself has improved as well as my relationship with women. It doesn't seem to hamper me in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:22 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I was the same way, now I'm chiller being single. Fomo is a hell of a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:47 AM
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I'm not really here to kill and eat a woman. I more want to form a connection with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:46 AM
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For real. I got on bumble recently and there was basically no one there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:44 AM
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I appreciate the concern but I should be no pill. I keep changing it to nopill and it jumps back to blackpill. Presumably it's a glitch or maybe the mods are trolling me lol. I'd say my self esteem is in a pretty good place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:42 AM
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Thats the mindset changer right there. When I realised the chatting was the fun, that's when I got into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:07 PM
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This response is sub-optimal because a lot of the guys who believe this, genuinely believe this. They aren't approaching women because they think they'll be ruined for it, and they believe that because they aren't approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:06 PM
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Read old texts between me and a girl. Oh my god I was so cringe in highschool, I want to go back in time and punch myself in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:58 PM
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I think alot of the problem comes from the unnatural situation dating apps put us in, where we're free to pick from different faces. Women and men irl seem really looksmatched. Also men need to get better in some areas, like cutting out porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:46 PM
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Nah I'd want a wife who'd hate me forever if I cheated on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:12 PM
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Thats tragic and depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:48 PM
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I think a lot more guys, especially redpill/blackpill guys need a project. Personally Im working on a short film, but it could be anything. It seems like some guys only goal is chasing women. I found doing this sort of stuff helps reduce fomo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:43 PM
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The homogenised global culture of the post internet world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:04 PM
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I think our culture is too sad and angry. We should be chillin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:28 PM
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I saw they were doing an all female ghostbusters and I knew I had to put my foot down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:26 AM
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Thanks I have some ways to go. But i wanna get back to being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:33 PM
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Damn and I thought mine was long at nip height
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:32 PM
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Finally gave in and cut my hair, im no longer all split ends. Its making me consider getting a hinge or bumble account to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:34 PM
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Depends, if its a new relationship especially I'd look to break up. Seems like thats a projection of a guilty mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:29 PM
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I find Bateman likable because some of his flaws especially earlier on like jealousy over buisness card opinions are really relatable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:50 PM
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I should probably get therapy but I feel like im not really messed up enough to need it. Just working on stuff myself so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:41 PM
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Yeah, a lot of people like the comfort of blaming others for their problems. Faking confidence works great, because you start off not believing in yourself, but very quickly see how well you're doing. Having a job helps too, a title and purpose really help a man, and I'd imagine women too. A little push like that works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:23 PM
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I'm building a career in film, I really love what I do and I want to climb that ladder to create things people love. I found alot of my fomo around sex died when I started getting interested in it. I'd like to be a director some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:10 PM
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Suprised by the amount of guys who aren't like that or by how difficult it is in practice? I'm a little unsure of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:07 PM
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Huh doesn't sound that hard to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:56 PM
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Please refrain from linking in the title. We can't click it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:58 PM
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Friends mostly. College school and work. Thought I want to get into volunteering more and other social hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:07 PM
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Nah stable diffusion was used pretty much instantly and now that photoshop has genAI built in it's even more widely adopted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:38 PM
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If you do generative ai stuff you might have some effect on the industry. We use generative ai stuff here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:49 PM
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Cool, yeah, in my experience it's pretty chill too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:37 PM
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Same, I was kinda intending on using my current job to build a network and reputation. But hopefully it becomes a permenant thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:34 PM
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Nice. I work in film and IT is so important here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:33 PM
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I wonder why lol. Jokes aside I hope it's all going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:31 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:31 PM
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Interesting is is usually same old same old or do you find that changes the pace of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:30 PM
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Nice. Sounds hard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:30 PM
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Q4All: what kind of industry do you work in?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:26 PM
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I'd meet men through friends and be open to meeting guys at good places, and make guys wait for sex. But once I'd found the guy who I trust I'd probably have kinda a crazy sex life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:24 PM
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It's easier to tell yourself it's not meant to be, that society has the problem and that it's over. It's harder to admit you need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:19 PM
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Yeah naturally. Im astounded people are chill at all lol. Thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:58 PM
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Depends on who, friendships perhaps other kinds or relationships. But in general being connected to people usually brings all manner of good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:48 PM
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I'm still sorta in that dumb phase of changing my mindset where small things surprise me. Went up to my coworker and said hi to her expecting it to be awkward and odd but we just hanged out for a bit without it being weird. Literally just talk to people and good things happen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:41 PM
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The black pill seems like a cope. The red pill seems sort of pessimistic and blue pill optimistic. Neither are 100% right it's all in balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:36 PM
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I guess thats how they all forget haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:17 AM
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I like my life. My family are nice, I like my work building a career is going great. My coworkers like me, and I'm forming friendships at work. I think I'm in a good place just need to meet more people. I've been considering volunteering on weekends or maybe just saturdays at some sorts of womens issues charity.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 05:37 AM
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Alot of guys forget women in the real world are normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:51 AM
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He belongs to the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:41 PM
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I think it's less the effort and more just fear holding alot of these guys back
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:00 AM
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I think it's the same reason as the blackpill. It's a cope, easier to tell yourself society's broke and it's over than to accept the need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:40 AM
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I think generally keeping it low pressure is the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:31 AM
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Yeah that's how I met my ex. It's pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:20 AM
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I think guys get the mistaken notion that they're not even allowed to say hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:45 PM
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Let things develop naturally. You don't make friends looking to fuck, you make friends and relationships may or may mot follow. You've gotta play it by ear, ask someone out if you like them, and you think theres potential. If they say no then appreciate the friendship and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:38 PM
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Yeah I'm not saying to go down your friend group hitting on every chick. That's the absurd outcome. Be tactful, asking a woman out doesn't sour your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:28 PM
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I don't think it's a concern for most guys. You've gotta remember to be confident and realise if she says no it isn't the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:23 PM
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Being rejected won't turn a healthy guy into an incel or mass shooter. You've just gotta have a healthy mindset and remember there's plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:20 PM
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Making the first move is how it's worked for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:12 PM
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It ain't all skindeep after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:12 PM
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For fucking real, I rarely ever see this said, and often I get stares when I share the same sentiment. But yes, I see more beautiful women in real life than I do on magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:11 PM
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If you're tactful you don't even need to be chad. You may not be successful but no one always is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:10 PM
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I blame everyone a little. In the end guys like Tim Pool push an exaggerated version of the world where women freaking our over compliments is apparently normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:06 PM
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You're taking my point to the most absurd outcome, and thus you miss the most important part, it's about tact. You've gotta be tactful about this all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:03 PM
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It's all a numbers game. You only have to get lucky once to win, you have to be unlucky everytime to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:59 PM
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Never in my experience, all the times I've been called creepy I was creepy. Now that I'm not things go over alot smoother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:54 PM
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Yes theres a lot of people pedelling this line, it's funny to see radfems and redpillers pushing the same viewpoint, that any approach of a woman is harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:50 PM
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While being attractive makes it easier not to be seen as creepy, it doesn't mean is creepy to be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:36 PM
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By non creepy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:25 PM
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That's the catch 22. They don't speak to women, so they don't know women are fine with being spoken to, so they keep thinking women hate being spoken too. My problem is while I conciously know its okay I still feel like its inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:13 PM
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A lot of guys hold the belief they're not allowed to interact with women in these spaces (especially with romantic intentions), not knowing that it's perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:16 PM
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Haha, yeah I had a similar experience volunteering way back, all old people. Animal shelter sounds cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:14 PM
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What kinda volunteering? Just wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:35 PM
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Everywhere man. Just talk to women everywhere. It's all about context and nuances, but so long as you can navigate the situation. You can ask women out anywhere. Think of meeting people less like hunting for something specific, and more like static electricity, most of the time it's generated by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:26 PM
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The concept of assisting a woman in making the mistake of getting with me seems immoral. I think the better goal is to become a man worthy of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:37 PM
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Q4Men & Redpill Would you rather live in a world that's very sexist to women or mildly sexist to men? This is purely a hypothetical and not at all supposed to be some sort of rhetoric or gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:38 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:02 AM
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Ah I see lol. Yeah I think I can make it on my own. Buying a rope isn't in my plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:58 AM
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I'm only a little autistic but I think I can make it. I struggle to see what would breach reddit TOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:53 AM
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I think a lot of my problems are a result of not being grown up, and I don't mean to shift blame, but I think my upbringing contributed a lot to that. When my parents split up my life became going to school and staying home. When my mother's angry I'm told I do nothing around the house, but when I want to help I'm told I can't help. It's an odd predicament, but I guess I gotta stop holding out hope for the normal way. So I've gotta teach myself to grow up. Anyone else in this sorta predicament?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:47 AM
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Im not sure if I count but I think it's sweet. Most women are good people. I think it's unfortunate that men are more likely to not do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:30 PM
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Starting to realise I stress drink water. 3.4liters so far. Q4All: have you done this or known someone who does?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:26 PM
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I need to, I'm still kinda trying to unlearn that asking a stranger out is some evil immoral thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:56 PM
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I think the advice "just date an ugly chick" is the worst advice for incels. It takes the underlying assumption that less attractive women should have to put up with dysfunctional and inadequate men because they're not as attractive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:26 PM
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I get into a mindset of thinking dating is round the corner and im getting closer to being able to be a good boyfriend and a well rounded adult. Then I remember I'm still a loner virgin who spends too much time working on home projects. I usually feel more confident at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:58 PM
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Often. But then I start to realise im still deeply inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:38 PM
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Anyone else fluctuate between hopeful/happy and I'm totally inadequate? I'm not sure if this is normal or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:30 PM
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Your coworkers will not remember this, besides this isn't highschool anymore your not going to be seen as bad for being a little silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:29 PM
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Hey there. Hows your day been?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:11 PM
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Your coworkers have probably already forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:11 PM
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Used to browse that sub when I was the kinda guy that'd belong in those posts. I think a lot of "niceguys" browse places like that to cope, something along the lines of "atleast im not that bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:28 PM
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"The rules" are a spook. They apply only to the goody two shoes that follow them. A lot of what you're "not allowed" to do is actually perfectly acceptable and even enjoyed by society. It's all about how you break them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:02 AM
