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Not me. I'm just asocial 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:33 AM
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My theory: Porn relies on variety and novelty to provide hyper stimulation. Men as a sex are down bad when it comes to porn. Many still want this hyper stimulation and so they cheat by using porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:44 AM
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Inferred context from the images, Sydney Sweeney is very beautiful but she's detached from the audience as a celebrity. The second woman is in a familiar office setting so she feels connected to us, and thus more approachable. She's also beautiful in a different way, less super model beauty and more girl next door beauty. Which I prefer personally, and it seems zoomer men prefer overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:41 AM
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Guys have different tastes sometimes. I genuinely am not attracted to alot of these people, not out of some bitter sourgrapes mentality, just genuinely not into them. I think the majority of women I know irl are more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:07 AM
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If we can just vibe and get along effortlessly that's the dream. But that's all women I guess. I suppose I want a wife who I can chill and game with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:52 PM
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Alotta guys genuinely just want a bangmaid which is gross. Bangmaids just a really good term for it. Sunny really made the best term for it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:52 PM
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Thanks but i think your comments a little bit saner haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:27 PM
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Thanks I suppose. Maybe someday men and women will live in harmony.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:20 PM
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The answer to misandry is compassion. Misandry fuels misogyny and misogyny fuels misandry, causing a feedback loop. Going to another country won't solve the problem. The time of comparing fairness, bickering over who has it worse and talking over each other should come to an end. To defeat misandry men should make women feel heard and address their issues, and women will reciprocate. I'm not saying let them walk all over you, but be kind and open to them. Have a stern back bone, but a warm heart…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:36 PM
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Maybe. I've been texting some feminists online they seem pretty cool on a person level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:50 AM
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1% - 2% is insane dude. Like it'd only take a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:52 PM
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I doubt very often, bears are usually gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:42 PM
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I doubt that'd work out, bears are usually gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:39 PM
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The gender war will only end if the fringe gender warriors can learn to coexist with the opposite sex like people do irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:38 PM
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Alot of men, the ones who fall into the redpill trap, don't get out enough and don't meaningfully engage with women as peers so they don't really understand women. I have had female friends so I know they don't all hate all men. If this is about my flair, that's a mistake and it keeps getting set to blackpill because of my username. I usually change it to no pill. But I'd say it's believing life is hopeless and that meaningful dating is impossible for normal men. I'd say I'm more whitepilled, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:31 AM
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Nah its just a fringe of very online feminism, they are self described radfems but they're only a twitter/reddit thing. The biggest problem generated from this, is that so many men assume all women think that way. Fresh and Fit are a podcast with similar, attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:19 AM
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I think the problem of a lot of Feminism is that there's a noticable cohort of feminists who have the same kind of mentality as posters on incel forums, but targetted towards men. I've seen posts of happy couple moments with women in the replies ascribing some sort of narcisstic evil underlying motive to the man's actions. Don't get me wrong, men have this mindset too, you'll see it in these braindead redpill influencer circles like the TaterTots or Fresh and Fit fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:08 AM
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Yeah you're probably right. I'd be more inclined to join if I could tell the future. I see genuine existential threats in the future of my country, but I don't know if that'll ever happen. I don't wanna die for bullshit geopolitical buisness interests. Is that cute lol, I always see it as a little weird and I guess creepy for a guy like me to do that. Either way I'm emailing them (breast cancer charity) tommorow. I appreciate your advice, you seem pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:50 PM
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Thanks haha, I'm surprised people remember me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:39 PM
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Yeah my list of fears around it so far are, hating it, dying and getting caught up in some sort of abuse of human rights. For the moment I might step out of my comfort zone in smaller steps, theres this breast cancer charity I was considering volunteering for on weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:39 PM
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Getting back into that weird mindset I get where I consider joining the military. Would probably create progression issues in my career. Not sure if I should or not. Not really thinking about it much but it gets on my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:54 PM
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Shes not that fat lol. Definitely going with fat, I couldn't raise a child just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:42 AM
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Theres a lot of shades of grey there. How fat are you talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:39 AM
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I'd need to know more abour them. People's worth can't just be boiled down and determined from stats about them like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:35 AM
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Kinda a piece of shit but just kinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:30 AM
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Neither. There's no immorality to either and not wanting to date either doesn't mean I hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:29 AM
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Sometimes the only healthy thing is to cut ties. I'd be thankful for the times we had together, and always be there to pickup where we left off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:24 AM
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Gotta look for a new job in January, I find the jobsearching process odd. I feel a kind of weird similarity to dating or looking for dates, anyone else feel similarly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:30 AM
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I tend to hear that but never experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:27 PM
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Getting into this reverse-negging thing (I'd think to call it pozzing but that means something already, and it's fucked up). I just really hype up women I'm friends only with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:20 PM
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I feel you. My parents were alocholics when I was a kid and would argue and scream at each other when I was trying to sleep. I've sort of grown up with a distate for alcohol since.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:00 PM
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For sure. How am I possibly to meet people out there if I'm never out there. I just don't know where to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:31 PM
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I think I need to fully let go of the belief that I'm unsuitable for dating. It really frustrates me seeing posts about much worse guys being successful, while I hold myself back. Maybe I need to graduate to just avoiding dating. I've got a short film to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:49 PM
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Thanks we haven't spoken today but I hope me and her can still set something up she seems cool. I hope she's just busy or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:03 PM
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I'd say distance yourself from dating to show yourself you can have a happy life without it, then you know you lose nothing when rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:29 AM
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Thanks, she seems to really like me. Maybe it'll all work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:28 AM
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Matched with someone on Tinder and got her number. we're all gonna make it bros. Never give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:56 PM
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I need to move out of my parents house, get actually passively muscular (as opposed to only being able to see it when flexing), get a job beyond entry level work at a film company.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:20 PM
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No sense dating a woman if I can't be an adequet boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:21 PM
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I guess I prefer more femme guys, usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:19 PM
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It sucks because sometimes your brain really wants to go the first way but your heart needs to go thr second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:28 AM
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No I'm intentionally being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:04 PM
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No clue about weight they blur the profiles. Maybe I got the rizz or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:40 PM
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Yeah it seems like all the women on there are pretty sexually charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:57 PM
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Been using Tinder, not really into any of these ladies but it's nice to get likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:42 PM
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Number 1 every fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:41 PM
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3/10
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:40 PM
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I guess you can be whatever you want the one question is what do you want to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:49 PM
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What about dumping? because Im gonna need to go to the bathroom at somepoint before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:28 PM
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You can be an emo now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:27 PM
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Drug addiction. I hope they get better but it would undermine the relationship far too much. and Insane political ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:43 AM
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Q4Redpill: what's one way society is unfair to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:12 PM
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The "But you can do pushups, start with wall pushups" guy on YouTube shorts really made me see excercise in a new pespective, those videos can be super helpdul. Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:50 PM
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I want to get into running some more active friends want me to run with them on the weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:49 PM
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Sick of being just shy of what I could achieve if I knuckled down. Starting to excercise more seriously, and get into running. Still not going to a gym, calisthenic stuff. Anyone got any recommendations?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:00 AM
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Yes they like self respecting guys who are able to tease them and be playful as opposed to complete doormats. They want guys who treat them like normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:45 PM
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"Girls like guys who are less nice", and then I'd just rationalise the behaivour of normal guys as somehow disrespectful like teasing or having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:02 PM
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I feel like I'm programmed backwards. I used to think women hated being approached, talking to strangers and being asked questions but they really like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:55 PM
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As someone who was that guy, a guy who villainises men for having standards and not being a doormat is a huge redflag. Not enough people see that pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:51 PM
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I need to get my stamina up seriously. I need to be able to run like 5k every morning and hold a plank for 5 minutes. Im tired of being comically weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:25 AM
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That's a neat trick. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:00 PM
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Gonna try getting into running, I work on a computer so im inside a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:39 PM
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Real af. I used to think it was a horrible idea and creepy but its nice to meet and talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:29 PM
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I dont wanna break my stuff, but yeah going out would be good. I find asking questions is actually more helpful than I thought, I assumed it was annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:23 PM
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Good stuff in here. I think a lot of guys fail from desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:18 PM
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Q4BluePill: what is the best advice you'd give to guys struggling, like incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:07 PM
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First option. I kinda like the whole not having sex for a while thing. Was like thst with my ex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:29 PM
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Yeah dude you're doomed not to have kids with super materialistic chicks. Not too tragic a curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:19 PM
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Women are pretty simple to get along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:15 PM
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That sucks lol, personally I'd find that more attractive. I paint too but with digital paint lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:30 PM
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Considering looking back into gun club memberships. Sport shooting sounds fun, anyone here have experience with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:17 PM
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Why wouldn't they want to cuddle? It's all very alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:36 PM
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Started solidsnake-maxxing. It works pretty good. Just repeat the most interesting part of their sentence back to them in the form of a question. Unironically made a friend doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:51 PM
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Come on a dinghy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:47 PM
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I think I want to learn to flirt. I'm not sure what it really is but my attempt at work went well. She seemed really receptive and then was really friendly to me the rest of the day. Q4All: what is flirting, do you like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:40 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:06 PM
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I think this sub has helped me reflect on many things I once believed and realise flaws in my previous beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:03 AM
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Its a long shot I guess. But it is kinda fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:36 PM
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I think a lot of RPers have the problem of putting the cart before the horse. They seem to want a relationship to fall into their lap and see dating as a hurdle they have to overcome to get to a relationship. When it seems like it should the be the opposite. You meet people and date to have fun, and relationships blossom from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:29 PM
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I'd probably put them in a room with a woman and encourage them to approach. Redpillers, especially on here seem to increasingly think approaching a woman is socially taboo and criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:38 AM
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And what did I lose? I still have my job, and my hobbies and my freedom. I even still have my friendship with her. Approaching didn't cause any problems, it was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:26 PM
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I don't think that's right. Talking to the friend who rejected me yesterday everythings chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:42 PM
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I get it. You gotta lean into the cringe, often I find it's better than I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:48 AM
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This thread's funny. https://www.reddit.com/r/ask/s/rJJq7LryIC Alot of the women are saying "yeah sure it's fine to approach" And the guys are saying "approaching is creepy". It's a self defeating ideology. Blackpillers and redpillers who believe this are more dedicated to it than radfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:38 AM
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The core benefit of a lot of online incel stuff is being able to blame romantic problems on the rest of the world. The problem is it's self isolating, making you less attractive to women and thus making you more resentful.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 06:10 AM
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Im surprised its still up this sub seems widely seen as an incel sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:01 AM
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Wokeup from a dream I successfully got a Woman's number and then watched a jet explode. Maybe my minds trying to cheer me up from yesterday's rejection. It is weird that this sorta stuff would show up in my dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:48 AM
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I have fun in society. I make film projects with people who are becoming my friends. It's great. Lifes what you make it.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:08 PM
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My job I think has been a big help. Still single but eh that's not what my life is about. I think some guys kinda disconnect from their coworkers.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:06 PM
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"Man takes rejection well, must be a chick" c'mon man don't make us look bad like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:24 PM
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Thanks, I'm doing a whole lot better than last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:23 PM
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May I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:42 PM
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That's kinda my attitude to it. Im glad I told her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:41 PM
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For real I think that's a result primarily of redpill fearmongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:07 PM
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Dick snipping is as much dads as it is moms. The "I can't talk to girls, they'll take it all wrong" is as much a result of redpill fearmongering as a result of actual cases of that happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:05 PM
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Told my co-worker I like her. She let me down easy. She's real swell, whoever she ends up with is gonna be a real lucky guy. It's alot less awkward than I expected. Looking foward to enjoying the friendzone, I'm think it worked out for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:02 PM
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Ignoring works too. I just think being angry at them fuels more conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:29 PM
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This is why it's important for men to be nice (but not doormats) to radfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:41 PM
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I haven't seen my dad in about 12 years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:54 PM
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When my parents were together they were drunks who'd yell and scream ar each other while I tried to sleep. When they split up it was easier to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:40 PM
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I'm no pill this was influenced by interacting with female friends and colleagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:37 PM
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Yeah it's been nice I wish I started in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:06 PM
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The kind of drawing that tends to include nude models. But really it can be drawing anything from life I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:06 PM
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Where's the perfect faces come in, I am drawing regular people. It's important to draw real normal people because the goal of the excercise is to study people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:05 PM
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I am literally only attracted to plain janes, but I cannot find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:50 PM
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I'd recommend life drawing to any guy that's insecure about his looks, especially about his penis size. The greatest lesson I've learned from the last few days is that I look fairly normal, if a little overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:45 PM
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I like Heavy Traffic, it's flawed and unrealistic, but it is very personally relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:39 PM
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Thanks I hadn't considered books about communication. Thats a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:14 PM
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Trawling through their post history it seems like it's just a typical but slightly extreme redpill account. https://preview.redd.it/sde7k8q0rkvb1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4e5e00f5a99635e4211410c519f5ba2a44a5c10f
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:30 PM
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The concept that people get less attractive as they age is true, but the redpillers take it to such an extreme it's practically an exaggeration. Theres no nuance. I don't envy women, they've got to deal with periods, menopause, the looming concern of sexual assualt, and general sexism. But even then I don't think they have a better time at dating either, with so many guys wanting them only for their body, and a minority willing to violate their consent for it. When it comes to dating it seems li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:17 PM
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I used to follow this account, I always had my reservations about thier posts, but this is clear to me, they're training men to be miserable by instilling paranoia into anxious socially challenged men, who already fear women a little. https://preview.redd.it/mdkosfydnkvb1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1810056f6d575740ce48824a998852939050067a
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:09 PM
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This makes the subreddit asymmetrical, as the crux of the redpill argument is that looks are important. This effectively bans the core disagreement of the two pills from being debated on a debate subreddit. This will only push people away from the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:50 AM
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I guess a guy who doesnt hate women, but doesn't know how to appeal to them, and doesn't know what will be seen as inappropriate, so avoids doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:47 PM
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Never take her for granted, treat her like the special person she is to you and do what you can to put a smile on her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:39 PM
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My flairs glitched. Either way I optimistic mindset thst men should approach and compliment women more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:13 PM
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Looking at myself yeah that kinda checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:04 PM
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It's too late I'm already building a city in Florida.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:52 PM
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I do think this is semi intentional. I think the redpill buisness men have a vested interest in preventing guys from finding success or ascending. I think you see this in advice like don't talk to women about this stuff, and don't ask women out. And because this is an online thing people parrot it to others spreading the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:48 PM
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Every time I write about talking to women and asking women out theres atleast one comment that its too dangerous and that it's viewed as bad. My favourite specific example is Tim Pool unironically saying a guy would be treated as a sexual harasser for complimenting a female coworkers dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:39 PM
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So much of this sub seems to see dating through a hyper pessimistic lense, like many redpill sites, I've been told so many things are out of line that plainly aren't that I continue to find things that are perfectly okay. Looking around office relationships seem to be a lot less taboo than I expected. So I'm going full Walt Disney, and I'm off to woo one of the swell dames in the ink and paint department. Jokes aside I think the redpill is it's own worst enemy, they seem more hellbent on enforci…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:20 PM
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I tend to be, but they tend not to be so attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:14 PM
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That's why my flair is set to no pill. I'll have to disagree with that, ever since self identifying as an incel I've found that my life has gotten a lot better. My relationship with myself has improved as well as my relationship with women. It doesn't seem to hamper me in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:22 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I was the same way, now I'm chiller being single. Fomo is a hell of a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:47 AM
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I'm not really here to kill and eat a woman. I more want to form a connection with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:46 AM
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For real. I got on bumble recently and there was basically no one there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:44 AM
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I appreciate the concern but I should be no pill. I keep changing it to nopill and it jumps back to blackpill. Presumably it's a glitch or maybe the mods are trolling me lol. I'd say my self esteem is in a pretty good place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:42 AM
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Thats the mindset changer right there. When I realised the chatting was the fun, that's when I got into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:07 PM
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This response is sub-optimal because a lot of the guys who believe this, genuinely believe this. They aren't approaching women because they think they'll be ruined for it, and they believe that because they aren't approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:06 PM
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Read old texts between me and a girl. Oh my god I was so cringe in highschool, I want to go back in time and punch myself in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:58 PM
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Its so nice not having to watch my history and make sure things are tucked away either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:45 PM
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I can't do quick yet, I'm very slow and deliberate. But maybe some day Richard Williams' advice will have me drawing better than cartoon characters. It's a lot of fun, I've found myself picking artsy stuff more and more over videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:34 PM
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For the first time since I quit porn I've been looking at pictures of naked women (for life drawing). It's odd how much context influences sexuality, these pictures don't sexually stimulate me at all like porn did. It's really showing me how twisted my perception of the female body was, before a naked woman would be shameful or dirty, but these pictures are the essentially the same and it's just normal. There's no feeling of sinfulness or corruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:21 PM
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That's kinda my point. Even if she was initially concerned by the end of the interaction she was smiling and said she hopes we'll see each other round.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:47 PM
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She seemed pretty happy to meet me initially so I think it's not too bad a situation just some concern. She's 2 departments away so we don't talk much less see each other. I think my only hope is stumbling into each other in the lobby lol. But if we never interact again that's no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:29 PM
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She seemed a little uncomfortable. She asked if I worked there and seemed a bit concerned in her facial expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:24 PM
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It seems like there's a rift in the manosphere that no one acknowledges. You get guys who push that the world is unfair and that it's over for sub-5'10 men. But then you get guys like Jordan Peterson who's advice for incels is essentially "fix yourself, it's a you problem."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:59 PM
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The manosphere seems to be just as (if not more) involved in spreading the idea that men should never ever approach women and that it's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:52 PM
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I was kinda close at the front door beause I turned the corner to the door as she was closing it behind her and we hadn't seen each other. Any tension there disappated the moment we were both inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:48 PM
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I think alot of the problem comes from the unnatural situation dating apps put us in, where we're free to pick from different faces. Women and men irl seem really looksmatched. Also men need to get better in some areas, like cutting out porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:46 PM
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It finally happened I made a woman feel uncomfortable, I walked into the office behind her and I guess she thought I was some dude trying to talk to her following her into her workplace. Turned out well, she just asked if I work there and I said yes. Turns out shes a new hire working on the floor below me and we've never met. I hope we see each other again, she seemed nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:43 PM
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Nah I'd want a wife who'd hate me forever if I cheated on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:12 PM
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Got back on a dating app. God they seem to suck, I only swiped right like 4 times the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:55 PM
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"Ideally a stoner, drinker and/or smoker" He's talking about encouraging self harm. He just doesn't want a fat girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:35 PM
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"like I just wanna enable all the bad habits" It's the same impulse of encouraging self destruction and dependency.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:27 PM
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When the guys fetish is pushing you into self destruction via enabling. Yeah kinda, a little bit maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:13 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ld2g49rlk7ub1.jpeg?width=1073&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=278b4f849b3e1ecbb94b7b144fa29b3c4273c6af I found this on Twitter, a perplexing amount of the women seem to be attracted to this. Can they not see that this is a feeder who wants women a woman he can make dependent as he destroys her via enabling. Q4W Is it obvious what this guy really wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:07 PM
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Thats tragic and depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:48 PM
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I think a lot more guys, especially redpill/blackpill guys need a project. Personally Im working on a short film, but it could be anything. It seems like some guys only goal is chasing women. I found doing this sort of stuff helps reduce fomo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:43 PM
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Tor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:56 AM
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The homogenised global culture of the post internet world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:04 PM
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I think our culture is too sad and angry. We should be chillin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:28 PM
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From the images I've seen she looks pretty normal. People thought she was a nurse because of how she looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:05 AM
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I saw they were doing an all female ghostbusters and I knew I had to put my foot down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:26 AM
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Something alot of people don't know about Chris Chan is that he has a girlfriend, and if Chris Chan can find love pretty much anyone can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:22 AM
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Im considering creating something to donate to a free filmmaking related assets site, but I feel weird telling people about it. I get kinda embarrassed explaining the passion behind wanting to make it easier for people to create what they want. Is getting embarrassed over passions a common thing or is this another one of my unique neuroticisms?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:37 PM
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Could always be a feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:29 PM
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Thanks I have some ways to go. But i wanna get back to being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:33 PM
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Damn and I thought mine was long at nip height
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:32 PM
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Finally gave in and cut my hair, im no longer all split ends. Its making me consider getting a hinge or bumble account to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:34 PM
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Depends, if its a new relationship especially I'd look to break up. Seems like thats a projection of a guilty mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:29 PM
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I find Bateman likable because some of his flaws especially earlier on like jealousy over buisness card opinions are really relatable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:50 PM
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I should probably get therapy but I feel like im not really messed up enough to need it. Just working on stuff myself so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:41 PM
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Yeah, a lot of people like the comfort of blaming others for their problems. Faking confidence works great, because you start off not believing in yourself, but very quickly see how well you're doing. Having a job helps too, a title and purpose really help a man, and I'd imagine women too. A little push like that works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:23 PM
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There's a cohort of the most pathetic men who are controlled chiefly by their penis. Their thoughts revolve around "smashing box" and "muh dick". And when these men stumble upon any guy who isn't like that they see that guy as some sort of beta. But they're the ones being pulled through life on a leash and that leash is their johnson.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:13 PM
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I'm building a career in film, I really love what I do and I want to climb that ladder to create things people love. I found alot of my fomo around sex died when I started getting interested in it. I'd like to be a director some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:10 PM
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Suprised by the amount of guys who aren't like that or by how difficult it is in practice? I'm a little unsure of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:07 PM
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Huh doesn't sound that hard to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:56 PM
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Yeah it would be pretty sudden to ask at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:00 PM
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Im not really actively searching. Just trying to improve myself so I can in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:59 PM
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Yeah good point. I need to focus on weight loss too. I gained about 20lbs over covid and need to take steps to fix it, weird thing is I seem to have gained way less judging by how I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:20 PM
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Spoke to a woman at the convenience store today kinda regret not asking for her number or something, It's getting easier lol. Deadset on getting a haircut on my day off next week. It's time to ascend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:16 PM
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Sounds like alot of redditors type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:13 PM
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Still interesting to see what their answer is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:50 PM
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AskWomen is the shittiest subreddit. Can't ask straight women about their ideal guy because it "needlessly excludes" lesbians. Rules written and enforced by only the most hardcore autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:57 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:02 PM
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Just jerk off without porn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:42 PM
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Please refrain from linking in the title. We can't click it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:58 PM
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Yeah worst case I dont see her and we see each other next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:00 PM
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Thanks Im pretty sure it's a platonic thing lol. Thats what I was intending.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:56 PM
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Thanks its been good so far. Asked a woman I know if she wants to hang out this weekend and hoping we can set that up at some point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:05 PM
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They don't but they don't tend to call guys bad if they haven't interacted with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:40 PM
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Nope but they can read behaivour
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:34 PM
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Women do like nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:23 PM
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Bingo. Trying this, reducing game time and focusing more on constructive hobbies. Maybe I need to do a social media detox.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:36 PM
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Friends mostly. College school and work. Thought I want to get into volunteering more and other social hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:07 PM
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Thanks. Maybe Im okay, but Im not very good maybe benign, slightly good to some people I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:48 PM
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Yeah. Im not. Better than before but still not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:07 PM
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Lol that seems like a bad idea. It would seem kinda spiteful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:56 PM
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Thats what makes it so helpful. It regurgitates the concensus. It helps me see what's commonly appropriate better than asking someone or a small group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:08 PM
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The robot has no financial incentive for me to continue to be inable to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:06 PM
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Asked coworker out. She said she's up to going out but only as friends. Ngl feeling pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:58 PM
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I think but I'm just using it for broad advice. Taking the human element out of romance like that seems like it misses the point of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:39 PM
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Did not specify at work. But the women I said goodmorning to is from the place across the hall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:29 PM
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Well it didn't tell me to neg. But it did tell me to he bold and ask women out on dates asap
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:26 PM
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It's interesting asking chatgpt about things like approaching women, it gives me kinda general view on how the wider world sees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:14 PM
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Someday I'll have to leave too. But not yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:19 PM
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I appreciate your advice but eh I need to ditch soda all together. I drink about 5 liters a day of water so I probably don't need any more fluids lol. With work its a challenge, I wanna be great someday so I need to do more work outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:18 PM
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Same I need to be more assertive in general
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:11 PM
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Q4All: what things would improve your life if you commited to doing them? For example I need to quit soda, read the book I bought earlier this year and work after work as opposed to playing videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:01 PM
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U should read my username
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:16 PM
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What do u mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:06 PM
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Nah stable diffusion was used pretty much instantly and now that photoshop has genAI built in it's even more widely adopted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:38 PM
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If you do generative ai stuff you might have some effect on the industry. We use generative ai stuff here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:49 PM
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Cool, yeah, in my experience it's pretty chill too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:37 PM
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Same, I was kinda intending on using my current job to build a network and reputation. But hopefully it becomes a permenant thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:34 PM
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Nice. I work in film and IT is so important here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:33 PM
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I wonder why lol. Jokes aside I hope it's all going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:31 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:31 PM
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Interesting is is usually same old same old or do you find that changes the pace of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:30 PM
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Nice. Sounds hard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:30 PM