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Im the same way I dun everything into the ground lol and only replace when its broke. Im kinda a strange dude allround to the point I don't know what to point to lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:52 AM
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I don't feel confident. I just act like I would if I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:52 PM
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I like so am right now. Don't ruin this for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:08 PM
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I find it kind of easy. I just think of what I'm too full of doubt or inhibition to say and then say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:57 AM
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It gets viewed as a necessity too much and I think that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:44 PM
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I see it as I guess brute forcing confidence. If I was confident I'd have no inhibitions, if I ignore my inhibitions I get to the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:38 PM
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Ofcourse but I think ignoring inhibition is helpful along the way. Its good for talking to anyone. I've found testing it out recently it's helped me really get to what I wanna say. No beating around the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:34 PM
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The trick isn't in pretending and lying. The trick is in saying what you want to say, and not doubting yourself. Pretend even the riskiest moves are likely to go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:31 PM
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I never feel like it's too difficult. I just do the things I doubt myself on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:27 PM
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Nah I get a free pass. You guys all have to tell everyone you hate yourself /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:24 PM
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I think we all wear masks, but I get your point. It's less about playing a character and just acting without inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:18 PM
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I wanna find a wife who's weird in some of the ways I am. Who enjoys the same things I do. Someone I can create things with and play games with. Then I wanna put a ring on her finger and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:38 PM
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I think it's because theres a stereotype of guys who call themselves feminists doing it to meet chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:00 PM
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Thanks, I kinda assume they'd naturally be weary of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:05 PM
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Sorta broaden my pespective I guess. I'm not trying to pull an Always Sunny in Philidelphia and pickup chicks at an abortion rally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:50 PM
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Yeah I'm also concerned they'd think I'm there to pickup chicks like it's Always Sunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:49 PM
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Kinda considering volunteering for some sort of women's rights kinda group, I'm not sure they'd take guys, I know women's shelters don't because it'd cause distress to the victims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:45 PM
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The red pill likes to exaggerate what's considered sexual harassment, especially in the workplace. Women can tell the difference between well meaning guys and creeps, because there is a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:32 AM
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I get that. I kinda second guess things I say or messages I send because I don't wanna seem like I'm flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:12 PM
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I kinda get that. But women seem easy to talk to too, maybe being a man effects how they talk with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:09 PM
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On some level I think I have an easier time talking to women lately. Q4All: Do you ever feel like you have an easier time talking to the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:02 PM
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I completely agree, I had that view. I was chasing pussy and thought of women as the gatekeepers of sex instead of participants in love. I think it prevents guys from treating women fully as equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:42 PM
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Too many see pussy as a final goal that women allow men. But sex is a 2 way thing, it's an intimate part of love. Not some reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:16 PM
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Not exactly replaceable but I don't anticipate having to replace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:08 PM
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That was never the plan I was gonna message her saying Id like to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:07 PM
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Short term temp making a dollar above minimum wage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:48 PM
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We're just friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:47 PM
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We're just friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:47 PM
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Thanks worst case we don't end up having any deeper friendship, no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:42 PM
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Nah we were both pretty engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:41 PM
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The bar for what constitutes sexual harassment is far higher than a lot of guys make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:40 PM
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Thanks for the heads up I'll make sure to bring a patent lawyer as well, just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:28 PM
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Good. Someone asked me to document the "HR meeting" which obviously isn't going to happen for talking to someone lol. I just wanna see where we are in terms of possible friendship, we seem to get along well. She laughs a little at my shitty jokes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:27 PM
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Took some advice from here and talked to the girl at my work one on one in person for while, so when is this HR meeting supposed to happen. If I get canned I hope we can still be friends lol. All seriousness thanks for the advice to talk in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:14 PM
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I think you doubt your own abilities.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 07:51 AM
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I think most guys tell themselves that but don't know how wrong they are.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 06:41 PM
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I've done it, it's easy. Maybe you don't get her number of a date but as long as you're not crossing a line it's all good.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 06:38 PM
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I like purplepill. I usually argue with redpill more then bluepill lol
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 05:47 PM
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Will an akm suffice or does it need to be an original 47.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:12 PM
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Thanks I'll check again soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:13 PM
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Uk I've tried to join the gun club but its always not accepting new invites. Sport shooting seems like good fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:00 PM
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Based and sad we they're harder to get here pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:31 PM
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They've become enamoured with their own identity, same thing happens to deaf people, some start to see it as a part of who they are and something that shouldn't be cured. Same thing happens with some incels too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:24 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:23 PM
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It's important to build a life, the women come later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:44 PM
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A for sure. I'd want her to enjoy it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:40 PM
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No one actually has sex that's just a fantasy created by porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:26 AM
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I've heard legends about mexican pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:58 PM
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I swear they only discontinue the best stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:51 PM
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Based and FiletOFishPilled
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:43 PM
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There's a ranch one? This changes everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:42 PM
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That's fair, I'm not huge on the beef burgers. The chicken and the fish are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:25 PM
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The shakes too are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:23 PM
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You are a woman so clearly you must be lying. Even though the milkshakes are quite nice at Mcdonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:22 PM
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In the end I'm not mad at her, I wasn't a very good boyfriend and I'm glad we're split up. They're together now and seem to have a more functional relationship. She taught me about my flaws, and I'm kinda glad with how things turned out. Thank you though, I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:21 PM
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I was lazy and was way too focused on sex and losing my virignity, she was in love with her friend she lived with and kinda cheated on me a couple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:18 PM
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Nah all women want the Ceaser salad Chicken and bacon wrap from Mcdonalds, and are lying if they say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:16 PM
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Maybe I will, I'm kind of thankful I didn't go all the way with her. I don't think we were right for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:10 PM
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I don't need to try to talk like a man. I'm already a man. I think I'm in the best mental space of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:08 PM
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That's fair I'd feel the same in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:05 PM
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Nice thats sweet. Kudos on waiting, I kinda wish my ex made me wait but that's more on me than her. Hope you too have a wonderful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:04 PM
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Fair choice, but what does it matter if she already has 0 emotional connection to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:02 PM
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Nah bro I was a sexist borderline creep who valued neurotic chase for pleasure and status oved building real relationships. Now I have a healthier view of human sexuality. Also I'm thinner and more muscular now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:59 PM
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Chowder, that mcdonalds burger got my endocrine system acting quite strange my boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:57 PM
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I think it's normal to want love dude. I did the whole wanting pussy over love thing it was immature and neurotic of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:54 PM
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I kinda get it, but also love is more important. In my opinion atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:52 PM
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Same I think. I'm surprised most guys seem to go B.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:50 PM
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To be honest thats the reason for my curiosity. A couple years back I'd pick sex every time, now I feel a really strong desire to find love. I wonder what the other guys think
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:44 PM
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Q4M: Would you prefer a woman who is entirely loyal and loves you, but you cannot have sex, or a woman who does not love you and simply uses you for sex? Im curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:40 PM
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I'm happy because my brother and his gf are having a nice time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:02 PM
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Ah okay I kinda expected a guy by the last name. I've heard bad things about her on another sub but I should check her out myself first. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:50 PM
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I'm already a member of the La Li Lu Le Lo. Seriously though, we're all to some extent part of the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:49 PM
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I think spaces like this are hugely important, society's very divided, and I think spaces like this about co-existing helps to both deradicalize people and bring society together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:48 PM
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I keep seeing the name JNRoberts come up, I have no idea who he is, I'm guessing he's not the motorcycle racer. Who is this dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:44 PM
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Nothing wrong with being a goober, you do more than you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:42 PM
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For real yes. The internet is so fixated on anger and fear, which are better for engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:39 PM
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The system isn't conspiratorial it's based on motivations. The elite don't get into a room and decide to push climate change messaging, high ranking employee's of companies simply decide it's economically viable to pump ESG scores to boost stock prices autonomously. There is no head to the system, government effects buisness, buisness effects government, tide goes in tide goes out. The deep state is less of an organization and more of a loose group of unelected government employees autonomously …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:32 PM
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I think there's a sort of luster to the identity a lot of them have. It lets them tell themselves their victims or hopeless gives, lets them ignore their own shortcomings and blame society. Personally I'm glad I acknowledged my problem and reflected on it, but I think the titles getting old. I'm getting closer and closer to a normal guy. I just need to get out and be present in society more.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 01:08 PM
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Thanks so much! I think I should re-evaluate all the "rules" I've believed in regards to stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:51 PM
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Yeah this wasn't with any intention it was just talking. I always thought it'd come off as creepy I guess. Something that people should avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:26 PM
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Talked to a woman at the supermarket today, it's been okay to talk to random strangers this entire time. Kinda mad I went this long thinking it was a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:07 PM
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Same to be honest I kinda just wanna work on my projects all day at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:08 AM
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You can do it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:07 AM
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My one problem is not meeting enough people. But then I'm too lazy and scared to do things to meet people. I'm gonna have to start babystepping it at this rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:34 AM
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I agree I think men's rights and women's rights are twosides of the same coin.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 06:53 PM
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Yeah I think places like these are kind of ruined by a fringe of hating feminism and sometimes women. I think moderate Feminists and MRAs would get along just fine, if not well, in a world free of tribalism.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 06:04 PM
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Women don't like being called females. I can't fault them it is clinical language that could be read as dehumanising.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 05:57 PM
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I think mens rights has no interest in dating when there are serious issues men face like routine circumcision. I think helping boys to become good men will improve the dating scene naturally.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 05:56 PM
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Thanks but I don't think I need luck. I used to be desperate for a someone but now it's like whatever happens happens and if it turns out to be just an innocent smile we can still be friends and that's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:53 PM
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That's the plan, I wanna get more personal with her either way and hopefully be friends in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:46 PM
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A lot of incels aren't virgins because of thier looks. It's really a mental issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:32 PM
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Turned around to see my co-worker looking at me smiling, sorta held eye contact for a second. It's probably nothing but I kinda wished I talked to her lol. I'm probably overthinking it. In the end I hope we can have some sort of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:27 PM
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Talking to women and existing in society helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:14 PM
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Nah husband's a good answer, besides I think the mushy lovey stuff's good for the sub, helps the blackpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:07 PM
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Based and sweet-pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:22 PM
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Tragic, hope you find a guy who's good and can treat you and every other woman he knows right with no ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:21 PM
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Q4A: who is the best person of the opposite sex you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:50 PM
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I'm more meaning in terms of talking to women I'm familiar with. Maybe I shoulda picked a better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:33 PM
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I mean games like poker. Generally lying should be avoided I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:34 PM
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Ofcourse, sometimes it is even good to lie, like in games.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:26 PM
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I wanna be honest with the women I'm friends with. I feel the status quo of men just skirting around the game of "guess the rapist" that women kinda need to play to participate in society is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:24 PM
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Yeah when I was younger I tried to be attractive for one girl in the hopes she'd fall for me, but the normal thing seems to be to just meet people and find love as a consequence of existing in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:21 PM
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Well yeah you've gotta interact and make friends, what I mean is not doing things to get dates but meeting people naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:18 PM
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I think if I told women what I really think about them, things would be better and less awkward. Instead of skirting around the issue, maybe I should openly say things like "I get talking to strange guys can be dangerous for women" instead of awkwardly dancing around it. I always assumed it'd make me seem more like a creep but I really doubt it would thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:17 PM
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I think the trick isn't to go looking necessarily but more to exist in the world maximising the chance you'll meet someone you meah with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:13 PM
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Any paticular reason why not?
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 05:40 AM
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Managed to make all my co-workers laugh today, feels good. Talking to women and making them laugh feels intrinsically good and I'm not sure if it's a mindset thing or some sort of deep anti-incel compulsion to interact with the opposite sex. Nonetheless I'm happy, I need to get better at being funny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:50 PM
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Trying to minmax relationships like an rpg is fucking retarded and people need to stop doing it for their mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:36 PM
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I'd probably be irrationally a little upset but from an objective rational lense I get it and it wouldn't impact my relationship aside from encouraging me to self reflect if there's a problem with me that turns them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:52 PM
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Not at all. Sexual assault on public transport is a serious issue and messures like this are required to mitigate harm while longterm solutions are hopefully introduced. Women should be able to go anywhere without fearing sexual assault or rape, these measures are good. In the longterm however the root cause, rapists need to be tackled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:46 PM
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Just found out the host of a mgtow show I used to watch got caught following women around to take creepshots and share them on a discord server and apparently groomed his ex's daughter. I'm disgusted and kinda pissed, but I'm not exactly sure if I have a right to be. I wish guys like this didn't exist, women shouldn't have to deal with these kind of pathetic wretches. I should have seen it sooner, as I watched I became increasingly disgusted by his misogynistic behaivour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:52 AM
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Still you, because I'm infallible because in life I'm the main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:14 PM
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I might have to change then, so I can have red armour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:44 PM
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Maybe they are, good women aren't dating drug dealers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:13 PM
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Only if I get to be the shady character who could go either way but in the end being a 'good guy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:11 PM
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No one benefits from the sex industry, except the pimps. Even the Johns are robbing themselves something best spent on women that love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:46 PM
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There's nothing I have to gain from taking advantage of some desperate woman caught up in the sex industry. I'm going to go find a woman who loves me for me not for the money in my pocket. The sex industry is rotten, and I'd rather die a loveless virgin than exploit a woman who has to offer herself as a sex object to put food on the table for her or God forbid her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:40 PM
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I think a lot of guys get it in their head that one wrong move and they'll branded an attempted rapist for the rest of their lives. Which they get from hearing about the fringe minority of women who will call it sexual harrassment, while they never hear about the fact men and women are normal in the real world. I think the solution is talking to women, as scary as it can be for some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:57 AM
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Eh I think this is the government being seeking reasons to accrue power. Feminists don't seem to give a shit, they're more focused on stuff like womens sports. Feminists aren't the boogie man you make them out to be, for mens rights to exist womens rights must too. Balance is key and love is a tool.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 01:03 AM
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Thanks. This is a problem I've had since I first used this sub, I started off as redpilled for my flair, but something changed me to black pilled without my say in the matter. Now it jumps betweeb black pilled and no pilled on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:21 PM
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(Almost) every woman has tiddies, aim higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:43 AM
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I wanna have a good life. Good job, nice car, family and friends. I wanna be good with women, by stamping out the last of my obessisive thoughts and improving in casual conversation with women. I want to be close friends with a woman, without any feelings for her or awkwardness. I wanna be good at Counter Strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:12 AM
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She hasn't called me creepy. I feel creepy. She's been so nice to me so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:46 AM
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Thanks I appreciate that. I often can get hung up on this stuff. Things seem okay now that I've been thinking about it more. I can kinda get hung up on perception, if I think "what if this is a dream" I won't be able to trust my perception either way, similarly if I think I'm creepy I'll sorta analyse it typically airing towards creepy. Outside opinion helps alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:53 AM
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I tend to be pretty normal, I say hi and smile to her as she enters the room, which feels kind of weird to me in retrospect. She works in the opposite corner of the room to me and thinking about it, i feel this is kind of cornering when I speak to her, she has no where else to go. I feel maybe I talk to her too much, like I'm suspiciously intersecting myself into her life. Texting her over social media goes a lot better but that's because she always can walk away. In general I'm a creepy looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:38 AM
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Sometimes I feel like I am, sometimes I don't. It fades back and forth. I can never be sure that my own self perception isn't a delusion. Like the interpersonal relationship version of peeing during a dream and waking up with a wet bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:33 AM
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Yeah, we like some of the samw stuff and have been talking back and forth about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:29 AM
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I feel like the women I'm friends with can tell I'm creepy. Getting the feeling I should disconnect, and stick to myself some more. To be fair looking back I feel my actions are predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:25 AM
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I was thinking for something to bond over. But that could be fun too haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:39 PM
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Might be a you thing man. I wanna find a woman I can love and can live a life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:45 PM
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Im more happy with my relationship with women after quitting porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:36 PM
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Doesn't tend to track with my personal experience of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:34 PM
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I generally have stopped giving a shit about N count as long as it's not extreme. I'm more concerned about preserving intimacy and passion, and if she likes videogames. I think a lot of guys are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:32 PM
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When I was younger my goal in life was sex, because I was a pathetic 16 yr old with nothing going on and no ambition. 5 years later my ambitions are focused on hobbies and career because I've got things to strive for. Weak men care only for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:11 PM
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Realising this is important, I always held a view that women hate sex and simply put up with it. But realising women like sex too is very comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:10 PM
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I was a guy who was "too nice". I was too nice to women because I wanted to get in their pants, in my experience talking to my female friends, women don't want nice guys, they want kind men. There's a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:49 PM
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Too many guys out here think they want to be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:04 AM
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Seems statistically sound, overall seems beneficial to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:33 AM
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From now on I'm just gonna be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:31 AM
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Went on a kinda date this Valentines day, it was awkward and a little weird but it was cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:53 PM
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I think a lot of women have incel mentalities. Especially radical feminists. Saw a thread a while back on Twitter that was literally just a woman posting the equivilent of "All women will just leave you for chad if they can, I'm so ugly, pity me."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:00 AM
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To be fair I think a lot of guys see it this way too. I spent a long time sort of just pretending I was asexual in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:57 AM
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My sleep schedule got fucked up by somehow sleeping 14 hrs, wokeup at 5pm need to be awake till 2:45 tommorow, can't decide if I need to try sleep, or stay up till 2:45pm. Either way today may suck, but it'll be worth it to see people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:26 AM
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Thanks yeah I intend to keep posting on the net under this alias somewhere atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:20 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:54 PM
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Painting is addictive. I said I'd play games but I ended up figuring out paintovers all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:46 AM
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Men should be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:37 PM
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Ngl did not realise you're a woman. Always kinda assumed you were a dude. Not sure why. Women and men are so alike it's hard to tell haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:51 AM
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Hot take, the lady cop is kinda good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:43 AM
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Nah there are a lot of things women deal with that I'm glad I don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:23 PM
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I think a much lower amount of men would be incels if they interacted with women especially as children. I sort of developed a fear of girls, I was afraid to hole a girls at 17 for a group activity on school. I'm extremely fortunate to have had the women in my life that I had. 4 years later I'm not afraid of female peers anymore, talking a woman kinda makes me tense but that's because I don't want to put my foot in my mouth and make it seem like Im hitting on her. She's just another person to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:56 AM
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I feel that sorta.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:32 PM
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Typically that'd make me jealous and feel strange but as I embrace my sexuality and keep away from porn, I'm really starting to fully embrace that women like sex too, and like sex like I do. And that it is good to like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:31 PM
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I think it may come from internalised misandry, I've always felt like my sexuality is harmful, because men are harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:16 PM
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Most of the porn I watched was pretty vanilla images.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:08 PM
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I used to watch an array of vanilla and non vanilla stuff. Now I watch 0 porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:45 PM
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Sorry I wouldn't know about that I still masturbate, just not to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:40 PM
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Well since I was young I've seen sex as violent, degrading and disrespectful to women, as well as immoral (immoral to both parities). I've been guilty for being a sexual being. But since I've become more accepting and embracing of the fact I like sex and that women like sex and that sex isn't evil or violent inherently. But now there's something deeply wholesome about a man and woman, both pleasing each other especially when they're both in love. That's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:39 PM
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Ever since quitting porn I've found sexuality as a concept feels so much more wholesome. Anyone else who's quit porn felt this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:32 PM
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Yeah I've always kinda internalised that view I think, to the point I think every woman kinda sees me as a predator stalking its prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:09 PM
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I've noticed some women who really seem to think all men passively support rape and that a sizeable chunk have and are open about it with their friends. I feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:03 PM
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No it's probably BS, but it's BS I've been told enough to internalise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:43 PM
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I have an innate feeling that male sexuality is predatory, creepy and dangerous. Women on the other hand are not predatory. Which is why a lonely woman is sad and a lonely man is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:38 PM
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It wouldn't really. The garden variety incel doesn't have the commitment or motivation to stage a coup. Most probably sooner kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:12 PM
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Maybe an incel uprising isn't completely out of the realm of possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:57 PM
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I think a lot of men hold internalised misandristic beliefs, I know I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:22 PM
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Part of me believes this is a tragedy. Men should have to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:20 PM
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Im starting to think a lot of incels think women hate them for their looks because they don't realise they probably come off as creepy, back when I was a lot more obsessive I often wondered why my female friends would ask their male friends to hangout but not me. Then I realised looking back I was a total creep, so they kept me at arms length.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:12 PM
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I will only be truly worth of that title when im in a relationship I haven't fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:55 AM
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Guess my name somewhat still fits lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:41 PM
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My ex gave me a bj. She was not my ex at the time. Counter-question: would I still count as a virgin then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:22 PM
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I'm 21 I'd date maybe I guess 19 to I guess around 30-35. It depends on the person alot. It's more about the stages of ours lives we're at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:52 PM
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Sorry to hear that. That sucks man. She doesn't deserve you, it'll get better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:56 AM
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No this sub is very pessimistic. Most women I know are paired up with normal men. Women do not hate all men for being men, and men don't treat women like walking fleshlights. For the most part, it's better than this sub would make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:29 PM