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Q4All: what kind of industry do you work in?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:26 PM
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I'd meet men through friends and be open to meeting guys at good places, and make guys wait for sex. But once I'd found the guy who I trust I'd probably have kinda a crazy sex life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:24 PM
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It's easier to tell yourself it's not meant to be, that society has the problem and that it's over. It's harder to admit you need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:19 PM
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Yeah naturally. Im astounded people are chill at all lol. Thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:58 PM
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Depends on who, friendships perhaps other kinds or relationships. But in general being connected to people usually brings all manner of good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:48 PM
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I'm still sorta in that dumb phase of changing my mindset where small things surprise me. Went up to my coworker and said hi to her expecting it to be awkward and odd but we just hanged out for a bit without it being weird. Literally just talk to people and good things happen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:41 PM
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The black pill seems like a cope. The red pill seems sort of pessimistic and blue pill optimistic. Neither are 100% right it's all in balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:36 PM
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It's weird how normal sex is in the real world, with my ex we waited ages and never really went all the way. I forget that isn't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:43 AM
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I guess thats how they all forget haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:17 AM
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I like my life. My family are nice, I like my work building a career is going great. My coworkers like me, and I'm forming friendships at work. I think I'm in a good place just need to meet more people. I've been considering volunteering on weekends or maybe just saturdays at some sorts of womens issues charity.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 05:37 AM
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Alot of guys forget women in the real world are normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:51 AM
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He belongs to the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:41 PM
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I think it's less the effort and more just fear holding alot of these guys back
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:00 AM
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Yeah it seems like we've gone from "Feminism was good until recently" to "women shouldn't be able to vote". But thats still extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:51 AM
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I think it's the same reason as the blackpill. It's a cope, easier to tell yourself society's broke and it's over than to accept the need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:40 AM
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When I was a kid it seems like redpill was "Society is bad for men in ways, feminism isn't good for men either". Now it seems like so much of it is just soft incel-posting now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:36 AM
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It's not even that, it's the more fringe beliefs like that 80% of women are sleeping with 20% of men, or that most women would cheat with chad, or that women choose betas to fund thier lifestyle while they cheat. I think we'll see a stark increasing in misogny in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:52 AM
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It seems like as of late the line between redpill and blackpill has become incredibly blurred. It seems like a lot of redpill guys fall into patterns of thought that was considered black pilled before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:41 AM
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I think generally keeping it low pressure is the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:31 AM
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Yeah that's how I met my ex. It's pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:20 AM
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"Just believe what I want you to believe" isn't a strong argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:23 AM
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I think guys get the mistaken notion that they're not even allowed to say hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:45 PM
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You can, but if a girl says no it means no and you gotta move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:45 PM
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Let things develop naturally. You don't make friends looking to fuck, you make friends and relationships may or may mot follow. You've gotta play it by ear, ask someone out if you like them, and you think theres potential. If they say no then appreciate the friendship and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:38 PM
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Yeah I'm not saying to go down your friend group hitting on every chick. That's the absurd outcome. Be tactful, asking a woman out doesn't sour your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:28 PM
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I don't think it's a concern for most guys. You've gotta remember to be confident and realise if she says no it isn't the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:23 PM
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Being rejected won't turn a healthy guy into an incel or mass shooter. You've just gotta have a healthy mindset and remember there's plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:20 PM
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I'm just saying while looks can influence things, what changed it most for me was an attitude adjustment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:13 PM
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Making the first move is how it's worked for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:12 PM
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It ain't all skindeep after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:12 PM
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For fucking real, I rarely ever see this said, and often I get stares when I share the same sentiment. But yes, I see more beautiful women in real life than I do on magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:11 PM
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If you're tactful you don't even need to be chad. You may not be successful but no one always is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:10 PM
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I don't mean to discount your experience but as a long haired guy who cut it find the confidence change and appropriate behaivour changed things a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:08 PM
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I blame everyone a little. In the end guys like Tim Pool push an exaggerated version of the world where women freaking our over compliments is apparently normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:06 PM
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You're taking my point to the most absurd outcome, and thus you miss the most important part, it's about tact. You've gotta be tactful about this all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:03 PM
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It's all a numbers game. You only have to get lucky once to win, you have to be unlucky everytime to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:59 PM
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Never in my experience, all the times I've been called creepy I was creepy. Now that I'm not things go over alot smoother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:54 PM
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Yes theres a lot of people pedelling this line, it's funny to see radfems and redpillers pushing the same viewpoint, that any approach of a woman is harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:50 PM
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While being attractive makes it easier not to be seen as creepy, it doesn't mean is creepy to be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:36 PM
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By non creepy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:25 PM
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That's the catch 22. They don't speak to women, so they don't know women are fine with being spoken to, so they keep thinking women hate being spoken too. My problem is while I conciously know its okay I still feel like its inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:13 PM
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A lot of guys hold the belief they're not allowed to interact with women in these spaces (especially with romantic intentions), not knowing that it's perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:16 PM
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Haha, yeah I had a similar experience volunteering way back, all old people. Animal shelter sounds cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:14 PM
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What kinda volunteering? Just wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:35 PM
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Everywhere man. Just talk to women everywhere. It's all about context and nuances, but so long as you can navigate the situation. You can ask women out anywhere. Think of meeting people less like hunting for something specific, and more like static electricity, most of the time it's generated by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:26 PM
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Just talk to women. Go up to them and say hi, and maybe something about the weather. That's all you gotta do just say hi to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:12 PM
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Women with bodyhair. Not sure which category this fits in but it really should be in normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:50 PM
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The concept of assisting a woman in making the mistake of getting with me seems immoral. I think the better goal is to become a man worthy of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:37 PM
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Q4Men & Redpill Would you rather live in a world that's very sexist to women or mildly sexist to men? This is purely a hypothetical and not at all supposed to be some sort of rhetoric or gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:38 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:02 AM
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Ah I see lol. Yeah I think I can make it on my own. Buying a rope isn't in my plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:58 AM
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I'm only a little autistic but I think I can make it. I struggle to see what would breach reddit TOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:53 AM
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I think a lot of my problems are a result of not being grown up, and I don't mean to shift blame, but I think my upbringing contributed a lot to that. When my parents split up my life became going to school and staying home. When my mother's angry I'm told I do nothing around the house, but when I want to help I'm told I can't help. It's an odd predicament, but I guess I gotta stop holding out hope for the normal way. So I've gotta teach myself to grow up. Anyone else in this sorta predicament?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:47 AM
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I'm glad we're just quoting movies today.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:39 PM
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It was a strange movie. It's sorta about a guy finding closure in a relationship be ran away from and I guess how he views this girl. In the end he considers walking out on her again, but in the end he decides to get back together. His whole character's kinda interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:30 PM
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We played cards. She dyed her hair pink. She seems pretty chill. We've been jokey back and forth a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:28 PM
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I guess it probably needs more context. It means why care about one woman when all women have vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:23 PM
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All women have vaginas, it's from a part in a movie in which a guy considers leaving a woman he loved and walked out on when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:21 PM
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I wanna see what peoples responses to the quote would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:14 PM
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Q4All "If there was one thing we learned back then that's still true now, it's that if you turn a woman upside down, they all look alike. So why bother?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:09 PM
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Im not sure if I count but I think it's sweet. Most women are good people. I think it's unfortunate that men are more likely to not do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:30 PM
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Starting to realise I stress drink water. 3.4liters so far. Q4All: have you done this or known someone who does?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:26 PM
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Gay guys are like that often in my experience. I've talked to guys who seem to just because they can't get pregnant they seem to think they can't get sti's either. But that's also probably just a Grindr thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:06 AM
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I find myself in a similar situation. It's crazy how much mindset can make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:37 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/uiuyqgo9s4rb1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d499a2a02819cdda84fb9e7cd64626aff1fd68e6 I think this is incredibly telling of the truth of the situation we find ourselves in. Alot of guys in this internet space think women hate their precense and that's not true. I think this is the root cause of why so many men are checked out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:32 AM
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The weather's getting colder. We're like spiders coming indoors for Autumn. I think it's odd that incel stuff is so heavily pushed away, it's just the extreme end of redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:07 AM
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Lowkey kinda felted that redpillers and non-redpillers filled me with the belief that interacting with women was walking on egg shells. I've been being bolder today sent another less vague flirty-ish text. I'm not sure if it's crab bucket or just that redpill spaces have a lot of people who think like this. Tim pool lied to me, and is bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:12 PM
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Terrible advice, be openly attracted to her if you are attracted to her but don't go in too hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:06 PM
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I need to, I'm still kinda trying to unlearn that asking a stranger out is some evil immoral thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:56 PM
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Only when gamer-raging hopped up on mountain dew.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:53 PM
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Walls are real dude theres like 4 in each room of my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:50 PM
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This sub's great. It's entertaining, funny, interesting and probably a hell of a lot better than stewing in our echochambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:49 PM
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I really wanna find employment stats on incels. Getting a job has been so helpful I imagine a lot of incels become more normal naturally from being forced to get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:21 PM
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I used to volunteer at a charity shop way back so it's on my mind but I'd probably pick somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:48 AM
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I'm getting back into digital painting and guitar. I also do some personal projects related to my work, I work at a film company.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:34 AM
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I need to figure out something to do on the weekend, preferably outside my house. Anyone got any recommendations?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:04 AM
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I think the advice "just date an ugly chick" is the worst advice for incels. It takes the underlying assumption that less attractive women should have to put up with dysfunctional and inadequate men because they're not as attractive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:26 PM
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Big if true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:03 PM
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I get into a mindset of thinking dating is round the corner and im getting closer to being able to be a good boyfriend and a well rounded adult. Then I remember I'm still a loner virgin who spends too much time working on home projects. I usually feel more confident at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:58 PM
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Often. But then I start to realise im still deeply inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:38 PM
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Anyone else fluctuate between hopeful/happy and I'm totally inadequate? I'm not sure if this is normal or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:30 PM
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Your coworkers will not remember this, besides this isn't highschool anymore your not going to be seen as bad for being a little silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:29 PM
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Hey there. Hows your day been?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:11 PM
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Your coworkers have probably already forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:11 PM
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Used to browse that sub when I was the kinda guy that'd belong in those posts. I think a lot of "niceguys" browse places like that to cope, something along the lines of "atleast im not that bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:28 PM
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During high school I was seriously obsessed with a girl to a degree that could become seriously harmful if I went down the wrong road. I'd constantly think of her and pine over her, I'd be filled with fear and angst hearing about her dating life. Being around her hurt. I was a horrible friend to her. She's had the biggest impact a person's had on me, she showed me how fucked up I was as a person by how I realised I saw her. We've spoken since, she seems to be pretty chill. Last I heard she's in …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:58 PM
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I don't know everyone seems kind of normal, it's hard to tell I've never experienced anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:18 PM
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Yeah I know. Im a temp so Im kinda open to it, but Im mostly just living to experience it, not exactly with the goal of it going anywhere. I appreciate your advice, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:17 PM
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I've been continuing to try to actively explore social relationships. Sent a coworker a vaguely flirty text. I'm so confident she's interested since she didn't reply but nothing bad came of it. We talked in the stairwell on the way out and all seems normal. I'm starting to suspect the redpill may be partially the result of social paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:47 PM
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90% of incel and to an extent redpill discussion is people talking theoretically about things they've never experienced. That's why you get unhinged takes like talking to women you've never met will get you charged with sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:42 PM
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"The rules" are a spook. They apply only to the goody two shoes that follow them. A lot of what you're "not allowed" to do is actually perfectly acceptable and even enjoyed by society. It's all about how you break them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:02 AM
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Im the same way I dun everything into the ground lol and only replace when its broke. Im kinda a strange dude allround to the point I don't know what to point to lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:52 AM
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Eh I think most people are normalish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:56 PM
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You can't let paranoia prevent you from living your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:43 PM
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I don't think it's healthy to hold a blanket suspicion towards all women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:40 PM
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Thank you. I guess I've clarified this enough that even other people mention it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:36 PM
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Texted my coworkers that I thought they were cool and that we should be friends, and a ton of people on here thought it'd get me in trouble. It has not so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:31 PM
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I think I've started to win over my coworkers. Texting them one on one worked out super well, and everything feels super chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:13 PM
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I don't feel confident. I just act like I would if I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:52 PM
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I kinda just think of the thing Im scared to say and say it. For example saying an outfit looks good on someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:51 PM
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Testing my fake confidence strategy out irl, it's really working. We're all going to make it bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:10 PM
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I like so am right now. Don't ruin this for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:08 PM
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I find it kind of easy. I just think of what I'm too full of doubt or inhibition to say and then say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:57 AM
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It gets viewed as a necessity too much and I think that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:44 PM
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I see it as I guess brute forcing confidence. If I was confident I'd have no inhibitions, if I ignore my inhibitions I get to the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:38 PM
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Ofcourse but I think ignoring inhibition is helpful along the way. Its good for talking to anyone. I've found testing it out recently it's helped me really get to what I wanna say. No beating around the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:34 PM
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The trick isn't in pretending and lying. The trick is in saying what you want to say, and not doubting yourself. Pretend even the riskiest moves are likely to go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:31 PM
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It is time for Incel-Lesbian unity. We are but brothers and siblings on the great quest to obtain qt3.14 gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:28 PM
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I never feel like it's too difficult. I just do the things I doubt myself on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:27 PM
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Nah I get a free pass. You guys all have to tell everyone you hate yourself /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:24 PM
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I think we all wear masks, but I get your point. It's less about playing a character and just acting without inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:18 PM
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Q4All Would you day you're a nice guy/woman? I'd say I'm about neutral, maybe an inch towards nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:54 PM
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None of these women are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:46 PM
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I wanna find a wife who's weird in some of the ways I am. Who enjoys the same things I do. Someone I can create things with and play games with. Then I wanna put a ring on her finger and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:38 PM
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Reminds me of a Louis Rossman video about the cult of apple, and how people will blame others and themselves for issues with their favourite company's product. Ever since I watched that video I see that mindset everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:59 PM
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If a guy's problem is being too passive maybe he should be more aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:57 PM
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It's a lot of fun, when you get the hang of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:43 PM
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The more I approach women the more I realise the internet isn't real life lol. Everyones way chiller irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:36 PM
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Alot of guys I think genuinely believe they'll be seen as rapists for saying hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:28 PM
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I agree. It seems like most women are pretty chill in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:22 PM
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The "never approach women" thing seems to push a lot of conscientious goody two shoes, guys out of talking to women without a mask of professionalism. It's sad because women I've talked to irl seem to actually enjoy it. It's all in how you approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:12 PM
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The Patriots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:56 PM
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Thanks I think itll help with ordinary interaction atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:55 PM
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Just act confident really. Ignore your doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:31 PM
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It ain't a lie to be a little confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:22 PM
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Seven
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:39 PM
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Tried that "just act like chad" strategy and it immediately worked online, Im gonna have to try this in real life haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:38 PM
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I think it's because theres a stereotype of guys who call themselves feminists doing it to meet chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:00 PM
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Thanks, I kinda assume they'd naturally be weary of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:05 PM
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Sorta broaden my pespective I guess. I'm not trying to pull an Always Sunny in Philidelphia and pickup chicks at an abortion rally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:50 PM
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Yeah I'm also concerned they'd think I'm there to pickup chicks like it's Always Sunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:49 PM
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Kinda considering volunteering for some sort of women's rights kinda group, I'm not sure they'd take guys, I know women's shelters don't because it'd cause distress to the victims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:45 PM
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Screenshot everything and back it up. Talk to cops first, everyones bias towards beliving the initial accuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:16 PM
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Wanting to please a woman is a pretty normal sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:14 PM
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Yeah in the real world. Most men and women get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:47 PM
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Im the lucky one, I don't have to go into women's bathrooms 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:25 PM
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From my experience talking to women, women can be just as gross as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:50 PM
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The average woman is just as flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:45 PM
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Yeah they feel so much more I guess human. I feel like celebrities are fake people, like I could reach out and touch them but they wouldn't have any warmth. I think part of it too is that celebrities often engage sight and sound, real people have real relationships with you. You smell their deoderant and feel the warmth on their body. It's so much more real interacting with a person in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:26 PM
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What's the evolutionary basis for jerking off? We're not driven by min-maxxing evolution and mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:23 PM
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Im glad someone agrees, I feel like I'm insane when I have to say this to someone. Besides I think average women are more attractive, I see more beautiful women walking down the street than on magazines or TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:20 PM
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In all honesty I do think women are more attracted to average men than men are attracted to average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:18 PM
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The average man should be attracted to the average woman and vice versa. I find it weird the amount we compare people to those pushing the extremes of "beauty" as if one must be exceptional to be dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:14 PM
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The red pill likes to exaggerate what's considered sexual harassment, especially in the workplace. Women can tell the difference between well meaning guys and creeps, because there is a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:32 AM
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Yeah I agree. Some of these are based in objective truth like high status jobs like Ceo's being rated higher in psychopathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:18 AM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:17 AM
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It's from a study on misogyny I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:04 AM
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God this sub makes me feel pent up sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:00 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/wa5qqlwbeypb1.png?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bbbb82c3f48262e8990ad9ed1c9f8f9d649265f7 Misogyny test, what's your score? Mines 1/13 but it's number 12 and I think it shouldn't count because it's an indictment on men and society, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:59 AM
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I don't think they can tell. My flairs broke it changes on its own. It should say No Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:45 PM
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I should probably get a haircut and workout more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:31 PM
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I get that. I kinda second guess things I say or messages I send because I don't wanna seem like I'm flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:12 PM
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I kinda get that. But women seem easy to talk to too, maybe being a man effects how they talk with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:09 PM
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On some level I think I have an easier time talking to women lately. Q4All: Do you ever feel like you have an easier time talking to the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:02 PM
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Thanks I'll be mostly spending it on personal projects and getting back into guitar... hopefully... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:09 PM
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So glad it's the weekend tommorow, It's nice seeing my coworkers but I just wanna chill lol. I'll probably text them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:33 PM
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No I don't really. First exposure was like 12 or maybe 11
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:06 AM
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In my experience mine and a lot of incels main problem is being pussies. The less I hold back; and the more risks I take the better I tend to do. I think Elliot Rodger is a good example, he sheltered himself until he had essentially seceded from the outside world. This has sat in the back of my mind for years, but I realized I thought it because my co-worker texted me back, she's cool with direct messages. I always feared talking to girls as a kid and sheltered myself from them, and I'm not sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:45 PM
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I completely agree, I had that view. I was chasing pussy and thought of women as the gatekeepers of sex instead of participants in love. I think it prevents guys from treating women fully as equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:42 PM
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Too many see pussy as a final goal that women allow men. But sex is a 2 way thing, it's an intimate part of love. Not some reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:16 PM
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Learning the boundaries of appropriate workplace behaivour manually myself, complimented a co-worker on her outfit, and didn't get instantly charged with sexual harassment. Tim Pool lied to me. I'm beginning to think a lot of this red pill stuff is a little overblown. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:45 AM
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Apparently Chris Chan has a gf that isn't him mom. All you have to do is meet women, if Chris Chan can do it almost anyone can lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:32 AM
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That's sweet, hope you two continue to have a lovely relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:31 AM
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That's really sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:20 AM
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My sigma male character is Michael Corleone from Heavy Traffic (1973)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:47 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:40 AM
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I think I'd feel weird starting over as someone else on a new account.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:32 AM
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I think ideas in redpill communities bounce around and become exaggerated accidentally. It seems like we've gone from "don't sexually proposition coworkers" eventually to "if you talk to a female co-worker you're getting your life destroyed over sexual harassment allegations".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:12 PM
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Good idea, thanks I'm not sure the movies I've been watching are so kinda niche I feel like they could be a dox risk lol. To be honest I'm hesitant to "start over". Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:07 PM
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I feel like I'm getting real close to having to retire my username and the title of incel. I feel accepted in society and ever closer to ready for relationships. I can't leave this account though, I really like subs like this and can't participate under my real name.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:52 PM
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Gotta becareful to not be too cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:16 PM
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W...w...whats that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:46 PM
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I think the danger of false allegations is overblown.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:44 PM
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I think if more tried they'd have better results. Reminds me of Elliot Rodger who only really interacted with women while angry and I think drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:27 PM
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Not exactly replaceable but I don't anticipate having to replace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:08 PM
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That was never the plan I was gonna message her saying Id like to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:07 PM
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Short term temp making a dollar above minimum wage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:48 PM
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We're just friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:47 PM
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We're just friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:47 PM
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Thanks worst case we don't end up having any deeper friendship, no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:42 PM
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Nah we were both pretty engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:41 PM
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The bar for what constitutes sexual harassment is far higher than a lot of guys make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:40 PM
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Thanks for the heads up I'll make sure to bring a patent lawyer as well, just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:28 PM
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Good. Someone asked me to document the "HR meeting" which obviously isn't going to happen for talking to someone lol. I just wanna see where we are in terms of possible friendship, we seem to get along well. She laughs a little at my shitty jokes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:27 PM
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Took some advice from here and talked to the girl at my work one on one in person for while, so when is this HR meeting supposed to happen. If I get canned I hope we can still be friends lol. All seriousness thanks for the advice to talk in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:14 PM
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I guess you'll need me to hand in my badge and gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:23 PM
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I think you doubt your own abilities.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 07:51 AM
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What's so wrong about friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:55 AM
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I'll have to retire this username someday but not today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:35 AM
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Friendship's pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:06 AM
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Genuine. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:59 AM
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Yes but even when being friends with women is discussed some guys seem to see it as either a cope for women you want to date or just see it as pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:58 AM
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Yeah. In my limited experience it's helpful for guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:08 AM
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Seems like a good way to filter for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:03 AM
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My flair changes itself. It's broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:46 AM
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I think a problem a lot of guys have is that they view women only in terms of "can I date/sex them".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:39 AM
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Same bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:02 AM
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Thanks it's a weird job, it's temp whitecollar stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:38 PM
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Nothing wrong with being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:35 PM
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People seem to like me so far. Besides ain't nothing wrong with friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:31 PM
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I will. I've gotta thank her for something anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:08 PM
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Homie I'm sorry to "OP never delivers" this early, but I make a dollar above minimum wage. My life'll be fine if the company goes up in smoke tommorow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:05 PM
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I'm just tryna make a friend here. She's cute but I ain't about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:02 PM
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For sure. We talk a bit at breaks she seems pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:01 PM
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Yeah. We chill at lunch and joke around. It seems like a lot of my jokes land, and get good reactions. As much as I joke I honestly think this is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:59 PM
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I will do project veritas videos of every hr meeting and personally assure to it Tim Pool airs them on his podcast as some kind of breaking news.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:57 PM
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They keep changing my flair to blackpill no matter how much I change it to neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:55 PM
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In the words of the great bobcat bubsy, what could pawsibly go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:54 PM
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Found out a woman at my work who I think is cool and seems to get along with me, is in the work group chat. Kinda tempted to private message her, see if she'd want to have a friendship beyond co-workers. It feels risky which is probably a sign I should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:49 PM
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I think most guys tell themselves that but don't know how wrong they are.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 06:41 PM
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I've done it, it's easy. Maybe you don't get her number of a date but as long as you're not crossing a line it's all good.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 06:38 PM
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I like purplepill. I usually argue with redpill more then bluepill lol
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 05:47 PM
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Naturally, but I think general loneliness gets confused for needing a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:42 PM
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It's been a little while and I'm getting along with my co-workers. I need to start getting discord @'s lol. I think a lot of incels desires for a woman would be eased by having friends they see everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:34 PM
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Sucks. Don't worry there's plenty more fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:28 PM
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Will an akm suffice or does it need to be an original 47.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:12 PM
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Thanks I'll check again soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:13 PM
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Uk I've tried to join the gun club but its always not accepting new invites. Sport shooting seems like good fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:00 PM
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Based and sad we they're harder to get here pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:31 PM
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They've become enamoured with their own identity, same thing happens to deaf people, some start to see it as a part of who they are and something that shouldn't be cured. Same thing happens with some incels too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:24 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:23 PM
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It's important to build a life, the women come later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:44 PM
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A for sure. I'd want her to enjoy it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:40 PM
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I do feel a little bit of a rift between myself and guys on her sometimes but I can sorta see a little of who I was in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:33 PM
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Huh so it's the same for women too. We're gonna make it bros we just need to get outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:24 PM
1