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I have noticed over the course of my life my women friends have been more sexual in conversation than the men. We all sort of shy away from it, or obfuscate it with vague words like "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:27 AM
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Every woman I have been friendly with has been nothing but pleasant to me. Not to suggest every woman is good, but all the women I interact with lately are pretty normal people just like the men. I sort of miss having women friends like I used to, I was a total obsessive goober back then, I really squandered a gift. At the end of the day they're just people, like you or me. On the domestic duties issue I'm kind of fucked up. I'd feel bad if my wife would have to do any of the domestic duties, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:25 AM
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There's this guy I watch out of morbid curiosity he's an ugly, <5ft, inhuamnly proportioned, rage filled, racist, abusive attempted child groomer. And yet he had a chance with a kind, smart, absolutely beautiful woman, I'm starting being a loner might be the biggest factor in me being single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:40 PM
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That's actually a really creepy yet subtle change. Implying that a central body is responsible for housing people, treating people as passive. Where homeless is more treats people more neutrally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:36 PM
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Using upgrade in a sentence about people makes it sound like it was written by chris chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:14 PM
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It's the women's equivalent of simp. It's better to by single with your dignity than debase yourself for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:30 AM
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I'm pretty into I guess homely women. I'm not too dreadfully picky I think. I tend to find myself attracted to bigger women, not morbidly obese ofcourse more just a little plump and chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:18 AM
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Cop lady looks better than the Tweeter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:46 AM
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The states power is largely illusionary, maintaining control however would be extremely unlikely. Not that I think incels should or would attempt some uprising, or believe they would win.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:49 PM
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I can't speak for other guys, I'm not on their head. But personally I'd rather marry a good woman than a pretty woman, not to suggest those are mutually exclusive qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:16 PM
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Thanks I appreciate your input, I need to aim for a human touch,everything I've painted has felt like AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:21 PM
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I feel like what I create has been like ai art, as if im an ai. I don't have that human touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:16 PM
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Something about it feels so masturbatory and cheap, especially the way I do it. I feel sort of illegitimate, like a child thinking a crayon drawing makes them an artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:09 PM
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Does digital painting count as a hobby or am I gonna have to get a new hobby ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:58 PM
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I enjoy this sub, everyone seems so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:18 PM
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It's better to be a good man seen as evil than even an evil man seen as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:09 AM
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I see sex relations like a large container of water with a film of scum at the top. When Im on the internet looking at the world from above its easy just to see the scum but when I'm in the world, fully submerged I can see how pure most of the water is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:07 AM
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Look at it from men's perspective. I'm pretty weak physically, but I know if I attack someone I'll likely be hit back harder than I could hit, and deserve it. The sexes live by pretty different rules, and a lot of men expect women to have the same rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:05 AM
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I see gender relations as a large container of water, most of it is fine, but then there's this yucky scum collecting on the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:02 AM
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Good for them. I think a lot of men live their lives broadly for women, with what women want guiding their descisions. Which is probably good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:55 AM
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Just tried this. Went up to a woman and told her all her favourite books sucked. Got charged with textual harassment 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:43 AM
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Just wokeup from a dream I was at uni with the woman I was obsessed with all throughout college. I wasn't obsessive, but the dream had an uncanny realism. I did however meet her friends and was charming, I always am in my dreams. Maybe this is my subconscious telling me to go out and be social. And that meeting people through friends is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:11 AM
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I think a lot of men assume husband material means unattractive but worth settling for. I think this is a result of the stereotype that marriages are a ball and chain and people just settle for a stable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:46 AM
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Counterpoint, equalising it seems pretty normal. The person I'm kinda dating is really attracted to Shawn Mendes but I've realised I don't really care considering there are so many other people I'm attracted to. We're the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:08 AM
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I can somewhat relate. I just need to repair my view of sex, I wanna be more chill with sluttiness and actually learn to love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:22 AM
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Having sex/a relationship with a misandrist woman. Someone who fully hates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:01 AM
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Theres something really wholesome and cute about this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:59 AM
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In the future the internet will be santized of any ugly content until everything is the same squeaky clean forum fixated on manipulating the emotions of its users.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:34 PM
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No. 90% of it is exposure. Praying to chad wouldn't do anything. The more I talk to women the better I get with it, I've just got to stick with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:25 PM
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I appreciate your help. But now I feel like what I should do is destroy or otherwise be rid of anything that brings me happiness so I may pay penance. But I'm too selfish to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:02 PM
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You're probably right, deep down I don't think I'm quite well adjusted. I feel like deep down I'm an irredeemable psychopath like Patrick Bateman who's mask of sanity tricks even himself. Inversely I was watching a documentary about a rape case and almost cried, but even then I second guess if that's some sort of deep seated instinctual mimicry. I feel like the uncanny valley made human. A fake person who's unthinking nature is to hide amongst humanity. I wonder if that's some sort of mental iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:00 PM
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She hasn't read it yet. I don't think she will read it for a while. I think this will be attempted to be buried and ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:52 PM
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Thanks this is really helpful. I wrote to my mother in kind of a stupid still emotional state. Telling her my side of the situation, I didn't tell her this because I think she will only get more angry at me if I tell her. I've got to be touchy with some things around her, and I think if I brought it up she would juat get angry. I ended the letter saying that me and her need to work together and I think theres communication issues. I think maybe some of this is coming off of preexisting beliefs t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:51 PM
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I woke up to her yelling at me to ring her on her phone, because she had lost hers. In a state of confusion I didn't know what was going on and couldn't ring her because my phone hasn't got the credit to make a call, which she knows. She saw this as me refusing to help her. Somewhere along the line it just sorta became abour how I never help out, which is mostly a result of her actively refusing and openly sometimes trying to prevent me from helping her. From there is spirals as I start to feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:46 PM
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Just got in a stupid argument with my mother and now I feel like my family would be better off if I wasnt around. I'm not hinting at suicide. Just stating that if I disappeared, while sad, i think my family would do better. No clue what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:15 PM
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Is it any wonder why. Look at the state of the modern man. I think this would change if men in general were better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:24 AM
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For yourself and your own well being. Then look for love. Hot guys tend to get hot gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:38 AM
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That's such a cope. It's easy to think the answer is to find some desperate girl in some far off country, but that's weak. Men need to build themselves up, especially in a day and age where the vast majority of men are sub-par, many extremely so. Do not pray for easy lives, pray to be stronger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:32 AM
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I'd still call the bar for men pretty low, look at average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:28 AM
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Getting fat is something that concerns me about growing older. My goal is to get more into calisthenics and watching my eating forever. With pushups I've been able to grow more muscle than I've ever had before and I'm only getting started so it leaves me with hope. Im still a little fatter than I should be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:25 AM
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For sure. Being fat doesn't stop a woman from being kind, diligent, hard working, a good mother, understanding, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:02 PM
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I didnt intend to suggest you were that's just a red flag to a lot of bigger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:28 AM
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My best advice would be to meet some women on the larger side, but don't come off as a feeder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:18 AM
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Yes she was hot as fuck dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:06 AM
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My interactions with fat women does not tell the same story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:59 AM
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I think there's an ethical difference with mocking a man compared to mocking a woman for their body. A man should be expected to just take it on the chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:46 PM
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Very based and unity pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:44 PM
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Counterpoint, date fat women who are high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:44 PM
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My most played game on Steam is professional artistic software does that still count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:35 PM
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Nah I think the core is that I on some level want that stereotypical marriage with a wife who sort of hates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:19 PM
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Yeah but it seems like a waste of resources and I don't have the money to go private for it. I think I can mostly solve my problems alone. I appreciate the thought though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:17 PM
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Yeah fair point I'm not exactly desiring to get Duluth Model'ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:40 PM
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Yeah I get that. The more objective smart part of me knows I'd probably not want to date a radfem or misandrist for safety reasons. But on an unconcious level I do see it as kind of attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:36 PM
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I think it comes from growing up watching videos of radical feminists say lots of quite out there things, like about genociding 80% of men, or castration boys or sex segregation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:09 PM
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I find misandry in women kind or charming. Both the innoffensive "ew yucky men haha" type but also the real unironic hatred of men type. There's something attractive about it. Anyone else feel this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:55 PM
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I watched American Psycho and everything since has been my slowburning rampage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:52 PM
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I... uh... well don't get your expectation of anger. This is just sweet. I hope she's successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:43 PM
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That assumes I want to hurt women. When what I'm really searching for is the ability to properly articulate a reverence for women, and to one day find mutual love with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:24 PM
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Nah 5'10 about 140ish lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:34 PM
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3/10 maybe 2 depending.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:55 PM
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I struggle to believe random 4chan dude is a representative sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:33 AM
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Well considering she introduced it to him and he loves it, I think they're on the same page. I used to think women were so different. They're not, they're just as gross and degenerate as us. Thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:08 AM
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And yet I look around and every man and women I see relate to each other. I look to the left and see boyfriend and girl friend talking about playing the same mmo together, a game I also play. I look to the right and see men and women talking about drawing and painting. I look up and see a world where men and women get along. I look down and see the only person keeping me from embracing that world. Most women are pretty relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:37 AM
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Who says I share no interests with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:28 AM
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I find an inate enjoyment from talking to women. It's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:26 AM
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New year, new me. I'm gonna spend this year changing who I am as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:25 AM
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I'm not to into the scoutpill I'm more based and Heavy-pilled with an interest in Esoteric Pyroism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:14 AM
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But they're nice. I don't see the flaw of a mutually beneficial friendship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:10 AM
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Maybe they will just have to get use to it. They're adults, they can handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:13 PM
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No I'm completely off of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:49 PM
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Dudes got the whole fake alpha complex. It reminds me of when Elliot Rodger tried to pickup women by being an obnoxious asshole at a street party.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:21 PM
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I'd say good luck. But you won't need it. Kick ass out there man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:17 PM
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Any one can suck your dick you gotta find a woman who is a good soul. Also maybe watch less porn I find that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:15 PM
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I get the whole not wanting to be called females thing. But males is alright. I'm 21 but I wouldn't yet call myself a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:13 PM
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In a way interaction does have pretty set rules. It's kind of like Doom, don't die, try not to hurt innocent people, if its looking like it'll go wrong, get out of there. And remember 'the only thing they fear is you'. Seriously though those last two are really helpful. I can't overestimate the power of a moving compliment, it helps you get comfortable complimenting strangers but also you're not a threat because you exit the situation relatively quickly. Apologising in an awkard situation and le…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:07 PM
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Thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:04 AM
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21 UK I'm and Unemployed Student A mix of radical libertarian and authoritarian esoteric drivel, but mostly really just nothing significant. My plan is to get a job in my field, learn to live for myself save to pay off student loans then save for a home, with aims of living a financially ascetic lifr. Meet someone and fall in love, but that can't be planned for, only influenced by good habits and socialisation. I find women very inspiring. Many women speak of fearing the world. But almost all wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:47 AM
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Most of the women on here seem nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:35 AM
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In this microcosmic debate between the sexes it becomes easy to believe that in the real world all women hate all men, and all men lust over but ultimately don't really respect all women. People on the outside are normal. Out there in the horrifying hellscape known as reality men and women blend together into an unpredictable flurry of unique personalities. It inspires either awe or fear, depending on how much you're able to talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:20 AM
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Fuck it I've decided to become a menace to society by dressing like it's the 20s. Maybe I'll even wear a strawhat out of season 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:59 AM
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Bf% what is this some sort of speed running strat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:55 AM
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But I don't want to be a degenerate, I want to be a gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:53 AM
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My snapchat is literally just to message one person, I don't interact with anything else. My default stories page has always been full of sexualised content.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:37 AM
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There's a significant difference between calling a teenage girl fat and saying a grown man has a small penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:17 AM
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I appreciate this comment thank you. I have a lot of I guess "internalized misandry".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:55 AM
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Because judging men for their body is fine. Judging a black person for being black is not. One's got a reason and the other's prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:43 AM
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Starting to think I should aim to be more gentlemanly and I guess trad as I get older. But I'm not sure, I need to conquer my fear of being mocked, it tends to keep me from dressing as I'd like. I just don't want to come off as some neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:28 AM
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He gives me major fake alpha vibes. He reminds me of Patrick Bateman with that fake confident persona, masking deep insecurity and jealousy. Can't convict him in the court of my opinion, but I wouldn't be shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:10 AM
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Yeah dude seems like he's more a lolcow to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:58 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:29 AM
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I guess I'll have to get comfortable with being seen as stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:25 AM
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Men should dress up more. As I've got older I've grown to detest wearing hoodies, graphic tee's and jeans. I wish it were more socially acceptable to wear suits. There's a school of thought that men don't take any care of themselves, and your a prissy girly homo if you put the slightest effort in. It's a completely misguided view of masculity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:24 AM
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Anyone else down to bring fedoras back for a second time?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:14 AM
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I'm RP or atleast I'd say so. It wouldn't be prohibitive if the woman I was dating was a feminist, so long as she wasn't too extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:07 AM
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Just finished watching the Count Dankula video on Joe Son. I'm done making woodchipper jokes, rapists for real deserve to be suffer and then be disposed of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:04 AM
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Periods must fucking suck. Makes me glad I'm a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:42 AM
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Yeah that's how I met my ex. Putting myself out there has been great so far, my main thing is taking a more natural approach to relationships by focusing on friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:51 AM
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Yeah. I need to build my social circle either way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:55 PM
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The more I read through here the more I think social circle is the best way to find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:33 PM
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Ah a fellow man also afflicted with noviophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:18 PM
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Thanks. Yeah Im guessing one mod reads my name and changes it to black pill, and another reads my posts and changes it to no pill and both think I'm the one changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:10 AM
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In my experience nah. Especially if it's obviously just chill platonic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:31 AM
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Thanks thats really sweet. So far I spent 3 years as an incel, 3 years in limbo and plan 3 years from now to be socially active, with a good career, in good shape, better hobbies too. Ideally to have a longterm gf/wife too but I don't really think that matters too much. Thanks again. Edit: I don't know why blackpill man is my flair I'm not changing it on my end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:28 AM
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I was way more of an incel about 5 years back. Had a really toxic friendship, which was entirely my fault, with a woman I was obsessed with. Her and her friends really helped me realise how fucked up I was as a person. Spent like 3 years in limbo, still an incel but with a way healthier relationship with women, just a shut in who avoided people. Still not great, all discussions of sex and in particular women's sexuality makes me uncomfortable. Trying to solve it completely now, trying to sort of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:58 AM
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I think in general one of the best ways for an incel to improve and change is to interact with off limits women. Women with boyfriends, women who are lesbians, women who you know aren't interested and best case women that they're not attracted to. Practicing healthy communication with women is extremely important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:48 AM
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So no one was gonna tell me you can just talk to women in public and be chill and it's not gonna come off as creepy if you do it right. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:12 PM
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Thats sweet, hope you and your significant other are having a nice week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:27 PM
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That's awesome congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:25 PM
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If it does im going to have to change this username 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:16 AM
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I tend to go more mild like being unafraid of silence and making eye contact. But maybe thinking about her masturbating to furry porn could help too who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:33 AM
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Congrats hope next time it works out for you. Im sure it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:31 AM
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Thanks. Talking to a woman who I dont think is a perfect princess is a lot easier lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:29 AM
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Yeah I used to see women as pure non sexual people, so accepting they like sex and in fact can like quite kinky fetishistic sex has been difficult but productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:10 AM
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Gratz
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:06 AM
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The revelation that many women are just as degenerate and weird as me has been very helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:02 AM
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I think my greatest issue and the core reason I'm still a virgin is just that I don't socialise enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:30 PM
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True as fuck, when I started an artistic pursuit and started to have a career path ahead of me I stopped caring about so much. Like bodycount, virginity, and my lack of a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:48 PM
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I can relate. I find it strangely cathartic, I never really sexually express myself in any other way. Have fun with the writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:45 AM
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I wish society was more relaxed around sex. It's both very taboo and somehow also everywhere. I wish we were more just chill and frank about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:05 AM
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I'm not even into blonde women that much but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:32 AM
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Thanks its like a blackpill in reverse. Im glad I found this place when I did and not sooner, because it probably would have harmed the whole escape from inceldom thing I'm working on. You seem like a really cool person. Thanks again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:21 AM
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Fuck this whole insecure "I need to be the first one to even know she has a vagina" virgin chasing shit. I'm going back to 14 year old me's attitude, I want a kinda weird, kinky, deviant gf who knows what she wants and isn't ashamed of her sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:10 AM
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People like you really make the whitepill easier to take. Makes me wish this sub was less about fighting, its easy to get demoralised on here, but posts like this make it easy to smile. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:07 AM
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Thanks for being vocal.. That's honestly quite reassuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:52 AM
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Thats reassuring. We don't have the same system or atleast not the same vocab over here, so I may be a little confused. Best of luck towards your finals, when they do come.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:46 AM
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While there are ways in which society screws over both men and women I think the most destructive thing we could do is make it a competition. After all we're humans, we're supposed to compliment each other not bicker and blame over who's more mistreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:44 AM
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That sucks hope it turns out alright
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:25 AM
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Well are they good men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:03 AM
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I think the answer is for a man to make himself a prize. Generally men being better is always a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:13 PM
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I sort of worry about making people uncomfortable in general 🤣 I sorta tend to keep to myself. This account helped me talk to people a lot more as people tended to approach me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:49 PM
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Ah cool thanks for the tip. I always feel like I'm being creepy when I Dm people it's a general issue I need to focus on 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:42 PM
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Thats really cool. Im kind of a recluse even on the net haha so I wonder what would be possible if I engaged more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:35 PM
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What do you think about the idea of making friends online on sites like this? Is it really possible or am I just using it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:23 PM
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Nah same here used to obsess over virgin gf. Talking to someone who's had sex before. It's kinda a weight off my chest knowing that I don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:41 PM
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Fortnite added Doom guy so Im checking the game out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:28 PM
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I haven't seen any official count and some have two meanings. Like Pinkpill which is used by both Female Dating Strategists and users of 4chan's /lgbt/ board.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:22 PM
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Black pill is basically "all hope is lost". White pill is essentially "It's all okay".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:20 PM
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Id call myself redpill but someone changes my flair constantly. I like bluepillere for how much they in general seem to care about women. There's many ways in which women are mistreated by society and I think the vast majority of blue pillers are incredibly genuine in their concerns. They've been mostly pretty welcoming. Which is good, only by understanding each other and co-operating will we make real progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:19 PM
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Ah glad to hear you're doing better. I still need to put myself out there more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:03 PM
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How does one, take the blue pill? I was under the impression this was a "no going back" sorta thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:17 PM
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Multiple Hookers. Disloyalty with multiple women, and going lot further. Having a favourite pornstar is fucked up too, and worse in some ways. Best bet to steer clear of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:15 PM
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I miss them, local bakery used to make them but stopped. Was just thinking about it today, considering learning to make my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:48 AM
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Q4All: What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:40 AM
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I'd hope if I was ever in this situation she'd tell me. I can't see why a man wouldn't want to please his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:34 AM
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Thanks, I'm trying to get more into simple painting. I'm realising that it takes a lot more patience than I remember. In all honesty I wouldn't really think what I'm doing is art but all the job listings end in artist so I guess that's some sort of reassurance lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:38 AM
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God I can relate so much. I hate how much jerking off there is in art. The programme I'm in is in a more niche, more technological form of art so thankfully we don't really have a pretentious streak in our group. I don't call myself an artist but I'd say I'm artistic in a way. I just wanna make nice visuals that people can enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:16 AM
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Thanks that's sweet, glad to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:07 AM
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Wait... How did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:43 AM
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Thanks yeah hope you can find someone who'll love your architecture. I should make an instagram if only to put myself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:34 AM
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You haven't slept with negative ten men? Damn you really are a whore. Jokes aside we really should put less emphasis on bodycount. I used to be exclusively looking for virgins because I'm insecure, the person I'm talking to now has had sex 6 or 7 times before and I realised I don't really care. I'm kinda glad, it'll make things less awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:25 AM
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Do women find artistic men attractive or is that just something that happens in movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:21 AM
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Almost everyone i bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:15 AM
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Don't aim for first, aim for best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:21 PM
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I don't think arguing over this is particularly healthy or productive question, but I see the question come up a lot. My answer would be that women and men suffer from sex based discriminatory treatment in different ways and that the best outcome would be for this competition to turn into a co-operative movement to help one another because when we are apart we seem to become snarling beasts that view equality as a 0 sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:08 PM
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I aim to pay and cook/clean. Edit: who keeps changing my pill lol. Don't deny me my redpilled sigma status.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:58 PM
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Thanks yeah it could be a big help. Where I'm at isn't too small it's just not got many places in my line of work. But it skews old too, most of my concern comes from being able to suvive out there. Moving out would be nice, having somewhere I could invite people over without being concerned about family would be nice (still live with one of my parents).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:11 PM
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I mean I wasn't there or anything, but they're definitely doing better socially than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:12 PM
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Thanks so much, I'm slowly accepting that eventually I'll have to move somewhere further from home. It's a pretty dead town for the industry I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:11 PM
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Nah the only people who play warhammer that I know fuck each other so I'd have to go somewhere even more nerdy and virginal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:07 PM
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Thank you so much thats sweet of you to say. This is my alt account so it suffers from a sole focus sex making it seem like I'm super invested in sex, but my core worries in life right now come from the daunting transition from college to employment in a town where there aren't many employers for the type of thing I do. I think I'll probably stick to love over casual sex, I get the impression alot of people who have done both prefer love. Thanks for your reassurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:05 PM