Any particular reason why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:58 PM
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I agree. We're just friends I just don't want things to be misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:58 PM
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Because she's cool and fun and a good friend. Im not trying to min-max a speedrun to pussy%. I like having friends. You know you can meet people through friends too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:15 PM
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Q4M: how often are you concerned you'll seem like you're trying to make a move on a friend? My friend and I have been getting closer I think, I wanna ask her to hangout because it's been a while since we've seen each other but I feel like she or her boyfriend will think I'm trying to make a move. I'm probably being irrational though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:45 PM
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Q4All: how do you think the percentage of abusive men in the world of celebrities, compares to the peecentage of abusive men in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:17 AM
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Good luck. Hope it goes well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:34 AM
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No one actually has sex that's just a fantasy created by porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:26 AM
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Real af
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:11 PM
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I've heard legends about mexican pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:58 PM
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I swear they only discontinue the best stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:51 PM
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Based and FiletOFishPilled
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:43 PM
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There's a ranch one? This changes everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:42 PM
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That's fair, I'm not huge on the beef burgers. The chicken and the fish are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:25 PM
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The shakes too are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:23 PM
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You are a woman so clearly you must be lying. Even though the milkshakes are quite nice at Mcdonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:22 PM
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In the end I'm not mad at her, I wasn't a very good boyfriend and I'm glad we're split up. They're together now and seem to have a more functional relationship. She taught me about my flaws, and I'm kinda glad with how things turned out. Thank you though, I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:21 PM
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I was lazy and was way too focused on sex and losing my virignity, she was in love with her friend she lived with and kinda cheated on me a couple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:18 PM
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Nah all women want the Ceaser salad Chicken and bacon wrap from Mcdonalds, and are lying if they say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:16 PM
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I feel increasingly normal as I've grown up. But maybe being normals not what I want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:12 PM
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Maybe I will, I'm kind of thankful I didn't go all the way with her. I don't think we were right for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:10 PM
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I don't need to try to talk like a man. I'm already a man. I think I'm in the best mental space of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:08 PM
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That's fair I'd feel the same in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:05 PM
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Nice thats sweet. Kudos on waiting, I kinda wish my ex made me wait but that's more on me than her. Hope you too have a wonderful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:04 PM
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Fair choice, but what does it matter if she already has 0 emotional connection to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:02 PM
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Nah bro I was a sexist borderline creep who valued neurotic chase for pleasure and status oved building real relationships. Now I have a healthier view of human sexuality. Also I'm thinner and more muscular now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:59 PM
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Chowder, that mcdonalds burger got my endocrine system acting quite strange my boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:57 PM
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I think it's normal to want love dude. I did the whole wanting pussy over love thing it was immature and neurotic of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:54 PM
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I kinda get it, but also love is more important. In my opinion atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:52 PM
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Same I think. I'm surprised most guys seem to go B.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:50 PM
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To be honest thats the reason for my curiosity. A couple years back I'd pick sex every time, now I feel a really strong desire to find love. I wonder what the other guys think
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:44 PM
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Q4M: Would you prefer a woman who is entirely loyal and loves you, but you cannot have sex, or a woman who does not love you and simply uses you for sex? Im curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:40 PM
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I'm happy because my brother and his gf are having a nice time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:02 PM
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Ah okay I kinda expected a guy by the last name. I've heard bad things about her on another sub but I should check her out myself first. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:50 PM
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I'm already a member of the La Li Lu Le Lo. Seriously though, we're all to some extent part of the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:49 PM
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I think spaces like this are hugely important, society's very divided, and I think spaces like this about co-existing helps to both deradicalize people and bring society together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:48 PM
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I keep seeing the name JNRoberts come up, I have no idea who he is, I'm guessing he's not the motorcycle racer. Who is this dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:44 PM
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Nothing wrong with being a goober, you do more than you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:42 PM
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For real yes. The internet is so fixated on anger and fear, which are better for engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:39 PM
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The system isn't conspiratorial it's based on motivations. The elite don't get into a room and decide to push climate change messaging, high ranking employee's of companies simply decide it's economically viable to pump ESG scores to boost stock prices autonomously. There is no head to the system, government effects buisness, buisness effects government, tide goes in tide goes out. The deep state is less of an organization and more of a loose group of unelected government employees autonomously …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:32 PM
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I'm really missing out on the JNRoberts lore. But no in my experience women are pretty chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:53 PM
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You're welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:11 PM
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I think there's a sort of luster to the identity a lot of them have. It lets them tell themselves their victims or hopeless gives, lets them ignore their own shortcomings and blame society. Personally I'm glad I acknowledged my problem and reflected on it, but I think the titles getting old. I'm getting closer and closer to a normal guy. I just need to get out and be present in society more.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 01:08 PM
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I started with south africa and lately I've been getting other African countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:02 PM
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Nice. It's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:02 PM
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The bar for what constitutes sexual harassment is so much higher than red pillers make it out to be. Either that or I'm chad, but I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:58 AM
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What a cringelord.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:56 AM
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That sucks but also congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:52 PM
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Thanks so much! I think I should re-evaluate all the "rules" I've believed in regards to stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:51 PM
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Yeah this wasn't with any intention it was just talking. I always thought it'd come off as creepy I guess. Something that people should avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:26 PM
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Talked to a woman at the supermarket today, it's been okay to talk to random strangers this entire time. Kinda mad I went this long thinking it was a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:07 PM
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Same to be honest I kinda just wanna work on my projects all day at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:08 AM
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You can do it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:07 AM
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My one problem is not meeting enough people. But then I'm too lazy and scared to do things to meet people. I'm gonna have to start babystepping it at this rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:34 AM
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I agree I think men's rights and women's rights are twosides of the same coin.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 06:53 PM
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Thanks hope you're doing well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:09 PM
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Yeah kinda recently. First real job so Im still navigating appropriate professional behaivour lol thanks for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:07 PM
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Yeah I think places like these are kind of ruined by a fringe of hating feminism and sometimes women. I think moderate Feminists and MRAs would get along just fine, if not well, in a world free of tribalism.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 06:04 PM
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I'm hoping they and I can become friends. I think they like me a bit already.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:58 PM
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Women don't like being called females. I can't fault them it is clinical language that could be read as dehumanising.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 05:57 PM
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I think mens rights has no interest in dating when there are serious issues men face like routine circumcision. I think helping boys to become good men will improve the dating scene naturally.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 05:56 PM
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Radfems are fun, and sometimes they make good points. Downvoting is for real, pussy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:50 PM
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Kinda, but I wanna be in the mindset where that isn't awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:49 PM
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Yeah I think the trick is to get in the groove of being weird. I wanna be more chill around my colleagues, they're all super chill being weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:37 PM
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Judging by this sub and outside world experience it seems way more acceptable to strike up conversations with women in public than guys online made it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:24 PM
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Yeah, I wanna be more open in general but I get too wrapped up in emotions and worrying about seeming weird or cringe sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:19 PM
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Ah okay thanks. From reading your comment I get the suspicion you are pretty good at womens anatomy and getting your point across 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:18 PM
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Yeah I think clear communication is something I wanna work on together when I find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:14 PM
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To be honest I'm not the best at women's anatomy or getting my point across.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:13 PM
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I think a lot of guys mistake this for thinking she isn't physically attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:11 PM
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It makes the womb unpalatable for the egg to fertilize or implant into the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:09 PM
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Yeah I got what you mean I was just kidding around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:59 AM
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Are any of us really M in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:58 AM
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Hopefully it wasn't too bad for you. Hearing about how little guys seem to ask women out now makes me think maybe I should more. I'm at a point in my life where I think I'll take rejection well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:49 AM
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A minority of cases still seems to create a chilling effect on a sizable portion of men. Alot of men seem scared of finding out they're dating an abusive woman who will wield the jusitice system as a weapon using false allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:56 AM
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Q4M: How would your life change if false accusations did not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:51 AM
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I completely agree. My question is more fixated on if that minority didn't exist. Same way I lock my doors at night to prevent a minority of people from coming in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:48 AM
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For sure. It's the same with crime. It's a marginal group that ruin things for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:03 AM
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Q4W, how would your life change if all men took rejection well?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:17 AM
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Thanks but I don't think I need luck. I used to be desperate for a someone but now it's like whatever happens happens and if it turns out to be just an innocent smile we can still be friends and that's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:53 PM
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That's the plan, I wanna get more personal with her either way and hopefully be friends in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:46 PM
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A lot of incels aren't virgins because of thier looks. It's really a mental issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:32 PM
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Turned around to see my co-worker looking at me smiling, sorta held eye contact for a second. It's probably nothing but I kinda wished I talked to her lol. I'm probably overthinking it. In the end I hope we can have some sort of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:27 PM
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Talking to women and existing in society helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:14 PM
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It's all about being there. Socialise and make friends live a productive life and somewhere along the way you'll meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:09 PM
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That's literally true though, they were doing their thing, and they talked to someone new who was there and they started dating that person. I met my ex because she was friends with a mutual friend. I didn't go looking for her we just met each other normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:44 PM
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On the contrary that's how alot of my friends met their gfs/bfs and how I met my ex, so I'd say there's a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:15 PM
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Go fish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:02 AM
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Ofcourse, my point is that I think alot of guys try to get a certain woman to like them, when it should be about finding a women who likes him for him as a part of a social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:51 AM
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I think a flaw in alot of blackpill and redpill thinking is they see a girlfriend kind of like hunting, finding an animal and doing everything in your power to have it. But it seems like relationships are a lot more incidental, you don't go searching your wife, you meet people and make platonic relationships and perhaps you meet someone you have a connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:40 AM
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That's sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:38 AM
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Nah husband's a good answer, besides I think the mushy lovey stuff's good for the sub, helps the blackpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:07 PM
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Based and sweet-pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:22 PM
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Tragic, hope you find a guy who's good and can treat you and every other woman he knows right with no ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:21 PM
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Q4A: who is the best person of the opposite sex you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:50 PM
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I'm more meaning in terms of talking to women I'm familiar with. Maybe I shoulda picked a better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:33 PM
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I mean games like poker. Generally lying should be avoided I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:34 PM
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Ofcourse, sometimes it is even good to lie, like in games.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:26 PM
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I wanna be honest with the women I'm friends with. I feel the status quo of men just skirting around the game of "guess the rapist" that women kinda need to play to participate in society is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:24 PM
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Yeah when I was younger I tried to be attractive for one girl in the hopes she'd fall for me, but the normal thing seems to be to just meet people and find love as a consequence of existing in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:21 PM
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Well yeah you've gotta interact and make friends, what I mean is not doing things to get dates but meeting people naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:18 PM
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I think if I told women what I really think about them, things would be better and less awkward. Instead of skirting around the issue, maybe I should openly say things like "I get talking to strange guys can be dangerous for women" instead of awkwardly dancing around it. I always assumed it'd make me seem more like a creep but I really doubt it would thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:17 PM
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I think the trick isn't to go looking necessarily but more to exist in the world maximising the chance you'll meet someone you meah with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:13 PM
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It's not a good habit for me but yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:46 AM
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Any paticular reason why not?
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 05:40 AM
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Managed to make all my co-workers laugh today, feels good. Talking to women and making them laugh feels intrinsically good and I'm not sure if it's a mindset thing or some sort of deep anti-incel compulsion to interact with the opposite sex. Nonetheless I'm happy, I need to get better at being funny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:50 PM
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Trying to minmax relationships like an rpg is fucking retarded and people need to stop doing it for their mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:36 PM
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Everyone's the gigachad of their own memes. Everyone's witty and charismatic in their own mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:02 PM
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I'd probably be irrationally a little upset but from an objective rational lense I get it and it wouldn't impact my relationship aside from encouraging me to self reflect if there's a problem with me that turns them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:52 PM
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I've come to a conclusion that many overt feminist men are creeps, and many men who overtly bash feminism constantly are creeps. Treating women like people is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:24 PM
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Im sort of cautious of dox risk, so Im afraid I'll have to be a little general. I work in the film industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:19 AM
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I wanna get really good at my job, and start my own buisness for it. My job's sort of a vehicle to learning more about the thing I'm passionate about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:05 AM
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Yeah that's a good point, if you're only respecting boundaries when it suits you, you're not really respecting boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:03 AM
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No that makes a lot of sense I thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:52 AM
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Q4W: what makes you feel comfortable around a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:03 AM
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I get that a lot of my autism diagnosis form was "true only in childhood"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:59 AM
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Don't be the guy to say "not all men", be the type of guy that make her want to say "not all men".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:00 PM
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Not at all. Sexual assault on public transport is a serious issue and messures like this are required to mitigate harm while longterm solutions are hopefully introduced. Women should be able to go anywhere without fearing sexual assault or rape, these measures are good. In the longterm however the root cause, rapists need to be tackled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:46 PM
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Yeah I think that's where part of the problem comes from, people seeing women as potential sexual partners and not equals. Forcing myself to be platonic was real helpful, after a while I moved to a sort of whatever happens happens mindset where I'm not going to obsess or try to bed any woman I meet, but if me and a woman hit it off and I like her I'll ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:02 PM
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Unfortunately I don't think he's been formally confronted with any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:57 PM
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Philosophically I think commiting to avoiding dating is good for a lot of incels, especially particularly desperate ones. The problem comes when this breeds resentment. The goal should be to avoid dating, not women. Instead focusing on developing platonic bonds with women helping to see that they are the same as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:57 PM
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I've always thought he was gross but damn he's a fully fledged creep, I now believe he's a danger to women. Initially I thought he was just playfully sexist, but as I watched I came to realise he just hates women. Thankfully it seems like a lot of people are seeing him for who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:08 AM
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It was the migtown podcast. I found him through his friend who's huge on Youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:06 AM
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I really appreciate your comment thank you for being so understanding. I feel like I could've completely fallen into it if I was a little younger. I'd sort of been around the internet long enough I could recognize the flaws in his arguments. Thanks for your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:09 AM
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Just found out the host of a mgtow show I used to watch got caught following women around to take creepshots and share them on a discord server and apparently groomed his ex's daughter. I'm disgusted and kinda pissed, but I'm not exactly sure if I have a right to be. I wish guys like this didn't exist, women shouldn't have to deal with these kind of pathetic wretches. I should have seen it sooner, as I watched I became increasingly disgusted by his misogynistic behaivour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:52 AM
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Hope so, I guess all you can really do is trust the plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:29 PM
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Yeah I think position and job satisfaction play a role, but I think either way a job and being able to provide for one's self is super helpful to confidence. I have an entry level job at a small marketing company.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:12 AM
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I think having a job is extremely helpful for confidence, I've felt super confident since I got my job and it's really helped me develop better perspective already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:33 AM
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Still you, because I'm infallible because in life I'm the main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:14 PM
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I might have to change then, so I can have red armour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:44 PM
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Maybe they are, good women aren't dating drug dealers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:13 PM
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Only if I get to be the shady character who could go either way but in the end being a 'good guy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:11 PM
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I still think they can, I think overtly decrying misogyny in a normal way would help, it seems a lot of moderate feminists sees all MRAs as radical womanhaters and the same is true in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:10 PM
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These are not black and white groups, I'd say most of each just want to be treated fairly, it seems like the radicals are the ones who have overt issues with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:08 PM
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Its odd these movments are in opposition too each other. Their goals can co-exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:00 PM
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I'm interested but I don't have one yet so im looking and reading around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:08 PM
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Well they're also invested in a sporty way, its like a common hobby I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:04 PM
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Mostly yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:57 PM
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I know, I'm just kidding around. They mention that it's from the bible in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:37 PM
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Interacting with my co-workers is making me want to take up cycling. It'd probably be good excercise too. Could help to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:33 PM
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I see you liked Fallout 3 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:31 PM
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No one benefits from the sex industry, except the pimps. Even the Johns are robbing themselves something best spent on women that love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:46 PM
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There's nothing I have to gain from taking advantage of some desperate woman caught up in the sex industry. I'm going to go find a woman who loves me for me not for the money in my pocket. The sex industry is rotten, and I'd rather die a loveless virgin than exploit a woman who has to offer herself as a sex object to put food on the table for her or God forbid her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:40 PM
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Lol this is gold. Gem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:52 PM
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It's simple. Because I have made you the crimge soyjak and myself the based chad. Thus I am correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:41 PM
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I'm inclined to believe that even if things don't go well it'd be pretty chill. Maybe I'm being naive. Either way I'm going to try and talk to her more I guess. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:40 PM
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A woman at my work is cute and I don't know whether to get to know her more or if it's better to just distance myself. I didn't anticipate this being an issue. I'm leaning towards get to know her more but not necessarily proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:18 PM
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Most RP guys I've seen speak have rock bottom standards something along the lines of "don't cheat" or simply "be alive". Either way I think advising men to drop standards as a blanket solution isn't going to help a multifactored problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:06 PM
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I think it depends really on how her mental state is, most likely it'd be a yes, but if she's not in a good place and a relationship would be detrimental for her I'd probably try to distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:04 PM
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Looking through r/truerateme and r/amiugly and it's shown me truly how stupid trying to scale everyone on an objective scale of attractiveness is, almost all of these women are more attractive than supermodels to me. I sincerely believe there's some sort of looksmatch effect going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:14 AM
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I think a lot of guys get it in their head that one wrong move and they'll branded an attempted rapist for the rest of their lives. Which they get from hearing about the fringe minority of women who will call it sexual harrassment, while they never hear about the fact men and women are normal in the real world. I think the solution is talking to women, as scary as it can be for some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:57 AM
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Thanks I think I'll do okay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:11 PM
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Id say its mostly subconcious stuff, I kind of get jealous and can feel a little hopeless in bad times. But its mostly okay. Im still a little bit of a loser but thats due to be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:37 PM
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Yeah but I think its really paying off now. Then it was getting better, now I think im really close.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:27 PM
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Yeah but I think its really paying off now. Then it was getting better, now I think im really close.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:27 PM
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I don't know, I think the world would be better off without words for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:01 PM
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Today I think I saved my soul. Compared to even last year the way I view women has improved so much. I'm ready to grow up. Finished uni today, applying to jobs tommorow. I feel happy and sad at the same time, I'm going to miss my friends, but I'm onto a new world. I think my days as an incel are coming to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:51 PM
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Eh I think this is the government being seeking reasons to accrue power. Feminists don't seem to give a shit, they're more focused on stuff like womens sports. Feminists aren't the boogie man you make them out to be, for mens rights to exist womens rights must too. Balance is key and love is a tool.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 01:03 AM
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I think I'm approaching a more ready to date time in my life. I want a relationship instead of a fomo motivated desire to fuck. My sexual frustration is gone and I want to get fit for myself. We're all going to make it bros
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:14 AM
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Watching this guy White Bowser talk about the time he groped an underage girl, it's unironically making me mad, he jokes about her bust size, insists admitting it makes him brave and smiles as he tells the story all while he acts as if his apology should mean anything. This dude pisses me off, but kinda haunts me I feel like if I went down a bad path, maybe started using incel echochambers I'd end up like this guy. Men like this should exhiled from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:20 PM
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Yeah its a common go to, but I sorta clung onto my hair as it is, but maybe its time to grow up. Being more socially open and making friends did help me meet my ex, the haircut probably helped a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:28 PM
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Sounds nice. My future career I'm working on is associated with film but I watch very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:20 PM
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It's a mix
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:17 PM
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I think I might have to get a haircut. Last time I did it led me to my first relationship. Maybe having unkempt wild hair isn't conducive to fitting into society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:11 PM
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Nice. I need to watch more movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:10 PM
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Yeah that's a good point. The porn industry is really creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:56 PM
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I get that. If I liked her I probably would but I get the hesitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:25 PM
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I don't necessarily think her past would exclude a normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:16 PM
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Q4M: Would you continue to date a woman who confessed to you early on that she did hardcore porn as an 18 yr old, hated it, deeply regrets it and now wants to have a normal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:05 PM
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Eh I'm sure you're not hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:02 PM
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Thanks. This is a problem I've had since I first used this sub, I started off as redpilled for my flair, but something changed me to black pilled without my say in the matter. Now it jumps betweeb black pilled and no pilled on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:21 PM
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(Almost) every woman has tiddies, aim higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:43 AM
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I wanna have a good life. Good job, nice car, family and friends. I wanna be good with women, by stamping out the last of my obessisive thoughts and improving in casual conversation with women. I want to be close friends with a woman, without any feelings for her or awkwardness. I wanna be good at Counter Strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:12 AM
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She hasn't called me creepy. I feel creepy. She's been so nice to me so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:46 AM
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Thanks I appreciate that. I often can get hung up on this stuff. Things seem okay now that I've been thinking about it more. I can kinda get hung up on perception, if I think "what if this is a dream" I won't be able to trust my perception either way, similarly if I think I'm creepy I'll sorta analyse it typically airing towards creepy. Outside opinion helps alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:53 AM
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I tend to be pretty normal, I say hi and smile to her as she enters the room, which feels kind of weird to me in retrospect. She works in the opposite corner of the room to me and thinking about it, i feel this is kind of cornering when I speak to her, she has no where else to go. I feel maybe I talk to her too much, like I'm suspiciously intersecting myself into her life. Texting her over social media goes a lot better but that's because she always can walk away. In general I'm a creepy looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:38 AM
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Sometimes I feel like I am, sometimes I don't. It fades back and forth. I can never be sure that my own self perception isn't a delusion. Like the interpersonal relationship version of peeing during a dream and waking up with a wet bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:33 AM
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Yeah, we like some of the samw stuff and have been talking back and forth about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:29 AM
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I feel like the women I'm friends with can tell I'm creepy. Getting the feeling I should disconnect, and stick to myself some more. To be fair looking back I feel my actions are predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:25 AM
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I was thinking for something to bond over. But that could be fun too haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:39 PM
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The more I interact with people in relationships, the more I see them as a kind of extreme friendship. Maybe that's just cope lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:25 AM
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Talking to women is actually pretty easy and comfortable, I'd say try to seem well adjusted, non threatening and sexually uninterested. If you wanna baby steps it smile at women if you make eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:56 PM
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Might be a you thing man. I wanna find a woman I can love and can live a life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:45 PM
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Im more happy with my relationship with women after quitting porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:36 PM
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Doesn't tend to track with my personal experience of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:34 PM
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I generally have stopped giving a shit about N count as long as it's not extreme. I'm more concerned about preserving intimacy and passion, and if she likes videogames. I think a lot of guys are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:32 PM
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Maybe they're hanging out with the wrong women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:11 AM
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Because being friends with women is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:39 AM
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As long as it's not some gimpy paperstraw, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:20 PM
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Also it really demystifies women. They become undeniably pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:53 PM
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Some of you guys would probably do better by simply talking to women outside of a dating context more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:58 PM
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This is good advice thanks. Stuff like vaginismus and periods make me glad I'm a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:19 PM
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Welcome to banworld pimp, population us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:54 AM
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This is good advice. Sometimes the truth is hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:59 PM
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Q4All, what advice would you give to a guy who believes his penis is small?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:19 PM
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Q4M, what do you have to offer in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:18 PM
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When I was younger my goal in life was sex, because I was a pathetic 16 yr old with nothing going on and no ambition. 5 years later my ambitions are focused on hobbies and career because I've got things to strive for. Weak men care only for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:11 PM
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To me atleast it's less of competition and more of a... "Geez what self respecting woman would date me" sort of feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:58 PM
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Nah I think its something about realising her sexual experiences are experiences of love and beauty and not degrading violence towards her. But also yeah it's sorta like, I could have that with someone someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:32 PM
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Had a dream last night I made out with the girl I was obsessed with for years and now I feel totally different. I think I'm over her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:47 PM
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Realising this is important, I always held a view that women hate sex and simply put up with it. But realising women like sex too is very comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:10 PM
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Im coming to the conclusion that not being confident/brave enough is the root of all of my social issues and Im going to make myself be confident in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:58 PM
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I was a guy who was "too nice". I was too nice to women because I wanted to get in their pants, in my experience talking to my female friends, women don't want nice guys, they want kind men. There's a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:49 PM
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Nah that seems kinda retarded. I'm pretty anti-porn but this just seems like a dumb precedent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:46 PM
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Nah it'd filter out a lot of good women. Also could women mix and match, with 1 big boob, 1 big cheek and 2%body fat or is it a package deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:45 PM
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Too many guys out here think they want to be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:04 AM
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Seems statistically sound, overall seems beneficial to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:33 AM
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From now on I'm just gonna be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:31 AM
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I think but I have no way to help her, it's hard getting her to talk about this stuff. I think she's doing better, it's cyclical, good times and bad times. Just gotta inch her in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:26 PM
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Haven't seen my dad since I was 12. No, but we live off of government assistance so my mum isn't too busy during the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:23 PM
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I'm not sure, most of the time she seems fine, but things pile up and it gets to the point where the kitchen is full of old stuff. I think she puts a brave face on for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:21 PM
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We had a plan that I'd stay at home for college, on my last 3 months of it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:17 PM
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Thats the longterm plan, but I still need to fix this, ideally sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:13 PM
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I've come to the conclusion I've got to stop asking my mum if I can do things and just take over all of the housework because things are just fully dysfunctional. I can't cook right now because I need to clean 4-5 days of filth and grime first, but first I need to take out the overflowing trash. And the whole time my mother wants to take over and I don't think it's at all conducive to me being self sufficient. I just need to take over and do it all and let her be mad at me. Because I don't think…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:08 PM
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Went on a kinda date this Valentines day, it was awkward and a little weird but it was cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:53 PM
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Because I was creepy to her in highschool. We talked after highschool and I wasn't creepy but I brought it up to apologise formally a while back and she ghosted me. I texted her, she"ll either message back, or ghost me. Either way I said something nice to her and know if she's cool with me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:50 AM
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Yeah im just hesitant because she seems busy. I think she hates me but im not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:39 PM
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I mostly just do what I feel like. I'm leaning towards it's okay, but Im gonna probably wait till Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:01 PM
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Saw the woman I was obsessed with's Snapchat story, I was slightly jealous but it wasn't at all sexual and was only very accutely romantic jealousy with some more sort of general jealousy over how much she has her life together. Rationally I'm happy for her. Very glad she seems to be doing well. I think it's mostly just old feelings shaking loose. Might text her in the future, our talks have become more healthy with time. Generally I have the impulse to text other people but I don't have a reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:47 PM
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I think a lot of women have incel mentalities. Especially radical feminists. Saw a thread a while back on Twitter that was literally just a woman posting the equivilent of "All women will just leave you for chad if they can, I'm so ugly, pity me."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:00 AM
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To be fair I think a lot of guys see it this way too. I spent a long time sort of just pretending I was asexual in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:57 AM
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What about guys really into incelcore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:33 AM
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Every dating experince for me has gone well, but they are few and far between.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:31 AM
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My sleep schedule got fucked up by somehow sleeping 14 hrs, wokeup at 5pm need to be awake till 2:45 tommorow, can't decide if I need to try sleep, or stay up till 2:45pm. Either way today may suck, but it'll be worth it to see people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:26 AM
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Thanks yeah I intend to keep posting on the net under this alias somewhere atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:20 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:54 PM
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Painting is addictive. I said I'd play games but I ended up figuring out paintovers all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:46 AM
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Men should be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:37 PM
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Ngl did not realise you're a woman. Always kinda assumed you were a dude. Not sure why. Women and men are so alike it's hard to tell haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:51 AM
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Hot take, the lady cop is kinda good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:43 AM
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Took a walk, and some pictures for a college project
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:17 PM
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Woke up, disappointed it's Saturday and I'm probably going to be at home. I feel like I'm becoming an extrovert lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:10 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:29 PM
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No but that's on the agenda. I've talked with some local companies and seems like it could go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:28 PM
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I'm a little concerned about it, as I'm aiming on keeping this account secret. Broadly it's in movies and videogames, transferrable tech. Sorry if this is too vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:26 PM
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It's a shame that word can get so misused, I think genuine misogyny may be a growing problem in society we'll see within a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:48 PM
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Yeah I'd imagine so. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:46 PM
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I'm guessing it's maybe two mods, one seeing my username and changing ro blackpill and another seeing my posts and changing it to no pill lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:40 PM
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I don't 100% know it's mods but I don't think anyone else would have access.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:23 PM
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Women's love is much less fickle and conditional as most incels assert..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:17 PM
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Thanks so much. I'm really glad I did. Thanks for the sanity check. My flair is annoying someone keeps changing it between black pill and no pill lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:54 PM
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Thanks, I've noticed alot of mods do that. My first ban was for making broad generalisations, when the post didn't. Ended up with the mod saying that I was generalising that there are thing men don't know. As if there's a man alive that knows everything. That or people seem to want to make out my internalised misandry as some sort of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:53 PM
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Thanks for the sanity check was hoping there wasn't something hugely sexist I was saying that I didn't realise was sexist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:33 AM
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Yeah I feel that, so I usually comment a sort of courteous "hey its not what it looks like" type message. But even then I get odd justifications from mods that aren't to do with my name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:32 AM
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Im guessing its because incel's in the name but the message I got back seemed to imply my post history is misogynistic. I make sure to message mods after being banned, because it's understandable why they'd ban me over my name alone without weighing up who I really am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:40 AM
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Cool. Im probably a little bias by personal sexual hangups abt male sexuality tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:37 AM
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Hey would you say my post and comment history is misogynistic? Because I just got banned from a sub and the admin is leaning on the claim my argument that I have a misogynistic post history. I promise there's no nsfw stuff in there if you do decide to look. Honestly I'm kinda perplexed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:15 AM
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Thank you it's a little nervewracking truth be told. Hope you are well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:22 AM
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Planning to get a job in my field (hopefully lol) and moveout over the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:16 AM
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21 still living with parents to save money during college. I go to the college in my home city.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:15 AM
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I appreciate your help. It's just that my family will get up in my buisness. My mother will notice something's up and be upset with me if I don't tell her. Or atleast that's what I estimate will happen. Fortunately by simply reminding myself of this I feel a lot better. But I'm going to look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:14 AM
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A range of reasons in honesty. Firstly I've always felt like this is rather minor. Secondly, everyone in my family gets mad at the slightest thing and is dealing with some issue, I sort of need to keep an impression I'm doing well. Thirdly, I don't want to be a drain on the health care system, Im not suicidal, angry at myself or others, or harmful to myself or others. But I'm planning on looking into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:09 AM
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You're for sure right. Something is wrong with me. I've danced between thinking Im a narcissist and a psychopath but that doesn't really line up. I do know I have mild autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:54 AM
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I've never tried to seek help, but that's partially becuase I've never really believed anything was wrong with me. I've always felt sort of subtly like this so I never realised what it was till now. I watched porn really young probably about 10 or 11, I never really thought about it but maybe that could have effected me. I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:49 AM
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I used to but not really anymore. I'm overall just kind of misandrist about all of this stuff. I see my and all men's sexuality as violent degrading evil. Last time I took the test it said medium neuroticism. But I don't know if I did it right. I'm good at convincing myself to be paranoid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:38 AM
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Is this a hot take? Sex is mostly a very beautiful wholesome act between two people who typically are attracted to each other and desire mutual pleasure. While it should remain private, it should be seen as a wholesome ordinary part of our lives instead of a weird taboo dirty thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:22 AM
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The people who come up with incel terms are incels. They don't get out often so I don't think they have a good read on what's a common name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:15 AM
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I think negatively of porn, I think you're right but I also think it's largely objectifying, demeaning and creates the mentality sex is degrading. In my experience it obfuscates the fact sex can be and largely is a wholesome pleasurable experience between two people who are attracted to each other and want to please each other. It takes the beauty out of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:10 AM
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I think it's also a low self esteem thing. To convince oneself they have standards. When I was younger I saw women as the judges and men as the judged, a man would be lucky for anywoman to like him. So to rebel against this order I thought of the women I would not like to have a romantic/sexual relationship with. That or they're poorly hiding that they're into fat chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:06 AM
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Thank you. Im mostly running that off my own issues. I felt the same way and see my previous patterns of behaivour in others. I found that the lightest readjustment can be hugely eye opening. For example the other day I made a sexual joke with a female friend and she laughed and seemed genuinely chill with it. Acknowledging my own sexuality and seeing it as healthy, wholesome and respectful really helped understand women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:44 AM
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No lol she has a boyfriend. I don't wanna either really. Just joking around and being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:27 PM
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I think a lot of niceguy types see their sexuality as sexist, creepy and degrading so put on a persona of nonthreatening innocence. Then think women like assholes when guys who act more normal get with the women they like. But they over correct and dial it up to 11. Joking with a female friend, the jokes got kind of sexual but it was mutual and chill and all laughs. This both helps our friendship but also is probably a reassuring sign I have a healthy relationship with sex. Niceguys need to be j…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:55 PM
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Well I don't know what I want but I wanna explore my sexuality I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:21 PM
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Neat. I feel like I'm opening some sort of pandoras box and now I just wanna be a sexual being and I guess make up for lost time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:01 PM
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I've always kind of hid my sexuality because I've seen it as disrespectul, degrading and violent. But I think if I was more socially involved with people who were receptive I'd probably be a much more sexual person. So far I'm kinda a loner outside of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:59 PM
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The more I become comfortable with male sexuality the more I realise I'd probably be a total coomer if I met the right people. Is this normal for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:43 PM
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I'd say check out MKUltra support group it's Negative Xp's compilation albums with a lot of different musicians. A lot of the stuff they do is covers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:55 PM
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It depends. It's very associated with punk. But I'll mostly call any song abt incel stuff incelcore because saying "Private Life by Oingo Boingo is incelcore" is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:53 PM
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Awesome I found him through scott pilgrim but I think everyone did lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:52 PM
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Music that really relates to incels. E girl is about a parasocial relationships with women online and left on read is just the relatable pattern of fucking up every relationship by being dumb and obsessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:20 PM
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E-girl is my favourite negative xp song and one of the best 'incel core' songs in my opinion. But I also really relate of Left On Read. I find the best 'incelcore' music has a message of "Im fucked up" instead of "women/society are fucked up".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:15 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:06 PM
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I'd kinda see women as different like we were different species or something lol. Even when I thought I could relate I still kinda didn't treat them like we were the same. I used to put women on a pedestal, thinking surely a woman couldn't be a crass, sexual or cruel person the same way a man could, this belief faded with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:48 PM
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Yeah. I feel like I can really interact properly now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:12 PM
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For the first time in my life talking to women is effortless. I see them as peers. Q4M: Do you see women as peers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:59 PM
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Yeah. I wish I was more chill with strangers. I always feel like a weirdo haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:17 AM
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Q4W: how do innocent compliments from men make you feel, also how likely would you be to interpret a compliment as an indication of attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:10 AM
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Nah there are a lot of things women deal with that I'm glad I don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:23 PM
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Nah but I was never nofap just noporn. I think it's a seeing them as the same as me thing. Quitting porn did help in seeing women as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:10 PM
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Nah I think it's a thing of seeing them as equally attractive to me, and recognising we're basically the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:10 PM
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Yeah for me I think it's just losing the view that they're different than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:09 PM
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Noticed women are a lot less attractive to me, I used to see all women as perfect 10s, now I can really see the spectrum of "conventional attractiveness". Strange things are happening to me lol. Anyone relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:47 PM
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Yeah I do, I mean I know Im wrong but its more of an unconcious prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:30 AM
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The ban message doesn't give a specific comment. I'm inclined to believe its in response to a comment that I view all men as dangerous and see sex as inherently disrespectful to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:05 AM
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Just got banned from polls for "trolling" I guess because they don't seriously believe an incel can have internalised misandrist viewpoints. Considering contesting it if I can, but on this site I doubt it'd do much good
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:16 AM
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Nice comment. I think a mindset of the online world and real world is healthy. People have tried to argue with me before, but they're faceless accounts, acting in bad faith so they carry infinitely less weight to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:15 AM
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Thanks. I hope I have a positive impact on future generations of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:46 PM
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Thanks. Yeah a positive outlook is crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:52 AM
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Thank you. I'm considering starting a twitter account for this. I sort of want to be a good example for guy who are like I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:32 AM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:34 AM
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Thank you. I should really make an excercise plan that's like the only thing from that list that'll take effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:28 AM
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Don't believe everything you hear on the internet, that's how WW1 got started.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:20 AM
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Man, this place has really helped me. I've really been able to consider my own feelings around sexuality and see my own problems. For the first time in a while I feel like I could be attractive. Just gotta keep up with my excercise, moisturising and maybe get a haircut and I'm half way there. Thanks you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:19 AM
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I think a much lower amount of men would be incels if they interacted with women especially as children. I sort of developed a fear of girls, I was afraid to hole a girls at 17 for a group activity on school. I'm extremely fortunate to have had the women in my life that I had. 4 years later I'm not afraid of female peers anymore, talking a woman kinda makes me tense but that's because I don't want to put my foot in my mouth and make it seem like Im hitting on her. She's just another person to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:56 AM
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I can really agree. I'm not particularly picky about bodycount anymore, but lying is something I'd want to avoid. I get the whole not wanting to tell every Tom Dick and Harry, but I think I'd be more inclined to date if she just admitted "yeah I slept around in college". Rather than keeping it a secret only for me to find out ages later.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:51 AM
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Wait. Other guys don't bleed out their dick once a month? C'mon guys back me up here. This better not just be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:36 AM
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I feel that sorta.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:32 PM
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Typically that'd make me jealous and feel strange but as I embrace my sexuality and keep away from porn, I'm really starting to fully embrace that women like sex too, and like sex like I do. And that it is good to like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:31 PM
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I think it may come from internalised misandry, I've always felt like my sexuality is harmful, because men are harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:16 PM
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Most of the porn I watched was pretty vanilla images.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:08 PM
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I used to watch an array of vanilla and non vanilla stuff. Now I watch 0 porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:45 PM
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Sorry I wouldn't know about that I still masturbate, just not to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:40 PM
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Well since I was young I've seen sex as violent, degrading and disrespectful to women, as well as immoral (immoral to both parities). I've been guilty for being a sexual being. But since I've become more accepting and embracing of the fact I like sex and that women like sex and that sex isn't evil or violent inherently. But now there's something deeply wholesome about a man and woman, both pleasing each other especially when they're both in love. That's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:39 PM
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Ever since quitting porn I've found sexuality as a concept feels so much more wholesome. Anyone else who's quit porn felt this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:32 PM
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Yeah I've always kinda internalised that view I think, to the point I think every woman kinda sees me as a predator stalking its prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:09 PM
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I've noticed some women who really seem to think all men passively support rape and that a sizeable chunk have and are open about it with their friends. I feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:03 PM
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See I used to think men's taste in women was uniform but Im starting to think not. I've always had a weird taste in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:41 PM
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Wtf, if she's a 5 then I don't even know who could be a 10 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:36 PM
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B, but the whole not taking her out in public thing would be douchy. If I love her, I'd be proud to have her by my side. I'd much rather be with someone I really get along with and can have a chill awesome relationship with. I'd rather marry a woman because she's good to be with rather than good to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:34 PM
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Thank you again. I should probably write some sort of plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:57 AM
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Yeah I used to be borderline obese but dropped to 140lbs just by eating less. I've been doing some calisthenics stuff which has helped. About 154lbs now, but am turning that around. I'm probably going to try give calisthenics a full shot first. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:53 AM
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Im mostly nervous really, but past it's probably a good idea, maybe I should burn some weight first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:37 AM
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Thats probably right, but Im more of a radical change guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:36 AM
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Hope the surgery goes well. Maybe I should get a gym membership and spend as much time as I can there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:27 AM
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Most people are losers either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:19 AM
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Well I was more thinking in general just changing everything, like I'm being hunted by the mafia. Quitting all my hobbies, changing my career path, changing most of my patterns of behaivour, cutting my hair different, dressing different in an attempt to (metaphorically) kill who I am and become some else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:18 AM
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I think I'm too computery for my own good, I spent most of today working on a sculpt, and while that's more productive I fear I'm going to end up the same type of shut in. I need to start going out, but I feel like there's no where to go. Also there's this lingering feeling of danger I feel in public. Maybe I should start volunteering again, but I don't think I'll have the time in a matter of weeks. I think I'm at an awkward time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:08 AM
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Maybe, I think I'll just dedicate tommrow to sculpture, I'm working on something and I think it's coming along well. It's digital sculpture so don't get impressed lol. Edit on second visit that's a bad idea I need to do something that involves people and not just become aslightly less pathetic breed of hermit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:50 AM
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I feel like if I cut videogames out my life I'd be less happy but more successful. I don't know if it's the right thing to do, but part of me just considers wiping away who I am now and just becoming someone completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:46 AM
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No it's probably BS, but it's BS I've been told enough to internalise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:43 PM
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I have an innate feeling that male sexuality is predatory, creepy and dangerous. Women on the other hand are not predatory. Which is why a lonely woman is sad and a lonely man is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:38 PM
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Yeah. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:42 AM
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It was a chick but yeah your point still stands. I dont think Im gonna ever even acknowledge she exists outside of this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:37 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:36 AM
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Yeah you're right. I'm less concerned with apologising for leading her to cheating, more apologising to the person she was before she cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:28 AM
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I'm done with dating. I think Im gonna do some weird semi-mgtow thing where I just focus on friends and building myself up. I've been talking to someone but it's early days. I should probably pack in this whole apologising thing and just go back to what I was doing yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:13 AM
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The way I see it I didn't treat her like a boyfriend should, she didn't treat me like a boyfriend should be treated. She was in the wrong I just accept Im partially responsible for how everything ended up. Im sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:10 AM
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She heard through a friend I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:06 AM
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It was only kisses so I didn't really feel too bad about it. I'd say we were just about as bad as each other in the end but maybe I'm bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:03 AM
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I think once or twice. She was mad i was on dating apps after we broke up which did kind of piss me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:02 AM
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I wouldn't put what she did up there with abuse. She was really apologetic each time, and wanted to make it up to me. I kind of wish I was less patient however.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:55 AM
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I don't think that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:46 AM
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You're right I just can't shake the idea I sort of alienated her, and made her feel like we were just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:42 AM
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Probably a good call. Don't worry too much you're coming off as a lot saner than me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:39 AM
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I don't want that though. I was going to end it with something about never speaking agian being good. Mostly It'd just be to tell her I'm sorry for not being the boyfriend she deserved and that I hope she's happy. Either way it's probably not happening. I'd never take her back especially since she cheated on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:39 AM
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She was very apologetic about what she had done, but I haven't apologised to her. I don't think I was a good enough boyfriend so I don't really blame her too much in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:33 AM
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We broke up a couple years back now. I've been apologising to people I wronged back in my teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:30 AM
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Yeah I probably shouldn't. But it was only kisses and she told me each time and apologised. I'm not gonna do it but I'm not sore about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:23 AM
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I know but Im imagining it pulling apart the doorway and therefore the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:51 AM
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I'm not horny, and I'm not trying to fix things. I wouldn't date her if she begged me to. But that is always a good question to ask one's self.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:48 AM
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Yeah probably right there. I'm gonna let it be. I have a feeling she'll just get angry at me, so Im just gonna let it be. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:45 AM
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If its any consolation I didn't have full sex with her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:33 AM
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I feel she probably was on some level justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:32 AM
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Thinking about apologising to my ex, she was pretty cool and I wasn't the boyfriend I should've been, didn't take her on proper dates or buy her stuff. But the fact she sort of cheated makes me hesitant. Do you guys think I should apologise to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:29 AM
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Good idea. Time to hit the weights dressed as the unabomber lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:00 AM
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Yeah I know, but it only takes one psychopath to fuck up your life. Hard to rationalise it out of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:48 PM
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Thanks I hadn't considered that but that's a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:46 PM
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Mostly being robbed, or assaulted. I'm pretty sure a pull up bar will destroy my wall, the house I live in is pretty shitty. Considering trying it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:44 PM
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Well yeah I'm looking at this thread on twitter of a woman recording a man without his consent and branding him a creep for looking back at her. While she's getting clowned on a lot of people agree with her. I don't need that stress in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:42 PM
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Considering it. The idea of going to a gym kind of gives me bad vibes, like I'll come off as creepy. Are men only gyms a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:23 PM
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Probably but I don't really feel safe going out in public that much. It's a really excellent suggestion. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:14 PM
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It wouldn't really. The garden variety incel doesn't have the commitment or motivation to stage a coup. Most probably sooner kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:12 PM
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Maybe an incel uprising isn't completely out of the realm of possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:57 PM
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Gotta start taking calisthenics more seriously. Can't buy a pull up bar though so I'm not sure where to go from there. Im guessing try and compensate with other things. I think all men should be somewhat muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:54 PM
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Yes but men are supposed to be strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:50 PM
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I think a lot of men hold internalised misandristic beliefs, I know I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:22 PM
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Part of me believes this is a tragedy. Men should have to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:20 PM
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You're welcome. Yeah thats a great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:56 PM
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Im starting to think a lot of incels think women hate them for their looks because they don't realise they probably come off as creepy, back when I was a lot more obsessive I often wondered why my female friends would ask their male friends to hangout but not me. Then I realised looking back I was a total creep, so they kept me at arms length.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:12 PM
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Not everyone defines it that way, which is the crux of the problem. I've seen Elliot be called red pilled and an incel over and over despite not identifying as either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:20 AM
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It's weird the red pill is this weird wishy washy term that annoys me. It seems like it encompasses everything from Elliot Rodger and Incel uprisings, to Karen Straughn talking about misandry. Way too broad a term. Same with incel too to be fair. There's quite the difference between me and the average Incel forum user.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:13 AM
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Thats great. I imagined hearing about real relationships would make me jealous but they're all so sweet and hope-inspiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:09 AM
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That's cute. Hope you two are doing great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:06 AM
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Yeah by face I only mean be put in a situation where denying it would be impossible, but not having to mentally imagine it in your head because that's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:54 AM
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Same here but something will happen where you'll be forced to face that its happening. For example I was talking with a woman late at night and she had to do the whole "sorry I gotta go Im about to 'get busy' with my gf" text. It'll come up somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:48 AM
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Thanks man. Yeah but my advice is less trying to surpress feelings and more about going into a platonic relationship with the mindset of "She is my friend, I will not hit on her or perv on her, I will not expect to end up together, she will have a boyfriend and have sex and most likely make it known in someway to me, and that is good."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:38 AM
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Because most of my previous friendships with women were when I was at my height of creepy and obsessive, women treating me normally feels kinda strange, but nice. I think Im hitting a point where I grow up and stop seeing women as distinct from men as I used to. My advice for incellish guys is to make an "off-limits" female friend, with the rule you can not ask her out, just treat her like a dude. This sub has been very helpful in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:15 PM
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Itd be like that episode of Malcolm in The Middle where the husband says "If you loved me as much as I love you, we'd never leave the bedroom."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:48 PM
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Im more of a calisthenics guy but I should probably diversify my excercise. Getting stronger though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:15 PM
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Can't wait till dating scammers can use their own ai to bring forth the end of the internet. Dead internet theory is just a theory, for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:11 PM
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Third
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:06 PM
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Thats really awesome. Hope that worked out well for you. I guess it sort of prefilters for creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:07 PM
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Thank you so much. I think for a lot of guys they misconstrue being seen as creepy as being seen as ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:31 AM
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Thats really cool and smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:29 AM
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I've noticed a lot of making relationships, platonic or romantic, with women is successfully signalling that youre not a weirdo. Now that Im not an obsessive dweeb friendships feel different. Thats awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:25 AM
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Thats cool, same here, well inversely ofcourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:23 AM
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Thats cool. Id imagine that makes it easier to filter for weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:23 AM
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Thats probably actually a great thing in a psudo evolutionary way. Probably easier to filter for weirdos. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:04 AM
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I will only be truly worth of that title when im in a relationship I haven't fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:55 AM
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That's cool. Im imagining meeting through friends is probably a lot more pleasant because its much more likely the person your meeting is not dangerous or weird, since your friend can vouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:54 AM
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Q4W: is it normal for women to meet guys through friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:47 AM
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Thanks. Seems like its going a lot better. Their public displays of affection don't make me one bit jealous just feel awkward. Which makes me confident lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:11 AM
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Been talking to this couple the past few days they both seem pretty cool, added them on social media. Part of me fears Ill revert back to 16 yr old me and get really obessive and jealous, but logically I know It'll be all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:59 PM
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Guess my name somewhat still fits lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:41 PM
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My ex gave me a bj. She was not my ex at the time. Counter-question: would I still count as a virgin then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:22 PM
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Im a male Im pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:17 PM
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I'm 21 I'd date maybe I guess 19 to I guess around 30-35. It depends on the person alot. It's more about the stages of ours lives we're at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:52 PM
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Bruh I don't know what to say lol Im just being a normie. I'd rate men happier but I doubt my perception is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:30 PM
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Wait lol that's my point. They all seem happy to me how am I supposed to know. Edit: lol I misread his post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:28 PM
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Im confused by your comment, Im assuming this is because of my metaphorical use of the term ground level. By ground level I do not mean blackpilled, but that's an understandable interpretation,I mean observing society from within as opposed to seeing them statistically as a group. Edit: soz lol misread post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:22 PM
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It's not like I'm exaclty going to wish one of the sexes be unhappy. Especially if I can't tell if they are in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:16 PM
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I talk to men, I talk to women. The men smile, the women smile. They seem to be happy they seem to make each other happy. It's too hard to tell from the ground level. I just hope both remain happy. Edit: by from the ground level I mean on the level of individuals as opposed to seeing them as groups from a birds eye view. Not as in, emotionally rock bottom. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:14 PM
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Not sure. But I think part of it could that Incel both calls a man a virgin and reinforces that he has some character flaw that makes mocking him for it acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:11 PM
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I dont think that's a good idea lol. Besides shes got a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:33 PM
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Sorry to hear that. That sucks man. She doesn't deserve you, it'll get better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:56 AM
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The more I think abt it I'd be chill with that sort of stuff I think. Just so long as it doesn't harm the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:04 PM
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Yeah youre right. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:59 PM
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I dont know about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:59 PM
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Spent some of today sat with a woman I'm friendly with, we talked a bit and when we saw each other later in the day she smiled at me seemingly instinctively. I think she likes me (platonically) which is great. But also I think she trusts me, which is nice because I always feel like women see me as a threat. I feel weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:31 PM
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If Chris Chan had a woman wanting him (Im Not talking about his mother), there's someone for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:40 AM
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Well I want to have a healthy relationship with a woman I love and sex seems like it'd be a non-trivial part of that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:06 AM
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Im not sure of what my fears even are but this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:45 PM
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Good point. I think my fear is more having a wife that hates me, Im much less concerned by the prospect of having a sexless relationship with an asexual woman that loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:22 PM
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I do get into periods of sex revulsion where I see sex as gross and violent and want to avoid it. But those are short and I think are just a mentality thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:40 PM
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Maybe Im just getting older but I'm caring much much less about bodycount and sexual history lately. My only concern is that I'll end up in a sexless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:25 PM
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Hot take. The vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:15 PM
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It's not really a bad thing. They seem to have a good thing going and I'm happy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:33 PM
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Nah. Even if I did she's got a boyfriend, so I wouldn't even if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:23 PM
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Yeah she seems cool. Complimenting any woman is kinda a big deal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:07 PM
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Thanks. I'll probably see her tommorow, I don't have any aspirations to date her, she'd be a nice friend though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:42 PM
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Thanks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:41 PM
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Thanks I didn't really choose it, i just couldn't help but notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:40 PM
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Complimented a woman today on her hairstyle, didn't feel nervous about it just kinda said it. I think it went well, maybe there is hope lol. I don't think she saw me as some sort of threatening subhuman monster, I think it went well. I should talk to her more, she's cool. She'd be a good friend I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:05 PM
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No this sub is very pessimistic. Most women I know are paired up with normal men. Women do not hate all men for being men, and men don't treat women like walking fleshlights. For the most part, it's better than this sub would make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:29 PM
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I have noticed over the course of my life my women friends have been more sexual in conversation than the men. We all sort of shy away from it, or obfuscate it with vague words like "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:27 AM
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Every woman I have been friendly with has been nothing but pleasant to me. Not to suggest every woman is good, but all the women I interact with lately are pretty normal people just like the men. I sort of miss having women friends like I used to, I was a total obsessive goober back then, I really squandered a gift. At the end of the day they're just people, like you or me. On the domestic duties issue I'm kind of fucked up. I'd feel bad if my wife would have to do any of the domestic duties, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:25 AM
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Haha every once in a while Ill set up an emulator and finish one or two games. Its that or Team Fortress 2. I've been getting back into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:38 PM
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I feel that. I've got hobbies now, Im mostly just taking some time to game because I did quite a bit of college work over christmas. You play retro games much?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:31 PM
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Xbox original emulator works on my pc without issue. I will be a virgin forever, I've got too many games to play, Im busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:13 PM
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There's this guy I watch out of morbid curiosity he's an ugly, <5ft, inhuamnly proportioned, rage filled, racist, abusive attempted child groomer. And yet he had a chance with a kind, smart, absolutely beautiful woman, I'm starting being a loner might be the biggest factor in me being single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:40 PM
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That's actually a really creepy yet subtle change. Implying that a central body is responsible for housing people, treating people as passive. Where homeless is more treats people more neutrally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:36 PM
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Using upgrade in a sentence about people makes it sound like it was written by chris chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:14 PM
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It's the women's equivalent of simp. It's better to by single with your dignity than debase yourself for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:30 AM
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I don't think I'd care. So long as she doesn't touch me too much I'm fine. Not sure if I count as a virgin though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:43 PM
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I think the biggest concern in it is that a lot of guys seem to internalize it and I think that leads to inceldom. Either way guys need to think "this person is stupid I will not let them effect me" and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:47 PM
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Most men I see, perhaps all, are pretty good at talking to women as friends. This is a crucial skill, because if you can't maintain a stable friendship with a woman, you will never be able to maintain a stable relationships. Friendship is also an invaluable tool in networking, I met my first girlfriend through her friend. Men and women need each other and struggling to get along with the opposite sex will leave you sexually dead in the water.It scales all the say up, the only way problems that e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:27 AM
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That sucks, I guess try to push yourself a little more each day. I'm trying that, just not being afraid to say things signal that I have an attraction to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:19 AM
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I'm pretty into I guess homely women. I'm not too dreadfully picky I think. I tend to find myself attracted to bigger women, not morbidly obese ofcourse more just a little plump and chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:18 AM
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Cop lady looks better than the Tweeter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:46 AM
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The states power is largely illusionary, maintaining control however would be extremely unlikely. Not that I think incels should or would attempt some uprising, or believe they would win.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:49 PM
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Thanks. I think this will make everything more chill. Embracing it in my mind has already helped a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:39 PM
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Just accepting to myself that sex is something I like and being unashamed is really helping me let go of jealousy even hours after first deciding to. I've realized most of the jealousy I felt was because I felt like I wasn't allowed to feel the same feelings. Im a lot more chill with women's sexuality when I don't feel ashamed of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:53 PM
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I appreciate your advice, but Im so mild I feel like saying a woman is pretty borders on harassment lol. I tend to focus on complimenting a woman on her decisions. Im more focused on embracing to myself that I am sexual and sex is normal. When I can be comfortable with my sexuality I can be with other peoples.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:47 PM
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Yeah, I've always felt like it's wrong morally. But even now after embracing it in my mind I'm feeling a lot better. Thinking about it I don't think much of my jealousy is based on actual possessiveness and not just being repressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:28 PM
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The more im thinking about this whole repressing my sexuality and seeing it as inherently predatory and evil, the better I feel about sex in general. Sex is natural and normal and beautiful and good, I've got to realise that it's normal and good for me to have sex, and desire sex with women, and that desiring a woman isn't disrespectful. I think this is the keystone of my inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:17 PM
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I think in moderation it'd help. Maybe I should be 10% more "creepy" because to me 10% more creepy is probably close to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:18 PM
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I see hetrosexuality particularly in myself as predatory, and expressing an attraction to women is creepy. A lot of the jealousy I've felt has been purely inspired by feeling that if I expressed my sexuality It'd be creepy. But my sexuality is kind of odd. Nothing majorly taboo just alittle weird. But that isn't a reason I don't express my sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:43 PM
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I suspect a lot of incels such as myself are uncomfortable with their own sexuality. In recent years I've done better, but overall I've always been uncomfortable giving anything but an impression of complete asexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:33 PM
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Im a slut for french toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:50 PM
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By far. I'd also rather date a woman who's fat and homely but I get click with. Number 2 beats number 1 by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:47 PM
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Try to avoid the whole "hard truths about women" thing. It's a little weird. Try to just vibe and form bonds with women irl. Not even as a relationship, go for friends and let whatever happens happen. Gotta socially walk before you can socially run.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:45 PM
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Yeah thats what Im talking about. If she's going all andy warhol on you maybe start to care then, unless you've got godmode.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:40 PM
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Yeah just catagorize all of the people who are misandristic as stupid in your head, move on and laugh. It is the mature thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:13 PM
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Generally a lot of person needs to learn to say "that persons stupid" in response to this kind of stuff and just move on. It's a sign of someone who's immature to try to argue with people that hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:12 PM
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Overall id say taking it personally and letting it effect themselves is a mis-step snd overreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:34 PM
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It's easy to forget online that buy in large men and women love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:43 PM
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That's sort of what I mean. Men need to get used to it and stop overreacting to it, and especially to stop seeing it as some extremely pressing issue. Because that tends to make it harder to oppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:41 PM
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I think men should get used to misandry, and not become super sensitive to it. Either way its better not to be whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:26 PM
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I can't speak for other guys, I'm not on their head. But personally I'd rather marry a good woman than a pretty woman, not to suggest those are mutually exclusive qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:16 PM
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Thanks I appreciate your input, I need to aim for a human touch,everything I've painted has felt like AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:21 PM
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I feel like what I create has been like ai art, as if im an ai. I don't have that human touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:16 PM
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Something about it feels so masturbatory and cheap, especially the way I do it. I feel sort of illegitimate, like a child thinking a crayon drawing makes them an artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:09 PM
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Does digital painting count as a hobby or am I gonna have to get a new hobby ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:58 PM
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A little I suppose but really it came from observing the simple fact that everyone around me was paired up, and they're all about the same level of average as me in the looks department. So it's clear my lack of sexual selection is because of personal flaws and simply not being present to be selected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:36 AM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:34 AM
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Thanks. Yeah most of it is really based on how I view the world over how the world views me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:34 AM
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Yeah. Good luck with it dude. You can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:34 AM
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Feeling much less incel lately, feel good about myself and my body, much better at talking to people I'm attracted to, less focused on dating. Confidence is up in general too. Want to meet women I'm not even remotely attracted to, but for the most part I'm just naturally becoming a normie. We're all gonna make it bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:21 PM
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Yeah you're probably right, I should avoid making a habit of it though. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:00 PM
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Thanks. Things are looking up. I should probably be more careful, posting this much about myself is probably doxx risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:58 PM
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My first project of 2023 is due in tommorow, I feel your pain. Good luck with college, hope you do well this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:45 PM
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Thanks its been surprisingly simple for me. I guess I'm lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:47 PM
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Just realised I've hit 3months without watching porn. Already feeling so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:36 PM
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That's sort of the plan. I still need to get much better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:07 AM
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Yeah I've used it for projects in the past. It's pretty cool but my dinky gpu at the time could scarcely handle it unless it was some low quality footage. Ill have to use it more now ive upgraded since.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:14 PM
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I enjoy this sub, everyone seems so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:18 PM
2