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Fuck dying for 72 virgins. Because with me it'll just end up being 73.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:00 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I really appreciate that. Part of me is torn between wishing I could have casual sex and wishing I could find love. But I'm leaning towards love more by the day. You seem like pretty good company to me. (I hope this doesn't come off as some sort of sleazy comment lol, I mean this innocenty)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:44 PM
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Best of luck to you. Hope she ends up liking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:32 PM
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Yeah I sorta in the front of my mind know that but the feeling that I missed the boat won't stop niggling at the back of my mind. Being more out there is probably the best advice. Part of me just thinks that I'm post-wall I guess haha. Thanks for your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:19 PM
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Sometimes I wish sex was more open and the bar for sex was lower. Sometimes I wish I was a better man, to able to attract women better. I think I'll take Kennedy's advice and go with the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:06 PM
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As a 21 year old I often feel like it's too late for me to date, which on a concious level I know is probably not true. Relationships have a big Fomo element. Anyone else feel like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:59 PM
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I stopped and realised it wasn't good for me. I found my attitudes towards life, sex, love and women all improved. I'm much better at talking to women now, it's not some high stakes situation because I don't feel like the goal is having sex. I also notice it can act as an insecurity vector in women the same way bodycount can act as an insecurity vector in men. But I think porn is ofcourse worse because often men are actively engaging in it while having a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:52 PM
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Thanks yeah I get that and the way porn is so aggressive I found it led to doublethink in me, where I both thought sex was gross and aggressive but also so appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:45 AM
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Yeah it really concerns me how many kids are growing up with their whole sexuality filtered through porn. I spent 10 years watching porn, and I think it really helped me degenerate as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:43 AM
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I always felt like sex isn't real, like it's something that just happens in pornography and that real people never have the priviledge of having sex. This makes it seem kind of insurmountable, because the sort of mental image of "sex havers" is of pornstars with 12 inch cocks or giant tits for me. Something I conciously know but on a subconcious level don't seem to recognise is that women enjoy sex and that they're not dating pornstars, they're dating normal guys like me. I think this will persi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:24 PM
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The problem with apple is not their speech it's that they have monopolistic control of Iphones, anything that Apple users want has to come through them, as well as being massively anti-consumer, it gives them indirect control over the internet. If there's something Apple doesn't like in an app, you're fucked and forced out of over half of the market. On the internet control comes in layers. Users control themselves, apps control the user, app stores control the apps, payment processors control t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:09 PM
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I kind of find some sort of appeal in misandrist women, I find it attractive when women are sort of sexist towards men. Not just sexually but in general. Is this normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:49 PM
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Negative XP at number one. I think I've been exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:55 PM
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Screw pot belly pig. I want a pot belly elephant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:39 PM
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Sure that'd be awesome. I think the common fears comes from two places, the concern she would cheat and the concern that she's tired of sex and now wants a sexless marriage. I think the common cause for these fears is feelings of inadequacy compared to other men and that she'll always remember and possibly look back fondly upon other men and that you'd be the beta. From a kinda evolutionary standpoint I think that's backwards. Overall I think having a past isn't a dealbreaker or necessarily a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:40 PM
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Interesting. I'm about 22 and realising I need to fix my jealousy issue. I think a short while ago I'd lean towards option 1 as well, I hope soon I can be more comfortable around slutty people. Thank you for your insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:36 AM
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I think on one level its a byproduct of being close to women in my late teens, and also because I still see women on some level as pure and innocent, whereas I can not avoid the truth that men are degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:33 AM
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The basis of my question really ends up as, what matters more virginity/purity or love?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:30 AM
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Thanks yeah it's just a matter of becoming comfortable with the fact that women are sexual beings with their own desires. And maybe figuring out what a woman would like in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:28 AM
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I think communication is important. It's not like married women weren't into Elvis. I'm not evene talking about openly engaging in it, I'm talking about not letting jealousy push me into shaming someone close to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:17 AM
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Thanks. I think it'd be humanising, radfems get treated like they're flat 2D stereotypical misandrists but they're people and I'd imagine alot of them are people who were hurt by men in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:13 AM
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Its not that she'd need to have a celebrity crush to be happy. It's that she's be upset if she was shamed and repressed for it. It's not like I wouldn't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:10 AM
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What, being comfortable at the prospect of a loving wife who also thinks some celebrities are hot? That seems pretty normal and better than a wife who resents our relationship and probably would be inclined to look for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:55 AM
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I tend to try and remember that women are humans and thus just as stupid, degenerate and awkward as me, or atleast have the capacity to be. I think it'd probably be good to make friends with someone who's a rad fem too. But just in general knowing women helps. Hearing women talk about their boyfriends doesn't make me jealous so much any more. I sort of find joy vicariously in their love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:44 AM
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Thats based as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:27 AM
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Logically it would be more encouraging. But the problem is that much of my perspective of women comes from believing they are pure innocent souls and putting them on a pedestal, fooling myself into believing we're more than slightly intelligent monkeys. I think I should maybe make a slutty friend, someone who I could maybe talk to about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:13 AM
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To bring balance to the manosphere we must find love with the womanspehere. The only way we can win is by being at peace with women not by being angry with them. What's the win condition here, for women to be constrained by societal pressure? So I have a wife who resents me and feels like she's got to repress her feelings. I think I'd prefer a wife who spent her teen years having casual sex, enjoys using a dildo larger than my penis and fantasises about celebrities on occasion, but loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:08 AM
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Well it usually goes something like this. Sarah (fake name just for clarity) mentions her boyfriend, Sarah mentions having had sex with her boyfriend, I get jealous because she's having sex and I am not. Then I am unable to stop thinking about it for a while. The very topic makes me uncomfortable because it often leads to finding out someone's had sex. I think a lot of it may be tied to acknowledging women like sex, and like being sexual, and that it makes me acknowledge there's something that l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:49 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:37 PM
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Yeah tbh I'm not really sure how to go about that haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:37 PM
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I think something I really need is to get over sexual jealousy and become more comfortable not just with regular sexually active people but also slutty people. Part of me really wants to be comfortable around sex as a topic again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:33 PM
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Thats really sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:31 PM
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Q4All: Do you think relations between men and women would be better had porn never been invented?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:27 AM
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I think subs like this do a lot of focusing too much on everything with relationships. Overthinking is kinda a vibe killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:16 PM
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Really getting more "social media is a weapon to breed anger and destroy society"-pilled by the day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:09 PM
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I don't get how people started calling 30 "the wall". Women in their 30s, especially women in their 30's that take care of themselves don't look much different. I know there's reproductive reasons but even then, people treat it like a women goes from wrinkless godess at 29 to haggard old woman at 12AM on 30th her birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:35 PM
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What's physically attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:51 PM
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Good luck hope you pass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:40 PM
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If you Dm them to me I don't think that would get you banned 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:48 PM
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I find most people are beautiful in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:59 PM
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I've been considering this too but not as a practice gf. The first person I dated was initially ugly to me, but as we dated she became very beautiful to me. But definitely not as some practice gf, that's probably a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:56 PM
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Where do I meet easy women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:07 AM
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Im on Jordan Petersons side for this one. If you're an incel there's probably something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:12 PM
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I can deeply relate. I only used to feel led on or used at my most stupid and pathetic. Now I realise those women were doing a great service to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:52 PM
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It is international men's day and I think circumcision is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:34 PM
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Thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:56 PM
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Wanted to for a while but now I dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:40 PM
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Any advice on making more friends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:38 PM
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Howv so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:32 PM
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What's so wrong about being attracted to a woman who's dedicated to not letting overwhelming emotions stop her from delivering a sentence 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:12 AM
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The more I back away from porn the more I've become attracted to non-physical things. When the judge for the Darrell Brooks trial teared up while sentencing him I suddenly felt this new attraction to her, I've never felt that way before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:34 AM
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Make sure you're not just lost in the horror. I was too. Just as some people may come to believe that all men are violent misogynists because they hear a lot about violent misogynists, it's easy to see relationships as bad news. You gotta look to the real world. The people I know irl don't worry about all this stuff on here. It leads me to believe that we're the blind leading the blind. A lot of terrible things happen, murders, terrorist attacks, war. But most people wake up in the morning and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:27 AM
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There is almost nothing on this sub that seems to match up with what I see in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:30 PM
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That's beautiful. I think this sub is so full of fighting that it disregards so much of the focus, relationships and love. They're beautiful things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:28 PM
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Sorry to hear that hope they were't too expensive. I'm getting better at talking to women, been I guess practicing today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:45 PM
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I've been practicing it's been going well. I typically compliment women on something to do with competency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:52 PM
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Yeah thats some good advice. I'm getting better at it. I'm sort of practicing. It actually led to a really nice conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:27 PM
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Any other guys have a fear of accidentally being creepy? When I talk to women I get very concerned I'm crossing a line when I compliment them, I typically stick to complimenting them on their choices and that's worked out well so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:20 PM
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People
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:33 PM
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Not sure about that, everything seens pretty genuine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:16 PM
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So treat others genuinely and not transactionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:58 PM
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Thanks. I don't exactly think that'll be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:32 PM
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Thanks. Yeah meeting people is the thing I need to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:27 PM
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I guess my next move should be to make more friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:12 PM
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Perhaps I do not crave love, perhaps I only crave friendship 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:11 PM
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Yeah I suppose that should be obvious. It's just a lot more subtle than I expected. Part of me hopes that the finding love from initial innocent friendship is less of a myth than people make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:25 PM
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From cursory observation relationships seem to be a lot more like friendships than I anticipated. Does anyone else feel the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:17 PM
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Thank you that's very sweet of you to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:10 PM
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Thank you. I think if I work on my life, I think it'll treat me kindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:00 PM
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That's good to hear, glad you're doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:58 PM
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Yeah there's a wide difference that makes it impossible to to quantify what women like. Thanks for the advice. You sound pretty fun, hope you're well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:50 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I think socislising more is a great baseline advice too. I'll be sure to give it a try, though admittedly I already try to thinking about that stuff all together. I see it a plague on my mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:47 AM
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Considering your perspective I'd like to ask if you can propose some advice for these men? I hope I don't come across as hostile I'm genuinely interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:37 AM
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Haha. To be serious, I agree confidence must come from within, and from inner strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:23 AM
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Yeah it sucks. This place seemed to be kinder a while ago but maybe its warped perspective. It makes asking advice tricky. Still kinda unsure of what attracts women, because I get a gazillion answers in every direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:22 AM
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Thanks for the spot. Yeah wouldn't be hard to get my comment accidentally deleted especially with my username.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:13 AM
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It's a c*pe. I was the same way once. It's to cope with the reality in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:09 AM
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No we're not! Take it back. Apologise. Please 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:05 AM
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Good luck. Hope it goes great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:01 AM
1

You watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:59 AM
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Thanks for your response, it's very helpful. I can see what you mean about being thoughtful to women they're sexual disinterested in, witnessed the opposite mentality in life a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:56 AM
2

Thanks for your input, I'm sorry you were cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:22 AM
2

What is your ideal husband/boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:36 AM
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I want to meet a woman who I can really relate to, someone I can engage with beyond merely sexually. Maybe play videogames sometime. Someone who's in the same industry maybe so we have a similar passion. I'd want for her never to have to work. I'd say a 50/50ish divison of domestic labour. Ideally I'd like to be able to do most of the house work. I don't care extremely about looks. Loyalty is a must, I'm not going to just be chill with bad behaivour and I'm out at the first indication of violenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:29 AM
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Thank you for your input. I really agree. Personally I aim to be more like this. I think contolling emotions is something I and a lot of other people would benefit from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:04 AM
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Yeah I think that's a good idea. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:08 AM
1

Thanks for your input. That's a really good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:04 AM
2

Thanks, I think I understand your point. I'll need to look into this book, you seem very passionate about it which is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:57 AM
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Thank you for your reply. That's something I've noticed in a lot of my female friends over the years that they actively call out BS even if it could cause them discomfort or inconvenience. It's a very admirable quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:55 AM
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Thank you for your response. I spent a lot of time being actively anti all things religion as a teen. As an adult I've come to realise there is lessons even atheists can learn from religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:52 AM
2