Working on my animation lately as a distraction from college. Shot's 3.5 seconds long and has only 2 key drawings so it's coming along quickly. But I think I should put much more detail in. I find projects are an absolute need, without it I tend to get restless. I think all incels should adopt a project.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:17 PM
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Nah that guy got hella pussy. Ever heard of saved by the smell?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:12 PM
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It's better to be a good man seen as evil than even an evil man seen as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:09 AM
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I see sex relations like a large container of water with a film of scum at the top. When Im on the internet looking at the world from above its easy just to see the scum but when I'm in the world, fully submerged I can see how pure most of the water is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:07 AM
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Look at it from men's perspective. I'm pretty weak physically, but I know if I attack someone I'll likely be hit back harder than I could hit, and deserve it. The sexes live by pretty different rules, and a lot of men expect women to have the same rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:05 AM
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I see gender relations as a large container of water, most of it is fine, but then there's this yucky scum collecting on the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:02 AM
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Good for them. I think a lot of men live their lives broadly for women, with what women want guiding their descisions. Which is probably good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:55 AM
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Just tried this. Went up to a woman and told her all her favourite books sucked. Got charged with textual harassment 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:43 AM
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Just wokeup from a dream I was at uni with the woman I was obsessed with all throughout college. I wasn't obsessive, but the dream had an uncanny realism. I did however meet her friends and was charming, I always am in my dreams. Maybe this is my subconscious telling me to go out and be social. And that meeting people through friends is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:11 AM
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I think its based off of my perception of relationships coming from media and not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:32 PM
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I've realised ending up in a sexless marriage is something that concerns me but I think part of it comes from a passive belief women dislike sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:03 PM
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Just sorta gonna hang out at mine. We've been texting for a while and always wanted to meet up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:17 PM
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Just found out my friend is dating someone. I'm a little jealous but no where near where I was even two years ago. Analysing my feelings more I'm not even jealous he's dating her. I'm just lonely and wish I was dating, I have a date this weekend. I'm nervous but actually kind of looking forward to it, hopefully things will continue to go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:01 PM
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I think a lot of men assume husband material means unattractive but worth settling for. I think this is a result of the stereotype that marriages are a ball and chain and people just settle for a stable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:46 AM
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Counterpoint, equalising it seems pretty normal. The person I'm kinda dating is really attracted to Shawn Mendes but I've realised I don't really care considering there are so many other people I'm attracted to. We're the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:08 AM
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Thank you 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:21 AM
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I think it can work. Im mostly normal around real life women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:23 AM
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I can somewhat relate. I just need to repair my view of sex, I wanna be more chill with sluttiness and actually learn to love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:22 AM
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Second
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:09 AM
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I've decided this is like scientology where the ultimate secret is to just say "I have been manifesting my own reactive mind and I won't do that anymore" I'm just going to be a normie from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:07 AM
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Having sex/a relationship with a misandrist woman. Someone who fully hates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:01 AM
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Theres something really wholesome and cute about this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:59 AM
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That's helpful. A sub where you'll get called on your shit is good for incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:49 PM
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The environment is beneficial. It's much better than an echochamber. A lot of the advice I've got seems pretty sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:45 PM
2