I suppose you're right. Either way I need to start picking up more responsibility. Thank you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:39 AM
1

That's real sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:36 AM
2

Part of it is that I was a fuck-up the last two years and almost failed, so I think as things pickup I should spend every day at college. But in honesty part of me is scared. Thanks for your advice, I think I need to grow up and either get a job or commit to being at college every day. Therapy sounds like it'd do me good. I'm not entirely sure if I'm eligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:35 AM
2

I'm sorry, I'm not wise enough to answer your question. But that is a beautiful idea. I hope it goes well for you, it sounds like he's a lucky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:22 AM
2

I mean to work and do college at the same time. I'm very excited to get a job or internship in the industry next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:13 AM
2

Yeah soz shoulda been more specific. I'm 21, 22 early next year. Still live with mom. My main idea is to get a job as well as do chores around the house more. It's an awkward time for me, as I'm in the final year of my bachelors prompting me to consider if a job is something I'm wise enough to handle right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:07 AM
2

Spent 3 years as an incel. 3 years getting better but realised my immaturity is the root cause of my problem and while I'm not really much of an incel anymore, I'm still kinda a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:02 AM
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Vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:49 AM
1

Yeah I should be more social and just exist instead of going stale behind a desk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:33 AM
1

Thanks, I appreciate the advice. But I typically avoid that kinda stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:23 AM
2

Yeah that stuff can suck. I just wanna go back to having a healthy relationship with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:22 AM
2

Is there a pill I can take that'll just make me a normie?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:16 AM
1

Inceltears
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:14 AM
1

100% feel this. So glad where I'm at has 0 group work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:40 PM
3

Oh for real. I quit porn a while back and realised how fucked up it was. It effected my view of women, which I didn't notice, but I think that might be because I grew up with it. Being away from it is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:57 PM
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Haha thanks. I grew up with a bad outlook on all this stuff. So a lot of this is new to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:55 PM
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I have a no clue what high beta game means tbh. I don't get the alpha fux beta bux mentality tho. Like humans are a sorta monogamous species.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:53 PM
2

I wonder if that's some sort of evolutionary tactic to get people to find mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:48 PM
1

Thats a relief. Thanks for reassuring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:47 PM
1

Yeah, it sucks I think it aided my fucked up mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:45 PM
1

I feel kinda guilty for it lol. I feel kind of intrusive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:44 PM
1

Scared they will be attacked by a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:40 PM
3

I've been kinda out the healthy human behaivour game lately; is it normal to feel all sweet inside when you see people in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:39 PM
1

If I had a sexless marriage with a woman I truly loved I'd probably be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:32 PM
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Yeah it's weird how much relationships get treated like a ball and chain, I don't understand that trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:31 PM
2

Good luck hope it turns our okay. That's fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:30 PM
0

Just making sure before a celebrate being sober, you know, caffeine and all. Yeah porns fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:28 PM
2

That's the dream. I've been on a self improvement rush lately and I found that talking to a woman who is invested in the same artistic medium as me is deeply attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:27 PM
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Haha I never considered that. I see women's complaints as blessings. Gives us windows into who we could be and what they would like from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:22 PM
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No men and women both are beautiful emotionally, physically and spiritually. I'd love to be married to either a man or a woman someday. I wouldn't be able to choose which sex to stay attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:21 PM
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Part of me still feels like women don't like men, and just put up with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:14 PM
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For the longest time I thought women disliked sex and merely put up with it. To some degree I still feel like women generally dislike men and merely put up with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:11 PM
0

Okay so we count porn. Just making sure, does soda count?.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:01 PM
1

Yeah I think that's really important. I think a lot of guys don't know what they want. When I was younger I'd lament not being able to have casual sex but I don't even want that, I wanna find love lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:31 PM
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