Ascend is incel vernacular for not being an incel anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:44 PM
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I think this sub both understands incels more than any other sub and has done more to help incels ascend more than any other sub. It's a good sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:53 PM
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In the future the internet will be santized of any ugly content until everything is the same squeaky clean forum fixated on manipulating the emotions of its users.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:34 PM
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No. 90% of it is exposure. Praying to chad wouldn't do anything. The more I talk to women the better I get with it, I've just got to stick with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:25 PM
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Im an incel and I wanna be the king because I want to lead incels to fix ourselves i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:57 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:40 PM
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Made pretty good conversation with a woman and then made eye contact with a woman and smiled without awkwardly looking away. I think I'm getting better at this all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:42 PM
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I never got how someone could do that, I feel creepy just saying hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:15 PM
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Yeah youre probably right. Thanks. I don't think I have a very objective view of this all. I'm sort of hung up on seeing myself as a fearsome creature to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:36 PM
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It seems selfish to do something I know may scare someone simply because I want to talk to them. Though I mostly agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:39 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. Part of me thinks if I avoided all contact unless spoken to first It'd be safer, but on the other hand that'd probably lead to me being a lot more lonely since I'd probably talk to much fewer people. But then again that's a quite selfish concern, putting a woman's right to feel safe over my desire to interact with them. I feel very conflicted, my resolution so far is that I'll probably avoid talking to women I find attractive, in order to keep it platonic, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:28 AM
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Thanks for your input. Yeah that's a good thing to keep in mind. My main concern is scaring a woman, so I'm not too concerned about awkwardness on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:04 AM
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I struggle to get over the belief that a man talking to a woman he doesn't know in public is creepy. I'm not even sure if it's true or not I've been told conflicting things, women tell me that it's okay and it's worked out for me loosely before. But then other people tell me it's creepy and that men shouldn't do it. I'm focusing on this a lot lately I think the belief that I am a threat to all women around me, has led to me missing out on a lot of positive interactions. Q4W: Is a man speaking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:51 AM
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I do think much of inceldom is built on internal misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:10 AM
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It perplexes me when people act as though men can't be afraid of women. Especially after the Johnny Depp case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:48 AM
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I appreciate your help. But now I feel like what I should do is destroy or otherwise be rid of anything that brings me happiness so I may pay penance. But I'm too selfish to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:02 PM
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You're probably right, deep down I don't think I'm quite well adjusted. I feel like deep down I'm an irredeemable psychopath like Patrick Bateman who's mask of sanity tricks even himself. Inversely I was watching a documentary about a rape case and almost cried, but even then I second guess if that's some sort of deep seated instinctual mimicry. I feel like the uncanny valley made human. A fake person who's unthinking nature is to hide amongst humanity. I wonder if that's some sort of mental iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:00 PM
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She hasn't read it yet. I don't think she will read it for a while. I think this will be attempted to be buried and ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:52 PM
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Thanks this is really helpful. I wrote to my mother in kind of a stupid still emotional state. Telling her my side of the situation, I didn't tell her this because I think she will only get more angry at me if I tell her. I've got to be touchy with some things around her, and I think if I brought it up she would juat get angry. I ended the letter saying that me and her need to work together and I think theres communication issues. I think maybe some of this is coming off of preexisting beliefs t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:51 PM
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I woke up to her yelling at me to ring her on her phone, because she had lost hers. In a state of confusion I didn't know what was going on and couldn't ring her because my phone hasn't got the credit to make a call, which she knows. She saw this as me refusing to help her. Somewhere along the line it just sorta became abour how I never help out, which is mostly a result of her actively refusing and openly sometimes trying to prevent me from helping her. From there is spirals as I start to feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:46 PM
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Just got in a stupid argument with my mother and now I feel like my family would be better off if I wasnt around. I'm not hinting at suicide. Just stating that if I disappeared, while sad, i think my family would do better. No clue what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:15 PM
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Q4All: How do you think the world would be different if the average man had abs/ was generally muscular?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:01 AM
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I never felt that way but it's beyond my control and beneath the scope of what bothers me. I'll just work on it until it's not even something I notice anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:32 AM
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This is very true. My prime incel days were all about playing games and lusting over women, it just led to jealousy and suffering. Now I live a lot more for myself, and I find it helps plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:29 AM
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Is it any wonder why. Look at the state of the modern man. I think this would change if men in general were better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:24 AM
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I wouldnt say I'm anymore honest than any other incel. I don't think the average person knows what they really want, especially if not having it doesn't hurt them. I think all people care about being desirable to some degree but for me it's special. I've never really felt like a person, it's getting better but still I've always felt as though I'm an empty shell piloted by instinct. The people around me are people with personalities and character, I don't think I do. I think that's why it matters…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:56 AM
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Yeah for sure I'm just in a weird kind of mood where I think I'd prefer women to be attracted to me on the street or hit on me in public, more than actually having sex. Does this make me some weird strain of Bateman-pilled? Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:32 AM
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The comments to Dana White and his wife slapping each other has really shown me how many people hold a double standard. Seeing people go from "Never hit a woman" to "Well what did he do to deserve being slapped". It doesn't even piss me of, just disgusts me how some people can pivot from "she has no responsibility in getting hit back" to "he has responsibility in getting hit first" and not see that as a strange mindset. Edit: But I do find it funny the amount of men mad at women defending him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:29 AM
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I've realised something I want a lot is to be attractive, I'd like to be a desirable man more than I think I'd want sex. Any one else felt this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:08 AM
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I know women imperfect, I know they have flaws. But ill be talking to a woman and her beautiful personality and beautiful soul will make me think the minimum she deserves is the pinnacle of male perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:32 PM
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Acknowledging the beauty of most women makes me wish I was perfect, anyone got any tips for how to become perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:54 PM
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Yeah literally comparing me and my ex. I was a chubby NEET with no direction who was flakey and sucked and she had a job and was doing better than me in all areas of life. I think it's a byproduct of the incel tendency to want to tame love, by boiling it down to a science, or treat it like an rpg stat menu. "If I level up muscle enough level 3 women will love me"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:39 PM
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I think this sub over exaggerates how transactional relationships are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:09 PM
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For yourself and your own well being. Then look for love. Hot guys tend to get hot gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:38 AM
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That's such a cope. It's easy to think the answer is to find some desperate girl in some far off country, but that's weak. Men need to build themselves up, especially in a day and age where the vast majority of men are sub-par, many extremely so. Do not pray for easy lives, pray to be stronger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:32 AM
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I'd still call the bar for men pretty low, look at average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:28 AM
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Getting fat is something that concerns me about growing older. My goal is to get more into calisthenics and watching my eating forever. With pushups I've been able to grow more muscle than I've ever had before and I'm only getting started so it leaves me with hope. Im still a little fatter than I should be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:25 AM
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For sure. Being fat doesn't stop a woman from being kind, diligent, hard working, a good mother, understanding, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:02 PM
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Yeah. Mostly just photoshop, it's regrettable Blender doesn't work well for painting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:10 PM
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While I believe in innocent until proven guilty that guy gives me the creeps, total Elliot Rodger vibes, so I wouldn't be shocked. Some of the allegations I've heard are beyond fucked, if he did those allegations I think he probably deserves the death penalty or atleast life in supermax.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:46 PM
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Painting more lately, picked up some new techniques that makes it alll alot easier. All digital however. It's nice, distracts me from relationships and fomo bullshit alot and it makes me live for myself instead of seeing everything from a sexual market value perspective. Not yet done anything I'm proud of but it's definitely getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:44 PM
1

This is asking if I'd date a 10 or a 9. Obviously the first is a better choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:41 PM
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Yeah there's so many pills now. Gonna say screw it and take the normie pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:28 AM
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What would you say pink pill is? Im a little confused
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:41 AM
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I think she's kinda cute but hey maybe that's just an autism thing. Her caring so much about the climate is quite admirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:51 AM
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Ya know I wasn't even thinking about online. Just in general men have declined, you could take it out of dating and just think about how we've got as a society, fat and lazy, full of sugar and porn. On the flipside think of how great the world would be if every man had abs, every man ate clean and dressed well. Think of who we could be as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:08 AM
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That ain't my pill. I think men have lost their way, not that this has always been their way. If all men quit porn, lost weight and worked out I think there would be a change in relations between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:40 AM
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There's similarity but I don't think it's quite the same problem in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:32 AM
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I didnt intend to suggest you were that's just a red flag to a lot of bigger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:28 AM
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My best advice would be to meet some women on the larger side, but don't come off as a feeder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:18 AM
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I think one of the dystopian realities of the world that men are only semi cognizant of is that the majority of men, perhaps the vast majority, are woefully subpar. Everyone talks about those graphs where women rate most men low, but do we really ever consider that it could just be that we are all dreadfully unattractive. Look at the state of men, we as a species are mostly fat, approaching obesity. Pornography is rife, what woman deserves a husband who will be masturbating to other women? We lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:15 AM
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Yes she was hot as fuck dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:06 AM
5

My interactions with fat women does not tell the same story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:59 AM
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I think there's an ethical difference with mocking a man compared to mocking a woman for their body. A man should be expected to just take it on the chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:46 PM
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Very based and unity pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:44 PM
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Counterpoint, date fat women who are high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:44 PM
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My most played game on Steam is professional artistic software does that still count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:35 PM
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Nah I think the core is that I on some level want that stereotypical marriage with a wife who sort of hates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:19 PM
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Yeah but it seems like a waste of resources and I don't have the money to go private for it. I think I can mostly solve my problems alone. I appreciate the thought though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:17 PM
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Yeah fair point I'm not exactly desiring to get Duluth Model'ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:40 PM
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Yeah I get that. The more objective smart part of me knows I'd probably not want to date a radfem or misandrist for safety reasons. But on an unconcious level I do see it as kind of attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:36 PM
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I think it comes from growing up watching videos of radical feminists say lots of quite out there things, like about genociding 80% of men, or castration boys or sex segregation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:09 PM
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I find misandry in women kind or charming. Both the innoffensive "ew yucky men haha" type but also the real unironic hatred of men type. There's something attractive about it. Anyone else feel this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:55 PM
1

I watched American Psycho and everything since has been my slowburning rampage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:52 PM
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I... uh... well don't get your expectation of anger. This is just sweet. I hope she's successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:43 PM
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That assumes I want to hurt women. When what I'm really searching for is the ability to properly articulate a reverence for women, and to one day find mutual love with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:24 PM
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Nah I'm just undeveloped as a man, I don't think I'm very complete as a person. I need a haircut too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:05 PM
1

Nah 5'10 about 140ish lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:34 PM
1

3/10 maybe 2 depending.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:55 PM
1

I think men have bigger problems than what a scared and upset woman says out of anger. My concern about my cpu fan dying is a more pressing issue to me. I'd rather the world be unfair in a way that is understanding to the opposite sex than one that is fair but cruel to both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:42 AM
5

I struggle to believe random 4chan dude is a representative sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:33 AM
1

Wow this is really a Coke Zero™ moment. We should all download the My Coke Zero™ Moments app to share our Coke Zero™ Moments with our friends, family and clergy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:28 AM
4

Well considering she introduced it to him and he loves it, I think they're on the same page. I used to think women were so different. They're not, they're just as gross and degenerate as us. Thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:08 AM
6

And yet I look around and every man and women I see relate to each other. I look to the left and see boyfriend and girl friend talking about playing the same mmo together, a game I also play. I look to the right and see men and women talking about drawing and painting. I look up and see a world where men and women get along. I look down and see the only person keeping me from embracing that world. Most women are pretty relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:37 AM
4

Who says I share no interests with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:28 AM
2

I find an inate enjoyment from talking to women. It's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:26 AM
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